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Making Mistakes, No Meetings & Finding Stillness

ByGraham Mann

I hope you had a relaxing weekend after a crazy week.

One of the quotes I've been thinking about:

“To bear trials with a calm mind robs misfortune of its strength and burden.”—Seneca

In this week’s newsletter:

Have a wonderful week!

Graham

Blog Post: How to Make Mistakes

Making mistakes gracefully has long been a personal weakness.

I think that's true for most people; we just aren't wired for it.

In this post I explore why that's true, and the strategies I've found have helped me get better.

"Good school learners are often bad mistake-based learners because they are bothered by their mistakes. I particularly see this problem in recent graduates from the best colleges, who frequently shy away from exploring their own weaknesses."—Ray Dalio, Principles

Blog Post: Why I Switched From Squarespace to Webflow

For those of you interested in building a personal website, I explain why my recommendation is now Webflow.

tl;dr: speed.

Book Notes: Rework by Jason Fried & David Heinemeier Hansson

I re-read this again after enjoying It Doesn't Have to Be Crazy at Work, and loved it.

A quick read, packed with information about how to work and how to build products and startups. I'm convinced there's something for everyone in the book.

Article: No Meetings, No Deadlines, No Full-Time Employees - Sahil Lavingia

Sahil is the founder of Gumroad, a platform that makes it easy for creators to sell online.

As we enter the new year, this piece helps spur thinking about what our work could be like, and how we might improve our own work habits.

Article: 28 Ways to Find the Stillness You Need to Thrive - Ryan Holiday

It was a crazy week.

Here are some ideas for finding a little bit of calm.

Article: What's In My Bag, 2020 - Matt Mullenweg

Matt Mullenweg, by all accounts, is a wonderful, thoughtful, interesting person, and this is his annual post about the items he's enjoyed the most from the previous year.

This year had an extra #vanlife focus, since he spent a lot of his year traveling around in a van, working remotely.

I can vouch for some of the items on the list:

  • AllTrails app
  • Theragun
  • everything Matador
  • Phillips Hue lights

Article: Shearing Sheep, and Hewing to Tradition, on an Island in Maine - NYT

A break from the usual programming, but a glimpse into what life can be like for those of us outside the usual tech/hub city bubbles.

What I particularly like about this example is the mix of lifestyles. Taking a few weeks off throughout the year to pursue something totally different from one's usual profession appeals a lot to me.

(One I've been thinking about: taking time off for construction of cottages/cabins)

10 Tweets

Some of my favourite tweets and tweetstorms from the week:

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Graham Mann

Graham Mann

Builder, product person, and lifelong learner. Writing from Lunenburg, Nova Scotia about software, systems, and the slow work of figuring out how to live well.

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