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            <title><![CDATA[Headway Connection Kit for Couples Review: Is It Worth It?]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 13:25:12 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A practical review of the Headway Connection Kit for Couples, including what is inside, who it suits, how it compares with other conversation games, and whether the full kit is worth buying.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most couples do not have a talking problem in the literal sense.</p><p>They talk all the time. Groceries. Work schedules. Who is picking up what. What happened today. What needs to happen tomorrow.</p><p>The harder thing is making room for the conversations that do not show up on a calendar by themselves. How are we doing? What do we keep avoiding? What do we want more of? What have we stopped noticing about each other?</p><p>That is the problem products like the <a href="https://shop.makeheadway.com/products/connection-kit-for-couples">Headway Connection kit for couples</a> are trying to solve. It is not a replacement for therapy, and it is not going to fix a relationship that neither person wants to work on. But as a structured way to get two people off their phones and into a better conversation, it is more useful than I expected.</p><h2>What is the Headway Connection Kit?</h2><p>The Connection Kit is a boxed set from Headway, the company best known for its book summary app. This product sits in a different category: relationship tools, card decks, and screen-free rituals for couples.</p><p>The full kit lists at $159.99, though Headway often discounts it. Inside the box, you get a few separate pieces:</p><ul><li><strong>Pillow Talks</strong>, a 145-card deck built around intimacy and deeper questions</li><li><strong>The Story Deck</strong>, a lighter storytelling game</li><li><strong>Love Notes</strong>, affirmation cards for everyday warmth</li><li><strong>A rose-scented candle</strong>, mostly as a cue to slow the room down</li><li><strong>A couples calendar</strong> for dates, milestones, and planning</li><li><strong>Markers</strong> for notes and reminders</li></ul><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/db588a14a6dc75e653b1ddb88d2734a426ab1dbc-1200x764.webp?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Headway Connection Kit decks on a table" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>The kit includes Pillow Talks, The Story Deck, and Love Notes.</figcaption></figure><p>The basic idea is simple. Instead of waiting for a good conversation to happen naturally, you create a small ritual around it.</p><p>That is probably the right frame for this product. The value is less in any single card and more in making the conversation easier to start.</p><h2>First impressions</h2><p>The packaging is one of the kit&#x27;s strengths. It looks like something you could give as an anniversary gift or bring out for a date night without it feeling like homework.</p><p>That matters more than it sounds. A lot of self-improvement products fail because they feel too earnest. They ask too much from the user before any benefit shows up. This one is easier: open the box, pick a deck, answer a few cards.</p><p>The design is also better than the category average. The cards are bright without looking childish, and the typography is clean enough that the whole thing feels more like a designed object than a novelty game.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/794c52a52868daa28ba9b50d0b4e96b3943e64f4-1200x860.webp?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="The full Headway Connection Collection box and contents" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>The full boxed set includes cards, a candle, and planning materials.</figcaption></figure><p>The candle and markers are not the main reason to buy it. They make the set feel complete, but the decks are doing the work. If you only care about the prompts, the standalone <a href="https://shop.makeheadway.com/products/pillow-talks">Pillow Talks Card Game from Headway</a> is the more practical buy.</p><h2>How it works in practice</h2><p>A typical use case is 20 to 40 minutes. Pick a deck based on the mood and go through a few cards together.</p><p>The Story Deck is the easiest starting point. It is lighter, closer to a dinner-table game, and probably the best fit if one person is skeptical of guided conversation.</p><p>Love Notes is more direct. It is built around affirmation and appreciation, which can feel awkward if that is not already part of the relationship. But awkward is not always a bad sign. Sometimes it just means the habit is underused.</p><p>Pillow Talks is the strongest part of the kit. It is the deck that most clearly justifies the product. The prompts are organized into levels of closeness, and the deck includes a Boundary Card so either person can pause or skip without turning that into a separate negotiation.</p><p>That small design choice does a lot. Good relationship tools should make honesty easier without making either person feel trapped by the format.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/09e6969106571de64a21e0bb50f71dadf09210fc-670x489.webp?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Headway Pillow Talks and Boundary Cards" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>Pillow Talks includes prompts and a Boundary Card for skipping or pausing.</figcaption></figure><h2>Where it is most useful</h2><p>I can see this working best for couples who already like each other and want a better rhythm for talking.</p><p>That sounds obvious, but it is important. A card deck is not a crisis intervention. It is a prompt system.</p><p>The best uses are probably:</p><ul><li>date nights at home, when the default would otherwise be another movie</li><li>busy couples who mostly talk about logistics</li><li>long-distance couples who want video calls to feel less repetitive</li><li>newer couples who want to get past small talk without forcing it</li><li>married couples who have fallen into a practical but slightly flat routine</li></ul><p>There is a useful connection here to <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/nonviolent-communication-marshall-rosenberg">Nonviolent Communication</a>, which is one of the better frameworks for talking without turning every hard conversation into a defense of your own position. The Headway kit is much lighter than that, but the same principle shows up: structure can make a conversation safer.</p><p>It also works like a habit tool. You are not trying to have one perfect three-hour talk. You are trying to make small, better conversations happen more often. That is closer to the logic of <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">Atomic Habits</a> than to the logic of a dramatic relationship breakthrough.</p><h2>How it compares with other conversation games</h2><p>The obvious comparisons are We&#x27;re Not Really Strangers and The And.</p><p>We&#x27;re Not Really Strangers is sharper. It has more edge, and the questions can get intense quickly. That can be good, but it also means it is not always the deck you want on a normal Wednesday night.</p><p>The And has a more cinematic feel because it grew around recorded conversations. Some people will love that. Others may find it a little performative.</p><p>Headway&#x27;s kit is less edgy than both. Its advantage is range. One deck is playful, one is warm, and one is deeper. That makes it less memorable as a single concept, but probably more usable as a recurring ritual.</p><p>If you only want a conversation deck, buy Pillow Talks on its own. If you want a polished gift or a full date-night box, the full Connection Kit makes more sense.</p><h2>Why conversation prompts can work</h2><p>The research behind this category is better than the packaging sometimes suggests.</p><p>The Gottman Institute has written for years about the importance of small bids for connection. In one well-known finding, couples who later stayed married turned toward each other&#x27;s <a href="https://www.gottman.com/blog/want-to-improve-your-relationship-start-paying-more-attention-to-bids/">bids for connection</a> far more often than couples who later divorced.</p><p>There is also Arthur Aron&#x27;s 1997 study on <a href="https://stafforini.com/works/aron-1997-experimental-generation-interpersonal/">structured self-disclosure questions</a>, the work that later became famous as the &quot;36 questions&quot; experiment. The useful point is not that a list of questions can manufacture love. It is that mutual attention and gradually deeper disclosure can create closeness faster than ordinary small talk.</p><p>A boxed card deck is not a lab study. But it is using the same basic mechanism: slow down, ask something better, listen a little longer than usual.</p><h2>Pros and cons</h2><p>The strengths:</p><ul><li>easy to start, even if you do not normally do guided activities</li><li>three decks cover different moods instead of forcing one tone</li><li>the Boundary Card is a thoughtful safety valve</li><li>the full set works well as a gift</li><li>the design is strong enough that people may actually leave it out and use it</li></ul><p>The weaknesses:</p><ul><li>the full kit is expensive if you only want the prompt cards</li><li>naturally talkative couples may find the structure unnecessary</li><li>the candle and markers are nice, but not essential</li><li>it requires distraction-free time to be useful</li><li>it should not be treated as a substitute for therapy or conflict repair</li></ul><h2>Who should buy it?</h2><p>The Headway Connection Kit makes the most sense for couples who want better conversations but do not want to turn the relationship into a project.</p><p>That is the line this product has to walk. Too little structure and nothing changes. Too much structure and the whole thing feels forced.</p><p>Headway mostly gets the balance right. The product is guided, but not clinical. It is warm, but not unbearably sentimental. It gives you enough structure to begin, then gets out of the way.</p><p>I would buy the full kit if I wanted a polished gift or a ready-made date-night ritual. I would buy Pillow Talks separately if I only cared about the deeper conversation prompts.</p><p>Either way, the point is not the box.</p><p>The point is making it easier to have the conversation before it becomes overdue.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[We Spend Too Much Time Managing Work Instead of Doing It]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 12:26:52 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Most knowledge workers feel busy all day but struggle to name what they made. Here’s why work became so much management, and how to protect focus.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Most knowledge workers spend their days feeling busy without actually moving anything forward. I think this is what’s really going on, and what you can do about it.</em></p><p>Most of us are working harder than ever and somehow have less to show for it.</p><p>That sounds dramatic, but I don’t think it is. It is just the normal texture of a lot of modern work now. You finish the day tired. You answered the messages, joined the meetings, updated the tasks, moved the cards, checked the dashboards, and kept the machine alive.</p><p>Then someone asks what you actually made today, and the answer gets harder to explain.</p><p>At first, it’s tempting to blame laziness. But I don’t think that’s right. Most people I know are not lazy. They’re overloaded, responsive, and constantly switching contexts. Then you might blame apathy, but that doesn’t quite fit either. Most people do care about doing good work.</p><p>The deeper problem is that we’ve accidentally built our workdays around <strong>managing work</strong> instead of doing it.</p><p>You start Monday with a decent amount of energy. By noon, you’ve reorganized your tasks twice, sat through two status meetings that mostly repeated other conversations, and replied to dozens of Slack or Teams messages. You were busy in the technical sense. You were moving, reacting, coordinating.</p><p>But the work itself — the thing that needed judgment, patience, and sustained attention — barely got touched.</p><p>I think this is the default mode for a lot of knowledge work now. We’ve been inside it long enough that it no longer feels strange.</p><h2>Shallow work keeps winning</h2><p>Cal Newport wrote about this in <em>Deep Work</em> back in 2016, and the idea has only become more relevant. His basic distinction is simple: shallow work is email, meetings, coordination, admin, status updates, and all the small pieces of professional maintenance. Deep work is the cognitively demanding work that creates real value.</p><p>The problem is that shallow work is easier to schedule, easier to see, and easier to measure.</p><p>Deep work is not like that. It often looks quiet from the outside. You can spend three hours thinking through a hard problem and have very little visible proof until the solution finally clicks. That makes it awkward in a work culture that wants constant evidence of activity.</p><p>So shallow work expands. It fills the open space. It gives everyone a sense that things are moving.</p><p>And the pile has only gotten bigger. <a href="https://www.mckinsey.com/industries/technology-media-and-telecommunications/our-insights/the-social-economy">McKinsey</a> has estimated that the average interaction worker spends around 28% of the workweek managing email. That’s roughly 11 hours a week before you add Slack, Teams, async standups, project management tools, and the quiet tax of finding information across all of them.</p><h2>The time tracking problem nobody talks about</h2><p>The hard part is that most of us have a surprisingly inaccurate picture of where our time goes.</p><p>This is not a character flaw. It is just how memory works. <a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10069732/">Research on retrospective time estimation</a> suggests that we are not especially good at reconstructing duration after the fact. We remember the obvious events and compress the rest.</p><p>The 20 minutes spent searching for a file disappears. So does the 15-minute “quick look” at an industry article. So does the fog after a meeting, when you are technically back at your desk but not really back inside the work yet.</p><p>None of this shows up cleanly when you try to account for the day from memory.</p><p>That’s the useful argument for automatic time tracking. Not surveillance. Not turning yourself into a spreadsheet. Just replacing a vague story about the day with something closer to evidence.</p><p>Some tools, like <a href="https://www.memtime.com/">Memtime</a>, reconstruct activity data in the background so you can compare what you thought happened with what actually happened. The point is not to monitor every minute. The point is to notice the gap between intention and reality.</p><h2>Why busyness feels so convincing</h2><p>I don’t think this is purely a time tracking problem, or a willpower problem. The modern work environment is set up to push us toward busywork.</p><ul><li><strong>Coordination looks like work.</strong> When you send a message, update a status, or comment on a doc, there is visible proof of activity. Deep work often lacks that proof until much later. So we gravitate toward the visible stuff, even when it is not the valuable stuff.</li><li><strong>Notifications are designed to feel urgent.</strong> A Slack or Teams ping feels like a tiny emergency. Most of the time it isn’t, but responding quickly is socially rewarded. It makes you feel useful. Full focus does not give the same immediate feedback.</li><li><strong>Most tools measure activity, not output.</strong> Email, chat, and project management tools are very good at counting movement: messages sent, comments added, tickets updated. They are worse at measuring whether meaningful work actually moved forward.</li></ul><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/65e04ad71df83ab792fcadd25934a74b5d7282a5-800x800.webp?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Whiteboard planning session with notes and a marker" loading="lazy"/></figure><h2>The real cost is cognitive</h2><p>It is easy to describe this as a time problem. Too many meetings. Too many messages. Too much coordination.</p><p>That’s true, but it misses the deeper cost.</p><p>Focused work has a warm-up period. Your brain has to reload the problem, the constraints, the relevant details, and the half-formed ideas you were holding in mind. That state is fragile. It does not survive constant interruption very well.</p><p><a href="https://ics.uci.edu/~gmark/chi08-mark.pdf">Gloria Mark’s research at UC Irvine</a> has shown that interrupted work comes with real costs: more stress, more frustration, more time pressure, and more effort. One widely cited finding from her research is that it can take around 23 minutes to return to a task after an interruption.</p><p>That number sounds extreme until you watch yourself work for a day. A message takes 30 seconds to answer, but the recovery is not 30 seconds. The damage is in the return. Stack enough interruptions together and the day becomes one long state of leaving and coming back.</p><p>This reminds me of <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/antifragile-nassim-nicholas-taleb">Nassim Taleb’s idea of fragility</a>: some things are harmed by disorder, shocks, and volatility. Deep work is fragile in exactly this way. It doesn’t need much to break. A few badly placed meetings, a few notifications, a few context switches, and the conditions that made the work possible are gone.</p><h2>What seems to help</h2><p>There is no perfect solution to this, especially if you work inside a company with its own meeting culture and expectations around responsiveness.</p><p>But a few things do seem to help.</p><p>The first is getting more accurate about where your time actually goes. You cannot improve a workday you are misremembering. Whether you use a notebook, calendar audit, or automatic time tracking, the useful move is the same: compare your story of the day with the day itself.</p><p>After that, the biggest gains usually come from subtraction rather than optimization.</p><ul><li>Fewer communication channels.</li><li>Email checked at specific times instead of continuously.</li><li>Longer blocks for work that actually requires thinking.</li><li>Fewer meetings that exist only because nobody wants to decide asynchronously.</li><li>Fewer decisions about what to do next.</li></ul><p>The goal is not to build a perfect productivity system. That can become another form of managing work. The goal is to spend less mental energy arranging the work and more of it doing the work.</p><p>If you want a better framework for this, I think <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/5-books-that-changed-how-i-think-about-work">the books that change how you think about work</a> are more useful than another app stack. Tools can help, but only after the underlying problem is clear.</p><h2>Make peace with the truth</h2><p>Most knowledge workers are not failing because they lack discipline. They are working inside systems that reward the appearance of progress more reliably than progress itself.</p><p>Companies measure the wrong things. Tools reward the wrong behaviors. The default workday gets chopped into pieces too small for the work that matters.</p><p>You may not be able to fix all of that. You probably can’t change the meeting culture by yourself, or remove the expectation that everyone should be available all the time.</p><p>But you can get honest about where your time goes. You can protect a few hours before the day gets eaten. You can remove some of the channels, rituals, and habits that make work feel productive while keeping the real work just out of reach.</p><p>That is a small step, but it is not a cosmetic one.</p><p>Because once you can see the difference between managing work and doing it, it becomes much harder to pretend they are the same thing.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Nova Scotia needs a yes-if culture]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 13:15:01 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A constructive approach to Nova Scotia housing, resource, and energy projects: not no by default, not approve by default, but yes with clear conditions.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nova Scotia has no shortage of proposed projects. Housing developments. Wind farms. Mines. Green hydrogen and ammonia plants. Community solar. Maybe uranium, if the geology and economics ever support it.</p><p>The harder part is that Nova Scotia also has a strong protective instinct. People here care about the coastline, the forests, the fisheries, and the look of old towns.</p><p>But that same instinct leads to a lot of people saying &quot;no&quot; to every project.</p><p>The better answer is <strong>&quot;yes, if...&quot;</strong></p><p>Yes, if the housing is real and the infrastructure can support it. Yes, if the project lowers costs here. Yes, if the cleanup money is real. Yes, if fishers help shape the offshore plan. Yes, if nearby communities share revenue. Yes, if the electricity serves Nova Scotia before it becomes someone else&#x27;s export input. Yes, if we made these couple tweaks to the plan.</p><p>That is not selling out the place. It is how you protect it while still building.</p><h2>No by default does not work</h2><p>There are real reasons people say no.</p><p>They may not trust the regulator. They may have watched a previous project leave a mess. They may be worried about water, roads, property values, fisheries, noise, forests, heritage, or whether consultation is a box already checked.</p><p>Those concerns should not be brushed aside.</p><p>But no by default has its own cost.</p><p>Nova Scotia still has to build homes, replace coal, lower exposure to imported fuel, upgrade the grid, harden infrastructure, and create more durable industries. <a href="https://www.nspower.ca/docs/default-source/monthly-reports/10-year-system-outlook-report.pdf?sfvrsn=d39bca29_66">NS Power&#x27;s 2025 10-Year System Outlook</a> shows how much work is left on energy: in 2024, coal and petcoke were still 31% of the energy mix, natural gas was 21%, and imports were 5%.</p><p>Housing belongs in this argument too. Lunenburg is a useful example. Council <a href="https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/nova-scotia/lunenburg-town-council-halts-development-municipal-lands-9.7018515">halted the Blockhouse Hill process</a> after a plan that could have produced about 250 homes ran into local opposition and hard infrastructure limits. The town still needs housing. Its own assessment said it needed 120 new units by 2027 and 170 by 2032. The honest answer is not simply build anywhere, and it is not simply preserve everything. It is: where can the homes go, what infrastructure has to be fixed first, and what design would make the tradeoff worth it?</p><p>None of that changes without physical projects.</p><p>There are real examples. Austin built a lot of housing, and rents fell. Texas built wind and transmission at a scale other places treated as unrealistic, and wind became a major industry there: the <a href="https://comptroller.texas.gov/economy/economic-data/energy/2023/wind.php">Texas comptroller says</a> wind supported more than 26,000 Texas jobs in 2022, contributed $1.7 billion to state GDP in 2021, and can deliver roughly $16.8 million to $20.3 million in lifetime county tax revenue from a 100 MW project. Those places still have problems. Development did not solve everything. But saying yes to real projects has led to progress.</p><p>If every apartment building, townhouse project, wind farm, mine, export-fuel plant, and solar garden becomes impossible, then we have not protected the environment, or the economy. We have protected the status quo.</p><p>And the status quo still burns coal and gas, while housing gets less affordable and the economy suffers.</p><h2>Approve by default does not work either</h2><p>The opposite mistake is treating every project as progress because it has a jobs number attached.</p><p>Jobs can be temporary, royalties can disappoint, and cleanup can be underfunded. Local communities can carry the burden while the larger economic gains leave the area. A project can be good for GDP and still bad for the people closest to it.</p><p>This is where government often loses trust. It announces the upside in broad language, then asks specific communities to believe the downside will be managed.</p><p>People notice the mismatch.</p><p>That is why the first two posts in this series were really about the same question from different angles: <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/economy-environment-development-tradeoffs">what kind of development leaves a place better able to support itself</a>, and <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/nova-scotia-resource-development-energy-projects">what proof each project owes before the public is asked to trust it</a>.</p><h2>The yes-if test</h2><p>A yes-if culture starts from a different place.</p><p>It assumes Nova Scotia should build more, then asks what would make a project worth approving.</p><p>For housing, yes if the site makes sense, the infrastructure plan is honest, the design fits the place better than a blank subdivision, and the project adds enough homes to matter. Blockhouse Hill is the local example. Austin is the outside example. Austin is not a Nova Scotia template, but the basic lesson is hard to ignore: after the city added about 120,000 homes from 2015 to 2024, <a href="https://www.pew.org/en/research-and-analysis/articles/2026/03/18/austins-surge-of-new-housing-construction-drove-down-rents">Pew found that rents fell sharply</a>, including in older, lower-cost apartments. Affordable housing subsidies help, but supply still matters. Building more housing is not a trickle-down slogan. It is one of the main ways housing stops getting bid up by scarcity.</p><p>For onshore wind, yes if it clearly lowers or stabilizes power costs, avoids the worst siting conflicts, monitors wildlife, and gives nearby communities a real share of the upside. The province already describes <a href="https://novascotia.ca/onshore-wind/">onshore wind as Nova Scotia&#x27;s lowest-cost electricity source</a>. <a href="https://cib-bic.ca/en/projects/clean-energy/benjamins-mill-wind/">Benjamins Mill</a> shows what a better version can look like: a 33.6 MW Hants County project, majority owned by Nova Scotia&#x27;s 13 Mi&#x27;kmaw First Nations and Natural Forces, expected to create about 128 construction jobs and supply about 60% of Port Hawkesbury Paper Mill&#x27;s average annual power needs. The local question is how to make the projects better neighbours and better economic assets.</p><p>For offshore wind, yes if fishers are involved before sites are chosen, high-value fishing grounds are avoided where possible, compensation exists before construction, and monitoring data is public. The <a href="https://natural-resources.canada.ca/energy-sources/renewable-energy/regional-assessments-offshore-wind-development-nova-scotia-newfoundland-labrador">federal and provincial regional assessment process</a> and <a href="https://novascotia.ca/offshore-wind/docs/response-regional-assessment-offshore-wind-development.pdf">Nova Scotia&#x27;s response</a> are useful starting points, but the test will be whether that planning changes actual project design. Offshore wind should not be treated as a generic megaproject category. It should be judged against the actual maps, fishing conflicts, port work, grid use, and buyers attached to each proposal.</p><p>For mining, yes if cleanup money is posted up front, water monitoring is independent, tailings risk is taken seriously, and the project still makes sense after the most optimistic job claims are discounted. <a href="https://www.canadianminingjournal.com/news/atlantic-gets-ok-to-process-stockpiled-gold-ore-at-touquoy-mine/">Touquoy</a> is why both sides of the sentence matter. The province&#x27;s recent approval for processing stockpiled ore was limited to the existing disturbed footprint, was expected to create about 197 jobs and add roughly $151 million to provincial GDP, and sat alongside a $79.9 million reclamation bond. That is closer to the kind of tradeoff Nova Scotia should be willing to evaluate: real economic value, real limits, and real cleanup money.</p><p>For hydrogen and ammonia, yes if the clean power is additional, local rates are protected, buyers are real, and the project creates durable port or industrial value here. <a href="https://novascotia.ca/nse/ea/everwind-point-tupper-green-hydrogen-ammonia-project/">EverWind&#x27;s Point Tupper project</a> is the obvious Nova Scotia example because the province approved Phase 1 with conditions, and because the product is meant for export. That makes the yes-if test sharper, not softer: if public land, public financing, forests, grid capacity, or local tolerance are part of the bargain, the durable benefits here need to be clear.</p><p>For solar, yes if incentives buy actual grid value, renters can participate, and the first wave uses roofs, parking lots, public buildings, brownfields, and other already-disturbed spaces. Nova Scotia&#x27;s <a href="https://novascotia.ca/programs/community-solar/">community solar program</a> is one route for people who do not own a suitable roof. The proposed <a href="https://engage.modl.ca/community-solar-garden-project">Oakhill community solar garden</a> in Lunenburg, Shelburne, and Argyle is the kind of project that should be judged on local economics, grid usefulness, land use, and who actually gets to subscribe.</p><p>For uranium, yes to honest geological study, maybe. Not yes to mining language before there is proof of deposit quality, economics, landowner consent, Mi&#x27;kmaw consultation, tailings management, and water protection.</p><p>The details change by project. The posture does not.</p><h2>Conditions are not red tape if they improve the project</h2><p>Developers often talk about conditions as obstacles.</p><p>Sometimes they are. A province can make approval processes slow, confusing, duplicative, or political. That matters. If clean energy takes ten years to permit and connect, we should not pretend we are serious about climate policy.</p><p>But good conditions are not the enemy of development. They are what make development durable enough to survive public scrutiny.</p><p>A good condition says: if you want to profit from this place, the people here need a fair deal.</p><p>That can mean:</p><ul><li>local benefit agreements</li><li>municipal tax sharing</li><li>Indigenous equity ownership</li><li>landowner consent rules</li><li>fishery conflict mapping</li><li>public environmental data</li><li>cleanup bonds posted up front</li><li>independent water monitoring</li><li>community power discounts</li><li>clawbacks if promised benefits do not happen</li></ul><p>These are not anti-business ideas. They are how trust gets built over time.</p><h2>Faster should mean clearer, not weaker</h2><p>There is a legitimate argument that Nova Scotia needs to build faster.</p><p>The grid transition cannot wait forever. Housing cannot wait forever. Ports, transmission, storage, and clean generation all take time.</p><p>But faster approval should not mean weaker approval.</p><p>The better target is clarity.</p><p>Clear timelines. Clear evidence requirements. Clear consultation rules. Clear setback and monitoring standards. Clear interconnection processes. Clear cleanup bonds. Clear ways for communities to share revenue.</p><p>That kind of system helps good projects too. If the rules are known early, a serious developer can design around them. A bad developer has less room to sell a vague promise and negotiate the hard parts later.</p><h2>The best environmental policy may look pro-building</h2><p>This can be awkward for environmental politics.</p><p>If Nova Scotia wants cleaner power, it needs to build clean power. If it wants to electrify heat, it needs a stronger grid. <a href="https://www.iea.org/reports/electricity-grids-and-secure-energy-transitions/executive-summary">The International Energy Agency&#x27;s grid work</a> is a useful reminder that clean-energy ambition fails when the wires and connection processes do not keep up. If Nova Scotia wants lower exposure to imported fuel, it needs local generation, storage, and demand flexibility. If it wants offshore industries, it needs ports, vessels, trained workers, and marine planning.</p><p>Saying yes to the right infrastructure is part of being pro-environment.</p><p>We need to stop saying no.</p><p>And start getting used to saying <strong>&quot;yes, if...&quot;</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Nova Scotia's resource debate is really about trust]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/nova-scotia-resource-development-energy-projects</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2026 17:16:20 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Nova Scotia has real resource opportunities, but each project should be judged by evidence, local upside, environmental risk, and whether the public is being asked to trust too much.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nova Scotia is resource-rich and suspicious of resource projects.</p><p>The province has wind, coastline, ports, tides, minerals, forests, industrial land, fishing grounds, and old energy infrastructure that could be reused. It also has communities that have heard a lot of promises from companies and governments that did not have to live beside the project afterwards.</p><p>So when people object to a wind farm, a mine, offshore wind, uranium exploration, or fracking, I do not think the right first reaction is to call them anti-development.</p><p>Often they are asking the question government should have asked earlier:</p><p><strong>what exactly are we getting, and what exactly are we risking?</strong></p><p>That is the same basic question from the first post in this series: <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/economy-environment-development-tradeoffs">what kind of development leaves a place better able to support itself?</a></p><h2>Not every project belongs in the same bucket</h2><p>The usual debate oversimplifies.</p><p>One side talks as if every project is jobs, investment, and growth. The other talks as if every project is extraction, damage, and corporate spin.</p><p>Neither is useful.</p><p>A wind farm is not the same as fracking. Rooftop solar is not the same as clearing forest for a solar field. Processing ore at an already-disturbed site is not the same as opening a new mine. Offshore wind is not the same kind of bet as efficiency upgrades or battery storage.</p><p>I would sort the projects into four buckets:</p><ul><li>obvious yes</li><li>yes, if the terms are right</li><li>prove it</li><li>probably not, unless the evidence changes</li></ul><p>The point is not to make the categories permanent. The point is to make the burden of proof clear.</p><p>Strong evidence means operating examples, regulator data, public audits, long-term performance, clear costs, and benefits that do not depend on five optimistic assumptions all being true at once.</p><p>Weak evidence does not mean a project is automatically bad. It means the province should not sell it with high confidence.</p><h2>Obvious yes: efficiency, grid upgrades, storage, and demand response</h2><p>The least exciting answer is probably one of the best ones.</p><p>Nova Scotia needs a stronger grid, more storage, more flexible demand, and more efficiency. These do not create the same political theatre as uranium or offshore wind, but they make almost every other good project easier.</p><p>If more homes use heat pumps, winter peak demand matters. If more solar connects to distribution feeders, hosting capacity matters. If more wind enters the system, storage and transmission matter. If electricity becomes the main energy source for homes and businesses, reliability matters more than ever.</p><p><a href="https://www.nspower.ca/docs/default-source/monthly-reports/10-year-system-outlook-report.pdf?sfvrsn=d39bca29_66">NS Power&#x27;s 2025 10-Year System Outlook</a> gives a more recent picture. In 2024, coal and petcoke were still 31% of the energy mix, natural gas was 21%, and imports were 5%. Wind was 15%, hydro and tidal were 6%, biomass was 3%, and renewable purchases were 17%. That is a lot of transition still to make.</p><p>The boring grid work is not a side project. It is the foundation.</p><h2>Obvious yes: onshore wind for local power</h2><p>Onshore wind looks like one of Nova Scotia&#x27;s strongest bets.</p><p>The <a href="https://novascotia.ca/onshore-wind">province says onshore wind is the cheapest form of electricity available here</a> and cites average purchases from new wind farms at about $63.77 per megawatt-hour. That is roughly 6.4 cents per kWh before other grid and integration costs.</p><p>That matters because <a href="https://nspower.ca/your-home/residential-rates/standard-residential-service-rate">Nova Scotia Power&#x27;s residential energy rate is about 19.128 cents per kWh</a> as of May 1, 2026.</p><p>Those numbers are not directly comparable. One is wholesale generation and one is a retail bill rate that includes more than generation. But the gap still explains why wind matters. Cheap generation can help stabilize rates, reduce exposure to imported fuel, and make electrification less painful.</p><p>This is climate policy with a cost-of-living effect.</p><p>Lower or more stable power costs help households, heat pump adoption, small businesses, farms, manufacturers, municipal budgets, and any future industry that cares about electricity prices.</p><p>The concerns are real too: siting, noise, views, wetlands, roads, birds, bats, property values, and whether rural communities share enough of the upside.</p><p>So the answer is yes, but not a blank cheque. Local-grid-first, well-sited, clear community benefit &amp; real monitoring. Onshore wind has been happening for long enough in Nova Scotia that all this should be well understood.</p><h2>Yes, with siting discipline: solar on built and disturbed surfaces</h2><p>Solar should be part of the answer, but the best version starts with places we have already altered: roofs, parking lots, schools, municipal buildings, warehouses, closed landfills, quarries, industrial sites &amp; apartment buildings where tenant credits can be designed properly.</p><p><a href="https://novascotia.ca/solar-energy">Nova Scotia gets about 1,800 to 2,000 hours of sunshine per year</a>. That is enough to matter, even if solar is weaker in winter and does not solve the cold evening peak by itself.</p><p>The key is to avoid treating all solar as equally good.</p><p>Rooftop solar on a warehouse is different from clearing forest for a solar field. A community solar project for renters is different from a rebate that mostly helps homeowners who already had the money. A parking-lot canopy is different from a project that creates new land-use conflict.</p><p>The best solar policy should ask three questions:</p><ul><li>does it use land well?</li><li>does the local grid have room for it?</li><li>do the benefits reach people who could not otherwise afford the panels?</li></ul><p>Solar makes sense. Solar anywhere, at any cost, for anyone with enough cash to claim the subsidy is a weaker argument.</p><h2>Yes, phased: offshore wind</h2><p>Offshore wind is the biggest opportunity and one of the hardest to judge.</p><p>The upside is real: ports, marine services, ship repair, offshore expertise, manufacturing, possible exports, and a new Atlantic industry. Nova Scotia has advantages here.</p><p>But the uncertainty is real too.</p><p><a href="https://natural-resources.canada.ca/energy-sources/renewable-energy/regional-assessments-offshore-wind-development-nova-scotia-newfoundland-labrador">Canada and Nova Scotia have been working through a regional assessment for offshore wind</a>, and <a href="https://novascotia.ca/offshore-wind/docs/response-regional-assessment-offshore-wind-development.pdf">Nova Scotia&#x27;s response to that assessment</a> shows how much planning is still required.</p><p>There are no operating offshore wind farms in Nova Scotia waters. Costs have been volatile in other markets. Transmission is a major question. Fisheries conflict is a real potential problem.</p><p>The fisheries question is whether fishers can safely and profitably fish the grounds they depend on after construction zones, turbine spacing, cables, navigation rules, insurance issues, and gear restrictions are layered on top.</p><p>This still looks like a yes to me, but a phased yes.</p><p>Start with serious regional planning, fishery-by-fishery mapping, compensation rules before construction, and independent monitoring. Do not ask people to trust the process after the process has already made the big decisions.</p><h2>Yes to pilots: tidal power</h2><p>The Bay of Fundy is the kind of resource that seems like a no-brainer. It has huge potential and is available 24/7. But it&#x27;s proven to be hard.</p><p>Tidal power has been tried here in more than one form. The old Annapolis tidal station <a href="https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/nova-scotia/station-shut-down-fish-annapolis-river-1.6062512">produced power for decades before it stopped operating in 2019</a> after a generator failure and fish-passage issues. The newer in-stream work at FORCE in the Minas Passage has been valuable, but difficult.</p><p>One early OpenHydro test had <a href="https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/nova-scotia/turbine-damage-stalls-fundy-tidal-power-test-1.926011">two blades break off in 2010</a>. A later Cape Sharp/OpenHydro turbine was <a href="https://globalnews.ca/news/4644316/cape-sharp-tidal-turbine-damaged">damaged beyond repair in 2018</a>, and the province now says it will oversee recovery of the <a href="https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/nova-scotia/tidal-power-green-energy-bay-of-fundy-trevor-boudreau-1.7509897">1,300-tonne abandoned turbine still sitting on the floor of the Bay of Fundy</a>. There is still no removal timeline, though a $4.5-million bond remains in place.</p><p>That does not make FORCE a failure. Natural Resources Canada describes FORCE as North America&#x27;s first in-stream tidal demonstration facility, built to test turbines and study how they behave in the Bay of Fundy. But it does make the lesson harder to ignore.</p><p>So tidal power may be a real Nova Scotia advantage, but it is not yet a cheap, mature, near-term backbone for the grid. The better framing is <a href="https://natural-resources.canada.ca/funding-partnerships/tidal-energy-project-bay-fundy">ocean-tech research and exportable expertise</a>.</p><p>If Nova Scotia can learn how to build tidal systems in one of the harshest tidal environments in the world, that knowledge has value. But we should not pretend it is ready to do the same job as onshore wind by 2030.</p><h2>Case by case: gold mining</h2><p>Gold mining is not one category.</p><p>Processing stockpiled ore at an already-disturbed site is different from opening a new pit. A well-bonded project with strict water monitoring is different from a project that leaves taxpayers exposed.</p><p>The Touquoy example is useful because it shows both sides. The province says the newest stockpiled-ore approval is expected to create about 197 jobs and add $151 million to Nova Scotia&#x27;s GDP, while also noting that <a href="https://news.novascotia.ca/en/2026/04/10/approval-issued-new-work-touquoy-mine-site">cleanup has started and the province holds a $79.9-million reclamation bond</a> to make sure the site is restored. That is exactly the kind of condition that should be non-negotiable.</p><p>The standard should be simple: full bonding, independent water and tailings monitoring, clear closure plans, and no approval that depends on the public absorbing the downside later.</p><h2>Prove it: hydrogen and ammonia</h2><p>Hydrogen and ammonia may make sense at port and industrial sites if the power is additional, the buyers are real, and Nova Scotia gets more than land-use conflict and grid pressure.</p><p>But if the business model is mostly using Nova Scotia wind to make export fuel, the province should ask a harder question:</p><p><strong>does this lower local costs or mainly serve someone else&#x27;s decarbonization plan?</strong></p><p>That does not make hydrogen bad. It means the local benefit has to be proven, not assumed.</p><h2>Prove it: uranium</h2><p>Uranium is where the difference between exploration and mining matters.</p><p>Saskatchewan shows uranium can be a mature, regulated, economically meaningful industry. <a href="https://www.cnsc-ccsn.gc.ca/eng/uranium/mines-and-mills/">Canadian Nuclear Safety Commission material on uranium mines and mills</a> describes the regulatory framework for those facilities, including radiation protection and environmental protection requirements.</p><p>But that does not transfer automatically to Nova Scotia.</p><p>Saskatchewan has high-grade deposits, an established industry, specialized workforce, infrastructure, and decades of regulator/operator experience. Nova Scotia has a political decision to reopen exploration and a lot of unanswered questions about geology, economics, landowner trust, Mi&#x27;kmaw consultation, tailings, water, and whether a mine would ever be viable.</p><p>Exploration is study-only. Mining is not proven.</p><h2>Probably not, unless the evidence changes: fracking</h2><p>Fracking has a higher burden of proof in Nova Scotia.</p><p>Other provinces show that shale gas can produce real economic activity, but the concerns are not imaginary: water, well integrity, induced seismicity, methane, roads, property values, rural way of life, First Nations consultation, and long-term liabilities.</p><p><a href="https://www2.gnb.ca/content/dam/gnb/Corporate/pdf/ShaleGas/en/ThePathForward.pdf">New Brunswick&#x27;s shale gas debate is a useful warning</a>. The issue became divisive partly because people did not trust the process or the information. Nova Scotia should not repeat that.</p><p>The Nova Scotia-specific case looks weak right now. If the government wants to reopen it, it should show deposit quality, infrastructure needs, water baseline data, liability rules, and local benefit before asking communities to accept the risk.</p><h2>The question is evidence</h2><p>Here is the rough sorting:</p><table><thead><tr><th>Project</th><th>Current read</th><th>Evidence strength</th><th>Main upside</th><th>Main concern</th></tr></thead><tbody><tr><td>Efficiency, grid, storage</td><td>obvious yes</td><td>strong</td><td>lower bills, reliability, peak management</td><td>cost allocation</td></tr><tr><td>Onshore wind</td><td>yes, if local-first</td><td>strong/moderate</td><td>cheaper power, rate stability</td><td>siting, community benefit</td></tr><tr><td>Built-surface solar</td><td>yes</td><td>moderate</td><td>distributed generation, wider access</td><td>grid hosting, incentive design</td></tr><tr><td>Offshore wind</td><td>phased yes</td><td>moderate</td><td>ports, industry, clean power</td><td>fisheries, cost, transmission</td></tr><tr><td>Tidal</td><td>pilot/research</td><td>moderate</td><td>ocean-tech expertise</td><td>technical maturity, ecology, abandoned equipment</td></tr><tr><td>Gold mining</td><td>case by case</td><td>moderate</td><td>jobs, GDP, tax base</td><td>tailings, water, cleanup</td></tr><tr><td>Hydrogen/ammonia</td><td>conditional</td><td>weak/moderate</td><td>port industry, export</td><td>power cost, local benefit</td></tr><tr><td>Uranium exploration</td><td>study only</td><td>weak for NS</td><td>resource knowledge</td><td>land, consultation, trust</td></tr><tr><td>Uranium mining</td><td>not proven</td><td>weak for NS</td><td>possible royalties/jobs</td><td>tailings, water, viability</td></tr><tr><td>Fracking</td><td>not enough case</td><td>weak for NS</td><td>gas/jobs if proven</td><td>water, seismicity, liability</td></tr></tbody></table><p>Nova Scotia can and should build more than it does now.</p><p>But the province should stop pretending every project belongs in the same bucket. The better question is what proof each project owes before the public is asked to trust it.</p><p>A serious province can say yes, no, and come back with better evidence.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[What should come first: the economy or the environment?]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/economy-environment-development-tradeoffs</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2026 12:44:26 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A practical way to think about economy-versus-environment tradeoffs: affordability, local capacity, development upside, and environmental risk.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/1a4aca86495257a10dfffd6165dacccfc68013cc-2500x1000.png?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="What should come first: the economy or the environment? cover image" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>A lot of places are trying to do several hard things at once.</p><p>They need cheaper power, cleaner power, stronger infrastructure, more housing, better jobs, and some way to protect the land and water people actually live with. None of those goals are unreasonable. The problem is that they are all intertwined once anything real has to be built.</p><p>I see this most clearly in Nova Scotia, where I grew up and where I live now. The province needs to get off coal, keep power affordable, build more housing, strengthen the grid, and create work outside Halifax. It also has fisheries, forests, coastlines, farmland, and small communities that need to be preserved.</p><p>Nova Scotia is not unique. The same tension shows up around pipelines, wind farms, <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/whats-actually-true-about-ai-data-centers">data centres</a>, housing, and the power lines needed to connect new energy all over the world. We want the benefits of development, but we do not want the mess, risk, or disruption that often comes with building things.</p><p>The debate is often simplified into a choice: economy or environment.</p><p>But what does it mean to put the economy first if the result is dirty water, damaged land, or cleanup costs that get handed to the public later?</p><p>What does it mean to put the environment first if the result is unaffordable power, weaker local industries, and more reliance on places with weaker labour rules, weaker environmental enforcement, or dirtier energy?</p><p><strong>The choice is not economy vs. environment.</strong></p><p>The better question is: <strong>what kind of development leaves a place better able to support itself?</strong></p><h2>Economic security belongs in the environmental conversation</h2><p>A weak economy makes environmental protection harder.</p><p>If people are worried about heating bills, taxes, housing, and whether their kids can find work nearby, they are less likely to support long-term environmental goals. A policy that makes daily life more expensive without offering a practical path forward is going to lose people.</p><p>A damaged environment creates economic costs too.</p><p>Dirty water, damaged land, collapsing fisheries, cleanup liabilities, and poorly planned infrastructure are not side issues. They are costs. They just tend to show up later.</p><p>If a region cannot build housing, energy, ports, roads, mines, transmission lines, or other physical infrastructure, it eventually becomes dependent on places that can. That dependence has its own environmental cost. We still use the materials, energy, and goods. We just import more of them from somewhere else and congratulate ourselves for keeping the local area cleaner.</p><p>That is not environmentalism. It is outsourcing.</p><p><strong>Economic development belongs inside the environmental conversation, not outside it.</strong> A province or country that cannot build, produce, power itself, or keep life affordable will eventually lose the political permission to do ambitious environmental things.</p><h2>Jobs are not enough</h2><p>The opposite mistake is pretending every project is justified if it creates jobs.</p><p>Jobs matter. That should be obvious anywhere that has watched industries shrink, young people leave, and tax bases get thinner. But “jobs” cannot be allowed to end the debate.</p><p>A project can create construction jobs and still leave behind cleanup costs, damaged water, abandoned infrastructure, or a community that carries the downside long after the company has moved on.</p><p>The job number also changes depending on what is being counted: short-term construction work, permanent operations, local suppliers, workers flown in for specialized roles, or induced jobs in the surrounding economy. Those are not all the same thing.</p><p>A better economic test asks:</p><ul><li>Are these jobs local and durable?</li><li>Do they build skills the region can use again?</li><li>Does the project lower costs for households or businesses?</li><li>Does it create a tax base after construction ends?</li><li>Does it reduce dependence on imported energy, materials, or capital?</li><li>Is cleanup money set aside before any damage happens?</li><li>Would the project still make sense if the job claims were more modest?</li></ul><p>Jobs are important. But they aren&#x27;t all created equal.</p><h2>Environmental protection cannot just mean saying no</h2><p>There is also a weak version of environmentalism that treats every major project as suspicious by default.</p><p>I understand where that comes from. Communities are often consulted late. The benefits are described broadly, while the costs are local and specific. If you live near the road, the turbine, the mine, or the wharf, you can be forgiven for not trusting an announcement that says everything will be fine.</p><p>But saying no to everything is not a serious environmental policy either.</p><p>Climate policy is physical. It means transmission lines, wind farms, batteries, heat pumps, ports, substations, mines, <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/why-you-should-be-buying-solar-for-your-home">solar arrays</a>, and more efficient buildings. Some of that is annoying. Some of it is ugly. There are almost always real local tradeoffs.</p><p>But a place that wants cleaner energy still has to build the infrastructure that produces, moves, and stores cleaner energy.</p><p>The <a href="https://www.iea.org/reports/electricity-grids-and-secure-energy-transitions/executive-summary">International Energy Agency has warned</a> that grid buildout is lagging the growth of clean energy, and its <a href="https://www.iea.org/reports/electricity-2026/grids">Electricity 2026 grid analysis</a> makes the same point in a near-term power-system context.</p><p>Generation projects can sometimes be built faster than the transmission and distribution systems needed to connect them. <a href="https://eta-publications.lbl.gov/sites/default/files/queued_up_2024_edition_r2.pdf">Lawrence Berkeley National Laboratory has also documented</a> large interconnection queues in the U.S., with long timelines and low completion rates for many projects.</p><p><strong>If you support clean energy but block the wires, ports, interconnections, storage, and local projects that make it work, you are not really supporting clean energy.</strong></p><h2>We need a better test for development</h2><p>For any major project, we should start with six questions:</p><ol><li>Who owns the upside?</li><li>Who carries the downside?</li><li>Does it lower costs or build capacity for people here?</li><li>Does it make the region more secure, or more dependent?</li><li>Is the environmental damage avoidable, reversible, or covered by cleanup money set aside in advance?</li><li>Is the evidence strong, or is it mostly based on the developer’s own optimistic projections?</li></ol><p>This test will not give the same answer for every project.</p><p>It probably supports more grid investment, more energy efficiency, more storage, more clean generation in the right places, and more projects where local communities share in the upside.</p><p>It probably demands more caution around projects where the benefits are vague, the environmental risk is hard to reverse, the cleanup plan is weak, or the local economy gets used as cheap land, cheap water, cheap power, or political cover for someone else’s gain.</p><p>The economy should come first if by economy we mean long-term security, affordability, productive capacity, and real local benefit.</p><p>The environment should come first if by environment we mean the physical systems that make any durable economy possible.</p><p>Those are not separate goals. They are two ways of asking whether a project makes a place stronger.</p><p><strong>A good project should be able to make both arguments at once.</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/guided-journaling-productivity-self-awareness</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 18:04:54 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A practical look at the Headway Journaling Starter Kit, where guided journaling helps, where it falls short, and who it is best for.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most productivity advice eventually starts to feel like another job.</p><p>There is always a new app, a new planner, a new habit system, or a new morning routine that promises to clean up your life if you can just follow the steps perfectly enough. For a while, that can be motivating. Then it starts to feel like performance.</p><p>That is probably why journaling keeps coming back. Not the polished version people post online with perfect handwriting and expensive pens. The useful version is much simpler: a few quiet minutes where you can get the mess out of your head and look at it.</p><p>The <a href="https://shop.makeheadway.com/products/journaling-starter-kit">Headway Journaling Starter Kit</a> sits in that middle ground between a blank notebook and a full productivity system. It gives you prompts, planning pages, a habit tracker, and a few physical cues that make the routine easier to start.</p><p>I do not think guided journaling is a magic fix for focus, procrastination, or burnout. But I do think it can solve one underrated problem: blank-page friction. A lot of people do not need a more intense self-improvement system. They need a lower-friction way to pay attention.</p><h2>Why journaling still matters when everything is digital</h2><p>Digital tools are great at capture. They are less good at quiet.</p><p>Most of us move through the day in fragments now. Notifications interrupt conversations. Emails arrive in the background. Browser tabs multiply. By the end of the day, even deciding what to do next can feel harder than it should.</p><p>Journaling interrupts that momentum because writing forces your attention into one place for a few minutes. That sounds almost too basic, but it is the point. A notebook does not have tabs, notifications, or a feed waiting one swipe away.</p><p>There is also some evidence behind the habit. The <a href="https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content?ContentTypeID=1&amp;ContentID=4552">University of Rochester Medical Center</a> says journaling may help people manage anxiety, reduce stress, and track patterns in thoughts and behavior. That does not mean every journal is therapy. It means the act of writing things down can make patterns easier to see.</p><p>That practical benefit is the main one for me.</p><p>A lot of overwhelm feels like &quot;too much work&quot; at first. Sometimes that is true. Other times the real issue is scattered attention, unclear priorities, or emotional fatigue that looks like procrastination. A journal will not fix those things overnight, but it can help you notice them earlier.</p><h2>What guided journaling changes</h2><p>Traditional journaling sounds simple: buy a notebook, write down your thoughts, become calmer and more organized.</p><p>Reality is usually less elegant. A blank page can feel weirdly demanding, especially after a long day when even answering a text feels like work.</p><p>Guided journaling removes some of that decision-making. Instead of asking you to invent the topic and the structure every time, it gives you a prompt. That can feel small, but habit design often comes down to small amounts of friction. The easier it is to begin, the more likely you are to repeat it.</p><p>The tradeoff is obvious. Prompts can become repetitive. Some people prefer open-ended writing because it gives them more room to think. But for beginners, or for anyone rebuilding consistency after dropping a few systems, structure can be useful.</p><p>Guided journaling tends to help with a few things:</p><ul><li>starting when you do not know what to write</li><li>recognizing recurring moods or stress patterns</li><li>separating urgent work from important work</li><li>building a short daily reflection habit</li><li>creating a screen-free pause in the day</li></ul><p>That last one matters more than it sounds. If every productivity tool lives on the same device as Slack, email, news, and social media, the system is always fighting the environment.</p><h2>What is included in the Headway kit</h2><p>The Headway kit is built more like a small routine than a single journal. It includes a <a href="https://shop.makeheadway.com/products/headway-self-awareness-journal">self-awareness journal</a>, an undated weekly planner, a calendar, a habit tracker, a motivational poster, a candle, stickers, and a phone stand.</p><p>Individually, none of those pieces reinvents productivity. Together, they try to create a calmer environment around the habit.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/e8e59e0b4e65791a7797d08f87bea2548f95e895-960x960.webp?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Headway Journaling Starter Kit with self-awareness journal, calendar, stickers, phone stand, and candle" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>The kit bundles a self-awareness journal with planning tools and small physical cues for the routine.</figcaption></figure><p>That is the part I like about the product. It does not ask you to adopt a complicated philosophy before you begin. You can open the journal, answer one prompt, review the week, or track a habit without turning the whole thing into an operating system.</p><p>The phone stand and candle could easily feel gimmicky in another bundle. Here they make sense because they support the behavior the kit is trying to encourage: put the phone somewhere else, slow down for a few minutes, write by hand.</p><h2>The daily experience</h2><p>The best use case is not a long, dramatic journaling session. It is a short pause.</p><p>Some days that might mean using the weekly planner to sort priorities. Other days it might mean answering a self-awareness prompt at night, when you are trying to understand why the day felt heavier than expected.</p><p>The habit tracker is useful because it makes consistency visible without turning the whole exercise into a scoreboard. That distinction matters. A lot of productivity systems quietly become another way to judge yourself. A good journal should help you notice what is happening, not punish you for missing a day.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/162a0d71fe02c54ed517a1f2cd0c4d8f8a2ff894-1280x489.webp?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Inside pages and product views from the Headway self-awareness journal" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>The journal pairs prompts and weekly pages with physical pieces that make the routine easier to start and less screen-dependent.</figcaption></figure><p>The physical format helps here. Writing by hand is slower than typing, but that is part of the value. It gives your thoughts a speed limit.</p><p>The downside is that structure will not work for everyone. If you already have a strong journaling habit, the prompts may feel too narrow after a while. If you like highly analytical systems with charts, metrics, and detailed dashboards, this will probably feel too soft.</p><p>But for people who are tired of elaborate productivity setups, that softness may be the point.</p><h2>How it compares to productivity apps and blank notebooks</h2><p>Productivity apps are useful for scheduling, task capture, reminders, and collaboration. I use plenty of digital tools for those jobs. But they rarely create much space for reflection, because they live inside the same environment that creates the noise.</p><p>Blank notebooks have the opposite problem. They are flexible, but that freedom can become another decision. What do I write? How much? What format? Is this supposed to be useful, creative, emotional, strategic?</p><p>Guided journaling lands between those two. It is less flexible than a blank notebook, but easier to start. It is less powerful than a productivity app, but also less distracting.</p><p>That makes the Headway kit a decent fit for people who want a physical routine without building a whole bullet-journal system from scratch. It gives enough structure to lower resistance while still leaving room for personal reflection.</p><h2>Who this will probably help most</h2><p>This kit is probably best for:</p><ul><li>people who want to start journaling but freeze on a blank page</li><li>busy professionals who want a short screen-free routine</li><li>people recovering from productivity overload or burnout</li><li>anyone trying to rebuild consistency after abandoning digital systems</li><li>readers who want reflection and planning in the same physical setup</li></ul><p>It is probably not ideal for people who already love unstructured journaling, or for people who want a highly analytical productivity dashboard.</p><p>That seems like the right dividing line. If you want total freedom, buy a notebook. If you want automation and reminders, use an app. If you want a gentle structure that makes reflection easier to begin, guided journaling is worth trying.</p><h2>Final thoughts</h2><p>Most people do not need another productivity hack. They need less mental noise.</p><p>That is the strongest case for guided journaling. It creates a small pocket of quiet inside a routine that probably has too many inputs already. The Headway kit works because it treats productivity and self-awareness as connected. You plan the week, but you also pay attention to why the week feels the way it does.</p><p>No journal will make someone focused, calm, and consistent overnight. Real change still depends on repetition and honesty.</p><p>But a good prompt can make the next five minutes easier. Sometimes that is enough to keep the habit alive.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[What's actually true about AI data centers?]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/whats-actually-true-about-ai-data-centers</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 13:42:28 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[AI data centers use real electricity and water, but the useful debate depends on location, cooling, grid impact, waste heat, and who benefits.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hear the same worries about AI data centers a lot now.</p><p>They use too much electricity. They use too much water. They strain the grid. They are bad for the planet. Sometimes the claims are exaggerated. Sometimes they are directionally right. Either way, the conversation often jumps from &quot;this uses resources&quot; to &quot;we should stop it.&quot;</p><p>I think that skips the useful part.</p><p>AI data centers do use a lot of electricity. They can use water. They can strain local grids, trigger fights over utility rates, make noise, rely on diesel backup generators, and compete for land and infrastructure. Those are real issues.</p><p>They are also engineering, policy, and incentive problems. If AI is a major economic opportunity, and I think it is, then the useful response is not to wave the costs away or treat every cost as a reason to stop building. It is to ask better questions about location, power, cooling, water, grid upgrades, waste heat, public benefit, and who pays.</p><p>The debate gets better when it gets more specific.</p><h2>The scale is big, but not in the way people usually imply</h2><p>Globally, data centers are not yet eating the grid. The <a href="https://www.iea.org/reports/energy-and-ai/energy-demand-from-ai">International Energy Agency</a> estimates that data centers used about 1.5% of global electricity in 2024. By 2030, it projects that share could roughly double to around 3%.</p><p>The US is moving faster. A <a href="https://eta-publications.lbl.gov/sites/default/files/2024-12/lbnl-2024-united-states-data-center-energy-usage-report_1.pdf">LBNL/DOE report</a> estimated data centers used about 4.4% of US electricity in 2023, with scenarios reaching 6.7% to 12.0% by 2028.</p><p>Those are big numbers. But the global average still hides the more important problem: local concentration.</p><p>In Ireland, for example, the <a href="https://www.cru.ie/about-us/news/the-cru-publishes-its-decision-on-new-electricity-connection-policy-for-data-centres/">Commission for Regulation of Utilities</a> says data centers went from 5% of electricity use in 2015 to 22% in 2024, with a forecast of 31% by 2034. That is a different story than 1.5% globally. The global numbers can hide the local strain.</p><p>Local context matters.</p><h2>The water question is messier than it sounds</h2><p>Cooling can use water, but not every data center uses water the same way.</p><p>Some use evaporative cooling, where water is consumed as part of the cooling process. Some use air cooling. Some use liquid cooling in closed loops. Some use reclaimed or non-potable water. Some use very little direct cooling water but still cause indirect water use through the power plants that generate their electricity.</p><p>So the cooling system matters, and not all systems consume the same amount of water.</p><p>Microsoft, for example, announced a <a href="https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/microsoft-cloud/blog/2024/12/09/sustainable-by-design-next-generation-datacenters-consume-zero-water-for-cooling/">next-generation data center design</a> that uses chip-level liquid cooling and a closed-loop system. The company says the system consumes zero water for cooling once filled, though water is still used for normal building needs like restrooms and kitchens. Microsoft also says the design avoids more than 125 million litres of water per year per data center, based on its FY2024 global average water usage effectiveness of 0.30 L/kWh.</p><p>However, if a data center uses evaporative cooling in a water-stressed region, water may be a serious local issue. If it uses closed-loop cooling in a cool, water-rich region, direct cooling water may be much less important. If the electricity comes from thermoelectric power plants that use water, then indirect water still matters. If the facility uses reclaimed water, that is different again.</p><p>A litre in Quebec is not the same as a litre in Arizona. A withdrawal is not the same as consumption. Direct cooling water is not the same as water used somewhere else to generate electricity.</p><p>This is where a lot of online criticism goes wrong. It takes a real issue and strips away the local context that matters.</p><h2>The economic upside is real</h2><p>The tech industry sometimes talks about data centers as if they are pure abstraction: compute, cloud, AI capacity, digital infrastructure. Locally, they are very physical.</p><p>They require land, power, construction, electrical work, cooling systems, substations, fiber, security, maintenance, operations, and ongoing capital replacement. Many of the jobs are outside the usual AI story: construction crews, electricians, pipefitters, HVAC technicians, security staff, maintenance workers, project managers, and skilled trades. They can bring large construction projects, tax revenue, procurement, and a stronger base for local AI companies that need access to compute.</p><p><a href="https://economics.td.com/ca-data-centers-and-grid-constraints">TD Economics</a> notes that the US and China have captured most new global data center capacity and the economic gains that come with it. Its Canada-focused analysis points to Virginia as the mature example: the data center industry contributes US$9.1 billion to state GDP, supports about 74,000 jobs annually, and Loudoun County received US$895 million in data center tax revenue in FY2025, nearly covering its US$940 million operating budget.</p><p>Canada sees the opportunity too. The federal government has committed up to C$2 billion through its <a href="https://ised-isde.canada.ca/site/ised/en/canadian-sovereign-ai-compute-strategy">Sovereign AI Compute Strategy</a>, including up to C$700 million to help mobilize private investment in new or expanded data centers. Ontario recently welcomed <a href="https://news.ontario.ca/en/release/1007259/ontario-welcomes-microsofts-ai-infrastructure-expansion">Microsoft&#x27;s cloud and AI infrastructure expansion</a>, part of a previously announced C$19 billion commitment to Canada, saying it would support 1,250 jobs and expand compute capacity. Alberta has gone further, publishing an <a href="https://www.alberta.ca/artificial-intelligence-data-centres-strategy">AI Data Centres Strategy</a> built around power capacity, sustainable cooling, and economic growth.</p><p>The upside is not imaginary.</p><p>But it is not automatic either.</p><p>A data center can be a tax base, a construction boom, a compute advantage, and a reason for clean-energy investment. It can also be a large private load that soaks up grid capacity, raises costs, annoys neighbours, and leaves fewer permanent jobs than people expected.</p><p>The hard part is deciding who pays, where the project connects, and what the community gets back.</p><h2>How data centers can be less harmful, and maybe useful</h2><p>Start with siting. A responsible data center should go where the grid can handle it, where new clean power can be built, where cooling is easier, where water stress is low, and where nearby users can take the waste heat. That probably means fewer projects should be judged only by land cost, tax incentives, or how quickly a developer can get connected. Cold places may have a waste-heat advantage. Hot, sunny places may have better solar potential. The right answer depends on the whole system, not one climate variable.</p><p>Cooling is the next big variable. In water-stressed areas, closed-loop or waterless cooling should become the default expectation for new AI facilities, even if it has some energy tradeoffs. In cooler regions, outside air and liquid cooling can reduce energy and water pressure. Where water is used, facilities should disclose the source, quality, and local scarcity context. Reclaimed water is different from drinking water. A closed-loop system is different from evaporative cooling. The public should not have to guess.</p><p>Some of the load can also be flexible. Training jobs, batch inference, model evaluation, indexing, rendering, and other non-real-time workloads could be shifted away from peak grid stress if the software and contracts are designed for it. A data center with batteries, flexible workloads, and grid coordination can be less of a dumb constant load and more of a participant in the energy system.</p><p>The power standard should be stricter than annual renewable-energy matching. A company can buy enough credits over a year and still worsen local fossil generation during peak hours. A better standard is whether the load caused new clean generation or storage to be built, in the region where it is used, at the times it is needed.</p><p>There are better deal structures available too. A data center company could pay for the local upgrades it triggers. It could build new power capacity and share some of the benefit with the grid. It could help fund transmission, storage, substations, or demand-response programs. In the best case, a large customer should make the local energy system stronger instead of reserving capacity and leaving residents with the bill.</p><p>Then there is heat. Data centers turn electricity into heat, and most facilities treat that heat as a problem to remove. In the right place, it can become useful.</p><p>This works best where there is a district heating network or nearby heat demand. In Finland, <a href="https://www.fortum.com/services/heating-cooling/data-centres-helsinki-region">Fortum&#x27;s heat recovery project with Microsoft&#x27;s data centers in Espoo and Kirkkonummi</a> is expected to supply roughly 40% of district heating capacity in those areas. The basic idea is simple: recover waste heat from server halls, upgrade it with heat pumps, and feed it into the local heating network.</p><p>This is the part that is easiest to miss in the abstract. The useful object is not the data center by itself. It is the data center plus the heating network beside it.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/3970ed5ac2a67993b184b3326adb3fc7ad42406f-2560x1440.png?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Diagram showing waste heat from a data center being captured, upgraded with heat pumps, and sent into a district heating network" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>Diagram showing data center waste heat being captured, upgraded with heat pumps, and sent into a district heating network.</figcaption></figure><p>Fortum and Microsoft also have a short project video that shows the same idea at the city-heating level.</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FW4BetUBY0U">Energy unites: Microsoft and Fortum</a><br/><span>Fortum and Microsoft&#39;s plan to reuse data center heat for homes, public buildings, and businesses in the Helsinki region.</span></p><p>That will not work everywhere. A data center in a warm region without district heating may have little use for low-grade heat. But in cold climates with dense communities, campuses, greenhouses, industrial users, or district heating systems, waste heat can turn a liability into part of the local energy system.</p><h2>Canada should be unusually interested in this</h2><p>Canada has a real AI data center opportunity, but it is easy to tell the wrong story about it.</p><p>Canada is cold, has lots of land, and has clean power in some provinces. That is a start, not a strategy.</p><p>Canada has advantages: cool climate, hydro in some provinces, nuclear in Ontario, land, political stability, proximity to the US, strong AI research, and a need for more domestic compute. Canada also has constraints: grid capacity, transmission timelines, provincial differences in electricity emissions, Indigenous and municipal consultation, water and land-use concerns, and the risk that ratepayers subsidize private infrastructure if policy is sloppy.</p><p><a href="https://economics.td.com/ca-data-centers-and-grid-constraints">TD Economics is blunt on this point</a>: Canada can compete if it figures out how to connect new data centers to power in a timely way, but public support depends on making sure industry pays the cost of integrating these loads rather than pushing it onto households.</p><p>We should not reject AI data centers because they use resources. Everything useful does. We should also not wave them through because AI is strategically important. The standard should be higher than that.</p><p>For Canada, the best version would look something like this:</p><p>Build in provinces and regions where power is clean or getting cleaner. Make the data center pay for the grid upgrades it needs. Use cooling systems suited to local water conditions. Prefer closed-loop or waterless designs in water-sensitive regions. Make workloads flexible where possible. Require transparent reporting on power, water, emissions, and backup generators. Reuse heat where there is real demand. Build new power where needed and share some of the benefit locally. Tie public incentives to local jobs, tax base, Indigenous partnerships, community benefit, and domestic compute access.</p><p>That is a lot harder than arguing on the internet about whether AI uses too much water.</p><p>It is also much more useful.</p><h2>A simple scorecard</h2><p>If a new AI data center is proposed, these are the questions I would want answered before having a strong opinion:</p><ul><li>How much power will it use, and when?</li><li>What generation turns on because of this new load?</li><li>Does it bring new clean power or just claim existing clean supply?</li><li>What grid upgrades are needed, and who pays?</li><li>What cooling system does it use?</li><li>How much water is consumed, from what source, and in what watershed?</li><li>Can non-urgent workloads shift during grid stress?</li><li>What backup generation is used?</li><li>Can waste heat be reused nearby?</li><li>What does the community get besides construction traffic and press releases?</li></ul><p>A data center should not be judged only by whether it hosts AI. It should be judged like infrastructure: what does it cost, what does it enable, who benefits, who pays, and what could have been designed better?</p><p>The debate gets more useful when we judge AI data centers as specific infrastructure projects, not as one giant category.</p><p>A responsible facility in a cold region with clean power, closed-loop cooling, flexible workloads, heat reuse, transparent reporting, and local benefits is a different thing from a rushed facility that strains a fossil-heavy grid, consumes scarce water, raises local rates, and hides behind vague sustainability claims. Same category. Very different reality.</p><p>That is the rational optimist version of this argument. Do not pretend the costs are fake. Do not treat every cost as a reason to quit. Put the problems on the table, design around them, and make companies prove the project works for the grid, the water system, and the community around it.</p><p>AI infrastructure is probably coming either way. Canada can work toward projects that bring economic benefit while improving power, cooling, heat reuse, and accountability, or watch that investment go somewhere else. The better response is not reflexive approval or reflexive opposition. It is to get serious about what good data centers should look like, then make companies meet that bar.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why aren't we 3D printing more boats?]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/why-arent-we-3d-printing-more-boats</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 21:40:14 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Boats are expensive because boatbuilding is slow, manual, and tooling-heavy. Large-format 3D printing may help first with molds and prototypes.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Growing up in Nova Scotia, boats were always around: fishing boats, aluminum skiffs, sailboats, runabouts, old hulls in yards.</p><p>I have always wanted one. Then every time I look at what a decent boat costs, the number feels absurd.</p><p>Some of that is easy to explain. A boat is a luxury purchase for a lot of people. It needs an engine, electronics, hardware, storage, insurance, a trailer or a mooring, and constant maintenance. But even stripped down to the object itself, I wanted to understand why the manufacturing still costs so much.</p><p>A hull is mostly a shape. A complicated shape, yes, and one that has to survive real abuse, but still a shape.</p><h2>How boats are made today</h2><p>Most boats are built in ways that are more manual than people probably assume.</p><p>Fiberglass is the dominant material for a lot of recreational boats, and it is also used well beyond the small-boat market. Many larger yachts and superyachts use composite construction too, whether that means fiberglass, carbon fiber, epoxy systems, foam cores, or more advanced layup and infusion processes. The exact materials and methods change with the size and price of the boat, but the basic manufacturing problem is often similar: you need a large, accurate shape, and you need a way to repeat it.</p><p>For a fiberglass hull, a builder usually starts with a plug, which is a full-size positive shape of the hull or part being made. From that plug, they make a mold. Then the finished hull is built inside the mold using layers of fiberglass reinforcement and resin. Depending on the builder and the price point, that might involve hand layup, spray-up, vacuum bagging, resin infusion, or some mix of those processes.</p><p>The mold is the expensive bet. If you are building a lot of the same hull, it makes sense. You spend the money up front, dial in the process, and spread the tooling cost over many boats. That is why fiberglass works so well for production boats. The material is familiar, repair yards understand it, buyers trust it, and the finish can be excellent.</p><p>But getting there is slow. You need the plug. You need the mold. You need skilled labor. You need finishing work. You need enough confidence in the model to justify all that tooling before the first customer boat exists.</p><p>That matters because boats are relatively low-volume products compared with cars. A popular car model might be built in the hundreds of thousands. A boat model might sell in the hundreds, dozens, or fewer, especially once you get into larger yachts, commercial vessels, specialty workboats, or custom layouts. The tooling still has to be paid for, but there are fewer finished units to absorb the cost.</p><p>Aluminum boats are different. They are usually cut, bent, welded, and assembled from plate or formed parts. This can be rugged and practical, especially for workboats, fishing boats, landing craft, and smaller utility boats. Aluminum can be easier to repair than composites in some contexts, and it does not require the same kind of full mold investment. But it still takes skilled fabrication, careful welding, fairing, outfitting, and a lot of hands-on work.</p><p>Higher-end composite boats may use carbon fiber, Kevlar, epoxy composites, foam or balsa cores, pre-pregs, autoclaves, or more advanced infusion methods. Those materials can make lighter, stiffer, faster boats, but they do not make the manufacturing problem disappear. If anything, they can increase the need for controlled process, skilled labor, and expensive tooling.</p><p>Some boats are plastic, made through processes like rotational molding. Companies like <a href="https://www.whaly.com/news/hdpe-whaly-boats">Whaly</a> make tough HDPE utility boats this way. People will buy plastic boats when the product is rugged, practical, and low maintenance. Rotomolding still has its own tooling and design constraints. You still need molds, and the economics still work best when you can sell enough units to justify them.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/07b979dbacc3e70f78cc6fc3a921dc88992c0ab7-2000x1500.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="A Whaly HDPE utility boat, an example of a practical plastic boat already in market" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>A rotomolded Whaly HDPE utility boat, one example of the practical plastic-boat market that already exists.</figcaption></figure><p>That is the pattern. Boats are expensive partly because they are physically large, exposed to harsh conditions, and full of systems. The manufacturing adds another layer: a new shape has to become a real product through a slow, tooling-heavy, low-volume process that depends on people who know what they are doing.</p><h2>Can 3D printing help?</h2><p>I was 3D printing a small part the other day and had the obvious thought: why can&#x27;t we 3D print boats?</p><p>Desktop 3D printing changed the way a lot of people think about objects. If you can model something, you can make it, at least in miniature. You can make one part without tooling. You can change the file and print another version. You can make awkward geometry without paying extra for every curve and corner.</p><p>That sounds like it should map well to boats. Boatbuilding has big shapes, expensive tooling, lots of variation, and slow iteration. A printer that can go from digital model to physical object should be useful somewhere in that chain.</p><p>The catch is scale.</p><p>A modern desktop or prosumer printer is impressive until you compare it with a hull. Bambu Lab&#x27;s <a href="https://bambulab.com/en/h2d/tech-specs">H2D</a> lists a single-nozzle build volume of 325 x 320 x 325 mm, with a larger total dual-nozzle envelope. Creality&#x27;s <a href="https://store.creality.com/products/creality-k2-plus-combo-3d-printer">K2 Plus</a> is marketed around a 350 x 350 x 350 mm build volume. The <a href="https://www.prusa3d.com/product/original-prusa-xl-assembled-5-toolhead-3d-printer/">Prusa XL</a> is larger for a desktop-style machine at 360 x 360 x 360 mm.</p><p>Those are useful volumes. You can print a cup holder, a bracket, a drain cover, a hinge prototype, a replacement fitting, a mold for a small part, or a piece of tooling. But you are still measuring the build area in centimeters, not feet.</p><p>Commercial machines get bigger. A <a href="https://bigrep.com/posts/large-modular-3d-printer/">BigRep ONE</a> has a one-cubic-meter build volume. Modix sells machines like the <a href="https://www.modix3d.com/big-180x/">BIG-180X</a> with a listed print volume of 1,800 x 600 x 600 mm. Those sizes are much more useful for furniture, fixtures, molds, prototypes, automotive parts, and some marine components. They still do not get you close to printing a 20-foot hull in one piece.</p><p>You could split a boat into smaller printed sections and join them, but then the hard question moves from printing to joining. The seams would have to handle loads, water, vibration, thermal movement, impact, and long-term fatigue. They would need to be inspected and repaired, and they need to be trusted by those using them. On a boat, a bad joint can become a failure point in a wet, moving, corrosive environment.</p><p>That is one reason small-format printing has not turned into backyard boat manufacturing. The available print volume is too small, and scaling by assembly creates its own engineering problem. You might be able to print accessories, interior pieces, molds for small components, or prototype parts. Printing the hull itself is a different category.</p><h2>Big printers do exist</h2><p>For boat-sized work, the relevant machines look less like desktop printers and more like industrial manufacturing cells.</p><p>Instead of filament spools and desktop frames, these systems use pellet-fed extruders, robotic arms, gantries, big beds, machining heads, and industrial controls. They print near-net shapes in reinforced thermoplastics or other materials, then often need CNC machining afterward to get the final surface tolerance and finish.</p><p>Thermwood&#x27;s lower-cost <a href="https://blog.thermwood.com/en-us/thermwood-announces-lower-cost-lsam-additive-systems">LSAM Additive Printer</a> line, for example, includes 5 x 5 foot and 5 x 10 foot table sizes, with parts up to 4 feet high and a maximum table print weight of 1,000 pounds. That is a different world from desktop printing, but even that does not mean finished boats come out ready for the water. Thermwood describes these as lower-cost print-only systems, often paired with a separate trimmer when parts need machining.</p><p>The University of Maine has one of the most visible setups. Its Advanced Structures and Composites Center, working with Ingersoll&#x27;s MasterPrint platform, printed <a href="https://composites.umaine.edu/advanced-manufacturing/3dirigo/">3Dirigo</a>, a 25-foot, 5,000-pound boat, in 72 hours. UMaine has also worked on <a href="https://composites.umaine.edu/2022/04/11/umaine-3d-prints-two-new-large-boats-for-u-s-marines-breaking-previous-world-record/">large 3D printed logistics vessel prototypes for the U.S. Marines</a>, where speed and prototyping matter more than retail showroom polish.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/bf5c3c2ec179627cd97f9a90486198747b5a30e3-1280x853.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="3Dirigo, the 25-foot 3D printed boat from the University of Maine Advanced Structures and Composites Center" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>3Dirigo, UMaine’s 25-foot 3D printed boat, sitting in the Advanced Structures and Composites Center test basin.</figcaption></figure><p>The launch photo shows the finished object. The time-lapse below is more useful for seeing the manufacturing process itself.</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=34F71XqvOjg">Time-lapse of the world&#39;s largest 3D printed boat</a><br/><span>The UMaine time-lapse is useful because it shows the scale and pace of the print, not just the finished boat.</span></p><p>Thermwood has pushed large-scale additive manufacturing from a tooling angle. In one example, it <a href="https://www.compositesworld.com/articles/thermwood-3d-prints-large-boat-hull-pattern">printed a large boat hull pattern</a> weighing roughly 3,000 pounds. The print took about 30 hours, machining took another 30 hours, and the whole process was completed in under 10 working days. TAHOE Boats also used <a href="https://www.compositesworld.com/articles/tahoe-boats-t16-uses-3d-printed-tooling-from-thermwood">Thermwood printed tooling</a> for the T16.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/dbdfa79f02297d795ad4752751a0f3746fa46544-600x338.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Thermwood LSAM-machined boat hull pattern" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>Thermwood’s large-format printed boat hull pattern, an example of 3D printing as tooling rather than a finished boat.</figcaption></figure><p>Oak Ridge National Laboratory used big-area additive manufacturing to make a <a href="https://www.ornl.gov/publication/using-big-area-additive-manufacturing-directly-manufacture-boat-hull-mould">34-foot catamaran hull mold</a>. It was printed in 12 sections over five days, then CNC finished and used as a mold.</p><p>CEAD, based in the Netherlands, sells robotic large-format systems into marine, defense, tooling, and industrial applications. Caracol, based in Italy, has been doing similar work with robotic large-format printing. These are not little printers scaled up slightly. They are manufacturing cells, often closer to a robot plus extrusion system plus machining workflow than to what most people picture when they hear &quot;3D printer.&quot;</p><p>There is an open-source side to this too, though it sits in a different part of the market. Marlin describes itself as an <a href="https://marlinfw.org/">open-source 3D printer driver</a>, and Klipper is <a href="https://www.klipper3d.org/">free software</a> that controls 3D printers through a general-purpose computer and one or more microcontrollers. Companies like re:3D sell <a href="https://re3d.org/gigabot/">open-source industrial printers</a> using Klipper, including pellet-printing machines. Researchers have also experimented with <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36818952/">Hangprinter-style large-format systems</a> using pellet extrusion and recycled plastic.</p><p>The hobby and prosumer world keeps pushing the low end outward. Thermwood is not in that category. LSAM is a proprietary industrial system with its own <a href="https://www.thermwood.com/lsam/lsam_printing_software.htm">LSAM Print 3D</a> software inside Mastercam.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/1751c1cab5a3b7c6c9801ef957dc24fc3538dce4-2048x533.webp?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="re:3D Gigabot and GigabotX printers, examples of large open-source industrial printer systems" loading="lazy"/><figcaption>re:3D’s Gigabot line, closer to the open-source large-printer world than proprietary industrial LSAM systems.</figcaption></figure><p>This helps explain why there are not more of them.</p><p>A large-format system needs space, material handling, trained operators, safety systems, process knowledge, and often CNC finishing capacity. It may need climate control or at least a controlled production environment. The materials are not trivial. The parts are big enough that mistakes are expensive. And if the final object is going on the water, someone still has to prove it will survive.</p><p>A small boatbuilder cannot casually put one of these in the corner of the shop next to the table saw.</p><h2>The economics should improve</h2><p>Printer capability keeps moving outward.</p><p>Desktop machines have become much better over the last decade. They are faster, easier to use, more reliable, and larger for the money than they used to be. A machine like the Bambu H2D, Creality K2 Plus, or Prusa XL would have felt wildly capable to many hobbyists not long ago. Commercial systems have also moved into sizes that can handle large fixtures, molds, furniture, prototypes, and real production aids without jumping all the way to a giant custom cell.</p><p>That does not mean large-format boat printing becomes cheap quickly. The jump from a one-meter printer to a boat-scale pellet extrusion system is still enormous. But the direction matters. As smaller printers get more capable and mid-size printers become more common, more people learn the workflow: designing for additive, slicing large parts, choosing materials, post-processing, machining, bonding, inspecting, and repairing printed objects.</p><p>The machine cost matters too, but utilization may matter even more. A big printer is hard to justify if it only makes one boat mold every few months. The case gets stronger if the same machine can print boat plugs, molds, construction components, architectural parts, repair jigs, composite tooling, industrial fixtures, and odd one-off structures for local companies.</p><p>This is probably where large-format printing becomes economically feasible first: as shared manufacturing capacity rather than a single-purpose boat printer.</p><h2>What 3D printing is already doing for boats</h2><p>Near term, 3D printers probably do not replace boatbuilders. They shorten some of the painful steps before a boat can be built.</p><p>In fiberglass production, a shape becomes a plug, the plug becomes a mold, and the mold eventually produces a hull. Every design change can ripple through that process. If a builder wants to test a different hull, deck, console, hatch layout, hardtop, drain path, storage compartment, or interior structure, the physical work can become slow and expensive fast.</p><p>Large-format 3D printing can shorten that loop.</p><p>Printed plugs and molds may be the less flashy application, but it might be the most important one. A printer can turn a digital model into a full-size pattern or mold much faster than conventional methods in some cases. Then CNC machining brings the surface closer to spec. The final boat may still be made from fiberglass or another composite, but the tooling loop gets shorter.</p><p>This also avoids some of the joining problem. If you print a mold in sections, the joints still matter for accuracy, surface quality, and the molding process. But the mold is not the finished boat. It does not have to spend years taking slamming loads, saltwater, UV, trailering stress, and hardware loads. Joining sections for tooling is a much easier problem than joining sections of a structural hull that people trust with their lives.</p><p>That matters because many boats are not cars. They are low-volume products with model changes, regional preferences, customer-specific layouts, and a lot of design variation. A builder might not need a million identical hulls. They might need a faster way to try a new version without betting months of labor on the first shape.</p><p>There is also a more direct path: printed parts that become part of the boat. Consoles, seating bases, internal structures, tooling aids, forms, hardtop parts, transom structures, tanks, ducting, cable runs, and complex inserts may all be better early candidates than a finished hull. Boats are full of awkward internal geometry. A lot of value hides in places the customer never sees.</p><p>If those details can be integrated into printed structures, boatbuilding starts to look a little less like craft work and a little more like product manufacturing.</p><h2>The printed boat examples are real, but narrow</h2><p>Whole printed boats make better headlines, and there are real examples.</p><p>UMaine&#x27;s 3Dirigo is the obvious one: 25 feet, 5,000 pounds, printed in 72 hours. Al Seer Marine and Abu Dhabi Maritime unveiled an <a href="https://www.compositesworld.com/news/al-seer-marine-abu-dhabi-maritime-unveil-worlds-largest-3d-printed-boat">11.98 metre 3D printed water taxi</a>, with hulls printed using CEAD equipment. Caracol and V2 Group built a <a href="https://www.compositesworld.com/news/v2-group-caracol-achieve-large-format-3d-printed-monolithic-boat">6 metre monolithic catamaran</a> from glass-fiber reinforced recycled polypropylene. Moi Composites has shown a <a href="https://www.compositesworld.com/news/moi-composites-debuts-3d-printed-glass-fiber-boat">3D printed glass-fiber boat</a>.</p><p>Boat-scale printing already exists. The hard part now is finding the places where it makes economic and engineering sense.</p><p>Printing the shape is only one part of the problem. A finished boat still needs surface finish, waterproofing, bonding, inserts, inspection access, repairability, classification, insurance, and buyer trust.</p><p>We can print a boat. The harder question is where printing changes the economics enough to overcome the new problems it introduces.</p><h2>Where the economics probably work first</h2><p>The best early categories probably have a few traits in common: low volume, custom or semi-custom design, high tooling burden, lots of integrated structure, less obsession with perfect yacht finish, and a real premium on speed.</p><p>That points toward workboats, defense boats, ferries, prototypes, specialty sportboats, research vessels, some sailboat structures, superyacht components, and tooling for recreational boatbuilders. Center consoles are a good example too. Even if the whole boat is still built conventionally, the console itself is a big utility shell full of hidden complexity: cable gutters, drains, tanks, storage, seating, backing zones, inspection ports, mounting surfaces, and transom loads.</p><p>If printing can fold some of that complexity into the structure, the value is larger than cheaper plastic. It is fewer separate steps, fewer custom subassemblies, faster iteration, and less tooling risk.</p><p>Mass-market recreational boats are a harder target. If a builder already has a mold, a trained crew, known materials, known suppliers, and a product that sells at volume, printing the whole hull may not help. The old process may still be better. That is manufacturing reality.</p><p>New processes usually win first where old processes are awkward.</p><h2>The bigger implication</h2><p>Boats are a useful example because they combine shape, material, tooling, labor, and trust. The same pattern shows up elsewhere.</p><p>Large-format 3D printing is already being used or tested for aerospace tooling, automotive fixtures, composite layup tools, architectural components, construction, defense parts, molds, patterns, and prototypes. In many cases, the early value is not the final consumer product. It is the hidden object that helps a factory make the final product faster.</p><p>The same mental model works for boats. The printer may matter most before the customer sees anything: faster plugs, faster molds, faster prototypes, more integrated structures, and a few direct-printed vessels where customization and speed beat the need for perfect finish.</p><p>Over time, that could still change what gets built. If the cost of trying a new hull shape drops, more niche boats become viable. If tooling is faster, small builders can experiment more. If large printed structures become easier to certify and repair, direct-printed workboats may become normal in specific markets. If the same large-format systems can print molds for boats one week and construction components or industrial tooling the next, the economics of owning the machine start to make more sense.</p><p>That may be the practical version of the story for places like Nova Scotia. Not every marina needs a printer. But a region full of boatbuilders, repair yards, ocean tech companies, construction needs, defense contracts, and weird coastal problems might eventually support shared large-format manufacturing capacity in a way a single small boatbuilder cannot.</p><p>That sounds more plausible to me than cheap printed yachts for everyone.</p><h2>The honest answer</h2><p>Why aren&#x27;t we 3D printing more boats yet?</p><p>The short answer: cheap printers are too small, and big printers are still expensive, specialized, and hard to run. Splitting a hull into smaller pieces creates a joining problem. Printing a full-size part creates a finishing, testing, certification, and trust problem. Existing methods already work well in many parts of the market.</p><p>But none of that makes the idea silly. It just makes it more specific.</p><p>I would not bet on a near future where every 24-foot fishing boat is printed in one piece. I would bet on 3D printing creeping into the boatbuilding process through the parts no one gets excited about: plugs, molds, patterns, prototypes, tooling, internal structures, and odd low-volume boats that would have been too expensive to try before.</p><p>We can already print a boat. The more useful question is which parts of boatbuilding are genuinely hard, and which parts are still expensive because the process has not caught up yet.</p><p>That is where the real manufacturing shift would start.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/sauna-health-benefits-dose-humidity</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2026 23:55:16 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The strongest sauna evidence points to frequent Finnish-style sauna use, but humidity, core temperature, timing, and fertility caveats all change the practical dose.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/3a5639283329858065349983cd19603c59c3ace3-2500x1000.png?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Sauna Is Getting Harder to Ignore cover image" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>It&#x27;s looking more like saunas might be one of the most impactful health tools we have available today.</p><p>It sounds too simple, but the evidence is getting harder to dismiss.</p><p>In the <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25705824/">2015 JAMA Internal Medicine paper</a> from the Finnish Kuopio cohort, 2,315 middle-aged men were followed for a median of 20.7 years. Compared with men who used a sauna once a week, the men using sauna 4 to 7 times per week had a 63% lower risk of sudden cardiac death, a 48% lower risk of fatal cardiovascular disease, and a 40% lower risk of all-cause mortality after adjustment for cardiovascular risk factors.</p><p>A later <a href="https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6262976/">BMC Medicine study</a> followed 1,688 Finnish men and women aged 53 to 74 for a median of 15 years. The pattern was similar: more frequent sauna use and longer weekly sauna duration were associated with lower cardiovascular mortality. The authors described traditional Finnish sauna as dry air, about 10 to 20% relative humidity, typically 80 to 100°C at head level.</p><p>Rhonda Patrick has probably done as much as anyone to make the sauna evidence visible outside Finland. Her <a href="https://www.foundmyfitness.com/topics/sauna">FoundMyFitness sauna summary</a> is where I first saw a lot of this research pulled together in one place: cardiovascular mortality, dementia risk, heat shock proteins, blood pressure, inflammation, and practical dose ranges. I would not treat every mechanism as equally settled, but she has been early and unusually detailed on the topic.</p><p>Then there is the newer biohacker layer. In his <a href="https://blueprint.bryanjohnson.com/blogs/news/sauna-protocol">sauna protocol writeup</a>, Bryan Johnson claims sauna has been one of the most effective health protocols he has tried, with self-reported reductions in environmental toxins, an 85% reduction in microplastics from ejaculate, and vascular function improvements. I would not treat those claims like clinical evidence. They are n=1, and the microplastics piece especially is nowhere near settled. But they are worth paying attention to because he is measuring things most people never measure.</p><p>Repeated heat exposure seems to be a low-tech way to stress the cardiovascular system, raise core temperature, trigger adaptation, and possibly reduce risk across several diseases that dominate aging. It may not be exercise, but it rhymes with exercise more than most passive interventions do.</p><h2>Why sauna might work</h2><p>When you sit in a traditional sauna, your cardiovascular system has work to do. Blood vessels dilate. Heart rate rises. Blood moves toward the skin. Sweat production ramps up. Your body is trying to keep core temperature in range while the room is pushing it upward.</p><p>That is the useful part. Sauna is controlled heat stress.</p><p>Peter Attia&#x27;s line in <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/outlive-peter-attia">Outlive</a> is probably the right anchor here: exercise is the most powerful longevity drug we have. If you made me choose between training and sauna, I would pick training without much thought.</p><p>Sauna is not a replacement for exercise. It is more like a supporting habit that may create some overlapping cardiovascular and hormetic stress with very little friction.</p><p>The mechanisms people point to usually include increased heart rate, improved vascular function, heat shock proteins, plasma volume changes, inflammation, and the general adaptation that comes from repeated heat exposure. Some of that is better supported than other parts. The mortality data is mostly observational, so causality is not proven. People who use saunas 4 to 7 times a week may also differ in exercise, social connection, stress, income, alcohol use, or baseline health.</p><p>Still, the dose-response pattern is hard to ignore. More frequent sauna tends to look better than less frequent sauna. Longer sessions tend to look better than shorter sessions. The physiology is plausible. For healthy people who use it sensibly, the downside looks relatively low.</p><h2>The dose question</h2><p>The number that keeps showing up is 4 to 7 sessions per week.</p><p>In the JAMA cohort, the 4 to 7 per week group had the strongest associations with lower sudden cardiac death and all-cause mortality. The BMC Medicine paper also found a linear relationship between sauna frequency and cardiovascular mortality, without an obvious threshold in that dataset.</p><p>So the data does point toward more frequent sauna being better, at least within the ranges studied. I would still be careful about turning that into &quot;more heat is always better.&quot; Heat stress is still stress. The useful dose is the one you can recover from and repeat.</p><p>A practical target seems to be around 4 sessions per week, roughly 15 to 25 minutes per session, in a traditional Finnish-style sauna if available. If recovery is good and the habit is easy, moving closer to 7 sessions per week may be reasonable. If it leaves you wrecked, dizzy, sleeping worse, or dreading the session, the dose is too high.</p><h2>Core temperature may matter more than air temperature</h2><p>A big focus of Johnson&#x27;s recent experimentation has been core temperature, and the levels required to see the effect.</p><p>In a recent <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/bryanrjohnson_most-people-might-miss-the-biggest-benefit-activity-7451007192889024512-UFlX">LinkedIn post</a>, Johnson said he used a swallowed temperature sensor and needed 31 minutes in a 200°F dry sauna to reach 102.4°F, or about 39°C. He framed that range as a trigger for heat shock proteins.</p><p>I do not know if that exact threshold is the answer, and I would be cautious about turning one person&#x27;s protocol into a rule. But the underlying idea makes sense: the body probably cares less about the number on the wall and more about the heat load you actually experience.</p><p>That dose is a mix of air temperature, humidity, airflow, session duration, body size, conditioning, heart rate response, core temperature response, and how well you recover afterward. Most people only talk about the first one.</p><h2>Humidity changes the dose</h2><p>Here in Nova Scotia, a lot of outdoor saunas feel humid. Sometimes very humid. The thermometer might say a lower number than a dry Finnish-style sauna, but the session can feel much heavier than the air temperature suggests.</p><p>That made me wonder: if my sauna is 60 or 65°C but humid, does that count as a weaker sauna, or is the heat dose still meaningful?</p><p>The answer seems to be: humidity matters a lot.</p><p>A <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31599875/">2019 PubMed-indexed study</a> compared dry and wet sauna exposure in 10 young healthy women. The dry sauna was about 91°C at 18% relative humidity. The wet sauna was only about 59°C, but at 60.5% relative humidity. Each session used three 15-minute exposures with cooling breaks.</p><p>Despite the wet sauna being roughly 32°C cooler, it caused higher rectal temperature, higher heart rate, and greater physiological strain.</p><p>The mechanism is straightforward. Sweating only cools you if the sweat evaporates. High humidity makes evaporation harder. Add airflow from a fan, and you may also increase convective heat transfer, which can make the same air temperature feel more aggressive.</p><p>So yes, a lower-temperature humid sauna can be a serious heat stimulus.</p><p>The caveat is that the best long-term epidemiology is mostly based on traditional Finnish sauna: dry-ish air, often 80 to 100°C at head level, low-to-moderate humidity, with occasional humidity spikes when water is thrown on rocks. I would not casually claim that 65°C and humid is identical to 90°C and dry for long-term outcomes.</p><p>For acute heat strain, humidity clearly matters. For matching the Finnish mortality data, I would still treat traditional dry sauna as the reference point.</p><h2>What protocol seems most reasonable?</h2><p>For now, it seems like the protocol should be:</p><ol><li>Use a traditional dry sauna if you want the version closest to the strongest cardiovascular data.</li><li>Aim for 4 sessions per week before worrying about 7.</li><li>Build toward 15 to 25 minutes per session, hot enough that your heart rate rises and you are ready to leave by the end.</li><li>If the sauna is humid or has strong airflow, treat it as a higher strain session even if the thermometer reads lower.</li><li>Use infrared or steam as potentially useful heat stress, but do not assume they map perfectly onto the Finnish sauna data.</li><li>Hydrate afterward, replace electrolytes if you sweat heavily, and leave if you feel dizzy, nauseous, faint, confused, or wrong in a way that feels different from normal discomfort.</li></ol><p>That is less clean than saying &quot;20 minutes at X degrees,&quot; but it is probably closer to reality. The useful dose is the heat load your body actually has to deal with.</p><h2>Timing around workouts</h2><p>Rhonda Patrick and others often talk about sauna after exercise, not before.</p><p>Before a workout, sauna can dehydrate you, increase heat strain, and make training quality worse. After a workout, you have already done the main work. The sauna becomes an additional heat adaptation layer.</p><p>There is also some performance evidence here. A <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16877041/">small study of male distance runners</a> found that three weeks of post-exercise sauna bathing produced a worthwhile improvement in endurance performance, probably through increased blood volume. Small study, not definitive, but directionally interesting.</p><p>Based on that, it sounds like the default should be: train first, sauna after, then rehydrate.</p><p>There is also some evidence that cold exposure immediately after strength training could impact hypertrophy. That is a separate rabbit hole, but it matters if sauna and cold plunge are being stacked together after a workout.</p><h2>The male fertility caveat</h2><p>The fertility piece belongs in the article because sperm production is heat-sensitive.</p><p>A <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23411620/">2013 Human Reproduction study</a> found that repeated sauna exposure in 10 healthy men impaired sperm count and motility, with recovery after stopping sauna use. A systematic review of dry sauna bathing also notes a small study showing reversible disruption of male spermatogenesis.</p><p>This is why Johnson&#x27;s testicular cooling recommendation sounds ridiculous and biologically plausible at the same time. In his <a href="https://blueprint.bryanjohnson.com/blogs/news/sauna-protocol">sauna protocol writeup</a>, Johnson claims sauna without cooling hurt his fertility markers, while sauna with testicular cooling coincided with much better markers. That is still self-experimentation, but the heat-risk part is real enough that men actively trying to conceive should be cautious with frequent high-heat sauna.</p><h2>The practical version</h2><p>Using the sauna a few times a week will not cancel out <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/10-things-i-do-to-sleep-better">bad sleep</a>, no exercise, too much alcohol, or metabolic dysfunction. But if the rest of your health stack is moving in the right direction, as I wrote about in my <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/my-simple-diet-that-lost-me-9-pounds-in-30-days">simple diet and exercise reset</a>, sauna looks like one of the more compelling add-ons: cheap, low-tech, time-tested, and backed by a surprisingly strong pile of observational evidence.</p><p>And even if the longevity case ends up being less dramatic than the Finnish cohort data suggests, the fallback version is still pretty good: sit quietly, get off your phone, sweat, and come out calmer than you went in.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[AI-native pods are the startup advantage inside companies]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/ai-native-pods-startup-speed-inside-companies</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 19:45:31 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Brian Armstrong's Coinbase memo points to a bigger shift in org design: small AI-native pods that move with startup speed inside larger companies.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brian Armstrong&#x27;s <a href="https://x.com/brian_armstrong/status/2051616759145185723">Coinbase memo</a> is uncomfortable to read because it is about real people losing jobs. That part matters and should not get flattened into an &quot;AI productivity&quot; talking point.</p><p>But buried inside the layoff announcement is one of the clearer descriptions I&#x27;ve seen of how AI may change company design.</p><p>Armstrong wrote that Coinbase is cutting about 14% of staff, partly because of market conditions, but also because AI has changed what small teams can do. The line that stuck with me was this:</p><blockquote>&quot;Over the past year, I&#x27;ve watched engineers use AI to ship in days what used to take a team weeks. Non-technical teams are now shipping production code and many of our workflows are being automated.&quot;</blockquote><p>Then he gets even more explicit:</p><blockquote>&quot;The future is small, high context teams that can move quickly.&quot;</blockquote><p>And later:</p><blockquote>&quot;We&#x27;ll be concentrating around AI-native talent who can manage fleets of agents to drive outsized impact. We&#x27;ll also be experimenting with reduced pod sizes, including &#x27;one person teams&#x27; with engineers, designers, and product managers all in one role.&quot;</blockquote><p>The obvious story is layoffs. The more interesting story is organizational design.</p><p>Coinbase is describing the startup advantage, but applied internally.</p><p>I&#x27;ve felt a version of this in my own work too. Features that would have taken a team months to scope, design, build, review, and ship one or two years ago can now be moved forward by one person in days. Not always production-ready. Not always without cleanup. But the shape of the work has changed enough that the old timelines already feel strange.</p><h2>The old startup advantage was speed</h2><p>Startups have always had disadvantages.</p><p>They have less money, less brand, fewer distribution channels, weaker recruiting loops, and almost no institutional safety net. Most of the time, incumbents should win.</p><p>The reason startups win anyway is speed.</p><p>A good startup can notice something faster, decide faster, build faster, talk to customers faster, and change direction faster. A big company can have smarter people and still lose because the decision has to travel through too many layers before anything happens.</p><p>That is the basic startup versus incumbent tradeoff. The startup has less leverage, but less drag.</p><p>AI-native pods are the same idea inside the company.</p><p>A small group with high context, good taste, and strong AI leverage can move faster than a much larger group carrying more coordination overhead. A three-person team that works well together may now ship faster than a 15-person team that has to keep everyone aligned, schedule the meeting, resolve ownership, wait for design, wait for product, wait for engineering, then explain the decision upward.</p><p>That was already true in some cases. AI makes it more true.</p><h2>Coordination tax matters more than headcount</h2><p>Armstrong uses the phrase &quot;coordination tax,&quot; which is exactly the right phrase.</p><p>We tend to talk about teams as if more people means more output. Sometimes it does. But in software, adding people also adds communication paths, onboarding cost, meetings, handoffs, review cycles, and ambiguity about who owns what.</p><p>Fred Brooks made the old version of this point in <em>The Mythical Man-Month</em>: &quot;adding manpower to a late software project makes it later.&quot; The reason is not that people are bad. It is that the work is not infinitely divisible. People have to communicate, learn the system, and fit their work into everyone else&#x27;s work.</p><p>AI changes the equation because agents add output without adding the same kind of coordination burden. They still create review burden. They still need direction. They can still make a mess. But they don&#x27;t need standups, 1:1s, performance reviews, onboarding plans, or political context.</p><p>That is why the pod idea matters.</p><p>The unit of work may shift from &quot;a cross-functional team with product, design, engineering, data, and management&quot; to &quot;one or a few high-context people directing a swarm of tools and agents.&quot;</p><p>That is a big change.</p><h2>Small teams are not automatically better</h2><p>There is a lazy version of this argument where every company decides the future is tiny teams, cuts headcount, and declares itself AI-native.</p><p>I don&#x27;t buy that.</p><p>Small teams are faster when they have context, judgment, autonomy, and clear ownership. Without those, they are just understaffed teams with better autocomplete.</p><p>Tomasz Tunguz made a useful related point this week in <a href="https://tomtunguz.com/labor-ai-spend-ratio-eng-team/">When Everyone Is a Key Person in Your Company</a>. He sketches the tradeoff between a 20-person engineering team with light AI usage and a three-person team running a fleet of agents. The three-person team may have much higher throughput, but one resignation is now a 33% loss of the human memory that trains, prompts, validates, and debugs the system.</p><p>His line is worth sitting with:</p><blockquote>&quot;The tradeoff at the heart of AI/labor ratio decisions is not throughput. It is resiliency.&quot;</blockquote><p>That feels right.</p><p>The best small AI pods may be wildly productive. They may also be fragile. If one person holds the product context, the customer context, the agent workflows, and the deployment instincts, you haven&#x27;t removed dependency risk. You&#x27;ve concentrated it.</p><h2>The manager role gets narrower</h2><p>One of the louder parts of the Coinbase memo is the attack on &quot;pure managers.&quot;</p><p>Armstrong wrote:</p><blockquote>&quot;Every leader at Coinbase must also be a strong and active individual contributor. Managers should be like player-coaches, getting their hands dirty alongside their teams.&quot;</blockquote><p>I get why that resonates. Middle management is an easy target, especially in tech, and a lot of companies have built layers that mostly translate, route, and repackage information.</p><p>AI will put pressure on that work. So will smaller teams.</p><p>But I don&#x27;t think the takeaway is &quot;managers are dead.&quot; The better takeaway is that coordination-only roles are harder to justify when coordination itself is being compressed.</p><p>The valuable manager in this world looks less like a status layer and more like a leverage layer. They set direction, make tradeoffs, hold the taste bar, remove ambiguity, and contribute directly when needed. They don&#x27;t exist to keep the machine busy. They make the machine smarter.</p><p>That is a much higher bar.</p><h2>The new advantage is context plus agency</h2><p>The phrase &quot;AI-native talent&quot; can sound vague, but I think it points at something real.</p><p>The valuable person in an AI-native pod is doing more than prompting. Prompting is too narrow. The valuable person can hold the shape of the problem in their head, break it into pieces, use tools aggressively, judge the output, and keep moving without waiting for permission every five minutes.</p><p>That is closer to founder behavior than employee behavior.</p><p>Which is why the startup comparison keeps coming back for me.</p><p>Startups win when a small number of people care enough, know enough, and move fast enough to beat a slower organization. AI gives that same small-group dynamic more leverage inside a company. It lets the company create startup-like cells without pretending the whole company is still a startup.</p><p>That seems like the real promise of AI-native pods.</p><p>Not fewer people for the sake of fewer people. Fewer handoffs. Fewer status layers. Fewer places where work goes to wait.</p><h2>The risk is pretending cuts are the same as redesign</h2><p>The uncomfortable part is that layoffs can be framed as transformation even when nothing has really changed.</p><p>A company can cut 14%, tell the market it is now AI-native, buy a few enterprise AI licenses, and leave the same broken operating system underneath. Same approval chains. Same unclear ownership. Same meetings. Same incentives. Same people waiting for permission.</p><p>That is not an AI-native company. That is a smaller old company.</p><p>The companies that make this work will have to redesign the work, not only the org chart. They will need clearer ownership, better internal tools, better evaluation systems, more trust in small teams, and people who can operate with less instruction.</p><p>They will also need redundancy. Tunguz&#x27;s resiliency point matters. A three-person AI pod can be fast, but if the whole system depends on one person who understands the agents, the customer, the architecture, and the deployment path, you have built a bottleneck with a nicer dashboard.</p><h2>What I&#x27;d watch</h2><p>I don&#x27;t think every company should copy Coinbase. Crypto companies already operate in unusually volatile markets, and Armstrong has always leaned toward intense operating norms.</p><p>But I do think Coinbase is naming something that a lot of teams are already feeling.</p><p>The startup advantage was never only about being small. It was about speed, context, ownership, and willingness to change course. AI makes it possible to apply that advantage in smaller units inside larger companies.</p><p>That may be one of the bigger org design shifts of the next few years.</p><p>A 15-person team will still beat a three-person pod when the work needs redundancy, specialized expertise, compliance, deep review, or broad stakeholder trust.</p><p>But for a lot of software work, the question will get uncomfortable fast:</p><p>Why does this need 15 people?</p><p>If three high-context people plus agents can ship the first version faster, learn faster, and adapt faster, the old team structure has to justify itself.</p><p>That doesn&#x27;t mean the smaller team is always right. It means speed is becoming cheaper.</p><p>And when speed gets cheaper, company design changes.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[People Are Vibe-Coding Their Own Productivity Games]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/people-are-vibe-coding-their-own-productivity-games</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 16:51:48 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[AI coding tools are making personalized productivity software cheap enough to build for one person's brain. That may extend the long tail of niche software.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/2f833fe4fb0415aad92e0c5677db8a60f786baac-1600x900.png?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="People Are Vibe-Coding Their Own Productivity Games cover image" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>I keep seeing people build the same kind of app: not another SaaS, not another AI wrapper, but a weird little productivity game for themselves.</p><p>A to-do list where tasks are called quests. A habit tracker designed specifically to avoid streak shame. A dashboard that turns deep work into XP. A focus app with a pet, a tree, a monster, a fake currency, or some slightly embarrassing reward system that would make no sense to anyone else.</p><p>A year ago, most people would have downloaded <a href="https://habitica.com/">Habitica</a>, <a href="https://finchcare.com/">Finch</a>, <a href="https://www.forestapp.cc/">Forest</a>, <a href="https://www.beeminder.com/">Beeminder</a>, or another mainstream productivity app. Now they can open <a href="https://lovable.dev/">Lovable</a>, <a href="https://replit.com/">Replit</a>, <a href="https://cursor.com/">Cursor</a>, or <a href="https://www.anthropic.com/product/claude-code">Claude Code</a> and make something more personal in an afternoon.</p><p>That sounds like a small shift. I don&#x27;t think it is.</p><p>The interesting part is bigger than gamified productivity. It is the long tail of software getting longer because the cost to build small, strange, niche tools is collapsing.</p><h2>Gamified productivity isn&#x27;t new</h2><p>We&#x27;ve had mainstream versions of this idea for years:</p><ul><li><a href="https://habitica.com/">Habitica</a> turns habits and to-dos into an RPG</li><li><a href="https://www.forestapp.cc/">Forest</a> makes you grow a tree by staying off your phone</li><li><a href="https://finchcare.com/">Finch</a> wraps self-care in a pet you look after</li><li><a href="https://www.beeminder.com/">Beeminder</a> puts a bright red line on your goal and charges you if you fall below it</li></ul><p>These products all try to answer the same question: how do you get yourself to do boring but important things consistently?</p><p>The usual answers are some mix of streaks, points, progress bars, accountability, loss aversion, and identity. Sometimes that works. Sometimes it just gives you a new thing to procrastinate with.</p><p>I don&#x27;t mean that as a dunk on the category. Motivation is hard. Most people don&#x27;t fail at goals because they never heard of a to-do list. They fail because the system stops matching the messy reality of their life.</p><h2>What&#x27;s changed</h2><p>The interesting part is that personalized software has gotten dramatically cheaper to build.</p><p>Lately I&#x27;ve been seeing examples like Lovable-built consistency trackers designed to avoid streak pressure, to-do apps where every task is a quest, all-in-one personal dashboards with tasks and journaling and cost tracking, and systems that generate daily tasks from bigger goals.</p><p>The examples are not all polished. Some are probably fragile. A bunch will be abandoned in a week.</p><p>But they point at something real: these tools are not trying to be the best productivity app for everyone. They are trying to be the right app for one person&#x27;s brain.</p><p>That is a different category.</p><p>For a long time, software mostly had to justify itself as a product. Even niche software still needed some kind of market: indie hackers, dentists, contractors, writers, gamers, accountants, whatever. There had to be enough people with the same problem to make the build worth it.</p><p>AI changes the math. If the build cost drops far enough, the audience can shrink. A market of 10,000 becomes viable. Then 1,000. Then maybe one person, if that person cares enough.</p><p>That is the part I find more interesting than the RPG skin. Productivity games are just an early visible example because productivity is personal, repetitive, and emotional. It is exactly the kind of thing where a tiny design choice can make the difference between &quot;I use this every day&quot; and &quot;I ignore it after Tuesday.&quot;</p><h2>Why the personalized versions might work better</h2><p>Most productivity advice still assumes the problem is discipline. I don&#x27;t think that&#x27;s usually the whole story. The problem is often mismatch: the system doesn&#x27;t fit the person.</p><p>That is basically James Clear&#x27;s systems point in <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">Atomic Habits</a>: &quot;You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.&quot; If the system keeps failing, the answer is not always to yell at yourself harder. Sometimes the system is asking you to behave like a cleaner, more consistent person than you are on a normal Tuesday afternoon.</p><p>Another line from <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">my notes on Atomic Habits</a> fits the custom software angle too: &quot;Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.&quot; That&#x27;s useful here because a personalized system can reinforce identity in a way a generic to-do list usually can&#x27;t.</p><p>A generic task app mostly tracks obligations. A weird personal system can make you feel like the kind of person who never misses a writing session, earns deep work XP, protects momentum, or refuses to let the little dashboard die.</p><p>That sounds silly. But silly is underrated if it gets the behavior.</p><p><a href="https://www.apa.org/research-practice/conduct-research/self-determination-theory">Self-Determination Theory</a> gives a cleaner framework for why this might work. People tend to do better when a system supports autonomy, competence, and relatedness.</p><p>Mainstream apps are usually good at competence. You completed the habit. You kept the streak. You leveled up.</p><p>Custom systems can also optimize for autonomy because you get to decide the rules. Sometimes they create a bit of relatedness too, whether that&#x27;s a friend checking your score, a shared challenge, or just the feeling that the system was built in your own language.</p><p>That last part matters more than most productivity software people admit. The language of a system changes how it feels to use. &quot;Write 500 words&quot; and &quot;finish today&#x27;s dispatch&quot; are functionally similar, but they don&#x27;t hit the same part of the brain.</p><h2>The part mainstream apps still get right</h2><p>I don&#x27;t want to oversell the custom side. The mainstream apps have durable advantages.</p><p>Habitica gives you an RPG wrapper out of the box. Forest gives you a dead-simple focus mechanic with a strong visual consequence. Finch makes self-care feel gentle instead of punitive. Beeminder is still the most honest product in the category. It basically says: here&#x27;s the line, stay above it, or pay.</p><p>That works because it leans into loss aversion instead of cute motivation theater. People hate losing more than they enjoy winning.</p><p>The custom systems are not replacing these apps so much as borrowing from them. They take the same ingredients and rearrange them around one person&#x27;s psychology.</p><p>That is where the broader software point comes back in. Mature products are good because they have survived millions of interactions. They have defaults, edge cases, onboarding, support, polish, and trust. Personal tools are good for the opposite reason: they can ignore almost everyone else&#x27;s needs.</p><p>The old software tradeoff was basically polish versus fit. AI makes it easier to choose fit, at least for small tools.</p><h2>Why AI-built systems are interesting</h2><p><a href="https://www.behaviormodel.org/">BJ Fogg&#x27;s behavior model</a> says behavior happens when motivation, ability, and a prompt show up at the same time.</p><p>Most gamified apps obsess over motivation. The better ones also reduce friction and create clearer prompts.</p><p>That&#x27;s another reason these custom AI-built systems are interesting. The reward loop can be personal, and the workflow can be personal too.</p><p>Maybe your app only has three buttons. Maybe it texts you at the right time. Maybe it turns one recurring task into a daily quest and hides everything else. Maybe it only shows the metric that actually gets you to act.</p><p>That can matter more than adding badges.</p><p>We&#x27;re moving from software as a finished product to software as a personal environment. That sounds a little grand, but I think it&#x27;s the right direction. If AI makes it easy to build software for an audience of one, productivity is one of the first obvious categories where that matters.</p><p>Because it&#x27;s repetitive. Because it&#x27;s emotional. Because the difference between &quot;works for me&quot; and &quot;doesn&#x27;t work for me&quot; is often surprisingly small.</p><h2>Where this breaks</h2><p>I don&#x27;t think the bullish version of this trend is right. Not every weird custom system is secretly the future. A lot of them will fail for the same reasons the mainstream ones fail.</p><h3>1. People optimize for the game instead of the work</h3><p>This is the oldest failure mode. You stop asking, &quot;Did I do something meaningful?&quot; and start asking, &quot;How do I keep the streak alive?&quot;</p><p>That&#x27;s how you end up farming XP instead of producing output.</p><p>There&#x27;s a line from <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">my Atomic Habits notes</a> that fits here too: &quot;The purpose of setting goals is to win the game. The purpose of building systems is to continue playing the game.&quot; A productivity game works only if it keeps you in the work. If it becomes the work, the game won.</p><h3>2. Novelty wears off</h3><p>A lot of these systems work for a week because building them was motivating. Then the emotion fades, and now you have a custom app to ignore instead of a normal app to ignore.</p><p>That&#x27;s still useful in one sense. You learned something about what doesn&#x27;t work for you. But it is not the same as building a durable system.</p><h3>3. The system becomes another project</h3><p>This is especially true if you like building things. It is very easy to spend six hours tuning your motivation machine to avoid doing the two hours of work it was supposed to help with.</p><p>I&#x27;ve done enough workflow tinkering at this point to know that risk is real.</p><h3>4. Personalized can turn fragile fast</h3><p>Mainstream apps survive because they&#x27;ve been refined across millions of interactions. Your one-off app hasn&#x27;t.</p><p>If the logic is too clever, or the rewards are too arbitrary, or the UI is slightly annoying, you&#x27;ll abandon it because there&#x27;s no social proof or product momentum holding it up.</p><h3>5. It can treat distraction as a design problem when it&#x27;s sometimes an emotional one</h3><p>That part reminded me of a line from <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/indistractable-nir-eyal">my notes on Indistractable</a>: &quot;Distraction is not about your environment or technology, it&#x27;s about escaping discomfort.&quot;</p><p>That&#x27;s a useful warning. Sometimes the right move is a better interface. Sometimes the right move is admitting you&#x27;re avoiding a hard thing and no amount of XP will fix that.</p><h2>The bigger shift: the long tail of software</h2><p>The part I think is actually new is this: building personal software used to be too expensive.</p><p>You had to use the mass-market tool, cobble together a Notion template, or learn enough code to build your own thing properly. Most people stopped at the template stage because the jump from &quot;I have a weird workflow&quot; to &quot;I can build custom software for it&quot; was too big.</p><p>Now that jump is smaller.</p><p>That changes the design space. You can build something narrow, irrational, slightly cringe, and specific enough that no venture-backed company would ever prioritize it.</p><p>That matters because motivation is weirdly personal. Some people respond to streaks. Some hate them. Some need public accountability. Some need a private scoreboard. Some need a financial penalty. Some apparently need a cute bird.</p><p>The right answer is probably not one perfect productivity app. It is a much larger market of tiny systems tuned to specific personalities.</p><p>This is the long tail argument. When distribution got cheaper, we got long-tail media: blogs, newsletters, YouTube channels, podcasts, niche communities. When payments and infrastructure got cheaper, we got long-tail SaaS: tiny products for tiny markets that never would have justified a traditional software company.</p><p>Now the build cost is dropping again. That should extend the long tail further.</p><p>Some of the new software will still become companies. Some will be internal tools. Some will be personal toys. Some will be a folder of half-working experiments that only make sense to the person who built them.</p><p>I don&#x27;t think that makes them less interesting. It might make them more interesting, because the constraint changes from &quot;Can this support a company?&quot; to &quot;Can this make one person&#x27;s life noticeably better?&quot;</p><p>That is a much lower bar, but it is also a much larger surface area.</p><h2>What I&#x27;d actually steal from this trend</h2><p>I would not steal the RPG skin by default. I would not start with badges or fake coins either.</p><p>The parts worth stealing are simpler.</p><h3>1. Identity</h3><p>The best systems don&#x27;t just track tasks. They reinforce a self-image.</p><p>That&#x27;s why &quot;quests&quot; sometimes works better than &quot;tasks,&quot; even though it is objectively corny. It changes the frame from obligation to progress.</p><h3>2. Stakes</h3><p>The system should create a consequence for drift. That doesn&#x27;t have to be money like Beeminder, but it probably needs to feel like something.</p><p>A consequence can be social, visual, financial, or just emotional. The point is that the system should make drift visible enough that you notice it before the habit quietly dies.</p><h3>3. Less friction</h3><p>The system should reduce friction, not add it. If the game makes the work heavier, it&#x27;s broken. If it makes starting easier, it might actually matter.</p><p>There&#x27;s probably a fourth thing too: challenge. In <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/flow-mihaly-csikszentmihalyi">my notes on Flow</a>, the big idea is that satisfying work tends to sit in the zone where challenge and skill are matched. That&#x27;s part of what some of these systems are trying to do in a crude way. They make work feel legible, winnable, and alive again.</p><h2>My current take</h2><p>I don&#x27;t think people are vibe-coding productivity games because they suddenly want more fun. I think they&#x27;re doing it because they&#x27;re tired of pretending generic tools are neutral.</p><p>Every productivity system contains a theory of motivation. Most apps force you to live inside theirs. AI makes it cheaper to build one around your own.</p><p>That&#x27;s the real shift. Personalized motivation software is now cheap enough to exist.</p><p>Some of it will be gimmicky. Some of it will be procrastination in disguise. Some of it will quietly work better than the polished apps because it was made for a single messy human instead of a broad market segment.</p><p>That&#x27;s the category I&#x27;d watch. Not because every vibe-coded productivity game should become a startup, but because it is an early sign of where software goes when the build cost keeps falling.</p><p>More niche. More personal. Less polished sometimes, but more fitted to the person using it.</p><p>If the app only needs to work for one brain, the bar is totally different.</p><h2>FAQ</h2><h3>Are people actually building custom productivity apps with AI?</h3><p>Yes. I found multiple recent public examples of people using tools like Lovable and other AI coding workflows to build personal consistency trackers, quest-based to-do apps, and custom dashboards for habits, focus, and execution.</p><h3>Why would a custom app work better than Habitica or Todoist?</h3><p>Sometimes it won&#x27;t. But a custom app can fit one person&#x27;s motivations more closely, whether that&#x27;s identity, accountability, low-friction tracking, or avoiding mechanics like streak shame.</p><h3>What&#x27;s the biggest risk with productivity games?</h3><p>The biggest risk is optimizing for the game instead of the work. If you&#x27;re farming points, maintaining streaks, or polishing the app more than doing the task, the system is probably backfiring.</p><h3>Is this a real startup category?</h3><p>Maybe, but I think the more interesting shift is software for an audience of one. AI makes it cheap to build weird personal tools that don&#x27;t need mass-market appeal to be valuable. Some of those tools may become companies, but many will just extend the long tail of niche software.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Digital Gravity: How Small Founders Build Inescapable Brands with AI]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/digital-gravity</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2026 20:02:07 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Digital gravity is how small founders create enough useful surface area that buyers, mentions, links, and inbound leads start orbiting them.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/97610920ff19cbb47ccf41d017ec1ce144717244-2500x1000.png?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Digital Gravity: How Small Founders Build Inescapable Brands with AI cover image" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>There&#x27;s a concept <a href="https://x.com/codyschneider">Cody Schneider</a> talks about called <a href="https://x.com/codyschneider/status/2046635156815876490?s=20">digital gravity</a>. It resonated with me because it described a phenomenon I&#x27;d never been able to name, but knew the best companies did.</p><p>The idea is simple: gravity is a function of mass. The more mass you have, the more things orbit you. Prospects, backlinks, mentions, inbound leads. Build enough digital mass and people start showing up instead of you having to chase them.</p><p>You&#x27;ve experienced this as a buyer without realizing it.</p><p>There are companies and creators that show up everywhere you look. You see their LinkedIn post in the morning, their YouTube video in the afternoon, their ad while you&#x27;re reading something unrelated. A colleague drops their link in Slack. You search a problem you have and they&#x27;re the first result. By the time someone asks &quot;have you tried X?&quot; you already feel behind for not using it.</p><p>Cody himself is a good example. So are a lot of small creators and founder-led businesses that feel bigger than they are because they keep appearing in the right places. Not because they have a massive team. Because they have built enough surface area that the internet keeps reminding you they exist.</p><p>That&#x27;s digital gravity. It&#x27;s not a funnel. It&#x27;s an orbit.</p><p>The sales call changes completely. Instead of &quot;who are you guys,&quot; you get &quot;yeah, I&#x27;ve been following you for a while.&quot; That shift is worth more than any ad budget you&#x27;ll ever spend.</p><h2>Most Companies Have Zero Digital Presence</h2><p>Here&#x27;s what&#x27;s strange: this isn&#x27;t correlated with company size.</p><p>Publicly traded company. 500 employees. 20 years in business. Google them and there&#x27;s almost nothing. The internet doesn&#x27;t know your offline reputation. It only knows your footprint.</p><p>I know this personally. <a href="https://seotakeoff.com">SEOTakeoff</a> has basically zero digital gravity right now. We have a real product, real customers, a real use case, and almost no digital mass. I&#x27;ve done pieces of the work, like <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/saas-directory-submission-guide">submitting it to SaaS directories</a>, but not enough for the market to feel surrounded by it. If someone searches the problem we solve, we&#x27;re not there. If they scroll LinkedIn, we don&#x27;t show up. The orbit is empty.</p><p>That&#x27;s the honest starting point for most founder-led SaaS companies.</p><h2>Cody&#x27;s Framework: Build in Layers</h2><p>Cody breaks digital mass into three layers:</p><p><strong>Layer 1 is brand.</strong> Teach the internet who you are and why you exist. Search engines, social platforms, everywhere. You&#x27;re training robots and humans at the same time.</p><p><strong>Layer 2 is product.</strong> Answer every question your buyer has about what you do. Text, video, audio. Different people consume differently, so you need more than one format.</p><p><strong>Layer 3 is industry.</strong> Answer the high-level questions that aren&#x27;t directly about your product but are about your space. This is where you pull in people who don&#x27;t know they need you yet.</p><p>The old model for building real mass was a 10-person content team. The new model is one person with an agent stack.</p><h2>The Founder&#x27;s Problem: You Can&#x27;t Build Mass Everywhere</h2><p>Here&#x27;s what Cody doesn&#x27;t fully address, because he doesn&#x27;t have to.</p><p>Cody has a large audience, a team, and years of compounding content behind him. When he says you can take one insight and run it through an agent that turns it into a lot of different content assets, that&#x27;s true, and it works. But if you&#x27;re a founder with a real job to do, you still have a constraint: you can&#x27;t build mass across every surface for every possible buyer.</p><p>The constraint isn&#x27;t compute or content volume. AI agents mostly solve that. The constraint is targeting.</p><p>Here&#x27;s the thing about gravity: it works at different scales. The earth has enough mass to hold the moon. The sun has enough mass to hold the earth. But you don&#x27;t need to be the sun. You just need to be bigger than what you&#x27;re trying to pull.</p><p>For a small founder, the play isn&#x27;t to build digital gravity for everyone. It&#x27;s to build concentrated gravity for a specific subset: the exact buyers you need, on the exact surfaces they use.</p><p>A niche orbit is still an orbit.</p><h2>What This Looks Like in Practice</h2><p>Pick your ICP precisely. Not &quot;founders.&quot; Try &quot;founder-led B2B SaaS companies with 1-10 employees who are doing their own marketing and frustrated that SEO feels like a black box.&quot;</p><p>Then map two or three surfaces where those people actually spend time. For most B2B SaaS founders: X, LinkedIn, and Google. That&#x27;s it. Not YouTube, not TikTok, not podcasts yet.</p><p>Now build mass on those surfaces, in the three layers, for that one person.</p><p>The agent stack Cody describes actually works here. You record a 10-minute video or write a quick thought. An <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/memory-and-task-systems-giving-your-ai-agent-a-brain">AI agent with memory and task systems</a> transcribes it, extracts the insight, writes the LinkedIn version, the tweet thread, and the blog post. Scheduled and out by tomorrow.</p><p>Do that three times a week. In six months you have 400+ pieces of content across the two or three surfaces your buyer actually uses. Your competitors have a website they updated last year.</p><p>When someone in your ICP searches the problem you solve, you&#x27;re there. When they scroll LinkedIn, you&#x27;re there. When their colleague asks who&#x27;s good at this, someone drops your link.</p><p>That&#x27;s digital gravity at founder scale.</p><h2>Why This Matters More Than It Did Two Years Ago</h2><p>The old excuse was time. Content at volume required either a team or a huge personal time investment. Most founders couldn&#x27;t justify it.</p><p>That excuse is gone.</p><p>One founder with a clear point of view and an agent stack running in the background can now produce the same content volume that used to require a marketing hire. The infrastructure cost is low. The time cost is low. The only real input is the original thinking: the insight, the experience, the perspective. That&#x27;s also why <a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/the-skills-that-actually-matter-in-the-age-of-ai">the skills that matter in the age of AI</a> are less about prompting tricks and more about taste, judgment, and distribution.</p><p>That part is still yours. The amplification is automated.</p><p>Build the mass first. Concentrate it on the right surfaces for the right buyer. Everything else gets easier as the mass compounds: the inbound leads, the &quot;I&#x27;ve been following you&quot; sales calls, the backlinks, the word of mouth.</p><p>Gravity isn&#x27;t a campaign. It&#x27;s what you build when you show up consistently in the right places for long enough.</p><p>Hat tip to <a href="https://x.com/codyschneider">Cody Schneider</a> for the digital gravity framework. <a href="https://x.com/codyschneider/status/2046635156815876490?s=20">Original thread here.</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The SaaS Directory Submission Guide That Doesn't Charge You $300]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/saas-directory-submission-guide</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 14:05:42 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Directory submissions aren't dead — they're just easy to do badly. Here's the short list of directories that actually matter, what to prepare, and why most founders do this wrong.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I spent a few hours recently submitting SEOTakeoff to directories I&#x27;d been putting off for months. The experience was equal parts tedious and surprisingly effective — and it clarified something I&#x27;d been fuzzy on.</p><p>Directory submissions aren&#x27;t dead. They&#x27;re just easy to do badly.</p><p>Here&#x27;s what I learned, including which directories actually matter, what you need ready before you start, and why I think most SaaS founders do this completely wrong.</p><h2>Why Are People Charging $300 for This?</h2><p>If you search &quot;submit SaaS to directories,&quot; you&#x27;ll find services like ListingBot, StartupSubmit, and others charging $250–$400 to submit your product to ~250 sites. The pitch is that it&#x27;s too tedious to do manually.</p><p>They&#x27;re not wrong that it&#x27;s tedious. But the math doesn&#x27;t work.</p><p>A lot of those 250+ sites are general web directories with DR20 or lower. They&#x27;ll cost you an hour of submission work if you did them manually, and the backlinks are near-worthless. You&#x27;re basically paying someone to create noise.</p><p>What actually matters is a much shorter list — maybe 40–60 directories with real DR (70+) and real traffic. You can knock those out manually in a couple of focused sessions. It&#x27;s the kind of work that doesn&#x27;t feel like progress while you&#x27;re doing it, then quietly compounds for months.</p><h2>What You&#x27;re Actually Getting</h2><p>Before we get into the list, it helps to understand what you&#x27;re getting from directory submissions.</p><p><strong>Backlinks.</strong> The SEO case is real. Sites like G2 (DR91), AlternativeTo (DR80), and StackShare (DR80) pass genuine link equity. If you submit to 40 of these, you&#x27;re adding 40+ referring domains — most of them high-authority — to your backlink profile. That&#x27;s not nothing.</p><p><strong>Referral traffic.</strong> AlternativeTo is legitimate discovery. If someone&#x27;s searching for alternatives to your competitor, they&#x27;re on buying intent. G2 gets real commercial search traffic. ProductHunt is a launch mechanism. These aren&#x27;t just backlink farms.</p><p><strong>Indexation signals.</strong> A cluster of new referring domains in a short window can accelerate Google&#x27;s crawl of your site. If you&#x27;ve made recent content improvements (like the big SEO audit I just ran), directory submissions can speed up how fast those changes register.</p><p><strong>Long-tail discovery.</strong> A lot of niche directories don&#x27;t have massive traffic, but they do rank in Google for &quot;&lt;your category&gt; tools&quot; searches. If you show up on 30 of those pages, that&#x27;s 30 more places your product can get found.</p><h2>The Directories Worth Your Time (DR 60+)</h2><p>Here&#x27;s the core list I&#x27;d prioritize. These aren&#x27;t all of them — there are 80+ free submissions out there — but these give you the best ROI per hour of work.</p><ul><li><strong>----------- (DR -----) — -------</strong></li><li><a href="https://www.g2.com"><strong>G2</strong></a> (DR 91) — High-value backlink + commercial traffic</li><li><a href="https://alternativeto.net"><strong>AlternativeTo</strong></a> (DR 80) — Strong for &quot;alternatives to X&quot; searches</li><li><a href="https://stackshare.io"><strong>StackShare</strong></a> (DR 80) — Good for technical audience</li><li><a href="https://www.saashub.com"><strong>SaaSHub</strong></a> (DR 74) — Specific to software, niche-relevant</li><li><a href="https://www.capterra.com"><strong>Capterra</strong></a> (DR 85) — G2 competitor, similar value</li><li><a href="https://www.getapp.com"><strong>GetApp</strong></a> (DR 83) — Same family as Capterra</li><li><a href="https://www.softwareadvice.com"><strong>Software Advice</strong></a> (DR 82) — Also Capterra family</li><li><a href="https://www.producthunt.com"><strong>ProductHunt</strong></a> (DR 91) — Mostly for launch bump, some ongoing</li><li><a href="https://betalist.com"><strong>BetaList</strong></a> (DR 65) — Pre-launch/early-stage focus</li><li><a href="https://www.indiehackers.com"><strong>Indie Hackers</strong></a> (DR 77) — Good for builder audience</li><li><a href="https://wellfound.com"><strong>Wellfound</strong></a> (DR 79) — Requires free account</li><li><a href="https://www.crunchbase.com"><strong>Crunchbase</strong></a> (DR 86) — Keep profile updated</li><li><a href="https://www.f6s.com"><strong>F6S</strong></a> (DR 69) — Less sexy, DR is real</li><li><a href="https://appsumo.com"><strong>AppSumo Marketplace</strong></a> (DR 80) — If you want to do a deal later, list now</li></ul><p>Below DR60, the value drops fast. I&#x27;d still submit to SaaSHub and a few AI-specific directories (There&#x27;s An AI For That, AI Tool Report) because of topical relevance, but I wouldn&#x27;t agonize over the DR30 general web directories.</p><h2>What to Prepare Before You Start</h2><p>The biggest time sink in directory submissions isn&#x27;t the submissions themselves — it&#x27;s scrambling to find information for each form. Get this ready in a doc before you open your first submission page.</p><p><strong>The basics:</strong></p><ul><li>Product name and tagline (keep tagline to ~10 words)</li><li>Short description (50 words)</li><li>Medium description (100 words)</li><li>Long description (200 words)</li><li>Website URL</li><li>Category (pick your primary one: &quot;SEO tools,&quot; &quot;AI writing,&quot; etc.)</li><li>Pricing model (free/freemium/paid, starting price)</li><li>Founded date</li><li>Founder name + LinkedIn</li><li>Logo (PNG, ideally 512x512 and 1024x1024)</li><li>Screenshots (3-5, annotated is better than raw)</li><li>Twitter/X and LinkedIn URLs</li></ul><p><strong>Commonly missed:</strong></p><ul><li>Your Ahrefs or similar domain metrics (some directories ask for traffic estimates — just say &quot;N/A&quot; or leave blank if you&#x27;re early)</li><li>A 280-character &quot;elevator pitch&quot; version of your description</li><li>Video URL (optional on most platforms, but ProductHunt and G2 push hard for it)</li></ul><p>If you have all of this in a Google Doc before you start, each submission drops from 20 minutes to 5. That&#x27;s the difference between finishing your priority list in one session vs. spreading it across a week.</p><h2>The Actual Process</h2><p>Here&#x27;s how I approach a directory submission session:</p><ol><li><strong>Open a tracking sheet.</strong> I use a simple Google Sheet: Directory | DR | Status | Submitted Date | Live Date | Notes. Having this visible makes it feel like progress and prevents duplicating work.</li><li><strong>Start with the highest-DR directories.</strong> Do G2, Capterra, AlternativeTo, StackShare in session one. These take longer (G2 especially walks you through a full product setup) but they&#x27;re where the value is concentrated.</li><li><strong>Batch the mid-tier ones.</strong> SaaSHub, BetaList, F6S, and similar directories are quick — often 5-10 minutes each. Set aside an hour and knock out 8-10 at once.</li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t batch the big ones with the small ones.</strong> G2 alone took me 25-30 minutes for a complete profile. If you mix it with quick submissions, you&#x27;ll lose momentum.</li><li><strong>Screenshot your confirmation emails.</strong> Some directories have slow review processes. If your listing doesn&#x27;t appear in 4-6 weeks, you&#x27;ll want evidence you submitted.</li></ol><h2>What to Expect (Honestly)</h2><p>Results here are delayed and not always attributable. That&#x27;s just the nature of it.</p><p>In the short term (1-4 weeks): new referring domains will appear in your Ahrefs/SEOTakeoff backlink report as directories index your submission. This is visible and satisfying.</p><p>In the medium term (4-12 weeks): if you submit to 40+ quality directories, you&#x27;ll see a lift in Domain Rating. In the Antforms directory submissions case study (which covers a form builder that did this systematically), they documented DR moving from the mid-20s to 40+ over a few months from directory submissions alone.</p><p>You won&#x27;t see ranking improvements directly attributable to directory backlinks — that&#x27;s not how it works. But the increased domain authority creates a rising tide for all your content. Pages that were on page 2 start showing up on page 1. That&#x27;s the compounding effect people are talking about when they say SEO takes time.</p><p>One thing to watch: some directories list you quickly but use nofollow links, or only pass link equity to their own category page rather than your listing. G2 passes dofollow from your product page. AlternativeTo does too. Check each one if you care about the specific link mechanics.</p><h2>Tools and Resources</h2><p>A few things that made this easier:</p><ul><li><a href="https://antforms.com/blog/sass-free-directories-submission-80-plus-list-2026">{{BOLD:Antforms &quot;80+ SASS-Free Directories&quot; list</a>}} (published March 2026) — the most current comprehensive list I&#x27;ve found. Includes DR scores and direct submission links. Save yourself the research time and start here.</li><li><a href="https://seotakeoff.com">{{BOLD:SEOTakeoff rank tracker</a>}} — I track my own domain&#x27;s keyword positions through SEOTakeoff, so I can see what (if anything) moves after a round of directory submissions. You want some kind of baseline so you can attribute changes properly. (Disclaimer: I built SEOTakeoff.)</li><li>A simple <strong>Google Sheet</strong> for tracking submission status. Nothing fancy, just: directory name, status, date submitted.</li></ul><h2>The Bottom Line</h2><p>Directory submissions are a one-time effort with long-tail compounding returns. You do the work once, and the backlinks and discovery listings stay up indefinitely. Services that charge $300 to do this for you aren&#x27;t doing anything you can&#x27;t do manually in 3-4 focused hours — they&#x27;re just doing it at scale, and a lot of that scale is noise.</p><p>Pick your top 40 by DR. Get your assets ready in advance. Work through it systematically. Then leave it alone and let the compounding happen.</p><p>It&#x27;s not glamorous SEO work. But it&#x27;s the kind that quietly accumulates while you&#x27;re focused on everything else.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Memory & Task Systems: Giving Your AI Agent a Brain]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/memory-and-task-systems-giving-your-ai-agent-a-brain</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 20:00:18 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Context windows are finite and sessions don't persist. Here's the three-tier memory system I built to make my AI agent actually learn over time.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every morning, my AI agent Alfred wakes up with amnesia.</p><p>Not total amnesia. He remembers who he is, what he&#x27;s doing, what happened yesterday. But he doesn&#x27;t wake up knowing those things naturally. He has to read about them first.</p><p>That&#x27;s the fundamental problem with AI agents: <strong>context windows are finite, and sessions don&#x27;t persist.</strong></p><p>When you close ChatGPT and reopen it, you get a fresh conversation. When Alfred restarts for an update or a crash recovery, he comes back with an empty context window. Everything he &quot;knew&quot; from our last conversation? Gone.</p><p>So the first real problem you solve when building an always-on AI agent isn&#x27;t picking the right model or connecting the right tools. It&#x27;s giving it a memory system.</p><p>I didn&#x27;t build this from scratch. The foundation comes from <a href="https://openclaw.ai">OpenClaw</a>, the agent framework Alfred runs on. OpenClaw provides the runtime, the memory tools, and the workspace conventions. But the memory <em>architecture</em> — how files are structured, what gets stored where, how things compound — that&#x27;s the part I had to figure out by doing it badly for a few weeks first and learning from others.</p><p>If you want your agent to get better over time, to actually learn from every interaction and remember your preferences and track what&#x27;s working, you need to write things down.</p><p>The rule: <strong>Text &gt; Brain.</strong> If you want the agent to remember something, put it in a file.</p><h2>The Three-Tier Memory System</h2><p>After a month of running Alfred 24/7, here&#x27;s what we built. Three layers, each serving a different purpose.</p><p><strong>Layer 1: CORE.md + CURRENT.md — The Executive Summary</strong></p><p>I originally had a single MEMORY.md file, but it kept growing until it was 300+ lines and burning context on things that rarely changed. So I split it.</p><p><strong>CORE.md</strong> is permanent facts that almost never change: infrastructure, hard rules, tech stack, patterns. Under 50 lines. Things like &quot;workspace lives at ~/clawd, pushes to GitHub&quot; and &quot;never send external messages without approval.&quot;</p><p><strong>CURRENT.md</strong> is the active state: what projects are in flight, what shipped recently, what&#x27;s next. Updated weekly, kept under 100 lines.</p><p>Example from my actual CORE.md:</p><pre><code class="language-text">Infrastructure
Workspace: ~/clawd/ (linked with Github)
Coding: ~/Coding/{project}/ (each project has .claude/tasks.md)
Primary models: Opus 4.6 (main), Codex 5.3 (coding), Haiku 4.5 (crons)
Gateway: MacBook Air M1, local OpenClaw
Crons: 23 jobs, all 6-part format
Hard Rules
Nothing external without approval (draft, don&#39;t send)
trash &gt; rm
Security changes need explicit approval</code></pre><p>And from CURRENT.md:</p><pre><code class="language-text">SEOTakeoff (PRIMARY)
Location: ~/Coding/seo-saas-platform/
Pricing: $9 first month → $69/mo locked
Current MRR: $97 (2 customers)
Shipped Mar 4: Ahrefs health score 7 → 100</code></pre><p>When Alfred starts a new session, he reads both files. CORE.md gives him the rules of the world. CURRENT.md tells him what&#x27;s happening in it.</p><p><strong>Layer 2: Daily Notes — The Timeline</strong></p><p>Every day gets a file: `memory/2026-03-05.md`, `memory/2026-03-04.md`, etc.</p><p>These are raw, chronological logs of what happened. Conversations we had, decisions made, things that we learned, tasks completed and mistakes I want him to remember.</p><p>A real daily note from this week:</p><pre><code class="language-text">Blog Publishing (10:47 AST)
Hero images: Dev tool series uses Pillow compositing with official logos (not AI gen)
Published Stripe post to Sanity, live at grahammann.net
Distribution cadence: 10 published posts = 3-4 weeks of content
Lesson Learned: Check Sanity Before Publishing (11:03 AST)
Mistake: Ran import script without checking if post already existed
Rule: Always query Sanity for existing posts before import
Added pre-publish check to PUBLISHING-WORKFLOW.md</code></pre><p>Alfred writes to today&#x27;s daily note in real time. When we have an important conversation in the evening, he doesn&#x27;t wait for the nightly batch job. He writes key points down <em>immediately</em>.</p><p>Why? Because the compound nightly review runs in a separate session. If he doesn&#x27;t write it down during our conversation, it might not get captured.</p><p><strong>Learned that the hard way.</strong> We had a detailed evening recap one night, and the batch review missed it entirely. Now the rule is: write it down when it happens.</p><p><strong>Layer 3: Knowledge Graph — The Structured Brain</strong></p><p>This is the layer I wish I&#x27;d built first.</p><p>The knowledge graph lives in `life/` and follows the PARA structure: Projects, Areas, Resources, Archives. The structure is inspired by <a href="https://fortelabs.com/blog/para/">Tiago Forte&#x27;s PARA method</a> and adapted from <a href="https://nateliason.com">Nat Eliason&#x27;s personal knowledge management approach</a> for use with an AI agent instead of a human note-taking system.</p><p>Each entity gets a directory with two files:</p><ul><li>`summary.md` — Quick human-readable context</li><li>`items.json` — Atomic facts with metadata</li></ul><p>Example: `life/projects/seotakeoff/`</p><p>The summary.md gives Alfred quick context when he needs it. The items.json contains granular facts like:</p><pre><code class="language-json">{
&quot;id&quot;: &quot;seotakeoff-001&quot;,
&quot;fact&quot;: &quot;SEOTakeoff is an AI-powered SEO content generation platform at seotakeoff.com&quot;,
&quot;category&quot;: &quot;context&quot;,
&quot;timestamp&quot;: &quot;2026-01-09&quot;,
&quot;status&quot;: &quot;active&quot;,
&quot;supersededBy&quot;: null,
&quot;lastAccessed&quot;: &quot;2026-02-07&quot;,
&quot;accessCount&quot;: 16
}</code></pre><p>When a fact changes, we don&#x27;t delete the old one. We mark it `status: &quot;superseded&quot;` and link it to the new fact. That way Alfred knows the history — not just what&#x27;s true now, but what we believed before and why it changed.</p><p>The schema tracks decay. Facts that aren&#x27;t accessed regularly lose importance over time. High-importance facts that get referenced often stay fresh. It&#x27;s a living memory, not an append-only log.</p><p>The structure looks like this:</p><pre><code class="language-text">life/
├── index.md (master entity list)
├── projects/
│   ├── seotakeoff/
│   ├── grahams-blog/
│   ├── sensei/
│   ├── twitter-growth/
│   ├── meta-ads/
│   └── building/
├── areas/
│   ├── people/
│   │   ├── sam/
│   │   ├── bryan/
│   │   ├── elias/
│   │   └── fred/
│   ├── health-fitness/
│   └── content-creation/
├── resources/
│   ├── seo-knowledge/
│   ├── marketing-tactics/
│   ├── ai-tools/
│   └── x-insights/
└── archives/</code></pre><p>When Alfred needs context on a person, a project, or a topic, he loads the summary first. Only opens items.json if he needs granular detail.</p><h2>Vector Search: Remembering by Meaning</h2><p>The three tiers give us structure. But structure alone isn&#x27;t enough.</p><p>Let&#x27;s say I mentioned a broken link problem on SEOTakeoff three weeks ago. Alfred&#x27;s not going to grep through 21 daily note files to find it. And even if he did, what if I said &quot;LLM hallucinating external URLs&quot; then and &quot;broken links&quot; now? Text search fails.</p><p>That&#x27;s why I added vector search via <a href="https://lancedb.github.io/lancedb/"><strong>LanceDB</strong></a>.</p><p>OpenClaw has this built in — every memory gets embedded using OpenAI&#x27;s text-embedding-3-small model. When Alfred needs to remember something, he doesn&#x27;t just search for keywords. He searches by <em>meaning</em>.</p><p>I say &quot;what was that issue with bad URLs on the site?&quot; and the vector search pulls up the content pipeline hallucination problem, even though I never said &quot;hallucination&quot; or &quot;pipeline&quot; in my question.</p><p>Semantic memory, persistent across sessions, searchable by meaning instead of just recency.</p><p>Pair this with full-text search for when you know exactly what you&#x27;re looking for, and you&#x27;ve got both precision and fuzzy recall covered. I use a local indexer that watches my knowledge graph, daily notes, and workspace files. Between keyword search and semantic search, Alfred can find almost anything we&#x27;ve discussed.</p><h2>The Compound Nightly Review</h2><p>All these memory files don&#x27;t update themselves.</p><p>Every night at 10:30pm, a cron job kicks off. A separate session (Alfred in batch mode) reviews everything that happened during the day.</p><p>He reads all the Telegram conversations from the main session, all cron job outputs (lead scans, bookmark processing, error monitoring), and the current daily note.</p><p>Then he:</p><ul><li>Extracts key learnings</li><li>Updates CURRENT.md if priorities shifted</li><li>Updates the knowledge graph if facts changed</li><li>Writes a summary to the daily note</li></ul><p>It runs on Sonnet, not Opus. Cheaper, still smart enough for synthesis work.</p><p>This is inspired by <a href="https://maxfrenzel.medium.com/the-daily-ai-enabled-review-system-that-changed-how-i-work-51944a948caf">Max Frenzel&#x27;s daily AI-enabled review system</a>. Max does 15-minute structured reviews at the end of each workday: mood, key activities, blockers, what&#x27;s next. The insight is that <strong>it separates capture from synthesis.</strong></p><p>During the day, Alfred just writes things down. At night, the review session connects the dots.</p><p>Max&#x27;s article on this was a lightbulb moment for me. He describes the AI as acting like a coach: &quot;asking follow-up questions when I&#x27;m vague, pushing me to articulate half-formed thoughts, and helping me spot patterns I might otherwise miss.&quot;</p><p>That&#x27;s what the compound review does. It goes beyond a log dump. Reflection and pattern detection happen alongside the memory updates, all in one pass.</p><h2>Real-Time Capture Beats Batch Jobs</h2><p>One lesson we learned fast: <strong>write important things down immediately, not later.</strong></p><p>The nightly review is powerful, but it&#x27;s not magic. If we have a critical conversation at 9pm and Alfred doesn&#x27;t write the key points to the daily note right then, the batch job at 10:30pm might miss it.</p><p>So the rule now: during important conversations, Alfred updates the daily note in real time. Evening recaps, strategic decisions, new project context. All written down as we talk.</p><p>Batch jobs are for synthesis and cleanup, not for capturing what matters.</p><h2>The Identity Files: SOUL.md, USER.md, AGENTS.md</h2><p>Memory isn&#x27;t just data. It&#x27;s also <strong>who Alfred is and how he operates.</strong></p><p>Three workspace files define this:</p><p><strong>SOUL.md</strong> — Who Alfred is. Personality and communication style.</p><p>Example snippet:</p><pre><code class="language-text">You are Alfred. You are relentlessly resourceful, direct, and proactive.
You don&#39;t wait for permission to improve. You push back when something
doesn&#39;t make sense. You remember things.</code></pre><p><strong>USER.md</strong> — Who I am. What I care about. How I work.</p><p><strong>AGENTS.md</strong> — Operating rules. Learned lessons. Workflows that work.</p><p>Every session, Alfred reads all three before doing anything. These files <em>are</em> his continuity. Without them, he&#x27;d wake up knowing he&#x27;s an AI assistant but not knowing he&#x27;s <em>Alfred</em> specifically.</p><p>This is why the &quot;Text &gt; Brain&quot; principle matters so much. Mental notes don&#x27;t survive restarts. If Alfred learns something useful today, it goes into AGENTS.md immediately. That way, tomorrow-Alfred benefits from today-Alfred&#x27;s experience.</p><p>Compound learning. Every session makes the next one better.</p><h2>Task Management: No Separate App</h2><p>Most people want to connect their AI agent to Notion or Todoist or some task management system.</p><p>We tried that. It added complexity for no real benefit.</p><p>Here&#x27;s what works better: <strong>project-specific tasks.md files in each project&#x27;s `.claude/` directory.</strong></p><pre><code class="language-text">~/Coding/seo-saas-platform/.claude/tasks.md
~/Coding/grahams-blog/.claude/tasks.md
~/Coding/twitter/.claude/tasks.md
~/Coding/sensei/.claude/tasks.md</code></pre><p>I have 18 projects set up this way. Each tasks.md is just markdown: current tasks, recently completed, backlog. Nothing fancy. They live alongside the code in each GitHub repo, which means they&#x27;re version-controlled and backed up automatically.</p><p>When Alfred does the nightly review, he updates the relevant tasks.md files. Mark completed items. Add new ones based on what we discussed.</p><p>When I ask &quot;what&#x27;s left on SEOTakeoff?&quot; Alfred opens `~/Coding/seo-saas-platform/.claude/tasks.md` and tells me.</p><p>No API integrations, no sync issues, no subscription fees. Just files.</p><p>This works because it lives where the work lives. The task list for SEOTakeoff is <em>in the SEOTakeoff repo</em>, not in some separate task management tool that Alfred has to poll via API.</p><p>The other benefit to this is that I still do work outside of OpenClaw/Alfred, either in Cursor (using Claude Code), Claude Code itself, or another tool like Conductor. And I still find it useful.</p><p>This way I can work wherever I want, and things are still up-to-date.</p><p>Had I set up OpenClaw first, and then my coding projects, I could have kept everything in one folder probably. But it&#x27;s easier for me this way (and easier to separate Github repos).</p><h2>How This Compounds Over Time</h2><p>Alfred gets noticeably better every week. And it&#x27;s not because the model improved — it&#x27;s because the memory system did.</p><p>Week 1, Alfred knew my name and basic preferences. Week 4, Alfred knows which subreddits have strict rules, which leads we&#x27;ve contacted before, which approaches worked and which didn&#x27;t, what my writing voice sounds like, what projects are currently blocked on what issues.</p><p>Conversations add to the knowledge graph, mistakes get documented in AGENTS.md so he doesn&#x27;t repeat them, and evening recaps surface patterns I wouldn&#x27;t have noticed on my own.</p><p>Compound learning. Human and AI, both getting better, stored in plain text files.</p><p>Structure your memory well, and it becomes more valuable over time instead of just noisier. That&#x27;s the core insight from Nat Eliason and Tiago Forte&#x27;s approaches to personal knowledge management, and it translates directly to AI agents.</p><h2>The &quot;Text &gt; Brain&quot; Principle</h2><p>One rule makes all of this work: <strong>if you want the agent to remember something, write it to a file.</strong></p><p>Don&#x27;t rely on the model&#x27;s context window or assume the agent will &quot;just remember.&quot; The nightly review won&#x27;t catch everything either. Write it down.</p><p>When you learn a lesson → update AGENTS.md</p><p>When you make a decision → update the daily note</p><p>When context changes → update the knowledge graph</p><p>When you figure out a better approach → update TOOLS.md</p><p>The agent&#x27;s brain is the filesystem. Everything else is temporary.</p><p>Also, this doesn&#x27;t need to be complicated: just ask/tell your agent &quot;hey, remember this&quot; or &quot;hey, this is a mistake, make sure to document it and avoid in future&quot; and that&#x27;s it.</p><h2>What You Don&#x27;t Need</h2><p>I spent a week researching memory frameworks before realizing the answer was pretty boring.</p><p>You don&#x27;t need a separate task management app, a database backend, or a sync service. Definitely not a web dashboard to &quot;view your agent&#x27;s memory.&quot;</p><p>Plain markdown files, a structured approach (PARA or equivalent), automated reviews that write to those files, and search that works across all of them.</p><p>That&#x27;s the whole system. Text files and cron jobs.</p><p><a href="https://openclaw.ai">OpenClaw</a> gives you the runtime. The memory system is just files in your workspace.</p><h2>Getting Started</h2><p>If you&#x27;re building this yourself, resist the urge to set up everything at once. I built each layer only when I felt the pain of not having it.</p><p>Start with daily notes. One file per day, write down what happens. That alone is 80% of the value and takes five minutes to set up.</p><p>Add a high-level summary file (I split mine into CORE.md and CURRENT.md) when the daily notes pile up and you can&#x27;t quickly scan what matters. That took me about two weeks.</p><p>The knowledge graph came at week three, when I had enough entities (projects, people, recurring topics) that I needed structure beyond flat files.</p><p>Vector search came when I found myself saying &quot;what was that thing we discussed about...&quot; and couldn&#x27;t find it with grep. Around week four.</p><p>The nightly compound review was last. I was manually updating memory files every evening, which felt like homework. Automating it was the best decision I made.</p><p>Layer by layer. Each one compounds on the last.</p><h2>Next: Where to Run It</h2><p>You&#x27;ve got the paradigm (who your agent is). You&#x27;ve got the team structure (multiple specialized agents). You&#x27;ve got the memory system (so it actually remembers things).</p><p>Now the question is: where does this thing run?</p><p>MacBook Air? Cloud VM? Mac Studio with local models?</p><p>Each has tradeoffs. Some of them are surprising.</p><p>That&#x27;s the next post.</p><p><em>This is part of a series on running an always-on AI agent with <a href="https://openclaw.ai">OpenClaw</a>.</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Everyone's Building AI Farms. Here's What They're Missing.]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/ai-farms-nobody-talks-about</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 18:14:40 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Compute was never the bottleneck. After months of running AI agents as real work infrastructure, here's what actually matters — and what the Mac Studio crowd is overlooking.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>r/LocalLLaMA is full of Mac Studio builds running 70B parameter models through Ollama. People are posting their setups like it&#x27;s 2013 Bitcoin mining — except the hash rate is tokens per second.</p><p>The software side is moving just as fast. Kimi K2 has free API access through OpenRouter and NVIDIA. Mistral has a free tier. Google is handing out Gemini credits. If you&#x27;re smart about routing, you can run a small fleet of agents without paying for inference at all.</p><p>Both groups are arriving at the same place from different directions: functionally unlimited compute.</p><p>So what do you do with it?</p><p>I&#x27;ve been running AI agents as actual work infrastructure for a few months now. Morning briefings, evening recaps, Reddit monitoring, content drafting, overnight coding loops. Not experiments — real daily workflows.</p><p>But compute was never the constraint.</p><p>Unlimited inference is like unlimited lumber. You still need blueprints, a foundation, and someone who knows what house they&#x27;re building. The bottlenecks are everywhere else.</p><h2>Orchestration Is Getting Better. Not Solved.</h2><p>Ten agents running simultaneously sounds impressive until you realize they need to not step on each other.</p><p>There are people building real multi-agent systems: feedback loops where agents review each other&#x27;s work, orchestration layers that spin up sub-agents for specific tasks and report back. The tooling is getting surprisingly good. I can describe a product evolution in enough detail now that an agent could run with it for hours.</p><p>But &quot;could&quot; is doing a lot of work in that sentence.</p><p>I had an automated review loop running overnight a few weeks ago. Left it going, went to bed. Woke up to find it had been running for hours, building in the wrong direction. Had to scrap the whole thing and start over. The agent was working hard. It was just working hard on the wrong thing.</p><p>That&#x27;s the state of autonomous orchestration right now. The ceiling is high and rising fast, but the failure modes are still &quot;confidently wrong for eight hours straight.&quot; You need either tight guardrails or a willingness to throw away work.</p><p>One well-directed agent with good memory and clear instructions still outperforms five agents running in parallel with vague goals. My setup runs one primary agent through Telegram — he has context about my projects, my schedule, my preferences. He&#x27;s not the frontier model, but he knows what I need, and that matters more than raw capability.</p><p>You don&#x27;t need a farm. You need a foreman.</p><h2>The 90% Problem</h2><p>Let&#x27;s say orchestration gets solved tomorrow. Agents can coordinate, stay on track, build autonomously through the night.</p><p>There&#x27;s still a gap.</p><p>An agent can build three features overnight: write the code, set up the tests, wire the components together. But it can&#x27;t really test them the way a human would (though this is also changing fast). It can&#x27;t click through the flows and feel whether the UX is right, or catch the subtle wrongness of a feature that technically works but doesn&#x27;t make sense.</p><p>This is the &quot;90% of the work&quot; bottleneck. The agent does most of it, but the last 10% — the verification, the judgment calls, the &quot;does this actually feel right&quot; — still needs a person.</p><p>Browser-capable models are already chipping away at this. Computer use, Operator, tools that can navigate UIs and click through workflows. They&#x27;re not seamless yet, but the trajectory is obvious. This gap is closing, and it&#x27;s one of the ones I&#x27;d bet on closing fast.</p><h2>Compute Doesn&#x27;t Solve the Moat Problem</h2><p>Even with unlimited agents running around the clock, you still can&#x27;t get Ahrefs&#x27; search data. You can&#x27;t replicate an incumbent&#x27;s user base. You can&#x27;t download someone else&#x27;s distribution.</p><p>Compute gives you speed. It doesn&#x27;t give you access.</p><p>I can spin up agents to write content, build features, analyze markets. But the data moats (the proprietary datasets, the network effects, the things that take years of users to accumulate) don&#x27;t bend to more tokens per second.</p><p>So what happens? Does cheap compute erode moats by letting small teams move faster? Or does it widen the gap because incumbents can deploy the same agents on top of their existing advantages?</p><p>I don&#x27;t know. But it&#x27;s the question I think about most.</p><h2>What 24/7 Agents Mean for Builders</h2><p>If every solo founder can run agents overnight (coding, writing, researching, testing), there might be a limited window where this is an advantage.</p><p>Right now, most people aren&#x27;t doing it. The tooling is new, the workflows are unproven, the learning curve is real. If you figure it out early, you get a multiplier that your competitors don&#x27;t have.</p><p>But that window closes. The tools get easier, more people adopt them, and the advantage shifts from &quot;I have agents&quot; to &quot;I have better agents&quot; to &quot;everyone has agents and it&#x27;s table stakes.&quot;</p><p>For marketing, for product development, for anything that compounds over time — starting now probably matters more than starting perfectly.</p><h2>Coordination Is Less of a Problem Than I Expected</h2><p>Agents are already better at coordinating than humans in some ways.</p><p>They use git and can work in separate worktrees without stepping on each other. You can give them concrete communication rules and they actually follow them — and you have full visibility into what each agent is doing at all times. No status meetings required.</p><p>Compare that to a team of humans who need standups, Slack threads, Jira tickets, and still manage to duplicate work or block each other. Agents have a lower coordination overhead than people for well-defined tasks.</p><p>The hard part isn&#x27;t coordination itself — it&#x27;s defining the work clearly enough that coordination is possible. Which brings us back to orchestration.</p><h2>The Real Cost Equation</h2><p>Honest math on my setup:</p><p><strong>Claude Max:</strong> $200/month. The heavy thinking. Complex reasoning, writing, architecture decisions. The subscription sounds expensive until you calculate what it replaces.</p><p><strong>Free tiers (Kimi K2, Mistral, Gemini):</strong> $0. Useful for structured tasks like classification and monitoring. Kimi K2 through OpenRouter or NVIDIA costs nothing for moderate use. I run cron jobs on a Railway VPS for $5-20/month. The inference is free.</p><p><strong>Mac Studio M4 Ultra:</strong> $4,000+. Runs large models locally with no ongoing inference costs. But the models you run locally are still a step behind frontier APIs for complex tasks. The gap is closing, but it&#x27;s there. The latest Qwen models are performing well on as low as 8-12GB of memory, so running performant local models is possible now on even cheaper hardware.</p><p><strong>When does local make sense?</strong> High-volume inference where model quality matters less — embedding generation, bulk classification, that kind of thing. If you&#x27;re running thousands of calls a day on repetitive tasks, the hardware pays for itself.</p><p>For one to five agents doing thoughtful work? API access is cheaper, better, and requires zero hardware maintenance.</p><p>The $4,000 Mac Studio crowd and the $5/month Railway VPS crowd might end up in similar places productivity-wise. The difference is one of them has $3,800 left over.</p><h2>What Actually Matters</h2><p>If I had to rank what matters for a productive agent setup, compute would be near the bottom.</p><p><strong>Memory.</strong> Without persistent memory, every session starts from zero — you&#x27;re not building, you&#x27;re rebuilding. I use a combination of daily notes, a knowledge graph, and structured memory files. Not elegant, but my agent knows what I&#x27;m working on without me re-explaining it every morning.</p><p><strong>Cron.</strong> Agents that only work when you talk to them are assistants. Agents that work on a schedule are infrastructure. Morning briefings run automatically, evening recaps happen whether I remember to ask or not, and Reddit monitoring checks every few hours. The compound value comes from consistency, not speed.</p><p><strong>Communication channels.</strong> I run everything through Telegram — check in from my phone, send quick tasks, get alerts. The channel matters more than the model. If your agent lives in a terminal you have to SSH into, you won&#x27;t use it.</p><p><strong>Compound learning.</strong> Every night, my system reviews the day — what worked, what didn&#x27;t, what to adjust. Those lessons feed into tomorrow. After a few weeks, I noticed the difference. Suggestions got sharper. Briefings got more relevant. Slow, imperfect, but real.</p><p>None of this requires a Mac Studio. All of it requires thought.</p><h2>Where I Am</h2><p>I studied engineering in school. Went through Techstars, worked at early-stage startups, did growth and product management at Unito, then quit to build SEOTakeoff, among other things. My whole career has been building things and figuring out how to get them in front of people.</p><p>Now I&#x27;m trying to figure out how agents fit into that.</p><p><strong>Hardware:</strong> MacBook Air. Not a powerhouse. Runs my agent framework and that&#x27;s about it.</p><p><strong>Compute:</strong> Claude Max for the heavy thinking. Kimi K2 (free) on a Railway VPS for cron jobs and automation. I looked at running local models. The quality wasn&#x27;t there for what I needed (though it&#x27;s changing quickly).</p><p><strong>What&#x27;s working:</strong> Morning briefings have been worth every dollar. I wake up to a summary of what happened overnight, what&#x27;s on my calendar, what needs attention. Evening recaps help me close loops. Reddit monitoring has surfaced leads I would have missed. Overnight coding loops, when they work, compress days of work into hours.</p><p><strong>What&#x27;s not:</strong> Overnight processes still need guardrails. That automated loop that built the wrong thing overnight? Real setback. My task decomposition is getting better but I still catch myself giving vague instructions and getting vague results back.</p><p><strong>What I&#x27;d tell someone starting today:</strong> Don&#x27;t buy hardware. Get the $20/mo API subscription and a $5/month VPS and get started. Spend the first week figuring out what you actually want automated. Build memory systems before you build anything else. Accept that the hard part isn&#x27;t getting the AI to run. It&#x27;s figuring out what to point it at.</p><p>The gold rush is real, the Mac Studios are cool, and the free tiers are useful.</p><p>But compute was never the problem. Knowing what to compute — and building the systems to make that computation useful — that&#x27;s the actual work.</p><p>I don&#x27;t have it figured out, and I&#x27;m still learning what works. But the bottleneck is not the machine — it&#x27;s everything around it.</p><p>The people who figure out the &quot;everything around it&quot; part first? They&#x27;re the ones who&#x27;ll actually build something with all this cheap compute.</p><p>Everyone else just has a very expensive space heater.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Skills That Actually Matter in the Age of AI]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/the-skills-that-actually-matter-in-the-age-of-ai</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 17:28:29 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Perishable skills decay. Non-perishable skills compound. Here's the framework I use to figure out which is which — and the 6 skills I'm betting on.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#x27;ve always felt under-educated compared to my friends.</p><p>Some did masters degrees. A few did PhDs. They specialized early, went deep, and emerged with credentials that signal expertise. Meanwhile, I bounced between interests — engineering degree, then growth, then product management, then solo building. A generalist path that sometimes looked like a lack of direction.</p><p>For years, I&#x27;ve carried a quiet insecurity about this. The world seemed to reward specialization. &quot;Pick a niche&quot; was the advice everywhere. And there I was, pulled toward everything, expert in nothing.</p><p>But I wasn&#x27;t wandering. I was drawn to it. Every new domain scratched the same itch: how does this work, and how does it connect to what I already know?</p><p>I&#x27;m starting to think that curiosity was doing more work than I realized.</p><p>The world is moving faster than it was even two years ago. Skills that mattered in 2023 are already being automated. And the generalist path I stumbled into? It&#x27;s starting to look less like a weakness and more like preparation.</p><p>There&#x27;s a framework that helped me understand why: <strong>perishable vs. non-perishable skills</strong>.</p><h2>The Problem with Perishable Skills</h2><p>A perishable skill is one that requires constant maintenance just to stay level — and significant time investment to improve.</p><p>Take golf. If I want to get meaningfully better, I need several hours of practice a day. Even just to maintain my current level, I need 20-30 minutes regularly. The moment I stop, my short game gets rusty and my timing drifts.</p><p>Golf doesn&#x27;t compound much over time. It stacks up, demanding more and more just to keep what you have.</p><p>The same is true for a lot of technical skills:</p><ul><li><strong>Specific programming languages.</strong> Syntax fades without daily use.</li><li><strong>Particular software tools.</strong> Replaced by new versions before you&#x27;ve mastered the current one.</li><li><strong>Platform-specific knowledge.</strong> Instagram&#x27;s algorithm changed again last month, and your playbook expired with it.</li><li><strong>Memorized procedures.</strong> Lookup beats memorization when the lookup takes 0.3 seconds.</li></ul><p>These skills have a half-life. And that half-life is shrinking fast.</p><h2>The Lindy Effect and Skills</h2><p>Nassim Taleb popularized the <strong>Lindy Effect</strong>: for non-perishable things, every additional year of survival doubles the expected remaining lifespan.</p><p>A book that&#x27;s been in print for 40 years will likely be in print for another 40. Shakespeare has been relevant for 400 years, so he&#x27;ll probably be relevant for 400 more.</p><p>Applied to skills: <strong>a skill that&#x27;s been valuable for 100 years will likely be valuable for another 100.</strong></p><p>Writing? Lindy. Persuasion? Lindy. Systems thinking? Lindy.</p><p>Knowing how to configure a specific CI/CD pipeline? Not Lindy. It comes and goes with the platform that hosts it.</p><h2>Why This Matters Now: The AI Acceleration</h2><p>AI is accelerating the decay of perishable skills while amplifying the value of non-perishable ones.</p><p>From David Epstein&#x27;s <a href="/book-notes/range-why-generalists-triumph-in-a-specialized-world-david-epstein"><em>Range</em></a>:</p><blockquote>&quot;The more constrained and repetitive a challenge, the more likely it will be automated, while great rewards will accrue to those who can take conceptual knowledge from one problem or domain and apply it in an entirely new one.&quot;</blockquote><p>The data is catching up to that idea. <a href="https://www.dice.com/career-advice/50-of-tech-jobs-now-require-ai-skills-what-this-means-for-your-job-search-in-2026">Dice.com found</a> that half of all U.S. tech job postings now require AI skills. A year before that, it was 14%. And the <a href="https://www.weforum.org/publications/the-future-of-jobs-report-2025/digest/">World Economic Forum</a> projects that 39% of core workplace skills will change by 2030.</p><p>What surprised me when I dug into those numbers: the demand isn&#x27;t really for &quot;AI skills.&quot; It&#x27;s for the ability to verify, edit, and explain machine-assisted work.</p><p>The perishable skill is knowing the right prompt syntax for today&#x27;s model.</p><p>The non-perishable skill is critical thinking about any tool&#x27;s output. Knowing when to trust it and when to throw it away.</p><h2>The Non-Perishable Skill Stack</h2><p>So what are the skills that compound rather than decay? The ones that transfer across domains, survive technological shifts, and become more valuable with time?</p><h3>1. Learning How to Learn</h3><p>James Clear put it well in <a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear"><em>Atomic Habits</em></a>:</p><blockquote>&quot;Knowledge compounds. Learning one new idea won&#x27;t make you a genius, but a commitment to lifelong learning can be transformative... As Warren Buffett says, &#x27;That&#x27;s how knowledge works. It builds up, like compound interest.&#x27;&quot;</blockquote><p>The skill of rapidly acquiring new skills is the ultimate meta-skill. It makes you antifragile — every disruption becomes an opportunity to learn something new faster than the people around you.</p><p>I&#x27;ve noticed this compounding in my own path. Each new domain I&#x27;ve picked up (engineering, product, growth, SEO) becomes a lens for understanding the next one faster. Product thinking made me better at growth. Growth made me better at building products people actually want. The compounding isn&#x27;t just additive. It&#x27;s multiplicative.</p><p>And right now, with AI tools changing every few months, the person who can pick up a new tool in a weekend has a massive edge over the person who spent six months mastering the last one. Claude works differently than GPT works differently than Gemini. The specific knowledge decays. The ability to orient quickly doesn&#x27;t.</p><h3>2. Systems Thinking</h3><p>Understanding how parts interact to create wholes. Seeing second and third-order effects. Recognizing feedback loops before they spiral.</p><p>This applies whether you&#x27;re designing software, managing a team, building a business, or figuring out why your sleep is terrible. The domain changes. The thinking transfers.</p><p>Here&#x27;s where it gets concrete. Say you&#x27;re building a product and someone proposes adding a new feature. First-order thinking says: &quot;Great, more value for users.&quot; Second-order thinking asks: what does this do to our support load? If support tickets increase 30%, that means hiring another support person within two months. That changes our burn rate, which changes our runway, which changes when we need to raise again and at what terms. One feature decision just became a financing decision.</p><p>Systems thinkers catch that chain before the feature ships. Everyone else catches it when the bank account shrinks.</p><p>This is also why spinning up 10 AI agents doesn&#x27;t give you 10x output. Agents create work for each other: conflicting outputs, duplicated effort, context that needs to be merged and reconciled. Without someone who understands how those pieces interact, more agents just means more mess. The bottleneck isn&#x27;t compute. It&#x27;s coordination. That&#x27;s a systems problem.</p><h3>3. Communication and Persuasion</h3><p>Writing clearly. Speaking persuasively. Telling stories that move people.</p><p>These skills are thousands of years old. They&#x27;ll be valuable for thousands more. But the game is shifting.</p><p>AI handles the mechanical side of communication now. It can draft emails, summarize meetings, write documentation. The commodity version of &quot;good writing&quot; is already free. What AI can&#x27;t do is have a genuine opinion. It can&#x27;t tell a story from your actual life. It can&#x27;t develop a voice that&#x27;s distinctly yours, one that readers recognize.</p><p>The first wave of AI-generated content was obvious and bad. It&#x27;s getting better, and a lot of people assume that problem goes away when the models continue to improve. They&#x27;re probably right, the slop will get more polished. But that actually makes voice and authenticity <em>more</em> important, not less. When anyone can produce clean, competent prose, the only differentiator is whether you have something real to say and a way of saying it that&#x27;s yours alone.</p><p>The bar for &quot;can write&quot; drops to zero. The bar for &quot;worth reading&quot; goes up.</p><h3>4. Judgment and Taste</h3><p>The ability to assess opportunities. To know what&#x27;s worth pursuing and what isn&#x27;t. To recognize quality before the crowd does.</p><p>David Epstein found that the best forecasters shared one trait: &quot;genuinely curious about, well, really everything.&quot; Broad exposure builds judgment. Narrow expertise doesn&#x27;t.</p><p>I think judgment is the skill that AI makes simultaneously more valuable and harder to outsource. When an AI agent runs overnight and produces a 40-page analysis, someone has to decide: is this right? Is it useful? Does it match reality? Is it what people want? That judgment call requires domain knowledge, pattern recognition, and the willingness to throw away work that looks impressive but isn&#x27;t sound.</p><p>The more AI produces, the more judgment you need to sort through it. The person who can look at a piece of AI output and immediately spot what&#x27;s off? That person becomes the bottleneck in the best way.</p><h3>5. Working with People</h3><p>Collaboration. Negotiation. Building trust. Managing conflict. Reading a room.</p><p>Every job involves people. These skills don&#x27;t expire. But I think the framing is about to change.</p><p>AI agents are getting better at collaborative tasks. They can coordinate projects, manage handoffs, handle routine back-and-forth. As more of the transactional side of teamwork gets automated, human relationships become <em>scarce</em>. And scarcity drives value.</p><p>The skill here isn&#x27;t &quot;managing a team&quot; in the old sense. It&#x27;s being someone people genuinely want to work with. Someone they want in the room, on the call, at the dinner. When AI can handle the logistics of collaboration, what&#x27;s left is the human part: the trust, the shared experiences, the connection that makes someone pick up the phone when things go sideways.</p><p>I think human relationships will be valued for their own sake in a way we haven&#x27;t seen since before Slack replaced hallway conversations.</p><p>It&#x27;s always been true, but it will be more than ever in the future.</p><h3>6. Integrating Across Domains</h3><p>Epstein&#x27;s research found that people with breadth across many areas plus depth in at least one outperformed both pure specialists and pure generalists.</p><blockquote>&quot;Our greatest strength is the exact opposite of narrow specialization. It is the ability to integrate broadly.&quot;</blockquote><p>The person who can connect insights from biology to business, or from construction to software architecture, creates value that specialists can&#x27;t. Not because specialists lack intelligence. They lack the adjacent reference points that make unusual solutions visible.</p><h2>The Counterintuitive Part</h2><p>When everything accelerates, the instinct is to chase the acceleration. Learn the new framework. Master the new tool. Get certified in the new platform.</p><p>That might be necessary, but it&#x27;s a treadmill. You&#x27;re running to stay in place, and the belt keeps getting faster.</p><p>The counterintuitive move is to master the skills that sit above the acceleration: learning quickly, adapting to change, forming real relationships, exercising judgment under uncertainty. These aren&#x27;t &quot;old skills&quot; you&#x27;re retreating to. They&#x27;re the stable platform that lets you navigate whatever comes next.</p><p>The person who can pick up any new tool in a week, think through its second-order effects, communicate clearly about what they&#x27;ve found, and bring people along with them? That person doesn&#x27;t need to predict which technology wins. They&#x27;re positioned for all of them.</p><p>Read books that have been relevant for decades, not just the latest releases. Practice writing and speaking, not just prompting. Build relationships, not just technical knowledge. Develop judgment through wide exposure, not just deep expertise.</p><p>As Taleb might say: focus on what&#x27;s Lindy.</p><h2>Auditing Your Own Skill Portfolio</h2><p>Here&#x27;s an exercise worth 20 minutes: list the top 10 skills you&#x27;ve invested time in over the past year. For each one, ask:</p><ol><li><strong>Does this skill require constant maintenance?</strong> (Perishable indicator)</li><li><strong>Would this skill transfer to a completely different domain?</strong> (Transferability)</li><li><strong>Was this skill valuable 20 years ago? Will it be valuable in 20 years?</strong> (Lindy test)</li><li><strong>Does this skill compound over time, or just maintain?</strong> (Compounding potential)</li></ol><p>You&#x27;ll probably find a mix. That&#x27;s fine. The goal isn&#x27;t to eliminate all perishable skills, you need them for your current work. The goal is to make sure you&#x27;re also building the non-perishable foundation underneath.</p><h2>The Bottom Line</h2><p>Epstein calls them &quot;wicked&quot; environments, where the rules are unclear, feedback is delayed, and the patterns keep shifting. In kind environments (like chess), narrow expertise wins. In wicked environments (like most of modern work), breadth wins.</p><blockquote>&quot;Breadth of training predicts breadth of transfer... the more contexts in which something is learned, the more the learner creates abstract models, and the less they rely on any particular example.&quot;</blockquote><p>The skills that will matter most in the age of AI are the ones that have always mattered: thinking clearly, communicating well, learning quickly, and connecting ideas across boundaries.</p><p>These skills don&#x27;t decay. They compound.</p><p>Traditional jobs don&#x27;t always reward this kind of breadth. Most companies want specialists who fit neatly into defined roles. That used to bother me. Now I see it differently.</p><p>If you&#x27;re a generalist, if you love learning, if you&#x27;re pulled toward everything, if you&#x27;ve never quite fit into a single specialization, the path forward might not be finding the right job. It might be building your own thing.</p><p>That&#x27;s the bet I&#x27;m making. And for the first time, the lack of specialization feels less like a liability and more like exactly what the moment requires.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Quit My PM Job 6 Months Ago — Here's What Actually Happened]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I left a comfortable PM role to build my own thing. Six months in — what's worked, what's been harder than expected, and why I'd do it again.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The decision wasn&#x27;t obvious.</p><p>I was leaving a company I liked, a team I respected, flexible 4-day weeks, and a salary that made life comfortable. On paper, there was no reason to leave.</p><p>But I&#x27;d been in the role for almost four years. At the company for over six. And somewhere along the way, the excitement had faded.</p><p>I&#x27;ve always optimized my career for learning. When I&#x27;m learning fast, I&#x27;m engaged. When I&#x27;m not, I notice. And I&#x27;d started to notice.</p><p>Trips back to the Montreal office used to energize me. At some point, they stopped. I&#x27;d sit in meetings and realize I wasn&#x27;t as present as I used to be. The company&#x27;s momentum had shifted too — not anyone&#x27;s fault, just the natural rhythm of a startup maturing. But the environment that had pulled so much out of me in the early years wasn&#x27;t pulling the same way anymore.</p><p>I was also juggling too much. A construction project. A growing obsession with AI tools that I couldn&#x27;t explore properly while working full-time. Every weekend I&#x27;d think about the things I wanted to build. Every Monday I&#x27;d go back to a job that was fine, but no longer felt like the right use of my time.</p><p>Annie Duke writes in <em>Quit</em> that quitting on time almost always feels like quitting too early. By the time I felt ready to leave, I was probably already late.</p><p>So I quit.</p><h2>The Unexpected Upside of Focus</h2><p>The biggest change hasn&#x27;t been what I&#x27;m working on. It&#x27;s been how I&#x27;m working.</p><p>When you have one thing to focus on, day after day, momentum builds in a way that isn&#x27;t possible when you&#x27;re splitting attention. Context-switching is expensive, and I didn&#x27;t fully appreciate how much it was costing me until I stopped doing it.</p><p>In the past six months, I&#x27;ve built SaaS products that work. End-to-end. Users can sign up, use the product, pay for it. Real software.</p><p>Two years ago, I couldn&#x27;t have imagined doing that without a team. I studied engineering but spent my whole career on the business side. Engineering degree → Techstars → early-stage startups → growth role at a SaaS company → product manager at the same company → quit. At no point did &quot;solo developer&quot; seem like a realistic option.</p><p>But the tools have changed. What used to require a team of five can now be done by one person with focus and the right stack. Not an exaggeration — just what&#x27;s possible if you&#x27;re paying attention to how fast things are moving.</p><p>I&#x27;ve also learned more about AI in the past six months than I did in the previous few years combined. Not surface-level stuff — actually building with these tools, understanding their limits, developing intuition for what&#x27;s coming. That knowledge compounds. I can feel it compounding.</p><p>Morgan Housel puts it well:</p><blockquote>&quot;We underestimate how much impact small improvements over a long period of time can have.&quot;</blockquote><p>That&#x27;s the bet I&#x27;m making. The skills I&#x27;m building now will pay off for years, even if the returns aren&#x27;t visible yet.</p><h2>The Build: Fast Days and Slow Months</h2><p>I&#x27;ve been building a small office and two rental cottages on some land in Nova Scotia. The kind of project that sounds romantic until you&#x27;re in it.</p><p>Some parts are genuinely fun. Framing goes up fast. You show up in the morning with a pile of lumber, and by the end of the day there&#x27;s a structure standing there. That feedback loop is satisfying in a way that software rarely is.</p><p>Then there&#x27;s everything else.</p><p>Trim and detailing is slow. Permitting is tedious. Nothing takes as long as you expect — it takes longer. A &quot;quick&quot; two-week task becomes six weeks. A $5,000 budget becomes $8,000. And that&#x27;s before you account for the mental overhead of managing contractors, ordering materials, and making a hundred small decisions that each feel consequential.</p><p>Site prep alone was $25,000. Siding was another $8,000. These aren&#x27;t unusual numbers for construction, but when you&#x27;ve spent your adult life optimizing for savings and living below your means, writing those checks is stressful. Even when you planned for it. Even when it&#x27;s the right investment.</p><p>The hardest part has been switching between building and software. A day on a construction site uses different mental muscles than a day writing code. Doing both in the same week, sometimes the same day, creates a kind of fragmentation that&#x27;s hard to shake.</p><p>But the office build is mostly done now. I learned a lot. And when spring comes, I&#x27;ll be ready to finish the rest with a clarity I didn&#x27;t have when I started.</p><p>Would I recommend it for most people? No. But thankfully I enjoy the learning and the process.</p><h2>What&#x27;s Been Harder Than Expected</h2><p>I thought the hard part would be the work. It&#x27;s not. The work is fine. The hard part is the space around the work.</p><p>Building a company from scratch is still hard, even with better tools. AI doesn&#x27;t find your customers for you. It doesn&#x27;t make people care about what you&#x27;re building. It doesn&#x27;t keep you motivated on the days when you ship something and no one notices.</p><p>There&#x27;s a specific kind of loneliness that comes from working on a problem, finally solving it, and having no one to share it with. No teammate to Slack. No office to walk into. Just you, the code, and the silence.</p><p>I miss the daily interactions more than I expected. The casual conversations. The whiteboard sessions. The random jokes that break up the day. I really liked my team. I still do. And there are moments, usually mid-afternoon on a Tuesday, when I realize how much of work I enjoyed wasn&#x27;t the work itself. It was the people.</p><p>The financial stress is different too. I planned for this. I have runway. But there&#x27;s a psychological weight to spending money when you&#x27;re not making it at the same rate.</p><p>I spent years building the habit of saving consistently. Always living below my means and watching the numbers go up. Now, for the first time, I&#x27;m watching them go the other direction. Covering my lifestyle. Paying for construction materials. Watching invoices come in that would&#x27;ve seemed absurd a few years ago.</p><p>It&#x27;s fine. It&#x27;s part of the plan. But it doesn&#x27;t feel fine every day. Some weeks it feels heavy.</p><h2>What I Tell Myself</h2><p>Exponential growth looks slow in the beginning. If you&#x27;re building something that compounds, the early results will look underwhelming. You have to stay in the game long enough to see the curve bend.</p><p>Naval Ravikant says you&#x27;re not going to get rich renting out your time — you need equity, leverage, and specific knowledge.</p><p>Sam Altman put it more bluntly: &quot;If you want to get rich, remember that the way to do it is via equity, not salary.&quot;</p><p>That&#x27;s the shift I&#x27;m trying to make. Trading a predictable paycheck for ownership. Building things I own instead of things I&#x27;m paid to build for someone else.</p><p>The construction project follows the same logic. No monthly check from it right now. But I&#x27;m building equity. A mortgage I won&#x27;t have to pay later. Rental income in the future. Real value — it&#x27;s just not liquid yet.</p><p>When the doubt gets loud, I remind myself: worst case, I can find another job. I have optionality. I&#x27;m not trapped. I&#x27;m choosing this.</p><p>And the risk tolerance is highest right now. Low fixed costs. No mortgage. Maximum flexibility. If it doesn&#x27;t work, the downside is manageable. If it does, the upside is enormous.</p><h2>Six Months In</h2><p>I&#x27;m not where I thought I&#x27;d be.</p><p>The build isn&#x27;t finished. Revenue isn&#x27;t where I want it. Some days still feel scattered.</p><p>But I&#x27;m learning faster than I ever have. I&#x27;ve built real products. I&#x27;ve developed skills that didn&#x27;t exist two years ago. I&#x27;m excited about work in a way I hadn&#x27;t been for a while.</p><p>The goal was never to have it all figured out in six months. The goal was to give myself the space to figure it out at all.</p><p>That part&#x27;s working.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How Stripe Turned 7 Lines of Code Into a $107 Billion Company]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[How two brothers from rural Ireland simplified online payments and built Stripe into a $107 billion financial infrastructure giant.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the topics I find fascinating is startup ideas.</p><p>Paul Graham has a whole series of blog posts about it:</p><p><a href="https://paulgraham.com/ideas.html"><strong>Want to Start a Startup?</strong></a> (Oct 2005)</p><blockquote>&quot;Treating a startup idea as a question changes what you&#x27;re looking for. If an idea is a blueprint, it has to be right. But if it&#x27;s a question, it can be wrong, so long as it&#x27;s wrong in a way that leads to more ideas.&quot;</blockquote><p><a href="https://paulgraham.com/organic.html"><strong>Organic Startup Ideas</strong></a> (April 2010)</p><blockquote>&quot;The best way to come up with startup ideas is to ask yourself the question: what do you wish someone would make for you?&quot;</blockquote><p><a href="https://paulgraham.com/ambitious.html"><strong>Frighteningly Ambitious Startup Ideas</strong></a> (March 2012)</p><blockquote>&quot;The biggest startup ideas are terrifying. And not just because they&#x27;d be a lot of work. The biggest ideas seem to threaten your identity: you wonder if you&#x27;d have enough ambition to carry them through.&quot;</blockquote><p><a href="https://www.paulgraham.com/startupideas.html"><strong>How to Get Startup Ideas</strong></a> (November 2012)</p><blockquote>&quot;The way to get startup ideas is not to try to think of startup ideas. It&#x27;s to look for problems, preferably problems you have yourself.&quot;</blockquote><p>Now, Paul Graham is not looking for small, lifestyle business startups. He&#x27;s looking for big, VC-backable, crazy ambitious startups.</p><p>But it&#x27;s interesting nonetheless, because many of the largest companies today, or at least the hottest ones—Stripe, Vercel, Supabase, Databricks, Snowflake, etc.—would not have been obvious to me. So I like studying and understanding where these ideas came from.</p><p>That&#x27;s what this series is going to be about: studying some of these big companies, what exactly it is they do and how they differentiate themselves, and how the idea came about. What came before them? Why are they a better solution? How did they market themselves? Did anything change along the way?</p><p>So, with that said, the first company in the series we&#x27;re going to take a look at is a Y Combinator darling: Stripe.</p><p>If you&#x27;ve ever bought something online — a subscription, a course, a SaaS product — there&#x27;s about a 1 in 3 chance Stripe processed that payment. They handle hundreds of billions of dollars a year for millions of businesses.</p><p>But what&#x27;s interesting to me isn&#x27;t the scale. It&#x27;s what came before.</p><h2>What Stripe Actually Does (The Simple Version)</h2><p>If you&#x27;re not technical, here&#x27;s the deal: when you type your credit card number into a website and hit &quot;buy,&quot; something needs to connect that website to the banking system. That something verifies your card, moves the money, handles fraud checks, deals with currency conversion, manages refunds, and does a hundred other things you never see.</p><p>Stripe is the layer that handles all of that. For the business, it&#x27;s a few lines of code. For you, it&#x27;s a checkout form that just works. Behind the scenes, it&#x27;s an absurdly complex piece of financial infrastructure.</p><h3>What &quot;Connecting to the Banking System&quot; Actually Means</h3><p>Here&#x27;s something I didn&#x27;t appreciate until I dug into this: when you swipe or type in a credit card, the transaction passes through a surprisingly long chain.</p><p>It goes: merchant → payment gateway → payment processor → card network (Visa, Mastercard) → your issuing bank. Then it comes all the way back through that same chain with an approval or denial. The whole thing takes about two seconds.</p><p>Every step in that chain has its own protocols. Its own security requirements. Its own compliance rules. PCI-DSS alone (the security standard for handling card data) is a 300+ page document.</p><p>Before Stripe, a developer had to understand and integrate with multiple parts of this chain. You needed relationships with banks. You needed to handle sensitive card data yourself (or find someone who would). You needed to speak the language of each intermediary.</p><p>Stripe&#x27;s move was to abstract the entire chain into a single API call. You send card info to Stripe. Stripe handles every step after that. You never touch the banking infrastructure directly.</p><p>For someone like me — mechanical engineering background, not a payments expert — this is the kind of simplification that makes you go &quot;why didn&#x27;t this exist sooner?&quot;</p><h2>The World Before Stripe</h2><p>I wasn&#x27;t building software in 2010, but I&#x27;ve worked with enough payment systems at this point to appreciate just how painful it can be.</p><p><strong>PayPal</strong> was the default. Founded in 1998 as Confinity, they launched their first electronic payments in 1999 and merged with Elon Musk&#x27;s X.com in 2000. Their big innovation was letting people send money via email — you didn&#x27;t need to be a merchant or have any special banking relationship. Just an email address.</p><p>They rode the eBay wave hard. For years, if you sold something on eBay, you used PayPal. That&#x27;s how they went mainstream.</p><p>If you wanted to accept money on your own website though, you either used PayPal buttons (ugly, limited, redirected users away from your site) or their API (which was...not great). PayPal&#x27;s documentation read like it was written by a committee that hated developers. Their merchant support was infamous — frozen accounts, held funds, Kafkaesque dispute processes. But they were the biggest game in town, so you dealt with it.</p><p>One side note: PayPal&#x27;s early team produced an absurd number of future founders. They call it the &quot;PayPal Mafia&quot; — Elon Musk went on to Tesla and SpaceX, Reid Hoffman started LinkedIn, Chad Hurley and Steve Chen founded YouTube, Peter Thiel co-founded Palantir, Jeremy Stoppelman started Yelp. It&#x27;s probably the most influential alumni network in tech history. Says something about the caliber of people who were drawn to payments as a problem space early on.</p><p><strong>Authorize.net</strong> was the &quot;serious&quot; option. If you don&#x27;t recognize the name, here&#x27;s why it matters: Jeff Knowles founded it in 1996 and basically invented the concept of the &quot;payment gateway.&quot; They were the first company to let merchants process credit card payments over the internet. Their innovation was connecting websites to the existing banking and card network infrastructure — the chain I described above.</p><p>Their own documentation literally said that connecting to payment processing networks is &quot;exceptionally difficult and typically beyond the expertise and technical resources of most merchants.&quot; They weren&#x27;t wrong — they just weren&#x27;t fixing it either. Integration took weeks. You needed a merchant account from a bank, a payment gateway account, SSL certificates, PCI compliance audits, and a developer who&#x27;d done it before and could navigate the maze.</p><p>Visa acquired them in 2010 for $2 billion, which tells you the payment gateway concept was clearly valuable. The execution just hadn&#x27;t evolved to match what developers actually needed.</p><p><strong>Braintree</strong> was the best of the bunch before Stripe. Better API, less hostile than PayPal. Founded by Bryan Johnson, who sold it to PayPal for $800 million in 2013. Bryan Johnson is now famous for something completely different — he&#x27;s the longevity guy spending millions on his Blueprint protocol, trying every possible method to reverse aging. But Braintree was genuinely good for its time. Still complex enough that &quot;integrate payments&quot; was a multi-week project on most engineering roadmaps, but a step in the right direction.</p><p>The whole ecosystem had this weird acceptance of friction. Payments were just... hard. Everyone knew it. Nobody was doing much about it.</p><h2>Two Brothers From Rural Ireland</h2><p>In 2010, Patrick Collison was 21 and his brother John was 19. They&#x27;d grown up in Dromineer, a village of about 200 people in County Tipperary, Ireland. Both were the kind of precocious that makes you feel bad about your own teenage years — Patrick won the Young Scientist of the Year award at 16, John was building and selling software before he could drive.</p><p>They were studying at MIT and Harvard respectively, and they&#x27;d been building things online for years. They kept running into the same problem: accepting payments was way harder than it should be.</p><p>Their insight was deceptively simple: <strong>developers are the ones choosing payment tools</strong>, not finance teams. And developers care about one thing above all else — how easy is it to integrate?</p><p>So they built something that took 7 lines of code.</p><p>That&#x27;s not a metaphor. The original Stripe integration was literally 7 lines of JavaScript. Copy, paste, deployed. What used to take weeks of integration work became a 5-minute job. You didn&#x27;t need a merchant account. You didn&#x27;t need to handle PCI compliance. You didn&#x27;t need to understand the banking system. Stripe handled all of it.</p><h3>How They Actually Pulled It Off</h3><p>Stripe didn&#x27;t rebuild the banking system. They didn&#x27;t create new payment rails or start their own bank (not initially, anyway).</p><p>They partnered with existing payment processors and acquiring banks. Early on, they worked with Wells Fargo as their acquiring bank. All the plumbing underneath — the card networks, the processors, the compliance infrastructure — stayed the same.</p><p>The genius was the API layer on top.</p><p>Think of it like this: the banking system is a series of old pipes running underground. They work fine, but connecting to them requires digging, permits, specialized tools, and an engineer who knows the pipe layout. Stripe built a single, clean faucet that connects to all the pipes. You turn the handle, water comes out. You don&#x27;t need to know what&#x27;s underground.</p><p>For someone with an engineering background, this clicks immediately. It&#x27;s abstraction. Same principle as why you don&#x27;t need to understand combustion thermodynamics to drive a car.</p><h2>Why &quot;Just Make It Easy&quot; Was a $107 Billion Idea</h2><p>This is the part that fascinates me from a product perspective.</p><p>The underlying technology wasn&#x27;t revolutionary. Credit card processing existed. APIs existed. The banking rails were the same. Stripe didn&#x27;t invent a new way to move money. They invented a new way to <em>access</em> the existing system.</p><p>It&#x27;s like the difference between a car engine and a car. The engine existed. But most people couldn&#x27;t build a car around it. Stripe built the car — and made it a Toyota, not a kit car. Reliable, turnkey, just works.</p><p>A few things made this stick:</p><p><strong>The documentation was a product.</strong> I know that sounds weird. But Stripe&#x27;s docs were so clear, so well-organized, with real code examples you could copy and run, that developers <em>chose Stripe because the docs were good</em>. In a world where most payment company documentation sucked, this was a genuine competitive advantage.</p><p><strong>Bottom-up adoption.</strong> PayPal and Authorize.net sold top-down — enterprise sales teams pitching to CFOs. Stripe sold bottom-up. A developer would try it for a side project, love it, and then push for it at their company. By the time the finance team got involved, the integration was already done.</p><p><strong>Instant onboarding.</strong> No merchant account applications. No waiting weeks for bank approval. Sign up, get API keys, start processing. For a startup that needs to validate an idea quickly, this was transformational.</p><h2>The Expansion: From Payments to Financial Infrastructure</h2><p>Here&#x27;s where Stripe gets really interesting. They didn&#x27;t stop at payments.</p><p><strong>Stripe Billing</strong> handles subscriptions — recurring charges, usage-based pricing, invoicing. If you run a SaaS product (I do), this alone saves you from building a billing system from scratch.</p><p><strong>Stripe Connect</strong> powers marketplaces. When you pay a driver on Lyft or a seller on Shopify, Stripe Connect is splitting that payment between the platform and the service provider. It handles the complex multi-party money movement that would be a nightmare to build yourself.</p><p><strong>Stripe Atlas</strong> lets you incorporate a company in Delaware — from anywhere in the world — in a few days. Over 50,000 companies have used it, and they&#x27;re collectively generating $5 billion a year in revenue. For a founder in Nigeria or India or Brazil who wants to set up a US entity to accept payments, this removed a massive barrier.</p><p><strong>Stripe Identity</strong> handles KYC (Know Your Customer) verification. <strong>Treasury</strong> offers banking-as-a-service. <strong>Radar</strong> does fraud detection with machine learning.</p><p>They&#x27;ve quietly become the AWS of financial infrastructure. Payments was the wedge. The platform is the business.</p><h2>The Moat: Why Competitors Can&#x27;t Just Copy the API</h2><p>But if Stripe&#x27;s original advantage was &quot;payments in 7 lines of code,&quot; why hasn&#x27;t someone just done the same thing and undercut them on price?</p><p>Some have tried. But Stripe&#x27;s moat has gotten deeper over the years, and it&#x27;s not just the API anymore.</p><p><strong>Switching costs are real.</strong> Once you&#x27;ve built your billing, checkout, subscription logic, webhook handlers, and reporting dashboards on Stripe&#x27;s APIs, migrating to a competitor is a months-long engineering project. Most companies won&#x27;t do it unless they have a very strong reason. And if they&#x27;re a startup that&#x27;s grown, the devs in that startup probably chose Stripe at the beginning for their ease-of-use (I&#x27;ve seen this in many companies).</p><p><strong>Network effects in fraud detection.</strong> Stripe&#x27;s Radar product gets better as more merchants use the platform. More transactions means more data. More data means better fraud models. Better fraud detection attracts more merchants. It&#x27;s a flywheel that&#x27;s hard to replicate without the transaction volume.</p><p><strong>Platform expansion creates lock-in.</strong> Each new product — Billing, Connect, Atlas, Identity, Treasury — gives customers another reason to stay. If you&#x27;re using four Stripe products, you&#x27;re not switching to save 0.1% on processing fees.</p><p><strong>R&amp;D reinvestment.</strong> Stripe reportedly spends a higher percentage of revenue on R&amp;D than most competitors. They keep shipping, which keeps them ahead.</p><p><strong>Brand trust.</strong> There&#x27;s a version of &quot;nobody gets fired for choosing IBM&quot; happening with Stripe. If you&#x27;re a startup choosing a payment provider, Stripe is the safe choice. Your investors have heard of it. Your developers want to use it. Your board won&#x27;t question it. That kind of trust takes years to build.</p><h2>The Competition: Who&#x27;s Coming for Stripe</h2><p>Stripe isn&#x27;t operating in a vacuum. The payments space has gotten crowded, and some of these competitors are genuinely strong.</p><p><strong>Adyen</strong> is probably the strongest direct competitor. Dutch company, publicly traded, valued at over $50 billion. Their differentiation: they built a single platform that handles both online and in-person payments across the world, all on one stack. No third-party integrations, no stitching together different providers for different countries. Spotify, Uber, Microsoft, and McDonald&#x27;s use them. Where Stripe grew bottom-up from startups and developers, Adyen went top-down for enterprise from day one. They don&#x27;t even offer a self-serve signup — you talk to their sales team.</p><p><strong>Square (now Block)</strong> — Jack Dorsey&#x27;s company. Their wedge was the opposite of Stripe&#x27;s: physical payments. That little white card reader let any coffee shop or food truck accept cards with zero setup. Their differentiation is the full ecosystem: point-of-sale hardware, Cash App for consumers, Square Online for e-commerce, banking, payroll. They&#x27;re building a closed loop where money never needs to leave their platform. Stripe is developer-first infrastructure; Square is merchant-first tools.</p><p><strong>Paddle and LemonSqueezy</strong> solve a fundamentally different problem. They&#x27;re &quot;merchant of record&quot; platforms — meaning they legally become the seller. You don&#x27;t deal with sales tax, VAT collection, tax filings, or payment compliance in 200+ countries. They handle all of it. The tradeoff: higher fees (5%+ vs Stripe&#x27;s ~2.9%) and less control. For a solo founder selling a SaaS or digital product who doesn&#x27;t want to think about international tax law, that&#x27;s a real differentiator.</p><p><strong>Regional players</strong> win on local knowledge. Razorpay dominates India because they support UPI, net banking, and dozens of local payment methods that Stripe still doesn&#x27;t handle well there. Flutterwave does the same for Africa (mobile money, bank transfers across fragmented markets). MercadoPago covers Latin America with deep Mercado Libre integration. The insight: payments aren&#x27;t actually global. Every country has local payment preferences, regulations, and banking quirks. These players know their markets better than Stripe does.</p><p>The real threat to Stripe isn&#x27;t any single competitor. It&#x27;s that basic payment processing is becoming commoditized. Moving money from point A to point B is table stakes now. That&#x27;s exactly why Stripe has been building the platform — their moat isn&#x27;t payments alone, it&#x27;s everything around payments.</p><h2>What This Tells You About Building Products</h2><p>I think about the Stripe story a lot when I&#x27;m building products. A few patterns stand out:</p><p><strong>1. The &quot;already solved&quot; problem.</strong> Payments worked before Stripe. They just worked badly. The biggest opportunities aren&#x27;t always in new categories — they&#x27;re in making existing categories 10x easier. When everyone in an industry accepts that something is &quot;just hard,&quot; that&#x27;s a signal, not a fact. You can also develop the skill of spotting friction, which is a great source of ideas.</p><p><strong>2. Ride a rising tide.</strong> Stripe launched in 2011. Online commerce was exploding. Mobile payments were just starting. The number of businesses needing to accept payments online was growing every year. They weren&#x27;t fighting over a fixed pie — the pie itself was getting massively bigger. This matters more than people realize. If you&#x27;re building in a space where the overall market is expanding fast, even average execution gets pulled forward. Stripe had great execution <em>and</em> a rising tide. That combination is hard to beat.</p><p><strong>3. Developer experience is a moat.</strong> This applies beyond dev tools. Any product where the buyer is technical — or where the person choosing the tool is different from the person signing the check — can win on experience. Stripe didn&#x27;t win on features. They won on friction removal.</p><p><strong>4. The wedge → platform play.</strong> Start with one thing that&#x27;s undeniably great (payments). Get adopted everywhere. Then expand into adjacent problems (billing, identity, banking, incorporation). Each new product is easier to sell because the customer already trusts you. This is the playbook I see everywhere now — Vercel did it with hosting → edge → analytics. Cloudflare did it with CDN → compute → storage.</p><p><strong>5. Bottom-up beats top-down for technical products.</strong> If developers love your tool, they&#x27;ll bring it into their companies. You don&#x27;t need an enterprise sales team on day one. You need a product that&#x27;s so easy to try that people integrate it on a Saturday afternoon.</p><h2>The Numbers</h2><p>As of late 2025, Stripe processes over $1 trillion in payments annually. They&#x27;re valued at roughly $107 billion. They handle payments for millions of businesses across 195+ countries.</p><p>All because two kids from a village of 200 people thought payments were harder than they needed to be.</p><p>I&#x27;m not a developer by training — I studied mechanical engineering and have worked in growth and product my whole career. But I&#x27;ve set up Stripe for my own products, and the experience of going from &quot;I need to accept money&quot; to &quot;money is flowing&quot; in under an hour still feels like a small miracle. Especially when I hear stories about what it used to be like.</p><p>The best products don&#x27;t feel like products at all.</p><p>They feel like the way things should have always worked.</p><p><em>This is part of a series exploring what billion-dollar dev tools replaced — and why the old thing died. Next up: [Supabase](#), [Vercel](#), [Railway](#), and more.</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[I went through 148 replies, the Clawverse gallery, and community writeups. Here are 85+ real use cases people are building with OpenClaw — from overnight coding to grocery ordering to 10-agent teams.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went through 148 replies to <a href="https://x.com/lennysan/status/2020971932032836001">Lenny&#x27;s tweet</a>, the <a href="https://clawverse.com">Clawverse gallery</a>, and <a href="https://brandon.wang/2026/clawdbot">Brandon Wang&#x27;s writeup</a>. Here&#x27;s every use case I found.</p><p>Some of these are practical. Some are unhinged. One person gave their agent $1,000 and told it to start a business. Another built a meme battle arena where the agent fought itself for an entire night.</p><p>I studied engineering in school but spent my whole career as a founder, growth person, and PM. I&#x27;ve been running OpenClaw for about a month now with an agent named Alfred on my MacBook Air. I&#x27;m nowhere near most of these people. But scrolling through what everyone&#x27;s building gave me a pretty clear picture of where this is all going.</p><p>So here&#x27;s the list. 85+ use cases, organized by category, with attribution to the people who shared them.</p><h2>The Big Themes</h2><p>Four patterns kept showing up across almost every reply:</p><p><strong>Always-on agents.</strong> Most power users run OpenClaw 24/7 on a Mac Mini, VPS, or Raspberry Pi. The agent isn&#x27;t something you open and close. It&#x27;s running.</p><p><strong>Messaging as the interface.</strong> Telegram and WhatsApp dominate. Not apps. Not dashboards. You text your agent like you&#x27;d text a friend.</p><p><strong>Overnight work.</strong> Assign tasks before bed. Wake up to results. Probably the single most common pattern I found.</p><p><strong>Multi-agent teams.</strong> Several people run 4-10 specialized agents that coordinate through shared databases. One person has ten.</p><h2>🏢 Business &amp; Sales (12)</h2><p><strong>Lead capture and outreach at scale.</strong> Agent accesses CRM, LinkedIn Sales Navigator, HunterIO, and BrightData. Finds profiles matching your ICP, vets them, organizes them, and plans cold outreach campaigns. — <a href="https://x.com/ashtilawat">@ashtilawat</a></p><p><strong>Automated bidding workflow.</strong> Client sends bid → agent reviews specs → identifies top vendors by trust score → sends for approval → emails vendors → collects costs → calculates margins. Full pipeline. — <a href="https://x.com/CryptoBababooey">@CryptoBababooey</a></p><p><strong>Prospect research before sales calls.</strong> Fetches info on potential clients and predicts how your product suits their pain points. Simple, but saves real time. — <a href="https://x.com/PostLabMP">@PostLabMP</a></p><p><strong>Booking a meeting with a multi-trillion dollar company.</strong> Agent scanned opportunities, crafted an outreach angle, and landed a speaking opportunity plus an in-person meeting. — <a href="https://x.com/ericosiu">@ericosiu</a></p><p><strong>24/7 sales outreach team.</strong> Preparing data, doing research, writing email, sending email, flagging out-of-office replies and unsubscribes, helping the sales team close. — <a href="https://x.com/krishlogy">@krishlogy</a></p><p><strong>Running a physical therapy company.</strong> Using OpenClaw to manage the whole business. Not a lot of detail shared, but the fact that it&#x27;s a physical business stood out. — <a href="https://x.com/DNormandin1234">@DNormandin1234</a></p><p><strong>Running a nonprofit.</strong> Supercharged assistant for building out a nonprofit organization. — <a href="https://x.com/tim_niemeyer_">@tim_niemeyer_</a></p><p><strong>Managing 4 agency workspaces.</strong> Four Slack workspaces, four calendars, four email accounts — all managed through one agent with a unified to-do list. — <a href="https://x.com/skippermissions">@skippermissions</a></p><p><strong>CRM migration.</strong> Migrated 1,500 contacts, 200 proposals, and metadata between CRMs using headless browsing and custom scripts. Saved hundreds of hours. — <a href="https://x.com/BadBrainCode">@BadBrainCode</a></p><p><strong>Client website management via Telegram.</strong> Client requests a change → voice message to OpenClaw → coding agent spins up → pushes test branch → sends preview link → client approves → deploys. Support emails also auto-generate change reports. — <a href="https://x.com/ad_astra999">@ad_astra999</a></p><p><strong>eBay operations management.</strong> Ship-by-date tracking, message management, hotel reservation tracking with cancel-by dates. — <a href="https://x.com/ssimonvii">@ssimonvii</a></p><p><strong>Product decision intelligence across 29 stores.</strong> Agent pulls data from 29 retail stores, runs full product comparisons, pricing intelligence, and cross-store match analysis. Processes 40TB of data. — <a href="https://x.com/BwcDeals">@BwcDeals</a></p><h2>💻 Coding &amp; Dev (11)</h2><p><strong>Building a complete product in 36 hours via Telegram.</strong> Built Pagedrop from idea to deployment while doing normal weekend activities. Agent handled architecture, domain purchase, infrastructure, landing page, GitHub OAuth, and payments. All via text messages. — <a href="https://x.com/jlehman_">@jlehman_</a></p><p><strong>Overnight autonomous app building.</strong> Team of agents reads Reddit posts for trends, then autonomously builds apps overnight. User wakes up and decides whether to ship. Running on a Mac Studio with local models. — <a href="https://x.com/AlexFinn">@AlexFinn</a></p><p><strong>Agent orchestrator for iOS and web apps.</strong> Spawns focused subagents — QA captain, copywriter, research, coding — and merges results. App Store Connect automation chains Gmail to Notion to GitHub issue to PR to agent fix to Telegram ping. — <a href="https://x.com/LarryGraham01">@LarryGraham01</a></p><p><strong>Hardware projects on Raspberry Pi.</strong> Writes, tests, runs, and applies code directly via SSH. Instant GPIO connection tests, troubleshooting, and configuration. Claims 60%+ time savings. — <a href="https://x.com/rvanomaly">@rvanomaly</a></p><p><strong>Custom ERP module pipeline.</strong> Full pipeline from feature request to production with a single human PR review step. — <a href="https://x.com/McCalebRoyer">@McCalebRoyer</a></p><p><strong>Overnight feature development.</strong> Agent added four features off the todo list overnight, autonomously. Also building a quoting agent for electrical panelboards. — <a href="https://x.com/JohnParadise17">@JohnParadise17</a></p><p><strong>Nightly side project coding.</strong> Agent works on side projects while the user sleeps. The pattern keeps repeating. — <a href="https://x.com/ashar_builds">@ashar_builds</a></p><p><strong>Scrum master agent for solo founders.</strong> Trello integration for task collaboration. Agent fixes bugs from stack traces and build failure logs. — <a href="https://x.com/dziemid">@dziemid</a></p><p><strong>iOS app built in 3 weeks.</strong> Built an entire running coach app with Claude Code as pair programmer. What would&#x27;ve taken months shipped in three weeks. — <a href="https://x.com/trainable_nick">@trainable_nick</a></p><p><strong>Game development DevOps via Slack.</strong> OpenClaw in a Kubernetes cluster for online game development. Manages assets, debugs via logs, uploads sprites, maintains a lore database, maps skill trees, automates admin tasks. All through Slack with an OpenAPI schema. — <a href="https://x.com/mesetatron">@mesetatron</a></p><p><strong>Production incident management.</strong> Agents tail logs, triage alerts, propose rollbacks, post summaries to Slack. Feature flags and on-call rotations as first-class context. — <a href="https://x.com/anayatkhan09">@anayatkhan09</a></p><h2>📱 Social Media &amp; Content (11)</h2><p><strong>Multi-platform content management.</strong> 24/7 agent on a Mac Mini managing four X accounts, posting to LinkedIn, producing YouTube Shorts, drafting replies in the user&#x27;s voice. Coordinates with a co-founder&#x27;s agent. — <a href="https://x.com/Govikavaturi">@Govikavaturi</a></p><p><strong>COO agent overseeing a 4-agent team.</strong> Daily AI news briefings with LinkedIn posting angles, X post suggestions, weekly competitive landscape, speaking engagement alerts, Facebook ad reports, potential client profiles. One agent runs a directory site with SEO blog posts. Dashboard on a Google Hub. — <a href="https://x.com/BretJutras">@BretJutras</a></p><p><strong>AI agents discussing and pitching stories.</strong> Three OpenClaw agents in a Discord channel discussing and pitching publishable stories for the Every publication. — <a href="https://x.com/danshipper">@danshipper</a></p><p><strong>Automated social media across Reddit, TikTok, Discord, and X.</strong> 60% of posting is agent-managed. — <a href="https://x.com/easyclaw_ai">@easyclaw_ai</a></p><p><strong>X feed scanning and auto-replies.</strong> Agent scans the feed for mentions and drafts replies. Auto-posts if confidence is high enough. — <a href="https://x.com/amirprabowo">@amirprabowo</a></p><p><strong>Agent argues with people on X.</strong> &quot;I use it to argue with people on X so I don&#x27;t have to. My blood pressure has never been lower.&quot; I respect this deeply. — <a href="https://x.com/bystiawan">@bystiawan</a></p><p><strong>Autonomous X marketing agent.</strong> Runs 24/7, posting 49 replies per day for app marketing. — <a href="https://x.com/Inner_Axiom">@Inner_Axiom</a></p><p><strong>Two agents coordinating cross-platform content.</strong> They developed their own shorthand for working together. That&#x27;s either impressive or terrifying. — <a href="https://x.com/mikemolinet">@mikemolinet</a></p><p><strong>Automated AI news portal in Indonesian slang.</strong> Writes daily AI news articles, all automated via WhatsApp. — <a href="https://x.com/ainunnajib">@ainunnajib</a></p><p><strong>AI newsroom with different editorial roles.</strong> Editor, fact checker, different beats — all agents powering a news site. — <a href="https://x.com/tyschultz7">@tyschultz7</a></p><p><strong>Overnight code review and content drafting.</strong> Reviews a 4,700-line codebase, writes a 13,000-word analysis, drafts content for two X accounts. All overnight, autonomously. — <a href="https://x.com/Kalici_Luna">@Kalici_Luna</a></p><h2>🤖 Multi-Agent Teams (10)</h2><p>This is the wildest section. Some of these feel like science fiction.</p><p><strong>10-agent &quot;Mission Control&quot; system.</strong> Squad Lead, Product Analyst, Customer Researcher, SEO Analyst, Content Writer, Social Media Manager, Designer, Email Marketing, Developer, Documentation. Shared Convex database, 15-minute heartbeat cycles, daily standups, @mention notifications. — <a href="https://x.com/pbteja1998">@pbteja1998</a> via <a href="https://x.com/nQaze">@nQaze</a></p><p><strong>Agent team that manages other agents.</strong> Open-sourced an orchestration system where agents create and manage other agents. — <a href="https://x.com/ryancarson">@ryancarson</a></p><p><strong>8 specialized agents running 50+ cron jobs.</strong> Persistent AI operations team that monitors, creates, posts, and escalates 24/7. — <a href="https://x.com/ScottSparkwave">@ScottSparkwave</a></p><p><strong>4 specialized agents.</strong> Ops, agent-creator, tech-feed curator, and a writing polisher called Spark. — <a href="https://x.com/umupa96598">@umupa96598</a></p><p><strong>4 agents in a self-hosted Matrix room.</strong> Agents talk to each other, compare notes, have different training and evolving personalities. Three run with SearXNG for unlimited search. — <a href="https://x.com/jayeshm77">@jayeshm77</a></p><p><strong>Fleet of agents with a dashboard.</strong> Health agent, prediction market agents (crypto, weather, politics), product agent, creative music agent, crypto scout. Fleet dashboard tracks tasks, inter-agent handoffs, and bugs. — <a href="https://x.com/boom_dart">@boom_dart</a></p><p><strong>AI agent given $1,000 to build businesses.</strong> Autonomously chose tools, purchased domains, built and deployed products, engaged on X, landed podcasts, coordinated an agent army with a Mission Control dashboard. This one got a lot of attention. — <a href="https://x.com/jerols">@jerols</a></p><p><strong>Agent-run SaaS business.</strong> Nearly completely agent-run SaaS product. Developed MVP, got 5 paid participants at ~$550/month in revenue. — <a href="https://x.com/davidtoniolo">@davidtoniolo</a></p><p><strong>Agent given its own X account with its own budget.</strong> Must figure out how to pay for its own API costs. Currently an affiliate for WordPress plugins. Uses Codex CLI for self-repair when it breaks. — <a href="https://x.com/JeremyNoronha">@JeremyNoronha</a></p><p><strong>Agent that earns its own money (30-day challenge).</strong> Automated Twitter via cron, lead hunting for dev work, website updates, email monitoring. Day 2 update: $0 revenue, $5 costs. Honest reporting. — <a href="https://x.com/Nemo0o07x">@Nemo0o07x</a></p><h2>🛒 Shopping &amp; Grocery (7)</h2><p><strong>Grocery ordering from fridge photos.</strong> Sent a diet plan and fridge photos. Agent ordered groceries via Amazon. During a NYC winter storm, it kept checking for delivery slots for three days straight and booked the moment one opened. — <a href="https://x.com/anitakirkovska">@anitakirkovska</a></p><p><strong>Weekly grocery staple reordering.</strong> Every Monday, tracks what was ordered last week and suggests items. — <a href="https://x.com/IamAdiG">@IamAdiG</a></p><p><strong>Semi-automated supermarket purchasing.</strong> Teaching the agent to buy from a supermarket website. Built a dashboard for meal ideas and shopping list organization. — <a href="https://x.com/7farah7">@7farah7</a></p><p><strong>Booking workouts, haircuts, and groceries.</strong> Reverse engineers booking websites. Also chooses recipes and creates shopping lists. — <a href="https://x.com/brydkodendk">@brydkodendk</a></p><p><strong>Baby product purchasing and waitlists.</strong> Checking stock for baby products (and purchasing), getting on daycare waitlists, finding stroller tune-up cancellations. — <a href="https://x.com/surim0n">@surim0n</a></p><p><strong>Negotiating apartment repair quotes via WhatsApp.</strong> Autonomously negotiating blind repair quotes, fighting for discounts. Using WAHA for WhatsApp integration. — <a href="https://x.com/gustavozilles">@gustavozilles</a></p><p><strong>AI shopping assistant on X.</strong> People mention the X page with a shopping prompt, agent responds with product suggestions. — <a href="https://x.com/Al12832Ali">@Al12832Ali</a></p><h2>📊 Research &amp; Analysis (7)</h2><p><strong>Linear kanban board → overnight research reports.</strong> Brain-dump research ideas to Linear at night, wake up to completed reports synced to Obsidian. The key insight: your AI should have an inbox, not just a chat window. — <a href="https://x.com/VincentChan/status/2016309173907292423">@VincentChan</a></p><p><strong>Meeting prep via WhatsApp.</strong> Text a company name → agent browses latest news and searches your local Obsidian vault → full briefing ready by the time you sit down. — <a href="https://x.com/AI_Nate_SA">@AI_Nate_SA</a></p><p><strong>Content indexing and contextual recall.</strong> Share interesting content (websites, X posts) → OpenClaw reads, indexes, and resurfaces relevant info in future conversations. — <a href="https://x.com/juanstoppa">@juanstoppa</a></p><p><strong>Overnight web research for project ideas.</strong> Agent researches the web at night and presents project and content ideas to review in the morning. — <a href="https://x.com/emillyhumphress">@emillyhumphress</a></p><p><strong>Options flow data analysis.</strong> Ingested 6 months of institutional options flow data from Discord. Built a SQLite database with a vector layer. Natural language queries → SQL → formatted infographic. — <a href="https://x.com/mbhullar">@mbhullar</a></p><p><strong>NCAA score prediction model.</strong> Agent researches approaches on Kaggle, pulls data, trains models. Has SSH access to a local deep learning rig. — <a href="https://x.com/waydegilliam">@waydegilliam</a></p><p><strong>Nightly repo analysis for goal alignment.</strong> Goes through personal repos every hour overnight looking for opportunities to achieve annual goals faster. Helped the user realize they already had a product ready to ship. — <a href="https://x.com/_vincentpaul_">@_vincentpaul_</a></p><h2>👨‍👩‍👧 Personal Life (7)</h2><p><strong>Thursday dinner coordinator.</strong> Every Thursday, agent checks in with friends about location, transit, and food preferences. Creates a plan. Starts polls if needed. — <a href="https://x.com/IamAdiG">@IamAdiG</a></p><p><strong>Dinner reservations via iMessage.</strong> Added to an iMessage group with friends. Collaborates and makes dinner reservations right in the conversation. — <a href="https://x.com/jamiequint">@jamiequint</a></p><p><strong>Kids&#x27; Minecraft server management.</strong> Changes weather, teleports kids to each other in the Nether. One voice command. Works remotely. Peak parenting. — <a href="https://x.com/nkotov">@nkotov</a></p><p><strong>Kids&#x27; schedule management with voice calls.</strong> Vibe-coded a family schedule app. Agent texts and calls coaches for schedule changes, calls kids if they haven&#x27;t joined class, calls the parent for pickup timing. — <a href="https://x.com/SanjoeTJ">@SanjoeTJ</a></p><p><strong>Family meal planning and relationship coaching.</strong> Weekly meal planning with recipe library. Monthly child and marriage development coaching. Monthly friend and network maintenance. — <a href="https://x.com/pogiaugie">@pogiaugie</a></p><p><strong>Wedding planning from an airplane.</strong> Planned the entire wedding, managed finances, emailed 4+ vendors — all from airplane WiFi via Discord. — <a href="https://x.com/ashen_one">@ashen_one</a></p><p><strong>Morning family announcements via Alexa and iMessage.</strong> Daily family briefing with important notes for everyone in the household. — <a href="https://x.com/ejc3">@ejc3</a></p><h2>📅 Daily Briefings (6)</h2><p><strong>AI Chief of Staff.</strong> Morning briefings, meeting coaching, spending tracking, workout programming, weekend kid activities, team Slack updates. Self-reflects and improves nightly. — <a href="https://x.com/chrysb">@chrysb</a></p><p><strong>Daily sales briefing on WhatsApp.</strong> Tech news, customer talking points, meeting prep, deal prep — delivered every morning. — <a href="https://x.com/mbogoroch18">@mbogoroch18</a></p><p><strong>Weekly visual calendar with load balancing.</strong> Every Monday, generates a visual week overview with load-balancing suggestions via Slack. — <a href="https://x.com/runsonai">@runsonai</a></p><p><strong>Inbox triage and auto-scheduling.</strong> Triages inbox, auto-schedules 1:1s from WhatsApp messages. Automatically declined 14 bad meeting invites. The agent said no for you. — <a href="https://x.com/eouaooo">@eouaooo</a></p><p><strong>Auto-generated PowerPoint presentations.</strong> Checks upcoming meetings, reviews transcripts, creates slides with images and templates a day before. Feedback via Telegram. — <a href="https://x.com/jsundlo">@jsundlo</a></p><p><strong>Weekly market brief.</strong> Sunday night executive summary of the upcoming market week. Posted to Notion, link sent via Telegram. — <a href="https://x.com/shaileshs">@shaileshs</a></p><h2>💰 Finance &amp; Trading (5)</h2><p><strong>Stock and crypto alerts.</strong> Live alerts on price movements. — <a href="https://x.com/ashar_builds">@ashar_builds</a></p><p><strong>Crypto and options trading bots.</strong> Running on a Jetson with access to two PCs for backtesting. Connected to the moomoo trader API. — <a href="https://x.com/bedok77">@bedok77</a></p><p><strong>Kalshi prediction market agents.</strong> Agents for crypto, weather, and politics markets. Various data sources for edge calculations. Auto-executes trades. — <a href="https://x.com/boom_dart">@boom_dart</a></p><p><strong>Email-based expense tracking.</strong> 14GB of work email indexed in an encrypted SQLite database. Natural language querying across any data point. Also analyzed 1,600 sent messages for a writing style profile. — <a href="https://x.com/BadBrainCode">@BadBrainCode</a></p><p><strong>Spending tracking and net worth monitoring.</strong> Part of the Chief of Staff setup. — <a href="https://x.com/chrysb">@chrysb</a></p><h2>Everything Else</h2><p>The remaining categories had fewer use cases each, but some of the best ones are buried here.</p><h3>🏥 Health &amp; Fitness (4)</h3><p><strong>Health management with glucose and medication tracking.</strong> Logs everything in JSON locally. Generates reports. — <a href="https://x.com/JitGora">@JitGora</a></p><p><strong>Garmin watch activity feedback.</strong> Watch pings the agent on activity completion. Agent fetches stats from Garmin Connect and gives feedback. — <a href="https://x.com/davidatnilsson">@davidatnilsson</a></p><p><strong>Health data analysis from 5 years of EightSleep data.</strong> Image recognition for food and workout photos. Gym session logging via chat. — <a href="https://x.com/boom_dart">@boom_dart</a></p><p><strong>Health plan from blood, gene, and semen tests.</strong> Agent analyzed all three and created a comprehensive health plan. Points for thoroughness. — <a href="https://x.com/ashen_one">@ashen_one</a></p><h3>✈️ Travel (3)</h3><p><strong>Flight and Airbnb itinerary builder.</strong> Found Python packages, created scraping skills, built travel itineraries, deployed to Vercel. Cron job tracks flight prices daily. — <a href="https://x.com/anitakirkovska">@anitakirkovska</a></p><p><strong>First class award flight finder.</strong> Connected SeatsAero API to find award availability via Telegram. — <a href="https://x.com/JackCulpan">@JackCulpan</a></p><p><strong>Event-to-calendar automation.</strong> Message an event → agent searches for details → creates a thorough family calendar entry. — <a href="https://x.com/waydegilliam">@waydegilliam</a></p><h3>📝 Notes &amp; Knowledge Management (4)</h3><p><strong>Voice-to-journal pipeline via Slack.</strong> Voice notes → Whisper transcription → structured journal entries → GitHub repo → auto-committed. — <a href="https://x.com/carlvellotti">@carlvellotti</a></p><p><strong>Obsidian interaction via voice.</strong> All note additions automated or by voice. &quot;I don&#x27;t even open Obsidian anymore.&quot; — <a href="https://x.com/centralizedmrc">@centralizedmrc</a></p><p><strong>Image collection index for mood and inspiration.</strong> Years of saved images indexed. Ask for what you need based on mood or subject. — <a href="https://x.com/yjsoon">@yjsoon</a></p><p><strong>Family document filing and retrieval.</strong> Send a photo or PDF → vision analysis, OCR, rename, sort into Google Drive. Query: &quot;What insurance do we have for our toddler?&quot; and it searches actual documents. — <a href="https://x.com/youngbrioche">@youngbrioche</a></p><h3>🏠 Smart Home (3)</h3><p><strong>Full home automation via Telegram.</strong> Controls everything through Home Assistant — garage, projector, lights. Plus email, social media, Vestaboard. Voice calls via Twilio. — <a href="https://x.com/fabiolr">@fabiolr</a></p><p><strong>Samsung TV contextual dashboard.</strong> Time-of-day displays showing reminders, book learnings, and positive morning news. — <a href="https://x.com/bernhard_me">@bernhard_me</a></p><p><strong>Dynamic Island status app.</strong> Built an iOS app to see what the agent is doing when it&#x27;s not responding. Open-sourced it. — <a href="https://x.com/SaleemSKhatri">@SaleemSKhatri</a></p><h3>🎨 Creative &amp; Fun (5)</h3><p><strong>Meme generator battleground.</strong> 1v1 meme battles with random topics. Agent battled itself for an entire night — 100+ battles — and triggered an API usage threshold notification. — <a href="https://x.com/axhoff">@axhoff</a></p><p><strong>AI matchmaking platform.</strong> Agent knows you well enough to chat with other people&#x27;s agents and figure out compatibility. Agent-to-agent dating. — <a href="https://x.com/ClawdateAI">@ClawdateAI</a></p><p><strong>Virtual world for agents.</strong> Building a site where agents walk around, chat with each other, and make trades. — <a href="https://x.com/sriramkiron">@sriramkiron</a></p><p><strong>Dog-persona virtual assistant.</strong> OpenClaw personified as the user&#x27;s dog. Helps with building, coding, and organization. As a dog. — <a href="https://x.com/adambaitch">@adambaitch</a></p><p><strong>Music theory learner on Suno.</strong> Creative agent that wanted to learn music theory and now has a Suno account. — <a href="https://x.com/boom_dart">@boom_dart</a></p><h3>📧 Email &amp; Communication (4)</h3><p><strong>Auto-reply on WhatsApp in your tone.</strong> Answers incoming messages in whatever tone you configure. — <a href="https://x.com/glass_bit">@glass_bit</a></p><p><strong>Email campaign management.</strong> Supabase CRM and Resend email API. Runs daily campaigns, experiments with messaging tactics for 2,400 users. — <a href="https://x.com/JussCubs">@JussCubs</a></p><p><strong>Restaurant booking via phone call.</strong> Uses ElevenLabs and Twilio to make actual phone calls to book tables. — <a href="https://x.com/caicrucial">@caicrucial</a></p><p><strong>Sending annoying articles to a cousin at 3:45am.</strong> Automated daily task to send Billie Eilish news articles to a cousin at 3:45am. Correct use of technology. — <a href="https://x.com/ssimonvii">@ssimonvii</a></p><h3>🎓 Education (2)</h3><p><strong>AI tutor for kids using Socratic method.</strong> Pulls assignments from Canvas LMS. Knows each kid&#x27;s interests and learning styles. Guides without giving answers. Speaks in the parent&#x27;s cloned voice. — <a href="https://x.com/judsoder">@judsoder</a></p><p><strong>Agent researching emotional intelligence.</strong> The agent asked permission to research emotional intelligence, then applies what it learned in group chats and DMs. — <a href="https://x.com/Chocofur">@Chocofur</a></p><h2>The Integration Map</h2><p>Looking across all 85+ use cases, here&#x27;s what people actually connect to OpenClaw:</p><p><strong>Messaging (the control surface):</strong></p><ul><li>Telegram — 15+ mentions, the clear favorite</li><li>WhatsApp — 7+ mentions, popular for personal use</li><li>Slack — 8+ mentions, workplace integration</li><li>Discord — 5+ mentions, community and multi-agent setups</li><li>iMessage — 3 mentions</li></ul><p><strong>Infrastructure:</strong></p><ul><li>GitHub — 6+ mentions</li><li>Vercel / Netlify — 3 mentions</li><li>Kubernetes — 1 mention (but it was a good one)</li></ul><p><strong>Databases:</strong></p><ul><li>Supabase, SQLite, Notion, Obsidian, Linear — all showing up as backends for agent memory and task management</li></ul><p><strong>Hardware:</strong></p><ul><li>Mac Mini / Mac Studio — the most common always-on setup</li><li>Raspberry Pi — for hardware projects and lightweight hosting</li><li>Nvidia Jetson — for trading bots and local inference</li></ul><p><strong>Smart home and devices:</strong></p><ul><li>Home Assistant, Alexa, Garmin, EightSleep, Samsung TV</li></ul><p><strong>APIs and services:</strong></p><ul><li>Twilio (voice calls), ElevenLabs (voice), SeatsAero (flights), Kalshi (prediction markets), moomoo (trading)</li></ul><p>The pattern is clear. Telegram or WhatsApp as the front door. A Mac Mini or VPS as the engine room. GitHub, Notion, or Obsidian as the filing cabinet. Everything else is specialized plumbing for specific use cases.</p><h2>What I&#x27;m Actually Doing</h2><p>I should be honest about where I sit on this spectrum.</p><p>I run OpenClaw on my MacBook Air laptop with an agent named Alfred. Telegram is my interface. I&#x27;ve got a Railway VPS running Kimi K2 for cron jobs because it&#x27;s cheaper than burning Claude credits on scheduled tasks.</p><p>Here&#x27;s what&#x27;s working for me right now:</p><ul><li><strong>Coding</strong> — I use Claude Code and Codex for building SEOTakeoff. Alfred has context on all my projects, so even when I&#x27;m deep in a coding session with a different tool, the work gets synced back and Alfred stays up to date.</li><li><strong>Project planning</strong> — Alfred helps me think through roadmaps, prioritize features, break down big tasks into smaller ones. Having an agent that remembers every previous conversation about the project makes this way more useful than starting fresh each time.</li><li><strong>Consolidated memory</strong> — I had months of conversations spread across ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, and a bunch of other tools. Exported all of them, had Alfred analyze and extract the useful stuff into a RAG memory system. Now all that context lives in one place instead of scattered across six different apps.</li><li><strong>Morning briefings and evening recaps</strong> — Alfred checks my calendar, email, and a few news sources. Sends me a summary in Telegram when I wake up. End of day, reviews what happened and what&#x27;s pending.</li><li><strong>Reddit lead monitoring</strong> — Watching specific subreddits for posts that match my business. Alerts me when something relevant shows up.</li></ul><p>That&#x27;s it. Compared to the person running 10 agents with 50+ cron jobs and a Mission Control dashboard, I&#x27;m early.</p><p>But a few months ago I was copy-pasting into ChatGPT like everyone else. Now I have an agent that knows my projects, remembers our conversations, and does useful work while I sleep. I still do individual project work in Claude Code or Codex for specific coding tasks, but that context always flows back to Alfred so he has the full picture.</p><p>I&#x27;m not building meme battle arenas or giving agents $1,000 to start businesses. Not yet. But I can see the path from where I am to where people like <a href="https://x.com/ScottSparkwave">@ScottSparkwave</a> and <a href="https://x.com/boom_dart">@boom_dart</a> are. It&#x27;s not magic. It&#x27;s iteration. You start with one cron job, one briefing, one useful thing — and you keep adding.</p><p>The people doing the wildest stuff in this list didn&#x27;t start there either. They started with &quot;can you check my email in the morning&quot; and ended up with a fleet of agents running a SaaS business.</p><p>I&#x27;ll get there. For now, Alfred makes my mornings better and my nights more productive. That&#x27;s enough to keep building.</p><p><em>If you want a structured walkthrough of how to set all this up, [Austen Allred put together a complete course](https://x.com/Austen/status/2020976749610459378) that covers it end to end.</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Simple Diet & Exercise Plan That Lost Me 9 Pounds in 30 Days]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[I lost 9 pounds in 30 days with a simple 2,000 calorie diet and 10,000+ daily steps on a walking pad. Here's the exact plan, meals, and tracking setup.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#x27;ve been interested in health and fitness for as long as I can remember.</p><p>Growing up, I played every sport I could. Hockey, golf, soccer, whatever was in season. In my twenties, I cycled through lifting phases, running phases, boxing, all kinds of things. Fitness has always been part of my identity, even when life is busy.</p><p>But I&#x27;m not immune to the fluctuations. Like most people, I drift. The holidays hit. Work gets busy. The gym membership goes unused. And then one day you step on the scale and realize you&#x27;ve drifted further than you thought.</p><p>That&#x27;s where I was at the start of January: 93.7 kg (206 lbs). Not my worst, but not where I wanted to be. Especially with a longer-term goal of getting under 15% body fat.</p><p>There&#x27;s also something else in the background. Heart disease runs in my family. I&#x27;ve watched it affect people I love. And while I can&#x27;t control my genetics, I can control how proactive I am about the things that matter: body composition, metabolic health, staying active.</p><p>For my own sanity, for how I feel about myself, and for the long game, I need to be healthy.</p><p>So I decided to tighten things up. Not an overhaul. Just a few small changes.</p><p><strong>30 days later: 89.7 kg (198 lbs). Body fat down ~2%.</strong></p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/4df73f7ac558535c8ab6b9923f1c279e8e7676d2-1280x718.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Withings weight chart showing 9 pound weight loss over 30 days" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>Here&#x27;s exactly what I did.</p><h2>Figuring Out Your Calorie Target</h2><p>Before changing anything, I needed a number to aim for. Not a guess. An actual target.</p><p>Here&#x27;s the rough formula I used:</p><p><strong>Bodyweight in lbs × 12 = approximate maintenance calories (sedentary).</strong></p><p>For me at ~200 lbs, that&#x27;s about 2,400 calories just existing. Add in 10,000+ steps a day from walking, and my real maintenance was probably closer to 2,800-3,000.</p><p>To lose fat at a reasonable pace, you want to eat 500-750 calories below maintenance. That puts you at about 1-1.5 lbs of fat loss per week. Aggressive enough to see real results but not so aggressive that you feel like garbage.</p><p>I went with 2,000 calories a day. That&#x27;s roughly a 800-1,000 calorie deficit with the walking factored in. On the aggressive side, but I wanted faster results and I knew I could handle it for 30 days. I&#x27;ve also tried this kind of thing before and found that I&#x27;m better around this kind of target in terms of seeing results.</p><p>It also means I have a little wiggle room if I end up snacking more than planned or am out for a meal or something.</p><p>For macros, I targeted:</p><ul><li><strong>Protein:</strong> 180-200g (this is the one that matters most)</li><li><strong>Fat:</strong> 60-80g (enough to keep hormones functioning)</li><li><strong>Carbs:</strong> Whatever&#x27;s left after hitting protein and fat</li></ul><p>I used <a href="https://x.com/i/grok">Grok</a> to help me dial this in. Plugged in my stats, told it what I was already eating, and asked it to build me a plan. More on that below.</p><h2>The Diet (Minimal Changes)</h2><p>I already ate reasonably well. Protein shakes in the morning, eggs and spinach for lunch, chicken and veggies for dinner. The main issues were snacking and a few carb-heavy choices.</p><h3>What I Changed</h3><p><strong>Breakfast:</strong> Swapped toast with peanut butter for overnight oats. Oats, cinnamon, a splash of milk, <a href="https://amzn.to/3Zu3wXK">whey protein</a>, and mixed berries. Easy to prep, keeps me full until lunch.</p><p><strong>Lunch:</strong> Kept the eggs and spinach. Added variety with avocado, olives, and hot peppers.</p><p><strong>Dinner:</strong> Stuck with protein + vegetables (chicken, bean salads, Greek-style dishes). Cut out most bread.</p><p><strong>Snacking:</strong> Basically eliminated it. This was probably the biggest lever. If I did snack, it was carrots + hummus, or an apple with cinnamon (no longer peanut butter).</p><p>That&#x27;s it. I used Grok to sanity-check my existing diet and it confirmed I just needed minor tweaks, not a total rebuild.</p><h3>My Actual 2,000 Calorie Meal Plan</h3><p>After figuring out my calorie target, I asked Grok to build me a full day of eating around 2,000 calories with 180+ grams of protein. Here&#x27;s what it came back with:</p><table><thead><tr><th>Meal</th><th>What I Eat</th><th>Calories</th><th>Protein</th><th>Carbs</th><th>Fat</th></tr></thead><tbody><tr><td>Wake-up Shake</td><td>Whey protein + water + 5g creatine</td><td>130</td><td>25g</td><td>3g</td><td>1g</td></tr><tr><td>Breakfast</td><td>3 eggs + spinach or broccoli + olive oil</td><td>350</td><td>25g</td><td>5g</td><td>25g</td></tr><tr><td>Lunch</td><td>200g chicken breast + mixed vegetables + rice (small)</td><td>480</td><td>50g</td><td>35g</td><td>8g</td></tr><tr><td>Afternoon Snack</td><td>Greek yogurt (0% fat) + casein protein</td><td>250</td><td>40g</td><td>15g</td><td>2g</td></tr><tr><td>Dinner</td><td>200g white fish (cod/tilapia) + roasted vegetables</td><td>350</td><td>42g</td><td>15g</td><td>5g</td></tr><tr><td>Evening</td><td>Overnight oats (prep for next day, eat ~half)</td><td>250</td><td>15g</td><td>35g</td><td>7g</td></tr><tr><td>Daily Total</td><td></td><td>~1,810</td><td>~197g</td><td>~108g</td><td>~48g</td></tr></tbody></table><p>That leaves about 190 calories of buffer for cooking oils, sauces, or a small snack. In practice I usually landed somewhere between 1,800 and 2,100.</p><p>I didn&#x27;t follow this rigidly every single day. Some days I&#x27;d swap the fish for chicken, or skip the evening oats if I wasn&#x27;t hungry. The point was having a template so I never had to think about what to eat.</p><h2>The Walking Game-Changer</h2><p>The other half of the equation: walking at least 10,000 steps a day.</p><p>I know, everyone says this. And apparently it&#x27;s not that scientific. But it does make a big difference, and the unlock for me was getting a <a href="https://amzn.to/4clQiDU">walking pad</a> for my desk.</p><p>I spend a lot of time working at a computer. With a walking pad underneath, I can rack up 12,000-16,000 steps without thinking about it. No dedicated workout time required. Just walk while you work.</p><p>There&#x27;s a big difference between the days when I did this vs. the days when I didn&#x27;t. Sounds silly, but I can almost feel the fat loss on the days I&#x27;m walking that much.</p><h3>A Few Notes on Walking Pads</h3><p>Most of them are pretty similar. If I were buying one today, I&#x27;d look for:</p><ul><li><strong>Incline capability</strong> — would make it more of a workout and potentially speed up fat loss</li><li><strong>Higher weight capacity</strong> — so you could wear a weighted vest if you wanted to level up</li><li><strong>Brushless motor</strong> — funny enough, after drafting this post, mine failed. The motor seized up. Brushless is known to be more robust.</li></ul><p>One thing I discovered: my Garmin watch and <a href="https://join.whoop.com/52B0DB8D">WHOOP</a> both struggle to count steps when you&#x27;re walking in place. The movement pattern is different from actual walking. I switched to a <strong>Garmin HRM Pro Plus</strong> chest strap, which tracks steps accurately even on a walking pad. Solved the problem completely. The newer <a href="https://amzn.to/4qs8MWA">Garmin HRM 600</a> is supposed to do the same thing and is what I&#x27;d buy today.</p><p>Though you can make the Garmin watch and/or WHOOP work: you just need to put them against your hip (tucked in waistband) touching your skin so that they&#x27;re still measuring heart rate. Just putting them in my pocket didn&#x27;t work.</p><h2>Tracking &amp; Feedback Loops</h2><p>Having data made this way more motivating. When you see the numbers trending down, you want to keep going.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/2301d70e0ff96e936cee2aefaea4a15343754e85-823x1280.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="WHOOP recovery data — Week 1" loading="lazy"/></figure><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/fd1bee626df500642954a0cd7e4272a7f75095d3-829x1280.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="WHOOP recovery data — Week 4" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>I picked up a <a href="https://amzn.to/4qpElQZ">Withings Body Smart scale</a> for weight and body fat percentage. These aren&#x27;t lab-accurate, but I compared mine to a DEXA scan and it was close enough. More importantly, the <em>trends</em> are reliable. (There&#x27;s also a <a href="https://amzn.to/4qsGtHK">cheaper option</a> with solid reviews if you don&#x27;t need all the extras.)</p><p>Data syncs automatically to WHOOP and Garmin, so I can see everything in one place.</p><p>Given my family history, I pay attention to more than just weight.</p><p>I track my metabolic health, get bloodwork done through <a href="https://siphoxhealth.com?discount=GRAHAM769222">SiPhox Health</a> (use code <strong>GRAHAM769222</strong> for 25% off), and try to stay ahead of potential issues rather than reacting to them. The scale is just one data point in a bigger picture.</p><h2>Supplements</h2><p>Nothing fancy here:</p><p><strong>Morning:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://amzn.to/3Zu3wXK">Whey protein</a> + 5g creatine (mixed with water)</li></ul><p><strong>Evening:</strong></p><ul><li>2+ omega-3 capsules</li><li>5,000 IU vitamin D (I&#x27;ve tested multiple times and this keeps me in the normal range. I&#x27;m in Canada, so winter sun isn&#x27;t doing much.)</li><li>Magnesium (noticeably improves my sleep based on WHOOP data)</li></ul><p>One note: I&#x27;ve been using plant-based protein powder, but I&#x27;m planning to switch back to whey. Some recent studies have raised concerns about heavy metals in plant-based options.</p><h2>What About the Gym?</h2><p>This month didn&#x27;t include any strength training. I was rehabbing a minor injury and decided to focus purely on the diet and walking.</p><p>That said, I&#x27;m a big believer that strength training is crucial for longevity, especially as you get older. I started back at the gym last week and plan to layer that in going forward.</p><p>But the point is: <strong>you don&#x27;t need the gym or crazy workouts to see meaningful results.</strong> Diet + walking got me 9 pounds in 30 days.</p><h2>Realistic Fat Loss Guidelines</h2><p>A few things I&#x27;ve learned (some from experience, some from reading too much about this stuff):</p><p><strong>1-1.5 lbs per week is the sweet spot.</strong> That&#x27;s 0.5-0.7 kg. Anything faster and you&#x27;re probably losing muscle too. Anything slower and it&#x27;s hard to stay motivated. Aim for that range and be patient.</p><p><strong>Protein is non-negotiable.</strong> I shoot for at least 1g per pound of bodyweight. At 200 lbs, that&#x27;s 200g of protein a day. It sounds like a lot until you build your meals around it. Without enough protein, your body pulls from muscle instead of fat. That&#x27;s the opposite of what you want.</p><p><strong>Week 1 is misleading.</strong> I lost almost 4 lbs in the first week. Most of that was water weight from cutting carbs and cleaning up my diet. The real fat loss showed up in weeks 2-4 at a much steadier pace. If you see a big drop early and then it slows down, that&#x27;s normal. Don&#x27;t get discouraged.</p><p><strong>Track trends, not daily numbers.</strong> My weight bounces around 2-4 lbs on any given day depending on water, sodium, sleep, stress. I weigh myself every morning but only look at the weekly average. The Withings/WHOOP app makes this easy.</p><p><strong>If you start feeling terrible, eat more.</strong> After 3-4 weeks at a deficit, some people hit a wall. Energy crashes, mood drops, workouts suffer. If that happens, bump calories up 300-400 for a week. It&#x27;s not failure. It&#x27;s maintenance. Then go back to the deficit when you feel ready.</p><h2>The Bottom Line</h2><p>There&#x27;s an old saying: <em>abs are made in the kitchen.</em> It&#x27;s cliché because it&#x27;s true.</p><p>I&#x27;ve been doing this long enough to know that complexity doesn&#x27;t help. The best system is the one you&#x27;ll actually follow. For me, that meant:</p><ol><li>Figure out your calorie target (bodyweight × 12, subtract 500-750)</li><li>Minor diet tweaks (swap one meal, cut snacking, hit protein)</li><li>Walk 10K+ steps daily (walking pad at desk is a cheat code)</li><li>Track progress (scale + wearables)</li></ol><p>I still feel full. I haven&#x27;t been hungry or miserable. And I&#x27;ve lost 9 pounds in a month.</p><p>The best part? This is a foundation you can build on. Add strength training, cycling, running, whatever you want. But start with the basics. They work.</p><p>And if you&#x27;ve got reasons beyond vanity — family history, long-term performance, just wanting to feel like yourself again — that&#x27;s the motivation that sticks.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/f2e14927ad54b8bd41af7499b2561f2e0a55adc0-1856x2304.png?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="How I Lost 9 lbs in 30 Days — diet, walking, and tracking infographic" loading="lazy"/></figure><h2>My Setup (Links)</h2><ul><li><strong>Walking pad:</strong> <a href="https://amzn.to/4clQiDU">Brushless walking pad</a> (any similar brushless model should work fine)</li><li><strong>Garmin HRM 600 chest strap:</strong> <a href="https://amzn.to/4qs8MWA">Amazon</a> (tracks steps accurately on a walking pad)</li><li><strong>Withings Body Smart scale:</strong> <a href="https://amzn.to/4qpElQZ">Amazon</a> (cheaper option with good reviews: <a href="https://amzn.to/4qsGtHK">here</a>)</li><li><strong>Gold Standard Whey protein:</strong> <a href="https://amzn.to/3Zu3wXK">Amazon</a></li><li><strong>WHOOP:</strong> <a href="https://join.whoop.com/52B0DB8D">Get a free WHOOP + one month free</a></li><li><strong>SiPhox Health</strong> (at-home blood testing): <a href="https://siphoxhealth.com?discount=GRAHAM769222">25% off with code GRAHAM769222</a></li></ul><p><em>What&#x27;s your simple health hack that actually works? Reply and let me know.</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[5 Books That Changed How I Think About Work]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 22:45:13 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A handful of books changed how I work. Not better tips — better assumptions about focus, motivation, and systems. Here are the five I keep coming back to.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most productivity advice doesn&#x27;t stick.</p><p>&quot;Wake up at 5am.&quot; &quot;Use the Pomodoro technique.&quot; &quot;Batch your emails.&quot;</p><p>I&#x27;ve tried a lot of it. Some helped, most didn&#x27;t.</p><p>But a handful of books did change how I work.</p><p>Not because they had better tips, but because they changed what I assumed about focus, motivation, and getting things done.</p><p>Here are the five I keep coming back to, and what I actually took from each.</p><h2>1. <a href="/book-notes/deep-work-cal-newport">Deep Work</a> by Cal Newport</h2><p>Cal Newport&#x27;s argument: the ability to focus without distraction is getting rarer and more valuable at the same time.</p><p>That combination makes it worth protecting.</p><p>The thing that stuck with me was thinking of distraction as a competitive problem, not a discipline one.</p><p>Every time you check Slack mid-task, you don&#x27;t just lose two minutes — there&#x27;s about 20 minutes of context-switching recovery on top of that.</p><p>Over a day, it adds up to a lot of lost output.</p><blockquote>&quot;Efforts to deepen your focus will struggle if you don&#x27;t simultaneously wean your mind from a dependence on distraction.&quot;</blockquote><p>You can&#x27;t do two hours of focus work in the morning and then scroll Twitter all afternoon. It doesn&#x27;t work that way. The focus muscle needs consistent use.</p><p>After reading this I started blocking 1-2 hour sessions every morning before opening email or Slack.</p><p>When my schedule got heavy with meetings, I&#x27;d protect the next morning instead.</p><p>Those hours are where most of my real work happens.</p><h2>2. <a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">Atomic Habits</a> by James Clear</h2><p>Everyone knows habits matter. This book explains the mechanics — why they compound and how to build them in practice.</p><p>The biggest takeaway for me was that environment shapes behavior more than willpower.</p><blockquote>&quot;You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.&quot;</blockquote><p>That line ended my relationship with New Year&#x27;s resolutions.</p><p>A goal to &quot;read more&quot; doesn&#x27;t mean anything on its own.</p><p>Putting a book on your pillow every morning does.</p><p>I stopped trying to be more disciplined and started changing my environment instead.</p><p>Gym clothes next to the bed.</p><p>No junk food in the house.</p><p>When I miss a habit now, I ask &quot;what broke in the system?&quot; or &quot;how can I make this easier?&quot; instead of beating myself up about it.</p><p>Usually it&#x27;s the setup, not me.</p><h2>3. <a href="/book-notes/essentialism-the-disciplined-pursuit-of-less-greg-mckeown">Essentialism</a> by Greg McKeown</h2><p>Most productivity books teach you to do more, faster. This one says do less.</p><p>McKeown&#x27;s point: if you don&#x27;t decide what matters, other people will decide for you. Every &quot;yes&quot; to something non-essential is a &quot;no&quot; to something that matters, whether you realize it or not.</p><blockquote>&quot;Only once you give yourself permission to stop trying to do it all, to stop saying yes to everyone, can you make your highest contribution towards the things that really matter.&quot;</blockquote><p>This book gave me language for something I already felt — that saying no feels bad, but it&#x27;s the price of doing anything well.</p><p>After reading it I started asking &quot;What&#x27;s the one thing that makes everything else easier?&quot; at the start of each week.</p><p>I also started cutting my daily to-do list down to a single main item. Bonuses below. If that item was the only thing that got done that day, it was a success.</p><h2>4. <a href="/book-notes/the-war-of-art-steven-pressfield">The War of Art</a> by Steven Pressfield</h2><p>This one&#x27;s technically about creative work, but it applies to anything difficult.</p><p>Pressfield gives a name to the thing that stops you from shipping (or writing, or whatever you&#x27;re doing): Resistance.</p><p>Resistance is why you check email instead of writing.</p><p>It&#x27;s the voice saying &quot;you&#x27;re not ready&quot; or &quot;this needs more research.&quot;</p><p>Everyone has it. Just having a word for it helps.</p><blockquote>&quot;The most pernicious aspect of procrastination is that it can become a habit. We don&#x27;t just put off our lives today; we put them off till our deathbed.&quot;</blockquote><p>I stopped waiting to feel ready or inspired before starting work. Resistance shows up every time I sit down to do something that matters, and that&#x27;s just how it works.</p><p>Inspiration usually arrives after you start, not before.</p><h2>5. <a href="/book-notes/getting-things-done-david-allen">Getting Things Done</a> by David Allen</h2><p>GTD is the unglamorous productivity system underneath everything else.</p><p>The idea: get tasks out of your head and into something you trust.</p><blockquote>&quot;Your mind is for having ideas, not holding them.&quot;</blockquote><p>Most people run on mental to-do lists, and it creates this low-level anxiety — your brain reminding you about random tasks at random moments.</p><p>GTD fixes that by putting everything external.</p><p>I&#x27;ve used written notebooks, Trello, Asana, Notion, Todoist, Things, and plain text files over the years. The tool doesn&#x27;t matter much.</p><p>What matters is trusting the system enough to stop thinking about tasks until it&#x27;s time to act on them.</p><p>The weekly review is the part that makes it work.</p><p>Every Sunday I go through my inbox, look at active projects, and get clear on next steps. Takes about 30 minutes. Gives me a week of clarity in return.</p><h2>What these have in common</h2><p>None of them promise quick wins. They all assume work is hard, distractions aren&#x27;t going away, and systems work better than motivation.</p><p>The real shift for me came from accepting a few things:</p><ul><li>Focus erodes unless you actively protect it</li><li>Your environment matters more than your willpower</li><li>Fewer things done well beats a long to-do list</li><li>Resistance doesn&#x27;t go away — you just get better at working through it</li><li>Getting tasks out of your head is worth the effort of maintaining a system</li></ul><p>If you&#x27;re swimming in productivity content, stop and try one of these. Read it slowly. Pick one idea and actually test it for a month.</p><h2>FAQs</h2><p><strong>Where should I start?</strong></p><p><em>Atomic Habits</em>. It&#x27;s the most practical, and the environment design ideas work right away.</p><p><strong>Can I just read the summaries?</strong></p><p>You&#x27;ll get the main points but miss the reasoning. These books build arguments over chapters that change how you think, not just what you do. Summaries are fine for deciding whether to buy the book.</p><p><strong>How do I avoid getting overwhelmed trying to implement all of this?</strong></p><p>Pick one book, one idea. Stick with it for 30 days before adding anything else.</p><p><strong>I&#x27;ve read some of these and nothing changed. What gives?</strong></p><p>Try rereading. What you take from a book depends a lot on where you are when you read it. I&#x27;ve gotten different things from the same book at different points in my life.</p><p><strong>Are there newer books that replace these?</strong></p><p>I haven&#x27;t found any. The problems they cover — distraction, procrastination, building systems — don&#x27;t change because a new app came out.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Rule of 100: Why Most People Quit Before They Win]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/the-rule-of-100</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 22:15:07 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[100 days of consistent effort puts you in the top 5% of almost anything. The problem? Most people won't make it past day 12.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone wants a shortcut. But here&#x27;s the thing: 100 days of consistent effort will put you in the top 5% of almost anything. The problem? Most people won&#x27;t make it past day 12.</p><p><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/million-dollar-weekend-noah-kagan">Noah Kagan calls it the Law of 100</a>: do the thing 100 times before you quit. Not 10 times. Not 50. One hundred.</p><p>It sounds arbitrary. It&#x27;s not.</p><h2>Why 100 Is the Real Filter</h2><p>The first 100 YouTube videos are supposed to suck. The first 100 cold emails teach you nothing except how to write email 101. The first 100 workouts don&#x27;t transform your body—<a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">they transform your identity</a> from &quot;person who thinks about working out&quot; to &quot;person who works out.&quot;</p><p>Alex Hormozi has a line I think about constantly: &quot;You probably just haven&#x27;t done enough volume.&quot; The volume required to make something work is higher than most people realize.</p><p>Here&#x27;s what happens between rep 1 and rep 100:</p><ul><li><strong>Rep 1-10</strong>: Novelty phase. Everything is exciting. You&#x27;re terrible but you don&#x27;t know it yet.</li><li><strong>Rep 10-30</strong>: The suck zone. You realize you&#x27;re bad. This is where 80% of people quit.</li><li><strong>Rep 30-60</strong>: Competence creeps in. You&#x27;re not great, but you&#x27;re not embarrassing yourself.</li><li><strong>Rep 60-100</strong>: You&#x27;re actually good now. You&#x27;ve outlasted 95% of people who started.</li></ul><p>Most people quit in the suck zone. They do 10 workouts, see no abs, and conclude &quot;this doesn&#x27;t work.&quot; They write 5 blog posts, get 30 views total, and decide &quot;content doesn&#x27;t work for me.&quot; They send 20 cold emails, get 2 replies, and think &quot;outbound is dead.&quot;</p><p>The real question isn&#x27;t &quot;will this work?&quot; It&#x27;s &quot;have you done it 100 times yet?&quot;</p><h2>The Josh Waitzkin Playbook: Compress the Timeline</h2><p><a href="https://tim.blog/2019/06/27/josh-waitzkin/">Josh Waitzkin</a>—chess prodigy, martial arts champion, subject of the movie <em>Searching for Bobby Fischer</em>, author of <a href="https://amzn.to/TheArtOfLearning"><em>The Art of Learning</em></a>—wanted to learn surfing. Problem: he lived in New York City.</p><p>The average surfer gets 2-4 minutes of actual wave-riding time per session. The rest is paddling, waiting, positioning. To get good, you need reps. But the ocean doesn&#x27;t cooperate.</p><p>Waitzkin&#x27;s solution? Get creative about volume.</p><p>First, he bought a OneWheel electric skateboard and rode it around NYC at 20-25 mph. He was training the feeling of &quot;glide&quot;—the sensation of moving fast, forward, sideways. Not surfing, but close enough to build muscle memory.</p><p>Then he got an eFoil—an electric-powered hydrofoil board. Unlike a surfboard, it lets you ride waves in flat water. Suddenly, he was getting <strong>54 minutes of wave time per session</strong> instead of 2-4 minutes.</p><p>That&#x27;s not 2x the reps. It&#x27;s 15-20x.</p><p>In a traditional timeline, it would take years to accumulate the wave time Josh got in months. He didn&#x27;t change the rule of 100—he just compressed the timeline by finding a way to do more reps faster.</p><h2>Volume + Deliberate Practice = Mastery</h2><p>But here&#x27;s the catch: mindless reps aren&#x27;t enough.</p><p>Anders Ericsson&#x27;s <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/26312997-peak">research on deliberate practice</a> shows that experts don&#x27;t just do more—they improve with each rep. They analyze what went wrong. They isolate weaknesses. They get feedback. (Read more in <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/mastery-robert-greene">*Mastery* by Robert Greene</a>.)</p><p>I&#x27;ve seen this in building. The first time you frame a wall, it takes forever and looks crooked. The second time, you&#x27;re faster but still not great. By the 10th wall, you&#x27;re competent. By the 100th? You could do it in your sleep.</p><p>But the people who get really good aren&#x27;t just doing reps—they&#x27;re asking &quot;why did that work?&quot; or &quot;what went wrong here?&quot; after each one.</p><p>The beauty of 2026? <strong>The tools to improve are everywhere:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>YouTube</strong>: Watch experts do the thing you&#x27;re learning. Slow it down. Rewind. Compare your technique.</li><li><strong>ChatGPT/Claude</strong>: Upload a photo or video. Ask &quot;what am I doing wrong?&quot; Get instant feedback.</li><li><strong>Communities</strong>: Reddit, Discord, Twitter. Ask someone who&#x27;s done it 1,000 times.</li><li><strong>Recording yourself</strong>: Your phone can record anything. Watch yourself back. The gap between what you think you&#x27;re doing and what you&#x27;re actually doing is shocking.</li></ul><p>Josh Waitzkin didn&#x27;t just ride the OneWheel mindlessly—he was studying balance, weight distribution, how to carve. Each rep was intentional.</p><p>Volume gets you in the game. Deliberate practice makes you great.</p><h2>What 100 Days Actually Gets You</h2><p>Let&#x27;s be specific about what 100 consecutive days of focused effort can do:</p><p><strong>Fitness</strong>: 100 days of working out = visible transformation. You won&#x27;t look like a bodybuilder, but you&#x27;ll look different. More importantly, you&#x27;ll <em>feel</em> different.</p><p><strong>Writing</strong>: 100 blog posts or tweets = you&#x27;ve found your voice. The first 50 are awkward. The last 50 are exponentially better.</p><p><strong>YouTube</strong>: The conventional wisdom is your first 100 videos will suck. That&#x27;s the point. By video 100, you know what works.</p><p><strong>Cold email</strong>: 100 sends teaches you what subject lines work, what CTAs convert, what tone resonates. The first 10 replies teach you more than any course.</p><p><strong>Coding</strong>: 100 days of building something (even small projects) = you&#x27;re competent. Not expert, but functional.</p><ul><li><strong>SEO</strong>: 100 articles published = you understand what ranks, what doesn&#x27;t, and why. (This is literally what I&#x27;m betting on with <a href="https://seotakeoff.com">SEOTakeoff</a>.)</li></ul><p>You can get into the top 1-5% of almost any skill in 100 days. Not because you&#x27;re a savant. Because nobody else lasts that long.</p><h2>In a World of Distraction, 100 Days Is an Edge</h2><p>Here&#x27;s the real insight: in 2026, <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/deep-work-cal-newport">the ability to focus on one thing</a> for 100 consecutive days is a <strong>massive competitive advantage</strong>.</p><p>The average person:</p><ul><li>Starts a workout routine → quits after 2 weeks</li><li>Commits to daily writing → stops after 5 posts</li><li>Launches a side project → abandons it after the initial excitement fades</li></ul><p>You don&#x27;t need to be smarter. You don&#x27;t need to be more talented. <strong><em>You just need to not quit.</em></strong></p><p>100 days is nothing. It&#x27;s barely 3 months. But it filters 99% of people.</p><p>That&#x27;s the edge.</p><h2>The Question That Matters</h2><p>So here&#x27;s the question: <strong>What could you do 100 times in the next 100 days?</strong></p><p>Not &quot;what do you want to do?&quot; Not &quot;what would be cool?&quot; What are you actually willing to commit to 100 reps of?</p><p>Pick one thing. Track it. Don&#x27;t trust your memory—use a spreadsheet, a habit tracker, a checklist on your wall.</p><p>Lower the bar if you need to. 100 push-ups is easier to commit to than 100 gym sessions. 100 tweets is easier than 100 blog posts. Start where you can actually sustain it.</p><p>The streak matters more than the intensity at first. You&#x27;re not training the skill yet—<a href="https://grahammann.net/blog/how-to-form-good-habits">you&#x27;re training the habit of showing up</a>. (More on this in <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-power-of-habit-charles-duhigg"><em>The Power of Habit</em></a>.)</p><p>By day 100, you&#x27;ll be in the top 5%. Not because you&#x27;re exceptional. Because you didn&#x27;t quit.</p><h2>FAQ</h2><p><strong>Q: Does it have to be 100 days in a row, or can I skip days?</strong></p><p>A: Consecutive is better. The streak builds momentum. But if you miss a day, don&#x27;t restart—just keep going. 100 total reps matters more than perfection.</p><p><strong>Q: What if I&#x27;m doing reps wrong? Won&#x27;t I just reinforce bad habits?</strong></p><p>A: That&#x27;s where deliberate practice comes in. Get feedback every 10-20 reps. Record yourself. Ask someone better than you. Adjust. The key is intentional improvement, not mindless repetition. (Gladwell&#x27;s <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/outliers-malcolm-gladwell">10,000 hours rule</a> assumes deliberate practice, not just volume.)</p><p><strong>Q: Can I do this with multiple things at once?</strong></p><p>A: You can, but it&#x27;s harder. Focus is a competitive advantage. One thing for 100 days &gt; three things for 30 days each.</p><p><strong>Q: What if I pick the wrong thing?</strong></p><p>A: You&#x27;ll know by day 30-40. If it still feels forced, you picked wrong. But finishing 100 days of the &quot;wrong thing&quot; teaches you more than quitting 10 different things.</p><p><strong>Q: How do I stay motivated when progress is slow?</strong></p><p>A: Track the reps, not the results. Your job isn&#x27;t to be great by day 10—it&#x27;s to show up. Motivation follows action, not the other way around.</p><p><strong>Q: What&#x27;s a realistic timeline to see results?</strong></p><p>A: Most people see noticeable progress by day 30-40. Visible transformation by day 60-80. But the real shift happens in your identity—you become someone who does the thing. Around day 60-80, you might even start experiencing <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/flow-mihaly-csikszentmihalyi">flow states</a> where the skill feels effortless.</p><p>What are you committing to 100 reps of? Let me know—I&#x27;d love to hear what you&#x27;re building.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How I'm Vibe Coding in 2026]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/how-im-vibe-coding-2026</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 22:05:34 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[One person can now build in a day what used to take weeks. Here's my actual workflow — the tools, the mental shifts, and what friction looks like now.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even two years ago — maybe even one — if you wanted to build a startup, you needed a team. You needed developers. Getting to an MVP was going to cost real money.</p><p>That&#x27;s basically gone now.</p><p>Since Opus 4.5 came out, it&#x27;s crazy what you can build and how quickly. One person can do in a day what used to take weeks. For someone like me — who wouldn&#x27;t say I &quot;know how to code&quot; but understands how apps are built and has worked in tech my whole career — it opened up everything.</p><p>That was part of why I left my PM job. I&#x27;ve gone back and forth between jobs and doing my own thing throughout my career, but I felt like this was a shift I couldn&#x27;t sit out.</p><p>I recently read <a href="https://steipete.me/posts/2025/shipping-at-inference-speed">Peter Steinberger&#x27;s post on shipping at inference speed</a> and wanted to share my own take — what&#x27;s working for me, where I agree, and where my workflow differs.</p><h2>My Stack</h2><p><strong>Claude Code</strong> is my primary tool. I use it through the Cursor extension, running Opus 4.5.</p><p>Six months ago, debugging was a huge pain. That&#x27;s pretty much gone. Errors are rare. When they happen, the fix is quick. I now use &quot;Dangerously Skip Permissions&quot; mode, which means I can start Claude on something and let it run while I do something else.</p><p><strong>Claude Skills</strong> I&#x27;ve used a bit, though a lot of it is noise. The one that&#x27;s actually useful is the <strong>front-end design skill</strong> — it gives you a product that looks less generic, less &quot;AI-y.&quot; That&#x27;s worth something when you want to ship something that doesn&#x27;t scream &quot;built by a robot.&quot;</p><h2>Language &amp; Ecosystem Decisions</h2><p>Peter mentions that &quot;the important decisions these days are language/ecosystem and dependencies.&quot; I&#x27;d agree, but in my experience, <strong>the models will choose correctly as long as you describe accurately what you&#x27;re building</strong>.</p><p>I&#x27;ve had some pains — like when it optimizes for a single-page app when I actually wanted a multi-page blog setup — but honestly, it&#x27;s not that big a deal. Refactoring is easy now. If something&#x27;s wrong, you just tell it to fix it.</p><h2>Using Multiple Models</h2><p>I primarily use <strong>Opus</strong> for building, but I&#x27;ve started using multiple models strategically:</p><ul><li><strong>Opus</strong> to build the thing</li><li><strong>Codex</strong> (or another model) to review it — &quot;Does any of this not make sense?&quot;</li><li><strong>Multiple models during planning</strong> to critique each other</li></ul><p>I did this recently when trip planning. I had Grok, Claude, and ChatGPT all critique the same plan. It&#x27;s like getting different opinions from different advisors. They catch different things.</p><p>I&#x27;ve also seen people use different <strong>personas and prompts</strong> with the same model — &quot;you&#x27;re a security expert, review this&quot; or &quot;you&#x27;re a UX designer, what feels off?&quot; It&#x27;s basically running separate agents without needing separate tools. Cheap way to stress-test your work from multiple angles.</p><h2>No Plan Mode</h2><p>Peter talks about skipping &quot;plan mode&quot; — I do the same. I don&#x27;t use formal planning modes. I just go straight in and say <strong>&quot;don&#x27;t implement anything yet&quot;</strong> if I want to think through something first. Then when I&#x27;m ready, I say &quot;build it.&quot;</p><h2>My Workflow</h2><p>Like Peter, I work on <strong>multiple projects at the same time</strong> — usually one or two active ones. The context switching is tough, but the trick is using <strong>multiple conversation threads within the same project</strong>:</p><ul><li>One thread for troubleshooting an error</li><li>One for building a new feature</li><li>One for planning</li></ul><p>I let them work in the background while I go back and forth answering things. The analogy that comes to mind: it&#x27;s like when I was a PM, responding to Slack while doing deep work. You&#x27;re staying on top of stuff, but you&#x27;re also getting your own work done.</p><p>Lately I&#x27;ve been using <a href="https://openclaw.ai"><strong>OpenClaw</strong></a> (an AI assistant I set up) to orchestrate task updates. It always updates the task lists in the projects themselves, so I never miss context — whether I&#x27;m working through OpenClaw or directly in the codebase.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/996a35d2cfe34414407b5e7aee77f62b4412dcd7-1280x806.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="My actual workflow — blog draft open on the left, Claude fixing caching issues on the right" loading="lazy"/></figure><h2>Commits &amp; Checkpoints</h2><p>I basically <strong>never revert or use checkpointing</strong>. If something breaks, I&#x27;ll ask the model: &quot;What changed between the last commit and now?&quot; and it can check those changes.</p><p>I <strong>commit to main</strong>. No PRs, no branches for most things. I&#x27;ll probably start using PRs for big features on production apps like SEOTakeoff, or if I&#x27;m working with others, but for solo work? Straight to main.</p><h2>Documentation as Context</h2><p>I always have the model <strong>update a to-do list or development plan as we go</strong>. This serves two purposes:</p><ol><li>If I need to onboard a new model (or a new conversation), the context is already there in the project folder</li><li>It helps me stay on top of what the plans actually are</li></ol><p>This paid off when I set up OpenClaw — all the project context was already documented, so onboarding it was seamless.</p><h2>Context &amp; Prompts</h2><p>I don&#x27;t really think about context management anymore. I&#x27;ll start a new thread for a specific issue, but that&#x27;s mostly to keep <em>me</em> organized, not for the model. They handle large context much better now.</p><p>Prompts have gotten <strong>much shorter</strong>. Sometimes I&#x27;ll add a line like &quot;test this thoroughly&quot; or &quot;pretend you&#x27;re a senior engineer reviewing this.&quot; But other times? I just <strong>paste an error and hit enter</strong>. That&#x27;s it.</p><h2>What This Actually Looks Like</h2><p><strong>Example 1: A newsletter in 90 minutes</strong></p><p>A friend wanted to launch a newsletter. We sat down and in 90 minutes we had:</p><ul><li>A full year of content, automated</li><li>A website</li><li>A formatted newsletter template</li><li>Everything connected and ready to go</li></ul><p>90 minutes. That&#x27;s not an exaggeration.</p><p><strong>Example 2: Multi-language support in 2 hours</strong></p><p>For SEOTakeoff, I wanted to add multi-language support. It took one hour to build and another hour to test. Done.</p><p>A year ago, that feature would&#x27;ve taken my entire dev team <em>weeks</em> to scope, build, and merge. Now it&#x27;s an afternoon.</p><h2>The Mental Shift</h2><p>You&#x27;re not a coder anymore. You&#x27;re an <strong>architect</strong>. A question-asker. An orchestrator.</p><p>The skill now is knowing <em>what</em> to ask, <em>when</em> to ask it, <em>how</em> to prompt, and <em>when to push back</em>. A lot of that comes from intuition — for me, from years as a product manager. You still have to think clearly about what you actually want the app to do.</p><p>But the friction has shifted.</p><p>Building the thing? Not the hard part anymore.</p><p><strong>Where the friction lives now:</strong></p><ul><li>Integrating with third-party services — easy if the API is clean, annoying if it needs manual setup</li><li>Marketing — this is the real bottleneck now. You can build fast, but getting customers still takes time.</li></ul><h2>Where Vibe Coding Doesn&#x27;t Work</h2><p>Honestly? I don&#x27;t know. It seems like everyone is building all kinds of stuff. I haven&#x27;t found the ceiling yet.</p><h2>What This Means</h2><p>If you&#x27;ve been sitting on an idea because you &quot;can&#x27;t code&quot; or &quot;don&#x27;t have a technical co-founder&quot; — that excuse is dead.</p><p>You can build it. Today. By yourself.</p><p>The question isn&#x27;t <em>can you build it</em> anymore. It&#x27;s <em>should you build it</em> and <em>can you sell it</em>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Grow on X (Twitter) in 2026: What's Actually Working Right Now]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/how-to-grow-on-x-twitter-2026</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2026 20:55:36 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Most Twitter growth advice is recycled from 2023. The algorithm changed. Here's what's actually working now — from reply strategies to content formats to the tools worth paying for.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#x27;ve spent the last few months trying to figure out X growth. Reading every thread, testing different strategies, tracking what moves the needle and what doesn&#x27;t.</p><p>Most of the advice out there is recycled from 2023. Post threads. Use hashtags. &quot;Engage authentically.&quot; Okay, but the algorithm changed. Multiple times. What worked two years ago barely registers now.</p><p>Here&#x27;s what I&#x27;ve learned so far, both from my own account and from studying people who are actually growing fast right now.</p><h2>The algorithm isn&#x27;t what you think it is</h2><p>X open-sourced parts of their algorithm on GitHub back in 2023. But the version running today looks nothing like that. In January 2026, Grok started handling ranking decisions. That changed everything.</p><p>Here&#x27;s what matters now:</p><p><strong>Engagement velocity in the first 30 minutes.</strong> This is the single biggest factor. If your tweet gets likes, replies, and retweets in the first half hour, the algorithm pushes it to more people. If it sits there quietly, it dies.</p><p><strong>Sentiment analysis.</strong> This is the weird new one. Grok reads the tone of every post. Positive, constructive content gets wider distribution. Negative, combative stuff gets throttled even if it generates engagement. The rage-bait playbook is dying.</p><p><strong>Replies are weighted heavily.</strong> A tweet with 20 replies outperforms a tweet with 100 likes but no conversation. X wants you to start discussions, not just collect hearts.</p><p><strong>Video gets preferential treatment.</strong> Native video gets roughly 10x the engagement of text-only posts. Four out of five user sessions now include watching video. If you&#x27;re only posting text, you&#x27;re leaving reach on the table.</p><p><strong>X Premium matters.</strong> Verified accounts get priority in the For You feed. Long-form posts (up to 4,000 characters) are available to Premium subscribers. Whether long-form actually performs better than threads is debatable, but the verification boost is real.</p><h2>Profile optimization (still the most overlooked part)</h2><p>Everyone skips this. They want the growth hacks. But your profile is your landing page. If someone sees a great reply from you and clicks your name, you have about 2 seconds to convince them to follow.</p><p><strong>Bio formula that works:</strong></p><p>What you do → who you help → why believe you → something human.</p><p>Bad: &quot;Entrepreneur. Builder. Dreamer. ✨&quot;</p><p>Better: &quot;Building SEOTakeoff — automated SEO for startups. Sharing what&#x27;s working and what&#x27;s not.&quot;</p><p>The second one tells me something. The first tells me nothing.</p><p><strong>Pinned post:</strong> This should be working 24/7 as your best piece of content or an intro thread. Not a random tweet from three months ago.</p><p><strong>Banner image:</strong> Show proof. A number. A result. A screenshot of something real. Most people waste this space on a gradient or a stock photo.</p><h2>Content strategy: the 80/20 that actually drives growth</h2><p>The most common advice is &quot;post 3-5 times a day.&quot; Which is correct, but useless without knowing *what* to post.</p><h3>The best content provides value</h3><p>This sounds obvious, but most people get it wrong. They think &quot;value&quot; means polished tips or frameworks. It doesn&#x27;t. The content that performs best on X is almost always someone sharing real experience.</p><p>What actually works:</p><ul><li><strong>&quot;Here&#x27;s what I tried and the result&quot;</strong> — People love seeing real experiments. &quot;I tested 3 different cold email subject lines this week. Here&#x27;s what happened.&quot; That&#x27;s infinitely more engaging than &quot;5 tips for better subject lines.&quot;</li><li><strong>&quot;This worked for me (and this didn&#x27;t)&quot;</strong> — The failures are often more interesting than the wins. A post about a feature you built that nobody used will outperform a feature announcement every time.</li><li><strong>&quot;Here&#x27;s how I solved this specific problem&quot;</strong> — Not abstract advice. The actual steps you took, the tools you used, the mistakes along the way. Specificity is what separates useful content from noise.</li><li><strong>&quot;I noticed something others might find useful&quot;</strong> — Share an observation, a pattern, or a resource that helped you. Curating knowledge for your audience is underrated.</li></ul><p>The common thread: you&#x27;re giving people something they can use, learn from, or relate to. You&#x27;re not asking for anything. The follow comes naturally when someone thinks &quot;I want to see what this person posts next.&quot;</p><p>If you&#x27;re stuck on what to post, ask yourself: &quot;What did I learn this week that I wish someone had told me sooner?&quot; Start there.</p><p>Here&#x27;s the content mix I&#x27;ve seen working across accounts that are actually growing:</p><ul><li><strong>40% entertaining</strong> — stories, personality, relatable struggles</li><li><strong>30% educational</strong> — teaching, how-tos, tactical stuff</li><li><strong>20% inspirational</strong> — wins, milestones, encouragement</li><li><strong>10% selling</strong> — product mentions, CTAs, offers</li></ul><p>Most people invert this. They post 80% self-promotion and wonder why nobody engages.</p><h3>Formats that are working right now</h3><p><strong>Short threads (3-6 tweets) with proof.</strong> Not the 20-tweet mega-threads from 2023. Those are dead. Keep it tight, include screenshots or data, and front-load the value.</p><p><strong>Multi-image posts.</strong> First image = bold headline or hook. Middle = the actual content. Last = CTA or takeaway. These outperform single-image and text-only posts consistently.</p><p><strong>Process screenshots.</strong> Show your actual workflow. Your dashboard. Your prompts. Your analytics. People love seeing how others work.</p><p><strong>Contrarian takes with reasoning.</strong> Not rage-bait. Actual contrarian opinions where you explain your thinking. These generate replies because people want to argue (or agree).</p><h3>Formats that are dying</h3><p>One-liners without context. Long threads that drift. AI-generated posts with no personal point of view. Copy-paste frameworks with no real results behind them.</p><h2>The reply strategy (this is the actual growth hack)</h2><p>If you only do one thing from this post, do this.</p><p>Spend 30 minutes a day replying to bigger accounts in your niche. Not &quot;great post 🔥&quot; replies. Real ones. Add an insight. Share a related experience. Ask a question that extends the conversation.</p><p>One good reply on a viral tweet can drive more profile visits than five of your own posts. Marshall (@mdnlabs) attributes a big chunk of his early growth to replies. Andy, who audited over 100 accounts, found that the top performers all spend 30+ minutes daily in bigger accounts&#x27; comments.</p><p>One underrated move: <strong>ask a follow-up question.</strong> Not a generic &quot;what do you think?&quot; — a specific question that shows you actually read what they said. &quot;Did you find that worked differently for B2B vs B2C?&quot; or &quot;Curious — did the results hold after the first month?&quot; Questions do two things: they almost guarantee a reply from the original poster (which extends the thread&#x27;s visibility), and they signal to everyone reading that you&#x27;re thinking critically, not just brown-nosing.</p><p>Here&#x27;s the system:</p><ol><li>Find 10-20 accounts bigger than you in your space</li><li>Turn on notifications for them (or check their profiles daily)</li><li>Reply early, within the first 30 minutes of their post (when engagement velocity matters most)</li><li>Add something that makes people click your profile — an insight, a related experience, or a thoughtful follow-up question</li><li>Be consistent. Do this every single day.</li></ol><p>X&#x27;s algorithm now rewards conversation threads inside posts. A good back-and-forth reply chain extends the lifespan of the original post and gives everyone in the conversation more visibility.</p><p>Here&#x27;s a real example from my account. I left a simple reply on someone&#x27;s post — just a genuine follow-up question about their experience with two AI models:</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/dab53de529abd5562b6a0dff9dcb8bcf060343f5-1280x678.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="X reply analytics showing 12K impressions and 7 profile visits from a single reply" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>12K impressions from one reply. 7 profile visits. The first 48 hours chart shows it spiked to nearly 2,000 impressions/hour right away, then tapered off over two days. I didn&#x27;t say anything clever. I asked a question I actually wanted the answer to. That&#x27;s it.</p><p>Now compare that to an original post from my own feed:</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/06b4f79dbbeb1faa1678c04f4397a776c423b944-1280x676.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="X post analytics showing 400 impressions but 12.3% engagement rate" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>400 impressions. But 12.3% engagement rate — 5 likes, a reply, 28 media views, 4 profile visits. The reply got 30x the eyeballs. The original post got 24x the engagement rate.</p><p>Both matter. Replies put you in front of new audiences. Original posts build depth with the audience you already have. The mistake is doing only one or the other.</p><h2>Posting frequency and timing</h2><p>The data is pretty clear here. More posts = more growth, up to a point. Metricool&#x27;s 2024 X study confirmed it: larger accounts post more frequently, and the correlation holds across niches.</p><p>Here&#x27;s a rough guide for daily volume by account size:</p><table><thead><tr><th>Follower count</th><th>Daily posts</th><th>Daily replies</th></tr></thead><tbody><tr><td>0–1K</td><td>3–5</td><td>20–30</td></tr><tr><td>1K–10K</td><td>5–10</td><td>30–50</td></tr><tr><td>10K–50K</td><td>10–15</td><td>50+</td></tr></tbody></table><p>The best posting windows are:</p><ul><li><strong>Morning:</strong> 7-9am (your audience&#x27;s timezone)</li><li><strong>Midday:</strong> 12pm</li><li><strong>Afternoon:</strong> 3-4pm</li><li><strong>Evening:</strong> 7-9pm</li></ul><p>But honestly? Consistency matters more than perfect timing. Posting 3x a day at random times beats posting once a day at the &quot;optimal&quot; time.</p><h3>My own data on this</h3><p>Here&#x27;s what my December 2025 looked like on X:</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/43d90c6f22a9c58d47ee06190f3b0261aa873bf8-1280x1109.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="X analytics for December 2025 showing decreased engagement during inconsistent posting" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>I took most of the back half of December off for Christmas. You can see the result: engagement rate down 24%, likes down 32%, profile visits down 26%. The follows chart flipped — more unfollows than new follows by the end of the month. Everything red except impressions, which only held because of a few earlier posts still circulating.</p><p>Now compare that to late January through early February, when I started posting consistently and replying more:</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/882cb09e46d1bb8730900bbaf35d9f86fe3b7b9d-1280x802.jpg?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="X analytics for January-February showing increased profile visits and follows during consistent posting" loading="lazy"/></figure><p>When posting and replies ramped up (some days hitting 40-60 combined), profile visits jumped to 30-35/day and new follows spiked to 7-8/day. When I slacked off, everything dropped.</p><p>The correlation between reply volume and follower growth is the part that surprised me most. The days I posted a lot but didn&#x27;t reply much still underperformed. The days I replied heavily to other accounts, even with fewer original posts, drove the most profile visits.</p><p>Two months of data, same account, same niche. The only variable was consistency.</p><h2>Tools I actually use</h2><p>I&#x27;ve tried a bunch of scheduling and analytics tools. Most are fine. Two stand out.</p><h3>For analytics and replies: SuperX</h3><p><a href="https://superx.so/?via=graham">SuperX</a> is a Chrome extension that overlays analytics directly on your X feed. You can see engagement data, hidden insights, and performance metrics on any profile or post without leaving the timeline.</p><p>What I like about it:</p><ul><li>See anyone&#x27;s real engagement metrics while browsing</li><li>Track which of your posts are actually performing (not just impressions, but meaningful engagement)</li><li>The data sits right inside X — no switching between dashboards</li><li><strong>The reply feature is a game-changer.</strong> It automatically surfaces high-performing tweets in your niche for you to reply to. Instead of scrolling the main timeline (which is designed to distract you), you get a curated feed of posts worth engaging with. This alone saves me 20+ minutes a day and keeps me focused on replies that actually matter.</li><li>Solid inspiration tools that show you what&#x27;s working in your space right now — useful when you&#x27;re staring at a blank compose box</li><li>AI helper tools for drafting and refining posts</li></ul><p>It&#x27;s $39/month. Not cheap, but cheaper than guessing. If you&#x27;re posting 3-5x a day and have no idea what&#x27;s working, you&#x27;re wasting effort. The reply feature alone is worth it if you&#x27;re serious about the reply strategy above.</p><h3>For scheduling and cross-platform publishing: Typefully</h3><p><a href="https://typefully.com/?via=graham-mann">Typefully</a> is purpose-built for X. It&#x27;s where I write and schedule posts, and it handles threads better than anything else I&#x27;ve tried.</p><p>What makes it different from Buffer/Hootsuite/etc:</p><ul><li>The editor is designed for tweets and threads specifically (not a generic social media scheduler)</li><li>AI writing assistant that helps you tighten hooks and punchlines</li><li>Real-time analytics on scheduled content</li><li>Clean, distraction-free writing environment</li><li><strong>Cross-platform publishing to LinkedIn</strong> — write once, publish to both X and LinkedIn with formatting adapted for each platform. If you&#x27;re building a professional audience, LinkedIn is free distribution for the same content.</li></ul><p>It&#x27;s $150/year, which comes out to about $12.50/month. For the amount of time it saves on scheduling alone, it&#x27;s worth it. The LinkedIn cross-posting is a bonus that most people underutilize.</p><p>Neither of these tools will grow your account by themselves. But they remove the friction so you can focus on the actual work: creating content and engaging with people.</p><h2>The proof-post habit</h2><p>This is something I picked up from studying accounts that grow fast. They post proof at least once a week. Screenshots. Revenue numbers. Analytics graphs. Before-and-after results.</p><p>Why? Because proof is the most shareable content format. People retweet results. They reply with questions about how you did it. It generates the kind of genuine engagement the algorithm rewards.</p><p>What counts as proof:</p><ul><li>Analytics dashboard screenshots</li><li>Stripe/revenue screenshots</li><li>Traffic graphs</li><li>Customer messages (with permission)</li><li>Before/after comparisons</li><li>Feature demos or screen recordings</li></ul><p>You don&#x27;t need massive numbers. &quot;Day 14: from 0 to 47 visitors&quot; is more interesting than another motivational quote.</p><h2>Common mistakes that kill growth</h2><p>I&#x27;ve made most of these. Listing them so you don&#x27;t have to.</p><p><strong>Posting sporadically.</strong> Two posts on Monday, nothing until Thursday. The algorithm rewards consistency. Disappearing for days resets your momentum.</p><p><strong>Ignoring replies on your own posts.</strong> Someone takes the time to reply to you and you say nothing? That conversation is free engagement. Reply to everything, especially early on.</p><p><strong>Only promoting yourself.</strong> If your feed is just product links and CTAs, people will scroll past. Give value first. Sell rarely.</p><p><strong>Buying followers.</strong> Instant credibility killer. Anyone with SuperX or similar tools can spot fake follower counts in seconds. And the algorithm knows too — low engagement relative to follower count gets you deprioritized.</p><p><strong>Overthinking instead of posting.</strong> I spent two weeks &quot;refining my content strategy&quot; before posting anything. That&#x27;s two weeks of zero growth. Publish, learn, adjust. The strategy reveals itself through doing.</p><h2>The honest truth about timeline</h2><p>Growing on X in 2026 isn&#x27;t fast. The accounts posting &quot;0 to 10K in 30 days&quot; are either lying or spent money on ads they&#x27;re not telling you about.</p><p>Here&#x27;s a more realistic trajectory if you&#x27;re consistent:</p><ul><li><strong>Month 1:</strong> Getting your rhythm. Figuring out what resonates. Probably 100-300 new followers.</li><li><strong>Month 2-3:</strong> Finding your voice. A post or two starts to pop. 300-1,000 new followers.</li><li><strong>Month 3-6:</strong> Compounding kicks in. Your replies start getting noticed. People recognize your name. Growth accelerates.</li></ul><p>The people who win on X are the ones who are still posting at month 6. Most quit at month 2.</p><p>Blake Emal put it well: &quot;Most founders quit at month 2. The ones who win are still posting at month 12.&quot;</p><p>The formula is boring. Post consistently. Reply more than you post. Share proof. Use tools that remove friction. Don&#x27;t quit.</p><p>That&#x27;s it. There&#x27;s no secret algorithm hack. There&#x27;s just showing up.</p><h2>The cheat sheet</h2><p>Here&#x27;s everything above in one image. Save it, screenshot it, pin it to your wall — whatever helps you stay consistent.</p><figure><img src="https://cdn.sanity.io/images/wvy8ud4b/production/267f3940589467696760a07f95e8843af226a684-800x1257.png?w=1200&amp;q=75&amp;auto=format" alt="Infographic: How to Grow on X in 2026 - 7 key strategies including algorithm, profile, value first, reply strategy, consistency, proof posts, and tools" loading="lazy"/></figure><h2>Frequently asked questions</h2><p><strong>How many times should you tweet per day?</strong></p><p>3-5 posts minimum if you&#x27;re under 1K followers, scaling up from there. But replies count more than posts for growth. A person posting 3x and replying 30x will outgrow someone posting 10x with no engagement.</p><p><strong>Do threads still work on X in 2026?</strong></p><p>Short ones do. 3-6 tweets with a clear hook and proof. The 15-tweet epic threads from 2023 are dead. People scroll past them. If you can say it in 4 tweets, don&#x27;t stretch it to 12.</p><p><strong>Does the X algorithm favor paid/verified accounts?</strong></p><p>Yes. X Premium accounts get priority in the For You feed. Whether that&#x27;s worth the subscription depends on how seriously you&#x27;re treating growth. If you&#x27;re posting daily, the visibility boost pays for itself.</p><p><strong>How long does it take to grow on X?</strong></p><p>Expect 3-6 months of consistent posting before things start compounding. Month 1 is figuring out what resonates. Months 2-3 are finding your voice. Month 4+ is where growth accelerates if you&#x27;ve been consistent.</p><p><strong>Is it too late to grow on X/Twitter?</strong></p><p>No. New accounts are growing every day. The difference is that the low-effort tactics (follow-for-follow, hashtag spam, engagement pods) don&#x27;t work anymore. You need real content and real engagement. That&#x27;s actually good news if you have something worth saying.</p><p><em>Currently building <a href="https://seotakeoff.com">SEOTakeoff</a> and sharing the journey on <a href="https://x.com/grahammann">X</a>. If this was useful, I&#x27;d appreciate a share.</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Best Books for Clear Thinking and Better Decisions]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/best-books-for-clear-thinking-and-better-decisions</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 14 Dec 2025 21:22:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Our lives are one big series of decisions, which can propel us forward or set us back. Like investing, good decision-making compounds, giving us interest on our past choices. Which is why learning to think clearly and make better decisions is so important. These are the books that have helped me most.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most of the problems we face in life aren’t caused by bad luck. They’re caused by unclear thinking—rushed choices, emotional reactions, or assumptions we never questioned.</p><p>Clear thinking doesn’t guarantee perfect outcomes.</p><p>But it dramatically reduces avoidable mistakes, improves judgment, and makes you more resilient in the face of uncertainty.</p><p>Books have been one of the most reliable ways I’ve improved my ability to think.</p><p>They give you new models, new perspectives, and new ways of understanding the world.</p><p>The books below aren’t an academic list of “must-reads.” They’re the ones that actually changed how I make decisions.</p><h2>The Core Books That Improved My Thinking the Most</h2><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/antifragile-nassim-nicholas-taleb">Antifragile — Nassim Nicholas Taleb</a></h3><p>If I had to pick one book that changed how I think about the world—and how I run my life—it would be <em>Antifragile</em>.</p><p>Taleb’s core idea is that many things in life follow <strong>power laws</strong>: a small number of actions drive most of the outcomes.</p><p>Once you understand that, decisions look different.</p><p>It’s the reason quitting a well-paying job can make sense in the long run. A stable paycheck feels safe, but it caps your upside. Personal projects, entrepreneurship, or asymmetric opportunities may feel risky, but they can fundamentally change your life if even one of them pays off.</p><p>Power laws helped me see that staying in a comfortable job for too long had hidden downsides.</p><p>It’s part of why I quit my job in August—not because it was a bad job, but because the long-term payoff of an asymmetric bet was far greater than the predictable path.</p><p>Antifragile thinking also influences how I invest, how I manage risk, and how I design my lifestyle. I reread it every year because the ideas keep proving themselves useful.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/thinking-fast-and-slow-daniel-kahneman">Thinking, Fast and Slow — Daniel Kahneman</a></h3><p>This is the clearest explanation of how our brains stumble when making decisions.</p><p>Kahneman introduces two systems:</p><ul><li><strong>System 1:</strong> fast, intuitive, emotional</li><li><strong>System 2:</strong> slow, deliberate, analytical</li></ul><p>Most of our mistakes come from relying on System 1 in situations where we need System 2.</p><p>Confirmation bias, sunk cost fallacy, overconfidence—just understanding these concepts changes your behavior.</p><p>You start noticing when you’re arguing to defend a belief rather than seeking truth.</p><p>You catch yourself wanting to continue a project just because you’ve invested time, not because it still makes sense.</p><p>I don’t think biases ever go away.</p><p>But knowing they exist helps you correct for them.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-art-of-thinking-clearly-rolf-dobelli">The Art of Thinking Clearly — Rolf Dobelli</a></h3><p>This is the simplest, most accessible catalog of cognitive errors.</p><p>Each chapter is a quick explanation of a common thinking trap, and you can read the book in any order.</p><p>I use it as a reference when I catch myself slipping into emotional reasoning or reacting too quickly to a situation.</p><p>It’s a reminder that errors in thinking don’t mean anything is wrong with you—they’re just part of being human.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-psychology-of-money-morgan-housel">The Psychology of Money — Morgan Housel</a></h3><p>Money decisions are rarely about math. They’re about behavior.</p><p>This book helped me understand my own relationship with money—how I think about risk, what “enough” means, and why long-term patience is one of the strongest financial strategies.</p><p>It changed my perspective on money from something to optimize to something to understand.</p><p>It’s also one of the easiest books to recommend because the ideas are immediately applicable.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-obstacle-is-the-way-ryan-holiday">The Obstacle Is the Way — Ryan Holiday</a></h3><p>Stoicism is one of the best tools for clear thinking under pressure.</p><p>Holiday’s writing makes ancient philosophy usable in the modern world.</p><p>The idea that “the obstacle is the way” helps reframe problems as the path forward rather than something to avoid.</p><p>Whenever I hit a difficult moment—building something new, making a tough decision, navigating uncertainty—this book brings me back to a calmer, more rational mindset.</p><h2>Books That Improve Judgment, Perspective, and Long-Term Thinking</h2><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/range-why-generalists-triumph-in-a-specialized-world-david-epstein">Range — David Epstein</a></h3><p><em>Range</em> argues that generalists—not specialists—are often better at solving complex problems. Generalist thinking lets you pull ideas from one field and apply them somewhere completely different.</p><p>This has shaped how I work across domains: tech, business, health, writing, construction. It reminds me that pulling from different experiences isn’t a weakness—it’s a strength.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-rational-optimist-matt-ridley">The Rational Optimist — Matt Ridley</a></h3><p>A grounded, historical case for optimism.</p><p>This book helps counteract the negativity bias that dominates modern life. When you understand how often the world has improved—and why—it becomes easier to make long-term decisions from a place of calm rather than fear.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/sapiens-yuval-noah-harari">Sapiens — Yuval Noah Harari</a></h3><p>Understanding human nature makes you better at predicting behavior—your own and others’.</p><p><em>Sapiens</em> gives you the deep context behind why we think the way we do and why some of our mental patterns persist even when they no longer serve us.</p><p>It’s one of the few books that genuinely changes how you see the world.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/poor-charlies-almanack-charles-munger">Poor Charlie’s Almanack — Charlie Munger</a></h3><p>A dense, wide-ranging guide to thinking clearly. Munger’s philosophy is built on combining mental models from multiple disciplines—economics, psychology, engineering, biology—to arrive at better decisions.</p><p>It’s not a book you breeze through. It’s a book you study.</p><h3><a href="https://amzn.to/3L08XKd">Superforecasting — Philip Tetlock</a></h3><p>The best book ever written about making accurate predictions.</p><p>Superforecasters aren’t smarter than everyone else—they’re more disciplined. They update their beliefs as new information arrives, they quantify uncertainty, and they avoid overconfidence.</p><p>Even adopting one or two of their habits makes decision-making more grounded.</p><h2>Books That Help You See the World as It Actually Is</h2><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-black-swan-nassim-nicholas-taleb">The Black Swan — Nassim Taleb</a></h3><p>We’re terrible at predicting rare events, yet rare events often shape our lives more than anything else.</p><p>This book helps you see the danger of planning around “average” scenarios and the importance of protecting yourself against ruin. It’s uncomfortable, but it’s essential.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/fooled-by-randomness-nassim-nicholas-taleb">Fooled by Randomness — Nassim Taleb</a></h3><p>This book made me far more skeptical of simple stories applied to complex outcomes. It’s easy to confuse luck for skill—or skill for luck. Understanding the difference helps you avoid false lessons and base your decisions on reality rather than narratives.</p><h3><a href="https://amzn.to/44pOpBu">Meditations — Marcus Aurelius</a></h3><p>Clear thinking often requires quiet, space, and emotional distance.</p><p><em>Meditations</em> is a timeless reminder that we can choose our responses, even when we can&#x27;t choose our circumstances.</p><h3><a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes/siddhartha-hermann-hesse">Siddhartha — Hermann Hesse</a></h3><p>The most grounding book I’ve ever read.</p><p>Whenever I’m overwhelmed—questioning decisions, doubting myself, or feeling anxious—I return to one line:</p><p><strong>“I can think, I can wait, I can fast.”</strong></p><p>It’s a reminder that you don’t need much.</p><p>You can start again.</p><p>You can rebuild.</p><p>You are capable of more than you think.</p><p>This perspective helped a lot when I quit my job and stepped into uncertainty.</p><p>Returning to zero is uncomfortable, but it’s rarely the catastrophe we imagine.</p><h2>My Biggest Lessons About Clear Thinking</h2><p>The most useful idea I’ve learned is that <strong>a great decision-making process can still lead to a bad outcome—and a bad process can sometimes produce a good one.</strong></p><p>That doesn’t mean the process is irrelevant. It means probability governs more of life than we like to admit.</p><p>If a decision has an 80% chance of success, it will fail 20% of the time. That doesn’t mean it was the wrong decision—it just means you’re living in the real world.</p><p>Thinking clearly is about getting the process right:</p><ul><li>understanding your biases</li><li>recognizing power laws</li><li>reducing downside</li><li>giving yourself exposure to upside</li><li>slowing down when things feel urgent</li><li>accepting uncertainty</li></ul><p>The outcome will take care of itself.</p><h2>How to Use These Books in Your Own Life</h2><p>Here’s the simple method I use:</p><ol><li><strong>Read slowly.</strong> Pay attention to what resonates.</li><li><strong>Highlight the ideas you keep returning to.</strong> Those are the ones that matter.</li><li><strong>Test one idea immediately.</strong> A small behavior change is worth more than pages of notes.</li><li><strong>Revisit the important books yearly.</strong> They change as you do.</li><li><strong>Focus on the process.</strong> Clear thinking is a habit, not a single insight.</li></ol><p>Books don’t change your life.</p><p>But the ideas you apply do.</p><h2>If you want my full notes…</h2><p>You can find <a href="https://grahammann.net/book-notes">all my book notes here</a> on my site—summaries, takeaways, and the ideas I’m actively using right now.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[The book is a giant toolkit for hacking the body. Instead of one linear program, Ferriss offers a buffet of protocols—fat-loss, muscle gain, strength, sex, sleep, injury repair, endurance, and longevity—and tells you explicitly not to read it cover to cover. You choose your goal, then follow the minimum chapters needed to reach it.

At the core is the idea of the minimum effective dose (MED): do the least necessary to trigger a hormonal or mechanical cascade, whether that’s burning fat, building muscle, or increasing testosterone. Exercise is reframed as a precise, outcome-driven intervention—different from “recreation,” which is just for fun. Ferriss also emphasizes that most success comes from diet and tracking, not heroic amounts of gym time.

For fat-loss, the flagship tool is the Slow-Carb Diet: avoid white carbs, eat the same few protein–legume–vegetable meals repeatedly, don’t drink calories, avoid fruit, and take one aggressive cheat day per week. Around this, he layers advanced “damage control” tactics—like lemon juice, cinnamon, and cheat-day movement—to minimize fat gain while preserving the psychological and metabolic benefits of overfeeding.

On the performance side, he presents ultra-minimal muscle and strength programs like Occam’s Protocol and the Effortless Superhuman sprint/strength template. These rely on slow, heavy sets to absolute failure, tiny exercise menus, and long recovery periods, plus high protein and smart supplementation. Elsewhere, he dives into sex (a 15-minute, goalless orgasm practice), sleep hacking (REM ratios, temperature, and pre-bed macros), injury prevention (movement screens and four key exercises), running and ultraendurance, and even long-term health via creatine cycles, intermittent fasting, and blood donation.

Threaded through everything is a skeptical, experimental mindset. Ferriss constantly warns against confusing correlation and causation, urges you to question studies and gurus, and insists that you measure, test, and iterate. The promise is not just a better body, but a new identity: someone who can reinvent their physical reality by treating themselves as a test lab.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Start Here &amp; Meta-Rules</h3><ul><li>Think of the book as a <strong>buffet</strong>, not a linear read.</li><li>Start by choosing: <ul><li>One appearance goal (e.g., rapid fat-loss, rapid muscle gain).</li><li>One performance goal (e.g., rapid strength gain, total well-being).</li></ul></li><li>Suggested reading tracks:  <ul><li><strong>Rapid fat-loss</strong> – Fundamentals, Ground Zero, Slow-Carb Diet I &amp; II, Building the Perfect Posterior (~98 pages).</li><li><strong>Rapid muscle gain</strong> – Fundamentals, Ground Zero, From Geek to Freak, Occam’s Protocol I &amp; II.</li><li><strong>Rapid strength gain</strong> – Fundamentals, Ground Zero, Effortless Superhuman, Pre-Hab.</li><li><strong>Rapid well-being</strong> – Fundamentals, Ground Zero, Improving Sex, Perfecting Sleep, Reversing Injuries (~143 pages).</li></ul></li><li>Rules for reading: <ul><li>Skip dense science if needed.</li><li>Be skeptical but don’t let skepticism become an excuse for inaction.</li><li>Enjoy the process.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Fundamentals: Minimum Effective Dose &amp; Causality</h3><ul><li>MED = smallest dose needed to trigger desired outcome (fat-loss cascade, local/systemic muscle growth).</li><li>80 seconds of tension cited as a key “button” for muscle growth.</li><li>Rough fat-loss contribution ratio: 60% diet, 10% drugs/supps, 30% exercise.</li><li>Exercise = precise MED of movements for target change; recreation = fun.</li><li>Causality checkpoints: <ol><li>Could causality be reversed? (e.g., sprinters already lean/muscular)</li><li>Are we confusing absence vs presence? (vegetables vs meat removal)</li><li>Is a specific demographic driving the result? (e.g., yoga participants with better diet)</li></ol></li><li>Embrace <strong>cycling</strong>, not constant balance.</li><li>Rule: it’s what enters the bloodstream and hormonal responses (to carbs, protein, fat) that matter.</li></ul><h3>Ground Zero: Motivation, Tracking, and Behavior</h3><ul><li>People are bad at following advice because: <ol><li>Their reason isn’t strong enough (no Harajuku Moment).</li><li>They lack reminders and tracking.</li></ol></li><li>Consistent tracking, even without expertise, often beats world-class training.</li><li>Tools:  <ul><li>Pre-plan a week of meals, buy ingredients, follow strictly.</li><li>Best body comp tools: DEXA, BodPod, ultrasound.</li><li>Take circumference measurements (upper arms, waist, hips, legs) and total as <strong>Total Inches (TI)</strong>.</li><li>Estimate BF% visually, then schedule objective testing.</li></ul></li><li>Four behavior hacks:  <ul><li>Make it conscious (photos, logs).</li><li>Make it a game (numbers to beat).</li><li>Make it competitive (friend challenges).</li><li>Make it small and temporary (tiny starting steps).</li></ul></li><li>Specific prompts:  <ol><li>Shock yourself with underwear photos and place them visibly.</li><li>Photograph everything you eat for 3–5 days (with hand for scale).</li><li>Recruit at least one person for friendly competition (TI or BF%).</li><li>Measure again and again; the author repeats the TI instructions to drive compliance.</li><li>Start with at least two steps before moving on.</li></ol></li></ul><h3>Slow-Carb Diet: Rules, Food, and Mistakes</h3><p><strong>Rules</strong></p><ol><li>Avoid white carbs and anything that can be white (except post-workout window).</li><li>Eat the same few meals repeatedly built from: <ul><li>Proteins: eggs, chicken, beef, fish, pork.</li><li>Legumes: lentils, black beans, pinto/red beans, soybeans.</li><li>Veg: spinach, mixed cruciferous veg, sauerkraut/kimchi, asparagus, peas, broccoli, green beans.</li></ul></li><li>Don’t drink calories.</li><li>Don’t eat fruit (tomatoes &amp; limited avocado allowed).</li><li>Take one day off per week and binge.</li></ol><p><strong>Example Meals &amp; Shopping</strong></p><ul><li>Breakfast: egg whites + whole egg, beans, mixed veg.</li><li>Lunch out: beef, beans, veg, guacamole (Mexican restaurant).</li><li>Dinner: beef/pork, lentils/beans, mixed veg.</li><li>Shopping list includes cheap eggs, beef, pork, chicken, frozen veg, peas, spinach, beans, asparagus.</li></ul><p><strong>Supplements</strong></p><ul><li>Baseline suggestions: potassium (~4,700 mg), calcium (~1,000 mg), magnesium (~400 mg) for a healthy 25-year-old male.</li></ul><p><strong>Practical Issues &amp; Fixes</strong></p><ul><li>Gas from beans: go organic, soak, or use canned and rinse (removing oligosaccharides).</li><li>Bland taste: balsamic vinegar, garlic powder, spices.</li><li>Texture issues: fake mashed potatoes (mashed beans/cauliflower with oil, seasoning, and optional parmesan).</li><li>Snacks: carrots if absolutely necessary.</li></ul><p><strong>Common Mistakes</strong></p><ul><li>Not eating within 30–60 minutes of waking (especially protein timing).</li><li>Not getting enough protein overall, especially at breakfast (target ~40% of breakfast from protein).</li><li>Not drinking enough water.</li><li>Overestimating willingness to cook.</li><li>Overeating domino foods like nuts and hummus.</li><li>Overusing sweeteners (even “natural” ones).</li><li>Going to the gym too often.</li></ul><h3>Cheat Days &amp; Damage Control</h3><p><strong>Goals</strong></p><ul><li>Put as much “crap” into muscle or out of the body as possible, leaving little for fat storage.</li></ul><p><strong>Principle #1: Insulin Control</strong></p><ul><li>First meal of cheat day: high protein and legumes, ~300–500 calories.</li><li>Small dose of fructose (e.g., grapefruit juice) before the first junk meal.</li><li>Use AGG/PAGG around cheat meals to increase insulin sensitivity and reduce insulin release.</li><li>Consume citric juices (lime, lemon, citrus kombucha) with meals.</li></ul><p><strong>Principle #2: Gastric Emptying</strong></p><ul><li>Use caffeine and yerba mate (theobromine/theophylline) at heavy meals.</li><li>Greens supplements like Athletic Greens support digestion without caffeine.</li></ul><p><strong>Principle #3: Muscular Contractions</strong></p><ul><li>60–90-second bouts of air squats, wall presses, and band pulls before/after meals.</li><li>Aim for 30–50 reps per movement to help partition calories into muscle.</li></ul><h3>CQ, Gut Flora, and PAGG</h3><ul><li><strong>Cissus quadrangularis</strong>: at high intake (~2.4 g, 3x/day), Tim saw fat-loss and mild anabolic effects (~7.2 g/day total).</li><li>Gut flora: <ul><li>Avoid Splenda.</li><li>Use fermented foods (unsweetened yogurt, kombucha, sauerkraut, kimchi).</li><li>Probiotics and prebiotics encouraged.</li></ul></li><li>Tim’s habit: five forkfuls of sauerkraut in the morning; kimchi in many meals.</li></ul><p><strong>PAGG Stack</strong></p><ul><li>Policosanol, alpha-lipoic acid, decaf green tea extract (EGCG), garlic extract.</li><li><strong>Schedule</strong>: <ul><li>AGG before breakfast, lunch, and dinner.</li><li>PAG before bed (no green tea).</li></ul></li><li>Use 6 days/week; take 1 full day off; 1 off-week every ~2 months.</li><li>Emphasis on adequate B vitamins and medical supervision if needed.</li><li>ALA helps store carbs in muscle/liver instead of fat.</li></ul><h3>Ice Age Revisited: Cold Exposure Protocols</h3><ul><li>Four starting points:  <ol><li>Ice pack on back of neck/upper traps for 20–30 minutes (evenings).</li><li>500 ml ice water immediately upon waking; breakfast 20–30 minutes later.</li><li>5–10-minute cold showers (hot → soap → cold rinse).</li><li>20-minute shiver-inducing ice baths (optionally with cayenne + protein 30 minutes before).</li></ol></li><li>Effects:  <ul><li>Shivering burns fatty acids for heat; may recruit GLUT-4 and build lean mass.</li><li>Even mild cold exposure may boost adiponectin and glucose uptake.</li><li>BAT thermogenesis offers non-shivering calorie expenditure.</li><li>Acute cold improves immunity and may help depression (e.g., 68°F showers for 2–3 minutes).</li></ul></li><li>Visible result: improved body composition and conditioning.</li></ul><h3>Advanced Carb &amp; Glucose Management</h3><ul><li>Food absorption is slower than expected; most foods peak glucose at 1.5–2.5 hours.</li><li>Fats blunt glucose spikes better than lean protein.</li><li>Fructose lowers glucose but doesn’t necessarily equate to more fat-loss.</li><li>Vinegar didn’t lower Tim’s glycemic response; lemon juice did (about 10% reduction with 3 tbsp fresh lemon).</li><li>Cinnamon (1.5 tsp of Saigon/Cassia) significantly reduces glucose; use freshly ground, learn species, and avoid overdosing.</li><li>Meal behaviors: <ul><li>Slow eating: 30-minute minimum for meals.</li><li>Eat in thirds with 5-minute breaks.</li><li>Use water and iced tea with lemon; smaller portions and more chewing help.</li></ul></li><li>Target: ≤2 spikes above 100 mg/dL per day for best fat-loss; under 90 mg/dL is even better but socially difficult.</li></ul><h3>Bodybuilding: Cutting Template</h3><ul><li>For a 200 lb male at 10–12% BF, adjust protein by 1 oz per 10 lbs of lean mass (minimum 4 oz per meal).</li><li>Options:  <ul><li>Whey + nuts/peanut butter.</li><li>White fish + nuts/peanut butter.</li><li>Turkey/chicken + nuts/peanut butter.</li><li>Fattier red meat/fish/dark poultry + oil.</li><li>Five whole eggs (hard-boiled works well).</li></ul></li><li>Unlimited low-carb veg at each meal.</li><li>One cheat meal every 7–10 days.</li><li>Training: super-high-intensity, one body part/day, daily cardio (30–40 minutes); then transition to no-carb to get &lt;8% BF.</li></ul><h3>Mass Gain, Kettlebells, and Abs</h3><p><strong>Three-Day Program</strong></p><ul><li>Day 1 &amp; 3: high-rep kettlebell swings + myotatic crunches.</li><li>Day 2: incline DB presses, Yates rows, heavy reverse drag curls.</li><li>Kettlebell swing technique: wide stance, hip hinge, shoulders back/down, hip “snap.”</li></ul><p><strong>Critical Ass A/B Workouts</strong></p><ul><li>Workout A: heavy front squat to press, one-arm/leg row, walking lunges, push-ups, kettlebell swings.</li><li>Workout B: single-leg RDL, eccentric chin-ups, single-leg hamstring curls on Swiss ball, planks, reverse hypers.</li><li>Perform each sequence 2–4 times; activate glutes first.</li></ul><p><strong>Abs</strong></p><ul><li>Myotatic crunch: BOSU/Swiss ball, arms overhead, slow 4-second descent, 2-second stretch, 2-second contraction; then add weight after hitting 10 reps.</li><li>Cat vomit: on all fours, full exhale, strong abdominal draw-in for 8–12 seconds, then one breath cycle and repeat for 10 reps.</li></ul><h3>Occam’s Protocol: Lifting, Feeding, and Supplements</h3><p><strong>Lifting Rules</strong></p><ul><li>One set to failure, 5/5 cadence, 7+ reps (upper body) or 10+ (legs).</li><li>2–10 exercises per workout, including main compound pressing, pulling, and leg movements.</li><li>No pausing at top/bottom; 3 minutes rest between exercises.</li><li>Increase weight by at least 10 lbs when hitting target reps.</li><li>Fight through failure for a few seconds, then lower slowly.</li><li>Adjust rest days: start with 2 days between A/B, then 3, then 4 as plateaus appear.</li><li>Most failures are from insufficient calorie/protein intake.</li></ul><p><strong>Feeding</strong></p><ul><li>Protein target: ≥1.25 g per lb of lean mass (e.g., 190 lb → 237.5 g).</li><li>Two styles: <ul><li>Big meals spaced through day.</li><li>Frequent smaller meals and shakes/bars.</li></ul></li><li>Example schedules show frequent protein hits (bars, shakes, high-protein meals throughout the day).</li></ul><p><strong>Occam’s Supplements</strong></p><ol><li>CQ and ALA (to limit fat gain).</li><li>L-glutamine: 80 g/day for 5 days (10 g every 2 hours) for gut support; optional 10–30 g post-workout.</li><li>Creatine monohydrate: ~3.5 g upon waking and before bed (around 5–6 g in solution to account for loss) for 28 days.</li></ol><h3>Sex: 15-Minute Orgasm Practice</h3><ul><li>Emphasis on: <ul><li>Goallessness.</li><li>A safe time container (exactly 15 minutes).</li><li>Light touch and singular focus.</li></ul></li><li>Steps: <ol><li>Explain the practice and remove expectations (no need to please or do anything after).</li><li>Position: woman on back, supported neck, butterfly legs.</li><li>Set timer, find upper-quadrant point of highest sensation, stroke lightly.</li></ol></li><li>Tips:  <ul><li>Light contact (two sheets of paper).</li><li>No “show”; she doesn’t have to act or vocalize.</li><li>Avoid chatter; use directional, not evaluative, questions.</li><li>Encourage relaxation and breathing, especially with strong contractions.</li></ul></li><li>After five rule-following sessions, you can optionally integrate penetration or cunnilingus variations.</li></ul><h3>Testosterone Protocols</h3><ul><li>Tim’s changes: total T from ~245 to ~653 then ~835 ng/dL; bioavailable from 150 to 294; estradiol halved.</li><li>Long-term:  <ul><li>Fermented cod liver + butter oil (AM/PM).</li><li>Vitamin D3 (3,000–5,000 IU twice daily until blood levels ~55 ng/mL).</li><li>Cold showers/baths (AM/PM).</li><li>Brazil nuts (3 AM, 3 PM).</li></ul></li><li>Short-term: <ul><li>Night-before cholesterol loading (800+ mg).</li><li>Four hours before: Brazil nuts, almonds, and cod/butter capsules.</li></ul></li><li>Consider SHBG, LH, and other hormone markers.</li><li>High-fat “anabolic” shakes on workout days only, within slow-carb framework.</li></ul><h3>Sleep Optimization</h3><ul><li>Discoveries:   <ul><li>Good sleep correlates with higher <strong>REM %</strong> and adequate deep sleep.</li><li>Brief mid-night awakening can increase REM %.</li><li>Huperzine-A increases REM but is used sparingly.</li><li>Too much wine near bedtime hurts deep sleep.</li><li>California poppy improves deep-wave sleep.</li><li>Almond butter (plus optional flax oil) reduces low-blood-sugar morning grogginess.</li></ul></li><li>Tools: cooler room, big fat/protein pre-bed meal, light devices, nervous system taxing via iso-lateral movements, cold baths, humidifier, NightWave, half military crawl position.</li></ul><h3>Reversing Injuries &amp; Pre-Hab</h3><ul><li>Sample exercises:   <ul><li>Static back.</li><li>Static extension on elbows.</li><li>Shoulder bridge with pillow.</li><li>Active bridges.</li><li>Supine groin hold in tower.</li><li>Air bench.</li></ul></li><li>FMS-based self-assessment with five movements.</li><li>Gray Cook’s “Critical Four”: Chop &amp; Lift, TGU, 2SDL, 1SDL.</li><li>Scheduling: first week 2–3 sessions, then 2x/week for weeks 2–6 with 2:5 strong:weak sets, then optional long-term maintenance.</li></ul><h3>Running Faster, Farther, and Ultraendurance</h3><ul><li>Vertical jump flaws: poor shoulder drive, arm pullback at apex, too-wide stance, tight hip flexors.</li><li>Hamstring pull prevention: glute-ham raises, hip extension strength work.</li><li>Key exercises: reverse hypers, regular hypers, swings, sled dragging, hip thrusts.</li><li>Ultraendurance:  <ul><li>First 4 weeks focus on mobility and glutes.</li><li>Use intervals, CrossFit-style conditioning, and time trials.</li><li>No long runs &gt;13.1 miles; often ≤10K.</li><li>Watch HR recovery; stop sessions if recovery is too slow.</li><li>Use tools like GMaps Pedometer or wheel for measuring distance.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Effortless Superhuman &amp; Bench-Press Phases</h3><ul><li>Training: 3x/week, bench/push-ups + heavy deadlifts (to knees, dropping bar) + plyometrics + core.</li><li>Rule: &lt;10 seconds time under tension to limit lactic acid.</li><li>Use ASR algorithm for conditioning benchmarks (e.g., 4.2 m/s minimum conditioning speed).</li><li>Sprint plan: no runs &gt;70 m; strength training shouldn’t compete with sport practice.</li><li>Rule of 10 reps per lift per workout; never to failure; leave reps “in the bank.”</li></ul><p><strong>Bench Phases</strong></p><ul><li>Phase I: 12-week mass gain with weekly weight gain and 200+ g protein daily.</li><li>Phase II: dumbbell pressing instead of barbell to retain power while resetting.</li><li>Phase III: return to barbell bench for new strength peak.</li><li>Science suggests 4–6 weeks to reset homeostasis.</li></ul><h3>Swimming &amp; Longevity</h3><p><strong>Swimming</strong></p><ul><li>Focus on shoulder roll, horizontal body, side-swimming concept.</li><li>Head aligned with spine; eyes down.</li><li>Hand enters water with fingers down, arm extends far and low.</li><li>Aim for longer stroke length, fewer strokes per lap.</li><li>Breathing: <ul><li>Start with every other stroke.</li><li>Progress to every third stroke to alternate sides.</li><li>Exhale fully underwater.</li></ul></li></ul><p><strong>Longevity</strong></p><ul><li>Creatine cycles for potential brain protection.</li><li>Fasting patterns: Fast-5 and ADCR for health and body composition.</li><li>Protein cycling once per week to mimic caloric restriction effects.</li><li>Blood donation/ phlebotomy to lower iron and reduce cardiovascular and cancer risk.</li></ul><h3>Testing &amp; Closing Thoughts</h3><ul><li>Use www.fourhourbody.com/bloodtests to decode labs.</li><li>Three rules of testing: <ol><li>If you can’t act on it or enjoy it, don’t test it.</li><li>Take the same tests at the same time for consistency.</li><li>Re-test any alarming result before making big changes.</li></ol></li><li>Final exercise: write down the physical things you’ve resigned yourself to being bad at; then ask what you’d want to be exceptional at if you couldn’t fail. That list becomes a blueprint for reinventing your body and your life.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Million-Dollar, One-Person Business: Make Great Money. Work the Way You Like. Have the Life You Want.]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-million-dollar-one-person-business-elaine-pofeldt</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2025 20:46:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This book digs into the “million-dollar, one-person revolution”: a growing group of entrepreneurs who run ultra-lean businesses that earn seven figures in revenue without building big teams. Using data from the US Census Bureau, it shows that there are tens of thousands of nonemployer firms making $1–2.5M and even some doing $5M+, and that this number is rising quickly. The point isn’t to glorify hustle, but to show that high income and small, flexible businesses can coexist.

The author identifies six main categories where these solo million-dollar businesses tend to appear: e-commerce, manufacturing, informational content creation, professional/creative services, personal services, and real estate. Within each category, we see case studies of ordinary people who got very smart about leverage: they use manufacturers, drop shippers, copackers, private label agreements, contractors, and automation tools to multiply their output without multiplying their own hours.

A big chunk of the book is about idea selection and validation. It walks through structured questions to uncover where your obsessions, skills, and market demand overlap. Many of the profiled founders started by scratching their own itch—looking for something they couldn’t find—and then testing a simple version online via a basic Shopify or WordPress store, Amazon Marketplace, or digital products on platforms like ClickBank. They treat their business as a lab: do lightweight market research, run experiments, A/B test, modify the product or packaging, and keep iterating until something sticks.

Once you’ve got traction, the book shifts focus to scaling smart. It emphasizes eliminating unnecessary tasks, automating processes, and delegating to freelancers or specialized vendors. Whether it’s outsourcing property management, using a web-based call center, hiring an agency for paid ads, or relying on fulfillment services, million-dollar solos expand their capacity beyond what one person can physically do. They also learn to choose a primary growth path: high-volume, digitally-driven sales or premium pricing supported by superior results and positioning.

Underneath the tactics is a constant drumbeat of financial discipline and life design. Many entrepreneurs start as side hustlers, keep their day job or spouse’s income to fund the business, and grow slowly out of cash flow rather than chasing investors. They obsess over cash flow: invoicing on time, speeding up payments, paying bills at the last reasonable moment, forecasting their needs, and building reserves. At the same time, they use the business to serve deeper goals—financial independence, more control over their time, more meaningful work—and periodically stop to ask if their current reality still matches the vision.

Finally, the book reminds you that you’re a human, not a machine. It includes guidance on maintaining health (diet, fitness, screenings), reducing stress cheaply, leveraging supportive medical professionals, and using inspiration and community to avoid burnout. It closes by offering reflection questions about whether to grow, keep, or sell the business and encourages you to stay selective about advice and opportunities so you can build something that actually makes you happy, not just rich.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>The Million-Dollar, One-Person Business Model</h3><ul><li><strong>The six categories</strong> – Most million-dollar solo businesses cluster in:   <ol><li>E-commerce</li><li>Manufacturing</li><li>Informational content creation</li><li>Professional/creative services</li><li>Personal services</li><li>Real estate</li></ol></li><li><strong>Nonemployer stats</strong> – Tens of thousands of nonemployer firms now earn $1–2.5M, with many more between $100K and $999K and a smaller elite above $2.5M–$5M+.</li><li><strong>The point is choice</strong> – A million-dollar, one-person business gives you options: keep it small with great income or grow into a larger team; staying solo is a tactic, not a religion.</li></ul><h3>Vision, Goals, and “Entrepreneurial Temperature”</h3><ul><li><strong>Realize and reset your vision</strong> – The happiest entrepreneurs frequently ask what they really want, whether their daily efforts align, and refresh goals when circumstances or desires change.</li><li><strong>Stay true to evolving goals</strong> – Don’t blindly follow external advice; evaluate whether it supports your actual vision and lifestyle, not someone else’s playbook.</li><li><strong>Taking stock</strong> – Regularly ask questions like: What do I truly want from this business? Do I want to grow or keep it the same? Am I happy with how I spend my time? Would I ever want to sell?</li></ul><h3>Identifying Your Million-Dollar Idea</h3><p><strong>Guided self-inquiry: passion + value</strong></p><ul><li><em>Identify where your passion meets market demand:</em>   <ul><li>What interests am I most passionate about?</li><li>Are there interests I’m so obsessive about that only fellow fanatics can relate?</li><li>What types of work do I most enjoy in daily life (household, job, volunteering, recreation)?</li><li>Where do objective people say I have exceptional skill or proficiency?</li><li>In what areas do I lack skills but am committed and able to develop them quickly?</li><li>Which interests would I enjoy even more by turning them into a business?</li></ul></li><li><em>Teasing out your expertise and “unique genius”:</em>   <ul><li>What niche areas of your work do you have deep knowledge and passion for?</li><li>What hobbies or personal interests do you constantly read and learn about?</li><li>Which of your pursuits generate curiosity from other people (home-schooling, urban farming, teaching abroad, etc.)?</li><li>What challenges/problems have you uniquely solved after deep research (from decorating on a budget to dealing with illness)?</li><li>What roles (parent, caregiver, mentor, volunteer) have given you knowledge others would value?</li><li>What situations or trends do you see before others?</li></ul></li><li><em>Narrowing ideas to scalable options:</em>  <ul><li>Which interests would you enjoy much less if you tried to monetize them?</li><li>Where do you have skills/experience you could realistically monetize?</li><li>What top three one-person business types excite you most and feel realistic?</li><li>Among them, which has the greatest potential to multiply your efforts using automation, outsourcing, and contractors instead of more hours?</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Routes to Funding and Financial Cushion</h3><ul><li><strong>Route #1: The side hustle</strong> – Start while keeping your day job; use your salary to fund experiments and reduce risk.</li><li><strong>Route #2: Keep your day job, live lean, and save</strong> – Cut expenses aggressively, save until you can afford to quit.</li><li><strong>Route #3: Get others to invest</strong> – Raise capital when appropriate, using established guidance on how to attract and work with investors.</li><li><strong>Route #4: Explore other financing options</strong> – Consider additional financing paths if you lack connections but need capital.</li><li><strong>Keep some cash reserves</strong> – Most microbusiness owners can only cover a month of expenses (and 30% have no savings); aim to be the exception.</li></ul><h3>Market Research and Testing</h3><ul><li><strong>Market research crash course</strong> – Don’t guess: use ClickBank, giant e-commerce sites, high-traffic blogs, and best-seller lists to see what sells and where the gaps are.</li><li><strong>Trade journals &amp; reports</strong> – Industry publications, IBISWorld, Euromonitor, and niche reports reveal market forces and long-term trends.</li><li><strong>On-the-ground research</strong> – When formal data doesn’t exist, gather it yourself by talking to customers, demoing products, and watching how people actually behave.</li><li><strong>Ask your target customer—and listen</strong> – Use tools like Google Survey or SurveyMonkey to ask what people really want and adapt accordingly.</li><li><strong>Test it cheaply</strong> – Put up a simple WordPress or Shopify site, or even start on Amazon Marketplace or daily deal sites to test demand with minimal spend.</li></ul><h3>Time, Focus, and Personal Productivity</h3><ul><li><strong>Eliminate, Automate, Delegate, Procrastinate</strong> – Constantly ask:  <ul><li>What can I eliminate?</li><li>What can I outsource?</li><li>What can I put on the back burner?</li><li>What can I say “no” to?</li></ul></li><li><strong>Unlock the time you need to get started</strong> – Even one focused hour per week is 52 hours a year—enough to launch a basic version in many cases.</li><li><strong>Dodge distractions</strong> – Chasing every new opportunity kills progress; use questions like “Is this high-impact?” and “Would waiting 6 months hurt?” to punt noncritical ideas.</li><li><strong>Time-saving tools</strong> – Calendar scheduling (ScheduleOnce), email tracking (Streak), screen-sharing (Join.me), and communication tools (Skype, WhatsApp, GoToMeeting) help compress coordination overhead.</li></ul><h3>Cash Flow, Pricing, and Financial Management</h3><ul><li><strong>The power of cash flow</strong> – Revenue isn’t cash. Invoicing delays and slow payments can kill the business even when sales look good.</li><li><strong>How to improve your cash flow:</strong>  <ul><li>Look ahead 6–12 months using forecasting tools in your accounting software.</li><li>Plan for equipment, hiring, and other big expenses.</li><li>Get paid faster with credit cards, ACH, mobile deposits, and disciplined invoicing.</li><li>Pay bills on time—but not early—when terms allow.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Pay your bills more slowly</strong> – If you have 30 days, don’t pay in week one; keep cash in your account as long as reasonably possible.</li><li><strong>Find ways to speed payments</strong> – Invoice frequently and on time; ask for deposits and progress payments; follow up when clients are late.</li><li><strong>Price strategy: volume vs premium</strong> – If your business doesn’t lend itself to high-volume sales, you’ll need premium pricing—often via packaged services and higher day rates.</li><li><strong>How to raise your professional services prices:</strong>  <ul><li>Get a sense of market rates (trade org reports, peers).</li><li>Repackage services into higher-value bundles.</li><li>Test increases with friendly or new clients first.</li><li>Show clear ROI so clients see the value of higher fees.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Selling, Marketing, and Distribution</h3><ul><li><strong>Simplify selling and fulfillment</strong> – Use Shopify or similar for e-commerce; outsource fulfillment to big platforms; avoid storing and shipping your own inventory.</li><li><strong>High-volume digital marketing</strong> – Pay-per-click ads on Facebook and Google can drive rapid growth if you have the capacity (or contractors) to fulfill orders and avoid reputational damage.</li><li><strong>A/B testing tools</strong> – Splitly, Optimizely, VWO, and Google Analytics Content Experiments help optimize pages, copy, and offers.</li><li><strong>Use major online retailers</strong> – Partner with big e-tailers and vendor programs to access millions of customers and leverage their logistics and fulfillment.</li><li><strong>Social proof &amp; reviews</strong> – Send samples to review sites, invest in PR and podcast ads, and build media presence to create trust and demand.</li><li><strong>Build relationships with influencers</strong> – Social media influencers and niche communities can amplify your brand story and accelerate growth.</li><li><strong>Create visual social media</strong> – Use imagery and visual content to bring products and brands to life on social platforms.</li></ul><h3>Outsourcing, Automation, and Systems</h3><ul><li><strong>Reduce your need for inventory</strong> – Use drop shippers or third-party fulfillment services so you don’t tie up cash or space.</li><li><strong>Contracting production</strong> – Use factories, private label manufacturers, and copackers (e.g., Maker’s Row, sourcing agents) to produce at scale without hiring staff.</li><li><strong>Know when to contract vs DIY</strong> – Outsource production, fulfillment, property management, photography, customer service, and paid ad buying when specialists can do it better and faster.</li><li><strong>Put the right systems in place for growth</strong> – Think through processes early so you can add revenue without everything breaking; systems + contractors = scalable solo business.</li><li><strong>Make sales part of customer service</strong> – Web-based call centers and trained support staff can both serve customers and drive more sales.</li></ul><h3>Branding, Positioning, and Niche</h3><ul><li><strong>The power of your brand</strong> – Even as a tiny company, brand matters: name, logo, fonts, website, and chosen media all signal your values and promise.</li><li><strong>Don’t hide being small</strong> – You’ll often attract customers because you’re a small, specialized, human-scale business.</li><li><strong>How niche can you go?</strong> – Entire seven-figure e-commerce stores have been built around super-specific products (origami materials, gumballs, sleep masks, mailbox flags, etc.).</li><li><strong>Curating as a business model</strong> – When there are too many similar products, becoming the trusted curator of the best ones can itself be a thriving business.</li></ul><h3>Health, Stress, and Sustainability</h3><ul><li><strong>Invest in a healthy diet</strong> – Prioritize mostly fresh, unprocessed foods to reduce the risk of diet-related diseases that could disrupt your work and life.</li><li><strong>Make fitness part of your routine</strong> – Choose activities you’ll actually stick with; consistency matters more than the “perfect” workout.</li><li><strong>Get routine screenings &amp; plan for medical costs</strong> – Catch issues early and plan financially for non-emergent care.</li><li><strong>Build an alternative health team</strong> – When appropriate, consider trusted independent practitioners (like functional medicine doctors) for second opinions.</li><li><strong>Find low-cost stress-reduction strategies</strong> – Use affordable options—like student-clinic massages—to keep stress from silently eroding your health.</li></ul><h3>When to Sell, Pivot, or Get Help</h3><ul><li><strong>Should you sell?</strong> – Don’t wait until revenue is declining; consider selling when growth plateaus and your passion fades, before the business slides down the bell curve.</li><li><strong>What to do when growth stalls</strong> – Bring in a mentor or coach to help identify your real strengths and where your ego might be blocking scale.</li><li><strong>Stay inspired</strong> – Use books, interesting content (like Brain Pickings), and communities (like eCommerceFuel) to keep learning and energized.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Ultralearning: Accelerate Your Career, Master Hard Skills and Outsmart the Competition]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/ultralearning-scott-young</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2025 20:39:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Ultralearning is Scott Young’s term for a specific kind of learning project: self-directed, aggressive, and oriented toward hard skills that actually matter in real life. The book begins by contrasting passive, credential-focused education with people who design their own intense learning projects—like learning languages by speaking from day one or completing unofficial “degrees” faster and cheaper than traditional schooling. These ultralearners are not necessarily the most talented; they’re the ones who are bold, obsessive, and willing to optimize their learning like a craft.

Young argues that ultralearning matters for both career and life. Professionally, learning hard skills quickly can do more for your career than years of mediocre effort. It helps you accelerate where you are, transition to a new field, or create a hidden advantage in a competitive environment. Personally, it gives you a way to finally tackle the instruments, languages, and crafts you’ve always dreamed of, and it stretches your self-conception: doing hard things changes how you see yourself.

At the core of the book are nine principles distilled from ultralearners’ projects: Metalearning (understanding how to learn what you’re learning), Focus, Directness, Drill, Retrieval, Feedback, Retention, Intuition, and Experimentation. Each principle has its own chapter, showing how to apply it in practice. You learn to research the map before you start, sharpen your ability to concentrate, tie learning directly to the context where you’ll use it, break skills into subskills, test yourself aggressively, seek feedback without letting it wreck your motivation, deliberately retain knowledge, dig deep for real understanding, and experiment beyond your comfort zone.

Young also shows how to design and execute your first ultralearning project: do metalearning research, plan your schedule, execute, review, and then decide whether to maintain, relearn, or push toward mastery. He contrasts ultralearning with low-intensity habits and formal education, showing when each approach makes sense. Finally, he explores how to foster ultralearning in children, schools, and organizations by setting inspiring goals, using competition carefully, and making learning a priority rather than a side effect of “real work.”

Overall, the book is both a manifesto and a manual: it tries to convince you that intense, self-directed learning is possible for you (not just “geniuses”), and then gives you a structured set of principles and tactics to make that happen.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Core Concepts – The 9 Principles of Ultralearning</h3><h3>The 9 Principles of Ultralearning</h3><ul><li><strong>1. Metalearning: First Draw a Map</strong><ul><li>Learn <em>how</em> to learn your chosen subject. Do short-term research using “Why, What, How”: clarify your motivation (instrumental vs intrinsic), list concepts/facts/procedures, and pick resources and methods (benchmarking + Emphasize/Exclude). Invest ~10% of your project time in this research, and keep updating it as you go.</li></ul></li><li><strong>2. Focus: Sharpen Your Knife</strong><ul><li>Cultivate the ability to start, sustain, and optimize focus. Tackle procrastination by recognizing it and pushing through the first few unpleasant minutes. Protect your attention from environmental distractions, task-choice distractions, and mental clutter. Adjust your <strong>arousal level</strong> (energy) to match the difficulty: high arousal for simple, narrow tasks; lower, calmer arousal for complex, creative work.</li></ul></li><li><strong>3. Directness: Go Straight Ahead</strong><ul><li>Learn by doing the thing you actually want to do. Avoid purely indirect approaches (only classes/books/apps) that never match the real context. Directness helps solve the <strong>transfer problem</strong>: learning in the context where you’ll use the skill makes it far more likely you can apply it later. Use project-based learning, immersion, realistic simulations (“flight simulators”), and the “overkill” approach (set a challenge harder than you strictly need).</li></ul></li><li><strong>4. Drill: Attack Your Weakest Point</strong><ul><li>Identify the <strong>rate-determining step</strong> in your performance and drill it aggressively. Cycle: direct practice → analyze weaknesses → isolate a subskill → drill → return to direct practice to integrate and test transfer. Use tactics like time slicing, drilling cognitive components, copycatting (copy what you don’t want to practice so you can focus on what you do), the magnifying glass method (spend disproportionate time on one subskill), and prerequisite chaining (start too hard, then backfill prerequisites as needed).</li></ul></li><li><strong>5. Retrieval: Test to Learn</strong><ul><li>Memory is strengthened more by <strong>trying to recall</strong> than by re-reading. Experiments show that free recall beats repeated review, even though students <em>feel</em> like reviewing works better. Difficult retrieval (free recall, delayed testing) leads to better retention, as long as recall still succeeds. Use flash cards, free recall summaries, question-based note-taking (question-book method), self-generated challenges, and closed-book learning to force retrieval.</li></ul></li><li><strong>6. Feedback: Don’t Dodge the Punches</strong>  <ul><li>Feedback is powerful but tricky: in many studies, feedback actually harms performance ~38% of the time. Feedback that targets the person (“you’re so smart/lazy”) usually hurts learning; feedback that gives <strong>specific information</strong> about what you did and how to fix it helps. Distinguish:</li><li><strong>Outcome feedback</strong> – overall result (pass/fail, score).</li><li><strong>Informational feedback</strong> – what you did wrong.</li><li><strong>Corrective feedback</strong> – what you did wrong <em>and</em> how to fix it.</li><li>Use tactics like noise cancellation (separate signal from noise), hitting the difficulty sweet spot (avoid too-positive or too-negative environments), metafeedback (track your <em>learning rate</em> and strategy effectiveness), and high-intensity, rapid feedback (more cycles, faster).</li></ul></li><li><strong>7. Retention: Don’t Fill a Leaky Bucket</strong><ul><li>Forgetting happens through <strong>decay</strong>, <strong>interference</strong> (old vs new memories), and <strong>missing cues</strong>. To keep skills:  <ul><li>Use <strong>spacing</strong> (don’t cram; spread practice over time, use refresher projects).</li><li>Push knowledge toward <strong>proceduralization</strong> (automatic skills like typing or biking).</li><li>Use <strong>overlearning</strong> (practice beyond “just correct,” especially for core skills).</li><li>Use <strong>mnemonics</strong> (like keyword method and memory palaces) as a bridge for specific, hard-to-remember facts, while recognizing they’re not always suited for fully fluent performance.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>8. Intuition: Dig Deep Before Building Up</strong><ul><li>Intuition comes from effortful struggle and deep engagement, not shortcuts. Use rules like:  <ul><li>Don’t give up quickly; use a “struggle timer” to sit with hard problems longer.</li><li>Prove things to understand them—re-derive results yourself.</li><li>Always start with concrete examples to anchor abstract concepts.</li><li>Don’t fool yourself: ask “dumb” questions, use the <strong>Feynman Technique</strong> (explain concepts as if teaching someone else, and notice where your understanding breaks).</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>9. Experimentation: Explore Outside Your Comfort Zone</strong> <ul><li>As you get better, improvement depends on <strong>experimentation</strong>: pushing into new methods, techniques, and styles. Learning becomes a process of unlearning old habits and discovering better ways. Experiment with: <ul><li><strong>Resources</strong> (different books, classes, methods).</li><li><strong>Techniques</strong> (subskills and approaches within the domain).</li><li><strong>Style</strong> (your personal way of doing things).</li></ul></li><li>Use tactics like copy-then-create, side-by-side method comparisons, adding constraints, combining unrelated skills into a hybrid “superpower,” and exploring extremes. This ties closely to a <strong>growth mindset</strong>—believing your abilities can be improved.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Ultralearning Project Framework (From “Your First Ultralearning Project”)</h3><ul><li><strong>Step 1: Do Your Research</strong> – Clarify topic and scope, direct practice activities, primary resources, benchmarks (how others learned), and backup materials/drills.</li><li><strong>Step 2: Schedule Your Time</strong> – Decide how much time, when you’ll learn, project length, and put everything on a calendar. Use shorter spaced chunks for memory, longer chunks for tasks with long warm-up times (writing, coding).</li><li><strong>Step 3: Execute Your Plan</strong> – Learn while staying alert to misalignment with the principles (Are you focused? Direct? Drilling weaknesses?).</li><li><strong>Step 4: Review Your Results</strong> – Afterward, analyze what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d change next time.</li><li><strong>Step 5: Maintain, Relearn, or Master</strong> – Decide whether to keep skills via low-level maintenance, let them fade and accept relearning later, or double down into mastery with further projects.</li></ul><h2>Foreword</h2><ul><li>Ultralearners aren’t just absorbing knowledge—they are <strong>committed to putting that knowledge to use</strong>.</li><li>Learning can become disconnected from real skill if it’s only about soaking up facts.</li><li>You can know every fact about an industry and still lack <strong>real-world expertise</strong> because you haven’t practiced the craft.</li></ul><h2>Chapter I – Can You Get an MIT Education Without Going to MIT?</h2><ul><li>Benny Lewis’s language approach:  <ul><li>Start speaking <strong>from day one</strong>.</li><li>Don’t be afraid to talk to strangers.</li><li>Use a phrasebook to get started; leave formal study for later.</li><li>Use visual mnemonics to memorize vocabulary.</li></ul></li><li>What stands out is less the methods and more the <strong>boldness</strong>: he dives straight into conversations and sets seemingly impossible challenges.</li><li>Contrast: the timid learner worrying about mistakes and insufficient vocabulary vs Lewis’s <strong>fearlessness</strong>.</li><li>Ultralearners’ shared traits:  <ul><li>Work alone, often for months or years.</li><li>Interests tend toward <strong>obsession</strong>.</li><li>Aggressively optimize strategies (debating interleaving, leech thresholds, keyword mnemonics, etc.).</li><li>Care deeply about learning itself.</li><li>Motivation pushes them into intense projects, often at the expense of credentials or conformity.</li></ul></li></ul><h2>Chapter II – Why Ultralearning Matters</h2><ul><li><strong>Definition</strong>: Ultralearning is a strategy for acquiring skills and knowledge that is <strong>self-directed and intense</strong>.</li><li>Reasons to ultralearn: <ul><li><strong>Work</strong>: rapidly learning hard skills can have more impact than years of mediocre on-the-job striving.<ul><li>Helps you change careers, take on new challenges, or accelerate progress.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Personal life</strong>: <ul><li>Many people dream of playing an instrument, speaking a language, cooking, writing, photography, etc.</li><li>Deep satisfaction comes from realizing your potential and overcoming limiting beliefs.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li>Three main cases where ultralearning applies: <ol><li>Accelerating your current career.</li><li>Transitioning to a new career.</li><li>Cultivating a hidden advantage in a competitive world.</li></ol></li><li>Ultralearning can augment other skills and assets you already have.</li><li>The best ultralearners blend <strong>practical reasons</strong> with <strong>inspiration/excitement</strong>.</li><li>There’s an added benefit: doing hard things stretches your <strong>self-conception</strong>.</li><li>Professional success wasn’t usually the main motivation; it was: <ul><li>A compelling vision.</li><li>Curiosity.</li><li>The challenge itself.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Putting Talent Aside &amp; Finding Time</h3><ul><li>Concern: “How will I find time for intensive learning with work/school/family?”</li><li>In practice, this is usually solvable. Three main ways to fit ultralearning in: <ol><li><strong>New part-time projects</strong>.</li><li><strong>Learning sabbaticals</strong>.</li><li><strong>Reimagining existing learning efforts</strong>.</li></ol></li><li>What matters is <strong>intensity, initiative, and commitment to effective learning</strong>, not having a perfect schedule.</li><li>Core claim: <strong>The ability to acquire hard skills effectively and efficiently is immensely valuable.</strong></li></ul><h2>Chapter III – How to Become an Ultralearner</h2><ul><li>Example of deliberate self-improvement in public speaking:  <ul><li>Took improv classes to become more spontaneous and trust what’s in his head.</li><li>Learned to avoid stammering or freezing by delivering without hesitation.</li><li>After bombing outside Toastmasters, he learned to <strong>talk to his audience before going on stage</strong> to understand their language and emotions and adjust the speech on the fly.</li><li>Mentor Gendler: “Make me care.”<ul><li>The audience doesn’t automatically care about you—you must make them care.</li></ul></li></ul></li></ul><h3>The Nine Principles (Overview)</h3><ol><li><strong>MetaLearning – First Draw a Map</strong> <ul><li>Learn how to learn the subject or skill.</li><li>Do good research and leverage past competencies.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Focus – Sharpen Your Knife</strong><ul><li>Cultivate concentration; carve out focused time blocks.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Directness – Go Straight Ahead</strong><ul><li>Learn by doing the real thing, not convenient proxies.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Drill – Attack Your Weakest Point</strong><ul><li>Identify weak points; break complex skills into parts; master them and reassemble.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Retrieval – Test to Learn</strong><ul><li>Testing creates knowledge; practice active recall early and often.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Feedback – Don’t Dodge the Punches</strong><ul><li>Feedback is uncomfortable; extract signal from noise without letting ego interfere.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Retention – Don’t Fill a Leaky Bucket</strong><ul><li>Understand forgetting; build systems to remember for the long term.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Intuition – Dig Deep Before Building Up</strong><ul><li>Develop intuition through play and exploration; avoid shallow tricks.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Experimentation – Explore Outside Your Comfort Zone</strong><ul><li>Push boundaries; try new methods, techniques, and styles.</li></ul></li></ol><h2>Chapter IV – Principle 1: Metalearning – First Draw a Map</h2><ul><li>Metalearning: <strong>learning about learning</strong>—understanding how to learn your chosen subject.</li><li>Two time scales: <ul><li>Short-term: targeted research before and during a project.</li><li>Long-term: each ultralearning project enlarges your general metalearning skill set (methods, resource gathering, motivation management).</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Why / What / How Framework</h3><ul><li><strong>Why?</strong> – Understand your motivation. <ul><li>Instrumental vs intrinsic projects.</li><li>For instrumental projects, research whether the skill will actually help you reach your goal.</li><li>Use <strong>expert interviews</strong>: talk to people who have already achieved what you want.</li></ul></li><li><strong>What?</strong> – Analyze the knowledge/abilities required. <ul><li>Draw three columns: <strong>Concepts, Facts, Procedures</strong>. <ul><li>Concepts: ideas you must understand flexibly.</li><li>Facts: things to memorize.</li><li>Procedures: actions to practice.</li></ul></li><li>Example: language learning – vocabulary = facts; pronunciation = procedure.</li><li>Underline the most challenging items to spot bottlenecks.</li></ul></li><li><strong>How?</strong> – Decide on resources, environment, and methods. <ul><li><strong>Benchmarking</strong>: <ul><li>Find common ways people learn the skill (syllabi, tutorials, expert recommendations).</li><li>Build a default curriculum from what already works for others.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Emphasize/Exclude Method</strong>: <ul><li>Emphasize areas aligned with your goals (e.g., pronunciation for travel; app development details over theory).</li><li>Exclude or delay topics that don’t serve the goal (e.g., Chinese characters before speaking).</li></ul></li></ul></li></ul><h3>The 10 Percent Rule &amp; Ongoing Research</h3><ul><li>Invest ~10% of your total expected learning time into <strong>metalearning research</strong> before starting.</li><li>Metalearning is not one-off: <ul><li>Continuously compare marginal benefit of more research vs direct learning.</li><li>If research feels more valuable than recent “doing,” keep researching a bit longer.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Long-Term Metalearning</h3><ul><li>Each project improves: <ul><li>Learning methods.</li><li>Resource gathering.</li><li>Time and motivation management.</li></ul></li><li>Success in one project builds confidence to approach the next with less doubt and procrastination.</li></ul><h2>Chapter V – Principle 2: Focus – Sharpen Your Knife</h2><ul><li>Deep focus is nearly ubiquitous in great intellectual achievements.</li><li>Focus struggles fall into three types: <ol><li>Failing to <em>start</em> (procrastination).</li><li>Failing to <em>sustain</em> focus (distraction).</li><li>Failing to create the <strong>right kind</strong> of focus (arousal mismatch).</li></ol></li></ul><h3>Problem 1: Procrastination (Failing to Start)</h3><ul><li>We procrastinate due to cravings for alternatives and aversion to the task.</li><li>Most unpleasantness is concentrated in the <strong>first few minutes</strong> of starting.</li><li>Crutch: convince yourself to get through a few minutes of maximal unpleasantness <strong>before</strong> taking a break.</li><li>Eventually, use a <strong>calendar</strong> to carve out specific hours in advance—and actually follow it.</li></ul><h3>Problem 2: Distraction (Failing to Sustain Focus)</h3><ul><li><strong>Flow</strong> vs deliberate practice: <ul><li>Flow is enjoyable but may not match the demands of deliberate practice (which needs monitoring, feedback, error correction).</li><li>Don’t obsess over flow; it appears sometimes, but isn’t required for learning.</li></ul></li><li>Spacing and session length: 50–60 minutes is often a good length for many learning tasks.</li></ul><h4>Three Sources of Distraction</h4><ol><li><strong>Environment</strong> <ul><li>Phone, internet, TV, games, noise, missing materials.</li><li>People often tell themselves they “focus better” with music, but it might simply make avoidance easier.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Task</strong> <ul><li>Some activities are harder to focus on (e.g., reading vs video) even with identical content.</li><li>Choose learning tools partly based on how easy they are to focus on.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Mind</strong> <ul><li>Negative emotions, restlessness, daydreaming.</li><li>Clear, calm mind is best; unresolved life issues can undermine learning.</li><li><strong>Arousal</strong> matters:  <ul><li>Low arousal = sleepy.</li><li>High arousal = jittery, easily distracted.</li><li>Simple tasks benefit from high arousal and narrow focus.</li><li>Complex tasks often need relaxed, more diffuse focus.</li></ul></li></ul></li></ol><h3>Problem 3: Right Kind of Focus</h3><ul><li>High arousal → narrow, brittle focus (good for simple/concentrated tasks).</li><li>Lower arousal → broader, more creative focus (good for complex problem-solving).</li><li>Ideas sometimes emerge after effort when you relax, but only if you’ve <strong>focused long enough</strong> beforehand.</li></ul><h3>Improving Focus</h3><ul><li>You can improve focus with practice, even if discipline in one area doesn’t automatically transfer to all areas.</li><li>Treat focus as a skill you train via: <ul><li>Structuring environment.</li><li>Choosing appropriate tasks.</li><li>Managing arousal and emotions.</li></ul></li></ul><h2>Chapter VI – Principle 3: Directness – Go Straight Ahead</h2><ul><li>Directness: learning tied closely to the <strong>situation or context</strong> where you’ll use it.</li><li>Common problem: building the wrong skills portfolio. Examples: <ul><li>Want to speak a language but mainly use apps instead of conversations.</li><li>Want to work on large collaborative software but mostly code isolated scripts.</li><li>Want to be a great speaker but only read books on communication.</li></ul></li><li>Traditional, indirect learning: <ul><li>Master formulas before seeing real problems.</li><li>Memorize vocabulary from lists without usage.</li><li>Solve highly artificial problems that never appear again.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>The Transfer Problem</h3><ul><li>Transfer = using knowledge learned in one context in another.</li><li>Research shows:<ul><li>Even high-achieving students often can’t apply classroom knowledge to slightly altered real-world problems.</li></ul></li><li>Haskell’s insight: transfer is harder when knowledge is limited; as knowledge grows, it becomes more flexible.</li><li>Young’s hypothesis: <strong>most formal learning is too indirect</strong>, which cripples transfer.</li></ul><h3>How Directness Helps</h3><ol><li><strong>Reduce Need for Far Transfer</strong><ul><li>Learn in the actual or close-to-actual context where you’ll use the skill.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Improve Transfer</strong> <ul><li>Real-life situations share subtle details with each other, but not with artificial classrooms.</li><li>Real contexts teach hidden details that transfer better to new real situations.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>Principle: build knowledge <strong>outward from a real situation</strong>, rather than stockpiling theory and hoping it applies later.</li></ul><h3>How Ultralearners Use Directness</h3><ul><li>Simplest: <strong>learn by doing</strong> as much as possible.</li><li>When direct practice isn’t feasible (piloting, surgery), use <strong>simulations</strong> approximating cognitive demands.</li><li>Focus on cognitive features (decisions, cues, knowledge retrieval), not superficial details (room, clothes).</li></ul><h3>Tactics for Directness</h3><ol><li><strong>Project-Based Learning</strong> <ul><li>Organize learning around producing something.</li><li>Guarantees you at least learn how to produce that thing.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Immersive Learning</strong> <ul><li>Surround yourself with the target environment.</li><li>Increases volume of practice and range of situations.</li><li>Language example: immersion in a country; open-source communities for coding.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Flight Simulator Method</strong> <ul><li>Create realistic simulations when real practice is impossible or risky.</li><li>Make sure cognitive demands resemble the real thing (e.g., Skype conversation vs flash cards for language).</li></ul></li><li><strong>Overkill Approach</strong> <ul><li>Set a challenge above your required level (e.g., language exams, big performance).</li><li>The environment’s demands are so high you’re unlikely to miss key lessons.</li><li>First weeks can be a shock, but then become normal.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>Habit: always ask, “Where and how will this knowledge show up in reality?”</li></ul><h2>Chapter VII – Principle 4: Drill – Attack Your Weakest Point</h2><ul><li>Using Franklin and others as examples, drills isolate a <strong>rate-determining step</strong> in learning.</li><li>Strategy:  <ol><li>Start with <strong>direct practice</strong>.</li><li>Analyze performance; identify weak components.</li><li>Design drills targeting those components specifically.</li><li>Return to direct practice to integrate and test.</li></ol></li><li>Early in learning, cycle direct–drill–direct more quickly.</li></ul><h3>Designing Drills – Key Questions</h3><ul><li>When and what to drill?<ul><li>Which aspect, if improved, yields the greatest overall improvement for the least effort?</li></ul></li><li>Designing effective drills is tricky: they must train the real difficulty without stripping away everything that makes it hard.</li><li>Drills are often uncomfortable and require strong motivation.</li></ul><h3>Drill Tactics</h3><ol><li><strong>Time Slicing</strong> <ul><li>Isolate a small temporal slice of a longer sequence and repeat it.</li><li>Example: repeating key phrases in early language learning.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Cognitive Components</strong> <ul><li>Drill one cognitive aspect (grammar, pronunciation, vocabulary) while minimizing others.</li><li>Example: Mandarin tone drills with recordings.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Copycat</strong> <ul><li>Copy everything except the one part you want to practice.</li><li>Reduces cognitive burden and lets you focus on the subskill (e.g., argument ordering in an essay).</li></ul></li><li><strong>Magnifying Glass Method</strong> <ul><li>Spend much more time on one component than usual.</li><li>Example: spending 10x more time on research when writing articles.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Prerequisite Chaining</strong> <ul><li>Start with a skill that’s beyond your current prerequisites.</li><li>When you fail, go back one step to learn the missing prerequisite, then try again.</li><li>Frustrating but efficient—avoids wasting time on subskills that don’t drive performance.</li></ul></li></ol><h3>Mindful Drilling</h3><ul><li>Drills without context are mind-numbing.</li><li>People avoid drills or only drill what already feels comfortable.</li><li>Effective drilling requires: <ul><li>Looking honestly at weaknesses.</li><li>Comfort with intense, sometimes unpleasant effort.</li></ul></li><li>Pattern: <strong>mentally strenuous activities give greater learning benefits</strong> than easy ones.</li></ul><h2>Chapter VIII – Principle 5: Retrieval – Test to Learn</h2><ul><li>William James: “It pays better to wait and recollect by an effort from within, than to look at the book again.”</li></ul><h3>Testing Effect &amp; Research</h3><ul><li>Study by Karpicke &amp; Blunt: <ul><li>Four groups: single review, repeated review, free recall, concept mapping.</li><li>Students predicted repeated review would work best, free recall worst.</li><li>Actual result: <strong>free recall outperformed all others</strong>.</li></ul></li><li>Paradox: Why don’t students use retrieval more? <ul><li>Our <strong>judgments of learning (JOLs)</strong> are based on how easy studying feels.</li><li>Easy, smooth tasks feel like better learning; struggle feels like worse learning.</li><li>Immediately after study, passive review may outperform retrieval, reinforcing the illusion.</li></ul></li><li>Another reason: students don’t feel they know the material well enough to test themselves.</li></ul><h3>Desirable Difficulty</h3><ul><li>More difficult retrieval → better learning, as long as retrieval is successful.</li><li>Free recall &gt; cued recall &gt; recognition for long-term retention.</li><li>Slight delay before testing beats immediate testing.</li><li>Too much delay → information is lost and retrieval fails (difficulty becomes undesirable).</li></ul><h3>Forward-Testing Effect</h3><ul><li>Retrieval not only improves past learning but <strong>prepares the mind</strong> to learn new information more effectively.</li></ul><h3>What Should Be Retrieved?</h3><ul><li>Direct practice forces retrieval of what naturally appears in real tasks.</li><li>But direct practice alone might miss helpful knowledge that isn’t strictly necessary to complete tasks.</li><li>If knowledge isn’t in your head, you can’t recognize when to use it.</li></ul><h3>Retrieval Tactics</h3><ol><li><strong>Flash Cards</strong> <ul><li>Great for paired associations (question → answer).</li><li>Limited to that specific retrieval format.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Free Recall</strong><ul><li>After reading or a lecture, write everything you remember on a blank sheet.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Question-Book Method</strong> <ul><li>Take notes as questions rather than statements.</li><li>One big question per section forces you to identify and rephrase main ideas.</li><li>Later, answer those questions from memory.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Self-Generated Challenges</strong> <ul><li>For skills (programming, etc.), create practice challenges as you learn.</li><li>Use these later to test your ability to apply concepts.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Closed-Book Learning</strong><ul><li>Turn any activity (like concept mapping) into retrieval by doing it without looking at the text.</li></ul></li></ol><h2>Chapter IX – Principle 6: Feedback – Don’t Dodge the Punches</h2><ul><li>Feedback is one of the most consistent tools ultralearners use.</li></ul><h3>Can Feedback Backfire?</h3><ul><li>Meta-analysis: feedback usually helps, but in ~38% of cases it <strong>hurts</strong> performance.</li><li>Kluger &amp; DeNisi: <ul><li>Feedback helps when it provides <strong>useful information</strong> about how to improve.</li><li>Feedback aimed at ego or identity often backfires.</li></ul></li><li>Praise such as “You’re so smart” can be harmful; negative labels can also damage learning.</li><li>Even informative feedback can be misused: people may reject it, lower standards, or give up.</li></ul><h3>Two Concerns for Ultralearners</h3><ol><li><strong>Overreacting to non-informative feedback</strong> (positive or negative).</li><li><strong>Motivational impact</strong>: overly negative or overly positive feedback can both lower motivation.</li></ol><ul><li>Fear of feedback is often worse than the feedback itself.</li><li>Sometimes the best move is to jump into a hard environment and adjust later if it’s too harsh.</li></ul><h3>Types of Feedback</h3><ol><li><strong>Outcome Feedback</strong> – Are you doing it wrong overall?<ul><li>Score, grade, stock price, etc.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Informational Feedback</strong> – What are you doing wrong? <ul><li>Signals something is off but doesn’t say how to fix it.</li><li>Example: confused face from a language partner; compiler error messages.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Corrective Feedback</strong> – How can you fix it? <ul><li>Tells you what’s wrong and how to improve.</li><li>Often requires a teacher, coach, or expert (or very good materials).</li><li>Can be unreliable if the “expert” is wrong.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>Be careful “upgrading” feedback types when it’s not possible—forcing granular or corrective feedback can backfire.</li></ul><h3>Feedback Tactics</h3><ol><li><strong>Noise Cancellation</strong> <ul><li>Separate signal from noise (random variation).</li><li>Example: for blog writing, track percentage of readers who reach the end, not just raw traffic.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Difficulty Sweet Spot</strong> <ul><li>Avoid environments that always make you feel great or terrible.</li><li>Use feedback that gives a realistic sense of progress.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Metafeedback</strong> <ul><li>Feedback about your <strong>learning strategy</strong>, not performance.</li><li>Track learning rate: Elo rating in chess, mock test scores, vocabulary learned, error counts.</li><li>If learning stalls, experiment with new methods.</li></ul></li><li><strong>High-Intensity, Rapid Feedback</strong> <ul><li>Increase frequency and volume of feedback cycles.</li><li>Particularly useful when default learning has very little feedback.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>Over time, regular feedback becomes less emotionally threatening and more like a tool.</li></ul><h2>Chapter X – Principle 7: Retention – Don’t Fill a Leaky Bucket</h2><ul><li>Memory quote: “Memory is the residue of thought.” – Daniel Willingham.</li><li>Scrabble example: high-level players memorize huge lists of words, showing an intense commitment to practice.</li></ul><h3>Why We Forget</h3><ol><li><strong>Decay</strong> – memories fade over time.</li><li><strong>Interference</strong> – overlapping memories interfere: <ul><li>Proactive: old information makes new learning harder.</li><li>Retroactive: new learning suppresses old memories.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Forgotten Cues</strong> – memory is there but inaccessible because the right cue is missing.</li></ol><h3>Two Retention Problems</h3><ol><li>During a project: how to keep early-learned material from being lost by the end.</li><li>After a project: how to avoid losing the skill years later.</li></ol><h3>Memory Mechanisms</h3><ol><li><strong>Spacing</strong> <ul><li>Don’t cram if you care about long-term retention.</li><li>Spaced practice lowers short-term performance but boosts long-term retention.</li><li>Can be done via: <ul><li>Printed lists + mental rehearsal (as in Richards’s word memorization).</li><li>Semiregular practice sessions (e.g., weekly then monthly language conversations).</li><li>Refresher projects for complex skills.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>Proceduralization</strong> <ul><li>Procedural skills (e.g., biking) are stored differently and are more robust than declarative facts.</li><li>Many skills move from declarative → procedural with practice (e.g., typewriting).</li><li>Aim to push important skills into automaticity.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Overlearning</strong> <ul><li>Practicing beyond the point of adequate performance extends retention.</li><li>Overlearning effects may be short-term alone, but combined with spacing and proceduralization they can have longer impact.</li><li>Two approaches: <ul><li><strong>Core practice</strong>: keep refining core elements, often via extensive, immersive work.</li><li><strong>Advanced practice</strong>: work at a higher level so that lower-level skills are overlearned.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>Mnemonics</strong>  <ul><li>Hyperspecific systems that convert abstract info into vivid images or spatial maps.</li><li>Example: <strong>keyword method</strong> for foreign vocabulary.</li><li>Two downsides: <ul><li>Impressive systems require large upfront investment for sometimes limited real-world value.</li><li>Recall via mnemonics can be slower and less automatic, limiting fluency.</li></ul></li><li>Best used as a <strong>bridge</strong> for difficult info, not the final state of memory.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>Overall: active recall, spaced rehearsal, and intense practice are central to winning the war against forgetting.</li></ul><h2>Chapter XI – Principle 8: Intuition – Dig Deep Before Building Up</h2><h3>How to Build Intuition</h3><ul><li><strong>Rule 1: Don’t Give Up on Hard Problems Easily</strong><ul><li>Use a “struggle timer” (e.g., 10 extra minutes) before giving up or looking at the answer.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Rule 2: Prove Things to Understand Them</strong> <ul><li>Like Feynman: re-create results mentally instead of just following them.</li><li>Understanding comes from generating the argument or proof yourself.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Rule 3: Always Start with a Concrete Example</strong> <ul><li>Walk through abstract material with your own example.</li><li>Ties into levels-of-processing: how you think about information matters more than time spent.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Rule 4: Don’t Fool Yourself</strong> <ul><li>Feynman’s aphorism: you’re the easiest person to fool.</li><li>Ask lots of “dumb” questions to uncover gaps.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>The Feynman Technique</h3><ul><li>Steps:  <ol><li>Write the concept/problem at the top of a page.</li><li>Explain it as if teaching a beginner.</li><li>If it’s a problem, explain how to solve it and why the solution makes sense.</li><li>When you get stuck, return to references to fill gaps.</li></ol></li><li>Purpose: dispel the <strong>illusion of explanatory depth</strong>.</li></ul><h4>Applications</h4><ol><li>Things You Don’t Understand at All<ul><li>Use the book in hand; go back and forth to clarify.</li></ul></li><li>Problems You Can’t Solve<ul><li>Go step-by-step alongside your explanation, not just summarize.</li></ul></li><li>Expanding Intuition <ul><li>For crucial ideas, generate intuitive examples, analogies, and visualizations.</li><li>Imagine writing a magazine article that makes the idea obvious.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>Intuition isn’t magic: it’s the result of merging <strong>tenacious practice and play</strong>.</li></ul><h2>Chapter XII – Principle 9: Experimentation – Explore Outside Your Comfort Zone</h2><ul><li>Edison: “I know several thousand things that won’t work.”</li><li>Early in learning, following others’ examples is enough.</li><li>As skills develop: <ul><li>Fewer people can teach you.</li><li>Fewer peers at your level.</li><li>You diverge from others’ paths.</li></ul></li><li>Mastery often involves unlearning, choosing the <strong>best</strong> solutions (clean, efficient, low-headache), and originality.</li></ul><h3>Why Experimentation Matters</h3><ul><li>After basics, abilities tend to <strong>stagnate</strong> without experimentation.</li><li>Creativity and originality in many fields require experimenting with new approaches.</li></ul><h3>Three Types of Experimentation</h3><ol><li><strong>Experimenting with Learning Resources</strong> <ul><li>Try different books, classes, and methods.</li><li>But match experimentation with real work: pick a resource, apply it rigorously for a set period, then evaluate.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Experimenting with Technique</strong> <ul><li>As options expand, question “What should I learn next?”</li><li>Pick a subtopic, learn it aggressively, then decide whether to continue or pivot.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Experimenting with Style</strong> <ul><li>Later, the question becomes, “How do I want to do this?”</li><li>Many skills allow multiple styles; explore them to find your own.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>There’s a tension between exploring options and concentrating effort.</li><li>Resolve it by <strong>cycling</strong>: explore a new avenue → then buckle down and learn it deeply → repeat.</li></ul><h3>Mindset of Experimentation</h3><ul><li>Similar to <strong>growth mindset</strong> (Dweck): <ul><li>Fixed mindset: traits are innate; no point trying.</li><li>Growth mindset: abilities can improve; effort matters.</li></ul></li><li>These mindsets become self-fulfilling.</li><li>Experimentation requires believing you can improve.</li></ul><h3>Experimentation Tactics</h3><ol><li><strong>Copy, Then Create</strong> <ul><li>Start by copying an example you admire.</li><li>This forces you to deconstruct it and understand why it works, then you deviate.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Compare Methods Side-by-Side</strong><ul><li>Apply a quasi-scientific method: change one variable at a time to see what works better.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Introduce New Constraints</strong> <ul><li>Constraints force new solutions and disrupt old routines.</li><li>In design, constraints often lead to the best innovations.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Hybrid Superpower</strong><ul><li>Combine two unrelated skills to create a unique strength.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Explore the Extremes</strong> <ul><li>Complex domains have many dimensions; extremes often reveal interesting applications.</li><li>Pushing to an extreme in one dimension can help you discover new possibilities, even if you later return to moderation.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>Overall: learning itself is experimentation—both in how you practice and how you design your learning process.</li></ul><h2>Chapter XIII – Your First Ultralearning Project</h2><blockquote>“The beginning is always today.” – Mary Shelley</blockquote><h3>Step 1: Do Your Research</h3><ul><li>Metalearning research is the first step.</li><li>Ultralearning “packing checklist”:  <ul><li>Topic and approximate scope.</li><li>Direct practice activities.</li><li>Primary resources.</li><li>Benchmarks (how others learned successfully).</li><li>Backup materials and drills.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Step 2: Schedule Your Time</h3><ul><li>Reasons to plan schedule ahead: <ul><li>Prioritizes learning in your calendar.</li><li>Protects against moment-to-moment temptation to switch to easier activities.</li></ul></li><li>Decisions: <ol><li>How much time you’ll commit (e.g., full-time vs a few hours/week).</li><li>When you’ll learn (times of day that fit your schedule).</li><li>Project length (shorter commitments are easier to stick with).</li></ol></li><li>Scheduling all hours in advance has logistical and psychological benefits.</li><li>Optimization: <ul><li>Short, spaced chunks better for memory.</li><li>Longer blocks better for tasks with long ramp-up (writing, coding).</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Step 3: Execute Your Plan</h3><ul><li>Execute while monitoring alignment with the principles:  <ul><li>METALEARNING: Have you done sufficient research? Talked to successful learners? Used ~10% of time for prep?</li><li>FOCUS: Are you actually focused or multitasking? How long till you get into good flow? How long can you sustain it?</li><li>DIRECTNESS: Are you practicing in the way you’ll use the skill? What mental processes are missing?</li><li>DRILL: Are you targeting your weakest points? What’s the rate-limiting step?</li><li>(Similar reflective questions apply for Retrieval, Feedback, Retention, Intuition, Experimentation.)</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Step 4: Review Your Results</h3><ul><li>After finishing or pausing: <ul><li>What went right?</li><li>What went wrong?</li><li>What should you do differently next time?</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Step 5: Maintain, Relearn, or Master</h3><ul><li>Without a plan, most knowledge <strong>decays</strong>. Options:</li></ul><ol><li><strong>Maintenance</strong> <ul><li>Enough practice to sustain skill without aiming for new levels.</li><li>Habitual, possibly minimal practice.</li><li>Forgetting follows an exponential decay curve (Ebbinghaus); later refreshers can be less frequent.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Relearning</strong> <ul><li>Let skills fade and relearn later if needed.</li><li>For many skills, relearning costs are smaller than constant maintenance.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Mastery</strong><ul><li>Dive deeper via continued practice or another ultralearning project.</li></ul></li></ol><h3>Alternatives to Ultralearning</h3><ol><li><strong>Low-Intensity Habits</strong>  <ul><li>Good when learning is spontaneous, frustration is low, and the process is rewarding.</li><li>Examples: <ul><li>Conversational language level leading to travel and daily use.</li><li>Programming at work where the job drives ongoing learning.</li></ul></li><li>Habits work well when learning is mostly accumulation.</li><li>Ultralearning suits situations requiring <strong>unlearning</strong> and intense skill restructuring.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Formal, Structured Education</strong><ul><li>Some aspects are indirect and ineffective; others (design/art schools, team projects) can function like apprenticeships.</li></ul></li></ol><h2>Chapter XIV – An Unconventional Education</h2><h3>How to Raise an Ultralearner (Polgár Example)</h3><ol><li><strong>Start Early</strong> <ul><li>Education begins by age three; specialization by age six.</li><li>Children’s brains are more plastic, especially for music and languages.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Specialize</strong> <ul><li>The Polgár sisters learned many subjects but focused on chess.</li><li>From ages 4–5: chess 5–6 hours per day.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Make Practice into Play</strong> <ul><li>All subjects framed as play.</li><li>When distracted, the girls weren’t punished; they were allowed to wander mentally while seeking solutions.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Use Positive Reinforcement</strong>  <ul><li>Failure, suffering, and fear decrease achievement.</li><li>Positive experiences (wins) create desire to repeat behaviors.</li><li>Negative experiences (constant losses, confusion) sap enthusiasm.</li><li>László calibrated difficulty so they were challenged but could still win enough to enjoy it.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Avoid Coercion</strong><ul><li>Self-discipline, motivation, and commitment must come from within.</li></ul></li></ol><ul><li>Parents also built strong <strong>infrastructure</strong> (massive database of matches, textbooks, tutors).</li></ul><h3>Fostering Ultralearning in Home, School, Workplace</h3><ol><li><strong>Create an Inspiring Goal</strong> <ul><li>Let people design their own goals.</li><li>Look for natural interests and encourage those sparks.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Be Careful with Competition</strong>  <ul><li>Early self-confidence increases enthusiasm.</li><li>People need to feel they <strong>could</strong> be good at something.</li><li>Competition helps when you have natural aptitude; can hurt when you’re behind.</li><li>For those behind, make projects unique so comparisons are less direct.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Make Learning a Priority</strong>  <ul><li>Outside school, learning is often seen as an incidental by-product of work.</li><li>Organizations usually offer passive workshops rather than intense learning projects.</li><li>Ultralearning suggests <strong>fusion projects</strong>—do real work that is also designed to teach something new.</li><li>Instead of always assigning tasks to the best person, sometimes assign them to someone who will need to stretch.</li><li>A good environment has employees spending most time within competency and some portion on stretch projects.</li></ul></li></ol><h3>Curiosity and Conclusion</h3><ul><li>Curiosity behaves differently than hunger or loneliness: the more you satisfy it, the more it grows.</li><li>Immediate, accurate, intense feedback is often what separates ultralearning from conventional learning.</li><li>Ericsson’s research: immediate feedback is essential for reaching expert performance; without it, skills stagnate.</li><li>Even outcome feedback, without detailed information, can be helpful.</li><li>Outcome feedback helps by: <ul><li>Providing a motivational benchmark.</li><li>Showing relative merits of different methods.</li></ul></li><li>Being in demanding situations provokes more aggressive learning.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Sovereign Individual: Mastering the Transition to the Information Age]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[The Sovereign Individual argues that humanity is entering one of the largest transformations in history: a shift from the Industrial Age to the Information Age. Just as the Agricultural and Industrial revolutions rewired power structures, this new era will decentralize authority and empower individuals in unprecedented ways. The authors lay out how digital technology erodes the traditional nation-state’s ability to enforce laws, collect taxes, and control citizens.

A central theme is the weakening of government monopolies. In the past, states controlled people largely through violence and taxation, made possible because individuals were tied to physical locations. But as wealth becomes digitized and people become economically mobile, governments will lose their leverage. As their power erodes, they will attempt to compensate through surveillance, regulation, and moralistic rhetoric.

The authors describe the rise of a new elite: highly skilled, globally mobile individuals who use digital tools to earn income anywhere and store wealth in jurisdictions they choose strategically. They become “sovereign” not by overthrowing governments but by slipping beyond their reach. This is a world where competition among jurisdictions replaces centralized control, and people select the rules they want to live under—much like choosing a service provider.

The book acknowledges that these transitions are chaotic. Old institutions fail faster than new ones emerge. Moral norms lag behind technology; societies experience unrest, resentment, and political extremism. But for adaptable individuals, the shift opens up extraordinary opportunities to live more freely, keep more of what they earn, and shape their own destiny in ways unimaginable in the 20th century.

Ultimately, the book is a guide for navigating this transition: understand the forces reshaping the world, abandon outdated assumptions about government and citizenship, and position yourself to thrive as power fragments and individuals reclaim autonomy.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Core Concepts (Key Ideas of the Book)</strong></h3><ul><li><strong>The Transition to the Information Age</strong> – A global shift eroding government power and empowering individuals.</li><li><strong>The Decline of the Nation-State</strong> – Traditional states lose control as mobility, crypto-like assets, and digital labor expand.</li><li><strong>The Rise of the Sovereign Individual</strong> – Highly mobile, skilled individuals who opt out of high-tax, high-control jurisdictions.</li><li><strong>Geography Becomes Optional</strong> – Work, wealth, and identity detach from location; states must compete for citizens.</li><li><strong>Privatization of Violence &amp; Security</strong> – Digital infrastructure reduces the need for state-monopolized coercion.</li><li><strong>Moral &amp; Institutional Lag</strong> – Old norms clash with new incentives, creating instability and political shifts.</li><li><strong>Opportunity in Chaos</strong> – New fortunes emerge in niches others fear, misunderstand, or ignore.</li></ul><h2><strong>CHAPTER 1 — The Transition of the Year 2000</strong></h2><h3><strong>The Fourth Stage of Human Society</strong></h3><ul><li>Human history has moved through three economic stages:<br/><strong>(1) hunter-gatherer → (2) agricultural → (3) industrial → (4) information societies.</strong></li><li>Microprocessing will “subvert and destroy the nation-state” faster than most expect.</li><li>Returns to large-scale violence fall; returns to small-scale violence rise → more random crime, more organized crime.</li><li>Political authority erodes because the logic of violence changes; civic myths of the 20th-century state are collapsing.</li><li>Collapse of morality in Western governments is a symptom of an exhausted system.</li></ul><h3><strong>History Repeats Itself</strong></h3><ul><li>When technology separates old institutions from new economic forces, moral standards shift and elites lose legitimacy.</li><li>Parallels with late-medieval Church: a dominant institution grown senile and no longer believed.</li></ul><h3><strong>The Information Revolution</strong></h3><ul><li>Coercion becomes less relevant; efficiency becomes the main organizing force.</li><li>Provinces and cities that uphold property rights cheaply will become viable sovereignties.</li><li>A new realm arises: <strong>cyberspace</strong>, where economic activity is immune to physical violence.</li><li>The “cognitive elite” gain unprecedented global mobility.</li></ul><h3><strong>Prometheus Unbound — The Rise of the Sovereign Individual</strong></h3><ul><li>The Information Revolution liberates individuals to create their own work and capture the full benefits.</li><li>Ideas become the main source of wealth; merit is rewarded wherever it appears.</li><li>Financial success includes structuring your life for autonomy (“escape velocity”).</li><li>Governments will be forced to treat citizens like customers, not subjects.</li></ul><h3><strong>Beyond Politics — The End of Nations</strong></h3><ul><li>The nation-state will devolve like an unwieldy conglomerate.</li><li>Unable to fund commitments, states resort to debasing currency—but inflation becomes impossible once cybermoney emerges.</li><li>Local power centers reassert themselves; sovereignty fragments.</li><li>The middle-skilled classes in rich countries become the core of neo-Luddite backlash.</li><li>“Bandwidth trumps borders”: new jurisdictions form via affinity groups, not geography.</li></ul><h3><strong>Merchant Republics of Cyberspace</strong></h3><ul><li>Non-territorial, wealthy associations—similar to Knights Templar—gain sovereignty-like powers.</li><li>Merchant guilds and private communities re-emerge as semisovereign entities.</li></ul><h3><strong>Violence as the Master Variable</strong></h3><ul><li>Understanding society requires understanding how <strong>violence pays</strong>.</li><li>Predatory violence historically paid well; the Information Age reduces its payoff.</li><li>Key intellectual influences: William Playfair, Frederic Lane.</li></ul><h3><strong>Forecasting and the Hazards of Prediction</strong></h3><ul><li>Most future predictions fail due to lack of nerve or imagination.</li><li>Despite uncertainty, incentives allow reliable long-term forecasts about behavior.</li><li>Megapolitical transitions are rarely seen while happening.</li></ul><h2><strong>CHAPTER 2 — Megapolitical Transformations in Historic Perspective</strong></h2><h3><strong>Blind Spots and Taboos</strong></h3><ul><li>Societies forbid thinking about their own end; this ensures transitions are invisible in real time.</li><li>Conventional information sources will not warn you about structural change.</li></ul><h3><strong>Learning from Rome</strong></h3><ul><li>Major collapses often appear as minor surface changes during the transition.</li><li>People resist imagining that deep structures can dissolve.</li></ul><h3><strong>Incentives and Forecasting</strong></h3><ul><li>Forecasting succeeds when it identifies how costs and rewards shift.</li><li>Major transitions arise from changes in <em>megapolitical variables</em>, especially violence.</li></ul><h3><strong>Major &amp; Minor Megapolitical Transitions (Key Rules)</strong></h3><ul><li>Transitions unfold long before they’re recognized.</li><li>Beginnings often coincide with falling incomes.</li><li>Old values clash with new ones.</li><li>Transitions antiquate existing moral frameworks.</li><li>They are seldom popular and often chaotic.</li><li>Technology accelerates history → less adaptive time than ever.</li></ul><h3><strong>Four Variables That Shape Violence</strong></h3><ol><li><strong>Topography</strong> — seas resist monopoly; cyberspace mirrors this.</li><li><strong>Climate</strong> — catalyzed agriculture; climate shifts destabilize societies.</li><li><strong>Microbes</strong> — immunities determined conquests; demographics shaped tolerance for death in war.</li><li><strong>Technology</strong> — the largest force; shifts the offense-defense balance.</li></ol><h3><strong>Offense vs. Defense</strong></h3><ul><li>When offensive power rises: large governments dominate.</li><li>When defense rises: fragmentation increases.</li></ul><h3><strong>Equality and Weapons</strong></h3><ul><li>Cheap, usable weapons → equality (e.g., American farmer with rifle).</li><li>Medieval weapons → extreme inequality (knight vs. peasant).</li></ul><h3><strong>Economies of Scale in Violence</strong></h3><ul><li>Higher returns to large-scale violence → large states.</li><li>Lower returns → fragmentation, local authorities.</li></ul><h3><strong>Dispersal of Technology</strong></h3><ul><li>Hoarded tech → centralized power.</li><li>Widely dispersed tech → sovereign fragmentation.</li></ul><h2><strong>CHAPTER 3 — East of Eden (The Agricultural Revolution)</strong></h2><h3><strong>Agriculture: The First Great Revolution</strong></h3><ul><li>Farming took millennia to spread; society shifted slowly.</li><li>Agriculture produced stationary capital → targets for theft and coercion.</li></ul><h3><strong>Property and Violence</strong></h3><ul><li>Farming created private property but also created the conditions for organized theft.</li><li>Specialization in violence begins; disputes and crime proliferate.</li><li>Farming made both crime <em>and</em> government profitable.</li></ul><h2><strong>CHAPTER 4 — The Last Days of Politics</strong></h2><h3><strong>Moral Decay as a Leading Indicator</strong></h3><ul><li>Corruption precedes megashifts in power.</li><li>Disdain for political elites mirrors late-medieval disdain for church leaders.</li></ul><h3><strong>A Secular Reformation</strong></h3><ul><li>Widespread contempt for governments reflects deep structural failure.</li><li>Political systems are seen as incompetent and irrelevant.</li></ul><h3><strong>Nation-State as an Exhausted Institution</strong></h3><ul><li>Returns to violence have fallen; the nation-state is now anachronistic.</li><li>Gunpowder + printing ended the church’s monopoly.</li><li>Information technology ends the state’s monopoly.</li></ul><h3><strong>Downsizing the State (Like the Church Circa 1500)</strong></h3><ul><li>The nation-state is “impoverished, grasping, extravagant” and a drag on growth.</li></ul><h3><strong>Industrial Revolution Began Earlier Than Textbooks Claim</strong></h3><ul><li>Printing press was first mass-production machine.</li><li>Mass production and division of labor were well established by 1500.</li><li>The real Industrial Revolution was a <em>megapolitical transition</em>, not merely rising incomes.</li></ul><h3><strong>Parallel to Today</strong></h3><ul><li>Politics is now as saturated as religion was in the late Middle Ages.</li><li>The Information Revolution will break the state monopoly just as gunpowder broke the church.</li></ul><h2><strong>CHAPTER 5 — The Life and Death of the Nation-State</strong></h2><h3><strong>Democracy and Nationalism as Resource Strategies</strong></h3><ul><li>Berlin Wall (1989) marked the end of the Industrial Age and the decline of the nation-state.</li><li>The nation-state required <strong>supermonopoly taxation</strong> to survive.</li></ul><h3><strong>The Welfare State as Predatory</strong></h3><ul><li>Western welfare states rely on extracting global output from productive minorities.</li><li>High-skill individuals will want escape routes; states resist letting them go.</li></ul><h3><strong>States as Rare Historical Exceptions</strong></h3><ul><li>States require very specific megapolitical conditions (rising returns to violence) to survive.</li><li>Industrialism created those conditions; the Information Age destroys them.</li></ul><h3><strong>Magnitude &gt; Efficiency</strong></h3><ul><li>Large states won because they could mobilize sheer volume of resources.</li><li>Efficiency mattered less than brute scale.</li></ul><h3><strong>Democracy as Government Controlled by Employees</strong></h3><ul><li>Democratic governments behave like employee-run monopolies:  <ul><li>High costs</li><li>Resistance to downsizing</li><li>Chronic deficits</li><li>Services with no relation to customer preference</li></ul></li><li>Transfer payments created “pseudo employees” who reliably vote for continued extraction.</li></ul><h3><strong>Why Customers Could Not Control Government</strong></h3><ul><li>Dispersed taxpayers cannot coordinate to resist extraction.</li><li>Elites could resist, but democracy empowered the masses against them.</li><li>Democratic legitimacy enabled larger resource grabs.</li></ul><h3><strong>Nationalism as a Mobilization Tool</strong></h3><ul><li>Nationalism lowered the cost of mobilizing mass armies.</li><li>It was invented to solve bureaucratic and military problems.</li></ul><h3><strong>End of Mass Democracy</strong></h3><ul><li>As returns to violence fall, the foundations democracy rested on disappear.</li><li>Welfare states will face crises as promises deflate and credit runs out.</li></ul><h2><strong>CHAPTER 6 — The Megapolitics of the Information Age</strong></h2><h3><strong>Efficiency Over Power</strong></h3><ul><li>Information technology blunts the dagger of violence.</li><li>Assets can now be created outside the reach of coercion.</li></ul><h3><strong>Complexity and Distributed Systems</strong></h3><ul><li>Complex systems evolve without central authority.</li><li>Markets and digital networks depend on dispersed capabilities.</li></ul><h3><strong>Why Unions Rose — and Why They Will Die</strong></h3><p><strong>Industrial Age conditions that empowered unions:</strong></p><ol><li>High natural-resource dependence</li><li>Large-scale factories</li><li>Few competitors</li><li>Massive capital requirements</li><li>Huge workforces in a few firms</li><li>Blue-collar dominance</li><li>Sequential assembly lines</li><li>Standardized, non-variable work</li></ol><p><strong>Information Age reverses every one of these:</strong></p><ul><li>Mobility of people/capital</li><li>Small firm size</li><li>Many competitors</li><li>Low startup capital</li><li>Dispersed employment</li><li>Short product cycles</li><li>Non-sequential, networked work</li><li>Variable output → variable income</li></ul><h3><strong>Hyper-Individualized Work</strong></h3><ul><li>Microprocessing creates “intelligent tools” → automation replaces unskilled labor.</li><li>One individual can act through dozens or thousands of digital agents.</li><li>Individuals can retaliate digitally even after death → reshapes logic of violence.</li></ul><h3><strong>Government as Protection Racket</strong></h3><ul><li>Government mixes protection and extortion.</li><li>Historically, a local monopoly minimized violence costs.</li><li>In cyberspace, monopoly becomes impossible → sovereignty unbundles.</li></ul><h3><strong>Non-territorial Governance</strong></h3><ul><li>Political theorists foresee “government à la carte.”</li><li>Bandwidth undermines territorial boundaries.</li></ul><h3><strong>The Law of the Telecosm</strong></h3><ul><li>As bandwidth grows exponentially, borders lose meaning.</li><li>Patriotism becomes less useful; global affinity replaces national identity.</li></ul><h3><strong>The Fifth Stage of Violence Organization</strong></h3><ul><li>Lane’s four historical stages → we now enter a fifth:<br/><strong>cyberspace competition with no territorial monopoly.</strong></li></ul><h3><strong>Competition Without Anarchy</strong></h3><ul><li>Cyberspace creates protection without territorial violence.</li><li>Transactions will migrate to jurisdictions offering best protection at lowest cost.</li><li>Sovereignty becomes a commercial service.</li></ul><h3><strong>Virtual War</strong></h3><ul><li>Cyberspace allows individuals or small firms to rival nation-states in cyberwar capability.</li><li>Large-scale systems are vulnerable; cyberspace is resilient.</li></ul><h2><strong>Chapter 7 – Cybercommerce, Cybercash &amp; the Death of Seigniorage</strong></h2><p><strong>Core idea:</strong><br/>The Information Age creates a new, mostly untaxable digital economic zone—cybercommerce—where encrypted money (“cybercash”) and mobile capital undermine nation-states’ power to tax, inflate, and control.</p><p><strong>Key concepts:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>True cybercommerce stage</strong> <ul><li>Transactions move fully onto the Net, outside traditional jurisdiction.</li><li>Payments are made in <strong>cybercurrency</strong>, stored in <strong>cyberbanks</strong>, invested via <strong>cyberbrokerages</strong>.</li><li>Many transactions slip outside normal taxation; extraterritorial regulatory power collapses.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Microsurgery &amp; global markets for skill</strong>  <ul><li>Skills (like top-level microsurgery) are unevenly distributed: 1/3 fail, 1/3 adequate, 1/3 excellent.</li><li>In an information-rich world, patients (or their digital agents) can quickly compare outcome stats globally.</li><li>The best surgeons get a much larger share of the global market, doing more operations remotely.</li><li>This is a template for many fields: <strong>elite talent goes global</strong>, mid-tier talent is squeezed into residual local markets.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Black magic of compound interest &amp; tax drag</strong> <ul><li>Paying <strong>$5,000/year in tax for 40 years</strong> at a 10% return costs you around <strong>$2.2M</strong> of lost wealth.</li><li>At 20% returns, that’s <strong>~$44M</strong> in lost wealth—taxes function as a huge negative compounding force.</li><li>For high earners in high-tax countries, lifetime tax losses often exceed everything they’ve accumulated.</li></ul></li><li><strong>From monopoly to competition in “protection”</strong> <ul><li>Historically, states had a monopoly on “protection services,” often low quality and overpriced.</li><li>With coercive power monopolized, governments could ruthlessly raise taxes on anyone able to pay.</li><li>Cybercommerce introduces competition: you can route activity through friendlier jurisdictions.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Encryption as the great enabler</strong> <ul><li>Strong encryption protects transactions and assets at virtually zero marginal cost.</li><li>For “$55 instead of $55 million,” you can get better protection of your assets than in any previous era.</li><li>This undermines the state’s ability to see, tax, or seize.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Death of seigniorage</strong> <ul><li>Historically, rulers profited by controlling money: coinage, then print money, then inflation.</li><li>The Information Age introduces <strong>cybermoney</strong>, which: <ul><li>Is likely <strong>denationalized</strong>, potentially gold-linked or tied to other hard assets.</li><li>Can be instantly shifted out of any depreciating national currency.</li></ul></li><li>This kills the state’s ability to silently expropriate via inflation (i.e., seigniorage).</li></ul></li><li><strong>Cybercash basics</strong> <ul><li>You pay for almost any online transaction <strong>at the moment of purchase</strong> with cybercash.</li><li>Money becomes fluid across borders, not tied to any state’s paper.</li><li>Governments that rely on inflating their currency lose their favorite stealth tax.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Barter becomes more practical</strong> <ul><li>Digital money reduces frictions across Hayek’s “continuum of liquidity.”</li><li>You can denominate value in whatever you want—gold, services, non-national units.</li><li>Barter-like exchanges become smoother because the system can match and price them digitally.</li></ul></li><li><strong>No counterfeiting, better stores of value</strong> <ul><li>High-value transactions migrate to <strong>private, digital, and possibly gold-linked money</strong>, not government paper.</li><li>Gold’s long-term constancy vs. fiat currencies is used as proof that depreciation is not “inevitable.”</li></ul></li><li><strong>End of inflation as we know it</strong> <ul><li>Digital, hard money removes inflation as a hidden tax.</li><li>Issuers of new private money will charge an explicit fee (e.g., ~1%/year) instead of stealing via inflation.</li><li>Compared to 2.7–99% inflation, this fee is a massive improvement for savers.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Transition crisis &amp; higher interest rates</strong> <ul><li>Governments lose tax/inflation revenue but keep giant welfare and pension promises.</li><li>This leads to a <strong>fiscal crisis</strong>, a <strong>one-time spike in real interest rates</strong>, and deleveraging.</li><li>To compete with cybercurrencies, some states may: <ul><li>Offer higher real yields.</li><li>Tighten credit.</li><li>Even remonetize gold to keep their currencies attractive.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>Yield gap in early stages</strong> <ul><li>Cybermoney may pay lower interest and charge explicit fees.</li><li>National currencies might initially yield more—but at the cost of inflation and political risk.</li><li>Gold likely appreciates in deflationary adjustments as liquidity tightens.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Investor control over capital</strong> <ul><li>As government redistribution collapses, capital shifts to <strong>able investors and entrepreneurs</strong>, not politicians.</li><li>Hundreds of billions move into the hands of Sovereign Individuals who deploy resources more productively.</li></ul></li></ul><h2><strong>Chapter 8 – The End of Egalitarian Economics</strong></h2><p><strong>Core idea:</strong><br/>The Information Age destroys the economic basis for egalitarian, nation-state-driven redistribution and massively increases earning disparities based on talent and mobility.</p><p><strong>Key concepts:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>World without jobs (as we know them)</strong> <ul><li>Location matters less; digital markets matter more.</li><li>Organizations tied to geography—governments, unions, localized professions—lose importance.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Superstar effects across fields</strong><ul><li>Earnings distributions increasingly resemble sports and opera: <ul><li>A few at the top earn outsized returns.</li><li>Middle talent earns much less as they compete globally.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>Shifting locational advantages</strong> <ul><li>No more “rising returns to violence” → no big advantage in living under highly militarized states.</li><li>High taxes and heavy regulation in advanced welfare states make them unattractive to global talent.</li><li>Poorer or previously underdeveloped jurisdictions gain relatively more by opening up and competing.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Government as the key non-exportable factor</strong> <ul><li>Olson’s point: poor countries couldn’t import competent government.</li><li>Colonial empires once exported governance, but technology made empire too costly and resistance cheaper.</li><li>Now, instead of importing good government, jurisdictions compete to <strong>attract mobile capital and talent</strong>.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Commercialized sovereignty</strong> <ul><li>Sovereignties become more like competitive <strong>service providers</strong> than monopolistic rulers.</li><li>Policies must please high-value residents/customers, not just voting blocs or transfer recipients.</li><li>The old logic—subsidize undesirable outcomes, punish success—is unsustainable under jurisdictional competition.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Death watch for nation-states</strong> <ul><li>Large, indebted welfare states are especially fragile.</li><li>Countries like <strong>Canada, Belgium, Italy</strong>, with high debts and separatist movements, are early candidates for fragmentation.</li><li>Regions with rising incomes and lower debt may stay coherent longer.</li></ul></li><li><strong>No customs house in cyberspace</strong> <ul><li>Information cannot be blocked like physical goods; protectionism becomes less effective.</li><li>Small regions no longer need big political unions to access markets.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Price anomalies disappear</strong> <ul><li>Information flow kills local price bubbles; people shop and compare across borders.</li><li>Remote services help arbitrage insurance, financial products, and complex offerings.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Cities and viability</strong> <ul><li>Cities matter if their <strong>core residents are richer than their periphery</strong>.</li><li>Global hubs like London, Paris, Buenos Aires may endure; weaker second-tier cities hollow out.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Hollywood &amp; synthesis over memorization</strong> <ul><li>Memorization becomes a low-value skill; synthesis and creative application matter more.</li><li>Culture and soft power (“Hollywood,” English, global media) drive alignments beyond borders.</li></ul></li></ul><h2><strong>Chapter 9 – Nationalism, Reaction, and the New Luddites</strong></h2><p><strong>Core idea:</strong><br/>As nation-states weaken, there will be a fierce, often reactionary backlash from those who lose out—fueling nationalism, hostility to globalization, and neo-Luddite attacks on technology.</p><p><strong>Key concepts:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Nationalism as a modern construct</strong> <ul><li>Loyalty to “nation” is historically recent; older loyalties were to tribe, religion, empire, or local rulers.</li><li>Nationalism is an “imagined community” whose foundations are eroding with the Information Age.</li></ul></li><li><strong>The Great Transformation</strong> <ul><li>The shift away from the nation-state paradigm will trigger crisis, not smooth reform.</li><li>Old beliefs about “nation” and political entitlement clash with new economic realities.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Expected nationalist reaction</strong> <ul><li>Losers of the transition: those with middling skills, declining incomes, and high expectations of state support.</li><li>Their reaction includes:  <ul><li>Opposition to globalization, free trade, foreign ownership.</li><li>Hostility to immigration.</li><li>Resentment of information elites and capital flight.</li><li>Attempts to halt regional and individual secession.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>Neo-Luddites</strong> <ul><li>Technology becomes the villain: blamed for job loss, inequality, and cultural disruption.</li><li>Attacks on information tech mirror historical Luddite attacks on machinery.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Where reaction is strongest</strong> <ul><li>Rich countries with strong welfare states and large “left-behind” populations.</li><li>Especially middle-class groups with credentials but declining market value—not the very poor, not the true elite.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Collapse of the welfare-state bargain</strong> <ul><li>People who grew up expecting government redistribution continue demanding it even when it’s no longer viable.</li><li>Long, painful learning curve as populations realize they can’t force high earners to stay and pay.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Nationalism vs. genetic/kinship logic</strong> <ul><li>Nationalism hijacks kinship instincts (family, tribe) but applies them to groups so large that actual genetic relatedness is negligible.</li><li>Sacrifice for such huge “in-groups” has almost no effect on your real kin’s survival—it&#x27;s a misfiring of ancient instincts.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Language and fragmentation</strong> <ul><li>Language both builds and fractures states (e.g., Czech vs. German in Prague).</li><li>Multilingual states like Belgium and Canada are especially prone to separatism.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Internet and rock &amp; roll English</strong> <ul><li>The Net and global media weaken localized national identities, shifting commerce and culture into English.</li><li>New affinities: online communities and interest groups instead of national tribes.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Bogus kinship and nationalism’s tricks</strong> <ul><li>States use family language: “motherland,” “our people,” “brothers and sisters.”</li><li>This taps deep psychological drives but is often used to justify sacrifice and obedience.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Exiting the nation-state</strong> <ul><li>Information elites will <strong>domicile income, assets, and residence</strong> in different jurisdictions.</li><li>Citizenship becomes an increasingly bad deal compared to being a mobile, negotiating “customer.”</li></ul></li><li><strong>Most political agendas become reactionary</strong> <ul><li>Right, left, environmental, socialist—many will defend the nation-state because it’s the platform for political power.</li><li>Nationalist content swells inside almost all political programs.</li></ul></li></ul><h2><strong>Chapter 10 – The Twilight of Democracy</strong></h2><p><strong>Core idea:</strong><br/>Democracy thrived under Industrial Age conditions because it maximized the state’s ability to mobilize resources. As that logic fades, democracy becomes less viable and more extractive, and governance shifts toward competitive, contractual, non-democratic forms.</p><p><strong>Key concepts:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Democracy as the “fraternal twin of Communism”</strong> <ul><li>Both are mechanisms to aggregate resources for large-scale state projects (especially military).</li><li>Democracy was <strong>more effective</strong> than Communism at enriching the state, because it tolerated private ownership and capitalist productivity.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Efficiency where it counted—for the state</strong> <ul><li>Welfare democracies can be more efficient than state socialism at generating taxable surpluses.</li><li>But compared to laissez-faire enclaves like colonial Hong Kong, they’re still highly inefficient for individuals.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Hong Kong as a model</strong> <ul><li>No democracy, but: <ul><li>Very low taxes.</li><li>High growth.</li><li>Residents keep ~85% of the gains from growth.</li></ul></li><li>Defended externally, so no need for large military or heavy taxation.</li></ul></li><li><strong>End of mass democracy</strong> <ul><li>Democracy is the political expression of mass production and mass society.</li><li>As mass production gives way to information industries and niche markets, mass democracy loses its megapolitical rationale.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Fragmented, privatized jurisdictions</strong> <ul><li>Examples like <strong>Agulhas Bay Free Zone</strong> and <strong>Central Aguirre Zona Franca</strong>: <ul><li>Private companies administer law, security, and commercial rules.</li><li>Local taxes and regulations are largely suspended.</li><li>Disputes go to international arbitration, not national courts.</li></ul></li><li>These are prototypes for future <strong>private city-states</strong> and free zones.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Performance-based politics (thought experiment)</strong> <ul><li>Paying legislators on commission (e.g., tied to growth of after-tax per capita income) would radically change incentives.</li><li>This idea hints at governance as a <strong>service</strong> rather than a political career.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Megapolitics over opinion</strong> <ul><li>Institutional change is driven more by technology and cost/benefit shifts than by voters’ preferences.</li><li>Feudalism gave way to the nation-state not because of ideas alone, but because of changes in the tools of violence, communication, and production.</li><li>Similarly, the Information Age will obsolete The Prince–style statecraft.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Firms under pressure</strong> <ul><li>Coase’s question—“Why are there firms?”—is answered by transaction and information costs.</li><li>As those drop, firms lose their reason to exist; markets handle more coordination.</li><li>Expect: <ul><li>More independent contractors.</li><li>Short-lived or virtual firms.</li><li>Less lifetime “employment,” more project- and contract-based work.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>No “rule by corporations”</strong> <ul><li>As information tech enables global price discovery and competition, corporations themselves are under assault.</li><li>Most large firms struggle to survive in a world of global, low-friction markets.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Infrastructure privatization</strong> <ul><li>With digital tolling and congestion pricing, roads, airports, etc., can be privatized and efficiently priced.</li><li>This adds real GDP and reduces waste from mispriced “public goods.”</li></ul></li></ul><h2><strong>Chapter 11 – Morality and Crime in the “Natural Economy” of the Information Age</strong></h2><p><strong>Core idea:</strong><br/>As nation-states weaken and their monopolies break down, we’ll see both rising organized crime and a renewed premium on personal morality, reputation, and trustworthiness—especially in anonymous digital environments.</p><p><strong>Key concepts:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>End of era = peak corruption</strong> <ul><li>As old systems decay, elites mix public office with private criminality.</li><li>Social ethos disintegrates; rules are honored in the breach.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Breakdown of monopolies → rise of competitors</strong> <ul><li>Governments are “protection rackets with legitimacy.”</li><li>When their monopoly weakens, <strong>organized crime</strong>, gangs, and cartels fill vacuum areas.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Information glut → higher value of judgment</strong><ul><li>Three main reasons: <ol><li>Too much information → demand for brevity → oversimplification and misunderstanding.</li><li>Paradigms change faster → old mental models break quicker.</li><li>Tribalization and fragmentation stunt discourse and thinking.</li></ol></li></ul></li><li><strong>Moral ecology and economic success</strong> <ul><li>Strong, shared morality (self-reliance, honesty, responsibility, high savings) correlates with development.</li><li>Examples: Jews, Quakers, Puritans, Mormons.</li><li>Quaker business ethics (trustworthiness, fair value, modest living) were both <strong>moral</strong> and <strong>highly profitable</strong>.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Cycle: poverty → wealth → luxury → decadence</strong> <ul><li>Adam Ferguson’s sociological cycle: success erodes the very virtues that created it.</li><li>Prosperity tends to undermine discipline and shared morality.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Requirements for a “good” social morality</strong>  <ul><li>Strong but not rigid; dynamic but not relativist.</li><li>Encourages survival and cooperation, not murderous competition.</li><li>Tolerant, adaptable, economically efficient.</li><li>Widely shared and deeply held, often anchored in religion.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Lockean core</strong> <ul><li>Universal moral minimalism: <ul><li>Don’t kill.</li><li>Don’t steal.</li><li>Protect life, liberty, and estate.</li></ul></li><li>Strong states often become the main violators of life and property (wars, expropriation).</li></ul></li><li><strong>Distorted moralities</strong> <ul><li>Both rigid fundamentalism and shallow political correctness damage social cohesion.</li><li>Overconfident, self-righteous moralism can be as destabilizing as pure relativism.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Moral regression</strong> <ul><li>Despite scientific progress, we may have regressed morally compared to older traditions.</li><li>Modern elites often lack deep moral and religious formation.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Family &amp; moral formation</strong><ul><li>Stable families transmit moral codes; fractured families plus weak religion → confused moral baseline.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Reputation in the cybereconomy</strong> <ul><li>Honesty becomes a critical economic asset.</li><li>Digital anonymity means identity and reputation are carried via <strong>cryptographic keys</strong> and verified histories.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Redistribution and global aid as moral mistake</strong><ul><li>Foreign aid and interventions often: <ul><li>Distort local incentives.</li><li>Encourage overpopulation beyond local carrying capacity.</li><li>Foster cultural relativism and undermine necessary adaptation.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>Needed morality for the Information Age</strong> <ul><li>Must support:  <ul><li>Individual responsibility.</li><li>Respect for property and contracts.</li><li>Tolerance.</li><li>Adaptation and long-term thinking.</li></ul></li><li>It becomes a crucial foundation for digital, decentralized prosperity.</li></ul></li></ul><h2><strong>Afterword – Devolution &amp; the Law of Diminishing Returns</strong></h2><p><strong>Core idea:</strong><br/>Human history has tended toward complexity and centralization, but the Information Age reverses this; bloated systems (like large nation-states) will collapse, and smaller, coherent, historically grounded structures will thrive.</p><p><strong>Key concepts:</strong></p><ul><li>Complexity has historically increased, but now: <ul><li>Centralization shows <strong>diminishing returns</strong>.</li><li>Overgrown systems “bloat and rot,” then collapse.</li></ul></li><li>Information technology enables: <ul><li>Smaller, more coherent units.</li><li>Fragmented sovereignty.</li><li>Exit as a primary strategy (“Of all 36 ways to get out of trouble, the best is—leave”).</li></ul></li><li>Practical implication: <ul><li>Redeploy capital and self toward jurisdictions where you’re a <strong>customer</strong>, not a subject.</li><li>Negotiate tax and legal relationships where the price of governance matches its value to you.</li></ul></li></ul><h2><strong>Appendix – Resources for Achieving Independence</strong></h2><p><strong>Core idea:</strong><br/>The book ends not just with theory but with concrete pointers to offshore finance, trusts, and structures enabling sovereignty in practice.</p><p><strong>Key concepts:</strong></p><ul><li>Offshore financial infrastructure <ul><li>Brokerage and investment banking through offshore firms (e.g., Lines Overseas Management).</li><li>Offshore trusts and corporate services (e.g., St. George’s Trust):  <ul><li>Asset protection.</li><li>Estate planning.</li><li>Overcoming political risk, exchange controls, forced heirship.</li><li>Maintaining control while shielding assets.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li>Emphasis on: <ul><li>Multi-jurisdictional setups (residence, banking, entity incorporation all separated).</li><li>Long-term, conservative asset protection over speculative risk.</li><li>The need for both <strong>boldness</strong> and <strong>caution</strong> in building and preserving wealth.</li></ul></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[This biography follows Elon Musk from his bookish childhood in Pretoria through his defining ventures: Zip2, X.com/PayPal, SpaceX, Tesla, SolarCity, Neuralink, Starlink, and the chaotic Twitter takeover. It shows how an introverted kid who hid in sci-fi novels and libraries grew into a founder obsessed with bending physics, manufacturing, and capital to his will. His life is structured around a simple mission: the internet to empower people, sustainable energy to avoid climate and resource collapse, and space travel to make humanity multi-planetary.

A major throughline is Musk’s engineering mindset. He doesn’t just want to design products—he wants to redesign the factories, contracts, and incentive structures that produce them. From early days tinkering with BMW transmissions to questioning $250,000 valves and $3 million rocket subsystems, he repeatedly attacks costs and complexity using first principles. He builds companies where design, engineering, and manufacturing sit side by side, and where managers are expected to be hands-on, not PowerPoint generals.

The book also shows Musk as a relentlessly risk-seeking operator. He regularly amplifies risk rather than mitigating it: plowing almost all his Zip2 proceeds into X.com, betting his PayPal money on both Tesla and SpaceX at once, and pushing rockets to launch and factories to ramp with timelines everyone else calls impossible. His philosophy: burn the boats so retreat isn’t an option, then pull rabbits out of hats until it works—or you die.

Alongside the engineering heroics is a pattern of chaos. Musk sets unrealistic deadlines, gives cutting feedback, triggers “production hell,” and pushes teams to burnout. He’s ousted from PayPal, nearly bankrupt in 2008, and later throws Twitter into a brutal three-round layoff and culture overhaul. Friends and family talk about him going “open-loop,” losing feedback and fixating on fights, especially online. His personal life is turbulent, from accumulating and then divesting his mansions to juggling relationships, children, and public controversies.

In later years, the book zooms into Musk’s newest frontiers: autonomous driving, humanoid robots, brain-computer interfaces, global satellite internet, and AGI via X.AI. He applies the same playbook: define a clear metric (cost per ton to orbit, miles per intervention, photons used vs. collected), then grind teams toward it with urgency. By the end, the biography leaves you with an unresolved question: can you separate Musk’s achievements from his flaws—or are the rockets, EVs, and AI breakthroughs inseparable from the damage he causes?]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Big Ideas &amp; Operating Principles</strong></h3><h3>Mission &amp; Life Vision</h3><ul><li><strong>Three levers that “truly affect humanity”:</strong> internet, sustainable energy, space travel.</li><li><strong>Mission-first, business-later:</strong> start from a mission (e.g., Mars colonization, sustainable energy) and backfill the financial model.</li><li><strong>Maximum impact lens:</strong> ask, “What moves the needle for civilization?” then commit fully.</li></ul><h3>First-Principles Thinking &amp; Cost</h3><ul><li><strong>Idiot Index:</strong> ratio of finished-product cost to raw materials; a high ratio means design/manufacturing inefficiency and an opportunity to radically cut cost.</li><li><strong>Question every requirement:</strong> know who wrote each spec, question it, and assume “all requirements are somewhat wrong and dumb.”</li><li><strong>In-source wherever possible:</strong> build valves, actuators, and other components in-house if external quotes are insane.</li><li><strong>Use non-aerospace, non-automotive parts:</strong> adapt cheap, proven components (e.g., car-wash valves, bathroom latches, commercial AC units).</li></ul><h3>The Algorithm (Product &amp; Manufacturing)</h3><ol><li><strong>Question every requirement.</strong> Attach each to a named person; question even those from very smart people (including Musk).</li><li><strong>Delete any part or process you can.</strong> If you don’t add back 10%, you didn’t delete enough.</li><li><strong>Simplify and optimize.</strong> Only after deletion—don’t streamline something that shouldn’t exist.</li><li><strong>Accelerate cycle time.</strong> Speed things up, but only once the design is simplified.</li><li><strong>Automate last.</strong> Avoid automating flawed processes; fix and simplify first.</li></ol><p>Corollaries:</p><ul><li>Technical managers must be hands-on (code, install, build).</li><li>Beware camaraderie that prevents candid criticism.</li><li>It’s okay to be wrong; it’s not okay to be confidently wrong.</li><li>Never ask people to do what you’re unwilling to do.</li><li>Do skip-levels; talk directly to front-line workers.</li><li>Hire for attitude; skills can be taught.</li><li>“A maniacal sense of urgency is our operating principle.”</li><li>Only the laws of physics are real rules; everything else is a recommendation.</li></ul><h3>Design, Engineering, &amp; Manufacturing Integration</h3><ul><li><strong>Design + engineering + manufacturing in one space:</strong> so builders can immediately confront designers with “Why did you make it this way?”</li><li><strong>Design is not veneer:</strong> aesthetics and engineering are one system, like Jobs and Ive at Apple.</li><li><strong>“The machine that builds the machine”:</strong> the factory is the real product; efficiency at scale is the ultimate advantage.</li><li><strong>Gigapress &amp; Lego mindset:</strong> giant castings + ultra-precise, interchangeable parts, inspired by toy manufacturing.</li></ul><h3>Risk, Urgency, and Failure</h3><ul><li><strong>Amplify risk:</strong> burn the boats, floor the McLaren, commit most of your net worth, then figure it out.</li><li><strong>Unrealistic deadlines:</strong> used as a forcing function—motivating but often demoralizing when physically impossible.</li><li><strong>Iterate by blowing things up:</strong> prototype fast, test, fail, and fix; success is how fast you find and fix problems, not how well you avoid them.</li><li><strong>Fixed-price, outcome-based contracts:</strong> get paid for milestones delivered, not hours billed; rewards results over waste.</li></ul><h3>People &amp; Culture</h3><ul><li><strong>Small, hardcore teams:</strong> a few exceptional, driven people beat large groups of “pretty good” people.</li><li><strong>In-person &gt; remote:</strong> he believes co-location intensifies idea flow, speed, and accountability.</li><li><strong>Excellence, trustworthiness, drive:</strong> the three filters for who stays; loyalty and “hardcore” work ethic are non-negotiable.</li><li><strong>Psychological safety vs. urgency:</strong> he sees “psychological safety” as an enemy of speed and progress.</li></ul><h3>Polytopia Life Lessons (How He Frames Life)</h3><ul><li>Empathy is not an asset in business (in his view).</li><li>Play life like a strategy game: optimize every turn, double down, don’t fear losing.</li><li>Be proactive and set the strategy; don’t only react.</li><li>Pick your battles; don’t swipe back at everyone.</li><li>Unplugging is important in theory—but he rarely does it.</li></ul><h3>Technology Bets &amp; Frontiers</h3><ul><li><strong>SpaceX:</strong> reusable rockets, Starlink, stainless-steel Starship; extreme cost-down via first principles.</li><li><strong>Tesla:</strong> integrated design + manufacturing, Autopilot/Full Self-Driving with neural networks trained on millions of human-driving clips, Robotaxi vision.</li><li><strong>Neuralink:</strong> high-bandwidth brain-computer interface inspired by science fiction, especially Iain Banks.</li><li><strong>Optimus (Tesla Bot):</strong> humanoid robot for physical labor, built on Tesla’s AI + manufacturing stack.</li><li><strong>X.AI:</strong> “maximum truth-seeking AI” aimed at reasoning about the universe and preserving human consciousness.</li></ul><h3>3: Life With Father — Pretoria, the 1980s</h3><ul><li>Reading was Musk’s psychological retreat.</li><li>He would immerse himself in books for entire afternoons and nights, sometimes nine hours straight.</li><li>At other people’s houses, he disappeared into their libraries.</li><li>On trips into town, he would wander off to bookstores and be found sitting on the floor, lost in a book.</li></ul><h3>4: The Seeker — Pretoria, the 1980s</h3><ul><li>The science fiction book that most influenced his early years was Douglas Adams’s <em>The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy.</em></li></ul><h3>7: Queen’s — Kingston, Ontario, 1990–1991</h3><ul><li>Musk later said the most important thing he learned at Queen’s was “how to work collaboratively with smart people and make use of the Socratic method to achieve commonality of purpose.”</li><li>This collaborative skill was only partly honed; future colleagues would notice its limits.</li></ul><p><strong>Latin American debt &amp; Scotiabank</strong></p><ul><li>Musk researched Latin American debt for Professor Nicholson.</li><li>In 1989, U.S. Treasury secretary Nicholas Brady packaged billions of bad loans into tradable securities called “Brady Bonds,” backed by the U.S. government.</li><li>Musk believed these bonds would always be worth 50 cents on the dollar, but some traded around 20 cents.</li><li>He figured Scotiabank could make billions buying them cheaply and called Goldman Sachs to confirm availability.</li><li>Nicholson says Scotiabank handled the situation using its own better methods, and Musk came away thinking the bank was dumber than it was.</li><li>Nicholson thinks this “healthy disrespect” for finance gave Musk the audacity to later start what became PayPal.</li></ul><p><strong>Lesson about working for others</strong></p><ul><li>Musk learned he did not like or excel at working for other people.</li><li>It wasn’t in his nature to be deferential or assume others knew more than he did.</li></ul><h3>8: Penn — Philadelphia, 1992–1994</h3><p><strong>Physics, rockets, and Mars</strong></p><ul><li>Musk and his friend Ren talked about applying physics to rockets and Mars.</li><li>Musk regularly discussed building a rocket that could go to Mars; Ren assumed it was fantasy.</li></ul><p><strong>Electric cars</strong></p><ul><li>Musk focused heavily on electric cars, reading battery papers during lunch on the campus lawn.</li><li>California’s mandate that 10% of vehicles be electric by 2003 inspired him: “I want to go make that happen.”</li></ul><p><strong>Solar power</strong></p><ul><li>Musk became convinced that solar was the best path to sustainable energy.</li><li>His senior paper, “The Importance of Being Solar,” argued society would be forced to focus on renewables as fossil fuels dwindled.</li><li>He proposed a “power station of the future” with a satellite concentrating sunlight onto solar panels and beaming power back via microwaves.</li><li>He got a 98, with the professor noting the final figure “comes out of the blue.”</li></ul><p><strong>Social side</strong></p><ul><li>At Penn, Musk developed a love of partying that pulled him out of his lonely shell.</li><li>Adeo Ressi, a fun-loving friend, started an environmental paper and attempted a “Revolution” major using it as his thesis.</li></ul><h3>9: Go West — Silicon Valley, 1994–1995</h3><p><strong>Wall Street vs. Silicon Valley</strong></p><ul><li>In the 1990s, ambitious students were pulled either to Wall Street or Silicon Valley.</li><li>Musk received lucrative Wall Street internship offers but wasn’t interested in finance.</li><li>He felt bankers and lawyers didn’t contribute much to society and disliked business-class peers.</li></ul><p><strong>King of the road (Cars &amp; hardware mindset)</strong></p><ul><li>1980s trend: cars and computers became sealed appliances; fewer people tinkered.</li><li>Musk was different: he liked hardware as well as software.</li><li>He had a feel for battery cells, capacitors, engines, fuel pumps, etc., along with coding.</li></ul><p><strong>BMW tinkering</strong></p><ul><li>Musk owned a twenty-year-old BMW 300i in Philadelphia.</li><li>He spent Saturdays scrounging junkyards for parts to soup it up.</li><li>He upgraded a four-speed transmission to a five-speed using a lift, shims, and some grinding.</li><li>The result: the car “was really able to haul ass.”</li></ul><p><strong>The internet wave &amp; Stanford decision</strong></p><ul><li>Musk planned to study materials science at Stanford, researching ultracapacitors for EVs.</li><li>He worried he’d spend years getting a PhD only to conclude capacitors weren’t feasible.</li><li>He felt most PhDs are irrelevant; very few move the needle.</li><li>He had already formulated his life vision: three things that would truly affect humanity— the internet, sustainable energy, and space travel.</li></ul><h3>10: Zip2 — Palo Alto, 1995–1999</h3><p><strong>CEO vs. product</strong></p><ul><li>Musk: “I never wanted to be a CEO,” but learned you can’t truly be chief product or tech officer unless you are the CEO.</li></ul><p><strong>Direct-to-consumer instinct</strong></p><ul><li>As a true product person, he wanted to sell directly to consumers without middlemen.</li></ul><p><strong>The millionaire moment</strong></p><ul><li>In January 1999, Compaq bought Zip2 for $307 million in cash.</li><li>Elon and Kimbal had split their 12% stake 60–40; Elon (age 27) got $22 million; Kimbal got $15 million.</li><li>Elon’s bank account jumped from ~$5,000 to ~$22,005,000.</li><li>They gave their father $300,000 and their mother $1 million.</li><li>Elon bought an 1,800-square-foot condo and a $1 million McLaren F1, the fastest production car.</li><li>He later worried the car made him look like an “imperialist brat,” but said he wasn’t consciously aware of his values changing.</li></ul><h3>12: X.com — Palo Alto, 1999–2000</h3><p><strong>All-in-one bank concept</strong></p><ul><li>After Zip2, Musk studied the banking system, convinced it was ripe for disruption.</li><li>He founded X.com in March 1999 with ex-Scotiabank colleague Harris Fricker.</li><li>He invested $12 million of his own money, leaving about $4 million for himself.</li><li>X.com aimed to be a one-stop financial platform: banking, digital purchases, checking, credit cards, investments, loans.</li><li>Key insight: money is just entries in a database; transactions should be secure and real-time.</li></ul><p><strong>Control, conflict, and investors</strong></p><ul><li>Musk’s controlling interest meant he prevailed in disputes, and Fricker (plus most employees) quit.</li><li>Michael Moritz at Sequoia invested and helped secure partnerships with Barclay’s and a Colorado community bank for mutual funds, a bank charter, and FDIC insurance.</li><li>At 28, Musk had become a startup celebrity.</li></ul><p><strong>Insane deadlines &amp; launch</strong></p><ul><li>Musk often set insane deadlines and prowled the office, sleeping under his desk.</li><li>For X.com’s public launch, he forced a Thanksgiving weekend deadline, causing resentment but eventual success.</li><li>When the product went live, the team marched to an ATM, pulled cash with an X.com debit card, and celebrated.</li></ul><p><strong>Max Levchin, Peter Thiel &amp; PayPal</strong></p><ul><li>Confinity (Thiel &amp; Levchin) built competing person-to-person payments (PayPal).</li><li>After negotiations, X.com and Confinity merged ~50–50 under X.com’s corporate entity.</li><li>Musk became chairman and soon CEO again after ousting Harris.</li><li>The combined service was branded PayPal and grew rapidly.</li></ul><p><strong>Org design</strong></p><ul><li>Musk removed the separate engineering department and paired engineers directly with product managers.</li><li>He believed separating design from engineering created dysfunction; designers had to feel the pain of hard-to-build ideas.</li><li>He preferred engineer-led teams, a philosophy he’d later push at Tesla, SpaceX, and Twitter.</li></ul><h3>13: The Coup — PayPal, September 2000</h3><p><strong>Risk seeker vs. risk mitigators</strong></p><ul><li>Musk was pushed out again—this time from PayPal.</li><li>Colleagues noted his relentless style and risk-seeking instinct.</li><li>Roelof Botha contrasted him with typical entrepreneurs: they mitigate risk; Musk amplifies it and “burns the boats.”</li><li>His McLaren crash became a metaphor: floor it and see how fast it goes.</li><li>Thiel, in contrast, focused on limiting risk.</li></ul><p><strong>PayPal sale</strong></p><ul><li>PayPal went public in early 2002 and was acquired by eBay for $1.5 billion.</li><li>Musk’s payout was around $250 million.</li></ul><h3>14: Mars — SpaceX, 2001</h3><p><strong>Flying &amp; intensity</strong></p><ul><li>Post-PayPal, Musk bought a single-engine turboprop and crammed 50 training hours into two weeks to get his pilot’s license.</li><li>He failed his first IFR test, then passed on the second try.</li><li>He then bought an Aero L-39 Albatros, a Soviet Bloc military jet.</li></ul><p><strong>Mission-first mindset</strong></p><ul><li>Reid Hoffman initially couldn’t see how sending rockets to Mars was a business.</li><li>He later realized Musk starts with a mission, then backfills finances, making him a “force of nature.”</li></ul><h3>15: Rocket Man — SpaceX, 2002</h3><p><strong>First principles &amp; idiot index</strong></p><ul><li>Musk used first principles on rocket costs, creating an “idiot index”: finished product cost vs. raw materials.</li><li>Rockets had a huge idiot index; finished rockets cost at least 50x raw materials.</li><li>He saw an opportunity in building cheaper rockets for smaller satellites.</li></ul><p><strong>Key metric</strong></p><ul><li>He focused on cost per pound of payload to orbit, optimizing thrust, reducing mass, and enabling reusability.</li></ul><p><strong>SpaceX founding &amp; timelines</strong></p><ul><li>Space Exploration Technologies (SpaceX) was incorporated in May 2002.</li><li>Initially called SET, later rebranded SpaceX.</li><li>Early goals: first rocket launch by September 2003; unmanned mission to Mars by 2010.</li><li>It continued his tradition of wildly unrealistic timelines that would end up merely very late.</li></ul><h3>17: Revving Up — SpaceX, 2002</h3><ul><li>Musk laid out the factory so design, engineering, and manufacturing sat together.</li><li>He wanted assembly-line workers to easily grab designers/engineers and ask, “Why the fuck did you make it this way?”</li><li>Analogy: if your own hand is on the stove, you move it fast; if it’s someone else’s, it takes longer.</li></ul><h3>18: Musk’s Rules for Rocket-Building — SpaceX, 2002–2003</h3><p><strong>Question every cost</strong></p><ul><li>Musk was laser-focused on cost, motivated both by his own capital at risk and his Mars colonization goal.</li><li>He challenged aerospace suppliers’ prices (often 10x auto industry equivalents).</li><li>He pushed to manufacture many components in-house.</li></ul><p><strong>Examples</strong></p><ul><li>Valve quoted at $250,000: SpaceX built it themselves for a fraction.</li><li>Actuator quoted at $120,000: Musk said it’s no more complex than a garage door opener; engineer built it for $5,000.</li><li>Another engineer adapted a car-wash valve to mix rocket fuel.</li></ul><p><strong>Question every specification</strong></p><ul><li>Rocket components were subject to hundreds of specs, especially from military/NASA.</li><li>Musk made engineers question all specs, not follow them religiously.</li><li>He demanded to know who (which person) created a requirement, not just which department.</li></ul><p><strong>Insane deadlines</strong></p><ul><li>He set unrealistic deadlines even when unnecessary (e.g., building test stands for engines not yet built).</li><li>“A maniacal sense of urgency is our operating principle.”</li><li>Mueller noted the tradeoff: aggressive yet plausible schedules motivate; physically impossible ones demoralize—Musk’s biggest weakness.</li></ul><p><strong>Learn by failing</strong></p><ul><li>Musk favored iterative design: prototype, test, blow up, revise, repeat.</li><li>Success metric: how fast you find and fix problems, not how well you avoid them.</li></ul><p><strong>Fixed-price contracts</strong></p><ul><li>SpaceX’s success helped shift NASA from cost-plus contracts to fixed-price, milestone-based contracts.</li><li>Under cost-plus, contractors were reimbursed costs plus profit; under fixed-price, they risk their own capital and control design within broad parameters.</li><li>Musk: fixed-price rewards results, not waste.</li></ul><h3>23: Two Strikes — Kwaj, 2006–2007</h3><p><strong>Second launch attempt</strong></p><ul><li>After the first Falcon 1 failure, SpaceX became more cautious.</li><li>They carefully tested and recorded details of hundreds of components.</li><li>Musk did not try to remove all risk; that would make the rockets as costly and slow as traditional contractors.</li></ul><p><strong>Cost tracking</strong></p><ul><li>He demanded charts listing each component, its raw material cost, supplier cost, and responsible engineer.</li><li>In meetings, Musk sometimes knew the numbers better than presenters, making reviews brutal but effective.</li><li>Costs came down.</li></ul><h3>24: The SWAT Team — Tesla, 2006–2008</h3><ul><li>Antonio Gracias, speaking Spanish with factory workers, learned how to improve processes.</li><li>Worker-driven changes (e.g., smaller nickel vats) helped troubled factories turn profitable.</li><li>His big lesson: success is not just the product; it’s the ability to make the product efficiently.</li><li>“It’s about building the machine that builds the machine”—a principle Musk adopted.</li></ul><h3>25: Taking the Wheel — Tesla, 2007–2008</h3><ul><li>Musk opposed outsourcing Tesla assembly, clashing with Martin Eberhard and others.</li><li>He used blunt, harsh lines like “That’s just the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard,” similar to Jobs, Gates, and Bezos.</li><li>Such “brutal honesty” could be offensive and stifling but sometimes also created teams of A-players who avoided fuzzy thinking.</li></ul><h3>30: The Fourth Launch — Kwaj, August–September 2008</h3><p><strong>PayPal mafia lifeline</strong></p><ul><li>Musk had budgeted for three Falcon 1 launches; all had failed.</li><li>Tesla was also in crisis; Musk faced personal bankruptcy.</li><li>Former PayPal colleagues (Thiel, Levchin, etc.) came to the rescue via Founders Fund.</li><li>Thiel put in $20 million, partly to “patch things up” from the PayPal saga.</li><li>The investment after the third failure allowed Musk to fund a fourth launch.</li></ul><p><strong>Karma</strong></p><ul><li>Musk likened his PayPal ouster to Caesar being stabbed in the Senate.</li><li>He chose not to attack the coup leaders, which later paid off when Founders Fund saved SpaceX.</li><li>“Karma may be real,” he said.</li></ul><p><strong>Historic success</strong></p><ul><li>Falcon 1 became the first privately built rocket to reach orbit from the ground.</li><li>SpaceX, with ~500 employees, designed and built the system themselves (vs. Boeing’s ~50,000).</li></ul><h3>31: Saving Tesla — December 2008</h3><p><strong>Daimler lifeline</strong></p><ul><li>Daimler’s executives test-drove a Smart car fitted with Tesla tech; the car “hauled ass” and could even do wheelies.</li><li>Daimler contracted Tesla for battery packs and powertrains and then invested $50 million in May 2009.</li><li>Musk: without Daimler’s investment, Tesla would have died.</li></ul><h3>32: The Model S — Tesla, 2009</h3><ul><li>Musk put engineers and designers in the same room.</li><li>Vision: designers who think like engineers, engineers who think like designers.</li><li>Echoing Jobs/Ive, design at Tesla was about the fundamental soul of a product, not veneer.</li></ul><h3>33: Private Space — SpaceX, 2009–2010</h3><ul><li>Cost-plus contracts had made aerospace flabby; components often cost 30x automotive equivalents.</li><li>Musk pushed his team to source from non-aerospace suppliers.</li><li>Example: NASA’s $1,500 latches vs. SpaceX’s $30 bathroom-stall-based latch.</li><li>A $3 million rocket payload cooling system was replaced by modified commercial AC units.</li><li>Launchpad for Falcon 9 cost one-tenth of comparable Delta IV pads.</li><li>SpaceX was not just privatizing space; it was radically altering its cost structure.</li></ul><h3>36: Manufacturing — Tesla, 2010–2013 (Fremont)</h3><ul><li>Globalization and cost-cutting had offshored US manufacturing; companies lost daily contact with factory improvements.</li><li>Between 2000 and 2010, the US lost a third of its manufacturing jobs.</li><li>Musk (unlike Jobs) applied OCD-level obsession not just to product design but to underlying science, engineering, and manufacturing.</li><li>Larry Ellison compared both Jobs and Musk as having beneficial OCD.</li></ul><h3>37: Musk and Bezos — SpaceX, 2013–2014</h3><ul><li>Bezos, like Musk, devoured sci-fi as a kid (Asimov, Heinlein, etc.).</li><li>Bezos’s motto: gradatim ferociter (“Step by step, ferociously”)—more methodical than Musk’s surge-and-sprint style.</li></ul><h3>41: The Launch of Autopilot — Tesla, 2014–2016</h3><p><strong>Full Self-Driving vision</strong></p><ul><li>Musk’s grand vision was full autonomy: cars driving themselves on highways and city streets with no human intervention.</li><li>He believed this would transform daily life and make Tesla the world’s most valuable company.</li><li>He made wildly optimistic timing predictions that turned out to be absurdly early.</li></ul><h3>43: The Boring Company — 2016</h3><ul><li>Boring was overhyped relative to its impact.</li><li>It built a 1.7-mile tunnel in Las Vegas to shuttle riders in Teslas through the convention center and airport area.</li><li>Talks with other cities stalled; by 2023, no major additional projects had begun.</li></ul><h3>45: Descent into the Dark — 2017 (Giga Nevada Hell)</h3><ul><li>Tesla struggled to hit 5,000 Model 3s per week; it was at half that rate by end of 2017.</li><li>Musk moved himself to the factory floors and led an all-in surge, working 24/7.</li><li>This personal surge approach became a defining pattern across his companies.</li></ul><p><strong>Production algorithm lessons</strong></p><ul><li>Step one: question requirements; they’re always somewhat wrong and dumb.</li><li>Delete parts/processes before automating; only automate at the end of design.</li></ul><h3>46: Fremont Factory Hell — Tesla, 2018</h3><p><strong>The algorithm (full version)</strong></p><ol><li>Question every requirement; attach it to a specific person; question even Musk’s own requirements. Make them less dumb.</li><li>Delete any part or process you can; if you don’t add back at least 10%, you didn’t delete enough.</li><li>Simplify and optimize only after deletion.</li><li>Accelerate cycle time after the first three steps.</li><li>Automate last; Musk regrets automating too early at Nevada and Fremont.</li></ol><p><strong>Corollaries</strong></p><ul><li>Technical managers must be hands-on (coding, installations, etc.).</li><li>Comradery is dangerous when it blocks candid feedback.</li><li>It’s okay to be wrong, but not confidently wrong.</li><li>Never ask people to do what you won’t.</li><li>Do skip-levels, meeting with levels below managers.</li><li>Hire for attitude; skills can be taught.</li><li>A maniacal sense of urgency is the operating principle.</li><li>Only physics is a real rule; everything else is a recommendation.</li></ul><h3>47: Open-Loop Warning — 2018</h3><ul><li>Musk’s friends described his crises as going “open-loop”—acting without feedback, like a bullet.</li><li>Kimbal and others used “open-loop warning” when Musk’s behavior lacked iterative feedback or outcome awareness.</li><li>The phrase reappeared during the Twitter acquisition years later.</li></ul><h3>51: Cybertruck — Tesla, 2018–2019</h3><p><strong>Steel and cross-company synergies</strong></p><ul><li>Charles Kuehmann, VP of materials engineering at Tesla and SpaceX, developed an ultra-hard, cold-rolled stainless steel alloy.</li><li>It was strong and cheap enough for both trucks and rockets.</li><li>Shared engineering across companies was a key Musk advantage.</li></ul><h3>52: Starlink — SpaceX, 2015–2018</h3><p><strong>Internet in low-Earth orbit</strong></p><ul><li>Global internet revenue ~ $1 trillion/year; serving 3% could yield $30 billion, more than NASA’s budget.</li><li>This financial potential helped justify Starlink as a Mars-funding mechanism.</li><li>Starlink satellites orbit ~340 miles high to reduce latency vs. geosynchronous orbits at 22,000 miles.</li><li>Lower altitude means more satellites are needed; target: a megaconstellation of ~40,000 satellites.</li></ul><h3>53: Starship — SpaceX, 2018–2019</h3><p><strong>Stainless steel benefits</strong></p><ul><li>Musk had a tactile feel for materials from childhood time in his father’s engineering office.</li><li>Stainless steel’s strength increases ~50% at very cold temperatures, ideal for supercooled fuel.</li><li>High melting point reduces need for heat shields on parts of Starship, lowering weight.</li></ul><p><strong>Go to the source</strong></p><ul><li>Musk sought input directly from welders doing the work, not just executives.</li><li>He asked how thin tank walls could be; workers said 4.8 mm, nervous at 4 mm.</li><li>This reflected his rule: get as close to the source as possible for information.</li></ul><p><strong>Starbase &amp; reading</strong></p><ul><li>At Starbase, his coffee table includes Churchill’s WWII history, <em>The Onion’s Our Dumb Century</em>, and Asimov’s <em>Foundation</em>.</li></ul><h3>55: Giga Texas — Tesla, 2020–2021</h3><p><strong>Gigapress</strong></p><ul><li>Gigapress machines inject molten aluminum into molds to cast large chassis parts in ~80 seconds, replacing 100+ welded/riveted components.</li><li>Musk admired toy industry precision and speed; toys must be made quickly, cheaply, flawlessly, and on time for Christmas.</li></ul><p><strong>Lego inspiration</strong></p><ul><li>He urged teams to study Lego: pieces are precise within ~10 microns and perfectly interchangeable.</li><li>“Precision is not expensive; it’s mostly about caring.”</li></ul><h3>56: Family Life — 2020 (Homes)</h3><ul><li>Musk became sensitive to backlash against billionaires and the optics of wealth.</li><li>He felt it unproductive and unseemly to cash out and spend lavishly.</li></ul><p><strong>Selling possessions</strong></p><ul><li>In early 2020, he decided to sell almost all physical possessions, including houses.</li><li>He tweeted: “Will own no house.”</li><li>To Joe Rogan, he said possessions weigh you down and are an attack vector, especially for “billionaire” criticism.</li></ul><p><strong>Move to Texas</strong></p><ul><li>After selling his California homes, he moved to Texas.</li><li>Lived in a small tract house in Boca Chica rented from SpaceX; spent time at Ken Howery’s Austin house.</li><li>After the Wall Street Journal revealed his residence, he stopped staying at Howery’s due to security concerns (people entering when he wasn’t there).</li></ul><h3>57: Full Throttle — SpaceX, 2020</h3><p><strong>NASA vs. Boeing</strong></p><ul><li>NASA awarded crewed-flight contracts to both SpaceX and Boeing (Boeing got ~40% more funding).</li><li>By 2020, SpaceX successfully launched astronauts; Boeing had yet to dock an unmanned test flight.</li></ul><p><strong>Celebration</strong></p><ul><li>Musk, Kimbal, Grimes, Luke Nosek, and others celebrated at a resort south of Cape Canaveral.</li><li>Kimbal shouted, “My brother has just sent astronauts up into space!”</li></ul><h3>58: Bezos vs. Musk, Round 2 — SpaceX, 2021</h3><ul><li>Both Bezos and Musk disrupt industries with passion and force of will, and both are abrupt, quick to call things stupid, and enraged by doubters.</li><li>Both prioritize futuristic vision over short-term profits.</li><li>Bezos: methodical, “step by step, ferociously.”</li><li>Musk: pushes insane deadlines, takes more risks.</li></ul><p><strong>Metrics obsession</strong></p><ul><li>Musk drives innovation by setting clear metrics (cost per ton to orbit, miles per Autopilot intervention, photons collected vs. used for Starlink).</li><li>These metrics force creative thinking about efficiency.</li></ul><h3>59: Starship Surge — SpaceX, July 2021</h3><p><strong>Idiot index applied again</strong></p><ul><li>Musk continued using the idiot index for components; a high ratio indicated design or manufacturing inefficiency.</li></ul><p><strong>Feedback style</strong></p><ul><li>After harsh feedback to an engineer (Hughes), Musk said he tries to give hardcore but mostly accurate feedback, criticizing actions, not people.</li><li>He emphasized the importance of feedback loops and improving from mistakes.</li><li>“Physics does not care about hurt feelings. It cares about whether you got the rocket right.”</li></ul><h3>60: Solar Surge — Summer 2021</h3><ul><li>Musk called Jim Dow to discuss solar roof strategy from his small Boca Chica house.</li><li>He told Dow: don’t focus on sales tactics (a mistake he felt his cousins made).</li><li>Goal: build an awesome solar roof that’s easy to install; word of mouth will grow it.</li></ul><h3>61: Nights Out — Summer 2021 (Saturday Night Live)</h3><ul><li>On SNL, Musk joked: “I reinvented electric cars and I’m sending people to Mars in a rocket ship. Did you think I was also going to be a chill, normal dude?”</li><li>He leaned into his awkwardness, making it part of the charm.</li><li>He frequented hot club Zero Bond.</li></ul><h3>63: Raptor Shake-up — SpaceX, 2021</h3><ul><li>Musk favors two types of lieutenants: the high-energy “Red Bulls” (like Mark Juncosa) and calm “Spocks” (like Jake McKenzie).</li><li>Juncosa is charismatic in a goofy, hard-ass way; he can tell people their idea sucks without enraging them. Musk calls him his Mark Antony.</li></ul><p><strong>1337 engine</strong></p><ul><li>Musk sometimes tackles hard problems by designing future versions (e.g., 1337 engine) to force bold thinking.</li><li>After a month of focusing on the 1337 engine, he pivoted the team back to a leaner Raptor 2.</li></ul><h3>64: Optimus Is Born — Tesla, August 2021</h3><ul><li>Musk vetoed the idea of swappable batteries for Optimus.</li><li>“Many a fool has gone down the swappable battery path, usually because they have a lousy battery.”</li><li>Tesla previously explored swappable packs; Musk insisted on bigger packs that can run 16 hours instead.</li></ul><h3>65: Neuralink — 2017–2020</h3><p><strong>Human-computer interfaces</strong></p><ul><li>Progress in digital tech often hinges on better human-computer interfaces.</li><li>J. C. R. Licklider’s “Man-Computer Symbiosis” showed how humans and computers can think together via displays.</li></ul><p><strong>Sci-fi inspiration &amp; people</strong></p><ul><li>Neuralink was inspired by sci-fi, especially Iain Banks’s Culture novels.</li><li>Musk recruited Shivon Zilis, who grew up near Toronto, loved Ray Kurzweil’s <em>The Age of Spiritual Machines</em>, studied at Yale, and worked in AI startups and OpenAI.</li></ul><h3>67: Money — 2021–2022</h3><ul><li>Musk described 2007 onward as “nonstop pain,” feeling like a gun to his head: make Tesla work, pull rabbit after rabbit out of the hat.</li><li>Constant survival mode takes a toll.</li><li>Ironically, when survival mode eased, he found it harder to get motivated every day.</li></ul><h3>69: Politics — 2020–2022 (Libertarian Circle &amp; Polytopia)</h3><ul><li>Musk spent time with a libertarian tech circle (including Joe Lonsdale).</li></ul><p><strong>Polytopia Life Lessons</strong></p><ul><li>Empathy is not an asset (in Musk’s framing); Kimbal feels his empathy hurts him in business.</li><li>Play life like a game; Musk’s strategy mindset mirrors Polytopia.</li><li>Do not fear losing; the pain fades after many losses, enabling risk-taking.</li><li>Be proactive; reactive gameplay (and behavior at work) limits success.</li><li>Optimize every turn; life has finite turns like a strategy game—you must use them well to reach goals like Mars.</li><li>Double down; Musk always pushes the edge and reinvests everything to grow.</li><li>Pick your battles; don’t swipe back at every attacker, or you’ll run out of resources (a lesson he struggles to apply on Twitter).</li><li>Unplug at times; multiple people (Kimbal, Zilis, Grimes) deleted Polytopia because it consumed their lives. Musk briefly deleted it, then reinstalled, saying it took too many brain cycles and even appeared in his dreams.</li></ul><h3>71: Bill Gates — 2022</h3><ul><li>Gates visited Musk and argued that batteries wouldn’t power large semitrucks and solar wouldn’t be a major climate solution.</li><li>Gates said he “knew something Musk didn’t” in this area, based on his view of the numbers.</li></ul><h3>72: Active Investor — Twitter, January–April 2022</h3><ul><li>Musk thinks life should be interesting and edgy.</li><li>He quotes <em>Gladiator</em>: “Are you not entertained? Is that not why you are here?”</li><li>He formulated a business case for Twitter: quintuple revenue to $26B by 2028, shift revenue mix from 90% ads to 45%, add subscriptions, data licensing, and payments (micro-payments for content, like WeChat).</li></ul><h3>73: “I made an offer” — Twitter, April 2022</h3><ul><li>He viewed Twitter as underperforming and mismanaged.</li><li>He believed the deal structure and timing could save hundreds of millions.</li></ul><h3>76: Starbase Shake-up — SpaceX, 2022</h3><ul><li>Juncosa, with wild hair/eyes, exudes a high-energy field and can be blunt yet likable.</li><li>Musk and Juncosa felt Starbase leaders (Bill Riley, Sam Patel) weren’t tough enough or direct enough.</li><li>Shotwell agreed Sam Patel worked hard but couldn’t give Elon bad news. Musk called them “chickens” for avoiding hard conversations.</li></ul><h3>78: Uncertainty — Twitter, July–September 2022</h3><p><strong>The terminator</strong></p><ul><li>Banker Steel noted Musk doesn’t ask which option a banker recommends; he asks detailed questions and makes his own decision.</li></ul><h3>79: Optimus Unveiled — Tesla, September 2022</h3><ul><li>Phil Duan, an ML expert on Autopilot, joined Tesla in 2017.</li><li>He worked months without a day off leading to Autonomy Day in 2019, burned out, quit, then got bored and begged to return after nine months.</li><li>He preferred being burned out at Tesla to being bored elsewhere.</li></ul><h3>80: Robotaxi — Tesla, 2022</h3><p><strong>All in on autonomy</strong></p><ul><li>Designing a car with no steering wheel or pedals posed safety and edge-case challenges.</li><li>Musk dug into details: doors closing themselves, gated communities, parking garages, maybe even arms that push buttons or take tickets—before deciding to exclude some complex locations.</li></ul><p><strong>$25,000 car and flexibility</strong></p><ul><li>Musk is stubborn and reality-distorting, but he can change his mind when arguments accumulate.</li><li>He recalibrated on issues like steering wheels, showing he can reverse decisions.</li></ul><h3>81: “Let that sink in” — Twitter, October 26–27, 2022</h3><ul><li>Musk recoiled at “psychological safety,” seeing it as the enemy of urgency and orbital velocity.</li><li>He preferred “hardcore” as a defining value.</li><li>Discomfort was a weapon against complacency.</li><li>Vacations, work-life balance, and “mental rest” days were not his thing.</li></ul><h3>82: The Takeover — Twitter, Thursday, October 27, 2022</h3><p><strong>Closing strategy</strong></p><ul><li>The deal was scheduled to close Friday, October 28, triggering severance and option vesting for leadership.</li><li>Musk and his team plotted a Thursday night “fast close” to fire CEO Parag Agrawal and other executives “for cause” before vesting.</li><li>Musk calculated a ~$200 million difference between closing Thursday vs. Friday and believed misrepresentation by management justified the move.</li><li>He fired most top executives and later, many HR managers.</li></ul><h3>83: The Three Musketeers — Twitter, October 26–30, 2022</h3><p><strong>James, Andrew, Ross</strong></p><ul><li>James Musk, Dhaval Shroff, and Andrew Musk, plus Ross Nordeen, formed a core analysis unit assessing ~2,000 Twitter engineers—skills, productivity, attitude.</li><li>Their job: determine who should stay.</li></ul><p><strong>Code graders &amp; team dynamics</strong></p><ul><li>Ben (a senior engineer) argued that teams matter, not just individuals; cohesive teams outperform isolated stars.</li><li>Dhaval agreed, noting his Autopilot team’s in-person collaboration.</li><li>Ben advocated for hybrid work: he needed focus time away from constant interruptions.</li></ul><p><strong>Layoffs timing</strong></p><ul><li>James sent Musk a list of best engineers on October 30.</li><li>Musk wanted immediate layoffs to avoid bonuses/option grants due November 1.</li><li>HR warned about fines and legal risks; they delayed mass firings to November 3.</li><li>About half the company was cut; some teams lost ~90%, and HR was mostly fired.</li><li>This was round one of three layoff waves.</li></ul><h3>86: Blue Checks — Twitter, November 2–10, 2022</h3><ul><li>Product manager Esther Crawford was central in this phase.</li><li>Musk’s insistence on in-person work was tied both to idea flow and his own work ethic.</li><li>He claimed people are far more productive in person due to better communication.</li></ul><h3>87: All In — Twitter, November 10–18, 2022</h3><p><strong>Small, exceptional teams</strong></p><ul><li>Musk: a small number of exceptional, highly motivated people can outperform a large number of pretty good, moderately motivated people.</li></ul><p><strong>Three filters</strong></p><ul><li>Engineers who stay must be excellent, trustworthy, and driven.</li><li>First round of cuts filtered for excellence; next filtered for trustworthiness/loyalty.</li></ul><p><strong>Hardcore drive</strong></p><ul><li>Musk scorned successful people who take vacations.</li><li>He wanted people who were “hardcore” and all in.</li></ul><h3>88: Hardcore — Twitter, November 18–30, 2022</h3><p><strong>Engineering-led teams</strong></p><ul><li>After further layoffs, Musk met with a dozen top coders to discuss product issues (e.g., video uploads).</li><li>He wanted Twitter teams led by engineers, not designers or product managers.</li></ul><p><strong>Workforce reduction</strong></p><ul><li>After three rounds, ~75% of Twitter’s workforce was cut—from just under 8,000 to just over 2,000 by mid-December.</li></ul><p><strong>Apple</strong></p><ul><li>Larry Ellison advised Musk not to fight Apple.</li><li>Apple was a key advertiser and controlled the App Store, critical for Twitter’s survival.</li></ul><h3>92: Christmas Capers — December 2022</h3><ul><li>Shutdown of a data center in Sacramento caused outages, including during a Ron DeSantis Twitter Spaces.</li><li>Musk later admitted the shutdown was a mistake; redundancy hadn’t accounted for 70,000 hard-coded references to Sacramento.</li><li>He acknowledged ongoing issues from that decision.</li><li>For a movie night, Musk picked <em>Demolition Man</em>—an action film about a risk-loving cop whose intensity causes collateral damage.</li></ul><h3>93: AI for Cars — Tesla, 2022–2023</h3><p><strong>From rules to neural networks</strong></p><ul><li>Earlier Autopilot used rules-based logic with C++ code to interpret visual inputs.</li><li>Shroff’s neural network planner project shifted to learning from millions of human-driving examples.</li><li>Human labelers graded clips; only high-quality behavior (like a five-star Uber driver) was used to train the system.</li></ul><p><strong>Metrics: miles per intervention</strong></p><ul><li>Musk set miles between human interventions as the main metric and demanded it as the first slide of meetings.</li><li>He likened it to a video game score: watching the score rise each day is motivating.</li></ul><p><strong>Scale advantage</strong></p><ul><li>Neural networks only started working well after ~1 million clips; got really good after ~1.5 million.</li><li>Tesla’s ~2 million-car fleet generated billions of frames per day, giving it an edge over competitors.</li></ul><h3>94: AI for Humans — X.AI, 2023</h3><p><strong>X.AI founding</strong></p><ul><li>Musk founded X.AI, recruiting Igor Babuschkin from DeepMind as chief engineer.</li><li>X.AI initially shared space with Twitter but was spun out to attract talent with equity and founder status.</li></ul><p><strong>Tesla vs. OpenAI capabilities</strong></p><ul><li>Musk felt he lagged OpenAI in chatbots but led in real-world AI via Tesla and Optimus.</li><li>He believed AGI requires both language and physical-world competence, where Tesla’s stack is strong.</li></ul><p><strong>Three goals for X.AI</strong></p><ol><li>Build an AI that writes code, auto-completing tasks across languages.</li><li>Build a chatbot competitor to GPT with political neutrality.</li><li>Build a “maximum truth-seeking AI” that reasons, pursues truth, and takes on big tasks (e.g., “Build a better rocket engine”).</li></ol><p><strong>Long-term vision</strong></p><ul><li>Musk imagined an AI that cares about understanding the universe and therefore preserving humanity as an “interesting part of the universe.”</li><li>This echoed <em>Hitchhiker’s Guide</em>’s supercomputer searching for the “Answer to The Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything.”</li></ul><h3>95: The Starship Launch — SpaceX, April 2023</h3><ul><li>Beethoven’s “Ode to Joy” played in the background.</li></ul><p><strong>Character and achievement intertwined</strong></p><ul><li>The narrative raises whether Musk’s bad behavior, recklessness, and callousness can be excused by his epic feats.</li><li>The answer is no—but it’s important to see how his strengths and flaws are woven together.</li><li>You can’t easily remove the dark threads without risking the whole cloth.</li><li>The book invokes Shakespeare: even the best people are “molded out of faults.”</li></ul><p><strong>Core question</strong></p><ul><li>Would a restrained Musk accomplish as much as an unbound Musk?</li><li>Are rockets to orbit and the EV transition possible without accepting all aspects of him?</li><li>Great innovators may be risk-seeking man-children—reckless, toxic, and crazy enough to think they can change the world.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/abundance-ezra-klein-derek-thompson</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2025 19:49:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The book starts from a blunt thesis: scarcity is often a choice. We say we care about climate change, housing as a human right, and curing disease, yet we block clean energy projects, restrict new housing, and fund science in a way that punishes risk. Policymakers spend trillions subsidizing demand for goods whose supply is deliberately choked—housing, health care, education—creating a world where middle-class feel is cheap (TVs, gadgets) while middle-class security (housing, care, stability) is wildly expensive.

From there, the authors argue that growth and abundance come from productivity—doing more with the same people and resources through better ideas, technologies, and systems. They focus on a handful of building blocks that matter most: housing, transportation, energy, and health. They contrast our “Consumers’ Republic” (endless stuff to buy) with a new agenda that prioritizes what we can build: homes, clean power, medical breakthroughs, and the institutions needed to deliver them.

A big chunk of the book explores how we got stuck. Zoning, environmental review, local vetoes, adversarial legalism, and a culture of process-over-outcomes have made building anything—from apartments to solar to high-speed rail—slow and expensive. Affluence creates powerful organized groups that fight over distribution and values, and the political system increasingly rewards those who can navigate or create complexity (lawyers, consultants) rather than those who can pour concrete or design bridges.

On science and invention, the book diagnoses the “Karikó Problem”: young, risky, paradigm-shifting researchers are systematically disadvantaged by grant systems biased toward safe, incremental work. Despite more scientists, more papers, and more tools, many fields show diminishing returns. The burden of knowledge is real, but so is the organizational problem: everyone is crowding into the same safe topics and ignoring the weird trees in the forest that might hide the next penicillin, CRISPR, or GLP-1.

Finally, the authors lay out a political and institutional agenda: treat bottlenecks as design problems, use both push and pull funding (like Operation Warp Speed) to accelerate key technologies, reform zoning and permitting to make building easier, and shift liberalism away from everything-bagel proceduralism toward outcomes. They position abundance as an emerging political order that can cut through both right-wing scarcity populism and blue-state NIMBY scarcity, aiming for a society with more homes, more energy, more cures, and more capacity to build.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Core Ideas of the Abundance Agenda</h3><p><strong>1. Scarcity Is a Choice</strong></p><ul><li>Many shortages (housing, doctors, clean energy build-out) are downstream of explicit policy choices: zoning rules, residency caps, permitting processes, funding designs.</li></ul><p><strong>2. Demand Subsidies Without Supply = Disaster</strong></p><ul><li>We pour money into housing, college, and health care access, but when supply is constrained, subsidies just raise prices and force rationing (“a ladder chasing an elevator that’s racing upward”).</li></ul><p><strong>3. Cities as Engines of Innovation and Mobility</strong></p><ul><li>Cities are “the absence of physical space between people and companies.”</li><li>Despite remote tech, proximity has become <em>more</em> valuable: people in large metros are ~50% more productive even after controlling for education and IQ.</li><li>Cities drive idea spillovers, innovation, and upward mobility (Chetty-style evidence on where kids grow up and later outcomes).</li></ul><p><strong>4. Lawn-Sign Liberalism &amp; Zoning as a Scarcity Machine</strong></p><ul><li>Blue-state voters are symbolically liberal but operationally conservative: they display inclusive values while blocking new housing in their neighborhoods.</li><li>Zoning evolved from basic separation of uses into a dense web of anti-growth rules: minimum lot sizes, parking requirements, bans on boardinghouses, limits on roommates, etc.</li><li>Homelessness is strongly correlated with high rents and low vacancy, not with poverty or unemployment per se—making it fundamentally a housing/supply problem.</li></ul><p><strong>5. The 1970s Inflection Point &amp; the Home as Asset</strong></p><ul><li>Around the 1970s, housing shifted from affordable good to primary wealth asset.</li><li>Rising inflation + slower homebuilding made existing homes more valuable, and homeowners turned to zoning and local politics to protect that value by restricting supply.</li><li>“Homeownership works for some because it cannot work for all”—you can’t have housing that’s both a wealth machine <em>and</em> cheap and plentiful for everyone.</li></ul><p><strong>6. The Construction &amp; Institutions Puzzle</strong></p><ul><li>Historically, construction productivity grew like manufacturing; since the 1970s it stagnated.</li><li>Construction is dominated by tiny firms, constrained by local rules and politics, whereas manufacturing can scale in one place and sell everywhere.</li><li>Mancur Olson’s “organizations of affluence” + America’s lawyer-heavy, process-centric governance create endless veto points and legal battles that stall projects.</li></ul><p><strong>7. Government Capacity and Process Overload</strong></p><ul><li>Federal spending has grown ~5x since 1960, but the federal workforce is roughly the same size.</li><li>Public agencies outsource more, lose in-house expertise, and become dependent on consultants and vendors—often raising costs.</li><li>Liberal governance has drifted into “adversarial legalism” and “everything-bagel liberalism”: layering on procedures and extra goals until nothing gets finished.</li></ul><p><strong>8. The Karikó Problem &amp; Science Slowdown</strong></p><ul><li>American science funding is biased against young researchers and highly novel ideas.</li><li>NIH peer review systematically gives lower scores to more novel proposals.</li><li>The “burden of knowledge” is real, but organizational incentives—publish a lot, don’t rock the boat—steer scientists to safe topics and incremental work.</li></ul><p><strong>9. Idea Factories &amp; Better Funding Models</strong></p><ul><li>DARPA is a model: empowered program managers, freedom from peer review, tolerance for failure, ability to assemble teams across academia and industry.</li><li>Howard Hughes–style funding (back the person, not the project) produces more flops <em>and</em> more hits.</li><li>“Metascience” argues we should treat science funding itself as an experiment—test different grant models, lotteries, golden tickets, paperwork reductions, and study what works.</li></ul><p><strong>10. The Eureka Myth &amp; Microinventions</strong></p><ul><li>Inventions rarely matter until they’re tinkered with, embodied in infrastructure, and scaled.</li><li>Penicillin, solar, nuclear, batteries—what changed the world was not just discovery but coordinated, messy, large-scale deployment and cost reduction (Wright’s law learning curves).</li></ul><p><strong>11. Bottleneck Detection &amp; Funding Design</strong></p><ul><li>Many crises are bottleneck problems: doctor shortages driven by residency caps, vaccine delays driven by demand uncertainty, etc.</li><li>Push funding (grants, loans) + pull funding (advance market commitments, guaranteed purchases) together can unlock private investment and speed deployment.</li></ul><p><strong>12. Focus as a Superpower</strong></p><ul><li>Operation Warp Speed worked because everyone had the same clear goal: at least one safe and effective vaccine, at scale, by year-end.</li><li>Crises can be reframed as mandates for focused abundance agendas: a Warp Speed for heart disease, clean energy permitting, or malaria.</li></ul><p><strong>13. Abundance vs Scarcity Politics</strong></p><ul><li>Right-wing populism leans on scarcity—blaming immigrants or outsiders for resource competition and calling for strongmen to fix “failed” democracy.</li><li>Blue America manufactures scarcity via zoning and process, then suffers the backlash.</li><li>An abundance agenda asks: what should be abundant, what’s blocking it, and what institutions, technologies, and rules do we need to unlock it?</li></ul><h3>Introduction – Beyond Scarcity</h3><ul><li>Thesis: to have the future we want, we must build and invent more of what we need; many scarcities are chosen, not inevitable.</li><li>We claim to want climate action, housing as a right, and better health care, yet we shut down nuclear plants, fight solar farms, block housing, and tolerate research systems that pull scientists away from their most promising work.</li><li>Subsidizing demand for scarce goods (housing, doctors, college) without increasing supply just drives up prices or creates rationing.<ul><li>Example stats:  <ul><li>Median home price went from 2.2x average annual income (1950) to 6x (2020).</li><li>Employer family health premiums tripled+ from 1999 to 2023; worker contributions quadrupled.</li><li>Tuition exploded at both public and private colleges.</li><li>Child care costs are eye-watering in states like MA, CA, MN.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li>We live in an “uncanny economy”: secure middle-class lifestyle receded, but cheap consumer goods proliferated. It used to be easy to attend college debt-free and impossible to buy a flat-screen TV; now it’s the reverse.</li><li>Growth ultimately comes from productivity—doing more with what we have through new ideas, processes, and technologies. That’s where real abundance comes from.</li><li>The market doesn’t distinguish between dirty and clean sources of wealth; government can and must. It also won’t fund risky technologies whose payoff is social, not immediately economic.</li><li>Technology and politics co-shape each other: abundant cheap renewables or modular construction would open very different political possibilities than a world of energy scarcity and expensive building.</li></ul><h3>A Liberalism That Builds &amp; The Abundant Society</h3><ul><li>Authors focus on the left because they take decarbonization seriously; they see less value in designing green policies for a right that doesn’t broadly accept climate risk.</li><li>Yet in practice, it is sometimes easier to build renewable energy in red states than blue, despite Republican climate skepticism.</li><li>Populists feed on ineffective government: they promise to replace it with “effective” autocracy.</li><li>Abundance is defined as a <em>state</em>: enough of what we need to create better lives.</li><li>American policy has focused on a “Consumers’ Republic” (Lizabeth Cohen): abundant goods to buy, but shortages of what’s needed for a good life.</li><li>The book calls for a reorientation toward production: housing, transportation, energy, health—and the people and institutions that build them.</li></ul><h3>1. Grow – Housing, Cities, and the Great Divergence</h3><p><strong>Cities &amp; Housing Crisis</strong></p><ul><li>Historically, moving to cities did more to change people’s status than moving to the frontier.</li><li>Today, ~30% of American adults are “house poor” (30%+ of income spent on housing). This underestimates the problem because costs are worst in superstar cities where jobs are best.</li><li>Many people choose between long commutes or moving to worse job markets just to find affordable housing—hidden drags on the economy and on lives.</li><li>Ed Glaeser: before the 1980s, wages in NYC were high even after cost of living; by 2000, most people took an effective pay cut by moving there because housing costs rose so much.</li></ul><p><strong>Why Cities Matter</strong></p><ul><li>Cities are “the absence of physical space between people and companies”—they solve the distance problem.</li><li>Despite tech, cities have become more central, not less: proximity is more valuable in an ideas-and-services economy.</li><li>People in metros &gt;1M are 50% more productive than those in smaller metros, even controlling for education, industry, and IQ.</li><li>Innovation often happens in dense, overlapping communities—think Bay Area AI scenes with engineers moving across companies and social groups.</li></ul><p><strong>Mobility &amp; Place</strong></p><ul><li>Raj Chetty’s work: mobility is heavily place-based. Kids born poor in San Jose have ~3x the chance of becoming wealthy vs kids born poor in Charlotte.</li><li>Moving children to better neighborhoods earlier improves outcomes, including the likelihood of becoming inventors in the dominant local fields.</li><li>But parents can’t move to high-opportunity places if housing is unaffordable—high costs repel the very people who would benefit most.</li></ul><h3>Lawn-Sign Liberalism, Zoning, and Homelessness</h3><ul><li>Americans are symbolically conservative but operationally liberal; blue states invert this: symbolically liberal, operationally conservative.</li><li>Yard signs proclaim inclusive values while zoning rules lock in exclusion: single-family-only areas, organized opposition to new housing.</li><li>Zoning is relatively new historically: almost no city had zoning in 1900; by 1933, zoning covered 70% of the US population.</li><li>It evolved from simple use separation (industrial vs residential) to anti-growth regulation controlling density, lot size, parking, and building types.</li></ul><p><strong>Homelessness as a Housing Problem</strong></p><ul><li>Colburn &amp; Aldern: poverty/unemployment don’t predict homelessness across cities; many poor cities have low homelessness, and rich cities have high.</li><li>Strong relationship: high rents + low vacancy = more homelessness.</li><li>If homelessness is a housing problem, it’s also the result of many small policy choices—zoning, building codes, parking rules, residency limits—that restrict supply.</li><li>Boardinghouses once offered low-cost, modest rooms but were gradually regulated out of existence or rendered nonviable by modern codes and parking requirements.</li></ul><h3>What Happened in the 1970s?</h3><ul><li>Multiple economic charts kink in the 1970s: stagnating wages, rising inequality, rising inflation, and sharply rising housing prices.</li><li>Years of saving needed to buy a home: relatively flat mid-century, then jumps from ~2.4 years (1970) to 7 years (2000), with big regional differences.</li><li>Rising inflation + slow home building turned existing homes into key wealth assets. To protect those assets, homeowners turned to politics:<ul><li>Bigger minimum lots, stricter parking requirements, opposition to apartments, constrained sewer expansion, etc.</li></ul></li><li>This created a structural tension: housing as affordable good vs housing as wealth machine. It cannot do both for everyone.</li></ul><h3>2. Build – Land, Energy, Construction, and Organizations</h3><p><strong>Land Use &amp; Animal Agriculture</strong></p><ul><li>Only 2–3% of habitable land is cities. About half of habitable land is used for agriculture, three-quarters of that for livestock or livestock feed.</li><li>Animal agriculture drives climate change, deforestation, mass extinction, and water scarcity (e.g., 1,800 gallons of water per pound of beef).</li><li>From a climate and moral perspective, industrial animal farming is a prime target for elimination; humans can thrive on vegetarian diets.</li></ul><p><strong>Energy &amp; Pollution</strong></p><ul><li>“Energy is the nucleus of wealth.” Abundant, clean energy is central to prosperity.</li><li>Fossil fuels are finite and lethal; air pollution kills 7–9 million people annually, especially in places where people are energy-poor and burn dirty fuels.</li><li>Hannah Ritchie: environmental action and economic growth are not in conflict; richer societies tend to clean their air and water as tech improves.</li><li>Decarbonization in practice means: electrify everything—cars, heating, cooking, drying—and make that electricity clean.</li></ul><p><strong>The Construction Puzzle &amp; Organizations of Affluence</strong></p><ul><li>Mancur Olson: over time, stable, affluent societies accumulate organized interests that fight over distribution and process.</li><li>These groups are slow to form but persistent, making policy more complex and making big projects harder.</li><li>Construction productivity grew alongside manufacturing until ~1970; since then, construction productivity stalled while manufacturing continued to improve.</li><li>Construction is dominated by small firms (&lt;10 employees), limited by local land-use rules and politics; they can’t easily scale across jurisdictions.</li><li>Complexity rewards people skilled at navigating it (lawyers, consultants), not necessarily those who build things.</li></ul><p><strong>Legalism and Losing Trust</strong></p><ul><li>US is unusually legalistic: lots of lawyers, lots of litigation, many political questions resolved in courts.</li><li>Lawsuits to enforce federal law rose from 3 per 100,000 people (1967) to 40 per 100,000 (2014).</li><li>Lawyers dominate political leadership, especially in the Democratic Party.</li><li>Public trust in government fell from 77% (1964) to 16% (2023), even as more processes were added trying to prove government’s legitimacy.</li></ul><p><strong>The Green Dilemma</strong></p><ul><li>In the 1970s, the problem was building too much too heedlessly; now the problem is building too little and being paralyzed by process.</li></ul><h3>3. Govern – Capacity, Procedure, and Execution</h3><p><strong>Blue vs Red Housing Outcomes</strong></p><ul><li>In 2023:  <ul><li>SF metro: ~7,500 housing permits.</li><li>Boston metro: ~10,500.</li><li>NYC/Newark/Jersey City: &lt;40,000.</li><li>Houston metro: ~70,000.</li></ul></li><li>Houston has lower homelessness and cheaper housing (~$300K median vs ~$1.7M in SF), and can house homeless residents for far less per person.</li><li>The key difference: it’s easier to build housing in places like Houston.</li></ul><p><strong>Procedure vs Outcomes</strong></p><ul><li>Liberal governance tends to seek legitimacy through rule-following and process instead of results.</li><li>Example: LA homelessness agencies spend huge time on audits and compliance while people live and die on the streets.</li><li>Michael Gerrard’s “tradeoff denial”: trying to preserve everything and optimize for every value at once leads to paralysis, especially on climate infrastructure.</li></ul><p><strong>State Capacity &amp; In-House Expertise</strong></p><ul><li>Federal spending has grown massively since 1960, but the federal workforce is roughly the same size.</li><li>Agencies outsource more and lose internal technical knowledge, leaving them vulnerable to cost overruns and vendor dependence.</li><li>BART rail cars came in cheaper than expected when BART used in-house engineering capacity.</li><li>Research: more staff in state DOTs correlates with lower highway cost per mile. Government needs enough in-house know-how to manage big projects.</li></ul><p><strong>Sedimented Systems &amp; Civic Tech</strong></p><ul><li>Jen Pahlka describes government tech and regulation as layers of sediment—new layers added without removing the old.</li><li>Systems and rules have become “complex beyond our ability to imagine,” even as dedicated public servants do heroic work with outdated tools (e.g., pandemic tax credits and stimulus checks).</li></ul><p><strong>A Government That Chooses</strong></p><ul><li>Example: I-95 collapse in Pennsylvania; emergency powers let the governor cut through process and reopen the highway in 12 days.</li><li>The point isn’t “big vs small government” but whether government can <em>choose</em> and deliver outcomes, not just follow rules.</li></ul><h3>4. Invent – Science, Funding, and Metascience</h3><p><strong>Karikó &amp; mRNA</strong></p><ul><li>Katalin Karikó’s chance encounter at a photocopier with Drew Weissman led to the idea of using synthetic mRNA to trigger immune responses—eventually key to mRNA vaccines.</li><li>Her story illustrates how risky, off-track ideas can be transformative, but often struggle within existing funding and career structures.</li></ul><p><strong>Science Slowdown &amp; Burden of Knowledge</strong></p><ul><li>Despite more professors, more tools, more data, and more papers, progress in many fields appears to be slowing.</li><li>“Are Ideas Getting Harder to Find?”: it takes more and more research effort to eke out similar gains (e.g., in medicine).</li><li>Benjamin Jones’s “burden of knowledge”: over time, more training is needed to get to the research frontier; the low-hanging fruit is gone, and climbing higher takes more resources.</li></ul><p><strong>Organizational Problems in Science</strong></p><ul><li>The system favors safe, incremental projects that are “probable,” not improbable bets that drive big leaps.</li><li>The share of young NIH-funded scientists (≤35) fell from 22% (1980) to &lt;2% by the 2010s.</li><li>Papers and patents are becoming less disruptive; many publications may be low impact, while truly novel research struggles to get funded.</li><li>NIH-style peer review penalizes novelty: lab experiments show highly novel proposals get systematically lower scores.</li></ul><p><strong>Weird Trees &amp; Surprise Breakthroughs</strong></p><ul><li>GLP-1 drugs (e.g., Ozempic) trace back to obscure work on Gila monster venom.</li><li>CRISPR emerged from studying strange bacterial immune reactions, initially with few citations.</li><li>Breakthroughs often come from odd, under-the-radar obsessions, not from the crowded mainstream topics.</li></ul><p><strong>Idea Factories &amp; Alternative Models</strong></p><ul><li>DARPA works by empowering program managers with autonomy, no peer review, and tolerance for failure; they design ambitious programs, recruit teams, and cut across institutional boundaries.</li><li>HHMI funding, which backs scientists rather than specific projects, leads to more failures but also more big hits.</li></ul><p><strong>Metascience and Experimenting with Funding</strong></p><ul><li>Metascience: treat the science funding system itself as an object of experimentation.</li><li>Ideas:  <ul><li>Reduce paperwork and evaluate the effect.</li><li>Expand early-career programs.</li><li>Give reviewers “golden tickets” to fund one proposal regardless of scores.</li><li>Use partial lotteries among meritorious proposals.</li><li>Relax progress reporting for some grantees.</li></ul></li><li>Compare these experimentally to see which approaches yield more breakthrough work.</li></ul><h3>5. Deploy – From Invention to Impact</h3><p><strong>The Eureka Myth</strong></p><ul><li>Invention is only the starting gun; progress is about implementation.</li><li>Penicillin’s world-changing impact came from a massive, coordinated effort to produce and deploy it at scale during WWII.</li><li>Joel Mokyr: microinventions (tinkering, incremental improvements, infrastructure, scaling) are often more important than the original breakthrough.</li></ul><p><strong>Learning Curves &amp; Wright’s Law</strong></p><ul><li>Wright’s law: costs fall as cumulative production rises—learning-by-doing.</li><li>Solar and batteries are classic examples where sustained deployment drove down costs.</li></ul><p><strong>The Entrepreneurial State &amp; Picking Winners</strong></p><ul><li>The idea that government is “lousy at picking winners” doesn’t match history.</li><li>Government helped “pick” or enable the internet, GPS, multitouch, highways, shale gas, and more.</li><li>John Maynard Keynes: government should focus on doing things that aren’t being done at all, not duplicating what the private sector already does.</li></ul><p><strong>Advance Market Commitments &amp; Warp Speed</strong></p><ul><li>Push funding: grants, loans, and guarantees that lower the cost of trying.</li><li>Pull funding: promises to buy successful products (advance market commitments), paying for success and reducing demand uncertainty.</li><li>Operation Warp Speed used both push and pull funding to accelerate COVID vaccines.</li></ul><p><strong>Bottleneck Detective</strong></p><ul><li>Many shortages (doctors, rockets, vaccines) have a specific bottleneck: <ul><li>Doctor shortage: federally limited residency slots.</li><li>New tech: firms scared to invest without demand certainty.</li></ul></li><li>Policy can either remove blockers (expand residencies) or create new enabling programs (AMCs, guarantees).</li></ul><p><strong>Focus as a Choice</strong></p><ul><li>Warp Speed’s edge was intense focus: one clear goal everyone shared.</li><li>Crises are plentiful (heart disease, climate, malaria); choosing to treat them like Warp Speed is political, not technical.</li></ul><h3>Conclusion – Toward Abundance</h3><ul><li>We’re living through the end of the neoliberal political order: deregulated markets, faith in free trade, and minimal industrial policy have lost credibility.</li><li>Crises from the Great Recession to climate change to inflation have exposed the limits of that order.</li><li>Right-wing populism thrives on scarcity, nostalgia, and the sense that government is incompetent and corrupt.</li><li>Liberal scarcity politics (especially housing and procedural paralysis) unintentionally fuel that populism by making everyday life harder and more expensive.</li><li>Abundance is offered as a new political lens: <ul><li>What is scarce that should be abundant?</li><li>What is hard to build that should be easy?</li><li>What inventions do we need but don’t yet have—and what’s stopping them?</li></ul></li><li>The agenda is not just more growth, but more of what matters: homes, energy, cures, and capacity. 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            <title><![CDATA[The Almanack of Naval Ravikant: A Guide to Wealth and Happiness]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[This book is a collection of Naval Ravikant’s ideas on how to build a rich life—financially and emotionally. On the wealth side, he argues that making money is a skill, not a one-time event, and that true wealth comes from owning assets and building systems that compound while you sleep. Instead of chasing hot trends or status, you focus on specific knowledge, leverage, and accountability.

Specific knowledge is the set of skills that feels like play to you but looks like work to others. Naval explains that you uncover this by following your curiosity, talents, and obsessions—not by blindly chasing credentials or “hot” careers. Once you have specific knowledge, you pair it with leverage: capital, people, and especially code and media—products with zero marginal cost of replication that work for you at scale.

Alongside this, Naval emphasizes the importance of clear thinking and sound judgment. He leans on mental models from evolution, game theory, probability, and economics as tools to navigate a complex world. Good judgment, he says, is wisdom applied to external problems: understanding the long-term consequences of your actions and making decisions accordingly, especially in an age where one good decision under leverage can change everything.

The second half centers on happiness, presence, and inner freedom. Naval treats happiness as a trainable skill and a default state: it appears when the mind stops insisting something is missing. He links suffering to unchecked desires, expectations, and identification with a rigid self. By lowering identity, dropping “shoulds,” reducing vices, and designing a life around peace, he believes you can live with more contentment and less anxiety.

Ultimately, the book ties everything together into a personal philosophy Naval calls “Rational Buddhism”: combining scientific realism with timeless wisdom. Wealth, health, and happiness are all governed by compound interest, habits, and values. The aim is not just to get rich, but to become the kind of person who can continuously create, learn, and enjoy life on your own terms.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Core Concepts &amp; Big Ideas</strong></h3><p><strong>Wealth vs. Money vs. Status</strong></p><ul><li>Wealth: Assets that earn while you sleep—businesses, IP, and productive assets, not just cash.</li><li>Money: A way to transfer time and wealth; a store of value and medium of exchange, not the end goal.</li><li>Status: Your position in the social hierarchy; often a zero-sum game where people attack wealth-creators to gain status.</li></ul><p><strong>Specific Knowledge</strong></p><ul><li>Specific knowledge is what you <em>cannot</em> be easily trained for—rooted in your DNA, upbringing, curiosity, and obsessions.</li><li>It feels like play to you and work to others; it’s often technical or creative and hard to automate or outsource.</li><li>You find it by looking at what you did effortlessly as a kid or teen and what you still do for fun today.</li><li>Sales, tinkering with technology, analytical thinking, and communication can all be forms of specific knowledge.</li><li>You can’t be taught specific knowledge in school, but you <em>can</em> learn it through apprenticeships and self-directed exploration.</li></ul><p><strong>Leverage: Labor, Capital, and Code/Media</strong></p><ul><li>Labor: Other humans working for you; the oldest and messiest form of leverage because people are hard to manage.</li><li>Capital: Money amplifying your decisions; dominant in the last century and core to many large fortunes.</li><li>Code &amp; Media: Products with no marginal cost of replication—software, books, videos, podcasts—the most democratic, permissionless leverage.</li></ul><p><strong>Productize Yourself</strong></p><ul><li>“Yourself” is uniqueness, personality, and accountability; “productize” is leverage and repeatability.</li><li>Productizing yourself means discovering what only you can do and packaging it into scalable products, services, or media.</li><li>It can take a decade to figure out what you can uniquely provide; you keep refining until you can be the best in the world at your niche.</li></ul><p><strong>Play Long-Term Games with Long-Term People</strong></p><ul><li>All returns—money, relationships, knowledge—come from compound interest over long periods.</li><li>Great careers and reputations are built with people you trust and enjoy working with over many years.</li><li>Focus your effort on the few relationships, projects, and fields where compounding can really work.</li></ul><p><strong>Accountability and Ownership</strong></p><ul><li>Embrace accountability; put your name on the line. Society rewards those who take risks with responsibility, equity, and leverage.</li><li>You will not achieve financial freedom renting out your time; you must own a piece of a business, product, or IP.</li><li>Stock options, founding companies, and investing are paths to ownership.</li></ul><p><strong>Judgment and Clear Thinking</strong></p><ul><li>Wisdom: knowing the long-term consequences of your actions; judgment: applying that wisdom to real-world choices.</li><li>One correct decision under high leverage can have enormous impact, but judgment is earned through hard work and experience.</li><li>Clear thinking requires dropping identity, questioning beliefs taken as a package (political, religious, cultural), and facing reality as it is.</li><li>“If you can’t explain it to a child, you don’t really understand it.” Confusion while reading is like the pain of exercise—it means you’re growing.</li></ul><p><strong>Mental Models &amp; Decision Heuristics</strong></p><ul><li>Use models from evolution, thermodynamics, complexity, information theory, economics, and game theory to understand the world.</li><li>Principal–agent problem: people care more when they act as principals (owners) than as agents (employees).</li><li>Compound interest dominates in money, knowledge, and relationships; small, consistent actions matter over decades.</li><li>Falsifiability: if a claim doesn’t make testable predictions, it’s not science.</li><li>“If you can’t decide, the answer is no” for big life choices.</li><li>“Run uphill”: when split, choose the more painful short-term path that leads to long-term growth.</li></ul><p><strong>Time, Focus, and Priorities</strong></p><ul><li>Value your time with an aspirational hourly rate; ruthlessly outsource or ignore tasks below that value.</li><li>You get rich by saving time to make money, not by spending your time to save money.</li><li>Most effort is wasted; your real job is to find the few things you should go all-in on and drop the rest.</li><li>The three big life decisions: where you live, who you’re with, and what you do. Spend <em>serious</em> time on them.</li></ul><p><strong>Four Kinds of Luck</strong></p><ul><li>Blind luck: random good things that just happen.</li><li>Luck from motion: hustling, creating opportunities, stirring the pot.</li><li>Luck from preparation: developing skill so you notice opportunities others miss.</li><li>Luck that finds you: becoming uniquely “you” so opportunities seek you out.</li></ul><p><strong>Reading &amp; Lifelong Learning</strong></p><ul><li>The most important skill for getting rich is becoming a perpetual learner.</li><li>Reading is faster than listening, doing is faster than watching; read what you love until you love to read.</li><li>Heavy reading in science, math, and philosophy for one hour a day can place you in the top tier of success within years.</li><li>Teach what you learn to internalize it.</li></ul><p><strong>Happiness as a Skill</strong></p><ul><li>Happiness is a default state: what remains when you remove the sense that something is missing.</li><li>It’s not about positive vs. negative thoughts; it’s about minimizing desire, especially for external things.</li><li>Happiness is mainly peace—freedom from mental chatter about past and future.</li><li>Happiness, love, and passion are choices you make and skills you practice.</li></ul><p><strong>Desire, Suffering, and Presence</strong></p><ul><li>Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want.</li><li>The fundamental delusion: something external will finally make you happy forever.</li><li>Happiness requires presence: clear attention in the current moment, without clinging to memories or anxiously anticipating future vices.</li></ul><p><strong>Success vs. Happiness</strong></p><ul><li>Happiness is being satisfied with what you have; success often comes from dissatisfaction—so choose consciously.</li><li>Games with large rewards (career, startups) can trap you long after they stop serving you.</li><li>The ultimate winners are those who can step off the game entirely, content in a room alone with themselves.</li></ul><p><strong>Envy, Expectations, and Comparison</strong></p><ul><li>The enemy of peace is expectations drilled into you by society and “shoulds” in your self-talk.</li><li>Envy is irrational unless you’re willing to swap your entire life with the other person.</li><li>Surround yourself with people more successful than you at work and happier than you in play.</li></ul><p><strong>Happiness Habits &amp; Environment Design</strong></p><ul><li>Small habits: reframing judgments, sunlight, smiling, daily exercise, cutting caffeine, reducing screens, meditation.</li><li>Non-screen activities correlate with more happiness; screen activities with less.</li><li>You are a combination of your habits and the people you spend the most time with.</li></ul><p><strong>Saving, Building, and Freeing Yourself</strong></p><ul><li>Do what you truly want—not what you think you “should” want.</li><li>To make an original contribution, you need irrational obsession.</li><li>Build yourself over a decade through sustainable, compounding habits; be impatient with actions, patient with results.</li><li>Design environments (work, city, friends) that statistically make success and growth likely.</li></ul><p><strong>Freedom: “To” vs. “From”</strong></p><ul><li>Early on, you may chase “freedom to” do anything you want; later, the goal becomes “freedom from” anger, compulsion, and obligation.</li><li>Courage is not caring what others think; other people’s expectations (without explicit agreements) are their problem.</li><li>Time is your scarcest resource—more important than money or friends—so don’t waste it.</li></ul><p><strong>Naval’s Life Formulas &amp; Rules</strong></p><ul><li>Happiness = Health + Wealth + Good Relationships.</li><li>Health = Exercise + Diet + Sleep; Wealth = Income + Wealth * ROI.</li><li>Income = Accountability + Leverage + Specific Knowledge.</li><li>Life rules: be present; desire is suffering; earn with your mind, not your time; all benefits come from compound interest; health, love, and mission—in that order.</li></ul><h3>Part I – Wealth</h3><h4>Building Wealth</h4><ul><li>Making money is not a thing you do—it’s a skill you learn.</li><li>Getting rich is about knowing what to do, who to do it with, and when to do it; understanding matters more than pure hard work.</li><li>Seek wealth, not money or status. <ul><li>Wealth: assets that earn while you sleep.</li><li>Money: how we transfer time and wealth.</li><li>Status: your place in the social hierarchy.</li></ul></li><li>Ethical wealth creation is possible; if you secretly despise wealth, it will elude you.</li><li>Ignore people playing status games; they gain status by attacking people playing wealth-creation games.</li><li>You’re not going to get rich renting out your time.</li><li>You must own equity—a piece of a business—to gain financial freedom.</li><li>You will get rich by giving society what it wants but does not yet know how to get—at scale.</li><li>Pick an industry where you can play long-term games with long-term people.</li><li>Play iterated games; all returns in life—wealth, relationships, knowledge—come from compound interest.</li><li>Learn to sell. Learn to build. If you can do both, you will be unstoppable.</li></ul><p><strong>Wealth vs. Money</strong></p><ul><li>Even a house can be wealth if rented out, though it may be lower productivity than commercial use.</li><li>Wealth is businesses and assets that can earn while you sleep.</li><li>Technology is the set of things that don’t quite work yet; once something works, it’s no longer “technology.”</li><li>Society always wants new things; to be wealthy, find what society will want that it doesn’t yet know how to get, and that fits your natural skills.</li></ul><h3>Find and Build Specific Knowledge</h3><ul><li>Sales skills are a form of specific knowledge.</li><li>“Naturals” in sales exist; you recognize them instantly in startups and VC.</li><li>They may learn, but not in classrooms.</li><li>You can improve sales skills via books (e.g., Cialdini), training, and brutal but effective door-to-door sales.</li><li>Specific knowledge cannot be <em>taught</em> conventionally, but it can be learned.</li></ul><p><strong>Finding Specific Knowledge</strong></p><ul><li>Look at what you did as a kid or teen almost effortlessly, that others noticed.</li><li>Examples of specific knowledge:   <ul><li>Sales skills.</li><li>Musical talents, ability to pick up any instrument.</li><li>Obsessive personality: diving into things and remembering quickly.</li><li>Love of science fiction, absorbing knowledge quickly.</li><li>Playing many games, intuitively grasping game theory.</li><li>Gossiping and digging into networks—potentially a great journalist.</li></ul></li><li>Specific knowledge is a unique mix of DNA, upbringing, and response—baked into personality and identity, then honed.</li></ul><p><strong>Naval’s Example</strong></p><ul><li>Loves to read and loves technology.</li><li>Learns quickly and gets bored fast.</li><li>Values science and once wanted to be a great scientist.</li><li>In reality, he gravitated to making money, tinkering with tech, and selling/explaining things.</li><li>Has sales skills, money-making analytical skills, and a talent for absorbing data, obsessing over it, and breaking it down.</li><li>Loves tinkering with tech; it feels like play to him but looks like work to others.</li><li>Others may ask how to get good at being pithy and selling ideas; if it’s not natural or enjoyable, it may not be their thing.</li></ul><p><strong>Principles of Specific Knowledge</strong></p><ul><li>Found by pursuing innate talents, genuine curiosity, and passion—not by chasing “hot” jobs or investor-favored fields.</li><li>Often at the edges of knowledge—new, hard, and just being figured out.</li><li>“Escape competition through authenticity”: competition comes from copying; authenticity eliminates direct competition.</li><li>The best jobs are neither decreed nor degreed; they are creative expressions of continuous learners in free markets.</li><li>The most important skill for getting rich is becoming a perpetual learner.</li><li>Today it’s more important to become an expert in a new field in 9–12 months than to have studied the “right” thing long ago.</li><li>You must be deep in something; otherwise, you’ll be a mile wide and an inch deep.</li><li>You can only achieve mastery in one or two things—usually what you’re obsessed with.</li></ul><h3>Play Long-Term Games with Long-Term People</h3><ul><li>Top roles (e.g., CEO, large asset managers) are based on trust built over time.</li><li>Their relationships and work have compounded; they have visible, accountable track records of high integrity.</li><li>Reputation compounds like interest; a sterling reputation built over decades becomes a powerful asset.</li><li>Long-term collaborators: if you still enjoy working with someone after 5–10 years, you trust them and have moved past minor foibles.</li><li>Person to read more about: Elad Gil (often invests with Naval).</li><li>“Intentions don&#x27;t matter. Actions do. That&#x27;s why being ethical is hard.”</li><li>When you find the right thing and the right people, invest deeply and stick with it for decades for big returns in money and relationships.</li><li>“99% of effort is wasted.” <ul><li>Be thoughtful: in relationships, work, and learning, find the thing to go all-in on for compound interest.</li><li>Dating: once you know a relationship won’t lead to marriage, move on.</li><li>Studying: drop subjects you’ll never use to avoid wasting time and mental energy.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Take on Accountability</h3><ul><li>Embrace accountability and take business risks under your own name.</li><li>Society will reward you with responsibility, equity, and leverage.</li><li>In modern societies, downside risk is limited; even personal bankruptcy can wipe debts clean in good ecosystems.</li></ul><h3>Build or Buy Equity in a Business</h3><ul><li>“If you don’t own a piece of a business, you don’t have a path towards financial freedom.”</li><li>Ownership vs. wage work: <ul><li>Renting time (even as a high-paid professional) caps you; you won’t reach real financial freedom or passive income.</li><li>True wealth: business or IP earning for you while you are on vacation.</li></ul></li><li>Paths to ownership: <ul><li>Stock options in tech companies (good way to start).</li><li>Starting your own businesses.</li><li>Investing in others’ businesses.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Find a Position of Leverage</h3><ul><li>We live in an age of infinite leverage; rewards for genuine intellectual curiosity are higher than ever.</li><li>Following your intellectual curiosity is a better career foundation than chasing what makes money right now.</li><li>Knowledge that only you or a small group knows emerges from your passions and hobbies.</li><li>Hobbies around your intellectual curiosity can become passions and specific knowledge.</li></ul><p><strong>Distractions vs. Signals</strong></p><ul><li>“If it entertains you now but will bore you someday, it’s a distraction. Keep looking.”</li><li>Follow curiosity over what’s hot.</li></ul><p><strong>Automation Warning</strong></p><ul><li>“If they can train you to do it, then eventually they will train a computer to do it.”</li></ul><p><strong>Three Broad Classes of Leverage</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Labor</strong> <ul><li>Other humans working for you.</li><li>Oldest form of leverage; messy and difficult.</li><li>Requires leadership; risk of “mutiny” or being torn apart by the mob.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Money (Capital)</strong>  <ul><li>Multiplies each decision with capital.</li><li>Tricky but powerful; dominant in the last century.</li><li>Many richest people: bankers, politicians who print money, large capital allocators.</li><li>CEOs of many old companies are mainly financial managers; capital scales more easily than people.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Products with No Marginal Cost of Replication (Code &amp; Media)</strong>  <ul><li>Books, media, movies, code.</li><li>Most democratic and important modern leverage.</li><li>Code may be the most powerful: all you need is a computer.</li><li>Permissionless: no one needs to grant you permission to build or distribute.</li></ul></li></ol><p><strong>Leverage and the Modern Divide</strong></p><ul><li>“Forget rich versus poor, white-collar versus blue. It’s now leveraged versus un-leveraged.”</li><li>Interesting and important leverage lies in products with no marginal cost of replication.</li><li>Permissionless leverage lets you succeed without gatekeepers.</li></ul><p><strong>Time and Independence</strong></p><ul><li>“You&#x27;re never going to get rich renting out your time.”</li><li>Whenever possible, optimize for independence rather than pay.</li><li>40-hour work weeks are Industrial Age relics.</li><li>Knowledge workers function like athletes: train and sprint, then rest and reassess.</li></ul><p><strong>Sell or Build</strong></p><ul><li>Sales and building are broad categories that exist in every industry.</li><li>Builders in tech: CTOs, programmers, hardware engineers.</li><li>Builders in other industries: people who make the system work.</li><li>Sales: marketing, communication, recruiting, fundraising, PR, inspiring others.</li><li>“If you want to be part of a great tech company, then you need to be able to SELL or BUILD. If you don’t do either, learn.”</li><li>Learn to sell, learn to build; if you can do both, you will be unstoppable.</li></ul><p><strong>Risk of Ruin</strong></p><ul><li>“Earn with your mind, not your time.”</li><li>Avoid risk of ruin: don’t engage in bets that can wipe out all capital or savings.</li><li>Take rationally optimistic bets with big upsides, but never all-in gambles.</li></ul><h3>Get Paid for Your Judgment</h3><ul><li>Judgment, especially demonstrated judgment with accountability and a clear track record, is critical.</li><li>In an age of leverage, being extreme in your art or domain becomes very valuable.</li></ul><h3>Prioritize and Focus</h3><ul><li>Naval’s wealth came from many small wins, not one giant payout.</li><li>Wealth accumulates as a stack: more options, businesses, investments, and opportunities accumulating over time.</li></ul><p><strong>Valuing Time</strong></p><ul><li>“Value your time at an hourly rate, and ruthlessly spend to save time at that rate. You will never be worth more than you think you’re worth.”</li><li>If you can outsource something for less than your hourly rate, outsource it or don’t do it.</li><li>Set an aspirational hourly rate that feels absurdly high (Naval used $5,000/hour even before he had money).</li></ul><p><strong>Despising Wealth</strong></p><ul><li>On “If you secretly despise wealth, it will elude you”:<ul><li>Be optimistic and positive; optimism pays off in the long run.</li></ul></li><li>Business world split:  <ul><li>Many play zero-sum status games.</li><li>A few play positive-sum wealth creation games and search for each other.</li><li>Wealth creation is a positive-sum, evolutionarily recent game; status is an older zero-sum game.</li><li>Those attacking wealth creation are often seeking status.</li></ul></li></ul><p><strong>Status Games</strong></p><ul><li>Politics and sports are examples of status games (winners and losers).</li><li>Status games serve a social role (figuring out who’s in charge) but are a “necessary evil.”</li><li>“Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.”</li></ul><p><strong>Advice for Young People</strong></p><ul><li>Spend more time on big decisions: where to live, who to be with, what to do.</li><li>We spend little time on relationships, jobs, and cities despite their outsized impact.</li><li>For decade-long commitments (city, job, relationship), consider spending 1–2 years deciding.</li></ul><p><strong>Surrounding Yourself with Successful People</strong></p><ul><li>Step 1: figure out what you’re good at.</li><li>Step 2: help people with that skill; give it away and pay it forward.</li><li>Karma works; people are consistent.</li></ul><p><strong>Warning from an Old Boss</strong></p><ul><li>“You’ll never be rich since you’re obviously smart, and someone will always offer you a job that’s just good enough.”</li></ul><h3>Find Work That Feels Like Play</h3><ul><li>What you really want is freedom from money problems.</li><li>Once you solve money problems (by lowering lifestyle or earning enough), you want to “retire.”</li></ul><p><strong>Definition of Retirement</strong></p><ul><li>Retirement is when you stop sacrificing today for an imaginary tomorrow.</li><li>When today is complete in itself, you’re retired.</li></ul><p><strong>Paths to Retirement</strong></p><ol><li>Save enough money that passive income covers your burn rate.</li><li>Drive your burn rate to near zero (monk-like lifestyle).</li><li>Do something you love so much that it’s not about the money.</li></ol><p><strong>Art and Creativity</strong></p><ul><li>History remembers the artists—those who create for its own sake.</li><li>Art is anything done for its own sake: loving, creating, playing.</li><li>For Naval, creating businesses is play; money is a side effect.</li><li>He can assemble a team, raise money, and launch a business in ~3 months because it’s fun.</li><li>As an investor, he looks for interesting products and people; passes on “great” investments if the product isn’t interesting.</li></ul><p><strong>Money and Addiction to Games</strong></p><ul><li>Lusting for money is a bottomless pit; it always occupies the mind.</li><li>The winners of any game are those so addicted they keep playing even as marginal utility declines.</li><li>In Silicon Valley, consistently successful people are: <ul><li>Venture capitalists (diversified, controlling scarce resources).</li><li>People who are talented at identifying companies that just hit product/market fit.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>How to Get Lucky</h3><ul><li>Four kinds of luck:  <ol><li>Blind luck: random, uncontrollable events.</li><li>Luck via persistence, hustle, and motion: stirring things up, creating opportunities.</li><li>Luck from preparation: being skilled enough to notice lucky breaks others miss.</li><li>Luck that finds you: building unique character/brand so opportunities seek you out.</li></ol></li></ul><p><strong>Ways to Get Lucky</strong></p><ul><li>Hope luck finds you.</li><li>Hustle until you stumble into it.</li><li>Prepare the mind and be sensitive to chances others miss.</li><li>Become the best at what you do; refine it until it’s true, and opportunity will seek you out so luck becomes destiny.</li></ul><p><strong>Reputation as a Luck Magnet</strong></p><ul><li>Having a strong reputation makes people want to do deals through you.</li></ul><p><strong>Long-Term vs Short-Term Games</strong></p><ul><li>“In a long-term game, it seems that everybody is making each other rich. In a short-term game, it seems like everybody is making themselves rich.”</li><li>Long-term games are positive-sum (baking a bigger pie); short-term games are about slicing up the existing pie.</li></ul><h3>Be Patient</h3><ul><li>In tech/Silicon Valley, great people consistently have great outcomes over time.</li><li>Everyone Naval recognized as extremely capable early on eventually became very successful—given enough years.</li><li>Outcomes rarely arrive on the timeline you want, but they come with patience.</li></ul><p><strong>Principle</strong></p><ul><li>“Apply specific knowledge with leverage and eventually, you will get what you deserve.”</li></ul><p><strong>Bad Advice</strong></p><ul><li>“You’re too young” is common bad advice.</li><li>Much of history was built by young people; they often got credit only when older.</li><li>The only way to really learn is by doing; listen to guidance but don’t wait.</li></ul><p><strong>Suffering and Résumés</strong></p><ul><li>Your real résumé is a catalog of your suffering and sacrifices—the hard things you did.</li></ul><p><strong>Money and Happiness</strong></p><ul><li>Making money solves money problems but doesn’t create happiness.</li><li>It removes obstacles to happiness but doesn’t supply happiness itself.</li></ul><h3>Building Judgment</h3><ul><li>“You don’t get rich by spending your time to save money. You get rich by saving your time to make money.”</li><li>Wisdom: knowing long-term consequences of your actions.</li><li>Judgment: applying that wisdom to external problems.</li><li>In an age of leverage, one correct decision can win everything—but hard work is still needed to build judgment and leverage.</li></ul><h3>How to Think Clearly</h3><ul><li>“Clear thinker” is a better compliment than “smart.”</li><li>The smartest people can explain things to a child; if you can’t, you don’t really know it.</li></ul><p><strong>Reality and the Monkey Mind</strong></p><ul><li>Make effective decisions by dealing with reality as it is, not as you wish it to be.</li><li>A strong sense of self, rigid judgments, and “monkey mind” responses cloud reality.</li><li>Desires and preconceived notions (especially mixing politics and business) distort perception.</li><li>The number one obstacle to seeing reality: what we wish to be true.</li></ul><p><strong>Suffering and Reality</strong></p><ul><li>“What we wish to be true clouds our perception of what is true. Suffering is the moment when we can no longer deny reality.”</li><li>“What you feel tells you nothing about the facts—it merely tells you something about your estimate of the facts.”</li></ul><p><strong>Space to Think</strong></p><ul><li>It’s important to have empty space in your calendar.</li><li>Without one or two days per week without constant meetings and busyness, you can’t think clearly or have good ideas.</li><li>Take at least one day a week (preferably two) just to think.</li></ul><p><strong>Contrarians, Cynics, and Mimics</strong></p><ul><li>Very smart people tend to be weird; they insist on thinking everything through themselves.</li><li>A contrarian isn’t someone who always objects—that’s just a different kind of conformist.</li><li>A true contrarian reasons independently from the ground up and resists pressure to conform.</li><li>Cynicism and mimicry are easy; optimistic contrarians are rare.</li></ul><h3>Shed Your Identity to See Reality</h3><ul><li>“Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.” —Buddhist saying</li><li>Any belief taken as a package (Democrat, Catholic, American, etc.) is suspect and should be re-evaluated from first principles.</li><li>To be honest, speak without identity.</li></ul><h3>Learn the Skills of Decision-Making</h3><ul><li>Classical virtues are decision-making heuristics to optimize for the long term.</li><li>Self-serving conclusions should be held to a higher bar of evidence.</li><li>Most biases are time-saving heuristics; for important decisions, discard memory and identity and focus purely on the problem.</li><li>Richard Feynman approach: “I never ask if ‘I like it’ or ‘I don’t like it.’ I think, ‘this is what it is’ or ‘this is what it isn’t.’”</li></ul><p><strong>Diversification</strong></p><ul><li>“The more you know, the less you diversify.”</li></ul><h3>Collect Mental Models</h3><ul><li>Best mental models came to Naval through evolution, game theory, and Charlie Munger.</li><li>Uses tweets (his and others’) as compressed maxims to store and recall learning.</li></ul><p><strong>Evolution</strong></p><ul><li>Evolution, thermodynamics, information theory, and complexity have broad explanatory and predictive power.</li></ul><p><strong>Inversion</strong></p><ul><li>Naval doesn’t try to predict what will work; he tries to eliminate what won’t work.</li></ul><p><strong>Complexity Theory</strong></p><ul><li>We’re fundamentally ignorant and very bad at predicting the future.</li></ul><p><strong>Economics</strong></p><ul><li>Principal–agent problem: <ul><li>Julius Caesar: “If you want it done, then go. And if not, then send.”</li><li>Principals (owners) care and do a great job; agents optimize for themselves.</li><li>Smaller companies feel more like everyone is a principal.</li></ul></li></ul><p><strong>Compound Interest</strong></p><ul><li>Intellectual domain is also ruled by compound interest.</li></ul><p><strong>Basic Math</strong></p><ul><li>Be solid on multiplication, division, compounding, probability, and statistics.</li><li>Black swans: branch of probability focusing on tail events.</li></ul><p><strong>Falsifiability</strong></p><ul><li>If it doesn’t make falsifiable predictions, it’s not science.</li></ul><p><strong>Heuristics</strong></p><ul><li>“If you can’t decide, the answer is no” for big life choices (marriage, job, house, city, business partners).</li><li>If you’re making pro–con spreadsheets and are still unsure, the answer is no.</li><li>“Run uphill”: when evenly split, choose the more painful short-term path.</li></ul><p><strong>Building Mental Models</strong></p><ul><li>Read a lot, across domains.</li><li>“Reading science, math, and philosophy one hour per day will likely put you at the upper echelon of human success within seven years.”</li></ul><h3>Learn to Love to Read</h3><ul><li>Genuine love for reading is a superpower.</li><li>Read what you love until you love to read.</li><li>The better the book, the slower it should be absorbed; reading is not a race.</li><li>Charlie Munger: “As long as I have a book in my hand, I don’t feel like I’m wasting time.”</li><li>When pointing out exceptions, avoid implying the listener is dumb or the target is dumb.</li></ul><p><strong>Internalizing Books</strong></p><ul><li>Explain what you learned to someone else; teaching forces learning.</li></ul><p><strong>Becoming a Clear Thinker in 60 Days</strong></p><ul><li>Study logic and math to remove fear of any book.</li><li>Confusion while reading is like pain in the gym—necessary for growth.</li></ul><p><strong>On Learning from the Classics</strong></p><ul><li>To learn macroeconomics, start with foundational thinkers like Adam Smith, von Mises, or Hayek.</li><li>For problem-solving, older problems often have older, time-tested solutions.</li></ul><h3>Part II – Happiness</h3><h4>Learning Happiness</h4><ul><li>The three big pursuits: wealth, health, happiness—chased in that order, but importance is reversed.</li><li>Don’t take yourself so seriously; you’re just a monkey with a plan.</li></ul><p><strong>Happiness as a Skill</strong></p><ul><li>Happiness may not be inherited or chosen but a highly personal skill that can be learned like fitness or nutrition.</li><li>Definitions vary: flow, satisfaction, contentment.</li><li>Naval’s evolving definition: happiness is a default state that appears when you remove the sense that something is missing.</li></ul><p><strong>Thoughts and Desire</strong></p><ul><li>People think happiness is positive thoughts and actions, but every positive thought implies a negative.</li><li>Happiness isn’t about positive vs. negative thoughts; it’s about the absence of desire, especially for external things.</li><li>The more present you are, the happier and more content you’ll be.</li><li>Happiness = not suffering, not desiring, not overthinking the future or past; embracing the present reality.</li></ul><p><strong>Good and Evil</strong></p><ul><li>“If you ever want to have peace in your life, you have to move beyond good and evil.”</li><li>Reality is neutral and reflects your feelings back at you; there are no inherent judgments.</li></ul><p><strong>No External Forces on Emotions</strong></p><ul><li>There are no external forces affecting your emotions as much as it feels like it.</li><li>Recognizing the insignificance of the self helps.</li><li>“Happiness is what’s there when you remove the sense that something is missing in your life.”</li><li>Children live in this state more naturally—immersed in the moment.</li></ul><p><strong>Control and Peace</strong></p><ul><li>We think we’re fixed and the world is malleable; it’s often the opposite.</li><li>“A rational person can find peace by cultivating indifference to things outside of their control.”</li></ul><p><strong>Naval’s Practices</strong></p><ul><li>Lower identity.</li><li>Lower mental chatter.</li><li>Don’t care about things that don’t matter.</li><li>Avoid politics.</li><li>Avoid unhappy people.</li><li>Value time.</li><li>Read philosophy.</li><li>Meditate.</li><li>Spend time with happy people.</li><li>“And it works.”</li></ul><h3>Happiness Is a Choice</h3><ul><li>“Happiness, love, and passion…aren’t things you find—they’re choices you make.”</li><li>Happiness is both a choice and a skill you develop.</li></ul><h3>Happiness Requires Presence</h3><ul><li>Naval doesn’t “believe in” anything from his past—no memories, no regrets, no trips.</li><li>A lot of unhappiness comes from comparing past to present.</li><li>Anticipation of vices pulls you into the future; eliminating vices makes presence easier.</li><li>“What if this life is the paradise we were promised, and we’re just squandering it?”</li></ul><h3>Happiness Requires Peace</h3><ul><li>Combating anxiety: <ul><li>Don’t fight it; notice it arises from thoughts.</li><li>Ask: “Would I rather have this thought right now, or my peace?”</li></ul></li><li>As long as you have certain thoughts, you can’t have your peace.</li><li>For Naval, happiness = peace; others may equate happiness with joy or bliss, but he prioritizes peace.</li></ul><h3>Every Desire Is a Chosen Unhappiness</h3><ul><li>“The fundamental delusion: There is something out there that will make me happy and fulfilled forever.”</li><li>Desire = contract to be unhappy until you get what you want.</li><li>It’s more important to perfect your desires than to do things you’re not 100% committed to.</li></ul><p><strong>Time, Money, Health Trifecta</strong></p><ul><li>Young: time + health, no money.</li><li>Middle-aged: health + money, no time.</li><li>Old: time + money, no health.</li><li>The trifecta is capturing all three at once.</li></ul><h3>Success Does Not Earn Happiness</h3><ul><li>Happiness: being satisfied with what you have.</li><li>Success: comes from dissatisfaction.</li><li>You must choose consciously between the two or balance them.</li></ul><p><strong>Games and Treadmills</strong></p><ul><li>Getting good at high-reward games can trap you beyond their usefulness.</li><li>Survival and replication drives put us on the work treadmill; hedonic adaptation keeps us there.</li><li>The trick is knowing when to jump off and play instead.</li></ul><p><strong>Winners Who Step Out</strong></p><ul><li>True winners step out of the game entirely; they need nothing from others.</li><li>They have strong self-awareness and self-control.</li><li>Naval notes people like Jerzy Gregorek as examples.</li></ul><p><strong>Pascal’s Insight</strong></p><ul><li>Blaise Pascal: “All of man’s troubles arise because he cannot sit in a room quietly by himself.”</li><li>If you can sit for 30 minutes and be happy, you are successful.</li></ul><p><strong>Focus and Desire</strong></p><ul><li>“You can get almost anything you want out of life, as long as it’s one thing and you want it far more than anything else.”</li></ul><h3>Envy Is the Enemy of Happiness</h3><ul><li>Life isn’t that hard; we make it hard.</li><li>Naval tries to eliminate “should” from his vocabulary: <ul><li>“Should” implies guilt or social programming.</li><li>Doing something because you “should” means you don’t truly want to do it and become miserable.</li></ul></li><li>Enemy of peace of mind: expectations from society and others.</li></ul><p><strong>On Jealousy</strong></p><ul><li>If you wouldn’t do a full 24/7 life swap with someone, there’s no point being jealous of them.</li></ul><p><strong>Work and Play Company</strong></p><ul><li>“When working, surround yourself with people more successful than you. When playing, surround yourself with people happier than you.”</li></ul><p><strong>Happiness as Skill</strong></p><ul><li>Happiness skill is built via trial and error; you see what works.</li><li>At the end of the day, you’re a combo of habits and your closest people.</li></ul><p><strong>Work Partners</strong></p><ul><li>“If you can’t see yourself working with someone for life, don’t work with them for a day.”</li><li>The key trick to being happy: realize happiness is a skill and a choice; choose it and then work at it.</li></ul><h3>Happiness Habits</h3><ul><li>When judging someone, stop and ask: “What’s the positive interpretation of this?”</li><li>Shift from annoyance to positive framing.</li><li>Get more sunlight and smile.</li><li>When you catch yourself desiring something, ask: “Is it so important I’ll be unhappy unless this goes my way?” Usually the answer is no.</li></ul><p><strong>Lifestyle Tweaks</strong></p><ul><li>Dropping caffeine made Naval happier and more stable.</li><li>Working out daily contributes to peace of body and mind.</li><li>To reset a funk: use meditation, music, and exercise, then consciously choose a new path for your emotional energy for the rest of the day.</li><li>All screen activities are linked to less happiness; all non-screen activities linked to more.</li></ul><p><strong>Stages of Understanding</strong></p><ul><li>“First, you know it. Then, you understand it. Then, you can explain it. Then, you can feel it. Finally, you are it.”</li></ul><h3>Find Happiness in Acceptance</h3><ul><li>In any situation, you have three options: change it, accept it, or leave it.</li><li>Change = desire; it brings suffering until you succeed.</li><li>Don’t pick too many big desires; choose one major desire at a time for purpose and motivation.</li></ul><p><strong>Why Not Two Big Desires?</strong></p><ul><li>You’ll be distracted.</li></ul><p><strong>Practices of Acceptance</strong></p><ul><li>For minor annoyances, Naval asks: “What is the positive of this situation?”</li><li>Acceptance of what you can’t change ties to embracing death.</li></ul><p><strong>Embracing Death</strong></p><ul><li>Death is the most important event in your life.</li><li>Facing it instead of denying it gives life meaning.</li><li>Reflecting on the rise and fall of whole civilizations makes ego battles seem trivial.</li><li>You’re going to die and none of this will matter; so enjoy yourself, do positive things, project love, make someone happy, laugh, appreciate the moment, and do your work.</li></ul><h3>Saving Yourself</h3><h4>Choosing to Be Yourself</h4><ul><li>All you should do is what you <em>want</em> to do.</li><li>Your goal is to find the people, business, project, or art that needs you most—something uniquely suited to you.</li><li>To make an original contribution, you must be irrationally obsessed with something.</li></ul><h3>Choosing to Care for Yourself</h3><ul><li>“When everyone is sick, we no longer consider it a disease.”</li><li>Life-hack: in bed, meditate; you’ll either meditate deeply or fall asleep—both wins.</li></ul><p><strong>Meditation</strong></p><ul><li>Another practice: sit with eyes closed for at least an hour a day, surrendering without effort.</li><li>“Meditation is turning off society and listening to yourself.”<ul><li>It only “works” when done for its own sake.</li></ul></li><li>Hiking = walking meditation.</li><li>Journaling = writing meditation.</li><li>Praying = gratitude meditation.</li><li>Showering = accidental meditation.</li><li>Sitting quietly = direct meditation.</li></ul><h3>Choosing to Build Yourself</h3><ul><li>Sustainable fitness/health change is a 10-year journey; break bad habits and build good ones every ~6 months.</li><li>Saying “I’m going to do this/be that” is often a delay tactic; if you truly wanted it, you’d already be doing it.</li><li>“Impatience with actions, patience with results.”</li></ul><h3>Choosing to Grow Yourself</h3><ul><li>Naval doesn’t believe in specific goals; instead, he prefers systems.</li><li>Scott Adams: “Set up systems, not goals.”</li><li>Use judgment to find environments where you can thrive, then design your environment so you’re statistically likely to succeed.</li><li>“The current environment programs the brain, but the clever brain can choose its upcoming environment.”</li><li>“If there’s something you want to do later, do it now. There is no ‘later.’”</li></ul><p><strong>Advice to Kids</strong></p><ul><li>Principle #1: Read—read anything and everything to develop a love of reading.</li><li>Don’t limit yourself to “serious” books; even comics or romances are fine at first.</li><li>Over time, you’ll steer toward what you should and want to read.</li><li>Related skills: mathematics and persuasion. <ul><li>Persuasion: influence others, get things done; it’s learnable.</li><li>Math: core for money, science, game theory, politics, economics, investments, and computers.</li></ul></li><li>Nature speaks in mathematics; math is reverse-engineering nature’s language.</li><li>You don’t need advanced math—just solid statistics, arithmetic, probability.</li><li>You should know probability and statistics thoroughly.</li></ul><h3>Choosing to Free Yourself</h3><ul><li>Hardest thing isn’t doing what you want; it’s knowing what you want.</li></ul><p><strong>Evolving Values</strong></p><ul><li>Old definition of freedom: “freedom to” do anything at any time.</li><li>New definition: “freedom from”—  <ul><li>Freedom from reaction.</li><li>Freedom from anger.</li><li>Freedom from sadness.</li><li>Freedom from being forced.</li></ul></li><li>Naval seeks internal and external “freedom from” now.</li></ul><p><strong>Advice to Younger Self</strong></p><ul><li>“Be exactly who you are.”</li><li>Holding back leads to staying in bad jobs and relationships for years instead of minutes.</li></ul><h3>Freedom From Expectations</h3><ul><li>If you hurt people because they had expectations of you, that’s their problem—unless you had explicit agreements.</li><li>Expectations without agreement are their issue, not yours.</li><li>“Courage is not caring what other people think.”</li></ul><p><strong>Value of Time</strong></p><ul><li>Time is all you have; more important than money, friends, anything.</li><li>Don’t waste your time.</li><li>Relaxation is fine as long as it’s what you truly want to do.</li><li>If you’re not earning, not learning, and not doing what you want, ask what you’re doing.</li></ul><h3>Freedom from Employment</h3><ul><li>People who live far below their means enjoy a freedom that lifestyle-upgraders can’t fathom.</li></ul><p><strong>The Modern Struggle</strong></p><ul><li>Lone individuals must deploy extreme willpower—fasting, meditating, exercising—</li><li>Against armies of scientists and statisticians optimizing junk food, clickbait, infinite porn, endless games, and addictive drugs.</li></ul><h3>Philosophy</h3><ul><li>“The real truths are heresies. They cannot be spoken. Only discovered, whispered, and perhaps read.”</li></ul><h3>The Meanings of Life</h3><ul><li>Naval doesn’t buy traditional everlasting afterlife narratives; they lack evidence.</li><li>It seems insane to believe eternal destiny is based on ~70 years of life.</li><li>Afterlife is likely like before you were born—nonexistence.</li></ul><h3>Live by Your Values</h3><ul><li>Honesty is a core value; Naval wants to be fully himself without watching his words.</li><li>He rejects short-term thinking or dealing.</li><li>All benefits in life come from compound interest: money, relationships, love, health, activities, habits.</li><li>He believes only in peer relationships; no hierarchy: <ul><li>Doesn’t want to be above or below anyone.</li><li>If he can’t interact as a peer, he doesn’t want to interact.</li></ul></li><li>He doesn’t believe in anger anymore;<ul><li>Anger as a young man was useful, but now: “Anger is a hot coal you hold in your hand while waiting to throw it at somebody.”</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Rational Buddhism</h3><ul><li>“The older the question, the older the answers.”</li><li>His philosophy, “Rational Buddhism,” must reconcile with science and evolution.</li></ul><p><strong>Wisdom Defined</strong></p><ul><li>Wisdom: understanding the long-term consequences of your actions.</li></ul><h3>Life Formulas I (2008)</h3><ul><li>Happiness = Health + Wealth + Good Relationships</li><li>Health = Exercise + Diet + Sleep</li><li>Exercise = High Intensity Resistance Training + Sports + Rest</li><li>Diet = Natural Foods + Intermittent Fasting + Plants</li><li>Sleep = No alarms + 8–9 hours + Circadian rhythms</li><li>Wealth = Income + Wealth * (Return on Investment)</li><li>Income = Accountability + Leverage + Specific Knowledge</li><li>Accountability = Personal Branding + Personal Platform + Taking Risk?</li><li>Leverage = Capital + People + Intellectual Property</li><li>Specific Knowledge = Knowing how to do something society cannot yet easily train other people to do</li><li>Return on Investment = “Buy-and-Hold” + Valuation + Margin of Safety</li></ul><h3>Naval’s Rules (2016)</h3><ul><li>Be present above all else.</li><li>Desire is suffering. (Buddha)</li><li>Anger is a hot coal you hold in your hand while waiting to throw it at someone else. (Buddha)</li><li>If you can’t see yourself working with someone for life, don’t work with them for a day.</li><li>Reading (learning) is the ultimate meta-skill and can be traded for anything else.</li><li>All the real benefits in life come from compound interest.</li><li>Earn with your mind, not your time.</li><li>99 percent of all effort is wasted.</li><li>Total honesty at all times. It’s almost always possible to be honest and positive.</li><li>Praise specifically, criticize generally. (Warren Buffett)</li><li>Truth is that which has predictive power.</li><li>Watch every thought. (Ask “Why am I having this thought?”)</li><li>All greatness comes from suffering.</li><li>Love is given, not received.</li><li>Enlightenment is the space between your thoughts. (Eckhart Tolle)</li><li>Mathematics is the language of nature.</li><li>Every moment has to be complete in and of itself.</li><li>“Health, love, and your mission, in that order. Nothing else matters.”</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[Hidden Potential argues that what we call “talent” is usually just the visible tip of a much deeper process: access to opportunities, the willingness to embrace discomfort, and the character skills to keep going when the work gets hard. Grant shows that people who seem exceptional are less often prodigies and more often “roses grown from concrete”—given the right conditions to practice, learn, and keep climbing.

He distinguishes ambition from aspiration: ambition is about outcomes, aspiration is about the kind of person you’re becoming. The book is ultimately about aspiration. Rather than fixating on status symbols or fixed traits, Grant focuses on skills like proactivity, discipline, determination, and prosocial behavior, and how we can deliberately build them. These skills matter more than IQ when it comes to long-term performance in fields as varied as chess, entrepreneurship, and education.

The first part of the book explores “skills of character”: how to become a creature of discomfort, how to become a sponge for high-quality information, and how to be an “imperfectionist” who holds high standards without being paralyzed by perfectionism. Grant offers practical tools like seeking advice instead of feedback, measuring progress by mistakes made, and using judging “committees” or pop-up workshops to refine important work.

The second part looks at “structures for motivation,” especially scaffolding and deliberate play. Rather than glorifying grind, Grant shows how the best performers transform practice into something joyful and varied. He explains how interleaving, breaks, detours, hobbies, and teaching others can reignite progress when we hit plateaus, and how serving people beyond ourselves can create a powerful source of motivation.

The final part zooms out to “systems of opportunity”: how schools, workplaces, and entire societies can be designed to bring out hidden potential. Grant highlights Finland’s education system, looping between teachers and students, student welfare teams, and a culture that treats play and reading as core work. He then turns to teams and organizations, showing how to mine collective intelligence, avoid the “babble effect,” promote people based on slope rather than just current performance, and replace ladders with lattices to open more paths upward.

Across it all, Grant argues that impostor feelings and big dreams can actually be signs of hidden potential. Success, in this frame, isn’t about reaching a final destination; it’s about living your values, continuing to grow, and building systems that help more people climb further than anyone expected.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Core Concepts &amp; Big Ideas</h3><h4>A. Skills of Character</h4><ul><li><strong>Character vs. personality</strong> <ul><li>Personality = your default tendencies.</li><li>Character = your capacity to prioritize values over impulses (e.g., being proactive when you’d rather avoid, disciplined when you’d rather drift).</li></ul></li><li><strong>The four key character skills</strong>  <ul><li><strong>Proactive</strong>: Taking initiative, asking questions, volunteering, engaging beyond what’s required.</li><li><strong>Prosocial</strong>: Collaborating, getting along, and contributing to others.</li><li><strong>Disciplined</strong>: Paying attention, resisting distractions, staying on task.</li><li><strong>Determined</strong>: Taking on challenges, doing more than required, persisting through obstacles.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Creatures of discomfort</strong> (Chapter 1)   <ul><li>Growth accelerates when you deliberately seek awkwardness and discomfort.</li><li>Three kinds of courage: abandon familiar methods, step into the arena before you feel ready, and make more mistakes than others even attempt.</li><li>Learning styles are largely a myth; what feels comfortable isn’t always what works best.</li><li>Procrastination isn’t a time problem, it’s an emotion problem — you’re avoiding feelings, not effort.</li><li>For critical thinking, reading beats listening; for language learning, you must produce (speak) not just comprehend.</li><li>Reframing discomfort (“your goal is to feel awkward”) increases persistence and risk-taking.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Human sponges</strong> (Chapter 2)   <ul><li>Growth depends more on the <em>quality</em> of information you absorb than the quantity.</li><li>Instead of worshipping “work ethic,” focus on literacy and learning capacity.</li><li>Being coachable: reacting to events with an eye toward improvement, staying moldable.</li><li>Ask for <strong>advice</strong>, not <strong>feedback</strong> (“What’s one thing I can do better?”) to get forward-looking input.</li><li>Choose coaches based on <strong>care, credibility, and familiarity</strong>.</li><li>Champions don’t just take criticism; they adapt.</li></ul></li><li><strong>The imperfectionists</strong> (Chapter 3)  <ul><li>Perfectionists: <ol><li>Obsess over trivial details.</li><li>Avoid hard, unfamiliar tasks that might lead to failure.</li><li>Shame themselves for mistakes instead of learning from them.</li></ol></li><li>High standards fuel growth; vague “do your best” goals underperform specific, difficult goals.</li><li>Use <strong>pop-up judging committees</strong>: get numeric scores, then ask how to get closer to a 10.</li><li>Set both aspirational and acceptable targets.</li><li>Before shipping, ask: <em>If this was the only thing people saw of mine, would I be proud of it?</em></li></ul></li></ul><h4>B. Structures for Motivation &amp; Scaffolding</h4><ul><li><strong>Scaffolding basics</strong>  <ul><li>Comes from <em>other people</em> (teachers, coaches, peers).</li><li>Is <em>tailored</em> to a specific obstacle (like Tetris reducing intrusive flashbacks by occupying visual-spatial processing).</li><li>Arrives at <em>pivotal moments</em>.</li><li>Is <em>temporary</em> — removed once you can stand on your own.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Transforming the daily grind</strong> (Chapter 4)   <ul><li>Deliberate practice is crucial but works best on predictable skills with consistent moves.</li><li>Obsessive passion leads to burnout and “boreout.”</li><li><strong>Harmonious passion</strong> = taking joy in the process, feeling pulled toward practice instead of pushed by “shoulds.”</li><li><strong>Deliberate play</strong> = structured fun designed for learning: games, constraints, role-plays, improvisation.</li><li>Use games, scores, and variety (interleaving) to keep practice engaging and improve learning.</li><li>Interleaving and small variations (different drills, tools, or constraints) improve learning more than rote repetition.</li><li>Breaks (even 5–10 minutes) reduce fatigue, boost creativity, and deepen retention.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Getting unstuck</strong> (Chapter 5)   <ul><li>Ruts and plateaus aren’t signs you’ve peaked; they’re signals to change route, methods, or fuel.</li><li>Performance often dips before it climbs when you adopt a better method.</li><li>You don’t always need a map, just a compass (a sense of direction and course correction).</li><li>Experts can be poor guides for beginners (curse of knowledge + different strengths/weaknesses).</li><li>Use multiple guides, get them to “drop pins” (key decisions, turning points, skills) and then synthesize your own route.</li><li>Languishing = feeling flat, stuck, “blah” — not depressed, but not thriving.</li><li>Detours and serious hobbies in different domains can restore confidence and a sense of progress.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Defying gravity</strong> (Chapter 6)  <ul><li>Focusing beyond yourself (people you care about, future generations) creates powerful motivation.</li><li>Viewing obstacles as <strong>challenges</strong>, not <strong>threats</strong>, helps you rise to occasions.</li><li>Studying with knowledgeable peers and teaching others drives learning (the “tutor effect”).</li><li>Coaching others boosts your own confidence (the “coach effect”).</li><li>Expectations matter: <ul><li>High expectations → Pygmalion effect (people rise).</li><li>Low expectations from experts can crush motivation (Golem effect).</li><li>Low expectations from uninformed audiences can fuel an underdog effect.</li></ul></li></ul></li></ul><h4>C. Systems of Opportunity</h4><ul><li><strong>Opportunity gaps &amp; invention</strong> <ul><li>Kids from top 1% families are ten times more likely to become inventors than those below median income, even with similar cognitive skills.</li><li>Exposure to innovators and high-innovation zip codes creates more future inventors.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Designing schools for growth (Chapter 7)</strong>    <ul><li>Finland’s system is built on belief in <em>every</em> student’s potential: small achievement gaps, high performers and few low performers.</li><li>Teachers are highly trained (master’s degrees), well paid, and treated as trusted professionals.</li><li>Culture shift: teachers have autonomy, collaborate, and aren’t forced to teach to tests.</li><li><strong>Looping</strong>: students keep the same teacher for multiple years (often up to six), which especially helps lower-achieving students and less-effective teachers grow together.</li><li>Schools have student welfare teams (psychologist, social worker, nurse, special ed teacher, principal, classroom teacher).</li><li>School days include more breaks; short lessons (max 45 minutes) followed by 15 minutes of recess.</li><li>Play is seen as the work of childhood; experiential learning (like Me &amp; MyCity) builds proactivity, prosocial skills, and real-world competence.</li><li>Reading is treated as foundational; motivation to read is cultivated through choice and embedding books in daily life.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Mining collective intelligence (Chapter 8)</strong>   <ul><li>Collective intelligence depends more on prosocial skills than on raw IQ.</li><li>Being a team player = figuring out what the group needs and rallying contributions, not just being “nice.”</li><li>Best teams: aligned around common goals, clear roles, shared outcomes, constant coaching.</li><li>Beware the <strong>babble effect</strong>: we often mistake the most talkative person for the best leader.</li><li>In proactive teams, introverted leaders outperform extraverts because they listen more and absorb ideas.</li><li><strong>Brainwriting</strong> beats brainstorming: generate ideas alone, share anonymously, evaluate individually, then discuss.</li><li>Lattices &gt; ladders: multiple paths to influence and progress instead of a single vertical hierarchy.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Diamonds in the rough (Chapter 9)</strong>  <ul><li>We overvalue past performance and undervalue slope (trajectory).</li><li>Prior experience is often a poor predictor of future performance, especially when the new role requires different skills.</li><li>Example: top salespeople promoted to managers often struggle; the best managers were prosocial collaborators, not just rainmakers. (Peter Principle in action.)</li><li>In grades, improvement over time predicts income and college completion better than early performance.</li><li>Skills are best seen in what people can <em>do now</em> and how they respond to a second chance, not just in their resumes.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Epilogue themes</strong>  <ul><li>Bigger dreams often predict bigger achievements.</li><li>Impostor syndrome can be a sign of hidden potential; others may see your capacity before you do.</li><li>Growth mindset reframes incompetence as “not yet,” not “never.”</li><li>Real success = living your values and continually building character, not just collecting status.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Prologue – Growing Roses from Concrete</h3><ul><li>Landmark study of exceptional talent (musicians, artists, scientists, athletes): <ul><li>120 Guggenheim-winning sculptors, concert pianists, prizewinning mathematicians, neurology researchers, Olympic swimmers, world-class tennis players (and their parents, teachers, coaches).</li><li>Very few were child prodigies.</li></ul></li><li>To master a new concept in math, science, or languages usually takes 7–8 practice sessions across thousands of students, from elementary to college.</li><li>Some students excelled with fewer sessions, but they weren’t “faster learners” — they had more initial knowledge, exposure, or motivation. <ul><li>Early head start via related material, parental teaching, or self-teaching.</li><li>Apparent ability often = opportunity + motivation.</li></ul></li><li>Book is about <strong>aspiration</strong>, not ambition.  <ul><li>Ambition = outcome you want.</li><li>Aspiration = person you hope to become.</li><li>Status symbols (money, titles, awards) are poor proxies for progress.</li><li>What counts is how much you grow, not just how hard you work.</li><li>Growth starts with skills, not just mindset — skills we often overlook.</li></ul></li><li>Tennessee experiment (Chetty): <ul><li>Success at age 25 could be predicted by who taught kindergarten.</li><li>Students with more experienced kindergarten teachers earned significantly more at 25.</li></ul></li><li>To understand what carried over from kindergarten, researchers looked at 4th and 8th grade teacher ratings:  <ul><li><strong>Proactive</strong>: asking questions, volunteering, seeking info beyond class.</li><li><strong>Prosocial</strong>: getting along and collaborating.</li><li><strong>Disciplined</strong>: paying attention, resisting disruption.</li><li><strong>Determined</strong>: taking on hard problems, doing more than required, persisting.</li></ul></li><li>Students taught by more experienced kindergarten teachers scored higher on all four attributes in 4th and 8th grade.</li><li>These capacities lasted longer and were more powerful than early math/reading skills.</li></ul><h4>Acting Out of Character</h4><ul><li>Character is more than principles; it’s the capacity to live by those principles.</li><li>Character skills enable: <ul><li>A chronic procrastinator to meet a deadline for someone important.</li><li>A shy introvert to speak out against injustice.</li><li>A bully to defuse a fight before a game.</li></ul></li><li>Great kindergarten teachers and coaches cultivate these skills.</li><li>Grant now sees character less as will, more as skills.</li><li>Chess evidence:  <ul><li>Intelligence helps kids/novices learn faster initially.</li><li>But among adults/advanced players, intelligence becomes nearly irrelevant.</li><li>Early cognitive advantages dissipate; progress depends on proactivity, discipline, determination.</li><li>Takes ~20,000 hours to become chess master, ~30,000 for grandmaster.</li></ul></li><li>Character skills both help you perform at your peak and propel you to higher peaks.</li></ul><h4>If You Build It, They Will Climb</h4><ul><li><strong>Scaffolding</strong> in learning: <ul><li>Teacher/coach gives initial instruction and removes support gradually.</li><li>Goal: shift responsibility to the learner.</li></ul></li><li>“Where there’s a will, there’s a way” misses that when people can’t see a path, they stop dreaming.<ul><li>To ignite will, show a concrete way — that’s what scaffolding does.</li></ul></li><li>Example: Maurice teaching chess in reverse: <ul><li>Start with how to corner a king.</li><li>Once students see a route to victory, they develop will to learn.</li></ul></li><li>Maurice also scaffolds players to support each other:  <ul><li>Cartoons about chess moves.</li><li>Sci-fi stories about matches.</li><li>Rap songs about commanding the center.</li><li>They learn to treat chess as prosocial teamwork.</li></ul></li><li>Key line: True measure of potential = how far you’ve climbed, not the peak you’ve reached.</li></ul><h3>PART I – Skills of Character</h3><h4>Getting Better at Getting Better</h4><ul><li>Character skills training for founders:  <ul><li>Just five days of training led to 30% profit growth over two years.</li><li>Nearly triple the benefit of cognitive (finance/marketing) training.</li><li>Proactivity and discipline helped them generate opportunities, not just capitalize on them.</li><li>They anticipated market changes, developed more creative ideas, launched more products.</li><li>When facing financial obstacles, they were more resilient and resourceful (e.g., seeking loans).</li></ul></li><li>Shows that character skills can be developed and it’s never too late.</li><li>Character ≠ personality: <ul><li>Personality = predisposition, default instincts.</li><li>Character = capacity to prioritize values over instincts.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>Chapter 1 – Creatures of Discomfort</h4><ul><li>Polyglots (Sara Maria, Benny): <ul><li>Sara Maria learned six languages in less than a decade.</li><li>Benny:  <ul><li>Czech in a few months.</li><li>Conversational Hungarian in three months.</li><li>Egyptian Arabic (while in Brazil) in three months.</li><li>Intermediate Mandarin in five months, enough for an hour-long discussion.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li>Their breakthrough came from clearing a <em>motivational</em> hurdle, not a cognitive one.<ul><li>They got comfortable being uncomfortable.</li></ul></li><li>Becoming a creature of discomfort = unlocking hidden potential: <ul><li>A key character skill, a form of determination.</li><li>Requires courage to: <ol><li>Abandon tried-and-true methods.</li><li>Enter the ring before feeling ready.</li><li>Make more mistakes than others attempt.</li></ol></li></ul></li><li>Best way to accelerate growth is to seek, embrace, and amplify discomfort.</li><li><strong>Learning styles myth</strong>: <ul><li>Comprehensive review found little support for learning styles theory.</li><li>Preferred mode = comfort, not necessarily effectiveness.</li><li>Sometimes you learn better in uncomfortable modes because you must work harder.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Procrastination</strong>:  <ul><li>Often mistaken for laziness.</li><li>Psychologists: procrastination = emotion management problem.</li><li>Avoiding unpleasant feelings, not effort.</li><li>But this avoidance also delays getting where you want to go.</li></ul></li><li>Lesson: not everyone who hates writing must write, but avoiding discomfort of hard techniques limits growth.</li><li>Reading vs listening: <ul><li>Reading improves comprehension and recall.</li><li>Listening promotes intuitive thinking; reading activates analytical processing.</li><li>Unless you have a reading disability, there’s no substitute for reading for critical thinking.</li></ul></li><li>Language learning:  <ul><li>To understand, you must listen.</li><li>To speak, you must practice speaking out loud.</li><li>Meta-analyses: people learn to understand and speak better when taught to produce, not just comprehend.</li><li>Flipped classrooms (vocab before class, communication in class) work well.</li></ul></li><li>Sara Maria example: <ul><li>Moved to Madrid to teach English, lived with a Spanish-only family.</li><li>By end of summer, spoke Spanish fluently.</li></ul></li><li>Improv experiment (Woolley &amp; Fishbach): <ul><li>People randomized to focus on discomfort persisted longer and took more creative risks than those focused on learning.</li><li>Instructions: feeling awkward/uncomfortable is a sign the exercise is working.</li><li>Seeing discomfort as growth signals pushes people beyond comfort zones.</li></ul></li><li>Benny’s metric: <ul><li>Aim for at least 200 mistakes a day.</li><li>Progress measured by error count.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Learned industriousness</strong>: <ul><li>When effort is praised, effort itself becomes rewarding.</li><li>You feel pulled toward trying, instead of having to push yourself.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>Chapter 2 – Human Sponges</h4><ul><li>Being a sponge = character skill, a form of proactivity.</li><li>Growth depends more on quality of info taken in than sheer effort.</li><li>Max Weber &amp; Protestant work ethic: <ul><li>Work reframed as a moral calling.</li><li>Determination and discipline became virtues, idleness a vice.</li><li>Today many “worship at the altar of hustle.”</li></ul></li><li>Becker &amp; Woessmann’s argument:<ul><li>Engine of the Reformation was literacy more than work ethic.</li></ul></li><li>Learning is likely when people are reactive and growth-oriented:<ul><li>Responding with an improvement lens makes people “moldable,” coachable, teachable.</li></ul></li><li>People hesitate to share helpful input (e.g., food in teeth). <ul><li>Confuse politeness with kindness.</li><li>Politeness = withholding feedback to keep someone feeling good now.</li><li>Kindness = candid feedback for future improvement.</li></ul></li><li>Feedback vs advice: <ul><li>Feedback = how you did last time.</li><li>Advice = how to do better next time.</li><li>Grant replaced feedback questions with “What’s the one thing I can do better?” and got more useful tips.</li></ul></li><li>Example of advice he got: <ul><li>Don’t open with a joke unless you’re sure it will land; bombing amplifies anxiety.</li><li>Open with a personal story to humanize and connect.</li><li>Trying to make it “about the audience” by avoiding talking about yourself can actually distance you.</li></ul></li><li>Being a sponge also means filtering info and choosing coaches wisely.<ul><li>Trustworthiness = care, credibility, familiarity.</li></ul></li><li>Many people overreact to criticism but under-correct.<ul><li>Mellody’s resolution: champions adapt instead.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>Chapter 3 – The Imperfectionists</h4><ul><li>Perfectionists’ three errors: <ol><li>Obsess over trivial details; solve tiny problems instead of the right ones (can’t see forest for trees).</li><li>Avoid unfamiliar/difficult tasks that might lead to failure, so they refine existing skills instead of developing new ones.</li><li>Berate themselves for mistakes, making learning harder.</li></ol></li><li>Purpose of reviewing mistakes: to educate future self, not shame past self.</li><li>Evidence: high personal standards drive growth, not perfection.</li><li>“Do your best” underperforms specific, difficult goals across hundreds of experiments.</li><li>Grant’s judging committees:  <ul><li>Temporary, project-based scaffolding.</li><li>5–7 insiders/outsiders with complementary skills.</li><li>First ask for a score (0–10), then “How can I get closer to 10?”</li><li>Targets: aspirational (e.g., 9) and acceptable (e.g., 8).</li><li>If everyone scores 8, he can be satisfied.</li></ul></li><li>Final self-judge:<ul><li>If this were the only work people saw of you, would you be proud?</li></ul></li></ul><h3>PART II – Structures for Motivation</h3><h4>Tetris and Scaffolding</h4><ul><li>After watching upsetting film clips, people usually have 6–7 flashbacks over the next week.</li><li>Playing Tetris shortly afterward cuts flashbacks in half.<ul><li>Tetris = rotating, moving, dropping blocks; it shields against intrusive thoughts/emotions.</li></ul></li><li>Tetris effect illustrates four features of scaffolding:  <ol><li>Comes from other people.</li><li>Tailored to specific obstacles.</li><li>Arrives at pivotal times.</li><li>Temporary.</li></ol></li></ul><h4>Chapter 4 – Transforming the Daily Grind</h4><ul><li>We’re told to push through long, monotonous practice.</li><li>Best way to unlock hidden potential is not to suffer but to turn the grind into joy.<ul><li>In music, practice is literally called “play.”</li></ul></li><li>Hours required for excellence vary widely.<ul><li>Deliberate practice is especially valuable for predictable tasks with consistent moves (golf swing, Rubik’s cube, violin).</li></ul></li><li>Obsessive workers: <ul><li>Put in longer hours but don’t necessarily perform better.</li><li>Higher risk of burnout and boreout.</li><li>Boreout = emotional deadness from under-stimulation.</li></ul></li><li>Elite musicians: <ul><li>Usually driven by <strong>harmonious passion</strong>: joy in the process, not pressure for outcomes.</li><li>Shift from “I should practice” to “I want to practice.”</li><li>Flow becomes easier; practice enriches life instead of controlling it.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Deliberate play</strong>:  <ul><li>Structured activity designed to make skill development enjoyable.</li><li>Mixes deliberate practice and free play.</li><li>Breaks complex tasks into simpler parts; often in game/role-play/improv form.</li><li>Teachers/coaches often set it up, but you can do it solo.</li></ul></li><li>Examples: <ul><li>Scrabble: drawing random tiles and seeing how many words you can form in a minute.</li><li>Sports: <ul><li>Early specialization often leads to quick peak then burnout.</li><li>Deliberate play organizes around subcomponents (e.g., tennis serves).</li></ul></li></ul></li><li>People with the most discipline often use the least willpower.<ul><li>Angela Duckworth: they change situations to reduce strain instead of just powering through.</li></ul></li><li>Brandon’s drills for Curry: <ul><li>Every drill is a game with time and number to beat.</li><li>If you beat number but not time, you still lose.</li><li>He mixes challenges in 20-minute intervals; variety is motivating and better for learning.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Interleaving</strong>: <ul><li>Alternating between different but related skills leads to faster improvement.</li><li>Works in painting, math, sports, etc.</li><li>Even small variations (different brush thickness, ball weight) help.</li></ul></li><li>Break benefits: <ol><li>Sustain harmonious passion (reduce fatigue, raise energy, even via 5–10 minute micro-breaks).</li><li>Unlock fresh ideas (incubation).</li><li>Deepen learning (10-minute post-learning break improves recall by 10–30%, especially for stroke/Alzheimer’s patients).</li></ol></li><li>Without enjoyment, potential remains hidden.</li></ul><h4>Chapter 5 – Getting Unstuck</h4><ul><li>Ruts and plateaus: <ul><li>Not signs of failure; signs to change direction, path, or fuel.</li><li>Momentum often requires backing up and trying a new road.</li></ul></li><li>Gray &amp; Lindstedt: <ul><li>Over a century of data shows performance often declines after plateau before improving again.</li><li>Seen in Tetris, golf, memorization tasks.</li><li>Backsteps may be necessary when trying new methods.</li></ul></li><li>Trials and errors: <ul><li>Some trials are just errors with bad strategies.</li><li>Even better methods make you worse at first due to inexperience.</li></ul></li><li>NHL example:<ul><li>Teams that experimented with lineups after injuries performed better.</li></ul></li><li>Map vs compass: <ul><li>You don’t need a full map to move; you need a compass (sense of direction and feedback when off course).</li><li>Example: moving from C++ to Python as a better tool for many projects.</li></ul></li><li><strong>What Those Who Can Do Can’t Teach</strong>: <ul><li>Northwestern study of freshmen (2001–2008): <ul><li>Students who took intro classes from experts (tenure-track/tenured) did worse in later courses than those taught by lecturers.</li><li>Held across fields, years, tough/easy grading, and was worst for less-prepared students.</li></ul></li><li>Experts struggle to teach beginners due to: <ul><li>Distance traveled (curse of knowledge).</li><li>Different strengths/weaknesses (their path ≠ your path).</li></ul></li></ul></li><li>Conclusion: <ul><li>Don’t rely only on the most eminent experts for rudimentary instruction.</li><li>Avoid relying on a single guide; you need a range of guides.</li><li>The more uncertain and ambitious the goal, the wider the range of guides needed.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Writing Your Own Guidebook</strong>:  <ul><li>Goal: make guides’ implicit knowledge explicit.</li><li>Ask them to retrace their route, drop pins (landmarks, turning points).</li><li>Ask about crossroads: skills, advice taken/ignored, changes made.</li><li>Share your own path so they can see new avenues for you.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Running on Empty</strong>: <ul><li>After turning back, discouragement is common because progress is invisible.</li><li>Your path might be looping around the mountain, not obviously upward.</li><li>Languishing = the emotional experience of stalling: feeling blah, “every day is Monday,” life in gray.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Taking a Detour</strong>: <ul><li>Serious hobbies at home can raise confidence at work — but mainly if they’re in a different domain.</li><li>Sense of progress is the strongest known driver of daily motivation.</li><li>Sometimes the best way to rekindle momentum is to progress somewhere else.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>Chapter 6 – Defying Gravity</h4><ul><li>When odds are against us, focusing beyond ourselves helps us lift off.</li><li>Viewing hurdles: <ul><li>Threat → withdrawal, giving up.</li><li>Challenge → rising to the occasion.</li></ul></li><li>Studying with knowledgeable colleagues boosts growth. <ul><li>In U.S. intelligence agencies, top-performing teams are those where colleagues frequently teach and coach each other.</li><li>In medical schools, students learn as much from peers as from faculty.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Tutor effect</strong>: <ul><li>Meta-analysis of 16 studies: students randomly assigned to tutor peers score higher on material they teach.</li><li>Works even for novices: teaching solidifies learning.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Coach effect</strong>: <ul><li>Coaching others builds confidence in your own ability to overcome struggles.</li><li>Guiding others through obstacles strengthens your faith in your own resilience.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Lighting a Spark</strong>:  <ul><li>Expectations can become self-fulfilling prophecies.</li><li>High expectations from leaders → employees work harder, learn more, perform better.</li><li>Low expectations → Golem effect, limiting effort and growth.</li><li>For invested goals, doubts from experts feel like threats.</li><li>Doubts from uninformed audiences can motivate you to prove them wrong (underdog effect).</li></ul></li><li>Carrying a torch for others (those who matter to you, future generations) makes it easier to overcome obstacles.</li><li>Example: Alison completing the Adventurers Grand Slam (seven summits + skiing to both poles).</li><li>Key idea: more important to be good ancestors than dutiful descendants.</li></ul><h3>PART III – Systems of Opportunity</h3><ul><li>Chetty’s team linking tax returns with patent records: <ul><li>Children from top 1% income families are 10x more likely to become inventors than those from below-median income families.</li><li>Even math whizzes (95th percentile) from low-income families are no more likely to invent than wealthy kids with below-average math scores.</li></ul></li><li>Source of gap: <ul><li>Wealthy kids have more exposure to innovators around them.</li><li>More guides to provide compass and drop pins.</li><li>They dream bigger and aim higher.</li></ul></li><li>Geography: <ul><li>Some zip codes are innovation hotbeds.</li><li>Moving to high-innovation areas raises kids’ odds of becoming inventors.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>Chapter 7 – Every Child Gets Ahead</h4><ul><li>Finland’s success:  <ul><li>Culture rooted in belief in all students’ potential.</li><li>Schools designed to grow everyone, not just “best and brightest.”</li><li>Among smallest achievement gaps in the world.</li><li>Disadvantage matters less; high rate of high performers + low rate of low performers.</li></ul></li><li>Inspired by Edgar Schein’s iceberg model of culture.</li><li>Reforms:  <ul><li>Teacher recruitment &amp; training overhauled.</li><li>All teachers must complete master’s degrees at top universities.</li><li>Attracted motivated, mission-driven candidates trained in evidence-based practices.</li><li>Teachers are paid well.</li></ul></li><li>Culture change in early 1990s:  <ul><li>New leader pushed for “a new culture of education.”</li><li>Policymakers invited teachers and students to co-define ideal culture.</li><li>Assumption: teachers are trusted professionals.</li><li>Practices introduced to give teachers freedom and flexibility over previously rigid curriculum.</li><li>Teachers: <ul><li>Have autonomy to help students grow.</li><li>Expected to stay current with research and coach each other.</li><li>Don’t waste time teaching to the test.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li><strong>Looping</strong>:  <ul><li>North Carolina study: students with same teacher for two years progressed more.</li><li>Benefits replicated with nearly a million students in Indiana.</li><li>Looping helped most for less effective teachers and lower-achieving students — they grew together.</li><li>Finland: looping extended up to six years with same teacher.</li></ul></li><li>Personalized support in Finland: <ul><li>School leaders monitor progress and well-being of every student.</li><li>Principals expected to teach classes too.</li><li>Each school has a student welfare team (psychologist, social worker, nurse, special ed teacher, principal, classroom teacher).</li></ul></li><li>Finnish school day: <ul><li>Similar length to U.S., but with more breaks.</li><li>Teachers and students have roughly an extra hour of break time.</li><li>Allows teachers to do planning, grading, and development during work hours, not nights/weekends.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Child’s Play</strong>:   <ul><li>Tim’s observation: Finnish kindergartners sit at desks for academics only one day per week.</li><li>Lessons max 45 minutes, followed by 15 minutes recess.</li><li>Short activity breaks improve attention and learning, as research shows.</li><li>Belief: enjoyment of school predicts long-term achievement (UK study: enjoyment at age six → higher test scores at sixteen, controlling for IQ and SES).</li><li>Finnish motto: “The work of a child is to play.”</li><li>In U.S., this is mostly in Montessori; in Finland, mandated for all primary schools.</li></ul></li><li>Example: Finnish kindergarten ice cream shop: <ul><li>Students buy/sell pretend ice cream with Monopoly money.</li><li>Use cash register, take orders, count change.</li><li>Practice proactivity, prosocial behavior, math, and verbal skills.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Keeping the Love</strong>: <ul><li>Me &amp; MyCity experiential program reaches majority of Finnish sixth graders.</li><li>Kari’s view: experiential programs are good, but motivation to read is foundational because reading supports every subject.</li></ul></li><li><strong>A Different Kind of Recess (Reading)</strong>:  <ul><li>Finnish Reading Center found over half of parents felt they didn’t read enough to their kids.</li><li>Solution: free bag of books for every baby born in Finland.</li><li>Having books at home is a start, but not enough.</li><li>Parents need to make books part of life: talk about books, visit libraries/stores, give books as gifts, model reading.</li><li>Children watch where adults’ attention goes.</li></ul></li><li>One failing of English/literature classes: forcing classics instead of letting students choose interesting books. <ul><li>Research: allowing choice and in-class reading builds passion for reading.</li><li>Virtuous cycle: reading for fun → gets better at reading → like it more → learn more → better exam performance.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>Chapter 8 – Mining for Gold</h4><ul><li>Meta-analysis of 22 studies (Anita &amp; colleagues): <ul><li>Collective intelligence depends more on prosocial skills than cognitive skills.</li><li>Best teams have team players skilled at collaboration.</li></ul></li><li>Being a team player: <ul><li>Not about constant harmony.</li><li>About figuring out group needs and harnessing everyone’s contributions.</li></ul></li><li>Some analyst teams underperform because they don’t exchange ideas or coach/learn together.</li><li>Best groups of analysts formed real teams:  <ul><li>Evaluated on collective outcomes.</li><li>Shared goals, distinct roles.</li><li>Dependent on everyone’s input.</li><li>Frequent knowledge sharing and coaching.</li><li>Functioned as “one big sponge” for info.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Babble effect</strong>:<ul><li>We often choose leaders based on who talks most, not who leads best.</li></ul></li><li>Results vs relationships:<ul><li>In cultures that prioritize results, leaders who put people first actually drive better performance.</li></ul></li><li>Example of effective leader: <ul><li>Noted for patience and exceptional listening.</li><li>Reaches conclusions after hearing all sides.</li></ul></li><li>Extraverts vs introverts as leaders: <ul><li>When teams are reactive and wait for direction, extraverts drive best results.</li><li>When teams are proactive and full of ideas, introverts lead them to greater achievements by being receptive to input.</li><li>With “teams of sponges,” best leader is the best listener.</li></ul></li><li>Mine superintendent example: <ul><li>Consultative leadership style.</li><li>Actively sought team input on strategy and explained his reasoning for each decision.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Many Brains Make Light Work</strong>: <ul><li>Brainwriting as an alternative to brainstorming.</li><li>Steps:  <ol><li>Individuals generate ideas alone.</li><li>Pool and share ideas anonymously.</li><li>Each member evaluates individually.</li><li>Team comes together to select/refine best ideas.</li></ol></li><li>This process elevates ideas that might otherwise be ignored.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Barbarians vs Gatekeepers</strong>: <ul><li>Ladders create narrow path to the top.</li><li>Lattices offer multiple cross-level paths.</li><li>Lattices improve access and flow of ideas and influence.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>Chapter 9 – Diamonds in the Rough</h4><ul><li>Mistake: confusing past performance with future potential. <ul><li>We miss people who have climbed steep slopes.</li><li>Need to consider difficulty of their path and how far they’ve climbed.</li></ul></li><li>Meta-analysis of 44 studies (11,000 people):<ul><li>Prior work experience barely predicts job performance.</li></ul></li><li>Past performance is useful only when new job requires similar skills.<ul><li>Eg., study of 38,000 salespeople: <ul><li>Top salespeople more likely to be promoted to manager.</li><li>But sales skills ≠ managerial skills.</li><li>Best managers were the most prosocial (e.g., did collaborative sales).</li></ul></li></ul></li><li>Peter Principle:<ul><li>People get promoted based on prior success until they reach roles where they’re incompetent.</li></ul></li><li>Talent vs character:<ul><li>Natural talent sets starting point; learned character determines how far they go.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Rise over Run</strong>: <ul><li>George Bulman’s study of all Florida high school grads (1999–2002): <ul><li>Freshman GPA predicted nothing about future income.</li><li>Sophomore/junior GPA mattered (each GPA point = 5% more income).</li><li>Senior GPA mattered more (each GPA point = 10% more income).</li></ul></li><li>Most predictive factor: whether grades improved over time.</li><li>Colleges often ignore trajectory by collapsing grades into a single average.</li></ul></li><li>Similar patterns for college completion:<ul><li>Students whose grades improved from freshman to junior year more likely to graduate and less likely to drop out than those whose grades declined.</li></ul></li><li>Skills are best measured by what people can do now, not just what they say or did.<ul><li>Rather than trying to trip people up, give do-overs and see how they adapt and improve.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Epilogue – Going the Distance</h3><ul><li>Langston Hughes lines about dreams and broken-winged birds.</li><li>New evidence: people with bigger dreams often achieve greater things.</li><li><strong>Impostor syndrome</strong> vs <strong>growth mindset</strong>: <ul><li>Impostor: “I don’t know what I’m doing; I’ll be found out.”</li><li>Growth mindset: “I don’t know what I’m doing yet; I’ll figure it out.”</li></ul></li><li>Grant’s view: impostor syndrome can be a sign of hidden potential. <ul><li>You feel others overestimate you, but you’re likely underestimating yourself.</li><li>Others might have recognized growth capacity you can’t yet see.</li><li>If multiple people believe in you, maybe it’s time to believe them.</li></ul></li><li>Many people measure progress by status and accolades. <ul><li>But the most meaningful gains are hardest to count.</li><li>Most meaningful growth = building character, not just careers.</li></ul></li><li>Success = reaching goals <em>and</em> living values. <ul><li>Highest value: aspiring to be better tomorrow than today.</li><li>Greatest accomplishment: unleashing hidden potential.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>Actions for Impact</h4><ul><li>Finland loops in hockey too: <ul><li>Young players stay with same coach until 15.</li><li>Then work with same pro coaches until 20.</li></ul></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Nonviolent Communication: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/nonviolent-communication-marshall-rosenberg</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2025 20:26:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Nonviolent Communication lays out a simple yet profound process for speaking and listening in a way that deepens connection. Instead of reacting with blame, criticism, or defensiveness, NVC teaches you to slow down, get curious, and see the person behind the behavior. It replaces judgment with clarity, and replaces punishment with responsibility.

The framework revolves around four components—observation, feeling, need, request. When you express yourself clearly through these four steps, you avoid the traps that typically escalate conflict. NVC also emphasizes the importance of hearing those same components in others, even when they show up as anger, sarcasm, or withdrawal.

A major theme of the book is reclaiming responsibility for your inner life. Other people may trigger your emotions, but they are never the cause—your unmet needs are. This shift allows you to express yourself without blame and listen without taking things personally.

Beyond interpersonal communication, NVC applies equally to self-talk, anger, parenting, conflict resolution, negotiation, and leadership. It offers a path out of guilt, shame, and obligation and toward action motivated by genuine choice. Ultimately, the book is about learning to relate—from the heart—even when things are hard.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><strong>Core Framework</strong></h3><ul><li>Four components: observations, feelings, needs, requests.</li><li>Two parts: expressing honestly + receiving empathically.</li></ul><h3><strong>1. Giving From the Heart</strong></h3><ul><li>NVC = focus consciousness on observations, feelings, needs, requests.</li><li>Express these four pieces clearly; receive them empathically from others.</li></ul><h3><strong>2. Communication That Blocks Compassion</strong></h3><ul><li>Moralistic judgments, comparisons, and denial of responsibility alienate us.</li><li>“Have to,” “should,” blame, and demands diminish compassion.</li><li>Replace judgment with expressions of needs.</li><li>Responsibility language: move from “have to” → “choose to.”</li><li>Demands = threat of blame/punishment; block connection.</li></ul><h3><strong>3. Observing Without Evaluating</strong></h3><ul><li>Separate observation from evaluation.</li><li>Evaluations lead to defensiveness.</li><li>Use time-specific observations (“When you arrived 15 minutes late…”).</li><li>Avoid exaggerations like always/never when used judgmentally.</li></ul><h3><strong>4. Identifying and Expressing Feelings</strong></h3><ul><li>Express vulnerability to resolve conflict.</li><li>Distinguish feelings from thoughts (“I feel like…” ≠ a feeling).</li><li>Don’t confuse interpretations (“ignored,” “misunderstood”) with feelings.</li><li>Build a vocabulary of actual emotions.</li></ul><h3><strong>5. Taking Responsibility for Our Feelings</strong></h3><ul><li>Others may trigger but never cause our feelings.</li><li>Four options when hearing negative messages:  <ol><li>Blame ourselves</li><li>Blame others</li><li>Sense our own feelings &amp; needs</li><li>Sense others’ feelings &amp; needs</li></ol></li><li>Needs behind feelings: autonomy, integrity, interdependence, play, etc.</li><li>Emotional stages: slavery → obnoxiousness → liberation.</li></ul><h3><strong>6. Requesting That Which Would Enrich Life</strong></h3><ul><li>Use positive, concrete action language.</li><li>Requests must be specific and tied to needs.</li><li>Ask for reflections to ensure clarity.</li><li>Requests sound like demands if rejection triggers guilt or judgment.</li></ul><h3><strong>7. Receiving Empathically</strong></h3><ul><li>Presence = emptying the mind; no advising, correcting, dismissing.</li><li>Listen for the other person’s observation, feeling, need, request.</li><li>Paraphrase only to deepen understanding.</li><li>Empathy first—solutions later.</li><li>When too distressed to empathize, give yourself empathy first.</li></ul><h3><strong>8. The Power of Empathy</strong></h3><ul><li>Harder to empathize with those in power.</li><li>Listening for needs revives dead conversations.</li><li>Interrupt with empathy when a conversation goes lifeless.</li><li>Empathize with silence too.</li></ul><h3><strong>9. Connecting Compassionately With Ourselves</strong></h3><ul><li>Self-judgment (“should”) creates shame and blocks growth.</li><li>Translate judgments into unmet needs.</li><li>NVC mourning + self-forgiveness.</li><li>“Don’t do anything that isn’t play.”</li><li>Replace “have to” with “choose to… because I want…”</li><li>Notice motivations: approval, guilt, shame, duty vs. genuine desire.</li></ul><h3><strong>10. Expressing Anger Fully</strong></h3><ul><li>Separate stimulus from cause.</li><li>Anger = unmet need + judgmental thinking.</li><li>Use anger as a wake-up call.</li><li>Four steps:  <ol><li>Stop/breathe</li><li>Identify judgments</li><li>Connect with needs</li><li>Express feelings + needs</li></ol></li><li>Empathize before expressing anger so others can hear you.</li></ul><h3><strong>11. Conflict Resolution &amp; Mediation</strong></h3><ul><li>Goal = meet everyone’s needs, not compromise.</li><li>Steps: express needs → seek their needs → verify → empathize → propose strategies.</li><li>Needs = universal; strategies = specific actions.</li><li>Keep language present and positive.</li><li>Translate “no” into “need preventing a yes.”</li><li>Empathy before solutions, especially when pain is present.</li></ul><h3><strong>12. Protective Use of Force</strong></h3><ul><li>Protective = prevent injury; punitive = make people suffer.</li><li>Punishment often leads to resentment, not learning.</li><li>Focus on needs, not guilt or shame.</li></ul><h3><strong>13. Internal Conflicts</strong></h3><ul><li>Use NVC internally to navigate depression, self-blame, conflicting needs.</li><li>Translate inner voices into observations, feelings, needs, requests.</li><li>Gratitude dissolves resentment.</li></ul><h3><strong>14. Expressing Appreciation</strong></h3><ul><li>Compliments are often judgments; NVC appreciation is celebration.</li><li>Three components: action, need met, feeling.</li><li>People hunger for genuine appreciation.</li><li>Noticing what works nurtures connection.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Best Books for Building a Better Life (My Shortlist)]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/best-books-for-building-a-better-life</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2025 19:03:27 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A good life isn't built from hacks or breakthroughs. It's built from the ideas you keep returning to. These are the books that shaped how I think about health, wealth, and wisdom.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A good life isn&#x27;t built from hacks or breakthroughs. It&#x27;s built from the ideas you keep returning to—ideas that quietly shape how you think, how you work, and what you choose to do with your time.</p><p>These are the books that have done that for me. Not the &quot;top 100 bestsellers.&quot; Not the &quot;books everyone should read before they die.&quot;</p><p>Just the ones that helped me build a healthier, wealthier, and wiser life—and the ones I still think about years later.</p><p>To organize them, I&#x27;m borrowing a simple framework from Tim Ferriss: <strong>Healthy, Wealthy, and Wise.</strong> A good life tends to require a mix of all three.</p><h2>Healthy: Books That Build a Strong Foundation</h2><p>Most people only think about their health when they lose it. But everything else in life sits on top of this foundation: energy, mood, longevity, and the ability to do the things you care about.</p><p>Only one book truly belongs in this category for me.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/outlive-peter-attia">Outlive</a> — Peter Attia</h3><p>This book clarified longevity in a way that instantly changed my behavior.</p><p>It reinforced two things I already knew—but didn&#x27;t fully appreciate:</p><ul><li><strong>Strength is a form of insurance.</strong></li><li><strong>VO2 max is one of the strongest predictors of long-term health.</strong></li></ul><p>I had been training already, but <a href="/book-notes/outlive-peter-attia">Outlive</a> made it clear <em>why</em> it mattered and what to prioritize. It also pushed me to run proper blood tests, understand my genetics, and figure out the few things I actually needed to adjust in my diet and training environment.</p><p>The biggest motivation for me is simple: When you&#x27;re sick, you only want one thing. When you&#x27;re healthy, you want everything.</p><p>And I want to be healthy for a long time—long enough to live a full life, see future kids grow up, stay active, and keep doing things I love without constant physical limitations.</p><p><strong>Optional add-on</strong>: <em>The 4-Hour Body</em> is chaotic and imperfect, but it was the first book that made me question conventional health advice and experiment for myself.</p><h2>Wealthy: Books That Expand Your Options</h2><p>Money isn&#x27;t the purpose of life, but it makes nearly everything easier. More importantly, it buys the two things that matter most:</p><ul><li><strong>time</strong>, and</li><li><strong>freedom</strong>.</li></ul><p>These books helped me rethink career paths, business building, optionality, and investing.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/the-4-hour-workweek-tim-ferriss">The 4-Hour Workweek</a> — Tim Ferriss</h3><p>This is the book I always return to.</p><p>Not because everything in it is perfect, but because it completely rewired how I see work, freedom, and entrepreneurship.</p><p>Before reading it, I thought the only real entrepreneurial path was building a massive startup. Ferriss opened the door to something different: the idea that you can design a life around what you value, not what society expects.</p><p>It showed me that you can build a business with a <em>non-linear</em> relationship between time and money. That you can travel, spend more time with people you love, and build a life that fits you instead of one you have to squeeze yourself into.</p><p>It&#x27;s still the book I recommend most often.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/just-keep-buying-nick-maggiulli">Just Keep Buying</a> — Nick Maggiulli</h3><p>A simple, refreshing framework for building wealth.</p><p>It clears away 95% of the noise around investing—timing the market, obsessing over stock picks, wondering whether you&#x27;re doing &quot;enough.&quot; The answer, as the title suggests, is largely: <em>stay the course</em>.</p><p>It&#x27;s both a reminder and a roadmap. Great for beginners. Still useful for experienced investors.</p><h3>The Million-Dollar, One-Person Business — Elaine Pofeldt</h3><p>A book full of examples that expand your sense of what&#x27;s possible.</p><p>It shifted my mindset from &quot;entrepreneurship = huge startup&quot; to &quot;a small, focused business can create a great life.&quot; Some books inspire. This one gives you <em>permission</em>.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/million-dollar-weekend-noah-kagan">Million Dollar Weekend</a> — Noah Kagan</h3><p>Momentum. Speed. Action.</p><p>This book is about lowering the psychological barrier to starting something. It reminds you that you don&#x27;t need a perfect idea, a perfect plan, or a perfect moment—you need motion.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/tools-of-titans-tim-ferriss">Tools of Titans</a> — Tim Ferriss</h3><p>A library of useful ideas. It&#x27;s not a book you read once—it&#x27;s one you dip into when you need something specific.</p><p>One idea I still use from it is fasting. But really, <a href="/book-notes/tools-of-titans-tim-ferriss">Tools of Titans</a> is less about specific tactics and more about exposure to people who think differently.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/mastery-robert-greene">Mastery</a> — Robert Greene</h3><p>One of the few books that explains what skill actually requires.</p><p>It made me understand that becoming great at anything is a long, uneven journey. <a href="/book-notes/mastery-robert-greene">Mastery</a> reframes expectations. It helps you be patient with slow progress and deliberate with practice.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/steal-like-an-artist-austin-kleon">Steal Like an Artist</a> — Austin Kleon</h3><p>This book gave me permission to stop obsessing over originality.</p><p>Everything is a remix. You learn by borrowing, experimenting, and slowly finding your own style. It&#x27;s a great book for anyone who creates, writes, or makes things on the internet.</p><h2>Wise: Books That Improve Your Thinking and Reduce Mistakes</h2><p>Wisdom is about avoiding ruin, thinking clearly, and navigating life without unnecessary suffering. Most of the books that changed me the most sit in this category.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/antifragile-nassim-nicholas-taleb">Antifragile</a> — Nassim Nicholas Taleb</h3><p>The most influential book I&#x27;ve ever read.</p><p>The core idea is simple: <strong>Expose yourself to positive non-linearities and avoid negative ones.</strong></p><p>Many real-world opportunities follow power laws. Some decisions can&#x27;t hurt you much but can help you enormously. Others can help a bit but destroy you completely.</p><p>This book influenced nearly every major choice in my career:</p><ul><li>why I pursued tech</li><li>why I started creating things online</li><li>why I left a traditional career path</li><li>why I structure my finances the way I do</li></ul><p>I reread it every year because the ideas keep getting more relevant.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/the-obstacle-is-the-way-ryan-holiday">The Obstacle Is the Way</a> — Ryan Holiday</h3><p>A modern interpretation of Stoicism.</p><p>Holiday&#x27;s talent is showing how ancient principles apply to modern problems. The idea is simple: the thing that slows you down or causes friction is often the thing you need to move through, not around.</p><p>Whenever I hit a difficult patch—personally or professionally—this book helps me see the challenge more clearly.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/the-art-of-the-good-life-rolf-dobelli">The Art of a Good Life</a> — Rolf Dobelli</h3><p>A collection of mental models for a calmer, clearer life.</p><p>There&#x27;s no single big idea here—just dozens of helpful tools you can revisit anytime. I find something new every time I come back to it.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/siddhartha-hermann-hesse">Siddhartha</a> — Hermann Hesse</h3><p>A short, beautiful book about simplicity, patience, and perspective.</p><p>The line I always return to is:</p><p><strong>&quot;I can think, I can wait, I can fast.&quot;</strong></p><p>It&#x27;s a reminder that you can always return to the basics. No matter what&#x27;s happening in life, you can reflect, be patient, and simplify.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/turning-pro-steven-pressfield">Turning Pro</a> — Steven Pressfield</h3><p>Switching from &quot;I hope this works&quot; to &quot;I show up either way.&quot;</p><p>Identity-level discipline. Very short. Very direct.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/the-war-of-art-steven-pressfield">The War of Art</a> — Steven Pressfield</h3><p>The best book ever written about creative resistance.</p><p>If you&#x27;ve ever put something off—not because it&#x27;s hard, but because it matters—this book explains why.</p><h3><a href="/book-notes/the-rational-optimist-matt-ridley">The Rational Optimist</a> — Matt Ridley</h3><p>A grounded case for optimism.</p><p>When the world feels chaotic, this book reminds you that progress is the actual default of human history. It&#x27;s a helpful counterweight to modern pessimism.</p><h2>How These Books Changed My Life</h2><p>These books didn&#x27;t just give me ideas—they changed how I live.</p><ul><li><a href="/book-notes/antifragile-nassim-nicholas-taleb"><strong>Antifragile</strong></a> taught me to seek positive asymmetries and avoid hidden downsides. It influenced my career moves, how I take risk, and how I build things.</li><li><a href="/book-notes/outlive-peter-attia"><strong>Outlive</strong></a> clarified what matters for long-term health. It helped me train smarter, eat better, and stay proactive instead of reactive.</li><li><a href="/book-notes/the-4-hour-workweek-tim-ferriss"><strong>The 4-Hour Workweek</strong></a> completely changed my worldview. It opened the door to entrepreneurship and gave me the tools—and confidence—to design my own path.</li><li><a href="/book-notes/just-keep-buying-nick-maggiulli"><strong>Just Keep Buying</strong></a> helped me remove stress around investing and stay focused on long-term habits.</li><li><a href="/book-notes/mastery-robert-greene"><strong>Mastery</strong></a>, <a href="/book-notes/tools-of-titans-tim-ferriss"><strong>Tools of Titans</strong></a>, <a href="/book-notes/steal-like-an-artist-austin-kleon"><strong>Steal Like an Artist</strong></a>, and others gave me principles I still use in daily decisions, creative work, and life design.</li><li><a href="/book-notes/siddhartha-hermann-hesse"><strong>Siddhartha</strong></a> grounds me whenever life feels noisy.</li><li><a href="/book-notes/the-obstacle-is-the-way-ryan-holiday"><strong>The Obstacle Is the Way</strong></a> helps me stay steady when things get difficult.</li></ul><p>These books shaped my beliefs about work, opportunity, health, risk, and what a good life looks like.</p><h2>A Belief I Changed Because of These Books</h2><p>For a long time, I believed in the traditional path—career ladders, stable jobs, predictable systems. These books challenged that.</p><p><a href="/book-notes/the-4-hour-workweek-tim-ferriss">The 4-Hour Workweek</a> showed me a different kind of life was possible. Antifragile showed me why &quot;safe&quot; paths can be fragile. <a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">Atomic Habits</a> reminded me that environment often matters more than discipline.</p><p>Together, they taught me to question default assumptions and design a life that fits me, not a template handed to me.</p><h2>Which Book Should More People Actually Apply?</h2><p>If I had to choose one: <a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear"><strong>Atomic Habits</strong></a>.</p><p>Most people underestimate how much their environment shapes their behavior:</p><ul><li>weights next to the desk</li><li>a walking pad for calls</li><li>living closer to a gym</li><li>fewer cues that trigger bad habits</li></ul><p>Design your environment well, and discipline becomes a bonus, not a requirement.</p><h2>How to Use Books to Build a Better Life</h2><p>Books only matter if they change what you do tomorrow.</p><p>Here&#x27;s the simple system I follow:</p><ul><li><strong>Read slowly.</strong> Pay attention to what resonates.</li><li><strong>Capture the idea.</strong> A quote, a principle, a question.</li><li><strong>Test one thing.</strong> One habit, one shift, one small experiment.</li><li><strong>Reread the important ones.</strong> The books that matter get better with time.</li></ul><p>It&#x27;s not about reading more. It&#x27;s about rereading the right things.</p><h2>If you want my full notes…</h2><p>You can find all my book notes on my site. They&#x27;re updated regularly, and I link out to the ones mentioned here if you want to go deeper.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The E-Myth Revisited: Why Most Small Businesses Don't Work and What to Do About It]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[This book dismantles the romantic myth of the lone entrepreneur. It says most small business owners are actually technicians who got tired of working for someone else and decided to “go out on their own.” They assume that understanding the technical work of a business means they understand the business itself. That fatal assumption leads them into a trap: they build jobs for themselves instead of businesses.

To explain why this happens, the book introduces three personalities inside every owner: the Entrepreneur (visionary), the Manager (organizer), and the Technician (doer). Most owners are dominated by the Technician—70% or more—so they focus on “doing the work” and neglect the vision, systems, and structure their business needs to grow. As a result, their companies get stuck in Infancy or chaotic Adolescence, and rarely reach true Maturity.

The core idea is the “Turn-Key Revolution”: the shift to viewing your business as a prototype that could be replicated thousands of times, like a franchise. The real product isn’t your commodity—pies, financial plans, software, whatever—but your business itself: the predictable, systematized way you deliver value. Instead of relying on extraordinary people, you build extraordinary systems that ordinary people can run.

From there, the book lays out the Business Development Process: Innovation, Quantification, and Orchestration. You experiment to find better ways to do things, measure their impact, and then lock in what works through clear procedures and standards. This process is applied across seven key areas: your Primary Aim, Strategic Objective, Organizational Strategy, Management Strategy, People Strategy, Marketing Strategy, and Systems Strategy.

Ultimately, the book zooms out beyond business mechanics. It argues that a small business can be a dojo—a training ground for self-knowledge and growth. The purpose is not just profit; it’s to create meaning by caring deeply about the work, the people, and the systems you build. The business becomes a way to confront your own chaos, bring order to it, and build a world of your own.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Foreword &amp; Introduction</h3><ul><li>Great businesspeople are defined by their relentless need to know more, not by what they already know.</li><li>Failing owners often spend their energy defending what they think they know instead of examining it.</li><li>Great businesses are built from many small, “boring” things done exactly right, with intention.</li><li>Paying attention to these small things creates an essence that separates great businesses from mediocre ones.</li><li>Survival and success don’t require superhuman traits; they require knowing what to do.</li></ul><p><strong>Key Ideas Introduced:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Idea #1 – The E-Myth</strong> <ul><li>Myth: small businesses are started by entrepreneurs risking capital for profit.</li><li>Reality: most are started for reasons unrelated to true entrepreneurship.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Idea #2 – The Turn-Key Revolution</strong> <ul><li>A revolution in small business: who starts businesses, how they’re run, and how long they survive.</li><li>Called the Turn-Key Revolution.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Idea #3 – Business Development Process</strong> <ul><li>At the heart of the Turn-Key Revolution is the Business Development Process.</li><li>When systematized and applied, it can transform any small business.</li></ul></li><li><strong>Idea #4 – Step-by-Step Application</strong> <ul><li>The Business Development Process can be applied by any owner, step-by-step.</li><li>It becomes a predictable way to create results and vitality if given time and attention.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>Part I – The E-Myth and American Small Business</h3><h4>1. The Entrepreneurial Myth</h4><ul><li>Huxley quote: people intoxicate themselves with work to avoid seeing themselves clearly.</li><li>Technicians suffering an Entrepreneurial Seizure take work they love and turn it into a job.</li><li>The work loses its specialness and becomes a chore among many others.</li><li>Stages experienced by such technicians:  <ul><li>Exhilaration</li><li>Terror</li><li>Exhaustion</li><li>Despair</li></ul></li><li>Fatal Assumption: understanding technical work = understanding a business that does it.</li></ul><h4>2. The Entrepreneur, The Manager, and The Technician</h4><ul><li>The owner is a three-way battle between Entrepreneur, Manager, Technician—no one wins unless integrated.</li></ul><p><strong>The Entrepreneur:</strong></p><ul><li>Turns trivial situations into opportunities.</li><li>Visionary, dreamer, catalyst.</li><li>Lives in the future; happiest imagining “what-if” and “if-when.”</li></ul><p><strong>The Manager:</strong></p><ul><li>Lives in the past.</li><li>Craves order where the Entrepreneur thrives on change.</li><li>Without the Manager, there is no planning, order, or predictability.</li></ul><p><strong>The Technician:</strong></p><ul><li>The doer; motto: “If you want it done right, do it yourself.”</li><li>Loves to tinker and do, not to dream.</li><li>Lives in the present; loves the feel of work and getting things done.</li><li>Typical owner mix: ~10% Entrepreneur, 20% Manager, 70% Technician.</li><li>The Entrepreneur’s role: envision the business as something apart from the owner, ask why this business, and not another.</li></ul><h4>3. Infancy: The Technician’s Phase</h4><ul><li>Infancy ends when the owner realizes the business can’t continue as-is and must change to survive.</li><li>At that point, many owners quit—lock the door and walk away.</li><li>The rest move into Adolescence.</li><li>Business in Infancy = owner and business are the same.</li><li>If the business depends on you, you have a job, not a business—and a terrible job at that.</li><li>To move forward, the Technician must let go and make room for the rest of the self.</li><li>Adolescence begins when the owner decides to get some help.</li></ul><h4>4. Adolescence: Getting Some Help</h4><ul><li>Triggered by a crisis in Infancy.</li><li>Owner hires help but often abdicates responsibility instead of managing.</li><li>“Harry,” the helper, is also a Technician and needs clarity:  <ul><li>Why he’s doing what he’s doing.</li><li>The results he’s accountable for.</li><li>Standards for evaluating his work.</li><li>Where the business is going and how his role fits.</li></ul></li><li>Without management, the business goes into a tailspin.</li><li>As the business grows beyond the owner’s Comfort Zone, three options emerge: <ol><li>Return to Infancy (“getting small”).</li><li>Go for broke (grow until self-destruction).</li><li>Hang on for dear life (Adolescent Survival).</li></ol></li></ul><p><strong>Getting Small Again:</strong></p><ul><li>Owner shrinks operations to regain control.</li><li>Over time, the business atrophies and dies.</li></ul><p><strong>Going for Broke:</strong></p><ul><li>Keep growing with no structure until the business collapses under its own momentum.</li></ul><p><strong>Adolescent Survival:</strong></p><ul><li>Owner is strong-willed, stubborn, and refuses to quit.</li><li>Approaches business as a jungle; fights daily battles.</li><li>Survives through constant effort, but never changes.</li><li>Consumed by the business; eventually the owner, not the business, explodes.</li><li>Planning is essential: asking where you want to be, by when, what capital and people it requires, and what contingencies exist.</li><li>Failures in planning are widespread—few owners have anything written down.</li></ul><h4>5. Beyond the Comfort Zone</h4><ul><li>Comfort Zone = boundary of perceived control.</li><li>Technician’s boundary: how much they can do themselves.</li><li>Manager’s boundary: how many technicians or managers they can handle.</li><li>Entrepreneur’s boundary: how many managers they can engage in pursuing the vision.</li><li>Growth pushes beyond these boundaries, forcing change.</li><li>Without clear roles and planning, chaos escalates.</li></ul><h4>6. Maturity and the Entrepreneurial Perspective</h4><ul><li>Mature businesses know: <ul><li>How they got where they are.</li><li>What they must do to get where they want to go.</li></ul></li><li>Maturity is not a natural consequence of Infancy and Adolescence; it must be designed.</li><li>Companies like McDonald’s, FedEx, Disney started with a mature model.</li><li>The founder with an Entrepreneurial Perspective goes through all stages differently.</li></ul><p><strong>Entrepreneurial vs Technician’s Perspective:</strong></p><ul><li>Entrepreneur:  <ul><li>Asks: “How must the business work?”</li><li>Sees business as a system for outside results (customer, profits).</li><li>Starts with future vision and works backward.</li><li>Envisions whole first, then parts.</li><li>Integrated worldview.</li></ul></li><li>Technician:  <ul><li>Asks: “What work has to be done?”</li><li>Sees business as a place to work for inside results (income).</li><li>Starts with present and hopes to maintain it.</li><li>Envisions parts and constructs a whole.</li><li>Fragmented worldview.</li></ul></li></ul><p><strong>Entrepreneurial Model:</strong></p><ul><li>A model that fulfills needs of a specific customer segment in an innovative way.</li><li>Sees business as a product on a shelf, competing with others.</li><li>Focuses on <em>how</em> it’s done, not just what’s sold.</li><li>Starts with a clear picture of the customer; without it, no business can succeed.</li><li>Technician starts with their own skills and then asks, “How can I sell them?”</li><li>Technician-designed businesses serve the creator, not the customer.</li><li>To the Entrepreneur, the business is the product; to the Technician, the product is the commodity.</li><li>Entrepreneur sees the customer as opportunity; Technician sees them as a problem.</li><li>The task: give your inner entrepreneur a model of a business that works.</li></ul><h3>Part II – The Turn-Key Revolution: A New View of Business</h3><h4>7. The Turn-Key Revolution</h4><ul><li>Systems theory: a system is an integrated whole whose properties can’t be reduced to its parts.</li><li><strong>Business Format Franchise:</strong> provides not just a name, but an entire system of doing business.</li><li>Most founders still believe business success = product success.</li><li>Trade name franchises rely on brand value only—this is less effective in a crowded brand world.</li><li>Business Format Franchise drives growth in franchising:<ul><li>True product is the business itself—<em>how</em> it sells, not what it sells.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>8. The Franchise Prototype</h4><ul><li>Robert Pirsig’s metaphor: precision instruments create near-perfection that feels like magic.</li><li>Franchise Prototype:  <ul><li>A place to conceive and perfect systems.</li><li>The system is <em>derived</em> from building the business, not brought in fully formed.</li><li>Serves Entrepreneur (vision), Manager (order), Technician (technical work).</li><li>Lets the owner feed all three personalities while building a business that works.</li></ul></li></ul><h4>9. Working On Your Business, Not In It</h4><ul><li>Your business is not your life; they’re separate.</li><li>Purpose of your business = serve your life.</li><li>Once you internalize this, you can work on the business with clarity.</li><li>Pretend your business is the prototype for 5,000 more.</li></ul><p><strong>Rules of the Franchise Model:</strong></p><ol><li>Provide consistent value beyond expectations to customers, employees, suppliers, lenders.</li><li>Operate with the lowest possible level of skill so the model is replicable.</li><li>Stand out as a place of impeccable order.</li><li>Document all work in Operations Manuals.</li><li>Provide uniformly predictable service.</li><li>Use a uniform color, dress, and facilities code.</li></ol><p><strong>Value:</strong></p><ul><li>Value is what people perceive it to be.</li><li>Value shows up in small things: words, gestures, price, recognition, help.</li></ul><p><strong>Systems vs Experts:</strong></p><ul><li>Build a business that’s systems-dependent, not expert-dependent.</li><li>Ask: how can I systematically deliver the customer’s desired result?</li></ul><p><strong>Key Questions (Working On, Not In):</strong></p><ul><li>How can I get my business to work without me?</li><li>How can my people work without my constant interference?</li><li>How can I systematize so the 5,000th unit runs as smoothly as the first?</li><li>How can I own my business and still be free of it?</li><li>How can I spend most of my time doing the work I love?</li></ul><h3>Part III – Building a Small Business That Works</h3><h4>10. The Business Development Process</h4><ul><li>Building the Prototype is a continuous Business Development Process.</li><li>Three integrated activities: Innovation, Quantification, Orchestration.</li><li>Where the business is the product, how it interacts with the customer matters more than what it sells.</li></ul><p><strong>Innovation:</strong></p><ul><li>Differentiates your business in the customer’s mind.</li><li>Example: physically touching customers on the arm when asking for something increases positive responses.</li><li>Innovation asks: “What’s the best way to do this?”—knowing the best way will never be found, but better ways will.</li></ul><p><strong>Quantification:</strong></p><ul><li>Innovation without measurement is useless.</li><li>Quantify everything related to how you do business:  <ul><li>Number of customers per day, by time.</li><li>Number of calls, inquiries, purchases.</li><li>Units of specific products sold, by day/time.</li><li>Busiest days and how busy they are.</li></ul></li></ul><p><strong>Orchestration:</strong></p><ul><li>Once you find what works, orchestrate it:  <ul><li>Eliminate discretion at the operating level.</li><li>Standardize behavior to ensure consistent results.</li><li>Discretion is the enemy of order, standardization, and quality.</li><li>If you haven’t orchestrated it, you don’t own it; if you don’t own it, you can’t depend on it; without dependability, you don’t have a franchise.</li></ul></li><li>Craftsperson mindset: quality is harmony, balance, passion, intention, attention—embodied in the work.</li></ul><h4>11. Your Business Development Program</h4><ul><li>A seven-step Program:   <ol><li>Primary Aim</li><li>Strategic Objective</li><li>Organizational Strategy</li><li>Management Strategy</li><li>People Strategy</li><li>Marketing Strategy</li><li>Systems Strategy</li></ol></li></ul><h4>12. Your Primary Aim</h4><ul><li>Volitional acts are defined by purpose and clear aim.</li><li>Exercise: imagine your own funeral and the tape of your life story. What would you want it to say?</li><li>That’s your Primary Aim.</li><li>Ask:    <ul><li>What do I wish my life to look like?</li><li>How do I want my days to feel?</li><li>What do I want to truly know?</li><li>How do I want to be with others?</li><li>How do I want to be thought of?</li><li>What do I want to be doing in 2, 10, 20 years, and at the end of life?</li><li>What do I want to learn (spiritually, physically, financially, technically, intellectually, relationally)?</li><li>How much money will I need, and by when?</li></ul></li><li>Great people know how they got where they are and what they need to do next.</li><li>Don Juan’s warrior vs ordinary man quote: warrior sees everything as a challenge.</li></ul><h4>13. Your Strategic Objective</h4><ul><li>Strategic Objective is not a business plan; it’s a product of your Life Plan and Business Strategy.</li><li>It’s a list of standards that help you measure progress.</li></ul><p><strong>First Standard: Money</strong></p><ul><li>How big is your vision? What will the company’s revenues and profits be when done?</li><li>Key question: how much money do you need—not in income, but in assets—to be free of work?</li><li>Ultimately, there’s one reason to build a business: to sell it.</li><li>Decide how much you want for it (e.g., multiples of earnings) and by when.</li><li>Someone will buy it if it works.</li></ul><p><strong>Second Standard: An Opportunity Worth Pursuing</strong></p><ul><li>The business must be capable of fulfilling your financial standards.</li><li>Does it alleviate a frustration experienced by a large enough group of consumers?</li><li>If not, no matter how exciting, walk away.</li></ul><p><strong>What Kind of Business Am I In?</strong></p><ul><li>Most people answer with the commodity they sell (computers, hot tubs).</li><li>Commodity = what the customer physically walks out with.</li><li>Product = what the customer feels when they leave.</li><li>Great businesses understand and sell that feeling (e.g., Revlon sells hope).</li></ul><p><strong>Who Is My Customer?</strong></p><ul><li>Every business has a Central Demographic Model (most probable customer with defined characteristics).</li><li>Also has a Central Psychographic Model (why they buy, their motivations).</li><li>Demographics = who buys; psychographics = why they buy.</li><li>To know if the opportunity is worth pursuing, you need enough selling opportunities (demographics) and the ability to satisfy perceived needs (psychographics).</li></ul><p><strong>Standards Three and Beyond:</strong></p><ul><li>No fixed number; just necessary questions:  <ul><li>When will the Prototype be completed?</li><li>Where will you do business (local, regional, national, international)?</li><li>How will you operate (retail, wholesale, hybrid)?</li><li>What standards will you insist on (reporting, cleanliness, clothing, management, hiring, firing, training, etc.)?</li></ul></li></ul><h4>14. Your Organizational Strategy</h4><ul><li>Most companies organize around personalities, not functions, leading to chaos.</li><li>Organize around positions and accountabilities.</li><li><strong>Position Contract:</strong> defines:  <ul><li>Results to be achieved.</li><li>Work and accountabilities.</li><li>Standards for evaluation.</li><li>Signature line for the person accepting the role.</li></ul></li></ul><p><strong>Prototyping Positions:</strong></p><ul><li>Create the picture of the finished business, then prototype from the bottom.</li><li>Each position is treated as a mini-franchise.</li><li>As you work <em>in</em> a position, you also work <em>on</em> it: <ul><li>Apply Innovation, Quantification, Orchestration.</li><li>Ask: what best serves the customer, maximizes profit, and creates a good experience for the person in this role?</li></ul></li><li>Gurdjieff’s metaphor: the “driver” must take charge of the horse and carriage—one part of us must direct the others.</li></ul><h4>15. Your Management Strategy</h4><ul><li>“The System is the Solution.”</li><li>A Management System is designed into your Prototype to produce a marketing result.</li><li>The more automatic it is, the more effective the Franchise Prototype.</li></ul><p><strong>Example: Hotel Operations Manual</strong></p><ul><li>Manual = series of checklists, color-coded: <ul><li>Yellow: Room Setup.</li><li>Blue: Guest Support Services (lighting fires, mints on pillows, etc.).</li></ul></li><li>Each room support person receives packages of checklists for their rooms daily.</li><li>Each checklist details the specific steps needed to perform their tasks.</li></ul><h4>16. Your People Strategy</h4><ul><li>“Life games reflect life aims.”</li><li>To get things done, create an environment where doing the work well is more important than not doing it.</li><li>Manager’s respect for the Boss translates into respect for the work.</li></ul><p><strong>Boss’s Philosophy:</strong></p><ul><li>Work reflects who we are inside.</li><li>Sloppy work = sloppy inside; lateness or boredom at work reflects inner state.</li><li>Even menial work can be art when done by an artist.</li><li>Work is not outside us; it’s a mirror of our inner world.</li></ul><p><strong>Three Core Ideas:</strong></p><ol><li>The customer is not always right, but it’s our job to make them <em>feel</em> that way.</li><li>Everyone is expected to work toward being the best at their tasks; if they can’t yet, they should act as if they are until they get there—or leave if unwilling.</li><li>The business is a place where what we know is tested by what we don’t; growth and meaning come from that conflict.</li></ol><ul><li>The business is a dojo—a place to practice being the best we can be.</li><li>The real combat is internal, not between people.</li></ul><p><strong>Rules of the “People Game”:</strong></p><ol><li>Don’t decide what you want people to do then try to create a game around it; the game must come first.</li><li>Don’t create a game you’re unwilling to play yourself.</li><li>Build in ways to win without ending the game; victories keep people engaged.</li><li>Change tactics over time but keep the core ethic intact.</li><li>Don’t expect the game to be self-sustaining; remind people constantly.</li><li>The game must make sense—logic plus emotional commitment.</li><li>Plan for fun occasionally; not all the time, but often enough to look forward to.</li><li>If you can’t think of a good game, borrow one and learn it deeply.</li></ol><p><strong>Hiring Process Example:</strong></p><ul><li>Scripted group presentation of the Boss’s idea, business history, and candidate attributes.</li><li>Individual meetings to discuss reactions, feelings, and fit.</li><li>Scripted phone notification for successful candidates.</li><li>Standard letter for unsuccessful applicants.</li><li>First-day training:   <ul><li>Review Boss’s idea and business systems.</li><li>Facility tour showing systems and interdependence.</li><li>Answer questions clearly.</li><li>Issue uniform and Operations Manual.</li><li>Review Strategic Objective, Organizational Strategy, Position Contract.</li><li>Complete paperwork.</li></ul></li></ul><p><strong>Hierarchy of Systems:</strong></p><ol><li>How We Do It Here.</li><li>How We Recruit, Hire, and Train People to Do It Here.</li><li>How We Manage It Here.</li><li>How We Change It Here.</li></ol><ul><li>The “It” is the stated purpose of the business (e.g., Caring).</li><li>Express the “It” in every action—from answering the phone to taking money.</li></ul><h4>17. Your Marketing Strategy</h4><ul><li>Marketing Strategy starts, ends, lives, and dies with the customer.</li><li>Customers’ buying decisions are irrational; what they want is often different from what you think they want.</li></ul><p><strong>Two Pillars: Demographics &amp; Psychographics</strong></p><ul><li>You can’t know what the customer wants unless you know them better than they know themselves.</li><li>Demographics: who buys.</li><li>Psychographics: why they buy.</li></ul><p><strong>Data Collection Example:</strong></p><ul><li>Use questionnaires in exchange for a free product (e.g., pie).</li><li>Collect: <ul><li>Demographic data (age, income, etc.).</li><li>Psychographic and preference data: <ul><li>Colors, shapes, words.</li><li>Brands of perfume, cars, clothes, jewelry, food.</li></ul></li></ul></li><li>Study ads used by brands your customers already buy from.</li><li>Use that data to design your own messaging.</li></ul><p><strong>Trading Zone:</strong></p><ul><li>Identify where your current customers live.</li><li>Plot addresses, draw a boundary—this is your Trading Zone.</li><li>Buy lists of similar people within that zone.</li></ul><h4>18. Your Systems Strategy</h4><ul><li>A system: set of things, actions, ideas, and information that interact and alter other systems.</li><li>Everything is a system.</li></ul><p><strong>Three Types of Systems:</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Hard Systems:</strong> inanimate (computers, colors, layout).</li><li><strong>Soft Systems:</strong> living or idea-based (people, scripts, processes).</li><li><strong>Information Systems:</strong> measure interactions (inventory, cash flow, sales reports).</li></ol><p><strong>Example Soft System: Selling System</strong></p><ul><li>“80/20” sales rule: top 20% use a system; others don’t.</li><li>Selling system = orchestrated interaction between salesperson and customer.</li></ul><p><strong>Six Steps to a Selling System:</strong></p><ol><li>Identify Benchmarks (decision points).</li><li>Script the words for each Benchmark.</li><li>Create materials for use with each script.</li><li>Memorize scripts.</li><li>Deliver scripts identically.</li><li>Communicate effectively by engaging prospects fully.</li></ol><p><strong>Structure vs Substance:</strong></p><ul><li>Structure = what you do (scripts, materials, clothing).</li><li>Substance = how you do it (tone, presence, delivery).</li></ul><p><strong>Power Point Selling Process Benchmarks:</strong></p><ol><li>Appointment Presentation</li><li>Needs Analysis Presentation</li><li>Solutions Presentation</li></ol><p><strong>Appointment Presentation:</strong></p><ul><li>Purpose: make an appointment, not qualify the customer.</li><li>Uses emotionally compelling language about product (e.g., control over money) rather than commodity.</li></ul><p><strong>Needs Analysis Presentation:</strong></p><ol><li>Reestablish emotional commitment from the initial contact.</li><li>Explain how the meeting will proceed.</li><li>Establish company credibility and personal commitment.</li><li>Describe the system and its benefits (e.g., Money-Controlling System).</li><li>Complete the diagnostic questionnaire.</li><li>Provide initial information and show relevance to future solutions.</li><li>Schedule Solutions Presentation.</li></ol><p><strong>Solutions Presentation:</strong></p><ul><li>Easiest stage if previous steps were done right—the sale is emotionally made.</li><li>Selling is opening, not closing.</li><li>Review prior meetings, go through the Financial Report in detail, ask which option best serves the prospect now, then stay quiet.</li><li>The next person who speaks buys—either the product, or a “no sale.”</li></ul><p><strong>Information System Example:</strong></p><ul><li>Track:  <ul><li>Calls made, prospects reached, appointments scheduled/confirmed/held.</li><li>Needs Analyses scheduled/confirmed/completed.</li><li>Solutions Presentations scheduled/confirmed/completed.</li><li>Number of solutions sold and average dollar value.</li></ul></li><li>This data:  <ul><li>Shows conversion rates between Benchmarks.</li><li>Reveals where each salesperson needs help.</li><li>Differentiates who’s “on the system” vs. off.</li><li>Allows calculation of cost per call, per Benchmark, and per sale.</li></ul></li></ul><h3>19. A Letter to Sarah &amp; Epilogue</h3><ul><li>Freedom is achieved gradually, not in a single leap.</li><li>Existential writers saw meaning as a life-and-death question.</li><li>Meaning comes from caring; we lack meaning because we don’t care deeply about things that matter.</li><li>Many modern cares are insignificant compared to weightier standards.</li><li>We’re not very serious people; our inner chaos shows up as outer chaos.</li></ul><p><strong>Epilogue – Bringing the Dream Back</strong></p><ul><li>Old boundaries and rules are dissolving; new ones arise but don’t stick in a world of accelerated change.</li><li>Result: chaos and disorder—externally and internally.</li><li>The world is not the problem; we are. The world’s apparent chaos mirrors our inner turmoil.</li></ul><p><strong>Small Business as Dojo:</strong></p><ul><li>Dojo: miniature cosmos to confront fears, habits, and reactions.</li><li>Business is like a dojo: <ul><li>It instantly responds to our actions.</li><li>It’s a place to implement ideas that change lives.</li><li>It’s a lab for testing our assumptions about ourselves.</li></ul></li><li>The entrepreneurial revolution is a flight from external chaos into a personally designed world.</li><li>It reflects a yearning for structure, form, control, and a deeper relationship with ourselves and the world.</li><li>We can’t change our lives by starting “out there”; we must start “in here” with a small world we can study—like a small business.</li></ul><p><strong>Chinese Proverb:</strong></p><ul><li>When you hear something, you forget it.</li><li>When you see something, you remember it.</li><li>When you do something, you understand it.</li></ul><p>The small business is where you <em>do</em>—and finally understand.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Quit: The Power of Knowing When to Walk Away]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[This book is a systematic defense of quitting in a world that worships perseverance. Annie Duke argues that most of us quit too late, not too early, because we overvalue grit, underestimate uncertainty, and ignore the hidden cost of sticking with the wrong things. She makes the case that quitting is not the opposite of success—it’s often the prerequisite for it.

A central theme is that we make decisions under uncertainty with incomplete information. As we get new information, we should update our beliefs and be willing to walk away. The problem is that our brains are wired with biases—loss aversion, sunk cost, endowment, status quo bias, identity, and optimism—that make it emotionally painful to quit, even when the rational expected value is clearly negative.

To counteract those forces, Duke offers tools: thinking in expected value, “monkeys and pedestals” to focus on the hardest problem first, and “kill criteria” that combine clear states and dates for when you’ll exit. She also emphasizes the value of exploration and optionality: even when something is going well, you should still be looking around, building skills and options so you’re not trapped when circumstances change.

The book also tackles the emotional and social side of quitting. We tie our identity to our beliefs, projects, and careers, then feel like quitting means we’re admitting failure or inconsistency. We overestimate how harshly other people will judge us, and we confuse being “nice” with avoiding uncomfortable truths. Duke suggests deliberately recruiting a quitting coach—someone who cares about your long-term interests more than your short-term feelings.

Finally, she reframes failure and waste. Failure isn’t stopping before the finish line; it’s continuing down a path that no longer has a positive expected value. Waste isn’t what you’ve already spent—you can’t get that back—it’s the extra time and money you keep pouring into a losing cause. Quitting, done well, is how you stop that waste and redirect yourself toward better opportunities.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Section I – The Case for Quitting</h3><p><strong>Chapter 1 – The Opposite of a Great Virtue Is Also a Great Virtue</strong></p><ul><li>We celebrate people who respond to adversity by “soldiering on,” but quitters are invisible.</li><li>If we don’t see or study good quitting decisions, it’s hard to learn from them.</li><li>Quitting a course of action is sometimes the best way to “win” in the long run, whether that’s cutting losses at the poker table or getting to climb another day.</li><li>Quit and grit are two sides of the same decision: what to continue and what to walk away from.</li><li>Real-world decision-making happens under uncertainty: <ul><li>The world is stochastic (probabilistic); even good choices sometimes lead to bad outcomes.</li><li>We lack complete information when we decide.</li><li>After we act, new information shows up—facts, new models, preference changes, or observed outcomes.</li></ul></li><li>Quitting is the tool that lets us react to that new information and adjust course.</li><li>Sticking is the only way to know for sure how a path would have turned out; quitting requires accepting that we’ll never know what might have been.</li><li>Having the option to quit lets us explore more, learn more, and eventually discover the right things to stick with.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 2 – Quitting On Time Usually Feels Like Quitting Too Early</strong></p><ul><li>The story of Glitch (Tiny Speck) illustrates that <strong>quitting on time feels like quitting too early</strong>.</li><li>When it’s objectively right to quit, nothing catastrophic is necessarily happening at that moment.</li><li>Getting the timing right means glimpsing the range of future outcomes and concluding the odds of success are too low.</li></ul><p><em>Thinking in Expected Value</em></p><ul><li>To decide whether to stick or quit, you need an educated guess at the probability of good vs bad outcomes.</li><li>Expected value (EV) helps answer: <ul><li>Is this option positive or negative for me in the long run?</li><li>Which of my options has the highest expected value?</li></ul></li><li>EV calculation: identify reasonable outcomes, estimate their probabilities, multiply by their payoffs, and sum.</li><li>Step 1: ask if the course of action (new or ongoing) has <strong>positive EV</strong>.</li><li>Step 2: compare that EV to other options, acknowledging limited time, attention, and money.</li><li>If another path has higher EV, switching will likely get you to your goals faster.</li><li>EV applies beyond money: to marriage, where to live, happiness, health, and quality of life.</li></ul><p><em>Examples &amp; Heuristics</em></p><ul><li>Stewart Butterfield recognized that the probability of Glitch becoming a unicorn was too low to justify continued effort.</li><li>A coaching conversation with a woman unhappy in her job: <ul><li>Staying: 100% probability of being unhappy in a year.</li><li>Switching: &lt;100% probability of being unhappy, with some chance of fulfillment.</li><li>This showed that switching had higher EV even with uncertainty.</li></ul></li><li>EV can be measured in health, well-being, happiness, time, fulfillment, relationships, etc.</li></ul><p><em>Empirical Evidence on Quitting</em></p><ul><li>Economist Steven Levitt studied people making big decisions via coin flips.</li><li>Follow-ups at two and six months showed that, for big decisions, people who quit were happier on average than those who stuck.</li><li>People generally quit too late.</li><li>Rule of thumb: If the choice between quitting and persevering feels like a close call, <strong>quitting is likely the better option</strong>.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 3 – Should I Stay, or Should I Go?</strong></p><p><em>Paper Gains and Paper Losses</em></p><ul><li>Behavior of 1990s NYC cab drivers matched patterns described by Kahneman and Tversky’s prospect theory.</li><li>Prospect theory: a model of decision-making under risk that accounts for systematic biases.</li><li>Key concept: <strong>loss aversion</strong>—losses hurt about twice as much as equivalent gains feel good.</li><li>When deciding fresh, loss aversion makes us prefer options with lower chance of loss; it makes us <strong>risk averse</strong> and can stop us from starting.</li><li>Once we have paper losses, we become <strong>risk seeking</strong>; we avoid locking in losses.</li><li>Kahneman called this tendency <strong>sure-loss aversion</strong>.</li><li>Sure-loss aversion makes us resist quitting something we’ve already started because quitting would “realize” the loss.</li><li>Continuing keeps alive the hope of avoiding that realized loss.</li><li>Revised aphorism: <strong>Quitting on time usually feels like quitting too early, especially when you’re in the losses.</strong></li></ul><p><em>Quit While You’re Ahead?</em></p><ul><li>Culturally, there’s tons of anti-quitting advice, but “Quit while you’re ahead” is a rare pro-quitting slogan.</li><li>It’s often bad advice because it amplifies irrationality: we lock in small gains even when the game has positive EV.</li><li>Reasonable only when the underlying game is negative EV (e.g., casino games like baccarat or craps).</li><li>Better advice: <strong>Quit while you’re ahead when the game is a losing long-run proposition</strong>.</li><li>If EV is negative, quit; if EV is positive, keep going, regardless of short-term gains or losses.</li></ul><p><em>Take the Money and Run (Retail Traders)</em></p><ul><li>Retail traders show the same pattern: <ul><li>They set stop-loss (to cap losses) and take-profit orders (to lock gains).</li><li>They tend to ignore stop-losses (keep losers) and honor take-profits (cut winners).</li></ul></li><li>Adhering to stop-loss forces realization of a loss, which is emotionally painful.</li><li>Take-gain orders keep gains at risk once triggered; they’re used less rationally.</li></ul><p><em>How Smart Is the Smart Money?</em></p><ul><li>Even experts struggle with quitting: <ul><li>Experienced cab drivers are better at quitting than new ones, but not perfect.</li><li>In investing, portfolio managers outperform on buying decisions but underperform on selling.</li></ul></li><li>Experts earn excess returns on buys but lose basis points on sells, to the point that <strong>random selling from the portfolio would have been better</strong>.</li><li>When buying, they focus on future potential; when selling, they neglect careful EV analysis.</li><li>Best strategy: examine <strong>all holdings</strong> and sell the ones with the lowest future EV, not just the extreme winners/losers.</li></ul><p><em>Feedback Problem in Quitting</em></p><ul><li>We naturally track what we’re doing; we see outcomes on the path we’re in.</li><li>Once we quit, we: <ul><li>Lack data on what <em>would</em> have happened if we stuck (counterfactual).</li><li>Tend to stop paying attention entirely (“out of sight, out of mind”).</li></ul></li><li>This lack of feedback makes it harder to improve our quitting skill.</li></ul><p><em>Chapter 3 Summary Points</em></p><ul><li>Loss aversion: losses feel worse than equivalent gains feel good.</li><li>Loss aversion makes us risk averse at the start.</li><li>In gains, we quit too early; in losses, we stick too long (sure-loss aversion).</li><li>Retail investors quit winners and hold losers.</li><li>Even expert investors underperform on selling decisions.</li><li>We get feedback on what we do, but not on what we quit, which hinders learning about quitting.</li></ul><h3>Section II – In the Losses</h3><p><strong>Chapter 4 – Escalating Commitment</strong></p><ul><li>When in the losses, we’re more likely not only to stick to a losing course of action but to <strong>double down</strong>.</li><li>This is <strong>escalation of commitment</strong>.</li><li>Escalation is robust and universal: individuals, organizations, governments.</li><li>It appears in high-stakes and low-stakes situations, showing how pervasive and deep the error is.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 5 – Sunk Cost and the Fear of Waste</strong></p><p><em>The Sunk Cost Effect</em></p><ul><li>A rational decision-maker should only consider future costs and benefits. <ul><li>If continuing has positive EV, persist.</li><li>If negative EV, quit.</li></ul></li><li>The sunk cost effect: people consider past, irrecoverable costs when deciding whether to continue.</li><li>This causes people to stick to situations they should quit.</li></ul><p><em>Katamari Relationships &amp; Mental Accounts</em></p><ul><li>Example: dysfunctional relationships. <ul><li>People say “I’ve put so much time into this relationship” or “I’ve put my heart and soul into it.”</li><li>The more time invested, the less likely they are to leave, so they keep investing, making it even harder to quit.</li><li>The relationship accumulates living arrangements, shared friends, pets, property—like a Katamari rolling up more mass.</li></ul></li><li>Starting something opens a mental account; quitting closes it. <ul><li>In poker: starting a hand or sitting in a game opens accounts.</li><li>In life: jobs, relationships, investments.</li></ul></li><li>We don’t like closing accounts in the losses. <ul><li>Folding means realizing money lost in the pot.</li><li>Leaving a losing game means walking away with less than you started.</li><li>Quitting a job/relationship feels like wasting the time and effort invested.</li></ul></li><li>Rational perspective: maximize EV <strong>across all accounts</strong>, not per account. <ul><li>Across a portfolio, some investments win, some lose.</li><li>What matters is whether the <strong>portfolio as a whole</strong> is up.</li></ul></li><li>Poker players remind themselves “poker is one long game”; life is also one long game.</li></ul><p><em>Chapter 5 Summary Points</em></p><ul><li>Sunk cost effect: we let past investments influence future decisions.</li><li>It keeps us stuck in situations we should leave.</li><li>Fear of “waste” is central: we don’t want to feel like time/money/effort was wasted.</li><li>Phrases like “I’ll have wasted years of my life” are a red flag for sunk cost thinking.</li><li>Sunk costs snowball: prior investment → harder to quit → more investment → even harder to quit.</li><li>We dislike closing accounts in the losses.</li><li>Knowing about sunk costs doesn’t fully protect us from them.</li><li>You can’t easily “reset” your brain by pretending it’s a fresh decision.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 6 – Monkeys and Pedestals</strong></p><p><em>Monkeys and Pedestals Model</em></p><ul><li>Advice distilled: <ul><li>Figure out the hard thing first.</li><li>Try to solve that as quickly as possible.</li><li>Beware of false progress.</li></ul></li><li>Pedestals: tasks you already know you can solve (e.g., logos, business cards).</li><li>Monkey: the hardest, most uncertain part of the problem.</li><li>Building pedestals creates an illusion of progress if the monkey is actually impossible or too hard.</li></ul><p><em>Tackling the Monkey First</em></p><ul><li>Solving the monkey first gets you to “no” quickly.</li><li>Reduces time, effort, and money sunk into dead-end projects.</li><li>When we hit a hard problem, we often revert to pedestal-building instead of confronting that we might need to quit.</li></ul><p><em>Kill Criteria</em></p><ul><li>Advance planning and precommitment can help you quit sooner.</li><li>When entering an endeavor, ask: <ul><li>What signs would tell me it’s no longer worth pursuing?</li><li>What could I learn about the world or myself that would change my commitment?</li></ul></li><li>Premortem: imagine failure and work backward to identify contributing factors; use these to craft kill criteria.</li></ul><p><em>States and Dates</em></p><ul><li>Good kill criteria combine a <strong>state</strong> (a measurable condition) and a <strong>date</strong> (a time bound).</li><li>Examples: <ul><li>“If I haven’t achieved X by Y date, I’ll quit.”</li><li>“If by the time I’ve spent Z resources I haven’t hit target A, I should exit.”</li></ul></li><li>This can be applied to relationships (e.g., commitment by a certain time) and projects, jobs, etc.</li></ul><p><em>Better, Not Perfect</em></p><ul><li>In poker, Duke used: <ul><li>Stop-losses (quit after losing a certain amount).</li><li>Session length limits (quit after 6–8 hours).</li><li>Conditions on game quality (quit if the table lineup worsened).</li></ul></li></ul><p><em>Chapter 6 Summary Points</em></p><ul><li>Monkeys and pedestals is a mental model to help you quit sooner.</li><li>Pedestals = easy, already-solvable parts; monkey = the hard problem.</li><li>Identify the hard part first, solve it fast, and beware of false progress.</li><li>Doing easy tasks is wasted effort if the hard part is impossible.</li><li>Tackling the monkey first limits sunk costs and makes quitting easier.</li><li>We tend to build pedestals when we hit hard problems instead of quitting.</li><li>Advance planning and precommitment (kill criteria) support better quitting.</li><li>Kill criteria reduce the number of emotional decisions in gains/losses.</li><li>In organizations, kill criteria reward rational exits instead of blind persistence.</li><li>States and dates are a simple, common framework for kill criteria.</li></ul><h3>Section III – Identity and Other Impediments</h3><p><strong>Chapter 7 – You Own What You’ve Bought and What You’ve Thought: Endowment and Status Quo Bias</strong></p><p><em>Endowment Effect &amp; IKEA Effect</em></p><ul><li>Endowment effect: we value something more just because we own it.</li><li>It applies to physical objects (wine, cars, houses) and to decisions about whether to sell (quitting ownership).</li><li>Research shows we can become endowed to <strong>beliefs, ideas, and decisions</strong> too.<ul><li>“We own what we’ve bought and what we’ve thought.”</li></ul></li><li>IKEA effect: we value things we built ourselves even more.</li><li>Starting with easy parts (pedestals) creates both sunk costs and endowment, making quitting harder.</li></ul><p><em>Status Quo Bias &amp; Omission-Commission Bias</em></p><ul><li>Status quo bias: preference for paths we’re already on or ways we’ve always done things.</li><li>We view switching as a new, active decision; sticking as non-decision.</li><li>We’re more concerned about bad outcomes from action (commission) than from inaction (omission).</li><li>This omission-commission bias leads us to tolerate poor outcomes from the status quo more than from new choices.</li><li>One key step to being a better quitter: <ul><li>Stop saying “I’m not ready to decide.”</li><li>Recognize it as “For now, I choose the status quo.”</li></ul></li><li>It’s okay to need more information, but fear of switching shouldn’t freeze you.</li></ul><p><em>Better the Devil You Know</em></p><ul><li>We prefer what we know to ambiguous alternatives, even if the alternative has higher EV.</li><li>Reframing the choice (e.g., 100% certain unhappiness vs some probability of happiness) can make the EV advantage of switching clearer.</li></ul><p><em>Chapter 7 Summary Points</em></p><ul><li>Endowment effect: we overvalue what we own.</li><li>We can be endowed to objects, ideas, beliefs.</li><li>Endowment obstructs quitting by inflating perceived value of what we own or started.</li><li>We prefer the status quo.</li><li>We accept bad outcomes from sticking more than bad outcomes from switching (omission-commission).</li><li>“I’m not ready to decide” really means choosing the status quo.</li><li>Even data-rich environments like professional sports suffer from sunk cost, endowment, and status quo bias.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 8 – The Hardest Thing to Quit Is Who You Are: Identity and Dissonance</strong></p><ul><li>Quitting is hardest when it touches identity—our sense of who we are.</li><li>Our ideas, beliefs, and actions become part of our identity.</li></ul><p><em>Cognitive Dissonance</em></p><ul><li>When new information conflicts with beliefs, we experience dissonance.</li><li>To resolve it, we can: <ul><li>Change the belief, or</li><li>Rationalize away the new information.</li></ul></li><li>We often choose rationalization, preserving identity at the cost of accuracy.</li><li>Dissonance can also arise from conflicts between new information and past actions.</li><li>We want internal consistency between past and present beliefs and behavior.</li><li>We also want others to see us as consistent; we fear being judged as wrong or irrational.</li><li>When we believe our decisions are being evaluated, we <em>think</em> we’ll be more rational, but external evaluation often increases escalation of commitment.</li><li>The more extreme the belief, the more mental gymnastics we’ll do to defend it.</li><li>Facts are more likely to move you away from mainstream consensus than from a fringe belief.</li><li>We often misjudge how others see us, so many irrational non-quitting decisions are based on incorrect fears about how we’ll look.</li><li>Advice: <ul><li>Be picky about what you stick to.</li><li>Persevere in things that matter and move you toward your goals.</li><li>Quit everything else to free resources for what matters.</li></ul></li><li>Tools: identify the hard part first, use kill criteria and precommitment, and enlist outside help.</li></ul><p><em>Chapter 8 Summary Points</em></p><ul><li>Hardest thing to quit is who you are.</li><li>New information vs beliefs/action = cognitive dissonance.</li><li>We often resolve dissonance by rationalizing instead of updating.</li><li>We crave internal consistency and want others to see us as consistent.</li><li>External scrutiny can increase escalation of commitment.</li><li>Extreme positions are harder to abandon; consensus positions can be easier to leave.</li><li>Fears about how others view quitting are usually overblown.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 9 – Find Someone Who Loves You but Doesn’t Care about Hurt Feelings</strong></p><ul><li>Question: Does a founder owe it to employees to persevere? <ul><li>Ron Conway’s answer: life’s too short—for founders and employees.</li><li>If success is no longer realistically on the table, continuing traps employees too.</li></ul></li></ul><p><em>Optimism &amp; Calibration</em></p><ul><li>Study: more optimistic people stick with tasks longer but don’t perform better.</li><li>They quit later, with no performance benefit.</li><li>Optimism helps you persist when it’s worthwhile, but also when it’s no longer worthwhile.</li><li>Optimism overestimates likelihood and magnitude of success, skewing EV.</li><li>Unchecked optimism prevents quitting when you should.</li></ul><p><em>Nice vs Kind; Quitting Coach</em></p><ul><li>Daniel Kahneman’s recipe: “Everyone needs a friend who loves them but doesn’t care much about hurt feelings in the moment.”</li><li>A good quitting coach: <ul><li>Loves you.</li><li>Looks out for your long-term well-being.</li><li>Is willing to tell you hard truths that might hurt in the short term.</li></ul></li><li>Ideally, you both <strong>find</strong> a quitting coach and <strong>serve</strong> as one for people you care about.</li><li>For organizations: <ul><li>Separate decision-makers for starting vs stopping projects when possible.</li><li>This reduces emotional attachment and sunk cost bias.</li></ul></li></ul><p><em>Permission &amp; Process</em></p><ul><li>For a quitting coach to be effective, you must explicitly give them permission to speak hard truths.</li><li>Asking for advice ≠ giving permission.</li><li>Ron Conway’s four-step method:  <ol><li>Let them know you think they should consider quitting.</li><li>When they push back, agree they might turn it around.</li><li>Define clear short-term success metrics and write them as kill criteria.</li><li>Revisit; if benchmarks aren’t met, have a serious quitting conversation.</li></ol></li></ul><p><em>Chapter 9 Summary Points</em></p><ul><li>Optimism can keep you stuck in low-EV options without improving outcomes.</li><li>Life’s too short to spend time on no-longer-worthwhile opportunities.</li><li>Outsiders can usually see your situation more rationally.</li><li>Best quitting coach loves you and prioritizes your long-term interests over short-term comfort.</li><li>Separating “start” and “stop” decision-makers improves quitting decisions.</li><li>Permission is essential for an effective quitting coach.</li></ul><h3>Section IV – Opportunity Cost</h3><p><strong>Interlude III – The Ants Go Marching… Mostly</strong></p><ul><li>Even when something is working, it’s wise to keep exploring other options.</li><li>Jobs, careers, products, strategies, even favorite restaurants: keep looking.</li><li>“Never stop exploring” is a good strategy in an uncertain world.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 10 – Lessons from Forced Quitting</strong></p><ul><li>Defaults and nudges (from Thaler &amp; Sunstein’s <em>Nudge</em>) illustrate how systems can push us into or out of paths without explicit decisions.</li><li>Being forced to quit (e.g., layoffs, business failures) forces exploration of new opportunities.</li><li>Sometimes Plan B is better than Plan A—but we only discover that if we explore.</li><li>We shouldn’t wait to be forced to find a backup plan.</li><li>Even if you have a path you like, keep exploring, because: <ul><li>The world changes.</li><li>You change.</li></ul></li><li>Exploration diversifies your portfolio of skills, interests, and opportunities and protects against uncertainty.</li><li>Backup plans aren’t just safety nets; sometimes they’re upgrades.</li><li>We know that once an account is open, it’s hard to walk away because quitting feels like failure.</li></ul><p><em>Chapter 10 Summary Points</em></p><ul><li>Forced quitting pushes you to explore new options, but you should explore before you’re forced.</li><li>Keep exploring even after finding a path you like; it might stop being the best path.</li><li>Exploration diversifies your portfolio and guards against uncertainty.</li><li>Backup plans can be better than your current plan.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 11 – The Myopia of Goals</strong></p><p><em>The Problem with Pass-Fail Goals</em></p><ul><li>Goals define direction and motivate effort, especially when specific and challenging.</li><li>But goals are pass-fail: you either hit the finish line or not; interim progress can feel irrelevant.</li><li>Fixed goals in a changing world encourage escalation of commitment.</li></ul><p><em>Fixed Objects in a Changing World</em></p><ul><li>We rarely revisit or adjust goals once set; they become “set-and-forget.”</li><li>The finish line stays fixed even when circumstances change.</li></ul><p><em>Every Goal Needs at Least One “Unless”</em></p><ul><li>Add “unless” conditions to make goals flexible and reduce escalation of commitment.</li><li>Examples:  <ul><li>“I’ll pursue this lead unless I can’t get an executive in the room.”</li><li>“I’ll stay in this job unless I’m consistently taking work home and dreading my workday.”</li><li>“I’ll keep developing this product unless I miss benchmarks over the next two months that I’ve set with my quitting coach.”</li><li>“I’ll keep running this marathon unless I break a bone.”</li></ul></li><li>Kill criteria provide the unlesses that help you walk away rationally.</li><li>Poker-specific unlesses:  <ul><li>Stop after losing a certain amount.</li><li>Stop when better players join.</li><li>Stop after a certain number of hours.</li><li>Stop when tired, emotional, or sick.</li></ul></li></ul><p><em>Goal-Induced Myopia &amp; Redefining Failure/Waste</em></p><ul><li>Goals can make you blind to alternative paths and opportunities.</li><li>Quitting triggers two main fears: <ul><li>Fear of having failed.</li><li>Fear of wasting time, effort, money.</li></ul></li><li>Redefinitions: <ul><li>Failure: not stopping before the finish line, but failing to follow a good decision process.</li><li>Success: following good processes (EV, kill criteria, listening to quitting coaches), not just hitting arbitrary goals.</li><li>Waste: forward-looking; continuing to invest in a no-longer-worthwhile path is the real waste.</li></ul></li><li>Progress and learning along the way counts, even if you quit before the goal.</li></ul><p><em>Chapter 11 Summary Points</em></p><ul><li>Goals help achieve worthwhile things but can also fuel escalation when we should quit.</li><li>Goals are pass-fail; progress is undervalued.</li><li>Measure not just goal completion but what you achieved and learned along the way.</li><li>Use intermediate goals and goals that create value even if you miss the final target.</li><li>Goals are proxies for an EV calculation.</li><li>Inflexible goals don’t fit a flexible world.</li><li>Use monkeys and pedestals, kill criteria, quitting coaches, and at least one “unless” per goal.</li><li>When we quit, we fear failure and wasted effort.</li><li>Waste is a forward-looking problem: continuing on a negative-EV path is the real waste.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[GoalsWon Review: Accountability Coaching That Kept Me Focused]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jun 2025 12:12:48 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[My honest review of GoalsWon after 6 months of accountability coaching—including what worked, what didn't, and whether the investment was worth it for staying focused on big goals.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As someone constantly balancing multiple projects, I’m always on the lookout for tools to keep me on track. So when I got the chance to try <strong>GoalsWon</strong>, a 1:1 accountability coaching service with real human coaches, I was intrigued. </p><p>GoalsWon promises daily support to help you hit personal and professional goals, and after trying it out, I’m sharing my honest thoughts on how it worked for me, what stood out, and who might find it valuable. </p><p>(Note: This post includes an affiliate link, meaning I may earn a commission if you sign up through it.)</p><h2><strong>What is GoalsWon?</strong></h2><p>GoalsWon pairs you with a human coach to guide you toward your goals, whether they’re about wellness, work, or personal growth. Unlike apps that rely on AI or automated nudges, GoalsWon is built on real, human connection. Here’s the breakdown:</p><ul><li><strong>Daily human coaching</strong>: Your coach helps you set long-term targets and translate them into actions with daily check-ins.</li><li><strong>Progress tracking</strong>: A streamlined app tracks your progress with clear, motivating visuals.</li><li><strong>Tailored feedback</strong>: Share your daily results, and your coach responds with personalized encouragement or tips.</li><li><strong>Calls with your coach</strong>: An onboarding call lays the foundation, with monthly calls to build your relationship and stay on track.</li></ul><p>You can learn more about <a href="https://www.goalswon.com/?via=graham">GoalsWon here on their website.</a></p><h3><strong>How It Works</strong></h3><p>When you create an account and get started with GoalsWon, you’ll need to set up some goals you want to make progress on. </p><p>‍</p><p>Then you’ll have an onboarding call with your assigned coach, and after that you’ll interact primarily through chat.</p><p>You log your daily progress in the app, and your coach responds with feedback—encouragement, questions, or tips. The process is straightforward, and the app’s design makes it easy to stay engaged.</p><p>Your coach will check in around the same time daily to see how you’re doing on your goals, and give you feedback, or push you (as you prefer) to continue making progress.</p><p>‍</p><h2><strong>My Experience with GoalsWon</strong></h2><p>The app and website are well-designed: clean, simple, and intuitive, which made it easy to set up my three goals: daily exercise, planning a property development project, and working on a web app for my job.</p><p>My coach was great—<strong>enthusiastic and positive</strong>. During our onboarding call, she took time to understand my goals and asked how I wanted feedback: gentle nudges or direct accountability. I opted for a mix, and she delivered perfectly. </p><p>My check-ins happened in the morning, and her upbeat messages were a nice boost at the start of the day. Her energy never felt forced; she seemed like she enjoyed coaching.</p><p>For <strong>daily exercise</strong>, my goal was simple: move every day. I didn’t focus on a specific activity, and the app’s <strong>habit tracker</strong> was great. Seeing my streak build helped, and my coach’s morning check-ins added accountability, asking how I planned to fit exercise in. By the end of a week, I’d exercised six days out of seven, a win I hadn’t expected.</p><p>For my <strong>property development project</strong> in Nova Scotia, I didn’t have a specific focus—more a general need to make progress. Here my coach was helpful in pushing me to clarify next steps. She’d ask, <em>What’s one thing you can do today to move this forward?</em> or <em>When are you planning to have this done?</em> Those prompts forced me to think strategically, even if I was just jotting down ideas or researching zoning laws.</p><p>My <strong>web app goal</strong> was about carving out time to code a tool to streamline some of my work tasks. </p><p>Like exercise, the focus was on planning when I’d work on it each day. The habit tracker helped me visualize my consistency, and my coach’s enthusiasm kept me motivated. </p><p>When I shared that I’d blocked off an hour to code after lunch, she’d respond with, <em>That’s awesome! How’d it go?</em></p><p>One morning, her check-in prompted me to schedule coding before a meeting, ensuring I didn’t push it off. By week’s end, I’d logged five coding sessions, building a rhythm I hadn’t had before.</p><p>GoalsWon sits in a unique niche. It’s more than a habit tracker thanks to the human coaching, but it’s not specialized like a fitness trainer or project consultant. </p><p>It’s general habit coaching, flexible for diverse goals like mine. The accountability is a big step up from going solo—my coach’s daily check-ins kept me honest. </p><p>That said, it takes time to build the rapport you’d have with a gym buddy or colleague. The social spark—casual banter, shared context—is harder to replicate online. </p><p>Still, my coach’s enthusiasm bridged that gap enough to make it work.</p><h2><strong>How GoalsWon Compares to Other Tools</strong></h2><p>GoalsWon stands out when stacked against other tools. Basic habit trackers like Habitify or Notion are great for logging tasks, but they’re self-driven. </p><p>Without my coach’s daily questions—like <em>How will you fit exercise in today?</em>—I’d have skipped more days. </p><p>In-person coaching, like a personal trainer or mentor, offers deeper connection but often comes with higher costs and less flexibility. </p><p>GoalsWon hits a sweet spot: affordable, daily human support, accessible anywhere. </p><p>It’s not a full substitute for face-to-face accountability, but for those without local options, it’s a compelling alternative.</p><h2><strong>Key Features in Detail</strong></h2><h3><strong>Human Coaching</strong></h3><p>The <strong>human coaching</strong> is GoalsWon’s core. You’re working with a real person, not an algorithm. My coach’s enthusiasm and tailored questions—like pushing me to clarify my property project’s next steps—made accountability feel personal and impactful. Having an actual onboarding call helps add context to the chat messages that follow.</p><h3><strong>Daily Support</strong></h3><p><strong>Daily support</strong> is great, and the daily check-in from the coach keeps you honest.</p><h3><strong>A Specific Win</strong></h3><p>GoalsWon helped me stick to my <strong>daily exercise habit</strong>. I wanted to move every day but often let work take over. The habit tracker’s visuals pushed me to plan when I’d exercise, and my coach’s morning check-ins asked how I’d make it happen. Her enthusiasm turned a loose goal into a consistent habit—six days of movement in a week is a great week for me.</p><h3><strong>Calls with Your Coach</strong></h3><p>The <strong>onboarding call</strong> was a highlight. My coach dove into my goals—exercise, property planning, web app coding—and tailored her approach to my lifestyle. <strong>Monthly calls</strong> ensure we can adjust as priorities shift, keeping the process dynamic.</p><h3><strong>Coach’s Status &amp; Onboarding Video</strong></h3><p>GoalsWon leans into the “real people” vibe with a <strong>coach’s status feature</strong> and an <strong>onboarding presentation video</strong>. </p><h3><strong>Holiday Mode</strong></h3><p><strong>Holiday Mode</strong> is a flexible feature, perfect for vacations or busy periods. You can pause all goals—or just some—while keeping others active. </p><p>For example, you could pause work-related goals like coding but maintain personal ones like exercise. </p><p>Coaches adjust their check-ins to match, ensuring support without pressure. While I didn’t use it during my trial, I can see it being useful for a weekend getaway or a hectic workweek.</p><h2><strong>Who’s GoalsWon Best For?</strong></h2><p>GoalsWon is ideal for:</p><ul><li>People who don’t need specialized coaching (like just fitness or project management).</li><li>Those without in-person accountability—no trainer, mentor, or accountability buddy nearby.</li><li>Multitaskers juggling goals like exercise, work projects, or side hustles.</li><li>Anyone needing a daily nudge to stay consistent without feeling micromanaged.</li></ul><p>Picture a freelancer balancing client work and personal goals, a remote worker without local support, or someone like me—planning a property, coding a web app, and trying to exercise daily. GoalsWon fills that gap. It’s less suited for those craving deep, niche coaching (like a marathon coach or business strategist) or the social vibe of in-person accountability, like grabbing coffee with a friend who keeps you in check.</p><h2><strong>How Did It Go?</strong></h2><p>After a week with GoalsWon, I noticed a shift. My exercise habit felt stronger—six days of movement was a win I hadn’t hit in months. </p><p>My property project gained momentum, thanks to my coach’s daily questions pushing me to think about next steps. </p><p>And my web app coding, while still early, became a regular part of my day, driven by planned sessions and my coach’s enthusiasm. </p><p>The daily coaching gave me a structure I didn’t have before. It wasn’t perfect—the online format can’t fully replicate the camaraderie of a colleague or gym buddy—but it didn’t need to be. </p><p>GoalsWon provided the accountability I needed, when I needed it, and that made the trial a success.</p><h2><strong>Wrapping Up</strong></h2><p>GoalsWon delivers a <strong>human-first approach</strong> to accountability with <strong>daily support</strong>, a sharp app, and features like Holiday Mode that flex with your life. </p><p>The coaching—especially my coach’s enthusiasm and thoughtful questions—combined with habit-tracking visuals, made it a standout for building consistency. </p><p>It’s not a full substitute for in-person connection, but for anyone needing a positive, daily push to stay on track, it’s a great tool.</p><p>Ready to try it? Sign up <a href="https://www.goalswon.com/?via=graham">with my affiliate link here.</a></p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Going Infinite by Michael Lewis: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/going-infinite-michael-lewis</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2025 21:26:14 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[As with all Michael Lewis books, this was a very entertaining read. He’s a great writer.He met SBF ~2 years before the collapse of FTX, and so was uniquely positioned to write a book about him. There are details in this book that you won’t find anywhere else, and he tells a great story.Unfortunately, he does seem to be taken in by SBF, and obviously hadn’t come to terms with his guilt by the time he published the book (it was published before the trial had started).Read the book for the entertainment and then read this detailed book review for the missing pieces (including the guilty conclusion).]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Detailed Notes/Favorite Excerpts</h4><h4>2 - The Santa Claus Problem</h4><p>Most Sundays, I’d learn, Joe and Barbara hosted a dinner that guests remember fondly to this day. “The conversation was intoxicating,” recalls Tino Cuéllar, a Stanford law professor who would go on to become a judge on California’s supreme court and then head of the Carnegie Endowment for International Peace. “Fifteen percent of it was what was going on in your life, fifteen percent was politics, and the rest was ideas. How we thought about what we thought about—­aesthetics, music, whatever.”</p><p>The Bankman-­Frieds weren’t big on the usual holidays. They celebrated Hanukkah but with so little enthusiasm that one year they simply forgot it, and, realizing that none of them cared, stopped celebrating anything. “It was like, ‘Alright, who was bothered by this fact? The fact that we forgot Hanukkah.’ No one raised their hand,” Sam said. They didn’t do birthdays, either. Sam didn’t feel the slightest bit deprived. “My parents were like, I dunno, ‘Is there something you want? Alright, bring it up. And you can have it. Even in February. Doesn’t have to be in December. If you want it, let’s have an open and honest conversation about it instead of us trying to guess.’ ” Sam, like his parents, didn’t see the point in anyone trying to imagine what someone else might want. The family’s indifference to convention came naturally and unselfconsciously</p><p>From the widespread belief in God, and Santa, Sam drew a conclusion: it was possible for almost everyone to be self-­evidently wrong about something. “Mass delusions are a property of the world, as it turns out,” he said.</p><p>Sam saw some merits in a certain kind of libertarianism. But he listened to actual libertarians argue why, for instance, they shouldn’t need to pay taxes. And he thought, Yeah, of course no one likes to pay taxes, but that’s not exactly a philosophy. “They blurred the line between libertarianism as a philosophy and selfishness as a philosophy,” he said. His internal wiring didn’t carry this particular signal. “The notion that other people don’t matter as much as I do felt like a stretch,” he said. “I thought it would be bizarre even to think about.” It was one thing to feel isolated; it was another to believe that one’s place of isolation was the center of the universe. Or that you and what happened to you were the only things that mattered. “It felt unambitious to not care about what happened to the rest of the world,” said Sam. “It was shooting too low to only think about what was going to impact me.”</p><p>As Sam would later explain:</p><p>When I was about 12 years old I was first becoming politically aware and started to think through social issues. Gay marriage was a no brainer—­you don’t have to be a hardcore utilitarian to see that making people’s lives miserable because they’re completely harmlessly a little bit different than you is stupid. But abortion was nagging me a bit. I was pretty conflicted for a while: having unwanted kids is bad, but so was murder.</p><p>Then Sam framed abortion as a utilitarian might. Not by dwelling on the rights of the mother or the rights of the unborn child but by evaluating the utility of either course of action.</p><p><em>There are lots of good reasons why murder is usually a really bad thing: you cause distress to the friends and family of the murdered, you cause society to lose a potentially valuable member in which it has already invested a lot of food and education and resources, and you take away the life of a person who had already invested a lot into it. But none of those apply to abortion. In fact, if you think about the actual consequences of an abortion, except for the distress caused to the parents (which they’re in the best position to evaluate), there are few differences from if the fetus had never been conceived in the first place. In other words, to a utilitarian abortion looks a lot like birth control. In the end murder is just a word and what’s impor­tant isn’t whether you try to apply the word to a situation but the facts of the situation that caused you to describe it as murder in the first place. And in the case of abortion few of the things that make murder so bad apply.§</em></p><p>This was how Sam figured out who he was: by thinking about things for himself, without a whole lot of concern for the thoughts of others.</p><h5>3 - Meta Games</h5><p>Approximately zero of MIT’s physics majors became physicists anymore. Most went to work for Google, or for high-­frequency trading firms. Jump Trading, Tower Research Capital, Hudson River Trading, Susquehanna International Group, Wolverine Trading, Jane Street Capital: all these Wall Street companies Sam had never heard of came to the job fair that year inside the MIT gym. And he became just a little curious about them.</p><p>The puzzles that the Jane Street traders gave Sam to solve were designed, like the betting games, to expose blind spots in his mind. The one about baseball was the simplest example. <em>What are the odds that I have a relative who is a professional baseball player?</em> one of the Jane Street traders had asked him.</p><p>Sam’s first thought was to define the problem. If you didn’t define the problem, you couldn’t solve it. “That was one thing he was testing for with the question,” said Sam. “Did I realize that the question was ambiguous?” <em>What counted as a “relative”?</em> he asked the trader. <em>What did he mean by “professional baseball players”?</em> Every human being is related to every other human being, in some sense. And lots of people who are not in the major leagues are paid to play baseball. “Relative,” the Jane Street trader said, was any second cousin or closer, and “pro baseball player” included both major and minor leagues but nothing else. Sam guessed there were roughly one hundred baseball teams that fit that definition, and that each had roughly thirty players. So: three thousand active pro baseball players, plus maybe another seven thousand retired ones. Ten thousand players in a population of three hundred million Americans. So: one in thirty thousand Americans had played or were playing pro baseball. Sam didn’t know off the top of his head how many relatives the average American had, but he thought thirty was a reasonable guess. Thus the odds this guy had a relative who played pro baseball were roughly one in a thousand.</p><p>The numbers were obviously not exactly right, merely a good enough start. But it was here that Sam paused his mental math and said, <em>I think there’s a decent chance you are asking me this question because it is salient for you—­because you have a relative who plays professional baseball.</em></p><p>Here things became tricky. The trader might have anticipated that Sam would have this thought. The trader might have intentionally asked a question that he had no special reason to ask, just to trick Sam. Here was just another aspect of the puzzle: you had to figure out how many levels down you should go before you should stop thinking. Sam decided, as he nearly always did, that more than one level down was too clever by half. It was far more likely that the guy had some reason to ask the question than that he did not. He didn’t know by exactly how much, but the mere fact the trader had asked the question shifted the odds that he had a relative who played pro baseball to something better than one in a thousand. “That was the other thing he was testing for,” said Sam. “Did I realize that there was information in the question I was asked?”</p><p>In the end Sam put the odds at one in fifty. And it turned out that the Jane Street trader did indeed have a second cousin who had played professional baseball. But none of that was the point of the problem. The point was how Sam framed it, or failed to. “There were no right answers,” said Sam. “There were only wrong answers.”</p><p>By the end of the day of interviews, Sam felt he’d discovered something about himself. “I thought, This is correctly testing for something that matters quite a bit, even if I find it hard to articulate what it is,” he said. Nothing in normal life—­not even the games and puzzles that had sustained Sam through childhood—­could serve as a proxy for whatever “traders” did at Jane Street. “Childhood doesn’t give you a version of this that would tell you that you are good at it,” said Sam. Childhood had given him math, at which he’d been very good but not great. Childhood had given him various strategic board and card games, at which he’d also been very good but not great. The Jane Street traders had tested his mind for qualities it had never been precisely tested for. And it appeared to Sam that God had tweaked trading in various ways, or at least games intended to simulate trading, to make it different from math and board games. Each of those tweaks had made the games more congruent with his mind. “By the end of the day it was clear that it was by far the best I’d ever done at anything,” he said.</p><p>He then showed the students a slide listing the sorts of careers they might pursue, were they to use their careers to save lives. He’d grouped these into four broad categories and offered examples of each: Direct Benefiter (doctor, NGO worker), Money-­Maker (banker, management consultant), Researcher (medical research, ethicist), and Influencer (politician, teacher). Eventually, he told the students, you were going to have to choose which sort of career you would pursue. Each career type came with the opportunity to save lives, but the math was different for each, a bit like the math for which hero to play in <em>Storybook Brawl</em>. A Researcher or an Influencer stood a chance of saving some massive number of lives. The agronomist Norman Borlaug (Researcher), for instance, had invented disease-­resistant wheat, which had saved roughly two hundred fifty million people from starvation. Researcher and Influencer, however, were tricky career choices: it was difficult to predict who would be good at them, and even harder to forecast their effects. The odds of any given Researcher or Influencer saving vast numbers of lives were vanishingly small.</p><p>The clearer choice—­the choice MacAskill dwelled on in his talk—­was between Direct Benefiter and Money-­Maker. Put bluntly: Should you do good, or make money and pay other people to do good? Was it better to become a doctor or a banker? MacAskill made a rough calculation of the number of lives saved by a doctor working in a poor country, where lives were cheapest to save. Then he posed a question: “What if I became an <em>altruistic banker</em>, pursuing a lucrative career in order to donate my earnings?” Even a mediocre investment banker could expect sufficient lifetime earnings to pay for several doctors in Africa—­and thus would save several times more lives than any one doctor.</p><p>Then he pushed his point a step further, in the direction of the investment banker. “Making a difference requires doing something that wouldn’t have happened anyway,” he said. If you didn’t become a doctor, someone else would take your place and the doctoring would still get done. Of course, if you didn’t become a banker, someone else would also take your place—­but that person would spend his money on houses and cars and private schools for his kids and perhaps some non-­life-­saving donations to Yale. Very little of the replacement banker’s earnings would find its way to doctors in Africa. All those people you might have saved if you had become a banker and given away your money would die. Thus anyone with the ability to go to Wall Street and make vast sums of money had something like a moral obligation to do so—­even if they found Wall Street faintly distasteful. “Many lucrative careers are really pretty innocuous,” said MacAskill, helpfully.</p><p>Adverse selection was a favorite topic at Jane Street. In this context it meant that the person most eager to make a bet with you is the person you should be most worried about betting against. When people wanted to bet—­or trade—­with you, there was usually a reason: they knew something you did not. (That they had a second cousin who had played in the minor leagues, for instance.) The first thing you did when someone offered you a bet was to make sure you weren’t missing what they might know. Some piece of information. Some non-­obvious angle to the problem. Lots of bets looked stupid after the fact because the person on the receiving end hadn’t thought about why a bet had been proposed in the first place. Jane Street hammered this bitter fact into you every day, and these gambling games were the tool.</p><h5>4 - The March of Progress</h5><p>The new financial markets had some peculiar properties. For a start, they were increasingly automated. People didn’t trade directly with people. People programmed computers to trade with other computers. Removing humans enabled financial trades to happen faster and more frequently than ever before. Speed became maybe the single most valuable attribute in a trading system. The markets were engaged in a kind of information deforestation—­an attempt to reduce to zero the amount of time it took for any piece of information to be registered in the prices of financial assets. “It’s the most complex and efficient game in the world,” said Sam. “More effort has gone into optimizing the game than has gone into anything else.” From the sums of money being extracted from the game—­and the sums of money being handed by high-­frequency trading firms to US stock exchanges for faster access to their data—­you could see that an advantage of a few milliseconds was clearly worth billions a year to whoever possessed it. Whether the speed added anything of value to the economy was another question: Did it really matter if asset prices adjusted to new information in two milliseconds rather than a second? Probably not, but the new technology definitely made it possible for the financial sector to raise the rents that it charged the real economy.</p><p>It also changed the kind of person who was extracting those rents. As late as the summer of 2014 you could still see, in the shapes of the bodies on the Jane Street trading floor, the changes that had occurred in financial markets. The older traders, anyone over the age of thirty, were built differently than the younger ones. They were bigger and taller. Their voices were louder. The people who had founded Jane Street back in 1999 were a motley crew of white guys from all over the place. They’d come of age at a time when trading was still done human-­to-­human, either on trading floors or in trading pits. In a crowd their bodies needed to be seen and their voices needed to be heard. They were also less obviously intellectually gifted. They tended to be quick at mental math but less good at higher-­order analytical thinking. On one of those “March of Progress” charts that dramatized the evolution from ape to man they represented perhaps the penultimate stage of Financial Man: hair mostly gone, nearly upright, but still carrying a club on their shoulder, which they used to impose a greater taste for hierarchy on the more egalitarian younger traders.</p><p>The younger traders were full <em>Homo sapiens</em>. They’d been harvested from the tiny slice of the population identified early in life as having a gift for higher-­order thinking. Many had gone to math camp in high school. Almost all had excelled in computer science or math at MIT, Harvard, Princeton, or Stanford. They were less socially adept than the older traders, because they could afford to be. Now that trading was done machine-­to-­machine, it mattered less how well traders negotiated with other people. What mattered was their ability to help the machine replace humans in financial markets—­either directly, by writing code, or indirectly, by giving instructions that might be codified. To their minds it was silly not to just let the computer do all the mental math.</p><p>A trader on the international ETF desk, for instance, might start with the following question: When the price of oil moves during US trading hours, what happens to the ETFs filled with stocks of companies in big oil-­producing countries whose markets are closed? If oil prices pop higher during lunchtime in New York City, the shares of, say, Nigerian companies will probably follow them higher—­but the Nigerian stock market is closed. ETFs filled with Nigerian stocks, however, are live and trading on US exchanges. Perhaps these US-­listed ETFs did not respond as quickly as they should have to movements in oil prices? Perhaps there is a chance to anticipate the rise that will inevitably occur in Nigerian stocks when the Nigerian stock market opens tomorrow? Perhaps others had not thought of this? There was no way to answer those questions without running a study of the historical price movements. Jane Street’s traders spent a lot of their time engaged in these financial research projects.</p><p>It wasn’t enough for the trader to make money. You needed to be able to explain why you were making money. A great trader at Jane Street was not a great trader unless he could explain why he was a great trader—­and why some great trade existed. As one former trader put it, “It was, Why are you great, and how do we replicate you? And if you could not answer the question, they doubted you.” But these little research projects didn’t need to begin in a dignified way, with some theory about why some market might be inefficient. Often they’d be triggered by some weird event the trader had observed while trading. For example, you might notice, as Sam once did, that exactly twelve hours after the price of certain South Korean stocks rose on the Seoul stock exchange, the price of certain other Japanese stocks rose on the Tokyo stock exchange. Your first thought might be that this is merely a coincidence. But then it keeps happening. You dig into some old data and find that the same thing has been happening in these stocks for several months. You might trade on it—­and buy the Japanese stocks the instant the South Korean stocks rise. You might even make money.</p><p>You wouldn’t have satisfied the Jane Street system, however, because you didn’t know <em>why</em> the Japanese stocks were rising in price twelve hours after the South Korean stocks. And so you looked even further into it—­as Sam had. And he found that the prices of both the South Korean and the Japanese ETFs were being driven by a single trader at a German bank. Every few days, the German bank trader had a bunch of buy orders to execute, in both South Korea and Japan. He’d make his South Korean purchases before calling it a day, passing the Japan orders off to his Asian colleagues to handle when they awakened in Tokyo. The Jane Street trader could now happily see the pop in the South Korean ETF and buy the Japanese ETF until the German died, retired, or figured out how much his laziness was costing him.</p><p>Sam found lots of trades whose success turned on the idiocy of some other trader or trading algorithm. Asher trades. For a two-­week stretch, Canada’s main stock market index behaved weirdly at the opening every morning. At 9:30 it would pop higher or drop lower with unusual violence and then, at 9:31, revert to its previous levels. That wasn’t how a market normally behaved in response to news. Something else was going on. Sam made a study and discovered that a month earlier, someone had done a massive, multibillion-­dollar-­contract-­sized trade in options on the Canadian stock market index. The trader who had done it needed to hedge his position whenever the price of the Canadian index moved. To do this, the trader had created a bot, which mindlessly bought the Canadian index when it went up, and sold the Canadian index when it went down, thus causing it to go either up or down more than it otherwise would have done. On days the Canadian stock market opened at a higher price than the day before, the bot would buy the index, driving its price even higher, requiring the bot to buy even more. It did the same thing in reverse when the index opened at a lower price than the day before. For two weeks Sam’s trading desk made a small fortune simply by selling the Canadian index after the bot had bought it, and buying the Canadian index after the bot had sold it, until the trader who had created the bot wised up and turned it off. “It was essentially reverse engineering someone else’s dumb algo,” said Sam.</p><p>The constant hunt for statistical patterns in markets led to all sorts of strange insights. Every time Brazil won a World Cup match, the Brazilian stock market tanked, for instance, because the win was thought to increase the shot at reelection of Brazilian president Dilma Rousseff, perceived to be corrupt. A faster and better sense of the Brazilian soccer team’s odds in the next match gave you a weighted coin to flip in the Brazilian stock market. In late October of 2016—­to take another example—­global stock markets were moving around noticeably in response to any news that seemed to alter Donald Trump’s chances of becoming president. At that moment, the upcoming election seemed as if it might be the most consequential election for global financial markets in modern times. The traders on Jane Street’s international ETF desk kicked around ideas about how to trade it. And someone pointed out just how slowly, by high-­frequency trading standards, election results found their way into financial markets.</p><p>In his annual reviews, his bosses let him know that they had him ranked at the top of his Jane Street class. He wasn’t the firm’s most profitable trader, but he was still young, and doing very well. They’d paid him $300,000 after his first year, $600,000 after his second year, and, after his third year, when he was twenty-­five years old, were about to hand him a bonus of $1 million. In his reviews, Sam pressed his bosses to paint a picture of his financial future at Jane Street. It would depend, of course, on Jane Street’s overall performance, they said, but ten years in, if he kept on doing as well as he had been doing, he’d be making somewhere between $15 million and $75 million a year. “Jane Street’s idea was to make people so happy they wouldn’t leave,” said one former trader.</p><p>Adam had listened to Sam go on about his beliefs until he finally said, <em>If you really believed all that, you wouldn’t eat meat. At little cost to yourself you reduce a lot of suffering.</em> Sam was serious about minimizing suffering. Sam also liked his fried chicken—­but that wasn’t really an argument. “Whatever he said had been rattling around in my head, but I had been avoiding it because of a thought I did not want to have,” said Sam. “The thought was: <em>I spend thirty minutes enjoying chicken and the chicken endures five weeks of torture.”</em> There was nothing to do but overhaul his diet, and he did. “There are easy vegetarians and there are hard ones, and he was a hard one,” said Adam. “It’s unusual to change something like that when it’s difficult.”</p><p>Which told you something about Jane Street. In 2104, the year Sam joined Jane Street, Virtu Financial applied to the US Securities and Exchange Commission to sell shares to the public. Its prospectus revealed that in 1,238 days of trading, it had had exactly one losing day. It had just ended a year in which it had made money trading in the stock market every day. How does any firm do that? the reader might intelligently wonder. The answer is outside the scope of this story but is partly addressed in a book I wrote in 2014, called Flash Boys. The point here is that while the high-­frequency trading firms appeared interchangeable from a certain distance—­their trading was automated, they all acted as intermediaries in financial markets—­they differed in how they made their money. Firms like Virtu and Citadel paid US stock exchanges for speed advantages that enabled them to trade against others in the market with very little risk, which explained why they never lost money. They ended each trading day without any positions in the market. Their skill, such as it was, was to create a faster picture of the stock market for themselves than others were able to—­which was why, when they went looking for young talent, they wanted computer programmers who could speed their machines more than traders who could make risk decisions. Jane Street had never gotten seriously into the US stock market speed games, and perhaps regretted it. Its relative strength had always been in arguably fairer markets, where they couldn’t simply buy the advantages offered to high-­frequency traders by, say, the New York Stock Exchange. If firms like Virtu and Citadel were playing a speed game, firms like Jane Street were playing a brain game.</p><h5>5 - How to Think About Bob</h5><p>He’d been on a starting salary of $300,000 a year at Facebook when, after only five months, he’d lost his stomach for the work.</p><p>They didn’t blow up, not at first. Those first few weeks, they made no real money, but then they had only a few people and Sam’s bonus money. By the end of December, they’d hired a bunch of people and raised $25 million in capital. Gary, basically all by himself, had written the code for an entire quantitative system. That month they generated several million dollars in profits. In January 2018 their profits rose to half a million dollars each day, on a capital base of $40 million—­whereupon an effective altruist named Jaan Tallinn, who’d made his fortune in Skype, handed them $130 million more to play with.</p><p>The trading from the start was chaotic. Much of the money they made in their first two months came from just two trades. The frenzied demand for bitcoin created weird distortions in global crypto markets. By December 2017, retail speculators in South Korea were driving bitcoin to prices 20 percent higher than they were on US exchanges, sometimes more. Anyone who could find a way to sell crypto in South Korea and at the same time buy it outside of South Korea could lock in vast profits. It wasn’t trivial to do, however. To open a crypto account on a South Korean exchange, just for starters, you needed to be South Korean. “We found a graduate student friend in South Korea and traded in his name,” recalled Nishad, who now saw why maybe it would take Jane Street a while to export radical efficiency to crypto markets. Jane Street would smell legal trouble; Jane Street would at the very least be embarrassed if it wound up as news in the <em>New York Times</em> that they’d hired a South Korean grad student to front their business. “It was borderline illegal, but in practice, who goes after you when you do this?” said Nishad later. “No one.” This was the very beginning of Nishad’s financial education: there were laws that, in theory, governed money; and then there was what people actually did with money. “That’s where I learned what the law is,” said Nishad. “The law is what happens, not what is written.”</p><p>Ex post</p><h5>6 - Artificial Love</h5><p>Here was one example of the games that were played: Several of the Asian exchanges offered a Bitcoin contract with one hundred times leverage. Every now and then, some trader figured out that he could buy $100 million worth of bitcoin at the same time he sold short another $100 million worth of bitcoin—­and put up only a million dollars for each trade. Whatever happened to the price of bitcoin, one of his trades would win and the other would lose. If bitcoin popped by 10 percent, the rogue trader collected $10 million on his long position and vanished—­leaving the exchange to cover the $10 million he’d lost on his short. But it wasn’t the exchange that covered the loss: the exchange did not have the capital to cover the loss. The losses were socialized. The customers—­usually those on the winning end of the trade—­paid for them. And the losses could be huge. The Chinese-­founded exchange Huobi had one loss so big that it docked all traders on the profitable end of trades nearly half their gains.</p><p>CZ was Changpeng Zhao, CEO of the crypto exchange Binance. Born in Jiangsu province, he was raised, from adolescence, in Canada, and educated there, returning eventually to China, with Canadian citizenship.</p><p>A futures exchange was different in important ways from a spot exchange. On a futures exchange, traders put up as collateral only a fraction of the bets they made. On a trade that was losing money, the exchange typically asked for more collateral at the end of the day. If a trade went bad fast, it could wipe out the collateral and leave the exchange on the hook for losses—­whereupon the exchange turned to its customers to cover the losses, as crypto exchanges had, historically. The design that FTX (Gary) had come up with solved the problem, in an elegant way. It monitored customers’ positions not by the day but by the second. The instant any customer’s trade went into the red, it was liquidated. This of course was unpleasant for the customers whose positions went into the red. But it promised to do away with socialized losses, which had plagued crypto exchanges from the beginning. The new exchange’s losses would never need to be socialized, because the exchange would never have losses.</p><p>Somewhere between Goldman Sachs and Facebook, Ramnik had given up looking for passion in his work. If he seemed older than he was, it was because he was letting go of one of the things that defines youth: hope. “The smartest minds of our generation are either buying or selling stocks or predicting if you’ll click on an ad,” he said. “This is the tragedy of our generation.” The effect of the tragedy had been to shrink his ambition. He was thinking less and less about changing the world and more and more about making himself and his wife comfortable within it. “I’d read a study that there was a fifteen percent happiness gain if you could walk to work,” he said.</p><p>“How do you determine something is credible?” he said. “It’s by association. Trust comes from preexisting relationships.”</p><p>The question of who regulates any given crypto product in the United States turns on whether the product is defined as a security or a commodity. Bitcoin was defined early on, in 2015, as a commodity, and so is regulated by the CFTC. FTT—­or for that matter a leveraged Bitcoin token—­would likely be defined as a security and so fall under the jurisdiction of the SEC.</p><p>Selling a new business to a VC was apparently less like selling a sofa than it was like pitching a movie idea. The VCs’ eagerness to buy turned less on your hard numbers than on how excited they became about the story you told. It was as if they spent their day listening to stories and picking the ones they liked best. There was no rhyme or reason to their evaluations: English class all over again. Sam quickly figured out that most of the stories these people heard were just not very persuasive. “Most people tell stories that are trivial to falsify,” he said. The story he and Ramnik told was not that way. It went roughly as follows:</p><p>Global stocks traded $600 billion a day, crypto was now trading $200 billion each day, and the gap was closing. Inside of eighteen months, FTX had gone from nothing to the world’s fifth-­biggest crypto exchange, and every day, it was seizing market share from its competitors. They were now the only crypto exchange making a priority of obtaining licenses and going legit. They were also the only crypto exchange that hadn’t in one way or another offended US financial regulators. Once licensed in the United States, a crypto exchange like FTX could also trade stocks or anything else people wanted to trade and challenge, for example, the New York Stock Exchange. To that end, Sam had already incorporated a business called FTX US—­but was being careful about allowing customers to trade stuff on it of which the SEC might disapprove. “The argument was, ‘Look how fast we’re growing, the market is huge—­and we’re going to be the credible party,’ ” said Ramnik.</p><p>Even if the VCs didn’t all realize that Sam was playing a video game at the same time that he was talking to them, most sensed that he didn’t care what they had to say. Ramnik came to think that Sam’s indifference to their feelings actually heightened their interest in him. That FTX was profitable and didn’t really need the money probably also helped. In the end, between the summer of 2020 and the spring of 2021, in four rounds of fundraising, they sold roughly 6 percent of the company for $2.3 billion. Roughly <em>one hundred fifty</em> different venture capital firms invested. All of them caved to Sam’s refusal to give them a seat on the board (he had no board) or any other form of control over the business</p><p>And yet FTX was just a piece of a much larger puzzle of Sam’s design. He owned 90 percent of Alameda Research. And the nature of Alameda Research was changing. It was still a quant trading firm, with its good months and bad months, but its traders were playing, in new ways, with bigger and bigger sums of money. Crypto world had created what were, in effect, unregulated new banks. People would deposit their crypto with, for instance, Genesis Global Capital or Celsius Network, and receive some rate of interest, and these pseudobanks would re-lend the crypto to traders like Alameda Research. In early 2018, rich effective altruists had charged Sam interest rates of 50 percent a year. Three years later, Genesis and Celsius were willing to lend billions to Alameda Research at interest rates that ranged from 6 to 20 percent. And there were other, even more mysterious billions inside of Alameda that no one knew about. “FTX is smaller than people think, and Alameda is bigger,” said Ramnik. “Way bigger.”</p><p>It was never clear where Alameda Research stopped and FTX started. Legally separate companies, they were both owned by the same person. They occupied the same big room on the twenty-­sixth floor of an office building. They shared the same vista of the forest of high-­rises surrounding Victoria Harbor and, twenty miles beyond that, China. Sam’s desk was positioned at one end of the identical long trading desks used by both Alameda and FTX, with a clear view of both. It didn’t occur to anyone that there was anything weird about Alameda covering the start-­up costs of somewhere between $5 million and $10 million for FTX. Ditto FTX selling FTT and using the capital not to expand FTX but to trade inside Alameda. It seemed perfectly natural for Alameda to control all the remaining FTT, and use it as collateral in its trading activity. Sam didn’t even try to hide what he was doing. FTT “has single-­handedly fixed [Alameda’s] equity problem,” he wrote, in a memo to employees. He retained 90 percent of Alameda Research, with Gary owning the remaining 10 percent. Even after he’d sold stakes in FTX to the one hundred fifty venture capitalists, Sam still owned more than half the company. The third-­largest shareholder, Nishad, owned a mere 5 percent of the company.</p><p>Caroline didn’t like it and let him know, in a series of long, businesslike memos. “There are things I want out of our relationship that I feel like I’m not getting to the extent I want,” she wrote, in early July 2021. The usual bullet points followed:</p><ul><li>Communication about our feelings and preferences</li><li>Consistent affirmation/positive reinforcement</li><li>Social affirmation of our relationship in at least some context</li></ul><p>Matt Levine’s excellent forty-­thousand-­word article in Bloomberg Businessweek, “The Crypto Story.”</p><h5>7 - The Org Chart</h5><p>For example, they all professed to care about “humanity,” while at the same time often being a bit slow to love actual people. “It doesn’t really start with people,” said George. “It starts with suffering. It’s about preventing suffering. They care about animals in the same way. They also care about not having the earth blown up by an asteroid. But it’s not a longing for a connection.”</p><p>They also cared about the logic underpinning their behavior; consistency was, for them, not the hobgoblin of a little mind but the mark of a big one. They brought logic and rigor to their most emotionally fraught decisions—­for instance, the decision whether to have children. “A lot of EAs chose not to have kids,” said George. “It’s because of the impact on their own lives. They believe that having kids takes away from their ability to have impact on the world.” After all, in the time it took to raise a child to become an effective altruist, you could persuade some unknowably large number of people who were not your children to become effective altruists. “It feels selfish to have a kid. The EA argument for having a kid is that kid equals happiness and happiness equals increased productivity. If they can get there in their head, then maybe they have a kid.”</p><p>The rate of return inside Alameda was steadily declining, but with access to vast amounts of cheap capital, its raw trading profits kept rising: from $50 million in 2018, to $100 million in 2019, to $1 billion in 2020 and again in 2021. And those were just the trading profits; the numbers didn’t include the seemingly vast unrealized gains on Sam’s token stashes.</p><p>In March 2020, a Silicon Valley engineer named Anatoly Yakovenko launched a new and better blockchain that offered a solution to maybe Bitcoin’s biggest weakness as a means of exchange: it was way too slow. Bitcoin could only validate seven transactions a second. The new Solana blockchain promised to process up to sixty-­five thousand transactions a second. Sam had no independent ability to evaluate the thing, but he asked people who did and soon decided that Solana might be the crypto of the future. Even if it wasn’t, Solana’s story was good enough that other people might see it that way and drive up the price of its token. Eighteen months later, Alameda owned roughly 15 percent of all Solana tokens, most purchased at twenty-­five cents apiece. The market price of Solana had gone as high as $249, a thousand-­times increase on what Sam had paid for the tokens, and the face value of Sam’s entire stash was roughly $12 billion. It was hard to know the resale value of such a huge stake. But there was a real market for Solana tokens. Two billion dollars’ worth of the things traded each day. “I watched it in wonder,” said Sam.</p><p>There was more like this in Sam’s dragon’s lair. Alameda had also hoovered up about half the existing FTT tokens, for instance, creating, in effect, a second stake in FTX for Sam, with a claim on about one-­sixth of all FTX’s revenues. In the past eighteen months, FTT’s price had risen from roughly $3 to roughly $80. Again, it was hard to say how much Sam could unload FTT for, had he tried to sell his stake all at once. But the crypto lenders were happy to lend him billions of dollars against his FTT, so, to get his hands on cash, he didn’t need to sell it.</p><p>Then there was Sam’s equity stake in FTX, which was very real indeed. A large number of venture capitalists had paid $2.3 billion for a mere 6 percent of it. Sam had good reason to believe that he might now sell an even smaller piece for several billion more to an even bigger group. FTX underpinned his growing empire: a real business with booming revenues and profits. It hadn’t even really needed venture capital. (As if to make the point, Sam, having taken $200 million from Sequoia Capital in exchange for a piece of FTX, turned around and invested $200 million from Alameda Research in one of Sequoia’s funds.) FTX was now the world’s fastest-­growing crypto exchange, and the casino of choice for big professional traders. In less than three years, it had gone from 0 to 10 percent of all crypto trading. In 2021, it would generate $1 billion in revenues.</p><p>The US was now, in Sam’s mind, the holy grail. It had an incumbent crypto exchange, Coinbase. But Coinbase’s CEO had already written insulting tweets about the SEC. And Coinbase, compared to FTX, was a boring and bloated casino. It had fifteen times the number of employees FTX did, and only about a fifth of FTX’s volume. Charging retail investors fees between five and fifty times what FTX charged, it was still running big losses. Even so, it was a public company, with a market capitalization of more than $75 billion. If FTX was granted a license to offer crypto futures in the United States and was given full access to US investors, it might steal Coinbase’s customers, along with its market cap. Or so Sam thought—­which is why he also thought that the license might double or even triple FTX’s value overnight.</p><p>Wash trading, as it was called, would have been illegal on a regulated US exchange, though the sight of it did not bother Sam all that much. He thought it was sort of funny just how brazenly many of the Asian exchanges did it. In the summer of 2019, FTX created and published a daily analysis of the activity on other exchanges. It estimated that 80 percent or more of the volume on the second- and third-tier exchanges, and 30 percent of the volume on the top few exchanges, was fake. Soon after FTX published its first analysis of crypto trading activity, one exchange called and said, <em>We’re firing our wash trading team. Give us a week and the volumes will be real.</em> The top exchanges expressed relief, and gratitude for the analysis, as, until then, lots of people assumed that far more than 30 percent of their volume was fake.</p><p>“We’re currently ahead in tech and favorability ratings, and behind in name recognition,” he wrote. “We need to get 50m low engagement users to decide to switch from Coinbase to FTX. This will take a fairly forceful nudge!”</p><p>He began by noting how few marketing campaigns had had the effect that he hoped to achieve with FTX’s. He counted only three:</p><ol><li>Yes we can: Barack Obama</li><li>Just do it: Nike. Lots of athletes but there are two who made the brand what it is: Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods</li><li>Think different: Apple. Albert Einstein, John Lennon, MLK, Muhammad Ali, Rosa Parks, Gandhi, Alfred Hitchcock etc.</li></ol><p>Once their name was on an American stadium, no one turned down their money.¶ They showered money across US pro sports: Shohei Ohtani and Shaquille O’Neal and LeBron James became spokespeople. They paid Major League Baseball $162.5 million to put the company name on every umpire’s uniform. Having the FTX logo on the umpires’ uniforms, Sam thought, was more useful than having it on the players’ uniforms. In basically every TV shot of every Major League Baseball game, the viewer saw the FTX patch. “The NBA put us through a vetting process,” said FTX lawyer Dan Friedberg. “Major League Baseball just said okay!”</p><p>You would think—­Sam had initially thought—­that if you were going to pay some NFL quarterback to stand up and say he used FTX, it would make little difference whether it was Tom Brady or Aaron Rodgers or Dak Prescott. You might see that Brady would be a bit better but think Rodgers’s endorsement must be worth, say, half of Brady’s. But everywhere Sam went, people mentioned that they had heard of FTX because of Brady. Hardly anyone mentioned any of the other endorsers. “It was very clear which things had an effect and which did not,” said Sam. “For the life of me, I can’t figure out why this is. I still don’t know how to verbalize it.” The Martian had discovered another weird but true fact of modern human life: at any given moment there were only a few people inside the collective imagination.</p><p>In the end, George drew up the only internal org chart ever made of Sam’s sprawling creation. By the time he was done, he’d discovered many interesting things. Twenty-­four different people thought that they were reporting directly to Sam, for example. The group included Sam’s father, Joe, and Sam’s childhood friend Matt Nass, whose game, Storybook Brawl, Sam had for some reason just bought. This group did not include the chief financial officer, because FTX did not have a chief financial officer. There was no chief risk officer or head of human resources, because they had none of that, either. “It seems like a clubhouse more than a corporation,” said George.</p><p>It did have a chief technology officer, Gary Wang, but Gary was socially isolated, with no one reporting to him. “Gary was off in his own little box,” said George. In an ordinary tech company, a bunch of programmers would be reporting to the chief technology officer. In FTX they apparently all reported to Nishad Singh. Ryan Salame, who had come and gone from the Bahamas in a flash and now seemed hardly involved with the company, was somehow the CEO of the entire international business, with twenty-­seven people reporting to him. Ramnik Arora, whose official title was still Head of Product, clearly had nothing to do with product but sat on top of a small pile of people in charge of both raising and investing vast sums of money. George just put him in a little box marked “Ventures.” About half the entire company reported to the first two young women Sam had hired upon his arrival in Hong Kong, Constance Wang and Jen Chan. Most of those people, George noted, were East Asian women.</p><p>Then there was Caroline Ellison. Caroline was apparently alone in charge of the twenty-­two traders and developers working inside Alameda Research, about half of whom had followed Sam from Hong Kong to the Bahamas. This surprised George a bit. “She never said anything about Alameda,” said George. “Neither did Sam. This was clearly wanting <em>not</em> to think about it.”</p><h5>8 - The Dragon’s Head</h5><p>Inside of three years, Sam would deploy roughly $5 billion on a portfolio of three hundred separate investments—­which worked out to a new investment decision roughly every three days.</p><p>He’d invest in new crypto tokens, like Solana, and old companies, like Anthony Scaramucci’s investment firm, SkyBridge. He’d acquire companies obviously relevant to FTX—­a Japanese crypto exchange called Liquid, for instance—­and companies that had no obvious connection to crypto, like the studio that had developed <em>Storybook Brawl.</em> The money nearly always came not from FTX but from Alameda Research, which Ramnik and everyone else thought of as Sam’s private fund.</p><p>Often Ramnik was intimately involved with a purchase, but nearly as often he only learned what Sam had done after the fact. Sam had invested $500 million in an artificial intelligence start-­up called Anthropic, apparently without bouncing the idea off anyone else. “I said to Sam after he did it, ‘We don’t know a fucking thing about this company,’ ” said Ramnik. About the same time that he was trying to decide whether to sink more money into Twitter, Sam was handing $450 million to a former Jane Street trader named Lily Zhang, to create a second crypto quant trading fund based in the Bahamas, called Modulo Capital. So far as Ramnik could see, Sam had told no one about that until he’d done it. Back in March, Sam had promised to invest $5 billion with a Hollywood agent turned investment manager named Michael Kives, without consulting Ramnik or anyone else. Sam had only met Kives a few weeks before he’d made that commitment. He’d known nothing about him, not even how to pronounce his name.</p><p>His political spending was distributed sloppily into three buckets. The first, and smallest, bucket contained his narrow business interests: a few million dollars donated to politicians and interest groups willing to push for legislation that would allow Americans to trade the crypto contracts on FTX inside the United States that foreigners did on FTX outside of it.</p><p>In Sam’s mind, his money wasn’t crypto money. It was effective altruist money that he happened to have obtained through crypto. Along with his brother, Sam had looked at the world and decided that two EA-­related causes made more sense to address with his money than any of the others. And that a lot of the money needed to be sneaky.</p><p>Their first, less sneaky initiative was pandemic prevention. On the list of existential risks to humanity, pandemics occupied a special place. Unlike, say, an asteroid strike, the threat felt real, and politicians could be persuaded to take it seriously. Unlike, say, climate change, hardly anyone was talking or thinking seriously about how to address the problem—­even after a million Americans had just died from a new pathogen. Unlike, say, preventing a war on humanity by artificial intelligence, there were some obvious though expensive things to do to mitigate the risk. For instance, someone really did need to take the lead in the creation of a global system of disease prediction, one that resembled the global system of weather prediction. Sam guessed that it would take $100 billion, which put it beyond his reach.</p><p>Badgering elected officials into taking an interest in pandemics was one part of Sam’s strategy. The second part was getting some new pandemic warriors elected to Congress. Sam’s political operation had figured out, or thought they had, that it made a lot more sense to spend money in primary than in general elections. Voters could be swayed in primaries as they couldn’t in generals. Much of persuasion in primaries was just name recognition, which you could buy with ads. They’d also already figured out, or thought they had, that a million dollars dropped into a close congressional primary gave them a one-­in-­five chance of swinging it to their candidate. The problem was that they had no way to determine in advance which of the five they’d be able to influence. And so they’d adopted a strategy of finding as many congressional candidates as they could who would support spending on pandemic prevention and buying their elections in bulk, while at the same time doing their best to disguise that the money involved had anything to do with crypto.</p><p>Of course, winning one out of five congressional races meant you lost the other four. Sam’s political portfolio resembled his venture capital portfolio: in pursuit of crazy rewards, it took what, after the fact, looked like insane risks. In a very short time, Sam’s money had bankrolled some of the most spectacular failures in the history of political manipulation.</p><p>But the bucket was very much the subtext of the dinner Sam was headed to, because in McConnell, Sam had found someone as interested as he was in another existential threat to humanity: Donald Trump. Trump’s assault on the government, and on the integrity of US elections, belonged, to Sam’s way of thinking, on the same list as pandemics and artificial intelligence and climate change. Across the land, Republican primaries were littered with candidates who were willing to behave as if the presidential election had been stolen from Trump. They faced candidates who were forced to pay lip service to the idea. McConnell’s people had already figured out which was which, and McConnell was intent on defeating the former. “He’s already done the work,” said Sam. The work, he added, was to distinguish “people who would actually try to govern versus people who would undermine the government.”</p><p>Once you’re in the argument, however, you’ll find it difficult to escape a certain logic: the expected value of reducing even the minuscule likelihood of an existential threat to all future human beings is far greater than the expected value of anything you might do to save the lives of the people who currently happen to be alive. “The core argument was like, look, the future is vast,” said Sam. “You can try to put a number on it but obviously anything that flows through to that is going to have a vast multiplier.”</p><p>One day some historian of effective altruism will marvel at how easily it transformed itself. It turned its back on living people without bloodshed or even, really, much shouting. You might think that people who had sacrificed fame and fortune to save poor children in Africa would rebel at the idea of moving on from poor children in Africa to future children in another galaxy. They didn’t, not really—­which tells you something about the role of ordinary human feeling in the movement. It didn’t matter. What mattered was the math. Effective altruism never got its emotional charge from the places that charged ordinary philanthropy. It was always fueled by a cool lust for the most logical way to lead a good life.</p><p>They’d been doing this for only a year and already had been pitched nearly two thousand such projects. They’d handed out some money but in the process they’d concluded that conventional philanthropy was kind of dumb. Just to deal with the incoming requests—­most of which they had no ability to evaluate—­would require a big staff and lots of expense. Much of their money would end up being used on a vast bureaucracy. And so they had just recently adopted a new approach: instead of giving money away themselves, they scoured the world for subject matter experts who might have their own, better ideas for how to give away money. Over the previous six months, one hundred people with deep knowledge of pandemic prevention and artificial intelligence had received an email from FTX that said, in effect: <em>Hey, you don’t know us, but here’s a million dollars, no strings attached. Your job is to give it away as effectively as you can.</em> The FTX Foundation, started in early 2021, would track what these people did with their million dollars, but only to determine if they should be given even more. “We try not to be very judgy once they have the money,” said Sam. “But maybe we won’t be reupping them.” The hope was, first, that these people on the ground would know better than anyone what to do with the money and, second, that some people might actually have a genius for giving away money. “It’s trying to blast through the hesitation,” said Sam. “The default to inaction.”</p><h5>9 - The Vanishing</h5><p>It did the opposite. A risk analysis company called Gauntlet, which studied the price movements of various crypto tokens, had maybe the best picture of what actually happened next. Within twenty seconds of Caroline’s tweet came a rush to sell FTT by speculators who had borrowed money to buy it. The panic was driven by an assumption: if Alameda Research, the single biggest owner of FTT, was making a big show of being willing to buy a huge pile of it for $22, they must need for some reason to maintain the market price at $22. The most plausible explanation was that Alameda Research was using FTT as collateral to borrow dollars or bitcoin from others. “You don’t tell someone a price level like $22 unless you have a lot of confidence that you need that price,” the CEO of Gauntlet, Tarun Chitra, told Bloomberg News. By Monday night, the price of FTT had fallen from $22 to $7. The half a billion dollars of his own money that CZ had elected to incinerate was, in the grand scheme of things, such a trivial sum that hardly anyone paid it any more attention.</p><p>By Tuesday, the relevant math was fourth-­grade level. Before the crisis, FTX was meant to be holding about $15 billion worth of customer deposits.* Five billion of that had already been paid out to customers, and so, still inside FTX, there should have been roughly $10 billion. There wasn’t. The only remaining assets were whatever was left of the dragon’s hoard inside of Alameda: a big pile of FTT, another big pile of Solana tokens, an assortment of crypto tokens that would be even harder to sell, $300 million worth of Bahamas real estate, and a truly massive heap of Sam’s venture capital investments—­including the stake in Twitter, which Sam had never bothered to sell. There was still perhaps as much as $3 billion worth of hard currency and bitcoin that they had yet to return to customers—­but the vast majority of the secret stash had no immediate market. Much of what Caroline and Sam went back and forth about the first two or three days of the run on FTX was just this. Caroline, who by then was beaming in from the Hong Kong office, would appear on a video call. Sam would go down the list of the many things either he or she had bought and ask: How long will it take you to sell this? For most, the answer was too long.</p><p>Though Caroline was in charge of Alameda Research, she seemed totally clueless about where its money was. She’d come onto the screen and announce that she had found $200 million here, or $400 million there, as if she’d just made an original scientific discovery. Some guy at Deltec, their bank in the Bahamas, messaged Ramnik to say, <em>Oh, by the way, you have $300 million with us.</em> And it came as a total surprise to all of them!</p><p>Eventually Ramnik gathered that they needed to raise $7 billion, fast, to fill what they thought might be a $7 billion hole. (The exact number shifted around a lot those first few days.) To his obvious question—­Why was there a hole in the first place?—­Sam and Nishad and Caroline offered fuzzy answers. Gary sat quietly off to one side.</p><p>Caroline thought in periods but spoke in question marks and exclamation points. She made the sounds of uptalk and uncertainty while delivering a message that was brutally simple: they were bankrupt.</p><p>On Friday, Nishad was gone, which was just as well, as by then the police in the Bahamas were preparing to arrest any remaining leaders. That afternoon, roughly $450 million in crypto vanished from the wallets inside FTX. No one knew who the hacker was; everyone just assumed it was an inside job; lots of people suspected Sam and Gary.</p><p>Still, Zane figured there was no way that FTX was in real trouble. It made no sense. The price of FTT shouldn’t have any effect on the value of the exchange, any more than the price of Apple stock should have on Apple’s iPhone sales. Just the reverse: the exchange’s revenues drove the value of FTT. “If FTT goes to zero, so what?” said Zane. The other reason it made no sense was that FTX had been so wildly profitable. “I know how much real revenue we were making: two bips [0.02 percent] on two hundred fifty billion dollars a month,” said Zane. “I’m like, Dude, you were sitting on a fucking printing press: why did you need to do this?”</p><p>To Zane it didn’t matter. There was one question he dwelled on: Why had neither he nor anyone else he knew seen this coming? He had the beginning of an answer. “Sam’s oddness,” he said. “His oddness mixed with just how smart he was allowed you to wave away a lot of the concerns. The question of why just goes away.”</p><p>And there was a third argument, made by Sam, that anything that happened would need to happen wherever Gary was, because Gary was the only one who could explain the code that had governed the business. “At the end of the day, the deciding factor in the jurisdictional dispute is Gary,” said Sam, the night Zane left, “because he’s the only one who knows how to use a computer.”</p><h5>10 - Manfred</h5><p>The list of assets included the details of hundreds of private investments Sam had made over the previous two years, apparently totaling $4,717,030,200. The liabilities now had a line item more important than everything else combined: $10,152,068,800 of customer deposits. More than $10 billion that was meant to be custodied by FTX somehow had ended up inside Sam’s private trading fund. The document listed only $3 billion in liquid assets—­that is, US dollars or crypto that could be sold immediately for dollars. “I was like, <em>Holy shit,</em>” she said. “The question is: <em>Why?</em>” It was the same question Zane had asked. “We had so profitable a business,” said Constance. “Our profit margin was forty to fifty percent. We made four hundred million dollars last year.”</p><p>At the moment of its collapse, FTX had had more than ten million account holders, to whom it owed $8.7 billion. Nearly half of those losses, or $4 billion, were concentrated in these fifty accounts. The biggest losers not employed by either FTX or Alameda were high-­frequency trading firms. Near the top was Jump Trading ($206,160,600.00), and at the bottom was Virtu Financial Singapore ($10,095,336.83). The real names of about half the list were concealed. The entity listed as Tai Mo Shan Limited—­and out more than $75 million—­was actually another affiliate of Jump Trading. Many of the disguised accounts belonged to FTX employees. Constance herself had lost around $25 million. She still had $80,000 in an ordinary bank account she’d kept from her previous life, but otherwise she’d lost everything.</p><p>As she had also overseen the sales team, she knew most of the names on the list, especially the high-­frequency traders. She knew that every one of them had been intensely suspicious about the relationship between FTX and Alameda Research. “Everyone cared about it,” said Constance. “It was literally the first thing I was asked every day. Is Alameda Research front-­running us? Does Alameda Research get to see other people’s trades? Does Alameda get less latency?” In other words: Did Alameda enjoy the same unfair trading edge on FTX that the high-­frequency traders enjoyed on Nasdaq and the New York Stock Exchange? Oddly enough, it had not. Instead, FTX had simply loaned Alameda all of the high-­frequency traders’ deposits…for free!</p><p>FTX had also done other things to jeopardize the high-­frequency traders’ money, along with everyone else’s. It had exempted Alameda from the risk rules that governed all the other traders. The trades made by every other trader on FTX were liquidated the moment their losses exceeded the collateral they had posted. That’s why FTX felt so much safer than the other crypto exchanges. No single trader was allowed to lose so much money that it put the exchange, and everyone who traded on it, at risk. For Alameda Research, however, an exception had been made. Sam’s private trading firm was allowed to lose, in effect, infinity dollars before its trades were liquidated. “<em>No one</em> ever asked about liquidation,” said Constance. “And <em>no one</em> ever asked, ‘Is our money actually inside Alameda?’ ” Sam was right: People don’t see what they aren’t looking for.§</p><p>The story Sam told Constance ran as follows. There had been two different ways that money that should have been in cold storage inside FTX instead wound up in Alameda’s hot little hands. The first was through Alameda’s normal trading activity. Like every other trader, Alameda had been allowed to borrow from the FTX exchange by posting collateral. As collateral, Alameda had used, among other things, FTT—­the token that was, in effect, equity in FTX. The price of FTT had collapsed with FTX. The collateral was now worthless, and some of the loans remained unpaid. In Sam’s story, there was a reason that Alameda had been exempted from the rules that governed every other trader on FTX, and had liquidated their trades when the losses exceeded the value of their collateral. Back in 2019, when FTX was created, Alameda was by far its biggest trader. At the start, Alameda was on the other side of most trades that occurred on FTX. It helped the market on the exchange to work better if Alameda could occasionally run losses—­for example, if they needed to step in and acquire another trader’s losing positions after FTX liquidated them.</p><p>In Sam’s telling, FTX had switched off Alameda’s risk limits to make itself more appealing. The losses caused by this unsettling policy were in any case trivial. Ordinary trading loans made by FTX to Alameda constituted a small fraction of the losses to customers; on their own, they wouldn’t have posed a problem. The bulk of the customers’ money inside of Alameda that should have been inside FTX—­$8.8 billion of it, to be exact—­resided in an account that Alameda had labeled fiat@.</p><p>The fiat@ account had been set up in 2019 to receive the dollars and other fiat currencies sent by FTX’s new customers. Alameda Research had created the account only after FTX had been unable to get its own bank accounts. Back in 2019, no real bank in the United States had been willing to offer its services to a new international crypto exchange. The crypto entities that they did bank, like Alameda Research, usually disguised their association with crypto. The biggest US crypto exchange, Coinbase, had by some miracle persuaded Silicon Valley Bank to give it an account—­and thus a mechanism for Coinbase to receive US dollars from, and send US dollars to, its crypto trading customers. A US bank account had thereby given Coinbase a big advantage, but how exactly they’d obtained the account was a story for another day; the story for this day is how FTX failed to find its own US bank for sending and receiving dollars. From its founding in the spring of 2019 until July 2021, when it finally persuaded a bank in San Diego called Silvergate Capital¶ to open an account in its name, FTX had no straightforward way to accept dollar deposits.</p><p>In Sam’s telling, the dollars sent in by customers that had accumulated inside of Alameda Research had simply never been moved. Until July 2021, there was no other place to put them, as FTX had no US dollar bank accounts. They’d been listed on a dashboard of FTX’s customer deposits but remained inside Alameda’s bank accounts. Sam also claimed that, right up until at least June 2022, this fact, which others now found so shocking, hadn’t attracted his attention. He wasn’t managing Alameda Research; Caroline was. Toward the end of 2021, when the flow of new dollars into the fiat@ account trickled to nothing—­as customers could now deposit their dollars directly onto FTX, through a US bank—­Alameda Research had a net asset value of $100 billion. That number was of course wildly unreliable, as it was simply the market value of lots of cryptocurrencies for which the market might vanish, if Alameda tried to sell into it. But even if you valued the contents of Alameda more rigorously, as Sam sort of did in his head sometimes, you could still easily get to $30 billion. The $8.8 billion that should not have been inside Alameda Research was not exactly a rounding error. But it was, possibly, not enough to worry about. As Sam put it: “I didn’t ask, like, ‘How many dollars do we have?’ It felt to us that Alameda had infinity dollars.”</p><p>That feeling would have changed by late spring of 2022. Between the start of April and the middle of June, the price of a bitcoin fell from just over $45,000 to under $19,000. Entering that summer, the relative importance to Alameda of the $8.8 billion had skyrocketed. But Sam wasn’t managing the risk inside Alameda Research, according to him. Caroline was. Perhaps because he and Caroline were barely speaking by that point, she hadn’t bothered to raise, directly with him, her worries about the risks she’d been running.</p><p>Right up until October 2022, in Sam’s telling, he’d had only two brushes with this huge unexplained pool of other people’s money that had accumulated inside Alameda, and that Alameda was increasingly dependent upon. The first was truly bizarre: in mid-­June, Caroline had become alarmed to discover that the fiat@ account had swelled from $8.8 billion to $16 billion. She shared her worries not with Sam but with Nishad, who in turn informed Sam and Gary—­whereupon Gary discovered that it was just a bug in the software. The real number in the fiat@ account hadn’t changed: it was still $8.8 billion.</p><p>Three months later, in September, Caroline pulled Nishad aside and told him that she was growing more and more worried about Alameda’s market exposure. Nishad had taken Sam out onto the balcony of the Orchid penthouse and relayed the message—­but without explicitly mentioning the fiat@ account. At that point, in Sam’s telling, Sam thought that Alameda might be in trouble. He decided to dig into its accounts on his own and understand the problem. By October, he had a clearer picture. It was only then that he could see that Alameda had been operating as if the $8.8 billion in customer funds belonged to it. And by then it was too late to do anything about it.</p><p>Constance heard Sam out. She listened to his story. But she refused to believe it. She suspected that he was omitting some big, important fact—­say, a sudden trading loss inside Alameda Research that had caused him to actively grab customers’ money and move it into Alameda. “It is crazy,” she said. “He made me try to believe it was an accounting error.” She didn’t know how or why he had consciously decided to take customers’ money and use it as his own, but she felt sure he had.</p><p>She’d seen how critical Alameda’s willingness to trade anything with anyone at any time had been to the successful launch of FTX. She didn’t even think it fishy that a crypto exchange had its own internal trading team. “Most of the exchanges did this,”* she said. “All the Chinese ones. It’s only a matter of how big the trading team is and what they are doing.”</p><p>In the previous three and a half years, nearly $9 billion more had entered Sam’s World than had exited it. When FTX stopped returning funds to customers, on Tuesday, November 8, it still had $3 billion on hand. That dropped the missing sum to $6 billion. (The roughly $450 million stolen in the hack three days later is irrelevant to this calculation.)</p><p>Eventually we arrived at the question whose answer might offer clues to other puzzles: Where did the money go? It wasn’t the last time I’d ask it. Like Constance, I’d poke and prod and always come away with the sense that I’d learned less than I needed to know. But on that evening, Sam filled in one piece of this particular puzzle: FTX had lost a lot of money to hackers. To avoid encouraging other hackers, they’d kept their losses quiet. The biggest hacks occurred in March and April 2021. A lone trader had opened an account on FTX and cornered the market in two thinly traded tokens, BitMax and MobileCoin. His purchases drove up the prices of the two tokens wildly: the price of MobileCoin went from $2.50 to $54 in just a few weeks. This trader, who appeared to be operating from Turkey, had done what he had done not out of some special love for MobileCoin. He’d found a flaw in FTX’s risk management software. FTX allowed traders to borrow bitcoin and other easily sellable crypto against the value of their MobileCoin and BitMax holdings. The trader had inflated the value of MobileCoin and BitMax so that he might borrow actually valuable crypto against them from FTX. Once he had it he vanished, leaving FTX with a collapsing pile of tokens and a loss of $600 million worth of crypto.</p><p>The size of those hacks was an exception, Sam said. All losses due to theft combined had come to just a bit more than $1 billion. In all cases, Gary had quietly fixed the problem and they’d all moved on and allowed the thieves to keep their loot. “People playing the game,” was Sam’s description of them. (He really was easy to steal from.)</p><p>The hacks reduced to $5 billion the number of unexplained missing dollars. Sam was no help in reducing the number further. Either he didn’t know where the money had gone or he didn’t want to say. He dismissed the most obvious explanation: Alameda had suffered some big trading loss in the great crypto crash of 2022. The collapse of FTX felt a bit like the case of the missing Ripple, but on a far grander scale. This time the question of where the money was would take longer to answer, and the person most qualified to figure it out was soon gone.</p><h5>11 - Truth Serum</h5><p>Nardello firm was a lot of former FBI guys. (Corporate motto: We find out.) Chainalysis, the crypto sleuthing firm</p><p>That was in early 2023. By late April, John Ray’s head was on a swivel. “This is live-­action,” he said. “There’s always something every hour.” One day, some random crypto exchange got in touch and said, <em>By the way, we have $170 million in an account of yours: do you want it back?</em> Another day, some random FTX employee called them out of the blue to say that he’d borrowed two million bucks from the company and wanted to repay the loan—­of which, so far as Ray could see, there was no record.</p><p>Several months into the hunt, Ray’s sleuths had discovered that “someone had robbed the exchange of four hundred fifty million.” They’d stumbled upon not the simple hack of November 2022 but the complicated BitMax and MobileCoin hacks of $600 million in the spring of 2021. (The dollar value changed with fluctuations in the price of the stolen crypto.) They’d tracked the hacker not to Turkey but Mauritius. “We have a picture of him going in and out of his house,” said Ray. He was pretty sure he was going to get most of that money back. “We believe there are a lot more of these,” said Ray. Eventually, I figured, he’d find the $1 billion or so lost in hacks that Sam would have just told him about, if he’d been willing to talk to Sam.*</p><p>Once Ray’s people had finished doing the math, they concluded that FTX still owed its customers $8.6 billion.</p><p>To wring the money out of the people Sam had hurled it at, John Ray needed to prove two things. The first was that FTX hadn’t received equivalent value for its money. You couldn’t claw back money from a plumber who’d been paid some normal sum to unclog an FTX drain. But you could claw back money from the researcher to whom FTX had handed a grant to invent drains that never clogged. Simply not getting value for money was not enough for Ray to get it back, however. He also had to prove that at the moment Sam gave money away, it wasn’t his money to give. And the only way it wasn’t Sam’s money was if FTX, in the moment he gave away the money, was insolvent, or nearly so. Ray’s various attempts to claw back money raised an interesting question, which his team had yet to answer in an intelligible way: At what point was there less money in all of Sam’s World than was supposed to be inside of FTX? Exactly when did FTX go broke?</p><p>Instead of answering the question, Ray launched a blitzkrieg of lawsuits against various people to whom Sam had handed money. These were really fun to read. They were still legal texts, but they all had subtexts. Plus, Ray wrote to attract media attention. “You have to tell a story,” explained Ray. “Nobody wants to read X dollars wired to Y, blah, blah, blah. You need the imagination of a child to write this stuff.” In the first eight and a half months, he filed nine of these clawback lawsuits. Ray mainly targeted insiders—­Sam, Sam’s parents, Caroline, Nishad, and so forth—­or people to whom Sam had forked over huge sums to invest on his behalf.‡‡ His most revealing target, at least to me, was FTX’s lawyer Dan Friedberg.</p><p>Outside the US courtroom, Friedberg had one of the better views of what had occurred inside Sam’s World and maybe the finest view of the role Sullivan &amp; Cromwell had played in it. Inside the courtroom, Dan Friedberg’s experience was deemed irrelevant. And that, it seemed, was the end of it. US bankruptcy judges have sensational powers to determine which evidence to admit in a case.</p><p>At the end of June 2023, John Ray filed a report on his various collections. “To date, the Debtors have recovered approximately $7 billion in liquid assets,” he wrote, “and they anticipate additional recoveries.” Seven point three billion, to be exact. That haul didn’t include the Serum, or any large clawbacks, or the money stolen by the guy in Mauritius, or the stake in Anthropic, or most of the other private investments. An investor who was hoping to bid for the remaining portfolio told me that, if it was sold intelligently, it should go for at least $2 billion. That would raise the amount collected to $9.3 billion—­even before anyone asked CZ for the $2.275 billion he’d taken out of FTX. Ray was inching toward an answer to the question I’d been asking from the day of the collapse: Where did all that money go? The answer was: nowhere. It was still there.</p><p>The closer a person was to him, and to the business, the more questions they had about it. Zane Tackett, for instance, could not understand why, toward the end of 2021, Sam hadn’t simply replaced the customers’ deposits inside of Alameda Research with loans from the crypto banks. Back then, Alameda could have borrowed $25–­$30 billion without much trouble. Why not take that money and move the $8.8 billion of customer money back into FTX, so that if Alameda blew up it would take the crypto banks, rather than FTX, with it? Ramnik had a different question. He and Sam had invested billions of dollars of Alameda’s money—­and yet he’d never seen Sam pay attention to the risks Alameda was running. Sam’s attention always seemed to be somewhere else. The question Ramnik wanted to ask Sam was, “Why the fuck did you spend the last year playing <em>Storybook Brawl?</em>”</p><p>I had my own questions, of course. The first one had to do with financial incentives. None of the characters in this financial drama had behaved as financial characters are expected to behave. Gary had owned a piece of Alameda Research, but his stake in FTX was far more valuable. Nishad owned a big chunk of FTX and none of Alameda Research. Ditto Caroline, who ran Alameda Research but owned shares only in FTX. None of these people had any interest in moving money out of FTX into Alameda Research in a way that put FTX in jeopardy. Just the reverse: it might as well have been their money that was being moved. And yet at least up until late spring of 2022, when crypto prices began to plunge, and possibly much later than that, none of them expressed disapproval of the risk being taken with their fortunes. Why not?</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[FightCamp Review (2024)]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/fightcamp-review</link>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 30 Oct 2024 12:42:51 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A comprehensive review of FightCamp's home boxing system including the new console, trackers, and workout quality—is it worth the investment for at-home fitness?]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’ve never been as fit as when I was boxing regularly.</p><p>The combination of the intense, full-body workouts with development of a new skill always made the workouts fun and interesting, and gave me a sense of progression that is always fulfilling.</p><p>After getting over the initial soreness, I also felt better than I ever have in my adult life. I noticed the difference in my fitness on a daily basis, whether playing a different sport, or simply walking around.</p><p>I was reminded of just how much I love boxing when I tried out the new FightCamp.</p><h2>What is FightCamp?</h2><p>FightCamp is a home workout system that brings together boxing equipment, their smart sensors, and a library of content to bring you workouts at home.</p><p>This used to be just boxing workouts, but it’s now expanded to strength, weight workouts, kickboxing, stretching, and more. Everything you need to get fit, essentially.</p><p>I’ve known the cofounders of FightCamp since the early days, so I’ve had the pleasure of watching their progress, and I wrote an <a href="/blog/fightcamp-home-boxing-workouts-review">earlier review of the product back in 2019</a>.</p><p>Despite being a fan of the people and the company, I’ll try and stay objective for the purposes of this review.</p><h2>What Do You Get With FightCamp?</h2><p>FightCamp has made a ton of updates since I last reviewed the product, with the biggest one being the FightCamp console and their new trackers.</p><p>The new FightCamp package comes with:</p><ul><li>Standing bag</li><li>Bag ring (to keep it in one position)</li><li>Heart rate monitor</li><li>FightCamp console</li></ul><p>And then depending on how many people you build your package for:</p><ul><li>Gloves (set for each person)</li><li>Wraps (set for each person)</li><li>Extra heart rate monitor</li><li>Another set of trackers (for 4 total)</li></ul><p>The additional HR monitor, trackers, gloves, and wraps mean that you can also take advantage of another new update: the ability to do partner workouts.</p><p>At the time of writing, the FightCamp package is on sale for $799 USD for one person, $999 USD for two people, and so on as you add additional people.</p><p>Then the membership is $39 USD per month, which is required to get access to the library of workouts.</p><h3>The FightCamp Console</h3><p>The new FightCamp console looks and feels like a premium product, and enables a few things.</p><p>First of all, you have a nice place to put your trackers when you’re not using them that will keep them charged. That’s nice, and certainly far nicer than having another thing to remember to charge.</p><p>The second is that you can plug it into your TV, and not have to worry about setting up streaming each time. This is big for convenience, and is particularly useful when you have multiple people in your house using FightCamp (anyone can use the console once you have one, unlimited extra accounts are included in the membership).</p><p>That said, you can still stream workouts on your phone or tablet if you prefer. The console also allows you to plug in an Ethernet cable if your Wifi isn’t consistent.</p><p>Once you’ve set up your console, you put on your wraps, trackers, HR monitor and gloves, and then select a workout:</p><p>When you’re in the workout, you’ll see something like this—this one is showing a partner workout—with the trainer in the background guiding you, the round timing, exercise timing &amp; instructions (coast, 1, 2), and your punch metrics.</p><p>Once you’re done, you’ll see a workout summary with your output, strikes data, heart rate chart, and stats:</p><h3>The FightCamp Trackers</h3><p>I haven’t used the new trackers enough to determine whether they’re improved vs. the last set in terms of accuracy, but I can say that I’ve had 0 issues. They have worked reliably and without issue in tracking my punches.</p><p>They look and feel like a much more premium product now, and I appreciate the console and lights on the front showing charge amount. </p><p>They also now come with grippy covers to help avoid any slippage, though I haven’t personally had any issues with this (the wraps usually solve this).</p><p>I got a set of 4 trackers, and can verify that it’s nice to be able to do partner workouts.</p><p>I convinced my dad to join me for a partner workout, which he enjoyed, and that’s something that wouldn’t have been possible before.</p><p>Tracking of kicks for kickboxing is also apparently something that is coming in the near future, and I think I’ll enjoy that too. I’ve only ever done one kickboxing workout, but it had the same fun elements as boxing.</p><h3>The FightCamp Standing Bag</h3><p>You’ll find lots of debate about bags online.</p><p>I will personally say that I prefer a hanging bag to a standing one; they’re more stable and quieter, and having boxed in the past (and being a relatively big person), I would appreciate having a bag that is heavier.</p><p>That said, I don’t have anywhere for a hanging bag; I live in an apartment, and I can’t start cutting holes in the ceiling. </p><p>Even at my parent’s place, where I first set up the bag, I would be hesitant to install a hanging heavy bag; they require some planning and usually some destruction, and then can’t be moved around easily.</p><p>So, all that said, I do think the FightCamp bag is the best you’re going to get for a standing bag. It’s a branded version of a commercially available bag, and will cost you less since it’s rolled into the package.</p><p>They also have clear instructions for filling it up, which involves both water and sand, and this gets the weight in the bottom much higher than just water or sand alone.</p><p>Since the last time I used them, they’ve also added a rubber mat + ring around the bag on the floor, which prevents it from moving around.</p><p>I’d still put some rubber matting or other sound dampening underneath if I was using it in an apartment above someone, but it’s as effective a solution as you’re going to find.</p><h3>The FightCamp Workouts</h3><p>The workouts have come a long, long way since I last reviewed FightCamp.</p><p>There’s a much wider variety now, offering a huge range of classes from a bunch of different trainers.</p><p>There are strength and conditioning workouts, stretching, and more that wasn’t there either.</p><p>My favorite feature they’ve added is the “Prospect Path,” which is a guided series of workouts designed to introduce you to FightCamp and boxing, and slowly build fitness. This is the appeal of many of the fitness programs out there for me: not having to think.</p><p>They also have a nice series of instructional videos on the boxing aspects themself, which is great for new boxers.</p><p>And of course, it’s possible to do the workouts as partner workouts now, which is another great feature.</p><h3>The FightCamp Community</h3><p>One of the biggest losses when you compare working out in person to working out with an online service like FightCamp is the sense of community that you build at an in-person gym.</p><p>FightCamp has consistently done well at keeping their Facebook community active and integrating features in the app to help inspire that sense of community.</p><p>You can challenge your past self in the app, or challenge someone else. I see daily shoutouts and competitions being mentioned in the community, so it’s an active component for those that want it.</p><p>And the partner workouts are a great way to get other people in your house involved (which is included in the membership), or to have some friends over for a workout.</p><h2>What’s Changed Since My Last Review?</h2><p>Almost too much to mention, to be honest, but I’ll give it a shot.</p><p>Many of the things I mentioned in my last review have been improved, which is always awesome to see:</p><ul><li>The app is available on both iOS and Android now</li><li>There’s support for heart rate monitors, and it actually comes with one</li><li>There’s support for sending data to Apple Health</li></ul><h3>Other Improvements</h3><p><strong>The overall package</strong>: the overall package—bag, trackers, gloves, HR monitor, etc.—has been refined through the years to be a great setup. It’s a premium feel package, with everything you need and nothing you don’t. </p><p><strong>Extra trackers</strong>: assuming you opt for the second set of trackers, I think the ability to do a partner workout and/or kickboxing is big. Working out together is fun, and if you get others in your household working out that adds a bunch of value. Kickboxing is another skill that you can develop while getting fit.</p><p><strong>Workout quality &amp; availability</strong>: the workouts are of the highest quality, and full of variety. I’m confident anyone using the product will find a trainer they love, and a wide enough variety of instruction and workouts.</p><h3>Improvements I’d Like To See</h3><p>At this point I’ve got very little to say on this front: I think the team has done a great job listening to customers and improving over the years.</p><p>I do have a few small things, however:</p><p>The first is better integration with third party fitness tracking. I said this in my last review, and they have added support for Apple Health, but I’d like to see support for some other major fitness brands as well, Garmin and Strava being my preference, given I’m already in their ecosystems.</p><p>Strava in particular I think could be good from a marketing standpoint, as those workouts get good visibility from others in someone’s Strava social network.</p><p>You <em>can</em> set up Apple Health to share directly to Strava, though I don’t tend to do this as it gets complicated tracking which services are uploading to Strava from where.</p><p>The second is a small thing, but I couldn’t figure out how to reconnect my HR monitor (which had dropped out mid-workout) during the workout. It’s obviously tough during a boxing workout to do anything on your phone, but being able to pause and access HR monitor settings during the workout would be nice.</p><p>The third is a tricky one, and something I’ve dealt with in my own professional life, but I found the documentation online lacking a bit. I think the reason for this is the introduction of the new console, and so some things have changed.</p><p>I was wondering exactly how to get my parents set up with FightCamp, so they could do a workout with me, and couldn’t find a clear answer as to whether they needed to create an account, how to invite them, etc.</p><p>In the end, they created an account and could see the console and start using it right away, so it turned out to be simple anyway. And I’m sure the documentation will continue to improve with time as they get a chance to update it.</p><h2>Is FightCamp Worth It?</h2><p>The final verdict: is FightCamp worth it?</p><p>Well, the cost of FightCamp, assuming you get the 1-person package, is going to be ~$799 USD (at time of writing, or $999 USD regular price) + $39/mo for the subscription.</p><p>So, ~$1267 USD for the first year, which works out to ~$106/mo. There aren’t many gyms around that offer a membership cheaper than $106/mo, and it’s easy to find gyms that are twice that price, often with caps on the number of classes you can do.</p><p>Could you assemble some boxing gear and do YouTube workouts for cheaper? Of course you could, but you’d lose the core value of FightCamp, which is the combination of the workouts with the tracking and data. </p><p>When I work out, I want to know that I’m improving. I want to see the stats, and I want to see how I compare to others. That’s the core value of FightCamp.</p><p>If you have others in your household that are going to use it, it becomes an even better deal.</p><p>I truly don’t think you’ll find a better at-home workout than FightCamp.</p><p>You can <a href="https://joinfightcamp.com/">check out the FightCamp website here.</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Big Short by Michael Lewis: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-big-short-michael-lewis</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 23 Mar 2024 22:07:44 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[An awesome book. The Big Short tells the story of the 2008 financial crisis in such an entertaining form that only Michael Lewis could have written it.His first book, Liar’s Poker, unwittingly sets the stage for this crisis, and so I would recommend reading the pair together, in order.The story of the financial crisis is one of misaligned incentives, misunderstood risk, and the issues with our current financial system that allow such things to happen. Everyone who invests at all should read this book, in hopes of better understanding the players and risk that exist in investing.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>History doesn’t repeat itself but it rhymes: the bond trading craze in the 1980s set the stage for the mortgage backed securities crisis, and the motivators in both cases were similar.</li><li>It can be very lucrative to take advantage of a trend or market in the short term. The trick is knowing when to get out.</li><li>Whenever there are powerful financial incentives for one outcome over another, be very careful. Ratings agencies were good examples of those who fell prey to this kind of pressure before the crisis.</li><li>Ask “Can you explain that to me in simpler terms?” a lot of times, and you’re guaranteed to learn something, including whether the person you’re talking to knows what they’re talking about.</li><li>Beware floating-rate loans and make sure you do the math on what that loan might cost if interest rates change dramatically.</li><li>Good situations to look for are those with a fixed downside, and a much higher, non-fixed upside. The credit default swaps that Michael Burry bought to bet against subprime mortgage bonds were these type of bets.</li><li>Incentives drive behaviour. If you want to influence behavior, change the incentives. And if you want to show others you’re serious about your behavior, align your incentives. Burry didn’t make any money off his investors’ money until he made money for them first.</li><li>People—especially people investing—don’t like risk, and don’t like to think about bad things happening. That means that you can gain an edge if you can better assess the risk, and are willing to think deeply about bad things happening.</li><li>Credit card delinquencies and mortgage-related fraud are two predictors of bubbles, and indications that people are no longer able to meet their obligations.</li><li>Once you become the defender of an idea, it becomes much harder to change your mind about it. Beware debates where you have to become the defender.</li><li>Selling is a skill central to every industry. In investing, you need to sell your ideas to investors, in a way that is compelling but doesn’t give them all the tools to do it themselves.</li><li>Complexity and opacity are the hallmarks of an informational advantage, and therefore what investors love. Beware them if you are on the other side though, as there is likely risk you are not seeing, or you are being taken advantage of in some other way (like price).</li><li>Banks and traders are often not the ones assuming the ultimate risk; they are merely brokers. In the sub-prime crisis, Goldman was selling the credit default swaps, but the triple-A rated insurance company AIG (American Insurance Group) was actually on the other side of the bet.</li><li>Historically, the ratio of median home price to income in the US has been around 3:1. Though this varies widely across the country, in late 2004 it was 4:1 nationally, 10:1 in LA, and 8.5:1 in Miami.</li><li>Another way to view home prices: the value-to-gross rental ratio. The rule of thumb is that you buy at ten and sell at twenty.</li><li>One pair that made a ton of money during the crisis were Jamie Mai and Charlie Ledley, who started their own money management firm at age 30, with $110K in the bank.</li><li>When the value of a stock obviously turns on some upcoming event whose date was known, options are a good way to have higher upside with limited downside than simply buying the stock.</li><li>Black-Scholes option pricing models don’t make much sense for pricing options because they use a bell curve to predict the chance of the stock moving to a certain price.</li><li>If something looks too good to be true, it probably is. And if it isn’t, it might be a huge opportunity.</li><li>Past performance is no guarantee of future performance. The turkey problem is prevalent particularly in financial markets where the incentives are to keep things going the way they are.</li><li>Credit quality gets better in March and April because that’s when people get their tax refunds.</li><li>The incentives of a public corporation are far different than that of a partnership, where more people have skin in the game. Salomon Brothers was the first example, and the bailing out of banks means that people know they can aim to make a profit by any means necessary, without considering the risk, and will be bailed out by the government if they fail.</li></ul><h4>Detailed Notes</h4><h5>PROLOGUE: Poltergeist</h5><p>What I never imagined is that the future reader might look back on any of this, or on my own peculiar experience, and say, &quot;How quaint.&quot; How innocent. Not for a moment did I suspect that the financial 1980s would last for two full decades longer, or that the difference in degree between Wall Street and ordinary economic life would swell to a difference in kind. That a single bond trader might be paid $47 million a year and feel cheated. That the mortgage bond market invented on the Salomon Brothers trading floor, which seemed like such a good idea at the time, would lead to the most purely <em>financial</em> economic disaster in history. That exactly twenty years after Howie Rubin became a scandalous household name for losing $250 million, another mortgage bond trader named Howie, inside Morgan Stanley, would lose $9 <em>billion</em> on a single mortgage trade, and remain essentially unknown, without anyone beyond a small circle inside Morgan Stanley ever hearing about what he&#x27;d done, or why.</p><p>When I sat down to write my first book, I had no great agenda, apart from telling what I took to be a remarkable tale. If you&#x27;d gotten a few drinks in me and then asked what effect the book would have on the world, I might have said something like, &quot;I hope that college students trying to decide what to do with their lives might read it and decide that it&#x27;s silly to phony it up, and abandon their passions or even their faint interests, to become financiers.&quot; I hoped that some bright kid at Ohio State University who really wanted to be an oceanographer would read my book, spurn the offer from Goldman Sachs, and set out to sea.</p><p>In the two decades after I left, I waited for the end of Wall Street as I had known it. The outrageous bonuses, the endless parade of rogue traders, the scandal that sank Drexel Burnham, the scandal that destroyed John Gutfreund and finished off Salomon Brothers, the crisis following the collapse of my old boss John Meriwether&#x27;s Long-Term Capital Management, the Internet bubble: Over and over again, the financial system was, in some narrow way, discredited. Yet the big Wall Street banks at the center of it just kept on growing, along with the sums of money that they doled out to twenty-six-year-olds to perform tasks of no obvious social utility. The rebellion by American youth against the money culture never happened. Why bother to overturn your parents&#x27; world when you can buy it and sell off the pieces?</p><p>At some point I couldn&#x27;t contain myself: I called Meredith Whitney. This was back in March 2008, just before the failure of Bear Stearns, when the outcome still hung in the balance. I thought, If she&#x27;s right, this really could be the moment when the financial world gets put back into the box from which it escaped in the early 1980s. I was curious to see if she made sense, but also to know where this young woman who was crashing the stock market with her every utterance had come from.</p><p>She&#x27;d arrived on Wall Street in 1994, out of the Brown University Department of English. &quot;I got to New York and I didn&#x27;t even know research existed,&quot; she says. She&#x27;d wound up landing a job at Oppenheimer and Co. and then had the most incredible piece of luck: to be trained by a man who helped her to establish not merely a career but a worldview. His name, she said, was Steve Eisman. &quot;After I made the Citi call,&quot; she said, &quot;one of the best things that happened was when Steve called and told me how proud he was of me.&quot; Having never heard of Steve Eisman, I didn&#x27;t think anything of this.</p><p>But then I read the news that a little-known New York hedge fund manager named John Paulson had made $20 billion or so for his investors and nearly $4 billion for himself. This was more money than anyone had ever made so quickly on Wall Street. Moreover, he had done it by betting against the very subprime mortgage bonds now sinking Citigroup and every other big Wall Street investment bank</p><h5>CHAPTER ONE: A Secret Origin Story</h5><p>Eisman&#x27;s parents, old-fashioned value investors at heart, had always told him that the best way to learn about Wall Street was to work as an equity analyst. He started in equity analysis, working for the people who shaped public opinion about public companies.</p><p>Eisman quickly established himself as one of the few analysts at Oppenheimer whose opinions might stir the markets. &quot;It was like going back to school for me,&quot; he said. &quot;I would learn about an industry and I would go and write a paper about it.&quot;</p><p>The mortgage bond was different in important ways from old-fashioned corporate and government bonds. A mortgage bond wasn&#x27;t a single giant loan for an explicit fixed term. A mortgage bond was a claim on the cash flows from a pool of thousands of individual home mortgages. These cash flows were always problematic, as the borrowers had the right to pay off any time they pleased. This was the single biggest reason that bond investors initially had been reluctant to invest in home mortgage loans: Mortgage borrowers typically repaid their loans only when interest rates fell, and they could refinance more cheaply, leaving the owner of a mortgage bond holding a pile of cash, to invest at lower interest rates. The investor in home loans didn&#x27;t know how long his investment would last, only that he would get his money back when he least wanted it. To limit this uncertainty, the people I&#x27;d worked with at Salomon Brothers, who created the mortgage bond market, had come up with a clever solution. They took giant pools of home loans and carved up the payments made by homeowners into pieces, called tranches. The buyer of the first tranche was like the owner of the ground floor in a flood: He got hit with the first wave of mortgage prepayments. In exchange, he received a higher interest rate. The buyer of the second tranche--the second story of the skyscraper--took the next wave of prepayments and in exchange received the second highest interest rate, and so on. The investor in the top floor of the building received the lowest rate of interest but had the greatest assurance that his investment wouldn&#x27;t end before he wanted it to.</p><p>The big fear of the 1980s mortgage bond investor was that he would be repaid too quickly, not that he would fail to be repaid at all. The pool of loans underlying the mortgage bond conformed to the standards, in their size and the credit quality of the borrowers, set by one of several government agencies: Freddie Mac, Fannie Mae, and Ginnie Mae. The loans carried, in effect, government guarantees; if the homeowners defaulted, the government paid off their debts. When Steve Eisman stumbled into this new, rapidly growing industry of specialty finance, the mortgage bond was about to be put to a new use: making loans that did not qualify for government guarantees. The purpose was to extend credit to less and less creditworthy homeowners, not so that they might buy a house but so that they could cash out whatever equity they had in the house they already owned. The mortgage bonds created from subprime home loans extended the logic invented to address the problem of early repayment to cope with the problem of no repayment at all. The investor in the first floor, or tranche, would be exposed not to prepayments but to actual losses. He took the first losses until his investment was entirely wiped out, whereupon the losses hit the guy on the second floor. And so on.</p><p>By the time Household&#x27;s CEO, Bill Aldinger, collected his $100 million, Eisman was on his way to becoming the financial market&#x27;s first socialist. &quot;When you&#x27;re a conservative Republican, you never think people are making money by ripping other people off,&quot; he said. His mind was now fully open to the possibility. &quot;I now realized there was an entire industry, called consumer finance, that basically existed to rip people off.&quot;</p><p>Denied the chance to manage money by his hedge fund employer, he quit and tried to start his own hedge fund. An outfit called FrontPoint Partners, soon to be wholly owned by Morgan Stanley, housed a collection of hedge funds. In early 2004, Morgan Stanley agreed to let Eisman set up a fund that focused exclusively on financial companies: Wall Street banks, home builders, mortgage originators, companies with big financial services divisions--General Electric (GE), for instance--and anyone else who touched American finance. Morgan Stanley took a cut of the fees off the top and provided him with office space, furniture, and support staff. The only thing they didn&#x27;t supply him with was money. Eisman was expected to drum that up on his own. He flew all over the world and eventually met with hundreds of big-time investors. &quot;Basically we tried to raise money, and didn&#x27;t really do it,&quot; he says. &quot;Everyone said, &#x27;It&#x27;s a pleasure to meet you. Let&#x27;s see how you do.&#x27;&quot;</p><p>All of them enjoyed, immensely, the idea of running money with Steve Eisman. Working for Eisman, you never felt you were working for Eisman. He&#x27;d teach you but he wouldn&#x27;t supervise you. Eisman also put a fine point on the absurdity they saw everywhere around them. &quot;Steve&#x27;s fun to take to any Wall Street meeting,&quot; said Vinny. &quot;Because he&#x27;ll say &#x27;explain that to me&#x27; thirty different times. Or &#x27;could you explain that more, in English?&#x27; Because once you do that, there&#x27;s a few things you learn. For a start, you figure out if they even know what they&#x27;re talking about. And a lot of times they don&#x27;t!&quot;</p><p>By early 2005 Eisman&#x27;s little group shared a sense that a great many people working on Wall Street couldn&#x27;t possibly understand what they were doing. The subprime mortgage machine was up and running again, as if it had never broken down in the first place. If the first act of subprime lending had been freaky, this second act was terrifying. Thirty billion dollars was a big year for subprime lending in the mid-1990s. In 2000 there had been $130 billion in subprime mortgage lending, and 55 billion dollars&#x27; worth of those loans had been repackaged as mortgage bonds. In 2005 there would be $625 billion in subprime mortgage loans, $507 billion of which found its way into mortgage bonds. Half a trillion dollars in subprime mortgage-backed bonds in a single year. Subprime lending was booming even as interest rates were rising--which made no sense at all. Even more shocking was that the terms of the loans were changing, in ways that increased the likelihood they would go bad. Back in 1996, 65 percent of subprime loans had been fixed-rate, meaning that typical subprime borrowers might be getting screwed, but at least they knew for sure how much they owed each month until they paid off the loan. By 2005, 75 percent of subprime loans were some form of floating-rate, usually fixed for the first two years.</p><p>The original cast of subprime financiers had been sunk by the small fraction of the loans they made that they had kept on their books. The market might have learned a simple lesson: Don&#x27;t make loans to people who can&#x27;t repay them. Instead it learned a complicated one: You can keep on making these loans, just don&#x27;t keep them on your books. Make the loans, then sell them off to the fixed income departments of big Wall Street investment banks, which will in turn package them into bonds and sell them to investors. Long Beach Savings was the first existing bank to adopt what was called the &quot;originate and sell&quot; model. This proved such a hit--Wall Street would buy your loans, even if you would not!--that a new company, called B&amp;C mortgage, was founded to do nothing but originate and sell. Lehman Brothers thought that was such a great idea that they bought B&amp;C mortgage. By early 2005 all the big Wall Street investment banks were deep into the subprime game. Bear Stearns, Merrill Lynch, Goldman Sachs, and Morgan Stanley all had what they termed &quot;shelves&quot; for their subprime wares, with strange names like HEAT and SAIL and GSAMP, that made it a bit more difficult for the general audience to see that these subprime bonds were being underwritten by Wall Street&#x27;s biggest names.</p><p>By &quot;this stuff,&quot; Eisman meant the stocks of companies involved in subprime lending. Stock prices could do all sorts of crazy things: He didn&#x27;t want to short them until the loans started going bad. To that end, Vinny kept a close eye on the behavior of the American subprime mortgage borrower. On the twenty-fifth of each month, the remittance reports arrived on his computer screen, and he scanned them for any upticks in delinquencies. &quot;According to the things we were tracking,&quot; says Vinny, &quot;the credit quality was still good. At least until the second half of 2005.&quot;</p><p>In the fog of the first eighteen months of running his own business, Eisman had an epiphany, an identifiable moment when he realized he&#x27;d been missing something obvious. Here he was, trying to figure out which stocks to pick, but the fate of the stocks depended increasingly on the bonds. As the subprime mortgage market grew, every financial company was, one way or another, exposed to it. &quot;The fixed income world dwarfs the equity world,&quot; he said. &quot;The equity world is like a fucking zit compared to the bond market.&quot; Just about every major Wall Street investment bank was effectively run by its bond departments. In most cases--Dick Fuld at Lehman Brothers, John Mack at Morgan Stanley, Jimmy Cayne at Bear Stearns--the CEO was a former bond guy. Ever since the 1980s, when the leading bond firm, Salomon Brothers, had made so much money that it looked as if it was in a different industry than the other firms, the bond market had been where the big money was made. &quot;It was the golden rule,&quot; said Eisman. &quot;The people who have the gold make the rules.&quot;</p><h5>CHAPTER TWO: In the Land of the Blind</h5><p>“Writing a check separates a commitment from a conversation.”--Warren Buffett</p><p>He now had a tactical investment problem. The various floors, or tranches, of subprime mortgage bonds all had one thing in common: The bonds were impossible to sell short. To sell a stock or bond short, you needed to borrow it, and these tranches of mortgage bonds were tiny and impossible to find. You could buy them or not buy them, but you couldn&#x27;t bet explicitly against them; the market for subprime mortgages simply had no place for people in it who took a dim view of them. You might know with certainty that the entire subprime mortgage bond market was doomed, but you could do nothing about it. You couldn&#x27;t short houses. You could short the stocks of home building companies--Pulte Homes, say, or Toll Brothers--but that was expensive, indirect, and dangerous. Stock prices could rise for a lot longer than Burry could stay solvent.</p><p>A couple of years earlier, he&#x27;d discovered credit default swaps. A credit default swap was confusing mainly because it wasn&#x27;t really a swap at all. It was an insurance policy, typically on a corporate bond, with semiannual premium payments and a fixed term. For instance, you might pay $200,000 a year to buy a ten-year credit default swap on $100 million in General Electric bonds. The most you could lose was $2 million: $200,000 a year for ten years. The most you could make was $100 million, if General Electric defaulted on its debt any time in the next ten years and bondholders recovered nothing. It was a zero-sum bet: If you made $100 million, the guy who had sold you the credit default swap lost $100 million. It was also an asymmetric bet, like laying down money on a number in roulette. The most you could lose were the chips you put on the table; but if your number came up you made thirty, forty, even fifty times your money. &quot;Credit default swaps remedied the problem of open-ended risk for me,&quot; said Burry. &quot;If I bought a credit default swap, my downside was defined and certain, and the upside was many multiples of it.&quot;</p><p>The only problem was that there was no such thing as a credit default swap on a subprime mortgage bond, not that he could see. He&#x27;d need to prod the big Wall Street firms to create them. But which firms? If he was right and the housing market crashed, these firms in the middle of the market were sure to lose a lot of money. There was no point buying insurance from a bank that went out of business the minute the insurance became valuable. He didn&#x27;t even bother calling Bear Stearns and Lehman Brothers, as they were more exposed to the mortgage bond market than the other firms. Goldman Sachs, Morgan Stanley, Deutsche Bank, Bank of America, UBS, Merrill Lynch, and Citigroup were, to his mind, the most likely to survive a crash. He called them all. Five of them had no idea what he was talking about; two came back and said that, while the market didn&#x27;t exist, it might one day. Inside of three years, credit default swaps on subprime mortgage bonds would become a trillion-dollar market and precipitate hundreds of billions of dollars&#x27; worth of losses inside big Wall Street firms. Yet, when Michael Burry pestered the firms in the beginning of 2005, only Deutsche Bank and Goldman Sachs had any real interest in continuing the conversation. No one on Wall Street, as far as he could tell, saw what he was seeing.</p><p>Burry did not think investing could be reduced to a formula or learned from any one role model. The more he studied Buffett, the less he thought Buffett could be copied; indeed, the lesson of Buffett was: To succeed in a spectacular fashion you had to be spectacularly unusual. &quot;If you are going to be a great investor, you have to fit the style to who you are,&quot; Burry said. &quot;At one point I recognized that Warren Buffett, though he had every advantage in learning from Ben Graham, did not copy Ben Graham, but rather set out on his own path, and ran money his way, by his own rules.... I also immediately internalized the idea that no school could teach someone how to be a great investor. If it were true, it&#x27;d be the most popular school in the world, with an impossibly high tuition. So it must not be true.&quot; Investing was something you had to learn how to do on your own, in your own peculiar way. Burry had no real money to invest, but he nevertheless dragged his obsession along with him through high school, college, and medical school. He&#x27;d reached Stanford Hospital without ever taking a class in finance or accounting, let alone working for any Wall Street firm. He had maybe $40,000 in cash, against $145,000 in student loans. He had spent the previous four years working medical student hours. Nevertheless, he had found time to make himself a financial expert of sorts.</p><p>Before I went to college the military had this &quot;we do more before 9am than most people do all day&quot; and I used to think “and I do more than the military.” As you know there are some select people that just find a drive in certain activities that supersedes EVERYTHING else.</p><p>Once he figured out he had nothing more to learn from the crowd on his thread, he quit it to create what later would be called a blog but at the time was just a weird form of communication. He was working sixteen-hour shifts at the hospital, confining his blogging mainly to the hours between midnight and three in the morning. On his blog he posted his stock market trades and his arguments for making the trades. People found him. As a money manager at a big Philadelphia value fund said, &quot;The first thing I wondered was, When is he doing this? The guy was a medical intern. I only saw the nonmedical part of his day, and it was simply awesome. He&#x27;s showing people his trades. And people are following it in real time. He&#x27;s doing value investing--in the middle of the dot-com bubble. He&#x27;s buying value stocks, which is what we&#x27;re doing. But we&#x27;re losing money. We&#x27;re losing clients. All of a sudden he goes on this tear. He&#x27;s up fifty percent. It&#x27;s uncanny. He&#x27;s uncanny. And we&#x27;re not the only ones watching it.&quot;</p><p>Mike Burry couldn&#x27;t see exactly who was following his financial moves, but he could tell which domains they came from. In the beginning his readers came from EarthLink and AOL. Just random individuals. Pretty soon, however, they weren&#x27;t. People were coming to his site from mutual funds like Fidelity and big Wall Street investment banks like Morgan Stanley. One day he lit into Vanguard&#x27;s index funds and almost instantly received a cease and desist order from Vanguard&#x27;s attorneys. Burry suspected that serious investors might even be acting on his blog posts, but he had no clear idea who they might be. &quot;The market found him,&quot; says the Philadelphia mutual fund manager. &quot;He was recognizing patterns no one else was seeing.&quot;</p><p>His $40,000 in assets against $145,000 in student loans posed the question of exactly what portfolio he would run. His father had died after another misdiagnosis: A doctor had failed to spot the cancer on an X-ray, and the family had received a small settlement. The father disapproved of the stock market, but the payout from his death funded his son into it. His mother was able to kick in $20,000 from her settlement, his three brothers kicked in $10,000 each of theirs. With that, Dr. Michael Burry opened Scion Capital.</p><p>He arrived at the big New York money management firm as formally attired as he had ever been in his entire life to find its partners in t-shirts and sweatpants. The exchange went something like this. &quot;We&#x27;d like to give you a million dollars.&quot;&quot;Excuse me?&quot;&quot;We want to buy a quarter of your new hedge fund. For a million dollars.&quot;&quot;You do?&quot;&quot;Yes. We&#x27;re offering a million dollars.&quot;&quot;After tax!&quot; Somehow Burry had it in his mind that one day he wanted to be worth a million dollars, after tax. At any rate, he&#x27;d just blurted that last bit out before he fully understood what they were after. And they gave it to him! At that moment, on the basis of what he&#x27;d written on his blog, he went from being an indebted medical student with a net worth of minus $105,000 to a millionaire with a few outstanding loans. Burry didn&#x27;t know it, but it was the first time Joel Greenblatt had done such a thing. &quot;He was just obviously this brilliant guy, and there aren&#x27;t that many of them,&quot; says Greenblatt. Shortly after that odd encounter, he had a call from the insurance holding company White Mountains. White Mountains was run by Jack Byrne, a member of Warren Buffett&#x27;s inner circle, and they had spoken to Gotham Capital. &quot;We didn&#x27;t know you were selling part of your firm,&quot; they said--and Burry explained that he didn&#x27;t realize it either until a few days earlier, when someone offered a million dollars, after tax, for it. It turned out that White Mountains, too, had been watching Michael Burry closely. &quot;What intrigued us more than anything was that he was a neurology resident,&quot; says Kip Oberting, then at White Mountains. &quot;When the hell was he doing this?&quot; From White Mountains he extracted $600,000 for a smaller piece of his fund, plus a promise to send him $10 million to invest. &quot;And yes,&quot; said Oberting, &quot;he was the only person we found on the Internet and cold-called and gave him money.&quot;</p><p>This method of attracting funds suited Mike Burry. More to the point, it worked. He&#x27;d started Scion Capital with a bit more than a million dollars--the money from his mother and brothers and his own million, after tax. In his first full year, 2001, the S&amp;P 500 fell 11.88 percent. Scion was up 55 percent. The next year, the S&amp;P 500 fell again, by 22.1 percent, and yet Scion was up again: 16 percent. The next year, 2003, the stock market finally turned around and rose 28.69 percent, but Mike Burry beat it again--his investments rose by 50 percent. By the end of 2004, Mike Burry was managing $600 million and turning money away. &quot;If he&#x27;d run his fund to maximize the amount he had under management, he&#x27;d have been running many, many billions of dollars,&quot; says a New York hedge fund manager who watched Burry&#x27;s performance with growing incredulity. &quot;He designed Scion so it was bad for business but good for investing.&quot;</p><p>Warren Buffett had an acerbic partner, Charlie Munger, who evidently cared a lot less than Buffett did about whether people liked him. Back in 1995, Munger had given a talk at Harvard Business School called &quot;The Psychology of Human Misjudgment.&quot; If you wanted to predict how people would behave, Munger said, you only had to look at their incentives. FedEx couldn&#x27;t get its night shift to finish on time; they tried everything to speed it up but nothing worked--until they stopped paying night shift workers by the hour and started to pay them by the shift. Xerox created a new, better machine only to have it sell less well than the inferior older ones--until they figured out the salesmen got a bigger commission for selling the older one. &quot;Well, you can say, &#x27;Everybody knows that,&#x27;&quot; said Munger. &quot;I think I&#x27;ve been in the top five percent of my age cohort all my life in understanding the power of incentives, and all my life I&#x27;ve underestimated it. And never a year passes but I get some surprise that pushes my limit a little farther.&quot;</p><p>Even in life or death situations, doctors, nurses, and patients all responded to bad incentives. In hospitals in which the reimbursement rates for appendectomies ran higher, for instance, the surgeons removed more appendixes. The evolution of eye surgery was another great example. In the 1990s, the ophthalmologists were building careers on performing cataract procedures. They&#x27;d take half an hour or less, and yet Medicare would reimburse them $1,700 a pop. In the late 1990s, Medicare slashed reimbursement levels to around $450 per procedure, and the incomes of the surgically minded ophthalmologists fell. Across America, ophthalmologists rediscovered an obscure and risky procedure called radial keratotomy, and there was a boom in surgery to correct small impairments of vision. The inadequately studied procedure was marketed as a cure for the suffering of contact lens wearers. &quot;In reality,&quot; says Burry, &quot;the incentive was to maintain their high, often one-to two-million-dollar incomes, and the justification followed. The industry rushed to come up with something less dangerous than radial keratotomy, and Lasik was eventually born.&quot;</p><p>Thus when Mike Burry went into business he made sure that he had the proper incentives. He disapproved of the typical hedge fund manager&#x27;s deal. Taking 2 percent of assets off the top, as most did, meant the hedge fund manager got paid simply for amassing vast amounts of other people&#x27;s money. Scion Capital charged investors only its actual expenses--which typically ran well below 1 percent of the assets. To make the first nickel for himself, he had to make investors&#x27; money grow. &quot;Think about the genesis of Scion,&quot; says one of his early investors. &quot;The guy has no money and he chooses to forgo a fee that any other hedge fund takes for granted. It was unheard of.&quot;</p><p>For roughly $100 a year he became a subscriber to 10-K Wizard. Scion Capital&#x27;s decision-making apparatus consisted of one guy in a room, with the door closed and the shades drawn, poring over publicly available information and data on 10-K Wizard. He went looking for court rulings, deal completions, or government regulatory changes--anything that might change the value of a company.</p><p>Often as not, he turned up what he called &quot;ick&quot; investments. In October 2001, he explained the concept in his letter to investors: &quot;Ick investing means taking a special analytical interest in stocks that inspire a first reaction of &#x27;ick.&#x27;&quot;The alarmingly named Avant! Corporation was a good example. He&#x27;d found it searching for the word &quot;accepted&quot; in news stories. He knew that, standing on the edge of the playing field, he needed to find unorthodox ways to tilt it to his advantage, and that usually meant finding unusual situations the world might not be fully aware of. &quot;I wasn&#x27;t searching for a news report of a scam or fraud per se,&quot; he said. &quot;That would have been too backward-looking, and I was looking to get in front of something. I was looking for something happening in the courts that might lead to an investment thesis. An argument being accepted, a plea being accepted, a settlement being accepted by the court.&quot; A court had accepted a plea from a software company called the Avant! Corporation. Avant! had been accused of stealing from a competitor the software code that was the whole foundation of Avant!&#x27;s business. The company had $100 million in cash in the bank, was still generating $100 million a year of free cash flow--and had a market value of only $250 million! Michael Burry started digging; by the time he was done, he knew more about the Avant! Corporation than any man on earth. He was able to see that even if the executives went to jail (as they did) and the fines were paid (as they were), Avant! would be worth a lot more than the market then assumed. Most of its engineers were Chinese nationals on work visas, and thus trapped--there was no risk that anyone would quit before the lights were out. To make money on Avant!&#x27;s stock, however, he&#x27;d probably have to stomach short-term losses, as investors puked up shares in horrified response to negative publicity.</p><p>Burry bought his first shares of Avant! in June 2001 at $12 a share. Avant!&#x27;s management then appeared on the cover of an issue of Business Week under the headline &quot;Does Crime Pay?&quot; The stock plunged; Burry bought more. Avant!&#x27;s management went to jail. The stock fell some more. Mike Burry kept on buying it--all the way down to $2 a share. He became Avant!&#x27;s single largest shareholder; he pressed management for changes. &quot;With [the former CEO&#x27;s] criminal aura no longer a part of operating management,&quot; he wrote to the new bosses, &quot;Avant! has a chance to demonstrate its concern for shareholders.&quot; In August, in another e-mail, he wrote, &quot;Avant! still makes me feel I&#x27;m sleeping with the village slut. No matter how well my needs are met, I doubt I&#x27;ll ever brag about it. The &#x27;creep&#x27; factor is off the charts. I half think that if I pushed Avant! too hard I&#x27;d end up being terrorized by the Chinese mafia.&quot; Four months later, Avant! got taken over for $22 a share. &quot;That was a classic Mike Burry trade,&quot; says one of his investors. &quot;It goes up by ten times but first it goes down by half.&quot;</p><p>This isn&#x27;t the sort of ride most investors enjoy, but it was, Burry thought, the essence of value investing. His job was to disagree loudly with popular sentiment. He couldn&#x27;t do this if he was at the mercy of very short-term market moves, and so he didn&#x27;t give his investors the ability to remove their money on short notice, as most hedge funds did. If you gave Scion your money to invest, you were stuck for at least a year. Burry also designed his fund to attract people who wanted to be long the stock market--who wanted to bet on stocks going up rather than stocks going down. &quot;I am not a short at heart,&quot; he said. &quot;I don&#x27;t dig into companies looking to short them, generally. I want the upside to be much more than the downside, fundamentally.&quot; He also didn&#x27;t like the idea of taking the risk of selling a stock short, as the risk was, theoretically, unlimited. It could only fall to zero, but it could rise to infinity.</p><p>On May 19, 2005--a month before the terms were finalized--Mike Burry did his first subprime mortgage deals. He bought $60 million in credit default swaps from Deutsche Bank--$10 million each on six different bonds. &quot;The reference securities,&quot; these were called. You didn&#x27;t buy insurance on the entire subprime mortgage bond market but on a particular bond, and Burry had devoted himself to finding exactly the right ones to bet against. He&#x27;d read dozens of prospectuses and scoured hundreds more, looking for the dodgiest pools of mortgages, and was still pretty certain even then (and dead certain later) that he was the only human being on earth who read them, apart from the lawyers who drafted them. In doing so, he likely also became the only investor to do the sort of old-fashioned bank credit analysis on the home loans that should have been done before they were made. He was the opposite of an old-fashioned banker, however. He was looking not for the best loans to make but the worst loans--so that he could bet against them.</p><p>He analyzed the relative importance of the loan-to-value ratios of the home loans, of second liens on the homes, of the location of the homes, of the absence of loan documentation and proof of income of the borrower, and a dozen or so other factors to determine the likelihood that a home loan made in America circa 2005 would go bad. Then he went looking for the bonds backed by the worst of the loans. It surprised him that Deutsche Bank didn&#x27;t seem to care which bonds he picked to bet against. From their point of view, so far as he could tell, all subprime mortgage bonds were the same. The price of insurance was driven not by any independent analysis but by the ratings placed on the bond by the rating agencies, Moody&#x27;s and Standard &amp; Poor&#x27;s.* If he wanted to buy insurance on the supposedly riskless triple-A-rated tranche, he might pay 20 basis points (0.20 percent); on the riskier A-rated tranches, he might pay 50 basis points (0.50 percent); and, on the even less safe triple-B-rated tranches, 200 basis points--that is, 2 percent. (A basis point is one-hundredth of one percentage point.) The triple-B-rated tranches--the ones that would be worth zero if the underlying mortgage pool experienced a loss of just 7 percent--were what he was after. He felt this to be a very conservative bet, which he was able, through analysis, to turn into even more of a sure thing. Anyone who even glanced at the prospectuses could see that there were many critical differences between one triple-B bond and the next--the percentage of interest-only loans contained in their underlying pool of mortgages, for example. He set out to cherry-pick the absolute worst ones, and was a bit worried that the investment banks would catch on to just how much he knew about specific mortgage bonds, and adjust their prices.</p><p>By the end of July he owned credit default swaps on $750 million in subprime mortgage bonds and was privately bragging about it. &quot;I believe no other hedge fund on the planet has this sort of investment, nowhere near to this degree, relative to the size of the portfolio,&quot; he wrote to one of his investors, who had caught wind that his hedge fund manager had some newfangled strategy. Now he couldn&#x27;t help but wonder who exactly was on the other side of his trades--what madman would be selling him so much insurance on bonds he had handpicked to explode? The credit default swap was a zero-sum game. If Mike Burry made $100 million when the subprime mortgage bonds he had handpicked defaulted, someone else must have lost $100 million. Goldman Sachs made it clear that the ultimate seller wasn&#x27;t Goldman Sachs. Goldman Sachs was simply standing between insurance buyer and insurance seller and taking a cut.</p><p>In the second quarter of 2005, credit card delinquencies hit an all-time high--even though house prices had boomed. That is, even with this asset to borrow against, Americans were struggling more than ever to meet their obligations.</p><p>&quot;It is ludicrous to believe that asset bubbles can only be recognized in hindsight,&quot; he wrote. &quot;There are specific identifiers that are entirely recognizable during the bubble&#x27;s inflation. One hallmark of mania is the rapid rise in the incidence and complexity of fraud.... The FBI reports mortgage-related fraud is up fivefold since 2000.&quot; Bad behavior was no longer on the fringes of an otherwise sound economy; it was its central feature. &quot;The salient point about the modern vintage of housing-related fraud is its integral place within our nation&#x27;s institutions,&quot; he added.</p><p>This wasn’t all that different from what he’d been saying in his quarterly letters to his investors for the past two years. Back in July 2003, he&#x27;d written them a long essay on the causes and consequences of what he took to be a likely housing crash: &quot;Alan Greenspan assures us that home prices are not prone to bubbles--or major deflations--on any national scale,&quot; he&#x27;d said. &quot;This is ridiculous, of course.... In 1933, during the fourth year of the Great Depression, the United States found itself in the midst of a housing crisis that put housing starts at 10% of the level of 1925. Roughly half of all mortgage debt was in default. During the 1930s, housing prices collapsed nationwide by roughly 80%.&quot; He harped on the same theme again in January 2004, then again in January 2005: &quot;Want to borrow $1,000,000 for just $25 a month? Quicken Loans has now introduced an interest only adjustable rate mortgage that gives borrowers six months with both zero payments and a 0.03% interest rate, no doubt in support of that wholesome slice of Americana--the home buyer with the short term cash flow problem.&quot;</p><p>It has been my experience that apocalyptic forecasts on the U.S. financial markets are rarely realized within limited horizons,&quot; one investor wrote to Burry. &quot;There have been legitimate apocalyptic cases to be made on U.S. financial markets during most of my career. They usually have not been realized.&quot; Burry replied that while it was true that he foresaw Armageddon, he wasn&#x27;t betting on it. That was the beauty of credit default swaps: They enabled him to make a fortune if just a tiny fraction of these dubious pools of mortgages went bad.</p><p>Inadvertently, he&#x27;d opened up a debate with his own investors, which he counted among his least favorite activities. &quot;I hated discussing ideas with investors,&quot; he said, &quot;because I then become a Defender of the Idea, and that influences your thought process.&quot; Once you became an idea&#x27;s defender you had a harder time changing your mind about it. He had no choice: Among the people who gave him money there was pretty obviously a built-in skepticism of so-called macro thinking</p><p>When he&#x27;d started Scion, he&#x27;d told potential investors that, because he was in the business of making unfashionable bets, they should evaluate him over the long term--say, five years. Now he was being evaluated moment to moment. &quot;Early on, people invested in me because of my letters,&quot; he said. &quot;And then somehow after they invested, they stopped reading them.&quot; His fantastic success attracted lots of new investors, but they were less interested in the spirit of his enterprise than in how much money he could make them quickly. Every quarter, he told them how much he&#x27;d made or lost from his stock picks. Now he had to explain that they had to subtract from that number these...subprime mortgage bond insurance premiums. One of his New York investors called and said ominously, &quot;You know a lot of people are talking about withdrawing funds from you.&quot;</p><p>Oddly, as Mike Burry&#x27;s investors grew restive, his Wall Street counterparties took a new and envious interest in what he was up to. In late October 2005, a subprime trader at Goldman Sachs called to ask him why he was buying credit default swaps on such very specific tranches of subprime mortgage bonds. The trader let it slip that a number of hedge funds had been calling Goldman to ask &quot;how to do the short housing trade that Scion is doing.&quot; Among those asking about it were people Burry had solicited for Milton&#x27;s Opus--people who had initially expressed great interest. &quot;These people by and large did not know anything about how to do the trade and expected Goldman to help them replicate it,&quot; Burry wrote in an e-mail to his CFO. &quot;My suspicion is Goldman helped them, though they deny it.&quot; If nothing else, he now understood why he couldn&#x27;t raise money for Milton&#x27;s Opus. &quot;If I describe it enough it sounds compelling, and people think they can do it for themselves,&quot; he wrote to an e-mail confidant. &quot;If I don&#x27;t describe it enough, it sounds scary and binary and I can&#x27;t raise the capital.&quot; He had no talent for selling.</p><h5>CHAPTER THREE: “How Can a Guy Who Can&#x27;t Speak English Lie?&quot;</h5><p>The bond market, because it consisted mainly of big institutional investors, experienced no similarly populist political pressure. Even as it came to dwarf the stock market, the bond market eluded serious regulation. Bond salesmen could say and do anything without fear that they&#x27;d be reported to some authority. Bond traders could exploit inside information without worrying that they would be caught. Bond technicians could dream up ever more complicated securities without worrying too much about government regulation--one reason why so many derivatives had been derived, one way or another, from bonds.</p><p>The bigger, more liquid end of the bond market--the market for U.S. Treasury bonds, for example--traded on screens, but in many cases the only way to determine if the price some bond trader had given you was even close to fair was to call around and hope to find some other bond trader making a market in that particular obscure security. The opacity and complexity of the bond market was, for big Wall Street firms, a huge advantage. The bond market customer lived in perpetual fear of what he didn&#x27;t know. If Wall Street bond departments were increasingly the source of Wall Street profits, it was in part because of this: In the bond market it was still possible to make huge sums of money from the fear, and the ignorance, of customers.</p><p>Since 2000, people whose homes had risen in value between 1 and 5 percent were nearly four times more likely to default on their home loans than people whose homes had risen in value more than 10 percent. Millions of Americans had no ability to repay their mortgages unless their houses rose dramatically in value, which enabled them to borrow even more. That was the pitch in a nutshell: Home prices didn&#x27;t even need to fall. They merely needed to stop rising at the unprecedented rates they had the previous few years for vast numbers of Americans to default on their home loans.</p><p>The alacrity with which subprime borrowers paid off their loans was yet another strange aspect of this booming market. It had to do with the structure of the loans, which were fixed for two or three years at an artificially low teaser rate before shooting up to the &quot;go-to&quot; floating rate. &quot;They were making loans to lower-income people at a teaser rate when they knew they couldn&#x27;t afford to pay the go-to rate,&quot; said Eisman. &quot;They were doing it so that when the borrowers get to the end of the teaser rate period, they&#x27;d have to refinance, so the lenders can make more money off them.&quot; Thirty-year loans were thus designed to be repaid in a few years. At worst, if you bought credit default swaps on $100 million in subprime mortgage bonds you might wind up shelling out premium for six years--call it $12 million. At best: Losses on the loans rose from the current 4 percent to 8 percent, and you made $100 million. The bookies were offering you odds of somewhere between 6:1 and 10:1 when the odds of it working out felt more like 2:1. Anyone in the business of making smart bets couldn&#x27;t not do it.</p><p>The subprime mortgage market was generating half a trillion dollars&#x27; worth of new loans a year, but the circle of people redistributing the risk that the entire market would collapse was tiny. When the Goldman Sachs saleswoman called Mike Burry and told him that her firm would be happy to sell him credit default swaps in $100 million chunks, Burry guessed, rightly, that Goldman wasn&#x27;t ultimately on the other side of his bets. Goldman would never be so stupid as to make huge naked bets that millions of insolvent Americans would repay their home loans. He didn&#x27;t know who, or why, or how much, but he knew that some giant corporate entity with a triple-A rating was out there selling credit default swaps on subprime mortgage bonds. Only a triple-A-rated corporation could assume such risk, no money down, and no questions asked. Burry was right about this, too, but it would be three years before he knew it. The party on the other side of his bet against subprime mortgage bonds was the triple-A-rated insurance company AIG--American International Group, Inc. Or, rather, a unit of AIG called AIG FP.</p><p>AIG Financial Products was created in 1987 by refugees from Michael Milken&#x27;s bond department at Drexel Burnham, led by a trader named Howard Sosin, who claimed to have a better model to trade and value interest rate swaps. Nineteen eighties financial innovation had all sorts of consequences, but one of them was a boom in the number of deals between big financial firms that required them to take each other&#x27;s credit risks. Interest rate swaps--in which one party swaps a floating rate of interest for another party&#x27;s fixed rate of interest--was one such innovation.</p><p>Once upon a time, Chrysler issued a bond through Morgan Stanley, and the only people who wound up with credit risk were the investors who bought the Chrysler bond. Chrysler might sell its bonds and simultaneously enter into a ten-year interest rate swap transaction with Morgan Stanley--and just like that, Chrysler and Morgan Stanley were exposed to each other. If Chrysler went bankrupt, its bondholders obviously lost; depending on the nature of the swap, and the movement of interest rates, Morgan Stanley might lose, too. If Morgan Stanley went bust, Chrysler, along with anyone else who had done interest rate swaps with Morgan Stanley, stood to suffer. Financial risk had been created out of thin air, and it begged to be either honestly accounted for or disguised.</p><p>Enter Sosin, with his supposedly new and improved interest rate swap model--even though Drexel Burnham was not at the time a market leader in interest rate swaps. There was a natural role for a blue-chip corporation with the highest credit rating to stand in the middle of swaps and long-term options and the other risk-spawning innovations. The traits required of this corporation were that it not be a bank--and thus subject to bank regulation, and the need to reserve capital against risky assets--and that it be willing and able to bury exotic risks on its balance sheet. It needed to be able to insure $100 billion in subprime mortgage loans, for instance, without having to disclose to anyone what it had done. There was no real reason that company had to be AIG; it could have been any triple-A-rated entity with a huge balance sheet. Berkshire Hathaway, for instance, or General Electric. AIG just got there first.</p><p>In a financial system that was rapidly generating complicated risks, AIG FP became a huge swallower of those risks. In the early days it must have seemed as if it was being paid to insure events extremely unlikely to occur, as it was. Its success bred imitators: Zurich Re FP, Swiss Re FP, Credit Suisse FP, Gen Re FP. (&quot;Re&quot; stands for Reinsurance.) All of these places were central to what happened in the last two decades; without them, the new risks being created would have had no place to hide and would have remained in full view of bank regulators. All of these places, when the crisis came, would be washed away by the general nausea felt in the presence of complicated financial risks, but there was a moment when their existence seemed cartographically necessary to the financial world. AIG FP was the model for them all.</p><p>But then, in the early 2000s, the financial markets performed this fantastic bait and switch, in two stages. Stage One was to apply a formula that had been dreamed up to cope with corporate credit risk to consumer credit risk. The banks that used AIG FP to insure piles of loans to IBM and GE now came to it to insure much messier piles, which included credit card debt, student loans, auto loans, prime mortgages, aircraft leases, and just about anything else that generated a cash flow. As there were many different sorts of loans, to different sorts of people, the logic that had applied to corporate loans seemed to apply to them, too: They were sufficiently diverse that they were unlikely all to go bad at once.</p><p>Stage Two, beginning at the end of 2004, was to replace the student loans and the auto loans and the rest with bigger piles consisting of nothing but U.S. subprime mortgage loans. &quot;The problem,&quot; as one AIG FP trader put it, &quot;is that something else came along that we thought was the same thing as what we&#x27;d been doing.&quot; The &quot;consumer loan&quot; piles that Wall Street firms, led by Goldman Sachs, asked AIG FP to insure went from being 2 percent subprime mortgages to being 95 percent subprime mortgages. In a matter of months, AIG FP, in effect, bought $50 billion in triple-B-rated subprime mortgage bonds by insuring them against default. And yet no one said anything about it--not AIG CEO Martin Sullivan, not the head of AIG FP, Joe Cassano, not the guy in AIG FP&#x27;s Connecticut office in charge of selling his firm&#x27;s credit default swap services to the big Wall Street firms, Al Frost. The deals, by all accounts, were simply rubber-stamped inside AIG FP, and then again by AIG brass. Everyone concerned apparently assumed they were being paid insurance premiums to take basically the same sort of risk they had been taking for nearly a decade. They weren&#x27;t. They were now, in effect, the world&#x27;s biggest owners of subprime mortgage bonds.</p><p>Greg Lippmann watched his counterparts at Goldman Sachs find and exploit someone else&#x27;s willingness to sell huge amounts of cheap insurance on subprime mortgage bonds and pretty much instantly guessed the seller&#x27;s identity. Word spread quickly in the small world of subprime mortgage bond creators and traders: AIG FP was now selling credit default swaps on triple-A-rated subprime bonds for a mere 0.12 percent a year. Twelve basis points! Lippmann didn&#x27;t know exactly how Goldman Sachs had persuaded AIG FP to provide the same service to the booming market in subprime mortgage loans that it provided to the market for corporate loans. All he knew was that, in rapid succession, Goldman created a bunch of multibillion-dollar deals that transferred to AIG the responsibility for all future losses from $20 billion in triple-B-rated subprime mortgage bonds. It was incredible: In exchange for a few million bucks a year, this insurance company was taking the very real risk that $20 billion would simply go poof. The deals with Goldman had gone down in a matter of months and required the efforts of just a few geeks on a Goldman bond trading desk and a Goldman salesman named Andrew Davilman, who, for his services, soon would be promoted to managing director. The Goldman traders had booked profits of somewhere between $1.5 billion and $3 billion--even by bond market standards, a breathtaking sum.</p><p>In the process, Goldman Sachs created a security so opaque and complex that it would remain forever misunderstood by investors and rating agencies: the synthetic subprime mortgage bond-backed CDO, or collateralized debt obligation. Like the credit default swap, the CDO had been invented to redistribute the risk of corporate and government bond defaults and was now being rejiggered to disguise the risk of subprime mortgage loans. Its logic was exactly that of the original mortgage bonds. In a mortgage bond, you gathered thousands of loans and, assuming that it was extremely unlikely that they would all go bad together, created a tower of bonds, in which both risk and return diminished as you rose. In a CDO you gathered one hundred different mortgage bonds--usually, the riskiest, lower floors of the original tower--and used them to erect an entirely new tower of bonds. The innocent observer might reasonably ask, What&#x27;s the point of using floors from one tower of debt simply to create another tower of debt? The short answer is, They are too near to the ground. More prone to flooding--the first to take losses--they bear a lower credit rating: triple-B. Triple-B-rated bonds were harder to sell than the triple-A-rated ones, on the safe, upper floors of the building.</p><p>The long answer was that there were huge sums of money to be made, if you could somehow get them re-rated as triple-A, thereby lowering their perceived risk, however dishonestly and artificially. This is what Goldman Sachs had cleverly done. Their--soon to be everyone&#x27;s--nifty solution to the problem of selling the lower floors appears, in retrospect, almost magical. Having gathered 100 ground floors from 100 different subprime mortgage buildings (100 different triple-B-rated bonds), they persuaded the rating agencies that these weren&#x27;t, as they might appear, all exactly the same things. They were another diversified portfolio of assets! This was absurd. The 100 buildings occupied the same floodplain; in the event of flood, the ground floors of all of them were equally exposed. But never mind: The rating agencies, who were paid fat fees by Goldman Sachs and other Wall Street firms for each deal they rated, pronounced 80 percent of the new tower of debt triple-A.</p><p>The CDO was, in effect, a credit laundering service for the residents of Lower Middle Class America. For Wall Street it was a machine that turned lead into gold.</p><p>Back in the 1980s, the original stated purpose of the mortgage-backed bond had been to redistribute the risk associated with home mortgage lending. Home mortgage loans could find their way to the bond market investors willing to pay the most for them. The interest rate paid by the homeowner would thus fall. The goal of the innovation, in short, was to make the financial markets more efficient. Now, somehow, the same innovative spirit was being put to the opposite purpose: to hide the risk by complicating it.</p><p>No wonder Goldman Sachs was suddenly so eager to sell Mike Burry credit default swaps in giant, $100 million chunks, or that the Goldman Sachs bond trader had been surprisingly indifferent to which subprime bonds Mike Burry bet against. The insurance Mike Burry bought was inserted into a synthetic CDO and passed along to AIG. The roughly $20 billion in credit default swaps sold by AIG to Goldman Sachs meant roughly $400 million in riskless profits for Goldman Sachs. Each year. The deals lasted as long as the underlying bonds, which had an expected life of about six years, which, when you did the math, implied a profit for the Goldman trader of $2.4 billion.</p><p>Lippmann had at least one good reason for not putting up a huge fight: There was a fantastically profitable market waiting to be created. Financial markets are a collection of arguments. The less transparent the market and the more complicated the securities, the more money the trading desks at big Wall Street firms can make from the argument. The constant argument over the value of the shares of some major publicly traded company has very little value, as both buyer and seller can see the fair price of the stock on the ticker, and the broker&#x27;s commission has been driven down by competition. The argument over the value of credit default swaps on subprime mortgage bonds--a complex security whose value was derived from that of another complex security--could be a gold mine. The only other dealer making serious markets in credit default swaps was Goldman Sachs, so there was, in the beginning, little price competition. Supply, thanks to AIG, was virtually unlimited. The problem was demand: investors who wanted to do Mike Burry&#x27;s trade. Incredibly, at this critical juncture in financial history, after which so much changed so quickly, the only constraint in the subprime mortgage market was a shortage of people willing to bet against it.</p><h5>CHAPTER FOUR: How to Harvest a Migrant Worker</h5><p>The other piece of news concerned home prices. Eisman spoke often to a housing market analyst at Credit Suisse named Ivy Zelman. The simple measure of sanity in housing prices, Zelman argued, was the ratio of median home price to income. Historically, in the United States, it ran around 3:1; by late 2004, it had risen nationally, to 4:1. &quot;All these people were saying it was nearly as high in some other countries,&quot; says Zelman. &quot;But the problem wasn&#x27;t just that it was four to one. In Los Angeles it was ten to one and in Miami, eight-point-five to one. And then you coupled that with the buyers. They weren&#x27;t real buyers. They were speculators.&quot;* The number of For Sale signs began rising in mid-2005 and never stopped. In the summer of 2006, the Case-Shiller index of house prices peaked, and house prices across the country began to fall. For the entire year they would fall, nationally, by 2 percent.</p><p>Either piece of news--rising ratings standards or falling house prices--should have disrupted the subprime bond market and caused the price of insuring the bonds to rise. Instead, the price of insuring the bonds fell. Insurance on the crappiest triple-B tranche of a subprime mortgage bond now cost less than 2 percent a year. &quot;We finally just did a trade with Lippmann,&quot; says Eisman. &quot;Then we tried to figure out what we&#x27;d done.&quot;</p><p>They called Wall Street trading desks and asked for menus of subprime mortgage bonds, so they might find the most rotten ones and buy the smartest insurance. The juiciest shorts--the bonds ultimately backed by the mortgages most likely to default--had several characteristics. First, the underlying loans were heavily concentrated in what Wall Street people were now calling the sand states: California, Florida, Nevada, and Arizona. House prices in the sand states had risen fastest during the boom and so would likely crash fastest in a bust--and when they did, those low California default rates would soar. Second, the loans would have been made by the more dubious mortgage lenders. Long Beach Savings, wholly owned by Washington Mutual, was a prime example of financial incontinence. Long Beach Savings had been the first to embrace the originate and sell model and now was moving money out the door to new home buyers as fast as it could, few questions asked. Third, the pools would have a higher than average number of low-doc or no-doc loans--that is, loans more likely to be fraudulent. Long Beach Savings, it appeared to Eisman and his partners, specialized in asking homeowners with bad credit and no proof of income to accept floating-rate mortgages. No money down, interest payments deferred upon request. The housing blogs of southern California teemed with stories of financial abuses made possible by these so-called thirty-year payment option ARMs, or adjustable-rate mortgages. In Bakersfield, California, a Mexican strawberry picker with an income of $14,000 and no English was lent every penny he needed to buy a house for $724,000.</p><p>The big Wall Street firms--Bear Stearns, Lehman Brothers, Goldman Sachs, Citigroup, and others--had the same goal as any manufacturing business: to pay as little as possible for raw material (home loans) and charge as much as possible for their end product (mortgage bonds). The price of the end product was driven by the ratings assigned to it by the models used by Moody&#x27;s and S&amp;P. The inner workings of these models were, officially, a secret: Moody&#x27;s and S&amp;P claimed they were impossible to game. But everyone on Wall Street knew that the people who ran the models were ripe for exploitation. &quot;Guys who can&#x27;t get a job on Wall Street get a job at Moody&#x27;s,&quot; as one Goldman Sachs trader-turned-hedge fund manager put it. Inside the rating agency there was another hierarchy, even less flattering to the subprime mortgage bond raters. &quot;At the ratings agencies the corporate credit people are the least bad,&quot; says a quant who engineered mortgage bonds for Morgan Stanley. &quot;Next are the prime mortgage people. Then you have the asset-backed people, who are basically like brain-dead.&quot;* Wall Street bond trading desks, staffed by people making seven figures a year, set out to coax from the brain-dead guys making high five figures the highest possible ratings for the worst possible loans. They performed the task with Ivy League thoroughness and efficiency. They quickly figured out, for instance, that the people at Moody&#x27;s and S&amp;P didn&#x27;t actually evaluate the individual home loans, or so much as look at them. All they and their models saw, and evaluated, were the general characteristics of loan pools.</p><p>Their handling of FICO scores was one example. FICO scores--so called because they were invented, in the 1950s, by a company called the Fair Isaac Corporation--purported to measure the creditworthiness of individual borrowers. The highest possible FICO score was 850; the lowest was 300; the U.S. median was 723. FICO scores were simplistic. They didn&#x27;t account for a borrower&#x27;s income, for instance. They could also be rigged. A would-be borrower could raise his FICO score by taking out a credit card loan and immediately paying it back. But never mind: The problem with FICO scores was overshadowed by the way they were misused by the rating agencies. Moody&#x27;s and S&amp;P asked the loan packagers not for a list of the FICO scores of all the borrowers but for the average FICO score of the pool. To meet the rating agencies&#x27; standards--to maximize the percentage of triple-A-rated bonds created from any given pool of loans--the average FICO score of the borrowers in the pool needed to be around 615. There was more than one way to arrive at that average number. And therein lay a huge opportunity. A pool of loans composed of borrowers all of whom had a FICO score of 615 was far less likely to suffer huge losses than a pool of loans composed of borrowers half of whom had FICO scores of 550 and half of whom had FICO scores of 680. A person with a FICO score of 550 was virtually certain to default and should never have been lent money in the first place. But the hole in the rating agencies&#x27; models enabled the loan to be made, as long as a borrower with a FICO score of 680 could be found to offset the deadbeat, and keep the average at 615.</p><p>Where to find the borrowers with high FICO scores? Here the Wall Street bond trading desks exploited another blind spot in the rating agencies&#x27; models. Apparently the agencies didn&#x27;t grasp the difference between a &quot;thin-file&quot; FICO score and a &quot;thick-file&quot; FICO score. A thin-file FICO score implied, as it sounds, a short credit history. The file was thin because the borrower hadn&#x27;t done much borrowing. Immigrants who had never failed to repay a debt, because they had never been given a loan, often had surprisingly high thin-file FICO scores. Thus a Jamaican baby nurse or Mexican strawberry picker with an income of $14,000 looking to borrow three-quarters of a million dollars, when filtered through the models at Moody&#x27;s and S&amp;P, became suddenly more useful, from a credit-rigging point of view. They might actually improve the perceived quality of the pool of loans and increase the percentage that could be declared triple-A. The Mexican harvested strawberries; Wall Street harvested his FICO score.The models used by the rating agencies were riddled with these sorts of opportunities. The trick was finding them before others did--finding, for example, that both Moody&#x27;s and S&amp;P favored floating-rate mortgages with low teaser rates over fixed-rate ones. Or that they didn&#x27;t care if a loan had been made in a booming real estate market or a quiet one. Or that they were seemingly oblivious to the fraud implicit in no-doc loans. Or that they were blind to the presence of &quot;silent seconds&quot;--second mortgages that left the homeowner with no equity in his home and thus no financial incentive not to hand the keys to the bank and walk away from it. Every time some smart Wall Street mortgage bond packager discovered another example of the rating agencies&#x27; idiocy or neglect, he had himself an edge in the marketplace: Crappier pools of loans were cheaper to buy than less crappy pools.</p><h5>CHAPTER FIVE: Accidental Capitalists</h5><p>By the end of 2006, according to the PerTrac Hedge Fund Database Study, there were 13,675 hedge funds reporting results, and thousands of other types of institutional investors allowed to invest in credit default swaps. Lippmann&#x27;s pitch, in one form or another, reached many of them. Yet only one hundred or so dabbled in the new market for credit default swaps on subprime mortgage bonds. Most bought this insurance on subprime mortgages not as an outright bet against them but as a hedge against their implicit bet on them--their portfolios of U.S. real estate-related stocks or bonds. A smaller group used credit default swaps to make what often turned out to be spectacularly disastrous gambles on the relative value of subprime mortgage bonds--buying one subprime mortgage bond while simultaneously selling another. They would bet, for instance, that bonds with large numbers of loans made in California would underperform bonds with very little of California in them. Or that the upper triple-A-rated floor of some subprime mortgage bond would outperform the lower, triple-B-rated, floor. Or that bonds issued by Lehman Brothers or Goldman Sachs (both notorious for packaging America&#x27;s worst home loans) would underperform bonds packaged by J.P. Morgan or Wells Fargo (which actually seemed to care a bit about which loans it packaged into bonds). A smaller number of people--more than ten, fewer than twenty--made a straightforward bet against the entire multi-trillion-dollar subprime mortgage market and, by extension, the global financial system. In and of itself it was a remarkable fact: The catastrophe was foreseeable, yet only a handful noticed. Among them: a Minneapolis hedge fund called Whitebox, a Boston hedge fund called The Baupost Group, a San Francisco hedge fund called Passport Capital, a New Jersey hedge fund called Elm Ridge, and a gaggle of New York hedge funds: Elliott Associates, Cedar Hill Capital Partners, QVT Financial, and Philip Falcone&#x27;s Harbinger Capital Partners. What most of these investors had in common was that they had heard, directly or indirectly, Greg Lippmann&#x27;s argument. In Dallas, Texas, a former Bear Stearns bond salesman named Kyle Bass set up a hedge fund called Hayman Capital in mid-2006 and soon thereafter bought credit default swaps on subprime mortgage bonds. Bass had heard the idea from Alan Fournier of Pennant Capital, in New Jersey--who in turn had heard it from Lippmann. A rich American real estate investor named Jeff Greene went off and bought several billion dollars&#x27; worth of credit default swaps on subprime mortgage bonds for himself after hearing about it from the New York hedge fund manager John Paulson. Paulson, too, had heard Greg Lippmann&#x27;s pitch--and, as he built a massive position in credit default swaps, used Lippmann as his sounding board. A proprietary trader at Goldman Sachs in London, informed that this trader at Deutsche Bank in New York was making a powerful argument, flew across the Atlantic to meet with Lippmann and went home owning a billion dollars&#x27; worth of credit default swaps on subprime mortgage bonds. A Greek hedge fund investor named Theo Phanos heard Lippmann pitch his idea at a Deutsche Bank conference in Phoenix, Arizona, and immediately placed his own bet. If you mapped the spread of the idea, as you might a virus, most of the lines pointed back to Lippmann. He was Patient Zero. Only one carrier of the disease could claim, plausibly, to have infected him. But Mike Burry was holed up in his office in San Jose, California, and wasn&#x27;t talking to anyone.</p><p>What prepared him to see what was happening in the mortgage bond market, Paulson said, was a career of searching for overvalued bonds to bet against. &quot;I loved the concept of shorting a bond because your downside was limited,&quot; he told me. &quot;It&#x27;s an asymmetrical bet.&quot; He was shocked how much easier and cheaper it was to buy a credit default swap than it was to sell short an actual cash bond--even though they represented exactly the same bet.</p><p>Charlie Ledley--curiously uncertain Charlie Ledley--was odd in his belief that the best way to make money on Wall Street was to seek out whatever it was that Wall Street believed was least likely to happen, and bet on its happening. Charlie and his partners had done this often enough, and had had enough success, to know that the markets were predisposed to underestimating the likelihood of dramatic change.</p><p>Every new business is inherently implausible, but Jamie Mai and Charlie Ledley&#x27;s idea, in early 2003, for a money management firm bordered on the absurd: a pair of thirty-year-old men with a Schwab account containing $110,000 occupy a shed in the back of a friend&#x27;s house in Berkeley, California, and dub themselves Cornwall Capital Management. Neither of them had any reason to believe he had any talent for investing. Both had worked briefly for the New York private equity firm Golub Associates as grunts chained to their desks, but neither had made actual investment decisions.</p><p>Both were viewed by contemporaries as sweet-natured, disorganized, inquisitive, bright but lacking obvious direction--the kind of guys who might turn up at their fifteenth high school reunions with surprising facial hair and a complicated life story. Charlie left Amherst College after his freshman year to volunteer for Bill Clinton&#x27;s first presidential campaign, and, though he eventually returned, he remained far more interested in his own idealism than in making money. Jamie&#x27;s first job out of Duke University had been delivering sailboats to rich people up and down the East Coast. (&quot;That&#x27;s when it became clear to me that--uh, uh, uh--I was going to have to adopt some profession.&quot;) At the age of twenty-eight, he&#x27;d taken an eighteen-month &quot;sabbatical,&quot; traveling around the world with his girlfriend. He&#x27;d come to Berkeley not looking for fertile soil in which to grow money but because the girlfriend wanted to move there. Charlie didn&#x27;t even really want to be in Berkeley; he&#x27;d grown up in Manhattan and turned into a pumpkin when he got to the other side of a bridge or tunnel. He&#x27;d moved to Berkeley because the idea of running money together, and the $110,000, had been Jamie&#x27;s. The garage in which Charlie now slept was Jamie&#x27;s, too.</p><p>Instead of money or plausibility, what they had was an idea about financial markets. Or, rather, a pair of related ideas. Their stint in the private equity business--in which firms buy and sell entire companies over the counter--led them to believe that private stock markets might be more efficient than public ones. &quot;In private transactions,&quot; said Charlie, &quot;you usually have an advisor on both sides that&#x27;s sophisticated. You don&#x27;t have people who just fundamentally don&#x27;t know what something&#x27;s worth. In public markets you have people focused on quarterly earnings rather than the business franchise. You have people doing things for all sorts of insane reasons.&quot; They believed, further, that public financial markets lacked investors with an interest in the big picture. U.S. stock market guys made decisions within the U.S. stock market; Japanese bond market guys made decisions within the Japanese bond market; and so on. &quot;There are actually people who do nothing but invest in European mid-cap health care debt,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;I don&#x27;t think the problem is specific to finance. I think that parochialism is common to modern intellectual life. There is no attempt to integrate.&quot; The financial markets paid a lot of people extremely well for narrow expertise and a few people, poorly, for the big, global views you needed to have if you were to allocate capital across markets.</p><p>Over the next six months, the company continued to make money at impressive rates. It claimed that it had done nothing wrong, that the regulators were being capricious, and announced no special losses on its $20 billion portfolio of subprime loans. Its stock price remained depressed. Charlie and Jamie studied the matter, which is to say they went to industry conferences, and called up all sorts of people they didn&#x27;t know and bugged them for information: short sellers, former Capital One employees, management consultants who had advised the company, competitors, and even government regulators. &quot;What became clear,&quot; said Charlie, &quot;was that there was a limited amount of information out there and we had the same information as everyone else.&quot; They decided that Capital One probably did have better tools for making subprime loans. That left only one question: Was it run by crooks? It wasn&#x27;t a question two thirty-something would-be professional investors in Berkeley, California, with $110,000 in a Schwab account should feel it was their business to answer. But they did. They went hunting for people who had gone to college with Capital One&#x27;s CEO, Richard Fairbank, and collected character references. Jamie paged through the Capital One 10-K filing in search of someone inside the company he might plausibly ask to meet. &quot;If we had asked to meet with the CEO, we wouldn&#x27;t have gotten to see him,&quot; explained Charlie. Finally they came upon a lower-ranking guy named Peter Schnall, who happened to be the vice-president in charge of the subprime portfolio. &quot;I got the impression they were like, &#x27;Who calls and asks for Peter Schnall?&#x27;&quot; said Charlie. &quot;Because when we asked to talk to him they were like, &#x27;Why not?&#x27;&quot; They introduced themselves gravely as Cornwall Capital Management but refrained from mentioning what, exactly, Cornwall Capital Management was. &quot;It&#x27;s funny,&quot; says Jamie. &quot;People don&#x27;t feel comfortable asking how much money you have, and so you don&#x27;t have to tell them.&quot;</p><p>What happened next led them, almost by accident, to the unusual approach to financial markets that would soon make them rich. In the six months following the news of its troubles with the Federal Reserve and the Office of Thrift Supervision, Capital One&#x27;s stock traded in a narrow band around $30 a share. That stability obviously masked a deep uncertainty. Thirty dollars a share was clearly not the &quot;right&quot; price for Capital One. The company was either a fraud, in which case the stock was probably worth zero, or the company was as honest as it appeared to Charlie and Jamie, in which case the stock was worth around $60 a share. Jamie Mai had just read <em>You Can Be a Stock Market Geniu</em>s, the book by Joel Greenblatt, the same fellow who had staked Mike Burry to his hedge fund. Toward the end of his book Greenblatt described how he&#x27;d made a lot of money using a derivative security, called a LEAP (for Long-term Equity AnticiPation Security), which conveyed to its buyer the right to buy a stock at a fixed price for a certain amount of time. There were times, Greenblatt explained, when it made more sense to buy options on a stock than the stock itself. This, in Greenblatt&#x27;s world of value investors, counted as heresy. Old-fashioned value investors shunned options because options presumed an ability to time price movements in undervalued stocks. Greenblatt&#x27;s simple point: When the value of a stock so obviously turned on some upcoming event whose date was known (a merger date, for instance, or a court date), the value investor could in good conscience employ options to express his views. It gave Jamie an idea: Buy a long-term option to buy the stock of Capital One. &quot;It was kind of like, Wow, we have a view: This common stock looks interesting. But, Holy shit, look at the prices of these options!&quot;</p><p>The right to buy Capital One&#x27;s shares for $40 at any time in the next two and a half years cost a bit more than $3. That made no sense. Capital One&#x27;s problems with regulators would be resolved, or not, in the next few months. When they were, the stock would either collapse to zero or jump to $60. Looking into it a bit, Jamie found that the model used by Wall Street to price LEAPs, the Black-Scholes option pricing model, made some strange assumptions. For instance, it assumed a normal, bell-shaped distribution for future stock prices. If Capital One was trading at $30 a share, the model assumed that, over the next two years, the stock was more likely to get to $35 a share than to $40, and more likely to get to $40 a share than to $45, and so on. This assumption made sense only to those who knew nothing about the company. In this case the model was totally missing the point: When Capital One stock moved, as it surely would, it was more likely to move by a lot than by a little.</p><p>Cornwall Capital Management quickly bought 8,000 LEAPs. Their potential losses were limited to the $26,000 they paid for their option to buy the stock. Their potential gains were theoretically unlimited. Soon after Cornwall Capital laid their chips on the table, Capital One was vindicated by its regulators, its stock price shot up, and Cornwall Capital&#x27;s $26,000 option position was worth $526,000. &quot;We were pretty fired up,&quot; says Charlie. &quot;We couldn&#x27;t believe people would sell us these long-term options so cheaply,&quot; said Jamie. &quot;We went looking for more long-dated options.&quot;</p><p>It instantly became a fantastically profitable strategy: Start with what appeared to be a cheap option to buy or sell some Korean stock, or pork belly, or third-world currency--really anything with a price that seemed poised for some dramatic change--and then work backward to the thing the option allowed you to buy or sell. The options suited the two men&#x27;s personalities: They never had to be sure of anything. Both were predisposed to feel that people, and by extension markets, were too certain about inherently uncertain things. Both sensed that people, and by extension markets, had difficulty attaching the appropriate probabilities to highly improbable events. Both had trouble generating conviction of their own but no trouble at all reacting to what they viewed as the false conviction of others. Each time they came upon a tantalizing long shot, one of them set to work on making the case for it, in an elaborate presentation, complete with PowerPoint slides. They didn&#x27;t actually have anyone to whom they might give a presentation. They created them only to hear how plausible they sounded when pitched to each other. They entered markets only because they thought something dramatic might be about to happen in them, on which they could make a small bet with long odds that might pay off in a big way. They didn&#x27;t know the first thing about Korean stocks or third world currencies, but they didn&#x27;t really need to. If they found what appeared to be a cheap bet on the price movements of any security, they could then hire an expert to help them sort out the details. &quot;That has been a pattern of ours,&quot; said Jamie Mai. &quot;To rely on the work of smart people who know more than we do.&quot;</p><p>They followed their success with Capital One with a similar success, in a distressed European cable television company called United Pan-European Cable. This time, since they had more money, they bought $500,000 in call options, struck at a price far from the market. When UPC rallied, they turned a quick $5 million profit. &quot;We&#x27;re now getting really, really excited,&quot; says Jamie. Next they bet on a company that delivered oxygen tanks directly to sick people in their homes. That $200,000 bet quickly turned into $3 million. &quot;We&#x27;re now three for three,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;We think it&#x27;s hilarious. For the first time I could see myself doing this for a really long time.&quot;</p><p>“We spent a lot of time building Black-Scholes models ourselves, and seeing what happened when you changed various assumptions in them,&quot; said Jamie. What struck them powerfully was how cheaply the models allowed a person to speculate on situations that were likely to end in one of two dramatic ways. If, in the next year, a stock was going to be worth nothing or $100 a share, it was silly for anyone to sell a year-long option to buy the stock at $50 a share for $3. Yet the market often did something just like that. The model used by Wall Street to price trillions of dollars&#x27; worth of derivatives thought of the financial world as an orderly, continuous process. But the world was not continuous; it changed discontinuously, and often by accident.</p><p>Event-driven investing: That was the name they either coined or stole for what they were doing. That made it sound a lot less fun than it was. One day Charlie found himself intrigued by the market for ethanol futures. He didn&#x27;t know much about ethanol, but he could see that it enjoyed a U.S. government subsidy of 50 cents a gallon, and so was supposed to trade at a 50-cent-a-gallon premium to gasoline, and always had. In early 2005, when he became interested, it traded, briefly, at a 50-cent discount to gas. He didn&#x27;t know why and never found out; instead, Charlie bought two rail cars&#x27; worth of ethanol futures, and made headlines in Ethanol Today, a magazine of whose existence he was previously unaware. To the intense irritation of Cornwall&#x27;s broker, they wound up having to accept rail cars filled with ethanol in some stockyard in Chicago--to make a sum of money that struck the broker as absurdly small. &quot;The administrative complexity of what we were doing was out of proportion to our assets,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;People who were our size didn&#x27;t trade across asset classes.&quot;</p><p>One day on the phone with Ben, Charlie said, <em>You hate taking even remote risks, but you live in a house on top of a mountain that&#x27;s on a fault line, in a housing market that&#x27;s at an all-time high.</em> &quot;He just said, &#x27;I gotta go,&#x27; and hung up,&quot; recalled Charlie. &quot;We had trouble getting hold of him for, like, two months.&quot;&quot;I got off the phone,&quot; said Ben, &quot;and I realized, <em>I have to sell my house. Right now.</em>&quot; His house was worth a million dollars and maybe more yet would rent for no more than $2,500 a month. &quot;It was trading more than thirty times gross rental,&quot; said Ben. &quot;The rule of thumb is that you buy at ten and sell at twenty.&quot; In October 2005 he moved his family into a rental unit, away from the fault.</p><p>The losses, by design, were no big deal; the losses were part of the plan. They had more losers than winners, but their losses, the cost of the options, had been trivial compared to their gains. There was a possible explanation for their success, which Charlie and Jamie had only intuited but which Ben, who had priced options for a big Wall Street firm, came ready to explain: Financial options were systematically mispriced. The market often underestimated the likelihood of extreme moves in prices. The options market also tended to presuppose that the distant future would look more like the present than it usually did. Finally, the price of an option was a function of the volatility of the underlying stock or currency or commodity, and the options market tended to rely on the recent past to determine how volatile a stock or currency or commodity might be. When IBM stock was trading at $34 a share and had been hopping around madly for the past year, an option to buy it for $35 a share anytime soon was seldom underpriced. When gold had been trading around $650 an ounce for the past two years, an option to buy it for $2,000 an ounce anytime during the next ten years might well be badly underpriced. The longer-term the option, the sillier the results generated by the Black-Scholes option pricing model, and the greater the opportunity for people who didn&#x27;t use it.</p><p>The longest options available to individual investors on public exchanges were LEAPs, which were two-and-a-half-year options on common stocks. You know, Ben said to Charlie and Jamie, <em>if you established yourself as a serious institutional investor, you could phone up Lehman Brothers or Morgan Stanley and buy eight-year options on whatever you wanted. Would you like that?</em></p><p>Charlie, Jamie, and Ben entered the subprime mortgage market assuming they wanted to do what Mike Burry and Steve Eisman had already done, and find the very worst subprime bonds to lay bets against. They quickly got up to speed on FICO scores and loan-to-value ratios and silent seconds and the special madness of California and Florida, and the shockingly optimistic structure of the bonds themselves: The triple-B-minus tranche, the bottom floor of the building, required just 7 percent losses in the underlying pool to be worth zero. But then they wound up doing something quite different from--and, ultimately, more profitable than--what everyone else who bet against the subprime mortgage market was doing: They bet against the upper floors--the double-A tranches--of the CDOs. After the fact, they&#x27;d realize they&#x27;d had two advantages. The first was that they had stumbled into the market very late, just before its collapse, and after a handful of other money managers. &quot;One of the reasons we could move so fast,&quot; said Charlie, &quot;is that we were seeing a lot of compelling analysis that we didn&#x27;t have to create from scratch.&quot; The other advantage was their quixotic approach to financial markets: They were consciously looking for long shots. They were combing the markets for bets whose true odds were 10:1, priced as if the odds were 100:1. &quot;We were looking for nonrecourse leverage,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;Leverage means to magnify the effect. You have a crowbar, you take a little bit of pressure, you turn it into a lot of pressure. We were looking to get ourselves into a position where small changes in states of the world created huge changes in values.&quot;</p><p>Enter the CDO. They may not have known what a CDO was, but their minds were prepared for it, because a small change in the state of the world created a huge change in the value of a CDO. A CDO, in their view, was essentially just a pile of triple-B-rated mortgage bonds. Wall Street firms had conspired with the rating agencies to represent the pile as a diversified collection of assets, but anyone with eyes could see that if one triple-B subprime mortgage went bad, most would go bad, as they were all vulnerable to the same economic forces. Subprime mortgage loans in Florida would default for the same reasons, and at the same time, as subprime mortgage loans in California. And yet fully 80 percent of the CDO composed of nothing but triple-B bonds was rated higher than triple-B: triple-A, double-A, or A. To wipe out any triple-B bond--the ground floor of the building--all that was needed was a 7 percent loss in the underlying pool of home loans. That same 7 percent loss would thus wipe out, entirely, any CDO made up of triple-B bonds, no matter what rating was assigned it. &quot;It took us weeks to really grasp it because it was so weird,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;But the more we looked at what a CDO really was, the more we were like, <em>Holy shit, that&#x27;s just fucking crazy.</em> That&#x27;s fraud. Maybe you can&#x27;t prove it in a court of law. But it&#x27;s fraud.&quot;</p><p>It was also a stunning opportunity: The market appeared to believe its own lie. It charged a lot less for insurance on a putatively safe double-A-rated slice of a CDO than it did for insurance on the openly risky triple-B-rated bonds. Why pay 2 percent a year to bet directly against triple-B-rated bonds when they could pay 0.5 percent a year to make effectively the same bet against the double-A-rated slice of the CDO? If they paid four times less to make what was effectively the same bet against triple-B-rated subprime mortgage bonds, they could afford to make four times more of it.</p><p>They called around big Wall Street firms to see if anyone could dissuade them from buying credit default swaps on the double-A tranche of CDOs. &quot;It really looked just too good to be true,&quot; said Jamie. &quot;And when something looks too good to be true, we try to find out why.&quot; A fellow at Deutsche Bank named Rich Rizzo, who worked for Greg Lippmann, gave it a shot. The ISDA agreement that standardized CDSs on CDOs (a different agreement than the ISDA agreement that had standardized CDSs on mortgage bonds) had only been created a few months before, in June 2006, Rizzo explained. No one had as yet bought credit default swaps on the double-A piece of a CDO, which meant there wasn&#x27;t likely to be a liquid market for them. Without a liquid market, they were not assured of being able to sell them when they wanted to, or to obtain a fair price.&quot; The other thing he said,&quot; recalled Charlie, &quot;was that [things] will never get so bad that CDOs will go bad.&quot; Cornwall Capital disagreed. They didn&#x27;t know for sure that subprime loans would default in sufficient numbers to cause the CDOs to collapse. All they knew was that Deutsche Bank didn&#x27;t know, either, and neither did anybody else. There might be some &quot;right&quot; price for insuring the first losses on pools of bonds backed by pools of dubious loans, but it wasn&#x27;t one-half of 1 percent.</p><p>Of course, if you are going to gamble on a CDO, it helps to know what, exactly, is inside a CDO, and they still didn&#x27;t. The sheer difficulty they had obtaining the information suggested that most investors were simply skipping this stage of their due diligence. Each CDO contained pieces of a hundred different mortgage bonds--which in turn held thousands of different loans. It was impossible, or nearly so, to find out which pieces, or which loans. Even the rating agencies, who they at first assumed would be the most informed source, hadn&#x27;t a clue. &quot;I called S&amp;P and asked if they could tell me what was in a CDO,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;And they said, &#x27;Oh yeah, we&#x27;re working on that.&#x27;&quot; Moody&#x27;s and S&amp;P were piling up these triple-B bonds, assuming they were diversified, and bestowing ratings on them--without ever knowing what was behind the bonds! There had been hundreds of CDO deals--400 billion dollars&#x27; worth of the things had been created in just the past three years--and yet none, as far as they could tell, had been properly vetted. Charlie located a reliable source for the contents of a CDO, a data company called Intex, but Intex wouldn&#x27;t return his phone calls, and he gathered they didn&#x27;t have much interest in talking to small investors. At length he found a Web site, run by Lehman Brothers, called LehmanLive.* LehmanLive didn&#x27;t tell you exactly what was in a CDO, either, but it did offer a crude picture of its salient characteristics: what year the bonds behind it had been created, for instance, and how many of those bonds were backed chiefly by subprime loans. Projecting data onto the red brick wall of Julian Schnabel&#x27;s studio, Charlie and Jamie went searching for two specific traits: CDOs that contained the highest percentage of bonds backed entirely by recent subprime mortgage loans, and CDOs that contained the highest percentage of other CDOs. Here was another bizarre fact about CDOs: Often they simply repackaged tranches of other CDOs, presumably those tranches their Wall Street creators had found difficult to sell. Even more amazing was their circularity: CDO &quot;A&quot; would contain a piece of CDO &quot;B&quot; CDO &quot;B&quot; would contain a piece of CDO &quot;C&quot; and CDO &quot;C&quot; would contain a piece of CDO &quot;A&quot;! Looking for bad bonds inside a CDO was like fishing for crap in a Port-O-Let: The question wasn&#x27;t whether you&#x27;d catch some but how quickly you&#x27;d be satisfied you&#x27;d caught enough. Their very names were disingenuous, and told you nothing about their contents, their creators, or their managers: Carina, Gemstone, Octans III, Glacier Funding. &quot;They all had these random names,&quot; said Jamie. &quot;A lot of them for some reason we never figured out were named for mountains in the Adirondacks.&quot;</p><p>Charlie and Jamie continued to call everyone they could think of who was even remotely connected to this new market, in hopes of finding someone who could explain what appeared to them to be its sheer madness. A month later they finally found, and hired, their market expert--a fellow named David Burt. It was a measure of how much money people were making in the bond market that the magazine Institutional Investor was about to create a hot list of people who worked in it, called The 20 Rising Stars of Fixed Income. It was a measure of how much money people were making in the subprime mortgage market that David Burt made the list. Burt had worked for the $1 trillion bond fund BlackRock, owned, in part, by Merrill Lynch, evaluating subprime mortgage credit. His job was to identify for BlackRock the bonds that were going to go bad before they went bad. Now he had quit in hopes of raising his own fund to invest in subprime mortgage bonds, and, to make ends meet, he was willing to rent his expertise for $50,000 a month to these oddballs at Cornwall Capital. Burt had the most sensational information, and models to analyze that information--he could tell you, for example, what would happen to mortgage loans, zip code by zip code, in various house price scenarios. He could then take that information and tell you what was likely to happen to specific mortgage bonds. The best way to use this information, he thought, was to buy what appeared to be the sounder mortgage bonds and simultaneously sell the unsound ones.</p><p>The analysis Burt gave them a few weeks later surprised them as much as it did him: They&#x27;d picked beautifully. &quot;He said, like, &#x27;Wow, you guys did great. There are a lot of really crappy bonds in these CDOs,&#x27;&quot; said Charlie. They didn&#x27;t realize yet that the bonds inside their CDOs were actually credit default swaps on the bonds, and so their CDOs weren&#x27;t ordinary CDOs but synthetic CDOs, or that the bonds on which the swaps were based had been handpicked by Mike Burry and Steve Eisman and others betting against the market. In many ways, they were still innocents. The challenge, as always, was to play the role of market generalist without also playing the role of fool at the poker table. By January 2007, in their tiny $30 million fund, they owned $110 million in credit default swaps on the double-A tranche of asset-backed CDOs. The people who had sold them the swaps still didn&#x27;t know what to make of them. &quot;They were putting on bets that were multiples of the capital they had,&quot; said the young Deutsche Bank broker. &quot;And they were doing it in CDSs on CDOs, which probably, like, three or four guys in the whole bank could speak intelligently about.&quot; Charlie and Jamie and Ben sort of understood what they had done, but sort of didn&#x27;t. &quot;We&#x27;re kind of obsessed about this trade,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;And we&#x27;ve exhausted our network of people to talk to about it. And we still can&#x27;t totally figure out who is on the other side. We kept trying to find people who could explain to us why we were wrong. We just kept wondering if we were crazy. There was this overwhelming feeling of, <em>Are we going out of our minds?&quot;</em></p><h5>CHAPTER SIX: Spider-Man at The Venetian</h5><p>The CDO manager was further charged with monitoring the hundred or so individual subprime bonds inside each CDO, and replacing the bad ones, before they went bad, with better ones. That, however, was mere theory; in practice, the sorts of investors who handed their money to Wing Chau, and thus bought the triple-A-rated tranche of CDOs--German banks, Taiwanese insurance companies, Japanese farmers&#x27; unions, European pension funds, and, in general, entities more or less required to invest in triple-A-rated bonds--did so precisely because they were meant to be foolproof, impervious to losses, and unnecessary to monitor or even think about very much. The CDO manager, in practice, didn&#x27;t do much of anything, which is why all sorts of unlikely people suddenly hoped to become one. &quot;Two guys and a Bloomberg terminal in New Jersey&quot; was Wall Street shorthand for the typical CDO manager. The less mentally alert the two guys, and the fewer the questions they asked about the triple-B-rated subprime bonds they were absorbing into their CDOs, the more likely they were to be patronized by the big Wall Street firms. The whole point of the CDO was to launder a lot of subprime mortgage market risk that the firms had been unable to place straightforwardly. The last thing you wanted was a CDO manager who asked lots of tough questions.</p><p>The bond market had created what amounted to a double agent--a character who seemed to represent the interests of investors when he better represented the interests of Wall Street bond trading desks. To assure the big investors who had handed their billions to him that he had their deep interests at heart, the CDO manager kept ownership of what was called the &quot;equity,&quot; or &quot;first loss&quot; piece, of the CDO--the piece that vanished first when the subprime loans that ultimately supplied the CDO with cash defaulted. But the CDO manager was also paid a fee of 0.01 percent off the top, before any of his investors saw a dime, and another, similar fee, off the bottom, as his investor received their money back. That doesn&#x27;t sound like much, but, when you&#x27;re running tens of billions of dollars with little effort and no overhead, it adds up. Just a few years earlier, Wing Chau was making $140,000 a year managing a portfolio for the New York Life Insurance Company. In one year as a CDO manager, he&#x27;d taken home $26 million, the haul from half a dozen lifetimes of working at New York Life.</p><p>A guy from a rating agency on whom Charlie tested Cornwall&#x27;s investment thesis looked at him strangely and asked, &quot;Are you sure you guys know what you&#x27;re doing?&quot; The market insiders didn&#x27;t agree with them, but they didn&#x27;t offer persuasive counter-arguments. Their main argument, in defense of subprime CDOs, was that &quot;the CDO buyer will never go away.&quot; Their main argument, in defense of the underlying loans, was that, in their short history, they had never defaulted in meaningful amounts. Above the roulette tables, screens listed the results of the most recent twenty spins of the wheel. Gamblers would see that it had come up black the past eight spins, marvel at the improbability, and feel in their bones that the tiny silver ball was now more likely to land on red. That was the reason the casino bothered to list the wheel&#x27;s most recent spins: to help gamblers to delude themselves. To give people the false confidence they needed to lay their chips on a roulette table. The entire food chain of intermediaries in the subprime mortgage market was duping itself with the same trick, using the foreshortened, statistically meaningless past to predict the future.</p><p>The more they listened to the people who ran the subprime market, the more they felt the collapse of double-A-rated bonds wasn&#x27;t a long shot at all, but likely. A thought crossed Ben&#x27;s mind: These people believed that the collapse of the subprime mortgage market was unlikely precisely because it would be such a catastrophe. Nothing so terrible could ever actually happen.</p><h5>CHAPTER SEVEN: The Great Treasure Hunt</h5><p>Credit quality always gets better in March and April,&quot; said Eisman. &quot;And the reason it always gets better in March and April is that people get their tax refunds. You would think people in the securitization world would know this. And they sort of did. But they let the credit spreads tighten. We just thought that was moronic. What are you, fucking stupid?&quot; Amazingly, the stock market continued to soar, and the television over the FrontPoint trading desks emitted a ceaselessly bullish signal.</p><h5>CHAPTER NINE: A Death of Interest</h5><p>It&#x27;s now April 2006, and the subprime mortgage bond machine is roaring. Howie Hubler is Morgan Stanley&#x27;s star bond trader, and his group of eight traders is generating, by their estimate, around 20 percent of Morgan Stanley&#x27;s profits. Their profits have risen from roughly $400 million in 2004 to $700 million in 2005, on their way to $1 billion in 2006. Hubler will be paid $25 million at the end of the year, but he&#x27;s no longer happy working as an ordinary bond trader. The best and the brightest Wall Street traders are quitting their big firms to work at hedge funds, where they can make not tens but hundreds of millions.</p><p>At length the moment had come: The last buyer of subprime mortgage risk had stopped buying. On August 1, 2007, shareholders brought their first lawsuit against Bear Stearns in connection with the collapse of its subprime-backed hedge funds. Among its less visible effects was to alarm greatly the three young men at Cornwall Capital who sat on what was for them an enormous pile of credit default swaps purchased mostly from Bear Stearns. Ever since Las Vegas, Charlie Ledley had been unable to shake his sense of the enormity of the events they were living through. Ben Hockett, the only one of the three who had worked inside a big Wall Street firm, also tended to travel very quickly in his mind to some catastrophic endgame. And Jamie Mai just thought a lot of people on Wall Street were scumbags. All three were worried that Bear Stearns might fail and be unable to make good on its gambling debts. &quot;There can come a moment when you can&#x27;t trade with a Wall Street firm anymore,&quot; said Ben, &quot;and it can come like that.&quot;</p><p>That first week in August, they kicked around and tried to get a feel for the prices of double-A-rated CDOs, which just a few months earlier had been trading at prices that suggested they were essentially riskless. &quot;The underlying bonds were collapsing and all the people we&#x27;d dealt with were saying we&#x27;ll give you two points,&quot; said Charlie. Right up through late July, Bear Stearns and Morgan Stanley were saying, in effect, that double-A CDOs were worth 98 cents on the dollar. The argument between Howie Hubler and Greg Lippmann was replaying itself throughout the market.</p><p>Cornwall Capital owned credit default swaps on twenty crappy CDOs, but each was crappy in its own special way, and so it was hard to get a read on exactly where they stood. One thing was clear: Their long-shot bet was no longer a long shot. Their Wall Street dealers had always told them that they&#x27;d never be able to get out of these obscure credit default swaps on double-A tranches of CDOs, but the market was panicking, and seemed eager to buy insurance on anything related to subprime mortgage bonds. The calculation had changed: For the first time, Cornwall stood to lose quite a bit of money if something happened that caused the market to rebound--if, say, the U.S. government stepped in and guaranteed all the subprime mortgages. And of course if Bear Stearns went down, they&#x27;d lose it all. Oddly alert to the possibility of catastrophe, they now felt oddly exposed to one. They rushed to cover themselves--to find some buyer of these strange and newly relevant insurance policies they had accumulated.</p><p>The job fell to Ben Hockett. Charlie Ledley had tried a few times to act as their trader and failed miserably. &quot;There are all these little rules,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;You have to know exactly what to say, and if you don&#x27;t, everyone gets pissed off at you. I&#x27;d think I&#x27;d be saying, like, &#x27;Sell!&#x27; and it turned out I was saying, like, &#x27;Buy!&#x27; I sort of stumbled into the realization that I should not be doing trades.&quot; Ben had traded for a living and was the only one of the three who knew what to say and how to say it. Ben, however, was in the south of England, on vacation with his wife’s family.</p><p>“And so it was that Ben Hockett found himself sitting in a pub called The Powder Monkey, in the city of Exmouth, in the county of Devon, England, seeking a buyer of $205 million in credit default swaps on the double-A tranches of mezzanine subprime CDOs. The Powder Monkey had the town&#x27;s lone reliable wireless Internet connection, and none of the enthusiastic British drinkers seemed to mind, or even notice, the American in the corner table bashing on his Bloomberg machine and talking into his cell phone from two in the afternoon until eleven at night. Up to that point, only three Wall Street firms had proved willing to deal with Cornwall Capital and give them the ISDA agreements necessary for dealing in credit default swaps: Bear Stearns, Deutsche Bank, and Morgan Stanley. &quot;Ben had always told us that it&#x27;s possible to do a trade without an ISDA, but it was really not typical,&quot; said Charlie. This was not a typical moment. On Friday, August 3, Ben called every major Wall Street firm and said, You don&#x27;t know me and I know you won&#x27;t give us an ISDA agreement, but I&#x27;ve got insurance on subprime mortgage-backed CDOs I’m willing to sell. Would you be willing to deal with me without an ISDA agreement? “The stock answer was no,&quot; said Ben. &quot;And I&#x27;d say, &#x27;Call your head of credit trading and call your head of risk management and see if they feel differently.&#x27;&quot; That Friday only one bank seemed eager to deal with him: UBS. And they were very eager. The last man clinging to the helium balloon had just let go of his rope.</p><p>On Monday, August 6, Ben returned to The Powder Monkey and began to trade. For insurance policies costing half of 1 percent, UBS was now offering him 30 points up front--that is, Cornwall&#x27;s $205 million in credit default swaps, which cost about a million bucks to buy, were suddenly worth a bit more than $60 million (30 percent of $205 million). UBS was no longer alone in their interest, however; the people at Citigroup and Merrill Lynch and Lehman Brothers, so dismissive on Friday, were eager on Monday. All of them were sweating and moaning to price the risks of these CDOs their firms had created. &quot;It was easier for me because they had to look at every single deal,&quot; said Ben. &quot;And I just wanted money.&quot; Cornwall had twenty separate positions to sell. Ben&#x27;s Internet connection came and went, as did his cell phone reception. Only the ardor of the Wall Street firms, desperate to buy fire insurance on their burning home, remained undimmed. &quot;It&#x27;s the first time we&#x27;re seeing any prices that reflect anything close to like what they&#x27;re really worth,&quot; said Charlie. “We had positions that were being valued by Bear Stearns at six hundred grand that went to six million <em>the next day</em>.”</p><p>By eleven o’clock Thursday night Ben was finished. It was August 9, the same day that the French bank BNP announced that investors in their money market funds would be prevented from withdrawing their savings because of problems with U.S. subprime mortgages. Ben, Charlie, and Jamie were not clear on why three-quarters of their bets had been bought by a Swiss bank. The letters U B S had scarcely been mentioned inside Cornwall Capital until the bank had started begging them to sell them what was now very high-priced subprime insurance. &quot;I had no particular reason to think UBS was even in the subprime business,&quot; said Charlie. &quot;In retrospect, I can&#x27;t believe we didn&#x27;t turn around and get short UBS.&quot; In taking Cornwall&#x27;s credit default swaps off its hands, neither UBS nor any of their other Wall Street buyers expressed the faintest reservations that they were now assuming the risk that Bear Stearns might fail: That thought, inside big Wall Street firms, was still unthinkable. Cornwall Capital, started four and a half years earlier with $110,000, had just netted, from a million-dollar bet, more than $80 million. &quot;There was a relief that we had not been the chumps at the table,&quot; said Jamie. They had not been the chumps at the table. The long shot had paid 80:1. And no one at The Powder Monkey ever asked Ben what he was up to.</p><p>When banking stops, credit stops, and when credit stops, trade stops, and when trade stops--well, the city of Chicago had only eight days of chlorine on hand for its water supply. Hospitals ran out of medicine. The entire modern world was premised on the ability to buy now and pay later.</p><p>Twenty-two days later, on August 31, 2007, Michael Burry lifted the side pocket and began to unload his own credit default swaps in earnest. His investors could have their money back. There was now more than twice as much of it as they had given him. Just a few months earlier, Burry was being offered 200 basis points--or 2 percent of the principal--for his credit default swaps, which peaked at $1.9 billion. Now he was being offered 75, 80, and 85 points by Wall Street firms desperate to cushion their fall. At the end of the quarter, he&#x27;d report that the fund was up more than 100 percent. By the end of the year, in a portfolio of less than $550 million, he would have realized profits of more than $720 million.</p><h5>CHAPTER TEN: Two Men in a Boat</h5><p>The people rising out of the hole in the ground on the northeast corner of Madison Avenue and Forty-seventh Street at 6:40 in the morning revealed a great deal about themselves, if you knew what to look for. Anyone in that place at that time probably worked on Wall Street, for instance. The people emerging from the holes surrounding Penn Station, where Vincent Daniel’s train arrived at exactly the same time, weren’t so easy to predict. “Vinny’s morning train is only fifty-five percent financial, because that’s where the construction workers come in,” said Danny Moses. “Mine’s ninety-five.” To the untrained eye, the Wall Street people who rode from the Connecticut suburbs to Grand Central were an undifferentiated mass, but within that mass Danny noted many small and important distinctions.</p><p>If they were on their BlackBerrys, they were probably hedge fund guys, checking their profits and losses in the Asian markets. If they slept on the train they were probably sell-side people--brokers, who had no skin in the game. Anyone carrying a briefcase or a bag was probably not employed on the sell side, as the only reason you&#x27;d carry a bag was to haul around brokerage research, and the brokers didn&#x27;t read their own reports--at least not in their spare time. Anyone carrying a copy of the <em>New York Times</em> was probably a lawyer or a back-office person or someone who worked in the financial markets without actually being <em>in</em> the markets.</p><p>Their clothes told you a lot, too. The guys who ran money dressed as if they were going to a Yankees game. Their financial performance was supposed to be all that mattered about them, and so it caused suspicion if they dressed too well. If you saw a buy-side guy in a suit, it usually meant that he was in trouble, or scheduled to meet with someone who had given him money, or both. Beyond that, it was hard to tell much about a buy-side person from what he was wearing. The sell side, on the other hand, might as well have been wearing their business cards: The guy in the blazer and khakis was a broker at a second-tier firm; the guy in the three-thousand-dollar suit and the hair just so was an investment banker at J.P. Morgan or someplace like that.</p><p>Danny could guess where people worked by where they sat on the train. The Goldman Sachs, Deutsche Bank, and Merrill Lynch people, who were headed downtown, edged to the front--though when Danny thought about it, few Goldman people actually rode the train anymore. They all had private cars. Hedge fund guys such as himself worked uptown and so exited Grand Central to the north, where taxis appeared haphazardly and out of nowhere to meet them, like farm trout rising to corn kernels.</p><h5>EPILOGUE: Everything Is Correlated</h5><p>What are the odds that people will make smart decisions about money if they don&#x27;t need to make smart decisions--if they can get rich making dumb decisions? The incentives on Wall Street were all wrong; they&#x27;re still all wrong.</p><p>The moment Salomon Brothers demonstrated the potential gains to be had from turning an investment bank into a public corporation and leveraging its balance sheet with exotic risks, the psychological foundations of Wall Street shifted, from trust to blind faith. No investment bank owned by its employees would have leveraged itself 35:1, or bought and held $50 billion in mezzanine CDOs. I doubt any partnership would have sought to game the rating agencies, or leapt into bed with loan sharks, or even allowed mezzanine CDOs to be sold to its customers. The short-term expected gain would not have justified the long-term expected loss. No partnership, for that matter, would have hired me, or anyone remotely like me. Was there ever any correlation between an ability to get into, and out of, Princeton, and a talent for taking financial risk?</p><p>This new regime--free money for capitalists, free markets for everyone else--plus the more or less instant rewriting of financial history vexed all sorts of people, but few were as enthusiastically vexed as Steve Eisman. The world&#x27;s most powerful and most highly paid financiers had been entirely discredited; without government intervention every single one of them would have lost his job; and yet those same financiers were using the government to enrich themselves. &quot;I can understand why Goldman Sachs would want to be included in the conversation about what to do about Wall Street,&quot; he said. &quot;What I can&#x27;t understand is why anyone would listen to them.&quot; In Eisman&#x27;s view, the unwillingness of the U.S. government to allow the bankers to fail was less a solution than a symptom of a still deeply dysfunctional financial system.</p><p>This was yet another consequence of turning Wall Street partnerships into public corporations: It turned them into objects of speculation. It was no longer the social and economic relevance of a bank that rendered it too big to fail, but the number of side bets that had been made upon it.</p><p>The main effect of turning a partnership into a corporation was to transfer the financial risk to the shareholders. &quot;When things go wrong it&#x27;s their problem,&quot; he said--and obviously not theirs alone. When the Wall Street investment bank screwed up badly enough, its risks became the problem of the United States government.</p><h5>Acknowledgements</h5><p>Book: Fool&#x27;s Gold by Gillian Tett</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Just Keep Buying by Nick Maggiulli: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/just-keep-buying-nick-maggiulli</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2024 21:26:27 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A great book to recommend to anyone looking to up their personal finance game.If you’re well-versed in personal finance, you won’t find a ton of new material here, but it’s a quick read, with some fresh viewpoints on a number of topics.Read this alongside The Psychology of Money and I Will Teach You To Be Rich and you’ll be ahead of the vast majority when it comes to personal finance.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>At the end of the day, it matters a lot less what you buy, when, or how much. What matters is that you keep buying investments.</li><li>Save what you can: cutting spending has a limit; raising your income is often what you’ll need to focus on once your spending is reasonable.</li><li>Climbing the corporate ladder is often looked down upon, but it’s one of the most reliable ways to get wealthy.</li><li>The end goal is always more ownership: ownership of income-producing assets.</li><li>The 2X Rule: anytime you want to splurge on something, you have to take the same amount of money and invest it as well.</li><li>Spend to increase happiness: on experiences, occasional treats, buying extra time, paying upfront, or spending on others. Make sure your purchases will contribute to your long-term fulfillment.</li><li>Don’t spend more than 50% of your future raises. Anything more and you start to delay your retirement.</li><li>To decide whether college is worth it, you should figure out the boost in future earnings your degree is going to provide, and look at what those earnings are worth today (current value of discounted future earnings).</li><li>Avoid non-mortgage financial debt. This type of debt often has consequences for your physical and mental health.</li><li>The transaction cost of buying a home is typically 2-11% of the home’s value. And homes typically require 1-2% of the home’s value in annual maintenance costs. Which is partially why you should probably only consider it if you’re going to be there long-term. Housing as an investment typically provides poor returns.</li><li>The primary cost of renting is risk: unknown future housing costs, instability in living situation, ongoing moving costs. You may also need to buy to live in a specific area for other reasons, like schools, social group, etc.</li><li>If you do want to buy a home, you should be able to provide 20% as a down payment (whether you use it or not), and keep your debt-to-income ratio below 43% (monthly debt/monthly income).</li><li>When it comes to saving, use cash. If you’re saving for 3 years or more, consider buying bonds with your cash.</li><li>You can figure out when you can retire by assuming a withdrawal rate of 4%, which means you need 25 times your annual expenses (minus whatever social security/guaranteed income you will get) to retire.</li><li>But the big risk with retirement isn’t often the financial risk. It’s the existential one: how will you spend your time? What will your social life look like? What will be your ultimate purpose? Make sure you plan these too.</li><li>What should you invest in? For most, stocks will be best. You can transition to bonds as you get nearer your retirement age. But you may also want to consider other things like investment properties, real estate investment trusts (REITs), farmland, small biz/angel investing, or royalties.</li><li>When it comes to investing, you should invest your money as soon as you can. And you should avoid selling until as late as possible (or ideally, never). You can rebalance your portfolio when necessary by buying more.</li><li>401(k) vs. Roth 401(k) (or equivalent in your country) is tricky, and depends on your situation. There’s not a huge advantage to 401(k) in terms of earnings, but a big cost in terms of having your money locked up. Contribute up to your employer match if you have one, for sure, but after that think carefully.</li><li>It’s likely that you’ll never feel rich; even most billionaires compare themselves to the few people better off than they are. The reality is that if your net worth exceeds $93,170, you’re in the top 10% globally.</li><li>Time is the most important asset; you can never buy back your time.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The 4-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-4-hour-workweek-tim-ferriss</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 02 Mar 2024 17:38:00 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The 4-Hour Workweek is the book I credit with getting me into entrepreneurship in the first place. The ideas of passive income, living a flexible lifestyle, and eliminating the non-essential has been a consistent theme in my life.Perhaps even more remarkable, the content of the book is more relevant now than ever before, with more and more tools available for making the aims of the book a reality.This one has been a bestseller since publishing for a reason. Everyone can learn something from this book.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>People don’t want to be millionaires; they want to experience what they think millionaires can buy.</li><li>The real question is: how can one achieve the lifestyle of complete freedom without first having $1M?</li><li>If you can free your time and location, your money is automatically worth 3-10x as much (if your money is USD). This is geo-arbitrage.</li><li>Money multiplies in value depending on the number of W’s you control in your life: what you do, when you do it, where you do it, and with whom you do it.</li><li>Capacity, interest, and mental endurance all wax and wane; alternating periods of activity and rest is necessary to survive, let alone thrive.</li><li>Focus on being productive instead of busy.</li><li>For all the most important things, the timing always sucks.</li><li>It is far more lucrative and fun to leverage your strengths instead of attempting to fix all your weaknesses.</li><li>In excess, most endeavors and possessions take on the characteristics of their opposite.</li><li>Fear setting: define the absolute worst that could happen if you did whatever you’re considering. What doubt, fears, and “what-ifs” pop up as you consider the big changes you can or need to make?</li><li>Then, think about what you could do to repair the damage, or get things back on the upswing, even if temporarily?</li><li>Most people aim for the mediocre, but this is where there’s the most competition. Having a big goal means you’ll have less competition, and is also more motivating.</li><li>The opposite of love is indifference, and the opposite of happiness is boredom. To be happy, you should be seeking excitement.</li><li>Dreamlining: make a list of all the things you dream of doing, pick the top 4, and then determine the cost of these things and translate it into a target monthly income: what you would have to pay per month to cover these things.</li><li>Effectiveness is doing things that get you closer to your goals. Efficiency is performing a given task in the most economical manner possible.</li><li>Two truisms: doing something unimportant well does not make it important; requiring a lot of time does not make a task important.</li><li>Pareto’s law: 80% of the outputs result from 20% of the inputs.</li><li>Our goal is maximum income from minimal necessary effort.</li><li>Parkinson’s Law: a task will swell in importance and complexity in relation to the time allotted for its completion.</li><li>So, to increase productivity: limit tasks to the timportant to shorten work time (80/20); shorten work time to limit tasks to the important (Parkinson’s Law).</li><li>The key to having more time is doing less. To get there: define a to-do list and a not-to-do list.</li><li>Learn to only focus on one thing each day, the task that if you accomplished, would make you feel satisfied with your day.</li><li>Go on a low-information diet: stop consuming all news, anything that is not relevant for what you are trying to accomplish right now.</li><li>Learn to be difficult when it counts; cultivate a reputation for being assertive that will prevent others from wasting your time.</li><li>Using a virtual assistant (VA) is another way to free up your time.</li><li>Eliminate before you delegate. Never automate something that can be eliminated, and never delegate something that can be automated or streamlined.</li><li>Our goal: create an automated vehicle for generating cash without consuming time. This is our “muse.”</li><li>Don’t create a product and then seek someone to sell it to. Find a market—define your customers—then find or develop a product for them.</li><li>Characteristics of the product: it should cost $75-$300, with 8-10x markup minimum; it should take no more than 3-4 weeks to manufacture; it should be fully explainable in a good online FAQ.</li><li>The best product? An information product. One where you create a niche-specific product based on knowledge you already have or acquire.</li><li>To get an accurate indicator of commercial viability, don’t ask people if they would buy—ask them to buy. Use small ad-based tests to drive people to a landing page and get them to pre-order or purchase.</li><li>Offer a lose-win guarantee for your product (like a full refund).</li><li>Mini-retirement: a lifestyle that entails reloacting to one place for one to six months before going home or moving to another locale.</li><li>After you have your muse, and have quit you job, you’ll need to fill the void. There are two things that seem to help most people: continual learning and service.</li></ul><h5>Questions</h5><ul><li>How do your decisions change if retirement isn’t an option?</li><li>What if you could use a mini-retirement to sample your deferred-life plan reward before working 40 years for it?</li><li>Is it really necessary to work like a slave to live like a millionaire?</li><li>What if I did the opposite?</li><li>How has being “realistic” or “responsible” kept you from the life you want?</li><li>How has doing what you “should” resulted in subpar experiences or regret for not having done something else?</li><li>What would happen if I did the opposite of the people around me? What will I sacrifice if I continue on this track for 5, 10, or 20 years?</li><li>If you were fired from your job today, what would you do to get things under financial control?</li><li>What are you putting off out of fear? Usually, what we most fear doing is what we most need to do.</li><li>What is it costing you—financially, emotionally, and physically—to postpone action?</li><li>What are you waiting for? If you can’t answer this without resorting to the previously rejected concept of good timing, the answer is simple: You’re afraid, just like the rest of the world.</li><li>What would excite me?</li><li>What would you do if there were no way you could fail? If you were 10 times smarter than the rest of the world?</li><li>What would you do, day to day, if you had $100M in the bank?</li><li>What would make you most excited to wake up in the morning to another day?</li><li>What does “being” entail doing?</li><li>What are the four dreams that would change it all?</li><li>If you had a heart attack and had to work two hours per day, what would you do?</li><li>What are the top three activities that I use to fill time to feel as though I’ve been productive?</li><li>Who are the 20% of people who produce 80% of your enjoyment and propel you forward, and which 20% cause 80% of your depression, anger, and second-guessing?</li><li>If this is the only thing I accomplish today, will I be satisfied with my day?</li><li>Will I definitely use this information for something immediate and important?</li><li>Which social, industry, and professional groups do you belong to, have you belonged to, or do you understand, whether dentists, engineers, rock climbers, recreational cyclists, car restoration aficionados, dancers, or other?</li><li>Which of the groups you identified have their own magazines?</li><li>What is the one goal, if completed, that could change everything?</li><li>What is the most urgent thing right now that you feel you “must” or “should” do?</li><li>Can you let the urgent “fail”—even for a day—to get to the next milestone for your potential life-changing tasks?</li><li>What’s been on your to-do list the longest? Start it first thing in the morning and don’t allow interruptions or lunch until you finish.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Same As Ever by Morgan Housel: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/same-as-ever-morgan-housel</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 16 Feb 2024 22:21:13 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Housel, also the author of The Psychology of Money, is a master of simplifying complex topics, and this book is no exception.To summarize in one sentence: it’s impossible to predict the future, but we can use the past to predict how people will behave. That’s what will never change.An excellent book for anyone looking for universal principles for clearer thinking about the world, their own life, their career, and anything in the future.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>It’s impossible to predict the future. But we can use the past to predict how people will behave.</li><li>The things that surprise us are what matter, but we can never predict them. Instead, we should aim to be prepared.</li><li>“Invest in preparedness, not prediction.”—Nassim Taleb</li><li>Happiness = reality - expectations. It’s never been easier to be envious of others’ lives.</li><li>People who do extraordinary things and think in strange ways often have other personality traits that aren’t good.</li><li>People want certainty, not accuracy.</li><li>Stories are always more powerful than statistics.</li><li>A good example of this is the stock market: the valuation of a company is a number from today multiplied by a story about tomorrow.</li><li>The most compelling story often wins, which means that there are lots of opportunities to make old things new with a better story.</li><li>Some of the most important forces in the world are the hardest to measure.</li><li>“The thing I have noticed is when the anecdotes and the data disagree, the anecdotes are usually right. There’s something wrong with the way you are measuring it.”—Jeff Bezos</li><li>Most of the great things in life gain their value from two things: patience and scarcity. Trying to speed things up or make it too big ruin them.</li><li>Stress is a tradeoff for higher motivation and progress.</li><li>Good news happens over a long period, and is often invisible. Bad news happens quickly and is immediately visible.</li><li>We underestimate how much impact small improvements over a long period of time can have.</li><li>Inefficiency is desirable in many ways: free time helps us think, slack in a business adds resiliency, etc.</li><li>Everything has a price—not usually a sticker price—and the price is usually proportionate to the rewards. That means you must learn to endure some pain to achieve things.</li><li>“If you’re efficient, you’re doing it the wrong way.”—Jerry Seinfeld.</li><li>“If you can get your work life to where you enjoy half of it, that is amazing.”—Jeff Bezos</li><li>Most competitive advantages eventually die.</li><li>Things are rarely better on the other side, but they often appear that way.</li><li>When the incentives are crazy, people are crazy. It’s why unsustainable things can last longer than we anticipate.</li><li>Nothing is more persuasive than what you’ve experienced firsthand.</li><li>Long term success is more about maintaining flexibility than time. You need to be flexible to withstand downturns and unexpected events, and you need to convince those around you to go along for the ride.</li><li>We are attracted to complexity instead of simplicity, but there are no points in life for difficulty. Often, we can save a lot of time and headache by focusing on the simple underlying principles, even though it’s less appealing.</li><li>Most debates aren’t actual disagreements; they’re people with different experiences talking over each other.</li><li>The common reaction to an uncertain future is to try and forecast with more precision, more data, and more intelligence. Instead, do the opposite: look backward, and be broad. Study the big things in the past that haven’t changed.</li></ul><h5>Questions</h5><p>Instead of specific advice, ask yourself these questions:</p><ul><li>Who has the right answers but I ignore because they’re not articulate?</li><li>Which of my current views would I disagree with if I were born in a different country or generation?</li><li>What do I desperately want to be true so much that I think it’s true when it’s clearly not?</li><li>What is a problem that I think applies only to other countries/industries/careers that will eventually hit me?</li><li>What do I think is true but is actually just good marketing?</li><li>What haven’t I experienced firsthand that leaves me naive about how something works?</li><li>What looks unsustainable but is actually a new trend we haven’t accepted yet?</li><li>Who do I think is smart but is actually full of it?</li><li>Am I prepared to handle risks I can’t even envision?</li><li>Which of my current views would change if my incentives were different?</li><li>What are we ignoring today that will seem shockingly obvious in the future?</li><li>What events very nearly happened that would have fundamentally changed the world I know if they had occurred?</li><li>How much have things outside my control contributed to things I take credit for?</li><li>How do I know if I’m being patient (a skill) or stubborn (a flaw)?</li><li>Who do I look up to that is secretly miserable?</li><li>What hassle am I trying to eliminate that’s actually an unavoidable cost of success?</li><li>What crazy genius that I aspire to emulate is actually just crazy?</li><li>What strong belief do I hold that’s most likely to change?</li><li>What’s always been true?</li><li>What’s the same as ever?</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Million Dollar Weekend by Noah Kagan: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/million-dollar-weekend-noah-kagan</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 13 Feb 2024 12:57:14 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I’ve followed Noah Kagan for a long time, back to his growth blogging days when he was working on growing the financial tool Mint. He’s long provided open, honest growth marketing advice.His book is a short read, highly actionable, and shares many themes with The 4-Hour Workweek, which is the book I attribute to getting me into entrepreneurship.Highly recommend for anyone who is interested in starting their own business. Follow the template in the book and you’ll be off to a great start!You can also get the first chapter and the resources for the book for free here.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>The simple Million Dollar Weekend process: find a problem people are having that you can solve; craft an irresistible solution that has million-dollar plus potential backed by market research; spend zero money to validate whether your idea is real or not by preselling before you build it.</li><li>Two main fears derail people starting businesses: fear of starting and fear of asking.</li><li>Everything you do should be viewed as an experiment, and you should aim to do as many as possible.</li><li>Business is just a never-ending cycle of starting and trying new things, asking whether people will pay for those things, and then trying it again based on what you’ve learned.</li><li>Use the motto NOW, Not How.</li><li>Give yourself early motivation by writing down your Freedom Number: the short-term monthly revenue goal you’re aiming for.</li><li>Aim to get rejected: those that are willing to get rejected will eventually get what they want.</li><li>Be persistent: figure out what rejections are actually “not now” and why not.</li><li>Follow up: you’re often likely to get your yes on the second or third try.</li><li>Selling is helping: if you believe your product improves the lives of your customers, sales is just education. You’re helping people out.</li><li>Ask for 10 percent off next time you buy a coffee to practice getting over your fear of asking.</li><li>Customers don’t care about your ideas; they care about whether you can solve their problems.</li><li>You need to know: <strong>who</strong> you are selling to, <strong>what</strong> problem you’re solving, and <strong>where</strong> they are.</li><li>Use people in your own orbit: friends, colleagues, communities, etc. to find your first customers.</li><li>You need to think about your own unhappiness and to think of solutions for you to sell.</li></ul><p>Four different places to find ideas:</p><ol><li>Solve your own problems: things that irritate you, have been on your to-do list, etc.</li><li>Bestsellers: think about products that <em>already</em> sell a ton and think about accessories you could sell, or services you could sell (like teaching how to use the product)</li><li>Marketplaces: look on Craigslist, Facebook Marketplace, completed listings on eBay, etc. for products people are looking to buy</li><li>Search engine queries: try searching for questions on <a href="http://AnswerThePublic.com">AnswerThePublic.com</a>, using Google Trends, or r/SomebodyMakeThis on Reddit for ideas.</li></ol><p>One-Minute Business Model</p><ul><li>Is the market dying, flat, or growing? You want flat or growing. Use Google Trends to see how it’s trending.</li><li>Is this a million-dollar opportunity? Use Facebook Ads to determine the size of the market (you can just see how many fit your audience, you don’t have to buy), then estimate the profit you will make per customer. That’s your potential opportunity.</li><li>Think about the dials you can use to affect revenue: average order value, frequency, price point, customer type, product line, and add-on services.</li></ul><p>Validation</p><ul><li>Find three customers in 48 hours who will give you money for your idea.</li></ul><p>Three Methods to Validate</p><ol><li>Direct preselling: use your network and friends, and get them to preorder.</li><li>Marketplaces: list a virtual product on marketplace sites to test products.</li><li>Landing pages: set up a landing page and buy some ads to send traffic to those pages.</li></ol><p>Notes on Preselling</p><ul><li>Validating can follow a 3-step process: listen, option, transitions.</li><li>Listen: you want customers to talk about their problem: What’s the most frustrating thing currently going on? How would having X make your life better? What do you think that X should cost?</li><li>Option: now present some solutions, and see which excites them most.</li><li>Transition: time to transition to sell: Price + Benefit + Time should be how you form an offer sentence (ex: For $50, I’ll teach you how to write better in 1 hour).</li><li>If you get rejected while validating, remember to learn. Ask questions like: Why not? Who is one person you know who would really like this? What would make this a no-brainer for you? What would you pay for that?</li></ul><p>Content</p><ul><li>Building a community is very important in business, and you create one by adding value without expectation. People also want to follow other people who are genuine.</li><li>You should have a unique angle: who you are, why people should listen, what you’re passionate about and what you will do for people.</li><li>Choose your platform carefully; it needs to be something that fits with who you are and who you’re targeting.</li><li>Try and deliver content that follows <strong>outcome you’ll deliver + target market.</strong></li><li>Aim to be the guide, not the guru. People don’t want to be lectured, they want to tag along. Document what YOU do, and you become relatable, which is what audiences long for.</li></ul><p>Email</p><ul><li>Set up a landing page, give something away for free (a lead magnet), and then start to use your content to add emails to your list. This is where you’ll make your money.</li><li>When you’re starting out, engage with every one of your followers.</li><li>The Law of 100: commit to doing 100 emails, posts, or whatever action will move you closer to your goal.</li></ul><p>Growth</p><ul><li>Five questions to create a marketing plan: What is your one goal for the year? Who exactly is your customer and where can you find them? What is one marketing activity you can double down on? How can you delight your first 100 customers? If you HAD to double your business with no money in thirty days, what would you do?</li><li>Set a single, focused goal, create a list of marketing experiments, double down on what works, and then eliminate what doesn’t.</li><li>Think about how you could double your business if you couldn’t get any new customers; this will help you think about how you can overdeliver.</li></ul><p>Dream Year</p><ul><li>The first step to getting everything you want is allowing yourself to want it, and facing the fears necessary to get it.</li><li>Write out your dream year, and then take those and turn them into your goals.</li><li>Then build your calendar with color codes related to those goals. Show me your calendar and I’ll show you what’s most important to you.</li></ul><p>Never Entrepreneur Alone</p><ul><li>Get an accountability buddy: someone who will ensure you stick with your goals week-to-week.</li><li>Target Prefluencers: try and connect with ambitious people BEFORE they make it.</li><li>Build your VIP network with referrals: every time you meet someone new, follow up and ask them to refer you to someone else.</li></ul><p>Start Again</p><ul><li>Life is shaped by the willingness to face fears. Achieving dreams comes down to one question: how many times are you willing to get back up after falling down? Experiment, fail, try again until you succeed.</li><li>Start. And then start again.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Fooled by Randomness by Nassim Nicholas Taleb: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/fooled-by-randomness-nassim-nicholas-taleb</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 10 Feb 2024 01:17:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Taleb’s first book has stood the test of time, and remains one of the most eye-opening books I’ve ever read. His Incerto has changed my thinking more than any other series.Fooled by Randomness shows that though our world is dominated by randomness, as humans we are not built to deal with it. We see causality where there is none, and stress over things that are random. We fail to realize when outcomes are driven by randomness, and drive ourselves crazy as a result. And we study and worship those who likely had a large part of their success driven by randomness.Taleb’s writing is also some of the most entertaining I’ve ever read. Read this book and you’ll never see the world the same again.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Biggest Takeaways</h4><ul><li>Randomness dominates our lives, yet we are not built to deal with this. We look for narratives and causality in everything, regardless of whether it is there.</li><li>We tend to revise history to make sense once it has happened; but it must be judged by the knowledge that was available at the time.</li><li>We also only consider the winners: we routinely fail to judge things by the full sample (ex: actors and writers).</li><li>We cannot fight our biological tendencies; we can only learn to avoid them altogether (like avoiding emotional torture by avoiding the news).</li><li>It is not how likely an event is that matters; it is the magnitude of the outcome that counts.</li><li>I can use data to disprove a proposition or hypothesis, but never to prove one.</li></ul><h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Past events will always look less random than they were (<em>hindsight bias</em>).</li><li>In the real world, one has to guess the problem more than the solution.</li><li>Of course chance favours the prepared; that does not mean that luck doesn’t play a large role, particularly when it comes to extreme outcomes.</li><li>It doesn’t matter how frequently something succeeds if failure is too costly to bear (paying Russian roulette for $10M).</li><li>Work ethics draw people to focus on noise rather than on signal.</li><li>One cannot consider anything—like the success of those in a profession—without taking into account the average of the people who enter it, not the sample of those who have succeeded in it.</li><li>Similarly, one cannot judge a performance in any given field by the results, but by the costs of the alternative (ie. if history played out in a different way).</li><li>Denigration of history: what happened to them won’t happen to me.</li><li>A mistake is not something to be determined after the fact, but in light of the information until that point.</li><li>Ergodicity: very long sample paths end up resembling each other (if you play Russian roulette long enough, you will die). Or “bad trades catch up with you.”</li><li>In other words: time will eventually remove the effects of randomness.</li><li>If an idea has survived for many cycles, it can be considered relatively good, as some noise has been filtered out. This is why you shouldn’t listen to the hourly news, but should read old books that are still in print.</li><li>Inductive statements, like “all swans are white” are impossible to verify; we can only say with certainty things which are falsifiable: “not all swans are white” (after seeing a black swan).</li><li>Induction: going from plenty of particulars to the general.</li><li>In other words, I can use data to disprove a proposition, but never to prove one.</li><li>We do not need to be rational and scientific when it comes to the details of our daily life; only those that threaten our survival. Yet we do the opposite: we become rational when it comes to religion and personal behaviour, yet irrational with things like investments.</li><li>Cross-sectional problem: at any given time in the market, the most successful traders are likely to be those best fit to the latest cycle.</li><li>Evolution does not mean that all things get fitter over time. Evolution is about reproductive fitness, not survival, and randomness means that we see regressions and diversions too. Darwinian fitness applies to species developing over a very long time, not observed over a short term.</li><li>Whenever there is an asymmetry in outcomes, the average and the median are very different. We often confuse probability and expectation, expectation being the probability times the payoff, yet the magnitude of the outcome often dominates what matters.</li><li>What we should learn from history is that unexpected events—and those that have never happened before—happen.</li><li>Learning specific things from history is nearly impossible because conditions have changed.</li><li>Speculation is fine, but with the following lens: no rare event should harm me, and ideally it should help me.</li><li>So: use statistics and inductive methods to make aggressive bets, but do not use them to manage risk and exposure.</li><li>The sample size matters: in any large initial sample, you are bound to have outsize successes, simply by randomness. Take a sample of the the worst fund managers in the world, make it large enough, and you’ll have someone that beats the market many years in a row (the monkeys-on-a-typewriter problem).</li><li>Not only this, but the expectation of the <em>maximum</em> of the track records is dependent more on the initial sample size than on the individual odds of one manager.</li><li>Survivorship bias is one of the most prevalent in our society: we only see the winners in a given profession, time, neighborhood, etc., and draw conclusions from them, when we need to look at the full sample. It’s why the expected value of becoming a dentist is far higher than that of a writer, actor, or rapper.</li><li>For results in real life, the larger the deviation from the norm, the larger the probability of it coming from luck rather than skills.</li><li>We often make mistakes calculating probabilities. There is a 50% chance of 2 people in a room of 23 having the same birthday, much higher than you’d think. That’s because we’re searching for <em>any</em> relationship, not a specific one. Finding a relationship of <em>some kind</em> in big datasets is much easier than you’d think.</li><li>Nonlinear effects are everywhere in life, which also complicates our understanding of causality. Worse products winning, or actors becoming famous because they got a break at some point in the past are good examples. Or the virality of specific products.</li><li>Other areas we often make mistakes with probability: conditional probability (the odds of X conditional on Y), and joint probability (the odds of X considering Y other thing). Life expectancy is a good example of conditional probability.</li><li>Wittgenstein’s ruler: unless you have confidence in the ruler’s reliability, if you use a ruler to measure a table you may also be using the table to measure the ruler. In real life, this takes the form of things like book reviews showing more about the reviewer than the book itself.</li><li>Attribution bias: you attribute your successes to skills, but your failures to randomness. This also has the effect of making people think they’re better than they are at things (80-90% of people think they are above average in many things).</li><li>The answer to randomness in our lives: dignity. Never act with self-pity and keep a dignified attitude.</li><li>A slightly random schedule prevents us from optimizing and being too efficient, particularly in the wrong things.</li><li>Writing rule: for writing to be agreeable, the length of the piece needs to remain unpredictable.</li><li>Don’t do to others what you don’t want them to do to you.</li><li>We favor the visible, the embedded, the personal, the narrated, and the tangible; we scorn the abstract.</li></ul><h4>Favourite Quotes</h4><ul><li>“In the real world one has to guess the problem more than the solution.”</li><li>“What sounds intelligent in a conversation or a meeting, or, particularly, in the media, is suspicious.”</li><li>“I needed the backing of my bank account so I could buy time to think and enjoy life.”</li></ul><h4>Recommended Books</h4><ul><li>Irrational Exuberance - Robert Shiller</li><li>Treatise on Probability - Keynes</li><li>Fashionable Nonsense - Alan Sokal</li><li>Casanova’s Memoirs of My Life</li><li>Descartes’ Error - Damasio</li><li>Emotional Brain - LeDoux</li><li>In Search of Time - Marcel Proust</li><li>Le Fric - Jean-Manuel Rozan</li><li>Mean Genes - Terry Burnham, Jay Phelan</li><li>The Tipping Point - Malcolm Gladwell</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Feel-Good Productivity by Ali Abdaal: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/feel-good-productivity-ali-abdaal</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 20 Jan 2024 22:36:02 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A fresh take on how to be more productive in your life, without having to sacrifice anything or feel terrible.Abdaal provides a fun combination of science and personal anecdotes, along with lots of concrete suggestions in the form of experiments that can help you live a more aligned, productive life.Even those who consider themselves well-versed in productivity (like I do) will find something useful in this book.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Feeling good boosts our creativity and energy, and reduces our stress.</li><li>Approach your work as play. Ask yourself: <em>what would this look like if it were fun?</em></li><li>Reframe failure. It’s not a failure, it’s an experiment that tells you to try something new.</li><li>Strive to feel empowered in your job and life. Ask yourself: <em>what would it look like if I were really confident at this?</em></li><li>Try to imagine yourself teaching what you’re working on to others. Take ownership of the process, even if you can’t own the situation.</li><li>Use positive self-talk, and reframe situations using phrases like “I’m blessed to do this.”</li><li>Find people who naturally uplift your energy, and try and work with others, even if you’re not working on the same thing. View them as “on your team” and treat people like they’re you’re teammates.</li><li>Do nice things for other people, and ask other people for help. Both make them feel good.</li><li>Overcommunicate, and be enthusiastic when celebrating others. Be candid in giving feedback as well as praise.</li><li>Procrastination is often caused by something that’s blocking us: uncertainty, fear, and inertia.</li><li>Overcome uncertainty by getting specific about the purpose, desired end state, and path to get there for each objective. Remind yourself why you’re doing it as often as you can.</li><li>Change how you think about goals, and try and set process goals that are within your control, short-term, and will energize you. Set SMART goals for the future as complementary goals if you want.</li><li>Plan what can go wrong ahead of time with a pre-mortem.</li><li>Schedule when you’re doing to do something in your calendar, including things like “nothing time.”</li><li>To overcome fear, be more specific about what you’re afraid of. Remind yourself of the spotlight effect, where we all think others think about us far more than they do. Remind yourself “nobody cares.”</li><li>Ask yourself, <em>will this matter in 10 minutes? 10 weeks? 10 years?</em></li><li>Use an alter ego, like Batman, and pretend to be them. Act like you think they would. Pretending is actually a great way to get past those fears.</li><li>To overcome inertia, make the thing you want to start on easy, the default. And make the things you want to avoid hard.</li><li>Use the five-minute rule, committing to work on a task for just 5 minutes. Often, you’ll keep going much longer than that.</li><li>When procrastinating, ask yourself: <em>what’s the next step?</em></li><li>Track your progress, and be encouraged by moving forward. Forgive yourself when it doesn’t happen and celebrate small victories.</li><li>There are three types of burnout: <em>overexertion burnouts</em> from taking on too much work; <em>depletion burnouts</em> from not getting enough rest; and <em>misalignment burnouts</em> which come from not doing work that brings your joy or meaning.</li><li>Take breaks when you do your work, and reduce the number of things you try to accomplish. It may seem like not enough, but it will let you be productive in the long-term.</li><li>Use Derek Sivers’ “hell yeah, or no” filter to only say yes to the things that really excite you.</li><li>Resist distraction by removing apps or environmental cues that tend to distract you, and when it happens, just say “begin again” to yourself and get started.</li><li>To rest, find activities that make you CALM: Competent, Autonomous, Liberated and Mellow.</li><li>Spend more time in nature, or at least keep more pictures of nature around you.</li><li>Don’t feel bad about booking nights off for “nothing.”</li><li>To better align your work and your values, ask yourself: <em>what would I feel good about someone saying in my eulogy?</em></li><li>Pick out your values, and how you might align yourself better with them. Pretend it’s 6 months from now, and you’re celebrating some changes or accomplishments with your friends. What would those be? Write them out.</li><li>Then think about what 3 actions you could take today, that would better align yourself with your values and those celebrations.</li><li>Treat your life as an experiment: form a hypothesis, make a change, and see what works. Keep what does, discard what doesn’t.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Outlive Summary: Beat the 4 Horsemen of Death with Medicine 3.0]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/outlive-peter-attia</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 06 Jan 2024 20:26:41 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This was one of my favourite reads of the year, and is the most useful book I’ve come across on living a longer, healthier life.The 4-Hour Body is the health-related book whose content has stuck with me the longest, and I think Outlive will be another book like this.There are four main reasons why most people’s health deteriorates, and this book both introduces you to each of these, and presents the most up-to-date research on how to reverse or prevent each from happening.Health is the single most important thing in our lives; the value of the book is worth 100x the cost.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Action Items</h4><p>Note: the following are the ultra-summarized action items I laid out for myself after reading the book. Some things will apply to everyone, some may not. You can scroll down to view the summarized book notes below.</p><p><strong>Today</strong></p><ul><li>DEXA scan (and compare with scale) (requires prescription in Quebec)</li><li>CT angiogram (hospital test)</li><li>apoB (blood test, available privately, <a href="https://siphoxhealth.com/pages/apolipoproteinb?tw_source=google&amp;tw_adid=676600697988&amp;tw_campaign=20644800637&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjw7c2pBhAZEiwA88pOF355pentX719iOGN87aMni19cqOQr15yNGK2mEp2xcpWTCohBmkqsBoClqYQAvD_BwE">like here</a>)</li><li>Lp(a)(blood test, available privately, <a href="https://bloodtestscanada.com/products/lipoprotein-a">like here</a>)</li><li>LDL-C (want as low as possible, more like 10-20 mg/dL, if no side effects, compared to recommended of 70 mg/dL typically recommended for high-risk individuals) and apoB to 20-30 mg/dL</li><li>Consider statins (rosuvastatin/Crestor) to lower apoB and LDL-C</li><li>PCSK9 inhibitors if statins aren’t effective enough alone or to treat Lp(a)</li><li>Genetic testing to look at APOE genotype</li></ul><p><strong>Diet</strong></p><ul><li>Consume more monounsaturated fats as % of total fat intake: EVOO, macadamia nuts, avocados</li><li>Continue to limit added sugar and refined carbs</li><li>Leafy veggies (spinach, broccoli, etc.)</li><li>Protein from fish, eggs, poultry</li><li>Omega 3 (DHA) supplements</li><li>Ketone supplements/occasional 3-day fasts or switches to ketogenic diet</li><li>Cut alcohol to 7 drinks per week or less with max 2 drinks per session</li><li>Vitamin D supplementation</li><li>Keep an eye on B vitamins (can lower homocysteine levels, good for cognitive health)</li><li>Avoid all sugar-sweetened drinks and fruit juice, foods with added sugar.</li><li>CGM: aim to keep average glucose at or below 100 mg/dL with standard deviation of less than 15 mg/dL</li><li>50g fiber per day</li><li>Avoid rice, oatmeal, fructose</li><li>Protein: 1.6 g/kg/day at min, but 2.2 g/kg/day (or 1 g/lb of body weight) is even better</li><li>Ideal is ~4 servings per day</li><li>170g of chicken, fish, or meat is about 40-45 grams protein</li><li>Fats: monounsaturated 50-55% of overall, saturated 15-20%, polyunsaturated for rest</li><li>Boost EPA &amp; DHA through supplements or fish</li><li>Can do a test of membranes of red blood cells, looking for 8-12% RBC membrane composed of EPA and DHA</li><li>More olive oil, avocados and nuts, cut back on butter and lard, reduce corn, soybean and sunflower oils, more salmon &amp; anchovies</li></ul><p><strong>Exercise</strong></p><ul><li>Dry sauna 4x per week, 20 minutes per session, at 179F (82C) or higher (Alzheimer’s prevention)</li><li>Increase VO2 max: 4 minutes hard, 4 minutes easy (HR&lt;100), repeat 4-6 times. Do this 2x per week.</li><li>Target elite range for their age, then go 2 decades younger (for me, &gt;52 or &gt;57)</li><li>Declines ~10% per decade, then 15% after 50</li><li>120% FTP for 3-minute intervals if training with power, or 33% more than Zone 2 output for 4-minute intervals</li><li>Aerobic efficiency (Zone 2): 3 hours per week, or four 45-minute sessions</li><li>Lactate: 1.7-2.0 millimoles</li><li>70-85% max heart rate</li><li>Can talk but not particularly interested in conversation at the top of zone 2</li><li>To measure progress, measure W/kg output in Zone 2 (3 is a good target)</li><li>Strength</li><li>Pay attention to grip strength, concentric &amp; eccentric loading, pulling motions (pull-ups and rows) and hip-hinging movements (like deadlift and squat, step-ups, hip-thrusters, single-leg variations)</li><li>Load-bearing activities like rucking, carrying hex bar, carrying kettlebells, etc.</li><li>Aim for ability to carry 50% body weight in each hand for at least 1 minute</li><li>Aim for dead-hang from pull-up bar for minimum 2 minutes</li><li>Stability: <a href="http://rehabps.com">rehabps.com</a> and posturalrestoration.com</li><li>Breath training</li><li>Toe yoga</li><li>One-leg balance with eyes closed</li><li><a href="https://peterattiamd.com/outlive/videos/">https://peterattiamd.com/outlive/videos/</a></li></ul><p><strong>Sleep</strong></p><ul><li>Bedroom as dark as possible</li><li>Remove clocks</li><li>Avoid blue light and interactive devices like phones, laptops and video games for 2 hours before bed</li><li>~18C bedroom temperature</li><li>Warm bath or sauna before bed helps</li><li>No alcohol close to bedtime</li><li>If you metabolize caffeine slowly, limit to 1-2 cups before noon</li><li>Zone 2 exercise &gt;2-3 hours before bedtime</li><li>Avoid eating &lt;3 hours before bedtime</li><li>Aim to spend 8-9 hours in bed</li></ul><p><strong>Yearly</strong></p><ul><li>DEXA scan</li><li>Visceral fat</li><li>Bone mineral density (hips &amp; lumbar spine)</li><li>Lean mass</li><li>Keep an eye on biomarkers related to metabolism: elevated uric acid, elevated homocysteine, chronic inflammation, mildly elevated ALT liver enzymes</li><li>Triglycerides (ratio of triglycerides to HDL cholesterol should be less than 2:1 and ideally less than 1:1)</li><li>VLDL levels</li><li>Elevated insulin (most important)</li><li>Oral glucose tolerance test (want to see peak subside after first half hour)</li><li>CT angiogram</li><li>apoB</li></ul><p><strong>Other</strong></p><ul><li>Look for results of the rapamycin Dog Aging Project in 2026</li><li>Look for TAME (Targeting Aging with Metformin) trial results</li><li>Colonoscopy at age 40 (earlier if higher risk) and then repeat every 2-3 years depending on findings</li><li>Consider the Grail Galleri test (cancer): <a href="https://www.galleri.com/patient/the-galleri-test/">https://www.galleri.com/patient/the-galleri-test/</a> at regular intervals</li><li>Avoid hearing loss/be fast to introduce hearing aids if so (contributes to cognitive decline)</li><li>Regular brushing and flossing (gum tissue health linked to overall health)</li></ul><h4>Notes</h4><h5>Chapter 1: The Long Game - From Fast Death to Slow Death</h5><p>The odds are overwhelming that you will die as a result of one of the chronic diseases of aging that I call the Four Horsemen: heart disease, cancer, neurodegenerative disease, or type 2 diabetes and related metabolic dysfunction.</p><h5>Chapter 2: Medicine 3.0 - Rethinking Medicine for the Age of Chronic Disease</h5><p>There are four main points to Medicine 3.0:</p><ol><li>First, <em>Medicine 3.0 places a far greater emphasis on prevention than treatment.</em></li><li>Second, <em>Medicine 3.0 considers the patient as a unique individual.</em></li><li><em>In Medicine 3.0, our starting point is the honest assessment, and acceptance, of risk—including the risk of doing nothing.</em></li><li>The fourth and perhaps largest shift is that where Medicine 2.0 focuses largely on lifespan, and is almost entirely geared toward staving off death, <em>Medicine 3.0 pays far more attention to maintaining healthspan, the quality of life.</em></li></ol><h5>Chapter 3: Objective, Strategy, Tactics - A Road Map for Reading This Book</h5><p>In this book, we will apply this three-part approach to longevity: <strong>objective → strategy → tactics.</strong></p><p><strong>Our Strategy</strong></p><p>I think about healthspan and its deterioration in terms of three categories, or vectors. The first vector of deterioration is cognitive decline.</p><p>The second vector of deterioration is the decline and eventual loss of function of our physical body.</p><p>No matter how ambitious your goals are for your later years, I suggest that you familiarize yourself with something called the “activities of daily living,” a checklist used to assess the health and functionality of elderly people.</p><p>The third and final category of deterioration, I believe, has to do with emotional health. Unlike the others, this one is largely independent of age; it can afflict outwardly healthy young people in their twenties, or it can creep up on you in middle age, as it did with me.</p><p>The other key point is that lifespan and healthspan are not independent variables; they are tightly intertwined.</p><p><strong>Tactics</strong></p><p>Medicine 2.0 relies on two types of tactics, broadly speaking: procedures (e.g., surgery) and medications. Our tactics in Medicine 3.0 fall into five broad domains: exercise, nutrition, sleep, emotional health, and exogenous molecules, meaning drugs, hormones, or supplements.</p><p>So we will break down this thing called exercise into its most important components: strength, stability, aerobic efficiency, and peak aerobic capacity.</p><h5>Chapter 5: Eat Less, Live Longer? The Science of Hunger and Health</h5><p>A small but growing number of people, including me and a handful of my patients, already take rapamycin off-label for its potential geroprotective benefits. I can’t speak for everyone, but taking it cyclically does appear to reduce unwanted side effects, in my experience.</p><p>The FDA has given the green light for a clinical trial of another drug with potential longevity benefits, the diabetes medication metformin. This trial is called TAME (Targeting Aging with Metformin), and it came about in a very different way. Metformin has been taken by millions of people for years. Over time, researchers noticed (and studies appeared to confirm) that patients on metformin appeared to have a lower incidence of cancer than the general population.</p><h5>Chapter 6: The Crisis of Abundance - Can Our Ancient Genes Cope with Our Modern Diet?</h5><p>I insist my patients undergo a DEXA scan annually—and I am far more interested in their visceral fat than their total body fat.</p><p>This means keeping watch for the earliest signs of trouble. In my patients, I monitor several biomarkers related to metabolism, keeping a watchful eye for things like elevated uric acid, elevated homocysteine, chronic inflammation, and even mildly elevated ALT liver enzymes. Lipoproteins, which we will discuss in detail in the next chapter, are also important, especially triglycerides; I watch the ratio of triglycerides to HDL cholesterol (it should be less than 2:1 or better yet, less than 1:1), as well as levels of VLDL, a lipoprotein that carries triglycerides—all of which may show up many years before a patient would meet the textbook definition of metabolic syndrome. These biomarkers help give us a clearer picture of a patient’s overall metabolic health than HbA1c, which is not very specific by itself.</p><p>But the first thing I look for, the canary in the coal mine of metabolic disorder, is elevated insulin.</p><p>One test that I like to give patients is the oral glucose tolerance test, or OGTT, where the patient swallows ten ounces of a sickly-sweet, almost undrinkable beverage called Glucola that contains seventy-five grams of pure glucose, or about twice as much sugar as in a regular Coca-Cola.[*6] We then measure the patient’s glucose and their insulin, every thirty minutes over the next two hours. Typically, their blood glucose levels will rise, followed by a peak in insulin, but then the glucose will steadily decrease as insulin does its job and removes it from circulation.</p><p>On the surface, this is fine: insulin has done its job and brought glucose under control. But the insulin in someone at the early stages of insulin resistance will rise very dramatically in the first thirty minutes and then remain elevated, or even rise further, over the next hour. This postprandial insulin spike is one of the biggest early warning signs that all is not well.</p><p>Studies have found that insulin resistance itself is associated with huge increases in one’s risk of cancer (up to twelvefold), Alzheimer’s disease (fivefold), and death from cardiovascular disease (almost sixfold)—all of which underscores why addressing, and ideally preventing, metabolic dysfunction is a cornerstone of my approach to longevity.</p><h5>Chapter 7: The Ticker - Confronting—and Preventing—Heart Disease, the Deadliest Killer on the Planet</h5><p>Fully half of all major adverse cardiovascular events in men (and a third of those in women), such as heart attack, stroke, or any procedure involving a stent or a graft, occur before the age of sixty-five. In men, one-quarter of all events occur before age fifty-four.</p><p>If you look at the coronary arteries with a CT scan at this very early stage, you will likely miss this if you’re looking only for calcium buildup. (You have a better chance of spotting this level of damage if using a more advanced type of CT scan, called a CT angiogram, which I much prefer to a garden-variety calcium scan[*4] because it can also identify the noncalcified or “soft” plaque that precedes calcification.)</p><p>Back then, nearly fifteen years ago, the apoB test (simply, measuring the concentration of apoB-tagged particles) was not commonly done. Since then, evidence has piled up pointing to apoB as far more predictive of cardiovascular disease than simply LDL-C, the standard “bad cholesterol” measure. According to an analysis published in JAMA Cardiology in 2021, each standard-deviation increase in apoB raises the risk of myocardial infarction by 38 percent in patients without a history of cardiac events or a diagnosis of cardiovascular disease (i.e., primary prevention). That’s a powerful correlation. Yet even now, the American Heart Association guidelines still favor LDL-C testing instead of apoB. I have all my patients tested for apoB regularly, and you should ask for the same test the next time you see your doctor. (Don’t be waved off by nonsensical arguments about “cost”: It’s about twenty to thirty dollars.)</p><p>Once you establish the central importance of apoB, the next question becomes, By how much does one need to lower it (or its proxy LDL-C) to achieve meaningful risk reduction? The various treatment guidelines specify target ranges for LDL-C, typically 100 mg/dL for patients at normal risk, or 70 mg/dL for high-risk individuals. In my view, this is still far too high. Simply put, I think you can’t lower apoB and LDL-C too much, provided there are no side effects from treatment. You want it as low as possible.</p><p>As Peter Libby, one of the leading authorities on cardiovascular disease, and colleagues wrote in <em>Nature Reviews</em> in 2019, “Atherosclerosis <em>probably would not occur</em> [emphasis mine] in the absence of LDL-C concentrations in excess of physiological needs (on the order of 10 to 20 mg/dL).” Furthermore, the authors wrote: “If the entire population maintained LDL concentrations akin to those of a neonate (or to those of adults of most other animal species), atherosclerosis might well be an orphan disease.”</p><p>We must also pay attention to other markers of risk, notably those associated with metabolic health, such as insulin, visceral fat, and homocysteine, an amino acid that in high concentrations[*7] is strongly associated with increased risk of heart attack, stroke, and dementia.</p><p>You’ll note that I don’t pay much attention to HDL-C, because while having very low HDL-C is <em>associated</em> with higher risk, it does not appear to be <em>causal.</em></p><p>Monounsaturated fats, found in high quantities in extra virgin olive oil, macadamia nuts, and avocados (among other foods), do not have this effect, so I tend to push my patients to consume more of these, up to about 60 percent of total fat intake.</p><p>But for many patients, if not for most, lowering apoB to the levels we aim for—the physiologic levels found in children—cannot be accomplished with diet alone, so we need to use nutritional interventions in tandem with drugs. Here we are fortunate because we have more preventive options in our armamentarium than we do for cancer or neurodegenerative disease. Statins are far and away the most prescribed class of drugs for lipid management, but there are several other options that might be right for a given individual, and often we need to combine classes of drugs, so it’s not uncommon for a patient to take two lipid-lowering drugs that operate via distinct mechanisms. These are typically thought of as “cholesterol-lowering” medications, but I think we are better served to think about them in terms of increasing apoB clearance, enhancing the body’s ability to get apoBs out of circulation. That’s really our goal. Mostly this is done by amplifying the activity of LDL receptors (LDLR) in the liver, which absorb cholesterol from the bloodstream.</p><h5>Chapter 8: The Runaway Cell - New Ways to Address the Killer That Is Cancer</h5><p>The problem we face is that once cancer is established, we lack highly effective treatments for it. Our toolbox is limited.</p><p>This experience informs our three-part strategy for dealing with cancer. Our first and most obvious wish is to avoid getting cancer at all, like the centenarians—in other words, prevention.</p><p>Next is the use of newer and smarter treatments targeting cancer’s manifold weaknesses, including the insatiable metabolic hunger of fast-growing cancer cells and their vulnerability to new immune-based therapies.</p><p>Third, and perhaps most importantly, we need to try to detect cancer as early as possible so that our treatments can be deployed more effectively. I advocate early, aggressive, and broad screening for my patients—such as colonoscopy (or other colorectal cancer screening) at age forty, as opposed to the standard recommendation of forty-five or fifty—because the evidence is overwhelming that it’s much easier to deal with most cancers in their early stages.</p><p>Over dinner, I shared a story about a case where a PI3K-inhibiting drug treatment had been enhanced by a kind of metabolic therapy.</p><p>So she worked out a regimen that consisted primarily of leafy vegetables, olive oil, avocados, nuts, and modest amounts of protein, mostly from fish, eggs, and poultry. The diet was just as notable for what it did not contain: added sugar and refined carbohydrates. All along, she underwent frequent blood tests to make sure her insulin and IGF-1 levels stayed low, which they did.</p><p>Other types of dietary interventions have been found to help improve the effectiveness of chemotherapy, while limiting its collateral damage to healthy tissues. Work by Valter Longo of the University of Southern California and others has found that fasting, or a fasting-like diet, increases the ability of normal cells to resist chemotherapy, while rendering cancer cells more vulnerable to the treatment.</p><p>The final and perhaps most important tool in our anticancer arsenal is early, aggressive screening. This remains a controversial topic, but the evidence is overwhelming that catching cancer early is almost always net beneficial.</p><p>In short, the problem is not the tests themselves but how we use them. Prostate cancer screening provides an even better example. It’s no longer as simple as “Your PSA number is X or higher, and therefore we must biopsy your prostate, a painful procedure with many unpleasant possible side effects.” Now we know to look at other parameters, such as PSA velocity (the speed at which PSA has been changing over time), PSA density (PSA value normalized to the volume of the prostate gland), and free PSA (comparing the amount of PSA that is bound versus unbound to carrier proteins in the blood). When those factors are taken into account, PSA becomes a much better indicator of prostate cancer risk.</p><p>In my practice, we go further, typically encouraging average-risk individuals to get a colonoscopy by age forty—and even sooner if anything in their history suggests they may be at higher risk. We then repeat the procedure as often as every two to three years, depending on the findings from the previous colonoscopy. If a sessile (flat) polyp is found, for example, we’re inclined to do it sooner than if the endoscopist finds nothing at all. Two or three years might seem like a very short window of time to repeat such an involved procedure, but colon cancer has been documented to appear within the span of as little as six months to two years after a normal colonoscopy. Better safe than sorry.</p><p>Why do I generally recommend a colonoscopy before the guidelines do? Mostly because, of all the major cancers, colorectal cancer is one of the easiest to detect, with the greatest payoff in terms of risk reduction.</p><p>MRI has a distinct advantage over CT in that it does not produce any ionizing radiation but still provides good resolution. One newer technique that can enhance the ability of a screening MRI to differentiate between a cancer and noncancer is something called diffusion-weighted imaging with background subtraction, or DWI for short.</p><p>I tell patients, if you’re going to have a whole-body screening MRI, there is a good chance we’ll be chasing down an insignificant thyroid (or other) nodule in exchange for getting such a good look at your other organs. As a result of this, about a quarter of my patients, understandably, elect not to undergo such screening. Which brings me to the next tool in the cancer screening tool kit, a tool that can complement the high sensitivity / low specificity problem of imaging tests.</p><p>I am cautiously optimistic about the emergence of so-called “liquid biopsies” that seek to detect the presence of cancers via a blood test.[*11] These are used in two settings: to detect recurrences of cancer in patients following treatment and to screen for cancers in otherwise healthy patients, a fast-moving and exciting field called multicancer early detection.</p><p>Some researchers are beginning to develop ways to use blood tests to screen for cancer generally, in otherwise healthy people.</p><p>One company leading the charge with this type of assay is called Grail, a subsidiary of the genetic-sequencing company Illumina. The Grail test, known as Galleri, looks at methylation patterns of the cell-free DNA, which are basically chemical changes to the DNA molecules that suggest the presence of cancer. Using very-high-throughput screening and a massive AI engine, the Galleri test can glean two crucial pieces of information from this sample of blood: Is cancer present? And if so, where is it? From what part of the body did it most likely originate?</p><p>*9 For those seeking more detailed guidance, this is what I wrote (Attia 2020a) in a blog post on CRC screening a few years ago: “Before you get your first colonoscopy, there are [a] few things you can do that may improve your risk-to-benefit ratio. You should ask what your endoscopist’s adenoma detection rate (ADR) is. The ADR is the proportion of individuals undergoing a colonoscopy who have one or more adenomas (or colon polyps) detected. The benchmarks for ADR are greater than 30% in men and greater than 20% in women. You should also ask your endoscopist how many perforations he or she has caused, specifically, as well as any other serious complications, like major intestinal bleeding episodes (in a routine screening setting). Another question you should ask is what is your endoscopist’s withdrawal time, defined as the amount of time spent viewing as the colonoscope is withdrawn during a colonoscopy. A longer withdrawal time suggests a more thorough inspection. A 6-minute withdrawal time is currently the standard of care.”</p><h5>CHAPTER 9: Chasing Memory - Understanding Alzheimer’s Disease and Other Neurodegenerative Diseases</h5><p> I rely as much as one can on biomarkers, so we run a comprehensive array of tests, but there are a few things that I immediately scan for when I get a new patient’s results back. Among them is their level of Lp(a), the high-risk lipoprotein that we talked about in chapter 7, along with their apoB concentration. A third thing that I always check is their APOE genotype, the gene related to Alzheimer’s disease risk that we mentioned in chapter 4.</p><p>While female Alzheimer’s patients outnumber men by two to one, the reverse holds true for Lewy body dementia and Parkinson’s, both of which are twice as prevalent in men.</p><p>This is why an important first step with any patient who may have cognitive issues is to subject them to a grueling battery of tests.</p><p>There is a parallel concept known as “movement reserve” that becomes relevant with Parkinson’s disease. People with better movement patterns, and a longer history of moving their bodies, such as trained or frequent athletes, tend to resist or slow the progression of the disease as compared to sedentary people. This is also why movement and exercise, not merely aerobic exercise but also more complex activities like boxing workouts, are a primary treatment/prevention strategy for Parkinson’s. Exercise is the only intervention shown to delay the progression of Parkinson’s.</p><p>The evidence suggests that tasks or activities that present more varied challenges, requiring more nimble thinking and processing, are more productive at building and maintaining cognitive reserve. Simply doing a crossword puzzle every day, on the other hand, seems only to make people better at doing crossword puzzles. The same goes for movement reserve: dancing appears to be more effective than walking at delaying symptoms of Parkinson’s disease, possibly because it involves more complex movement.</p><p><strong>The Preventive Plan</strong></p><p>I actually think we know more about preventing Alzheimer’s than we do about preventing cancer.</p><p>Because metabolism plays such an outsize role with at-risk e4 patients like Stephanie, our first step is to address any metabolic issues they may have. Our goal is to improve glucose metabolism, inflammation, and oxidative stress. One possible recommendation for someone like her would be to switch to a Mediterranean-style diet, relying on more monounsaturated fats and fewer refined carbohydrates, in addition to regular consumption of fatty fish. There is some evidence that supplementation with the omega-3 fatty acid DHA, found in fish oil, may help maintain brain health, especially in e4/e4 carriers. Higher doses of DHA may be required because of e4-induced metabolic changes and dysfunction of the blood-brain barrier. This is also one area where a ketogenic diet may offer a real functional advantage: when someone is in ketosis, their brain relies on a mix of ketones and glucose for fuel. Studies in Alzheimer’s patients find that while their brains become less able to utilize glucose, their ability to metabolize ketones does not decline. So it may make sense to try to diversify the brain’s fuel source from only glucose to both glucose and ketones. A systematic review of randomized controlled trials found that ketogenic therapies improved general cognition and memory in subjects with mild cognitive impairment and early-stage Alzheimer’s disease. Think of it as a flex-fuel strategy.</p><p>In Stephanie’s case, she cut out not only added sugar and highly refined carbohydrates but also alcohol. The precise role of alcohol in relation to Alzheimer’s disease remains somewhat controversial: some evidence suggests that alcohol may be slightly protective against Alzheimer’s, while other evidence shows that heavier drinking is itself a risk factor for the disease, and e4 carriers may be more susceptible to alcohol’s deleterious effects. I’m inclined to err on the side of caution, and so is Stephanie.</p><p>The single most powerful item in our preventive tool kit is exercise, which has a two-pronged impact on Alzheimer’s disease risk: it helps maintain glucose homeostasis, and it improves the health of our vasculature. So along with changing Stephanie’s diet, we put her back on a regular exercise program, focusing on steady endurance exercise to improve her mitochondrial efficiency. This had a side benefit in that it helped manage her off-the-charts high cortisol levels, due to stress; stress and anxiety-related risk seem more significant in females. As we’ll see in chapter 11, endurance exercise produces factors that directly target regions of the brain responsible for cognition and memory. It also helps lower inflammation and oxidative stress.</p><p>Strength training is likely just as important. A study looking at nearly half a million patients in the United Kingdom found that grip strength, an excellent proxy for overall strength, was strongly and inversely associated with the incidence of dementia (see figure 8).</p><p>Sleep is also a very powerful tool against Alzheimer’s disease, as we’ll see in chapter 16. Sleep is when our brain heals itself; while we are in deep sleep our brains are essentially “cleaning house,” sweeping away intracellular waste that can build up between our neurons. Sleep disruptions and poor sleep are potential drivers of increased risk of dementia. If poor sleep is accompanied by high stress and elevated cortisol levels, as in Stephanie’s case, that acts almost as a multiplier of risk, as it contributes to insulin resistance and damaging the hippocampus at the same time.</p><p>Another somewhat surprising risk factor that has emerged is hearing loss. Studies have found that hearing loss is clearly associated with Alzheimer’s disease, but it’s not a direct symptom. Rather, it seems hearing loss may be causally linked to cognitive decline, because folks with hearing loss tend to pull back and withdraw from interactions with others.</p><p>Another surprising intervention that may help reduce systemic inflammation, and possibly Alzheimer’s disease risk, is brushing and flossing one’s teeth. (You heard me: Floss.) There is a growing body of research linking oral health, particularly the state of one’s gum tissue, with overall health.</p><p>One other somewhat recent addition to my thinking on dementia (and ASCVD while we’re at it) prevention is the use of dry saunas.</p><p>The best interpretation I can draw from the literature suggests that at least four sessions per week, of at least twenty minutes per session, at 179 degrees Fahrenheit (82 degrees Celsius) or hotter seems to be the sweet spot to reduce the risk of Alzheimer’s by about 65 percent (and the risk of ASCVD by 50 percent).</p><p>Other potential interventions that have shown some promise in studies include lowering homocysteine with B vitamins, while optimizing omega-3 fatty acids. Higher vitamin D levels have been correlated with better memory in e4/e4 patients but it’s difficult to know from the current literature if this means supplementing with vitamin D will reduce risk of AD. And as mentioned earlier, hormone replacement therapy for women during the transition from perimenopause to menopause seems promising, especially for women with at least one copy of e4.</p><p>Broadly, our strategy should be based on the following principles:</p><ol><li><strong>WHAT’S GOOD FOR THE HEART IS GOOD FOR THE BRAIN</strong>. That is, vascular health (meaning low apoB, low inflammation, and low oxidative stress) is crucial to brain health.</li><li><strong>WHAT’S GOOD FOR THE LIVER (AND PANCREAS) IS GOOD FOR THE BRAIN</strong>. Metabolic health is crucial to brain health.</li><li><strong>TIME IS KEY.</strong> We need to think about prevention early, and the more the deck is stacked against you genetically, the harder you need to work and the sooner you need to start. As with cardiovascular disease, we need to play a very long game.</li><li><strong>OUR MOST POWERFUL TOOL FOR PREVENTING COGNITIVE DECLINE IS EXERCISE.</strong> We’ve talked a lot about diet and metabolism, but exercise appears to act in multiple ways (vascular, metabolic) to preserve brain health; we’ll get into more detail in Part III, but exercise—lots of it—is a foundation of our Alzheimer’s-prevention program.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 10: Thinking Tactically - Building a Framework of Principles That Work for You</h5><p>Our two most complex tactical domains are nutrition and exercise, and I find that most people need to make changes in both—rarely just one or the other. When I evaluate new patients, I’m always asking three key questions: </p><ol><li>Are they overnourished or undernourished? That is, are they taking in too many or too few calories? </li><li>Are they undermuscled or adequately muscled? </li><li>Are they metabolically healthy or not?</li></ol><h5>Chapter 11: Exercise - The Most Powerful Longevity Drug</h5><p>It turns out that peak aerobic cardiorespiratory fitness, measured in terms of VO2 max, is perhaps the single most powerful marker for longevity.</p><p>The strong association between cardiorespiratory fitness and longevity has long been known. It might surprise you, as it did me, to learn that muscle may be almost as powerfully correlated with living longer. A ten-year observational study of roughly 4,500 subjects ages fifty and older found that those with low muscle mass were at 40 to 50 percent greater risk of mortality than controls, over the study period. Further analysis revealed that it’s not the mere muscle mass that matters but the strength of those muscles, their ability to generate force.</p><p>The data demonstrating the effectiveness of exercise on lifespan are as close to irrefutable as one can find in all human biology. Yet if anything, I think exercise is even more effective at preserving healthspan than extending lifespan.</p><p>Therefore, I will find a way to lift heavy weights in some way, shape, or form four times per week, no matter what else I am doing or where I might be traveling.</p><h5>Chapter 12: Training 101 - How to Prepare for the Centenarian Decathlon</h5><p>When we say “cardio,” we are talking about not one thing, but a physiologic continuum, ranging from an easy walk to an all-out sprint. The various levels of intensity all count as cardio but are fueled by multiple different energy systems. For our purposes, we are interested in two particular regions of this continuum: long, steady endurance work, such as jogging or cycling or swimming, where we are training in what physiologists call zone 2, and maximal aerobic efforts, where VO2 max comes into play.</p><p><strong>Aerobic Efficiency: Zone 2</strong></p><p>Zone 2 is more or less the same in all training models: going at a speed slow enough that one can still maintain a conversation but fast enough that the conversation might be a little strained. It translates to aerobic activity at a pace somewhere between easy and moderate.</p><p>The goal is to keep lactate levels constant, ideally between 1.7 and 2.0 millimoles. This is the zone 2 threshold for most people.</p><p>If you don’t happen to have a portable lactate meter on hand, like most people, there are other ways to estimate your zone 2 range that are reasonably accurate. If you know your maximum heart rate—not estimated, but your actual maximum, the highest number you’ve ever seen on a heart rate monitor—your zone 2 will correspond to between approximately 70 and 85 percent of that peak number, depending on your fitness levels.</p><p>If you’re at the top of zone 2, you should be able to talk but not particularly interested in holding a conversation. If you can’t speak in complete sentences at all, you’re likely into zone 3, which means you’re going too hard, but if you can comfortably converse, you’re likely in zone 1, which is too easy.</p><p>How much zone 2 training you need depends on who you are. Someone who is just being introduced to this type of training will derive enormous benefit from even two 30-minute sessions per week to start with. Based on multiple discussions with San Millán and other exercise physiologists, it seems that about three hours per week of zone 2, or four 45-minute sessions, is the minimum required for most people to derive a benefit and make improvements, once you get over the initial hump of trying it for the first time. (People who are training for major endurance events, such as running a marathon, obviously need to do more than this.) I am so persuaded of the benefits of zone 2 that it has become a cornerstone of my training plan. Four times a week, I will spend about an hour riding my stationary bike at my zone 2 threshold.</p><p>One way to track your progression in zone 2 is to measure your output in watts at this level of intensity. (Many stationary bikes can measure your wattage as you ride.)</p><p>You take your average wattage output for a zone 2 session and divide it by your weight to get your watts per kilogram, which is the number we care about. So if you weigh 60 kilos (about 132 pounds) and can generate 125 watts in zone 2, that works out to a bit more than 2 watts/kg, which is about what one would expect from a reasonably fit person.</p><p>These are rough benchmarks, but someone who is very fit will be able to produce 3 watts/kg, while professional cyclists put out 4 watts/kg and up. It’s not the number that matters, but how much you are improving over time.</p><p>Zone 2 can be a bit boring on its own, so I typically use the time to listen to podcasts or audiobooks, or just think about issues that I’m working on.</p><p><strong>Maximum Aerobic Output: VO2 Max</strong></p><p>If zone 2 represents a steady state, where you are kind of cruising along at a sustainable pace, VO2 max efforts are almost the opposite. This is a much higher level of intensity—a hard, minutes-long effort, but still well short of an all-out sprint.</p><p>I push my patients to train for as high a VO2 max as possible, so that they can maintain a high level of physical function as they age. Ideally, I want them to target the “elite” range for their age and sex (roughly the top 2 percent). If they achieve that level, I say good job—now let’s reach for the elite level for your sex, but <em>two decades younger.</em> This may seem like an extreme goal, but I like to aim high, in case you haven’t noticed.</p><p>Studies suggest that your VO2 max will decline by roughly 10 percent per decade—and up to 15 percent per decade after the age of fifty.</p><p>Even if we are not out to set world records, the way we train VO2 max is pretty similar to the way elite athletes do it: by supplementing our zone 2 work with one or two VO2 max workouts per week.</p><p>Where HIIT intervals are very short, typically measured in seconds, VO2 max intervals are a bit longer, ranging from three to eight minutes—and a notch less intense. I do these workouts on my road bike, mounted to a stationary trainer, or on a rowing machine, but running on a treadmill (or a track) could also work. The tried-and-true formula for these intervals is to go four minutes at the maximum pace you can sustain for this amount of time—not an all-out sprint, but still a very hard effort. Then ride or jog four minutes easy, which should be enough time for your heart rate to come back down to below about one hundred beats per minute. Repeat this four to six times and cool down.</p><p>You want to make sure that you get as close to fully recovered as possible before beginning the next set.</p><p>In practice, I’ve found that my ideal VO2 max pace works out to about 33 percent more power than my zone 2 pace, if I’m doing four-on/four-off intervals. So if your zone 2 pace represents an output of 150 watts, your VO2 max training pace should be about 200 watts for four minutes, followed by four minutes of rest. Better yet, if you know your functional threshold power (FTP), which is the highest power you can sustain for sixty minutes, you should target 120 percent of this for three-minute intervals and 106 percent of this for eight-minute intervals and adjust for everything in between.</p><p><strong>Strength</strong></p><p>Another metric that we track closely in our patients is their bone density (technically, bone mineral density or BMD). We measure BMD in every patient, every year, looking at both of their hips and their lumbar spine using DEXA. This also measures body fat and lean mass, so it’s a useful tool across all of the body-composition domains that we care about.</p><p>Why do we care so much? Just as with muscle, it comes down to protection. We want to slow this decline, armoring ourselves against injury and physical frailty. The mortality from a hip or femur fracture is staggering once you hit about the age of sixty-five.</p><p>When we detect low or rapidly declining BMD in a middle-aged person, we use the following four strategies:</p><ol><li>Optimize nutrition, focusing on protein and total energy needs (see nutrition chapters).</li><li>Heavy loading-bearing activity.</li><li>Strength training, especially with heavy weights, stimulates the growth of bone—more than impact sports such as running (though running is better than swimming/cycling). Bones respond to mechanical tension and estrogen is the key hormone in mediating the mechanical signal (weight bearing) to a chemical one telling the body to lay down more bone.</li><li>HRT, if indicated.</li><li>Drugs to increase BMD, if indicated.</li></ol><p>I think of strength training as a form of retirement saving. Just as we want to retire with enough money saved up to sustain us for the rest of our lives, we want to reach older age with enough of a “reserve” of muscle (and bone density) to protect us from injury and allow us to continue to pursue the activities that we enjoy.</p><p>A far more important measure of strength, I’ve concluded, is how much heavy stuff you can carry.</p><p>As great as rucking is, it’s not the only thing I rely on to build my strength. Fundamentally I structure my training around exercises that improve the following: </p><ol><li><em>Grip strength</em>, how hard you can grip with your hands, which involves everything from your hands to your lats (the large muscles on your back). Almost all actions begin with the grip. </li><li>Attention to both <em>concentric and eccentric loading</em> for all movements, meaning when our muscles are shortening (concentric) and when they are lengthening (eccentric). In other words, we need to be able to lift the weight up and put it back down, slowly and with control. Rucking down hills is a great way to work on eccentric strength, because it forces you to put on the “brakes.” </li><li><em>Pulling motions</em>, at all angles from overhead to in front of you, which also requires grip strength (e.g., pull-ups and rows). </li><li><em>Hip-hinging movements</em>, such as the deadlift and squat, but also step-ups, hip-thrusters, and countless single-leg variants of exercises that strengthen the legs, glutes, and lower back.</li></ol><p>I focus on these four foundational elements of strength because they are the most relevant to our Centenarian Decathlon—and also to living a fulfilling and active life in our later decades. If you can grip strongly, you can open a jar with ease. If you can pull, you can carry groceries and lift heavy objects. If you can do a hip-hinge correctly, you can get up out of a chair with no problem. You’re setting yourself up to age well. It’s not about how much weight you can deadlift now, but how well you will function in twenty or thirty or forty years.</p><p>Training grip strength is not overly complicated. One of my favorite ways to do it is the classic farmer’s carry, where you walk for a minute or so with a loaded hex bar or a dumbbell or kettlebell in each hand. (Bonus points: Hold the kettlebell up vertically, keeping your wrist perfectly straight and elbow cocked at ninety degrees, as though you were carrying it through a crowded room.) One of the standards we ask of our male patients is that they can carry half their body weight in each hand (so full body weight in total) for at least one minute, and for our female patients we push for 75 percent of that weight. This is, obviously, a lofty goal—please don’t try to do it on your next visit to the gym. Some of our patients need as much as a year of training before they can even attempt this test.</p><p>Another way to test your grip is by dead-hanging from a pull-up bar for as long as you can. (This is not an everyday exercise; rather, it’s a once-in-a-while test set.) You grab the bar and just hang there, supporting your body weight. This is a simple but sneakily difficult exercise that also helps strengthen the critically important scapular (shoulder) stabilizer muscles, which we will talk about in the next chapter. Here we like to see men hang for at least two minutes and women for at least ninety seconds at the age of forty. (We reduce the goal slightly for each decade past forty.)</p><p>Training eccentric strength is relatively simple. Big picture, it means focusing on the “down” phase of lifts ranging from pull-ups or pull-downs to deadlifts to rows; rucking downhill, carrying a weighted pack, is a great way to build both eccentric strength as well as spatial awareness and control, which are important parts of stability training (next chapter). It also helps protect against knee pain. You don’t need to do this for every rep of every set. Sometimes you just want to focus on moving the weight quickly or moving a heavier load, but make sure at some point in each workout that you are taking the time to cue the eccentric phase of your lifts.</p><p>Next is pulling, which is closely related to grip strength. Pulling motions are how we exert our will on the world, whether we are hoisting a bag of groceries out of the car trunk or climbing El Capitan. It is an anchor movement. In the gym, it typically takes the form of rows, where you’re pulling the weight toward your body, or pull-ups. A rowing machine, something I love to use for VO2 max training, is another simple and effective way to work on pulling strength.</p><p>The final foundational element of strength is hip-hinging, which is what it sounds like: You bend at the hips—<em>not</em> the spine—to harness your body’s largest muscles, the gluteus maximus and the hamstrings. (I repeat: Do not bend your spine.) It is a very powerful move that is essential to life. Whether you are launching off an Olympic ski jump, picking up a lucky penny off the sidewalk, or simply getting up out of a chair, you are hip-hinging.</p><p>Hip-hinging under high axial load, as with a heavy deadlift or squat, should be approached with care because of the risk of injury to the spine. This is why we have our patients work up to weighted hip-hinging very slowly, typically beginning with single-leg step-ups (see description below) and split-stance Romanian deadlift, either without weights or with only very light weights held in the hands.</p><h5>Chapter 13: The Gospel of Stability - Relearning How to Move to Prevent Injury</h5><p>Stability is tricky to define precisely, but we intuitively know what it is. A technical definition might be: stability is the subconscious ability to harness, decelerate, or stop force.</p><p>If you’d like to know more after you’ve read this chapter, I suggest visiting the websites for DNS (<a href="http://www.rehabps.com/">www.rehabps.com</a>) and the Postural Restoration Institute (PRI) (<a href="http://www.posturalrestoration.com/">www.posturalrestoration.com</a>), the two leading exponents of what I’m talking about here. Stability is an integral part of my training program. Twice a week, I spend an hour doing dedicated stability training, based on the principles of DNS, PRI, and other practices, with ten to fifteen minutes per day on the other days.</p><p>Stability training begins at the most basic level, with the breath.</p><p>Beth likes to start with an exercise that builds awareness of the breath and strengthens the diaphragm, which not only is important to breathing but is an important stabilizer in the body. She has the patient lie on their back with legs up on a bench or chair, and asks them to inhale as quietly as possible, with the least amount of movement possible. An ideal inhalation expands the entire rib cage—front, sides, and back—while the belly expands at the same time, allowing the respiratory and pelvic diaphragm to descend. The telltale is that it is quiet. A noisy inhale looks and feels more dramatic, as the neck, chest, or belly will move first, and the diaphragm cannot descend freely, making it more difficult to get air in.</p><p>Now, exhale fully through pursed lips for maximum compression and air resistance, to strengthen the diaphragm. Blow all that air out, fully emptying yourself before your shoulders round or your face or jaw gets tense. Very soon, you will see how a full exhale prepares you for a good inhale, and vice versa. Repeat the process for five breaths and do two to three sets. Be sure to pause after each exhale for at least two counts to hold the isometric contraction—this is key, in DNS.</p><p>Your “type” also indicates how you should work out, to some extent. The Stay Puft people tend to need more grounding through the feet and more work with weight in front of them so as to pull their shoulders and hips into a more neutral position. Beth typically has someone like me hold a weight in front of my body, a few inches in front of the sternum. This forces my center of mass back, more over my hips. Try it with a light dumbbell or even a milk carton, and you’ll see what I mean. It’s a subtle but noticeable change of position.</p><p>With the Sad Guys and Gals, Beth tends to work more on cross-body rotation, having them swing the arms across the body to open up the chest and shoulders. She is cautious about loading the back and shoulders, preferring to begin with body weight exercises and split-leg work, such as a walking lunge with a reach, either across the body or to the ceiling, on each step.</p><p>To help reacquaint us with our feet, Beth Lewis likes to put me, and our patients, through a routine she calls “toe yoga.” Toe yoga (which I hate, by the way) is a series of exercises intended to improve the dexterity and intrinsic strength of our toes, as well as our ability to control them with our mind.</p><p>Toe yoga is a lot harder than it sounds, which is why I’ve posted a video demonstration of this and other exercises at <a href="http://www.peterattiamd.com/outlive/videos">www.peterattiamd.com/outlive/videos</a>. First, Beth tells her students to think of their feet as having four corners, each of which needs to be rooted firmly on the ground at all times, like the legs of a chair. As you stand there, try to feel each “corner” of each foot pressing into the ground: the base of your big toe, the base of your pinky toe, the inside and outside of your heel. This is easy, and revelatory; when was the last time you felt that grounded?</p><p>Try to lift all ten toes off the ground and spread them as wide as you can. Now try to put just your big toe back on the floor, while keeping your other toes lifted. Trickier than you’d think, right? Now do the opposite: keep four toes on the floor and lift only your big toe. Then lift all five toes, and try to drop them one by one, starting with your big toe. (You get the idea.)[*3]</p><p>Now when I squat, or do any standing lift, my first step is to ground my feet, to be aware of all four “corners,” and distribute weight equally. (Also important: I prefer to lift barefoot or in minimal shoes, with little to no cushioning in the soles because it allows me feel the full surface of my feet at all times.)</p><p>Feet are also crucial to balance, another important element of stability. One key test in our movement assessment is to have our patients stand with one foot in front of the other and try to balance. Now close your eyes and see how long you can hold the position. Ten seconds is a respectable time; in fact, the ability to balance on one leg at ages fifty and older has been correlated with future longevity, just like grip strength. (Pro tip: balancing becomes a lot easier if you first focus on grounding your feet, as described above.)</p><p>Beth taught me a simple exercise to help understand the importance of scapular positioning and control, a movement known as Scapular CARs, for controlled articular rotations: Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart and place a medium to light resistance band under your feet, one handle in each hand (a very light dumbbell also works). Keeping your arms at your sides, raise your shoulder blades, and then squeeze them back and together; this is retraction, which is where we want them to be when under load. Then drop them down your back. Finally, bring them forward to the starting point. We start out moving in squares like this, but the goal is to learn enough control that we can move our scapulae in smooth circles. A large part of what we’re working on in stability training is this kind of neuromuscular control, reestablishing the connection between our brain and key muscle groups and joints.</p><h5>Chapter 14: Nutrition 3.0 - You Say Potato, I Say “Nutritional Biochemistry”</h5><p>What problem are we trying to solve here? What is our goal with Nutrition 3.0? I think it boils down to the simple questions that we posited in chapter 10: </p><ol><li>Are you <em>under</em>nourished, or <em>over</em>nourished? </li><li>Are you <em>under</em>muscled, or <em>adequately</em> muscled? </li><li>Are you metabolically healthy or not?</li></ol><p>I used to think that diet and nutrition were the one path to perfect health. Years of experience, with myself and my patients, have led me to temper my expectations a bit. Nutritional interventions can be powerful tools with which to restore someone’s metabolic equilibrium and reduce risk of chronic disease. But can they extend and improve lifespan and healthspan, almost magically, the way exercise does? I’m no longer convinced that they can.</p><p>Directionally, a lot of the old cliché expressions are probably right: If your great-grandmother would not recognize it, you’re probably better off not eating it. If you bought it on the perimeter of the grocery store, it’s probably better than if you bought it in the middle of the store. Plants are very good to eat. Animal protein is “safe” to eat. We evolved as omnivores; ergo, most of us can probably find excellent health as omnivores.</p><h5>Chapter 15: Putting Nutritional Biochemistry into Practice - How to Find the Right Eating Pattern for You</h5><p><strong>CR: Calories Matter</strong></p><p>Taken together, then, what do these two monkey studies have to tell us about nutritional biochemistry?</p><ol><li>Avoiding diabetes and related metabolic dysfunction—especially by eliminating or reducing junk food—is very important to longevity.</li><li>There appears to be a strong link between calories and cancer, the leading cause of death in the control monkeys in both studies. The CR monkeys had a 50 percent lower incidence of cancer.</li><li>The <em>quality</em> of the food you eat could be as important as the quantity. If you’re eating the SAD, then you should eat much less of it.</li><li>Conversely, if your diet is high quality to begin with, and you are metabolically healthy, then only a slight degree of caloric restriction—or simply not eating to excess—can still be beneficial.</li></ol><p><strong>DR: The Nutritional Biochemistry “Diet”</strong></p><p>The advantage of DR is that it is highly individualized; you can impose varying degrees of restriction, depending on your needs. For example, you could decide to eliminate all sugar-sweetened beverages, and that would be a great first step (and a relatively easy one). You could go a step further and quit drinking sweet fruit juices as well. You could quit eating other foods with added sugar. Or you could go as far as reducing or eliminating carbohydrates in general.</p><p>A major risk with DR is that you can still easily end up overnourished if you are not deliberate about it. People tend to (erroneously) assume you can’t eat too much if you’re just restricting fill-in-the-blank (e.g., carbohydrates).</p><p><strong>Alcohol</strong></p><p>My personal bottom line: if you drink, try to be mindful about it. You’ll enjoy it more and suffer fewer consequences.</p><p>I strongly urge my patients to limit alcohol to fewer than seven servings per week, and ideally no more than two on any given day.</p><p><strong>Carbohydrates</strong></p><p>The power of CGM is that it enables us to view a person’s response to carbohydrate consumption in real time and make changes rapidly to flatten the curve and lower the average. Real-time blood glucose serves as a decent proxy for the insulin response, which we also look to minimize. And, last, I find that it is much more accurate, and more actionable, than HbA1c, the traditional blood test used to estimate average blood glucose over time.</p><p>I am confident that such studies will show a benefit, if done correctly, because there are already ample data showing how important it is to keep blood glucose low and stable. A 2011 study looking at twenty thousand people, mostly without type 2 diabetes, found that their risk of mortality increased monotonically with their average blood glucose levels (measured via HbA1c). The higher their blood glucose, the greater their risk of death—even in the nondiabetic range of blood glucose. Another study in 2019 looked at the degree of variation in subjects’ blood glucose levels and found that the people in the highest quartile of glucose variability had a 2.67 times greater risk of mortality than those in the lowest (most stable) quartile.</p><p>From these studies, it seems quite clear that we want to lower average blood glucose and reduce the amount of variability from day to day and hour to hour. CGM is a tool that can help us achieve that. We use it in healthy people in order to help them stay healthy. That shouldn’t be controversial.</p><p>When I’ve put my patients on CGM, I’ve observed that there are two distinct phases to the process. The first is the insight phase, where you learn how different foods, exercise, sleep (especially lack thereof), and stress affect your glucose readings in real time. The benefit of this information can’t be overstated. Almost always, patients are stunned to see how some of their favorite foods send their glucose soaring, then crashing back to earth. This leads to the second phase, which is what I call the behavior phase. Here you mostly know how your glucose is going to respond to that bag of potato chips, and that knowledge is what prevents you from mindlessly eating it. I’ve found that CGM powerfully activates the Hawthorne effect, the long-observed phenomenon whereby people modify their behavior when they are being watched. (The Hawthorne effect is also what makes it difficult to study what people actually eat, for the same reason.)</p><p>The real beauty of CGM is that it allows me to titrate a patient’s diet while remaining flexible.</p><p>Overall, I like to keep average glucose at or below 100 mg/dL, with a standard deviation of less than 15 mg/dL.</p><p>One thing CGM pretty quickly teaches you is that your carbohydrate tolerance is heavily influenced by other factors, especially your activity level and sleep. An ultraendurance athlete, someone who is training for long rides or swims or runs, can eat many more grams of carbs per day because they are blowing through those carbs every time they train—and they are also vastly increasing their ability to dispose of glucose via the muscles and their more-efficient mitochondria.[*6] Also, sleep disruption or reduction dramatically impairs glucose homeostasis over time.</p><p>Another surprising thing I’ve learned thanks to CGM is about what happens to a patient’s glucose levels during the night. If she goes to bed at, say, 80 mg/dL, but then her glucose ramps up to 110 for most of the night, that tells me that she is likely dealing with psychological stress.</p><p><strong>Lessons from Continuous Glucose Monitoring</strong></p><p>In the years that I have used CGM, I have gleaned the following insights—some of which may seem obvious, but the power of confirmation cannot be ignored: </p><ol><li>Not all carbs are created equal. The more refined the carb (think dinner roll, potato chips), the faster and higher the glucose spike. Less processed carbohydrates and those with more fiber, on the other hand, blunt the glucose impact. I try to eat more than fifty grams of fiber per day. </li><li>Rice and oatmeal are surprisingly glycemic (meaning they cause a sharp rise in glucose levels), despite not being particularly refined; more surprising is that brown rice is only slightly less glycemic than long-grain white rice. </li><li>Fructose does not get measured by CGM, but because fructose is almost always consumed in combination with glucose, fructose-heavy foods will still likely cause blood-glucose spikes. </li><li>Timing, duration, and intensity of exercise matter a lot. In general, aerobic exercise seems most efficacious at removing glucose from circulation, while high-intensity exercise and strength training tend to <em>increase</em> glucose transiently, because the liver is sending more glucose into the circulation to fuel the muscles. Don’t be alarmed by glucose spikes when you are exercising. </li><li>A good versus bad night of sleep makes a world of difference in terms of glucose control. All things equal, it appears that sleeping just five to six hours (versus eight hours) accounts for about a 10 to 20 mg/dL (that’s a lot!) jump in peak glucose response, and about 5 to 10 mg/dL in overall levels. </li><li>Stress, presumably, via cortisol and other stress hormones, has a surprising impact on blood glucose, even while one is fasting or restricting carbohydrates. It’s difficult to quantify, but the effect is most visible during sleep or periods long after meals. </li><li>Nonstarchy veggies such as spinach or broccoli have virtually no impact on blood sugar. Have at them. </li><li>Foods high in protein <em>and fat</em> (e.g., eggs, beef short ribs) have virtually no effect on blood sugar (assuming the short ribs are not coated in sweet sauce), but large amounts of lean protein (e.g., chicken breast) will elevate glucose slightly. Protein shakes, especially if low in fat, have a more pronounced effect (particularly if they contain sugar, obviously). </li><li>Stacking the above insights—in both directions, positive or negative—is very powerful. So if you’re stressed out, sleeping poorly, and unable to make time to exercise, be as careful as possible with what you eat. </li><li>Perhaps the most important insight of them all? Simply tracking my glucose has a positive impact on my eating behavior. I’ve come to appreciate the fact that CGM creates its own Hawthorne effect, a phenomenon where study subjects change their behavior because they are being observed. It makes me think twice when I see the bag of chocolate-covered raisins in the pantry, or anything else that might raise my blood glucose levels.</li></ol><p><strong>Protein</strong></p><p>The first thing you need to know about protein is that the standard recommendations for daily consumption are a joke. Right now the US recommended dietary allowance (RDA) for protein is 0.8 g/kg of body weight. This may reflect how much protein we need to stay alive, but it is a far cry from what we need to thrive.</p><p>How much protein do we actually need? It varies from person to person. In my patients I typically set 1.6 g/kg/day as the minimum, which is twice the RDA. The ideal amount can vary from person to person, but the data suggest that for active people with normal kidney function, one gram per pound of body weight per day (or 2.2 g/kg/day) is a good place to start—nearly triple the minimal recommendation.</p><p>The literature suggests that the ideal way to achieve this is by consuming four servings of protein per day, each at ~0.25 g/lb of body weight. A six-ounce serving of chicken, fish, or meat will provide about 40 to 45 grams (at about 7 grams of actual protein per ounce of meat), so our hypothetical 180-pound person should eat four such servings a day.</p><p>For me and my patients, this works out to four servings, as described, with at least one of them being a whey protein shake. (It’s very difficult for me to consume four actual meals. Typically, I will consume a protein shake, a high-protein snack, and two protein meals.)</p><p><strong>Fat</strong></p><p>There are (broadly) three types of fats: saturated fatty acids (SFA), monounsaturated fatty acids (MUFA), and polyunsaturated fatty acids (PUFA).[*9] The differences between these have to do with differences in their chemical structure;</p><p>The key thing to remember—and somehow this is almost always overlooked—is that virtually no food belongs to just one group of fats. Olive oil and safflower oil might be as close as you can get to a pure monounsaturated fat, while palm and coconut oil might be as close as you can get to a pure saturated fat, but all foods that contain fats typically contain all three categories of fat: PUFA, MUFA, and SFA. Even a ribeye steak contains a lot of monounsaturated fats.</p><p>From our empirical observations and what I consider the most relevant literature, which is less than perfect, we try to boost MUFA closer to 50–55 percent, while cutting SFA down to 15–20 percent and adjusting total PUFA to fill the gap. We also boost EPA and DHA, those fatty acids that are likely important to brain and cardiovascular health, with marine fat sources and/or supplementation. We titrate the level of EPA and DHA in our patients’ diets by measuring the amount of each found in the membranes of their red blood cells (RBC), using a specialized but readily available blood test.[*11] Our target depends on a person’s APOE genotype and other risk factors for neurodegenerative and cardiovascular disease, but for most patients the range we look for is between 8 and 12 percent of RBC membrane composed of EPA and DHA.</p><p>Putting all these changes into practice typically means eating more olive oil and avocados and nuts, cutting back on (but not necessarily eliminating) things like butter and lard, and reducing the omega-6-rich corn, soybean, and sunflower oils—while also looking for ways to increase high-omega-3 marine PUFAs from sources such as salmon and anchovies.</p><p>Medicine 3.0 asks, what is the “best” mix of fats for our patient? I use an expanded lipid panel to keep track of how changes in fatty acid consumption may affect my patients’ cholesterol synthesis and reabsorption, and their overall lipid and inflammatory response.</p><p><strong>TR: The Case for (and Against) Fasting</strong></p><p>Fasting, or time-restricted (TR) eating (regulating when you eat), presents us with a tactical conundrum. On the one hand, it is a powerful tool for accomplishing some of our goals, large and small. On the other, fasting has some potentially serious downsides that limit its usefulness. While intermittent fasting and eating “windows” have become popular and even trendy in recent years, I’ve grown skeptical of their effectiveness. And frequent longer-term fasting has enough negatives attached to it that I am reluctant to use it in all but the most metabolically sick patients. The jury is still out on the utility of infrequent (e.g., yearly) prolonged fasts. Overall, I’ve come to believe that fasting-based interventions must be utilized carefully and with precision.</p><h5>Chapter 16: The Awakening - How to Learn to Love Sleep, the Best Medicine for Your Brain</h5><p><strong>Sleeping Better</strong></p><p>Most important, you must create an environment for yourself that is conducive to sleeping well. The first requirement for good sleep is darkness. Light is the enemy of sleep, full stop. Thus, you want to make your bedroom itself as dark as possible—installing room-darkening curtains if you live somewhere with a lot of outdoor evening light, and removing all light sources in the bedroom, even down to electronic equipment like TVs and cable boxes and such. Their little pinpoint LEDs are more than bright enough to keep you from sleeping well. Digital clocks are especially deadly, not only because of their bright numerals but also because if you wake up and see that it’s 3:31 a.m., you might start worrying about your 7 a.m. flight and never fall back asleep.</p><p>The devices we stare at before bed—phones, laptops, video games—are even worse for our sleep. Not only do they bombard us with more blue light, but they also activate our minds in ways that impede our ability to sleep.</p><p>Another very important environmental factor is temperature. Many people associate sleep with warmth, but in fact the opposite is true: One of the signal events as we are falling asleep is that our body temperature drops by about one degree Celsius. To help that happen, try to keep your bedroom cool—around sixty-five degrees Fahrenheit seems to be optimal. A warm bath before bed may actually help with this process, not only because the bath itself is relaxing but also because when we get out of the bath and climb into our cool bed, our core temperature drops, which signals to our brain that it is time to fall asleep. (There are also a variety of cooling mattresses and mattress toppers out there that could help people who like to sleep cool.)</p><p>Our internal “environment” is just as important to good sleep. The first thing I tell my patients who are having difficulty sleeping is to cut back on alcohol—or better yet, give it up entirely.</p><p>Someone who metabolizes caffeine slowly should probably stop at one or two cups, before noon.</p><p>Another way to help cultivate sleep pressure is via exercise, particularly sustained endurance exercise (e.g., zone 2), ideally not within two or three hours of bedtime. My patients often find that a thirty-minute zone 2 session can do wonders for their ability to fall asleep. Even better is exercise that entails some exposure to sunlight (i.e., outdoors).</p><p>It is also important to mentally prepare ourselves for sleeping. For me, this means avoiding anything that might create stress or anxiety, such as reading work emails or especially checking the news.</p><p><strong>How to Improve Your Sleep</strong></p><p>The following are some rules or suggestions that I try to follow to help me sleep better. These are not magic bullets but are mostly about creating better conditions for sleeping and letting your brain and body do the rest. The closer you can come to these operating conditions, the better your sleep will be. Of course, I’m not suggesting that it’s necessary to do all these things—in general, it’s best not to obsess over sleep. But the more of these you can check off, the better your odds of a good night of sleep.</p><ol><li>Don’t drink any alcohol, period—and if you absolutely, positively must, limit yourself to one drink before about 6 p.m. Alcohol probably impairs sleep quality more than any other factor we can control. Don’t confuse the drowsiness it produces with quality sleep.</li><li>Don’t eat anything less than three hours before bedtime—and ideally longer. It’s best to go to bed with just a little bit of hunger (although being ravenous can be distracting.)</li><li>Abstain from stimulating electronics, beginning two hours before bed. Try to avoid anything involving a screen if you’re having trouble falling asleep. If you must, use a setting that reduces the blue light from your screen.</li><li>For at least one hour before bed, if not more, avoid doing anything that is anxiety-producing or stimulating, such as reading work email or, God help you, checking social media. These get the ruminative, worry-prone areas of our brain humming, which is not what you want.</li><li>For folks who have access, spend time in a sauna or hot tub prior to bed. Once you get into the cool bed, your lowering body temperature will signal to your brain that it’s time to sleep. (A hot bath or shower works too.)</li><li>The room should be cool, ideally in the midsixties. The bed should be cool too. Use a “cool” mattress or one of the many bed-cooling devices out there. These are also great tools for couples who prefer different temperatures at night, since both sides of the mattress can be controlled individually.</li><li>Darken the room completely. Make it dark enough that you can’t see your hand in front of your face with your eyes open, if possible. If that is not achievable, use an eye shade. I use a silky one called Alaska Bear that costs about $8 and works better than the fancier versions I’ve tried.</li><li>Give yourself enough time to sleep—what sleep scientists call a sleep opportunity. This means going to bed at least eight hours before you need to wake up, preferably nine. If you don’t even give yourself a chance to get adequate sleep, then the rest of this chapter is moot.</li><li>Fix your wake-up time—and don’t deviate from it, even on weekends. If you need flexibility, you can vary your bedtime, but make it a priority to budget for at least eight hours in bed each night.</li><li>Don’t obsess over your sleep, especially if you’re having problems. If you need an alarm clock, make sure it’s turned away from you so you can’t see the numbers. Clock-watching makes it harder to fall asleep. And if you find yourself worrying about poor sleep scores, give yourself a break from your sleep tracker.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 17: Work in Progress - The High Price of Ignoring Emotional Health</h5><p>Even just living alone, or feeling lonely, is linked to a much higher risk of mortality.</p><p>It took me a while to recognize this, but feeling connected and having healthy relationships with others, and with oneself, is as imperative as maintaining efficient glucose metabolism or an optimal lipoprotein profile. It is just as important to get your emotional house in order as it is to have a colonoscopy or an Lp(a) test, if not more so. It’s just a lot more complicated.</p><p>One skill I worked on that is a bit more complicated is called “reframing.” Reframing is basically the ability to look at a given situation from someone else’s point of view—literally reframing it.</p><p>Easier described than accomplished, reframing entails taking a step back from a situation and then asking yourself, What does this situation look like through the other person’s eyes? How do they see it? And why is your time, your convenience, or your agenda any more important than theirs?</p><p>Somewhere along the line, in a random airport on a long work trip, I had picked up David Brooks’s book The Road to Character. On the plane, I read the part where Brooks makes a key distinction between “résumé virtues,” meaning the accomplishments that we list on our CV, our degrees and fellowships and jobs, versus “eulogy virtues,” the things that our friends and family will say about us when we are gone. And it shook me.</p><p>Looking back on all this, one of the most important lessons that I learned is that the type of change I describe in this chapter is not possible unless we are equipped with a set of effective tools and sensors with which to monitor, maintain, and restore our emotional equilibrium. These tools and sensors are not innate; for most of us, they must be learned, and refined, and practiced daily. And neither are they quick fixes.</p><p>Two benefits of mindfulness:</p><ul><li>It helps us cultivate some detachment between our thoughts and emotions and how we react to them</li><li>It reminds us that when we are suffering, it’s rarely because of a direct cause, but rather us thinking about something painful from the past or something we are imagining might happen in the future.</li></ul><p>Listen to your self-talk. Imagine instead that your best friend had performed exactly the same way. How would you speak to them?</p><p>One simple tactic that I use to cope with mounting emotional distress is inducing an abrupt sensory change—typically, by throwing ice water on my face or, if I’m really struggling, taking a cold shower or stepping into an ice bath.</p><p>Interventions like these are often enough to help refocus and think about a situation more calmly and constructively. Another technique I have grown very fond of is slow, deep breathing: four seconds to inhale, six seconds to exhale. Repeat. As the breath goes, the nervous system follows.</p><p>It is also important to note that DBT is not a passive modality. It requires conscious thought and action on a daily basis. One tactic that I’ve found especially helpful is called <em>opposite action</em>—that is, if I feel like doing one thing (generally, not a helpful or positive thing), I’ll force myself instead to do the exact opposite. By doing so, I also change the underlying emotions.</p><p>Exercise is another important component of my overall emotional health program, particularly my practice of rucking, discussed in chapter 12. I find that spending time moving in nature, simply enjoying the feeling of the wind in my face and the smell of the budding spring leaves (and a heavily loaded pack on my back) helps me cultivate what Ryan Holiday calls “stillness,” the ability to remain calm and focused amid all the distractions that our world offers and that we create for ourselves.</p><p>The most important “tactic” by far is my regular weekly therapy session (down from three or four per week when I left PCS). This is not optional. Each session begins with a physical check-in: How am I feeling? How have I slept (a big one)? Am I in physical pain? Am I in conflict? Then we dissect and discuss the events and issues of the week in minute detail.</p><p>If you take nothing else from my story, take this: If I can change, you can change. All of this has to begin with the simple belief that real change is possible. That’s the most important step.</p><h5>Epilogue</h5><p>It took five years, two stints in inpatient treatment centers, and the near loss of my marriage and my kids to change my mind. What I eventually realized, after this long and very painful journey, is that longevity is meaningless if your life sucks. Or if your relationships suck. None of it matters if your wife hates you. None of it matters if you are a shitty father, or if you are consumed by anger or addiction. Your résumé doesn’t really matter, either, when it comes time for your eulogy.</p><p>All these need to be addressed if your life is to be worth prolonging—because the most important ingredient in the whole longevity equation is the <em>why</em>. Why do we want to live longer? For what? For whom?</p><p>“I think people get old when they stop thinking about the future,” Ric told me. “If you want to find someone’s true age, listen to them. If they talk about the past and they talk about all the things that happened that they did, they’ve gotten old. If they think about their dreams, their aspirations, what they’re still looking forward to—they’re young.”</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 05 Dec 2023 14:55:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I’m a huge fan of Farnam Street and Shane’s work, which is perhaps why I was a little disappointed by this book. I didn’t think it was quite as clear or as actionable as it could have been.That said, it is still a useful book for framing the biases which affect how we think, and how to make better decisions. In fact, I think the section on decision-making is the most useful part of the book, though there are lots of tidbits throughout that are useful.In short, clear thinking and decision-making is about understanding the forces that affect how we think, and implementing processes and safeguards to help us default to the right path.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>The best in the world try and ensure they are always in a good position. It is much easier to think clearly and make the right decision when you are in a good position.</li><li>Time is the friend of someone in a good position, and the enemy of someone in a bad position.</li><li>We have natural instincts that prevent us from thinking clearly, like when we are criticized or challenged.</li><li>There are four defaults that influence how we think:</li><li><strong>The emotion default</strong>: we tend to respond to feelings rather than reasons and facts.</li><li><strong>The ego default</strong>: we tend to react to anything that threatens our sense of self-worth or our position in a group hierarchy.</li><li><strong>The social default</strong>: we tend to conform to the norms of our larger social group.</li><li><strong>The inertia default</strong>: we’re habit forming and comfort seeking. We tend to resist change, and to prefer ideas, processes, and environments that are familiar.</li><li>A good example of the ego default is when someone stops putting in 100% at the workplace because they feel underappreciated.</li><li>The social default is what causes us to fear taking risk. “If you do what everyone else does, you’ll get the same results that everyone else gets.”</li><li>There are four key strengths you need to think clearly:</li><li><strong>Self-accountability</strong>: holding yourself accountable for developing your abilities, managing your inabilities, and using reason to govern your actions</li><li><strong>Self-knowledge</strong>: knowing your own strengths and weaknesses—what you’re capable of doing and what you’re not</li><li><strong>Self-control</strong>: mastering your fears, desires, and emotions</li><li><strong>Self-confidence</strong>: trusting in your abilities and your value to others</li><li>Your next action will always make a situation better or worse. So ask yourself: “Will this action make the future easier or harder?”</li><li>The things you choose not to do often matter as much as the things you choose to do. How much are you willing to nonconform to do the right thing?</li><li>A large part of achieving success is having the discipline to do what needs to be done, regardless of whether you feel like doing it in the moment.</li><li>Self-confidence is the ability to focus on <strong>what</strong> is right, rather than <strong>who</strong> is right.</li><li>“Leaving this job illustrates the four strengths in action. I had the self-confidence that I could figure out what came next without needing to know all the details, the self-knowledge to know that I valued time over money, the self-control to get up the next day without missing a beat, and the self-accountability to set a higher standard for performance than I ever had before.”</li><li>Few things are more important in life than avoiding the wrong people.</li><li>Working with a master firsthand is the best way to ensure excellence; their excellence demands your best.</li><li>Choose exemplars in your life who embody the attributes you want to cultivate. Put these people on your “personal board of directors.” Then as you learn about them, build a repository of how they would respond to various situations. This can be your reference on how to act.</li><li>You need to consciously practice imitating your exemplars to really internalize their standards.</li><li>“The formula for failure is a few small errors consistently repeated.”</li><li>There are two ways to manage your weaknesses:</li><li>Build your strengths to overcome weaknesses you’ve acquired</li><li>Implement safeguards to manage any remaining weaknesses</li><li>Avoid making decisions in unfavorable conditions. Use the Alcoholics Anonymous HALT rule: don’t make decisions when Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired.</li><li>Create automatic rules to prevent bad behavior.</li><li>Envision a film crew following you around all day to prevent poor choices.</li><li>Add friction to bad behavior to prevent it. Set up your environment and your schedule so that the default behavior is the right one.</li><li>Aim to gain other frames of reference. Ask other people how they see things, summarize, and then ask what else you missed.</li><li>Exceptional people learn from their mistakes and do better as a result.</li><li>To handle mistakes effectively: (1) accept responsibility, (2) learn from the mistake, (3) commit to doing better, and (4) repair the damage as best you can.</li><li>Decisions are choices that involve conscious thought.</li><li>There are four steps in a decision-making process: defining the problem, exploring possible solutions, evaluating the options, and then making the judgment and executing the best option.</li><li>The first principle of decision-making is that the decider needs to define the problem. Defining the problem starts with identifying two things: (1) what you want to achieve, and (2) what obstacles stand in the way of getting it.</li><li>The most critical step in making a decision is getting the problem right.</li><li>Take responsibility for defining the problem, and don’t use jargon to describe or explain it.</li><li>Identify the root cause of the problem, not the symptoms.</li><li>To identify the root cause, ask yourself: “What would need to be true for this problem not to exist in the first place?”</li><li>To ensure you allocate the right time to defining the problem, hold two separate meetings: one to define the problem and one to look for solutions.</li><li>To evaluate whether you’re addressing the root cause with your solution, ask yourself: “Will this solve the problem permanently, or will the problem return in the future?”</li><li>To come up with solutions, imagine different possible futures.</li><li>Some solution exploration tools:</li><li>Imagine how things will go wrong and how you’ll overcome them if they do (the pre-mortem). And then ask: “And then what?” to consider second-order effects.</li><li>Force yourself to come up with more than 2 solutions.</li><li>Take each of the options you’re considering and ask: “What would I do if that were not possible?”</li><li>Try and find ways to combine options, instead of having to choose one.</li><li>Think about the opportunity cost, what you’re giving up when choosing one option over another.</li><li>View opportunity costs through these three lenses: (1) Compared with what? (2) And then what? (3) At the expense of what?</li><li>Once it’s time to choose, ensure you have specific criteria in mind. Then, compare each and think about if you had to choose only one, which would be more important. Rank all your criteria like this.</li><li>Now apply them to the options you have. When considering each, make sure you have information about each option that is high-fidelity (close to the source and unfiltered) and high-expertise (from people with a lot of knowledge and/or experience). Look for people who recently solved a similar problem. You could also run an experiment to get more data.</li><li>When making a decision, consider how <strong><em>consequential</em></strong> they are, and how <strong>reversible</strong> they are.</li><li>If they are low-consequence, high-reversibility, make them fast. If they are high-consequence, low-reversibility, make them slow (as late as possible).</li><li>Stop gathering information when the information is no longer useful, you first lose an opportunity, or you find out something that makes the choice obvious.</li><li>You don’t always have to choose the perfect solution to make progress. You can eliminate the worst options and keep moving forward.</li><li>Next up is execution. Before executing a decision, ask yourself:</li><li>Who needs to know my goals and the outcomes I’m working toward?</li><li>Do they know what the most important objective is?</li><li>Do they know the positive and negative signs to look for and what trip wires are attached to them?</li><li>Note: if you have two or more “most important things” or goals, you’re not being clear enough.</li><li>Finally, you need to learn from your decisions. Make sure you document throughout the process so you can examine it later. Then, when you evaluate your decision, focus on the process, and not the outcome.</li><li>In the end, good decision-making comes down to two things: 1) Knowing how to get what you want and 2) Knowing what’s worth wanting</li><li>Good decisions align with your long-term goals and values, and ultimately bring you the satisfaction and fulfillment that you truly desire in business, relationships, and life.</li><li>The quality of what you pursue determines the quality of your life.</li><li>Karl Pillemer, author of <strong><em>30 Lessons for Living</em></strong>, interviewed elderly Americans and came up with a list of the most important things in life:</li><li>Say things now to people you care about—whether it’s expressing gratitude, asking forgiveness, or getting information.</li><li>Spend the maximum amount of time with your children.</li><li>Savor daily pleasures instead of waiting for “big-ticket items” to make you happy.</li><li>Work in a job you love.</li><li>Choose your mate carefully; don’t just rush in.</li><li>The list of things they said weren’t important:</li><li>None said that to be happy you should work as hard as you can to get money.</li><li>None said it was important to be as wealthy as the people around you.</li><li>None said you should choose your career based on its earning potential.</li><li>None said they regretted not getting even with someone who slighted them.</li><li>The biggest regret people had? Worrying about things that never happened: “Worrying wastes your life,” one respondent said.</li><li>We regret the things we didn’t do more than the things we did. The pain of trying and failing may be intense but at least it tends to be over rather quickly. The pain of failing to try, on the other hand, is less intense but never really goes away.</li><li>If this were your final year of life, would you be living the same way you are today?</li><li>If you want to develop good judgment, start by asking two questions: “What do I want in life? And is what I want actually worth wanting?”</li><li>The key to getting what you want out of life is to identify how the world works and to align yourself with it.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Ship 30 for 30 Review (2023)]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jun 2023 17:37:19 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[My review of the 5-week, cohort-based writing course Ship 30 for 30, which I participated in four times.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In December 2020, <a href="https://twitter.com/dickiebush">Dickie Bush</a> tweeted out &quot;is anyone interested in doing a daily writing challenge for 30 days?&quot;</p><p>At the time, I&#x27;d been struggling to find some consistency in my own writing, despite writing on my own blog for the past five years.</p><p>I had also met and chatted with Dickie for the past several months, and when a friend starts a new project, I try to encourage it however I can.</p><p>So in early December, around 20 of us joined a Slack group and started writing.</p><p>That&#x27;s what the first cohort was: a group of people keeping each other accountable and writing for 30 days.</p><p>Almost a year later, <a href="https://bit.ly/3Bw4Soe">Ship 30 for 30</a> has grown well beyond that first cohort. Over 1000 people have become writers. The course curriculum is extensive. Cohorts are bigger.</p><p>I participated in 3 more cohorts after that first one, continuing to write, and as an alumni mentor leading a small group.</p><p>In short: <strong>you should do it</strong>.</p><p>Let&#x27;s talk about why.</p><h2>Ship 30 is for Shipping</h2><p>At the end of the day, Ship 30 for 30 is about shipping. </p><p>It&#x27;s about publishing something you&#x27;ve written every day for 30 days.</p><p>It&#x27;s hard to understate what this can do for you. </p><p>For beginner writers, it builds confidence. You learn to shape your ideas. You get exposed to what better writers can do with a short essay.</p><p>For more experienced writers, it&#x27;s a wakeup call. Part of why I had been struggling with consistency was that my bar was too high. I felt that I needed to write an outstanding post if I was to publish anything at all.</p><p>Of course, that wasn&#x27;t true. Shipping every day for 30 days lowered the bar and allowed me to get past the mental barrier I&#x27;d constructed.</p><p>The focus of Ship 30 is on <em>publishing</em>, and they&#x27;ve worked to remove as many barriers to that goal as possible. It remains the greatest strength of the program.</p><h2>Community</h2><p>When you&#x27;re starting something new, nothing kills your motivation like someone telling you it&#x27;s stupid.</p><p>The opposite is true as well: a supportive group can make all the difference.</p><p>Ship 30 provides that group. I re-enrolled not because of the writing habit—though that was nice—but because of the people I knew I would meet.</p><p>Twitter is a large part of Ship 30. You follow your fellow Shippers there, read their writing, and publish your own. You can retweet and comment on essays that resonate with you.</p><p>The camaraderie you build with your cohort is a key part of building your confidence as a writer, but also as a broader citizen of the internet. </p><p>You&#x27;ll gain confidence in participating online: publishing your work and commenting on the work of others.</p><p>That support is hard to come by; you&#x27;ll find plenty of it in Ship 30.</p><h2>Curriculum</h2><p>Though Ship 30 started as a bare-bones-ship-at-all-costs writing challenge, the curriculum has improved a lot.</p><p>You can expect regular instruction, both through live Zoom calls and pre-recorded material.</p><p>You&#x27;ll learn to write compelling headlines, how to structure your writing, how to maintain your writing habit, and much more.</p><p>The curriculum is secondary, but it has come a long way, and there is immense value there if you choose to make use of it.</p><h2>Cost</h2><p>The cost of Ship 30 may strike you as high at first, particularly if you haven&#x27;t participated in many online courses.</p><p><a href="https://writeofpassage.school/">Write of Passage</a>, often considered one of the flagship online writing courses, ranges in cost from $4K-$7K USD.</p><p>By comparison, Ship 30 is a bargain. </p><p>The aims of the two courses aren&#x27;t the same. In Write of Passage—which I haven&#x27;t taken—you will no doubt receive more individual feedback. The course seems focused on taking your writing from good to great.</p><p>Ship 30 is more about taking your writing from 0 to 1. Though, as I&#x27;ve mentioned, there is plenty of value for experienced writers too.</p><p>How much would you spend on a university course? Or a night out?</p><p>Assuming you can afford it, the cost of Ship 30 shouldn&#x27;t be a barrier to taking the course. </p><p>It&#x27;s an investment in yourself, at a modest price.</p><h2>Time Commitment</h2><p>How much time will you need for Ship 30 for 30? It depends.</p><p>You should plan for at least an hour a day.</p><p>In my experience, you can write, edit, and publish in 30-60 minutes if well-prepared.</p><p>In that amount of time, you won&#x27;t be writing heavily researched pieces. </p><p>Some participants spend 90-120 minutes per day writing. But they chose to write deeper essays with more research.</p><p>You&#x27;ll also want to plan for time reading other material, interacting with other participants, and attending the live sessions (or watching the recordings).</p><p>When I participated, I made my essay the first thing I did in the morning. It was when I felt fresh and motivated, and turned out to be a very satisfying start to the day.</p><h2>What To Improve</h2><p>I don&#x27;t have many suggestions for Ship 30 that haven&#x27;t already been integrated. There have been too many changes over the past year for me to cover completely, but some include:</p><ul><li>Much more detailed curriculum, which you can consume asynchronously</li><li>An extra week for onboarding, which lets everyone get up to speed</li><li>Smaller breakout groups for more detailed feedback and more interaction</li><li>Live weekly sessions on specific topics designed to improve your writing</li><li>Software designed for writing atomic essays (short essays that are the focus of Ship 30)</li><li>Discounts and instructions on using various Twitter tools for publishing</li></ul><p>There are many more.</p><p>What I wish still existed from the first cohort was a monetary incentive. In the first cohort, we got part of our money back if we completed all 30 days.</p><p>While that incentive sort of exists with the initial investment in the program, I&#x27;d happily pay more knowing that I&#x27;d get some of it back. </p><p>Financial incentives are a powerful thing.</p><h2>How to Make the Most of Ship 30 for 30</h2><p>Like many online courses, your results from Ship 30 will depend on how much you invest.</p><p>There are a few things that will help you make the most of it.</p><h3>Set Up Your Daily Dashboard</h3><p>I usually did this with a tab group (I use <a href="https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/onetab/chphlpgkkbolifaimnlloiipkdnihall?hl=en">OneTab</a>, but most browsers allow tab groups now).</p><p>What I mean by this is I created a group of links that opened all the places I needed for Ship 30. This might include things like:</p><ul><li>The Ship 30 Twitter list</li><li>My own Twitter</li><li>The Ship 30 writing tool (we were using <a href="https://www.figma.com/">Figma</a> at one point)</li><li>Key educational links (how to outline, how to write headlines, etc.)</li><li>The list of topics I&#x27;d brainstormed ahead of time (I kept this in <a href="https://roamresearch.com/">Roam</a>, but any note tool will do)</li></ul><p>I wanted to remove as many barriers to getting started as I could. Having this tab group ready meant all I had to do was open the group, and I was ready to go.</p><h3>Take Part in Live Sessions</h3><p>I skipped many of the live sessions, either because they weren&#x27;t super convenient for me, or I figured I&#x27;d watch them later. It was a mistake.</p><p>I&#x27;ve experienced this in other programs too, but if I don&#x27;t take part live, I&#x27;m not going to find the time to watch the recording.</p><p>Instead, plan your time around the live sessions, and attend! You&#x27;ll be glad you did.</p><p>Oh, and take notes! You can add them to your daily dashboard and refer to them later.</p><h3>Set Aside Time for Feedback &amp; Interaction</h3><p>You should plan some time during your day to read other essays and give feedback to your group members.</p><p>Go through the Twitter list and find people interested in similar topics. </p><p>Read their essays, message them about it, and schedule Zoom calls to meet and say hi.</p><p>I&#x27;ve met lots of interesting people this way, and it&#x27;s one of the largest benefits of cohort-based courses.</p><p>But it will only happen if you make time for it.</p><h3>Don&#x27;t Miss Two Days in a Row</h3><p>The bar for a successful day of shipping is low: ~250 words of something.</p><p>You can write that on your phone. You definitely write more than that in text messages every day.</p><p>So you should aim to ship every day.</p><p>But sometimes things happen, and you don&#x27;t manage to ship for day.</p><p>That&#x27;s fine! But don&#x27;t miss the second day. Habits get built by continuing on, even if you stumble, and Ship 30 is no exception.</p><p>I met several people excited about the program, who shipped for a day or two, and then missed a day and felt like they were behind. </p><p>They let it become an excuse, and missed out on the rest of the program.</p><p>It&#x27;s okay to miss a day, but don&#x27;t miss two.</p><h3>Writing is For Everyone</h3><p>No matter your profession, your age, your industry, where you live, etc.—writing is an important skill.</p><p>Writing is the basis for better thinking and communication throughout our lives.</p><p>I truly believe that those who learn to write better have a significant advantage over everyone else.</p><p>Ship 30 for 30 is the best available option for building a consistent writing habit, and for seeing the largest jump in your writing skill in the shortest amount of time.</p><p>What are you waiting for?</p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/3Bw4Soe">Enroll here</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Liar's Poker by Michael Lewis: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/liars-poker-michael-lewis</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 16 May 2023 01:50:24 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[An excellent book, both wildly entertaining and explaining the complexities of various financial markets with remarkable clarity.This is considered a classic in the world of money, and for good reason.It’s also an great book to read before reading (or watching) The Big Short, as it sets the stage for the financial crisis of 2008.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>The biggest myth about bond traders is that they make their money by taking big risks. Some do, but most do it by taking a commission when brokering a trade between two parties.</li><li>In any market, as in poker, there is always a fool.</li><li>The shift in monetary policy in 1979 to fixing the money supply, and letting interest rates fluctuate, is what kicked off the bond market.</li><li>Bond prices move inversely with interest rates, so allowing interest rates to fluctuate wildly meant bond prices swung wildly too.</li><li>The other factor during the 1980s was borrowing: American governments, consumers, and corporations borrowed money at a faster clip in the 1980s than ever before, so the volume of bonds exploded.</li><li>Ask any trader and they’ll tell you their best work cuts against the conventional wisdom.</li><li>Rule of thumb about information in the markets: “Those who say don’t know, and those who know don’t say.”</li><li>Traders placed bets in the markets on behalf of Salomon Brothers. Traders required market savvy. The very best traders were also superb salesmen, because they had to persuade a salesman to persuade his customers to buy bond X or sell bond Y.</li><li>Salesmen were the trader’s mouthpiece to the outside world (institutional investors). Salesmen required interpersonal skills. The very best salesmen were superb traders and found their customers handing them their portfolios to manage.</li><li>Traders ruled the shop: their bonus was determined by the profits on their trading books, and the salesman’s bonus was determined by this. The trader held all the control.</li><li>Good bond traders had fast brains and enormous stamina. They watched the markets twelve and sometimes sixteen hours a day—and not just the market in bonds. They watched dozens of financial and commodity markets: stocks, oil, natural gas, currencies, and anything else that might in some way influence the bond market.</li><li>Small mortgage lenders, known as “thrifts” started losing money once the interest rates were raised in 1979. So Congress passed a tax break that gave them relief, but required them to sell their loans to Wall Street. Losses on these loans could be amortized over their life, and also offset against any taxes paid in the last 10 years.</li><li>Thrifts continued to buy loans on top of their old loss-making loans, hoping the new would offset the old. It was irresponsible and only made it so that the next thrift crisis would be larger.</li><li>Ranieri &amp; Co. intended to transform the &quot;whole loans&quot; into bonds as soon as possible by taking them for stamping to the U.S. government. Then they could sell the bonds to Salomon&#x27;s institutional investors as, in effect, U.S. government bonds. For that purpose, partly as the result of Ranieri&#x27;s persistent lobbying, two new facilities had sprung up in the federal government alongside Ginnie Mae. They guaranteed the mortgages that did not qualify for the Ginnie Mae stamp. The Federal Home Loan Mortgage Corporation (called Freddie Mac) and the Federal National Mortgage Association (called Fannie Mae) between them, by giving their guarantees, were able to transform most home mortgages into government-backed bonds. The thrifts paid a fee to have their mortgages guaranteed.</li><li>The shakier the loans, the larger the fee a thrift had to pay to get its mortgages stamped by one of the agencies. Once they were stamped, however, nobody cared about the quality of the loans. Defaulting homeowners became the government&#x27;s problem.</li><li>The Salomon trading floor was unique. It had minimal supervision, minimal controls, and no position limits. A trader could buy or sell as many bonds as he thought appropriate without asking. The trading floor was, in other words, a CEO&#x27;s nightmare.</li><li>Many of the best trades followed two patterns: when all investors were doing one thing, do the opposite. And when there was a major dislocation (stock market crash, natural disaster, etc.), look past the initial focus of investor interest and seek secondary and tertiary effects.</li><li>Having a second source of income in a young career is helpful because it leaves you fearless.</li><li>Often, behavior of investors is not rational. Some like risk, others hate risk, and you can often profit from creating a way to “sell” risk back and forth.</li><li>The same can be said of junk bonds: often they were cheap, even factoring in the additional risk, compared to blue-chip bonds. The reason? Investors didn’t want to seem imprudent. Note this is similar to some of <strong><em>The Big Short</em></strong> investors where their thesis is people don’t want to think about bad things.</li><li>Michael Milken reassessed corporate America and noticed two things. First, many large and seemingly reliable companies borrowed money from banks at low rates of interest. Their creditworthiness had one way to go: down. It was a stupid trade: tiny upside, huge downside.</li><li>Second, two sorts of companies could not persuade risk-averse commercial bankers and money managers to lend them anything: small new companies and large old companies with problems. Money managers relied on debt-rating agencies to tell them what was safe, rather than actually analyzing the business.</li><li>Another advantage? It is illegal to trade on inside information in stocks. But it isn’t illegal in bonds, and junk bonds often behaved like stocks. Milken could trade junk bonds on inside information.</li><li>The belief in the meaning of making dollars crumbles once you see something like investment banking, where the money is completely out of proportion with the contribution to society.</li></ul><h4>Detailed Notes</h4><h5>Preface</h5><p>““Wall Street,&quot; reads the sinister old gag, &quot;is a street with a river at one end and a graveyard at the other.”</p><p>This is striking, but incomplete. It omits the kindergarten in the middle.” —Frederick Schwed, Jr., <em>Where Are the Customers&#x27; Yachts?</em></p><h5>Chapter One: Liar’s Poker</h5><p>The Game: In Liar&#x27;s Poker a group of people—as few as two, as many as ten—form a circle. Each player holds a dollar bill close to his chest. The game is similar in spirit to the card game known as I Doubt It. Each player attempts to fool the others about the serial numbers printed on the face of his dollar bill. One trader begins by making &quot;a bid.&quot;</p><p>He says, for example, &quot;Three sixes.&quot; He means that all told the serial numbers of the dollar bills held by every player, including himself, contain at least three sixes.</p><p>Once the first bid has been made, the game moves clockwise in the circle.</p><p>Let&#x27;s say the bid is three sixes. The player to the left of the bidder can do one of two things. He can bid higher (there are two sorts of higher bids: the same quantity of a higher number [three sevens, eights, or nines] and more of any number [four fives, for instance]). Or he can&quot;challenge&quot;—that is like saying, &quot;I doubt it.&quot;</p><p>The bidding escalates until all the other players agree to challenge a single player&#x27;s bid. Then, and only then, do the players reveal their serial numbers and determine who is bluffing whom. In the midst of all this, the mind of a good player spins with probabilities.</p><p>What is the statistical likelihood of there being three sixes within a batch of, say, forty randomly generated serial numbers? For a great player, however, the math is the easy part of the game.</p><p>The hard part is reading the faces of the other players. The complexity arises when all players know how to bluff and double-bluff.</p><h4>Chapter Two: Never Mention Money</h4><p>At Princeton, in my senior year, for the first time in the history of th«e school, economics became the single most popular area of concentration. And the more people studied economics, the more an economiics degree became a requirement for a job on Wall Street.</p><p>There was a good reason for this. Ecomomics satisfied the two most basic needs of investment bankers. Firstt investment bankers wanted practical people, willing to subordinate their educations to their careers. Economics, which was becoming an everr more abstruse science, producing mathematical treatises with no obwious use, seemed almost designed as a sifting device. The way it was itaught did not exactly fire the imagination. I mean, few people would claim they actually liked studying economics; there was not a trace off self-indulgence in the act. Studying economics was more a ritual satcrifice. I can&#x27;t prove this, of course. It is bald assertion, based on what ^economists call casual empiricism. I watched. I saw friends steadily drained of life. I often asked otherwise intelligent members of the prebanking set why they studied economics, and they explained that it was the most practical course of study, even while they spent their time drawing funny little graphs. They were right, of course, and that was even more maddening. Economics was practical. It got people jobs. And it did this because it demonstrated that they were among the most fervent believers in the primacy of economic life.</p><p>The only inexplicable aspect of the process was that economic theory (which is, after all, what economics students were supposed to know) served almost no function in an investment bank. The bankers used economics as a sort of standardized test of general intelligence.</p><h5>Chapter Three: Learning to Love our Corporate Culture</h5><p>The biggest myth about bond traders, and therefore the greatest misunderstanding about the unprecedented prosperity on Wall Street in the 1980s, are that they make their money by taking large risks. A few do. And all traders take small risks. But most traders act simply as toll takers. The source of their fortune has been nicely summarized by Kurt Vonnegut (who, oddly, was describing lawyers): &quot;There is a magic moment, during which a man has surrendered a treasure, and daring which the man who is about to receive it has not yet done so. An alert lawyer [read bond trader] will make that moment his own, possessing the treasure for a magic microsecond, taking a little of it, passing it on.&quot;</p><p>In other words, Salomon carved a tiny fraction out of each financial transaction. This adds up. The Salomon salesman sells $50 million worth of new IBM bonds to pension fund X. The Salomon trader, who provides the salesman with the bonds, takes for himself an eighth (of a percentage point), or $62,500. He may, if he wishes, take more. In the bond market, unlike in the stock market, commissions are not openly stated.</p><p>Now the fun begins. Once the trader knows the location of the IBM bonds and the temperament of their owner, he doesn&#x27;t have to be outstandingly clever to make the bonds (the treasure) move again. He can generate his own magic microseconds. He can, for example, pressure one of his salesmen to persuade insurance company Y that the IBM bonds are worth more than pension fund X paid for them initially. Whether it is true is irrelevant. The trader buys the bonds from X and sells them to Y and takes out another eighth, and the pension fund is happy to make a small profit in such a short time.</p><p>In this process, it helps if neither of the parties on either side of the middleman knows the value of the treasure. The men on the trading floor may not have been to school, but they have Ph.D.&#x27;s in man&#x27;s ignorance. In any market, as in any poker game, there is a fool.</p><p>One of the benevolent hands doing the stuffing belonged to the Federal Reserve. That is ironic, since no one disapproved of the excesses of Wall Street in the 1980s so much as the chairman of the Fed, Paul Volcker. At a rare Saturday press conference, on October 6, 1979, Volcker announced that the money supply would cease to fluctuate with the business cycle; money supply would be fixed, and interest rates would float. The event, I think, marks the beginning of the golden age of the bond man. Had Volcker never pushed through his radical charge in policy, the world would be many bond traders and one memoir the poorer. For in practice, the shift in the focus of monetary policy meant that interest rates would swing wildly.</p><p>Bond prices move inversely, lockstep, to rates of interest. Allowing interest rates to swing wildly meant allowing bond prices to swing wildly. Before Volcker&#x27;s speech, bonds had been conservative investments, into which investors put their savings when they didn&#x27;t fancy a gamble in the stock market. After Volcker&#x27;s speech, bonds became objects of speculation, a means of creating wealth rather than merely storing it. Overnight the bond market was transformed from a backwater into a casino. Turnover boomer at Salomon. Many more people were hired to handle the new business, on starting salaries of forty-eight grand.</p><p>Once Volcker had set interest rates free, the other hand stuffing the turkey went to work: America&#x27;s borrowers. American governments, consumers, and corporations borrowed money at a faster clip during the 1980s than ever before; this meant the volume of bonds exploded (another way to look at this is that investors were lending money more freely than ever before).</p><p>The combined indebtedness of the three groups in 1977 was $323 billion, much of which wasn&#x27;t bonds but loans made by commercial banks. By 1985 the three groups had borrowed $7 trillion. What is more, thanks to financial entrepreneurs at places like Salomon and the shakiness of commercial banks, a much greater percentage of the debt was cast in the form of bonds than before.</p><p>So not only were bond prices more volatile, but the number of bonds to trade increased. Nothing changed within Salomon Brothers that made the traders more able.</p><p>Now, however, trades exploded in both size and frequency. A Salomon salesman who had in the past moved five million dollars&#x27; worth of merchandise through the traders&#x27; books each week was now moving three hundred million dollars through each day. He, the trader, and the firm began to get rich. And they decided for reasons best known to themselves to invest some of their winnings in buying people like me.</p><p>Ask any astute trader and he&#x27;ll tell you that his best work cuts against the conventional wisdom. Good traders tend to do the unexpected. We, as a group, were painfully predictable.</p><p>And why Salomon let it happen, I still don&#x27;t understand. The firm&#x27;s management created the training program, filled it to the brim, then walked away. In the ensuing anarchy the bad drove out the good, the big drove out the small, and the brawn drove out the brains. There was a single trait common to denizens of the back row, though I doubt it ever occurred to anyone: They sensed that they needed to shed whatever refinements of personality and intellect they had brought with them to Salomon Brothers.</p><p>This wasn&#x27;t a conscious act, more a reflex. They were the victims of the myth, especially popular at Salomon Brothers, that a trader is a savage, and a great trader a great savage. This wasn&#x27;t exactly correct. The trading floor held evidence to that effect. But it also held evidence to the contrary. People believed whatever they wanted to.</p><h5>Chapter Four: Adult Education</h5><p>When asked the key to his success, he said, &quot;In the land of the blind the one-eyed man is king.&quot; Best of all, he gave us a rule of thumb about information in the markets that I later found useful: &quot;Those who say don&#x27;t know, and those who know don&#x27;t say.&quot;</p><p>A trader placed bets in the markets on tbehalf of Salomon Brothers. A salesman was the trader&#x27;s mouthpiece t(» most of the outside world. The salesmen spoke with institutional investors such as pension funds, insurance companies, and savings and loams. The minimum skills required for the two jobs were quite differemt. Traders required market savvy. Salesmen required interpersonal skillls. But the very best traders were also superb salesmen, for they had to persuade a salesman to persuade his customers to buy bond X or selll bond Y. And the very best salesmen were superb traders and found custtomers virtually giving their portfolios over to them to manage.</p><p>The difference between a trader and a salesman was more than a matter of mere function. The traders ruled tthe shop, and it wasn&#x27;t hard to see why. A salesman&#x27;s year-end bonus was determined by traders. A trader&#x27;s bonus was determined by the profits on his trading books. A salesman had no purchase on a trader, wlhile a trader had complete control over a salesman. Not surprisingly, yciung salesmen dashed around the place looking cowed and frightened, while young traders smoked cigars. That the tyranny of the trader was. institutionalized shouldn&#x27;t surprise anyone. Traders were the people closest to the money. The firm&#x27;s top executives were traders.</p><p>Good bond traders had fast brains andl enormous stamina. They watched the markets twelve and sometimess sixteen hours a day—and not just the market in bonds. They watcheed dozens of financial and commodity markets: stocks, oil, natural gass, currencies, and anything else that might in some way influence the bcond market. They sat down in their chairs at 7:00A.M. and stayed put umtil dark. Few of them cared to talk about their jobs; they were as reticent as veterans of an unpopular war. They valued profits.</p><p>And money. Especially money, and all the things that money could buy, and all the Ikudos that attached to the person with the most of it.</p><p>Sangfroid and the Human Piranha turned out to be two of my favorite people on the forty-first floor. There was no bullshit about them. They were brutal, but they were also honest and, I think, fair. The problems on 41 were caused by people who were tough but unfair, otherwise known, under the breath of many a trainee, as flaming assholes. You survived the Human Piranha and Sir Sangfroid by simply knowing what you were about.</p><h5>Chapter Five: A Brotherhood of Hoods</h5><p>He belonged to the Lions or Rotary Club and also to a less formal group known within the thrift industry as the 3-6-3 Club: He borrowed money at 3 percent, lent money at 6 percent, and arrived on the golf course by three in the afternoon.</p><h5>Chapter Six: The Fat Men and Their Marvelous Money Machine</h5><p><strong>1981-1986</strong></p><p>What was going on? From the moment the Federal Reserve lifted interest rates in October 1979, thrifts hemorrhaged money. The entire structure of home lending was on the verge of collapse. There was a time when it seemed that if nothing were done, all thrifts would go bankrupt. So on September 30, 1981, Congress passed a nifty tax break* for its beloved thrift industry. It provided massive relief for thrifts. To take advantage of it, however, the thrifts had to sell their mortgage loans. They did. And it led to hundreds of billions of dollars in turnover on Wall Street.</p><p>Wall Street hadn&#x27;t suggested the tax breaks, and indeed, Ranieri&#x27;s traders hadn&#x27;t known about the legislation until after it happened. Still, it amounted to a massive subsidy to Wall Street from Congress. Long live motherhood and home ownership! The United States Congress had just rescued Ranieri &amp; Co. The only fully staffed mortgage department on Wall Street was no longer awkward and expensive; it was a thriving monopoly.</p><p>The tax break allowed thrifts to sell all their mortgage loans and put their cash to work for higher returns, often by purchasing the cheap loans disgorged by other thrifts. The thrifts were simply swapping portfolios of loans. The huge losses on the sale (the thrifts were selling loans for sixty-five cents on the dollar they had originally made at par, or a hundred cents on the dollar) could now be hidden. A new accounting standard allowed the thrifts to amortize the losses over the life of the loans. For example, the loss the thrift would show on its books in the first year from the sale of a thirty-year loan that had fallen 35 percent in value was a little over 1 percent: 35 / 30.</p><p>But what was even better is that the loss could be offset against any taxes the thrift had paid over the previous ten years. Shown losses, the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) returned old tax dollars to the thrifts. For the thrifts, the name of the game was to generate lots of losses to show to the IRS; that was now easy. All they had to do to claw back old taxes was sell off their bad loans; that&#x27;s why thrifts were dying to sell their mortgages.</p><p>It was all a great mistake. The market wasn&#x27;t exploding because of the megatrends that Bob Dall had listed in his memo to Gutfreund (growth in housing, movement from Rust Belt to Sun Belt, etc.) although those later became factors. The market took off because of a simple tax break. It was as if Steven Jobs had bought office space, built an assembly line, hired two hundred thousand salesmen, and written brochures before he had anything to sell. Then someone else creates the personal computer, and seeing this, Jobs leaps into action, calling his previously useless infrastructure Apple Computer.</p><p>Bond traders tend to treat each day of trading as if it were their last. This short-term outlook enables them to exploit the weakness of their customers without worrying about the long-term effects on customer relations. They get away with whatever they can. A desperate seller is in a weak position.</p><p>He&#x27;s less concerned about how much he is paid than when he is paid. Thrift presidents were desperate. They arrived at the Salomon Brothers mortgage trading desk hat in hand. If they were going to be so obvious about their weakness, they might as well have written a check to Salomon Brothers.</p><p>The situation was aggravated by the ignorance of the thrifts. The 3-6-3 Club members had not been stress-tested for the bond market; they didn&#x27;t know how to play Liar&#x27;s Poker.</p><p>They didn&#x27;t know the mentality of the people they were up against. They didn&#x27;t know the value of what they were selling. In some cases, they didn&#x27;teven know the terms (years to maturity, rates of interest) of their own loans. The only thing the thrift managers knew was how much they wanted to sell. The truly incredible thing about them, noted by all the Salomon traders, was that no matter how roughly they were treated, they kept coming back for more. They were like ducks I once saw on a corporate hunt that were trained to fly repeatedly over the same field of hunters until shot dead.</p><p>You didn&#x27;t have to be Charles Darwin to see that this breed was doomed.</p><p>Many thrifts layered a billion dollars of brand-new loans on top of their existing, disastrous hundred million dollars of old loss-making loans, in a hope that the new would offset the old. Each new purchase of mortgage bonds (which was identical to making a loan) was like the last act of a desperate man. The strategy was wildly irresponsible, for the fundamental problem (borrowing short term and lending long term) hadn&#x27;t been remedied. The hypergrowth only meant that the next thrift crisis would be larger. But the thrift managers were not thinking that far in advance. They were simply trying to keep the door to the shop open. That explains why thrifts continued to buy mortgage bonds even as they sold their loans.</p><p>Ranieri &amp; Co. intended to transform the &quot;whole loans&quot; into bonds as soon as possible by taking them for stamping to the U.S. government. Then they could sell the bonds to Salomon&#x27;s institutional investors as, in effect, U.S. government bonds. For that purpose, partly as the result of Ranieri&#x27;s persistent lobbying, two new facilities had sprung up in the federal government alongside Ginnie Mae. They guaranteed the mortgages that did not qualify for the Ginnie Mae stamp. The Federal Home Loan Mortgage Corporation (called Freddie Mac) and the Federal National Mortgage Association (called Fannie Mae) between them, by giving their guarantees, were able to transform most home mortgages into government-backed bonds. The thrifts paid a fee to have their mortgages guaranteed.</p><p>The shakier the loans, the larger the fee a thrift had to pay to get its mortgages stamped by one of the agencies. Once they were stamped, however, nobody cared about the quality of the loans. Defaulting homeowners became the government&#x27;s problem. The principle underlying the programs was that these agencies could better assess and charge for credit quality than individual investors.</p><p>The wonderfully spontaneous mortgage department was the place to be if your philosophy of life was: Ready, fire, aim. The payoff to the swashbuckling traders, by the standards of the time, was shockingly large.</p><p>In 1982, coming off two and a half lean years, Lewie Ranieri&#x27;s mortgage department made $150 million. In 1984 a mortgage trader named Steve Baum shattered a Salomon Brothers record, by making $100 million in a single year trading whole loans. Although there are no official numbers, it was widely accepted at Salomon that Ranieri&#x27;s traders made $200 million in 1983, $175million in 1984, and $275 million in 1985.</p><p>Lewie Ranieri was the right man at the right place at the right time. &quot;Lewie was willing to take positions in things he didn&#x27;t fully understand. He had a trader&#x27;s instinct that he trusted. That was important,&quot; says one of his senior traders. &quot;The attitude at Salomon was always, &#x27;If you believe in it, go with it, but if it doesn&#x27;t work, you&#x27;re fucked.&#x27; And Lewie responded to this. At other places management says, &#x27;Well, gee, fellas, do we really want to bet the ranch on this deal?&#x27; Lewie was not only willing to bet the ranch. He was willing to hire people and let them bet the ranch, too. His attitude was:</p><p>&#x27;Sure, what the fuck, it&#x27;s only a ranch.&#x27; In other shops, he&#x27;d have had to write a two-hundred-page memo for a committee that wanted to be sure that what he was doing was safe. He would have had to prove he knew what he was doing. He could never have done that. He knew what he was doing, but he could never have proved it. Had Lewie been assigned to look at the mortgage market at other firms, it wouldn&#x27;t have gone anywhere.&quot;</p><p>The Salomon trading floor was unique. It had minimal supervision, minimal controls, and no position limits. A trader could buy or sell as many bonds as he thought appropriate without asking. The trading floor was, in other words, a CEO&#x27;s nightmare. &quot;If Salomon&#x27;s trading floor was a business school case study,&quot; says mortgage trader Wolf Nadool-man, &quot;the guy pretending to be the CEO would say, &#x27;That is shocking!&#x27; But you know what? He&#x27;d be wrong. Sometimes you lose some dough, but sometimes you make a fortune. Salomon was right.&quot;</p><p>Salomon&#x27;s loose management style had its downside. Salomon Brothers was the only major firm on Wall Street in the early 1980s with no systernjor allocating costs. As unbelievable as it seems, no measure was taken of the bottom line; people were judged by the sum total of the revenues on their trading books irrespective of what those cost to generate. When the firm was a partnership (1910-1981) and managers had their own money in the till, loose controls sufficed. Now, however, the money didn&#x27;t belong to them but to the shareholders. And what worked for a partnership proved disastrous in a publicly owned corporation.</p><p>Instead of focusing on profits, trading managers focused on revenues. They were rewarded for indiscriminate growth. Gross revenues meant raw power.</p><p>Various Salomon mortgage traders estimate that between 50 and 90 percent of their profits derived from simply taking the other side of thrifts&#x27; trades. Why, you might wonder, did thrift presidents tolerate Salomon&#x27;s huge profit margins? Well, for a start, they didn&#x27;t know any better. Salomon&#x27;s margins were invisible. And since there was no competition on Wall Street, there was no one to inform them that they were making Salomon Brothers rich. What was happening—and is still happening—is that the guy who sponsored the float in the town parade, the 3-6-3 Club member and golfing man, had become America&#x27;s biggest bond trader. He was also America&#x27;s worst bond trader. He was the market&#x27;s fool.</p><p>Ranieri &amp; Co. had been forced by the glut into owning billions of dollars of mortgage bonds. Because of conditions of supply and demand in their market, they had no choice but to bet on the bond market going up. They watched with glee, therefore, the biggest bond market rally in the history of Wall Street. They had Kaufman to thank at first. When Henry said it was going up, it went up. But then the Federal Reserve allowed interest rates to fall. Policy in Washington, as anticipated by Kaufman, had taken a second fortunate turn for Ranieri and his band of traders. &quot;We&#x27;re talking off to the races, bond futures up sixteen points in a week, unreal,&quot; recalls Wolf Nadoolman. The mortgage department was the envy of the firm.</p><p>Yet there were other, more intriguing ways Ranieri made money.</p><p>Ranieri&#x27;s traders found that their counterparts at other firms could be easily duped.</p><p>Salomon&#x27;s was the only mortgage trading desk without direct phone lines to other Wall Street investment banks, preferring instead to work through intermediaries, called interbroker dealers. &quot;We dominated the street,&quot; says Andy Stone. &quot;You&#x27;d buy bonds at twelve, even when they were trading at ten, to control the flow. The [Salomon Brothers] research department would then produce a piece saying the bonds you had just bought at twelve were really worth twenty. Or we&#x27;d buy six billion more of the things at twelve.</p><p>The rest of the Street would see them trading up on the screens and figure, &#x27;Hey, retail buying, better buy, too,&#x27; and take us out of our position.</p><p>Translation: Salomon could dictate the rules of the mortgage bond trading game as it went along.</p><p>One trick the new young traders exploited was the tendency of borrowers to prepay their loans when they should not. In a nice example of Wall Street benefiting from confusion in Washington, Steve Roth and Scott Brittenham made tens of millions of dollars trading federal project loans—the loans made to the builders of housing projects, guaranteed by the federal government. By 1981 the federal government was running a deficit. It embarked on a program of asset sales. One group of assets it sold were loans that it had made to the developers of low-cost housing in the 1960s and 1970s.</p><p>The loans had been made at below market rates in the first place, as a form of subsidy. On the open market, because of their low coupons, they were worth far less than par (one hundred cents on the dollar); a typical loan was worth about sixty cents on the dollar. So, for example, a thirty-year hundred-million-dollar loan, paying the lender 4 percent a year in interest (when he could earn, say, 13 percent in U.S. treasuries), might be worth sixty million dollars.</p><p>On the occasion of the government sale of a loan a tiny announcement appeared in the Wall Street Journal. It seemed only two people read it: Roth and Brittenham.</p><p>Brittenham now says, &quot;We dominated the market for years. When I came on board in 1981, we were really the only people buying them.&quot; The market was more of a game than most. The trick was to determine beforehand which of the government project loans was likely to prepay, for when it did, there was an enormous windfall to the owner of the loan, the lender. This arose because project loans traded below a hundred cents on the dollar.</p><p>When Roth and Brittenham bought loans at sixty cents on the dollar that prepaid immediately, they realized a fast forty cents on the dollar profit. To win the money, you had to know how to identify situations in which the lender would get his money back prematurely. These, it turned out, were of two sorts.</p><p>The first were the financially distressed. Where there was distress, there was always opportunity. &quot;It was great if you could find a government housing project that was about to default on its mortgage,&quot; says Brittenham.</p><p>It was great because the government guaranteed the loan and, in the event of a default, paid off the loan in full. The windfall could be in the millions of dollars.</p><p>The other kind of project likely to prepay its mortgage was the cushy upmarket property. Brittenham recalls, &quot;You&#x27;d look for a nice property—not a slum—something with a nice pool, tennis court, microwave ovens. When you found it, you&#x27;d say to yourself, That&#x27;s a likely conversion. &#x27; &quot; To convert, the occupants bought out the owner-developer, who would, in turn, repay the loan to the government. Once the government had received its money, it repaid Roth and Brittenham a hundred cents on the dollar for a piece of paper they had just bought at sixty. The thought of two young M.B.A.&#x27;s from Wall Street roaming the nation&#x27;s housing projects in search of swimming pools and bankrupt tenants seems ridiculous until you have done it and made ten million dollars.</p><p>The wonder is that the people in Washington who sold the loans did not do the same.</p><p>But they didn&#x27;t understand the value of the loans. Instead they trusted the market to pay them the right price. The market, however, was inefficient.</p><p>Even larger windfalls came from exploiting the inefficient behavior of the American homeowner. In deciding when to pay off his debts, the homeowner wasn&#x27;t much craftier than the federal government. All across the country citizens with 4, 6, and 8 percent home mortgages were irrationally insisting on paying down their home loans when the prevailing mortgage rate was 16 percent; even in the age of leverage there were still many people who simply didn&#x27;t like the idea of being in hock. This created a situation identical to the federal project loan bonanza. The home loans underpinned mortgage bonds. The bonds were priced below their face value. The trick was to buy them below face value just before the homeowners repaid their loans. The mortgage trader who could predict the behavior of the homeowners made huge profits. Any prepayments were profits to the owner of the mortgage bond. He had bought the bond at sixty; now he was being paid off at a hundred.</p><p>A young Salomon Brothers trader named Howie Rubin began to calculate the probability of homeowners&#x27; prepaying their mortgages. He discovered that the probability varied according to where they lived, the length of time their loans had been outstanding, and the sizes of their loans. He used historical data collected by Lew Ranieri&#x27;s research department. The researchers were meant to be used like scientific advisers at an arms talk.</p><p>More often, however, they were treated like the water boys on the football team. But the best traders knew how to use the researchers well. The American homeowner became, to Rubin and the research department, a sort of laboratory rat. The researchers charted how previously sedentary homeowners jumped and started in response to the shock of changes in the rate of interest. Once a researcher was satisfied that one group of homeowners was more likely than another to behave irrationally, and pay off low-interest-rate mortgages, he would inform Rubin, who then bought their mortgages. The homeowners, of course, never knew that their behavior was so closely monitored by Wall Street.</p><p>One trader remembers that &quot;Lewie would say he thought the market was going up, and buy a hundred million [dollars&#x27; worth of] bonds. The market would start to go down. So Lewie would buy two billion more bonds, and of course, the market would then go up. After he had driven the market up, Lewie would turn to me and say, &#x27;See, I told you it was going to go up.&#x27;</p><p>Rubin found the prepayment game he played with discount mortgage securities similar to counting cards. &quot;Blackjack is the only nonin-dependent outcome game in the casino. What happens in the past affects what will happen in the future. There are actually times when you have a statistical advantage, and that is when you make the big bets,&quot; he says. At Salomon he had the advantage of superior information about the past behavior of homeowners, and only when he had this edge did he make the bets. What&#x27;s more, he says, the trading floor at Salomon Brothers felt like a Las Vegas casino. You made your bets, handled risk, in the midst of a thousand distractions. To feign indifference before the blackjack dealer in the casino while he memorized every card that was dealt, Rubin engaged a neighbor in conversation and drank gin and tonics. At Salomon Brothers he traded bonds while being hollered at by six salesmen, eating a morning cheeseburger, and watching Ranieri hold a Bic lighter under the balls of a fellow trader.In his first year out of the training program, 1983, Rubin made $25 million.</p><h5>Chapter Seven: The Salomon Diet</h5><p><strong>1986-1988</strong></p><p>&quot;I have this theory,&quot; says Andy Stone, seated in his office at Pruden-tial-Bache Securities. &quot;Wall Street makes its best producers into managers. The reward for being a good producer is to be made a manager. The best producers are cutthroat, competitive, and often neurotic and paranoid. You turn those people into managers, and they go after each other. They no longer have the outlet for their instincts that producing gave them.</p><p>They usually aren&#x27;t well suited to be managers. Half of them get thrown out because they are bad. Another quarter get muscled out because of politics.</p><p>The guys left behind are just the most ruthless of the bunch. That&#x27;s why there are cycles on Wall Street—why Salomon Brothers is getting crunched now—because the ruthless people are bad for the business but can only be washed out by proven failure.&quot;</p><p>Ranieri had accomplished what he set out to do: put the mortgage department on equal footing with corporate and government bonds. The U.S. mortgage market is now the largest credit market in the world and may one day be the single largest bond market in the world. Ranieri&#x27;s creation signaled a shift in the focus of Wall Street. Wall Street, historically, had dealt with only one side of the balance sheet: liabilities. Mortgages are assets. If home mortgages could be packaged and sold, so could credit card receivables, car loans, and any other kind of loan you can imagine.</p><h5>Chapter Eight: From Geek to Man</h5><p>He let us cut office meetings and work our own hours. He led by example, by arriving at work each morning an hour after the rest of the sales force had made its first phone calls. This, I think, was an inspired gesture. His was the most profitable unit in the office, year in and year out, and I am sure it was because its members were left with room to think for themselves.</p><p>The young man directly across from me, a member of my unit whom I&#x27;d spend the next two years gazing upon in wonderment, leaned over and whispered, &quot;Wanna know a lay-up? Short the stock of Salomon Brothers.&quot; A lay-up, it should be said, was jargon for agamble that was sure to succeed.</p><p>To sell short, or to short, is to sell a security that you don&#x27;t own, hoping that it will decline in price and you can buy it back later at a lower price. To short our own stock would be to bet on its taking a nose dive.</p><p>Thinking, as yet, was a feat beyond my reach. I had no base, no grounding.</p><p>My only hope was to watch the salesmen around rne and gather what advice I could. Learning what to do meant learning an attitude: how to sound on the telephone, how to deal with traders, and, most important, how to spot the difference between a financial opportunity and a rip-off.</p><p>What bothered Dash was that Salomon Brothers had actually spent money to make these things. A book and a bowl? Who gave a shit, he said, about a book and a bowl? He&#x27;d rather have the money. What&#x27;s more, he added, the people who worked at Salomon in the old days would never have done such a thing; they, too, would rather have had the money. The book and the bowl violated what Dash considered to be the Salomon ethic. And that&#x27;s why he told me to short the stock.*</p><p>Still, I relied heavily on Dash and on the other members of our unit, a woman and two men. We sat at a single desk, divided artificially to accommodate five. We had a hundred telephone lines; each line was a channel through which money, tasteless jokes, and rumors flowed. If you ever care to see how all the world&#x27;s most awful jokes spread, spend a day on a bond trading desk. When the Challenger space shuttle disintegrated, six people called me from six points on the globe to explain that NASA stands for &quot;Need Another Seven Astronauts.&quot;</p><p>The attraction of options and futures, our specialty item, was that they offered both liquidity and fantastic leverage.</p><p>“Uuuuuhhhhhhhhh,&quot; he continued, in a slightly different key. He began to hyperventilate into the phone.</p><p>And you want to know how I felt? I should have felt guilty, of course, but guilt was not the first identifiable sensation to emerge from my exploding brain. Relief was. I had told him the news. He was shouting and moaning.</p><p>And that was it. That was all he could do. Shout and moan. That was the beauty of being a middleman, which I did not appreciate until that moment.</p><p>The customer suffered. I didn&#x27;t. He wasn&#x27;t going to kill me.</p><p>He wasn&#x27;t even going to sue me. I wasn&#x27;t going to lose my job. On the contrary, I was a minor hero at Salomon for dumping a sixty-thousand-dollar loss into someone else&#x27;s pocket.</p><p>And I couldn&#x27;t help remembering a snide remark made by a seasoned trader to one of my fellow trainees while we were in the classroom. The trainee had tried to impress the trader and failed. The trader had said, &quot;You are proof that some people are born to be customers.&quot; Born to be customers, the back row had thought it was the funniest thing they had heard all day.</p><p>He disapproved of workdays longer than eight hours because, he said, &quot;you then arrive at the office in the morning with the same thoughts you left with late the night before.&quot;</p><p>On the heels of a few drinks, this sounded wise enough to note on a napkin.</p><p>Many of the trades that Alexander suggested followed one of two patterns.</p><p>First, when all investors were doing the same thing, he would actively seek to do the opposite.</p><p>The word stockbrokers use for this approach is contrarian. Everyone wants to be one, but no one is, for the sad reason that most investors are scared of looking foolish. Investors do not fear losing money as much as they fear solitude, by which I mean taking risks that others avoid. When they are caught losing money alone, they have no excuse for their mistake, and most investors, like most people, need excuses. They are, strangely enough, happy to stand on the edge of a precipice as long as they are joined by a few thousand others. But when a market is widely regarded to be in a bad way, even if the problems are illusory, many investors get out.</p><p>The second pattern to Alexander&#x27;s thought was that in the event of a major dislocation, such as a stock market crash, a natural disaster, the breakdown of OPEC&#x27;s production agreements, he would look away from the initial focus of investor interest and seek secondary and tertiary effects.</p><p>Remember Chernobyl? When news broke that the Soviet nuclear reactor had exploded, Alexander called. Only minutes before, confirmation of the disaster had blipped across our Quotron machines, yet Alexander had already bought the equivalent of two supertankers of crude oil. The focus of investor attention was on the New York Stock Exchange, he said. In particular it was on any company involved in nuclear power. The stocks of those companies were plummeting. Never mind that, he said. He had just purchased, on behalf of his clients, oil futures. Instantly in his mind less supply of nuclear power equaled more demand for oil, and he was right. His investors made a large killing.</p><p>Mine made a small killing. Minutes after I had persuaded a few clients to buy some oil, Alexander called back.</p><p>&quot;Buy potatoes,&quot; he said. &quot;Gotta hop. &quot;Then he hung up.</p><p>Of course. A cloud of fallout would threaten European food and water supplies, including the potato crop, placing a premium on uncon-taminated American substitutes.</p><p>Perhaps a few folks other than potato farmers think of the price of potatoes in America minutes after the explosion of a nuclear reactor in Russian, but I have never met them.</p><p>But Chernobyl and oil are a comparatively straightforward example. There was a game we played called What if? All sorts of complications can be introduced into What if? Imagine, for example, you are an institutional investor managing several billion dollars. What if there is a massive earthquake in Tokyo? Tokyo is reduced to rubble.</p><p>Investors in Japan panic. They are selling yen and trying to get their money out of the Japanese stock market. What do you do?</p><p>Well, along the lines of pattern number one, what Alexander would do is put money into Japan on the assumption that since everyone was trying to get out, there must be some bargains. He would buy precisely those securities in Japan that appeared the least desirable to others. First, the stocks of Japanese insurance companies. The world would probably assume that ordinary insurance companies had a great deal of exposure, when in fact, the risk resides mainly with Western insurers and with a special Japanese earthquake insurance company that&#x27;s been socking away premiums for decades. The shares of ordinary insurers would be cheap.</p><p>Then Alexander would buy a couple of hundred million dollars&#x27; worth of Japanese government bonds. With the economy in temporary disrepair, the government would lower interest rates to encourage rebuilding and simply order the banks to lend at those rates. Japanese banks would comply as usual with their government&#x27;s request. Lower interest rates would mean higher bond prices.</p><p>Also, the short-term panic could well be overshadowed by the long-term repatriation of Japanese capital. Japanese companies have massive sums invested in Europe and America. Eventually they would withdraw those investments, turn inward, lick their wounds, repair their factories, and bolster their stock. What would that mean?</p><p>Well, to Alexander, it would suggest buying yen. The Japanese would buy yen, selling their dollars, francs, marks, and pounds to do so. The yen would appreciate not just because the Japanese were buying it but because foreign speculators would eventually see the Japanese buying it and rush to join them. If the yen collapsed immediately after the quake, it would only further encourage Alexander, who sought always to do the unexpected, that his idea was a good one. On the other hand, if the yen rose, he might sell it.</p><p>Dash was Dash. Alexander was Alexander. I was a fraud, a composite of traits I felt rightfully belonged to these two. In my defense I can say only that I was a very good fraud. Also, that I had one useful quality possessed by neither of my teachers: a detachment from the business and the firm. It comes, I suppose, from getting your job at a fund raiser at St. James&#x27;s Palace or perhaps from having another source of income (I was a journalist at nights and on weekends while I was at Salomon Brothers). Anyway, it is extremely helpful in a young career because it leaves you fearless. I had the same advantage of recklessness as a driver in a traffic jam with a rent-a-car.The worst anyone could do to my rent-a-career was take it away, and though I did not actively court that fate, the thought of losing my job didn&#x27;t trouble me as much as it troubled lifers such as, say, Dash Riprock. That is not to say I did not care; I cared immensely. I thrived on praise more than most and thus sought to please. But I was willing to take greater risks than if I had felt deeply proprietary about niy career. I was, for instance, willing to disobey my superiors, and that caused them to sit up and take notice far more quickly than if I had been a good soldier.</p><p>Salomon would make a lot of money. My customer would make a little money (which, for a customer, was grand). And I would be a hero. If there was a single lesson I took away from Salomon Brothers, it is that rarely do all parties win. The nature of the game is zero sum. A dollar out of my customer&#x27;s pocket was a dollar in ours, and vice versa.</p><h5>Chapter Nine: The Art of War</h5><p>Pride of authorship is superseded by pride of profits. If Salomon Brothers creates a new kind of bond or stock, within twenty-four hours Morgan Stanley, Goldman Sachs, and the rest will have figured out how it worked and will be trying to make one just like it. I understand this as part of the game. I recall that one of the first investment bankers I met taught me a poem.</p><p>God gave you eyes, plagiarize.</p><p>A handy ditty when competing with other firms. What I was about to learn, however, is that the poem was equally handy when competing within Salomon Brothers.</p><p>In view of the high percentage of times they end up apologizing for, or modifying, their remarks, it is a wonder they don&#x27;t stifle themselves.) But there was no such news. I told Alexander that several Arabs had sold massive holdings of gold, for which they received dollars. They were selling those dollars for marks and thereby driving the dollar lower.</p><p>I spent much of my working life inventing logical lies like this. Most of the time when markets move, no one has any idea why. A man who can tell a good story can make a good living as a broker. It was the job of people like me to make up reasons, to spin a plausible yarn. And it&#x27;s amazing what people will believe. Heavy selling out of the Middle East was an old standby. Since no one ever had any clue what the Arabs were doing with their money or why, no story involving Arabs could ever be refuted. So if you didn&#x27;t know why the dollar was falling, you shouted out something about Arabs.</p><p>My client loved risk. Risk, I had learned, was a commodity in itself. Risk could be canned and sold like tomatoes. Different investors place different prices on risk. If you are able, as it were, to buy risk from one investor cheaply and sell it to another investor dearly, you can make money without taking any risk yourself. And this is what we did.</p><p>My client wanted to take a big risk by wagering a large sum of money on German bonds rising. He was therefore the &quot;buyer&quot; of risk. Alexander and I created a security, called a warrant or a call option, which was a means of transferring risk from one party to another. In buying our warrant, risk-averse investors from around the world (meaning most investors) would be, in effect, selling us risk. Many of these investors would not know they wanted to sell risk on the German bond market until we suggested it to them with our new warrant, just as most people didn&#x27;t know they wanted to plug their ears all day and listen to Pink Floyd until Sony produced the Walkman. Part of our job was to fill needs that investors never knew they had. We&#x27;d rely on Salomon&#x27;s sales force to generate demand for our new product, which, because it was unique, was pretty sure to succeed.</p><p>The difference between what we paid cautious investors for the risk and what we sold it to my customer for would be our profits. We estimated these would come to about seven hundred thousand dollars.</p><p>The idea was a dream. Salomon Brothers, which sat in the middle of this transfer of risk, would take no risk whatsoever. Seven hundred thousand risk-free dollars was a refreshing sight for Salomon management. But even more important, as far as Salomon was concerned, was the novelty of our deal. A warrant on German interest rates was new.</p><p>The publicity of being the first investment bank ever to issue them was the sort of thing that drives investment bankers mad with desire.</p><p>Book: <em>Clausewitz&#x27;s On War</em></p><h5>Chapter Ten: How Can We Make You Happier?</h5><p>We had the temperament and wisdom of a Lebanese taxi driver: We had our foot slammed down either on the accelerator or on the brake; we knew no moderation and had no judgment.</p><p>Junk bonds are bonds issued by corporations deemed by the two chief credit-rating agencies, Moody&#x27;s and Standard &amp; Poor&#x27;s, to be unlikely to repay their debts. &quot;Junk&quot; is an arbitrary but important distinction. The spectrum of creditworthiness that has IBM at one end and a Beirut cotton trading firm on the other has a break somewhere in the middle. At some point the bonds of a company cease to be investments and become wild gambles.</p><p>Junk bonds are easily the most controversial financial tool of the 1980s; they have been much in the news.</p><p>But they are not, it should be emphasized, new. Companies, like people, have always borrowed money to buy things they haven&#x27;t had the cash to afford. They also borrow money because, in America at least, it is the most efficient way to finance an enterprise; interest payments on debt are tax-deductible. And shaky enterprises have always wanted to borrow money. At times, as when the turn of the century robber barons built their empires on mountains of paper, lenders have been surprisingly indulgent. But never as indulgent as today. What is new, therefore, is the size of the junk bond market, the array of rickety companies deeply in hock, and the number of investors willing to risk their principal (and perhaps also their principles) by lending to these companies.</p><p>Michael Milken at Drexel created that market, by persuading investors that junk bonds were a smart bet, in much the same fashion that Lewie Ranieri persuaded investors mortgage bonds were a smart bet. Throughout the late 1970s and early 1980s Milken crisscrossed the nation and pounded on dinner tables until people began to listen to him.</p><p>Mortgages and junk made it easier to borrow money for people and companies previously thought unworthy of the funds. Or, to put it the other way around, the new bonds made it possible for the first time for investors to lend money directly to homeowners and shaky companies. And the more investors lent, the more others owed. The consequent leverage is the most distinctive feature of our financial era.</p><p>In her book <em>The Predators&#x27; Ball</em>, Connie Bruck traced the rise of Drexel&#x27;s junk bond department (Milken reportedly tried to pay the author not to publish). The story she tells begins in 1970, when Michael Milken studied bonds at the University of Pennsylvania&#x27;s Wharton School of Finance. He was blessed with an unconventional mind, which overcame his conventional middle-class upbringing (his father had been an accountant).</p><p>At Wharton he examined fallen angels, the bonds of one-time blue-chip corporations now in trouble. At the time fallen angels were the only junk bonds around. Milken noticed that they were cheap compared with the bonds of blue-chip corporations even considering the additional risk they carried. The owner of a portfolio of fallen angels, by Milken&#x27;s analysis, almost always outperformed the owner of a portfolio of blue-chip bonds.</p><p>There was a reason: Investors shunned fallen angels out of a fear of seeming imprudent. It is a remarkably simple observation. Like Alexander, Milken noticed that investors were constrained by appearances and, as a result, had left a window of opportunity open for a trader who was not.Thus the herd instinct, the basis for so much human behavior, laid the foundation for a revolution in the world of money.</p><p>Here the similarity ends. For unlike Ranieri, Michael Milken took complete control of his firm. He moved his junk bond operation from New York to Beverly Hills and eventually paid himself $550 million a year, 180 times what Ranieri made at his peak.</p><p>When Milken opened his Wilshire Boulevard office (which he owns), he let it be known who was in charge by putting his name on the door instead of Drexel&#x27;s. And he created a working environment that was different from Salomon Brothers in one crucial respect: Success was measured strictly by how many deals you brought in, rather than by how many people worked for you, whether you had a seat on the board of directors, and how many gossip columns you appeared in.</p><p>It is always hard to say what it is about a man that makes him suited to overturn the conventions by which the rest of the world has been living for ages. In Milken&#x27;s case, it is especially difficult because he&#x27;s almost neurotically private and offers no helpful insights into his character to would-be biographers, other than the business he does. My view is that he combined two qualities that were, at the time of his ascendancy, regarded as mutually exclusive. They certainly did not coexist within Salomon Brothers in the early 1980s. Milken possessed both raw bond-trading skills and patience with ideas. He had an attention span.</p><p>Michael Milken, who began in a job not dissimilar to Dash&#x27;s, was building a business, rather than making an endless series of trades. He was willing to look up from the blips on his trading screen and think clear and complete thoughts years into the future. Would a certain microchip company survive for twenty years to meet its semiannual interest payments? Would the U.S.steel industry survive in any form? Fred Joseph, who became CEO of Drexel, listened to Milken on the subject of corporations and thought he &quot;understood credit better than anyone in the country.&quot; As a by-product, Milken came to understand companies.</p><p>Thinking like a bond trader, Milken completely reassessed corporate America. He made two observations. First, many large and seemingly reliable companies borrowed money from banks at low rates of interest.</p><p>Their creditworthiness had but one way to go: down. Why be in the business of lending money to them? It didn&#x27;t make sense. It was a stupid trade: tiny upside, huge downside. Many companies that had once been models of corporate vitality subsequently went bust. There was no such thing as a riskless loan.</p><p>Even corporate giants are felled when their industries collapse under them.</p><p>Witness the entire U.S. steel industry.</p><p>Second, two sorts of companies could not persuade risk-averse commercial bankers and money managers to lend them so much as the time of day: small new companies and large old companies with problems. Money managers relied on the debt-rating agencies to tell them what was safe (or, rather, to sanction their investments so they did not appear imprudent). But the rating services, like the commercial banks, relied almost exclusively on the past-corporate balance sheets and track records-in rendering their opinions. The outcome of the analysis was determined by the procedure rather than by the analyst. This was a poor way to evaluate any enterprise, be it new and small, or old, large and shaky. A better method was to make subjective judgments about the character of management and the fate of their industry. Lending money to a company such as MCI, which funded most of its growth with junk bonds, could be a brilliant risk-if one could foresee the future of competitive long-distance phone services and the quality of MCI&#x27;s management. Lending money to Chrysler at extortionate rates of interest could also be a smart bet, as long as the company had enough cash flow to pay that interest.</p><p>Milken often spoke to students at business schools. On these occasions he liked, for dramatic effect, to demonstrate how hard it actually is to put a large company into bankruptcy. The forces interested in keeping a large company afloat, he argued, are far greater than those that wish to see it perish. He&#x27;d present the students with the following hypothetical situation.</p><p>First, he&#x27;d say, let&#x27;s locate our major factory in an earthquake zone.</p><p>Then let&#x27;s infuriate our unions by paying the executives large sums of money while cutting wages. Third, let&#x27;s select a company on the brink of bankruptcy to supply us with an essential irreplaceable component in our production line. And fourth, just in case our government is tempted to bail us out when we get into trouble, let&#x27;s bribe a few indiscreet foreign officials.That, Milken would conclude, is precisely what Lockheed had done in the late 1970s. Milken had purchased Lockheed bonds when the company looked to be heading for liquidation and had made a small fortune when it was saved in spite of itself, just as Alexander had bought Farm Credit bonds when all seemed lost but wasn&#x27;t.</p><p>What Milken was saying was that the entire American credit-rating system was flawed. It focused on the past when it should have focused on the future, and it was burdened by a phony sense of prudence. Milken plugged the hole in the system. He ignored large Fortune 100 companies in favor of ones with no credit standing. To compensate the lender for the higher risk, their junk bonds bear a higher rate of interest, sometimes 4 or 5 or 6 percent higher, than the bonds of blue-chip companies. They also tend to pay the lender a big fat fee if the borrower makes enough money to repay his loans prematurely. So when the company makes money, its junk soars, in anticipation of the windfall. And when the company loses money, its junk sinks, in anticipation of default. In short, junk bonds behave much more like equity, or shares, than old-fashioned corporate bonds.</p><p>Therein lies one of the&#x27;surprisingly well-kept secrets of Milken&#x27;s market.</p><p>Drexel&#x27;s research department, because of its close relationship with companies, was privy to raw inside corporate data that somehow never found its way to Salomon Brothers. When Milken trades junk bonds, he has inside information. Now it is quite illegal to trade in stocks on inside information, as former Drexel client Ivan Boesky has ably demonstrated.</p><p>But there is no such law regarding bonds (who, when the law was written, ever imagined that one day there would be so many bonds that behaved like stock?).</p><p>Not surprisingly, the line between debt and equity, so sharply drawn in the mind of a Salomon bond trader (Equities in Dallas!), becomes blurred in the mind of a Drexel bond trader. Debt ownership in a shaky enterprise means control, for when a company fails to meet its interest payments, a bondholder can foreclose and liquidate the company.</p><p>Having attracted tens of billions of dollars to his new speculative market, Michael Milken, by 1985, was faced with more money than places to put it.</p><p>It must have been awkward for him. He simply could not find enough worthy small-growth companies and old fallen angels to absorb the cash.</p><p>He needed to create junk bonds to satisfy the demand for them. His original premise-that junk bonds are cheap because lenders are too chicken to buy them-was shot to hell. Demand now exceeded natural supply. Huge pools of funds across America were dedicated to the unbridled pursuit of risk.</p><p>Milken and his Drexel colleagues fell upon the solution: They&#x27;d use junk bonds to finance raids on undervalued corporations, by simply pledging the assets of the corporations as collateral to the junk bond buyers. (The mechanics are identical to the purchase of a house, when the property is pledged against a mortgage.) A take-over of a large corporation could generate billions of dollars&#x27; worth of junk bonds, for not only would new junk be issued, but the increased leverage transformed the outstanding bonds of a former blue-chip corporation to junk. To raid corporations, however, Milken needed a few hit men.</p><p>The new and exciting job of invading corporate boardrooms appealed mainly to men of modest experience in business and a great deal of interest in becoming rich. Milken funded the dreams of every corporate raider of note: Ronald Perelman, Boone Pickens, Carl Icahn, Mar-vin Davis, Irwin Jacobs, Sir James Goldsmith, Nelson Peltz, Samuel Heyman, Saul Steinberg, and Asher Edelman. &quot;If you don&#x27;t inherit it, you have to borrow it,&quot; says one. Most sold junk bonds through Drexel to raise money to storm such hitherto unassailable fortresses as Revlon, Phillips Petroleum, Unocal, TWA, Disney, AFC, Crown Zellerbach, National Can, and Union Carbide.</p><p>Managers running public companies with cheap assets began to consider buying the companies from their shareholders for themselves (what is known in Europe as management buyout, or MBO, and in America as a leveraged buyout, or LBO). They put themselves in play. Then, finally, Wall Street investment bankers became involved in what Milken had been quietly doing all along: taking big stakes in the companies for themselves.</p><p>The assets were cheap. Why let other people make the money? So the take-over advisory business was all of a sudden shot through with the same conflict of interest I faced every day selling bonds: If it was a good deal, the bankers kept it for themselves; if it was a bad deal, they&#x27;d try to sell it to their customers.</p><p>There was, in other words, plenty of work to go around. Mergers and acquisitions departments mushroomed across Wall Street in the mid-1980s, just as bond trading departments had mushroomed a few years before.</p><p>There was a deep financial connection between the two: Both drew heavily on the willingness of investors to speculate in bonds.</p><p>Both also drew on the willingness of people to borrow more than they could easily repay.Both, in short, depended on a whole new attitude toward debt. &quot;Every company has got people sitting around who do nothing for what they get paid,&quot; says Joe Perella. &quot;If they take on a lot of debt, it forces them to cut fat.&quot; The take-over specialists did for debt what Ivan Boesky did for greed.</p><p>Debt is good, they said. Debt works.</p><p>There was a deep behavioral connection between bond trading and take-overs as well: Both were driven by a new pushy financial entrepre-neurship that smelled fishy to many who had made their living on Wall Street in the past. There are those who would have you think that a great deal of thought and wisdom is invested in each take-over. Not so.</p><p>Wall Street&#x27;s take-over salesmen are not so different from Wall Street&#x27;s bond salesmen.</p><p>They spend far more time plotting strategy than they do wondering whether they should do the deals. They basically assume that anything that enables them to get rich must also be good for the world. The embodiment of the take-over market is a high-strung, hy-perambitious twenty-six-year-old, employed by a large American investment bank, smiling and dialing for companies.</p><p>And the process by which a take-over occurs is frighteningly simple-in view of its effects on community, workers, shareholders, and management.</p><p>A paper manufacturer in Oregon appears cheap to the twenty-six-year-old playing with his computer late one night in New York or London. He writes his calculations on a telex, which he send to any party remotely interested in paper, in Oregon, or in buying cheap companies. Like the organizer of a debutante party, the twenty-six-year-old keeps a file on his desk of who is keen on whom. But he isn&#x27;t particularly discriminating in issuing invitations. Anyone can buy because anyone can borrow using junk bonds.</p><p>The papermaker in Oregon is now a target.</p><p>The next day the papermaker reads about himself in the &quot;Heard on the Street&quot; column of the Wall Street Journal. His stock price is convulsing like a hanged man because arbitrageurs like Ivan Boesky have begun to buy his company&#x27;s shares in hopes of making a quick buck by selling out to the raider. The papermaker panics and hires an investment banker to defend him, perhaps even the same twenty-six-year-old responsible for his misery.</p><p>Five other twenty-six-year-olds at five hitherto unoccupied investment banks read the rumors and begin to scourge the landscape for a buyer of the paper company. Once a buyer is found, the company is officially &quot;in play.&quot;</p><p>At the same time the army of young overachievers check their computers to see if other paper companies in America might not also be cheap. Before long the entire paper industry is up for grabs.</p><p>The money to be made from defending and attacking large companies makes bond trading look like a pauper&#x27;s game. Drexel has netted fees in excess of $100 million for single take-overs. Wasserstein and Perella, in 1987, generated $385 million in fees for their employer, First Boston.</p><p>If there is one thing I learned on Wall Street, it&#x27;s that when an investment banker starts talking about principles, he is usually also defending his interests and that he rarely stakes out the moral high ground unless he believes there is gold under his campsite.</p><p>The question of the day on 41 was: How come he makes a billion dollars and I don&#x27;t?</p><p>This question drives us right to the center of what has happened in financial America over the past few years. For Milken, not Salomon Brothers, had made the biggest trade of the era. That trade was, of course, the buying and selling of corporate America. Salomon had missed the grand shift in its own business from trading bonds to trading entire industries.</p><h5>Chapter Eleven: When Bad Things Happen to Rich People</h5><p>The men who made the decision were practicing their favorite anatomical trick of thinking with their balls. In other words, they weren&#x27;t thinking at all but trading. Bill Simon used to shout at his young traders, &quot;If you guys weren&#x27;t trading bonds, you&#x27;d be driving a truck. Don&#x27;t try to get intellectual in the marketplace. Just trade.&quot; When a trader is long and wrong he cuts and runs. He drops his position, cuts his losses, and moves on.</p><p><strong>Monday, October 12, 1987: Day One</strong></p><p>Neither municipal bonds nor money markets were profitable. Does that mean we should have dropped them completely? The firm could, at little expense, have kept a small staff in both markets. That would have appeased the customers who had come to depend on us in these areas and were now furious with us. And it would have enabled us to profit in the event that either of the two markets recovered. Why dump whole businesses? Why not, at the very least, sift through the people and keep the best for other jobs? A star municipal bond salesman could easily become a star government bond salesman. Salomon Brothers was the nation&#x27;s leading underwriter of municipal bonds and among the leaders of the money markets; the people employed by these departments were by no means losers. *</p><p><strong>Friday, October 16, 1987: Day Five</strong></p><p>Early on Alexander taught me the importance of a strong exterior. &quot;I learned awhile ago that there was no point to showing weakness,&quot; he said. &quot;When you arrive at six-thirty A.M., having had no sleep the night before, and having lost your best friend in a car accident, and some Big Swinging Dick walks over to your desk, slaps you on the back, and says, &#x27;How the hell are you?&#x27; you don&#x27;t say, T&#x27;m really tired and really upset.&#x27; You say, T&#x27;m great, how the hell are you?&#x27; &quot;</p><p><strong>Saturday, October 17,1987: Day Six</strong></p><p>oleaginous</p><p><strong>Monday, October 19, 1987: Day Seven</strong></p><p>The prevailing reasoning in the bond market went like this: Stock prices were lower; therefore, people were less wealthy; therefore, people would consume less; therefore, the economy would slow down; therefore, inflation would fall (maybe there&#x27;d even be depression and deflation); therefore, interest rates would fall; therefore, bond prices should rise. So they did.</p><p>The world of money was in upheaval. Funds were rushing out of the stock market and into safe havens. The conventional safe haven for money is gold, but this was not a conventional moment. The price of gold was falling fast. Two creative theories made their happy way around the trading floor, both explaining the fall in gold.</p><p>The first was that investors were being forced to sell their gold to meet margin calls in the stock market. The second was that in the depression that followed the crash, investors would have no need to fear inflation, and since for many gold was protection against inflation, it was less in demand.</p><p>Whatever the case, money was pouring not into gold but into the money markets-i.e., short-term deposits. Had we had a money market department, we could have made a killing presiding over this movement, but we did not and could not. The decline in business after the crash occurred mainly in the equity markets. And which was the one and only department not to cut a single employee?</p><p>Equities. So the area most direly overstaffed was the one that had made no cuts.</p><p>A quick calculation showed that Salomon&#x27;s share price implied a value for the company less than its liquidation value. (If we had been a take-over play three weeks before at thirty bucks a share, we were a bargain now at eighteen. A false rumor spread that Lewie Ranieri had raised money and was returning to buy Salomon Brothers).</p><p>After checking with our legal department to make sure I wasn&#x27;t following Boesky&#x27;s footsteps, I followed Gutfreund&#x27;s and bought a bunch of Salomon shares with the bonus I was busy lobbying for. Many, many others on our trading floor were doing the same.</p><p>Gutfreund would later say that it bespoke of a faith in the firm when employees bought Salomon shares and that he personally found it encouraging. Perhaps. But I for one wasn&#x27;t making a statement of faith when I made my purchase. My investment was raw self-interest, coupled with a certain abstract pleasure in having found a smart bet. Within a few months Salomon shares had bounced back, from a low of sixteen dollars to twenty-six dollars.</p><p><strong>December 17, 1987: Bonus Day</strong></p><p>A strange and glorious day. The firm, for the first time in its history, broke the compensation bands. It was lucky for me. My bonus was meant to fall within the band, which would have limited it to about $140,000. Instead, it paid me $225,000 (275 with benefits, but who&#x27;s counting?), which is more than it has ever paid any employee two years out of the training program, or so I have been told. I am now the highest-paid member of my training class.But that means less than it did. More than half my class has either quit or been fired.It is now clear that given time, and only time, the firm would make me a rich man.Doing the same level of business, I would be paid 350 or so next year, 450the year after that, and 525 the year after that. And so on, with lesser increases but higher totals each year until I did or did not become a managing director.</p><p>But it was sad, and a bit ridiculous, to break the bands and pay selected employees more than ever before in the worst year in the recent history of the firm. The firm cleared $142 million, an abysmal return on $3.5 billion in capital. The numbers looked even worse when you considered that the firm for most of the year had been twice the size of three years before. Why was it paying me now?</p><p>I had an idea. When the head of sales presented me with my bonus, he tried to ensure that I appreciated what a monumental gift was being made to me (and he told me not to tell anyone). The clue to the large sum was in his eyes: panic. Salomon Brothers, in a sense, made a trade by putting a price on the services of an employee, and now, having lost a great number of people, it was less composed than usual as it traded. One thing is for sure: It did not pay me a premium because it thought it was the right and proper thing to do. A few good men at the top of the Brothers did what was right and proper, including, I am proud to say, my rabbis, but most did oTily what was necessary. It paid me more because it thought that would compel me to stay, seal my loyalty.</p><p>What loyalty I had was already sealed. I felt loyal to a handful of individuals: Dash; Alexander; my jungle guide; my rabbis. But how can you speak of loyalty to the firm when the firm is an amalgam of small and large deceptions and riven with strife and discontent? You can&#x27;t. And why even try? But now it was abundantly clear that the money game rewarded disloyalty. The people who hopped from firm to firm and, in the process, secured large pay guarantees did much better financially than people who stayed in one place.</p><h5>Epilogue</h5><p>I left Salomon Brothers in the beginning of 1988, but not for any of the obvious reasons. I didn&#x27;t think the firm was doomed. I didn&#x27;t think that Wall Street would collapse. I wasn&#x27;t even suffering from growing disillusionment (it grew to a point, still bearable, then stopped). Although there were many perfectly plausible reasons to jump ship, I left, I think, more because I didn&#x27;t need to stay any longer. My father&#x27;s generation grew up with certain beliefs.</p><p>One of those beliefs is that the amount of money one earns is a rough guide to one&#x27;s contribution to the welfare and prosperity of our society. I grew up unusually close to my father. Each evening I would plop into a chair near him, sweaty from a game of baseball in the front yard, and listen to him explain why such and such was true and such and such was not. One thing that was almost always true was that people who made a lot of money were neat. Horatio Alger and all that. It took watching his son being paid 225 grand at the age of twenty-seven, after two years on the job, to shake his faith in money. He has only recently recovered from the shock.</p><p>I haven&#x27;t. When you sit, as I did, at the center of what has been possibly the most absurd money game ever and benefit out of all proportion to your value to society (as much as I&#x27;d like to think I got only what I deserved, I don&#x27;t), when hundreds of equally undeserving people around you are all raking it in faster than they can count it, what happens to the money belief?</p><p>Well, that depends. For some, good fortune simply reinforces the belief.</p><p>They take the funny money seriously, as evidence that they are worthy citizens of the Republic. It becomes their guiding assumption-for it couldn&#x27;t possibly be clearly thought out-that a talent for making money come out of a telephone is a reflection of merit on a grander scale. It is tempting to believe that people who think this way eventually suffer their comeuppance.</p><p>They don&#x27;t. They just get richer. I&#x27;m sure most of them die fat and happy.</p><p>For me, however, the belief in the meaning of making dollars crumbled; the proposition that the more money you earn, the better the life you are leading was refuted by too much hard evidence to the contrary. And without that belief, I lost the need to make huge sums of money. The funny thing is that I was largely unaware how heavily influenced I was by the money belief until it had vanished.</p><p>It is a small piece of education, but still the most useful thing I picked up at Salomon Brothers. Almost everything else I learned I left behind. I became fairly handy with a few hundred million dollars, but I&#x27;m still lost when I have to decide what to do with a few thousand. I learned humility briefly in the training program but forgot it as soon as I was given a chance. And I learned that people can be corrupted by organizations, but since I remain willing to join organizations and even to be corrupted by them (mildly, please), I&#x27;m not sure what practical benefit will come from this lesson. All in all, it seems, I didn&#x27;t learn much of practical value.</p><p>Perhaps the best was yet to come and I left too soon. But having lost my need to stay at Salomon Brothers, I discovered a need to leave. My job became nothing more than showing up every morning to do what I had already done, the reward for which was simply more of the same. I disliked the lack of adventure. You might say that I left the trading floor of Salomon Brothers in search of risk, which was as stupid a financial decision as I hope I&#x27;ll ever make. In the markets you don&#x27;t take risk without being paid hard cash at the same time. Even in the job market it&#x27;s a handy rule, and I have broken it.</p><p>I am now both poorer and more exposed than I would have been had I remained on the trading floor.</p><p>So, on the face of it, my decision to leave was an almost suicidal trade, the sort of thing a customer might do if he fell into the hands of a geek salesman at Salomon. I believe I walked away from the clearest shot I&#x27;ll ever have at being a millionaire. Sure, Salomon Brothers had fallen on hard times, but there was still plenty of gravy on the tray for a good middleman; that is the nature of the game. And if Salomon turns itself around, the money will flow even more freely. As it happens, I still own shares in Salomon Brothers because I believe it will eventually recover. The strength of the firm lies in the raw instincts of people like John Meriwether, the Liar&#x27;s Poker champion of the world.</p><p>People with those instincts, including Meriwether and his boys, are still trading bonds for Salomon. Anyway, business at Salomon simply couldn&#x27;t get much worse. The captains have done their level best to sink the ship, and the ship insists on floating. In leaving, I was sure I was making the beginner&#x27;s mistake of selling at the bottom, which I could only partially offset by buying a few shares in the company as I walked out the door. If I made a bad trade, it&#x27;s because I wasn&#x27;t making a trade. I was given pause, however, after I had decided to vamoose, to think that maybe what I was doing wasn&#x27;t so foolish after all.</p><p>Alexander insisted at our farewell dinner that I was making a great move.</p><p>The best decisions he has made in his life, he said, were completely unexpected, the ones that cut against convention. Then he went even farther. He said that every decision he has forced himself to make because it was unexpected has been a good one. It was refreshing to hear a case for unpredictability in this age of careful career planning. It would be nice if it were true.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A must-read for all product managers, or those leading organizations where product plays a central role.Cagan goes through everything from how you should be running customer discovery, to how you scale great product teams in growing businesses, to why you shouldn’t be using a roadmap.Everyone from beginner PMs to experienced executives have something to learn from this book.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Chapter 6 - The Root Causes of Failed Product Efforts</h5><p>The top 10 biggest problems with how most product teams work (idea-biz case-roadmap-requirements-design-build-test-deploy):</p><ol><li>The source of ideas: in this model there are lots of sales-driven and stakeholder-driven products. Teams also lose empowerment here.</li><li>Business cases: at this stage, we have no idea about the two key components of business cases: how much money we’ll make and how much it will cost.</li><li>Product roadmaps: the vast majority are prioritized lists of features and products, but they fail to acknowledge two truths: half our ideas aren’t going to work, and those that do will need several iterations.</li><li>The role of product management in this model is more project management.</li><li>The role of design is similar; they just aren’t involved early enough to create great products, and end up doing what they can within constraints.</li><li>Engineers get brought in way too late. They’re often the single best source of innovation.</li><li>Agile gets brought in way too late; it becomes Agile only for delivery.</li><li>The entire process is <strong>project-centric,</strong> when product should really be about <strong><em>outcome</em></strong>.</li><li>The biggest flaw of waterfall-type processes is that customer validation happens way too late.</li><li>The biggest loss is usually the opportunity cost of what the organization could have been doing instead.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 7 - Beyond Lean and Agile</h5><p>The best product teams leverage the core principles of Lean and Agile, and have three overarching principles:</p><ol><li><strong>Risks are tackled up front</strong>, including value risk (whether customers will buy it), usability risk (whether users can figure out how to use it), feasibility risk (whether engineers can build it with the time, skills, and technology available), and business viability risk (whether the solution works with all the aspects of business).</li><li><strong>Products are defined and designed collaboratively</strong>, rather than sequentially. Design and engineering in particular are involved throughout the whole process.</li><li><strong>It’s about solving problems, not implementing features</strong>. Strong teams focus on business results, not output.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 8 - Key Concepts</h5><p>When we talk about <strong><em>product</em></strong>, we are including: functionality (the features), technology (that enables this functionality), user experience (that presents this functionality), how we monetize this functionality, and how we acquire users and customers.</p><p>There are two essential activities in all product teams:</p><ol><li>Discovering the product to be built</li><li>Delivering that product to market</li></ol><p><strong>Product Discovery</strong></p><p>The purpose of product discovery is to separate the good ideas from the bad.</p><p>The output of product discovery is a validated product backlog.</p><p>This means getting answers to four critical questions:</p><ol><li>Will the user buy this (or choose to use it)?</li><li>Can the user figure out how to use this?</li><li>Can our engineers build this?</li><li>Can our stakeholders support this?</li></ol><p><strong>Prototypes</strong>: Product discovery involves running a series of very quick experiments, and to do this quickly and cheaply, we use prototypes rather than products. Great product teams test 10-20 product ideas per week.</p><p><strong>Product Delivery</strong></p><p>The purpose of product delivery is to build and deliver production-quality products, something that can be sold and create a business.</p><p><strong>Product/Market Fit</strong></p><p>We are striving to build the smallest possible product that meets the needs of a specific market of customers.</p><p><strong>Product Vision</strong></p><p>This is the long-term objective of the product, 2-10 years out, and is how the product organization intends to deliver on the company’s mission.</p><h5>Chapter 9 - Principles of Strong Product Teams</h5><p>Product teams need to be built of missionaries: people that believe in the vision and are committed to solving problems for their customers.</p><p>A product team is composed of a product manager, a product designer, and 2-12 engineers.</p><p>All other things being equal, a co-located team will significantly outperform a dispersed team.</p><p>Product teams should stay together in general. It takes time to learn how to work together, and it can take time to gain enough expertise to innovate. They also need to feel ownership.</p><p>Three reasons to build product teams this way:</p><ol><li>Collaboration is built on relationships, and product teams—especially co-located ones—are designed to nurture these relationships.</li><li>To innovate you need expertise, and durable product teams are required to build this expertise.</li><li>The product team needs to understand the business objectives and context, and feel full ownership and responsibility for the outcome.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 13 - The Product Manager</h5><p>The product manager needs to be among the strongest talent in the company.</p><p>There are four key responsibilities of the product manager:</p><ol><li><strong>Deep knowledge of the customer</strong>: their issues, pains, desires, how they think, how they work, and how they decide to buy. They need to be experts on the product.</li><li><strong>Deep knowledge of the data</strong>: they need to be comfortable with data &amp; analytics.</li><li><strong>Deep knowledge of the business</strong>: they need to understand the role the product plays in the business, and how the business overall works.</li><li><strong>Deep knowledge of the market &amp; industry</strong>: they need to understand competitors, market trends, technology changes, customer behaviors &amp; expectations, and the role of social media.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 11 - The Product Designer</h5><p>Good product designers think about the customer’s whole journey over time. The list of touchpoints could be long, including questions like:</p><ul><li>How will customers first learn about the product?</li><li>How will we onboard a first‐time user and (perhaps gradually) reveal new functionality?</li><li>How might users interact at different times during their day?</li><li>What other things are competing for the user&#x27;s attention?</li><li>How might things be different for a one‐month‐old customer versus a one‐year‐old customer?</li><li>How will we motivate a user to a higher level of commitment to the product?</li><li>How will we create moments of gratification?</li><li>How will a user share his experience with others?</li><li>How will customers receive an offline service?</li><li>What is the perceived responsiveness of the product?</li></ul><p>There are <strong>three common problems related to product design</strong>:</p><ol><li>You as product manager try to do the design yourself</li><li>You as product manager don’t provide the designs but, rather, provide very high-level user stories to the engineers</li><li>You as product manager provide the interaction design—especially the wireframes—and then you use a visual or graphic designer to provide the visual design.</li></ol><p>All three situations are bad because they rarely provide good results. We need design to not just make our product beautiful but to help us discover the right product.</p><p>The five keys to a successful and healthy relationship with your designer:</p><ol><li><strong>Do whatever you need to do to have your designer sit next to you.</strong></li><li><strong>Include your designer from the very inception of every idea.</strong></li><li><strong>Include your designer in as many customer and user interactions as possible. Learn about the users and customers together.</strong></li><li><strong>Fight your temptation to provide your designer with your own design ideas.</strong></li><li><strong>Encourage your designer to iterate early and often.</strong> The best way you can encourage this is to not get all nitpicky about design details with the very early iterations.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 12 - The Engineers</h5><p>There are two types of discussions you should be engaging with your engineers on each day:</p><ol><li>Soliciting their ideas and input for the items you’re working on in discovery.</li><li>Clarifying questions on items they’re working on delivering to production.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 20 - Principles of Structuring Product Teams</h5><p>Here are some core principles to consider when structuring your product teams:</p><ol><li><strong>Alignment with investment strategy:</strong> you need to have an investment strategy and your team structure should be a reflection of that.</li><li><strong>Minimize dependencies:</strong> we want to minimize dependencies so teams can move faster and feel much more autonomous.</li><li><strong>Ownership and autonomy</strong>: this is what is going to help build teams of missionaries, not mercenaries.</li><li><strong>Maximize leverage:</strong> as orgs grow, there are common needs and the importance of shared services grows. This is done for speed and reliability. But it also creates dependencies and can impinge on autonomy.</li><li><strong>Product vision and strategy</strong>: you want an up-to-date vision and strategy, and you want product teams structured to deliver on them.</li><li><strong>Team size:</strong> This is a very practical principle. The minimum size for a product team is usually two engineers and a product manager, and if the team is responsible for user‐facing technology, then a product designer is needed, too.</li><li><strong>Alignment with architecture:</strong> Architectures drive technologies, which drive skill sets. While we&#x27;d love for every team to be a full stack team that can work on any layer of the architecture, in practice that&#x27;s often not an option.</li><li>When a company has not paid attention to the architecture when they assemble their teams it shows up a few different ways. First, the teams feel like they are constantly fighting the architecture. Second, interdependencies between teams seem disproportionate. Third, and really because of the first two, things move slowly, and teams don&#x27;t feel very empowered.</li><li><strong>Alignment with user or customer:</strong> aligning with user and customer has big benefits in situations like a marketplace, where the buyer and the seller could be quite different.</li><li><strong>Alignment with business:</strong> in larger companies there are often multiple lines of business with a common foundation. This is usually lower in priority because often different business units are selling to the same customers.</li><li><strong>Structure is a moving target:</strong> Realize that the optimal structure of the product organization is a moving target. The organization’s needs should and will change over time. It’s not like you’ll need to reorganize every few months, but reviewing your team structure every year or so makes sense.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 23 - The Alternative to Roadmaps</h5><p>Roadmaps serve two purposes we still need to fulfill:</p><ol><li>Management wants to make sure that teams are working on the highest-business-value items first.</li><li>There are cases where others need to make date-based commitments, and the roadmap is where they see and track those commitments.</li></ol><p>To figure out the best ways to solve business problems, teams need the business context, which is provided by two main things:</p><ol><li>The product vision and strategy</li><li>The business objectives</li></ol><p>The grief from commitments and specific dates all stems from one problem: the commitments are made too early, before teams know if they can deliver and whether what is delivered will solve the customer problem.</p><p>The solution? The product team asks for time to do product discovery before commitments are made, and then afterwards commits to dates and deliverables.</p><h5>Chapter 24 - Product Vision and Product Strategy</h5><p><strong>Product vision</strong>: the future we are trying to create, typically 2-5 years away.</p><p><strong>Mission statement</strong>: more general statements that don’t go into detail about how we’ll accomplish it.</p><p><strong>Product strategy</strong>: the sequence of products or releases we plan to deliver on the path to realizing the product vision.</p><p>Product vision should be <strong><em>inspiring</em></strong>, the product strategy should be <strong><em>focused</em></strong>.</p><p><strong>Prioritizing markets</strong>: there are three critical inputs to your decision:</p><ol><li>The first is market sizing, usually referred to as <em>total addressable market</em> (TAM).</li><li>The second factor concerns distribution, usually referred to as <em>go to market</em> (GTM)</li><li>The third factor is a (very rough) estimation of how long it will take, referred to as <em>time to market</em> (TTM).</li></ol><h5>Chapter 25 - Principles of Product Vision</h5><p>These are the 10 key principles for coming up with an effective product vision.</p><ol><li><strong>Start with why.</strong> Use the product vision to articulate your purpose. Everything follows from that.</li><li><strong>Fall in love with the problem, not with the solution</strong></li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t be afraid to think big with vision</strong>. Too often I see product visions that are not nearly ambitious enough, the kind of thing we can pull off in six months to a year or so, and not substantial enough to inspire anyone.</li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t be afraid to disrupt yourselves because, if you don&#x27;t, someone else will</strong>. So many companies focus their efforts on protecting what they have rather than constantly creating new value for their customers.</li><li><strong>The product vision needs to inspire.</strong> Remember that we need product teams of missionaries, not mercenaries. More than anything else, it is the product vision that will inspire missionary‐like passion in the organization.</li><li><strong>Determine and embrace relevant and meaningful trends.</strong> Too many companies ignore important trends for far too long. It is not very hard to identify the important trends. What&#x27;s hard is to help the organization understand how those trends can be leveraged by your products to solve customer problems in new and better ways.</li><li><strong>Skate to where the puck is heading, not to where it was</strong>. An important element to product vision is identifying the things that are changing—as well as the things that likely won&#x27;t be changing—in the time frame of the product vision. Some product visions are wildly optimistic and unrealistic about how fast things will change, and others are far too conservative. This is usually the most difficult aspect of a good product vision.</li><li><strong>Be stubborn on vision but flexible on the details.</strong> So many teams give up on their product vision far too soon. This is usually called a vision pivot, but mostly it&#x27;s a sign of a weak product organization. It is never easy, so prepare yourself for that. But, also be careful you don&#x27;t get attached to details. It is very possible that you may have to adjust course to reach your desired destination. That&#x27;s called a discovery pivot, and there&#x27;s nothing wrong with that.</li><li><strong>Realize that any product vision is a leap of faith.</strong> If you could truly validate a vision, then your vision probably isn&#x27;t ambitious enough. It will take several years to know. So, make sure what you&#x27;re working on is meaningful, and recruit people to the product teams who also feel passionate about this problem and then be willing to work for several years to realize the vision.</li><li><strong>Evangelize continuously and relentlessly.</strong> There is no such thing as over‐communicating when it comes to explaining and selling the vision. Especially in larger organizations, there is simply no escaping the need for near‐constant evangelization.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 26 - Principles of Product Strategy</h5><p>Good product strategies have these five principles in common:</p><ol><li><strong>Focus on one target market or persona at a time</strong>. Don&#x27;t try to please everyone in a single release. Focus on one new target market, or one new target persona, for each release.</li><li><strong>Product strategy needs to be aligned with business strategy.</strong> The vision is meant to inspire the organization, but the organization ultimately is there to come up with solutions that deliver on the business strategy. So, for example, if that business strategy involves a change in monetization strategy or business model, then the product strategy needs to be aligned with this.</li><li><strong>Product strategy needs to be aligned with sales and go‐to‐market strategy.</strong> Similarly, if we have a new sales and marketing channel, we need to ensure that our product strategy is aligned with that new channel.</li><li><strong>Obsess over customers, not over competitors.</strong> Too many companies completely forget about their product strategy once they encounter a serious competitor. They panic and then find themselves chasing their competitor&#x27;s actions and no longer focusing on their customers. We can&#x27;t ignore the market, but remember that customers rarely leave us for our competitors. They leave us because we stop taking care of them.</li><li><strong>Communicate the strategy across the organization.</strong> This is part of evangelizing the vision. It&#x27;s important that all key business partners in the company know the customers we&#x27;re focused on now and which are planned for later. Stay especially closely synced with sales, marketing, finance, and service.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 27 - Product Principles</h5><p>A good complement to the product vision and product strategy is a set of product principles.</p><p><strong>Product principles</strong>: principles that speak to the nature of the product you want to create.</p><h5>Chapter 28 - The OKR Technique</h5><p>The Objectives and Key Results (OKR) technique is a tool for management, focus, and alignment. Here are the critical points for you to keep in mind when using the tool for product teams in product organizations.</p><ol><li>Objectives should be qualitative; key results need to be quantitative/measurable.</li><li>Key results should be a measure of business results, not output or tasks.</li><li>The rest of the company will use OKRs a bit differently, but for the product management, design, and technology organization, focus on the organization&#x27;s objectives and the objectives for each product team, which are designed to roll up and achieve the organization&#x27;s objectives. Don&#x27;t let personal objectives or functional team objectives dilute or confuse the focus.</li><li>Find a good cadence for your organization (typically, annually for an organization&#x27;s objectives and quarterly for a team&#x27;s objectives).</li><li>Keep the number of objectives and key results for the organization and for each team small (one to three objectives, with one to three key results each is typical).</li><li>It&#x27;s critical that every product team track their active progress against their objectives (which is typically weekly).</li><li>The objectives do not need to cover every little thing the team does, but they should cover what the team needs to accomplish.</li><li>It&#x27;s important that, one way or another, teams feel accountable to achieving their objectives. If they fail substantially, it&#x27;s worth having a post‐mortem/retrospective with some of their peers or management.</li><li>Agree as an organization on how you will be evaluating or scoring your key results. There are different approaches to this, and it&#x27;s in large part a reflection of your particular company culture. What&#x27;s important here is consistency across the organization, so that teams know when they can depend on one another. It&#x27;s common to define a score of 0 (on a scale from 0 to 1.0) if you essentially make no progress, 0.3 if you just did the bare minimum—what you know you can achieve, 0.7 if you&#x27;ve accomplished more than the minimum and have really done what you&#x27;d hoped you would achieve, and 1.0 if you&#x27;ve really surprised yourselves and others with a truly exceptional result, beyond what people were even hoping for.</li><li>Establish very clear and consistent ways to indicate when a key result is in reality a high‐integrity commitment (described earlier) rather than a normal objective. In other words, for most key results, you may be shooting for that 0.7 score. But for a high‐integrity commitment, these are special, and it&#x27;s more binary. You either delivered what you promised or you didn&#x27;t.</li><li>Be very transparent (across the product and technology organization) on what objectives each product team is working on and their current progress.</li><li>Senior management (CEO and executive team) is responsible for the organization&#x27;s objectives and key results. The heads of product and technology are responsible for the product team objectives (and ensuring they deliver on the organization&#x27;s objectives). The individual product teams are responsible for proposing the key results for each objective they&#x27;ve been assigned. It is normal to have a give‐and‐take process each quarter as the OKRs are finalized for each team and for the organization.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 31 - Product Evangelism</h5><p>Product evangelism is, as Guy Kawasaki put it years ago, “selling the dream.” It&#x27;s helping people imagine the future and inspiring them to help create that future.</p><p>There are several techniques to help communicate the value of what you&#x27;re proposing to your team, colleagues, stakeholders, executives, and investors. Here are 10 pieces of advice for product managers to sell the dream:</p><ol><li><strong>Use a prototype</strong>. For many people, it&#x27;s way too hard to see the forest through the trees. When all you have is a bunch of user stories, it can be difficult to see the big picture and how things hang together (or even if they hang together). A prototype lets them clearly see the forest and the trees.</li><li><strong>Share the pain</strong>. Show the team the customer pain you are addressing. This is why I love to bring engineers along for customer visits and meetings. For many people, they have to see (or experience) the pain themselves to get it.</li><li><strong>Share the vision</strong>. Make sure you have a very clear understanding of your product vision, product strategy, and product principles. Show how your work contributes to this vision and is true to the principles.</li><li><strong>Share learnings generously</strong>. After every user test or customer visit, share your learnings—not just the things that went well, but share the problems, too. Give your team the information they need to help come up with the solution.</li><li><strong>Share credit generously</strong>. Make sure the team views it as their product, not just your product. However, when things don&#x27;t go well, step forward and take responsibility for the miss and show the team you&#x27;re learning from the mistakes as well. They&#x27;ll respect you for it.</li><li><strong>Learn how to give a great demo</strong>. This is an especially important skill to use with customers and key execs. We&#x27;re not trying to teach them how to operate the product, and we&#x27;re not trying to do a user test on them. We&#x27;re trying to show them the value of what we&#x27;re building. A demo is not training, and it&#x27;s not a test. It&#x27;s a persuasive tool. Get really, really good at it.</li><li><strong>Do your homework</strong>. Your team and your stakeholders will all be much more likely to follow you if they believe you know what you&#x27;re talking about. Be the undisputed expert on your users and customers. And be the undisputed expert on your market, including your competitors and the relevant trends.</li><li><strong>Be genuinely excited.</strong> If you&#x27;re not excited about your product, you should probably fix that—either by changing what you work on or by changing your role.</li><li><strong>Learn to show some enthusiasm</strong>. Assuming you&#x27;re genuinely excited, it&#x27;s amazing to me how many product managers are so bad or so uncomfortable at showing enthusiasm. This matters—a lot. Absolutely be sincere, but let people see you&#x27;re genuinely excited. Enthusiasm really is contagious.</li><li><strong>Spend time with your team</strong>. If you&#x27;re not spending significant face time with your designer and every engineer on your team, then they can&#x27;t see the enthusiasm in your eyes. If your team is not co‐located, you&#x27;ll need to make a special effort to travel there and do this at least every couple months. Spending some personal time with every last person on the team pays off big in their level of motivation and, as a result, in the velocity of the team. It&#x27;s worth your time.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 33 - Principles of Product Discovery</h5><p>There are a set of core principles on how to do customer discovery:</p><ol><li><strong>We know we can&#x27;t count on our customers (or our executives or stakeholders) to tell us what to build.</strong> Customers don&#x27;t know what&#x27;s possible, and with technology products, none of us know what we really want until we actually see it.</li><li><strong>The most important thing is to establish compelling value.</strong> It&#x27;s all hard, but the hardest part of all is creating the necessary value so that customers ultimately choose to buy or to use. We can survive for a while with usability issues or performance issues, but without the core value, we really have nothing. As a result, this is generally where we&#x27;ll need to spend most of our discovery time.</li><li><strong>As hard and important as the engineering is, coming up with a good user experience is usually even harder, and more critical to success.</strong> While every product team has engineers, not every team has the necessary product design skills, and even when they do, are they being used the way we need to use them?</li><li><strong>Functionality, design, and technology are inherently intertwined.</strong></li><li><strong>We expect that many of our ideas won&#x27;t work out, and the ones that do will require several iterations.</strong> We approach discovery with the mindset that many, if not most, of our ideas won&#x27;t work out. The most common reason for this is value, but sometimes the design is too complicated, and sometimes it would take far too long to build, and sometimes there turn out to be legal or privacy issues. The point is we need to be open to solving the underlying problem in different ways if necessary.</li><li><strong>We must validate our ideas on real users and customers.</strong> One of the most common traps in product is to believe that we can anticipate our customer&#x27;s actual response to our products. We might be basing that on actual customer research or on our own experiences, but in any case, we know today that we must validate our actual ideas on real users and customers. We need to do this before we spend the time and expense to build an actual product, and not after.</li><li><strong>Our goal in discovery is to validate our ideas the fastest, cheapest way possible.</strong> Discovery is about the need for speed. This lets us try out many ideas, and for the promising ideas, try out multiple approaches. There are many different types of ideas, many different types of products, and a variety of different risks that we need to address (value risk, usability risk, feasibility risk, and business risk). So, we have a wide range of techniques, each suitable to different situations.</li><li><strong>We need to validate the feasibility of our ideas during discovery, not after.</strong> If the first time your developers see an idea is at sprint planning, you have failed. We need to ensure the feasibility before we decide to build, not after. Not only does this end up saving a lot of wasted time, but it turns out that getting the engineer&#x27;s perspective earlier also tends to improve the solution itself, and it&#x27;s critical for shared learning.</li><li><strong>We need to validate the business viability of our ideas during discovery, not after.</strong> Similarly, it is absolutely critical to ensure that the solution we build will meet the needs of our business—before we take the time and expense to build out that product. Business viability includes financial considerations, marketing (both brand and go‐to‐market considerations), sales, legal, business development, and senior executives. Few things destroy morale or confidence in the product manager more than finding out after a product has been built that the product manager did not understand some essential aspect of the business.</li><li><strong>It&#x27;s about shared learning.</strong> One of the keys to having a team of missionaries rather than a team of mercenaries is that the team has learned together. They have seen the customer&#x27;s pain together, they have watched together as some ideas failed and others worked, and they all understand the context for why this is important and what needs to be done.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 34 - Discovery Techniques Overview</h5><p><strong>Discovery Framing Techniques</strong></p><p>There are two goals here:</p><ol><li><strong>Ensure the team is aligned and clear on purpose:</strong> the business objective, the specific problem we’re solving for customers, which customers, and how you’ll know you’ve succeeded.</li><li><strong>Identify the big risks to be tackled during discovery.</strong></li></ol><p>Some risks to be considered:</p><ul><li>Technology risk—will our technology perform and scale with this solution?</li><li>Usability risk—will this change make our product harder to use?</li><li>Value risk—do customers want this solved and is our solution good enough to get people to switch from what they have now?</li><li>Financial risk—can we afford this solution?</li><li>Business development risk—does this solution work for our partners?</li><li>Marketing risk—is this solution consistent with our brand?</li><li>Sales risk—is this solution something our sales staff is equipped to sell?</li><li>Legal risk—is this something we can do from a legal or compliance perspective?</li><li>Ethical risk—is this solution something we should do?</li></ul><p>There are many different ways to assess an opportunity. Here are three:</p><ol><li>An <em>opportunity assessment</em> is designed for the vast majority of product work, which ranges from a simple optimization to a feature to a medium‐sized project.</li><li>A <em>customer letter</em> is designed for larger projects or initiatives that often have multiple goals and a more complicated desired outcome.</li><li>A <em>startup canvas</em> for those times you&#x27;re creating an entirely new product line or a new business.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 35 - Opportunity Assessment Technique</h5><p>The idea is to answer four key questions about the discovery work you are about to undertake:</p><ol><li>What business objective is this work intended to address? (<em>Objective</em>)</li><li>How will you know if you&#x27;ve succeeded? (<em>Key results</em>)</li><li>What problem will this solve for our customers? (<em>Customer problem</em>)</li><li>What type of customer are we focused on? (<em>Target market</em>)</li></ol><h5>Chapter 36 - Customer Letter Technique</h5><p>Amazon has the product manager write an imagined press release for when the product launches. How does it improve the life of our customers? What are the real benefits to them?</p><p>In the customer letter technique, rather than communicate the benefits in a press release format, you describe them in the format of a customer letter written to the CEO. The customer describes how it has changed or improved his or her life. It also includes an imagined congratulatory response from the CEO to the product team explaining how this has helped the business.</p><h5>Chapter 38 - Story Map Technique</h5><p>These are two‐dimensional maps, in which major user activities are arrayed along the horizontal dimension, loosely ordered by time from left to right. So, if there are a dozen major user activities, they would be along the top from left to right, generally in the order you would do them.</p><p>Along the vertical dimension, we have a progressive level of detail. As we flesh out each major activity into sets of user tasks, we add stories for each of those tasks. The critical tasks are higher vertically than the optional tasks.</p><p>If you lay out your system this way, you can, at a glance, get the holistic view and consider where to draw the line in terms of different releases and their associated objectives.</p><p>We can use this story map to frame our prototypes, and then as we get feedback on our prototypes and learn how people interact with our product ideas, we can easily update the story map to serve as a living reflection of the prototypes. As we finalize our discovery work and progress into delivery, the stories from the map move right into the product backlog.</p><h5>Chapter 39 - Customer Discovery Program Technique</h5><p>You want to develop a group of at least six reference customers in your specific target market segment, who are willing to work with you on developing a product: testing out prototypes, giving feedback, etc. Ideally they are well-recognized, marquee names, so you can leverage them later for sales and marketing.</p><h5>Chapter 41 - Customer Interviews</h5><p>In every user or customer interaction, we always have the opportunity to learn some valuable insights. Here&#x27;s what I&#x27;m always trying to understand:</p><ul><li>Are your customers who you think they are?</li><li>Do they really have the problems you think they have?</li><li>How does the customer solve this problem today?</li><li>What would be required for them to switch?</li></ul><p>Here are some tips for getting the most out of customer interviews:</p><ul><li><strong>Frequency.</strong> Establish a regular cadence of customer interviews. This should not be a once‐in‐a‐while thing. A bare minimum would be two to three hours of customer interviews per week, every week.</li><li><strong>Purpose</strong>. You are not trying to prove anything during these interviews, one way or the other. You&#x27;re just trying to understand and learn quickly. This mindset is critical and needs to be sincere.</li><li><strong>Recruiting users and customers</strong>. I talk much more about this when we discuss the usability testing technique, but for now, be sure to talk primarily to people in your intended target market. You&#x27;re looking for about an hour of their time.</li><li><strong>Location</strong>. It&#x27;s always amazing to see customers in their native habitat. There&#x27;s so much to learn just by observing their environment. But it&#x27;s also fine to meet them somewhere convenient or have them come to your office. If you need to do this over a video call, that&#x27;s not as good, but much better than not doing at all.</li><li><strong>Preparation</strong>. Be clear beforehand what problem it is you think they have, and think about how you&#x27;ll either confirm or contradict that.</li><li><strong>Who should attend</strong>. My favorite is to bring three people to these interviews: the product manager, the product designer, and one of the engineers from the team (we normally rotate among those that want to attend). Usually, the designer drives (because they&#x27;ve usually been trained how to do this well), the product manager takes notes, and the developer observes.</li><li><strong>Interview</strong>. Work to keep things natural and informal, ask open‐ended questions, and try to learn what they&#x27;re doing today (not so much what they wish they were doing, although that&#x27;s also interesting).</li><li><strong>Afterward</strong>. Debrief with your colleagues to see if you&#x27;ve all heard the same things and had the same learnings. If you made any promises to the customer during that session, be sure you keep them.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 42 - Concierge Test Technique</h5><p>The idea behind the concierge test is that we do the customer’s job for them. It requires going out to the actual users and customers and asking them to show you how they work so that you can learn how to do their job, and provide them a better solution.</p><h5>Chapter 43 - The Power of Customer Misbehavior</h5><p>There are two main ways to come up with product opportunities:</p><ol><li>Assess the market opportunities and pick potentially lucrative areas where significant pain exists.</li><li>Look at what technology or data enables—what’s now possible—and match that up with a significant pain.</li></ol><p>Either can get to a winning product.</p><p>But there’s a third approach too:</p><ol><li>Allow, or even encourage, customers to use your product to solve problems other than what was planned for or officially supported.</li></ol><p>Creating a public API is one of the ways to encourage this behavior.</p><h5>Chapter 45 - Principles of Prototypes</h5><p>Here are 5 key principles behind the use of prototypes:</p><ol><li>The overarching purpose of any form of prototype is to <strong>learn something at a much lower cost in terms of time and effort than building out a product</strong>. All forms of prototype should require at least an order of magnitude less time and effort as the eventual product.</li><li>Realize that one of the key benefits of any form of prototype is to <strong>force you to think through a problem at a substantially deeper level than if we just talk about it or write something down.</strong> This is why the very act of creating a prototype so often exposes major issues otherwise left uncovered until much later.</li><li>Similarly, a <strong>prototype is also a powerful tool for team collaboration.</strong> Members of the product team and business partners can all experience the prototype to develop shared understanding.</li><li>There are many different possible levels of <em>fidelity</em> for a prototype. The fidelity primarily refers to how realistic the prototype looks. There is no such thing as one appropriate level of fidelity. Sometimes we don&#x27;t need the prototype to look realistic at all, and other times it needs to be very realistic. The principle is that <strong>we create the <em>right</em> level of fidelity for its intended purpose</strong>, and we acknowledge that lower fidelity is faster and cheaper than higher fidelity, so we only do higher fidelity when we need to.</li><li>The <strong>primary purpose of a prototype is to tackle one or more product risks (value, usability, feasibility, or viability) in discovery</strong>; however, in many cases, the prototype goes on to provide a second benefit, which is to communicate to the engineers and the broader organization what needs to be built. This is often referred to as <em>prototype as spec</em>. In many cases, the prototype is sufficient for this, but in other cases—especially when the engineers are not co‐located or when the product is especially complex—the prototype will likely need to be supplemented with additional details (usually, use cases, business rules, and acceptance criteria).</li></ol><h5>Chapter 46 - Feasibility Prototype Technique</h5><p>There are often times when engineers identify a significant feasibility risk involved in solving a particular problem. Some examples:</p><ul><li>Algorithm concerns</li><li>Performance concerns</li><li>Scalability concerns</li><li>Use of a technology the team has not used before</li><li>Use of a third-party component or service the team has not used before</li></ul><p>The main technique used for tackling these types of risks is for one or more of the engineers to build a feasibility prototype. This is often referred to as a proof-of-concept (POC).</p><p>These are meant to be quick and dirty, often throwaway code, and should only take a day or two.</p><h5>Chapter 47 - User Prototype Technique</h5><p>User prototypes range from low-fidelity—useful to represent things like information and workflow—to high-fidelity, where you can test things like the visual design.</p><p>The biggest limitation of a user prototype is that you can’t prove anything—like whether your product will sell.</p><h5>Chapter 48 - Live-Data Prototype Technique</h5><p>Live data prototypes are very limited implementations of what you eventually want to build.</p><p>The key is to be able to send a limited amount of traffic, and collect analytics on how this live-data prototype is being used.</p><p>A live-data prototype is a small fraction of the productization effort, but you can get big value on it. But keep in mind building a shippable product based on it will likely require 90-95% more effort, and you need to plan for that.</p><h5>Chapter 49 - Hybrid Prototype Technique</h5><p>Sometimes called a <strong>Wizard of Oz</strong> prototype, this is a combination of a front-end user experience with someone in the backend handling what would be performed by automation in the future.</p><p>It’s not scalable, but it can appear to the user to perform just like the product will in future.</p><h5>Chapter 50 - Testing Usability</h5><p>Modern usability testing is done during discovery, using prototypes, before the product is built.</p><p><strong>Recruiting Users to Test</strong></p><ul><li>If you have a customer-discovery program, you’re all set.</li><li>You can advertise for test subjects on something like Craigslist, or set up an SEM campaign.</li><li>If you have a list of emails of your users, you can select from here.</li><li>You can solicit volunteers on your company website (make sure to still call and screen).</li><li>You can always go where your users congregate: trade shows for biz software, shopping centres for ecommerce, etc.</li><li>If you’re asking users to come to your location, you’ll need to compensate them for their time. You can often arrange to meet them at a mutually convenient location like a Starbucks.</li></ul><p><strong>Preparing the Test</strong></p><ul><li>Do usability testing with a high-fidelity user prototype.</li><li>Have the product manager, product designer, and one engineer (rotate in your team) at the test.</li><li>Define in advance the set of tasks that you want to test.</li><li>One person should administer the test and one should take notes.</li><li>The other testing environment that works well is your customer’s office. You can learn all kinds of additional things here too, like their setup, computer and internet speed, etc.</li></ul><p><strong>Testing Your Prototype</strong></p><ul><li>When you start the test, make sure to tell them it’s a prototype, an early idea, and not real. Remind them that you’re testing the idea, not them, and they won’t hurt your feelings with candid feedback.</li><li>See if they can tell from the landing page of the prototype what you do. It’s a good learning opportunity.</li><li>During testing, keep the users in use mode, and out of critique mode. What matters is whether they can do the tasks they need to do, not whether something should be changed.</li><li>The main skill you need during testing is to keep quiet.</li><li>There are three important cases you’re looking for: (1) the user got through the task with no problem at all and no help; (2) the user struggled and moaned a bit, but he eventually got through it; or (3) he got so frustrated he gave up.</li><li>Avoid giving help or leading them in any way. You can ask them what they’re looking for, or to clarify something, but try not to give them help.</li><li>If they’re stuck, act like a parrot and narrate what you see them doing. It will prompt them to tell you what they’re trying to do, or what they’re looking for.</li><li>You’re trying to understand how your target users think about the problem and to identify places in your prototype where the model the software presents is inconsistent or incompatible with how the user is thinking about the problem.</li><li>Pay attention to body language and tone. It’s obvious when they don’t like the ideas, and clear when they genuinely do.</li></ul><p>After each test, have the product manager or designer write up a short summary of learnings and share with the rest of the product team.</p><h5>Chapter 51 - Testing Value</h5><p>There are three parts to testing value:</p><ol><li>Testing demand: is there actually demand for what we want to build?</li><li>Testing value qualitatively: do customers love this? Will they pay for it?</li><li>Testing value quantitatively: how well does our solution solve the problem?</li></ol><h5>Chapter 52 - Demand Testing Techniques</h5><p>The demand-testing technique is called a <strong>fake door test</strong>.</p><p>We put a button or menu in the user experience where they expect it to be, but when the user clicks that button, rather than taking them to the experience (it could be a series of buttons/pages), we take them to a page explaining that we’re working on it and looking for feedback.</p><p>In practice, there is very often demand for a product, and users will sign up for a trial, but getting them to switch is very difficult.</p><h5>Chapter 53 - Qualitative Value Testing Techniques</h5><p>Product teams should be doing at least two or three qualitative value tests every week. Here’s how:</p><ul><li><strong>Interview first:</strong> start the user test with a short user interview to make sure the user has the problems we think they have, find out how they currently solve those problems, and what it would take for them to switch.</li><li><strong>Usability test</strong>: to test value, the user first has to understand the product and how it works. So we do a usability test first, usually using a high-fidelity user prototype.</li><li><strong>Using money to demonstrate value</strong>: ask the customer if they would get their credit card out and buy the product. If it’s expensive, ask them to sign a non-binding letter of intent to buy.</li><li><strong>Using reputation to demonstrate value</strong>: ask them how likely they would be to recommend the product to their friends or co-workers or boss (typically on a scale of 1-10). Ask them to share on social media. Or ask for the email of their boss or friends for a recommendation.</li><li><strong>Using time to demonstrate value</strong>: especially for business products, ask the person if they’d be willing to schedule some significant time to work on the product with you.</li><li><strong>Using access to demonstrate value</strong>: you can ask people to provide the login credentials for whatever product they would be switching from (because you tell them there’s a migration utility or something).</li></ul><p>Remember, the aim is rapid learning. If you get a substantially different response to the prototype for some reason, your job is to figure out why.</p><p>If you are a PM, make sure you are at every single qualitative value test. Do not delegate or hire for this.</p><h5>Chapter 54 - Quantitative Value Testing Techniques</h5><p>Qualitative testing is about learning and insights; quantitative testing is about collecting evidence.</p><ul><li><strong>A/B testing</strong>: in discovery A/B testing we typically show the current product to 99% of our users, and the live-data prototype to 1% of our users. We monitor it closely.</li><li><strong>Invite-only testing</strong>: if you’re more conservative, or don’t have enough users to show 1% (or even 10%), you can do invite-only tests. This data isn’t as predictive as a true A/B test.</li><li><strong>Analytics</strong>: you can use various types of analytics (user behavior, business, financial, performance, operational costs, go-to-market costs, sentiment) to generate insights about your product.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 55 - Testing Feasibility</h5><p>When we talk about validating feasibility, the engineers are really trying to answer several related questions:</p><ul><li>Do we know how to build this?</li><li>Do we have the skills on the team to build this?</li><li>Do we have enough time to build this?</li><li>Do we need any architectural changes to build this?</li><li>Do we have on hand all the components we need to build this?</li><li>Do we understand the dependencies involved in building this?</li><li>Will the performance be acceptable?</li><li>Will it scale to the levels we need?</li><li>Do we have the infrastructure necessary to test and run this?</li><li>Can we afford the cost to provision this?</li></ul><p>If the engineers have been following along as the team has been developing and testing new ideas, they can give a much better answer to “What’s the best way to do this and how long would it take?” They might need to create a feasibility prototype (POC) to answer, but they should have more context.</p><h5>Chapter 56 - Testing Business Viability</h5><p>There are three different ways to show a prototype, and you must use the right technique for the situation:</p><ol><li><strong>User test</strong>: when we test our product ideas on real users and customers. The purpose is to test usability and value of the prototype or product.</li><li><strong>Product demo</strong>: when you sell your product to prospective customers or users (or evangelize it internally). This is a sales or persuasion tool and product marketing often leads here. The purpose is to show off the value of the prototype or product.</li><li><strong>Walkthrough</strong>: when you show your prototype to a stakeholder and want to make sure they see and note everything that might be a concern. The purpose is to give them the opportunity to spot problems. The product manager usually drives.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 58 - Discovery Sprint Technique</h5><p>A discovery sprint is a one‐week time box of product discovery work, designed to tackle a substantial problem or risk your product team is facing.</p><p>It starts with framing the problem by mapping the problem space, picking the problem to be solved and the target customer, and then progresses into pursuing several different approaches to the solution. The team next narrows down and fleshes out the different potential solutions, then creates a high‐fidelity user prototype—finally, putting that prototype in front of actual target users and observing their reactions.</p><p>There are three situations where a discovery sprint is recommended:</p><ol><li>When the team has something big and critically important and/or difficult to tackle.</li><li>When the team is just learning how to do product discovery.</li><li>When things are moving too slow, and the team needs to recalibrate on how fast they can and should be moving.</li></ol><p>Good book on this: <strong>Spring: How to Solve Big Problems and Test New Ideas in Just Five Days.</strong></p><h5>Chapter 59 - Pilot Team Technique</h5><p>One of the simplest ways to get product teams to shift to a new way of working is to introduce the changes to a <strong>pilot team</strong>, who tries things out for a quarter or two.</p><p>If they’re successful, you can learn what worked and what didn’t, and then roll out the changes to other teams.</p><h5>Chapter 60 - Weaning an Organization Off Roadmaps</h5><p>To get organizations to shift off of roadmaps:</p><ol><li>Plan to continue with your existing roadmap process for 6-12 months</li><li>Every time you reference a product roadmap item, include a reminder of the business outcome that feature is intended to help.</li></ol><p>The goal is that over time, the organization moves its focus from specific features launching on specific dates to business results.</p><p>Keep in mind why stakeholders like roadmaps:</p><ol><li>They want some visibility into what you’re working on, and reassurance that you’re working on the most important items.</li><li>They want to be able to plan the business and need to know when critical things will happen.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 61 - Managing Stakeholders</h5><p>How to determine a stakeholder: if they have veto power or can prevent your work from launching.</p><p>Responsibilities of the product manager re: stakeholders:</p><ol><li>Understand the considerations and constraints of various stakeholders, and bring this knowledge into the product team</li><li>Convince stakeholders that they understand their issues and is committed to coming up with a solution that works for them and the customer.</li></ol><p>To succeed with stakeholders:</p><ol><li><strong>Be a competent product manager:</strong> have a deep understanding of your customers, the analytics, the technology, your industry, and in particular, your business.</li><li><strong>Spend one-on-one time with key stakeholders</strong>: sit down with them and listen. Explain that the better you understand their constraints, the better your solutions will be. Ask lots of questions and be open and transparent.</li><li><strong>Show the solution as you build it</strong>: a common mistake is to show your solution too late. If there are issues that weren’t considered, the stakeholder will be frustrated, but so will your engineering team.</li><li><strong>Avoid a battle of opinions</strong>: try and de-risk opinion-based choices with data, and build a collaborative, mutually respectful relationship with your stakeholders.</li></ol><p>How to avoid slowing down innovation as you scale:</p><ol><li>Have a very strong and intentional product culture. Share this clearly with new hires.</li><li>Make the expectation of how they will work explicit in interviewing and onboarding. Encourage new hires to shed the habits of previous companies if they weren’t good at it.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 64 - Good Product Team/Bad Product Team</h5><p>Good teams have a compelling product vision that they pursue with a missionary‐like passion. Bad teams are mercenaries.</p><p>With a grateful nod to Ben Horowitz&#x27;s classic post “Good Product Manager/Bad Product Manager,” here are some of the important differences between strong product teams and weak teams:</p><ul><li>Good teams have a compelling product vision that they pursue with a missionary‐like passion. Bad teams are mercenaries.</li><li>Good teams get their inspiration and product ideas from their vision and objectives, from observing customers&#x27; struggle, from analyzing the data customers generate from using their product, and from constantly seeking to apply new technology to solve real problems. Bad teams gather requirements from sales and customers.</li><li>Good teams understand who each of their key stakeholders are, they understand the constraints that these stakeholders operate in, and they are committed to inventing solutions that work not just for users and customers, but also work within the constraints of the business. Bad teams gather requirements from stakeholders.</li><li>Good teams are skilled in the many techniques to rapidly try out product ideas to determine which ones are truly worth building. Bad teams hold meetings to generate prioritized roadmaps.</li><li>Good teams love to have brainstorming discussions with smart thought leaders from across the company. Bad teams get offended when someone outside their team dares to suggest they do something.</li><li>Good teams have product, design, and engineering sit side by side, and they embrace the give and take between the functionality, the user experience, and the enabling technology. Bad teams sit in their respective silos, and ask that others make requests for their services in the form of documents and scheduling meetings.</li><li>Good teams are constantly trying out new ideas to innovate, but doing so in ways that protect the revenue and protect the brand. Bad teams are still waiting for permission to run a test.</li><li>Good teams insist they have the skill sets on their team, such as strong product design, necessary to create winning products. Bad teams don&#x27;t even know what product designers are.</li><li>Good teams ensure that their engineers have time to try out the prototypes in discovery every day so that they can contribute their thoughts on how to make the product better. Bad teams show the prototypes to the engineers during sprint planning so they can estimate.</li><li>Good teams engage directly with end users and customers every week, to better understand their customers, and to see the customer&#x27;s response to their latest ideas. Bad teams think they are the customer.</li><li>Good teams know that many of their favorite ideas won&#x27;t end up working for customers, and even the ones that could will need several iterations to get to the point where they provide the desired outcome. Bad teams just build what&#x27;s on the roadmap, and are satisfied with meeting dates and ensuring quality.</li><li>Good teams understand the need for speed and how rapid iteration is the key to innovation, and they understand this speed comes from the right techniques and not forced labor. Bad teams complain they are slow because their colleagues are not working hard enough.</li><li>Good teams make high‐integrity commitments after they&#x27;ve evaluated the request and ensured they have a viable solution that will work for the customer and the business. Bad teams complain about being a sales‐driven company.</li><li>Good teams instrument their work so they can immediately understand how their product is being used and make adjustments based on the data. Bad teams consider analytics and reporting a nice to have.</li><li>Good teams integrate and release continuously, knowing that a constant stream of smaller releases provides a much more stable solution for their customers. Bad teams test manually at the end of a painful integration phase and then release everything at once.</li><li>Good teams obsess over their reference customers. Bad teams obsess over their competitors.</li><li>Good teams celebrate when they achieve a significant impact to the business results. Bad teams celebrate when they finally release something.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 65 - Top Reasons for Loss of Innovation</h5><p>Organizations that lose the ability to innovate at scale are inevitably missing one or more of the following attributes:</p><ol><li>Customer‐centric culture.</li><li>Compelling product vision.</li><li>Focused product strategy.</li><li>Strong product managers.</li><li>Stable product teams.</li><li>Engineers in discovery.</li><li>Corporate courage.</li><li>Empowered product teams.</li><li>Product mindset.</li><li>Time to innovate.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 66 - Top Reasons for Loss of Velocity</h5><ol><li><strong>Technical debt</strong></li><li><strong>Lack of strong product managers</strong></li><li><strong>Lack of delivery management</strong></li><li><strong>Infrequent release cycles</strong>. Your team should release no less frequently than every two weeks (very good teams release multiple times per day). Correcting this typically means getting serious about test automation and release automation so the team can move quickly and release with confidence.</li><li><strong>Lack of product vision and strategy</strong></li><li><strong>Lack of co‐located, durable product teams</strong></li><li><strong>Not including engineers early enough during product discovery</strong></li><li><strong>Not utilizing product design in discovery</strong> and instead having them try to do their work at the same time the engineers are trying to build</li><li><strong>Changing priorities</strong></li><li><strong>A consensus culture</strong></li></ol><h5>Chapter 67 - Establishing a Strong Product Culture</h5><p>I think of product culture along two dimensions:</p><ol><li>Whether the company can consistently innovate to come up with valuable solutions for their customers. This is what product discovery is all about.</li><li>Execution. It doesn&#x27;t matter how great the ideas are if you can&#x27;t get a productized, shippable version delivered to your customers. This is what product delivery is all about.</li></ol><p>What does it really mean to have a <strong>strong innovation culture</strong>?</p><ul><li><strong>Culture of experimentation</strong>—teams know they can run tests; some will succeed and many will fail, and this is acceptable and understood.</li><li><strong>Culture of open minds</strong>—teams know that good ideas can come from anywhere and aren&#x27;t always obvious at the outset.</li><li><strong>Culture of empowerment</strong>—individuals and teams feel empowered to be able to try out an idea.</li><li><strong>Culture of technology</strong>—teams realize that true innovation can be inspired by new technology and analysis of data, as well as by customers.</li><li><strong>Culture of business‐ and customer‐savvy teams—teams</strong>, including developers, have a deep understanding of the business needs and constraints, and understanding of (and access to) the users and customers.</li><li><strong>Culture of skill‐set and staff diversity</strong>—teams appreciate that different skills and backgrounds contribute to innovative solutions—especially engineering, design, and product.</li><li><strong>Culture of discovery techniques</strong>—the mechanisms are in place for ideas to be tested out quickly and safely (protecting brand, revenue, customers, and colleagues).</li></ul><p>What does it really mean to have a <strong>strong execution culture</strong>?</p><ul><li><strong>Culture of urgency</strong>—people feel like they are in wartime, and that if they don&#x27;t find a way to move fast, then bad things could happen.</li><li><strong>Culture of high‐integrity commitments</strong>—teams understand the need for (and power of) commitments, but they also insist on high‐integrity commitments.</li><li><strong>Culture of empowerment</strong>—teams feel as though they have the tools, resources, and permission to do whatever is necessary to meet their commitments.</li><li><strong>Culture of accountability</strong>—people and teams feel a deep responsibility to meet their commitments. Accountability also implies consequences—not necessarily being terminated, except in extreme and repeated situations, but more likely consequences to their reputations among their peers.</li><li><strong>Culture of collaboration</strong>—while team autonomy and empowerment is important, teams understand their even higher need to work together to accomplish many of the biggest and most meaningful objectives.</li><li><strong>Culture of results</strong>—is the focus on output or is the focus on results?</li><li><strong>Culture of recognition</strong>—teams often take their cues from what is rewarded and what is accepted. Is it just the team that comes up with the great new idea that gets rewarded, or the team that delivered on a brutally tough commitment? And what is the message if missing a commitment is seen as easily excusable?</li></ul><p>So, if these characteristics help define each culture, this begs some pretty tough questions:</p><ul><li>Is an innovation culture in any way inherently at odds with an execution culture?</li><li>Does a strong execution culture lead to a stressful (or worse) work environment?</li><li>What types of people, including leaders, are attracted to, and needed, for each type of culture?</li></ul><p>I can tell you that there do exist companies that are very strong at both consistent innovation and execution. Amazon is one of the best examples. However, it&#x27;s also well known that the Amazon work environment is not for the faint of heart. I&#x27;ve found that most companies that are exceptionally strong at execution are pretty tough places to work.</p><p>In my experience working with companies, only a few companies are strong at both innovation and execution. Many are good at execution but weak at innovation; some are strong at innovation and just okay at execution; and a depressing number of companies are poor at both innovation and execution (usually older companies that lost their product mojo a long time ago, but still have a strong brand and customer base to lean on).</p><p>In any case, what I hope you and your team will consider doing is assess yourself along these dimensions of innovation and execution, and then ask yourselves where you would like to be, or think you need to be, as a team or company.</p><p>‍</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Who Moved My Cheese? by Spencer Johnson: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/who-moved-my-cheese-spencer-johnson</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2023 01:38:56 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A silly story about mice and cheese meant to demonstrate that change is uncomfortable but we’re better off adapting to it.The story might be useful for children; I think it’s just too silly and condescending for many adults to take it seriously.The authors acknowledge that it’s not for everyone—apparently some people enjoy it!]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>The more important something is to you, the more you want to hold on to it.</li><li>If you aren’t willing to change, you’ll become extinct.</li><li>What would you do if you weren’t afraid?</li><li>Things are rarely as bad as we think they will be in our heads.</li><li>It’s better to take control of your own fate than let things happen to you.</li><li>Be aware of your surroundings—the market, the world, the company, etc.—so you know when things are starting to change.</li><li>Taking action—moving in a direction—is always better for figuring out what’s next when you’re uncertain.</li><li>Being afraid is what causes us so much anxiety; getting started and losing that fear makes us feel much better.</li><li>Imagine what your future will hold to motivate yourself to change in the present.</li><li>Old beliefs will keep you tied to old behaviors. You need new beliefs—and an open mind—to encourage new behaviors.</li><li>If you can laugh at your own folly, it will be much easier to change. Taking ourselves too seriously limits us to our old ways.</li><li>The biggest inhibitor to change always lies within ourselves.</li><li>We want to keep things simple, be flexible, and move quickly.</li><li>Beware of imposing change in others; they will resist it if you force them.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Sea Stories: My Life in Special Operations by William McRaven: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/sea-stories-william-mcraven</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2023 01:14:52 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A fun read full of stories that are modern legends: the Captain Phillips episode, the killing of Osama bin Laden, and more.There are people who are so impressive that they can inspire you through a book. They are real-life heroes.McRaven seems like one of those people, and he has lived more in his life than most of us could ever hope to.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>CHAPTER ONE: THE GREATEST GENERATION</h5><p>FONTAINEBLEAU, FRANCE</p><p>1960</p><p>The years at Lackland Air Force Base were filled with dove hunting in the fall, deer hunting through the winter, bridge for the women, poker for the men, golf on the odd weekends, and frequent trips to the Gulf Coast for fishing and more storytelling. I’m not really sure when the men got any work done, but as a kid, I thought it all seemed part of the rhythms of life—and I loved it.</p><p>Like all the men and women of their generation, they were children of World War I, lived through the Depression, and the men all fought in World War II and Korea. They were survivors. They didn’t complain. They didn’t blame others for their misfortune. They worked hard and expected the same from their children. They treasured their friendships. They fought for their marriages. They wore their patriotism on their sleeve, and while they weren’t naïve about America’s faults, they knew that no other country in the world valued their service and sacrifice as much as the United States did. They flew their flags proudly and without apology.</p><p>But I’m convinced that what made this generation so great was their ability to take the hardships that confronted them and turn them into laughter-filled, self-deprecating, unforgettable, sometimes unbelievable stories of life. My father used to tell me, “Bill, it’s all how you remember it.” The stories in this book are how I remember my life. I think I could sit at that table in Fontainebleau now… and tell a story or two.</p><h5>CHAPTER FOUR: THE ONLY EASY DAY WAS YESTERDAY</h5><p>CORONADO, CALIFORNIA</p><p>1977</p><p>One evolution at a time. One evolution at a time. These words would stick with me for the rest of my career. They summed up a philosophy for dealing with difficult times. Most BUD/S trainees dropped out because their event horizon was too far in the distance. They struggled not with the problem of the moment, but with what they perceived would be an endless series of problems, which they believed they couldn’t overcome. When you tackled just one problem, one event, or, in the vernacular of BUD/S training, one evolution at a time, then the difficult became manageable. Like many things in life, success in BUD/S didn’t always go to the strongest, the fastest, or the smartest. It went to the man who faltered, who failed, who stumbled, but who persevered, who got up and kept moving. Always moving forward, one evolution at a time.</p><h5>CHAPTER EIGHT: AMERICAN PIRATES</h5><p>Aboard the amphibious ship USS OGDEN, Indian Ocean</p><p>October 1990</p><p>As terrible as it sounds, every SEAL longs for a worthy fight, a battle of convictions, and an honorable war. War challenges your manhood. It reaffirms your courage. It sets you apart from the timid souls and the bench sitters. It builds unbreakable bonds among your fellow warriors. It gives your life meaning. Over time, I would get more than my fair share of war. Men would be lost. Innocents would be killed. Families would be forever changed. But somehow, inexplicably, war would never lose its allure. To the warrior, peace has no memories, no milestones, no adventures, no heroic deaths, no gut-wrenching sorrow, no jubilation, no remorse, no repentance, and no salvation. Peace was meant for some people, but probably not for me.</p><h5>CHAPTER ELEVEN: 1600 PENNSYLVANIA AVENUE</h5><p>THE WHITE HOUSE</p><p>October 2001</p><p>And then I said it—words that I would regret for the rest of my traveling days.</p><p>“Sir.” I paused. “I think we need to have everyone boarding a plane bound for the U.S. take their shoes off and have them inspected. Also, we need security to check every laptop. The battery on a laptop could be used to initiate a bomb.”</p><p>Downing didn’t hesitate. “Yes! Yes!” he shouted, clearly having the same difficulty with the air-to-ground communications. “I’ll talk to the President and get him to order it right away.”(In my defense, I only thought the order would be in place for a few weeks. Sorry… )Downing hung up, and within minutes the FAA had been ordered to upgrade their security protocols. An hour later, Richard Reid was apprehended upon landing at Boston’s Logan Airport, and within days the world of airline travel was never the same again.</p><p>Throughout history, there have always been warriors who understood the risks of serving. They understood that there was a chance their lives could be lost in the pursuit of a greater goal. They understood that they could perish while trying to protect others. To some outside the military, this belief may seem like naïve patriotism, misguided loyalty, or foolish enthusiasm—reasons given to young men and women by those in power to cover for adventurism or empire building. But I have learned many times over that those who serve do so with their eyes wide open. Young and old soldiers alike are not fooled by the political rhetoric. On the contrary, they question the cause every day, but they overcome their doubts and concerns because they are inspired by their fellow soldiers who serve nobly and not for some political agenda. Those who serve are serving for their hometown, their high school football team, their girlfriends and their boyfriends. They are serving and sacrificing because they believe in the America they grew up in. They know that America and the people who live in its big cities and small towns are worth the sacrifice, sometimes the ultimate sacrifice.</p><h5>CHAPTER THIRTEEN: WANTED DEAD OR ALIVE</h5><p>BAGHDAD, IRAQ</p><p>2008</p><p>He turned from the window, came and stood directly in front of me. He looked up at me, smiled, and said, “Well, you probably should have let them continue on.” It was not the response I was expecting, but in the years to come I would realize that the greatness of Dave Petraeus was his ability to shoulder the missteps and even the failures of his subordinates: to build loyalty through his personal sense of command responsibility. He knew that both Erwin and I were doing our best. We had made a mistake, one that he knew we would correct and learn from. But now was not the time for an ass chewing, but the time for understanding.</p><h5>CHAPTER SIXTEEN: THE NEXT GREATEST GENERATION</h5><p>THE UNKNOWN INFANTRYMAN</p><p>If a nation is to survive and thrive it must pass on the ideals that made it great and imbue in its citizens an indomitable spirit, a will to continue on regardless of how difficult the path, how long the journey, or how uncertain the outcome. People must have a true belief that tomorrow will be a better day—if only they fight for it and never give up. I saw this indomitable spirit in my parents and those who lived through the Great Depression and World War II—and I saw it again in the soldiers, sailors, airmen, and Marines whom I served with in Iraq and Afghanistan. And later when I was the chancellor of the University of Texas system, I saw it in equal amounts in the young students who sat in the schoolhouses across Texas. From the battlefields to the classrooms, I have seen the young men and women of this generation, the oft-maligned millennials. They are supposed to be pampered, entitled, and soft. I found them anything but. They are as courageous, heroic, and patriotic as their parents and grandparents before them. Those who fought and died or were wounded in Iraq and Afghanistan are the same young Americans who are building our bridges, finding the cures, and teaching our youth. They are the men and women who are volunteering to wear the uniform, fight the fires, and protect the people. They are not like my generation. They are better. They are more inclusive. They don’t see color, or ethnicity, or orientation. They value people for their friendship and their talents. They are more engaged. They will not stand by and watch bad things happen to good people. They are more questioning. They want to know why. Why are we going to war, why are we increasing our debt, why can’t we do something new and different? They are risk takers, entrepreneurs, givers of their time and energy. Above all, they are optimists—and as challenging as the times may seem right now, this generation believes that tomorrow will be a better day. I am convinced that history will someday record that these young Americans were the greatest generation of this century, and I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that we will all be just fine.</p><h5>CHAPTER SEVENTEEN: NEPTUNE’S SPEAR</h5><p>Clausewitz asserted that the only way for an attacking force to overcome the natural strength of the defense was through mass and maneuver. But special operations missions seemed to defy conventional wisdom—why was this? I concluded that special operations forces were able to achieve “relative superiority” over an enemy by developing a “simple plan, carefully concealed, repeatedly rehearsed, and executed with surprise, speed, and purpose.” And to compare my theory against real missions, I conducted eight case studies and developed a relative superiority model. The model showed how, in the course of a commando mission, the special operations force gained “relative superiority,” how long they maintained it, and when they lost it. What is crucial for the success of any special operations mission is to minimize the time from when you are vulnerable to when you achieve relative superiority. Unlike real military superiority, relative superiority only lasts for a short period of time. No matter how I compared each Abbottabad option to the relative superiority model, the outcome was the same. The best approach was the simplest and the most direct: fly to the target as quickly as possible, get bin Laden, and get out. Nothing complicated, nothing exotic, just like thousands of missions we had done before. By the end of the week I knew what needed to be done. What I didn’t know was, could it be done?</p><p>We set up our rehearsal command post in a small single-story building away from the main base. While the operators continued to exercise their tactical scheme of maneuver, my staff rehearsed the command and control aspect of the mission. The staff prepared detailed execution checklists, reviewed every possible scenario, and looked at every backup plan. I directed the staff to build a decision matrix, so that in the heat of the moment if something went wrong on the mission, I didn’t have to think through all the alternatives. We would work through all the possible problems ahead of time and be prepared with options. Most of my decisions were binary:</p><ul><li>If we were detected crossing the border would we continue? Yes or no?</li><li>If we were detected one hundred miles out? Yes or no?</li><li>Fifty miles out? Yes or no?</li><li>What if we had mechanical problems with the helicopter one hundred miles out?</li><li>Fifty miles out?</li><li>Once on target, what if bin Laden was not found within fifteen minutes?</li><li>Within thirty minutes?</li><li>What if the Pakistanis converged on the target within fifteen minutes?</li><li>Within thirty minutes?</li></ul><p>The list of possible problems was extensive, but the decisions were easy. Hard to make, but easy to discern. If we were compromised crossing the border we would turn around and try for another day. If we had a helo set down for mechanical problems at a hundred miles out from the target, but the helo was not detected, we would continue on with the force we had. If a helo crashed, but we still had sufficient force to move to the target, we would continue the mission, but alert the Quick Reaction Force and medevac. Everything was binary. On missions like these you don’t want emotions to drive your decisions. If we were compromised crossing the border and the Pakistanis threatened to shoot down our helos, you could easily convince yourself that the mission was so important that you must press forward. Decisions like that rarely ended well. We had a backup plan for every contingency and a backup to the backup.</p><p>By the week’s end, we had rehearsed every individual aspect of the mission multiple times, but we still hadn’t put it all together. And if my research from the Naval Postgraduate School was correct, a full dress rehearsal was absolutely necessary to find flaws in the plan. Every historical mission I analyzed for my thesis showed that when a particular part of the mission wasn’t rehearsed, that portion invariably failed.</p><h5>CHAPTER EIGHTEEN: THE FINAL SALUTE</h5><p>TAMPA, FLORIDA</p><p>August 2014</p><p>Admiral Eric Olson, now retired, was sitting on the right side of the aisle, waiting to officiate my transfer of the Bull Frog award, as the longest-serving SEAL on active duty.</p><p>In my journey, I found that there was always someone better than me: someone smarter, stronger, faster, harder-working, more talented, more driven, more honest, more pious—just better than I was. It was humbling, but at the same time immensely reassuring. There were so many problems in the world that I could not solve, but maybe someone else could.</p><p>I learned that life is fragile and that we should take each day as a blessing. A single round from an Al Qaeda sniper, an IED on a road less traveled, a C-130 that never returned, a head-on collision coming home from work, a parachute that never opened, an X-ray that revealed a growing tumor—nothing in life is guaranteed, so make the most of what you have and be thankful.</p><p>Many times over I found that my success depended on others. It was the simplest of lessons, one I had been taught in basic SEAL training rowing my little rubber boat. And every success I had from that moment on had been because someone helped me.</p><p>I realized that life is actually pretty simple. Help as many people as you can. Make as many friends as you can. Work as hard as you can. And, no matter what happens, never quit!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Zen Golf: Mastering the Mental Game by Joseph Parent: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/zen-golf-joseph-parent</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 04 May 2023 00:43:56 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A fun read with lots of insights into how the mental side of the game should be approached.I didn’t find it as tactical and immediately applicable as The Inner Game of Golf, and would recommend reading that one first.This book can be read as a supplement, or if you’re in need of some fresh ideas about how to improve your mental approach to golf.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>The PAR Approach: Preparation, Action, Response to Results</h5><p><strong>Preparation</strong></p><ul><li>Less than 1% of golfers have completed a round in par or better. Make your own “par” by changing the par on holes that are toughest to reflect your handicap and the conditions of the day.</li><li>Clarity is having an image of the full shot that you intend—where the ball is going to come to rest and how it’s going to get there.</li><li>When you establish an image of what you intend to do, the body will fulfill it. That becomes the “target.” The clearer the image, the more likely that your body will produce it.</li><li>It is extremely important to have an image in mind of where we do want the ball to go. Thinking about where we don’t want it to go, the hazard that we want to avoid, sets that negative image in our mind.</li><li>To be sure you remember to breathe and diffuse the tension before executing any challenging shot, I recommend incorporating a full breath into your swing routine for every shot. It actually makes an ideal “trigger” for the start of your approach to the ball from behind, which is the beginning of your swing routine.</li><li>You can practice mindfulness with breath-counting whenever you have time in between shots (waiting for the group ahead, etc.).</li></ul><p><strong>Action</strong></p><ul><li>When you’re warming up, practice your full pre-shot routine, and end your warmup by “playing” a few holes of the course. By the time you get to the full tee it will be like you’ve played several holes.</li><li>Ideally we avoid swing thoughts, and move to swing images. It’s better to have an image of the flight path and finishing point of the ball than something about your swing.</li><li>For players who need a swing thought, it is better to have one that describes what you intend to do rather than how you intend to do it. For example, the thought “long arms” gives an image of what you want to feel. However, “extend the arms” gives direction about how you want to move.</li></ul><p>Putting</p><ul><li>If you rolled the ball on the line you chose, at the pace you wanted, with what you felt was a good stroke, then you <em>made</em> the putt. You may not <em>hole</em> every putt, but you can <em>make</em> every putt.</li><li>The best preparation for any shot is to have an image that is as complete and precise as possible. For your putts, imagine the ball rolling the full distance to the hole. See in your mind’s eye the way it will change speed and direction. See the path it will take all the way to the exact point on the edge of the hole where the ball will fall in.</li><li>When getting ready to putt, let your view include more of the green and see the distance to the hole within that bigger space.</li><li>Read putts backward: The best way to read a putt is to start at the hole. Examine the area around the hole. See the direction from which a ball would roll most easily into the hole, and the exact spot on the edge it will cross. That point becomes the effective center of the hole for your putt.</li><li>Then work backward from there to your ball, imagining the path and pace your ball will need to travel to enter the hole at the spot you picked.</li><li>On an uphill putt, imagine the ball diving into the hole, striking the middle of the back wall. This gives your body the message to stroke the ball firmly, without you needing to think, “Hit it hard.”</li><li>On a downhill putt, imagine the ball just trickling over the front edge. This gives your body the message to stroke the ball gently, but without the hesitation that comes from the fear of the ball going far past the hole.</li><li>“Lagging” putts is a common piece of advice that I don’t recommend. I recommend picturing the putt actually going in the hole, over a spot on the edge, even on long putts. Make the best read you can and simply give the ball the best roll you can. The more specific your target is, the better results you’ll get.</li><li>When warming up, to get a feel for the speed of the greens, line up some balls on a level area and then try to putt towards the edge of the fringe. Then guess where it goes before looking. Putting for the fringe is a good way to warm up without the pressure of trying to hole it too.</li><li>Leapfrog drill: practice putting various distances, and try to get each successive ball past the previous one.</li></ul><p>Putting warmup:</p><ol><li>Putt to nowhere: vary the distance and get your stroke smooth.</li><li>Putt to the fringe: putt to the fringe, guess whether it is short or long.</li><li>Long putts: take several long putts of 25-40 feet.</li><li>Putt with break: roll some 15-foot putts with big break, to get a feel for the relationship of speed to break.</li><li>Short putts: putt several short, 2-foot putts to get some confidence and feel for holing putts.</li></ol><p>Mindset</p><ul><li>Expect that your opponents are going to hole their shots, so you’re never surprised.</li><li>Remember that you are competing against the <strong><em>golf course,</em></strong> not your opponent.</li><li>When approaching the green, choose the club that will get the ball to the back of the green with a perfect shot. More often than not, you’ll end up in the middle.</li><li>Think of every tee shot on a par-4 or par-5 as a layup shot. This reduces the tendency to swing too hard, and gives you a much better chance of hitting a good shot.</li></ul><p><strong>Response to Results</strong></p><ul><li>When you hit a shot that comes out just the way you pictured it, get some emotion going. Give yourself a silent “Yes!” or some other expression of positive emotion. That reinforces the experience. Hold your finish and follow the flight of the ball until it stops. That imprints the image in your mind so that you can call on it when you face a similar shot or need to make the same shot in a more challenging situation. Store it in your “video library of greatest hits.”</li><li>If you hit a poor shot, instead of erupting in a storm of emotion, get somewhat detached and intellectual about it. I recommend that you say, “Hmmm. Interesting.” To remove yourself from the outcome even further, you can say, “How unlike me.”</li><li>When a shot is hit poorly, most people (after they’ve calmed down and stopped moaning) try to figure out what they did wrong. It is extremely important at this point in the post-shot routine that you <em>do not try to fix your swing.</em></li><li>Take a step back and think about what it was that interfered with your swing. Reflect on your preparation and state of mind. Did you have a good picture? Were you committed to the club and shot selection? Were you composed, settled, and ready when you started the swing?</li><li>If, on reflection, you felt properly prepared mentally, review your alignment, ball position, or other aspects of your physical setup.</li><li>If any of these were the culprit, then there’s no need to question or try to fix your swing. Just do your best to set-up properly next time.</li><li>Remember, whatever faults there are in a swing, it doesn’t generally work to try to fix them on the course.</li></ul><p>Awareness</p><ul><li>One way to change poor habits is simply to count them, like putting pebbles in a bowl. Whenever the habit occurs, add a tick to your scorecard. Count them at the end of the day and that’s it. They will decrease after a couple rounds.</li></ul><p>Some habits to think about avoiding:</p><ul><li>The “anyways”: any time you hit a shot despite feeling that something isn’t quite right.</li><li>Thinking about the future: the score, future holes you have to play, winning or losing the match or tournament, what you’ll say to reporters</li><li>Thinking about the past: repeatedly criticizing yourself for an earlier mistake; replaying past shots or rounds in your mind</li><li>Leaving putts or approach shots short</li><li>Negative self-talk, club-throwing</li><li>Swinging with a fearful image of what you want to avoid</li></ul><p>How to enjoy a bad round of golf:</p><ul><li>Forget the last hole: think about a round where you’ve been playing poorly, but then get a hole-in-one on the last hole. Would that be a good round? Of course. So forget the previous holes and focus on the one you’re playing.</li><li>Change focus from performance to learning: if you’re having a bad round, switch your focus to learning as much as you can about the game and about yourself. You can make the most of your current round by learning things that can improve all your future rounds.</li></ul><h5>A Game of Honor</h5><p><strong>The Four Principles of Shambhala Golf</strong></p><p>Virtue:</p><ul><li>Virtue is the expression of basic goodness in action. Basic goodness is the fundamental worthiness of every individual. In playing golf, what matters most is experience without the reference point of results. Ultimately, the outcome of the game is neither important nor unimportant. The real point is that it is good to be mutually engaged in our world, joining body, mind, and heart in the vividness of the moment. This is the ground for discovering unconditional confidence.</li></ul><p>Discipline</p><ul><li>Discipline means proper conduct. Because of virtue, we understand proper conduct as that which overcomes pettiness. In golf we make a relationship to the form of the game and our interactions with others. When frustration arises, it becomes the working basis for developing discipline. By applying generosity, ethics, patience, exertion, equanimity, and insight, we can transcend pettiness and irritation. Therefore, discipline is the antidote to the negativity that can arise while playing the game of golf, and the means to cultivate a confident and uplifted attitude.</li></ul><p>Humor</p><ul><li>Humor is the absence of self-importance. Humor brings a quality of lightness, an atmosphere of enjoyment. It does not refer to frivolous comments at someone else’s expense or the ability to tell a joke. Rather, it is a simple and genuine delight in participating in the game of golf. With humor we can avoid the self-defeating habits of taking ourselves too seriously or being too heavily focused on results. With humor we can relax and trust ourselves and be able to help others do the same.</li></ul><p>Friendship</p><ul><li>Playing the game of golf is a wonderful way of engaging in our world and appreciating our life. Through virtue, discipline, and humor, the simplicity of the game becomes the stepping-stone for believing in ourselves and opening our heart to others. An open heart is the basis of true friendship: accepting all the qualities we experience in our fellow human beings and ourselves. This is the foundation for expanding a vision of openness and compassion throughout the world.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[24 Things I Do to Maximize My Productivity]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 02 May 2023 12:05:13 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I've tried every productivity tip and tool that I could over the years. This post is a list of the most impactful habits I've developed, those that I've found most valuable and have stuck with me. These are habits anyone can adopt to get more done and make the most of their time.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was in university, I spent much of my time figuring out how to maximize my study time. How could I improve my focus? Learn problems and concepts quicker? Understand the material better so I could get a better grade?</p><p>Not much changed when I graduated. I went straight into the world of startups and entrepreneurship, where the problem is less about how to be productive—though this is still crucial—and more about <strong><em>what</em></strong> to work on.</p><p>What follows is the list of the most impactful habits I’ve developed after years of trying every productivity tip and tool I could find. Some have stuck, and others haven’t, and I’ve come to realize what has the most impact.</p><h2>The Big Productivity Tips</h2><p>We’ll start with the big ones. If you don’t nail these, it’s going to be very hard to maintain any level of performance over the long term.</p><p>Sure, you can keep it up for a while, but at some point you’ll burn out, and you won’t have built the basics required to remain productive for years on end.</p><p>Master these, and you’ll know yourself better. You’ll be able to sprint when you need to, and recognize when you need to pull back and recharge. This is a skill you can use both day-to-day and over decades.</p><p><strong>Get enough sleep</strong>: This is the starting point. Without enough sleep, you’ll get fat, sick, and blurry, and unable to do much of anything. Getting 8 hours per night (which requires more like 9 hours in bed) still leaves 15-16 hours every day, which is plenty.</p><p>There is a small segment of the population, ~1%, who can thrive on as little as 4 hours of sleep a night. I’ve met a few of them. But I am not one of them, and it’s unlikely you are either.</p><p>If you aren’t, you need to be getting good sleep at least 5 days a week to perform at your best.</p><p>And you can’t take two nights off in a row and expect to perform both days either.</p><p><strong>Wake up early</strong>: The unfortunate reality of our world today is that most jobs are around 9-5. That means you have two options to find uninterrupted time: before 9am, or after 5pm. You can have a little of both if you want, but not a lot, because that would impact your sleep.</p><p>For most people, establishing the habit of getting up early will be better for a few reasons.</p><p>First of all, I think more people do better in the mornings than in the evenings.</p><p>Second, there is something rewarding about being up before everyone else. Getting your day started before everyone else becomes the first win of the day.</p><p>Being serious about building the habit of getting up early also means you’re going to need to say no to some evening activities which are detrimental to both health and sleep (like drinking), so that’s another side benefit too.</p><p>So how do you build the habit of getting up early?</p><p><strong>Go to bed early</strong>: To get up early, you need to go to bed early. It’s that simple. If I start sleeping past my wake time, or feeling drowsy in the morning, I overcorrect, go to bed super early, and I’m back on track in 1-2 nights.</p><p>Remember, time in bed isn’t all time asleep. Most of us need minimum 9 hours in bed each night. My ideal schedule is something like 9pm-6am, but it will vary for others.</p><p>Something like 10pm-6am means you’re probably getting <strong>enough</strong> sleep, but not the full amount required, so you may need to make some up on the weekends.</p><p>Anything less and you’ll start to see performance decline after two nights.</p><p><strong>Eat healthy</strong>: Eating “healthy” is a complicated topic with all kinds of opinions, nuances, fads, and complications…if you want it to be. In reality, it’s very simple:</p><ul><li>Aim for high protein, low carb</li><li>Eat lots of veggies, some with every meal</li><li>Avoid drinking calories</li><li>Avoid eating within 3 hours of bedtime (it will impact sleep)</li><li>Eat as many raw, fresh foods as possible (avoid processed food)</li></ul><p>That’s it.</p><p><strong>Exercise daily</strong>: It can be as simple as walking to work, or 30 minutes at the gym, or a bike ride through town. Make exercise a regular part of your life and both your mental and physical health will thank you.</p><p>Being physically healthy is going to help you think better, get sick less, and get more done over the long term.</p><p>No one is perfect. But you should know if you’re doing well:</p><ul><li>Do you feel healthy?</li><li>Are you overweight?</li><li>Could you go play a game of pickup soccer at the park?</li><li>What percentage of “poor” meals do you eat?</li></ul><p>If you can nail all the items above, you’re on a good path to being productive over the long term.</p><h2>Personal Productivity</h2><p><strong>Hydrate first</strong>: We’re all dehydrated in the morning, which makes drowsiness persist longer than it should. Make it ice water for an even better wakeup, and add some protein and you can skip breakfast.</p><p><strong>Caffeinate at least 1 hour after waking:</strong> My old habit was to make a coffee first thing, and while it still tastes great, the effect of the caffeine is moderated by the cortisol in our bodies wearing off after sleep. Wait at least an hour for your first coffee to maximize the caffeine hit.</p><p><strong>Stand up</strong>: Sitting at a desk creates poor posture and stifles movement. Stand up at a desk instead. Get a standing desk, or a computer stand to make your normal desk a standing one. I worked at a <a href="https://nymag.com/strategist/article/best-cheap-standing-desk-accessory-oristand.html">cardboard standing desk</a> for years.</p><p>Make sure you get a memory foam mat to stand on—this makes a big difference in how your knees feel and how long you can stand without sitting.</p><p>Also, moving around is normal! Lean on the desk, stand on one leg, switch to the other, sit down for a little while—it’s all good. It’s the movement and the improved posture that matters.</p><p>It’s also much harder to feel drowsy while standing.</p><p><strong>Focus on one thing per day</strong>: Whenever I build my plan for the day, I ask myself one question: “If I only got one thing done today, what would I be happy with?” Or, in other words, “what single task is the most important on my list?”</p><p>That should be your aim every day. Finish, or at least work on, your most important task. Do a couple hours of dedicated focus work on your most important task each day and you’ll be ahead of 99% of the crowd.</p><p><strong>Stick with one thing to completion</strong>: Once you’ve chosen that one task, focus only on that task until you’re finished.</p><p>Stopping and starting a task adds a huge amount of time to finishing it. We underestimate how much time it takes to ramp up and get started on a task each time we’ve put it down for a while.</p><p>And if we do manage to get started and get in the zone—or in “flow”—that’s when we’re most productive. Breaking that flow has a big cost too.</p><p><strong>Add social pressure</strong>: Open offices are good for this, if they’re not too distracting. If you know your colleagues can see what’s on your screen, you’re a lot more likely to focus on your work.</p><p>If you are working from home, pairing up with one or two other people and sharing your screens can be a great way to simulate the office effect while remote.</p><p>Once you get good at getting started and remaining focused on your most important task, you can work from home or in a less public environment.</p><p><strong>Turn on Do Not Disturb</strong>: I have Do Not Disturb on by default during workdays, all the time. No exceptions. This depends on your role, but there is rarely anything that urgent for me. If I leave them off, there are constant distractions and I’m shooting myself in the foot.</p><p><strong>Put headphones in</strong>: Even if you don’t listen to music, over-ear headphones or noise-cancelling earphones are a great way to block out distractions. If you’re in a busy office, it’s also a good way to signal to others that you’re focusing and don’t want to be disturbed.</p><p><strong>Use music with no lyrics</strong>: Lyrics are distracting, just like conversations around you can be. Some people can still focus, but why add another distraction? <a href="http://Brain.fm">Brain.fm</a> is a great resource for this kind of music.</p><p><strong>Keep snacks &amp; water</strong>: When you do manage to get focused and in the zone, the last thing you want is to need to step away because you’re hungry or thirsty. Keep some snacks and water by your side so you can stay in the zone for however long you need.</p><p><strong>Schedule small task time</strong>: Small tasks are things that aren’t your most important task, and don’t take much time. Putting time in your schedule for them is a great way to avoid getting distracted when they come up. Putting that time at the end of the week is a good way to finish up, and prevent you from wasting time on them throughout the week.</p><p><strong>Write thoughts down</strong>: When small tasks or ideas pop into your head, write them down. That way you can stop thinking about them, and continue focusing on your main task. If you don’t, they’re likely to keep popping up in your thoughts and distracting you. Make a list and you can think about them later.</p><p><strong>Time-box version one:</strong> If you had to leave on vacation tomorrow, you’d find a way to get your work done. Try and put that pressure on yourself anyway. It might not be as polished as you want, or as complete as you want, but setting a time limit on your first draft is a great way to force yourself to get something across the finish line (even if it needs tweaking later).</p><p><strong>Talk to yourself</strong>: Cheerlead yourself. When I’m struggling to get started on something, I’ll say to myself “Get started!” to remind myself that’s the hardest part, and I just need to dive in. “Don’t get distracted!” or even “You can do this!” are great too. You should be your own best cheerleader. It’s surprising how much of a difference that kind of positive self-talk can make.</p><h2>Working With Others</h2><p><strong>Remove meetings</strong>: Meetings can be valuable. But recurring meetings rarely are, and if they’re related to your most important work, you shouldn’t be waiting for a recurring time slot for them anyway. Opt out of as many meetings as you can and ask for the summary or action items after.</p><p>If you’re a manager, record key meetings in case you need to share something later. Establish a habit of asking people to be detailed when they add special topics to the agenda, or to share asynchronously instead. Use tools like Loom or Quicktime to record screenshares with audio, letting people share without forcing a specific meeting time on everyone.</p><p>The actual time of a meeting isn’t the only cost, either. It interrupts what might otherwise be a big focus slot, which is extremely detrimental to productivity.</p><p><strong>Group meetings</strong>: If you do need meetings, try to schedule them all together. The worst case scenario for productivity is a bunch of meetings with 30-60 minutes in between. It’s not enough time to get going on a task before being interrupted again.</p><p>Try to group them during times you’re less productive too, so you can save your best time for your most important work.</p><p><strong>Ignore Slack/email/chat</strong>: Turn off your notifications, and try to avoid checking these services unless absolutely necessary. Choose one or two times a day to check these for anything important, and ignore them otherwise.</p><p>Set expectations with your colleagues, or set up auto-responders to let people know that you don’t check things often.</p><p><strong>Create a recurring calendar event during your most productive time (Do Not Book):</strong> For me, this is mornings, and I have at least 2 events per week where I book out 2-4 hours of “Do Not Book” time. During these slots I auto-decline meetings and tell others to reach out to me beforehand if they do want to use that time. It sets expectations, and helps keep some consistent periods free for your most important work.</p><p><strong>Share early</strong>: Try to make a personal habit, and build it among your colleagues, of sharing your work early. You can preface it with “This is only a first draft!” and ask for feedback.</p><p>A lot of the time, they’ll say “This is awesome!” and you’re done. Other times, they’ll say “Oh, this isn’t what I was thinking at all!” and you’ll be able to course-correct much faster than you would have otherwise.</p><p>Either way, sharing early can net you a bunch more time, and will often produce much better work in the end, than if you try and perfect something on your own.</p><p>There is no single productivity hack that will transform your output.</p><p>If I had to choose one, I’d say it’s the ability to choose your most important task, and sit down and dedicate an extended period of time to working on it, over and over.</p><p>But being truly productive is a constant struggle to build, improve, and iterate on your daily habits, depending on your personal circumstances, which are bound to change.</p><p>Keep what works, discard what doesn’t, and constantly ask yourself: “Is this the single most important thing for me to work on?”</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Monetizing Innovation by Georg Tacke & Madhavan Ramanujam: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/monetizing-innovation-georg-tacke-madhavan-ramanujam</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 29 Apr 2023 19:25:29 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[An excellent, detailed book about how to implement better monetization practices within companies developing new products.Equally applicable to startups as to enterprise companies, the principles of this book are something that almost every company fails to do.Reading the book is the first step; the principles must be implemented to have any impact. A great book for product managers, executives, founders and marketers alike.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Chapter 1: How Innovators Leave Billions on the Table</h5><ul><li>Price: the <strong><em>perceived value</em></strong> that an innovation holds for a customer. How much they would be willing to pay and how much demand there is for that product.</li><li>New product failure is rooted in the failure to put customer willingness to pay at the core of product design.</li></ul><p><strong>Monetization Failures</strong></p><ol><li>Feature shock: cramming too many features into one product.</li><li>Minivation: when something is priced too low to achieve its full revenue potential.</li><li>Hidden gem: an amazing product that isn’t brought to market because it’s outside the core business.</li><li>Undead: an innovation customers don’t want.</li></ol><p><strong>9 Rules for Innovation Success</strong></p><ol><li>Talk to customers about willingness to pay early in the product development process.</li><li>Don’t force a one-size-fits-all solution. Segment your customers by the differences in willingness to pay.</li><li>Match your product configuration with your most meaningful customer segments.</li><li>Carefully choose the right pricing and revenue models. How you charge is often more important than how much.</li><li>Have a pricing strategy and plan that considers both short and long term.</li><li>Use willingness to pay data to build a business case that links price, value, volume, and cost.</li><li>Communicate the value of your offering in a clear and compelling way.</li><li>Make sure to understand your customer’s emotions when they are making purchase decisions.</li><li>Maintain pricing integrity and control discounting tightly. Use price cuts only as a last resort.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 3: Why Good People Get It Wrong</h5><p><strong>Five Myths of Product Innovation</strong></p><ol><li>If you build a great new product, customers will pay fair value for it.</li><li>An innovation team working in isolation is how to build a new product.</li><li>High failure rate for new innovations is necessary.</li><li>Customers must experience a new product before saying how much they’ll pay for it.</li><li>Until a business knows what it’s building, it can’t assess how much it’s worth.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 4: Have the “Willingness-to-Pay” Talk Early; You Can&#x27;t Prioritize Without It</h5><p>Having the willingness to pay talk early helps you in three ways:</p><ol><li>It will tell you if you have an opportunity to monetize your product or not.</li><li>It will help you prioritize the right features.</li><li>It will help you avoid the four types of failure.</li></ol><p><strong>Information You Need From Early Pricing Talks</strong></p><p>You need to know:</p><ol><li>The overall willingness to pay for your product. This will tell you if you can afford to develop the product at all.</li><li>How much value customers place on each feature, and what they would be willing to pay for that value.</li></ol><p>The simplest way is to ask direct questions about the value of your product and its features, for example:</p><ul><li>“What do you think could be an acceptable price?”</li><li>“What do you think would be an expensive price?”</li><li>“What do you think would be a prohibitively expensive price?”</li><li>“Would you buy this product at $XYZ?”</li></ul><p>Then follow each question with the most powerful question of all: “Why?”</p><p>Other ways:</p><ul><li>Simulating purchase scenarios</li><li>Most/least valuable questions (from a list of features)</li><li>Purchase probability questions</li></ul><p>Typically you will have these conversations in:</p><ul><li>One-on-one conversations</li><li>Focus groups</li><li>Large-scale quantitative surveys</li></ul><p><strong>Tips for Conducting These Conversations</strong></p><ol><li>Utilize internal resources first</li><li>Position customer discussions as a talk about “value” (instead of “pricing” or “willingness to pay”)</li><li>Make 25% of the questions “why” questions</li><li>Make sure to look at the distributions of answers, not just the “average”; you’ll often have distinct pockets of customers</li><li>Be precise in your language (”Would you buy this for $20?” is much better than “Would you buy this?”)</li></ol><h5>Chapter 5: Don&#x27;t Default to a One-Size-Fits-All Solution; Like It or Not, Your Customers Are Different</h5><p>Customers should be segmented by their needs, value, and willingness to pay.</p><p><strong>Segmentation tips:</strong></p><ol><li>Begin with customer willingness to pay data.</li><li>Use common sense when looking for different segments, and make sure they can be used in the real world (can I sell to this specific segment?)</li><li>Fewer segments is better.</li><li>Don’t try to serve every segment. Choose only those that make sense for you.</li><li>Describe the segments so you can sell and market to them later.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 6: When Designing Products, Configuration and Bundling is More Science Than Art</h5><p>Product configuration requires the guts to take away features.</p><p><strong>Two Key Principles of Product Configuration</strong></p><ol><li>Leaders, Fillers, and Killers: Leaders are what drive customers to buy a product (they have a high willingness to pay). Fillers are nice-to-haves. Killers blow deals if customers are forced to pay for them. Killers can be identified by being valued by less than 20% of your customers (or not valued at all by more than 20%).</li><li>Good, Better, Best: This classic product configuration is a good starting point, but don’t be locked in to this number. Each product should appeal to a segment you’ve identified.</li></ol><p><strong>Configuration Tips</strong></p><ol><li>Align the offers with your segments.</li><li>Keep it to less than four products and nine benefits.</li><li>Don’t give away too much in your entry-level product.</li><li>Don’t forget the communication when creating your products.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 7: Go Beyond the Price Point</h5><p><strong>How</strong> you charge is more important that <strong><em>what</em></strong> you charge.</p><p><strong>Five Monetization Models</strong></p><ol><li>Subscription</li><li>Dynamic pricing</li><li>Market-based pricing: auctions</li><li>Alternative pricing metric/pay-as-you-go</li><li>Freemium</li></ol><p><strong>Five Questions to Choose the Right Monetization Model</strong></p><ol><li>How likely are your customers to accept the model?</li><li>How will future developments impact the model?</li><li>What stage is your company in and does your model choice fit that?</li><li>What are your competitors doing?</li><li>How difficult is the monetization model to implement?</li></ol><h5>Chapter 8: Price Low for Market Share or High for Premium Branding?</h5><p><strong>Pricing strategy</strong>: your short- and long-term monetization plan. It must have clear intent, quantifiable goals, and a time frame for execution.</p><p>There are three main types of pricing strategies:</p><ol><li>Maximization: maximizing your goal—likely profit or revenue—in the short term.</li><li>Penetration: pricing your product low to rapidly gain market share.</li><li>Skimming: starting with a high price and lowering over time to reach other customer segments.</li></ol><p><strong>Price-Setting Principles</strong></p><p>Next you need to create rules for the tactics you’ll need to execute your strategy.</p><ol><li>Monetization models: which one will you use, and will it be the same across all customer segments?</li><li>Price differentiation: how will you differentiate your price? Will you maintain a maximum spread in prices?</li><li>Price floors: will there be a floor for your lowest price and your maximum discount?</li><li>Price endings: how will the actual price ($15.99, for example) end? (0.99? 0.95?)</li><li>Price increases: will you increase the price over time? How much and at what frequency?</li></ol><p><strong>Pricing Reactions</strong></p><p>Depending on how customers and competitors behave, how will you react with your prices?</p><p><strong>Price Optimization &amp; Elasticity</strong></p><p>Make sure to calculate your price elasticity curve. To do this, you need your analysis of what customers are willing to pay, and your variable and fixed costs.</p><h5>Chapter 9: From Hoping to Knowing</h5><p>You should create a business case right after you know the high-level willingness to pay for your product.</p><p>This document should become a living document, adding in everything you learn through your pricing and product development process.</p><h5>Chapter 10: The Innovation Won&#x27;t Speak for Itself</h5><p><strong>You Must Communicate the Value</strong></p><p>To maximize the success of your new product, you need to do a few things:</p><ol><li>Develop clear benefit statements—<strong>not</strong> feature descriptions: what does the customer achieve because of this feature?</li><li>Make your benefit statements specific to your target segments</li><li>Measure the impact and refine the value messages (can use a matrix of competitive advantages (MOCA) analysis for this)</li></ol><h5>Chapter 11: Use Behavioral Pricing Tactics to Persuade and Sell</h5><p><strong>Six Behavioral Pricing Tactics That Make the Difference</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Compromise effect</strong>: make decisions easier for people who can’t choose by offering a middle option between the extremes.</li><li><strong>Anchoring tactics</strong>: set the context for value by making sure you have high anchor product prices.</li><li><strong>Use price to signal quality</strong>: price your product high to indicate quality. It’s much easier to lower a price than raise it.</li><li><strong>Razor/razor blades</strong>: land customers by having a lower up-front cost, and then expanding on a higher variable amount later.</li><li><strong>Pennies-a-day pricing:</strong> break the cost down into a smaller segment of time to reduce sticker shock and make it look more affordable.</li><li><strong>Psychological price thresholds</strong>: avoid falling off price cliffs by knowing what the threshold prices are for your product, and staying within that “cliff.”</li></ol><h5>Chapter 12: Maintain Your Price Integrity</h5><p><strong>How to Prepare for Post-Launch</strong></p><p>Here are some tips and tricks to keep in mind when preparing for post-launch.</p><ol><li><strong>Be patient addressing post-launch problems.</strong> They typically come in only four varieties, and you can prepare for them: (1) the market doesn&#x27;t understand your product&#x27;s value or you didn&#x27;t explain it well; (2) your competition undercuts on price; (3) the competition launches a competing product; and (4) regardless of what the competition does, sales are below plan.</li><li><strong>Go beyond financial KPIs and track monthly outcomes.</strong> To measure the progress of new product launches, most companies track only financial key performance indicators (KPIs)—typically volume, revenue, and profit. These measures are grossly inadequate. You must also track sales, customer metrics, and operational metrics to keep a pulse on your new product after launch. Sales KPIs such as win-loss ratio, percent deviation of final price from target price, average sales quoting time, and price as a reason for win/loss will give you crucial insights on sales team performance.</li><li><strong>Do deal “deconstructions” regularly.</strong> You need to dissect the reasons why you&#x27;re winning and losing deals. You should bring together a cross-functional team (including sales, marketing, pricing, finance, and product) that was involved in the deal. The objective is to fully deconstruct the deal to understand whether product strategy, price strategy, and value communications were applied correctly.</li><li><strong>Advocate pricing patience:</strong> Make your team come up with three non-pricing actions before you approve a price decrease. Spontaneous price reactions—usually price decreases—are a typical problem in the post-launch phase. This is an understandable but wrong response.</li><li><strong>Before reacting on price, war-game your competition&#x27;s counter-reactions</strong>. This is another simple way of avoiding a knee-jerk price reduction. Write down how you expect your major competitors to react. Then simulate your position after that reaction: projected sales volumes, market share, profit, and so on.</li><li><strong>Unusually high sales could be a high-class problem.</strong> This is the hardest problem to acknowledge, and it requires the same disciplined solutions as unexpectedly low sales.</li><li>You launch your new product and a wonderful thing happens: Sales volumes are way beyond expectations. Time to celebrate? Not so fast. You actually might have a problem—pricing lower than you needed to and leaving money on the table.</li></ol><h5>Chapter 14: Implementing the “Designing the Product around the Price” Innovation Process</h5><p><strong>The Nine Pitfalls to Implementing a New-Product Monetization Process (and How to Avoid Them)</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Putting all your eggs in one basket</strong>: the process and playbooks you build around monetization can’t live with just one person or group. You must get every group involved.</li><li><strong>Not forming a cross-functional team</strong>: you need to have marketing, sales, R&amp;D and product teams involved from the beginning so they know how to position the product.</li><li><strong>Banking on the big bang</strong>: change takes time, and you need to pilot a couple products first to test your system. Only then should you scale.</li><li><strong>Imagining one size fits all:</strong> you must tailor the steps outlined to your company’s capabilities, skills, tools, existing processes, and culture.</li><li><strong>Having too many opt-outs</strong>: best-in-class companies automate workflows with gates to each stage to ensure a product goes through all the right stages.</li><li><strong>Getting blinded by science</strong>: remember that early in the process you’re only trying to get a ballpark price for willingness to pay. You will have to refine later as you design the product.</li><li><strong>Avoiding messy information</strong>: the information you collect won’t be perfect, and you will need to be ready for this, and draw the best conclusions you can.</li><li><strong>Cheaping out</strong>: make sure to allocate sufficient budget and people to achieve each step. Failing to do this will sabotage the whole thing.</li><li><strong>Letting the C-Suite delegate everything</strong>: C-level leadership must be completely committed, and not delegate the responsibility.</li></ol>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[An outstanding book that will no doubt remain a classic for a long time.  48 Laws of Power details the laws for attaining power in life, business, and more, and gives historical examples of each law in practice, as well as examples of those who do not respect these laws.A book I will continue to go back and reference.  Those who are cynical may see some of the laws as manipulative, and some are. That said, they are all grounded in the reality of human nature, and it's more important to understand them, and then choose how, when, and which to apply, than to just remain ignorant of them and refuse to acknowledge they exist.A long read, but well worth it and entertaining throughout.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>‍</p><h3>Notes</h3><h4><strong>48 Laws of Power</strong></h4><h6><strong>1. Never outshine the master.</strong></h6><p><em>Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to please and impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite—inspire fear and insecurity. Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power.</em></p><h6><strong>2. Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies.</strong></h6><p><em>Be wary of friends—they will betray you more quickly, for they are easily aroused to envy. They also become spoiled and tyrannical. But hire a former enemy and he will be more loyal than a friend, because he has more to prove. In fact, you have more to fear from friends than from enemies. If you have no enemies, find a way to make them.</em></p><ul><li>Friends often conceal things in order to avoid conflict; this can be dangerous.</li><li>Keep friends for friendship, but work with the skilled and competent.</li><li>Whenever you can, bury the hatchet with an enemy, and make a point of putting him in your service.</li><li>Use enemies to define your cause more clearly to the public, even framing it as a struggle of good against evil.</li><li>It is better off to know who and where your opponents are than to not know where your real enemies lie.</li></ul><h6><strong>3. Conceal your intentions.</strong></h6><p><em>Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late.</em></p><p>I: Use decoyed objects of desire and red herrings to throw people off the scent:</p><ul><li><em>If at any point in the deception you practice people have the slightest suspicions to your intentions, all is lost. Do not give them the chance to sense what you are up to: Throw them off the scent by dragging red herrings across the path. Use false sincerity, send ambiguous signals, set up misleading objects of desire. Unable to distinguish the genuine from the false, they cannot pick out your real goal.</em></li><li>Hide your intentions not by closing up, but by talking endlessly about your desires and goals - just false ones.</li></ul><p>II: Use smoke screens to disguise your actions:</p><ul><li><em>Deception is always the best strategy, but the best deceptions require a screen of smoke to distract people attention from your real purpose. The bland exterior—like the unreadable poker face—is often the perfect smoke screen, hiding your intentions behind the comfortable and familiar. If you lead the sucker down a familiar path, he won’t catch on when you lead him into a trap.</em></li><li>A helpful or honest gesture can divert from a deception.</li><li>Patterns will also help mask a deception.</li><li>Often the key to deception is being bland and acting with humility.</li></ul><h6><strong>4. Always say less than necessary. </strong></h6><p><em>When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.</em></p><ul><li>Silence generally makes people uncomfortable - they will jump in and nervously fill the silence.</li><li>Generally saying less makes you appear more profound and mysterious.</li><li>Be particularly careful with sarcasm - rarely is it valuable.</li><li>Be careful with arousing suspicion or insecurity by being silent. At times it is easier to blend by playing the jester.</li></ul><h6><strong>5. So much depends on reputation - guard it with your life.</strong></h6><p><em>Reputation is the cornerstone of power. Through reputation alone you can intimidate and win; once it slips, however, you are vulnerable, and will be attacked on all sides. Make your reputation unassailable. Always be alert to potential attacks and thwart them before they happen. Meanwhile, learn to destroy your enemies by opening holes in their own reputations. Then stand aside and let public opinion hang them.</em></p><ul><li>Work to establish a reputation of outstanding quality, whether generosity or honesty or cunning.</li><li>A good reputation can save you much - a lot of work is done in advance by your reputation.</li><li>Once established, always take the high road when attacked.</li></ul><h6><strong>6. Court attention at all cost.</strong></h6><p><em>Everything is judged by its appearance; what is unseen counts for nothing. Never let yourself get lost in the crowd, then, or buried in oblivion. Stand out. Be conspicuous, at all cost. Make yourself a magnet of attention by appearing larger, more colorful, more mysterious than the bland and timid masses.</em></p><p>I: Surround your name with the sensational and scandalous</p><ul><li><em>Draw attention to yourself by creating an unforgettable, even controversial image. Court scandal. Do anything to make yourself seem larger than life and shine more brightly than those around you. Make no distinction between kinds of attention—notoriety of any sort will bring you power. Better to be slandered and attacked than ignored.</em></li><li>At the beginning of your rise, spend all your energy on attracting attention. The quality of attention is irrelevant.</li></ul><p>II: Create an air of mystery</p><ul><li><em>In a world growing increasingly banal and familiar, what seems enigmatic instantly draws attention. Never make it too clear what you are doing or about to do. Do not show all your cards. An air of mystery heightens your presence; it also creates anticipation—everyone will be watching you to see what happens next. Use mystery to beguile, seduce, even frighten.</em></li><li>Remember: Most people are upfront, can be read like an open book, take little care to control their words or image, and are hopelessly predictable. By simply holding back, keeping silent, occasionally uttering ambiguous phrases, deliberately appearing inconsistent, and acting odd in the subtlest of ways, you will emanate an aura of mystery.</li><li>Do not let mystery turn to an air of deceit; it must always seem a game, playful, unthreatening.</li></ul><h6><strong>7. Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit.</strong></h6><p><em>Use the wisdom, knowledge, and legwork of other people to further your own cause. Not only will such assistance save you valuable time and energy, it will give you a godlike aura of efficiency and speed. In the end your helpers will be forgotten and you will be remembered. Never do yourself what others can do for you.</em></p><ul><li>You must secure the credit for yourself.</li><li>Learn to take advantage of others work to further your own cause.</li><li>Use the past, a vast storehouse of knowledge and wisdom. Learn this and you will look like a genius.</li><li>Note: be sure to know when letting other people share the credit furthers your cause.</li></ul><h6><strong>8. Make other people come to you - use bait if necessary.</strong></h6><p><em>When you force the other person to act, you are the one in control. It is always better to make your opponent come to you, abandoning his own plans in the process. Lure him with fabulous gains—then attack. You hold the cards.</em></p><ul><li>The essence of power is keeping the initiative and forcing others to react, keeping them on the defensive.</li><li>Master your anger yet play on people’s natural tendency to react angrily when pushed and baited.</li></ul><h6><strong>9. Win through your actions, never through argument.</strong></h6><p><em>Any momentary triumph you think you have gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions, without saying a word. Demonstrate, do not explicate.</em></p><ul><li>When aiming for power, always look for the indirect route.</li><li>Verbal argument has one use: deception when covering tracks or caught in a lie.</li></ul><h6><strong>10. Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky.</strong></h6><p><em>You can die from someone else’s misery—emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.</em></p><ul><li>The most important person to avoid: the sufferer of chronic dissatisfaction.</li><li>Examine someone’s history to recognize these people: turbulence, a long line of broken relationships, etc.</li><li>The other side of infection is equally valid: there are those who attract happiness by their good cheer, natural buoyancy, and intelligence.</li><li>Use this rule to counteract your own undesirable or weak qualities.</li></ul><h6><strong>11. Learn to keep people dependent on you.</strong></h6><p><em>To maintain your independence you must always be needed and wanted. The more you are relied on, the more freedom you have. Make people depend on you for their happiness and prosperity and you have nothing to fear. Never teach them enough so that they can do without you.</em></p><ul><li>Do not mistake independence for power; power requires a relationship.</li><li>To cultivate this: possess a talent and creative skill that simply cannot be replaced.</li></ul><h6><strong>12. Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim.</strong></h6><p><em>One sincere and honest move will cover over dozens of dishonest ones. Open-hearted gestures of honesty and generosity bring down the guard of even the most suspicious people. Once your selective honesty opens a hole in their armor, you can deceive and manipulate them at will. A timely gift—a Trojan horse—will serve the same purpose.</em></p><ul><li>Learn to give before you take - an actual gift, a generous act, a kind favour, an “honest” admission - whatever it takes.</li><li>Selective honesty is best employed on your first encounter with someone.</li><li>A history of deceit will cause any act of generosity to be viewed with suspicion. Counter by embracing your reputation for dishonesty openly.</li></ul><h6><strong>13. When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interest, never to their mercy or gratitude.</strong></h6><p><em>If you need to turn to an ally for help, do not bother to remind him of your past assistance and good deeds. He will find a way to ignore you. Instead, uncover something in your request, or in your alliance with him, that will benefit him, and emphasize it out of all proportion. He will respond enthusiastically when he sees something to be gained for himself.</em></p><ul><li>Do not be subtle: you have valuable knowledge to share, you can make him rich, you can make him live longer and happier.</li><li>Train yourself to see inside other’s needs and interests and desires.</li><li>Distinguish differences among powerful people and figure out what makes them tick. When they ooze greed, do not appeal to charity; when they want to look charitable and noble, do not appeal to their greed.</li></ul><h6><strong>14. Pose as a friend, work as a spy.</strong></h6><p><em>Knowing about your rival is critical. Use spies to gather valuable information that will keep you a step ahead. Better still: Play the spy yourself. In polite social encounters, learn to probe. Ask indirect questions to get people to reveal their weaknesses and intentions. There is no occasion that is not an opportunity for artful spying.</em></p><ul><li>During social gatherings and innocuous encounters, pay attention. This is when people’s guards are down, and they will reveal things.</li><li>Give a false confession, and someone else will give you a real one.</li><li>Contradict others to stir them to emotion and lose control of their words.</li></ul><h6><strong>15. Crush your enemy totally.</strong></h6><p><em>All great leaders since Moses have known that a feared enemy must be crushed completely. (Sometimes they have learned this the hard way.) If one ember is left alight, no matter how dimly it smolders, a fire will eventually break out. More is lost through stopping halfway than through total annihilation: The enemy will recover, and will seek revenge. Crush him, not only in body but in spirit.</em></p><ul><li>Recognize that you will accumulate enemies who you cannot bring over to your side, and that to leave them any escape will mean you are never secure. Crush them completely.</li></ul><h6><strong>16. Use absence to increase respect and honour.</strong></h6><p><em>Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.</em></p><ul><li>The truth of this law can most easily be appreciated in matters of love and seduction.</li><li>Another example of this law exists in economics - scarcity increases value.</li><li>Note: this law only applies once a certain level of power has been attained. Leave too early and you do not increase respect, you are simply forgotten. Similarly, absence is only effective in love and seduction once you have surrounded the other with your image.</li><li>In the beginning, make yourself not scarce but omnipresent.</li></ul><h6><strong>17. Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability.</strong></h6><p><em>Humans are creatures of habit with an insatiable need to see familiarity in other people’s actions. Your predictability gives them a sense of control. Turn the tables: Be deliberately unpredictable. Behavior that seems to have no consistency or purpose will keep them off-balance, and they will wear themselves out trying to explain your moves. Taken to an extreme, this strategy can intimidate and terrorize.</em></p><ul><li>Unsettle those around you and keep the initiative by being unpredictable.</li><li>Predictability and patterns can be used as a tool when deceiving.</li></ul><h6><strong>18. Do not build fortresses to protect yourself - isolation is dangerous.</strong></h6><p><em>The world is dangerous and enemies are everywhere—everyone has to protect themselves. A fortress seems the safest. But isolation exposes you to more dangers than it Protects you from—it cuts you off from valuable information, it makes you conspicuous and an easy target. Better to circulate among people, find allies, mingle. You are shielded from your enemies by the crowd.</em></p><ul><li>Retreat to a fortress and you lose contact with your sources of power, and your knowledge of what is going on.</li><li>If you need time to think, then choose isolation as a last resort, and only in small doses.</li></ul><h6><strong>19. Know who you’re dealing with - do not offend the wrong person.</strong></h6><p><em>There are many different kinds of people in the world, and you can never assume that everyone will react to your strategies in the same way. Deceive or outmaneuver some people and they will spend the rest of their lives seeking revenge. They are wolves in lambs’ clothing. Choose your victims and opponents carefully, then—never of fend or deceive the wrong person.</em></p><p>Being able to recognize the type of person you’re dealing with is critical. Here are the five most dangerous:</p><ul><li><strong>The Arrogant and Proud Man: </strong>any perceived slight will invite vengeance. Flee these people.</li><li><strong>The Hopelessly Insecure Man: </strong>similar to the proud man, but will take revenge in smaller bites over time. Do not stay around him if you have harmed or deceived him.</li><li><strong>Mr. Suspicion: </strong>sees the worst in others and imagines that everyone is after him. Easy to deceive - get him to turn on others.</li><li><strong>The Serpent with a Long Memory: </strong>if hurt, he will show no anger, but will calculate and wait. Recognize by his calculation and cunning in other areas of life - he is usually cold and unaffectionate. Crush him completely or flee.</li><li><strong>The Plain, Unassuming, and Often Unintelligent Man: </strong>this man will not take the bait because he does not recognize it. Do not waste your resources trying to deceive him. Have a test ready for a mark - a joke, a story. If reaction is literal, this is the type you are dealing with.</li></ul><p>Never rely on instincts when judging someone; instead gather concrete knowledge. Also never trust appearances.</p><h6><strong>20. Do not commit to anyone.</strong></h6><p><em>It is the fool who always rushes to take sides. Do not commit to any side or cause but yourself. By maintaining your independence, you become the master of others—playing people against one another, making them pursue you.</em></p><p>Part 1: Do not commit to anyone, but be courted by all.</p><ul><li>Stay aloof and gain the power that comes from attention and frustrated desire.</li></ul><p>Part 2: Do not commit to anyone - stay above the fray.</p><ul><li>Do not let others drag you into their fights. Seem interested and supportive, but neutral.</li><li>Staying neutral allows you to keep initiative, and take advantage of the situation when one side starts to lose.</li><li>You only have so much time and energy - every moment wasted on affairs of others subtracts from your strength.</li><li>Make sure to maintain emotional objectivity in the affairs of others.</li></ul><h6><strong>21. Play a sucker to catch a sucker - seem dumber than your mark.</strong></h6><p><em>No one likes feeling stupider than the next person. The trick, then, is to make your victims feel smart—and not just smart, but smarter than you are. Once convinced of this, they will never suspect that you may have ulterior motives.</em></p><ul><li>Intelligence, taste and sophistication are all things you should downplay, or reassure others that they are more advanced than you.</li></ul><h6><strong>22. Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power.</strong></h6><p><em>When you are weaker, never fight for honor’s sake; choose surrender instead. Surrender gives you time to recover, time to torment and irritate your conqueror, time to wait for his power to wane. Do not give him the satisfaction of fighting and defeating you—surrender first. By turning the other cheek you infuriate and unsettle him. Make surrender a tool of power.</em></p><ul><li>The essence of the surrender tactic: inwardly you stay firm, but outwardly you bend. Your enemy will be bewildered when properly executed, as they will be expecting retaliation.</li></ul><h6><strong>23. Concentrate your forces.</strong></h6><p><em>Conserve your forces and energies by keeping them concentrated at their strongest point. You gain more by finding a rich mine and mining it deeper, than by flitting from one shallow mine to another—intensity defeats extensity every time. When looking for sources of power to elevate you, find the one key patron, the fat cow who will give you milk for a long time to come.</em></p><ul><li>Concentrate on a single goal, a single task, and beat it into submission.</li><li>Note: when fighting a stronger enemy, you must be prepared to dissolve your forces and be elusive.</li></ul><h6><strong>24. Play the perfect courtier.</strong></h6><p><em>The perfect courtier thrives in a world where everything revolves around power and political dexterity. He has mastered the art of indirection; he flatters, yields to superiors, and asserts power over others in the most oblique and graceful manner. Learn and apply the laws of courtiership and there will be no limit to how far you can rise in the court.</em></p><p><strong>The Laws of Court Politics</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Avoid Ostentation: </strong>modesty is always preferable.</li><li><strong>Practice Nonchalance: </strong>never appear to be working too hard; your talent must appear to flow naturally, with ease. Showing your blood and toil is a form of ostentation.</li><li><strong>Be Frugal with Flattery: </strong>flatter indirectly by being modest.</li><li><strong>Arrange to be Noticed: </strong>pay attention to your appearance, and find a way to create a subtly distinctive style and image.</li><li><strong>Alter Your Style and Language According to the Person You’re Dealing With: </strong>acting the same with all will be seen as condescension by those below you, and offend those above you.</li><li><strong>Never Be the Bearer of Bad News: </strong>the messenger is always killed. Bring only glad news.</li><li><strong>Never Affect Friendliness and Intimacy with Your Master: </strong>he does not want a friend for a subordinate.</li><li><strong>Never Criticize Those Above You Directly: </strong>err on the side of subtlety and gentleness.</li><li><strong>Be Frugal in Asking Those Above You for Favours: </strong>it is always better to earn your favours. Do not ask for favours on another person’s behalf.</li><li><strong>Never Joke About Appearances or Taste</strong></li><li><strong>Do Not Be the Court Cynic: </strong>express admiration for the good work of others.</li><li><strong>Be Self-Observant: </strong>you must train yourself to evaluate your own actions.</li><li><strong>Master Your Emotions</strong></li><li><strong>Fit the Spirit of the Times: </strong>your spirit and way of thinking must keep up with the times, even if the times offend your sensibilities.</li><li><strong>Be a Source of Pleasure: </strong>if you cannot be the life of the party, at least obscure your less desirable qualities.<strong>‍</strong></li></ul><h6><strong>25. Re-create yourself.</strong></h6><p><em>Do not accept the roles that society foists on you. Re-create yourself by forging a new identity, one that commands attention and never bores the audience. Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define it for you. Incorporate dramatic devices into your public gestures and actions—your power will be enhanced and your character will seem larger than life.</em></p><ul><li>The first step in the process of self-creation is being aware of yourself and taking control of your appearances and emotions.</li><li>The second step is the creation of a memorable character that compels attention and stands above the others on the stage.</li><li>Rhythm, timing and tempo over time also contribute greatly to the creation of a character.</li><li>Appreciate the importance of stage entrances and exits.</li></ul><h6><strong>26. Keep your hands clean.</strong></h6><p><em>You must seem a paragon of civility and efficiency: Your hands are never soiled by mistakes and nasty deeds. Maintain such a spotless appearance by using others as scapegoats and cat’s-paws to disguise your involvement.</em></p><p>Part 1: Conceal your mistakes - have a scapegoat to take the blame.</p><ul><li>It is often wise to choose the most innocent victim possible as a sacrificial goat. Be careful, however, not to create a martyr.</li><li>A close associate is often the best choice - the “fall of the favourite”.</li></ul><p>Part 2: Make use of the cat’s-paw.</p><ul><li>Use those around you to complete dirty tasks to hide your intentions and accomplish your goals while keeping your hands clean.</li><li>An essential element in this strategy is concealing your goal.</li><li>Devices like this are best for approaching those in power, or planting information.</li><li>You may also offer yourself as the cat’s-paw to gain power.</li><li>Note: you must be very careful in using this tactic, as being revealed would be disastrous.</li></ul><h6><strong>27. Play on people’s need to believe to create a cult like following.</strong></h6><p><em>People have an overwhelming desire to believe in something. Become the focal point of such desire by offering them a cause, a new faith to follow. Keep your words vague but full of promise ; emphasize enthusiasm over rationality and clear thinking. Give your new disciples rituals to perform, ask them to make sacrifices on your behalf. In the absence of organized religion and grand causes, your new belief system will bring you untold power.</em></p><p><strong>How to create a cult in 5 easy steps:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Keep It Vague, Keep it Simple: </strong>use words to attract attention, with great enthusiasm. Fancy titles for simple things are helpful, as are the use of numbers and the creation of new words for vague concepts. All of these create the impression of specialized knowledge. People want to hear there is a simple solution to their problems.</li><li><strong>Emphasize the Visual and the Sensual over the Intellectual: </strong>Boredom and skepticism are two dangers you must counter. The best way to do this is through theatre, creating a spectacle. Appeal to all the senses, and use the exotic.</li><li><strong>Borrow the Forms of Organized Religion to Structure the Group: </strong>create rituals, organize followers into hierarchy, rank them in grades of sanctity, give them names and titles, ask them for sacrifices that fill your coffers and increase your power. Talk and act like a prophet.</li><li><strong>Disguise Your Source of Income: </strong>make your wealth seem to come from the truth of your methods.</li><li><strong>Set Up an Us-Versus-Them Dynamic: </strong>first make sure your followers believe they are part of an exclusive club, unified by common goals. Then, manufacture the notion of a devious enemy out to ruin you.</li><li>People are not interested in the truth about change - that it requires hard work - but rather they are dying to believe something romantic, otherworldly.</li><li>The most effective cults mix religion with science.</li></ul><h6><strong>28. Enter action with boldness.</strong></h6><p><em>If you are unsure of a course of action, do not attempt it. Your doubts and hesitations will infect your execution. Timidity is dangerous: Better to enter with boldness. Any mistakes you commit through audacity are easily corrected with more audacity. Everyone admires the bold; no one honors the timid.</em></p><p><strong>Some of the most pronounced psychological effects of boldness and timidity:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Bolder the Lie the Better: </strong>the sheer audacity of a bold lie makes the story more credible, distracting from its inconsistencies. When entering a negotiation, ask for the moon and you’ll be surprised how often you get it.</li><li><strong>Lions Circle the Hesitant Prey: </strong>everything depends on perception, and if on a first encounter you demonstrate a willingness to compromise, back down, and retreat, you will be pushed around without mercy.</li><li><strong>Boldness Strikes Fear; Fear Creates Authority: </strong>the bold move makes you seem larger and more powerful than you are. If it comes suddenly, with stealth and swiftness, it inspires much more than fear - you will be intimidating, and people will be on the defensive in future.</li><li><strong>Going Halfway with Half a Heart Digs the Deeper Grave: </strong>if you enter action with less than total confidence, problems will cause you to grow confused rather than pushing through.</li><li><strong>Hesitation Creates Gaps, Boldness Obliterates Them: </strong>when you take time to think, you create a gap that allows others time to think as well. Boldness leaves others no space to doubt and worry.</li><li><strong>Audacity Separates You from the Herd: </strong>the bold draw attention, and seem larger than life. We cannot keep our eyes off the audacious.</li><li>Most of us are timid. We want to avoid tension and conflict and be liked by all. We are terrified of consequences, what others might think of us, and the hostility we will stir up if we dare go beyond our usual place.</li><li>You must practice and develop your boldness. The place to begin is in negotiations. How often we ask too little.</li><li>Remember: the problems created by an audacious move can be disguised, even remedied, by more and greater audacity.</li></ul><h6><strong>29. Plan all the way to the end.</strong></h6><p><em>The ending is everything. Plan all the way to it, taking into account all the possible consequences, obstacles, and twists of fortune that might reverse your hard work and give the glory to others. By planning to the end you will not be overwhelmed by circumstances and you will know when to stop. Gently guide fortune and help determine the future by thinking far ahead.</em></p><ul><li>The ending is everything - it is the end of action that determines who gets the glory, the money, the prize. Your conclusion must be crystal clear, and you must keep it constantly in mind.</li></ul><h6><strong>30. Make your accomplishments seem effortless.</strong></h6><ul><li><em>Your actions must seem natural and executed with ease. All the toil and practice that go into them, and also all the clever tricks, must be concealed. When you act, act effortlessly, as if you could do much more. Avoid the temptation of revealing how hard you work—it only raises questions. Teach no one your tricks or they will be used against you.</em></li><li>Some think exposure to how hard they work and practice demonstrates diligence and honesty, but really it just shows weakness.</li><li><em>Sprezzatura:</em> the capacity to make the difficult seem easy.</li><li>What is understandable is not awe-inspiring. The more mystery surrounds your actions, the more awesome your power seems. </li><li>You appear to be the only one who can do what you do, and because you achieve accomplishments with grace and ease, people believe that you can always do more.</li></ul><h6><strong>31. Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal.</strong></h6><p><em>The best deceptions are the ones that seem to give the other person a choice: Your victims feel they are in control, but are actually your puppets. Give people options that come out in your favor whichever one they choose. Force them to make choices between the lesser of two evils, both of which serve your purpose. Put them on the horns of a dilemma: They are gored wherever they turn.</em></p><ul><li>Withdrawal and disappearance are classic ways of controlling the options. You give people a sense of how things will fall apart without you, and you offer them the choice: I stay away and you suffer, or I return under my conditions.</li><li>We actually find choices between a small number of alternatives more desirable than complete freedom of options.</li></ul><p><strong>The following are among the most common forms of controlling the options:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Color the Choices: </strong>Propose multiple solutions, but present the preferred one in the best light compared to the others. Excellent device for the insecure master.</li><li><strong>Force the Resister: </strong>This is a good technique to use on children and other willful people who enjoy doing the opposite of what you ask them to: Push them to choose what you want them to do by appearing to advocate the opposite.</li><li><strong>Alter the Playing Field: </strong>In this tactic your opponents know their hand is being forced, but it doesn’t matter. The technique is effective against those who resist at all costs.</li><li><strong>The Shrinking Options: </strong>A variation on this technique is to raise the price every time the buyer hesitates and another day goes by. This is an excellent negotiating ploy to use on the chronically indecisive, who will fall for the idea that they are getting a better deal today than if they wait till tomorrow.</li><li><strong>The Weak Man on the Precipice: </strong>He would describe all sorts of dangers, exaggerating them as much as possible, until the duke saw a yawning abyss in every direction except one: the one Retz was pushing him to take. This tactic is similar to &quot;Color the Choices,&quot; but with the weak you have to be more aggressive. Work on their emotions—use fear and terror to propel them into action. Try reason and they will always find a way to procrastinate.</li><li><strong>Brothers in Crime: </strong>This is a classic con-artist technique: You attract your victims to some criminal scheme, creating a bond of blood and guilt between you. They participate in your deception, commit a crime (or think they do), and are easily manipulated. It is often wise to implicate in your deceptions the very person who can do you the most harm if you fail. Their involvement can be subtle—even a hint of their involvement will narrow their options and buy their silence.</li><li><strong>The Horns of a Dilemma: </strong>This is a classic trial lawyer’s technique: The lawyer leads the witnesses to decide between two possible explanations of an event, both of which poke a hole in their story. They have to answer the lawyer’s questions, but whatever they say they hurt themselves. The key to this move is to strike quickly: Deny the victim the time to think of an escape. As they wriggle between the horns of the dilemma, they dig their own grave.</li><li>Controlling the options has one main purpose: to disguise yourself as the agent of power and punishment.</li></ul><h6><strong>32. Play to people’s fantasies.</strong></h6><p><em>The truth is often avoided because it is ugly and unpleasant. Never appeal to truth and reality unless you are prepared for the anger that comes from disenchantment. Life is so harsh and distressing that people who can manufacture romance or conjure up fantasy are like oases in the desert: Everyone flocks to them. There is great power in tapping into the fantasies of the masses.</em></p><ul><li>Never promise a gradual improvement through hard work; rather, promise the moon, the great and sudden transformation, the pot of gold.</li><li>The key to fantasy is distance - the distance has allure and promise, seems simple and problem free. What you are offering, then, should be ungraspable. Never let it become oppressively familiar.</li></ul><h6><strong>33. Discover each man’s thumbscrew.</strong></h6><p><em>Everyone has a weakness, a gap in the castle wall. That weakness is usually an insecurity, an uncontrollable emotion or need; it can also be a small secret pleasure. Either way, once found, it is a thumbscrew you can turn to your advantage.</em></p><p><strong>How to find weaknesses:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Pay Attention to Gestures and Unconscious Signals:</strong> everyday conversation is a great place to look. Start by always seeming interested. Offer a revelation of your own if needed. Probe for suspected weaknesses indirectly. Train your eyes for details.</li><li><strong>Find the Helpless Child: </strong>knowing about a childhood can often reveal weaknesses, or when they revert to acting like a child.</li><li><strong>Look for Contrasts: </strong>an overt trait often conceals its opposite. The shy crave attention, the uptight want adventure, etc.</li><li><strong>Find the Weak Link: </strong>find the person who will bend under pressure, or the one who pulls strings behind the scenes.</li><li><strong>Fill the Void: </strong>the two main emotional voids are insecurity and unhappiness.</li><li><strong>Feed on Uncontrollable Emotions: </strong>the uncontrollable emotion can be a paranoid fear or any base motive such as lust, greed, vanity or hatred.</li><li>Always look for passions and obsessions that cannot be controlled. The stronger the passion, the more vulnerable the person.</li><li>People’s need for validation and recognition, their need to feel important, is the best kind of weakness to exploit. To do so, all you need to do is find ways to make people feel better about their taste, their social standing, their intelligence.</li><li>Timidity can be exploited by pushing them into bold actions that serve your needs while also making them dependent on you.</li></ul><h6><strong>34. Be royal in your own fashion: act like a king to be treated like one.</strong></h6><p><em>The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated: In the long run, appearing vulgar or common will make people disrespect you. For a king respects himself and inspires the same sentiment in others. By acting regally and confident of your powers, you make yourself seem destined to wear a crown.</em></p><ul><li>How you carry yourself reflects what you think of yourself.</li><li><strong>Use The Strategy of the Crown</strong> - if we believe we are destined for great things, our belief will radiate outward, just as a crown creates an aura around a king.</li><li>The trick is simple: be overcome by your self-belief.</li><li>This may separate you from people, but that’s the point. You must always act with dignity, though this should not be confused with arrogance.</li><li>Dignity is the mask you assume that makes it as if nothing can affect you, and you have all the time in the world to respond.</li></ul><p>There are other strategies to help:</p><ul><li><strong>The Columbus Strategy</strong>: always make a bold demand. Set your price high and do not waver.</li><li><strong>The David and Goliath Strategy:</strong> go after the highest person in the building. This immediately puts you on the same plane as the chief executive you are attacking.</li><li><strong>The Patron Strategy:</strong> give a gift of some sort to those above you.</li></ul><h6><strong>35. Master the art of timing.</strong></h6><p><em>Never seem to be in a hurry-hurrying betrays a lack of control over yourself, and over time. Always seem patient, as if you know that everything will come to you eventually. Become a detective of the right moment; sniff out the spirit of the times, the trends that will carry you to power. Learn to stand back when the time is not yet ripe, and to strike fiercely when it has reached fruition.</em></p><p><strong>Three types of time and how to deal with them:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Long Time: </strong>be patient, control your emotions, and take advantage of opportunities when they arise. You will gain long-term perspective and see further in the future.</li><li><strong>Forced Time: </strong>the trick in forcing time is to upset the timing of others - to make them hurry, make them wait, make them abandon their own pace. Use the deadline, apply sudden pressure, change pace to use this.</li><li><strong>End Time: </strong>patience is useless unless combined with a willingness to act decisively at the right moment. Use speed to paralyze your opponents, cover any mistakes, and impress people with your aura of authority and finality.</li></ul><h6><strong>36. Disdain things you cannot have: ignoring them is the best revenge.</strong></h6><p><em>By acknowledging a petty problem you give it existence and credibility. The more attention you pay an enemy, the stronger you make him; and a small mistake is often made worse and more visible when you try to fix it. It is sometimes best to leave things alone. If there is something you want but cannot have, show contempt for it. The less interest you reveal, the more superior you seem.</em></p><ul><li>Desire creates paradoxical effects: the more you want something, the more you chase after it, the more it eludes you. You need to do the reverse: turn your back on what you want, show your contempt and disdain to create desire.</li><li>Instead of focusing attention on a problem, it is often better not to acknowledge it’s existence:</li><li>Sour-grapes approach: act as if something never really interested you in the first place.</li><li>When attacked, look away, answer sweetly, and show how little the attack concerns you. </li><li>Treat it lightly if you have committed a blunder.</li><li>Note: make sure to show the above publicly, but to monitor the problem privately, making sure it is remedied.</li></ul><h6><strong>37. Create compelling spectacles.</strong></h6><p><em>Striking imagery and grand symbolic gestures create the aura of power—everyone responds to them. Stage spectacles for those around you, then, full of arresting visuals and radiant symbols that heighten your presence. Dazzled by appearances, no one will notice what you are really doing.</em></p><ul><li>Words often go astray, but symbols and the visual strike with emotional power and immediacy.</li><li>Find an associate yourself with powerful images and symbols to gain power.</li><li>Most effective of all is a new combination - a fusion of images and symbols that have not been seen together before, but that clearly demonstrate your new idea, message, religion.</li></ul><h6><strong>38. Think as you like but behave like others.</strong></h6><ul><li><em>If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.</em></li><li>Flaunting your pleasure in alien ways of thinking and acting will reveal a different motive - to demonstrate your superiority over your fellows.</li><li>Wise and clever people learn early on that they can display conventional behavior and mouth conventional ideas without having to believe in them. The power these people gain from blending in is that of being left alone to have the thoughts they want to have, and to express them to the people they want to express them to, without suffering isolation or ostracism.</li><li>The only time it is worth standing out is when you already stand out—when you have achieved an unshakable position of power, and can display your difference from others as a sign of the distance between you.</li></ul><h6><strong>39. Stir up waters to catch fish.</strong></h6><p><em>Anger and emotion are strategically counterproductive. You must always stay calm and objective. But if you can make your enemies angry while staying calm yourself, you gain a decided advantage. Put your enemies off-balance: Find the chink in their vanity through which you can rattle them and you hold the strings.</em></p><ul><li>This is the essence of the Law: When the waters are still, your opponents have the time and space to plot actions that they will initiate and control. So stir the waters, force the fish to the surface, get them to act before they are ready, steal the initiative. The best way to do this is to play on uncontrollable emotions—pride, vanity, love, hate.</li><li>Angry people end up looking ridiculous. It is comical how much they take personally, and more comical how they belief that outbursts signify power.</li><li>We should not repress our angry or emotional responses, but rather that realize in the social realm, and the game of power, nothing is personal.</li><li>Reveal an apparent weakness to lure your opponent into action.</li><li>In the face of someone angry, nothing is more infuriating than someone who keeps his cool while others are losing theirs.</li><li>Note: do not provoke those who are too powerful.</li><li>There are times when a burst of anger can do good, but it must be manufactured and under your control.</li></ul><h6><strong>40. Despise the free lunch.</strong></h6><p><em>What is offered for free is dangerous-it usually involves either a trick or a hidden obligation. What has worth is worth paying for. By paying your own way you stay clear of gratitude, guilt, and deceit. It is also often wise to pay the full price—there is no cutting corners with excellence. Be lavish with your money and keep it circulating, for generosity is a sign and a magnet for power.</em></p><ul><li>What is offered for free often has a psychological price tag - complicated feelings of obligation, compromises with quality, the insecurity those compromises bring, on and on. By paying the full price, you keep your independence and room to maneuver.</li><li>Being open and flexible with money also teaches the value of strategic generosity.</li></ul><p><strong>Avoid these people who fail to use money creatively and strategically, or turn their inflexibility to your advantage:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Greedy Fish. </strong>The greedy fish take the human side out of money. Cold and ruthless, they see only the lifeless balance sheet; viewing others solely as either pawns or obstructions in their pursuit of wealth, they trample on people’s sentiments and alienate valuable allies. No one wants to work with the greedy fish, and over the years they end up isolated, which often proves their undoing. Easy to deceive with promise of money.</li><li><strong>The Bargain Demon. </strong>Powerful people judge everything by what it costs, not just in money but in time, dignity, and peace of mind. And this is exactly what Bargain Demons cannot do. Wasting valuable time digging for bargains, they worry endlessly about what they could have gotten elsewhere for a little less. Just avoid these types.</li><li><strong>The Sadist. </strong>Financial sadists play vicious power games with money as a way of asserting their power. They believe the money they give you allows them to abuse your time. Accept a financial loss instead of getting entangled.</li><li><strong>The Indiscriminate Giver.</strong> These people give to everyone, and as a result no one feels special. Appealing as a mark, but you will often feel burdened by their emotional need.</li><li>Never let lust for money lure you from true power. Make power your goal and money will find it’s way to you.</li><li>Note: bait your deceptions with the possibility of easy money, and many will fall for it.</li></ul><h6><strong>41. Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes.</strong></h6><p><em>What happens first always appears better and more original than what comes after. If you succeed a great man or have a famous parent, you will have to accomplish double their achievements to outshine them. Do not get lost in their shadow, or stuck in a past not of your own making: Establish your own name and identity by changing course. Slay the overbearing father, disparage his legacy, and gain power by shining in your own way.</em></p><ul><li>If you cannot start materially from ground zero - it would be foolish to renounce an inheritance- you can at least begin from ground zero psychologically.</li><li>Never let yourself be seen as following your predecessor’s path. You must physically demonstrate your difference, by establishing a style and symbolism that set you apart.</li><li>Repeating actions will not re-create success, because circumstances never repeat themselves exactly.</li><li>Success and power make us lazy - you must reset psychologically to counter this laziness.</li></ul><h6><strong>42. Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter.</strong></h6><p><em>Trouble can often be traced to a single strong individual —the stirrer, the arrogant underling, the poisoner of goodwill. If you allow such people room to operate, others will succumb to their influence. Do not wait for the troubles they cause to multiply, do not try to negotiate with them—they are irredeemable. Neutralize their influence by isolating or banishing them. Strike at the source of the trouble and the sheep will scatter.</em></p><ul><li>In every group, power is concentrated in the hands of one or two people.</li><li>When troubles arise, find the source, and isolate them - physically, politically or psychologically. Separate them from their power base.</li></ul><h6><strong>43. Work on the hearts and minds of others.</strong></h6><p><em>Coercion creates a reaction that will eventually work against you. You must seduce others into wanting to move in your direction. A person you have seduced becomes your loyal pawn. And the way to seduce others is to operate on their individual psychologies and weaknesses. Soften up the resistant by working on their emotions, playing on what they hold dear and what they fear. Ignore the hearts and minds of others and they will grow to hate you.</em></p><ul><li>Remember: The key to persuasion is softening people up and breaking them down, gently. Seduce them with a two-pronged approach: Work on their emotions and play on their intellectual weaknesses. Be alert to both what separates them from everyone else (their individual psychology) and what they share with everyone else (their basic emotional responses). Aim at the primary emotions—love, hate, jealousy. Once you move their emotions you have reduced their control, making them more vulnerable to persuasion.</li><li>Play on contrasts: push people to despair, then give them relief. If they expect pain and you give them pleasure, you win their hearts.</li><li>Symbolic gestures of self-sacrifice can win sympathy and goodwill.</li><li>The quickest way to secure people’s minds is by demonstrating, as simply as possible, how an action will benefit them.</li></ul><h6><strong>44. Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect.</strong></h6><p><em>The mirror reflects reality, but it is also the perfect tool for deception: When you mirror your enemies, doing exactly as they do, they cannot figure out your strategy. The Mirror Effect mocks and humiliates them, making them overreact. By holding up a mirror to their psyches, you seduce them with the illusion that you share their values; by holding up a mirror to their actions, you teach them a lesson. Few can resist the power of the Mirror Effect.</em></p><ul><li><strong>Mirror Effects can disturb or entrance others, giving you power to manipulate or seduce them.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>There are four main Mirror effects:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The Neutralizing Effect: </strong>do what your enemies do, following their actions as best you can, and they are blinded. A reverse version is the Shadow - shadow your opponents every move without them seeing you.</li><li><strong>The Narcissus Effect: </strong>look into the desires, values, tastes, spirit of others, and reflect it back to them.</li><li><strong>The Moral Effect: </strong>teach others by giving them a taste of their own medicine. They must realize you are doing to them the same thing they did to you.</li><li><strong>The Hallucinatory Effect: </strong>create a perfect copy of an object, a place, a person, that people take for the real thing, because it has the physical appearance of the real thing.</li><li>Understand: Everyone is wrapped up in their own narcissistic shell. When you try to impose your own ego on them, a wall goes up, resistance is increased. By mirroring them, however, you seduce them into a kind of narcissistic rapture: They are gazing at a double of their own soul. This double is actually manufactured in its entirety by you. Once you have used the mirror to seduce them, you have great power over them.</li><li>One way to create a mirror for someone is to teach them a lesson through an analogy, avoiding the reactionary increase in resistance you’d encounter if brought up directly.</li><li>Note: avoid mirrored situations you don’t understand, as those involved will quickly see through it, and the mirrored situation will not live up to the original.</li></ul><h6><strong>45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once.</strong></h6><p><em>Everyone understands the need for change in the abstract, but on the day-to-day level people are creatures of habit. Too much innovation is traumatic, and will lead to revolt. If you are new to a position of power, or an outsider trying to build a power base, make a show of respecting the old way of doing things. If change is necessary, make it feel like a gentle improvement on the past.</em></p><ul><li>Borrow the weight and legitimacy from the past, however remote, to create a comforting and familiar presence.</li><li>Humans desire change in the abstract, or superficial change, but a change that upsets core habits and routines is deeply disturbing to them.</li><li>Understand: The fact that the past is dead and buried gives you the freedom to reinterpret it. To support your cause, tinker with the facts. The past is a text in which you can safely insert your own lines.</li><li>A simple gesture like using an old title, or keeping the same number for a group, will tie you to the past and support you with the authority of history.</li></ul><h6><strong>46. Never appear too perfect.</strong></h6><p><em>Appearing better than others is always dangerous, but most dangerous of all is to appear to have no faults or weaknesses. Envy creates silent enemies. It is smart to occasionally display defects, and admit to harmless vices, in order to deflect envy and appear more human and approachable. Only gods and the dead can seem perfect with impunity.</em></p><ul><li>Either dampen your brilliance occasionally, purposefully revealing a defect, weakness, or anxiety, or attributing your success to luck; or simply find yourself new friends. Never underestimate the power of envy.</li><li>The envy of the masses can be deflected quite easily - appear as one of them in style and values. Never flaunt your wealth, and carefully conceal the degree to which it has bought influence. Make a display of deferring to others, as if they were more powerful than you.</li><li>Use envy to motivate you to greater heights.</li><li>Keep a wary eye for envy in those below you as you grow more successful.</li><li>Expect that those envious of you will work against you.</li><li>Emphasize luck, and do not adopt a false modesty that will be seen through.</li><li>Deflect envy of political power by not seeming ambitious. </li><li>Disguise your power as a kind of self-sacrifice rather than a source of happiness for you. Emphasize your troubles and you turn potential envy into a source of moral support (pity).</li><li>Beware signs of envy: excessive praise, hypercritical people, public slandering.</li><li>Note: once envy is present, it is sometimes best to display the utmost disdain for those who envy you.</li></ul><h6><strong>47. Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop.</strong></h6><p><em>The moment of victory is often the moment of greatest peril. In the heat of victory, arrogance and overconfidence can push you past the goal you had aimed for, and by going too far, you make more enemies than you defeat. Do not allow success to go to your head. There is no substitute for strategy and careful planning. Set a goal, and when you reach it, stop.</em></p><ul><li>Understand: In the realm of power, you must be guided by reason. To let a momentary thrill or an emotional victory influence or guide your moves will prove fatal. When you attain success, step back. Be cautious. When you gain victory, understand the part played by the particular circumstances of a situation, and never simply repeat the same actions again and again. History is littered with the ruins of victorious empires and the corpses of leaders who could not learn to stop and consolidate their gains.</li><li>The powerful vary their rhythms and patterns, change course, adapt to circumstance, and learn to improvise. They control their emotions, and step back and come to a mental halt when they have attained success.</li><li>Good luck is more dangerous than bad luck, because it deludes you into thinking your own brilliance is the reason for your success.</li><li>Note: There are some who become more cautious than ever after a victory, which they see as just giving them more possessions to worry about and protect. Your caution after victory should never make you hesitate, or lose momentum, but rather act as a safeguard against rash action. On the other hand, momentum as a phenomenon is greatly overrated. You create your own successes, and if they follow one upon the other, it is your own doing. Belief in momentum will only make you emotional, less prone to act strategically, and more apt to repeat the same methods. Leave momentum for those who have nothing better to rely upon.</li></ul><h6><strong>48. Assume formlessness.</strong></h6><p><em>By taking a shape, by having a visible plan, you open yourself to attack. Instead of taking a form for your enemy to grasp, keep yourself adaptable and on the move. Accept the fact that nothing is certain and no law is fixed. The best way to protect yourself is to be as fluid and formless as water; never bet on stability or lasting order. Everything changes.</em></p><ul><li>The powerful are constantly creating form, and their power comes from the rapidity with which they can change.</li><li>The first psychological requirement of formlessness is to train yourself to take nothing personally. Never show any defensiveness.</li><li>When you find yourself in conflict with someone stronger and more rigid, allow them a momentary victory. Seem to bow to their superiority. Then, by being formless, slowly insinuate yourself.</li><li>The need for formlessness becomes greater as we age, as we become more likely to become set in our ways and assume too rigid a form. As you get older, you must rely even less on the past.</li><li>Remember: Formlessness is a tool. Never confuse it with a go-with-the-flow style, or with a religious resignation to the twists of fortune. You use formlessness, not because it creates inner harmony and peace, but because it will increase your power.</li><li>Finally, learning to adapt to each new circumstance means seeing events through your own eyes, and often ignoring the advice that people constantly peddle your way. It means that ultimately you must throw out the laws that others preach, and the books they write to tell you what to do, and the sage advice of the elder.</li><li>Note: when you do finally engage an enemy, hit them with a powerful, concentrated blow.</li></ul><p>Read the book notes for <a href="/book-notes/the-50th-law-robert-greene">The 50th Law - Robert Greene.</a></p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[An excellent book on how to improve your golf game.This book has a nice balance of anecdotes, theory, and actionable advice.I would recommend also reading The Inner Game of Golf for a more concrete list of exercises to practice improving the mental side of your golf game.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Golf potential depends primarily on a player’s attitude, how well they play with the wedges and putter, and how well they think.</li><li>People become what they think of themselves. For a golfer, it means they must believe in the process.</li><li>You cannot think about the mechanics of your swing while you are playing.</li><li>If you miss a shot, you’re due to nail the next one. If you’ve hit some good ones, you’re on a hot streak. You need to create your own reality that gives you confidence to make your shots.</li><li>Before you take any shot, you must fixate on the smallest possible target.</li><li>An elevated target is often best, and you must take your swing curve into effect. But never aim somewhere where your ball would be in trouble if you hit it straight.</li><li>You need a preshot routine for consistency.</li><li>A preshot routine has some typical steps: decisive club selection, picking a target, feeling your lie (often with some practice swings), visualizing the ball flight, look at the target, look at the ball, and swing.</li><li>Make your routine as short and simple as possible, and trust your first reaction for club selection or the break of a putt.</li><li>You should be spending 70 percent of your practice time on shots from 120 yards in.</li><li>Your short game is what will help you score. Anytime you’re inside 120 yards, you need to be thinking only of the target and getting the ball in the hole.</li><li>If you can’t see the hole (elevated green), think of dropping the ball on the flagstick.</li><li>Putting is largely mental. It’s more important to be decisive about a read than correct.</li><li>For breaking putts, choose an alternative target at the same distance as the hole. For uphill or downhill putts, think about a target before or after the hole. Sometimes the correct target may be the top of a ridge.</li><li>For uphill putts, you can think of hitting the ball so it hits the back of the cup. For downhill putts, you can think of it barely dripping in.</li><li>Take your practice putting strokes while looking at the target. Avoid mechanical thoughts.</li><li>Do not putt to a radius on lag putts. Always aim to make it.</li><li>You must accept every shot you hit. A mantra is a good way to help: “Golf is not a game of perfect” or “You gotta love it. This is what golf is all about.”</li><li>Avoid any expectations when you step on the golf course. You should have only two goals: to have fun, and to get your mind in the right place on every shot.</li><li>If you must have any expectations, expect to make mistakes. It makes it easier to accept them when they happen.</li><li>When you’re thinking about hitting a shot, try to remember the best shot you’ve ever hit with that club. We choose the shots we remember.</li><li>The key to a successful amateur strategy: hit the shot you know you can hit.</li><li>You must have a game plan for every significant round you play.</li><li>For professionals, inside 120 yards they should be going for the hole. From 120 to 170 it depends on the circumstances. From over 170, they should go for the fattest part of the green.</li><li>Always assume your opponent will hit the best possible shot. Then you’ll be expecting it if it happens.</li><li>Avoid thinking about your score at all. Focus on the present and a single shot at a time.</li><li>The quality of your practice is much more important than the quantity.</li><li>There are two practice modes: training and trusting. Training is when you’re trying to fix mechanical things. Trusting is when you’re preparing for the golf course.</li><li>You must spend at least 60 percent of your practice time in the trusting mentality. Even more as you get closer to competition.</li><li>Every player should spend the majority of their practice time on their short game. Chip from the fringe until you sink 2 as a starting point.</li><li>The weekend player should have at least 3 shots: a chip from the edge of the green, a flop from further away, and a sand shot that will go 15-20 feet to get out of bunkers.</li><li>Once these are practiced, most of the rest of the time should be spent on shots from 40-120 yards.</li><li>Compete at short-game drills and games. It helps add a little pressure.</li><li>Spend no more than 30% of time on full swing, and most of that on the club you use off the tee to absolutely hit the fairway.</li><li>Lots of putting practice isn’t needed. But there are some useful putting drills: putt on a chalk line; do a putting ladder (slightly increasing or decreasing distance around 8-12 feet with each putt); or putt to the fringe.</li><li>Before a round, practice holing putts (2-4 feet). Missing practice putts does not help confidence.</li><li>You must have commitment to improve at golf. The happiest people have commitment with everything they do.</li><li>And if you’re committed to improving, you’ll realize you love golf because of what it teaches you about yourself.</li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Eat That Frog! by Brian Tracy: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/eat-that-frog-brian-tracy</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2023 23:22:13 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A classic in the world of productivity, this book delivers on providing clear, concise guidelines on how to get more done.A short read to begin with, most of what you’ll need to remember can be gleaned from the summary at the end.Read it once, and then keep the short list of principles nearby to refer back to.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Ask successful people what they do, then do the same things until you get the same results.</li><li><strong>The ability to focus on your single most important task, to completion, is the key to great success.</strong> That is the central insight of this book.</li><li>Another key to success: action. Always pushing to take the first step towards accomplishing a goal as quickly as possible.</li><li>In a world that is changing faster than ever before, these skills are even more important than ever before.</li><li>The term “eat that frog” comes from Mark Twain, and the idea is this: <strong>tackle your biggest, most important task first, every day.</strong></li><li>Vagueness is a big cause of procrastination. The solution is clarity. Get better clarity by thinking on paper, writing down what you want, what needs to be done, and the first steps to get there.</li><li>Then, take action immediately on the first step.</li><li>Plan your day in advance, and always work from a list. If something new comes up, don’t change your plan, add it to the list.</li><li>Some lists you should keep: a master list with everything, a monthly list for the upcoming month, a weekly list for the upcoming week, and a daily list for what you’re going to do tomorrow.</li><li>Apply the 80/20 principle everywhere. 20% of your activities will provide 80% of the results. Focus on finding those activities.</li><li><strong>Avoid the temptation to clear up small things first.</strong></li><li>Long-term thinking improves short-term decision making. If you can put things in a long-term context, and think about those consequences, you can choose what to work on in the short-term.</li><li>Law of Forced Efficiency: “There is never enough time to do everything, but there is always enough time to do the most important thing.”</li><li>Do first things first and second things not at all.</li><li>Procrastination can be useful; you have to procrastinate on <strong><em>something</em></strong>, so make sure it’s the small tasks.</li><li>Say no to anything that is not a high-value use of your time and your life.</li><li>We all have key result areas where we must deliver to do our jobs well. Your <strong><em>weakest</em></strong> key result area is what limits your success.</li><li>Most people, when forced to write down their 3 most important goals, have one in each of the following categories: finance &amp; career, family or relationship, and health &amp; fitness.</li><li>85 percent of your happiness will come from your relationships with other people.</li><li>It is the <strong><em>quality</em></strong> of time at work, and the <strong>quantity</strong> of time at home that matters.</li><li>A good workspace is critical to getting things done quickly. Make sure you have everything you need before you start.</li><li>Continuous learning is a requirement for success in every field.</li><li>There is almost always one limiting factor which sets the speed at which something can be accomplished. You need to figure out what it is, and remove it. Continuously.</li><li>Pretend that you must finish all your most important tasks in one day. How does that change what you work on? How does it improve your urgency?</li><li>Go to bed by 10pm each night and take one full day off per week.</li><li>Eat high-protein, low-carb, and avoid sugar. Exercise 200 minutes per week.</li><li>Become an optimist and talk to yourself as if you were a cheerleader: “You can do it!”</li><li>Refuse to complain about your problems. Keep them to yourself.</li><li>Technology must be a tool for you, not something that controls you. Avoid it if it’s not helping you get your most important task done. Avoid distractions as much as possible.</li><li>Carve out big chunks of undisturbed time during which you can get things done. Creating these chunks first thing in the morning can have a huge effect on your overall productivity.</li><li>Momentum Principle of Success: though it may take tremendous amounts of energy to overcome inertia and get started initially, it then takes far less energy to keep it going.</li><li>To get started, just repeat “Do it now! Do it now! Do it now!” to yourself.</li><li>Once you begin a task, resolve to continue it until it is finished. Stopping and starting over and over is far less productive.</li><li>“Every great achievement of humankind has been preceded by a long period of hard, concentrated work until the job was done.”</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/rich-dad-poor-dad-robert-kiyosaki</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2023 01:52:20 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[An excellent book on how to become wealthy. I wish I had read this sooner.This book is focused more on overall principles, but there are enough concrete examples to inspire further research and get you thinking.If only this was taught in school!]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Introduction</h5><ul><li>Mindset matters when it comes to money. “Broke is temporary. Poor is eternal.”</li></ul><h5><strong>Lesson 1: The poor and middle class work for money. The rich have money work for them.</strong></h5><ul><li>People’s lives are controlled by two emotions: fear and greed.</li><li>Fear of being without money motivates us to work hard. Greed gets us to spend that money. Most people never break that cycle.</li></ul><h5><strong>Lesson 2:It’s not how much money you make. It’s how much money you keep</strong>.</h5><ul><li>Rich people acquire assets. The poor and middle class acquire liabilities that they think are assets (like homes).</li><li>Simply defined, assets put money in your pocket. Liabilities take money out.</li><li>If you want to be rich, spend your life buying assets.</li><li>Educational doesn’t teach a person to be financially literate. Many people are highly educated but know nothing about money.</li><li>Houses are one of the things that most people mistake for assets. That is rarely (if ever) the case.</li><li>This doesn’t mean don’t buy a house, or a bigger house; it just means you may want to buy assets that will produce the cash flow to buy the bigger house.</li><li>Definition of wealth: if I stopped working today, how long could I survive?</li></ul><h5><strong>Lesson 3: The rich focus on their assets while everyone else focuses on their income.</strong></h5><ul><li>To become financially secure, you need to mind your own business.</li><li>Keep your day job, but start buying real assets.</li><li>Keep expenses low, reduce liabilities, and build a base of solid assets.</li><li>Buy luxuries last.</li></ul><p>So what are assets?</p><ul><li>Businesses that are run/managed by other people (don’t require my presence)</li><li>Stocks</li><li>Bonds</li><li>Income-generating real estate</li><li>Notes (IOUs)</li><li>Royalties from intellectual property (music, scripts, patents)</li><li>Anything else that has value, produces income or appreciates, and has a ready market</li></ul><h5><strong>Lesson 4: Use corporations to build your wealth.</strong></h5><ul><li>Corporations pay lower tax than individuals, which is why they’re good for building wealth.</li><li>In addition, there are often tax breaks—like Section 1031 in the US—that give advantages to specific transactions.</li><li>Financial IQ is made up of four broad areas: accounting, investing, understanding markets, and the law.</li><li>Business owners with corporations: earn, spend, THEN pay taxes.</li><li>Employees who work for corporations: earn, THEN pay taxes, then spend.</li></ul><h5><strong>Lesson 5: The rich invent money; often it’s not the smart that get ahead, but the bold.</strong></h5><ul><li>We are all held back by self-doubt.</li><li>Financial genius requires both technical knowledge and courage. If fear is too strong, genius is suppressed.</li><li>Financial intelligence is about having more options, and being more creative in how you solve financial problems.</li><li><strong>The single most powerful asset we have is our minds.</strong></li><li>If the opportunity is too complex or you don’t understand the investment, don’t do it. Simple math and common sense are enough to do well financially.</li><li>As a general philosophy, plant small seeds in your asset column. They don’t have to be big investments.</li><li>A passive income of $100K per year is not hard to achieve, and can be done in 5 to 10 years depending on the market and how smart you are.</li><li>Remember to have fun. Most people never win because they’re afraid of losing. But building your asset column can be as fun a game as you’ve ever played.</li><li>The best deals are usually the ones you put together yourself, not that are packaged. To do this well you need to develop three main skills: find opportunities that everyone else missed, raise money, and organize smart people.</li><li>Example: “typing up” a real estate deal, where you find the buyer and seller and agree to terms, but before handing over any money.</li></ul><h5><strong>Lesson 6: Work to learn, don’t work for money.</strong></h5><ul><li>You want to know a little about a lot, not be specialized in one small area.</li><li>Learn to sell, learn trade, learn leadership. Find broad areas to learn about that will help you in business and build your skills.</li><li>Question: “Where is this daily activity taking you?”</li><li>Fear of failure and rejection are two blockers to success too; learn to overcome those.</li><li>The most important skills to learn: management of cash flow, management of systems, management of people.</li><li>The most important specialized skills are sales and marketing.</li><li>Communication skills are crucial too: writing, speaking, and negotiating.</li></ul><h5><strong>7: Overcoming Obstacles</strong></h5><ul><li>There are five main reasons why financially literate people may not develop big asset columns: fear, cynicism, laziness, bad habits, &amp; arrogance.</li><li>“If you hate risk and worry, start early.” It’s easier to take risks and learn when you’re young.</li><li>You have to overcome the fear of taking risk if you want to make money.</li><li>Failure inspires winners. Failure defeats losers.</li><li>If you have a little money and you want to be rich, you must first be focused, not balanced. Put a lot of eggs in one basket. FOCUS: Follow One Course Until Successful.</li><li>“Cynics criticize, and winners analyze.”</li><li>“I-don’t-wants hold the key to your success.” For example, no one wants to fix toilets—so find a great property manager. They will help your cash flow go up (by running great rentals, etc.) and often can source deals too.</li><li>Overcoming laziness: change “I can’t afford it” to “how can I afford it?” Use your greed to your advantage.</li><li>“How can I afford to never work again?”</li></ul><h5><strong>8: Getting Started</strong></h5><ul><li>There is gold everywhere. Most people aren’t trained to see it.</li><li><strong>Find a greater reason for what you’re doing</strong>. Having a purpose will keep you motivated. You can start with “don’t wants” (ex: “I don’t want to work my whole life”) which makes it easy to come up with “wants” (”I want to have enough cashflow each month to live without a job”).</li><li><strong>Make the hard daily choices</strong>. The choice to learn (what you do with your time), to save (what you do with your money)</li><li><strong>Choose friends carefully.</strong> Choose friends who you can learn from.</li><li><strong>Master a formula and then learn a new one</strong>. Learn fast and have the discipline to implement what you’ve learned. The skill of how to learn fast is even more important with the pace the world changes today.</li><li><strong>Pay yourself first.</strong> Be disciplined in putting money in your assets column first. Don’t get into consumer debt.</li><li><strong>Pay your brokers well</strong>. Bad advice will cost you far more than paying professionals well. Their services should make you money. Be careful choosing though, you want brokers who are like you and have expertise in your area. Information is king in this age.</li><li><strong>Use assets to buy luxuries</strong>. Create money from assets and THEN buy luxuries.</li><li><strong>Give and you will receive</strong>. Whenever you feel short or in need of something, try to give first. It will come back to you.</li><li><strong>Look for new ideas.</strong> At the bookstore, online, wherever. Find new ideas and formulas and try them out.</li><li><strong>Find someone who has done what you want to do</strong>. Find the workers in the county office, the experts in the field, whatever, and take them to lunch to learn from them.</li><li><strong>Take classes, read, and attend seminars.</strong> You’ll find more opportunities this way.</li><li><strong>Make lots of offers</strong>. Make conditional offers (example: approval of my business partner). You never know when you’ll find one that works out. So many people make things more difficult than it is, and take it too seriously.</li><li><strong>Profits are made in the buying, not the selling.</strong></li><li><strong>Look for people who want to buy first</strong>. If you find someone wanting to buy, you can find what they want and take a piece of the action. Buy the pie, and cut it in pieces.</li><li><strong>Action always beats inaction</strong>.</li></ul><h5>Final Thoughts</h5><p><strong>The key to becoming wealthy is the ability to convert earned income into passive income or portfolio income as quickly as possible.</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Turning Pro by Steven Pressfield: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/turning-pro-steven-pressfield</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 16:25:21 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[An excellent, motivating short read about how to pursue your ambition and turn from an amateur to a professional.I love short, punchy books like this; they are satisfying on first read but can be read over and over whenever needed.Steven Pressfield is well known for The War of Art, and this accompanies that book perfectly.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>“I was 31. I had saved up $2,700 and moved from New York City to a little town in northern California. I rented a house behind another house for $105 a month. I had my old Chevy van, my Smith-Corona typewriter, and my cat, Mo.</li><li>Every Monday morning I walked into the village to the Bank of America and took out $25. That sum lasted me for the next seven days.</li><li>I didn’t talk to anybody during my year of turning pro. I didn’t hang out. I just worked. I had a book in mind and I had decided I would finish it or kill myself. I could not run away again, or let people down again, or let myself down again. This was it, do or die.”</li></ul><h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Ambition is primal, and our life’s purpose is to pursue that ambition.</li><li>If we’re scared of our true calling, we’ll often pursue a “shadow career”—something that resembles our true calling in some way, but isn’t actually it.</li><li>The shadow life is characterized by pursuing the wrong things, often in the form of addiction.</li><li>We are addicted to distraction. And overcoming Resistance requires two things: concentration and depth.</li><li>When we project a quality or virtue onto someone else, we almost always possess that quality ourselves, but are afraid to embrace it.</li></ul><p>The amateur is characterized by many things:</p><ul><li>They are easily distracted</li><li>They permit fear to stop them from acting</li><li>They seek instant gratification</li><li>They care too much about the opinions of others</li></ul><p>When we turn Pro:</p><ul><li>We structure our days to overcome our fears</li><li>We no longer indulge the distractions we used to</li><li>We make new friends who are also facing their fears, and lose those that refuse to do so</li></ul><p>The professional:</p><ul><li>Will not be distracted</li><li>Is ruthless with themself</li><li>Lives in the present</li><li>Defers gratification</li><li>Does not wait for inspiration</li><li>Shows up every day</li><li>Is committed over the long haul</li><li>Accepts no excuses</li><li>Is prepared</li><li>Does not hesitate to ask for help</li><li>Does not take failure or success personally</li><li>Endures adversity</li></ul><p>As artists and entrepreneurs we receive two salaries:</p><ul><li>Conventional: money, applause, attention</li><li>Psychological: when we do work for itself alone, our pursuit becomes something larger: a practice.</li></ul><p>What is a practice? It has:</p><ul><li>A space</li><li>A time</li><li>An intention</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[James Clear's Atomic Habits: Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2023 16:25:21 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Fantastic book.  Everything a good book should be: concise, clear, and actionable.This is the best book on habit formation I have read, and will no doubt be a resource I continue to come back to.  James does an excellent job of providing all the required planning resources to go along with the book.Recommend for everyone who is trying to change and build new habits (ie. pretty much everyone). ‍]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5>Chapter 1 - The Surprising Power of Atomic Habits</h5><ul><li>You should be far more concerned with your current trajectory than with your current results. </li><li>Your outcomes are a lagging measure of your habits. </li><li>Breakthrough moments are often the result of many previous actions, which build up the potential required to unleash a major change. </li><li>If you’re having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn’t you. The problem is your system. </li><li>You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems. </li><li>If you want better results, then forget about setting goals. Focus on your system instead. </li><li>You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 2 - How Your Habits Shape Your Identity (and Vice Versa) </h5><ul><li>True behaviour change is identity change. </li><li>The goal is not to read a book, the goal is to become a reader. </li><li>Your identity emerges out of your habits. </li><li>Each time you read a page, you are a reader. </li><li>Every action is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 3 - How to Build Better Habits in 4 Simple Steps </h5><ul><li>Habits do not restrict freedom. They create it. </li><li>The process of building a habit can be divided into four simple steps: cue, craving, response, and reward. </li><li><strong>How to Create a Good Habit</strong></li><li><strong>The 1st law (Cue):</strong> Make it obvious. </li><li><strong>The 2nd law (Craving)</strong>: Make it attractive. </li><li><strong>The 3rd law (Response)</strong>: Make it easy. </li><li><strong>The 4th law (Reward)</strong>: Make it satisfying. </li><li>We can invert these laws to learn how to break a bad habit. </li><li><strong>How to Break a Bad Habit</strong></li><li><strong>Inversion of the 1st law (Cue)</strong>: Make it invisible. </li><li><strong>Inversion of the 2nd law (Craving):</strong> Make it unattractive. </li><li><strong>Inversion of the 3rd law (Response)</strong>: Make it difficult. </li><li><strong>Inversion of the 4th law (Reward)</strong>: Make it unsatisfying. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 5 - The Best Way to Start a New Habit </h5><ul><li>Broadly speaking, the format for creating an implementation intention is: </li><li>When situation X arises, I will perform response Y. </li><li>Many people think they lack motivation when what they really lack is clarity. </li><li><strong>The habit stacking formula is:</strong></li><li><strong>After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [NEW HABIT].</strong></li></ul><h5>Chapter 6 - Motivation is Overrated; Environment Often Matters More </h5><ul><li>Design your environment to motivate you to accomplish the things you want to. Visual stimuli help. </li><li>New environments can help eliminate old bad habits, and establish new ones. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 7 - The Secret to Self-Control </h5><ul><li>Avoid temptations that trigger bad habits. This is the only way to break bad habits. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 8 - How to Make a Habit Irresistible </h5><ul><li><strong>The habit stacking + temptation bundling formula is:</strong></li><li><strong>After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [HABIT I NEED].</strong></li><li><strong>After [HABIT I NEED], I will [HABIT I WANT].</strong></li></ul><h5>Chapter 9 - The Role of Family &amp; Friends in Shaping Your Habits </h5><ul><li>We tend to imitate the habits of three social groups: the close (family and friends), the many (the tribe), and the powerful (those with status and prestige). </li><li>One of the most effective things you can do to build better habits is to join a culture where (1) your desired behavior is the normal behavior and (2) you already have something in common with the group. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 10 - How to Find and Fix the Causes of Your Bad Habits </h5><ul><li>Change the language and frame of habits to make them positive. </li><li>Ex. I “get” to exercise today, instead of I “have” to exercise today. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 11 - Walk Slowly, but Never Backward </h5><ul><li><strong>Habits form based on frequency, not time.</strong></li><li>The most effective form of learning is practice, not planning. </li><li>Aim for <strong>action</strong> (ex: working out), not <strong>motion</strong> (ex: reading a book on exercise plans). </li></ul><h5>Chapter 12 - The Law of Least Effort </h5><ul><li>Create an environment where doing the right thing is as easy as possible. </li><li>Conversely, use environment design to make the wrong thing as difficult as possible. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 13 - How to Stop Procrastinating by Using the Two-Minute Rule </h5><ul><li>When you start a new habit, it should take less than two minutes to do. </li><li>Ex: “Read before bed each night” becomes “read one page.&quot; </li><li>Master the art of showing up, then refine. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 14 - How to Make Good Habits Inevitable and Bad Habits Impossible </h5><ul><li>The best way to break a bad habit is to make it impractical to do. Increase the friction until you don’t even have the option to act. </li><li>Automate as much of your life as possible. </li><li>Use commitment devices - a choice you make in the present that locks in future behaviour - to guarantee future actions. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 15 - The Cardinal Rule of Behaviour Change </h5><ul><li>What is rewarded is repeated. What is punished is avoided. </li><li>Add a small, immediate reward to good behaviours. </li><li>Ex: whenever you pass on a purchase, move that amount of money to a savings account for a future purchase. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 16 - How to Stick with Good Habits Every Day </h5><ul><li>Track your behaviour, ideally with something visual like a calendar. </li><li>Automate this tracking when possible. </li><li><strong>The habit stacking + habit tracking formula is:</strong></li><li><strong>After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [TRACK MY HABIT].</strong></li><li>Whenever you miss a habit, don’t panic, just: <strong>never miss twice.</strong></li></ul><h5>Chapter 17 - How an Accountability Partner Can Change Everything </h5><ul><li>Create a habit contract with a painful penalty with one or two other people. </li><li>The social cost (+ whatever penalty) will make violation painful. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 18 - The Truth About Talent </h5><ul><li>Align your habits with your natural inclinations and abilities. </li><li>Experiment with many things at first, and then when you find something you’re good at, exploit it and test variations occasionally. </li><li>To maximize success, choose the right field of competition. </li><li>Combine abilities to create a narrow field in which you can dominate. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 19 - The Goldilocks Rule: How to Stay Motivated in Life and Work </h5><ul><li>Humans experience peak motivation when working on tasks right on the edge of their current abilities (roughly 4% beyond your current capabilities). </li><li>Aim for a flow state - the experience of being in the zone and fully immersed in an activity. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 20 - The Downside of Creating Good Habits </h5><ul><li>Once a skill is mastered, there can be a decline in performance over time. </li><li><strong>Habits + Deliberate Practice = Mastery</strong></li><li>Establish a system of reflection and review to avoid complacency. </li><li>Make sure to keep your identity flexible. </li><li>“Keep your identity small” - Paul Graham </li></ul><h5>Conclusion: The Secret to Results That Last </h5><ul><li>Success is not a goal to reach or a finish line to cross. It is a system to improve, an endless process to refine. </li><li>The secret to getting results that last is to never stop making improvements. </li><li>It’s remarkable what you can build if you just don’t stop. </li><li>Small habits don’t add up. They compound. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[VC Pitch Tips for the Lazy]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 04 Mar 2023 17:59:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://twitter.com/plibin">Phil Libin has been tweeting</a> VC pitch tips that are pure gold the last few months, and given we&#x27;re coming up to <a href="https://techstars.strobetickets.com/details/demo-day-2016">Demo Day here at Techstars Boston (May 25, you&#x27;re invited!)</a>, it seemed a particularly good time to highlight some of the best. This post is modeled on one from <a href="https://medium.com/@stothelios">Stelios Constantinides</a> called <a href="https://medium.com/swlh/graham-for-the-lazy-51a170dacc86#.7z3uuacou">Paul Graham&#x27;s Startup Advice for the Lazy</a>, and curated with a Demo Day presentation in mind.</p><p>Get the full list of VC Pitch Tips, including those aimed at fundraising and general startup tips here.</p><h2>Demo Day VC Pitch Tips:</h2><ul><li>Why this? Why you? Why now?</li><li>Label your axes.</li><li>When you&#x27;re practicing the presentation in your head and you think you might apologize for some part of it, fix it instead.</li><li>Put aside financial interest and describe what the world looks like if your startup is successful. Make us want to live there.</li><li>Use your company name and logo intentionally and only when you want to have an impact. Don&#x27;t waste them on your slide masters.</li><li>It&#x27;s ok to be nervous and awkward. We&#x27;re looking for authenticity, originality, energy, infatuation and mastery; not polish.</li><li>You won&#x27;t get credit for hedging your bets; that&#x27;s why we have portfolios. Build your startup around a sharp point of view.</li><li>Don&#x27;t read your slides.</li><li>Even if this is the hundredth time, try to remember what you felt like the first time you pitched this idea. Do it like that.</li><li>Humility &gt; bragging &gt; false humility.</li><li>Clouds of random logos; whether customers, competitors, partners or previous experience; are not effective slides. Rethink.</li><li>Try this: delete all logos, clip art and bullets from your deck. What&#x27;s left is what VCs actually remember. Is it good enough?</li><li>Retention better than growth as early predictor of startup success because it&#x27;s less effected by hype. Engagement is 2nd best.</li><li>Finish early.</li><li>Bullet points often mask incoherent trains of thought. Rewrite as complete sentences t see where you&#x27;re fooling yourself.</li><li>Don&#x27;t rely on partnerships to reach your early adopters. Maybe a good way to scale, but a bad way to start. Do it yourself.</li><li>Try not to violate more than one long-established, conventional wisdom, unquestioned truth at a time. Or less than one.</li><li>Unless you really, really know what you&#x27;re doing, please stay away from the font menu.</li><li>Speak at your normal pace. If you find yourself struggling to get through the deck on time, cut slides. Better than rushing.</li><li>These are words you don&#x27;t need to use anymore: &quot;SaaS&quot;, &quot;Cloud&quot;, &quot;Mobile&quot;. &quot;Blockchain&quot; is borderline.</li><li>It&#x27;s really weird to add up the years of experience of each member of your startup team and present it as a single number.</li><li>If you get knocked off your script, don&#x27;t rush to get back to the slides; good opportunity to show you really know the problem.</li><li>Be rigorously optimistic: Believe that the world will get better. Know that it’s your job to improve it. Have a plan to do so.</li><li>This should go without saying, but please don&#x27;t trash talk your customers... You know what? Go ahead. Makes my job easier.</li><li>Hide the bullet marks from a slide. Look stupid? You wrote some jargo-gibberish and the dots were tricking your brain. Rewrite.</li><li>Quick bursts from external events, like an AppStore promo, are great, but evidence of sustained growth is much more persuasive.</li><li>Great products aren&#x27;t neutral. They have a strong point of view inextricably tied to every design decision.</li><li>Make sure your CAC ain&#x27;t whack, yo.</li><li>Eschew industry jargon, even when everyone else babbles it. It doesn&#x27;t show mastery and it makes you blend in, not stand out.</li><li>Anonymous customer testimonials feel dishonest. Ask for permission to use real names or omit.</li><li>Products that help people do something good are generally more interesting than ones that try to prevent something bad.</li><li>You don&#x27;t have to open with a joke.</li><li>When measuring retention, try to eliminate early noise. Something like: what % of week 2 users are still active in week 4?</li><li>For just about any metric, an improving trend is more interesting, and predictive of long term success, than a single point.</li><li>Every slide you show dilutes the impact of every other slide. Keep this in mind when deciding what to include in your deck.</li><li>If you&#x27;re going to list advisors on your team slide, be prepared to talk about what advice they&#x27;re giving you.</li><li>The world probably doesn&#x27;t need more ads. Smarter, better, fewer: sure.</li><li>Design your deck with the right empathy point: optimize for the experience of the audience, not the comfort of the presenter.</li><li>Don&#x27;t fetishize &quot;disruption&quot;; it&#x27;s a side-effect of successful innovation, not the goal. Focus on creating big new value.</li><li>Don&#x27;t worry about raising too much; you won&#x27;t regret more cash in the bank, even with dilution. Worry about spending too much.</li></ul><p>Happy pitching!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Growing the Startup Ecosystem in Your City]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/growing-the-startup-ecosystem-in-your-city</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 04 Mar 2023 17:57:52 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Every city would love to have a thriving tech ecosystem. But how do you build one? Where do you start? Here are some of my ideas.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Building a Great Startup Ecosystem - Where to Start?</h2><p>This post is one of the requirements of my final Founder Institute assignment, and while it is meant to be about growing the startup system in Montreal, I’m going to use it to talk about some of the lessons I’ve learned from those who have built Montreal’s now thriving startup ecosystem, and how they might be applicable to my home province of Nova Scotia, and the Maritimes in general.</p><p>There has always been debate about how to grow a great startup ecosystem. One <a href="http://www.paulgraham.com/siliconvalley.html">great piece</a> was written by Paul Graham in 2006. He suggests several things required to build a great startup city: great university(ies), a city with great personality so investors and nerds/hackers alike want to live there (particularly young nerds and aggressive investors), and time.</p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/lmaurice">LP Maurice</a>, one of the directors of The Founder Institute here in Montreal, and one of the major players in turning Montreal into the thriving startup ecosystem it is today, has written both about <a href="http://swell.lpmo.com/the-rise-of-peer-to-peer-entrepreneurship/">peer-to-peer support from entrepreneurs</a> being key to growing a startup ecosystem, and <a href="http://swell.lpmo.com/how-a-city-seduces-the-best-minds/">how cities attract top talent</a>. He concludes that investment – time and mentorship, as well as financing – from other entrepreneurs is key to developing new entrepreneurial talent, and that creating a city which supports talent means attracting immigrants and supporting top graduates, both in keeping them in the city to develop, and if they make the decision to return home.</p><p>I agree with most of the points each suggest. However, there are some elements to build a startup ecosystem that can be changed relatively rapidly, and some which can’t.</p><h2>Cities for a Startup Ecosystem</h2><p>Creating a city like the ones that Paul Graham suggests – liberal cities with vibrant downtowns, culture, and history - isn’t easy, unless most of those things already exist. Here in Montreal, the blend of English and French language, the influence of European culture, and the extensive history of the city creates a great atmosphere.</p><p>Montreal has historically been a very liberal city, and the abundance of quirky shops and restaurants, among many other things, make it attractive for rich investors and talented young graduates alike.</p><p>So why has Montreal’s startup ecosystem boomed in the last five years?</p><p>I believe the key elements are all related to the entrepreneurial support LP mentioned when talking about peer-to-peer entrepreneurship, and can be broken down roughly into three categories: entrepreneurs, companies, and investors.</p><h2>Building Around Entrepreneurs</h2><p>Great entrepreneurs are essential. They are the ones who have the courage to build companies from scratch, and ultimately create the jobs and economic value that every city desires. So how do you attract great entrepreneurs? Well, as I mentioned, start with a great city. If you don’t have one, things are going to be much harder. However, if we’re looking at Nova Scotia, I think Halifax satisfies most criteria; the city is beautiful and has a rich history, and the North End is booming with trendy restaurants and shops while downtown is busy and new living space continues to be built. Even Lunenburg, my home town, has lots of quirky shops, awesome restaurants, and a great downtown – the school, tennis courts, swimming pool, rink, golf course and main restaurants are all within walking distance.</p><p>Universities are another way to kickstart innovation. Talented and ambitious researchers will often create new technology that can be commercialized. Nova Scotia has roughly the same proportion of students to overall population as Ontario, and only about <a href="http://www.statcan.gc.ca/tables-tableaux/sum-som/l01/cst01/educ71a-eng.htm">half a percent less than Quebec</a>. Halifax itself is home to six universities, and <a href="http://www.macleans.ca/education/unirankings/2015-university-rankings-medical-doctoral/">Dalhousie was ranked 7th</a> in Canada last year by Macleans in the Medical-Doctoral category, while<a href="http://www.macleans.ca/education/unirankings/university-rankings-2015-primarily-undergraduate/"> Saint Mary’s was 5th</a> in the Primarily Undergraduate category. Other Maritime universities, like Acadia, UNB and Mount Allison rated highly as well.</p><p>Personally, I came to McGill for a few reasons, but was originally attracted because it’s the top university in Canada (we can debate specific departments, but overall I do believe McGill is the top university in Canada). Many other students come here for the same reason. I also love Montreal, for all the reasons I mentioned before.</p><p>How else can you kickstart entrepreneurship? Immigrants. Various sources show that immigrants are more likely to be entrepreneurs than those born in North America (the Kauffman Foundation, for example, claims immigrants are 2x more likely to become entrepreneurs than US-born Americans).</p><p>Unfortunately, the solution to increasing immigration relies partially on the government. However, universities can help improve immigration by encouraging international students – Dalhousie currently has <a href="http://www.dal.ca/about-dal/dal-at-a-glance.html">14% international students</a>; by contrast, <a href="https://www.mcgill.ca/about/quickfacts/students">McGill had 24.1%</a> as of Fall 2014. Immigrants also bring with them diversity in food, culture and language, which enhances the overall culture of a city, and therefore the startup ecosystem.</p><p>So what happens once you attract great entrepreneurs? They build great companies.</p><h2>Startup Ecosystems Require Great Companies</h2><p>Great companies are critical. The term ‘Silicon Valley’ originates from some of the early companies in the valley being involved in making of semiconductors. But the real contribution of these companies was the successful, entrepreneurial talent they created who bred spinoff companies and created an entrepreneurial atmosphere that has grown to what we know as Silicon Valley today.</p><p>Last spring, I attended a talk given by John Ruffalo, the head of OMERS Ventures, who I would currently consider the biggest player in the Canadian VC industry. He spoke about growing the entrepreneurial communities and startup ecosystems across Canada, and attributed the growth in areas like Ottawa, Montreal and Vancouver to the ascension of huge startup successes like Shopify, Hootsuite and Lightspeed. Companies like these, who become huge successes, bring wealth and experience to a huge number of employees who subsequently become entrepreneurs. He called these hotspots ‘nodes’, and said the key to growing the entrepreneurial ecosystem in Canada is connecting these nodes so that great entrepreneurs get together and talk about ideas, and eventually form companies. On a smaller scale, connecting the communities in Nova Scotia, or the Maritimes in general, is key. And as for companies, well if we again look at Lunenburg, HB Studios, which was founded in 2000, now boasts a staff of around 80, and produces some of the top video game titles in the world. With support, companies like these could spawn a wave of new startups.</p><h2>Investors Are Necessary Too</h2><p>The creation of great companies also attracts capital. When great companies get funded, other VC firms pay attention. In a recent chat with a prominent Montreal-based VC, he said there have been many cases where inexperienced VCs will offer to investment to companies their firm is looking at, simply because they believe if they’re looking at them, they must be a good opportunity. So once a great entrepreneur creates a great company, in a great city, investors will show up.</p><p>The critical step, and the one which I think is lacking most in Atlantic Canada, is the conscious, public effort from successful entrepreneurs and investors to give back their time and expertise to their startup ecosystem by mentoring new startups and entrepreneurs. I don’t mean to knock anyone that is doing this – there are lots of great mentors and entrepreneurs giving their time and energy back in the Maritimes - there just needs to be a broader, more organized, and more advertised, effort.</p><p>There have been some awesome exits in Atlantic Canada – just look at Q1 Labs and Radian6, which both sold for hundreds of millions to IBM and Salesforce.com, respectively.</p><p>But I believe what is lacking is the widespread organization and initiative from successful entrepreneurs and investors in the area to educate and mentor those new, talented graduates to become entrepreneurs and stay in Atlantic Canada.</p><p>As LP Maurice mentions, to see why Montreal has been so successful in recent years, we need look no further than:</p><blockquote>“…the 100+ mentor-entrepreneurs who give their time on a pro-bono basis to support the young entrepreneurs of the start-up accelerator <a href="http://founderfuel.com/">FounderFuel</a> led by <a href="http://realventures.com/">Real Ventures</a>, or 50+ mentors who now support the accelerator <a href="http://fi.co/mentors?target=montreal">Founder Institute Montreal</a> co-led by Sergio Escobar. We can also observe this in the willingness of experienced entrepreneurs to give their time as part of mentoring activities or programs through organizations such as the <a href="http://www.entrepreneurship.qc.ca/mentorat-pour-entrepreneurs">Réseau M</a>, the <a href="http://www.eebeauce.com/">École d’Entrepreneurship de Beauce</a>, <a href="http://www.thenext36.ca/">Next 36</a>, <a href="http://www.startupnext.co/">Startup Next</a>, the <a href="https://www.jccm.org/">JCCM</a> and <a href="http://acceleration.capitalinnovation.ca/">Défi Montréal</a>, amongst others.”</blockquote><p>Formal programs like Founder Institute or FounderFuel are essential – many of those who are brought on to mentor end up becoming formal advisors or angel investors, and realize how much they enjoy giving back their knowledge and time. Investors enjoy a closer, longer-term relationship with startups, and become happier and more confident with their investment.</p><p>The keys to building a great startup city, or province, are not simple. But the results of combining many of the elements are being borne out here in Montreal; <strong>now we just need to convince entrepreneurs and investors in Nova Scotia and Atlantic Canada to follow suit.</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 04 Mar 2023 17:57:11 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Cognitive biases affect us all, every day. They change how we think and how we make decisions, yet most people don’t know they exist. Learn what they are and why they’re important for clear thinking.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>What is Cognitive Bias? (aka Psychological Bias)</h2><p>Cognitive biases are <em>systematic patterns of deviation from rationality or norm in judgment.</em></p><p>In other words, cognitive biases drive us to make decisions that don’t make rational sense.</p><p>They affect us all, every day.</p><p>We often don’t know when we are subject to such biases, and that causes problems.</p><p>Loss aversion is an example of cognitive bias: we would rather avoid losing something than gaining that same thing.</p><p>Cognitive biases like these have been studied by people like Amos Tversky and Daniel Kahneman (<a href="/book-notes/thinking-fast-and-slow-daniel-kahneman"><em>Thinking, Fast and Slow</em></a>), and Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson (<a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me)</em></a>).</p><p>Becoming familiar with cognitive biases is critical to understanding our thinking and improving how we make decisions.</p><h2>Distinctions Between Biases</h2><p>The most common use of the word ‘bias’ is in the context of someone being biased towards one thing or another.</p><p>The general definition of ‘bias’ is a preference for or against something, often unfairly.</p><p>We often talk about bias in the context of issues like sexism, racism, or other prejudice against a group or person, but this is not the bias we are referring to.</p><p>We will focus on cognitive biases that have been proven to exist across populations of many different types of people and apply to everyone.</p><p>We’ll place a particular emphasis on those which are known to affect our decision-making.</p><h2>Cognitive Biases and Cognitive Dissonance</h2><p>Another term you’ll hear associated with cognitive biases is the term <em>cognitive dissonance</em>.</p><p>From <a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me)</em></a>:</p><blockquote>“Cognitive dissonance is a state of tension that occurs whenever a person holds two cognitions (ideas, attitudes, beliefs, opinions) that are psychologically inconsistent.”</blockquote><p>Cognitive dissonance is uncomfortable. We find it difficult to hold two conflicting beliefs in our minds, even if the conflict is obvious.</p><p>There are examples of cognitive dissonance everywhere: </p><ul><li>The former athlete who maintains the idea that he is fit despite the fact that he has put on thirty pounds and no longer exercises,</li><li>The person who considers themselves open-minded, but has held the same opinions for a decade, or</li><li>The person who believes themselves generous, yet never gives to charity.</li></ul><p>The reason that cognitive dissonance and cognitive biases are so tightly linked is that <strong>many of our biases exist to <em>ease cognitive dissonance</em>.</strong></p><p>We perform many mental tricks to make ourselves feel better — to reduce our own cognitive dissonance.</p><h2>The Importance of Understanding Cognitive Bias</h2><p>To recap:</p><ul><li><strong><em>Cognitive dissonance</em> is the tension that exists when new information conflicts with one of our previously held beliefs.</strong></li><li><strong><em>Cognitive biases</em> are the mental tricks our mind plays to <em>ease cognitive dissonance</em>, often leading us to think and do things that don’t make sense.</strong></li></ul><p>Understanding our cognitive biases is the only way to understand when we are likely to make mistakes in our thinking and decision-making. </p><p>It’s very difficult to constantly watch out for these biases.</p><p>Knowing they exist is the first step. Later we can learn methods to counter their effects. </p><p>Most of all, though, you need to know when they’re likely to happen.</p><p><a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson">Carol Tavris said it best</a>:</p><blockquote>“We cannot avoid our psychological blind spots, but if we are unaware of them we may become unwittingly reckless, crossing ethical lines and making foolish decisions.”</blockquote>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Decide by Annie Duke: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/how-to-decide-annie-duke</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2022 15:51:56 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A book about how to make decisions. Whether you're after the ability to make better decisions, to make faster decisions, or both, you'll find something of value in here.May seem a bit basic for those familiar with cognitive biases, but still worth reading. We all make decisions every day, so every improvement we can make will pay dividends.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Introduction</h5><ul><li>There are only two things that determine your life: luck and the quality of your decisions. And you only have control over your decisions.</li><li>A good tool has a use that can be repeated. Use the tool the same way, get the same results.</li></ul><h5>1—Resulting</h5><ul><li>We tend to look at outcomes of decisions to determine whether a decision was good or bad, rather than looking at the process. This is called &quot;resulting.&quot;</li><li>In reality, luck plays a role in every decision.</li></ul><h5>2—Hindsight</h5><ul><li>&quot;Hindsight bias&quot; occurs when we try to remember what we knew and how we felt when we made a decision. It is almost impossible to accurately reconstruct these things after the fact, when we know the outcome.</li><li>Markers of this thinking are things like &quot;I should have known&quot; or &quot;I knew it all along.&quot;</li><li>Keeping a decision journal, or writing down what you know when you make the decision, is one way to counter this. You can read it later and remember more accurately.</li></ul><h5>3—The Decision Multiverse</h5><ul><li>We need experience to learn, but individual experiences can interfere with learning.</li></ul><h5>4—The Three Ps: Preferences, Payoffs and Probabilities</h5><p>To make better decisions:</p><ul><li>Identify all the possible options for your decision</li><li>Identify the possible outcomes within each option</li><li>Identify your preference for each</li><li>Estimate the likelihood of each option</li><li>Assess the relative likelihood between the outcomes of each option</li><li>Compare the options and decide</li></ul><p>Don&#x27;t forget that the payoffs of each option and outcome can be things other than money: happiness, time, self-esteem, etc.</p><p>The downside of pros and cons lists are that they don&#x27;t take into account the <em>magnitude</em> of the upside or downside, which is critical.</p><p>The main tool to improve your decisions: turning stuff you don&#x27;t know into stuff you do know. In other words, more information.</p><p>Another note: the willingness to guess is essential to good decision-making. It forces us to ask how much we really know and why we think we know it.</p><h5>5—The Power of Precision</h5><ul><li>A common problem making decisions with others: you use terms like &quot;probably&quot; but have different ideas what that term means in terms of probability.</li><li>The best way to communicate probability: a specific number, with a range associated with it. For example, &quot;I estimate 60%, with a lower bound of 40% and an upper bound of 80%.&quot;</li><li>That range gives other people an idea of how certain that estimate is. Note that this is a &quot;reasonable&quot; range, not a guaranteed range (you&#x27;d be shocked if it was outside).</li></ul><h5>6—Turning Decisions Outside In</h5><ul><li>We suffer from all kinds of biases because we view the world from our own perspective, knowledge, and experience.</li><li>One way to counter this is to look at the &quot;base rate,&quot; or the overall probability that applies to this situation.</li><li>The other way is to seek a variety of opinions from others with different perspectives.</li></ul><h5>7—Breaking Free from Analysis Paralysis</h5><ul><li>The key to making faster decisions is understanding what the cost is for making a worse decision. If the cost is low, you should go fast. If the cost is high, you should go slow.</li><li>One way to help assess this is to project yourself in the future: will you care about the outcome of this decision tomorrow? In a week? In a year?</li><li>You can also move faster by asking yourself: if this was the only option I had, would I be happy? If yes, make the decision and move on.</li><li>Another good question to ask: &quot;if I pick this option, what&#x27;s the cost of quitting?&quot;</li></ul><h5>8—The Power of Negative Thinking</h5><ul><li>You can improve your chances of accomplishing a goal by time-traveling to different futures and imagining what got your there.</li><li>First, conduct a &quot;pre-mortem&quot;: imagine yourself having failed, and what caused it. This is a good way to encourage others to speak up, and helps identify obstacles.</li><li>Then, do a &quot;backcast&quot;: imagine yourself having just succeeded. What got you there?</li><li>Then, commit to doing the things that will increase your chances of success, and prepare you for a better reaction when things go wrong. Planning ahead will help you avoid reacting emotionally.</li></ul><h5>9—Decision Hygiene</h5><ul><li>Don&#x27;t tell someone your opinion before asking them theirs. It will bias their response.</li><li>If in a group, get opinions from team members individually first. Then you can share those opinions with the group.</li><li>Making individual feedback anonymous can also help elicit better feedback, and prevent groupthink.</li><li>Be careful how you present the background information for the decision too. This can affect the feedback you get.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Rework by Jason Fried & David Heinemeier Hansson: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/rework-jason-fried-david-heinemeier-hansson</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2022 15:51:56 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A great, concise book how to build products and startups, and how to work.Packed with information in an easy-to-read length, you'll always find something of value in this book.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Don&#x27;t learn from your mistakes. Learn from successes: they tell you what <em>does</em> work.</li><li>Plan short-term, because we suck at planning. Long-term planning just doesn&#x27;t work.</li><li>Great schools don&#x27;t try and grow—why should you? Great businesses can be small too.</li><li>Workaholics try and make up for intellectual laziness with brute force. Work better instead.</li><li>&quot;To do great work, you need to feel that you&#x27;re making a difference.&quot;</li><li>To make a great product or service, make something you want to use.</li><li>&quot;What you <em>do</em> is what matters, not what you think or say or plan.&quot;</li><li>You can always find the time if you&#x27;re motivated enough.</li><li>Stand for something when you create a business. You&#x27;ll attract like-minded people.</li><li>Take on as little outside cash as possible.</li><li>&quot;<em>A business without a path to profit isn’t a business, it’s a hobby.&quot;</em></li><li>Embrace being small. You&#x27;re the most agile you&#x27;ll ever be.</li><li>&quot;Constraints are advantages in disguise.&quot;</li><li>Nail the basics first, and then worry about the details and the finer points later.</li><li>Constantly look for things to remove or simplify.</li><li>When you face a problem, see if you can remove things to solve it.</li><li>You don&#x27;t need fancy equipment to get the job done.</li><li>Sell your by-products (aka sell your sawdust).</li><li>Launch sooner.</li><li>Do everything you can to remove layers of abstraction. You&#x27;ll be more aligned.</li><li>Meetings are toxic.</li><li>You destroy your creativity, morale and attitude when you sacrifice sleep.</li><li>Focus on the highest priority only. Then move to the next one.</li><li>Make small decisions that are easy to change.</li><li>Make yourself part of your product. Then it can never be copied.</li><li>Being anti-something is a great way to attract followers. Position yourself against something.</li><li>Say no by default.</li><li>Share information that&#x27;s valuable and build an audience.</li><li>Overnight successes are myths.</li><li>Never hire someone until you&#x27;ve done the job yourself first. And hire only when it hurts.</li><li>Don&#x27;t hire someone great just because they&#x27;re available. There are lots of great people.</li><li>Hire people that can manage themselves.</li><li>Hire great writers.</li><li>Give a test project to potential new hires before giving them an offer.</li><li>Say sorry and own up to your mistakes.</li><li>You don&#x27;t create a culture, it just happens.</li><li>Don&#x27;t build a process just because of one mistake. You&#x27;ll build up organizational scar tissue if you do.</li><li>Act on your inspiration. It won&#x27;t last forever.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/snow-crash-neal-stephenson</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2022 15:51:56 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[An entertaining sci-fi novel that also happens to be the origin of the term "Metaverse."Snow Crash was written in 1992, but you wouldn't know it based on how realistic it seems today. It describes a virtual world—the Metaverse—where people own property, conduct transactions and socialize.The novel's source of conflict is a virus, delivered via code or drugs, under the guise of religion.A fun read for the plot, but a must-read to understand the origins of the Metaverse, as well as some of the other implications of such a world.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Chapter 3</h5><p>So Hiro&#x27;s not actually here at all. He&#x27;s in a computer-generated universe that his computer is drawing onto his goggles and pumping into his earphones. In the lingo, this imaginary place is known as the Metaverse.</p><p>Hiro is approaching the Street. It is the Broadway, the Champs Élysées of the Metaverse. It is the brilliantly lit boulevard that can be seen, miniaturized and backward, reflected in the lenses of his goggles. It does not really exist. But right now, millions of people are walking up and down it.</p><p>The dimensions of the Street are fixed by a protocol, hammered out by the computer-graphics ninja overlords of the Association for Computing Machinery&#x27;s Global Multimedia Protocol Group. The Street seems to be a grand boulevard going all the way around the equator of a black sphere with a radius of a bit more than ten thousand kilometers. That makes it 65,536 kilometers around, which is considerably bigger than Earth.</p><p>Like any place in Reality, the Street is subject to development. Developers can build their own small streets feeding off of the main one. They can build buildings, parks, signs, as well as things that do not exist in Reality, such as vast hovering overhead light shows, special neighborhoods where the rules of three-dimensional spacetime are ignored, and free-combat zones where people can go to hunt and kill each other.</p><p>The only difference is that since the Street does not really exist—it&#x27;s just a computer-graphics protocol written down on a piece of paper somewhere—none of these things is being physically built. They are, rather, pieces of software, made available to the public over the world-wide fiber-optics network. When Hiro goes into the Metaverse and looks down the Street and sees buildings and electric signs stretching off into the darkness, disappearing over the curve of the globe, he is actually staring at the graphic representations—the user interfaces—of a myriad different pieces of software that have been engineered by major corporations. In order to place these things on the Street, they have had to get approval from the Global Multimedia Protocol Group, have had to buy frontage on the Street, get zoning approval, obtain permits, bribe inspectors, the whole bit. The money these corporations pay to build things on the Street all goes into a trust fund owned and operated by the GMPG, which pays for developing and expanding the machinery that enables the Street to exist.</p><p>Hiro has a house in a neighborhood just off the busiest part of the Street. It is a very old neighborhood by Street standards. About ten years ago, when the Street protocol was first written, Hiro and some of his buddies pooled their money and bought one of the first development licenses, created a little neighborhood of hackers. At the time, it was just a little patchwork of light amid a vast blackness. Back then, the Street was just a necklace of streetlights around a black ball in space.</p><p>Since then, the neighborhood hasn&#x27;t changed much, but the Street has. By getting in on it early, Hiro&#x27;s buddies got a head start on the whole business. Some of them even got very rich off of it.</p><p>That&#x27;s why Hiro has a nice big house in the Metaverse but has to share a 20-by-30 in Reality. Real estate acumen does not always extend across universes.</p><p>The sky and the ground are black, like a computer screen that hasn&#x27;t had anything drawn into it yet; it is always nighttime in the Metaverse, and the Street is always garish and brilliant, like Las Vegas freed from constraints of physics and finance. But people in Hiro&#x27;s neighborhood are very good programmers, so it&#x27;s tasteful. The houses look like real houses. There are a couple of Frank Lloyd Wright reproductions and some fancy Victorians.</p><p>So it&#x27;s always a shock to step out onto the Street, where everything seems to be a mile high. This is Downtown, the most heavily developed area. If you go a couple of hundred kilometers in either direction, the development will taper down to almost nothing, just a thin chain of streetlights casting white pools on the black velvet ground. But Downtown is a dozen Manhattans, embroidered with neon and stacked on top of each other.</p><p>In the real world—planet Earth, Reality—there are somewhere between six and ten billion people. At any given time, most of them are making mud bricks or field-stripping their AK-47s. Perhaps a billion of them have enough money to own a computer; these people have more money than all of the others put together. Of these billion potential computer owners, maybe a quarter of them actually bother to own computers, and a quarter of these have machines that are powerful enough to handle the Street protocol. That makes for about sixty million people who can be on the Street at any given time. Add in another sixty million or so who can&#x27;t really afford it but go there anyway, by using public machines, or machines owned by their school or their employer, and at any given time the Street is occupied by twice the population of New York City.</p><p>That&#x27;s why the damn place is so overdeveloped. Put in a sign or a building on the Street and the hundred million richest, hippest, best-connected people on earth will see it every day of their lives.</p><p>It is a hundred meters wide, with a narrow monorail track running down the middle. The monorail is a free piece of public utility software that enables users to change their location on the Street rapidly and smoothly. A lot of people just ride back and forth on it, looking at the sights. When Hiro first saw this place, ten years ago, the monorail hadn&#x27;t been written yet; he and his buddies had to write car and motorcycle software in order to get around. They would take their software out and race it in the black desert of the electronic night.</p><h5>Chapter 5</h5><p>When Hiro learned how to do this, way back fifteen years ago, a hacker could sit down and write an entire piece of software by himself. Now, that&#x27;s no longer possible. Software comes out of factories, and hackers are, to a greater or lesser extent, assembly-line workers. Worse yet, they may become managers who never get to write any code themselves.</p><p>But “snow crash” is computer lingo. It means a system crash—a bug—at such a fundamental level that it frags the part of the computer that controls the electron beam in the monitor, making it spray wildly across the screen, turning the perfect gridwork of pixels into a gyrating blizzard. Hiro has seen it happen a million times. But it&#x27;s a very peculiar name for a drug.</p><h5>Chapter 7</h5><p>“Daemon” is an old piece of jargon from the UNIX operating system, where it referred to a piece of low-level utility software, a fundamental part of the operating system. In The Black Sun, a daemon is like an avatar, but it does not represent a human being. It&#x27;s a robot that lives in the Metaverse. A piece of software, a kind of spirit that inhabits the machine, usually with some particular role to carry out. The Black Sun has a number of daemons that serve imaginary drinks to the patrons and run little errands for people.</p><p>Condense fact from the vapor of nuance.</p><p>Hiro would have chalked it all up to class differences, except that her parents lived in a house in Mexicali with a dirt floor, and his father made more money than many college professors. But the class idea still held sway in his mind, because class is more than income—it has to do with knowing where you stand in a web of social relationships.</p><h5>Chapter 26</h5><p>&quot;All people have religions. It&#x27;s like we have religion receptors built into our brain cells, or something, and we&#x27;ll latch onto anything that&#x27;ll fill that niche for us. Now, religion used to be essentially viral—a piece of information that replicated inside the human mind, jumping from one person to the next. That&#x27;s the way it used to be, and unfortunately, that&#x27;s the way it&#x27;s headed right now. But there have been several efforts to deliver us from the hands of primitive, irrational religion. The first was made by someone named Enki about four thousand years ago. The second was made by Hebrew scholars in the eighth century B.C., driven out of their homeland by the invasion of Sargon II, but eventually it just devolved into empty legalism. Another attempt was made by Jesus—that one was hijacked by viral influences within fifty days of his death. The virus was suppressed by the Catholic Church, but we&#x27;re in the middle of a big epidemic that started in Kansas in 1900 and has been gathering momentum ever since.”</p><p>“Do you believe in God or not?” Hiro says. First things first.</p><p>“Definitely.”</p><p>“Do you believe in Jesus?”</p><p>“Yes. But not in the physical, bodily resurrection of Jesus.”</p><p>“How can you be a Christian without believing in that?”</p><p>“I would say,” Juanita says, “how can you be a Christian with it? Anyone who takes the trouble to study the gospels can see that the bodily resurrection is a myth that was tacked onto the real story several years after the real histories were written. It&#x27;s so National Enquirer-esque, don&#x27;t you think?”</p><h5>Chapter 27</h5><p>“No. Materialists in the philosophical sense. All philosophies are either monist or dualist. Monists believe that the material world is the only world—hence, materialists. Dualists believe in a binary universe, that there is a spiritual world in addition to the material world.”</p><p>A speech with magical force. Nowadays, people don&#x27;t believe in these kinds of things. Except in the Metaverse, that is, where magic is possible. The Metaverse is a fictional structure made out of code. And code is just a form of speech—the form that computers understand.</p><h5>Chapter 36</h5><p>Until a man is twenty-five, he still thinks, every so often, that under the right circumstances he could be the baddest motherfucker in the world. If I moved to a martialarts monastery in China and studied real hard for ten years. If my family was wiped out by Colombian drug dealers and I swore myself to revenge. If I got a fatal disease, had one year to live, devoted it to wiping out street crime. If I just dropped out and devoted my life to being bad.</p><h5>Chapter 48</h5><p>“The important thing is, Hiro, that you have to understand the Mafia way. And the Mafia way is that we pursue larger goals under the guise of personal relationships. So, for example, when you were a pizza guy you didn&#x27;t deliver pizzas fast because you made more money that way, or because it was some kind of a fucking policy. You did it because you were carrying out a personal covenant between Uncle Enzo and every customer. This is how we avoid the trap of self-perpetuating ideology. Ideology is a virus. So getting this chick back is more than just getting a chick back. It&#x27;s the concrete manifestation of an abstract policy goal. And we like concrete—right, Vic?”</p><h5>Chapter 56</h5><p>“We are all susceptible to the pull of viral ideas. Like mass hysteria. Or a tune that gets into your head that you keep on humming all day until you spread it to someone else. Jokes. Urban legends. Crackpot religions. Marxism. No matter how smart we get, there is always this deep irrational part that makes us potential hosts for self-replicating information. But being physically infected with a virulent strain of the Asherah virus makes you a whole lot more susceptible. The only thing that keeps these things from taking over the world is the Babel factor—the walls of mutual incomprehension that compartmentalize the human race and stop the spread of viruses.&quot;</p><h5>Chapter 57</h5><p>“Rife&#x27;s key realization was that there&#x27;s no difference between modern culture and Sumerian. We have a huge workforce that is illiterate or alliterate and relies on TV—which is sort of an oral tradition. And we have a small, extremely literate power elite—the people who go into the Metaverse, basically—who understand that information is power, and who control society because they have this semimystical ability to speak magic computer languages.&quot;</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Revolt of the Public by Martin Gurri: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-revolt-of-the-public-by-martin-gurri-summary-notes</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2022 15:51:56 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The best book I've read on understanding the effect modern communications and media are having on government and wider institutions of authority.The book offers a thorough analysis of the last decade or so of major political movements, how they have shaped modern government, and what we might expect (and can do) in the future.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Key Points</h4><ul><li>We live in a new age, one of unprecedented connection and information. As we get information from more and more sources, it becomes harder to discern the truth of a story, or to believe the truth coming from institutions of authority.</li><li>This explosion of information has resulted in a loss of authority for institutions that once held it, government being a prime example.</li><li>Authority flows from legitimacy, which is derived from monopoly. Authority explains reality in the context of a shared story among a group.</li><li>The public has always been around. It has just moved from reactive to hyper-active and ultra-intrusive.</li><li>The public and the crowd are not quite the same. The public shares a point of reference, a voice, and an opinion. A crowd is physical. The public mediates the transformation of the crowd into a symbolic force.</li><li>The trend of the past decade has been a move toward negation. Instead of offering realistic alternatives and working towards them, we are satisfied with standing outside and criticizing the system we have. This further erodes our trust in institutions and authority.</li><li>We have moved from criticizing those involved in institutions to criticizing the institutions and systems themselves.</li><li>Capitalism is one area that seems to be able to regenerate itself. Firms fail and others take their place. It grows continuously through random events and shocks, rather than being destroyed by them.</li><li>The difference between capitalism and government is that failing companies go out of business, while government accumulates failure, making it more fragile.</li><li>Lack of certainty isn&#x27;t ignorance, but rather it causes us to doubt everything we thought we knew, undermining our belief in authority and institutions.</li><li>Government can only be said to fail relative to its own claims or the expectations of the public.</li><li>The failure of government in recent years has been a result of increasing claims, often to get elected, and then disappointing results. It&#x27;s not surprising; in modern democratic governments, they promise <em>happiness</em>, something near impossible to deliver.</li><li>Public trust in government during JFK&#x27;s time was 70-80 percent. By Obama&#x27;s second term, it was down to 19 percent.</li><li>Despite the swelling size of government, things like unemployment rate have barely changed. The reality is that many of the things government tries to affect are determined by complex forces which aren&#x27;t understood or able to be controlled.</li><li>Negation, coming from every side, all the time, has driven us towards the belief that destruction—anything other than the status quo—is a better alternative.</li><li>The personal sphere is the circle of everyday life: friends, family, career, faith. Information stays one or two links away.</li><li>In the modern world, the public has options, and has insisted that their tastes and interests be imposed on the larger system. The most effective alternative to industrialized democracy is the personal sphere. Personal success can be emulated. Personal failure happens on a small scale.</li><li>This has several implications. We should redirect our expectations from government to our personal sphere. We can choose to do things to improve our own lives and the lives of those around us.</li><li>Governments have a role to play too. We should reward those who speak honestly about trade-offs and hard decisions and keep expectations low.</li><li>Governments should seek to simplify, and to be more transparent. Publishing simpler proposed bills with information about the data behind the decision and the compromises made, and why. This should help lower expectations from the public too.</li><li>We can also seek to push power to local governments. This helps with our focus on the personal sphere, and gives us someone closer to us to hold accountable. The models of Switzerland and Estonia can give us some idea of what might be possible on this front.</li><li>We should also seek to elect true &quot;elites&quot;—those who earn their authority through their actions and their integrity. They should be people we wish to resemble.</li></ul><h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>&quot;Today we drown in data, yet thirst for meaning.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Lack of certainty isn’t ignorance: it’s a splinter of doubt festering in all we know, a radical disillusionment with the institutions of settled truth.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Uncertainty, in this struggle, reflects a negation of the standing structures of knowledge. Impermanence signifies the demolition of the current structures of power and money. A large empty space, a conceptual hole, a nothingness, is in the process of creation, where once a complex society wrestled institutionally with its own contradictions and fallacies.&quot;</li><li>&quot;If high modernism in power was an engine of perfection, late modernism has become a happiness machine. It feels bound to intervene anywhere it has identified groups that were somehow victimized, disabled, troubled, below average, offended, uncomfortable—actually or potentially unhappy. Its actions are the political equivalent of handing out a chocolate chip cookie: government today desperately wishes to be seen doing something, anything, to help, and be recognized for its good intentions.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Failure, I repeat, is a function of government claims and public expectations. High modernist governments claimed that they could do anything to achieve perfection. Rhetorically, their present-day heirs have taken on this burden too, to which they have added the claim that they can intervene anywhere to promote happiness. The history of these claims in action can best be described as a humbling collision with reality. Failure has been the rule, and the impact of failure has been to bleed legitimacy away from the democratic process.&quot;</li><li>&quot;If Ormerod is right, most democratic contests today are fought over phantom issues, and democratic politicians, to get elected, must promise to deliver impossibilities.&quot;</li><li>&quot;We still quarrel in terms of left and right, conservative and liberal, even while the old landscape has been swept clean and the relevance of these venerable labels has become uncertain.&quot;</li><li>&quot;My concern from the start has been with representative democracy. I worry that it, too, may be passing away. I wonder whether Farrell was right to assume that democratic politics, as practiced today, are also a body without a soul.&quot;</li><li>&quot;By that literary turn of phrase I mean something very specific. I mean an institution that clings to life and still wields power, but has been bled dry of legitimacy. It has no true authority or prestige in the eyes of the public, and it survives by a precarious combination of inertia and the public’s unwillingness to produce an alternative. It exists by default.&quot;</li><li>&quot;The authority of institutions that surround and support modern democratic government—journalism, academia, science—has been systematically challenged, with disastrous consequences for mediated domains like the news business and the politics of climate change.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Drill down into the networks that have enabled the public to confound authority, and you soon arrive at what I would call the personal sphere. This is the circle of everyday life, experienced directly, in all its local specificity. Here the choices meaningful to an individual get generated: spouse, children, friends, career, faith. Government and high politics fill in the background. To imagine they can ordain or legislate happiness at this level is a modern illusion.&quot;</li><li>&quot;The public has options: that is the single defining feature of the Fifth Wave. The public has options, and everywhere has cashed them in to pull the elites down and lower the height of the political pyramid. Ordinary people have turned the tables on the standardizing bureaucracies, and now insist that their tastes and interests be imposed on the larger system. They demand personalized service. They crave latte without milk—not just from Starbucks, but from their government.&quot;</li><li>&quot;The most effective alternative to the steep pyramid of industrialized democracy isn’t direct democracy on the Athenian model or cyber-democracy in the style of Wael Ghonim’s Facebook page. It’s the personal sphere: the place where information and decisions move along the shortest causal links.&quot;</li><li>Jonathan Haidt, one of the truly original minds in contemporary American psychology, uses a metaphor of the &quot;elephant&quot; for our powerful passions and instincts, and of a helpless &quot;rider&quot; for the rationalizing intellect. He then summarizes the latest research on persuasion:</li><li>&quot;When does the elephant listen to reason? The main way that we change our minds on moral issues is by interacting with other people. We are terrible at seeking evidence that challenges our own beliefs, but other people do us this favor, just as we are good at finding errors in other people’s beliefs. When discussions are hostile, the odds of change are slight. The elephant leans away from the opponent, and the rider works frantically to rebut the opponent’s charges.</li><li>But if there is affection, admiration, or a desire to please the other person, then the elephant leans toward that person, and the rider tries to find the truth in the other person’s arguments...&quot;</li><li>&quot;In the end, everything will hinge on the public: on us. If Ortega was correct, then we have lost the right to rant about our rulers. Instead, we must go about the job of selecting their successors. We can lavish our attention and our energies strictly on politicians who seem unwilling to lie or simplify or distort to advantage. We can identify and raise up those who refuse to climb above us. That’s one fork in the path ahead: another leads to nihilism. Either way, the choice is ours.&quot;</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Get Rich by Felix Dennis: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/how-to-get-rich-felix-dennis</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2022 15:51:56 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[One of the best books I have ever read on how to get rich, from one of the richest self-made men in Britain.Not only does the book provide actionable, specific guidance on how you must think and act, but it is a joy to read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>The people who get rich are those who are utterly determined to, whatever the cost.</li><li>Execution matters, not ideas.</li><li>Time is the most precious thing that riches provide.</li><li>John Paul Getty: “If you can actually count your money, you are not really a rich man.”</li><li>Net worth of over $80M is a good benchmark for being rich (or, over $10M in liquid assets).</li><li>If you&#x27;re young and penniless, you have the best chance of getting rich—you have nothing to lose. By the time you&#x27;re successful and well-off, you have too much to lose.</li><li>If doing it again, Dennis would aim to make $60-$80M as quickly as possible, and then cash out. Making money is fun, but it consumes your life.</li><li>&quot;Once begun, the job&#x27;s half done.&quot;</li><li>If you wish to be rich, you must learn to shrug off your failures and envy from others.</li><li>Getting rich means sacrifice. You must be willing to fail. You can&#x27;t care about what others think. You must be willing to work long hours. You must treat it as a game.</li><li>The fear of failing is the single biggest impediment to amassing wealth.</li><li>Working too long for other people can blunt your desire to take risks.</li><li>Working for others is a reconnaissance expedition. It is an apprenticeship and not a goal.</li><li>To choose what to work in, marry your inclinations, aptitudes, and opportunities. Trial and error is the only way to find what you&#x27;re good at.</li><li>Luck is a result of hard work, practice, and seizing opportunity.</li><li>Never be afraid to emulate a good idea. Execution is everything.</li><li>Ownership is what ultimately makes you rich. Seek ownership in everything you do.</li><li>Think big and act small. If you start to believe you&#x27;re infallible, you&#x27;re in trouble.</li><li>Quitting is not dishonorable. Quitting when you believe you can still succeed is.</li><li>Without self-belief nothing can be accomplished. With it, nothing is impossible.</li><li>&quot;Luck is preparation multiplied by opportunity.&quot;—Seneca</li><li>“The chief value of money lies in the fact that one lives in a world in which it is overestimated.”—H.L. Mencken</li><li>To become rich you must be an owner. And you must try to own it all.</li><li>Keep costs down, always, but give generous bonuses.</li><li>Dennis became a millionaire when he was thirty-five years old.</li><li>If you wish to become rich, go to industries where the money is. Look for small but quickly growing spaces.</li><li>The young are richer than anyone older than them, and far richer than those much older. Choose to use your time wisely.</li><li>Make yourself independent. Go out on your own and cut loose all those who are negative influences and naysayers.</li><li>Start. Start now!</li><li>Hire talent smarter than you. Delegate. Share the annual take.</li><li>Sell before you need to, or when bored.</li><li>Fear nothing and no one. Get rich. Give it all away.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Power of Regret by Daniel Pink: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-power-of-regret-daniel-pink</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2022 20:59:12 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Another fun, easy-to-read book from Dan Pink.Regrets are something all of us deal with. And often they come with shame, an unwillingness to talk about them, or scar tissue that isn’t helpful.But they can be more. Pink explores what regrets are, the most common, and how to deal with regrets in our lives as a force for good.Something to learn for everyone in this book.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Despite what popular opinion says, regret is good. It instructs us.</li><li>Regret is about comparison: we compare what we think could have happened with what did. And we blame ourselves for making the wrong choice.</li><li>Regrets can improve decisions, boost performance (by increasing persistence), and deepen meaning.</li><li>The key with regret: use your emotions to understand when you’re feeling regret, think about why you’re feeling it, and then use it to improve your future.</li><li>The top regrets: family, partners, and then education, career, and finance, followed by health and friends.</li><li>Regrets tend to fall into 4 categories: foundation regrets, boldness regrets, moral regrets, and connection regrets.</li><li>Foundation regrets arise from our failure to plan and be prudent. They sound like: <em>If only I’d done the work</em>.</li><li>The solution to these: start today.</li><li>Boldness regrets arise from us playing it safe. They sound like: <em>If only I’d taken that risk.</em></li><li>The lesson: speak up, ask them out, take the trip, start the business. <em>Act.</em></li><li>Moral regrets arise from a choice that we realize was the wrong one. They sound like: <em>If only I’d done the right thing</em>.</li><li>Bullying and cheating on a partner were the most widely reported regrets.</li><li>The learning: when in doubt, do the right thing.</li><li>Connection regrets are about not starting or maintaining a relationship. They sound like: <em>If only I’d reached out</em>.</li><li>These tend to be either *rifts—*started by an event that breaks the relationship—or drifts—when relationships slowly fade.</li><li>The solution: shove aside the awkwardness and make the relationship happen.</li><li>Overall, regrets tend to be either regrets of action—things we did—or inaction—things we didn’t do.</li></ul><p><strong>For action regrets:</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Undo it</strong>: can you fix things or make amends?</li><li><strong><em>At Least</em> it</strong>: acknowledge you made a mistake but frame it positively. “At least…”</li></ol><p><strong>To use regrets to improve the future:</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Relive &amp; relieve</strong>: tell others or write down your thoughts, feelings and actions. It forces you to organize your thoughts.</li><li><strong>Normalize &amp; neutralize</strong>: ask yourself what you’d say to a friend who had the same regret you do. Think about whether others have experienced this regret. And ask yourself if this is just an unpleasant moment or if it defines you. Practice self-compassion.</li><li><strong>Analyze &amp; strategize:</strong> imagine this happening to someone you admire. What would they do? Imagine it’s 10 years from now and you’re looking back on how you responded well. What did you do? Talk yourself through the situation referring to yourself in the third person. These are all techniques of self-distancing that help us be objective.</li></ol><p><strong>To use anticipated regrets in your decision-making:</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Satisfice on most decisions</strong>. If you are not dealing with one of the four core regrets, make a choice, don’t second-guess yourself, and move on.</li><li><strong>Maximize on the most crucial decisions</strong>. If you are dealing with one of the four core regrets, project yourself to a specific point in the future and ask yourself which choice will most help you build a solid foundation, take a sensible risk, do the right thing, or connect with others.</li></ol><p>You can find full survey results online: <a href="http://www.danpink.com/surveyresults">www.danpink.com/surveyresults</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Shoe Dog by Phil Knight: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/shoe-dog-phil-knight</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2022 13:18:36 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[One of the best business memoirs I’ve read. The story of Nike as told by cofounder Phil Knight is one of perseverance, luck, and skill, and there’s something for every entrepreneur to learn from the journey. Highly recommend.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Whatever comes, just don’t stop.</li><li>Selling becomes easy when you believe in what you’re selling. Belief is irresistible.</li><li>The first step doesn’t have to be your own product; you can sell something that exists, but is new to your area, instead (Knight imported shoes before creating his own).</li><li>The art of competing is the art of forgetting: forget your limits, your doubts, your pain, your past.</li><li>Lack of equity is a leading cause of failure.</li><li>Treat jobs as an internship: Knight honed his understanding of businesses while working in accounting for PwC.</li><li>Keeping a detailed database of contacts is the mark of a great salesman.</li><li>Balance in life isn’t always possible; you just have to be happy with the balance. Knight worked during the day and spent his evenings and weekends building the business, with no friends, exercise, social life.</li><li>“”If my life was to be all work and no play, I wanted my work to be play.”</li><li>The primary principle of accounting: assets equal liabilities plus equity.</li><li>The single easiest way to find out how you feel about someone: say goodbye.</li><li>Knight quit his job at age 31, going full-time at his company with a salary of $18,000 per year.</li><li>No matter the sport—or human endeavor—total effort will win people over.</li><li>Grow or die.</li><li>Change never comes as fast as we want it.</li><li>The answer to poverty is entry-level jobs. International trade always, always benefits both trading nations. Business is also a great deterrent to war.</li><li>When you’re young, think long and hard about how and who you want to spend your time with for the next forty years. Don’t settle for a job or a profession or a career: seek a calling, even if you don’t know what that means.</li><li>When you become one of the best, you’ll always have a target on your back.</li><li>Sometimes you have to give up. Sometimes knowing when to give up and try something else is genius. Giving up doesn’t mean stopping. Don’t ever stop.</li><li>Luck plays a big role. But the harder you work, the better your luck.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Bad Blood by John Carreyrou: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/bad-blood-john-carreyrou</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2022 23:37:38 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Bad Blood tells the story of biotechnology startup Theranos, with a focus on founder Elizabeth Holmes. Theranos raised over $900M, at one point making Holmes the youngest self-made billionaire in the world (on paper at least). Much of it turned out to be fake, and she was recently convicted of fraud.The story of Theranos is one of caution: what happens when a founder takes the “fake-it-til-you-make-it” approach too far, and a reminder to always think for yourself when evaluating people and hype.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Holmes was obsessed with appearances, her idol Steve Jobs, and “becoming successful” to the point of ignoring how well the product functioned</li><li>A large part of what allowed the fraud to perpetuate was the social proof that someone else provided: first a professor at Stanford, then leaders at key partners like Walgreens, and world leaders in fields other than biotech or startups (James Mattis, Rupert Murdoch, etc.)</li><li>Theranos culture seemed to be terrible throughout; this should be a warning sign for those joining other startups</li><li>Opacity was a key attribute at Theranos, and should be another warning sign at startups; those with nothing to hide don’t go to such great lengths to do so</li><li>Don’t believe everything you read in the news; Holmes and Theranos were media darlings for a long time</li><li>Beware those who are too concerned about appearances, rather than results</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Thinking in Bets by Annie Duke: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/thinking-in-bets-annie-duke</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2022 14:26:35 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[One of the best, and most applicable, books on decision-making I’ve ever read.Will help you make better decisions in both personal and professional life.Goes well with any reading about biases and their effect on our day-to-day life, like Thinking, Fast and Slow, Influence, or The Art of Thinking Clearly.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Introduction</h5><ul><li>Bet: a decision about an uncertain future.</li><li>There are two things that determine how our lives turn out: the quality of our decisions and luck.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 1 - Life is Poker, Not Chess</h5><ul><li>Resulting: our tendency to equate the quality of a decision with the quality of its outcome.</li><li>Chess isn’t a good model for decision-making in life, where most of our decisions involve hidden information and a much higher influence of luck.</li><li>Poker, by contrast, is a game of incomplete information and decision-making under uncertainty: just like real life.</li><li>We’re taught throughout life that saying “I don’t know” is a bad thing. But we must get comfortable with it to make better decisions.</li><li>First, it’s more accurate.</li><li>Second, it tells us where we need to try and find more information.</li><li>And third, it helps prevent us from thinking in black-and-white terms.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 2 - Wanna Bet?</h5><ul><li>Most of the time we aren’t betting against someone else (like in a casino).</li><li>Most of the time we’re betting against all future versions of ourselves that we are not choosing.</li><li>As humans, it is very easy for us to believe, and very hard for us to doubt.</li><li>Being smart can make bias worse. Smarter people are better at constructing narratives for why something is true.</li><li>Thinking about our beliefs as bets—as if we had to put money on the line—helps us revisit all the assumptions that came with that belief.</li><li>When we express our beliefs, we should express a level of confidence as a percentage as well: “I’m 70% sure this person is 45.”</li><li>We can also declare a range of possible outcomes: “my guess for this person’s age is 40-48.”</li></ul><h5>Chapter 3 - Bet to Learn</h5><ul><li>Learning in the real world is tough because there are so many different factors that can affect a particular outcome.</li><li>We need to change the rewards we feel: we should aim to feel good when we give credit to others and to luck, when we admit mistakes, when we find mistakes in good outcomes, and when we learn and follow a good decision process.</li><li>A good way to learn from others? Imagine we are the ones who had accomplished whatever they did. That way we’re more likely to find things to give them credit for, and what we can learn from.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 4 - The Buddy System</h5><ul><li>A “truthseeking pod” can be a great system to help each other think in bets. The focus should be on accuracy, accountability, and openness to diversity of ideas.</li><li>People are more willing to offer a good opinion when the goal is to win a bet rather than get along with people in a room.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 5 - Dissent to Win</h5><ul><li>You should try to seek out all the possible factors for why you could be wrong. If it feels uncomfortable or requires more clarification to explain, it should be a sign to share that detail.</li><li>Be a data sharer. More data is better.</li><li>“Don’t shoot the messenger.” If you want to encourage sharing of data, even if unpleasant, then make sure you don’t make those that share it feel bad for doing so.</li><li>Another way of doing this is to imagine the idea or data coming from someone we like much more or much less.</li><li>We often forget that no one has only good ideas or only bad ideas.</li><li>Deconstruct decisions before the outcome to fight outcome bias, and if you’re getting feedback, make sure to share the detail of the decision without the outcome.</li><li>If two people disagree, get them to argue the other’s position with the goal of being the best debater.</li><li>Skepticism is about approaching the world asking why things might not be true, rather than why they are true.</li></ul><p>To communicate with others to maximize truthseeking:</p><ul><li>Express uncertainty</li><li>Lead with assent: listen for the things you agree with, and state those specifically. Then follow with “and” instead of “but.”</li><li>Ask for agreement: before engaging, ask if someone is just looking to vent, or if they’re looking for advice. Engage accordingly.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 6 - Adventures in Mental Time Travel</h5><ul><li>Temporal discounting: the tendency we all have to favour our present self at the expense of our future self.</li><li>To make better decisions in the present, consider how you’ll feel about the decision in the future.</li><li>Use the 10-10-10 rule: what are the consequences of my decision in 10 minutes? 10 months? 10 years?</li><li>To make better decisions, we should consider in detail what the future possible outcomes will be like. Literally write down the possibilities in detail, and then assign them probabilities.</li><li>Backcasting: when we imagine we’ve achieved a positive future outcome, and we think about how we got there.</li><li>Premortem: when we imagine we haven’t achieved a positive future outcome, and we think about what might have prevented us from getting there.</li><li>A premortem is especially useful, giving people permission to imagine the roadblocks that may come up, and helping prepare for them ahead of time.</li><li>Life, like poker, is one long game, with a lot of losses. We’ll do better, and be happier, if we recognize we can never be sure of the future.</li><li>Recognizing this moves our job from being right all the time—an impossible task—to getting a little bit better each time.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/influence-robert-cialdini</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2022 13:38:14 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A fantastic overview of some of the most common psychological principles that rule our decision-making and lead us to poor results.  This book has been cited by many, and forms the basis of many of the “mental models” frequently used by people such as Charlie Munger. A valuable read for those wishing to improve their objectivity and thinking, as it will allow you to identify the most common psychological errors we all make in daily life.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Chapter 1 - Weapons of Influence</strong></h5><ul><li>Adding the word “because” when asking a small favor vastly increases compliance, regardless if the reason is a good one. </li><li>Automatic, stereotyped behaviour is prevalent in much of human action - it is often efficient, and other times necessary. </li><li>There are several components to these “weapons” of automatic influence: they are nearly mechanical in activation, they can be exploited, and they can be easy to trigger. </li><li>Contrast principle: if the the second item in a presentation is fairly different from the first, we will tend to see it as more different than it actually is. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2 - Reciprocation</strong></h5><ul><li>Rule for reciprocation: we should try to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us. </li><li>Ex: if one person does us a favor, we should try to do them one in return. </li><li>This rule holds throughout human society. </li><li>Liking a person has no effect on whether they feel the obligation to return the favor. </li><li>The rule also holds when the favor is unsolicited - even if unwelcome. </li><li>The rule can be exploited as the exchange does not need to be equal - we do not like feeling indebted. </li><li>A more subtle way to exploit it is to make a concession; the rejection-then-retreat technique. </li><li>Rejection-then-retreat technique: make a large request, one likely to be turned down. Then, after refusal, make a smaller request, the one that you were really interested in. The other person should view this as a concession on your part, and should feel inclined to respond with a concession of their own. </li><li>Note: the first demand cannot be seen as unreasonable, otherwise the tactic backfires. </li><li>Ex: door-to-door sales where a rejected salesperson asks for a referral to a friend. </li><li>There are side effects to the rejection-then-retreat effect too: </li><li>Responsibility: Subjects feel more responsible for the outcome of the negotiation (apparently thinking they have influenced the opponent). </li><li>Satisfaction: Subjects were more satisfied with the final arrangement as well. They are also willing to agree to further requests. </li></ul><p>How to Say No: </p><ul><li>We should accept that most of the time, people do favours for the sake of doing favours, and enter the compliance agreement knowing we should return the favor. </li><li>However, when we recognize that it is a compliance tactic, we should respond in kind - we are not obligated to respond to tricks with favours. </li><li>The best solution here is to recognize each action for what it truly is, and respond accordingly. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3 - Commitment and Consistency</strong></h5><ul><li>We are obsessive about appearing consistent with our previous actions, and will respond in ways to justify our previous actions when challenged. </li><li>Ex: bettors become more confident in their chances after placing a bet. </li><li>Personal consistency is highly valued in our culture, and automatic consistency offers us a shortcut through most of life. It also allows us to ignore new realizations that cast our previous actions in a poor light. </li><li>If you can get someone to commit to a small initial action, it will be much easier to get them to commit to a larger action. </li><li>Ex: on the phone, asking how someone is produces the first action - a response - and even better if you are doing well. It is then easier to get them chatting, and to produce action for those who aren’t doing well. </li><li>To make a commitment effective: start small and build. </li><li>The foot-in-the-door technique: making a little request to gain compliance with related larger requests. </li><li>The best commitments involve actions - writing is a good one. </li><li>Ex: testimonial contests. </li><li>Making a commitment public also helps with compliance, as that person wants to look consistent. </li><li>Written commitments also require more work, and evidence shows that the more effort that goes into a commitment, the greater the influence. </li><li>Three components of an effective commitment: active, public and effortful. </li><li>There is a fourth component: when the person believes they have chosen to perform that action in absence of outside pressures. </li><li>Implies we should never heavily bribe or threaten children to do the things we want them to truly believe in. </li><li>Ie. the reason given for an action needs to be subtle, allowing the child to take personal responsibility for the behaviour. </li><li>This can be used insidiously when lowballing: a salesperson offers an advantage so that the person makes a purchase decision, then the purchase advantage is removed, but the person has made the decision and wants to remain consistent. </li></ul><p>How to Say No: </p><ul><li>The only way out is to know when such consistency is likely to lead to a bad choice: </li><li>Hint 1: a queasy feeling inside us that we’re doing something we don’t want to do. </li><li>Action: explain to the person what they are doing. They will either stop, or leave you alone in confusion. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4 - Social Proof</strong></h5><ul><li>Principle of social proof: we use what other people think to determine what is correct. </li><li>ie. we tend to see an action as more appropriate when others are doing it. </li><li>Can be used deviously when advertisers tell us a product is “fastest-growing” or “largest-selling”. </li><li>Can be used positively when people with phobias view others doing things they are scared of (video works too, best is a large group of different people). </li><li>In general, when we are unsure of ourselves, when the situation is unclear or ambiguous, when uncertainty reigns, we are most likely to look to and accept the actions of others as correct. </li><li>Ex: bystanders usually don’t help because of unambiguity, not because they don’t want to. </li><li>To counter, make it clear there is an emergency, ask specific people for specific help. </li><li>The principle of social proof also operates most powerfully when we view the others in the situation as similar to ourselves. </li><li>Suicides/homocides/other public events cause copycat events. </li><li>Ex: heavyweight prize championship fights stimulate a rise in homicides. </li></ul><p>How to Say No: </p><ul><li>Two types of situation where incorrect data causes social proof to give us poor counsel: </li><li>When social evidence has purposely been falsified (ex: laugh tracks in comedy shows). </li><li>When we see a lot of people doing something, but ourselves are unsure and don’t have any information as to why. </li><li>To counter: never fully trust social proof. Rely on the objective facts, our prior experience, and our own judgement - take a quick glance around. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5 - Liking</strong></h5><ul><li>As a rule, we most prefer to say yes to the requests of someone we know and like. </li><li>The clearest illustration of exploitation of the rule: the Tupperware party. </li><li>Other compliance professionals have used the mention of a friend’s name effectively. </li><li>Halo effect: when one positive characteristic of a person dominates the way that person is viewed by others. </li><li>We automatically assign good-looking individuals with favourable traits such as talent, kindness, honesty, and intelligence. </li><li>This is present in politics, judicial processes, discipline in schools, and more. </li><li>Another influence is similarity - we like people who are similar to us. </li><li>This seems to hold whether similarity is in area of opinions, personality traits, background or lifestyle. </li><li>Dress is a good way to exploit this; claiming backgrounds and interests similar to ours is another. </li><li>Being complimented also quickly increases compliance. </li><li>School desecration alone doesn’t work, as we tend to group with others like us, and continued exposure to a person or object under unpleasant conditions (like those found in the classroom/school) leads to less liking. </li><li>The key is to changing from viewing others as opponents to viewing them as allies. </li><li>The “jigsaw classroom” is a good idea here. It requires students to each learn a portion of the material - a piece of the puzzle - and then teach the others. </li><li>In early tests, it’s been shown to increase self-esteem, test scores, and liking for school. </li><li>Association with both good and bad things will cause us to like or dislike someone. </li><li>People become fonder of the people and things they experience while eating. </li><li>Sports is another example of this - hometown fans feel associated with their teams. </li></ul><p>How to Say No: </p><ul><li>Our vigilance should be directed not towards the things that may produce undue liking for a compliance practitioner, but we should recognize when we feel ourselves liking the practitioner more than we should under the circumstances. </li><li>Our proper response is to concentrate exclusively on the merits of the deal and make a decision based on considerations related only to the latter. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6 - Authority</strong></h5><ul><li>Conforming to the dictates of authority figures has almost always held advantage for us, and so we often defer to them, even under extreme circumstances (Milgram’s experiment giving electrical shocks). </li><li>We are often as vulnerable to <em>symbols</em> of authority as to the actual substance. </li><li>Titles are one example: </li><li>Studies have shown prestigious titles lead to height distortions. </li><li>Clothes are another example, and just as easily faked. </li><li>A uniform is another example of this; well-tailored suits are a modern equivalent. </li><li>Trappings in general - clothes, jewelry, cars, and other status symbols receive deference. </li></ul><p>How to Say No: </p><ul><li>Heightened awareness of these factors can help us combat these factors. </li><li>Generally, however, authority figures do actually offer good direction. </li><li>The trick is to recognize when authority followings should be followed or ignored. </li><li>Posing two questions can help: </li><li>“Is this authority truly an expert?” - focuses attention on credentials and relevance of those credentials to topic at hand. </li><li>“How truthful can we expect the expert to be here?” - we should be careful of their incentives. </li><li>A little compliance tactic to beware of: arguing to a degree against one’s own interests. A small shortcoming may be mentioned to establish basic truthfulness on minor issues, to make their overall pitch more believable. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7 - Scarcity</strong></h5><ul><li>Scarcity principle: opportunities seem more valuable to us when their availability is limited. </li><li>The idea of potential loss plays a large role in human decision making - we are more motivated by the thought of losing something than the thought of gaining something of equal value. </li><li>The “limited-number” tactic is a commonly used one by compliance professionals. </li><li>The most extreme example is denying someone the opportunity to buy - then offering to check on another option “assuming this is the model you want if I can get it in this color at this price”. </li><li>Related to the limited-number technique is the “deadline” tactic, in which some official time limit is placed on the customer’s opportunity to get what the compliance professional is offering. </li><li>A variant on the deadline tactic is the “right now” tactic when face-to-face - customers are told they will face a higher price or won’t be able to buy if they don’t purchase right now. </li><li>Scarcity principle operates on two things: we use it as a shortcut to determine items of value, and we hate losing freedoms we already have. </li><li>Ex: couples suffering parental interference fall more deeply in love, and when interference cooled, so did the relationship. </li><li>Ex: our response to banning of information is a greater desire to receive that information and a more favourable attitude toward it. </li><li>Telling customers of a limited supply, and claiming that was exclusive information - a double scarcity tactic - resulted in the highest sales. </li><li>Newly experienced scarcity is more powerful than constant scarcity. </li><li>Parenting lesson: be consistent in your rules and discipline. </li><li>Being in competition for scarce resources has powerfully motivating properties. </li><li>Ex: the lover who sees another competitor. </li><li>Ex: the prospective home-buyer who hears someone else is looking. </li></ul><p>How to Say No: </p><ul><li>We react emotionally to scarcity, and it becomes difficult to think properly. </li><li>We should therefore look for this reaction as an indicator of the scarcity principle at work. </li><li>We should then calm ourselves and proceed with care. </li><li>Then we should consider if we want it for the social, economic, or psychological benefits - in which case it may make sense to purchase it. But if we want it for its utility value, we should remember it won’t be better to eat, drive, drink, hear, etc. if it’s more scarce. </li><li>If we find ourselves beset by scarcity pressures in a compliance situation, we should: </li><li>Recognize the emotional arousal as a signal to calm ourselves and gain a rational perspective. </li><li>Then we should ask ourselves why we want the item under consideration (scarce cookies don’t taste better). </li></ul><h5><strong>Epilogue:</strong></h5><ul><li>Isolated information leads us to mistakes. </li><li>We should target our counter-aggression at compliance professionals who falsify, counterfeit, or misrepresent evidence to cue our shortcut responses. </li><li>Failing to combat exploiters will lead to us being unable to use our typical shortcuts, and make coping efficiently with daily life impossible. We must not let that happen. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why I Switched From Squarespace to Webflow]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/why-i-switched-from-squarespace-to-webflow</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 05 Apr 2022 01:31:14 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I switched from Squarespace to Webflow last year, after seeing a big drop in my traffic. Here's why.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In June 2020, I noticed there was a problem with my website.</p><p>It was losing organic traffic, fast.</p><p>In fact, over the course of 4 weeks, after growing steadily for months, my traffic dropped by almost 50%. Needless to say, I was concerned.</p><p>I hadn&#x27;t changed anything significant with my site for a couple years, aside from adding more content.</p><p>I suspected a recent Google update may have been to blame, but I didn&#x27;t know why I would have been penalized.</p><p>That was until the topic of site speed came up at work. We had been looking at improving the speed of our company blog, because it was known to be slow, and the hypothesis was that was restricting our organic growth.</p><p>To this point, I hadn&#x27;t done much in terms of evaluating website speed.</p><p>The benefit of Squarespace is that the majority of the work is done for you.</p><p>But as with most things, abstraction adds opacity. Since they do everything for you, you don&#x27;t know what&#x27;s being done unless you look at the code (and know how to understand it).</p><p>Thankfully, Google has tools built for evaluating websites in areas like speed, SEO, and accessibility.</p><p>The main one is called <a href="https://developers.google.com/web/tools/lighthouse">Lighthouse</a>, and you can run it from Chrome on any site by going to Developer Tools &gt; Lighthouse.</p><p>PageSpeed Insights is another, and you just have to <a href="https://developers.google.com/speed/pagespeed/insights/">go to this page</a> and enter the URL you want to check.</p><h2>Squarespace</h2><p>I decided to evaluate my Squarespace site, wondering if perhaps speed or something else was the problem.</p><p>Here&#x27;s how my Squarespace home page, which had some short text and a photo, graded out:</p><p>Not pretty, in other words.</p><p>One of my book notes, which is a little more text-heavy, graded out even worse:</p><p>These pages weren&#x27;t &quot;heavy&quot; by any means. Primarily text, with some small (&lt;40kb) images.</p><p>The ease of use of Squarespace is driven by the themes they provide.</p><p>But those themes have a cost in terms of speed. The code which makes them work also slows down the site.</p><p>I&#x27;d been eyeing <a href="https://webflow.grsm.io/5165284">Webflow</a> for a while, and they&#x27;d come a long way in terms of ease of use, educational content, and themes since I&#x27;d last looked.</p><p>I decided then that I was going to make the switch, and I accomplished it in less than a week.</p><p>An evening spent going through <a href="https://university.webflow.com/">Webflow University</a>, their detailed educational curriculum, and a weekend spent creating my new site, was all it took.</p><p>I didn&#x27;t even end up using a theme, choosing to build the site from scratch instead.</p><p>The results speak for themselves.</p><p>Here&#x27;s the new grade for my home page:</p><p>And for the same book notes page as shown above:</p><p>Even my main book notes page, which is by far the longest and most image-heavy page on my site, gets a perfect score on the performance test:</p><p>The result? My traffic recovered and started back on the growth trajectory it was on almost immediately.</p><p>I even saw some improvements on specific pages, as the speed improvements increased the ranking on Google.</p><p>Speed matters on the web—study after study show the effects.</p><p>And speed seems to matter even more for organic ranking now.</p><p>I used to recommend Squarespace for people just getting started with building a website or blogging.</p><p>The penalty in speed, however, plus the increased ease-of-use with Webflow&#x27;s educational content and templates, has made me change my recommendation for all but the least technical users.</p><p>Squarespace has a great product. It just doesn&#x27;t seem to be keeping up on the speed side.</p><p>You can <a href="https://webflow.grsm.io/5165284">get started with Webflow&#x27;s free trial here.</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How I'm Getting Better at Golf]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2022 12:55:21 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Golf has become one of my favourite sports as of late, and in this post I break down how I'm going about improving my game.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The last two years I’ve played more golf than I have since I was 14 years old.</p><p>Back then, I’d spend half my summers playing. But it’s a time-consuming sport, and I hadn’t played more than a few rounds a year since I was young.</p><p>Then the pandemic hit. Suddenly golf was one of the few sports that was allowed—encouraged even—as it involved easy distancing and outdoor play.</p><p>I also started spending more time with friends who were also into golf. Some of them in a big way. And some of them were very good at it.</p><p>Golf is a frustrating sport, one that requires a high concentration to detail, a dedication to practice, and a lot of time.</p><p>Which meant I became a bit obsessed.</p><p>I’d go to the driving range in the morning to hit a few balls before work, and head out after to squeeze in 9 holes before dark.</p><p>I started watching every YouTube video about golf I could find.</p><p>And I made progress.</p><p>My two goals for last year were:</p><ol><li>Get below a 10 handicap</li><li>Shoot a round under 80</li></ol><p>I reached both. I got down to an 8.8 strokes to par on Golfshot (the app I was using for tracking my golf stats), and closed the year with a 77 at my home course. It felt good.</p><p>But what the year really accomplished was a true love for the game that has persisted, causing me to invest significant time and money in improving my game.</p><p>I think it’s interesting to hear high-performers talk about less central parts of their life: how they approach relationships, or recreation, or hobbies.</p><p>This will be that kind of post: I’m going to break down how I plan to improve my golf game.</p><p>It will be helpful for me to write it down, but I hope others get some insight into my thinking as they try to improve their own game, their hobbies, or their life in general. And I hope some of you will share your own approach to non-professional parts of life too.</p><h2>Golf Basics</h2><p>In every 18-hole golf round, there are a few constants.</p><p>On average, most people will have 30-35 putts. That’s around 35-40% of the total strokes in the round, and it’s why putting is so important for scoring well.</p><p>You’ll also hit off the tee 18 times.</p><p>That doesn’t mean hitting driver 18 times; in fact, on many recreational courses you can get away with hitting long irons on a lot of holes. And most 18-hole courses will have ~4 par 3s, where you rarely need to hit driver.</p><p>But it wouldn’t be uncommon to hit driver 10-14 times per round, particularly on a long course. Which is another 10-15% of the total shots in the golf round.</p><p>Hitting off the tee is also a common area to get into trouble with penalty strokes—hitting it into a hazard, or woods, or out of bounds.</p><p>Everything in between off the tee and on the green is some combination of irons, wedges, and woods, and most golfers will have clubs they prefer to hit, and try and get more shots from those distances.</p><p>These “in-between” shots are also where there’s a lot of murkiness in terms of what’s easy to track.</p><h2>Basic <strong>Golf Stats</strong></h2><p>Score-tracking apps like Golfshot—the one I typically use—produce three primary statistics:</p><ul><li>Fairways Hit</li><li>GIR: Greens in Regulation</li><li>Putts per round or putts per hole</li></ul><p>Sometimes there will be others, like sand saves or recoveries. And looking at your scorecard with tracked putts will tell you how many times you 3-putted or had penalty strokes (a common round-killer for average golfers).</p><p>But there are some obvious limitations.</p><p>For example, if I hit the green, but gave myself a 60-foot putt, it’s much different than if I hit the green 10 feet from the pin.</p><p>Similarly, 3-putting is much worse if I’m 10 feet from the hole compared to when I’m 60 feet away.</p><p>Which brings us to some more advanced statistics.</p><h2>Advanced Golf Stats</h2><p>The gold standard for scoring statistics right now is strokes gained.</p><p>Strokes gained compares a player’s score to the field average.</p><p>It can be broken down into strokes gained:</p><ul><li>Off-the-tee</li><li>Approach-the-green</li><li>Around-the-green</li><li>Putting</li></ul><p>All of these combined give the total strokes gained.</p><p>There’s a <a href="https://www.pgatour.com/news/2016/05/31/strokes-gained-defined.html">more detailed explanation and example here.</a></p><p>What this means in practice is that all types of shots can be isolated.</p><p>For example: strokes gained putting takes into account how far away from the hole you are. It compares the number of strokes it takes you to get into the hole from that distance with everyone else in the field from the same distance.</p><p>The poor approach shot—which put you at 60 feet—would be accounted for in approach-the-green or around-the-green strokes gained.</p><p>When this metric is tracked in the PGA, the comparison is the rest of the field.</p><p>But you can choose whatever comparison group you like, so for average golfers, provided there’s enough data, you can compare to others with the same handicap, or in roughly the same handicap range.</p><p>So why don’t average golfers use strokes gained?</p><p>Because <strong>it requires tracking the exact position of every shot you take on the golf course</strong> (and for even better stats, which club).</p><p>But thankfully, that’s much easier than it used to be.</p><h2>Tracking Strokes Gained</h2><p>Strokes gained is becoming more and more common amongst golf tracking devices, and there are a variety of options available. Garmin offers some insights, but <a href="https://www.golfpass.com/travel-advisor/articles/strokes-gained-shot-tracking-guide-for-amateurs">apparently lacks hole location data</a>. Taylormade offers a <a href="https://www.taylormadegolf.ca/myroundpro.html">free app for tracking</a>, as long as you’re willing to log shots.</p><p>Based on the research I’ve done, <a href="https://ca.arccosgolf.com/pages/strokes-gained-analytics">Arccos is the gold standard</a>.</p><p>Arccos is a combination of hardware—sensors that fit into the top of your clubs—and software, which auto-detects shots and their location, and then gives strokes gained insights on your game.</p><p>Even better, Arccos sensors are coming standard (or for free) with a lot of new clubs (Ping &amp; Taylormade in particular), so the main cost is the subscription.</p><p>I don’t like carrying my phone in my pocket while taking shots, which is required by Arccos unless you use either their belt clip device, or an Apple Watch.</p><p>I plan to use Arccos next season, which I hope will give me some more detailed insights into my game.</p><p>Using their app, I should be able to get more information about exactly how far I hit my shots, which areas of my game I need to work on, and what club I should be playing for any give shot.</p><p>But of course, insights are useless unless acted upon.</p><h2>How to Practice</h2><p>I don’t mind spending hours at the range. In fact, I enjoy it. Hitting balls is kind of like boxing—it’s good practice, sure, but it’s also good exercise and a stress reliever.</p><p>You’re bound to get better if you hit enough balls. Your body adapts, and you figure out how to make your swing work.</p><p>The problem with unstructured and unguided practice, however, is that you’re almost guaranteed to develop some poor habits. Look at some of the swings around your local golf club, even from players that score well, and you’ll see what I mean.</p><p>Many people make that kind of thing work for them. They’ll score well their whole life, play in the club championship and do well every year, and enjoy their time on the course.</p><p>I’m not one of those people.</p><p>A golf swing that looks good matters to me, and I also don’t want a ceiling imposed on my own game because my swing is so poor that it would require a massive change to find improvement.</p><p>So how should you practice?</p><p>In my experience, the best practice comes with a launch monitor and a coach.</p><p>The coach tells you what to work on; the launch monitor tells you whether you’ve succeeded. It’s a perfect feedback loop.</p><p>You get instruction from your coach, try the shot and feel the new movement, and then know immediately whether you did it well or not. You can link the right shot with the right feeling.</p><p>This kind of setup also works well because it works in the winter; the only difference is that you’re indoors.</p><p><a href="https://www.trackman.com/">Trackman</a> is known as the gold standard in launch monitors, and most major cities will have practice facilities that have one.</p><p>They’ll probably look something like this:</p><p>The other benefit of using a launch monitor as part of your training is that you can track your progress over time. Your practice sessions and fittings can all be added to your profile. You can debrief with a coach later, build yardage cards, all kinds of things.</p><p>And speaking of practicing in the winter: for Canadians, it’s a huge advantage if you can keep golfing year-round, which is why it’s important to find a practice facility like this.</p><p>But what if you don’t have access to a practice facility? Or a coach, for that matter?</p><p>Well, as long as you have somewhere to hit balls, there are options.</p><p><a href="https://skillest.com/">Skillest is an online coaching platform</a> that gives you access to all kinds of coaches from all around the world.</p><p>It varies by coach, but typically you set up your phone/camera while you practice at the range, and then get feedback and drills from your coach via the app.</p><p>It’s not nearly as good as the immediate feedback you get via a live session with a coach and a launch monitor; but it is a game-changer in that it gives you access to some of the best coaches in the world from wherever you happen to be located.</p><h3>Putting</h3><p>Putting, as I mentioned, typically represents 35-40% of the shots you’ll take during your round. So you need to practice it.</p><p>It also happens to be the easiest part of the game to practice: all you need is a <a href="https://amzn.to/3sSkf7v">putting matt like this one</a>, and you can practice year-round.</p><p>Of course, you should still practice on the greens at your local course, as things like break, speed, and grain will all change depending on conditions.</p><p>But practicing your stroke and speed control is something you can do at home, every day.</p><h2>Does Equipment Matter?</h2><p>Yes and no. A golf pro would still undoubtedly beat the rest of us, even with terrible clubs.</p><p>My general philosophy is that I should be focused on improving my own technique long before I consider an equipment upgrade, regardless of the sport.</p><p>That said, I’ve come to appreciate the benefits of having clubs which are fit to your game.</p><p>The last time I got new clubs was ~15 years ago, when I was around 14. They served me well, but needless to say, my swing is much different than when I was 14.</p><p>But last fall, after playing a lot of golf, I decided I’d go get a fitting, and see what some new clubs felt like.</p><h3>Irons</h3><p>The difference was remarkable; not necessarily the club itself, though modern clubs are much more forgiving. But the ability of the fitter to move my ball flight based on the shaft, the length and the lie was remarkable.</p><p>Which led me to wonder if I should bother getting new clubs. What if my swing improved or changed significantly? Should I wait until that’s happened?</p><p>The reality is that even if my swing <em>was</em> going to improve, I’d still have personal tendencies, and a good club fitting can help balance those tendencies. Many of the newer clubs also manage to balance forgiveness and performance in a way that I could continue using them without problem even if my game progressed.</p><p>Here’s the Trackman report from my fitting: as you can see, the new clubs seem to have a solid impact on my consistency:</p><p>So will new clubs improve my game? I think so. I don’t think new clubs every couple years is necessary; but if your game has changed significantly, or club technology has, then it may be worth an upgrade.</p><h3>Putter</h3><p>I <em>do</em> believe a putter can help change your game on the greens, but only those that differ in one specific attribute: toe hang.</p><p>I didn’t know what toe hang was until recently, but essentially, it’s the weight balance of the head. The tip of the putter head will tend to “hang” at a specific angle, which is the toe hang.</p><p>This angle matters because when you putt, depending on your stroke, it will influence the angle of the face at impact.</p><p>If you don’t have the right toe hang for your natural putting stroke, you’ll be constantly fighting the putter, and will experience a lot of inconsistency.</p><p>I couldn’t believe how much difference this made when I finally tried some different putters. Previously I had a putter with a <em>lot</em> of toe hang, which didn’t fit my stroke. I tried one that did, and all of a sudden felt like things were much more consistent. The ball went where I expected it.</p><p>Aside from that, no doubt feel, length, grip size, etc. matter. And you should try out some different ones to find one you like. But toe hang is the one factor that seems to be important to nail.</p><h3>Driver</h3><p>No clubs get changed out of golfer’s bags as often as the putter and the driver.</p><p>Sometimes for good reason; other times not. A large part of golf is mental, though, so sometimes the change, even if symbolic, can seem to make a difference.</p><p>What’s interesting about drivers is that most people will change driver, but not think too much about the shaft. They’ll get the same flex they used to have, and then go by feel.</p><p>The problem is, shafts vary A LOT. One manufacturer’s standard stiff flex shaft can be wildly different than another. They may have different weights. Different flex points. All of which have a big impact on your swing.</p><p>So, like irons, drivers shouldn’t be something you buy without a fitting.</p><p>I’d argue that the driver swing is also a particular swing that many can change significantly with some lessons; so, if you’re going to be focusing on improving your driver swing, you may want to wait before getting your fitting and ordering your new driver. And when you do, make sure you pay attention to the shaft.</p><p>I did exactly that; while I didn’t get as much work on my driver swing as I’d like, the difference I felt during my fitting was still pretty remarkable.</p><p>Here’s the Trackman report from my fitting: light blue is my old club, while dark blue is the new one.</p><h2>Goals for This Year</h2><p>What are my goals for the upcoming season?</p><p>I view goals as a way to push for something ambitious, potentially unattainable. And I like setting both performance and process goals. Performance won’t come without the process, and sometimes you just won’t reach the performance goals you set, so it’s nice to have both.</p><p>My goals for the upcoming season are:</p><ul><li>Reduce my handicap by at least 5 strokes (this would put me under 5)</li><li>Shoot a round at even par (72 at my home course, no specific tees)</li><li>Play more than 20 rounds of golf (20 might not seem like a lot, but I’m not anticipating being as close to a golf course as I was last summer)</li></ul><h2>Summary</h2><p>I’ve spent a lot of time researching and learning about how to improve your golf game, and working on my own.</p><p>Here are what I consider the best bang-for-buck methods for improving your game:</p><ul><li>Get a putting mat at home, and get a putter that fits your stroke (correct toe hang)</li><li>Get lessons at a facility that has a top-tier launch monitor (like a <a href="https://www.trackman.com/">Trackman</a>)</li><li>Get fit for clubs</li><li>Use <a href="https://arccosgolf.com/">Arccos</a> to track your game on the course, and figure out where you need work</li><li>Repeat lessons and practice</li></ul><p>Good luck!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Lessons of History by Will & Ariel Durant: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-lessons-of-history-will-ariel-durant</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2022 12:57:35 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A wonderful summary of the main learnings from history. This book is a distillation of the 11-volume The Story of Civilization.It can be read in a short single sitting, and the lessons will no doubt stand the test of time.“History repeats itself, but only in outline and in the large.”]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Our knowledge of the past is always incomplete, inaccurate and distorted. “Most history is guessing, and the rest is prejudice.”</li><li>The influence of geographic factors diminishes as technology grows.</li></ul><h5>III. Biology and History</h5><ul><li>Life is competition. Cooperation exists because it is a tool and form of competition.</li><li>Life is selection. We are not born equal; the best we can do is provide equal opportunity for all abilities to develop and function.</li><li>Life must breed.</li></ul><h5>V. Character and History</h5><ul><li>No single person can judge the customs or institutions of their society, because they are the collective wisdom of generations of experiment.</li><li>As a result, the conservative who resists change is as valuable as the radical who proposes it. We need radicals for the few ideas which are good, and we need conservatives to oppose the rest which aren’t.</li></ul><h5>VI. Morals and History</h5><ul><li>Moral codes differ because they adjust themselves to historical and environmental conditions. The codes have varied significantly between different periods in economic history: hunting, agricultural and industrial.</li><li>Sin has flourished in every age; the moral laxity of our times may simply be part of our transition to a new moral code. Either way, we can take solace in the fact that civilizations are slow to decay.</li><li>The freedom of the part varies with the security of the whole; individualism diminishes as geographical protection ceases. In other words, wars unite people.</li></ul><h5>VII. Religion and History</h5><ul><li>Religion has long played a role in stemming unrest caused by inequality. It provides hope for those less happy.</li><li>Religion and puritanism grow in times when laws are feeble; skepticism and paganism grow in times when the power of law and government grow.</li><li>There is no significant example in history of a society successfully maintaining moral life without the aid of religion.</li></ul><h5>VIII. Economics and History</h5><ul><li>History, according to Karl Marx, is economics in action—the contest, among individuals, groups, classes, and states, for food, fuel, materials, and economic power. Political forms, religious institutions, cultural creations, are all rooted in economic realities.</li><li>Every economic system must rely on some form of the profit motive to stir individuals and groups to productivity.</li><li>Substitutes like slavery, police supervision, or ideological enthusiasm prove too unproductive, too expensive, or too transient.</li><li>Men are judged by their ability to produce—except in war, when they are ranked according to their ability to destroy.</li><li>Practical ability differs from person to person and the majority of such abilities, in nearly all societies, is gathered in a minority of men.</li><li>The concentration of wealth is a natural result of this concentration of ability, and regularly recurs in history.</li><li>The rate of concentration varies (other factors being equal) with the economic freedom permitted by morals and the laws. Despotism may for a time retard the concentration; democracy, allowing the most liberty, accelerates it.</li><li>The relative equality of Americans before 1776 has been overwhelmed by a thousand forms of physical, mental, and economic differentiation, so that the gap between the wealthiest and the poorest is now greater than at any time since Imperial plutocratic Rome.</li><li>In progressive societies the concentration may reach a point where the strength of number in the many poor rivals the strength of ability in the few rich; then the unstable equilibrium generates a critical situation, which history has diversely met by legislation redistributing wealth or by revolution distributing poverty.</li><li>The concentration of wealth is natural and inevitable, and is periodically alleviated by violent or peaceable partial redistribution.</li></ul><h5>X. Government and History</h5><ul><li>Monarchy seems to be the most natural kind of government, since it applies to the group the authority of the father in a family or of the chieftain in a warrior band. If we were to judge forms of government from their prevalence and duration in history we should have to give the palm to monarchy; democracies, by contrast, have been hectic interludes.</li><li>Most governments have been oligarchies—ruled by a minority, chosen either by birth, as in aristocracies, or by a religious organization, as in theocracies, or by wealth, as in democracies. It is unnatural for a majority to rule, for a majority can seldom be organized for united and specific action, and a minority can.</li><li>In strict usage of the term, democracy has existed only in modern times, for the most part since the French Revolution.</li><li>The establishment of America was eased and quickened by an abundance of free land and a minimum of legislation. Rural isolation enhanced the freedom of the individual, and national isolation provided liberty and security within protective seas.</li><li>Many of these formative conditions have disappeared. Personal isolation is gone through the growth of cities. Personal independence is gone through the dependence of the worker upon tools and capital that he does not own, and upon conditions that he cannot control. War becomes more consuming, and the individual is helpless to understand its causes or escape its effects. Free land is gone, though home ownership spreads—with a minimum of land. Economic freedom is more and more exceptional, making political freedom a pretense.</li><li>Every advance in the complexity of the economy puts an added premium upon superior ability, and intensifies the concentration of wealth, responsibility, and political power.</li><li>Democracy has done less harm, and more good, than any other form of government.</li><li>Men cannot be equal, but their access to education and opportunity can be made more nearly equal.</li><li>In England and the United States, in Denmark, Norway, and Sweden, in Switzerland and Canada, democracy is today sounder than ever before. It has defended itself with courage and energy against the assaults of foreign dictatorship, and has not yielded to dictatorship at home. But if war continues to absorb and dominate it, or if the itch to rule the world requires a large military establishment and appropriation, the freedoms of democracy may one by one succumb to the discipline of arms and strife. If race or class war divides us into hostile camps, changing political argument into blind hate, one side or the other may overturn the hustings with the rule of the sword. If our economy of freedom fails to distribute wealth as ably as it has created it, the road to dictatorship will be open to any man who can persuasively promise security to all; and a martial government, under whatever charming phrases, will engulf the democratic world.</li></ul><h5>XI. History and War</h5><ul><li>War is one of the constants of history, and has not diminished with civilization or democracy.</li><li>War is the ultimate form of competition and natural selection in the human species. Peace is an unstable equilibrium which can be preserved only by acknowledged supremacy or equal power.</li><li>The causes of war are the same as the causes of competition among individuals: acquisitiveness, pugnacity, and pride; the desire for food, land, materials, fuels, mastery. The state has our instincts without our restraints.</li><li>The individual submits to restraints laid upon him by morals and laws, and agrees to replace combat with conference, because the state guarantees him basic protection in his life, property, and legal rights. The state itself acknowledges no substantial restraints, either because it is strong enough to defy any interference with its will or because there is no superstate to offer it basic protection, and no international law or moral code wielding effective force.</li><li>In the individual, pride gives added vigor in the competitions of life; in the state, nationalism gives added force in diplomacy and war.</li></ul><h5>XII. Growth and Decay</h5><ul><li>History repeats itself, but only in outline and in the large.</li><li>We may reasonably expect that in the future, as in the past, some new states will rise, some old states will subside; that new civilizations will begin with pasture and agriculture, expand into commerce and industry, and luxuriate with finance; that thought will pass, by and large, from supernatural to legendary to naturalistic explanations; that new theories, inventions, discoveries, and errors will agitate the intellectual currents; that new generations will rebel against the old and pass from rebellion to conformity and reaction; that experiments in morals will loosen tradition and frighten its beneficiaries; and that the excitement of innovation will be forgotten in the unconcern of time.</li><li>History repeats itself in the large because human nature changes with geological leisureliness, and man is equipped to respond in stereotyped ways to frequently occurring situations and stimuli like hunger, danger, and sex. But in a developed and complex civilization individuals are more differentiated and unique than in a primitive society, and many situations contain novel circumstances requiring modifications of instinctive response; custom recedes, reasoning spreads; the results are less predictable. There is no certainty that the future will repeat the past. Every year is an adventure.</li><li>When the group or a civilization declines, it is through the failure of its political or intellectual leaders to meet the challenges of change.</li><li>The challenges may come from a dozen sources, and may by repetition or combination rise to a destructive intensity.</li><li>Since inequality grows in an expanding economy, a society may find itself divided between a cultured minority and a majority of men and women too unfortunate by nature or circumstance to inherit or develop standards of excellence and taste. As this majority grows it acts as a cultural drag upon the minority; its ways of speech, dress, recreation, feeling, judgment, and thought spread upward, and internal barbarization by the majority is part of the price that the minority pays for its control of educational and economic opportunity.</li><li>As education spreads, theologies lose credence, and receive an external conformity without influence upon conduct or hope. Life and ideas become increasingly secular, ignoring supernatural explanations and fears. The moral code loses aura and force as its human origin is revealed, and as divine surveillance and sanctions are removed.</li><li>Caught in the relaxing interval between one moral code and the next, an unmoored generation surrenders itself to luxury, corruption, and a restless disorder of family and morals, in all but a remnant clinging desperately to old restraints and ways. Few souls feel any longer that “it is beautiful and honorable to die for one’s country.” A failure of leadership may allow a state to weaken itself with internal strife. At the end of the process a decisive defeat in war may bring a final blow, or barbarian invasion from without may combine with barbarism welling up from within to bring the civilization to a close.</li><li>However, societies don’t really die. Greek civilization is not really dead; it survives in memory, and in things like philosophy and literature which we study.</li></ul><h5>XIII. Is Progress Real?</h5><ul><li>Against this panorama of nations, morals, and religions rising and falling, the idea of progress finds itself in dubious shape. Is it only the vain and traditional boast of each “modern” generation? Since we have admitted no substantial change in man’s nature during historic times, all technological advances will have to be written off as merely new means of achieving old ends—the acquisition of goods, the pursuit of one sex by the other (or by the same), the overcoming of competition, the fighting of wars.</li><li>We should first define what progress means to us. If it means increase in happiness its case is lost almost at first sight. Our capacity for fretting is endless, and no matter how many difficulties we surmount, how many ideals we realize, we shall always find an excuse for being magnificently miserable; there is a stealthy pleasure in rejecting mankind or the universe as unworthy of our approval.</li><li>We shall here define progress as the increasing control of the environment by life. It is a test that may hold for the lowliest organism as well as for man.</li><li>If education is the transmission of civilization, we are unquestionably progressing. Civilization is not inherited; it has to be learned and earned by each generation anew; if the transmission should be interrupted for one century, civilization would die, and we should be savages again. So <strong>our finest contemporary achievement is our unprecedented expenditure of wealth and toil in the provision of higher education for all.</strong></li><li>Consider education not as the painful accumulation of facts and dates and reigns, nor merely the necessary preparation of the individual to earn his keep in the world, but as the transmission of our mental, moral, technical, and aesthetic heritage as fully as possible to as many as possible, for the enlargement of man’s understanding, control, embellishment, and enjoyment of life.</li><li>The heritage that we can now more fully transmit is richer than ever before. It is richer than that of Pericles, for it includes all the Greek flowering that followed him; richer than Leonardo’s, for it includes him and the Italian Renaissance; richer than Voltaire’s, for it embraces all the French Enlightenment and its ecumenical dissemination. If progress is real despite our whining, it is not because we are born any healthier, better, or wiser than infants were in the past, but because we are born to a richer heritage, born on a higher level of that pedestal which the accumulation of knowledge and art raises as the ground and support of our being. The heritage rises, and man rises in proportion as he receives it.</li><li>History is, above all else, the creation and recording of that heritage; progress is its increasing abundance, preservation, transmission, and use. To those of us who study history not merely as a warning reminder of man’s follies and crimes, but also as an encouraging remembrance of generative souls, the past ceases to be a depressing chamber of horrors; it becomes a celestial city, a spacious country of the mind, wherein a thousand saints, statesmen, inventors, scientists, poets, artists, musicians, lovers, and philosophers still live and speak, teach and carve and sing. The historian will not mourn because he can see no meaning in human existence except that which man puts into it; let it be our pride that we ourselves may put meaning into our lives, and sometimes a significance that transcends death. If a man is fortunate he will, before he dies, gather up as much as he can of his civilized heritage and transmit it to his children. And to his final breath he will be grateful for this inexhaustible legacy, knowing that it is our nourishing mother and our lasting life.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A breath of fresh air in a world of doomsday predictions, Matt Ridley makes the case that we should all be a little more optimistic.The Rational Optimist takes a look at the evidence facing most modern pessimism—on climate, poverty, trade, innovation—and finds that much of what we think we know is false.Pessimism is warranted if nothing changes, but that is the core thesis of the book: things always change.Excellent book.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Takeaways</h4><ul><li>Human intelligence is collective; it is rare that one person knows how to make something.</li><li>The world is as good a place as it has ever been for the average human being, and it will continue to get better.</li><li>On average, all other things being equal, more money does make you happier.</li><li>But social and political liberation is far more effective at increasing happiness.</li><li>The definition of a high standard of living: diverse consumption, simplified production. In other words, specialization. “Self-sufficiency is poverty.”</li><li>“Liberty and welfare march hand-in-hand with prosperity and trade.”</li><li>The point of agriculture: diverting labour of other species to provide services for human beings.</li><li>Free trade causes prosperity; protectionism causes poverty.</li><li>Property rights, making it easier to do business, and safety are all things government can do to help trade. But governments that are too strong tend to stifle innovation and business.</li><li>Biofuel subsidies have had one of the largest negative environmental impacts of any initiative worldwide.</li><li>Most technological change comes from attempts to improve existing technology, among practitioners, by trial-and-error.</li><li>Climate change will have significant positive effects, and may in fact be an overall net positive.</li><li>Solar and nuclear make the most sense as the cure to fossil fuels.</li><li>The 21st century will bring more and more prosperity to more of the world, as we continue to innovate and find solutions that haven’t been thought of yet.</li></ul><h4>Notes</h4><h5>Prologue: When Ideas Have Sex</h5><p>At some point, human intelligence became collective and cumulative in a way that happened to no other animal. No single person knows how to make a computer mouse; it’s the combination of many people over a long period of time.</p><p>Experiments in laboratories by the economist Vernon Smith and his colleagues have long confirmed that markets in goods and services for immediate consumption – haircuts and hamburgers – work so well that it is hard to design them so they fail to deliver efficiency and innovation; while markets in assets are so automatically prone to bubbles and crashes that it is hard to design them so they work at all. Speculation, herd exuberance, irrational optimism, rent-seeking and the temptation of fraud drive asset markets to overshoot and plunge – which is why they need careful regulation, something I always supported. (Markets in goods and services need less regulation.)</p><p>I am a rational optimist: rational, because I have arrived at optimism not through temperament or instinct, but by looking at the evidence. In the pages that follow I hope to make you a rational optimist too. First, I need to convince you that human progress has, on balance, been a good thing, and that, despite the constant temptation to moan, the world is as good a place to live as it has ever been for the average human being – even now in a deep recession. That it is richer, healthier, and kinder too, as much because of commerce as despite it. Then I intend to explain why and how it got that way. And finally, I intend to see whether it can go on getting better.</p><h5>Chapter One - A better today: the unprecedented present</h5><p>Falling consumer prices is what enriches people (deflation of asset prices can ruin them, but that is because they are using asset prices to get them the wherewithal to purchase consumer items). And, once again, notice that the true metric of prosperity is time. If Cornelius Vanderbilt or Henry Ford not only moves you faster to where you want to go, but requires you to work fewer hours to earn the ticket price, then he has enriched you by granting you a dollop of free time. If you choose to spend that spare time consuming somebody else’s production then you can enrich him in turn; if you choose to spend it producing for his consumption then you have also further enriched yourself.</p><p>Housing, too, is itching to get cheaper, but for confused reasons governments go to great lengths to prevent it. Where it took sixteen weeks to earn the price of 100 square feet of housing in 1956, now it takes fourteen weeks and the housing is of better quality. But given the ease with which modern machinery can assemble a house, the price should have come down much faster than that. Governments prevent this by, first, using planning or zoning laws to restrict supply (especially in Britain); second, using the tax system to encourage mortgage borrowing (in the United States at least – no longer in Britain); and third, doing all they can to stop property prices falling after a bubble. The effect of these measures is to make life harder for those who do not yet have a house and massively reward those who do. To remedy this, governments then have to enforce the building of more affordable housing, or subsidise mortgage lending to the poor.</p><p><strong>Happiness</strong></p><p>Two papers were published in 2008 analysing all the data, and the unambiguous conclusion of both is that the Easterlin paradox does not exist. Rich people are happier than poor people; rich countries have happier people than poor countries; and people get happier as they get richer.</p><p>That is to say, on average, across the board, on the whole, other things being equal, more money does make you happier.</p><p>Getting richer is not the only or even the best way of getting happier. Social and political liberation is far more effective.</p><p><strong>The multiplication of labour</strong></p><p>This is the diagnostic feature of modern life, the very definition of a high standard of living: diverse consumption, simplified production. Make one thing, use lots. The self-sufficient gardener, or his self-sufficient peasant or hunter-gatherer predecessor (who is, I shall argue, partly a myth in any case), is in contrast defined by his multiple production and simple consumption. He makes not just one thing, but many – his food, his shelter, his clothing, his entertainment. Because he only consumes what he produces, he cannot consume very much.</p><p><strong>Self-sufficiency is poverty</strong></p><p>It is fashionable these days to decry ‘food miles’. The longer food has spent travelling to your plate, the more oil has been burnt and the more peace has been shattered along the way. But why single out food? Should we not protest against T-shirt miles, too, and laptop miles? After all, fruit and vegetables account for more than 20 per cent of all exports from poor countries, whereas most laptops come from rich countries, so singling out food imports for special discrimination means singling out poor countries for sanctions. Two economists recently concluded, after studying the issue, that the entire concept of food miles is ‘a profoundly flawed sustainability indicator’. Getting food from the farmer to the shop causes just 4 per cent of all its lifetime emissions. Ten times as much carbon is emitted in refrigerating British food as in air-freighting it from abroad, and fifty times as much is emitted by the customer travelling to the shops.</p><p><strong>The call of the new</strong></p><p>None the less, you do not have to be starry-eyed about the Stone Age to find aspects of modern consumer society obscenely wasteful. Why, asks Geoffrey Miller, ‘would the world’s most intelligent primate buy a Hummer H1 Alpha sport-utility vehicle’, which seats four, gets ten miles to the gallon, takes 13.5 seconds to reach 60 mph, and sells for $139,771? Because, he answers, human beings evolved to strive to signal social status and sexual worth. What this implies is that far from being merely materialist, human consumption is already driven by a sort of pseudo-spiritualism that seeks love, heroism and admiration. Yet this thirst for status then encourages people to devise recipes that rearrange the atoms, electrons or photons of the world in such a way as to make useful combinations for other people. Ambition is transmuted into opportunity.</p><p>The cumulative accretion of knowledge by specialists that allows us each to consume more and more different things by each producing fewer and fewer is, I submit, the central story of humanity. Innovation changes the world but only because it aids the elaboration of the division of labour and encourages the division of time. Forget wars, religions, famines and poems for the moment. This is history’s greatest theme: the metastasis of exchange, specialisation and the invention it has called forth, the ‘creation’ of time. The rational optimist invites you to stand back and look at your species differently, to see the grand enterprise of humanity that has progressed – with frequent setbacks – for 100,000 years. And then, when you have seen that, consider whether that enterprise is finished or if, as the optimist claims, it still has centuries and millennia to run. If, in fact, it might be about to accelerate to an unprecedented rate.</p><h5>Chapter Two - The collective brain: exchange and specialisation after 200,000 years ago</h5><p><strong>Starting to barter</strong></p><p>Friedrich Hayek called the catallaxy: the ever-expanding possibility generated by a growing division of labour. This is something that amplifies itself once begun.</p><p><strong>Innovation networks</strong></p><p>According to the anthropologist Joe Henrich, human beings learn skills from each other by copying prestigious individuals, and they innovate by making mistakes that are very occasionally improvements – that is how culture evolves. The bigger the connected population, the more skilled the teacher, and the bigger the probability of a productive mistake.</p><h5>Chapter Three - The manufacture of virtue: barter, trust and rules after 50,000 years ago</h5><p><strong>The trust juice</strong></p><p>The more you look at altruism and cooperation, the less uniquely human it appears. Oxytocin is common to all mammals, and is used for mother-love in sheep and lover-love in voles, so the chances are that it is available to underpin trust in almost any social mammal. It is necessary, but not sufficient to explain the human propensity to exchange.</p><p>As a broad generalisation, the more people trust each other in a society, the more prosperous that society is, and trust growth seems to precede income growth.</p><p><strong>If trust makes markets work, can markets generate trust?</strong></p><p>A successful transaction between two people – a sale and purchase – should benefit both. If it benefits one and not the other, it is exploitation, and it does nothing to raise the standard of living. The history of human prosperity, as Robert Wright has argued, lies in the repeated discovery of non-zero-sum bargains that benefit both sides.</p><p><strong>Coercion is the opposite of freedom</strong></p><p>The twenty-first century, when commercialisation has so far continued to spread, is already a time when battery farming and unilaterally declaring war have just about become unacceptable. Random violence makes the news precisely because it is so rare; routine kindness does not make the news precisely because it is so commonplace. Charitable giving has been growing faster than the economy as a whole in recent decades. The internet reverberates with people sharing tips for free.</p><p>The lesson of the last two centuries is that liberty and welfare march hand in hand with prosperity and trade.</p><p>I am happy to cheer, with Deirdre McCloskey: ‘Hurrah for late twentieth-century enrichment and democratisation. Hurrah for birth control and the civil rights movement. Arise ye wretched of the earth’. Interdependence through the market made these things possible. Politically, as Brink Lindsey has diagnosed, the coincidence of wealth with toleration has led to the bizarre paradox of a conservative movement that embraces economic change but hates its social consequences and a liberal movement that loves the social consequences but hates the economic source from which they come.</p><p>Moreover, for all their eventual sins, entrepreneurial corporations can do enormous good while they are young and growing. Consider the case of discount retailing. The burst of increasing productivity that countries like America and Britain rather unexpectedly experienced in the 1990s at first puzzled many economists. They wanted to credit computers, but as the economist Robert Solow had quipped in 1987, ‘you can see the computer everywhere but in the productivity statistics’, and those of us who experienced how easy it was to waste time using a computer in those days agreed. A study by McKinsey concluded that the 1990s surge in the United States was caused by (drum roll of excitement) logistical changes in business (groan of disappointment), especially in the retail business and especially in just one firm – Wal-Mart. Efficient ordering, ruthless negotiating, hyper-punctual time keeping (suppliers must sometimes hit a thirty-second window for deliveries), merciless cost control and ingenious responses to customers’ preferences had given Wal-Mart a 40 per cent efficiency advantage over its competitors by the early 1990s. Wal-Mart’s competitors rapidly followed suit, raising their own productivity by 28 per cent in the later 1990s, but Wal-Mart had not stood still, gaining another 22 per cent in the same time, even as it opened an average of seven new three-acre supercentres a month for a decade. According to Eric Beinhocker of McKinsey, these ‘social-technology’ innovations in the retail sector alone accounted for fully a quarter of all United States productivity growth. Tesco probably had a similar effect in Britain.</p><p>Like corrugated iron and container shipping, discount merchandising is among the most unsophisticated yet enriching innovations of the twentieth century. A single, routine, minuscule Wal-Mart decision in the 1990s – not to sell deodorant in cardboard boxes – saved America $50 million a year, half of which was passed on to customers. Charles Fishman writes: ‘Whole forests have not fallen in part because of a decision made in the Wal-Mart home office ... to eliminate the [deodorant] box.’</p><p>On average, when it lands in a town, Wal-Mart causes a 13 per cent drop in its competitors’ prices and saves its customers nationally $200 billion a year.</p><p>Yet critics of corporate giants, who normally complain about profiteering, still disapprove of Wal-Mart, saying the low prices are a bad thing because smaller businesses can’t compete or that Wal-Mart is ‘the world’s largest sweat shop’ for paying low wages even though Wal-Mart pays twice the minimum wage (and as I was writing this announced $2 billion in bonuses to staff, despite the recession, because of record sales). It is true that the growth of Wal-Mart in the 1990s, just like the opening of a new Wal-Mart in a certain town, created turmoil. Competitors went bust or were forced into humiliating mergers. Suppliers found themselves driven to new practices. Unions lost their leverage over retailing workforces. Cardboard box makers went to the wall. Consumers changed their habits. Innovation, whether in the form of new technology or new ways of organising the world, can destroy as well as create. A Wal-Mart store drives small general retailers out of business as surely as the computer drove the typewriter out of business. But against this must be balanced the enormous benefits that (especially the poorest) customers reap in terms of cheaper, more varied and better goods.</p><p><strong>Commerce and creativity</strong></p><p>Nike, born in 1972, grew into a huge company merely by contracting between factories in Asia and shops in America from a relatively small head office. Wikipedia has a paid staff of fewer than thirty and makes no profit. Whereas the typical firm was once a team of workers, hierarchically arranged and housed on a single site, increasingly it is a nebulous and ephemeral coming together of creative and marketing talent to transmit the efforts of contracting individuals towards the satisfying of consumer preferences.</p><p>In that sense ‘capitalism’ is dying, and fast. The size of the average American company is down from twenty-five employees to ten in just twenty-five years. The market economy is evolving a new form in which even to speak about the power of corporations is to miss the point. Tomorrow’s largely self-employed workers, clocking on to work online in bursts for different clients when and where it suits them, will surely look back on the days of bosses and foremen, of meetings and appraisals, of time sheets and trade unions, with amusement. I repeat: firms are temporary aggregations of people to help them do their producing in such a way as to help others do their consuming.</p><h5>Chapter Four - The feeding of the nine billion: farming after 10,000 years ago.</h5><p>That is the point of agriculture: it diverts the labour of other species to providing services for human beings.</p><p>Farming is the extension of specialisation and exchange to include other species.</p><p>In the conventional account it was agriculture that made capital possible by generating stored surpluses and stored surpluses could be used in trade.</p><p>Agriculture was possible because of trade. Trade provided the incentive to specialise in farmed goods and to generate surplus food.</p><p><strong>Capital and metal</strong></p><p>Almost by definition, the more wealthy somebody is, the more things he acquires from specialists. The characteristic signature of prosperity is increasing specialisation. The characteristic signature of poverty is a return to self-sufficiency.</p><p><strong>The many ways of modifying genes</strong></p><p>There is one respect in which the environmental critique of modern agriculture has force. In the pursuit of quantity, science may have sacrificed nutritional quality of food. Indeed, the twentieth-century drive to provide a growing population with an ever faster-growing supply of calories has succeeded so magnificently that the diseases caused by too much bland food are rampant: obesity, heart disease, diabetes, and perhaps depression. For example, modern plant oils and plentiful red meat make for a diet low in omega-3 fatty acids, which may contribute to heart disease; modern wheat flour is rich in amylopectin starch, which may contribute to insulin resistance and hence diabetes; and maize is especially low in the amino acid tryptophan, a precursor of serotonin, the ‘feel-good’ neurotransmitter. Consumers will rightly be looking to the next generation of plant varieties to redress these deficiencies. They could do so by eating more fish, fruit and vegetables. But not only would this be a land-hungry option, it would suit the wealthy more than the poor, so it would exacerbate health inequalities.</p><p>Instead, genetic modification provides an obvious solution: to insert healthy nutritional traits into high-yielding varieties: tryptophan into maize to fight depression, calcium transporter genes into carrots to help fight osteoporosis in people who cannot drink milk, or vitamins and minerals into sorghum and cassava for those who depend on them as staples.</p><h5>Chapter Five - The triumph of cities: trade after 5,000 years ago</h5><p><strong>The virtue of fragmented government</strong></p><p>The Phoenician diaspora teaches another important lesson, first advanced by David Hume: political fragmentation is often the friend, not the enemy, of economic advance, because of the stop which it gives ‘both to power and authority.</p><p>This is not to say that democratic city states are the only places where economic progress can occur, but it is to discern a pattern. Plainly, there is something beneficial to the growth of the division of labour when governments are limited (though not so weak that there is widespread piracy), republican or fragmented. The chief reason is surely that strong governments are, by definition, monopolies and monopolies always grow complacent, stagnant and self-serving.</p><p><strong>The Moloch state</strong></p><p>Empires, indeed governments generally, tend to be good things at first and bad things the longer they last. First they improve society’s ability to flourish by providing central services and removing impediments to trade and specialisation. But then governments gradually employ more and more ambitious elites who capture a greater and greater share of the society’s income by interfering more and more in people’s lives as they give themselves more and more rules to enforce, until they kill the goose that lays the golden eggs.</p><p>There is a lesson for today. Economists are quick to speak of ‘market failure’, and rightly so, but a greater threat comes from ‘government failure’. Because it is a monopoly, government brings inefficiency and stagnation to most things it runs; government agencies pursue the inflation of their budgets rather than the service of their customers; pressure groups form an unholy alliance with agencies to extract more money from taxpayers for their members. Yet despite all this, most clever people still call for government to run more things and assume that if it did so, it would somehow be more perfect, more selfless, next time.</p><p><strong>Repeal the corn laws again</strong></p><p>The message from history is so blatantly obvious – that free trade causes mutual prosperity while protectionism causes poverty – that it seems incredible that anybody ever thinks otherwise.</p><p>Free trade works for countries even if they do it and their neighbours do not.</p><p>Still they tried: North Korea under Kim Il Sung, Albania under Enver Hoxha, China under Mao Zedong, Cuba under Fidel Castro – every country that tried protectionism suffered. Countries that went the other way include Singapore, Hong Kong, Taiwan, South Korea and later Mauritius, bywords for miraculous growth.</p><p>Yes, of course, trade is disruptive. Cheap imports can destroy jobs at home – though in doing so they always create far more both at home and abroad, by freeing up consumers’ cash to buy other goods and services.</p><p>If Europeans find their shoes made cheaply in Vietnam, then they have more to spend on getting their hair done and there are more nice jobs for Europeans in hair salons and fewer dull ones in shoe factories. Sure, manufacturers will and do seek out countries that tolerate lower wages and lower standards – though, prodded by Western activists, in practice their main effect is then to raise the wages and standards in such places, where they most need raising. It is less of a race to the bottom, more of a race to raise the bottom. Nike’s sweatshops in Vietnam, for example, pay wages three times as high as local state owned factories and have far better facilities. That drives up wages and standards. During the period of most rapid expansion of trade and out-sourcing, child labour has halved since 1980: if that is driving down standards, let there be more of it.</p><p><strong>The apotheosis of the city</strong></p><p>Trade draws people to cities and swells the slums. Is this not a bad thing? No.</p><p>All across Asia, Latin America and Africa, a tide of subsistence farmers is leaving the land to move to cities and find paid work. To many Westerners, suffused with <em>nostalgie de la boue</em> (nostalgia for mud), this is a regrettable trend. Many charities and aid agencies see their job as helping to prevent subsistence farmers having to move to the city by making life in the countryside more sustainable. ‘Many of my contemporaries in the developed world,’ writes Stewart Brand, ‘regard subsistence farming as soulful and organic, but it is a poverty trap and an environmental disaster.’ Surely a Nairobi slum or a São Paolo favela is a worse place to be than a tranquil rural village? Not for the people who move there. Given the chance they eloquently express their preference for the relative freedom and opportunity of the city, however poor the living conditions. ‘I am better off in all facets of life compared to my peers left behind in the village,’ says Deroi Kwesi Andrew, a teacher earning $4 a day in Accra. Rural self-sufficiency is a romantic mirage. Urban opportunity is what people want. In 2008 for the first time more than half the people in the world lived in cities. That is not a bad thing. It is a measure of economic progress that more than half the population can leave subsistence and seek the possibilities of a life based on the collective brain instead. Two-thirds of economic growth happens in cities.</p><p>As far as the planet is concerned, this is good news because city dwellers take up less space, use less energy and have less impact on natural ecosystems than country dwellers.</p><p>As Edward Glaeser put it, ‘Thoreau was wrong. Living in the country is not the right way to care for the Earth. The best thing that we can do for the planet is build more skyscrapers.’</p><h5>Chapter Six - Escaping Malthus’s trap: population after 1200</h5><p>Increasing self-sufficiency is the very signature of a civilisation under stress, the definition of a falling standard of living.</p><p>What a happy conclusion. Human beings are a species that stops its own population expansions once the division of labour reaches the point at which individuals are all trading goods and services with each other, rather than trying to be self-sufficient. The more interdependent and well-off we all become, the more population will stabilise well within the resources of the planet. As Ron Bailey puts it, in complete contradiction of Garrett Hardin: ‘There is no need to impose coercive population control measures; economic freedom actually generates a benign invisible hand of population control.’</p><h5>Chapter Seven - The release of slaves: energy after 1700</h5><p>The world would follow suit and by the late twentieth century, 85 per cent of all the energy used by humankind would come from fossil fuels. It was fossil fuels that eventually made slavery – along with animal power, and wood, wind and water – uneconomic. Wilberforce’s ambition would have been harder to obtain without fossil fuels. ‘History supports this truth,’ writes the economist Don Boudreaux: ‘Capitalism exterminated slavery.’</p><p>Fossil fuels cannot explain the start of the industrial revolution. But they do explain why it did not end. Once fossil fuels joined in, economic growth truly took off, and became almost infinitely capable of bursting through the Malthusian ceiling and raising living standards. Only then did growth become, in a word, sustainable. This leads to a shocking irony. I am about to argue that economic growth only became sustainable when it began to rely on non-renewable, non-green, non-clean power. Every economic boom in history, from Uruk onwards, had ended in bust because renewable sources of energy ran out: timber, crop land, pasture, labour, water, peat. All self-replenishing, but far too slowly, and easily exhausted by a swelling populace.</p><p><strong>Heat is work and work is heat</strong></p><p>You can take this reductio ad absurdum two ways. You can regret the sinful profligacy of the modern world, which is the conventional reaction, or you can conclude that were it not for fossil fuels, 99 per cent of people would have to live in slavery for the rest to have a decent standard of living, as indeed they did in Bronze Age empires. This is not to try to make you love coal and oil, but to drive home how much your <em>Louis Quatorze</em> standard of living is made possible by the invention of energy-substitutes for slaves.</p><p>Wind turbines require five to ten times as much concrete and steel per watt as nuclear power plants, not to mention miles of paved roads and overhead cables. To label the land-devouring monsters of renewable energy ‘green’, virtuous or clean strikes me as bizarre. If you like wilderness, as I do, the last thing you want is to go back to the medieval habit of using the landscape surrounding us to make power. Just one wind farm at Altamont in California kills twenty-four golden eagles every year: if an oil firm did that it would be in court. Hundreds of orang-utans are killed a year because they get in the way of oil-palm biofuel plantations. ‘Let’s stop sanctifying false and minor gods,’ says the energy expert Jesse Ausubel, ‘and heretically chant “Renewables are not green”.’</p><p><strong>The mad world of biofuels</strong></p><p>This is what makes the ethanol and biofuel boondoggle so enraging. Not even Jonathan Swift would dare to write a satire in which politicians argued that – in a world where species are vanishing and more than a billion people are barely able to afford to eat – it would somehow be good for the planet to clear rainforests to grow palm oil, or give up food-crop land to grow biofuels, solely so that people could burn fuel derived from carbohydrate rather than hydrocarbons in their cars, thus driving up the price of food for the poor. Ludicrous is too weak a word for this heinous crime.</p><p>In 2005, the world made roughly ten billion tonnes of ethanol, 45 per cent of it from Brazilian sugar cane and 45 per cent from American maize. Add in a billion tonnes of biodiesel made from European rape seed and the result is that roughly 5 per cent of the world’s crop land has been taken out of growing food and put into growing fuel (20 per cent in the United States). Together with drought in Australia and more meat eating in China, this was the key factor that helped push world food supply below world food demand in 2008 and cause food riots all over the world. Between 2004 and 2007 the world maize harvest increased by fifty-one million tonnes, but fifty million tonnes went into ethanol, leaving nothing to meet the increase of demand for all other uses of thirty-three million tonnes: hence the price rose. The poor, remember, spend 70 per cent of their incomes on food. In effect, American car drivers were taking carbohydrates out of the mouths of the poor to fill their tanks.</p><p>Which might just be acceptable if either biofuel had a big environmental benefit, or it saved Americans money so they could afford to buy more goods and services from the poor and help them out of poverty that way. But since Americans are in effect being taxed thrice over to pay for the ethanol industry – they subsidise the growing of maize, they subsidise the manufacture of ethanol and they pay more for their food – the ability of American consumers to contribute to demand for manufactured goods is actually hurt by ethanol, not helped. Meanwhile, the environmental benefits of biofuels are not just illusory; they are negative. Fermenting carbohydrate is an inefficient business compared with burning hydrocarbon. Every acre of maize or sugar cane requires tractor fuel, fertilisers, pesticides, truck fuel and distillation fuel – all of which are fuel. So the question is: how much fuel does it take to grow fuel? Answer: about the same amount. The US Department of Agriculture estimated in 2002 that each unit of energy put into growing maize ethanol produces 1.34 units of output, but only by counting the energy of dried distillers’ grain, a by-product of the production process that can go into cattle feed. Without that, the gain was just 9 per cent. Other studies, though, came to less positive conclusions, including one estimate that there was a 29 per cent loss of energy in the process. Drilling for and refining oil, by contrast, gets you a 600 per cent energy return or more on your energy used. Which sounds the better investment?</p><p>If you want to reduce carbon dioxide in the atmosphere, replant a forest on former farmland.</p><p>Moreover, it takes about 130 gallons of water to grow, and five gallons of water to distil a single gallon of maize ethanol – assuming that only 15 per cent of the crop is irrigated. By contrast, it takes less than three gallons of water to extract, and two gallons to refine, a gallon of gasoline.</p><p>But do not forget the single most important problem with biofuels, the one that makes them so capable of making environmental problems worse – they need land. A sustainable future for nine billion people on one planet is going to come from using as little land as possible for each of people’s needs.</p><p><strong>Efficiency and demand</strong></p><p>Energy efficiency has been rising for a very long time and so has energy consumption. This is known as the Jevons paradox after the Victorian economist Stanley Jevons, who put it thus: ‘It is wholly a confusion of ideas to suppose that the economical use of fuel is equivalent to a diminished consumption. The very contrary is the truth. As a rule, new modes of economy will lead to an increase of consumption.’</p><p>I am not saying fossil fuels are irreplaceable. I can easily envisage a world in 2050 in which fossil fuels have declined in importance relative to other forms of energy. I can envisage plug-in hybrid cars that use cheap off-peak (nuclear) electricity for their first twenty miles; I can imagine vast solar-power farms exporting electricity from sunny deserts in Algeria or Arizona; I can imagine hot-dry-rock geothermal plants; above all, I foresee pebble-bed, passive-safe, modular nuclear reactors everywhere. I can even imagine wind, tide, wave and biomass energy making small contributions, though these should be a last resort because they are so expensive and environmentally destructive. But this I know: we will need the watts from somewhere. They are our slaves. Thomas Edison deserves the last word: ‘I am ashamed at the number of things around my house and shops that are done by animals – human beings, I mean – and ought to be done by a motor without any sense of fatigue or pain. Hereafter a motor must do all the chores.’</p><h5>Chapter Eight - The invention of invention: increasing returns after 1800</h5><p>The concept of a steady final state, applied to a dynamic system like the economy, is as wrong as any philosophical abstraction can be. It is Pareto piffle. As the economist Eamonn Butler puts it, the ‘perfect market is not just an abstraction; it’s plain daft ... Whenever you see the word equilibrium in a textbook, blot it out.’ It is wrong because it assumes perfect competition, perfect knowledge and perfect rationality, none of which do or can exist. It is the planned economy, not the market, that requires perfect knowledge.</p><p>The possibility of new knowledge makes the steady state impossible. Somewhere somebody will have a new idea and that idea will enable him to invent a new combination of atoms both to create and to exploit imperfections in the market.</p><p><strong>Driven by science?</strong></p><p>Likewise, of the four men who made the biggest advances in the steam engine – Thomas Newcomen, James Watt, Richard Trevithick and George Stephenson – three were utterly ignorant of scientific theories, and historians disagree about whether the fourth, Watt, derived any influence from theory at all. It was they who made possible the theories of the vacuum and the laws of thermodynamics, not vice versa.</p><p>Later science did contribute to the gathering pace of invention and the line between discovery and invention became increasingly blurred as the nineteenth century wore on. Thus only when the principles of electrical transmission were understood could the telegraph be perfected; once coal miners understood the succession of geological strata, they knew better where to sink new mines; once benzene’s ring structure was known, manufacturers could design dyes rather than serendipitously stumble on them. And so on. But even most of this was, in Joel Mokyr’s words, ‘a semidirected, groping, bumbling process of trial and error by clever, dexterous professionals with a vague but gradually clearer notion of the processes at work’. It is a stretch to call most of this science, however. It is what happens today in the garages and cafés of Silicon Valley, but not in the labs of Stanford University.</p><p>The inescapable fact is that most technological change comes from attempts to improve existing technology. It happens on the shop floor among apprentices and mechanicals, or in the workplace among the users of computer programs, and only rarely as a result of the application and transfer of knowledge from the ivory towers of the intelligentsia.</p><p><strong>Exchange!</strong></p><p>The perpetual innovation machine that drives the modern economy owes its existence not mainly to science (which is its beneficiary more than its benefactor); nor to money (which is not always a limiting factor); nor to patents (which often get in the way); nor to government (which is bad at innovation). It is not a top-down process at all. Instead, I am going to try now to persuade you that one word will suffice to explain this conundrum: exchange. It is the ever-increasing exchange of ideas that causes the ever-increasing rate of innovation in the modern world.</p><p>Go back to that word ‘spillover’. The characteristic feature of a piece of new knowledge, whether practical or esoteric, whether technical or social, is that you can give it away and still keep it.</p><p>Innovators are therefore in the business of sharing. It is the most important thing they do, for unless they share their innovation it can have no benefit for them or for anybody else.</p><p>And the one activity that got much easier to do after about 1800, and has got dramatically easier recently, is sharing.</p><p><strong>Infinite possibility</strong></p><p>The wonderful thing about knowledge is that it is genuinely limitless. There is not even a theoretical possibility of exhausting the supply of ideas, discoveries and inventions. This is the biggest cause of all for my optimism.</p><h5>Chapter Nine - Turning points: pessimism after 1900</h5><p>‘Implicit confidence in the beneficence of progress’ said Hayek, ‘has come to be regarded as the sign of a shallow mind.’</p><p>Let me make a square concession at the start: the pessimists are right when they say that, if the world continues as it is, it will end in disaster for all humanity. If all transport depends on oil, and oil runs out, then transport will cease. If agriculture continues to depend on irrigation and aquifers are depleted, then starvation will ensue. But notice the conditional: if. The world will not continue as it is. That is the whole point of human progress, the whole message of cultural evolution, the whole import of dynamic change – the whole thrust of this book. The real danger comes from slowing down change. It is my proposition that the human race has become a collective problem-solving machine and it solves problems by changing its ways. It does so through invention driven often by the market: scarcity drives up price; that encourages the development of alternatives and of efficiencies. It has happened often in history.</p><p><strong>Worse and worse</strong></p><p>Consumers are ‘overwhelmed with relatively trivial choices’ says a professor of psychology. This notion dates from Herbert Marcuse, who turned Marx’s notion of the ‘immiseration of the proletariat’ by steadily declining living standards on its head and argued that capitalism forced excessive consumption on the working class instead. It resonates well in the academic seminar, causing heads to nod in agreement, but it is sheer garbage in the real world. When I go into the local superstore, I never see people driven to misery by the impossibility of choice. I see people choosing.</p><p>As the average age of a country’s population rises, so people get more and more neophobic and gloomy. There is immense vested interest in pessimism, too. No charity ever raised money for its cause by saying things are getting better. No journalist ever got the front page by telling his editor that he wanted to write a story about how disaster was now less likely. Good news is no news, so the media megaphone is at the disposal of any politician, journalist or activist who can plausibly warn of a coming disaster. As a result, pressure groups and their customers in the media go to great lengths to search even the most cheerful of statistics for glimmers of doom.</p><h5>Chapter Ten - The two great pessimisms of today: Africa and climate after 2010</h5><p>One American charity, Population Services International, came up with a better idea. It sold the nets for fifty cents to mothers attending antenatal clinics in Malawi and subsidised this price by selling the nets for $5 to richer urban Malawians. The poor mothers who bought these nets with half a day’s wages made sure they were used properly. In four years, the proportion of children under five sleeping under such nets went up from 8 per cent to 55 per cent.</p><p>To do more good and less harm, says Easterly, the aid business could be transformed into a more transparent marketplace where donations compete to fund projects and projects compete to attract donations. Fortunately, the internet makes this possible for the first time. <a href="http://Globalgiving.com">Globalgiving.com</a>, for instance, allows projects to bid for donations from any donor.</p><p>In forums like this, aid could be democratised, taken out of the hands of inefficient international bureaucrats and corrupt African officials, taken away from idealistic free-market shocktherapists, separated from arms deals, removed from big industrial projects, distanced from patronising do-gooders and given person-to-person. A rich country could give each taxpayer a tax break for each suitable donation. To those who say that this would make an uncoordinated, unplanned business, I reply: exactly. Grandiose goals and centralised plans have just as long and just as disastrous a history in aid as they do in politics. Nobody planned the industrial revolution, or China’s economic surge. The planners’ role was to get out of the way of bottom-up evolutionary solutions.</p><p><strong>Bound to fail?</strong></p><p>It is true that Botswana has a small and ethnically somewhat homogeneous population, unlike many other countries. But its biggest advantage is one that the rest of Africa could easily have shared: good institutions. In particular, Botswana turns out to have secure, enforceable property rights that are fairly widely distributed and fairly well respected. When Daron Acemoglu and his colleagues compared property rights with economic growth throughout the world, they found that the first explained an astonishing three quarters of the variation in the second and that Botswana was no outlier: the reason it had flourished was because its people owned property without fear of confiscation by chiefs or thieves to a much greater extent than in the rest of Africa. This is much the same explanation for why England had a good eighteenth century while China did not.</p><p><strong>The world is your oyster</strong></p><p>In Cairo it would take seventy-seven bureaucratic procedures involving thirty-one agencies and up to fourteen years to acquire and register a plot of state-owned land on which to build a house. No wonder nearly five million Egyptians have decided to build illegal dwellings instead. Typically, a Cairo house owner will build up to three illegal storeys on top of his house and rent them out to relatives.</p><p>(Incidentally, there is now overwhelming evidence that well crafted property rights are also the key to wildlife and nature conservation. Whether considering fish off Iceland, kudu in Namibia, jaguars in Mexico, trees in Niger, bees in Bolivia or water in Colorado, the same lesson applies. Give local people the power to own, exploit and profit from natural resources in a sustainable way and they will usually preserve and cherish those resources. Give them no share in a wildlife resource that is controlled – nay ‘protected’ – by a distant government and they will generally neglect, ruin and waste it. That is the real lesson of the tragedy of the commons.)</p><p>Property rights are not a silver bullet. In some countries, their formalisation simply creates a rentier class. And China experienced an explosion of enterprise after 1978 without ever giving its people truly secure property rights. But it did allow people to start businesses with relatively little bureaucratic fuss, so another of De Soto’s recommendations is to free up the rules governing business. Whereas it takes a handful of steps to set up a company in America or Europe, De Soto’s assistants found that to do the same in Tanzania would take 379 days and cost $5,506. Worse, to have a normal business career in Tanzania for fifty years, you would have to spend more than a thousand days in government offices petitioning for permits of one kind or another and spending $180,000 on them.</p><p>The key policies for Africa are to abolish Europe’s and America’s farm subsidies, quotas and import tariffs, formalise and simplify the laws that govern business, undermine tyrants and above all encourage the growth of free-trading cities. In 1978 China was about as poor and despotic as Africa is now. It changed because it deliberately allowed free-trading zones to develop in emulation of Hong Kong. So, says the economist Paul Romer, why not repeat the formula? Use Western aid to create a new ‘charter city’ in Africa on uninhabited land, free to trade with the rest of the world, and allow it to draw in people from the surrounding nations.</p><p><strong>Warmer and richer or cooler and poorer?</strong></p><p>As for fresh water, the evidence suggests, remarkably, that, other things being equal, warming will itself reduce the total population at risk from water shortage. Say again? Yes, reduce. On average rainfall will increase in a warmer world because of greater evaporation from the oceans, as it did in previous warm episodes such as the Holocene (when the Arctic ocean may have been almost ice-free in summer), the Egyptian, Roman and medieval warm periods. The great droughts that changed history in western Asia happened, as theory predicts, in times of cooling: 8,200 years ago and 4,200 years ago especially.</p><p>The same is true for storms. During the warming of the twentieth century there was no increase in either the number or the maximum wind speed of Atlantic hurricanes making landfall. Globally, tropical cyclone intensity hit a thirty-year low in 2008. The cost of the damage done by hurricanes has increased greatly, but that is because of the building and insuring of expensive coastal properties, not because of storm intensity or frequency.</p><p>In measuring health, note that globally the number of excess deaths during cold weather continues to exceed the number of excess deaths during heat waves by a large margin – by about five to one in most of Europe.</p><p>The global food supply will probably increase if temperature rises by up to 3°C. Not only will the warmth improve yields from cold lands and the rainfall improve yields from some dry lands, but the increased carbon dioxide will itself enhance yields, especially in dry areas. Wheat, for example, grows 15–40 per cent faster in 600 parts per million of carbon dioxide than it does in 295 ppm. (Glasshouses often use air enriched in carbon dioxide to 1,000 ppm to enhance plant growth rates.)</p><p>The four horsemen of the human apocalypse, which cause the most premature and avoidable death in poor countries, are and will be for many years the same: hunger, dirty water, indoor smoke and malaria, which kill respectively about seven, three, three and two people per minute.</p><p>If you want to do your fellow human beings good, spend your effort on combating those so that people can prosper, ready to meet climate challenges as they arrive.</p><p>Economists estimate that a dollar spent on mitigating climate change brings ninety cents of benefits compared with $20 benefits per dollar spent on healthcare and $16 per dollar spent on hunger.</p><p><strong>Decarbonising the economy</strong></p><p>To get a toehold in the electricity market at all, wind power requires a regressive transfer from ordinary working people to rent-seeking rich landowners and businesses: as a rule of thumb, a wind turbine generates more value in subsidy than it does in electricity. Even in 6,000-turbine Denmark, not a single emission has been saved because intermittent wind requires fossil-fuel back-up (Denmark’s wind power is exported to Sweden and Norway, which can turn their hydro plants back on quickly when the Danish wind drops). Meanwhile a Spanish study confirms that wind power subsidies destroy jobs: for each worker who moves from conventional electricity generation to renewable electricity generation, ‘two jobs at a similar rate of pay must be forgone elsewhere in the economy, otherwise the funds to pay for the excess costs of renewable generation cannot be provided.</p><p>A big contribution will surely come from solar power, the least land-hungry of the renewables. Once solar panels can be mass-produced at $200 per square metre and with an efficiency of 12 per cent, they could generate the equivalent of a barrel of oil for about $30. Then, instead of drilling for $40 oil, everybody will be rushing to cover their roofs, and large parts of Algeria and Arizona with cheap solar panels.</p><p>Most of Arizona gets about six kilowatt-hours of sunlight per square metre per day so, assuming 12 per cent efficiency, it would take about one-third of Arizona to supply Americans with all their energy: a lot of land, but not unimaginable. Apart from cost, solar’s big problem, like wind’s, is its intermittent nature: it does not work at night, for instance.</p><p>But the obvious way to go low-carbon is nuclear. Nuclear power plants already produce more power from a smaller footprint, with fewer fatal accidents and less pollution than any other energy technology. The waste they produce is not an insoluble issue. It is tiny in volume (a Coke can per person per lifetime), easily stored and unlike every other toxin gets safer with time – its radioactivity falls to one-billionth of the starting level in two centuries. These advantages are growing all the time. Better kinds of nuclear power will include small, disposable, limited-life nuclear batteries for powering individual towns for limited periods and fast-breeder, pebble-bed, inherent-safe atomic reactors capable of extracting 99 per cent of uranium’s energy, instead of 1 per cent as at present, and generating even smaller quantities of short-lived waste while doing so. Modern nuclear reactors are already as different from the inherently unstable, uncontained Chernobyl ones as a jetliner is from a biplane. Perhaps one day fusion will contribute, too, but do not hold your breath.</p><p>The way to choose which of these technologies to adopt is probably to enact a heavy carbon tax, and cut payroll taxes (National Insurance in Britain) to the same extent. That would encourage employment and discourage carbon emissions. The way not to get there is to pick losers, like wind and biofuel, to reward speculators in carbon credits and to load the economy with rules, restrictions, subsidies, distortions and corruption.</p><p>Remember I am not here attempting to resolve the climate debate, nor saying that catastrophe is impossible. I am testing my optimism against the facts, and what I find is that the probability of rapid and severe climate change is small; the probability of net harm from the most likely climate change is small; the probability that no adaptation will occur is small; and the probability of no new low-carbon energy technologies emerging in the long run is small. Multiply those small probabilities together and the probability of a prosperous twenty-first century is therefore by definition large. You can argue about just how large, and therefore about how much needs to be spent on precaution; but you cannot on the IPCC’s figures make it anything other than very probable that the world will be a better place in 2100 than it is today.</p><p>And there is every reason to think that Africa can share in that prosperity. Despite continuing war, disease and dictators, inch by inch its population will stabilise; its cities will flourish; its exports will grow; its farms will prosper; its wildernesses will survive and its people will experience peace. In the mega-droughts of the ice ages, Africa could support very few early hunter-gatherers; in a warm and moist interglacial, it can support a billion mostly urban exchanger-specialisers.</p><h5>Chapter Eleven - The catallaxy: rational optimism about 2100</h5><p><strong>How good could it get?</strong></p><p>So in describing the world of 2100, I am bound to sound like somebody stuck in the world of the early twenty-first century, and make laughable errors of extrapolation. ‘It’s tough to make predictions,’ joked somebody, perhaps Yogi Berra: ‘especially about the future.’</p><p>But here goes, none the less. I forecast that the twenty-first century will show a continuing expansion of catallaxy – Hayek’s word for spontaneous order created by exchange and specialisation.</p><p>This catallaxy will not go smoothly, or without resistance. Natural and unnatural disasters will still happen. Governments will bail out big corporations and big bureaucracies, hand them special favours such as subsidies or carbon rations and regulate them in such a way as to create barriers to entry, slowing down creative destruction. Chiefs, priests, thieves, financiers, consultants and others will appear on all sides, feeding off the surplus generated by exchange and specialisation, diverting the life-blood of the catallaxy into their own reactionary lives. It happened in the past. Empires bought stability at the price of creating a parasitic court; monotheistic religions bought social cohesion at the price of a parasitic priestly class; nationalism bought power at the expense of a parasitic military; socialism bought equality at the price of a parasitic bureaucracy; capitalism bought efficiency at the price of parasitic financiers. The online world will attract parasites too: from regulators and cyber-criminals to hackers and plagiarists. Some of them may temporarily throttle their generous hosts.</p><p>It is just possible that the predators and parasites will actually win altogether, or rather that ambitious ideological busybodies will succeed in shutting down the catallaxy and crashing the world back into pre-industrial poverty some time during the coming century. There is even a new reason for such pessimism: the integrated nature of the world means that it may soon be possible to capture the entire world on behalf of a foolish idea, where before you could only capture a country, or perhaps if you were lucky an empire. (The great religions all needed empires within which to flourish and become powerful: Buddhism within the Mauryan and Chinese, Christianity within the Roman, Islam within the Arab.)</p><p>It will be hard to snuff out the flame of innovation, because it is such an evolutionary, bottom-up phenomenon in such a networked world.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Chapter 1: The Best of the Best</h5><p><strong>Twelve Shattered Myths</strong></p><p><strong>Myth 1: It takes a great idea to start a great company.</strong></p><p>Reality: Starting a company with a “great idea” might be a bad idea. Few of the visionary companies began life with a great idea. In fact, some began life without any specific idea and a few even began with outright failures.</p><p><strong>Myth 2: Visionary companies require great and charismatic visionary leaders.</strong></p><p>Reality: A charismatic visionary leader is absolutely not required for a visionary company and, in fact, can be detrimental to a company’s long-term prospects.</p><p><strong>Myth 3: The most successful companies exist first and foremost to maximize profits.</strong></p><p>Visionary companies pursue a cluster of objectives, of which making money is only one—and not necessarily the primary one.</p><p><strong>Myth 4: Visionary companies share a common subset of “correct” core values.</strong></p><p>Reality: There is no “right” set of core values for being a visionary company. Indeed, two companies can have radically different ideologies, yet both be visionary.</p><p><strong>Myth 5: The only constant is change.</strong></p><p>Reality: A visionary company almost religiously preserves its core ideology—changing it seldom, if ever.</p><p><strong>Myth 6: Blue-chip companies play it safe.</strong></p><p>Reality: Visionary companies may appear straitlaced and conservative to outsiders, but they’re not afraid to make bold commitments to “Big Hairy Audacious Goals” (BHAGs).</p><p><strong>Myth 7: Visionary companies are great places to work, for everyone.</strong></p><p>Reality: Only those who “fit” extremely well with the core ideology and demanding standards of a visionary company will find it a great place to work.</p><p><strong>Myth 8: Highly successful companies make their best moves by brilliant and complex strategic planning.</strong></p><p>Reality: Visionary companies make some of their best moves by experimentation, trial and error, opportunism, and—quite literally—accident. What looks in retrospect like brilliant foresight and preplanning was often the result of “Let’s just try a lot of stuff and keep what works.”</p><p><strong>Myth 9: Companies should hire outside CEOs to stimulate fundamental change.</strong></p><p>Reality: In seventeen hundred years of combined life spans across the visionary companies, we found only four individual incidents of going outside for a CEO—and those in only two companies.</p><p><strong>Myth 10: The most successful companies focus primarily on beating the competition.</strong></p><p>Reality: Visionary companies focus primarily on beating themselves.</p><p><strong>Myth 11: You can’t have your cake and eat it too.</strong></p><p>Reality: Visionary companies do not brutalize themselves with the “Tyranny of the OR”—the purely rational view that says you can have either A OR B, but not both.</p><p><strong>Myth 12: Companies become visionary primarily through “vision statements.”</strong></p><p>Reality: The visionary companies attained their stature not so much because they made visionary pronouncements (although they often did make such pronouncements).</p><h5>Chapter 2: Clock Building, Not Time Telling</h5><p>Having a great idea or being a charismatic visionary leader is “time telling”; building a company that can prosper far beyond the presence of any single leader and through multiple product life cycles is “clock building.”</p><p>In one of the most fascinating and important conclusions from our research, we found that creating and building a visionary company absolutely does not require either a great idea or a great and charismatic leader. In fact, we found evidence that great ideas brought forth by charismatic leaders might be negatively correlated with building a visionary company.</p><p>Indeed, few of the visionary companies in our study can trace their roots to a great idea or a fabulous initial product. J. Willard Marriott had the desire to be in business for himself, but no clear idea of what business to be in. He finally decided to start his company with the only viable idea he could think of: take out a franchise license and open an A&amp;W root beer stand in Washington, D.C. Nordstrom started as a small, single-outlet shoe store in downtown Seattle (when John Nordstrom, just returned from the Alaska Gold Rush, didn’t know what else to do with himself). Merck started merely as an importer of chemicals from Germany. Procter &amp; Gamble started as a simple soap and candle maker—one of eighteen such companies in Cincinnati in 1837. Motorola began as a struggling battery eliminator repair business for Sears radios.</p><p>Furthermore, some of our visionary companies began life like Sony—with outright failures. 3M started as a failed corundum mine, leaving 3M investors holding stock that fell to the barroom exchange value of “two shares for one shot of cheap whiskey.” Not knowing what else to do, the company began making sandpaper.</p><p>Bill Boeing’s first airplane failed (“a handmade, clumsy seaplane copied from a Martin seaplane” which flunked its Navy trials), and his company faced such difficulty during its first few years of operations that it entered the furniture business to keep itself aloft!</p><p>Indeed, the evidence suggests that it might be better to not obsess on finding a great idea before launching a company. Why? Because the great-idea approach shifts your attention away from seeing the company as your ultimate creation.</p><p>THE COMPANY ITSELF IS THE ULTIMATE CREATION</p><p>We had to shift from seeing the company as a vehicle for the products to seeing the products as a vehicle for the company.</p><p>The builders of visionary companies were highly persistent, living to the motto: Never, never, <em>never</em> give up. But what to persist with? Their answer: The company. <em>Be prepared to kill, revise, or evolve an idea</em>, <em>but never give up on the company</em>.</p><p>But we suggest that <em>the continual stream of great products and services from highly visionary companies stems from them being outstanding organizations, not the other way around.</em></p><h5>Interlude: No “Tyranny of the OR” (Embrace the “Genius of the AND”)</h5><p>Instead of being oppressed by the “Tyranny of the OR,” highly visionary companies liberate themselves with the “Genius of the AND”—the ability to embrace both extremes of a number of dimensions at the same time. Instead of choosing between A OR B, they figure out a way to have both A <em>AND</em> B.</p><p>A visionary company doesn’t simply balance between idealism and profitability; it seeks to be highly idealistic and highly profitable. A visionary company doesn’t simply balance between preserving a tightly held core ideology and stimulating vigorous change and movement; it does <em>both</em> to an extreme.</p><h5>Chapter 3: More Than Profits</h5><p>Our research showed that a fundamental element in the “ticking clock” of a visionary company is a core <em>ideology</em>—core values and sense of purpose beyond just making money—that guides and inspires people throughout the organization and remains relatively fixed for long periods of time.</p><p>IN short, we did <em>not</em> find any specific ideological content essential to being a visionary company. Our research indicates that the authenticity of the ideology and the extent to which a company attains consistent alignment with the ideology counts more than the content of the ideology.</p><p><strong>Core Ideology = Core Values + Purpose</strong></p><p>Core Values = The organization’s essential and enduring tenets—a small set of general guiding principles; not to be confused with specific cultural or operating practices; not to be compromised for financial gain or short-term expediency.</p><p>Purpose = The organization’s fundamental reasons for existence beyond just making money—a perpetual guiding star on the horizon; not to be confused with specific goals or business strategies.</p><p>Visionary companies tend to have only a few core values, usually between three and six. In fact, we found none of the visionary companies to have more than six core values, and most have less.</p><p>An effective way to get at purpose is to pose the question “Why not just shut this organization down, cash out, and sell off the assets?” and to push for an answer that would be equally valid both now and one hundred years into the future.</p><h5>Chapter 4: Preserve the Core/Stimulate Progress</h5><p>It is absolutely essential to not confuse core ideology with culture, strategy, tactics, operations, policies, or other noncore practices.</p><p>Core ideology in a visionary company works hand in hand with a relentless drive for progress that impels change and forward movement in all that is not part of the core ideology.</p><p>IF you are involved in building and managing an organization, the single most important point to take away from this book is the critical importance of creating tangible mechanisms aligned to <em>preserve the core and stimulate progress.</em></p><p>The specific methods of preserving the core and stimulating progress that distinguished the visionary companies from the comparison companies fall into five categories:</p><ul><li><em>Big Hairy Audacious Goals (BHAGs)</em>: Commitment to challenging, audacious—and often risky—goals and projects toward which a visionary company channels its efforts (stimulates progress).</li><li><em>Cult-like Cultures</em>: Great places to work only for those who buy in to the core ideology; those who don’t fit with the ideology are ejected like a virus (preserves the core).</li><li><em>Try a Lot of Stuff and Keep What Works</em>: High levels of action and experimentation—often unplanned and undirected—that produce new and unexpected paths of progress and enables visionary companies to mimic the biological evolution of species (stimulates progress).</li><li><em>Home-grown Management</em>: Promotion from within, bringing to senior levels only those who’ve spent significant time steeped in the core ideology of the company (preserves the core).</li><li><em>Good Enough Never Is</em>: A continual process of relentless self-improvement with the aim of doing better and better, forever into the future (stimulates progress).</li></ul><h5>Chapter 5: Big Hairy Audacious Goals</h5><p>Like the moon mission, a true BHAG is clear and compelling and serves as a unifying focal point of effort—often creating immense team spirit. It has a clear finish line, so the organization can know when it has achieved the goal; people like to shoot for finish lines.</p><p>A BHAG engages people—it reaches out and grabs them in the gut. It is tangible, energizing, highly focused. People “get it” right away; it takes little or no explanation.</p><p><em>A BHAG only helps an organization as long as it has not yet been achieved.</em></p><p>GUIDELINES FOR CEOS, MANAGERS, AND ENTREPRENEURS</p><p>Here are a few key take-away points you might want to keep in mind as you consider BHAGs for your own organization:</p><ul><li>A BHAG should be so clear and compelling that it requires little or no explanation</li><li>A BHAG should fall well outside the comfort zone</li><li>A BHAG should be so bold and exciting in its own right that it would continue to stimulate progress even if the organization’s leaders disappeared before it had been completed</li><li>A BHAG has the inherent danger that, once achieved, an organization can stall and drift in the “we’ve arrived” syndrome, as happened at Ford in the 1920s. A company should be prepared to prevent this by having follow-on BHAGs. It should also complement BHAGs with the other methods of stimulating progress.</li><li>Finally, and most important of all, a BHAG should be consistent with a company’s core ideology.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 6: Cult-Like Cultures</h5><p>We found four common characteristics of cults that the visionary companies display to a greater degree than the comparison companies.</p><ul><li>Fervently held ideology (discussed earlier in our chapter on core ideology)</li><li>Indoctrination</li><li>Tightness of fit</li><li>Elitism</li></ul><p>THE MESSAGE FOR CEOS, MANAGERS, AND ENTREPRENEURS</p><p>The visionary companies translate their ideologies into <em>tangible</em> mechanisms aligned to send a consistent set of reinforcing signals. They indoctrinate people, impose tightness of fit, and create a sense of belonging to something special through such practical, concrete items as:</p><ul><li>Orientation and ongoing training programs that have ideological as well as practical content, teaching such things as values, norms, history, and tradition</li><li>Internal “universities” and training centers</li><li>On-the-job socialization by peers and immediate supervisors.</li><li>Rigorous up-through-the-ranks policies—hiring young, promoting from within, and shaping the employee’s mind-set from a young age</li><li>Exposure to a pervasive mythology of “heroic deeds” and corporate exemplars (for example, customer heroics letters, marble statues)</li><li>Unique language and terminology (such as “cast members,” “Motorolans”) that reinforce a frame of reference and the sense of belonging to a special, elite group</li><li>Corporate songs, cheers, affirmations, or pledges that reinforce psychological commitment</li><li>Tight screening processes, either during hiring or within the first few years</li><li>Incentive and advancement criteria explicitly linked to fit with the corporate ideology</li><li>Awards, contests, and public recognition that reward those who display great effort consistent with the ideology. Tangible and visible penalties for those who break ideological boundaries</li><li>Tolerance for honest mistakes that do not breach the company’s ideology (“non-sins”); severe penalties or termination for breaching the ideology (“sins”)</li><li>“Buy-in” mechanisms (financial, time investment)</li><li>Celebrations that reinforce successes, belonging, and specialness</li><li>Plant and office layout that reinforces norms and ideals</li><li>Constant verbal and written emphasis on corporate values, heritage, and the sense of being part of something special</li></ul><h5>Chapter 7: Try a Lot of Stuff and Keep What Works</h5><p>Using 3M as a blueprint for evolutionary progress at its best, here are five basic lessons for stimulating evolutionary progress in a visionary company.</p><ol><li><em>“Give it a try—and quick!”</em> For 3M, unlike Norton, the modus operandi became: When in doubt, vary, change, solve the problem, seize the opportunity, experiment, try something new (consistent, of course, with the core ideology)—even if you can’t predict precisely how things will turn out. Do something. If one thing fails, try another. Fix. Try. Do. Adjust. Move. Act. No matter what, don’t sit still. Vigorous action—especially in response to unexpected opportunities or specific customer problems—creates variation.</li><li><em>“Accept that mistakes will be made.”</em> Since you can’t tell ahead of time which variations will prove to be favorable, you have to accept mistakes and failures as an integral part of the evolutionary process</li><li><em>“Take small steps.”</em> Of course, it’s easier to tolerate failed experiments when they are just that—experiments, not massive corporate failures. Keep in mind that small incremental steps can form the basis of significant strategic shifts</li><li><em>“Give people the room they need.”</em> 3M provided greater operational autonomy and maintained a more decentralized structure than Norton—a key step that enabled unplanned variation. When you give people a lot of room to act, you can’t predict precisely what they’ll do—and this is good.</li><li>To this lesson, we’d add a corollary: Allow people to be persistent. Although the Post-it clan had trouble convincing other 3Mers that their weird sticky little notes had merit, no one ever told them to stop working on it.</li><li><em>Mechanisms—build that ticking clock!</em> The beauty of the 3M story is that McKnight, Carlton, and others translated the previous four points into tangible mechanisms working in alignment to stimulate evolutionary progress—a step Norton never took. Look back at the list of mechanisms at 3M. Notice how concrete they are. Notice how they send a consistent set of reinforcing signals. Notice how they have teeth.</li></ol><p>To the five lessons just given we must therefore add a sixth: Never forget to preserve the core while stimulating evolutionary progress.</p><h5><strong>Chapter 8: Home-Grown Management</strong></h5><p>Simply put, our research leads us to conclude that it is extraordinarily difficult to become and remain a highly visionary company by hiring top management from outside the organization.</p><p>Equally important, there is absolutely no inconsistency between promoting from within and stimulating significant change.</p><h5><strong>Chapter 9: Good Enough Never Is</strong></h5><p>The critical question asked by a visionary company is not “How well are we doing?” or “How can we do well?” or “How well do we have to perform in order to meet the competition?” For these companies, the critical question is <em>“How can we do better tomorrow than we did today?”</em> They institutionalize this question as way of life—a habit of mind and action.</p><p>You’re probably getting the impression that the visionary companies are not exactly comfortable places. And that’s precisely the impression you should be getting.</p><p>COMFORT is not the objective in a visionary company. Indeed, visionary companies install powerful mechanisms to create discomfort—to obliterate complacency—and thereby stimulate change and improvement before the external world demands it.</p><p>MANAGERS at visionary companies simply do not accept the proposition that they must choose between short-term performance or long-term success. They build first and foremost for the long term while simultaneously holding themselves to highly demanding short-term standards.</p><p>Visionary companies invested much more aggressively in human capital via extensive recruiting, employee training, and professional development programs.</p><p><strong>THE MESSAGE FOR CEOS, MANAGERS, AND ENTREPRENEURS</strong></p><p>If you’re involved in building and managing a company, we urge you to consider the following questions:</p><ul><li>What “mechanisms of discontent” can you create that would obliterate complacency and bring about change and improvement from within, yet are consistent with your core ideology? How can you give these mechanisms sharp teeth?</li><li>What are you doing to invest for the future while doing well today? Does your company adopt innovative new methods and technologies before the rest of the industry?</li><li>How do you respond to downturns? Does your company continue to build for the long-term even during difficult times?</li><li>Do people in your company understand that comfort is not the objective—that life in a visionary company is not supposed to be easy? Does your company reject doing well as an end goal, replacing it with the never-ending discipline of working to do better tomorrow than it did today?</li></ul><h5>Chapter 10: The End of the Beginning</h5><p>The essence of a visionary company comes in the translation of its core ideology and its own unique drive for progress into the very fabric of the organization—into goals, strategies, tactics, policies, processes, cultural practices, management behaviors, building layouts, pay systems, accounting systems, job design—into everything that the company does.</p><p>LESSONS OF ALIGNMENT FOR CEOS, MANAGERS, AND ENTREPRENEURS</p><p>You never reach final success. You have to work at it constantly. Here are some guideposts.</p><ol><li><strong>Paint the Whole Picture</strong></li></ol><p>VISIONARY companies do not rely on any one program, strategy, tactic, mechanism, cultural norm, symbolic gesture, or CEO speech to preserve the core and stimulate progress.</p><p>It’s the remarkable comprehensiveness and consistency over time that counts. It’s the nearly overwhelming set of signals and actions—signals to continually reinforce the core ideology and to stimulate progress—that lead to a visionary company.</p><ol><li><strong>Sweat the Small Stuff</strong></li></ol><p>People don’t work day-to-day in the “big picture.” They work in the nitty-gritty details of their company and its business.</p><p>Little things, like business cards for salespeople at Nordstrom to send the signal, “We want you to be a sales professional.” Little things, like Wal-Mart giving employees at the lowes level complete departmental financial reports to send the signal, “You are a partner in the company and we want you to run your department as your own little business.”</p><ol><li><strong>Cluster, Don’t Shotgun</strong></li></ol><p>Visionary companies don’t put in place any random set of mechanisms or processes. They put in place pieces that reinforce each other, clustered together to deliver a powerful combined punch. They search for synergy and linkages.</p><ol><li><strong>Swim in Your Own Current, Even if You Swim Against the Tide</strong></li></ol><p>THE real question to ask is not “Is this practice good?” but “Is this practice <em>appropriate</em> for us—does it fit with our ideology and ambitions?”</p><ol><li><strong>Obliterate Misalignments</strong></li></ol><p>If you look around your company right now, you can probably put your finger on at least a dozen specific items misaligned with its core ideology or that impede progress—“inappropriate” practices that have somehow crept through the woodwork. Does your incentive system reward behaviors inconsistent with your core values? Does the organization’s structure get in the way of progress? Do goals and strategies drive the company away from its basic purpose? Do corporate policies inhibit change and improvement? Does the office and building layout stifle progress?</p><p>Attaining alignment is not just a process of adding new things; it is also a never-ending process of identifying and doggedly correcting misalignments that push a company away from its core ideology or impede progress. If the building layout impedes progress, change the building layout or move. If the strategy is misaligned with the core, change the strategy.</p><ol><li><strong>Keep the Universal Requirements While Inventing New Methods</strong></li></ol><p>A company <em>must</em> have a core ideology to become a visionary company. It must also have an unrelenting drive for progress. And finally, it must be well designed as an organization to preserve the core and stimulate progress, with all the key pieces working in alignment. These are universal requirements for visionary companies.</p><p>However, the specific <em>methods</em> visionary companies use to preserve the core and stimulate progress will undoubtedly change and improve. BHAGs, cult-like cultures, evolution through experimentation, homegrown management, and continuous self-improvement—these are all proven methods of preserving the core and stimulating progress. But they are not the only effective methods that can be invented. Companies will invent new methods to complement these time-tested ones.</p><p>THIS IS NOT THE END</p><p>But as you walk away from reading this book, we hope you will take away four key concepts to guide your thinking for the rest of your managerial career, and to pass on to others. These concepts are:</p><ol><li>Be a clock builder—an architect—not a time teller.</li><li>Embrace the “Genius of the AND.”</li><li>Preserve the core/stimulate progress.</li><li>Seek consistent alignment.</li></ol><p>We think this has profound implications for what you take away from this book. It means that no matter who you are, you can be a major contributor in building a visionary company. You don’t have to wait for the great charismatic visionary to descend from the mount. You don’t have to hope for the lightning bolt of creative inspiration to strike with the “great idea.” You don’t have to buy into the belief that building visionary companies is something mysterious that only other people do.</p><p>It also means that life will probably be more difficult for you from here on. It means helping those around you to understand the lessons of this book. It means accepting the frightening truth that you are probably as qualified as anyone else to help your organization become visionary. And it means recognizing that you can begin right now—today—to apply the lessons of this book.</p><p>Finally, and perhaps most important of all, it means working with a deep and abiding respect for the corporation as an important social institution in its own right—an institution that requires the care and attention we give to our great universities or systems of government. For it is through the power of human organization—of individuals working together in common cause—that the bulk of the world’s best work gets done.</p><p>So this is not the end. Nor even the beginning of the end. But it is, we hope, the end of the beginning—the beginning of the challenging and arduous, but eminently doable task of building a visionary company.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[Thiel presents his rules for contrarian thinking and startups.  I consider this one of the most important books for startup founders, and while it might be a bit less actionable than something like the Lean Startup, it provides some deeper questions, principles, and methods of thinking about the business that will last much longer.It’s one of those books that you will continually come back to for reference when you have questions during your journey as an entrepreneur.‍]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><p>“What important truth do very few people agree with you on?”</p><p>A good answer takes the following form: “Most people believe in x, but the truth is the opposite of x.”</p><p>&quot;Positively defined, a startup is the largest group of people you can convince of a plan to build a different future.&quot;</p><ul><li>&quot;1. It is better to risk boldness than triviality.</li><li>2. A bad plan is better than no plan.</li><li>3. Competitive markets destroy profits.</li><li>4. Sales matters just as much as product.”</li></ul><p>“Even though sales is everywhere, most people underrate its importance.”</p><p>&quot;Sales is the opposite: an orchestrated campaign to change surface appearances without changing the underlying reality.”</p><p>&quot;Superior sales and distribution by itself can create a monopoly, even with no product differentiation. The converse is not true.”</p><p>&quot;Most businesses get zero distribution channels to work: poor sales rather than bad product is the most common cause of failure. If you can get just one distribution channel to work, you have a great business. If you try for several but don’t nail one, you’re finished.”</p><p>&quot;The most valuable businesses of coming decades will be built by entrepreneurs who seek to empower people rather than try to make them obsolete.”</p><p>“If humans and computers together could achieve dramatically better results than either could attain alone, what other valuable businesses could be built on this core principle?”</p><p>“...the seven questions that every business must answer:</p><ul><li>1. The Engineering Question: Can you create breakthrough technology instead of incremental improvements?</li><li>2. The Timing Question: Is now the right time to start your particular business?</li><li>3. The Monopoly Question: Are you starting with a big share of a small market?</li><li>4. The People Question: Do you have the right team?</li><li>5. The Distribution Question: Do you have a way to not just create but deliver your product?</li><li>6. The Durability Question: Will your market position be defensible 10 and 20 years into the future?</li><li>7. The Secret Question: Have you identified a unique opportunity that others don’t see?</li></ul><p>Whatever your industry, any great business plan must address every one of them.”</p><p>&quot;Above all, don’t overestimate your own power as an individual. Founders are important not because they are the only ones whose work has value, but rather because a great founder can bring out the best work from everybody at his company.&quot;</p><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><h5>Preface: Zero to One</h5><p>Doing what we already know how to do takes the world from 1 to n, adding more of something familiar. But every time we create something new, we go from 0 to 1.</p><p>The paradox of teaching entrepreneurship is that such a formula necessarily cannot exist; because every innovation is new and unique, no authority can prescribe in concrete terms how to be innovative.</p><p>Indeed, the single most powerful pattern I have noticed is that successful people find value in unexpected places, and they do this by thinking about business from first principles instead of formulas.</p><h5>1. The Challenge of the Future</h5><p>“What important truth do very few people agree with you on?”</p><p>Brilliant thinking is rare, but courage is in even shorter supply than genius.</p><p>A good answer takes the following form: “Most people believe in x, but the truth is the opposite of x.”</p><p>Horizontal or extensive progress means copying things that work— going from 1 to n.</p><p>Vertical or intensive progress means doing new things— going from 0 to 1.</p><p>My own answer to the contrarian question is that most people think the future of the world will be defined by globalization, but the truth is that technology matters more.</p><p>In the most dysfunctional organizations, signaling that work is being done becomes a better strategy for career advancement than actually doing work (if this describes your company, you should quit now).</p><p>Startups operate on the principle that you need to work with other people to get stuff done, but you also need to stay small enough so that you actually can.</p><p>Positively defined, a startup is the largest group of people you can convince of a plan to build a different future.</p><h5>2. Party Like It’s 1999</h5><p>If you can identify a delusional popular belief, you can find what lies hidden behind it: the contrarian truth.</p><p>And yet the opposite principles are probably more correct:</p><ul><li><strong>1. It is better to risk boldness than triviality.</strong></li><li><strong>2. A bad plan is better than no plan.</strong></li><li><strong>3. Competitive markets destroy profits.</strong></li><li><strong>4. Sales matters just as much as product.</strong></li></ul><p>Instead ask yourself: how much of what you know about business is shaped by mistaken reactions to past mistakes? The most contrarian thing of all is not to oppose the crowd but to think for yourself.</p><h5>3. All Happy Companies Are Different</h5><ul><li>The business version of our contrarian question is: what valuable company is nobody building?</li><li>Creating value is not enough— you also need to capture some of the value you create.</li><li>The lesson for entrepreneurs is clear: if you want to create and capture lasting value, don’t build an undifferentiated commodity business.</li><li>Non-monopolists exaggerate their distinction by defining their market as the intersection of various smaller markets: British food ∩ restaurant ∩ Palo Alto Rap star ∩ hackers ∩ sharks Monopolists, by contrast, disguise their monopoly by framing their market as the union of several large markets: search engine ∪ mobile phones ∪ wearable computers ∪ self-driving cars</li><li>In business, money is either an important thing or it is everything.</li><li>Only one thing can allow a business to transcend the daily brute struggle for survival: monopoly profits.</li><li>Whatever your views on thermodynamics, it’s a powerful metaphor: in business, equilibrium means stasis, and stasis means death.</li><li>Monopoly is the condition of every successful business.</li><li>All happy companies are different: each one earns a monopoly by solving a unique problem. All failed companies are the same: they failed to escape competition.</li></ul><h5>4. The Ideology of Competition</h5><ul><li>All Rhodes Scholars had a great future in their past.</li><li>Rivalry causes us to overemphasize old opportunities and slavishly copy what has worked in the past.</li><li>Sometimes you do have to fight. Where that’s true, you should fight and win. There is no middle ground: either don’t throw any punches, or strike hard and end it quickly.</li><li>If you can recognize competition as a destructive force instead of a sign of value, you’re already more sane than most.</li></ul><h5>5. Last Mover Advantage</h5><ul><li>Simply stated, the value of a business today is the sum of all the money it will make in the future. (To properly value a business, you also have to discount those future cash flows to their present worth, since a given amount of money today is worth more than the same amount in the future.)</li><li>If you focus on near-term growth above all else, you miss the most important question you should be asking: will this business still be around a decade from now? Numbers alone won’t tell you the answer; instead you must think critically about the qualitative characteristics of your business.</li><li>Every monopoly is unique, but they usually share some combination of the following characteristics: proprietary technology, network effects, economies of scale, and branding.</li><li>This isn’t a list of boxes to check as you build your business— there’s no shortcut to monopoly. However, analyzing your business according to these characteristics can help you think about how to make it durable.</li></ul><p><strong>1. Proprietary Technology</strong></p><ul><li>Proprietary technology is the most substantive advantage a company can have because it makes your product difficult or impossible to replicate.</li><li>As a good rule of thumb, proprietary technology must be at least 10 times better than its closest substitute in some important dimension to lead to a real monopolistic advantage.</li><li>Anything less than an order of magnitude better will probably be perceived as a marginal improvement and will be hard to sell, especially in an already crowded market.</li><li>The clearest way to make a 10x improvement is to invent something completely new.</li><li>Or you can radically improve an existing solution: once you’re 10x better, you escape competition.</li><li>You can also make a 10x improvement through superior integrated design.</li></ul><p><strong>2. Network Effects</strong></p><ul><li>Network effects make a product more useful as more people use it.</li><li>Network effects can be powerful, but you’ll never reap them unless your product is valuable to its very first users when the network is necessarily small.</li><li>This is why successful network businesses rarely get started by MBA types: the initial markets are so small that they often don’t even appear to be business opportunities at all.</li></ul><p><strong>3. Economies of Scale</strong></p><ul><li>A monopoly business gets stronger as it gets bigger: the fixed costs of creating a product (engineering, management, office space) can be spread out over ever greater quantities of sales.</li><li>A good startup should have the potential for great scale built into its first design.</li></ul><p><strong>4. Branding</strong></p><ul><li>A company has a monopoly on its own brand by definition, so creating a strong brand is a powerful way to claim a monopoly.</li></ul><p><strong>BUILDING A MONOPOLY</strong></p><ul><li>Brand, scale, network effects, and technology in some combination define a monopoly; but to get them to work, you need to choose your market carefully and expand deliberately.</li><li>Every startup is small at the start. Every monopoly dominates a large share of its market. Therefore, every startup should start with a very small market.</li><li>The perfect target market for a startup is a small group of particular people concentrated together and served by few or no competitors.</li></ul><p><strong>Scaling Up</strong></p><ul><li>Once you create and dominate a niche market, then you should gradually expand into related and slightly broader markets.</li><li>The most successful companies make the core progression— to first dominate a specific niche and then scale to adjacent markets— a part of their founding narrative.</li><li>As you craft a plan to expand to adjacent markets, don’t disrupt: avoid competition as much as possible.</li></ul><h5>6. You Are Not a Lottery Ticket</h5><ul><li>But they miss the even bigger social context for their own preferred explanations: a whole generation learned from childhood to overrate the power of chance and underrate the importance of planning.</li><li>Finance epitomizes indefinite thinking because it’s the only way to make money when you have no idea how to create wealth.</li><li>But in an indefinite world, people actually prefer unlimited optionality; money is more valuable than anything you could possibly do with it. Only in a definite future is money a means to an end, not the end itself.</li><li>It’s no surprise that entitlement spending has eclipsed discretionary spending every year since 1975.</li><li>In philosophy, politics, and business, too, arguing over process has become a way to endlessly defer making concrete plans for a better future.</li><li>But leanness is a methodology, not a goal. Making small changes to things that already exist might lead you to a local maximum, but it won’t help you find the global maximum.</li><li>A company is the strangest place of all for an indefinite optimist: why should you expect your own business to succeed without a plan to make it happen? Darwinism may be a fine theory in other contexts, but in startups, intelligent design works best.</li><li>The greatest thing Jobs designed was his business. Apple imagined and executed definite multi-year plans to create new products and distribute them effectively.</li><li>A business with a good definite plan will always be underrated in a world where people see the future as random.</li><li>A startup is the largest endeavor over which you can have definite mastery. You can have agency not just over your own life, but over a small and important part of the world. It begins by rejecting the unjust tyranny of Chance. You are not a lottery ticket.</li></ul><h5>7. Follow the Money</h5><ul><li>Never underestimate exponential growth.</li><li>Everyone needs to know exactly one thing that even venture capitalists struggle to understand: we don’t live in a normal world; we live under a power law.</li><li>The biggest secret in venture capital is that the best investment in a successful fund equals or outperforms the entire rest of the fund combined.</li><li>This implies two very strange rules for VCs. First, only invest in companies that have the potential to return the value of the entire fund. This is a scary rule, because it eliminates the vast majority of possible investments.</li><li>This leads to rule number two: because rule number one is so restrictive, there can’t be any other rules.</li><li>total VC investment accounts for less than 0.2% of GDP. But the results of those investments disproportionately propel the entire economy. Venture-backed companies create 11% of all private sector jobs. They generate annual revenues equivalent to an astounding 21% of GDP. Indeed, the dozen largest tech companies were all venture-backed. Together those 12 companies are worth more than $2 trillion, more than all other tech companies combined.</li><li>“it doesn’t matter what you do, as long as you do it well.” That is completely false. It does matter what you do. You should focus relentlessly on something you’re good at doing, but before that you must think hard about whether it will be valuable in the future.</li><li>If you do start your own company, you must remember the power law to operate it well. The most important things are singular: One market will probably be better than all others, as we discussed in Chapter 5. One distribution strategy usually dominates all others, too— for that see Chapter 11. Time and decision-making themselves follow a power law, and some moments matter far more than others— see Chapter</li></ul><h5>8. Secrets</h5><p>Four social trends have conspired to root out belief in secrets.</p><ul><li><strong>First is incrementalism</strong>. From an early age, we are taught that the right way to do things is to proceed one very small step at a time, day by day, grade by grade.</li><li><strong>Second is risk aversion</strong>. People are scared of secrets because they are scared of being wrong. By definition, a secret hasn’t been vetted by the mainstream.</li><li><strong>Third is complacency</strong>. Social elites have the most freedom and ability to explore new thinking, but they seem to believe in secrets the least.</li><li><strong>Fourth is “flatness.”</strong> As globalization advances, people perceive the world as one homogeneous, highly competitive marketplace: the world is “flat.” Given that assumption, anyone who might have had the ambition to look for a secret will first ask himself: if it were possible to discover something new, wouldn’t someone from the faceless global talent pool of smarter and more creative people have found it already?</li><li>We can be glad that there are fewer crazy cults now, yet that gain has come at great cost: we have given up our sense of wonder at secrets left to be discovered.</li><li>The actual truth is that there are many more secrets left to find, but they will yield only to relentless searchers.</li><li>Great companies can be built on open but unsuspected secrets about how the world works.</li><li>There are two kinds of secrets: secrets of nature and secrets about people. Natural secrets exist all around us; to find them, one must study some undiscovered aspect of the physical world. Secrets about people are different: they are things that people don’t know about themselves or things they hide because they don’t want others to know.</li><li>So when thinking about what kind of company to build, there are two distinct questions to ask: What secrets is nature not telling you? What secrets are people not telling you?</li><li>So you might ask: are there any fields that matter but haven’t been standardized and institutionalized?</li><li>The best entrepreneurs know this: every great business is built around a secret that’s hidden from the outside. A great company is a conspiracy to change the world; when you share your secret, the recipient becomes a fellow conspirator.</li></ul><h5>9. Foundations</h5><p>“Thiel’s law”: a startup messed up at its foundation cannot be fixed.</p><p><strong>FOUNDING MATRIMONY</strong></p><ul><li>Now when I consider investing in a startup, I study the founding teams. Technical abilities and complementary skill sets matter, but how well the founders know each other and how well they work together matter just as much. Founders should share a prehistory before they start a company together— otherwise they’re just rolling dice.</li><li>Most conflicts in a startup erupt between ownership and control— that is, between founders and investors on the board.</li><li>In the boardroom, less is more. The smaller the board, the easier it is for the directors to communicate, to reach consensus, and to exercise effective oversight. However, that very effectiveness means that a small board can forcefully oppose management in any conflict. This is why it’s crucial to choose wisely: every single member of your board matters.</li><li>A board of three is ideal. Your board should never exceed five people, unless your company is publicly held.</li><li>If you want an effective board, keep it small.</li></ul><p><strong>ON THE BUS OR OFF THE BUS</strong></p><ul><li>That’s why hiring consultants doesn’t work. Part-time employees don’t work. Even working remotely should be avoided, because misalignment can creep in whenever colleagues aren’t together full-time, in the same place, every day. If you’re deciding whether to bring someone on board, the decision is binary. Ken Kesey was right: you’re either on the bus or off the bus.</li></ul><p><strong>CASH IS NOT KING</strong></p><ul><li>Whenever an entrepreneur asks me to invest in his company, I ask him how much he intends to pay himself. A company does better the less it pays the CEO— that’s one of the single clearest patterns I’ve noticed from investing in hundreds of startups. In no case should a CEO of an early-stage, venture-backed startup receive more than $150,000 per year in salary.</li><li>If a CEO doesn’t set an example by taking the lowest salary in the company, he can do the same thing by drawing the highest salary. So long as that figure is still modest, it sets an effective ceiling on cash compensation.</li><li>Giving everyone equal shares is usually a mistake: every individual has different talents and responsibilities as well as different opportunity costs, so equal amounts will seem arbitrary and unfair from the start.</li><li>Since it’s impossible to achieve perfect fairness when distributing ownership, founders would do well to keep the details secret.</li><li>Anyone who prefers owning a part of your company to being paid in cash reveals a preference for the long term and a commitment to increasing your company’s value in the future. Equity can’t create perfect incentives, but it’s the best way for a founder to keep everyone in the company broadly aligned.</li><li>This leads to a second, less obvious understanding of the founding: it lasts as long as a company is creating new things, and it ends when creation stops. If you get the founding moment right, you can do</li><li>more than create a valuable company: you can steer its distant future toward the creation of new things instead of the stewardship of inherited success. You might even extend its founding indefinitely.</li></ul><h5>10. The Mechanics of Mafia</h5><ul><li>“Company culture” doesn’t exist apart from the company itself: no company has a culture; every company is a culture. A startup is a team of people on a mission, and a good culture is just what that looks like on the inside.</li><li>Since time is your most valuable asset, it’s odd to spend it working with people who don’t envision any long-term future together.</li><li>So we set out to hire people who would actually enjoy working together. They had to be talented, but even more than that they had to be excited about working specifically with us.</li></ul><p><strong>RECRUITING CONSPIRATORS</strong></p><ul><li>Recruiting is a core competency for any company. It should never be outsourced.</li><li>Why should the 20th employee join your company?</li><li>Why would someone join your company as its 20th engineer when she could go work at Google for more money and more prestige?</li><li>Here are some bad answers: “Your stock options will be worth more here than elsewhere.” “You’ll get to work with the smartest people in the world.” “You can help solve the world’s most challenging problems.” What’s wrong with valuable stock, smart people, or pressing problems? Nothing— but every company makes these same claims, so they won’t help you stand out.</li><li>The only good answers are specific to your company, so you won’t find them in this book. But there are two general kinds of good answers: answers about your mission and answers about your team.</li><li>Above all, don’t fight the perk war. Anybody who would be more powerfully swayed by free laundry pickup or pet day care would be a bad addition to your team. Just cover the basics like health insurance and then promise what no others can: the opportunity to do irreplaceable work on a unique problem alongside great people.</li></ul><p><strong>WHAT’S UNDER SILICON VALLEY’S HOODIES</strong></p><ul><li>From the outside, everyone in your company should be different in the same way.</li><li>What makes a startup employee instantly distinguishable to outsiders is the branded T-shirt or hoodie that makes him look the same as his co-workers. The startup uniform encapsulates a simple but essential principle: everyone at your company should be different in the same way— a tribe of like-minded people fiercely devoted to the company’s mission.</li></ul><p><strong>DO ONE THING</strong></p><ul><li>On the inside, every individual should be sharply distinguished by her work.</li><li>The best thing I did as a manager at PayPal was to make every person in the company responsible for doing just one thing. Every employee’s one thing was unique, and everyone knew I would evaluate him only on that one thing.</li><li>Eliminating competition makes it easier for everyone to build the kinds of long-term relationships that transcend mere professionalism.</li><li>The best startups might be considered slightly less extreme kinds of cults. The biggest difference is that cults tend to be fanatically wrong about something important. People at a successful startup are fanatically right about something those outside it have missed.</li></ul><h5>11. If You Build It, Will They Come?</h5><ul><li>EVEN THOUGH SALES is everywhere, most people underrate its importance.</li><li>Distribution may not matter in fictional worlds, but it matters in ours. We underestimate the importance of distribution— a catchall term for everything it takes to sell a product— because we share the same bias the A Ship and C Ship people had: salespeople and other “middlemen” supposedly get in the way, and distribution should flow magically from the creation of a good product.</li><li>But customers will not come just because you build it. You have to make that happen, and it’s harder than it looks.</li><li>In Silicon Valley, nerds are skeptical of advertising, marketing, and sales because they seem superficial and irrational. But advertising matters because it works.</li><li>In engineering disciplines, a solution either works or it fails. You can evaluate someone else’s work with relative ease, as surface appearances don’t matter much. Sales is the opposite: an orchestrated campaign to change surface appearances without changing the underlying reality.</li><li>If anything, people overestimate the relative difficulty of science and engineering, because the challenges of those fields are obvious. What nerds miss is that it takes hard work to make sales look easy.</li><li>Like acting, sales works best when hidden. This explains why almost everyone whose job involves distribution— whether they’re in sales, marketing, or advertising— has a job title that has nothing to do with those things. People who sell advertising are called “account executives.” People who sell customers work in “business development.” People who sell companies are “investment bankers.” And people who sell themselves are called “politicians.” There’s a reason for these redescriptions: none of us wants to be reminded when we’re being sold.</li><li>Whatever the career, sales ability distinguishes superstars from also-rans.</li><li>The most fundamental reason that even businesspeople underestimate the importance of sales is the systematic effort to hide it at every level of every field in a world secretly driven by it.</li><li>If you’ve invented something new but you haven’t invented an effective way to sell it, you have a bad business— no matter how good the product.</li></ul><p><strong>HOW TO SELL A PRODUCT</strong></p><ul><li>Superior sales and distribution by itself can create a monopoly, even with no product differentiation. The converse is not true.</li><li>Two metrics set the limits for effective distribution. The total net profit that you earn on average over the course of your relationship with a customer (Customer Lifetime Value, or CLV) must exceed the amount you spend on average to acquire a new customer (Customer Acquisition Cost, or CAC). In general, the higher the price of your product, the more you have to spend to make a sale— and the more it makes sense to spend it. Distribution methods can be plotted on a continuum:</li></ul><p><strong>Complex Sales</strong></p><ul><li>If your average sale is seven figures or more, every detail of every deal requires close personal attention. It might take months to develop the right relationships. You might make a sale only once every year or two. Then you’ll usually have to follow up during installation and service the product long after the deal is done. It’s hard to do, but this kind of “complex sales” is the only way to sell some of the most valuable products.</li><li>Complex sales works best when you don’t have “salesmen” at all. Palantir, the data analytics company I co-founded with my law school classmate Alex Karp, doesn’t employ anyone separately tasked with selling its product. Instead, Alex, who is Palantir’s CEO, spends 25 days a month on the road, meeting with clients and potential clients. Our deal sizes range from $1 million to $100 million. At that price point, buyers want to talk to the CEO, not the VP of Sales.</li><li>Businesses with complex sales models succeed if they achieve 50% to 100% year-over-year growth over the course of a decade. This will seem slow to any entrepreneur dreaming of viral growth. You might expect revenue to increase 10x as soon as customers learn about an obviously superior product, but that almost never happens. Good enterprise sales strategy starts small, as it must: a new customer might agree to become your biggest customer, but they’ll rarely be comfortable signing a deal completely out of scale with what you’ve sold before. Once you have a pool of reference customers who are successfully using your product, then you can begin the long and methodical work of hustling toward ever bigger deals.</li></ul><p><strong>Personal Sales</strong></p><ul><li>Most sales are not particularly complex: average deal sizes might range between $10,000 and $100,000, and usually the CEO won’t have to do all the selling himself. The challenge here isn’t about how to make any particular sale, but how to establish a process by which a sales team of modest size can move the product to a wide audience.</li></ul><p><strong>Distribution Doldrums</strong></p><ul><li>In between personal sales (salespeople obviously required) and traditional advertising (no salespeople required) there is a dead zone.</li></ul><p><strong>Marketing and Advertising</strong></p><ul><li>Marketing and advertising work for relatively low-priced products that have mass appeal but lack any method of viral distribution.</li><li>Advertising can work for startups, too, but only when your customer acquisition costs and customer lifetime value make every other distribution channel uneconomical.</li></ul><p><strong>Viral Marketing</strong></p><ul><li>A product is viral if its core functionality encourages users to invite their friends to become users too. This is how Facebook and PayPal both grew quickly: every time someone shares with a friend or makes a payment, they naturally invite more and more people into the network.</li></ul><p><strong>The Power Law of Distribution</strong></p><ul><li>One of these methods is likely to be far more powerful than every other for any given business: distribution follows a power law of its own.</li><li>Most businesses get zero distribution channels to work: poor sales rather than bad product is the most common cause of failure. If you can get just one distribution channel to work, you have a great business. If you try for several but don’t nail one, you’re finished.</li></ul><p><strong>Selling to Non-Customers</strong></p><ul><li>Your company needs to sell more than its product. You must also sell your company to employees and investors.</li><li>Even if your particular product doesn’t need media exposure to acquire customers because you have a viral distribution strategy, the press can help attract investors and employees. Any prospective employee worth hiring will do his own diligence; what he finds or doesn’t find when he googles you will be critical to the success of your company.</li></ul><p><strong>EVERYBODY SELLS</strong></p><ul><li>Nerds might wish that distribution could be ignored and salesmen banished to another planet. All of us want to believe that we make up our own minds, that sales doesn’t work on us. But it’s not true. Everybody has a product to sell— no matter whether you’re an employee, a founder, or an investor. It’s true even if your company consists of just you and your computer. Look around. If you don’t see any salespeople, you’re the salesperson.</li></ul><h5>12. Man and Machine</h5><ul><li>The most valuable businesses of coming decades will be built by entrepreneurs who seek to empower people rather than try to make them obsolete.</li><li>Properly understood, technology is the one way for us to escape competition in a globalizing world. As computers become more and more powerful, they won’t be substitutes for humans: they’ll be complements.</li><li>if humans and computers together could achieve dramatically better results than either could attain alone, what other valuable businesses could be built on this core principle?</li><li>But the most valuable companies in the future won’t ask what problems can be solved with computers alone. Instead, they’ll ask: how can computers help humans solve hard problems?</li></ul><h5>13. Seeing Green</h5><p>Most cleantech companies crashed because they neglected one or more of the seven questions that every business must answer:</p><ul><li><strong>1. The Engineering Question: </strong>Can you create breakthrough technology instead of incremental improvements?</li><li><strong>2. The Timing Question:</strong> Is now the right time to start your particular business?</li><li><strong>3. The Monopoly Question:</strong> Are you starting with a big share of a small market?</li><li><strong>4. The People Question: </strong>Do you have the right team?</li><li><strong>5. The Distribution Question:</strong> Do you have a way to not just create but deliver your product?</li><li><strong>6. The Durability Question:</strong> Will your market position be defensible 10 and 20 years into the future?</li><li><strong>7. The Secret Question: </strong>Have you identified a unique opportunity that others don’t see?</li><li>Whatever your industry, any great business plan must address every one of them. If you don’t have good answers to these questions, you’ll run into lots of “bad luck” and your business will fail. If you nail all seven, you’ll master fortune and succeed. Even getting five or six correct might work.</li><li>But the team insight— never invest in a tech CEO that wears a suit— got us to the truth a lot faster. The best sales is hidden. There’s nothing wrong with a CEO who can sell, but if he actually looks like a salesman, he’s probably bad at sales and worse at tech.</li><li>Progress isn’t held back by some difference between corporate greed and nonprofit goodness; instead, we’re held back by the sameness of both. Just as corporations tend to copy each other, nonprofits all tend to push the same priorities.</li><li>Doing something different is what’s truly good for society— and it’s also what allows a business to profit by monopolizing a new market. The best projects are likely to be overlooked, not trumpeted by a crowd; the best problems to work on are often the ones nobody else even tries to solve.</li><li>An entrepreneur can’t benefit from macro-scale insight unless his own plans begin at the micro-scale.</li><li>Cleantech companies faced the same problem: no matter how much the world needs energy,</li><li>Only a firm that offers a superior solution for a specific energy problem can make money. No sector will ever be so important that merely participating in it will be enough to build a great company.</li><li>Finding small markets for energy solutions will be tricky— you could aim to replace diesel as a power source for remote islands, or maybe build modular reactors for quick deployment at military installations in hostile territories. Paradoxically, the challenge for the entrepreneurs who will create Energy 2.0 is to think small.</li></ul><h5>14. The Founder’s Paradox</h5><ul><li>The lesson for business is that we need founders. If anything, we should be more tolerant of founders who seem strange or extreme; we need unusual individuals to lead companies beyond mere incrementalism.</li><li>The lesson for founders is that individual prominence and adulation can never be enjoyed except on the condition that it may be exchanged for individual notoriety and demonization at any moment— so be careful.</li><li>Above all, don’t overestimate your own power as an individual. Founders are important not because they are the only ones whose work has value, but rather because a great founder can bring out the best work from everybody at his company.</li></ul><h5>Conclusion: Stagnation or Singularity?</h5><ul><li>But no matter how many trends can be traced, the future won’t happen on its own. What the Singularity would look like matters less than the stark choice we face today between the two most likely scenarios: nothing or something. It’s up to us. We cannot take for granted that the future will be better, and that means we need to work to create it today.</li><li>Our task today is to find singular ways to create the new things that will make the future not just different, but better— to go from 0 to 1. The essential first step is to think for yourself. Only by seeing our world anew, as fresh and strange as it was to the ancients who saw it first, can we both re-create it and preserve it for the future.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[The near-unbelievable story of Dan Bilzerian’s rise, as told by the man himself.Regardless of what you think of Dan, there are lessons in here for everyone on the importance of “The Setup,” branding, and working towards a goal.He covers everything from his childhood, to his wild parties, to the strategy behind his marketing and poker.Highly entertaining.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Never gamble when the game is rigged, unless you rigged it (in this case referring to battling the government).</li><li>Understand the value of your time. Pay someone to do the things that you don’t like or that aren’t worth your time.</li><li>The best way to attract others to you is to live a fun and interesting life and not be tied to the outcome of others liking you.</li><li>A big ego is a good target for betting.</li><li>When going through something difficult, set achievable goals. Take things a day, or an hour, or a minute at a time. You can do anything for a minute.</li><li>The ability to learn is far more valuable in the long run than natural talent.</li><li>The setup is one of the most overlooked things in life. Think more about how your environment affects your outcome.</li><li>Going into the military after high school and then going to college can be a great move. It gives you some time to grow and learn more about what you want to do. You’ll likely get into a better school, and be more mature. And you may have your school and medical benefits paid for too.</li><li>Bilzerian’s poker strategy: be perceived as a rich, poor poker player, and play in private games with other poor players.</li><li>The first step towards succeeding at anything is cramming the most experience into the shortest period of time. For Bilzerian and poker, this meant playing 10 simultaneous tables for fourteen hours per day.</li><li>In all situations in life, the person willing to walk has all the power.</li><li>The quickest way to build trust is to answer truthfully even when you know the person won’t like your answer.</li><li>One of the most detrimental parts of poker is that it forces you to mute your emotions.</li><li>It’s much more impressive to find out someone is rich when they haven’t mentioned it.</li><li>“There is nothing better in this world than doing something for someone and having that person be truly appreciative.”</li><li>Your body is capable of ten times more than your mind thinks possible.</li><li>People think money can buy happiness, but it can only buy pleasure. Those are very different things.</li><li>Happiness comes from doing things you love and being at peace with yourself. It’s a state of mind and can last a lifetime.</li><li>Pleasure needs to be fed. It comes from self-indulgence and is addictive. The more you indulge, the more you need to get the same high.</li><li>Life is a game, and like any game, you must have a good strategy to win. The implementation of that strategy is the setup.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A story about corruption, Swiss banking, living life to the fullest, and the moral quandaries of blowing the whistle.The author, Brad Birkenfeld, ended up receiving the highest whistleblower award to date from the IRS for his role in exposing illegal offshore accounts solicited by UBS, one of the largest Swiss banks.A highly entertaining read, and a cautionary tale about what happens when you work with government.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Be friendly but unpredictable, and no one will mess with you.</li><li>Work philosophy: “Never wait. Do it now.”</li><li>Build and leverage your relationships: a good word put in via the side door will go a long way.</li><li>The best time to pitch someone is when they’re having the time of their life. That’s why wining and dining is such a successful strategy.</li><li>Always negotiate, and always own something. That’s how you get rich.</li><li>Always have an exit strategy. Meticulous documentation and organization will help you here.</li><li>Who you know and the money you have matters.</li></ul><h4>Favourite Quotes</h4><h5>Prologue - Fall Guy</h5><p>I’d learned something important a long time ago, long before I got into business and banking. And I’d learned it on the ice, playing high school hockey in Massachusetts. Let folks know who you are right away: a guy who seems friendly, but totally unpredictable. Look down at them and give them that leopard smile that doesn’t touch your eyes, and they’ll know not to fuck with you.</p><h5>PART I</h5><h5>CHAPTER 3 - CRACKING THE CODE</h5><p>My work ethic was “Never wait. Do it now,” and that’s how I’d made friends with Joe Gelsomino, who worked at Credit Suisse First Boston as head currency trader in New York. I’d given tons of trades to Joe and naturally liked him, so right after my interview I called him up.</p><p>“Brad! What’s up, buddy?”</p><p>“Hey, Joe. I need a small favor. I’m interviewing at Credit Suisse in Geneva, Switzerland, and wondering if you could put in a good word for me.”</p><p>I had several memberships at the best British gentlemen’s clubs—East India, Royal Automobile—where I’d entertain them; stuff them with great food, scotch, and cigars; then whisk them off to their favorite passions: fashion shows, rugby scrums, cricket matches, football finals, horse races at Ascot. When a guy’s favorite horse is two lengths ahead on the back stretch and he’s on his feet screaming, that’s the perfect time to pitch him hedge funds because he’ll agree to just about anything.</p><p>He did try, and UBS balked, but they kept nagging Harry to snag me on the cheap. In the meantime, I did my research, calling around and discreetly asking my contacts why UBS wanted me so badly. Harry met me again for lunch.</p><p>“Listen, Brad, they’ll give you $250,000, a car lease, and a generous bonus. But this twenty percent? It’s not on.”</p><p>“Really?” I said. “That’s interesting, because the reason they need me is that the guy who was doing my job got caught watching porn at his desk, so they had to can his ass. I happen to know that you also approached Fred Ruiz over at Credit Suisse, and he declined, so UBS is fresh out of options. Plus, they know I’ve got an MBA, hundreds of clients, and I’ve made money hand over fist for Barclays. Plus, I have a ‘C’ work permit. So it’s twenty percent off the top, or nothing.”</p><p>On July 4, 2001, I walked into UBS, and as Christian Bovay and the head of Human Resources added their John Hancocks, I signed my new contract with UBS, including my eighteen percent performance-based bonus (Exhibit 6). Before the ink was dry, I mentioned to Bovay that I’d shortly be bringing him my first UBS client, along with $200 million in assets. Bovay’s burglar-tool teeth gaped wide open.</p><p>Checkmate.</p><p>I was instantly the highest-paid UBS private banker in all of Switzerland.</p><h5>CHAPTER 4 - SPORTS CARS AND MODELS AND YACHTS, OH MY!</h5><p>You’ve already guessed at what happened next. It happened after every one of my field trips.A middle-aged American male, always wealthy, usually bored, shows up at Geneva airport, and from there he’s on Mr. Birkenfeld’s Magic Carpet Ride. There’s a black Mercedes sedan with blacked-out windows waiting, which whisks him off to the Hotel Richemond, where there are fresh flowers and tropical fruit in his fabulous suite overlooking Lac Léman, along with a box of Frigor Swiss chocolates. I pick him up at seven p.m., expressing how sorry I am that his wife couldn’t make it, and suggest he should buy her a nice present. First we have dinner at Le Comptoir, a five-star classy joint with amazing French cuisine. By nine he’s had a few drinks, so I suggest just checking out the sexy girls at Velvet. It’s a very upscale cabaret, which happens to have a “dance” stage off in one corner. There we’re joined by my buddy from London, Ladjel Jafarli, an Algerian-born investment banker who looks like a young Omar Sharif and has a wicked sense of humor.</p><p>I also know lots of the girls at Velvet. All of them are “working girls,” Russians, Czechs, Poles, a convenience I’ve taken advantage of on occasion—strictly business. Some of them are just “girls who wanna have fun,” and they’re all gorgeous. By midnight, there’s this tall, blonde, friendly Czech chick standing behind Mr. Client’s chair, massaging his shoulders and whispering God-knows-what in his ear. I wink at her. She winks back. That means I’ll take care of her later. Ladjel yawns and says, “Bradley, your lifestyle is going to kill me, and so would my mother if she knew where I was!” I laugh and say, “I’ve got to get a move-on too, buddy.” Both of us get up and I throw a thousand Swiss francs on the table. “Martina, darling,” I say to the girl. “Will you please make sure Mr. Client gets back to la Paix all right?”</p><p>Just to be clear about that eighteen percent, it didn’t mean I’d be getting that size a chunk off the top of any Net New Money I brought in. If that were the case, with Olenicoff’s nut alone I’d have cleaned the table of $36 million and retired to buy myself a hockey team somewhere. What it did mean was that I’d be getting eighteen percent of any revenue made with that big figure. So, for example, UBS was charging Olenicoff three percent to manage his $200 million, which is $6 million, and I was getting $1,080,000 out of that. Whenever Olenicoff invested any of his nut and made a profit, which of course I encouraged, I got my cut for that too. On top of that, the combined portfolios of all my other clients amounted to another $200 million, so bottom line I was making eighteen percent on the fees, securities sales, loan interest, currency transactions, and profits on $400,000,000. My book was about double the size of most other bankers on the desk. In banking, as with other things, size does matter. And since you can’t take it with you, I made sure to enjoy it.</p><h5>PART II</h5><h5>CHAPTER 5 - BURNED IN BERN</h5><p>And my clients comprised only a small percentage of American tax-evaders stashing their nuts in the UBS nest of secret numbered accounts. All in all, I had about 150 clients in Birkenfeld’s Big Black Book, thirty of whom were North Americans. But across all the bank’s branches in Zurich, Lugano, Geneva, and elsewhere, UBS had—hold on to your wallets—19,000 American clients enjoying offshore secret numbered accounts. We’re talking billions with a “B” here, folks. That’s a lot of tax revenue not going for beans and bullets.</p><p>But there was method to my madness. Even though I had this hunger for fun, I never took my eye off the ball. I nurtured my big black Rolodex phone book, in which I recorded nothing more than people’s names, where I’d met them, and their modes of contact. I took no notes because that’s all I needed to remember who they were and what they did for a living. Then on my computer I created a master spreadsheet, and every year at Christmas I’d write a holiday letter, print it on high-grade paper, include a photo of myself on a white-sand beach in Asia, or in front of the Pyramids in Cairo, or on a majestic sailing yacht in Cannes, and send out two hundred via snail mail. And then I had another spreadsheet with all the annual high-end events taking place around the world—yacht regattas, tennis tournaments, film festivals, wine tastings, auto shows, and car races—and breakdowns of every country’s best restaurants, bars, and hotels (Exhibit 9).</p><h5>CHAPTER 6 - COUNTERPUNCH</h5><p>I’d already decided that I was done with private banking forever. It had all been a fun, wild ride, but how many times can you woo some client into investing in stocks, bonds, currencies, or gold bullion before you eventually lose your enthusiasm? I was ready to progress into private equity, using all the contacts I’d made over the years to put big moneymakers together for partnerships and then take my cut of whatever that new endeavor might be. I knew plenty of people with great ideas for start-ups, such as new energy or biotech firms, or proposals for constructing resort hotels in prominent locations. I also knew plenty of others looking for such investments. I’d put them together, and get my cut for the matchmaking plus stock options in the new entities. Do that just a few times successfully and you’re set for life. I knew I’d be successful, and I’d no longer be reporting to corporate ingrates.</p><h5>CHAPTER 7 - TARANTULA</h5><p>Every major corporation in the Western world has a set of internal whistle-blowing policies. Now, you might think those are designed so that any employee who discovers something amiss can complain to his or her superiors and remain confidential, still hold on to his job, and make sure the company stays on the straight and narrow, right? Well, the reality is that usually when an employee finds himself between a rock and a hard place, with no choice but to whistle-blow, everyone nods their heads and says, “Thank you sooo much.” But after that the guy’s a pariah; might as well have a “T” for Traitor tattooed on his forehead. Folks who whistle-blow internally know their careers within that firm are essentially fucked, which is why such action is as rare as virgins in Paris. Most whistle-blowers never get any kind of reward. They’re treated like snitches: They’re intimidated, threatened, retaliated against, and blackballed. They lose their jobs, lose their finances, their families are devastated and their lives destroyed. Almost nobody does it unless their backs are against the wall.</p><h5>PART III</h5><h5>CHAPTER 10 - HUNTED</h5><p>I wasn’t going to sit in my beautiful flat in Geneva and brood. Life goes on, and there were deals to make, parties to attend, and maybe a few women to woo. I threw myself back into some private equity deals with my close friend Dave, a guy with an eye for great start-ups and matching investors. I winged over to Mumbai and met with the Indian Minister of Oil and Gas, where we signed a deal for the purchase of American coal, the “clean” type.</p><p>Then I flew over to Beijing and Shanghai, meeting with senior Chinese officials and pitching my coal deal, as well as some prime real estate opportunities in Europe.</p><h5>CHAPTER 11 - THE TWILIGHT ZONE</h5><p>I’ve never like Florida all that much.</p><p>Not that I have anything against Disney World or Mickey Mouse, and Daytona’s a fine motor speedway, even though it’s not Formula One. Miami can be fun if you like the beaches, bikinis, and Latin nightlife, which I generally do, but it’s not Saint-Tropez or Cancún. So, other than some light entertainment, I’ve always thought of the state as sort of flat, barren, and humid, a place to escape from New England winters when your bones are aching and you’re craving a lounge chair and drinks with pastel umbrellas. If you’re still relatively young, a visit to Florida can be like a bleak peek at your future: lots of sweet old folks with blue hair, moving slowly. God’s waiting room.</p><h5>CHAPTER 12 - BLOWUP</h5><p>None of us American taxpayers had a hint of what was going on at the time. Ms. Clinton’s under-the-table deals with the Swiss wouldn’t come out until another whistle-blower, Bradley Manning, dumped thousands of classified US government emails and cables all over the Internet. Included among those were just a few State Department after-action reports about Clinton’s quid pro quo with UBS and the Swiss.</p><p>One of the biggest benefactors of Paulson, Bernanke, and Geithner’s $700 billion shell game was AIG, the mega insurance firm designated “too big to fail.” One hundred eighty billion dollars was funneled to AIG, and AIG turned around and slipped $100 billion of that to twenty of its foreign bank business partners.</p><p>Want to guess who got a huge chunk of your hard-earned and squeezed-from-your-savings-account taxpayer money? That’s right: UBS. AIG slipped UBS a cool $5 billion from the bailout received. And nobody knew about it. It didn’t come out until Geithner was forced to divulge exactly how he’d spent the people’s money. But that’s why UBS wasn’t too worried about having to write a check for $780 million to the IRS. In public, they cried and whined and had tantrums about it. In private, they were laughing their asses off. Another “deal of the century,” and the American taxpayer gets screwed (again).</p><p>On April 30, 2009, in a district court in Florida, UBS finally responded to the “John Doe” summons and turned over the names of 4,500 American secret account holders. That’s 4,500 out of 19,000 American account holders; you do the math. The list was cherry-picked; no one of any significance was on it. They were all trust-fund babies, doctors, small-business owners, and self-made millionaires. No politicians, power players, campaign fund-raisers, defense contractors, or lobbyists.</p><h5>CHAPTER 14 - CAMP CUPCAKE</h5><p>It looked exactly like those refund checks you get sometime after April 15, if you’re lucky. It was made out to Bradley Birkenfeld, in the total amount of $75,816,958.40! My total reward was for $104 million, but the government had taken out taxes. Did I care at that point? Hell no. What’s a few dozen million between friends, right?</p><h5>CHAPTER 15 - RICH MAN, POOR MAN</h5><p>Another man might have gone wild, throwing exorbitant parties, bathing in champagne, seducing beautiful women with baubles and promises he was unlikely to keep. But I’d already done all that, and I’d learned long ago that it wasn’t about the money at all. I had lived in that world for nearly two decades and discovered that even the most wealthy and powerful people weren’t made whole by their riches or influence. I had seen firsthand that the coveted trappings of wealth were often merely bandages for wounded hearts.</p><p>Life was about the joy of living, the people with whom you lived it, and if you were suddenly a man of means, it was about helping those you loved who deserved it. In a way, I was like a man who had won a lottery. But instead of just picking lucky numbers, I had fought the fight of my life for this prize, and the scars of that battle would always remain.</p><p>One choice fomented in my mind soon after my release and solidified later with clarity—and some sadness. Once my probation ended, I was going to leave the United States, probably never to return. It was the country of my birth, where I had gone from being a patriot willing to die for it to becoming an oppressed citizen, burned and betrayed. To me, America was no longer that shining city on the hill. It was ruled by corrupt politicians, incompetent prosecutors, and greedy financiers, many of whom were my sworn enemies, and would be so to this day and beyond. I knew I’d always be looking over my shoulder, but far from America’s shores would be better. I thought about a nice lake in Europe, with a secluded parcel of slope on the shore, a large, strong house, and well-armed bodyguards. I would still visit my friends and family in the States, of course, and they would happily visit my castle as well. But I would never again be subject to the whims of the unjustly powerful. I had lived well before, and I knew how to enjoy it.</p><p>But that wouldn’t happen for another few years.</p><h5>Author Q&amp;A</h5><p>Q. Speaking of the military, is what you did patriotic? What about the years before you turned in those bankers—when you were signing up more and more rich people to Swiss numbered accounts? Was that patriotic?</p><p>A. This is a tough question. I don’t believe patriotism has any bearing on what I may or may not have done. Opening up accounts for US and other foreign clients in Swiss bank accounts was my job, as it had been for hundreds of other private bankers across Switzerland for decades. I performed my job with the understanding that the firm was not asking us to violate laws in their name.</p><p>The question of whether clients shirking their tax obligations are being unpatriotic is also a curious one. There are many cash-based service industries in the United States and elsewhere where large proportions of revenues are not declared to tax authorities. Are all of these “non-declarers” unpatriotic? Are the clients of these providers unpatriotic for not “outing” their providers for not fully disclosing their income, or worse, complicit for not reporting cash payments to tax authorities? Or do these people have moral standing for refusing to pay taxes to a government with lax spending controls and discipline? These are complicated, value-loaded questions.</p><p>My feelings on the subject have evolved over time. As I explain in the book, it was easy to turn a blind eye to questionable activities when you believed these were sanctioned and vetted by your firm. Unquestionably, it was also easy to turn a blind eye when you were young, invincible, and the money was rolling in. As the years wore on, however, you recognized that what may or may not be legal was not always ethical. Was it right for our clients to shirk their tax obligations, and thus leave the less sophisticated and less wealthy to shoulder a heavier share of the tax burden? You might ask why I didn’t act on these ethical instincts earlier. Good question, but the same applies to most of us. Many of us have been exposed to similar ethical quandaries. These are tough situations to face, let alone fix.</p><p>In the end, the problem was solved for me when I confirmed through the “Three-Page Memo” that many of my job responsibilities had crossed the line. At that point I realized the game was over. I could have just walked away, but instead I had the courage to take on the most powerful bank in the world as I brought their illegal and unethical activities to light.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[29 Lessons From Year 29]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 19 Oct 2021 02:09:40 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This year was a weird one, but there was just as much to learn. Here are 9 things that stood out for me this year.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>A Lot Can Change in a Year</h2><p>It&#x27;s only been a year since my last birthday, and it simultaneously feels like a brief blur and 5 years.</p><p>I thought a lot about the Bill Gates quote this year: &quot;Most people overestimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in 10 years.&quot;</p><p>While that&#x27;s certainly true—think about the person you were 10 years ago—I think the same holds for smaller time scales.</p><p>Most of us overestimate what we can do in a week, but underestimate what we can do in a month. Or a month vs. a year, etc.</p><p>I know people that moved halfway across the world, broke up with long-term partners, committed to one person after a short period of time, quit their jobs, started a new business, bought a house, had a new child, and all kinds of other things.</p><p>A lot can change in a year.</p><h2>If You Want To, Change It</h2><p>We can change things a lot more often than we think.</p><p>Not happy at your job? Figure out what would make you happier, and ask for it. Or explore what else is available and talk to some people that are hiring.</p><p>Not happy with how your pants fit? Get them tailored. Or buy a new pair. Or get some custom-made.</p><p>One of the issues most of us have in making good decisions is that we don&#x27;t consider enough options.</p><p>Big or small, there&#x27;s always something you can change.</p><h2>There&#x27;s Only So Much Time in the Day</h2><p>Productivity culture is about finding an extra 10 minutes in your day, fitting more work into 10 minutes, and building a slightly more efficient system for getting things done.</p><p>But there are only so many hours in the day.</p><p>Many workers have realized how many hours they spent commuting, and found out how much else they could fit into their day if they worked remote.</p><p>I try to continue pushing the limits of what I can fit in a day, but I&#x27;ve realized I do have to make choices.</p><p>Am I going to go golfing today? That means sacrificing something.</p><p>It might be the side project I want to work on, or my sleep, or going out with friends. But it does have a cost.</p><p>We only have so much time; adding something always means subtracting something else.</p><h2>There Will Always Be Ups and Downs</h2><p>This might seem obvious, but for many people, myself included, long periods of feeling meh or unmotivated aren&#x27;t the norm.</p><p>Sometimes they seem seasonal; other times they seem like a symptom of something larger, like maybe the stresses of a global pandemic.</p><p>Whatever it is, it&#x27;s rarely easy to figure out, and can be extraordinarily frustrating.</p><p>These lulls are like obstacles: if we think about them ahead of time, and have strategies for overcoming them, they&#x27;ll be much easier to deal with when they arrive.</p><p>For me, it seems to be about accepting things, turning my focus to other activities, spending more time with friends, and reflecting on why I might be feeling that way.</p><p>&quot;Working through it&quot; is simultaneously recommended and disliked, but it can be helpful too, as long as you&#x27;re conscious of it.</p><p>At the same time, when motivation hits, you need to be able to recognize it and surf the wave.</p><p>It&#x27;s just as important to take advantage of high motivation as it is to get through the lulls.</p><p>Motivation is always going to come in waves; discipline can make up some of the difference, but it&#x27;s important to be able to push through the lulls.</p><h2>People Are What Make Living Somewhere Good or Bad</h2><p>The pandemic changed what &quot;normal&quot; life looked like.</p><p>Often, it meant a restriction of what activities were allowed. Sometimes it meant a restriction of who you could see.</p><p>In both cases, one thing that became clear to me was that the people are the most critical ingredient.</p><p>Being surrounded by friends and family makes it easy to make the most of a bad situation.</p><p>Being without them makes it very difficult.</p><h2>Communities Are How To Meet People (and Change Them)</h2><p>I got involved in a number of online communities during the pandemic, to a level I&#x27;d never reached before.</p><p>We&#x27;d interact online, chat and follow each other, and eventually move to something like calls or Zoom meetings. Virtual friendship moving to (sort of) real life friendship.</p><p>I also spent a lot of time on the golf course, playing with people I didn&#x27;t know.</p><p>In both cases, I was part of a community.</p><p>Whether online or on the golf course, we always had something in common: the activity we were participating in.</p><p>That shared activity created a bond. We were members of an online forum, or of a golf club, or the broader community of writers and golfers.</p><p>Sharing this kind of community is how you make friends, but it&#x27;s also how you hear different views. Or convince others that maybe your view is better.</p><p>In an increasingly polarized world, I&#x27;m convinced that becoming friends first is the only way to change someone&#x27;s perspective.</p><p>Communities are how you make those friends.</p><h2>There&#x27;s Always a Limiting Factor</h2><p>I first learned about limiting factors in chemistry.</p><p>In chemistry, the limiting reactant (or reagent) is the one that is completely used up during a reaction. Other materials might be left over if there wasn&#x27;t enough reactant.</p><p>The same thing applies to almost every other part of our lives.</p><p>The factor limiting the time you have to pursue your side project might be your full-time job, or your social life.</p><p>The limiting factor in your professional development might be a bad communication habit that strikes everyone you work with the wrong way.</p><p>The limiting factor in your outfit might be the old shoes you&#x27;re wearing.</p><p>Wherever you look in life, there&#x27;s a limiting factor.</p><p>Sometimes, it doesn&#x27;t make sense to fix.</p><p>If the poor habit you have at work is merely an annoyance, or comes up occasionally, it might make more sense to hire someone who is good at it.</p><p>If it&#x27;s a big limitation—a tendency to be negative in every meeting, for example—it might be worth fixing.</p><p>Whatever situation you&#x27;re in, there&#x27;s always a limiting factor.</p><h2>Optionality Isn&#x27;t Always Good</h2><p>When I finished school, I chose not to go into a Master&#x27;s program, despite being accepted.</p><p>One of the reasons was that I wanted options. I wanted the freedom to do what I want.</p><p>Optionality is often good. It gives us an alternate path when the thing we did didn&#x27;t work out. It can limit the cost of failure.</p><p>But the constant pursuit of optionality comes with a cost: never committing to anything.</p><p>Choosing the path that gives the most optionality often means taking a job you don&#x27;t like.</p><p>It&#x27;s partly why college graduates go to work for consulting companies, or big banks, or name-brand tech companies. Sure they pay well, but the bigger benefit is the name on your resume, which buys you options in the future.</p><p>It causes people to avoid commitment in relationships, instead choosing to date as widely as possible.</p><p>It also weighs on you; when you always have alternate options, you always think about when you should exercise them—when you should quit and pursue another path.</p><p>Committing to a path frees you of the constant consideration of other options, and the self-doubt that comes with it.</p><p>Commitment spurs focus.</p><p>Options can be great tools. But commitment can be too.</p><p>These days, I think carefully about whether I want to keep some options open, or whether I want to commit.</p><h2>Everything Is More Interesting When You Learn More About It</h2><p>I got back into golf and cycling during the pandemic.</p><p>It reminded me of one of the main reasons I love learning so much: the more you learn, the more interesting something is.</p><p>I used to think golf was boring to watch on TV, even as someone who enjoyed the sport.</p><p>But as you learn more about golf, you start to understand different shot types. You start to understand the decisions pros are making on the course.</p><p>You may know the individual tendencies of specific pros, and what advantages they may have against their opponent.</p><p>If their sponsor has marketed well, you&#x27;ll know the clubs they&#x27;re playing, and you may have tried them yourself.</p><p>The main point here is that most things are interesting if you dig deep enough. But you don&#x27;t find out what&#x27;s interesting until you learn more about it</p><p>If you find something boring, you probably need to learn more about it.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Inner Game of Golf by Timothy Gallwey: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-inner-game-of-golf-timothy-gallwey</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2021 18:27:09 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The Inner Game of Tennis is the best book I've read on improving physical skills through mental performance.I was a bit apprehensive that The Inner Game of Golf would be a rehash of those principles with little extra work, but was pleasantly surprised that the author took it upon himself to spend a year improving his own golf performance in order to write the book.Not only does the book provide exercises that are immediately applicable (and I have personally found to help), but it explores why we place so much importance on golf and why we play.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Telling our bodies how to do something is not the most effective way to improve performance.</li><li>Use the time in between shots to relax your mind and prepare for the next shot.</li><li>The primary focus of attention in golf should not be the ball, but the club head.</li><li><strong>Back-hit-stop</strong>: To keep attention on the club head, say the word &quot;back&quot; when the club head is back at it&#x27;s furthest point, say &quot;hit&quot; when it strikes the ball, and &quot;stop&quot; when it comes to rest at the end of the follow-through.</li><li>An alternative is just to say &quot;da&quot; at all points of the swing, and you can add one at takeaway if you like.</li><li>If your voice is out of sync, you&#x27;re losing focus.</li><li>Overtightness is the most common cause of error in golf, and probably all sports. You can hear it if you hum through your swing. The places you get caught up are where you&#x27;re tight. Move your awareness there.</li><li>Fear increases as our sense of competence decreases. If we lessen our self-doubt, our fear naturally decreases.</li><li>Self-doubt increases when the challenge increases or presents more risk.</li><li>&quot;Trying harder&quot; is compensation for mistrust in ourselves and leads to poor performance.</li><li>Sam Snead quote: &quot;The only thing wrong with your swing is what’s wrong with most amateurs’ you don’t hit the ball with your practice swing.”</li><li>The less a golfer tries, the most fluid his swing will be, and the easier it will be to produce a good golf swing.</li><li>&quot;Awareness mode&quot; is the optimal mode for performance. You&#x27;re focused and alert, but not &quot;trying&quot; hard. You&#x27;re attentive but detached.</li><li><strong>Doctrine of the easy</strong>: acts done well are done easily and that which seems hard is usually not being done well.</li><li>To make something easier: associate a difficult act with a much easier one (ideally that never fails). For example, associate a putt with lifting the ball out of the hole.</li><li>Another example: associate hitting a ball to a pin with tossing a tennis ball near it. Or throwing a baseball.</li><li>Another: associate a putt with threading a needle.</li><li>Institutional education has overemphasized conceptual learning to such a degree that the value of, and trust in, the natural process of learning directly from experience has been seriously undermined.</li><li>In the teaching of physical skills, learning through direct experience should take priority over learning through formal instruction in concepts.</li><li><strong>Law of awareness</strong>: if you want to change something, first increase your awareness of the way it is.</li><li>Where you focus your awareness determines what you learn.</li><li>As a coach, you should give instructions not on what to do, but where to focus awareness and attention.</li><li>The ideal instruction: tell me <em>where</em> you&#x27;re feeling it, <em>what</em> you&#x27;re feeling, <em>when</em>, and <em>to what degree</em>.</li><li>Example: focus on your club head. &quot;I&#x27;m feeling it open slightly, at the back of my backswing, probably a +3 out of 5.</li><li>Most golfers think too long, and look too hard when making a putt.</li><li>Use &quot;soft eyes&quot; when looking at the hole, and don&#x27;t mentally calculate anything. Learn greens by putting a lot and watching closely how the ball travels over various contours.</li><li>Jack Nicklaus, in <em>Golf My Way</em>, writes, “Such is putting! 2% technique, 98% inspiration or confidence or touch…the only thing great putters have in common is touch, and that’s the critical ingredient…none of them found it through mechanizing a stroke, nor do I believe they could maintain it in that way.”</li><li>To develop putting feel, play the &quot;touch game&quot;: the goal is to putt the ball without looking where it&#x27;s going, and then predict it. Success is predicting correctly, not getting the ball in or near the hole.</li><li>You can play the touch game with your eyes shut for maximum feel.</li><li>Then, take another step by asking, &quot;How did I know?&quot;</li><li>Once you&#x27;re more advanced, you can stop looking at the ball, and instead look at the hole while you&#x27;re putting. Find something of interest to focus on with &quot;soft eyes&quot; and allow yourself to putt naturally.</li><li>The touch game works just as well for chipping as it does for putting.</li><li>Everyone loses feel at some point. The greatest cause of loss of feel is self-doubt, often brought on by missed chips or putts. The basic strategy to get it back is to switch from focusing on results to focusing on awareness.</li><li>The best way to combat the yips in chipping is to use the back-hit-stop exercise.</li><li>A good structure for practice sessions: 5 minutes of pure play, 20 minutes of focused swinging, 5 minutes of play, remaining time on performance—playing as if you&#x27;re on the course.</li><li>Slumps don&#x27;t exist; they&#x27;re something you create in your mind. Stay in the present, and let each shot, good or bad, stay in the past.</li><li>Sometimes you can create a mind shift simply by saying &quot;But <em>if</em> I could...&quot; and doing that thing. For example: &quot;If I could putt well, it would look like this...&quot;</li><li>The underlying skill behind all of this work: relaxed concentration. Master this and you can master anything else you wish.</li><li>There are no real pressures to golf. All the pressure exists because of the meaning and beliefs we bring to the game. We can choose to release that pressure too.</li><li>&quot;But how many better ways are there to engage in the universal and ageless contest against oneself? If the game is played as Bobby Jones claimed to play it—as a conquest of oneself—it becomes truly recreational. It is a break from the routine and patterns of daily life that can truly enrich our existence. What players learn about themselves on the course can be transferred to every aspect of their lives and thus benefit the culture of which golf is only a small part.&quot;</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Effortless by Greg Mckeown: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/effortless-greg-mckeown</link>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 30 May 2021 19:51:27 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Essentialism was one of my favourite reads of the past couple years, so I had high expectations for Greg's second book.Unfortunately, I was disappointed. The book might be more meaningful for those unfamiliar with a lot of the principles, but I failed to find much that was new.The good news is that it's a fast read. You can skip straight to the summary he provides at the end of each of the three parts.You can also listen to this podcast and get most of the key concepts.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Part I: Effortless State</h5><ul><li>The Effortless State is an experience many of us have had when we are physically rested, emotionally unburdened, and mentally energized.</li><li>Essentialism was about doing the right things; Effortless is about doing them in the right way.</li><li>Effortless Inversion means looking at problems from the opposite perspective. It means asking, <strong>“What if this could be easy?”</strong></li><li>There is power in pairing our most enjoyable activities with our most essential ones.</li><li>Rituals are similar to habits in the sense that “when I do X, I also do Y.” But they are different from habits because of one key component: the psychological satisfaction you experience when you do them. Habits explain “what” you do, but rituals are about “how” you do it.</li><li><strong>When you focus on what you lack, you lose what you have. When you focus on what you have, you get what you lack.</strong></li><li>Use this habit recipe: “Each time I complain I will say something I am thankful for.&quot;</li></ul><h5>Part II: Effortless Action</h5><ul><li>Effortless Action means accomplishing more by trying less. You stop procrastinating and take the first obvious step.</li><li>If you want to make something hard, indeed truly impossible, to complete, all you have to do is <strong>make the end goal as vague as possible.</strong></li><li>In recent years neuroscientists and psychologists have found that the “now” we experience lasts only 2.5 seconds. Two and a half seconds is enough time to shift our focus: to put the phone down, close the browser, take a deep breath.</li><li>To get started on an essential project, first define what “done” looks like.</li><li>To simplify the process, don’t simplify the steps: simply remove them.</li><li>Maximize the steps not taken.</li><li>When you start a project, start with rubbish.</li><li>Set an effortless pace: slow is smooth, smooth is fast.</li><li>Create the right range: <em>I will never do less than X, never more than Y</em>.</li></ul><h5>Part III: Effortless Results</h5><ul><li>This is what it means to achieve Effortless Results: not to achieve a result once through intense effort, but to effortlessly achieve a result again and again.</li><li>Understand first principles deeply and then apply them again and again.</li><li>Read books. It&#x27;s one of the highest leverage activities out there.</li><li>To learn, teach.</li><li>Use checklists to make sure you don&#x27;t miss things.</li><li>Automate as many essential tasks as possible.</li><li>You always have a choice: in each moment, you can choose the &quot;heavier path&quot; or the &quot;lighter path.&quot;</li><li>Life doesn&#x27;t have to be as hard or complicated as we make it. We can always look for the simpler, easier path.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Remote Work is Here to Stay]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2021 13:49:11 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Why remote work will outlast the pandemic—examining the permanent shifts in how we work, the benefits companies have discovered, and what this means for the future.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#x27;m looking forward to getting back in the office.</p><p>I miss seeing friends from work. I miss whiteboard sessions. I miss Friday team lunches and Friday evening drinks.</p><p>But even when the pandemic is over, remote work isn&#x27;t going anywhere.</p><h2>Stuck in the Middle</h2><p>Matt Mullenweg is CEO of Automattic, the parent company of Wordpress. They&#x27;ve been distributed (his preferred word for &quot;remote&quot;) since they began.</p><p>He&#x27;s grown Automattic to over a thousand people, all while remaining distributed.</p><p>He talks about the five levels of autonomy in distributed work:</p><p>Prior to the pandemic, many technology companies operated at Level One or Two.</p><p>It was possible to work remote, but you were expected to show up in-person for most meetings, and let colleagues know when you wouldn&#x27;t be in the office.</p><p>Many other industries operated at Level Zero.</p><p>The pandemic forced all kinds of companies to jump straight to Level Three: remote-first.</p><p>That&#x27;s how it has remained for the past year.</p><p>Everyone is working remotely. Solutions have been found for initial points of friction—brainstorming sessions, whiteboarding, large meetings.</p><p>Some people may have embraced it more, increasing their own written communication and doing things asynchronously where possible.</p><p>As the pandemic comes to an end, we are bracing for another change: <strong>a regression back to Level Two</strong>.</p><p>Many companies will expect their employees to come back to work in some form.</p><p>Some will put restrictions on the number of days per week they are expected to be in the office.</p><p>Others will emphasize that they are expected to show up for important meetings.</p><p><strong>This is going to cause a lot of friction.</strong></p><p>Why?</p><p><strong>It is very hard to take things away</strong> from people.</p><p>Even if they&#x27;re keen to get back to the office, many people have acknowledged the benefits of remote work, particularly if they aren&#x27;t subject to other restrictions caused by the pandemic.</p><p>They get to see their kids more, and cut their commute time out of their day. They can head to the local driving range before work, or spend some time in their yard.</p><p>They can have lunch with their spouse or significant other.</p><p>While they may tell you that they don&#x27;t want to work remotely <em>all the time</em>, they do want to have the <em>option</em>.</p><p>The option to work remotely enables all kinds of things: extended trips to visit family, a trip to a warmer climate in the winter, etc.</p><p>Forcing people to come into work also <strong>no longer makes much sense.</strong></p><p>Prior to the pandemic, arguments against remote work typically followed a few themes:</p><ul><li>It will be disruptive to other workers</li><li>We can&#x27;t be as productive when we aren&#x27;t in the office</li><li>Once we say yes to one person, everyone else will do the same</li></ul><p>It is now much harder to argue the first two points.</p><p>Potential disruptions have been solved. Productivity hasn&#x27;t suffered; in many cases most would acknowledge it might be better.</p><p>As for the third argument: if you&#x27;re worried about everyone wanting the privilege, it might be time to reconsider why you aren&#x27;t granting it in the first place.</p><h2>Hybrid Work</h2><p>Many companies plan to offer some sort of hybrid work model: you won&#x27;t be expected to come in every day, but fully remote won&#x27;t be allowed either.</p><p>This is where the <strong>regression to Level Two</strong> will happen.</p><p>Remote work, once figured out, place everyone on equal ground (assuming good internet, etc.).</p><p>During remote meetings, everyone is a single person on a camera.</p><p>Communication methods are equal for everyone. The tools are the same.</p><p>With hybrid work, that no longer holds true.</p><p>Hybrid meetings require more advanced technology to reach the same level of equality.</p><p>Even with that technology, side conversations often take place for those in-person, and those remote are at a disadvantage.</p><p>Internet, voice, and video quality issues frustrate those that are in-person.</p><p>Those that are in-person no longer feel the need to communicate as clearly via other channels like Slack or email, because they have the benefit of the in-person channel.</p><p>They also get frustrated when they can&#x27;t grab someone who is remote for a quick chat, because they haven&#x27;t scheduled it ahead of time.</p><p>This is going to cause frustrations across the board. Both for those who prefer to work in-person and for those who prefer to work remote.</p><p><a href="https://hbr.org/2021/05/how-to-do-hybrid-right">How to Do Hybrid Right</a> points out that different solutions make sense for different people. Some roles need in-person components, while others thrive being remote. Synchronous work is a requirement for some, while asynchronous makes more sense for others.</p><p>But it requires a lot of work to figure out those roles, and flexible rules that work for everyone.</p><p>I&#x27;m skeptical that most companies will do that work.</p><h2>The Rule of the Intransigent Minority</h2><p>Nassim Taleb points out <a href="https://medium.com/incerto/the-most-intolerant-wins-the-dictatorship-of-the-small-minority-3f1f83ce4e15">this phenomenon</a> in <em>Skin in the Game</em>:</p><p>&quot;the <em>minority rule</em>: a certain type of intransigent minority—with significant skin in the game (or, better, soul in the game) to reach a minutely small level, say 3 or 4 percent of the total population, for the entire population to have to submit to their preferences.&quot;</p><p>Gluten-free food is an example.</p><p>Those who have celiac, or other diseases, cannot eat gluten. It makes them very sick.</p><p>Gluten-free diets have also become popular.</p><p>But it is still a very small percentage of the population that cannot eat gluten.</p><p>So why does almost every restaurant (at least in North America) have gluten-free items on their menu?</p><p>For a restaurant owner, there is little cost in adding gluten-free items to their menu.</p><p>They often already have some dishes which are close, and changing a few ingredients, and being more careful when preparing those dishes, makes them gluten-free.</p><p>There is also no downside for customers who are not gluten-free, because anyone who is not gluten free can eat gluten free food.</p><p>But there is a large downside to <em>not</em> doing so.</p><p>It wouldn&#x27;t be as worrisome if it was merely those who couldn&#x27;t eat gluten—after all, this is only a small percent of the population.</p><p>But it is <em>any group that includes someone who is gluten-free.</em></p><p>This is a much, much higher percent.</p><p>How does this factor into remote work?</p><h2>Remote Work as Table Stakes</h2><p>My hypothesis:</p><p>The pandemic has shown that remote work is feasible, and a desirable option. Post-pandemic, those frustrated by the requirements and friction of hybrid work will switch to jobs with the option of full remote work. And <em>those who switch first will be the most talented employees.</em></p><p>This is where the minority rule comes into effect.</p><p>Post-pandemic, hybrid work will cause a lot of frustration for workers. Those who will be most frustrated are high-performers.</p><p>Whether they prefer in-person work, or fully remote work, they will both be frustrated with a hybrid model.</p><p>High performers are also the most likely to leave their jobs. They worry less about job security, knowing they can find a job elsewhere. And they hate being stuck in a job that frustrates them.</p><p>If this is true, then only one question remains: will they leave for a company that is completely in-person, or completely remote?</p><p>I&#x27;m sure it will be split. But I believe the majority will choose remote-first, for all the reasons mentioned above. It&#x27;s nice to have the option, and many of the myths about remote work: lower productivity, etc., have been dispelled.</p><p>If this happens, then a minority of workers can cause a much larger shift to remote work. This is because this minority of workers represents <em>a large majority of the talent</em>.</p><p>In other words, any company that wants access to a large portion of the top talent will be forced to offer remote work as an option.</p><p>It will become table stakes.</p><p>We&#x27;re already <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/21/technology/welcome-to-the-yolo-economy.html">seeing people leaving jobs</a>.</p><p>It&#x27;s not hard to believe these same people will be seeking remote work when they return to the workforce.</p><h2>Levels Four and Five</h2><p>There is another, final reason why I think talented employees will seek distributed/remote-first companies.</p><p>If we look back at Matt Mullenweg&#x27;s five levels of autonomy for distributed work, levels four and five focus on the shift to asynchronous work.</p><p>Asynchronous work is about shifting the methods of communication and work so that synchronous communication is rarely required.</p><p>It enables a host of benefits, from flexible schedules to the ability to work and hire from different time zones.</p><p>In an increasingly global world, this can become a big advantage. Things like 24/7 support, cheaper salaries, a higher talent level—they all become possible.</p><p>As talented employees become accustomed to remote work, I think they will seek to work more asynchronously. To spend a lower amount of time in meetings, and a larger amount of time doing meaningful work.</p><p>For roles that rely on large portions of uninterrupted time—coding, design, writing—it will become a huge advantage.</p><p>Talent will seek asynchronous work.</p><h2>What Model is Best?</h2><p>There are two models I believe are best.</p><p>The first is the completely distributed/remote model exemplified by companies like Automattic and Basecamp.</p><p>They have changed the way they work to include as few synchronous meetings as possible, and to <a href="https://basecamp.com/guides/how-we-communicate">communicate primarily through writing</a>.</p><p>They get all the benefits of being able to hire across the world: larger talent pool, (potentially) cheaper salaries, no office overhead.</p><p>And they can instead use the money they would use for an office for other things to make work better.</p><p>Things like stipends to create a great work-from-home setup and quarterly retreats in beautiful destinations with team members and the rest of the company.</p><p>This is a great model to strive for, but it is difficult to get here unless you start with this model in mind.</p><p>The second is &quot;digital-first,&quot; a term coined by Shopify. CEO <a href="https://twitter.com/tobi/status/1263483496087064579?s=20">Tobi Lütke announced</a> their shift to this model early in the pandemic.</p><p>This model is best for companies who still have geographically-concentrated workers and longer office leases.</p><p>It&#x27;s a great choice for those who want to start shifting to asynchronous work and continue offering remote work as an option post-pandemic.</p><p>Shopify offers some great work-from-home stipends and benefits, but this is largely a luxury of their financial situation (very good).</p><p>For other institutions, the approach here is to make &quot;remote&quot; work the focus. Reworking offices and process so that the friction points that come with hybrid work are reduced or eliminated.</p><p>This involves things like removing most meeting rooms and replacing them with individual booths. You can still go into the office, but everyone is working as if they were remote.</p><p>This allows you to offer remote work as much as people like, and you can provide some &quot;core hours&quot; if you like—hours where employees are expected to be online.</p><p>This can be a good transition period too. You can work to reduce the number of in-person meetings, and find alternative, asynchronous ways to communicate.</p><p>Maybe you start hiring in some different time zones for specific roles (support is a good candidate).</p><p>You can gradually work your way towards more asynchronous work, while preventing the friction and frustration of hybrid work.</p><p>The pandemic will (hopefully) soon be over.</p><p>But remote work is here to stay.</p><h2>Further Reading</h2><ul><li><a href="https://hbr.org/2021/05/how-to-do-hybrid-right">How to Do Hybrid Right - HBR</a></li><li><a href="https://ma.tt/2020/04/five-levels-of-autonomy/">Distributed Work&#x27;s Five Levels of Autonomy - Matt Mullenweg</a></li><li><a href="https://basecamp.com/guides/how-we-communicate">The Basecamp Guide to Internal Communication</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Find Solutions, Not Problems]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2021 13:40:43 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Pointing out problems is easy. But we all have a choice to make: do we want to be critics, or optimists?]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#x27;s easy to criticize:</p><ul><li>Finding holes in an idea.</li><li>Pointing out obstacles.</li><li>Thinking about paths that won&#x27;t work.</li></ul><p>But it has little value.</p><p>Some people say: &quot;Of course it&#x27;s valuable! Finding problems is how you solve them in the first place!&quot;</p><p>Well, kind of.</p><p>Who would you rather work with?</p><p>The person who constantly points out problems?</p><p>Whenever you come up with an idea, they give you five reasons it won&#x27;t work. When you try something, and it goes wrong, they say &quot;I told you so.&quot;</p><p>Or the eternal optimist?</p><p>Someone who starts thinking about how you could overcome the obstacles. Someone who sees the path to success, not the path to failure.</p><p>Of course it&#x27;s the second person. And we all know who those people are. Just think about who you&#x27;re excited to share ideas with: those are optimists. The people you don&#x27;t bother sharing with are not.</p><p>Criticism <em>is</em> valuable. But people don&#x27;t hear criticism unless they&#x27;re looking for it. Even then it&#x27;s tough.</p><p>Online, people seem to think that if someone has shared their thoughts, that they&#x27;re looking for criticism.</p><p>Most of the time they aren&#x27;t.</p><p>Facebook groups are cesspools of inflammatory ideas and petty arguments.</p><p>&quot;Dunking&quot; has become commonplace on Twitter, where people take joy in putting others down and making their ideas and thoughts look stupid.</p><p>Do they deserve it sometimes? Sure. But why would you give them the attention?</p><p>I no longer have time for unwarranted criticism, dunking, or pointing out why something won&#x27;t work. It annoys me <a href="/blog/why-i-hate-jargon">as much as jargon</a>. I don&#x27;t like being annoyed, so I aim to ignore both.</p><p>None of this is to say that I&#x27;m not guilty of it. I&#x27;ve become more aware because the criticism has been levelled at me in the past.</p><p>Often, I think it&#x27;s a reaction to an unfamiliar situation.</p><p>When you start a new job, you aren&#x27;t familiar enough with the resources and people involved to suggest a solution. So you revert to pointing out potential problems.</p><p>It also takes confidence and experience to think through possible courses of action and come up with a suggestion for a solution.</p><p>It also takes work to be quiet and listen. But it&#x27;s work worth doing.</p><p>Criticism has its place too.</p><p>When people are seeking feedback explicitly, it&#x27;s fine to offer it. At least they&#x27;re willing to listen. But even then, it&#x27;s probably sub-optimal.</p><p>Offering a solution, of course, is better. But if they have more expertise than you, it might not be the best idea. When we offer solutions, it&#x27;s always a reflection of our knowledge and experience. It might not be the best option, but simply the best option we can think of.</p><p>Even better is asking pointed questions and letting the other person find a solution. It&#x27;s much harder. But when you can create that moment for them, where they see the solution themselves, it&#x27;s much, much more powerful.</p><p>We all have a choice.</p><p>We can be the type of person that criticizes the efforts of others, who points out the potential flaws, and shoots down ideas.</p><p>Or you can be like <a href="https://www.notboring.co/p/a-not-boring-adventure-one-year-in">Packy McCormick of Not Boring</a>, and explicitly make the choice to be an optimist:</p><p>&quot;The only things I’m not optimistic about are cynics and “well, actually…” people. It’s easy to dunk. It’s easy to look smart saying why things aren’t going to work. But those people are not our people.</p><p><strong>Not Boring is for the optimists</strong>, <strong>and for the people trying to make crazy things happen.</strong> I’m definitely going to be biased. I’m going to have the backs of the companies in which we invest, and the companies that support Not Boring.&quot;</p><p>Gathering like-minded people is an effort in saying what you believe in, and then working to demonstrate those beliefs with your actions.</p><p>I&#x27;m not perfect, and I&#x27;m sure I&#x27;ll make mistakes.</p><p>But I&#x27;m an optimist, and I&#x27;m going to continue to strive to be someone who looks for solutions, not problems.</p><p>Those are my kind of people.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2021 17:45:01 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[We are terrible at managing our time. Here are two techniques I've found useful for helping understand the value of time.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>We are terrible with time.</strong></p><p>Managing it, estimating it, making the most of it.</p><p>Time is the only resource in our lives that isn&#x27;t renewable.</p><p>Money, relationships, power—all things we can win and lose.</p><p>We can never gain more time.</p><p>Sure, life-extension drugs and exercise can extend your life. Money might buy you access to special treatments. But until we learn to extend life indefinitely, we all have a fixed amount of time left.</p><p>What do people regret most at the end of their lives? It <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/feb/01/top-five-regrets-of-the-dying">varies a bit</a>, but they all come down to one thing: a different allocation of time.</p><p>Bronnie Ware, a palliative care nurse in Australia, <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/feb/01/top-five-regrets-of-the-dying">catalogued the top regrets of the dying</a>:</p><ol><li><em>I wish I&#x27;d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.</em></li><li><em>I wish I hadn&#x27;t worked so hard.</em></li><li><em>I wish I&#x27;d had the courage to express my feelings.</em></li><li><em>I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.</em></li><li><em>I wish that I had let myself be happier.</em></li></ol><p>One of the most important things we can do with our lives is learn to manage our time.</p><p>But it&#x27;s difficult.</p><p>The shiny new thing, the new car, the new house: they distract us.</p><p>In theory, we should use our money to buy time. As much as possible.</p><p>In reality, salaries are addicting. Upgrading our lifestyle is the norm.</p><p>Never before has everyone else&#x27;s life been so accessible to us.</p><p>There is always someone who is taking a vacation we&#x27;d like to be on.</p><p>Someone who got our dream car.</p><p>Someone with a more beautiful partner, or a better job.</p><p>There are two strategies I&#x27;ve found useful for convincing myself to better manage my time.</p><h2><strong>Time Travel</strong></h2><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pKMz9CEsueU">Annie Duke</a> suggests this technique for making better decisions.</p><p>You place yourself somewhere in the future—a week, a month, a year, five years—and ask yourself what you&#x27;ll think at that time.</p><p>The technique helps decide which decisions you should spend time on.</p><p>A year down the road, you&#x27;ll care about which job you have, so you should spend time making a good decision.</p><p>But you won&#x27;t remember what you decided to have for lunch today, so you should make that decision fast.</p><p>This is like listening to the regrets of the elderly. It&#x27;s like asking someone from the future.</p><p>Part of the reason this technique is effective is we&#x27;re putting <em>ourselves</em> in the future.</p><p>When we listen to other people, it&#x27;s easy to say &quot;ah, that won&#x27;t happen to me.&quot;</p><p>It&#x27;s harder to ignore our future selves.</p><h2><strong>Run The Numbers</strong></h2><p>I recommend one blog post more than all others: <a href="https://waitbutwhy.com/2015/12/the-tail-end.html">The Tail End</a>.</p><p>The post is about how much of something we have left in our lives.</p><p>How many more times we will eat pizza, or how many more times we&#x27;ll swim in the ocean.</p><p>The brilliance of this post comes from two things.</p><p><strong>The first: making things visual.</strong></p><p>When you can see how many pizzas you have left in your life in neat rows on a screen, suddenly it doesn&#x27;t seem like so many. Making something visual helps us comprehend the scale.</p><p><strong>The second: running the numbers to go with the visualization.</strong></p><p>The stat I always remember from this post is how much time the author—Tim Urban—realizes he has left with his parents.</p><p>He sees them ~10 days a year (5 visits x 2 days).</p><p>When he does the math, he realizes that by the time he graduated high school, he had already spent 93% of the time he would ever spend with his parents. At his current age, he&#x27;s down to 5% left.</p><p>Numbers like that stagger me.</p><p>Not only do they have implications for how we make day-to-day decisions, but they have implications for how we should live our lives.</p><p>Where we live, what we do, and who we build relationships with.</p><p>Adding urgency to our lives is difficult. Many things tempt us to trade time for money.</p><p>But we should be sacrificing money for time.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[What This Blog Is About]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2021 01:46:51 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This blog is about living a better life. It took me almost 5 years of writing to come to that conclusion. This post describes why.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It might seem strange to be writing a post about the topic of this blog ~5 years after starting it. But when I started writing the blog, I didn’t know where it would go.</p><p>What I did realize—and this has turned out to be true—was that a space for my thoughts online would be a good investment.</p><p>My blog and newsletter is about <strong>living a better life</strong>. </p><p>This post is about how I came to that realization.</p><h2>The Benefits of Writing Online</h2><p>I view writing online as a no-lose habit.</p><p>At worst, you spend some money each month on hosting services (though there are ways around this too).</p><p>At best, the upside is almost unlimited.</p><p>By setting up a blog, you’ve already earned some new skills. Some basic design maybe, familiarity with some sort of blogging software, and the milestone of publishing your first work online.</p><p>In my experience, even if the blog doesn’t get read by many people, there are significant benefits.</p><p>When they start blogs, most people learn about SEO, because they’re interested, and they revisit some basic writing principles in an effort to make their writing better.</p><p>Writing is a form of thinking, and of remembering, and that’s what led me to start this blog.</p><h2>Starting This Blog</h2><p>At the time, I had finished <a href="https://fi.co/">Founder Institute</a> Montreal, and was asked to write a few thoughts about developing startup ecosystems as one of the program’s final milestones. That became <a href="/blog/growing-the-startup-ecosystem-in-your-city">this post</a>.</p><p>The next year, when I went to work for <a href="https://www.techstars.com/accelerators/boston">Techstars Boston</a>, I used it as a platform to publish what I was learning as an associate in the program. I thought it might be useful for companies considering the program in the future, but I also thought it would help me remember what I was learning. </p><p>Over the years, I published articles occasionally, switched platforms from Wordpress to <a href="/blog/why-i-switched-from-squarespace-to-webflow">Squarespace to Webflow</a>, sold photo prints online, started publishing notes on the books I read, and published a podcast.</p><p>Having a blog helped me stay on top of SEO practices, learn new tools, and write.</p><h2>Defining a Niche</h2><p>One thing I struggled with over the years was defining a niche for the blog. </p><p>Should I try and have a niche? Bloggers I admired like <a href="https://www.nateliason.com/?utm_source=blog-of-graham-mann&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=what-this-blog-is-about">Nat Eliason</a> and <a href="https://tim.blog/?utm_source=blog-of-graham-mann&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=what-this-blog-is-about">Tim Ferriss</a> had covered such a wide range of topics that it would be difficult to try and put them in a niche. </p><p>That said, both were known for specific aspects of their work—Nat for SEO and Tim for many things, but his books about “life-hacking”—and so it seemed like defining a niche might be helpful.</p><p>In addition, niche blogs often do well. They have a much better pitch for monetization because they work in a specific vertical, and their content is better suited for optimization towards specific topics.</p><p>But quite frankly, that sounded boring to me, and I knew that if I cornered myself in a specific niche, I wouldn’t be happy long-term, which would kill my motivation.</p><p>So I continued to read and write about anything that interested me, and when I started the weekly newsletter, it was just a collection of things I found interesting—again without a theme.</p><h2>Building a Personal Monopoly</h2><p>One of the content-creator maxims popular today is that you should build a “personal monopoly”—defining and building a category that you can dominate (<a href="https://www.perell.com/tweetstorms/build-a-personal-monopoly?utm_source=blog-of-graham-mann&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=what-this-blog-is-about">David Perell</a> is most known for this concept). Something that combines your unique skills and knowledge.</p><p>That sounds great—who wouldn’t want to dominate a topic online? </p><p>But I find it an extremely challenging goal, and I don’t think it’s necessary.</p><p>I gave the example of Tim Ferriss above, one of the most well-known creators of the last 10 years, and known for how passionate his audience is.</p><p>But when you think of Tim, what comes to mind as his “personal monopoly?”</p><p>I’ve consumed almost everything he’s produced, and I couldn’t tell you.</p><p>I could tell you many of the topics he’s passionate about—passive income, psychedelics, learning effectively, fitness and diet—but I couldn’t tell you his personal monopoly.</p><p>I do, however, respect him enough that I would read and listen to whatever he had to say, and carefully consider his opinion.</p><p>Some bloggers may be known as “the ____ guy”, but I think in the long-term we’re defined more by what we are interested in than our “personal monopoly.”</p><h2>Why Bother With a Theme?</h2><p>So if the above is true—that we are defined by what we’re interested in and what we publish, rather than our “personal monopoly”—why would I bother trying to say what this blog is about? </p><p>Well, there are a number of important benefits, and highest among them is simplifying <strong>communication</strong>.</p><p>When I try to tell people about what I write about, or what my newsletter is about, I just say something like “oh, it’s all kinds of stuff—tech, psychology, learning, fitness.”</p><p>Understandably, that doesn’t convey much about what it’s actually about. </p><p>The current description of my website as I write this is: “I write about things like whether you should buy solar panels, decision-making, and the lessons I learn on my journey in becoming an entrepreneur.”</p><p>What’s the common thread here?</p><p>And therein lies the issue.</p><p>We have a limited amount of time to catch the interest of potential readers online, and that description, while allowing people to read between the lines, is vague.</p><p>The second major benefit is <strong>having a North Star</strong>. </p><p>This isn’t a “niche” per se, but rather a guiding principle that can inform my writing and newsletter.</p><p>This is valuable for a number of reasons, the first being the selection of what I choose to write about.</p><p>I write down blog post ideas all the time, and I write probably 1/100 of them. I simply don’t have the time.</p><p>But better selection of which ideas I do write about can be informed by the central idea, or my “North Star.”</p><p>The other benefit of this guiding principle is making sure I deliver on what I told the reader my blog and newsletter was about.</p><p>If they signed up because they identify with the idea I’ve conveyed, and then get something completely different in the newsletter, it won’t be a good experience.</p><p>It’s important to note here that I believe you should write online about what interests you, not what you think will interest others. I think it’s the only way to stay motivated long-term. </p><p>But being able to communicate what you’re interested in is important, and being a little more focused helps.</p><h2>What This Blog Is About</h2><p>This blog is about <strong>living a better life</strong>.</p><p>After years of writing both on this blog and in my newsletter, this is what I realized was the common thread.</p><p>On the surface, eating habits and exercise don’t seem to fit well with personal finance, psychology, and mental models.</p><p>But they’re closely related. They all contribute to living a better life.</p><p>So whether it’s <a href="/blog/fightcamp-home-boxing-workouts-review">a product review</a>, <a href="/blog/patrick-collison-on-decision-making">learning to make better decisions</a>, <a href="/blog/10-things-i-do-to-sleep-better">tips for sleeping better</a>, or <a href="/blog/jocko-willink-workout-advice">workout advice</a>, that’s the common thread. <strong>Living a better life</strong>.</p><p>If you’re reading this, thanks for joining me on the journey. I hope you find something useful, and if you do, please reach out and let me know.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How I Offset My Carbon Footprint]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/how-i-offset-my-carbon-footprint</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2021 18:50:40 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[How I offset my carbon footprint each year, supporting worthy projects in the process (and how you can too).]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For the last 14 months, my total carbon footprint has been zero.</p><p>Well, negative actually, given the events of the last year.</p><p>I used to fly a lot, both for a work and for pleasure, and I worried about the environmental impact. Flying is notorious for having a poor carbon footprint, but it also doesn&#x27;t make much sense to give it up. Reduce it where possible, sure, but from my perspective, the benefits of travel are hard to ignore.</p><p>I held a healthy amount of skepticism for airlines offering carbon offsets, knowing their affinity for seeking profits in unlikely places, but the world of carbon footprint calculation is daunting.</p><p>It&#x27;s hard to calculate the impact of eating a specific food, let alone how much carbon offset I should be buying for my whole life.</p><p>And where do you even buy carbon offsets? What do they look like in real life?</p><p>Thankfully, there are companies solving this problem, and I stumbled upon a fantastic one.</p><p><a href="https://www.wren.co/join/grahammann?utm_campaign=share&amp;utm_medium=profile_referral_link">Wren</a> offers a monthly subscription that offsets your carbon footprint. It&#x27;s typically about $20 per month, depending on how much carbon you think you produce.</p><p>They offer a calculator to help you figure that out too. If you want, you can even offset your entire carbon footprint back to birth.</p><p>The complicated side of carbon offsets is the calculation and implementation. Is it accurate? Is it priced properly? What is actually being done to remove carbon?</p><p>Wren makes most of those questions moot.</p><p>They fund projects like buying up rainforest for preservation, planting trees, and regenerative agroforestry. Often in developing nations.</p><p>You get to choose which projects you&#x27;d like to support.</p><p>Then they send you a monthly email with updates on the projects, photos, and specific tracking.</p><p>So the question of whether this is the right project to support becomes: is this a project worthy of support?</p><p>With Wren, the answer is always yes.</p><p>Most of us don&#x27;t have time to get into the details of the best or most accurate pricing of carbon, or the optimal project to support our offset.</p><p>But that shouldn&#x27;t be an excuse.</p><p>I view carbon footprint offsets and personal finance the same: <strong>getting started is the important part.</strong></p><p>You can <a href="https://www.wren.co/join/grahammann?utm_campaign=share&amp;utm_medium=profile_referral_link">sign up for Wren here</a> (it also makes a great gift).</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why I Hate Jargon]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2021 23:31:17 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[We're all guilty of using jargon sometimes. It feels good, and shows expertise. But we should only be using it in specific situations.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#x27;ve come to hate jargon.</p><p>It wasn&#x27;t always this way. There was a time when I loved it. Understanding jargon meant I was learning new things.</p><p>But I&#x27;ve come to realize that it hobbles communication, makes others feel bad, and results in a lot of waste.</p><h2>What is Jargon?</h2><p>First, I should clarify the term &#x27;jargon.&#x27;</p><p>To me, jargon is any of the following:</p><ul><li>Complex words used when simple ones will do</li><li>Words that are specific to a domain</li><li>Acronyms</li></ul><p>In other words, if it&#x27;s likely that someone you are speaking to will not understand the word, it&#x27;s jargon.</p><p>The dictionary definition says as much: &quot;special words or expressions that are used by a particular profession or group and are difficult for others to understand.&quot;</p><h2>Where Does Jargon Get Used?</h2><p>I&#x27;ve encountered jargon in two situations.</p><p><strong>The first is professionally</strong>. Industries have jargon, specific departments have jargon, and specific roles have jargon.</p><p>It can save time when you&#x27;re speaking with others in your domain.</p><p>I used to work with people in the aviation industry—that industry is full of acronyms, nicknames, and specific words. In their case, it saves them lots of time, and often specific acronyms mean something specific to them.</p><p>For an outsider, it took me months before I understood what they were talking about.</p><p>The other time jargon is used is <strong>when there is an information asymmetry</strong> (as in my situation above), or <em>when someone wants to create the illusion of an asymmetry.</em></p><p>An information asymmetry is when one side knows more than the other. In negotiations, this is a big advantage. The other side feels like they don&#x27;t know something they should, and so they accept things without question, or feel as though they don&#x27;t understand when given an explanation.</p><p>You see this in antiquated sales industries. You look at a bill for your car repair, for example, and see acronyms you don&#x27;t understand. Or your phone company charges for something vague like &quot;transfer fees.&quot;</p><p>These mean nothing to the end user, but since you don&#x27;t know what they mean, it&#x27;s hard to dispute them.</p><h2>What&#x27;s So Bad About Jargon?</h2><p>Before we get into it, I should point out that I am often guilty of using jargon myself.</p><p>I work in the tech industry, which has just as many acronyms and terms as any other. I like to read and learn about things like mental models, and I often use those terms in conversation as if the other person should know what I&#x27;m talking about. But I&#x27;m trying to get better.</p><p>With that said, I think we should all be campaigning to reduce jargon in our work and personal lives. Here&#x27;s why.</p><p><strong>Jargon obscures clarity</strong>: When we use a big, fancy word, or an acronym, we like to think we&#x27;re being clear. A word like &quot;feasibility&quot; must have a specific meaning, right?</p><p>Not quite. Words ending in -ility are a tell, but it&#x27;s not always so obvious. Politicians use words and phrases full of jargon all the time. They sound good when we hear them, but they mean nothing.</p><p>When we hear these words and phrases, we nod along and think &quot;mmhmm.&quot; When we think about them later, we realize we don&#x27;t know what they mean. Or worse yet, we spend time doing something believing we know what they mean, when the other person thought something much different.</p><p><strong>Jargon makes others feel inferior</strong>: When someone says something with confidence, but we don&#x27;t understand a word or a phrase, we feel bad. We are made to feel as though we should know what it means, and then we don&#x27;t ask for clarification for fear of looking stupid.</p><p>This is why jargon is used as an advantage in situations like negotiations and sales; it creates the illusion that one side knows less than the other person.</p><p>While it can be an advantage there, it creates a big communication barrier.</p><p>If one side is scared to sound dumb by asking questions or probing further, they won&#x27;t say anything.</p><p>In an organization or a team, this is a huge handicap. Almost immediately, communication efficiency takes a big hit. This causes inefficiencies in future work, project delays, and miscommunications which compound if not resolved.</p><p>I see it often within the same company but between different teams. Every domain has their jargon, but if they don&#x27;t work to remove it when interfacing with others, it causes big problems.</p><h2>So Where Should Jargon Be Used?</h2><p>There are two situations where jargon should be used:</p><ol><li>When it conveys specific meaning for the person receiving.</li><li>When it is used to create a feeling of belonging.</li></ol><p><strong>Conveying specific meaning</strong>: The easiest example here is the medical profession.</p><p>They use complex words all the time. Using them with patients means nothing, which is why good doctors use plain language with patients.</p><p>But when they&#x27;re communicating with other doctors and medical professionals, they can use those complex words to be very precise and convey a lot of information in a short amount of time.</p><p>Being able to do so is often critical in emergency care, or when precision is needed.</p><p><strong>Creating belonging</strong>: Daniel Coyle touches on this topic in <a href="/book-notes/the-culture-code-by-daniel-coyle"><em>The Culture Code</em></a>:</p><p>&quot;When you look at successful groups, a lot of their internal language features catchphrases that often sound obvious, rah-rah, or corny. Many of us instinctively dismiss them as cultish jargon. But this is a mistake. Their occasionally cheesy obviousness is not a bug—it’s a feature. Their clarity, grating to the outsider’s ear, is precisely what helps them function.&quot;</p><p>These catchphrases read like a motto, or a slogan, and often don&#x27;t mean much to outsiders, but convey a specific meaning for the group. Some examples Coyle gives:</p><ul><li>&quot;Pound the rock&quot;—San Antonio Spurs</li><li>&quot;Create raves for guests&quot;—Danny Meyer&#x27;s restaurants</li></ul><p>These are used deliberately within groups to create a sense of belonging. The same mechanism that makes others feel &quot;outside the group&quot; when they don&#x27;t understand can be used to help your group feel like they&#x27;re in on something unique and special.</p><p>The key here is that <em>everyonein your group</em> is included. If you have specific language at your company, for example, new employees should be trained on it when they join.</p><h2>Start the Campaign Against Jargon</h2><p>So, if you see jargon being used where it shouldn&#x27;t, speak out!</p><p>One of the benefits of understanding a wide range of acronyms and terms and other jargon is that you start to realize how annoying it is for others when they don&#x27;t understand.</p><p>But it often takes that level of understanding to build the confidence to speak out against it.</p><p>Next time you see someone using jargon in a context where it doesn&#x27;t need to be, question it. Ask for clarification, or details, or for the person to avoid using it, and explain why.</p><p>Go out of your way to explain jargon to people when you notice they don&#x27;t understand, and encourage them to speak up.</p><p>If you don&#x27;t campaign against it, it will creep in everywhere.</p><p>As Daniel Kahneman said in <a href="/book-notes/thinking-fast-and-slow-daniel-kahneman"><em>Thinking, Fast and Slow</em></a>: &quot;If you care about being thought credible and intelligent, do not use complex language where simpler language will do.&quot;</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[10 Things I've Learned About Remote Work]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2021 17:03:04 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Ten hard-won lessons about remote work from years of experience—covering communication, productivity, work-life boundaries, and building meaningful connections with distributed teams.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Poor internet ruins everything</strong>: There really is no getting past this. If someone has poor internet, they can&#x27;t contribute to the meeting, period. It&#x27;s too disruptive. The pixelated image, the audio clipping in and out—it ruins the meeting and is a waste of time for everyone.</p><p><strong>Working too much, not too little, is the worry</strong>: Having your office at home is convenient. No more morning commutes, dress code is...flexible, and the kitchen is steps away. But it makes it hard to truly step away. The evening commute is an opportunity to decompress that goes away when you&#x27;re home. And you can always jump back on the computer. Working too much is a much bigger worry than working too little.</p><p><strong>Lighting, audio, and eye contact compound in groups</strong>: Poor lighting in a 1-on-1 meeting is noticeable, but not a huge deal. Poor lighting, or the opposite—great lighting—makes a big difference in large calls. The same is true of audio quality and camera positioning, which is the biggest contributor to eye contact.</p><p><strong>Your Bluetooth earphones are causing that buzz:</strong> Bluetooth earphones and headphones—particularly noise-cancelling ones—often give off the high-pitched hum that drives people nuts. Check with a friend on each different platform before using them, or use wired headphones.</p><p><strong>Zoom fatigue is real</strong>: meetings on Zoom are more mentally exhausting than those in person. I suspect the variation of in-person meetings—whiteboarding work sessions and being able to tune out in some—makes them less taxing. On Zoom, there is an expectation that you&#x27;re staring at the screen non-stop. You&#x27;re often also attempting to read some small type in a presentation or screen share, which is exhausting.</p><p><strong>Companies should invest more in home work setups</strong>: A standing desk, a large monitor, good lighting, a well-positioned webcam, and great internet are critical for optimal productivity. Companies should invest accordingly.</p><p><strong>Writing skill becomes much more important</strong>: More asynchronous communication is a natural by-product of remote work. Writing becomes much more important as a result. Poor word choice, tone, and lack of clarity cause far more problems when there aren&#x27;t other feedback mechanisms. Written communication is becoming a much more important skill.</p><p><strong>It&#x27;s hard to shake non-remote habits</strong>: When the switch to remote work happened, there were some growing pains and adaptation. New tools were introduced and <a href="https://miro.com/">tools like Miro</a> became more important. But for the most part, the innovation stopped there. <a href="https://ma.tt/2020/04/five-levels-of-autonomy/">Matt Mullenweg&#x27;s framework for distributed work</a> is useful here: most companies have stagnated at Level 2.</p><p><strong>Relationships are more transactional</strong>: In a normal work environment, there are all kinds of social interactions and cues that say &quot;I like you, I&#x27;m interested in you, I care about you.&quot; In remote work, those happen far less often. Coffee chats can be scheduled and social events can be planned, but it&#x27;s hard to integrate those cues. Most interactions happen when someone wants or needs something from the other person. As a result, relationships feel far more transactional.</p><p><strong>Morning routines matter more</strong>: The natural increase in screen and working time means that the end of the work day tends to slip. What that means is that your morning routine grows in importance. If you want to get a workout in, you&#x27;d better prioritize it. If you want to read, start your day with that. If you need to get some focused work time in, carve out time in your schedule. The beginning of the day seems to take on some extra importance when you&#x27;re working from home. It sets the tone for the day, and the trip to the office no longer serves as a reset.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Super Pumped: The Battle for Uber by Mike Isaac: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/super-pumped-the-battle-for-uber-mike-isaac</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2021 21:42:22 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A great story and tale of caution about how to run a company. It reads more like a journalist's account, rather than a non-fiction book with lessons.On one hand, do you want to be the kind of founder who is paranoid, parties hard, and walks the line, often going over?But on the other, would Uber be the giant company it is today without the arrogance and ambition of it's founder?]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>At the end of the week, Uber’s finance team added it all up. The entire “X to the x” celebration cost Uber more than $25 million in cash—more than twice the amount of Uber’s Series A round of venture capital funding.</li><li>Behind the scenes, Uber was hardly innocent. Recruiting ex-CIA, NSA, and FBI employees, the company had amassed a high-functioning corporate espionage force. Uber security personnel spied on government officials, looked deep into their digital lives, and at times followed them to their houses.</li><li>Throughout his career Gurley had been enamored with what he called “marketplaces,” a category of business that neither made new products nor sold others, but merely matched the desires of one side of a market with the products of the other side, and took a cut as the middleman.</li><li>Even during recruiting, prospective employees were treated poorly. The company had designed an algorithm that determined the lowest possible salary a candidate might accept before making an offer to them, a ruthlessly efficient technique that saved Uber millions of dollars in equity grants.</li><li>The hardest part of a VC’s job isn’t even necessarily about finding the right company, the right idea, or even the right industry to park their next investment. It is about finding the right person to run the company: the founder.</li><li>“Super pumpedness is all about moving the team forward, working long hours—pretty much a do-whatever-it-takes attitude to move the company in the right direction,”</li><li>What England didn’t know was that Uber’s general managers, engineers, and security professionals had developed a sophisticated system, perfected over months, designed to help every city strike team—including the one in Portland—identify would-be regulators, surveil them, and secretly prohibit them from ordering and catching Ubers by deploying a line of code in the app. The effect: Uber’s drivers would evade capture as they carried out their duties. Officers like England could not “see” the shady activity, and could never prove it was happening.</li><li>But as one Uber employee competing with Lyft at the time said, “The law isn’t what is written. It’s what is enforced.”</li><li>“There are forces all around you when you run a company, ready to take you out,” Kalanick said. “The [CEOs] that survive are the ones that are supposed to be there.”</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Make Mistakes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2021 18:10:13 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[We all make mistakes—but how we deal with them has a dramatic impact on our lives. Learn the mindset shift that transforms errors from setbacks into stepping stones for growth.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Making mistakes sucks.</p><p>It happens to all of us. We make a mistake and we think about how it could have been prevented. We think about who will be disappointed, and the consequences.</p><p>We feel shame, disappointed with ourselves, angry, and then sorry for ourselves. Repeatedly.</p><p>The thing is, mistakes are unavoidable. We&#x27;re all going to make them. And they will be even more frequent when we try to do hard things, or important things, or new things.</p><p>Making mistakes well is how we learn and how we improve.</p><blockquote>&quot;...you’ve got one chance here to do amazing things, and being afraid of being wrong or making a mistake or fumbling is just not how you do something of impact.&quot;—Adam Gazzaley in <a href="/book-notes/tools-of-titans-tim-ferriss"><em>Tools of Titans</em> by Tim Ferriss</a></blockquote><h2>Why Do Mistakes Suck So Much?</h2><p>For those of us who grew up in the West—in North America in particular—we learn from a young age that making mistakes has a cost.</p><p>If you did well in school—like many high performers—you learned that there was a cost for being too eager to learn or making mistakes.</p><p>Offer answers, participate, and show your desire to learn, and you&#x27;d be ridiculed by classmates.</p><p>Offer an answer and <em>be wrong</em>, and you&#x27;d be ridiculed even more, as the &quot;smart kid&quot; who messed up.</p><p>You see top performers become quieter and participate less as they move through school. They learn it&#x27;s better just to do the work than risk ridicule.</p><p>Ray Dalio speaks about the dangers of this in <a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio"><em>Principles</em></a>:</p><blockquote><em>I believe that our society&#x27;s “mistakephobia&quot; is crippling, a problem that begins in most elementary schools, where we learn to learn what we are taught rather than to form our own goals and to figure out how to achieve them. We are fed with facts and tested and those who make the fewest mistakes are considered to be the smart ones, so we learn that it is embarrassing to not know and to make mistakes.</em></blockquote><p>As he mentions, we learn to avoid mistakes during schooling, and it costs us when we move into the real world:</p><blockquote><em>Good school learners are often bad mistake-based learners because they are bothered by their mistakes. I particularly see this problem in recent graduates from the best colleges, who frequently shy away from exploring their own weaknesses.</em></blockquote><p>We learn in school that making mistakes is embarrassing, and so we avoid them at all costs.</p><p>This continues in society, at least in North America, as Carol Tavris points out in <a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me):</em></a></p><blockquote><em>America is a mistake-phobic culture, one that links mistakes with incompetence and stupidity. So even when people are aware of having made a mistake, they are often reluctant to admit it, even to themselves, because they take it as evidence that they are a blithering idiot.</em></blockquote><p>So our schooling and our society teach us that mistakes are bad and embarrassing, and that we will get made fun of for them. They teach us to hide mistakes or avoid making them in the first place.</p><p>Why is that bad?</p><h2>Why Avoiding Mistakes is Bad</h2><p>Mistakes happen, no matter what.</p><p>Avoiding them is bad for a number of reasons: we learn slower, we get misled, we fail to see reality, and if we are successful at avoiding all mistakes, we don&#x27;t learn.</p><p>Ray Dalio says as much, again in <a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio"><em>Principles</em></a>:</p><blockquote><em>I met a number of great people and learned that none of them were born great—they all made lots of mistakes and had lots weaknesses—and that great people become great by looking at their mistakes and weaknesses and figuring out how to get around them.</em></blockquote><blockquote>‍<em>In short, I learned that being totally truthful, especially about mistakes and weaknesses, led to a rapid rate of improvement and movement toward what I wanted.</em></blockquote><p>Our unwillingness to make mistakes, or to acknowledge them when they happen, hinders our ability to learn, and therefore our ability to be successful.</p><blockquote>&quot;<strong>...intelligent people who are open to recognizing and learning from their weaknesses substantially outperform people with the same abilities who aren’t similarly open.</strong>&quot;—Ray Dalio, <a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio"><em>Principles</em></a></blockquote><h2>How Our Brains Make the Problem Worse</h2><p>School and society teaches us that making mistakes is bad. So we avoid them.</p><p>But it turns out our own brains are already wired to make acknowledging mistakes difficult.</p><p>The culprit is <em>cognitive dissonance</em>:</p><blockquote><em>Cognitive dissonance is a state of tension that occurs whenever a person holds two cognitions (ideas, attitudes, beliefs, opinions) that are psychologically inconsistent.</em></blockquote><blockquote><em>Dissonance reduction operates like a thermostat, keeping our self-esteem bubbling along on high. That is why we are usually oblivious to the self-justifications, the little lies to ourselves that prevent us from even acknowledging that we made mistakes or foolish decisions.</em>—Carol Tavris, <a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me)</em></a></blockquote><p>We see people that make mistakes as failures, but we don&#x27;t see ourselves as failures, so our mind infers that we can&#x27;t make mistakes.</p><p>Even if we acknowledge that a mistake was made, cognitive dissonance seeks to prevent us from acknowledging our role: &quot;That wasn&#x27;t my fault&quot; or &quot;This was caused by X, Y and Z, and they couldn&#x27;t have been predicted.&quot;</p><p>We see it with forecasting all the time. A prediction is made, it turns out to be wrong, and the predictor says &quot;Well of course, factor X and Y couldn&#x27;t have been known ahead of time.&quot;</p><p>Of course! But they still made the prediction and got it wrong. Their cognitive dissonance is just telling them it&#x27;s not their fault.</p><p>Our brains are hard-wired to protect us, and unfortunately, that often means failing to acknowledge when we make mistakes, or failing to acknowledge our share of the blame.</p><blockquote>&quot;False memories allow us to forgive ourselves and justify our mistakes, but sometimes at a high price: an inability to take responsibility for our lives.&quot;—<a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me)</em></a></blockquote><h2>How to Make Mistakes Well</h2><p>To make mistakes well, we need to do two things: own up and learn.</p><p>The first step is admitting we&#x27;ve made a mistake.</p><p><a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio">Ray Dalio</a> again makes this clear:</p><blockquote><em>People often <strong>worry more about appearing to not have problems</strong> than about achieving their desired results, and therefore <strong>avoid recognizing that their own mistakes and/or weaknesses</strong> are causing the problems.</em></blockquote><blockquote><strong><em>More than anything else, what differentiates people who live up to their potential from those who don’t is a willingness to look at themselves and others objectively.</em></strong></blockquote><p>If we can&#x27;t recognize that we made a mistake, we can&#x27;t own up and learn.</p><p>Recognizing we made a mistake and owning up are two parts of the same process.</p><p>If we&#x27;ve made a mistake, usually someone will tell us, or we&#x27;ll notice someone is angry or upset. These are cues that we&#x27;ve done something wrong.</p><p>Once you&#x27;ve notice these cues, the best mental trick I&#x27;ve found for owning up is <a href="/blog/extreme-ownership-and-taking-responsibility"><strong>Extreme Ownership</strong></a> (from <a href="/book-notes/extreme-ownership-jocko-willink-leif-babin">the book of the same name</a>).</p><p>Extreme Ownership is a leadership philosophy publicized by former Navy SEAL Jocko Willink that says this: <strong>if you were involved, as a leader, you are responsible.</strong></p><blockquote><em>Leaders must own everything in their world. There is no one else to blame.</em></blockquote><blockquote><em>If someone isn’t doing what you want or need them to do, look in the mirror first and determine what you can do to better enable this.</em></blockquote><p>That&#x27;s it.</p><p>It&#x27;s a shortcut for your brain. If something goes wrong and a mistake gets made, instead of thinking about assigning blame, you skip that step and take responsibility. &quot;I own this.&quot;</p><p>The reason this works is that it&#x27;s an absolute rule. <strong>If you were involved <em>at all</em>, you are responsible.</strong></p><p>You skip the blaming part, and go straight to the solution.</p><p>Instead of asking &quot;who is to blame?&quot; you go straight to &quot;what can we do to prevent this from happening again?&quot; and &quot;what can we do better?&quot;</p><p>There is another important part of making a mistake well: dealing with those affected by the mistake.</p><p>When you make mistakes, the other people involved will expect a reaction from you.</p><p>The strategy I like here comes from <a href="/book-notes/it-doesnt-have-to-be-crazy-at-work-david-heinemeier-hansson-jason-fried"><em>It Doesn&#x27;t Have to Be Crazy at Work</em></a>, and it comes via the former head of Apple France, Jean-Louis Gasée:</p><blockquote><em>When you deal with people who have trouble, you can either choose to take the token that says &quot;It’s no big deal&quot; or the token that says &quot;It’s the end of the world.&quot; Whichever token you pick, they’ll take the other.</em></blockquote><p>So, when you make a mistake:</p><ul><li>Assume responsibility, regardless of how much you are to blame. If you were involved, take &quot;Extreme Ownership.&quot;</li><li>Assume the person on the other side sees it as the end of the world. Act accordingly, and do whatever is needed to make it right. Often, they&#x27;ll tell you it&#x27;s no big deal as a result.</li></ul><p>The final step, once the situation is remedied, is to stand back and judge the situation objectively. At this point, you can ask &quot;How much was I to blame?&quot;</p><p>Because you&#x27;ve already accepted responsibility, and done what&#x27;s required to fix the situation, you have a clearer view.</p><p>At this point, it&#x27;s probably a good idea to revisit some general principles that may apply, things like:</p><ul><li>How you make decisions, and what decisions led to the mistake,</li><li>What processes or automations you can put in place to avoid the situation (without adding extra burden)</li><li>And how you can make avoiding the mistake easier next time.</li></ul><h2>Make Mistakes Well, and Your Life Will Change</h2><p>Humans are wired to avoid acknowledging mistakes.</p><p>To get past it we need to:</p><ul><li>Embrace making mistakes as inevitable, and ignore society&#x27;s distaste for them,</li><li>Recognize our own cognitive dissonance and tendency to avoid admitting mistakes,</li><li>Assume &quot;Extreme Ownership&quot; whenever a mistake is made,</li><li>Overreact to correct things for the other party,</li><li>And then assess reality as objectively as possible, learn, and improve.</li></ul><p>Annie Duke, former pro poker player and expert on decision-making, said it well: </p><blockquote>‍<strong>&quot;Be grateful for being wrong. You get to learn.&quot;</strong></blockquote><p>High performers early in life often are bad at making mistakes.</p><p>But mistakes are critical for learning and improving.</p><p>Make mistakes well, and your learning will accelerate past those around you.</p><p>Mistakes can compound your learning.</p><p>Take advantage of it.</p><h2>Further Reading</h2><ul><li><a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio">Principles by Ray Dalio</a></li><li><a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson">Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me) by Carol Tavris &amp; Elliot Aronson</a></li><li><a href="/book-notes/extreme-ownership-jocko-willink-leif-babin">Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink &amp; Leif Babin</a></li><li><a href="/book-notes/it-doesnt-have-to-be-crazy-at-work-david-heinemeier-hansson-jason-fried">It Doesn&#x27;t Have to Be Crazy at Work by David Heinemeier Hansson &amp; Jason Fried</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[An outstanding book on the history of humans, including cultures, religion, and economic development.It took me a couple reads to fully appreciate, but it's guaranteed to elevate your level of understanding of the modern world, and of humans. Highly recommend.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Part One - The Cognitive Revolution</h5><h5>1 - An Animal of No Significance</h5><p>Three important revolutions shaped the course of history: the Cognitive Revolution kick-started history about 70,000 years ago. The Agricultural Revolution sped it up about 12,000 years ago. The Scientific Revolution, which got under way only 500 years ago, may well end history and start something completely different. This book tells the story of how these three revolutions have affected humans and their fellow organisms.</p><h5>2 - The Tree of Knowledge</h5><p>Our language evolved as a way of gossiping. According to this theory <em>Homo sapiens</em> is primarily a social animal.</p><p>Most people can neither intimately know, nor gossip effectively about, more than 150 human beings. Even today, a critical threshold in human organisations falls somewhere around this magic number. Below this threshold, communities, businesses, social networks and military units can maintain themselves based mainly on intimate acquaintance and rumour-mongering. There is no need for formal ranks, titles and law books to keep order.</p><p>Peugeot is a figment of our collective imagination. Lawyers call this a ‘legal fiction’. It can’t be pointed at; it is not a physical object. But it exists as a legal entity. Just like you or me, it is bound by the laws of the countries in which it operates. It can open a bank account and own property.</p><p>Peugeot belongs to a particular genre of legal fictions called ‘limited liability companies’. The idea behind such companies is among humanity’s most ingenious inventions.</p><p>Unlike lying, an imagined reality is something that everyone believes in, and as long as this communal belief persists, the imagined reality exerts force in the world.</p><p>Ever since the Cognitive Revolution, Sapiens has thus been living in a dual reality.</p><p>On the one hand, the objective reality of rivers, trees and lions; and on the other hand, the imagined reality of gods, nations and corporations.</p><p>In other words, while the behaviour patterns of archaic humans remained fixed for tens of thousands of years, Sapiens could transform their social structures, the nature of their interpersonal relations, their economic activities and a host of other behaviours within a decade or two.</p><p>The immense diversity of imagined realities that Sapiens invented, and the resulting diversity of behaviour patterns, are the main components of what we call ‘cultures’.</p><h5>3 - A Day in the Life of Adam and Eve</h5><p>Ever since the Cognitive Revolution, there hasn’t been a single natural way of life for Sapiens. There are only cultural choices, from among a bewildering palette of possibilities.</p><p>While people in today’s affluent societies work an average of forty to forty-five hours a week, and people in the developing world work sixty and even eighty hours a week, hunter-gatherers living today in the most inhospitable of habitats – such as the Kalahari Desert work on average for just thirty-five to forty-five hours a week.</p><p>The foragers’ secret of success, which protected them from starvation and malnutrition, was their varied diet. Farmers tend to eat a very limited and unbalanced diet.</p><h5>4 - The Flood</h5><p>If we combine the mass extinctions in Australia and America, and add the smaller-scale extinctions that took place as <em>Homo sapiens</em> spread over Afro-Asia – such as the extinction of all other human species – and the extinctions that occurred when ancient foragers settled remote islands such as Cuba, the inevitable conclusion is that the first wave of Sapiens colonisation was one of the biggest and swiftest ecological disasters to befall the animal kingdom.</p><p>Perhaps if more people were aware of the First Wave and Second Wave extinctions, they’d be less nonchalant about the Third Wave they are part of. If we knew how many species we’ve already eradicated, we might be more motivated to protect those that still survive. This is especially relevant to the large animals of the oceans. Unlike their terrestrial counterparts, the large sea animals suffered relatively little from the Cognitive and Agricultural Revolutions. But many of them are on the brink of extinction now as a result of industrial pollution and human overuse of oceanic resources. If things continue at the present pace, it is likely that whales, sharks, tuna and dolphins will follow the diprotodons, ground sloths and mammoths to oblivion.</p><h5>Part Two - The Agricultural Revolution</h5><h5>5 - History’s Biggest Fraud</h5><p>Even today, with all our advanced technologies, more than 90 per cent of the calories that feed humanity come from the handful of plants that our ancestors domesticated between 9500 and 3500 BC – wheat, rice, maize (called ‘corn’ in the US), potatoes, millet and barley. No noteworthy plant or animal has been domesticated in the last 2,000 years. If our minds are those of hunter-gatherers, our cuisine is that of ancient farmers.</p><p>Scholars once proclaimed that the agricultural revolution was a great leap forward for humanity. They told a tale of progress fuelled by human brain power. Evolution gradually produced ever more intelligent people. Eventually, people were so smart that they were able to decipher nature’s secrets, enabling them to tame sheep and cultivate wheat. As soon as this happened, they cheerfully abandoned the gruelling, dangerous, and often spartan life of hunter-gatherers, settling down to enjoy the pleasant, satiated life of farmers.</p><p>That tale is a fantasy. There is no evidence that people became more intelligent with time. Foragers knew the secrets of nature long before the Agricultural Revolution, since their survival depended on an intimate knowledge of the animals they hunted and the plants they gathered. Rather than heralding a new era of easy living, the Agricultural Revolution left farmers with lives generally more difficult and less satisfying than those of foragers. Hunter-gatherers spent their time in more stimulating and varied ways, and were less in danger of starvation and disease. The Agricultural Revolution certainly enlarged the sum total of food at the disposal of humankind, but the extra food did not translate into a better diet or more leisure. Rather, it translated into population explosions and pampered elites. The average farmer worked harder than the average forager, and got a worse diet in return. The Agricultural Revolution was history’s biggest fraud.</p><p>The body of <em>Homo sapiens</em> had not evolved for such tasks. It was adapted to climbing apple trees and running after gazelles, not to clearing rocks and carrying water buckets. Human spines, knees, necks and arches paid the price. Studies of ancient skeletons indicate that the transition to agriculture brought about a plethora of ailments, such as slipped discs, arthritis and hernias.</p><p>Remember, humans are omnivorous apes who thrive on a wide variety of foods. Grains made up only a small fraction of the human diet before the Agricultural Revolution. A diet based on cereals is poor in minerals and vitamins, hard to digest, and really bad for your teeth and gums.</p><p><strong>The Luxury Trap</strong></p><p>Why did people make such a fateful miscalculation? For the same reason that people throughout history have miscalculated. People were unable to fathom the full consequences of their decisions. Whenever they decided to do a bit of extra work – say, to hoe the fields instead of scattering seeds on the surface – people thought, ‘Yes, we will have to work harder. But the harvest will be so bountiful! We won’t have to worry any more about lean years. Our children will never go to sleep hungry.’ It made sense. If you worked harder, you would have a better life. That was the plan.</p><p>The first part of the plan went smoothly. People indeed worked harder. But people did not foresee that the number of children would increase, meaning that the extra wheat would have to be shared between more children. Neither did the early farmers understand that feeding children with more porridge and less breast milk would weaken their immune system, and that permanent settlements would be hotbeds for infectious diseases. They did not foresee that by increasing their dependence on a single source of food, they were actually exposing themselves even more to the depredations of drought. Nor did the farmers foresee that in good years their bulging granaries would tempt thieves and enemies, compelling them to start building walls and doing guard duty.</p><p>Then why didn’t humans abandon farming when the plan backfired? Partly because it took generations for the small changes to accumulate and transform society and, by then, nobody remembered that they had ever lived differently. And partly because population growth burned humanity’s boats. If the adoption of ploughing increased a village’s population from a hundred to no, which ten people would have volunteered to starve so that the others could go back to the good old times? There was no going back. The trap snapped shut.</p><p>The pursuit of an easier life resulted in much hardship, and not for the last time. It happens to us today. How many young college graduates have taken demanding jobs in high-powered firms, vowing that they will work hard to earn money that will enable them to retire and pursue their real interests when they are thirty-five? But by the time they reach that age, they have large mortgages, children to school, houses in the suburbs that necessitate at least two cars per family, and a sense that life is not worth living without really good wine and expensive holidays abroad. What are they supposed to do, go back to digging up roots? No, they double their efforts and keep slaving away.</p><p>One of history’s few iron laws is that luxuries tend to become necessities and to spawn new obligations. Once people get used to a certain luxury, they take it for granted. Then they begin to count on it. Finally they reach a point where they can’t live without it. Let’s take another familiar example from our own time. Over the last few decades, we have invented countless time-saving devices that are supposed to make life more relaxed – washing machines, vacuum cleaners, dishwashers, telephones, mobile phones, computers, email. Previously it took a lot of work to write a letter, address and stamp an envelope, and take it to the mailbox. It took days or weeks, maybe even months, to get a reply. Nowadays I can dash off an email, send it halfway around the globe, and (if my addressee is online) receive a reply a minute later. I’ve saved all that trouble and time, but do I live a more relaxed life?</p><p>Sadly not. Back in the snail-mail era, people usually only wrote letters when they had something important to relate. Rather than writing the first thing that came into their heads, they considered carefully what they wanted to say and how to phrase it. They expected to receive a similarly considered answer. Most people wrote and received no more than a handful of letters a month and seldom felt compelled to reply immediately. Today I receive dozens of emails each day, all from people who expect a prompt reply. We thought we were saving time; instead we revved up the treadmill of life to ten times its former speed and made our days more anxious and agitated.</p><p>The story of the luxury trap carries with it an important lesson. Humanity’s search for an easier life released immense forces of change that transformed the world in ways nobody envisioned or wanted. Nobody plotted the Agricultural Revolution or sought human dependence on cereal cultivation. A series of trivial decisions aimed mostly at filling a few stomachs and gaining a little security had the cumulative effect of forcing ancient foragers to spend their days carrying water buckets under a scorching sun.</p><p><strong>Victims of the Revolution</strong></p><p>From a narrow evolutionary perspective, which measures success by the number of DNA copies, the Agricultural Revolution was a wonderful boon for chickens, cattle, pigs and sheep.</p><p>Unfortunately, the evolutionary perspective is an incomplete measure of success. It judges everything by the criteria of survival and reproduction, with no regard for individual suffering and happiness. Domesticated chickens and cattle may well be an evolutionary success story, but they are also among the most miserable creatures that ever lived.</p><p>This discrepancy between evolutionary success and individual suffering is perhaps the most important lesson we can draw from the Agricultural Revolution.</p><h5>6 - Building Pyramids</h5><p>History is something that very few people have been doing while everyone else was ploughing fields and carrying water buckets.</p><p>Most human cooperation networks have been geared towards oppression and exploitation.</p><p><strong>True Believers</strong></p><p>Voltaire said about God that ‘there is no God, but don’t tell that to my servant, lest he murder me at night’.</p><p>This is why cynics don’t build empires and why an imagined order can be maintained only if large segments of the population – and in particular large segments of the elite and the security forces – truly believe in it. Christianity would not have lasted 2,000 years if the majority of bishops and priests failed to believe in Christ. American democracy would not have lasted 250 years if the majority of presidents and congressmen failed to believe in human rights. The modern economic system would not have lasted a single day if the majority of investors and bankers failed to believe in capitalism.</p><p><strong>The Prison Walls</strong></p><p>How do you convince people to believe in an imagined order such as Christianity, democracy or capitalism? First, you never admit that the order is imagined. You always insist that the order sustaining society is an objective reality created by the great gods or by the laws of nature.</p><p>You also educate people thoroughly. From the moment they are born, you constantly remind them of the principles of the imagined order, which are incorporated into anything and everything. They are incorporated into fairy tales, dramas, paintings, songs, etiquette, political propaganda, architecture, recipes and fashions.</p><p>Romanticism tells us that in order to make the most of our human potential we must have as many different experiences as we can. We must open ourselves to a wide spectrum of emotions; we must sample various kinds of relationships; we must try different cuisines; we must learn to appreciate different styles of music. One of the best ways to do all that is to break free from our daily routine, leave behind our familiar setting, and go travelling in distant lands, where we can ‘experience’ the culture, the smells, the tastes and the norms of other people. We hear again and again the romantic myths about ‘how a new experience opened my eyes and changed my life’.</p><p>Consumerism tells us that in order to be happy we must consume as many products and services as possible. If we feel that something is missing or not quite right, then we probably need to buy a product (a car, new clothes, organic food) or a service (housekeeping, relationship therapy, yoga classes). Every television commercial is another little legend about how consuming some product or service will make life better.</p><h5>7 - Memory Overload</h5><p>Because the Sapiens social order is imagined, humans cannot preserve the critical information for running it simply by making copies of their DNA and passing these on to their progeny. A conscious effort has to be made to sustain laws, customs, procedures and manners, otherwise the social order would quickly collapse.</p><h5>8 - There is No Justice in History</h5><p>Different societies adopt different kinds of imagined hierarchies. Race is very important to modern Americans but was relatively insignificant to medieval Muslims. Caste was a matter of life and death in medieval India, whereas in modern Europe it is practically non-existent. One hierarchy, however, has been of supreme importance in all known human societies: the hierarchy of gender. People everywhere have divided themselves into men and women. And almost everywhere men have got the better deal, at least since the Agricultural Revolution.</p><p>A significant number of human cultures have viewed homosexual relations as not only legitimate but even socially constructive, ancient Greece being the most notable example. The <em>Iliad</em> does not mention that Thetis had any objection to her son Achilles’ relations with Patroclus. Queen Olympias of Macedon was one of the most temperamental and forceful women of the ancient world, and even had her own husband, King Philip, assassinated. Yet she didn’t have a fit when her son, Alexander the Great, brought his lover Hephaestion home for dinner.</p><p>How can we distinguish what is biologically determined from what people merely try to justify through biological myths? A good rule of thumb is ‘Biology enables, Culture forbids.’ Biology is willing to tolerate a very wide spectrum of possibilities. It’s culture that obliges people to realise some possibilities while forbidding others.</p><p>Culture tends to argue that it forbids only that which is unnatural. But from a biological perspective, nothing is unnatural. Whatever is possible is by definition also natural. A truly unnatural behaviour, one that goes against the laws of nature, simply cannot exist, so it would need no prohibition.</p><h5>Part Three - The Unification of Humankind</h5><h5>9 - The Arrow of History</h5><p>Every culture has its typical beliefs, norms and values, but these are in constant flux. The culture may transform itself in response to changes in its environment or through interaction with neighbouring cultures. But cultures also undergo transitions due to their own internal dynamics. Even a completely isolated culture existing in an ecologically stable environment cannot avoid change. Unlike the laws of physics, which are free of inconsistencies, every man-made order is packed with internal contradictions. Cultures are constantly trying to reconcile these contradictions, and this process fuels change.</p><p>If tensions, conflicts and irresolvable dilemmas are the spice of every culture, a human being who belongs to any particular culture must hold contradictory beliefs and be riven by incompatible values. It’s such an essential feature of any culture that it even has a name: cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is often considered a failure of the human psyche. In fact, it is a vital asset. Had people been unable to hold contradictory beliefs and values, it would probably have been impossible to establish and maintain any human culture.</p><p>Human cultures are in constant flux. Is this flux completely random, or does it have some overall pattern? In other words, does history have a direction? The answer is yes. Over the millennia, small, simple cultures gradually coalesce into bigger and more complex civilisations, so that the world contains fewer and fewer mega-cultures, each of which is bigger and more complex. This is of course a very crude generalisation, true only at the macro level. At the micro level, it seems that for every group of cultures that coalesces into a mega-culture, there’s a mega-culture that breaks up into pieces.</p><p>One of the most interesting examples of this globalisation is ‘ethnic’ cuisine. In an Italian restaurant we expect to find spaghetti in tomato sauce; in Polish and Irish restaurants lots of potatoes; in an Argentinian restaurant we can choose between dozens of kinds of beefsteaks; in an Indian restaurant hot chillies are incorporated into just about everything; and the highlight at any Swiss café is thick hot chocolate under an alp of whipped cream. But none of these foods is native to those nations.</p><p><strong>The Global Vision</strong></p><p>From a practical perspective, the most important stage in the process of global unification occurred in the last few centuries, when empires grew and trade intensified.</p><p>We begin with the story of the greatest conqueror in history, a conqueror possessed of extreme tolerance and adaptability, thereby turning people into ardent disciples. This conqueror is money. People who do not believe in the same god or obey the same king are more than willing to use the same money.</p><h5>10 - The Scent of Money</h5><p><strong>Shells and Cigarettes</strong></p><p>Money is not coins and banknotes. Money is anything that people are willing to use in order to represent systematically the value of other things for the purpose of exchanging goods and services.</p><p>Because money can convert, store and transport wealth easily and cheaply, it made a vital contribution to the appearance of complex commercial networks and dynamic markets. Without money, commercial networks and markets would have been doomed to remain very limited in their size, complexity and dynamism.</p><p><strong>The Gospel of Gold</strong></p><p>For thousands of years, philosophers, thinkers and prophets have besmirched money and called it the root of all evil. Be that as it may, money is also the apogee of human tolerance. Money is more open-minded than language, state laws, cultural codes, religious beliefs and social habits.</p><p>Money is the only trust system created by humans that can bridge almost any cultural gap, and that does not discriminate on the basis of religion, gender, race, age or sexual orientation.</p><p>Thanks to money, even people who don’t know each other and don’t trust each other can nevertheless cooperate effectively.</p><p><strong>The Price of Money</strong></p><p>Money is based on two universal principles:</p><p>a. Universal convertibility: with money as an alchemist, you can turn land into loyalty, justice into health, and violence into knowledge.</p><p>b. Universal trust: with money as a go-between, any two people can cooperate on any project.</p><h5>11 - Imperial Visions</h5><p><strong>Evil Empires?</strong></p><p>In our time, ‘imperialist’ ranks second only to ‘fascist’ in the lexicon of political swear words. The contemporary critique of empires commonly takes two forms:</p><ol><li>Empires do not work. In the long run, it is not possible to rule effectively over a large number of conquered peoples.</li><li>Even if it can be done, it should not be done, because empires are evil engines of destruction and exploitation. Every people has a right to self-determination, and should never be subject to the rule of another.</li></ol><p>From a historical perspective, the first statement is plain nonsense, and the second is deeply problematic.</p><p>The truth is that empire has been the world’s most common form of political organisation for the last 2,500 years. Most humans during these two and a half millennia have lived in empires. Empire is also a very stable form of government. Most empires have found it alarmingly easy to put down rebellions. In general, they have been toppled only by external invasion or by a split within the ruling elite. Conversely, conquered peoples don’t have a very good record of freeing themselves from their imperial overlords. Most have remained subjugated for hundreds of years. Typically, they have been slowly digested by the conquering empire, until their distinct cultures fizzled out.</p><p>This does not mean, however, that empires leave nothing of value in their wake. To colour all empires black and to disavow all imperial legacies is to reject most of human culture. Imperial elites used the profits of conquest to finance not only armies and forts but also philosophy, art, justice and charity. A significant proportion of humanity’s cultural achievements owe their existence to the exploitation of conquered populations.</p><p><strong>Good Guys and Bad Guys in History</strong></p><p>There are schools of thought and political movements that seek to purge human culture of imperialism, leaving behind what they claim is a pure, authentic civilisation, untainted by sin.</p><p>These ideologies are at best naïve; at worst they serve as disingenuous window-dressing for crude nationalism and bigotry.</p><p>Nobody really knows how to solve this thorny question of cultural inheritance. Whatever path we take, the first step is to acknowledge the complexity of the dilemma and to accept that simplistically dividing the past into good guys and bad guys leads nowhere. Unless, of course, we are willing to admit that we usually follow the lead of the bad guys.</p><h5>12 - The Law of Religion</h5><p>Today religion is often considered a source of discrimination, disagreement and disunion. Yet, in fact, religion has been the third great unifier of humankind, alongside money and empires. Since all social orders and hierarchies are imagined, they are all fragile, and the larger the society, the more fragile it is. The crucial historical role of religion has been to give superhuman legitimacy to these fragile structures.</p><p>Religions assert that our laws are not the result of human caprice, but are ordained by an absolute and supreme authority. This helps place at least some fundamental laws beyond challenge, thereby ensuring social stability.</p><p>Religion can thus be defined as <em>a system of human norms and values that is founded on a belief in a superhuman order</em>. This involves two distinct criteria:</p><ol><li>Religions hold that there is a superhuman order, which is not the product of human whims or agreements.</li><li>Based on this superhuman order, religion establishes norms and values that it considers binding. Many Westerners today believe in ghosts, fairies and reincarnation, but these beliefs are not a source of moral and behavioural standards. As such, they do not constitute a religion.</li></ol><p>Despite their ability to legitimise widespread social and political orders, not all religions have actuated this potential. In order to unite under its aegis a large expanse of territory inhabited by disparate groups of human beings, a religion must possess two further qualities. First, it must espouse a <em>universal</em> superhuman order that is true always and everywhere.</p><p>Second, it must insist on spreading this belief to everyone. In other words, it must be universal and missionary.</p><p><strong>God is One</strong></p><p>Monotheists have tended to be far more fanatical and missionary than polytheists. A religion that recognises the legitimacy of other faiths implies either that its god is not the supreme power of the universe, or that it received from God just part of the universal truth. Since monotheists have usually believed that they are in possession of the entire message of the one and only God, they have been compelled to discredit all other religions. Over the last two millennia, monotheists repeatedly tried to strengthen their hand by violently exterminating all competition.</p><p>So, monotheism explains order, but is mystified by evil. Dualism explains evil, but is puzzled by order. There is one logical way of solving the riddle: to argue that there is a single omnipotent God who created the entire universe – and He’s evil. But nobody in history has had the stomach for such a belief.</p><p>In fact, monotheism, as it has played out in history, is a kaleidoscope of monotheist, dualist, polytheist and animist legacies, jumbling together under a single divine umbrella. The average Christian believes in the monotheist God, but also in the dualist Devil, in polytheist saints, and in animist ghosts. Scholars of religion have a name for this simultaneous avowal of different and even contradictory ideas and the combination of rituals and practices taken from different sources. It’s called syncretism. Syncretism might, in fact, be the single great world religion.</p><p><strong>The Law of Nature</strong></p><p>All the religions we have discussed so far share one important characteristic: they all focus on a belief in gods and other supernatural entities.</p><p>During the first millennium BC, religions of an altogether new kind began to spread through Afro-Asia. The newcomers, such as Jainism and Buddhism in India, Daoism and Confucianism in China, and Stoicism, Cynicism and Epicureanism in the Mediterranean basin, were characterised by their disregard of gods.</p><p>Gautama grounded these meditation techniques in a set of ethical rules meant to make it easier for people to focus on actual experience and to avoid falling into cravings and fantasies. He instructed his followers to avoid killing, promiscuous sex and theft, since such acts necessarily stoke the fire of craving (for power, for sensual pleasure, or for wealth). When the flames are completely extinguished, craving is replaced by a state of perfect contentment and serenity, known as nirvana (the literal meaning of which is ‘extinguishing the fire’). Those who have attained nirvana are fully liberated from all suffering. They experience reality with the utmost clarity, free of fantasies and delusions. While they will most likely still encounter unpleasantness and pain, such experiences cause them no misery. A person who does not crave cannot suffer.</p><p>Buddha spent the rest of his life explaining his discoveries to others so that everyone could be freed from suffering. He encapsulated his teachings in a single law: suffering arises from craving; the only way to be fully liberated from suffering is to be fully liberated from craving; and the only way to be liberated from craving is to train the mind to experience reality as it is.</p><p>This law, known as <em>dharma or dhamma</em>, is seen by Buddhists as a universal law of nature.</p><p>The first principle of monotheist religions is ‘God exists. What does He want from me?’ The first principle of Buddhism is ‘Suffering exists. How do I escape it?’</p><p><strong>The Worship of Man</strong></p><p>The last 300 years are often depicted as an age of growing secularism, in which religions have increasingly lost their importance. If we are talking about theist religions, this is largely correct. But if we take into consideration natural-law religions, then modernity turns out to be an age of intense religious fervour, unparalleled missionary efforts, and the bloodiest wars of religion in history.</p><p>The modern age has witnessed the rise of a number of new natural-law religions, such as liberalism, Communism, capitalism, nationalism and Nazism. These creeds do not like to be called religions, and refer to themselves as ideologies. But this is just a semantic exercise. If a religion is a system of human norms and values that is founded on belief in a superhuman order, then Soviet Communism was no less a religion than Islam.</p><p>Religion is a system of human norms and values that is founded on belief in a superhuman order. The theory of relativity is not a religion, because (at least so far) there are no human norms and values that are founded on it.</p><p>Theist religions focus on the worship of gods. Humanist religions worship humanity, or more correctly, <em>Homo sapiens</em>. Humanism is a belief that <em>Homo sapiens</em> has a unique and sacred nature, which is fundamentally different from the nature of all other animals and of all other phenomena. Humanists believe that the unique nature of <em>Homo sapiens</em> is the most important thing in the world, and it determines the meaning of everything that happens in the universe. The supreme good is the good of <em>Homo sapiens</em>. The rest of the world and all other beings exist solely for the benefit of this species.</p><p>At the dawn of the third millennium, the future of evolutionary humanism is unclear. For sixty years after the end of the war against Hitler it was taboo to link humanism with evolution and to advocate using biological methods to upgrade’ Homo sapiens. But today such projects are back in vogue. No one speaks about exterminating lower races or inferior people, but many contemplate using our increasing knowledge of human biology to create superhumans.</p><p>At the same time, a huge gulf is opening between the tenets of liberal humanism and the latest findings of the life sciences, a gulf we cannot ignore much longer. Our liberal political and judicial systems are founded on the belief that every individual has a sacred inner nature, indivisible and immutable, which gives meaning to the world, and which is the source of all ethical and political authority. This is a reincarnation of the traditional Christian belief in a free and eternal soul that resides within each individual. Yet over the last 200 years, the life sciences have thoroughly undermined this belief. Scientists studying the inner workings of the human organism have found no soul there. They increasingly argue that human behaviour is determined by hormones, genes and synapses, rather than by free will – the same forces that determine the behaviour of chimpanzees, wolves, and ants.</p><h5>13 - The Secret of Success</h5><p>But saying that a global society is inevitable is not the same as saying that the end result had to be the particular kind of global society we now have. We can certainly imagine other outcomes.</p><p><strong>1. The Hindsight Fallacy</strong></p><p>This is one of the distinguishing marks of history as an academic discipline – the better you know a particular historical period, the harder it becomes to explain why things happened one way and not another.</p><p>It is an iron rule of history that what looks inevitable in hindsight was far from obvious at the time.</p><p><strong>2. Blind Clio</strong></p><p>We cannot explain the choices that history makes, but we can say something very important about them: history’s choices are not made for the benefit of humans. There is absolutely no proof that human well-being inevitably improves as history rolls along.</p><p>Ever more scholars see cultures as a kind of mental infection or parasite, with humans as its unwitting host.</p><p>This approach is sometimes called memetics. It assumes that, just as organic evolution is based on the replication of organic information units called ‘genes’, so cultural evolution is based on the replication of cultural information units called ‘memes’. Successful cultures are those that excel in reproducing their memes, irrespective of the costs and benefits to their human hosts.</p><h5>Part Four - The Scientific Revolution</h5><h5>14 - The Discovery of Ignorance</h5><p>Modern science differs from all previous traditions of knowledge in three critical ways:</p><p><strong>a. The willingness to admit ignorance</strong>. Modern science is based on the Latin injunction <em>ignoramus</em> – ‘we do not know’. It assumes that we don’t know everything. Even more critically, it accepts that the things that we think we know could be proven wrong as we gain more knowledge. No concept, idea or theory is sacred and beyond challenge.</p><p><strong>b. The centrality of observation and mathematics</strong>. Having admitted ignorance, modern science aims to obtain new knowledge. It does so by gathering observations and then using mathematical tools to connect these observations into comprehensive theories.</p><p><strong>c. The acquisition of new powers</strong>. Modern science is not content with creating theories. It uses these theories in order to acquire new powers, and in particular to develop new technologies.</p><p>The Scientific Revolution has not been a revolution of knowledge. It has been above all a revolution of ignorance. The great discovery that launched the Scientific Revolution was the discovery that humans do not know the answers to their most important questions.</p><p>Ancient traditions of knowledge admitted only two kinds of ignorance. First, an <em>individual</em> might be ignorant of something important. To obtain the necessary knowledge, all he needed to do was ask somebody wiser.</p><p>Second, an <em>entire tradition</em> might be ignorant of unimportant things. By definition, whatever the great gods or the wise people of the past did not bother to tell us was unimportant.</p><p>All modern attempts to stabilise the sociopolitical order have had no choice but to rely on either of two unscientific methods:</p><p>a. Take a scientific theory, and in opposition to common scientific practices, <em>declare that it is a final and absolute truth</em>. This was the method used by Nazis (who claimed that their racial policies were the corollaries of biological facts) and Communists (who claimed that Marx and Lenin had divined absolute economic truths that could never be refuted).</p><p>b. Leave science out of it and live in accordance with a <em>non-scientific absolute truth</em>. This has been the strategy of liberal humanism, which is built on a dogmatic belief in the unique worth and rights of human beings – a doctrine which has embarrassingly little in common with the scientific study of <em>Homo sapiens.</em></p><p><strong>Knowledge is Power</strong></p><p>In 1620 Francis Bacon published a scientific manifesto tided <em>The New Instrument</em>. In it he argued that ‘knowledge is power’. The real test of ‘knowledge’ is not whether it is true, but whether it empowers us. Scientists usually assume that no theory is 100 per cent correct. Consequently, truth is a poor test for knowledge. The real test is utility. A theory that enables us to do new things constitutes knowledge.</p><p><strong>The Sugar Daddy of Science</strong></p><p>To channel limited resources we must answer questions such as ‘What is more important?’ and ‘What is good?’ And these are not scientific questions. Science can explain what exists in the world, how things work, and what might be in the future. By definition, it has no pretensions to knowing what <em>should</em> be in the future. Only religions and ideologies seek to answer such questions.</p><p>In short, scientific research can flourish only in alliance with some religion or ideology. The ideology justifies the costs of the research. In exchange, the ideology influences the scientific agenda and determines what to do with the discoveries.</p><h5>15 - The Marriage of Science and Empire</h5><p><strong>Why Europe?</strong></p><p>What potential did Europe develop in the early modern period that enabled it to dominate the late modern world? There are two complementary answers to this question: modern science and capitalism.</p><h5>16 - The Capitalist Creed</h5><p><strong>A Growing Pie</strong></p><p>In 1776 the Scottish economist Adam Smith published <em>The Wealth of Nations</em>, probably the most important economics manifesto of all time.</p><p>In the new capitalist creed, the first and most sacred commandment is: ‘The profits of production must be reinvested in increasing production.’</p><p>That’s why capitalism is called ‘capitalism’. Capitalism distinguishes ‘capital’ from mere ‘wealth’. Capital consists of money, goods and resources that are invested in production. Wealth, on the other hand, is buried in the ground or wasted on unproductive activities.</p><p><strong>Columbus Searches for an Investor</strong></p><p>Capital trickles away from dictatorial states that fail to defend private individuals and their property. Instead, it flows into states upholding the rule of law and private property.</p><p><strong>The Capitalist Hell</strong></p><p>This is the fly in the ointment of free-market capitalism. It cannot ensure that profits are gained in a fair way, or distributed in a fair manner. On the contrary, the craving to increase profits and production blinds people to anything that might stand in the way.</p><h5>17 - The Wheels of Industry</h5><p><strong>Life on the Conveyor Belt</strong></p><p>This is the basic lesson of evolutionary psychology: a need shaped in the wild continues to be felt subjectively even if it is no longer really necessary for survival and reproduction. The tragedy of industrial agriculture is that it takes great care of the objective needs of animals, while neglecting their subjective needs.</p><p><strong>The Age of Shopping</strong></p><p>The modern capitalist economy must constantly increase production if it is to survive, like a shark that must swim or suffocate. Yet it’s not enough just to produce. Somebody must also buy the products, or industrialists and investors alike will go bust. To prevent this catastrophe and to make sure that people will always buy whatever new stuff industry produces, a new kind of ethic appeared: consumerism.</p><p>Consumerism sees the consumption of ever more products and services as a positive thing. It encourages people to treat themselves, spoil themselves, and even kill themselves slowly by overconsumption. Frugality is a disease to be cured.</p><p>It has succeeded. We are all good consumers. We buy countless products that we don’t really need, and that until yesterday we didn’t know existed. Manufacturers deliberately design short-term goods and invent new and unnecessary models of perfectly satisfactory products that we must purchase in order to stay ‘in’. Shopping has become a favourite pastime, and consumer goods have become essential mediators in relationships between family members, spouses and friends. Religious holidays such as Christmas have become shopping festivals. In the United States, even Memorial Day – originally a solemn day for remembering fallen soldiers – is now an occasion for special sales. Most people mark this day by going shopping, perhaps to prove that the defenders of freedom did not die in vain.</p><p>The flowering of the consumerist ethic is manifested most clearly in the food market. Traditional agricultural societies lived in the awful shade of starvation. In the affluent world of today one of the leading health problems is obesity, which strikes the poor (who stuff themselves with hamburgers and pizzas) even more severely than the rich (who eat organic salads and fruit smoothies). Each year the US population spends more money on diets than the amount needed to feed all the hungry people in the rest of the world. Obesity is a double victory for consumerism. Instead of eating little, which will lead to economic contraction, people eat too much and then buy diet products – contributing to economic growth twice over.</p><p>How can we square the consumerist ethic with the capitalist ethic of the business person, according to which profits should not be wasted, and should instead be reinvested in production? It’s simple. As in previous eras, there is today a division of labour between the elite and the masses. In medieval Europe, aristocrats spent their money carelessly on extravagant luxuries, whereas peasants lived frugally, minding every penny. Today, the tables have turned. The rich take great care managing their assets and investments, while the less well heeled go into debt buying cars and televisions they don’t really need.</p><p>The capitalist and consumerist ethics are two sides of the same coin, a merger of two commandments. The supreme commandment of the rich is ‘Invest!’ The supreme commandment of the rest of us is ‘Buy!’</p><p>The capitalist-consumerist ethic is revolutionary in another respect. Most previous ethical systems presented people with a pretty tough deal. They were promised paradise, but only if they cultivated compassion and tolerance, overcame craving and anger, and restrained their selfish interests. This was too tough for most. The history of ethics is a sad tale of wonderful ideals that nobody can live up to. Most Christians did not imitate Christ, most Buddhists failed to follow Buddha, and most Confucians would have caused Confucius a temper tantrum.</p><p>In contrast, most people today successfully live up to the capitalist-consumerist ideal. The new ethic promises paradise on condition that the rich remain greedy and spend their time making more money, and that the masses give free rein to their cravings and passions – and buy more and more. This is the first religion in history whose followers actually do what they are asked to do. How, though, do we know that we’ll really get paradise in return? We’ve seen it on television.</p><h5>18 - A Permanent Revolution</h5><p><strong>Modern Time</strong></p><p>Yet all of these upheavals are dwarfed by the most momentous social revolution that ever befell humankind: the collapse of the family and the local community and their replacement by the state and the market. As best we can tell, from the earliest times, more than a million years ago, humans lived in small, intimate communities, most of whose members were kin. The Cognitive Revolution and the Agricultural Revolution did not change that. They glued together families and communities to create tribes, cities, kingdoms and empires, but families and communities remained the basic building blocks of all human societies. The Industrial Revolution, on the other hand, managed within little more than two centuries to break these building blocks into atoms.</p><p>Most of the traditional functions of families and communities were handed over to states and markets.</p><p><strong>The Collapse of the Family and the Community</strong></p><p>Romantic literature often presents the individual as somebody caught in a struggle against the state and the market. Nothing could be further from the truth. The state and the market are the mother and father of the individual, and the individual can survive only thanks to them. The market provides us with work, insurance and a pension. If we want to study a profession, the government’s schools are there to teach us. If we want to open a business, the bank loans us money. If we want to build a house, a construction company builds it and the bank gives us a mortgage, in some cases subsidised or insured by the state. If violence flares up, the police protect us. If we are sick for a few days, our health insurance takes care of us. If we are debilitated for months, social security steps in. If we need around-the-clock assistance, we can go to the market and hire a nurse – usually some stranger from the other side of the world who takes care of us with the kind of devotion that we no longer expect from our own children. If we have the means, we can spend our golden years at a senior citizens’ home. The tax authorities treat us as individuals, and do not expect us to pay the neighbours’ taxes. The courts, too, see us as individuals, and never punish us for the crimes of our cousins</p><p>But the liberation of the individual comes at a cost. Many of us now bewail the loss of strong families and communities and feel alienated and threatened by the power the impersonal state and market wield over our lives. States and markets composed of alienated individuals can intervene in the lives of their members much more easily than states and markets composed of strong families and communities. When neighbours in a high-rise apartment building cannot even agree on how much to pay their janitor, how can we expect them to resist the state?</p><p><strong>Imagined Communities</strong></p><p>Like the nuclear family, the community could not completely disappear from our world without any emotional replacement. Markets and states today provide most of the material needs once provided by communities, but they must also supply tribal bonds. Markets and states do so by fostering ‘imagined communities’ that contain millions of strangers, and which are tailored to national and commercial needs. An imagined community is a community of people who don’t really know each other, but imagine that they do.</p><p>The two most important examples for the rise of such imagined communities are the nation and the consumer tribe. The nation is the imagined community of the state. The consumer tribe is the imagined community of the market. Both are imagined communities because it is impossible for all customers in a market or for all members of a nation really to know one another the way villagers knew one another in the past.</p><p>Consumerism and nationalism work extra hours to make us imagine that millions of strangers belong to the same community as ourselves, that we all have a common past, common interests and a common future. This isn’t a lie. It’s imagination.</p><h5>19 - And They Lived Happily Ever After</h5><p>Secondly, even the brief golden age of the last half-century may turn out to have sown the seeds of future catastrophe. Over the last few decades, we have been disturbing the ecological equilibrium of our planet in myriad new ways, with what seem likely to be dire consequences. A lot of evidence indicates that we are destroying the foundations of human prosperity in an orgy of reckless consumption.</p><p>Finally, we can congratulate ourselves on the unprecedented accomplishments of modern Sapiens only if we completely ignore the fate of all other animals.</p><p>If we accept a mere tenth of what animal-rights activists are claiming, then modern industrial agriculture might well be the greatest crime in history.</p><p><strong>Counting Happiness</strong></p><p>One interesting conclusion is that money does indeed bring happiness. But only up to a point, and beyond that point it has little significance.</p><p>Another interesting finding is that illness decreases happiness in the short term, but is a source of long-term distress only if a person’s condition is constantly deteriorating or if the disease involves ongoing and debilitating pain. People who are diagnosed with chronic illness such as diabetes are usually depressed for a while, but if the illness does not get worse they adjust to their new condition and rate their happiness as highly as healthy people do.</p><p>Family and community seem to have more impact on our happiness than money and health. People with strong families who live in tight-knit and supportive communities are significantly happier than people whose families are dysfunctional and who have never found (or never sought) a community to be part of. Marriage is particularly important. Repeated studies have found that there is a very close correlation between good marriages and high subjective well-being, and between bad marriages and misery.</p><p>But the most important finding of all is that happiness does not really depend on objective conditions of either wealth, health or even community. Rather, it depends on the correlation between objective conditions and subjective expectations.</p><p>If happiness is determined by expectations, then two pillars of our society – mass media and the advertising industry – may unwittingly be depleting the globe’s reservoirs of contentment.</p><p><strong>The Meaning of Life</strong></p><p>Another is that the findings demonstrate that happiness is not the surplus of pleasant over unpleasant moments. Rather, happiness consists in seeing one’s life in its entirety as meaningful and worthwhile. There is an important cognitive and ethical component to happiness.</p><p>As Nietzsche put it, if you have a why to live, you can bear almost any how. A meaningful life can be extremely satisfying even in the midst of hardship, whereas a meaningless life is a terrible ordeal no matter how comfortable it is.</p><p>So perhaps happiness is synchronising one’s personal delusions of meaning with the prevailing collective delusions. As long as my personal narrative is in line with the narratives of the people around me, I can convince myself that my life is meaningful, and find happiness in that conviction.</p><p><strong>Know Thyself</strong></p><p>Buddha agreed with modern biology and New Age movements that happiness is independent of external conditions. Yet his more important and far more profound insight was that true happiness is also independent of our inner feelings. Indeed, the more significance we give our feelings, the more we crave them, and the more we suffer. Buddha’s recommendation was to stop not only the pursuit of external achievements, but also the pursuit of inner feelings.</p><p>To sum up, subjective well-being questionnaires identify our well-being with our subjective feelings, and identify the pursuit of happiness with the pursuit of particular emotional states. In contrast, for many traditional philosophies and religions, such as Buddhism, the key to happiness is to know the truth about yourself – to understand who, or what, you really are. Most people wrongly identify themselves with their feelings, thoughts, likes and dislikes. When they feel anger, they think, ‘I am angry. This is my anger.’ They consequently spend their life avoiding some kinds of feelings and pursuing others. They never realise that they are not their feelings, and that the relentless pursuit of particular feelings just traps them in misery.</p><p>If this is so, then our entire understanding of the history of happiness might be misguided. Maybe it isn’t so important whether people’s expectations are fulfilled and whether they enjoy pleasant feelings. The main question is whether people know the truth about themselves. What evidence do we have that people today understand this truth any better than ancient foragers or medieval peasants?</p><h5>20 - The End of <em>Homo Sapiens</em></h5><p><em>Homo sapiens</em> is transcending those limits. It is now beginning to break the laws of natural selection, replacing them with the laws of intelligent design.</p><p>At the time of writing, the replacement of natural selection by intelligent design could happen in any of three ways: through biological engineering, cyborg engineering (cyborgs are beings that combine organic with non-organic parts) or the engineering of inorganic life.</p><p>Since we might soon be able to engineer our desires too, perhaps the real question facing us is not ‘What do we want to become?’, but ‘What do we want to want?’ Those who are not spooked by this question probably haven’t given it enough thought.</p><h5>Afterword: The Animal that Became a God</h5><p>Seventy thousand years ago, <em>homo sapiens</em> was still an insignificant animal minding its own business in a corner of Africa. In the following millennia it transformed itself into the master of the entire planet and the terror of the ecosystem. Today it stands on the verge of becoming a god, poised to acquire not only eternal youth, but also the divine abilities of creation and destruction.</p><p>Unfortunately, the Sapiens regime on earth has so far produced little that we can be proud of. We have mastered our surroundings, increased food production, built cities, established empires and created far-flung trade networks. But did we decrease the amount of suffering in the world? Time and again, massive increases in human power did not necessarily improve the well-being of individual Sapiens, and usually caused immense misery to other animals.</p><p>In the last few decades we have at last made some real progress as far as the human condition is concerned, with the reduction of famine, plague and war. Yet the situation of other animals is deteriorating more rapidly than ever before, and the improvement in the lot of humanity is too recent and fragile to be certain of.</p><p>Moreover, despite the astonishing things that humans are capable of doing, we remain unsure of our goals and we seem to be as discontented as ever. We have advanced from canoes to galleys to steamships to space shuttles – but nobody knows where we’re going. We are more powerful than ever before, but have very little idea what to do with all that power. Worse still, humans seem to be more irresponsible than ever. Self-made gods with only the laws of physics to keep us company, we are accountable to no one. We are consequently wreaking havoc on our fellow animals and on the surrounding ecosystem, seeking little more than our own comfort and amusement, yet never finding satisfaction.</p><p>Is there anything more dangerous than dissatisfied and irresponsible gods who don’t know what they want?</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[My 2020 annual review covering what went well, what didn't, and the biggest lessons learned—a framework for honest self-assessment and planning ahead.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My Annual Review is something I&#x27;ve done for the past 3-4 years, but this is the first year I&#x27;m publishing it.</p><p>I&#x27;m publishing one portion of my overall review, done in <a href="/blog/the-complete-guide-to-annual-reviews">the format I describe here.</a></p><p>This portion is in the format of <a href="https://jamesclear.com/annual-review">James Clear&#x27;s reviews</a>, which I think are more interesting for other readers.</p><p>2020 was a crazy year for a lot of reasons, but I consider myself very lucky to have had a great year. That was the result of a lot of luck and privilege, which I&#x27;m grateful for.</p><h2>What went well?</h2><p><strong>Blog growth:</strong> The number of visitors to my blog grew 215% this year. A combination of past investments paying off, and my switch to <a href="https://webflow.com/?rfsn=5165284.40dc13&amp;utm_medium=affiliate">Webflow</a>. My blog remains the center of my work, and will continue to do so. Publishing writing there remains one of my most rewarding activities. I also launched my first product (access to my book notes), which brought my first passive income ever.</p><p><strong>Staying active:</strong> I biked, surfed, golfed and sailed more this year than I have in a long time, or ever, in the case of surfing and cycling. My environment changed a lot this year, but I managed to stay active and fit regardless, with little structure and not much focus. It&#x27;s become enough of a part of my lifestyle that I don&#x27;t need to think about it much.</p><p><strong>Time with family:</strong> I returned to Nova Scotia in late March, not knowing how long I&#x27;d be there, and ended up staying for the rest of the year. I kept thinking about <a href="https://waitbutwhy.com/2015/12/the-tail-end.html"><em>The Tail End</em></a>, an article on Wait but Why, which says that on average, we&#x27;ve spent ~93% of the time we will with our parents by the time we graduate high school. This year was one that I may never replicate in terms of time with my parents and brothers.</p><p><strong>Saltwreck</strong>: We switched <a href="https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/saltwreck">Saltwreck</a> from Shopify to Etsy this year, which simplified a lot of things. The result was a big jump in sales with a lot less work, which I hope will continue in 2021. Small, cash-generating businesses like this continue to interest me.</p><p><strong>Growing at work:</strong> At <a href="https://unito.io/">Unito</a>, I helped re-evaluate our pricing, run a product team focused on fast experimentation, build a new internal pricing service, launch new pricing, and coordinate experiments across the company. Personally, I learned a lot about pricing and monetization, being a product manager, and improved my communication and work with other teams. This year I felt like I finally got to the point I wanted to in my role, and started having the impact and influence I want.</p><p><strong>Finding an online community</strong>: This really only happened at the end of 2020, but I finally started to recognize what I&#x27;d heard other people say about Twitter and finding a community of like-minded individuals. Twitter is going to be a focus in 2021, and making online connections in-person.</p><p><strong>Making the most of the pandemic</strong>: This is a lot to do with luck and privilege—I was able to go back to Nova Scotia where there was little chance of infection and lots of space. The year was different, but not bad for me. I managed to ignore the news, spend lots of time outside, and get lots of work done.</p><h2>What didn&#x27;t go so well?</h2><p><strong>Newsletter growth</strong>: I had lots of visitors to my site in 2020, but overlooked converting them to newsletter subscribers. As a result, I saw lots of other, newer newsletters shoot up in subscribers, in a big year for newsletters in general. To be fair, other activities—like publishing regularly and being present on Twitter—are required to grow the newsletter, but I still feel like I could have done a much better job. I did switch to <a href="https://convertkit.com/?lmref=hlPEAQ">ConvertKit</a> (from Mailchimp), which is a good start. Improving the systems I have in place for this will be a big focus for 2021.</p><p><strong>Writing:</strong> I just didn&#x27;t write enough. I established a daily writing habit in December with the social and financial incentive of <a href="https://ship30for30.com/">Ship 30 for 30, Dickie Bush&#x27;s writing program</a>, and by lowering the bar I set for myself in terms of how much I have to write and prepare. That&#x27;s a good start, but I want to write <em>a lot</em> more in 2021.</p><p><strong>Time with friends</strong>: Coming back to Nova Scotia meant I didn&#x27;t get to see my Montreal friends nearly as much, and of course the pandemic restricted this too. It also meant I couldn&#x27;t travel to visit friends. The extra time I got with family was a result of trading time with friends.</p><p><strong>Travel</strong>: This one was mostly outside my own control. The pandemic and the lack of spread in the Maritimes meant it was a good place to be, and travel was non-existent for me after March (aside from local trips, which did make the highlights of the year).</p><h2>What did I learn?</h2><p>For whatever reason, this year felt like one where a lot of the things I&#x27;d read about or understood theoretically became <em>known</em> to me.</p><p><strong>Seeing objective reality as closely as possible is the most important skill for improvement.</strong></p><p>Ray Dalio stated it as his most fundamental principle in <a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio"><em>Principles</em></a>: &quot;Truth —more precisely, an accurate understanding of reality— is the essential foundation for producing good outcomes.&quot;</p><p>It provides benefits in so many ways: you better understand what is your fault, what your mistakes or weaknesses are, and you can acknowledge and improve them.</p><p>You can escape the usual cognitive dissonance that prevents us from making poor decisions or seeing what needs to be done.</p><p>It gives you confidence in your actions.</p><p>It shortcuts all of the usual psychological obstacles we face when trying to change our behavior or improve systems.</p><p>This is a difficult skill. It requires detaching your emotional reaction in assessing situations. It requires the ability to blame yourself. It requires consistent documentation so you can assess past decisions accurately. It requires a lack of expectations from others.</p><p>Once you start seeing reality accurately, the world becomes so much easier.</p><p><strong>Everyone has expectations. It&#x27;s not your responsibility to meet them, but you do need to plan for them.</strong></p><p>Personal or professional, every person you interact with will have expectations. The best will communicate them up front and clearly, and be able to tell when their own expectations are unreasonable.</p><p>The worst will be oblivious to them, and will suck your effort and time as you try to manage them.</p><p>However, if you want to maintain any personal or professional relationships, you have to acknowledge them. Communicating your expectations clearly will help, but most people just won&#x27;t be able to manage their own well, and you ignore that fact at your own peril.</p><p><strong>Consistency wins.</strong></p><p>Whether it&#x27;s how you approach your work, your relationships, publishing online, growing your Twitter or your newsletter, consistently showing up, over and over, at the same time, will win every time.</p><p>I&#x27;ve seen it happen so many times now in so many different domains that it&#x27;s going to become one of my core mantras.</p><p><strong>Less is better</strong>.</p><p>Ruthless prioritization is becoming more and more important. With all of the noise in the modern world, the ability to focus on a single thing—on your daily to-do list, your monthly goals, whatever—is extremely important.</p><p>We overestimate what we can accomplish in the short-term, and underestimate what we can accomplish in the long-term.</p><p>Focus on fewer things, execute impatiently and consistently, and watch the results compound over time.</p><p><strong>The quality of people around you matters</strong>.</p><p>If you want to be better, surround yourself with people who are already better.</p><p>Towards the end of this year, I started spending more time on Twitter reading and watching really outstanding people, and building a community there. It&#x27;s hard to overstate how how valuable it is to see both a) what the best are doing day in and day out and b) how attainable it is, <strong>every day</strong>.</p><p>The <strong>every day</strong> part is critical. We forget things all the time, and need to be constantly reminded. The people you surround yourself with will do that, and push you to be better.</p><p><strong>Start your day with a quick win.</strong></p><p>Just as you should have only one item on your to-do list each day that really matters, you should try and make your day a win as soon as possible.</p><p>For me, that means writing. It doesn&#x27;t have to be long, or good, or anything worth sharing. But a good day for me is a day when I create something, and this allows me to do that right away.</p><p><strong>Think in systems.</strong></p><p>One thing I finally grasped this year is that if I want to expand my personal leverage—my ability to produce more work—I have to think in systems.</p><p>The process typically looks like this:</p><ol><li>Figure out how to solve problem, validate solution via manual work</li><li>Figure out how to automate as much of this solution as possible</li><li>Document this solution</li><li>Delegate/hire someone to do the rest (or as much as possible)</li></ol><p>That&#x27;s how top performers seem to do so much more than the rest of us. They have the same number of hours in the day, but they expand their reach through automation and delegation, leaving only the most important work for them to do.</p><p>That&#x27;s all! 2020 was a year of a lot of learning, and for that I&#x27;m grateful.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/to-kill-a-mockingbird-harper-lee</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 16:36:48 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The classic story of a young girl's childhood growing up in 1930s Alabama, where her father is a lawyer tasked with defending a falsely-accused black man.I read this in high school, but appreciated it so much more upon re-reading. A beautiful book full of lessons on parenting, equality, justice (and injustice) and what it means to be a good person.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>“Mockingbirds don’t do one thing but make music for us to enjoy. They don’t eat up people’s gardens, don’t nest in corncribs, they don’t do one thing but sing their hearts out for us. That’s why it’s a sin to kill a mockingbird.”</li><li>&quot;There are just some kind of men who—who’re so busy worrying about the next world they’ve never learned to live in this one, and you can look down the street and see the results.”</li><li>I wanted you to see what real courage is, instead of getting the idea that courage is a man with a gun in his hand. It’s when you know you’re licked before you begin but you begin anyway and you see it through no matter what. You rarely win, but sometimes you do.</li><li>Atticus was right. One time he said you never really know a man until you stand in his shoes and walk around in them. Just standing on the Radley porch was enough.</li><li>You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view—” “Sir?” “—until you climb into his skin and walk around in it.”</li><li>Until I feared I would lose it, I never loved to read. One does not love breathing.</li><li>&quot;The one thing that doesn’t abide by majority rule is a person’s conscience.”</li><li>“People in their right minds never take pride in their talents,” said Miss Maudie.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 16:26:41 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A book about love and relationships and living life to the fullest.One of those novels that leaves you feeling melancholy and awed at the end.Truly a classic.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>It was like certain dinners I remember from the war. There was much wine, an ignored tension, and a feeling of things coming that you could not prevent happening. Under the wine I lost the disgusted feeling and was happy. It seemed they were all such nice people.</li><li>That seemed to handle it. That was it. Send a girl off with one man. Introduce her to another to go off with him. Now go and bring her back. And sign the wire with love. That was it all right. I went in to lunch.</li><li>Brett was damned good-looking. She wore a slipover jersey sweater and a tweed skirt, and her hair was brushed back like a boy’s. She started all that. She was built with curves like the hull of a racing yacht, and you missed none of it with that wool jersey.</li><li>As he had been thinking for months about leaving his wife and had not done it because it would be too cruel to deprive her of himself, her departure was a very healthful shock.</li><li>It is awfully easy to be hard-boiled about everything in the daytime, but at night it is another thing.</li><li>He had married on the rebound from the rotten time he had in college, and Frances took him on the rebound from his discovery that he had not been everything to his first wife.</li><li>“I can’t stand it to think my life is going so fast and I’m not really living it.” “Nobody ever lives their life all the way up except bull-fighters.”</li><li>“This wine is too good for toast-drinking, my dear. You don’t want to mix emotions up with a wine like that. You lose the taste.”</li><li>You can’t get away from yourself by moving from one place to another. There’s nothing to that.”</li><li>Cohn had a wonderful quality of bringing out the worst in anybody.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Old Man and the Sea by Ernest Hemingway: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 16:17:33 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The story of an old man and his long battle against a fish.I particularly enjoy this story because it is short and my own connection to the ocean.The phrasing is quintessential Hemingway, and this story is a good introduction to his work.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>He was an old man who fished alone in a skiff in the Gulf Streram and he had gone eighty-four days now without taking a fish.</li><li>He was too simple to wonder when he had attained humility. But he knew he had attained it and he knew it was not disgraceful and it carried no loss of true pride.</li><li>&quot;I may not be as strong as I think,&quot; the old man said. &quot;But I know many tricks and I have resolution.&quot;</li><li>Why did they make birds so delicate and find as those sea swallows when the ocean can be so cruel? She is kind and very beautiful. But she can be so cruel and it comes so suddenly and such birds that fly, dipping and hunting, with their small sad voices are made too delicately for the sea.</li><li>But the old man always thought of her as feminine and as something that gave or withheld great favours, and if she did wild or wicked things it was because she could not help them. The moon affects her as it does a woman, he thought.</li><li>Every day is a new day. It is better to be lucky. But I would rather be exact. Then when luck comes you are ready.</li><li>No one should be alone in their old age, he thought. But it is unavoidable.</li><li>The thousand times that he had proved it meant nothing. Now he was proving it again. Each time was a new time and he never thought about the past when he was doing it.</li><li>He decided that he could beat anyone if he wanted to badly enough.</li><li>Maybe he suddenly felt fear. But he was such a calm, strong fish and he seemed so fearless and so confident. It is strange.</li><li>“I’ll just steer south and west,” he said. “A man is never lost at sea and it is a long island.”</li><li>I am not good for many more turns. Yes you are, he told himself. You’re good for ever.</li><li>You are killing me fish, the old man thought. But you have a right to. Never have I seen a greater, or more beautiful, or calmer or more noble thing than you, brother. Come on and kill me. I do not care who kills who.</li><li>The dark water of the true gulf is the greatest healer that there is.</li><li>He hit it without hope but with resolution and complete malignancy.</li><li>You did not kill the fish only to keep alive and to sell for food, he thought. You killed him for pride and because you are a fisherman. You loved him when he was alive and you loved him after. If you love him, it is not a sin to kill him. Or is it more?</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Fight Club by Chuck Palahniuk: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/fight-club-chuck-palahniuk</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 15:32:33 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The rare book where the movie was better.Palahniuk himself admitted after he wrote a short story, he was convinced to turn it into a book.Skip the book and just watch the movie.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>One minute was enough, Tyler said, a person had to work hard for it, but a minute of perfection was worth the effort. A moment was the most you could ever expect from perfection.</li><li>&quot;We are the middle children of history, raised by television to believe that someday we’ll be millionaires and movie stars and rock stars, but we won’t. And we’re just learning this fact,” Tyler said. &quot;So don’t fuck with us.”</li><li>&quot;We don’t have a great war in our generation, or a great depression, but we do, we have a great war of the spirit. We have a great revolution against the culture. The great depression is our lives. We have a spiritual depression.</li><li>At the time, my life just seemed too complete, and maybe we have to break everything to make something better out of ourselves.</li><li>&quot;You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake. You are the same decaying organic matter as everyone else, and we are all part of the same compost pile.”</li><li>&quot;If you don’t know what you want,” the doorman said, &quot;you end up with a lot you don’t.”</li><li>Then you’re trapped in your lovely nest, and the things you used to own, now they own you.</li><li>&quot;Getting fired,” Tyler says, &quot;is the best thing that could happen to any of us. That way, we’d quit treading water and do something with our lives.”</li><li>&quot;It’s only after you’ve lost everything,” Tyler says, &quot;that you’re free to do anything.”</li><li>This is your life, and it’s ending one minute at a time.</li><li>Most guys are at fight club because of something they’re too scared to fight. After a few fights, you’re afraid a lot less.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[American Gods by Neil Gaiman: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/american-gods-neil-gaiman</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 15:28:16 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This novel focuses on Shadow, a newly-released convict who receives news his wife has been killed. He accepts a job on the way to his wife's funeral, which results in a series of undertakings which move back and forth between reality and fantasy.The novel personifies modern and past religions and beliefs as physical beings, and in doing so raises questions about the nature of those beliefs and their validity.I don't read much fantasy, and while I enjoy most books when I dabble, this one didn't particularly resonate with me. I enjoyed the underlying themes, but less so the novel itself.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>He wondered whether home was a thing that happened to a place after a while, or if it was something that you found in the end, if you simply walked and waited and willed it long enough.</li><li>There’s never been a true war that wasn’t fought between two sets of people who were certain they were in the right. The really dangerous people believe that they are doing whatever they are doing solely and only because it is without question the right thing to do. And that is what makes them dangerous.</li><li>People believe, thought Shadow. It’s what people do. They believe. And then they will not take responsibility for their beliefs; they conjure things, and do not trust the conjurations. People populate the darkness; with ghosts, with gods, with electrons, with tales. People imagine, and people believe: and it is that belief, that rock-solid belief, that makes things happen.</li><li>We do not always remember the things that do no credit to us. We justify them, cover them in bright lies or with the thick dust of forgetfulness.</li><li>And when they truly die they are unmourned and unremembered. Ideas are more difficult to kill than people, but they can be killed, in the end.</li><li>But it was a dream, and in dreams, sometimes, you have no choices: either there are no decisions to be made, or they were made for you long before ever the dream began.</li><li>Tell him that we have fucking reprogrammed reality. Tell him that language is a virus and that religion is an operating system and that prayers are just so much fucking spam.</li><li>All we have to believe with is our senses: the tools we use to perceive the world, our sight, our touch, our memory. If they lie to us, then nothing can be trusted. And even if we do not believe, then still we cannot travel in any other way than the road our senses show us; and we must walk that road to the end.</li><li>Religions are places to stand and look and act, vantage points from which to view the world.</li><li>Every hour wounds. The last one kills.</li><li>Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.</li><li>“This is the only country in the world,” said Wednesday, into the stillness, “that worries about what it is.” “What?” “The rest of them know what they are. No one ever needs to go searching for the heart of Norway. Or looks for the soul of Mozambique. They know what they are.”</li><li>Belief without blood only takes us so far. The blood must flow.</li><li>“Gods are great,” said Atsula, slowly, as if she were comprehending a great secret. “But the heart is greater. For it is from our hearts they come, and to our hearts they shall return…”</li><li>One describes a tale best by telling the tale. The way one describes a story, to oneself or to the world, is by telling the story. It is a balancing act and it is a dream. The more accurate the map, the more it resembles the territory. The most accurate map possible would be the territory, and thus would be perfectly accurate and perfectly useless. The tale is the map which is the territory. You must remember this.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[All Quiet on the Western Front by Erich Maria Remarque: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 15:24:28 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Set in WWI, and told from the perspective of a German soldier, this novel describes the horrors and daily reality of the war.It lives up to billing as one of the greatest war novels of all time. A great novel for gaining some perspective.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>Everything must have been fraudulent and pointless if thousands of years of civilization weren’t even able to prevent this river of blood, couldn’t stop these torture chambers existing in their hundreds of thousands. Only a military hospital can really show you what war is.</li><li>Because one thing has become clear to me: you can cope with all the horror as long as you simply duck thinking about it – but it will kill you if you try to come to terms with it.</li><li>An order has turned these silent figures into our enemies; an order could turn them into friends again. On some table, a document is signed by some people that none of us knows, and for years our main aim in life is the one thing that usually draws the condemnation of the whole world and incurs its severest punishment in law.</li><li>We became tough, suspicious, hardhearted, vengeful and rough – and a good thing too, because they were just the qualities we needed. If they had sent us out into the trenches without this kind of training, then probably most of us would have gone mad.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[A Gentleman in Moscow by Amor Towles: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/a-gentleman-in-moscow-amor-towles</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 15:17:38 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A Gentleman in Moscow is a throwback to novels of another time.The novel follows Count Alexander Rostov, who is under house arrest in the Metropol hotel, starting in 1922.The writing is beautiful, the characters are likeable, and the novel is a pleasure to read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>By their very nature, human beings are so capricious, so complex, so delightfully contradictory, that they deserve not only our consideration, but our reconsideration—and our unwavering determination to withhold our opinion until we have engaged with them in every possible setting at every possible hour.</li><li>For the times do, in fact, change. They change relentlessly. Inevitably. Inventively. And as they change, they set into bright relief not only outmoded honorifics and hunting horns, but silver summoners and mother-of-pearl opera glasses and all manner of carefully crafted things that have outlived their usefulness.</li><li>For what matters in life is not whether we receive a round of applause; what matters is whether we have the courage to venture forth despite the uncertainty of acclaim.</li><li>That sense of loss is exactly what we must anticipate, prepare for, and cherish to the last of our days; for it is only our heartbreak that finally refutes all that is ephemeral in love.</li><li>But imagining what might happen if one’s circumstances were different was the only sure route to madness.</li><li>“The principle here is that a new generation owes a measure of thanks to every member of the previous generation. Our elders planted fields and fought in wars; they advanced the arts and sciences, and generally made sacrifices on our behalf. So by their efforts, however humble, they have earned a measure of our gratitude and respect.”</li><li>The first was that if one did not master one’s circumstances, one was bound to be mastered by them; and the second was Montaigne’s maxim that the surest sign of wisdom is constant cheerfulness.</li><li>For as it turns out, one can revisit the past quite pleasantly, as long as one does so expecting nearly every aspect of it to have changed.</li><li>He had said that our lives are steered by uncertainties, many of which are disruptive or even daunting; but that if we persevere and remain generous of heart, we may be granted a moment of supreme lucidity—a moment in which all that has happened to us suddenly comes into focus as a necessary course of events, even as we find ourselves on the threshold of a bold new life that we had been meant to lead all along.</li><li>“A king fortifies himself with a castle,” observed the Count, “a gentleman with a desk.”</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[17 Questions That Changed My Life by Tim Ferriss: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/17-questions-that-changed-my-life-tim-ferriss</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 15:09:02 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Tim has always been good at asking the right questions, and this short PDF packs a lot of punch.These are a staple of my daily journaling practice.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Questions</h4><p>The 17 questions:</p><ol><li>What if I did the opposite for 48 hours?</li><li>What do I spend a silly amount of money on? How might I scratch my own itch?</li><li>What would I do/have/be if I had $10 million? What&#x27;s my real TMI?</li><li>What are the worst things that could happen? Could I get back here?</li><li>If I could only work 2 hours per week on my business, what would I do?</li><li>&quot;What 20% of the customers/products/regions are producing 80% of the profit?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What factors or shared characteristics might account for this?&quot;</li><li>What if I let them make decisions up to $100? $500? $1000?</li><li>What&#x27;s the least crowded channel?</li><li>What if I couldn&#x27;t pitch my product directly?</li><li>What if I created my own real-world MBA?</li><li>Do I need to make it back the way I lost it?</li><li>What if I could only subtract to solve problems?</li><li>&quot;What should I put on my not-to-do list?&quot;</li><li>What might I put in place to allow me to go off the grid for 4 to 8 weeks, with no phone or email?</li><li>Am I hunting antelope or field mice?</li><li>Which one of these, if done, would render all the rest either easier or completely irrelevant?</li><li>Could it be that everything is fine and complete as it is?</li><li>What would this look like if it were easy?</li><li>How can I throw money at this problem? How can I &quot;waste&quot; money to improve the quality of my life?</li><li>No hurry, no pause</li></ol><h4>Detailed Notes</h4><p>Reality is largely negotiable.</p><p>If you stress-test the boundaries and experiment with the &quot;impossibles,&quot; you&#x27;ll quickly discover that most limitations are a fragile collection of socially reinforced rules you can choose to break at any time.</p><h5>What if I did the opposite for 48 hours?</h5><h5>What do I spend a silly amount of money on? How might I scratch my own itch?</h5><p>Before everyone got ﬁred, I begged my coworkers to each prepay for a bottle, which gave me enough money to hire chemists, a regulatory consultant, and do a tiny manufacturing run. I was off to the races.</p><h5>What would I do/have/be if I had $10 million? What&#x27;s my real TMI?</h5><p><a href="http://fourhourworkweek.com/tmi">fourhourworkweek.com/tmi</a></p><h5>What are the worst things that could happen? Could I get back here?</h5><h5>If I could only work 2 hours per week on my business, what would I do?</h5><p>After reading <em>The E-Myth Revisited</em> by Michael Gerber and <em>The 80/20 Principle</em> by Riichard Koch, I decided that extreme questions were the forcing function I needed.</p><p>&quot;What 20% of the customers/products/regions are producing 80% of the profit?&quot;</p><p>&quot;What factors or shared characteristics might account for this?&quot;</p><h5>What if I let them make decisions up to $100? $500? $1000?</h5><p>This question allowed me to take my customer service workload from 40-to-60 hours per week to less than 2 hours per week.</p><p>This experience underscored two things for me:</p><ol><li>To get huge, good things done, you need to be okay with letting the small, bad things happen, and</li><li>People&#x27;s IQs seem to double as soon as you give them responsibility and indicate you trust them.</li></ol><h5>What&#x27;s the least crowded channel?</h5><h5>What if I couldn&#x27;t pitch my product directly?</h5><p>People don&#x27;t like being sold products, but we all like being told stories. Work on the latter.</p><h5>What if I created my own real-world MBA?</h5><h5>Do I need to make it back the way I lost it?</h5><p>Humans are very vulnerable to a cognitive bias called &quot;anchoring,&quot; whether in real estate, stocks, or otherwise. Good investors recommend <em>Think Twice</em> by Michael Maboussin.</p><h5>What if I could only subtract to solve problems?</h5><p>&quot;What should I put on my not-to-do list?&quot;</p><h5>What might I put in place to allow me to go off the grid for 4 to 8 weeks, with no phone or email?</h5><p>Four to eight weeks (or more) doesn’t allow you to be a ﬁreﬁghter. It forces you to put systems and policies in place, ditch ad-hoc email-based triage, empower other people with rules and tools, separate the critical few from the trivial many, and otherwise create a machine that doesn’t require you to be behind the driver’s wheel 24/7. (Page 14)</p><p>Here’s the most important point: The systems far outlive the vacation, and when you come home, you’ll realize that you’ve taken your business (and life) to the next level. This is only possible if you work on your business instead of in your business, as Michael Gerber might say (Page 14)</p><h5>Am I hunting antelope or field mice?</h5><p>&quot;Which one of these, if done, would render all the rest either easier or completely irrelevant?&quot;</p><h5>Could it be that everything is fine and complete as it is?</h5><p>Aim to cultivate more daily appreciation and present-state awareness.</p><p>Think of daily wins before bed.</p><h5>What would this look like if it were easy?</h5><p>If I feel stressed, stretched thin, or overwhelmed, it&#x27;s usually because I&#x27;m overcomplicating something or failing to take the simple/easy path because I feel I should be trying &quot;harder.&quot;</p><h5>How can I throw money at this problem? How can I &quot;waste&quot; money to improve the quality of my life?</h5><p>&quot;If you&#x27;ve got enough money to solve the problem, you don&#x27;t have the problem.&quot;—Dan Sullivan, Strategic Coach</p><p>In the beginning of your career, you spend time to earn money. Once you hit your stride in any capacity, you should spend money to earn time, as the latter is nonrenewable.</p><h5>No hurry, no pause</h5><p>This isn&#x27;t a question—it&#x27;s a fundamental reset.</p><p>You don&#x27;t need to strain yourself through life; you can get 95% of the results you want by calmly moving ahead.</p><p>Similar: &quot;Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast.&quot;</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Billion Dollar Loser by Reeves Wiedeman: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/billion-dollar-loser-reeves-wiedeman</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 14:57:52 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A near-unbelievable, page-turning read about Adam Neumann and the founding and evolution of WeWork.The story will make you question the current venture-capital and startup system, the benefits and downsides of hubris, and what success looks like in the modern world.As entertaining as any fiction book I've read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Key Points</h4><ul><li>Learn to recognize the &quot;reality distortion field&quot; of certain individuals. It can be both a sign of big things to come, and a warning to double-check your own reality and the claims being made.</li><li>Valuations are not a hard science. They can vary wildly depending on your hypothesis, particularly in the private markets.</li><li>Fundraising decks are not audited financial documents.</li><li>The greater fool theory of finance: it&#x27;s possible to make money on something even if overvalued, as long as there is someone (a bigger fool) willing to pay a higher price.</li><li>If investing, beware your own bias in the things you use and prefer, compared to the wider market and population.</li><li>If your actions and your words do not line up, no one will believe you.</li><li>&quot;...in the system we have set up, do the people who were successful reflect the values we want? Should we care, or not care, if someone makes a lot of money exploiting the system?&quot;</li><li>Perfect records should be disbelieved. If the sample is large enough, and there are no mistakes admitted, then it&#x27;s likely too good to be true.</li></ul><h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>They compared his [Adam Neumann&#x27;s] aura to the “reality distortion field” that an Apple employee once described as emanating from Steve Jobs, convincing anyone within its radius that the impossible was not only plausible, but exactly what they were going to do.</li><li>“The funny thing about ‘hard numbers’ is that they can give a false sense of security,” Bill Gurley wrote in Above the Crowd in 2014. He was talking about the math behind valuations and how widely their underlying calculations could vary, depending on what numbers you put in. In this case, Gurley was defending an outsize valuation: Uber, another Benchmark company, had recently been valued at $17 billion. Gurley was critiquing an NYU professor who said that Uber’s valuation was inflated “by a factor of 25.” The professor’s analysis presumed that Uber’s total addressable market, or TAM, was the $100 billion taxi-and-limousine market. Gurley believed that Uber’s TAM was every single car on the road—a market theoretically worth $1.3 trillion.</li><li>This kind of blue-sky thinking was saturating Silicon Valley. When Airbnb’s founders first raised money from venture capital investors, an adviser encouraged them to tweak only one item in their pitch deck: swap out a letter and boost their $30 million revenue target to $30 billion. “Investors want B’s, baby,” the adviser said.</li><li>Benchmark had invested another chunk into WeWork’s Series D round, but a few months later, Bill Gurley returned to Above the Crowd to express concern about the state of the broader venture capital world in a post titled “Investors Beware.” Gurley believed that venture capitalists had “essentially abandoned” risk analysis and were blindly treating the fundraising decks shared by start-ups as if they were properly audited financial documents.</li><li>Investors wanted to believe Adam could fulfill his vision, and at least some of their faith seemed to rest on an expectation that he could convince the next person to kick in even more—the greater fool theory of finance.</li><li>The new investors would also dilute the stakes owned by common stock shareholders—employees, primarily—and new hires joining the company were at risk of having their shares be underwater if the company couldn’t meet its new expectations.</li><li>...although venture capitalists were perhaps a biased cohort when it came to valuing access to offices in San Francisco, New York, and London.</li><li>For WeWork’s rent arbitrage to work at any given location, each space needed to meet certain physical requirements—size, shape, location, available infrastructure—that would allow the company to keep its costs at a minimum while squeezing in enough people to turn a profit. But as the West Coast team surveyed the real estate market in cities up and down the coast, they came to a troubling realization. “There was literally not enough real estate in these cities to reach these numbers,” one person involved in the discussion said. New construction was popping up all over Seattle, for example, but the team found that WeWork could have occupied every new building going up in the city and still not hit the goals set before them.</li><li>Benchmark cashed out $129 million, realizing an eight-fold return on its 2012 investment. Sam-Ben Avraham and Marc Schimmel, Adam’s friends and early investors, cashed out tens of millions, while Joel Schreiber, the man who had given WeWork its first injection of capital, passed his stake on to SoftBank for a poignant amount: $44.6 million, just shy of the $45 million valuation Adam and Miguel pulled out of thin air back in 2009.</li><li>The biggest winner was Adam. We Holdings sold $361 million worth of its WeWork stock—the maximum amount, and nearly three times more than every other WeWork employee was able to cash out combined. This was an even more shocking amount than the earlier stock sales. Why cash out so much now if you believe the potential spoils to be even greater down the line?</li><li>One answer was that the Neumanns needed to fund their increasingly lavish lifestyle. At the end of 2017, Adam and Rebekah spent $35 million to buy four apartments in a single Gramercy building, combining three of the units into a mega penthouse.</li><li>WeWork employees could only roll their eyes when Adam and Rebekah spoke about their embrace of the sharing economy and lack of interest in material wealth. “We believe in this new ‘asset-light lifestyle,’” Rebekah told one interviewer, at a time when the Neumanns owned five homes. “We want to live off of the land. I’m like a real hippie.” WeWork’s 2017 Halloween party had another apt theme: The Great Gatsby.</li><li>WeWork’s growth-at-all-costs plan epitomized an increasingly popular Silicon Valley strategy known as blitzscaling, a term coined by Reid Hoffman, the cofounder of LinkedIn, who had begun teaching a course on the subject at Stanford—“CS183C: Technology-Enabled Blitzscaling.” In a follow-up book, Hoffman acknowledged that blitzscaling could seem counterintuitive. “It involves purposefully and intentionally doing things that don’t make sense according to traditional business thinking,” he wrote. The idea was to not worry too much about risks and costs that might bother a traditional businessperson. The goal was “lightning” growth. Network effects were key. Building a nicely profitable business was a quaint idea in Silicon Valley—“Investors want B’s, baby”—and the effect of the Vision Fund was to break some of the foundational rules of capitalism, allowing WeWork and other companies to price products not to make a profit but simply to acquire market share. In a perfect world, you became too big to fail.</li><li>Neumann had begun pitching WeWork as a new breed of SaaS business: “space as a service.” The idea was that companies of all sizes would no longer handle their own real estate portfolios but would instead turn over the management of their physical space to WeWork, transforming the company into something like a real estate cloud—a “platform.” This was a goal shared by every ambitious start-up of the decade, no matter how specious the claim.</li><li>Every start-up of the 2010s needed a foundational myth.</li><li>But there were plenty of ways to apply “the force” to WeWork’s numbers. The prospectus included a unique metric: “Community Adjusted EBITDA.” The acronym stands for “earnings before interest, taxes, depreciation, and amortization,” and is a standard way of measuring financial performance. The phrase “Community Adjusted” was a WeWork creation, meant to apply the company’s rhetorical flourish to a metric that would present its financial picture in a rosier light. By removing certain costs like design, marketing, and administrative expenses, which the company argued would dissipate over time, Community Adjusted EBITDA transformed WeWork’s $933 million loss in 2017 into a $233 million profit.</li><li>Many of the high-growth, money-losing unicorns of the 2010s had produced their own bespoke metrics showing how much money they believed their companies would make once they stopped spending so much on growth. (Uber’s version was called “core platform contribution margin.”) A New York Times economics reporter offered a less upbeat way of looking at the measurements: “earnings without all the bad stuff.” The Financial Times dubbed Community Adjusted EBITDA “perhaps the most infamous financial metric of a generation.”</li><li>Start-ups were staying private much longer than their peers even a decade before: the median age of companies going public had tripled from four years to twelve since the late ’90s.</li><li>At Summit, Frances Frei, a Harvard Business School professor, gave a talk about her belief that companies often get in trouble when they began to “wobble” in one of three areas: authenticity, logic, and empathy. Wobbling was one way to describe how many WeWork employees felt a few weeks later, when they watched a new documentary on HBO about the rise and fall of Theranos. Both organizations depended on charismatic founders and stratified layers of information that left lower-level employees to hope that, somewhere, an adult was running the numbers. Theranos had no doctors on its board of directors; WeWork had no one from the world of real estate. WeWork employees took comfort in knowing that they provided a tangible service that customers liked, not blood tests that never really worked in the first place. But it gave them a creeping dread to watch their counterparts at another high-flying start-up find it increasingly hard to explain what exactly their company did.</li><li>As WeWork moved toward a potential IPO, those who had watched it defy the laws of business gravity for much of the past decade saw this as a moment of reckoning—not just for the company, but for the system. A few weeks after my visit to 154 Grand, I talked with Jake Schwartz, one of the cofounders of General Assembly, the Bezos-backed start-up that had ceded the coworking market to WeWork earlier in the decade. “What I didn’t understand back then is that you could just take huge amounts of risk and be rewarded for it,” Schwartz told me. “You see this a lot in real estate with people who aren’t any smarter but are willing to put all their money on black 22.</li><li>But WeWork’s rise didn’t shock Schwartz, who had spent part of his career in finance. This was how the system worked. Adam had persuaded one investor after another to believe in his vision; each time he did, previous investors were able to mark up their stakes to escalating valuations, selling shares along the way and passing the risk on to the next fool. <strong>Even if WeWork went public and the IPO tanked, Adam owned roughly a fifth of the company, with preferred shares that would allow him to get out before most of his employees. “Let’s say it trades down to a $5 billion valuation,” Schwartz said, throwing out a number more in line with where the London Stock Exchange valued IWG. “Employees will suffer. Investors take a bath. But Adam’s still worth a billion. So from an objective perspective, was it a mistake to play this long con and take on this hemorrhage-inducing risk? You could argue that was the rational mode.”</strong></li><li><strong>What kept Schwartz up at night, at the end of a decade of unrestrained growth for the global economy, with enormous fortunes built out of nothing, was what WeWork’s rise would signal to the next generation of entrepreneurs. “You get to a question of, is that what capitalism is supposed to do?” Schwartz asked. “There’s so many little ways that a company like this tells the next generation of entrepreneurs what success looks like. One way to ask this question is, in the system we have set up, do the people who were successful reflect the values we want? Should we care, or not care, if someone makes a lot of money exploiting the system?” Schwartz didn’t mind if Adam got rich; he wanted to get rich, too. “The reason I care is that if the most successful companies are the ones that just drive really hard, and play fast and loose with the truth,” Schwartz said, “then maybe the whole idea that capitalism is great, or even useful, is really challenging to uphold.”</strong></li><li>WeWork’s board rejected Adam’s attempt to buy Remote Year, a platform to help digital nomads find places to sleep and work around the world.</li><li>Adam, however, said that WeWork should continue expanding. The company was becoming so large, he argued, that landlords would have to play ball if money got tight—the “too big to fail” argument. “If I say ‘pencils down’ to my people, the value of buildings will plunge,” Adam reportedly said in one meeting. He was at least partly right. In mid-April, S&amp;P Global Ratings declared that there was more than $3 billion in commercial mortgage debt securities at risk of default if the company collapsed.</li><li><strong>A dirty secret of the start-up boom was the fact that private market valuations were all but meaningless, bearing little connection to how much money a company made or what economic value it created. They were hazy calculations backed as much by feelings as by math.</strong></li><li>In competitive situations, like WeWork’s early fundraising rounds, venture capital firms were often willing to puff up valuations in order to entice founders to take their money instead of somebody else’s. As the rounds went from Series A to B to C, bigger numbers begat even bigger ones.</li><li>In May, WeWork held a “bake off” among three firms—JPMorgan, Goldman Sachs, and Morgan Stanley—for the lead left position. JPMorgan was the top candidate, given the bank’s long history with WeWork. In addition to its 2014 investment, JPMorgan had assisted WeWork with various loans and other financing arrangements. The bank had also lent Adam $97 million in low-interest mortgages for the many homes that the Neumanns were buying, and helped facilitate a personal $500 million line of credit backed by Adam’s WeWork stock. Adam had taken to calling Jamie Dimon his “personal banker.” When it came time for JPMorgan to make its pitch for the lead left position, its bankers suggested that WeWork could go public at a valuation north of $46 billion and as high as $63 billion.</li><li>True satisfaction, Yardeni argued, only came to those who strained to reach for things just beyond their grasp.</li><li>Then again, maybe he was missing something. “It’s either the biggest innovation in real estate ever,” he said back in the spring, “or the biggest con.”</li><li>As Adam continued his investor tours, he found that this kind of pitch was more difficult than dreaming on a three-hundred-year timeline with Masa. In August, he went to San Francisco to give several presentations, including one to Tiger Global Management, a large investment firm with a focus on tech. During the presentation, Adam repeated one of his favorite boasts: “We have never closed a building.” One analyst jumped in to say that while this sounded like an achievement, it didn’t make any sense. Was Adam suggesting that, of the more than five hundred locations the company had opened in the past decade, not a single one had been a mistake? The supposedly clean record made WeWork seem undisciplined.</li><li>Adam made it clear to SoftBank that it would have to make him feel comfortable stepping away. Marcelo Claure, one of Masa’s top SoftBank deputies, led the negotiations with WeWork. Claure said that in addition to offering $5 billion in debt financing, SoftBank was willing to buy $3 billion worth of WeWork stock from existing shareholders, an amount that would give the firm near-total control. The deal valued WeWork at $8 billion, roughly a sixth of what Masa and Adam had declared the company to be worth nine months earlier.As part of the deal, Adam could potentially sell as much as $970 million worth of his shares—a third of his remaining stake. SoftBank would also loan him $500 million to pay back his credit line, forgive $1.75 million in unreimbursed personal expenses, and pay him a $185 million consulting fee. In return, Adam would lose his supervoting shares, vacate his role as chairman, and leave WeWork with an agreement to not start an office-space competitor for four years.</li><li>Adam promptly sued his old benefactor. As of this writing, the fate of his billion-dollar package was up to the courts.</li><li><strong>It was hard to figure out what lesson Adam, or the entrepreneurs of the future, should learn from his rise and fall.</strong></li><li><strong>There were warnings about the kinds of behavior that modern capitalism rewards—the excess and myopia of the venture capital ecosystem—as well as age-old reminders about the dangers of hubris. But there was also a blueprint for a certain kind of success. As a test, one prominent Silicon Valley venture capitalist began asking start-up founders what they thought of Adam; the correct answer was to recognize his faults while acknowledging the unbelievable thing he had done.</strong></li><li>Masa’s point was that companies went through similar extinction periods. True visionaries didn’t let disasters derail their ambitions. They survived and evolved. For now, Adam was stuck at home, his skills temporarily neutralized in a world where getting into a room and charming an audience was no longer possible. No one knew what the post-Neumannian period would look like, but unless the ironclad forces of capitalism had truly been broken, it seemed likely that someone, somewhere, would be willing to take a chance on a charismatic man with a vision. If Adam could take one final lesson from his former mentor, sooner rather than later, he’d be back.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Come Again by Nat Eliason: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/come-again-nat-eliason</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 14:49:30 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The most actionable guide to sex for men that I've found.Covers everything from begin multi-orgasmic to practical sequences for great sex, oral sex techniques, and more.Full of great content that can serve as reference material to revisit.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><p>There is far too much to try and cover here, so instead I&#x27;ve included the summary that Nat himself provides at the end of the book. The book goes into much more detail about all of these sections and more.</p><p><strong>Step 1: Build the Mental Foundation</strong></p><ul><li>Start talking: Have a conversation with your partner about your sex lives. What do you like, not like, want to do more or less of, want to try? See the prompts in the Communication chapter.</li><li>Make a friend: Find a guy friend you can talk to openly about sex, someone who you know is curious and will be open about it too. Bonus points if they also read this book.</li><li>Connect deeper: Identify how you can bring more connection into your sex. Be louder. Make more eye contact. Hold her tighter.</li><li>Establish confidence: Try one thing you&#x27;ve been holding yourself back from doing. Make a move in bed you&#x27;ve hesitated on. Grab her or spank her like you mean it.</li></ul><p><strong>Step 2: Teasing and Warming Up</strong></p><ul><li>Find targets: Figure out what parts of your partner’s body is the most sensitive aside from the obvious ones. Spend more time teasing and stimulating those areas during foreplay and sex.</li><li>Talk dirty: Bring in more dirty talk during foreplay and sex. Start light with moans and terms of excitement, and escalate it as it feels more natural.</li><li>Observe your kissing: Do you kiss too aggressively? Use too much saliva? Not use your hands? Make sure you aren’t being a bad kisser, and ask your partner if you’re unsure.</li><li>Slow down: See how much time you can take, within reason, before you get to your partner&#x27;s vulva. Could you be moving slower to tease her more?</li></ul><p><strong>Step 3: Enhance Your Fingering and Oral</strong></p><ul><li>Talk about the O: If your partner isn’t orgasming regularly during foreplay or sex, talk with her about what has worked for her in the past or on her own.</li><li>Fingering: Lie beside your partner and talk about what she is and isn’t enjoying as you’re fingering her. Use the different strokes from the oral repertoire to see what she responds to, and keep a mental note of what she does and doesn’t like.</li><li>Oral: Go down on your partner for a brief period, 3-5 minutes, and communicate after about what worked and what didn’t. Refine your understanding of her preferences through a few sessions until you can reliably help her reach orgasm.</li><li>Edging: Once you understand what will bring your partner to orgasm, practice edging her, bringing her as close as you can to orgasm, and then bringing her back down.</li><li>Multiple Orgasms: Try facilitating the fast second orgasm using the two fingers plus palm method described, or the slower second orgasm, depending on how sensitive your partner is. For some added fun, see how many orgasms you can help her reach before she has to stop.</li></ul><p><strong>Step 4: Boost Your Sexual Flow</strong></p><ul><li>Try Flows: Pick at least one of the flows to try with your partner, and circle back to try others as needed for inspiration.</li><li>Create Flows: Based on what you and your partner enjoy, keep a mental note of certain flows between positions that are most pleasurable for both of you. The more of these you can create, the better. More variety will help to prevent sex from getting stale.</li><li>Help Her Orgasm: Ask her, or experiment, to find what positions she can orgasm easiest from. Make sure you end up in at least one of these positions during sex so that you can both orgasm.</li><li>Cuddle: Don’t fall asleep immediately after sex, or run off to something else. Take the 10-15 minutes to cuddle and come down afterwards, and talk about what you both liked or didn&#x27;t like.</li><li>Last Longer: If you&#x27;re not reliably lasting into the ideal 10-15+ minute range, use the techniques from that chapter to help yourself there.</li></ul><p><strong>Step 5: Explore New Territory</strong></p><ul><li>Become Multi Orgasmic: Follow the multiple orgasm chapter to learn how to have non-ejaculatory orgasms, prolonged orgasms, and prostate orgasms during foreplay and sex.</li><li>Try Anal: If you and your partner are interested, work up to including anal sex in your repertoire and flows together.</li><li>Explore Kinks: Take the quiz, or have an open conversation, about what you&#x27;d both be interested in trying in bed beyond the normal kinds of &quot;vanilla&quot; sex.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Radical Candor by Kim Scott: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/radical-candor-kim-scott</link>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2020 22:09:34 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A must-read for managers. This is one of those books so packed with information that you'll continue to revisit it like a textbook.Not as relevant for me since I don't do much management (and am less interested in it), hence the 7, but a 10 for professional managers.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>At the very heart of being a good boss is a good relationship.</li></ul><h5><strong>Part I - A New Management Philosophy</strong></h5><h5><strong>1 - Build Radically Candid Relationships</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Bosses guide a team to achieve results.</strong></li></ul><p>Radical Candor</p><ul><li>The first dimension is about being more than &quot;just professional.&quot; It’s about giving a damn, sharing more than just your work self, and encouraging everyone who reports to you to do the same.</li><li>I call this dimension &quot;Care Personally.&quot;</li><li>The second dimension involves telling people when their work isn’t good enough—and when it is; when they are not going to get that new role they wanted, or when you’re going to hire a new boss over them; when the results don’t justify further investment in what they’re working on.</li><li>This dimension I call &quot;Challenge Directly.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Radical Candor&quot; is what happens when you put &quot;Care Personally&quot; and &quot;Challenge Directly” together.</li><li>The most surprising thing about Radical Candor may be that its results are often the opposite of what you fear. You fear people will become angry or vindictive; instead they are usually grateful for the chance to talk it through.</li></ul><p>Care Personally: The First Dimension of Radical Candor</p><ul><li>Fred Kofman, my coach at Google, had a mantra that contradicted the &quot;just professional&quot; approach so destructive to so many managers: &quot;Bring your whole self to work.&quot;</li><li>There are few things more damaging to human relationships than a sense of superiority.</li><li>That’s why I detest the word “superior&quot; as a synonym for “boss.&quot; I also avoid the word “employee.&quot;</li></ul><p>Challenge Directly: The Second Dimension of Radical Candor</p><ul><li>Challenging others and encouraging them to challenge you helps build trusting relationships because it shows 1) you care enough to point out both the things that aren’t going well and those that are and that 2) you are willing to admit when you’re wrong and that you are committed to fixing mistakes that you or others have made. But because challenging often involves disagreeing or saying no, this approach embraces conflict rather than avoiding it.</li></ul><p>What Radical Candor is Not</p><ul><li>A good rule of thumb for any relationship is to leave three unimportant things unsaid each day.</li></ul><h5>2 - Get, Give, and Encourage Guidance</h5><p>“Operationalizing&quot; Good Guidance</p><ul><li>There are two dimensions to good guidance: care personally and challenge directly.</li><li>It’s also useful to be clear about what happens when you fail in one dimension (Ruinous Empathy), the other (Obnoxious Aggression), or both (Manipulative Insincerity).</li></ul><p>Radical Candor</p><ul><li>In fact, a great way to get to know somebody and to build trust is to offer Radically Candid praise and criticism</li><li>Radically Candid praise: &quot;I admire that about you&quot;</li><li>Radically Candid criticism: To keep winning, criticize the wins</li></ul><p>Obnoxious Aggression</p><ul><li>When you criticize someone without taking even two seconds to show you care, your guidance feels obnoxiously aggressive to the recipient. I regret to say that if you can’t be Radically Candid, being obnoxiously aggressive is the second best thing you can do. At least then people know what you think and where they stand, so your team can achieve results. This explains the advantage that assholes seem to have in the world.</li></ul><p>Manipulative Insincerity</p><ul><li>Manipulatively insincere guidance happens when you don’t care enough about a person to challenge directly.</li><li>People give praise and criticism that is manipulatively insincere when they are too focused on being liked or think they can gain some sort of political advantage by being fake—or when they are just too tired to care or argue any more.</li></ul><p>Ruinous Empathy</p><ul><li>Ruinous Empathy is responsible for the vast majority of management mistakes I’ve seen in my career. Most people want to avoid creating tension or discomfort at work.</li><li>Similarly, praise that’s ruinously empathetic is not effective because its primary goal is to make the person feel better rather than to point out really great work and push for more of it.</li><li>Ruinously empathetic praise: &quot;Just trying to say something nice&quot;</li><li>When giving praise, investigate until you really understand who did what and why it was so great. Be as specific and thorough with praise as with criticism. Go deep into the details.</li></ul><p>Moving Toward Radical Candor</p><ul><li>&quot;Is there anything I could do or stop doing that would make your lives better?&quot;</li><li>Balance praise and criticism: Worry more about praise, less about criticism—but above all be sincere.</li></ul><h5><strong>3 - Understand What Motivates Each Person on Your Team</strong></h5><p>Rethinking Ambition</p><ul><li>A leader at Apple had a good way to think about different types of ambition that people on her team had so that she could be thoughtful about what roles to put people in. To keep a team cohesive, you need both rock stars and superstars, she explained. Rock stars are solid as a rock.</li><li>The rock stars love their work. They have found their groove. They don’t want the next job if it will take them away from their craft.</li><li>Superstars, on the other hand, need to be challenged and given new opportunities to grow constantly.</li></ul><p>Growth Management</p><ul><li>The most important thing you can do for your team collectively is to understand what growth trajectory each person wants to be on at a given time and whether that matches the needs and opportunities of the team.</li></ul><p>Understanding What Matters and Why</p><ul><li>&quot;Steep growth&quot; is generally characterized by rapid change—learning new skills or deepening existing ones quickly. It’s not about becoming a manager—plenty of individual contributors remain on a steep growth trajectory their entire careers, and plenty of managers are on a gradual growth trajectory. Nor should steep growth be thought of as narrowly as “promotion.&quot; It’s about having an increased impact over time.</li><li>Gradual growth is characterized by stability. People on a gradual growth trajectory, who perform well, have generally mastered their work and are making incremental rather than sudden, dramatic improvements. Some roles may be better suited to a rock star because they require steadiness, accumulated knowledge, and an attention to detail that someone in a superstar phase might not have the focus or patience for.</li><li>Most people shift between a steep growth trajectory and a gradual growth trajectory in different phases of their lives and careers, so it’s important not to put a permanent label on people.</li></ul><p>The Problem With “Passion&quot;</p><ul><li>It’s a basic axiom that people do better work when they find that work meaningful. I don’t disagree with this basic premise. However, bosses who take this to mean that it is their job to provide purpose tend to overstep. Insisting that people have passion for their job can place unnecessary pressure on both boss and employee.</li><li>A wise man once told me, &quot;Only about five percent of people have a real vocation in life, and they confuse the hell out of the rest of us.&quot;</li></ul><h5>4 - Drive Results Collaboratively</h5><ul><li>First, you have to <em>listen</em> to the ideas that people on your team have and create a culture in which they listen to each other. Next, you have create space in which ideas can be sharpened and <em>clarified</em>, to make sure these ideas don’t get crushed before everyone fully understands their potential usefulness. But just because an idea is easy to understand doesn’t mean it’s a good one. Next, you have to <em>debate</em> ideas and test them more rigorously. Then you need to <em>decide</em>—quickly, but not too quickly. Since not everyone will have been involved in the listen-clarify-debate-decide part of the cycle for every idea, the next step is to bring the broader team along. You have to <em>persuade</em> those who weren’t involved in a decision that it was a good one, so that everyone can execute it effectively. Then, having <em>executed</em>, you have to <em>learn</em> from the results, whether or not you did the right thing, and start the whole process over again.</li></ul><p>LISTEN</p><ul><li>&quot;Give the quiet ones a voice.&quot;—JONY IVE</li><li>Google CEO Eric Schmidt took the opposite approach, urging people to &quot;Be loud!&quot; I love this, too.</li><li>I’ve always found that saying what I think really clearly and then going to great lengths to encourage disagreement is a good way to listen. I tend to state my positions strongly, so I have had to learn to follow up with, &quot;Please poke holes in this idea—I know it may be terrible. So tell me all the reasons we should not do that.&quot;</li></ul><p>Create a culture of listening</p><ul><li>It’s hard enough to get <em>yourself</em> to listen to your team members and let them know you are listening; getting them to listen to one another is even harder. The keys are 1) have a simple system for employees to use to generate ideas and voice complaints, 2) make sure that at least some of the issues raised are quickly addressed, and 3) regularly offer explanations as to why the other issues aren’t being addressed.</li></ul><p>DEBATE</p><p>Create an obligation to dissent</p><ul><li>I once interned at McKinsey for a summer, and what impressed me most about the company was its ability to spur productive debate. How’d they do it? McKinsey had very consciously created an obligation to dissent. If everyone around the table agreed, that was a red flag. Somebody had to take up the dissenting voice.</li></ul><p>DECIDE</p><p>PERSUADE</p><p>EXECUTE</p><ul><li>Here are the three things I’ve learned about getting this balance right: Don’t waste your team’s time; Keep the dirt under your fingernails; and Block time to execute.</li></ul><p>Don’t waste your team’s time</p><p>Keep the &quot;dirt under your fingernails&quot;</p><ul><li>You need to learn to toggle between leading and executing personally. Don’t abandon the first for the second; integrate the two. If you get too far away from the work your team is doing, you won’t understand their ideas well enough to help them clarify, to participate in debates, to know which decisions to push them to make, to teach them to be more persuasive.</li></ul><p>Block time to execute</p><ul><li>Often, execution is a solitary task. We use calendars mostly for collaborative tasks—to schedule meetings, etc. One of your jobs as a manager is to make sure that collaborative tasks don’t consume so much of your time or your team’s time that there’s no time to execute whatever plan has been decided on and accepted.</li></ul><p>LEARN</p><ul><li>&quot;Consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.&quot;—Ralph Waldo Emerson, <em>Self-Reliance</em></li><li>When managing a large team, I found there were two enormous pressures that tempted me to quit learning.</li></ul><p>Pressure to be consistent</p><ul><li>We are often told that changing our position makes us a &quot;flip-flopper&quot; or &quot;erratic&quot; or &quot;lacking principles.&quot; I prefer John Maynard Keynes’s idea that &quot;When the facts change, I change my mind.&quot;</li><li>The key, of course, is communication. Someone might reasonably complain, &quot;Just two months ago you convinced me of X and now you’re telling me maybe not-X after all?&quot; You obviously can’t change course like this lightly, and if you do, you need to be able to explain clearly and convincingly why things have changed.</li></ul><p>Burnout</p><ul><li>Sometimes we’re overwhelmed by our work and personal lives, and these are the moments when it is hardest to learn from our results and to start the whole cycle over again. That’s why you are at the very center of the wheel that moves you forward as a manager. You’ve got to take care of yourself, first and foremost. That’s easier said than done, of course.</li></ul><h5>Part II: Tools &amp; Techniques</h5><h5>5 - Relationships</h5><p>Work-life integration</p><ul><li>Be relentlessly insistent on bringing your fullest and best self to work—and taking it back home again.</li><li>Don’t think of it as work-life balance, some kind of zero-sum game where anything you put into your work robs your life and anything you put into your life robs your work. Instead, think of it as work-life integration.</li></ul><p>Figure out your &quot;recipe&quot; to stay centered and stick to it.</p><ul><li>The world is full of advice here, and what is enormously meaningful for one person is pure crap for another.</li><li>Do whatever works for you. The key, I’ve found, is to prioritize doing it (but not overdoing it) when times get tough.</li><li>Here’s what I need to do to stay centered: sleep eight hours, exercise for forty-five minutes, and have both breakfast and dinner with my family. If I skip one or two of those things for a day or two, it’s OK. But that’s the routine. Also, every so often I need to read a novel (ideally one a week), go away for a romantic weekend with my husband (ideally four times a year), and take a two-week vacation with siblings and parents (once a year).</li></ul><p>Calendar</p><ul><li>Put the things you need to do for yourself on your calendar, just as you would an important meeting.</li></ul><p>Building trust</p><ul><li>Probably the most important thing you can do to build trust is to spend a little time alone with each of your direct reports on a regular basis.</li></ul><p>Recognizing your own emotions</p><ul><li>What did I need to do to make sure that my whole team didn’t have a worse day just because I was having a bad one?</li><li>The best you can do is to own up to how you feel and what’s going on in the rest of your life, so others don’t feel your mood is their fault.</li><li>I learned simply to say something along the lines of, &quot;Hey, I’m having a shitty day. I’m trying hard not to be grouchy, but if it seems like I have a short fuse today, I do. It’s not because of you or your work, though. It’s because I had a big argument with a friend [or whatever].&quot;</li><li>If you have a truly terrible emotional upset in your life, stay home for a day.</li></ul><p>Master your reactions to others’ emotions</p><ul><li>To build Radically Candid relationships, do not try to prevent, control, or manage other people’s emotions. Do acknowledge them and react compassionately when emotions run high. And do try to master your reactions to other people’s emotions.</li></ul><h5>6 - Guidance</h5><ul><li>In order to build a culture of Radically Candid guidance you <em>need to get, give, and encourage both praise and criticism.</em></li></ul><p>Here are some tips/techniques I&#x27;ve seen work to get the conversation flowing:</p><ul><li><strong>You are the exception to the &quot;criticize in private&quot; rule of thumb</strong>. Michelle Peluso, CEO of Gilt Groupe, explained the benefits of criticizing herself publicly. In an interview with <em>The New York Times</em> she said, I’ve always taken a slightly different approach with 360 reviews. We’ll share them with each other on the executive team, and I’ll start with mine—‘Here is where I’m good, and here is where I’m not doing so well.’ I’ll even tell the whole company and say, ‘Here is where I want your help.’ That makes it a bit safer for other people to do the same, and you can build trust.&quot;</li></ul><p>Be humble</p><ul><li>I start with being humble because it’s absolutely essential when delivering both praise and criticism.</li><li>Furthermore, a common concern that people raise about giving feedback is &quot;What if I’m wrong?&quot; My answer is that you may very well be wrong. And telling somebody what you think gives them the opportunity to tell you if you are. A huge part of what makes giving guidance so valuable is that misperceptions on <em>both</em> sides of the equation get corrected.</li></ul><p>Here are some techniques I&#x27;ve found helpful to make sure I&#x27;m being humble when giving praise and criticism:</p><ul><li><strong>Situation, behavior, impact</strong>. This simple technique reminds you to describe three things when giving feedback: 1) the situation you saw, 2) the behavior (i.e., what the person did, either good or bad), and 3) the impact you observed</li><li>Situation, behavior, and impact applies to praise as well as to criticism.</li></ul><p>Be helpful</p><ul><li><strong>Stating your intention to be helpful can lower defenses</strong>. When you tell somebody that you aren’t trying to bust their chops—that you really want to help—it can go a long way toward making them receptive to what you’re saying.</li><li>For example, in your own words, say something like, I’m going to describe a problem I see; I may be wrong, and if I am I hope you’ll tell me; if I’m not I hope my bringing it up will help you fix it.</li><li><strong>Show, don’t tell</strong>. It’s the best advice I’ve ever gotten for story-telling, but it also applies to guidance. The more clearly you show <em>exactly</em> what is good or bad, the more helpful your guidance will be**.**</li><li><strong>Finding help is better than offering it yourself.</strong> When Sheryl Sandberg offered to get me a speaking coach, she did have to budget for it, but she didn’t have to sit there watching me practice presentations for hours. It took some of her time but not too much.</li><li><strong>Guidance is a gift, not a whip or a carrot</strong>. It took me a long time to learn that sometimes the only help I had to offer was the conversation itself.</li></ul><p>Give feedback immediately</p><ul><li>Giving guidance as quickly and as informally as possible is an essential part of Radical Candor, but it takes discipline—both because of our natural inclination to delay/avoid confrontation and because our days are busy enough as it is.</li><li><strong>Say it in 2–3 minutes between meetings</strong>. Just saying it right away in a minute or two, three at most, will take less time than scheduling a meeting for later, let alone having it—and it won’t stick around in your mind, worrying you at odd moments.</li><li><strong>Keep slack time in your calendar, or be willing to be late.</strong> Prioritizing something generally means making time in your calendar for it. But how do you make time in your calendar for something that is &quot;impromptu&quot;? You can’t. Better to talk to the person right away. But in order for that to happen, you must do one of two things. One, keep slack time in your calendar, either by not scheduling back-to-back meetings or by having twenty-five- and fifty-minute meetings with hard stops, not thirty- and sixty-minute meetings. Or, simply be willing to be late to your next meeting.</li><li><strong>Don’t &quot;save up&quot; guidance for a 1:1 or a performance review.</strong> One of the funniest things about becoming a boss is that it causes an awful lot of people to forget everything they know about how to relate to other people.</li><li><strong>Guidance has a short half-life</strong>. If you wait to tell somebody for a week or a quarter, the incident is so far in the past that they can’t fix the problem or build on the success.</li><li><strong>Unspoken criticism explodes like a dirty bomb</strong>. Just as in your personal life, remaining silent at work for too long about something that angers or frustrates you makes it more likely that you will eventually blow up in a way that makes you look irrational, harms your relationship, or both.</li><li><strong>Avoid black holes</strong>. Be sure to let people know immediately how their work is being received. If you ask somebody to do work to help you prepare for a meeting or a presentation where that person won’t be present, be sure to let them know the reaction to their work.</li></ul><p>In person (if possible)</p><ul><li>Remember, the clarity of your guidance gets measured at the other person’s ear, not at your mouth. That’s why it’s best to deliver guidance in person.</li><li>Unfortunately, giving guidance in person is not always possible. When that is the case, here are some things to keep in mind:</li><li><strong>Immediate vs. in person</strong>. If the person is in another city and giving guidance in person means waiting more than a few days, then optimize for immediacy unless what you’re talking about is a big deal.</li><li><strong>Hierarchy of modes</strong>. A video call, if you have high-speed internet access, is second best. If the connection is spotty, use phone for voice and video as a bonus, muting your computer. Phone is third best. Email and text should be avoided if at all possible.</li><li><strong>Multiple modes</strong>. I found that praising people at a public all-hands meeting was a great way to share significant accomplishments. However, I often found that following up in person at a 1:1 carried more emotional weight, and following up with an email to the whole team carried more lasting weight.</li><li><strong>Reply All do’s and don’ts</strong>. If you <em>must</em> criticize or correct somebody over email, do <em>not</em> Reply All. Never. Even if there’s a small factual error that went out to a lot of people, reply just to the person who made the factual error and ask that person to Reply All. For praise on small things, I found that a quick Reply All email worked pretty well.</li><li><strong>Being in a remote office is hard</strong>. If you are in a remote office, or if you are managing people in remote offices, it’s really important to have quick, frequent interactions. This will allow you to pick up on people’s most subtle emotional cues.</li></ul><p>Praise in public, criticize in private</p><ul><li>A good rule of thumb for guidance is praise in public, criticize in private. Public criticism tends to trigger a defensive reaction and make it much harder for a person to accept they’ve made a mistake and to learn from it.</li><li><strong>Corrections, factual observations, disagreements, and debates are different from criticism.</strong> It’s vital to be able to correct somebody’s work, to make a factual observation, or to have a debate in public.</li><li><strong>But criticizing a person should be done in private</strong>—&quot;There’s a typo on slide six,&quot; or &quot;There are a lot of typos in this presentation, and given the nature of our work we need to be 100 percent accurate,&quot; or &quot;There are a bunch of typos here but they don’t matter too much at this stage,&quot; or &quot;You missed your number by 5 percent,&quot; or &quot;I disagree with what you just said.&quot; Those kinds of corrections could go out over email or be said in a public meeting. Here is an example of criticizing the <em>person:</em> &quot;When you give several important presentations that are all riddled with typos that a simple spell-checker would catch, I start to wonder what’s going on. Can you explain?&quot; That sort of thing needs to be a private conversation.</li><li><strong>Adapt to an individual’s preferences</strong>. While the majority of people do like to be praised in public, for some any kind of public mention is cruel and unusual punishment</li><li><strong>Group learning</strong>. I’ve rarely encountered anyone who will admit that they like to be praised publicly. So whenever I praised in public I would explain that I wasn’t doing so because the person wanted public praise, but so that everybody could learn from what had happened</li></ul><p>Don’t personalize</p><ul><li><strong>The &quot;fundamental attribution error&quot; will harm the effectiveness of your guidance.</strong> This phrase was coined by Lee Ross, a social psychologist from Stanford. We’ve touched on this already, but it’s useful to repeat because it is so central to healthy human relationships, whether with spouses, children, friends, or the people who report to you. Making a fundamental attribution error is using perceived personality attributes—&quot;You’re stupid, lazy, greedy, hypocritical, an asshole, etc.&quot;—to explain someone else’s behavior rather than considering one’s own behavior and/or the situational factors that were probably the real cause of the other person’s behavior. It’s a problem because 1) it’s generally inaccurate and 2) it renders an otherwise solvable problem really hard to fix since changing core personality attributes is so very difficult and time-consuming.</li><li><strong>Say &quot;that’s wrong&quot; not &quot;you’re wrong.&quot;</strong> He stopped saying, &quot;You’re wrong,&quot; and instead learned to say, &quot;I think that’s wrong.&quot; &quot;I think&quot; was humbler, and saying &quot;that&quot; instead of &quot;you&quot; didn’t personalize. People started to be more receptive to his criticism.</li><li><strong>The phrase &quot;don’t take it personally&quot; is worse than useless</strong>.</li><li><strong>How not to personalize even when it really <em>is</em> personal.</strong> It’s easier to understand how to avoid personalizing guidance when you’re talking about a person’s work. But when you’re talking about something that is more personal, it’s even harder. One woman I worked with had body odor to the point that it undermined her effectiveness. But how to raise the issue? I tried hard to make the conversation about her colleagues’ noses, not her armpits. She wasn’t American, but we were working in the U.S., so I laughed a little bit about American culture. I tried not to be prescriptive about the solution—maybe she had an allergic reaction to deodorant, or a health concern—but I did make clear that the status quo was undermining her otherwise strong performance.</li></ul><h5>7 - Team</h5><p>CAREER CONVERSATIONS</p><ul><li>He taught every manager on his team to have a succession of three forty-five-minute conversations with each direct report over the course of three to six weeks.</li></ul><p>Conversation one: life story</p><ul><li>The first conversation is designed to learn what motivates each person who reports directly to you. Russ suggested a simple opening to these conversations. &quot;Starting with kindergarten, tell me about your life.&quot;</li><li>Then, he advised each manager to focus on changes that people had made and to understand why they’d made those choices. Values often get revealed in moments of change.</li><li>Remember, you’re not looking for definitive answers; you’re just trying to get to know people a little better and understand what they care about.</li></ul><p>The second conversation: dreams</p><ul><li>The second conversation moves from understanding what motivates people to understanding the person’s dreams—what they want to achieve at the apex of their career, how they imagine life at its best to feel.</li><li>Russ recommends that you begin these conversations with, &quot;What do you want the pinnacle of your career to look like?&quot; Because most people don’t really know what they want to do when they &quot;grow up,&quot; Russ suggests encouraging people to come up with three to five different dreams for the future. This allows employees to include the dream they think you want to hear as well as those that are far closer to their hearts.</li><li>Ask each direct report to create a document with three to five columns; title each with the names of the dreams they described in the last conversation. Then, list the skills needed as rows. Show how important each skill is to each dream, and what their level of competency is in that skill.</li><li>Generally, it will become very obvious what new skills the person needs to acquire. Now, your job as the boss is to help them think about how they can acquire those skills: what are the projects you can put them on, whom can you introduce them to, what are the options for education?</li><li>The final part of Russ’s second conversation involves making sure that the person’s dreams are aligned with the values they have expressed. For example, &quot;If ‘hard work’ is a core value, why is one of your dreams to retire early?&quot; Inquiring about the dreams people describe is an important way to push for candid, meaningful conversations.</li></ul><p>Conversation three: eighteen-month plan</p><ul><li>Last, Russ taught managers to get people to begin asking themselves the following questions: What do I need to learn in order to move in the direction of my dreams? How should I prioritize the things I need to learn? Whom can I learn from? How can I change my role to learn it? Once people were clear on what they wanted to learn next, it was much easier for managers to identify opportunities at work that would help them develop skills in the next six to eighteen months that would take them in the direction of at least one of their dreams.</li><li>Here’s what to do: make a list of how the person’s role can change to help them learn the skills needed to achieve each dream; whom they can learn from; and classes they could take or books they could read. Then, next to each item, note who does what by when—and make sure you have some action items.</li><li>Helping people clarify values and dreams and then aligning them as closely as possible with their current work will invariably make your team stronger. Each individual will be more successful and happier, and together you’ll achieve results &quot;unexpected in common hours.&quot;</li></ul><p>HIRING: YOUR MENTALITY AND YOUR PROCESS</p><p>Here are some simple things you can do to make sure you’re hiring the right people:</p><ul><li><strong>Job description: define team fit as rigorously as you define skills to minimize bias</strong>. The hiring person—not a recruiter!—should write the job description, basing it on the role, the skills required for the role, and the team fit criteria. Defining team fit can be hard, which makes it tempting to leave out. Try to describe your culture in three to four words. It could be detail-oriented, quirky, and blunt. Or maybe it’s big picture, straightlaced, and polite. Whatever you choose, be disciplined about interviewing for those things.</li><li><strong>Blind skills assessments can also minimize bias</strong>. Interviewing takes time, filling out interview feedback reports takes time, and so it’s important to be very selective about who gets invited to interview.</li><li>An example of a good prescreen is a skills assessment: ask potential candidates to do a project or solve a problem related to the job they’re applying for.</li><li><strong>Use the same interview committee for multiple candidates, to allow for meaningful comparisons</strong>. If you can avoid it, don’t make unilateral hiring decisions. Because interviewing is so subjective and prone to bias, you’ll improve your odds of making good decisions by getting multiple perspectives.</li><li>Four people is about the right size for an interview committee.</li><li>It’s also helpful if at least one of the interviewers is on another team.</li><li><strong>Casual interviews reveal more about team fit than formal ones</strong>. I am sure that there is good interview training out there somewhere, but I’ve never encountered it. My experience is that interviewing is a learning-by-doing skill. Let people develop their own style. I love stories, so my whole interview technique is just to ask people to give me the oral version of your résumé.</li><li>Another good practice is to have people intentionally create more casual moments—take candidates to lunch, walk them to the car.</li><li>An important part of my team’s culture was Bob Sutton’s &quot;No Assholes&quot; rule. One candidate I was about to hire was so rude to the scheduler that she cried.</li><li><strong>Make interviews productive by jotting down your thoughts right away.</strong> Write down your interview feedback; doing that is as clarifying for you as it is for the rest of the committee, and it will result in better hiring decisions. Write down your thoughts on each of the skills, if you’re interviewing for skills, as well as for each of the team fit criteria identified.</li><li>I know, you’re busy and you don’t have time to write everything down. Here’s a tip: schedule an hour, interview for forty-five minutes, and write for fifteen. This arrangement will force you to have a more focused interview and to make a better recommendation about whom to hire.</li><li><strong>In-person debrief/decision: if you’re not <em>dying</em> to hire the person, don’t make an offer.</strong> The best advice I ever got for hiring somebody is this: if you’re not dying to hire somebody, don’t make an offer. And, even if you are dying to hire somebody, allow yourself to be overruled by the other interviewers who feel strongly the person should not be hired. In general, a bias toward no is useful when hiring.</li></ul><h5>8 - Results</h5><ul><li>Your role will to be to encourage that process of listening, clarifying, debating, deciding, persuading, and executing to the point that it’s almost as if your team shares one mind when it comes to completing projects, and then learning from their results</li><li>One of your most important responsibilities to keep everything moving smoothly is to decide who needs to communicate with whom and how frequently. This means meetings. Obviously, every meeting comes with a significant cost—time—so it is important to minimize the duration, frequency and number of people required to attend. The most important of these meetings is the 1:1 with each of your direct reports.</li><li>1:1 Conversations</li><li>Staff Meetings</li><li>Think Time</li><li>&quot;Big Debate&quot; Meetings</li><li>&quot;Big Decision&quot; Meetings</li><li>All-Hands Meetings</li><li>Meeting-Free Zones</li><li>Kanban Boards</li><li>Walk Around</li><li>Be Conscious of Culture</li></ul><p>1:1 CONVERSATIONS</p><ul><li><em>Employees set the agenda, you listen and help them clarify</em></li><li>1:1s are your must-do meetings, your single best opportunity to listen, really listen, to the people on your team to make sure you understand their perspective on what’s working and what’s not working.</li><li>Here are a few things you can do to make sure you and each of your reports are getting the most out of these 1:1 meetings:</li></ul><p>Mind-set</p><ul><li><em>Your</em> mind-set will go a long way in determining how well the 1:1s go. I found that when I quit thinking of them as meetings and began treating them as if I were having lunch or coffee with somebody I was eager to get to know better, they ended up yielding much better conversations.</li></ul><p>Frequency</p><ul><li>Time doesn’t scale, but it’s also vital to relationships. 1:1s should be a natural bottleneck that determines how many direct reports a boss can have. I like to meet with each person who works directly for me for fifty minutes a week. But I can’t bear more than about five hours of 1:1 time in my calendar.</li></ul><p>Some good follow-up questions</p><ul><li>Here are some follow-up questions you can ask to show not only that you are listening but that you care and want to help, and to identify the gaps between what people <em>are</em> doing, what they think they <em>ought</em> to be doing, and what they <em>want</em> to be doing:</li><li>&quot;Why?&quot;</li><li>&quot;How can I help?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What can I do or stop doing that would make this easier?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What wakes you up at night?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What are you working on that you don’t want to work on?&quot;</li><li>&quot;Do you not want to work on it because you aren’t interested or because you think it’s not important?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What can you do to stop working on it?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What are you not working on that you do want to work on?&quot;</li><li>&quot;Why are you not working on it?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What can you do to start working on it?&quot;</li><li>&quot;How do you feel about the priorities of the teams you’re dependent on?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What are they working on that seems unimportant or even counterproductive?&quot;</li><li>&quot;What are they not doing that you wish they would do?&quot;</li><li>&quot;Have you talked to these other teams directly about your concerns? If not, why not?&quot;</li></ul><p>Encourage new ideas in the 1:1.</p><ul><li>It’s worth keeping Jony Ive’s quote, &quot;new ideas are fragile,&quot; top of mind before a 1:1. This meeting should be a safe place for people to nurture new ideas before they are submitted to the rough-and-tumble of debate.</li></ul><p>Here are some questions that you can use to nurture new ideas by pushing people to be clearer:</p><ul><li>&quot;What do you need to develop that idea further so that it’s ready to discuss with the broader team? How can I help?&quot;</li><li>&quot;I think you’re on to something, but it’s still not clear to me. Can you try explaining it again?&quot;</li><li>&quot;Let’s wrestle some more with it, OK?&quot;</li><li>&quot;I understand what you mean, but I don’t think others will. How can you explain it so it will be easier for them to understand?&quot;</li><li>&quot;I don’t think ‘so-and-so’ will understand this. Can you explain it again to make it clearer specifically for them?&quot;</li><li>&quot;Is the problem really that they are too stupid to understand, or is it that you are not explaining it clearly enough?&quot;</li></ul><p>Signs you’ll get from 1:1s that you’re failing as a boss</p><ul><li><strong>Cancellations.</strong> If people who report to you cancel 1:1s too often, it’s a sign your partnership is not fruitful for them, or that you’re using it inappropriately to dispose of criticism you’ve been stockpiling.</li><li><strong>Updates</strong>. If people just give you updates that could simply be emailed to you, encourage them to use the time more constructively.</li><li><strong>Good news only</strong>. If you hear only good news, it’s a sign people don’t feel comfortable coming to you with their problems, or they think you won’t or can’t help. In these cases, you need to ask explicitly for the bad news. Don’t let the issue drop till you hear some.</li><li><strong>No criticism</strong>. If they never criticize you, you’re not good enough at getting guidance from your team. Remember that phrase: What could I do or stop doing that would make it easier to work with me?</li><li><strong>No agenda</strong>. If they consistently come with no topics to discuss, it might mean that they are overwhelmed, that they don’t understand the purpose of the meeting, or that they don’t consider it useful. Be direct but polite: &quot;This is your time, but you don’t seem to come with much to talk about. Can you tell me why?&quot;</li></ul><p>EXECUTION TIME</p><ul><li>At Google, different teams tried declaring &quot;No-Meeting Wednesday&quot; or &quot;No-Meeting Thursday.&quot; None was ever able to stick to it. Greg Badros, an engineering leader at Google and Facebook, set a goal of ending 25 percent of his meetings early. I loved that, but I don’t think he ever hit the goal.</li><li>I have found that the most effective solution is simply to fight fire with fire. For the same reason, I blocked off think-time in calendar; I also found it necessary to block off time in my calendar to be alone and execute.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[It Doesn't Have to Be Crazy at Work by David Heinemeier Hansson & Jason Fried: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/it-doesnt-have-to-be-crazy-at-work-david-heinemeier-hansson-jason-fried</link>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2020 17:34:11 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I always enjoy the writing from DHH and Jason Fried, even if I don't always agree with their viewpoints.Overall, this book is about maintaining calm in your life, and particularly at work. In a world of increasing pace and change, maintaining calm is becoming a more and more important skill, and this book was filled with practical insights on how to do it.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>Calm is meetings as a last resort.</li><li>Calm is asynchronous first, real-time second.</li><li>Your company is your product. Treat it like one.</li><li>Goals are fake. Nearly all of them are artificial targets set for the sake of setting targets.</li><li>Most of the time, if you’re uncomfortable with something, it’s because it isn’t right.</li><li>Time and attention are best spent in large bills, if you will, not spare coins and small change.</li><li>When was the last time you had three or even four completely uninterrupted hours to yourself and your work?</li><li>When people focus on productivity, they end up focusing on being busy. Filling every moment with something to do.</li><li>We believe in effectiveness. How little can we do? How much can we cut out? Instead of adding to-dos, we add to-don’ts.</li><li>Ever notice how much work you get done on a plane or a train? It’s in these moments—the moments far away from work, way outside the office—when it is the easiest to get work done. Interruption-free zones.</li><li>Getting on someone&#x27;s calendar at Basecamp is hard. Friction has been added to the process on purpose, so it&#x27;s less convenient and therefore avoided.</li><li>You can’t credibly promote the virtues of reasonable hours, plentiful rest, and a healthy lifestyle to employees if you’re doing the opposite as the boss. It doesn&#x27;t matter what you say, it matters what you do.</li><li>Good questions for a boss:</li><li>&quot;What&#x27;s something nobody dares to talk about?&quot;</li><li>&quot;Are you afraid of anything at work?&quot;</li><li>Declaring that an unfamiliar task will yield low-hanging fruit is almost always an admission that you have little insight about what you’re setting out to do.</li><li>Most conversion work, most business-development work, most sales work is a grind —a lot of effort for a little movement. You pile those little movements into a big one eventually, but that fruit is way up at the top of the tree.</li><li>It’s not worth trading sleep for a few extra hours at the office. Not only will it make you exhausted, it’ll literally make you stupid. The science is clear on this: Continued sleep deprivation batters your IQ and saps your creativity.</li><li>Sleep-deprived people aren’t just short on brains or creativity, they’re short on patience. Short on understanding. Short on tolerance. The smallest things become the biggest dramas.</li><li>The quickest way to disappointment is to set unreasonable expectations.</li><li>In our office, if someone’s at their desk, we assume they’re deep in thought and focused on their work. That means we don’t walk up to them and interrupt them. It also means conversations should be kept to a whisper so as not to disturb anyone who could possibly hear you.</li><li>Following group chat at work is like being in an all-day meeting with random participants and no agenda. It’s completely exhausting.</li><li>When it comes to chat, we have two primary rules of thumb: &quot;Real-time sometimes, asynchronous most of the time&quot; and &quot;If it’s important, slow down.&quot;</li><li>At Basecamp, we don’t dread the deadline, we embrace it. Our deadlines remain fixed and fair. They are fundamental to our process—and making progress.</li><li>What’s variable is the scope of the problem—the work itself. Our projects can only get smaller over time, not larger.</li><li>Another way to think about our deadlines is that they’re based on budgets, not estimates. We’re not fans of estimates because, let’s face it, humans suck at estimating. But it turns out that people are quite good at setting and spending budgets. If we tell a team that they have six weeks to build <em>a great calendar feature</em> in Basecamp, they’re much more likely to produce lovely work than if we ask them how long it’ll take to build <em>this specific calendar feature</em>, and then break their weekends and backs to make it so.</li><li>When we present work, it’s almost always written up first. A complete idea in the form of a carefully composed multipage document. Illustrated, whenever possible. And then it’s posted to Basecamp, which lets everyone involved know there’s a complete idea waiting to be considered.</li><li>We don’t want reactions. We don’t want first impressions. We don’t want knee-jerks. We want considered feedback. Read it over. Read it twice, three times even. Sleep on it. Take your time to gather and present your thoughts—just like the person who pitched the original idea took their time to gather and present theirs.</li><li>That&#x27;s how you go deep on an idea.</li><li>Ship on Mondays.</li><li>Now we even use that exact term in our discussions. &quot;I disagree, but let’s commit&quot; is something you’ll hear at Basecamp after heated debates about specific products or strategy decisions.</li><li>Last thing: What’s especially important in disagree-and-commit situations is that the final decision should be explained clearly to everyone involved. It’s not just decide and go, it’s decide, explain, and go.</li><li>Doing nothing is always an option, and should always be on the table.</li><li>The only way to get more done is to have less to do.</li><li>Nearly all product work at Basecamp is done by teams of three people. It’s our magic number. A team of three is usually composed of two programmers and one designer.</li><li>Taking a risk doesn’t have to be reckless. You’re not any bolder or braver because you put yourself or the business at needless risk. The smart bet is one where you get to play again if it doesn’t come up your way.</li><li>The problem with per-seat pricing is that it makes your biggest customers your best customers. With money comes influence, if not outright power. And from that flows decisions about what and who to spend time on. There’s no way to be immune from such pressure once the money is flowing. The only fix is to cap the spigot.</li><li>At Basecamp we live this philosophy to the extreme. We don’t show any customers anything until every customer can see it. We don’t beta-test with customers. We don’t ask people what they’d pay for something. We don’t ask anyone what they think of something. We do the best job we know how to do and then we launch it into the market. The market will tell us the truth.</li><li>It’s taken us a long time and a number of missteps to learn this core truth about selling: Sell new customers on the new thing and let old customers keep whatever they already have. This is the way to keep the peace and maintain the calm.</li><li>Jean-Louis Gassée, who used to run Apple France, describes this situation as the choice between two tokens. When you deal with people who have trouble, you can either choose to take the token that says &quot;It’s no big deal&quot; or the token that says &quot;It’s the end of the world.&quot; Whichever token you pick, they’ll take the other.</li><li>Keep that in mind the next time you take a token. Which one are you leaving for the customer?</li><li>You have a choice. And if you don’t have the power to make things change at the company level, find your local level. You always have the choice to change yourself and your expectations. Change the way you interact with people. Change the way you communicate. Start protecting your own time.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Will Teach You To Be Rich by Ramit Sethi: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/i-will-teach-you-to-be-rich-ramit-sethi</link>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2020 17:29:59 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A modern classic in the personal finance world, this is a great book for newbies to personal finance, or as a reminder for all of us that have learned the principles, but need reinforcement.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>The single most important thing you can do to be rich is to start early.</li><li>People love to argue minor points about finance, partially because they feel it absolves them from getting started.</li><li>Instead, you need to cut through all the info and just get started.</li><li>Set up accounts at reliable, no-fee banks, and then automate savings, investment, and bill payments.</li><li>Getting started is more important than becoming an expert.</li><li>Spend extravagantly on the things you love, and cut costs mercilessly on the things you don&#x27;t.</li><li>Before you start, ask yourself: why doo you want to be rich? What do you want to do with your wealth?</li><li>Find out your credit score.</li><li>Pay off your credit card always, on time. Keep your cards for a long time, keep them active, and use less than 30% of their limit (ask for a limit raise if needed).</li><li>Open a savings account with a good interest rate, and a separate checking account, with a low-hassle, no-fee bank. Online banks are often a good option.</li><li>Why a separate savings and checking account? Savings you should only be putting money in, and a checking account is what you use for money you need to spend.</li><li>Open your retirement and no-interest investing accounts. In the US, this is probably a 401(k) and a Roth IRA, while in Canada it&#x27;s an RRSP and a TFSA.</li><li>You should aim to invest at least 20% of your household income per year. 10% of your take-home pay is another good target.</li></ul><p>5 investing steps:</p><ul><li>If your employer offers 401(k) matching, invest enough to take advantage.</li><li>Pay off your credit card and any other debt.</li><li>Open a Roth IRA (or TFSA) and contribute as much money as possible.</li><li>If you have money left, go back to your 401(k) and contribute as much as possible.</li><li>If you still have money left, open a regular nonretirement account and put as much as possible in there.</li></ul><p>Yes, you do need a budget. Start with monthly fixed costs, add long-term investments, then you have guilt-free spending money. Tweak this plan as you go. Good benchmarks:</p><ul><li>Monthly fixed costs: 50-60% take-home pay</li><li>Long-term investments: 10% take-home pay</li><li>Spending money: 20-35% take-home pay</li></ul><p>Automate everything:</p><ul><li>Pay your bills automatically</li><li>Schedule transfers to your savings account</li><li>Schedule transfers to your investment accounts</li><li>Note: think about your scheduling—when you get paid, when bills are due, etc. to make this optimal.</li></ul><p>How to save and invest:</p><ul><li>Fund managers and investment managers rarely beat the market (75% of the time they don&#x27;t), take higher fees, and have incentives that aren&#x27;t aligned with you (like commissions on specific investments).</li><li>Instead, use an index fund investment service (like WealthSimple, or WealthFront) which is low-fee, and automatically invests in a diversified portfolio of index funds.</li><li>As you get older, your portfolio should probably get more conservative (more bonds, less stocks).</li><li>Create an emergency fund for unexpected events (they WILL happen).</li><li>Negotiate a raise. This is one of the most effective tactics for increasing your savings long-term.</li><li>Buy a car with good reliability, that you will drive for at least 10 years, which has a good resale value, and is fuel efficient. And stay within budget.</li></ul><p>Some rules for buying a house:</p><ul><li><strong>Only buy if you&#x27;re planning to live there for &gt;10 years.</strong></li><li>Only buy if you can afford at least 10% down payment (20% is better).</li><li>Your mortgage is not your only fee. You&#x27;ll have hundreds more per month in maintenance, insurance, property taxes, etc.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Complete Guide to Annual Reviews]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/the-complete-guide-to-annual-reviews</link>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2020 17:28:35 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[There are three steps to a great annual review: reflect, brainstorm, and plan. This article outlines my process and includes a template with 50+ prompts for things to review.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Why Do An Annual Review?</h2><p>Everyone knows about New Year&#x27;s resolutions, though they&#x27;ve become something of a joke. Regular gym-goers complain about those who will clutter the gym in January and be gone by February.</p><p>But there is a reason why the end of the year is a good time to do a review.</p><p>First, there&#x27;s the practicality aspect: for many of us, the holidays includes some time off from work, often to spend with family or friends. This period naturally ends up being reflective, and we simply have some time to breathe and think.</p><p>There is a name for landmarks like the beginning of the New Year: &quot;The first day of the year is what social scientists call a &quot;temporal landmark.&quot; Just as human beings rely on landmarks to navigate space...we also use landmarks to navigate time.&quot;—<a href="/book-notes/when-the-scientific-secrets-of-perfect-timing-daniel-pink"><em>When</em>, Daniel Pink</a></p><p>These landmarks allow us to start a new chapter, and close an old one. They stand out, just like a physical landmark does.</p><p>If we want to reflect, think, build new goals, and ultimately improve ourselves, temporal landmarks like the end of the year are a natural time to do so.</p><h2>What Makes an Annual Review?</h2><p>There are many different styles of annual reviews, but they all have three main components:</p><ol><li>Reflect</li><li>Brainstorm</li><li>Plan</li></ol><p><strong>Reflect</strong> is about looking back at the past year, what was accomplished, what didn&#x27;t go well, and comparing progress to any goals you had.</p><p><strong>Brainstorm</strong> is the step where all ideas are welcome. You want to write down anything and everything that crosses your mind about what you want to accomplish or focus on next year.</p><p><strong>Plan</strong> is the stage where you start selecting items from your brainstorming, and planning how to accomplish them.</p><p>One <strong>important note:</strong> you may wish to focus on the first two steps, and then do the third step in a separate session. They are quite different processes, and sometimes require a different headspace.</p><h2>Review Spotlight: Tim Ferriss</h2><p>Tim outlined his current format <a href="https://tim.blog/2018/12/28/past-year-review/">in this post</a>, and this is the format I&#x27;ve followed for the past several years.</p><p>In true Tim fashion, what makes this annual review great is how simple it is. It consists of three steps:</p><ol><li>Write down two columns: <strong>positive</strong> and <strong>negative</strong>. Write down all the <strong>people</strong>, <strong>activities</strong> or <strong>commitments</strong> that triggered the strongest positive and negative reactions. Use your calendar or your journal to help.</li><li>When you&#x27;re done, go back and <strong>circle the top 20% in each column</strong>.</li><li>Take your positive winners and <strong>schedule them in your calendar</strong>. Create a not-to-do list with your negative leaders, and put it somewhere you&#x27;ll see it every day.</li></ol><p>And that&#x27;s it!</p><p>One additional modification I like to make: I add a step in between for more brainstorming.</p><p>I brainstorm ideas in four categories:</p><ol><li><strong>Healthy</strong>: what are activities or goals related to my health that I could <em>potentially</em> (remember, this is brainstorming) do next year?</li><li><strong>Wealthy</strong>: what are activities or goals I could do to become more wealthy?</li><li><strong>Wise</strong>: what are activities or goals I could do to become more wise?</li><li><strong>Crazy</strong>: what are some crazy activities or goals I could pursue?</li></ol><h2>Review Spotlight: James Clear</h2><p>James Clear is the author of <em><a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">Atomic Habits</a>,</em> the best book on habits I&#x27;ve ever read.</p><p>He started as a blogger, and has published <a href="https://jamesclear.com/annual-review">his annual reviews since 2013</a>.</p><p>His format is also simple—he answers three questions:</p><ol><li>What went well this year?</li><li>What didn&#x27;t go so well this year?</li><li>What am I working toward? (and sometimes, &quot;What did I learn?&quot;)</li></ol><p>He will write a paragraph or so for each item within each question. Some examples of items he&#x27;s mentioned: writing, travel, lifting, management, staying in touch with family and friends, photography, building systems—anything goes.</p><h2>My Annual Review</h2><p>I change something about my annual review every year. Sometimes I discover a cool question I want to journal on, or find that I&#x27;m sticking too much in the same pattern as last year.</p><p>Overall, my review still holds the same structure:</p><p><strong>1) Reflect:</strong> Write down a list of the top positive and negative highlights from the year.</p><ol><li><strong>Reduce</strong>: From these lists, circle the most impactful ones in each category.</li><li><strong>Expand</strong>: Write a few sentences or a paragraph about <em>why</em> each one was in the top.</li><li><strong>Wild cards</strong>: this is where you can go back to a larger list of questions, and journal on the ones that interest you. If any of the questions prompts something significant to pop up, write a paragraph about it and add it to your list. This is one of the sections that can change year-to-year as you feel like it or discover new questions.</li></ol><p><strong>2) Brainstorm:</strong> Brainstorm possible goals and habits in the following areas:</p><ol><li><strong>Healthy</strong>: what are activities or goals related to my health that I could <em>potentially</em> (remember, this is brainstorming) do next year?</li><li><strong>Wealthy</strong>: what are activities or goals I could do to become more wealthy?</li><li><strong>Wise</strong>: what are activities or goals I could do to become more wise?</li><li><strong>Crazy</strong>: what are some crazy activities or goals I could pursue?</li><li><strong>Wild cards</strong>: like the first step, this is where you can incorporate more prompt questions, which you can swap out year-to-year or build a list and choose the ones you like.</li></ol><p><strong>3) Plan</strong>: This is the step where you make concrete, actionable plans to accomplish the goals and habits you brainstormed in the previous step.</p><ol><li>Go back to your brainstorm, and circle up to 5 goals or habits you&#x27;d like to build in the next year.</li><li>One note here: it&#x27;s tempting to pick the full 5, or even more. <strong>Don&#x27;t!</strong> If you want to accomplish more, prioritize them, and only tackle the first few. I&#x27;d recommend even trying to get it down to 1-3. A good question for this is: What goal, if it was the only one I succeeded at, would still make me happy?</li><li>Set out your plan for accomplishing these goals.</li><li>This process is outside the scope of this post, but deserves some attention all on it&#x27;s own.</li><li>My suggestion: focus on the first month, or the first quarter at maximum. Iterate from there.</li><li>If it&#x27;s a brand-new goal—it isn&#x27;t a progression on something you already do—set a process goal (ex: publish 10 YouTube videos). If you already have the process in place, feel free to set a target goal (ex: get 1000 YouTube subscribers).</li><li>Find some friends to hold you accountable, and execute! Iterate along the way.</li></ol><p>‍</p><h2>The Value is the Exercise</h2><p>The point of an annual review isn&#x27;t—necessarily—to set a bunch of hard-to-reach goals for the next year.</p><p>Maybe you don&#x27;t set goals at all! Even if that&#x27;s the case, the annual review is valuable.</p><p>It forces you to reflect back on your year, and put those reflections to paper.</p><p>As the years go on, it will give you an accurate portrait of your thinking at the time. Maybe you can reflect on the progress you&#x27;ve made. Maybe it will remind you of what you wanted to accomplish back then.</p><p>Either way, it will be much more reliable than your memory.</p><p>Enjoy!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why You Should Work Transparently]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/why-you-should-work-transparently</link>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2020 12:17:06 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Working in view of others is uncomfortable for everyone. But working transparently is by far the fastest way to improve and produce a great product. This post explores why you should be working transparently.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Working transparently is a foreign concept for many of us.</p><p>School teaches us to work and polish our final product alone. Tests ensure we can get the final answers by ourselves.</p><p>And as humans, we worry constantly about being judged by others.</p><p>But working transparently, particularly in high-pace environments, is the fastest way to achieve an optimal result.</p><p>It should be the default for all of us.</p><p>&quot;...transparency is the default setting for our daily lives. It’s the express lane to operating excellence.&quot;—John Doerr, <a href="/book-notes/measure-what-matters-by-john-doerr"><em>Measure What Matters</em></a></p><h2>Iteration Speed</h2><p>The first benefit of working transparently is the speed at which you can iterate.</p><p>When we have full view of someone else&#x27;s work, we can see it at all stages of development. We can catch oversights or mistakes before most of the work is done, and correct quickly.</p><p>Daniel Ek, CEO of Spotify, has been quoted as saying “We believe that speed of iteration beats quality of iteration, which is why we’re not big on bureaucracy.”</p><h2>Multiple Views</h2><p>Input from others often brings perspectives that are difficult to come up with by ourselves.</p><p>Using checklists and other tools to remind ourselves to consider other perspectives can help. But others will interpret what you&#x27;ve written in different ways, and it&#x27;s impossible to know exactly what others are thinking.</p><p>They may also have information or knowledge you don&#x27;t. Exposing them to your work early may surface that information.</p><p>As one of the characteristics of high-performing teams was described in <a href="/book-notes/the-culture-code-by-daniel-coyle"><em>The Culture Code</em></a>: &quot;Everyone in the group talks and listens in roughly equal measure, keeping contributions short.&quot;</p><h2>Work as a Form of Communication</h2><p>Showing your work is a method of communicating.</p><p>Even if you describe a deliverable or project in detail in a meeting, each person will expect something different.</p><p>Delivering an early draft clarifies those points right away.</p><p>One of the best analogies I&#x27;ve come across on this topic was from Sahil Lavingia, the founder of Gumroad, <a href="https://fs.blog/knowledge-project/sahil-lavingia/">during this conversation</a>.</p><p>He described communication like static electricity. If you go a long time without grounding yourself, you&#x27;ll create a spark and get a shock.</p><p>If you ground yourself regularly, the electricity doesn&#x27;t build up, and you never get the shock.</p><p>Communicating works the same way, and showing your work is the most direct way to communicate what you&#x27;re working on.</p><h2>Building in Public</h2><p>Building in public has become a trend started by <a href="https://levels.io/hoodmaps/">Pieter Levels of Nomad List</a>, who built has built multiple startups while streaming the whole thing live.</p><p>That&#x27;s extreme, but many others have taken to sharing their progress in some way.</p><p>Transparency and sharing in public does a few things:</p><ul><li>It gives you feedback immediately</li><li>It builds trust, as others get to know you and your process</li><li>It builds an audience, often future customers who are interested in your product</li><li>It attracts talent, help, and like-minded people.</li></ul><p>Building in public, if done genuinely, can have all kinds of benefits.</p><h2>Transparency is Tough</h2><p>Being transparent with your work is scary.</p><p>We imagine others will judge us based on the first draft, or we&#x27;ll be criticized for the lower quality.</p><p>But this rarely happens. In fact, it can make the criticism easier to take, if you&#x27;ve set expectations.</p><p>&quot;This is a quick first draft, but I just want to make sure we&#x27;re aligned. Please voice any comments or concerns before I start the next one!&quot;This is much lower stakes than if you&#x27;re presenting a final product to a big group, and it turns out to be completely different than what was imagined.</p><p>Embrace transparent work.</p><p>The discomfort will be worth the gains in speed and alignment.</p><h2>Further Reading</h2><ul><li><a href="https://gabygoldberg.medium.com/the-building-in-public-how-to-guide-219d417f00c1">The Building in Public How-To Guide - Gaby Goldberg</a></li><li><a href="https://levels.io/hoodmaps/">Building a startup in public: from first line of code to frontpage of Reddit - Pieter Levels</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Advice for Those Graduating College]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2020 22:48:41 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I've learned far more in the years since I've graduated than I did while at school. Here's my advice for those finishing university or college.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#x27;ve learned far more in the years since I&#x27;ve graduated than I did while at school.</p><p>Here are a few pieces of advice for those finishing university or college.</p><h2><strong>Read a lot</strong></h2><p>During university, I didn&#x27;t read much aside from textbooks, and I wish I had. Reading great books is like having those people as mentors. Reading lets you explore a wide variety of topics, and helps speed up your career progression. In a world of constant distractions, <a href="/book-notes">reading becomes meditation and a way to practice deep work</a>, an advantage that grows daily.</p><h2><strong>Indulge your curiosity</strong></h2><p>Reading is one way to do this. Meeting interesting people, reading blogs, writing, or learning web design are all other ways. Whatever it is you&#x27;re interested in, explore it. Paul Graham has written extensively on <a href="http://paulgraham.com/startupideas.html">finding ideas</a>: they often come at the intersection of unique interests. The key part is they should be unique to you, and the best way to find them is to be curious.</p><h2><strong>Credentials matter, but don&#x27;t sacrifice happiness to get them</strong></h2><p>Many ambitious university graduates seek a job with a well-known consulting, accounting, or investment banking firm. It&#x27;s not a bad start; brand names like that still have value, though less than before. When I graduated, I knew I wouldn&#x27;t be happy working at a job I was doing for the credentials or money. Earning money after graduating and working for a brand-name firm are both good things. But if they conflict with your personal values, you will suffer. There is almost always a better path, like working for a top-notch startup.</p><h2><strong>Get good at learning</strong></h2><p>Daniel Ek, CEO of Spotify, <a href="https://tim.blog/2020/12/06/daniel-ek-transcript/">cited the rate of learning as his best predictor of future success for employees and execs</a>. My experience has been the same. You can master almost anything if you have the will and desire to learn. There are tactics for faster learning, of course, and you should learn those. But you should be learning and getting better as fast as possible. That approach to your work, and to your life—learning as fast as possible—will get you a long way. It also makes your list of possible jobs much wider.</p><h2><strong>Find what great looks like</strong></h2><p>When I left university, I decided to learn on my own, attempting to build a startup. In hindsight, I wouldn&#x27;t recommend it. Being exposed to great work has taught me much more. Exposure to great work shows you <em>what</em> to do, but it also gives you <em>confidence that you know what to do.</em> This is very hard to get on your own.</p><p>Where do you find great people? Great companies. The best companies are well-known: Stripe, Shopify and Airbnb, for example. There are lots of resources online that are specific to your location. If you don&#x27;t know, ask around: email some people in the industry and they will tell you.</p><h2><strong>Pay off debt, and start saving and investing</strong></h2><p>Paying off debt—and avoiding it—should be top priority. Debt takes away your options. One of the largest success factors in long-term investing is getting started early. To have money, you have to save. Investing is then almost a side-benefit; it&#x27;s what you do with the money you&#x27;ve saved. The <em>habit of saving</em> is the most critical part. We live in a world of constant distractions, marketing, and the feeling that we need one more thing. It&#x27;s particularly tempting if you&#x27;ve left school and have some income for the first time. Breaking that habit will serve you well in the future.</p><h2>Be impatient in the short-term, patient in the long-term</h2><p>As humans, we tend to overestimate what we can accomplish in the short-term, and underestimate in the long-term.</p><p>So be ambitious in the short-term: push yourself, learn fast, and iterate. Sample many things as fast as you can to find out what you like and don&#x27;t like.</p><p>But be patient with results. No one is successful immediately.</p><h2>Further Reading</h2><ul><li><a href="http://blog.eladgil.com/2015/03/career-decisions.html">Career Decisions - Elad Gil</a></li><li><a href="http://www.paulgraham.com/love.html">How To Do What You Love - Paul Graham</a></li><li><a href="/book-notes/the-defining-decade-meg-jay">The Defining Decade - Meg Jay</a></li><li><a href="/book-notes/mastery-robert-greene">Mastery - Robert Greene</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Codfathers: Lessons from the Atlantic Business Elite by Gordon Pitts: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2020 16:48:13 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A fascinating look at some of the top business leaders from Atlantic Canada, and their reach throughout Canadian business and politics.The book is a bit dated now (published in 2005), and so some references may be dated as well, but on the whole, it is the most comprehensive look inside Atlantic Canadian business I’ve ever read.  A great jumping-off point for further learning and research.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction - Frank’s Party</strong></h5><ul><li>It shows that being poor and thinly populated can actually be a competitive advantage, giving this area the highest and most influential business network in the country.</li><li>The fierce loyalty is, in fact, the Maritimes’ single biggest competitive advantage, the one characteristic that gives this region a fighting chance in the global economic wars.</li><li>This is the age of the maritime Mafia, when the ranks of Canadian business are replete with folks who frankly would prefer to be sailing off Lunenburg or Digby or Saint John rather than fighting the morning rush hour traffic in Toronto.</li><li>They tend to be strong in operations, in running manufacturing and processing functions, in watching their income statements with the sharp eyes of a swooping seagull. They are not financial engineers who play with balance sheets and asset numbers, and they leave the marketing to others. They believe if you build a sound company, watch your pennies, and keep your people happy, the other stuff will look after itself.</li><li>Maritimers are often blunt, no-nonsense communicators who despise what they call the “bullshit” of Toronto’s Bay Street.</li><li>There is another aspect to this openness and candour–most of these tycoons cuss like the sailors they often are on the weekends.</li><li>In the world economy, Canadians are known to be adaptable, practical, no-nonsense, meritocratic, and possessing the ability to adapt gracefully to public and private enterprise.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 1 - One World, One Fry</strong></h5><ul><li>McCains</li><li>These two aspects–hard-nosed entrepreneurial instinct and caring social ethic–represent two deep strains in the Maritimes psyche.</li><li>He (Michael McCain) lists the objectives: doing what is right; treating people with respect; being doers, not talkers; and candid, direct communications.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2 - K.C. and the Sunshine Band</strong></h5><ul><li>Irvings</li><li>The Irvings are perhaps classic Maritimers–they are very good managers and operators in a strictly technical sense but they are not gifted in new product development, new technology, or new ideas.</li><li>“One reason they are more insular is once you get out into Montreal or Toronto or New York or London, you get into people who do creative things either in marketing or finance.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3 - Donuts to Dollars</strong></h5><ul><li>Ron Joyce, Tim Hortons</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4 - The Ambassador from Apohaqui</strong></h5><ul><li>Frank McKenna</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5 - The King of Economy</strong></h5><ul><li>Purdy Crawford</li><li>He uses his immense credibility to challenge the accepted wisdom in Atlantic Canada that governments need to pour their money into job-creation schemes. He can attack that orthodoxy because he is a Maritimer, not some Stephen Harper outsider who gets his jollies by dumping on the Atlantic Canadian work ethic. He is very harsh on the political leadership, which has been obsessed with being elected rather than making the hard choices. He wants to see the four Atlantic provinces working together on economic development. To get it going, he wants a full study on the competitive advantages of Nova Scotia–not some pricey consultant’s report but a committee of government, public service, and business.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6 - On Blueberry Hills</strong></h5><ul><li>John Bragg, Oxford Frozen Foods</li><li>In John’s view, the province was simply filling a void in rural Nova Scotia, where lending institutions failed to provide adequate financing for budding entrepreneurs. The province never lost a penny lending to John Bragg. It helped form his view about the need for government to stimulate rural development. “I don’t think there is anything wrong with the province lending money to an entrepreneur,” he says.</li><li>For one thing, he is not big on five-year strategic plans. “We’ve had all kinds of people, including our banks, say what are you going to do in the next five years? And we always say we don’t know. If we look back five years, we’ve done a lot more than we anticipated and that’s been true in every five years.&quot;</li><li>“Frank [Sobey] said, ‘Always leave the back door open,” and we believe in that.&quot;</li><li>Being somewhat isolated in rural Nova Scotia also taught Bragg a sense of initiative and can-do improvising that has served him in all the businesses. That too is a McCain and Irving characteristic: If you are isolated in the Maritimes, you have to create your own supporting technology and your own service industries. If you process potatoes, you build harvesting and processing equipment, as the McCains have. You buy trucking companies, as the Irvings and McCains have done. The Irvings have taken this all the way to a rigid vertical integration in which they control the entire supply chain, from refinery to gas pumps, forests to tissue paper. The Braggs are not that extreme, but they are unusually self-sufficient.</li><li>John Bragg feels this flair for improvisation is part of the Maritime management tradition. Atlantic Canadians, he says, are often terrific operators, but with some exceptions, “we are not the greatest marketers, salesmen, and pizzazz people in the world. We start with the rubber boots on; we are all operators. Raising the money is secondary–you have to run the business right first. That’s where companies like GM lost their way: They became marketers, and they started turning out crap for a few years.&quot;</li><li>Technology is a means to an end, not an end in itself. </li><li>A lot of innovation occurs on the farm, not in a lab.</li><li>Bragg is a zealot about rural development, pushing the argument that governments have to be activist pump-primers for rural communities in Nova Scotia and other provinces. What good does it do the country, he asks, if all the development takes place in a tiny band of territory along the St. Lawrence River, with the money concentrated in the Greater Toronto Area?</li><li>[Purdy] Crawford argues that the top-down grants, from agencies such as the Atlantic Canada Opportunities Agency, have created a “look after us attitude” in eastern Canada. Crawford keeps coming back home to Atlantic Canada and hearing about families where the mother or father is working just long enough to qualify for employment insurance.</li><li>He [Bragg] sees his own company as a model of what can be done with progressive government support, in providing investment capital when private institutions fail to step forward. It happens in other provinces, he says, pointing to the role of the <em>cause de dépôt</em> pension fund in Quebec and the Heritage Fund in Alberta.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7 - Food Fights</strong></h5><ul><li>Sobeys (originally Frank, now Frank Jr., others) &amp; Richard Currie (Loblaws)</li><li>Saint John’s south end is one of those legendary poor neighborhoods that seem to spawn an inordinate number of ambitious, successful people, as does North Winnipeg and Montreal’s St. Urbain.</li><li>He [Currie] hopes that ego doesn’t add up to arrogance, and he is right–it is more innocent than arrogant, and it seems to stand out more in a Maritime setting than among non-Atlantic business types. In Toronto, where monumental egos are on display constantly, Currie seems almost modest and self-effacing. In the Maritimes, where you are expected to hide your light under a bushel, he is viewed as inordinately pleased with himself, alien to the Atlantic style of modesty and restraint. </li><li>Currie: I think pragmatism means that once you know the answer, you don’t need three decimal places after it.</li><li>“It’s probably a Maritime trait that once you got the answer, you quit fucking around and get on with it,” Currie says.</li><li>When you get outside the Maritimes and travel with the international crowd, you need to tap other skills, in marketing, merchandising, and finance.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8 - Fresh Crop at Sobeys</strong></h5><ul><li>Rob Sobey</li><li>Maritimers adhere to a version of the Australian “tall poppies” complex–if you look too big, someone will cut you down to size. Rob’s grandfather, the legendary Frank Sobey, used to say it was very smart to be seen as a bit of a hayseed so you could fly under the radar.</li><li>Frank: “It’s hard to read people from our area, we are not demonstrative,” he explained. “We’re unfailingly polite.&quot;</li><li>It is another facet of doing business in the Maritimes: There is always a grant or forgivable loan available to encourage you to do something that you would probably do anyway.</li><li>Even with the gravitational pull toward Toronto, Paul Sobey is adamant that the company should never move to the large Ontario city because it is too much of a distraction.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9 - Clearwater Runs Deep</strong></h5><ul><li>“Over the long term, if you own coal or oil and gas, or forests, these are wonderful assets, because you’re not going to wake up some morning and find that some guy in Silicon Valley has made them obsolete. Or some guy in China has stolen your business out from under you because he has figured out how to do it at a much lower cost. These are assets that are going to have value 50 to 100 years from now. They’re all renewable assets that have been there 100 years and will be there 100 years from now.&quot;</li><li>He [Risley] finds that it is not that the ideas are bad, the problem is that the people behind those ideas have never learned how to fight.</li><li>There is no time for hobbies in George Armoyan’s world. There is only work and family. He works 16 two 17 hours a day, six to seven days a week.</li><li>“I think immigrants are hungrier for success than people who were born here,” he says, adding that he doubts his own children will be as hungry as he is. Immigrants are risk-takers who come to Canada and figure they have nothing more to lose. “You start with nothing and you know it’s hard to go worse than zero.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10 - The Maritimization of Ken Rowe</strong></h5><ul><li>“Down here in the Maritimes, when you are building a business and become successful at it, you run out of market share to acquire,” Rowe says.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 11 - Casting the Newfie Net</strong></h5><ul><li>Mark &amp; Craig Dobbin</li><li>As a young man, Craig got work as a professional diver, then branched into house-building, making money through the time-honoured pattern of erecting a house, living in it, then selling it quickly and moving on before it was finished. In his first two years of marriage, he and his first wife lived in 13 places.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 12 - Beer and Chocolate</strong></h5><ul><li>Bernard Imbeault (Pizza Delight), Derek Oland (Moosehead, Olands), Bryana &amp; David Ganong</li><li>He [Oland] says Moosehead, in recent years, has been blissfully free of this kind of top-down subsidy, the kind that flows regularly from the federal Atlantic Canada Opportunities Agency. “I think the money could be better used creating more entrepreneurs than dumping it down, whether it’s worth it or not. What happens in ACOA is there is someone doing reasonably well and someone else comes along with an idea directly on top of it and they’ll fund it, putting the first person out of business, which will disturb the market.&quot;</li><li>He says he can hire high-quality people in Saint John because of the relaxed family lifestyle, although it is a challenge to attract couples who are both professionals. It may sound sexist but it is a fact of life: The best candidates are couples with full-time mothers looking after the kids. “There is nothing like the Maritimes for finding the ideal place to live–fresh water, salt water, mountains,” he says. </li><li>For one thing, he says universities are stuck in a traditional approach to business training. “They are not really looking at how businesses are formed, how you need enough guts and intelligence to make it work.” He would like to see courses in, for example, how to go to a bank for financing and present your business plan. “I’m frustrated with universities that they continue to teach the same way as when I went to school–generally by professors who have never run their own businesses, turning out good technicians but not putting it all together.&quot;</li><li>Imbeault quickly learned there was something special about doing business in the Maritimes, a kind of connectedness in a culture where everybody tends to know everyone else. These connections are not formal and they don’t really change the final business decisions. But it is much easier to get information when you know the other party’s family.</li><li>Imbeault has watched a lively coterie of francophone entrepreneurs develop in the Maritimes–particularly in construction, forest products, and fishing. But except for Pizza Delight, there have been few breakout companies that have grown beyond the small to medium size and taken on a national market. He has trouble figuring out why, because there is no shortage of entrepreneurial spirit. It may be that it is too early in the process. But it could also be an Acadian mindset that a medium-sized company is big enough. The tendency is to sell out, rather than build for future generations. He also is concerned that many founders get too big for their britches; they feel their success is attributable entirely to themselves and not to their workers or community.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 13 - Fellowship of the Ring</strong></h5><ul><li>St. FX alumni and community</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 14 - Life Among the Up-Alongs</strong></h5><ul><li>[Geoff] Flood is part of a new twist on an ancient theme, the Atlantic Canada brigade of long-distance Maritimes commuters, who are Air Canada’s best customers and most knowledgable critics. In the most extreme example, they commute weekly from Halifax, Saint John, or St. John’s; others grab bits and pieces of time at home in Atlantic Canada, where their work schedules allow. In summer, the flow of airplane commuters swells to a torrent–one spouse and the children go to the ocean home and the other visits on weekends. The reasons for this movement centre on the family: to allow their children to grow up in the saner confines of small towns and cities, or to really know their cousins, grandmas, and grandpas. Often, there is the assumption that the move to Toronto, Ottawa, or Montreal is a short-term career-boosting move and they will get a posting back in Atlantic Canada. Sometimes they do, but most often they don’t. Also, there is simply the pull of the sea, the land, or the forests, the kind of thing that has pulled Maritimers back home for a hundred years from the Boston states or Toronto.</li><li>There is another factor that burns brightly in their motivation: They don’t want to give up on the Maritimes, as so many Central Canadian critics have done. They believe that the Maritimes will return to the mythic past glory of the 19th century–and when it does, they will return for good. Like parts of the Prairies, this is Tomorrow Country, where tomorrow never seems to come.</li><li>The sad irony is that any bright tomorrow will be hard to achieve as long as Atlantic Canada suffers a continuing migration of these same professionals, managers, and entrepreneurs to Central Canada, the West, and the United States.</li><li>To make matters worse, people with a university education are the most likely to leave their home provinces and seek opportunities elsewhere. </li><li>The reason he [Dean MacDonald] did it, he said, was to learn that he could operate in the flash and intensity of a big Toronto corporate job in a publicly traded company. It was his way of answering the question “Can you play in the big leagues?” He points out that Atlantic Canadians have that chip on their shoulders–that embedded self-doubt, the sense that what they do back home in Halifax or St. John’s is not really that important or meaningful. “But once you do the Toronto thing, you kinda go ‘It’s not the brass ring.’&quot;</li><li>“There is a lot more bullshit in Toronto, a lot more sense that the wheels of the corporation seem to be the driver, rather than the wheels of pragmatic decision-makers.&quot;</li><li>Rod Bryden’s story shows it is hard to generalize about regions and the kinds of people and managers that they produce. There is no rigid “Atlantic Canada type,” but from my conversations with dozens of present and past East Coasters, I can certainly describe a collection of characteristics that apply in many, many cases. Maritime managers do tend to be straight-talking, non-political (in an office-politics sense), and strong in running things. They are creative about finding less expensive solutions that require a bit of improvisation. They often exhibit a rural Canadian lack of pretence and show. They are what they are. In a corporate world beset by greed and ostentation, these are positive qualities. The Maritime style is well suited to a post-enrol era, where there is revulsion toward the image of wealthy CEOs being led away to jail. The Maritime way suggests a simpler time, when a family ran the local mill and all the people in the town worked there. But the Atlantic method should not be mistakes for a lack of sophistication.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Psychology of Money Summary: 19 Lessons on Wealth & Happiness]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2020 02:11:37 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The most valuable part of this book is that it explicitly links personal finance with psychology.Saving, investment strategies, decision-making—these have all been known as key parts of personal finance, but the psychological side is rarely explored, and that's what this book is about.Reading this plus another book on the operational side of personal finance—I Will Teach You To Be Rich, for example—will put you ahead of 99% of the population on managing your money.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Key Takeaways</h4><ul><li>Financial success is far more about how you behave than what you know.</li><li>Luck and risk play a role in almost all outcomes. Individual effort can only get you so far.</li><li>Be careful about looking at specific examples of outcomes, and look more for general patterns.</li><li>The hardest financial skill is getting the goalpost to stop moving. And to do that, you have to stop comparing yourself to others, and start determining what is &quot;enough&quot; for yourself.</li><li>One of the single most important things you can do as an investor is wait, or extend your time horizon.</li><li>Staying wealthy requires some combination of paranoia and frugality.</li><li>Always plan for something to go wrong, and for some large, unexpected expense.</li><li>Controlling your time is the highest dividend money pays.</li><li>No one is impressed by your possessions as much as you are.</li><li>Building wealth has little to do with your income or investment returns, and lots to do with your savings rate.</li><li>Past a certain level of income, what you need depends only on your ego.</li><li>Aim to be reasonable with your finances, not completely rational. This will be more realistic long-term.</li><li>We can&#x27;t predict future outlier events. That&#x27;s what makes them outliers. So factor it into your plan.</li><li>You need to add room for error, and avoid financial ruin. Leverage—going into debt—pushes routine risk into potential for ruin.</li><li>Assume your priorities will change in the future, and avoid the extremes of financial planning. Examples include assuming you&#x27;ll be happy with very low income, or willing to work very long hours for higher income.</li><li>Everything has a price. The price of immediate consumption is much more visible than the price of neglecting long-term investment.</li><li>Know what game you are playing, and avoid taking financial cues from people playing a different game.</li><li>Stories are the most powerful force in the economy. Beware the stories you tell yourself.</li><li>Short takes:</li><li>Less ego, more wealth.</li><li>Use money to gain control of your time.</li><li>Be nicer and less flashy.</li><li>Save.</li><li>Worship room for error.</li><li>Avoid extremes.</li></ul><h4>Notes</h4><h5>Introduction: The Greatest Show On Earth</h5><ul><li>One, financial outcomes are driven by luck, independent of intelligence and effort. That’s true to some extent, and this book will discuss it in further detail.</li><li>Or, two (and I think more common), that financial success is not a hard science. It’s a soft skill, where how you behave is more important than what you know.</li></ul><h5>1. No One&#x27;s Crazy</h5><ul><li>Your personal experiences with money make up maybe 0.00000001% of what&#x27;s happened in the world, but maybe 80% of how you think the world works.</li><li>The 401(k)—the backbone savings vehicle of American retirement—did not exist until 1978. The Roth IRA was not born until 1998. If it were a person it would be barely old enough to drink.</li></ul><h5>2. Luck &amp; Risk</h5><ul><li>Nothing is as good or as bad as it seems.</li><li>Luck and risk are both the reality that every outcome in life is guided by forces other than individual effort. They are so similar that you can’t believe in one without equally respecting the other.</li><li>Be careful when assuming that 100% of outcomes can be attributed to effort and decisions.</li><li>F<strong>ocus less on specific individuals and case studies and more on broad patterns.</strong></li><li>Studying a specific person can be dangerous because we tend to study extreme examples—the billionaires, the CEOs, or the massive failures that dominate the news—and extreme examples are often the least applicable to other situations, given their complexity. The more extreme the outcome, the less likely you can apply its lessons to your own life, because the more likely the outcome was influenced by extreme ends of luck or risk.</li><li>The trick when dealing with failure is arranging your financial life in a way that a bad investment here and a missed financial goal there won’t wipe you out so you can keep playing until the odds fall in your favor.</li></ul><h5>3. Never Enough</h5><p><strong>1. The hardest financial skill is getting the goalpost to stop moving.</strong></p><ul><li>Modern capitalism is a pro at two things: generating wealth and generating envy.</li><li>Happiness, as it’s said, is just results minus expectations.</li></ul><p><strong>2. Social comparison is the problem here.</strong></p><ul><li>The point is that the ceiling of social comparison is so high that virtually no one will ever hit it. Which means it’s a battle that can never be won, or that the only way to win is to not fight to begin with—to accept that you might have enough, even if it’s less than those around you.</li></ul><p><strong>3. “Enough” is not too little.</strong></p><ul><li>The idea of having “enough” might look like conservatism, leaving opportunity and potential on the table.</li><li>“Enough” is realizing that the opposite—an insatiable appetite for more—will push you to the point of regret.</li></ul><p><strong>4. There are many things never worth risking, no matter the potential gain</strong></p><ul><li>Reputation is invaluable.</li><li>Freedom and independence are invaluable.</li><li>Family and friends are invaluable.</li><li>Being loved by those who you want to love you is invaluable.</li><li>Happiness is invaluable.</li><li>And your best shot at keeping these things is knowing when it’s time to stop taking risks that might harm them. Knowing when you have enough.</li></ul><h5>4. Confounding Compounding</h5><ul><li>$81.5 billion of Warren Buffett&#x27;s $84.5 billion net worth came after his 65th birthday. Our minds are not built to handle such absurdities.</li><li>Warren Buffett is a phenomenal investor. But you miss a key point if you attach all of his success to investing acumen. The real key to his success is that he’s been a phenomenal investor for three quarters of a century. Had he started investing in his 30s and retired in his 60s, few people would have ever heard of him.</li></ul><h5>5. Getting Wealthy vs. Staying Wealthy</h5><ul><li>Good investing is not necessarily about making good decisions. It&#x27;s about consistently not screwing up.</li><li>But there’s only one way to stay wealthy: some combination of frugality and paranoia.</li></ul><p><strong>1. More than I want big returns, I want to be financially unbreakable. And if I’m unbreakable I actually think I’ll get the biggest returns, because I’ll be able to stick around long enough for compounding to work wonders.</strong></p><p><strong>2. Planning is important, but the most important part of every plan is to plan on the plan not going according to plan.</strong></p><p><strong>3. A barbelled personality—optimistic about the future, but paranoid about what will prevent you from getting to the future—is vital.</strong></p><h5>6. Tails, You Win</h5><ul><li>You can be wrong half the time and still make a fortune.</li><li>A lot of things in business and investing work this way. Long tails—the farthest ends of a distribution of outcomes—have tremendous influence in finance, where a small number of events can account for the majority of outcomes.</li><li>Anything that is huge, profitable, famous, or influential is the result of a tail event—an outlying one-in-thousands or millions event. And most of our attention goes to things that are huge, profitable, famous, or influential. When most of what we pay attention to is the result of a tail, it’s easy to underestimate how rare and powerful they are.</li></ul><h5>7. Freedom</h5><ul><li>Controlling your time is the highest dividend money pays.</li><li><strong>The highest form of wealth is the ability to wake up every morning and say, “I can do whatever I want today.”</strong></li><li>Campbell wanted to know what made people happy. His 1981 book, The Sense of Wellbeing in America, starts by pointing out that people are generally happier than many psychologists assumed</li></ul><p>The most powerful common denominator of happiness was simple. Campbell summed it up:</p><ul><li><em>Having a strong sense of controlling one’s life is a more dependable predictor of positive feelings of wellbeing than any of the objective conditions of life we have considered.</em></li><li>Money’s greatest intrinsic value—and this can’t be overstated—is its ability to give you control over your time.</li></ul><h5>8. Man in the Car Paradox</h5><ul><li>No one is impressed with your possessions as much as you are.</li></ul><h5>9. Wealth is What You Don&#x27;t See</h5><ul><li>Spending money to show people how much money you have is the fastest way to have less money.</li><li>It is excellent advice, but it may not go far enough. The only way to be wealthy is to not spend the money that you do have. It’s not just the only way to accumulate wealth; it’s the very definition of wealth.</li></ul><h5>10. Save Money</h5><ul><li>The only factor you can control generates one of the only things that matters. How wonderful.</li><li><strong>The first idea—simple, but easy to overlook—is that building wealth has little to do with your income or investment returns, and lots to do with your savings rate.</strong></li><li><strong>More importantly, the value of wealth is relative to what you need.</strong></li><li><strong>Past a certain level of income, what you need is just what sits below your ego.</strong></li><li>Think of it like this, and one of the most powerful ways to increase your savings isn’t to raise your income. It’s to raise your humility.</li><li>Intelligence is not a reliable advantage in a world that’s become as connected as ours has.</li><li>But flexibility is.</li><li>If you have flexibility you can wait for good opportunities, both in your career and for your investments. You’ll have a better chance of being able to learn a new skill when it’s necessary. You’ll feel less urgency to chase competitors who can do things you can’t, and have more leeway to find your passion and your niche at your own pace. You can find a new routine, a slower pace, and think about life with a different set of assumptions. The ability to do those things when most others can’t is one of the few things that will set you apart in a world where intelligence is no longer a sustainable advantage.</li></ul><h5>11. Reasonable &gt; Rational</h5><ul><li>Aiming to be mostly reasonable works better than trying to be coldly rational.</li><li>With it comes something that often goes overlooked: Do not aim to be coldly rational when making financial decisions. Aim to just be pretty reasonable. Reasonable is more realistic and you have a better chance of sticking with it for the long run, which is what matters most when managing money.</li></ul><h5>12. Surprise!</h5><ul><li>History is the study of change, ironically used as a map of the future.</li><li>Two dangerous things happen when you relly too heavily on investment history as a guide to what&#x27;s going to happen next.</li></ul><ol><li><strong>You&#x27;ll likely miss the outlier events that move the needle the most.</strong></li></ol><p><strong>2. History can be a misleading guide to the future of the economy and stock market because it doesn’t account for structural changes that are relevant to today’s world.</strong></p><h5>13. Room for Error</h5><ul><li>The most important part of every plan is planning on your plan not going according to plan.</li><li>Benjamin Graham is known for his concept of margin of safety. He wrote about it extensively and in mathematical detail. But my favorite summary of the theory came when he mentioned in an interview that <strong>“the purpose of the margin of safety is to render the forecast unnecessary.”</strong></li><li>“The best way to achieve felicity is to aim low,” says Charlie Munger (felicity = happiness, bliss). Wonderful.</li><li><strong>Leverage is the devil here. Leverage—taking on debt to make your money go further—pushes routine risks into something capable of producing ruin.</strong> The danger is that rational optimism most of the time masks the odds of ruin some of the time</li><li>If there’s one way to guard against their damage, it’s avoiding single points of failure.</li></ul><h5>14. You&#x27;ll Change</h5><ul><li>Long-term planning is harder than it seems because people&#x27;s goals and desires change over time.</li><li>The End of History Illusion is what psychologists call the tendency for people to be keenly aware of how much they’ve changed in the past, but to underestimate how much their personalities, desires, and goals are likely to change in the future.</li><li><strong>We should avoid the extreme ends of financial planning. Assuming you’ll be happy with a very low income, or choosing to work endless hours in pursuit of a high one, increases the odds that you’ll one day find yourself at a point of regret.</strong></li><li>Aiming, at every point in your working life, to have moderate annual savings, moderate free time, no more than a moderate commute, and at least moderate time with your family, increases the odds of being able to stick with a plan and avoid regret than if any one of those things fall to the extreme sides of the spectrum.</li><li>Sunk costs—anchoring decisions to past efforts that can’t be refunded—are a devil in a world where people change over time.</li></ul><h5>15. Nothing&#x27;s Free</h5><ul><li>Everything has a price, but not all prices appear on labels.</li><li>The question is: Why do so many people who are willing to pay the price of cars, houses, food, and vacations try so hard to avoid paying the price of good investment returns?</li><li>The answer is simple: The price of investing success is not immediately obvious.</li></ul><h5>16. You &amp; Me</h5><ul><li>Beware taking financial cues from people playing a different game than you are.</li><li>An iron rule of finance is that money chases returns to the greatest extent that it can.</li><li>Bubbles do their damage when long-term investors playing one game start taking their cues from those short-term traders playing another.</li><li>So much consumer spending, particularly in developed countries, is socially driven: subtly influenced by people you admire, and done because you subtly want people to admire you.</li><li>But while we can see how much money other people spend on cars, homes, clothes, and vacations, we don’t get to see their goals, worries, and aspirations. A young lawyer aiming to be a partner at a prestigious law firm might need to maintain an appearance that I, a writer who can work in sweatpants, have no need for. But when his purchases set my own expectations, I’m wandering down a path of potential disappointment because I’m spending the money without the career boost he’s getting. We might not even have different styles. We’re just playing a different game. It took me years to figure this out.</li><li>A takeaway here is that few things matter more with money than understanding your own time horizon and not being persuaded by the actions and behaviors of people playing different games than you are.</li><li>The main thing I can recommend is going out of your way to identify what game you’re playing.</li></ul><h5>17. The Seduction of Pessimism</h5><ul><li>Optimism sounds like a sales pitch. Pessimism sounds like someone trying to help you.</li><li>“For reasons I have never understood, people like to hear that the world is going to hell.”—Historian Deirdre McCloskey</li><li>Pessimism just sounds smarter and more plausible than optimism.</li><li><strong>One is that money is ubiquitous, so something bad happening tends to affect everyone and captures everyone’s attention.</strong></li><li><strong>Another is that pessimists often extrapolate present trends without accounting for how markets adapt.</strong></li><li>There is an iron law in economics: extremely good and extremely bad circumstances rarely stay that way for long because supply and demand adapt in hard-to-predict ways.</li><li><strong>A third is that progress happens too slowly to notice, but setbacks happen too quickly to ignore.</strong></li><li>Growth is driven by compounding, which always takes time. Destruction is driven by single points of failure, which can happen in seconds, and loss of confidence, which can happen in an instant.</li></ul><h5>18. When You&#x27;ll Believe Anything</h5><ul><li>Stories are, by far, the most powerful force in the economy.</li></ul><p><strong>1. The more you want something to be true, the more likely you are to believe a story that overestimates the odds of it being true.</strong></p><p><strong>2. Everyone has an incomplete view of the world. But we form a complete narrative to fill in the gaps.</strong></p><p>Kahneman once laid out the path these stories take:</p><ul><li><em>When planning we focus on what we want to do and can do, neglecting the plans and skills of others whose decisions might affect our outcomes.</em></li><li>Both in explaining the past and in predicting the future, we focus on the causal role of skill and neglect the role of luck.</li><li>We focus on what we know and neglect what we do not know, which makes us overly confident in our beliefs.</li></ul><h5>19. All Together Now</h5><ul><li>What we&#x27;ve learned about the psychology of your own money.</li><li><strong>Go out of your way to find humility when things are going right and forgiveness/compassion when they go wrong. Because it’s never as good or as bad as it looks.</strong></li><li><strong>Respect the power of luck and risk and you’ll have a better chance of focusing on things you can actually control. You’ll also have a better chance of finding the right role models.</strong></li><li><strong>Less ego, more wealth. Saving money is the gap between your ego and your income, and wealth is what you don’t see.</strong></li><li><strong>Manage your money in a way that helps you sleep at night.</strong></li><li><strong>If you want to do better as an investor, the single most powerful thing you can do is increase your time horizon.</strong></li><li><strong>Become OK with a lot of things going wrong.</strong></li><li><strong>Use money to gain control over your time, because not having control of your time is such a powerful and universal drag on happiness.</strong></li><li><strong>Be nicer and less flashy. No one is impressed with your possessions as much as you are.</strong></li><li><strong>Save. Just save. You don’t need a specific reason to save.</strong></li><li><strong>Define the cost of success and be ready to pay it. Because nothing worthwhile is free. And remember that most financial costs don’t have visible price tags. Uncertainty, doubt, and regret are common costs in the finance world.</strong></li><li><strong>Worship room for error.</strong></li><li><strong>Avoid the extreme ends of financial decisions.</strong></li><li><strong>You should like risk because it pays off over time. But you should be paranoid of ruinous risk because it prevents you from taking future risks that will pay off over time.</strong></li><li><strong>Define the game you’re playing, and make sure your actions are not being influenced by people playing a different game.</strong></li><li><strong>Respect the mess. Smart, informed, and reasonable people can disagree in finance, because people have vastly different goals and desires. There is no single right answer; just the answer that works for you.</strong></li></ul><h5>20. Confessions</h5><ul><li>We can leave aside rich, but independence has always been my personal financial goal.</li><li>Independence, at any income level, is driven by your savings rate.</li><li>If there’s a part of our household financial plan I’m proud of it’s that we got the goalpost of lifestyle desires to stop moving at a young age.</li><li>We own our house without a mortgage, which is the worst financial decision we’ve ever made but the best money decision we’ve ever made. Mortgage interest rates were absurdly low when we bought our house. Any rational advisor would recommend taking advantage of cheap money and investing extra savings in higher-return assets, like stocks. But our goal isn’t to be coldly rational; just psychologically reasonable.</li><li>Everything I’ve learned about personal finance tells me that everyone—without exception—will eventually face a huge expense they did not expect—and they don’t plan for these expenses specifically because they did not expect them.</li><li>If I had to summarize my views on investing, it’s this: Every investor should pick a strategy that has the highest odds of successfully meeting their goals. And I think for most investors, dollar-cost averaging into a low-cost index fund will provide the highest odds of long-term success.</li><li>One of my deeply held investing beliefs is that there is little correlation between investment effort and investment results. The reason is because the world is driven by tails—a few variables account for the majority of returns.</li></ul><h5>Postscript: A Brief History of Why the U.S. Consumer Thinks the Way They Do</h5><ul><li>Everything in finance is data within the context of expectations.</li><li>All that matters is that sharp inequality became a force over the last 35 years, and it happened during a period where, culturally, Americans held onto two ideas rooted in the post-WW2 economy: That you should live a lifestyle similar to most other Americans, and that taking on debt to finance that lifestyle is acceptable.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[8 Lessons from Year 28]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2020 02:38:29 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Lessons I've learned on how to live better from my 28th year, including the formula for happiness, how to set good goals, and what you should read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Less but Better</h2><p>If I had to choose one mantra for the rest of my life, this might be it. </p><p><a href="/book-notes/essentialism-the-disciplined-pursuit-of-less-greg-mckeown"><em>Essentialism</em></a> was one of my favourite reads of the past year, and I’ve since gifted it to several friends. </p><p>Minimalism is a popular ideal, but the focus is on removing as much as possible from your life. </p><p>I like Essentialism a bit better, because it focuses on removing all that isn’t <em>essential</em>, rather than removing as much as possible.</p><p>Where does the “less is more” mantra apply? Almost everywhere.</p><p>At work: only the most important tasks.</p><p>What we eat: only high-quality, unprocessed food.</p><p>How we exercise: shorter duration, higher intensity.</p><p>The friends we keep: fewer, but closer.</p><p>Less but better.</p><h2>Subtract to Improve</h2><p>The way to improve something is almost always by subtracting, not adding.</p><p>Want to improve your diet? Remove the bad things you eat.</p><p>Want to improve your sleep? Remove the things which distract you near bedtime.</p><p>Want to improve your work? Remove all but the highest priority items, and focus more on those.</p><p>We often believe that a new product, or a new diet, or a new exercise class will help us improve ourselves. </p><p>Instead, we should be looking to subtract.</p><h2>Happiness = Results - Expectations</h2><p>We all have expectations in our lives: our salary, our relationships, our personal growth, our fitness.</p><p>High expectations come with high ambition.</p><p>But happiness is often the cost. </p><p>The billionaire unsatisfied with his wealth is a result of his expectations still exceeding his results.</p><p>Ambition helped that person gain wealth. But we have to be careful where and when we apply that ambition.</p><p>Setting reasonable short-term goals and looking for compound gains that add up over time is a good way to balance both.</p><p>This applies to both larger and smaller things.</p><p>Want to feel good about your day? Accomplish your single highest-priority task. Then the extra 3 tasks you finish are a bonus.</p><p>This feels much different than setting out to accomplish 5 tasks, and only managing 4, despite the same result.</p><h2>Process Goals, Then Target Goals</h2><p>Like many people, I enjoy accomplishing goals and being productive.</p><p>But setting ambitious goals can be discouraging, particularly when you set them with little idea of how realistic they are. </p><p>Setting out to run a marathon can seem impossible, if right now you struggle to run for 5 minutes.</p><p>When starting out with a new project or activity, you should start by setting a process goal: I will run for 10 minutes per day, every day of the week.</p><p>The focus on the process is meant to get you started, and to gather more information.</p><p>Once you become comfortable, you can change to a target-based goal. </p><p>At the end of a few weeks of running for 10 minutes per day, you will know how comfortable you feel. You may have extended to 20 minutes a couple times, and set a benchmark for how fast you run a kilometre or a mile.</p><p>Once you’ve established the habit, and gathered more information, you’re now much better positioned to focus on a target-based goal. You can select a training plan you’re confident will match your ability and that you’ll be able to complete.</p><p>When starting: focus on the process. Once you’re comfortable, set a goal.</p><h2>You Will Overestimate What You Can Accomplish in the Short-Term, and Underestimate in the Long-Term</h2><p>Albert Einstein supposedly called compound interest the “eighth wonder of the world.”</p><p>What most don’t realize is that compound interest isn’t limited to money.</p><p>It applies to almost everything we do repetitively, whether it be our jobs, our fitness, or our habits.</p><p>As ambitious people, we set short-term goals that are often too ambitious. We fail to reach them and they can become discouraging, or it can feel like we are making little progress in the short term. </p><p>But when we look back on the past year, or the past 2-5 years, we realize how far we have come. How much we have learned, the skills we’ve developed, and the new perspectives we’ve gained.</p><p>If you’re feeling discouraged, look back at where you were several years ago. Think about how much progress you’ve made! </p><p>And if you want to feel optimistic, think about how much progress you will have made in several years.</p><p>I’ve worked in startups most of my professional life. Not every day feels like a jump forward. </p><p>But working with other talented people, in fast-moving companies, with lots of new opportunities, has led to a quantity of learning that I wouldn’t have thought possible.</p><p>Sometimes you just need to wait to see the compound interest.</p><h2>Artificial Constraints Are Everywhere</h2><p>If the year of the pandemic has taught us anything, it has to be this.</p><p>At my current company, we went from working almost entirely in person, to entirely remote, in the span of 1 work day.</p><p>As a society, we transitioned from one where “pandemic” was a little-understood word, to one where mask-wearing is standard indoors, hand sanitizing is ubiquitous, and travel is limited.</p><p>These new constraints are obvious.</p><p>But what others exist in our lives? Which are self-imposed, and which are imposed by society that we accept without thinking? </p><p>Spending time in quarantine, working remotely, and traveling much less than normal have kept me questioning what is really required for a happy life. </p><p>The answer, it seems, is often much less than we think. A roof and some heat. Some books. Some family and friends and colleagues. Everything else is probably optional.</p><h2>You Can Have Anything You Want, but Not Everything You Want</h2><p>&quot;You can have virtually anything you want, but you can’t have everything you want.”—Ray Dalio, Principles</p><p>Perhaps because life was more constrained this year, the choices I made with my time became more obvious.</p><p>I didn’t write as much as I planned, but that was because I spent my free time with family or friends, golfing or sailing or cycling.</p><p>I worked more than I planned, but that was because I had things I wanted to accomplish, and a new company I wanted to impact.</p><p>The choices we make with our time are often obscured, or the trade-offs aren’t conscious. But they are there.</p><p>Choosing what we want to focus our time on is also a choice about what we <em>don’t</em> want to focus on. </p><p>We may think we can just add things, but there is always a trade-off.</p><h2>Ignore the News</h2><p>In addition to a worldwide pandemic, it’s an election year in the US, and we’ve had some of the most widespread civil unrest in decades. </p><p>It’s almost impossible to have a conversation that doesn’t end up back at Trump or politics (it’s been described to me as the “black hole” of conversation).</p><p>I have avoided the news as much as humanly possible this year, yet still have a decent grasp of the most important current events. How?</p><p>The most important news tends to get to you regardless. Colleagues mention it, or friends, or family, and when you hear something interesting, you look more into it yourself.</p><p>But how often does the news truly inform you? I would argue rarely, if ever.</p><p>Cultivate limited sources of information. Newsletters, or high-quality analysis. Read books instead.</p><p>Ignore the always-on news cycle as much as possible, where every story is portrayed as an emergency.</p><p>Think about deeper, important topics instead, like the underlying racial issues causing the unrest, or the growing partisanship in politics, rather than the where the latest protest is taking place, or what awful thing someone said.</p><p>Less but better.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[What Makes a Great Product Manager?]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2020 02:38:29 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[What makes a great product manager? This list of attributes is extensive, but all are important to being a great PM.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Before my current job, I spent a lot of time with founders who were developing their initial product ideas in incubators and accelerators. </p><p>I now spend a significant amount of time working with our product team, and as a mini-product manager myself, running our growth squad.</p><p>This is a list of the qualities that make a great product manager. They apply equally to founders and product managers in larger companies.</p><h2>They Live the Problem</h2><p>Good product managers have lived the problem their customer is facing. They know whether a product has truly provided a solution. They listen to customer feedback, but they can parse it for what is valuable, instead of building everything for every customer.</p><h2>They Know the Market</h2><p>Good product managers know the market well. They know what the competition is doing, but they aren’t obsessed. They chart their own course. They know the market size, and they think about how the features they’re developing fit into their long-term market goals. They can feel the market pull when it happens, and are able to shift their strategy when needed.</p><h2>They Communicate Well</h2><p>Good product managers are articulate, prolific communicators. They write well-structured, clean documents that are easy to follow and present strong arguments. They communicate well verbally, often giving presentations to a variety of different teams and backgrounds.</p><p>They are punctual, sending status updates on time, closing the <a href="/blog/how-to-communicate-effectively">Send-Confirm-Acknowledge loop</a>, and making sure stakeholders stay up-to-date.</p><p>They continuously improve how they format their documents and updates, incorporating feedback from those reading them.</p><h2>They Are Constantly Learning</h2><p>A PM has to understand and be comfortable with many different areas—UX, UI, design, basics of code and architecture—which means there are always areas to improve.</p><p>Moreover, continual learning is an important source of new ideas. The best PMs are always seeking to improve and expand their knowledge.</p><h2>They Have Great Decision-Making Skills</h2><p>Building a product is a series of hundreds of choices. There are never enough resources, and an almost infinite number of things that could be done. </p><p>A great product manager has frameworks for making decisions that are clear, communicated to others, and repeatable. </p><p>Their decision frameworks help them evaluate the quality of their decisions, and improve over time.</p><p> They make decisions considering all the relevant factors, incorporating their vision for the product and market in the future.</p><h2>They Are Organized</h2><p>Working efficiently depends on knowing what you have to do, and when you have to do it. </p><p>A great PM makes sure that everyone in their team knows what they need to do, and uses the tools at their disposal to communicate progress with stakeholders. </p><p>They support the others in their team while taking care of their own to-do list too. </p><h2>They Prioritize Well</h2><p>Being organized is much less valuable if you can’t also prioritize. Not only must you accomplish things, but you must accomplish <em>the most important things first</em>. </p><p>Great decision-making skills help you choose the right things to do, great prioritization skills will help you choose the right things to do first. </p><p>Great PMs can do both.</p><h2>They Have Good Taste</h2><p>Great PMs can identify great products. </p><p>They can break a product down into components by putting themselves in the shoes of other PMs and their customers, identifying key features and the use cases they enable.</p><p>They can construct a vision from that information, and can do the same with their own product. </p><h2>They Understand Great Design</h2><p>Some PMs are designers. Most aren’t. But great PMs can recognize great design, even if they can’t design themselves. </p><p>A bonus is being well-versed enough in design that they can articulate the elements that contribute to why they do or don’t like a particular design. </p><p>At minimum, they can recognize great design and understand enough of the design vocabulary to communicate well with designers.</p><h2>They Understand Technical Trade-offs</h2><p>Like design, some PMs are technical, but many aren’t. </p><p>That can come with advantages, like keeping focus on user stories and customer problems. </p><p>But great PMs understand the technical basics of their product. When technical options are presented, they can factor those trade-offs into their decision-making. </p><p>They work efficiently with development leads as a result.</p><h2>They Are Fluent With Data</h2><p>The best PMs are fluent with the data tools provided in their organization, can do data analysis on their own, and know when they should ask for help from a data scientist. </p><p>When building and evaluating products and features, they can blend quantitative data with qualitative data like user interviews and customer feedback. </p><p>They also know when they should put the data aside, and build something because it helps them reach their product vision.</p><h2>They Simplify</h2><p>Getting stakeholders on board with big product decisions requires buy-in from almost every division in the company—the C-suite, customer-facing teams like sales and customer success, and the product team.</p><p>Great PMs can communicate clearly regardless of the technical knowledge of their audience, and this requires simplification. </p><p>Great PMs express simple ideas that link features to user stories and the product vision, and their ability to simplify compounds their other skills.</p><h2>They Can Write Good Copy</h2><p>Most organizations don’t have a dedicated product copy person, and so it often falls to designers, content marketers, or other members of the organization. </p><p>But a great PM knows the product and the customer well, and they can write clear, effective copy. This helps keep messaging aligned, and speeds up building features.</p><h2>They Can Zoom In and Out</h2><p>We often talk about “detail-oriented” people, and “big picture” people, as if they are two distinct types. Great PMs must be both. </p><p>They need to build a product vision that aligns with the company goals, and project it several years into the future. </p><p>But they must also be able to jump in on details like copy, design, and UX for specific features, to make sure the product is built as they envision. Small details like this often seem trivial, but they add up over time. </p><p>Conversely, PMs who love the detail must be able to step back and make sure what’s being worked on fits into the overall vision.</p><h2>They Inspire</h2><p>Product managers have to influence others, often with little authority. There are lots of tactics for increasing authority, but in the end it comes down to this: do others trust you? Do they respect you? </p><p>To earn their trust and respect, good product managers think about the goals and struggles of coworkers. They work hard, and help their colleagues. </p><p>They form opinions which are thoughtfully considered, and ask for input from others. They change their opinion when necessary, and are a positive influence on their team and colleagues. They inspire others in order to accomplish their goals.</p><h2>Do Great PMs Have All These Skills?</h2><p>They won’t be great at all things. They will have strengths and weaknesses. But they should be good in all these areas, and great in some. </p><p>The best will be able to tell you which.</p><h2>Further Reading:</h2><ul><li><a href="https://medium.com/@noah_weiss/10-traits-of-great-pms-a7776cd3d9cd">10 Traits of Great PMs - Noah Weiss</a></li><li><a href="https://www.quora.com/What-distinguishes-the-Top-1-of-product-managers-from-the-Top-10/answer/Ian-McAllister?srid=3wR&amp;st=ns">What distinguishes the Top 1% of product managers from the Top 10%?</a></li><li><a href="https://www.sachinrekhi.com/the-most-underrated-product-management-skill-influence-without-authority">The Most Underrated Product Management Skill: Influence Without Authority</a></li><li><a href="https://hackernoon.com/what-makes-a-great-product-manager-3c1d03b90356">What Makes a Great Product Manager</a></li><li><a href="https://a16z.com/2012/06/15/good-product-managerbad-product-manager/">Good Product Manager/Bad Product Manager</a></li><li><a href="https://hackernoon.com/product-management-skills-no-one-talks-about-5d50debfb815">Product Management Skills No One Talks About</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why Your Project Needs a Concept]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2020 02:38:29 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Concepts, like a concept car, are important for communicating your vision of the future with customers and employees alike. They're also valuable tools for clarifying assumptions and details, and should not be overlooked.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week at work, we were planning a new episode (aka a quarter). This involves setting our objectives, key results, and brainstorming initiatives to reach those goals.</p><p>Often, we want to improve something. A metric, a part of the customer journey, or something about how the app works.</p><p>And often, we’ll pick a few initiatives to address some known customer pain points. We make some iterative changes, and then move on to other projects.</p><p>For parts of the product that persist—sign up flows, or core functionality—we tend to do this quite often. Each quarter we make several changes based on customer feedback or user testing.</p><p>The discussion we had last week was about at what point we need to step back and think about where we’re going, instead of continuing to iterate on smaller pieces.</p><p>For long-term projects, you need a concept.</p><h2>What is a Concept Car?</h2><p>For those who aren’t familiar with the car world, a concept car is a prototype of what a manufacturer envisions for their cars of the future. </p><p>It’s unlikely to ever make it to production, but often it will feature the early versions of new parts and systems that the manufacturer is working on, or some tech they’ve adopted from their racing teams or other technology industries.</p><p>The Mercedes concept car shown here is one such example (<a href="https://www.mercedes-benz.com/en/vehicles/passenger-cars/mercedes-benz-concept-cars/vision-avtr-the-road-test/">video here</a>).</p><p>The Tesla roadster <a href="https://www.tesla.com/roadster">is another example</a></p><p>Tesla is a bit of an exception, as their concepts have historically been much closer to the production version of the car than traditional manufacturers, but the purpose of the concept is the same.</p><h2>What’s The Purpose of a Concept Car?</h2><p>A concept car is a means of communicating the future of a project, or even a company.</p><p>The concept car serves to give a vision of what future cars from that manufacturer may look like.</p><p>Why is that important? </p><p>Consumers want to be excited by what’s coming from a brand. It helps drive loyalty, and create brand awareness and buzz, and gets people excited about continuing to be part of that brand’s journey.</p><p>It also helps employees. Those working on the project get to explore new areas, think differently about how they build cars, and work on an exciting project. </p><p>Employees who aren’t working directly on the project can also get excited about where the company is going, and what they will be producing. They can show their friends and family, and be proud of where they work.</p><p>A concept car is a means of communicating internally and externally, but it also has other applications.</p><h2>A Concept Car is a List of Assumptions</h2><p>Forcing engineers to put things into a physical form also forces people to clarify what they envision, and test their assumptions.</p><p>If a company claims that “this concept is a vision of where we’re going with our self-driving car”, it forces engineers and managers to confront the question: “what’s left before this car can be self-driving?”</p><p>More trivial things become clearer too: design cues that were broad in sketches become defined. Details like interior materials, seating layout, lighting design—these all become clear.</p><p>The process of building the concept becomes a process of clarification amongst all those involved, something that is critical in reaching a final product.</p><p>This process also brings to light a list of assumptions. </p><ul><li>“We’ve chosen a four-seat layout for our luxury concept, because most of our customers in this segment don’t need five.” How do we know that? What can we do to find out?</li><li>“We believe this styling choice is the future of our cars, and our customers will love it.” Do they? Can we get feedback from customers now?</li></ul><h2>Why Does This Matter Outside of Cars?</h2><p>A concept car is easy to imagine, because most of us have seen one at some point or another.</p><p>But the same idea applies to your idea, your project, or your company.</p><p>You need a concept to communicate what your vision is. It becomes the focal point of discussions around details, assumptions, and experiments.</p><p>You can only debate details when you have a picture. </p><p>You can only state assumptions when you’ve agreed upon a decision and the rationale.</p><p>And you can only run tests and experiments once you have the list of assumptions.</p><p>Iterative improvements are a great way to continue making progress. But at some point, you need to have a concept.</p><h2>To Summarize</h2><p>Concepts are a useful tool for:</p><ul><li>Clarifying details and assumptions, and building experiments to test those assumptions</li><li>Getting customers excited about the direction of the company, and building brand awareness and loyalty</li><li>Getting employees excited about what they are working on, and being part of the company</li></ul><p>For all your major projects, you should have a vision of what you believe the future looks like: your concept car.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Great CEO Within by Matt Mochary: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-great-ceo-within-by-matt-mochary-summary-notes</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2020 02:38:29 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A summary of the best resources for startup CEOs. Considered the startup CEO bible by many of the hottest current startups.Full of lessons that can be applied to any high-performing individual, or anyone who works in a startup. Most useful for those who have crossed the earliest stages of a startup, and are starting to scale.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4><strong>Notes</strong></h4><ul><li>There are many reasons to create a company, but only one good one: to deeply understand real customers (living humans!) and their problem, and then solve that problem.</li><li>Do not create a 50/50 partnership with your cofounder.</li><li>Founding teams should never grow beyond six until there is true product-market fit. For three main reasons: morale, communication and organization, and speed.</li><li>Startups don&#x27;t usually fail because they grow too late. They usually fail because they grow too early.</li><li>Use the <a href="/book-notes/getting-things-done-david-allen"><em>Getting Things Done</em></a> framework for personal productivity.</li><li>Check your inbox twice per day. Organize it according to <a href="https://klinger.io/post/71640845938/how-i-use-gmail-and-why-i-dont-understand-how-you">Andreas Klinger&#x27;s blog post</a>.</li><li>Schedule two hours each day to work on your top goal only. Do this every single work day. The earlier the better.</li><li>Be on time. Be present.</li><li>Whenever you say something twice, write it down.</li><li>Use gratitude to help have fun and feel good about yourself. This is when you perform best. Use it to help others too.</li><li>Do an energy audit each month, marking things that give you energy, and things that drain you. Do this until 75%+ of your time is doing things that give you energy.</li><li>Aim to do things in your Zone of Genius: the things you are uniquely good at, and that you love to do.</li><li>Get enough sleep. Experiment with your sleeping setup. Throw money at the problem.</li><li>For decisions involving lots of stakeholders, use the <a href="https://medium.com/@barmstrong/how-we-make-decisions-at-coinbase-cd6c630322e9">RAPID method</a>. brian_armstrong emiliemc</li><li>Conscious leaders learn to locate, name, and release their feelings. You can learn more about this in <a href="https://amzn.to/35qFy4p"><em>The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership</em></a>.</li><li>To encourage people to identify key issues in a company, ask them to imagine they are the CEO, and ask themselves the question: &quot;What are the most important issues (max three) for me to solve in the next ninety days?&quot;</li><li>To resolve conflict, make the other person feel heard. Keep summarizing what they said (&quot;I think I heard you say...&quot; until they say &quot;That&#x27;s right!&quot;</li><li>Distribute your values, print them out, and repeat them until your team knows them back to front.</li><li>Don&#x27;t underestimate the value of fun. People will spend more time and energy when having fun.</li><li>If your team members are hanging out with each other outside of work, you&#x27;re creating good culture.</li><li>Your culture is the behavioral norms of your company. Be intentional about them. Document them, model them, hire for them, and enforce them.</li><li>Use <a href="/book-notes/measure-what-matters-by-john-doerr">OKRs</a>.</li><li>The best product managers paint a picture for engineers of why a feature is actually needed by a customer.</li><li>Receiving feedback: ask for it, appreciate it, act on it.</li><li>Giving feedback: ask for permission, state the trigger, state your feeling, make a request (positive: do X), ask if they accept.</li><li>Your main obstacle to growth is often not growing a sales team, but generating more leads.</li><li>Make money, have fun, do good.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Getting Things Done Summary: The GTD System Explained]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/getting-things-done-david-allen</link>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2020 02:30:04 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The single best productivity book I have ever read.This book will teach you how to capture and create action items (aka tasks), organize all your projects and reference information, and keep it up-to-date.Pair this with Tiago Forte's PARA system, start using progressive summarization, and you'll be in the top 1% of organized people. It will change your life.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4><strong>Notes</strong></h4><h5>Part 1 - The Art of Getting Things Done</h5><p><strong>1: A New Practice for a New Reality</strong></p><p>There are three key objectives:</p><ol><li>Capture <em>all</em> the things to get done, or that have usefulness for you, outside your head (and therefore off your mind).</li><li>Decide about what &quot;inputs&quot; you allow into your life, which dictate your list of &quot;next actions&quot;.</li><li>Continue to curate and coordinate all that content, so you can access it at any time.</li></ol><p><strong>If it&#x27;s on your mind, your mind isn&#x27;t clear.</strong> Anything unfinished must be captured in a trusted system outside your mind.</p><p>To manage commitments, you need:</p><ol><li>A system for capturing anything unfinished.</li><li>To clarify what the commitment is, and decide what you have to do to make progress.</li><li>To have regular reminders of the things you need to accomplish.</li></ol><p>Most often, the reason something is on your mind is that you want it to be different than it currently is, and yet:</p><ul><li>you haven’t clarified exactly what the intended outcome is;</li><li>you haven’t decided what the very next physical action step is; and/or</li><li>you haven’t put reminders of the outcome and the action required in a system you trust.</li></ul><p><strong>2: Getting Control of Your Life: The Five Steps of Mastering Workflow</strong></p><p>The five steps of mastering workflow:</p><ul><li>(1) <em>capture</em> what has our attention;</li><li>(2) <em>clarify</em> what each item means and what to do about it;</li><li>(3) <em>organize</em> the results, which presents the options we</li><li>(4) <em>reflect</em> on, which we then choose to</li><li>(5) <em>engage</em> with.</li></ul><p><strong>Capture:</strong> you need somewhere to put everything (physical tray, digital tool, etc.).</p><ul><li>Minimize the number of capture locations</li><li>Empty the capture tools regularly</li></ul><p><strong>Clarify</strong>: be clear about what is required, and how it&#x27;s going to get done.</p><ul><li>Is it actionable?</li><li>What&#x27;s the next action?</li><li>Do it, delegate it, or defer it.</li></ul><p><strong>Organize</strong>: make sure things are where you expect them to be.</p><ul><li>For non-action items: trash, incubation, reference.</li><li>For action items: add to project, a calendar, a list of reminders.</li></ul><p><strong>Projects</strong>: any desired result that can be accomplished within a year, that requires more than one action step.</p><ul><li>You should have an index of projects where you capture relevant information and tasks.</li><li>Your calendar should contain: time-specific actions, day-specific actions, day-specific information.</li><li>For actions: they should go on a Next Actions list (not your calendar!).</li></ul><p><strong>Reflect</strong>: step back and review the whole picture of your work and life.</p><ul><li>You should review your projects, next actions, and inbox once every week.</li><li>This is <em>critical</em> for success.</li></ul><p><strong>Engage</strong>: you need to make choices about what actions to pursue next.</p><ul><li>One model is to choose based on: context, time available, energy available, and priority.</li></ul><p><strong>3: Getting Projects Creatively Under Way: The Five Phases of Project Planning</strong></p><p>The key ingredients in relaxed control are:</p><ul><li>(1) clearly defined outcomes (projects) and the next actions required to move them toward closure, and</li><li>(2) reminders placed in a trusted system that is reviewed regularly. This is what I call horizontal focus</li></ul><p>The Natural Planning Model</p><ul><li>Your mind goes through five steps to accomplish virtually any task:</li><li>1 | Defining purpose and principles</li><li>2 | Outcome visioning</li><li>3 | Brainstorming</li><li>4 | Organizing</li><li>5 | Identifying next actions</li></ul><p>Natural Planning Is Not Necessarily Normal</p><ul><li>Have you clarified the primary purpose of the project and communicated it to everyone who ought to know it? And have you agreed on the standards and behaviors you’ll need to adhere to in order to make it successful?</li><li>Have you envisioned success and considered all the innovative things that might result if you achieved it?</li><li>Have you gotten all possible ideas out on the table—everything you need to take into consideration that might affect the outcome?</li><li>Have you identified the mission-critical components, key milestones, and deliverables?</li><li>Have you defined all the aspects of the project that could be moved on right now, what the next action is for each part, and who’s responsible for what?</li></ul><h5><strong>Part 2: Practicing Stress-Free Productivity</strong></h5><p><strong>5: Capturing: Corralling Your “Stuff&quot;</strong></p><p>The key processing question: <strong>&quot;what&#x27;s the next action?&quot;</strong></p><ul><li>If there is no action, it&#x27;s likely: trash, items to incubate, or reference material.</li><li>The action step needs to be <strong>the absolute next physical thing to do.</strong></li></ul><p>If the next action requires less than two minutes, <strong>do it right away</strong>.</p><p>If the next action requires more than two minutes, ask, &quot;Am I the best person to be doing it?&quot; If not, delegate.</p><p><strong>7: Organizing: Setting Up the Right Buckets</strong></p><p>There are seven primary types of things you&#x27;ll want to keep track of:</p><ul><li>A Projects list</li><li>Project support material</li><li>Calendar actions and information</li><li>Next Actions lists</li><li>A Waiting For list</li><li>Reference material</li><li>A Someday/Maybe list</li></ul><p>These <strong>all need to be kept separate</strong>.</p><p>The most common categories of action reminders:</p><ul><li>Calls</li><li>At Computer</li><li>Errands</li><li>At Office (miscellaneous)</li><li>At Home</li><li>Anywhere</li><li>Agendas (for people and meetings)</li><li>Read/Review</li></ul><p><strong>Be careful</strong> about dispersing action reminders. You need to make sure all the areas you have them are reviewed regularly.</p><p>The Projects List(s)</p><ul><li>A complete and current Projects list is the major operational tool.</li><li>The Projects list is not meant to hold plans or details about your projects themselves, nor should you try to keep it arranged by priority or size or urgency—it’s just a comprehensive index of your open loops.</li><li>Remember, you can’t do a project; you can only do the action steps it requires.</li></ul><p>Some Common Ways to Subsort Projects</p><ul><li><strong>Personal/Professional</strong></li><li><strong>Delegated Projects</strong>: if you&#x27;re an exec or manager, for example.</li><li><strong>Specific Types of Projects</strong> (example: keynote speaker with many presentations)</li></ul><p><strong>8: Reflecting: Keeping It All Fresh and Functional</strong></p><p>What Is the Weekly Review?</p><ul><li>Very simply, the Weekly Review is whatever you need to do to get your head empty again and get oriented for the next couple of weeks. It’s going through the steps of workflow management—capturing, clarifying, organizing, and reviewing all your outstanding commitments, intentions, and inclinations—until you can honestly say, &quot;I absolutely know right now everything I’m not doing but could be doing if I decided to.&quot;</li><li>From a practical standpoint, here is the three-part drill that can get you there: get clear, get current, and get creative.</li><li>Getting clear will ensure that all your collected stuff is processed.</li><li>Getting current will ensure that all your orienting “maps&quot; or lists are reviewed and up-to-date.</li><li>The creative part happens to some degree automatically, as you get clear and current—you will naturally be generating ideas and perspectives that will be adding value to your thinking about work and life.</li></ul><p>The Right Time and Place for the Review</p><ul><li>I recommend that you block out two hours early in the afternoon of your last workday for the review.</li></ul><p>The &quot;Bigger Picture&quot; Reviews</p><ul><li>Yes, at some point you must clarify the larger outcomes, the long-term goals, the visions and principles that ultimately drive, test, and prioritize your decisions.</li><li>What are your key goals and objectives in your work? What should you have in place a year or three years from now? How is your career going? Is this the lifestyle that is most fulfilling to you? Are you doing what you really want or need to do, from a deeper and longer-term perspective?</li></ul><p><strong>9: Engaging: Making the Best Action Choices</strong></p><p>The Six-Level Model for Reviewing Your Own Work</p><ul><li>The six levels of work may be thought of in terms of altitude, as in the floors of a building:</li><li>Horizon 5: Life</li><li>Horizon 4: Long-term visions</li><li>Horizon 3: One- to two-year goals</li><li>Horizon 2: Areas of focus and accountability</li><li>Horizon 1: Current projects</li><li>Ground: Current actions</li></ul><p>It&#x27;s recommended that you start at the Ground, get your action lists complete, and then work your way up.</p><p><strong>10: Getting Projects Under Control</strong></p><p>I’ve discovered that the biggest improvement opportunity in planning does not consist of techniques for the highly elaborate and complex kinds of project organizing that professional project managers sometimes use (like Gantt charts).</p><p>You need to set up systems and tricks that get you to think about your projects and situations more frequently, more easily, and more in depth.</p><p>What Projects Should You Be Planning?</p><ul><li>There are two types of projects, however, that deserve at least some sort of planning activity: (1) those that still have your attention even after you’ve determined their next actions, and (2) those about which potentially useful ideas and supportive detail just show up ad hoc.</li><li>The first type—the projects that you know have other things about them that must be decided on and organized—will need a more detailed approach than just identifying a next action. For these you’ll need a more specific application of one or more of the other four phases of the natural planning model: purpose and principles, vision/outcome, brainstorming, and/or organizing.</li><li>The second type—the projects for which ideas just show up, ad hoc, when you’re on a beach or in a car or in a meeting—need to have an appropriate place into which these associated ideas can be captured. Then they can reside there for later use as needed.</li></ul><p>Tools matter for supporting project thinking. Some tips:</p><ul><li>Make sure you always have a method of capturing ideas and information on hand.</li><li>Keep good writing tools around all the time.</li><li>Have whiteboards around where you can.</li></ul><h5><strong>Part 3 - The Power of Key Principles</strong></h5><p><strong>11: The Power of the Capturing Habit</strong></p><ul><li>When people with whom you interact notice that without fail you receive, process, and organize in an airtight manner the exchanges and agreements they have with you, they begin to trust you in a unique way.</li><li>More significantly, you incorporate a level of self-confidence in your engagement with your world that money cannot buy.</li><li>It noticeably enhances your mental well-being and improves the quality of your communications and relationships, both personally and professionally.</li></ul><p>How Much Capturing is Required?</p><ul><li>When will you know how much you have left in your head to capture? Only when there’s nothing left.</li><li>When the only thing on your mind is the only thing on your mind, you’ll be “present,&quot; in your “zone,&quot; with no distinction between work and play.</li><li>This doesn’t mean that your mind will be empty. If you’re conscious, your mind will always be focusing on something. But if it’s focusing on only one thing at a time, without distraction, you’ll be in your “zone.&quot;</li><li>I suggest that you use your mind to think about things, rather than think of them.</li></ul><p><strong>12: The Power of the Next-Action Decision</strong></p><p>When a culture adopts &quot;What’s the next action?&quot; as a standard operating query, there’s an automatic increase in energy, productivity, clarity, and focus.</p><p>&quot;The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex overwhelming tasks into small, manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.&quot;—Mark Twain</p><p><strong>13: The Power of Outcome Focusing</strong></p><p>As Steven Snyder, an expert in whole-brain learning and a friend of mine, put it, &quot;There are only two problems in life:</p><ul><li>(1) you know what you want, and you don’t know how to get it; and/or</li><li>(2) you don’t know what you want.&quot;</li></ul><p>If that&#x27;s true then there are only two solutions:</p><ul><li>Make it up.</li><li>Make it happen.</li></ul><p><strong>15: The Path of GTD Mastery</strong></p><p>The Three Tiers of Mastery</p><ul><li>Over the many years of engaging with people who have adopted the GTD methodology, I have noticed generally three stages of maturity they have demonstrated in using the model:</li><li>1 | Employing the fundamentals of managing workflow;</li><li>2 | Implementing a more elevated and integrated total life management system; and</li><li>3 | Leveraging skills to create clear space and get things done for an ever-expansive expression and manifestation.</li></ul><p>Mastering the Basics</p><ul><li>Other basic practices, which, even if implemented initially, easily regress into incomplete, out-of-date, and therefore dysfunctional usage, include:</li><li>Avoiding next-action decision making on &quot;stuff to do&quot;</li><li>Fully utilizing the &quot;Waiting For&quot; category, such that every expected deliverable from others is inventoried and reviewed for follow-up in adequate timing</li><li>Using Agenda lists to capture and manage communications with others</li><li>Keeping a simple, easily accessible filing and reference system</li><li>Keeping the calendar as pure &quot;hard landscape&quot; without undermining its trustworthiness with extraneous inputs</li><li>Doing Weekly Reviews to keep one’s system functional and current</li></ul><p>Graduate Level–Integrated Life Management</p><ul><li>The hallmarks of this next level of maturity with Getting Things Done are:</li><li>a complete, current, and clear inventory of projects;</li><li>a working map of one’s roles, accountabilities, and interests—personally and professionally;</li><li>an integrated total life management system, custom tailored to one’s current needs and direction and utilized to dynamically steer out beyond the day-to-day; and</li><li>challenges and surprises trigger your utilization of this methodology instead of throwing you out of it.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A guide for embracing your masculine side (regardless of gender or sexual orientation).Covering everything from work, relationships, and sex, this guide may seem outdated for some, but there is likely to be something useful for most men and women.Beware the Barnum effect in much of the book (vague statements we identify with), but take what you find useful.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Key Points</h4><p>An inner masculine and inner feminine exists in all of us, both genders.</p><p>Men generally are dominated by their inner masculine, and women by their inner feminine.</p><p>The &quot;mission&quot; or the search for freedom is the priority of the masculine, whereas the search for love is the priority of the feminine.</p><p>Regardless of gender or sexual orientation, if you want to experience deep spiritual and sexual fulfillment, you must know your natural sexual essence—masculine, feminine, or balanced—and live true to it.</p><p>Stop hoping for the completion of anything in life—it will never be over, so spend time now on the things you&#x27;re &quot;waiting&quot; for.</p><p>Most postponements are excuses for a lack of creative discipline.</p><p>Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease, or women.</p><p>Stand up straight, breath into your belly, and open your chest.</p><p>Live as if your father was dead—identify and pursue those activities you have avoided or suppressed because of the influence of your father.</p><p>Know your edge, your one true gift, and be honest about it. State your related fears out loud.</p><p>Read books that remind you who you are, meditate, and spend time with people who inspire you.</p><p>Listen to advice, but use your purpose to guide you in decision-making.</p><p>Align your life to your purpose; your relationship comes second.</p><p>Lean slightly beyond the edge of comfort in everything you do.</p><p>Treat your relationship like your pursuit of purpose: see them as a challenge, an opportunity to express your true gifts, and embrace the struggles of each.</p><p>Talk with your friends about what you are afraid of, and cultivate friends who are willing to challenge you, even if it requires being brutally honest. These friends should also be living at their edge, challenging themselves.</p><p>Find your purpose, and align your life—everything from your diet to your career—with that purpose.</p><p>Your purpose may change, or you may go through stages in discovering it. During these periods, you must expect intense periods of action, followed by periods of not knowing what you want to do. Wait, and when you have a sense of direction, begin moving again.</p><p>Don&#x27;t use your family as an excuse. They will know if you are living your deepest purpose. Instead, find ways to continue to pursue your purpose while raising your family.</p><p>Don&#x27;t get lost in tasks and duties. Make sure to take time to meditate and reflect, to rise above it all. This &quot;do mode&quot; is one of men&#x27;s biggest strengths and weaknesses. You cannot forget the larger purpose.</p><p>View your relationship as a challenge. Expect &quot;tests&quot; of your love, and respond with overwhelming love, humour, and physical touch.</p><p>Understand that we often say things which are not meant to be taken literally. They may just be an expression of our current feelings.</p><p>Praise specific things about your partner 5-10 times per day.</p><p>The whole point of intimacy is to serve each other in growth and love, in better ways than we can serve ourselves.</p><p>Often, conflict in a relationship comes from feeling unloved. Try expressing your love through humour and physical contact, instead of trying to analyze.</p><p>Don&#x27;t be afraid to give your opinion on decisions, by giving your perspective and your reasoning, and letting you know that you love your partner regardless. Say something like, &quot;I like this option, but what&#x27;s most important to me is that you&#x27;re happy.&quot;</p><p>Enjoy your attraction to masculine or feminine energy. When you feel it, enjoy it, and breathe it in; allow the energy to flow through you.</p><p>Choose a partner who is your complimentary opposite; if you are very masculine or feminine, you will enjoy someone who is the opposite. If you are more neutral, you will enjoy someone who is more neutral as well.</p><p>You can share many aspects of life with your partner, but only if you choose a single main purpose for being together.</p><p>You will likely be tempted by other partners. Know that this is normal, but often causes more problems than it solves. Know the difference between self-discipline and self-suppression—choosing to rule your lesser desires is different than simply resisting them.</p><p>If you don&#x27;t choose and follow your direction, your partner will feel the need to do it for you, and won&#x27;t be able to relax with you.</p><p>The basic masculine motivation is to be released from constraint and experience the freedom on the other side. This can take many forms—orgasm, mediation, sports, war. The same capacity to face death is necessary for spiritual freedom, where you must be willing to face your fears and let go of anything that limits your love.</p><p>It is not time that kills delight, but familiarity, neutralization, and a lack of purpose. View the qualities in your partner that become routine—childcare, helper, buddy—as the attractive qualities they are.</p><p>Use conscious, deep breathing, through your chest and belly, as a means to open yourself, deal with stress and tension, and generally transmit your presence through the room.</p><p>Multiple orgasms should be possible for men without ejaculation, and this will heighten, rather than drain energy.</p><p>You are responsible for making your partner feel loved, for growing the intimacy in your relationship.</p><p>Make sure you keep in touch with your masculine edge, embracing solitude, austerity, and other challenges to keep your edge sharp. Embrace masculine gatherings as another way to keep in touch with your masculine core.</p><p>Practice dissolving into the world, as a method of keeping in touch with your masculine desire to be utterly released and free.</p><h4>Notes</h4><h5>Introduction</h5><ul><li>This book is a guide for a specific kind of newly evolving man. This man is unabashedly masculine—he is purposeful, confident, and directed, living his chosen way of life with deep integrity and humor—and he is sensitive, spontaneous, and spiritually alive, with a heart-commitment to discovering and living his deepest truth.</li><li>This kind of man is totally turned on by the feminine. He loves to take his woman sexually, to ravish her, but not in some old-style macho fashion. Rather, he wants to ravish her with so much love she is vanished, they both vanish, in the fullness of loving itself.</li><li>He has embraced both his inner masculine and feminine, and he no longer holds onto either of them. He doesn&#x27;t need to be right all the time, nor does he need to be always safe,&#x27; cooperative, and sharing, like an androgynous Mr. Nice Guy. He simply lives from his deepest core, fearlessly giving his gifts, feeling through the fleeting moment into the openness of existence, totally committed to magnifying love.</li><li>If you have a more masculine sexual essence, you would, of course, enjoy staying home and playing with the kids, but, deep down, you are driven by a sense of mission.</li><li>If you have a more feminine sexual essence, your professional life may be incredibly successful, but your core won&#x27;t be fulfilled unless love is flowing fully in your family or intimate life.</li><li>The &quot;mission&quot; or the search for freedom is the priority of the masculine, whereas the search for love is the priority of the feminine. Sports are all about achieving freedom, such as by breaking free of your opponent&#x27;s tackle or barrage of punches, and about succeeding at your mission, by carrying the ball into the end zone or remaining standing after 10 rounds. For the feminine, the search for love touches the core. Whether on soap operas, in love stories, or talking with friends about relationships, the desire for love is what appears in feminine forms of entertainment.</li><li>Regardless of gender or sexual orientation, if you want to experience deep spiritual and sexual fulfillment, you must know your natural sexual essence—masculine, feminine, or balanced—and live true to it.</li></ul><h5>Part One: A Man’s Way</h5><h5>1 - Stop Hoping for a Completion of Anything in Life</h5><ul><li><em>The masculine error is to think that eventually things will be different in some fundamental way. They won&#x27;t. It never ends. As long as life continues, the creative challenge is to tussle, play, and make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift.</em></li><li>It&#x27;s never going to be over, so stop waiting for the good stuff. As of now, spend a minimum of one hour a day doing whatever you are waiting to do until your finances are more secure, or until the children have grown and left home, or until you have finished your obligations and you feel free to do what you really want to do. Don&#x27;t wait any longer.</li><li>However, be forewarned: you may discover that you don&#x27;t, or can&#x27;t, do it; that, in fact, your fantasy of your future life is simply a fantasy.</li><li>Most postponements are excuses for a lack of creative discipline.</li><li>The next time you notice yourself trying to fix your woman so that she will no longer (fill in the blank), relax and give her love by touching her and telling her that you love her when she is this way (whatever you filled in the blank with). Embrace her, or wrestle with her, or scream and yell for the heck of it, but make no effort to bring an end to that which pisses you off. Practice love instead of trying to bring an end to the quality that bothers you.</li><li>Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease, or women.</li></ul><h5>2 - Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts</h5><ul><li>The superior man practices opening during these times of automatic closure. Open the front of your body so your chest and solar plexus are not tense. Sit or stand up straight and full, opening the front of your body, softening your chest and belly, wide and free. Breathe down through your chest and solar plexus, deep into your belly. Look directly into the eyes of whoever you are with, feeling your own pain as well as feeling the other person. Only when the front of your body is relaxed and opened, your breath full and deep, and your gaze unguarded and directly connected with another person&#x27;s eyes, can your fullest intelligence manifest spontaneously in the situation.</li></ul><h5>3 Live As If Your Father Were Dead</h5><ul><li><em>A man must love his father and yet be free of his father&#x27;s expectations and criticisms in order to be a free man.</em></li></ul><h5>4 - Know Your Real Edge and Don&#x27;t Fake It</h5><ul><li>Where do your fears stop you from making a larger contribution to mankind, from earning a higher income, or from earning money in a more creative and enjoyable way? If you were absolutely fearless, would you be earning a living in exactly the same way as you are now? Your edge is where you stop short, or where you compromise your fullest gift, and, instead, cater to your fears.</li><li>As an experiment, describe your edge with respect to your career out loud to yourself. Say something like, &quot;I know I could be earning more money, but I am too lazy to put in the extra hours it would take. I know that I could give more of my true gift, but I am afraid that I may not succeed, and then I will be a penniless failure. I&#x27;ve spent 15 years developing my career, and I&#x27;m afraid to let go of it and start fresh, even though I know that I spend most of my life doing things I have no real interest in doing. I could be making money in more creative ways, but I spend too much time watching TV rather than being creative.&quot;</li></ul><h5>5 - Always Hold To Your Deepest Realization</h5><ul><li>Use aids to support your relaxation into, and creation from, this source. Read books that remind you of who you are, in truth. Spend time with people who inspire you and reflect the source to you. Meditate, contemplate, or pray daily so that you steep yourself in the source.</li></ul><h5>6 - Never Change Your Mind Just to Please a Woman</h5><ul><li><em>If a woman suggests something that changes a man&#x27;s perspective, then he should make a new decision based on his new perspective. But he should never betray his own deepest knowledge and intuition in order to please his woman or &quot;go along&quot; with her. Both she and he will be weakened by such an action.</em></li><li>If you choose to go with your woman&#x27;s suggestion even when deep in your heart you feel that another decision is more wise, you are, in effect, saying, &quot;I don&#x27;t trust my own wisdom.</li></ul><h5>7 - Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship</h5><ul><li>Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose.</li><li>Your mission is your priority. Unless you know your mission and have aligned your life to it, your core will feel empty.</li><li>Your woman will be more fulfilled with 30 minutes a day of undivided attention and ravishing love than she will with a few hours of your weak and divided presence when your heart really isn&#x27;t into it. Time you spend with your woman should be time you really want to be with her more than anything else. If you&#x27;d rather be doing something else, she&#x27;ll feel it. Both of you will be dissatisfied.</li></ul><h5>8 - Lean Just Beyond Your Edge</h5><ul><li><em>In any given moment, a man&#x27;s growth is optimized if he leans just beyond his edge, his capacity, his fear. He should not be too lazy, happily stagnating in the zone of security and comfort. Nor should he push far beyond his edge, stressing himself unnecessarily, unable to metabolize his experience. He should lean just slightly beyond the edge of fear and discomfort. Constantly.</em></li></ul><h5>9 - Do It for Love</h5><ul><li>There are two ways to deal with woman and world without compromising your true gifts or dribbling away the force of your deep being. Oneway is to renounce sexual intimacy and worldliness, totally dedicating yourself without distraction or compromise to the path you choose to pursue, free of the seemingly constant demands of woman and world. The other way is to &quot;fuck&quot; both to smithereens, to ravish them with your love unsheathed, to give your true gifts despite the constant tussle of woman and world, to smelt your authentic gifts in this friction of opposition and surrender, to thrust love from the freedom of your deep being even as your body and mind die blissfully through a crucifixion of inevitable pleasure and pain, attraction and repulsion, gain and loss. No gifts left ungiven. No limit to the depth of being. Only openness, freedom, and love as the legacy of your intercourse with woman and world.</li></ul><h5>10 - Enjoy Your Friends&#x27; Criticism</h5><ul><li>About once a week, you should sit down with your closest men friends and discuss what you are doing in your life and what you are afraid of doing. The conversation should be short and simple. You should state where you are at. Then, your friends should give you a behavioral experiment, something you can do that will reveal something to you, or grant more freedom in your life.</li><li>Your close men friends should be willing to challenge your mediocrity by suggesting a concrete action you can perform that will pop you out of your rut, one way or the other. And you must be willing to offer them your brutal honesty, in the same way, if you are all to grow. Good friends should not tolerate mediocrity in one another.</li><li>Choose men friends who themselves are living at their edge, facing their fears and living just beyond them.</li></ul><h5>11 - If You Don&#x27;t Know Your Purpose, Discover It, Now</h5><ul><li>The core of your life is your purpose. Everything in your life, from your diet to your career, must be aligned with your purpose if you are to act with coherence and integrity in the world. If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours.</li></ul><h5>12 - Be Willing to Change Everything in Your Life</h5><ul><li><em>A man must be prepared to give 100% to his purpose, fulfill his karma or dissolve it, and then let go of that specific form of living. He must be capable of not knowing what to do with his life, entering a period of unknowingness and waiting for a vision or a new form of purpose to emerge. These cycles of strong specific action followed by periods of not knowing what the hell is going on are natural for a man who is shedding layers of karma in his relaxation into truth.</em></li><li>However, there is also the possibility that you have completed your karma in this area. It is possible that this was one layer of purpose, which you have now fulfilled, on the way to another layer of purpose, closer to your deepest purpose. Among the signs of fulfilling or completing a layer of purpose are these:</li><li>You suddenly have no interest whatsoever in a project or mission that, just previously, motivated you highly.</li><li>You feel surprisingly free of any regrets whatsoever, for starting the project or for ending it</li><li>Even though you may not have the slightest idea of what you are going to do next, you feel clear, unconfused, and, especially, unburdened</li><li>You feel an increase in energy at the prospect of ceasing your involvement with the project</li><li>The project seems almost silly, like collecting shoelaces or wallpapering your house with gas station receipts. Sure, you could do it, but why would you want to?</li><li>If you experience these signs, it is probably time to stop working on this project. You must end your involvement impeccably, however, making sure there are no loose ends and that you do not burden anybody&#x27;s life by stopping your involvement.</li></ul><h5>13 - Don&#x27;t Use Your Family As an Excuse</h5><ul><li>If you and your woman both work, it is better to make arrangements with other families to &quot;timeshare&quot; child caring, or to hire someone to help with your children, than to permanently compromise your deepest purpose and truth because you feel you must do so to spend more time with your children. It is not the amount of time but the quality of the interaction that most influences a child&#x27;s growth. Children are exquisitely sensitive to emotional tone. If you are not full in your core, aligned with your deepest purpose and living a life of authentic commitment, your children will feel it.</li></ul><h5>14 - Don&#x27;t Get Lost in Tasks and Duties</h5><ul><li><em>Whatever the specifics of a man&#x27;s purpose, he must always refresh the transcendental element of his life through regular meditation and retreat. A man should never get lost in the details of his life and forget that, ultimately and in truth, life amounts to nothing other than what is the deepest truth of this present moment. Tasks don&#x27;t get a man anywhere more conscious or free than he is capable of being in this present moment.</em></li><li>This &quot;do mode&quot; is one of men&#x27;s biggest strengths and weaknesses. It&#x27;s great to be able to plow through obstructions and get the job done. And it&#x27;s good to keep yourself disciplined and on purpose. But if you forget your larger purpose while pursuing the small and endless tasks of daily life, then you have reduced yourself to a machine of picayune.</li><li>picayune: petty; worthless</li></ul><h5>15 - Stop Hoping for Your Woman to Get Easier</h5><ul><li><em>A woman often seems to test her man&#x27;s capacity to remain unperturbed in his truth and purpose. She tests him to feel his freedom and depth of love, to know that he is trustable. Her tests may come in the form of complaining, challenging him, changing her mind, doubting him, distracting him, or even undermining his purpose in a subtle or not so subtle way. A man should never think his woman&#x27;s testing is going to end and his life will get easier. Rather, he should appreciate that she does these things to feel his strength, integrity, and openness. Her desire is for his deepest truth and love. As he grows, so will her testing.</em></li><li>The most erotic moment for a woman is feeling that you are Shiva, the divine masculine: imperturbable, totally loving, fully present, and all-pervading. She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her.</li><li>If you remain full and strong, humorous and happy, your truth unperturbed by her testing, then you pass the test.</li><li>&quot;Honey, I&#x27;ll get you some milk, all right,&quot; you say as you sweep her off the ground and lay her on the couch, laughing, kissing, looking deeply into her eyes, and &quot;milking&quot; her happiness with the confident loving of your caresses.</li><li>It never ends. This is the secret. You can&#x27;t get out of it. Finding a different woman won&#x27;t get you out of it. Therapy won&#x27;t get you out of it. Financial or sexual mastery won&#x27;t get you out of it. Your woman is testing you because she loves you.</li></ul><h5>Part Two: Dealing With Women</h5><h5>16 - Women Are Not Liars</h5><ul><li>The basic rule is this: Don&#x27;t believe the literal content of what your woman says unless love is flowing deeply and fully in the moment when she says it. And even then, know that she is probably talking about her current feelings, not necessarily about the subject of whatever she is talking about.</li></ul><h5>17 - Praise Her</h5><ul><li><em>The masculine grows by challenge, but the feminine grows by praise. A man must be unabashed and expressed in his appreciation for his woman. Praise her freely.</em></li><li>Praise always magnifies the quality of your woman that you praise. &quot;You&#x27;re so beautiful when you smile,&quot; is much more effective than, &quot;You&#x27;re so ugly when you frown,&quot; although they both indicate your desire for her smile. When speaking to your woman, it is always better to call the glass half full than half empty.</li><li>Praise specific things you love about your woman 5-10 times a day.</li></ul><h5>18 - Tolerating Her Leads to Resenting Her</h5><ul><li>The whole point of an intimacy is to serve each other in growth and love, hopefully in better ways than we can serve ourselves.</li><li>One of the largest gifts you can give your woman is your capacity to open her heart when it is closed. Sure, she can get herself out of her dark mood, but your masculine thunderbolt of love can brighten her darkness in a way she can&#x27;t do for herself.</li><li>Instead of tolerating your woman&#x27;s moods of closure and complaint, open her moods with your skillful loving. It is your gift to give. Both of you will grow more by your giving than by your tolerating. A superior man sees his woman&#x27;s moods not as a curse, but as a challenge and an amusement.</li><li>There are many ways to creatively deal with her moods and help her to open. Tickle her. Take off your clothes and dance the watusi. Sing opera for her. Make animal sounds. Shout at her louder than you ever have and then kiss her passionately. Press your belly into her until she melts. Lift her off the ground and spin her around. Occasionally, talking with her helps, but not as often as humor and physically expressed love.</li></ul><h5>19 - Don&#x27;t Analyze Your Woman</h5><ul><li>As a man, you probably want to find the cause for the problems in your life. That way, you can eliminate the source of the problem.</li><li>The amazing thing is this: 90% of a woman&#x27;s emotional problems stem from feeling unloved. So don&#x27;t stand back and analyze her, like a doctor diagnosing a patient, or like a therapist questioning a client. Give her your love—the same love that is motivating your questioning—immediately and unmistakably.</li></ul><h5>20 - Don&#x27;t Suggest That a Woman Fix Her Own Emotional Problem</h5><ul><li>One of the deepest feminine desires in intimacy (though not in business or simple friendship) is to be able to relax and surrender, knowing that her man is taking care of everything.</li><li>She can be pure energy, pure motion, pure love, without having to analyze all the options and decide which ones are best. She can enjoy her man taking responsibility for the direction, so she can be what the feminine is: pure energy.</li></ul><h5>21 - Stay With Her Intensity To a Point</h5><ul><li>Basically, most men are afraid of, or disgusted by, feminine emotions. That&#x27;s why you try to fix them or escape from them. &quot;I&#x27;ll come back later when you can act like a reasonable human being,&quot; you might say.</li><li>One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman&#x27;s emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trust ability, and she can relax.</li><li>Keep your breath full. Keep your body strong. Keep your attention present. No matter what your woman says or does, give her love. Press your belly into her. Smile. Scream and then lick her face. Do whatever it takes to crack the shell of her closure, get your love inside that crack, and touch her heart. Learn to enjoy her anger, her tears, her silent hardness. The world will give you the same at times.</li></ul><h5>22 - Don&#x27;t Force the Feminine to Make Decisions</h5><ul><li>Your woman asks you for your input, and you say, &quot;Whatever you want to do is fine with me.&quot; This is the statement of a friend, not a lover.</li><li>One of your most valuable masculine gifts is the ability to see all the options and make a decision based on this view of all the potential outcomes.</li><li>Feminine decisions are based on what feels right, and often this is the best way to make a decision.</li><li>Say something like, &quot;I like the red shoes, but what&#x27;s most important to me is that you&#x27;re happy.&quot;</li><li>As a practice, always help your woman make decisions by giving her your perspective and telling her your choices, while letting her know that you love her regardless of the decision she makes. Often her feminine feelings will be a much better basis for a decision than your masculine analysis. So, encourage her to feel into the situation and trust her feelings. But, for the sake of polarity and happiness in intimacy, always tell her what you would do and why, even if you think she should make her own decision.</li></ul><h5>Part Three: Working With Polarity and Energy</h5><h5>23 - Your Attraction to the Feminine Is Inevitable</h5><ul><li>If you are a man with a masculine sexual essence, you will always feel sexual polarity with anyone who animates feminine energy. You may feel this attraction many times a day, with many women. Enjoy it. Women are a blessing! The feminine, even in the non-human forms of a lush tropical island, a cold beer, or your favorite tune, could make the difference between dreariness and ahhhing in ecstasy.</li><li>Sexual attraction, however, is very different from having sex. There is a big difference between choosing to be intimate with a woman and simply being attracted to her energy and radiance.</li><li>If you are like most men, a radiant woman can inspire you for hours or days. Remember, the desire she arouses in you is a blessing in itself.</li><li>The next time you come upon a woman who sends a thrill through your body, relax into the thrill. Let her waves of feminine energy move through your body like a deep massage. Breathe fully, without resisting the joy her sighting affords you. Breathe the joy all through your body, down to your toes. Don&#x27;t stare at her, don&#x27;t even interact with her. But when you see her, and you experience your attraction, fully allow the energy of attraction to move freely through your body.</li></ul><h5>24 - Choose a Woman Who Is Your Complimentary Opposite</h5><ul><li>This is what you get in a woman with a feminine sexual essence: A woman who is all over the place emotionally. A woman whom you can depend on to change her mind. A woman who is much more sensitive than you are to the flow of subtle energies in your relationship. A woman who brings you delight and awe in the ecstasy, both sexual and spiritual, that her body expresses so freely and beautifully.</li><li>It is all one package. You can&#x27;t have a woman who is always logically consistent, reasonable, and on time, and who also fills your heart and flesh with energy, instantly and throughout the day, with her bodily expressed love and ecstasy. She can animate reasonable masculine energy when she wants, but if she has a feminine core, much of the time she will want to dance, in wrathful anger or enchanting joy, beyond the need for reason.</li><li>So, choose a woman who is your complimentary opposite, which for most men means a more feminine woman. It is only a feminine woman who can give the gifts that you, as a masculine man, need. Along with these gifts, however, come the relative chaos and emotional weather storms that most men dread.</li></ul><h5>25 - Know What Is Important in Your Woman</h5><ul><li>The more you seek a woman who gives you everything, the less you get of anything.</li><li>In other times and cultures, you might have had multiple intimate partners, each fulfilling a different purpose, each partner contributing different skills, functions, and sexual energies to the whole.</li><li>In our modern world, however, polygamy is not much of an option. For social and psychological reasons, most men and women of today want to m limit their intimate scope to one time—although, if you are like most men, you&#x27;ve certainly entertained the notion of multiple wives, or at least a mistress or two, each fulfilling a different purpose.</li><li>If you want your woman to be your spiritual and sexual consort, not just your housemate, you must skillfully maintain your household and livelihoods so that the potency of your union is not diminished. She can be the mother of your children as well as your business partner, as long as these functions do not cut into the primacy of your purpose: to serve one another&#x27;s enlightenment through your unwavering commitment to love, and to enliven one another&#x27;s core by the bodily transmission of love via sexual polarity.</li><li>When these two aspects of your loving—spiritual awakening and sexual transmission— become diminished by your daily duties, you will both begin to seek elsewhere for daily refreshment and fulfillment.</li></ul><h5>26 - You Will Often Want More Than One Woman</h5><ul><li><em>Any man with a masculine sexual essence will desire sexual variety. Even if he loves his intimate partner and is completely committed to her, he will naturally want sexual occasions with other women besides his chosen intimate partner. How a man deals with his desire for other women is up to him. He should know, however, that there is no way to avoid such desires. He should also know that acting on such desires, though temporarily enlivening and exhilarating, often ends up complicating his life far more than the occasion itself is worth.</em></li><li>Just remember that self-discipline is not self-suppression. Suppression is when you resist and fight against your desires, keeping them as buried and unexpressed as possible. Self-discipline is when your highest desires rule your lesser desires, not through resistance, but through loving action grounded in understanding and compassion.</li></ul><h5>27 - Young Women Offer You a Special Energy</h5><ul><li>A major part of mastering sexuality is learning to sustain greater and greater degrees of pleasure and desire in the body, without needing to rid yourself of the force because you can&#x27;t handle it.</li></ul><h5>28 - Each Woman Has a &quot;Temperature&quot; That Can Heal or Irritate You</h5><ul><li>Most men have a good intuitive sense of the difference between a woman who is cool and soothing and a woman who is hot and exciting, regardless of how they describe it. And this difference has a lot to do with why men have different tastes for women, and why your taste could change over time.</li><li>Depending on your health, your lifestyle, your work demands, and your emotional state, you may need different types of energy at different times. The important thing is to know there is a difference, so that you can be conscious of the choice you are making and how it might affect you.</li><li>Don&#x27;t confuse your energy needs with a commitment in love, though. Energy needs are relatively easy to balance. You can probably get the energy you need from a masseuse or a change in diet.</li></ul><h5>Part Four: What Women Really Want</h5><h5>29 - Choose a Woman Who Chooses You</h5><ul><li>If your friends honestly tell you that this woman doesn&#x27;t want to be with you, it is over. You cannot enjoy a good relationship with her, even if she changes her mind.</li><li>Of course, you must discriminate between whether she is playing &quot;hard to get&quot; or whether she is genuinely less interested in the relationship than you. This is why you should ask your friends, and even her friends.</li></ul><h5>30 - What She Wants Is Not What She Says</h5><ul><li>Your woman will ask you to do all kinds of things, every day. Do not allow yourself to be swayed from your truth, from the direction of your heart. Underneath your woman&#x27;s superficial request is her actual desire and need: she wants your passionate fullness to pervade her, she wants to be able to trust the unshakability of your loving, she wants to feel in her bones that your divine masculine presence is stronger than your distractibility.</li></ul><h5>31 - Her Complaint Is Content-Free</h5><ul><li>The thing your woman is complaining about is rarely the thing she is complaining about. It is a mistake to believe the content of what she is saying, and then respond to her complaints, point by point. When she complains about financial issues, she is usually feeling a lack in your masculine capacity to direct your life with clarity, purpose, integrity, and wisdom. The money itself is secondary. If you were poor but totally conscious, happy, full of integrity, fearless, humorous, loving and giving your fullest gift to the world and to your woman, she wouldn&#x27;t complain about lack of money.</li><li>When you say you will clean the garage, and then weeks pass by and you haven&#x27;t, her complaint isn&#x27;t really about the garage. Sure, she&#x27;d like a clean garage, but this is a superficial issue. The deeper issue is that you didn&#x27;t do what you said you would. You gave her your word, and you didn&#x27;t follow through. She can&#x27;t trust what you say. And this hurts her, deeply.</li><li>Your word is a demonstration of your purpose, of your masculine core. When you don&#x27;t follow through with what you say you are going to do, she feels that your masculine core is weak.</li></ul><h5>32 - She Doesn&#x27;t Really Want to Be Number One</h5><ul><li><em>A woman sometimes seems to want to be the most important thing in her man&#x27;s life. However, if she is the most important thing, then she feels her man has made her the number one priority and is not fully dedicated or directed to divine growth and service. She will feel her man&#x27;s dependence on her for his happiness, and this will make her feel smothered by his neediness and clinging. A woman really wants her man to be totally dedicated to his highest purpose—and also to love her fully. Although she would never admit it, she wants to feel that her man would be willing to sacrifice their relationship for the sake of his highest purpose.</em></li></ul><h5>33 - Your Excellent Track Record Is Meaningless to Her</h5><ul><li><em>A man&#x27;s track record means nothing to the feminine. A man could be perfect for ten years, but if he&#x27;s an asshole for 30 seconds his woman acts like he&#x27;s always been one. The feminine responds to the moment of energy, forgetting her man&#x27;s history of past behavior. A man&#x27;s past behavior is irrelevant to his woman&#x27;s feeling in the moment. But men base much on another man&#x27;s history of behavior, so they think their own track record should count for something. But to a woman, it doesn&#x27;t.</em></li><li>As soon as you see she&#x27;s upset, immediately assume happiness. Shock her with your love. Make her smile and laugh with your humor. Lick her neck, or lift her off the ground and pretend you&#x27;re King Kong. Surprise her in some loving way, and the emotional slate will be wiped clean.</li></ul><h5>34 - She Wants to Relax in the Demonstration of Your Direction</h5><ul><li>If you want your woman to be able to relax into her feminine and shine her natural radiance, then you must relieve her of the necessity to be in charge.</li><li>If your woman feels that you have lost your spiritual direction, she will seek direction herself and attempt to impose it on you, since you don&#x27;t seem to have any yourself. If she feels that you are totally absorbed in your work, for instance, and when you&#x27;re not obsessing about your career you are absorbed in TV, then she will wonder, &quot;Is this it? Is this what our relationship amounts to? Is this the highest vision that my man sees?&quot; If she feels you lacking in your financial clarity or your spiritual clarity, she will not be able to relax with you. She will automatically begin directing her own life, and probably yours too.</li><li>How can you tell if your woman&#x27;s self-direction is healthy for her? If she becomes more and more full and happy as she pursues her direction, then it is good for her. If she becomes more and more stressful, taut, and emotionally angular, then she is animating excess masculine direction.</li></ul><h5>Part Five: Your Dark Side</h5><h5>35 - You Are Always Searching for Freedom</h5><ul><li><em>The essential masculine ecstasy is in the moment of release from constraint. This could occur when facing death and living through it, succeeding in (and thus being released from) your purpose, and in competition (which is ritual threat of death). The masculine is always seeking release from constraint into freedom. The feminine often doesn&#x27;t understand these masculine ways and needs.</em></li><li>Your basic motivation is to be released from constraint and experience the freedom on the other side. What are some of the most common forms of masculine ecstasy? Orgasm is one.</li><li>Most sports provide this masculine thrill of release from constraint into freedom.</li><li>All masculine goals—at work, on the meditation cushion, or on the football field—are directed toward more freedom.</li><li>The typical masculine desire for freedom involves the feeling of death, which is the ultimate masculine fear and freedom, in one way or another. Orgasm is actually called petite mort or &quot;little death&quot; in French.</li><li>You are probably also familiar with darker aspects of the masculine desire for freedom. War, which is motivated by the desire for freedom, is a quintessential masculine pursuit. Most sports are ritualized war, but actual war itself resonates with the core of most men.</li><li>What, then, could be constrained? Ego death, absolute surrender to the point of oneness, is the ultimate freedom. Few men ever release themselves enough to relax in this depth of freedom because they are afraid of absolutely no stress. No stress means no thoughts, no sense of protected self, no mission to accomplish. The end of the masculine game.</li><li>The feminine, on the other hand, is not seeking freedom, but love. A woman&#x27;s bliss is not in emptiness, but in fullness. Her means is not release, but surrender. This is why a woman is upset when a man begins snoring after orgasm. He has finally achieved, in post-ejaculative emptiness, the blissful freedom from stress he has been seeking all day, one way or another. She, however, is hoping to experience love and fullness through sex, and a snoring man just doesn&#x27;t do it for her.</li></ul><h5>36 - Own Your Darkest Desires</h5><ul><li>The difference between rape and ravishment is love.</li><li>You must learn to let go, absolutely, in love with your woman.</li><li>You must be as fearless with your sexual desire as you are with your spiritual desire. The essential masculine fear is loss of self—which is also the essential masculine desire.</li><li>As an experiment, the next time you make love with your woman, feel through your own physical and emotional boundaries into her. Feel into her so deeply that you become unaware of yourself and totally aware of her.</li></ul><h5>37 - She Wants the &quot;Killer&quot; in You</h5><ul><li>Although your woman doesn&#x27;t want you to be a killer, she is turned on by your capacity to kill. And, she is turned off by your lack of this capacity.</li></ul><h5>38 - She Needs Your Consciousness to Match Her Energy</h5><ul><li>As a general rule, she will keep returning to the energy that you cannot match.</li><li>For instance, if you are particularly turned off by her anger, she will seem to return, again and again, to the energy of anger. If you are unable to embrace her anger in the ferocity of your loving, transforming her anger into passion, she will continue to test your capacity to do so.</li><li>Your body, tone of voice, and the look in your eyes mean a lot more to her than anything you could say. Don&#x27;t tell her what to do, but do it with her, with your body.</li><li>If she is tense and closed down, lift her arms up above her head and kiss her heart. Don&#x27;t just tell her to open up. Actually open her up, physically, with the openness of your body.</li><li>And the same is true of your woman. You are not trying to please her. You are learning to pervade the world, including her, with consciousness and love. That is what you are here to do.</li></ul><h5>Part Six: Feminine Attractiveness</h5><h5>39 - The Feminine Is Abundant</h5><ul><li>Whenever you are feeling isolated and weary, feel the present moment as if it were a woman. Feel like you are embracing a woman, physically. Feel the front of your body as if it were pressed against the front of a woman&#x27;s naked body, being filled with the delight of her feminine softness and liveliness.</li></ul><h5>40 - Allow Older Women Their Magic</h5><ul><li>Youthful sexual attractiveness is a temporary aspect of a much deeper and more fundamental quality of feminine energy: radiance.</li><li>A woman&#x27;s true radiance reveals the degree to which she is open, trusting, connected, and loving.</li><li>If you are disconnected from your deep masculine core of purpose and consciousness, then you will also be disconnected from a woman&#x27;s depth.</li></ul><h5>41 - Turn Your Lust Into Gifts</h5><ul><li><em>When a man sees a beautiful woman it is natural for him to feel energy in his body, which he usually interprets as sexual desire. Rather than dispersing this energy in mental fantasy, a man should learn to circulate his heightened energy. He should breathe fully, circulating the energy fully throughout his body. He should treat his heightened energy as a gift which could heal and rejuvenate his body, and, through his service, heal the world.</em></li></ul><h5>42 - Never Allow Your Desire to Become Suppressed or Depolarized</h5><ul><li>It is not time that kills delight, but familiarity, neutralization, and lack of purpose.</li><li>Another man might find your woman to be quite a turn on even though she seems old-shoe to you. It may not be your woman who has worn out, but your capacity for desire.</li><li>Familiarity breeds depolarization, and depolarization breeds contempt amongst lovers.</li></ul><h5>43 - Use Her Attractiveness as a Slingshot Through Appearance</h5><ul><li>In your worship of women, never forget that they die. In your enjoyment of pleasure and delight, never forget that your sensations and feelings are fleeting, and never absolutely enough. Women can attract you, heal you, and inspire your gifts, but they will never satisfy you absolutely. Never. And you know this.</li><li>Your ultimate desire is for the union of consciousness with its own luminosity, wherein all appearance is recognized as your deep, blissful nature, and there is only One. Your desire for union with a woman is a stepped-down version of this ultimate spiritual need.</li><li>In a moment of attraction, let your desire feel to her, but don&#x27;t stop there. Feel through her. Do this constantly. Feel through her body when you are having sex with her. Feel through her anger when she is raging at you. Feel through her darkness when she seems ugly. Feel through her beauty when she most attracts you.</li></ul><h5>Part Seven: Body Practices</h5><h5>44 - Ejaculation Should Be Converted or Consciously Chosen</h5><ul><li>You won&#x27;t be willing to bypass ejaculation until you have experienced the much greater pleasures which lie beyond it.</li><li>It feels great for a few moments, but the price you pay for the genital sneeze of ejaculation is a much higher level of mediocrity in your daily life. You will find that you just don&#x27;t have the extra gusto necessary to live your life with utter impeccability.</li><li>In a subtle way, excess ejaculations will diminish your courage to take risks, professionally and spiritually. You will settle for doing enough to get by, to be comfortable, but you will find that you would rather watch TV than write your novel, meditate, or make that important phone call.</li><li>The bottom line is this: If ejaculation is not completely a matter of conscious choice for you, your woman knows she controls you sexually. And as long as she knows she&#x27;s in charge, she won&#x27;t trust you enough to relax fully in the force of your loving.</li></ul><h5>45 - Breathe Down the Front</h5><ul><li>Inhale deeply, through your nose, and breathe through whatever tensions you notice in your body. Inhale deeply into your lower belly. Then exhale. On your next inhalation, breathe into your lower and upper belly. Then exhale. On your next inhalation, fill your entire belly, then your solar plexus and lower chest. Then exhale. Then inhale and fill your belly, solar plexus, and your entire chest, in that order. For several breaths, inhale fully in this way, filling your lower belly all the way down to your genitals, then the rest of your belly, solar plexus, and finally your chest. Then exhale fully, slowly, and smoothly. Throughout the day, practice this kind of breathing in random moments. Pay special attention to any part of your body that seems particularly tense or closed.</li><li>You could do this practice at work, with your lover, or with a whole crowd on a bus. If you are alone in your home, you could imagine all the tension in the world and inhale the force of life into this tension to open it up. Then exhale, releasing the tension into love to be dissolved, like a handful of salt released into the ocean.</li></ul><h5>46 - Ejaculate Up the Spine</h5><ul><li>For most men, ejaculation involves spewing their energy and semen out through their genitals. Afterward, they feel they have released stress. The superior man&#x27;s orgasm more often explodes up his spine and into his brain, from there raining down through his body like an ambrosial bliss of rejuvenation. The technique for converting depletive orgasms into rejuvenative orgasms involves contracting the pelvic floor near the genitals and drawing energy upward along the spine, though the use of breath, feeling, and intention.</li><li>The first step is undoing the habits you learned while masturbating as a teenager. Instead of tensing your muscles as you become sexually stimulated, learn to relax them.</li><li>The next step is to redirect your attention. Learn to feel your partner more than your own sensations during sex.</li><li>Eventually, with practice, you will be able to feel through your partner, as if your partner&#x27;s body were a doorway into a vast open space of energy, light, and awareness. This unobstructed feeling is the basis for true lovemaking. Extend your love out beyond yourself and, in time, through and beyond your woman.</li><li>In addition to contracting the floor of your pelvis, practice pulling it upward into your body and toward your spine. This upward pull will actually lift your scrotum slightly up toward your body.</li><li>You can practice this in sets of 15 or 20 contractions, holding them as long as you can. Do several sets like this, three or four times a day.</li><li>While you are having sex, but before you are close to ejaculating, practice contracting your pelvic floor as just discussed. While you contract it and pull upward, breathe the energy up your spine. You will have to experiment to determine whether to inhale or to exhale the energy up your spine, although most people find that exhaling up the spine works best.</li><li>Because each individual is different, you must experiment and discover which techniques, done as exercises of love, work best for you. With practice, you will easily be able to experience deep non- ejaculatory orgasms that shoot up your body as light, leaving your heart wide-open, your energy enlivened, and your body reverberating in bliss. You will be able to make love for as long as you want, and sex will rejuvenate, rather than deplete, your life force.</li><li>In summary, this is what to remember as you experiment and discover what techniques work best for you:</li><li>Rather than fantasizing or entertaining inward sexual imagery of any kind, remain totally present, aware of your own body, breath, and mind, and especially attentive to your partner. Break the masturbatory habit of inward fantasy by consciously practicing sex as a relational play of love with your partner.</li><li>Keep your body and breath relaxed and full. Especially keep the front of your body relaxed, so that your belly is vast and your heart is soft and wide. This will help prevent too much tension from accumulating in any one area.</li><li>Learn to feel into, and then through, your partner, so that your attention is directed beyond your own sensations and even beyond your partner&#x27;s sensations. Practice feeling outward, without limit, as if you were feeling to infinity. In other words, whatever you are feeling, feel it fully, and then feel through and beyond it, so that sex becomes a constant feeling through and beyond every sensation, rather than focusing on any particular sensation.</li><li>Throughout the day and during the sexual session, practice breathing so that your inhalation moves energy down the front of your body and the exhalation moves energy up your spine. Excessive, chronic thinking or addiction to ejaculation is often a sign that your energy is blocked and you are not yet breathing fully in this circle throughout the day.</li><li>During sex, occasionally practice the upward contraction of the floor of your pelvis while breathing sexual energy up your spine, so it fills your whole body. Especially as you begin to approach orgasm, you can combine the upward contraction of your pelvic floor with breathing up the spine in order to shoot your orgasm up into your brain, and even out through the top of your head, rather than down and out your genitals. This upward orgasm will then feel like it is gently seeping down through every cell of your body, saturating you with thick open light.</li></ul><h5>Part Eight: Men’s and Women’s Yoga of Intimacy</h5><h5>47 - Take into Account the Primary Asymmetry</h5><ul><li>Although you and your woman are equal beings, you are very different creatures. If she has a feminine sexual essence, her core will be fulfilled when love is flowing. For example, she can experience difficulties in her career, but if full love is flowing in her life—with her children, friends, and with you—then her core will be fulfilled.</li><li>Not so for you. If you have a masculine sexual essence, then your woman and children can be loving you all day and night, but if your career or mission is obstructed, you will not feel at ease. You won&#x27;t even want to share much intimate time with your woman until you have your career or mission back on track.</li></ul><h5>48 - You Are Responsible for the Growth in Intimacy</h5><ul><li>It is important to grow beyond dependence on your intimate partner for your own happiness. But it&#x27;s equally important to grow beyond simple independence and autonomy. The next stage of intimacy after personal independence has been attained is the mutual flow of gifting, or serving each other in love.</li><li>You may have noticed that your woman can get lost in her moods. She can get on a roll of hyper-nervousness. Or, she can feel dejected and mope around the house surrounded by a black cloud. It is extremely difficult for most women to get out of their mood once they are in it. Your loving intervention is one of your great masculine gifts. The point is not to be her therapist, but to be her wake-up call, her heart-opener, her reminder of the primacy of love. If it takes you more than five minutes to open her into love, you are probably talking too much and acting too little. Or, perhaps you have forgotten your true purpose.</li></ul><h5>49 - Insist on Practice and Growth</h5><ul><li><em>But a superior man will not settle for less than the fullest incarnation of love of which he and his woman are capable. With compassion, he slices through all bullshit and demands authenticity and humor. It&#x27;s as if he were saying to his woman, &quot;The divine way or the highway!&quot; It&#x27;s the same masculine insistence on direction that a weaker man will demand. But rather than wanting his woman to follow his personal direction, a superior man wants her to move in the direction that most serves her growth in love and happiness. He will settle for nothing less.</em></li></ul><h5>50 - Restore Your Purpose in Solitude and with Other Men</h5><ul><li>In order to enliven her feminine core, your woman should spend time every day in absolute abandon and celebration. During these times of dancing, singing, laughter, and sheer delight, her body and mind should be totally released of any obligation to be masculine—directed, controlled, structured, or goal-oriented. These occasions are most rejuvenating when she is with other women, magnifying and rejoicing in each others&#x27; feminine radiance and flow.</li><li>The two ways to bring you right to your masculine edge of power are austerity and challenge. Austerity means to eliminate the comforts and cushions in your life that you have learned to snuggle into and lose wakefulness. Take away anything that dulls your edge. No newspapers or magazines. No TV. No candy, cookies, or sweets. No sex. No cuddling. No reading of anything at all while you eat or sit on the toilet. Reduce working time to a necessary minimum. No movies. No conversation that isn&#x27;t about truth, love, or the divine.</li><li>The other means, besides austerity, for rediscovering your masculine core is through challenge. The more superficial forms of challenge include activities like mountain climbing, ropes courses, competitive sports, and boot camp. These forms of physical challenge instantly enliven the masculine sense of purpose and direction, in men and women.</li><li>Deeper forms of challenge involve directly giving your gift in ways that have been blocked by your fear. If you have always been afraid of public speaking, you can take on the challenge of speaking in public once a week for three months.</li><li>If you fail and miss an appointment one week, the following week you must give three talks. If you have always wanted to write a novel, but could never finish one, you tell your friends that you are going to complete one chapter a week (or a month) for the next year. Every time you don&#x27;t complete your weekly goal, you owe your friends $100. If you don&#x27;t complete your yearly goal, you owe them $10,000.</li><li>The point is, there must be a consequence for freezing in the face of fear. There are obvious consequences for freezing in the face of fear when mountain climbing or playing competitive sports. You must instill consequences throughout the rest of your life, unless you want to cling to the safety net of superficial pleasures.</li><li>The most potent forms of masculine realignment involve both austerity and challenge. Go to the middle of the woods, by yourself, with only survival necessities. Nothing to read, nothing to do. Fast from food and don&#x27;t sleep for as long as possible. Challenge your attention with some practice, like chanting or ritual movement, so that your attention doesn&#x27;t drift or become balmy. Open yourself and wait. Do not cover your suffering. Do not quit before you fall through the hole of your fear and emerge with a vision of your true mission, the unique form of your living sacrifice.</li><li>This kind of isolation and challenge is an extreme and potent form of masculine vision questing, but there are more common forms that are useful in everyday life. Spend time every day in solitude, with no distractions. Just sit, for ten minutes. No fidgeting, no channel surfing, no magazine thumbing. Just be, exactly as you are, not trying to change anything. Stay with your suffering, until you fall through it and intuit the groundless source of your life.</li><li>Just as your woman must regularly spend time with only women, you must regularly spend time with only men. At least once a week, get together with your men friends to serve one another. Cut through the bullshit and talk with each other straight. If you feel your friend is wasting his life, tell him so, because you love him. Welcome such criticism from your friends. Suggest challenges for each other to take on, in order to bring each other through the fears which limit your surrender in gifting. Always agree on consequences for not persisting in the challenge. For instance, if you agree to ravish your wife for three hours every other day for a week, then also agree to mow your friend&#x27;s yard if you miss a day of ravishment.</li></ul><h5>51 - Practice Dissolving</h5><ul><li>Like dissolving in the intensity of an orgasm, a man&#x27;s greatest desire is to be utterly released. Moment by moment, practice loving through your woman and the world, allowing the force of your surrender to transform every moment into an orgasm of divine dissolution. Embrace every moment of experience as a lover, and trust whatever direction love moves you. Die in the giving of your gift, so you don&#x27;t even notice you have stopped holding onto yourself. Fear is your final excuse. Don&#x27;t fight it. Love through it.</li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[100 Ways to Improve Your Writing by Gary Provost: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[A fantastic, quick read that can serve as a reference for improving anyone's writing.Not as in-depth as Dreyer's English, but more focused than On Writing.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>It is the writer’s job, not the reader’s, to see that writing accomplishes whatever goal the writer has set for it.</li></ul><h5><strong>1. Nine Ways to Improve Your Writing When You’re Not Writing</strong></h5><p><strong>1 - Get Some Reference Books</strong></p><p><strong>2 - Expand Your Vocabulary</strong></p><ul><li>For the writer of average intelligence and education, learning new words is much less important than learning to use easily the words he or she already knows.</li></ul><h5><strong>2. Nine Ways to Overcome Writer’s Block</strong></h5><p><strong>2 - Keep a Journal</strong></p><ul><li>You will learn to describe succinctly and clearly the events of your daily life. You will learn to pluck from each event just the details needed to create a sense of the whole. If you keep a journal, you will grow as a writer, and you will find that sooner or later, no matter what you have to write professionally, your personal experiences will play a part.</li></ul><p><strong>3 - Talk About What You’re Writing</strong></p><ul><li>When you have a story to write, plug into that computer. Talk about your story. Tell people your subject and your particular slant.</li></ul><p><strong>6 - Organize Your Material</strong></p><ul><li>Create a list of questions about your subject before you begin research, and keep related questions together.</li></ul><p><strong>8 - Picture a Reader</strong></p><ul><li>Before you write, figure out whom you are trying to reach. Who is the reader and what does he or she know?</li><li>Remember that when you write, the language you have to work with is not your entire vocabulary, but only that portion of it that you share with the reader.</li></ul><p><strong>9 - Ask Yourself Why You Are Writing</strong></p><ul><li>Do not write until you know why you are writing. What are your goals? Are you trying to make readers laugh? Are you trying to persuade them to buy a product? Are you trying to advise them? To prove an argument? To inform them so that they can make a decision? If you cannot answer the question “Why am I writing this?” then you cannot wisely choose words, provide facts, include or exclude humor.</li></ul><h5><strong>3. Five Ways to Write a Strong Beginning</strong></h5><p><strong>1 - Find a Slant</strong></p><ul><li>Do not try to write everything about your subject. All subjects are inexhaustible.</li><li>Tie yourself to a specific idea about your subject, some aspect that is manageable. That aspect is called the slant.</li></ul><p><strong>2 - Write a Strong Lead</strong></p><ul><li>The lead is whatever it takes to lead your readers so deeply into your story or article that they will not turn back unless you stray from the path you have put them on.</li><li>A lead should be provocative. It should have energy, excitement, an implicit promise that something is going to happen or that some interesting information will be revealed. It should create curiosity, get the reader asking questions.</li><li>Your lead should give readers something to care about before it gives them dry background information. “Something to care about” usually means one of two things. Either you give the readers information that affects them directly, or you give them a human being with whom they can identify.</li><li>Note the two important elements in the lead: I made it visible—I showed the reader something; and I made it human—I showed the reader what the topic of the book meant to a real person: me.</li><li>One common mistake you should be aware of is the writing of two or three leads in the same story. Often a writer creates a good lead and then repeats all the information in the second paragraph, and again in the third.</li></ul><p><strong>5 - Begin at the Beginning</strong></p><ul><li>Cross out every sentence until you come to one you cannot do without. That is your beginning.</li></ul><h5><strong>4. Nine Ways to Save Time and Energy</strong></h5><p><strong>1 - Use Pyramid Construction</strong></p><ul><li>Writing in the pyramid style means getting to the point at the top, putting the “who, what, when, where, and why” in the first paragraph, and developing the supporting information under it.</li><li>A topic sentence contains the thought that is developed throughout the rest of the paragraph. The topic sentence is commonly the first sentence in a paragraph.</li><li>For each paragraph ask, “What do I want to say here? What point do I want to make? What question do I want to present?” Answer with a single general sentence. That is your topic sentence.</li><li>When you rewrite your early drafts, ask how each sentence in a paragraph supports the topic sentence of the paragraph. If the answer is “It doesn’t,” then ask what other work the sentence is doing in the paragraph. If the answer is “None,” get rid of the sentence.</li><li>Your writing will be faster, livelier, and clearer if you write short paragraphs.</li></ul><p><strong>7 - Avoid Wordiness</strong></p><ul><li><em>Wordiness</em> has two meanings for the writer. You are wordy when you are redundant, such as when you write, “Last May during the spring,” or “little kittens,” or “very unique.”</li><li><em>Wordiness</em> for the writer also means using long words when there are good short ones available, using uncommon words when familiar ones are handy, or using words that look like the work of a Scrabble champion, not a writer.</li></ul><p><strong>8 - Steal</strong></p><ul><li>Be a literary pack rat. Brighten up your story with a metaphor you read in the Sunday paper. Make a point with an anecdote you heard at the barbershop. Let a character tell a joke you heard in a bar. But steal small, not big, and don’t steal from just one source. Someone once said that if you steal from one writer, it’s called plagiarism, but if you steal from several, it’s called research. So steal from everybody, but steal only a sentence or a phrase at a time.</li></ul><p><strong>9 - Stop Writing When You Get to the End</strong></p><ul><li>A novel ends when your protagonist has solved his or her problem.</li><li>An opinion piece ends when your opinion has been expressed.</li><li>An instructional memo ends when the reader has been instructed.</li><li>When you have done what you came to do, stop.</li></ul><h5><strong>5. Ten Ways to Develop Style</strong></h5><p><strong>2 - Listen to What You Write</strong></p><ul><li>To write is to create music. The words you write make sounds, and when those sounds are in harmony, the writing will work.</li><li>Read aloud what you write and listen to its music. Listen for dissonance. Listen for the beat. Listen for gaps where the music leaps from sound to sound instead of flowing as it should. Listen for sour notes. Is this word a little sharp, is that one a bit flat? Listen for instruments that don’t blend well.</li></ul><p><strong>3 - Mimic Spoken Language</strong></p><ul><li>Writing should be conversational. That does not mean that your writing should be an exact duplicate of speech; it should not. Your writing should convey to the reader a <em>sense</em> of conversation.</li><li>So strive to make your writing sound like a conversation, but don’t make it an ordinary conversation. Make it a good one.</li></ul><p><strong>4 - Vary Sentence Length</strong></p><ul><li>This sentence has five words. Here are five more words. Five-word sentences are fine. But several together become monotonous. Listen to what is happening. The writing is getting boring. The sound of it drones. It’s like a stuck record. The ear demands some variety. Now listen. I vary the sentence length, and I create music. Music. The writing sings. It has a pleasant rhythm, a lilt, a harmony. I use short sentences. And I use sentences of medium length. And sometimes when I am certain the reader is rested, I will engage him with a sentence of considerable length, a sentence that burns with energy and builds with all the impetus of a crescendo, the roll of the drums, the crash of the cymbals—sounds that say, “Listen to this; it is important.”</li><li>So write with a combination of short, medium, and long sentences. Create a sound that pleases the reader’s ear. Don’t just write words. Write music.</li></ul><p><strong>7 - Show, Don’t Tell</strong></p><ul><li>When you show people something, you are trusting them to make up their minds for themselves. Readers like to be trusted. Don’t dictate to them what they are supposed to see, or think, or feel. Let them see the person, situation, or thing you are describing, and they will not only like what you have written, they will like you for trusting them.</li></ul><p><strong>10 - Don’t Force a Personal Style</strong></p><ul><li>Style is not something you can put onto your writing like a new set of clothes. Style <em>is</em> your writing.</li></ul><h5><strong>6. Twelve Ways to Give Your Words Power</strong></h5><p><strong>1 - Use Short Words</strong></p><p><strong>2 - Use Dense Words</strong></p><ul><li>When you revise, look for opportunities to cross out several words and insert one. <em>Once a month</em> is <em>monthly</em>; <em>something new</em> is <em>novel</em>; <em>people they didn’t know</em> are <em>strangers.</em></li></ul><p><strong>3 - Use Familiar Words</strong></p><ul><li>A word is familiar if it came easily to you but is not part of some specialized knowledge you have, such as a botanical term. A word is unfamiliar if you never heard of it until you found it in the thesaurus or if you haven’t read it at least three times in the past year.</li></ul><p><strong>4 - Use Active Verbs</strong></p><ul><li>Active verbs <em>do</em> something. Inactive verbs <em>are</em> something. You will gain power over readers if you change verbs of being such as <em>is</em>, <em>was</em>, and <em>will be</em> to verbs of motion and action.</li></ul><p><strong>5 - Use Strong Verbs</strong></p><ul><li>Generally speaking, verbs are weak when they are not specific, are not active, or are unnecessarily dependent on adverbs for their meaning.</li><li>Sharpen a verb’s meaning by being precise. Turn <em>look</em> into <em>stare, gaze, peer, peek</em>, or <em>gawk</em>. Turn <em>throw</em> into <em>toss, flip</em>, or <em>hurl.</em></li><li>Inspect adverbs carefully and always be suspicious.</li><li>Most adverbs are just adjectives with <em>ly</em> tacked on the end, and the majority of them should be shoveled into a truck and hauled off to the junkyard.</li><li>Did your character really walk nervously, or did he <em>pace</em>? Did his wife eat quickly, or did she <em>wolf down</em> her supper?</li></ul><p><strong>6 - Use Specific Nouns</strong></p><ul><li>Good writing requires the use of strong nouns. A strong noun is one that is precise and densely packed with information.</li><li>Instead of writing about a <em>black dog</em>, maybe you want to write about a <em>Doberman</em>. Do you want to write <em>large house</em>, or is <em>mansion</em> really to the point?</li><li>When a verb is in the active voice, the subject of the sentence is also the doer of the action. The sentence “John picked up the bag” is in the active voice because the subject, John, is also the thing or person doing the action of “picking up.” The sentence “The bag was picked up by John” is in the passive voice because the subject of the sentence, bag, is the passive receiver of the action.</li></ul><p><strong>8 - Say Things in a Positive Way…Most of the Time</strong></p><ul><li>Usually what matters is what <em>did</em> happen, what <em>does</em> exist, and who <em>is</em> involved. So develop the habit of stating information in a positive manner.</li></ul><p><strong>9 - Be Specific</strong></p><ul><li>Try to be specific without being wordy.</li></ul><p><strong>10 - Use Statistics</strong></p><ul><li>Statistics should be sprinkled like pepper, not smeared like butter.</li></ul><h5><strong>7. Eleven Ways to Make People Like What You Write</strong></h5><p><strong>1 - Make Yourself Likable</strong></p><ul><li>When you write well, you share a private moment with the readers. Present yourself to readers as someone they would welcome into their homes. Write clearly and conversationally, and strive always to present in your writing some honest picture of who you are.</li><li>Readers will like you if you seem to understand who they are and what their world is like.</li><li>Readers will like you if you use humor in almost everything you write.</li><li>Readers will like you if you show that you are human.</li></ul><p><strong>3 - Show Your Opinion</strong></p><ul><li>Few things are duller than a man or woman without an opinion.</li><li>I don’t care if the reader agrees with my opinion. The important thing is that he or she respond to it. If you can stir your reader up, then your writing has achieved some success.</li></ul><p><strong>4 - Obey Your Own Rules</strong></p><ul><li>Readers won’t object to any particular tone or rule. They only ask that they be informed and that you don’t break the rules you set.</li></ul><p><strong>5 - Use Anecdotes</strong></p><ul><li>An anecdote is a little story or incident that makes a point about your subject. The word comes from the Greek <em>anekdota</em>, which means “things unpublished,” and ideally your anecdote should be an unpublished incident you discovered in your research.</li></ul><p><strong>7 - Name Your Sources</strong></p><ul><li>Decide who or what your most valuable sources are, and name only them.</li><li>You can note sources informally in the text, or you can include a note on sources at the front or back of your story.</li></ul><p><strong>8 - Provide Useful Information</strong></p><ul><li>Useful information is information that has “service value.” That means readers can do something after they read what you have written.</li></ul><p><strong>9 - Use Quotations</strong></p><ul><li>Use quotations when you need to enhance an idea with something poetic or reinforce a generalization or an opinion.</li><li>Don’t use a lot of quotations, however, or they will look more like crutches to hold you than planks to support you.</li></ul><p><strong>10 - Use Quotes</strong></p><ul><li>Quotes are the words someone said to you when you interviewed her for your story, or short excerpts from some of the reading you did in your research. Quotes in your story will attract readers.</li><li>Use a quote when the speaker’s words will achieve your goals more effectively than your own words.</li><li>It is perfectly appropriate to cut the fat from interviews and present to the reader only the meat of what the speaker said. However, cut carefully.</li></ul><p><strong>11 - Create a Strong Title</strong></p><ul><li>A good title is short.</li><li>A good title hints at the limits of information in the story; that is, it suggests the slant.</li><li>A good title should reveal information, not hide it.</li></ul><h5><strong>8. Ten Ways to Avoid Grammatical Errors</strong></h5><p><strong>Prefer Good Writing to Good Grammar</strong></p><ul><li>Whenever you knowingly use poor grammar, you should ask yourself two questions. The first: Is my meaning clear? If the answer is no, rewrite. The second question: What am I getting in return for the poor grammar? If you can’t answer that, don’t use poor grammar.</li></ul><h5><strong>10. Twelve Ways to Avoid Making Your Reader Hate You</strong></h5><p><strong>1 - Avoid Jargon</strong></p><ul><li>Here’s a tip: If you can make a man sound like an idiot simply by quoting him, he’s probably using pretentious jargon.</li></ul><p><strong>3 - Avoid Parentheses</strong></p><ul><li>If you are using parentheses more than three times in a ten-page story, you are either interrupting the reader too much or you are using parentheses unnecessarily.</li><li>Mark Twain wrote, “A parenthesis is evidence that the man who uses it does not know how to write English or is too indolent to take the trouble to do it; . . . a man who will wantonly use a parenthesis will steal. For these reasons I am unfriendly to the parenthesis. When a man puts one into my mouth, his life is no longer safe.”</li></ul><p><strong>4 - Avoid Footnotes</strong></p><ul><li>John Barrymore said, “A footnote in a book is like a knock on the door downstairs while you are on your honeymoon.”</li></ul><p><strong>7 - Don’t Hide Behind Your Words</strong></p><ul><li>If you decide it is best to put yourself into a story, do so with confidence and enthusiasm.</li></ul><h5><strong>11. Seven Ways to Edit Yourself</strong></h5><ul><li>Before you turn in anything you have written—whether to a teacher or an editor—read aloud every word.</li><li>Read what you have written and cross out every word that is not contributing information.</li></ul><p><strong>3 - Think About What You Have Written</strong></p><ul><li>You will make mistakes in your early drafts. That’s okay. But before you complete a final draft, let at least a day pass and then think carefully about what you wrote before turning to your keyboard. You may find that what you thought was brilliant prose on Tuesday borders on the moronic by Friday.</li></ul><p><strong>4 - Ask Yourself These Questions</strong></p><ul><li>Before calling a draft final, ask these questions: Is it clear from the beginning what you’re writing about? Does each paragraph advance the subject? Do the important ideas stand out clearly? Are more details, examples, or anecdotes needed? Is the information sufficiently clear? Are there sweeping statements that need to be supported? Do any technical terms need explanation? Is there needless repetition? Is the tone consistent? Are any of the sentences too involved to follow with ease? Are any of the words vague? Are there grammatical errors? Are there punctuation errors?</li></ul><p><strong>5 - Follow These Rules of Form for Titles</strong></p><ul><li>Prepositions that have fewer than four letters should not be capitalized unless they are the first word of the title. Similarly, only capitalize definite and indefinite articles if they are the first word of the title. Use italics for titles of books, magazines, movies, and plays. Use quotation marks around the titles of articles, short stories, poems, songs, and other short pieces of writing.</li></ul><p><strong>7 - Use Common Sense</strong></p><ul><li>No, I’m not. Honestly. I am—dare I say it—an artist. And that is my escape hatch. Writing is art, not science, and when I finish a piece of writing, I do not review every single one of my tips. I ask: Have I communicated well? Have I pleased my readers? Have I given them something that is a joy to read? Have I entertained them, informed them, persuaded them, and made my thoughts clear to them? Have I given them what they wanted? And these are the questions you must ask about all that you write. If the answers are yes, you have succeeded. If the answers are no, you have failed. Writing well is what counts.</li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[Michael Pollan (one of my favourite authors) distills food advice down to seven words: Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.Most of the rest of this (short) book rephrases or clarifies this short points, giving brief, direct instructions for eating well.Everyone should eat this way.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Key Points</h4><p><strong><em>Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.</em></strong></p><p>That&#x27;s really all there is to it.</p><p>Eat local, healthy food that your great-grandmother would have recognized.</p><p>Avoid anything processed.</p><p>Buy from your local farmer&#x27;s market.</p><h4>Notes</h4><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>There are basically two important things you need to know about the links between diet and health, two facts that are not in dispute. All the contending parties in the nutrition wars agree on them. And, even more important for our purposes, these facts are sturdy enough that we can build a sensible diet upon them. Here they are:</li><li>Fact 1: Populations that eat a so-called Western diet—generally defined as a diet consisting of lots of processed foods and meat, lots of added fat and sugar, lots of refined grains, lots of everything except vegetables, fruits, and whole grains—invariably suffer from high rates of the so-called Western diseases: obesity, type 2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and cancer.</li><li>Fact 2: Populations eating a remarkably wide range of traditional diets generally don’t suffer from these chronic diseases. These diets run the gamut from ones very high in fat (the Inuit in Greenland subsist largely on seal blubber) to ones high in carbohydrate (Central American Indians subsist largely on maize and beans) to ones very high in protein (Masai tribesmen in Africa subsist chiefly on cattle blood, meat, and milk), to cite three rather extreme examples. But much the same holds true for more mixed traditional diets. What this suggests is that there is no single ideal human diet but that the human omnivore is exquisitely adapted to a wide range of different foods and a variety of different diets. Except, that is, for one: the relatively new (in evolutionary terms) Western diet that most of us now are eating.</li><li>There is actually a third, very hopeful fact that flows from these two: People who get off the Western diet see dramatic improvements in their health. We have good research to suggest that the effects of the Western diet can be rolled back, and relatively quickly. In one analysis, a typical American population that departed even modestly from the Western diet (and lifestyle) could reduce its chances of getting coronary heart disease by 80 percent, its chances of type 2 diabetes by 90 percent, and its chances of colon cancer by 70 percent.</li><li>Yet, oddly enough, these two (or three) sturdy facts are not the center of our nutritional research or, for that matter, our public health campaigns around diet. Instead, the focus is on identifying the evil nutrient in the Western diet so that food manufacturers might tweak their products, thereby leaving the diet undisturbed, or so that pharmaceutical makers might develop and sell us an antidote for it. Why? Well, there’s a lot of money in the Western diet. The more you process any food, the more profitable it becomes. The healthcare industry makes more money treating chronic diseases (which account for three quarters of the $2 trillion plus we spend each year on health care in this country) than preventing them.</li><li>Indeed, I had a deeply unsettling moment when, after spending a couple of years researching nutrition for my last book, In Defense of Food, I realized that the answer to the supposedly incredibly complicated question of what we should eat wasn’t so complicated after all, and in fact could be boiled down to just seven words:</li><li><strong>Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>PART I: What should I eat?</strong></h5><p><strong>1: Eat food.</strong></p><p><strong>2: Don’t eat anything your great-grandmother wouldn’t recognize as food.</strong></p><p><strong>3: Avoid food products containing ingredients that no ordinary human would keep in the pantry.</strong></p><p><strong>4: Avoid food products that contain high-fructose corn syrup.</strong></p><p><strong>5: Avoid foods that have some form of sugar (or sweetener) listed among the top three ingredients.</strong></p><ul><li>As for noncaloric sweeteners such as aspartame or Splenda, research (in both humans and animals) suggests that switching to artificial sweeteners does not lead to weight loss, for reasons not yet well understood. But it may be that deceiving the brain with the reward of sweetness stimulates a craving for even more sweetness.</li></ul><p><strong>6: Avoid food products that contain more than five ingredients.</strong></p><p><strong>7: Avoid food products containing ingredients that a third-grader cannot pronounce.</strong></p><p><strong>8: Avoid food products that make health claims.</strong></p><p><strong>9: Avoid food products with the wordoid “lite&quot; or the terms &quot;low-fat&quot; or “nonfat&quot; in their names.</strong></p><p><strong>10: Avoid foods that are pretending to be something they are not.</strong></p><ul><li>Imitation butter—aka margarine—is the classic example.</li></ul><p><strong>11: Avoid foods you see advertised on television.</strong></p><p><strong>12: Shop the peripheries of the supermarket and stay out of the middle.</strong></p><p><strong>13: Eat only foods that will eventually rot.</strong></p><p><strong>14: Eat foods made from ingredients that you can picture in their raw state or growing in nature.</strong></p><p><strong>15: Get out of the supermarket whenever you can.</strong></p><p><strong>16: Buy your snacks at the farmers’ market.</strong></p><p><strong>17: Eat only foods that have been cooked by humans.</strong></p><p><strong>18: Don’t ingest foods made in places where everyone is required to wear a surgical cap.</strong></p><p><strong>19: If it came from a plant, eat it; if it was made in a plant, don’t.</strong></p><p><strong>20: It’s not food if it arrived through the window of your car.</strong></p><p><strong>21: It’s not food if it’s called by the same name in every language.</strong> (Think Big Mac, Cheetos, or Pringles.)</p><h5><strong>PART II: What kind of food should I eat?</strong></h5><p><strong>22: Eat mostly plants, especially leaves.</strong></p><ul><li>Scientists may disagree on what’s so good about plants—the antioxidants? the fiber? the omega-3 fatty acids?—but they do agree that they’re probably really good for you and certainly can’t hurt. There are scores of studies demonstrating that a diet rich in vegetables and fruits reduces the risk of dying from all the Western diseases; in countries where people eat a pound or more of vegetables and fruits a day, the rate of cancer is half what it is in the United States.</li><li>Also, by eating a diet that is primarily plant based, you’ll be consuming far fewer calories, since plant foods—with the exception of seeds, including grains and nuts—are typically less &quot;energy dense&quot; than the other things you eat. (And consuming fewer calories protects against many chronic diseases.) Vegetarians are notably healthier than carnivores, and they live longer.</li></ul><p><strong>23: Treat meat as a flavoring or special occasion food.</strong></p><ul><li>It turns out that near vegetarians, or &quot;flexitarians&quot;—people who eat meat a couple of times a week—are just as healthy as vegetarians.</li></ul><p><strong>24: &quot;Eating what stands on one leg [mushrooms and plant foods] is better than eating what stands on two legs [fowl], which is better than eating what stands on four legs [cows, pigs, and other mammals].&quot;</strong></p><ul><li>This Chinese proverb offers a good summary of traditional wisdom regarding the relative healthfulness of different kinds of food, though it inexplicably leaves out the very healthful and entirely legless fish.</li></ul><p><strong>25: Eat your colors.</strong></p><p><strong>26: Drink the spinach water.</strong></p><ul><li>Another bit of traditional wisdom with good science behind it: The water in which vegetables are cooked is rich in vitamins and other healthful plant chemicals. Save it for soup or add it to sauces.</li></ul><p><strong>27: Eat animals that have themselves eaten well.</strong></p><ul><li>The diet of the animals we eat strongly influences the nutritional quality, and healthfulness, of the food we get from them, whether it is meat or milk or eggs.</li></ul><p><strong>28: If you have the space, buy a freezer.</strong></p><ul><li>When you find a good source of pastured meat, you’ll want to buy it in quantity. Buying meat in bulk—a quarter of a steer, say, or a whole hog—is one way to eat well on a budget. Dedicated freezers are surprisingly inexpensive to buy and to operate, because they aren’t opened nearly as often as the one in your refrigerator. A freezer will also enable you to put up food from the farmers’ market, and encourage you to buy produce in bulk at the height of its season, when it will be most abundant—and therefore cheapest. And freezing does not significantly diminish the nutritional value of produce.</li></ul><p><strong>29: Eat like an omnivore.</strong></p><ul><li>Whether or not you eat any animal foods, it’s a good idea to try to add some new species, and not just new foods, to your diet—that is, new kinds of plants, animals, and fungi.</li></ul><p><strong>30: Eat well-grown food from healthy soil.</strong></p><ul><li>It would have been easier to say &quot;eat organic,&quot; and it is true that food certified organic is usually well grown in relatively healthy soil—soil nourished by organic matter rather than chemical fertilizers.</li><li>Yet there are exceptional farmers and ranchers in America who for one reason or another are not certified organic, and the excellent food they grow should not be overlooked.</li><li>course, after a few days riding cross-country in a truck, the nutritional quality of any kind of produce will deteriorate, so ideally you want to eat food that is both organic and local.</li></ul><p><strong>31: Eat wild foods when you can.</strong></p><ul><li>Two of the most nutritious plants in the world —lamb’s quarters and purslane—are weeds, and some of the healthiest traditional diets, like the Mediterranean, make frequent use of wild greens.</li><li>The fields and forests are crowded with plants containing higher levels of various phytochemicals than their domesticated cousins. Why? Because these plants have to defend themselves against pests and diseases without any help from us, and because historically we’ve tended to select and breed crop plants for sweetness; many of the defensive compounds plants produce are bitter. We also breed for shelf life, and so have unwittingly selected for plants with low levels of omega-3 fatty acids, since these fats quickly oxidize—turn rancid. Wild animals and fish too are worth adding to your diet when you have the opportunity. Wild game generally has less saturated and more healthy fats than domesticated animals, because most of these wild animals themselves eat a diverse diet of plants rather than grain (see rule 27).</li></ul><p><strong>32: Don’t overlook the oily little fishes.</strong></p><ul><li>Wild fish are among the healthiest things you can eat, yet many wild fish stocks are on the verge of collapse because of overfishing. Avoid big fish at the top of the marine food chain—tuna, sword-fish, shark—because they’re endangered, and because they often contain high levels of mercury. Fortunately, a few of the most nutritious wild fish species, including mackerel, sardines, and anchovies, are well managed, and in some cases are even abundant. Those oily little fish are particularly good choices. According to a Dutch proverb, &quot;A land with lots of herring can get along with few doctors.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>33: Eat some foods that have been predigested by bacteria or fungi.</strong></p><ul><li>Many traditional cultures swear by the health benefits of fermented foods—foods that have been transformed by live microorganisms, such as yogurt, sauerkraut, soy sauce, kimchi, and sourdough bread. These foods can be a good source of vitamin B12, an essential nutrient you can’t get from plants. (B12 is produced by animals and bacteria.) Many fermented foods also contain probiotics—beneficial bacteria that research suggests improve the function of the digestive and immune systems and, according to some studies, help reduce allergic reactions and inflammation.</li></ul><p><strong>34: Sweeten and salt your food yourself.</strong></p><p><strong>35: Eat sweet foods as you find them in nature.</strong></p><p><strong>36: Don’t eat breakfast cereals that change the color of the milk.</strong></p><p><strong>37: &quot;The whiter the bread, the sooner you’ll be dead.&quot;</strong></p><p><strong>38: Favor the kinds of oils and grains that have traditionally been stone-ground.</strong></p><ul><li>And the newer oils that are extracted by modern chemical means tend to have less favorable fatty acid profiles and more additives than olive, sesame, palm fruit, and peanut oils that have been obtained the old-fashioned way.</li></ul><p><strong>39: Eat all the junk food you want as long as you cook it yourself.</strong></p><p><strong>40: Be the kind of person who takes supplements—then skip the supplements.</strong></p><ul><li>We know that people who take supplements are generally healthier than the rest of us, and we also know that in controlled studies most of the supplements they take don’t appear to be effective. How can this be? Supplement takers are healthy for reasons that have nothing to do with the pills. They’re typically more health conscious, better educated, and more affluent. They’re also more likely to exercise and eat whole grains.</li><li>There are exceptions to this rule, for people who have a specific nutrient deficiency or are older than fifty. As we age, our need for antioxidants increases while our body’s ability to absorb them from the diet declines. And if you don’t eat much fish, it couldn’t hurt to take a fish oil supplement too.</li></ul><p><strong>41: Eat more like the French. Or the Japanese. Or the Italians. Or the Greeks.</strong></p><ul><li>People who eat according to the rules of a traditional food culture are generally healthier than those of us eating a modern Western diet of processed foods. Any traditional diet will do: If it were not a healthy diet, the people who follow it wouldn’t still be around.</li><li>In borrowing from a food culture, pay attention to howa culture eats as well as to what it eats. In the case of the French paradox, for example, it may not be the dietary nutrients that keep the French healthy (lots of saturated fat and white flour?!) as much as their food habits: small portions eaten at leisurely communal meals; no second helpings or snacking.</li><li>Pay attention, too, to the combinations of foods in traditional cultures: In Latin America, corn is traditionally cooked with lime and eaten with beans; what would otherwise be a nutritionally deficient staple becomes the basis of a healthy, balanced diet. (The beans supply amino acids lacking in corn, and the lime makes niacin available.</li></ul><p><strong>42: Regard nontraditional foods with skepticism.</strong></p><ul><li>Soy products offer a good case in point. People have been eating soy in the form of tofu, soy sauce, and tempeh for many generations, but today we’re eating novelties like soy protein isolate, soy isoflavones, and textured vegetable protein from soy and partially hydrogenated soy oils, and there are questions about the healthfulness of these new food products. As a senior FDA scientist has written, Confidence that soy products are safe is clearly based more on belief than hard data.</li></ul><p><strong>43: Have a glass of wine with dinner.</strong></p><ul><li>Wine may not be the magic bullet in the French or Mediterranean diet, but it does seem to be an integral part of these dietary patterns. There is now considerable scientific evidence for the health benefits of alcohol to go with a few centuries of traditional belief and anecdotal evidence. Mindful of the social and health effects of alcoholism, public health authorities are loath to recommend drinking, but the fact is that people who drink moderately and regularly live longer and suffer considerably less heart disease than teetotalers.</li><li>Drinking a little every day is better than drinking a lot on the weekends, and drinking with food is better than drinking without it.</li></ul><h5><strong>PART III: How should I eat?</strong></h5><ul><li><em>How</em> you eat may have as much bearing on your health (and your weight) as <em>what</em> you eat.</li></ul><p><strong>44: Pay more, eat less.</strong></p><ul><li>Or as grandmothers used to say, &quot;Better to pay the grocer than the doctor.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>45: ...Eat less.</strong></p><p><strong>46: Stop eating before you’re full.</strong></p><ul><li>Ask yourself not, Am I full? but, Is my hunger gone? That moment will arrive several bites sooner.</li></ul><p><strong>47: Eat when you are hungry, not when you are bored.</strong></p><ul><li>One old wives’ test: If you’re not hungry enough to eat an apple, then you’re not hungry.</li></ul><p><strong>48: Consult your gut.</strong></p><ul><li>Most of us allow external, and usually visual, cues to determine how much we eat. The larger the portion, for example, the more we eat; the bigger the container, the more we pour.</li><li>So slow down and pay attention to what your body—and not just your sense of sight—is telling you.</li></ul><p><strong>49: Eat slowly.</strong></p><ul><li>Another strategy, encoded in a table manner that’s been all but forgotten: &quot;Put down your fork between bites.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>50: The banquet is in the first bite.</strong></p><ul><li>Taking this adage to heart will help you enjoy your food and eat more slowly.</li></ul><p><strong>51: Spend as much time enjoying the meal as it took to prepare it.</strong></p><p><strong>52: Buy smaller plates and glasses.</strong></p><p><strong>53: Serve a proper portion and don’t go back for seconds.</strong></p><p><strong>54: Breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, dinner like a pauper.</strong></p><ul><li>A related adage: &quot;After lunch, sleep awhile; after dinner, walk a mile.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>55: Eat meals.</strong></p><p><strong>56: Limit your snacks to unprocessed plant foods.</strong></p><p><strong>57: Don’t get your fuel from the same place your car does.</strong></p><p><strong>58: Do all your eating at a table.</strong></p><p><strong>59: Try not to eat alone.</strong></p><ul><li>Although there is some research to suggest that light eaters will eat more when they dine with others (perhaps because they spend more time at the table), for people prone to overeating, communal meals tend to limit consumption, if only because we’re less likely to stuff ourselves when others are watching. We also tend to eat more slowly, since there’s usually more going on at the table than ingestion.</li></ul><p><strong>60: Treat treats as treats.</strong></p><ul><li>There is nothing wrong with special occasion foods, as long as every day is not a special occasion.</li><li>Some people follow a so-called S policy: &quot;no snacks, no seconds, no sweets—except on days that begin with the letter S.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>61: Leave something on your plate.</strong></p><ul><li>Practice not cleaning your plate; it will help you eat less in the short term and develop self-control in the long.</li></ul><p><strong>62: Plant a vegetable garden if you have the space, a window box if you don’t.</strong></p><ul><li>What does growing some of your own food have to do with repairing your relationship to food and eating? Everything. To take part in the intricate and endlessly interesting processes of providing for your sustenance is the surest way to escape the culture of fast food and the values implicit in it: that food should be fast, cheap, and easy; that food is a product of industry, not nature; that food is fuel rather than a form of communion with other people, and also with other species—with nature. On a more practical level, you will eat what your garden yields, which will be the freshest, most nutritious produce obtainable; you will get exercise growing it (and get outdoors and away from screens); you will save money (according to the N ational Gardening Association, a seventy-dollar investment in a vegetable garden will yield six hundred dollars’ worth of food); and you will be that much more likely to follow the next, all-important rule.</li></ul><p><strong>63: Cook.</strong></p><ul><li>In theory, it should make little difference to your health whether you cook for yourself or let someone else do the work. But unless you can afford to hire a private chef to prepare meals exactly to your specifications, letting other people cook for you means losing control over your eating life, the portions as much as the ingredients. Cooking for yourself is the only sure way to take back control of your diet from the food scientists and food processors, and to guarantee you’re eating real food and not edible foodlike substances, with their unhealthy oils, high-fructose corn syrup, and surfeit of salt. Not surprisingly, the decline in home cooking closely parallels the rise in obesity, and research suggests that people who cook are more likely to eat a more healthful diet.</li></ul><p><strong>64: Break the rules once in a while.</strong></p><ul><li>Obsessing over food rules is bad for your happiness, and probably for your health too. Our experience over the past few decades suggests that dieting and worrying too much about nutrition has made us no healthier or slimmer; cultivating a relaxed attitude toward food is important.</li><li>&quot;All things in moderation,&quot; it is often said, but we should never forget the wise addendum, sometimes attributed to Oscar Wilde: &quot;Including moderation.&quot;</li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Art of War by Sun Tzu: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2020 02:30:04 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A timeless book about the strategy of war. Many of the core principles apply beyond war to business and life in general.The only knock is that much of the strategy is specific to warfare, while more modern books like 33 Strategies of War have broader applicability to modern life.That said, you will always find new wisdom each time you re-read this book.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Notes</h4><h5>Foreword</h5><ul><li>There is legend that this little book was Napoleon&#x27;s key to success and his secret weapon.</li><li>Always remember, since ancient times, it has been known that...&quot;the true object of war is <em>peace</em>.&quot;</li></ul><h5>I - Laying Plans</h5><ul><li>The art of war is of vital importance to the state. It is a matter of life and death, a road either to safety or to ruin. Hence under no circumstances can it be neglected.</li><li>All warfare is based on deception. Hence, when able to attack, we must seem unable; when using our forces, we must seem inactive; when we are near, we must make the enemy believe we are far away; when far away, we must make him believe we are near.</li><li>Hold out baits to entice the enemy. Feign disorder, and crush him. If he is secure at all points, be prepared for him. If he is in superior strength, evade him. If your opponent is of choleric temper, seek to irritate him. Pretend to be weak, that he may grow arrogant. If he is taking his ease, give him no rest. If his forces are united, separate them. Attack him where he is unprepared, appear where you are not expected.</li><li>The general who wins a battle makes many calculations in his temple before the battle is fought. The general who loses a battle makes but few calculations beforehand.</li></ul><h5>II - Waging War</h5><ul><li>Thus, though we have heard of stupid haste in war, cleverness has never been seen associated with long delays.</li><li>In all history, there is no instance of a country having benefited from prolonged warfare.</li></ul><h5>III - The Sheathed Sword</h5><ul><li>To fight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence; supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy&#x27;s resistance without fighting.</li><li>There are three ways in which a sovereign can bring misfortune upon his army:</li><li>By commanding the army to advance or retreat, being ignorant of the fact that it cannot obey.</li><li>By attempting to govern an army in the same way as he administers a kingdom, being ignorant of the conditions that obtain in an army.</li><li>By employing the officers of his army without discrimination, through ignorance of the military principle of adaptation to circumstances.</li></ul><p>Thus we may know that there are five essentials for victory:</p><ul><li>He will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight.</li><li>He will win who knows how to handle both superior and inferior forces.</li><li>He will win whose army is animated by the same spirit throughout all its ranks.</li><li>He will win who, prepared himself, waits to take the enemy unprepared.</li><li>He will win who has the military capacity and is not interfered with by the sovereign.</li></ul><p>If you know the enemy and you know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.</p><ul><li>If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat.</li><li>If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.</li></ul><h5>IV - Tactics</h5><ul><li>To secure ourselves against defeat lies in our own hands, but the opportunity of defeating the enemy is provided by the enemy himself.</li><li>The general who is skilled in defense hides in the most secret recesses of the earth; he who is skilled in attack flashes forth from the topmost heights of heaven.</li><li>Hence the skillful fighter puts himself into a position that makes defeat impossible and does not miss the moment for defeating the enemy.</li></ul><h5>V - Energy</h5><ul><li>Fighting with a large army under your command is nowise different from fighting with a small one: it is merely a question of instituting signs and signals.</li><li>In all fighting, the direct method may be used for joining battle, but indirect methods will be needed in order to secure victory.</li><li>Therefore the good fighter will be terrible in his onset, and prompt in his decision.</li><li>Simulated disorder postulates perfect discipline; simulated fear postulates courage; simulated weakness postulates strength.</li></ul><h5>VI - Weak Points &amp; Strong</h5><ul><li>Appear at points that the enemy must hasten to defend; march swiftly to places where you are not expected.</li><li>The general that is skillful in attack whose opponent does not know what to defend; and he is skillful in defense whose opponent does not know what to attack.</li><li>In making tactical dispositions, the highest pitch you can attain is to conceal them;</li><li>Military tactics are like unto water; for water in its natural course runs away from high places and hastens downward. So in war, the way is to avoid what is strong and to strike at what is weak.</li><li>Water shapes its course according to the nature of the ground over which it flows; the soldier works out his victory in relation to the foe whom he is facing.</li><li>Therefore, just as water retains no constant shape, so in warfare there are no constant conditions.</li><li>He who can modify his tactics in relation to his opponent, and thereby succeed in winning, may be called a heaven-born captain.</li></ul><h5>VII - Maneuvering</h5><ul><li>Without harmony in the state, no military expedition can be undertaken; without harmony in the army, no battle array can be formed.</li><li>An army without its baggage train is lost; without provisions it is lost; without bases of supply it is lost.</li><li>Ponder and deliberate before you make a move. He will conquer who has learned the artifice of deviation. Such is the art of maneuvering.</li><li>In battle, a courageous spirit is everything.</li><li>A clever general, therefore, avoids and army when its spirit is keen, but attacks it when it is sluggish and inclined to return.</li><li>When you surround an enemy, leave an outlet free. This does not mean that the enemy is to be allowed to escape. The object is to make him believe that there is a road to safety, and thus prevent his fighting with the courage of despair.</li></ul><h5>VIII - Variation of Tactics</h5><ul><li>No town should be attacked which, if taken, cannot be held, or if left alone, will not cause any trouble.</li><li>In the wise leader&#x27;s plans, considerations of advantage and of disadvantage will be blended together.</li><li>The art of war teaches us to rely not on the likelihood of the enemy&#x27;s not coming, but on our own readiness to receive him; not on the chance of his not attacking, but rather on the fact that we have made our position unassailable.</li><li>There are five dangerous faults that may affect a general, of which the first two are: recklessness, which leads to destruction; and cowardice, which leads to capture.</li><li>Next there is a delicacy of honor, which is sensitive to shame; and a hasty temper, which can be provoked by insults.</li><li>The last of such faults is oversolicitude for his men, which exposes him to worry and trouble, for in the long run the troops will suffer more from the defeat, or at best, the prolongation fo the war, which will be the consequence.</li></ul><h5>IX - The Army on the March</h5><ul><li>He who exercises no forethought but makes light of his opponents is sure to be captured by them.</li><li>Humble words and increased preparations are signs that the enemy is about to advance. Violent language and driving forward as if to the attack are signs that he will retreat.</li><li>Peace proposals unaccompanied by a sworn covenant indicate a plot.</li><li>To begin by bluster, but afterward to take fright at the enemy&#x27;s numbers, shows a supreme lack of intelligence.</li></ul><h5>X - Terrain</h5><ul><li>Sometimes an army is exposed to calamities, not arising from natural causes, but from faults for which the general is responsible. These are: flight; insubordination; collapse; ruin; disorganization; rout.</li><li>Regard your soldiers as your children, and they will follow you into the deepest valleys; look on them as your own beloved sons, and they will stand by you even unto death.</li><li>If we know that our own men are in a condition to attack, but are unaware that the enemy is not open to attack, we have gone only halfway toward victory. If we know that the enemy is open to attack, but are unaware that our own men are not in a condition to attack, we have gone only halfway toward victory. If we know that the enemy is open to attack, and also know that our men are in a condition to attack, but are unaware that the nature of the ground makes fighting impracticable, we have still gone only halfway toward victory.</li><li>If you know the enemy and you know yourself, your victory will not stand in doubt;</li></ul><h5>XI - The Nine Situations</h5><ul><li>Rapidity is the essence of war. Take advantage of the enemy&#x27;s unreadiness, make your way by unexpected routes, and attack unguarded spots.</li><li>Carefully study the well-being of your men, and do not overtax them.</li><li>Concentrate your energy and hoard your strength.</li><li>Keep your army continually on the move, and devise unfathomable plans.</li><li>You will not succeed unless your men have tenacity and unity of purpose, and above all, a spirit of sympathetic cooperation.</li><li>By altering his arrangements and changing his plans, the skillful general keeps the enemy without definite knowledge.</li><li>By shifting his camp and taking circuitous routes, he prevents the enemy from anticipating his purpose.</li><li>Success in warfare is gained by carefully accommodating ourselves to the enemy&#x27;s purpose. If the enemy shows an inclination to advance, lure him on to do so; if he is anxious to retreat, delay on purpose that he may carry out his intention.</li></ul><h5>XII - Attack by Fire</h5><ul><li>Move not unless you see an advantage; use not your troops unless there is something to be gained; fight not unless the position is critical.</li></ul><h5>XIII - The Use of Spies</h5><ul><li>What enables the wise sovereign and the good general to strike and conquer, and achieve things beyond the reach of ordinary men, is <em>foreknowledge.</em></li><li>Having <em>converted spies</em> means getting hold of the enemy&#x27;s spies and using them for our own purposes: by means of heavy bribes and liberal promises, detaching them from the enemy&#x27;s service and inducing them to carry back false information as well as to spy in turn on their own countrymen.</li><li>There must be no more intimate relations in the whole army than those maintained by spies. No other relation should be more liberally rewarded. In no other relation should greater secrecy be preserved.</li><li>Whether the object be to crush an army, to storm a city, or to assassinate an individual, it is always necessary to begin by finding out the names of the attendants, the aides-de-camp, the doorkeepers, and the sentries of the general in command. Our spies must be commissioned to ascertain these.</li><li>The end and aim of spying in all its five varieties is knowledge of the enemy; and this knowledge can only be derived, in the first instance, from the converted spy. He not only brings information himself, but makes it possible to use the other kinds of spies to advantage. Hence it is essential that the converted spy be treated with the utmost liberality.</li><li>Spies are a most important element in war, because upon them depends an army&#x27;s ability to move.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2020 19:35:30 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Often ranked among the most meaningful books for many, it’s fairly obvious why - the account of Frankl’s time in a concentration camp is both horrific and impossible to stop reading.His own work in developing logo-therapy is interesting as a result; perhaps the most interesting learning is the flipping of the typical “finding life’s purpose” into recognizing that “each man is questioned by life”.The book offers a prescription for finding one’s meaning in life, from someone who has seen the worst of it.  A short, worthwhile read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><p>PREFACE:</p><ul><li>&quot;Don’t aim at success—the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-effect of one’s dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long run—in the long run, I say!—success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think of it.&quot;</li></ul><p>I: EXPERIENCES IN A CONCENTRATION CAMP</p><ul><li>I would like to mention a few similar surprises on how much we could endure: we were unable to clean our teeth, and yet, in spite of that and a severe vitamin deficiency, we had healthier gums than ever before. We had to wear the same shirts for half a year, until they had lost all appearance of being shirts. For days we were unable to wash, even partially, because of frozen water-pipes, and yet the sores and abrasions on hands which were dirty from work in the soil did not suppurate (that is, unless there was frostbite).</li><li>An abnormal reaction to an abnormal situation is normal behavior.</li><li>What did the prisoner dream about most frequently? Of bread, cake, cigarettes, and nice warm baths. The lack of having these simple desires satisfied led him to seek wish-fulfillment in dreams.</li><li>I knew only one thing—which I have learned well by now: Love goes very far beyond the physical person of the beloved.</li><li>It finds its deepest meaning in his spiritual being, his inner self. Whether or not he is actually present, whether or not he is still alive at all, ceases somehow to be of importance.</li><li>As the inner life of the prisoner tended to become more intense, he also experienced the beauty of art and nature as never before. Under their influence he sometimes even forgot his own frightful circumstances.</li><li>The attempt to develop a sense of humor and to see things in a humorous light is some kind of a trick learned while mastering the art of living. Yet it is possible to practice the art of living even in a concentration camp, although suffering is omnipresent.</li><li>A man’s character became involved to the point that he was caught in a mental turmoil which threatened all the values he held and threw them into doubt. Under the influence of a world which no longer recognized the value of human life and human dignity, which had robbed man of his will and had made him an object to be exterminated (having planned, however, to make full use of him first—to the last ounce of his physical resources)—under this influence the personal ego finally suffered a loss of values.</li><li>If the man in the concentration camp did not struggle against this in a last effort to save his self-respect, he lost the feeling of being an individual, a being with a mind, with inner freedom and personal value. He thought of himself then as only a part of an enormous mass of people; his existence descended to the level of animal life. The men were herded—sometimes to one place then to another; sometimes driven together.</li><li>Apart from its role as a defensive mechanism, the prisoners’ apathy was also the result of other factors. Hunger and lack of sleep contributed to it (as they do in normal life, also) and to the general irritability which was another characteristic of the prisoners’ mental state.</li><li>The fact that we had neither nicotine nor caffeine also contributed to the state of apathy and irritability.</li><li>The experiences of camp life show that man does have a choice of action. There were enough examples, often of a heroic nature, which proved that apathy could be overcome, irritability suppressed. Man can preserve a vestige of spiritual freedom, of independence of mind, even in such terrible conditions of psychic and physical stress.</li><li>And there were always choices to make. Every day, every hour, offered the opportunity to make a decision, a decision which determined whether you would or would not submit to those powers which threatened to rob you of your very self, your inner freedom; which determined whether or not you would become the plaything of circumstance, renouncing freedom and dignity to become molded into the form of the typical inmate.</li><li>Dostoevski said once, &quot;There is only one thing that I dread: not to be worthy of my sufferings.&quot; These words frequently came to my mind after I became acquainted with those martyrs whose behavior in camp, whose suffering and death, bore witness to the fact that the last inner freedom cannot be lost.</li><li>It can be said that they were worthy of their sufferings; the way they bore their suffering was a genuine inner achievement. It is this spiritual freedom—which cannot be taken away—that makes life meaningful and purposeful.</li><li>An active life serves the purpose of giving man the opportunity to realize values in creative work, while a passive life of enjoyment affords him the opportunity to obtain fulfillment in experiencing beauty, art, or nature. But there is also purpose in that life which is almost barren of both creation and enjoyment and which admits of but one possibility of high moral behavior: namely, in man’s attitude to his existence, an existence restricted by external forces. A creative life and a life of enjoyment are banned to him. But not only creativeness and enjoyment are meaningful. If there is a meaning in life at all, then there must be a meaning in suffering. Suffering is an ineradicable part of life, even as fate and death.</li><li>The way in which a man accepts his fate and all the suffering it entails, the way in which he takes up his cross, gives him ample opportunity—even under the most difficult circumstances—to add a deeper meaning to his life. It may remain brave, dignified and unselfish. Or in the bitter fight for self-preservation he may forget his human dignity and become no more than an animal. Here lies the chance for a man either to make use of or to forgo the opportunities of attaining the moral values that a diffcult situation may afford him. And this decides whether he is worthy of his sufferings or not.</li><li>The Latin word finis has two meanings: the end or the finish, and a goal to reach. A man who could not see the end of his &quot;provisional existence” was not able to aim at an ultimate goal in life. He ceased living for the future, in contrast to a man in normal life. Therefore the whole structure of his inner life changed; signs of decay set in which we know from other areas of life. The unemployed worker, for example, is in a similar position. His existence has become provisional and in a certain sense he cannot live for the future or aim at a goal.</li><li>Varying this, we could say that most men in a concentration camp believed that the real opportunities of life had passed. Yet, in reality, there was an opportunity and a challenge. One could make a victory of those experiences, turning life into an inner triumph, or one could ignore the challenge and simply vegetate, as did a majority of the prisoners.</li><li>Any attempt at fighting the camp’s psychopathological influence on the prisoner by psychotherapeutic or psychohygienic methods had to aim at giving him inner strength by pointing out to him a future goal to which he could look forward. Instinctively some of the prisoners attempted to find one on their own.</li><li>What does Spinoza say in his Ethics? —&quot;Affectus, qui passio est, desinit esse passio simulatque eius claram et distinctam formamus ideam.&quot; Emotion, which is suffering, ceases to be suffering as soon as we form a clear and precise picture of it.</li><li>The prisoner who had lost faith in the future—his future—was doomed. With his loss of belief in the future, he also lost his spiritual hold; he let himself decline and became subject to mental and physical decay. Usually this happened quite suddenly, in the form of a crisis, the symptoms of which were familiar to the experienced camp inmate.</li><li>As we said before, any attempt to restore a man’s inner strength in the camp had first to succeed in showing him some future goal. Nietzsche’s words, &quot;He who has a why to live for can bear with almost any how,&quot; could be the guiding motto for all psychotherapeutic and psychohygienic efforts regarding prisoners.</li><li>What was really needed was a fundamental change in our attitude toward life. We had to learn ourselves and, furthermore, we had to teach the despairing men, that it did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us.</li><li>When a man finds that it is his destiny to suffer, he will have to accept his suffering as his task; his single and unique task. He will have to acknowledge the fact that even in suffering he is unique and alone in the universe. No one can relieve him of his suffering or suffer in his place. His unique opportunity lies in the way in which he bears his burden.</li><li>Long ago we had passed the stage of asking what was the meaning of life, a naïve query which understands life as the attaining of some aim through the active creation of something of value. For us, the meaning of life embraced the wider cycles of life and death, of suffering and of dying.</li><li>This uniqueness and singleness which distinguishes each individual and gives a meaning to his existence has a bearing on creative work as much as it does on human love. When the impossibility of replacing a person is realized, it allows the responsibility which a man has for his existence and its continuance to appear in all its magnitude</li><li>A man who becomes conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the “why&quot; for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any “how.&quot;</li><li>Human kindness can be found in all groups, even those which as a whole it would be easy to condemn.</li><li>From all this we may learn that there are two races of men in this world, but only these two—the “race&quot; of the decent man and the “race&quot; of the indecent man. Both are found everywhere; they penetrate into all groups of society. No group consists entirely of decent or indecent people. In this sense, no group is of &quot;pure race&quot;—and therefore one occasionally found a decent fellow among the camp guards.</li></ul><p>II: LOGOTHERAPY IN A NUTSHELL</p><ul><li>Logotherapy focuses rather on the future, that is to say, on the meanings to be fulfilled by the patient in his future.</li><li>At the same time, logotherapy defocuses all the vicious-circle formations and feedback mechanisms which play such a great role in the development of neuroses.</li></ul><p>Existential Frustration</p><ul><li>Man’s will to meaning can also be frustrated, in which case logotherapy speaks of &quot;existential frustration.&quot; The term “existential&quot; may be used in three ways: to refer to (1) existence itself, i.e., the specifically human mode of being; (2) the meaning of existence; and (3) the striving to find a concrete meaning in personal existence, that is to say, the will to meaning.</li></ul><p>Noö-Dynamics</p><ul><li>To be sure, man’s search for meaning may arouse inner tension rather than inner equilibrium. However, precisely such tension is an indispensable prerequisite of mental health. There is nothing in the world, I venture to say, that would so effectively help one to survive even the worst conditions as the knowledge that there is a meaning in one’s life. There is much wisdom in the words of Nietzsche: &quot;He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.&quot;</li><li>What man actually needs is not a tensionless state but rather the striving and struggling for a worthwhile goal, a freely chosen task.</li><li>What he needs is not the discharge of tension at any cost but the call of a potential meaning waiting to be fulfilled by him.</li></ul><p>The Existential Vacuum</p><ul><li>The existential vacuum manifests itself mainly in a state of boredom.</li><li>Moreover, there are various masks and guises under which the existential vacuum appears. Sometimes the frustrated will to meaning is vicariously compensated for by a will to power, including the most primitive form of the will to power, the will to money. In other cases, the place of frustrated will to meaning is taken by the will to pleasure. That is why existential frustration often eventuates in sexual compensation. We can observe in such cases that the sexual libido becomes rampant in the existential vacuum.</li></ul><p>The Meaning of Life</p><ul><li>For the meaning of life differs from man to man, from day to day and from hour to hour. What matters, therefore, is not the meaning of life in general but rather the specific meaning of a person’s life at a given moment.</li><li>Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked. In a word, each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life; to life he can only respond by being responsible. Thus, logotherapy sees in responsibleness the very essence of human existence.</li></ul><p>The Essence of Existence</p><ul><li>This emphasis on responsibleness is reflected in the categorical imperative of logotherapy, which is: &quot;Live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you are about to act now!&quot; It seems to me that there is nothing which would stimulate a man’s sense of responsibleness more than this maxim, which invites him to imagine first that the present is past and, second, that the past may yet be changed and amended. Such a precept confronts him with life’s finiteness as well as the finality of what he makes out of both his life and himself.</li><li>By declaring that man is responsible and must actualize the potential meaning of his life, I wish to stress that the true meaning of life is to be discovered in the world rather than within man or his own psyche, as though it were a closed system.</li><li>Thus far we have shown that the meaning of life always changes, but that it never ceases to be. According to logotherapy, we can discover this meaning in life in three different ways: (1) by creating a work or doing a deed; (2) by experiencing something or encountering someone; and (3) by the attitude we take toward unavoidable suffering. The first, the way of achievement or accomplishment, is quite obvious. The second and third need further elaboration.</li><li>The second way of finding a meaning in life is by experiencing something—such as goodness, truth and beauty—by experiencing nature and culture or, last but not least, by experiencing another human being in his very uniqueness—by loving him.</li></ul><p>The Meaning of Love</p><ul><li>Love is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality. No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being unless he loves him. By his love he is enabled to see the essential traits and features in the beloved person; and even more, he sees that which is potential in him, which is not yet actualized but yet ought to be actualized. Furthermore, by his love, the loving person enables the beloved person to actualize these potentialities. By making him aware of what he can be and of what he should become, he makes these potentialities come true.</li><li>In logotherapy, love is not interpreted as a mere epiphenomenon of sexual drives and instincts in the sense of a so-called sublimation.</li><li>Thus love is not understood as a mere side-effect of sex; rather, sex is a way of expressing the experience of that ultimate togetherness which is called love.</li><li>The third way of finding a meaning in life is by suffering.</li></ul><p>The Meaning of Suffering</p><ul><li>When we are no longer able to change a situation—just think of an incurable disease such as inoperable cancer—we are challenged to change ourselves.</li><li>It is one of the basic tenets of logotherapy that man’s main concern is not to gain pleasure or to avoid pain but rather to see a meaning in his life. That is why man is even ready to suffer, on the condition, to be sure, that his suffering has a meaning.</li><li>But let me make it perfectly clear that in no way is suffering necessary to find meaning. I only insist that meaning is possible even in spite of suffering—provided, certainly, that the suffering is unavoidable.</li><li>If it were avoidable, however, the meaningful thing to do would be to remove its cause, be it psychological, biological or political. To suffer unnecessarily is masochistic rather than heroic.</li></ul><p>Life’s Transitoriness</p><ul><li>Usually, to be sure, man considers only the stubble field of transitoriness and overlooks the full granaries of the past, wherein he had salvaged once and for all his deeds, his joys and also his sufferings. Nothing can be undone, and nothing can be done away with. I should say having been is the surest kind of being.</li><li>The pessimist resembles a man who observes with fear and sadness that his wall calendar, from which he daily tears a sheet, grows thinner with each passing day. On the other hand, the person who attacks the problems of life actively is like a man who removes each successive leaf from his calendar and files it neatly and carefully away with its predecessors, after first having jotted down a few diary notes on the back. He can reflect with pride and joy on all the richness set down in these notes, on all the life he has already lived to the fullest. What will it matter to him if he notices that he is growing old? Has he any reason to envy the young people whom he sees, or wax nostalgic over his own lost youth? What reasons has he to envy a young person? For the possibilities that a young person has, the future which is in store for him? &quot;No, thank you,&quot; he will think. &quot;Instead of possibilities, I have realities in my past, not only the reality of work done and of love loved, but of sufferings bravely suffered. These sufferings are even the things of which I am most proud, though these are things which cannot inspire envy.&quot;</li></ul><p>Logotherapy as a Technique</p><ul><li>An individual, for example, who is afraid of blushing when he enters a large room and faces many people will actually be more prone to blush under these circumstances.</li><li>Ironically enough, in the same way that fear brings to pass what one is afraid of, likewise a forced intention makes impossible what one forcibly wishes. This excessive intention, or &quot;hyper-intention,&quot; as I call it, can be observed particularly in cases of sexual neurosis. The more a man tries to demonstrate his sexual potency or a woman her ability to experience orgasm, the less they are able to succeed. Pleasure is, and must remain, a side-effect or by-product, and is destroyed and spoiled to the degree to which it is made a goal in itself.</li><li>In addition to excessive intention as described above, excessive attention, or &quot;hyper-reflection,&quot; as it is called in logotherapy, may also be pathogenic (that is, lead to sickness).</li></ul><p>The Collective Neurosis</p><ul><li>The existential vacuum which is the mass neurosis of the present time can be described as a private and personal form of nihilism; for nihilism can be defined as the contention that being has no meaning.</li></ul><p>THE CASE FOR A TRAGIC OPTIMISM</p><ul><li>LET US FIRST ASK OURSELVES WHAT SHOULD BE understood by &quot;a tragic optimism.&quot; In brief it means that one is, and remains, optimistic in spite of the &quot;tragic triad,&quot; as it is called in logotherapy, a triad which consists of those aspects of human existence which may be circumscribed by: (1) pain; (2) guilt; and (3) death.</li><li>In other words, what matters is to make the best of any given situation. &quot;The best,&quot; however, is that which in Latin is called optimum—hence the reason I speak of a tragic optimism, that is, an optimism in the face of tragedy and in view of the human potential which at its best always allows for: (1) turning suffering into a human achievement and accomplishment; (2) deriving from guilt the opportunity to change oneself for the better; and (3) deriving from life’s transitoriness an incentive to take responsible action.</li><li>It must be kept in mind, however, that optimism is not anything to be commanded or ordered. One cannot even force oneself to be optimistic indiscriminately, against all odds, against all hope.</li><li>To the European, it is a characteristic of the American culture that, again and again, one is commanded and ordered to &quot;be happy.&quot; But happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue. One must have a reason to be happy. Once the reason is found, however, one becomes happy automatically.</li><li>Once an individual’s search for a meaning is successful, it not only renders him happy but also gives him the capability to cope with suffering.</li><li>As to the causation of the feeling of meaninglessness, one may say, albeit in an oversimplifying vein, that people have enough to live by but nothing to live for; they have the means but no meaning. To be sure, some do not even have the means. In particular, I think of the mass of people who are today unemployed. Fifty years ago, I published a study devoted to a specific type of depression I had diagnosed in cases of young patients suffering from what I called &quot;unemployment neurosis.&quot; And I could show that this neurosis really originated in a twofold erroneous identification: being jobless was equated with being useless, and being useless was equated with having a meaningless life. Consequently, whenever I succeeded in persuading the patients to volunteer in youth organizations, adult education, public libraries and the like—in other words, as soon as they could fill their abundant free time with some sort of unpaid but meaningful activity—their depression disappeared although their economic situation had not changed and their hunger was the same. The truth is that man does not live by welfare alone.</li><li>As logotherapy teaches, there are three main avenues on which one arrives at meaning in life. The first is by creating a work or by doing a deed. The second is by experiencing something or encountering someone; in other words, meaning can be found not only in work but also in love.</li><li>Most important, however, is the third avenue to meaning in life: even the helpless victim of a hopeless situation, facing a fate he cannot change, may rise above himself, may grow beyond himself, and by so doing change himself. He may turn a personal tragedy into a triumph.</li><li>Is this to say that suffering is indispensable to the discovery of meaning? In no way. I only insist that meaning is available in spite of—nay, even through—suffering, provided, as noted in Part Two of this book, that the suffering is unavoidable. If it is avoidable, the meaningful thing to do is to remove its cause, for unnecessary suffering is masochistic rather than heroic. If, on the other hand, one cannot change a situation that causes his suffering, he can still choose his attitude.</li><li>The third aspect of the tragic triad concerns death. But it concerns life as well, for at any time each of the moments of which life consists is dying, and that moment will never recur. And yet is not this transitoriness a reminder that challenges us to make the best possible use of each moment of our lives? It certainly is, and hence my imperative: Live as if you were living for the second time and had acted as wrongly the first time as you are about to act now.</li><li>From this one may see that there is no reason to pity old people. Instead, young people should envy them. It is true that the old have no opportunities, no possibilities in the future. But they have more than that. Instead of possibilities in the future, they have realities in the past—the potentialities they have actualized, the meanings they have fulfilled, the values they have realized—and nothing and nobody can ever remove these assets from the past.</li><li>In view of the possibility of finding meaning in suffering, life’s meaning is an unconditional one, at least potentially. That unconditional meaning, however, is paralleled by the unconditional value of each and every person. It is that which warrants the indelible quality of the dignity of man. Just as life remains potentially meaningful under any conditions, even those which are most miserable, so too does the value of each and every person stay with him or her, and it does so because it is based on the values that he or she has realized in the past, and is not contingent on the usefulness that he or she may or may not retain in the present.</li><li>More specifically, this usefulness is usually defined in terms of functioning for the benefit of society. But today’s society is characterized by achievement orientation, and consequently it adores people who are successful and happy and, in particular, it adores the young. It virtually ignores the value of all those who are otherwise, and in so doing blurs the decisive difference between being valuable in the sense of dignity and being valuable in the sense of usefulness. If one is not cognizant of this difference and holds that an individual’s value stems only from his present usefulness, then, believe me, one owes it only to personal inconsistency not to plead for euthanasia along the lines of Hitler’s program, that is to say, “mercy&quot; killing of all those who have lost their social usefulness, be it because of old age, incurable illness, mental deterioration, or whatever handicap they may suffer.</li><li>Confounding the dignity of man with mere usefulness arises from a conceptual confusion that in turn may be traced back to the contemporary nihilism transmitted on many an academic campus and many an analytical couch. Even in the setting of training analyses such an indoctrination may take place.</li><li>So, let us be alert—alert in a twofold sense:</li><li>Since Auschwitz we know what man is capable of.</li><li>And since Hiroshima we know what is at stake.</li></ul><p>AFTERWORD</p><ul><li>Frankl told the audience that &quot;It is we ourselves who must answer the questions that life asks of us, and to these questions we can respond only by being responsible for our existence.&quot; This belief became the cornerstone of Frankl’s personal life and professional identity.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A period novel set in New York in 1937, the book recounts the most formative year of the main character's life.The book has been compared to The Great Gatsby, and for good reason. You're transported to the glamorous New York of the early 20th century, and the world of wealthy New Yorkers.The title comes from George Washington's Rules of Civility & Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation.The writing is easy and stylish, and the book is a joy to read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>As a quick aside, let me observe that in moments of high emotion—whether they’re triggered by anger or envy, humiliation or resentment—if the next thing you’re going to say makes you feel better, then it’s probably the wrong thing to say.</li><li>—Most people have more needs than wants. That’s why they live the lives they do. But the world is run by those whose wants outstrip their needs.</li><li>Which is just to say, be careful when choosing what you’re proud of—because the world has every intention of using it against you.</li><li>One must be prepared to fight for one’s simple pleasures and to defend them against elegance and erudition and all manner of glamorous enticements.</li><li>Old times, as my father used to say: If you’re not careful, they’ll gut you like a fish.</li><li>—If we only fell in love with people who were perfect for us, he said, then there wouldn’t be so much fuss about love in the first place.</li><li>Because when some incident sheds a favorable light on an old and absent friend, that’s about as good a gift as chance intends to offer.</li><li>—That’s the problem with being born in New York, the old newsman observed a little sadly. You’ve got no New York to run away to.</li><li>He always looked his best, I thought to myself, when circumstances called for him to be a boy and a man at the same time.</li><li>I know that right choices by definition are the means by which life crystallizes loss.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A book about creating a great culture. Actionable instructions on how to improve your own behavior, the behavior of your team, and of your organization, to build a great culture.Highly recommended for anyone who works with others and wants to improve team performance. You will learn skills that are applicable to individual relationships too.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Key Points</h4><p>The list of skills to create a great culture:</p><ol><li>Build safety</li><li>Share vulnerability</li><li>Establish purpose</li></ol><p>To cultivate trust and safety, you should strive for the following attitude: &quot;<em>Hey, this is all really comfortable and engaging, and I’m curious about what everybody else has to say</em>&quot;</p><p>Body language–things like physical touch, eye contact, energy levels–all have a big impact on culture and attitude. The best cultures and environments are almost physically addictive.</p><p>Belonging cues always send the message: &quot;You are safe here&quot;.</p><p>Group performance depends on behavior that communicates one thing: <em>We are safe and connected</em>.</p><p>It&#x27;s a misconception that highly successful cultures are happy, lighthearted places. At their core, they are about solving hard problems together.</p><p>Many small things–like small, cutting jokes and comments–can have an effect on the overall culture, and these things should be eliminated.</p><p>Instead, you need to focus on overcommunicating, show that you are listening to others, overdoing thank-yous, and encouraging positive behaviors.</p><p>Getting through hard things together is a great way to build teamwork.</p><p>Make sure your leaders are vulnerable first and often.</p><p>Deliver negative stuff in person.</p><p>Resist the temptation to interject while listening.</p><p>Language within the group can be important, and you should try and use it to your advantage.</p><p>Creating purpose is about clearly creating a link between two things: where you are and where you want to go.</p><p>Creating purpose is about providing a steady stream of ultra-clear signals that are aligned with where you want to go (rather than one big signal).</p><h4><strong>Notes</strong></h4><h5><strong>Introduction - When Two Plus Two Equals Ten</strong></h5><ul><li>Being smart is overrated, that showing fallibility is crucial, and that being nice is not nearly as important as you might think.</li></ul><h5><strong>Skill 1 - Build Safety</strong></h5><h5><strong>1: The Good Apples</strong></h5><p>Most of all he radiates an idea that is something like, <em>Hey, this is all really comfortable and engaging, and I’m curious about what everybody else has to say</em></p><p>When I visited these groups, I noticed a distinct pattern of interaction. The pattern was located not in the big things but in little moments of social connection. These interactions were consistent whether the group was a military unit or a movie studio or an inner-city school. I made a list:</p><ul><li>Close physical proximity, often in circles</li><li>Profuse amounts of eye contact</li><li>Physical touch (handshakes, fist bumps, hugs)</li><li>Lots of short, energetic exchanges (no long speeches)</li><li>High levels of mixing; everyone talks to everyone</li><li>Few interruptions</li><li>Lots of questions</li><li>Intensive, active listening</li><li>Humor, laughter</li><li>Small, attentive courtesies (thank-yous, opening doors, etc.)</li></ul><p>One more thing: I found that spending time inside these groups was almost physically addictive.</p><p>Yeah Belonging cues are behaviors that create safe connection in groups. They include, among others, proximity, eye contact, energy, mimicry, turn taking, attention, body language, vocal pitch, consistency of emphasis, and whether everyone talks to everyone else in the group.</p><p>Their function is to answer the ancient, ever-present questions glowing in our brains: <em>Are we safe here? What’s our future with these people? Are there dangers lurking?</em></p><p>Belonging cues possess three basic qualities:</p><ul><li>Energy: They invest in the exchange that is occurring</li><li>Individualization: They treat the person as unique and valued</li><li>Future orientation: They signal the relationship will continue</li></ul><p>These cues add up to a message that can be described with a single phrase: <em>You are safe here.</em></p><p>&quot;While listening to the pitches, though, another part of their brain was registering other crucial information, such as: How much does this person believe in this idea? How confident are they when speaking? How determined are they to make this work?</p><p>Overall Pentland’s studies show that team performance is driven by five measurable factors:</p><ul><li>Everyone in the group talks and listens in roughly equal measure, keeping contributions short.</li><li>Members maintain high levels of eye contact, and their conversations and gestures are energetic.</li><li>Members communicate directly with one another, not just with the team leader.</li><li>Members carry on back-channel or side conversations within the team.</li><li>Members periodically break, go exploring outside the team, and bring information back to share with the others.</li><li>Group performance depends on behavior that communicates one powerful overarching idea: <em>We are safe and connected.</em></li></ul><h5><strong>2: The Billion-Dollar Day When Nothing Happened</strong></h5><ul><li>This idea—that belonging needs to be continually refreshed and reinforced—is worth dwelling on for a moment.</li></ul><h5><strong>3: The Christmas Truce, the One-Hour Experiment, and the Missileers</strong></h5><ul><li>Belonging cues have to do not with character or discipline but with building an environment that answers basic questions: <em>Are we connected? Do we share a future? Are we safe?</em></li></ul><h5><strong>4: How to Build Belonging</strong></h5><p>The Relationship Maker</p><p>&quot;A lot of coaches can yell or be nice, but what Pop does is different,&quot; says assistant coach Chip Engelland. &quot;He delivers two things over and over: He’ll tell you the truth, with no bullshit, and then he’ll love you to death.&quot;</p><p>One misconception about highly successful cultures is that they are happy, lighthearted places. This is mostly not the case. They are energized and engaged, but at their core their members are oriented less around achieving happiness than around solving hard problems together.</p><p>The feedback was not complicated. In fact, it consisted of one simple phrase.</p><ul><li>&quot;I’m giving you these comments because I have very high expectations and I know that you can reach them.&quot;</li></ul><p>Actually, when you look more closely at the sentence, it contains three separate cues:</p><ul><li>You are part of this group.</li><li>This group is special; we have high standards here.</li><li>I believe you can reach those standards.</li></ul><h5><strong>5: How to Design for Belonging</strong></h5><p>The Architect of the Greenhouse</p><ul><li>What mattered most in creating a successful team had less to do with intelligence and experience and more to do with where the desks happened to be located.</li><li>The key characteristic of the Allen Curve is the sudden steepness that happens at the eight-meter mark. At distances of less than eight meters, communication frequency rises off the charts.</li></ul><h5><strong>6: Ideas for Action</strong></h5><p>&quot;I used to like to try to make a lot of small clever remarks in conversation, trying to be funny, sometimes in a cutting way,&quot; he says. &quot;Now I see how negatively those signals can impact the group. So I try to show that I’m listening. When they’re talking, I’m looking at their face, nodding, saying ‘What do you mean by that,’ ‘Could you tell me more about this,’ or asking their opinions about what we should do, drawing people out.&quot;</p><p>Creating safety is about dialing in to small, subtle moments and delivering targeted signals at key points. The goal of this chapter is to provide a few tips on doing that.</p><p><strong>Overcommunicate Your Listening</strong>: When I visited the successful cultures, I kept seeing the same expression on the faces of listeners. It looked like this: head tilted slightly forward, eyes unblinking, and eyebrows arched up. Their bodies were still, and they leaned toward the speaker with intent. The only sound they made was a steady stream of affirmations—<em>yes, uh-huh, gotcha</em>—that encouraged the speaker to keep going, to give them more.</p><ul><li>Relatedly, it’s important to avoid interruptions.</li></ul><p><strong>Spotlight Your Fallibility Early On</strong>—Especially If You’re a Leader: In any interaction, we have a natural tendency to try to hide our weaknesses and appear competent. If you want to create safety, this is exactly the wrong move. Instead, you should open up, show you make mistakes, and invite input with simple phrases like &quot;This is just my two cents.&quot; &quot;Of course, I could be wrong here.&quot; &quot;What am I missing?&quot; &quot;What do you think?&quot;</p><p><strong>Embrace the Messenger</strong>: One of the most vital moments for creating safety is when a group shares bad news or gives tough feedback. In these moments, it’s important not simply to tolerate the difficult news but to embrace it. &quot;You know the phrase ‘Don’t shoot the messenger’?&quot; Edmondson says. &quot;In fact, it’s not enough to not shoot them. You have to hug the messenger and let them know how much you need that feedback. That way you can be sure that they feel safe enough to tell you the truth next time.&quot;</p><p><strong>Preview Future Connection</strong>: One habit I saw in successful groups was that of sneak-previewing future relationships, making small but telling connections between now and a vision of the future.</p><p><strong>Overdo Thank-Yous:</strong> When you enter highly successful cultures, the number of thank-yous you hear seems slightly over the top.</p><p><strong>Be Painstaking in the Hiring Process</strong>: Deciding who’s in and who’s out is the most powerful signal any group sends, and successful groups approach their hiring accordingly.</p><p><strong>Eliminate Bad Apples</strong>: The groups I studied had extremely low tolerance for bad apple behavior and, perhaps more important, were skilled at naming those behaviors.</p><p><strong>Create Safe, Collision-Rich Spaces</strong>: The groups I visited were uniformly obsessed with design as a lever for cohesion and interaction.</p><ul><li>The lesson of all these studies is the same: Create spaces that maximize collisions.</li></ul><p><strong>Make Sure Everyone Has a Voice</strong>: Ensuring that everyone has a voice is easy to talk about but hard to accomplish. This is why many successful groups use simple mechanisms that encourage, spotlight, and value full-group contribution.</p><p><strong>Pick Up Trash</strong>:</p><ul><li>This is what I would call a muscular humility—a mindset of seeking simple ways to serve the group. Picking up trash is one example, but the same kinds of behaviors exist around allocating parking places (egalitarian, with no special spots reserved for leaders), picking up checks at meals (the leaders do it every time), and providing for equity in salaries, particularly for start-ups. These actions are powerful not just because they are moral or generous but also because they send a larger signal: <em>We are all in this together.</em></li></ul><p><strong>Capitalize on Threshold Moments</strong>: When we enter a new group, our brains decide quickly whether to connect. So successful cultures treat these threshold moments as more important than any other.</p><p><strong>Avoid Giving Sandwich Feedback</strong>: In many organizations, leaders tend to deliver feedback using the traditional sandwich method: You talk about a positive, then address an area that needs improvement, then finish with a positive. This makes sense in theory, but in practice it often leads to confusion, as people tend to focus either entirely on the positive or entirely on the negative.</p><ul><li>In the cultures I visited, I didn’t see many feedback sandwiches. Instead, I saw them separate the two into different processes. They handled negatives through dialogue, first by asking if a person wants feedback, then having a learning-focused two-way conversation about the needed growth. They handled positives through ultraclear bursts of recognition and praise</li></ul><p><strong>Embrace Fun</strong>: This obvious one is still worth mentioning, because laughter is not just laughter; it’s the most fundamental sign of safety and connection.</p><h5><strong>Skill 2 - Share Vulnerability</strong></h5><h5><strong>7: “Tell Me What You Want, and I’ll Help You&quot;</strong></h5><ul><li>They demonstrated that a series of small, humble exchanges—<em>Anybody have any ideas? Tell me what you want, and I’ll help you</em>—can unlock a group’s ability to perform. The key, as we’re about to learn, involves the willingness to perform a certain behavior that goes against our every instinct: sharing vulnerability.</li></ul><h5><strong>8: The Vulnerability Loop</strong></h5><p>The interaction he describes can be called a vulnerability loop. A shared exchange of openness, it’s the most basic building block of cooperation and trust. Vulnerability loops seem swift and spontaneous from a distance, but when you look closely, they all follow the same discrete steps:</p><ul><li>Person A sends a signal of vulnerability.</li><li>Person B detects this signal.</li><li>Person B responds by signaling their own vulnerability.</li><li>Person A detects this signal.</li><li>A norm is established; closeness and trust increase.</li></ul><p>The mechanism of cooperation can be summed up as follows: <em>Exchanges of vulnerability, which we naturally tend to avoid, are the pathway through which trusting cooperation is built.</em></p><h5><strong>10: How to Create Cooperation in Small Groups</strong></h5><ul><li>Merely creating space for cooperation, he realized, wasn’t enough; he had to generate a series of unmistakable signals that tipped his men away from their natural tendencies and toward interdependence and cooperation.</li><li>He started with small things. A new team member who called him by his title was quickly corrected: &quot;You can call me Coop, Dave, or Fuckface, it’s your choice.&quot; When Cooper gave his opinion, he was careful to attach phrases that provided a platform for someone to question him, like &quot;Now let’s see if someone can poke holes in this&quot; or &quot;Tell me what’s wrong with this idea.&quot; He steered away from giving orders and instead asked a lot of questions. <em>Anybody have any ideas?</em></li><li>Cooper began to develop tools. &quot;There’re things you can do,&quot; he says. &quot;Spending time together outside, hanging out—those help. One of the best things I’ve found to improve a team’s cohesion is to send them to do some hard, hard training. There’s something about hanging off a cliff together, and being wet and cold and miserable together, that makes a team come together.&quot;</li><li>AARs happen immediately after each mission and consist of a short meeting in which the team gathers to discuss and replay key decisions. AARs are led not by commanders but by enlisted men. There are no agendas, and no minutes are kept. The goal is to create a flat landscape without rank, where people can figure out what really happened and talk about mistakes—especially their own.</li><li>In fact, I’d say those might be the most important four words any leader can say: <em>I screwed that up.&quot;</em></li><li>Good AARs follow a template. &quot;You have to do it right away,&quot; Cooper says. &quot;You put down your gun, circle up, and start talking. Usually you take the mission from beginning to end, chronologically. You talk about every decision, and you talk about the process. You have to resist the temptation to wrap it all up in a bow, and try to dig for the truth of what happened, so people can really learn from it. You have to ask why, and then when they respond, you ask another why. Why did you shoot at that particular point? What did you see? How did you know? What other options were there? You ask and ask and ask.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>11: How to Create Cooperation with Individuals</strong></h5><p>The Nyquist Method</p><p>Nyquist by all accounts possessed two important qualities. The first was warmth. He had a knack for making people feel cared for; every contemporary description paints him as “fatherly.&quot; The second quality was a relentless curiosity. In a landscape made up of diverse scientific domains, he combined breadth and depth of knowledge with a desire to seek connections.</p><p>(The best way to find the Nyquist is usually to ask people: <em>If I could get a sense of the way your culture works by meeting just one person, who would that person be?)</em> If we think of successful cultures as engines of human cooperation, then the Nyquists are the spark plugs.</p><p>She uses the idea of dance to describe the skills she employs with IDEO’s design teams: to find the music, support her partner, and follow the rhythm.</p><p>They asked her [Givechi] to create modules of questions teams could ask themselves. For example, here are a few:</p><ul><li>The one thing that excites me about this particular opportunity is</li><li>I confess, the one thing I’m not so excited about with this particular opportunity is</li><li>On this project, I’d really like to get better at</li><li>The interesting thing about Givechi’s questions is how transcendently simple they are. They have less to do with design than with connecting to deeper emotions: fear, ambition, motivation.</li></ul><h5><strong>12: Ideas for Action</strong></h5><p><strong>Make Sure the Leader Is Vulnerable First and Often</strong>: As we’ve seen, group cooperation is created by small, frequently repeated moments of vulnerability. Of these, none carries more power than the moment when a leader signals vulnerability. As Dave Cooper says, &quot;<em>I screwed that up&quot;</em> are the most important words any leader can say.</p><p>Laszlo Bock, former head of People Analytics at Google, recommends that leaders ask their people three questions:</p><ul><li>What is one thing that I currently do that you’d like me to continue to do?</li><li>What is one thing that I don’t currently do frequently enough that you think I should do more often?</li><li>What can I do to make you more effective?</li></ul><p>&quot;The key is to ask not for five or ten things but just one,&quot; Bock says. &quot;That way it’s easier for people to answer</p><p><strong>Overcommunicate Expectations</strong>: The successful groups I visited did not presume that cooperation would happen on its own. Instead, they were explicit and persistent about sending big, clear signals that established those expectations, modeled cooperation, and aligned language and roles to maximize helping behavior.</p><p><strong>Deliver the Negative Stuff in Person</strong>: This was an informal rule that I encountered at several cultures. It goes like this: If you have negative news or feedback to give someone—even as small as a rejected item on an expense report—you are obligated to deliver that news face-to-face.</p><p><strong>When Forming New Groups, Focus on Two Critical Moments</strong>:</p><ul><li>The first vulnerability</li><li>The first disagreement</li><li>These small moments are doorways to two possible group paths: <em>Are we about appearing strong or about exploring the landscape together? Are we about winning interactions, or about learning together?</em></li></ul><p><strong>Listen Like a Trampoline:</strong> Good listening is about more than nodding attentively; it’s about adding insight and creating moments of mutual discovery.</p><ul><li>They interact in ways that make the other person feel safe and supported</li><li>They take a helping, cooperative stance</li><li>They occasionally ask questions that gently and constructively challenge old assumptions</li><li>They make occasional suggestions to open up alternative paths</li><li>As Zenger and Folkman put it, the most effective listeners behave like trampolines. They aren’t passive sponges. They are active responders, absorbing what the other person gives, supporting them, and adding energy to help the conversation gain velocity and altitude.</li></ul><p><strong>In Conversation, Resist the Temptation to Reflexively Add Value</strong>: The most important part of creating vulnerability often resides not in what you say but in what you do not say. This means having the willpower to forgo easy opportunities to offer solutions and make suggestions.</p><ul><li>Skilled listeners do not interrupt with phrases like <em>Hey, here’s an idea or Let me tell you what worked for me in a similar situation</em> because they understand that it’s not about them. They use a repertoire of gestures and phrases that keep the other person talking. &quot;One of the things I say most often is probably the simplest thing I say,&quot; says Givechi. &quot;‘Say more about that.’ &quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Yeah Use Candor-Generating Practices like AARs, BrainTrusts, and Red Teaming</strong>: While AARs were originally built for the military environment, the tool can be applied to other domains. One good AAR structure is to use five questions:</p><ul><li>What were our intended results?</li><li>What were our actual results?</li><li>What caused our results?</li><li>What will we do the same next time?</li><li>What will we do differently?</li></ul><p>Some teams also use a Before-Action Review, which is built around a similar set of questions:</p><ul><li>What are our intended results?</li><li>What challenges can we anticipate?</li><li>What have we or others learned from similar situations?</li><li>What will make us successful this time?</li></ul><p>Red Teaming is a military-derived method for testing strategies; you create a &quot;red team&quot; to come up with ideas to disrupt or defeat your proposed plan. The key is to select a red team that is not wedded to the existing plan in any way, and to give them freedom to think in new ways that the planners might not have anticipated.</p><p><strong>Aim for Candor; Avoid Brutal Honesty</strong>: Giving honest feedback is tricky, because it can easily result in people feeling hurt or demoralized. One useful distinction, made most clearly at Pixar, is to aim for candor and avoid brutal honesty. By aiming for candor—feedback that is smaller, more targeted, less personal, less judgmental, and equally impactful—it’s easier to maintain a sense of safety and belonging in the group.</p><p><strong>Embrace the Discomfort</strong>: One of the most difficult things about creating habits of vulnerability is that it requires a group to endure two discomforts: emotional pain and a sense of inefficiency. Doing an AAR or a BrainTrust combines the repetition of digging into something that already happened (shouldn’t we be moving forward?) with the burning awkwardness inherent in confronting unpleasant truths. But as with any workout, the key is to understand that the pain is not a problem but the path to building a stronger group.</p><p><strong>Align Language with Action</strong>: Many highly cooperative groups use language to reinforce their interdependence. For example, navy pilots returning to aircraft carriers do not “land&quot; but are “recovered.&quot; IDEO doesn’t have &quot;project managers&quot;—it has &quot;design community leaders.&quot; Groups at Pixar do not offer “notes&quot; on early versions of films; they “plus&quot; them by offering solutions to problems. These might seem like small semantic differences, but they matter because they continually highlight the cooperative, interconnected nature of the work and reinforce the group’s shared identity.</p><p><strong>Build a Wall Between Performance Review and Professional Development</strong>: While it seems natural to hold these two conversations together, in fact it’s more effective to keep performance review and professional development separate.</p><p><strong>Use Flash Mentoring</strong>: One of the best techniques I’ve seen for creating cooperation in a group is flash mentoring. It is exactly like traditional mentoring—you pick someone you want to learn from and shadow them—except that instead of months or years, it lasts a few hours. Those brief interactions help break down barriers inside a group, build relationships, and facilitate the awareness that fuels helping behavior.</p><p><strong>Make the Leader Occasionally Disappear</strong>: Several leaders of successful groups have the habit of leaving the group alone at key moments.</p><h5><strong>Skill 3 - Establish Purpose</strong></h5><h5><strong>13: Three Hundred and Eleven Words</strong></h5><ul><li>When I visited the successful groups, I noticed that whenever they communicated anything about their purpose or their values, they were as subtle as a punch in the nose. It started with the surroundings. One expects most groups to fill their surroundings with a few reminders of their mission. These groups, however, did more than that—a lot more.</li><li>High-purpose environments are filled with small, vivid signals designed to create a link between the present moment and a future ideal. They provide the two simple locators that every navigation process requires: <em>Here is where we are and Here is where we want to go.</em> The surprising thing, from a scientific point of view, is how responsive we are to this pattern of signaling.</li><li><em>Envision a reachable goal, and envision the obstacles</em>. The thing is, as Oettingen discovered, this method works, triggering significant changes in behavior and motivation.</li><li>That shared future could be a goal or a behavior. <em>(We put customer safety first. We shoot, move, and communicate.)</em> It doesn’t matter. What matters is establishing this link and consistently creating engagement around it. What matters is telling the story.</li><li>The main challenge to understanding how stories guide group behavior is that stories are hard to isolate. Stories are like air: everywhere and nowhere at the same time. How do you measure the effect of a narrative?</li></ul><h5><strong>14: The Hooligans and the Surgeons</strong></h5><p>The Fastest Learners</p><ul><li>This is the way high-purpose environments work. They are about sending not so much one big signal as a handful of steady, ultra-clear signals that are aligned with a shared goal.</li><li>They are less about being inspiring than about being consistent. They are found not within big speeches so much as within everyday moments when people can sense the message: <em>This is why we work; this is what we are aiming for.</em></li></ul><h5><strong>15: How to Lead for Proficiency</strong></h5><p>This is why so many of Meyer’s catchphrases focus on how to respond to mistakes.</p><ul><li>The road to success is paved with mistakes well handled.</li></ul><h5><strong>16: How to Lead for Creativity</strong></h5><ul><li>On a fundamental level, Danny Meyer, KIPP, and the All-Blacks are using the same purpose-building technique. We might call it the lighthouse method: They create purpose by generating a clear beam of signals that link A (where we are) to B (where we want to be). There’s another dimension of leadership, however, where the goal isn’t to get from A to B but to navigate to an unknown destination, X. This is the dimension of creativity and innovation.</li></ul><h5><strong>17: Ideas for Action</strong></h5><p><strong>Name and Rank Your Priorities</strong>: In order to move toward a target, you must first have a target. Listing your priorities, which means wrestling with the choices that define your identity, is the first step. Most successful groups end up with a small handful of priorities (five or fewer), and many, not coincidentally, end up placing their in-group relationships—how they treat one another—at the top of the list. This reflects the truth that many successful groups realize: Their greatest project is building and sustaining the group itself. If they get their own relationships right, everything else will follow.</p><p><strong>Be Ten Times as Clear About Your Priorities as You Think You Should Be</strong>: Statements of priorities were painted on walls, stamped on emails, incanted in speeches, dropped into conversation, and repeated over and over until they became part of the oxygen.</p><p><strong>Figure Out Where Your Group Aims for Proficiency and Where It Aims for Creativity</strong>: Every group skill can be sorted into one of two basic types: skills of proficiency and skills of creativity.</p><p>Skills of proficiency are about doing a task the same way, every single time. They are about delivering machine-like reliability, and they tend to apply in domains in which the goal behaviors are clearly defined, such as service. Building purpose to perform these skills is like building a vivid map: You want to spotlight the goal and provide crystal-clear directions to the checkpoints along the way. Ways to do that include:</p><ul><li>Fill the group’s windshield with clear, accessible models of excellence.</li><li>Provide high-repetition, high-feedback training.</li><li>Build vivid, memorable rules of thumb (if X, then Y).</li><li>Spotlight and honor the fundamentals of the skill.</li></ul><p>Creative skills, on the other hand, are about empowering a group to do the hard work of building something that has never existed before. Generating purpose in these areas is like supplying an expedition: You need to provide support, fuel, and tools and to serve as a protective presence that empowers the team doing the work. Some ways to do that include:</p><ul><li>Keenly attend to team composition and dynamics.</li><li>Define, reinforce, and relentlessly protect the team’s creative autonomy.</li><li>Make it safe to fail and to give feedback.</li><li>Celebrate hugely when the group takes initiative.</li></ul><p>Most groups, of course, consist of a combination of these skill types, as they aim for proficiency in certain areas and creativity in others. The key is to clearly identify these areas and tailor leadership accordingly.</p><p><strong>Embrace the Use of Catchphrases</strong>: When you look at successful groups, a lot of their internal language features catchphrases that often sound obvious, rah-rah, or corny. Many of us instinctively dismiss them as cultish jargon. But this is a mistake. Their occasionally cheesy obviousness is not a bug—it’s a feature. Their clarity, grating to the outsider’s ear, is precisely what helps them function.</p><ul><li>The trick to building effective catchphrases is to keep them simple, action-oriented, and forthright: &quot;Create fun and a little weirdness&quot; (Zappos), &quot;Talk less, do more&quot; (IDEO), &quot;Work hard, be nice&quot; (KIPP), &quot;Pound the rock&quot; (San Antonio Spurs), &quot;Leave the jersey in a better place&quot; (New Zealand All-Blacks), &quot;Create raves for guests&quot; (Danny Meyer’s restaurants).</li></ul><p><strong>Measure What Really Matters</strong>: The main challenge to building a clear sense of purpose is that the world is cluttered with noise, distractions, and endless alternative purposes. One solution is to create simple universal measures that place focus on what matters.</p><p><strong>Use Artifacts</strong>: If you traveled from Mars to Earth to visit successful cultures, it would not take you long to figure out what they were about. Their environments are richly embedded with artifacts that embody their purpose and identity.</p><p><strong>Yeah Focus on Bar-Setting Behaviors</strong>: One challenge of building purpose is to translate abstract ideas (values, mission) into concrete terms. One way successful groups do this is by spotlighting a single task and using it to define their identity and set the bar for their expectations.</p><h5><strong>Epilogue</strong></h5><ul><li>We adopted a &quot;What Worked Well/Even Better If&quot; format for the feedback sessions: first celebrating the story’s positives, then offering ideas for improvement.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[Set in the summer of 1922 on Long Island, the story focuses on Jay Gatsby, and his efforts to reunite with his ex-lover, as told by his next-door neighbor.It is now widely considered one of the greatest American novels, and perhaps Fitzgerald's best.Similar to Rules of Civility, it is set between two wars, in a time period now considered quite romantic. The characters are flawed, and the ultimate conclusion dissatisfying, which is perhaps why it is so relatable, despite depicting an exclusive lifestyle.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Quotes</h4><ul><li>Reserving judgments is a matter of infinite hope. I am still a little afraid of missing something if I forget that, as my father snobbishly suggested, and I snobbishly repeat, a sense of the fundamental decencies is parcelled out unequally at birth.</li><li>If personality is an unbroken series of successful gestures, then there was something gorgeous about him, some heightened sensitivity to the promises of life, as if he were related to one of those intricate machines that register earthquakes ten thousand miles away.</li><li>Gatsby believed in the green light, the orgastic future that year by year recedes before us. It eluded us then, but that’s no matter—to-morrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther. And one fine morning—— So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.</li><li>Every one suspects himself of at least one of the cardinal virtues, and this is mine: I am one of the few honest people that I have ever known.</li><li>“Whenever you feel like criticizing any one,” he told me, “just remember that all the people in this world haven’t had the advantages that you’ve had.”</li><li>It is invariably saddening to look through new eyes at things upon which you have expended your own powers of adjustment.</li><li>No amount of fire or freshness can challenge what a man will store up in his ghostly heart.</li><li>I was within and without, simultaneously enchanted and repelled by the inexhaustible variety of life.</li><li>“There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy, and the tired.”</li><li>Americans, while occasionally willing to be serfs, have always been obstinate about being peasantry.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[The OKR (Objectives & Key Results) bible. Worth reading in full for those responsible for implementing OKRs at their company.Rating is a bit lower because of the filler chapters (often stories from companies). Feels like the most actionable points (and most useful) are in the resources at the end.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Key Points</h4><ul><li>Objective = what is to be achieved.</li><li>Key Results = benchmarks that will ensure we reach the objective (measurable &amp; verifiable).</li><li>Hard goals drive performance more effectively than easy goals.</li><li>Objectives should be limited to 3-5 at most, with less than 5 key results each.</li><li>Heuristic: if you&#x27;re certain you&#x27;re going to nail it, you&#x27;re probably not pushing hard enough.</li><li>Ensure you have clear-cut time frames (ie. deadlines).</li><li>Pair KRs to ensure quality is maintained.</li><li>Key results should be succinct, specific, and measurable. A mix of outputs and inputs is helpful. Completion of all KRs must result in attainment of the objective.</li><li>OKRs should be set by a combination of top-down and bottom-up personnel.</li><li>Have committed objectives, which need to be nailed in full, and aspirational objectives, which are expected to be stretch goals which will fail with regularity.</li><li>Disconnect feedback and OKRs from compensation as much as possible. Otherwise, people will sandbag.</li><li>Regular conversations should be held between leaders and contributors to review OKR progress and give feedback.</li></ul><h4>Notes</h4><ul><li>As much as I hate process, good ideas with great execution are how you make magic.</li></ul><h5><strong>Part One: OKRs in Action</strong></h5><h5><strong>1: Google, Meet OKRs</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>OBJECTIVE</strong>, I explained, is simply <strong>WHAT</strong> is to be achieved, no more and no less. By definition, objectives are significant, concrete, action oriented, and (ideally) inspirational.</li><li><strong>KEY RESULTS</strong> benchmark and monitor <strong>HOW</strong> we get to the objective. Effective KRs are specific and time-bound, aggressive yet realistic. Most of all, they are measurable and verifiable.</li><li>Where an objective can be long-lived, rolled over for a year or longer, key results evolve as the work progresses. Once they are all completed, the objective is necessarily achieved.</li><li>First, said Edwin Locke, &quot;hard goals&quot; drive performance more effectively than easy goals. Second, <em>specific</em> hard goals &quot;produce a higher level of output&quot; than vaguely worded ones.</li><li>Many companies have a &quot;rule of seven,&quot; limiting managers to a maximum of seven direct reports. In some cases, Google has flipped the rule to a <em>minimum</em> of seven. (When Jonathan Rosenberg headed Google’s product team, he had as many as twenty.) The higher the ratio of reports, the flatter the org chart—which means less top-down oversight, greater frontline autonomy, and more fertile soil for the next breakthrough.</li></ul><h5><strong>2: The Father of OKRs</strong></h5><ul><li>The key result has to be measurable. But at the end you can look, and without any arguments: Did I do that or did I not do it? Yes? No? Simple. No judgments in it.&quot;</li><li><strong><em>Less is more</em></strong>. &quot;A few extremely well-chosen objectives,&quot; Grove wrote, &quot;impart a clear message about what we say ‘yes’ to and what we say ‘no’ to.&quot; A limit of three to five OKRs per cycle leads companies, teams, and individuals to choose what matters most. In general, each objective should be tied to five or fewer key results.</li><li><strong><em>Set goals from the bottom up</em></strong>. To promote engagement, teams and individuals should be encouraged to create roughly half of their own OKRs, in consultation with managers. When all goals are set top-down, motivation is corroded.</li><li><strong><em>No dictating</em></strong>. OKRs are a cooperative social contract to establish priorities and define how progress will be measured. Even after company objectives are closed to debate, their key results continue to be negotiated. Collective agreement is essential to maximum goal achievement.</li><li><strong><em>Stay flexible</em></strong>. If the climate has changed and an objective no longer seems practical or relevant as written, key results can be modified or even discarded mid-cycle.</li><li><strong><em>Dare to fail</em></strong>. “Output will tend to be greater,” Grove wrote, “when everybody strives for a level of achievement beyond [their] immediate grasp. . . . Such goal-setting is extremely important if what you want is peak performance from yourself and your subordinates.” While certain operational objectives must be met in full, aspirational OKRs should be uncomfortable and possibly unattainable. “Stretched goals,” as Grove called them, push organizations to new heights.</li><li><strong><em>A tool, not a weapon</em></strong>. The OKR system, Grove wrote, “is meant to pace a person—to put a stopwatch in his own hand so he can gauge his own performance. It is not a legal document upon which to base a performance review.” To encourage risk taking and prevent sandbagging, OKRs and bonuses are best kept separate. (See chapter 15, “Continuous Performance Management: OKRs and CFRs.”)</li><li><strong><em>Be patient; be resolute</em></strong>. Every process requires trial and error. As Grove told his iOPEC students, Intel “stumbled a lot of times” after adopting OKRs: “We didn’t fully understand the principal purpose of it. And we are kind of doing better with it as time goes on.” An organization may need up to four or five quarterly cycles to fully embrace the system, and even more than that to build mature goal muscle.</li></ul><h5><strong>4: Superpower #1: Focus and Commit to Priorities</strong></h5><p>Communicate with Clarity</p><ul><li>For sound decision making, esprit de corps, and superior performance, top-line goals must be clearly understood throughout the organization.</li></ul><p>Key Results: Care and Feeding</p><ul><li>Objectives and key results are the yin and yang of goal setting—principle and practice, vision and execution. Objectives are the stuff of inspiration and far horizons. Key results are more earthbound and metric-driven.</li><li>Besides, each key result should be a challenge in its own right. If you’re certain you’re going to nail it, you’re probably not pushing hard enough.</li></ul><p>What, How, When</p><ul><li>The best practice may be a parallel, dual cadence, with short-horizon OKRs (for the here and now) supporting annual OKRs and longer-term strategies. Keep in mind, though, that it’s the shorter-term goals that drive the actual work. They keep annual plans honest—and executed.</li><li>Clear-cut time frames intensify our focus and commitment; nothing moves us forward like a deadline.</li></ul><p>In <em>High Output Management,</em> his leadership bible, Andy Grove notes:</p><ul><li>&quot;For the feedback to be effective, it must be received very soon after the activity it is measuring occurs. Accordingly, an [OKR] system should set objectives for a relatively short period. For example, if we plan on a yearly basis, the corresponding [OKR] time should be at least as often as quarterly or perhaps even monthly.&quot;</li></ul><p>Pairing Key Results</p><ul><li>The more ambitious the OKR, the greater the risk of overlooking a vital criterion. To safeguard quality while pushing for quantitative deliverables, one solution is to pair key results—to measure &quot;both effect and counter-effect,&quot; as Grove wrote in <em>High Output Management</em>. When key results focus on output, Grove noted:</li><li>&quot;[T]heir paired counterparts should stress the quality of [the] work. Thus, in accounts payable, the number of vouchers processed should be paired with the number of errors found either by auditing or by our suppliers. For another example, the number of square feet cleaned by a custodial group should be paired with a . . . rating of the quality of work as assessed by a senior manager with an office in that building.&quot;</li></ul><p>The Perfect and the Good</p><ul><li>A few goal-setting ground rules: Key results should be succinct, specific, and measurable. A mix of outputs and inputs is helpful. Finally, completion of all key results must result in attainment of the objective. If not, it’s not an OKR.</li></ul><p>Less Is More</p><ul><li>In most cases, the ideal number of quarterly OKRs will range between three and five. It may be tempting to usher more objectives inside the velvet rope, but it’s generally a mistake. Too many objectives can blur our focus on what counts, or distract us into chasing the next shiny thing.</li></ul><h5><strong>5: Focus: The Remind Story</strong></h5><ul><li>Brett Kopf: &quot;The system helped my personal focus, too. I tried to limit myself to three or four individual objectives, tops. I printed them out and kept them close on my notepad and next to my computer, everywhere I went.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>7: Superpower #2: Align and Connect for Teamwork</strong></h5><p>The Grand Cascade</p><ul><li>In moderation, cascading makes an operation more coherent. But when <em>all</em> objectives are cascaded, the process can degrade into a mechanical, color-by-numbers exercise, with four adverse effects:</li></ul><h5><strong>10: Superpower #3: Track for Accountability</strong></h5><ul><li>OKRs are adaptable by nature. They’re meant to be guardrails, not chains or blinders. As we track and audit our OKRs, we have four options at any point in the cycle:</li><li><em>Continue</em>: If a green zone (&quot;on track&quot;) goal isn’t broken, don’t fix it.</li><li><em>Update</em>: Modify a yellow zone (&quot;needs attention&quot;) key result or objective to respond to changes in the workflow or external environment. What could be done differently to get the goal on track? Does it need a revised time line? Do we back-burner other initiatives to free up resources for this one?</li><li><em>Start</em>: Launch a new OKR mid-cycle, whenever the need arises.</li><li><em>Stop</em>: When a red zone (&quot;at risk&quot;) goal has outlived its usefulness, the best solution may be to drop it.</li><li>For best results, OKRs are scrutinized several times per quarter by contributors and their managers.</li></ul><p>Scoring</p><ul><li>The simplest, cleanest way to score an objective is by averaging the percentage completion rates of its associated key results. Google uses a scale of 0 to 1.0:</li><li>0.7 to 1.0 = green. (We delivered.)</li><li>0.4 to 0.6 = yellow. (We made progress, but fell short of completion.)</li><li>0.0 to 0.3 = red. (We failed to make real progress.)</li></ul><p>Self-assessment</p><ul><li>In evaluating OKR performance, objective data is enhanced by the goal setter’s thoughtful, subjective judgment.</li></ul><p>Reflection</p><ul><li>OKRs are inherently action oriented. But when action is relentless and unceasing, it can be a hamster wheel of grim striving. In my view, the key to satisfaction is to set aggressive goals, achieve most of them, pause to reflect on the achievement, and <em>then</em> repeat the cycle.</li><li>Here are some reflections for closing out an OKR cycle:</li><li>Did I accomplish all of my objectives? If so, what contributed to my success?</li><li>If not, what obstacles did I encounter?</li><li>If I were to rewrite a goal achieved in full, what would I change?</li><li>What have I learned that might alter my approach to the next cycle’s OKRs?</li></ul><h5><strong>12: Superpower #4: Stretch for Amazing</strong></h5><ul><li>Bill Campbell liked to say: &quot;If companies don’t continue to innovate, they’re going to die—and I didn’t say iterate , I said innovate.&quot;</li><li>Sometimes stretch goals represent “ordinary” work at an extraordinary level. But regardless of scope of scale, they fit my favorite definition of entrepreneurs:</li><li><em>Those who do more than anyone thinks possible . . . with less than anyone thinks possible.</em></li><li>(By contrast with bureaucrats, who do less than anyone thinks possible with more than anyone thinks possible)</li></ul><p>Two OKR Baskets</p><ul><li>Google divides its OKRs into two categories, committed goals and aspirational (or &quot;stretch&quot;) goals. It’s a distinction with a real difference.</li><li><em>Committedobjectives</em> are tied to Google’s metrics: product releases, bookings, hiring, customers. Management sets them at the company level, employees at the departmental level. In general, these committed objectives—such as sales and revenue goals—are to be achieved in full (100 percent) within a set time frame.</li><li><em>Aspirational objectives</em> reflect bigger-picture, higher-risk, more future-tilting ideas. They originate from any tier and aim to mobilize the entire organization. By definition, they are challenging to achieve. Failures—at an average rate of 40 percent—are part of Google’s territory.</li></ul><p>Stretch Variables</p><ul><li>At MyFitnessPal, Mike Lee considers <em>all</em> OKRs to be committed goals: difficult and demanding, yes, but attainable in full. &quot;I am trying to set the bar right at where I think it should be,&quot; he says. &quot;If we get them all done, I’ll feel good about our progress.&quot; That’s a reasonable approach, but not without pitfalls. Will Mike’s people shy away from objectives where they might top out at 90 percent? In my view, it’s better for leaders to set at least a modest stretch.</li><li>There is no one magic number for the &quot;right&quot; stretch. But consider this: How can your team create maximum value? What would <em>amazing</em> look like? If you seek to achieve greatness, stretching for amazing is a great place to start. But by no means, as Andy Grove made clear, is it the place to stop:</li><li>You know, in our business we have to set ourselves uncomfortably tough objectives, and then we have to meet them. <em>And then after ten milliseconds of celebration</em> we have to set ourselves another [set of] highly difficult-to-reach objectives and we have to meet them. And the reward of having met one of these challenging goals is that you get to play again.</li></ul><h5><strong>14: Stretch: The YouTube Story</strong></h5><ul><li>Cristos Goodrow: Engineers struggle with goal setting in two big ways. They hate crossing off anything they think is a good idea, and they habitually underestimate how long it takes to get things done.</li><li>As Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella has pointed out: In a world where computing power is nearly limitless, &quot;the true scarce commodity is increasingly human attention.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>Part Two: The New World of Work</strong></h5><h5><strong>15: Continuous Performance Management: OKRs and CFRs</strong></h5><ul><li>We need a new HR model for the new world of work. The contemporary alternative to annual reviews, is <em>continuous performance management</em>. It is implemented with an instrument called CFRs, for:</li><li><em>Conversations</em>: an authentic, richly textured exchange between manager and contributor, aimed at driving performance.</li><li><em>Feedback</em>: bidirectional or networked communication among peers to evaluate progress and guide future improvement.</li><li><em>Recognition</em>: expressions of appreciation to deserving individuals for contributions of all sizes.</li></ul><p>An Amicable Divorce</p><ul><li>For companies moving to continuous performance management, the first step is blunt and straightforward: Divorce compensation (both raises and bonuses) from OKRs. These should be two distinct conversations, with their own cadences and calendars. The first is a backward-looking assessment, typically held at year’s end. The second is an ongoing, forward-looking dialogue between leaders and contributors. It centers on five questions:</li><li>What are you working on?</li><li>How are you doing; how are your OKRs coming along?</li><li>Is there anything impeding your work?</li><li>What do you need from me to be (more) successful?</li><li>How do you need to grow to achieve your career goals?</li></ul><p>Conversations</p><ul><li>Based on BetterWorks’ experience with hundreds of enterprises, five critical areas have emerged of conversation between manager and contributor:</li><li><em>Goal setting and reflection</em>, where the employee’s OKR plan is set for the coming cycle. The discussion focuses on how best to align individual objectives and key results with organizational priorities.</li><li><em>Ongoing progress updates</em>, the brief and data-driven check-ins on the employee’s real-time progress, with problem solving as needed.</li><li><em>Two-way coaching</em>, to help contributors reach their potential and managers do a better job.</li><li><em>Career growth</em>, to develop skills, identify growth opportunities, and expand employees’ vision of their future at the company.</li><li><em>Lightweight performance reviews</em>, a feedback mechanism to gather inputs and summarize what the employee has accomplished since the last meeting, in the context of the organization’s needs. (<em>As noted earlier, this conversation is held apart from an employee’s annual compensation/bonus review.</em>)</li></ul><p>Feedback</p><ul><li>Feedback can be highly constructive—but only if it is specific.</li><li><em>Negative feedback</em>: &quot;You started the meeting late last week, and it came off as disorganized.&quot;</li><li><em>Positive feedback</em>: &quot;You did a great job with the presentation. You really grabbed their attention with your opening anecdote, and I loved how you closed with next action steps.&quot;</li></ul><p>Recognition</p><ul><li>Continuous recognition is a powerful driver of engagement: &quot;As soft as it seems, saying ‘thank you’ is an extraordinary tool to building an engaged team. . . . ‘[H]igh-recognition’ companies have 31 percent lower voluntary turnover than companies with poor recognition cultures.&quot; Here are some ways to implement it:</li><li><em>Institute peer-to-peer recognition</em>. When employee achievements are consistently recognized by peers, a culture of gratitude is born. At Zume Pizza, the Friday all-hands roundup meeting concludes with a series of unsolicited, unedited shout-outs from anyone in the organization to anyone else who’s done something remarkable.</li><li><em>Establish clear criteria</em>. Recognize people for actions and results: completion of special projects, achievement of company goals, demonstrations of company values. Replace Employee of the Month with &quot;Achievement of the Month.&quot;</li><li><em>Share recognition stories</em>. Newsletters or company blogs can supply the narrative behind the accomplishment, giving recognition more meaning.</li><li><em>Make recognition frequent and attainable</em>. Hail smaller accomplishments, too: that extra effort to meet a deadline, that special polish on a proposal, the little things a manager might take for granted.</li><li><em>Tie recognition to company goals and strategies</em>. Customer service, innovation, teamwork, cost cutting—any organizational priority can be supported by a timely shout-out.</li></ul><h5><strong>17: Baking Better Every Day: The Zume Pizza Story</strong></h5><p>Better Discipline</p><ul><li>Early on in your career, when you’re an individual contributor, you’re graded on the volume and quality of your work. Then one day, all of a sudden, you’re a manager. Let’s assume you do well and move up to manage more and more people. Now you’re no longer paid for the amount of work you do; you’re paid for the quality of decisions you make. But no one tells you the rules have changed. When you hit a wall, you think, I’ll just work harder—that’s what got me here.</li></ul><p>Better Conversations</p><ul><li>Alex Garden: Every two weeks, each person at Zume has a one-hour, one-on-one conversation with whomever they report to. (Julia and I converse with each other.) It’s a sacred time. You cannot be late; you cannot cancel. There’s only one other rule: You don’t talk about work. The agenda is you, the individual, and what you are trying to accomplish personally over the next two to three years, and how you’re breaking that into a two-week plan. I like to start with three questions:</li><li>What makes you very happy?</li><li>What saps your energy?</li><li>How would you describe your dream job?</li></ul><h5><strong>18: Culture</strong></h5><ul><li>In Project Aristotle, an internal Google study of 180 teams, standout performance correlated to affirmative responses to these five questions:</li><li><strong>Structure and clarity</strong>: Are goals, roles, and execution plans on our team clear?</li><li><strong>Psychological safety</strong>: Can we take risks on this team without feeling insecure or embarrassed?</li><li><strong>Meaning of work</strong>: Are we working on something that is personally important for each of us?</li><li><strong>Dependability</strong>: Can we count on each other to do high-quality work on time?</li><li><strong>Impact of work</strong>: Do we fundamentally believe that the work we’re doing matters?</li><li>In <em>The Progress Principle</em>, Teresa Amabile and Steven Kramer analyzed 26 project teams, 238 individuals, and 12,000 employee diary entries. High-motivation cultures, they concluded, rely on a mix of two elements.</li><li><em>Catalysts</em>, defined as &quot;actions that support work,&quot; sound much like OKRs: &quot;They include setting clear goals, allowing autonomy, providing sufficient resources and time, helping with the work, openly learning from problems and successes, and allowing a free exchange of ideas.&quot;</li><li><em>Nourishers</em> —&quot;acts of interpersonal support&quot;—bear a striking resemblance to CFRs: &quot;respect and recognition, encouragement, emotional comfort, and opportunities for affiliation.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>Resource 1: Google’s OKR Playbook</strong></h5><p>Writing Effective OKRs</p><p>Writing good OKRs isn’t easy, but it’s not impossible, either. Pay attention to the following simple rules:</p><p><strong>Objectives are the “Whats.&quot; They:</strong></p><ul><li>express goals and intents;</li><li>are aggressive yet realistic;</li><li>must be tangible, objective, and unambiguous; should be obvious to a rational observer whether an objective has been achieved.</li><li>The successful achievement of an objective must provide clear value for Google.</li></ul><p><strong>Key Results are the “Hows.&quot; They:</strong></p><ul><li>express measurable milestones which, if achieved, will advance objective(s) in a useful manner to their constituents;</li><li>must describe outcomes, not activities. If your KRs include words like consult, help, analyze, or participate, they describe activities. Instead, describe the end-user impact of these activities: publish average and tail latency measurements from six Colossus cells by March 7, rather than assess Colossus latency;</li><li>must include evidence of completion. This evidence must be available, credible, and easily discoverable. Examples of evidence include change lists, links to docs, notes, and published metrics reports.</li></ul><p>Committed vs. Aspirational OKRs</p><ul><li>OKRs have two variants, and it is important to differentiate between them:</li><li><em>Commitments</em> are OKRs that we agree will be achieved, and we will be willing to adjust schedules and resources to ensure that they are delivered.</li><li>The expected score for a committed OKR is 1.0; a score of less than 1.0 requires explanation for the miss, as it shows errors in planning and/or execution.</li><li>By contrast, <em>aspirational</em> OKRs express how we’d like the world to look, even though we have no clear idea how to get there and/or the resources necessary to deliver the OKR.</li><li>Aspirational OKRs have an expected average score of 0.7, with high variance.</li></ul><p>Classic OKR-Writing Mistakes and Traps</p><p><strong>TRAP #1: Failing to differentiate between committed and aspirational OKRs.</strong></p><ul><li>Marking a committed OKR as aspirational increases the chance of failure. Teams may not take it seriously and may not change their other priorities to focus on delivering the OKR.On the other hand, marking an aspirational OKR as committed creates defensiveness in teams who cannot find a way to deliver the OKR, and it invites priority inversion as committed OKRs are de-staffed to focus on the aspirational OKR.</li></ul><p><strong>TRAP #2: Business-as-usual OKRs.</strong></p><ul><li>OKRs are often written principally based on what the team believes it can achieve without changing anything they’re currently doing, as opposed to what the team or its customers really want.</li></ul><p><strong>TRAP #3: Timid aspirational OKRs.</strong></p><ul><li>Aspirational OKRs very often start from the current state and effectively ask, &quot;What could we do if we had extra staff and got a bit lucky?&quot; An alternative and better approach is to start with, &quot;What could my [or my customers’] world look like in several years if we were freed from most constraints?&quot; By definition, you’re not going to know how to achieve this state when the OKR is first formulated—that is why it is an aspirational OKR. But without understanding and articulating the desired end state, you guarantee that you are not going to be able to achieve it.</li><li>The litmus test: If you ask your customers what they really want, does your aspirational objective meet or exceed their request?</li></ul><p><strong>TRAP #4: Sandbagging.</strong></p><ul><li>A team’s committed OKRs should credibly consume most but not all of their available resources. Their committed + aspirational OKRs should credibly consume somewhat more than their available resources. (Otherwise they’re effectively commits.)</li><li>Teams who can meet all of their OKRs without needing all of their team’s headcount/capital . . . are assumed to either be hoarding resources or not pushing their teams, or both. This is a cue for senior management to reassign headcount and other resources to groups who will make more effective use of them.</li></ul><p><strong>TRAP #5: Low Value Objectives (aka the &quot;Who cares?&quot; OKR).</strong></p><ul><li>OKRs must promise clear business value—otherwise, there’s no reason to expend resources doing them. Low Value Objectives (LVOs) are those for which, even if the Objective is completed with a 1.0, no one will notice or care.</li><li>A classic (and seductive) LVO example: &quot;Increase task CPU utilization by 3 percent.&quot; This objective by itself does not help users or Google directly. However, the (presumably related) goal, Decrease quantity of cores required to serve peak queries by 3 percent with no change to quality/latency/ . . . and return resulting excess cores to the free pool has clear economic value. That’s a superior objective.</li><li>Here is a litmus test: Could the OKR get a 1.0 under reasonable circumstances without providing direct end-user or economic benefit? If so, then reword the OKR to focus on the tangible benefit. A classic example: &quot;Launch X,&quot; with no criteria for success. Better: &quot;Double fleet-wide Y by launching X to 90+ percent of borg cells.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>TRAP #6: Insufficient KRs for committed Os.</strong></p><ul><li>OKRs are divided into the desired outcome (the objective) and the measurable steps required to achieve that outcome (the key results). It is critical that KRs are written such that scoring 1.0 on all key results generates a 1.0 score for the objective.</li><li>A common error is writing key results that are <em>necessary but not sufficient</em> to collectively complete the objective. The error is tempting because it allows a team to avoid the difficult (resource/priority/risk) commitments needed to deliver “hard” key results.</li><li>This trap is particularly pernicious because it delays both the discovery of the resource requirements for the objective, and the discovery that the objective will not be completed on schedule.</li><li>The litmus test: Is it reasonably possible to score 1.0 on all the key results but still not achieve the intent of the objective? If so, add or rework the key results until their successful completion guarantees that the objective is also successfully completed.</li></ul><p>Reading, Interpreting, and Acting on OKRs</p><ul><li><strong>For committed OKRs</strong></li><li>Teams are expected to rearrange their other priorities to ensure an on-schedule 1.0 delivery.Teams who cannot credibly promise to deliver a 1.0 on a committed OKR must escalate promptly. <em>This is a key point</em>: Escalating in this (common) situation is not only OK, it is required.</li><li>A committed OKR that fails to achieve a 1.0 by its due date requires a postmortem. This is not intended to punish teams. It is intended to understand what occurred in the planning and/or execution of the OKR, so that teams may improve their ability to reliably hit 1.0 on committed OKRs.</li><li><strong>Aspirational OKRs</strong></li><li>The set of aspirational OKRs will by design exceed the team’s ability to execute in a given quarter. The OKRs’ priority should inform team members’ decisions on where to spend the remaining time they have after the group’s commitments are met. In general, higher priority OKRs should be completed before lower priority OKRs.</li><li>Aspirational OKRs and their associated priorities should remain on a team’s OKR list until they are completed, carrying them forward from quarter to quarter as necessary. Dropping them from the OKR list because of lack of progress is a mistake, as it disguises persistent problems of prioritization, resource availability, or a lack of understanding of the problem/solution.</li><li>Corollary: It is good to move an aspirational OKR to a different team’s list if that team has both the expertise and bandwidth to accomplish the OKR more effectively than the current OKR owner.</li></ul><p>More Litmus Tests</p><ul><li>Some simple tests to see if your OKRs are good:</li><li>If you wrote them down in five minutes, they probably aren’t good. Think.</li><li>If your objective doesn’t fit on one line, it probably isn’t crisp enough.</li><li>If your KRs are expressed in team-internal terms (“Launch Foo 4.1”), they probably aren’t good. What matters isn’t the launch, but its impact. Why is Foo 4.1 important? Better: “Launch Foo 4.1 to improve sign-ups by 25 percent.” Or simply: “Improve sign-ups by 25 percent.”</li><li>Use real dates. If every key result happens on the last day of the quarter, you likely don’t have a real plan.</li><li>Make sure your key results are measurable: It must be possible to objectively assign a grade at the end of the quarter. “Improve sign-ups” isn’t a good key result. Better: “Improve daily sign-ups by 25 percent by May 1.”</li><li>Make sure the metrics are unambiguous. If you say “1 million users,” is that all-time users or seven-day actives?</li><li>If there are important activities on your team (or a significant fraction of its effort) that aren’t covered by OKRs, add more.</li><li>For larger groups, make OKRs hierarchical—have high-level ones for the entire team, more detailed ones for sub-teams. Make sure that the “horizontal&quot; OKRs (projects that need multiple teams to contribute) have supporting key results in each sub-team.</li></ul><h5><strong>RESOURCE 2: A Typical OKR Cycle</strong></h5><h5><strong>RESOURCE 3: All Talk: Performance Conversations</strong></h5><h5><strong>RESOURCE 4: In Sum</strong></h5><ul><li>Four Superpowers of OKRs</li><li>Focus and Commit to Priorities</li><li>Align and Connect for Teamwork</li><li>Track for Accountability</li><li>Stretch for Amazing</li></ul><p>Align and Connect for Teamwork</p><ul><li>When deploying cascaded OKRs, with objectives driven from the top, welcome give-and-take on key results from frontline contributors. Innovation dwells less at a company’s center than at its edges.</li><li>Smash departmental silos by connecting teams with horizontally shared OKRs. Cross-functional operations enable quick and coordinated decisions, the basis for seizing a competitive advantage.</li></ul><p>Stretch for Amazing</p><ul><li>To stimulate problem solving and spur people to greater achievement, set ambitious goals—even if it means some quarterly targets will be missed. But don’t set the bar so high that an OKR is obviously unrealistic. Morale suffers when people know they can’t succeed.</li></ul><p>Continuous Performance Management</p><ul><li>Unleash ambitious goal setting by divorcing forward-looking OKRs from backward-looking annual reviews. Equating goal attainment to bonus checks will invite sandbagging and risk-averse behavior.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A great book on developing broad expertise instead of specializing in a narrow field.Not only does this provide some welcome respite from the common narrative that "you must specialize early", but it provides context for why broad experience can be a big advantage.The book provides guidance on finding your optimal work and life, and how to view explorations that might seem inefficient (and how to make the most of them).]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Key Points</h4><p>We are often pushed to focus early, and that is often not the optimal path. The top performers in many fields often have a large &quot;sampling period&quot; where they try many things, and then when they find something they like, they naturally tend to dedicate more time to it.</p><p>For those that are interested in many things, or who have interests that change, they are often plagued with the thought &quot;I am so behind&quot;, rather than viewing their experience as a unique advantage.</p><ul><li>&quot;The challenge we all face is how to maintain the benefits of breadth, diverse experience, interdisciplinary thinking, and delayed concentration in a world that increasingly incentivizes, even demands, hyperspecialization.&quot;</li></ul><p>Experience leads to expertise only in &quot;kind&quot; environments, where there are repeating patterns, like firefighting and chess.</p><p>In &quot;wicked&quot; domains, where the rules are unclear or incomplete, narrow experience doesn&#x27;t improve outcomes.</p><ul><li>&quot;When narrow specialization is combined with an unkind domain, the human tendency to rely on experience of familiar patterns can backfire horribly—like the expert firefighters who suddenly make poor choices when faced with a fire in an unfamiliar structure.&quot;</li></ul><p>&quot;Our greatest strength is the exact opposite of narrow specialization. It is the ability to integrate broadly.&quot;</p><p>The other benefit of broad experience is that the more constrained and repetitive a challenge, the more likely it is to be automated in future.</p><ul><li>&quot;great rewards will accrue to those who can take conceptual knowledge from one problem or domain and apply it in an entirely new one&quot;</li></ul><p>We should generally try to learn like improve masters: &quot;dive in and imitate and improvise first, learn the formal rules later.&quot;</p><p>Learning that sticks and can be applied broadly is often slow and frustrating. We need to find ways to incentivize this kind of learning.</p><ul><li>&quot;Hypercorrection effect: The more confident a learner is of their wrong answer, the better the information sticks when they subsequently learn the right answer. Tolerating big mistakes can create the best learning opportunities.&quot;</li></ul><p>Three learning strategies with scientific backing: spacing, testing, and using making-connection questions (these all impair performance in the short-term).</p><p>&quot;The feeling of learning is based on before-your-eyes progress, while deep learning is not.&quot;</p><p>Analogical thinking–taking learning and experience from one domain, and applying it to another–allows us to reason through problems that we haven&#x27;t seen before.</p><p>To be a successful problem-solver, you must learn how to determine the deep structure of problems first, and then match a strategy, instead of classifying problems by superficial things like their domain.</p><ul><li>&quot;As education pioneer John Dewey put it in Logic, The Theory of Inquiry, &quot;a problem well put is half-solved.&quot;&quot;</li></ul><p>We often set goals and objectives based on the theory that we will never change. This is a problem, as we are always changing, yet we don&#x27;t think we will in the future.</p><ul><li>&quot;Psychologist Dan Gilbert called it the &quot;end of history illusion.&quot; From teenagers to senior citizens, we recognize that our desires and motivations sure changed a lot in the past (see: your old hairstyle), but believe they will not change much in the future. In Gilbert’s terms, we are works in progress claiming to be finished.&quot;</li></ul><p>We can maximize our fit with our work and our life by &quot;sampling activities, social groups, contexts, jobs, careers, and then reflecting and adjusting our personal narratives. And repeat.&quot;</p><ul><li>&quot;Rather than expecting an ironclad a priori answer to &quot;Who do I really want to become?,&quot; their work indicated that it is better to be a scientist of yourself, asking smaller questions that can actually be tested—&quot;Which among my various possible selves should I start to explore now? How can I do that?&quot;&quot;</li></ul><p>Experts are terrible forecasters, and often worse than amateurs because their confidence is much higher.</p><ul><li>&quot;the core trait of the best forecasters to me as: &quot;genuinely curious about, well, really everything.&quot;&quot;</li></ul><p>&quot;Don&#x27;t feel behind. Compare yourself to yourself yesterday, not to younger people who aren&#x27;t you.&quot;</p><h4><strong>Notes</strong></h4><p><strong>Introduction: Roger vs. Tiger</strong></p><ul><li>The push to focus early and narrowly extends well beyond sports. We are often taught that the more competitive and complicated the world gets, the more specialized we all must become (and the earlier we must start) to navigate it.</li><li>Prominent sports scientist Ross Tucker summed up research in the field simply: &quot;We know that early sampling is key, as is diversity.&quot;</li><li>Somehow, a unique advantage had morphed in their heads into a liability.</li><li>I began worrying that I was a job-commitment-phobic drifter who must be doing this whole career thing wrong.</li><li>The challenge we all face is how to maintain the benefits of breadth, diverse experience, interdisciplinary thinking, and delayed concentration in a world that increasingly incentivizes, even demands, hyperspecialization.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 1: The Cult of the Head Start</strong></p><ul><li>Whether or not experience inevitably led to expertise, they agreed, depended entirely on the domain in question. Narrow experience made for better chess and poker players and firefighters, but not for better predictors of financial or political trends, or of how employees or patients would perform.</li><li>In wicked domains, the rules of the game are often unclear or incomplete, there may or may not be repetitive patterns and they may not be obvious, and feedback is often delayed, inaccurate, or both.</li><li>Our greatest strength is the exact opposite of narrow specialization. It is the ability to integrate broadly.</li><li>When narrow specialization is combined with an unkind domain, the human tendency to rely on experience of familiar patterns can backfire horribly—like the expert firefighters who suddenly make poor choices when faced with a fire in an unfamiliar structure.</li><li>Scientists and members of the general public are about equally likely to have artistic hobbies, but scientists inducted into the highest national academies are much more likely to have avocations outside of their vocation. And those who have won the Nobel Prize are more likely still.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 2: How the Wicked World Was Made</strong></p><ul><li>The more constrained and repetitive a challenge, the more likely it will be automated, while great rewards will accrue to those who can take conceptual knowledge from one problem or domain and apply it in an entirely new one.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 3: When Less of the Same Is More</strong></p><ul><li>The psychologists highlighted the variety of paths to excellence, but the most common was a sampling period, often lightly structured with some lessons and a breadth of instruments and activities, followed only later by a narrowing of focus, increased structure, and an explosion of practice volume.</li><li>Improv masters learn like babies: dive in and imitate and improvise first, learn the formal rules later.</li><li>In totality, the picture is in line with a classic research finding that is not specific to music: breadth of training predicts breadth of transfer. That is, the more contexts in which something is learned, the more the learner creates abstract models, and the less they rely on any particular example. Learners become better at applying their knowledge to a situation they’ve never seen before, which is the essence of creativity.</li><li>In offering advice to parents, psychologist Adam Grant noted that creativity may be difficult to nurture, but it is easy to thwart. He pointed to a study that found an average of six household rules for typical children, compared to one in households with extremely creative children. The parents with creative children made their opinions known after their kids did something they didn’t like, they just did not proscribe it beforehand. Their households were low on prior restraint.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 4: Learning, Fast and Slow</strong></p><ul><li>For learning that is both durable (it sticks) and flexible (it can be applied broadly), fast and easy is precisely the problem.</li><li>Kornell was explaining the concept of &quot;desirable difficulties,&quot; obstacles that make learning more challenging, slower, and more frustrating in the short term, but better in the long term.</li><li>One of those desirable difficulties is known as the&quot; generation effect.&quot; Struggling to generate an answer on your own, even a wrong one, enhances subsequent learning.</li><li>Metcalfe and colleagues have repeatedly demonstrated a &quot;hypercorrection effect.&quot; The more confident a learner is of their wrong answer, the better the information sticks when they subsequently learn the right answer. Tolerating big mistakes can create the best learning opportunities.</li><li>Like a lot of professional development efforts, each particular concept or skill gets a short period of intense focus, and then on to the next thing, never to return. That structure makes intuitive sense, but it forgoes another important desirable difficulty: “spacing,&quot; or distributed practice.</li><li>In 2007, the U.S. Department of Education published a report by six scientists and an accomplished teacher who were asked to identify learning strategies that truly have scientific backing. Spacing, testing, and using making-connections questions were on the extremely short list. All three impair performance in the short term.</li><li>As with the making-connections questions Richland studied, it is difficult to accept that the best learning road is slow, and that doing poorly now is essential for better performance later. It is so deeply counterintuitive that it fools the learners themselves, both about their own progress and their teachers’ skill.</li><li>Unsurprisingly, there was a group of Calculus I professors whose instruction most strongly boosted student performance on the Calculus I exam, and who got sterling student evaluation ratings. Another group of professors consistently added less to student performance on the exam, and students judged them more harshly in evaluations. But when the economists looked at another, longer-term measure of teacher value added—how those students did on subsequent math and engineering courses that required Calculus I as a prerequisite—the results were stunning. The Calculus I teachers who were the best at promoting student overachievement in their own class were somehow not great for their students in the long run. &quot;Professors who excel at promoting contemporaneous student achievement,&quot; the economists wrote, &quot;on average, harm the subsequent performance of their students in more advanced classes.&quot; What looked like a head start evaporated.</li><li>In a study using college math problems, students who learned in blocks—all examples of a particular type of problem at once—performed a lot worse come test time than students who studied the exact same problems but all mixed up. The blocked-practice students learned procedures for each type of problem through repetition. The mixed-practice students learned how to differentiate types of problems.</li><li>The feeling of learning, it turns out, is based on before-your-eyes progress, while deep learning is not. &quot;When your intuition says block,&quot; Kornell told me, &quot;you should probably interleave.&quot;</li><li>Interleaving is a desirable difficulty that frequently holds for both physical and mental skills.</li><li>Whether chemists, physicists, or political scientists, the most successful problem solvers spend mental energy figuring out what type of problem they are facing before matching a strategy to it, rather than jumping in with memorized procedures. In that way, they are just about the precise opposite of experts who develop in kind learning environments, like chess masters, who rely heavily on intuition. Kind learning environment experts choose a strategy and then evaluate; experts in less repetitive environments evaluate and then choose.</li><li>The research team recommended that if programs want to impart lasting academic benefits they should focus instead on “open&quot; skills that scaffold later knowledge. Teaching kids to read a little early is not a lasting advantage. Teaching them how to hunt for and connect contextual clues to understand what they read can be. As with all desirable difficulties, the trouble is that a head start comes fast, but deep learning is slow. &quot;The slowest growth,&quot; the researchers wrote, &quot;occurs for the most complex skills.&quot;</li><li>When a knowledge structure is so flexible that it can be applied effectively even in new domains or extremely novel situations, it is called &quot;far transfer.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 5: Thinking Outside Experience</strong></p><ul><li>Deep analogical thinking is the practice of recognizing conceptual similarities in multiple domains or scenarios that may seem to have little in common on the surface.</li><li>Analogical thinking takes the new and makes it familiar, or takes the familiar and puts it in a new light, and allows humans to reason through problems they have never seen in unfamiliar contexts. It also allows us to understand that which we cannot see at all. Students might learn about the motion of molecules by analogy to billiard-ball collisions; principles of electricity can be understood with analogies to water flow through plumbing.</li><li>The trouble with using no more than a single analogy, particularly one from a very similar situation, is that it does not help battle the natural impulse to employ the &quot;inside view,&quot; a term coined by psychologists Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky. We take the inside view when we make judgments based narrowly on the details of a particular project that are right in front of us.</li><li>Our natural inclination to take the inside view can be defeated by following analogies to the &quot;outside view.&quot; The outside view probes for deep structural similarities to the current problem in different ones.</li><li>The outside view is deeply counterintuitive because it requires a decision maker to ignore unique surface features of the current project, on which they are the expert, and instead look outside for structurally similar analogies. It requires a mindset switch from narrow to broad.</li><li>Netflix came to a similar conclusion for improving its recommendation algorithm. Decoding movies’ traits to figure out what you like was very complex and less accurate than simply analogizing you to many other customers with similar viewing histories. Instead of predicting what you might like, they examine who you are like, and the complexity is captured therein.</li><li>Interestingly, if the researchers used only the single film that the movie fans ranked as most analogous to the new release, predictive power collapsed. What seemed like the single best analogy did not do well on its own. Using a full &quot;reference class&quot; of analogies—the pillar of the outside view—was immensely more accurate.</li><li>In 2001, the Boston Consulting Group, one of the most successful in the world, created an intranet site to provide consultants with collections of material to facilitate wide-ranging analogical thinking. The interactive “exhibits&quot; were sorted by discipline (anthropology, psychology, history, and others), concept (change, logistics, productivity, and so on), and strategic theme (competition, cooperation, unions and alliances, and more).</li><li>If that all sounds incredibly remote from pressing business concerns, that is exactly the point.</li><li>In one of the most cited studies of expert problem solving ever conducted, an interdisciplinary team of scientists came to a pretty simple conclusion: successful problem solvers are more able to determine the deep structure of a problem before they proceed to match a strategy to it. Less successful problem solvers are more like most students in the Ambiguous Sorting Task: they mentally classify problems only by superficial, overtly stated features, like the domain context.</li><li>For the best performers, they wrote, problem solving &quot;begins with the typing of the problem.&quot;</li><li>As education pioneer John Dewey put it in Logic, The Theory of Inquiry, &quot;a problem well put is half-solved.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 6: The Trouble with Too Much Grit</strong></p><ul><li>&quot;Match quality&quot; is a term economists use to describe the degree of fit between the work someone does and who they are—their abilities and proclivities.</li><li>Learning stuff was less important than learning about oneself. Exploration is not just a whimsical luxury of education; it is a central benefit.</li><li>Seth Godin, author of some of the most popular career writing in the world, wrote a book disparaging the idea that &quot;quitters never win.&quot; Godin argued that &quot;winners&quot;—he generally meant individuals who reach the apex of their domain—quit fast and often when they detect that a plan is not the best fit, and do not feel bad about it. &quot;We fail,&quot; he wrote, &quot;when we stick with tasks we don’t have the guts to quit.&quot; Godin clearly did not advocate quitting simply because a pursuit is difficult.</li><li>A recent international Gallup survey of more than two hundred thousand workers in 150 countries reported that 85 percent were either &quot;not engaged&quot; with their work or &quot;actively disengaged.&quot; In that condition, according to Seth Godin, quitting takes a lot more guts than continuing to be carried along like debris on an ocean wave. The trouble, Godin noted, is that humans are bedeviled by the &quot;sunk cost fallacy.&quot; Having invested time or money in something, we are loath to leave it, because that would mean we had wasted our time or money, even though it is already gone.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 7: Flirting with Your Possible Selves</strong></p><ul><li>Dark horses were on the hunt for match quality. &quot;They never look around and say, ‘Oh, I’m going to fall behind, these people started earlier and have more than me at a younger age,’&quot; Ogas told me. &quot;They focused on, ‘Here’s who I am at the moment, here are my motivations, here’s what I’ve found I like to do, here’s what I’d like to learn, and here are the opportunities. Which of these is the best match right now? And maybe a year from now I’ll switch because I’ll find something better.’&quot;</li><li>Ogas uses the shorthand &quot;standardization covenant&quot; for the cultural notion that it is rational to trade a winding path of self-exploration for a rigid goal with a head start because it ensures stability.</li><li>Career goals that once felt safe and certain can appear ludicrous, to use Darwin’s adjective, when examined in the light of more self-knowledge. Our work preferences and our life preferences do not stay the same, because we do not stay the same.</li><li>Psychologist Dan Gilbert called it the &quot;end of history illusion.&quot; From teenagers to senior citizens, we recognize that our desires and motivations sure changed a lot in the past (see: your old hairstyle), but believe they will not change much in the future. In Gilbert’s terms, we are works in progress claiming to be finished.</li><li>Instead of asking whether someone is gritty, we should ask when they are. &quot;If you get someone into a context that suits them,&quot; Ogas said, &quot;they’ll more likely work hard and it will look like grit from the outside.&quot;</li><li>When she compiled her findings, the central premise was at once simple and profound: we learn who we are only by living, and not before.</li><li>Ibarra concluded that we maximize match quality throughout life by sampling activities, social groups, contexts, jobs, careers, and then reflecting and adjusting our personal narratives. And repeat.</li><li>Themes emerged in the transitions. The protagonists had begun to feel unfulfilled by their work, and then a chance encounter with some world previously invisible to them led to a series of short-term explorations.</li><li>Ibarra’s advice is nearly identical to the short-term planning the Dark Horse researchers documented. Rather than expecting an ironclad a priori answer to &quot;Who do I really want to become?,&quot; their work indicated that it is better to be a scientist of yourself, asking smaller questions that can actually be tested—&quot;Which among my various possible selves should I start to explore now? How can I do that?&quot; Be a flirt with your possible selves.* Rather than a grand plan, find experiments that can be undertaken quickly. &quot;Test-and-learn,&quot; Ibarra told me, &quot;not plan-and-implement.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 8: The Outsider Advantage</strong></p><ul><li>Lakhani: &quot;Big innovation most often happens when an outsider who may be far away from the surface of the problem reframes the problem in a way that unlocks the solution.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 9: Lateral Thinking with Withered Technology</strong></p><ul><li>Eminent physicist and mathematician Freeman Dyson styled it this way: we need both focused frogs and visionary birds. &quot;Birds fly high in the air and survey broad vistas of mathematics out to the far horizon,&quot; Dyson wrote in 2009. &quot;They delight in concepts that unify our thinking and bring together diverse problems from different parts of the landscape. Frogs live in the mud below and see only the flowers that grow nearby. They delight in the details of particular objects, and they solve problems one at a time.&quot; As a mathematician, Dyson labeled himself a frog, but contended, “It is stupid to claim that birds are better than frogs because they see farther, or that frogs are better than birds because they see deeper.” The world, he wrote, is both broad and deep. “We need birds and frogs working together to explore it.&quot;</li><li>They examined patents, and with Ouderkirk’s internal access to 3M, the actual commercial impact inventors made. The specialists and the generalists, they found, both made contributions. One was not uniformly superior to the other.</li><li>Ouderkirk’s group unearthed one more type of inventor. They called them “polymaths,&quot; broad with at least one area of depth.</li><li>The polymaths had depth in a core area—so they had numerous patents in that area—but they were not as deep as the specialists. They also had breadth, even more than the generalists, having worked across dozens of technology classes.</li><li>A high-repetition workload negatively impacted performance. Years of experience had no impact at all. If not experience, repetition, or resources, what helped creators make better comics on average and innovate?</li><li>The answer (in addition to not being overworked) was how many of twenty-two different genres a creator had worked in, from comedy and crime, to fantasy, adult, nonfiction, and sci-fi.</li><li>They titled their study <em>Superman or the Fantastic Four?</em> &quot;When seeking innovation in knowledge-based industries,&quot; they wrote, &quot;it is best to find one ‘super’ individual. If no individual with the necessary combination of diverse knowledge is available, one should form a ‘fantastic’ team.&quot;</li><li>Toward the end of their book <em>Serial Innovators</em>, Abbie Griffin and her coauthors depart from stoically sharing their data and observations and offer advice to human resources managers. They are concerned that HR policies at mature companies have such well-defined, specialized slots for employees that potential serial innovators will look like &quot;round pegs to the square holes&quot; and get screened out. Their breadth of interests do not neatly fit a rubric. They are &quot;π-shaped people&quot; who dive in and out of multiple specialties. &quot;Look for wide-ranging interests,&quot; they advised. &quot;Look for multiple hobbies and avocations. . . . When the candidate describes his or her work, does he or she tend to focus on the boundaries and the interfaces with other systems?&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 10: Fooled by Expertise</strong></p><ul><li>The average expert was a horrific forecaster. Their areas of specialty, years of experience, academic degrees, and even (for some) access to classified information made no difference. They were bad at short-term forecasting, bad at long-term forecasting, and bad at forecasting in every domain. When experts declared that some future event was impossible or nearly impossible, it nonetheless occurred 15 percent of the time. When they declared a sure thing, it failed to transpire more than one-quarter of the time. The Danish proverb that warns &quot;It is difficult to make predictions, especially about the future,&quot; was right. Dilettantes who were pitted against the experts were no more clairvoyant, but at least they were less likely to call future events either impossible or sure things, leaving them with fewer laugh-out-loud errors to atone for—if, that was, the experts had believed in atonement.</li><li>Many experts never admitted systematic flaws in their judgment, even in the face of their results. When they succeeded, it was completely on their own merits—their expertise clearly enabled them to figure out the world. When they missed wildly, it was always a near miss; they had certainly understood the situation, they insisted, and if just one little thing had gone differently, they would have nailed it. Or, like Ehrlich, their understanding was correct; the timeline was just a bit off. Victories were total victories, and defeats were always just a touch of bad luck away from having been victories too. Experts remained undefeated while losing constantly. &quot;There is often a curiously inverse relationship,&quot; Tetlock concluded, &quot;between how well forecasters thought they were doing and how well they did.&quot;</li><li>There was also a &quot;perverse inverse relationship&quot; between fame and accuracy.</li><li>The integrators outperformed their colleagues on pretty much everything, but they especially trounced them on long-term predictions. Eventually, Tetlock conferred nicknames (borrowed from philosopher Isaiah Berlin) that became famous throughout the psychology and intelligence-gathering communities: the narrow-view hedgehogs, who &quot;know one big thing,&quot; and the integrator foxes, who &quot;know many little things.&quot;</li><li>Eastman described the core trait of the best forecasters to me as: &quot;genuinely curious about, well, really everything.&quot;</li><li>A hallmark of interactions on the best teams is what psychologist Jonathan Baron termed &quot;active open-mindedness.&quot; The best forecasters view their own ideas as hypotheses in need of testing. Their aim is not to convince their teammates of their own expertise, but to encourage their teammates to help them falsify their own notions.</li><li>Beneath complexity, hedgehogs tend to see simple, deterministic rules of cause and effect framed by their area of expertise, like repeating patterns on a chessboard. Foxes see complexity in what others mistake for simple cause and effect. They understand that most cause-and-effect relationships are probabilistic, not deterministic. There are unknowns, and luck, and even when history apparently repeats, it does not do so precisely. They recognize that they are operating in the very definition of a wicked learning environment, where it can be very hard to learn, from either wins or losses</li><li>Basically, forecasters can improve by generating a list of separate events with deep structural similarities, rather than focusing only on internal details of the specific event in question. Few events are 100 percent novel—uniqueness is a matter of degree, as Tetlock puts it—and creating the list forces a forecaster implicitly to think like a statistician.</li><li>Another aspect of the forecaster training involved ferociously dissecting prediction results in search of lessons, especially for predictions that turned out bad. They made a wicked learning environment, one with no automatic feedback, a little more kind by creating rigorous feedback at every opportunity.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 11: Learning to Drop Your Familiar Tools</strong></p><ul><li>When Weick spoke with hotshot Paul Gleason, one of the best wildland firefighters in the world, Gleason told him that he preferred to view his crew leadership not as decision making, but as sensemaking. &quot;If I make a decision, it is a possession, I take pride in it, I tend to defend it and not listen to those who question it,&quot; Gleason explained. &quot;If I make sense, then this is more dynamic and I listen and I can change it.” He employed what Weick called &quot;hunches held lightly.&quot; Gleason gave decisive directions to his crew, but with transparent rationale and the addendum that the plan was ripe for revision as the team collectively made sense of a fire.</li><li>She found that the most effective leaders and organizations had range; they were, in effect, paradoxical. They could be demanding and nurturing, orderly and entrepreneurial, even hierarchical and individualistic all at once. A level of ambiguity, it seemed, was not harmful. In decision making, it can broaden an organization’s toolbox in a way that is uniquely valuable.</li><li>Business school students are widely taught to believe the congruence model, that a good manager can always align every element of work into a culture where all influences are mutually reinforcing—whether toward cohesion or individualism. But cultures can actually be too internally consistent. With incongruence, &quot;you’re building in cross-checks,&quot; Tetlock told me.</li><li>Wernher von Braun, who led the Marshall Space Flight Center’s development of the rocket that propelled the moon mission, balanced NASA’s rigid process with an informal, individualistic culture that encouraged constant dissent and cross-boundary communication. Von Braun started &quot;Monday Notes&quot;: every week engineers submitted a single page of notes on their salient issues. Von Braun hand-wrote comments in the margins, and then circulated the entire compilation. Everyone saw what other divisions were up to, and how easily problems could be raised. Monday Notes were rigorous, but informal.</li><li>Geveden saw everywhere a collective culture that nudged conflict into darkened corners. &quot;You almost couldn’t go into a meeting without someone saying, ‘Let’s take that offline,’&quot; he recalled, just as Morton Thiokol had done for the infamous offline caucus.</li></ul><p><strong>Chapter 12: Deliberate Amateurs</strong></p><ul><li>At its core, all hyperspecialization is a well-meaning drive for efficiency—the most efficient way to develop a sports skill, assemble a product, learn to play an instrument, or work on a new technology. But inefficiency needs cultivating too. The wisdom of a Polgar-like method of laser-focused, efficient development is limited to narrowly constructed, kind learning environments.</li><li>&quot;When you push the boundaries, a lot of it is just probing. It has to be inefficient,&quot; Casadevall told me. &quot;What’s gone totally is that time to talk and synthesize. People grab lunch and bring it into their offices. They feel lunch is inefficient, but often that’s the best time to bounce ideas and make connections.&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Conclusion: Expanding Your Range</strong></p><ul><li>So, about that one sentence of advice: Don’t feel behind.</li><li>Compare yourself to yourself yesterday, not to younger people who aren’t you.</li><li>Everyone progresses at a different rate, so don’t let anyone else make you feel behind. You probably don’t even know where exactly you’re going, so feeling behind doesn’t help. Instead, as Herminia Ibarra suggested for the proactive pursuit of match quality, start planning experiments. Your personal version of Friday night or Saturday morning experiments, perhaps.</li><li>Approach your own personal voyage and projects like Michelangelo approached a block of marble, willing to learn and adjust as you go, and even to abandon a previous goal and change directions entirely should the need arise.</li><li>Finally, remember that there is nothing inherently wrong with specialization. We all specialize to one degree or another, at some point or other. As Supreme Court justice Oliver Wendell Holmes wrote a century ago, of the free exchange of ideas, &quot;It is an experiment, as all life is an experiment.&quot;</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[I was initially skeptical about this book (mostly due to the title), but I was pleasantly surprised. This book is a concise, clear, actionable handbook for everyone from small-business owners to high-growth technology startup founders.  It lays out exactly how to go about positioning a company, creating marketing systems to sustain growth, and ultimately build a company that can run by itself.  It’s not as in-depth as others, but is a great overview.  Recommended.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5>Introduction</h5><ul><li>It’s very common for small businesses never to grow past the point at which they generate just enough profit for the owner(s) to make a modest living.</li><li>Professionals have plans, and those plans are based on high-leverage activities.</li><li>By far the biggest leverage point in any business is marketing.</li><li>Marketing is the strategy you use for getting your ideal target market to know you, like you and trust you enough to become a customer.</li><li>All the stuff you usually associate with marketing are tactics.</li><li>Strategy is the big-picture planning you do prior to the tactics.</li><li>Strategy without tactics leads to paralysis by analysis.</li><li>Tactics without strategy leads to the “bright shiny object syndrome.”</li><li>Do NOT mimic large businesses.</li><li>Direct response marketing is what you should be doing as a small business.</li><li>Direct response marketing is designed to evoke an immediate response and compel prospects to take some specific action.</li><li>Trackable, measurable, uses compelling copy, includes multi-step, short-term follow-up, incorporates maintenance follow-up of unconverted leads.</li></ul><h5>Act I: The “Before” Phase </h5><ul><li>You’re dealing with prospects, people who may not even know you exist. In this phase you identify a target market, craft a compelling message and deliver the message through advertising media. Goal: get your prospect to know you and respond to your message. Once they’ve indicated interest by responding, they become a lead and enter Phase II. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 1: Selecting Your Target Market</h5><ul><li>You must be extremely focused on one niche here. </li><li>Goal of ad is for prospects to say “hey, that’s for me”. </li><li>Dominate one niche, then move to the next. Never do all at once.</li><li>Use PVP index to find ideal target market.</li><li>Be as specific as possible.</li><li>Create an avatar for your target customer.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 2: Crafting Your Message</h5><ul><li>One ad, one objective. </li><li>If something in the ad isn’t helping you achieve that objective, you should get rid of it (including things like company name/logo) </li><li>Rather than try and sell directly, just get prospects to indicate interest.</li><li>Develop a unique selling proposition (USP): entire goal of USP is to answer question about why someone should buy from you rather than from nearest competitor.</li><li>Avoid things like “quality” and “great service”. </li><li>You know you’re marketing your business as a commodity when prospects start the conversation by asking you about price. </li><li>Two questions you must ask yourself:</li><li>Why should they buy?</li><li>Why should they buy from me?</li><li>The uniqueness can come from the way it’s packaged, delivered, supported or even sold. </li><li><strong>When you confuse them, you lose them.</strong></li><li>Create your elevator pitch: </li><li>You know [problem]? Well, what we do is [solution]. In fact, [proof].</li><li><strong>Purchasing is done with emotions and justified with logic after the fact.</strong></li><li>Avoid boring, “professional” sounding copy, and use emotional, strong sales copy with compelling calls to action. </li><li>People love authenticity, personality, and opinion. Even if they don’t agree with you, they’ll respect you for being real and open.</li><li>Take advantage of this by adding video to your website featuring you. </li><li>Address “elephants in the room” - things all your customers think about but no one wants to bring up. </li><li>Use “the enemy in common” in your copy. </li><li>Here’s my take on naming— if you need to explain the name, to me that’s an automatic fail. The <strong>title should equal content.</strong></li><li><strong>Always choose clarity over cleverness.</strong></li></ul><h5>Chapter 3: Reaching Prospects with Advertising Media</h5><ul><li>Hire experts that specialize in whatever media you decide is right for your campaign. </li><li>You must know customer acquisition cost and lifetime value to track marketing success.</li><li>A successful marketing campaign has three elements: market, message and media - you must hit all three for a successful campaign.</li><li>Try and own your own marketing resources: build an email list, a website, a blog, etc.</li><li>Email marketing tips: don’t spam, be human, use a commercial system, give them value, and automate. </li><li>Snail mail is a great way to complement email. </li><li>Try and have at least 5 different sources of new leads and customers, and try and make them paid media (reliable and forces your to focus on ROI).</li></ul><h5>Act II: The “During” Phase </h5><ul><li>In this phase, you’re dealing with leads, people who know you and have indicated interest in what you offer by responding to your marketing message. Here you’ll capture them into a database, nurture them with regular value-add information and convert them into paying customers. The goal here is to get them to buy for the first time. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 4: Capturing Leads</h5><ul><li>When interested leads respond to your ads, you put them in a database so you can build value for them, position yourself as an authority and create a relationship built on trust. </li><li>Why do some businesses get a constant flow of leads and prospects while others struggle to get any? The answer is the same as the answer to our personal flight dilemma— infrastructure. Some businesses have built a marketing infrastructure that constantly brings in new leads, follows them up, nurtures and converts them into raving fan customers.</li><li>To build a system, we need to think it through from start to end. We need to understand how it works and what resources we’ll need to run it. </li><li>You want all leads and customer interactions to end up in your CRM.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 5: Nurturing Leads</h5><ul><li>In marketing, <strong>the money is in the follow-up</strong>. </li><li>Immediately after you’ve captured a lead, they should go into your system, where repeated contacts are made over time.</li><li>Contact does not mean obnoxiously trying to pester leads into buying. You build a relationship, giving them value in advance of them buying anything from you, building trust and demonstrating authority in your field of expertise in the process.</li><li>Now that you have a database of high-probability prospects, <strong>your job is to market to them until they buy or die.</strong></li><li><strong>Instead of being a pest, I advocate becoming a welcome guest.</strong> Send your high-probability prospects a continuous stream of value until they’re ready to buy. </li><li>A “shock and awe package” is one of the best ways to be mind-blowingly amazing. A shock and awe package is essentially a physical box that you mail or deliver to prospects full of unique, benefit-laden assets related to your business and industry.</li><li>One of the commonalities amongst high-growth businesses is that they focus heavily on marketing and make a lot of offers. Some of these offers end up being misses and some end up being hits. </li><li>Could it really be that simple? Making more compelling and more frequent offers? The short answer is, yes.</li><li>Develop a marketing calendar for all your marketing activities, and assign someone responsibility. Ideally hire or outsource.</li><li>In addition to scheduled activities, think about event-triggered activities.</li><li>A rule of thumb I like to use is <strong>if someone else can do it 80% as good as you can, then you should delegate it.</strong></li></ul><h5>Chapter 6: Sales Conversion</h5><ul><li>By the time you get prospects to the point of sales conversion, they should already be pre-framed, pre-motivated and pre-interested and essentially asking to buy from you. If you have to convince them or put on the hard sell, then you likely need to improve your lead nurturing process.</li><li>Once you’ve reached a level of competence, <strong>the real profit comes from the way you market yourself.</strong></li><li>Resolve to stop positioning yourself as a commodity and competing solely on price. The result to your bottom line will be phenomenal. </li><li>Instead, you need to move towards the model of “educate, educate, educate.” With education, you build trust.</li><li>You must stop selling and start educating, consulting and advising prospects about the benefits your products and services deliver compared to each and every competitor in your category. </li><li><strong>This would be a good time to share with you my definition of an entrepreneur: “someone who solves people’s problems at a profit.”</strong></li><li>Bottom line, don’t let them think you are in sales for one second. </li><li>Consultative, advisory selling is the most cost-effective, the most enduring, the most impactful and the most powerful marketing strategy a business owner could ever devise. </li><li>Pricing strategies:</li><li>Offer just a “standard” and “premium” option (priced about +50% but offering 2x+ value). </li><li>Offer unlimited variation of your product/service. </li><li>Add ultra-high-ticket item.</li><li>Resist urge to discount.</li><li>Invite them to try before buying.</li><li>Make payment easy, and if possible offer payment plans.</li></ul><h5>Act III: The “After” Phase </h5><ul><li>You’re now dealing with customers. Turn your customers into raving fans by delivering a world-class experience. Then find ways of doing more business with them and increasing lifetime value. Create an environment where referrals continually come your way. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 7: Delivering a World-Class Experience</h5><ul><li>One of the things that separates extraordinary businesses from ordinary ones is that they lead tribes, tribes of raving fans— not just customers.</li><li>Here are a few of the qualities of these extraordinary businesses that become tribe leaders:</li><li>They continually focus on wowing their customers, which turns them into raving fans</li><li>They create and foster lifetime relationships</li><li>They make it easy and fun to deal with them</li><li>They create a sense of theater around their products and services</li><li>They have systems so that they can reliably and consistently deliver a great experience</li><li>Do anything other than stay a boring commodity - be innovative in every aspect of your business.</li><li>Become a major voice of value to your customers.</li><li><strong>One of the major distinctions between successful entrepreneurs and “wantrepreneurs” is that successful entrepreneurs are predominantly content creators whereas wantrepreneurs are predominantly content consumers.</strong> Even more than just content creators, successful entrepreneurs are often prolific content creators. </li><li><strong>Tellyour audience about all the effort that goes into delivering your product or service.</strong></li><li>The fact is, <strong>no one cares about your logo, company name or some dubious claim about being the leader in your industry.</strong></li><li>They want to know about what your product will do for them, and your backstory is essential to this. </li></ul><p>Products Make You Money, Systems Make You a Fortune </p><ul><li>The most valuable business systems are those which are replicable. If your business relies on a genius or superstar talent at the center of it, then it will be difficult or impossible to replicate. </li><li><strong>Systems allow mere mortals to run an extraordinary business.</strong></li><li>There are four main types of business systems you need to create, regardless of what type of business you’re in. You’re almost guaranteed to make a fortune, if you can create scalable and replicable systems in these four areas of your business: </li><li><strong>Marketing system</strong>: generate a consistent flow of leads into the business </li><li><strong>Sales system</strong>: lead nurturing, follow-up and conversion </li><li><strong>Fulfillment system</strong>: the actual thing you do in exchange for the customer’s money </li><li><strong>Administration system</strong>: accounts, reception, human resources and so on; support of all the other business functions </li><li>If you went overseas for six months, when you came back would your business be in better or worse shape than when you left it? Would you even have a business to come back to?</li><li>One of the best tools you can use in building business systems is checklists.</li><li>To recap, it’s essentially a three-step process:</li><li>Identify all the roles in your business</li><li>Define what tasks each role performs</li><li>Create checklists for properly completing these tasks</li><li>Now scaling becomes super easy - just add people.</li><li>Think carefully about how you want to exit - you’ll rarely make as much money running a business as you will selling one. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 8: Increasing Customer Lifetime Value</h5><ul><li>The real profit comes from figuring out how to sell more to existing customers. Five ways to do this: </li><li>Raise prices (make sure to explain why, explain benefits, or grandfather)</li><li>Upsell (if they buy primary expensive product, add on smaller items)</li><li>Ascension (move customers to higher tier products)</li><li>Frequency (increasing frequency at which they buy)</li><li>Some numbers you need to track:</li><li><strong>Leads:</strong> calculate the number of new leads that come into your business </li><li><strong>Conversion rate:</strong> calculate the percentage of leads you converted into paying customers. </li><li><strong>Average transaction value</strong>: know the average dollar amount that customers spend with you. </li><li><strong>Break-even point</strong>: identify the dollar amount you need to make to keep your doors open. </li><li>Key metrics to track in subscription business:</li><li>Monthly recurring revenue</li><li>Churn rate</li><li>Customer lifetime value</li><li>Focus on your “Tribe” customers: </li><li><strong>The Tribe</strong>: this set of customers are raving fans, supporters and cheerleaders who promote your business and are actively conspiring for your success. </li><li>Fire the rest.</li><li>Another way to categorize customers is using Net Promoter Score (NPS) - positive scores are good, &gt;+50 is excellent </li><li>The Net Promoter Score is calculated based on responses to a single question, “How likely is it that you would recommend our company/ product/ service to a friend or colleague?”</li></ul><h5>Chapter 9: Orchestrating and Stimulating Referrals</h5><ul><li>This brings us to <strong>one of the best strategies for getting what you want in business and indeed in life— just ask.</strong></li><li>Ask for referrals from customers for whom you’ve delivered a good result, and/or make it known during the sales or on boarding process you expect them to give you referrals. </li><li>Be specific in your requests for referrals (who you ask and what kind of referral you want to receive).</li><li>Try and find other complementary businesses that your customer deals with before they deal with you and form partnerships or lead exchanges.</li><li>Giving a gift card or voucher is a great way to do this.</li></ul><p>Building Your Brand</p><ul><li>Think of your business as a person. What attributes make up its personality? </li><li>What’s its name?</li><li>What does it wear? (i.e., design)</li><li>How does it communicate? (i.e., positioning)</li><li>What are its core values and what does it stand for? (i.e., brand promise)</li><li>Who does it associate with? (i.e., target market) Is it well-known? (i.e., brand awareness)</li><li>When all is said and done, branding is something you do after someone has bought from you rather than something you do to induce them to buy from you.</li></ul><h5>Conclusion</h5><ul><li>Remember, it’s all about implementation. I’ll reiterate— <strong>knowing and not doing is the same as not knowing.</strong></li><li>In my experience, I’ve found that entrepreneurs fail to implement for one of the following three reasons:</li><li><strong>Paralysis by analysis:</strong> they keep trying to learn more or get stuck chasing the latest bright shiny object in the hope that they’ll get everything perfect the first time around.</li><li>Remember 80% out the door is better than 100% in the drawer. Successful entrepreneurs have a bias for action, implement quickly and course correct along the way.</li><li><strong>Inability to delegate</strong>: as mentioned in Chapter 5, business is a team sport.</li><li><strong>“My business is different”</strong>: pretty much any conceivable problem you have or are going to encounter has been solved by someone at some time.</li></ul><p>Time is Not Money</p><ul><li>As entrepreneurs, we only get paid for bringing value to the market— not for time. </li><li>Put simply <strong>entrepreneurs work in the results economy</strong>, whereas <strong>most other people work in the time and effort economy.</strong></li><li>The more times we create value by getting, retaining and satisfying a customer, the more we get paid. Unfortunately, many business owners get distracted “playing business.” Playing business is when you do peripheral activities that don’t really create much value. Some examples of “playing business” include things like constantly checking email and endless, nonsense meetings that have no real point or agenda. </li><li>Instead of playing business, you must do business. Winning in business requires you to have a relentless focus on the activities that deliver value. </li></ul><p>Your Transition from Business Owner to Marketer</p><ul><li>Remember, <strong>no one knows how good your products or services are until after the sale. Before they buy, they only know how good your marketing is.</strong> Put simply, <strong>the best marketer wins every time.</strong></li><li>Marketing is the master skill of business. It will help you make your current business a success and, importantly, it will help make other businesses and enterprises you may be involved with in the future successful. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Conspiracy by Ryan Holiday: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/conspiracy-ryan-holiday</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A fascinating book, despite being a self-admitted departure from Ryan Holiday’s usual writing. I listened to this as an audiobook, which I think is the best way for this particular book.  The story itself is fascinating - a modern conspiracy actually carried to fruition, but the questions it brings up are even better:What would it look like if more people planned, took deliberate action, to accomplish a goal?What if more people took action to change the world behind the scenes, instead of talking about it?Immaculate contingency planning, humility, and resources can bring great results. Where can I incorporate these tactics in my own life?Overall, a fun departure from typical non-fiction that I very much enjoyed.  Would certainly recommend, and as I mentioned, I’d suggest the audiobook.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favorite Quotes</h3><ul><li>&quot;Perhaps we have too few conspiracies, not too many. Too little scheming, rather than too much. What would happen if more people took up plotting, coordinating how to eliminate what they believe are negative forces and obstacles, and tried to wield power in an attempt to change the world? We could almost always use more boldness, and less complacency.”&quot;</li><li>&quot;Fights break out. Conspiracies <em>brew.”&quot;</em></li><li>&quot;We are often taught that successful strategy is a matter of boldness, but it has also always been the case that it’s as much a matter of patience and due diligence as it is of noticeable action.&quot;</li><li>&quot;It has been the great collective self-deception of Silicon Valley, and perhaps of our age, that a person can engage in aggressive “disruption&quot; of existing industries while pretending that they are not at least similar to the ruthless capitalist barons of the previous century, that there is not a drop of Carnegie or Rockefeller or Vanderbilt DNA in the whole business.&quot;</li><li>&quot;&quot;The problem with the Silicon Valley,&quot; as Jim Barksdale, the former CEO and president of Netscape, once put it, &quot;is that we tend to confuse a clear view with a short distance.”&quot;</li><li>&quot;And so the essential trait of the successful man is not only perseverance but almost a perverse expectation of how difficult it is going to be. It is having redundancies on top of redundancies, so you can absorb the losses you eventually incur.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Another maxim from Napoleon: &quot;Never interrupt an enemy making a mistake.”&quot;</li><li>&quot;Cunning and resources might win the war, but it’s the stories and the myths afterward that will determine who deserved to win it.&quot;</li><li>&quot;What would the world look like if more people tried to change things, conspired to change things they found unjust, unfair, immoral?&quot;</li><li>&quot;In a time when computers are replacing many basic human functions, it will eventually come to be that audaciousness, vision, courage, creativity, a sense of justice—these will be the only tasks left to us.&quot;</li></ul><h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>Conspiracy: entails determined, coordinated action, done in secret—always in secret—that aims to disrupt the status quo or accomplish some aim.</li><li>Nick Denton (Gawker founder) responsible for shift from number of posts to page views as key metric.</li><li>The economist Tyler Cowen once observed that at some point in the 1970s, Americans went from being the country that took literal moonshots to being the people who waited patiently in long lines for gasoline. It’s not completely accurate, of course, but it is a criticism that resonates with Thiel as he sits in his office at the Presidio one day looking at the Golden Gate Bridge and wonders if people will ever build something like that again. Do people even have the arrogance anymore? To test the limits? To try big things?</li><li>If someone asks him a question—say, about some controversial issue of the day—he does not simply react with an opinion, or pluck a conclusion from nowhere. Instead, he begins with, &quot;One view of these things is that . . . , and then proceeds to explain the exact opposite of what he happens to personally believe.&quot;</li><li>Only after he has finished, with complete sincerity and deference, describing how most people think about the issue, will he then give you his opinion, which almost always happens to be something radically unorthodox—all of it punctuated with liberal pauses to consider what he is saying as he is saying it. Even when he does describe his opinion, he prefaces it with &quot;I tend to think . . .&quot; or &quot;It’s always this question of . . . ,&quot; as if what he is about to tell you is simply capturing where his opinion falls the majority of the time when running a thought exercise on the topic, as if he is always in the process of deciding what he thinks. And this is simply the process for articulating what he thinks.</li><li>This is a method of thinking and conversing that needs to be more common.</li><li>The Streisand effect: try to remove something from the internet publicly, more people will view it.</li><li>&quot;Anyone who is threatened and is forced by necessity either to act or to suffer,&quot; writes Machiavelli, &quot;becomes a very dangerous man to the prince.”</li><li>We are often taught that successful strategy is a matter of boldness, but it has also always been the case that it’s as much a matter of patience and due diligence as it is of noticeable action.</li><li>Peter seems to have a preternatural ability to sense which lever to pull, what angle is the best approach, and it’s almost always something radically different from what your average person would select.</li><li>An investor tells me that with each investment, Peter Thiel likes to ask: What do I know about this company that other investors don’t know? In other words: Do we have an edge? It’s only with some sort of informational asymmetry, goes the thinking, that one can not only beat the market but dominate it, and get the kind of return that takes a $500,000 check and turns it into a billion.</li><li>At a certain point in every conspiracy each participant realizes that proceeding will require of them something that little else in their life ever has. What that is isn’t willpower or resources or creativity, but instead a certain hardness and viciousness—the hard, unforgiving utilization of power or even violence against other human beings.</li><li>A friend would say that &quot;Peter is of two minds on everything. If you were able to open his skull, you would see a number of Mexican standoffs between powerful antagonistic ideas you wouldn’t think could be safely housed in the same brain.”</li><li>One of the informal mottos of the libertarian community is &quot;Don’t hurt people and don’t take their stuff.”</li><li>Almost every conspiracy is defined by a moment in which the timeline is radically altered, when the conspirators scramble to respond to a sudden change of events.</li><li>Graham says that the founders enter a phase where the novelty begins to wear off, and they quickly descend from their early euphoria into what he calls the &quot;trough of sorrow.&quot; A start-up launches with its investments, gets a few press hits, and then smacks right into reality. Many companies never make it out of this ditch.</li><li>Today, we have a complex relationship with secrecy insomuch as we live in a world that no longer values it. Transparency carries now in the modern mind the weight of moral imperative.</li><li>It has become a perversion of Nixon’s line about the cover-up being worse than the crime where today it’s automatically a sin if you keep it a secret.</li><li>When people who don’t like what you’re doing know that you’re trying to do it, they are more likely to be able to stop you. It’s that simple.</li><li>Being feared, Machiavelli says, is an important protection against a conspiracy. The ultimate protection, he says, however, is to be well liked. Not simply because people who love you are less likely to want to take you down, but because they are less likely to tolerate anyone else trying to, either.</li><li>The line attributed to the management guru Peter Drucker is that culture eats strategy. It’s a truism that applies as much to conspiracies as it does to businesses.</li><li>It always takes longer than expected, per Hofstadter’s Law, even when—and this is the critical part—one takes Hofstadter’s Law into account.</li><li>And though we’d like to think that planning and resources—or righteousness and worthiness—determine who wins and who loses, they don’t. So often these things come down to a simple factor: Who wants it more?</li><li>&quot;You argue the law to show how much you know about the law,” Thiel would say, &quot;but it’s not how you win a case in front of a jury.”</li><li>Cunning and resources might win the war, but it’s the stories and the myths afterward that will determine who deserved to win it.</li><li>How one rides out the chaos in the aftermath of a deed is everything. Winning, succeeding, pulling off the complex operation is the last step of one journey but simultaneously the first step in the next one, one arguably more important and more difficult than what came before. The next step is holding on to the victory. No matter how brilliant you are, how impressive the conspiracy was—it will be defined by what comes after.</li><li>In the years he conspired against Gawker, Thiel would come to see the U.S. legal system differently. He later said that, before the case against Gawker, he had believed that the problem in America was too many lawsuits and too many lawyers.</li><li>Having actually gone through the system, Thiel would come to believe that maybe there weren’t enough lawsuits. That people should try more.</li><li>He learned another important lesson in that Florida courtroom, this one also about America—that average and ordinary people cared little for the assumptions of the so-called elites.</li><li>But just as Nick Denton had learned watching Gawker evolve through the years, Peter would find in the months after his conspiracy that unleashing such wild, chaotic forces is a dangerous bargain. Thiel might be gay, an immigrant, libertarian, and generally civilized and thoughtful, but the people on the alt-right he found himself partly aligned with were not.</li><li>Perhaps the most interesting unintended consequences, however, were the obvious ones. The ones that no one seriously thought could happen. First, the sex tape actually disappeared. Try to find it—I dare you. You can’t. The Streisand Effect now has at least one exception. Trying doesn’t always backfire.</li><li>I said in the introduction that we might live in a world of too few conspiracies, not too many. We have plenty of opinions—plenty of histrionic complaints about how terrible and awful and stuck we are—but not enough people with the patience, coordination, and ambition to do anything about it. We used to throw bombs, now we throw tantrums—or worse, tweets.</li><li>What would the world look like if more people tried to change things, conspired to change things they found unjust, unfair, immoral?</li><li>The cleanest or at least the clearest lesson, illustrated in word but mostly in deed by Thiel, is in the power of secrecy, of coordination, and of pushing past those situations where &quot;nothing can be done.&quot; In a time when computers are replacing many basic human functions, it will eventually come to be that audaciousness, vision, courage, creativity, a sense of justice—these will be the only tasks left to us. A computer can’t practice secrecy or misdirection, a computer can’t feel an urge to remake the world.</li><li>Only humans can be that crazy.</li><li>Lessons from Denton: arrogance, unpreparedness, shocking disregard for the humanity of many will ultimately end in ruin.</li><li>Lessons from Thiel: hedge your bets, prepare to the full extent possible always, verify your assumptions, and act with humility (assume you are wrong, verify otherwise), and you will succeed.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Dreyer's English by Benjamin Dreyer: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/dreyers-english-benjamin-dreyer</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[As entertaining as a deep book about words and grammar can be. What I enjoyed most about this book is that it portrays language as a series of choices, a grayscale, rather than the typical black-and-white rules we are given. Dreyer does a great job discussing when and why some choices are made, and then suggesting a course. This context gives much better understanding than most grammar lessons. Not for those who are casually interested in writing - read Stephen King’s On Writing instead. Excellent for those who seriously want to improve their understanding of English.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Part 1 – The Stuff in the Front</strong></h5><h6><strong>Chapter 1: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up (Your Prose)</strong></h6><p>Here’s your first challenge: Go a week without writing </p><ul><li>very </li><li>rather </li><li>really </li><li>quite </li><li>in fact </li></ul><p>And you can toss in—or, that is, toss out—“just” (not in the sense of “righteous” but in the sense of “merely”) and “so” (in the “extremely” sense, though as conjunctions go it’s pretty disposable too). </p><ul><li>Oh yes: “pretty.” </li><li>And “of course.” </li><li>And “surely.” And “that said.” </li><li>And “actually”?” </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 2: Rules and Nonrules</strong></h6><ul><li>Why are they nonrules? So far as I’m concerned, because they’re largely unhelpful, pointlessly constricting, feckless, and useless. </li></ul><p>The Big Three </p><ul><li><em>1. Never Begin a Sentence with “And” or “But.”</em></li><li>No, <em>do</em> begin a sentence with “And” or “But,” if it strikes your fancy to do so. Great writers do it all the time. </li><li><em>2. Never Split an Infinitive.</em></li><li><em>3. Never End a Sentence with a Preposition.</em></li></ul><p>The Lesser Seen </p><p>I’m sure there are many more secondary nonrules than these seven, but these are the ones I’m most often asked about (or challenged on), so: </p><p><em>1. Contractions Aren’t Allowed in Formal Writing.</em></p><ul><li>Ignore this, and use them. </li><li>The correct construction is “should have” (also “could have,” “would have,” etc.). </li></ul><p><em>2. The Passive Voice Is to Be Avoided.</em></p><ul><li>Here’s a nifty trick that copy editors like to pass among themselves that comes in handy when you’re assessing your own writing. </li><li>If you can append “by zombies” to the end of a sentence (or, yes, “by the clown”), you’ve indeed written a sentence in the passive voice. </li><li>A good example of using passive voice: “The floors were swept, the beds made, the rooms aired out.” The point of interest is the cleanliness of the house, not a particular subject. </li></ul><p><em>3. Sentence Fragments. They’re Bad.</em></p><ul><li>I give you one of my favorite novel openers of all time, that of Charles Dickens’s <em>Bleak House</em>: ... </li><li>That said, do wield your fragments with a purpose, and mindfully. </li></ul><p><em>4. A Person Must Be a “Who.”</em></p><ul><li>The man that got away, the teachers that attended the conference, the whoevers that whatevered. </li></ul><p><em>5. “None” Is Singular and, Dammit, Only Singular.”</em></p><p><em>6. “Whether” Must Never Be Accompanied by “Or Not.”</em></p><ul><li>In many sentences, particularly those in which the word “whether” is being used as a straight-up “if,” no “or not” is called for.” </li><li>“That’s the whole thing: If you can delete the “or not” from a “whether or not” and your sentence continues to make sense, then go ahead and delete it. If not, not.” </li></ul><p><em>7. Never Introduce a List with “Like.”</em></p><h6><strong>Chapter 3: 67 Assorted Things to Do (and Not to Do) with Punctuation</strong></h6><p>Book: Walter Baxter’s undeservedly obscure 1951 novel <em>Look Down in Mercy.</em></p><p>32. The most basic use of semicolons is to divide the items in a list any of whose individual elements mandate a comma—in this case, Venice, Italy. </p><ul><li>Book: Shirley Jackson - <em>The Haunting of Hill House</em></li></ul><p>39. [<em>SIC</em>] BURNS </p><ul><li>Let’s take a moment to talk about [<em>sic</em>]. <em>Sic</em> is Latin for “thus,” and one uses it—traditionally in italics, always in brackets—in quoted material to make it clear to your reader that a misspelling or eccentricity or error of fact you’re retaining for the sake of authenticity in said quoted material is indeed not your misspelling or eccentricity or error of fact but that of the person you’re quoting. </li></ul><p>40. Use roman (straight up and down, that is, like the font this phrase is printed in) type encased in quotation marks for the titles of songs, poems, short stories, and episodes of TV series. Whereas the titles of music albums, volumes of poetry, full-length works of fiction and nonfiction, and TV series themselves are styled in aslant italics.” </p><ul><li>It’s a fairly simple system, then: little things in roman and quotes, bigger things in italics. </li></ul><p>53. Modern style is to merge prefixes and main words (nouns, verbs, adjectives) seamlessly and hyphenlessly, as in: </p><ul><li>antiwar </li><li>autocorrect </li><li>By the way, you don’t have a bachelors or masters degree; you have a bachelor’s or master’s degree. </li><li>Book: Jackson’s short story “The Lottery”. </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 4: 1, 2, 3, Go – The Treatment of Numbers</strong></h6><ul><li>Generally, in nontechnical, nonscientific text, write out numbers from one through one hundred and all numbers beyond that are easily expressed in words—that is, two hundred but 250, eighteen hundred but 1,823. </li><li>I suppose it’s an obvious point, but if a style choice follows the rules but results in something that looks awful or makes no sense on the page, rethink it. </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 5: Foreign Affairs</strong></h6><ul><li>1. Standard practice is to set foreign-language words and phrases in italics. </li><li>The Brit “-re,” as in “mitre,” “sceptre,” “fibre,” and “centre,” is our “-er,” as in “miter,” “scepter,” “fiber,” and “center.” </li><li>Please leave “whilst” and “amidst” and especially “amongst” to our cousins; “while” and “amid” and “among” will do you just fine. </li><li>The Brits are more apt to move backwards, forwards, and towards, whereas Americans will tend to move backward, forward, and toward. </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 6: A Little Grammar Is a Dangerous Thing</strong></h6><ul><li>Book: <em>Words into Type.</em></li><li>To cite the handy definition in <em>Words into Type</em>, “Parallelism is the principle that parts of a sentence that are parallel in meaning should be parallel in construction.” </li><li>If you’re writing of a situation that is not merely not the case but is unlikely, improbable, or just plain impossible, you can certainly reach for a “were.” </li><li>If you’re writing of a situation that is simply not the case but could be, you might opt for a <em>was</em>. </li><li>I tend to think of it thus: If I could insert the words “in fact” after “if I,” I might well go with a “was” rather than a “were.” </li><li>It’s indeed “the king of England,” not “the King of England.” One capitalizes a job title when it’s used as an honorific, as in “President Barack Obama,” but otherwise it’s “the president of the United States,” “the pope,” and the various other et ceteras. </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 7: The Realities of Fiction</strong></h6><p>The Real Reality of Fiction </p><ul><li>Fiction may be fictional, but a work of fiction won’t work if it isn’t logical and consistent. </li><li>Characters must age in accordance with the calendar. </li><li>Keep track of the passage of time, particularly in narratives whose plots play themselves out, crucially, in a matter of days or weeks. </li><li>Height; weight; eye and hair color; nose, ear, and chin size; right- or left-handedness; etc., mandate consistency. </li><li>Stage management and choreography: Watch out for people going up to the attic only to shortly and directly step out onto the driveway; removing their shoes and socks twice over the course of five minutes. </li><li>I don’t know why or how writers end up laboriously and lengthily describing restaurant meals as if they—the writers, that is—have never experienced one, but: Pay better attention. </li><li>I don’t know why or how writers end up laboriously and lengthily counterfeiting newspaper articles. At the least, remember to establish the whowhatwherewhywhen you were taught in high school, and terse it up a bit too. </li><li>Real-world details must also be honored. You may think that readers won’t notice such things. I assure you they will. </li><li>If you’re going to set your story on, say, Sunday, September 24, 1865, make sure that September 24, 1865, was indeed a Sunday. </li><li>If you’re going to set your story in, say, New York City, you’d better keep track of which avenues guide vehicles south to north and which north to south, and which streets aim east and which west. </li><li>You’ve likely noticed that the sun rises and sets at different times over the course of a year. Make sure you remember to notice that when you’re writing. </li><li>Period vocabulary is its own issue. Dictionaries are particularly helpful in providing the first known use of any given word, so avail yourself of one. </li></ul><p>The Basics of Good Storytelling </p><p>Many writers rely more heavily on pronouns than I’d suggest is useful. For me this sort of thing comes under the heading Remember that Writing Is Not Speaking. When we talk, we can usually make ourselves understood even amid a flood of vague “he”s and “she”s. </p><p>A brief, scarcely exhaustive list of other actions that wise writers might do well to put on permanent hiatus: </p><ul><li>the angry flaring of nostrils </li><li>the thoughtful pursing of lips </li><li>the quizzical cocking of the head </li><li>the letting out of the breath you didn’t even know you were holding </li><li>the extended mirror stare, especially as a warm-up for a memory whose recollection is apt to go on for ten pages </li></ul><p>Also overrated: </p><ul><li>blinking </li><li>grimacing </li><li>huffing </li><li>pausing (especially for “a beat”) </li><li>smiling weakly </li><li>snorting </li><li>swallowing </li><li>doing anything wistfully </li></ul><p>“After a moment,” “in a moment,” “she paused a moment,” “after a long moment”…There are so many moments. So many. </p><p>For fiction written in the past tense, here’s a technique for tackling flashbacks that I stumbled upon years ago, and writers I’ve shared it with have tended to get highly excited: Start off your flashback with, let’s say, two or three standard-issue “had”s (“Earlier that year, Jerome had visited his brother in Boston”), then clip one or two more “had”s to a discreet “ ’d” (“After an especially unpleasant dinner, he’d decided to return home right away”), then drop the past-perfecting altogether when no one’s apt to be paying attention and slip into the simple past (“He unlocked his front door, as he later recalled it, shortly after midnight”). Works like a charm. </p><ul><li>You writers are all far too keen on “And then,” which can usually be trimmed to “Then” or done away with entirely. </li><li>You’re also overfond of “suddenly.” </li><li>“He began to cry” = “He cried.” Dispose of all “began to”s. </li><li>My nightmare sentence is “And then suddenly he began to cry.” </li></ul><p>Dialogue and Its Discontents </p><ul><li>Fond as I am of semicolons, they’re ungainly in dialogue. Avoid them. </li><li>Now, mostly such thoughts are simply set in roman, as, say: </li><li>I’ll never be happy again, Rupert mused. </li><li>Book: <em>Straight Man</em>, a novel by the excellent Richard Russo. </li><li>Book: <em>Empire Falls.</em></li><li>I’ve mentioned this before, and it applies to all writing, but I think it applies especially to fiction, whether you’re writing it or copyediting it: Reading fiction aloud highlights strengths and exposes weaknesses. I heartily recommend it. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part II: The Stuff in the Back</strong></h5><h6><strong>Chapter 8: Notes on, Amid a List of, Frequently and/or Easily Misspelled Words</strong></h6><ul><li>My desk dictionary of choice, and that of most of my copyeditorial colleagues, is the eleventh edition of <em>Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary</em>. </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 9: Peeves and Crotchets</strong></h6><p>AGGRAVATE </p><ul><li>If you use “aggravate” to mean not “make a bad thing worse” but “piss the living daylights out of,” though it has for centuries been used thus, you will irritate a goodly number of people, so you might well stick, in such cases, with “irritate.” </li></ul><p>BASED OFF OF </p><ul><li>No. Just no. The correct phrase is “based on.” </li></ul><p>CENTERED AROUND </p><ul><li>I will always opt for “centered on” or “revolved around.” </li></ul><p>DISINTERESTED </p><ul><li>I’d be happier if you’d restrict your use of “disinterested” to suggest impartiality and, when speaking of lack of interest, make use of the handy “uninterested.” </li></ul><p>FEWER THAN/LESS THAN </p><ul><li>Perhaps you’ve turned this distinction into a fetish. The strict—and, really, not all that hard to remember—differentiation is that “fewer than” is applied to countable objects (fewer bottles of beer on the wall) and “less than” to what we call exclusively singular nouns (less happiness, less quality) and mass nouns (fewer chips, less guacamole). </li><li>Except—and there’s always an “except,” isn’t there—one does use “less than” in discussions of distance (less than five hundred miles) and time. </li><li>And one likely uses “less than” in discussions of money and weight. </li></ul><p>FOR ALL INTENSIVE PURPOSES </p><ul><li>It’s “for all intents and purposes.” </li></ul><p>INCENTIVIZE </p><ul><li>The only thing worse than the ungodly “incentivize” is its satanic little sibling, “incent.” </li></ul><p>IRREGARDLESS </p><ul><li>This grim Brundlefly, a genetic mash-up of “irrespective” and “regardless,” is wholly unnecessary. </li></ul><p>LEARNINGS </p><ul><li>Have you no sense of decency? At long last, have you no sense of decency? </li><li>They’re lessons. </li></ul><p>LOAN (AS A VERB)” </p><ul><li>I tend to automatically change it to “lend.” </li></ul><p>NAUSEATED (VS. NAUSEOUS)” </p><ul><li>Eventually I learned the traditional differentiation between “nauseous”—causing nausea—and “nauseated”—preparing to heave—but it was too late for me to mend my ways, so I’m still happy, as it were, to be nauseous. </li></ul><p>ON ACCIDENT </p><ul><li>Yes, it’s “on purpose.” No, it’s not “on accident.” It’s “by accident.” </li></ul><p>ONBOARD </p><ul><li>The use of “onboard” as a verb in place of “familiarize” or “integrate” is grotesque. </li></ul><p>PASS AWAY” </p><ul><li>In writing, people die. </li></ul><p>PENULTIMATE </p><ul><li>“Penultimate” is not a fancyism for “ultimate.” It does not mean “like totally ultimate, bro.” It means “the thing before the last thing.” </li></ul><p>REFERENCE (AS A VERB) </p><ul><li>You can just say “refer to.” </li></ul><p>RESIDE </p><ul><li>You mean “live”?” </li></ul><p>TASK (AS A VERB) </p><ul><li>I’d rather be assigned to do something than tasked to do it.” </li></ul><p>TRY AND </p><ul><li>If you try and do something, someone will immediately tell you to try <em>to</em> do it, so you might as well just try to do it so no one will yell at you. </li></ul><p>UTILIZE </p><ul><li>You can haul out “utilize” when you’re speaking of making particularly good use of something, as in utilizing facts and figures to project a company’s future earnings. Otherwise all you really need is “use.” </li></ul><p>VERY UNIQUE </p><ul><li>In the 1906 edition of <em>The King’s English</em>, H. W. Fowler declared—and he was neither the first nor the last person to so declare—“A thing is unique, or not unique; there are no degrees of uniqueness; nothing is ever somewhat or rather unique, though many things are almost or in some respects unique.” </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 10: The Confusables</strong></h6><p>ANYMORE/ANY MORE </p><ul><li>“Anymore” = any longer or at this time, as in “I’ve a feeling we’re not in Kansas anymore.” </li><li>“Any more” = an additional amount, as in “I don’t want any more pie, thank you.” </li></ul><p>CONFIDANT/CONFIDANTE </p><ul><li>If you’re not a fan of gendered nouns, you can certainly apply “confidant” to anyone with whom you share confidences. Don’t, though, refer to a man as a confidante; confidantes are, solely, women. </li><li>(Most people discern correctly between “fiancé” and “fiancée,” but most is not all.)” </li></ul><p>CONTINUAL/CONTINUOUS </p><ul><li>“Continual” means ongoing but with pause or interruption, starting and stopping, as, say, continual thunderstorms (with patches of sunlight) or continual bickering (with patches of amity). </li><li>“Continuous” means “ceaseless”. </li></ul><p>FLOUNDER/FOUNDER </p><ul><li>To flounder is to struggle clumsily; to founder is to sink or to fail. </li></ul><p>HISTORIC/HISTORICAL </p><ul><li>“Historic” denotes significance, as the passing of the Civil Rights Act was a historic event. </li><li>“Historical” simply denotes presence in the past. </li></ul><p>IMPLY/INFER </p><ul><li>To imply is to suggest, to say something without saying it. </li><li>To infer is to draw a conclusion from information perhaps obliquely offered, to figure out, to deduce. </li><li>Think of “imply” as an outward action and “infer” as an inward one. Or: Speakers imply; listeners infer.” </li></ul><p>IT’S/ITS </p><ul><li>“It’s” is “it is,” as in “It’s a lovely day today.” </li><li>“Its” is the possessive of “it,” as in “It rubs the lotion on its skin.” </li></ul><p>LAY, LIE, LAID, LAIN, AND THE REST OF THE CLAN </p><ul><li>So, then: One notes that “lay” is a transitive verb, which means that it demands an object. A transitive verb doesn’t merely do; it must do <em>to</em> something. </li><li>“Lie,” on the other hand, is an intransitive verb. I lie, period. Works for both recumbence and fibbing. </li><li>“Lie” can handle an adverb (I lie down, I lie badly) or a place on which to do it (I lie on the couch); it just doesn’t need a thing” </li><li>Unfortunately, both verbs can and must be conjugated, and this is where the trouble kicks in. </li></ul><p>MILITATE/MITIGATE </p><ul><li>To militate is to prevent or to counteraffect. </li><li>To mitigate is to alleviate. </li><li>No matter how many times you see “mitigate against,” which is all the time, it is never correct. </li></ul><p>PRONE/SUPINE </p><ul><li>For the record: </li><li>To be supine is to be lying on one’s back. </li><li>To be prone is to be lying on one’s stomach. </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 12: The Trimmables</strong></h6><p>In either case, for those moments when you’re contemplating that either you or your prose could stand to go on a diet and your prose seems the easier target, here’s a good place to start. (The bits in italics are the bits you can dispose of.) </p><ul><li><em>absolutely</em> certain, <em>absolute</em> certainty, <em>absolutely</em> essential </li><li><em>added</em> bonus </li><li><em>advance</em> planning, <em>advance</em> warning </li><li><em>all-time</em> record” </li><li>ATM <em>machine</em></li><li>blend <em>together</em></li><li>cameo <em>appearance</em>, cameo <em>role</em></li><li>capitol <em>building</em></li><li><em>closed</em> fist </li><li><em>close</em> proximity </li><li>consensus <em>of opinion, general</em> consensus </li><li>continue <em>on</em></li><li>crisis <em>situation</em></li><li>depreciated <em>in value</em></li><li><em>direct</em> confrontation </li><li>disappear <em>from sight</em></li><li>earlier <em>in time</em></li><li><em>end</em> product </li><li><em>end</em> result” </li><li><em>equally</em> as, equally <em>as</em></li><li>Use one or the other, not both. </li><li>erupt (or explode) <em>violently</em></li><li><em>exact</em> same </li><li>fall <em>down</em></li><li><em>fellow</em> countryman </li><li>fetch <em>back</em></li><li>few <em>in number</em></li><li><em>fiction</em> novel </li><li><em>final</em> outcome </li><li>follow <em>after</em></li><li><em>free</em> gift </li><li><em>from</em> whence </li><li>frontispiece <em>illustration</em></li><li><em>full</em> gamut </li><li>fuse <em>together</em></li><li><em>future</em> plans </li><li>gather <em>together</em></li><li>glance <em>briefly</em></li><li>HIV <em>virus</em></li><li><em>hollow</em> tube </li><li>hourly (or daily or weekly or monthly or yearly) <em>basis</em></li><li>integrate <em>with each other</em></li><li>interdependent <em>upon each other</em></li><li>join <em>together</em></li><li>kneel <em>down</em></li><li>knots <em>per hour</em></li><li>last of <em>all</em></li><li>lesbian <em>woman</em></li><li>lift <em>up</em></li><li><em>low</em> ebb </li><li><em>main</em> protagonist </li><li>merge <em>together</em></li><li>might <em>possibly</em></li><li>moment <em>in time</em></li><li><em>more</em> superior </li><li><em>Mount</em> Fujiyama (<em>yama</em> means “mountain” so we can say Fujiyama or Mount Fuji) </li><li><em>mutual</em> cooperation </li><li>___ o’clock A.M. <em>in the morning</em></li><li>orbit <em>around</em></li><li><em>overexaggerate</em></li><li><em>passing</em> fad </li><li><em>past</em> history </li><li><em>personal</em> friend, <em>personal</em> opinion </li><li>PIN <em>number</em></li><li>plan <em>ahead</em></li><li><em>pre</em>plan </li><li>raise <em>up</em></li><li>reason <em>why</em></li><li>regular <em>routine</em></li><li>return (or recall or revert or many other things beginning with “re-”) <em>back</em></li><li>rise <em>up</em></li><li>short <em>in length</em></li><li>shuttle <em>back and forth</em></li><li>sink <em>down</em></li><li>skirt <em>around</em></li><li><em>slightly</em> ajar </li><li><em>sudden</em> impulse </li><li>surrounded <em>on all sides</em></li><li>swoop <em>down</em></li><li><em>sworn</em> affidavit </li><li>undergraduate <em>student</em></li><li><em>unexpected</em> surprise </li><li><em>unsolved</em> mystery </li><li><em>un</em>thaw </li><li><em>usual</em> custom </li><li><em>wall</em> mural </li><li><em>wall</em> sconce </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 13: The Miscellany</strong></h6><p>2. If you only see one movie this year… </p><ul><li>Normal human beings frontload the word “only” at the beginning of a sentence. Copy editors will tend to pick up that “only” and drop it next to the thing that’s being “only”d: </li><li>If you see only one movie this year… </li></ul><p>4. Here’s a fun weird thing: The word “namesake” works in both directions. That is, if you were named after your grandfather, you are his namesake. He is also yours. Who knew. </p><p>6. Clichés should be avoided like the plague </p><p>8. There is a world of difference between turning in to a driveway, which is a natural thing to do with one’s car, and turning into a driveway, which is a Merlyn trick. </p><p>9. Of two brothers, one fifteen and one seventeen, the fifteen-year-old is the younger, not the youngest, and the seventeen-year-old is the older (or elder, if you like), not the oldest (or eldest). </p><ul><li>It takes three to make an “-est.” </li><li>Except, English being English, in the phrase “best foot forward.” </li></ul><p>11. Avoid misquoting. Einstein is only one of the pin-the-wisdom-on-the-maven targets. Five’ll get you ten that a quote you find attributed, particularly without reference to a published source, to Abraham Lincoln is inauthentic; the same goes for Mark Twain, Oscar Wilde (and with the thousands of witticisms Wilde uttered, why would anyone put words into his mouth?), Winston Churchill, or Dorothy Parker (like Wilde, an industrial-strength generator of cleverness). </p><ul><li>There are any number of ways to verify or debunk quotes: </li><li>Wikiquote, with individual entries for just about everyone who ever picked up a pen, not only lists a writer’s greatest hits but helpfully links you to the published sources of said hits and, perhaps even more helpfully, includes reliable sections on disputed and misattributed quotes. </li><li>If you want to explore on your own, make use of the highly searchable <a href="http://books.google.com/">books.google.com</a>. If you can’t, with a modicum of effort, find a published source for a quote, the odds are at least reasonable that it’s a sham. </li><li>I also commend to you the work of the doggedly thorough Garson O’Toole, who runs the Quote Investigator website (access it via <a href="http://quoteinvestigator.com/">quoteinvestigator.com</a>, to be sure) and tweets as @QuoteResearch, and who specializes in not only debunking fake or misattributed quotes but time-traveling backward through the archives to discern, if he can, how and when the fakeries and misattributions first occurred. </li></ul><p>12. Title case is the convention of capitalizing, in titles of works (books, book chapters, plays, movies—you get the idea) and, often though not always, in newspaper and magazine headlines, the first letter of all the important words. </p><ul><li>Which are the important words of a title? </li><li>the first word and the last word </li><li>all nouns, pronouns, verbs, adjectives, and adverbs </li><li>Which are the words that don’t make the capital cut? </li><li>articles (“a,” “an,” “the”) </li><li>conjunctions (“and,” “but,” “if,” “or,” etc.) </li><li>Then clarity goes to heck. </li><li>Make sure you’ve capped that “It” (to say nothing of that “He,” that “She,” that “His,” and that “Hers”), and especially make sure you’ve capped those big leaguers “Is” and “Be,” the lowercasing of which is as close to a title-case capital crime as I can think of. </li></ul><p>14. A button-down shirt is a shirt whose collar points fasten to buttons on the upper-chestal zone of the shirt. It is not any old shirt that buttons from neck to waist. Call that a dress shirt, if it happens to be one (there’s no need, by the way, ever to refer to something as a “long-sleeve dress shirt,” because there is no such thing as a “short-sleeve dress shirt”), or a button-front shirt, or a button-up shirt, I don’t really care. </p><p>20. They’re not Brussel sprouts. They’re Brussels sprouts. </p><h5><strong>Outro</strong></h5><ul><li>I think perhaps you don’t finish writing a book. You stop writing it. </li><li>There’s no last word, only the next word. </li></ul><h5><strong>Things I Like</strong></h5><ul><li>Theodore Bernstein’s <em>Miss Thistlebottom’s Hobgoblins</em>, one of the charmingest, smartest, most readable books on the subject of language I’ve ever read. </li><li>Other sites: </li><li>Grammarist (<a href="http://grammarist.com/">grammarist.com</a>) </li><li>Patricia T. O’Conner and Stewart Kellerman’s Grammarphobia (<a href="http://grammarphobia.com/">grammarphobia.com</a>) </li><li>Jonathan Owen’s Arrant Pedantry (<a href="http://arrantpedantry.com/">arrantpedantry.com</a>) </li><li>Kory Stamper’s Harmless Drudgery (<a href="http://korystamper.wordpress.com/">korystamper.wordpress.com</a>) </li><li>Online Etymology Dictionary (<a href="http://etymonline.com/">etymonline.com</a>) </li><li>Mignon Fogarty’s Quick and Dirty Tips (<a href="http://quickanddirtytips.com/grammar-girl">quickanddirtytips.com/grammar-girl</a>) </li><li>Stan Carey’s Sentence first (<a href="http://stancarey.wordpress.com/">stancarey.wordpress.com</a>) </li><li>John E. McIntyre’s You Don’t Say (<a href="http://baltimoresun.com/news/language-blog">baltimoresun.com/news/language-blog</a>) </li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A book originally recommended by Dan Martell, this is another succinct, actionable read for those interested in growing companies, particularly those with high-growth potential (ie. scalable). The most valuable part of this book is the idea of thinking in systems, and the breakdown of those systems as they apply to “growth engines” (methods of making your company grow), hiring, product development, and more.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><p>Extreme Revenue Growth </p><ul><li>There are three key decisions you need to make to achieve extreme revenue growth; </li><li>Picking the right growth opportunities to pursue, and picking the right approach for each opportunity, </li><li>Managing growth by standardizing your operations, and developing business processes that can handle many more customers than you have today, and </li><li>Sustaining growth by using a disciplined system for managing your growth portfolio, building your team, and maintaining accountability for results. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part I: Creating Growth</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 1: The Revenue Growth Engine</strong></h5><p>A Revenue Growth Engine Consists of Five Key Components </p><ol><li>A target customer who’s aware of his or her problem. </li><li>A promise that your company makes to prospective customers. </li><li>A distribution channel for reaching and transacting with the target customer. </li><li>A product or service that fulfills the promise made to the customer. </li><li>A sustainable competitive advantage. </li></ol><p><strong>Key Ideas:</strong></p><ul><li>All revenue growth starts with the target customer, who has a problem. </li><li>To get a customer to buy you must make them a promise that is unique, credible and compelling. </li><li>Distribution is critical because, without it, your prospects will never see your product. </li><li>Design products to be easy to sell (ie. compatible with your distribution channel) and to fulfill expectations you set with the customer. </li><li>The lifespan of your revenue growth engine depends on the sustainability of your competitive advantage. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2: The Customer: The Person with the Money Makes All the Rules</strong></h5><ul><li>All revenue growth opportunities start with getting to know the person with the money-the customer</li><li>You can’t make your customers want something they don’t want or need</li><li>Adjust your target customer over time to adapt to changing markets and to create new opportunities</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: Make Customers a Unique, Compelling &amp; Credible Promise</strong></h5><ul><li>The key to driving sales is to present customers with a unique, credible promise that includes a compelling benefit.</li><li>There are several ways to differentiate your company from your competitors: offer the polar opposite of what the competition is offering (“zig” when others “zag”); be #1 in your industry at something, even if you have to be dead last at everything else; solve a bigger or broader problem than your competitors are accustomed to solving; or focus on a narrower customer segment than your competitors are willing to focus on.</li><li>A more unique, more compelling, promise only drives more sales if the promise is credible. To boost the credibility of your promise provide overwhelming proof that what you say is true through customer testimonials, product demos, free trials - and provide highly specific details to boost the credibility of your promise.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4: Distribution: The Most Valuable Asset of All</strong></h5><ul><li>Distribution is one of the most under-valued and under-utilized methods for extreme revenue growth.</li><li>Until you have access to a prospective customer, nothing else matters.</li><li>To dominate new customer acquisition in your market, lead your industry in revenues per customer. The company that makes the most per customer is the company that can afford to spend the most to get a new one.</li><li>To expand distribution focus on getting your distribution to work on a small scale (ie, “the repeatable unit”), document what you did right, and multiply it.</li><li>It’s not enough to grow fast, you need to grow fast in a way that can be duplicated and multiplied. That’s the difference between growth and sustained growth.</li><li>Exceptional revenue growth comes from disciplined focus on using A/B testing to generated tiny incremental improvements weekly that add up to significant growth over time.</li><li>To dominate 3rd party distribution, provide partners with a well honed sales process produced through A/B split testing, premium priced products, and a higher payout percentage- all of which puts more money into the distribution partner’s pocket</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5: Create Easy-to-Sell Products That Customers Love</strong></h5><ul><li>The Cheng Rule of Product Development: You can’t build a product to solve a problem you don’t understand.</li><li>Test the effectiveness of your product development team by asking to see a list of the customers they spoke to before they came up with the current product design.</li><li>It’s better to complete 100% of the features needed to get one growth engine to take off than to complete 50% of the features for two growth engines.</li><li>The UI IS the product and should be designed before the technology.</li><li>The most important feature in B2B applications is the ROI report (aka. The report that proves the customer was so smart to buy your product)</li><li>The second most important feature in software products is the “Suggest a Feature” feature.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6: The Sustainable Competitive Advantage</strong></h5><ul><li>A sustainable competitive advantage is a “soft” or “hard” asset that’s difficult for a competitor to duplicate.</li><li>A soft asset might be a product development process capable of producing new product revisions in only four months, while the rest of the industry takes seven months. </li><li>Another soft asset might be a method of recruiting and interviewing that consistently attracts exceptionally gifted employees.</li><li>A hard asset could be a patent on a novel product design, a manufacturing facility, or a warehouse.</li><li>How long you can sustain revenue growth is directly tied to your competitive advantages, and how difficult it is for a competitor to copy them. (The Amazon 6 fulfillment centres story)</li><li>Every revenue growth engine opportunity should: exploit a pre-existing competitive advantage, create a new competitive advantage or enhance a pre-existing advantage, or both. This is the only sure way to sustain growth over the long term.</li></ul><h5><strong>Part II: Managing Growth</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 7: The 10 Times Test</strong></h5><ul><li>A system that is scalable is one that can handle enormous surge in volume or usage without falling apart. This term applies to people-powered systems as well as technology systems.</li><li>The key to getting a system scalable is to remove bottlenecks that slow down the performance of a system.</li><li>Revenue generation is a system too - a system that is also constrained by bottlenecks</li><li>Your entire company should be focused on anticipating, finding, and eliminating bottlenecks that constrain revenue growth</li><li>The 10 Times Test: if your revenues increased by 10 times overnight would your company be able to handle it or would your systems “break”?</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8: Standardize Your Operations</strong></h5><ul><li>Fast revenue growth cannot happen without scalable processes in place.</li><li>Having documented processes in place makes it easy to identify and fix root problems that constrain your revenue growth.</li><li>The different between the entrepreneurial CEO and the “professional” CEO is knowledge of proven processes.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9: Every Problem is a Systems Problem</strong></h5><ul><li>The key to managing extreme revenue growth is relying on documented, repeated, scalable systems. </li><li>The great CEOs will manage at a high level but occasionally take deep dives into the minutiae to flush out a problem. </li><li>Every problem you think you have in your business is actually the symptom of an underlying systemic problem or flawed process. </li><li>Every “problem” that occurs twice is not really a problem at all; it’s a symptom of a flawed process or system. </li><li>The mother of all problems is the lack of documented, repeatable processes that are continually improved and refined. </li><li>Extreme growth magnifies all problems and places great urgency on solving the little problems before they grow into big problems. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10: Managing the Portfolio of Growth Engines</strong></h5><ul><li>The key decisions that should be continually revisited are: </li><li>What projects should I approve and fund? </li><li>What projects should I stop because the ROI is no longer attractive? </li><li>In what order should projects be pursued, given resource constraints? </li><li>What are the dependencies between projects? (Do I need the free cash flow produced by growth engine A to fund growth engine B?), and does this impact the other three types of decisions? </li></ul><p><strong>Key Ideas:</strong></p><ul><li>There are three roles for the CEO that can not, and should not, be delegated to others: </li><li>Managing the portfolio of growth engines </li><li>Recruiting, allocating, and managing talent </li><li>Keeping your team accountable for results </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 11: Managing the Growth Portfolio</strong></h5><ul><li>Managing your portfolio of revenue growth engine opportunities is an active, highly time consuming process, and most CEOs don’t devote enough time to it.</li><li>A new growth engine opportunity can be created by modifying any of its 5 key components: the target customer, the customer promise, the distribution channel, the product, and the competitive advantage.</li><li>Most high-tech and Internet companies mistakenly over-focus on the importance of the product at the expense of the other components of a growth engine.</li><li>The key to managing a growth engine portfolio is not to have as many growth engines as possible, but to effectively deliver on your growth objectives with the simplest possible portfolio.</li><li>A key to knowing when to remove a failing or mediocre performing revenue growth engine is to establish a minimum return on investment requirement for your entire portfolio.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 12: Talent: The Rocket Fuel for Sustained Growth</strong></h5><ul><li>The key to assembling the right executive team starts by knowing yourself. Stick to your exceptional talents, and hire others to cover your weaknesses.</li><li>“B” players focus on completing assigned activities, “A” players focus on delivering results.</li><li>Consider firing the bottom 10 to 20% of your employees every year to continually improve the overall quality of your team.</li><li>Hiring Step #1: Define results you want from a role before recruiting for it. Write a “result description” instead of a “job description”.</li><li>Hiring Step #2: Identify the key skills and knowledge areas needed to produce each result you require.</li><li>Hiring Step #3: Don’t hire the best candidate (ie. the least worst candidate), hire the candidate who is 100% qualified.</li><li>Hiring Step #4: Look for specific proof of skills and knowledge areas needed to deliver the outcomes you desire.</li><li>Hiring Step #5: Hire people with upside potential.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 13: Accountability: The Breakfast of Champions</strong></h5><ul><li>A CEO must hold people accountable for results, not activities.</li><li>Use a four-step “Accountability System” to ensure that the right things are getting done on time.</li><li>Step 1: Define the revenue goal for the company as a whole.</li><li>Step 2: Identify the revenue contribution expected from each revenue growth engine.</li><li>Step 3: Assign one person per revenue source to deliver the expected revenues.</li><li>Step 4: Use a monthly operations review to enforce accountability.</li></ul><h5><strong>Part IV: How to Get Started</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 14: 3 Strategies to Jump Start Growth</strong></h5><ul><li>The most common problems my new clients suffer from without realizing it stem from the issues related to “managing growth” (process standardization, the 10 times test, and systems).</li><li>The second most commonly overlooked bottleneck to growth comes from people-related problems, notably, a lack of disciplined processes or systems for recruiting people, managing them, and holding them accountable for results.</li><li>There are three strategies for jump starting growth for fast, immediate surges in revenues.</li><li>Strategy #1: Think Bigger.</li><li>Strategy #2: Isolate, focus on, and fix the biggest revenue growth bottleneck.</li><li>Strategy #3: Start by exploiting the under-utilized asset.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[My (relatively) low rating isn't necessarily reflective of the principles in the book; those are obviously timeless and things everyone should know and practice.  That, rather, is the reason for the relatively low rating. I'd still recommend everyone read the book once - it's a quick read - but the principles inside won't likely modify your thinking to a great degree, or cause a large shift in your perspective. Rather, they're things that should be obvious, and can be summarized fairly effectively as they are below.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Detailed Notes</h3><ol><li>Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain.</li><li>Give honest and sincere appreciation.</li><li>Arouse in the other person an eager want.</li></ol><p>Making People Like You:</p><ol><li>Become genuinely interested in other people.</li><li>Smile.</li><li>Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.</li><li>Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.</li><li>Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.</li><li>Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.</li></ol><p>How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking:</p><ol><li>The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.</li><li>Show respect for the other person’s opinions. Never say “you’re wrong”.</li><li>If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.</li><li>Begin in a friendly way.</li><li>Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately.</li><li>Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.</li><li>Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.</li><li>Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.</li><li>Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.</li><li>Appeal to the nobler motives.</li><li>Dramatize your ideas.</li><li>Throw down a challenge.</li></ol><p>How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment:</p><ol><li>Begin with praise and honest appreciation.</li><li>Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly.</li><li>Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.</li><li>Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.</li><li>Let the other person save face.</li><li>Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be “hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise.”</li><li>Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.</li><li>Use encouragement - make the fault seem easy to correct.</li><li>Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.</li></ol>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA["Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!": Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/surely-youre-joking-mr-feynman-richard-feynman</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A funny, compelling read about the interesting life of a brilliant scientist and American. No understanding of physics required, Feynman illustrates life lessons he’s learned through hilarious anecdotes that range widely from education, to building the atomic bomb, to drumming.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>Innovation is very difficult in the real world. </li><li>I don’t know what’s the matter with people: they don’t learn by understanding; they learn by some other way—by rote, or something. Their knowledge is so fragile! </li><li><strong>“I could do that, but I won’t” = “I can’t”. </strong></li><li>When trying to understand something, keep coming up with examples, and question people about them. </li><li>Sometimes, to solve a problem, you just need a different “box of tools”. </li><li>It was a brilliant idea: <strong>You have no responsibility to live up to what other people think you ought to accomplish. I have no responsibility to be like they expect me to be. It’s their mistake, not my failing. </strong></li><li>Seek activities in your life (like teaching) which constantly allow you to contribute, and give you ideas. </li><li>Things like this are a good example of positive constraints. </li><li>Your work should feel like “play” - work should “flow out effortlessly”. </li><li>Do not trust your memory, and do not make decisions about something when you are deprived of it (like love). </li><li>Memorizing, or learning things through words, does not equal understanding. Constantly ask yourself, “How can I apply this? What examples can I think of? Where does this apply in the real world?&quot; </li><li>Also, ask questions that may seem “dumb” if you don’t understand. </li><li>Don’t bet when the odds are against you - bet against the man who doesn’t realize the odds are against him. </li><li>In other words, find an angle, or a different way of coming at the problem. </li><li>Beware of “offers you must refuse” - offers that might enhance your life in some aspects, but compromise them in others. </li><li>Example: a large salary would likely incur bad behaviour. </li><li><strong>Don’t pay attention to anything by “experts”. Instead, always calculate things yourself from first principles. </strong></li><li>Art is for giving somebody, individually, pleasure. </li><li>Everyone has insecurities. </li><li>Much of modern education is taught by books which teach things by words, not by example, and therefore don’t actually help understanding at all. </li><li>We believe many things - like we know how to educate - yet reading scores, etc. keep decreasing. Why is this? Where else do we believe we know something, yet the results show otherwise? </li><li>You must strive for scientific integrity - utter honesty. This involves bending over backwards to explain why your experiment might be wrong, potential sources of error, details that may cause doubt on your interpretation, etc. </li><li>When you publish details, you must include those that conflict, and you should always publish those experiments or theories that fail, too. </li><li>You must try to give all the information to help others judge the value of your contribution, not just the information that leads to judgement in one direction or another. </li><li><strong>The first principle is that you must not fool yourself—and you are the easiest person to fool. </strong>So you have to be very careful about that. After you’ve not fooled yourself, it’s easy not to fool other scientists. You just have to be honest in a conventional way after that. </li><li>So I have just one wish for you—the good luck to be somewhere where you are free to maintain the kind of integrity I have described, and where you do not feel heed by a need to maintain your position In the organization, or financial support, or so on, to lose your integrity. May you have that freedom. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The 50th Law by Robert Greene: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[An excellent book from Robert Greene - one of my favourites among his work, and much more digestible than some of his others.  The general concepts explored come down to fearlessness, and what he calls The 50th Law:     "The 50th Law, however, states that there is one thing we can actually control — the mind - set with which we respond to these events around us. And if we are able to overcome our anxieties and forge a fearless attitude towards life, something strange and remarkable can occur — that margin of control over circumstance increases. At its utmost point, we can even create the circumstances themselves, which is the source of the tremendous power that fearless types have had throughout history. And the people who practice the 50th Law in their lives all share certain qualities — supreme boldness, unconventionality, fluidity, and a sense of urgency — that give them this unique ability to shape circumstance.”The book goes on to break down this law into its components, and details examples of each, as well as actionable guidelines for how to cultivate qualities and skills yourself.  It’s a book you should read and digest, and then refer back to constantly.  Perhaps one of Greene’s most relevant books to life in general, it provides the set of principles by which you should live.   Definitely recommend.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favorite Quotes</h3><ul><li>This must be the power and the direction of your mind whenever you encounter some problem — to bore deeper and deeper until you get at something basic and at the root.</li><li>The real poetry and beauty in life comes from an intense relationship with reality in all its aspects. Realism is in fact the ideal we must aspire to, the highest point of human rationality.</li><li>Keep in mind the following: what you really value in life is ownership, not money. If ever there is a choice — more money or more responsibility — you must always opt for the latter. A lower - paying position that offers more room to make decisions and carve out little empires is infinitely preferable to something that pays well but constricts your movements.</li><li>Make your enterprise a reflection of your individuality.</li><li>Events in life are not negative or positive. They are completely neutral...Things merely happen to you. It is your mind that chooses to interpret them as negative or positive.</li><li>Most people wait too long to go into action, generally out of fear. They want more money or better circumstances. You must go the opposite direction and move before you think you are ready.</li><li>Understand: it is not only what you do that must have flow, but also how you do things. It is your strategies, your methods of attacking problems, that must constantly be adapted to circumstances.</li><li>Forgetting is a skill that you must develop in order to have emotional flow. If you cannot help but feel anger or disgust in the moment, make it a point to not let it remain the following day.</li><li>It might seem that intense feelings of love, hate, or anger can be used to impel you forward on some project, but that is an illusion. Such emotions give you a burst of energy that falls quickly and leaves you as low as you were high.</li><li>In general, you must be less respectful of the rules that other people have established. They do not necessarily fit the times or your temperament. And there is great power to be had by being the one to initiate a new order.</li><li>Sometimes in life you find yourself in a negative situation that cannot be improved no matter what you do...You can recognize this dynamic by your emotional need to somehow solve the problem, mixed with your complete frustration in finding any kind of reasonable answer. In truth the only viable solution is to terminate the relationship — no arguing, no bargaining, no compromising. You leave the job (there are always others); you leave the person who is tormenting you with as much finality as possible. Resist the temptation to feel any guilt. You need to create as much distance as possible, so they cannot inveigle these emotions into you. They must become dead to you so you can go on with your life.</li><li>To make this work you must choose a career or a craft that excites you in some deep way. You are creating no dividing line between work and pleasure. Your pleasure comes in mastering the process itself, and in the mental immersion it requires.</li><li>The fearless types in history inevitably display in their lives a higher tolerance than most of us for repetitive, boring tasks. This allows them to excel in their field and master their craft.</li><li>“All of man’s troubles come from not knowing how to sit still, alone in a room.” - Blaise Pascal</li><li>Understand: the real secret, the real formula for power in this world, lies in accepting the ugly reality that learning requires a process, and this in turn demands patience and the ability to endure drudge work. It is not sexy or seductive at first glance, but this truth is based on something real and substantial—an age-old wisdom that will never be overturned.</li><li>Your sense of who you are will determine your actions and what you end up getting in life. If you see your reach as limited, that you are mostly helpless in the face of so many difficulties, that it is best to keep your ambitions low, then you will receive the little that you expect...Knowing this dynamic, you must train yourself for the opposite - ask for more, aim high, and believe that you are destined for something great. Your sense of self-worth comes from you alone - never the opinion of others. With a rising confidence in your abilities, you will take risks that will increase your chances of success. People follow those who know where they are going, so cultivate an air of certainty and boldness.</li><li>Understand: people will constantly attack you in life. One of their main weapons will be to instill in you doubts about yourself—your worth, your abilities, your potential. They will often disguise this as their objective opinion, but invariably it has a political purpose—they want to keep you down. You are continually prone to believe these opinions, particularly if your self-image is fragile. In every moment of life you can defy and deny people this power. You do so by maintaining a sense of purpose, a high destiny you are fulfilling. From such a position, people’s attacks do not harm you; they only make you angry and more determined. The higher you raise this self-image, the fewer judgments and manipulations you will tolerate. This will translate into fewer obstacles in your path.</li><li>When you choose to affirm life by confronting your mortality, everything changes. What matters to you now is to live your days well, as fully as possible.</li><li>In our normal perspective we see death as something diametrically opposed to life, a separate event that ends our days. As such, it is a thought that we must dread, avoid, and repress. But this is false, an idea that is actually born out of our fear. Life and death are inextricably intertwined, not separate; the one cannot exist without the other...If we try to avoid or repress the thought, keep death on the outside, we are cutting ourselves off from life as well.</li></ul><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><h5>Introduction</h5><ul><li>Fear creates its own self - fulfilling dynamic — as people give in to it, they lose energy and momentum.</li><li>Understand: we are all too afraid — of offending people, of stirring up conflict, of standing out from the crowd, of taking bold action.</li></ul><p>The Fearless Type:</p><p>There are two ways of dealing with fear — one passive, the other active. In the passive mode, we seek to avoid the situation that causes us anxiety. This could translate into postponing any decisions in which we might hurt people’s feelings.</p><ul><li>The active variety is something most of us have experienced at some point in our lives: the risky or difficult situation that we fear is thrust upon us. It could be a natural disaster, a death of someone close to us, or a reversal in fortune in which we lose something. Often in these moments we find an inner strength that surprises us. What we feared is not so bad. We cannot avoid it and have to find a way to overcome our fear or suffer real consequences. Such moments are oddly therapeutic because finally we are confronting something real — not an imagined fear scenario fed to us by the media.</li><li>Understand: no one is born this way. It is unnatural to not feel fear. It is a process that requires challenges and tests. What separates those who go under and those who rise above adversity is the strength of their will and their hunger for power.</li><li>At some point, this defensive position of overcoming fears converts to an offensive one — a fearless attitude.</li><li>Testing and proving his courage in this way gave him a feeling of tremendous power. He quickly learned the value of boldness, how he could push others on their heels by feeling supreme confidence in himself.</li><li>Fifty, however, had greater ambitions than to become merely a successful hustler, and so he forced himself to face and overcome this one powerful fear. At the age of twenty and at the peak of his hustling success, he decided to cut his ties to the game and dive into the music racket without any connections or a safety net. Because he had no plan B, because it was either succeed at music or go under, he operated with a frantic, bold energy that got him noticed in the rap world.</li></ul><p>The 50th Law:</p><ul><li>The 50th Law, however, states that there is one thing we can actually control — the mind - set with which we respond to these events around us. And if we are able to overcome our anxieties and forge a fearless attitude towards life, something strange and remarkable can occur — that margin of control over circumstance increases. At its utmost point, we can even create the circumstances themselves, which is the source of the tremendous power that fearless types have had throughout history. And the people who practice the 50th Law in their lives all share certain qualities — supreme boldness, unconventionality, fluidity, and a sense of urgency — that give them this unique ability to shape circumstance.</li><li>Those who follow the 50th Law are not afraid of change or chaos; they embrace it by being as fluid as possible. They move with the flow of events and then gently channel them in the direction of their choice, exploiting the moment. Through their mind - set, they convert a negative (unexpected events) into a positive (an opportunity).</li><li>The key to possessing this supreme power is to assume the active mode in dealing with your fears. This means entering the very arenas you normally shy away from: making the very hard decisions you have been avoiding, confronting the people who are playing power games with you, thinking of yourself and what you need instead of pleasing others, making yourself change the direction of your life even though such change is the very thing you dread.</li><li>You deliberately put yourself in difficult situations and you examine your reactions. In each case, you will notice that your fears were exaggerated and that confronting them has the bracing effect of bringing you closer to reality.</li><li>At some point you will discover the power of reversal — overcoming the negative of a particular fear leads to a positive quality — self - reliance, patience, supreme self - confidence, and on and on.</li><li>Understand: you do not have to grow up in Southside Queens or be the target of an assassin to develop the attitude. All of us face challenges, rivals, and setbacks. We choose to ignore or avoid them out of fear. It is not the physical reality of your environment that matters but your mental state, how you come to deal with the adversity that is part of life on every level. Fifty had to confront his fears; you must choose to.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 1 See Things for What They Are — Intense Realism</h5><p>The firmer your grasp on reality, the more power you will have to alter it for your purposes.</p><p>The Fearless Approach:</p><ul><li>Truth’s words apply to you as much as to Fifty: the greatest danger you face is your mind growing soft and your eye getting dull.</li><li>When things get tough and you grow tired of the grind, your mind tends to drift into fantasies; you wish things were a certain way, and slowly, subtly, you turn inward to your thoughts and desires.</li><li>If things are going well, you become complacent, imagining that what you have now will continue forever. You stop paying attention.</li><li>Understand: you need this code even more than Fifty. His world was so harsh and dangerous it forced him to open his eyes to reality and never lose that connection. Your world seems cozier and less violent, less immediately dangerous. It makes you wander and your eyes mist over with dreams. The competitive dynamic (the streets, the business world) is in fact the same, but your apparently comfortable environment makes it harder for you to see it. Reality has its own power — you can turn your back on it, but it will find you in the end, and your inability to cope with it will be your ruin. Now is the time to stop drifting and wake up — to assess yourself, the people around you, and the direction in which you are headed in as cold and brutal a light as possible. Without fear.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>Understand: as an individual you cannot stop the tide of fantasy and escapism sweeping a culture. But you can stand as an individual bulwark to this trend and create power for yourself. You were born with the greatest weapon in all of nature — the rational, conscious mind.</li><li>Regard the following as exercises for your mind — to make it less rigid, more penetrating and expansive, a sharper gauge of reality. Practice all of them as often as you can.</li></ul><p>REDISCOVER CURIOSITY — OPENNESS</p><ul><li>His superiority, he realized, was that he knew that he knew nothing. This left his mind open to experiencing things as they are, the source of all knowledge.</li><li>This position of basic ignorance was what you had as a child.</li><li>What you need to do in life is return to that mind you possessed as a child, opening up to experience instead of closing it off. Just imagine for a day that you do not know anything, that what you believe could be completely false. Let go of your preconceptions and even your most cherished beliefs. Experiment. Force yourself to hold the opposite opinion or see the world through your enemy’s eyes.</li></ul><p>KNOW THE COMPLETE TERRAIN — EXPANSION</p><ul><li>Your goal is to follow the path of Napoleon. You want to take in as much as possible with your own eyes. You communicate with people up and down the chain of command within your organization. You do not draw any barriers to your social interactions. You want to expand your access to different ideas. Force yourself to go to events and places that are beyond your usual circle. If you cannot observe something firsthand, try to get reports that are more direct and less filtered, or vary the sources so that you can see things from several sides. Get a fingertip feel for everything going on in your environment — the complete terrain.</li></ul><p>DIG TO THE ROOTS — DEPTH</p><ul><li>When you do not get to the root of a problem, you cannot solve it in any meaningful manner. People like to look at the surfaces, get all emotional and react, doing things that make them feel better in the short term but do nothing for them in the long term.</li><li>This must be the power and the direction of your mind whenever you encounter some problem — to bore deeper and deeper until you get at something basic and at the root.</li></ul><p>SEE FURTHER AHEAD — PROPORTION</p><ul><li>It is a law of power, however, that the further and deeper we contemplate the future, the greater our capacity to shape it according to our desires.</li><li>If you have a long - term goal for yourself, one that you have imagined in detail, then you are better able to make the proper decisions in the present. You know which battles or positions to avoid because they don’t advance you towards your goal.</li></ul><p>LOOK AT PEOPLE’S DEEDS, NOT WORDS — SHARPNESS</p><ul><li>In war or any competitive game, you don’t pay attention to people’s good or bad intentions. They don’t matter. It should be the same in the game of life.</li><li>All you look at are people’s maneuvers — their actions in the past and what you might expect in the future. In this area, you are fiercely realistic.</li></ul><p>REASSESS YOURSELF — DETACHMENT</p><ul><li>Your increasing powers of observation must occasionally be aimed at yourself. Think of this as a ritual you will engage in every few weeks — a rigorous reassessment of who you are and where you are headed. Look at your most recent actions as if they were the maneuvers of another person.</li><li>The endgame of such an exercise is to cultivate the proper sense of detachment from yourself and from life.</li><li>Reversal of Perspective</li><li>Let us take this further. The real poetry and beauty in life comes from an intense relationship with reality in all its aspects. Realism is in fact the ideal we must aspire to, the highest point of human rationality.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 2 Make Everything Your Own — Self - Reliance</h5><p>Your goal in every maneuver in life must be ownership, working the corner for yourself. When it is yours to lose - you are more motivated, more creative, more alive. The ultimate power in life is to be completely self-reliant, completely yourself.</p><p>The Fearless Approach</p><ul><li>True ownership can come only from within. It comes from a disdain for anything or anybody that impinges upon your mobility, from a confidence in your own decisions, and from the use of your time in constant pursuit of education and improvement.</li><li>Only from this inner position of strength and self - reliance will you be able to truly work for yourself and never turn back.</li><li>Understand: we are living through an entrepreneurial revolution, comparable to the one that swept through Fifty’s neighborhood in the 1980s, but on a global scale.</li><li>Think of it this way: dependency is a habit that is so easy to acquire. We live in a culture that offers you all kinds of crutches — experts to turn to, drugs to cure any psychological unease, mild pleasures to help pass or kill time, jobs to keep you just above water. It is hard to resist.</li><li>Before it is too late, you must move in the opposite direction.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>Your life must be a progression towards ownership — first mentally of your independence, and then physically of your work, owning what you produce. Think of the following steps as a kind of blueprint for how to move in this direction.</li></ul><p>STEP ONE: RECLAIM DEAD TIME</p><ul><li>Remember: your bosses prefer to keep you in dependent positions. It is in their interest that you do not become self-reliant, and so they will tend to hoard information. You must secretly work against this and seize the information for yourself.</li></ul><p>STEP TWO: CREATE LITTLE EMPIRES</p><ul><li>While still working for others, your goal at some point must be to carve out little areas that you can operate on your own, cultivating entrepreneurial skills.</li><li>Keep in mind the following: what you really value in life is ownership, not money. If ever there is a choice — more money or more responsibility — you must always opt for the latter. A lower - paying position that offers more room to make decisions and carve out little empires is infinitely preferable to something that pays well but constricts your movements.</li></ul><p>STEP THREE: MOVE HIGHER UP THE FOOD CHAIN</p><ul><li>Your goal in life must be to always move higher and higher up the food chain, where you alone control the direction of your enterprise and depend on no one. Since this goal is a future ideal, in the present you must strive to keep yourself free of the unnecessary entanglements and alliances. And if you cannot avoid having partners, make sure that you are clear as to what function they serve for you and how you will free yourself of them at the right moment.</li><li>You must remember that when people give you things or do you favours it is always with strings attached. They want something from you in return - assistance, unquestioned loyalty, and so forth. You want to keep yourself free of as many of these obligations as possible, so get in the habit of taking what you need for yourself instead of expecting others to give it to you.</li></ul><p>STEP FOUR: MAKE YOUR ENTERPRISE A REFLECTION OF YOUR INDIVIDUALITY</p><ul><li>Understand: you are one of a kind. Your character traits are a kind of chemical mix that will never be repeated in history. There are ideas unique to you, a specific rhythm and perspective that are your strengths, not your weaknesses. You must not be afraid of your uniqueness and you must care less and less what people think of you.</li><li>This has been the path of the most powerful people in history.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>In our culture we tend to elevate those who are smooth talkers, seem more gregarious, and fit in better, conforming to certain norms.</li><li>This is a superficial appraisal of character; if we reverse our perspective and look at this from the fearless point of view we come to the opposite conclusion.</li><li>People who are self - sufficient are generally types who are more comfortable with themselves. They do not look for things that they need from other people. Paradoxically this makes them more attractive and seductive.</li><li>The only way to gain self - reliance or any power is through great effort and practice.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 3 Turn Shit into Sugar — Opportunism</h5><p>Every negative situation contains the possibility for something positive, an opportunity. It is how you look at it that matters.</p><p>The Fearless Approach</p><ul><li>Events in life are not negative or positive. They are completely neutral.</li><li>Things merely happen to you. It is your mind that chooses to interpret them as negative or positive.</li><li>Mentally framing a negative event as a blessing in disguise makes it easier for you to move forward. It is a kind of mental alchemy, transforming shit into sugar.</li><li>Understand: we live in a society of relative prosperity, but in many ways this turns out to be a detriment to our spirit. We come to feel that we naturally deserve good things, that we have certain privileges due to us. When setbacks occur, it is almost a personal affront or punishment.</li><li>We either blame other people or we blame ourselves. In both cases, we lose valuable time and become unnecessarily emotional.</li><li>You must adopt an attitude that is the opposite to how most people think and operate. When things are going well, that is precisely when you must be concerned and vigilant. You know it will not last and you will not be caught unprepared. When things are going badly, that is when you are most encouraged and fearless.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>This attitude is what we shall call “opportunism.” True opportunists do not require urgent, stressful circumstances to become alert and inventive. They operate this way on a daily basis.</li><li>This power is open to each and every one of us if we put into practice the following four principles of the art.</li></ul><p>MAKE THE MOST OF WHAT YOU HAVE</p><ul><li>But a different possibility exists for us as well — the realization that more resources are not necessarily coming from the outside and that we must use what we already have to better effect.</li><li>When we go to work with what is there, we find new ways to employ this material. We solve problems, develop skills we can use again and again, and build up our confidence. If we become wealthy and dependent on money and technology, our minds atrophy and that wealth will not last.</li></ul><p>TURN ALL OBSTACLES INTO OPENINGS</p><ul><li>An opportunist in life sees all hindrances as instruments for power. The reason is simple: negative energy that comes at you in some form is energy that can be turned around — to defeat an opponent and lift you up.</li><li>In general, obstacles force your mind to focus and find ways around them. They heighten your mental powers and should be welcomed.</li></ul><p>LOOK FOR TURNING POINTS</p><ul><li>Opportunities exist in any field of tension — heated competition, anxiety, chaotic situations. Something important is going on and if you are able to determine the underlying cause, you can create for yourself a powerful opportunity.</li><li>Look for any sudden successes or failures in the business world that people find hard to explain. These are often indications of shifts going on under the surface; perhaps someone has inadvertently hit upon a new model for doing things and you must analyze this.</li><li>Examine the greatest anxieties of those on the inside of any business or industry. Deep changes going on usually register as fear to those who do not know how to deal with them. You can be the first to exploit such changes for positive purposes.</li><li>Keep your eye out for any kind of shifts in tastes or values. People in the media or the establishment will often rail against these changes, seeing them as signs of moral decline and chaos. People fear the new. You can turn this into an opportunity by being the first to give some meaning to this apparent disorder, establishing it as a positive value. You are not looking for fads, but deep - rooted changes in people’s tastes. One opportunity you can always bank on is that a younger generation will react against the sacred cows of the older generation.</li></ul><p>MOVE BEFORE YOU ARE READY</p><ul><li>Most people wait too long to go into action, generally out of fear. They want more money or better circumstances. You must go the opposite direction and move before you think you are ready. It is as if you are making it a little more difficult for yourself, deliberately creating obstacles in your path. But it is a law of power that your energy will always rise to the appropriate level. When you feel that you must work harder to get to your goal because you are not quite prepared, you are more alert and inventive. This venture has to succeed and so it will.</li><li>Remember: as Napoleon said, the moral is to the physical as three to one — meaning the motivation and energy levels you or your army bring to the encounter have three times as much weight as your physical resources.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>Opportunism comes with a belief system that is eminently positive and powerful — one known to the Stoic philosophers of ancient Rome as amor fati, or love of fate.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 4 Keep Moving — Calculated Momentum</h5><p>Keep moving and changing your appearances to fit the environment. If you encounter walls or boundaries, slip around them. Do not let anything disrupt your flow.</p><p>The Fearless Approach</p><ul><li>The first and most important step is to let go of this need to control in such a direct manner. This means that you no longer see change and chaotic moments in life as something to fear, but rather as a source of excitement and opportunity.</li><li>As part of this new concept, you are replacing the old stalwart symbols of power — the rock, the oak tree, etc. — with that of water, the element that has the greatest potential force in all of nature. Water can adapt to whatever comes its way, moving around or over any obstacle. It wears away rock over time. This form of power does not mean you simply give in to what life brings you and drift. It means that you channel the flow of events in your direction, letting this add to the force of your actions and giving you powerful momentum.</li><li>Understand: it is not only what you do that must have flow, but also how you do things. It is your strategies, your methods of attacking problems, that must constantly be adapted to circumstances. Strategy is the essence of human action — the bridge between an idea and its realization in the world. Too often these strategies become frozen into conventions, as people mindlessly imitate what worked before. By keeping your strategies attuned to the moment, you can be an agent of change, the one who breaks up these dead ways of acting, gaining tremendous power in the process. Most people in life are rigid and predictable; that makes them easy targets. Your fluid, unpredictable strategies will drive them insane. They cannot foresee your next move or figure you out. That is often enough to make them give way or fall apart.</li><li>Keys to Fearlessness</li><li>Understand: momentum in life comes from increased fluidity, a willingness to try more, to move in a less constricted fashion. On many levels it remains something hard to put into words, but by understanding the process, becoming more conscious of the elements involved, you can place your mind in a readied position, better able to exploit any positive movement in your life. Call this calculated momentum. For this purpose you must practice and master the following four types of flow.</li></ul><p>MENTAL FLOW</p><ul><li>Knowledge has once again hardened into rigid categories, with intellectuals shut off in various ghettos. Intelligent people are considered serious by virtue of how deeply they immerse themselves in one field of study, their viewpoint becoming more and more myopic. Someone who crosses these rigid demarcations is inevitably considered a dilettante.</li><li>We end up strangling ourselves in the narrowness of our interests. With all of these restrictions, knowledge has no flow to it.</li><li>All of the greatest innovations in history come from an openness to discovery, one idea leading to another, sometimes coming from unrelated fields. You must develop this spirit and the same insatiable hunger for knowledge. This comes from widening your fields of study and observation, letting yourself be carried along by what you discover.</li></ul><p>EMOTIONAL FLOW</p><ul><li>Forgetting is a skill that you must develop in order to have emotional flow. If you cannot help but feel anger or disgust in the moment, make it a point to not let it remain the following day.</li><li>When you hold on to emotions like that, it is as if you put blinders on your eyes. For that amount of time, you see and feel only what this emotion dictates, falling behind events. Your mind stops on feelings of failure, disappointment, and mistrust, giving you that awkwardness of someone out of tune with the moment.</li><li>To combat this, you must learn the art of counterbalance. When you are fearful, force yourself to act in a bolder fashion than usual. When you feel inordinate hate, find some object of love or admiration that you can focus on with intensity. One strong emotion tends to cancel out the other and help you move past it.</li><li>It might seem that intense feelings of love, hate, or anger can be used to impel you forward on some project, but that is an illusion. Such emotions give you a burst of energy that falls quickly and leaves you as low as you were high.</li><li>Rather, you want a more balanced emotional life, with fewer highs and lows.</li></ul><p>SOCIAL FLOW</p><ul><li>This should be your model in any venture that involves groups of people. You provide the framework, based on your knowledge and expertise, but you allow room for this project to be shaped by those involved in it. They are motivated and creative, helping to give the project more flow and force. You are not going too far in this process; you set the overall direction and tone.</li></ul><p>CULTURAL FLOW</p><ul><li>Understand: you exist in a particular cultural moment, with its own flow and style. When you are young you are more sensitive to these fluctuations in taste and so you generally keep up with the present. But as you get older the tendency is for you to become locked in a style that is dead, one that you associate with your youth and its excitement. If enough time passes, your style - lock can become quite ludicrous; you look like a museum piece. Your momentum will grind to a halt as people come to categorize you in a narrow period of time.</li><li>Instead you must find a way to periodically reinvent yourself. You are not trying to mimic the latest trend — that will make you look equally ludicrous. You are simply rediscovering that youthful attentiveness to what is happening around you and incorporating what you like into a newer spirit. You are taking pleasure in shaping your personality, wearing a new mask. The only thing you really have to fear is becoming a social and cultural relic.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>This is how you must operate: you actively work to overcome this fixed nature, deliberately trying a different approach and style than your usual one, to get a sense of a different possibility. You come to view periods of stability and order with mistrust. Something isn’t moving in your life and in your mind.</li><li>On the other hand, moments of change and apparent chaos are what you thrive on — they make your mind and spirit jump to life. If you reach such a point, you have tremendous power. You have nothing to fear from moments of transition. You welcome, even create them. Whenever you feel rooted and established in place, that is when you should be truly afraid.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 5 Know When to Be Bad — Aggression</h5><p>Before it is too late you must master the art of knowing when and how to be bad - using deception, manipulation, and outright force at the appropriate moments.</p><p>The Fearless Approach</p><ul><li>Life involves constant battle and confrontation. This comes on two levels. On one level, we have desires and needs, our own interests that we wish to advance. In a highly competitive world, this means we must assert ourselves and even occasionally push people out of position to get our way. On the other level, there are always people who are more aggressive than we are. At some point they cross our path and try to block or harm us. On both levels, playing offense and defense, we have to manage people’s resistance and hostility.</li><li>What you want instead is to feel secure and strong from within. You are willing to occasionally displease people and you are comfortable in taking on those who stand against your interests. From such a position of strength, you are able to handle friction in an effective manner, being bad when it is appropriate.</li><li>This inner strength, however, does not come naturally. What is required is some experience. This means that in your daily life you must assert yourself more than usual — you take on an aggressor instead of avoiding him; you strategize and push for something you want instead of waiting for someone to give it to you.</li><li>By a paradoxical law of human nature, trying to please people less will make them more likely in the long run to respect and treat you better.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>The following are the most common foes and scenarios that you will encounter in which some form of badness is required to defend or advance yourself.</li></ul><p>AGGRESSORS</p><ul><li>FDR had understood the basic principle in squaring off against aggressors who are direct and relentless. If you meet them head on, you are forced to fight on their terms. Unless you happen to be an aggressive type, you are generally at a disadvantage against those who have simple ideas and fierce energy. It is best to fight them in an indirect manner, concealing your intentions and doing what you can behind the scenes — hidden from the public — to create obstacles and sow confusion. Instead of reacting, you must give aggressors some space to go further with their attacks, getting them to expose themselves in the process and provide you plenty of juicy targets to hit. If you become too active and forceful in response, you look defensive.</li></ul><p>PASSIVE AGGRESSORS</p><ul><li>These types are masters at disguise. They present themselves as weak and helpless, or highly moral and righteous, or friendly and ingratiating. This makes them hard to pick out at first glance. They send all kinds of mixed signals — alternating between friendly, cool, and hostile — creating confusion and conflicting emotions.</li><li>Catherine was a classic fearless type. She understood that with passive aggressors you must not get emotional and drawn into their endless intrigues. If you respond indirectly, with a kind of passive aggression yourself, you play into their hands — they are better at this game than you are. Being underhanded and tricky only spurs on their insecurities and intensifies their vindictive nature. The only way to treat these types is to take bold, uncompromising action that either discourages further nonsense or sends them running away. They respond only to power and leverage.</li><li>To recognize such types, look for extremes in behavior that are not natural — too kind, too ingratiating, too moral. These are most likely disguises that are worn to deflect attention from their true nature. Better to be proactive and take precautionary measures the moment you feel they are trying to get into your life.</li></ul><p>UNJUST SITUATIONS</p><ul><li>In facing an unjust situation, you have two options. You can loudly proclaim your intentions to defeat the people behind it, making yourself look good and noble in the process. But in the end, this tends to polarize the public (you create one hardened enemy for every sympathizer won over to the cause), and it makes your intentions obvious. If the enemy is crafty, this makes it almost impossible to defeat them. Or, if it is results you are after, you must learn instead to play the fox, letting go of your moral purity. You resist the pull to get emotional, and you craft strategic maneuvers designed to win public support. You shift your position to suit the circumstance, baiting the enemy into actions that will win you sympathy.</li><li>You conceal your intentions. Think of it as war — short of unnecessary violence, you are called to do whatever it takes to defeat the enemy. There is no nobility in losing if an injustice is allowed to prevail.</li></ul><p>STATIC SITUATIONS</p><ul><li>In any venture, people quickly create rules and conventions that must be followed. This is often necessary to instill some discipline and order. But most often these rules and conventions are arbitrary — they are based on something that was successful in the past but might have little relevance to the present. They are often instruments for those in power to maintain their grip and keep the group unified. If this goes on long enough, they become stultifying and crowd out any new ways for doing things. In such a situation, what is called for is the total destruction of these dead conventions, creating space for something new. In other words you must be the complete lion, as bad as can be.</li><li>In general, you must be less respectful of the rules that other people have established. They do not necessarily fit the times or your temperament. And there is great power to be had by being the one to initiate a new order.</li></ul><p>IMPOSSIBLE DYNAMICS</p><ul><li>Sometimes in life you find yourself in a negative situation that cannot be improved no matter what you do.</li><li>You can recognize this dynamic by your emotional need to somehow solve the problem, mixed with your complete frustration in finding any kind of reasonable answer. In truth the only viable solution is to terminate the relationship — no arguing, no bargaining, no compromising. You leave the job (there are always others); you leave the person who is tormenting you with as much finality as possible. Resist the temptation to feel any guilt. You need to create as much distance as possible, so they cannot inveigle these emotions into you. They must become dead to you so you can go on with your life.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>The problem with confrontational moments, and why we often seek to avoid them, is that they churn up a lot of unpleasant emotions. We feel personally aggrieved that someone is trying to hurt or harm us. This makes us wonder about ourselves and feel insecure.</li><li>It is essential that you develop the reverse perspective: life naturally involves conflicting interests; people have their own issues, their own agendas, and they collide with yours. Instead of taking this personally or concerning yourself with people’s intentions, you must simply work to protect and advance yourself in this competitive game, this bloody arena.</li><li>Focus your attention on their maneuvers and how to deflect them.</li><li>When you have to resort to something that isn’t conventionally moral, it is just another maneuver you are executing in the game — nothing to feel guilty about. You accept human nature and the idea that people will resort to aggression. This calm, detached perspective will make it that much easier to design the perfect strategy for blunting their aggression.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 6 Lead from the Front — Authority</h5><ul><li>In any group, the person on top consciously or unconsciously sets the tone.</li><li>You must adopt the opposite style: imbue your troops with the proper spirit through your actions, not words. They see you working harder than anyone, holding yourself to the highest standards, taking risks with confidence, and making tough decisions. This inspires and binds the group together. In these democratic times, you must practice what you preach.</li></ul><p>The Fearless Approach</p><ul><li>This should be your perspective as well. You start with nothing in this world. Any titles, money, or privilege you inherit are actually hindrances. They delude you into believing you are owed respect. If you continue to impose your will because of such privileges, people will come to disdain and despise you. Instead only your actions can prove your worth. They tell people who you are. You must imagine that you are continually being challenged to show that you deserve the position you occupy. In a culture full of fakery and hype, you will stand out as someone authentic and worthy of respect.</li><li>The greatest leaders in history all inevitably learned by experience the following lesson: it is much better to be feared and respected than to be loved.</li><li>Understand: to be a leader often requires making tough choices, getting people to do things against their will. If you have chosen the soft, pleasing, compliant style of leadership, out of fear of being disliked, you will find yourself with less and less room to compel people to work harder or make sacrifices. If you suddenly try to be tough, they often feel wounded and personally upset. They can move from love to hate. The opposite approach yields the opposite result. If you build a reputation for toughness and getting results, people might resent you, but you will establish a foundation of respect. You are demonstrating genuine qualities of leadership that speak to everyone. Now with time and a well - founded authority, you have room to back off and reward people, even to be nice. When you do so, it will be seen as a genuine gesture, not an attempt to get people to like you, and it will have double the effect.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>To master the art of leadership you must see yourself as playing certain parts that will impress your disciples and make them more likely to follow you with the necessary enthusiasm. The following are the four main roles you must learn to perform.</li></ul><p>THE VISIONARY</p><ul><li>Understand: a group of any size must have goals and long - term objectives to function properly. But human nature serves as a great impediment to this. We are naturally consumed by immediate battles and problems; we find it very difficult, if not unnatural, to focus with any depth on the future. Thinking ahead requires a particular thought process that comes with practice. It means seeing something practical and achievable several years down the road, and mapping out how this goal can be achieved. It means thinking in branches, coming up with several paths to get there, depending on circumstances. It means being emotionally attached to this idea, so that when a thousand distractions and interruptions seem to push you off course, you have the strength and purpose to keep at it.</li></ul><p>THE UNIFIER</p><ul><li>Understand: the natural dynamic of any group is to splinter into factions. People want to protect and promote their narrow interests, so they form political alliances from within. If you force them to unite under your leadership, stamping out their factions, you may take control but it will come with great resentment — they will naturally suspect you are increasing your power at their expense. If you do nothing, you will find yourself surrounded by lords and dukes who will make your job impossible.</li><li>A group needs a centripetal force to give it unity and cohesion but it is not enough to have that be you and the force of your personality. Instead it should be a cause that you fearlessly embody. This could be political, ethical, or progressive — you are working to improve the lives of people in your community, for instance. This cause elevates your group above others.</li><li>To play this role effectively, you must be a living example of this cause, much as Louis exemplified the civilizing power of France in his own carefully crafted behavior.</li></ul><p>THE ROLE MODEL</p><ul><li>You cannot control a large group on your own. You will turn into a micromanager or dictator, making yourself exhausted and hated. You need to develop a team of lieutenants who are infused with your ideas, your spirit, and your values. Once you have such a team, you can give them latitude to operate on their own, learning for themselves and bringing their own creativity to the cause.</li><li>Operating with a mission statement is an effective way of softening your image and disguising the extent of your power. You are seen as more than just a leader; you are a role model, instructing, energizing, and inspiring your lieutenants. In crafting this team, look for people who share your values and are open to learning.</li><li>Once you feel they have the proper training, you must not be afraid to let go of the reins and give them more independence. In the end, this will save you much energy and allow you to continue focusing on the greater strategic picture.</li></ul><p>THE BOLD KNIGHT</p><ul><li>Every group has a kind of collective energy, and on its own this will tend towards inertia. This comes from people’s powerful desires to keep things comfortable, easy, and familiar.</li><li>Since you are the leader, you are the one who can alter this and set a pace that is more alive and active. You remain the bold and enterprising knight. You force yourself to initiate new projects and domains to conquer; you take proactive measures against possible dangers on the horizon; you seize the initiative against your rivals. You keep your group marching and on the offensive.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>As a leader this is how you must view yourself as well. You are an author creating a new order, writing a new act in some drama. You never rest on your laurels or past achievements. Instead you are constantly taking action that moves the group forward and brings positive results; that record speaks for itself.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 7 Know Your Environment from the Inside Out — Connection</h5><p>Most people think first of what they want to express or make, then find the audience for their idea. You must work the opposite angle, thinking first of the public.</p><p>Do not be afraid of people’s criticisms - without such feedback your work will be too personal and delusional.</p><p>The Fearless Approach</p><ul><li>Understand: the opposite approach is the way to power in this world. It begins with a fundamental fearlessness — you do not feel afraid or affronted by people who have different ways of thinking or acting. You do not feel superior to those on the outside. In fact, you are excited by such diversity. Your first move is to open up your spirit to these differences, to understand what makes the Other tick, to gain a feel for people’s inner lives, how they see the world. In this way, you continually expose yourself to wider and wider circles of people, building connections to these various networks. The source of your power is your sensitivity and closeness to this social environment. You can detect trends and changes in people’s tastes well before anyone else.</li><li>In such a melting pot as the modern world, with people’s tastes changing at a faster pace than ever before, our success depends on our ability to move outside ourselves and connect to other social networks. At all costs, you need to continually force yourself outward. You must reach a point where any sense of losing this connection to your environment translates into a feeling of vulnerability and peril.</li><li>This has great application beyond the realms of science. Normally when you study something, you begin with certain preconceived notions about the subject.</li><li>Instead, like Goodall, you must let go of this need to control and narrow your field of vision. When you study an individual or a group, your goal is to get inside their minds, their experiences, their way of looking at things. To do this, you must interact with them on a more equal plane. With this open and fearless spirit, you will discover things no one had suspected before. You will have a much deeper appreciation for the targets of your actions or the public you are trying to reach. And with such understanding will come the power to move them.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>Understand: you cannot disguise your attitude towards the public. If you feel superior at all, part of some chosen elite, then this seeps out in the work. It is conveyed in the tone and mood. It feels patronizing. If you have little access to the public you are trying to reach but you feel that the ideas in your head cannot fail to be interesting, then it almost inevitably comes across as something too personal, the product of someone who is alienated. In either case, what is really dominating the spirit of your work is fear. To interact closely with the public and get its feedback might mean having to adjust your “ brilliant ” ideas, your preconceived notions.</li><li>We are social creatures who make things in order to communicate and connect with those around us. Your goal must be to break down the distance between you and your audience, the base of your support in life.</li><li>The following are four strategies you can use to bring yourself closer to this ideal.</li></ul><p>CRUSH ALL DISTANCE</p><ul><li>Understand: in this day and age, to reach people you must have access to their inner lives — their frustrations, aspirations, resentments. To do so, you must crush as much distance as possible between you and your audience. You enter their spirit and absorb it from within. Their way of looking at things becomes yours, and when you re-create it in some form of work, it has life.</li></ul><p>OPEN INFORMAL CHANNELS OF CRITICISM AND FEEDBACK</p><ul><li>As Eleanor understood, any kind of group tends to close itself off from the outside world. It is easier to operate this way. From within this bubble, people will delude themselves into thinking they have insight into how their audience or public feels—they read the papers, various reports, the poll numbers, etc. But all of this information tends to be flat and highly filtered. It is much different when you interact directly with the public and hear in the flesh their criticisms and feedback.</li><li>You create a back-and-forth dynamic in which their ideas, involvement, and energy can be harnessed for your purposes. If some distance between you and the public must be maintained, by the nature of your group or enterprise, then the ideal is to open up as many informal channels as possible, getting your feedback straight from the source.</li></ul><p>RECONNECT WITH YOUR BASE</p><ul><li>We see the following occur over and over: a person has success when they are younger because they have deep ties with a social group. What they produce and say comes from a real place and connects with an audience. Then slowly they lose this connection. Success creates distance. They come to spend most of their time with other successful people. Consciously or unconsciously, they come to feel separated and above their audience. The intensity in their work is gone and with it any kind of real effect on the public.</li><li>The goal in connecting to the public is not to please everyone or to spread yourself out to the widest possible audience. Communication is a power of intensity, not extensity and numbers. In trying to widen your appeal, you will substitute quantity for quality and you will pay a price. You have a base of power—a group of people, small or large, which identifies with you. This base is also mental—ideas you had when you were younger, which were tied to powerful emotions and inspired you to take a particular path. Time and success tend to diffuse the sense of connection you have to this physical and mental base. You will drift and your powers of communication will diminish. Know your base and work to reconnect with it. Keep your associations with it alive, intense, and present. Return to your origins—the source of all inspiration and power.</li></ul><p>CREATE THE SOCIAL MIRROR</p><ul><li>Instead of turning inward, consider people’s coolness to your idea and their criticisms as a kind of mirror they are holding up to you. A physical mirror turns you into an object; you can see yourself as others see you. Your ego cannot protect you—the mirror does not lie.</li><li>When your work does not communicate with others, consider it your own fault—you did not make your ideas clear enough and you failed to connect with your audience emotionally. This will spare you any bitterness or anger that might come from people’s critiques. You are simply perfecting your work through the social mirror.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>Science and the scientific method are very powerful and practical pursuits of knowledge that have come to dominate much of our thinking for the past few centuries. But they have also spawned a peculiar preconception—that to understand anything we must study it from a distance and with a detached perspective.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 8 Respect the Process — Mastery</h5><p>You must learn early on to endure the hours of practice and drudgery, knowing that in the end all of that time will translate into a higher pleasure - mastery of a craft and of yourself. Your goal is to reach the ultimate skills level - an intuitive feel for what must come next.</p><p>The Fearless Approach</p><ul><li>This is the pattern that boredom has created for the human animal ever since: we look outside ourselves for diversions and grow dependent on them. These entertainments have a faster pace than the time we spend at work. Work then is experienced as something boring—slow and repetitive. Anything challenging, requiring effort, is viewed the same way—it’s not fun; it’s not fast. If we go far enough in this direction, we find it increasingly difficult to muster the patience to endure the hard work that is required for mastering any kind of craft. It becomes harder to spend time alone. Life becomes divided between what is necessary (time at work) and what is pleasurable (distractions and entertainment).</li><li>There is, however, another possible relationship to boredom and empty time, a fearless one that yields much different results than frustration and escapism. It goes as follows: you have some large goal that you wish to achieve in your life, something you feel that you are destined to create. If you reach that goal, it will bring you far greater satisfaction than the evanescent thrills that come from outside diversions. To get there you will have to learn a craft—educate yourself and develop the proper skills. All human activities involve a process of mastery. You must learn the various steps and procedures involved, proceeding to higher and higher levels of proficiency. This requires discipline and tenacity—the ability to withstand repetitive activity, slowness, and the anxiety that comes with such a challenge.</li><li>Once you start down this path, two things will happen: First, having the larger goal will lift your mind out of the moment and help you endure the hard work and drudgery. Second, as you become better at this task or craft, it becomes increasingly pleasurable. You see your improvement; you see connections and possibilities you hadn’t noticed before. Your mind becomes absorbed in mastering it further, and in this absorption you forget all your problems—fears for the future or people’s nasty games. But unlike the diversion that comes from outside sources, this one comes from within.</li><li>To make this work you must choose a career or a craft that excites you in some deep way. You are creating no dividing line between work and pleasure. Your pleasure comes in mastering the process itself, and in the mental immersion it requires.</li><li>The fearless types in history inevitably display in their lives a higher tolerance than most of us for repetitive, boring tasks. This allows them to excel in their field and master their craft. Part of this comes from seeing early on in life the tangible results that come from such rigorousness and patience.</li><li>When we look at those who stand out in history, we tend to focus on their achievements. From such an angle, it is easy for us to be dazzled and see their success as stemming from genetics and perhaps some social factors. They are gifted. We could never reach their level, or so we think. But we are choosing to ignore that telling period in their lives, when each and every one of them underwent a rather tedious apprenticeship in their field. What kept them going was the power they quickly discovered through mastery of certain steps. Sudden insights came to them that seem like genius to us, but are actually part of any intense learning process.</li><li>If only we were to study that part of their lives as opposed to the legends they later became, we would understand that we too could have some or all of that power by a patient immersion in any field of study. Many people cannot handle the boredom this might entail; they fear starting out on such an arduous process. They prefer their distractions, dreams, and illusions, never aware of the higher pleasures that are there for those who choose to master themselves and a craft.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>“All of man’s troubles come from not knowing how to sit still, alone in a room.” - Blaise Pascal</li><li>Understand: the real secret, the real formula for power in this world, lies in accepting the ugly reality that learning requires a process, and this in turn demands patience and the ability to endure drudge work. It is not sexy or seductive at first glance, but this truth is based on something real and substantial—an age-old wisdom that will never be overturned.</li><li>The key is the level of your desire. If you are really after power and mastery, then you will absorb this idea deeply and engrave it in your mind: there are no shortcuts. You will distrust anything that is fast and easy. You will be able to endure the initial months of dull, repetitive labor, because you have an overall goal. This will prevent you from short-circuiting, knowing many things but mastering none of them. In the end, what you really will be doing is mastering yourself—your impatience, your fear of boredom and empty time, your need for constant fun and amusement.</li><li>The following are five principal strategies for developing the proper relationship to process.</li></ul><p>PROGRESS THROUGH TRIAL AND ERROR</p><ul><li>Too often our concept of learning is to absorb ideas from books, to do what others tell us to, and perhaps to do some controlled exercises. But this is an incomplete and fearful concept of learning—cut off from practical experience. We are creatures who make things; we don’t simply imagine them. To master any process you must learn through trial and error. You experiment, you take some hard blows, and you see what works and doesn’t work in real time. You expose yourself and your work to public scrutiny. Your failures are embedded in your nervous system; you do not want to repeat them.</li></ul><p>MASTER SOMETHING SIMPLE</p><ul><li>Often we have a general feeling of insecurity because we have never really mastered anything in life. Unconsciously we feel weak and never quite up to the task. Before we begin something, we sense we will fail. The best way to overcome this once and for all is to attack this weakness head-on and build for ourselves a pattern of confidence. And this must be done by first tackling something simple and basic, giving us a taste for the power we can have.</li><li>When you take the time to master a simple process and overcome a basic insecurity, you develop certain skills that can be applied to anything. You see instantly the reward that comes from patience, practice, and discipline. You have the sense that you can tackle almost any problem in the same way. You create for yourself a pattern of confidence that will continue to rise.</li></ul><p>INTERNALIZE THE RULES OF THE GAME</p><ul><li>Understand: when you enter a group as part of a job or a career, there are all kinds of rules that govern behavior—values of good and bad, power networks that must be respected, patterns to be followed for successful action. If you do not patiently observe and learn them well, you will make all kinds of mistakes without knowing why or how. Think of social and political skills as a craft that you must master as well as any other. In the initial phase of your apprenticeship you must do as Marshall did and mute your colors. Your goal here is not to impress people with your brilliance but to learn these conventions from the inside. Watch for telling mistakes that others have made in the group and for which they have paid a price—that will reveal particular taboos within the culture. With a deepening knowledge of these rules you can begin to maneuver them for your purpose. If you find yourself confronting an unjust and corrupt system, it is much more effective to learn its codes from the inside and discover its vulnerabilities. Knowing how it works, you can take it apart - for good.</li></ul><p>ATTUNE YOURSELF TO THE DETAILS</p><ul><li>Often when you begin a project of any kind, it is from the wrong end. You tend to think first of what you want to accomplish, imagining the glory and money it will bring you if it succeeds. You then proceed to make this concept come to life. But as you go forward you often lose patience, because the small steps to get there are not nearly as exciting as the ambitious visions in your head. You must try instead the opposite approach, which can lead to very different results. You have a project you wish to bring to life, but you begin by immersing yourself in the details of the subject or field. You look at the materials you have to work with, the tastes of your target audience, and the latest technical advances in the field. You take pleasure in going deeper and deeper into these fine points—your research is intense. From this knowledge, you shape the project itself, grounding it in reality rather than in airy concepts in your head. Operating this way helps you slow your mind down and develop patience for detailed work, an essential skill for mastering any craft.</li></ul><p>REDISCOVER YOUR NATURAL PERSISTENCE</p><ul><li>This is the dilemma we all face: to accomplish anything worthwhile in life generally takes some time—often in blocks of years. But we are creatures who find it very hard to manage such long periods.</li><li>To force yourself past any obstacle or temptation, you must be persistent. As children we all had this quality because we were single-minded; you must simply rediscover and redevelop this character trait. First, you must understand the role that your energy level plays in mastering a process and bringing something to completion. If you take on added goals or new tasks, your focus will be broken up and you will never attain what you wanted in the first place. You cannot persist on two or three paths, so avoid that temptation. Second, try breaking things up into smaller blocks of time. You have a large goal, but there are steps along the way, and steps within the steps. These steps represent months instead of years. Reaching these smaller goals gives you a sense of tangible reward and progress. This will make it easier for you to resist any diversions along the way and fearlessly push ahead. Remember: anything will give way to a sustained, persistent attack on your part.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>Try to look at boredom from the opposite perspective—as a call for you to slow yourself down, to stop searching for endless distractions. This might mean forcing yourself to spend time alone, overcoming that childish inability to sit still. When you work through such self-imposed boredom, you will find your mind clicks into gear—new and unexpected thoughts will come to you to fill the void.</li><li>On a higher level of this reeducation, you might choose a book to overcome your boredom, but instead of reading being a passive process of diversion, you actively mentally engage the author in an argument or discussion, making the book come to life in your head. At a further point, you take up a side activity—cultural or physical—that requires a repetitive process to master. You discover a calming effect in the repetitive element itself.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 9 - Push Beyond Your Limits - Self-Belief</h5><p>Your sense of who you are will determine your actions and what you end up getting in life. If you see your reach as limited, that you are mostly helpless in the face of so many difficulties, that it is best to keep your ambitions low, then you will receive the little that you expect.</p><p>Knowing this dynamic, you must train yourself for the opposite - ask for more, aim high, and believe that you are destined for something great. Your sense of self-worth comes from you alone - never the opinion of others. With a rising confidence in your abilities, you will take risks that will increase your chances of success. People follow those who know where they are going, so cultivate an air of certainty and boldness.</p><p>The Hustler’s Ambition:</p><ul><li>“Let me point out to you that freedom is not something that anybody can be given; freedom is something people take and people are as free as they want to be.” - James Baldwin</li></ul><p>The Fearless Approach:</p><ul><li>Understand: you are in fact a mystery to yourself. You began life as someone completely unique—a mix of qualities that will never be repeated in the history of the universe. In your earliest years, you were a mass of conflicting emotions and desires. Then something foreign to you is placed over this reality. Who you are is much more chaotic and fluid than this surface character; you are full of untapped potential and possibility.</li><li>As a child you had no real power to resist this process, but as an adult you could easily rebel and rediscover your individuality. You could stop deriving your sense of identity and self-worth from others. You could experiment and push past the limits people have set for you. You could take action that is different from what they expect. But that is to incur a risk. You are being unconventional, perhaps a bit strange in the eyes of those who know you. You could fail in this action and be ridiculed. Conforming to people’s expectations is safer and more comfortable, even if doing so makes you feel miserable and confined. In essence, you are afraid of yourself and what you could become.</li><li>There is another, fearless way of approaching your life. It begins by untying yourself from the opinions of others. This is not as easy as it sounds. You are breaking a lifelong habit of continually referring to other people when measuring your value. You must experiment and feel the sensation of not concerning yourself with what others think or expect of you. You do not advance or retreat with their opinions in mind. You drown out their voices that often translate into doubts inside you. Instead of focusing on the limits you have internalized, you think of the potential you have for new and different behavior. Your personality can be altered and shaped by your conscious decision to do so.</li><li>Understand: people will constantly attack you in life. One of their main weapons will be to instill in you doubts about yourself—your worth, your abilities, your potential. They will often disguise this as their objective opinion, but invariably it has a political purpose—they want to keep you down. You are continually prone to believe these opinions, particularly if your self-image is fragile. In every moment of life you can defy and deny people this power. You do so by maintaining a sense of purpose, a high destiny you are fulfilling. From such a position, people’s attacks do not harm you; they only make you angry and more determined. The higher you raise this self-image, the fewer judgments and manipulations you will tolerate. This will translate into fewer obstacles in your path. If someone like Douglass could forge this attitude amid the most unfree of circumstances, then we should surely be able to find our own way to such inner strength.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>In today’s world our idea of freedom largely revolves around the ability to satisfy certain needs and desires.</li><li>There is, however, a completely different concept of liberty. It is not something that people grant us as a privilege or right. It is a state of mind that we must work to attain and hold on to—with much effort. It is something active and not passive. It comes from exercising free will. In our day-to-day affairs much of our actions are not free and independent. We tend to conform to society’s norms in behavior and thinking. We generally act out of habit, without much thought as to why we do things. When we act with freedom, we ignore any pressures to conform; we step beyond our usual routines. Asserting our will and our individuality, we move on our own.</li><li>Understand: at any moment you could kick this philosophy and its ideas into the trashcan by doing something irrational and unexpected, contrary to what you have done in the past, an act not possibly explained by your upbringing or nervous system. What prevents you from taking such action is not mommy, daddy, or society, but your own fears. You are essentially free to move beyond any limits others have set for you, to re-create yourself as thoroughly as you wish.</li><li>Moving to this more active form of freedom does not mean that you are giving yourself over to wild and ill-considered action.</li><li>The risks you take are not emotional and for the sake of a thrill; they are calculated. The need to conform and please others will always play a role in our actions, consciously or unconsciously. To be completely free is impossible and undesirable. You are merely exploring a freer range of action in your life and the power it could bring you.</li><li>What blocks us from moving in this direction are the pressures we feel to conform; our rigid, habitual patterns of thinking; and our self-doubts and fears.</li><li>The following are five strategies to help you push past these limits.</li></ul><p>DEFY ALL CATEGORIES</p><ul><li>Understand: the day you were born you became engaged in a struggle that continues to this day and will determine your success or failure in life. You are an individual, with ideas and skills that make you unique. But people are constantly trying to fit you into narrow categories that make you more predictable and easier to manage. They want to see you as shy or outgoing, sensitive or tough. If you succumb to this pressure, then you may gain some social acceptance, but you will lose the unconventional parts of your character that are the source of your uniqueness and power. You must resist this process at all costs, seeing people’s neat and tidy judgments as a form of confinement. Your task is to retain or rediscover those aspects of your character that defy categorization, and to give them even greater play. Remaining unique, you will create something unique and inspire the kind of respect you would never receive from tepid conformity.</li></ul><p>CONSTANTLY REINVENT YOURSELF</p><ul><li>Understand: people judge you by appearances, the image you project through your actions, words, and style. If you do not take control of this process, then people will see and define you the way they want to, often to your detriment. You might think that being consistent with this image will make others respect and trust you, but in fact it is the opposite—over time you seem predictable and weak. Consistency is an illusion anyway—each passing day brings changes within you. You must not be afraid to express these evolutions. The powerful learn early in life that they have the freedom to mold their image, fitting the needs and moods of the moment. In this way, they keep others off balance and maintain an air of mystery. You must follow this path and find great pleasure in reinventing yourself, as if you were the author writing your own drama.</li></ul><p>SUBVERT YOUR PATTERNS</p><ul><li>We succumb to mental patterns, which makes our actions repetitive as well.</li><li>What often prevent us from using the mental fluidity and freedom that we naturally possess are the physical routines in our lives. We see the same people and do the same things, and our minds follow these patterns. The solution then is to break this up. For instance, we could deliberately indulge in some random, even irrational act, perhaps doing the very opposite of what we would normally do in our day-to-day life. By taking an action we have never done before, we place ourselves in unfamiliar territory—our minds naturally awaken to the novel situation. In a similar vein, we can force ourselves to take different routes, visit strange places, encounter different people, wake up at odd hours, or read books that challenge our minds instead of dull them. We should practice this when we feel particularly blocked and uncreative. In such moments, it is best to be ruthless with ourselves and our patterns.</li></ul><p>CREATE A SENSE OF DESTINY</p><ul><li>The story of Jeanne d’Arc demonstrates a simple principle: the higher your self-belief, the more your power to transform reality. Having supreme confidence makes you fearless and persistent, allowing you to overcome obstacles that stop most people in their tracks. It makes others believe in you as well. And the most intense form of self-belief is to feel a sense of destiny impelling you forward. This destiny can come from otherworldly sources or it can come from yourself. Think of it in these terms: you have a set of skills and experiences that make you unique. They point towards some life task that you were meant to accomplish. You see signs of this in the predilections of your youth, certain tasks you were naturally drawn to. When you are involved in this task, everything seems to flow more naturally. Believing you are destined to accomplish something does not make you passive or unfree, but the opposite. You are liberated of the normal doubts and confusions that plague us. You have a sense of purpose that guides you but does not chain you to one way of doing things. And when your willpower is so deeply engaged, it will push you past any limits or dangers.</li></ul><p>BET ON YOURSELF</p><ul><li>It is always easy to rationalize your own doubts and conservative instincts, particularly when times are tough. You will convince yourself that it is foolhardy to take any risks, that it is better to wait for when circumstances are more propitious. But this is a dangerous mentality. It signifies an overall lack of confidence in yourself that will carry over to better times.</li><li>The truth is that the greatest inventions and advances in technology or business generally come in negative periods because there is a greater necessity for creative thinking and radical solutions that break with the past. These are moments that are ripe for opportunity. While others retrench and retreat, you must think of taking risks, trying new things, and looking at the future that will come out of the present crisis.</li><li>You must always be prepared to place a bet on yourself, on your future, by heading in a direction that others seem to fear. This means you believe that if you fail, you have the inner resources to recover. This belief acts as a kind of mental safety net. When you move ahead on some new venture or direction, your mind will snap to attention; your energy will be focused and intense. By making yourself feel the necessity to be creative, your mind will rise to the occasion.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>But there is another way to look at it: we all have an ego, a sense of who we are. And this ego, or self-relationship, is either strong or weak.</li><li>People with a weak ego do not have a secure sense of their worth or potential. They pay extra attention to the opinions of others. They might perceive anything as a personal attack or affront. They need constant attention and validation from others. To compensate for and disguise this fragility, they will often assume an arrogant, aggressive front. This needy, dependent, self-obsessed variety of ego is what we find irritating and distasteful.</li><li>A strong ego, however, is completely different. People who have a solid sense of their own value and who feel secure about themselves have the capacity to look at the world with greater objectivity. They can be more considerate and thoughtful because they can get outside of themselves. People with a strong ego set up boundaries—their sense of pride will not allow them to accept manipulative or hurtful behavior. We generally like to be around such types. Their confidence and strength is contagious. To have such a strong ego should be an ideal for all of us.</li><li>So many people who attain the heights of power in this culture—celebrities, for instance—have to make a show of false humility and modesty, as if they got as far as they did by accident and not by ego or ambition. They want to act as if they are no different from anyone else and are almost embarrassed by their power and success. These are all signs of a weak ego. As an egotist of the strong variety, you trumpet your individuality and take great pride in your accomplishments. If others cannot accept that, or judge you as arrogant, that is their problem, not yours.</li></ul><h5>CHAPTER 10 - Confront Your Mortality - the Sublime</h5><p>In the face of our inevitable mortality we can do one of two things. We can attempt to avoid the thought at all costs, clinging to the illusion that we have all the time in the world. Or we can confront this reality, accept and even embrace it, converting our consciousness of death into something positive and active. In adopting such a fearless philosophy, we gain a sense of proportion, become able to separate what is petty from what is truly important. Knowing our days to be numbered, we have a sense of urgency and mission. We can appreciate life all the more for it’s impermanence. If we can overcome the fear of death, then there is nothing left to fear.</p><p>The Hustler’s Metamorphosis:</p><ul><li>In his experience, whenever he felt as if he had too much to lose and he held on to others or to deals out of fear of the alternative, he ended up losing a lot more. He realized that the key in life is to always be willing to walk away. He was often surprised that in doing so, or even feeling that way, people would come back to him on his terms, now fearing what they might lose in the process. And if they didn’t return, then good riddance.</li></ul><p>The Fearless Approach</p><ul><li>When you choose to affirm life by confronting your mortality, everything changes. What matters to you now is to live your days well, as fully as possible. You could choose to do this by pursuing endless pleasures, but nothing becomes boring more quickly than having to always search for new distractions. If attaining certain goals becomes your greatest source of pleasure, then your days are filled with purpose and direction, and whenever death comes, you have no regrets. You do not fall into nihilistic thinking about the futility of it all, because that is a supreme waste of the brief time you have been given. You now have a way of measuring what matters in life—compared to the shortness of your days, petty battles and anxieties have no weight. You have a sense of urgency and commitment—what you do you must do well, with all of your energy, not with a mind shooting off in a hundred directions.</li><li>To accomplish this is remarkably simple. It is a matter of looking inward and seeing death as something that you carry within. It is a part of you that cannot be repressed. It does not mean that you brood about it, but that you have continual awareness of a reality that you come to embrace. You convert the terrified, denial-type relationship to death into something active and positive—finally released from pettiness, useless anxieties, and fearful, timid responses.</li><li>This third, fearless way of approaching death originated in the ancient world, in the philosophy known as Stoicism. The core of Stoicism is learning the art of how to die, which paradoxically teaches you how to live.</li><li>As Seneca understood, to free yourself from fear you must work backward. You start with the thought of your mortality. You accept and embrace this reality. You think ahead to the inevitable moment of your death and determine to face it as bravely as possible. The more you contemplate your mortality, the less you fear it—it becomes a fact you no longer have to repress. By following this path, you know how to die well, and so you can now begin to teach yourself to live well. You will not cling to things unnecessarily. You will be strong and self-reliant, unafraid to be alone. You will have a certain lightness that comes with knowing what matters—you can laugh at what others take so seriously. The pleasures of the moment are heightened because you know their impermanence and you make the most of them. And when your time to die comes, as it will some day, you will not cringe and cry for more time, because you have lived well and have no regrets.</li></ul><p>Keys to Fearlessness</p><ul><li>Understand: to keep death out, we bathe our minds in banality and routines; we create the illusion that it is not around us in any form. This gives us a momentary peace, but we lose all sense of connection to something larger, to life itself. We are not really living until we come to terms with our mortality. Becoming aware of the Sublime around us is a way to convert our fears into something meaningful and active, to counter the repressions of our culture. The Sublime in any form tends to evoke feelings of awe and power. Through awareness of what it is, we can open our minds to the experience and actively search it out.</li><li>The following are the four sensations of a sublime moment and how to conjure them.</li></ul><p>THE SENSE OF REBIRTH</p><ul><li>Whenever life feels particularly dull or confining, we can force ourselves to leave familiar ground. This could mean traveling to some particularly exotic location, attempting something physically challenging (a sea voyage or scaling a mountain), or simply embarking on a new venture in which we are not certain we can succeed. In each case we are experiencing a moment of powerlessness in the face of something large and overwhelming. This feeling of control slipping out of our hands, however short and slight, is a brush with death. We may not make it; we have to raise our level of effort. In the process, our minds are exposed to new sensations. When we finish the voyage or task and come to safe ground, we feel as if we are reborn. We felt that slight pull of the handkerchief; we now have a heightened appreciation for life and a desire to live it more fully.</li></ul><p>THE SENSE OF EVANESCENCE AND URGENCY</p><ul><li>Contemplating sublime time has innumerable positive effects—it makes us feel a sense of urgency to get things done now, gives us a better grasp of what really matters, and instills a heightened appreciation of the passage of time, the poignancy and beauty of all things that fade away.</li></ul><p>THE SENSE OF AWE</p><ul><li>This sense of awe can be elicited by something vast or strange—endless landscapes (the sea or the desert), monuments from the distant past (the pyramids of Egypt), the unfamiliar customs of people in a foreign land. It can also be sparked by things in everyday life—for instance, focusing on the dizzying variety of animal and plant life around us that took millions of years to evolve into its present form.</li></ul><p>THE SENSE OF THE OCEANIC, THE CONNECTION TO ALL LIFE</p><ul><li>The truth, however, is that death makes no such discriminations. It is the ultimate equalizer. It strikes rich and poor alike. For everyone, it seems to come too early and can be experienced as tragic. Absorbing this reality should have a positive effect upon us all. We share the same fate with everyone; we all deserve the same degree of compassion. It is what ultimately links all of us together, and when we look at the people around us we should see their mortality as well.</li><li>This can be extended further and further, into the Sublime—death is what links us to all living creatures as well. One organism must die so another can live. It is an endless process that we are a part of. This is what is known as an oceanic feeling—the sensation that we are not separated from the outside world but that we are part of life in all its forms. Feeling this at moments inspires an ecstatic reaction, the very opposite of a morbid reflection on death.</li></ul><p>Reversal of Perspective</p><ul><li>In our normal perspective we see death as something diametrically opposed to life, a separate event that ends our days. As such, it is a thought that we must dread, avoid, and repress. But this is false, an idea that is actually born out of our fear. Life and death are inextricably intertwined, not separate; the one cannot exist without the other.</li><li>If we try to avoid or repress the thought, keep death on the outside, we are cutting ourselves off from life as well.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Defining Decade by Meg Jay: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I was pleasantly surprised by this book.  It’s an easy read, a mix of psychology research and anecdotal experience, and touches on all the key points of how to live in your twenties.  I found lots of instances where I’ve had the same thought patterns as her patients, which made it extremely relevant.Recommended for anyone in their late teens, twenties, or parents with kids around that age group, as it will be invaluable for both.  I’ll be gifting it to lots of my friends in the near future.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>The Defining Decade</h4><ul><li>In a study of life-span development, researchers found important events that determined the years ahead were most heavily concentrated during the twenties.</li><li>About 80 percent of life’s most significant events take place by age 35.</li><li>The most substantial and lasting events - those that led to career success, family fortune, personal bliss or lack thereof - developed across days or weeks or months with little immediate dramatic effect. </li><li>ie. we may not recognize the most impactful events in our lives as they happen.</li></ul><h4>Introduction</h4><ul><li>When a lot has been left to do, there is enormous thirtysomething pressure to get ahead, get married, pick a city, make money, buy a house, enjoy life, go to graduate school, start a business, get a promotion, save for college and retirement, and have two or three children in a much shorter period of time.</li></ul><h4>Work</h4><h5>Identity Capital</h5><ul><li>Identity capital is our collection of personal assets. It is the repertoire of individual resources that we assemble over time. These are the investments we make in ourselves, the things we do well enough, or long enough, that they become a part of who we are. Some identity capital goes on a résumé, such as degrees, jobs, test scores, and clubs. Other identity capital is more personal, such as how we speak, where we are from, how we solve problems, how we look.</li><li>Twentysomethings who take the time to explore and also have the nerve to make commitments along the way construct stronger identities. They have higher self-esteem and are more persevering and realistic. This path to identity is associated with a host of positive outcomes, including a clearer sense of self, greater life satisfaction, better stress management, stronger reasoning, and resistance to conformity.</li><li>The longer it takes to get our footing in work, the more likely we are to become, as one journalist put it, different and damaged. Research on underemployed twentysomethings tells us that those who are underemployed for as little as nine months tend to be more depressed and less motivated than their peers—than even their unemployed peers. But before we decide that unemployment is a better alternative to underemployment, consider this: Twentysomething unemployment is associated with heavy drinking and depression in middle age even after becoming regularly employed.</li></ul><h5>The Strength of Weak Ties</h5><ul><li>Our strong ties feel comfortable and familiar but, other than support, they may have little to offer. They are usually too similar—even too similarly stuck—to provide more than sympathy. They often don’t know any more about jobs or relationships than we do.</li><li>Weak ties feel too different or, in some cases, literally too far away to be close friends. But that’s the point. Because they’re not just figures in an already ingrown cluster, weak ties give us access to something fresh. They know things and people that we don’t know. Information and opportunity spread farther and faster through weak ties than through close friends because weak ties have fewer overlapping contacts.</li><li>When I encourage twentysomethings to draw on the strength of weak ties, there is often a fair amount of resistance: I hate networking or I want to get a job on my own or That’s not my style are common reactions. I get it, but that doesn’t change the fact that, as we look for jobs or relationships or opportunities of any kind, it is the people we know the least well who will be the most transformative. New things almost always come from outside your inner circle.</li></ul><h5>The Ben Franklin Effect</h5><ul><li>We imagine that if people like us, then they do us favors because this is how it works in the urban tribe. But the Ben Franklin effect, and subsequent empirical studies, show it works the other way around with people we know less well.</li><li>If weak ties do favors for us, they start to like us. Then they become even more likely to grant us additional favors in the future. Franklin decided that if he wanted to get someone on his side, he ought to ask for a favor. And he did.</li><li>I would advise the same approach today as you ask your own weak ties for letters of recommendation, suggestions or introductions, or well-planned informational interviews: Make yourself interesting. Make yourself relevant. Do your homework so you know precisely what you want or need. Then, respectfully, ask for it. Some weak ties will say no. More than you think will say yes. The fastest route to something new is one phone call, one e-mail, one box of books, one favor, one thirtieth birthday party.</li></ul><h5>The Unthought Known</h5><ul><li>There is a certain terror that goes along with saying &quot;My life is up to me.&quot; It is scary to realize there’s no magic, you can’t just wait around, no one can really rescue you, and you have to do something. Not knowing what you want to do with your life—or not at least having some ideas about what to do next—is a defense against that terror. It is a resistance to admitting that the possibilities are not endless. It is a way of pretending that now doesn’t matter. Being confused about choices is nothing more than hoping that maybe there is a way to get through life without taking charge.</li></ul><h5>The Search for Glory and the Tyranny of the Should</h5><ul><li>Contrary to what we see and hear, reaching your potential isn’t even something that usually happens in your twenties—it happens in your thirties or forties or fifties.</li></ul><h5>The Customized Life</h5><ul><li>If the first step in establishing a professional identity is claiming our interests and talents, then the next step is claiming a story about our interests and talents, a narrative we can take with us to interviews and coffee dates. Whether you are a therapist or an interviewer, a story that balances complexity and cohesion is, frankly, diagnostic. Stories that sound too simple seem inexperienced and lacking. But stories that sound too complicated imply a sort of internal disorganization that employers simply don’t want.</li><li>No matter what company or program someone applies to, a sort of game goes on. Interviewers want to hear a reasonable story about the past, present, and future. How does what you did before relate to what you want to do now, and how might that get you to what you want to do next? Everyone realizes most applicants don’t actually know what their careers will look like. Even the ones who think they do often change their minds.</li></ul><h4>Love</h4><h5>An Upmarket Conversation</h5><ul><li>Popular magazines portray a twentysomething culture dominated by singles who are almost obsessed with avoiding commitment. But behind closed doors, I hear a different story. I have yet to meet a twentysomething who doesn’t want to get married or at least find a committed relationship.</li><li>The most recent studies show that marrying later than the teen years does indeed protect against divorce, but this only holds true until about age twenty-five. After twenty-five, one’s age at marriage does not predict divorce.</li></ul><h5>The Cohabitation Effect</h5><ul><li>As Jennifer spoke, one assumption was easy to spot: Living together is a good test for marriage. This is a common misperception.</li><li>But couples who live together first are actually less satisfied with their marriages and more likely to divorce than couples who do not. This is what sociologists call the cohabitation effect.</li></ul><h5>Sliding, Not Deciding</h5><ul><li>Moving from dating to sleeping over to sleeping over a lot to cohabitation can be a gradual slope, one not marked by rings or ceremonies or sometimes even a conversation. Couples often bypass talking about why they want to live together and what it will mean.</li><li>To understand why, it helps to know that the cohabitation effect is technically a pre-engagement cohabitation effect, not a premarital cohabitation effect. Couples who live together before marriage but after becoming engaged, who combine their lives after making a clear and public commitment, are not any more likely to have distressed or dissolved marriages than couples who do not cohabitate before marriage. They do not suffer from the cohabitation effect.</li></ul><h5>Lock-In</h5><ul><li>Lock-in is the decreased likelihood to search for other options, or change to another option, once an investment in something has been made. The initial investment, called a setup cost, can be big or small.</li><li>Switching costs—or the time, money, or effort it requires to make a change—are more complex. When we make an initial investment in something, switching costs are hypothetical and in the future, so we tend to underestimate them.</li><li>Cohabitation is loaded with setup and switching costs, the basic ingredients of lock-in. Moving in together can be fun and economical, and the setup costs are subtly woven in.</li><li>There are things you can do to lessen the cohabitation effect. One is, obviously, don’t cohabitate before an engagement. Since this is not an entirely realistic suggestion, researchers also recommend getting clear on each person’s commitment level before you move in, and anticipating and regularly evaluating those constraints that may keep you from leaving even if you want to. There are also other ways to test a relationship besides moving in, including doing a wider variety of activities together than dating and sex.</li></ul><h5>Being in Like</h5><ul><li>Studies have repeatedly found that couples who are similar in areas such as socioeconomic status, education, age, ethnicity, religion, attractiveness, attitudes, values, and intelligence are more likely to be satisfied with their relationships and are less likely to seek divorce.</li><li>Finding someone like you might seem easy, but there is a twist—not just any similarity will do. Dating and married couples do tend to be similar to each other in attractiveness, age, education, political views, religion, and intelligence.</li><li>The problem is, while people are good at matching themselves and others on relatively obvious criteria, such as age and education, it turns out that these qualities are what researchers call deal breakers, not match makers.</li><li>Deal breakers are your own personal sine qua non in relationships. They are qualities—almost always similarities—you feel are nonnegotiable. The absence of these similarities allows you to weed out people with whom you have fundamental differences.</li><li>One match maker to consider is personality. Some research tells us that, especially in young couples, the more similar two people’s personalities are, the more likely they are to be satisfied with their relationship. Yet personality is how dating, and even married, couples tend to be least alike. The likely reason for this is, unlike deal breakers, personality is less obvious and not as easy to categorize. Personality is not about what we have done or even about what we like. It is about how we are in the world, and this infuses everything we do.</li></ul><h5>The Big Five</h5><ul><li>One of the simplest and most widely researched models of personality is what is called the Big Five. The Big Five refers to five factors that describe how people interact with the world: Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, Neuroticism. Just by reading about the Big Five and considering your own behavior, it is pretty easy to tell whether you fall on the high end or the low end, or somewhere in the middle, of the five dimensions.</li><li>The Big Five is not about what you like—it is about who you are, it is about how you live. The Big Five tells us how you wake up in the morning and how you go about doing most anything. It has to do with how you experience the world and, as a result, how others experience you. This is important because, when it comes to personality, wherever you go, there you are.</li><li>Consider that where we are on the Big Five is about 50 percent inherited. This means that you came into this world with roughly half of who you are already in place, because of genes, prenatal influences, and other biological factors. While you learn to interact with the world somewhat differently as experiences make their mark, personality remains relatively stable over time.</li><li>When you figure out your highs, mediums, and lows, you have a general profile of your personality, one that should describe your behavior across different situations and times. You can do the same for anyone that you know well, or are starting to know well, and this will bring into relief how similar—or dissimilar—your personalities are. There is no right or wrong personality, there is just your personality and how it fits with the personalities of other people. While it is not better or worse to be high or low or in the middle of the dimensions of the Big Five, it is often the case that we like or dislike people because of the way their extremes compare to our own.</li><li>Being on the high end of the Neuroticism dimension is toxic for relationships.</li></ul><h4>The Brain and the Body</h4><h5>Forward Thinking</h5><ul><li>Forward thinking doesn’t just come with age. It comes with practice and experience. That’s why some twenty-two-year-olds are incredibly self-possessed, future-oriented people who already know how to face the unknown, while some thirty-four-year-olds still have brains that run the other way.</li></ul><h5>Calm Yourself</h5><ul><li>Twentysomethings take these difficult moments particularly hard. Compared to older adults, they find negative information—the bad news—more memorable than positive information—or the good news. MRI studies show that twentysomething brains simply react more strongly to negative information than do the brains of older adults. There is more activity in the amygdala—the seat of the emotional brain.</li><li>When twentysomethings have their competence criticized, they become anxious and angry. They are tempted to march in and take action. They generate negative feelings toward others and obsess about the why: Why did my boss say that? Why doesn’t my boss like me? Taking work so intensely personally can make a forty-hour workweek long indeed.</li><li>Knowing what to overlook is one way that older adults are typically wiser than young adults. With age comes what is known as a positivity effect. We become more interested in positive information, and our brains react less strongly to what negative information we do encounter. We disengage with interpersonal conflict, choosing to let it be, especially when those in our network are involved.</li><li>Twentysomethings and their active amygdalae often want to change their feelings by changing their jobs. They quit work that becomes messy or unpleasant, or they storm in and complain to their bosses’ bosses, not realizing that their bosses’ bosses’ amygdalae are unlikely to be as worked up as their own. If Danielle left her job, she would feel better for a time. But quitting would also only confirm her fear: that she was a poseur who didn’t belong in a good job anyway.</li><li>Research shows that people who have some control over their emotions report greater life satisfaction, optimism, purpose, and better relationships with others.</li></ul><h5>Outside In</h5><ul><li>Growth mindset: believe that people can change, and success is something to be achieved.</li><li>Fixed mindset: belief that something is inherent, or fixed (in this case, innate confidence in work).</li><li>Decades of research in schools tells us that a fixed mindset gets in the way of success.</li><li>Confidence doesn’t come from the inside out. It moves from the outside in. People feel less anxious—and more confident—on the inside when they can point to things they have done well on the outside.</li><li>Real confidence comes from mastery experiences, which are actual, lived moments of success, especially when things seem difficult. Whether we are talking about love or work, the confidence that overrides insecurity comes from experience. There is no other way.</li><li>For work success to lead to confidence, the job has to be challenging and it must require effort. It has to be done without too much help. And it cannot go well every single day. A long run of easy successes creates a sort of fragile confidence, the kind that is shattered when the first failure comes along. A more resilient confidence comes from succeeding—and from surviving some failures.</li><li>The real challenge of the twentysomething years is the work itself. Ten thousand hours is five years of focused, full-time work (40 hours × 50 work weeks a year = 2,000 hours a year × 5 years = 10,000 hours) or ten years of less-targeted work (20 hours × 50 work weeks a year = 1,000 hours a year × 10 years = 10,000 hours). My ten thousand hours were seven years of graduate school.</li></ul><h5>Getting Along and Getting Ahead</h5><ul><li>Our personalities change more during the twentysomething years than at any time before or after.</li><li>Numerous studies from around the world show that life starts to feel better across the twentysomething years. We become more emotionally stable and less tossed around by life’s ups and downs. We become more conscientious and responsible. We become more socially competent. We feel more agreeable about life and more able to cooperate with others. Overall, we become happier and more confident.</li><li>In our twenties, positive personality changes come from what researchers call getting along and getting ahead. Feeling better doesn’t come from avoiding adulthood, it comes from investing in adulthood.</li><li>The investments we make in work and love trigger personality maturation. Being a cooperative colleague or a successful partner is what drives personality change. Settling down simply helps us feel more settled. Twentysomethings who don’t feel like they are getting along or getting ahead, on the other hand, feel stressed and angry and alienated.</li><li>Even simply having goals can make us happier and more confident—both now and later. In one study that followed nearly five hundred young adults from college to the mid-thirties, increased goal-setting in the twenties led to greater purpose, mastery, agency, and well-being in the thirties.</li><li>Outside of work, commitments to others also foster change and well-being. Studies in the United States and Europe have found that entering into stable relationships helps twentysomethings feel more secure and responsible, whether these relationships last or not. Steady relationships reduce social anxiety and depression as they help us feel less lonely and give us the opportunity to practice our interpersonal skills.</li><li>Being single while you’re young may be glorified in the press, but staying single across the twenties does not typically feel good. A study that tracked men and women from their early twenties to their later twenties found that of those who remained single—who dated or hooked up but avoided commitments—80 percent were dissatisfied with their dating lives and only 10 percent didn’t wish they had a partner.</li><li>Being chronically uncoupled may be especially detrimental to men, as those who remained single throughout their twenties experienced a significant dip in their self-esteem near thirty.</li></ul><h5>Every Body</h5><ul><li>What is about to follow are some sobering statistics about having babies after the age of thirty-five. Medicine has been called a science of uncertainty and an art of probability, and this holds especially true for reproductive medicine. It is an imperfect science, so not all pre-thirty-five women will easily have the babies they want, nor is it true that those over thirty-five will not. But there are some age-related changes that everyone who wants children would be better off understanding.</li><li>Researchers are beginning to find that older sperm may be associated with various neurocognitive problems in children, including autism, schizophrenia, dyslexia, and lower intelligence. For this reason, and for reasons we will discuss further into the chapter, both men and women ought to be thinking about the timing of babies.</li><li>Fertility, or the ability to reproduce, peaks for women during the late twentysomething years. Biologically speaking, the twenties will be the easiest time to have a baby for most women. Some declines in fertility begin at about thirty and at thirty-five, a woman’s ability to become pregnant and carry a baby to term drops considerably. At forty, fertility plummets.</li><li>Compared to their twentysomething selves, women are about half as fertile at thirty, about one-quarter as fertile at thirty-five, and about one-eighth as fertile at forty.</li><li>The first signs of decreased fertility are difficulty becoming and staying pregnant. Trying au natural—just having sex around the time of ovulation—a woman has about a 20 to 25 percent chance of conceiving during each cycle, up to about age thirty-five. So when you’re young it takes, on average, about four or five months of having sex to get pregnant.</li><li>One indicator of how difficult it can be to have a baby as we age is the cost. The average cost of a fertility intervention for a twentysomething couple is $25,000. By thirty-five, the cost is about $35,000. After age 35, as the obstacles to pregnancy increase, so does the price tag. At forty, couples who need fertility treatments will pay an average of $100,000 for one live birth.</li></ul><h5>Do the Math</h5><ul><li>This study brings to life, at least digitally, a core problem in behavior: present bias. People of all ages and walks of life discount the future, favoring the rewards of today over the rewards of tomorrow. We would rather have $100 this month than $150 next month. We choose the chocolate cake and the new outfit now and face the gym and the credit card bill later. This isn’t a twentysomething tendency.</li><li>But twentysomethings are especially prone to present bias.</li><li>In my practice, I notice that many twentysomethings—especially those who surround themselves with other twentysomethings—have trouble anticipating life. They need memento vivi—or ways to remember they are going to live.</li><li>Present bias is especially strong in twentysomethings who put a lot of psychological distance between now and later. Love or work can seem far off in time.</li><li>The problem with feeling distant from the future is that distance leads to abstraction, and abstraction leads to distance, and round and round it goes.</li><li>A timeline may not be a virtual reality chamber, but it can help our brains see time for what it really is: limited. It can give us a reason to get up in the morning and get going.</li><li>Our twenties are when we have to start creating our own sense of time, our own plans about how the years ahead will unfold. It is difficult to know how to start our careers or when to start our families. It is tempting to stay distracted and keep everything at a distance. But twentysomethings who live beyond time usually aren’t happy.</li></ul><h4>Epilogue</h4><h5>Will Things Work Out for Me?</h5><ul><li>&quot;The best part about being my age is knowing how my life worked out.&quot; —Scott Adams, cartoonist</li><li>There is no formula for a good life, and there is no right or wrong life. But there are choices and consequences, so it seems only fair that twentysomethings know about the ones that lie ahead. That way, the future feels good when you finally get there. The nicest part about getting older is knowing how your life worked out, especially if you like what you wake up to every day. If you are paying attention to your life as a twentysomething, the real glory days are still to come.</li><li>The future isn’t written in the stars. There are no guarantees. So claim your adulthood. Be intentional. Get to work. Pick your family. Do the math. Make your own certainty. Don’t be defined by what you didn’t know or didn’t do.</li><li>You are deciding your life right now.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This is a relatively easy read from John Maeda, who was a professor at the MIT Media Lab, before becoming President at the Rhode Island School of Design and then venturing into the corporate world. The book itself presents laws he has created for simplifying both your life, and the things you may work on or design. The laws presented are useful, and the book is short.  However, most of the core, actionable content could have been presented in a long blog post.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><p><strong>Simplicity Sanity</strong></p><ul><li>There are three flavours of simplicity discussed here, where the successive set of three Laws (1 to 3, 4 to 6, 7 to 9) correspond to increasingly complicated conditions of simplicity: basic, intermediate, and deep.</li><li>Of the three clusters, basic simplicity (1 to 3) is immediately applicable to thinking about the design of a product or the layout of your living room.</li><li>On the other hand, intermediate simplicity (4 to 6) is more subtle in meaning, and deep simplicity (7 to 9) ventures into thoughts that are still ripening on the vine.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 1: REDUCE-The simplest way to achieve simplicity is through thoughtful reduction. </strong></p><p>When in doubt, just remove. But be careful of what you remove.</p><p>I call these methods SHE: SHRINK, HIDE, EMBODY.</p><p>SHRINK:</p><ul><li>Simplicity is about the unexpected pleasure derived from what is likely to be insignificant and would otherwise go unnoticed.</li><li>Fragility is an essential counteracting force to complexity because it can instill pity— which by coincidence also occurs in the word SIMPLICITY!</li><li>A further collection of these types of designs can be browsed at lawsofsimplicity.com</li></ul><p>HIDE: </p><ul><li>When all features that can be removed have been, and a product has been made slim, light, and thin, it’s time for the second method: HIDE the complexity through brute-force methods.</li><li>Hiding complexity through ingenious mechanical doors or tiny display screens is an overt form of deception. If the deceit feels less like malevolence, more like magic, then hidden complexities become more of a treat than a nuisance.</li></ul><p>EMBODY: </p><ul><li>EMBODY-ing quality is primarily a business decision, more than one of design or technology. The quality can be actual, as embodied by better materials and craftsmanship; or the quality can be perceived, as portrayed in a thoughtful marketing campaign. Exactly where to invest— real or believed quality— to get maximum return is a question with no single definitive answer.</li></ul><p>SHE SHE’D: </p><ul><li>EMBODY-ing a greater sense of quality through enhanced materials and other messaging cues is an important subtle counterbalance to SHRINK-ing and HIDE-ing the directly understood aspects of a product. Design, technology, and business work in concert to realize the final decisions that will lead to how much reduction in a product is tolerable, and how much quality it will embody in spite of its reduced state of being.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 2: ORGANIZE - Organization makes a system of many appear fewer.</strong></p><p>To do it: ad hoc process I call SLIP: SORT, LABEL, INTEGRATE, PRIORITIZE</p><ul><li>SORT: Write down on small post-it notes each datum to be SLIP-ped. Move them around on a flat surface to find the natural groupings.</li><li>LABEL: Each group deserves a relevant name. If a name cannot be decided upon, an arbitrary code can be assigned such as a letter, number, or color.</li><li>INTEGRATE: Whenever possible, integrate groups that appear significantly like each other.</li><li>PRIORITIZE: Finally collect the highest priority items into a single set to ensure that they receive the most attention.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 3: TIME - Savings in time feel like simplicity.</strong></p><ul><li>Shrinking the time of a process can sometimes only go so far, and so an alternative means to “saving” time is to hide its passage by simply removing time displays from the environment.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 4: LEARN - Knowledge makes everything simpler.</strong></p><p>Learning occurs best when there is a desire to attain specific knowledge.</p><p>To teach:</p><ul><li>BASICS are the beginning.</li><li>REPEAT yourself often.</li><li>AVOID creating desperation.</li><li>INSPIRE with examples.</li><li>NEVER forget to repeat yourself.</li><li>REPEAT-ting yourself can be embarrassing, especially if you are self-conscious— which most everyone is.</li><li>AVOID-ing desperation is something to target when learning is concerned.</li><li>INSPIRATION is the ultimate catalyst for learning: internal motivation trumps external reward.</li><li>Feeling safe (by avoiding desperation), feeling confident (by mastering the basics), and feeling instinctive (by conditioning through repetition) all satisfy rational needs.</li><li>NEVER forget to repeat yourself. Might I have already said that?</li><li>I’ve learned that the most successful product designs, whether simple, complex, rational, illogical, domestic, international, technophilic, or technophobic, are the ones that connect deeply to the greater context of learning and life.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 5: DIFFERENCES - Simplicity and complexity need each other.</strong></p><p><strong>Law 6: CONTEXT - What lies in the periphery of simplicity is definitely not peripheral.</strong></p><ul><li>The sixth Law emphasizes the importance of what might become lost during the design process. That which appears to be of immediate relevance may not be nearly as important compared to everything else around. Our goal is to achieve a kind of enlightened shallowness.</li><li>The opportunity lost by increasing the amount of blank space is gained back with enhanced attention on what remains.</li><li>There is an important tradeoff between being completely lost in the unknown and completely found in the familiar. Too familiar can have the positive aspect of making complete sense, which to some can seem boring; too unknown can have the negative connotations of danger, which to some can seem a thrill.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 7: EMOTION - More emotions are better than less.</strong></p><ul><li>But I use a specific principle to determine just the right kind of more: “feel, and feel for.” Everything starts from being sensitive to your own feelings. Do you know how you feel? Right now? By connecting with the emotional intelligence inside yourself, the next step is to empathize with the environment that surrounds you.</li><li>Much is said about the development from child to adult as a gradual process of neutering emotional output.</li><li>While great art makes you wonder, great design makes things clear.</li><li>Our society, systems, and artifacts require active engagement in care, attention, and feeling— the business value may not be immediately apparent. But the fulfillment from living a meaningful life is the ROE (Return on Emotion).</li><li>A certain kind of more is always better than less— more care, more love, and more meaningful actions. I don’t think I need to say anything more really.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 8: TRUST</strong></p><ul><li>In simplicity we trust.</li><li>The goal of LEAN BACK is to achieve relaxation as the desired state.</li><li>Overconfidence is usually the enemy of greatness, and there’s little room for personal ego when pleasing a customer is the true priority.</li><li>The more a system knows about you, the less you have to think. Conversely, the more you know about the system, the greater control you can exact.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 9: FAILURE - Some things can never be made simple.</strong></p><ul><li>There’s always an ROF (Return On Failure) when you try to simplify— which is to learn from your mistakes.</li><li>Deeming something as complex or simple requires a frame of reference.</li></ul><p><strong>Law 10: THE ONE - Simplicity is about subtracting the obvious, and adding the meaningful.</strong></p><ul><li>Key 1: AWAY More appears like less by simply moving it far, far away.</li><li>Key 2: OPEN Openness simplifies complexity.</li><li>Key 3: POWER Use less, gain more.</li></ul><p>LIFE - Technology and life only become complex if you let it be so.</p><p><strong>Ten Laws:</strong></p><ol><li>REDUCE - The simplest way to achieve simplicity is through thoughtful reduction.</li><li>ORGANIZE - Organization makes a system of many appear fewer.</li><li>TIME - Savings in time feel like simplicity.</li><li>LEARN - Knowledge makes everything simpler.</li><li>DIFFERENCES - Simplicity and complexity need each other.</li><li>CONTEXT - What lies in the periphery of simplicity is definitely not peripheral.</li><li>EMOTION - More emotions are better than less.</li><li>TRUST - In simplicity we trust.</li><li>FAILURE - Some things can never be made simple.</li><li>THE ONE - Simplicity is about subtracting the obvious, and adding the meaningful.</li></ol><p><strong>Three Keys</strong></p><ol><li>AWAY - More appears like less by simply moving it far, far away.</li><li>OPEN - Openness simplifies complexity.</li><li>POWER - Use less, gain more.</li></ol>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[This is a widely-cited, occasionally mind-bending work from Daniel Kahneman that describes many of the human errors in thinking that he and others have discovered through their psychology research. This book has influenced many, and can be considered one of the most significant books on psychology (along with books like Influence), in recent years. Should be read by anyone looking to improve their own decision-making, regardless of field (indeed, most of the book is applicable throughout daily life).]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>Valid intuitions develop when experts have learned to recognize familiar elements in a new situation and to act in a manner that is appropriate to it. </li><li>The essence of intuitive heuristics: when faced with a difficult question, we often answer an easier one instead, usually without noticing the substitution. </li><li>We are prone to overestimate how much we understand about the world and to underestimate the role of chance in events. Overconfidence is fed by the illusory certainty of hindsight. My views on this topic have been influenced by Nassim Taleb, the author of <em>The Black Swan</em>. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 1: Two Systems</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 1: The Characters of the Story</strong></h5><ul><li><em>System 1</em> operates automatically and quickly, with little or no effort and no sense of voluntary control. </li><li><em>System 2</em> allocates attention to the effortful mental activities that demand it, including complex computations. The operations of System 2 are often associated with the subjective experience of agency, choice, and concentration. </li><li>I describe System 1 as effortlessly originating impressions and feelings that are the main sources of the explicit beliefs and deliberate choices of System 2. The automatic operations of System 1 generate surprisingly complex patterns of ideas, but only the slower System 2 can construct thoughts in an orderly series of steps. </li></ul><p>In rough order of complexity, here are some examples of the automatic activities that are attributed to System 1: </p><ul><li>Detect that one object is more distant than another. </li><li>Orient to the source of a sudden sound. </li></ul><p>The highly diverse operations of System 2 have one feature in common: they require attention and are disrupted when attention is drawn away. Here are some examples: </p><ul><li>Focus on the voice of a particular person in a crowded and noisy room. </li><li>Count the occurrences of the letter a in a page of text. </li><li>Check the validity of a complex logical argument. </li><li>It is the mark of effortful activities that they interfere with each other, which is why it is difficult or impossible to conduct several at once. </li><li>The gorilla study illustrates two important facts about our minds: <em>we can be blind to the obvious</em>, and <em>we are also blind to our blindness.</em></li><li>One of the tasks of System 2 is to overcome the impulses of System 1. In other words, System 2 is in charge of self-control. </li><li>The best we can do is a compromise: learn to recognize situations in which mistakes are likely and try harder to avoid significant mistakes when the stakes are high. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2: Attention and Effort</strong></h5><ul><li>People, when engaged in a mental sprint, become effectively blind. </li><li>As you become skilled in a task, its demand for energy diminishes. Talent has similar effects. </li><li>One of the significant discoveries of cognitive psychologists in recent decades is that switching from one task to another is effortful, especially under time pressure. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: The Lazy Controller</strong></h5><ul><li>It is now a well-established proposition that both self-control and cognitive effort are forms of mental work. Several psychological studies have shown that people who are simultaneously challenged by a demanding cognitive task and by a temptation are more likely to yield to the temptation. </li><li>People who are <em>cognitively busy</em> are also more likely to make selfish choices, use sexist language, and make superficial judgments in social situations. A few drinks have the same effect, as does a sleepless night. </li><li>Baumeister’s group has repeatedly found that an effort of will or self-control is tiring; if you have had to force yourself to do something, you are less willing or less able to exert self-control when the next challenge comes around. The phenomenon has been named <em>ego depletion.</em></li><li>The evidence is persuasive: activities that impose high demands on System 2 require self-control, and the exertion of self-control is depleting and unpleasant. Unlike cognitive load, ego depletion is at least in part a loss of motivation. After exerting self-control in one task, you do not feel like making an effort in another, although you could do it if you really had to. In several experiments, people were able to resist the effects of ego depletion when given a strong incentive to do so. </li><li>Restoring glucose levels can have a counteracting effect to mental depletion. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4: The Associative Machine</strong></h5><ul><li>Priming effects take many forms. If the idea of EAT is currently on your mind (whether or not you are conscious of it), you will be quicker than usual to recognize the word SOUP when it is spoken in a whisper or presented in a blurry font. And of course you are primed not only for the idea of soup but also for a multitude of food-related ideas, including fork, hungry, fat, diet, and cookie. </li><li>Priming is not limited to concepts and words; your actions and emotions can be primed by events of which you are not even aware, including simple gestures. </li><li>Money seems to prime individualism: reluctance to be involved with, depend on, or accept demands from others. </li><li>Note: the effects of primes are robust but not necessarily large; likely only a few in a hundred voters will be affected. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5: Cognitive Ease</strong></h5><ul><li><em>Cognitive ease:</em> no threats, no major news, no need to redirect attention or mobilize effort. </li><li><em>Cognitive strain:</em> affected by both the current level of effort and the presence of unmet demands; requires increased mobilization of System 2. </li><li>Memories and thinking are subject to <em>illusions,</em> just as the eyes are. </li><li>Predictable illusions inevitable occur if a judgement is based on an impression of cognitive ease or strain. </li><li>A reliable way to make people believe in falsehoods is frequent repetition, because familiarity is not easily distinguished from truth. </li><li>If you want to make recipients believe something, general principle is to ease cognitive strain: make font legible, use high-quality paper to maximize contrasts, print in bright colours, use simple language, put things in verse (make them memorable), and if you quote, make sure it’s an easy name to pronounce. </li><li>Weird example: stocks with pronounceable tickers do better over time. </li><li>Mood also affects performance: happy moods dramatically improve accuracy. Good mood, intuition, creativity, gullibility and increased reliance on System 1 form a cluster. </li><li>At the other pole, sadness, vigilance, suspicion, an analytic approach, and increased effort also go together. A happy mood loosens the control of System 2 over performance: when in a good mood, people become more intuitive and more creative but also less vigilant and more prone to logical errors. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6: Norms, Surprises, and Causes</strong></h5><ul><li>We can detect departures from the norm (even small ones) within two-tenths of a second. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7: A Machine for Jumping to Conclusions</strong></h5><ul><li>Jumping to conclusions is efficient if the conclusions are likely to be correct and the costs of an occasional mistake acceptable, and if the jump saves much time and effort. Jumping to conclusions is risky when the situation is unfamiliar, the stakes are high, and there is no time to collect more information. </li></ul><p>A Bias to Believe and Confirm </p><ul><li>The operations of associative memory contribute to a general <em>confirmation bias</em>. When asked, &quot;Is Sam friendly?&quot; different instances of Sam’s behavior will come to mind than would if you had been asked &quot;Is Sam unfriendly?&quot; A deliberate search for confirming evidence, known as <em>positive test strategy</em>, is also how System 2 tests a hypothesis. Contrary to the rules of philosophers of science, who advise testing hypotheses by trying to refute them, people (and scientists, quite often) seek data that are likely to be compatible with the beliefs they currently hold. </li></ul><p>Exaggerated Emotional Coherence (Halo Effect) </p><ul><li>If you like the president’s politics, you probably like his voice and his appearance as well. The tendency to like (or dislike) everything about a person—including things you have not observed—is known as the halo effect. </li><li>To counter, you should decor relate error - in other words, to get useful information from multiple sources, make sure these sources are independent, then compare. </li><li>The principle of independent judgments (and decorrelated errors) has immediate applications for the conduct of meetings, an activity in which executives in organizations spend a great deal of their working days. A simple rule can help: before an issue is discussed, all members of the committee should be asked to write a very brief summary of their position. </li></ul><p>What You See is All There is (WYSIATI) </p><ul><li>The measure of success for System 1 is the coherence of the story it manages to create. The amount and quality of the data on which the story is based are largely irrelevant. When information is scarce, which is a common occurrence, System 1 operates as a machine for jumping to conclusions. </li><li>WYSIATI: What you see is all there is. </li><li>WYSIATI helps explain some biases of judgement and choice, including: </li><li><strong>Overconfidence:</strong> As the WYSIATI rule implies, neither the quantity nor the quality of the evidence counts for much in subjective confidence. The confidence that individuals have in their beliefs depends mostly on the quality of the story they can tell about what they see, even if they see little. </li><li><strong>Framing effects</strong>: Different ways of presenting the same information often evoke different emotions. The statement that the odds of survival one month after surgery are 90% is more reassuring than the equivalent statement that mortality within one month of surgery is 10%. </li><li><strong>Base-rate neglect</strong>: Recall Steve, the meek and tidy soul who is often believed to be a librarian. The personality description is salient and vivid, and although you surely know that there are more male farmers than male librarians, that statistical fact almost certainly did not come to your mind when you first considered the question. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9: Answering an Easier Question</strong></h5><ul><li>We often generate intuitive opinions on complex matters by substituting the target question with a related question that is easier to answer. </li><li>The present state of mind affects how people evaluate their happiness. </li><li><em>affect heuristic:</em> in which people let their likes and dislikes determine their beliefs about the world. Your political preference determines the arguments that you find compelling. </li><li>If you like the current health policy, you believe its benefits are substantial and its costs more manageable than the costs of alternatives. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 2: Heuristics and Biases</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 10: The Law of Small Numbers</strong></h5><ul><li>A random event, by definition, does not lend itself to explanation, but collections of random events do behave in a highly regular fashion. </li><li>Large samples are more precise than small samples. </li><li>Small samples yield extreme results more often than large samples do. </li></ul><p>A Bias of Confidence Over Doubt </p><ul><li>The strong bias toward believing that small samples closely resemble the population from which they are drawn is also part of a larger story: we are prone to exaggerate the consistency and coherence of what we see. </li></ul><p>Cause and Chance </p><ul><li>Our predilection for causal thinking exposes us to serious mistakes in evaluating the randomness of truly random events. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 11: Anchoring Effects</strong></h5><ul><li>The phenomenon we were studying is so common and so important in the everyday world that you should know its name: it is an <em>anchoring effect</em>. It occurs when people consider a particular value for an unknown quantity before estimating that quantity. What happens is one of the most reliable and robust results of experimental psychology: the estimates stay close to the number that people considered—hence the image of an anchor. </li></ul><p>The Anchoring Index </p><ul><li>The anchoring measure would be 100% for people who slavishly adopt the anchor as an estimate, and zero for people who are able to ignore the anchor altogether. The value of 55% that was observed in this example is typical. Similar values have been observed in numerous other problems. </li><li>Powerful anchoring effects are found in decisions that people make about money, such as when they choose how much to contribute to a cause. </li><li>In general, a strategy of deliberately &quot;thinking the opposite&quot; may be a good defense against anchoring effects, because it negates the biased recruitment of thoughts that produces these effects. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 12: The Science of Availability</strong></h5><ul><li>The <em>availability heuristic</em>, like other heuristics of judgment, substitutes one question for another: you wish to estimate the size of a category or the frequency of an event, but you report an impression of the ease with which instances come to mind. Substitution of questions inevitably produces systematic errors. </li><li>You can discover how the heuristic leads to biases by following a simple procedure: list factors other than frequency that make it easy to come up with instances. Each factor in your list will be a potential source of bias. </li><li>Resisting this large collection of potential availability biases is possible, but tiresome. You must make the effort to reconsider your impressions and intuitions by asking such questions as, &quot;Is our belief that thefts by teenagers are a major problem due to a few recent instances in our neighborhood?&quot; or &quot;Could it be that I feel no need to get a flu shot because none of my acquaintances got the flu last year?&quot; Maintaining one’s vigilance against biases is a chore—but the chance to avoid a costly mistake is sometimes worth the effort. </li></ul><p>The Psychology of Availability </p><p>For example, people: </p><ul><li>believe that they use their bicycles less often after recalling many rather than few instances </li><li>are less confident in a choice when they are asked to produce more arguments to support it </li><li>are less confident that an event was avoidable after listing more ways it could have been avoided </li><li>are less impressed by a car after listing many of its advantages </li></ul><p>The difficulty of coming up with more examples surprises people, and they subsequently change their judgement. </p><p>The following are some conditions in which people &quot;go with the flow&quot; and are affected more strongly by ease of retrieval than by the content they retrieved: </p><ul><li>when they are engaged in another effortful task at the same time </li><li>when they are in a good mood because they just thought of a happy episode in their life </li><li>if they score low on a depression scale </li><li>if they are knowledgeable novices on the topic of the task, in contrast to true experts </li><li>when they score high on a scale of faith in intuition </li><li>if they are (or are made to feel) powerful </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 13: Availability, Emotion, and Risk</strong></h5><ul><li>The <em>affect heuristic</em> is an instance of substitution, in which the answer to an easy question (How do I feel about it?) serves as an answer to a much harder question (What do I think about it?). </li><li>Experts sometimes measure things more objectively, weighing total number of lives saved, or something similar, while many citizens will judge “good” and “bad” types of deaths. </li><li>An availability cascade is a self-sustaining chain of events, which may start from media reports of a relatively minor event and lead up to public panic and large-scale government action. </li><li>The Alar tale illustrates a basic limitation in the ability of our mind to deal with small risks: we either ignore them altogether or give them far too much weight—nothing in between. </li><li>In today’s world, terrorists are the most significant practitioners of the art of inducing availability cascades. </li><li>Psychology should inform the design of risk policies that combine the experts’ knowledge with the public’s emotions and intuitions. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 14: Tom W’s Specialty</strong></h5><ul><li>The <em>representativeness heuristic</em> is involved when someone says &quot;She will win the election; you can see she is a winner&quot; or &quot;He won’t go far as an academic; too many tattoos.&quot; </li></ul><p>One sin of representativeness is an excessive willingness to predict the occurrence of unlikely (low base-rate) events. Here is an example: you see a person reading <em>The New York Times</em> on the New York subway. Which of the following is a better bet about the reading stranger? </p><ul><li>She has a PhD. </li><li>She does not have a college degree. </li></ul><p>Representativeness would tell you to bet on the PhD, but this is not necessarily wise. You should seriously consider the second alternative, because many more nongraduates than PhDs ride in New York subways. </p><p>The second sin of representativeness is insensitivity to the quality of evidence. </p><p>There is one thing you can do when you have doubts about the quality of the evidence: let your judgments of probability stay close to the base rate. </p><p>The essential keys to disciplined Bayesian reasoning can be simply summarized: </p><ul><li>Anchor your judgment of the probability of an outcome on a plausible base rate. </li><li>Question the diagnosticity of your evidence.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 15: Linda: Less is More</strong></h5><ul><li>When you specify a possible event in greater detail you can only lower its probability. The problem therefore sets up a conflict between the intuition of representativeness and the logic of probability. </li><li><em>conjunction fallacy:</em> when people judge a conjunction of two events to be more probable than one of the events in a direct comparison. </li><li>Representativeness belongs to a cluster of closely related basic assessments that are likely to be generated together. The most representative outcomes combine with the personality description to produce the most coherent stories. The most coherent stories are not necessarily the most probable, but they are <em>plausible</em>, and the notions of coherence, plausibility, and probability are easily confused by the unwary. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 17: Regression to the Mean</strong></h5><ul><li>An important principle of skill training: rewards for improved performance work better than punishment of mistakes. This proposition is supported by much evidence from research on pigeons, rats, humans, and other animals. </li></ul><p>Talent and Luck </p><ul><li>My favourite equations: </li><li>success = talent + luck </li><li>great success = a little more talent + a lot of luck </li></ul><p>Understanding Regression </p><ul><li>The general rule is straightforward but has surprising consequences: whenever the correlation between two scores is imperfect, there will be regression to the mean. </li><li>If the correlation between the intelligence of spouses is less than perfect (and if men and women on average do not differ in intelligence), then it is a mathematical inevitability that highly intelligent women will be married to husbands who are on average less intelligent than they are (and vice versa, of course). </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 18: Taming Intuitive Predictions</strong></h5><ul><li>Some predictive judgements, like those made by engineers, rely largely on lookup tables, precise calculations, and explicit analyses of outcomes observed on similar occasions. Others involve intuition and System 1, in two main varieties: </li><li>Some intuitions draw primarily on skill and expertise acquired by repeated experience. The rapid and automatic judgements of chess masters, fire chiefs, and doctors illustrate these. </li><li>Others, which are sometimes subjectively indistinguishable from the first, arise from the operation of heuristics that often substitute an easy question for the harder one that was asked. </li><li>We are capable of rejecting information as irrelevant or false, but adjusting for smaller weaknesses in the evidence is not something that System 1 can do. As a result, intuitive predictions are almost completely insensitive to the actual predictive quality of the evidence. </li></ul><p>A Correction for Inuitive Predictions </p><ul><li>Recall that the correlation between two measures—in the present case reading age and GPA—is equal to the proportion of shared factors among their determinants. What is your best guess about that proportion? My most optimistic guess is about 30%. Assuming this estimate, we have all we need to produce an unbiased prediction. Here are the directions for how to get there in four simple steps: </li><li>Start with an estimate of average GPA. </li><li>Determine the GPA that matches your impression of the evidence. </li><li>Estimate the correlation between your evidence and GPA. </li><li>If the correlation is .30, move 30% of the distance from the average to the matching GPA. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 3: Overconfidence</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 19: The Illusion of Understanding</strong></h5><ul><li>From Taleb: <em>narrative fallacy</em>: our tendency to reshape the past into coherent stories that shape our views of the world and expectations for the future. </li><li>As a result, we tend to overestimate skill, and underestimate luck. </li><li>Once humans adopt a new view of the world, we have difficulty recalling our old view, and how much we were surprised by past events. </li><li><em>Outcome bias</em>: our tendency to put too much blame on decision makers for bad outcomes vs. good ones. </li><li>This both influences risk aversion, and disproportionately rewarding risky behaviour (the entrepreneur who gambles big and wins). </li><li>At best, a good CEO is about 10% better than random guessing. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 20: The Illusion of Validity</strong></h5><ul><li>We often vastly overvalue the evidence at hand; discount the amount of evidence and its quality in favour of the better story, and follow the people we love and trust with no evidence in other cases. </li><li>The illusion of skill is maintained by powerful professional cultures. </li><li>Experts/pundits are rarely better (and often worse) than random chance, yet often believe at a much higher confidence level in their predictions. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 21: Intuitions vs. Formulas</strong></h5><p>A number of studies have concluded that algorithms are better than expert judgement, or at least as good. </p><p>The research suggests a surprising conclusion: to maximize predictive accuracy, final decisions should be left to formulas, especially in low-validity environments. </p><p>More recent research went further: formulas that assign equal weights to all the predictors are often superior, because they are not affected by accidents of sampling. </p><p>In a memorable example, Dawes showed that marital stability is well predicted by a formula: </p><ul><li>frequency of lovemaking minus frequency of quarrels </li></ul><p>The important conclusion from this research is that an algorithm that is constructed on the back of an envelope is often good enough to compete with an optimally weighted formula, and certainly good enough to outdo expert judgment. </p><p>Intuition can be useful, but only when applied systematically. </p><p><strong>Interviewing</strong></p><p>To implement a good interview procedure: </p><ul><li>Select some traits required for success (six is a good number). Try to ensure they are independent. </li><li>Make a list of questions for each trait, and think about how you will score it from 1-5 (what would warrant a 1, what would make a 5). </li><li>Collect information as you go, assessing each trait in turn. </li><li>Then add up the scores at the end. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 22: Expert Intuition: When Can We Trust It?</strong></h5><p>When can we trust intuition/judgements? The answer comes from the two basic conditions for acquiring a skill: </p><ul><li>an environment that is sufficiently regular to be predictable </li><li>an opportunity to learn these regularities through prolonged practice </li></ul><p>When both these conditions are satisfied, intuitions are likely to be skilled. </p><p>Whether professionals have a chance to develop intuitive expertise depends essentially on the quality and speed of feedback, as well as on sufficient opportunity to practice. </p><p>Among medical specialties, anesthesiologists benefit from good feedback, because the effects of their actions are likely to be quickly evident. In contrast, radiologists obtain little information about the accuracy of the diagnoses they make and about the pathologies they fail to detect. Anesthesiologists are therefore in a better position to develop useful intuitive skills. </p><h5><strong>Chapter 23: The Outside View</strong></h5><p>The <em>inside view</em>: when we focus on our specific circumstances and search for evidence in our own experiences. </p><ul><li>Also: when you fail to account for unknown unknowns. </li></ul><p>The <em>outside view</em>: when you take into account a proper reference class/base rate. </p><p><em>Planning fallacy:</em> plans and forecasts that are unrealistically close to best-case scenarios could be improved by consulting the statistics of similar cases </p><p><em>Reference class forecasting</em>: the treatment for the planning fallacy </p><p>The outside view is implemented by using a large database, which provides information on both plans and outcomes for hundreds of projects all over the world, and can be used to provide statistical information about the likely overruns of cost and time, and about the likely underperformance of projects of different types. </p><p>The forecasting method that Flyvbjerg applies is similar to the practices recommended for overcoming base-rate neglect: </p><ul><li>Identify an appropriate reference class (kitchen renovations, large railway projects, etc.). </li><li>Obtain the statistics of the reference class (in terms of cost per mile of railway, or of the percentage by which expenditures exceeded budget). Use the statistics to generate a baseline prediction. </li><li>Use specific information about the case to adjust the baseline prediction, if there are particular reasons to expect the optimistic bias to be more or less pronounced in this project than in others of the same type. </li><li>Organizations face the challenge of controlling the tendency of executives competing for resources to present overly optimistic plans. A well-run organization will reward planners for precise execution and penalize them for failing to anticipate difficulties, and for failing to allow for difficulties that they could not have anticipated—the unknown unknowns. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 24: The Engine of Capitalism</strong></h5><p><em>Optimism bias</em>: always viewing positive outcomes or angles of events </p><p>Danger: losing track of reality and underestimating the role of luck, as well as the risk involved. </p><p>To try and mitigate the optimism bias, you should a) be aware of likely biases and planning fallacies that can affect those who are predisposed to optimism, and, </p><p>Perform a premortem: </p><ul><li>The procedure is simple: when the organization has almost come to an important decision but has not formally committed itself, Klein proposes gathering for a brief session a group of individuals who are knowledgeable about the decision. The premise of the session is a short speech: &quot;Imagine that we are a year into the future. We implemented the plan as it now exists. The outcome was a disaster. Please take 5 to 10 minutes to write a brief history of that disaster.&quot; </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 4: Choices</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 25: Bernoulli’s Error</strong></h5><ul><li><em>theory-induced blindness</em>: once you have accepted a theory and used it as a tool in your thinking, it is extraordinarily difficult to notice its flaws. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 26: Prospect Theory</strong></h5><ul><li>It’s clear now that there are three cognitive features at the heart of prospect theory. They play an essential role in the evaluation of financial outcomes and are common to many automatic processes of perception, judgment, and emotion. They should be seen as operating characteristics of System 1. </li><li>Evaluation is relative to a neutral reference point, which is sometimes referred to as an &quot;adaptation level.&quot; </li><li>For financial outcomes, the usual reference point is the status quo, but it can also be the outcome that you expect, or perhaps the outcome to which you feel entitled, for example, the raise or bonus that your colleagues receive. </li><li>Outcomes that are better than the reference points are gains. Below the reference point they are losses. </li><li>A principle of diminishing sensitivity applies to both sensory dimensions and the evaluation of changes of wealth. </li><li>The third principle is loss aversion. When directly compared or weighted against each other, losses loom larger than gains. This asymmetry between the power of positive and negative expectations or experiences has an evolutionary history. Organisms that treat threats as more urgent than opportunities have a better chance to survive and reproduce. </li></ul><p>Loss Aversion </p><ul><li>The “loss aversion ratio” has been estimated in several experiments and is usually in the range of 1.5 to 2.5. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 27: The Endowment Effect</strong></h5><ul><li><em>Endowment effect</em>: for certain goods, the status quo is preferred, particularly for goods that are not regularly traded or for goods intended “for use” - to be consumed or otherwise enjoyed. </li><li>Note: not present when owners view their goods as carriers of value for future exchanges. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 28: Bad Events</strong></h5><ul><li>The brain responds quicker to bad words (war, crime) than happy words (peace, love). </li><li>If you are set to look for it, the <em>asymmetric intensity of the motives</em> to avoid losses and to achieve gains shows up almost everywhere. It is an ever-present feature of negotiations, especially of renegotiations of an existing contract, the typical situation in labor negotiations and in international discussions of trade or arms limitations. The existing terms define reference points, and a proposed change in any aspect of the agreement is inevitably viewed as a concession that one side makes to the other. Loss aversion creates an asymmetry that makes agreements difficult to reach. The concessions you make to me are my gains, but they are your losses; they cause you much more pain than they give me pleasure. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 29: The Fourfold Pattern</strong></h5><ul><li>Whenever you form a global evaluation of a complex object—a car you may buy, your son-in-law, or an uncertain situation—you assign weights to its characteristics. This is simply a cumbersome way of saying that some characteristics influence your assessment more than others do. </li><li>The conclusion is straightforward: the decision weights that people assign to outcomes are not identical to the probabilities of these outcomes, contrary to the expectation principle. Improbable outcomes are overweighted—this is the possibility effect. Outcomes that are almost certain are underweighted relative to actual certainty. </li><li>When we looked at our choices for bad options, we quickly realized that we were just as risk seeking in the domain of losses as we were risk averse in the domain of gains. </li><li><em>Certainty effect</em>: at high probabilities, we seek to avoid loss and therefore accept worse outcomes in exchange for certainty, and take high risk in exchange for possibility. </li><li><em>Possibility effect:</em> at low probabilities, we seek a large gain despite risk, and avoid risk despite a poor outcome. </li></ul><p>Indeed, we identified two reasons for this effect. </p><ul><li>First, there is diminishing sensitivity. The sure loss is very aversive because the reaction to a loss of $900 is more than 90% as intense as the reaction to a loss of $1,000. </li><li>The second factor may be even more powerful: the decision weight that corresponds to a probability of 90% is only about 71, much lower than the probability. </li><li>Many unfortunate human situations unfold in the top right cell. This is where people who face very bad options take desperate gambles, accepting a high probability of making things worse in exchange for a small hope of avoiding a large loss. Risk taking of this kind often turns manageable failures into disasters. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 30: Rare Events</strong></h5><ul><li>The probability of a rare event is most likely to be overestimated when the alternative is not fully specified. </li><li>Emotion and vividness influence fluency, availability, and judgments of probability—and thus account for our excessive response to the few rare events that we do not ignore. </li><li>Adding vivid details, salience and attention to a rare event will increase the weighting of an unlikely outcome. </li><li>When this doesn’t occur, we tend to neglect the rare event. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 31: Risk Policies</strong></h5><p>There were two ways of construing decisions i and ii: </p><ul><li>narrow framing: a sequence of two simple decisions, considered separately </li><li>broad framing: a single comprehensive decision, with four options </li></ul><p>Broad framing was obviously superior in this case. Indeed, it will be superior (or at least not inferior) in every case in which several decisions are to be contemplated together. </p><p>Decision makers who are prone to narrow framing construct a preference every time they face a risky choice. They would do better by having a <em>risk policy</em> that they routinely apply whenever a relevant problem arises. Familiar examples of risk policies are &quot;always take the highest possible deductible when purchasing insurance&quot; and &quot;never buy extended warranties.&quot; A risk policy is a broad frame. </p><h5><strong>Chapter 32: Keeping Score</strong></h5><ul><li><em>Agency problem</em>: when the incentives of an agent are in conflict with the objectives of a larger group, such as when a manager continues investing in a project because he has backed it, when it’s in the firms best interest to cancel it. </li><li><em>Sunk-cost fallacy:</em> the decision to invest additional resources in a losing account, when better investments are available. </li><li><em>Disposition effect</em>: the preference to end something on a positive, seen in investment when there is a much higher preference to sell winners and “end positive” than sell losers. </li><li>An instance of <em>narrow framing</em>. </li></ul><p>Regret </p><ul><li>People expect to have stronger emotional reactions (including regret) to an outcome produced by action than to the same outcome when it is produced by inaction. </li><li>To inoculate against regret: be explicit about your anticipation of it, and consider it when making decisions. Also try and preclude hindsight bias (document your decision-making process). </li><li>Also know that people generally anticipate more regret than they will actually experience. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 33: Reversals</strong></h5><ul><li>You should make sure to keep a broad frame when evaluating something; seeing cases in isolation is more likely to lead to a System 1 reaction. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 34: Frames and Reality</strong></h5><ul><li>The framing of something influences the outcome to a great degree. </li><li>For example, your moral feelings are attached to frames, to descriptions of reality rather than to reality itself. </li><li>Another example: the best single predictor of whether or not people will donate their organs is the designation of the default option that will be adopted without having to check the box. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 5: Two Selves</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 35: Two Selves</strong></h5><ul><li><em>Peak-end rule</em>: The global retrospective rating was well predicted by the average of the level of pain reported at the worst moment of the experience and at its end. </li><li>We tend to overrate the end of an experience when remembering the whole. </li><li><em>Duration neglect</em>: The duration of the procedure had no effect whatsoever on the ratings of total pain. </li><li>Generally: we tend to ignore the duration of an event when evaluating an experience. </li><li>Confusing experience with the memory of it is a compelling cognitive illusion—and it is the substitution that makes us believe a past experience can be ruined. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 37: Experienced Well-Being</strong></h5><ul><li>One way to improve experience is to shift from passive leisure (TV watching) to active leisure, including socializing and exercising. </li><li>The second-best predictor of feelings of a day is whether a person did or did not have contacts with friends or relatives. </li><li>It is only a slight exaggeration to say that happiness is the experience of spending time with people you love and who love you. </li><li>Can money buy happiness? Being poor makes one miserable, being rich may enhance one’s life satisfaction, but does not (on average) improve experienced well-being. </li><li>Severe poverty amplifies the effect of other misfortunes of life. </li><li>The satiation level beyond which experienced well-being no longer increases was a household income of about $75,000 in high-cost areas (it could be less in areas where the cost of living is lower). The average increase of experienced well-being associated with incomes beyond that level was precisely zero. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 38: Thinking About Life</strong></h5><ul><li>Experienced well-being is on average unaffected by marriage, not because marriage makes no difference to happiness but because it changes some aspects of life for the better and others for the worse (how one’s time is spent). </li><li>One reason for the low correlations between individuals’ circumstances and their satisfaction with life is that both experienced happiness and life satisfaction are largely determined by the genetics of temperament. A disposition for well-being is as heritable as height or intelligence, as demonstrated by studies of twins separated at birth. </li><li>The importance that people attached to income at age 18 also anticipated their satisfaction with their income as adults. </li><li>The people who wanted money and got it were significantly more satisfied than average; those who wanted money and didn’t get it were significantly more dissatisfied. The same principle applies to other goals—<strong>one recipe for a dissatisfied adulthood is setting goals that are especially difficult to attain.</strong></li><li>Measured by life satisfaction 20 years later, the least promising goal that a young person could have was &quot;becoming accomplished in a performing art.&quot; </li></ul><p>The <em>focusing illusion</em>: </p><ul><li><strong>Nothing in life is as important as you think it is when you are thinking about it.</strong></li></ul><p><em>Miswanting:</em> bad choices that arise from errors of affective forecasting; common example is the focusing illusion causing us overweight the effect of purchases on our future well-being. </p><h5><strong>Conclusions</strong></h5><p>Rationality </p><ul><li>Rationality is logical coherence—reasonable or not. Econs are rational by this definition, but there is overwhelming evidence that Humans cannot be. An Econ would not be susceptible to priming, WYSIATI, narrow framing, the inside view, or preference reversals, which Humans cannot consistently avoid. </li><li>The definition of rationality as coherence is impossibly restrictive; it demands adherence to rules of logic that a finite mind is not able to implement. </li><li>The assumption that agents are rational provides the intellectual foundation for the libertarian approach to public policy: do not interfere with the individual’s right to choose, unless the choices harm others. </li><li>Thaler and Sunstein advocate a position of libertarian paternalism, in which the state and other institutions are allowed to nudge people to make decisions that serve their own long-term interests. The designation of joining a pension plan as the default option is an example of a nudge. </li></ul><p>Two Systems</p><ul><li>What can be done about biases? How can we improve judgments and decisions, both our own and those of the institutions that we serve and that serve us? The short answer is that little can be achieved without a considerable investment of effort. As I know from experience, System 1 is not readily educable. Except for some effects that I attribute mostly to age, my intuitive thinking is just as prone to overconfidence, extreme predictions, and the planning fallacy as it was before I made a study of these issues. I have improved only in my ability to recognize situations in which errors are likely: &quot;This number will be an anchor…,&quot; &quot;The decision could change if the problem is reframed…&quot; And I have made much more progress in recognizing the errors of others than my own </li><li>The way to block errors that originate in System 1 is simple in principle: recognize the signs that you are in a cognitive minefield, slow down, and ask for reinforcement from System 2. </li><li>Organizations are better than individuals when it comes to avoiding errors, because they naturally think more slowly and have the power to impose orderly procedures. Organizations can institute and enforce the application of useful checklists, as well as more elaborate exercises, such as reference-class forecasting and the premortem. </li><li>At least in part by providing a distinctive vocabulary, organizations can also encourage a culture in which people watch out for one another as they approach minefields. </li><li>The corresponding stages in the production of decisions are the framing of the problem that is to be solved, the collection of relevant information leading to a decision, and reflection and review. An organization that seeks to improve its decision product should routinely look for efficiency improvements at each of these stages. </li><li>There is much to be done to improve decision making. One example out of many is the remarkable absence of systematic training for the essential skill of conducting efficient meetings. </li><li>Ultimately, a richer language is essential to the skill of constructive criticism. </li><li>Decision makers are sometimes better able to imagine the voices of present gossipers and future critics than to hear the hesitant voice of their own doubts. They will make better choices when they trust their critics to be sophisticated and fair, and when they expect their decision to be judged by how it was made, not only by how it turned out. </li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[This is Marketing is a collection of thoughts from Seth Godin about marketing.  It’s a relatively quick read, and gives a brief overview of much of what his other work has been dedicated to: permission marketing, telling stories, engaging with customers. I don’t think this is a breakthrough marketing book.  For me, it was the first book of his I’d read (though I’ve subscribed to his blog for a long time).  I think it’s a good introduction to his work, and afterwards you can go back to some of his more well-known work - Tribes, Purple Cow, All Marketers Are Liars, Linchpin.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>Marketing is the generous act of helping someone solve their problem. </h4><ul><li>Effective marketing now relies on empathy and service, not selfish mass spam. </li><li>Marketers offer solutions to problems other humans have, and help them move forward. </li><li>Marketing in five steps </li><li>The <strong>first step</strong> is to invent a thing worth making, with a story worth telling, and a contribution worth talking about. </li><li>The <strong>second step</strong> is to design and build it in a way that a few people will particularly benefit from and care about. </li><li>The <strong>third step</strong> is to tell a story that matches the built-in narrative and dreams of that tiny group of people, the smallest viable market. </li><li>The <strong>fourth step</strong> is the one everyone gets excited about: spread the word. </li><li>The <strong>last step</strong> is often overlooked: show up—regularly, consistently, and generously, for years and years—to organize and lead and build confidence in the change you seek to make. To earn permission to follow up and to earn enrollment to teach. </li><li>“People like us do things like this” </li><li>Keep going back to the question: “Who’s it for?&quot; </li><li>Focus on the smallest viable market, which is the smallest number of people you need to delight for them to tell others, and lead your growth. </li><li>Think of your prospects as students, then ask questions like: Where are your students? What will they benefit from learning? What will they tell others? </li><li>Here’s a template, a three-sentence marketing promise you can run with: </li><li>My product is for people who believe _________________. </li><li>I will focus on people who want _________________. </li><li>I promise that engaging with what I make will help you get _________________. </li><li>Find two attributes that have been overlooked, and position yourself at the extreme of those two attributes, in a place where there is little competition, and you are the clear and obvious choice. </li><li>We sell feelings, status, and connection, not tasks or stuff. </li><li>At the start, begin with dreams and fears, emotional states, and the change your customers seek. </li><li><em>The heart and soul of a thriving enterprise is the irrational pursuit of becoming irresistible.</em></li><li>Make your product work better when used with others. </li><li>Seek advice/feedback like this: &quot;I made something that I like, that I thought you’d like. How’d I do? What advice do you have for how I could make it fit your worldview more closely?&quot; </li><li>Or invert: Why are the people who don’t choose you right? </li><li>The customer thinks: “Do people like me do things like this?&quot; </li><li>The more specific, connected and tighter the “us” you choose, the better. </li><li>You must create tension - not fear, exactly - but the promise that we can get through that fear to the other side. </li><li>Sending affiliation signals in B2B means creating referrals. Affiliation is all about: Who’s standing next to me? </li><li>Why marketers go to work: to be successful, to engage with people in a way that benefits both sides, to be respected, seen, and appreciated, to make enough of a profit to do it again. </li><li>How do you know if you have a brand? If people would care if you disappeared. </li><li>Brand marketing makes magic; direct marketing makes the phone ring. </li><li>Brand marketing: culturally oriented, can’t be measured. </li><li>Direct marketing: action oriented, measured. </li><li>Measure everything if you’re doing direct marketing; be very specific if you’re doing brand marketing. </li><li>With everything you do: continue to show up with frequency. Most people give up too soon. </li><li>Real permission: if you stop showing up, people are concerned where you went. </li><li>How do you get permission? Provide value to the people who are most likely to want to hear from you (likely neophiliacs). </li><li>The bridge across the chasm between early adopters and the masses is network effects. It’s built on two simple questions: </li><li>What will I tell my friends? </li><li>Why will I tell them? </li><li>In B2B marketing, every business buyer asks herself the question: “What will I tell my boss?&quot; </li><li>Tell stories: </li><li>The story of self: talk about your transition from who you used to be to who you became. </li><li>The story of us: why are we alike? Why should we care? Why is your story relevant to “us”. </li><li>The story of now: enlists the tribe on your journey; the opportunity/peer pressure to provide the tension for all of us to move forward, together. </li><li>When you fail to market your offering properly, you’re stealing: stealing the opportunity from someone who needs to learn from your engage with you, or buy from you. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Trade-Off by Kevin Maney: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/trade-off-kevin-maney</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I read this book as one of several that Moisey Uretsky from Digital Ocean recommended, and, like each one he suggested, it helped me think about the strategy and path for our startup at the time.I think the fact that I read it while in the early stages of building a company made a huge difference for how relevant it was, and overall the book is focused on a relatively simple premise: those who have the courage to make rigorous choices between high-fidelity and high-convenience do better than those who make no clear and rigorous choices.It's a relatively quick read, and lays out some of the details surrounding this theory, but it gives a good framework for thinking about where you are going to fit into a given market, and what you need to seek when developing a product roadmap.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favorite Quotes</h3><ul><li>Most successful products fall either at the far end of the fidelity axis or at the far end of the convenience axis.</li><li>Management needs to ask the question, Is our product on a clear path toward either convenience or fidelity? If not, that suggests trouble.</li><li>People who enjoy the most success can be found toward the extremes of fidelity and convenience.</li></ul><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><p>His concept: that those who have the courage to make rigorous choices between high-fidelity and high-convenience do better than those who make no clear and rigorous choices.</p><p>To have a personal Hedgehog Concept means that you have constructed a path that meets three tests (the intersection of three circles):</p><ul><li>1) passion (you adhere to your core values and do what you love to do);</li><li>2) genetic encoding (you do what you are genetically encoded for, activities you are made to do exceptionally well);</li><li>3) valuable contribution (you engage in work that makes a contribution of economic and social value, that gives you an economic engine for life).</li><li>People are willing to trade the quality of an experience for the convenience of getting it, and vice versa.</li></ul><p>There are five key concepts behind the fidelity swap:</p><ul><li>Fidelity versus convenience.</li><li>Fidelity is the total experience of something.</li><li>Convenience is how easy or hard it is to get what you want.</li><li>That includes whet her it’s readily available, whether it’s easy to do or use, and how much it costs.</li><li>The tech effect.</li><li>Technology constantly improves both fidelity and convenience.</li><li>The fidelity belly.</li><li>Any product or service that is neither extremely high - fidelity nor high - convenience risks sinking into what I call the fidelity belly — the no - man’s - land of consumer experience.</li><li>The fidelity mirage.</li><li>Contrary to what many businesses want to believe, achieving both high fidelity and high convenience seems to be impossible.</li><li>Super-fidelity or super-convenience.</li><li>This defines the winners. Most successful products fall either at the far end of the fidelity axis or at the far end of the convenience axis.</li></ul><p>Here are two significant additional factors to watch for:</p><ul><li>Social accelerants.</li><li>Our connection with others and our individual identity matter more to us than just about anything else. All other quality / convenience factors being equal, adding a social dimension can change the prospect of a product or service.</li><li>Wrecking - ball moments.</li><li>Every once in a while a new product or service smashes a market sector and starts an entirely new one, resetting the trade - offs people will make between fidelity and convenience. For example, when digital cameras arrived on the scene, they competed in the overall camera market, which included both film and digital versions.</li><li>Aura is sometimes based entirely on perceptions and marketing — a kind of perceived fidelity.</li><li>Perceived fidelity can be a powerful marketing tool, but it can be transient in nature.</li><li>The second aspect of fidelity that is easy to overlook is identity. Many of our consumer choices are a way to tell other people something about ourselves. This is particularly true when making high-fidelity choices.</li><li>Experience plus aura plus identity equals fidelity.</li><li>Convenience is ultimately about the ease of getting the result you want.</li><li>Any factor that makes something easier to obtain relative to its competition makes that product or service more convenient.</li><li>There is another critical, and perhaps counterintuitive, factor to convenience. And that is cost.</li><li>Cost is a key part of convenience for the simple reason that if something costs less, it is easier for most people to buy — which means the product or service is easier to obtain.</li><li>Most of the time, when we find ourselves ”paying for convenience,” we are really ”paying for fidelity.”</li><li>When you add together ease and cost, you get a sense of overall convenience.</li><li>Identity and aura play little or no part in convenience. Often the opposite is true — the most convenient product or service is practically devoid of identity or aura.</li><li>Technology and innovation are constantly moving the borders of both fidelity and convenience.</li><li>A successful business is either loved or needed.</li><li>Fidelity is all about being loved (although not necessarily needed).</li><li>Convenience, on the other hand, is about being needed.</li><li>High-fidelity products or services often occupy a high-end niche. They are relatively expensive, but have fewer customers. In fact, part of their fidelity has to do with their exclusivity, because it is their exclusivity that lends them social cachet and identity.</li><li>On the flip side, high-convenience products or services often serve the mass market. They cost relatively little but touch almost everyone. The mass appeal adds to the convenience because it tends to make the product or service more available and drive the price even lower. The mass appeal also diminishes the fidelity of a product or service — because if everyone has it or does it, it doesn’t do anything to boost our sense of identity.</li><li>But it’s very hard to be both loved and needed, to be both high-fidelity and high-convenience. In fact, trying to achieve both can lead to a breakdown.</li><li>As we’ll see in coming chapters, however, the fidelity mirage doesn’t mean that successful products and services are only high-convenience or high-fidelity. In fact, adding the right touch of fidelity to a high - convenience product or service, or the right touch of convenience to fidelity, can make for a powerful, competitor - beating concoction. The trick is to avoid getting greedy and foolishly chasing the mirage.</li><li>In any market segment, there’s usually at least one high-fidelity player that every other player admires and strives to imitate. That entity does things better than everyone else. People love the product or service. They want to own it, to make it part of their identity. They will tolerate terrible inconveniences — high prices, difficulty in obtaining it — to acquire it. Like some strange law of quantum physics, at the pinnacle of fidelity, convenience can almost disappear. Instead, pure desire takes over. Even lust.</li><li>Being the highest-fidelity company or having the highest-fidelity product or service is a great place to be.</li><li>Is super-fidelity sustainable? Corning shows that it is. But sustainability requires constant investment and long-term thinking. It helps if the fidelity of a product results from a real, tangible competitive advantage.</li><li>Achieving the highest level of fidelity is hard. And if someone catches up, you have to invest and sweat until you come up with something that’s far better yet.</li><li>“Every business, no matter what it is — you find convenience over your competitors, and you win.”</li><li>High convenience is typically low margin, but huge volume.</li><li>High convenience is not about love, but about need. At its best, it is about habit.</li><li>you have to be good at everything that makes a product or service easy to get and use.</li><li>Achieving high convenience can be a long slog. It doesn’t happen quickly.</li><li>But there is a threshold in the fidelity / convenience trade - off; cross it, and irrelevance awaits, as consumers stop feeling like they either love or need a particular a product or service.</li><li>Management needs to ask the question, Is our product on a clear path toward either convenience or fidelity? If not, that suggests trouble.</li><li>The surest and shortest way out of the belly is a straight line along one axis or the other.</li><li>Success often comes about when someone finally sees a path out of the belly to the market beyond.</li><li>Because the tech effect constantly moves the borders outward on both convenience and fidelity, a product or service doesn’t have to decline or become worse to fall into the belly — it only has to stand still or fail to keep pace with improving technology.</li><li>Managers running a high-convenience operation face pressure to increase margins, so they chase fidelity. Managers running a high-fidelity operation face pressure to boost growth, so they chase convenience.</li><li>As the fidelity/convenience tradeoff shows,”mass luxury” is a fallacy. Mass is about convenience, and luxury is about fidelity. They can’t coexist.</li><li>When there’s a tie on fidelity, the most convenient version of that fidelity wins. This works the other way, too — a convenience tie can be broken by the product or service that offers higher fidelity. In fact, it is the very essence of innovation and differentiation. If you and your competitor offer essentially the same product or service, but you can sell yours for less — you win. If you and your competitor offer a product or service that cost about the same and is just as easy to get, but yours is a little better — you win.</li><li>Most companies are not the super-fidelity leader, or the super-convenience powerhouse. Nor are most companies hopelessly stuck in the depths of the fidelity belly; rather, they land somewhere between convenience and fidelity, while leaning more heavily in one direction than the other. Competitors tend to cluster around each other in the same area on a fidelity / convenience chart. To gain an edge, these companies have to decide whether to move up a notch in terms of fidelity or down a notch in terms of convenience.</li><li>create a fidelity / convenience trade - off chart, and try to understand where the new product would fit in. Here are a few things to consider:</li><li>Don’t forget the tech effect. The outer borders of fidelity and convenience constantly move outward, driven by evolving technology. Wherever a product or service lands on the fidelity - or - convenience axis today, it will be in a different position tomorrow.</li><li>Success is not about whether a product is cool or hip — it’s about where the product falls amid fidelity / convenience tradeoffs.</li><li>Different sets of consumers make different fidelity / convenience trade - offs.</li><li>Never evaluate a product or service based on the enthusiasm of early adopters.</li><li>Starting small gives a product or service agility, so it can adjust in response to the tech effect and competitors.</li><li>New technologies almost always start out inside the fidelity belly. The ones that make it out are the ones that clearly aim at either high fidelity or high convenience. Aiming at both is a bad idea.</li><li>One sign to look for in any market: the complete domination by one model, which probably leaves an opening at the other end of the fidelity / convenience trade - off.</li><li>There are probably dozens of industries dominated by either fidelity or convenience, leaving a major opportunity at the other end of the market. One such opportunity in the United States is health care.</li><li>To paraphrase Leonsis, strive to be either loved or needed. And if you can’t be either of those, get out.</li><li>He said that there are two ways to get to the top. One is to climb an existing ladder, which can be a bit crowded. The other is to make your own ladder, and put yourself at the top.</li><li>It’s a twist on the Hedgehog Concept — if you can’t be the best in an existing category, figure out what you can be best at, and create a category that fits.</li><li>In general, the most successful people snag a high-fidelity position on some fidelity/convenience trade-off.</li><li>The higher the fidelity, the more you’ll be in demand and the more you can charge for your work — and the less you’ll have to be convenient.</li><li>Not everyone, of course, is cut out to be the highest-fidelity in any bucket. Then the smart strategy is to aim for high convenience. If you can’t be the best, most polished real estate agent in town, then be the most convenient. Make yourself available in an instant via text message. Do whatever will make your services easier for a home seller to obtain. Lower your fee — which would add to your convenience — to beat out your competitors. Do everything to be the most convenient.</li><li>People who enjoy the most success can be found toward the extremes of fidelity and convenience.</li><li>If you’re the best or most convenient at a given occupation, technology will inevitably advance and provide the tools for someone to do it better or more conveniently.</li><li>When you have a clear sense of what distinguishes you from those around you, that sense of quiet desperation disappears.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing by Daniel Pink: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Pink’s latest book is all about the science of timing, and what scientific studies have shown in terms of how to time our days, and our lives.  It’s concise, and relevant to everyone.One of the best parts about this book is how actionable the content is - he presents the science and studies, and then provides a “Time Hacker’s Handbook” for each chapter with resources on how to apply the lessons to your own life.Highly recommend the book, and I’ll be making some changes to my own life using the content I learned here.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><ul><li>The product of writing—this book—contains more answers than questions. But the process of writing is the opposite. Writing is an act of discovering what you think and what you believe.</li><li>I used to believe in ignoring the waves of the day. Now I believe in surfing them.</li><li>I used to believe that lunch breaks, naps, and taking walks were niceties. Now I believe they’re necessities.</li><li>I used to believe that the best way to overcome a bad start at work, at school, or at home was to shake it off and move on. Now I believe the better approach is to start again or start together.</li><li>I used to believe that midpoints didn’t matter—mostly because I was oblivious to their very existence. Now I believe that midpoints illustrate something fundamental about how people behave and how the world works.</li><li>I used to believe in the value of happy endings. Now I believe that the power of endings rests not in their unmitigated sunniness but in their poignancy and meaning.</li><li>I used to believe that synchronizing with others was merely a mechanical process. Now I believe that it requires a sense of belonging, rewards a sense of purpose, and reveals a part of our nature.</li><li>I used to believe that timing was everything. Now I believe that everything is timing.</li></ul><h3>Notes</h3><h5>Chapter 1: Everyday Patterns</h5><ul><li>Across people’s waking hours, regardless of culture, religion, location on Earth, or profession, there is a consistent pattern.</li><li>Analytical/logical thinking peaks during late morning.</li><li>Alertness and energy drops in afternoon.</li><li>During recovery period, we are good at insight work that requires less inhibition and resolve.</li><li>Typical pattern: peak, trough, rebound.</li><li>Your chronotype - when you naturally sleep - will affect the exact time of day where you experience this pattern.</li><li>Night owls will experience something like the reverse - recovery, trough, peak.</li><li>For most of us - “third birds” (not night owls or larks), you should do the following:</li><li>Analytic tasks: early to midmorning.</li><li>Insight tasks: late afternoon/early evening.</li><li>Making an impression: morning.</li><li>Making a decision: early to midmorning.</li><li>When to exercise:</li><li>Morning: to lose weight, boost mood, keep your routine, or build strength.</li><li>Late afternoon/evening: avoid injury, perform best, enjoy the workout more.</li><li>Tips for a great morning: drink a glass of water, drink coffee 60-90 minutes after waking, get morning sun, schedule talk-therapy for the morning.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 2: Afternoons</h5><ul><li>Evidence across court judgements, medicine, education and more shows a large drop in human performance in the afternoon.</li><li>Breaks can mitigate this.</li><li>Suggested break characteristics: move/walk, do something, be social, go outside, detach completely from work.</li><li>High performers, its research concludes, work for fifty-two minutes and then break for seventeen minutes.</li><li>A good lunch break has two characteristics: autonomy and detachment.</li><li>Naps have a ton of benefits: increases learning capacity, complex problem-solving abilities, short-term memory boost, overall health, etc.</li><li>The ideal nap is 10-20 minutes, no longer.</li><li>The best way to nap is to take 200mg caffeine (can be in form of coffee, etc.), and nap for 20 minutes. Caffeine will kick in approximately 25 minutes after taking, so upon waking you get both the sleep and caffeine boost.</li><li>If you nap longer, you will wake groggy (“sleep inertia”), and it will take time to recover.</li><li>Ideal nap time for most is between 2pm and 3pm.</li><li>Time out and checklists have also been shown to reduce errors in medicine and other areas.</li><li>Breaks and recess are critical to the best learning environments, and this has been proven over and over. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 3: Beginnings</h5><ul><li>Teenagers should be starting school later in the day than younger children; the results range from better test scores to fewer car accidents.</li><li>Use social (Mondays, new months, holidays, etc.) and personal (birthdays, anniversaries, job changes, etc.) temporal landmarks to create new beginnings.</li><li>Avoid false starts using “premortems” to plan for disaster/bad outcomes.</li><li>You should go first when: you’re on a ballot, you’re not the default choice, if there are few competitors, if you’re interviewing for a job and up against strong candidates.</li><li>You should not go first when: you’re the default choice, if there are many weak competitors, if you’re operating in an uncertain environment, if competition is meager.</li><li>When should you get married? Between ages 25-32 for minimum divorce rate, after your education, and after you’ve dated for a while (more than a year minimum).</li></ul><h5>Chapter 4: Midpoints</h5><ul><li>Sometimes midpoints stall us, other times they motivate us (the “slump” and the “spark”).</li><li>Happiness climbs until early adulthood, slides downward in late thirties/early forties, hits a low in fifties (52.9 years), then climbs later.</li><li>To counter midpoints: be aware of them, use them to wake up rather than roll over, and imagine you’re behind, but only by a little to push for the end.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 5: Endings</h5><ul><li>When we remember an event, we assign greatest weight to it’s peak, and it’s end.</li><li>Give bad news first, then end with good news.</li><li>Adding a component of sadness to a happy moment adds significance - poignancy is common during endings.</li><li>Most marriages end during March and August.</li><li>Four ideas for better endings: end the workday by writing about your accomplishments and plan the next day; do something special at the end of a school year; end a vacation with a bang; think about how you can surprise a customer at the end of their purchase.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 6: Secrets of Group Timing</h5><ul><li>Groups must synchronize on three levels - to the boss, to the tribe, and to the heart.</li><li>Boss must be someone or something above and apart from the group to set the pace, maintain standards, and focus the collective mind.</li><li>Synching to the tribe can happen through codes (chatting &amp; gossiping, feeling of belonging), clothing, and touch.</li><li>Synching to the heart has many benefits: choral singing boosts endorphins, lowers heart rates, increases pain thresholds and more.</li><li>Working with others makes it more likely we’ll do good.</li><li>7 ideas for synching: sing in a chorus, run together, row crew, dance, join a yoga class, flash mob, cook in tandem.</li><li>Improv exercises can also help this feeling.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 7: Final Thoughts</h5><ul><li>Nostalgia delivers good things: sense of belonging and a connection to others.</li><li>Rediscovering the past has benefits in future.</li><li>Living a life of meaning doesn’t require “living in the present” but rather integrating perspectives on time into a coherent whole.</li><li>Lunch breaks, naps, and taking walks are essential.</li></ul><h3>‍</h3>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Zero Waste Home by Bea Johnson: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/zero-waste-home-bea-johnson</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The best book I have read on how to implement the zero waste lifestyle. A must-read for anyone interested in the topic.Perhaps the best part about the book is how specific and actionable the advice is. You will both understand what the zero-waste lifestyle is about, and have a long, detailed list of how to implement it.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Chapter 1: The 5 Rs and the Benefits of the Zero Waste Lifestyle</strong></h5><p><strong>Step 1: Refuse (What We Do Not Need)</strong></p><ol><li>Single-use plastics (SUPs):</li><li>Freebies</li><li>Junk mail</li><li>Unsustainable practices like: accepting receipts or business cards that we will never consult, buying excessive packaging and discarding it without urging the manufacturer to change.</li></ol><p><strong>Step 2: Reduce (What We Do Need and Cannot Refuse)</strong></p><ul><li>Here are three practices we have implemented to actively reduce in our home:</li><li>Evaluate past consumption: Assess the true use and need for everything in the home and let go of the unnecessary through the process of paring down:</li><li>Curb current and future consumption in amount and in size</li><li>Decrease activities that support or lead to consumption</li></ul><p><strong>Step 3: Reuse (What We Consume and Cannot Refuse or Reduce)</strong></p><ul><li>&quot;Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.&quot; —Ancient proverb</li><li>Eliminate wasteful consumption and shop with reusables.</li><li>Alleviate resource depletion by: collaborative consumption (sharing), buying used, buying smart.</li><li>Extend useful life of necessities through: repairing, rethinking, returning, rescuing.</li><li><strong>Basic Reusables Checklist</strong></li><li>Totes</li><li>Widemouthed insulated cups</li><li>Jars</li><li>Bottles</li><li>Cloth bags</li><li>Rags</li><li>Kitchen towels</li><li>Cloth napkins</li><li>Handkerchiefs</li><li>Rechargeable batteries</li></ul><p><strong>Step 4: Recycle (What We Cannot Refuse, Reduce, or Reuse)</strong></p><ul><li>If the purpose of recycling is to close our waste loops responsibly, then the processes need to be simplified to support this goal. In a Zero Waste world, recycling would be standardized across the globe, or even better, products would be designed for reuse and repair so that recycling would not even be necessary or at least would be greatly reduced.</li><li>When buying new, we should choose products that not only support reuse but also are made of materials that have a high postconsumer content, are compatible with our community’s recycling program, and are likely to get recycled over and over (e.g., steel, aluminum, glass, or paper) versus downcycled (e.g., plastics).</li><li><strong>Home Recycling Checklist</strong></li><li>Know by heart what your community can or cannot recycle at the curb.</li><li>Consider visiting your local MRF (materials recovery facility) or gain knowledge of plastics recyclability. Don’t simply trust the chasing arrow. Some products with it are not recyclable, others without are recyclable.</li><li>Allocate convenient recycling locations in the kitchen (under the counter is best) and home office.</li><li>Find collection sites for hard-to-recycle items (corks, worn-out shoes and clothes) and hazardous materials (batteries, paint, and motor oil). <a href="http://earth911.com/">Earth911.com</a> and its iRecycle app are a great resource.</li><li>Allocate separate containers as per drop-off locations.</li></ul><p><strong>Step 5: Rot (Compost the Rest)</strong></p><h5><strong>Chapter 2: Kitchen and Grocery Shopping</strong></h5><p>Kitchen Setup:</p><p>Simplicity</p><ul><li>in order to reap the benefits, you need to make your kitchen a clutter-free zone.</li><li>Most kitchens are filled with gadgets that claim to make cooking and entertaining easier: sorbet makers, waffle irons, panini presses. . . . But are these really being used? If so, how often?</li><li>A less aggressive way is to set aside a day (maybe two, depending on the speed of your decision making) to take <em>everything</em> out of your cupboards (including food) and put back only those items that survive the following questions:</li><li>Is it in working condition? Is it expired?</li><li>Do I use it regularly?</li><li>Is it a duplicate?</li><li>Does it put my family’s health in danger?</li><li>For example, Teflon (nonstick), aluminum, and plastics have proved to be health hazards</li><li>Do I keep it out of guilt?</li><li>Do I keep it because everyone has one? Is it too specialized? Does it truly save time, as promised?</li><li>Could another item achieve the same task?</li><li>Is it worth my precious time cleaning?</li><li>Could I use this space for something else?</li><li>Is it reusable?</li><li>Don’t be afraid of letting go: focus on the benefits that you will gain from living with less.</li><li>But for illustrative purposes, I will list the kitchen items (I will cover the pantry later) we have chosen to keep in order to live a comfortable (rather than a wastefully lavish) life:</li><li>Dishes: Twelve dinner plates, twelve small plates, twelve cups, and twelve bowls. We bought quality ware from a local ceramic studio. I have twelve because we can sit ten people at our table and I need a couple of extras for serving.</li><li>Glassware: A shelf full of wineglasses, a shelf full of tumblers (about twenty-four each). These two shelves cover our party needs and eliminate resorting to disposables. We also use these glasses to serve cold soups and appetizers and to hold a variety of things, from loose salt to toothbrushes.</li><li>Flatware: Setting for twelve</li><li>Cooking: Three sizes of pans, three sizes of pots, one stockpot, three lids, a teakettle (all stainless)</li><li>Preparing and serving: Three bowls and one platter</li><li>Baking: Two pie dishes, one large casserole dish, one loaf pan, two baking sheets</li><li>Utensils: Stainless ladle, spoon, spatula, tongs, and whisk, and one wooden spatula</li><li>Cutting: One paring knife, one chef knife, one serrated knife, one pair of scissors, and one cutting board</li><li>Accessories: Stainless colander, sieve, grater, steamer, funnel, one set of measuring spoons, a measuring cup, a scale, a bottle opener, a pepper grinder, two pot holders, two trivets</li><li>Small appliances: An all-in-one blender and a toaster.</li></ul><p>Reusability</p><ul><li>If your disposables somehow survived this decluttering process, let me tell you right now: you can reclaim the space that they take up, you don’t need them. Keep your money where it belongs: in your pocket and out of the landfill! Throwaways can easily be replaced with reusable versions.</li><li>Our family has replaced paper towels with microfiber cloths, and we never run out.</li><li>We have eliminated the need for trash liners with composting. We have swapped plastic sandwich bags for kitchen towels, which I already had on hand.</li><li>Again, everyone’s needs are different, but for illustrative purposes, here is a list of the disposables that my family has replaced with reusables:</li><li>Paper towels: A pile of rags for wiping the counters and a pile of kitchen towels (made from an old sheet) for wiping hands</li><li>Water bottles: A stainless bottle for each member of our family; two regular (kids), two insulated (Scott and me</li><li>Cling wrap/sandwich and freezer bags: A collection of canning jars. I have about a hundred in different sizes because I use them for canning, storing, freezing, and transporting food, and I store about ten empty ones in a cupboard for leftovers</li><li>Paper napkins: A pile of cloth napkins. I have about thirty, to accommodate our home’s guest capacity. I chose medium size for versatility (they work for both cocktails and dinners) and patterned to hide the hard-to-clean grease stains. Each family member uses a monogrammed ring to identify and reuse his napkin between washes</li><li>Tea bags: A tea strainer. I chose a medium-size ball strainer based on the opening and capacity of our insulated stainless bottles</li><li>Coffee filters: A coffee press. Reusable coffee filters are also available for those using coffee machines.</li><li>Toothpicks: Turkey lacers. About thirty, based on the maximum amount of guests that we can host at our house. You could also purchase reusable stainless-steel or titanium cocktail picks</li><li>Reusability is not only about eliminating disposables, it’s also about buying durable quality when replacements are needed.</li></ul><p>Collection</p><ul><li>Appointing receptacles for the segregation of discards is another key element to a Zero Waste kitchen. It might help you, your family, and your visitors to post a list of what each container collects on each receptacle lid.</li><li>Depending on your composting system, the list that you affix on your receptacle might include:</li><li>Bamboo or rosemary skewers</li><li>Cellophane bags (make sure it’s cellophane and not plastic!)</li><li>Coffee filters</li><li>Coffee grounds</li><li>Egg cartons</li><li>Eggshells</li><li>Expired food</li><li>Leftovers</li><li>Loose tea (tea bags, most of which are coated with polypropylene plastic, will not fully decompose)</li><li>Matches</li><li>Meat and fish bones</li><li>Nutshells</li><li>Paper napkins</li><li>Paper plates</li><li>Paper towels</li><li>Shellfish (crustacean)</li><li>Soiled paper and cardboard such as pizza boxes</li><li>Stale bread</li><li>Toothpicks</li><li>Vegetables/fruits</li><li>Wax paper, including butter wrappers</li></ul><p>Recycling</p><ul><li>We have a small container to collect cork corks, for taking to my grocery store, which upcycles them. We also have another for the sneaky plastic corks and the rare candy wrappers that make their way into our home. When it’s full, I can ship the contents to TerraCycle to be upcycled.</li></ul><p>Landfill</p><ul><li>Now that you are using your old trash can to collect compostable materials, you can use your old compost receptacle (usually the size of a small bucket) to collect landfill waste. No need for trash liners since the wet items that usually make them necessary are compostable.</li></ul><p>Grocery Shopping:</p><p>Grocery and Errands Lists</p><ul><li>Through my business, I was surprised to find that three-quarters of the households that I consulted did not have an ongoing list, resulting in frequent grocery runs (sometimes daily) and impulse buys (sometimes buying what they forgot they already had).</li><li>We keep two shopping lists: one for groceries, one for errands. Both lists are conveniently located adjacent to our pantry and are made of strips of used paper (typically homework printed on a single side). I’ve clipped them together and attached a pencil. We fill the sheets from bottom up, so we can tear off the bottom and bring it to the store. Cell phones are good paperless alternatives but not as suitable for the participation of the whole family or on-a-whim jotting.</li><li>When we want to get something from another store, we write it on the <em>errands list.</em></li><li>Overall, these lists have been great tools for saving time and money and reducing.</li></ul><p>Bulk vs. Bulk</p><ul><li>In fact, we have been able to shave a third off our grocery bill by shopping this way. If you stay away from prepared foods, cut down your meat consumption, and are careful in picking affordable choices, just as you would when purchasing packaged goods from a supermarket, you’ll see your grocery bill decrease significantly.</li><li>We will be referring to bulk from now on as unpackaged goods of any type, including but not limited to groceries.</li></ul><p>Locating Bulk Stores</p><ul><li>I have created a bulk locating app, named Bulk, so you, too, can enjoy the benefits of shopping the package-free aisles.</li></ul><p>Putting Together a Zero Waste Shopping Kit</p><ul><li>To reduce packaging waste as much as possible while shopping in bulk, you will need:</li><li>Totes</li><li>Cloth bags (two sizes)</li><li>Mesh bags (optional)</li><li>Glass jars (two sizes): The same reusable mason jars mentioned above under Reusability work great. I use one-liter (one quart) and five-hundred-milliliter (pint) sizes</li><li>Bottles (optional): Empty glass white vinegar bottles work well as they generally have a large screw top opening, but you can also reuse wine or lemonade (flip-top) bottles</li><li>Washable crayon: A washable crayon to note the item number directly on your bag or jar will eliminate the need for disposable labels commonly used in bulk stores</li><li>Pillowcase: Or a large bread bag made from an old sheet.</li><li>Your grocery list!</li></ul><p>At the Store and at Home</p><ul><li>Once you’ve got your kit, here’s how to use it:</li><li>Use the cloth bags to stock up on dry bulk, such as flour, sugar, beans, cereal, cookies, spices, etc</li><li>These bags also work well for packing bread rolls from the bakery bins</li><li>At home: Transfer your dry goods into airtight containers. I use French canning jars of varying sizes for this purpose</li><li>Use the mesh bags (or cloth bags) to fill with produce</li><li>Use the small-size jars for “wet&quot; bulk, such as honey, peanut butter, pickles, etc</li><li>Use the pillowcase to transport bread from the bakery</li><li>Use bottles to fill with liquids, such as olive oil, vinegar, maple syrup, etc</li><li>Use the large-size jars for “counter&quot; items, such as meat, fish, cheese, and deli</li><li>Running all your errands on the same day, once a week, and with a list, will not only save you from impulse shopping, it will allow you to build a relationship with staff members.</li></ul><p>Beyond the Grocery Store</p><ul><li>Bulk is not limited to health food stores: CSAs (community supported agriculture), farmer’s markets, and specialty vendors can be a great source of package-free products, when their sustainable efforts are consistent.</li><li>Here are further package-free food options to consider beyond the store:</li><li>Buy eggs from the farmer’s market.</li><li>Bring a jar or cloth bag to a specialty store for a refill, such as ice cream or candy.</li><li>Refill clean, empty wine bottles during a winery “bottling event.&quot;</li><li>Refill a beer jug (i.e., growler) at a local brewery.</li><li>Note: this method works only when you are ready to drink one gallon of beer at once; it will start to lose its carbonation overnight</li><li>Consider canning the products that you are used to buying in cans. Home canning is a great alternative to store-bought cans, most of which are loaded with MSG and can leach BPA.</li><li>Grow your own.</li></ul><p>Meal Planning:</p><p>Recipe Overhaul</p><ul><li>New kitchen and shopping habits need new recipes to match:</li><li>Breakfast: pancakes, bread pudding</li><li>Finger Foods/Appetizers: deviled eggs, pâté, stuffed mushrooms</li><li>First Courses: individual goat cheese soufflés, leek flan</li><li>Soups: cauliflower soup, garlic soup, gazpacho</li><li>Grains: rice, quinoa, couscous</li><li>Pasta</li><li>Legumes: white-bean stew, lentil curry</li><li>Potatoes</li><li>Dough: pizza, tortilla</li><li>Fish and Shellfish: sardine carpaccio, crusted salmon, trout meunière</li><li>Chicken: the “eco” and affordable meat gets its own tab!</li><li>Meat: lamb keftas, beef bourguignon, cherry duck</li><li>Veggies: recipes not containing starch or meat</li><li>Desserts: chocolate mousse, lemon soufflé</li><li>Cookies/Sweet Snacks: biscotti, butter cookies, candied pecans</li><li>Wild/Foraging: manzanita cider, thistle pesto</li><li>Pantry: jam, mustard, vanilla extract</li><li>Menus: a set of three to four well-coordinated recipes around a theme—Moroccan dinner or summer brunch</li><li>Home/Body: hairspray, laundry detergent, glue, tooth powder.</li></ul><p>Pantry Staples</p><ul><li><em>Permanent staples</em> will vary from family to family. Ours include:</li><li>Flour, sugar, salt, baking soda, cornstarch, baking powder, yeast, oatmeal, coffee, dry corn, powdered sugar</li><li>Jam, butter, peanut butter, honey, mustard, canned tomatoes, pickles, olives, capers</li><li>Olive oil, vegetable oil, apple cider vinegar, wine vinegar, tamari, vanilla extract</li><li>A selection of spices and herbs</li><li><em>Rotational staples</em> represent groups of foods that we used to buy in many different forms. In the past, our legume collection consisted of chickpeas, lentils, peas, red beans, fava beans, pinto beans, etc.</li><li>Today, instead of storing many versions of a staple, we have dedicated one specific jar and adopted a system of rotation.</li></ul><p>Reducing Food Waste</p><ul><li>We’ve talked about arming yourself with grocery lists before you hit the market, but by serving small portions, reheating leftovers, and utilizing freezing methods, you can further minimize the amount of unused/spoiled food that goes into the compost.</li></ul><p>Entertaining</p><ul><li>What should you consider when expecting company?</li><li>The most important aspect of entertaining in a waste-free manner is to <em>be proactive.</em></li></ul><p><strong>5 Rs Checklist: 5 Tips for the Kitchen</strong></p><ul><li>Refuse: Resist food packaging and disposable plastic bags.</li><li>Reduce: Pare down kitchen accessories and define pantry staples.</li><li>Reuse: Shop for groceries with reusables and rethink your leftovers.</li><li>Recycle: Appoint separate containers tailored to your recycling needs.</li><li>Rot: Compost food scraps</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: Bathroom, Toiletries, and Wellness</strong></h5><p>Bathroom Setup:</p><ul><li>The bathroom is probably the second-biggest source of recurring waste in the home, but here, too, it can easily be avoided with decluttering, implementing reusables, and deploying collection receptacles.</li><li>Simplification is the second step to a Zen-like bathroom, and it starts with emptying cabinets and drawers and evaluating what is truly necessary.</li><li>Clearing out horizontal surfaces (counters, floors) and eliminating them when possible (shelving, over-the-toilet stand) not only make a bathroom peaceful and spacious but also simplify your cleaning routine!</li></ul><p>Reusability</p><ul><li>Other than toilet paper, we no longer buy single-use products; we have adopted either reusable or package-free alternatives for them instead.</li></ul><p>Grooming &amp; Hygiene:</p><ul><li>Hand/Body/Face Soaps</li><li>Bar: Solid soap is the best option in terms of waste if you can find it sold loose or in recyclable paper (to see if the packaging is entirely made of paper, tear a small piece and look for a plastic layer)</li><li>If you absolutely must use liquid soap, Castile soap is multipurpose and works great.</li><li>Deodorant</li><li>Alum stone/crystal deodorant is easy to use. Wet the stone, apply it, and dry it after use. Works on healing razor nicks too.</li><li>Dental</li><li>In theory, toothpaste is not necessary to effectively brush your teeth. The act of brushing alone is what really matters in avoiding cavities</li><li>Tooth powder: Just use baking soda (add 1 teaspoon white stevia to 1 cup baking soda if needed).</li><li>TP: find 100% recycled, unbleached TP, individually wrapped in paper.</li><li>Home Remedies</li><li>Allergies: Consume local honey daily.</li><li>Bruises: Apply half an onion on the area for fifteen minutes.</li><li>Coughs and sore throats: Gargle salt water and suck on a lozenge (recipe).</li><li>Digestion: Chew on fennel seeds or drink an anise tea.</li><li>Eczema: Take an oatmeal bath and apply olive oil.</li><li>Foot odors: Spray apple cider vinegar on your feet and sprinkle baking soda in your shoes.</li><li>Gout: Drink coffee or eat cherries.</li><li>Headache: Drink an espresso, rub mint on the temples, or roll a fresh California bay leaf into your nostril. (I agree, it’s not a great look, but it works for me!)</li><li>Insect bites: Apply white vinegar to the bites.</li><li>Jellyfish stings: Apply white vinegar to the stings.</li><li>Kidney stones: Mix 1/4 cup olive oil with 1/4 cup lemon juice and drink at once, followed by a large glass of water.</li><li>Lacerations: Use honey to heal small cuts.</li><li>Menstrual cramps: Drink chamomile or yarrow tea and apply a warm pad on the belly (i.e., a bottle filled with hot water, sealed tight, and placed in a sock).</li><li>Nausea: Consume ginger candied or in the form of a tea.</li><li>Oral thrush: Gargle a saltwater solution.</li><li>Prostate problems: Drink a tea of corn silk and eat tomatoes.</li><li>Quick heartburn relief: Drink 1 teaspoon baking soda in a glass of water (use only on occasion) or consume 1/2 teaspoon mustard.</li><li>Runny nose: Use a sea salt solution in a Neti pot.</li><li>Sunburn: Apply a generous amount of apple cider vinegar or olive oil.</li><li>Toothache: Gargle a chamomile tea or apply ice to the area.</li><li>Urinary tract infection: Eat cranberries.</li><li>Vaginal yeast infection: Eat yogurt.</li><li>Warts: Fix a piece of orange or lemon skin soaked in white vinegar to the affected area and repeat until gone.</li><li>XYZ: Etc. . . . google it!</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4: Bedroom &amp; Wardrobe</strong></h5><p>Bedroom:</p><ul><li>While the eco-market pushes the consumption of organic mattresses and sheets in order to green a bedroom, I believe that the most important step you can take is to reduce clutter.</li></ul><p>Wardrobe:</p><ul><li>Yves Saint Laurent: &quot;Fashions fade, style is eternal.&quot;</li></ul><p>Reusability</p><ul><li>A Zero Waste wardrobe should not only be minimal, it should support reusability through: (1) buying secondhand, (2) buying versatile pieces, and (3) repurposing.</li><li>Favor natural fibers. If you must buy synthetic, seek the Patagonia brand (see Recycling).</li></ul><p>Recycling</p><ul><li>At home, our efforts are limited to repurposing worn-out T-shirts into rags, grown-out socks into convenient dusters, old nylons into efficient shoe shines, etc.</li></ul><p>Shoe Care:</p><ul><li>To dust, use a worn-out sock.</li><li>To remove salt marks, use the Basic Mix cleaner (1 cup water, 1/4 cup white distilled vinegar, citrus peels in vinegar for smell)</li><li>To polish, use worn-out nylons.</li><li>To protect, use the Multipurpose Balm recipe (see Bathroom, Toiletries, and Wellness).</li></ul><p>Waterproofing</p><ol><li>Melt 2 tablespoons beeswax and 11/2 teaspoons oil in a double boiler (I use a small glass jar in an inch of water).</li><li>Brush onto leather. (The wax will streak the shoe as it cools during application. It might look scary but don’t be alarmed. The streaks will disappear when you dry the shoe.)</li><li>Use a blow dryer and an old sock to work the wax into the shoe or boot.</li></ol><p>5 Rs Checklist: 5 Tips for the Bedroom</p><ul><li>Refuse: Resist <em>trends</em>, embrace <em>style.</em></li><li>Reduce: Stick to minimal furnishings and a small, versatile wardrobe.</li><li>Reuse: Buy secondhand clothes and repurpose to extend their useful life.</li><li>Recycle: Donate worn-out clothing to participating recyclers.</li><li>Rot: Compost your wool sweater’s pills.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5: Housekeeping and Maintenance</strong></h5><p>The Magic of Vinegar</p><ul><li>Although I have not been able to find vinegar in bulk (I purchase it in a glass bottle), I believe it to be an essential for the home and the garden. I use the following mix for most applications.</li><li><strong>Basic Mix</strong>: Fill a spray bottle with 1 cup water and 1/4 cup white distilled vinegar.</li><li>Note: For added scent, you can infuse the vinegar with citrus peels in a jar for a couple of weeks, prior to diluting it.</li><li>Here are examples of cleaning, laundry, pest, and gardening products that you can eliminate from your home by using vinegar instead:</li><li>Adhesive remover: Remove stickers by soaking them with warm vinegar. For gum, use an ice cube to remove the bulk of it, then warm vinegar to clean off residues.</li><li>Bathroom cleaner: Use the Basic Mix to dissolve soap scum and hard-water stains and simultaneously shine counters, floors, sinks, showers, mirrors, and fixtures. You can also dip a toothbrush in the cleaner to scrub grout joints and soak your showerhead in a bowl of vinegar overnight to remove lime buildup.</li><li>Color set: If a garment has proved to bleed in the wash, let it soak in vinegar before laundering.</li><li>Drain cleaner: Use a drain snake and plunger to clear pipes, then pour 1/4 cup baking soda followed by 1/2 cup white vinegar. Cover until bubbling stops and flush with boiling water.</li><li>Eraser sponge (also known as Magic Eraser): Remove pen, pencil, or crayon marks from walls using a cloth or toothbrush dipped in straight vinegar.</li><li>Flower food: To extend the life of cut flowers, add a tablespoon of both vinegar and sugar to their water. You can also remove the white buildup on your vases by soaking them in undiluted vinegar.</li><li>Glass cleaner: Use a microfiber cloth if you have one—it does not require any other product but water. As a default, you can spray the Basic Mix onto windows, mirrors, and glass surfaces, then polish with cloth rags.</li><li>Herbicide (also known as weed killer): Simply kill weeds by spraying full-strength vinegar onto them.</li><li>Insect repellent: Spray where you do not want ants to come into your house (windowsills or door thresholds, for example). <a href="http://versatilevinegar.org/">Versatilevinegar.org</a> also recommends adding a teaspoon of white distilled vinegar for each quart bowl of your pet’s drinking water to keep it free of fleas and ticks. The ratio of one teaspoon to one quart is for a forty-pound animal.</li><li>Jewelry/metal cleaner: To clean tarnished bronze, brass, and copper, apply a mixture of 1 tablespoon salt and 1/4 cup vinegar, rinse with warm water, and polish with a soft cloth. For silver, soak the piece in 1/4 cup white vinegar and 1 tablespoon baking soda, then rinse and polish with a soft cloth. For gold, simply cover with vinegar for one hour and rinse. Do not use on pearls.</li><li>Kitchen cleaner: Use full-strength vinegar to disinfect cutting boards. Use in lieu of your stainless cleaner or dishwasher rinse aid (simply substitute it in the dishwasher rinsing compartment). Use the Basic Mix to clean the sink, counter, and refrigerator (use a toothbrush to clean moldy joints). To clean the microwave, pour some Basic Mix into a cup and bring to a boil to cut odors and loosen food bits. To clean the oven, generously spray with vinegar, then sprinkle with baking soda and let sit overnight, scrape with a spatula, and wipe clean. To remove lime buildups in the coffeemaker, fill its water reservoir with water and 1/4 cup vinegar, run it through, empty, and rinse. To remove unpleasant odors from the garbage disposal, your hands, or food jars, use straight vinegar. To remove tea or coffee stains from ceramic cups, soak in vinegar for a few hours, then scrub stubborn stains with baking soda.</li><li>Laundry booster: Adding 1/2 cup of undiluted vinegar to your rinse cycle will prevent soap buildup and yellowing, act as a fabric softener and a color booster, and reduce static cling.</li><li>Mildew remover and prevention: Use full-strength vinegar to remove mildew off most surfaces. To prevent mildew on a shower curtain, spray vinegar on the problem areas or add vinegar to your rinse cycle when you wash it.</li><li>Nicotine stain remover: Clean walls stained by nicotine with straight vinegar.</li><li>Odor neutralizer: Instead of covering up an unpleasant smell with toxic fragrances, address the source and air the space out. Then place a bowl of vinegar in the room to absorb persistent odors (e.g., in a newly painted room to remove paint odors, in a car to remove vomit stench, or in a kitchen to remove smoke odors).</li><li>Pet repellent: Spray vinegar where you do not want your dog or cat to chew, scratch, or urinate.</li><li>Quick mop: No need for disposable floor wipes; simply spray a microfiber mop with the Basic Mix and mop.</li><li>Rust remover: To remove rust from small items, soak them in undiluted vinegar for a few hours, scrub with a toothbrush, and rinse thoroughly. Rub steel wool on stubborn residues.</li><li>Stain remover: Pour vinegar on mustard, pen, pencil, or crayon marks, then scrub with a toothbrush to remove the stain and launder as usual.</li><li>Toilet cleaner: Spray vinegar, then scrub. For tough jobs, you can“spray vinegar, sprinkle with baking soda, let sit, and then scrub.</li><li>Upholstery freshener: Lightly spray the Basic Mix on a cloth and wipe upholstery to neutralize odors, remove surface dirt, and boost color (first test in an inconspicuous area). The vinegar smell will subside, leaving a fresh scent. Wiping with a microfiber helps pick up pet hair.</li><li>Vinyl cleaner: Clean and shine no-wax vinyl linoleum floors with 1 gallon of water supplemented with 1 cup of vinegar.</li><li>Wood renewer: Mix equal parts vinegar and oil, and rub in the direction of the grain to remove water rings and scratches. You can also use the Multipurpose Balm (see recipe) as wood polish!</li><li>XYZ: eXamine Your Zipper. If a zipper does not run smoothly, spray vinegar onto it and run the zipper a few times to clear any blocking gunk.</li></ul><p>Embrace Low Maintenance</p><ul><li>Simplicity can be addicting.</li><li>Cleaning Methods</li><li>Let plants cleanse the air for you. According to NASA research, the ten most effective plants are: bamboo palm, Chinese evergreen, English ivy, gerbera daisy, Janet Craig, marginata, mass cane/corn plant, Mother-in-Law’s tongue, pot mum, peace lily, Warneckii.</li><li>Liquid soap:</li><li>Castile soap is wonderful, and apart from dishwasher and laundry detergents, it can satisfy all your soap needs in the house!</li></ul><p>5 Rs Checklist: 5 Tips for Housekeeping and Home Maintenance</p><ul><li>Refuse: Reject single-use and antibacterial cleaning products.</li><li>Reduce: Use vinegar and baking soda to clean.</li><li>Reuse: Adopt reusable cleaning rags, and make repairs with a borrowed tool.</li><li>Recycle: Purchase white vinegar in glass bottles for their recyclability.</li><li>Rot: Compost your dust bunnies!</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6: Workspace and Junk Mail</strong></h5><ul><li>Turn off my cell phone when I work and use Google Voice to send voice mail transcripts to my email inbox.</li></ul><p>5 Rs Checklist: 5 Tips for the Workspace</p><ul><li>Refuse: Say no to the business cards, goodie bags, free pens or pencils, junk mail, and wasteful shipping materials.</li><li>Reduce: Choose quality writing utensils; you will more likely keep track of them.</li><li>Reuse: Repurpose shipping material and single-printed paper.</li><li>Recycle: Throw into the recycling bin only paper that is printed on both sides.</li><li>Rot: Compost shredded paper and pencil shavings.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7: Kids and School</strong></h5><p>5 Rs Checklist: 5 Tips for Kids &amp; School</p><ul><li>Refuse: Reject freebies, extra school papers, and lamination.</li><li>Reduce: Streamline toys and after-school activities.</li><li>Reuse: Buy secondhand clothes and school supplies.</li><li>Recycle: Make crafts out of compostable or landfill materials.</li><li>Rot: Compost your crafts.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8: Holidays and Gifts</strong></h5><p>5 Rs Checklist: 5 Tips for Holidays &amp; Gifts</p><ul><li>Refuse: Reject Halloween trinkets when trick-or-treating; pick consumables instead.</li><li>Reduce: Streamline your holiday decor; embrace edible decorating.</li><li>Reuse: Trade, borrow, rent, or buy a used Halloween costume.</li><li>Recycle: Send holiday cards and Halloween candy wrappers for recycling.</li><li>Rot: Compost your Easter eggshells and your pumpkin tureen</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9: Out and About</strong></h5><p>Here is what to consider if you have restaurant leftovers or if you order takeout:</p><ul><li>Bring your own containers: we keep a jar in the car for this purpose.</li><li>Favor wax paper, cardboard, or aluminum if you failed to bring your own container.</li></ul><p>Camping Products Alternatives</p><ul><li>Mosquito repellent: Spray vinegar or rub lavender flowers onto your skin.</li><li>Earplugs: Soften a marble-size ball of cheese wax.</li><li>Travel</li><li>Reduce the frequency of trips. Videoconferencing can substitute for business meetings, for example.</li><li>Reduce the distance traveled. Can you stay local?</li><li>Consider transportation alternatives to get to your destination. In many countries traveling by train is faster than flying.</li><li>Choose direct flights, if you must fly.</li><li>Pack light. With the tips that we covered for a Zero Waste wardrobe, it should be easy.</li><li>Stay in central locations within walking distance of amenities.</li></ul><p>Here is what to pack to minimize your flight’s solid waste:</p><ul><li>A reusable stainless-steel canteen (insulated, if you plan on consuming hot drinks).</li><li>Your phone’s earphones.</li><li>A wrap to use as a blanket or pillow.</li><li>Dry snack in a cloth bag.</li><li>Reading material: A library book, an e-book, or preowned magazines from the local thrift store.</li><li>A clear, reusable, waterproof pouch to store toiletries for their journey through safety checks (durable alternatives to flimsy ziplock bags are available).</li></ul><p>For long-haul flights, add:</p><ul><li>A meal in a jar or stainless-steel container (or a sandwich in a towel).</li><li>Your picnic bamboo flatware wrapped in a cloth napkin.</li><li>Optional: pillow (a neatly rolled jacket can serve as an alternative).</li></ul><p>5 Rs Checklist: 5 Tips for Outings</p><ul><li>Refuse: Be proactive in rejecting the pizza stacker, the restaurant straw, and the airline earphones.</li><li>Reduce: Fly only when no other option is available.</li><li>Reuse: Bring your own shampoo and conditioner when staying in a hotel.</li><li>Recycle: Make your camping stove’s butane can recyclable by puncturing it when completely empty.</li><li>Rot: Embrace trench composting when camping or traveling.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10: Getting Involved</strong></h5><ul><li>Adopting Zero Waste alternatives does not happen overnight; as a matter of fact, the overall journey is likely to follow a progression:</li><li>Obliviousness</li><li>Awareness</li><li>Action</li><li>Isolation</li><li>Confidence: Perseverance prevails; you move beyond frustration as family and friends gradually accept your lifestyle change</li><li>Involvement: Now that you have Zero Waste all figured out and optimized for your household, you can fully enjoy the benefits of the lifestyle. Eat healthy, save money, and feel good about your environmental endeavors.</li></ul><h5><strong>Resources</strong></h5><ul><li>Please visit <a href="http://zerowastehome.com/">ZeroWasteHome.com</a></li></ul><p>The 5 Rs</p><ul><li>To view a wonderful animated video on production and consumption patterns: <a href="http://storyofstuff.org/movies-all/story-of-stuff">storyofstuff.org/movies-all/story-of-stuff</a>.</li><li>To understand plastic recycling: <a href="http://ecologycenter.org/recycling/recycledcontent_fall2000/plastics_qa.html#faq3">ecologycenter.org/recycling/recycledcontent_fall2000/plastics_qa.html#faq3</a>.</li><li>To learn about plastic pollution: <a href="http://plasticpollutioncoalition.org/">plasticpollutioncoalition.org</a>.</li><li>To find out more about collaborative consumption: <a href="http://collaborativeconsumption.com/the-movement/snapshot-of-examples.php">collaborativeconsumption.com/the-movement/snapshot-of-examples.php</a>.</li><li>To donate or sell your extras: <a href="http://amazon.com/">amazon.com</a>, <a href="http://craigslist.org/">craigslist.org</a> (large items and free items), <a href="http://ebay.com/">ebay.com</a> (small items of value), <a href="http://freecycle.org/">freecycle.org</a>, <a href="http://habitat.org/">habitat.org</a> (building materials, furniture, and/or appliances), <a href="http://nikereuseashoe.com/get-involved/drop-off-locations">nikereuseashoe.com/get-involved/drop-off-locations</a> (athletic shoes), <a href="http://lionsclub.org/EN/our-work/sight-programs/eyeglass-recycling">lionsclub.org/EN/our-work/sight-programs/eyeglass-recycling</a> (eyeglasses), <a href="http://salvationarmyusa.org/">salvationarmyusa.org</a>, <a href="http://crossroadstrading.com/used-clothes-store">crossroadstrading.com/used-clothes-store</a> (trendy clothes), <a href="http://diggerslist.com/">diggerslist.com</a> (home improvement), <a href="http://dressforsuccess.org/locations.aspx">dressforsuccess.org/locations.aspx</a> (business clothes), <a href="http://homelessshelterdirectory.org/">homelessshelterdirectory.org</a>, <a href="http://womenshelters.org/">womenshelters.org/</a>, <a href="http://aspca.org/findashelter">aspca.org/findashelter</a>, <a href="http://locator.goodwill.org/">locator.goodwill.org/</a>.</li><li>To locate recycling facilities near you: <a href="http://earth911.com/">earth911.com</a>.</li><li>To learn basics of composting: <a href="http://composting101.com/">composting101.com</a>.</li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink & Leif Babin: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[Jocko and Leif are both highly-disciplined former SEALs who are now successfully applying the lessons they learned in the military and combat to the corporate world.  In this book he shares those principles, along with both combat and corporate examples on how they are applied.Solid book, and if you have any interest in SEALs or combat, you’ll find the book interesting just for the stories that are told.  If you’re just interested in the leadership principles, you can fairly quickly skim through and get them from the final conclusions of each chapter.  Overall a much more entertaining, easy read than most non-fiction due to the stories told to illustrate each point.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Like Jocko? Read my article about the <a href="/blog/jocko-willink-workout-advice">Jocko Willink Workout Advice That Change My Habits here</a>.</strong></p><h3>Favorite Quotes</h3><p>&quot;If someone isn’t doing what you want or need them to do, look in the mirror first and determine what you can do to better enable this. &quot;</p><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><p>To implement Prioritize and Execute in any business, team, or organization, a leader must :</p><ul><li>evaluate the highest priority problem.</li><li>lay out in simple, clear, and concise terms the highest priority effort for your team.</li><li>develop and determine a solution, seek input from key leaders and from the team where possible.</li><li>direct the execution of that solution, focusing all efforts and resources toward this priority task.</li><li>move on to the next highest priority problem. Repeat. when priorities shift within the team, pass situational awareness both up and down the chain.</li><li>don’t let the focus on one priority cause target fixation. Maintain the ability to see other problems developing and rapidly shift as needed.</li></ul><p>A leader’s checklist for planning should include the following :</p><ul><li>Analyze the mission.</li><li>Understand higher headquarters’ mission, Commander’s Intent, and endstate (the goal).</li><li>Identify and state your own Commander’s Intent and endstate for the specific mission.</li><li>Identify personnel, assets, resources, and time available.</li><li>Decentralize the planning process.</li><li>Empower key leaders within the team to analyze possible courses of action.</li><li>Determine a specific course of action.</li><li>Lean toward selecting the simplest course of action.</li><li>Focus efforts on the best course of action.</li><li>Empower key leaders to develop the plan for the selected course of action.</li><li>Plan for likely contingencies through each phase of the operation.</li><li>Mitigate risks that can be controlled as much as possible.</li><li>Delegate portions of the plan and brief to key junior leaders.</li><li>Stand back and be the tactical genius.</li><li>Continually check and question the plan against emerging information to ensure it still fits the situation.</li><li>Brief the plan to all participants and supporting assets.</li><li>Emphasize Commander’s Intent.</li><li>Ask questions and engage in discussion and interaction with the team to ensure they understand.</li><li>Conduct post - operational debrief after execution.</li><li>Analyze lessons learned and implement them in future planning.</li></ul><p>The major factors to be aware of when leading up and down the chain of command are these:</p><ul><li>Take responsibility for leading everyone in your world, subordinates and superiors alike.</li><li>If someone isn’t doing what you want or need them to do, look in the mirror first and determine what you can do to better enable this.</li><li>Don’t ask your leader what you should do, tell them what you are going to do.</li></ul><p>The test is not a complex one: when the alarm goes off, do you get up out of bed, or do you lie there in comfort and fall back to sleep? If you have the discipline to get out of bed, you win — you pass the test.</p><p>Leaders must be humble but not passive; quiet but not silent. They must possess humility and the ability to control their ego and listen to others. They must admit mistakes and failures, take ownership of them, and figure out a way to prevent them from happening again. But a leader must be able to speak up when it matters.</p><p>The Dichotomy of Leadership: A good leader must be:</p><ul><li>confident but not cocky;</li><li>courageous but not foolhardy;</li><li>competitive but a gracious loser;</li><li>attentive to details but not obsessed by them;</li><li>strong but have endurance;</li><li>a leader and follower;</li><li>humble not passive;</li><li>aggressive not overbearing;</li><li>quiet not silent;</li><li>calm but not robotic, logical but not devoid of emotions;</li><li>close with the troops but not so close that one becomes more important than another or more important than the good of the team;</li><li>not so close that they forget who is in charge.</li><li>able to execute Extreme Ownership, while exercising Decentralized Command.</li></ul><p>A good leader has nothing to prove, but everything to prove.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[A fantastic book that brings together research on “flow” states to craft a story (and actionable suggestions) on how we can all become happier with work and life. I continue referring back to this book, and it blends well with many other books, like Deep Work, or Mastery.  Heavily cited by other authors, it will force you to think about how you structure your life and the activities you pursue.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>While happiness itself is sought for its own sake, every other goal—health, beauty, money, or power—is valued only because we expect that it will make us happy. </li><li>Happiness, in fact, is a condition that must be prepared for, cultivated, and defended privately by each person. People who learn to control inner experience will be able to determine the quality of their lives, which is as close as any of us can come to being happy. </li><li>&quot;For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue…as the unintended side-effect of one’s personal dedication to a course greater than oneself.” - Viktor Frankl, <em>Man’s Search for Meaning</em></li><li>The best moments usually occur when a person’s body or mind is stretched to its limits in a voluntary effort to accomplish something difficult and worthwhile. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2: The Anatomy of Consciousness</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>This ability to persevere despite obstacles and setbacks</strong> is the quality people most admire in others, and justly so; it is probably the most important trait not only for succeeding in life, but for enjoying it as well. </li></ul><p><strong>Attention as Psychic Energy</strong></p><ul><li>The mark of a person who is in control of consciousness is the ability to focus attention at will, to be oblivious to distractions, to concentrate for as long as it takes to achieve a goal, and not longer. And the person who can do this usually enjoys the normal course of everyday life. </li></ul><p><strong>Complexity and the Growth of the Self</strong></p><ul><li>The self becomes complex as a result of experiencing flow. Paradoxically, it is when we act freely, for the sake of the action itself rather than for ulterior motives, that we learn to become more than what we were. When we choose a goal and invest ourselves in it to the limits of our concentration, whatever we do will be enjoyable. And once we have tasted this joy, we will redouble our efforts to taste it again. This is the way the self grows. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: Enjoyment and the Quality of Life</strong></h5><ul><li>There are two main strategies we can adopt to improve the quality of life. The first is to try making external conditions match our goals. The second is to change how we experience external conditions to make them fit our goals better. </li></ul><p><strong>The Elements of Enjoyment</strong></p><ul><li>As our studies have suggested, the phenomenology of enjoyment has eight major components. </li><li>When people reflect on how it feels when their experience is most positive, they mention at least one, and often all, of the following. </li><li>First, the experience usually occurs when we confront tasks we have a chance of completing. </li><li>Second, we must be able to concentrate on what we are doing. </li><li>Third and fourth, the concentration is usually possible because the task undertaken has clear goals and provides immediate feedback. </li><li>Fifth, one acts with a deep but effortless involvement that removes from awareness the worries and frustrations of everyday life. </li><li>Sixth, enjoyable experiences allow people to exercise a sense of control over their actions. </li><li>Seventh, concern for the self disappears, yet paradoxically the sense of self emerges stronger after the flow experience is over. </li><li>Finally, the sense of the duration of time is altered; hours pass by in minutes, and minutes can stretch out to seem like hours. </li></ul><p><strong><em>A Challenging Activity That Requires Skills</em></strong></p><ul><li>It is important to clarify at the outset that an “activity” need not be active in the physical sense, and the skill necessary to engage in it need not be a physical skill. For instance, one of the most frequently mentioned enjoyable activities the world over is reading. </li><li>Competition is enjoyable only when it is a means to perfect one’s skills; when it becomes an end in itself, it ceases to be fun. </li><li>In all the activities people in our study reported engaging in, enjoyment comes at a very specific point: whenever the opportunities for action perceived by the individual are equal to his or her capabilities. </li></ul><p><strong><em>Clear Goals and Feedback</em></strong></p><ul><li>The reason it is possible to achieve such complete involvement in a flow experience is that goals are usually clear, and feedback immediate. </li><li>Unless a person learns to set goals and to recognize and gauge feedback in such activities, she will not enjoy them. </li><li>The feedback can be anything, as long as it contains the message: I have succeeded in my goal. </li></ul><p><strong><em>Concentration on the Task at Hand</em></strong></p><ul><li>One of the most frequently mentioned dimensions of the flow experience is that, while it lasts, one is able to forget all the unpleasant aspects of life. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4: The Conditions of Flow</strong></h5><p><strong><em>The Effects of the Family on the Autotelic Personality</em></strong></p><ul><li>There is ample evidence to suggest that how parents interact with a child will have a lasting effect on the kind of person that child grows up to be. </li><li>The family context promoting optimal experience could be described as having five characteristics. </li><li>The first one is <em>clarity</em>: the teenagers feel that they know what their parents expect from them—goals and feedback in the family interaction are unambiguous. </li><li>The second is <em>centering</em>, or the children’s perception that their parents are interested in what they are doing in the present, in their concrete feelings and experiences, rather than being preoccupied with whether they will be getting into a good college or obtaining a well-paying job. </li><li>Next is the issue of <em>choice</em>: children feel that they have a variety of possibilities from which to choose, including that of breaking parental rules—as long as they are prepared to face the consequences. </li><li>The fourth differentiating characteristic is <em>commitment</em>, or the trust that allows the child to feel comfortable enough to set aside the shield of his defenses, and become unselfconsciously involved in whatever he is interested in. </li><li>And finally there is <em>challenge</em>, or the parents’ dedication to provide increasingly complex opportunities for action to their children. </li><li>The presence of these five conditions made possible what was called the “autotelic family context,” because they provide an ideal training for enjoying life. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5: The Body in Flow</strong></h5><p><strong>Higher, Faster, Stronger</strong></p><ul><li>Even the simplest physical act becomes enjoyable when it is transformed so as to produce flow. The essential steps in this process are: </li><li>(a) to set an overall goal, and as many subgoals as are realistically feasible; </li><li>(b) to find ways of measuring progress in terms of the goals chosen; </li><li>(c) to keep concentrating on what one is doing, and to keep making finer and finer distinctions in the challenges involved in the activity; </li><li>(d) to develop the skills necessary to interact with the opportunities available; and </li><li>(e) to keep raising the stakes if the activity becomes boring. </li><li>What we found was that when people were pursuing leisure activities that were expensive in terms of the outside resources required—activities that demanded expensive equipment, or electricity, or other forms of energy measured in BTUs, such as power boating, driving, or watching television—they were significantly less happy than when involved in inexpensive leisure. People were happiest when they were just talking to one another, when they gardened, knitted, or were involved in a hobby. </li></ul><p><strong>Sex as Flow</strong></p><ul><li>It is especially difficult to keep enjoying sex with the same partner over a period of years. It is probably true that humans, like the majority of mammalian species, are not monogamous by nature. </li><li>How to keep love fresh? The answer is the same as it is for any other activity. To be enjoyable, a relationship must become more complex. To become more complex, the partners must discover new potentialities in themselves and in each other. To discover these, they must invest attention in each other—so that they can learn what thoughts and feelings, what dreams reside in their partner’s mind. This in itself is a never-ending process, a lifetime’s task. After one begins to really know another person, then many joint adventures become possible: traveling together, reading the same books, raising children, making and realizing plans all become more enjoyable and more meaningful. The specific details are unimportant. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6: The Flow of Thought</strong></h5><ul><li>To enjoy a mental activity, one must meet the same conditions that make physical activities enjoyable. There must be skill in a symbolic domain; there have to be rules, a goal, and a way of obtaining feedback. One must be able to concentrate and interact with the opportunities at a level commensurate with one’s skills. </li><li>For instance, one of the simplest ways to use the mind is daydreaming: playing out some sequence of events as mental images. But even this apparently easy way to order thought is beyond the range of many people. </li><li>There are several levels at which history as a flow activity can be practiced. The most personal involves simply keeping a journal. The next is to write a family chronicle, going as far into the past as possible. </li><li>The study of history, science, philosophy, or any other topic can be the means to flow. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7: Work as Flow</strong></h5><p><strong>Autotelic Jobs</strong></p><ul><li>The more a job inherently resembles a game—with variety, appropriate and flexible challenges, clear goals, and immediate feedback—the more enjoyable it will be regardless of the worker’s level of development. </li><li>To improve the quality of life through work, two complementary strategies are necessary. </li><li>On the one hand jobs should be redesigned so that they resemble as closely as possible flow activities—as do hunting, cottage weaving, and surgery. </li><li>But it will also be necessary to help people develop autotelic personalities by training them to recognize opportunities for action, to hone their skills, to set reachable goals. </li><li>Neither one of these strategies is likely to make work much more enjoyable by itself; in combination, they should contribute enormously to optimal experience. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8: Enjoying Solitude and Other People</strong></h5><ul><li>Studies on flow have demonstrated repeatedly that more than anything else, the quality of life depends on two factors: how we experience work, and our relations with other people. </li></ul><p><strong>The Conflict Between Being Alone and Being With Others</strong></p><ul><li>How is it possible to reconcile the fact that people cause both the best and the worst times? </li><li>This apparent contradiction is actually not that difficult to resolve. Like anything else that really matters, relationships make us extremely happy when they go well, and very depressed when they don’t work out. </li></ul><p><strong>The Pain of Loneliness</strong></p><ul><li>To fill free time with activities that require concentration, that increase skills, that lead to a development of the self, is not the same as killing time by watching television or taking recreational drugs. Although both strategies might be seen as different ways of coping with the same threat of chaos, as defenses against ontological anxiety, the former leads to growth, while the latter merely serves to keep the mind from unraveling. A person who rarely gets bored, who does not constantly need a favorable external environment to enjoy the moment, has passed the test for having achieved a creative life. </li></ul><p><strong>Taming Solitude</strong></p><ul><li>One does not actually have to be a god, but it is true that to enjoy being alone a person must build his own mental routines, so that he can achieve flow without the supports of civilized life—without other people, without jobs, TV, theaters, restaurants, or libraries to help channel his attention. </li><li>It is this constant concentration on a workable goal that makes sailing so enjoyable. But when the doldrums set in, they might have to go to heroic lengths to find any challenge at all. </li><li>Yet <em>how</em> one copes with solitude makes all the difference. If being alone is seen as a chance to accomplish goals that cannot be reached in the company of others, then instead of feeling lonely, a person will enjoy solitude and might be able to learn new skills in the process. On the other hand, if solitude is seen as a condition to be avoided at all costs instead of as a challenge, the person will panic and resort to distractions that cannot lead to higher levels of complexity. </li></ul><p><strong>Flow and the Family</strong></p><ul><li>Many successful men and women would second Lee Iacocca’s statement: “I’ve had a wonderful and successful career. But next to my family, it really hasn’t mattered at all.” </li><li>The problem remains with the period of puberty, roughly the five years between twelve and seventeen: What meaningful challenges can be found for young people that age? The situation is much easier when the parents themselves are involved in understandable and complex activities at home. If the parents enjoy playing music, cooking, reading, gardening, carpentry, or fixing engines in the garage, then it is more likely that their children will find similar activities challenging, and invest enough attention in them to begin enjoy doing something that will help them grow. If parents just talked more about their ideals and dreams—even if these had been frustrated—the children might develop the ambition needed to break through the complacency of their present selves. If nothing else, discussing one’s job or the thoughts and events of the day, and treating children as young adults, as friends, help to socialize them into thoughtful adults. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9: Creating Chaos</strong></h5><ul><li>Coping with stress is key to maintaining your ability to have flow experiences. </li></ul><p><strong>The Power of Dissipative Structures</strong></p><ul><li>The peak in the development of coping skills is reached when a young man or woman has achieved a strong enough sense of self, based on personally selected goals, that no external disappointment can entirely undermine who he or she is. For some people the strength derives from a goal that involves identification with the family, with the country, or with a religion or an ideology. For others, it depends on mastery of a harmonious system of symbols, such as art, music, or physics. </li><li>Those who know how to transform a hopeless situation into a new flow activity that can be controlled will be able to enjoy themselves, and emerge stronger from the ordeal. There are three main steps that seem to be involved in such transformations: </li><li><strong><em>1. Unselfconscious self-assurance.</em></strong></li><li>These people believe their destiny is in their hands. They don’t doubt their own resources would be sufficient to allow them to determine their own fate. </li><li>They also recognize they are part of an environment and must do their best within that system. </li><li>Basically, to arrive at this level of self-assurance one must trust oneself, one’s environment, and one’s place in it. </li><li><strong><em>2. Focusing attention on the world.</em></strong></li><li>Avoid focusing on your own ego, and instead be aware of alternative possibilities, open to the surrounding world. </li><li><strong><em>3. The discovery of new solutions.</em></strong></li><li>Focus on the entire situation, including oneself, and discover whether alternative goals might be more appropriate, and whether other solutions exist. </li></ul><p><strong>The Autotelic Self: A Summary</strong></p><ul><li>The difference between someone who enjoys life and someone who is overwhelmed by it is a product of a combination of such external factors and the way a person has come to interpret them—that is, whether he sees challenges as threats or as opportunities for action. </li><li>The “autotelic self” is one that easily translates potential threats into enjoyable challenges, and therefore maintains its inner harmony. A person who is never bored, seldom anxious, involved with what goes on, and in flow most of the time may be said to have an autotelic self. The term literally means &quot;a self that has self-contained goals,&quot; and it reflects the idea that such an individual has relatively few goals that do not originate from within the self. </li><li>The autotelic self transforms potentially entropic experience into flow. Therefore the rules for developing such a self are simple, and they derive directly from the flow model. Briefly, they can be summarized as follows: </li><li><strong><em>1. Setting goals.</em></strong></li><li>One must have clear goals to strive for. A person with an autotelic self learns to make choices without much fuss and the minimum of panic. </li><li>They also learn to define the goals, challenges, and a system of action in a specific direction to reach a larger goal. </li><li><strong><em>2. Becoming immersed in the activity.</em></strong></li><li>The person grows deeply involved in whatever they are doing, balancing expectations and demands with one’s capacity to act, ensuring neither stagnation, nor gross disappointment. </li><li><em><strong>3. Paying attention to what is happening</strong>.</em></li><li>Concentration leads to involvement, which can only be maintained by constant inputs of attention. Athletes are aware that in a race even a momentary lapse can spell complete defeat. </li><li>The same pitfalls threaten anyone who participates in a complex system: to stay in it, he must keep investing psychic energy. </li><li><strong><em>4. Learning to enjoy immediate experience.</em></strong></li><li>The outcome of having an autotelic self—of learning to set goals, to develop skills, to be sensitive to feedback, to know how to concentrate and get involved—is that one can enjoy life even when objective circumstances are brutish and nasty. Being in control of the mind means that literally anything that happens can be a source of joy. </li><li>To achieve this control, however, requires determination and discipline. Optimal experience is not the result of a hedonistic, lotus-eating approach to life. A relaxed, laissez-faire attitude is not a sufficient defense against chaos. </li><li>But to change all existence into a flow experience, it is not sufficient to learn merely how to control moment-by-moment states of consciousness. It is also necessary to have an overall context of goals for the events of everyday life to make sense. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10: The Making of Meaning</strong></h5><ul><li>As long as enjoyment follows piecemeal from activities not linked to one another in a meaningful way, one is still vulnerable to the vagaries of chaos. Even the most successful career, the most rewarding family relationship eventually runs dry. Sooner or later involvement in work must be reduced. Spouses die, children grow up and move away. To approach optimal experience as closely as is humanly possible, a last step in the control of consciousness is necessary. </li><li>What this involves is turning all life into a unified flow experience. </li><li>It <em>is</em> true that life has no meaning, if by that we mean a supreme goal built into the fabric of nature and human experience, a goal that is valid for every individual. But it does not follow that life cannot be <em>given</em> meaning.</li><li>From the point of view of an individual, it does not matter what the ultimate goal is—provided it is compelling enough to order a lifetime’s worth of psychic energy. </li><li>As long as it provides clear objectives, clear rules for action, and a way to concentrate and become involved, any goal can serve to give meaning to a person’s life. </li></ul><p><strong>What Meaning Means</strong></p><ul><li>In this sense the answer to the old riddle “What is the meaning of life?” turns out to be astonishingly simple. The meaning of life is meaning: whatever it is, wherever it comes from, a unified purpose is what gives meaning to life. </li><li>The second sense of the word <em>meaning</em> refers to the expression of intentionality. And this sense also is appropriate to the issue of how to create meaning by transforming all life into a flow activity. It is not enough to find a purpose that unifies one’s goals; one must also carry through and meet its challenges. The purpose must result in strivings; intent has to be translated into action. We may call this <em>resolution</em> in the pursuit of one’s goals. What counts is not so much whether a person actually achieves what she has set out to do; rather, it matters whether effort has been expended to reach the goal, instead of being diffused or wasted. </li><li>The third and final way in which life acquires meaning is the result of the previous two steps. When an important goal is pursued with resolution, and all one’s varied activities fit together into a unified flow experience, the result is that <em>harmony</em> is brought to consciousness. Someone who knows his desires and works with purpose to achieve them is a person whose feelings, thoughts, and actions are congruent with one another, and is therefore a person who has achieved inner harmony. </li><li>Purpose, resolution, and harmony unify life and give it meaning by transforming it into a seamless flow experience. Whoever achieves this state will never really lack anything else. A person whose consciousness is so ordered need not fear unexpected events, or even death. Every living moment will make sense, and most of it will be enjoyable. This certainly sounds desirable. So how does one attain it? </li></ul><p><strong>Forging Resolve</strong></p><ul><li>Inner conflict is the result of competing claims on attention. Too many desires, too many incompatible goals struggle to marshal psychic energy toward their own ends. It follows that the only way to reduce conflict is by sorting out the essential claims from those that are not, and by arbitrating priorities among those that remain. There are basically two ways to accomplish this: what the ancients called the <em>vita activa</em>, a life of action, and the <em>vita contemplativa</em>, or the path of reflection. </li><li>Immersed in the <em>vita activa</em>, a person achieves flow through total involvement in concrete external challenges. </li><li>Successful executives, experienced professionals, and talented craftspeople learn to trust their judgment and competence so that they again begin to act with the unselfconscious spontaneity of children. If the arena for action is challenging enough, a person may experience flow continuously in his or her calling, thus leaving as little room as possible for noticing the entropy of normal life. In this way harmony is restored to consciousness indirectly—not by facing up to contradictions and trying to resolve conflicting goals and desires, but by pursuing chosen goals with such intensity that all potential competition is preempted. </li><li>This is where the presumed advantage of a contemplative life comes in. Detached reflection upon experience, a realistic weighing of options and their consequences, have long been held to be the best approach to a good life. </li><li>Activity and reflection should ideally complement and support each other. Action by itself is blind, reflection impotent. Before investing great amounts of energy in a goal, it pays to raise the fundamental questions: Is this something I really want to do? Is it something I enjoy doing? Am I likely to enjoy it in the foreseeable future? Is the price that I—and others—will have to pay worth it? Will I be able to live with myself if I accomplish it? </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Hacking Growth by Sean Ellis: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Invaluable for those new to growth, and even those who are experience will find value.Gives an overview of the whole growth process across acquisition, activation, retention, and more, and clearly instills the growth mindset. Supports the lessons with lots of examples from real companies too. Recommended for founders, marketers, product managers and anyone related to growth.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4><strong>Introduction</strong></h4><ul><li>Companies with &gt;40% of customers who say they would be “very disappointed” if the product disappeared have high growth potential. </li><li>Most growth is due to an accumulation of small wins. </li><li>Growth hacking is a team effort, and the biggest successes often come from cross-functional teams (data analytics, programming and marketing). </li><li>Growth teams should work on acquisition, activation, retention and monetization. </li></ul><h4><strong>Part I: The Method</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter One: Building Growth Teams</strong></h5><ul><li>Growth teams should bring together staff who have a deep understanding of the strategy and business goals, those with the expertise to conduct data analysis, and those with the engineering chops to implement changes in the design, functionality, or marketing of the product and program experiments to test those changes. </li><li>Growth teams can be as small as four or five members or as large as one hundred or more. </li><li>Growth teams should have: </li><li>Growth lead </li><li>Product manager </li><li>Software engineers </li><li>Marketing specialists </li><li>Data analysts </li><li>Product designers </li><li>At start-ups and small established companies, a growth team might comprise only one staff member in each of the abovementioned areas, or even just a few people, each of whom takes charge of more than one of these roles. </li></ul><p>The How </p><ul><li>The process is a continuous cycle comprising four key steps: </li><li>(1) data analysis and insight gathering; </li><li>(2) idea generation; </li><li>(3) experiment prioritization; and </li><li>(4) running the experiments, and </li><li>then circles back to the analyze step to review results and decide the next steps. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Two: Determining If Your Product is a Must-Have</strong></h5><ul><li>You must not move into the high-tempo growth experimentation push until you know your product is must-have, why it’s must-have, and to whom it is a must-have: in other words, what is its core value, to which customers, and why. </li><li><em>aha moment</em>. This is the moment that the utility of the product really clicks for the users; when the users really get the core value—what the product is for, why they need it, and what benefit they derive from using it. Or in other words, why that product is a &quot;must-have.&quot; </li><li>Thus the key to knowing when it’s time to start the high-tempo push for growth is simple: Can you identify an aha moment that users love? </li></ul><p>To Determine If Your Product is a Must-Have </p><p>How disappointed would you be if this product no longer existed tomorrow? </p><ul><li>a) Very disappointed </li><li>b) Somewhat disappointed </li><li>c) Not disappointed (it really isn’t that useful) </li><li>d) N/A—I no longer use it </li></ul><p>If 40 percent or more of responses are &quot;very disappointed,&quot; then the product has achieved sufficient must-have status. </p><p>If it’s less than 40 percent, then you know you need to focus on increasing this number by tweaking the product or the language used to describe it and how to use it. </p><p>In these cases, a set of additional questions on the Must-Have Survey will help to point you toward your next steps: </p><ul><li>What would you likely use as an alternative to [name of product] if it were no longer available? </li><li>I probably wouldn’t use an alternative </li><li>I would use: </li><li>What is the primary benefit that you have received from [name of product]? </li><li>Have you recommended [name of product] to anyone? </li><li>No </li><li>Yes (Please explain how you described it) </li><li>What type of person do you think would benefit most from [name of product]?” </li><li>How can we improve [name of product] to better meet your needs? </li><li>Would it be okay if we followed up by email to request a clarification to one or more of your responses? </li></ul><p>Another indicator is if your retention rate is good compared to other competitors in your space, and stable over time. </p><h5><strong>Chapter Three: Identifying Your Growth Levers</strong></h5><ul><li>Small companies in particular need to focus on high-impact, high-potential tests first. Testing small changes like button copy is unlikely to have the kind of big impact they need, and tests will take too long. </li><li>You need to identify the levers of growth for your company, to summarize in a <em>fundamental growth equation</em>. </li><li>The way to determine your essential metrics is to identify the actions that correlate most directly to users experiencing the core value of your product. </li><li>To hone your growth equation and narrow your focus, it’s best to choose one, key metric of ultimate success that all growth activity is geared toward. </li><li>The North Star should be the metric that most accurately captures the core value you create for your customers. </li><li>Dashboards are great, but they should report only on the most important metrics that map to your growth levers. </li><li>Metrics should be reported as ratios rather than static numbers. </li><li>They should also have an indicator as to whether they are above trend, on par, or below past performance. </li><li>Use cohort analysis based on various demographic or behaviour to gain insights into certain groups of users. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Four: Testing at High Tempo</strong></h5><ul><li>Small teams can start with 1-2 tests per week, while larger growth teams might manage up to 20-30 tests per week. </li><li>Whatever the size, it’s important to follow a highly disciplined process that allows a pipeline of ideas, and efficient processing. </li></ul><p>The process should go as follows: </p><p><strong>Stage 1: Analyze</strong></p><ul><li>Formulate some questions to guide analysis, then start digging into the data and conducting user interviews. </li><li>Summarize into a report for the next meeting (weekly or bi-weekly). </li></ul><p><strong>Stage 2: Ideate</strong></p><ul><li>After the meeting, all team members should submit as many ideas as possible for hacks to try and improve the chosen area of focus. </li><li>Ideas should be submitted using a template: </li><li><strong>Idea Name</strong>: We’ve found that giving each idea a brief name makes the discussion of them easier and more efficient. At GrowthHackers, to force brevity and clarity, we limit them to under 50 characters. </li><li><strong>Idea Description</strong>: The best way to think about what the idea description should look like is along the lines of an executive summary. It should address the who, what, where, when, why, and how of the idea. </li><li><em>Who</em> is being targeted? </li><li><em>What</em> is going to be created, such as new marketing copy or a new feature? </li><li><em>Where</em> will the new copy or feature be implemented? </li><li><em>When</em> will it appear during the customer’s use? </li><li>In addition, the description must include the why—the rationale behind the idea—and the how—a recommendation of the type of test to be done, such as an A/B test, or new feature to be built, or a new ad campaign to be launched. </li><li><strong>Hypothesis</strong>: Like in any other type of experiment, the hypothesis should be a simple proposition of expected cause and effect. </li><li>A hypothesis might be: &quot;By making it easier for shoppers to view and reorder previously purchased items, the number of people who make repeat purchases will increase by 20 percent.&quot; </li><li>Some teams may elect to state an expected gain in their hypothesis while others will not. The pro of doing so is that it gives the team a clear idea of what success looks like. On the other hand, predicting the results of a test ahead of time is an inexact science at best, and so some teams forgo it. </li><li><strong>Metrics to be Measured</strong>: The metrics that should be tracked in order to evaluate the outcome of the test must be specified. Most experiments should measure more than one metric because sometimes, improvements in one metric come at the expense of others. </li><li>Identify metrics to be tracked by looking at the metrics “downstream&quot; from the experiment that will be impacted. </li></ul><p><strong>Stage 3: Prioritize</strong></p><ul><li>Score using a system. </li><li>You can use ICE: Impact, Confidence, and Ease - rate across a ten-point scale for each, and then averaged. </li><li><strong>Impact</strong>: This is the expectation about the degree to which the ideas will improve the metric being focused on. </li><li><strong>Confidence</strong>: This is a measure of how strongly the idea generator believes the idea will produce the expected impact. </li><li>Confidence should be higher if a test is an iteration of a previously successful test, which is a good practice and is commonly referred to in the growth hacking community as doubling down. </li><li><strong>Ease</strong>: Ease is the measure of the time and resources needed to run the experiment. </li></ul><p><strong>Stage 4: Test</strong></p><ul><li>Two rules of thumb for testing; </li><li>Use a 99% statistical confidence level </li><li>Control always wins if the results are inconclusive </li><li><strong>Back to Stage 1: Analysis and Learning</strong></li><li>Analysis should be done by growth lead if they have expertise, and written up in a summary. </li><li>This should be shared with growth team and added to a database where all learnings are stored. </li><li>Some ideas for communication: </li><li>A “wins” email distribution email list </li><li>Creating a channel in chat software for sharing of test results and discussion about them </li><li>Publish test results to company dashboards. </li></ul><p>The Growth Meeting </p><ul><li>Hold on Tuesdays </li><li>Agenda: </li><li>15 mins: Metrics review and update focus area </li><li>10 mins: Review last week’s testing activity </li><li>15 mins: Key lessons learned from analyzed experiments </li><li>15 mins: Select growth tests for current cycle </li><li>5 mins: Check growth of idea pipeline </li></ul><h4><strong>Part II: The Growth Hacking Playbook</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter Five: Hacking Acquisition</strong></h5><ul><li>The first phase of work in scaling up your acquisition of customers should be devoted to achieving two additional types of fit: </li><li><em>language/market fit</em>, which is how well the way you describe the benefits of your product resonates with your target audience, and </li><li><em>channel/product fit</em>, which describes how effective the marketing channels are that you’ve selected to reach your intended audience with your product, such as paid search advertising or viral, or content, marketing. </li><li>Talk to your customers, run A/B tests, and talk to customer support teams. You’ll get ideas about language to use from all of them. </li></ul><p>Finding Channel Fit </p><ul><li>You should be seeking to find fewer, sustainable channels of acquisition, not spreading yourself too thin across many. </li></ul><p>Narrowing the Field </p><ul><li>You can usually narrow down possible channels by the demands of your business model. </li><li>A next step in narrowing options is to consider the characteristics and behaviors of your users, and this means identifying the behaviors that they’re already engaged in, such as the types of Google searches they are doing, the places they are shopping, and the social networks they are using. </li></ul><p>Experimenting to Get Channel/Product Fit </p><p>We advise a prioritization method based on one devised by Brian Balfour, HubSpot’s former head of growth, who created a simple scheme for ranking channels according to a set of six factors: </p><ul><li><strong>Cost</strong>—how much you expect to have to spend to run the experiment in question. </li><li><strong>Targeting</strong>—how easy it is to reach your intended audience and how specific you can be in whom your experiment reaches. </li><li><strong>Control</strong>—how much control you have over the experiment. Can you make changes to the experiment once it’s live? Can you stop it easily or adjust it if it’s not going well? </li><li><strong>Input time</strong>—how much time it will take the team to launch the experiment. Filming a television ad, for example, has a much longer input time than setting up a Facebook ad. </li><li><strong>Output time</strong>—how long it will take to get results out of the experiment once it’s live. For example, search engine optimization experiments or social media may have longer output times than a radio ad does. </li><li><strong>Scale</strong>—how large an audience can you reach with the experiment? Television has a much larger scale than advertising on topical blogs. </li><li>Score each channel by factor from 1-10, and then average the results, and rank them. </li><li>Keep testing and trying new channels as you continue to eliminate ones that don’t work. </li></ul><p>Designing Customer Loops </p><ul><li>For most other products, though, incentivizing users to send out and accept invites is a good deal trickier, and most often, triggering anything even approaching truly viral growth requires a great deal of initial experimentation and then lots of continuous optimization. </li><li>When you do focus on instrumenting virality, it’s important that you follow the same basic principle as for building your product—you’ve got to make the experience of sharing the product with others must-have—or at least as user friendly and delightful as possible. </li><li>Here are a number of best practices for experimenting with creating loops that will help you avoid such pitfalls. </li><li>Consider the Potential to Tap Network Effects </li><li>Create an Incentive That’s in Synergy With Your Product’s Core Value </li><li>Make the Invite to Share an Integrated Part of the User’s Experience, Not an Add-on </li><li>Make Sure the Invitees are Given a Good Experience </li><li>Experiment, Experiment, Experiment </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Six: Hacking Activation</strong></h5><ul><li>Improving activation is at its core about increasing the rate at which you get new users to your aha moment. </li><li>The first step in improving activation is identifying each point in the customers’ journey toward the aha moment, and the conversion rate between each step. </li><li>You should also consider the channels that have brought customers, and how their journey varies between different sources. </li><li>Look for differences between active customers, those who activated but went cold, and those who never activated. </li><li>To recap, those steps are: </li><li>map all of the steps that get users to the aha moment; </li><li>create a funnel report that profiles the conversion rates for each of the steps and segments users by the channel through which they arrive; </li><li>and conduct surveys and interviews both of users who progressed through each step where you’re seeing high drop-offs, and those who left at that point to understand the causes of drop-off. </li><li>You can then use this information to create new, highly targeted, and high-impact ideas to experiment with to improve your results. </li><li>To improve activation, you can either increase your customers’ desire or reduce the friction they experience. And making a product more desirable is generally much harder. </li><li>Single sign-on is a great way to reduce the friction of signing up. </li><li>You can also <em>flip the funnel</em>, allowing users to experience value before asking them to sign up. </li><li>Adding some positive friction can be good, as users make a small commitment and get to activation with more reliability. </li></ul><p>The Art of the Questionnaire </p><ul><li>Asking customers about their interests or about the problems they are seeking solutions for immediately creates a form of commitment, as they must invest a little time in responding, while at the same time they have forged a deeper personal connection with you and your product. It also conveys to them that you are interested in them individually and in providing the best service for them you can. </li><li>The tactic works best if it’s clear to the customer that customizing the product to their needs and desires will be to their advantage. </li><li>A key caution here is that you also don’t want to ask too many questions. Patel recommends no more than five, and making them multiple-choice rather than open-ended, with no more than four possible answers each. Including images and visuals will also likely improve engagement. And as with all hacks, these mini questionnaires should be put through the process of rigorous experimentation. </li></ul><p>Triggers </p><ul><li>A great rule of thumb about deploying triggers is that your rationale for getting in touch with the users should be to alert them of an opportunity of clear value to them. </li><li>Make sure to test with a holdout group, which is a group that isn’t subject to any of the experiments. </li><li>Some common types of notification triggers to experiment with are: </li><li><strong>Account creation</strong>—encourage users who have downloaded an app or visited a retail website to complete their account </li><li><strong>Purchase messages</strong>—encourage users to make a purchase with a short-term discount </li><li><strong>Reactivation campaign</strong>—encourage users who haven’t been to your site or app in a while to come back and reengage </li><li><strong>New feature announcement</strong>—share the news about updates to the product </li><li><strong>Top user incentives</strong>—for heavy users of the product, let them know they’re special and encourage greater affinity and use </li><li><strong>Activity or status change</strong>—such as a friend taking an action or an item in a shopping cart changing price. </li></ul><p>Six Principles of Persuasion to Keep in Mind </p><ul><li><strong>Reciprocity</strong>—whereby people are more likely to do something in return of a favor, regardless of the favor done and the ask now presented to them </li><li><strong>Commitment and consistency</strong>—people who have taken one action are likely to take another, regardless of the size or difference in action </li><li><strong>Social proof</strong>—in a state of uncertainty, people look to the actions of others to help them make their own decisions </li><li><strong>Authority</strong>—people look to those in the position of authority to decide which actions to take </li><li><strong>Liking</strong>—people will do business more readily with people and companies they like over those they don’t or are indifferent to </li><li><strong>Scarcity</strong>—people will take action when they are worried that they will miss out on the opportunity in the future </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Seven: Hacking Retention</strong></h5><ul><li>Brian Balfour, whom we’ve met earlier, highlights that retention breaks down into three phases: initial, medium, and long-term. The <strong><em>initial retention period</em></strong> is the critical time during which a new user either becomes convinced to keep using or buying a product or service, or goes dormant after one or a few visits. </li><li>Once new users have crossed the threshold of initial retention, they move into the <strong><em>medium retention phase</em></strong>, a period when the interest in a product’s novelty often fades. The core mission for growth teams in retaining users who are in this midterm phase is to make using a product a habit; working to create such a sense of satisfaction from the product or service that over time, users don’t need to be prodded to use it again because they have incorporated the use of the product into their routine. </li><li>Then, we’ll move on to the tactics for <strong><em>long-term retention</em></strong>. This is the phase in which growth teams can help to assure that a product keeps offering customers more value. Teams must experiment with ways to keep improving the product, helping product development teams to determine the timing for introducing enhancements of existing features or entirely new features. The key here is to keep refreshing the customer’s perception of the product as must-have. </li></ul><p>Identify and Chart Your Cohorts</p><ul><li>Once you’ve determine the metrics you’ll use for your retention rate, the next step is to break your retention data into cohorts. </li><li>You should break down cohorts based on entry date, channel, and other factors. </li></ul><p>More Value <em>Coming Soon</em></p><ul><li>Communicating to customers that some new features or product offerings are just around the corner, and telling them how they’ll benefit, can be a powerful inducement for them to stick with you.</li></ul><p>Long-Term Retention </p><ul><li>Here we recommend a two-pronged approach that involves (1) optimizing the current set of product features, notifications, and subsequent rewards from repeated use; and (2) introducing a steady stream of new features over a long period of time.</li><li>Another important element of long-term retention is figuring out how to move your users along a learning curve.</li><li>They should gradually be introduced to new features and new ways of using them as they become more familiar with the tool. </li></ul><p>Resurrection</p><ul><li>When teams notice that a customer’s purchasing or a user’s activity has dropped to zero, after some designated time—which the team should experiment to determine—these people should be added to a <em>resurrection flow</em>, which means that they should be sent a series of email communications or targeted ads designed to win them back, often by reminding them of the aha moment, or core value that once drew them to the product. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Eight: Hacking Monetization</strong></h5><ul><li>When it comes to monetization, analysis starts by returning to the basic mapping of the entire customer journey.</li><li>The goal at this stage is to highlight all of the opportunities in the journey—from acquisition to retention—for earning revenue from customers.</li><li>The next step after doing this basic mapping is to analyze where in the customer journey the company is making the most money, and where there seem to be pinch points, meaning steps where potential earnings are lost, which vary by model.</li><li>For SaaS businesses, the pages displaying the options for plans and their prices are often underoptimized, hurting rates of purchase.</li><li>If a product or service is offered internationally, companies should also be sure to look at monetization by country, since different countries have different norms about the types of payment options, and also the fees charged, for services.</li></ul><p>Patrick Campbell, CEO of Price Intelligently, offers a wealth of advice about best practices for finding the pricing sweet spot for SaaS products, and suggests starting with, as we’ve recommended with many other growth initiatives, sending out a survey that asks the recipients not only what features are most important to them—but also how much they are willing to pay, by asking the following four questions in the following order:</p><ul><li>At what price point does [your product] become too expensive that you’d never consider purchasing it?</li><li>At what price point does [your product] start to become expensive, but you’d still consider purchasing it?</li><li>At what price point does [your product] start to become a really good deal?</li><li>At what price point does [your product] start to become too cheap that you’d question the quality of it?</li></ul><p>To determine your value metric, Campbell recommends asking yourself three questions:</p><ul><li>1. Does the value metric align with where your customer perceives value?</li><li>2. Does the metric scale as the customer uses the product more?</li><li>3. Is it easy to understand?</li><li>Pricing is often seen as a proxy for value, so lowering prices may not help increase your volume or sales.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Nine: A Virtuous Cycle of Growth</strong></h5><ul><li>Growth teams need to be constantly innovating, diving back into the data, and coming up with new experiments. </li><li>Push yourself to make the most of what is working, not only finding new things to try.</li><li>Opening up the ideation process to the whole company can help push through stalls or being short of ideas.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[One of my favourite books ever.  The best book I’ve ever read on how to master a craft, and full of great advice on how to navigate life, your career, and learning, on your path to achieving some level of mastery in your field.The book details every step along the way from figuring out what it is you’re meant to do - your “Life’s Task” - to how to learn quickly, and the necessary auxiliary skills (ex: Social Intelligence) to succeed.Highly recommend the book for anyone seeking to figure out their career, how to learn best, and ultimately, how to become successful.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>Introduction</h4><ul><li>Masters excel because of their ability to practice harder and move faster through the process, all stemming from the intensity of their desire to learn and from the deep connection they feel to their field of study.</li><li>Our levels of desire, patience, persistence, and confidence end up playing a much larger role in success than sheer reasoning powers.</li><li>First, you must see your attempt attaining mastery as something extremely necessary and positive.</li><li>Second, you must convince yourself of the following: people get the mind and quality of brain that they deserve through their actions in life.</li></ul><h4>I: Discover Your Calling: The Life’s Task</h4><ul><li>You possess an inner force guiding you towards your Life’s Task - in childhood this was clear, and directed you towards activities and subjects that fit your natural inclinations.</li><li>3 steps to realizing your Life’s Task: connect with your inclinations, look at the career path you are on or beginning, and view your path as a journey with twists and turns, rather than a straight line (choose a field or position that roughly corresponds to your inclinations).</li></ul><p><strong>Strategies for Finding Your Life’s Task:</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Return to your origins</strong> - look for your early childhood activities and inclinations.</li><li><strong>Occupy the perfect niche</strong> - choose a rough area that interests you, look for side paths that interest you, and continually move towards a narrower niche. Alternatively, blend two distinct areas of expertise that compliment each other.</li><li><strong>Avoid the false path</strong> - actively rebel against forces pushing you down a path for the wrong reasons (money, fame, attention, parental expectations, etc.).</li><li><strong>Let go of the past</strong> - don’t be tied to a particular career or position, but rather be committed to your Life’s Task, wherever that may take you.</li><li><strong>Find your way back</strong> - make public your return to your path, so that it becomes a matter of shame and embarrassment to deviate from this new path.</li></ol><h4>II: Submit to Reality: The Ideal Apprenticeship</h4><ul><li>After your formal education, when you enter a new career or acquire new skills, you enter a second phase of learning called The Apprenticeship.</li><li>The goal of apprenticeship is not money, a good position, a title or a diploma, but rather learning.</li><li>This has a simple consequence: you must choose places of work and positions that offer the greatest possibilities for learning.</li><li>You must think of three essential steps in your apprenticeship: Deep Observation (the Passive Mode), Skills Acquisition (the Practice Mode) and Experimentation (the Active Mode).</li><li>Keep in mind this can come in different forms - at one place, several positions, a mix of graduate school and practical experience, etc.</li></ul><p><strong>Step One: Deep Observation - The Passive Mode</strong></p><ul><li>Observe the rules and procedures that govern success in this environment, and observe the power relationships in the group.</li><li>Do not make the mistake of imagining you must get attention, impress people, or prove yourself in this stage.</li></ul><p><strong>Step Two: Skills Acquisition - The Practice Mode</strong></p><ul><li>As much as possible, reduce the skills to something simple and essential - the core of what you need to get good at, skills that can be practiced.</li><li>It remains that we learn best through practice and repetition.</li><li>First, it is essential that you begin with one skill that you can master, and that serves as a foundation for acquiring others. You must avoid at all cost the idea that you can manage learning several skills at a time.</li><li>Second, the initial stages of learning a skill invariably involve tedium. Yet rather than avoiding this inevitable tedium, you must accept and embrace it. The pain and boredom we experience in the initial stage of learning a skill toughens our minds, much like physical exercise.</li><li>It is better to dedicate two or three hours of intense focus to a skill than to spend eight hours of diffused concentration on it.</li><li>Real pleasure comes from overcoming challenges, feeling confidence in your abilities, gaining fluency in skills, and experiencing the power this brings.</li></ul><p><strong>Step Three: Experimentation - The Active Mode</strong></p><ul><li>As you gain skill and confidence, you must make the move to a more active mode of experimentation.</li><li>The future belongs to those who learn more skills and combine them in creative ways.</li><li>When we work with our hands and build something, we learn how to sequence our actions and how to organize our thoughts. In taking anything apart in order to fix it, we learn problem-solving skills that have wider applications. Even if it is only as a side activity, you should find a way to work with your hands, or to learn more about the inner workings of the machines and pieces of technology around you.</li></ul><p><strong>Strategies for Completing the Ideal Apprenticeship</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Value learning over money.</strong></li><li><strong>Keep expanding your horizons</strong> - reading books and materials that go beyond what is required is a good starting point.</li><li><strong>Revert to a feeling of inferiority</strong> - when you enter a new environment, your task is to learn and absorb as much as possible. For that purpose you must try to revert to a childlike feeling of inferiority. You are full of curiosity.</li><li><strong>Trust the process</strong> - push through the point of frustration, trust steady practice to get you through lows.</li><li><strong>Move towards resistance and pain</strong> - be your own worst critic, resist the lure of easing up on your focus, and push towards raising your own standards of excellence.</li><li><strong>Apprentice yourself in failure</strong> - act on your ideas as early as possible, expose them to the public, and be prepared to fail. Repeated failure will toughen your spirit and show you with absolute clarity how things must be done.</li><li><strong>Combine the “how&quot; and the “what”</strong> - take the extra effort to learn how things are done, not just how they appear, and gain a deeper understanding and feeling for the whole.</li><li><strong>Advance through trial and error</strong> - learn as many skills as possible, but only related to your deepest interests. Find out what work suits you, and what doesn’t. Be comfortable proceeding based on what you like, and when you are ready to settle, ideas and opportunities will present themselves to you.</li></ol><h4>III: Absorb the Master’s Power: The Mentor Dynamic</h4><ul><li>The mentor-protégé relationship is the most efficient and productive form of learning. The right mentors know where to focus your attention and how to challenge you. Their knowledge and experience become yours. They provide immediate and realistic feedback on your work, so you can improve more rapidly.</li><li>Understand: all that should concern you in the early stages of your career is acquiring practical knowledge in the most efficient manner possible. For this purpose, during the Apprenticeship Phase you will need mentors whose authority you recognize and to whom you submit.</li><li>The reason you require a mentor is simple: Life is short; you have only so much time and so much energy to expend. Your most creative years are generally in your late twenties and on into your forties.</li><li>The best mentors are often those who have wide knowledge and experience, and are not overly specialized in their field—they can train you to think on a higher level, and to make connections between different forms of knowledge.</li><li>You will want as much personal interaction with the mentor as possible. A virtual relationship is never enough.</li></ul><p><strong>Strategies for Deepening the Mentor Dynamic</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Choose the mentor according to your needs and inclinations</strong> - pick mentors who fill your needs, or what your parents didn’t.</li><li><strong>Gaze deep into the mentor’s mirror</strong> - choose a mentor who will give you tough love, reveal your strengths and weaknesses, and accustom yourself to criticism.</li><li><strong>Transfigure their ideas</strong> - learn from your mentors, listen, but cultivate some distance by altering their advice to fit your own inclinations and style.</li><li><strong>Create a back-and-forth dynamic</strong> - once you have gained respect for each other by being coachable and open to learning, give them feedback on their instruction, helping each other learn even faster.</li></ol><h4>IV: See People as They Are: Social Intelligence</h4><ul><li>Social intelligence is the ability to see people in the most realistic light possible. Being able to smoothly navigate the social environment gives us more time and energy to focus on learning and acquiring skills. Success attained without this intelligence is not true mastery, and will not last.</li><li>Social intelligence involves getting past our tendency to idealize and demonize people (naive) and instead getting inside their world and seeing and accepting them as they are (realistic).</li><li>Train yourself to pay less attention to words, and more attention to tone of voice, the look in their eye, their body language.</li><li>Initial impressions are often misleading. Pay attention to general patterns as well, how they dress, their organization, extreme examples of behaviour, and how they behave over time. </li><li>Continually adjust your reading of people.</li></ul><p><strong>General Knowledge - The Seven Deadly Realities</strong></p><p>There are patterns of negative human behaviour which each of us usually have part of: Envy, Conformism, Rigidity, Self-obsessiveness, Laziness, Flightiness, and Passive Aggression. Understand how to spot and avoid triggering these.</p><ul><li><strong>Envy:</strong> it is natural to compare ourselves to others, but too much praise or friendliness can indicate envy. </li><li>To avoid triggering, if you have a gift for a certain skill, make a point of displaying weakness in another area - self-deprecating humour is good for this.</li><li><strong>Conformism:</strong> groups tend to trigger this. If you have a rebellious streak, be careful not to display your difference too overtly.</li><li><strong>Rigidity: </strong>we often default to habits or routines to counter the complexity of daily life. </li><li>Accept the rigidity of others, but for yourself work to maintain your open spirit, get rid of bad habits, and continue to cultivate new ideas.</li><li><strong>Self-obsessiveness:</strong> when you need something from someone, appeal to people’s self-interest, and get used to looking at the world through their eyes.</li><li><strong>Laziness:</strong> we all tend to want the quickest, easiest path to our goals, but we generally try to control our impatience.</li><li>Be prudent and keep your ideas close so they can’t be stolen, and secure credit in advance as part of teams working together.</li><li><strong>Flightiness:</strong> we like to think we are rational, but we are largely governed by our emotions.</li><li>Never assume that what people say or do in a particular moment is part of their permanent desires. Focus instead on their consistent actions.</li><li><strong>Passive aggression:</strong> the root cause of this is human fear of direct confrontation, and the emotions and loss of control conflict can cause.</li><li>Focus only on the actions of others, and avoid those passive-aggressive warriors full of insecurities at all costs.</li></ul><p><strong>Strategies for Acquiring Social Intelligence</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Speak through your work</strong> - be efficient, detail-oriented, and make what you write or present clear and easy to follow, and this will show your care for the audience or public at large.</li><li><strong>Craft the appropriate persona</strong> - people will judge you based on your outward appearance - be aware of this and plan for it.</li><li><strong>See yourself as others see you</strong> - look at negative events in your past and dissect these occurrences. What patterns can we observe that reveal flaws in our character? Seek opinions from those you trust about your behaviour as well, and begin to cultivate the ability to see yourself as you really are.</li><li><strong>Suffer fools gladly</strong> - they are simply part of life, like rocks or furniture. Smile at their antics, tolerate their presence, and avoid the madness of trying to change them.</li></ol><h4>V: Awaken the Dimensional Mind: The Creative-Active</h4><ul><li>As you accumulate skills and your mind becomes more active, you must avoid becoming conservative and fitting with the group. Instead, become increasingly bold and begin to experiment, reforming the rules of your field.</li><li>Masters not only retain the spirit of the Original Mind, but they add to it their years of apprenticeship and an ability to focus deeply on problems or ideas. This leads to high-level creativity.</li><li>To awaken the Dimensional Mind and move through the creative process requires three essential steps: first, choosing the proper Creative Task, the kind of activity that will maximize our skills and knowledge; second, loosening and opening up the mind through certain Creative Strategies; and third, creating the optimal mental conditions for a Breakthrough or Insight. Finally, throughout the process we must also be aware of the Emotional Pitfalls—complacency, boredom, grandiosity, and the like—that continually threaten to derail or block our progress.</li></ul><p><strong>Step One: The Creative Task</strong></p><ul><li>The task you choose must have an obsessive element - it must connect to something deep within you.</li><li>If you are excited and obsessive in the hunt, it will show in the details. If your work comes from a place deep within, its authenticity will be communicated.</li><li>This applies equally to science and business as to the arts.</li><li>There are two things to keep in mind: First, the task that you choose must be realistic. The knowledge and skills you have gained must be eminently suited to pulling it off.</li><li>This is a corollary of the Law of the Creative Dynamic—the higher the goal, the more energy you will call up from deep within.</li><li>Second, you must let go of your need for comfort and security. Creative endeavors are by their nature uncertain.</li><li>Think of yourself as an explorer. You cannot find anything new if you are unwilling to leave the shore.</li></ul><p><strong>Step Two: Creative Strategies</strong></p><ul><li>Think of the mind as a muscle that naturally tightens up over time unless it is consciously worked upon.</li><li><strong>A. Cultivate Negative Capability</strong> - truly creative people can temporarily suspend their ego and simply experience what they are seeing, without the need to assert a judgement, for as long as possible.</li><li><strong>B. Allow for Serendipity</strong> - expand your initial search into adjacent fields, maintain an openness and looseness of spirit, and engage in activities outside your work.</li><li>To help yourself to cultivate serendipity, you should keep a notebook with you at all times. The moment any idea or observation comes, you note it down. You keep the notebook by your bed, careful to record ideas that come in those moments of fringe awareness—just before falling asleep, or just upon waking. In this notebook you record any scrap of thought that occurs to you, and include drawings, quotes from other books, anything at all. In this way, you will have the freedom to try out the most absurd ideas. The juxtaposition of so many random bits will be enough to spark various associations.</li><li><strong>C. Alternate the Mind Through the Current</strong> - observe things in the world and find things that strike attention, think about them and perhaps conduct experiments. Doing this repeatedly will yield insights.</li><li><strong>D. Alter Your Perspective</strong> - train your mind to look at things from multiple perspectives, and break outside of the typical patterns. The following are several common patterns and how to subvert them:</li><li>Looking at the “what&quot; instead of the “how”: pay greater attention to the relationships between things, instead of focusing on what you see initially.</li><li>Rushing to generalities and ignoring details: our minds often generalize - to counter, focus on details, not the big picture, and then work back towards the larger idea.</li><li>Confirming paradigms and ignoring anomalies: anomalies usually contain the richest information, so do not ignore or explain them away.</li><li>Fixating on what is present, ignoring what is absent: our natural tendency is to focus on positive information.</li><li>As you work to free up your mind and give it the power to alter its perspective, remember the following: the emotions we experience at any time have an inordinate influence on how we perceive the world. If we feel afraid, we tend to see more of the potential dangers in some action. If we feel particularly bold, we tend to ignore the potential risks. What you must do then is not only alter your mental perspective, but reverse your emotional one as well.</li><li>For instance, if you are experiencing a lot of resistance and setbacks in your work, try to see this as in fact something that is quite positive and productive.</li><li>If you see setbacks as opportunities, you are more likely to make that a reality.</li><li><strong>E. Revert to Primal Forms of Intelligence</strong></li><li>Use diagrams, images, and models to help you reveal patterns in your thinking, or new directions to follow.</li></ul><p><strong>Step Three: The Creative Breakthrough</strong></p><ul><li>You will encounter a time where you become frustrated and realize you are getting nowhere. At this point, you must let go, and then get back to work with deadlines, forcing yourself to push through, and the mind will reach the level you need.</li><li><strong>Emotional Pitfalls</strong></li><li>The following are the six most common pitfalls that threaten us along the way:</li><li><strong>Complacency:</strong> after we develop some skills, we take things for granted. Constantly remind yourself how little you truly know.</li><li><strong>Conservatism: </strong>if you gain attention or success for your work, this will naturally occur. Make creativity rather than comfort your goal, and continue to be bold.</li><li><strong>Dependency:</strong> you relied upon mentors and those above you to supply standards of judgement. Develop the ability to see your own work with some distance, and judge the public’s reactions carefully.</li><li><strong>Impatience:</strong> you will convince yourself that your work is essentially over and well done; instead, cultivate a kind of pleasure in pain, like an athlete, enjoying practice, pushing past your limits, and resisting the easy way out.</li><li><strong>Grandiosity:</strong> praise generally does harm. There are always greater geniuses out there than yourself, and luck played a role. What must ultimately motivate you is the work itself and the process.</li><li><strong>Inflexibility:</strong> avoid emotional extremes, and find a way to feel optimism and doubt at the same time.</li></ul><p><strong>Strategies for the Creative-Active Phase</strong></p><ul><li>The following are nine different strategic approaches to the same goal from the stories of nine Masters:</li></ul><p><strong>1. The Authentic Voice</strong></p><ul><li>Understand: the greatest impediment to creativity is your impatience, the almost inevitable desire to hurry up the process, express something, and make a splash.</li><li>What happens in such a case is that you do not master the basics; you have no real vocabulary at your disposal. What you mistake for being creative and distinctive is more likely an imitation of other people’s style, or personal rantings that do not really express anything.</li><li>The best route is to follow Coltrane and to love learning for its own sake.</li></ul><p><strong>2. The Fact of Great Yield</strong></p><ul><li>Instead of beginning with some broad goal - a business, an invention, a problem to be solved - go in search of great yield, empirical evidence that is strange and does not fit the paradigm, and yet is intriguing.</li><li>Although you are beginning in a particular field, do not allow your mind to become tethered to a discipline. Instead, read from many different fields, and look for interesting implications and anomalies in others that have implications in your own field.</li></ul><p><strong>3. Mechanical Intelligence</strong></p><ul><li>The principles behind mechanical intelligence can be summarized as follows: whatever you are creating or designing, you must test and use it yourself.</li><li>Separating out the work will make you lose touch with its functionality. Through intense labor on your part, you gain a feel for what you are creating. In doing this work, you see and feel the flaws in the design. You do not look at the parts separately but at how they interact, experiencing what you produce as a whole. What you are trying to create will not magically take off after a few creative bursts of inspiration, but must be slowly evolved through a step-by-step process as you correct the flaws.</li></ul><p><strong>4. Natural Powers</strong></p><ul><li>Build into the creative process an initial period that is open-ended.</li><li>Have wide knowledge of multiple fields.</li><li>Never settle into complacency, as if your initial vision represents the endpoint.</li><li>Finally, you must come to embrace slowness as a virtue in itself.</li><li>Imagine yourself years in the future looking back at the work you have done. From that future vantage point, the extra months and years you devoted to the process will not seem painful or laborious at all.</li></ul><p><strong>5. The Open Field</strong></p><ul><li>All fields have a way of thinking or acting that becomes a paradigm that people forget the initial reasons for.</li><li>To break out, begin by looking inward for something you want to express. Let the idea take root, and consciously decide to play against the conventions, and find the things you want to change or get rid of.</li></ul><p><strong>6. The High End</strong></p><ul><li>In order to learn a subject or skill, particularly a complex one, we must immerse ourselves in many details, techniques, and procedures that are standard for solving problems. If we are not careful, however, we get locked into seeing every problem the same way using these techniques.</li><li>To counter, make sure you keep a sense of the larger purpose and goal behind your work.</li></ul><p><strong>7. The Evolutionary Hijack</strong></p><ul><li>Oddly enough, they discovered that what really makes successful entrepreneurs is not the nature of their idea, or the university they went to, but their actual character—their willingness to adapt their idea and take advantage of possibilities they had not first imagined. This is precisely the trait—fluidity of mind—that Graham had identified in himself and in other inventors. The other essential character trait was supreme tenacity.</li><li>The lesson is simple—what constitutes true creativity is the openness and adaptability of our spirit. When we see or experience something we must be able to look at it from several angles, to see other possibilities beyond the obvious ones.</li><li>The difference then is not in some initial creative power of the brain, but in how we look at the world and the fluidity with which we can reframe what we see. Creativity and adaptability are inseparable.</li></ul><p><strong>8. Dimensional Thinking</strong></p><ul><li>You are not in a hurry. You look at the object of study from as many angles as possible, giving your thoughts added dimensions. You assume that the parts of any whole interact with one another and cannot be completely separated.</li><li>In your mind, you get as close to the complicated truth and reality of your object of study as possible.</li></ul><p><strong>9. Alchemical Creativity and the Unconscious</strong></p><ul><li>To imagine that something can be intellectual and sensual, pleasurable and painful, real and unreal, good and bad, masculine and feminine is too chaotic and disturbing for us. Life, however, is more fluid and complex; our desires and experiences do not fit neatly into these tidy categories.</li><li>Your task as a creative thinker is to actively explore the unconscious and contradictory parts of your personality, and to examine similar contradictions and tensions in the world at large. Expressing these tensions within your work in any medium will create a powerful effect on others, making them sense unconscious truths or feelings that have been obscured or repressed.</li><li>Understand: to create a meaningful work of art or to make a discovery or invention requires great discipline, self-control, and emotional stability. It requires mastering the forms of your field. Drugs and madness only destroy such powers.</li><li>When you look at the exceptionally creative work of Masters, you must not ignore the years of practice, the endless routines, the hours of doubt, and the tenacious overcoming of obstacles these people endured. Creative energy is the fruit of such efforts and nothing else.</li></ul><h4>VI: Fuse the Intuitive with the Rational: Mastery</h4><ul><li>All of us have access to a higher form of intelligence, one that can allow us to see more of the world, to anticipate trends, to respond with speed and accuracy to any circumstance. This intelligence is cultivated by deeply immersing ourselves in a field of study and staying true to our inclinations, no matter how unconventional our approach might seem to others.</li><li>Through intense absorption in a particular field over a long period of time, Masters come to understand all of the parts involved in what they are studying. They reach a point where all of this has become internalized and they are no longer seeing the parts, but gain an intuitive feel for the whole. They literally see or sense the dynamic.</li><li>The ability to have this intuitive grasp of the whole and feel this dynamic is simply a function of time.</li><li>It is not a matter of studying a subject for twenty years, and then emerging as a Master. The time that leads to mastery is dependent on the intensity of our focus.</li><li>The key, then, to attaining this higher level of intelligence is to make our years of study qualitatively rich. We don’t simply absorb information—we internalize it and make it our own by finding some way to put this knowledge to practical use. We look for connections between the various elements we are learning, hidden laws that we can perceive in the apprenticeship phase. If we experience any failures or setbacks, we do not quickly forget them because they offend our self-esteem. Instead we reflect on them deeply, trying to figure out what went wrong and discern whether there are any patterns to our mistakes.</li><li>Understand: this intuitive form of intelligence was developed to help us process complex layers of information and gain a sense of the whole. And in the world today, the need to attain such a level of thinking is more critical than ever before. To follow any career path is difficult, and requires the cultivation of much patience and discipline. We have so many elements to master that it can be intimidating. We must learn to handle the technical aspects, the social and political gamesmanship, the public reactions to our work, and the constantly changing picture in our field.</li><li>We must learn how to quiet the anxiety we feel whenever we are confronted with anything that seems complex or chaotic.</li><li>To go along with this self-control, we must do whatever we can to cultivate a greater memory capacity—one of the most important skills in our technologically oriented environment.</li><li>The problem that technology presents us is that it increases the amount of information at our disposal, but slowly degrades the power of our memory to retain it.</li><li>To counteract this, in our spare time we should not simply look for entertainment and distractions. We should take up hobbies—a game, a musical instrument, a foreign language—that bring pleasure but also offer us the chance to strengthen our memory capacities and the flexibility of our brain.</li></ul><p><strong>Strategies for Attaining Mastery</strong></p><ul><li>Mastery is not a function of genius or talent. It is a function of time and intense focus applied to a particular field of knowledge. But there is another element, an X factor that Masters inevitably possess, that seems mystical but that is accessible to us all.</li><li>And so inevitably, these Masters, as they progress on their career paths, make a choice at a key moment in their lives: they decide to forge their own route, one that others will see as unconventional, but that suits their own spirit and rhythms and leads them closer to discovering the hidden truths of their objects of study. This key choice takes self-confidence and self-awareness—the X factor that is necessary for attaining mastery.</li></ul><p>The following are examples of this X factor in action and the strategic choices it leads to. The examples given are meant to show the importance of this quality and how we might adapt it to our own circumstances.</p><p><strong>1. Connect to your environment—Primal Powers</strong></p><ul><li>Understand: the ability to connect deeply to your environment is the most primal and in many ways the most powerful form of mastery the brain can bring us. We gain such power by first transforming ourselves into consummate observers. We see everything in our surroundings as a potential sign to interpret. Nothing is taken at face value.</li><li>To become such sensitive observers, we must not succumb to all of the distractions afforded by technology; we must be a little primitive. The primary instruments that we depend on must be our eyes for observing and our brains for analyzing.</li></ul><p><strong>2. Play to your strengths—Supreme Focus</strong></p><ul><li>There are many paths to mastery, and if you are persistent you will certainly find one that suits you. But a key component in the process is determining your mental and psychological strengths and working with them. To rise to the level of mastery requires many hours of dedicated focus and practice. You cannot get there if your work brings you no joy and you are constantly struggling to overcome your own weaknesses. You must look deep within and come to an understanding of these particular strengths and weaknesses you possess, being as realistic as possible. Once you start in this direction, you will gain momentum. You will not be burdened by conventions, and you will not be slowed down by having to deal with skills that go against your inclinations and strengths. In this way, your creative and intuitive powers will be naturally awakened.</li><li>Understand: achieving mastery in life often depends on those first steps that we take. It is not simply a question of knowing deeply our Life’s Task, but also of having a feel for our own ways of thinking and for perspectives that are unique to us.</li></ul><p><strong>3. Transform yourself through practice—The Fingertip Feel</strong></p><ul><li>In our culture we tend to denigrate practice. We want to imagine that great feats occur naturally—that they are a sign of someone’s genius or superior talent. Getting to a high level of achievement through practice seems so banal, so uninspiring. Besides, we don’t want to have to think of the 10,000 to 20,000 hours that go into such mastery. These values of ours are oddly counterproductive—they cloak from us the fact that almost anyone can reach such heights through tenacious effort, something that should encourage us all.</li></ul><p><strong>4. Internalize the details—The Life Force</strong></p><ul><li>You must see whatever you produce as something that has a life and presence of its own. This presence can be vibrant and visceral, or it can be weak and lifeless.</li><li>Seeing your work as something alive, your path to mastery is to study and absorb these details in a universal fashion, to the point at which you feel the life force and can express it effortlessly in your work.</li></ul><p><strong>5. Widen your vision—the Global Perspective</strong></p><ul><li>In any competitive environment in which there are winners or losers, the person who has the wider, more global perspective will inevitably prevail. The reason is simple: such a person will be able to think beyond the moment and control the overall dynamic through careful strategizing.</li></ul><p><strong>6. Submit to the other—The Inside-out Perspective</strong></p><ul><li>Understand: we can never really experience what other people are experiencing. We always remain on the outside looking in, and this is the cause of so many misunderstandings and conflicts.</li><li>Through continual exposure to people and by attempting to think inside them we can gain an increasing sense of their perspective, but this requires effort on our part.</li></ul><p><strong>7. Synthesize all forms of knowledge—The Universal Man/Woman</strong></p><ul><li>Aspects of technology now offer unprecedented means to build connections between fields and ideas. The artificial barriers between the arts and the sciences will melt away under the pressure to know and to express our common reality. Our ideas will become closer to nature, more alive and organic. In any way possible, you should strive to be a part of this universalizing process, extending your own knowledge to other branches, further and further out. The rich ideas that will come from such a quest will be their own reward.</li></ul><p>REVERSAL</p><ul><li>The reversal to mastery is to deny its existence or its importance, and therefore the need to strive for it in any way. But such a reversal can only lead to feelings of powerlessness and disappointment. This reversal leads to enslavement to what we shall call the false self.</li><li>Your false self is the accumulation of all the voices you have internalized from other people—parents and friends who want you to conform to their ideas of what you should be like and what you should do, as well as societal pressures to adhere to certain values that can easily seduce you. It also includes the voice of your own ego, which constantly tries to protect you from unflattering truths.</li><li><strong>Mastery is not a question of genetics or luck, but of following your natural inclinations and the deep desire that stirs you from within.</strong> Everyone has such inclinations. <strong>This desire within you is not motivated by egotism or sheer ambition for power, both of which are emotions that get in the way of mastery. It is instead a deep expression of something natural, something that marked you at birth as unique.</strong> In following your inclinations and moving toward mastery, you make a great contribution to society, enriching it with discoveries and insights, and making the most of the diversity in nature and among human society. It is in fact the height of selfishness to merely consume what others create and to retreat into a shell of limited goals and immediate pleasures.</li><li>Your true self does not speak in words or banal phrases. Its voice comes from deep within you, from the substrata of your psyche, from something embedded physically within you. It emanates from your uniqueness, and it communicates through sensations and powerful desires that seem to transcend you. <strong>You cannot ultimately understand why you are drawn to certain activities or forms of knowledge. This cannot really be verbalized or explained. It is simply a fact of nature. In following this voice you realize your own potential, and satisfy your deepest longings to create and express your uniqueness. It exists for a purpose, and it is your Life’s Task to bring it to fruition.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Read the book notes for <a href="/book-notes/the-50th-law-robert-greene">The 50th Law - Robert Greene</a> and <a href="/book-notes/48-laws-of-power-robert-greene">48 Laws of Power - Robert Greene</a>.</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[In typical Mark Manson (who is known for The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck), this is a no-BS guidebook for men on dating. More actionable than something like The Art of Seduction and less manipulative than The Game, I’d recommend for anyone looking to up their attractiveness and success with women without resorting to weird techniques or essentially becoming an actor. One of the most applicable books I’ve read on love and dating.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4><strong>Part I: Reality</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 1: Non-Neediness</strong></h5><ul><li>A man&#x27;s attractiveness is inversely proportional to how needy he is.</li><li>Seduction is the process by which a man induces a woman to become as invested in him as he is in her. </li><li>The only real dating advice is self-improvement. Work on yourself. Conquer your anxieties. Resolve your shame. Take care of yourself and those who are important to you. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2: Power in Vulnerability</strong></h5><ul><li>I want you to think of vulnerability in a more broad way. Not just emotional vulnerability (although we’ll get to that), but physical vulnerability, social vulnerability.</li><li>Vulnerability represents a form of power, a deep and subtle form of power. It’s courageous, even. A man who’s able to make himself vulnerable is saying to the world, &quot;Screw the repercussions; this is who I am, and I refuse to be anyone else.&quot; He’s saying he is non-needy and high status.</li><li>A non-needy man is comfortable showing his flaws because he’s more comfortable with how he feels about himself than how others feel about him.</li><li>So the catch is that everything you say must be as authentic as possible. There’s no shortcut. There are no tricks. You say it because you mean it and mean it because you say it. The more nervous it makes you, the better, because it means you’re being authentic and making yourself vulnerable.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: The Gift of Truth</strong></h5><ul><li>Vulnerability requires honesty, and honesty only works if it’s given unconditionally, with no strings attached. That means everything you say and do must be done without any ulterior motive. You are simply expressing your thoughts and feelings as they come to you, without inhibition, without shame.</li><li>Friction is when a woman finds you to be an attractive man, but there are value differences or external circumstances that prevent her from acting on that attraction or being interested in you.</li><li>The uncomfortable truth is that the majority of women are going to have high degrees of friction and projection when you meet them. With most of the women you meet, things are simply not going to work no matter what you do or say. This is to be expected. And this is fine. You are going to be incompatible with most of the women in the world and to hold any hopes of being highly compatible with most is an illusion of grandeur and a figment of your own narcissistic tendency.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part II: Strategy</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 4: Polarization</strong></h5><ul><li><em>If you don’t find her attractive, don’t pursue her.</em></li><li>For practical purposes, we can divide up all of the women you’re attracted to into three categories: Receptive, Neutral and Unreceptive.</li><li>Women who are <em>Unreceptive</em> are just that: they’re unavailable and/or uninterested in having a sexual/romantic relationship with you. </li><li>The next category is <em>Neutral</em>. This category can be difficult for men to understand because it’s not as common for us as it is for women. </li><li>The goal with Neutral women is to polarize them through your words and behaviors. This may mean flirting with them or teasing them. It may mean asking her on a date. It may be as simple as smiling at her from across the room. Whatever it is, the goal with Neutral women is to take an action that forces her to make a decision about how she feels about you. Which side she polarizes to is far less important than actually taking action.</li></ul><p><strong>Strategies for Each Category</strong></p><ul><li>The Friend Zone typically occurs when a man meets a Receptive or Neutral woman but never makes a move or expresses his interest.</li><li>At the bar, the first question out of my mouth is one of my favorites for Neutral situations: &quot;What&#x27;s your favorite thing in the world?&quot;</li><li>This question will tell me two things: how passionate and self-aware she is about her own life, and secondly if we have anything in common. Women who are not passionate or self-aware I drop very quickly and go meet someone else. Women who share interests with me give me an opportunity to polarize them quickly to being Receptive.</li><li>The percentage of women who are Receptive to you will increase proportionally to the quality of your lifestyle, your social status, and your looks.</li><li>The percentage of women that you’re able to move from Neutral to Receptive will be proportional to how good your game is, or how well you’re able to communicate and express yourself with women.</li></ul><p><strong>Polarizing to Attract</strong></p><ul><li>Polarization is what occurs when you express your truth and make yourself vulnerable. When you tell a woman she is beautiful, you are polarizing her. When you tease her about her earrings and put your arm around her, you’re polarizing her. When you wear a custom-made suit when you go out, you are polarizing women. When you tell a woman who’s late to a date to never be late again, you are polarizing her. </li><li><em>Everything that is attractive is polarizing.</em></li><li>The biggest mental hurdle for many men is the ability to handle rejection.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5: Rejection and Success</strong></h5><ul><li>Business guru Dan Kennedy once said, &quot;Your ability to deal with the failure will determine how much you get to deal with success”.</li></ul><p><strong>It’s Usually Not About You</strong></p><ul><li>As soon as you realize that 95% of this attracting women stuff has nothing to do with you, is the moment you become free to pursue what you want without hesitation or fear.</li><li>There are a million extraneous circumstances completely outside of your control and at any given time, a large chunk of the women you meet and talk to are going to be experiencing one of them. The best you can do is to let it go and remember: <em>it’s not about you.</em></li></ul><p><strong>Redefining Success</strong></p><ul><li>I define success in a qualitative way: maximizing happiness with whichever woman/women I prefer to be with.</li><li>There are three ways in which we are honest. And those three ways will make up the bulk of this book. The three ways are:</li><li>1) living based on our values (lifestyle);</li><li>2) becoming comfortable with our intentions (boldness); and</li><li>3) by expressing our sexuality freely (communication.)</li><li>Lifestyle, Courage, and Communication: I refer to these as the Three Fundamentals.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6: The Three Fundamentals</strong></h5><ul><li>The Three Fundamentals are:</li><li>Creating an attractive and enriching lifestyle.</li><li>Overcoming your fears and anxiety around socializing, intimacy and sexuality.</li><li>Mastering the expression of your emotions and communicating fluidly.</li><li>Honest Living correlates directly with the <em>quality of women</em> that you will attract. </li><li>Honest Action correlates directly to the <em>quantity of women</em> you meet and attract. </li><li>I call it Honest Action because it is honesty in the strictest terms. If you see a beautiful woman and have a desire to meet her, to not take action and meet her is a form of being dishonest with yourself.</li><li>Honest Communication will determine the <em>efficiency</em> with which you are able to attract women who are compatible to you. </li><li>The third fundamental is Honest Communication, or learning to express yourself freely and effectively. This is what most dating advice sells and classifies as “game&quot; — a good sense of humor, the ability to connect with people, telling stories, engaging people’s attention, having charisma, and expressing your sexuality openly.</li></ul><p><strong>Two Types of Men</strong></p><ul><li>In my experience, almost all men who struggle with relationships fall into one of two categories: socially anxious or socially disconnected.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part III: Honest Living</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 7: Demographics</strong></h5><ul><li>Which women do you want to meet and what kind of relationship do you want to have with them?</li><li>This question of where and in what context you meet women is what I call <em>demographics.</em></li><li>The theory of demographics is simple and easy to remember: like attracts like. You attract what you are.</li><li>When demographics don’t match up, then it causes friction.</li><li>Sit down and think about what you value <em>most</em> in a woman, and then figure out where to find those types. </li></ul><p><strong>Beliefs and Self-Selection</strong></p><ul><li>To put it bluntly: whether you realize it or not, the results you get with women are always your fault. </li></ul><p><strong>Age, Money, and Looks</strong></p><ul><li>You <em>should</em> be as good-looking as you can possibly be. And you <em>should</em> be as financially successful as you can possibly be. </li><li>All things equal, looks and money always increase your odds.</li><li>But I would just add the caveat that you should be as good-looking as possible <em>for you</em>. You should be as financially successful as possible <em>for you.</em></li><li><strong>The more money/looks/success you have, the less attractive behavior you need. The less money/looks/success you have, the more attractive behavior you need.</strong></li><li>It’s all relative. The key is to 1) recognize your personal interests and strengths, and 2) build upon those personal interests and strengths to quickly attract women in your preferred demographic.</li></ul><p><strong>Social Proof</strong></p><ul><li>The goal is to cultivate as much social proof <em>within your demographic</em> as possible. </li><li>Don’t just pursue your interests, become a leader in your interests. </li></ul><p><strong>Being Something Versus Saying Something</strong></p><ul><li>If there’s one takeaway from this chapter, it’s that it is far more powerful to <em>be something</em> attractive rather than to <em>say something</em> attractive. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8: Lifestyle and Presentation</strong></h5><ul><li>The first and obvious step involves grooming and general maintenance. That means regular showering, shaving and haircuts, wearing deodorant, brushing and flossing your teeth, keeping clean fingernails, and wearing clean clothes.</li><li>There, now let’s move on to the two biggest factors on your appearance, the two F’s: Fashion and Fitness.</li><li>Bar none, fitness and fashion will do more to attract women in a shorter amount of time than anything else you can do. Being in decent shape and dressing well will make every phase of the process easier and smoother, from meeting women, to attracting them, to getting physical with them, to dating them, to staying in a relationship with them. There literally is no downside to either one.</li><li>There are a few rules to dressing well:</li><li>Wear clothes that fit.</li><li>Wear clothes that match.</li><li>Dress to your personality</li><li>For fitness: </li><li>Exercise, no matter what</li><li>Clean up your diet</li></ul><p><strong>Body Language</strong></p><ul><li>Basics: </li><li>Stand with your shoulders back, chest out, and back straight. </li><li>Walk with some swagger. </li><li>Always look straight ahead (instead of down). Look people in the eye as they walk by, and be the last to break eye contact. </li><li>Be expressive, and louder than you think you need to be with your voice. Talk from your chest. </li></ul><p><strong>Developing Character</strong></p><ul><li>You want to be someone with depth and character who has opinions and openly expresses those opinions. </li><li>As you go through life experiencing art and media, keep these concepts in mind: </li><li>Assume everything has a form of value; it’s your job to find it.</li><li>When expanding your horizons; start with what’s generally considered the best.</li><li>Think: “What would make me stand out from other guys?&quot; </li></ul><h4><strong>Part IV: Honest Action</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 9: What Are Your Stories?</strong></h5><ul><li>What are your stories? What do you tell yourself to justify that internal resistance inside you? And what stories can you tell yourself instead to remove as much of that resistance as possible?</li><li>The only important “skill&quot; in dating is learning how to stop buying into your own bullshit, to stop believing your own stories. The resistance is constant. You must fight against it, and ultimately take action.</li></ul><p><strong>Defense Mechanisms</strong></p><ul><li>Most of us have a lot of fear and shame bundled up in our sexuality. These fears usually manifest themselves in a handful of very specific scenarios:</li><li>Fear of approaching and starting a conversation with an attractive woman.</li><li>Fear of stating sexual interest either directly or indirectly (by asking for a phone number, calling a phone number, asking her out on a date, etc.)</li><li>Fear of initiating sexual contact (typically the first kiss situation).</li><li>Fear of actual sexual intercourse.</li><li>Whenever I’m confronted with something I’m afraid of, I pretend — or scratch that, <em>I convince myself</em> — that I don’t actually care. Here are some of the most common patterns that I’ve noticed: </li><li><strong>Blame Game</strong> — The Blame Game is where, when confronted with something he’s afraid of, a man blames someone or something else for his fear. </li><li><strong>Apathy and Avoidance</strong> — This has always been my Achilles’ heel, and it’s quite common. Experiencing apathy and avoidance is exactly as it says: it’s when a man convinces himself that he doesn’t care or that it’s not important to him. </li><li><strong>Intellectualizing</strong> — I guarantee that this is part of the reason you’re here: you have some sort of fear, anxiety or pain related to women, and instead of actually <em>doing</em> something about it, you got online and decided to look up an answer that you could study. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10: How to Overcome Anxiety</strong></h5><ul><li>The proper way to handle your fear and your anxiety is to accept it, recognize that it’s normal and a part of who you are, and to not even try to hide it from the woman you’re meeting.</li><li>The way to attack anxieties is through incremental, consistent exposure. Not single, extreme exposure.</li><li>So for instance, you could take an afternoon or your lunch break each day and make a point to approach a few women just asking for the time.</li><li>Then the next week, you go out and ask women what time it is followed by, &quot;How is your day going?&quot;</li><li>And each day, you slowly make it harder and more intensive.</li><li>Slowly work up until you’re able to approach women by telling them you think they’re attractive and asking them out on a date. You’ll be surprised how quickly you can get comfortable doing this.</li><li>The last thing I’ll say about this method before moving on is that you should only “focus&quot; on one thing at a time. And when I say focus on one thing at a time, I really mean only quantify one aspect of your interactions at a time.</li></ul><p><strong>Courage and Boldness</strong></p><ul><li>Feeling fear and acting despite it builds courage. Anytime you’re afraid to do something and feel some invisible force holding you back, yet you push through it anyway, you’re building courage within yourself.</li><li>Courage is a habit. Courage is a form of discipline. It’s taking a certain action even though you feel like doing something else. The difference here is that courage involves acting against fear, whereas discipline involves acting against laziness or fatigue.</li><li>Courage is built like a muscle.</li><li>Whenever you’re in doubt of what you should do, err on the side of assertiveness. Choose the bolder action.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part V: Honest Communication</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 11: Your Intentions</strong></h5><ul><li>How something you say is received depends on the intention behind it. </li></ul><p><strong>Creepiness</strong></p><ul><li>Paradoxically, the way to interact with women in a vulnerable way and, therefore, the way to combat creepiness, is to accept that some women will find you creepy some of the time. Just as with rejection, the more you’re willing to risk it, the less it will happen.</li></ul><p><strong>Sexual Tension</strong></p><ul><li><em>Flirting is expressing your sexuality to a woman in a way that makes her feel secure expressing her sexuality back towards you.</em></li><li>For the sake of time and space (and boredom), I’ll be grouping most methods of flirting into two different groups: teasing and boldness. Both teasing and bold types of flirting (whether it’s negging, false takeaways, or roleplaying) follow the same basic formula: they all involve breaking rapport in order to generate sexual tension.</li><li>Teasing type behaviors generate sexual tension because they generate uncertainty as to whether or not you’re actually interested in a woman.</li><li>For instance, let’s say you meet a woman and just come right out and say, &quot;I think you’re beautiful, I’d like to take you on a date.&quot;</li><li>But in reality, it’s one of the most powerful and practical things you can say. Not only is it vulnerable, as we’ve discussed at length, but it also builds far more sexual tension.</li></ul><p><strong>Developing an Emotional Connection</strong></p><ul><li>Your ability to connect with a woman emotionally is proportional to how self-aware you are of your own emotional processes and motivations.</li><li>How to do it? Here’s the basic pattern, and you should recognize a lot of overlap here with Chapter 2:</li><li>Becoming aware of your own emotions, motivations, and life story.</li><li>Taking the lead by sharing those emotions, motivations, and life story first.</li><li>Sharing first creates trust and encourages her to open up and share herself in return.</li><li>Ideally, the more this goes on, the more personal the stories become and the deeper the emotions are by which you connect.</li><li>And the most important rule of emotional connection is to relate to feelings, not facts. Seduction is about feelings, not facts.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 12: How to Improve Your Flirting</strong></h5><p><strong>First Impressions</strong></p><ul><li>First impressions are crucial. Studies show that we base the majority of our perception of people on the first few minutes we spend with them.</li><li><em>The exact words you say are far less important than your intentions and level of anxiety.</em></li><li>Ninety percent of the time when I meet a new woman, I simply say, &quot;Hi, I’m Mark.&quot; I then follow it up with, &quot;I wanted to meet you.&quot; And if I’m feeling particularly bold, I’ll say, &quot;I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you.&quot;</li><li>You can ask a woman how her day is going, or say the most perceptive and witty thing to her in the first minutes, but her first impression is largely going to be based on how you present yourself, your level of anxiety, and your ability to communicate clearly.</li><li>With that in mind, here are guidelines for making a good first impression:</li><li>Do <em>not</em> startle or scare her when you approach her. </li><li>When in doubt on how to approach a woman, simply walk up and introduce yourself and explain to her that you wanted to meet her. During the day, I often preface the introduction by saying something like, &quot;Excuse me, this is kind of random…” Also during the day, I usually tell them that I think they’re cute.</li><li>Don’t linger. Imagine a straight line between you and her, and when you’re ready to go, follow that straight line until you’re standing right in front of her. </li><li>Smile. Always smile. But smile like you’re a nice, friendly person. A comfortable smile. Lean back. Stand up tall. Speak loudly yet clearly. Make strong eye contact. Introduce yourself and stick out your hand. Give a firm handshake. This is called being a confident human being.</li></ul><p><strong>Conversation Skills</strong></p><ul><li>Use effective language: eliminate filler words. </li><li>Instead of asking questions, use statements - cold reading is best (ie. instead of asking the question, make a guess to the answer and state it). </li><li>Get better at jumping off to related topics to keep the conversation going (word association). </li><li>Get better at telling stories, and keep the three main points of a story in mind: set up, content/conflict, and resolution. </li><li>Everything you talk about should be, in some way, revealing your identity to her or vice versa. </li><li>Making a connection requires three steps: 1) being open about yourself, 2) getting her to be open about herself, and 3) relating to each other’s experiences.</li><li>Be willing to share any part of yourself to anyone at any time and on any level. You have nothing to lose by sharing yourself.</li></ul><p><strong>Humor</strong></p><ul><li>Humor is important, and you should work to get better at it (watch more stand-up comedians). </li><li>Avoid self-deprecating humour. </li><li>It’s only useful if used in conjunction with leading her in a dominant manner and pushing things physically with her. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 13: The Dating Process</strong></h5><p><strong>The Perfect Date</strong></p><ul><li>Don’t do lunch dates, and never make an afternoon date the first date if possible. 6-9pm is ideal. </li><li>No movie dates for first or second dates. </li><li>Good date locations are locations that are active, participatory, and allow for touching and flirting. Some good examples include comedy clubs, dance classes, museum exhibits, walks in interesting places (plazas, parks, etc.), concerts, or just grabbing a drink somewhere. </li><li>Once you’ve researched and found 4-6 venues and activities near your place that you enjoy doing, that are good date activities and are easily accessible, it’s time to start putting them together and do multiple things on each date. You should be doing 2-4 things on every date.</li><li>The underlying concept to have on a date is that you should try to constantly be leading.</li><li>Every decision should be yours and she should be expected to follow it. Remove, &quot;What do you want to do now?&quot; from your dating vocabulary. Never say it again.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 14: Physicality and Sex</strong></h5><ul><li>I’m going to say this point-blank: getting physical with women, and getting physical quickly and comfortably, is ultimately the difference between having a lot of female friends, and having a lot of girlfriends and dates.</li><li>There are two reasons for being physically assertive with women. The first is polarization. You want to establish whether she’s sexually interested in you as soon as you possibly can. The second reason is that being physical is bold and, therefore, a highly attractive form of flirting.</li><li>Studies have shown that people being touched by somebody when they first meet them not only have a much higher probability of thinking favorably of them, but they also were shown to trust them quicker.</li><li>The best way to touch is to integrate physicality into your conversation. For example, using games such as thumb wars, twirling her like a ballerina, or giving high fives are great ways to initiate physical contact.</li><li>When it comes to kissing a woman, there’s an old adage amongst dating coaches: if you think you can kiss her, you probably could have ten minutes ago.</li><li>When it comes to sex, more important than any physical technique — some cool angle or position or whatever — is being dominant.</li><li>The most important habit to develop, by far, is to talk and be expressive in the bedroom. There has to be an open forum of communication when you sleep with a woman, especially the first few times you’re together.</li><li>Have a sense of humor. Be understanding. <em>Relax.</em></li><li>One of my favorite jokes in the bedroom, when stuff goes awry, is, &quot;They make it look so easy in the movies.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>Closing</strong></h5><p><strong>Conclusion: Moving Ahead</strong></p><ul><li>This is a long-term process. Take things step-by-step, and continue improving. </li><li>Whatever happens to you, no matter how bad, no matter how bleak you feel, ask yourself, &quot;What if it was a gift?&quot; and then try to rationalize a way it could be so.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[An entertaining mix of autobiography & guide to writing. More focused on fiction than other writing guides, and easier to read. Lighter on writing and grammar rules, but useful because King shows that many of the commonly held beliefs about writing fiction can be ignored.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Chapter 1</strong></h5><ul><li>The idea that creative endeavor and mind-altering substances are entwined is one of the great pop-intellectual myths of our time. </li><li>It starts with this: put your desk in the corner, and every time you sit down there to write, remind yourself why it isn’t in the middle of the room. Life isn’t a support-system for art. It’s the other way around. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2 - What Writing Is</strong></h5><ul><li>Let me say it again: you must not come lightly to the blank page. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3 - Toolbox</strong></h5><ul><li>Remember that the basic rule of vocabulary is use the first word that comes to your mind, if it is appropriate and colorful. </li><li>Avoid the passive tense. </li><li>Avoid adverbs. </li><li>The best form of dialogue attribution is said. </li><li>There should be lots of short paragraphs and white space in an easy-to-read book. </li><li>Even in the informal essay, however, it’s possible to see how strong the basic paragraph form can be. Topic-sentence-followed-by-support-and-description insists that the writer organize his/her thoughts, and it also provides good insurance against wandering away from the topic. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4 - On Writing</strong></h5><ul><li>I am approaching the heart of this book with two theses, both simple. The first is that good writing consists of mastering the fundamentals (vocabulary, grammar, the elements of style) and then filling the third level of your toolbox with the right instruments. The second is that while it is impossible to make a competent writer out of a bad writer, and while it is equally impossible to make a great writer out of a good one, it is possible, with lots of hard work, dedication, and timely help, to make a good writer out of a merely competent one. </li><li>But if you don’t want to work your ass off, you have no business trying to write well—settle back into competency and be grateful you have even that much to fall back on. </li><li>If you want to be a writer, you must do two things above all others: read a lot and write a lot. </li><li>I believe the first draft of a book—even a long one—should take no more than three months, the length of a season. Any longer and—for me, at least—the story begins to take on an odd foreign feel. </li><li>I like to get ten pages a day, which amounts to 2,000 words. That’s 180,000 words over a three-month span, a goodish length for a book—something in which the reader can get happily lost, if the tale is done well and stays fresh. </li><li>The biggest aid to regular (Trollopian?) production is working in a serene atmosphere. </li><li>You can read anywhere, almost, but when it comes to writing, library carrels, park benches, and rented flats should be courts of last resort—Truman Capote said he did his best work in motel rooms, but he is an exception; most of us do our best in a place of our own. </li><li>By the time you step into your new writing space and close the door, you should have settled on a daily writing goal. As with physical exercise, it would be best to set this goal low at first, to avoid discouragement. I suggest a thousand words a day, and because I’m feeling magnanimous, I’ll also suggest that you can take one day a week off, at least to begin with. No more; you’ll lose the urgency and immediacy of your story if you do. </li><li>Now comes the big question: What are you going to write about? And the equally big answer: Anything you damn well want. Anything at all … as long as you tell the truth. </li><li>Write what you like, then imbue it with life and make it unique by blending in your own personal knowledge of life, friendship, relationships, sex, and work. Especially work. People love to read about work. God knows why, but they do. </li><li>In my view, stories and novels consist of three parts: narration, which moves the story from point A to point B and finally to point Z; description, which creates a sensory reality for the reader; and dialogue, which brings characters to life through their speech. </li><li>You may wonder where plot is in all this. The answer—my answer, anyway—is nowhere. </li><li>I’m not particularly keen on writing which exhaustively describes the physical characteristics of the people in the story and what they’re wearing. </li><li>I think locale and texture are much more important to the reader’s sense of actually being in the story than any physical description of the players. Nor do I think that physical description should be a shortcut to character. </li><li>The key to good description begins with clear seeing and ends with clear writing, the kind of writing that employs fresh images and simple vocabulary. </li><li>Your job is to say what you see, and then to get on with your story. </li><li><strong>Formula: 2nd Draft = 1st Draft - 10%</strong></li><li>You learn best by reading a lot and writing a lot, and the most valuable lessons of all are the ones you teach yourself. These lessons almost always occur with the study door closed. </li><li>The most important thing you can do for yourself is read the market. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5 - On Living: A Postscript</strong></h5><ul><li>Writing isn’t about making money, getting famous, getting dates, getting laid, or making friends. In the end, it’s about enriching the lives of those who will read your work, and enriching your own life, as well. It’s about getting up, getting well, and getting over. Getting happy, okay? Getting happy. </li><li>The rest of it—and perhaps the best of it—is a permission slip: you can, you should, and if you’re brave enough to start, you will. Writing is magic, as much the water of life as any other creative art. The water is free. So drink. </li></ul><h5><strong>And Furthermore, Part II: A Booklist</strong></h5><ul><li>Bryson, Bill: <em>A Walk in the Woods</em></li><li>Buckley, Christopher: <em>Thank You for Smoking</em></li><li>Dickens, Charles: <em>Oliver Twist</em></li><li>Faulkner, William: <em>As I Lay Dying</em></li><li>Gerritsen, Tess: <em>Gravity</em></li><li>Golding, William: <em>Lord of the Flies</em></li><li>Hunter, Stephen: <em>Dirty White Boys</em></li><li>Krakauer, Jon: <em>Into Thin Air</em></li><li>Lee, Harper: <em>To Kill a Mockingbird</em></li><li>Schwartz, John Burnham: <em>Reservation Road</em></li><li>Smith, Dinitia: <em>The Illusionist</em></li><li>Spencer, Scott: <em>Men in Black</em></li><li>Vonnegut, Kurt: <em>Hocus Pocus</em></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[On Writing Well by William Zinsser: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The best book on writing non-fiction I have read. Where Dreyer’s English and The Elements of Style focus on grammar and words, On Writing Well goes deeper and covers specific genres, composition, interviewing, and more.  If I had to recommend one book on how to write non-fiction well, this would be it.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>Two things happened with the arrival of the word processor: good writers got better and bad writers got worse. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part I - Principles</strong></h5><h5><strong>2 - Simplicity</strong></h5><ul><li>The secret of good writing is to strip every sentence to its cleanest components. </li><li>Clear thinking becomes clear writing; one can’t exist without the other. </li><li>Writers must therefore constantly ask: what am I trying to say? Surprisingly often they don’t know. Then they must look at what they have written and ask: have I said it? Is it clear to someone encountering the subject for the first time? </li><li>Try to avoid all words that end in “-ly”. Avoid words like “experiencing”. </li><li>If you might add, add it. If it should be pointed out, point it out. If it is interesting to note, make it interesting; are we not all stupefied by what follows when someone says, &quot;This will interest you&quot;? </li><li><strong>Simplify, simplify.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>4 - Style</strong></h5><ul><li>Be yourself. </li><li>To do this, you must relax, and have confidence. </li><li>I urge people to write in the first person: to use &quot;I&quot; and “me&quot; and “we&quot; and “us.&quot; They put up a fight. </li><li>If you aren’t allowed to use “I&quot;, at least think “I&quot; while you write, or write the first draft in the first person and then take the &quot;I&quot;s out. It will warm up your impersonal style. </li></ul><h5><strong>5 - The Audience</strong></h5><ul><li>Soon after you confront the matter of preserving your identity, another question will occur to you: &quot;Who am I writing for?&quot; </li><li>It’s a fundamental question, and it has a fundamental answer: You are writing for yourself. </li><li>Never say anything in writing that you wouldn’t comfortably say in conversation. </li></ul><h5><strong>6 - Words</strong></h5><ul><li>If all your sentences move at the same plodding gait, which even you recognize as deadly but don’t know how to cure, read them aloud. </li><li>There is a kind of writing that might be called journalese, and it’s the death of freshness in anybody’s style. It’s the common currency of newspapers and of magazines like People—a mixture of cheap words, made-up words and clichés that have become so pervasive that a writer can hardly help using them. You must fight these phrases or you’ll sound like every hack. </li><li>What is “journalese&quot;? It’s a quilt of instant words patched together out of other parts of speech. Adjectives are used as nouns (“greats&quot;, “notables&quot;). Nouns are used as verbs (&quot;to host&quot;), or they are chopped off to form verbs (“enthuse&quot;, “emote&quot;), or they are padded to form verbs (&quot;beef up&quot;, &quot;put teeth into&quot;). This is a world where eminent people are “famed&quot; and their associates are “staffers&quot;, where the future is always “upcoming&quot; and someone is forever &quot;firing off&quot; a note. Nobody in America has sent a note or a memo or a telegram in years. </li><li>Use a dictionary, and use a dictionary of synonyms. Avoid journalese. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part II - Methods</strong></h5><h5><strong>8 - Unity</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>You learn to write by writing</strong>. It’s a truism, but what makes it a truism is that it’s true. The only way to learn to write is to force yourself to produce a certain number of words on a regular basis. </li><li>In fact, any tone is acceptable. But don’t mix two or three. </li><li>Therefore ask yourself some basic questions before you start. For example: </li><li>In what capacity am I going to address the reader? (Reporter? Provider of information? Average man or woman?) </li><li>What pronoun and tense am I going to use? What style?&quot; (Impersonal reportorial? Personal but formal? Personal and casual?) </li><li>What attitude am I going to take toward the material? (Involved? Detached? Judgmental? Ironic? Amused?) </li><li>How much do I want to cover? What one point do I want to make? </li><li>Every writing project must be reduced before you start to write. </li><li>Therefore think small. Decide what corner of your subject you’re going to bite off, and be content to cover it well and stop. </li><li>As for what point you want to make, every successful piece of nonfiction should leave the reader with one provocative thought that he or she didn’t have before. </li></ul><h5><strong>9 - The Lead and the Ending</strong></h5><ul><li>The most important sentence in any article is the first one. If it doesn’t induce the reader to proceed to the second sentence, your article is dead. And if the second sentence doesn’t induce him to continue to the third sentence, it’s equally dead. Of such a progression of sentences, each tugging the reader forward until he is hooked, a writer constructs that fateful unit, the “lead.&quot; </li><li>Therefore your lead must capture the reader immediately and force him to keep reading. It must cajole him with freshness, or novelty, or paradox, or humor, or surprise, or with an unusual idea, or an interesting fact, or a question. </li><li>Next the lead must do some real work. It must provide hard details that tell the reader why the piece was written and why he ought to read it. But don’t dwell on the reason. Coax the reader a little more; keep him inquisitive. </li><li>One moral of this story is that you should always collect more material than you will use. </li><li>Another moral is to look for your material everywhere, not just by reading the obvious sources and interviewing the obvious people. </li><li>Knowing when to end an article is far more important than most writers realize. You should give as much thought to choosing your last sentence as you did to your first. Well, almost as much. </li><li>The perfect ending should take your readers slightly by surprise and yet seem exactly right. They didn’t expect the article to end so soon, or so abruptly, or to say what it said. But they know it when they see it. Like a good lead, it works. </li><li>For the nonfiction writer, the simplest way of putting this into a rule is: when you’re ready to stop, stop. If you have presented all the facts and made the point you want to make, look for the nearest exit. </li><li>But what usually works best is a quotation. Go back through your notes to find some remark that has a sense of finality, or that’s funny, or that adds an unexpected closing detail. </li><li>Surprise is the most refreshing element in nonfiction writing. If something surprises you it will also surprise—and delight—the people you are writing for, especially as you conclude your story and send them on their way. </li></ul><h5><strong>10 - Bits &amp; Pieces</strong></h5><p>VERBS. </p><ul><li>Use active verbs unless there is no comfortable way to get around using a passive verb. </li><li>Short is better than long. </li></ul><p>ADVERBS. </p><ul><li>Most adverbs are unnecessary. </li></ul><p>ADJECTIVES. </p><ul><li>Most adjectives are also unnecessary. </li><li>Again, the rule is simple: make your adjectives do work that needs to be done. </li></ul><p>LITTLE QUALIFIERS </p><ul><li>Prune out the small words that qualify how you feel and how you think and what you saw: &quot;a bit&quot;, &quot;a little&quot;, &quot;sort of&quot;, &quot;kind of&quot;, &quot;rather&quot;, &quot;quite&quot;, &quot;very&quot;, &quot;too&quot;, &quot;pretty much&quot;, &quot;in a sense&quot; and dozens more. They dilute your style and your persuasiveness. </li></ul><p>MOOD CHANGERS </p><ul><li>Learn to alert the reader as soon as possible to any change in mood from the previous sentence. </li></ul><p>CONTRACTIONS. </p><ul><li>Your style will be warmer and truer to your personality if you use contractions like &quot;I’ll&quot; and &quot;won’t&quot; and &quot;can’t&quot; when they fit comfortably into what you’re writing. </li><li>I only suggest avoiding one form—&quot;I’d&quot;, &quot;he’d&quot;, &quot;we’d&quot;, etc.—because &quot;I’d&quot; can mean both &quot;I had&quot; and &quot;I would&quot;, and readers can get well into a sentence before learning which meaning it is. </li></ul><p>THAT AND WHICH </p><ul><li>Always use &quot;that&quot; unless it makes your meaning ambiguous. </li></ul><p>THE QUICKEST FIX. </p><ul><li>Surprisingly often a difficult problem in a sentence can be solved by simply getting rid of it. </li></ul><p>REWRITING </p><ul><li>Rewriting is the essence of writing well: it’s where the game is won or lost. </li></ul><p>GO WITH YOUR INTERESTS </p><ul><li>No area of life is stupid to someone who takes it seriously. If you follow your affections you will write well and will engage your readers. </li><li>Write about your hobbies: cooking, gardening, photography, knitting, antiques, jogging, sailing, scuba diving, tropical birds, tropical fish. </li><li>Write about your work: teaching, nursing, running a business, running a store. </li><li>Write about a field you enjoyed in college and always meant to get back to: history, biography, art, archaeology. </li><li>No subject is too specialized or too quirky if you make an honest connection with it when you write about it. </li></ul><h5><strong>12 - Writing About People</strong></h5><p>The Interview </p><ul><li>Get people talking. Learn to ask questions that will elicit answers about what is most interesting or vivid in their lives. Nothing so animates writing as someone telling what he thinks or what he does—in his own words. </li></ul><h5><strong>13 - Writing About Places</strong></h5><p>The Travel Article </p><ul><li>Next to knowing how to write about people, you should know how to write about a place. People and places are the twin pillars on which most nonfiction is built. Every human event happens somewhere, and the reader wants to know what that somewhere was like. </li><li>How can you overcome such fearful odds and write well about a place? My advice can be reduced to two principles—one of style, the other of substance. </li><li>First, choose your words with unusual care. If a phrase comes to you easily, look at it with deep suspicion; it’s probably one of the countless clichés that have woven their way so tightly into the fabric of travel writing that you have to make a special effort not to use them. </li><li>As for substance, be intensely selective. If you are describing a beach, don’t write that &quot;the shore was scattered with rocks&quot; or that &quot;occasionally a seagull flew over.&quot; Shores have a tendency to be scattered with rocks and to be flown over by seagulls. Eliminate every such fact that is a known attribute: don’t tell us that the sea had waves and the sand was white. </li><li>Your main task as a travel writer is to find the central idea of the place you’re dealing with. </li><li>Finally, however, what brings a place alive is human activity: people doing the things that give a locale its character. </li><li>Never be afraid to write about a place that you think has had every last word written about it. It’s not your place until you write about it. </li></ul><h5><strong>16 - Business Writing</strong></h5><p>Writing in Your Job </p><ul><li>The way to warm up any institution is to locate the missing &quot;I&quot;. Remember: “I&quot; is the most interesting element in any story. </li></ul><h5><strong>19 - Humor</strong></h5><ul><li>This heightening of some crazy truth—to a level where it will be seen as crazy—is the essence of what serious humorists are trying to do. </li><li>&quot;I’m here and I’m involved&quot;: make that your creed if you want to write serious humor. Humorists operate on a deeper current than most people suspect. </li></ul><h5><strong>PART IV - Attitudes</strong></h5><h5><strong>20 - The Sound of Your Voice</strong></h5><ul><li>Don’t alter your voice to fit your subject. Develop one voice that readers will recognize when they hear it on the page, a voice that’s enjoyable not only in its musical line but in its avoidance of sounds that would cheapen its tone: breeziness and condescension and clichés. </li></ul><h5><strong>21 - Enjoyment, Fear and Confidence</strong></h5><ul><li>Living is the trick. Writers who write interestingly tend to be men and women who keep themselves interested. </li><li>If you write about subjects you think you would enjoy knowing about, your enjoyment will show in what you write. Learning is a tonic. </li><li>If you want your writing to convey enjoyment, write about people you respect. </li><li>The moral for nonfiction writers is: think broadly about your assignment. </li><li>I mention this to give confidence to all nonfiction writers: a point of craft. If you master the tools of the trade—the fundamentals of interviewing and of orderly construction—and if you bring to the assignment your general intelligence and your humanity, you can write about any subject. That’s your ticket to an interesting life. </li></ul><h5><strong>23 - A Writer’s Decisions</strong></h5><ul><li>The hardest decision about any article is how to begin it. The lead must grab the reader with a provocative idea and continue with each paragraph to hold him or her in a tight grip, gradually adding information. </li><li>Now, what do your readers want to know next? Ask yourself that question after every sentence. </li><li>At such moments I ask myself one very helpful question: &quot;What is the piece really about?&quot; (Not just &quot;What is the piece about?&quot;) Fondness for material you’ve gone to a lot of trouble to gather isn’t a good enough reason to include it if it’s not central to the story you’ve chosen to tell. Self-discipline bordering on masochism is required. </li><li>As a nonfiction writer you must get on the plane. If a subject interests you, go after it, even if it’s in the next county or the next state or the next country. It’s not going to come looking for you. </li><li>Decide what you want to do. Then decide to do it. Then do it. </li></ul><h5><strong>25 - Write as Well as You Can</strong></h5><ul><li>Where, then, is the edge? Ninety percent of the answer lies in the hard work of mastering the tools discussed in this book. Add a few points for such natural gifts as a good musical ear, a sense of rhythm and a feeling for words. But the final advantage is the same one that applies in every other competitive venture. If you would like to write better than everybody else, you have to want to write better than everybody else. You must take an obsessive pride in the smallest details of your craft. </li><li>But finally the purposes that writers serve must be their own. What you write is yours and nobody else’s. Take your talent as far as you can and guard it with your life. Only you know how far that is; no editor knows. Writing well means believing in your writing and believing in yourself, taking risks, daring to be different, pushing yourself to excel. 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            <description><![CDATA[A fascinating book with an extraordinary amount of information.  It’s difficult to get through because of the sheer quantity of information, but worth reading for Part 1 and 2 alone (focused on Life Principles).Part 3 is the complete list of principles based around running Bridgewater, and is mostly relevant for running a large (or at least, not small) organization, so may be of limited use to some.  Would certainly recommend reading the first two parts in detail, and then investigating only the rules you find interesting in Part 3.  Overall, a practical guide to both life and running an organization, and a brief look into the mind of one of the world’s top performers.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>Introduction</h4><ul><li>Principles are concepts that can be applied over and over again in similar circumstances as distinct from narrow answers to specific questions.</li><li>So, when digesting each principle, please...ask yourself: Is it true?</li></ul><h4>Part 1: The Importance of Principles</h4><ul><li>Values: what you consider important.</li><li>Principles: what allow you to live a life consistent with those values.</li><li>Adopting pre-packaged principles without much thought exposes you to the risk of inconsistency with your true values.</li><li>Your principles will determine your standards of behavior. When you enter into relationships with other people, your and their principles will determine how you interact.</li><li>People who have shared values and principles get along. People who don’t will suffer through constant misunderstandings and conflict with one another.</li><li>To be successful, you must make correct, tough choices. You must be able to &quot;cut off a leg to save a life,&quot; both on an individual level and, if you lead people, on a group level.</li></ul><h4>Part 2: My Most Fundamental Life Principles</h4><ul><li>I want you to work for yourself, to come up with independent opinions, to stress-test them, to be wary about being overconfident, and to reflect on the consequences of your decisions and constantly improve.</li><li>I learned that failure is by and large due to not accepting and successfully dealing with the realities of life, and that achieving success is simply a matter of accepting and successfully dealing with all my realities.</li><li>I learned that one of the greatest sources of problems in our society arises from people having loads of wrong theories in their heads—often theories that are critical of others—that they won’t test by speaking to the relevant people about them.</li><li>I learned that everyone makes mistakes and has weaknesses and that one of the most important things that differentiates people is their approach to handling them.</li><li>I met a number of great people and learned that none of them were born great—they all made lots of mistakes and had lots weaknesses—and that great people become great by looking at their mistakes and weaknesses and figuring out how to get around them.</li><li>In short, I learned that being totally truthful, especially about mistakes and weaknesses, led to a rapid rate of improvement and movement toward what I wanted.</li><li>While most others seem to believe that having answers is better than having questions, I believe that having questions is better than having answers because it leads to more learning.</li><li>While most others seem to believe that finding out about one’s weaknesses is a bad thing, I believe that it is a good thing because it is the first step toward finding out what to do about them and not letting them stand in your way.</li><li>What I wanted was to have an interesting, diverse life filled with lots of learning—and especially meaningful work and meaningful relationships. I feel that I have gotten these in abundance and I am happy.</li><li>The people who really change the world are the ones who see what’s possible and figure out how to make that happen.</li></ul><h5>My Most Fundamental Principles</h5><p>My most fundamental principle:</p><ul><li>Truth —more precisely, an accurate understanding of reality— is the essential foundation for producing good outcomes.</li><li>Good = operating consistently with reality (the natural laws that govern our universe); bad = operating inconsistently with reality.</li><li>I believe that evolution, which is the natural movement toward better adaptation, is the greatest single force in the universe, and that it is good.</li><li>I believe that the desire to evolve, i.e., to get better, is probably humanity’s most pervasive driving force. Enjoying your job, a craft, or your favorite sport comes from the innate satisfaction of getting better.</li><li>In other words, the sequence of 1) seeking new things (goals); 2) working and learning in the process of pursuing these goals; 3) obtaining these goals; and 4) then doing this over and over again is the personal evolutionary process that fulfills most of us and moves society forward.</li><li>I believe that pursuing self-interest in harmony with the laws of the universe and contributing to evolution is universally rewarded, and what I call “good.&quot;</li><li>In other words, there is an excellent correlation between giving society what it wants and making money, and almost no correlation between the desire to make money and how much money one makes.</li><li>It is extremely important to one’s happiness and success to know oneself—most importantly to understand one’s own values and abilities—and then to find the right fits. We all have things that we value that we want and we all have strengths and weaknesses that affect our paths for getting them. The most important quality that differentiates successful people from unsuccessful people is our capacity to learn and adapt to these things.</li></ul><h5>The Personal Evolutionary Process</h5><p>In short:</p><ul><li>Reality + Dreams + Determination = A Successful Life</li><li>Also, for most people happiness is much more determined by how things turn out relative to their expectations rather than the absolute level of their conditions.</li><li>This basic principle suggests that you can follow one of two paths to happiness: 1) have high expectations and strive to exceed them, or 2) lower your expectations so that they are at or below your conditions. Most of us choose the first path, which means that to be happy we have to keep evolving.</li><li>Another principle to keep in mind is that people need meaningful work and meaningful relationships in order to be fulfilled. I have observed this to be true for virtually everyone, and I know that it’s true for me.</li></ul><h5>Your Most Important Choices</h5><p><strong>First:</strong></p><ul><li>Allow pain to stand in the way of progress, or understand how to manage pain to produce progress.</li><li>Pain + Reflection = Progress</li></ul><p><strong>Second: </strong></p><ul><li>Face, or don’t face, “harsh realities”.</li><li>Ask yourself, is it true?</li></ul><p><strong>Third: </strong></p><ul><li>Worry about appearing good or worry about achieving the goal.</li><li>Worrying about appearing good typically results in hiding weaknesses instead of learning about them.</li><li>What are your biggest weaknesses? Think honestly and write them down, and look at them frequently.</li></ul><p><strong>Fourth:</strong></p><ul><li>Make decisions based on first-order consequences, or on first-, second-, and third-order consequences.</li><li>Example: exercise. First-order consequences: pain and time-sink vs. Second-order: better health and appearance.</li></ul><p><strong>Fifth:</strong></p><ul><li>Hold, or don’t hold, themselves accountable.</li><li>How much do you let yourself off the hook vs. hold yourself accountable for your success?</li></ul><p>In summary, I believe that you can probably get what you want out of life if you can suspend your ego and take a no-excuses approach to achieving your goals with open-mindedness, determination, and courage, especially if you rely on the help of people who are strong in areas that you are weak.</p><p>If I had to pick just one quality that those who make the right choices have, it is character. Character is the ability to get one’s self to do the difficult things that produce the desired results</p><p>In summary, I don’t believe that limited abilities are an insurmountable barrier to achieving your goals, if you do the other things right.</p><h5>My 5-Step Process to Getting What You Want Out of Life</h5><p>In other words, “The Process” consists of five distinct steps:</p><ul><li>Have clear goals.</li><li>Identify and don’t tolerate the problems that stand in the way of achieving your goals.</li><li>Accurately diagnose these problems.</li><li>Design plans that explicitly lay out tasks that will get you around your problems and on to your goals.</li><li>Implement these plans—i.e., do these tasks.</li></ul><p>You need to do all these steps well in order to be successful.</p><p>Note:</p><ol><li>You must approach these as distinct steps rather than blur them together.</li><li>Each of these five steps requires different talents and disciplines. Most probably, you have lots of some of these and inadequate amounts of others. If you are missing any of the required talents and disciplines, that is not an insurmountable problem because you can acquire them, supplement them, or compensate for not having them, if you recognize your weaknesses and design around them. So you must be honestly self-reflective.</li><li>It is essential to approach this process in a very clear-headed, rational way rather than emotionally. Figure out what techniques work best for you;</li></ol><p>To help you do these things well—and stay centered and effective rather than stressed and thrown off by your emotions—try this technique for reducing the pressure: treat your life like a game or a martial art.</p><h5>The 5 Steps Close-Up</h5><p><strong>1. Setting Goals</strong></p><ul><li><strong>You can have virtually anything you want, but you can’t have everything you want.</strong></li><li>Some people fail at this point, afraid to reject a good alternative for fear that the loss will deprive them of some essential ingredient to their personal happiness. As a result, they pursue too many goals at the same time, achieving few or none of them.</li><li>Put another way, to achieve your goals you have to prioritize, and that includes rejecting good alternatives (so that you have the time and resources to pursue even better ones—time being probably your greatest limiting factor, though, through leverage, you can substantially reduce time’s constraints).</li><li>It is important not to confuse “goals&quot; and “desires.&quot;</li><li>Goals are the things that you really want to achieve, while desires are things you want that can prevent you from reaching your goals—as I previously explained, desires are typically first-order consequences.</li><li>Avoid setting goals based on what you think you can achieve.</li><li>As I said before, do each step separately and distinctly without regard to the others. In this case, that means don’t rule out a goal due to a superficial assessment of its attainability.</li><li>Achieving your goals isn’t just about moving forward.</li><li>So goals aren’t just those things that you want and don’t have. They might also be keeping what you do have, minimizing your rate of loss, or dealing with irrevocable loss.</li><li>Generally speaking, goal-setting is best done by those who are good at big-picture conceptual thinking, synthesizing, visualizing, and prioritizing.</li></ul><p><strong>2. Identifying and Not Tolerating Problems</strong></p><ul><li>Most problems are potential improvements screaming at you.</li><li>Whenever a problem surfaces, you have in front of you an opportunity to improve. The more painful the problem, the louder it is screaming. In order to be successful, you have to 1) perceive problems and 2) not tolerate them.</li><li>If you don’t identify your problems, you won’t solve them, so you won’t move forward toward achieving your goals. As a result, it is essential to bring problems to the surface.</li><li>The most common reasons people don’t successfully identify their problems are generally rooted either in a lack of will or in a lack of talent or skill:</li><li>They can be &quot;harsh realities&quot; that are unpleasant to look at, so people often subconsciously put them out of sight so they will be &quot;out of mind.&quot;</li><li>People often worry more about appearing to not have problems than about achieving their desired results, and therefore avoid recognizing that their own mistakes and/or weaknesses are causing the problems.</li><li>Try to look at your problems as a detached observer would. Remember that identifying problems is like finding gems embedded in puzzles; if you solve the puzzles you will get the gems that will make your life much better. Doing this continuously will lead to your rapid evolution. So, if you’re logical, you really should get excited about finding problems because identifying them will bring you closer to your goals.</li><li>Be very precise in specifying your problems.</li><li>Don’t confuse problems with causes.</li><li>I can’t get enough sleep is not a problem; it is a cause of some problem. What exactly is that problem? To avoid confusing the problem with its causes, try to identify the suboptimal outcome, e.g., I am performing badly in my job because I am tired.</li><li>Once you identify your problems, you must not tolerate them.</li><li>Tolerating problems has the same result as not identifying them (i.e., both stand in the way of getting past the problem), but the root causes are different. Tolerating problems might be due to not thinking that they can be solved, or not caring enough about solving them. People who tolerate problems are the worse off because, without the motivation to move on, they cannot succeed.</li></ul><p><strong>3. Diagnosing the Problems</strong></p><ul><li>You will be much more effective if you focus on diagnosis and design rather than jumping to solutions.</li><li>It is a very common mistake for people to move directly from identifying a tough problem to a proposed solution in a nanosecond without spending the hours required to properly diagnose and design a solution. This typically yields bad decisions that don’t alleviate the problem. Diagnosing and designing are what spark strategic thinking.</li><li>You must be calm and logical.</li><li>You must get at the root causes.</li><li>Root causes, like principles, are things that manifest themselves over and over again as the deep-seated reasons behind the actions that cause problems. So you will get many everlasting dividends if you can find them and properly deal with them.</li><li>Recognizing and learning from one’s mistakes and the mistakes of others who affect outcomes is critical to eliminating problems.</li><li>More than anything else, what differentiates people who live up to their potential from those who don’t is a willingness to look at themselves and others objectively.</li><li>The most important qualities for successfully diagnosing problems are logic, the ability to see multiple possibilities, and the willingness to touch people’s nerves to overcome the ego barriers that stand in the way of truth.</li></ul><p><strong>4. Designing the Plan (Determining the Solutions)</strong></p><ul><li>Creating a design is like writing a movie script in that you visualize who will do what through time in order to achieve the goal.</li><li>Visualize the goal or problem standing in your way, and then visualize practical solutions. When designing solutions, the objective is to change how you do things so that problems don’t recur—or recur so often.</li><li>Think about each problem individually, and as the product of root causes—like the outcomes produced by a machine. Then think about how the machine should be changed to produce good outcomes rather than bad ones.</li><li>Then write down the plan so you don’t lose sight of it, and include who needs to do what and when. The list of tasks falls out from this story (i.e., the plan), but they are not the same. The story, or plan, is what connects your goals to the tasks. For you to succeed, you must not lose sight of the goals or the story while focusing on the tasks; you must constantly refer back and forth.</li><li>When designing your plan, think about the timelines of various interconnected tasks. Sketch them out loosely and then refine them with the specific tasks. This is an iterative process, alternating between sketching out your broad steps (e.g., hire great people) and filling these in with more specific tasks with estimated timelines (e.g., in the next two weeks choose the headhunters to find the great people) that will have implications (e.g., costs, time, etc.). These will lead you to modify your design sketch until the design and tasks work well together. Being as specific as possible (e.g., specifying who will do what and when) allows you to visualize how the design will work at both a big-picture level and in detail. It will also give you and others the to-do lists and target dates that will help direct you.</li><li>It doesn’t take much time to design a good plan—literally just hours spread out over days or weeks—and whatever amount of time you spend designing it will be only a small fraction of the time you spend executing it. But designing is very important because it determines what you will have to do to be effective. Most people make the very big mistake of spending virtually no time on this step because they are too preoccupied with execution.</li></ul><p><strong>5. Doing the Tasks</strong></p><ul><li>Next, you and the others you need to rely on have to do the tasks that will get you to your goals. Great planners who don’t carry out their plans go nowhere. You need to &quot;push through&quot; to accomplish the goals.</li><li>I believe the importance of good work habits is vastly underrated. There are lots of books written about good work habits, so I won’t digress into what I believe is effective. However, it is critical to know each day what you need to do and have the discipline to do it. People with good work habits have to-do lists that are reasonably prioritized, and they make themselves do what needs to be done. By contrast, people with poor work habits almost randomly react to the stuff that comes at them, or they can’t bring themselves to do the things they need to do but don’t like to do (or are unable to do).</li><li>People who are good at this stage can reliably execute a plan. They tend to be self-disciplined and proactive rather than reactive to the blizzard of daily tasks that can divert them from execution. They are results-oriented: they love to push themselves over the finish line to achieve the goal. If they see that daily tasks are taking them away from executing the plan (i.e., they identify this problem), they diagnose it and design how they can deal with both the daily tasks and moving forward with the plan.</li><li>As with the other steps, if you aren’t good at this step, get help. There are many successful, creative people who are good at the other steps but who would have failed because they aren’t good at execution. But they succeeded nonetheless because of great symbiotic relationships with highly reliable task-doers.</li></ul><h5>Weaknesses Don’t Matter if You Find Solutions</h5><p>Most importantly, ask yourself what is your biggest weakness that stands in the way of what you want.</p><p>It is difficult to see one’s own blind spots for two reasons:</p><ol><li>Most people don’t go looking for their weaknesses because of &quot;ego barriers&quot;—they find having weaknesses painful because society has taught them that having weaknesses is bad.</li><li>Having a weakness is like missing a sense—if you can’t visualize what it is, it’s hard to perceive not having it.</li></ol><p>Because I believe that you will achieve your goals if you do these five steps well, it follows that if you are not achieving your goals you can use the 5-Step Process as a diagnostic tool. You would do this by 1) identifying the step(s) that you are failing at; 2) noting the qualities required to succeed at that step; and 3) identifying which of these qualities you are missing.</p><p>In a nutshell, my 5-Step process for achieving what you want is:</p><ul><li><strong>Values → 1) Goals → 2) Problems → 3) Diagnoses → 4) Designs → 5) Tasks</strong></li></ul><p>As you design and implement your plan to achieve your goals, you may find it helpful to consider that:</p><p>Life is like a game where you seek to overcome the obstacles that stand in the way of achieving your goals;</p><p>You get better at this game through practice;</p><h4>Part 3: My Management Principles</h4><ul><li>While individuals operating individually can choose whatever values and principles they like, when working in a group the people must agree on the group’s values and principles. If the group is not clear about them, confusion and eventually gravitation toward the population’s averages will result. If the group’s values and principles are clear, their way of being (i.e., their culture) will permeate everything they do. It will drive how the people in the group set goals, identify problems, diagnose problems, design solutions and make sure that these designs are implemented.</li><li>While having a clearly conveyed great culture is important, that’s only half of the magic formula. The other half is having great people—i.e., people who have the values, abilities, skills that fit the organization’s culture.</li></ul><h5>List of Principles</h5><p>[Graham]: There are 210 principles in this section, many focused on the details of running a large (or at least not small) organization, and so I’ve left many out. I’ve included ones I’ve found most relevant at the time of writing.</p><p>Be extremely open and truthful, and create an environment in which all your people speak up.</p><p>5) Have integrity and demand it from others.</p><p>5a) Never say anything about a person you wouldn’t say to them directly , and don’t try people without accusing them to their face.</p><p>6) Be radically transparent.</p><p>8) Create a culture in which it is ok to make mistakes by unacceptable not to identify, analyze, and learn from them.</p><p><strong>10) Do not feel bad about your mistakes or those of others. Love them!</strong> Remember that 1) they are to be expected, 2) they’re the first and most essential part of the learning process, and 3) feeling bad about them will prevent you from getting better. People typically feel bad about mistakes because they think in a short-sighted way that mistakes reflect their badness or because they’re worried about being punished (or not being rewarded).</p><ul><li><strong>Good school learners are often bad mistake-based learners because they are bothered by their mistakes</strong>. I particularly see this problem in recent graduates from the best colleges, who frequently shy away from exploring their own weaknesses. Remember that intelligent people who are open to recognizing and learning from their weaknesses substantially outperform people with the same abilities who aren’t similarly open.</li></ul><p>18) Be self-reflective and make sure your people are self-reflective. This quality differentiates those who evolve fast from those who don’t.</p><p>24) Be assertive and open-minded at the same time. Just try to find out what is true. Don’t try to ‘win’ the argument.</p><p>26) Recognize that conflicts are essential for great relationships because they are the means by which people determine whether their principles are aligned and resolve their differences. I believe that in all relationships, including the most treasured ones, 1) there are principles and values each person has that must be in synch for the relationship to be successful and 2) there must be give and take. I believe there is always a kind of negotiation or debate between people based on principles and mutual consideration. What you learn about each other via that “negotiation&quot; either draws you together or drives you apart.</p><ul><li>If your principles are aligned and you can work out your differences via a process of give and take, you will draw closer together. If not, you will move apart.</li></ul><p><strong>30) Don’t treat all opinions as equally valuable. Almost everyone has an opinion, but many are worthless or harmful.</strong> The views of people without track records are not equal to the views of people with strong track records. Treating all people equally is more likely to lead away from truth than toward it.</p><p><strong>31a) Ask yourself whether you have earned the right to have an opinion.</strong> As a general rule, if you have a demonstrated track record, then you can have an opinion of how to do it—if you don’t, you can’t, though you can have theories and questions.</p><p><strong>31b) People who have repeatedly and successfully accomplished the thing in question and have great explanations when probed are most believable.</strong> Those with one of those two qualities are somewhat believable; people with neither are least believable.</p><ul><li>Someone new who doesn’t know much, has little believability, or isn’t confident in his views should ask questions. On the other hand, a highly believable person with experience and a good track record who is highly confident in his views should be assertive.</li></ul><p><strong>33d) A small group (3 to 5) of smart, conceptual people seeking the right answers in an open-minded way will generally lead to the best answer.</strong> Next best is to have decisions made by a single smart, conceptual decision-maker, but this is a much worse choice than the former. The worst way to make decisions is via large groups without a smart, conceptual leader.</p><p><strong>33e) 1+1=3.</strong> Two people who collaborate well will be about three times as effective as the two of them operating independently because they will see what the other might miss, they can leverage each other, and they can hold each other to higher standards.</p><p>44) Recognize that people are built very differently.</p><p><strong>45) Think about their very different values, abilities, and skills.</strong> Values are the deep- seated beliefs that motivate behaviors; people will fight for their values, and values determine people’s compatibility with others. Abilities are ways of thinking and behaving. Some people are great learners and fast processors; others possess common sense; still others think creatively or logically or with supreme organization, etc. Skills are learned tools, such as being able to speak a foreign language or write computer code.</p><ul><li>While values and abilities are unlikely to change much, most skills can be acquired in a limited amount of time (e.g., most master’s degrees can be acquired in two years) and often change in worth (e.g., today’s best programming language can be obsolete in a few years).</li></ul><p>54) Weigh values and abilities more heavily than skills in deciding whom to hire.</p><p><strong>96) Don’t “pick your battles.” Fight them all. </strong> If you see something wrong, even something small, deal with it.</p><p>110) If someone is doing their job poorly, consider whether this is due to inadequate learning (i.e., training/experience) or inadequate ability. A weakness due to a lack of experience or training or due to inadequate time can be fixed. A lack of inherent ability cannot.</p><p>111) Remember that when it comes to assessing people, the two biggest mistakes are being overconfident in your assessment and failing to get in synch on that assessment. Don’t make those mistakes.</p><ul><li>Management ratios should not be more than 1:10 and ideally more like 1:5.</li></ul><p>142) Don’t use the anonymous “we&quot; and “they,&quot; because that masks personal responsibility—use specific names.</p><p>143) Be very specific about problems; don’t start with generalizations.</p><p><strong>144) Tool: Use the following tools to catch problems: issues logs, metrics, surveys, checklists, outside consultants, and internal auditors.</strong></p><ul><li>1) Issues log: A problem or “issue&quot; that should be logged is easy to identify: anything that went wrong.</li><li>You diagnose root causes for the issues log the same way as for a drilldown (explained below) in that the log must include a frank assessment of individual contributions to the problems alongside their strengths and weaknesses.</li><li>You have to encourage use by making clear how necessary they are, rewarding active usage, and punishing non-use.</li><li>2) Metrics: Detailed metrics measure individual, group, and system performance. Make sure these metrics aren’t being gamed so that they cease to convey a real picture. If your metrics are good enough, you can gain such a complete and accurate view of what your people are doing and how well they are doing it that you can nearly manage via the metrics.</li><li>Instead, use the metrics to ask questions and explore. Remember that any single metric can mislead. You need enough evidence to establish patterns. Metrics and 360 reviews reveal patterns that make it easier to achieve agreement on employees’ strengths and weaknesses.</li></ul><p><strong>151) Remember that a root cause is not an action but a reason.</strong> It is described by using adjectives rather than verbs. Keep asking why to get at root causes, and don’t forget to examine problems with people.</p><p><strong>152) Identify at which step failure occurred in the 5-Step Process.</strong> If a person is chronically failing it is due to either lack of training or lack of ability. Which was it? At which of the five steps did the person fail? Different steps require different abilities.</p><ul><li>1. Setting goals: This requires big-picture thinking, vision, and values that are consistent with those of our community</li><li>2. Perceiving problems: This requires perception, the ability to synthesize, and an intolerance of badness</li><li>3. Diagnosis: This requires logic, assertiveness, and open-mindedness. You must be willing to have open and/or difficult discussions to get at the truth</li><li>4. Design: This requires creativity and practical visualization.</li><li>5. Doing the tasks: This requires determination and self-discipline.</li><li>If you 1) identify at which of these steps the chronic failures are occurring and 2) see which, if any, of these abilities the person is short of, you will go a long way toward diagnosing the problem.</li></ul><p><strong>177) Constantly think about how to produce leverage.</strong> For example, to make training as easy to leverage as possible, document the most common questions and answers through audio, video, or written guidelines and then assign someone to regularly organize them into a manual.</p><p><strong>177a) You should be able to delegate the details away.</strong> If you can’t, you either have problems with managing or training or you have the wrong people doing the job. The real sign of a master manager is that he doesn’t have to do practically anything.</p><p><strong>177b) It is far better to find a few smart people and give them the best technology than to have a greater number of ordinary and less well-equipped people.</strong> First of all, great people and great technology are almost always a great value because their effectiveness in enhancing the organization’s productivity can be enormous. Second, it is desirable to have smart people have the widest possible span of understanding and control because fragmented understanding and control create inefficiencies and undermine organizational cohesion.</p><p><strong>183) Tool: Maintain a procedures manual.</strong> This is the document in which you describe how all of the pieces of your machine work. There needs to be enough specificity so that operators of the different pieces of the machine can refer to the manual to help them do their job. The manual should be a living document that includes output from the issues log so that mistakes already identified and diagnosed aren’t repeated. It prevents forgetting previous learning and facilitates communication.</p><p><strong>184) Tool: Use checklists.</strong> When people are assigned tasks, it is generally desirable to have these captured on checklists so they can check off each item as it is done. If not, there is a risk that people will gradually not do the agreed tasks or there will be lack of clarity. Crossing items off a checklist will serve as a task reminder and confirmation of what has been done.</p><p><strong>184a) Don’t confuse checklists with personal responsibility.</strong> People should be expected to do their job well, not just what is on their checklists.</p><p><strong>189) Push through!</strong> You can make great things happen, but you must MAKE great things happen. Times will come when the choice will be to plod along normally or to push through to achieve the goal. The choice should be obvious.</p><p><strong>192) Understand that the ability to deal with not knowing is far more powerful than knowing. </strong>That is because there’s way more that we don’t know than what we could possibly ever know.</p><p><strong>192a) Embrace the power of asking: &quot;What don’t I know, and what should I do about it?&quot; </strong>Generally you should find believable people and ask their advice, remembering that you are looking to understand their reasoning rather than get their conclusions.</p><p><strong>192b) Finding the path to success is at least as dependent on coming up with the right questions as coming up with answers.</strong> Successful people are great at asking the important questions and then finding the answers.</p><p><strong>194) While everyone has the right to have questions and theories, only believable people have the right to have opinions.</strong> If you can’t successfully ski down a difficult slope, you shouldn’t tell others how to do it, though you can ask questions about it and even express your views about possible ways if you make clear that you are unsure.</p><p>196) Make all decisions logically, as expected value calculations.</p><p><strong>197) Considering both the probabilities and the payoffs of the consequences, make sure that the probability of the unacceptable (i.e., the risk of ruin) is nil.</strong></p><p><strong>197a) The cost of a bad decision is equal to or greater than the reward of a good decision, so knowing what you don’t know is at least as valuable as knowing.</strong></p><p><strong>197b) Recognize opportunities where there isn’t much to lose and a lot to gain, even if the probability of the gain happening is low.</strong></p><ul><li>[Graham] Note that the above is basically a restatement of many of the concepts from Nassim Nicholas Taleb’s work and writing.</li></ul><p><strong>197c) Understand how valuable it is to raise the probability that your decision will be right by accurately assessing the probability of your being right.</strong></p><p><strong>197d) Don’t bet too much on anything. Make 15 or more good, uncorrelated bets.</strong></p><p><strong>199) Distinguish the important things from the unimportant things and deal with the important things first.</strong></p><p><strong>199a) Don’t be a perfectionist, because perfectionists often spend too much time on little differences at the margins at the expense of other big, important things.</strong> Be an effective imperfectionist. Solutions that broadly work well are generally better than highly specialized solutions, especially in the early stages of a plan.</p><p><strong>199b) Since 80% of the juice can be gotten with the first 20% of the squeezing, there are relatively few (typically less than five) important things to consider in making a decision.</strong> For each of them, the marginal gains of studying them past a certain point are limited.</p><p><strong>199c) Watch out for &quot;detail anxiety,&quot;</strong> i.e., worrying inappropriately about unimportant, small things.</p><p><strong>199d) Don’t mistake small things for unimportant things, because some small things can be very important</strong> (e.g., hugging a loved one).</p><p><strong>207) Understand what an acceptable rate of improvement is, and that it is the level and not the rate of change that matters most. </strong>I often hear people say, It’s getting better, as though that is good enough when it is both below that bar and improving at an inadequate rate. That isn’t good enough.</p><ul><li>Everything important you manage has to be on a trajectory to be &quot;above the bar&quot; and headed for “excellent&quot; at an acceptable pace.</li></ul><p><strong>208) If your best solution isn’t good enough, think harder or escalate that you can’t produce a solution that is good enough. </strong>A common mistake is accepting your own best solution when it isn’t good enough.</p><h5>Footnotes:</h5><ul><li>I believe that our society&#x27;s “mistakephobia&quot; is crippling, a problem that begins in most elementary schools, where we learn to learn what we are taught rather than to form our own goals and to figure out how to achieve them. We are fed with facts and tested and those who make the fewest mistakes are considered to be the smart ones, so we learn that it is embarrassing to not know and to make mistakes. Our education system spends virtually no time on how to learn from mistakes, yet this is critical to real learning. As a result, school typically doesn’t prepare young people for real life—unless their lives are spent following instructions and pleasing others. In my opinion, that’s why so many students who succeed in school fail in life.</li><li>“Bright&quot; people have high IQs, are highly analytical thinkers, and can solve complex mental problems.</li><li>“Smart&quot; people have common sense, are good at synthesizing, and can imagine what is possible.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Greene's 33 War Strategies: Win Conflicts Without Fighting]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[The 33 Strategies of War is Robert Greene's third major work, applying the tactical and strategic wisdom of military history to everyday conflicts — in business, relationships, and personal ambition.

Greene argues that life is defined by conflict. Whether we acknowledge it or not, we face rivals, obstacles, and opposition. The difference between winners and losers often comes down to strategic awareness: seeing the battlefield clearly, understanding human psychology, and knowing when and how to act.

The book is organized into five parts: Self-Directed Warfare (mastering yourself), Organizational Warfare (leading teams), Defensive Warfare (protecting what you have), Offensive Warfare (going on the attack), and Unconventional Warfare (fighting dirty when necessary).

Each strategy is illustrated with historical examples — from Napoleon and Sun Tzu to Muhammad Ali and Lyndon Johnson — showing how principles of war translate into principles of power.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4><strong>Preface</strong></h4><ul><li>If there is an ideal to aim for, it should be that of the strategic warrior, the man or woman who manages difficult situations and people through deft and intelligent maneuver.</li><li>Our successes and failures in life can be traced to how well or how badly we deal with the inevitable conflicts that confront us in society.</li><li>The following are six fundamental ideals you should aim for in transforming yourself into a strategic warrior in daily life.</li><li><strong>Look at things as they are, not as your emotions color them.</strong></li><li>The only remedy is to be aware that the pull of emotion is inevitable, to notice it when it is happening, and to compensate for it. When you have success, be extra wary. When you are angry, take no action. When you are fearful, know you are going to exaggerate the dangers you face.</li><li><strong>Judge people by their actions.</strong></li><li><strong>Depend on your own arms.</strong></li><li>But true strategy is psychological--a matter of intelligence, not material force. Everything in life can be taken away from you and generally will be at some point.</li><li>Having superior strategies at your fingertips will give your maneuvers irresistible force. As Sun-tzu says, “Being unconquerable lies with yourself”.</li><li><strong>Worship Athena, not Ares.</strong></li><li>Ares was the god of war in its direct and brutal form. The Greeks despised Ares and worshipped Athena, who always fought with the utmost intelligence and subtlety. Your interest in war is not the violence, the brutality, the waste of lives and resources, but the rationality and pragmatism it forces on us and the ideal of winning without bloodshed.</li><li><strong>Elevate yourself above the battlefield.</strong></li><li>In war, strategy is the art of commanding the entire military operation. Tactics, on the other hand, is the skill of forming up the army for battle itself and dealing with the immediate needs of the battlefield.</li><li>To have the power that only strategy can bring, you must be able to elevate yourself above the battlefield, to focus on your long-term objectives, to craft an entire campaign, to get out of the reactive mode that so many battles in life lock you into.</li><li>Keeping your overall goals in mind, it becomes much easier to decide when to fight and when to walk away.</li><li><strong>Spiritualize your warfare.</strong></li><li>Every day you face battles--that is the reality for all creatures in their struggle to survive. But the greatest battle of all is with yourself--your weaknesses, your emotions, your lack of resolution in seeing things through to the end. You must declare unceasing war on yourself. As a warrior in life, you welcome combat and conflict as ways to prove yourself, to better your skills, to gain courage, confidence, and experience.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part I: Self-Directed Warfare</strong></h4><ul><li>To become a true strategist, you must become aware of the weakness and illness that can take hold of the mind. You must declare war on yourself to make yourself move forward.</li></ul><p><strong>Declare War on Your Enemies: The Polarity Strategy</strong></p><ul><li>Learn to identify your enemies, and then inwardly declare war.</li><li>Your enemies, like the opposite poles of a magnet, can fill you with purpose and direction.</li><li>The more clearly you define who you <em>do not</em> want to be, the clearer your own sense of identity.</li><li>See yourself as a fighter, surrounded by enemies. Constant battle keeps you strong and alert.</li><li>Do not be lured by the need to be liked: better to be respected, even feared.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Understand</strong>: people tend to be vague and slippery because it is safer than outwardly committing to something. If you are the boss, they will mimic your ideas. Their agreement is often pure courtiership. Get them emotional; people are usually more sincere when they argue. If you pick an argument with someone and he keeps on mimicking your ideas, you may be dealing with a chameleon, a particularly dangerous type.</li><li>A tough opponent will bring out the best in you.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal:</strong></p><ul><li>Always keep the search for and use of enemies under control. It is clarity you want, not paranoia. It is the downfall of many tyrants to see an enemy in everyone. They lose their grip on reality and become hopelessly embroiled in the emotions their paranoia churns up.</li></ul><h5><strong>Do Not Fight the Last War:</strong> The Guerrilla-War-of-the-Mind Strategy</h5><ul><li>What most often weighs you down and brings you misery is the past, in the form of unnecessary attachments, repetitions of tired formulas, and the memory of old victories and defeats. You must consciously wage war against the past and force yourself to react to the present moment.</li><li>Never take it for granted that your past successes will continue into the future.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Understand</strong>: the greatest generals, the most creative strategists, stand out not because they have more knowledge but because they are able, when necessary, to drop their preconceived notions and focus intensely on the present moment. That is how creativity is sparked and opportunities are seized.</li><li>It can be valuable to analyze what went wrong in the past, but it is far more important to develop the capacity to think in the moment. In that way you will make far fewer mistakes to analyze.</li><li>The first step is simply to be aware of the process and of the need to fight it. The second is to adopt a few tactics that might help you to restore the mind&#x27;s natural flow.</li><li><strong>Reexamine all your cherished beliefs and principles.</strong></li><li>Your only principle, similarly, should be to have no principles.</li><li><strong>Erase the memory of the last war.</strong></li><li>Attention to the details of the present is by far the best way to crowd out the past and forget the last war.</li><li><strong>Keep the mind moving.</strong></li><li>Superior strategists see things as they are. They are highly sensitive to dangers and opportunities.</li><li>Great strategists do not act according to preconceived ideas; they respond to the moment, like children.</li><li><strong>Absorb the spirit of the times.</strong></li><li>Constantly adapt and change, and you will avoid the pitfalls of your previous wars. Just when people feel they know you, you will change.</li><li><strong>Reverse course.</strong></li><li>Sometimes you must reverse course, break free from the hold of the past. Do the opposite of what you would normally do in a given situation.</li><li>Act in a novel manner in relationships to break up the dynamic.</li></ul><h5><strong>Amidst the Turmoil of Events, Do Not Lose Your Presence of Mind:</strong> The Counterbalance Strategy</h5><ul><li>You must actively resist the emotional pull of the moment, maintaining your mental powers whatever the circumstances.</li><li>Make your mind tougher by exposing it to adversity. Learn to detach yourself.</li></ul><p><strong>The Hyperaggressive Tactic</strong></p><ul><li>In moments of turmoil and trouble, you must force yourself to be more determined and aggressive. Any mistakes you make can be rectified with more aggression.</li></ul><p><strong>The Detached-Buddha Tactic</strong></p><ul><li>Presence of mind is the ability to detach yourself and see the whole battlefield with clarity. What gives you that distance is preparation, mastering the details beforehand. Let people think your Buddha-like detachment comes from some mysterious source. The less they understand you, the better.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>What makes your mind stronger, and more able to control your emotions, is internal discipline and toughness.</li><li>No one can teach you this skill. It can only come through practice, experience, and even a little suffering.</li><li>To toughen your mind:</li><li><strong>Expose yourself to conflict.</strong></li><li>It is better to confront your fears than to ignore them or tamp them down.</li><li>The more conflicts and difficult situations you put yourself through, the more battle-tested your mind will be.</li><li><strong>Be self-reliant.</strong></li><li>Dependency makes you vulnerable to all kinds of emotions.</li><li>We tend to overestimate other people’s abilities, and we tend to underestimate our own. Compensate for this by trusting yourself more, and others less.</li><li>Remember, though, that being self-reliant does not mean burdening yourself with petty details.</li><li><strong>Suffer fools gladly.</strong></li><li>Your time and energy are limited, and you must learn how to preserve them.</li><li>Instead, think of fools as you think of children, or pets, not important enough to affect your mental balance.</li><li><strong>Crowd out feelings of panic by focusing on simple tasks.</strong></li><li><strong>Unintimidate yourself.</strong></li><li>See the person, not the myth. Imagine him or her as a child, as someone riddled with insecurities.</li><li><strong>Develop your<em>Fingerspitzengefuhl</em>(fingertip feel).</strong></li><li>Presence of mind depends not only on your mind&#x27;s ability to come to your aid in difficult situations but also on the speed with which this happens.</li><li>There are things you can do to help you respond faster and bring out that intuitive feel that all animals possess. Deep knowledge of the terrain will let you process information faster than your enemy, a tremendous advantage. Getting a feel for the spirit of men and material, thinking your way into them instead of looking at them from outside, will help to put you in a different frame of mind.</li><li>Get your mind into the habit of making lightning-quick decisions, trusting your fingertip feel. Your mind will advance in a kind of mental blitzkrieg, moving past your opponents before they realize what has hit them.</li></ul><h5><strong>Create a Sense of Urgency and Desperation:</strong> The Death-Ground Strategy</h5><ul><li>You are your own worst enemy. You waste precious time dreaming of the future instead of engaging in the present. Since nothing seems urgent to you, you are only half involved in what you do. The only way to change is through action and outside pressure. Put yourself in situations where you have too much at stake to waste time or resources--if you cannot afford to lose, you won&#x27;t. Cut your ties to the past; enter unknown territory where you must depend on your wits and energy to see you through. Place yourself on &quot;death ground,&quot; where your back is against the wall and you have to fight like hell to get out alive.</li></ul><p><strong>The No-Return Tactic</strong></p><ul><li>In the back of your mind, you keep an escape route, a crutch, something to turn to if things go bad.</li><li>You may see this fallback as a blessing, but it is in fact a curse. It divides you. Because you think you have options, you need involve yourself deeply enough in one thing to do it thoroughly, and you never quite get what you want. Sometimes you need to burn the ships.</li></ul><p><strong>The Death-at-Your-Heels Tactic</strong></p><ul><li>You must think of death in order to embrace your limited days left. Make the most of them and live with a sense of urgency.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>Put yourself in a comfortable situation, and we may grow bored or tired. Put yourself in a high-stakes situation, and the dynamic changes. You get a surge of energy, and your mind focuses.</li><li>Use the following five actions to put yourself on a psychological death ground:</li><li><strong>Stake everything on a single throw.</strong></li><li>It is better to take on one daunting challenge than diffuse our efforts across many.</li><li><strong>Act before you are ready.</strong></li><li>Do this often and you will develop your ability to think and act fast.</li><li><strong>Enter new waters.</strong></li><li>Leave stale relationships and comfortable situations behind, and cut your ties to the past.</li><li><strong>Make it “you against the world.&quot;</strong></li><li>A fighting spirit needs a little edge, some anger and hatred to fuel it. Get aggressive and irritate and infuriate people directly.</li><li><strong>Keep yourself restless and unsatisfied.</strong></li><li>Make risk a constant practice; never let yourself settle down.</li><li>Life has more meaning in the face of death.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Never attack enemies with nothing to lose.</li><li>Conversely, attacking enemies when morale is low gives you the advantage.</li><li>Always try to lower the other side’s sense of urgency.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part II: Organizational (Team) Warfare</strong></h4><ul><li>It is the structure of your army - the chain of command and the relationship of the parts to the whole - that will give your strategies force.</li><li>You must build speed and mobility into the structure of your army.</li><li>That means having a single authority on top, going soldiers a sense of the overall goal to be accomplished and the latitude to take action to meet that goal. It means motivating soldiers, creating an overall esprit du corps that gives momentum.</li><li>Before formulating a strategy or taking action, understand the structure of your group.</li></ul><h5><strong>Avoid the Snares of GroupThink:</strong> The Command-and-Control Strategy</h5><ul><li>The problem in leading any group is that people inevitably have their own agendas. If you are too authoritarian, they will resent you and rebel in silent ways. If you are too easygoing, they will revert to their natural selfishness and you will lose control. You have to create a chain of command in which people do not feel constrained by your influence yet follow your lead.</li><li>Create a sense of participation, but do not fall into Groupthink.</li><li>A proper chain of command, and the control it brings you, is not an accident; it is your creation, a work of art that requires constant attention and care.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>This is the game you must play: Do whatever you can to pressure unity of command. At the same time, hide your tracks. Work behind the scenes; make the group feel involved in your decisions.</li><li>A critical step in creating an efficient chain of command is assembling a skilled team that shares your goals and values.</li><li>In creating this team, you are looking for people who make up for your deficiencies, who have the skills you lack.</li><li>Be careful in assembling this team that you are not seduced by expertise and intelligence. Character, the ability to work under you and with the rest of the team, and the capacity to accept responsibility and think independently are equally key.</li><li>The single greatest risk to your chain of command comes from the political animals in the group. Try to weed them out before they arrive.</li><li>Finally, pay attention to the orders themselves--their form as well as their substance. Vague orders are worthless.</li><li>On the other hand, if your commands are too specific and too narrow, you will encourage people to behave like automatons and stop thinking for themselves--which they must do when the situation requires it. Erring in neither direction is an art.</li></ul><h5><strong>Segment Your Forces:</strong> The Controlled-Chaos Strategy</h5><ul><li>Speed and adaptability are critical elements in war, and come from flexible organization.</li><li>Decentralize your army, segment into teams, and let go a little to gain mobility.</li><li>Give your different corps clear missions that fit your strategic goals, then let them accomplish them as they see fit.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The essence of strategy is not to carry out a brilliant plan that proceeds in steps; it is to put yourself in situations where you have more options than the enemy does.</li><li>The key to the mission command is an overall group philosophy. This can be built around the cause you are fighting for or a belief in the evil of the enemy you face. It can also include the style of warfare--defensive, mobile, ruthlessly aggressive--that best suits it. You must bring the group together around this belief. Then, through training and creative exercises, you must deepen its hold on them, infuse it into their blood.</li></ul><h5><strong>Transform Your War into a Crusade:</strong> Morale Strategies</h5><ul><li>The secret to motivating people and maintaining their morale is to get them to think less about themselves and more about the group. Involve them in a cause, a crusade against a hated enemy. Make them see their survival as tied to the success of the army as a whole.</li><li>Lead from the front: let your soldiers see you in the trenches, making sacrifices for the cause.</li></ul><p><strong>The Art of Man Management</strong></p><ul><li>To create the best group dynamic, follow as many of the following steps as possible:</li><li><strong>Step 1: Unite your troops around a cause. Make them fight for an idea.</strong></li><li>The cause can be anything you wish, but you should represent it as progressive: it fits the times, it is on the side of the future, so it is destined to succeed.</li><li><strong>Step 2: Keep their bellies full.</strong></li><li>People cannot stay motivated if their material needs go unmet.</li><li><strong>Step 3: Lead from the front.</strong></li><li><strong>Step 4: Concentrate their<em>ch’i</em>.</strong></li><li>Idleness has a terrible effect on <em>chi’i.</em></li><li>Keep your soldiers busy, acting for a purpose, moving in a direction.</li><li><strong>Step 6: Mix harshness and kindness.</strong></li><li>The key to man management is a balance of punishment and reward.</li><li><strong>Step 7: Build the group myth.</strong></li><li>The armies with the highest morale are armies that have been tested in battle. Soldiers who have fought alongside one another through many campaigns forge a kind of group myth based on their past victories.</li><li>To generate this myth, you must lead your troops into as many campaigns as you can. It is wise to start out with easy battles that they can win, building up their confidence.</li><li><strong>Step 8: Be ruthless with grumblers.</strong></li><li>Above all else, pay attention to your staff.</li><li>Morale is contagious, and you, as leader, set the tone.</li><li>If aiming at emotions, you must aim indirectly: get them to laugh or cry over something that seems unrelated to the issue at hand. Emotions are contagious - they bring people together and make them bond.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part III: Defensive Warfare</strong></h4><ul><li>To fight defensively, you must make the most of your resources, fighting with perfect economy and only battles that are necessary.</li><li>Second, you must know how and when to retreat, luring an aggressive enemy into an imprudent attack. Then, when exhausted, launch a vicious counterattack.</li><li>To fight this way, you must master the arts of deception.</li></ul><h5><strong>Pick Your Battles Carefully:</strong> The Perfect-Economy Strategy</h5><ul><li>You must know your limits and pick your battles carefully.</li><li>Pyrrhic victories are much more common than you might think.</li><li>No person or group is completely weak or strong. You must make sure to assess and attack weaknesses.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>Creativity gives you an edge over enemies dependent on technology; you will learn more, be more adaptable, and you will outsmart them.</li><li>The next time you launch a campaign, try an experiment: think deeply about what you have first, then, let your plans and goals blossom.</li><li>Do not mistake cheapness for perfect economy.</li><li>Several tactics are key to fighting economically:</li><li>The use of deception.</li><li>Choosing opponents you can beat.</li><li>Look for new opportunities and build momentum.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>There is no value in fighting without economy, but it is always wise to make your opponent waste as many resources as possible.</li></ul><h5><strong>Turn the Tables:</strong> The Counterattack Strategy</h5><ul><li>Moving first will often put you at a disadvantage: you are exposing your strategy and limiting your options.</li><li>Instead, let the other side move first, or bait opponents into rash attacks that will leave them in a weak position.</li><li>Playing weak and then catching them off guard with an attack is also a good tactic.</li><li>Make jujitsu your style in almost everything you do.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The first step in mastering the counterattack is to master yourself, and particularly the tendency to grow emotional in conflict.</li><li>The key to the successful counterattack is staying calm while your opponent gets frustrated and irritable.</li><li>Mirroring people - going back to them just what they give to you - is a powerful method of counterattack.</li><li>In general, encouraging people to follow their natural direction, to give in to their greed or neuroses, will die you more control over them than active resistance will.</li><li>The modern dilemma is that taking the offensive is unacceptable today--attack and your reputation will suffer, you will find yourself politically isolated, and you will create enemies and resistance. The counterattack is the answer. Let your enemy make the first move, then play the victim.</li></ul><h5><strong>Create a Threatening Presence</strong>: Deterrence Strategies</h5><ul><li>The best way to fight off aggressors is to keep them from attacking you in the first place. To accomplish this you must create the impression of being more powerful than you are. Build up a reputation: You&#x27;re a little crazy. Fighting you is not worth it. You take your enemies with you when you lose.</li><li>This art of deterrence rests on three basic facts about war and human nature: First, people are more likely to attack you if they see you as weak or vulnerable. Second, they cannot know for sure that you&#x27;re weak; they depend on the signs you give out, through your behavior both present and past. Third, they are after easy victories, quick and bloodless. That is why they prey on the vulnerable and weak.</li><li>The following are five basic methods of deterrence and reverse intimidation. You can use them all in offensive warfare, but they are particularly effective in defence:</li><li><strong>Surprise with a bold maneuver.</strong></li><li>This will have two positive effects: First, they will tend to think your move is backed up by something real--they will not imagine you could be foolish enough to do something audacious just for effect. Second, they will start to see strengths and threats in you that they had not imagined.</li><li><strong>Reverse the threat.</strong></li><li>Turn the tables with a sudden move designed to scare them. Threaten something they value. You needn’t go too far, just inflict a little pain to indicate you are capable of worse.</li><li><strong>Seem unpredictable and irrational.</strong></li><li>In this instance you do something suggesting a slightly suicidal streak, as if you felt you had nothing to lose. You show that you are ready to take your enemies down with you, destroying their reputations in the process. (This is particularly effective with people who have a lot to lose themselves--powerful people with sterling reputations.)</li><li><strong>Play on people&#x27;s natural paranoia.</strong></li><li>Instead of threatening your opponents openly, you take action that is indirect and designed to make them think. This might mean using a go-between to send them a message--to tell some disturbing story about what you are capable of. Or maybe you “inadvertently” let them spy on you, only to hear something that should give them cause for concern.</li><li><strong>Establish a frightening reputation.</strong></li><li>This reputation can be for any number of things: being difficult, stubborn, violent, ruthlessly efficient. Build up that image over the years and people will back off from you, treating you with respect and a little fear.</li></ul><h5><strong>Trade Space for Time:</strong> The Nonengagement Strategy</h5><ul><li>Retreat in the face of a strong enemy is a sign not of weakness but of strength. By resisting the temptation to respond to an aggressor, you buy yourself valuable time--time to recover, to think, to gain perspective. Let your enemies advance; time is more important than space. By refusing to fight, you infuriate them and feed their arrogance. They will soon overextend themselves and start making mistakes.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>Your task as a strategist is simple: to see the differences between yourself and other people, to understand yourself, your side, and the enemy as well as you can, to get more perspective on events, to know things for what they are.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part IV: Offensive Warfare</strong></h4><ul><li>The greatest dangers in war, and in life, come from the unexpected: people do not respond the way you had thought they would, events mess up your plans and produce confusion, circumstances are overwhelming.</li><li>In strategy, the discrepancy between what you want to happen and what does happen is called friction.</li><li>The idea behind conventional offensive warfare is simple: by attacking the other side first, you create your own circumstances before friction can creep in.</li><li>To be successful at offensive warfare, you must plan in intense detail, thinking in terms of the whole campaign, not individual battles.</li></ul><h5><strong>Lose Battles but Win the War</strong>: Grand Strategy</h5><ul><li>Grand strategy is the art of looking beyond the battle and calculating ahead. It requires focusing on the ultimate goal, and considering the politics and long-term consequences of what you do.</li><li>To become a grand strategist in life, you must follow the path of Alexander. First, clarify your life--decipher your own personal riddle--by determining what it is you are destined to achieve, the direction in which your skills and talents seem to push you. Visualize yourself fulfilling this destiny in glorious detail.</li><li>Ignore the conventional wisdom about what you should or should not be doing. It may make sense for some, but that does not mean it bears any relation to your own goals and destiny. You need to be patient enough to plot several steps ahead--to wage a campaign instead of fighting battles.</li><li>Your task as a grand strategist is to extend your vision in all directions--not only looking further into the future but also seeing more of the world around you, more than your enemy does.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The first step was to think beyond the immediate battle. Supposing you won victory, where would it leave you--better off or worse? To answer that question, the logical step was to think ahead, to the third and fourth battles on, which connected like links in a chain. The result was the concept of the campaign, in which the strategist sets a realistic goal and plots several steps ahead to get there.</li><li>Grand strategy has four main principles. The more you can incorporate these principles into your plans, the better the results:</li><li><strong>Focus on your greater goal, your destiny.</strong></li><li>What have distinguished all history&#x27;s grand strategists and can distinguish you, too, are specific, detailed, focused goals. Contemplate them day in and day out, and imagine how it will feel to reach them and what reaching them will look like. By a psychological law peculiar to humans, clearly visualizing them this way will turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy.</li><li>Your goals must be rooted in reality. If they are simply beyond your means, essentially impossible for you to realize, you will grow discouraged, and discouragement can quickly escalate into a defeatist attitude. On the other hand, if your goals lack a certain dimension and grandeur, it can be hard to stay motivated. Do not be afraid to be bold.</li><li><strong>Widen your perspective.</strong></li><li>Grand strategy is a function of vision, of seeing further in time and space than the enemy does.</li><li>Your task as a grand strategist is to force yourself to widen your view, to take in more of the world around you, to see things for what they are and for how they may play out in the future, not for how you wish them to be.</li><li><strong>Sever the roots.</strong></li><li>In a society dominated by appearances, the real source of a problem is sometimes hard to grasp. To work out a grand strategy against an enemy, you have to know what motivates him or is the source of his power - the roots.</li><li><strong>Take the indirect route to your goal.</strong></li><li>The greatest danger you face in strategy is losing the initiative and finding yourself constantly reacting to what the other side does. The solution, of course, is to plan ahead but also to plan subtly--to take the indirect route. Preventing your opponent from seeing the purpose of your actions gives you an enormous advantage.</li><li>Whenever anything goes wrong, it is human nature to blame this person or that. Let other people engage in such stupidity, led around by their noses, seeing only what is immediately visible to the eye. You see things differently. When an action goes wrong--in business, in politics, in life--trace it back to the policy that inspired it in the first place. The goal was misguided.</li><li>This means that you yourself are largely the agent of anything bad that happens to you. With more prudence, wiser policies, and greater vision, you could have avoided the danger. So when something goes wrong, look deep into yourself--not in an emotional way, to blame yourself or indulge your feelings of guilt, but to make sure that you start your next campaign with a firmer step and greater vision.</li></ul><h5><strong>Know Your Enemy</strong>: The Intelligence Strategy</h5><ul><li>The target of your strategies should be less the army you face than the mind of the man or woman who runs it. If you understand how that mind works, you have the key to deceiving and controlling it.</li><li>Our natural tendency is to see other people as mere reflections of our own desires and values.</li><li>The best way to find the leader&#x27;s weaknesses is not through spies but through the close embrace. Behind a friendly, even subservient front, you can observe your enemies, get them to open up and reveal themselves. Get inside their skin; think as they think. Once you discover their vulnerability--an uncontrollable temper, a weakness for the opposite sex, a gnawing insecurity--you have the material to destroy them.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The greatest power you could have in life would come neither from limitless resources nor even consummate skill in strategy. It would come from clear knowledge of those around you--the ability to read people like a book.</li><li>In general, it is easier to observe people in action, particularly in moments of crisis. Those are the times when they either reveal their weakness or struggle so hard to disguise it that you can see through the mask.</li><li>A warning: never rely on one spy, one source of information, no matter how good. You risk being played or getting slanted, one-sided information.</li><li>Finally, the enemy you are dealing with is not an inanimate object that will simply respond in an expected manner to your strategies. Your enemies are constantly changing and adapting to what you are doing. Innovating and inventing on their own, they try to learn from their mistakes and from your successes. So your knowledge of the enemy cannot be static. Keep your intelligence up to date, and do not rely on the enemy&#x27;s responding the same way twice.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Even as you work to know your enemies, you must make yourself as formless and difficult to read as possible. Since people really only have appearances to go on, they can be readily deceived. Act unpredictably now and then.</li></ul><h5><strong>Overwhelm Resistance with Speed and Suddenness:</strong> The Blitzkrieg Strategy</h5><ul><li>In a world in which many people are indecisive and overly cautious, the use of speed will bring you untold power.</li><li>This strategy works best with a setup, a lull - your unexpected action catches your enemy off guard.</li><li>We live in a world in which speed is prized above almost all else, and acting faster than the other side has itself become the primary goal. But most often people are merely in a hurry, acting and reacting frantically to events, all of which makes them prone to error and wasting time in the long run. In order to separate yourself from the pack, to harness a speed that has devastating force, you must be organized and strategic. First, you prepare yourself before any action, scanning your enemy for weaknesses. Then you find a way to get your opponents to underestimate you, to lower their guard. When you strike unexpectedly, they will freeze up. When you hit again, it is from the side and out of nowhere. It is the unanticipated blow that makes the biggest impact.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>Velocity creates a sense of vitality. Moving with speed means there is less time for you and your army to make mistakes. It also creates a bandwagon effect: more and more people admiring your boldness, will decide to join forces with you.</li><li>This strategy can be particularly devastating for those who are particularly hesitant or afraid of making mistakes, or those who have divided leadership or internal cracks.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Appearing slow can be an advantage, particularly as a setup.</li><li>In general, when facing a fast enemy, the only true defence is to be faster.</li></ul><h5><strong>Control the Dynamic</strong>: Forcing Strategies</h5><ul><li>People are constantly struggling to control you--getting you to act in their interests, keeping the dynamic on their terms. The only way to get the upper hand is to make your play for control more intelligent and insidious.</li><li>Shift the conflict to terrain of your choice, altering the pace and stakes to suit you. Maneuver to control your opponents&#x27; minds, pushing their emotional buttons, and compelling them to make mistakes. If necessary, let them feel they are in control in order to get them to lower their guard.</li></ul><p><strong>The Art of Ultimate Control</strong></p><ul><li>The superior strategist understands that it is impossible to control exactly how an enemy will respond to this move or that. To attempt to do so will only lead to frustration and exhaustion. There is too much in war and in life that is unpredictable. But if the strategist can control the mood and mind-set of his enemies, it does not matter exactly how they respond to his maneuvers. If he can make them frightened, panicky, overly aggressive, and angry, he controls the wider scope of their actions and can trap them mentally before cornering them physically.</li><li>Control can be aggressive or passive. It can be an immediate push on the enemy, making him back up and lose the initiative. It can be playing possum, getting the enemy to lower his guard, or baiting him into a rash attack. The artist of control weaves both of these into a devastating pattern--hitting, backing off, baiting, overwhelming.</li><li>There are four basic principles of the art:</li><li><strong>Keep them on their heels.</strong></li><li>Before the enemy makes a move, before the element of chance or the unexpected actions of your opponents can ruin your plans, you make an aggressive move to seize the initiative. You then keep up a relentless pressure, exploiting this momentary advantage to the fullest.</li><li><strong>Shift the battlefield.</strong></li><li>An enemy naturally wants to fight you on familiar terrain. Terrain in this sense means all of the details of the battle--the time and place, exactly what is being fought over, who is involved in the struggle, and so on. By subtly shifting your enemies into places and situations that are not familiar to them, you control the dynamic.</li><li><strong>Compel mistakes.</strong></li><li>Your enemies depend on executing a strategy that plays to their advantages, that has worked in the past. Your task is twofold: to fight the battle in such a way that they cannot bring their strength or strategy into play and to create such a level of frustration that they make mistakes in the process.</li><li><strong>Assume passive control.</strong></li><li>The ultimate form of domination is to make those on the other side think they are the ones in control. Believing they are in command, they are less likely to resist you or become defensive. You create this impression by moving with the energy of the other side, giving ground but slowly and subtly diverting them in the direction you desire. It is often the best way to control the overly aggressive and the passive-aggressive.</li><li>To control the dynamic, you must be able to control yourself and your emotions. Getting angry and lashing out will only limit your options. And in conflict, fear is the most debilitating emotion of all.</li><li>Before anything else you must lose your fear--of death, of the consequences of a bold maneuver, of other people&#x27;s opinion of you. That single moment will suddenly open up vistas of possibilities. And in the end whichever side has more possibilities for positive action has greater control.</li></ul><h5><strong>Hit Them Where it Hurts</strong>: The Center-of-Gravity Strategy</h5><ul><li>Everyone has a source of power on which he or she depends. When you look at your rivals, search below the surface for that source, the center of gravity that holds the entire structure together. That center can be their wealth, their popularity, a key position, a winning strategy. Hitting them there will inflict disproportionate pain. Find what the other side most cherishes and protects--that is where you must strike.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The key is analyzing the enemy force to determine its centers of gravity. In looking for those centers, it is crucial not to be misled by the intimidating or dazzling exterior, mistaking the outward appearance for what sets it in motion. You will probably have to take several steps, one by one, to uncover this ultimate power source, peeling away layer after layer.</li><li>To find a group&#x27;s center of gravity, you must understand its structure and the culture within which it operates. If your enemies are individuals, you must fathom their psychology, what makes them tick, the structure of their thinking and priorities.</li><li>It is almost always strategically wise to disrupt your enemy&#x27;s lines of communication; if the parts cannot communicate with the whole, chaos ensues.</li><li>Your enemy&#x27;s center of gravity can be something abstract, like a quality, concept, or aptitude on which he depends: his reputation, his capacity to deceive, his unpredictability. But such strengths become critical vulnerabilities if you can make them unattractive or unusable.</li></ul><h5><strong>Defeat Them in Detail</strong>: The Divide-and-Conquer Strategy</h5><ul><li>When you look at your enemies, do not be intimidated by their appearance. Instead look at the parts that make up the whole. By separating the parts, sowing dissension and division from within, you can weaken and bring down even the most formidable foe.</li><li>In setting up your attack, work on their minds to create internal conflict. The joints are the weakest part of any structure.</li><li>The best way to make an enemy divide is to occupy the centre.</li><li>Think of battle or conflict as existing on a kind of chessboard. The chessboard&#x27;s center can be physical--an actual place like Marathon--or more subtle and psychological: the levers of power within a group, the support of a critical ally, a troublemaker at the eye of the storm. Take the centre of the chessboard and the enemy will naturally break into parts, trying to hit you from more than one side.</li><li>To make people join you, separate them from their past. When you size up your targets, look for what connects them to the past, the source of their resistance to the new.</li><li>A joint is the weakest part of any structure. Break it and you divide people internally, making them vulnerable to suggestion and change. Divide their minds in order to conquer them.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The divide-and-conquer strategy has never been more effective than it is today: cut people off from their group--make them feel alienated, alone, and unprotected--and you weaken them enormously.</li><li>Divide and rule is a powerful strategy for governing any group. It is based on a key principle: within any organization people naturally form smaller groups based on mutual self-interest--the primitive desire to find strength in numbers. These subgroups form power bases that, left unchecked, will threaten the organization as a whole.</li><li>The solution is to divide to rule. To do so you must first establish yourself as the center of power; individuals must know they need to compete for your approval. There has to be more to be gained by pleasing the leader than by trying to form a power base within the group.</li><li>The divide-and-rule strategy is invaluable in trying to influence people verbally. Start by seeming to take your opponents&#x27; side on some issue, occupying their flank. Once there, however, create doubt about some part of their argument, tweaking and diverting it a bit. This will lower their resistance and maybe create a little inner conflict about a cherished idea or belief. That conflict will weaken them, making them vulnerable to further suggestion and guidance.</li></ul><h5><strong>Expose and Attack Your Opponent’s Soft Flank</strong>: The Turning Strategy</h5><ul><li>When you attack people directly, you stiffen their resistance and make your task that much harder. There is a better way: distract your opponents&#x27; attention to the front, then attack them from the side, where they least expect it.</li><li>Individuals often show their flank, signal their vulnerability, by its opposite, the front they show most visibly to the world.</li><li>Life is full of hostility--some of it overt, some clever and under-handed. Conflict is inevitable; you will never have total peace.</li><li>At all cost you must gain control of the impulse to fight your opponents directly. Instead occupy their flank. Disarm them and make them your ally; you can decide later whether to keep them on your side or to exact revenge. Taking the fight out of people through strategic acts of kindness, generosity, and charm will clear your path, helping you to save energy for the fights you cannot avoid.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The people who win true power in the difficult modern world are those who have learned indirection. They know the value of approaching at an angle, disguising their intentions, lowering the enemy&#x27;s resistance, hitting the soft, exposed flank instead of butting horns. Rather than try to push or pull people, they coax them to turn in the direction they desire. This takes effort but pays dividends down the road in reduced conflict and greater results.</li><li>The key to any flanking maneuver is to proceed in steps. Your initial move cannot reveal your intentions or true line of attack.</li><li>When people present their ideas and arguments, they often censor themselves, trying to appear more conciliatory and flexible than is actually the case. If you attack them directly from the front, you end up not getting very far, because there isn&#x27;t much there to aim at. Instead try to make them go further with their ideas, giving you a bigger target. Do this by standing back, seeming to go along, and baiting them into moving rashly ahead. (You can also make them emotional, pushing their buttons, getting them to say more than they had wanted to.) They will expose themselves on a weak salient, advancing an indefensible argument or position that will make them look ridiculous. The key is never to strike too early. Give your opponents time to hang themselves.</li><li>The more subtle and indirect your maneuvers in life, the better.</li><li>The ultimate evolution of strategy is toward more and more indirection. An opponent who cannot see where you are heading is at a severe disadvantage.</li></ul><h5><strong>Envelop the Enemy:</strong> The Annihilation Strategy</h5><ul><li>People will use any kind of gap in your defenses to attack you or revenge themselves on you. So offer no gaps. The secret is to envelop your opponents--create relentless pressure on them from all sides, dominate their attention, and close off their access to the outside world. Make your attacks unpredictable to create a vaporous feeling of vulnerability. Finally, as you sense their weakening resolve, crush their willpower by tightening the noose. The best encirclements are psychological--you have surrounded their minds.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>There are many ways to envelop your opponents, but perhaps the simplest is to put whatever strength or advantage you naturally have to maximum use in a strategy of enclosure.</li><li>To envelop your enemies, you must use whatever you have in abundance. If you have a large army, use it to create the appearance that your forces are everywhere, an encircling pressure.</li><li><strong>Remember</strong>: the power of envelopment is ultimately psychological. Making the other side feel vulnerable to attack on many sides is as good as enveloping them physically.</li><li>Often, in fact, less is more here: too many blows will give you a shape, a personality--something for the other side to respond to and develop a strategy to combat. Instead seem vaporous. Make your maneuvers impossible to anticipate.</li><li>The best encirclements are those that prey on the enemy&#x27;s preexisting, inherent vulnerabilities. Be attentive, then, to signs of arrogance, rashness, or other psychological weakness.</li><li>The impetuous, violent, and arrogant are particularly easy to lure into the traps of envelopment strategies: play weak or dumb and they will charge ahead without stopping to think where they&#x27;re going.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>The danger of envelopment is that unless it is completely successful, it may leave you in a vulnerable position.</li></ul><h5><strong>Maneuver Them Into Weakness</strong>: The Ripening-for-the-Sickle Strategy</h5><ul><li>No matter how strong you are, fighting endless battles with people is exhausting, costly, and unimaginative. Wise strategists generally prefer the art of maneuver: before the battle even begins, they find ways to put their opponents in positions of such weakness that victory is easy and quick. Bait enemies into taking positions that may seem alluring but are actually traps and blind alleys. If their position is strong, get them to abandon it by leading them on a wild-goose chase. Create dilemmas: devise maneuvers that give them a choice of ways to respond--all of them bad. Channel chaos and disorder in their direction. Confused, frustrated, and angry opponents are like ripe fruit on the bough: the slightest breeze will make them fall.</li></ul><p><strong>Maneuver Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>In a society full of attrition fighters, you will gain an instant advantage by converting to maneuver. Your thought process will become more fluid, more on the side of life, and you will be able to thrive off the rigid, battle-obsessed tendencies of the people around you.</li><li>The following are the four main principles of maneuver warfare:</li><li><strong>Craft a plan with branches.</strong></li><li>Maneuver warfare depends on planning, and the plan has to be right. Too rigid and you leave yourself no room to adjust to the inevitable chaos and friction of war; too loose and unforeseen events will confuse and overwhelm you. The perfect plan stems from a detailed analysis of the situation, which allows you to decide on the best direction to follow or the perfect position to occupy and suggests several effective options (branches) to take, depending on what the enemy throws at you.</li><li><strong>Give yourself room to maneuver.</strong></li><li>You cannot be mobile, you cannot maneuver freely, if you put yourself in cramped spaces or tie yourself down to positions that do not allow you to move. Consider the ability to move and keeping open more options than your enemy has as more important than holding territories or possessions. You want open space, not dead positions. This means not burdening yourself with commitments that will limit your options.</li><li><strong>Give your enemy dilemmas, not problems.</strong></li><li>Most of your opponents are likely to be clever and resourceful; if your maneuvers simply present them with a problem, they will inevitably solve it. But a dilemma is different: whatever they do, however they respond--retreat, advance, stay still--they are still in trouble. Make every option bad: if you maneuver quickly to a point, for instance, you can force your enemies either to fight before they are ready or to retreat. Try constantly to put them in positions that seem alluring but are traps.</li><li><strong>Create maximum disorder.</strong></li><li>Your enemy depends on being able to read you, to get some sense of your intentions. The goal of your maneuvers should be to make that impossible, to send the enemy on a wild-goose chase for meaningless information, to create ambiguity as to which way you are going to jump.</li><li>If you meet the dynamic situations of life with plans that are rigid, if you think of only holding static positions, if you rely on technology to control any friction that comes your way, you are doomed: events will change faster than you can adjust to them, and chaos will enter your system.</li><li>Use this strategy in the battles of daily life, letting people commit themselves to a position you can turn into a dead end. Never say you are strong, show you are, by making a contrast between yourself and your inconsistent or moderate opponents.</li><li>The greatest power you can have in any conflict is the ability to confuse your opponent about your intentions.</li><li>The goal of maneuver is to give you easy victories, which you do by luring opponents into leaving their fortified positions of strength for unfamiliar terrain where they must fight off balance.</li></ul><h5><strong>Negotiate While Advancing:</strong> The Diplomatic-War Strategy</h5><ul><li>People will always try to take from you in negotiation what they could not get from you in battle or direct confrontation. They will even use appeals to fairness and morality as a cover to advance their position. Do not be taken in: negotiation is about maneuvering for power or placement, and you must always put yourself in the kind of strong position that makes it impossible for the other side to nibble away at you during your talks. Before and during negotiations, you must keep advancing, creating relentless pressure and compelling the other side to settle on your terms. The more you take, the more you can give back in meaningless concessions. Create a reputation for being tough and uncompromising, so that people are back on their heels before they even meet you.</li><li>Those who believe, against the evidence, that niceness breeds niceness in return are doomed to failure in any kind of negotiation, let alone in the game of life. People respond in a nice and conciliatory way only when it is in their interest and when they have to do so. Your goal is to create that imperative by making it painful for them to fight.</li><li>Sometimes in life you will find yourself holding the weak hand, the hand without any real leverage. At those times it is even more important to keep advancing. By demonstrating strength and resolve and maintaining the pressure, you cover up your weaknesses and gain footholds that will let you manufacture leverage for yourself.</li><li><strong>Understand:</strong> if you are weak and ask for little, little is what you will get. But if you act strong, making firm, even outrageous demands, you will create the opposite impression: people will think that your confidence must be based on something real. You will earn respect, which in turn will translate into leverage. Once you are able to establish yourself in a stronger position, you can take this further by refusing to compromise, making it clear that you are willing to walk away from the table--an effective form of coercion. The other side may call your bluff, but you make sure there&#x27;s a price to pay for this--bad publicity, for instance. And if in the end you do compromise a little, it will still be a lot less than the compromises they would have forced on you if they could.</li></ul><h5><strong>Know How to End Things:</strong> The Exit Strategy</h5><ul><li>You are judged in this world by how well you bring things to an end. A messy or incomplete conclusion can reverberate for years to come, ruining your reputation in the process. The art of ending things well is knowing when to stop, never going so far that you exhaust yourself or create bitter enemies that embroil you in conflict in the future. It also entails ending on the right note, with energy and flair. It is not a question of simply winning the war but the way you win it, the way your victory sets you up for the next round. The height of strategic wisdom is to avoid all conflicts and entanglements from which there are no realistic exits.</li><li>The worst way to end anything--a war, a conflict, a relationship--is slowly and painfully. The costs of such an ending run deep: loss of self-confidence, unconscious avoidance of conflict the next time around, the bitterness and animosity left breeding--it is all an absurd waste of time. Before entering any action, you must calculate in precise terms your exit strategy. How exactly will the engagement end, and where it will leave you?</li><li>And if you do find you have made this mistake, you have only two rational solutions: either end the conflict as quickly as you can, with a strong, violent blow aimed to win, accepting the costs and knowing they are better than a slow and painful death, or cut your losses and quit without delay.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>Endings in purely social relationships demand a sense of the culminating point as much as those in war.</li><li>Overstaying your welcome, boring people with your presence, is the deepest failing: you should leave them wanting more of you, not less. You can accomplish this by bringing the conversation or encounter to an end a moment before the other side expects it. Leave too soon and you may seem timid or rude, but do your departure right, at the peak of enjoyment and liveliness (the culminating point), and you create a devastatingly positive afterglow.</li><li>Since defeat is inevitable in life, you must master the art of losing well and strategically. First, think of your own mental outlook, how you absorb defeat psychologically. See it as a temporary setback, something to wake you up and teach you a lesson, and even as you lose, you end on a high note and with an edge: you are mentally prepared to go on the offensive in the next round.</li><li>Second, you must see any defeat as a way to demonstrate something positive about yourself and your character to other people. This means standing tall, not showing signs of bitterness or becoming defensive.</li><li>Third, if you see that defeat is inevitable, it is often best to go down swinging. That way you end on a high note even as you lose. This helps to rally the troops, giving them hope for the future.</li><li>Planting the seeds of future victory in present defeat is strategic brilliance of the highest order.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part V: Unconventional (Dirty) Warfare</strong></h4><ul><li>Dirty war is political, deceptive, and supremely manipulative. Often the last recourse of the weak and desperate, it uses any means available to level the playing field.</li><li>The unconventional has its own logic that you must understand.</li><li>First, nothing stays new for long. Those who depend on novelty must constantly come up with some fresh idea that goes against the orthodoxies of the time.</li><li>Second, people who use unconventional methods are very hard to fight. The classic, direct route--the use of force and strength--does not work. You must use indirect methods to combat indirection, fight fire with fire, even at the cost of going dirty yourself. To try to stay clean out of a sense of morality is to risk defeat.</li></ul><h5><strong>Weave a Seamless Blend of Fact and Fiction:</strong> Misperception Strategies</h5><ul><li>Since no creature can survive without the ability to see or sense what is going on around it, you must make it hard for your enemies to know what is going on around them, including what you are doing. Disturb their focus and you weaken their strategic powers. People&#x27;s perceptions are filtered through their emotions; they tend to interpret the world according to what they want to see. Feed their expectations, manufacture a reality to match their desires, and they will fool themselves. The best deceptions are based on ambiguity, mixing fact and fiction so that the one cannot be disentangled from the other. Control people&#x27;s perceptions of reality and you control them.</li><li>More than likely, your concept of deception is wrong. It does not entail elaborate illusions or all sorts of showy distractions. Deception should mirror reality.</li><li>Your false mirror must conform to people’s desires and expectations. It must incorporate things that are visibly true. It must seem somewhat banal, like life itself, and can have contradictions.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>In essence, military deception is about subtly manipulating and distorting signs of our identity and purpose to control the enemy&#x27;s vision of reality and get them to act on their misperceptions. It is the art of managing appearances, and it can create a decisive advantage for whichever side uses it better.</li><li>To master this art, you must embrace its necessity and find creative pleasure in manipulating appearances-as if you were directing a film.</li><li>The following are six main forms of military deception, each with its own advantage:</li><li><strong>The false front.</strong></li><li>This is the oldest form of military deception. It originally involved making the enemy believe that one was weaker than in fact was the case.</li><li>The <em>appearance</em> of weakness often brings out people&#x27;s aggressive side, making them drop strategy and prudence for an emotional and violent attack.</li><li>Controlling the front you present to the world is the most critical deceptive skill.</li><li>The best front here is weakness, which will make the other side feel superior to you, so that they either ignore you (and being ignored is very valuable at times) or are baited into an aggressive action at the wrong moment. Once it is too late, once they are committed, they can find out the hard way that you are not so weak after all.</li><li>In the battles of daily life, making people think they are better than you are--smarter, stronger, more competent--is often wise.</li><li><strong>The decoy attack.</strong></li><li>The key to this tactic is that instead of relying on words or rumors or planted information, the army really moves. It makes a concrete action. The enemy forces cannot afford to guess whether a deception is in the works: if they guess wrong, the consequences are disastrous.</li><li>The decoy attack is also a critical strategy in daily life, where you must retain the power to hide your intentions. To keep people from defending the points you want to attack, you must follow the military model and make real gestures toward a goal that does not interest you.</li><li>Actions carry such weight and seem so real that people will naturally assume that is your real goal.</li><li><strong>Camouflage.</strong></li><li>The ability to blend into the environment is one of the most terrifying forms of military deception.</li><li>The camouflage strategy can be applied to daily life in two ways. First, it is always good to be able to blend into the social landscape, to avoid calling attention to yourself unless you choose to do so. When you talk and act like everyone else, mimicking their belief systems, when you blend into the crowd, you make it impossible for people to read anything particular in your behavior. That gives you great room to move and plot without being noticed.</li><li>Second, if you are preparing an attack of some sort and begin by blending into the environment, showing no sign of activity, your attack will seem to come out of nowhere, doubling its power.</li><li><strong>The hypnotic pattern.</strong></li><li>Human beings naturally tend to think in patterns.</li><li>This mental habit offers excellent ground for deception. Deliberately create a pattern to make your enemies believe that your next action will follow true to form.</li><li><strong>Planted information.</strong></li><li>People are much more likely to believe something they see with their own eyes than something they are told. They are more likely to believe something they discover than something pushed at them. If you plant the false information you desire them to have--with third parties, in neutral territory--when they pick up the clues, they have the impression they are the ones discovering the truth. The more you can make them dig for their information, the more deeply they will delude themselves.</li><li>No matter how good a liar you are, when you deceive, it is hard to be completely natural. Your tendency is to try so hard to seem natural and sincere that it stands out and can be read. That is why it is so effective to spread your deceptions through people whom you keep ignorant of the truth--people who believe the lie themselves.</li><li><strong>Shadows within shadows.</strong></li><li>Deceptive maneuvers are like shadows deliberately cast: the enemy responds to them as if they were solid and real, which in and of itself is a mistake. In a sophisticated, competitive world, however, both sides know the game, and the alert enemy will not necessarily grasp at the shadow you have thrown. So you have to take the art of deception to a level higher, casting shadows within shadows, making it impossible for your enemies to distinguish between fact and fiction.</li><li>If you are trying to mislead your enemies, it is often better to concoct something ambiguous and hard to read, as opposed to an outright deception.</li><li>By creating something that is simply ambiguous, though, by making everything blurry, there is no deception to uncover.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>To be caught in a deception is dangerous. If you don’t know that your cover is blown, your enemies now have more information than you do and you become their tool.</li><li>Always leave yourself an escape route, a cover story that can protect you if exposed.</li></ul><h5><strong>Take the Line of Least Expectation</strong>: The Ordinary-Extraordinary Strategy</h5><ul><li>People expect your behavior to conform to known patterns and conventions. Your task as a strategist is to upset their expectations. Surprise them and chaos and unpredictability--which they try desperately to keep at bay--enter their world, and in the ensuing mental disturbance, their defenses are down and they are vulnerable. First, do something ordinary and conventional to fix their image of you, then hit them with the extraordinary. The terror is greater for being so sudden. Never rely on an unorthodox strategy that worked before--it is conventional the second time around. Sometimes the ordinary is extraordinary because it is unexpected.</li></ul><p><strong>Unconventional Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>Unconventional warfare has four main principles, as gleaned from the great practitioners of the art.</li><li><strong>Work outside the enemy’s experience.</strong></li><li>Know your enemies well, then contrive a strategy that goes outside their experience.</li><li><strong>Unfold the extraordinary out of the ordinary.</strong></li><li>Fix your opponents’ expectations with some banal, ordinary maneuver, and then hit them with the extraordinary, a show of stunning force from an entirely new angle.</li><li><strong>Act crazy like a fox.</strong></li><li>Upon occasion, allow yourself to operate in a way that is deliberately irrational, to frighten people.</li><li>As an alternative, act somewhat randomly. Randomness is disturbing to humans.</li><li><strong>Keep the wheels in constant motion.</strong></li><li>Make a point of breaking the habits you have developed, of acting in a way that is contrary to the way you acted in the past.</li><li>When striving to create the extraordinary, always remember: what is crucial is the mental process, not the image or maneuver itself. What will truly shock and linger long in the mind are those works and ideas that grow out of the soil of the ordinary and banal, that are unexpected, that make us question and contest the very nature of the reality we see around us.</li></ul><h5><strong>Occupy the Moral High Ground</strong>: The Righteous Strategy</h5><ul><li>In a political world, the cause you are fighting for must seem more just than the enemy&#x27;s. Think of this as moral terrain that you and the other side are fighting over; by questioning your enemies&#x27; motives and making them appear evil, you can narrow their base of support and room to maneuver. Aim at the soft spots in their public image, exposing any hypocrisies on their part. Never assume that the justice of your cause is self-evident; publicize and promote it. When you yourself come under moral attack from a clever enemy, do not whine or get angry; fight fire with fire. If possible, position yourself as the underdog, the victim, the martyr. Learn to inflict guilt as a moral weapon.</li><li><strong>Understand</strong>: you cannot win wars without public and political support, but people will balk at joining your side or cause unless it seems righteous and just.</li><li>You quote your enemies&#x27; own words back at them to make your attacks seem fair, almost disinterested. You create a moral taint that sticks to them like glue. Baiting them into a heavy-handed counterattack will win you even more public support.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>When your enemies try to present themselves as more justified than you are, and therefore more moral, you must see this move for what it most often is: not a reflection of morality, of right and wrong, but a clever strategy, an exterior maneuver.</li><li>You can recognize an exterior maneuver in a number of ways. First, the moral attack often comes out of left field, having nothing to do with what you imagine the conflict is about.</li><li>Second, the attack is often ad hominem; rational argument is met with the emotional and personal. Your character, rather than the issue you are fighting over, becomes the ground of the debate.</li><li>Appearances and reputation rule in today&#x27;s world; letting the enemy frame these things to its liking is akin to letting it take the most favorable position on the battlefield.</li><li>In working to spoil your enemy&#x27;s moral reputation, do not be subtle. Make your language and distinctions of good and evil as strong as possible; speak in terms of black and white. It is hard to get people to fight for a gray area.</li><li>Revealing your opponent&#x27;s hypocrisies is perhaps the most lethal offensive weapon in the moral arsenal: people naturally hate hypocrites.</li><li>This will work, however, only if the hypocrisy runs deep; it has to show up in their values.</li></ul><h5><strong>Deny Them Targets:</strong> The Strategy of the Void</h5><ul><li>The feeling of emptiness or void--silence, isolation, nonengagement with others--is for most people intolerable. As a human weakness, that fear offers fertile ground for a powerful strategy: give your enemies no target to attack, be dangerous but elusive and invisible, then watch as they chase you into the void. This is the essence of guerrilla warfare. Instead of frontal battles, deliver irritating but damaging side attacks and pinprick bites. Frustrated at their inability to use their strength against your vaporous campaign, your opponents will grow irrational and exhausted. Make your guerrilla war part of a grand political cause--a people&#x27;s war--that crests in an irresistible revolution.</li><li>The bigger your enemy, the better this strategy works: struggling to reach you, the oversize opponent presents juicy targets for you to hit.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The primary consideration should always be whether a guerrilla-style campaign is appropriate for the circumstances you are facing. It is especially effective, for instance, against an opponent who is aggressive yet clever.</li><li>Having nothing to strike at neutralizes their cleverness, and their aggression becomes their downfall.</li><li>It is interesting to note that this strategy works in love as well as in war and that here, too.</li><li>This strategy of the void works wonders on those who are used to conventional warfare.</li><li>Large bureaucracies are often perfect targets for a guerrilla strategy for the same reason: they are capable of responding only in the most orthodox manner.</li><li>Once you have determined that a guerrilla war is appropriate, take a look at the army you will use. A large, conventional army is never suitable; fluidity and the ability to strike from many angles are what counts. The organizational model is the cell--a relatively small group of men and women, tight-knit, dedicated, self-motivated, and spread out. These cells should penetrate the enemy camp itself.</li><li>You will win your guerrilla war in one of two ways. The first route is to increase the level of your attacks as your enemies deteriorate, then finish them off.</li><li>The other method is by turning sheer exhaustion to your advantage: you just let the enemy give up, for the fight is no longer worth the aggravation. The latter way is the better one. It costs you less in resources, and it looks better: the enemy has fallen on his own sword.</li><li>Remember: this war is psychological. It is more on the level of strategy than anything else that you give the enemy nothing to hold on to, nothing tangible to counter.</li></ul><h5><strong>Seem to Work for the Interests of Others While Furthering Your Own:</strong> The Alliance Strategy</h5><ul><li>The best way to advance your cause with the minimum of effort and bloodshed is to create a constantly shifting network of alliances, getting others to compensate for your deficiencies, do your dirty work, fight your wars, spend energy pulling you forward. The art is in choosing those allies who fit the needs of the moment and fill the gaps in your power. Give them gifts, offer them friendship, help them in time of need--all to blind them to reality and put them under subtle obligation to you. At the same time, work to sow dissension in the alliances of others, weakening your enemies by isolating them. While forming convenient coalitions, keep yourself free of negative entanglements.</li><li>A common mistake is to think that the more allies we have, the better; but quality is more important than quantity.</li><li><strong>Understand</strong>: the perfect allies are those who give you something you cannot get on your own. They have the resources you lack. They will do your dirty work for you or fight your battles.</li><li>No one can get far in life without allies. The trick, however, is to recognize the difference between false allies and real ones. A false alliance is created out of an immediate emotional need. It requires that you give up something essential about yourself and makes it impossible for you to make your own decisions. A true alliance is formed out of mutual self-interest, each side supplying what the other cannot get alone. It does not require you to fuse your own identity with that of a group or pay attention to everyone else&#x27;s emotional needs. It allows you autonomy.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The first step is to understand that all of us constantly use other people to help and advance ourselves.</li><li>There is no shame in this, no need to ever feel guilty. Nor should we take it personally when we realize that someone else is using us; using people is a human and social necessity.</li><li>Next, with this understanding in mind, you must learn to make these necessary alliances strategic ones, aligning yourself with people who can give you something you cannot get on your own. This requires that you resist the temptation to let your decisions about alliances be governed by your emotions; your emotional needs are what your personal life is for, and you must leave them behind when you enter the arena of social battle.</li><li>One of the best stratagems in the Alliance Game is to begin by seeming to help another person in some cause or fight, only for the purpose of furthering your own interests in the end.</li><li>A variation on the Alliance Game is to play the mediator, the center around which other powers pivot. While remaining covertly autonomous, you make those around you fight for your allegiance.</li><li>The brilliance of this variation is that merely by assuming a central position, you can wield tremendous power.</li><li>A key component of the Alliance Game is the ability to manipulate other people&#x27;s alliances and even destroy them, sowing dissension among your opponents so that they fight among themselves. Breaking your enemy&#x27;s alliances is as good as making alliances yourself.</li><li>Your focus here is on stirring up mistrust.</li></ul><h5><strong>Give Your Rivals Enough Rope to Hang Themselves:</strong> The One-Upmanship Strategy</h5><ul><li>Life&#x27;s greatest dangers often come not from external enemies but from our supposed colleagues and friends, who pretend to work for the common cause while scheming to sabotage us and steal our ideas for their gain. Although, in the court in which you serve, you must maintain the appearance of consideration and civility, you also must learn to defeat these people. Work to instill doubts and insecurities in such rivals, getting them to think too much and act defensively. Bait them with subtle challenges that get under their skin, triggering an overreaction, an embarrassing mistake. The victory you are after is to isolate them. Make them hang themselves through their own self-destructive tendencies, leaving you blameless and clean.</li></ul><p><strong>The Art of One-Upmanship</strong></p><ul><li>Throughout your life you will find yourself fighting on two fronts. First is the external front, your inevitable enemies--but second and less obvious is the internal front, your colleagues and fellow courtiers, many of whom will scheme against you, advancing their own agendas at your expense.</li><li><strong>Understand:</strong> internal warfare is by nature unconventional. Since people theoretically on the same side usually do their best to maintain the appearance of being team players working for the greater good, complaining about them or attacking them will only make you look bad and isolate you.</li><li>You need to adopt a form of warfare suited to these nebulous yet dangerous battles, which go on every day. And the unconventional strategy that works best in this arena is the art of one-upmanship. Developed by history&#x27;s savviest courtiers, it is based on two simple premises: first, your rivals harbor the seeds of their own self-destruction, and second, a rival who is made to feel defensive and inferior, however subtly, will tend to act defensive and inferior, to his or her detriment.</li><li>When you sense you have colleagues who may prove dangerous--or are actually already plotting something--you must try first to gather intelligence on them. Look at their everyday behavior, their past actions, their mistakes, for signs of their flaws</li><li>Begin by doing something to prick the underlying wound, creating doubt, insecurity, and anxiety. It might be an offhand comment or something that your victims sense as a challenge to their position within the court. Your goal is not to challenge them blatantly, though, but to get under their skin: they feel attacked but are not sure why or how. The result is a vague, troubling sensation. A feeling of inferiority creeps in.</li><li>You then follow up with secondary actions that feed their doubts. Here it is often best to work covertly, getting other people, the media, or simple rumor to do the job for you. The endgame is deceptively simple: having piled up enough self-doubt to trigger a reaction, you stand back and let the target self-destruct. You must avoid the temptation to gloat or get in a last blow; at this point, in fact, it is best to act friendly, even offering dubious assistance and advice. Your targets&#x27; reaction will be an overreaction.</li><li>The worst colleagues and comrades are often the ones with inflated egos, who think everything they do is right and worthy of praise. Subtle mockery and disguised parody are brilliant ways of one-upping these types.</li><li>The easiest types to one-up are those who are rigid. Being rigid does not necessarily mean being humorless or charmless, but it does mean being intolerant of anything that breaks their code of acceptable behavior.</li></ul><h5><strong>Take Small Bites:</strong> The Fait Accompli Strategy</h5><ul><li>If you seem too ambitious, you stir up resentment in other people; overt power grabs and sharp rises to the top are dangerous, creating envy, distrust, and suspicion. Often the best solution is to take small bites, swallow little territories, playing upon people&#x27;s relatively short attention spans. Stay under the radar and they won&#x27;t see your moves. And if they do, it may already be too late; the territory is yours, a fait accompli. You can always claim you acted out of self-defense. Before people realize it, you have accumulated an empire.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The truth is that most people are conservative by nature. Desperate to keep what they have, they dread the unforeseen consequences and situations that conflict inevitably brings. They hate confrontation and try to avoid it.</li><li>The strategy works as follows: Suppose there is something you want or need for your security and power. Take it without discussion or warning and you give your enemies a choice, either to fight or to accept the loss and leave you alone. Is whatever you have taken, and your unilateral action in taking it, worth the bother, cost, and danger of waging war?</li><li>The key to the fait accompli strategy is to act fast and without discussion. If you reveal your intentions before taking action, you will open yourself to a slew of criticisms, analyses, and questions.</li><li>Finally, the use of the piecemeal strategy to disguise your aggressive intentions is invaluable in these political times, but in masking your manipulations you can never go too far. So when you take a bite, even a small one, make a show of acting out of self-defense. It also helps to appear as the underdog.</li><li>In fact, it would be the height of wisdom to make your bite a little larger upon occasion and then giving back some of what you have taken. People see only your generosity and your limited actions, not the steadily increasing empire you are amassing.</li></ul><h5><strong>Penetrate Their Minds:</strong> Communication Strategies</h5><ul><li>Communication is a kind of war, its field of battle the resistant and defensive minds of the people you want to influence. The goal is to advance, to penetrate their defenses and occupy their minds. Anything else is ineffective communication, self-indulgent talk. Learn to infiltrate your ideas behind enemy lines, sending messages through little details, luring people into coming to the conclusions you desire and into thinking they&#x27;ve gotten there by themselves. Some you can trick by cloaking your extraordinary ideas in ordinary forms; others, more resistant and dull, must be awoken with extreme language that bristles with newness. At all cost, avoid language that is static, preachy, and overly personal. Make your words a spark for action, not passive contemplation.</li><li>To communicate in a deep and real way, you must bring people back to their childhood, when they were less defensive and more impressed by sounds, images, actions, a world of preverbal communication. It requires speaking a kind of language composed of actions, all strategically designed to effect people&#x27;s moods and emotions, what they can least control.</li><li>It is imperative in life&#x27;s battles to be able to communicate your ideas to people, to be able to alter their behavior.</li><li><strong>Understand</strong>: you may have brilliant ideas, the kind that could revolutionize the world, but unless you can express them effectively, they will have no force, no power to enter people&#x27;s minds in a deep and lasting way. You must focus not on yourself or on the need you feel to express what you have to say but on your audience--as intently as a general focuses on the enemy he is strategizing to defeat. When dealing with people who are bored and have short attention spans, you must entertain them, sneaking your ideas in through the back door. With leaders you must be careful and indirect, perhaps using third parties to disguise the source of the ideas you are trying to spread. With the young your expression must be more violent. In general, your words must have movement, sweeping readers along, never calling attention to their own cleverness. You are not after personal expression, but power and influence. The less people consciously focus on the communicative form you have chosen, the less they realize how far your dangerous ideas are burrowing into their minds.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>What you need to pay attention to is not simply the content of your communication but the form--the way you lead people to the conclusions you desire, rather than telling them the message in so many words. If you want people to change a bad habit, for example, much more effective than simply trying to persuade them to stop is to show them--perhaps by mirroring their bad behavior in some way--how annoying that habit feels to other people.</li><li>If you want to communicate an important idea, you must not preach; instead make your readers or listeners connect the dots and come to the conclusion on their own.</li><li>Silence, for instance, can be used to great effect: by keeping quiet, not responding, you say a lot; by not mentioning something that people expect you to talk about, you call attention to this ellipsis, make it communicate.</li><li>In putting this strategy into practice, avoid the common mistake of straining to get people&#x27;s attention by using a form that is shocking or strange. The attention you get this way will be superficial and short-lived. By using a form that alienates a wide public, you narrow your audience; you will end up preaching to the converted.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Even as you plan your communications to make them more consciously strategic, you must develop the reverse ability to decode the subtexts, hidden messages, and unconscious signals in what other people say. When people speak in vague generalities, for example, and use a lot of abstract terms like justice, morality, liberty, and so on, without really ever explaining the specifics of what they are talking about, they are almost always hiding something.</li><li>Meanwhile people who use cutesy, colloquial language, brimming with cliches and slang, may be trying to distract you from the thinness of their ideas, trying to win you over not by the soundness of their arguments but by making you feel chummy and warm toward them.</li><li>And people who use pretentious, flowery language, crammed with clever metaphors, are often more interested in the sound of their own voices than in reaching the audience with a genuine thought.</li></ul><h5><strong>Destroy from Within</strong>: The Inner-Front Strategy</h5><ul><li>A war can only really be fought against an enemy who shows himself. By infiltrating your opponents&#x27; ranks, working from within to bring them down, you give them nothing to see or react against--the ultimate advantage. From within, you also learn their weaknesses and open up possibilities of sowing internal dissension. So hide your hostile intentions. To take something you want, do not fight those who have it, but rather join them--then either slowly make it your own or wait for the moment to stage a coup d&#x27;etat. No structure can stand for long when it rots from within.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>The basic principle here is that it is easiest to topple a structure--a wall, a group, a defensive mind--from the inside out.</li><li>A variation on the lotus strategy is to befriend your enemies, worming your way into their hearts and minds. As your targets&#x27; friend, you will naturally learn their needs and insecurities, the soft interior they try so hard to hide.</li><li>For a more immediate effect, you can try a sudden act of kindness and generosity that gets people to lower their defenses--the Trojan Horse strategy.</li><li>The main weakness in any conspiracy is usually human nature: the higher the number of people who are in on the plot, the higher the odds that someone will reveal it, whether deliberately or accidentally.</li><li>There are a few precautions you can take. Keep the number of conspirators as small as possible. Involve them in the details of the plot only as necessary; the less they know, the less they have to blab. Revealing the schedule of your plan as late as possible before you all act will give them no time to back out. Then, once the plan is described, stick to it.</li><li>Too few conspirators and you lack the strength to control the consequences; too many and the conspiracy will be exposed before it bears fruit..</li><li>In destroying anything from within, you must be patient and resist the lure of large-scale, dramatic action.</li><li>Finally, morale plays a crucial part in any war, and it is always wise to work to undermine the morale of the enemy troops.</li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>There are always likely to be disgruntled people in your own group who will be liable to turning against you from the inside. The worst mistake is to be paranoid, suspecting one and all and trying to monitor their every move. Your only real safeguard against conspiracies and saboteurs is to keep your troops satisfied, engaged in their work, and united by their cause.</li></ul><h5><strong>Dominate While Seeming to Submit:</strong> The Passive-Aggression Strategy</h5><ul><li>Any attempt to bend people to your will is a form of aggression. And in a world where political considerations are paramount, the most effective form of aggression is the best-hidden one: aggression behind a compliant, even loving exterior. To follow the passive-aggressive strategy, you must seem to go along with people, offering no resistance. But actually you dominate the situation. You are noncommittal, even a little helpless, but that only means that everything revolves around you. Some people may sense what you are up to and get angry. Don&#x27;t worry--just make sure you have disguised your aggression enough that you can deny it exists. Do it right and they will feel guilty for accusing you. Passive aggression is a popular strategy; you must learn how to defend yourself against the vast legions of passive-aggressive warriors who will assail you in your daily life.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>We humans have a particular limitation to our reasoning powers that causes us endless problems: when we are thinking about someone or about something that has happened to us, we generally opt for the simplest, most easily digestible interpretation.</li><li>An acquaintance is good or bad, nice or mean, his or her intentions noble or nefarious; an event is positive or negative, beneficial or harmful; we are happy or sad.</li><li>The truth is that nothing in life is ever so simple. People are invariably a mix of good and bad qualities, strengths and weaknesses.</li><li>This tendency of ours to judge things in simple terms explains why passive aggression is so devilishly effective as a strategy and why so many people use it--consciously and unconsciously.</li><li>There are two kinds of passive aggression. The first is conscious strategy as practiced by Metternich. The second is a semiconscious or even unconscious behavior that people use all the time in the petty and not-so-petty matters of daily life.</li><li>We are generally too lenient with this second variety.</li><li><strong>Remember</strong>: it is never wise to seem too eager for power, wealth, or fame. Your ambition may carry you to the top, but you will not be liked and will find your unpopularity a problem. Better to disguise your maneuvers for power: you do not want it but have found it forced upon you. Being passive and making others come to you is a brilliant form of aggression.</li><li>Subtle acts of sabotage can work wonders in the passive-aggressive strategy because you can camouflage them under your friendly, compliant front.</li><li>Passive aggression is so common in daily life that you have to know how to play defense as well as offense.First, you must understand why passive aggression has become so omnipresent.</li><li>Most often their behavior is relatively harmless: perhaps they are chronically late, or make flattering comments that hide a sarcastic sting, or offer help but never follow through. These common tactics are best ignored; just let them wash over you as part of the current of modern life, and never take them personally. You have more important battles to fight.</li><li>There are, however, stronger, more harmful versions of passive aggression, acts of sabotage that do real damage. A colleague is warm to your face but says things behind your back that cause you problems.</li><li>To defeat the passive-aggressive warrior, you must first work on yourself. This means being acutely aware of the blame-shifting tactic as it happens. Squash any feelings of guilt it might begin to make you feel.</li><li>Second, once you realize you are dealing with the dangerous variety, the smartest move is to disengage, at best to get the person out of your life, or at the least to not flare up and cause a scene, all of which plays into his hands.</li><li>If it happens to be a partner in a relationship in which you cannot disengage, the only solution is to find a way to make the person feel comfortable in expressing any negative feelings toward you and encouraging it.</li><li>The most effective counterstrategy with the passive-aggressive is often to be subtle and underhanded right back at them, neutralizing their powers. You can also try this with the less harmful types--the ones who are chronically late, for instance: giving them a taste of their own medicine may open their eyes to the irritating effects of their behavior.</li></ul><h5><strong>Sow Uncertainty and Panic Through Acts of Terror:</strong> The Chain-Reaction Strategy</h5><ul><li>Terror is the ultimate way to paralyze a people&#x27;s will to resist and destroy their ability to plan a strategic response. Such power is gained through sporadic acts of violence that create a constant feeling of threat, incubating a fear that spreads throughout the public sphere. The goal in a terror campaign is not battlefield victory but causing maximum chaos and provoking the other side into desperate overreaction. Melting invisibly into the population, tailoring their actions for the mass media, the strategists of terror create the illusion that they are everywhere and therefore that they are far more powerful than they really are. It is a war of nerves. The victims of terror must not succumb to fear or even anger; to plot the most effective counterstrategy, they must stay balanced. In the face of a terror campaign, one&#x27;s rationality is the last line of defense.</li><li><strong>Understand</strong>: we are all extremely susceptible to the emotions of those around us. It is often hard for us to perceive how deeply we are affected by the moods that can pass through a group. This is what makes the use of terror so effective and so dangerous: with a few well-timed acts of violence, a handful of assassins can spark all kinds of corrosive thoughts and uncertainties. The weakest members of the target group will succumb to the greatest fear, spreading rumors and anxieties that slowly overcome the rest. The strong may respond angrily and violently to the terror campaign, but that only shows how influenced they are by the panic; they are reacting rather than strategizing--a sign of weakness, not strength.</li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Warfare</strong></p><ul><li>Although terror as a strategy can be employed by large armies and indeed whole states, it is most effectively practiced by those small in number. The reason is simple: the use of terror usually requires a willingness to kill innocent civilians in the name of a greater good and for a strategic purpose.</li><li>Being so few in number, they cannot hope to wage a conventional war or even a guerrilla campaign. Terror is their strategy of last resort. Taking on a much larger enemy, they are often desperate, and they have a cause to which they are utterly committed.</li><li>This asymmetry brings war to its ultimate extreme: the smallest number of people waging war against an enormous power, leveraging their smallness and desperation into a potent weapon. The dilemma that all terrorism presents, and the reason it attracts so many and is so potent, is that terrorists have a great deal less to lose than the armies arrayed against them, and a great deal to gain through terror.</li><li>A violent temper or outlandish act, volcanic and startling, can also create the illusion of power, disguising actual weaknesses and insecurities.</li><li>If you have to deal with a terroristic spouse or boss, it is best to fight back in a determined but dispassionate manner--the response such types least expect.</li><li>To combat terrorism--classical or the new version on the horizon--it is always tempting to resort to a military solution, fighting violence with violence, showing the enemy that your will is not broken and that any future attacks on their part will come with a heavy price.</li><li>The problem here is that terrorists by nature have much less to lose than you do. A counterstrike may hurt them but will not deter them; in fact, it may even embolden them and help them gain recruits.</li><li>More valuable than military force here is solid intelligence, infiltration of the enemy ranks (working to find dissidents from within), and slowly and steadily drying up the money and resources on which the terrorist depends.</li><li>At the same time, it is important to occupy the moral high ground. As the victim of the attack, you have the advantage here, but you may lose it if you counterattack aggressively.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Art of Thinking Clearly by Rolf Dobelli: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A fantastic book summarizing a variety of biases that affect our thinking and decision-making. Dobelli leans heavily on people like Kahneman, Taleb, and others to build this extensive list (99 items!) of things to watch out for. Well worth the read, and will likely require revisiting when making decisions.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><p>These notes are a little different than my typical ones. I’ve summarized all the biases below, which can be considered the “book notes”. Then I’ve also put together a list of questions one can use when making decisions to try and counter these biases.</p><h5><strong>Biases</strong></h5><ul><li><strong><em>Survivorship bias</em></strong>: we tend to only hear about the successes or “survivors” - we don’t hear the stories of the failures, and thus overestimate the chances of success. </li><li><strong><em>Swimmer’s body illusion</em></strong>: confusing the factor for selection with the result (ex: swimming gives you a great frame; actually, great swimmers are born with a good frame for swimming). </li><li><strong><em>Clustering illusion</em></strong>: we tend to see patterns where there aren’t any. </li><li><strong><em>Social proof</em></strong>: we feel we are behaving correctly when we act the same as other people. </li><li><strong><em>Sunk cost fallacy</em></strong>: when we consider the costs incurred to date as a factor in our decision-making. Only your assessment of the future costs and benefits should count. </li><li><strong><em>Reciprocity</em></strong>: we feel we owe something in return whenever we accept a favour or free item. </li><li><strong><em>Confirmation bias</em></strong>: we interpret evidence to support our existing beliefs. </li><li>To counter, set out to find <em>disconfirming</em> evidence for your hypothesis. </li><li><strong><em>Authority bias</em></strong>: we tend to defer to authority, and consider the opinions of supposedly authoritative people too strongly. </li><li><strong><em>Contrast effect</em></strong>: we judge things in relation to other things. We also don’t notice small, gradual changes. </li><li><strong><em>Availability bias</em></strong>: we create a picture of the world, or construct arguments, based on examples and evidence that most easily come to mind. </li><li>Counter by spending time with people who think differently than you do. </li><li><strong><em>It’ll-get-worse-before-it-gets-better fallacy</em></strong>: a variation of confirmation bias. If the problem persists, the prediction is confirmed. If it improves, the expert can attribute it to his prowess. </li><li><strong><em>Story bias</em></strong>: we try and shape everything into stories. </li><li><strong><em>Hindsight bias</em></strong>: in retrospect, everything seems clear and inevitable. </li><li><strong><em>Overconfidence effect</em></strong>: we systematically overestimate our knowledge and our ability to predict. </li><li><strong><em>Chauffeur knowledge</em></strong>: the knowledge required to make it appear as though someone understands something, when in fact they do not. </li><li><strong><em>Illusion of control</em></strong>: we believe we influence far more than we actually do. </li><li><strong><em>Incentive super-response tendency</em></strong>: people respond to incentives by doing what is in their best interests. </li><li><strong><em>Regression to the mean</em></strong>: average values will fluctuate around a mean. Decreased or increased performance may simply be these random fluctuations, not due to an identifiable cause. </li><li><strong><em>Outcome bias</em></strong>: we tend to evaluate decisions based on the result, instead of the process. </li><li><strong><em>Paradox of choice</em></strong>: an abundance of choice leads to inner paralysis, poorer decisions, and unhappiness with our decisions. </li><li><strong><em>Liking bias</em></strong>: the more we like someone, the more we want to buy from or help that person. </li><li><strong><em>Endowment effect</em></strong>: we consider things to be more valuable the moment we own them. </li><li><em><strong>Coincidence</strong>:</em> we tend to see unlikely events as causal, when in reality they are likely random. </li><li><strong><em>Groupthink</em></strong>: in groups, we tend to avoid contradiction, and we tend to agree with the majority conclusion. </li><li><strong><em>Neglect of probability</em></strong>: we lack an intuitive grasp of probability, and instead tend to respond to the expected magnitude of an event, instead of its likelihood. </li><li><strong><em>Scarcity error</em></strong>: when we are deprived of an option, we suddenly deem it more attractive. </li><li><strong><em>Base-rate neglect</em></strong>: we disregard the basic distribution levels for a given outcome. </li><li>Often exacerbated by giving more detail (narrative fallacy contributes). </li><li>Also made worse by survivorship bias. </li><li><strong><em>Gambler’s fallacy</em></strong>: we tend to mix up events that are independent and dependent (ie. this ball has landed on black 10 times, it must be red soon). </li><li>“What goes around comes around” is just false. </li><li><strong><em>Anchors</em></strong>: when we guess something, we start from something we are sure of, and go from there. </li><li><strong><em>Induction</em></strong>: the inclination to draw universal certainties from individual (typically past) observations. </li><li>The turkey problem - he lives a great life until Thanksgiving. </li><li><strong><em>Loss aversion</em></strong>: the fear of losing something motivates people more than the prospect of gaining something of equal value. </li><li><strong><em>Social loafing</em></strong>: when people work together (and individual performance is not directly visible), their individual performance decreases. </li><li><strong><em>Exponential growth</em></strong>: we do not have a good intuitive feel for exponential growth (vs. Linear growth). </li><li><strong><em>Winner’s curse</em></strong>: the winner of an auction often turns out to be the loser. </li><li><strong><em>Fundamental attribution error</em></strong>: the tendency to overestimate the influence of an individual, and underestimate external, situational factors. </li><li><strong><em>False causality</em></strong>: when we mix up correlation with causation. </li><li><strong><em>Halo effect</em></strong>: when a single aspect dazzles us, and we fail to see the larger picture or evaluate other factors objectively. </li><li><strong><em>Alternative paths</em></strong>: we fail to consider all the outcomes which could have happened, and therefore underestimate risk. </li><li><strong><em>Forecast illusion</em></strong>: we tend to believe forecasts, despite the poor predictability and low downside for being wrong. </li><li><strong><em>Conjunction fallacy</em></strong>: when a subset seems larger than the entire set. </li><li>A result of our attraction to plausible stories. </li><li><strong><em>Framing</em>:</strong> we react differently to identical situations, depending on how they are presented. </li><li><strong><em>Action bias</em>:</strong> we feel compelled to do something, particularly in new or shaky circumstances, even if we have made things worse by acting too quickly or too often. </li><li><strong><em>Omission bias</em></strong>: we tend to prefer inaction whenever both action and inaction lead to cruel consequences. </li><li><strong><em>Self-serving bias</em></strong>: we attribute success to ourselves and failure to external circumstances. </li><li><strong><em>Hedonic treadmill</em></strong>: we adjust to new circumstances, and are unable to correctly predict our own emotions in response to new circumstances. </li><li><strong><em>Self-selection bias</em></strong>: we change the outcome of something by poorly selecting our sample. </li><li><strong><em>Association bias</em></strong>: we make false connections between things that are not linked. </li><li>Example: we condemn the bearers of bad news, due to the negative nature of the message. </li><li><strong><em>Beginner’s luck</em></strong>: we create a false link with early, past results. </li><li><strong><em>Cognitive dissonance</em></strong>: when inconsistencies in our thoughts, beliefs, or attitudes cause us to reinterpret events to keep things consistent. </li><li><strong><em>Hyperbolic discounting</em></strong>: the introduction of “now”, causing us to make inconsistent decisions. </li><li><strong><em>“Because” justification</em></strong>: introduction of a reason (any reason) increases our compliance. </li><li><strong><em>Decision fatigue</em></strong>: willpower erodes throughout the day, particularly when we haven’t eaten or slept. </li><li><strong><em>Contagion bias</em></strong>: we are incapable of ignoring the connection we feel to certain items, even if from long ago or of indirect relation. </li><li><strong><em>Problems with averages</em></strong>: averages often mask the underlying distribution. </li><li>Never cross a river that is “on average” four feet deep. </li><li>The Bill Gates phenomenon. </li><li><strong><em>Motivation crowding</em>:</strong> small monetary incentives may crowd out other types of incentives. </li><li><strong><em>Twaddle tendency</em></strong>: reams of words used to disguise intellectual laziness, stupidity, misunderstanding or underdeveloped ideas. Often used in conjunction with <em>authority bias</em>. </li><li><strong><em>Will Rogers phenomenon</em></strong>: the effect of changing the average in two groups (positively) by moving something from one category to another. </li><li>Example: if you move the lowest net worth individual from a higher group to a lower group, the average net worth of both groups increases. </li><li><strong><em>Information bias</em></strong>: the delusion that more information guarantees better decisions. </li><li><strong><em>Effort justification</em>:</strong> if you put a lot of effort into a task, you tend to overvalue the result. </li><li><strong><em>Law of small numbers</em>:</strong> when we assume characteristics of the overall population can be assumed from a small sample, when in fact small samples are much more subject to random variation. </li><li><strong><em>Expectations</em></strong>: expectations form our reaction to various events, and contribute to our happiness. Set expectations high for yourself and the people you love, and lower them for things you cannot control. </li><li><strong><em>Simple logic</em>:</strong> we tend to default to intuition because it is less taxing. </li><li><strong><em>Forer effect (aka Barnum effect)</em></strong>: we tend to identify with positive traits in general descriptions, believing pseudosciences as a result. </li><li><strong><em>Volunteer’s folly</em></strong>: volunteering our time is less efficient (because we do these jobs less effectively) than contributing our earnings for the equivalent amount of time. Exception: celebrities. </li><li><strong><em>Affect heuristic</em></strong>: when we make complex decisions by consulting our emotions, instead of considering the risks and benefits independently. </li><li><strong><em>Introspection illusion</em></strong>: the belief that reflection leads to truth or accuracy. </li><li><strong><em>Inability to close doors</em></strong>: we tend to prefer leaving options open, thinking they are free, when in reality they have a cost in distracting us. </li><li><strong><em>Neomania</em>:</strong> when we prioritize things that are new and novel over their actual benefits.</li><li><strong><em>Sleeper effect</em></strong>: if propaganda/advertising strikes a chord with someone, the influence will only increase over time. </li><li><strong><em>Alternative blindness</em></strong>: we systematically forget to compare an existing offer with the next-best alternative. </li><li><strong><em>Social comparison bias</em>:</strong> we tend to withhold assistance for people who might outdo us, even if you look like the fool in the long run. </li><li><strong><em>Primacy and recency effects</em></strong>: the first trait, or more recent information, hold larger sway over us. </li><li><strong><em>Not-invented-here syndrome</em></strong>: when we think anything we create ourselves is unbeatable. </li><li><strong><em>The Black Swan</em></strong>: an unthinkable event that massively affects your life, career, company, country. </li><li><strong><em>Domain dependence</em></strong>: insights from one field do not pass well to another. </li><li><strong><em>False-consensus effect</em>:</strong> we overestimate the unanimity of others, believing they think and feel exactly like we do. </li><li><strong><em>Falsification of history</em></strong>: our memories are riddled with inaccuracy. </li><li><strong><em>In-group out-group bias</em></strong>: groups form based on minor criteria. You perceive people outside your group to be more similar than they actually are (stereotypes start here). Group members lead to disproportionate perceived support within the group.</li><li><strong><em>Ambiguity aversion</em></strong>: we favour known probabilities over unknown ones. </li><li><strong><em>Default effect</em>:</strong> we prefer the status quo. </li><li><strong><em>Fear of regret</em></strong>: when we fail to act to avoid potentially feeling regret.</li><li><strong><em>Salience effect</em>:</strong> outstanding features has an undue influence on how we think and act. We neglect hidden, slow-to-develop factors. </li><li><strong><em>House-money effect</em>:</strong> we treat money that we win, discover, or inherit much more frivolously than hard-earned cash. </li><li><strong><em>Procrastination</em>:</strong> the tendency to delay unpleasant but important acts. </li><li><strong><em>Envy</em>:</strong> when we compare ourselves on the basis of ownership, status, health, youth, talent, popularity or beauty. The subject of envy is a <em>thing</em>, where as the subject of jealousy is the behaviour of a third person.</li><li><strong><em>Personification</em></strong>: we empathize with other people when the human aspect is visible. </li><li><strong><em>Illusion of attention</em></strong>: we are confident that we notice everything in front of us, despite only seeing what we are focused on. </li><li><strong><em>Strategic misrepresentation</em></strong>: the more at stake, the more exaggerated your assertions become. </li><li><strong><em>Overthinking</em></strong>: if you think too much, you will lose the wisdom of your emotional response.</li><li><strong><em>Planning fallacy</em>:</strong> we overestimate benefits, and underestimate the risks, costs and duration of a project. </li><li><strong><em>Déformation professionnelle</em>:</strong> experts will tend to solve problems using their expertise, not necessarily the best method. </li><li>“To the man with a hammer, every problem is a nail.&quot; </li><li><strong><em>Zeigarnik effect</em>:</strong> we forget uncompleted tasks unless we have a clear idea of how to deal with them. </li><li><strong><em>Illusion of skill</em>:</strong> luck plays a larger role than skill in many domains, like entrepreneurship and leadership. Skill is necessary but not sufficient. </li><li><strong><em>Feature-positive effect</em>:</strong> we place a greater emphasis on what is present than what is absent. </li><li><strong><em>Cherry picking</em>:</strong> selecting and showcasing the most attractive features and hiding the rest. </li><li><strong><em>Fallacy of the single cause</em>:</strong> the belief that a single factor caused an event or phenomenon. </li><li><strong><em>Intention-to-treat error</em>:</strong> when failed projects or statistics show up in the wrong category. </li><li><strong><em>News illusion</em></strong>: we believe news is important, when in reality it is not, and is specifically designed to attract us, despite this. </li></ul><p><strong>Other general advice: </strong></p><ul><li>We cannot know what makes us successful or happy. Negative knowledge (what <em>not</em> to do) is much more valuable than positive knowledge (what <em>to</em> do). </li><li>In other words, eliminate errors and better thinking will follow. </li><li>In situations where consequences are large, try to be as rational as possible. </li><li>In situations where the consequences are small, let intuition take over (save your effort). </li><li>Also let intuition take over when in your circle of competence. </li></ul><h5><strong>Decision-Making Checklist</strong></h5><ul><li>Is this an example of survivorship bias? </li><li>Am I confusing the factor for selection with the result? </li><li>Am I seeing a pattern where there isn’t one? </li><li>Am I changing my behaviour or opinion because others are doing/acting/thinking this way? Because of social proof? </li><li>Am I looking at only the future costs and benefits? Disregard any costs to date. </li><li>Do I feel obligated to return a favour here? Have they done something for me that might make me subject to reciprocity? </li><li>Can I find disconfirming evidence for my current hypothesis? What are the limitations of this evidence? How might someone with the opposing viewpoint interpret this evidence? </li><li>Is some sort of authority figure exerting an influence on me? </li><li>What am I judging this is relation to? How would this look in a different context, compared to something else? What sort of small, gradual changes might I be missing? </li><li>Am I overvaluing evidence because of my own experience or the ease with which I can recall it? Who can I get an opinion from who has a different expertise and experience than me? </li><li>What evidence would I have to see to make a judgement about whether this situation is improving? What are clear and verifiable milestones? </li><li>Am I trying to shape this into a story? What is my confidence level that I actually understand this? </li><li>What predictions am I making about this? How confident am I? What historical decisions do I have recorded that might indicate my prediction level? </li><li>What is the pessimistic scenario here? How far off is my own prediction from this scenario? </li><li>Does this person (or do I) truly understand this situation? Or is it outside my circle of competence? </li><li>What specific things can I actually control in this situation? </li><li>What incentives are at play here? How do they likely affect the behaviour of those involved? </li><li>Could this situation be explained by random variation, or regression to the mean? </li><li>Was the process behind this good or bad, regardless of the result? Do I have enough evidence to evaluate the effectiveness of the process? What information did I have at the time? </li><li>How can I reduce the number of choices here? What are the key factors I want to evaluate? </li><li>Do I like this person? Is that affecting my decision-making process? </li><li>Am I valuing this too highly because it is already mine? What does the market think? </li><li>How unlikely is this event? Could it be caused by random chance? </li><li>What is the devil’s advocate view of this situation? Have we expressed our opinions independently? </li><li>What is the rational response based on the probability and consequences of this event? What is the expected value or risk? </li><li>Have I assessed this option based solely on costs and benefits? How would I evaluate it if it were available in abundance? </li><li>What is the base rate in this situation? Is there an analogous situation I can rely on? </li><li>What factors are independent and which are dependent in this situation? </li><li>What anchors might I be using here when I shouldn’t be? </li><li>What are the objective upsides and downsides here? Am I overweighting the downside, or the fear of loss? </li><li>Are we behaving differently here because we are a group? How are we evaluating individual performance? </li><li>Is there an exponential factor at play here? Or is it linear? </li><li>Am I competing with someone here? Is that changing my behaviour? What is my “line in the sand” if I’m bidding for something? Can I avoid an auction situation? </li><li>What are the broader factors influencing the situation here? What degree of influence do they really have? </li><li>Is there actually a link between these two factors? How do we know that one causes the other? How do we know they are linked at all? </li><li>What are the limits of this piece of information? Is it causing me to look at other things favourably or unfavourably? </li><li>If I try and evaluate from an outside view, what are all the possible outcomes for this situation? What are the associated risks with each path? </li><li>What incentives is this person subject to? Is there a downside if the prediction is wrong? How good is his success rate? </li><li>Am I dealing with a subset here? Am I trying to fit a plausible story to the situation? </li><li>What if I present this situation in the opposite way? How does that change my perception? </li><li>Am I just trying to act here? What if I just wait? Will I be able to better assess my options? </li><li>Am I avoiding a particular path because the consequences are bad, but less bad than inaction? </li><li>What bluntly honest friends, or enemies, could I ask for an honest assessment of strengths and weaknesses? </li><li>Will this lead to long-term or short-term happiness? Would this lead to something guaranteed to be negative? </li><li>How does this sample affect the conclusions I’m trying to make? What would be the ideal sample? </li><li>Am I transferring qualities between things that are unrelated? Am I shooting the messenger? </li><li>Is the sample size enough to make a conclusion about luck vs. skill here? Are there a large number of players here? (Likely to cause random winners). Can I disprove my conclusion? </li><li>Am I trying to reinterpret things to maintain a previous attitude or belief? </li><li>Am I making an impulsive decision right now? Am I playing the long game or short game? </li><li>Is the reasoning behind this sound, or am I just going along with a “because” reason? </li><li>Am I making this decision fresh? Am I well-rested and well-fed? </li><li>Do I have a connection to this in some way? </li><li>Does the average mean anything in this situation? What is the actual underlying distribution? </li><li>Are financial incentives crowding my judgement? Are they crowding other incentives for the people involved here? </li><li>What is being said here? Is it actually useful? </li><li>How are these factors grouped? How has it changed? Have the groups been rearranged to manipulate the averages? </li><li>What information is actually useful here? Am I falsely increasing my confidence levels because of additional, but useless information? </li><li>Am I overvaluing parts of this because I put effort into them? What is the value of the result, discounting the process and effort put in? </li><li>Is this sample size sufficient to draw conclusions? Or am I in fact extrapolating too far from a small sample? </li><li>What expectations am I holding about this situation? Are they appropriate? What is the worst-case scenario? </li><li>Am I evaluating this situation rationally? Or using intuition? </li><li>Could this information apply to anyone? Are there any negatives, or are they all positive traits? </li><li>Is this the best use of my time? </li><li>Are my feelings about this subject, topic, or my current feelings contributing to my evaluation? </li><li>Am I being critical with myself? How would I regard these internal observations if they were coming from someone else? </li><li>Am I just trying to keep options open? What should I focus on <em>not</em> pursuing? </li><li>Am I overvaluing this option because of the novelty? </li><li>What is the source of this argument or opinion? </li><li>What is the next best alternative to this option? </li><li>Am I avoiding an option out of fear or jealousy of someone or something outdoing me? </li><li>Am I overvaluing this information because it was the first I’d heard? Or because I heard it more recently? </li><li>Am I overvaluing my own ideas? Who can give me an objective opinion? </li><li>Have I put us in a position to guard against negative Black Swans? And take advantage of positive Black Swans? </li><li>Am I within my circle of competence? Or am I trying to transfer knowledge from one domain to another? </li><li>How do other people feel? What are their opinions? Have I truly gathered information about them? </li><li>Do I know for sure this happened, or am I relying on memory? </li><li>What groups are currently affecting my thinking? Have I sought opinions from outside my group? </li><li>Am I falsely relying on probabilities just to avoid ambiguity? </li><li>Would I make this same decision from a different position, if the status quo was different? </li><li>Am I avoiding a decision out of fear of regret? </li><li>Am I attributing undue weight to this factor because of its prominence? Which discreet factors am I failing to value? </li><li>Is my behaviour different because I won this money or got something for free? </li><li>Am I avoiding this because it’s unpleasant? Can I set a deadline to force myself to get this done? Can I make a public commitment? </li><li>Am I envious of something here? </li><li>What are the facts and statistical distribution behind this story? Is the human aspect causing bias? </li><li>Am I focusing on something here? What am I missing? What other scenarios are possible? </li><li>What is the past performance behind this claim? Are there other situations similar to this where I can find data? What safeguards do I have in place? </li><li>Is this a complex situation, or could I rely some on my emotions? </li><li>What similar projects can I look at for objective data on my situation? What does the pre-mortem look like here? </li><li>Have I gathered a number of sufficiently different perspectives to see how experts with different tools would solve this? </li><li>Have I gone into enough detail in the plan on how to deal with this situation? </li><li>Is there an illusion of skill here? Is this likely due to chance, or is there a demonstrated record of success? </li><li>What features or factors am I missing here? Why do these factors exist instead of nothing? </li><li>What has been cherry-picked here? Where are the negative results? </li><li>Am I falsely attributing this to a single cause? </li><li>What test subjects or information has been removed from the sample? </li><li>Is this valuable information or just news? </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Black Swan by Nassim Nicholas Taleb: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-black-swan-nassim-nicholas-taleb</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[One of the most impactful books I’ve ever read.  Overall, the books of the Incerto have changed my thinking on a number of topics, but this book has probably had the largest impact.Essentially, the book is all about "how to convert knowledge into action and figure out what knowledge is worth”.  What that really means is an in-depth examination of where in our world we apply false, naive models (typically Gaussian, or bell-curve type models), and the impact they can have.It goes further, to talk about how we can reduce the number of these occurrences by alternative prediction methods (using fractal distributions) and mitigating our exposure to true Black Swans, which are "outliers of extreme impact", or “unknown unknowns”.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favorite Quotes</h3><ul><li>&quot;My biggest problem with the educational system lies precisely in that it forces students to squeeze explanations out of subject matters and shames them for withholding judgment, for uttering the &quot;I don’t know.””</li><li>&quot;Simply, things that move, and therefore require knowledge, do not usually have experts, while things that don’t move seem to have some experts.&quot;</li><li>&quot;What matters is not how often you are right, but how large your cumulative errors are.&quot;</li><li>&quot;We humans are the victims of an asymmetry in the perception of random events. We attribute our successes to our skills, and our failures to external events outside our control, namely to randomness.&quot;</li><li>&quot;The unexpected has a one-sided effect with projects. Consider the track records of builders, paper writers, and contractors. The unexpected almost always pushes in a single direction: higher costs and a longer time to completion.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Corporate and government projections have an additional easy-to-spot flaw: they do not attach a possible error rate to their scenarios.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Anyone who causes harm by forecasting should be treated as either a fool or a liar.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Forecasting the motion of a billiard ball on a pool table requires knowledge of the dynamics of the entire universe, down to every single atom! We can easily predict the movements of large objects like planets (though not too far into the future), but the smaller entities can be difficult to figure out—and there are so many more of them.&quot;</li><li>&quot;The Black Swan asymmetry allows you to be confident about what is wrong, not about what you believe is right.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Capitalism is, among other things, the revitalization of the world thanks to the opportunity to be lucky.&quot;</li><li>&quot;I want to be broadly right rather than precisely wrong.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Elegance in the theories is often indicative of Platonicity and weakness—it invites you to seek elegance for elegance’s sake. A theory is like medicine (or government): often useless, sometimes necessary, always self-serving, and on occasion lethal. So it needs to be used with care, moderation, and close adult supervision.&quot;</li><li>&quot;Missing a train is only painful if you run after it!&quot;</li><li>&quot;It is more difficult to be a loser in a game you set up yourself.&quot;</li><li>&quot;I am sometimes taken aback by how people can have a miserable day or get angry because they feel cheated by a bad meal, cold coffee, a social rebuff, or a rude reception. We are quick to forget that just being alive is an extraordinary piece of good luck, a remote event, a chance occurrence of monstrous proportions.&quot;</li></ul><h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>Black Swan: outlier with extreme impact that gets explained (despite not being predicted) after the fact.</li><li>What is surprising is our absence of awareness of forecasting errors, not the impact of them.</li><li>The reason markets work is they allow people to be lucky, not by giving rewards for skill.</li><li>Strategy: tinker to collect as many positive Black Swan opportunities as you can.</li><li>Humans learn precise things, not the general; facts instead of rules.</li><li>We have a bad memory; we tend to distort things in retrospective.</li><li>Categorizing always produces reduction in true complexity (Platonification).</li><li>Law of Mediocristan: when your sample is large, no single instance will significantly change the aggregate or total.</li><li>Ex: height, weight.</li><li>Extremistan: inequalities are such that one single observation can disproportionately impact the aggregate, or total.</li><li>Ex: wealth.</li><li>Note: Extremistan does not always imply Black Swans.</li><li>Black Swans occur relative to your expectations (a sucker’s problem).</li><li>Generally, negative Black Swans happen quickly, positive ones take a while to show.</li><li>The turkey problem: a turkey lives for 1000 days, and believes nothing will happen to him, then is killed on Thanksgiving. Until Thanksgiving, there was no evidence of the possibility of Black Swans.</li><li>Round trip fallacy: absence of evidence is not evidence of absence.</li><li>Humans tend to be poor at transferring knowledge from theory to practice, and from one domain to another (domain specificity).</li><li>Negative instances are much more useful - if we see counter-evidence, we know something is not true.</li><li>Restated: you know what is wrong with much more confidence than you know what is right.</li><li>Confirmation bias: our tendency to only look for corroborating evidence.</li><li>Narrative fallacy: our tendency to summarize/simplify/tell a story to explain something, when in reality it is more complex.</li><li>We tend to remember or value those things that have a clear narrative to those that don’t seem to play a causal role in that narrative.</li><li>Counter this by keeping a diary.</li><li>We tend to use narratives and emotion more than logical, slow, thinking.</li><li>To counter this, favour experimentation over storytelling, experience over history and clinical knowledge over theories.</li><li>Happiness depends far more on the number of instances of positive feelings, rather than their intensity. The same works in reverse (with bad news).</li><li>Bleed strategy: lose steadily, for a long time, except for a rare event where you make a lot. No single event can blow you up, while one can make your profit for a lifetime.</li><li>Anthropic bias: do not compute odds from the vantage point of a winning gambler, but from all those who started in the cohort</li><li>This applies to successful figures, ourselves, etc - we only see the success</li><li>Similarly: positive actions are much easier examined than negative ones; it is very hard to see the consequences of lack of action, yet they may be much better.</li><li>Be careful with your use of “because” - use it only for experimental results, not backwards-looking history.</li><li>Ludic fallacy: that in real life we know the odds.</li><li>The last thing you need to do when dealing with uncertainty is focus - “focus” makes you a sucker; it translates to prediction errors.</li><li>Always question the error rate of an expert’s procedure (the confidence, not the procedure).</li><li>Things that move (are dynamic) don’t seem to have experts.</li><li>It doesn’t matter how often you’re right, only the magnitude of your cumulative errors.</li><li>Typical excuses for prediction errors:</li><li>You say you’re playing a different game.</li><li>You invoke the outlier.</li><li>The “almost right” defense.</li><li>The unexpected has a one-sided effect with projects. Consider the track records of builders, paper writers, and contractors. The unexpected almost always pushes in a single direction: higher costs and a longer time to completion.</li><li>With new projects (war, etc.), errors explode upwards.</li><li>Errors also commonly come from outside the model, or the expertise of the person who built the model.</li><li>Corporate and government projections have an additional easy-to-spot flaw: they do not attach a possible error rate to their scenarios.</li><li>You would take a different set of clothes on your trip to some remote destination if I told you that the temperature was expected to be seventy degrees Fahrenheit, with an expected error rate of forty degrees than if I told you that my margin of error was only five degrees. The policies we need to make decisions on should depend far more on the range of possible outcomes than on the expected final number.</li><li>The second fallacy lies in failing to take into account forecast degradation as the projected period lengthens. We do not realize the full extent of the difference between near and far futures</li><li>The third fallacy, and perhaps the gravest, concerns a misunderstanding of the random character of the variables being forecast. Owing to the Black Swan, these variables can accommodate far more optimistic—or far more pessimistic—scenarios than are currently expected</li><li>Ultimately, the worst case is far more consequential than the forecast itself.</li><li>Prediction requires knowing about technologies that will be discovered in the future. But that very knowledge would almost automatically allow us to start developing those technologies right away. Ergo, we do not know what we will know.</li><li>The Black Swan asymmetry allows you to be confident about what is wrong, not about what you believe is right.</li><li>We overestimate the effects of both pleasant and unpleasant events on our lives.</li><li>“Randomness” = opacity (or lack of knowledge, unknowledge).</li><li>Rank beliefs not according to their plausibility but by the harm they may cause.</li><li>Seize opportunities, and learn to distinguish between positives contingencies and negative ones; learn to open yourself to positive-Black Swans, and protect yourself from negatives ones (aka the Barbell strategy).</li><li>The Matthew Effect: an initial advantage provides a cumulative advantage in the long term.</li><li>Note: failure is also cumulative.</li><li>Remember this: the Gaussian–bell curve variations face a headwind that makes probabilities drop at a faster and faster rate as you move away from the mean, while “scalables&quot;, or Mandelbrotian variations, do not have such a restriction.</li><li>For any large total, the breakdown will be more and more asymmetric.</li><li>If there are strong forces of equilibrium bringing things back rather rapidly after conditions diverge from equilibrium, then again you can use the Gaussian approach. Otherwise, fuhgedaboudit.</li><li>Note the following principle: the rarer the event, the higher the error in our estimation of its probability—even when using the Gaussian.</li><li>Things that don’t apply outside Gaussian distributions: standard deviation, correlation and regression.</li><li>Fractal distributions (aka power laws): small variation in exponent will cause large deviation, therefore it is very sensitive to error. This exponent is also hard to compute, and applies only beginning at some “crossover” point, and tends to be overestimated (ie. Black Swan is underestimated).</li><li>However: we can operate knowing these things in a much better manner than assuming Gaussian distribution.</li><li>This thinking can make many Black Swans into gray swans (ie. modelable extreme events), but Black Swans remain: they are unknown unknowns.</li><li>I will repeat the following until I am hoarse: it is contagion that determines the fate of a theory in social science, not its validity.</li><li>Skeptical empiricism advocates the opposite method. I care about the premises more than the theories, and I want to minimize reliance on theories, stay light on my feet, and reduce my surprises. I want to be broadly right rather than precisely wrong.</li><li>I am most often irritated by those who attack the bishop but somehow fall for the securities analyst—those who exercise their skepticism against religion but not against economists, social scientists, and phony statisticians. Using the confirmation bias, these people will tell you that religion was horrible for mankind by counting deaths from the Inquisition and various religious wars. But they will not show you how many people were killed by nationalism, social science, and political theory under Stalinism or during the Vietnam War.</li><li>...my antidote to Black Swans is precisely to be noncommoditized in my thinking. But beyond avoiding being a sucker, this attitude lends itself to a protocol of how to act—not how to think, but how to convert knowledge into action and figure out what knowledge is worth.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Trillion-Dollar Coach by Eric Schmidt, Jonathan Rosenberg & Alan Eagle: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/trillion-dollar-coach-eric-schmidt</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The most extraordinary part of this book is that an individual like Bill Campbell - who coached many of the top founders in the Valley simultaneously, including Steve Jobs and the Google cofounders - actually existed. The management principles are solid, and woven nicely into the story of Bill’s life, which makes the book easy to read.  Aligns well with Principles.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>Being a good coach is essential to being a good manager and leader. </li><li>The top priority of any manager is the well-being and success of her people. </li><li>Start meetings with trip reports, or other types of more personal, non-business topics. </li><li>Your writing, including emails, should be concise, clear and compassionate. </li><li>Have a structure for 1:1s, and take the time to prepare for them, as they are the best way to help people be more effective and to grow. </li><li>The manager’s job is to run a decision-making process that ensures all perspectives get heard and considered, and, if necessary, to break ties and make the decision. </li><li>Define the “first principles” for the situation, and help guide the decision from those principles. </li><li>Aberrant geniuses - high-performing but difficult team members - should be tolerated and protected as long as their value outweighs the toll. </li><li>Compensating people well demonstrates love and respect and ties them strongly to the goals of the company. </li><li>The purpose of a company is to bring a product vision to life. All the other components are in service to product. </li><li>If you have to let people go, be generous, treat them well, and celebrate their accomplishments. </li><li>It’s the CEO’s job to manager boards, not the other way around. </li><li>The traits that make a person coachable include honest and humility, the willingness to persevere and work hard, and a constant openness to learning. </li><li>Listen to people with your full and undivided attention - don’t think ahead to what you’re going to say next - and ask questions to get to the real issue. </li><li>Never embarrass someone publicly. </li><li>Be relentlessly honest and candid, couple negative feedback with caring, give feedback as soon as possible, and if the feedback is negative, deliver it privately. </li><li>Don’t tell people what to do, tell them stories about why they are doing it, and help guide them to the best decisions for them. </li><li>Believe in people more than they believe in themselves, and push them to be more courageous. </li><li>People are most effective when they can be completely themselves and bring their full identity to work. </li><li>When faced with a problem or opportunity, the first step is to ensure the right team is in place and working on it. </li><li>Pick the right players: the top characteristics to look for are smarts and hearts: the ability to learn fast, a willingness to work hard, integrity, grit, empathy, and a team-first attitude. </li><li>Pair people: peer relationships are critical, and often overlooked, so seek opportunities to pair people up on projects or decisions. </li><li>Make sure to get feedback from your peers - you should cover core attributes, product leader attributes, and open questions. </li><li>Winning depends on having the best team, and the best teams have more women. </li><li>Identify the biggest problem, bring it front and centre, and tackle it first. </li><li>Air all negative issues, but don’t dwell on them. Move on as fast as possible. </li><li>Strive to win, but always win right, with commitment, teamwork, and integrity. </li><li>Leaders lead. You need to commit. You can’t have one foot in and one foot out, because if you aren’t fully committed then the people around you won’t be, either. </li><li>When things are going bad, teams are looking for even more loyalty, commitment, and decisiveness from their leaders. </li><li>Listen, observe, and fill the communication and understanding gaps between people. </li><li>Leader teams become a lot more joyful, and the teams more effective, when you know and care about the people. </li><li>To care about people you have to care about people: ask about their lives outside of work, understand their families, and when things get rough, show up. </li><li>Cheer demonstrably for people and their successes. </li><li>Build communities inside and outside of work. A place is much stronger when people are connected. </li><li>Be generous with your time, connections, and other resources. </li><li>Hold a special reverence for - and protect - the people with the most vision and passion for the company. </li><li>Loving colleagues in the workplace may be challenging, so practice it until it becomes more natural. </li><li>As you get past your fifties, be creative, don’t be a dilettante (commit to things), find people who have vitality and surround yourself with them, apply your gifts, and don’t waste time worrying about the future. </li><li>Bill’s measurement of success: how many great leaders he has helped create. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Deep Work by Cal Newport: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/deep-work-cal-newport</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Newport makes the case for cultivating time to do “deep work” - times where you are concentrated solely on one task, and how powerful this ability can be in the modern world.  He also outlines how you can go about growing the amount of deep work in your life. This book had a large impact on me, in that I now constantly think about how I can increase the amount of time where I spend doing “deep work” of some sort, or more generally, how much I spend in a flow state (see Flow by Csikszentmihalyi).   Important read for anyone in a profession particularly prone to shallow work distractions.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Deep Work</strong>: Professional activities performed in a state of distraction-free concentration that push your cognitive capabilities to their limit. These efforts create new value, improve your skill, and are hard to replicate. </li><li>The reason knowledge workers are losing their familiarity with deep work is well established: network tools. This is a broad category that captures communication services like e-mail and SMS, social media networks like Twitter and Facebook, and the shiny tangle of infotainment sites like BuzzFeed and Reddit. </li><li><strong>Shallow Work</strong>: Noncognitively demanding, logistical-style tasks, often performed while distracted. These efforts tend to not create much new value in the world and are easy to replicate. </li><li><strong>The Deep Work Hypothesis</strong>: The ability to perform deep work is becoming increasingly <em>rare</em> at exactly the same time it is becoming increasingly <em>valuable</em> in our economy. As a consequence, the few who cultivate this skill, and then make it the core of their working life, will thrive. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part I: The Idea</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter One: Deep Work is Valuable</strong></h5><ul><li>Two Core Abilities for Thriving in the New Economy </li><li>1. The ability to quickly master hard things. </li><li>2. The ability to produce at an elite level, in terms of both quality and speed. </li><li>These two abilities depend on your ability to do deep work. </li><li><strong>High-Quality Work Produced = (Time Spent) x (Intensity of Focus)</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Two: Deep Work is Rare</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>The Principle of Least Resistance</strong>: In a business setting, without clear feedback on the impact of various behaviors to the bottom line, we will tend toward behaviors that are easiest in the moment. </li><li><strong>Busyness as Proxy for Productivity</strong>: In the absence of clear indicators of what it means to be productive and valuable in their jobs, many knowledge workers turn back toward an industrial indicator of productivity: doing lots of stuff in a visible manner. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Three: Deep Work is Meaningful</strong></h5><ul><li>The more flow experiences that occur in a given week, the higher the subject’s life satisfaction. Human beings, it seems, are at their best when immersed deeply in something challenging. </li><li>Deep work is an activity well suited to generate a flow state (the phrases used by Csikszentmihalyi to describe what generates flow include notions of stretching your mind to its limits, concentrating, and losing yourself in an activity—all of which also describe deep work). And as we just learned, flow generates happiness. </li><li>You don’t need a rarified job; you need instead a rarified approach to your work. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part II: The Rules</strong></h5><h5><strong>Rule #1: Work Deeply</strong></h5><ul><li><em>You have a finite amount of willpower that becomes depleted as you use it.</em></li><li>The key to developing a deep work habit is to move beyond good intentions and add <em>routines</em> and <em>rituals</em> to your working life designed to minimize the amount of your limited willpower necessary to transition into and maintain a state of unbroken concentration. </li><li>The <em>monastic philosophy of deep work scheduling</em>: This philosophy attempts to maximize deep efforts by eliminating or radically minimizing shallow obligations. Practitioners of the monastic philosophy tend to have a well-defined and highly valued professional goal that they’re pursuing, and the bulk of their professional success comes from doing this one thing exceptionally well. </li><li>The <em>bimodal philosophy of deep work</em>: This philosophy asks that you divide your time, dedicating some clearly defined stretches to deep pursuits and leaving the rest open to everything else. </li><li>The <em>rhythmic philosophy:</em> This philosophy argues that the easiest way to consistently start deep work sessions is to transform them into a simple regular habit. The goal, in other words, is to generate a <em>rhythm</em> for this work that removes the need for you to invest energy in deciding if and when you’re going to go deep. </li><li>The <em>journalistic philosophy</em>: any time you can find some free time, you switch into deep work mode and hammer away. It requires being able to shift into deep work mode at a moment’s notice, and is not for the deep work novice. </li><li>You should build a ritual to prepare for deep work, and it should include the following: </li><li>Where you’ll work and how long. </li><li>How you’ll work once you start to work. </li><li>How you’ll support your work. </li><li>The <em>grand gesture</em>: a tool for encouraging deep work where you radically change your environment, invest significant effort or money, all dedicated towards a deep work task (increasing its significance). </li><li>At the end of the workday, shut down your consideration of work issues until the next morning. This is necessary to reset your mind. </li><li>This should be tied to a <em>shutdown ritual</em> which ensures you have a step-by-step plan in place to complete the next part of the project. </li></ul><h5><strong>Rule #2: Embrace Boredom</strong></h5><ul><li>Instead of scheduling the occasional break <em>from distraction</em> so you can focus, you should instead schedule the occasional break <em>from focus</em> to give in to distraction. </li><li>Schedule in advance when you’ll use the Internet, and then avoid it altogether outside these times. </li></ul><h5><strong>Rule #3: Quit Social Media</strong></h5><ul><li>You should quit social media and begin evaluating the network tools you use much more strictly. </li><li><strong>The Any-Benefit Approach to Network Tool Selection</strong>: You’re justified in using a network tool if you can identify <em>any</em> possible benefit to its use, or <em>anything</em> you might possibly miss out on if you don’t use it. </li><li><strong>The Craftsman Approach to Tool Selection</strong>: Identify the core factors that determine success and happiness in your professional and personal life. Adopt a tool only if its positive impacts on these factors substantially outweigh its negative impacts. </li><li><strong>The Law of the Vital Few:</strong> In many settings, 80 percent of a given effect is due to just 20 percent of the possible causes. </li><li>You should also put more thought into your leisure time - give yourself something meaningful to do. </li><li><strong>Schedule every minute of your day</strong>: to accomplish deep work, you must treat your time with respect, and this is a good first step. Break your day into blocks, and assign activities. </li></ul><h5><strong>Rule #4: Drain the Shallows</strong></h5><ul><li>For shallow activities: batch them in small groups (2-3 per day). </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/ego-is-the-enemy-ryan-holiday</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A relatively quick read of historical examples and Stoic philosophy for living a successful life, particularly through your work.Good when you need some motivation, or to keep yourself grounded.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>PART I: ASPIRE</strong></h5><h5><strong>Talk, Talk, Talk</strong></h5><p>So what is scarce and rare? Silence. The ability to deliberately keep yourself out of the conversation and subsist without its validation. Silence is the respite of the confident and the strong. </p><h5><strong>To Be or To Do?</strong></h5><ul><li>“To be or to do ? Which way will you go?” - John Boyd </li></ul><h5><strong>Become A Student</strong></h5><ul><li>Updating your appraisal of your talents in a downward direction is one of the most difficult things to do in life — but it is almost always a component of mastery. The pretence of knowledge is our most dangerous vice, because it prevents us from getting any better. Studious self-assessment is the antidote. </li><li>To become great and to stay great, they must all know what came before, what is going on now, and what comes next. </li></ul><h5><strong>Don’t Be Passionate</strong></h5><ul><li>Passion typically masks a weakness. Its breathlessness and impetuousness and franticness are poor substitutes for discipline, for mastery, for strength and purpose and perseverance. You need to be able to spot this in others and in yourself, because while the origins of passion may be earnest and good, its effects are comical and then monstrous. </li><li>What humans require in our ascent is purpose and realism. Purpose, you could say, is like passion with boundaries . Realism is detachment and perspective. </li></ul><h5><strong>Follow the Canvas Strategy</strong></h5><ul><li>That’s what the canvas strategy is about — helping yourself by helping others. Making a concerted effort to trade your short - term gratification for a longer - term payoff. </li><li>Once we fight this emotional and egotistical impulse, the canvas strategy is easy. The iterations are endless: </li><li>Maybe it’s coming up with ideas to hand over to your boss. </li><li>Find people, thinkers, up - and - comers to introduce them to each other. Cross wires to create new sparks. </li><li>Find what nobody else wants to do and do it. </li><li>Find inefficiencies and waste and redundancies. Identify leaks and patches to free up resources for new areas. </li><li>Produce more than everyone else and give your ideas away. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Danger of Pride</strong></h5><p>Pride blunts the very instrument we need to own in order to succeed : our mind . Our ability to learn, to adapt, to be flexible, to build relationships, all of this is dulled by pride . </p><h5><strong>Work, Work, Work</strong></h5><ul><li>Fac, si facis. (Do it if you’re going to do it) </li></ul><h5><strong>PART II: SUCCESS</strong></h5><h5><strong>Always Stay a Student</strong></h5><ul><li>No matter what you’ve done up to this point, you better still be a student. If you’re not still learning, you’re already dying. </li><li>That uncomfortable feeling, that defensiveness that you feel when your most deeply held assumptions are challenged — what about subjecting yourself to it deliberately? Change your mind. Change your surroundings. </li><li>An amateur is defensive . The professional finds learning ( and even , occasionally , being shown up ) to be enjoyable; they like being challenged and humbled, and engage in education as an ongoing and endless process. </li></ul><h5><strong>What’s Important to You?</strong></h5><ul><li>On an individual level, however, it’s absolutely critical that you know who you’re competing with and why, that you have a clear sense of the space you’re in. </li></ul><h5><strong>Beware the Disease of Me</strong></h5><ul><li>Play for the name on the front of the jersey, he says, and they’ll remember the name on the back. </li></ul><h5><strong>Meditate on the Immensity</strong></h5><ul><li>It’s hard to be anything but humble walking alone along a beach late at night with an endless black ocean crashing loudly against the ground next to you. </li><li>Feel unprotected against the elements or forces or surroundings. Remind yourself how pointless it is to rage and fight and try to one - up those around you. Go and put yourself in touch with the infinite, and end your conscious separation from the world. Reconcile yourself a bit better with the realities of life. Realize how much came before you, and how only wisps of it remain. Let the feeling carry you as long as you can. Then when you start to feel better or bigger than, go and do it again. </li></ul><h5><strong>PART III: FAILURE</strong></h5><h5><strong>The Effort is Enough</strong></h5><ul><li>“Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self - satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to do your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming.” - John Wooden </li><li>“Ambition,&quot; Marcus Aurelius reminded himself, “means tying your well - being to what other people say or do . . . Sanity means tying it to your own actions.” </li><li>Do your work. Do it well. Then “let go and let God.&quot; That’s all there needs to be. </li><li>Recognition and rewards — those are just extra. Rejection, that’s on them, not on us. </li><li>Doing the work is enough. </li></ul><h5><strong>Fight Club Moments</strong></h5><ul><li>In fact, many significant life changes come from moments in which we are thoroughly demolished, in which everything we thought we knew about the world is rendered false. </li><li>A look at history finds that these events seem to be defined by three traits: </li><li>1. They almost always came at the hands of some outside force or person. </li><li>2. They often involved things we already knew about ourselves, but were too scared to admit. </li><li>3. From the ruin came the opportunity for great progress and improvement. </li></ul><h5><strong>Draw the Line</strong></h5><ul><li>Recovery is not grand, it’s one step in front of the other </li></ul><h5><strong>Always Love</strong></h5><ul><li>Meanwhile, love is right there . Egoless, open, positive, vulnerable, peaceful, and productive. </li></ul><h5><strong>For Everything That Comes Next, Ego is the Enemy...</strong></h5><ul><li>Not to aspire or seek out of ego. </li><li>To have success without ego. </li><li>To push through failure with strength, not ego. </li></ul><h5><strong>Epilogue</strong></h5><ul><li>Every day for the rest of your life you will find yourself at one of three phases: aspiration, success, failure. You will battle the ego in each of them. You will make mistakes in each of them. You must sweep the floor every minute of every day. And then sweep again. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Fluent Forever by Gabriel Wyner: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/fluent-forever-gabriel-wyner</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Easily the best book about language learning I've ever read.  I've tried multiple resources and methods to improve my own language skills in the past, and none of them came close to being this precise and actionable.  I'll be using the techniques described over the coming months.  Would highly recommend for anyone, new beginner or advanced alike.At a high level, the techniques are:Learn pronunciation first.Don’t translate.Use spaced repetition systems.Learn words.Learn sentences.Also detailed are the exact methods for creating the flashcards for each section required for the spaced repetition systems, as well as videos supplementing pronunciation techniques.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Detailed Notes</h3><h4>Steps (Chapter 1)</h4><ol><li>Learn pronunciation first.</li><li>Don’t translate.</li><li>Use spaced repetition systems.</li></ol><h4>How to Remember (Chapter 2)</h4><p>Five Principles of Memory:</p><p>Make memories more memorable</p><ul><li>Maximize laziness</li><li>Don’t review, recall</li><li>Wait, wait! Don’t tell me!</li><li>Rewrite the past</li><li>Use Anki for spaced repetition</li><li>Aim for 15-30 new cards per day, plus review (~30 minutes per day)</li><li>Schedule your time and ideally tie it to another habit</li><li>Scale back on new words if you miss a day (add 2-3)</li><li>French tip: assume every final consonant is silent except for those consonants found in ‘careful’ (c,r,f,l)</li></ul><h4>Learning Sounds (Chapter 3)</h4><ul><li>Three main challenges:</li><li>Ear training, mouth training and eye training</li><li>Ear training: use audible minimal pair testing (<a href="http://fluent-forever.com/chapter3">Fluent-Forever.com/chapter3</a>)</li><li>If you can hear all of the sounds in your language, then you might get surprised by the spelling of a word but never by the sound of a word</li></ul><p>Train your mouth:</p><p>I’ve made a series of YouTube videos to help you get the pronunciation information you need (<a href="http://fluent-forever.com/chapter3">Fluent-Forever.com/chapter3</a>)</p><ul><li>Use the IPA phonetic alphabet</li><li>In general, you only need three pieces of information to make any sound: you need to know what to do with your tongue, with your lips, and with your vocal cords, and there aren’t that many options.</li><li>In Appendix 4, I give you an IPA decoder chart. Any time you come across some weird sound you don’t understand, you can load up the Wikipedia article for your language and compare it to the chart. The chart will tell you what to do with your tongue, your lips, and your vocal cords</li><li>If you don’t know how to pronounce a whole word, work your way backward.</li></ul><p>Train your eyes:</p><ul><li>Don’t use spellings of words; use a combination of recordings and a phonetic alphabet, at least until the little French man in my head starts sounding very French</li><li>Then I stop with the recordings and rely on my phonetic alphabet. If my language is very friendly, phonetically speaking, I’ll phase out my phonetic alphabet once I’m feeling (over)confident about my pronunciation</li></ul><h4>Learning Words (Chapter 4)</h4><ul><li>Learn words from word frequency lists (start with 625 listed in Appendix 5)</li><li>Use 2 games to create deep, multi sensory memories for words (combine spelling, sound, meaning and personal connection):</li></ul><p>Game 1 - Spot the Differences: Finding Meaning Through Google Images</p><ul><li>Search for word in native language</li><li>Switch to Basic Version at bottom of page</li><li>Look for differences in what you expected and what you see (take 10-20 seconds to play)</li><li>Then store one or two particularly good images in flashcard for that word</li></ul><p>Game 2 - The Memory Game: Boosting Meaning Through Personal Connection</p><ul><li>Look for a personal memory related to the word</li><li>Try to keep the word in mind rather than the translation - hybrid sentences are fine</li><li>Use another game to remember gender:</li></ul><p>Game 3 - The Mnemonic Imagery Game: How to Memorize Nonsensical Bits of Grammar</p><ul><li>Imagine all masculine nouns exploding</li><li>Feminine nouns should catch fire</li><li>Neuter items should shatter like glass</li></ul><h4>Learning Sentences (Chapter 5)</h4><ul><li>Go from simple sentences (birdie go, doggie jump) to -ing forms (doggie jumping) to irregular past (birdies went) and is (daddy is big), then finally regular past tense verbs (doggie jumped) and present tense in third person (Daddy eats).</li><li>All language learning follows this pattern</li><li>Pick an example or two from grammar book and make flash card, then move on.</li></ul><p>Ask yourself three questions:</p><ul><li>Do you see any new words here?</li><li>Do you see any new word forms here?</li><li>Is the word order surprising to you?</li></ul><p>Then make flash cards based on these.</p><ul><li>Use declension chart to learn similar verb forms.</li><li>Use Person-Action-Object mnemonics for adjectives - keep track of them on flashcards.</li><li>Write about things you like, upload them to Lang-8, and get corrections - continue doing this.</li><li>Put every correction into flash cards.</li></ul><h4>The Language Game (Chapter 6)</h4><ul><li>Start with the top 1000 words in your new language.</li><li>Then pick your own goals:</li><li>2000 words gets you 80% comprehension</li><li>Add key words based on your interests</li><li>Use a thematic vocabulary book (Barron makes best ones)</li><li>Use Google Images to find quality example sentences and pictures for your words.</li><li>Write example sentences and definitions, and get them corrected.</li><li>Once you have enough vocabulary, add a monolingual dictionary to your toolbox.</li></ul><p>Read a book</p><ul><li>First book should be familiar to you - try Harry Potter</li><li>You’ll get 300-500 words from context alone</li></ul><p>Listening comprehension: watch movies and TV</p><ul><li>TV is easier than film</li><li>Start with something that’s not comedy - House or 24 are good</li><li>Read Wikipedia overview of series or movie first</li><li>Don’t use subtitles</li></ul><p>Game of Taboo: only rule - no English (first language) allowed</p><ul><li>Use livemocha.com, busuu.com, <a href="http://mylanguageexchange.com">mylanguageexchange.com</a> or <a href="http://italki.com">italki.com</a> for partners for video chatting</li><li>Take language holidays</li><li>Immersion programs (Middlebury College)</li></ul><h4>Actionable Items</h4><ul><li>Learned French in 1-hr per day plus weekend binges in 3 months, plus 7-8 weeks intensive immersion</li><li>Without immersion, estimate 5-8 months with 30-45 minutes per day</li><li>Look for books to get in Appendix 1 (grammar book, phrase book, frequency dictionary, pronunciation guide)</li><li>Watch IPA videos here: <a href="https://fluent-forever.com/chapter3/">https://fluent-forever.com/chapter3/</a></li><li>Watch video here: <a href="https://fluent-forever.com/pronunciation-trainers/french/">https://fluent-forever.com/pronunciation-trainers/french/</a></li><li>Use instructions at <a href="https://fluent-forever.com/gallery/">https://fluent-forever.com/gallery/</a> to make flashcards</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Predictable Revenue by Aaron Ross & Marylou Tyler: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/predictable-revenue-aaron-ross-marylou-tyler</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Good introduction to sales techniques.  Downside is it may be a little outdated, or specific to certain situations. Still definitely worth reading for any entrepreneur or sales executive.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Sales Machine</strong></h5><ol><li>Predictable lead generation: most important thing</li><li>Sales dev. team that bridges gap between marketing and sales</li><li>Consistent sales systems</li></ol><h5><strong>Chapter 6: Lead generation and &quot;Seeds, Nets, Spears&quot;</strong></h5><ul><li>Spears: targeted sales, outbound</li><li>Seeds: word of mouth, PR</li><li>Nets: marketing programs</li><li>Prospect: names or list you’re marketing to where people haven’t responded positively</li><li>Lead: prospect that has responded positively</li><li>Opportunity: after someone has qualified the lead</li><li>Client: has given you some money</li><li>Champion: client or non-client who has referred, supported or testified</li><li>Give up trying to control how long it takes someone to move forward</li><li>Design “layers” that they move through</li><li>*free trial is key*</li><li>Send email min 1/mo, max 2/week</li><li>Do fewer things, better</li><li>Check Marketo example for exact follow-up times, etc.</li><li>Mistake: thinking “product-out” and not “customer-in”</li></ul><p>Five metrics to track:</p><ul><li>New leads created/mo (and from where)</li><li>Conversion rate of leads to opportunities</li><li># of, and pipeline $ value of, qualified opportunities/mo</li><li>Conversion rates of opportunities to closed deals</li><li>Booked revenues in 3 categories: new, add-on, renewal</li></ul><p>Hold the hands of your first customers: give them lots of love</p><ul><li>Cold Calling 2.0: mass email high-level execs to ask who you should talk to</li><li>Spend serious time developing ideal customer profile (ICP)</li><li>Research rather than call</li><li>Short and to-the-point emails</li><li>Go beyond basic SFA</li><li>Once ramped up, single full-time outbound rep can generate 10-20 excellent leads/mo</li></ul><p>Cold Calling 2.0 steps:</p><ul><li>Specialize: dedicate one person to <strong>only</strong> outbound prospecting activities </li><li>One sales development rep can usually support 2-5 quota-carrying Account Execs (but can be 1:1 or 1:2 if you have big deals)</li><li>Market response rep qualifies incoming leads (1 per 400 leads)</li><li>Prospecting cycle length: time between when prospect first responds to campaign to when quality opportunity is created or qualified (~2-4 weeks</li><li>Sales cycle length: time from when opportunity was created or qualified to when it was closed</li></ul><p>Cold Calling 2.0 Process:</p><ul><li>Get clear on ideal customer profile</li><li>Build your list: don’t sell too low</li><li>Run outbound email campaigns (8-12% response rate)</li><li>Use phone to follow up</li><li>50-100 emails per salesperson, per day, 2-3 days every week</li><li>Sell the dream: make contact with the correct person, then pain vision of solution with their key business issue</li><li>Use Smart Targeting criteria (p. 128) to build customer profile</li><li>Send 150-250 outbound emails per week over 3-4 days</li><li>Before/after 9-5 or on Sundays</li><li>If someone has opened email more than once, call them</li><li>p. 155 - qualifying/discovery questions</li><li>Schedule next call while on the phone</li></ul><p>Improve call effectiveness: AAA call planning:</p><ul><li>What <strong>Answers</strong> do you want to learn? </li><li>What <strong>Attitudes</strong> do you want the prospect to feel? </li><li>What <strong>Actions</strong> should occur after the call? </li></ul><p>Qualification call flow:</p><ul><li>Opening: (“did I catch you at a bad time?”) and intro</li><li>Discuss prospect’s current business situation</li><li>Probe for prospect’s needs (&amp; confirm understanding)</li><li>Position solution to meet those specific needs</li><li>Handle objections</li><li>Next steps</li></ul><p>Voicemail (see example p. 171): </p><ul><li>Name and # at beginning and end</li><li>Speak clearly and slowly</li><li>Can be effective in combination with email</li><li>Account status: p. 175</li><li>Compensation: p. 180</li><li>As an SDR, your customer is your account execs</li><li>P. 188 - ideal “Day in the life”</li></ul><p>Calls: </p><ul><li>“Did I catch you at a bad time?”</li><li>“May I ask you how your ____ is structured?”</li><li>“I’m doing some research on your company to see if we’re a good fit or not”</li><li>P. 201: good daily sales goals</li><li>“Pick a niche, get rich”</li><li>Have a process</li><li>Understand/learn their buying process</li></ul><p>Creating free trials that maximize conversion rates:</p><ul><li>Design your trial with prospect and help them run it</li><li>Do your best to understand prospect’s true business issues before starting</li><li>Agree on where trial fits in the buying process (ie. what’s after)</li><li>Better to nail fewer (or a single) key problem than try to solve every problem for everyone</li><li>Define with client what “successful trial” means</li><li>Create milestones for the trial</li><li>Enroll the prospect (and their team); schedule follow-up meetings</li><li>Simplify the trial process: do you have a step-by-step system?</li><li>Set expectations: under-promise and over-deliver</li></ul><p>3:15 sales process:</p><ul><li>First contact: is this a waste of time? (15 mins)</li><li>Qualification/discovery call: is there a fit? (1 hr)</li><li>Group working session: “should we work together?” (2 hrs)</li><li>Find the root problem below “desired solutions”</li><li>You should be winning at least 50% of the proposals you’re giving out</li><li>Tell them you need a scoping call with them and key people</li><li>Best question: “did I catch you at a bad time?”</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9: Cultivating Your Talent</strong></h5><ul><li>1 part vet, 3 parts young</li><li>Inbound (Mkt. Response Rep) -&gt; Outbound (SDR) -&gt; Closing (AE) (6-8mo to 1-3yrs to move up)</li><li>p. 352, larger orgs.</li><li>Do role-playing to train your salespeople (p. 365)</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10: Leadership &amp; Management</strong></h5><ul><li>6 Responsibilities of a Manager:</li><li>Choose people carefully</li><li>Set expectations and vision</li><li>Remove obstacles</li><li>Inspire your people</li><li>Work for your people</li><li>Improve it next time</li><li>Retaining key employees and managing well: p. 281</li><li>Managers focus on 1-6</li><li>V2MOM planning:</li><li>Vision: what’s the big picture? Vision for next 12 months</li><li>Values: top general priorities? Top 3 business values?</li><li>Methods: how will it happen? Be specific and clear.</li><li>Obstacles: what is or could be in the way? Identify to plan ahead.</li><li>Metrics: how will you measure success?</li><li>Results-based metrics like: conversions per day, qualified opportunities/mo, new pipeline/mo, total closed bookings</li><li>3 ways to improve/inspire sales organization:</li><li>Include salespeople in beginning of new programs</li><li>Beta test new sales programs</li><li>Survey satisfaction</li><li>Designing self-managing teams and processes: p. 403</li><li>Setting up sales force automation: p. 428</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Art of the Good Life by Rolf Dobelli: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-art-of-the-good-life-rolf-dobelli</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Rolf Dobelli, who also wrote The Art of Thinking Clearly, lays out 52 rules for a good life. The rules are adopted from three primary sources: psychology research, Stoicism, and investment literature, particularly that of Charlie Munger and Warren Buffett. Good book with important rules. Some may be familiar for those who are already well-read on the primary sources, but a worthwhile compilation nonetheless. If you are unfamiliar with the primary research, both this and The Art of Thinking Clearly are a great introduction.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>We overestimate set-up, and underestimate the power of course correction. Plan on constant adjustment in any of your endeavours, including love. </li><li>Flexibility is a trap. Choose pledges which you stand by no matter what. Inflexibility can be a great strategy to achieve long-term goals. </li><li>Find a partner to help you analyze yourself. </li><li>When you make decisions, record all details, and use this to improve your future decisions (black-box thinking). </li><li>Counterproductivity: if a thing doesn’t contribute clear value, you can do without. Especially technology. </li><li>Eliminate the downside in your life. Focus on not making mistakes. Focus on eliminating the negative. </li><li>You haven’t earned anything. Most of your life is due to luck. </li><li>Take feelings seriously - just not your own. Be skeptical of your inner voice. (Introspection illusion) </li><li>Restrict your inner disclosure/authenticity to keeping your promises and acting according to your principles. Keep the rest to yourself. </li><li>Decide in five seconds. If it’s not a “Hell yes!” Then it should be a no. </li><li>Nothing in life is as important as you think it is. Moving to the Caribbean won’t make you happier. More money won’t make you happier (to an extent). (Focusing illusion) </li><li>Buy less and experience more. </li><li>Keep your fixed costs low until you have “fuck-you money” - enough money to retire at any time. Don’t react to minor fluctuations in your income or assets. Don’t compare yourself to the wealthy. Live modestly. </li><li>Radically focus yourself on your circle of competence. </li><li>The more peaceful the life, the more productive. Play the long game. </li><li>Build on the skills you already have. </li><li>Stop worrying about your reputation and what others think. Focus on internal validation. </li><li>Avoid situations in which you have to change other people. You can’t. You can change yourself, but not others. </li><li>You need goals to be satisfied with life. But leave them a little vague. Unrealistic goals are killjoys. </li><li>There is a difference between your remembering self and your experiencing self. We tend to overvalue brief, intense pleasures compared to lasting, tranquil joys. Balance both. </li><li>Make the most of your present experience, but don’t neglect long-term plans. </li><li>Aim to see yourself realistically. Ask friends or your partner. Keep a diary to see your evolution over time. </li><li>Accept that life isn’t perfect, and don’t allow yourself self-pity. </li><li>Maintain a balance between pleasure and meaning. Pleasure has decreasing marginal utility, and suffering endlessly is unhealthy.</li><li>Maintain a “circle of dignity”, inside which you keep values that are inviolable and non-negotiable. Keep it small, and commit deeply to those things. </li><li>Aim to decrease worry about the things you cannot control. Journal on your worries daily, to let them escape your mind. Take out insurance for the critical things. Distract yourself with focus on fulfilling work. </li><li>Express fewer opinions, and get comfortable saying “I don’t have an opinion on this” or “I don’t know enough about this to form an opinion”. When you do want to form one, take your time, write about it, and get external viewpoints. Try to poke holes in it, and see if it holds up. </li><li>Everything you own, value and love is ephemeral. Get used to the idea and accept it. Only your thoughts cannot be taken from you. </li><li>Stop comparing yourself to others. To do this, avoid social media, choose a place to live where you are local elite, and choose your peer group wisely. </li><li>Try to avoid difficulties rather than solving them. Spend a few minutes each week conducting a “pre-mortem”, and considering all the catastrophic risks in your life. </li><li>You are not responsible for the state of the world. Restrict your news consumption. Donate money, not time. (Volunteer’s folly) </li><li>Focus, time and money are our three most important resources. Make sure to guard your time and focus as rigorously as you guard your money. </li><li>Read less, but twice. Devour as many books as possible when young, and then ruthlessly cut.</li><li>Avoid ideologies and dogmas at all costs. They are guaranteed to be wrong. Three marks of dogma: a) they explain everything, b) they’re irrefutable, and c) they’re obscure. </li><li>Be especially careful about defending a dogmatic position in public - it imprints it on your brain.</li><li>An exercise to remind you you’re happy: close your eyes and imagine all sorts of misfortunes - accidents, lost limbs, lost loved ones - then open your eyes, and embrace what you have. </li><li>The best ideas come while you’re writing, not while thinking. Act to figure things out. (Introspection illusion) </li><li>There are rarely great men. Luck plays a large role. Do not expect that you can be one yourself.</li><li>Focus on making a difference in your own life, and don’t believe too much in your own self-importance. </li><li>Accept unhappiness and misfortune with stoicism and calm. The world is neither just not unjust. It just is.</li><li>You must specialize to become the best in the world at what you do. General knowledge is only useful as a hobby.</li><li>Get to know outsiders, but don’t become one. There are benefits to being part of the establishment. Outsiders, however, tend to be quicker and more impactful. </li><li>Seek variety in all things when you are young. You want a large sample size. As you age, you can then become highly selective.</li><li>Organize thoughts between necessities, goals and expectations. Unrealistic expectations are huge killjoys, so manage your expectations.</li><li>Ninety percent of everything sucks. Keep this rule in mind, particularly for consumption. You don’t need to listen, watch or read most things. If you’re not sure? It sucks. </li><li>Stay humble. Self-importance requires energy, makes it easier to fall for doing things to look good rather than achieve a goal, and you’ll make enemies. </li><li>To be successful is to be imperturbable, regardless of your situation.</li><li>Focus exclusively on the things we can influence, and block out everything else. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Hard Thing About Hard Things by Ben Horowitz: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[To start, I'll admit that when I read this, I wasn't in a real position to leverage everything that was being talked about, which is likely why I didn't give it higher than an 8.That said, this is the kind of book you refer back to throughout your life in business, and I think it has the most relevance for a) an entrepreneur who is scaling up, and building a large organization, or b) someone already working in a large organization, managing a relatively large department and therefore number of people.Very actionable advice in many areas, and certainly well thought out and methodical.  Definitely recommend, just keep in mind the ideal reader profiles above.‍]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><ul><li>&quot;This is not checkers, this is motherfuckin’ chess&quot;</li><li>&quot;Don’t take it personally&quot;</li></ul><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><ul><li>Most business relationships either become too tense to tolerate or not tense enough to be productive after a while</li><li>Most important rule of raising money privately: look for market of one</li><li>You need 2 types of friends: person who will be over the moon excited when good things happen, and those you can rely on when life is on the line and you have one call</li><li>“If you’re going to eat shit, don’t nibble”</li><li>Ask yourself “what am I not doing [/providing]?”</li><li>When you are building a company, you must believe there is an answer and you cannot pay attention to your odds of finding it. You just have to find it.</li><li>‘The Struggle’ passage</li><li>“Life is struggle” - Karl Marx</li></ul><p>p. 56 - Some Stuff That May or May Not Help</p><ul><li>Don’t put it all on your shoulders</li><li>This is not checkers, this is motherfuckin’ chess</li><li>Play long enough and you might get lucky</li><li>Don’t take it personally</li><li>Remember that this is what separates the women from the girls</li></ul><p>Tell it like it is, because:</p><ul><li>Trust: without trust, communication breaks</li><li>The more brains working on hard problems, the better</li><li>A good culture is like the old RIP routing protocol; bad news travels fast; good news travels slow.</li></ul><p>If you run a company, you will experience overwhelming psychological pressure to be overly positive. Stand up to the pressure, face your fear, and tell it like it is.</p><p>How to lay off employees the right way:</p><ul><li>Get your head right</li><li>Don’t delay</li><li>Be clear in your own mind about why you are laying people off</li><li>Train your managers: they need to lay off their own people</li><li>Explain what happened and company, not personal failure</li><li>They should be clear: employee impacted and non-negotiable</li><li>Fully prepped with details about benefits and support</li><li>Address the entire company (before layoffs and message is for those who are staying)</li><li>Be visible, be present</li></ul><p>Firing an executive:</p><ul><li>Root cause analysis</li><li>Inform the board</li><li>Prepare for conversation</li><li>Preparing company communication</li></ul><p>Once you make the decision, consider 2 deep emotions:</p><ul><li>Embarrassment and betrayal</li></ul><p>Keys to being fair and honest in this situation (p. 68):</p><ul><li>Use appropriate language</li><li>Admit reality</li><li>Acknowledge the contributions</li></ul><p>“There may be nothing scarier in business than facing an existential threat. So scary that many in the organization will do everything to avoid facing it. They will look for any alternative, any way out, any excuse not to live or die in a single battle.”</p><p>“If our company isn’t good enough to win, then do we need to exist at all?”</p><p>“I don’t give a fuck how well-trained you are. If you don’t bring me $500K a quarter, I’m putting a bullet in your head.”</p><p>“We take care of the people, the products, and the profits - in that order.”</p><p>Why you should train your people:</p><ul><li>Productivity</li><li>Performance management</li><li>Product quality</li><li>Retention of employee</li></ul><p>Implementing training</p><ul><li>Needs to be mandatory</li></ul><p>“If you would be shocked and horrified if company X hired several of your employees, then you should not hire any of theirs”</p><p>p. 91 - what to look for when screening executive candidates</p><p>Managing strictly by numbers is like painting by numbers - strictly for amateurs</p><p>Common management debt sources:</p><ul><li>Putting two in the box</li><li>Overcompensating key employee because she gets another job offer</li><li>No performance management or employee feedback process</li></ul><p>“Every really good, really experienced CEO I know shares 1 important characteristic: they tend to opt for the hard answer to organizational issues”</p><p>P. 101 - list of questions great HR organization can answer</p><p>Keeping politics out:</p><ul><li>Hire people with right kind of ambition (for company success)</li><li>Build strict processes for potentially political issues and do not deviate</li></ul><p>Peter principle: in a hierarchy, members are promoted so long as they work competently; sooner or later they will become incompetent</p><p>Law of Crappy People: for any title level in a large organization, the talent on that level will eventually converge to the crappiest person with that title</p><p>Questions for one-on-ones: p. 123</p><p>Go for shock when designing culture</p><p>Perks are not culture; they don’t establish a core value that drives the business and helps promote it in perpetuity</p><p>Steps to the organizational design: p.129</p><p>Check out first chapter of “High Output Management” for process design</p><p>“Managing at scale is a learned skill rather than a natural ability”</p><p>WFIO (whiff-ee-yo): we’re fucked, it’s over</p><p>Calming nerves: make friends, get it on paper, focus on the road (not the wall)</p><p>Someone needs to be in charge (one person)</p><p>Courage, like character, can be developed</p><p>Decision tables: p. 144</p><p>2 skills to run organization: knowing what to do, getting company do to what you know</p><p>Measure of quality of leader: quantity, quality and diversity of people who want to follow her</p><p>3 traits of leader:</p><ul><li>1. Ability to articular the vision</li><li>2. Right kind of ambition</li><li>3. Ability to achieve the vision</li></ul><p>p. 151: peacetime/wartime CEO</p><p>Feedback is a dialogue</p><ul><li>Give an opinion on everything - will get company used to it</li></ul><p>“In good companies, the story and the strategy are the same thing”</p><p>*read Jeff Bezos letter to shareholders in ‘97</p><p>*check out Reed Hasting’s “Reference Guide on Our Freedom &amp; Responsibility Culture”</p><p>“Show it, sell it; hide it, keep it”</p><p>“…the most important lesson in entrepreneurship: embrace the struggle”</p><p>p. 188 - questions for hiring enterprise sales manager</p><h3>‍</h3>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Inner Game of Tennis by W. Timothy Gallwey: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[One of the most innovative books about learning I've read, focusing almost solely on maximizing our innate ability to learn intuitively. Though this is specifically about tennis, and uses tennis for examples throughout, the lessons can be applied in learning almost anything, especially things which involve physical skill.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>Every game is composed of two parts, an outer game and an inner game. The outer game is played against an external opponent to overcome external obstacles, and to reach an external goal. </li><li>It is the thesis of this book that neither mastery nor satisfaction can be found in the playing of any game without giving some attention to the relatively neglected skills of the inner game. This is the game that takes place in the mind of the player, and it is played against such obstacles as lapses in concentration, nervousness, self-doubt and self-condemnation. In short, it is played to overcome all habits of mind which inhibit excellence in performance. </li><li><strong>The player of the inner game comes to value the art of relaxed concentration above all other skills</strong>; he discovers a true basis for self-confidence; and he learns that the secret to winning any game lies in not trying too hard. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Three - Quieting Self 1</strong></h5><ul><li>In short, “getting it together&quot; requires slowing the mind. Quieting the mind means less thinking, calculating, judging, worrying, fearing, hoping, trying, regretting, controlling, jittering or distracting. </li><li>The first skill to learn is the art of letting go the human inclination to judge ourselves and our performance as either good or bad. </li><li>What I mean by judgment is the act of assigning a negative or positive value to an event. </li><li>Be clear about this: <strong>letting go of judgments does not mean ignoring errors</strong>. It simply means seeing events as they are and not adding anything to them. </li><li>Judgment results in tightness, and tightness interferes with the fluidity required for accurate and quick movement. Relaxation produces smooth strokes and results from accepting your strokes as they are, even if erratic. </li><li>The first step is to see your strokes as they are. They must be perceived clearly. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Four - Trusting Self 2</strong></h5><ul><li>The answer is: if your body knows how to hit a forehand, then just <em>let it happen</em>; if it doesn’t, then <em>let it learn</em>. </li><li>Letting go of judgments, the art of creating images and “letting it happen” are three of the basic skills involved in the Inner Game. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Five - Discovering Technique</strong></h5><ul><li>Bottom line: <strong>there is no substitute for learning from experience</strong>. </li><li>So I believe the best use of technical knowledge is to communicate a hint toward a desired destination. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Seven - Concentration: Learning to Focus</strong></h5><ul><li>Fighting the mind does not work. What works best is learning to focus it. </li><li>To still the mind one must learn to put it somewhere. It cannot just be let go; it must be focused. </li><li>To learn this art, practice is needed. And there is never a time or situation that you cannot practice, save perhaps sleep. </li><li>In tennis the most convenient and practical object of focus is the ball itself. </li><li>Watching the ball means to focus your attention on the sight of it. I have found that the most effective way to deepen concentration through sight is to focus on something subtle, not easily perceived. It’s easy to see the ball, but not so easy to notice the exact pattern made by its seams as it spins. The practice of watching the seams produces interesting results. </li><li>In short, become aware of your body. Know what it feels like to move your body into position, as well as how it feels to swing your racket. Remember: it is almost impossible to feel or see anything well if you are <em>thinking</em> about how you <em>should</em> be moving. <strong>Forget should’s and experience is.</strong></li></ul><p>The Here and Now of the Tennis Court </p><ul><li>Back to the tennis court. Watching the seams of the ball is a narrow focus of attention, and can be effective in blocking out nervousness and other possible irrelevant objects of attention. Sensing the feel of your body is a broader focus, and takes in a number of sensations that might aid in the learning of tennis. </li><li>But it is also necessary to learn to focus awareness in the <em>now.</em> This simply means tuning in to what is happening in the present. The greatest lapses in concentration come when we allow our minds to project what is about to happen or to dwell on what has already happened. </li><li>Since the mind seems to have a will of its own, how can one learn to keep it in the present? By practice. There is no other way. Every time your mind starts to leak away, simply bring it gently back. </li><li>How to stay concentrated in the here and now between points? My own device, and one that has been effective for many of my students, is to <strong>focus attention on breathing.</strong></li><li>Putting attention on breathing simply means observing my breath going in, going out, going in, going out in its natural rhythm. It does not mean intentionally controlling my breath. </li></ul><p>Lapses in Focus </p><ul><li>It is perplexing to wonder why we ever leave the here and now. Here and now are the only place and time when one ever enjoys himself or accomplishes anything. <strong>Most of our suffering takes place when we allow our minds to imagine the future or mull over the past.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Nine - The Meaning of Competition</strong></h5><ul><li><em><strong>Winning is overcoming obstacles to reach a goal</strong>, but the value in winning is only as great as the value of the goal reached.</em> Reaching the goal itself may not be as valuable as the experience that can come in making a supreme effort to overcome the obstacles involved. The process can be more rewarding than the victory itself. </li><li>The difference between being concerned about winning and being concerned about making the effort to win may seem subtle, but in the effect there is a great difference. </li><li>When I’m concerned only about winning, I’m caring about something that I can’t wholly control. Whether I win or lose the external game is a result of my opponent’s skill and effort as well as my own. When one is emotionally attached to results that he can’t control, he tends to become anxious and then try too hard. But one can control the <em>effort</em> he puts into winning. </li><li>One final word of caution. It is said that all great things are achieved by great effort. Although I believe that is true, <strong>it is not necessarily true that all great effort leads to greatness.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter Ten - The Inner Game Off the Court</strong></h5><ul><li>Clearly, almost every human activity involves both the outer and inner games. </li><li>Learning to welcome obstacles in competition automatically increases one’s ability to find advantage in all the difficulties one meets in the course of one’s life. </li></ul><p>Building Inner Stability </p><ul><li>Inner stability is achieved not by burying one’s head in the sand at the sight of danger, but by acquiring the ability to see the true nature of what is happening and to respond appropriately. </li><li>Instability, in contrast, is a condition of being in which we are more easily thrown off balance when Self 1 gets upset by an event or circumstance. </li><li><strong>Maybe wisdom is not so much to come up with new answers as to recognize at a deeper level the profundity of the age-old answers.</strong></li><li><strong>The cause of most stress can be summed up by the word <em>attachment</em>.</strong></li><li>Self 1 gets so dependent upon things, situations, people and concepts within its experience that when change occurs or seems about to occur, it feels threatened. </li><li>Freedom from stress does not necessarily involve giving up anything, but rather being able to let go of anything, when necessary, and know that one will still be all right. It comes from being more independent — not necessarily more solitary, but more reliant on one’s own inner resources for stability. </li><li>Freedom from stress happens in proportion to our responsiveness to our true selves, allowing every moment possible to be an opportunity for Self 2 to be what it is and enjoy the process. As far as I can see, this is a lifelong learning process. </li><li>What else can be done to promote stability? <strong>The message of the Inner Game is simple: focus.</strong> Focus of attention in the present moment, the only one you can really live in, is at the heart of this book and at the heart of the art of doing anything well. Focus means not dwelling on the past, either on mistakes or glories; it means not being so caught up in the future, either its fears or its dreams, that my full attention is taken from the present. The ability to focus the mind is the ability to not let it run away with you. It does not mean not to think—but to be the one who directs your own thinking. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The War of Art by Steven Pressfield: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[This is the book I recommend to anyone who tells me they want to start something but can't seem to begin.

Pressfield names the thing we all feel but can't articulate: Resistance. That invisible force that makes you check your phone instead of writing. That makes you reorganize your desk instead of shipping the thing. That whispers you're not ready, not good enough, not the right person.

I keep "Resistance is the enemy" on the wall next to my desk. Naming it changed everything for me. Once you see Resistance as a separate force, not a character flaw or laziness or a lack of talent, you can fight it. You stop asking "what's wrong with me?" and start asking "how do I beat this thing today?"

The book has three parts. Part One identifies Resistance in all its forms: procrastination, self-doubt, fear, distraction, drama. Part Two lays out the antidote: turning professional. Not professional as in getting paid, but as in showing up every single day regardless of how you feel. Part Three gets into the mystical side, the Muse, creative forces, territory versus hierarchy. Some people love Part Three, others find it too spiritual. I think the first two parts alone are worth the price of the book ten times over.

The core insight is simple: the more important something is to your growth, the more Resistance you'll feel. Fear isn't a stop sign. It's a compass.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><p>What I Know</p><ul><li>It’s not the writing part that’s hard. What’s hard is sitting down to write.</li></ul><p>The Unlived Life</p><ul><li>Most of us have two lives. The life we live, and the unlived life within us. Between the two stands Resistance. </li></ul><h5><strong>Book One: Resistance</strong></h5><ul><li>Any act that rejects immediate gratification in favor of long-term growth, health, or integrity.</li></ul><p>Resistance Is Invisible</p><ul><li>Resistance cannot be seen, touched, heard, or smelled. But it can be felt. We experience it as an energy field radiating from a work-in-potential. It’s a repelling force. It’s negative. Its aim is to shove us away, distract us, prevent us from doing our work.</li></ul><p>Resistance Is Internal </p><ul><li>Resistance is the enemy within. </li></ul><p>Resistance Is Infallible </p><ul><li>Rule of thumb: The more important a call or action is to our soul’s evolution, the more Resistance we will feel toward pursuing it.</li></ul><p>Resistance Only Opposes in One Direction</p><ul><li>Resistance obstructs movement only from a lower sphere to a higher.</li></ul><p>Resistance Is Most Powerful At The Finish Line </p><ul><li>The danger is greatest when the finish line is in sight. </li></ul><p>Resistance and Procrastination</p><ul><li>Procrastination is the most common manifestation of Resistance because it’s the easiest to rationalize. </li></ul><p>Resistance and Procrastination: Part Two </p><ul><li>The most pernicious aspect of procrastination is that it can become a habit. We don’t just put off our lives today; we put them off till our deathbed.</li><li>Never forget: This very moment, we can change our lives. There never was a moment, and never will be, when we are without the power to alter our destiny. This second, we can turn the tables on Resistance.</li><li>This second, we can sit down and do our work.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Sex</p><ul><li>Not all sex is a manifestation of Resistance. In my experience, you can tell by the measure of hollowness you feel afterward. The more empty you feel, the more certain you can be that your true motivation was not love or even lust but Resistance.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Unhappiness</p><ul><li>We unplug ourselves from the grid by recognizing that we will never cure our restlessness by contributing our disposable income to the bottom line of Bullshit, Inc., but only by doing our work.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Criticism</p><ul><li>If you find yourself criticizing other people, you’re probably doing it out of Resistance. When we see others beginning to live their authentic selves, it drives us crazy if we have not lived out our own.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Self-Doubt</p><ul><li>If you find yourself asking yourself (and your friends), &quot;Am I really a writer? Am I really an artist?&quot; chances are you are.</li><li>The counterfeit innovator is wildly self-confident. The real one is scared to death.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Fear</p><ul><li>Resistance is experienced as fear; the degree of fear equates to the strength of Resistance. Therefore the more fear we feel about a specific enterprise, the more certain we can be that that enterprise is important to us and to the growth of our soul.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Love </p><ul><li>Resistance is directly proportional to love. If you’re feeling massive Resistance, the good news is, it means there’s tremendous love there too.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Being a Star</p><ul><li>Grandiose fantasies are a symptom of Resistance. They’re the sign of an amateur. The professional has learned that success, like happiness, comes as a by-product of work.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Rationalization</p><ul><li>Rationalization is Resistance’s right-hand man. Its job is to keep us from feeling the shame we would feel if we truly faced what cowards we are for not doing our work.</li></ul><p>Resistance and Rationalization: Part Two</p><ul><li>What’s particularly insidious about the rationalizations that Resistance presents to us is that a lot of them are true.</li><li>What Resistance leaves out, of course, is that all this means diddly. Tolstoy had thirteen kids and wrote War and Peace.</li></ul><h5><strong>Book Two: Combating Resistance - Turning Pro</strong></h5><p>A Professional</p><ul><li>Someone once asked Somerset Maugham if he wrote on a schedule or only when struck by inspiration. &quot;I write only when inspiration strikes,&quot; he replied. &quot;Fortunately it strikes every morning at nine o’clock sharp.&quot;</li><li>That’s a pro.</li></ul><p>What A Writer’s Day Feels Like</p><ul><li>Principle of Priority, which states (a) you must know the difference between what is urgent and what is important, and (b) you must do what’s important first.</li></ul><p>For the Love of the Game</p><ul><li>To clarify a point about professionalism: The professional, though he accepts money, does his work out of love. He has to love it. Otherwise he wouldn’t devote his life to it of his own free will.</li><li>The professional has learned, however, that too much love can be a bad thing. Too much love can make him choke.</li><li>Remember what we said about fear, love, and Resistance. The more you love your art/calling/enterprise, the more important its accomplishment is to the evolution of your soul, the more you will fear it and the more Resistance you will experience facing it.</li><li>The payoff of playing-the-game-for-money is not the money (which you may never see anyway, even after you turn pro). The payoff is that playing the game for money produces the proper professional attitude.</li></ul><p>A Professional is Patient</p><ul><li>Resistance gets us to plunge into a project with an overambitious and unrealistic timetable for its completion. It knows we can’t sustain that level of intensity. We will hit the wall. We will crash.</li><li>The professional, on the other hand, understands delayed gratification. He is the ant, not the grasshopper; the tortoise, not the hare.</li><li>The professional arms himself with patience, not only to give the stars time to align in his career, but to keep himself from flaming out in each individual work.</li></ul><p>A Professional Acts in the Face of Fear</p><ul><li>The amateur believes he must first overcome his fear; then he can do his work. The professional knows that fear can never be overcome. He knows there is no such thing as a fearless warrior or a dread-free artist.</li></ul><p>A Professional Dedicates Himself to Mastering Technique</p><ul><li>The professional dedicates himself to mastering technique not because he believes technique is a substitute for inspiration but because he wants to be in possession of the full arsenal of skills when inspiration does come. The professional is sly. He knows that by toiling beside the front door of technique, he leaves room for genius to enter by the back. </li></ul><p>A Professional Distances Herself from Her Instrument</p><ul><li><strong>The pro stands at one remove from her instrument</strong>— meaning her person, her body, her voice, her talent; the physical, mental, emotional, and psychological being she uses in her work. She does not identify with this instrument. It is simply what God gave her, what she has to work with. <strong>She assesses it coolly, impersonally, objectively.</strong></li></ul><p>A Professional Does Not Take Failure (or Success) Personally</p><ul><li>When people say an artist has a thick skin, what they mean is not that the person is dense or numb, but that he has seated his professional consciousness in a place other than his personal ego. <strong>It takes tremendous strength of character to do this, because our deepest instincts run counter to it.</strong></li><li>The professional cannot take rejection personally because to do so reinforces Resistance. Editors are not the enemy; critics are not the enemy. Resistance is the enemy.</li><li><strong>The battle is inside our own heads</strong>. We cannot let external criticism, even if it’s true, fortify our internal foe. That foe is strong enough already.</li><li>She does not forget that the work is not her.</li><li>The professional self-validates. She is tough-minded. In the face of indifference or adulation, she assesses her stuff coldly and objectively. Where it fell short, she’ll improve it. Where it triumphed, she’ll make it better still. She’ll work harder. She’ll be back tomorrow.</li></ul><p>A Professional Endures Adversity </p><ul><li>I<strong>t’s better to be in the arena, getting stomped by the bull, than to be up in the stands or out in the parking lot.</strong></li></ul><p>A Professional Self-Validates</p><ul><li>The critic hates most that which he would have done himself if he had had the guts.</li></ul><h5><strong>Book Three: Beyond Resistance - The Higher Realm</strong></h5><p>Approaching the Mystery </p><ul><li>This is the other secret that real artists know and wannabe writers don’t. When we sit down each day and do our work, power concentrates around us. The Muse takes note of our dedication. She approves. We have earned favor in her sight. When we sit down and work, we become like a magnetized rod that attracts iron filings. Ideas come. Insights accrete.</li></ul><p> Fear </p><ul><li>Resistance feeds on fear. We experience Resistance as fear. But fear of what?</li><li>Fear of the consequences of following our heart. Fear of bankruptcy, fear of poverty, fear of insolvency. Fear of groveling when we try to make it on our own, and of groveling when we give up and come crawling back to where we started. Fear of being selfish, of being rotten wives or disloyal husbands; fear of failing to support our families, of sacrificing their dreams for ours. Fear of betraying our race, our ’hood, our homies. Fear of failure. Fear of being ridiculous. Fear of throwing away the education, the training, the preparation that those we love have sacrificed so much for, that we ourselves have worked our butts off for. Fear of launching into the void, of hurtling too far out there; fear of passing some point of no return, beyond which we cannot recant, cannot reverse, cannot rescind, but must live with this cocked-up choice for the rest of our lives. Fear of madness. Fear of insanity. Fear of death.</li><li>We fear discovering that we are more than we think we are. More than our parents/children/teachers think we are. We fear that we actually possess the talent that our still, small voice tells us. That we actually have the guts, the perseverance, the capacity.</li><li>We know that if we embrace our ideals, we must prove worthy of them. And that scares the hell out of us. What will become of us? We will lose our friends and family, who will no longer recognize us.</li><li>Of course this is exactly what happens. But here’s the trick. We wind up in space, but not alone. Instead we are tapped into an unquenchable, undepletable, inexhaustible source of wisdom, consciousness, companionship. Yeah, we lose friends. But we find friends too, in places we never thought to look. And they’re better friends, truer friends. And we’re better and truer to them.</li></ul><p>The Authentic Self </p><ul><li>We come into this world with a specific, personal destiny. We have a job to do, a calling to enact, a self to become. We are who we are from the cradle, and we’re stuck with it.</li><li>Our job in this lifetime is not to shape ourselves into some ideal we imagine we ought to be, but to find out who we already are and become it.</li></ul><p>The Artist and the Hierarchy</p><ul><li>The artist must operate territorially. He must do his work for its own sake. </li></ul><p>The Artist and the Territory</p><ul><li>Instead let’s ask ourselves like that new mother: What do I feel growing inside me? Let me bring that forth, if I can, for its own sake and not for what it can do for me or how it can advance my standing.</li></ul><p>The Difference Between Territory and Hierarchy</p><ul><li>How can we tell if our orientation is territorial or hierarchical? One way is to ask ourselves, If I were feeling really anxious, what would I do?</li><li>What would Arnold Schwarzenegger do on a freaky day? He wouldn’t phone his buddies; he’d head for the gym.</li><li>Here’s another test. Of any activity you do, ask yourself: If I were the last person on earth, would I still do it?</li></ul><p>The Artist’s Life</p><ul><li>Creative work is not a selfish act or a bid for attention on the part of the actor. It’s a gift to the world and every being in it. Don’t cheat us of your contribution. Give us what you’ve got.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[To Sell is Human by Daniel Pink: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[Daniel Pink starts by showing that a surprisingly large portion of the workforce is engaged in “moving others” (aka selling) in some form, and that we all constantly do this in our lives.  The rest of the book discusses how we can improve this skill, which, given how much we use it, is extremely important.I haven’t yet had the chance to go through all the suggested exercises, but I enjoyed the book and found it useful.  It breaks down several myths about selling that cause most of us (myself included) to view “sales” as something negative, and there’s a lot of actionable advice about how to improve our own selling.I picked the book up originally to help me professionally, and it did, but almost the entire book can be applied to improving our own personal interactions.  Definitely recommend, regardless whether you’re directly in sales or not.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>The buying process has shifted from “buyer beware” to “seller beware” - honesty and transparency are now a better choice.</li><li>The “natural salesperson” is a myth. It’s actually ambiverts (not extroverts or introverts) that perform best in selling (and we are all salespeople, so there are no “naturals”).</li><li>ABC’s of moving others: Attunement, Buoyancy, Clarity.</li></ul><p>To effectively attune yourself with others:</p><ul><li>Assume the position of lower power (but don’t be a pushover).</li><li>Use both empathy and perspective-taking (heart and the head). Take into account their perspective, group, situation, context.</li><li>Mimic strategically, but make it subtle (light touching, etc.).</li><li>Ambiverts are the best salespeople.</li><li>Extroverts talk too much and listen too little, and can be too pushy.</li><li>Introverts can be too shy to initiate and too timid to close.</li><li>Buoyancy: being able to say afloat in an ocean of rejection.</li><li>Before: use interrogative self-talk to better prepare yourself (ex: “Can I make a great pitch?”).</li><li>This helps you give yourself specific advice and actions to make it happen.</li><li>It also inspires thoughts about intrinsic motivation for reaching a goal.</li><li>During: keep positivity high (3:1 ratio of positive to negative thoughts), but not too high (less than 11:1).</li><li>Positivity can infect the buyer, making them less adversarial, more open to possibility, etc.</li><li>After: be realistic, but optimistic, in explaining rejections and failure. See rejections as temporary, specific and external (as opposed to permanent, universal and personal).</li><li>As humans, we are bad at wrapping our minds around far-off events (compared to present ones).</li><li>Today, the best salespeople must be skilled at curating information, and asking questions - uncovering possibilities, issues, and unexpected problems.</li></ul><p>Five ways to frame your offering to be more clear:</p><ul><li>Less: offer less choices.</li><li>Experience: frame things in experiential terms, instead of item terms.</li><li>Label: assign the buyer a positive label that your product will confirm.</li><li>Blemished: for busy or distracted buyers, offer a small negative bit of info after the positive to highlight the positive attributes.</li><li>Potential: emphasize the potential of the product, not the achievements.</li><li>Final step: give people a specific request followed by a clear path of action (an off-ramp).</li></ul><p>To clarify the motives of others:</p><ul><li>Ask: &quot;On a scale of 1 to 10, how ready are you to do X?&quot; (Or similar)</li><li>Then ask: “Why didn’t you pick a lower number?&quot;</li><li>To figure out someone’s problem, ask the “Five Whys”.</li><li>The purpose of a pitch isn’t necessarily to move others immediately to adopt your idea. The purpose is to offer something so compelling that it begins a conversation, brings the other person in as a participant, and eventually arrives at an outcome that appeals to both of you.</li></ul><p>Six successors to the elevator pitch:</p><ul><li>The one-word pitch</li><li>The question pitch</li><li>The rhyming pitch</li><li>The subject-line pitch: utility to the person, or curiosity.</li><li>The Twitter pitch: provide useful information or ask a question.</li><li>The Pixar pitch: formulaic story.</li></ul><p>As you prepare a pitch, think about someone listening, and ask:</p><ul><li>What do you want them to know?</li><li>What do you want them to feel?</li><li>What do you want them to do?</li><li>Pecha-kucha pitch: 20 slides x 20 seconds = 6:40 pitch</li></ul><p>Sequencing matters:</p><ul><li>Go first if you’re the incumbent, last if you’re the challenger.</li><li>Granular numbers are more credible than coarse numbers.</li></ul><p>Learn to improvise:</p><ul><li>Hear offers: “listen without listening for anything.&quot;</li><li>Say “Yes and”: much more positive results than “Yes, but”.</li><li>Make your partner look good: goal is to learn, and make your counterpart look good. It’s not a zero-sum game.</li><li>The final skill is to serve: to improve others’ lives, and in turn, the world.</li><li>It’s moving people to achieve something greater and more enduring than merely an exchange of resources.</li><li>To serve, follow two rules:</li><li>Make it personal: you will perform better when you recognize the person you’re trying to serve, and you should personally put yourself behind whatever it is you’re trying to sell.</li><li>Make it purposeful: we should be tapping into the desire of others’ innate desire to serve a greater purpose.</li><li>An effective seller isn’t a &quot;huckster, who is just out for profit,&quot; he said. The true &quot;salesman is an idealist and an artist.&quot;</li><li>So, too, is the true person. Among the things that distinguish our species from others is our combination of idealism and artistry—our desire both to improve the world and to provide that world with something it didn’t know it was missing. Moving others doesn’t require that we neglect these nobler aspects of our nature. Today it demands that we embrace them. It begins and ends by remembering that to sell is human.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 18:51:57 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Pirsig details his theory about what defines good, or in his terminology, “Quality”. He tells it as a series of smaller philosophical discussions, taking place during a motorcycle road trip he takes with his son and another couple through Western America. I liked the details about motorcycle maintenance. I liked the travel writing. I also liked the discussion of the value of technology, and the differences between “classical” and “romantic” approaches to life. I did not like the philosophy, which unfortunately takes up the majority of the book. I suspect it’s mostly due to my general dislike of philosophy, save for that which is direct and actionable (ie. Stoicism). The book has been popular for over 40 years.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>“What’s new” is an interesting question, but a better question is “what is best?”. </li><li>Physical discomfort is important only when the mood is wrong. </li><li>When you want to hurry something, that means you no longer care about it and want to get on to other things. </li><li>The classic style is straightforward, unadorned, unemotional, economical and carefully proportioned. Its purpose is not to inspire emotionally, but to bring order out of chaos and make the unknown known. </li><li>It is not an esthethically free and natural style. It is esthetically restrained. Everything is under control. Its value is measured in terms of the skill with which this control is maintained. </li><li>To a romantic this classic mode often appears dull, awkward and ugly, like mechanical maintenance itself. Everything is in terms of pieces and parts and components and relationships. </li><li>Persons tend to think and feel exclusively in one mode or the other and in doing so tend to misunderstand and underestimate what the other mode is all about. </li><li>When analytic thought, the knife, is applied to experience, something is always killed in the process. That is fairly well understood, at least in the arts. </li><li>A motorcycle functions entirely in accordance with the laws of reason, and a study of the art of motorcycle maintenance is really a miniature study of the art of rationality itself. </li><li>That is induction: reasoning from particular experiences to general truths. </li><li>Deductive inferences do the reverse. They start with general knowledge and predict a specific observation. </li><li>Scientific questions often have a surface appearance of dumbness for this reason. They are asked in order to prevent dumb mistakes later on. </li><li>An experiment is never a failure solely because it fails to achieve predicted results. An experiment is a failure only when it also fails adequately to test the hypothesis in question, when the data it produces don’t prove anything one way or another. </li><li>Sometimes it’s a little better to travel than to arrive. </li><li>You are never dedicated to something you have complete confidence in. No one is fanatically shouting that the sun is going to rise tomorrow. They know it’s going to rise tomorrow. When people are fanatically dedicated to political or religious faiths or any other kinds of dogmas or goals, it’s always because these dogmas or goals are in doubt. </li><li>Mountains should be climbed with as little effort as possible and without desire. The reality of your own nature should determine the speed. If you become restless, speed up. If you become winded, slow down. You climb the mountain in an equilibrium between restlessness and exhaustion. </li><li>Any effort that has self-glorification as its final endpoint is bound to end in disaster. </li><li>Anxiety, the next gumption trap, is sort of the opposite of ego. You’re so sure you’ll do everything wrong you’re afraid to do anything at all. Often this, rather than laziness, is the real reason you find it hard to get started. </li><li>The best way to break this cycle, I think, is to work out your anxieties on paper. Read every book and magazine you can on the subject. </li><li>My favorite cure for boredom is sleep. It’s very easy to get to sleep when bored and very hard to get bored after a long rest. My next favorite is coffee. </li><li>Impatience is close to boredom but always results from one cause: an underestimation of the amount of time the job will take. </li><li>Impatience is best handled by allowing an indefinite time for the job, particularly new jobs that require unfamiliar techniques; by doubling the allotted time when circumstances force time planning; and by scaling down the scope of what you want to do. </li><li>Because we’re unaccustomed to it, we don’t usually see that there’s a third possible logical term equal to yes and no which is capable of expanding our understanding in an unrecognized direction. We don’t even have a term for it, so I’ll have to use the Japanese mu. </li><li>Mu means &quot;no thing.&quot; Like “Quality&quot; it points outside the process of dualistic discrimination. Mu simply says, &quot;No class; not one, not zero, not yes, not no.&quot; It states that the context of the question is such that a yes or no answer is in error and should not be given. “Unask the question” is what it says. </li><li>You want to know how to paint a perfect painting? It’s easy. Make yourself perfect and then just paint naturally. That’s the way all the experts do it. The making of a painting or the fixing of a motorcycle isn’t separate from the rest of your existence. If you’re a sloppy thinker the six days of the week you aren’t working on your machine, what trap avoidances, what gimmicks, can make you all of a sudden sharp on the seventh? It all goes together. </li><li>Technology is blamed for a lot of this loneliness, since the loneliness is certainly associated with the newer technological devices, TV, jets, freeways and so on, but I hope it’s been made plain that the real evil isn’t the objects of technology but the tendency of technology to isolate people into lonely attitudes of objectivity. It’s the objectivity, the dualistic way of looking at things underlying technology, that produces the evil. That’s why I went to so much trouble to show how technology could be used to destroy the evil. A person who knows how to fix motorcycles with Quality is less likely to run short of friends than one who doesn’t. And they aren’t going to see him as some kind of object either. Quality destroys objectivity every time. </li><li>My personal feeling is that this is how any further improvement of the world will be done: by individuals making Quality decisions and that’s all. </li><li>We do need a return to individual integrity, self-reliance and old-fashioned gumption. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Favourite Media - What I Watch, Listen To, and Read]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This article outlines my general principles for consuming media, as well as my favorite TV shows, films, authors, books and blogs.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’ve been meaning to do this for a while, and reading <a href="https://www.julian.com/blog/favorite-media">Julian’s post on the same topic</a> motivated me to finish. </p><p>I plan to keep this up-to-date as my preferences change. </p><p>Please let me know what I should be watching/listening to/reading that isn’t here in the comments!</p><h2>How I Consume Content</h2><p>In general, I try to be as deliberate as possible in consuming content. </p><p><strong>Here are some general principles:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>I try to avoid the news as much as possible</strong>: I don’t read news websites, I try to resist political Twitter, etc. There is very little information here that changes my life on a daily basis, or needs to be acted upon.</li><li><strong>I try to avoid starting new TV series</strong>. They are extremely time-consuming, and past experience has shown they can distract me for days at a time. When I feel like watching something, I’ll try to make it a single movie/documentary/etc.</li><li><strong>I try to avoid consuming for the sake of consuming</strong>. If I don’t feel like doing work, and want to watch something instead, I’ll try and watch sports, or a good movie, from my list of movies I want to watch (not a Netflix movie I know nothing about).</li><li><strong>Twitter and Instagram are definitely where I spend the most social media time</strong>. Instagram can be distracting, but also good for learning and inspiration, particularly if you’re into photography.</li><li>Twitter can be a fantastic look into what many brilliant people are thinking, particularly in tech.</li><li>Email newsletters are also a great way to stay up-to-date and have other people filter content for you, helping improve indiscriminate consumption.</li><li><strong>I try to read books by topic</strong>, and also like reading all of an author’s works together. You can learn <a href="/blog/how-to-read-a-book">more about how I read here</a>.</li><li>I wish I listened to more podcasts - I think they’re fantastic. The reality is, I just don’t currently find the time. I don’t usually commute, and can’t listen while I’m working.</li></ul><h2>What I Watch, Listen To, and Read</h2><h3><strong>TV Shows (current):</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.sho.com/billions">Billions</a> - Fantastic acting and look into the world of finance in New York.</li><li><a href="https://www.hbo.com/silicon-valley">Silicon Valley</a> - Can verify it is scarily accurate.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7USlC956z8">The Grand Tour</a> - If you like cars, this is a very entertaining hour.</li><li><a href="https://www.hbo.com/last-week-tonight-with-john-oliver">Last Week Tonight</a> - My only conscious dose of news, though the main segments are less trendy.</li></ul><h3><strong>TV Shows (past):</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2442560/">Peaky Blinders</a> - Love the setting and acting.</li><li><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0904208/">Californication</a> - A classic about California life and challenging family dynamics.</li><li><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0773262/">Dexter</a> - Fantastic acting, interesting premise.</li><li><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2356777/episodes?season=1">True Detective</a> - Great acting, great pacing and plot building.</li><li><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0386676/">The Office</a> - A classic.</li><li><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1486217/">Archer</a> - Some of the best dialogue out there.</li><li><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1475582/">Sherlock</a> - Great stories, equally good acting.</li><li><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1797404/?ref_=fn_al_tt_2">House of Lies</a> - Underrated, but extremely entertaining (and likely closer to reality than most would admit).</li></ul><h3><strong>Podcasts:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://tim.blog/podcast/">The Tim Ferriss Show</a> - I just don’t find time to listen to more podcasts. This is very entertaining and a good range of topics &amp; guests.</li></ul><h3><strong>Films:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auYbpnEwBBg">The Departed</a> - One of my favorite endings, full of great acting, and set in Boston.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znmZoVkCjpI">Seven</a> - My favorite of the psychological thriller genre.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36mnx8dBbGE">Casino Royale</a> - One of the biggest changes to the Bond francise in years, a dark, gritty look at how the Bond character was formed.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8MXn5No1Jc">Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels</a> - I generally love Guy Ritchie films, and the London underground setting.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Jar2XkBboo">Snatch</a> - Another Guy Ritchie classic.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywyL1NNF7ww">Seven Pounds</a> - Will Smith struggling with life’s biggest questions.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3lPVwYOdzA">Shooter</a> - Best sniper movie of the modern era; fan of the book too.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WCKJ7KaIZY">Miami Vice</a> - Got terrible reviews, but I love the Miami/oceanfront setting.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2LqzF5WauAw">Interstellar</a> - Mind-blowing every time, particularly if you’re familiar with the physics portrayed in the movie.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BdJKm16Co6M">Fight Club</a> - Another great movie in the psychological thriller area.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkG34G6a59M">300</a> - Always inspiring.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qvf52Z5w_kI">Like Crazy</a> - One of the best romantic films I’ve ever seen. Won’t necessarily make you feel good, but much more realistic.</li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TITHdj1iPfY">Adventureland</a> - My favorite feel-good summer flick.</li></ul><h3><strong>Blogs:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.nateliason.com/">Nat Eliason</a> - Consistently interesting content. SEO specialist, among other things.</li><li><a href="https://www.julian.com/">Julian Shapiro</a> - Long guides are outstanding. Blog is very good too.</li><li><a href="https://tim.blog/">Tim Ferriss</a> - The person I follow most consistently across platforms.</li><li><a href="https://ryanholiday.net/">Ryan Holiday</a> - Stoicism forms basis for a lot of his writing; also does marketing.</li><li><a href="https://avc.com/">Fred Wilson</a> - VC offering regular, interesting content.</li><li><a href="https://alexiskold.net/">Alex Iskold</a> - My managing director at Techstars NYC, writes very clear content for startups.</li><li><a href="https://waitbutwhy.com/">Wait but Why</a> - Long-form blog posts about big questions and topics. Really like a series of shorter books.</li><li><a href="https://fs.blog/">Farnam Street</a> - A website dedicated to improving thinking. Great content on books, learning, and more. Based in Ottawa too!</li></ul><h3><strong>Twitter:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://twitter.com/paulg">Paul Graham</a> - Founder of YC offering lots of interesting positions, often related to tech.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/naval">Naval Ravikant</a> - Perhaps the best at offering Twitter-size wisdom.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/nateliason">Nat Eliason</a> - See above.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/farnamstreet">Shane Parrish/Farnam Street</a> - See above.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/emilybest">Emily Best</a> - Founder of Seed&amp;Spark, passionate advocate for diversity/inclusion in tech, and a personal inspiration and friend (we met at Techstars Boston).</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/hunterwalk">Hunter Walk</a> - Frank investor.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/Austen">Austen Allred</a> - Founder of Lambda School, college alternative that is rapidly growing. </li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/elonmusk">Elon Musk</a> - Founder of Tesla, SpaceX, Boring Company, etc.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/Julian">Julian Shapiro</a> - See above.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/rivatez">Riva-Melissa Tez</a> - AI specialist &amp; investor.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/dhh">David Heinemeier Hansson</a> - Founder of Basecamp offering some contrarian work views.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/webdevMason">Mason Hartman</a> - Web/graphic designer offering thoughts on tech.</li><li><a href="https://twitter.com/juliagalef">Julia Galef</a> - Writer/speaker focused on rational thinking.</li></ul><h3><strong>Instagram:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexstrohl/">Alex Strohl</a> - Unbelievable landscape photographer.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jasoncharleshill/">Jason Charles Hill</a> - Wide range of landscapes.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/une_olive/">Olivier Martel Savoie</a> - iPhone-only with one of the best eyes out there.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/helloemilie/">Emilie Lula</a> - Travel/landscape/lifestyle with beautiful warm tones.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aaronbhall/">Aaron Brimhall</a> - Distinct style.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/chrisburkard/">Chris Burkard</a> - Fantastic landscape photographer.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/samhorine/">Sam Horine</a> - Urban/landscape travel photographer.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/doyoutravel/">Jack Morris</a> - Mix of lifestyle/urban/travel content.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamgalla/">Adam Galla</a> - One of my go-to style accounts.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kylekotajarvi/">Kyle Kotajarvi</a> - Stunning landscapes.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tedgushue/">Ted Gushue</a> - Cars and lifestyle.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/rodtrvn/">Rodrigo Trevino</a> - Landscape photographer.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/shortstache/">Garrett King</a> - Very distinctive style with motorsports/landscape preference.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/lifeof_riley/">Riley Harper</a> - Stuntman’s account reminds us of how to live properly.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ivuss/">Ivy Miller</a> - Model who reminds us not to take life too seriously.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/johanneshuebl/">Johannes Huebl</a> - Second of my go-to style accounts. Husband of Olivia Palermo (for the ladies).</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jeremyjauncey/">Jeremy Jauncey</a> - Travel/fitness/style content.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/reneeroaming/">Renee Hahnel</a> - Landscape photographer with warm tones.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alliemtaylor/">Alexandra Taylor</a> - Big range of landscapes.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ahmet.erdem/">Ahmet Erdem</a> - Based in Turkey, beautiful mix of landscape and urban.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/airpixels/">Tobias Hagg</a> - Some of the best aerial photos around.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/twiiler/">Tyler White</a> - Dark tone landscapes.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/mydetoxtravel/">Cath Simard</a> - Outstanding landscape (specifically mountains) photographer.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/maxrivephotography/">Max Rive</a> - Surreal landscapes.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/bejamin/">Benjamin Everett</a> - Some of the calmest, most clean landscapes I’ve ever seen.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jordhammond/">Jordan Hammond</a> - Excellent variation in photos with bright colors.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/calsnape/">Callum Snape</a> - Vancouver-based photographer with vibrant landscapes.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/benblenner/">Ben Blenner</a> - Photographer and filmmaker with a wide range of work.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/franslanting/">Frans Lanting</a> - National Geographic wildlife photographer.</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/paulnicklen/">Paul Nicklen</a> - Another National Geographic wildlife photographer.</li></ul><h3><strong>Email Newsletters:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="http://ambassadors.thehustle.co/?ref=8c98591a8f">The Hustle</a> - Daily digest of what’s happening in tech and business.</li><li><a href="http://www.misterspoils.com/?kid=">Mister Spoils</a> - Daily email of IG accounts to follow, a product, a song, and a story.</li><li><a href="https://fs.blog/">Farnam Street</a> - Weekly email of new content on Farnam Street blog.</li><li><a href="https://www.nateliason.com/">Nat Eliason</a> - Weekly digest of what’s interesting/new content.</li><li><a href="https://seths.blog/subscribe/">Seth Godin</a> - Daily blog post on marketing/life/business.</li><li><a href="https://www.ben-evans.com/newsletter">Benedict Evans</a> - Weekly digest of what’s happening in tech.</li></ul><h3><strong>Authors:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="http://powerseductionandwar.com/">Robert Greene</a> - Long, life-lesson books interspersed with examples from history.</li><li><a href="http://www.fooledbyrandomness.com/">Nassim Nicholas Taleb</a> - Contrarian views on a wide variety of things, including predictions, forecasting, and more.</li><li><a href="http://calnewport.com/">Cal Newport</a> - Productivity and work guru.</li><li><a href="https://jamesclear.com/">James Clear</a> - Expert in habits.</li><li><a href="https://tim.blog/">Tim Ferriss</a> - Wide-ranging productivity and learning expert.</li><li><a href="https://www.danpink.com/">Dan Pink</a> - Research-based books on a wide range of useful topics.</li></ul><h3><strong>Books:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2tKVhYa">Deep Work - Cal Newport</a></li><li><a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">Atomic Habits - James Clear</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2SHInVe">4-Hour Workweek - Tim Ferriss</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2GVPgAL">4-Hour Body - Tim Ferriss</a></li><li><a href="/book-notes/mastery-robert-greene">Mastery - Robert Greene</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2TdmGBi">Antifragile - Nassim Nicholas Taleb</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2NFUXDb">The Checklist Manifesto - Atul Gawande</a></li><li><a href="/book-notes/poor-charlies-almanack-charles-munger">Poor Charlie’s Almanack - Charlie Munger</a></li><li>Others: <a href="https://amzn.to/2H9tJUp">Scar Tissue</a>, <a href="https://amzn.to/2NDvomp">Open</a>, <a href="/book-notes/skin-in-the-game-nassim-nicholas-taleb">Skin in the Game</a>, <a href="/book-notes/48-laws-of-power-robert-greene">48 Laws of Power</a>, <a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio">Principles</a>, <a href="/book-notes/fluent-forever-gabriel-wyner">Fluent Forever</a>, <a href="/book-notes/to-sell-is-human-daniel-pink">To Sell is Human</a></li></ul><h3><strong>Other Sources:</strong></h3><ul><li><a href="https://theathletic.com/checkout?pc=raf25&amp;plan_id=45&amp;shared_by_name=Graham&amp;shared_by=851843">The Athletic</a> - If you’re into sports, this is the best content I’ve found.</li><li><a href="https://www.economist.com/">The Economist</a> - I no longer subscribe as part of my effort to cut out news, but if you have to read news, this is fantastic analysis, with a more Euro-centric feel (UK specifically).</li></ul><p>What else should I be watching/listening to/reading that I’m not?</p><p>Let me know in the comments.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Pack Light for Work or Adventure Travel]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/how-to-pack-light-for-work-or-adventure-travel</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Packing light makes everything easier, simpler, and more fun. Find out exactly what I pack to keep things light when I travel for both work and pleasure.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the last few years I’ve been traveling more and more, mostly related to work. I’ve also moved a number of times, living in Montreal, Nova Scotia, Boston and New York in the last 2 years alone.</p><p>With all the moving and traveling has come experience in packing light and getting used to living with fewer things.</p><p>I’ve always been fascinated by minimalist travel (and minimalism in general), and inspired by posts like Tim Ferriss’s <a href="https://tim.blog/2007/07/11/how-to-travel-the-world-with-10-pounds-or-less-plus-how-to-negotiate-convertibles-and-luxury-treehouses/">How to Travel the World with 10 Pounds or Less</a> post, or <a href="https://www.burgerabroad.com/carry-on-only/">posts like this one</a> (for the ladies).</p><p>I also try to combine travel for work and pleasure whenever possible, going to conferences and extending my trip by a few days or visiting friends in the area.</p><p>Combining work and pleasure travel makes packing light a little more tricky, but it can certainly still be done.</p><p>Last year I took a trip to Geneva - Prague - Berlin - Hamburg - Scotland over the course of a month, and only traveled with a carry-on and backpack.</p><p>In 2016 I traveled to the UK and Ukraine with just a carry-on.</p><p>I’ve managed to get my packing down to a system so that I can be just as happy heading to a trade show in 25C weather, and then finishing my trip with some sub-10-degree hiking.</p><p>Here’s my packing list for traveling light, and covers most urban/low-intensity travel with temperatures between -5C and 30+C.</p><h2>The Item List</h2><h3>Bags</h3><ul><li>Carry-on bag (<a href="https://amzn.to/2yNAfhh">Osprey Farpoint 40</a>) 3.17lbs/1.44kg</li><li>Budget carry-on bag (<a href="https://www.mec.ca/en/product/5044-007/Duffle-Bag?colour=BK000">MEC Duffel Bag (M/60L</a>) 2.36lbs/1.07kg</li><li>Day pack (<a href="https://matadorup.com/collections/matador-products/products/matador-freerain24-backpack?variant=47744934037">Matador Freerain24 Backpack</a>) 5oz/156g</li></ul><h3>Travel Accessories</h3><ul><li>Travel pillow (<a href="https://aax-us-east.amazon-adsystem.com/x/c/Qvj9CfO07xdMDFwU8AMIVQsAAAFkM1w2uAEAAAFKAVNyqCI/https://assoc-redirect.amazon.com/g/r/http://amzn.to/2x6WJ7h/ref=as_at?linkCode=w61&amp;imprToken=.c.fTqBnjpNpwR.Kd.V-Fw&amp;slotNum=36">Cabeau Evolution Pillow</a>) 12.1/372g</li><li>Eye mask (<a href="http://amzn.to/2ziqD9y">Sleep Master Eye Mask</a>) 2.6oz/73g</li><li>Compression socks (<a href="http://amzn.to/2yxiuQQ">SKINS Compression Socks</a>) 3.5oz/100g</li><li>Earplugs (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MRR6Ch">3M foam</a> or <a href="https://amzn.to/2yBmTEH">silicone</a>) 3.2oz/91g for silicone</li><li>1 quick dry towel (<a href="https://matadorup.com/products/nanodry-shower-towel-large?variant=58936655893">Matador NanoDry Shower Towel</a>) 5.0oz/142g</li><li>Combination luggage locks (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MWsAQn">TSA approved</a>) 4.8oz/136g per</li><li>Cheap sunglasses (<a href="https://amzn.to/2yE48QP">Ryders Eyewear Nelson</a>) 2.4oz/68g</li><li>Dry bag (<a href="https://matadorup.com/collections/matador-products/products/matador-droplet-wet-bag?variant=4876648067">Matador Droplet Wet bag</a>) 0.5oz/15g</li><li>Packing cubes (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MW6AFl">5-Piece TravelWise Cubes</a>) ~5.30z/150g</li><li>Toiletries (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MkgXlm">hanging toiletry kit</a> w/ toothbrush, toothpaste, sunscreen, deodorant) 9.9oz/281g + toiletries ~5oz/142g</li><li>Massage ball (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MkgQ9q">Rubz</a>) 4.8oz/136g</li><li>Athletic tape (<a href="https://amzn.to/2toazCm">any brand</a>) 10.2oz/289g</li></ul><h3>Tech</h3><ul><li>Earphones (<a href="http://amzn.to/2yxIbB7">Etymotic HF-5 Earphones</a>) 0.48oz/14g</li><li>Charger (<a href="http://amzn.to/2xOqF7G">Anker 5000 mAh Charger</a>) 4.8oz/136g</li><li>Computer (<a href="https://amzn.to/2yE36Ez">Apple 12” MacBook</a>) - 2.03lbs/0.92kg + charger 3.8oz/108g</li><li>Travel adapter (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MjbZVT">Any brand</a> w/ USB ports - check countries) 3.2oz/91g</li></ul><h3>Clothing</h3><ul><li>1 collar shirt (2 if work travel) (<a href="http://www.uniqlo.com/ca/en/CPaGoods/itemcode=406558">Uniqlo</a>) ~5oz/142g each</li><li>2 superlight undershirts (<a href="http://www.uniqlo.com/ca/en/CPaGoods/itemcode=403527">Uniqlo</a>) ~2oz/57g each</li><li>1-2 quick-dry longsleeve shirts (<a href="https://mylesapparel.com/collections/everyday-henley/products/everyday-henley-in-charcoal">Myles Everyday Henley</a>) worn</li><li>1-2 cotton t-shirts, black or white (<a href="http://www.uniqlo.com/ca/en/CPaGoods/itemcode=407044">Uniqlo</a>) 4.86oz/138g per</li><li>1 pair sandals (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MSrbdX">Quiksilver Carver Suede</a>) 6oz/172g</li><li>1 insulated jacket (<a href="https://amzn.to/2yNFTQv">Marmot Tullus Hoody Jacket</a>) 15.5oz (439g)</li><li>1 rain jacket (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MgCAD5">Patagonia Torrentshell</a>) 12.1oz/343g</li><li>1 wool sweater (<a href="http://www.uniqlo.com/ca/en/CPaGoods/itemcode=404572">Uniqlo</a>) worn</li><li>1 pair dark wash/black jeans (<a href="https://www.levi.com/CA/en_CA/clothing/men/jeans/502-regular-taper-fit-stretch-jeans/p/295070031">Levis 502 stretch</a>) worn</li><li>1 pair “crossover” pants (<a href="https://shop.lululemon.com/p/men-pants/ABC-Pant-Classic-32/_/prod8900334?color=31382">Lululemon ABC Pant</a>) ~11oz/312g</li><li>1 pair shorts (<a href="https://amzn.to/2lxju0j">ExOfficio Nomad 10”</a>) 5.65oz/160g</li><li>1 pair black sneakers (<a href="https://amzn.to/2Kk61qC">People Footwear Men’s Phillips</a>) worn</li><li>7 pair underwear (<a href="https://amzn.to/2lxpS7w">ExOfficio</a>) 3.2oz/90g per pair</li><li>7 pair socks (<a href="https://amzn.to/2Kfssgp">Darn Tough</a>, <a href="https://amzn.to/2MSu2Ud">Sperry Liners</a>) 1.6oz/45g per pair</li></ul><h3>Workout Gear</h3><ul><li>Earphones (<a href="http://amzn.to/2zivl7e">Anker Soundbuds Slim</a>) 0.48oz/14g</li><li>Phone holder (<a href="http://amzn.to/2xPhn0f">Phone Waistband</a>) ~1.8oz/50g</li><li>GPS watch (<a href="http://amzn.to/2xOJ708">Garmin Vivoactive Watch</a>) worn</li><li>Running sneakers (lightweight/your own preference) ~10oz/284g</li><li>1 pair compression shorts (<a href="https://amzn.to/2lxrgae">Under Armour HeatGear</a>) ~2oz/57g</li><li>1 pair quick-dry shorts (<a href="https://amzn.to/2tzFFGt">Nike Running</a>) 4oz/114g</li><li>2 pairs quick-dry wool socks (<a href="https://amzn.to/2MnbuKK">SmartWool Men’s PhD</a>) 1.6oz/45g per pair</li></ul><p>With everything on this list, including two collared shirts, the total weight is around 8.4kg or 18.5lbs.</p><p>Removing collared shirts, workout gear, and the cold-weather jacket, you can easily get this down to around 5.5kg/12lbs.</p><p>Either way, this should give you a starting point for packing light.</p><p>Which extra items do you take?</p><p>Which do you not bother with? </p><p>Let me know in the comments.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Take Book Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This post tells you how to take book notes in an easy process designed to extract the most important information from the books you read, letting you search it, retain it, and use it in the future. Includes screenshots from Kindle and iBook reading applications to make the process clear.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Why Take Book Notes?</h2><p>I only really started heavily reading non-fiction books after college. Prior, I enjoyed lots of fiction; during, I read lots of textbooks and not much else. I still credit <a href="https://amzn.to/2Ees2zN">The 4-Hour Workweek</a> as a major influence on my decision to enter the world of startups.</p><p>As I got more into the world of business, tech, and entrepreneurship, I began reading more. I didn’t learn much about these fields during my Mechanical Engineering degree, so I had to learn somewhere.</p><p>The problem was that I noticed I wasn&#x27;t retaining as much as I’d like. I’d read a book one week, and a month later have forgotten most of the content.</p><p>I also noticed that many of the prolific readers I followed and admired - <a href="https://tim.blog/2007/12/05/how-to-take-notes-like-an-alpha-geek-plus-my-2600-date-challenge/">productivity expert Tim Ferriss</a>, <a href="https://ryanholiday.net/the-notecard-system-the-key-for-remembering-organizing-and-using-everything-you-read/">writer Ryan Holiday</a>, <a href="https://medium.com/@nateliason/how-to-never-forget-books-you-read-59612497dc0d">blogger Nat Eliason</a>, <a href="https://www.fs.blog/2013/11/taking-notes-while-reading/">Shane Parrish</a> - had some sort of note-taking process when they read.</p><p>So I started taking notes while I read too. I’d keep a notebook next to me, and jot down thoughts as they came to me, or passages that I found particularly important. Later, I’d scan my notes and upload them to Evernote. There were problems with this process though.</p><p>First, it ruined my reading flow, and as a result I didn’t take many notes. Second, I wouldn’t revisit those notes until I filled my written notebook, scanned it, and went through it again. This generated a big backlog of book notes that I never caught up to. And finally, without that transcription step, the notes weren’t of much value to me. I couldn’t search for them, I couldn’t copy/paste quotes, and I couldn’t rearrange my notes to make more sense.</p><p>What follows is the process I’ve developed over the last several years of reading a lot of books. It’s definitely not perfect, but my retention has gone way up, and this has helped me generate new ideas, make connections between different concepts, and write better.</p><p>The bottom line is: if you want to remember what you read, you should be taking notes.</p><h2>How to Take Book Notes - A Summary</h2><p>Here’s the quick version. I’ll lay out the details below.</p><ol><li><strong>Read on an electronic reader of some sort (tablet or e-reader).</strong></li><li><strong>Highlight important passages as you read.</strong></li><li><strong>Sync tablet and desktop versions of e-reader software (Kindle, iBooks, etc.).</strong></li><li><strong>Copy/paste all highlighted notes (and any written) from desktop version into a word processor (Microsoft Word is best).</strong></li><li><strong>Clean text in word processor.</strong></li><li><strong>Paste cleaned text highlights in Evernote.</strong></li><li><strong>Organize.</strong></li><li><strong>Re-read notes, picking out favorite quotes, summarizing, and reducing.</strong></li><li><strong>Enjoy a very organized, searchable summary of the book you just read, which you can now re-read at your leisure.</strong></li></ol><p>It’s not as long a process as it seems at first glance, and in the overall context of the time required to read a book, it’s minimal.</p><h2>How to Take Book Notes - The Detailed Process</h2><h3>Step 1: Read on an electronic reader of some sort.</h3><p>I’ll be the first to admit I prefer a paper book. My eyes hurt after a long time reading a tablet, I like the feel of a book, and I like seeing how far I have until the end. There are plenty of reasons I prefer a hard-copy book.</p><p>But I can highlight on an electronic reader, and that’s a big enough reason for me to read on one. There are other reasons too: I travel quite a bit, and it’s easier to carry a lot of ebooks with me, I can use a tablet for a lot of other functions in addition to reading, the list goes on.</p><p>So, I read on an iPad. I’d probably use a nice e-reader if I had one, but the one I had was too slow for effective highlighting.</p><p>I prefer reading in iBooks, instead of Kindle, simply because most Kindle books have restricted highlight limits (usually 10% of text), and I hate it when I find out later that I’ve gone over that limit.</p><h3>Step 2: Highlight important passages as you read.</h3><p>This is self-explanatory. Usually it just involves holding your finger over a word, and dragging to highlight. I don’t type notes as I read because it ruins my flow, I just highlight as I go.</p><p>Note that it will make things easier later if you make sure to highlight chapter titles, headers, etc. as you go.</p><h3>Step 3: Sync tablet and desktop versions of e-reader software.</h3><p>This should happen automatically, as long as you have the e-reader software (Kindle, iBooks, etc.) downloaded on your computer, and you’re signed in on both. You might have to open the application on your tablet/e-reader while in Wifi, if you haven’t since highlighting.</p><p>Once they’re syncing, all highlights you take on your tablet/e-reader should appear on your desktop reader.</p><h3>Step 4: Copy/paste all highlighted notes into a word processor.</h3><p>I’m going to show you the exact steps in both Kindle and iBooks, using as an example, <a href="/book-notes/perennial-seller-ryan-holiday">Ryan Holiday’s Perennial Seller</a>.</p><h3>How to export highlights from Kindle:</h3><p>At this point, you’ve read the book on your iPad (Kindle app) or on your Kindle e-reader. Go back to the desktop version of Kindle, double-click on your book, and then click on the notes icon on the left of the interface:</p><p>Next, click on the export icon (square with arrow pointing up) above the highlights. You should see a popup like this:</p><p>Click OK, then save it somewhere you can find it. Double-click the shortcut where it saved, and it should open up the notes in a web browser, and it should look something like this:</p><p>Highlight all (CMD+A on Mac, Ctrl+A on PC), then Copy (CMD+C on Mac, Ctrl+C on PC). </p><p>Paste the highlights (CMD+V on Mac) into a Microsoft Word document. I usually paste without formatting (CMD+Shift+V on Mac). It can also work in Google Docs, though not quite as well.</p><h3>How to export highlights from iBooks:</h3><p>Open book, click the notes icon on the top bar, and you should see your highlights appear in the left panel (you may have to click on the section to see them).</p><p>Extracting notes from iBooks is a bit more manual than Kindle. First, click the headers to see the drop-down text on the left, then use Shift+Click to select as much text as you can. While holding shift, right-click (two-finger click on Mac), Copy, and then Paste into your Word/Google Docs document.</p><p>You’ll get something that looks like this:</p><h3>Step 5: Clean text in Microsoft Word (or Google Docs).</h3><p>The point of pasting this in Microsoft Word or Google Docs before Evernote is to clean up the text a bit.</p><p>My preference is Microsoft Word because the Find and Replace tool is a bit more powerful, and it saves us some time later.</p><p>Once you’ve got your text in Microsoft Word or Google Docs, we’re going to remove extraneous text and markings automatically added when we copied or exported the highlights.</p><p>So, open the Find and Replace tool in whichever you’re using. In Microsoft Word, you click the magnifying glass in the top right, and then select ‘Replace’, and should see it pop up in the left sidebar. In Google Docs, it’s Edit&gt;Find and replace (or CMD+Shift+H).</p><p><strong>Microsoft Word:</strong></p><p><strong>Google Docs:</strong></p><p>Now, what you remove depends on your own preferences, whether you’re using Google Docs or Microsoft Word, and how the export looks (whether you’ve used Kindle or iBooks), but here’s a general outline:</p><ul><li>Remove all quotation marks (present if you’ve used iBooks).</li><li>Remove all dates, page numbers, etc.</li><li>Remove all line breaks (only possible in Microsoft Word).</li></ul><p>To remove quotation marks, just fill the quotation mark in the ‘Find’ box, and leave the ‘Replace’ box empty, then click ‘Replace All’.</p><p>To remove dates/page numbers, etc., we’re going to use some character placeholders in the ‘Find’ box, and <strong><em>work from end to start</em></strong>. This is important, as if you do the reverse, you’ll get a bunch of random numbers left over from the find and replace operations that make things tougher. So, here are instructions for both Google Docs and Microsoft Word to remove a typical marking on a Kindle export: “Highlight (yellow) - Page 12 · Location 242”.</p><p>To remove in Google Docs, use the following in the ‘Find’ bar (make sure the “Match using regular expressions” box is checked):</p><ul><li>Highlight \(yellow\) \D Page \d\d \D Location \d\d\d</li></ul><p>As you can probably guess, \D means ‘find any non-digit’ and ‘\d’ means ‘find any digit’. If you have more digits, add more \d’s.</p><p>To remove in Microsoft Word, use the following in the ‘Find’ bar:</p><ul><li>Highlight (yellow) ^? Page ^? ^? Location ^?^?^?</li></ul><p>It’s easier in Microsoft Word, as ^? just refers to any character. <strong><em>Don’t forget to work from end to start.</em></strong></p><p>If you do this right, you’ll be left with all the highlight text with empty lines. Here’s where Microsoft Word is particularly helpful. We’re going to use ^p and ^l placeholders to remove all of these.</p><p>Again, start with the largest gaps, and work your way down. So, fill something like ^p^p^p^p into the ‘Find’ bar, and see if you have any results. If you don’t, remove one ^p, and check results. As soon as you have any results, add a single ^p to the ‘Replace’ bar, and click ‘Replace All’. Iteratively reduce the number of ^p symbols in the ‘Find’ bar, keeping a single ^p in the ‘Replace’ bar, and clicking ‘Replace All’, until you have just one ^p in the ‘Find Bar’. Then change the ‘Replace’ placeholder to ^l, and click ‘Replace All’ once more. This should pretty much have eliminated all the spaces in your notes.</p><p>This should be the final Find and Replace you do:</p><p>You should be left with text like this:</p><h3>6. Paste in Evernote.</h3><p>Once you’ve done that, Select All (CMD+A), and Paste Without Formatting (CMD+Shift+V) into an Evernote Note, or whatever you’re using.</p><p>I have a notebook specifically for book notes, and name each new note with the book title and author.</p><p>Once you’ve pasted, click the Bulleted List shortcut (icon with three vertical dots and lines), to put all your text in bullet points.</p><p>It should now look like this:</p><h3>7. Organize and clean.</h3><p>I start reading through the notes, usually with my desktop e-reader open next to Evernote, so I can re-add italics, quotation marks, etc. that got lost in all our copy-pasting.</p><p>I take the chapter titles out of bullets to create separate sections, indent where there are lists, and generally just clean up the text so it’s easier to read. </p><p>When I’m done it looks something like this:</p><h3>8. Re-read notes, picking out favorite quotes, summarizing, and reducing.</h3><p>From here, I’ll usually open up the note in separate pane (double-click the note in Evernote), and keep it next to my main Evernote window on a big monitor. That let’s me read through and type notes in the same document at the same time.</p><h3>9. Re-read notes, picking out favorite quotes, summarizing, and reducing.</h3><p>From here, I’ll usually open up the note in separate pane (double-click the note in Evernote), and keep it next to my main Evernote window on a big monitor. That let’s me read through and type notes in the same document at the same time.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Favourite Tech Products]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A curated list of my favourite tech products for productivity, focus, and effective work—from noise-cancelling headphones to apps that help me stay organized and get things done.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xQ6ZoU"><strong>Audio-Technica ATH-50x Headphones</strong></a></p><p>These are widely known as one of the best headphones for the money, and they’re usually the ones that sit at my workstation. The audio is obviously great, and I prefer them to either earphones or on-ear headphones when I’m spending a whole day working with them on. Highly recommend.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxIbB7"><strong>Etymotic HF-5 Earphones</strong></a></p><p>I’ll repeat here what I said in the travel section: these earphones are the single most painful thing for me to forget when traveling – they’re just awesome. I’ve compared them with the best Bose headphones, and the difference in background noise reduction is minimal, and I believe better in some situations.</p><p>Between the cost difference and the portability compared with bulky headphones, as well as the lack of need for batteries, I think these headphones are a steal, and I’m now on my fifth pair.</p><p>As a small disclaimer, the one weak spot of these is the cords – you have to take care of them, and even then after a couple years they will wear out. That said, Etymotic has never failed to replace them for me, meaning that I’ve only ever paid for two pairs of these. Last time they even upgraded my replacements to the ones with a mic/remote when I asked.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zkigtR"><strong>Aukey 30,000mAh Charger with USB-C</strong></a></p><p>I bought this recently as a method of charging my laptop (15” Macbook Pro). Now, it doesn’t really “charge” it, but what it will do is extend the battery life well beyond normal. It’s also a great power bank to have kicking around if you have a bunch of people needing to charge phones (on the boat, going camping, etc.).</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xOqF7G"><strong>Anker 5000 mAh Charger</strong></a></p><p>I carry this thing pretty much everyday, and it’s a lifesaver when your phone (like mine) seems to die every 4 hours, yet you often have days where you don’t get to a phone charger for 16. It’s small, portable, and if you don’t need it, it’s likely someone around you will.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zj46JF"><strong>Macbook Pro 15”</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.monoprice.com/product?p_id=15249"><strong>USB Adapter</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.monoprice.com/product?p_id=15244"><strong> HDMI Adapter</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xOAa7f"><strong>Cover</strong></a></p><p>I wasn’t actually a Macbook user until last year, but I’ve embraced the switch – I use my old PC for very few things now.</p><p>I actually used the 12” Macbook for a while last year, but upgraded when the Pro came out. I upgraded for the video &amp; photo processing abilities, among other things, but there are definitely times I miss the portability, weight, and battery life of the Macbook. My advice would be to seriously consider the 12” Macbook unless you really believe you need the extra processing power. That said, I’ve been happy.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxpkpv"><strong>Seagate Backup Plus Slim External Hard Drives</strong></a></p><p>I’ve used Western Digital drives but had reliability issues. Seagate hasn’t let me down, I usually just reformat for Mac when I buy them instead of paying extra for the Mac version. I currently use a variety of the 1TB, 2TB and 4TB sizes. Note that the 4TB and above versions are larger, and the <a href="http://amzn.to/2A5KOZz">bumper cases</a> don’t fit.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zz7sce"><strong>Tecknet Bluetooth mouse</strong></a></p><p>Cheap and reliable, I take it with me whenever I’m traveling.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2x5IOOO"><strong>Pilot G-Tec C4 pens</strong></a></p><p>I was skeptical at first, but I love these pens now. They’re not that expensive, but fine point and last a long time.</p><p><a href="https://oristand.co/"><strong>Oristand Portable Standing Desk</strong></a></p><p>I really can’t stand sitting for long periods of time anymore – it takes a little while to get used to, but I try and make sure I ship one of these ahead of time if I know I’m going to be working somewhere for a while and won’t have a proper standing desk. They’re cheap, in my experience robust, and the customer service is great. I’ve used it with a 28” monitor before with no issues. One of my better office setups: </p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Favourite Travel Products]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[All my favourite products for making travel, and staying rested while traveling, as smooth as possible.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://amzn.to/2iouCuf"><strong>3M Soft Earplugs</strong></a></p><p>I always have 3-5 pairs of these in whatever bag I have, and they’re great. I often use them on airplanes if I don’t want to listen to music, in noisy hotel rooms, noisy apartments (looking at you, New York), or wherever I want a little quiet without wearing my Etymotics.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2x6WJ7h"><strong>Cabeau Evolution Pillow</strong></a></p><p>In general, travel pillows suck. They look stupid, I resisted for a long time, but eventually I got one, and it does make a marginal difference. I think this one is the best of the bunch – it’s built ergonomically (ie. Doesn’t force your head forward), squishes into a pretty small package, and locks pretty well around your neck (preventing your head from falling forward).</p><p>I also have been using it recently to protect my bruised tailbone from long periods of sitting (ie. Airplane, bus, etc.), and have used it as a pillow when sleeping at friends’ places. So it has it’s uses. Would love suggestions for something better though.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2ziqD9y"><strong>Sleep Master Eye Mask</strong></a></p><p>I hated eye masks until I got this one – I’m still not totally sold/used to them, but this one doesn’t have an elastic, and sort of tightens around your eyebrows, so instead of pressing on your eyes, it just blocks the light, which is great. I used this plus some 3M earplugs while living in a crappy apartment in New York that had no curtains and a lot of traffic noise.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxiuQQ"><strong>SKINS Compression Socks</strong></a></p><p>I use these for two things: one, helping prevent clotting on long flights (particularly if I’ve been using <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonsteroidal_anti-inflammatory_drug">NSAIDs</a>), and two, recovery from long workouts, particularly runs. It’s a misconception that these things help when running or doing activity, but for recovery, they’re great.</p><p>If you have any predisposition to blood clots, you should wear these.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xO9QtS"><strong>Osprey Farpoint 55 Backpack</strong></a></p><p>I bought this after a lot of research, and it’s an awesome backpack save for one thing I was hoping from it: it doesn’t really fit in carry-on. You’ll get away with it sometimes if it’s not packed full and people aren’t paying a lot of attention, but I’ve been called out and not been able to fit it in the carry-on sizer.</p><p>That said, for longer trips/hikes/roadtrips/etc., it’s awesome. Full suspension means it’s super comfy, and it opens completely which makes packing, unpacking, and finding items in between easy.</p><p>The day pack is also one of the most ergonomic, comfortable backpacks I’ve ever had.</p><p>If you do want something that fits the carryon standards, my friends recommend the <a href="http://amzn.to/2zpeB2j">Farpoint 40</a>, which fits the dimensions a bit better. Technically the Farpoint 55 is a 40L + 15L day pack, but the dimensions are a bit different. I’ll probably be picking up the Farpoint 40 soon.</p><p><a href="https://mattandnat.com/"><strong>Matt &amp; Nat</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://mattandnat.com/shop/handbags/briefcases/soren-black"><strong>Briefcase</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://mattandnat.com/shop/men-s/backpacks/dean-black"><strong>Backpack</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://mattandnat.com/shop/men-s/weekenders/george-black"><strong>Weekender Bag</strong></a></p><p>Not a whole lot to say here, but Matt &amp; Nat were founded in Montreal, and they make great-looking vegan-friendly leather-lookalike bags. I got all back versions of each, and they look greaty. I’ve used them for longer travel, but I wouldn’t generally recommend it. As a weekday commuter/weekender combo though, it’s hard to find a combo that looks better.</p><p><a href="https://www.mec.ca/en/product/5044-007/Duffle-Bag?colour=BK000"><strong>MEC Duffel Bag (M/60L)</strong></a></p><p>Not much to say about these except you should get one. We used to use the larger versions in the Coast Guard for all our gear, and I’ve had one of the 60L versions since a trip we took to Europe in 2010, and it has been thrown around, abused, filled to the brim, and never failed me.</p><p>They’re flexible, which means that as long as you don’t stuff them, you can almost always get it into the carry-on sizer, and as mentioned, they’re extremely durable. It’s currently my go-to for carryon-friendly bag, and I think there’s something to be said for carry-on bags that don’t have wheels for longer-term travel.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxIbB7"><strong>Etymotic HF-5 Earphones</strong></a></p><p>I listed these in both the tech and travel sections just because I find them essential for each. These earphones are the single most painful thing for me to forget when traveling – they’re just awesome. I’ve compared them with the best Bose headphones, and the difference in background noise reduction is minimal, and I believe better in some situations.</p><p>Between the cost difference and the portability compared with bulky headphones, as well as the lack of need for batteries, I think these headphones are a steal, and I’m now on my fifth pair.</p><p>As a small disclaimer, the one weak spot of these is the cords – you have to take care of them, and even then after a couple years they will wear out. That said, Etymotic has never failed to replace them for me, meaning that I’ve only ever paid for two pairs of these. Last time they even upgraded my replacements to the ones with a mic/remote when I asked.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Morning Routine - 7 Things to Win the Day]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Details of my morning routine, which includes 7 things I do to win the day, as well as my tips for creating your own morning routine.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Morning routines and daily habits are constantly the subject of productivity and business blogs. Mason Currey wrote <a href="https://amzn.to/2JIgOrc">a book about them</a>, which you can <a href="https://www.fastcodesign.com/3032874/the-daily-routines-of-26-of-historys-most-creative-minds">see summarized here in an infographic</a>. There’s even a whole <a href="https://mymorningroutine.com/">website dedicated to morning routines</a>.</p><p>Many individuals I follow and admire have specific routines they use to make the most of their mornings. <a href="https://ryanholiday.net/my-morning-routine/">Ryan Holiday showers, writes, and doesn’t check email</a>. <a href="https://www.inc.com/chris-winfield/5-morning-rituals-that-help-you-win-the-day-.html">Tim Ferriss meditates, drinks tea, and journals</a>. <a href="https://www.nateliason.com/productivity-daily-system/">Nat Eliason drinks tea and reads</a>. <a href="https://mymorningroutine.com/james-clear/">James Clear showers, reads, and writes</a>. <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/retired-navy-seal-jocko-willinks-morning-routine-2015-11">Jocko Willink gets up at 4:30am and works out</a>. </p><p>Now, to be clear, I don’t think there’s one morning routine that’s best for everyone. We all have different constraints, preferences, and sleep schedules. However, I’ve personally benefited greatly from having some sort of routine, and so in this post I’m going to go into detail about what my personal routine is, and why I think having one is important.</p><h2>Why You Should Have a Morning Routine</h2><p>First, as Tim Ferriss says, morning routines help you <a href="https://tim.blog/2015/09/18/5-morning-rituals/">“win the day”</a>. If you accomplish one good thing in your morning routine, you’ve accomplished one good thing for that day, and you’re much more likely to have a good rest of the day.</p><p>Second, mornings can be one of the most predictable parts of the day if you’re disciplined, and having a morning routine will allow you to gradually tweak and add habits that you want to work on. For example, maybe your routine starts with showering, making coffee, and reading for 10 minutes. Want to learn French? Add learning five French words before you start reading. Want to start journaling? Write a few sentences after you’re finished reading. You get the point. Starting your day with some sort of planned routine, and developing that routine into a habit, will allow you to progressively add positive habits.</p><h2>My Morning Routine</h2><p>First, I’ll detail what I personally do in the morning, and then I’ll go into some more general rules that I think you should apply to your morning.</p><p><strong>My morning routine generally looks like this:</strong></p><ol><li><strong>Wake up early (usually 6-8am).</strong></li><li><strong>Turn coffee on (simple drip coffee maker). (3 mins)</strong></li><li><strong>Shower. (5-15 mins)</strong></li><li><strong>Get dressed, sit down to drink coffee &amp; protein + greens. (5 mins)</strong></li><li><strong>Journal (currently I use the <a href="https://amzn.to/2GUQug2">Five-Minute Journal</a> and the <a href="https://amzn.to/2HxMBuE">Daily Stoic Journal</a>) (5-10 mins)</strong></li><li><strong>Read (10-60 mins), drink second coffee.</strong></li><li><strong>Meditate (I use the <a href="https://www.oakmeditation.com/">Oak app</a>). (10 mins)</strong></li></ol><p>After that, I’ll start my work day (I typically work from home).</p><p>The routine can last anywhere from 30 minutes to 2 hours, and reading is what I vary most. If I wake up extra early, or it’s a weekend, I’ll read longer, and if I have to get work started, I can cut my routine to 30 minutes.</p><p>Each component of my routine has a purpose:</p><ul><li><strong>Shower + coffee:</strong> I love showering, and I love coffee, and as a result I want to get out of bed every morning.</li><li><strong>Protein + greens drink:</strong> let’s me “skip” breakfast while still not being super hungry. I like being able to get straight into things without having to prep breakfast.</li><li><strong>Journal:</strong> there are proven benefits to journaling, but specifically, I wanted to increase the gratitude I express (Five-Minute Journal) and reflect a bit more (Daily Stoic Journal). Basically, it’s cheap therapy and a way to clear my mind.</li><li><strong>Read:</strong> I love reading, and believe it’s the one of the best ways to practice “deep work” concentration. Reading in the mornings also allows me to still finish approximately a book a week during busy work times.</li><li><strong>Second coffee:</strong> the caffeine boosts of two coffees gets me awake and ready to work.</li><li><strong>Meditate: </strong>this is one final way to clear my mind before starting work, and I find it reduces my overall stress level.</li></ul><h2>The Ideal Morning Routine</h2><p>As I said, I don’t believe there is one routine that everyone should follow. But I do believe there are common things that everyone should try and do to make the most of their mornings. <a href="https://www.nateliason.com/productivity-daily-system/">Nat Eliason suggested</a> the four keys are not being rushed, not responding to anything, not reading the news, and “doing something you’ll feel good about later.”</p><p>That’s a pretty good summary, but here is my general advice for a good morning routine:</p><ul><li>Wake up early: Up for debate, but I think this is important. I love being up early, I historically haven’t liked waking early (there’s a difference). But, I now make an concerted effort to be up as early as possible. There’s a phrase generally accepted as a <a href="http://www.infound.at/blog/lose-an-hour-in-the-morning-chase-it-all-day/">Yiddish saying</a> that says “lose an hour in the morning, chase it all day”. That’s how I feel whenever I wake up late.</li><li>Don’t respond to anything: I don’t check my phone until I finish my routine. I keep the meditation app and my e-reading apps on my iPad, which doesn’t have any push notifications or email.</li><li>Do something you’ll look forward to first thing: this is key, and why I don’t exercise when I wake up. I like exercising, but if faced with a tough workout when I need to get out of bed, I’m going to delay getting out of bed. Hot shower sounds much better to me.</li><li>Try and make it robust: I travel a fair amount, but my routine adapts well. I don’t typically have my journals, so I just take a few notes in a notebook. I have my iPad, so I can read and meditate. If I don’t have coffee, I just drink cold water. The easier it is to stick to your routine, the more likely you are to do so.</li><li>Make reading a habit: I truly believe reading is one of the most important things to do if you want to develop personally, and is the best practice for extended periods of concentration or “<a href="http://calnewport.com/books/deep-work/">deep work</a>”.</li><li>Iterate: this routine shouldn’t be something that is static forever, unless that works for you. Change things up if they aren’t working, or try adding something if they are. It’s always going to be a work in progress, but having a routine in the first place will allow you to experiment.</li><li>Don’t beat yourself up: I follow my routine probably 90% of the time when I’m home, but that often changes when I travel. The important thing isn’t that you do it all the time, but rather that you get back on track quickly when you miss a day or two. No one is perfect.</li></ul><p>If you manage to do those things, you should find you are more productive, feel better about your days, and generally start looking forward to your mornings.</p><h2>A Few Notes</h2><p><strong>On waking up early: </strong></p><p>I’ll write another post about this, but your success at waking up early will depend on two main things:</p><ol><li>Going to bed on time.</li><li>Needing to get out of bed to turn off your alarm.</li></ol><p>Going to bed on time will depend how much sleep you need. Most people will need 6-8 hours. I personally need either 7, or 8.5, depending on the night, which I figured out through experimentation. You should figure it out for yourself too - just try a few normal nights without an alarm, and see how long you sleep. Some people can survive on much less, <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/retired-navy-seal-jocko-willinks-morning-routine-2015-11">like Jocko Willink</a>, but they are a very small proportion of the population.</p><p>Needing to get out of bed to turn off your alarm is self-explanatory - once you’re up, you’re far more likely to stay there. If you can turn it off while in bed, you’re also far more likely to stay there. Personally, I use this <a href="https://amzn.to/2HAxYqt">Phillips Wake-Up Light</a>, plus my iPhone plugged in across the room (I actually use <a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/0UayhOBJOrjTeMI762t8dP?si=OPL-ZrtLRrG0-Wifo9F7cg">this spoken track by Jocko</a> to wake up to).</p><p><strong>On exercising in the morning:</strong></p><p>I understand that lots of professionals have limited time to work out, and admire those that get up early to do it. I don’t work out in the morning for a few reasons:</p><ol><li>I’m lucky enough to work from home, so I can choose when I work out.</li><li>I feel strongest around 2-4pm, yet slowest mentally, and I’m also fully hydrated at that point.</li><li>I know from experience that if faced with a workout when I wake up, I’m more likely to stay in bed (exception being if I’m meeting friends/workout partners).</li></ol><p>That’s it! I’ll write some posts soon about evening routines, getting better sleep, and how to wake up early, which all influence your morning routine, but for now I hope this helps you kick your day off on a high note.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Obstacles Are Opportunities]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[We all face obstacles. Some–like a pandemic–are larger than others. What doesn’t have to change is our response to them. Will you view it as an obstacle? Or an opportunity?]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>How You Deal With Obstacles Depends on Your Perception</h2><p>The world is in the midst of a pandemic. All but essential services are closing, many are losing their jobs, and the world is facing an economic slowdown unprecedented in our times.</p><p>For many, this means panic, anxiety, fear, denial, and the resulting rash action.</p><p>Look no further than the fights in stores over toilet paper, or those who continue to deny that this virus is serious, despite hundreds dying in countries with first-rate medical care.</p><p>But is panic necessary? Is fear necessary?</p><p>These obstacles, and the opportunities they present, are the core focus of Ryan Holiday’s modern application of Stoicism, <a href="/book-notes/the-obstacle-is-the-way-ryan-holiday">The Obstacle is the Way</a>:</p><blockquote>“Desperation, despair, fear, powerlessness—these reactions are functions of our perceptions. You must realize: Nothing makes us feel this way; we choose to give in to such feelings.” - Ryan Holiday, <a href="/book-notes/the-obstacle-is-the-way-ryan-holiday">The Obstacle is the Way</a></blockquote><h2>We Choose Our Perspective</h2><p>Panic and fear are not requirements. Unexpected events happen, but we determine how we react to them.</p><blockquote>“How we interpret the events in our lives, our perspective, is the framework for our forthcoming response—whether there will even be one or whether we’ll just lie there and take it.”</blockquote><p>The events around us are often out of our control. We can do our part–but there is much we can’t control.</p><blockquote>&quot;When it comes to perception, this is the crucial distinction to make: the difference between the things that are in our power and the things that aren’t.” </blockquote><p>We must learn to accept those things which we cannot control, and instead focus on those we can.</p><h2>Do What is Required</h2><p>Crises often require us to do things we don’t like. </p><p>They may require us to stay inside for long periods of time, avoiding social contact.</p><p>They may require us to cook more than we are used to, instead of dining out.</p><p>They may force us to adapt our work environment, or find new ways of being productive.</p><blockquote>“Sometimes, on the road to where we are going or where we want to be, we have to do things that we’d rather not do...To whatever we face, our job is to respond with: hard work, honesty, and helping others as best we can.”</blockquote><p>We may not like what we have to do. It may go on longer than we think. Prepare yourself and do what needs to be done. Do it for the sake of others, for those you know at risk, and because the crisis demands it.</p><p>Do it because that is your job, and you must do it well.</p><h2>Find the Opportunities</h2><p><a href="/blog/why-positive-constraints-are-so-valuable">Positive contraints</a> are liberating. </p><p>In the face of many things we cannot do, we are suddenly free to do other things that we never find time to do.</p><p>Take the time to:</p><ul><li>Go for a walk</li><li>Start a meditation practice</li><li>Journal</li><li>Learn to play that instrument</li><li>Take that course</li><li>Read that book</li><li>Daydream</li><li>Cook that meal</li><li>Call those people</li><li>Write those letters</li><li>Think about your goals</li><li>Plan your future</li></ul><p>There are an infinite number of ways to make use of free time. </p><p>Is this dead time or alive time? Are you using your time wisely?</p><h2>Get Started</h2><p>In the face of new opportunities, we are often paralyzed by the enormity of the task in front of us.</p><p>The first thing is always to get started.</p><p>Reduce your goal to the simplest possible first step. And take that step. </p><blockquote>“We’ve all done it. Said: ‘I am so [overwhelmed, tired, stressed, busy, blocked, outmatched].’</blockquote><blockquote>And then what do we do about it? Go out and party. Or treat ourselves. Or sleep in. Or wait. It feels better to ignore or pretend. But you know deep down that that isn’t going to truly make it any better. You’ve got to act. And you’ve got to start now.”</blockquote><p>Learning that language requires learning the first word.</p><p>Writing that book requires writing the first sentence.</p><p>Running a marathon requires the first step.</p><p>What are you waiting for? If you don’t have time now, when will you?</p><h2>‍</h2>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 10 - Acquisition]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Customer acquisition is usually the foremost topic on a founder's mind. This week was full of workshops, focused on various aspects of this topic. We also heard one of the most powerful Founder Stories of the program.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Customer acquisition is usually the foremost topic on a founder&#x27;s mind. This week was full of workshops, focused on various aspects of this topic. We also heard one of the most powerful Founder Stories of the program.</p><p>First, let&#x27;s talk about the workshops:</p><h2>Cohort Analysis</h2><p>Put on by a pair of growth and product specialists, this included a bunch about frameworks that you can use, and some example case studies. Here are the quick takeaways, and resources to learn more:</p><h3>Highlights:</h3><ul><li><strong>Engagement</strong> is your biggest problem.</li><li>What type of product do you have? Hourly? Daily? Weekly? Monthly?</li><li><strong>Avoid vanity metrics at all costs</strong>; examples include total signups, bounce rate, Facebook fans, etc.</li><li>The metric you should measure: your product&#x27;s <strong>authentic usage metric</strong>.</li><li>One of the best frameworks to use: <strong><a href="http://www.slideshare.net/dmc500hats/startup-metrics-for-pirates-long-version">AARRR</a> (Acquisition, Activation, Retention, Referral, Revenue)</strong>.</li><li><strong>Acquisition:</strong> the volume of users who convert.</li><li>CAC: Customer acquisition cost = sum of all sales &amp; marketing expenses / number of new customers added.</li><li>How to acquire? Check out the <a href="http://tractionbook.com/"><em>Traction</em></a> framework.</li><li><strong>Activation:</strong> the rate at which new signups use the product.</li><li><strong>Retention</strong>: the rate at which users come back.</li><li><strong>Referrals</strong>: the rate at which users refer your product.</li><li>Viral coefficient: i*c = k-factor, where i = invites sent per customer, c = invitees that convert (percentage)</li><li>BUT, don&#x27;t do a viral marketing campaign until your product doesn&#x27;t suck.</li><li><strong>Revenue</strong>: figure it out.</li><li><strong>Look</strong> to users who are engaged (use metrics).</li><li><strong>Talk</strong> to users who aren&#x27;t (<strong>talk to them</strong> - do I need to say that again?).</li></ul><p>The way to measure all these things? <strong>Separate into cohorts</strong>. That means <strong>separate users by when they activated</strong> (there are alternatives, but his is where to start). Do this by day, week, month, whatever timeline makes sense for your business. <strong>This is critical to gain real insights</strong>.</p><h3>Further Reading:</h3><ul><li><a href="http://www.slideshare.net/dmc500hats/startup-metrics-for-pirates-long-version">AARRR - Pirate Metrics - Dave McClure</a></li><li><a href="http://leananalyticsbook.com/">Lean Analytics - Alastair Croll &amp; Benjamin Yoskovitz</a></li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hooked-How-Build-Habit-Forming-Products-ebook/dp/B00HJ4A43S">Hooked - Nir Eyal &amp; Ryan Hoover</a></li><li><a href="http://tractionbook.com/">Traction - Gabriel Weinberg &amp; Justin Mares</a></li><li><a href="https://www.useronboard.com/training/">The Elements of User Onboarding - Samuel Hulick</a></li><li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Startup-Playbook-Fastest-Growing-Startups-Entrepreneurs/dp/1452105049">Startup Playbook - David Kidder</a></li></ul><h2>Customer Acquisition &amp; Retention</h2><p>This was an awesome workshop, and was presented from the perspective of a VC (ie. from the perspective of someone who is objective and knows what matters in a business).</p><ul><li><strong>First questions you can expect from an investor:</strong></li><li>Where do you get your customers?</li><li>How are you converting?</li><li>What&#x27;s your CAC (customer acquisition cost)?</li><li>What&#x27;s your retention like? How much do people purchase? What does that make your LTV (lifetime value)?</li><li>What&#x27;s your payback period?</li><li>You should aim for a<strong> LTV:CAC ratio of 3</strong> (and <strong>payback period of 12 months or less</strong> for subscription/SaaS).</li><li>For consumer businesses, <strong>you must have a good k-factor (viral coefficient)</strong>.</li><li>Easiest way to lower CAC is to <strong>concentrate on the end of the funnel - conversion rate</strong>.</li><li>Over time, you should see CAC going down until roughly constant, at which point your marketing should go all in on channels that work (pour fuel on the fire).</li><li><strong>Cohort analysis is key to telling the story of how customer segments are performing</strong>. <strong>You can segment by time, marketing source, sales rep, etc.</strong></li><li>This will tell you if you&#x27;re getting better.</li><li>Cohort analysis is the way to measure churn/retention in your business.</li><li><strong>Churn rate</strong> = % of customers/users leaving the service month-over-month.</li><li><strong>Lifetime</strong> = 1 / churn rate.</li><li><strong>LTV</strong> (lifetime value) = Lifetime * transaction size * gross margin.</li></ul><p>This was one of the most valuable presentations I&#x27;ve seen, and <strong>I can&#x27;t emphasize enough how important cohort analysis, customer acquisition cost and lifetime value are to your business.</strong> They are literally the metrics which determine whether it works or not.</p><h2>How to Spend $50 on Facebook</h2><p>This presentation was by <a href="https://twitter.com/larrykim">Larry Kim</a> from <a href="http://www.wordstream.com/">Wordstream</a>, and I say that because a version of the deck is available here. You should definitely <a href="https://twitter.com/larrykim">follow Larry on Twitter</a> too. I won&#x27;t go into too much detail, because you can look at his deck, but here are the highlights:</p><ul><li><strong>0.1% of content gets 1000+ shares.</strong></li><li>Reality: content and social is broken.</li><li><strong>Use social (paid advertising) as a catalyst or accelerant.</strong></li><li>ie. use it to boost your content initially (catalyst).</li><li>OR, use it to boost content that is taking off organically (accelerant).</li><li>Paid social is the most scalable content promotion.</li><li><strong>Use Twitter as a judge for your content</strong> (need good following).</li><li>Then post this to other networks (only your best content).</li><li>The better you know your target market, the better your marketing and remarketing will be.</li><li><strong>Push your hard offers through remarketing.</strong></li><li><strong>FB Custom Audiences is best way to advertise through Facebook.</strong></li><li>Compile list of industry influencers to advertise your posts on Twitter/Facebook.</li><li><strong>Content social networks can be powerful for your posts</strong> (Hacker News, LinkedIn Pulse, Digg, Medium, Reddit).</li><li>For all this to work, you need <strong>interesting, compelling, emotional trigger content.</strong></li></ul><p><a href="http://www.slideshare.net/marketing-land/the-top-ten-facebook-and-twitter-advertising-hacks-of-all-time-by-larry-kim">Check out the full presentation</a> for more!</p><h2>Founder Stories</h2><p>This week featured Jake and Joe from <a href="https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/642311833/rocketbook-wave-cloud-connected-microwavable-noteb">Rocketbook - which you should definitely check out</a> (and buy one) - and they were two of the best stories of the cohort, though for very different reasons.</p><p>Jake is a naturally funny storyteller, and has had some hilarious experiences. There were a few main takeaways I got from Jake&#x27;s stories:</p><ul><li>The importance of tinkering. I&#x27;ve talked about this before, but building your own things, side projects, and generally &quot;messing around&quot; is a great habit. <a href="http://paulgraham.com/startupideas.html">Paul Graham has talked about this before as well.</a></li><li>The importance of, and opportunities that come from, <strong>taking chances and doing things that are uncomfortable.</strong></li><li>The <strong>power of having a great network</strong>, and finding people who will advocate on your behalf; this is how you will get disproportionately large opportunities.</li></ul><h3>Transgender Issues and the Remarkable Lemay Family</h3><p>The second presentation was from Joe Lemay, and it was on a subject I had no previous knowledge that Joe was involved in.</p><p>It was easily among the most moving stories I&#x27;ve seen from the founders, and I&#x27;m hoping to dedicate a separate post to the subject.</p><p>In the meantime, I&#x27;ll give the high-level story, and then let you check out the rest of the story as told by Joe and his wife, Mimi.</p><p>The short of it is this: when Joe and Mimi&#x27;s son, Jacob, was four, they transitioned him to a boy.</p><p>Obviously, this was a big decision for Joe and Mimi. I know how great Joe is, though I&#x27;ve never met Mimi, but their story <a href="http://mimslemay.tumblr.com/">has been documented on Mimi&#x27;s blog</a>, and <a href="https://www.boston.com/culture/parenting/2015/02/26/a-letter-to-my-son-jacob-on-his-5th-birthday">a specific post was published by the Boston Globe</a>. They also did a <a href="http://www.nbcnews.com/storyline/transgender-kids/jacobs-journey-life-transgender-5-year-old-n345131">segment with NBC</a>, and in total it&#x27;s estimated their story has reached more than 50 million people.</p><p>I would encourage you to <strong><a href="http://www.nbcnews.com/storyline/transgender-kids/jacobs-journey-life-transgender-5-year-old-n345131">watch the video</a> and <a href="https://www.boston.com/culture/parenting/2015/02/26/a-letter-to-my-son-jacob-on-his-5th-birthday">read the letter</a>.</strong> It will change the way you view transgender issues.</p><p>I consider myself a very tolerant, and, living in the United States, especially lately, with issues surrounding gender definitions for bathrooms, and exposure to the same-sex marriage issue here, I&#x27;ve begun to think more about these issues.</p><p>That being said, I also know that I hadn&#x27;t thought about transgender issues with any depth. It&#x27;s an uncomfortable topic for many, but, as with many things, I believe it&#x27;s an issue of fearing what we don&#x27;t understand.</p><p>These videos will help. I was extremely moved by Joe&#x27;s chat with us about how he and his family have dealt with it. I already knew Joe was a great friend, but the way in which he and Mimi dealt with this issue is remarkable and inspiring. I hope to extend this into a later post, once I have some more time to research the issues.</p><p>In the meantime, please <a href="http://www.nbcnews.com/storyline/transgender-kids/jacobs-journey-life-transgender-5-year-old-n345131">watch the video</a>, and <a href="https://www.boston.com/culture/parenting/2015/02/26/a-letter-to-my-son-jacob-on-his-5th-birthday">read the letter</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 11 - Last Workshop]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/techstars-week-11-last-workshop</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This week was the last "normal" week in Techstars, before the pitch practice madness begins. The final week was full of workshops, with the last workshop on Friday, and the topics varied from selling techniques, to common VC (venture capital) pitch mistakes, to PR (public relations) strategy.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week was the last &quot;normal&quot; week in Techstars, before the pitch practice madness begins. The final week was full of workshops, with the last workshop on Friday, and the topics varied from selling techniques, to common VC (venture capital) pitch mistakes, to PR (public relations) strategy. </p><h2>Workshop - Selling to Prospects</h2><p>This workshop was given by someone who has years of experience selling all over the world, and was very interactive. The interactive section, which involved practicing elevator pitches with multiple judges, provided a lot of the value, but the workshop itself provided the framework for that section. The highlights:</p><ul><li>There is a <strong>huge difference between nice to have and must have</strong>; sell to the people who must have it.</li><li>A <strong>salesperson wants to make money</strong>; they will only join you if they think they can make more money.</li><li><strong>Sales is a science, not an art</strong>, and can be learned.</li><li>Close big customers 2-3 months before end of fiscal year to get rolled into their budget for the next year.</li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t start with a demo</strong>; demonstrate mastery of their business and domain, and <strong>how you can help them</strong>.</li><li>Don&#x27;t mention things like &#x27;tech&#x27;, &#x27;app&#x27;, &#x27;software&#x27;. They don&#x27;t care about your &quot;innovative SaaS software solution&quot; - they care that <strong>you can improve their business or life.</strong></li><li>Look for published material (speeches, blogs, etc.) from your decision-maker (the person you need to close) about the challenges in their industry or space. <strong>Often they will give you the answers ahead of time.</strong></li><li><strong>Everyone in the company</strong> should have 3-4 insightful questions for the decision-maker in each vertical you&#x27;re targeting, and be prepared to bring them up whenever they meet someone relevant.</li><li>&quot;<strong>Do a few of the right things very well</strong>&quot; (in other words, focus).</li><li><strong>&quot;Delight&quot; your customers;</strong> if your customers aren&#x27;t &quot;delighted&quot; by your product, you don&#x27;t have a long-term business.</li></ul><h2>Workshop - Common VC Pitch Mistakes</h2><p>This was given by an entrepreneur-turned-VC, but was presented as the things that VCs are looking for when they see teams pitch. Awesome info:</p><ul><li>The things we look for, in order of importance: <strong>who (team), product, market, business model, competition.</strong></li><li>Additional items of importance: necessity, tech, financing (current), ask.</li><li>We are looking to figure out how people think, and what their personality is like.</li><li><strong>Team is the most critical aspect</strong> of convincing a VC.</li><li>The most experienced entrepreneurs evaluate their VCs as well; they are building their team, and VCs are a part of that team.</li><li><strong>Product and need has to be crystal clear:</strong></li><li>How much pain are they really feeling?</li><li>Can the product solve that pain?</li><li><strong>Ideal business model has: high volume, low touch, high margins.</strong></li><li>&quot;Touch&quot; in this context is how much you have to interact with customers (support, onboarding, etc.) to get the sale.</li><li>If the above business model doesn&#x27;t exist for you yet, you need to<strong> show how you&#x27;re going to get there</strong>.</li><li>Market: <strong>top-down or bottom-up is fine</strong>, but you need to make sure you know how to clearly segment your market.</li><li>Innovate in how you get your product to market, not just in the product itself.</li><li><strong>How are you going to win?</strong> Team? Tech? Innovative business model or go-to-market?</li><li>Looking for <strong>time to break even less than 12 months, LTV:CAC &gt; 3, churn break-even</strong>.</li><li>Where is the money you&#x27;re getting going to get you? This is not a timeline question, but rather what milestones or success metrics will this let you reach?</li><li><strong>Follow your slide deck, otherwise you lose control of your message and the meeting.</strong></li><li>Do homework on the person before coming in, and send a follow-up email.</li><li><strong>Get to your point and be concise.</strong></li></ul><h2>Workshop - PR Strategy</h2><p>Presented by both a reporter and a PR specialist, this workshop gave lots of insight into the unwritten rules in PR:</p><ul><li><strong>Working with the press is a relationship</strong> - don&#x27;t expect them to write about you the first time you contact them.</li><li>Build a spreadsheet of your relevant reporters and their contact information.</li><li>Try to figure out the interests of each reporter; best way to do this is by checking their recent stories.</li><li>What are the goals of your PR? <strong>Make sure you have targets.</strong></li><li>Email pitches to reporters <strong>need to be short, and show benefit</strong> for the reporter.</li><li>Don&#x27;t take it personally if you don&#x27;t get a reply.</li><li>Never send template pitches, and don&#x27;t blitz everyone.</li><li><strong>Email pitch format:</strong> mention similar article, brief sentence or two about who you are, mention why now (ie. what&#x27;s the story?).</li><li>Plan ahead if possible - reporters have editorial calendars.</li><li><strong>Nothing is ever off the record</strong>, but if you have a relationship you can potentially trust people.</li><li>Having coffee, chatting, etc. (like with an investor) is very important - not always oriented around you, but rather more on building the relationship.</li><li>Reaching out on LinkedIn, Twitter, at events (they&#x27;re usually at all the relevant local tech events) is a great way to start relationship.</li><li>Follow up by email: &quot;Met you at....&quot;.</li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t forget the local reporters who cover you early</strong> and always take the interview (reporters change jobs often).</li><li><strong>Bullet points for emails are good.</strong></li><li><strong>Reporters love numbers.</strong></li><li>You can reach out to multiple outlets, but have a different angle.</li><li>You can use deadlines to provide incentive to reply, but be careful - don&#x27;t make it a habit, or you&#x27;ll annoy reporters.</li><li><strong>Embargo:no one can publish before X date and time</strong>; you have to ask someone to agree for an embargo OR an exclusive.</li><li>Only offer embargoes to reporters you trust.</li><li>Embargoes should be used for things all publications will likely print (and make sure to add time zone).</li><li>Use exclusives to help relationships or if certain publications could make or break the PR goal.</li><li><strong>Definitely include a link to your company in your email.</strong></li><li>You can&#x27;t look over the article/story/etc. beforehand - don&#x27;t ask.</li><li>While you can&#x27;t change quotes/facts after, you can send a follow-up email with facts or things you want to request being changed.</li><li><strong>Reporters are not your friends</strong> - be careful what is said, and where you work or talk about things (ie. plane, public places are all fair game).</li><li>Trend stories are possible to pitch (ie. trends within your industry).</li><li><strong>Be very careful with PR agencies:</strong></li><li>You likely don&#x27;t need one as a startup.</li><li>Call reporters and ask who, within what agencies, they like working with.</li><li>Continue to be personal (don&#x27;t switch to a PR person) with those reporters who supported you early.</li><li>Email subject examples: &quot;Today launching [X]&quot; or &quot;Hey [reporter name], launching today&quot;.</li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t call - pitch by email.</strong></li><li>Wait a week to follow up. If it&#x27;s pressing, add that to subject line.</li><li><strong>Be online</strong> - AngelList, Crunchbase, etc.</li><li>Send a follow-up email with results of PR to reporters, and also share, link, etc. the posts; reporters have metrics too, so help them however you can.</li></ul><h2>Founder Story</h2><p>This Founder Story was from a Techstars alumni company who is doing fantastic, in a non-traditional space for startups and innovation. They&#x27;ve raised a lot of money and grown significantly (100+ employees), so there was lots of interesting advice:</p><ul><li><strong>Raising money is all about selling the vision.</strong></li><li>One of the toughest moments in building a startup is firing your first major employee.</li><li>Start asking for people to invest one month before Demo Day.</li><li><strong>Complaints can be indicative of a great problem</strong> - you likely have a poor product but they want want this problem solved enough to complain.</li><li><strong>Sales rule: answer 5 questions and then ask them to buy.</strong></li><li>Avoid having the sales team dictate the whole product roadmap - you still need to move towards your vision.</li><li>Technical debt can turn off engineers.</li><li><strong>Finding a person to be your advocate within a VC firm is 90% of the battle.</strong></li><li><strong>Building a startup is a &quot;maze, not a marathon&quot;.</strong></li><li>&quot;Even bad employees have friends&quot;.</li><li><strong>Relationships with founders from other companies are extremely important</strong> - make sure to try and join a CEO group or stay in touch with friends from accelerators, etc.</li><li>When you encounter problems, <strong>give them a name, and then have a &quot;retro&quot; tomorrow.</strong></li><li>You can save customers if you overwhelm them with updates when things go wrong and put energy into your correspondence.</li><li><strong>Always ask when you don&#x27;t understand within a company</strong> - this will perpetuate the attitude throughout the company.</li><li>Add processes intelligently, and look for opportunities (times) to add processes.</li><li><strong>Vote with your attention</strong> - make sure meetings and decision-making is concise. Be present and be involved.</li><li>Read: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Venture-Deals-Smarter-Lawyer-Capitalist/dp/1118443616">Venture Deals</a>.</li></ul><p>A lot of content this week, and most sections probably warrant a post of their own, but that will have to wait. Until next week!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 4 - Efficiency]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/techstars-week-4-efficiency</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Sales and efficiency were the key topics this week, with a workshop focused on sales, and some insights from the Founder Story.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you haven&#x27;t read any of the previous posts, start with my post about <a href="/blog/techstars-week-1-the-beginning">Techstars Week 1</a>. Efficiency was the key in Techstars last week, and with that in mind, I&#x27;m going to make this post mostly in bullet points.</p><p>Mentor Madness continued last week, though everyone was starting to try and reduce the number of meetings to key personalities, and investors starting making their rounds.</p><h2>Sales is Still King for Techstars Companies</h2><p>This point was hammered home yet again, throughout the week. Not only does sales actually involve a lot of things - customer interviews, verbalizing and articulating your value proposition and benefits, convincing customers to buy, and actually closing - but it&#x27;s the true determinant of product/market fit, investment readiness, and a host of other good things.</p><p>In essence, if you can prove some sales success, a lot of other things will become much easier. Financing, hiring...you get the gist. And more often than not, teams are still getting their heads around the fact that they are ready to increase their sales volume, and don&#x27;t require more product development or hiring, or other things on their priority list. They just need to sell. It will probably take some more time before it really hits home with everyone.</p><p>Techstars companies in general are a little closer to product/market fit than a lot of startups, but the lesson is that you&#x27;re probably ready to sell before you think you are.</p><h2>Closing is a Skill</h2><p>We had a great closing workshop (provided internally by a Techstars participant) this week that lasted all of 20 minutes. Seriously. And the end result is a clear, repeatable strategy that can be deployed by anyone who is reasonably persistent, knows your product and value proposition, and is willing to practice. The notes from that workshop:</p><ul><li>You want to be &quot;<strong>solution-oriented expert</strong>&quot; - not salesperson.</li><li>You <strong>listen</strong> to the problems of the customer.</li><li>Only go over features that are relevant to them - you need to be able to <strong>link features to pain points</strong>.</li><li>They have to see the <strong>value</strong> - cost savings or benefit outweighing cost.</li><li>Time to close: talk about pricing, ask for the close - &quot;are you going to pay with Visa, Mastercard, American Express?&quot;.</li><li>Next step: <strong>shut up</strong>; need to give them time to process.</li><li>First one to talk loses (within reason).</li><li><strong>Be prepared for objections</strong>; prepare a list of objections and rebuttals beforehand.</li><li>Try and address these early in the call (ex. ask early if there is anyone else you need on the call to make the decision).</li><li>Don&#x27;t offer extra rebuttals - they may have more objections.</li><li>Know your competition so you <strong>know why you&#x27;re better</strong>.</li><li>You have to hold their hand and lead them through the process.</li><li>Outline <strong>all steps</strong> to buying for them.</li><li>If rejected, make sure to ask &quot;is there anything I could have done to get your business?&quot; - <strong>learn from the rejection.</strong></li><li>If they say they need to check with someone, ask &quot;are there any problems you can foresee?&quot; - always get as much information as possible.</li><li>Use &quot;<strong>second voicing</strong>&quot; - pretend your manager is next to you when you check on discounts, other options, etc.</li><li><strong>Create urgency</strong> - limited time price offer, cap on number of customers, etc.</li><li><strong>Use social proof</strong> - show them reviews and testimonials.</li><li><strong>Use the feel, felt, found technique</strong>: &quot;I understand how you feel, lots of others have felt that way, what we have found is when app is used it&#x27;s easy, and we have a great support system&quot;.</li><li>Make sure if you don&#x27;t close, <strong>they have an action item</strong> for the next step.</li></ul><p>The only thing that needs to change between sales jobs is knowing the industry and the product.</p><h2>Extra Resources</h2><p><a href="http://blog.close.io/">Close.io Blog</a> (particularly Steli Efti&#x27;s writing)</p><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Predictable-Revenue-Business-Practices-Salesforce-com/dp/0984380213"><em>Predictable Revenue</em></a> - Aaron Ross &amp; Marylou Tyler</p><h2>Founder Story Insight</h2><p>This week was an external founder, a former Techstars alumni, who came in to share their insights. As usual, it was a brilliant story, and there was lots of great anecdotes. In keeping with the efficiency theme of this post:</p><ul><li><strong>Talk to customers.</strong></li><li><strong>Celebrate</strong> all the small victories.</li><li>If you&#x27;re building a company, you need to <strong>go all-in</strong> - no distractions.</li><li><strong>Go where your customers are</strong> to build your company.</li><li>Mentor sessions - ask lots of questions, then be ruthless, and <strong>pick 3 or 4 to build deep relationships</strong> with.</li><li><strong>Raise money when you can</strong>, not when you need to.</li><li>Raise from people who want you to succeed as a CEO.</li><li><strong>Team is important, but they are always second to the customer</strong>;</li><li>Never hire people you wouldn&#x27;t want at your birthday party.</li><li>Your job will become miserable the moment you break this rule.</li><li>Hire people smarter than yourself and who have more experience than yourself.</li><li>Hire people who inspire you to overcome the shitty days.</li><li><strong>Enjoy the journey</strong>.</li><li>A personal connection with your investor(s) is critical.</li><li>There is a big difference between being stubborn as a founder, versus a lack of self-awareness, and this will scare off VCs if not managed.</li><li>In choosing between customer segments: How big is the pain? How easy is it to sell? How many people are there? Do they have money?</li></ul><h2>Growth Hacking</h2><p>This week also marked an interesting week in chatting about &quot;growth hacking&quot; techniques with both mentors and companies. For those who don&#x27;t know what growth hacking is, <a href="https://blog.kissmetrics.com/learn-growth-hacking/">here&#x27;s a good resource to learn more</a>. I&#x27;ll be posting more about this in the coming weeks, as I do some work with companies on this topic.</p><p>Until next week!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Tesla Electric Adventure]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA['Electric Adventure' is our new film about our day exploring the South Shore of Nova Scotia in a Tesla Model S 90D electric car.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Electric Adventure Background</h2><p>Gavin (<a href="https://www.gavinhatheway.com/">https://www.gavinhatheway.com/</a>) and I recently got the chance to take a <a href="https://www.tesla.com/models">Tesla Model S</a> 90D out for the day, and decided to make the most of it, despite the cold weather.</p><p>We started things off by taking the <a href="https://novascotia.ca/tran/hottopics/ferries.asp">LaHave Ferry</a> to watch sunrise at <a href="https://www.fortpointmuseum.com/">Fort Point Museum</a>, and continued up to <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crescent_Beach,_Lunenburg_County,_Nova_Scotia">Crescent Beach</a>.</p><p>We continued our electric adventure back across the ferry, through Lunenburg, into <a href="https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g182187-d10486338-Reviews-Blue_Rocks-Lunenburg_Southwest_Nova_Scotia_Nova_Scotia.html">Blue Rocks</a> and Stonehurst for some hiking and exploring around sunset.</p><p>Temps were relatively cold for November - around 0-5C air temperature, and below zero with wind chill.</p><p>Regardless, we tried to make the most of the day, as the South Shore is beautiful even when it&#x27;s cold out. Here are the highlights:</p><p>If you enjoy it, make sure to subscribe to the YouTube channel and share this post!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Math Behind Cutting Meat & Dairy]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Cutting meat and dairy can have a huge impact on the environment. This article compares the impact tangibles like driving, flying and light bulbs to show just how much.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Several months ago, I read <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2018/may/31/avoiding-meat-and-dairy-is-single-biggest-way-to-reduce-your-impact-on-earth">this article</a>. It suggested removing meat and dairy from your diet was the biggest way to reduce your impact on Earth.</p><p>I grew up next to the ocean in Nova Scotia, and I believe climate change is one of the largest current threats to our well-being globally. </p><p>I support the zero waste movement, and I want to reduce my personal impact as much as possible, within reason.</p><p>As a result of the article, I reduced the amount of meat in my diet. I still eat eggs (a lot), but I’ve shifted my protein consumption primarily to eggs, fish, and supplements.</p><p>What the article didn’t make clear to me was the scope of the impact. How did cutting meat and dairy compare to everyday habits? </p><h2>Doing the Math</h2><p>I went back and read <a href="https://josephpoore.com/Science%20360%206392%20987%20-%20Accepted%20Manuscript.pdf">the full paper</a> cited in the article. </p><p>Then I <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1qfyjo98dPGdO8TyH9j5zZst9cbmB3Fp8EgHvh9oF_BQ/edit?usp=sharing">did some comparisons</a> of greenhouse gas emissions of meat production with more tangible items: driving a car, flying and lightbulbs.</p><p>You can see <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1qfyjo98dPGdO8TyH9j5zZst9cbmB3Fp8EgHvh9oF_BQ/edit?usp=sharing">more details in the spreadsheet itself</a>, but the results are remarkable.</p><p><strong>Producing 100g of beef has the same CO2eq impact of driving 199 km, flying 167 km, or powering an LED light bulb for 537 days.</strong></p><p>This doesn’t even consider other negative impacts, like land use, acidification, water use, and eutrophication.</p><h2>Average Meat Consumption in North America</h2><p>The average American ate 25.2kg (55.6 lbs) of <a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2017/07/03/americans-eat-more-beef-and-meat-trend-thats-expected-continue/435331001/">beef in 2016</a>, and <a href="https://www.seattletimes.com/business/americans-meat-consumption-set-to-hit-a-record-in-2018/">was expected to eat</a> 100.8kg (222.2 lbs) of red meat and poultry in 2018.</p><p><a href="https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montreal/canada-food-trends-1.4742309">Canadians consume a bit less</a> - about 16kg (35.3lbs) in 2017 - and about 96kg (211.6lbs) total.</p><p>The consumption of beef for an average American in one year translates to driving 50,198 km, flying 42,008 km, or powering an LED light bulb for 371 years!</p><p>The average US household <a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/news/green-light-bulb-buying-guide/">has 45 light bulbs</a>. </p><p><strong>If the average American cut beef for a year, the saved energy could power the lights in their house for over 8 years.</strong></p><h2>The Big Question</h2><p>If you care about the environment, why are you still consuming so much meat?</p><p>Not all meat is created equal. Poultry, eggs, and fish are all vast improvements over beef, and plant-based proteins are coming.</p><p>Check your local <a href="https://web.aw.ca/en/our-values/our-food/beyondmeat">A&amp;W for a Beyond Beef burger</a>, or maybe <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/business/2019/apr/02/burger-king-vegan-whopper-meat-free-impossible-launch">Burger King for an Impossible Foods burger</a>.</p><p>In the meantime, think about the impact your meat consumption is having on the environment. </p><p>Do you really need that much meat?</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars NYC Week 5 - Outlining Your Buying Process]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/week-5-techstars-nyc</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This week was what I consider the hangover week – everyone was a little bit tired, and a little bit off. Big Rocks were tough, and some got there, but certainly not the majority.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>We’re Halfway Already?</h2><p>This week was what I consider the hangover week – everyone was a little bit tired, and a little bit off. Big Rocks were tough, and some got there, but certainly not the majority.</p><p>The realization that we’re essentially halfway through the program was surprising…and shocking. Hard to believe how quickly time moves when you’re working non-stop (well, almost). </p><p>This week we worked on a few things, but I’ll keep it relatively short:</p><h2>Outline Your Buying Process</h2><p>You should make sure you have a clear outline of the steps it takes to buy your product. You should even consider publishing these once you’re confident that sales are going to follow this process.</p><p>Also, it’s okay to establish this before you know what the buying process is going to look like – in fact, you should do it before you know, and write it down somewhere. The point is to theorize what the steps are, and then continually revise until you’re confident in the process.</p><p>It’s actually also very useful when doing sales – people generally like to be told how to buy, and to have concrete steps for moving forward. It also gives you a starting point for a conversation if that’s not how they buy. You’ll be more likely to be able to extract concrete steps from them if you have some concrete steps to start from.</p><p>Maintaining consistency in your sales efforts is extremely important, and something everyone realized this week when things were slow. The disruptions of the early weeks started to show.</p><h2>Speaker Learnings</h2><p>A few quick learnings from the speakers this week:</p><ul><li>Sometimes starting with a belief statement will help clarify your vision; “At X Company, we believe _____ about the world” [as it relates to your business]</li><li>Example: At Tesla, we believe that in the future, all cars will be autonomous, and our world will be powered by renewable energy.</li><li>Once you have this, it’s easier to talk about your vision. Whether investors/customers believe you is another story, but you’re setting the stage. For more on this as it relates to sales, check out this article: <em><a href="https://medium.com/the-mission/the-greatest-sales-deck-ive-ever-seen-4f4ef3391ba0#.tutceh2iu">The Greatest Sales Deck I’ve Ever Seen</a>.</em></li><li>When you’re looking for early customers, look for young companies just a few stages ahead of you – they will have money, but much quicker to make a buying decision than large, old, established companies.</li><li>Introductions from great founders are more valuable than introductions from great investors, or mentors. It says a lot when someone who doesn’t have any interest in your business vouches for you.</li><li>Use Kickstarter to fund marketing, not R&amp;D.</li></ul><p>Read about <a href="/blog/week-6-techstars-nyc">Week 6 here</a>, or <a href="/blog/week-4-techstars-nyc">last week (Week 4) here.</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Zero Waste: What is It?]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[What is zero waste and why is it important? This article introduces the zero waste mindset, and how you can get started.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had never heard of the concept of “zero waste” until my friend <a href="https://www.instagram.com/katepepler/?hl=en">Kate Pepler</a> started promoting her new zero waste cafe in Halifax, <a href="https://thetareshop.com/">The Tare Shop</a>.</p><p>I’ve always considered myself an environmentalist. </p><p>When Kate told me about her shop, I was already using reusable shopping bags and carrying a reusable water bottle and coffee mug. </p><p>But I didn&#x27;t realize the true scope of the problem.</p><h2><strong>What is Zero Waste?</strong></h2><p>Zero waste, or the zero waste lifestyle, aims to send nothing to the landfill, and to never use single-use items, usually plastics.</p><p>This means shifting to multi-use items (reusable coffee cups, for example), reusing as much as possible, recycling some, and composting.</p><p>Personally, I’ve found the philosophy of zero waste to mostly be about shifting mindset.</p><p>I now think about what I’m consuming, how much I’m throwing out, and the impact my choices have daily.</p><h2><strong>Why Not Recycling?</strong></h2><p>Well, for one thing, the recycling rate for plastics is <a href="https://resource-recycling.com/plastics/2018/08/01/epa-u-s-plastics-recycling-rate-declines/">typically around 9%</a>. That means over 90% of plastics head straight to the landfill.</p><p>Even in Nova Scotia, where I consider the recycling program to be good, <a href="https://www.thecoast.ca/halifax/nova-scotias-recycling-efforts-plateaued-15-years-ago/Content?oid=6524187">52 percent of residential waste and 71 percent of business waste</a> is reusable, recyclable or compostable.</p><p>Nova Scotia, like many other places, also <a href="https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/nova-scotia/halifax-sends-recyclable-plastics-out-of-province-dump-china-ban-1.4472714">ships a lot of their waste overseas</a> to let countries like China deal with it (spoiler, they’re not recycling either).</p><p>This is largely an issue with recycling habits and mindset.</p><p>Most of us in the Western world have poor consumption habits, don’t recycle properly, and send a lot to the landfill.</p><p>But the reality is that plastic, while often recyclable, gets “down-cycled” - turned into another plastic product which will also degrade, and then get thrown out. </p><p>Meaning that even if plastic is properly recycled, it still ends up as trash eventually.</p><p>By contrast, <a href="http://www.gpi.org/recycling/glass-recycling-facts">glass is 100% recyclable</a> for an infinite amount of time, <a href="https://science.howstuffworks.com/environmental/green-science/recycle-one-thing1.htm">as is aluminum</a>.</p><h2><strong>How Much Does One Person Matter?</strong></h2><p>A lot, it turns out.</p><p>A <a href="https://www.cbc.ca/news/business/canadians-produce-more-garbage-than-anyone-else-1.1394020">study published in 2013</a> found that Canada produced the most garbage per citizen out of all the countries ranked - a staggering 777 kg per year, or <strong>2.1 kg (4.6 lbs) per day</strong>! </p><p>Americans are similar, <a href="https://archive.epa.gov/epawaste/nonhaz/municipal/web/html/">producing 2 kg / 4.4 lbs per day.</a></p><p>For someone who has 50 more years to live, <strong>cutting their personal waste in half would reduce their lifetime waste by 19,425 kg</strong>, or over 19 metric tons of waste!</p><h2><strong>Zero Waste is a Mindset</strong></h2><p>Zero waste is not about perfection - it’s not about instantly switching to never producing any waste at all.</p><p>Instead, it’s a philosophy or mindset shift towards avoiding single-use consumption. </p><p>Things like: </p><ul><li>Finding ways to use reusable products, like coffee cups and water bottles.</li><li>Using materials that can be fully recycled instead of plastics, like glass and aluminum.</li></ul><p>And more generally, <strong>trying to make small changes that will eventually add up to large results.</strong></p><h2><strong>Benefits of Zero Waste</strong></h2><p>Ultimately, the philosophy of zero waste has little downside. </p><p>It often means shopping locally for fresh goods, which also supports local providers.</p><p>Zero waste is often cheaper. </p><p>It often means higher quality (sometimes luxury) items instead of cheap and disposable.</p><p>It requires an investment in learning to start. But it soon becomes second-nature.</p><h2><strong>Where to Start With Zero Waste</strong></h2><p>I’m going to continue publishing posts on how to get started with Zero Waste.</p><p>In the meantime, check out this post on the <a href="https://www.goingzerowaste.com/top-10-to-get-started/">Top 10 Ways to Get Started on Waste Reduction</a> from the <a href="https://www.goingzerowaste.com/">Going Zero Waste</a> blog.</p><p>This post on the <a href="http://trashisfortossers.com/">Trash is for Tossers</a> blog is also good: <a href="http://trashisfortossers.com/10-waste-free-changes-dont-cost-any-money/">10 Waste-Free Changes That Don’t Cost Any Money</a>.</p><h2><strong>Need More Motivation To Go Zero Waste?</strong></h2><p>If you’re still not convinced, all you need to do is <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=plastic+waste&amp;num=100&amp;rlz=1C5CHFA_enCA723CA723&amp;source=lnms&amp;tbm=isch&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=0ahUKEwjalqbu4rTgAhVO6LwKHXe9B_8Q_AUIDygC&amp;biw=1680&amp;bih=940">check out a Google search like this one</a>, where there are endless photos like the one below.</p><p>That should be more than enough.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[36 Hours in Chicago (Video)]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Video highlights, restaurant recommendations, and a detailed itinerary from our whirlwind 36-hour trip exploring Chicago—including must-see spots and hidden gems.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>36 Hours in Chicago</h2><p>After being invited by <a href="https://multipleinc.com/company/dave-mason/">Dave Mason of Multiple</a> to attend <a href="https://www.cuspconference.com/">CUSP Conference</a> at the <a href="https://mcachicago.org/Home">Museum of Contemporary Art</a>, <a href="https://www.gavinhatheway.com/">Gavin</a> and I headed down for the conference and 36 hours exploring Chicago.</p><p>We got some local recommendations (thanks Pranali!) and after attending the two-day conference, had a day-and-a-half to make the most of the city.</p><p>Below you&#x27;ll find all the places Pranali suggested we visit (based on our preferences), the actual itinerary we followed for a Friday/Saturday, and some pictures from the trip! But first, here&#x27;s the video summary...</p><h3>36 Hours in Chicago Video</h3><p>Here&#x27;s a quick video we put together of our Friday/Saturday 36 hour exploration:</p><h3>36 Hours in Chicago Recommendations</h3><p>Here are the recommendations from Pranali, based on the fact we wanted some good food, good photos, and to see as much of the city as possible:</p><p>View of the skyline at sunset:</p><ul><li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Museum_Campus">Museum Campus</a> (go by the Aquarium)</li></ul><p>View of the skyline at night:</p><ul><li><a href="https://londonhousechicago.com/">Londonhouse</a></li><li><a href="http://www.cindysrooftop.com/">Cindy&#x27;s</a></li><li><a href="http://iogodfrey.com/">IO Godfrey</a></li><li><a href="https://theaviary.tocktix.com/">The Aviary</a></li></ul><p>Jazz bars:</p><ul><li><a href="http://www.chicagobluesbar.com/">B.L.U.E.S.</a></li><li><a href="https://kingstonmines.com/">Kingston Mines</a></li></ul><p>Touristy things:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.cityofchicago.org/city/en/depts/dca/supp_info/millennium_park.html">The Bean/Millenium Park</a></li><li><a href="http://www.willistower.com/">Willis Tower</a></li><li><a href="https://navypier.org/">Navy Pier</a></li><li><a href="https://www.architecture.org/experience-caf/tours/detail/chicago-architecture-foundation-river-cruise-aboard-chicagos-first-lady-cruises/">Architecture River Tour</a></li></ul><p>Donuts:</p><ul><li><a href="http://www.stansdonutschicago.com/">Stan&#x27;s</a></li><li><a href="http://firecakesdonuts.com/">Firecakes</a></li></ul><p>Tacos: </p><ul><li><a href="http://www.bigstarchicago.com/">Big Star</a></li><li><a href="https://www.mercaditorestaurants.com/">Mercadito</a></li></ul><p>Tapas:</p><ul><li><a href="http://cafebabareeba.com/">Cafe Ba Ba Reeba</a></li></ul><p>Dinner:</p><ul><li><a href="http://rpmrestaurants.com/">RPM</a></li><li><a href="https://www.yelp.ca/biz/balena-chicago">Balena</a></li><li><a href="http://www.sienatavern.com/">Siena Tavern</a></li><li><a href="http://auchevalchicago.com/">Au Cheval</a> (best burgers)</li><li><a href="http://summerhousesm.com/">Summerhouse Santa Monica</a> (get some cookies)</li></ul><p>Coffee:</p><ul><li><a href="http://www.thewormhole.us/">The Wormhole</a></li><li><a href="https://www.intelligentsiacoffee.com/">Intelligensia</a></li></ul><p>Brunch:</p><ul><li><a href="http://thebongoroom.com/">The Bongo Room</a></li><li><a href="http://fremontchicago.com/">Fremont</a></li></ul><p>Pizza/Deep Dish:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.loumalnatis.com/">Lou Malnati&#x27;s</a></li><li><a href="https://pequodspizza.com/chicago/">Pequod&#x27;s</a></li><li><a href="http://www.piecechicago.com/">Piece</a> (non-deep dish)</li></ul><h3>36 Hours in Chicago Itinerary</h3><p>We didn&#x27;t actually get to all of the things on the above list...not even close really. Here&#x27;s a rough outline of what we actually did:</p><p>Friday:</p><ul><li>Stayed in Wicker Park Thursday night</li><li>Grabbed coffee/breakfast, headed downtown</li><li>Walked the Riverwalk to the waterfront, explored the marina</li><li>Walked back through Millenium Park, saw the Bean</li><li>Grabbed a quick lunch, headed back to Wicker Park</li><li>Ran, napped</li><li>Headed back downtown to catch sunset at Museum Campus (next to the Aquarium, specifically)</li><li>Had dinner at Lou Malnati&#x27;s</li><li>Grabbed a drink at a nearby pub</li><li>Headed to B.L.U.E.S.</li><li>Called it a night</li></ul><p>Saturday:</p><ul><li>Got up early and headed downtown for sunrise</li><li>Watched sunrise from the waterfront by Millenium Park</li><li>Got some empty Bean pictures</li><li>Grabbed coffee downtown</li><li>Headed to Wicker Park for brunch at The Bongo Room</li><li>Packed and headed to the airport for noon</li></ul><p>We could have easily fit in donuts, a rooftop bar, and some late night exploring, but had done most of that through the week already.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[No, Coronavirus Probably Won't Kill You–Yes, You Should Still Prepare]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/coronavirus</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Coronavirus, also known as COVID-19, has been sweeping the world. Here are my recommendations for preparation and why I believe it’s important.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like many of you, I’ve been having conversations with friends and colleagues about COVID-19 (aka Coronavirus/SARS-CoV-2) and how–if at all–we should be preparing for it.</p><p>My position: <strong>you should be prepared to spend at least 2 weeks isolated in your home</strong>, and should take other precautionary measures like buying a mask.</p><p>Many denounce this position as paranoid and ill-informed, as the disease doesn’t yet show signs of high mortality, particularly for someone like me who is young and in good health.</p><p>But not only do I believe this position to be the right one from a risk standpoint, I think I, and others in a similar position, have an obligation to prepare.</p><h2>Disaster Prepping is a Cost/Benefit Analysis</h2><p>Before we get to specifics of COVID-19, let’s be clear: all disaster preparation is a cost/benefit analysis.</p><p>There is some cost–in time, money, or otherwise–to preparing for a disaster or potential negative event. </p><p>We accept many of these costs every day–when we wear seatbelts (effort), when we upgrade to a safer car (cost), when we walk a little slower on icy sidewalks–because we evaluate the cost/benefit ratio to be worthwhile.</p><p>For some things, like wearing a seatbelt, this is influenced by both sides of the equation: the data is clear about the increased risk of collisions when we don’t wear a seatbelt, and given that seatbelts are standard on every car, and the effort required to wear one is very low (and there is a penalty if caught without one), the cost/benefit ratio makes sense.</p><p>Whenever we are faced with a new potential danger in life, we consider the cost/benefit ratio, and decide whether to take action or not.</p><h2>We Are Bad at Prediction</h2><p>Nassim Taleb shook the establishment when he published <em><a href="https://amzn.to/2TebL8S">Fooled by Randomness</a>, <a href="/book-notes/the-black-swan-nassim-nicholas-taleb">The Black Swan</a>,</em> and the following books in his <a href="https://amzn.to/2TwX4gb"><em>Incerto</em></a>, as he showed that we consistently fall victim to <a href="https://fs.blog/2016/04/narrative-fallacy/">the narrative fallacy</a>, and are terrible at predicting the future, particularly when it comes to low-probability, high-consequence events.</p><p>He illustrated this with the example of the turkey problem: a turkey is fed for 1000 days, living a life of relative ease, each day becoming more confident that his butcher master loves turkeys and that his life has little risk. But of course Thanksgiving comes around on day 1001, and the turkey is no longer safe.</p><p>By definition, if we were able to predict future events with certainty, there would be little risk in our world. That this is not the case should be obvious. That we are poor at prediction is not always obvious, but one need merely look at the financial crisis or geopolitics to know this is the case.</p><p>In Taleb’s words: “Prediction requires knowing about technologies that will be discovered in the future. But that very knowledge would almost automatically allow us to start developing those technologies right away. Ergo, we do not know what we will know.” - <a href="/book-notes/the-black-swan-nassim-nicholas-taleb"><em>The Black Swan</em></a></p><p>So, we are bad at prediction...does that matter?</p><h2>Small Probability Does Not Mean Small Consequences</h2><p>Indeed, often unlikely events have the most drastic consequences, and humans are particularly bad at estimating probability and severity in the “tails”–the areas of extremely low probability on a distribution.</p><p>Much of Taleb’s argument centers around the fact that it is actually these improbable events–the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tail_risk">“tail risks”</a>–which have an outsize effect on the outcome.</p><p>Examples of potential tail risks include cataclysmic disasters like potent viruses and nuclear war. It’s hard to estimate the probabilities of these events, and imagine the full consequences; there are a lot of unknowns.</p><p>Further, is it really possible to calculate the risk when there is a chance of death? </p><p>Clearly, as we make that choice every day by stepping outside, and stepping into cars, etc. </p><p>But typical methods of probability estimation often break down in cases where death is a significant possibility.</p><p>Taleb uses the example of calculating the expected probable outcome of a $1M game of Russian roulette. In this scenario, your expected chance of winning is ⅚, or 83.3%, and so your “expected value” as calculated by an economist is $833,333–clearly you should always play!</p><p>But most of us would choose not to, because the lower probability of dying is still too high for us to accept. </p><p>As Taleb says, “...if you keep playing Russian roulette, you will end up in the cemetery. Your expected return is...not computable.”</p><h2>COVID-19 Still Has Many Unknowns</h2><p>How does this relate to COVID-19?</p><p>Well, first of all, death is a legitimate concern. We’ll talk about how likely it is for different populations, but the mortality rate is not negligible.</p><p>Second of all, there are still too many unknowns about COVID-19 to do much of an analysis at all.</p><p>The <a href="https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMp2003762?query=RP">fatality rate is rumored to be around 2%, but it varies by population</a>, and many of the cited numbers are questionable due to their source. </p><p>Much of the <a href="https://www.epsilontheory.com/body-count/">early data fit an almost perfect quadratic curve</a>, which doesn’t align with the estimated R0 of this virus and others that are similar (the rate at which it infects others).</p><p>The current estimated fatality rate is higher than seasonal flu, which already kills thousands of people per year (<a href="https://www.economist.com/leaders/2020/02/27/the-virus-is-coming">~60K/yr in the US</a>).</p><p>The point here, however, is not the specific data that already exists; it is that <strong>we are unlikely to have sufficient, reliable data before the point at which we need to be prepared</strong>. </p><p>The virus is spreading too quickly, and so waiting for more data before making a decision about severity is not possible.</p><p>This doesn’t even include other possibilities, like <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-020-00236-9">virus mutation</a>, which only add to the unknown risks.</p><h2>What <em>Do</em> We Know?</h2><p><strong>The spread of this disease has so far been rapid enough that it is likely to spread across the world.</strong></p><p>From <a href="https://www.economist.com/leaders/2020/02/27/the-virus-is-coming">The Economist</a>: </p><blockquote>“It has become clear in the past week that the new viral disease, covid-19, which struck China at the start of December will spread around the world. Many governments have been signalling that they will stop the disease. Instead, they need to start preparing people for the onslaught”</blockquote><p>From <a href="https://theprepared.com/wuhan-coronavirus/">The Prepared</a>: </p><blockquote>“Our baseline scenario — what we feel is most likely to unfold — is that the virus will spread person-to-person in a sustained way globally, not only in Asia, the Middle East, and North Africa, but also in the US or Europe. We’re expecting disruption to daily life at some point here in the US, and in most places worldwide.”</blockquote><p>From <a href="http://blog.eladgil.com/2020/02/coronavirus-covid-19-overview-for.html">Elad Gil</a>: </p><blockquote>“Despite the WHO’s assurances that things can still be contained, every epidemiologist I have spoken to thinks the virus has broken out and will spread around the world. Many think &gt;20% or more of humanity will be infected due to a lack of baseline immunity and therefore herd immunity for this disease (as an example, the 2009 H1N1 flu infected 16% of all humans)”</blockquote><p><strong>There is reason to believe that this is one of the most severe pandemics we’ve seen so far</strong>.</p><p>From <a href="https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMp2003762?query=RP">Bill Gates’ assessment of the disease</a>:</p><blockquote>“Global health experts have been saying for years that another pandemic whose speed and severity rivaled those of the 1918 influenza epidemic was a matter not of if but of when.</blockquote><blockquote>There are two reasons that Covid-19 is such a threat. First, it can kill healthy adults in addition to elderly people with existing health problems. The data so far suggest that the virus has a case fatality risk around 1%; this rate would make it many times more severe than typical seasonal influenza, putting it somewhere between the 1957 influenza pandemic (0.6%) and the 1918 influenza pandemic (2%).</blockquote><blockquote>Second, Covid-19 is transmitted quite efficiently. The average infected person spreads the disease to two or three others — an exponential rate of increase. There is also strong evidence that it can be transmitted by people who are just mildly ill or even presymptomatic. That means Covid-19 will be much harder to contain than the Middle East respiratory syndrome or severe acute respiratory syndrome (SARS), which were spread much less efficiently and only by symptomatic people. In fact, Covid-19 has already caused 10 times as many cases as SARS in a quarter of the time.”</blockquote><p>The spread of the disease so far, and the apparent incubation period in which people exhibit few symptoms, yet still spread the disease, lead me to believe that global spread is a legitimate scenario (though I acknowledge we are terrible at prediction).</p><p>Further, if state-controlled countries like China have failed to quarantine the virus, I find it unlikely that Western countries will manage either.</p><h2>Common Counter-Arguments</h2><p><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/mar/01/yes-it-is-worse-than-the-flu-busting-the-coronavirus-myths">This Guardian piece</a> does a good job of laying out many of the common arguments against preparing for COVID-19, and I’ll cite and address some of them here.</p><h3>Young People Are Safe</h3><blockquote>“Claim:<strong> ‘It only kills the elderly, so younger people can relax’</strong></blockquote><blockquote>Most people who are not elderly and do not have underlying health conditions will not become critically ill from Covid-19. But the illness still has a higher chance of leading to serious respiratory symptoms than seasonal flu and there are other at-risk groups – health workers, for instance, are more vulnerable because they are likely to have higher exposure to the virus. The actions that young, healthy people take, including reporting symptoms and following quarantine instructions, will have an important role in protecting the most vulnerable in society and in shaping the overall trajectory of the outbreak.”</blockquote><p>This particular argument irks me, because while I fall into the group of people not likely to become critically ill, this argument basically says “yeah, I don’t care about anyone else.” </p><p>Do you interact with anyone who is older? Do the people you work with have parents? Young kids? Of course they do. If you get infected and then spread the disease to them, and they in turn spread to their family, do you carry some responsibility? I believe so.</p><p>This is the key sentence in the above quote: “<strong>The actions that young, healthy people take, including reporting symptoms and following quarantine instructions, will have an important role in protecting the most vulnerable in society and in shaping the overall trajectory of the outbreak.</strong>”</p><p>You have an obligation to try and avoid being infected due to the consequences for others.</p><h3>We’ll All Get Infected Anyway</h3><blockquote>“Claim: <strong>‘If a pandemic is declared, there is nothing more we can do to stop the spread’</strong></blockquote><blockquote>A pandemic is defined as worldwide spread of a new disease – but the exact threshold for declaring one is quite vague. In practice, the actions being taken would not change whether or not a pandemic is declared. Containment measures are not simply about eliminating the disease altogether. Delaying the onset of an outbreak or decreasing the peak is crucial in allowing health systems to cope with a sudden influx of patients.”</blockquote><p>The key point here is this sentence: <strong>“Delaying the onset of an outbreak or decreasing the peak is crucial in allowing health systems to cope with a sudden influx of patients.”</strong></p><p>This is related to the counter-argument I laid out above: you have an obligation to others to try and reduce the peak of this disease, so that those who need it can seek treatment.</p><h3>The Flu Is Just As Dangerous</h3><blockquote>“Claim:<strong> ‘It is no more dangerous than winter flu’ </strong></blockquote><blockquote>If borne out by further testing, this could mean that current estimates of a roughly 1% fatality rate are accurate. This would make Covid-19 about 10 times more deadly than seasonal flu, which is estimated to kill between 290,000 and 650,000 people a year globally.”</blockquote><p>I hope by now I’ve made clear that I don’t think it is a reasonable assumption to think we know this yet, or will know with certainty before we have to make a decision about precautions.</p><p><a href="http://blog.eladgil.com/2020/02/coronavirus-covid-19-overview-for.html">Elad Gil suggests</a>, </p><blockquote>“Most estimates suggest 80% of COVID-19 cases are mild and feel roughly like a flu. Estimates I have seen suggest that roughly <a href="https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa2002032">10-15% of cases will be more significant and may necessitate hospital visits</a> (<a href="https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa2002032?query=RP">see also</a>) with 1-3% potentially needing an ICU.”</blockquote><p>If this indeed were the case, do you think our healthcare system could cope with 10-15% of the population needing to visit the hospital? 1-3% requiring an ICU? I don’t.</p><p>If you’re healthy and have the means to do so, I believe you are obligated to try and avoid infection so that others who need it have access to further treatment.</p><h2>How You Should Prepare for COVID-19</h2><p>I’ll restate my position from the beginning of this article: <strong>you should be prepared to spend at least 2 weeks isolated in your home.</strong></p><p>This is in anticipation of the virus reaching where you live, and having to participate in either a voluntary or imposed isolation.</p><p><a href="https://theprepared.com/wuhan-coronavirus/">The Prepared</a> does a good job of laying out what’s required for various scenarios, and here’s their basic list:</p><ul><li>A source of potable water (storage is preferable, but if space is tight then get a filter)</li><li>Extras of any essential medications you’re taking</li><li>Toilet paper, feminine hygiene products, soap, detergent, and everything else you need to keep your body and your home clean</li><li>Nitrile gloves and an N95 mask</li><li>Food for ~2 weeks</li></ul><p>The part to emphasize here is that <strong>almost all of these things are items you already have or will use</strong>.</p><p>There is very little required to spend ~2 weeks at home if you think ahead (assuming the taps continue running).</p><p>I dislike accumulating or owning anything that isn’t regularly used, and I try to adhere to a <a href="/blog/zero-waste">zero-waste lifestyle</a>, so some of these items are tricky. That said, most of the required items for 2 weeks at home are things you would use anyway.</p><p>My preparation:</p><ul><li><strong>Stock up on various basic medications</strong> (I don’t take any prescriptions, but would stock up if so)</li><li><strong>Toilet paper, detergent, cleaning products</strong>–get products in larger quantities than usual (I tend to buy in bulk anyway)</li><li><strong>Nitrile gloves, Tyvek suit, N95 respirator</strong>–most of these items I had anyway, from painting that I had done previously</li><li><strong>2 weeks worth of food</strong>–stocked up on canned goods, pasta, rice, sardines, frozen cooked food–things I normally eat anyway, I just stock larger quantities</li><li><strong>Water filter</strong>–I have a Lifestraw I use hiking and camping, but otherwise am assuming that water service will remain–I also have various water bottles, CamelBaks, etc.</li></ul><p>And that’s it! When it comes down to it, the cost of preparing is low–another reason I’ve been advocating preparing in this particular case.</p><h2>How Startups Should Prepare for COVID-19</h2><p>Elad Gil’s post has more details about <a href="http://blog.eladgil.com/2020/02/coronavirus-covid-19-overview-for.html">how you can prepare personally and how startups should be preparing.</a></p><p>Here are some of the items for startups:</p><ul><li><strong>Encourage hand-washing</strong>. </li><li><strong>Wipe down work areas regularly.</strong></li><li><strong>Encourage flu vaccination</strong>.</li><li><strong>Zero tolerance sick policy</strong> (Anyone who is sick, or starting to feel sick, should take a sick day or work from home).</li><li><strong>Curtail travel and conferences and move to video calls</strong>.</li><li><strong>Curtail visitors from other countries.</strong></li><li><strong>Plan for the remote work contingency.</strong></li></ul><h2>A Final Word</h2><p>In the end, preparing for disasters comes down to the cost/benefit analysis.</p><p>In my view, the costs here are few (some effort, some up-front cost, but mostly things you would use anyway) for the potential large downside risk.</p><p>As Tim Ferriss <a href="https://tim.blog/2020/02/14/some-thoughts-on-coronaviruses-and-seatbelts/">recently outlined in a blog post</a>:</p><blockquote>“I am not panicking this time, either. That said, I am curtailing unnecessary travel and group interactions for the next 2–3 weeks to see how things shake out, particularly given the asymptomatic “incubation period” of up to 14 days. </blockquote><blockquote>Might that be an overreaction? Might I be misinformed? Totally. But then again, how many head-on car accidents have I had? Zero. I nonetheless put on my seatbelt every time that I drive, and we have great data on traffic fatalities. Do you have a fire extinguisher in your kitchen? Would you accept $100 to get rid of it? $1,000? I wouldn’t. As unlikely as a kitchen fire may be, the extreme known consequences of an out-of-control fire easily justify a fire extinguisher, even if it gathers dust forever. It’s cheap disaster insurance, just like having emergency stores of water in the garage.”</blockquote><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Happiness is a skill that can be improved, and it is possible to be both wildly ambitious, yet happy with your day-to-day progress. This post talks about strategies for accomplishing both.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think a lot about happiness. Most people do. Happiness is often viewed as a milestone - &quot;I&#x27;ll be happy when [insert goal]&quot;. I don&#x27;t believe that. I agree with <a href="https://twitter.com/naval/status/605209604180410368">Naval Ravikant</a>:</p><p>&quot;Maybe happiness is not something you inherit, or even choose, but a highly personal skill that can be learned, like fitness or nutrition.&quot;</p><p>I believe happiness is a skill, and the key to attaining it is figuring out how you define it. Getting better at a sport requires knowing the rules - the same applies to your own happiness.</p><h2>The Definition of Happiness</h2><p>The best definition of happiness I’ve found to date is the following:</p><p><strong>Happiness = Reality - Expectations</strong></p><p>It comes from an <a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.com/wait-but-why/generation-y-unhappy_b_3930620.html">essay by Tim Urban</a>, who runs the fantastic <a href="https://waitbutwhy.com/">Wait but Why</a> blog. The essay itself is worth reading.</p><p>His final three pieces of advice for the “Generation Y Yuppie” he’s addressing are:</p><ol><li><strong>stay wildly ambitious,</strong></li><li><strong>stop thinking you’re special, and</strong></li><li><strong>ignore everyone else.</strong></li></ol><p>Good advice.</p><p>But if happiness requires reality &gt; expectations, how do you reconcile that with ambition?</p><p>Isn&#x27;t the easiest way to make this true to lower your expectations?</p><p>The clearest example of this formula, for me, comes in my day-to-day work. The days where I am most happy are those where I exceed my expectations.</p><p>The best days happen when I finish the <strong>one most important task</strong> I have, and then work through “bonus” tasks (let&#x27;s say 5).</p><p>This feels much better than a day where I only finish 6 of 8 planned tasks (despite accomplishing the same total).</p><p><strong>To be happy day-to-day, focus on accomplishing the one most important task you have.</strong></p><p>Everything else is a bonus.</p><h2>Balancing Ambition and Expectations</h2><p>Ruthlessly focusing your daily productivity goals will help your day-to-day happiness.</p><p>But it doesn&#x27;t answer the question about how to do this and yet stay &quot;wildly ambitious&quot;.</p><p>The answer comes from the concept of compound interest, <a href="https://www.fs.blog/2016/03/five-percent-better/">written about here by Shane Parrish</a>.</p><p>Essentially, the concept works the same as compound interest in finance:</p><p><strong>Small improvements over a long period of time turn into huge gains.</strong></p><p>As humans, we tend to <strong>underestimate long-term changes</strong>, and <strong>overestimate short-term changes</strong>. One common example is the difficulty humans have losing weight or improving fitness.</p><p>The concept of compound interest isn’t limited to investments. Improve your productivity by 1% each day, and you’ll be a productivity machine in short order.</p><p>Improve your fitness by 1% each day, and be surprised how quickly you&#x27;re an Olympian (if it was possible to keep it up). As a concrete example, at 1% improvement per day, it would take an average sprinter just 39 days to beat the world 100m record.</p><p>The point in the context of happiness is this: hold on to your wildly ambitious goals, but realize you aren’t special, and that it will take time.</p><p>In the meantime:</p><ul><li>focus on the habits that will incrementally push you towards those goals, and</li><li>start setting those day-to-day habits in such a way that you can achieve a balance between expectations and reality.</li></ul><p>I’d suggest you <strong>focus on completing one - and only one - important task per day.</strong></p><p>Of course, you’ll likely get more than that done, but those will be bonuses.</p><p>If you manage to consistently complete one important task per day, you’ll be surprised how far it takes you.</p><p>In summary, <strong>to be happy and ambitious:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Choose goals that are wildly ambitious.</strong></li><li><strong>Focus on developing the habits &amp; completing the tasks that will lead to those goals.</strong></li><li><strong>Complete your single most important task each day.</strong></li><li><strong>Believe in compound interest, and wait.</strong></li></ul><p>What makes you happy?</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[I Have a New Job at Unito]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[I just left my position as cofounder at Lean Systems, and started a new role with Unito, a startup based in Montreal doing syncing between collaboration tools. This post explains the rationale for the decision, and why I’m excited about this new opportunity.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a new job. I decided to leave <a href="https://www.leansystems.co/">Lean Systems</a>, the startup where I was cofounder, and seek something else. </p><p>I’m now working as a Growth Specialist at <a href="https://unito.io/">Unito</a>, a fast-growing company based in Montreal that does syncing between collaboration tools.</p><h2>Moving on From Lean Systems</h2><p>I joined Lean Systems two-and-a-half years ago, in September 2016, following my time with Techstars Boston (with some consulting in between).</p><p>I <a href="/blog/lean-systems-my-next-project">wrote about that decision here</a>, and many of the things I said then held true.</p><p>At Lean Systems, we tried hard to move in the direction of a product-based company. The underlying technology my business partner Sebastien built is very powerful. When implemented at companies dealing with expensive-to-operate assets like private jets, the cost savings are huge: tens of thousands of dollars in potential savings each month.</p><p>We didn’t manage to realize the product vision while I was there. I may explore the reasons why in a future post, but suffice to say it’s always difficult to pull apart individual variables in a startup. There are so many interrelated unknowns.</p><p>The result, either way, was that we ended up working with most clients on a consulting-type basis. That model isn’t uncommon – you only have to look as far as companies like IBM or Element AI, to see them implementing some underlying technology on a custom basis for clients.</p><p>The downside of this model is it’s difficult, and slow, to scale. It becomes hard to automate onboarding because the models within the industry are so different. The shift from a consulting-based business to a product business is difficult without funding.</p><p>For many of those reasons, I found myself itching for something more, a new problem to solve, in a context where the business was product-based. I’ve always optimized my career decisions for learning, and I felt like I’d reached a plateau. At the very least my learning rate had slowed to a point I wasn’t comfortable with.</p><p>That said, the decision to move on was difficult. I have immense respect for Seb, the technology we built, and he’s one of the smartest people I’ve ever worked with. Loyalty is important in startups, and I will always support him however I can.</p><p>Companies in the private aviation, ground transport, or logistics industry would be wise to reach out to Seb and seek his services.</p><h2>What’s Next</h2><p>After making the decision to leave Lean Systems, I had no plans to jump into another job immediately. I was looking forward to spending some time back in Nova Scotia with my family, particularly my brothers, who are home from university for the summer.</p><p>But, things change. I was lucky enough to get the opportunity to try out a position with <a href="https://unito.io/">Unito</a>, a company founded by my long-time friend and fellow Founder Institute grad <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcboscher/">Marc Boscher</a>.</p><p>I’ve always been interested in improving my own self-perception, including exploring <a href="/blog/personality-tests">all the personality tests I could find</a>. In the process of deciding to leave Lean Systems, I thought a lot about the type of position I’d like to work in, assuming I didn’t start something new.</p><p>The main criteria I came up with were these:</p><ul><li>A position involving problem solving,</li><li>An environment where I could operate with some autonomy,</li><li>A role that involved decision-making,</li><li>An opportunity for fast, high-intensity learning and growth,</li><li>And a team that I was excited about.</li></ul><p>As I mentioned, I’ve always optimized for learning. Learning at the highest rate I’m capable is important to me.</p><p>Marc offered me a position in growth (Growth Specialist), where I’d be working closely with the data, product, and marketing teams, to find and exploit opportunities to grow the company. My mandate would likely shift over time, as new opportunities were prioritized and others were discovered.</p><p>Unito itself is growing quickly, and I’d long wanted to work with Marc in some capacity. We’ve respected each other since our time in Founder Institute, and Marc has a lot of experience that I’m keen to learn from. </p><p>During my pilot project, it also became clear that the team Marc has built at Unito is a special group. They possess many of the traits that have made Marc successful - honesty, transparency, and a drive to do great work.</p><p>I miss Lean Systems already, and will continue to miss working there in a founder role.</p><p>That said, I’ve learned more in the past six weeks than in any other six-week period in recent memory, and I can’t wait to be part of the next stages for Unito.</p><p>Oh, and <a href="https://unito.io/careers/">we’re hiring</a>!</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Successful Entrepreneurs Aren't (Necessarily) Geniuses]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/successful-entrepreneurs-arent-necessarily-geniuses</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Being a successful entrepreneur doesn't require exceptional intellect. This post explores what really matters.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Who Are Successful Entrepreneurs?</h2><p>One of my good friends is in this cohort of <a href="https://www.ycombinator.com/">Y Combinator</a> - a good step for wannabe successful entrepreneurs. I was so excited I dreamt about it the night I found out.</p><p>Another of my friends just closed an oversubscribed pre-seed round.</p><p>In fact, a lot of my friends are becoming &#x27;successful&#x27; entrepreneurs. One of my peers finished at <a href="http://www.techstars.com/">Techstars</a> in New York several months ago, and another couple are in Techstars Boston right now.</p><p>I&#x27;m extremely excited for them...it means a lot for them, for the Montreal startup scene, for my Founder Institute peers (the group from which most of these people have come), and for my own personal network.</p><p>But perhaps the most profound realization that this has imprinted is that <strong>successful entrepreneurs aren&#x27;t smarter than anyone else</strong>. Sure, they&#x27;re definitely smart people. But I&#x27;m pretty smart too, as are most of the other people I went to McGill with, or a large percentage of the students/people anywhere else in the world.</p><p>It&#x27;s been known for a long time that <a href="http://greatist.com/happiness/does-high-iq-guarantee-success-maybe-not"><strong>IQ isn&#x27;t a good predictor of success</strong></a>. Other things, like EQ (emotional intelligence) and perseverance play large factors.</p><p>But particularly as an entrepreneur, you can easily get lost in those iconic successful entrepreneurs - Elon Musk, Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates, the list goes on - and you wouldn&#x27;t be wrong in thinking they&#x27;re extremely smart.</p><p>But you don&#x27;t have to be a genius to be a successful entrepreneur.</p><p>When I think of all my friends and peers who are experiencing success, it&#x27;s not their intelligence that immediately comes to mind (though it follows quickly). It&#x27;s a motivation, a drive, a persistence, and an ability to get things done. Abilities like networking, quick thinking and persuasive personalities are more important. <strong>They&#x27;re always selling</strong>, whether it be product or themselves, or both.</p><p>I&#x27;ve said it before, but it&#x27;s been clear to me that <strong>persistence is the key to entrepreneurial (and most other) success</strong>. Taking the entrepreneurial plunge is a good first step, but reaching success requires more. Just know that genius-level intelligence isn&#x27;t one of those requirements.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 1 - The Beginning]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[Four key lessons from my first week as an Associate at Techstars Boston—insights on startup culture, mentor relationships, and the intensity of accelerator programs.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Working in Techstars</h2><p>I jumped at the opportunity to become an <a href="https://boards.greenhouse.io/techstars#.VtjWHJwrKUn">Associate</a> with Techstars because it seemed like a few assumptions would hold true:</p><ul><li>Generalists welcome: the job essentially involves helping however you can, which lets you develop whatever skills you like, and makes you useful if you know a little bit of everything.</li><li>Quick learning: I expected the three months to be intense on the work front, which translates quickly to extremely fast learning when you’re working with awesome founders and even better mentors.</li><li>Network: there are few names in the tech accelerator world bigger than Techstars, and like many networks, they make sure to keep theirs tight – as an Associate I get access to this network for life.</li></ul><p>After the first week, I’ve confirmed all the assumptions above.</p><p>Given how quickly I’m learning, I’m planning to post once weekly on the main points I took away from the week. I’ll try and keep them general but actionable, as all great advice should be.</p><h2><strong>Lesson 1: Mentors provide disproportionate value and an unfair advantage. </strong></h2><p>Really, this shouldn’t be a lesson for anyone in the startup world, but I was reminded of it again this week. Particularly those with vast startup experience can make a huge difference in your business with an outside perspective and tried and true methods and systems. Just consider their years of experience as testing time that you won’t have to burn.</p><p>Valuing yourself is also hugely important when it comes to mentors. The best mentors will be willing to help you without first receiving any compensation. A warm introduction always helps, but be wary of mentors who demand up-front compensation (whether equity or otherwise), and if you want to be sure about their commitment, ask them to put in a small investment.</p><h2><strong>Lesson 2: Names matter.</strong></h2><p>Don’t think that <a href="https://www.ycombinator.com/">Y Combinator (YC)</a> and Techstars and <a href="http://500.co/">500 Startups</a> and other big names in tech matter? All I needed to convince me was the attitude of the mentors during the first Mentor Dinner for Techstars. Being through the selection process for an exclusive or high-profile accelerator gives you a big, reputable stamp of approval – whenever you mention the experience, you will automatically get a second, interested look from experienced investors and mentors. Anyone who thinks differently is probably naïve.</p><h2><strong>Lesson 3: Names aren’t the only thing that matters.</strong></h2><p>Okay, this isn’t directly related, but names only get you so far. One of the ways to convince your potential investors and stakeholders of your value is to provide the investor update. The update provides (like mentors) disproportionate value compared to the effort required to put it together. In fact, it should be less than half a page (ish), and should be easily readable in an email browser without scrolling.</p><p>The format? Special Thanks, Good, Bad, Ask, KPI graph of the <a href="http://leananalyticsbook.com/one-metric-that-matters/">OMTM (one metric that matters)</a>, and honesty is key. As 50 Cent so wisely said, “Joy wouldn’t feel so good, if it wasn’t for pain”; showing your downs gives stakeholders context for the ups, and in the end, all that matters is the graph of the OMTM trending upwards. Take care of that, and honesty will actually help prove you can overcome adversity.</p><h2><strong>Lesson 4: Workplace makes a huge difference in overall quality of life.</strong></h2><p>When I say workplace, I mean the space itself, the general work policies, and the coworkers you’re with.</p><p>The current Techstars Boston space is <a href="http://boston.cic.us/">managed by CIC</a> (the whole building is), and so far, I can’t say enough good things about them. Management is always available, friendly, accommodating, and generally makes life easy.</p><p>Access passes give you freedom to roam to all the common kitchens (on 7ish floors), where the cupboards, fridges and freezers are filled with healthy (and some unhealthy, but always delicious) snack food.</p><p>There’s a gym on our floor which costs virtually nothing per month, with shower rooms and towel service, and many of the toiletries included.</p><p>The work policy is flexible – try not to miss the daily standup meeting, but otherwise do what you like.</p><p>Obviously the people are great – everyone is highly motivated, very friendly, and generally willing to do whatever they can to help each other.</p><p>The result? We go for team runs a few times a week, I don’t pay for lunch but still eat healthy, most people work 12 hour days (at least), I get to the gym every day, and I can even have a free standing desk if I want!</p><p>The difference in lifestyle is huge – everyone is happier, healthier and generally more productive.</p><h2><strong>In summary:</strong></h2><ol><li><strong>Work hard to get great mentors in place for your startup, and keep your standards high.</strong></li><li><strong>If it’s the right time, make a concerted effort to get into a prestigious accelerator – it will make a big difference long term, and at the very least the process will yield connections and feedback.</strong></li><li><strong>Make sure your stakeholders are updated on the exact same day, every quarter or month, with the same newsletter. It will work wonders.</strong></li><li><strong>Whenever possible, work in an awesome space. WeWork and others are offering awesome coworking spaces around the world for cheap, and the dividends in satisfaction and quality of life will boost your startup and morale greatly.</strong></li></ol><p>Read about <a href="/blog/techstars-week-2-settling-in">Techstars Week 2 here</a>.</p><p>PS. If you liked this post, please share!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 3 - Sales are King]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Lessons learned from Week 3 at Techstars Boston. This week the focus was sales, on which all businesses are built.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you haven&#x27;t read any Techstars posts yet, start with my summary of <a href="/blog/techstars-week-1-the-beginning">Techstars Week 1</a>. This was another Mentor Madness week at <a href="http://www.techstars.com/">Techstars</a>, and while the pace picked up even further both in terms of number of sessions and mentors, the productivity in the sessions improved even more. A combination of better mentors and a better understanding on both sides of how to make the most of the sessions made this possible. And for those of us sitting in on the meetings, there was even more to be learned - particularly on the subject of sales, and why you should have them.</p><h2>&quot;I&#x27;d rather sell something I have to build, than build something I have to sell&quot;</h2><p>...was my favorite quote of the week. And it summarized the sentiment of many of the mentors; get out and sell! Not that teams aren&#x27;t doing it already. But as one mentor pointedly asked, &quot;Are you a product founder or a sales founder?&quot;; the answer, more often than not, was product founder. But in my opinion, the sales <a href="http://startupyard.com/why-you-need-a-sales-oriented-co-founder/">founder (or manager) is critical</a>, and will more often than not determine the outcome of the company in the early stages more than the product founder.</p><p>On more than one occasion, when the root of an issue, problem or roadblock was reached, the result was founders realizing they don&#x27;t need to build the next feature, or refine the product, or build the sales team, or anything else, besides actually selling.</p><h2>Big Teams Help Early Sales in Techstars</h2><p>More often than not, those teams which are doing the most selling are those who are larger. The bigger teams (10-16 people) have personnel who are dedicated to selling, and don&#x27;t have to be involved in the day-to-day operations of Techstars, including Mentor Madness meetings, and the result is that they are selling full-time. Smaller teams struggle to find the time and resources to get all the tasks done they would like, and sales often suffers as a result. Even within these teams, mentors often felt that sales should be a higher priority, and while it sometimes may be a time-consuming or frustrating process (meetings, calls, emails, etc. don&#x27;t always feel productive), ultimately sales are the strongest metric and validation of your product or idea, and key to ongoing success in the business.</p><p>(Caveat: often larger teams are large because they&#x27;ve figured out selling.)</p><p>Generally, this week, the advantages of having a great salesperson, or people within the team dedicated to selling full-time were particularly noticeable. If you can build a larger founding group, or at least one that has one completely sales-dedicated person, it will pay off down the road. Alternatively, some of the teams here have realized that the CEO/founder(s) is not a strong sales person, have brought in dedicated salespeople, and have quickly seen the rewards.</p><h2>Asking Questions is an Art</h2><p>And yet, it&#x27;s also so simple. One of my favorite sessions this week was a lesson in just how easy - yet rare - it is to ask great, in depth questions. Mostly, it just revolves around asking &quot;Why?&quot;, way more times that you think is appropriate. &quot;What are you doing on the sales front?&quot;...&quot;We&#x27;re focusing on building the product and relationship with our first big client&quot;...&quot;Why?&quot;...&quot;They&#x27;re a big client, and there&#x27;s big potential with them in the future&quot;...&quot;Are you developing your old product still?&quot;...&quot;Yes&quot;...&quot;Why?&quot;...&quot;We don&#x27;t want to leave our old clients&quot;...&quot;Why not focus on your current product and client, and closing more sales with people like them&quot;...&quot;Uh...I don&#x27;t know&quot;...&quot;Why?&quot;...&quot;We just wanted to make sure we nail it with this client&quot;...&quot;So why not sell others in the meantime and roll out the product to them too&quot;...&quot;Um...yeah. That sounds good.&quot;</p><p>A long example, but the result is clear - asking &quot;Why?&quot; (and slight variations of it), even when it&#x27;s uncomfortable for those across from you, will often lead to some self-reflection or realizations that would not have come if the first answer is accepted. I was surprised (and to some extent amused) during these sessions, at just how powerful this can be.</p><p>Interestingly, this tactic is often quoted in classics like<a href="http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671027034"><em>How to Win Friends and Influence People</em></a> as a tactic to be a great conversationalist - just keep asking &quot;Why?&quot;, and push the other person to elaborate. Eventually some very interesting things will probably surface.</p><h2>Founder Stories: Varied Backgrounds, Testing Ideas, and the Infinite Wisdom of Sailing</h2><p>Founder Stories are quickly becoming one of the highlights of my week, and not just because there&#x27;s free food and beer involved. This week several founders spoke, and I was once again reminded at just how varied the backgrounds of entrepreneurs in general, and particularly those here, are. Multiple languages, countries, childhoods, educations, and more were highlighted, and while these are very different people in general, there are many similarities in the way they run companies, the questions they have, and their reason for being entrepreneurs.</p><p>Obviously the uniting factor between them is their passion for building great companies, but from my perspective, it just highlighted how valuable varied experiences and backgrounds can be in building your company, in a program like this, and in building your peer group as an entrepreneur in general.</p><p>As a sidenote, one of the founders told a story about their time sailing, and a particularly harrowing experience that taught them a larger life lesson. As an avid sailor and enthusiast of all things water-related, I could relate particularly well, but I also found it amusing at how many metaphors sailing can provide, and on a larger level, the value of participating in individual sports, sport in general, and being put in stressful situations. But those things will have to be saved for another post. And of course the story also made me want to go sailing.</p><p>The stories this week also gave some insight into where great startup ideas come from. There were people who stumbled into their startup, others who tried something they deemed crazy at the time, and others still who built previous experience in a field in building their company.</p><p>The lessons from these stories can be summarized as follows:</p><ul><li><strong>Start small and test your idea - crowdfunding, a short trial with little to lose, get a paying customer, etc. - whatever you do, find a way to test it at little risk to yourself.</strong></li><li><strong>If you figure out you&#x27;re onto something, be aggressive; once the test is done, don&#x27;t forget to keep pushing.</strong></li><li><strong>Surround yourself with great people: most of the startup ideas had some element of support from others - whether it be friends who will encourage you instead of discourage, family who will chip in a few thousand because they believe in you, or a partner who encourages you to take some time off work and test your idea - surrounding yourself with the right people can make all the difference.</strong></li></ul><p>It&#x27;s easy to see the learning of teams beginning to accelerate, with more productive mentor sessions and large projects being undertaken by many companies. KPIs and metrics are beginning to become a larger focus, and it should be exciting to see the growth focus begin to become central.</p><p>The summary from this week:</p><ol><li><strong>ALWAYS SELL - selling makes (most) everything better.</strong></li><li><strong>Having a team to which you can delegate can keep your momentum and pace high - consider when building your initial team.</strong></li><li><strong>Asking great questions, and having great conversations, is often just a matter of asking &quot;Why?&quot; a few more times than feels comfortable.</strong></li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t forget to find out about fellow entrepreneurs, and surround yourself with great people.</strong></li><li><strong>Always go sailing whenever possible.</strong></li><li><strong>In the beginning: test your idea, sell first, and surround yourself with great people (do I need to say this again?).</strong></li></ol><p>Check out the learnings from <a href="/blog/techstars-week-4-efficiency">Techstars Week 4 here</a>.</p><p>Don&#x27;t forget to sign up to be notified of new posts by email!</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 5 - Madness Over!]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Lessons from Week 5 of Techstars Boston, where we learned about the power of the Techstars network, and learned all about customer interviewing.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was the last week of Mentor Madness at Techstars Boston, and for the most part, everyone was breathing a sigh of relief. Usually investors are the last ones to participate, so despite being near the end, you still have to on your game. That also meant that Workshops began; Workshops are often lead by mentors on topics in their area of expertise, and generally follow the focus of the program: Build Team, Build Product, Growth.</p><p>This week we had two:</p><ol><li><strong>Customer Interviewing:</strong> this was a detailed presentation of how to set up customer interviews, the right questions to ask, and the questions to avoid, with an example interview done in the middle. Super useful.</li><li><strong>The Power of the Network:</strong> a summary of how to leverage the Techstars network, and the associated tools, which include LinkedIn. Again, super useful, and Techstars does a great job of utilizing their network in general. While the opinions I&#x27;ve received on the topic are obviously biased, many would argue it&#x27;s the most valuable network for entrepreneurs globally.</li></ol><p>So, we&#x27;ll start with those.</p><h2>Customer Interviewing</h2><p>I think this is probably one of the most overlooked skills in the entire of entrepreneurship. Not only can customer interviews help chart your product development, sales strategy, and basically every consumer-related aspect of your business, but this is where you can find out if your startup idea is worth something in the first place.</p><p>The key takeaways:</p><ul><li>Surveys can serve as <strong>validation tools</strong>, and that&#x27;s about it.</li><li>Be <strong>as vague as possible</strong> to start - don&#x27;t tell them what industry you&#x27;re in, even remotely what your startup does.</li><li><strong>Good interviewing is good listening</strong> - you want them to <strong>tell stories</strong>.</li><li>Stay away from &#x27;shallow&#x27; (yes/no) questions.</li><li>Avoid &quot;have you ever had ____ problem&quot;.</li><li>Always go for more &quot;<strong>tell me about the challenges</strong> you&#x27;ve had with _____&quot; (ex. note-taking).</li><li>Interviews should be conducted with two people, one who is clearly in charge and one who is taking notes - can enter conversation occasionally by asking &quot;do you mind if I ask a question?&quot;.</li><li>You always want to <strong>dig deeper and get the stories</strong>; good follow-up questions include things like &quot;<strong>why?</strong>&quot; and &quot;<strong>how often does this happen?</strong>&quot;.</li><li>Wait for the other person to speak and elaborate themselves - <strong>using silence is important.</strong></li><li>Get people to <strong>demonstrate</strong> their stories and experiences if possible - you can then ask questions based on the demonstration.</li><li>Approach interview as &quot;<strong>how can I disprove my core assumptions?</strong>&quot; - don&#x27;t be married to your value proposition.</li><li>Try and find the current way this person is solving your problem.</li><li>Can source interview people from Craigslist, <a href="https://www.taskrabbit.com/">Taskrabbit</a> - you should be getting valuable information after 2 or 3 if you&#x27;re doing it right, and you shouldn&#x27;t have a problem filling more than 45 minutes.</li></ul><h2>Power of the Network - Techstars &amp; Otherwise</h2><p>While some of this workshop spoke about how to best leverage the Techstars network specifically, there was a lot to be gained from the LinkedIn and general networking advice:</p><ul><li>Spend <strong>10 minutes every day responding to points of contact</strong> (on LinkedIn) - congratulate people on new jobs, introduce them to someone you know in their new city, comment on their post, etc. (Go to My Network &gt; Connections to see updates).</li><li><strong>Publish blog posts on LinkedIn</strong> - particularly if you post elsewhere too; it&#x27;s a great way to show off your skills to people, and to dictate your own specialties and positioning.</li><li>Little-used feature - you can <a href="https://www.lireo.com/linkedin-notes-remember-contacts/"><strong>keep notes that are private to you</strong></a> on first-level connections - just look at their profile and you&#x27;ll see the option below their header.</li><li><strong>Use <a href="https://www.conspire.com/">Conspire</a> to get introductions</strong>. Look for lowest number of people in pathway, not necessarily strongest.</li><li>Go to My Network &gt; Connections &gt; Settings to integrate with other services.</li><li><strong>University affiliation</strong> is a great way to turn a conversation from cold to warm, and is underutilized; check out the Advanced Search in detail.</li><li>Use My Network &gt; Find Alumni to <strong>source talent, or VCs/investors.</strong></li><li>Search <strong>former employees</strong> of a certain company to get intelligence and background information.</li><li>Look at <strong>who has viewed your profile</strong> - if you don&#x27;t have the right people viewing it, change your profile.</li><li>Use your skill endorsements as a gauge for how other people view your skill set and expertise.</li><li>Look at <strong>who is the most-viewed in your network</strong> - they have the highest social influence and capital; utilize this.</li></ul><h2>Founder Stories</h2><p>I won&#x27;t say much about the Founder Stories this week, since they were so personal and emotional. That being said, they did really drive home a few key points for me:</p><ul><li>There is <strong>more to life than startups</strong>, or career success, or pretty much anything except family and loved ones. <strong>Never lose perspective</strong>.</li><li><strong>Desperation is a great motivator</strong>; use it as a tool (and by this, I mean implement it artificially whenever possible).</li><li>The <strong>arguments against immigrants in any country are stupid</strong>. From an <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/digits/2016/03/17/study-immigrants-founded-51-of-u-s-billion-dollar-startups/">economic standpoint, they create disproportionate value</a>. Aside from that, see point 1 - these are all people seeking the same things as you are.</li><li><strong>Obstacles are just that - obstacles</strong>. And yours are probably much less daunting than many that many, many, other people have faced and overcome. In other words, if you think your life is hard, it probably isn&#x27;t.</li><li><strong>People are amazingly resilient.</strong></li></ul><p>I&#x27;ll use the opportunity to point back to <a href="http://paulgraham.com/vb.html">one of my favorite articles from Paul Graham, titled <em>Life Is Short.</em></a></p><p>The end of Mentor Madness is a net positive for me, and I&#x27;ll probably dedicate a separate post or two to the whole process. In the meantime, you can refer to <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/techstars-boston-mentor-madness-mm-deborah-mcgargle?trk=prof-post">Deb McGargle&#x27;s post about it.</a></p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The 3-Tier Buying Model]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/the-3-tier-buying-model</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[In this post, I posit there are three tiers for most goods: cheap, luxury and middle. The value is typically found in the middle, and while there are some good products in the other tiers, you must be careful.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In almost every sector, you can buy products that fall within three categories: cheap, middle and luxury.</p><p>In today’s world, the most value comes from the middle category.</p><h2>Cheap Products</h2><p>Cheap products are available everywhere, from cars to homes to clothes.</p><p>We’ll stick with clothes for now. </p><p>Cheap clothes - or “fast fashion” - are available everywhere from top brands like <a href="https://www2.hm.com/en_ca/index.html">H&amp;M</a>, <a href="https://www.zara.com/ca/">Zara</a> and <a href="https://www.forever21.com/ca/shop?lang=en-ca">Forever 21</a>. I’ve been a fan of <a href="http://www.uniqlo.com/ca/en/">Uniqlo</a> in the past due to how well their clothes fit me, but they fall in this category too.</p><p>The cost of products like these is enormous. </p><p>Books like <a href="https://amzn.to/2ES74fQ"><em>Overdressed</em></a> have shed light on why. Cheap clothes are manufactured by cheap labour in foreign countries with lower regulations. The result is a large human cost in poor working conditions and accidents.</p><p>The environmental cost is staggering as well. Americans buy 5 times as much clothing as they did in 1980, and 85 percent of clothing ends up in the landfill - a massive 10.5 million tons per year in the USA alone.</p><p>Items in this category are less durable, manufactured poorly, and wear quickly, meaning they need to be replaced much more often.</p><p>They seem cheap at first, but long-term, when constantly replacing them, the costs add up.</p><h2>Luxury Goods</h2><p>Luxury covers a wide range of products. There are products in this category that have great value. </p><p>The price of luxury products means that items can often be customized just for you. It means that premium materials can be used, maximizing durability and comfort. It sometimes means they will be classic in style, good for years to come.</p><p>However, there is a large portion of this segment in which you are paying for the brand. That is fine, but you must be aware of it, and able to detect when this is the case.</p><p>Many products in this category will be of equal quality as those in the middle, yet you will pay many more times the price. </p><p>Sometimes products here will suffer from the same trendiness as fast fashion - they will not be relevant in a year or even months. Brands will often offer a wide variety of products, most trendy, with a few classics, which makes it even harder to distinguish (looking at you, <a href="https://www.gucci.com/ca/en/">Gucci</a>).</p><p>Others in this category will provide very high quality products, in addition to being handmade and/or custom, and these can be worth it. Brands like <a href="https://www.johnlobb.com/en_us/">John Lobb</a> and <a href="http://turnbullandasser.com/">Turnbull &amp; Asser</a> are good examples. </p><p>Beware paying a large premium for a brand name, rather than quality.</p><h2>The Middle - Where to Find Value</h2><p>The middle category is where much of the innovation seems to happen.</p><p>Direct-to-consumer and vertically integrated brands like <a href="https://www.awaytravel.com/ca/en/">Away</a>, <a href="https://www.glossier.com/">Glossier</a>, <a href="https://blacklapel.com/">Black Lapel</a> and <a href="https://casper.com/ca/en/">Casper</a> deliver premium quality products at more reasonable prices.</p><p>In fashion, <a href="https://www.everlane.com/">Everlane</a> is a prime example, and not only has transparent pricing, but details where its products are manufactured and the conditions, and have just launched a product line made from recycled plastic. <a href="https://mylesapparel.com/">Myles Apparel</a> is another.</p><p>Huckberry’s <a href="https://huckberry.com/store/rhodes/category/p/54957-dean-boot">new in-house boot brand, Rhodes</a>, is another good example. They source direct from a factory in Portugal for premium quality at a reasonable price, and their boots can be resoled over and over - meaning they will last a long time.</p><p>Curators like <a href="https://huckberry.com/">Huckberry</a> do a fantastic job of finding products that fit this category. Often they are local companies too.</p><p>Products in this category have higher pricing, but are premium quality. They are more durable, less trendy, and often have higher transparency around pricing and manufacturing processes.</p><p>This is where you find the best value. </p><h2>Conclusion</h2><p>Of course, there will be overlap in all these categories.</p><p>In general, find products that are classic, durable and cost-effective. </p><p>Find products that will last, and despite paying a slightly higher price up-front, you will reap the rewards over the product lifetime, in direct cost, environmental improvements, and helping support good labour practices.</p><p><strong>Shop for products in the middle.</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Top 10 Books I Read in 2018]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/the-top-10-books-i-read-in-2018</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The ten books that most impacted my thinking in 2018—covering strategy, psychology, habits, and personal development, with key takeaways from each.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’m a little late on this post, but to some extent it’s useful to see which books stuck with me, particularly those I read near the end of 2018. </p><p>Most of these weren’t published last year, but they are the ones which impacted me the most.</p><p>Enjoy!</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/mans-search-for-meaning-victor-frankl">Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl</a></h2><p>Often ranked among the most meaningful books by many, the account of Frankl’s time in a concentration camp is both horrific and impossible to stop reading.</p><p>His resulting work in developing logo-therapy is interesting. Perhaps the most useful learning is flipping “finding life’s purpose” to recognizing that “each man is questioned by life”.</p><p>The book offers a prescription for finding one’s meaning in life, from someone who has seen the worst of it. A short, worthwhile read.</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/how-to-change-your-mind-michael-pollan">How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan</a></h2><p>A fascinating overview of the use and study of psychedelics. Pollan starts by examining the LSD boom and research in the 50s and 60s. He then intersperses accounts of his own experiences with the neuroscience and current studies of the drugs.</p><p>The writing itself is Pollan’s usual high standard, and the subject is fascinating. It’s no secret that use of psychedelics has become more prominent in areas like tech and personal performance (specifically micro-dosing).</p><p>For more information, check out some of the Tim Ferriss Podcast episodes with people like<a href="https://tim.blog/2018/12/13/peter-attia-vs-tim-ferriss/"> Peter Attia</a>,<a href="https://tim.blog/2018/11/20/stan-grof/"> Stan Grof</a>,<a href="https://tim.blog/2018/10/11/paul-stamets/"> Paul Stamets</a> and<a href="https://tim.blog/2018/09/20/hamilton-morris/"> Hamilton Morris</a>. You can also check out the TV show<a href="https://www.viceland.com/en_us/show/hamiltons-pharmacopeia"> Hamilton’s Pharmacopeia</a>.</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/1-page-marketing-plan-allan-dib">The 1-Page Marketing Plan by Allan Dib</a></h2><p>I was initially skeptical about this book (mostly due to the title), but ended up pleasantly surprised. </p><p>This book is a concise, clear, actionable handbook for everyone from small-business owners to high-growth startup founders. It provides a blueprint for positioning a company, creating marketing systems to sustain growth, and ultimately build a company that can run by itself. </p><p>It’s not as in-depth as some marketing books, but provides a great overview.</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">Atomic Habits by James Clear</a></h2><p>Fantastic book. Everything a good book should be: concise, clear, and actionable.</p><p>This is the best book on habit formation I’ve ever read. James does an excellent job of providing all the required planning resources to go along with the book.</p><p>Recommend for everyone who is trying to change and build new habits (ie. pretty much everyone).</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/poor-charlies-almanack-charles-munger">Poor Charlie’s Almanack by Charlie Munger</a></h2><p>A book that has had a large impact on how I approach problems. Formatted after Ben Franklin’s yearly publication of advice, Munger gives advice on a range of topics. They include clear investing principles, mental models and thinking with interdisciplinary tools.</p><p>Particularly relevant for those interested in business and finance, but, as he makes clear, it should be relevant for all, from lawyers to economists.</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/the-defining-decade-meg-jay">The Defining Decade by Meg Jay</a></h2><p>I was pleasantly surprised by this book. It’s an easy read, a mix of psychology research and anecdotal experience, and touches on all the key points of how to live in your twenties. Many of my own thought patterns matched those described in her examples.</p><p>Recommended for anyone in their late teens or twenties, or parents with kids around those ages, as it will be invaluable for both. I’ll be gifting it to many friends.</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/influence-robert-cialdini">Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini</a></h2><p>An overview of some of the most common psychological principles that rule our decision-making and lead us to poor results. </p><p>This book has been cited by many, and forms the basis of many of the “mental models” frequently used by people such as Charlie Munger. </p><p>A valuable read for those wishing to improve their objectivity and thinking.</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/when-the-scientific-secrets-of-perfect-timing-daniel-pink">When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing by Daniel Pink</a></h2><p>Pink’s latest book is all about the science of timing, and what scientific studies have shown in terms of how to time our days, and our lives. It’s concise, and relevant to all.</p><p>One of the best parts about this book is how actionable the content is. He presents the science, and then provides a “Time Hacker’s Handbook” for each chapter, with resources on how to apply the lessons to your own life.</p><p>I immediately made changes to my own life using the content I learned here.</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/to-sell-is-human-daniel-pink">To Sell is Human by Daniel Pink</a></h2><p>Daniel Pink starts by showing that a surprisingly large portion of the workforce is engaged in “moving others” (aka selling) in some form, and that we all do this in our lives. The rest of the book discusses how we can improve this skill, which, given how much we use it, is extremely important.</p><p>I haven’t yet had the chance to go through all the suggested exercises, but I enjoyed the book and found it useful. It breaks down several myths about selling that cause most of us (myself included) to view “sales” as something negative.</p><p>I picked the book up originally to improve my professional life, and it did, but almost the entire book can be applied to improving our own personal interactions.</p><h2><a href="/book-notes/antifragile-nassim-nicholas-taleb">Antifragile</a> / <a href="/book-notes/skin-in-the-game-nassim-nicholas-taleb">Skin in the Game by Nassim Nicholas Taleb</a></h2><p><em>Antifragile</em> focuses primarily on the concepts of <em>fragility</em> and <em>antifragility</em>, and how they appear in our lives. It is a core concept of Taleb’s teachings, and worth understanding.</p><p><em>Skin in the Game</em> is Nassim Nicholas Taleb’s (NNT) fifth book in what he calls the <em>Incerto</em>, and it’s the most digestible I’ve read thus far (having read all but <a href="https://amzn.to/2WXRFyy"><em>Fooled by Randomness</em></a>). </p><p><em>Skin in the Game</em> focuses on asymmetry in everyday life, particularly on the matters of career, ethics, and life in general.</p><p>What does that mean? Rules for how to detect if something is pseudo-science (scientism), how you should endeavour to conduct yourself in your career, and mental models for thinking about risk in life.</p><p>Having now read most of his books, part of the reason this was digestible was that I’m familiar with his major concepts. I would recommend reading his other books first.</p><p>—</p><p>If you’d like to see <strong>my full list of book notes</strong>, <a href="/book-notes">you can read them here</a>.</p><p>If you’d like to know more about <strong>my strategy when reading books</strong>, and selecting books to read, <a href="/blog/how-to-read-a-book">you can read about that here</a>.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[After determining that growth and product were going to be our two main points of focus in Week 1, we got prepared for Mentor Madness in Week 2.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Sales &amp; Mentor Madness</h2><p>After determining that growth and product were going to be our two main points of focus in Week 1, we got prepared for Mentor Madness in Week 2.</p><p>I mentioned last week that one observation at Techstars Boston was that larger teams were less affected by activities like Mentor Madness, because employees could continue work when their CEO or cofounders were slammed with meetings.</p><h2>Delegate</h2><p>As a team of two, we decided ahead of the program we were going need to delegate tasks to each other, and split things up to effectively make progress.</p><p>As a result, I decided I wasn’t going to attend many of the Mentor Madness meetings, instead leaving them to Sebastien, while I focused on prospecting and reaching out to new leads.</p><p>Now, Mentor Madness is a unique opportunity to expand your network, get great feedback, and find ongoing mentors for your business, so I was disappointed not attending all the meetings. But reminding myself that the discipline required to split tasks was necessary paid off. </p><p>I got more sales work done during the week than I had in many of the previous; knowing I was missing some great meetings got me in the zone quickly, and made work extremely effective. </p><p>If you do split, don’t forget to debrief each other – Sebastien and I always had a chat after the meetings were finished on who he felt were the best mentors of each day, what had been learned or what questions were asked. Keeping each other in the loop on what you’re working on is a must.</p><h2>Don&#x27;t Forget the Focus</h2><p>The other major factor in this decision was focusing on the thing we had decided was most important for us during Techstars – growth. Focusing on a singular goal when you’re two people is difficult – there’s always marketing, strategy, positioning, competitor and market research, and a million other things to do. But to make meaningful progress, you must pick one.</p><p>Mentor Madness meetings themselves are a bit of an art and science, which I’ve talked about before, so I won’t here.</p><p>Despite not participating fully in Mentor Madness, both Sebastien and I were still exhausted at the end of the week. </p><p>Keeping focused on the important things, and splitting tasks effectively is key to making the most of this week.</p><h2>Quick Tips</h2><p>In summary:</p><ul><li>As a small team, you must split tasks, even if you’d both like to do all things.</li><li>When you do this, you must make a conscious decision to keep the communication clear about progress on your tasks.</li><li>You should each have a singular focus throughout the program, and it’s necessary to be ruthless in cutting out lower-impact activities, as important as they may seem.</li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars NYC Week 4 - Conference Tips]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[I spent most of Week 4 in Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas, attending the NBAA Schedulers & Dispatchers conference which happens once every year. In theory, these are exactly the people we want to be talking to, learning from, and eventually helping, so it was a great opportunity.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>The Power of In-Person</h2><p>I spent most of Week 4 in Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas, attending the NBAA Schedulers &amp; Dispatchers conference which happens once every year. In theory, these are exactly the people we want to be talking to, learning from, and eventually helping, so it was a great opportunity.</p><p>It’s been a while since I’ve attended a conference. Last time, we had a booth, and it was a different company. And last time it didn’t turn into much in the way of opportunities.</p><p>But this time I was reminded just how good these conferences can be. And the reasons why it’s a good fit for some industries, and not for others.</p><h2>Why Conferences &amp; Tradeshows?</h2><p>Conferences are expensive. My ticket was over $1000, plus we had to pay for flights and hotel/Airbnb (I would definitely recommend Airbnb vs. hotels). That’s a big expense for a startup when money is a (very) limited resource. We have yet to find out whether the conference will translate into deals or not, but I believe it was absolutely worth it. Here’s why:</p><h2>Large Deals &amp; Small Industries</h2><p>First, the industry we are operating in is relatively small and tight-knit, and as a result, much of the business is a result of the relationships and trust you have with others in the industry. The deals are relatively large – this is enterprise sales, after all – so it makes sense. But it also makes it very difficult to enter as a startup without those relationships.</p><p>Thankfully, I’d put some effort into meeting some people beforehand, and had chatted with a couple great people who were enthusiastic about what we were doing. This made a huge difference – they warmly introduced me to others, and brought lots more trust and opportunity than would have otherwise existed had I gone into the conference cold.</p><p>When I left the conference, I had about ten people who I had spent quite a lot of time with, and who were interested in what we were doing.</p><h2>Use Conferences to Learn</h2><p>Second, these conferences are a great way to learn. I don’t have a background in the business aviation industry, so while I was aware of the general problems they faced, and what our product could potentially do for them, I didn’t fully understand the specifics and subtleties of how different companies operate. I didn’t effectively know the jobs-to-be-done of our customers.</p><p>All the major vendors attend these conferences, so not only was I able to ask most of the top 30 companies in the industry about how they do scheduling, which tools they use, and where they have problems and see opportunities, but I was also able to get demos from all the major software providers, ask them questions, and really get a great understanding of how they worked – it was a great opportunity for learning.</p><h2>Evaluate Your ROI Realistically</h2><p>Third, it helps to put conferences in the context of the deals you’re making – if you’re selling subscriptions that are $20/month, it’s going to be very tough to meet and onboard enough people in a couple days to make a conference worthwhile. </p><p>However, if you’re doing relatively large enterprise-style deals, if you get one deal every couple, or even every few conferences, depending on your deal size, they will be paying for themselves extremely quickly.</p><h2>In summary:</h2><ul><li>If you’re an enterprise-oriented business, the cost of a conference can easily be offset by one or multiple deals.</li><li>If your industry is small, or relies on trust and relationships for deals, you need to establish yourself and build relationships, and there’s no better place to do that than at conferences.</li><li>If you can find a way to establish some relationships beforehand, it will help immensely in getting warm introductions to others.</li></ul><h2>More Conference Tips</h2><ul><li>If you want to talk to speakers, email them ahead of time and schedule coffee/etc. Use their speaking engagement as a warm way to reach out.</li><li>Don’t bother getting a booth unless you have a very specific reason for doing so. Otherwise, just getting a pass is usually enough, far cheaper, and much more flexible (don’t forget you must staff a booth).</li><li>Take a bunch of business cards – way more than you think you’ll need.</li><li>If you have some warm intros in the first day or two, push deals as far as possible while at the conference – things will slow down once the conference is over.</li><li>Take notes – there is no way you’ll remember details and follow-ups without them. I do it quickly on my phone after I talk with anyone.</li><li>Have a plan – I made a list of the top companies I wanted to talk to, found out their booth numbers, and worked my way down the list. It’s far more productive than just wandering around – you’ll be surprised how much you’ll miss if you don’t do this.</li><li>Attend the events in the early days – eventually, when you’re established, you can skip these and just schedule meetings instead. But don’t underestimate the power of a fun event and a few drinks to build some relationships (and have some good stories!).</li></ul><p>Now go make a list of conferences relevant for your business!</p><p>You can read about <a href="/blog/week-3-techstars-nyc">last week (Week 3) here</a>, and <a href="/blog/week-5-techstars-nyc">Week 5 here</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why You Should be Buying Solar for Your Home]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Thinking about buying solar panels for your home? This post breaks down the math, including the payback period, for panels located in the Northern Hemisphere, and shows you how to do the calculations for your own location.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Thinking About Buying Solar</h2><p>Buying solar hasn&#x27;t been on my parents&#x27; mind for a while. They recently bought a Tesla, which I will talk about in another post. I wouldn&#x27;t describe them as environmentalists, though they are certainly concerned about the environment, and are logical, intelligent people - which really should be equal with being concerned about the environment.</p><p>However, I recently pushed them to re-examine solar power, something that they had briefly checked out several years ago, before discounting it due to the high up-front cost and brutal (think 35 years) payback period.</p><p>But, as occasionally happens, sometimes I come up with good ideas, and regardless if they&#x27;re good or not, I&#x27;m usually good at constructing good arguments, and this time the facts were in my favor.</p><h2>The Background on Solar Energy</h2><p>If you want Elon Musk&#x27;s opinion on buying solar and solar energy, here&#x27;s a great <a href="http://waitbutwhy.com/2015/06/the-deal-with-solar.html">article from Wait but Why</a>.</p><p>Later, we will examine down to the dollar the cost of implementing and buying solar, but first, let&#x27;s step back and take a look at some interesting maps and statistics. The world receives enough solar energy in an hour to <a href="http://www.nature.com/nature/journal/v443/n7107/full/443019a.html">power it for an entire year</a>. An entire year!</p><p>Alternatively, for those who are American, PV panels installed on just <a href="http://energy.gov/eere/solarpoweringamerica/solar-energy-united-stateshttp://energy.gov/eere/solarpoweringamerica/solar-energy-united-states">0.6% of the area</a> of the United States would power the entire country.</p><p>Or, if you prefer it this way, <a href="http://www.techinsider.io/map-shows-solar-panels-to-power-the-earth-2015-9">here&#x27;s a map of the area needed to be covered by solar panels</a> to power the whole world. In total, it&#x27;s about the size of Spain - not very big at all.</p><p>And, in just the last 3 years, the cost of manufacturing solar panel modules have <a href="http://cleantechnica.com/2015/01/29/solar-costs-will-fall-40-next-2-years-heres/">dropped in price by 60 percent</a>, and are predicted to <a href="http://cleantechnica.com/2015/01/29/solar-costs-will-fall-40-next-2-years-heres/">decrease a further 40 percent</a> in the next two years. In the <a href="http://understandsolar.com/cost-of-solar/">last 35 years, solar has become over 100 times cheaper.</a></p><p>So how cheap is buying solar, then, exactly? Well, based on <a href="https://www.californiasolarstatistics.ca.gov/">data from the California Solar Initiative</a>, the average cost per watt of installed solar over the last 12 months (rolling) was:</p><ul><li>for installations &lt;10kW: $5.35 USD</li><li>for installations &gt;10kW: $4.38 USD</li></ul><p>Now, in current Canadian dollars that seems a bit high. But, based on the recent quotes we received in Nova Scotia, the cost of an installation is really around $3.67/W CAD, installed. This is a non-tracking, fixed roof mount system using microinverters, which is common for current installations. And this cost varies little on most residential installation sizes, which we will talk about later.</p><h2>Is Buying Solar Viable?</h2><p>But is solar viable for those of us who live in less-than-ideal solar climates?</p><p>My parents live in Nova Scotia, Canada, which isn&#x27;t quite Southern California in terms of sunshine. So it&#x27;s not ideal for solar. But it matters much less than you&#x27;d think.</p><p>Here&#x27;s a map of the <a href="http://solargis.info/doc/_pics/freemaps/1000px/dni/SolarGIS-Solar-map-DNI-World-map-en.png">solar irradiation of the world</a>, <a href="http://solargis.info/doc/_pics/freemaps/1000px/dni/SolarGIS-Solar-map-DNI-North-America-en.png">North America</a>, and finally, photovoltaic potential in <a href="http://pv.nrcan.gc.ca/pvmapper.php?MapSize=500%2C500&amp;ViewRegion=2138675%2C6487150%2C2768050%2C7090150&amp;CMD=ZOOM_IN&amp;minx=-2508487.000000&amp;miny=5139927.500000&amp;maxx=3080843.000000&amp;maxy=10729257.500000&amp;imagewidth=500&amp;imageheight=500&amp;CHKBOX%5B4240%5D=4240&amp;CHKBOX%5B2057%5D=2057&amp;CHKBOX%5B92163%5D=92163&amp;units=0&amp;tilt=1&amp;period=13&amp;title=PV+potential+and+insolation&amp;title_e=PV+potential+and+insolation&amp;title_f=Potentiel+photovolta%C3%AFque+et+ensoleillement&amp;lang=e&amp;LAYERS=2057%2C4240&amp;SETS=1707%2C1708%2C1709%2C1710%2C1122&amp;RLAYER=92163">Nova Scotia</a> (here&#x27;s the <a href="http://pv.nrcan.gc.ca/pvmapper.php?MapSize=500%2C500&amp;ViewRegion=-2578487%2C5404897%2C3480843%2C11464288&amp;CMD=ZOOM_IN&amp;minx=1798812.500000&amp;miny=6283891.250000&amp;maxx=3057562.500000&amp;maxy=7542641.250000&amp;imagewidth=500&amp;imageheight=500&amp;CHKBOX%5B4240%5D=4240&amp;CHKBOX%5B2057%5D=2057&amp;CHKBOX%5B92163%5D=92163&amp;units=0&amp;tilt=1&amp;period=13&amp;title=PV+potential+and+insolation&amp;title_e=PV+potential+and+insolation&amp;title_f=Potentiel+photovolta%C3%AFque+et+ensoleillement&amp;lang=e&amp;LAYERS=2057%2C4240&amp;SETS=1707%2C1708%2C1709%2C1710%2C1122&amp;RLAYER=92163">Canada map</a>). Individual values of photovoltaic potential given per month (and annual totals), by province and municipality, <a href="http://pv.nrcan.gc.ca/index.php?lang=e">can be found here in table form</a>.</p><p>Not sure what solar irradiation or photovoltaic (PV) potential are? Simply put, solar irradiation is the expected amount of solar energy from the sun that hits the Earth&#x27;s surface at a particular spot. Photovoltaic potential is the amount of AC energy expected to be generated by a solar panel installed at a given location and orientation (essentially, how much output could be expected from a solar panel installed there).</p><p>Still confused? Check the links <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solar_irradiance">here</a> and <a href="http://pv.nrcan.gc.ca/index.php?lang=e&amp;m=f#q1">here</a>.</p><p>So really, at my parent&#x27;s location in Nova Scotia, they could only expect just over 1000 kWh/kW annually. Southern California could expect <a href="http://www1.solmetric.com/cgi/insolation_lookup/go.cgi">close to double</a>, and even Boston, which is barely south in terms of latitude, could expect <a href="http://www1.solmetric.com/cgi/insolation_lookup/go.cgi">about 15% better</a>.</p><p>So how could it be worth it?</p><p>In most places, it makes the most sense (if your utility allows it), to feed the power you generate back into the energy grid, rather than store it and use it to power your home, or store it and feed it back into the grid at a later time, the most notable exception being if you have <a href="http://www.hydroone.com/tou/Pages/Default.aspx">time-of-use pricing</a> (I&#x27;m looking at you Ontario).</p><p>So, the equipment required for a roof installation is really just the panels themselves, micro-inverters for each panel, and the mounting hardware. Micro-inverters are currently one-per-panel, which has the added benefit of letting you view your generation by each individual panel, via a web-based interface (<a href="https://enlighten.enphaseenergy.com/public_systems">check out some public installations here</a>).</p><p>My parents have a sizable roof, half of which faces almost due south, which is definitely lucky. The slope of the roof doesn&#x27;t actually matter as much as you might think at their latitude, as you can see by the <a href="http://pv.nrcan.gc.ca/index.php?n=3252&amp;m=u&amp;lang=e">small variation in radiation received based on tilt in Nova Scotia</a>.</p><h2>The Payback Period</h2><p>So down to the cost. The upfront cost still isn&#x27;t small. Buying solar is basically like buying a new car. But instead of having to sink money into this one every week, it will start paying you back. And the new payback period? For an average house: ~15 years. If you consume more than average, quite quickly it can be 10-12 years. After that you&#x27;ll be making money, and most panels are guaranteed for 20-25 years, with current life expectancy <a href="http://www.theecoexperts.co.uk/life-expectancy-solar-panels">up to 35 or even 40 years</a>.</p><p>Keep in mind the price of power varies, and this largely affects the payback period. Don&#x27;t forget to change the values to match your electricity provider if you use the spreadsheet.</p><p>So where does that payback period come from? First of all, there are limited subsidies available for residential solar power in Nova Scotia (<a href="http://www.cansia.ca/provincialterritorial.html">check here for Nova Scotia subsidies</a>) (Update May 2016: this link leads to something &quot;coming soon&quot;; the previous link I used was removed). Those elsewhere in Canada can find information about <a href="http://www.cansia.ca/provincialterritorial.html">their province here</a> (if you live in Ontario, you need to check these out - you can actually make money), and in the US you can <a href="http://energy.gov/savings">find them here</a>.</p><p>But in NS, the current cost is <a href="http://www.nspower.ca/en/home/about-us/electricity-rates-and-regulations/rates/fam.aspx">$0.154/kWh</a> (for details about the <a href="http://www.energysmart.enernoc.com/whats-the-difference-between-a-kw-and-kwh/">difference between a kWh and a kW, check here</a>). We will assume that the rate increases at 5% per year, which is <a href="http://www.nspower.ca/en/home/about-us/electricity-rates-and-regulations/regulatory-initiatives/archive/default.aspx">consistent with historical rates</a>.</p><p>Since the solar panels are sold with micro-inverters for each panel, the size of installation doesn&#x27;t matter too much, with the only economies of scale coming with installation costs, and as mentioned previously, based on recent quotes, the installed cost per watt (W), including tax, is about $3.67 CAD (or $3.19 CAD pre-tax).</p><p>So, if we took a 10kW installation for example, then used the <a href="http://pv.nrcan.gc.ca/index.php?n=2829&amp;m=u&amp;lang=e">PV potential values we looked at earlier</a>, we get can summarize the savings you might expect in the following spreadsheet (if using yourself, change values in green as needed):</p><p><a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1P0aNrtiNl9IgEHanEY86G8XgkrgC97vOJ1dcaCoaW3U/edit?usp=sharing">Solar Panel Payback Period</a></p><p>As you can see, the savings are pretty easy to justify if you can afford the up-front cost; payback period using this model is just over 16 years.</p><p>If you&#x27;re a higher-than-average electricity user (like if you have an electric car, or use electric heat, etc.), then the payback period quickly becomes quicker than 15 years.</p><p>But, we can still expand the analysis. There are environmental benefits to solar panels too, as the energy you&#x27;re feeding back into the grid is more energy that isn&#x27;t being generated using dirtier methods like coal. We can try and translate this environmental effect into dollars and incorporate that into our payback spreadsheet.</p><p>Nova Scotia currently uses about <a href="http://www.nspower.ca/en/home/about-us/how-we-make-electricity/default.aspx">60% coal energy</a>, and have published the <a href="http://www.nspower.ca/en/home/about-us/environmental-commitment/air-emissions-reporting/total-system-emissions-all-plants.aspx">historic emission of their systems</a>. Total life-cycle emissions for solar panels <a href="http://energy.novascotia.ca/sites/default/files/files/Solar_PV_Report_NS_FINAL_Feb_2014.pdf">are about 25-50 g CO2 equivalent per kWh</a>. Assuming the decrease in carbon dioxide equivalent for NS Power averages the same as the last 9 years (-2.98%), we can estimate the carbon dioxide equivalent output for the coming years. Based on our example, we would be saving about 6,978 kg CO2 equivalent in our first year. The <a href="http://www3.epa.gov/otaq/climate/documents/420f14040a.pdf">average passenger vehicle emits 411 grams CO2 per mile</a>, so that&#x27;s the equivalent of driving 27,323 km (16,978 miles) extra per year!</p><p>Now, here&#x27;s where things get a little complicated. There are different models which predict the &quot;social cost of carbon&quot;, and based on <a href="http://www3.epa.gov/climatechange/EPAactivities/economics/scc.html">these values from the US EPA</a>. Canada has used <a href="http://www.macleans.ca/politics/ottawa/what-does-carbon-cost/">estimates based on these in the past,</a> but the values for different models vary widely.</p><p>You can play around with different values in the spreadsheet provided, but for the sake of this example I&#x27;ll go with <a href="http://www.macleans.ca/politics/ottawa/what-does-carbon-cost/">Environment Canada&#x27;s $112.37 CAD value</a>, which in today&#x27;s dollars is $117.16.</p><p>Here&#x27;s the revised spreadsheet. Now the payback period is only 13 years!</p><p>Or, if you prefer, the total carbon savings over the 25 year period examined are the equivalent of driving 478,734 km (297,472 miles)!</p><p><a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1gRlG4k8ArAM3iKUZ7a2kU8WWRG3Xz2nSVB49-2SHeDs/edit?usp=sharing">Solar Payback Period Including CO2</a></p><p>Now, this analysis isn&#x27;t perfect. We haven&#x27;t quantified the savings in particulate and other emissions from fossil-fuel generation. And, conservatively, we assumed that the cost of CO2 equivalent is going to stay the same, when it will almost certainly increase (if only for inflation).</p><h2>Disaggregated Solar Power</h2><p>The final argument I&#x27;ll make for solar is the end-goal of disaggregated power generation.</p><p>To understand this, let&#x27;s first look at the typical power consumption curve for almost any region, and certainly any mildly urban area:</p><p>Source: <a href="http://www.eia.gov/">U.S. Energy Information Administration</a> based on data from<a href="http://www.iso-ne.com/"> Independent System Operator New England</a></p><p>As you can see, there&#x27;s a spike in the morning, and another one in the evening. The goal of time-of-use pricing is to try and flatten this curve; energy is more costly during peak periods, to discourage use, while it&#x27;s cheaper during off-peak hours to encourage use.</p><p>The reasoning behind this is that any utility must be able to generate enough power to supply the peak demand during the most demanding time of year. And rarely do the peak-demand or low-demand times correspond with the greatest generation efficiency. So for a large percentage of the time, the power grid is operating inefficiently.</p><p>If, magically, we consumed exactly the same amount of energy, but it was spread evenly over the day, so the power consumption curve was instead a flat line, we could save a huge amount of energy by just cutting out generating plants so that we had a smaller number of plants operating at optimal efficiency.</p><p>But there&#x27;s another way: disaggregated generation. In this scenario, everyone in the neighborhood has solar panels on their roof (or they&#x27;ve all gotten together and invested in a large array - community solar). Not enough to completely power their homes, but enough to be a significant percentage. And now, since they&#x27;re so forward-thinking, they&#x27;ve installed power storage solutions like <a href="https://www.teslamotors.com/en_CA/POWERWALL">Tesla&#x27;s Powerwall</a>. They probably have a Tesla too, so they can charge their car using solar power.</p><p>So all day, their solar panels charge the batteries in their home. Then, at night, when they get home, turn the lights on, start getting supper ready, and generally start consuming more power, the battery in their home starts feeding power back into the grid. And so does their neighbor&#x27;s. And their whole neighborhood. And their whole city. And all of a sudden, the power consumption curve as seen from the utility&#x27;s perspective looks like that flat line. And since their utility invested in green energy too, they can match this much lower demand curve with only renewable energy generation.</p><p>And all of a sudden, all the power being used in that city is renewable. That&#x27;s the goal of disaggregated generation.</p><p>This is a simplification - your utility will need to have planned well and implemented technology to make disaggregation possible, which is why you should lobby them to invest in smart grid technology. But that&#x27;s the eventual goal.</p><p><strong>The first step is getting your solar panels. And if you can afford them up-front, or can afford to get a loan, buying solar is worth it.</strong> Not only that, but your neighbors will be jealous that you&#x27;re such an environmentally-upstanding citizen.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Finding a cofounder is one of the most important steps in the life of a startup. Here are my tips on how to do it.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cofounder conflict was the reason I recently left the startup I&#x27;d spent 11 months of my life building, which you can <a href="/blog/why-i-left-my-startup">read about here</a>. I&#x27;ve heard, asked and read about how to select a cofounder, and usually the advice comes down to two things:</p><ol><li>Only found with people you&#x27;ve known for a long time (professionally or otherwise), who you know you work well with (ie. friends).</li><li>Don&#x27;t found with friends, as this can cause conflict down the road.</li></ol><p>I think the answer is a combination of both.</p><h2>My First Cofounder Experience</h2><p>When I was in my last year of university, and had started to explore entrepreneurship, I was looking for cofounders. The problem was, I didn&#x27;t really know any. Those that I&#x27;d spent time working with in school were all mechanical engineers. My roommates were in the sciences, or other engineers. My friends were from class - mechanical engineers.</p><p>I was looking for the typical startup team: hipster, hacker, hustler (though I think these terms are almost cliché now, and I dislike using them).</p><p>Being a mechanical engineer, at the time I hadn&#x27;t really figured out my role - hustler I guess? Anyway, I had the ideas, and knew I could pitch and solve problems, so I wanted to lead a team.</p><p>Eventually, I founded with a friend who I&#x27;d met through social events for scholarship students who was working on his CS degree, and we searched for a graphic designer. Eventually we found one, and she was actually great. But the result of that team? We had different priorities, and both the other members went off to work. We still remain great friends, but our startup didn&#x27;t go anywhere.</p><p>So what were the problems with that team? Well, we had zero experience. Or very little anyway. And our goals and expectations weren&#x27;t aligned. I&#x27;d built up some personal runway from summer jobs, while one of our cofounders had student debt to pay off, and the other wanted some experience working. We ignored this to start, but our future was doomed from the beginning.</p><h2>My Second Cofounder Experience</h2><p>While you can <a href="/blog/why-i-left-my-startup">read the details here</a>, my second cofounder experience didn&#x27;t work out either.</p><p>This time I founded with a team that, on paper, had great complimentary skills, and way more experience. Early on, we agreed on general areas of responsibility, which were based both on our interests and our perceived strengths, which were essentially based on our resumes. We hadn&#x27;t worked together before, but we got to know each other a little bit, and everyone seemed pleasant.</p><p>In the end, our responsibilities started to overlap, we had different expectations for the level of work we produced and the attention to detail, and the trust that is essential for good partnerships began to deteriorate. The result was discomfort for other team members, and ultimately I stepped away when there was disagreement about rearranging roles.</p><h2>Who&#x27;s a Good Cofounder?</h2><p>So who do I suggest you found with?</p><p>Found with friends, but be prepared to lose them.</p><p>What is essential for a good founding team?</p><ul><li>Trust and respect</li><li>Confidence in the abilities of each other</li><li>Personalities that blend well</li><li>Complimentary skill sets</li></ul><p>To truly evaluate most of these characteristics, you&#x27;re going to have to spend some significant time with each other. In my case, some of the current friends I would consider founding with are old hockey teammates, or longtime friends. I wouldn&#x27;t consider someone I just met as a cofounder, regardless of their pedigree. Employees you can fire - it&#x27;s much more difficult with cofounders.</p><p>So why do you have to be prepared to lose them? Because at some point, you may need to make a decision that is best for the company, and that might mean something bad for them. Like being removed. If you can&#x27;t separate your business judgement from your ties as a friend, you&#x27;ll be screwed. It&#x27;s happened to me. If they&#x27;re really that great a friend, then they will understand anyway.</p><h2>Finding Your Cofounder</h2><p>So you&#x27;re like me 18 months ago, and you want to found a company, but you don&#x27;t have any potential cofounders. How do you find them?</p><p>An unfortunate truth for a young wannabe founder: you can&#x27;t just find them. You&#x27;re going to have to put some time in. The time you spend building a great network and getting to know cofounders is going to be much more valuable than starting with someone you don&#x27;t know, and then ending up killing the company a few months later.</p><h3>Step one: put yourself in a position where you are working with a bunch of other like-minded people.</h3><p>For me, this breakthrough came with <a href="http://fi.co/">The Founder Institute</a>. 50 of us started, and only 14 finished, most of them founders of their own companies. So how did that help me? Well, I found my cofounder there, and while it didn&#x27;t work out, you&#x27;re immediately in a group of 50 people who are interested in entrepreneurship, which is a start. Second, these people didn&#x27;t all drop out at once - they dropped out over time, and during the process, you get to work with them, see their work habits and abilities, and generally get to know each other. The reverse is true as well - people will be much more likely to want to found with you when you demonstrate your value. I was great at pitching during The Founder Institute - this impressed a lot of people, and got them past the fact that I was a young guy with seemingly little experience.</p><p>Other areas to get this type of experience? For students or recent grads, try <a href="https://www.thenext36.ca/">The Next 36</a>. Try getting a job with a startup company near you (<a href="http://www.builtin.com/">http://www.builtin.com/</a>). Try getting a job as an analyst or an intern at a local accelerator or venture capital firm (in Montreal, try <a href="http://founderfuel.com/">FounderFuel</a> or <a href="http://realventures.com/en/">Real Ventures</a>). You will immediately be exposed to people interested in entrepreneurship and get to demonstrate your value to them, and evaluate their value too.</p><h3>Step two: network like crazy.</h3><p>There are a million (okay, not quite) meetups and events centered around tech and startups in cities worldwide. Need a technical cofounder? Go to the Ruby meetup and try to make friends. Need a marketing guy? Go to the digital marketing meetup. Go to <a href="http://www.startupopenhouse.com/">Startup Open House</a>. The key here is that these are relationships you are going to cultivate over time - don&#x27;t expect to immediately find your cofounder. And make sure you follow up with these people. Go out for coffee occasionally, stay in touch, go to more networking events together, maybe even go out for a beer (or five).</p><h3>Step three: reach into your past.</h3><p>Though most of the friends I graduated with were getting the same degree as I was, some of my old friends from home, or those that I grew up playing sports with, and generally those who were old friends, graduated with complimentary degrees. Some of them had even expressed interest in entrepreneurship. When you&#x27;re a year or two out of school, you should have plenty of friends around your age who have graduated from university, but are maybe in a different location, or already working. Reach out and see what they&#x27;re up to. Eventually tell them what you&#x27;re up to, and see if they&#x27;ve ever thought about entrepreneurship. Again, make sure to follow up. Ambitious young professionals, particularly if you are (or were) friends, will move cities for a great opportunity (ie. your future startup together).</p><p>Don&#x27;t forget: you&#x27;re going to have to put some time into this. If you&#x27;re still in university, and thinking about what you&#x27;ll be doing afterwards, that&#x27;s even better! You can be all ready by the time you graduate. The same rules apply to you as above, you can just look in some different places as well - go to the CS events and hackathons, and find those that are interested in starting a company after graduating. Go to the business competitions and find the marketing and sales people who are interested in really developing that product they sold to judges in the pitch competition. Hackathons are also a great opportunity to work together and get to know each other</p><p><a href="https://startupweekend.org/">Startup Weekends</a> are another hackathon-like experience which you can use to get to know other people interested in entrepreneurship, or evaluate how your potential cofounders work.</p><p>Here&#x27;s a <a href="http://founderfuel.com/100-resources-for-entrepreneurs-in-mtl/">great link summarizing a bunch of resources for entrepreneurs in Montreal</a> which you can use to help you, and Google can help you if you&#x27;re in other cities.</p><p>Don&#x27;t forget: found with friends, but be prepared to lose them.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I recently did an interview with Behind the Scenes NYC about my favourite places to eat, shop and visit when in New York. Check out the full details here.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently did a quick interview with Behind the Scenes NYC to chat about my favourite places to eat, shop, and visit around New York; you can <a href="http://bit.ly/2DSglDW">read the full article here</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How I Do My End-of-Year Review]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Whether you set New Year’s resolutions or not, you should do an end-of-year review. Here’s how I structure mine, which can serve as a starting point for your own review.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most New Year’s resolutions fail, so I try to avoid setting hard resolutions.</p><p>Instead, I reflect on the past year and how I’d like to improve my life in the upcoming year.</p><p>I focus on two questions:</p><ol><li>How can I do more of the things I enjoyed most last year?</li><li>How can I do less of the things that I enjoyed least, or <em>got in the way</em> of the things I enjoyed most?</li></ol><p>I mix together personal and professional life because I view them as intertwined, but you may want to do them separately.</p><p>The first step is figuring out what things I enjoyed most and least.</p><h2>What Did I Enjoy Most? Least?</h2><p>This process is based on <a href="https://tim.blog/2018/12/28/past-year-review/">Tim Ferriss’s ‘Past Year Review’.</a></p><ol><li>Grab a piece of paper or notebook.</li><li>Create two columns: Positive and Negative.</li><li>Write down all the people, activities, commitments, trips, etc. that spurred the most consistent or powerful positive and negative emotions in their respective columns.</li></ol><p>Places to find material:</p><ul><li><strong>Calendar</strong>: go through week-by-week and think about the emotions various entries trigger.</li><li><strong>Memory</strong>: your strongest memories are good indicators of strong emotions, positive and negative.</li><li><strong>Journal</strong>.</li></ul><p>Questions to think about:</p><ul><li>What were the most memorable moments of the year? Why?</li><li>What were the things I dreaded most this year?</li><li>What commitments did I really enjoy? What commitments did I dread?</li><li>What were the repeated activities that made me happy? Which did I hate being committed to?</li><li>What did my perfect days look like this year? Perfect weeks?</li></ul><p>Once I’ve gone through this process, I have a page or two of bullet points about the highlights and lowlights of my year. Then I move on to the next step.</p><h2>Healthy, Wealthy, Wise &amp; Crazy</h2><p>This is where I get creative and start thinking about potential goals and habits.</p><p>It’s a simple process: under each of those headings, brainstorm all the <em>potential</em> ideas you have related to that category.</p><p>They can be goals or habits, whatever you like.</p><p>These aren’t commitments, so feel free to put anything you’ve considered doing.</p><p>For me, <strong>Healthy</strong> consists of all the things that relate to my fitness, diet and overall physical health. </p><p>Examples are things like:</p><ul><li>Do a 3-day fast once per quarter.</li><li>Run a marathon.</li><li>Do pushups every day.</li></ul><p><strong>Wealthy</strong> consists of all the things related to my work and money. Often this could overlap with other categories, but don’t worry about that. Just brainstorm.</p><p>Examples:</p><ul><li>Get 1 consulting client outside my regular work.</li><li>Start a YouTube channel and produce 5 videos.</li><li>Write 1 blog post a month.</li></ul><p><strong>Wise</strong> consists of all the things related to learning and my mental health. Often there is overlap here with Healthy.</p><p>Examples:</p><ul><li>Journal daily.</li><li>Cook a 3-course meal for 6 friends every quarter.</li><li>Spend one weekend a month in nature.</li><li>Learn a new language.</li></ul><p><strong>Crazy</strong> answers the question: “What are the craziest things I could do this year?”. It’s a mental trick to help me think bigger, and get at some of my core desires (which seem “crazy” sometimes). </p><p>The other question you can ask is: “What could I do to 10X ____?” Questions like:</p><ul><li>What could I do to travel 10X more this year?</li><li>What could I do to 10X my income this year?</li><li>What could I do to be in 10X better shape?</li></ul><p>Examples:</p><ul><li>Put all my stuff in storage and work remotely while traveling.</li><li>Create a video every day of the year.</li><li>Don’t purchase anything aside from food and essentials.</li><li>Quit my job and start <a href="https://lambdaschool.com/">Lambda School</a>.</li></ul><p>At the end of this, you should have bulleted lists of potential goals or habits you’re interested in for the upcoming year.</p><h2>What Does My Perfect Day Look Like?</h2><p>Just as it sounds, I write out what my perfect day looks like. I’ll often write out what the perfect workday and weekend day look like too. Being specific is important.</p><p>For all days, I think about questions like:</p><ul><li>How does my morning start? What time do I wake up?</li><li>What things do I do first?</li><li>Where am I?</li><li>How much time do I spend on things?</li><li>What do I eat?</li><li>Who do I see and talk to?</li><li>How do I spend my day? My evening?</li><li>What does before bed look like?</li><li>What time do I go to bed? How much sleep do I get?</li></ul><p>For workdays:</p><ul><li>What do I work on?</li><li>What type of work am I doing?</li><li>What does my schedule look like?</li><li>How do I know if I’m succeeding?</li></ul><p>I often expand and add things that make the perfect week or month too.</p><h2>What Does My Life Look Like in 5 Years?</h2><p>This is similar to the perfect day exercise, except I describe my life five years in the future.</p><p>The same questions apply:</p><ul><li>Where am I?</li><li>What am I doing?</li><li>Who am I spending my time with?</li><li>What kind of place do I live in?</li><li>How do I spend my time?</li></ul><p>The more specific, the better.</p><p>This exercise helps me think about my long-term goals. </p><p>Doing it year after year lets me see how my priorities shift, and it helps me think about where I need to invest my time.</p><h2>Time to Choose</h2><p>At this point, it’s time to revisit the original questions:</p><ol><li>How can I do more of the things I enjoyed most last year?</li><li>How can I do less of the things that I enjoyed least, or <em>got in the way</em> of the things I enjoyed most?</li></ol><p>After the exercises above, I have a much better idea of what things I enjoyed most and least, and where I would like to invest my time.</p><p>Now I can set goals, plan habits, and think about strategies for reaching those goals.</p><p>These should be based on the answers to the following:</p><ol><li>How can I reduce friction for the things I want to do more of?</li><li>How can I increase friction for the things I want to do less of?</li></ol><p>In the next post, we’ll get into detail about how to form successful habits for reaching your goals.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Study in College]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Learn about preparation and strategies for studying efficiently and succeeding in university/college.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Preparation</h2><h3><strong>Study in the library</strong></h3><p>This is something you’ll have to experiment with, but I think the library is the best place to start for most people. I preferred quiet floors, and I liked the cubicle-style spaces best - they help keep you from being distracted, or dealing with someone who likes to spread their things everywhere, including your space.</p><p>I chose which library on campus based on a couple things: I generally didn’t like studying around people in engineering (there were a few people who were exceptions), so I’d go to the Social Sciences library. Whenever I went to the science and engineering library, I found myself distracted by someone panicking or talking about something that sounded related to what I was studying; in a separate library, I rarely had that problem.</p><p>I also picked my library based on temperature, and proximity to food/drinks. Our science and engineering library was always hot, no matter the season, and it instantly put me to sleep. I liked one just a bit chillier than room temp - I’d bring a sweater if I needed one, but I wasn’t going to get drowsy. Also, if I’m going for a full study day, I’m gonna need some lunch.</p><p>The other nice side effect of this was that when I came back home, I could really relax. The library meant studying, and home meant relaxing.</p><h3><strong>Organize your study space</strong></h3><p>This may sound obvious, but bring the materials you need and be organized. I always set up the same way - I’d bring a lined notepad to do problems on and create my study guides with. I’d bring my notes, and the folder from that class, and I’d bring the textbook. I’d also bring a mechanical pencil, extra lead, an eraser, and my calculator, and whenever I got to the library, I’d get everything out, arrange it neatly, and that would be my study space for the day. An organized study space is an organized mind.</p><p>I also tended to bring a coffee or water bottle, and some protein bars - it let me stay in one spot for a while, which was important for <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology)">achieving some flow.</a></p><h3><strong>Remove distractions</strong></h3><p>I believe one of the biggest issues people currently face in producing consistent, high-quality work, or in this context, being able to study consistently with deep focus, is the distractions we face, usually our phones.</p><blockquote><em>“Efforts to deepen your focus will struggle if you don’t simultaneously wean your mind from a dependence on distraction.” Cal Newport, <a href="http://amzn.to/2fFO5WA">Deep Work</a></em></blockquote><p>There are a couple things you can do to combat the phone distraction - I left it at home on long study days (Saturday/Sunday), or put it in my bag and put it on Do Not Disturb. Even having it out of your field of view makes a big difference.</p><p>For computer-based distractions, definitely turn on Do Not Disturb. You can also use Chrome extensions like <a href="https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/stayfocusd/laankejkbhbdhmipfmgcngdelahlfoji?hl=en">StayFocusd</a> or <a href="https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/focusme/jdkgogfonlaifeigkgbkfamcihablemc?hl=en">Focus.me</a> to prevent some of the social media/YouTube distractions that are common, and I’d recommend them as well.</p><p>Ultimately, if you can build the skill of staying completely focused, you’ll be able to accomplish more, much more efficiently, and have some free time instead.</p><blockquote><em>“The time that leads to mastery is dependent on the intensity of our focus.” - Roberte Greene, <a href="http://amzn.to/2xTPQcD">Mastery</a>.</em></blockquote><h3><strong>Value attitude over ability (ie. have a flexible learning mindset)</strong></h3><p>Your attitude towards your studies will largely dictate your success. I have yet to see a university course where hard work wouldn’t get you the result you wanted. The problem is usually that people don’t put the time into the work, or assume that their inherent abilities will only allow them to go so far. </p><p>If you’re willing to put in the time, seek help, and generally be humble, persistent, and relentless in your studies, you can get whatever grade you want. There have been <a href="http://news.stanford.edu/pr/2007/pr-dweck-020707.html">multiple studies that have shown intelligence is fluid, not fixed</a>, and it’s up to you to implement that mindset.</p><h2>Strategy for Studying</h2><h3><strong>Get help early</strong></h3><p>If you’re struggling with a subject, get help. You should do this early. Nothing annoys a professor like a student coming to office hours for the first time in the last week of the semester, asking questions about things taught in the first week.</p><p>You need to stay on top of things, and ask questions as they come. Not only will it make professors angry, but inevitably the last few weeks of the course are the busiest with students asking questions, and it will be hard to get in. </p><p>If you do it ahead of time, not only will the professor know you much better by the end of the course, and therefore be willing to help you more, but you shouldn’t need as much help at the end.</p><p>Personally, I struggled during my first semester with the transition to university life. Luckily, I got help early in the courses I was having a tough time with, and it helped smooth that transition - after that I made sure to ask questions and seek help early, and it made a big difference in my success moving forward.</p><h3><strong>Study regularly/give yourself time</strong></h3><p>This is important for everyone, but particularly if you’re involved in extracurricular activities, or are studying a subject where subsequent material builds on what you’ve learned, like engineering. </p><p>You should be spending time each week making sure you’re up-to-date on notes, and reviewing what you’ve learned. Working on assignments, going to tutorials, and building study guides will all help you stay on top of things.</p><h3><strong>Build study guides and review</strong></h3><p>Speaking of study guides, regardless of what subject you study, you should be creating these on your own, as a method of reviewing and making sure you understand the material. In engineering, every time we finished a chapter/subject, I would review my notes, consult the textbook for anything I didn’t understand, and then make a quick summary of all the key points and equations from that unit. </p><p>It forced me to make sure I reviewed things while they were fresh, and when it came to study for midterms and finals, the guides were invaluable, as they gave me a quick summary for everything we had studied.</p><p>You can see <a href="/blog/how-to-take-notes-in-college">an example of one of my study guides, and the method I used to build them here.</a></p><h3><strong>Study with friends - but be careful</strong></h3><p>I’m all for studying with friends, but you have to be a bit careful, and not let their study habits dictate your own. Usually if I was studying the same subject with a friend, we still studied individually - we just went to the library together, and occasionally did the same practice exams in parallel.</p><p>Going to the library with friends is fine too - I regularly went with my girlfriend at the time, or with my roommates - but again, make sure you dictate your own study habits. Sometimes it’s just nice to have someone to go with you and join you for lunch, and that’s fine.</p><p>Study groups are sometimes popular - I never really participated, because I found that either a) they were a big waste of time, as things just seemed to move slower in a group or b) it caused everyone a lot of anxiety because someone else would bring up something they thought was important but you hadn’t thought about. My advice would be use them if you really think they’re necessary, but try and find success on your own, so you can replicate that process.</p><h3><strong>Actively study; don’t read</strong></h3><p>In whatever area you’re studying, the biggest study mistake you can make is not actively studying. I’ve seen far too many people go to the library and “study”, but really they’re just re-reading the required readings, or the textbook, or the class notes. Yes, you should do that initially, but then you have to apply what you’ve learned. That means writing summaries in your own words, or making your own notes and study guides, or solving problem sets to apply the new concepts. </p><p>I really can’t emphasize this enough - it’s probably the most important point here. If you are going to study, you need to absorb, analyze, and apply that knowledge. Many students only do the first, and that will lead to poor results.</p><p>It’s been shown that even just <a href="https://qz.com/978273/a-stanford-professors-15-minute-study-hack-improves-test-grades-by-a-third-of-a-grade/">thinking about how you are learning will improve the learning process.</a></p><h3><strong>Be careful with your caffeine/stimulants</strong></h3><p>Caffeine, and other stimulants/drugs of all sorts of flavours are common on university campus - that’s just how it is. I’m personally a huge coffee fan, and these days when I’m working I usually have a mug on the go.</p><p>When it comes to studying, I think some caffeine is fine, and during the school year I regularly took a cup with me to class in the mornings, etc.</p><p>That said, a couple weeks before exams started, I made a conscious effort to cut back on my intake - I would typically limit myself to one cup a day, and maybe a tea in the afternoon. Anecdotally, I found that the occurrence of the “oh-shit-my-mind-is-blank” exam moments went way down when I decreased my caffeine intake, and I also wanted to be able to make sure I was getting enough sleep (caffeine is a good way to hide you’re not).</p><h3><strong>Sleep!</strong></h3><p>I never pulled an all-nighter in university, and I don’t think you should either. Ultimately you should aim to never be stuck at a point where you need to pull an all-nighter. <a href="http://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/cramming-for-a-test-don-t-do-it-237733">Evidence suggests you won’t do better anyway</a>. </p><p>Making sure you get enough sleep during exams, and during the school year is key for all kinds of reasons - for me, I knew that I would be less stressed, less prone to anxiety, thinking clearer, and way more productive if I slept 8-9 hours. That still left plenty of time for studying.</p><p>There’s all sorts of evidence for it, but if you think you’re going to perform better by not sleeping and studying the night before an exam, you’re wrong.</p><h3><strong>Think about how you will be tested, and how you learn (<a href="https://blog.cognifit.com/metacognition-improves-learning/">metacognition</a>)</strong></h3><p>The next two points are two of the most important of this whole post, and should guide all your studying and work in university. </p><p>The first point is to think about how you will be tested, and how you learn best. You should be thinking about this both when beginning, and then during the course as you move through assignments, midterms, projects, and finals.</p><p>Simply <a href="https://qz.com/978273/a-stanford-professors-15-minute-study-hack-improves-test-grades-by-a-third-of-a-grade/">thinking about how you learn will improve your learning</a>, and ultimately this is going to be important in improving your own learning process as you go through university, which I believe is one of the most important parts.</p><h3><strong>Study like you will be tested</strong></h3><p>Ultimately, as you give thought to your own learning process, your performance in university courses will come down to: study like you will be tested.</p><p>For engineering, my process usually looked like:</p><ul><li>Read and absorb the material</li><li>Analyze and make a study guide for said material (restate in own terms, key equations, concepts, etc.)</li><li>Test yourself with example/assignment questions</li><li>Practice previous midterms/assignments</li><li>Practice previous exams, under exams settings (timed, no distractions, no cheating)</li></ul><p>This process also helped me write exams - going into the exam I had already written great examples under similar conditions, which gave me lots of confidence, and let me be nice and calm.</p><p>I’ll say it again: in engineering/math, you should primarily be solving problems to prepare for exams.</p><p>I believe the above process can essentially be repeated with any university course, though I recognize that it will look a bit different. </p><p>For science, if you’re answering multiple choice exams, you can build and test yourself using flashcards, and then repeat the same last few steps, testing yourself on mock exams, previous exams, or even making up practice exams yourself by building questions.</p><p>If you’re writing essays, try to get multiple rounds of feedback through the course on your assignment essays, constantly revising and improving, and then practice timed essay writing, if that’s how you will be tested.</p><h3><strong>How to write exams well</strong></h3><p>Writing exams well is a tough skill for many. Ultimately, most of writing exams well comes not from the actual exam writing itself; it’s the preparation going into the exam.</p><p>I think performing well on exams comes down to two things:</p><ul><li>Knowing the material well.</li><li>Gaining confidence from realistic practice.</li></ul><p>If you’ve put the time in, studied throughout the course, asked questions when you needed, and used the strategies above, you’ll be able to address most of the exam material quickly. Actively studying is key here.</p><p>Secondly, if you’ve practiced under realistic scenarios - ie. doing previous exams from the same professor in the proper exam time - you’ll have confidence going into the exam that will help you perform.</p><p>On the actual exam, there are lots of strategies for maximizing your potential, but here are a few I think are worth noting:</p><ul><li>Take 2 minutes at the beginning to understand the exam: know where the points are awarded, a rough estimate of the time allocated to each section (% of points on that section usually), and the sections you feel most comfortable with.</li><li>Take a breath. Being calm is extremely important.</li><li>Push through the exam, and have the confidence to move on when you need to. If you don’t know something, give it some thought, then move on. Make sure you note it (I usually put a big star next to it), and give extra thought to important questions or sections.</li><li>Move quickly, and consistently. You don’t want to rush; you don’t want to waste time. You must find a consistent pace, and if you’ve prepared well, you’ll be fine. I’ve had exams where I ran out of time, but I’d prepared enough to know that if I did, everyone else did too and the exam was too long. </li><li>Revisit what you’ve left behind. Leaving exam questions blank sucks - you shouldn’t do it in general. That means you should revisit and attempt questions you didn’t have time to do at the end.</li></ul><h3><strong>The final level of learning</strong></h3><p>The final level of learning was one I only occasionally reached during my time in university, but this is where you understand how to apply the material you’ve learned in “real” contexts. The examples and problems in engineering are textbook problems - they test the material, but you rarely have to come up with solutions, or choose which knowledge, formulas, or analyses to apply yourself. Nor do you get to apply them in the real world, where things are rarely as idealistic as textbooks.</p><p>In my opinion, the best way to attain this level of understanding is the same way as acing an exam - practice like you will be tested. Specifically, find somewhere that forces you to apply the knowledge you’re learning. In engineering, I believe this is the design teams (Formula SAE, Baja, etc.). It can also be work terms. Make time for these, and make sure to again think about your own learning process - how do these things overlap? How am I applying the knowledge I’ve learned? How can I bridge the gap between what I learn in class and the real-world application of it more effectively?</p><p>This ability, once mastered, will prove to be one of the most valuable assets in your arsenal, and will follow you through whatever career path you choose, engineering or otherwise. </p><p>The process from introduction, to new material, to mastering that material in idealized contexts, to applying that material in practical situations, is the highest level of learning, and what you should aim for.</p><p><em>“The key then to attaining this higher level of intelligence is to make our years of study qualitatively rich. We don&#x27;t simply absorb information - we internalize it and make it our own by finding some way to put this knowledge to practical use.” Roberte Greene, <a href="http://amzn.to/2xTPQcD">Mastery</a>.</em></p><p>Read here about <a href="/blog/making-the-most-of-college">How to Make the Most of College</a> and here about <a href="/blog/how-to-take-notes-in-college">How to Take Notes in College.</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Learn how to take effective notes in college/university, with tips on what parts of the lecture to pay attention to, specific products, and the system I used to keep track of tasks.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Taking notes in college/university is a skill key to success. It took me the better part of a couple years to figure out my system of organization to make both taking notes, and studying afterwards, efficient.</p><h2>Why Take Notes?</h2><p>Good question - you should ask yourself this question before you start your courses, or at least a couple weeks into the courses. I’m speaking from the perspective of engineering (specifically Mechanical), which is what I studied, but I had peers who didn’t bother taking notes, or even attending lectures. While I don’t recommend that, particularly for engineering, there’s no point taking notes if you’re not going to use them. Avoiding useless work is just as important to efficiency as doing the important work.</p><p>In my opinion, <strong>you should take notes to enable full understanding of the material later.</strong></p><p>In engineering, we didn’t have recorded lectures available later, and professors rarely used slides. That meant that the majority of my note-taking was copying the notes that a professor was writing on the board. </p><p>Now, this sometimes made it tough to follow the actual lecture itself - but I came to be comfortable with that. A typical class involved me making sure I copied the notes correctly, as I knew that even if I got lost in the lecture, I’d have the material to sort through later. The alternative - not taking notes - means that if you get lost during a lecture, you’re going to have to remember what was covered later. In my experience, that’s very difficult.</p><p>Now, an important point to make here - if you can’t see or hear the notes and/or lecture because you’re too far away - you need to sit closer. I had trouble focusing from distance after looking at textbooks in the library, so I knew if I was going to a lecture afterwards, I needed to sit near the front.</p><h2>How I Took and Organized Notes</h2><p>Once you’ve decided it’s worthwhile to take notes, you have to decide how you’re going to organize them.</p><p>Almost universally, unless there was a lot of handed-out materials, or the professor used slides (which I would print and annotate), I used <a href="https://www.walmart.ca/en/ip/hilroy-exercise-books-3-pack-10-78-x-8-38-80-page/6000001851634?cmpid=sem_pla_google_en_none_6000001851634_10020210833274132731_1216&amp;cmpid=sem_pla_google_en_none_868545256_45415463938_None_%2010002_None&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwjJjOBRBVEiwAfvnvBF_cpT7gPWVKU6A2B1dgtkEU5msEtRPO3Ac_N2djkrxRwwUvNobH2hoCXaQQAvD_BwE">80-page Hilroy exercise books</a> to take notes. Early in university I tried 200-page spiral bound notebooks, and it just wasn’t necessary. The Hilroy notebooks are nice and light, and you can coordinate colors to make it easy to organize things.</p><p>I personally used a pencil when writing - there was a certain peace of mind knowing I could re-write things - and I also kept a short ruler in my bag for nice clean diagrams. I was asked if I had OCD more than once - I’m okay with it.</p><p>I wrote in the notebooks notes from lectures in sequential order. If I missed a class, I got notes right afterwards from a friend, and copied them into my own notebook in the correct spot. It makes a difference in the end.</p><p>I took notes for the tutorials in the class separately. I used a <a href="https://www.staples.com/Staples-8-1-2-x-11-White-Glue-Top-Notepad-Narrow-Ruled-12-Pack/product_246793">thin-rule notepad</a> for these notes, and I’d mark them clearly with “Tutorial” and the date.</p><p>These then went in <a href="https://www.staples.com/Staples-Colored-Top-Tab-File-Folders-3-Tab-9-Color-Assortment-Letter-Size-100-Pack/product_508804">a file folder</a> for each specific class, and I organized the contents of these file folders sequentially (ie. by date). As often as I could, I would coordinate the color of the folder and the Hilroy notebook I was using, and I’d mark them both with the class code and name.</p><p>Everything else related to the class also went in the file folder. That meant assignments, tests, midterms, extra study materials, chapter summaries (which I’ll talk about later) everything. It was an easy way for me to organize all the materials related to a class - I had one Hilroy notebook and one folder for each.</p><p>In addition to these notes, I kept any online materials in a Google Drive folder, which I organized by [Year] - [Class Code], and then synced to my Desktop. That meant that any digital materials I had would be available on my Google Drive wherever I was - on a campus computer, etc. - and also that it was no big deal if my computer got stolen or damaged (surprisingly common on university campuses). To do this you just need to download <a href="https://www.google.ca/drive/download/">Google Drive for Desktop</a>.</p><p>Examples of the stuff in my online folder: assignments, digital copies of textbooks for the class, previous exams and midterms for practice (you can find these online), group projects, etc.</p><p>In my later years, when I was particularly OCD, I would even scan some of my study guides using <a href="https://evernote.com/products/scannable">Evernote Scannable</a> and upload them so I had a digital copy. In my last year I started taking notes on my iPad, so I’d automatically have them sync to this folder too (I used <a href="http://gingerlabs.com/">Notability</a>).</p><h2>A Couple Other Perspectives</h2><p>From Mike, one of my roommates who kept a 4.0 GPA through Mechanical Engineering:</p><blockquote><em>“I would say that even if there are slides for the class, it&#x27;s worth writing down the most important points again even if you get the slides after class.”</em></blockquote><p>From Simon, another roommate who studied science (physiology major in preparation for med school):</p><blockquote><em>“Pretty much all of my lectures were in the forms of Powerpoint slides, and more often than not, we got a copy of the slides beforehand (or afterwards). I&#x27;d see a lot of people never download the slides and instead scramble to write or type all the notes. I personally think that’s a huge waste of time. I would only write key additional points the lecturer organized [during the lecture]. That way, I could focus on understanding during class. My goal would be to understand during class and then memorize details afterwards.</em></blockquote><blockquote><em>During my first years I would then transcribe the slides + notations into cohesive typed notes. But I found this a huge time sink. What I did was teach myself to be able to study off the slides then I&#x27;d use a single piece of paper for each lecture and write down the key phrases and words.”</em></blockquote><p>I agree with both points - if there are slides you should take advantage of them, and only add additional details the professor adds during lectures.</p><p>Another important point from both is <strong>reviewing the slides/lecture and making some cohesive notes after the fact.</strong> I’ll talk a bit more about this in my post about studying, but it’s small things like these that make a big difference long-term in studying and understanding material.</p><h2>Keeping Track of Tasks</h2><p>The last component of organization for me during university was remembering what I had to do, and picking what to work on each day. </p><p>I used a weekly planner<a href="https://www.staples.com/2017-2018-Staples-5-1-2-x-8-1-2-Small-Academic-Weekly-Monthly-Planner-14-Months-Black-23570-17/product_2491955"> kind of like the one linked here</a> to keep track of all my work. I usually bought one every school year at the campus bookstore - it was McGill branded and ran for the school year instead of the calendar year, like many do.</p><p>Every semester I would go through the syllabus and enter the due dates of projects, and add a reminder a week or two beforehand. </p><p>Then, as things were assigned in class, I would write them down on the day they were assigned, and carry them forward until they were done. It was essentially <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kanban_(development)">Kanban</a> (work organization/visualization method), though I didn’t realize it at the time.</p><p>This system was good in a lot of ways - I could easily see at any given time which tasks I had on my plate, and generally I would pick the highest priority and work on it on a given day.</p><p>The downside was at times it could be overwhelming if I had a bunch of projects on the go, as I’d have them all written down on the current day. It was also not kept anywhere else, so if I lost the agenda, or forgot it at home, I was screwed in terms of remembering things.</p><p>These days, I use a combination of <a href="https://calendar.google.com/">Google Calendar</a>, <a href="https://asana.com/">Asana </a>and <a href="https://trello.com/">Trello</a> to keep track of to-dos and tasks...I would still recommend checking those tools out, and using them a little bit, but the agenda was certainly nice and simple for me in university, and I think it still works.</p><h2>Keys to Success</h2><ul><li>Have a system - whether you use mine or not, you should work to get to a standardized system as quickly as possible. You can improve on it and personalize it after.</li><li>Make sure you are diligent about getting and taking notes. Missing lectures/notes sucks if you don’t follow up quickly, because you likely won’t remember to check what you missed when exam time comes.</li><li>Have a method to keep track of tasks - unless your memory is far better than mine, you’ll eventually forget something, and that also sucks. Get used to keeping track of things in one place, and you’ll minimize or eliminate those mistakes.</li></ul><p>Read here about <a href="/blog/making-the-most-of-college"><strong>How to Make the Most of College</strong></a> and here about <strong><a href="/blog/how-to-study-in-college">How to Study in College</a>.</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/inversion</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Inversion is a powerful concept that charts the path to success by looking at the opposite - the things guaranteed to make you fail. Understanding this mental model will help you solve problems throughout life.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you ask 10 people “how to be successful”, odds are you’ll get 10 different answers, depending on the person’s background, profession, education, location, etc.</p><p>Definitions of success are often based on wealth, happiness, or achievement of some kind, but are difficult to measure and navigate towards.</p><p>But what if we flip the question around? What if instead, we ask, “what would make me unsuccessful?”</p><p>It turns out this is a much more useful question, and much easier to answer.</p><h2>What is Inversion?</h2><p>Inversion is a mental model and strategy popularized in modern times by <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charlie_Munger">Charlie Munger, the billionaire investor</a>.</p><p>Inversion involves looking at a problem from the reverse direction, thinking through a problem “backwards.”</p><p>“How to be successful?” becomes “how to I avoid failure?”</p><p>“How to get rich?” becomes “How do I avoid becoming poor?”</p><p>“How do I become happy?” is instead “how do I avoid being unhappy?”</p><p>You can apply this powerful strategy to many domains.</p><h2>Knowledge by Subtraction</h2><blockquote>“In life, antifragility is reached by <em>not</em> being a sucker.” –Nassim Taleb, <em>Antifragile</em></blockquote><p>Taleb notes that it is much harder to know what is right than what is wrong:</p><blockquote>“...we know a lot more what is wrong than what is right, or, phrased according to the fragile/robust classification, negative knowledge (what is wrong, what does not work) is more robust to error than positive knowledge (what is right, what works). So knowledge grows by subtraction much more than by addition…” –Nassim Taleb, <em>Antifragile</em></blockquote><p>How does this apply to inversion? Often we want a particular result–usually a success of some kind–but there are so many possible paths that it’s hard to reach a conclusion.</p><p>It’s much easier to answer the question “what does failure look like?” and then avoid that.</p><h2>Thinking From First Principles</h2><p>Inversion is also powerful because simply reframing the question in the reverse often forces us to think from first principles.</p><blockquote>&quot;When Charlie thinks about things, he starts by inverting. To understand how to be happy in life Charlie will study how to make life miserable; to examine how a business becomes big and strong, Charlie first studies how businesses decline and die; most people care more about how to succeed in the stock market, Charlie is most concerned about why most have failed in the stock market.” —Li Lu, China Entrepreneur Magazine, 2010 (taken from <em>Charlie Munger - The Complete Investor</em> by Tren Griffin)</blockquote><p>Thinking from <a href="https://fs.blog/2018/04/first-principles/">first principles</a> is a topic on its own, but it involves stripping a problem down to the most basic assumptions and then building a hypothesis from there.</p><p>Elon Musk, Charlie Munger, Warren Buffett and Peter Thiel are all well-known first-principle thinkers, and it has allowed them to identify opportunities over and over that others have missed, because others accepted “common knowledge”, and didn’t think from first principles.</p><h2>What Else Can Be Inverted?</h2><p>Just about anything.</p><p>Want to eat healthier? Try reducing the number of unhealthy choices you make.</p><p>Want to work fewer hours? Try reducing distractions that prevent you from working effectively.</p><p>Want to become wealthier? Try reducing the amount you spend.</p><p>Trying to save more? Think about how you could negotiate a raise at work, instead of reducing your spending (see? It works both ways).</p><p>You can invert <a href="/blog/how-to-form-good-habits">when building habits</a> too, by thinking about how to <em>stop</em> doing things you don’t want to do, rather than start doing new things.</p><h2>Invert, Always Invert</h2><p>Next time you are faced with a problem, try the simple tactic of inversion. State the problem in the opposite or negative way.</p><p>You’ll be surprised how powerful this technique can be for reframing problems.</p><blockquote>“Think forwards and backwards - Invert, always invert” –Charlie Munger, Poor Charlie’s Almanack</blockquote><p>Avoiding poor choices is often much easier than making the “right” one.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/mental-models-introduction</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Mental models exist to help us understand how the world works. There are thousands of mental models from many different disciplines. Mastering the most important will make you a powerful thinker.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>An Introduction to Mental Models</h2><p>Mental models are ideas about how something works.</p><p>Supply and demand is a mental model (from economics). But we apply it to many problems, from the demand for stocks to the product choices of your local grocery.</p><p>Mental models exist to help us understand how the world works. There are thousands of mental models from many different disciplines—engineering, economics, finance, psychology—and they apply in many different situations.</p><p>The good news is that some are much more useful than others. </p><p>Once you’ve learned some of them, you can combine them to become even better at solving problems. You learned many of them in school, but not how to apply them elsewhere.</p><p>Mental models are important because they help us understand the world, tackle problems from multiple angles, and counter <a href="/blog/what-is-cognitive-bias">cognitive biases</a>.</p><p>To think clearly, you must become comfortable with a wide range of models and understand how to apply and combine them.</p><h2>Thinking Better with Mental Models</h2><p>Charlie Munger, the billionaire investing partner of Warren Buffet, was one of the first to popularize the term ‘mental models’, and he speaks at length about them in <a href="/book-notes/poor-charlies-almanack-charles-munger">his book <em>Poor Charlie’s Almanack</em>,</a> and in his <a href="http://youtube.com/watch?v=pqzcCfUglws">1995 speech <em>The Psychology of Human Misjudgement</em>.</a></p><p>He attributes much of his own success in avoiding mistakes and thinking clearly by using mental models.</p><h3>Don’t Memorize; Understand</h3><p>He also likes them because they end the need to memorize facts. </p><p>If you instead memorize and understand a variety of models, you can understand the problem in a way that those who memorize facts cannot:</p><blockquote>“You’ve got to have models in your head. And you’ve got to array your experience ‑ both vicarious and direct ‑ on this latticework of models. You may have noticed students who just try to remember and pound back what is remembered. Well, they fail in school and in life. You’ve got to hang experience on a latticework of models in your head.”</blockquote><p>It may seem like a daunting task to be able to understand enough models to be able to apply them to any problem in life. Indeed, there are thousands of potential models to learn.</p><p>But some models that are more applicable than others, and Munger suggests that a small number punch above their weight:</p><blockquote>“...80 or 90 important models will carry about 90% of the freight in making you a worldly‑wise person.”</blockquote><h3>Select a Subset of High-Impact Models</h3><p>The key to selecting these 80 or 90 models is that they cover multiple disciplines. The power in attacking problems comes from the ability to layer models from multiple disciplines on each other. </p><p>This makes your thinking much more powerful than a person who is only familiar with models from a single area:</p><blockquote>“The models have to come from multiple disciplines ‑ because all the wisdom of the world is not to be found in one little academic department. That’s why poetry professors, by and large, are so unwise in a worldly sense. They don’t have enough models in their heads. So you’ve got to have models across a fair array of disciplines.”</blockquote><h3>How to Think Better</h3><p>The key information from Munger on mental models:</p><ul><li>You must <strong><em>understand</em> the fundamental models</strong>, rather than memorize facts,</li><li>You must understand key models from a <strong><em>wide variety</em> of disciplines</strong>,</li><li>When you are attempting to understand a problem, <strong>layer your experience and the facts on this “latticework” of models</strong>; combine models to reach your answer.</li></ul><p>Combining models reduces our human tendency to fit reality to our experience or view, which is what makes it so powerful.</p><blockquote>“Well, the first rule is that you’ve got to have multiple models ‑ because if you just have one or two that you’re using, the nature of human psychology is such that you’ll torture reality so that it fits your models, or at least you’ll think it does.”</blockquote><h3>On the Importance of Mental Models</h3><p>Munger on how important mental models are:</p><blockquote>“When I urge a multidisciplinary approach- that you’ve got to have the main models from a broad array of disciplines and you’ve got to use them all – I’m really asking you to ignore jurisdictional boundaries...It is important that you read outside of your domain if you want to avoid failing based on man with a hammer syndrome.”</blockquote><p>“Man with a hammer syndrome” is Munger’s term for the bias known as <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_the_instrument">“the law of the instrument” or the “law of the hammer”</a>: to the man with a hammer, everything looks like a nail.</p><p>In other words, if you only have one or two tools (in this case mental models), you’ll attempt to solve every problem with them, regardless if they’re appropriate or not.</p><p>The most vivid Mungerism in favor of developing a strong stable of models:</p><blockquote>“Without worldly wisdom, you end up like a one-legged man in an ass-kicking contest.”</blockquote><p>You want to avoid that.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Favourite Photo & Video Products]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[All of my favourite photo and video products in one post, with details about each one, and how I use them.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xt7K7l"><strong>Sony a6300 Mirrorless Camera</strong></a></p><p>I’ll write a full guide on this at some point, but I bought my a6300 in March 2017, and I believe that at the time it was the best value-for-money combination video and photo camera. There are a few cons, but in general, the quality of video and photos that comes out are outstanding. I didn’t think it was worth the extra money to upgrade to the a6500, though you may want to consider it. There are a few niche uses (like vlogging), for which there are probably better options, but if you’re primarily looking at photography, or proper video production, I don’t think there’s a better option than a Sony mirrorless.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2fWQgoz"><strong>Sigma 30mm f1.4 Lens</strong></a></p><p>I’ve used the kit lens that comes with the a6300 (16-50mm), and while flexible, it kinda sucks. I instead opted to buy the body, and then this lens separately. It’s rated as <a href="https://www.dxomark.com/Lenses/Sigma/Sigma-30mm-F14-DC-DN-C-Sony-E-mounted-on-Sony-A6000__942">one of the sharpest APS-C lenses available on DXOMark</a>, and it essentially qualifies as a “<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CdHV7Uzw2E4">nifty 50</a>” given the crop factor for APS-C lenses. I was extremely happy with both the video and photos that this lens produces, and I still use it frequently, despite expanding the lenses in my kit. You can get everything from star photos to landscapes to awesome portraits with this lens.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2ybIAbW"><strong>Sony 10-18mm f4 Lens</strong></a></p><p>I spend a lot of time in cities, and like to think I spend a lot of time in great landscapes. Particularly for architecture/city photography, I think a wide-angle lens is critical, and this is really the only option in the Sony lineup. I’ve been happy since buying it, and it was the second lens I purchased.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2gr90gJ"><strong>Sony 70-200mm f4 Lens</strong></a></p><p>I used the APS-C 55-210mm f3.5-6.3 lens that Sony offers until buying this (my dad happened to have one for his a6000), but it’s hard to compare the two. I debated buying the 70-200mm f2.8, which would have been nice, but it’s expensive, and also extremely heavy, which was ultimately the killer factor for me. I just couldn’t see myself throwing it in my bag when traveling as much. So far I’ve been extremely happy with this lens, and it’s actually a full-frame lens, meaning that when/if I upgrade to a full-frame Sony, I can take this lens along with me.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2ybuPKm"><strong>Polaroid UV Filter (1 per lens)</strong></a></p><p>I put a UV filter on all my lenses by default – it protects the actual lens, and makes it easy to clean without fear of scratching.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yTpfKi"><strong>Zomei ND Filter (1 per lens)</strong></a></p><p>A variable ND filter is a must for video, as it allows you to pick the proper frame rate while adjusting your aperture. It’s also important if you want to be able to have shallow-depth-of-field photos (ie. great portrait shots) in full daylight.</p><p><a href="https://matadorup.com/collections/matador-products/products/camera-base-layer?variant=40846094726"><strong>Matador Camera Bag</strong></a></p><p>I always keep my camera in this thing, and I can be confident throwing it in whatever bag I’m traveling/hiking with.</p><p><a href="https://matadorup.com/collections/matador-products/products/lens-base-layer?variant=16831195590"><strong>Matador Lens Bags</strong></a></p><p>Same goes for lenses – I put them in these and then know I can confidently throw them in whatever bag without much worry.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xtjGpC"><strong>Peak Design Cuff Camera Strap</strong></a></p><p>Peak Design is one of those companies I love because they truly are awesome designers. Just the amount of thought that goes into their products, and the resulting utility, is enough for me to love them. I bought this essentially as a bit of extra protection when walking around taking photos. I don’t actually use it a ton, but I don’t like full camera straps as a general rule, and I can always unclip the strap and wear it on my wrist. I’ll throw it on if I’m walking around a boat, or something similar. Basically situations where I carry my camera on me but don’t have a backpack.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2ycd8dN"><strong>Peak Design Capture Camera Clip</strong></a></p><p>This thing is awesome. You stick it on your backpack strap, and then you can easily clip in/clip out your camera, and have it hang from your strap. Easily the single best accessory for my camera. I’ve gotten used to leaving it on, and throwing my camera on it when I’m walking in the city, or on a hike, and I always get comments from photographers and non-photographers alike on how cool it is, and how it works. Buy it and you will be happy.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2ycaiFG"><strong>AmazonBasics 50&quot; Tripod (Small, cheap)</strong></a></p><p>I’ll be honest, this tripod sucks in terms of stability/build quality/etc., but it’s usable, it weighs virtually nothing, and it’s like $12. Buy one as an early travel tripod and it will be usable. I’ve gotten great photos from it.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zxYuw7"><strong>MeFoto Backpacker Tripod (Small, more expensive)</strong></a></p><p>This one is pending (I haven&#x27;t got it yet), but it was the option I decided was best as a solid travel tripod based on the reviews I read, and what I wanted (as minimal/lightweight as possible while still being solid). Basically I wanted an upgrade from the Amazon one above, but still keep the weight down.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yc2Vhy"><strong>AmazonBasics 60&quot; Tripod (Larger, cheap)</strong></a></p><p>This is better than the 50” above – certainly much more stable, and it has a lot of features, like a bubble level, quick release plate, etc., that make it again a bargain for the money. Buy for your first non-travel tripod. Build quality still leaves something to be desired, as would be expected for the price.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zjKTrp"><strong>Vanguard Alta Pro Tripod (Larger, more expensive)</strong></a></p><p>This one is also pending, but was the consensus favourite among the sturdier, yet still somewhat transportable, tripods I was looking for. This is the tripod I&#x27;ll be keeping at home, and taking with me when I have a car and I&#x27;m not hiking too far.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2gqftIP"><strong>Joby Gorillapod Focus Tripod</strong></a></p><p>This is the favourite accessory of vloggers, and having used it for a while now, I can see why. It’s essentially my travel tripod now when I don’t feel like taking a full travel tripod, and it is super versatile. I have <a href="http://amzn.to/2h6vEP9">the smaller version</a>, but it’s just not as powerful, and I use that instead for my cell phone. The ball head is nice and smooth and worth the extra money, and it makes getting things aligned much easier.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2ziN9Pu"><strong>Ipow Cell Phone Tripod Mount</strong></a></p><p>Buy whatever cell phone mount you like, but look for one with metal screw threads for the tripod mount – I’ve had plastic ones in the past, and they get stripped eventually.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2x6py3W"><strong>Lexar Pro SD Card</strong></a></p><p>I bought another “Pro” card for my Sony before this one, but it didn’t support the highest bitrate video, meaning I couldn’t shoot the highest quality 4K video on my camera. This one will make sure you avoid that problem.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xOxo1P"><strong>Zhiyun Crane</strong></a></p><p>This gimbal is great – it’s much cheaper than others available (DJI Ronin, for example), and it produces awesome results. If you want a starter gimbal for your mirrorless or small DSLR, I’d definitely recommend this. High build quality, and they added some nice little features on version 2.</p><p><strong><a href="http://amzn.to/2xOoPDO">Dual handle + Remote</a> +<a href="http://amzn.to/2xPN09Y"> Tripod</a></strong></p><p>This changed how we use our Crane – it’s obviously way more bulky, but the results you can get with this are amazing. You’ll need a weird cord for the remote depending on your camera, so make sure to order that too. Also make sure to get the tripod so that you can set the whole thing down on the ground without worrying about it tipping over.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxwJp4"><strong>Neewer NW760 Video Monitor</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xOuA4F"><strong>SmallRig Ballhead Arm</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xPZQ8e"><strong>Neewer Carrying Case</strong></a></p><p>If you want to take your Crane setup to the next level, you can add a monitor. Take a look at the SmallHD stuff, but if you’re looking for a cheaper setup, we’ve had great results with the monitor above. Buy the SmallRig mount or a similar one to mount it to the dual handle, and the carrying case for everything related (HDMI cable, etc.), and you’ll also need a mini-HDMI to HDMI. Makes a huge difference for seeing your shot, particularly outside.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yStzNM"><strong>Shure VP83F Lenshopper mic</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zj3OT9"><strong>Windjammer</strong></a></p><p>There’s a new Rode VideoMic Pro+ on the market, which you should probably check out reviews for, but all the research I did led me to the VP83 vs. the old VideoMic Pro. We ultimately decided on the VP83F as it allows us to use it as a standalone boom mic, and also because it gave us the option to monitor sound via headphones, something essential if you’re using a Sony camera that doesn’t have a headphone jack.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zkA9cm"><strong>Ravpower Sony Batteries + Charger</strong></a></p><p>One knock on the Sony cameras is their battery life – buy this pack and then you can throw in a couple extras/charge multiple at once.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxgcBe"><strong>DJI Mavic Pro</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2ziO7LC"><strong>ND Filter (ND8)</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2ziApse"><strong>Complete Case</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xOzaja"><strong>Travel Cases</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zjkrhC"><strong>Tablet Holder</strong></a></p><p>The Mavic Pro is now my go-to drone, mostly because of how portable it is, and how well it flies. The camera definitely suffers in low-light, and doesn’t compare to say, the Phantom 4 Pro, but overall it can produce great results. Make sure to get an ND filter (ND8 if you just buy one), or even better the full ND set and polarizer for the best results.</p><p>I use the complete case to keep things organized at home – when I’m traveling I’ll put things in the travel cases to make them easier to jigsaw into my luggage. I’ll also use the tablet holder at home as it just makes things easier in terms of seeing what you’re shooting.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My First 3 Months at Unito]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Reflections on my first 3 months at Unito, a Montreal-based tech startup—lessons on joining a growing company, product development, and startup culture.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I crossed the three-month threshold at <a href="https://unito.io/">Unito</a> several weeks ago.</p><p>All employees get a 3-month review. It’s a chance for everyone to give feedback after they’ve had some time to work with someone. Benefits kick in after 3 months too, so it’s considered a probation period.</p><p>It’s also a good chance to reflect on decisions and early impressions <a href="/blog/i-have-a-new-job">like those I outlined in this post</a> when I took the job.</p><p>My decision has turned out well, for all the reasons I suspected it would, but there have been some growing pains too. </p><p>In no particular order, here are some of my thoughts after three months at Unito.</p><h2>Team is Everything</h2><p>I can’t stress enough how much a great team makes a difference, and Unito has a great team.</p><p>Our hiring process is thorough, but I think what really separates us is making sure we hire good people. </p><p>The benefits of hiring people good people who are great to work with are difficult to quantify but make a massive difference.</p><p>Day-to-day, people are excited to come to work. We can work remote whenever we like at Unito, but many people don’t. Why? A lot of it has to do with the people at work. If you enjoy spending time with your colleagues, you want to come to work. It’s an opportunity to see friends.</p><p>The same applies outside work. We tend to spend a lot of time together - whether for company-sponsored volleyball, grabbing drinks Friday night, or playing hockey together - because we’re friends. It becomes much easier to work together when you develop that respect and friendship.</p><p>Long-term, I have no doubt that it will translate to a lower turnover rate, which is an underrated cost for the majority of companies, but particularly for startups, who have to move quickly and ramp people up faster than elsewhere. </p><h2>Learning Required</h2><p>I wanted <a href="/blog/i-have-a-new-job">“fast, high-intensity learning and growth”</a> when I decided to take the job, and I haven’t been disappointed.</p><p>There is an overwhelming amount of things to do in a high-growth startup, and your learning limits are restricted only to what you have time for.</p><p>I’ve been learning new products, frameworks, strategies and best practices at a rate I hadn’t reached since <a href="/blog/week-1-techstars-nyc">Techstars NYC</a>.</p><p>At times that can be overwhelming, as any challenging work can be, but it’s rewarding to do your weekly review and realize that you’ve learned a bunch of new things, or look back over a few months and see the progress you’ve made.</p><h2>Decision-Making &amp; Prioritization Become More Important</h2><p>I’ve always been interested in <a href="/blog/patrick-collison-on-decision-making">decision-making and prioritization</a>, and how to improve my own skills in those areas.</p><p>It becomes even more important when you’re working in a large team and high-growth company.</p><p>In the same way that there are an unlimited number of things to learn and areas to contribute, you will be asked to do too many things. Deciding which are important and which can wait becomes a critical skill.</p><p>Making decisions about how to work and structure your week also become more important; if you’re not careful, others may schedule your meetings or set your priorities for you.</p><p>Fighting for time free of meetings is important too - it’s very difficult to get serious work done without a 3- or 4-hour window free of distractions. It’s why I like working on Saturdays - not only are you not going to be disturbed, but you <em>know</em> you aren’t going to be disturbed, and that makes a big difference.</p><h2>Communication May Need Adjustment</h2><p>Spending years working on my own startup projects developed my ability to do independent work, set my own priorities and get things done. That remains valuable.</p><p>However, working independently or in small teams meant that communication processes were unstructured or informal, which was sufficient for our team size.</p><p>In a larger company, my default tends to be execution (the same as before), but in this setting, informal communication doesn’t cut it.</p><p>My work is now often dependent upon others, or vice versa, and other decisions in the company depend upon the outcomes of my work.</p><p>I’m still improving this, but particularly in the early days, it became clear that I wasn’t communicating my own progress and work clearly enough. Team members or stakeholders wouldn’t know the status of a project or why a decision was made, and no one likes feeling left out of the loop, particularly when it may impact other decisions or work they have to do.</p><p>We often talk about communication skills, which seem to get defined as the actual acts of communication - how to present, how to talk to another person one-on-one, how to communicate ideas or thoughts clearly - but we rarely talk about communication <em>requirements</em> for different situations.</p><p>I’m still adapting to those in the larger company, which has been a transition.</p><h2>Working in a Team</h2><p>Team sports taught me a lot growing up, but among the most valuable has to be learning to successfully work in a team.</p><p>Working in a team isn’t just about how to do work with others. It’s about much more, like how to become respected by new teammates, or to adapt to the personalities of others.</p><p>There are a lot of subtleties to being a great teammate, which are too long to list here, but team sports teach you all of them.</p><p>I’m thankful I had the opportunity to learn them through sports, and then refine them in other contexts (Coast Guard, to name one); it’s a skill that has continued to pay dividends.</p><h2>“Culture” is Made of Many Things</h2><p>But, I think the biggest contributor is who you hire. There’s an emphasis on hiring high performers at Unito, of course, but there’s also a conscious effort to hire good people, and avoid assholes.</p><p>Of course we have company values, and processes, and all sorts of other things that affect the culture, but ultimately, it’s the people that drive (or ruin) it. </p><p>The result is friendships that form, and surpass the workplace: camping and hiking trips, going out on Friday nights, organizing Halloween events, personalized birthday gifts (both jokes and serious), and more.</p><p>I don’t know how long it can last; I’ve heard many stories of companies growing so quickly that the hiring standard drops, which results in bad outcomes (look no further than <a href="https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2017/02/zenefits-fires-nearly-half-its-staff">Zenefits</a>).</p><p>Until then, though, the people will continue to drive the culture at Unito, and the many factors that contribute to such a great atmosphere.</p><h2>Needless to Say</h2><p>...I’ve been enjoying it. </p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcboscher">Marc</a> (CEO at Unito) often says that he wants people to do the best work of their lives at Unito, which sounds trite, but the atmosphere and people support that vision.</p><p>I know he and the team work hard to continue making it a reality.</p><p>Continuing to maintain the culture, work environment, and pace at Unito will be a job that goes on forever, but for now, I’m happy to be along for the ride.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars NYC Week 3 - Mentor Madness & Customer Acquisition]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/week-3-techstars-nyc</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Mentor Madness is an interesting time – you repeatedly get questioned, given opinions, and you usually end the week feeling as if you have no idea what you’re doing.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Mentor Madness = Confusion</h2><p>Mentor Madness is an interesting time – you repeatedly get questioned, given opinions, and you usually end the week feeling as if you have no idea what you’re doing.</p><p>After a couple of days, and some organization, however, you can interpret trends that permeate throughout, and focus on the most common threads. And usually they aren’t opinions on what you should do, but rather common questions that continue to surface, and suggest you need to think more about certain aspects of your business.</p><p>For us, there were a few things:</p><ul><li>We needed to figure out how to simplify our explanation of the business, and what our vision looks like. It’s clear for us, but it obviously wasn’t clear for others.</li><li>Many people are interested in why – as two logical thinkers with science backgrounds, we tend to narrate our plans/goals/etc. without providing the underlying motivation, which is important.</li><li>Explanation of our product also needed to be simplified.</li><li>Portions of our differentiation need evidence to be believable, and we need to figure out how to provide it clearly.</li></ul><p>As a result, we did a lot of thinking about these topics throughout the week. We got closer to resolving some more than others, but the biggest progress during the week for me was a result of some of the reading I did, at the suggestion of <a href="https://twitter.com/moiseyuretsky">Moisey Uretsky</a>.</p><p>While I read several of the books, and a couple others that weren’t on his list, the big breakthrough came with reading <a href="http://amzn.to/2lxnksJ">Crossing the Chasm</a>. </p><h2>Customer Acquisition</h2><p>One of our biggest areas of focus (as it is with most startups) is customer acquisition. And, being adamant in staying focused, we picked a couple very specific verticals to target, even though our product is applicable across a variety of industries.</p><p>And, as it turns out, Crossing the Chasm provided the answer to our struggles in thinking about this process, though it wasn’t the focus of the book.</p><p>We had picked a couple verticals, and believed we needed to produce sales materials, schedule demos, etc., when that wasn’t strictly the case.</p><p>We’re an API-based product which does one thing extremely well – optimization. By contrast, most of the industries we are targeting have legacy products that do a ton of things – but often don’t offer any sort of optimization. </p><p>The result, though, is that many people expect to be sold an end-to-end product, which we clearly don’t have to offer, and don’t plan to offer anytime soon.</p><h2>Targeting Visionaries</h2><p>Instead, we realized there is a very specific type of person we needed to find, regardless of industry – the visionary; the type of person who realizes the potential of our ideas and current product, and is willing to help get the product off the ground and implemented. They don’t necessarily reside within a single industry - you find them in many.</p><p>This understanding gave us the freedom to explore more leads, and at the same time, the freedom to turn down pursuing others. We realized that at our stage, we need to focus on closing those who understand our value immediately, and come back later to those who need further educating and convincing.</p><p>But what about the focus we are so adamant about maintaining? We found out how to redefine that focus in a way that didn’t constrain us within an industry. Instead, we took our product roadmap, the result of some work we did in clarifying our final vision, and we now evaluate customer opportunities based on the roadmap. If we stick closely to developing the product towards our eventual goal, we’re happy to service customers in a wide variety of industries. The background of the customer matters much less than their attitude and profile – they must be visionaries, and their problem must fit our product.</p><h2>TL;DR:</h2><ul><li>You must have a clear vision or goal as to what you want your company/product to eventually look like.</li><li>Maintaining focus is key, but sometimes that focus isn’t one industry – rather, especially in early startup stages, it’s a type of customer – the visionary.</li><li>Don’t be afraid to say no or be okay with not pursuing leads that are clearly customers looking for a more complete solution (or those that don’t fit the visionary profile).</li><li>For more details on both points, read <a href="http://amzn.to/2lxnksJ">Crossing the Chasm</a>.</li><li>Being realistic about your startup stage is extremely important. Acknowledge that you don’t yet have the necessary evidence for well-defined sales materials.</li></ul><p><a href="/blog/week-2-techstars-nyc">Read about Week 2 here</a> and about <a href="/blog/week-4-techstars-nyc">next week (Week 4) here.</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars NYC Week 6 - Persistence & Early Customers]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/week-6-techstars-nyc</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[If Week 5 was the hangover, Week 6 was the reboot. Most companies started to really hit their stride, and see the results of all the hard work in the first half of the program.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Persistence Pays Off</h2><p>If Week 5 was the hangover, Week 6 was the reboot. Most companies started to really hit their stride, and see the results of all the hard work in the first half of the program.</p><p>The persistence in business development, R&amp;D, growth efforts finally started showing themselves for most companies, and really drove home what an investment it takes for long-term efforts to pay off.</p><p>Whether pursuing specific business opportunities, or reaching large product milestones, the focus required on a specific topic for a long time, especially with a cohort filled with mostly high-tech and enterprise-oriented companies, is longer than you think. </p><h2>Does Cold Work Anymore?</h2><p>This was a question we struggled with this week, and we still don’t know the answer, but much of the feedback we got was no. The consensus was that in a modern world, true cold sales doesn’t work, particularly for early-stage startups. At worst, you’ll be yelled at, and at best, people won’t know who you are or what you’re talking about.</p><p>Building credibility and trust, as we talked about during Week 4, is important in enterprise, and the modern sales world. People expect to receive value first, which is a shift. As a result, you should determine how you’re going to provide that value and earn that trust – speaking at conferences, building content on your website and through other media attention, writing for industry publications, are all possible, but take some investment and time to pay off.</p><h2>So How Do You Find Early Customers?</h2><p>Referrals. You must figure out a way to get customer 1, and then you need to leverage that into customer 2, and then you need to keep going, earning warm referrals from those customers and others, until you’ve established yourself.</p><p>The exception? We’ve seen some success in building relationships, or getting in the door, by asking for feedback and advice. Taking a customer research approach allows you to have the same style of call you would need for qualification anyway, but prospects are much less on guard than if you try to sell directly.</p><h2>Make Your Vision Big</h2><p>We had some awesome speakers this week – <a href="https://twitter.com/hunterwalk">Hunter Walk</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/scottbelsky">Scott Belsky</a>, and <a href="https://twitter.com/davetisch">David Tisch</a> – and while all are different personalities with various backgrounds, they’ve all been extremely successful, and had some common advice.</p><p>The first was to make sure you convey the big vision up front – you need to get people interested, and to do that you need to convey the opportunity in an extremely simple way. </p><p>Some keys to this:</p><ul><li>Talk about the opportunity size, but limit yourself to one number.</li><li>Don’t talk about features.</li><li>Talk about what this product lets someone do (jobs-to-be-done) or how it benefits them.</li><li>Mention some credibility, or why you’re building it.</li><li>Your elevator pitch should only need to be a few sentences, and the goal should be to clearly convey what you’re doing and want them to ask you more questions.</li></ul><p>Read about <a href="/blog/week-7-techstars-nyc">Week 7 here</a>, or <a href="/blog/week-5-techstars-nyc">last week (Week 5) here.</a></p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[What is Confirmation Bias?]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/what-is-confirmation-bias</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Confirmation bias affects us all, every day. Do you know where it occurs in your own life? Do you know how to reduce the effects? This post will teach you to identify and counter confirmation bias throughout your life.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Confirmation bias is our tendency to search for evidence that supports our opinions and beliefs.</p><p>It is one of the most insidious cognitive biases that exist in our daily lives. As <a href="/book-notes/the-art-of-thinking-clearly-rolf-dobelli">Rolf Dobelli wrote</a>, </p><blockquote>“confirmation bias is the mother of all misconceptions.”</blockquote><p>It is why two people can interpret ‘facts’ and come away with very different conclusions.</p><p>It is central to modern conflicts like identity politics, where groups of people tend to discount conflicting information without consideration.</p><p>Confirmation bias is a great danger; when we fall victim to it, we make large errors in judgment, and slow our learning.</p><p>It causes much of our societal inertia. It is particularly prevalent when evidence is complex or difficult to verify—areas like emotion and ideology.</p><p>We can&#x27;t end confirmation bias; instead, we must get better at identifying situations where we are likely to fall victim, and plan accordingly.</p><h2>The Purpose of Confirmation Bias</h2><p>We can&#x27;t live by weighing all evidence that comes our way against our old beliefs. It requires too much mental energy.</p><p>Our brain prefers to take shortcuts, so we dismiss information that conflicts with our beliefs. This saves us time and effort and allows us to make decisions fast.</p><p>Most of the time, this saves us headaches and extra thinking. </p><p>It was a useful skill when the main decisions we made were about survival; we only needed to learn a few important rules (run from bears, etc.), and we would be okay.</p><p>But in the modern world, it can cause us to make grave mistakes in judgment.</p><h2>Where Does Confirmation Bias Occur?</h2><p>In short: everywhere.</p><p>From <a href="/book-notes/the-art-of-thinking-clearly-rolf-dobelli"><em>The Art of Thinking Clearly</em></a>:</p><blockquote>“Whether you go through life believing that “people are inherently good” or “people are inherently bad,” you will find daily proof to support your case.”</blockquote><p>In business:</p><blockquote>“An executive team decides on a new strategy. The team celebrates any sign that the strategy is a success. Everywhere the executives look, they see plenty of confirming evidence, while indications to the contrary remain unseen or are quickly dismissed as “exceptions” or “special cases.” They have become blind to disconfirming evidence.”</blockquote><p>Business and self-help books often fall victim to confirmation bias. </p><p>Citing factors for success, they mislead us to believe they have unlocked a secret. </p><p>The reality is that many more factors may have played a role. The mixup of correlation and causation often happens due to confirmation bias. We believe something to be true, and have a hard time evaluating the evidence, particularly in hindsight.</p><p>Confirmation bias plays a role in relationships too. If you believe your partner is amazing, you’ll focus on the qualities that reinforce that belief, and be happier as a result. </p><p>But, if you believe the opposite, you will focus on their negative qualities, and be right, though much unhappier.</p><p>Confirmation bias exists throughout our lives.</p><h2>Reducing Confirmation Bias</h2><p>Understanding confirmation bias is the first step in reducing it.</p><p>Recognizing situations where you are a victim of confirmation bias is next. This part isn’t too difficult; assume always.</p><p>The tough part is to identify situations where confirmation bias is likely to have a detrimental effect. </p><p>In business, hiring is a prime example. First impressions can be misleading and we tend to form opinions fast, based on factors that we don’t understand (see &#x27;<a href="/book-notes/thinking-fast-and-slow-daniel-kahneman">the halo effect</a>&#x27;).</p><p>To reduce the impact on hiring, you can do things like:</p><ul><li>screening resumes without names or pictures, </li><li>developing clear scoring matrices before interviews, and </li><li>scoring as the interview progresses (instead of at the end).</li><li>These steps add opacity to the outcome and reduce the effect of confirmation bias.</li></ul><p>In other words, you are reducing your ability to influence the outcome based on other factors (appearance, general &#x27;feel&#x27;, etc.).</p><p>Most of all, the key to reducing the impact of confirmation bias is to seek to be wrong:</p><p>“To fight against the confirmation bias, try writing down your beliefs—whether in terms of worldview, investments, marriage, health care, diet, career strategies—and set out to find disconfirming evidence.” - <a href="/book-notes/the-art-of-thinking-clearly-rolf-dobelli">The Art of Thinking Clearly</a></p><p>If you believe a candidate is a good manager of others, try to find counter-examples. Can you find an employee at a previous job who wasn’t happy with this manager?</p><p>You can apply the same process to important opinions in your own life. What are your main beliefs? Can you find evidence that contradicts them? Why should or shouldn’t this change your belief?</p><h2>Confirmation Bias Key Takeaways</h2><p>Confirmation bias is one of the most prevalent errors in our thinking and judgment. </p><p>Remember the following key points to reduce the negative impact confirmation bias has on your life:</p><ul><li>Confirmation bias is our tendency to ignore contradictory evidence and emphasize information that matches our beliefs.</li><li>It exists in every aspect of our life, all the time. We do it to save ourselves mental energy and make decisions faster.</li></ul><p>To counter confirmation bias, you must:</p><ul><li>Recognize situations where it may have a significant negative impact,</li><li>Use processes to reduce your visibility of the outcome (add opacity),</li><li>Seek to disconfirm your beliefs in situations where you need a good decision.</li></ul><blockquote>“What the human being is best at doing is interpreting all new information so that their prior conclusions remain intact.” - <a href="https://fs.blog/2017/05/confirmation-bias/">Warren Buffett</a></blockquote><p>Beware.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Making the Most of College]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/making-the-most-of-college</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This fall, my two brothers are both applying to college (used interchangeably with university throughout). Both are in different situations, and separated by three years; they’re likely going to have very different experiences. But the fact that both are going to be heading off to university for at least the next four years prompted me to reflect on my time at university, and what I’d do differently if I had to do it again.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Background</h2><p>This fall, my two brothers are both applying to college (used interchangeably with university throughout). Both are in different situations, and separated by three years; they’re likely going to have very different experiences. But the fact that both are going to be heading off to university for at least the next four years prompted me to reflect on my time at university, and what I’d do differently if I had to do it again.</p><p>The caveat with this reflection is that I know now where I wanted to go after college – into entrepreneurship – and I didn’t at the time. That said, I think most of what I would change could be applied to almost all degrees, and without knowing what one wants to do after. In fact, I think that doing these things will actually help reveal what it is you’d like to do.</p><p>I’m going to ruin the rest of the article by giving away what I believe is the secret to making the most of college: <strong>maximizing learning OUTSIDE the classroom</strong>.</p><p>I was a scholarship student during my time at McGill, and the only contingency on retaining that scholarship was maintaining a minimum GPA. I still believe evaluating students on GPA alone is a huge mistake because it pushed me, and many other scholarship students, to focus entirely on grades. My selection for the scholarship was a result of being involved in many different activities in high school, in addition to achieving academically.</p><h2>8 Rules to Maximize College</h2><h4><strong>1. Don’t rush; in fact, do the opposite – consciously slow down.</strong></h4><p>The transition to university life is a big change, and just how big often depends where you go and what you study. If you’re changing primary subjects, going from a small town to a big city, etc., it’s going to be an even larger adjustment.</p><p>When I went to McGill, I sat down with my advisor in the first week trying to figure out how to finish my engineering degree in 3 years. Possible, perhaps, but I would have been miserable. I did my degree in 4 years, and would have made it 5 and tried to do some summer courses if I was doing it again.</p><p>Your life will be changing enough in first year that adding more academic stress than necessary is not beneficial. I spent so much time on my academic studies that I wasn’t involved with nearly as many extracurriculars as deeply as I would have liked.</p><p>Specifically, <em>I wouldn’t take more than four courses per semester</em>. Plan your whole degree in your first semester – this will be invaluable in future to make sure you don’t miss courses, or get stuck doing an extra semester (this happened to several of my friends). Do a course review once per year with an academic advisor, and make sure there’s a record of those reviews. You don&#x27;t need to stick to the exact plan you set out initially, but it makes adjustment much easier in later years.</p><p>And don’t stress about taking your time. More of your friends will end up doing it than you think, and even if they don’t, you’ll have more fun, and learn a lot more, by taking your time. There are so many opportunities in college that aren’t available in any other setting in life, and you’ll need time to take advantage of them.</p><h4><strong>2. So what should you do with your free time? Get involved in extracurriculars.</strong></h4><p>Now, what do I mean when I say extracurriculars? In this case, I mean all those clubs (each college and university has hundreds) that get advertised during frosh week and the first week of school.</p><p>However, in this case, I’m talking <em>specifically about clubs related to your field of study</em>. That is, if you’re doing engineering, you should be involved with a club that’s building something. In my case, I was involved to a small degree with the team that built what were essentially dune buggies to race against other schools (<a href="http://students.sae.org/cds/bajasae/">SAE Baja</a>). <a href="http://www.sae.org/">SAE</a> (initially established as the Society of Automotive Engineers) administers many design competitions <a href="http://students.sae.org/cds/">you can find here</a> that include designing and building off-road vehicles, electric snowmobiles and race cars, to name a few. There are university design competitions for <a href="http://spaceportamericacup.com/">suborbital rockets</a>, <a href="http://sailbot.org/">robotic sailboats</a>, <a href="http://internationalsubmarineraces.org/">submarines</a>, <a href="https://unmannedsystems.ca/?event=unmanned-systems-canada-2016-student-competition">unmanned aircraft</a> and many, many more.</p><p>There will be lots of options at your school – just ask your faculty advisor or student association to point you in the right direction if you can’t find information. And start a team yourself if they don’t have the one you want!</p><p>There are a couple reasons I suggest getting involved with one or more of these groups. The first, and I believe most important, is to remind you of the reason you went into that field of study in the first place. In my case, I loved building things growing up, and wanted to learn to build more complicated things. But, as it turns out, my undergrad was mostly theoretical. Most of what I built was on paper. These clubs will remind you of why you enjoy the subject and keep you motivated in your studies.</p><p>The second reason is that you get to apply what you’re learning in practice. I guarantee you will be more prepared for life after college if you actively participate in design teams or similar groups. Not only will you have a deeper understanding in class, but you’ll have a greater appreciation for what you’re learning, and insight into what work may be like post-university.</p><p>Maybe you won’t enjoy the club at all! But that’s okay, because you can leave, and then at least you’ll know early that maybe you should switch subjects, or you need to find a new niche, because that job or area of study isn’t what you thought and you don’t like it. Either way, you’re going to be more knowledgeable.</p><p>The other benefit of groups like this is that if you find a club that you really enjoy, most of the other people involved are also going to also really enjoy that activity, and you’ll likely have lots in common. The friendships formed in these clubs can be some of the most powerful and rewarding in college.</p><h4><strong>3. Get involved in extracurriculars.</strong></h4><p>That&#x27;s not a mistake, but this time I&#x27;m talking about a different type of extracurriculars. This time I’m going to recommend getting involved in something that isn’t necessarily related to your subject at all, but is something you enjoy. If you’re wondering what that is, just think “what did I do for leisure in high school?” and I’m sure there will be a club for it. If not, start one!</p><p>In my case, it was intramural sports. If you play varsity sports, that fulfills this goal too. Either way, the aim here is to distract you from your studies. For me, playing sports occupies my mind completely, and I don’t have the head space for anything else.</p><p>Whether it’s sports, chess, playing Quidditch (<a href="https://www.usquidditch.org/events/special/world-cup/">yes that exists</a>), or whatever else you’re into, get involved in something unrelated to your studies. As with extracurriculars related to your field of study, you’ll likely share other common interests with people who are just as excited about your activity, and it’s a great way to make other friends.</p><h4><strong>4. Get involved outside school.</strong></h4><p>The relevance of this may depend where you go to school. If you go to school in a university town of 3000 permanent residents, there may be fewer options to get involved outside your class. That being said, I know lots of students in university towns who found extremely interesting ways to get involved in the larger community.</p><p>Where I went to school (in Montreal), there are thriving communities of professionals and enthusiasts for just about everything you can imagine. Often they get together each month, or even more frequently, and this is a great way to connect with potential mentors, build your network, and get a fast track into life after college.</p><p><a href="https://www.meetup.com/">Meetups</a> is a great place to start.</p><p>Getting outside the school “bubble” that often exists is liberating, and will give you a much broader perspective, particularly if you connect with people who have passed through college. Many of them will have advice about their experiences, just like I do, which is specific to your domain or interests, and often post-college job opportunities come from these connections.</p><h4><strong>5. Read – and not your textbooks.</strong></h4><p>I mean, you should probably read your textbooks too. But I’ve learned at least as much since graduating from non-academic textbooks as I did during my degree. And in general, it’s way more interesting.</p><p>Those Top 10 lists of books that every entrepreneur/economist/fill-in-the-blank should read are a good place to start. There’s a reason that many books will pop up frequently on those lists – they’re good!</p><p>Often, these can give you some perspective as well. Getting bored with your engineering work? Read <a href="http://amzn.to/2gGXYSe">about Elon Musk and how he’s changing the world</a>. Think your life sucks? Read <a href="http://amzn.to/2gGETka">Siddhartha</a> and remember to value the simple things.</p><p>It’s easy to get caught up in day-to-day stresses when in university. Reading things other than textbooks is a great way to put those in their place.</p><h4><strong>6. Do well enough.</strong></h4><p>Two of my best friends throughout university subscribed to the “C’s get degree’s” (or, sometimes, D’s get degrees) mantra. While I didn’t agree, I certainly think there’s a balance to be struck.</p><p>I mentioned earlier that my scholarship in school stipulated I maintain a particular GPA. Supposedly, this represented the top 10% of the school. Based on the statistics I’ve seen, it was much higher than that, but regardless of what segment it represented, it was, in my opinion, much too high.</p><p>If I went back to first year, I’d push hard to renegotiate that term, and instead put in place a lower GPA and an interview, or similar process, to renew the scholarship, so I could show how I was contributing or learning in other ways.</p><p>Assuming you don’t have restrictions on what you need to achieve for a GPA, I&#x27;ll try to give you some. In general, in life after college, people won’t care whether you have a 3.3 or a 3.9, and in many cases, they won’t care what your grades are at all – your degree is what people look at.</p><p>Now, I don’t advocate aiming for the minimum pass grade. High achievements in academics are important for certain things, like if you want to continue in academics, or for certain placements in professional schools. But, in general, I believe your time will be much better spent getting deeply involved in extracurriculars, networking, and building experience, rather than spending hours of extra time in the library. In my opinion, anything above 3.3/4.0 is great, and will not restrict you in any way 90% of the time, provided you use the time to fill out your experiences (read “resume” if you like).</p><h4><strong>7. Take computer science classes.</strong></h4><p>This one is <em>applicable to every person in every faculty</em>, and I’d recommend taking at least 2 (I&#x27;d get a minor if possible).</p><p>Going into my degree, I had no experience with computer science whatsoever. I was definitely nerdy, and involved with technology more than most of my peers, but the concept of programming, coding, or anything related was pretty foreign.</p><p>I won’t tell you it’s necessary to know how to code well, as some people advocate. I don’t know how to code well. But I wish I knew how to better read code, and occasionally write it, and it’s high on the list of things I’d like to learn.</p><p>The reason I recommend this is that most fields – finance, marketing, economics, engineering, math – now require coding at some level or another, or at least give a significant advantage to those who have knowledge of the domain. Getting through a few computer science courses in your undergrad degree will pay dividends later. The best option? Find yourself a friend who actually studies computer science first, so they can save you a lot of troubleshooting time.</p><h4><strong>8. Go on exchange. Multiple times if possible.</strong></h4><p>This is actually something I didn’t do, so take it with a grain of salt. That said, I had plenty of friends who went on exchange, and it was a key part of university for all of them. Going on exchange is an opportunity that won’t happen again; when else do you get to travel to a great place and immediately have a great group of friends (usually the other exchange students)? Or an excuse to travel and explore?</p><p>My logic for not going on exchange was based on this: I went to the information meeting, it looked like I would have to take an extra semester because the courses wouldn’t correspond, and it seemed like a bit of a hassle anyway.</p><p>That’s all bullshit. Most people I’ve talked to get lenience when they finished their courses (they got credit), and if they didn’t, they just took an extra semester – no big deal. The hassle is relatively small; take some photos of your room and sublet it. Do it for half the normal rent if need be and then beg your parents for some money to make up the difference, or take out a student loan. Whatever the obstacle preventing you from going, it’s not as big a deal as you think it is, and the exchange is going to be worth it.</p><p>I had one friend who went on exchange in Singapore, only to spend a full month of that learning to windsurf in Thailand! I had others go to the UK, France, Australia, and Asia, and all loved their experience. You don’t want to miss out on this.</p><p>As I’ve said, <strong>to make the most of university, you need to learn more outside of the classroom</strong>. Take your time, and enjoy yourself!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Founder Institute Experience]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Thinking about joining the Founder Institute in your city? This post goes into detail about my experience, and whether I would recommend it.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><strong>Founder Institute Experience</strong></h2><p>I think the first time I went to a Founder Institute (FI) information session was in the spring of 2014. I had just started a company with a friend from McGill, and we had gotten as far as competing in a couple of pitch competitions and creating a business plan. Founder Institute sounded interesting, but, to be honest, it wasn’t going to fit my schedule. I’d already made plans to go back home for the summer and work with the Coast Guard for the fourth summer in a row. But, my cofounder applied, and I helped him a bit with the application process. He didn’t get in.</p><p>That was about the last I had heard of it, until the fall came around, when I had made the decision not to attend graduate school, and instead pursue the venture we had started in January. I was back in Montreal, and attending just about every networking event I could, one of which was a Founder Institute informal drinks meetup, where there would be some previous founders and the program directors.</p><p>I decided to apply, and got my application in nice and early, including the optional short video.</p><p>Fast forward a couple months, and I’d also applied to <a href="https://www.thenext36.ca/">The Next 36</a>, a summer entrepreneurial program in Toronto targeted specifically at undergraduates. I’d been selected to attend Selection Weekend, for the second time (I wasn’t selected the first year). I spent quite a bit of time during December and January networking with others going to Selection Weekend. Sometime in mid-January, I received notification that I’d been accepted to Founder Institute. It was nice, but I didn’t think much about it at the time.</p><p>Well, the outcome of Selection Weekend for The Next 36 (at the end of January) was about the same as the year before – a great weekend, and great people - but I wasn’t one of the ones selected. So Founder Institute it was.</p><p>Until that point, I hadn’t really researched Founder Institute a whole lot – I did this during the few weeks leading up to the program start instead, and I began to be more and more intrigued. The program is targeted at professionals who have work experience; it now has chapters in over 40 cities worldwide; the attrition rate is around 60-80%. As we got closer to the start date, it was revealed that this cohort of the Founder Institute had received the most applications of any cohort, worldwide, ever. Things were getting interesting.</p><p>After being read the riot act by the program’s director, Sergio Escobar, on the first night, I wrote down my goals for the program, as I do with most things, professionally or personally.</p><p>They were as follows:</p><ul><li>impress mentors with work ethic</li><li>be one of few to make it through program</li><li>establish relationship with some top entrepreneurs</li><li>gain network that could lead to jobs with their startups or others</li><li>jump start new business</li><li>gain network of potential co-founders</li></ul><p>All pretty reasonable I think. I thought that this would be a quick jump into the entrepreneurial scene in Montreal, and perhaps address one of the biggest problems I was facing as a young, new, entrepreneur – finding good cofounders. I was also seeking some structure, after spending four or five months living in Montreal making completely my own schedule, and doing the things I thought best to move the company forward, without any real experience.</p><p>As it turns out, the Founder Institute was all that and more, and if I sat down now to consider the goals I should have set at the beginning of the program, they would be much different. More on that later.</p><h3><strong>Failure</strong></h3><p>My first few business ventures, have been, without a doubt, failures. I was going to say ‘complete failure’, but if that’s the view you have on any failure, then it actually was a waste of time – mine certainly haven’t been.</p><p>The attrition rate for Founder Institute is usually mentioned at being somewhere around 60-80%. I know for our cohort, we started with over 50, and we are now down to 14. So it’s not an exaggeration.</p><p>So why do so many people fail to reach the end of the program?</p><p>The first reason: it’s hard.</p><p>Some assignments seem initially impossible, unreasonable, foolish even. A large number of dropouts will rationalize dropping out because of them, saying things like “well, this isn’t the best thing for my business right now”, or “I should be spending my time on other aspects of the business”. The analogous situation for me growing up was the guy on every sports team I ever played on that always seemed to have an injury – he couldn’t play that day because of a hip flexor, the next because of a knee tweak, and he didn’t want to make it worse; you really knew that he was just looking for a rationalization not to face something tough.</p><p>The solution: find a way to get things done, no matter what, and be conscious of rationalizing your decision to get out.</p><p>The second reason: life gets in the way.</p><p>I hated to see some of the founders in this cohort drop out. They were great people, with great ideas and the skills to execute them. I probably would have invested in their company (if I had the money, or the time to follow up). But the Founder Institute is not a part-time commitment. I think they bill it as a 30-hour-per-week commitment; that’s just not true. If you have a full-time job, expect to work less on that than on your Founder Institute work. If you have kids, prepare and plan to schedule time with them, likewise for a spouse or girlfriend.</p><p>Out of 14 founders about to graduate the program, only a few still have full-time jobs, and of those, I don’t think any have a family, and most, as far as I know, are single.</p><p>Solution: if you want to finish Founder Institute, you had better be ready to commit full-time to your company, and the program, before the end. The old “quick, cheap, fast: pick two” cliché could be applied here in a new form: “FI, family/social life, full-time job: pick two”.</p><p>The third reason: your idea isn’t good.</p><p>This is probably the most difficult obstacle to overcome. In theory, you should be able to figure this out in the first few weeks – the program is set up so that you actually start with three ideas, and through talking to potential customers you figure out which one is interesting. But what happens if none of them are interesting? Then you’re behind. And you have to come up with new ideas, and complete the customer validation again, and still keep up with the assignments, and then re-do the assignments once you find a new idea, and then finish the special assignment you got because you’re behind, and…you get the point. Once you get behind in the program, it’s a struggle to get back in front. The upside of this happening? You’ll be able to re-enroll in the program next time, and until then, you’ll have a ton of time to think up new ideas, and test them.</p><p>Solution: spend time prior to the Founder Institute coming up with ideas, and research customer development methods to try and get some feedback. Ask for a coffee with the directors to chat about ideas – usually their intuition for idea quality is valuable.</p><h2><strong>Completing Founder Institute</strong></h2><p>So why do I think I was successful in completing the program (bar an improbable exit in the next two weeks)?</p><p>Most of it has to do with the few points on why people failed.</p><p>First of all, I have a chronic fear of being someone who leaves things unfinished; it’s probably unhealthy actually. I’m still hoping to finish, this summer, the remote-control sailboat I started building 7 years ago. But it is going to be the best damn remote control boat around; and the best part – next time I build one it will only take me a tenth of the time, and probably a tenth of the money too.</p><p>The result of this fear is that I will do whatever it takes to finish something that I’ve started and committed time to. I also have a competitive streak, so when they told us the first night that 60-80% of people drop out, I took that as a challenge. The combination meant that I never saw an assignment as impossible, and I found a way to get everything done. Sometimes entrepreneurship is about finding a more clever way of doing things – cynics would perhaps sometimes call this cheating – but finding a way to get things done is what entrepreneurship is all about.</p><p>Second, I didn’t let life get in the way. Going into the Founder Institute I put all my focus on completing the program. I ended the previous startup I was working on. I traveled home and then didn’t plan any significant trips in the near future. I sorted out my living situation for the next few months, and I accepted the fact that I might not see my friends as much.</p><p>Now, I’m in a pretty fortunate situation to not have any commitments that can’t be shoved aside – good friends, and soon-to-be-graduates in the Founder Institute have wives and/or multiple children – you can’t just sit them down one day and say “right, well, I’ll be back in four months”. But they’ve still had chats with their partners and kids about what they are undertaking and why, and have their support. They make a conscious effort to schedule time to spend with them, and I do the same with my family and friends. But you have to be ready for that.</p><p>Third, I spent a lot of time prior to FI coming up with, and evaluating, ideas. I’d like to think my nose for good ideas is getting better – I don’t think I’ve experienced a steeper learning curve than the past 10 months, part of which is related to idea evaluation – and I managed to come up with some good ideas before heading into Founder Institute.</p><p>How do you get good ideas? That’s a topic for another post, but quickly, my guidelines would be try and stick within your areas of interest or passion, think about emerging markets, and most of all, get outside input. I sat down multiple times with friends, other entrepreneurs and family to brainstorm and evaluate ideas.</p><h2><strong>Founder Institute Benefits</strong></h2><p>Now that I’m at the end of the program, I can reflect a bit about what the program gave me, and whether or not my goals at the beginning of the program made sense.</p><p>Some did: there is no doubt that the program gives you relationships with top entrepreneurs, a great network in which you could definitely find a startup job, and a network of potential cofounders, as well as the places to find them.</p><p>But it also gives you so much more. Instead of just relationships with top entrepreneurs, I now have relationships with top entrepreneurs, venture capitalists, angels, bankers and lawyers from the top firms in Montreal, and further, even Silicon Valley. If I don’t, I probably know someone who does.</p><p>I no longer want a startup job – I believe it’s totally possible to build my own company. If I did take a startup job, it would be because I believed very strongly in the company or product, and I’d want to play an important role.</p><p>The value of the network of like-minded individuals and entrepreneurs is huge. I can’t overstate how important it is to surround yourself with great peers, and that’s become so much more evident over the past four months. The days when you feel overwhelmed, someone else just closed a sale, or added a new hotshot mentor, or released a beautiful product revamp, and all of a sudden, your motivation is back and you figure things out. And vice versa. And at the end of those brutal days, you can all go get a beer, or a whiskey, or maybe a few tequila shots if it was a really bad day, and laugh about all the dumb things you’ve all done so far, and once the hangover goes away, you’ll feel much better.</p><p>Perhaps the biggest benefit of the program, however, is raised expectations. Personally, professionally, from your peers – everything is higher. I’m no longer thinking about whether building a successful company is possible – I wonder whether we can build it to a hundred million or a billion. I wonder if we are going to raise a million or more for our seed round. I wonder about which person in the cohort is going to be the first to get acquired, or go public.</p><p><strong>And even if we don’t manage to raise a million dollars, or we do fail, I know that one day I will reach those milestones. After all, if the Founder Institute taught me anything, it’s that persistence, above all else, will create success.</strong></p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 6 - Hangover]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Lessons from Week 6 at Techstars Boston, with some great Founder Stories, learning about behavioural interviewing and exploring cofounder conflict.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week at Techstars finally marked the end of Mentor Madness (hence the Mentor Madness hangover), and it was a relief for many teams. I don&#x27;t think I&#x27;ve seen the office quieter, or more productive, than Monday, the first day without scheduled mentor meetings. That said, teams continue to meet with mentors they liked, some often for their fourth or fifth meetings. The Founder Stories and Workshops this week provided some brilliant content, which you can read about below.</p><h2>Techstars Sponsor Visits</h2><p>Though the formal Mentor Madness period ended, sponsors began sending their startup teams, and the personnel on these teams also fit the mentor role. Many have backgrounds in either starting companies or funding them via venture capital, and their experience shows.</p><p>While sometimes visiting with sponsors is optional, I&#x27;ve personally seen it be extremely valuable for more than one team over the past several weeks, and I would recommend <strong>always visiting with sponsors if given the chance.</strong></p><p>The reason: some will be non-technical while others will be technical, meaning you can send different people, and typically only one or two sponsors visit at a time, meaning that you will likely only have half an hour of your day occupied. Based on the opportunities and connections many can offer (think customer introductions, hugely valuable perks, investor introductions), the <strong>potential for return is high</strong> for the time committed.</p><h2>Founder Stories</h2><p>This week, in addition to the usual Founder Stories from within Techstars, we had a special guest courtesy of a sponsor, from a local startup.</p><p>While the industry wasn&#x27;t one I was generally familiar with, there were some great takeaways:</p><ul><li>As a founder, you have to <strong>make progress every day.</strong></li><li>Raising a seed round is based on any one of three things: <strong>product, team and traction</strong>.</li><li>Traction has a wide scope - things like customer interviews count.</li><li>Seed fundraising mistakes: talking to big VC firms.</li><li>Instead, talk to large angels.</li><li>To get your valuation for your seed round, <strong>talk to people</strong> who have done similar size seed rounds recently.</li><li>Getting investment from people you actually like should be a high priority - if investor meetings go badly, think about whether it&#x27;s because of the person.</li><li><strong>Set personal meetings (like lunch) with investors</strong> to first check the fit, and make that one of the early interactions before you approach fundraising with that person.</li></ul><p>Our own Founder Stories tend to be more personal, and this week was no exception. We had two very different perspectives and styles of stories, so I&#x27;ve broken the lessons from each in two:</p><p>From the first:</p><ul><li><strong>Most obstacles just really aren&#x27;t that big;</strong> whether it&#x27;s moving countries, changing locations because of someone you love, or someone you&#x27;ve lost, it&#x27;s all possible.</li><li>The corollary to the above is that <strong>most obstacles we see are self-imposed</strong>. The barrier to accomplishing something is often within ourselves and the perceived obstacles, rather than reality.</li><li>Businesses that are a result of your past, and/or tied strongly to your own life, are often the most powerful.</li><li>The corollary here is that when telling the story of your business, <strong>it is much easier to make an emotional connection when the story is your own.</strong></li><li><strong>Your story can be a recruiting tool</strong>. If you&#x27;ve experienced it, others likely have to; <strong>who are these people and how do you find them?</strong></li></ul><p>From the second:</p><ul><li>Switching study or career paths isn&#x27;t something you should be afraid of.</li><li>When thinking about which areas interest you, <strong>consider your interests outside of formal study</strong> - how can they be tied to formal studies or careers?</li><li>Getting funded by your parents, living at home, and doing whatever you can to make your business succeed,<strong> is okay</strong> (personally, this resonated a lot for me).</li><li><strong>Great products take a long time to develop.</strong></li><li>The path to product/market fit is often a long one.</li><li>Cofounder relationships are precious, and like real relationships, can be ugly when they finish; <strong>make sure to think and proceed carefully when considering who you found with.</strong></li></ul><h2>Workshops</h2><h3>Behavioral Interviewing</h3><p>This workshop forever changed the way I will conduct hiring.</p><p>The highlights:</p><ul><li>Gut instinct is only good for those who you shouldn&#x27;t hire.</li><li>The <strong>best predictor for success is previous behavior</strong>, NOT previous experience.</li><li>&quot;The average hard &amp; productivity <strong>costs of a bad hire is 15x base salary</strong>&quot; - Who, Geoff Smart &amp; Randy Street</li><li>You need a scorecard for hiring based on three things: <strong>behaviors, competencies, and outcomes</strong>. Hire for what you want the person to accomplish in <strong>THIS job, at THIS time.</strong></li><li>For behaviors, always ask &quot;Tell me about a time in your career when you _____&quot;.</li><li>Six behavioral essentials: <strong>grit, rigor, impact, teamwork, ownership, curiosity, polish.</strong></li><li>Competencies: technical, cultural.</li><li>Outcomes: 3-8 specific examples of what a person must get done.</li><li><strong>CEOs: you are full-time recruiters.</strong> You should always be asking other people who they think is talented, and start relationships with these people.</li><li>Selection process: filter [resumes], screen [with a call], interview [with multiple teams, for several hours], decide, reference.</li><li><strong>Use TORQ</strong> (Threat of a Reference Check) in questions (ie. &quot;When I ask your old boss about ___, what would they say about ____&quot;).</li><li><strong>Look for STAR answers</strong> (Situation or Task, Action taken, Result).</li><li>You should be <strong>listening more than talking</strong> during most of the interview (the end is for selling your company).</li><li>A key interview might take 90+ minutes; make use of the scale and grade people.</li><li>You should <strong>have multiple interview teams</strong>; only ask references once you&#x27;ve decided to hire.</li><li>As usual: <strong>hire slow, fire fast.</strong></li></ul><p>Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Who-Geoff-Smart/dp/0345504194">Who: The A Method for Hiring</a></li><li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Ten-Minute-Guide-Conducting-Interview/dp/0028639960">Ten Minute Guide to Conducting a Job Interview</a></li></ul><p>Again, this was a <strong>transformative workshop</strong>; everyone here will probably hire like this for the rest of their careers.</p><h3>Exploring Cofounder Conflict &amp; Being Fierce</h3><p>While this didn&#x27;t provide the crazy mind shift that the first workshop did, it explored some issues that often aren&#x27;t in entrepreneurship, mostly on the topic of emotional stability and overall happiness. The following were the main points for me:</p><ul><li>In general, <strong>make an effort to ask your cofounder(s) and coworkers &quot;How are you?&quot; and truly listen to the answer</strong>. Schedule a meeting if necessary. You should be looking to find out where they are in their personal and work life. Use a red/yellow/green scale if need be, and it&#x27;s up to the person whether they elaborate.</li><li>If you have an issue, <strong>use ONFR: Observation, Feeling, Need, Request:</strong></li><li>O: I noticed _______.</li><li>F: That makes me feel ______.</li><li>N: We need to agree on ______.</li><li>R: Next time please ______.</li><li>Try and <strong>get your whole team asking themselves the following</strong>, as they relate to both their work and personal lives:</li><li>What are you not saying that needs to be said?</li><li>What are you not hearing that&#x27;s being said?</li><li>What are you saying that&#x27;s not being heard?</li></ul><p><strong>Emotional and overall stability is key for a person or team to function long-term.</strong> There is often a particularly masochistic culture in entrepreneurship as it relates to work-life balance, or whatever you like to call it. Regardless of the balance, make sure you know where both you and your team are on these issues.</p><h2>Conclusion</h2><p>The focus this week is definitely shifting. Despite still being busy with sponsor visits and events, there has clearly been a move back towards fast progress, and it will be fun to watch (and participate in) over the next few weeks. This also marked the end of the first half of the program. I expect the second half to be much different, though no less interesting.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 9 - Product]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[After dipping briefly following Mentor Madness (at least in feel), the pace here has started to noticeably increase again. That mostly means founders and teams have less time for distractions, and are putting in even longer hours than usual. New product is being shipped, and more time is being dedicated to fundraising and sales, in preparation for Demo Day. As such, the focus this week was mostly on product development, and putting more pressure on growth.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After dipping briefly following Mentor Madness (at least in feel), the pace here has started to noticeably increase again. That mostly means founders and teams have less time for distractions, and are putting in even longer hours than usual. New product is being shipped, and more time is being dedicated to fundraising and sales, in preparation for Demo Day. As such, the focus this week was mostly on product development, and putting more pressure on growth.</p><p>The week kicked off with a great Founder Story, and was filled with workshops towards the end. The internal Founder Stories this week were just as good as always, and had a bit of a European theme.</p><h2>Workshops - Product</h2><p>There were two workshops focused on product, and one focused on growth.</p><p>From the product workshops:</p><ul><li>Practice<strong> &quot;Design Thinking&quot; - feasibility, viability, desirability</strong>; consider these when thinking about the unaddressed needs of the customer.</li><li><strong>Immerse yourself in the customer experience;</strong> try and simulate the exact situation of the customer, and study analogous situations (example is emergency room compared to Nascar pit stop).</li><li><strong>&quot;Build to think&quot; - build as early as possible to learn quickly.</strong></li><li>Think about &quot;<strong>minimum desirable experiences</strong>&quot; (similar to minimum viable product, but user experiences core value proposition).</li><li>Prototyping is a mindset - <strong>everything can be prototyped &amp; tested.</strong></li><li>The process behind subsequent prototypes is: <strong>Question - Prototype - Evidence</strong>.</li><li>Question: the process starts with<strong> identifying questions and assumptions</strong> (these can be hunches, areas of little data, but things that <strong>need</strong> to be true for the venture to work).</li><li>Prototype: <strong>format, feedback, resolution.</strong></li><li><strong>Format</strong>: physical vs. digital scenario.</li><li><strong>Feedback</strong>: who, where, how was it presented?</li><li><strong>Resolution</strong>: How long do you have to test? What would you do if you had just one day to test?</li><li>Evidence: <strong>answers the current question, and fuels the next one.</strong></li><li>Evidence can be presented in behaviors, feedback, implications; are these qualitative or quantitative? What are the reactions? What can you do with the information? What new questions do you have?</li><li>There are <strong>many ways to prototype: surface (low resolution), evaluate (med. res.), validate (high res.).</strong></li><li><strong>Surface</strong>: takes minutes, low resolution, tests assumptions; there are lots of options for this test.</li><li><strong>Evaluate</strong>: exploring multiple options, more thought (ex. mall kiosk to test pricing model/options, messaging).</li><li><strong>Validate</strong>: enough to appear real, observing real behavior and customers.</li><li>ex. full scale retail store mockups.</li><li>ex. full working website/page.</li><li>Use <a href="https://www.invisionapp.com/">InVision</a> for mocking up apps.</li></ul><h2>External Founder Story</h2><p>I&#x27;m separating external from internal this week, as I think the two often have very different focuses. Not always, but most of the time, the internal Founder Stories have a much more personal side, while outsiders tend to focus on their business accomplishments (often because they are more impressive than the current founders, as would be expected).</p><p>This week was great, from a founder who has seen it all in terms of financing, acquisition (not going public - yet), and building a company for nearly a decade:</p><ul><li>As an early employee, if you&#x27;re interested in startups, <strong>find a way to get exposed to the life and the people in startups</strong> (in this case, it was a headhunter agency).</li><li>One of my favorite quotes: &quot;<strong>I felt trapped in the infrastructure of my life</strong>&quot;.</li><li>Another: &quot;<strong>even if I&#x27;m a failed entrepreneur, at least I&#x27;m an entrepreneur</strong>&quot;.</li><li>Get journalists to write about you <strong>before you even have a product</strong>: talk about the problem you&#x27;re solving, the current solutions, etc. Be creative.</li><li>As the business gets going, <strong>invest in brand building</strong>: do speaking events, meet with potential investors and advisers even if you aren&#x27;t actively looking - these relationships will pay off in the future.</li><li><strong>Get involved with local universities and classes</strong> to get free marketing/sales/strategy work done - make an aspect of your business a part of their class or curriculum.</li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t underestimate the value of marketing</strong>, and hyping events before they happen; also don&#x27;t forget to think creatively about cheap campaigns with big potential. Stunts and other unconventional PR (thanks <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Traction-Startup-Guide-Getting-Customers/dp/0976339609"><em>Traction</em></a>!) can be huge.</li><li>When raising, <strong>you need to have a big vision, but it needs to be aligned with the company and your passion</strong>. Raising on the wrong vision is tough because you will immediately be misaligned.</li><li><strong>Form peer groups outside your company</strong>; they will be invaluable moving forward, and &quot;you&#x27;ll realize everyone else is just as clueless&quot;.</li><li><strong>Mind trick: stress=learning</strong>.</li><li>The more turbulence you can withstand, the stronger you will be.</li><li>Two stress drivers, which also drive the best outcomes:</li><li><strong>Not failing means freedom</strong> - you won&#x27;t have to go back to whatever shitty job you didn&#x27;t like.</li><li><strong>Getting a win under your belt gives you lots of credibility</strong>.</li><li>Successful personal relationships as an entrepreneur <strong>rely on your significant other knowing what they are getting into</strong>: used to the schedule, the long hours, etc.</li><li>Fundraising: &quot;<strong>the more you&#x27;re chasing, the less you&#x27;ll be chased</strong>&quot; (and dating?).</li></ul><h2>Internal Founder Stories</h2><p>It&#x27;s becoming tough for me to find unique things to take away from Founder Stories, as lots of different trends are becoming more and more clear through all the stories.</p><p>That being said, there were some key points this week:</p><ul><li><strong>Recognition of problems that could be solved is half the battle</strong> when looking for startup ideas.</li><li>Look at your current workplace - what is difficult? What do people complain about? What limits you or others in accomplishing things related to the business?</li><li>As an alternative, <strong>look at what your company does well, and think about where else it can be applied</strong> (this company being your employer prior to starting a business):</li><li>What is the core value your business offers? What other industries or businesses are analogous? Where else could this core value be applied? What other industries have people trying to do similar things that aren&#x27;t as good as you?</li><li><strong>There is no single type of founder</strong>, who has a certain type of background, who is from a certain area, or any other similarities you think.</li><li><strong>Nature over nuture.</strong></li><li>To elaborate on the above: <strong>you can be who you want.</strong></li><li><strong>Doing things outside the norm, or unexpected, or uncomfortable for you, is rarely bad.</strong></li><li><strong>Support from your relationships (family or otherwise) is very important</strong> in building both yourself and your business. Don&#x27;t undervalue this.</li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t underestimate the value of side projects!</strong></li></ul><p>I&#x27;m still thinking about how best to structure the post for next week (yeah, I&#x27;m a little bit late writing this), but stay tuned for what I found to be the most moving Founder Story yet.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Expanding upon the growth framework I introduced in the last post, I describe in detail how I think about growth, and the steps I go through when working on growth experiments.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="/blog/what-is-growth-and-what-does-a-growth-specialist-do">My last post</a> gave an overview of what I do as a ‘Growth Specialist’ (my new job). If you haven’t read that yet, it’s a good introduction to this post.</p><p>I laid out the process for identifying and exploiting growth opportunities as follows:</p><ol><li>Examining the customer lifecycle for gaps or deficiencies (aka potential improvements),</li><li>Coming up with hypotheses for improvements, and then ranking them,</li><li>Designing and executing experiments to test these hypotheses, and</li><li>Implementing successful changes permanently.</li><li>Finally, repeat this process (forever).</li></ol><p>This process should be thought of as a loop - it continues forever as you continue to learn and experiment.</p><p>This post will describe each step in a bit more detail.</p><h2>Examining the Customer Lifecycle for Gaps</h2><p>When examining the customer lifecycle, I typically operate under <a href="https://www.slideshare.net/dmc500hats/startup-metrics-for-pirates-long-version/2-Customer_Lifecycle_5_Steps_to">Dave McClure’s Pirate Metrics framework</a> of Acquisition, Activation, Retention, Revenue, Referral (so named because the acronym is “AARRR” - sounds like a pirate!).</p><p>From Dave’s <a href="https://www.slideshare.net/dmc500hats/startup-metrics-for-pirates-long-version/2-Customer_Lifecycle_5_Steps_to">Pirate Metrics slide deck</a>:</p><p>I start by plotting all the steps of the customer journey for our particular product (or products) under these categories. </p><p>This is where experience with other software products and knowledge of your customer is important. You need to make a judgment about where you are weak compared to others.</p><p>Data can drive some of this analysis. You can find reference metrics from various sources; - Baremetrics provides some <a href="https://baremetrics.com/open-benchmarks">open SaaS metric benchmarks</a>.</p><p>But figuring out where you are weak can be difficult. Even more complicated is figuring out <em>why</em> you are weak. There are often many potential explanations.</p><p>High churn numbers (many customers canceling) can indicate that you’re acquiring the wrong type of users. It could also mean your activation experience sucks (the experience a customer has when starting to use your product), or you can’t retain customers over the long term (product doesn’t continuously engage them or provide value).</p><p>Good user metrics and poor conversion from trials to paid plans can indicate your pricing isn’t aligned with the value you’re providing, or you aren’t conveying it well enough. It also might mean you need to adjust the features each plan provides.</p><p>But to some extent, identifying areas of deficiency (and solutions) is based on intuition developed with experience and exposure to other products.</p><h2>Coming Up with Hypotheses and Priorities</h2><p>After we’ve identified the areas we would like to improve, we brainstorm improvements.</p><p>Sometimes this means individual brainstorming, and often it includes looking through the backlog of suggested product improvements.</p><p>Most of the time I do brainstorming on my own, and then interview some of the key stakeholders - our product manager, our design lead, and whoever else I think might have an important perspective.</p><p>For large changes, we hold a ‘midi-design’ - a session at lunch that’s open to everyone and focused on a particular design change.</p><p>Once we have a list of ideas and hypotheses, we score them based on the probability of success, potential impact and reach, and the difficulty to implement (adapted from <a href="https://andrewchen.co/">Andrew Chen’s</a> scoring framework). These are multiplied to give a final score.</p><p>This gives us a list of ranked experiments.</p><h2>Designing and Executing Experiments</h2><p>At this stage, we take the hypotheses from the previous step and figure out how we can test them as quickly as possible.</p><p>For startups at an early stage, this can be tough. There may not be enough data to make statistically valid conclusions. Usually, you need qualitative data as well, or to expect the experiment to take longer. In the early days, you may just have to assume.</p><p>All stages of the growth process are cross-disciplinary by default, but this stage requires deeper input from each team. </p><p>Most experiments are going to require development (coding) work to implement. Most will require design work. Data science has to be consulted in predicting how long an experiment should run and to make sure the right things are measured.</p><p>Once everyone has been consulted, we have a plan in place to prepare and execute the experiment.</p><p>While I won’t talk about it too much here, we typically have two main types of experiments in the pipeline. </p><p>The first is a big change/big impact type of experiment. </p><p>These are things like adding new features, significantly changing the onboarding flow, or adding a referral system. They are typically one-off, and sometimes take a longer period of time to test.</p><p>The second type of experiments are more limited in scope, but happen on a regular basis and require less work.</p><p>Often these are A/B tests of elements that always exist, but we’re trying to consistently improve. This might be changing the layout of the home page, adding small elements to the onboarding flow, or testing different copy on our buttons.</p><p>Often they can be implemented without significant dev work, using A/B testing software like <a href="https://optimize.google.com/optimize/home/">Google Optimize</a> or <a href="https://www.optimizely.com/">Optimizely</a>. With these tests, we are looking for consistent, incremental improvements over time.</p><h2>Fully Implementing Successful Changes</h2><p>Depending on the test, we may have hacked something together or tested on a limited group of customers. This might be an A/B test with a limited customer group, or we may have tested a new feature in a specific country.</p><p>What makes a test successful? It varies.</p><p>Sometimes we’ve seen a statistically significant improvement, in which case the decision is easy.</p><p>Often, however, it’s a combination of quantitative and qualitative metrics. </p><p>If changing how our pricing page is structured, we may see no change in overall conversion of customers, but hear from the customer success and sales teams that they’re getting much less confusion from potential customers.</p><p>If we deem the experiment a success, we make the change permanent, which may require further dev work, and then document the results.</p><p>Documenting the results is a key part of this process; if experiments are completed, but the results aren’t documented, there’s a good chance the learning will be lost in future, and the experiment will be repeated, wasting resources.</p><h2>Repeat, Repeat, Repeat</h2><p>As I mentioned, this process is never done; it’s meant to be a continuous loop. Once you’ve investigated one hypothesis (via experiment), you implement changes (or not), document what you learned, and move on to the next hypothesis.</p><p>As someone concerned with growth in startups, you should be looking for both dramatic, big wins, and small, but high-velocity improvements that add up over time.</p><p>Don’t forget the ultimate goal: to grow.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Time Not Money]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I’ve lost my childhood desire to own and drive a supercar daily. It’s a result of a gradual change in my own thinking, which can be summarized as: time not money.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Walking to the grocery store the other day, I spotted a couple beautiful cars outside a local hotel - a Ferrari 488 GTB and a Rolls-Royce Dawn, to be exact.</p><p>I’m a big car fan. I’ve seen every episode of Top Gear, I keep up to date with new models and specs, and I go to car shows. </p><p>But as I walked by both cars, I realized something: I had lost the desire to own and drive cars like them daily.</p><p>It’s a result of a gradual change in my own thinking, which can be summarized as: time not money.</p><h2>Money = Freedom</h2><p>Money is what we say we desire when what we actually want is freedom. </p><p>Money buys us the freedom to do what we want, work on what we want, travel where we want.</p><p>Ultimately, money buys us time. </p><p>Time to be free from work we don’t like, time to spend with our family while others run our businesses, time to exercise, time to make our own priorities.</p><p>&quot;Trade money for time, not time for money. You’re going to run out of time first.&quot; - <a href="https://twitter.com/naval/status/1049935100173942790">Naval Ravikant</a></p><h2>Travel = Time</h2><p>Travel by car, particularly in cities (like Montreal), is not exciting. It doesn’t much matter whether you have a Rolls or a Civic. I’d argue a Tesla is the best experience.</p><p>What I want when I’m driving in the city now is to...not be driving. I want to be in a quiet, comfortable Uber, thinking and doing other things. </p><p>I want the time instead.</p><p>&quot;The rich invest in time, the poor invest in money.&quot; - Warren Buffett</p><h2>I Still Love Cars</h2><p>I still love cars. <a href="https://classiccarclubmanhattan.com/">Car clubs like this one</a> are a fantastic idea. Have your choice of cars when you want to spend the time enjoying one. Make use of that amazing GT car on your drive to the cottage for the weekend.</p><p><a href="https://lecircuit.com/driving-school/">Driving experiences like this one</a> are also a brilliant idea. Experience high-performing cars at a track, where you can actually take advantage of it.</p><p>But these days, 90% of the time I spend in a car, I don’t care which, and I don’t want to be driving.</p><p>I’d rather buy the time than the supercar.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars NYC Week 7 - Elevator Pitches]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Week 7 kicked off the final stretch of the program, during which we would normally be preparing for Demo Day. There have been a few posts written recently (Ty Danco, Ross Baird) about why we should be changing Demo Days, and Techstars NYC has been experimenting with a different format.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>The Elevator Pitch</h2><p>Week 7 kicked off the final stretch of the program, during which we would normally be preparing for Demo Day. There have been a few posts written recently (<a href="https://medium.com/@tydanco/why-demo-days-have-to-change-b88ad2308657">Ty Danco</a>, <a href="https://techcrunch.com/2017/03/04/why-were-ditching-demo-days/">Ross Baird</a>) about why we should be changing Demo Days, and <a href="http://www.techstars.com/content/accelerators/nyc/new-take-demo-day/">Techstars NYC has been experimenting</a> with a different format.</p><p>Now, I’m not going to write about that new format until I’ve experienced the whole thing (ie. after the program), but the first step in this new format is the elevator pitch, which I’m going to write about this week.</p><p>The first thing to be noted about the elevator pitch is that it’s context-specific. A pitch given for a formal elevator pitch competition should not be the same pitch you give someone next to you at a cocktail party that asks you what you do for a living. There are, however, some similarities.</p><p>The main one: <strong>the goal of the pitch is to get the other person intrigued.</strong></p><p>Now, maybe you don’t like cocktail parties and would rather not have someone inquire further about your life, but let’s assume you do.</p><h2>Great Elevator Pitches</h2><p>I wrote last week that you need to be able to convey your vision clearly and in simple terms, and touched on a few of the things that make a good elevator pitch, namely:</p><ul><li>Talk about the opportunity, but limit yourself to one number.</li><li>Don’t talk about features, but instead benefits.</li><li>Explain why, or your credibility.</li><li>The goal: clearly convey what you do, and make them want to ask more questions.</li></ul><p>A good elevator pitch should be a summary of what you do that would make sense to a fourth-grader or your grandmother.</p><p>Now, easier said than done. </p><h2>The Elevator Pitch Formula</h2><p>The best formula for doing this that I’ve found comes from <a href="http://amzn.to/2oy5T9j">Crossing the Chasm</a>, and is quoted here:</p><blockquote><em>Here is a proven formula for getting all this down into two short sentences. Try it out on your own company and one of its key products. Just fill in the blanks:</em></blockquote><ul><li><em>For (target customers— beachhead segment only)</em></li><li><em>Who are dissatisfied with (the current market alternative)</em></li><li><em>Our product is a (product category)</em></li><li><em>That provides (compelling reason to buy).</em></li><li><em>Unlike (the product alternative),</em></li><li>W<em>e have assembled (key whole product features for your specific application).</em></li></ul><h2>Optional Extras</h2><p>Now, there are still other options for things to add in, depending on the context, with a few being:</p><ul><li>Why did you start this company?</li><li>What background makes you the right person?</li><li>How big is the market?</li><li>What sort of traction do you have? (number of paying customers, MRR, etc.)</li></ul><p>But unless you must, I wouldn’t mention any of those things. The reason being is that these are all great topics which can be follow-on questions for someone who you get interested with a concise, easy-to-understand, but just-vague-enough elevator pitch based on the formula.</p><p>The other thing to note with the Crossing the Chasm formula is that if you have multiple target customers, or multiple reasons why someone should buy your product, you should choose one.</p><h2>Example Elevator Pitch</h2><p>So, for Lean Systems, here’s an example of a good, concise elevator pitch:</p><blockquote><em>For transportation companies who spend hours on manual scheduling and routing, we provide an API-based optimization tool that automates the process while providing much more efficient schedules. Unlike most end-to-end products, we integrate with existing tools so no training or change is required to use our solution.</em></blockquote><p>Now, weaknesses with this version? </p><ul><li>We don’t mention who we are, or why we’re doing this.</li><li>We don’t mention why we’re the right team, or uniquely qualified to do it.</li><li>We don’t mention the market size (ie. Opportunity) for the company.</li><li>There are a couple sections (API-based optimization tool) which are too complex.</li></ul><p>Out of all those things, I would say the market or opportunity size is the thing you need to mention most. In most contexts, that’s going to be a big number, and what makes it interesting for investors and others – everyone likes to hear about an opportunity to make a lot of money!</p><p>What’s your company’s elevator pitch?</p><p>Read about <a href="/blog/week-6-techstars-nyc">last week (Week 6) here</a>, or read the <a href="/blog/week-8-techstars-nyc">next post (Week 8) here</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[What is growth? And what does a Growth Specialist do? When I tell people about my work, these are the questions that immediately follow. This post gives an overview of the answers to these questions.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wrote last week <a href="/blog/i-have-a-new-job">about my new job</a>.</p><p>I’m now ‘Growth Specialist’ at <a href="https://unito.io/">Unito</a>. When I tell people I work in growth, the next question is “what does that mean?”</p><p>This post will give a brief overview of what I do and how I think about growth.</p><p>Growth, in short, is exactly what it sounds like - it’s my job to <strong>identify and exploit growth opportunities</strong> for the company.</p><p>That still doesn’t give insight on what I do day-to-day. To some extent, <a href="https://www.intercom.com/blog/videos/how-do-you-define-a-growth-team/">everyone at a startup should be thinking about growth</a>.</p><p>Intercom’s definition of a growth team is “a software team solving a company’s business problems.” That’s not far off.</p><h2>The Growth Process</h2><p>Identifying and exploiting growth opportunities typically involves a cycle of the following steps:</p><ol><li>Examining the customer lifecycle for gaps or deficiencies (aka potential improvements),</li><li>Coming up with hypotheses for improvements, and then ranking them,</li><li>Designing and executing experiments to test these hypotheses, and</li><li>Implementing successful changes permanently.</li><li>Finally, repeat this process (forever).</li></ol><p>When I’m asked how an engineering or science background helps in business, this is one of the best examples. Growing a company involves iterative, controlled processes, executed over and over for a long period of time. Engineering and science are great preparation for this kind of thinking.</p><p>Andrew Chen’s <a href="https://andrewchen.co/how-to-build-a-growth-team/">definition of growth</a> is “the scientific method applied to KPIs” (KPIs = key performance indicators; these are numbers that show company progress).</p><p>Essentially, I’m responsible for this process. </p><p>Product, marketing, sales, and other teams will experiment on their own, within the part of the customer lifecycle they deal with.</p><p>My job is to maintain an overview of all the experiments going on, ensure they’re conducted properly, and then make sure what’s learned doesn’t get lost. I’m also looking to design and drive experiments on my own.</p><h2>Repeat Forever</h2><p>Once a particular experiment is finished, the next one should already be ready to go.</p><p>This process is never done; it’s meant to be a continuous loop.</p><p>My job as Growth Specialist is to make sure we continue improving in all areas of the customer lifecycle, and we document what we learn.</p><p>We’re searching for both large impact experiments and small, incremental improvements over time.</p><p>Ultimately, we’re looking to grow the business.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Just-in-Case vs. Just-in-Time Learning]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/just-in-case-vs-just-in-time-learning</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Just-in-case learning is what we’re taught in school. But just-in-case learning is vastly more efficient. Learn when and why you should use each.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In business and startups, it’s easy to get caught consuming ‘hustle porn’ - media about working constantly, ‘grinding’, and other unhealthy habits.</p><p>It’s also easy to consume articles titled things like <a href="https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/337115">Mark Cuban Says These are the Dumbest Things Entrepreneurs Do</a>, or <a href="https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/333079">How Andres Pira Went From Homeless on the Beach to Real Estate Tycoon</a>.</p><p>Sometimes these are useful. But your journey will be much different than anyone else’s. The best mentors will often help you think better using the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_method">Socratic method</a>, rather than giving specific advice, because they know you understand your business best.</p><p>Often, it’s better just to get started.</p><h2><strong>Research Preventing Action</strong></h2><p>I read a lot, and that includes non-fiction and business books. I tend to like planning and analysis, and as a result, have to be careful I don’t read too much before acting.</p><p>To make sure I don’t fall into that trap, I often think about just-in-case vs. just-in-time learning.</p><h2><strong>The Origins of Just-in-Case vs. Just-in-Time</strong></h2><p>The concept of just-in-case and just-in-time comes from manufacturing. Their names describe the systems.</p><p>Just-in-case manufacturing involves storing lots of extra parts and supplies so that if there is a delay or break in the supply chain, production can continue.</p><p>The main downside is that money and space gets tied up in funding all these just-in-case parts and supplies. This means the money can’t be deployed elsewhere, on things like marketing. </p><p>Also, if forecasting is wrong, you may end up with supplies and parts you don’t need.</p><p>Just-in-time manufacturing is often attributed to Toyota. It involves storing very few extra supplies, and instead relying on very good forecasting and reliable supply chains. </p><p>If the forecasting is good enough, and the supply chain is reliable, supplies arrive just as they are needed in the manufacturing plant. </p><p>This frees up money that can be used elsewhere in the business. </p><p>However, if forecasting is wrong, or unforeseen events influence the supply chain, manufacturing can be disrupted.</p><h2><strong>Applying This Concept to Learning</strong></h2><p>While we aren’t as concerned with manufacturing, we can apply the concept to learning.</p><p>In many ways, our minds are analogous to the manufacturing case. We have limited memory, and even less space for things we want to recall quickly. </p><p>We have two choices: we can learn things that we think <em>might</em> be useful in the future, and try to remember everything we’ve learned (just-in-case), or we can wait until we actually need to apply the information, and learn it then (just-in-time).</p><p>There are situations where both are useful.</p><h2><strong>Just-in-Case Knowledge</strong></h2><p>Depending on what you studied, and when, much of what you learned in school was probably just-in-case knowledge.</p><p>Some subjects, like math, operate in a step-by-step manner. Many of the concepts you learn build upon each other, and this helps you remember.</p><p>Others, like history, are sometimes considered essential for cultural reasons. You may not use the knowledge of how your country was formed, but most would agree that it’s important to learn.</p><p>For other subjects, you may never use the knowledge again. Did you take an obscure elective in high school? Study the history of other countries?</p><p>This is just-in-case knowledge. You learn about things which aren’t immediately applicable, but which you are interested in, or which are compulsory.</p><h2><strong>Applications of Just-in-Case Knowledge</strong></h2><p>Many professions do require a broad knowledge base on a just-in-case basis. Medicine is one of the most obvious.</p><p>Emergency room doctors don’t have the luxury of seeing a new case and going off to read before coming back for treatment. They must make judgments and treat patients quickly, often with life or death consequences.</p><p>As a result of how they work, they must have a broad knowledge of emergency medicine, but must also know when they are out of their depth, and who to call if so. They must be able to recognize a wide range of problems from memory, and with high accuracy.</p><p>Most of us, however, don’t need such a broad knowledge base.</p><p>Indeed, even emergency room doctors don’t need to be concerned with geopolitics, business, or music. They may like one or more of those things, but even their own domain of required knowledge is narrow.</p><h2><strong>The Downsides of Just-in-Case Knowledge</strong></h2><p>I tend to like planning and analysis. I like reading too. I often move in the direction of analysis before action. This isn’t always a bad thing, but it can slow me down if not monitored.</p><p>The reality is that for most of us, spending any time at all on just-in-case knowledge is inefficient.</p><p>Reading every business book in the world is not going to be much use in any business, because 99% of the material won’t be relevant for the particular stage and business.</p><p>By the time I’ve finished a few books, I have a hard time recalling what I read in the first one. If I want to apply knowledge from the first book in the future, I’ll have to read it again.</p><p>The same holds true for most forms of knowledge.</p><p>One of the most corrosive is the consumption of news and social media.</p><p>Rarely does news or social media impact our lives.</p><p>Watching election coverage 10 months before the vote? You don’t need to know all the candidates. You can read a well-written summary of the candidate positions the week before the election and be more informed than 99% of voters.</p><p>Afraid you’re missing out on vital content on social media? When was the last time something social media had a large positive impact on your life?</p><p>Just-in-case knowledge is at best inefficient, and at worst a huge waste of our collective time.</p><h2><strong>Just-in-Time Knowledge</strong></h2><p>Acquiring just-in-time knowledge, by contrast, is a very efficient way of learning.</p><p>Just-in-time knowledge is material and media that you need to apply immediately.</p><p>It may be an issue you have to deal with at work, or information related to a new sport you’re learning, or maybe moving to a country and learning a new language. </p><p>In each case, you can <strong>immediately</strong> apply what you learn.</p><p>This method of learning helps counter the ‘analysis-paralysis’ that often hinders action, and to which so many of us (myself included) are prone. </p><p>When operating under a tight deadline, action is inevitable.</p><p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parkinson%27s_law">Parkinson’s Law</a> comes into play here: a task or project will grow to fill the time allotted to it.</p><p>In other words, if you have a deadline, things get done. </p><p>Conversely, if you don’t have a deadline, it may never get done (like that language you’ve always wanted to learn).</p><p>Immediately having a use case where you can apply new knowledge helps with retention. </p><p>Just the same as in university - reading the textbook doesn’t help, but once you <a href="/blog/how-to-study-in-college">do some practice problems</a>, you’ll remember.</p><p>Even better, learning new things quickly is a meta-skill. By forcing yourself to learn and apply things quickly over-and-over, you’ll become even more efficient in the future.</p><p>Just-in-time learning is much more efficient than just-in-case.</p><h2><strong>When to Use Just-in-Case Learning</strong></h2><p>At this point, you may think I advocate for just-in-time learning all the time. That isn’t the case.</p><p>Just-in-case learning has a place. </p><p><strong>Just-in-case learning should be used to grasp the larger concepts within a broad subject</strong>. </p><p>The point of this learning is to reduce the “unknown unknowns” - those things which you don’t know, but you’re also not aware of.</p><p>The point here is to have enough knowledge that when faced with a particular problem, you know what you need to learn.</p><p>In business and entrepreneurship, this often means knowing the basics of many different areas - product, marketing, sales, recruiting, customer success - so that you know when and what topics you must learn or hire for.</p><p>In medicine, this is knowing enough to know that you should refer a patient to a specialist. </p><p>The difficulty with just-in-case learning, as we mentioned, is retention. There are things you can do to help with this.</p><p><a href="/blog/how-to-take-book-notes">Taking notes for the books you read</a>, for example.</p><p>Books are a major source of learning for adults, but you can take notes for most mediums. </p><p>Creating well-referenced, detailed summaries of books and other sources of knowledge not only helps with retention but gives you an easily searchable reference to look back on when you need the material in the future.</p><h2><strong>When to Use Just-in-Time Learning</strong></h2><p>For all the reasons we talked about previously - improved efficiency around deadlines, immediate applicability that helps with retention, and a preference for action - just-in-time learning should be your default.</p><p>It will help you build the meta-skill of learning new things quickly, and encourage you to learn and apply things immediately.</p><p>If you can’t immediately apply the knowledge, you should consider learning something you can.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Favourite Fitness Products]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A list and details of all my favourite fitness products that I use to stay in shape and healthy while on the road and at home.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zivl7e"><strong>Anker Soundbuds Slim</strong></a></p><p>These earphones are great – in fact, I find myself using them more and more in situations like taking the subway because their noise isolation is good, and not having cords tangled everywhere is pretty great.</p><p>I use these whenever I’m working out, with the exception of swimming, and I’ve had them in rain, high heat (ie. lots of sweat), and they’ve been great. Good range, good noise isolation, and pretty good sound quality.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xPhn0f"><strong>Phone Waistband</strong></a></p><p>I’ve tried various methods of taking my phone with me, and soon that should be a thing of the past (hello Apple Watch 3), but for now, I find it the best way to carry my phone. I’ve tried armbands, but found on long runs they get annoying, and that they get in the way in the gym.</p><p>The waistband is great – to avoid having it press on your stomach too much, wear it low around your hip bones.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xOJ708"><strong>Garmin Vivoactive Watch</strong></a></p><p>Honestly, I’d probably have an Apple Watch 3 right now if I had the money, mostly for the phone-less music streaming. That said, I’m not totally sold on smartwatches yet, and I bought this because of its flexibility – I can download an app (albeit a bad one) for open water swimming, sailing, etc. Not many watches at this price point have that, it looks pretty good, and it will actually show you notifications from your phone if you want. And you can get them for <a href="http://amzn.to/2A6JANw">$91 USD refurbished</a> ($115 new).</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxHwPT"><strong>Scosche Rhythm+ HR Monitor</strong></a></p><p>When I was looking for a heart rate monitor, most smart watches with them embedded were notoriously unreliable (still generally are). There are a few companies, with the latest generation of watches that do heart rate during activity well, but I still prefer this armband. Whether it’s working out at the gym, biking, running, or otherwise, it’s reliable throughout.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zjqYsE"><strong>Aqua Sphere Kayenne Swim Goggles</strong></a></p><p>Preferred goggle of triathletes, I bought my current pair at least 5 years ago and they’ve been great. I have really long eyelashes, which makes buying sunglasses/goggles hard, and I also have a big face/head, but these have been great.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxwY37"><strong>Rumble Roller Body Massager</strong></a></p><p>I’ve tried just about every foam roller out there, and to be honest, I just feel like it’s a waste of time unless you’re using one of these. Of course, that’s not true, but the results you can get with one of these seem greater/faster than any I’ve tried. I believe much of this is due to the fact that you can move back and forth perpendicular to the bumps (in the longitudinal direction of the roller), which really releases the muscle.</p><p>Honestly, now one of my most prized items to travel with, and I rarely feel better than after a workout, hot shower/sauna/hot tub, and a good roll with one of these.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zyHdTy"><strong>Captains of Crush Hand Grippers</strong></a></p><p>These have been around forever, and are basically the gold standard for grippers. I currently use the #1, leave them around my desk, and use <a href="http://www.artofmanliness.com/2016/01/20/get-stronger-by-greasing-the-groove/">Pavel Tsatsouline’s “Grease the Groove” </a>technique to improve/maintain my grip strength.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2xQXK8g"><strong>Perfect Fitness Multi-Gym Pullup Bar</strong></a></p><p>Pullups are something I historically sucked at, and have worked my way up to being mediocre at, but I believe they are one of the best exercises you can do on a regular basis (also a good candidate for <a href="http://www.artofmanliness.com/2016/01/20/get-stronger-by-greasing-the-groove/">Grease the Groove</a>). I try and have one both at my apartment and my work when possible, so I can do a few whenever I walk by.</p><p>This particular pullup bar is one that makes me happy as an engineer – it’s the little details that make it so great. It uses a flat bar to lock onto the door frame so it doesn’t dent your wall, it has protected handgrips so you can do a true wide-grip pullup, it can be taken apart and assembled in just a couple minutes, and it comes with an extra one of the Allen keys needed to assemble/disassemble, both of which can be stored in the bar itself. Gotta love great product design.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[10 Things I Do to Sleep Better]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/10-things-i-do-to-sleep-better</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Good sleep has a huge impact on our lives, and most of us spend around a third of our lives sleeping. Don’t you want the best sleep you can get? Here are 10 things I do to get better sleep.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’m lucky enough to be able to fall asleep pretty much anywhere, whether bright sunshine or pitch black (as friends &amp; family can attest).</p><p>That said, I’m still obsessed with getting optimal sleep, and I know it’s not easy for everyone.</p><p>Good sleep has a huge impact on our lives, and most of us spend around a third of our lives sleeping. Don’t you want the best sleep you can get?</p><p>What follows are 10 things that I do to get better sleep. Please share other things you do in the comments. I’ll continue to update this list as needed.</p><h2>1. Make it dark.</h2><p><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3047226/?report=classic">Science shows</a> that a dark room directly impacts sleep quality.</p><p>Make sure you get rid of, or cover all the light-emitting chargers and devices. Buy some <a href="https://amzn.to/2Dm14cY">blackout material</a> for any windows, and use it.</p><p>If you can’t black out your room, or you’re traveling, another option is a sleep mask. I generally don’t like sleep masks - I find most annoying - but <a href="https://amzn.to/2K1BevY">this one</a> and <a href="https://amzn.to/2DEO1UK">this one</a> are two good options.</p><p>The <a href="https://amzn.to/2Dn9oJx">first one</a> doesn’t have an elastic, making it easier to avoid having it press on your eyes. The <a href="https://amzn.to/2DEO1UK">second one</a> has eye pieces designed to stay away from eyelashes.</p><p>If you sleep on your stomach like me, you may find that they fall off at some point during the night. </p><p>Regardless, I find they do help getting to sleep and staying asleep when in bright environments, even if they do fall off later.</p><h2>2. Make it cool.</h2><p>Most recommendations suggest ideal sleeping temperature for all is 16-18C (60-65F).</p><p>Whether you use air conditioning, crack a window, or have a fan, aim for this room temperature when sleeping.</p><p>The one downside of sleeping in a cool environment is it makes it difficult to get out of bed in the morning. </p><p>If you have the luxury of a smart thermostat, that’s what I’d recommend. Set it cold to go to sleep, and gradually warming in the morning. The <a href="https://amzn.to/2Q0HNEw">Ecobee</a> and <a href="https://amzn.to/2Te414E">Nest</a> thermostats are always highly rated.</p><p>Another option for those who sleep with a partner and want different temperatures is the <a href="https://amzn.to/2qJFY0x">Chilipad</a>, or similar. It’s expensive, but supposedly helps.</p><p>The third, and most affordable option (which I use) is the combination of <a href="https://amzn.to/2Dm2yUA">a space heater</a> and <a href="https://amzn.to/2K3KkIN">a smart plug</a>. </p><p>Set the smart plug so that it turns the heater on about 30 minutes before you want to wake, and voila - warm in the morning.</p><h2>3. Add white noise.</h2><p>If you end up using a fan or air conditioner, it’s perfect for this purpose.</p><p>White noise in the background helps drown out random sounds, so particularly if you’re sleeping in the city, this is a great way to help improve your sleep.</p><p>Another option is just searching on Spotify, etc. for rain or white noise sounds, which you can play on loop while you sleep. <a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/5Xm99XXMsPuwv4Eb54Uq9e?si=f9-SMWTPTJ6Ugx1pk0J38Q">Here’s a good example</a> - ideally use ones that loop naturally and don’t fade at the beginning/end.</p><h2>4. Use earplugs.</h2><p>I don’t do this every night, but if I’m somewhere particularly loud, or need to make sure I get an extra good sleep, I’ll pop some in.</p><p>I use these <a href="https://amzn.to/2Dmb2ej">3M foam ones</a>, which are cheap to buy in bulk and easy to travel with, but have the downside of being fairly noticeable when you’re sleeping on that ear. </p><p>I keep a couple pairs in all my bags for travel.</p><p>I also use <a href="https://amzn.to/2DENemT">silicon ones like these</a>, which are better for sleeping, as they mold to your ear and then flatten out when you sleep on that side. </p><p>They’re a bit more expensive and a bit bulkier to travel with, but can be worth it to use at home.</p><h2>5. Use supplements.</h2><p>Note: obviously always check with your doctor before supplementing anything. I am not a doctor.</p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/2PXbtlR">Melatonin</a> and <a href="https://amzn.to/2DnDdcZ">California poppy extract</a> are the two main supplements I use for sleeping well, and I use them in two different situations.</p><p>I’ll use a dose of melatonin before bed when I’m changing time zones.</p><p>Poppy flower extract has been shown to increase deep sleep, so I’ll use this when I’m training particularly hard to try and speed up recovery.</p><p>The other option here is to use a sleep tea, which often has some of these components. </p><p>This is <a href="https://amzn.to/2TeJYTD">my favorite sleep tea</a>, though it’s difficult to find.</p><h2>6. Avoid the wrong supplements.</h2><p>Even more important than adding supplements is avoiding taking in the wrong ones.</p><p>Late caffeine (usually anything past 3-4pm) can hinder your ability to go to sleep.</p><p>Drinking excessively and eating high-sugar foods have been shown to decrease sleep quality. Watch what you consume close to bedtime.</p><h2>7. Make sure you’re hydrated.</h2><p>This is partly related to waking up in the morning, but I sleep much better when I know I’m close to fully hydrated.</p><p>The downside is if you mess this up and go overboard, you’re going to be waking up in the middle of the night to go pee.</p><p>However, making sure you’re as hydrated as possible will make waking up in the morning much easier.</p><p>For me, this means consuming A LOT of water with supper, and then drinking lightly before bed, usually tea, etc. </p><p>This ensures I’m hydrated, but avoids the waking up in the middle of the night.</p><h2>8. Have a bedtime routine.</h2><p>I’ve written about <a href="/blog/my-morning-routine">my morning routine</a> before.</p><p>As often as possible, I try to have a good bedtime routine as well.</p><p>Usually that looks something like this:</p><ul><li>2-3 hours before bed: stop eating, drink lots of water.</li><li>2 hours before bed: stop working.</li><li>1 hour before bed: stop using screens (this should really be longer).</li><li>1 hour before bed: make tea.</li><li>1 hour before bed (optional): have a hot shower or ice bath.</li><li>1 hour - 0 hours before bed: read a book or e-reader without backlight.</li><li>20 minutes before bed: meditate (when needed).</li></ul><p>Making this routine regular will help settle thoughts and train your body to go to sleep.</p><h2>9. Avoid late blue light.</h2><p>This probably affects modern sleep more than any other factor.</p><p>Blue light has been shown to dramatically decrease the quality of sleep we get, yet many of us get blue light right until bedtime (Netflix in bed, anyone?).</p><p>There are a few things I do to try and avoid this.</p><p>I try to schedule meetups with friends as the last thing I do in the evening, something like 8-10pm. It accomplishes a few things: </p><ul><li>it distracts me from work, which relaxes my mind; </li><li>it takes me out of the house for a walk at the very least, which is also relaxing; </li><li>and I’m not going to be staring at a screen.</li></ul><p>If I’m planning to watch something, I’ll try and watch it on our projector, which is reflected light instead of direct.</p><p>On my phone, and on my computer (which gets hooked up to my projector), I use <a href="https://justgetflux.com/">Flux</a>/<a href="https://www.imore.com/night-shift">Night Shift</a> on the highest settings. This reduces the blue light coming from these screens.</p><p>I also try and do my nighttime reading on a regular book, or on my e-reader (just e-ink). These emit little to no blue light compared to an iPad, which is what I usually read on.</p><h2>10. Relax with meditation or reading.</h2><p>Especially if I’ve been working late, my mind is still racing come bedtime.</p><p>I try to schedule meetups with friends as the last part of my day - this helps distract my mind.</p><p>There are two other things that help for me.</p><p>The first is reading, but specifically reading fiction or biographies, on an e-reader (to avoid blue light).</p><p>I find reading non-fiction keeps my mind working too much, as I’m trying to learn at the same time.</p><p>For the days where I still can’t distract myself, meditation helps, especially when I’m lying in bed.</p><p>I still use <a href="https://www.oakmeditation.com/">Oak as my go-to meditation app</a>, and I find meditating for at least 20 minutes has a much greater effect than anything less.</p><h2>Track Your Results</h2><p>As with all things, you’ll need to test each of these things to find out which works best for you.</p><p>To track my sleep, I currently use my trusty <a href="https://amzn.to/2DI5Imu">Garmin Vivoactive watch</a>, which is relatively basic.</p><p>There are a ton of products out there that can now track your sleep, including the Apple Watch. One I’m currently interested in is the <a href="https://ouraring.com/">Oura Ring</a>.</p><p>Good luck!</p><p>What else do you do to sleep well?</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Awair 2nd Edition Home Air Quality Monitor Review]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/awair-2nd-edition-review</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A review of the Awair 2nd Edition air quality monitor. I got one because I wanted more information on my environment and to improve my sleep. Turns out, it’s useful for more than that.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2> What is the Awair?</h2><p>The <a href="https://getawair.com/">Awair 2nd Edition</a> is a smart home device that measures temperature, humidity, CO2, VOC (volatile organic compounds), and dust levels.</p><p>With the paired smartphone app, you can monitor readings over time, trigger smart devices (like thermostats), and get suggestions on how to improve your living environment.</p><h2>Why Did I Want an Awair?</h2><p>I wanted to monitor the temperature in my bedroom while sleeping.</p><p>I obsess about sleep, and I try to track all related variables.</p><p>Room temperature impacts sleep quality and I wanted to find my own optimal temperature.</p><p>There aren&#x27;t many temperature sensors that are easy to set up and can connect with a smartphone.</p><p>I had my eye on an <a href="https://getawair.com/pages/awair-glow">Awair Glow</a>, but Awair was kind enough to send me their redesigned flagship product, the Awair 2nd Edition.</p><h2>Awair 2nd Edition Details</h2><p>The device is beautiful, and includes a display which can show any of the individual measurements, a summary, or a clock.</p><p>The primary display gives you levels for all measurements, and an aggregate score based on whether each level is within an acceptable range.</p><p>It connects to the smartphone app to view data, and is simple to set up.</p><p>Using the app, you can integrate with other devices. For example, you could automatically turn on an air purifier when dust levels are high.</p><p>The same can be done with heaters, air conditioners, humidifiers, de-humidifiers, etc.</p><p>The only requirement is you have a smart plug (or a smart device), and then you can set up triggers using <a href="https://ifttt.com/discover">IFTTT (If This, Then That)</a>.</p><p>For example, I managed to set up a trigger to turn on my space heater when the temperature drops too low (via a <a href="https://amzn.to/2XA59B0">TP-Link smart plug</a>).</p><p>With smart devices like a <a href="https://amzn.to/2GGck56">Nest Thermostat</a>, it’s even easier, since no smart plug is required.</p><p>The Awair also has support for Amazon Alexa and Google Assistant.</p><p>It currently retails for $179 USD, while the Awair Glow retails for $99 USD.</p><h2>How is the Awair 2nd Edition Different from the Original Awair?</h2><p>The Awair was redesigned in 2018 with the following changes:</p><ul><li>Enhanced fine dust readings (PM2.5).</li><li>A new button on the back to quickly cycle through each display.</li><li>Enhanced VOC (volatile organic compound) sensing.</li><li>USB-C for power.</li><li>Faster and simpler setup via the smartphone app.</li></ul><h2>How is the Awair 2nd Edition Different from the Awair Glow?</h2><p>Aside from differences in form,</p><ul><li>the Glow also functions as a smart plug, and</li><li>doesn’t include dust level readings.</li></ul><p>It also has a small night light embedded.</p><h2>Hardware - Pros</h2><p>The Awair looks great. The design aesthetic is very Apple-esque, and it fits well with most decors. It looks good enough to be a piece on its own.</p><p>It charges via USB-C, which makes it easy to adapt between power sources.</p><p>The air quality measurements are comprehensive, and seem accurate. </p><p>Setup is very easy. It took about 5 minutes to get the device connected and app working.</p><p>You can tap the top twice to display the time.</p><p>Unlike the Glow, it can measure dust levels. This is important in areas where smog is an issue, and for those who suffer from respiratory issues, including asthma and allergies.</p><p>Notifications are easy to set up so you can proactively address problems.</p><p>Overall, the device does what it&#x27;s supposed to do and looks great.</p><h2>Hardware - Cons</h2><p>I only have one real issue with the device, but I’ll address the most common complaints of others as well. Most of my concerns are around the software.</p><p>My main complaint is that there isn&#x27;t a smart plug as part of the device. </p><p>Would I want one if the Glow didn&#x27;t have one? Doubtful. But the Glow does have one, and this device is near double the price.</p><p>Much of the appeal of this device is the ability to have it trigger other devices in your home based on various conditions. But many people don&#x27;t have smart devices. So then people need to buy smart plugs.</p><p>If a user doesn&#x27;t have those, they miss many benefits of the device. Having a plug embedded in the device gives people a head start on setting up triggers.</p><p>There are really only two other complaints I&#x27;ve ever seen that relate to the hardware.</p><p>The first is that the fan is too loud. This isn’t true, at least of the 2nd Edition. </p><p>I&#x27;ve had mine for over a month, and I&#x27;ve only ever heard the fan when it’s been in a confined, hot space and I put my ear next to it.</p><p>Some people have claimed that the temperature reading is a little high, but this doesn&#x27;t seem true either.</p><p>Comparisons to other smart home products, like <a href="https://www.gearbrain.com/awair-2nd-edition-review-2591475975.html">this comparison between the Awair and Foobot</a>, have shown it to be consistent.</p><p>The verdict on the device itself: fantastic. I love the attention to detail on the design and the simplicity. It does its job well.</p><h2>Software - Pros</h2><p>The app, like the device itself, is well-designed. It&#x27;s aesthetically pleasing, modern and clean. It’s also easy to navigate.</p><p>Notifications for rising levels of each measurement are easy to set up. </p><p>Integrations with other devices via IFTTT are also easy to set up (though you have to download the IFTTT app).</p><p>Weather is easily accessible, so you can see the surrounding conditions (likely to influence those within your home).</p><p>The graph screen, where various levels are tracked over time, is nice. The colour and design make it easy to interpret.</p><p>There’s a sleep option for display brightness. It automatically turns the display completely off when the surroundings dim, which is great.</p><p>However, improvement of the software could easily improve the overall experience.</p><h2>Software - Cons</h2><h3>Adjusting Temperature &amp; Humidity Ranges</h3><p>My biggest complaint about the software is the lack of flexibility for &quot;acceptable&quot; levels.</p><p>Some measurements have objectively good or bad levels. Dust, VOCs, and CO2 all have limits that have been established by research.</p><p>The optimal range for temperature, however, according to the app/device, is 22-26C (72-79F). That isn&#x27;t true. <a href="https://www.sleep.org/articles/temperature-for-sleep/">Generally prescribed</a> temperature for sleeping is 16-19C (60-67F).</p><p>I prefer something around 17C for sleeping. I like 21C for working.</p><p>As a result, my score in the temperature category is always poor. This drags down my overall score, which frustrates me to no end.</p><p>The same applies to humidity. There are consequences when the humidity is too high or too low. Cold and flu symptoms and increased risk for toxic mold are the reasons cited within the app.</p><p>But the acceptable range of humidity within the app (which again, contributes to the overall score) is 40-50%. For someone in a highly variable climate (Montreal), that is a small range.</p><p><a href="https://www.caaquebec.com/en/at-home/guides/your-healthy-home-guide/temperature-and-humidity-variations/">Health Canada recommends</a> “above 30% in winter and making sure it doesn’t exceed 55% in summer”. This is much more flexible.</p><p>I want the ability to be able to specify my preferred range for both temperature and humidity within the app. </p><p>I believe this will be fixed sometime in the near future.</p><h3>Data Visualization Flexibility</h3><p>The historical data visualization looks great, and is easy to interpret. But it isn’t very flexible.</p><p>When your phone is vertical, you can view one day, from 0000 to 2400 (midnight to midnight). There is no adjustable start time, scrolling, or adjusting scales.</p><p>When your phone is horizontal, you get the option of a week, but again, no adjustment available for time scale or start time.</p><p>Being able to drag along the timeline and adjust the scale would be a big improvement.</p><h3>Exporting Data</h3><p>I want to compare with other sleep quality data. Data can be exported via the Developer API, which is great. It requires some technical knowledge, so may not be accessible for all. [tk revisit]</p><p>An easier method to export data, either via the app, or via a web dashboard, would make it easier for more people to use the data.</p><p>Developing a web application definitely complicates things, but I&#x27;d also like to see one. Data visualization is much easier within such a dashboard.</p><h3>Improvement Tips</h3><p>The app offers &quot;tips&quot; to help you improve readings. I set the app to focus on sleep. Some tips are useful, others are not.</p><p>Here&#x27;s an example of one that isn’t: &quot;Cold? Try rigging a DIY &quot;tent&quot; over your bed. Your breathing will warm up the inside of the tent.&quot;</p><p>I don’t think users will be doing this.</p><p>Others are useful: &quot;Conventional candles are made from paraffin, which omits VOCs. Use 100% soy and beeswax candles instead.&quot; I’d like to see more of these.</p><h3>Data Insights</h3><p>There is a lot of value that could be extracted from the data.</p><p>What trends am I showing long-term, and how could I address those? </p><p>Example: “You were above optimal CO2 levels 86% of the time in the past month, consider adding some plants to the room.”</p><p>Even better? Give my results some context, either with my environment or with fellow users.</p><p>Example: “Your average CO2 levels for the past month were 2000 ppm, while other users in Montreal averaged 500 ppm. Consider adding some ventilation or plants to your room.”</p><p>Adding an &quot;other users&quot; average to the data visualization would be cool too, as the values tend to vary widely through the day (CO2 levels increasing as I sleep, for example), and I’d like to see how I compare to others.</p><h3>Other Suggestions</h3><p>There are typically a couple other complaints from users.</p><p>One is that there isn&#x27;t any HomeKit support. This could be added in future.</p><p>The other is the &quot;ugh, what do you want me to do&quot; feeling that users have when they have a poor score for extended periods of time.</p><p>I can sympathize with that. Solving this requires two things: </p><ul><li>a) offering some flexibility on ideal ranges for temperature and humidity and </li><li>b) giving better tips based on individual data, as mentioned above.</li></ul><h2>Conclusion</h2><p>The Awair is a beautiful device, and along with the app, offers rich data and a good experience.</p><p>The software could use some improvement, but all my correspondence with the team indicates it will keep progressing.</p><p>I&#x27;ve made changes as a result of having the device; I added some plants to my room and I&#x27;m now much more conscious of ventilation. I may add a dehumidifier soon too.</p><p>For the technically-minded, access via the API makes data analysis possible, so you can compare with data from other sources (like sleep trackers).</p><p>I&#x27;d love to work towards improving my long-term overall score. But it&#x27;s currently dragged down by temperature/humidity, and I&#x27;m not going to change those just to fit the app preferences. This means I give up on improving my overall score. This should change soon.</p><p>The price of the Awair can be intimidating, but the flexibility of the new hardware will allow the software to catch up in the future.</p><p>If you’re planning on adding smart technology to your home, or have already, I’d look at the Awair 2nd Edition as an investment whose functionality will grow over time.</p><p>If you’re new to the smart technology world, I&#x27;d buy the Glow, which has most of the same features, and gives you a smart plug as well.</p><p>I’m looking forward to having the Awair 2nd Edition serve as the hub for improving my environment at home.</p><p>And my ideal sleep temperature? </p><p>I’ll have to wait a little while to figure that out, but I have learned that high humidity is a sure route to a poor sleep. </p><p>That alone has been worth the investment.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How 25+ Cognitive Biases Influence Your Decisions]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/cognitive-bias</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Cognitive biases affect the decisions we make every day. Understanding 25 of the most common biases will help you improve your thinking and decision-making in business, relationships, and more.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Introduction to Cognitive Bias</h2><p>If you haven’t yet, read <a href="/blog/what-is-cognitive-bias">what cognitive bias is</a>. </p><p>If you have, you know that cognitive biases are systematic patterns of deviation from rationality or norm in judgment.</p><p>In other words, cognitive biases drive us to make decisions that don’t make rational sense.</p><p>This often served us well in the past, when we lived simpler lives focused on survival.</p><p>However, in modern life they can be a source of poor decision-making in our relationships, business, and careers.</p><p>What follows is a list of the most common cognitive biases. I’ll continue to update and refine this list, so you can save it as a resource to revisit.</p><p>If you’re interested in improving your thinking, you should also read my <a href="/blog/mental-models-introduction">introduction to mental models</a>.</p><h2>List of Cognitive Biases</h2><h3><a href="/blog/what-is-confirmation-bias">Confirmation Bias</a></h3><p>We overvalue information that confirms our existing beliefs, and discount information that conflicts.</p><p>Once we form an opinion, our brain naturally prioritizes information that agrees with that view. This happens everywhere in our lives. </p><p>To fight it, avoid forming an opinion too early, and be proactive in trying to disconfirm your views. </p><p>Common situations where this occurs are justifying purchases, politics, hiring, and first impressions.</p><h3><a href="https://fs.blog/2009/08/mental-model-anchoring/">Anchoring</a></h3><p>We tend to use the first piece of information as an ‘anchor’ and adjust from there, often insufficiently.</p><p>Common situations where this can be dangerous are financial negotiations - buying new products like houses and cars, or negotiating on things like salary. </p><p>To avoid being subject to anchoring, try to come to a conclusion (on price, salary, etc.) by <a href="https://fs.blog/2018/04/first-principles/">thinking from first principles</a>, or finding your own comparables.</p><p>This can be used to your advantage when positioning products or prices, or in negotiations of your own.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_cost">Sunk Cost Fallacy</a></h3><p>When we have already incurred a cost - time, money, or otherwise - we tend to believe that it justifies further expenditure. </p><p>The more we invest, the larger the sunk costs, and the more likely we are to keep investing.</p><p>Beware the sunk cost fallacy whenever you or your team has invested significant time, money, energy or love in something. </p><p>Ensure that you evaluate the project without considering what has already been invested.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect">Dunning-Kruger Effect</a></h3><p>The more knowledgeable you are, the less confident you are in your abilities. </p><p>Rephrased, those who are less competent will be more confident in their skills.</p><p>This could be described as ‘blissful ignorance’ for many. They believe they are competent because they lack a deep enough knowledge to know what they don’t know (the <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2014/03/rumsfelds-knowns-and-unknowns-the-intellectual-history-of-a-quip/359719/">‘unknown unknowns’</a>).</p><p>We need to be careful whenever we are feeling confident in our abilities, especially in an area of little experience.</p><p>Examples include the engineer who wants to build his own house or the mathematician who believes he can beat the stock market. </p><p>Their knowledge and experience, while related, is limited compared to specialists in that field, and so they are likely to misjudge their competence.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barnum_effect">Barnum Effect</a></h3><p>The Barnum Effect, also known as the Forer effect, is when we hear vague statements, and fill in details that are specific to ourselves, believing the statement to be highly accurate.</p><p>Our minds tend to make connections, especially when we hear statements that could be interpreted as complimentary, even when the statement is vague.</p><p>This is common in astrology, fortune-telling, and even personality tests. </p><p>Examples of such statements (these were used in research showing the effect) are things like:</p><ul><li>You have a great need for other people to like and admire you.</li><li>You have a tendency to be critical of yourself.</li></ul><p>Be cautious of this effect when you hear vague statements or proclamations from a source that may not be trustworthy.</p><h3><a href="https://fs.blog/2016/08/fundamental-attribution-error/">Fundamental Attribution Errors</a></h3><p>We believe our actions are dependent upon the situation, while the actions of others depend upon their character.</p><p>In other words, we believe that what people do is based upon who they are, not the situation. In reality, this is not true. Extrapolating how someone acts in one situation to other situations is a probable source of error.</p><p>We must be particularly aware of this bias when assigning blame. </p><p>Assume ignorance, not malice, and be mindful of taking personal responsibility. <a href="/book-notes/extreme-ownership-jocko-willink-leif-babin">Extreme ownership</a> is a good strategy to counter this bias.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Placebo">Placebo Effect</a></h3><p>The placebo effect is observed when there is an improvement due to the <em>belief</em> in a treatment, not actually the treatment itself.</p><p>This is a well-known phenomenon in medicine, where inert pills or injections are given, and a noticeable improvement in symptoms is observed.</p><p>This pairs well with an understanding of <a href="https://fs.blog/2015/07/regression-to-the-mean/">regression to the mean</a>, where a supposed improvement results not as an effect of some intervention, but rather a natural movement back towards the average (often after a period of below-average performance).</p><p>Business consulting is often considered a good example. </p><p>A business goes through a tough period of time, hires consultants, and then implements suggestions of their report (or doesn’t). </p><p>The business performance prior was below average, but the consultant’s work improves morale, and the business rebounds toward the average. The consultant looks good, but would the same have happened otherwise?</p><p>Beware the placebo effect whenever something has been studied without a ‘blind’ control - a group that doesn’t know whether they’ve received a real or fake treatment.</p><h3><a href="https://fs.blog/2016/09/mental-model-bias-from-liking-loving/">Halo Effect</a></h3><p>The halo effect occurs when we attribute positive or negative qualities to someone or something based on another trait that is unrelated.</p><p>An obvious example is when we believe someone to be intelligent or competent because they are attractive (or the reverse).</p><p>The halo effect combined with confirmation bias can be very powerful. We attribute a characteristic to someone, based on a different quality, and then we select evidence to support our judgment and ignore conflicting evidence.</p><p>The halo effect is prevalent throughout the business world in hiring, advertising, marketing and peer reviews.</p><p>But it can also have a positive effect on our day-to-day life, where it helps us maintain relationships, forgive friends and family, and fall and stay in love.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bystander_effect">Bystander Effect</a></h3><p>The bystander effect is when a greater number of people cause less action. </p><p>When there are more people around, everyone believes someone else will do something.</p><p>This has been studied in the context of emergency situations, where on a busy street someone is less likely to stop and offer help than if they are the only ones around.</p><p>In business, when there are many stakeholders, and no one individual is responsible, things are less likely to get done. Everyone assumes that someone else will do it.</p><p>If you want something to get done, and are unsure if you are the lead or not, make it happen. In an emergency, make sure you get help or confirm someone has.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Framing_effect_(psychology)">Framing Effect</a></h3><p>Our choices are influenced by how something is presented. </p><p>In other words, we make different choices when something is presented positively or negatively, even if the odds are the same. </p><p>An example is a surgery that is presented as “80% chance of success” or “20% chance of death”. We will often make different choices depending upon that framing.</p><p>This gets particularly complicated when the odds and numbers get slightly more complex. Things like “20% chance of saving X people and an 80% chance of saving Y people”.</p><p>You’ll see this effect used widely in advertising and marketing, and it is hard to avoid in life. </p><p>When presented with decisions with large consequences, the solution is to try framing the problem in several different ways, and seeing how that changes your opinion. If in doubt, try <a href="https://fs.blog/2013/10/inversion/">inverting the statement or problem</a>.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Optimism_bias">Optimism Bias</a></h3><p>We overestimate the likelihood of a positive outcome. </p><p>Or, we underestimate the probability of experiencing a negative event.</p><p>In terms of potential negative consequences, this bias is huge. </p><p>Betting all your money on cryptocurrency? Investing in only one stock? Betting the company&#x27;s future on a risky marketing strategy?</p><p>There are plenty of examples throughout our lives. </p><p>The counter to the optimism bias is to make slow, calculated decisions when the consequences are high. </p><p>Try to avoid short-cutting in the decision-making process, and consider all risks. Avoid the “I think this is a good idea” quick decision, and force yourself to justify a position. Where possible, try to find analogous situations or historical data to base your decision upon.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Groupthink">Groupthink</a></h3><p>The desire to please the group, or to blend in (social pressure) overrides the best decision.</p><p>In a group, we want to please others and avoid conflict—part of our social nature. But this leads to poor decisions. </p><p>Try to avoid groupthink by implementing processes to encourage independent opinions. Force everyone to write down their opinion and reasoning independently before a meeting. Encourage criticism and challenging of ideas that isn’t taken personally. Ultimately, one person should be responsible for the decision.</p><h3><a href="https://www.brainpickings.org/2014/05/13/backfire-effect-mcraney/">Backfire Effect</a></h3><p>When our beliefs are challenged, we strengthen our belief in our original position (often in the face of conflicting evidence).</p><p>The backfire effect is closely related to confirmation bias. We already filter evidence to confirm our existing beliefs. The backfire effect occurs when our beliefs are directly challenged. We get presented with evidence that says “you are wrong”, and then we dig in to our position. </p><p>It’s painful to be wrong about something, and we go to great lengths to avoid that pain. You must try and view your opinions and beliefs as separate from yourself. They should be things to be changed or modified frequently.</p><p>Whenever you feel offended or challenged about an opinion or belief, beware; take a moment and consider what is being presented, because you may be falling prey to the backfire effect.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Declinism">Declinism</a></h3><p>We tend to view the past as better than it was, and the future more negatively than it will be.</p><p>Our memories are not to be trusted when it comes to evaluating the past, and we are poor predictors of the future.</p><p>Instead of relying on memory, try and look at objective facts relevant to the situation when trying to evaluate past events or behavior, and looking at what might happen in the future.</p><p>This is a good area to consider the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lindy_effect">Lindy effect</a>.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis">Just World Hypothesis</a></h3><p>We believe that moral or good action will bring good outcomes. We imagine the world to be ‘fair’.</p><p>There are many cliches and beliefs (“what goes around comes around”, ‘karma’, etc.) that say as much, yet it isn’t true.</p><p>The world is full of randomness, and actions do not guarantee outcomes. </p><p>“Prepare for the worst” is perhaps a better heuristic.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/In-group_favoritism">In-Group Bias</a></h3><p>We favor those who are in our group. </p><p>As humans, we like to belong, and part of our tendency when we belong to a group is to defend and favor that group (and do the opposite with those outside the group).</p><p>Historically, this has held us in good stead, with large groups of people thriving due to the benefits of group cohesion.</p><p>But in decision-making we can become blinded by our bias towards our group, and discount others.</p><p>Try to imagine what it would be like to be in another group that you’re thinking about. </p><p>For a business competitor, try and put yourself in the shoes of those employees and those founders. </p><p>Empathy is the counter to this bias.</p><h3><a href="https://fs.blog/2011/08/mental-model-availability-bias/">Availability Heuristic</a></h3><p>We overvalue information which is most easily available to us, often because it is recent, emotionally powerful, or unusual. </p><p>Our memories tend to notice these standouts, and as such, we apply them without consideration for the full set of information.</p><p>Shocking news is a good example. We overestimate the number of deaths from terrorism because it’s shocking, while discounting other larger causes.</p><p>Aiming to gather data in an organized format, and making slow decisions when the consequences are large, will help reduce the effect of available information.</p><p>Also note that when you have a strong emotional response or want to make a quick judgment, you should be careful.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Belief_bias">Belief Bias</a></h3><p>We judge arguments based on whether the conclusion agrees with our own beliefs, not on the strength of the arguments themselves.</p><p>This is another major source of error in decision-making. </p><p>It is very difficult for us to objectively evaluate arguments before knowing whether the conclusion confirms our existing beliefs or not. </p><p>Countering this bias is difficult; often it requires getting people with different perspectives or beliefs involved in the process so that the interpretation of the data, evidence, and arguments is subject to a voice with a different opinion.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reactance_(psychology)">Reactance</a></h3><p>We feel the need to do the opposite when influenced by someone to do, believe, or change something.</p><p>A common example is when someone tells you to do something and your immediate emotional reaction is to push back or argue.</p><p>This is the basis for ‘reverse psychology’—where someone attempts to influence you, knowing you will do the opposite.</p><p>It’s important to be aware of this effect, both when being asked to do something, and when trying to influence others. </p><p>When we are being influenced, as with many biases, we must try to delay our emotional reaction and evaluate the arguments behind the suggestion. Is this something that has merit?</p><p>When we are trying to influence someone else, we need to be careful not to arouse such a reaction. Instead, we should seek to draw that person towards the conclusion we want. <a href="/book-notes/48-laws-of-power-robert-greene"><em>48 Laws of Power</em></a> is a good source of tactics to accomplish this.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Curse_of_knowledge">Curse of Knowledge</a></h3><p>Once we understand something, we assume it to be obvious to everyone.</p><p>It’s very difficult to remember the time when we didn’t understand something. </p><p>It’s why university professors often have a hard time being good teachers; they are experts in their field, and it becomes difficult to explain basic concepts.</p><p>Being able to explain things in simple terms is a valuable skill. Being able to do it without being patronizing is even more valuable.</p><p>Those who master this skill are much better at winning people to their side of an argument, or convincing others to do something, like purchase a product or support a cause.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-serving_bias">Self-Serving Bias</a></h3><p>We attribute our successes to our own competence, while believing our failures are the result of negative external factors.</p><p>We also do the reverse with other people; we assume negative outcomes are their fault, while positive outcomes are a result of external factors.</p><p>We underestimate the impact of luck in general, when in reality luck and randomness play large roles in our lives.</p><p>Be generous in evaluating the actions of others, and humble in evaluating your own contribution to successes.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negativity_bias">Negativity Bias</a></h3><p>Negative things tend to influence our thinking more than positive or neutral things.</p><p>Common examples include emotions, social interactions, and outcomes. </p><p>This is closely related to framing and loss aversion. Be careful when making decisions to focus on probabilities, and frame the problem in multiple ways.</p><p>Be wary in making decisions when you are experiencing negative events or emotions, and try to avoid relying on memory. </p><p><a href="https://fs.blog/2014/02/decision-journal/">Decision journals</a>, and journaling in general, can help alleviate negative emotions, and also reflect a more accurate accounting of past events.</p><h3><a href="https://effectiviology.com/pessimism-bias/">Pessimism Bias</a></h3><p>We overestimate the likelihood that bad things will happen. </p><p>This may seem to conflict with the optimism bias, but the reality is they are often paired. </p><p>We often overestimate the probability of positive outcomes for others, while overestimating the probability of negative outcomes for ourselves. </p><p>We are also poor at estimating outcomes when they’re near extremes. </p><p>Whenever you are making a decision with large consequences, try to map out the actual numbers. </p><p><a href="https://medium.com/incerto/the-logic-of-risk-taking-107bf41029d3">As Taleb says</a>, “if there is a possibility of ruin, cost benefit analyses are no longer possible.”</p><p>Be aware of the risks and probabilities; we are poor at estimating at both positive and negative extremes.</p><h3><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spotlight_effect">Spotlight Effect</a></h3><p>We overestimate how much other people notice about how we look and act.</p><p>We are at the center of our own worlds, and as a result, we don’t have an accurate picture of how much we are noticed by others.</p><p>This tendency is the basis for being self-conscious. </p><p>In decision-making, it means we overestimate the effect we have on others, and our influence. This is also important in negotiating.</p><p>Use this knowledge to be cautious about your own knowledge, and to observe others in greater detail than others normally would. It will help you gain an edge.</p><h3><a href="https://fs.blog/2019/12/survivorship-bias/">Survivorship Bias</a></h3><p>We concentrate on those that “survive”—success stories—and fail to consider those who failed, often due to lack of visibility.</p><p>This is common when we seek to replicate success in a certain field, or when repeating a certain strategy or tactics. </p><p>Failures rarely get media coverage or have their stories told, yet we idolize those who reach success, and seek to understand how they did it. </p><p>When the startup founder talks about maxing out all her credit cards before making it big, we don’t see all those who declared bankruptcy.</p><p>Beware survivorship bias when basing actions upon success stories.</p><p>—</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Extreme Ownership: Taking Responsibility to Improve]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/extreme-ownership-and-taking-responsibility</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Learn how the concept of Extreme Ownership can help you overcome self-justification and cognitive dissonance to take responsibility and improve faster.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Extreme Ownership is a concept I first read about in <a href="/book-notes/extreme-ownership-jocko-willink-leif-babin">the book of the same name by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin (you can read my summary and notes here)</a>.</p><p>The book details examples of the concept and how they were learned, practiced, and taught, first in combat, and then in the corporate world.</p><p>The main takeaway can be summarized in two quotes from the book:</p><ol><li><em>&quot;Leaders must own everything in their world. There is no one else to blame.” </em></li><li><em>&quot;If someone isn’t doing what you want or need them to do, look in the mirror first and determine what you can do to better enable this.&quot;</em></li></ol><p>Basically: <strong><em>there is always something you can do</em></strong> to affect the outcome of a situation, so figure out how to do it.</p><p>Internalizing that concept causes a powerful change in how you perceive situations. As humans, we generally spend a lot of time trying to determine who is to blame, and for how much (or avoiding blame altogether), instead of seeking solutions.</p><p>It wasn’t until I read another book, <a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me)</em></a> (<a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson">book notes and summary here</a>), that I truly understood why the concept of Extreme Ownership was so powerful.</p><h2>Cognitive Dissonance and Self-Justification</h2><p><a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>Mistakes Were Made</em></a> is all about cognitive dissonance and self-justification: </p><p>In short, cognitive dissonance is <a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>“a state of tension that occurs whenever a person holds two cognitions (ideas, attitudes, beliefs, opinions) that are psychologically inconsistent”</em></a> (ex: I lose my breath on stairs but believe I’m fit).</p><p>Self-justification typically manifests itself in <a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>“the little lies to ourselves that prevent us from even acknowledging that we made mistakes or foolish decisions.”</em></a>(ex: I&#x27;d be more fit but my job is very busy right now, I&#x27;ll get to it soon).</p><p>As humans, we will do all kinds of things to reduce cognitive dissonance, from changing memories, to ignoring logic, to fighting with a significant other. And for good reason - it helps keep our self-esteem high, to be happy, and to forget bad things.</p><p>But when we’re trying to improve, whether it be in relationships, professional life, or otherwise, we have to reduce or get rid of self-justification and be realistic, and that’s where Extreme Ownership comes in.</p><h2>Extreme Ownership is the Short Circuit</h2><p>Extreme Ownership allows us to skip the self-justification step in examining decisions. Instead of trying to assess our own role, or determine who is at fault, we just assume blame. We assume we could have done something differently, somehow improved the outcome.</p><p>So instead of wasting time on finding blame, we can skip to the good questions and figure out how to improve:</p><ul><li>How could I have better prepared for this situation?</li><li>What behaviour could I have changed before, during, and after this happened?</li><li>How could I have communicated better?</li></ul><h2>Taking Responsibility Daily</h2><p>You can control and change adverse situations you face every day:</p><ul><li>Your team isn’t getting enough work done? </li><li>How can you train them more effectively?</li><li>The project you were in charge of got derailed by a team member?</li><li>How could you have caught it earlier? Prepared for setbacks?</li><li>You missed a deadline?</li><li>How can you better plan in future?</li><li>You’re working too many hours?</li><li>How can you document your contributions so you can ask for a raise? How can you train your team and delegate better to free up your time?</li></ul><p>Extreme Ownership is a shortcut to becoming more objective, improving faster, and making changes to improve your own life. </p><p><em>“Extreme Ownership requires leaders to look at an organization’s problems through the objective lens of reality, without emotional attachments to agendas or plans. It mandates that a leader set ego aside, accept responsibility for failures, attack weaknesses, and consistently work to a build a better and more effective team.”</em> (from <a href="/book-notes/extreme-ownership-jocko-willink-leif-babin">Extreme Ownership</a>)</p><p>So the next time you’re faced with a sub-standard outcome, a failure, or even a success, <strong><em>“look in the mirror first and determine what you can do...”</em></strong></p><p>Read my notes and summary of <a href="/book-notes/extreme-ownership-jocko-willink-leif-babin"><em>Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win</em> here</a>.</p><p>Read my notes and summary of <a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson"><em>Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me)</em></a> here.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Form Good Habits (and Break Bad Ones)]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/how-to-form-good-habits</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Forming new habits is tough–most of us fail when we try. But creating good habits is worth the effort. This post provides a detailed guide on how to form good habits and break bad ones.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Forming new habits is tough–most of us fail when we try.</p><p>But creating good habits is worth the effort.</p><p>James Clear’s <a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear"><em>Atomic Habits</em></a> is the best book I know about habit formation, and he lays out why creating good habits are so important: </p><blockquote>“...if you can get 1 percent better each day for one year, you’ll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you’re done...Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement. The same way that money multiplies through compound interest, the effects of your habits multiply as you repeat them. They seem to make little difference on any given day and yet the impact they deliver over the months and years can be enormous.”</blockquote><p>Small habits, over long periods, can deliver amazing results.</p><h3>Why Habits, and Not Goals?</h3><p>The first step many of us take when setting out to do something new is setting a goal.</p><p>Goals can be valuable. They give us something to reach for and a metric by which to measure success.</p><p>But there are downsides.</p><p>We all know someone who has crash-dieted for a short time (wedding season?), only to gain the weight back a week later.</p><p>And the people who wanted to learn a new language, but stopped studying after a month.</p><p>There are several problems with focusing on goals.</p><p><strong>Goals are often set poorly</strong>. Setting good goals is a valuable skill that should be practiced. You will have to set goals your whole life.</p><p>But most of us don’t set good goals. We set goals that are aspirational but lack a specific time frame. We don’t think about the strategy required to meet those goals, and if it’s realistic. We don’t do <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre-mortem">pre-mortems</a> to think about what could go wrong along the way.</p><p>We set ourselves up for failure.</p><p><strong>Predictions are difficult</strong>. Humans are bad at making predictions. We see it in every facet of life: TV pundits, so-called “experts”, and our neighbor who thinks he’s a stock-market genius.</p><p>When we make goals, we are attempting to predict, often with limited information. </p><p>“I want to learn a language in 6 months.” Is that realistic? </p><p>Often, when we don’t know much about a particular subject, it becomes even harder to make good predictions. We don’t know <a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2014/03/rumsfelds-knowns-and-unknowns-the-intellectual-history-of-a-quip/359719/">the ‘unknown unknowns.’</a></p><p><strong>Like predictions, goals are subject to unexpected events</strong>. Part of the reason why making good predictions is hard is that many factors influence outcomes that are far in the future. </p><p>A family member getting sick can derail all kinds of goals. Unexpected changes in life change our plans all the time.</p><p><strong>Long-term goals often discourage us.</strong> As <a href="https://fs.blog/2016/03/five-percent-better/">Peter Drucker said</a>: “People often overestimate what they can accomplish in one year. But they greatly underestimate what they could accomplish in five years.” </p><p>A long-term goal can seem unattainable at the start. Compound interest doesn’t pay off until near the end. </p><p>Looking at a goal like “running a marathon”, for example, can seem impossible when you’re just starting out and struggling to run a few miles. The gap between where we are and where we want to be can make taking the first steps seem useless.</p><p>Goals can be valuable. But for many reasons, they aren’t ideal. </p><p>Instead, we should focus on what will get us to those goals: habits.</p><h3>How to Form Good Habits</h3><p><a href="/book-notes/the-power-of-habit-charles-duhigg">Charles Duhigg laid out the formula</a> for every habit we have: “a habit is a formula our brain automatically follows: when I see CUE, I will do ROUTINE in order to get a REWARD.”</p><p>This cue–craving–response–reward loop forms the basis for all our habits, bad or good.</p><p>So how do we successfully form new habits?</p><p>Here is <a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">James Clear’s formula</a> for <em>how</em> to create a good habit:</p><ul><li><strong>“The 1st law (Cue):</strong> Make it obvious.</li><li><strong>The 2nd law (Craving)</strong>: Make it attractive.</li><li><strong>The 3rd law (Response)</strong>: Make it easy.</li><li><strong>The 4th law (Reward)</strong>: Make it satisfying.”</li></ul><p>One of my favorite quotes from <a href="/book-notes/atomic-habits-james-clear">Atomic Habits</a>: </p><blockquote>“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”</blockquote><p>To create new habits, we must build systems that make our habit obvious, attractive, easy and satisfying.</p><h4>Build Upon a Habit You Already Have</h4><p>Starting a new habit is easiest if you build it on top of one that already exists. </p><p>This is called habit stacking. The formula for habit stacking is:</p><p>After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [NEW HABIT].</p><p>Want to learn to start flossing? Add it to part of your morning routine that already exists. </p><p>Perhaps when you step into the shower in the morning, you grab your floss and do it then. Or instead of brushing your teeth immediately after breakfast, you floss first.</p><p>Ideally, you should layer it upon a <em>habit you enjoy</em>. If you struggle or dislike the habit you’re trying to layer on top of, it’s more likely that you’ll just try to avoid both.</p><h4>Build Your Environment For Success</h4><p>Your environment plays a huge role in how obvious, attractive and easy your habits are.</p><p>Use visual cues whenever possible to trigger your habits, and make them as easy as possible. </p><p>Want to floss more? Put floss on your shower shelf and your sink, and leave a sticky note on the bathroom mirror reminding you to floss. </p><p>Want to play guitar more? Put your guitar out on a stand in the middle of your living room instead of packed away in a case in your closet.</p><p>Completely new environments are often helpful for establishing new habits and eliminating old ones. </p><p>Use your environment to remind you about your new habit.</p><h4>Make Your New Habit Stupidly Easy</h4><p>Habits are formed based on frequency, not time. </p><p>In other words, you want to establish a new habit by doing it over and over, not doing it for long periods.</p><p>James Clear’s rule: “When you start a new habit, it should take less than two minutes to do so.”</p><p>If you want to start journaling once per day, you should start by writing one word in your journal per day. Even better, figure out what you’re going to write ahead of time.</p><p>“Write in my journal every day” becomes “Write down ‘I am a person who journals every day’”. It becomes so easy that it’s hard <em>not</em> to do.</p><p>Once you’ve established the habit, you can begin to expand it. Some days you may feel like writing more, but success will be determined only by whether you wrote that one sentence.</p><p>Want to start going to the gym more? Make a successful gym trip one where you go to the gym and change into workout clothes. That’s it. No exercise necessary.</p><p>The habit should be <em>as easy as possible to accomplish</em>.</p><h2>Examples of Potential Habits &amp; Starting Points:</h2><ul><li><strong>Journal daily: Write 1 word or “I am a person who journals” when I have my morning coffee.</strong></li><li><strong>Run each morning: Put on workout clothes after I wake up.</strong></li><li><strong>Play guitar: Strum one chord every day when I come home from work.</strong></li></ul><h4>Reward Yourself</h4><p>The final step of new habit formation is the reward.</p><p>Sometimes the action itself will be reward enough for you. </p><p>When it isn’t, find a reward that you look forward to, but isn’t too destructive. Going to the gym and putting workout gear on isn’t enough justification for a large pizza. But it could be enough to warrant a nice coffee.</p><p>Ideally, the reward builds upon the habit. Whenever you pass on a purchase, for example, you move that money to a savings account.</p><h4>Track Your Progress Visually</h4><p>There are various apps for tracking habits, but I suggest making it even simpler. </p><p>Print out a calendar for the month of your habit formation, and put it next to wherever you accomplish that habit, along with a marker.</p><p>Each time you complete the habit, mark that day with an X. Building streaks will give you the motivation to keep going with your habit.</p><p>Remember, habits are built with frequency, not time.</p><h4>Put Fear of Loss to Work</h4><p>If you’re serious about committing to your habit, create a contract with a friend, or <a href="https://getspar.com/">use an app like Spar!</a> to put money on the line.</p><p>As humans, we hate losing something much more than we enjoy gaining that same thing. </p><p>Create an agreement with a friend that if you fail to create your habit, they will deposit a cheque you give them to a cause you dislike. </p><p>If you use Spar!, it will charge you $5 for every day you don’t upload video proof of completing your new habit.</p><p>Social contracts and putting money on the line will help you adhere to a new habit. It will feel scary at first, but that’s the point–it’s effective.</p><h4>Make It Part of Your Identity</h4><p>It was deliberate when I suggested writing ‘I am a person who journals every day’ as a way to start a journaling habit.</p><p>Our identities are closely linked to our habits, and vice versa. When we talk about forming a habit, our goal is not to change our behavior, it is to change our identity. </p><p>We don’t want to go to the gym every day–we want to become someone who exercises. </p><p>We don’t want to play guitar each day–we want to become musicians. </p><p>Use this mind trick to your advantage. Tell yourself that you are the person you want to become. This change in mindset will help you stick with your habits, and as you stick with your habits, it will reinforce this identity.</p><p>“Every action is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.” - James Clear, Atomic Habits</p><h4>Expect Setbacks</h4><p>No one is perfect. We all experience setbacks. </p><p>There will be days where you don’t make it to the gym, or forget to floss, or don’t manage to read just one page.</p><p>The important part is to get back on track.</p><p>Forgive yourself, and get back on track the next day. Don’t let multiple days stack up, or beat yourself up for missing a day. </p><p>Just get back to it tomorrow.</p><h4>When in Doubt, Return to the Formula</h4><p>Not being as successful as you’d like with your new habit? Go back to the formula:</p><ul><li><strong>The 1st law (Cue):</strong> Make it obvious.</li><li><strong>The 2nd law (Craving)</strong>: Make it attractive.</li><li><strong>The 3rd law (Response)</strong>: Make it easy.</li><li><strong>The 4th law (Reward)</strong>: Make it satisfying.</li></ul><p>Ask yourself:</p><ul><li>How can I make this more obvious?</li><li>How can I make this more attractive?</li><li>How can I make it easier?</li><li>How can I make it more satisfying?</li></ul><p>Think about the underlying goal. Is it really to go to the gym every day? Or is it to get fit? </p><p>Maybe you can try a different type of exercise, go with a friend, and go to the gym next to your work instead of the one across town. Try upping the reward, or the punishment (or both).</p><p>Building good habits is an iterative process. Expect that you won’t be perfect the first time. </p><p>Keep returning to the formula until you’ve built a system for success.</p><h3>How to Break Bad Habits</h3><p>To break bad habits, use the same principles for forming good habits. Just invert the laws. From Atomic Habits:</p><ul><li><strong>“Inversion of the 1st law (Cue)</strong>: Make it invisible.</li><li><strong>Inversion of the 2nd law (Craving):</strong> Make it unattractive.</li><li><strong>Inversion of the 3rd law (Response)</strong>: Make it difficult.</li><li><strong>Inversion of the 4th law (Reward)</strong>: Make it unsatisfying.”</li></ul><p>All of the same principles apply, we’re simply reversing the goal.</p><p>Instead of adding visual cues, we want to remove them.</p><p>Instead of building our environment to make a habit easy, we want to make it hard.</p><p>Instead of adding a reward when you accomplish your habit, add a punishment to make it unsatisfying.</p><h4>First, Replace Your Bad Habits</h4><p>You should do your best to remove and reduce the number of times a cue triggers a bad habit. </p><p>But going cold turkey is difficult. There will inevitably be times when your old cue triggers a craving. </p><p>In the early days of forming a new habit, you should substitute something else as your response.</p><p>Once you’ve successfully managed to do this, then you can start creating new habits or triggers.</p><p>Trying to break your habit of drinking a beer or two when you get home from work? Substitute something else you enjoy–maybe a diet soda, or sparkling water. </p><p>You satisfy your craving but transform the habit.</p><h3>Habit Examples</h3><p>Here’s how I would think about trying to establish new habits and breaking old ones. </p><h4>Building a New Habit - Stretching</h4><p>The goal: become flexible.</p><p>The habit: stretch more often.</p><p>I want to become more flexible because I think it will help my body feel better and less likely to be injured.</p><p>I already work out several times a week, and this seems like the ideal time to stretch, so I’m going to add my new habit to this routine.</p><ul><li>I want to make it easy, so I will perform one stretch after each workout. I’ll define one stretch as simply doing the stretch, with no time requirement.</li><li>I want to be specific, so I choose a simple quad stretch to start with, so there’s no guessing about which one I need to do.</li><li>To remind myself, I put an event in my calendar following every workout session I have scheduled that will send me a notification reminding me to stretch.</li><li>To track progress, I print off a calendar and put it with a marker in my gym bag, so I can mark off each successful day when I finish my workout.</li><li>Each time I remember to stretch, I reward myself with a sauna session afterward, something I enjoy but don’t always take the time to do.</li><li>Once this habit becomes automatic, I can add other stretches and longer duration, but for the first 6 weeks, I commit to just doing one stretch.</li></ul><p>This is a solid plan, but the one downside about a gym or public place is that you don’t control much of the environment. I might be better off trying to tie this habit to something at home, where I have more control.</p><h4>Breaking a Bad Habit - Drinking at Home</h4><p>The goal: drink less.</p><p>The habit to break: drinking one or two beer at home each evening.</p><p>I want to drink less because I think it will make me feel healthier, help me sleep, and contribute to other good habits (like exercising more).</p><p>I identify the one or two drinks I tend to have each evening as an easy spot to cut back and decide those will be my target.</p><ul><li>The easiest way to cut this out is just not keeping anything to drink at home. But I want to have some for when entertaining and when I do want to drink.</li><li>I make the habit much less attractive by not keeping any beer in the fridge unless I know I’m entertaining.</li><li>I make it less obvious by putting the beer in a new cupboard that is harder to access and doing the same with any other alternate liquor.</li><li>I know that when I come home from work, I’m likely to still have the craving for a while, so I make sure I have an alternative reward. I like flavored sparkling water, so I stock up the fridge with those instead.</li><li>For me, the alternate here–the sparkling water–is enough of a reward, but as a backup, I’m going to pick something I’d like to buy–a new pair of workout shoes, for example–and say that for every night I don’t drink any beer, I’m going to put $5 in a savings account towards those shoes.</li><li>I also print off a calendar and put it up next to the fridge with a marker, so that each time I have sparkling water instead of a beer, I can mark it off.</li><li>Finally, I challenge my brother, who also wants to drink less, to put $250 on the line, which will be donated to a cause we both hate if we don’t manage to avoid drinking on weekdays.</li></ul><h3>Habits Don’t Add, They Compound</h3><p>Albert Einstein is rumored to have said: “compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world”.</p><p>I’ll return to the quote we mentioned at the beginning:</p><p>“...if you can get 1 percent better each day for one year, you’ll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you’re done...Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement.”</p><p>Habits are behind every significant accomplishment in our life. </p><p>Deliberate practice is built through habit. </p><p>Mastery is built through habit.</p><p>Build your life around good habits. </p><p>Build your identity around good habits. </p><p>Favor action over planning. </p><p>Build your life to make bad habits impossible.</p><p>Remember: “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Jocko Willink Workout Advice That Changed My Habits]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Learn about the Jocko Willink workout advice that has changed my habits, helping me stick to things like scheduled workouts.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If anyone knows about workouts, it’s <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jocko_Willink">former Navy SEAL Jocko Willink</a>.</p><p>I was first introduced to Jocko’s work by <a href="https://tim.blog/podcast/">Tim Ferriss</a>, who had him as a guest <a href="https://tim.blog/2015/09/25/jocko-willink/">on his podcast first in 2015</a>, and then <a href="https://tim.blog/2016/09/21/jocko-willink-on-discipline-leadership-and-overcoming-doubt/">again in 2016</a>. His <a href="https://tim.blog/2017/10/20/discipline-equals-freedom/">most recent appearance</a> was recently to promote his new book, <a href="/book-notes/discipline-equals-freedom-field-manual-jocko-willink">Discipline Equals Freedom: Field Manual</a>. </p><p>Tim describes him as “one of the scariest human beings imaginable” and his bio reads: “He is a lean 230 pounds. He is a Brazilian jiu-jitsu expert who used to tap out 20 Navy SEALs per workout. He is a legend in the Special Operations world. His eyes look through you more than at you.”</p><p>I’ve listened to the podcasts, read his original book <a href="/book-notes/extreme-ownership-jocko-willink-leif-babin">Extreme Ownership</a>, and then read his most recent book, <a href="/book-notes/discipline-equals-freedom-field-manual-jocko-willink">Discipline Equals Freedom</a>, just a few weeks ago.</p><h2>Jocko&#x27;s Workout Advice Pt. 1 - DON&#x27;T THINK. DO.</h2><p>While<a href="/book-notes"> I took notes on several of the books</a>, one thing he kept mentioning stuck with me, best summarized in one of <a href="https://twitter.com/jockowillink/status/935476720051765249">his recent tweets</a>: “DON’T THINK. DO.”</p><p>It’s not the first time he’s said something similar. In a <a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/jocko-willink-how-to-wake-up-earlier-2017-11">Business Insider article</a>, he was quoted saying:</p><p>&quot;Don&#x27;t think in the morning,&quot; Willink said. &quot;That&#x27;s a big mistake that people make. They wake up in the morning and they start thinking. Don&#x27;t think. Just execute the plan. The plan is the alarm clock goes off, you get up, you go work out. Get some.&quot;</p><p>In his most recent book, <a href="/book-notes/discipline-equals-freedom-field-manual-jocko-willink">Discipline Equals Freedom</a>, he mentions something similar:</p><p>“Before you go to bed, plan what workout you are going to do in the morning. Stage your workout clothes so you don’t even have to think when you get up.”</p><h2>Jocko&#x27;s Workout Advice Pt. 2 - GO THROUGH THE MOTIONS</h2><p>But the words that stuck with me most were “don’t think”. It was really catalyzed by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BTgfmDwBo6D/?taken-by=jockowillink">this Instagram post</a>, which transcribed reads:</p><blockquote>“I always heard people saying that the term, the phrase, ‘going through the motions’ as if it was a negative thing. I don’t agree with that, because sometimes you might not feel like doing what you gotta do, and instead of not doing it, just go ahead and go through the motions. GO THROUGH THE MOTIONS. GET IT DONE.”</blockquote><p>After that, <strong>the phrase “Don’t think. Go through the motions” became a mantra</strong> for me. Specifically, when the inner dialogue before my workout starts talking - ‘you have work to finish’; ‘it can wait until tomorrow when you have more time’ - I think about that phrase.</p><p>While I think about that phrase, I shut off my mind, shut off the dialogue. Put on my workout clothes and running shoes, and head out the door.</p><p>And what do you know? I haven’t missed a scheduled workout since.</p><p>This mantra (and the thought of Jocko specifically speaking it) has been my biggest habit boost in a long time.</p><p>So next time you’re thinking about skipping a workout, or hear the inner dialogue starting when you need to get out of bed, just r<strong>epeat that mantra “Don’t think. Go through the motions”, and shut down your mind</strong>.</p><p>You’ll be very happy with the results.</p><p>Here’s Jocko talking about it in more detail:</p><p>If you want more Jocko motivation, I’d highly recommend checking out his spoken stuff on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/artist/10JcyTp9YTVK1zQSbApoJC">Spotify</a> or <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/psychological-warfare/id1183222322">Apple Music</a> - particularly the <a href="https://open.spotify.com/album/58ju4h6P1phjQutCpMJ6eY">album ‘Psychological Warfare’</a> - I use <a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/0UayhOBJOrjTeMI762t8dP">this track</a> as my morning alarm.</p><p>Thanks Jocko.</p><h3><strong>Further Reading</strong></h3><p>You can find Jocko on <a href="https://twitter.com/jockowillink">Twitter</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jockowillink/">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Jocko-Willink-818075548306978/">Facebook</a>, and <a href="http://jockopodcast.com/">listen to his podcast here.</a></p><p>Read my summary and notes of <a href="/book-notes/extreme-ownership-jocko-willink-leif-babin">Extreme Ownership here</a>, or <a href="http://amzn.to/2kqwd7p">buy the book here</a>.Read my summary and notes of <a href="/book-notes/discipline-equals-freedom-field-manual-jocko-willink">Discipline Equals Freedom here</a>, or <a href="http://amzn.to/2zQPmCu">buy the book here</a>.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Measurement is Not the Goal (and Sleep Anxiety is Real)]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Those of us who like data try to measure everything. But what if that’s counterproductive? Measuring things is not the goal. This post explores when and what we should be measuring, using the example of sleep anxiety.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This weekend, over post-dinner drinks, a friend and I got into a discussion about sleep.</p><p>It’s not unusual for me. The discussion typically starts with a question about my watch, which is a cheap Garmin (<a href="https://amzn.to/324WMk1">vivoactive 1</a>), but resembles an Apple Watch.</p><p>They ask how I like it, and I tell them it’s great, but I actually don’t like the smart watch features. I use it for tracking running, cycling, and sleep. And these days, it’s mostly sleep tracking.</p><p>The sleep tracking functions of this particular watch are all movement based. They’re rudimentary. But I like having it anyway, and that was the most advanced technology available at the time.</p><p>This led us to discussing the quirky things we do for good sleep.</p><h2><strong>Improving Sleep</strong></h2><p>For her, it was custom-moulded earplugs and a mouthpiece. The earplugs were the sleep aid she valued most.</p><p>For me, the list is much longer. </p><p>I’ve talked before about <a href="/blog/10-things-i-do-to-sleep-better">what I do to get the best sleep possible</a>.</p><p>Earplugs are part of it, though I don’t have custom moulded ones (yet).</p><p>I black out all my windows.</p><p>I have a light alarm clock, and overhead lights that slowly get brighter in the morning.</p><p>Sometimes I play white noise on my speaker overnight.</p><p>I have a heater attached to a smart plug to warm up the room in the morning.</p><p>I’ve gone as far as attempting to measure the perfect amount of water to keep you hydrated, yet not wake you up having to pee through the night.</p><p>Recently, I added <a href="/blog/awair-2nd-edition-review">an air quality monitor</a> to my room to measure temperature, humidity, CO2, VOC and dust levels, in an attempt to further isolate the variables associated with good sleep.</p><p>But what if those things don’t matter?</p><h2><strong>Tracking Sleep</strong></h2><p>In theory, these factors affect sleep quality. We all know how poorly we sleep when it’s too hot or too cold, or when it’s very humid, or very dry.</p><p>My aim has been to improve each area, with the goal of consistently better sleep.</p><p>The problem is that the tracking technology I currently use doesn’t allow me to verify the result of these changes.</p><p>There are better trackers available - I’m interested in both <a href="https://www.whoop.com/">WHOOP</a> and <a href="https://ouraring.com/">Oura</a>, and have plans to try them both - but I don’t have them now. And I didn’t when I tracked my sleep over the past two years.</p><p>So what’s the point? Is there a downside?</p><p>Turns out, those are good questions.</p><p><a href="https://peterattiamd.com/">Peter Attia, an MD well-known in self-quantification circles</a>, is an amateur endurance athlete, and a geek about this stuff.</p><p>He’s an investor in Oura, and has previously spoken about how his Oura ring and his continuous glucose monitor are the two devices he uses, because the data he gets from them is actionable.</p><p>For the rest of us though, what if we can’t track sleep with anything more than a Fitbit? Is it worth worrying so much about our sleep?</p><p>My friend argued that worrying about sleep could have negative consequences. It’s like focusing on the clock when you want time to pass quickly - it makes it worse.</p><p>Turns out, she could be right.</p><h2><strong>The Science Behind Sleep Trackers</strong></h2><p>In a <a href="http://jcsm.aasm.org/viewabstract.aspx?pid=30955">recently published case study</a>, authors noted that the data from many of the most common sleep trackers - Fitbits, Apple Watches, and the like (including my Garmin watch) - don’t actually correlate with more proven methods of monitoring sleep.</p><p>Furthermore, there was an increase in sleep anxiety among patients who started using them.</p><p>I don’t worry too much about my sleep. </p><p>But the downside of any routine is that when the routine is broken, it can cause anxiety that wouldn’t have existed without a routine in the first place.</p><p>The danger is that you worry about the sleep score on your device, which may not be accurate.</p><p>And there is some anecdotal evidence for this. For example, I know that personally, some of my best sleep happens after a long evening on the water. When I get back, I fall asleep as I hit the pillow, and wake up fully refreshed.</p><p>On a typical work day, that rarely happens.</p><p>Do I think it’s because of the lack of focus on sleep tracking? No. There are other factors in that example that affect sleep quality.</p><p>Exposure to sunlight and sunset helps balance my circadian rhythm. Physical activity on the water tires me out. I’m not getting the blue light that supposedly disrupts those same patterns, because I’m not looking at screens before bed. And if I’m on the water, I’m often in Nova Scotia, where there is little ambient noise, aside from the sound of the ocean or the forest.</p><h2><strong>Measurement is Not the Goal</strong></h2><p>Many of us who love new technology and new data forget that measurement is not the end goal.</p><p>The goal is to make changes that improve outcomes, and to measure those outcomes to verify. </p><p>In this case, the goal is to improve sleep, and to figure out what changes lead to that outcome.</p><p>If we can figure out the small changes that make a large difference to our sleep - making sure that the room is dark, wearing earplugs in the city, or avoiding blue light before bed - then we don’t need to keep measuring. We don’t have to keep worrying. We just need to do.</p><p>So before you start measuring anything with your sleep, ask yourself, “is this going to lead to something actionable? Is the data I’m gathering valid?”</p><p>If not, you may not want to start measuring at all.</p><p>You might also enjoy this post: <a href="/blog/10-things-i-do-to-sleep-better"><strong>10 Things I Do to Sleep Better</strong></a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Favourite Style Companies & Products]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[My go-to apparel and style brands for quality, durability, and timeless design—including the specific products I wear most and why they've earned a permanent spot in my wardrobe.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://mylesapparel.com/"><strong>Myles Apparel (henleys, shorts)</strong></a></p><p>Having probably my most busy travel year ever, and living somewhat nomadically since April, I’ve been traveling pretty light (typically just a carry-on and backpack for 3-6 weeks). I bought a couple Myles Apparel henleys this spring, and they’ve quickly become my most-worn shirts. I’ve worn them on hikes, on boat trips, to awards ceremonies, and on dates, and they’re always great. They’re a bit expensive, but worth every penny. I assume every Myles product is as good.</p><p><a href="https://combatgent.com/"><strong>Combat Gent (shoes)</strong></a></p><p>Combat Gent is billed as quality, well-fitting at a good price point. I’ve tried some of their shirts, and couldn’t find a good fit, but their shorts and shoes deliver in my experience. I’ve worn the Chelsea boots a lot this year, and everyone should have a pair.</p><p><a href="http://www.uniqlo.com/ca/en/"><strong>Uniqlo (button downs, t-shirts)</strong></a></p><p>I searched for a long time to find a button-down that really fit me. Club Monaco was my go-to for a while, but they’re still not perfect; I had some custom dress shirts made (see Black Lapel) which are great but not good for casual; Frank + Oak makes some good fits, but eventually I found the Uniqlo shirts, and they&#x27;re awesome (and also super cheap). I go for size M Slim Fit, and they are just about perfect for me (6’2”, 200lbs, athletic build).</p><p>The other awesome product they make are their <a href="https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/men/airism-collection">AIRism undershirts</a> – these are shirts cut with extra deep Vs, made of a breathable material, that make an awesome layer under casual shirts. Typically the white t-shirts I used to wear under shirts were too bulky and the seams showed – these are super thin, but just enough to make the casual shirt breath a bit better.</p><p>I also go for their t-shirts – pretty much your standard basic tees, but just as good as H&amp;M, Joe Fresh, etc.</p><p><a href="https://www.frankandoak.com/"><strong>Frank + Oak (various)</strong></a></p><p>I’ve done some work with Frank + Oak, but I was a customer long before. They were founded in Montreal, and I’ve met some of those involved, but in general I love their style and cuts. Not everything is for me, but I currently own everything from jackets to button downs to jeans, and it’s all great.</p><p><a href="https://peoplefootwear.com/"><strong>People Sneakers</strong></a></p><p>These are pretty much like Converse but better. I wanted something a little different after wearing Converse for years, and I love the clean look and light weight of these shoes. They’re super comfortable, affordable, and I usually take a black pair whenever I travel because they’re so versatile. Highly recommend (oh, and they’re Canadian – go Canada!).</p><p><a href="http://www.patagonia.ca/home/"><strong>Patagonia (technical wear)</strong></a></p><p>Patagonia, or Patagucci as some like to call it, makes good stuff. I typically buy technical jackets/garments from them for camping and hiking, but a wetsuit from them is likely in my future.</p><p><a href="https://blacklapel.com/"><strong>Black Lapel (suits, dress shirts)</strong></a></p><p>I don’t wear a suit often, but it does always feel good to dress up. Unsatisfied with my high-school-purchased suits a few years ago, I ended up learning a lot about men’s dresswear, and subsequently researching all kinds of custom tailors.</p><p>I ended up ordering from Black Lapel, (Indochino was a close second), and I’ve been very satisfied. Their shirt quality isn’t the highest, but I’ve now bought two dress shirts and a suit from them, and it would be very, very difficult for me to get a better fit. Be prepared to invest some time and money in the initial process (two shirts and a suit is basically the minimum, in my opinion), but once you’ve got it locked down, you’ll have a source of custom clothes at a much more reasonable price, and you’ll look awesome.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2zz8Hbo"><strong>Sperry No-Show Socks</strong></a></p><p>I wear these all summer (and much of spring/fall) long, with sneakers and boat shoes. They’re awesome. I’ve tried all the solutions for keeping your shoes smelling great, but ultimately these are the only thing that consistently works. I also find they tend to reduce the instances of blistering on long days, and it looks like you’re not wearing socks at all. Invest in 9 pairs and you won&#x27;t regret it.</p><p><a href="http://amzn.to/2yxGiEh"><strong>SnoSeal Shoe Protector</strong></a></p><p>Speaking of trying all kinds of solutions – I’ve tried all sorts of waterproofing/salt protection methods with boots, and this is the only one that works. Montreal winters are particularly nasty, but properly applied, SnoSeal will keep your boots pristine.</p><p>One caveat: they will make the finish of your boots a little hazy. It’s not extreme, and I don’t find it affects how happy I am with the look of my winter cap-toe boots, but just be aware. For me, not having boots that are ruined with salt, and are extremely waterproof, more than makes up for it.</p><p>To properly apply, you do have to heat your boots quite a bit – I’d recommend putting them on a cookie tray and then in the oven, to prevent leaving oven rack marks on your boot soles (oops). Once they’re heated enough, the SnoSeal should melt right on.</p><p><a href="https://www.ryderseyewear.com/"><strong>Ryders Sunglasses</strong></a></p><p>I’ve owned a lot of sunglasses over the years, not really sure why, but I keep coming back to Ryders. They make some great-looking sunglasses for pretty cheap (&lt;$100), which means I have no problem throwing them in my bag on long trips and not worrying too much about them.</p><p>I’ve owned Oakleys, Ray-bans, Kaenons, etc., and yes the optics on some are better – but not worrying about losing my $300 sunglasses while traveling is a nice luxury.</p><p><a href="https://www.kaenon.com/"><strong>Kaenon Sunglasses</strong></a></p><p>I’ll also give these ones a shoutout – bar down the best optics in sunglasses I’ve ever experienced. They’re made by some founders that used to work at Oakley, and specialize in sailing sunglasses, but you can get casual glasses now too, and their support is great. I’ve recommended pairs to lots of friends, and you’ll see all the pros wearing them sailing. Worth the expense.</p><p><strong>Notable mention: <a href="https://www.everlane.com">Everlane</a></strong></p><p>A friend recommended I check this company out (thanks Bea!), and while I haven’t had a chance yet, they do have some great looking stuff. They’re also dedicated to <a href="https://www.everlane.com/factories">ethically produced clothing</a>, which, after seeing a great talk on the topic at <a href="https://www.cuspconference.com/">CUSP</a>, I’m also definitely more interested in.</p><p>What other brands do you buy from/like? What specific products? Let me know in the comments!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Stop Criticizing Positive Change]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/stop-criticizing-positive-change</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Many people want to improve themselves. Our natural tendency when people attempt to make a change is to find the faults, the imperfections. You must fight this habit.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone wants to change something; something about themselves, about how the world works, or something in their community.</p><p>Many of us want to change for the better - to be more fit, to use less plastic, to be less destructive to the environment.</p><p>Yet many of us also criticize others when their efforts aren’t perfect. </p><p>Some topics are taboo - we don’t often criticize those trying to lose weight when we see them eating poorly, or skipping a workout.</p><p>But for many other things, when someone tells us they are trying to make a change, we question the exception.</p><p>“I saw you use a plastic straw last week.”</p><p>“Didn’t you just take a plane to go on vacation?”</p><p>“You ate a burger for lunch last week.”</p><p>We feel inadequate when someone else is making a positive change, so we seek to undermine their efforts. </p><p>We have difficulty making changes ourselves, so it’s easier to find imperfection in the efforts of others than to learn and understand and make our own changes.</p><p>Fight this habit. </p><p>How does it help others to make them feel shameful or inadequate for trying something new? For trying to be better?</p><p>You may believe that it holds them to a higher standard, that you’re doing them a favor. This is wrong. They haven’t asked for your opinion or your advice. They haven’t asked you what you think they could improve.</p><p>Instead, just encourage the effort they’re making. </p><p>Reinforce their success: “That’s great! Good for you for making the effort. I’d like to learn more about it.”</p><p>Encourage them to share what they’ve learned. Do your own research.</p><p>Save your criticism for those who choose to cause harm, who choose to make negative choices. </p><p>Who deserves your lobbying efforts - your friend who has good intentions, or the person trading profits for harm?</p><p>There are bigger problems in the world. Go fight those.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Week 2 - Settling In]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/techstars-week-2-settling-in</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Learnings from Week 2 of Techstars Boston, covering the start of Mentor Madness, adjusting to the intense accelerator pace, and early lessons on startup focus and prioritization.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you haven&#x27;t read the previous post, start with <a href="/blog/techstars-week-1-the-beginning">Techstars Week 1</a>, and then make sure to check out <a href="/blog/techstars-week-3-sales-are-king">Techstars Week 3</a> as well. This week in Techstars, Mentor Madness started, and it is aptly titled; complete mayhem for the Associates, founders and managing directors for a couple days, tempered only by the great (and thankless) job of those that were organizing it.</p><p>One of the great benefits of being an Associate is that you get to sit in on the mentor sessions and take notes for the companies and mentors. What that really means, if you’re paying attention, is that you can get to know the companies and mentors strengths and weaknesses intimately, and make a pretty good connection with a wide variety of mentors.</p><p>One of the more interesting results besides the obvious benefits above, is that you get to see how companies approach mentors, and the resulting dynamic. Both companies and mentors improve as time goes on, and they learn how to make the most of the 25 minutes given.</p><p>But the underlying lessons are applicable to much more than just one-on-one meetings - networking, investor meetings, dating – all are applicable in some ways. However, the following advice pertains most to meetings where you hope to gain advice or mentorship, and have a limited time (as most meetings should be).</p><h2>Getting the Most out of Techstars (or Any) Mentoring</h2><p>The best meetings were inevitably the result of a several things:</p><ol><li><strong>Preparation beforehand:</strong> founders knew the mentor’s background and skill set, and didn’t need to waste extra time on introductions. It also let them pinpoint the areas they thought the mentor could help with, and let them ask interesting, specific questions.</li><li><strong>Willingness to show vulnerability:</strong> the quicker teams realized that they didn’t need to ‘sell’ the business, more interesting topics like how much their bounce rate sucked, or how many customers they lost on step 3 of their funnel, and the resulting advice is much more actionable and useful. Showing vulnerability and asking for advice puts the other person in a position of power and often will elicit much more interesting responses.</li><li><strong>Organization:</strong> Those teams that came in with a 3-minute pitch designed for this person in particular spent way less time communicating what their business actually did, and more on solving the issues they were facing. Some founders in early meetings spent 12-18 minutes just explaining.</li><li><strong>Pointed questions:</strong> the most awkward meetings happened when founders described their business and then said “So….”. The mentor just learned about their business – they don’t know what to say. Ask questions! Pointed questions about the business, related to the background of the mentor, always produced a new direction for the discussion. They don’t have to be long questions, but once you get the conversation moving in the right direction, more questions will present themselves. Not only does this make it easier for the mentor, but you will get much more actionable advice from this.</li><li><strong>Follow up:</strong> The last thing, if you liked the mentor and want to follow up with them, is to make sure you clarify some actionable items for you to follow up on after the meeting, and then DO THEM. You’ll get lots of advice during the meeting. Sometimes the follow up will simply be reminding them to make an introduction, but other times you can say “I’ll complete X, and then if you’re comfortable, I’d love to meet again to discuss Y”. It gives both you and the mentor something to look forward to, and specific expectations.</li></ol><h2><strong>Founder Resilience</strong></h2><p>We started what is supposed to become a weekly tradition where a founder speaks about their life story – whatever aspects they care to – for anywhere from ten minutes to half an hour. I don’t envy the person who speaks next week, as this week will be tough to beat.</p><p>There were many lessons learned from the story. Perhaps the highest-level lesson driven home was what I believe is one of the biggest truths in entrepreneurship – persistence leads to success. Of course there are qualifiers – I think you have to be reasonably smart, realistic, willing to learn quickly and often, and a whole bunch of other things, but in the end the largest contributor to success will be persistence.</p><p>This speaker had lived in most of the largest, busiest cities in the world, founded and shuttered companies, weathered two financial crises, and bought a gold mine, to name a few of the highlights. And he’s now back at Techstars, looking to start another company. In my mind, and likely his accountant’s, he’s already a grand success – but he’s back, which says a lot about the spirit of successful (aka persistent) entrepreneurs.</p><h2><strong>Team Composition</strong></h2><p>Something else that was really highlighted to me this week, mostly because I really got to know most of the teams, is the caliber of the individuals that make up the teams that get into Techstars. Founders here range from early 20s to 40s, Harvard Business School and MIT are both well-represented, as are a handful of other Ivy Leagues, and there are multiple founders who have succeeded previously.</p><p>All Techstars founders and participants have all accomplished a lot. We should all strive to build teams made of these types of people when building startups, and they are clearly the reason the companies have been successful, and here at Techstars. Don’t settle when building your company – figure out a way to inspire people and get them on board. This was one of the biggest problems I faced when trying to found a company in Montreal, but as time goes on, you realize there are many ways to find these people, which I’ll probably share in another post.</p><p>That being said, the theory I’ve written about before [LINK] holds true – these are all amazing people, but there is no reason you can’t also be one.</p><h2><strong>Prototyping Tools</strong></h2><p>Tons of UI/UX work is being done by the companies here at Techstars, for various reasons – some are re-branding, some are focusing on increasing inbound conversion, some are focusing on new markets, and the list goes on.</p><p>As a non-technical founder, one of the things I struggled with early on was how to bring the prototypes and designs I had in my head to fruition, and I found out about several awesome prototyping tools this week that I wanted to share (I don&#x27;t get any commission on these):</p><ul><li><a href="http://www.axure.com/">Axure</a></li><li><a href="http://www.invisionapp.com/">Invision</a></li><li><a href="http://www.sketchappsources.com/">Sketch</a></li></ul><p>Another tip - if you&#x27;re hiring a freelance designer, get a recommendation from a great designer.</p><h2><strong>Relationships as a Priority</strong></h2><p>Another topic covered during this week’s Techstars founder life story was relationships – something I don’t think is talked about enough in entrepreneurship and high-stress, time-consuming careers (think investment banking and law, for example). The summary: you have to make your relationship a priority and tackle it just as you would any business or other challenge in life. I personally think entrepreneurs have the ability to be great in relationships – generally their mindset is one of constant improvement and monitoring. In a recent <a href="http://fourhourworkweek.com/2016/03/04/how-to-10x-your-results/">Tim Ferriss podcast</a>, he even talked about a friend who had his wife grade him on four aspects of his relationship quarterly. That might be an extreme example, but the point is that for people who have careers which occupy a large portion of their lives, it often takes significant conscious effort and prioritization to make relationships work. The story this week demonstrated just how great things can be when that happens, and in this case (as I’m sure in many), once you have things settled on the relationship front, it can often lend a lot of support to your career and overall stability.</p><h2>In Summary:</h2><ol><li><strong>Getting mentorship: be honest, ask pointed questions, be efficient and follow up.</strong></li><li><strong>Resilience plays a huge role in success in entrepreneurship.</strong></li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t settle when building your team.</strong></li><li><strong>You can build a prototype without being technical - check out the tools above.</strong></li><li><strong>If a relationship is important to you, it needs to be treated as a priority equally important as your business.</strong></li></ol><p>Read about <a href="/blog/techstars-week-3-sales-are-king">Techstars Week 3 here.</a></p><p>Let me know what you think in the comments!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 7 - Fundraising]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Lessons from Week 7 of Techstars Boston focusing on fundraising strategy, cap table structure, and how to approach early-stage investors with confidence.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I didn&#x27;t get to reflect on Techstars during the last couple weeks as much as I would have liked, given that I was traveling back to Montreal and Nova Scotia on the weekends, last week was yet another week full of learning. And while the title of this post is Fundraising, we aren&#x27;t really there yet. But the workshops at Techstars were focused here this week, and they were so good they deserved the title.</p><p>We had fewer sponsors this week, which let all of us (including Associates) really get into our work, and we had another couple great workshops and Founder Stories.</p><h2>Techstars Workshops</h2><h3>Cap Tables</h3><p>This workshop, while perhaps not the most interesting of topics, was very useful. The workshop focused on modeling different investment and cap table scenarios and the resulting equity distributions. The bottom lines:</p><ul><li>You need to<strong> understand in detail all the implications all term sheets you consider</strong>, including the future consequences with your likely fundraising milestones.</li><li><strong>Beware taking a lot of convertible notes</strong> - this can kill you down the road.</li><li><strong>Pre-money vs. post-money has major implications for every deal you do</strong>, but make sure you know all the different situations it applies, as they&#x27;re often wider than most people think.</li><li>The <strong>combination of employee equity pools</strong>, <strong>equity guarantees</strong> (for things like accelerators), and <strong>high amounts of capped convertible debt can spell disaster</strong> for founders, so make sure you don&#x27;t end up in this situation.</li><li>The investors you&#x27;re dealing with have done this a hundred times; <strong>get a mentor and/or lawyer who is equal to the task and has your best interests in mind</strong>.</li></ul><p>The bottom line here is that with a few small mistakes in interpretation, you can end up with very little equity. <strong>Don&#x27;t take fundraising of any kind trivially</strong>.</p><h3>Fundraising</h3><p>This workshop was given by David Cohen, and was the <strong>single best resource I&#x27;ve ever been exposed to on closing an investor</strong>. I&#x27;m still trying to find some public resources to share since it&#x27;s so good, but for now here are some tips (keep in mind this is based on Techstars companies only):</p><ul><li>You should have an amount of money to raise as your target (call it &#x27;T&#x27;), and should &#x27;know&#x27; that you can exceed this target. In other words, <strong>the overask is the killer in fundraising.</strong></li><li>If you have a demo day coming up, you should be aiming to <strong>have at least 1/3 of T committed going in.</strong></li><li>Ask investors you have developed relationship with to &quot;help you&quot; by committing early.</li><li><strong>Don&#x27;t ask them to lead, just to commit.</strong></li><li><strong>Make it safe for them to commit</strong> (ie. no cheque required).</li><li>&quot;Soft commit&quot;: <strong>agreement to invest specific amount of money with specific, well understood conditions.</strong></li><li>Example of one condition: &quot;I can&#x27;t commit without the valuation.&quot; &quot;Will you commit, assuming the valuation is ultimately acceptable to you?&quot; - provide the &quot;out&quot;.</li><li><strong>Practice active listening</strong> to get to commitment.</li><li>LISTEN.</li><li>Your job is to remove concern, not solve it.</li><li>Once condition is mentioned, write it down, repeat, ask if you got it right, ask what else.</li><li>Your goal is an exhaustive list of conditions under which they will invest.</li><li><strong>Ask clearly for the commitment at the end:</strong></li><li>&quot;So, assuming [condition 1], [condition 2], [condition 3] are met, I understand you are willing to commit $[___].&quot;</li><li>Ask if you can use their name when talking with other investors.</li><li>Enjoy having your lead investor!</li></ul><p>Okay, so it&#x27;s not quite that simple. But the <strong>active listening, and removing concerns was a huge revelation for me</strong>. Everyone will tell you that once you have a lead investor, things become considerably easier, as investors like to invest with others, but this is the best methodology I&#x27;ve ever seen for getting the soft commit you need to get other investors on board. Enjoy!</p><h2>Founder Story</h2><p>While the details of this story, as with all Founder Stories, are kept among those who are present when they are told, this was one of the more amazing stories. Tom Leighton from Akamai, a company which has been through a bunch of ups and downs on all sides of the business, from the valuation to the leadership, shared his story with us, and some of the most amazing takeaways I got were based on Tom himself:</p><ul><li><strong>Being humble, kind, and extremely successful are not mutually exclusive</strong>. To the contrary, I think that a disproportionate number of great entrepreneurs are good people, and Tom is a great example of that.</li><li><strong>Leadership and the ability to be a CEO can be learned</strong>; the caveat is that it might take time. Tom himself was with the company for many years before stepping into the role.</li><li><strong>Culture and hiring is extremely important to the company</strong>; on the topic of navigating crisis, breaking bad news, or other general obstacles for <strong>the ups and downs of a startup company are often a non-issue when you have a great team made of great people.</strong></li><li><strong>You have to be lucky to be good, and good to be lucky.</strong> This old cliché holds true for most aspects of life - but you need to always be positioned to take advantage of opportunities that come your way. Often they can be the break you need to get ahead, or to keep the company alive period.</li></ul><p>If you&#x27;re more interested in the story, check out this book:</p><ul><li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/No-Better-Time-Remarkable-Transformed/dp/0306821664">No Better Time: The Brief, Remarkable Life of Danny Lewin, the Genius Who Transformed the Internet - Molly Raskin</a></li></ul><h2>Airplanes &amp; Productivity</h2><p>I flew home this past weekend for a funeral, which while obviously a sad occasion, provided me some much-needed reading time during my flights. I was once again reminded <strong>how valuable carving out undisturbed time to read and learn can be</strong>. During one ninety-minute flight, and the last three quarters of a book (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Traction-Startup-Guide-Getting-Customers/dp/0976339609">Traction</a>, in this case), I had the best ideation session of the past several weeks (maybe even months), and no doubt it was the lack of distractions aside from my book, notepad and pen.</p><p><strong>Whenever you can, make sure to escape somewhere to take some time to read and think. </strong> And don&#x27;t just hope it happens - schedule it in your day.</p><p>The books I finished recently:</p><ul><li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Traction-Startup-Guide-Getting-Customers/dp/0976339609">Traction: A Startup Guide to Getting Customers</a></li><li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Hard-Thing-About-Things-Building-ebook/dp/B00DQ845EA/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1460511119&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=the+hard+thing+about+hard+things">The Hard Thing About Hard Things: Building a Business When There Are No Easy Answers</a></li></ul><p>Until next week!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars Boston Week 8 - Enterprise]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[For whatever reason, this week the workshops focused largely on enterprise-oriented companies, and the Founder Stories happened to come from two people involved with an enterprise-focused company. From a general standpoint, this week has been about growth. Companies are spending a lot of time working out their strategy for the next 6-12 months, and which direction they will head after Techstars.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For whatever reason, this week the workshops focused largely on enterprise-oriented companies, and the Founder Stories happened to come from two people involved with an enterprise-focused company. From a general standpoint, this week has been about growth. Companies are spending a lot of time working out their strategy for the next 6-12 months, and which direction they will head after Techstars.</p><p>A lot of that strategy is based upon customer feedback, and there has been a big push lately to acquire customers and prioritize product features. The next several weeks will be the last push before Demo Day preparation begins, and all companies want to make sure they position themselves well.</p><h2>Applying for an SBIR (Small Business Innovation Research)</h2><p>This workshop was focused on what the <a href="https://www.sbir.gov">SBIR program</a> is, and how it can benefit companies who are building technology that could be applicable for government (it&#x27;s a lot more than you think - the US government is big!).</p><p>More details about the program, application process, statistics, and more <a href="https://www.sbir.gov/about/about-sbir">can be found at their website</a>, but here are the highlights:</p><ul><li>The US government buys <strong>A LOT OF THINGS</strong>.</li><li>There is <strong>lots of grant money available</strong>, SBIR is just one (SBIR, STTR, BAAs, etc.).</li><li>The government can&#x27;t distribute IP inside government for 5 years*, and IP issues are nearly unheard of.</li><li>There are matching government funds available for outside investments (see <a href="https://sbir.nih.gov/apply/application-types">FastTrack and Phase 2 Plus programs</a>).</li><li>Company must be 51% owned by US citizens, have less than 500 people, and less than $50M in revenue.</li><li>The 51% ownership <strong>CAN</strong> be by a US entity - <a href="https://www.sbir.gov">check details on their website</a>.</li><li>There are generally 2x the companies accepted into Phase 1 who go on to Phase 2.</li><li>Check the &#x27;Resources&#x27; tab on the <a href="https://www.sbir.gov">SBIR website</a> for lots of different statistics and tools.</li><li><strong>Put aside one week</strong> to write your first proposal.</li><li><strong>Call the person who put forth the topic you are applying for</strong>, and after describing your product/company, ask them if they would &#x27;encourage&#x27; or &#x27;discourage&#x27; you to make a proposal - this will save you time and give you some indication how likely your company is to receive a grant.</li></ul><p>*Disclaimer: this entire section is based on my notes, which may or may not be correct - research this in detail for yourself.</p><h2>Landing a Large Pilot Customer (Enterprise)</h2><p>One of the biggest knocks on enterprise-focused startups is that typically getting an enterprise client to sign as a customer is tough, and a long process, and generally the bigger the client, the longer the process. This workshop was focused on a process for acquiring those clients reliably, as quickly as possible (which is still slow by consumer standards).</p><p>The highlights:</p><ul><li>When dealing with enterprise, you are initially shooting to <strong>get any 3 of: references, case studies, and proof points</strong>. Revenue is a bonus.</li><li>Your first <strong>&#x27;Design Project&#x27; should produce: product and pricing, a customer reference, proof points (success metrics) and a case study.</strong></li><li>The process: start in their heads, then <strong>capture curiosity &gt; get time &gt; get ideas &gt; build into product.</strong></li><li>You must <strong>close these customers incrementally</strong>, generally with the following steps:</li><li>1. Design Partnership, 2. Workshop, 3. Project Proposal.</li><li>A workshop is <strong>structured to learn from them and get information.</strong></li><li>You should initially target low hanging fruit <strong>who represent target market.</strong></li><li><strong>Take people out for food</strong> - there is evidence that forms a &#x27;bond&#x27; psychologically (good date advice too...).</li><li><strong>Try to avoid exclusivity</strong>; you can offer a unique benefit for them instead. You will likely receive pushback on this point, but it&#x27;s important, unless there is a scenario where you might have to choose, for example, between two people who dominate a market (Pepsi vs. Coke, etc.).</li><li>Always be candid with your customers; <strong>trust is much more valuable than a perfect picture.</strong></li><li>At the end of the Workshop, <strong>agree upon a schedule for presenting the Project Proposal</strong>. Goal is <strong>not</strong> to have a solution for the project.</li><li>Can you find <strong>one person</strong> who has a relationship with all the whales (aka. massive clients you&#x27;re targeting)?</li><li><strong>Six months</strong> is a good target for signing a big client.</li></ul><p>The most valuable part of this presentation? <strong>Process.</strong> This whole process can be refined and repeated, and you can use it to train your new enterprise sales teams, and scale those teams.</p><h2>Founder Stories</h2><p>This week&#x27;s Founder Stories, as usual, were moving, and diverse. The variance in backgrounds between founders, who appear similar in the context that I&#x27;ve known them (starting companies) is amazing. That being said, there are distinct similarities that exist between some founders. I&#x27;m starting to think there are a couple different founder profiles, which maybe I&#x27;ll elaborate on in the future.</p><p>The takeaways for me this week:</p><ul><li>As a new founder, <strong>you will always be naive</strong> (ie. you&#x27;ll look back and think you were an idiot in the context of being an entrepreneur; I&#x27;ve already had this happen to me).</li><li><strong>Communication between founders is so important.</strong></li><li>Keeping your <strong>big dreams</strong>, no matter how far-fetched, is always good. And your current business may not have anything to do with those goals.</li><li><strong>Grandparents are valuable</strong> - try and get their stories from them when you can (I can also attest to this, having only one remaining grandparent).</li><li><strong>Play the hand you&#x27;re dealt.</strong></li><li>While a cliché, this summarizes something most founders have faced - adversity. In this case, it was more than most people will ever experience.</li><li><strong>You choose your own path</strong> - your upbringing and inherent characteristics have some play in who you are, but ultimately you decide.</li><li><strong>Side projects often become the best companies</strong> (particularly if started out of interest and/or passion).</li></ul><p>Until next week!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The 4 Things You Need for a Great Remote Work Setup]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/the-4-things-you-need-for-a-great-remote-work-setup</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Remote work is here to stay. To make it productive, you need to make sure you have these four things in place. If you do, it will be almost like being in person!]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Remote work has been forced on many of us. Whether you work in tech, or another industry that has gone remote, you’ve no doubt been adapting how you work.</p><p>I spent ~2.5 years working remotely in my last job, worked remotely 1-2 days a week before COVID, and have now been working fully remote with 45+ other people at <a href="https://unito.io/">Unito</a> for the past two months.</p><p>We’re still learning about how best to work remote, but without a doubt, your work-from-home setup has an effect on how well you work, and how well remote work works for your company.</p><p>Here are a few of the lessons I’ve learned.</p><h2>Work Setups Matter for Productivity</h2><p>It’s very difficult for people to be as effective when they move from an office desk with multiple monitors, their preferred mouse and keyboard, and in-person meetings, to working from the couch at home.</p><p>When I was travelling frequently and working, I got used to making do with the space I had, and getting focused regardless of the setting.</p><p>But even then, I would go to cafes, use my Etymotic earphones to shut out noise, and make sure my internet was fast.</p><p>If you want people to enjoy work at home, they have to have the right setup.</p><h2>The Worst Setup Restricts Everyone Else</h2><p>You’ve probably had more Zoom calls in the last two months than you thought you would in the next two years.</p><p>How many people does it take to ruin a Zoom call? One. One person who has to speak, but has a poor connection, or disruptive background noise, or video that lags.</p><p>Group calls are restricted by the lowest common denominator, which means everyone must have <em>at least</em> a fast internet connection and good audio. The rest is a bonus, but those are the two prerequisites to make remote communication work.</p><h2>The Remote Work Hierarchy of Needs</h2><p>The hierarchy for remote work goes like this:</p><ol><li>Internet connection (speed and consistency)</li><li>Audio quality (background noise and mic quality)</li><li>Video quality (position, resolution)</li><li>Lighting (even, bright)</li></ol><p>If you have awesome lighting and a great webcam, but terrible internet, it won’t work. You need the first before you get to the next.</p><h2>Good Internet</h2><p>This is not a given. Even in Montreal, the best internet plan you can buy gets you 100Mbps download speeds, which isn’t amazing. </p><p>The speed is important, but the stability of your connection is almost as important. Dropped calls or periodic drops in bandwidth are a huge pain for conference calls.</p><p>This is probably the single biggest reason why companies with remote workers (or who are remote right now) should consider paying for top-tier internet for their employees. </p><p>Good internet underpins everything else.</p><h2>Audio Quality</h2><p>Once you have internet sorted, next up is audio quality.</p><p>We’ve all been on a call with someone where the audio is choppy, or the street noise is just as loud as their voice, or you can hear the TV on in the background.</p><p>The best way to avoid this is to work somewhere quiet, and use a good microphone.</p><p>What is a good microphone?</p><p>A good microphone is directional, which means it only picks up sound from one direction.</p><p>Gaming headsets are a great option here, and do double-duty as headphones, letting everyone hear better too.</p><p>Matt Mullenweg of WordPress did a <a href="https://ma.tt/2020/03/dont-mute-get-a-better-headset/">great rundown of all kinds of microphone and headset options</a>.</p><p>I use an <a href="https://www.amazon.ca/Audio-Technica-Microphone-dynamique-cardio%C3%AFde-ATR/dp/B07ZPBFVKK/ref=sr_1_1">Audio-Technica ATR2100 microphone</a>, which isn’t as convenient as a headset, but works great for me. This mic has the benefit of being a great podcast mic (I got the recommendation from Tim Ferriss), in case you’re thinking about trying a podcast at some point.</p><p>Don’t forget that even a great microphone will struggle in a very noisy environment, so finding a quiet place to work is important too.</p><p>For companies who want to help make remote work smooth, sponsoring top-tier internet and a good headset is the place to start.</p><h2>Video Quality</h2><p>Good news: the webcam on your laptop should be fine.</p><p>The biggest improvement you can make to your video appearance on conference calls is to get the camera at eye level, and from your primary monitor (so you’re looking at it).</p><p>At home, I use an external webcam on top of my second monitor. Logitech makes great webcams, and I use <a href="https://amzn.to/2ZcYRLF">one like this</a>.</p><p>When I only have my laptop, I try to prop it up or have it high enough so that the camera is close to eye level. I often just prop it up on some books, but a laptop stand is a good alternative.</p><p>If you want to see just how advanced camera setups can be, you should check out <a href="https://www.logitech.com/en-ca/product/rally-ultra-hd-conferencecam">this Logitech setup, with a remote-controlled 4K camera with 15x zoom</a>. Someday.</p><p>The last component to a great video setup is lighting. </p><p>Here you should do two things. If possible, put a window or source of natural light in front of you. If you live in an apartment with limited options for windows (like me), you can do what every Instagram model has figured out, and use a <a href="https://amzn.to/2WGQQNu">cheap ring light like this one</a>. </p><p>Positioning your camera well and getting into the details of lighting may seem like overkill. But when you multiply the small improvements by 5, 10, 20 people in a conference call, you see the results. It becomes much more like being in-person, and communication is much smoother as a result.</p><h2>Don’t Forget, Internet + Audio is First</h2><p>Good internet is the basis for good remote communication. Without that, you’re in trouble.</p><p>After you’ve got that sorted, make sure you have great audio. Use a good headset, or a good directional mic and headphones.</p><p>You can use the camera on your laptop, but make sure it is facing you directly, at eye level, and that your face is lit well, either with natural light or a ring light. </p><p>Master these four components at your company, and those remote meetings will be as smooth as in person.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Techstars NYC Week 1 - Preparation]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/week-1-techstars-nyc</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[My plan was/is to write a post every week during my time here in Techstars NYC – we’re currently starting Week 6, but I plan to catch up.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Blogging at Techstars</h2><p>My plan was/is to write a post every week during my time here in Techstars NYC – we’re currently starting Week 6, but I plan to catch up.</p><p>I’ve held off to this point mostly because I was struggling with what form they should take. Turns out (unsurprisingly) that going through the program as an Associate is much different than as a Founder. While in Boston as an Associate, I generally gave an objective review of the week, and an overview of the talks, workshops and stories from the week.</p><p>As a Founder, everything I do and learn is filtered through the lens of the company I’m part of. I generally don’t take notes during workshops except those relevant to our own business. I don’t get updates from the other Associates on the progress of all teams, instead just once a week during our Big Rocks meeting.</p><h2>Founder vs. Associate</h2><p>And of course, being part of the program as a founder vastly changes the dynamic. As an Associate, most of the pressure is self-imposed - a result of how much work you choose to do for companies, and the role within the Techstars group you assume (organizing Demo Day, etc.). The role of founder is much more – not competitive, really, but – demanding perhaps. Simply because the goal of the program is to make as much progress as possible, there’s an inherent pressure and pace.</p><p>So, for this post and those in future weeks, I’m still going to summarize what I learned during the week, and will try to generalize the lesson, but keep in mind the lens through which I’m learning. </p><p>My goal is to give insight into the Techstars program and how you can apply some of the lessons to your own venture.</p><h2>Techstars NYC Week 1 – Ground Yourself</h2><p>When we were accepted into Techstars in November, I reviewed my posts from the Boston program, and reflected on what I believed made companies there successful. During a trip to Boston in late November, I chatted with Semyon and Eveline (two of the directors at the Boston program) about the same topic.</p><p>In short form, I concluded the following:</p><ul><li>The teams that made the most progress were often large, and their progress compared to their small peers was due to the time required of the cofounders; their teams could continue working while the CEO was busy with meetings, etc.</li><li>Teams from outside the Techstars city had the most success when they committed to that city. Establishing an office, or permanent presence, made a big difference in being able to focus and take full advantage of the program.</li><li>Sorting out logistics prior to arriving makes your start much easier. We were changing Airbnbs for the first three weeks in Boston, and it was extremely distracting.</li><li>Singular focus on accomplishing your goals for Techstars was the most important factor in making the most of the program.</li></ul><p>With those points in mind, I figured we had a good chance of being ahead of the game in the first week. And we did accomplish some of those things – we sorted out our logistics ahead of time, and managed to find a place to stay that was a 10-minute walk from the office, which has been great.</p><p>We scheduled exercise time right away and made time for it, which has been a great time for us as cofounders to chat about the business and get away from the office.</p><h2>Week 1 Struggles</h2><p>What we didn’t manage to do during the first week, however, was maintain as much focus as we would have liked. When I joined the company in September, we had charted out some rough goals in terms of revenue, sales process, market confidence, and some other factors, for when we wanted to fundraise. </p><p>But, in the hype of Techstars, we set a fundraising goal for the end of the program. And we quickly realized that maybe that wasn’t wise. </p><p>One of the panels in the first week featured Alumni, where six different participants from previous cohorts chatted about their experience. One of the most interesting pieces of feedback was “forget about fundraising”. It wasn’t ubiquitous, but many of those who began Techstars in a comparable situation (small team, early-stage) realized they wouldn’t have time to both effectively fundraise and focus on growth with such limited resources.</p><p>During the discussion, we too realized that to reach our growth goals, we wouldn’t have time for fundraising, or alternatively, we would have a hard time fundraising if we couldn’t execute on our growth.</p><h2>Goals for Techstars</h2><p>The result was our decision to make Techstars about growth, and to generally stick to the original indicators we had set for fundraising.</p><p>Making this decision reduced stress, and made it much clearer where we needed to spend our time, and, now in Week 5, I absolutely think we made the right call.</p><h2>Weekly Summary:</h2><ul><li>Preparation of logistics was extremely helpful in getting a quick start in the program.</li><li>Don’t let the Techstars (insert any accelerator) hype change your fundamental goals or milestones. Fundraising for the sake of fundraising is a bad idea.</li><li>As a small team, you must pick your battles. Each person in the team should be focused on one goal, maximum.</li><li>Use the experience of others to your advantage. We quizzed the Alumni about their specific experiences and decision-making, relating it to our own situation as much as possible, and it was a huge help.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Startup Failure - Why I Left My Startup]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/why-i-left-my-startup</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The difficult decision to leave the startup I founded through Founder Institute Montreal—lessons learned about co-founder dynamics, market timing, and knowing when to walk away.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Why Does A Startup Fail?</h2><p>What are the biggest reasons for startup failure? Market? Product? Sales ability?</p><p>To some extent, all of them. One of the biggest reasons for a startup failing (and least talked about) is cofounder disputes or the wrong team. Don&#x27;t believe me? Just look at <a href="https://www.cbinsights.com/research-reports/The-20-Reasons-Startups-Fail.pdf">these statistics</a> or <a href="http://www.paulgraham.com/die.html">listen to Paul Graham</a>.</p><p>I recently dealt with this problem, and that&#x27;s the reason I left my startup - an unsolvable conflict between founders.</p><p>So how did I get myself into this situation?</p><h2>The Founder Institute</h2><p>In February 2015, I was starting <a href="http://fi.co/">The Founder Institute (FI)</a>. I&#x27;d just admitted that the startup I was working on - instead of graduate school - wasn&#x27;t going to work, and I wasn&#x27;t the most confident. But, I was enthusiastic, and when I got to the first FI meeting and met someone else with a similar idea, 10 years experience, and the resume to match, along with an experienced technical friend, I was all but sold.</p><p>I wasn&#x27;t completely impulsive, of course, and over the next several weeks, we consulted on some of the FI assignments, met several times, and went out to play some pool and generally get to know one another. Both potential cofounders were friendly, enjoyable social company and generally pleasant. We didn&#x27;t share the first same language, country of birth, or upbringing, and a variety of other traits, but bringing some diversity to a startup is never a bad idea...is it?</p><p>We continued to work together on the FI assignments, and agreed to develop a company together. I no longer had to worry about how we were going to develop an MVP (Minimum Viable Product) and FI assignments could be a joint effort, reducing some of the workload.</p><p>In May 2015 we officially incorporated, and signing our stock restriction agreements sealed the deal. I was now a 1/3 owner in the new company.</p><p>Things were generally groovy...in July 2015 we officially graduated from The Founder Institute, as one of 12 companies, and 2 of 14 individuals (our third member wasn&#x27;t officially in FI).</p><p>At graduation/demo night, I let my cofounder pitch; I had the highest pitch ratings of the cohort, but trying to be better at delegating responsibilities (I&#x27;m generally a control freak), I let my cofounder pitch. Unfortunately, accentuated by the fact he had a migraine that day, it didn&#x27;t go exceptionally well. Many asked me afterwards why I didn&#x27;t pitch, and I wish I had. But, not a big deal, lesson learned.</p><h2>Life After Founder Institute</h2><p>We all took some time off, working remotely through most of August, and then coming back to Montreal in early September. This time, I brought along a friend who I&#x27;d been keeping updated on our progress, and he had agreed to join the company as a late founder.</p><p>Work generally progressed well through the following months. We met on Sundays as a team to plan our weekly sprint, and sometimes three of us would work together at the coworking space where we kept a couple desks through the week. Our lead technical cofounder still had his job, which he would later leave in December.</p><p>Our product kept getting better, until the point where it was fully functional. I was dealing primarily with our marketing, which included developing our stand for the InterDrone conference in Las Vegas in September, maintaining our social media and blog, and generating and sending out our press releases. I was also generally leading the product development priorities, doing graphic design for our mockups and revisions, and getting our sales process going. New to sales, this consisted of targeted cold calling in the early stages, and eventually progressed to a volume-based cold email system which automated follow-ups and brought in early-adopter prospects.</p><p>I also consulted a bit on strategy, though generally I tried to leave strategy and financing (loans, accelerator applications, accounting, etc.), as well as partnership acquisition, to my cofounder.</p><h2>The Turning Point</h2><p>As we worked more and more together, there began to be some conflict. Now, don&#x27;t get me wrong, there is always conflict within a team of any kind, and even more so within startup teams. But for me, this wasn&#x27;t the right kind of conflict - it was based on what I perceived as missed details, or poor interpretations (stemming from lack of understanding, I think) of our market and customers. I got nervous when we talked to customers or potential investors (basically, anyone important) about the company, because I was worried about what might be said or how questions might be answered.</p><p>Early December, I&#x27;d been discussing this issue with some friends and mentors, on the way to a pitch in Ottawa for what turned out to be a very perceptive, major Canadian angel investor. I&#x27;d put up the team slide and spoken two sentences, when he cut me off and said something along the lines of &quot;I&#x27;ve seen too many companies fail because a lead cofounder is too theoretical or sciency-y. Tell me why this isn&#x27;t the case with you guys&quot; (paraphrasing). Of course I responded that we balanced each other&#x27;s personalities, blah, blah, blah, but really, I was thinking &quot;if this guy can pick up on this when I&#x27;m the only one in the room, how on earth are we going to fund raise with the whole team there?&quot;.</p><p>So, I decided to check in with our third team member. During our end-of-year review, I asked him whether he thought there were any issues within the team or how we might work better. The only comment? &quot;I find the overlapping of responsibilities between you and our cofounder strange - I think we need to resolve this&quot;.</p><p>By this point, I&#x27;d consulted with several of my personal mentors, who were also familiar with my cofounder. The consensus: something needs to change, otherwise it&#x27;s obviously not going to work.</p><p>The problem? I didn&#x27;t feel there was another role in which this person would fit.</p><p>So, during late December, I met both one-on-one with this cofounder, and then as a group of three cofounders. The discussion centered around where I felt the problems were, with examples, in the hope that I could convince this person to step down. Did I really expect that result? No. It takes a very realistic and humble person to face their own strengths and weaknesses and step away from something they created. Realistically, I highly doubt that in the reverse situation I would be able to accept it. It could also be that I was wrong (but obviously I don&#x27;t think so).</p><p>Ultimately, the situation was untenable, and I believed that if not faced now, we were going to face the issue in several months when we needed to fundraise (and with our business model that was inevitable). Do I regret the experience? Definitely not. We gained a bunch of experience, and the partnership got me farther, quicker, than I would have been capable of otherwise. Will I be more careful in the future? Definitely.</p><p>A testament to the character of my cofounders: despite our (very) frank discussions about results and work that had been done by each of us, we all remain on friendly terms.</p><p>So how do I suggest young (or old) founders find cofounders? <a href="/blog/advice-for-finding-a-cofounder">Read about that here.</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why Positive Constraints Are So Valuable]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/why-positive-constraints-are-so-valuable</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I haven't managed to write nearly as much as I'd hoped for the past several months, but for good reason. After Techstars finished, I did a bit of traveling to visit some friends in Europe, and then headed back home to Nova Scotia. I ended up staying longer than planned - it's difficult to leave Nova Scotia in the summer (check out this video to see what I mean). Ultimately though, it was one of the best summers in recent memory.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>What Next?</h2><p>I haven&#x27;t managed to write nearly as much as I&#x27;d hoped for the past several months, but for good reason.</p><p>After <a href="http://www.techstars.com/">Techstars</a> finished, I did a bit of traveling to visit some friends in Europe, and then headed back home to Nova Scotia. I ended up staying longer than planned - it&#x27;s difficult to leave Nova Scotia in the summer (<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2YkSWRA1Lk">check out this video to see what I mean</a>). Ultimately though, it was one of the best summers in recent memory.</p><p>While traveling, much of my headspace was occupied with the question: what next?</p><p>Techstars resulted in opportunities: at the time I was consulting for several clients, which would pay the bills indefinitely. I was also enjoying doing work in growing the drone-based aerial photography and video company my brothers and I started.</p><p>Ultimately, I made the decision to come back to Montreal and commit myself to a long-term project based on the idea of positive constraints.</p><h2>Positive Constraints as a Productivity Tool</h2><p>The general concept of positive constraints is this: more can be accomplished with limited freedom, rather than complete freedom.</p><p>Complete freedom, in the context of my decision, was the option to do consulting work from wherever I had a computer and internet, while traveling the world and living out of a backpack.</p><p>Limited freedom was going back to Montreal, getting into a routine, and working towards a long-term, big goal.</p><p>One of the deep beliefs I have is that habit is often the driver of long-term success, whether it be in fitness, health, skill-acquisition, or another area of life.</p><h2>Establishing Habits</h2><p>Establishing habits is a difficult thing to do when given complete freedom. Think about the last time you traveled: did you exercise as much as you liked? Did you eat what you wanted? Did you view the lifestyle you were living as sustainable?</p><p>In my experience, it&#x27;s very difficult to establish routines and patterns unless you are anchored to a particular location, which somewhat defeats the purpose of living out of a backpack.</p><p>Professionally, is it in your best interests to be constantly traveling? Does networking and becoming connected to a workplace, colleagues, or a city, matter?</p><p>Establishing habits is a difficult process. How many people try to follow a diet and fail? Try to exercise and fail? Part of succeeding is establishing a routine, and lowering the barrier to success. Is it easier to follow a diet if you set up grocery delivery at your home, or have to find a new place to eat every meal? Is it easier to workout every day if you have a weeks worth of workout clothes at home, or if you have one set that you need to wash every time?</p><p>The idea behind positive constraints is that limiting your available options can make decision-making and habit-forming easier (read <a href="http://amzn.to/2gGFXDJ">The Paradox of Choice</a> or <a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice">watch the TED talk</a>). Unlimited choices for how you structure your day can lead to no structure, and an unfulfilling day.</p><p>Ultimately, I decided that while it was tempting to take advantage of some financial freedom that wasn&#x27;t tied to a particular location, the goals and processes that I wanted to accomplish were much more likely to happen with some constraints.</p><p>So here I am! Back in Montreal, having joined a new startup, <a href="/blog/lean-systems-my-next-project">which you can read about here</a>. Aside from always enjoying being back in Montreal, I&#x27;m embracing routine and the positive things that come with it.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why You Should be Buying Solar for Your Home (2018 Update)]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/why-you-should-be-buying-solar-for-your-home-2018-update</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Solar prices have dropped, new incentives are available, and it makes more sense to install solar than ever. Just how much sense? In this post I examine the payback period of installing solar panels in the Canadian climate, and provide tools to calculate the cost for your own situation and location.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two-and-a-half years ago <a href="/blog/why-you-should-be-buying-solar-for-your-home">I wrote a post</a> examining whether you should buy solar panels for your home. </p><p>If you haven’t read the article, I’d suggest <a href="/blog/why-you-should-be-buying-solar-for-your-home">you read it here</a>, as the analysis will be much clearer.</p><p>Since that post, solar panel prices have dropped, Nova Scotia has <a href="https://www.efficiencyns.ca/service/solarhomes/">introduced a rebate for solar installation</a>, and there are more installers.</p><h2>2016 Payback Period</h2><p>In my last analysis, payback period was about 16 years, excluding the pricing of carbon.</p><p>Environmental impact should always be priced when examining new projects. Ignoring environmental impact is naive and dangerous. Carbon pricing is one way to do this.</p><p>However, this isn’t money that people directly see in their pocket, so I recognize it is harder to grasp than direct savings on a power bill.</p><h2>2018 Solar Payback Period Calculations</h2><p>The new calculations are summarized in two spreadsheets linked below. </p><p>I would encourage you to make a copy (File &gt; Make a Copy), use the <a href="/blog/why-you-should-be-buying-solar-for-your-home">data sources provided in my previous article</a>, and fill in the spreadsheet using values that apply to your own location, home size, anticipated installation size, etc.</p><p>The first spreadsheet calculates the payback period relying on direct cost savings only (via the power saved on your bill). In addition, it shows the equivalent “investment return”, which I’ll explain later.</p><p>The second spreadsheet takes into account carbon pricing (sources can be seen <a href="/blog/why-you-should-be-buying-solar-for-your-home">in previous post</a>).</p><ul><li><a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/13WxKpHAZRQycoARGfO7r3mLN57oorHZsBrqAxfaSqn4/edit?usp=sharing">Solar Payback Period Spreadsheet</a></li><li><a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/10EwoCga8feU_XB1rW3tx190Gs1OiKlBlQ2BLwJ78GFc/edit?usp=sharing">Solar Payback Period Spreadsheet (including CO2 pricing)</a></li></ul><h2>2018 Solar Payback Period Results</h2><p>The results were pretty astonishing.</p><p>Modern panels are warrantied for 25 years, and expected to last for 35-40.</p><p>The payback period, excluding carbon pricing, so only on direct power bill cost savings, is now <strong>just 12 years in Nova Scotia</strong>.</p><p>Including carbon pricing, the payback period is <strong>only 9 years!</strong></p><p>The solar installation I examined will return over 2.5 times the initial investment value in the first 25 years, and over 4 times the value in 35 years.</p><p>There are other considerations which may make installing solar even more attractive.</p><h2>Solar Increasing Resale Value</h2><p><a href="https://emp.lbl.gov/publications/selling-sun-price-premium-analysis">A 2015 study</a> based in the US showed that home buyers are “consistently willing to pay PV home premiums across various states, housing and PV markets” (PV = photovoltaic = solar panels).</p><p>Average premiums were found to be about $4/W - this equates to an extra $41,600 for a home with a 10.4kW system like that examined in the spreadsheet above!</p><h2>Solar as an Investment Alternative</h2><p>From a purely monetary perspective (assuming we don’t care about the environment), the argument against solar power is the opportunity cost of the money invested. </p><p>Even that argument is starting to break down.</p><p>The factors affecting solar payback period are relatively stable - average yearly sunlight, power prices, panel efficiency, home energy consumption - compared to say, the stock market.</p><p>The annualized average return for the S&amp;P 500 <a href="https://www.investopedia.com/ask/answers/042415/what-average-annual-return-sp-500.asp">for the past 90 years is 9.8%</a>. </p><p>Most investors won’t see anything near that - broker fees, fund fees, market timing, etc. means most investors will realize far less.</p><p>If we look at the cost of purchasing solar purely as an investment (which I’ve added in both spreadsheets above), we see that on direct costs, <strong>solar panels will provide an average 5.18% return over 25 years</strong>.</p><p>I’d bet this is better than the return of most average investors, and much steadier than the stock market! </p><p>As a reminder, this also excludes the other benefits (environmental impact, home value increase, etc.).</p><p>(Disclaimer: Keep in mind steady/decreasing power rates will negatively affect this return - make sure to understand the factors in the spreadsheet).</p><h2>Conclusion: Solar if You Can</h2><p>With the current solar efficiency and rebate program, the only reason I can see not to invest in solar is if you don’t have the up-front capital.</p><p>Even then, to figure out whether it’s feasible, you can find out your cost of capital and subtract that from the expected returns of solar. If you can finance it through a mortgage when purchasing or building a new home, or in a similarly beneficial way, it may still make sense. Check with your local banker/accountant.</p><p>In a time where environmental concerns should be top-of-mind for everyone, it’s encouraging to see that technology like solar has reached a point where it makes sense for even the most pessimistic buyers.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Writing and Stuff]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The first post on my blog! This explains a bit about what I'd like to accomplish in my writing here.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’m pretty excited to be writing the first post for my blog, and while it won’t be about a specific topic, it will explain the purpose and motivation behind the blog itself. I’ve been thinking about starting a blog for a while, but never really knew what to write about. I generally haven’t spent much time writing since high school, aside from assignments in university, and lately anything related to the businesses I’ve been starting. Certainly nothing for pleasure.</p><p>I maintain a journal, but entries in that are few and far between, and certainly not my best writing.</p><p>I don’t read as much as I would like, but what I do currently read tends to be blog posts, or articles written by individuals who originally wrote them as blog posts. I’m a huge fan of Pocket, and use a few other services as well, including Feedly, Medium and Instapaper.</p><p>I read all sorts of things, but most are focused on entrepreneurship, productivity, travel, science, engineering and design, and often a combination of all of the above (digital nomads anyone?).</p><p>What I’ve certainly missed, and wish I had in university, was someone writing about what it’s like to become an entrepreneur, with no previous experience. Most people tend to write about that phase of entrepreneurship after they’ve become successful. While that definitely offers value (hindsight is 20/20), I’m hoping to bring a different perspective.</p><p>While entrepreneurship will be the focus, I’ll be writing about all sorts of related topics which I find interesting – productivity, travel, sports, health, fitness, and whatever else on which I think I have something valuable to say.</p><p>I’m open to suggestions as well, so let me know if you’re interested in hearing from me on a particular topic.</p><p>I hope you enjoy reading, and that the blog brings you value.</p><p>Cheers.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[20 Rules to Make Travel Better (For You and Others)]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/20-rules-to-make-travel-better-for-you-and-others</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Traveling can be stressful. After spending a lot of time traveling, here is my list of 20 things you can do to make your life, and the life of those around you, easier.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Airports are among the best places to practice <a href="https://ryanholiday.net/stoicism-a-practical-philosophy-you-can-actually-use/">Stoicism</a>. Patience is always tested during travel, especially at the airport.</p><p>People are always in a hurry. Someone feels the need to cut the line. No one likes waiting. And there’s always one person panicking because their flight is delayed.</p><p>You don’t want to be one of those people.</p><p>I’ve traveled a lot in the last few years. More than I’d like to admit when it comes to my carbon footprint.</p><p>Here are some things I’ve learned that make traveling better for me, and (I hope) those around me.</p><h2>1. The second you leave your home, stop rushing. </h2><p>Before you leave home, you’re allowed to do whatever rushing you want. Throw your things in a bag, scream at your kids and spouse (just kidding), do whatever you want. But the minute you leave for the airport, you’re no longer allowed. Your fate is determined. Outside your home, your actions influence others, and you are obligated not to rush.</p><p>Dangerous driving harms others. And it <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/quora/2017/04/10/why-speeding-doesnt-shorten-your-commute/#182329fd4fee">doesn’t usually get you there faster anyway</a>. </p><p>Running through the airport stresses people out, punishes the people next to you on the plane (when you sweat and smell), and causes you stress. As Nassim Nicholas Taleb has said “Missing a train is only painful if you run after it!”.</p><p>If you miss a flight, learn your lesson. Leave earlier next time. Accept responsibility. But don’t rush.</p><h2>2. Check-in ahead of time.</h2><p>Ryan Holiday likes using a <a href="https://thoughtcatalog.com/ryan-holiday/2016/09/16-rules-that-every-kind-smart-and-compassionate-traveler-follows-when-they-fly/">paper ticket</a>. I prefer an e-ticket ahead of time, because if you’re not checking a bag - which you should try to avoid - you can head straight to security.</p><h2>3. Never take a checked bag.</h2><p>Okay, sometimes take a checked bag. But you’d be surprised how long and in how many different climates you can travel with just a carry-on. <a href="/blog/how-to-pack-light-for-work-or-adventure-travel">Here’s what I pack</a> (which is suitable for work too).</p><p>I’ve traveled to Europe for weeks, gone to the Caribbean, gone out West skiing, and done so without taking a checked bag.</p><p>If you get your boarding pass ahead of time, and never check a bag, you’ve just skipped two lines at the airport.</p><h2>4. Pack with security in mind.</h2><p>You don’t want to be the person unpacking all their clothes to get to the tiny bottle of liquid in the bottom. </p><p>Make sure you have the things you need to get out - laptops, tablets, liquids, etc. - near the top of your bags. No one likes the person who has to dig to the bottom of your bag to get things out.</p><p>That said, you can often leave the liquids in your bag, and your belt OR watch on, and nothing will happen. Be ready in case though.</p><h2>5. Never complain while traveling.</h2><p>In the security line, at the gate, on the airplane, at the taxi stand - wherever - there just isn’t any point in complaining. </p><p>Most of the time, the people you’re complaining to don’t have any power anyway. And is the problem really that bad? Stop complaining. Make it a challenge if you want - don’t complain once during your trip. </p><p>If you have a problem, call customer service later. No one at the airport has authority to do anything for you. You can ask politely, but that’s it.</p><p>If you manage to do it well, you’ll actually be surprised at how much more positive your overall experience is. Complaining often just causes more stress than brushing it off and taking it in stride.</p><h2>6. Take advantage of delays.</h2><p>You can’t change the outcome, so there’s no point complaining. And how often are your options as limited as in the airport when your plane is delayed? Take advantage of it! Being constrained can be a good thing.</p><p>Use that time to read, catch up on work, or to call home and chat with your family. There are a lot of <a href="/blog/why-positive-constraints-are-so-valuable">benefits to positive constraints</a>.</p><h2>7. Get Global Entry, or Pre-Check, or whatever the equivalent is in your country.</h2><p>They usually aren’t expensive, and they will make your airport experience much, much better.</p><h2>8. Stop lining up to board before your turn.</h2><p>Why do people insist on standing near the ticketing counter for the duration of boarding? No one is going to take your seat.</p><p>By standing there, you crowd others, make it confusing as to where the line is, and slow things down.</p><p>Why would you want to get on quickly anyway? You’re going to be sitting in a metal tube for the duration of your flight, enjoy the time you have with more space.</p><p>If you’re concerned about not having room for your bag, just check it. Plus, the staff will always find somewhere for your bag if that’s not possible, so stop worrying. Just another reason to travel with as little luggage as possible.</p><h2>9. Wheels in first on bottom, push straight in, and then pivot the bag 90 degrees.</h2><p>If you’re a wheeled carry-on person, that’s how you get it in the overhead bin.</p><h2>10. Bring earphones or headphones - they’re lifesavers.</h2><p>My personal favourites are <a href="https://amzn.to/2mB5FS8">Etymotic earphones</a>, because they’re so small, don’t require batteries, and in my opinion, block as much or more noise than noise-canceling headphones. If you prefer headphones, I’ve heard good things about the <a href="https://amzn.to/2mIg0LZ">Bose Quietcomfort headphones</a>.</p><p>They make your in-flight experience far better, but they also let you tune out the noise whenever you want. Great for a quiet moment in the airport or blocking out the weird conversation your neighbors are having.</p><h2>11. Don’t eat food on the plane.</h2><p>Yes, even on long flights. It just won’t make you feel good. Bring a snack if you like, but I’d recommend just fasting.</p><p>There’s been some anecdotal reports of fasting helping with jet lag. I just feel better. You can eat when you arrive at your destination, but fasting + exercise is the best way I’ve found to beat jet lag and fatigue associated with long plane travel.</p><p>The other benefit is you can focus on getting some sleep, instead of waiting for your meal.</p><h2>12. Bring your own cup.</h2><p>The waste from planes is crazy. Aluminum cans are better (don’t bother getting the tiny plastic cup), but bringing your own mug and having some coffee or tea is even better, especially since most airlines don’t distinguish between recycling and garbage.</p><p>The other benefit? You won’t have to pay a stupid price for a bottle of water. You can just re-use your cup for water in the airport too.</p><h2>13. Don’t tilt your chair back.</h2><p>There are exceptions here, but in general, you should not be tilting your seat. Economy seats are just too small to do so, and it unfairly imposes on the person’s space behind you.</p><p>The exceptions: if you’re in business/first class and there’s enough space, or if there’s no one behind you. </p><p>What if the person behind you is tilted back? Well, show them how it should be, and remain upright.</p><h2>14. Be quiet.</h2><p>Daytime flights? Still quiet.</p><p>In general, you should treat a plane like a library - you can talk, but keep your voice low, and respect that others might not be in the same chatty mood as you.</p><h2>15. Read.</h2><p>Planes and airports are the perfect place for reading. Take advantage of it! I personally like to catch up on <a href="https://getpocket.com/">my Pocket queue</a> on short flights, and read books on longer flights. </p><h2>16. Avoid airplane bathrooms.</h2><p>I aim to be as hydrated as possible when I board the plane, and then drink the minimum possible while on board, so that I don’t have to get up and disturb fellow passengers.</p><p>Plus, airplane bathrooms get gross fast. Another benefit of not eating on the plane.</p><h2>17. Disembarking a plane should not be difficult.</h2><p>It should work like this: the person in the aisle gets up and gets their bag down. They can help get the others in the row down too, if they want.</p><p>Don’t pop up, grab your bag, and run to the front of the plane as soon as the plane stops. Once the row ahead of you has gone, it’s your turn to go.</p><p>If there are people ahead of you who clearly want to get out, but haven’t been given the opportunity, stop and wait.</p><p>And yes, everyone has connections. You’ll be fine.</p><h2>18. When you get out of the gangway, move to the side.</h2><p>The number of people who exit the gangway and then stand in the middle of the walkway is...far too high.</p><p>You should not be pausing in the middle of anywhere in airports. Nor should you be walking in the middle. </p><p>Walk to the right, like every other mode of transport in North America, and if you need to stop and pause, do so off to the side, out of the way. </p><p>You know how annoying it is when you’re in a hurry and there are people in the way in an airport. Don’t be one of those people.</p><h2>19. Wait for your baggage off to the side.</h2><p>You know what crowding the baggage carousel does? Nothing, except make it hard to see for everyone else.</p><p>Here’s how a baggage carousel should work: everyone stands back so that all those waiting have a clear view of the carousel.</p><p>When a person spots their bag, they wait patiently until it’s near, then they walk up, grab it, and leave the baggage area. Simple.</p><p>Does that happen in practice? No, but you don’t have to be part of the problem. Stand back and wait, quickly grab your bag and get out of the way.</p><h2>20. Enjoy it!</h2><p>Traveling is a modern luxury that we take for granted.</p><p>You get to travel across the world in hours! </p><p>Look out the window and enjoy the sunset above the clouds.</p><p>Embrace the white noise to help you focus.</p><p>Think about travel and new places and new experiences, and just be grateful.</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Camping in Scotland]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Video, itinerary and details from my recent trip hiking and camping in Scotland with my two brothers.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Background</h2><p>Almost two years ago, my grandmother Isabel passed away peacefully after suffering from Alzheimer&#x27;s. She was a Scot, raised in Musselburgh, and some of her longest-held memories were Scottish limericks or poems. She often read Robbie Burns in a Scottish accent, which both made it authentic and near-impossible to understand.</p><p>When she passed away, she left my brothers and I some money - we decided the best way to spend that money was checking out Scotland for the first time. We rented a car, camped, and visited as much as we could, including some family we&#x27;d never met. The following video is about that trip. Details of the trip follow.</p><p>Huge thanks to Phil, Sue, Jack, Alex, Katie, Malcolm, Julien, B√©atrice, Kelsey, and everyone else who made the trip possible.</p><h2>Itinerary</h2><p>As it turns out, another friend of mine was traveling to Scotland around the same time with his girlfriend, and we relied heavily on the planning they had done (thanks Julien &amp; B√©a!). Here&#x27;s our rough itinerary:</p><h3>Day 1:</h3><ul><li>Arrive, stay with family near Glasgow</li></ul><h3>Day 2:</h3><ul><li>Drive to Edinburgh to pick up cousin</li><li>Drive to Ben Vrackie</li><li>Night out in Edinburgh</li></ul><h3>Day 3: </h3><ul><li>Explore Edinburgh</li><li>Stay with family in Edinburgh</li></ul><h3>Day 4:</h3><ul><li>Drive to Loch Lomond</li><li>Hike Ben Lomond</li><li>Stay Loch Lomond</li></ul><h3>Day 5:</h3><ul><li>Drive through Glencoe, Fort William</li><li>Stay at Glen Nevis Camping Park</li></ul><h3>Day 6:</h3><ul><li>Hike Ben Nevis</li><li>Drive to Cairngorms National Park</li><li>Stay at Rothiemurchus</li></ul><h3>Day 7: </h3><ul><li>Funicular Railway at CairnGorm Mountain</li><li>Drive to Ullapool through Inverness</li><li>Stay Ullapool</li></ul><h3>Day 8:</h3><ul><li>Drive to Kyleakin</li><li>Stop at Eilan Donan Castle</li><li>Stay: Kyleakin</li></ul><h3>Day 9: </h3><ul><li>Hike Elgol Peninsula &amp; Camasunary</li><li>Stay: Kyleakin</li></ul><h3>Day 10: </h3><ul><li>Explore Skye - Kilt Rock, Old Man of Storr</li></ul><h3>Day 11:</h3><ul><li>Hike Glen Brittle Fairy pools</li><li>Talisker Distillery Tour</li><li>Neist Point Lighthouse sunset</li></ul><h3>Day 12:</h3><ul><li>Quiraing sunrise</li><li>Drive to Glasgow</li><li>Armadale-Mallaig ferry</li><li>White sands of Morar</li><li>Glenfinnan viaduct</li><li>Stay in Glasgow</li></ul><h3>Day 13:</h3><ul><li>Explore Glasgow - Kelvingrove Museum, Necropolis, Hanoi Bike Shop, Paesanos, The Lighthouse, Hillhead Book Club</li><li>Stay: Glasgow</li></ul><h3>Day 14:</h3><ul><li>Explore Glasgow - Riverside Museum</li><li>Drop off rental car</li><li>Stay with family near Glasgow</li></ul><h3>Day 15:</h3><ul><li>Fly home</li></ul><p>We were in Scotland June 1 - June 16, for reference. </p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Fighting Anxiety – How to Cope When Feeling Overwhelmed]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Feeling anxious and overwhelmed happens to everyone at some point. This article outlines the three principles I return to when I feel overwhelmed, and the strategies I use to truly internalize the principles.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Feeling anxious and overwhelmed happens to everyone.</p><p>It rarely happens for me, for which I&#x27;m thankful, but it&#x27;s common around the end of the year. It happened for me just before the holidays.</p><p>For me, it manifests in several different ways. </p><p>I sleep a little longer than normal in the mornings. </p><p>I don’t feel motivated to work, at least on the thing I know I should.</p><p>In other words, distractions become more appealing and I procrastinate more. </p><p>It usually corresponds with feeling lost or confused, and questioning past decisions and my work. </p><p>Often it&#x27;s feeling like I&#x27;m behind my peers and that I haven’t specialized enough yet. That I should have picked one thing I wanted to pursue for my life already, because now I’m “behind”.</p><p>Thinking about questions like: </p><ul><li>Am I working on the right thing?</li><li>Did I make the right career choice?</li><li>Have I made the right job choices?</li><li>Am I learning as fast as I could be? </li><li>Could I be learning quicker somewhere else?</li><li>Am I happy with what I’m working on now?</li></ul><p>Feeling overwhelmed isn’t common for me, and this article will serve as my guide when it happens in future.</p><p>I hope it will help some of you too.</p><h2>Three Principles to Combat Feeling Overwhelmed</h2><p>There are a few general principles that I often forget when I find myself feeling anxious and overwhelmed. </p><p>These are particularly relevant to work, career and “success” (however you define it).</p><ol><li><strong>What you’re going through isn’t that bad.</strong></li><li><strong>Your work is not the only thing that defines you.</strong></li><li><strong>Other people have gone through what you&#x27;re experiencing; you&#x27;re not alone.</strong></li></ol><p>Now, these are nice things to keep in mind, but simply reminding yourself of them isn’t usually enough to help. </p><h2>The Three Principles in Detail</h2><p>Here are the strategies I use to actually <strong><em>internalize</em></strong> them.</p><h2>1. It’s Not That Bad</h2><p>Writing things down immediately improves everything.</p><p>This is related to the idea of <a href="https://tim.blog/2017/05/15/fear-setting/"><em>Fear Setting</em></a>, which I learned about from Tim Ferriss. </p><p>Simply write down what you’re afraid of, followed by all the worst-case scenarios. </p><p>Example: &quot;I&#x27;m afraid of losing my job, and the worst case if that happens is I have to move home with my parents and pay the rest of my lease.&quot;</p><p>Often, what you realize is the worst-case scenario isn’t as bad as you imagined. This alone usually helps things.</p><p>If you want to go further, you can chart out how you would react or solve each scenario.</p><p>Generally, the structure I follow is always something like:</p><ol><li>Write down what you are afraid of/anxious about.</li><li>Ex: things you hate about your job.</li><li>Write down what you think would improve these things.</li><li>Ex: the things that would improve your current satisfaction with your job, or your ideal job).</li><li>Write down all the things you are grateful for, happy about related to those points of anxiety.</li><li>Ex: I’m grateful for X about my job.</li></ol><p>Some other questions I think about during this process (which I write down too):</p><ul><li>Why did I choose this path in the first place?</li><li>Do I still believe that reason is valid?</li><li>Is there a higher purpose behind this which I’ve forgotten?</li><li>Why am I feeling this way <em>right now</em>? </li><li>Or, phrased differently, how does the timing relate to how I’m feeling? </li><li>Ex: I&#x27;m tired, I just saw my successful friend, it&#x27;s the end of the year, etc.</li></ul><h2>2. Your Work Isn’t Who You Are</h2><p>This is something I particularly have to remind myself given my personality. </p><p>Many ambitious people often define themselves by their profession or education, which in reality is only part of who they are.</p><p>You may define yourself by another factor, but the key to this section is knowing who you are. </p><p>There are many tools and personality tests, but at the very least, I would suggest you pay for an <a href="https://tests.enneagraminstitute.com/">Enneagram test</a>. Carefully read the results and take notes.</p><p>Note: I first read about this test in <a href="https://amzn.to/2SFoNtq"><em>Tools of Titans.</em></a></p><p>What I like about this test is that in addition to describing your personality, it will tell you how you react to stress and help you respond. It will also remind you of the positive aspects of your personality.</p><h2>3. Others Have Gone Through What You&#x27;re Experiencing; You&#x27;re Not Alone</h2><p>When stressed, anxious or overwhelmed, we feel alone. I tend to isolate myself when stressed, and it’s not uncommon.</p><p>The reality of social media is we often see only the highlights in others’ lives. This can amplify the feelings of inadequacy or being alone.</p><p>To break from this, we must remind ourselves that many others have been in the same, or worse, situations before. Many are experiencing them now.</p><p>For me, there are several ways to truly remind myself of this.</p><ol><li>Talk to a friend/peer/mentor in a similar situation.</li><li>Read about someone going through something similar.</li><li>Listen to someone talk about something similar.</li></ol><p>The first is an attractive option, but the logistics can be difficult.</p><p>I have entrepreneur friends I rely on for advice and mentorship, but they are busy and have their own worries. </p><p>I don’t hesitate to reach out via text or email when I really need it, but it&#x27;s often difficult to get what you need via those mediums.</p><p>I would use friends and mentors for what I call “maintenance” – talking about challenges, worries, anxieties before they become something larger. </p><p>Meetups and events are great for this, particularly ones like <a href="http://www.eamtl.com/">Entrepreneurs Anonymous</a>, for example. </p><p>You can find gatherings near you on <a href="https://www.meetup.com/">Meetup</a>.</p><p>The second option - reading a book - is better in the short term, because it’s immediately accessible. You can build a literal library of books that are most helpful to you in particular. </p><p>These are some of the most impactful books for me:</p><ul><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2C4eubb">Siddhartha</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2s9ZhRs">Man’s Search for Meaning</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2CayzwK">Mastery</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2SJo9uU">Awaken the Giant Within</a></li></ul><p>Specifically for entrepreneurs:</p><ul><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2C5Sw7J">The Messy Middle</a></li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/2RzIEgb">The War of Art</a></li></ul><p>But reading is time-consuming and requires your full concentration. </p><p>You can’t do anything else while reading, which is sometimes a good thing, but there’s a better option.</p><p>The third option - my favourite - is audio.</p><p>You have the same options as reading; most books are now available as audiobooks (I use <a href="https://amzn.to/2RzElBt">Audible</a> for these).</p><p>Podcasts are also an option when consuming audio.</p><p>I find the conversational nature of podcasts often makes the lessons a little more human than books.</p><p>The benefit of audio is you can consume while doing other things.</p><p>In particular I’d recommend either working out or walking, ideally somewhere calming. </p><p>One of Tony Robbin’s mantras is <a href="https://www.tonyrobbins.com/mind-meaning/how-to-reset-your-mind-and-mood/"><em>to change the state of your mind, you need to change the state of your body</em></a>.</p><p>It doesn’t have to be a drastic change, although sometimes a killer workout is exactly what is needed. </p><p>Even something as simple as going for a long walk will do wonders for how your body feels, and therefore how you feel. </p><p>You can double up on the benefits by consuming a great book or podcast on the way.</p><p>I’ve mentioned a couple of my favourite books for reminding myself I’m not alone above, and here are a couple of my favourite podcasts for that purpose:</p><ul><li><a href="https://tim.blog/2018/09/13/scott-belsky/">Tim Ferriss with Scott Belsky (author of The Messy Middle)</a></li><li><a href="https://tim.blog/2014/10/15/money-master-the-game/">Tim Ferriss with Tony Robbins</a></li></ul><h2>This Too Shall Pass</h2><p>So, if you’re feeling anxious and overwhelmed, try and remember the following:</p><ol><li><strong>What you’re going through isn’t that bad.</strong></li><li><strong>Your work is not the only thing that defines you.</strong></li><li><strong>Other people have gone through this; you&#x27;re not alone.</strong></li></ol><p>To accomplish the above, do the following things:</p><ol><li><strong>Write down anxieties and worst-case scenarios.</strong></li><li><strong>Know your personality, and re-read those notes.</strong></li><li><strong>Listen to a podcast or book while walking.</strong></li></ol><p>Everyone feels overwhelmed and anxious at some point. Know it will pass, you are not alone, and things will get better.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[FightCamp (Home Boxing Workouts) Review]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Learn about FightCamp, the “Peloton of boxing” and their home boxing workouts. This review covers the equipment, the app, and the overall system as a method of staying fit, including video of me attempting to box.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Why Did I Start Boxing?</h2><p>I started boxing a year ago. </p><p>At the time, it was about getting away from running. Running seems to be the default fitness activity as you get older. For good reason - it&#x27;s very easy to squeeze in a 20-minute run. It doesn’t require a gym. You can do it outside. </p><p>I grew up playing team sports like soccer and hockey. But organized sports are constraining and time-consuming. That gets tougher as age.</p><p>From an efficiency standpoint, four hours committed for a one-hour workout doesn&#x27;t make sense.</p><p>My best days of soccer and hockey are also past me. I still enjoy them. But I&#x27;m not going to improve.</p><p>Boxing, though, I could improve, because I had no boxing skills when I started.</p><p>It&#x27;s also a fantastic workout. High-intensity interval training (HIIT) is the most efficient workout available. Boxing workouts are based on rounds, which are 3 minutes of work followed by 1 minute of rest. They have an inherent interval structure.</p><p>Little time is required for a good boxing workout. You can arrive 5 minutes before class starts and be exhausted within the hour.</p><p>There&#x27;s also something primal about all combat sports. Fighting is interesting, regardless of the rules.</p><p>I always enjoyed the physical combat aspect of hockey. Boxing has different rules, but the principle is the same: beat the other person.</p><h2>Fitness-as-a-Service</h2><p>Modern life seems to have more time constraints than ever. </p><p>We squeeze in workouts whenever we can. And there’s no shortage of fitness business models.</p><p>P90X, Bowflex, and others have shown the demand for at-home fitness products.</p><p>The popularity of fitness classes has risen substantially. The group setting provides motivation. The intensity is often higher than we can muster on our own. The social aspect makes it a positive experience. ClassPass has capitalized on this.</p><p>Recently, several companies have paired the appeal of group classes with in-home fitness.</p><p>The most well-known is <a href="https://www.onepeloton.com/">Peloton</a>.</p><p>With Peloton, for $2245 USD ($2950 CAD), you get a specially-designed indoor bike machine with a large screen built-in. You may also want to buy a pair of bike shoes.</p><p>Then you pay $40 per month and get access to a large variety of spin classes that you can follow along with. The classes are filmed in-studio to give you the feel of participating in your home.</p><p>By all accounts, it&#x27;s been a success so far, with investors putting in almost a billion dollars in funding to date.</p><p>Many other companies are capitalizing on the trend.</p><h2>FightCamp - Peloton for Boxing</h2><p>One of those companies is <a href="https://joinfightcamp.com/">FightCamp</a>.</p><p>They&#x27;re focused on bringing all the benefits of group boxing workouts to your home.</p><p>Full disclosure: FightCamp was founded by friends of mine, but I&#x27;ll do my best to give an objective review.</p><p>For $1095 USD, you get a top-of-the-line free-standing heavy bag, a set of heavy workout mats, a pair of boxing gloves and wraps, and their key technology: punch trackers.</p><p>The punch trackers get worn in the provided wraps. They measure quickness, max velocity and number of punches, and are key to the workouts.</p><p>Using the provided package (or your own equipment - you can get the sensors separately if you want), you subscribe for $39 per month.</p><p>With this subscription, you get access to a full library of boxing workouts. These workouts are filmed in-studio with other participants, giving you the feeling of being in class.</p><p>Here&#x27;s the coolest part: you stream the workouts via the FightCamp app to your phone/iPad/TV, and follow along. As you participate, your punches get logged, and your final workout score gets stacked up on the leaderboard for that workout.</p><p>Each workout has punch count goals, so you can know how you&#x27;re doing all the time.</p><p>I had the pleasure of participating in some of the in-studio workouts last time I visited the team in LA. Here&#x27;s a quick clip from one: </p><p>The trainer in the video is Flo Master, who you can <a href="https://www.instagram.com/flomaster73/?hl=en">follow on Instagram here.</a></p><h2>The Benefits of FightCamp</h2><p>The benefits of boxing carry over to FightCamp. The workouts are short, intense and efficient. You have the option to choose 15-, 30- or 45-minute workouts, and all will make you sweat.</p><p>The studio atmosphere gives the feeling of being in class, which helps with motivation and intensity.</p><p>Their punch trackers are a difference-maker. Seeing punches in real-time during the workout is motivating, and the leaderboard (a recent feature) motivates further. It’s hard to resist immediately repeating a workout when you finish close to the top. The competitive desire to improve is hard to resist.</p><p>As a result, the workouts are fun, despite the intensity.</p><p>It also makes it easy to track your progress. Automatically having your score tracked on a per-workout basis gives you a benchmark to improve on. That&#x27;s difficult in standard workouts, even if you use the sensors.</p><p>The equipment is great. I know how much time they spend sourcing top-quality components.</p><p>Customer support is excellent. They have an active Facebook group and respond to requests and comments quickly and consistently.</p><p>The trainers who create and lead the workouts are top-notch. <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tommyduquette/?hl=en">Tommy Duquette</a>, one of the co-founders, is a former US Olympic team boxer. Others are former MMA fighters and trainers for top celebrities like Adrianna Lima, Usher and Hugh Jackman. They&#x27;re all engaged on social media, further enhancing the FightCamp community.</p><p>The app user experience is great. Music streaming happens in-app. The app is easy to navigate, and connecting the sensors (probably the most complicated aspect) is intuitive.</p><h2>The Cons of FightCamp</h2><p>I&#x27;ll address both my own suggestions and those which have been common among users.</p><h3>Personal Suggestions</h3><p>There are only a few things I would like to see improve.</p><p>The first is offline availability of the workouts. </p><p>The full FightCamp package isn&#x27;t available in Canada yet, so I&#x27;ve been following along with the workouts at my local boxing gym. Unfortunately, my gym has spotty Wifi, so sometimes I can&#x27;t stream the classes. When this happens I default back to the Hykso app, and do a few freestyle rounds. </p><p>This shouldn&#x27;t be a problem if you&#x27;re working out at home, where Wifi is stable.</p><p>But it would be a nice feature for traveling too, where you may be in a gym that doesn&#x27;t have Wifi, or in a hotel where it sucks. I’m told, however, that this feature is being worked on.</p><p>The third is linking with other services.</p><p>I use a <a href="https://amzn.to/2QCYhRk">Scosche Rhythm+ armband</a> to track my heart rate during workouts. It&#x27;s the most accurate way I&#x27;ve found to measure my own intensity and watch progress.</p><p>Currently, there isn&#x27;t any in-app support for heart rate monitors. Adding heart rate tracking to workouts - both live and in the workout summary - would be cool. The ability to push this data to other apps (Apple Health, for example) would also be nice.</p><h3>User Feedback</h3><p>While writing this, I scoured forums and groups for user feedback on FightCamp (trying to be objective here, remember?). I&#x27;ll summarize them here.</p><p>Currently, the app is only available on iOS. I can see how this would be frustrating for Android users. I use an iPhone, so it hasn&#x27;t been an issue for me.</p><p>Production quality of the classes has been a complaint in the past. This is fixed. The team brought a video/audio person in-house, and the quality is great.</p><p>Availability of classes was a complaint early. This is also fixed. The team pushes out 4+ classes per week now. They&#x27;ve been doing so for over a year, so the quantity of classes available is extensive.</p><p>I&#x27;ve found that you will find trainers and workouts you like more, and will keep going back to a small number of them. It&#x27;s nice to know there&#x27;s variety when you want it.</p><p>Getting punch trackers on properly used to be a complaint. This was before they supplied wraps, when you had to use standard boxing wraps. </p><p>The supplied wraps have little pockets for the trackers, making this a non-issue.</p><p>A few users have asked for modifications of the exercises. I didn&#x27;t find this an issue, but I&#x27;m also relatively fit. New content has been added in the past couple months specifically targeted at beginners.</p><p>High initial cost has also been a complaint. I would argue it&#x27;s much cheaper than Peloton, and more fun.</p><p>That said, the team has been open about the cost of components. It&#x27;s actually more expensive if you purchase each component individually. </p><p>The following are rough prices for each component:</p><ul><li>Century Torrent T2 Pro standing bag: $450 USD</li><li>Boxing gloves: $120-$190 USD</li><li>FightCamp Connect (quick wraps + sensors): $399 USD</li><li>Rubber workout mats: ~$100 USD</li></ul><p>Including tax and shipping, buying separately comes out to more than the FightCamp package (which comes with free shipping).</p><p>Can you assemble a set of working equipment for less? Yes. The FightCamp team selected premium equipment for the package. If you want premium equipment that will last (and is also custom FightCamp stuff), it&#x27;s a great deal.</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BdnbRu_nNcq/?fbclid=IwAR39SvfteVU1n4Q5h5YtcfFGp8fIb0JLK9xLmdHbivyRLua7SuIt2G1cAK8">Here&#x27;s a video</a> of Tommy and Patrick (another co-founder) testing out bags at Century.</p><h2>The Verdict</h2><p>I have yet to find a workout that is more fun by yourself.</p><p>I&#x27;ve tried biking indoors, and I&#x27;ve used the Peloton bike. Neither are near as fun.</p><p>With FightCamp, you&#x27;ll have fun developing new boxing skills, competing on the leaderboard, and tracking your progress.</p><p><strong>I think FightCamp is the best available option for improving your fitness at home</strong>. Not only is it a great workout, but when you enjoy it, you’re all the more likely to stick with it.</p><p>Congrats to the FightCamp team on building such a great experience.</p><p>You can <a href="https://joinfightcamp.com/">check out the FightCamp website here.</a></p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Communicate Effectively]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Effective communication is important for every aspect of life. Here are two communication techniques I’ve learned that have proven to be exceptionally useful.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Effective communication is important for every aspect of life.</p><p>Even self-employed people must interact with clients, suppliers, and customers.</p><p>In life, the quality of our relationships often depends upon effective communication.</p><p>Here are two communication techniques I’ve learned that have proven to be exceptionally useful.</p><h2>Effective Communication Technique #1: Reflective Listening</h2><p>The first technique for communicating effectively is reflective listening.</p><p>This method was introduced to me during Techstars for getting soft-commitments from investors.</p><p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reflective_listening">Wikipedia</a> offers a concise definition:</p><ul><li>“Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker&#x27;s idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.”</li></ul><p>In a dialogue between two people, you first summarize what was said by the other person, and repeat it back to them.</p><ul><li>Person A <strong>states</strong> an idea.</li><li>Person B <strong>rephrases</strong> that idea, and <strong>repeats it back</strong> to Person A.</li><li>Person A <strong>confirms or revises</strong> that idea.</li></ul><p>A typical example of Person B&#x27;s reflection is <strong>“so what I’m hearing is that ________, ________ and ________”.</strong></p><p>This accomplishes a few things.</p><p><strong>First</strong>, it forces you to digest an idea and reformulate it yourself, which helps your retention.</p><p><strong>Second</strong>, it allows Person A to either a) confirm things, b) correct you, or c) correct what they said and be more precise.</p><p><strong>Third</strong>, it buys you some time to think through the idea or statement and formulate a response.</p><p>In the end, the intent of the idea is much clearer, and <strong>miscommunications are avoided.</strong></p><p>The technique is just as valuable for investor meetings as communication with your spouse.</p><p>I highly encourage you to spend some time consciously practicing reflective listening. It will eventually become second nature, but initially requires some practice.</p><h2>Effective Communication Technique #2: Send - Confirm - Acknowledge</h2><p>I learned this technique for communicating effectively during my time with the Coast Guard (the <a href="http://www.ccg-gcc.gc.ca/SAR/IRB-Background">best summer job</a>).</p><p>The technique is designed to minimize miscommunications, and is often used for radio communications on the water, which are known to be challenging.</p><p>The basic breakdown of the technique is as follows:</p><ul><li>Person A <strong>sends</strong> a communication.</li><li>Person B <strong>confirms</strong> the communication by repeating the communication (note the similarity with reflective listening).</li><li>Person A <strong>acknowledges</strong> receipt of correct message, or corrects Person B.</li></ul><p>It’s easy to see how this is similar to reflective listening.</p><p>However, I find this technique more useful when using non-verbal forms of communication (think email, text, etc.).</p><p>A good example is setting a meeting:</p><p>I email someone asking for a meeting with time/time zone/date/duration:</p><ul><li>“Would a Skype call on Tuesday, July 3 at 1400 ET work for you?”</li></ul><p>They confirm that time/time zone/date/duration:</p><ul><li>“That sounds good to me!”</li></ul><p>I acknowledge receipt and repeat message:</p><ul><li>“Great, I will send you a calendar invite with a Skype link for Tuesday, July 3 at 1400 ET. Talk to you then!”</li></ul><p>Note: in this example, the other person should repeat the message instead, but not everyone knows the technique!</p><p>Doing this forces me to make sure I’ve communicated the message properly, picked the correct time and date, and been specific with details (how many times have you scheduled a call only to realize you don’t have their phone number!).</p><h2>In Summary</h2><h3>Effective Communication Technique #1: Reflective Listening</h3><ul><li>Person A <strong>listens</strong> to a speaker’s idea/communication.</li><li>Person B <strong>repeats a summary</strong> back to them to confirm understanding.</li><li>Person A <strong>confirms</strong> the message, or revises.</li></ul><h3>Effective Communication Technique #2: Send - Confirm - Acknowledge</h3><ul><li>Person A <strong>sends</strong> communication.</li><li>Person B <strong>confirms</strong> communication by repeating it back.</li><li>Person A <strong>acknowledges</strong> receipt of correct message.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Read a Book]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Learning and applying knowledge from books doesn’t happen automatically. This article outlines how to make the most of the books you read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>A Guide to Making the Most of the Books You Read</h2><p>By my count, I read about 63 books last year. About 18 of those were fiction, so about 45 non-fiction books for the purpose of learning. </p><p>I’ve added <a href="/book-notes">notes from some of them here</a>.</p><p>The topics ranged from love and dating to trading options, to marketing and sales. </p><p>While a broad base of knowledge is a good thing, sometimes that comes at the cost of depth.</p><p>So while I systematically took notes for the first time (<a href="/blog/how-to-take-book-notes">here’s how I do it</a>), I’ve now spent some time planning how to “read better” moving forward. </p><p>What I’m after is: </p><ul><li>How do I retain more of what I read?</li><li>How do I improve my learning from books?</li><li>How do I apply what I learn more effectively? </li></ul><p>In other words: <strong>how can I make the most of what I read?</strong></p><p>This article is an outline for myself for how to read a book - I hope it helps you too.</p><h2>Book Reading Preparation</h2><p>This is the largest change to my reading habits.</p><p>Previously, I’d select a book in two main ways:</p><ol><li>I would look at the long list of books in my library, and select something I was interested in at that that time. If I was having trouble thinking through some marketing, I’d choose one from that list.</li><li>I’d read books as they were released from authors I knew, or books that were highly recommended. Examples of books like this in 2018 were <a href="https://amzn.to/2MQfuEP">The Laws of Human Nature</a>, <a href="https://amzn.to/2G90C43">The Dichotomy of Leadership</a>, and <a href="/book-notes/cant-hurt-me-david-goggins">Can’t Hurt Me</a>.</li></ol><p>For the most part, this has served me well. I read a wide range of highly recommended books in a variety of disciplines, and as a result have a good general knowledge base.</p><p>But I felt like I was lacking some depth. </p><p>The other issue with reading just one or two books on a subject is that one tends to parrot the views of the author, without coming up with anything novel.</p><h2>Syntopical Reading</h2><p>The answer to this question is <a href="https://fs.blog/how-to-read-a-book/">syntopical reading</a>.</p><p><strong>Syntopical reading</strong>: reading many books on the same subject, then comparing and contrasting the ideas within.</p><p>The benefit of this method is that you get much more depth. </p><p>Ideas and arguments are fresh in your mind. After reading several books, you can examine your notes and come up with general principles and ideas.</p><p>So, with this in mind, how do you choose what to read?</p><p>First, choose a topic. </p><p>I make a list of all the subjects I’m interested in learning more about, and then prioritize based on my current needs. These can be as general or specific as you want, though I would start more general.</p><p>Once I have a list of the subjects I want to learn, I either: </p><ol><li>add books from my overall reading list/library that fit that subject, or </li><li>research the topic further for books to read.</li></ol><p>From these books, I’ll pick the top 3-5, ideally from different authors.</p><p>Before reading, make note of the questions you want answered from the books:</p><ul><li>What are you trying to learn? </li><li>Where do you want to apply this knowledge? Be specific.</li><li>Ex: I want to create a plan for marketing my business this year, including creating a customer profile and digital marketing.</li></ul><p>This will help with both selecting the correct books and picking out relevant ideas while reading.</p><p>When researching books, don’t rely on best-seller lists, or other crowd-sourced lists. Try and find people you respect and admire, and the books they recommend. </p><p>Also apply the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lindy_effect">Lindy effect</a>: how long something has been around is a prediction of value/how long it will be around in the future.</p><p>In other words, if you pick a book that has been considered a classic in the field for 20 years, it’s much more likely to be a good pick than one that came out last week.</p><p>Once you’ve chosen 3-5 books and written down the questions you want answered, it’s time to start reading.</p><p>You should approach your reading with the mindset that you will need to teach what you learn to someone later.</p><h2>Taking Notes While Reading</h2><p>Without a doubt, one of the best things you can do to make the most of your reading is take notes. </p><p>It helps with immediate retention, and gives you a much shorter summary to go back to in future.</p><p>I’ve written about <a href="/blog/how-to-take-book-notes">how I take notes</a> on the books I read.</p><p>Highlighting, exporting, re-reading and editing are good starts when taking book notes. But that simple act <a href="https://bigthink.com/neurobonkers/assessing-the-evidence-for-the-one-thing-you-never-get-taught-in-school-how-to-learn">is not great for actually retaining and applying information</a>. I would add a couple more things.</p><p>The first is <strong>summarization</strong>: After each chapter, try and write your own summary of the main points, in your own, simple words (I prefer to do this after exporting my notes/highlights). This will help you identify areas where you lack understanding.</p><p>The second is to <strong>make things personal</strong>: While reading, add notes about how you could apply concepts to your own life, or connections that come to mind.</p><p>When you come across answers or information relevant to the questions you posed at the beginning, write them down. Also make note of any new questions that come to mind.</p><p>Once you’ve read the book, go back after some time (I’d suggest a week) and go through all your notes. Edit, reword where possible, and generally make them more readable for you in the future. </p><p>Then store them somewhere; I keep all my notes in <a href="https://evernote.com/">Evernote</a> for easy access.</p><h2>Making the Most of the Information</h2><p>After you’ve done this for 3-5 books on the topic you’re interested in, you should have a good base of knowledge.</p><p>Hopefully, as you’ve been reading and taking notes, you’ve assumed the teacher role and thought about how you would teach this topic in future. This mindset helps ensure you actually understand the material.</p><p>At this point, we’re going to use the <a href="https://fs.blog/2012/04/feynman-technique/">Feynman technique</a> to synthesize all the information.</p><p>The <a href="https://fs.blog/2012/04/feynman-technique/">Feynman technique</a> works roughly as follows:</p><ol><li><strong>Choose a concept</strong>: in this case, it will be whatever question we set out to answer before reading.</li><li><strong>Teach it to a toddler:</strong> keeping it as short as possible (ideally one page), explain the concept as you would to a toddler. This means simple vocabulary and precise language. </li><li><strong>Identify gaps &amp; go back to source material</strong>: as you try to write this explanation, you should identify areas you don’t fully understand, or gaps in your knowledge, and go back to the material to fill in that information. Continue until you’re satisfied with your explanation.</li><li><strong>Review and simplify:</strong> as you continue to read more books on the subject in future, or gain further understanding, you can go back to this document and simplify and refine.</li></ol><p>To take this one step further, write a separate document about how you are going to apply your new knowledge in your life. </p><p>If you have multiple areas where you can apply it, write multiple documents. </p><p>This process of forcing yourself to apply your new knowledge will help with both understanding and remembering in future.</p><h2>Long-Term Retention</h2><p>Once you’ve gone to the trouble of deeply understanding and applying the new material you’ve learned, you want to retain it long-term.</p><p>To do this, we’ll do two things.</p><p>The first is testing ourselves on the material. </p><p><a href="https://bigthink.com/neurobonkers/assessing-the-evidence-for-the-one-thing-you-never-get-taught-in-school-how-to-learn">Self-testing is one of the best ways of learning and identifying knowledge gaps</a>. </p><p>In this case, you should be able to reproduce the explanation you created during the Feynman exercise.</p><p>The second step is to schedule this self-testing appropriately, and set aside time for it.</p><p>The general rule for retaining material is to <a href="https://bigthink.com/neurobonkers/assessing-the-evidence-for-the-one-thing-you-never-get-taught-in-school-how-to-learn">test yourself at 10-20% of the interval you want to retain it</a>. For example, if you want to remember something for a year, you should revisit the material at least every month or two.</p><p>I would suggest that a good interval to revisit the material is every week for the first 4-8 weeks, and then one time per month or quarter. Schedule this time in your calendar after each session so you don’t forget.</p><p>Tools like <a href="https://apps.ankiweb.net/">Anki</a> and <a href="https://tinycards.duolingo.com/">Tiny Cards</a> can also help.</p><h2>Future Updates</h2><p>If you’ve followed this sequence properly, you should have an answer to the original question(s) you asked. </p><p>Now, in future, when you want to read another book on the topic, you can simply go through the steps and update your previous work.</p><p>Long-term, this should allow you to master many topics, and retain them long-term.</p><p>Note that <a href="https://www.nateliason.com/blog/become-expert-dreyfus">mastering the skills</a> that go with these topics is a separate issue; gaining subject knowledge is the first step.</p><h2>How to Read a Book Summary</h2><p>To get the most from reading:</p><ol><li><strong>Choose a subject you’d like to learn.</strong></li><li><strong>Pick the best 3-5 books on the topic, from different authors. </strong></li><li>Use recommendations from experts, not general reviews or lists.</li><li><strong>Write down the question(s) you want answered.</strong></li><li><strong>Take notes:</strong></li><li>Highlight key passages and write notes while reading.</li><li>Briefly summarize each chapter in your own words.</li><li>Write down new questions and ways you could immediately apply the knowledge to your own life.</li><li>Revisit all notes after a week or so, and rewrite and format to make them useful for you.</li><li>Store somewhere easy to access (I use <a href="https://evernote.com/">Evernote</a>).</li><li><strong>Use the Feynman technique to synthesize information.</strong></li><li>Choose concept (the question you set out to answer). </li><li>Teach to a toddler.</li><li>Identify gaps &amp; go back to source material.</li><li>Review &amp; simplify.</li><li><strong>Write down how you could immediately apply new knowledge.</strong></li><li><strong>To retain information long-term:</strong></li><li>Use self-testing.</li><li>Revisit every 1-2 months.</li><li><strong>As you read more books on the topic, update notes and repeat.</strong></li></ol><h2>Sources &amp; Further Reading</h2><ul><li><a href="/blog/how-to-take-book-notes">How to Take Book Notes</a></li><li><a href="https://fs.blog/2017/10/how-to-remember-what-you-read/">How to Remember What You Read - Farnam Street</a></li><li><a href="https://www.nateliason.com/blog/never-forget-books-you-read">How to Never Forget Books You Read - Nat Eliason</a></li><li><a href="https://medium.com/darius-foroux/how-to-retain-more-from-the-books-you-read-in-5-simple-steps-700d90653a41">How to Retain More From the Books You Read in 5 Simple Steps - Darius Foroux</a></li><li><a href="https://fs.blog/reading/">A Helpful Guide to Reading Better - Farnam Street</a></li><li><a href="https://bigthink.com/neurobonkers/assessing-the-evidence-for-the-one-thing-you-never-get-taught-in-school-how-to-learn">The Lesson You Never Got Taught in School: How to Learn! - Simon Oxenham</a></li><li>Cover Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/Q5Uf3B8Ej7A?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Toa Heftiba</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/search/photos/reading?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText">Unsplash</a></li></ul><h2>‍</h2>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Lean Systems - My Next Project]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I've joined a new startup called Lean Systems (as of September)! I'm super excited about the project, in which I'm now a cofounder, and the last few months since joining have been awesome. I wanted to share a bit about the company, as well as my thought process in selecting a new challenge following my time as an Associate with Techstars Boston (Spring 2016).]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>New Startup!</h2><p>I&#x27;ve joined a new startup called <a href="http://leansystems.co/">Lean Systems</a> (as of September)! I&#x27;m super excited about the project, in which I&#x27;m now a cofounder, and the last few months since joining have been awesome. I wanted to share a bit about the company, as well as my thought process in selecting a new challenge following my time as an Associate with <a href="http://www.techstars.com/">Techstars</a> Boston (Spring 2016).</p><p>Lean Systems (originally Leanframe) was founded alongside <a href="https://flystro.com/">Flystro</a> in <a href="http://fi.co/">Founder Institute</a> Montreal in 2015. That&#x27;s also where I met Sebastien, my new cofounder, and got interested in the project.</p><p>Lean Systems, in short, deals with solving large optimization problems for the transportation industry. When applied to this industry, generally the problems we deal with fall into two categories: scheduling and routing. The prime example is a taxi company: they have bunch of routes that need servicing, and a number of drivers, all with different constraints (number of seats, working hours, service area limitations, etc.). Solving the problem of routing drivers within all constraints is extremely difficult, and there is a time-limitation as well (ie. the problem needs to be solved quickly). Many software packages claim to have an optimization component, but the reality is they are sub-optimal, and often only solve small portions of the problem at a time. We&#x27;re focused on provided the highest level of optimization possible to companies of all sizes, which means providing scalable pricing (and a scalable product to make it feasible).</p><h2>Decision to Join</h2><p>I decided to join Lean Systems based on a few key factors:</p><ol><li><strong>Project interest &amp; potential impact:</strong> as you can probably imagine, the number of large optimization problems that the world has at the moment is not small. Even if limited to the transportation sector there&#x27;s a huge market, and I believe the potential for this company is just as massive. The impact our company could have on the world (reducing mileage for a large taxi company could reduce emissions a huge amount over the course of a year) is also extremely appealing to me.</li><li><strong>Personal impact:</strong> the company is still in an early stage, and I wanted a project where I would personally have a large impact on the success of the company. Everyone in an early-stage startup has a large impact, whether good or bad, and I love that. My skills pair particularly well with Sebastien, and so far it&#x27;s been a great fit (as anticipated). Taking a role-specific position within a more mature company (digital marketer in a company of 50 people, for example), didn&#x27;t appeal nearly as much to me.</li><li><strong>Familiarity with Sebastien and the company:</strong> it&#x27;s a difficult decision to choose a cofounder, or a new company. Ideally, you spend lots of time working with that person or company first. Does that happen in practice? Rarely. I&#x27;ve spent lots of time, both with Sebastien, and discussing the progression of the company, since the beginning of Founder Institute (over 18 months). I felt I had enough information to make a smart decision, particularly compared to the other options I was considering, which is not often the case when moving into something new.</li></ol><p>We&#x27;ve already rolled out our first product, and have some big things in the works. If you&#x27;re interested in chatting more about <a href="https://www.leansystems.co/">Lean Systems</a> don&#x27;t hesitate to shoot me a message - can&#x27;t wait to keep everyone updated!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <link>https://grahammann.net/blog/new-york-to-nova-scotia</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The complete video, itinerary, and lessons from our 5-day boat trip from New York to Nova Scotia—including stops, challenges, and what we'd do differently next time.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Weekend Boat Trip from New York to Nova Scotia</h2><p>About a month ago, my uncle decided to sell his Albin 31 - the opportunity was a good one, but time-sensitive; a firm in Greenland needed a vessel to serve as a dive boat.</p><p>Most of us were surprised he would part with it - there were a lot of hours put into modifying it and improving it to the point he was happy with it.</p><p>But, as luck would have it, his ideal boat came along within a couple weeks - a larger version of his previous boat, an Albin 35, this time with a flying bridge, and with the engine option he wanted.</p><p>What that meant was that he had to pick it up in Staten Island, New York, and bring it home to Lunenburg, Nova Scotia, and relatively soon, before the winter weather and seas made the trip difficult.</p><h3>Delivery to Nova Scotia</h3><p>I decided relatively last minute to try and make the trip - I took an overnight bus from Ottawa to New York, after being at an event in Ottawa Thursday evening. I arrived in New York, grabbed a subway to Brooklyn, and got picked up to go to Staten Island, and we were on the water by 11:30am.</p><ul><li>Our route from New York to Nova Scotia went something like the following:</li><li>New York through the East River to Long Island Sound</li><li>Friday night in Old Saybrook, Connecticut, at Harbor One Marina, with dinner at Saybrook Point Inn &amp; Spa</li><li>Saturday through the rest of Long Island Sound, up through Buzzard&#x27;s Bay (inside Martha&#x27;s Vineyard) and the Cape Cod Canal into Cape Cod Bay</li><li>Overnight to Portland, ME</li><li>Arrive in Portland Sunday morning for refueling, showers, and breakfast</li><li>Depart Portland 10:30am Sunday for Yarmouth, NS</li><li>Overnight across the Bay of Fundy, arrival in Yarmouth at 9:30am Monday</li><li>Clear customs, depart Yarmouth around 11:30am</li><li>Arrive in Lunenburg Monday night at 10:30pm</li></ul><h3>New York to Nova Scotia Video</h3><p>Here are a few clips of the trip - traveling up the East River was particularly spectacular, as were the sunrises and sunsets.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Patrick Collison on Decision Making]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Patrick Collison, cofounder and CEO of Stripe, is widely admired in tech circles. This article summarizes his decision making tips and process, as told on The Tim Ferriss Show and The Knowledge Project podcasts.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently listened to two podcasts featuring <a href="https://patrickcollison.com/">Patrick Collison</a>, the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patrick_Collison">co-founder and CEO of Stripe</a>. </p><p>The first was <a href="https://tim.blog/2018/12/20/patrick-collison/">this episode of The Tim Ferriss Show</a>. </p><p>The second was <a href="https://fs.blog/2018/05/patrick-collison/">this episode of The Knowledge Project</a>.</p><p>I’ve also been reading a lot about decision making.</p><p>In both episodes, Patrick commented on his framework for approaching and making decisions. I found it so valuable I wanted to share a summary here.</p><p>The quotes featured here are from the transcripts of each podcast.</p><p>You can find the <a href="https://tim.blog/2018/12/24/the-tim-ferriss-show-patrick-collison/">full transcript of The Tim Ferriss Show episode here</a>.</p><p>The <a href="https://s3.amazonaws.com/fs-lc/2018/Podcast/Transcripts/Patrick+Collison.pdf">full transcript of The Knowledge Project episode is here</a>.</p><h2>Before Making a Decision</h2><p>Patrick comments “decision making in organizations is slightly overrated”.</p><p>He elaborates, saying that it <em>is</em> important for organizations whose business is binary decision making. He gives the example of an investment firm, where the primary work is a yes/no answer on investing or not.</p><p>His point is more about the tendency to over-focus on the decision itself. Instead, he says we should be focusing on two things:</p><ul><li>Aiming to have better options when faced with decisions.</li><li>Making decisions quicker, and then course-correcting when required.</li></ul><h2>Focus on Better Options</h2><blockquote>“How do I make sure the decisions I’m confronted with end up being better?” It’s not like, “How should I choose between option A and B,” but, “How do I make sure that both options A and B are as good as possible, and there’s also a C, D, and E, and that those options are great too?” - Patrick Collison, The Tim Ferriss Show</blockquote><p>Before making a decision, think instead, “Have I considered all options?”</p><p>This discussion took place between Tim and Patrick. Between them, there were two suggestions for finding better options.</p><ol><li><strong>Cultivate people you can consult who think differently.</strong></li><li>“...finding the people who think a bit divergently, the returns are really high.” - Patrick</li><li><strong>If you have trouble finding other people, at least create different personas.</strong></li><li>Both Tim and Patrick point out that it’s possible to mentally simulate the reactions of other people. This alone can be a useful exercise for coming up with alternatives.</li></ol><h2>Rank Speed Above Being Right</h2><blockquote>“You don’t necessarily need to be that good at decision making if you get really good at remaking the decision when and as necessary...Instead, it’s all about the constant feedback and course and error correction. And I think that’s, as a general matter, a better model for life and that even a lot of the decisions that look pretty trapdoor may not necessarily be.” - Patrick Collison, The Tim Ferriss Show</blockquote><p>Tim agrees, saying: </p><blockquote>“In my case, I think I focused excessively on getting better at decision making without really refining that to say that perhaps the better question to ask is how can I get better at...undoing or redoing the decision…”</blockquote><p>If you can reverse a decision if it turns out to be wrong, it matters a lot less if you’re making the right decisions.</p><p>The key point here is that you must become good at reversing decisions or correcting course. Both individuals and organizations struggle with this.</p><p>A tool that can help is <a href="https://fs.blog/2014/02/decision-journal/">a decision journal</a>. Record the factors leading to your decision, and next steps if it turns out to be right or wrong. This will help you course-correct in future.</p><p>Patrick summarizes his thoughts on The Knowledge Project: </p><blockquote>“I now just place more value on decision speed. If you can make twice as many decisions at half the precision, that’s actually often better.”</blockquote><blockquote>“Make more decisions with less confidence but in significantly less time. And just recognize that in most cases, you can course correct and treat fast decisions as a kind of asset and capability in their own right.”</blockquote><h2>Don’t Treat All Decisions Uniformly</h2><blockquote>“The second thing is to not treat all decisions uniformly. I think the most obvious axes to break them down on are degree of reversibility and magnitude. Things with low reversibility and great impact and magnitude, those ones you do want to really deliberate over and try to get right.” - Patrick Collison, The Knowledge Project</blockquote><p>Patrick’s thinking here mirrors <a href="https://fs.blog/2018/09/decision-matrix/">this article from Farnam Street</a> which breaks down decisions into four categories:</p><p>As suggested by the graphic, you should aim to make only decisions that are of large magnitude (consequential) and irreversible. These are the ones you want to get right.</p><p>Delegate everything else, as the consequences are either small or reversible.</p><h2>Make Fewer Decisions</h2><blockquote>“The third thing is, I now try to fairly deliberately just make fewer decisions.“Why am I making the decision?” And for some kinds of decisions, there are some good reasons for that, and there are some decisions the CEO ought to make and is fundamentally on the hook for, but there are some decisions where if I’m making it or if I have to make it, that probably suggests [that] something else organizationally or institutionally has broken.” - Patrick Collison, The Knowledge Project</blockquote><p>Again, you should aim to only make decisions that are large consequential and irreversible. Delegate everything else. Then you can focus on making better decisions for those that truly matter.</p><h2>Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome</h2><blockquote>“And then fourth, when I realize that I would make a decision differently [to] how someone else would make it, not even really discussing the decision itself but trying to dig into, what is the difference in our models such that they want to make Decision A and I want to make Decision B?</blockquote><p>And so, now, I in decision making, I place more importance on making sure that we have the right foundational agreement such that the disagreements that then tend to arise are of the essentially more superficial sort and where agreement is actually less important.” - Patrick Collison, The Knowledge Project</p><p>Patrick’s point may seem aimed at organizations, where executives may have different priorities. But we can apply this process to ourselves too. </p><p>When we ask ourselves “What would my best friend tell me to do?”, why is it often different than our own opinion? If we change how we rank decision making criteria, how do the outcomes change?</p><p>It forces us to think about what we are optimizing for, which we don’t always make clear. In hindsight, this often gets distorted.</p><p>As Patrick commented when suggesting decision making is overrated for most organizations: “in organizations, everything is more fluid and continuous; it’s much more about designing the feedback mechanisms…”</p><p>Focus on the process, not the outcomes, and how that informs future decision making.</p><h2>Decision Making According to Patrick Collison</h2><p>In summary, here are Patrick’s suggestions for improving your decision making skills:</p><ul><li>Before making a decision, first focus on having better options. </li><li>Prioritize speed over making the correct decision.</li><li>Categorize the importance of your decisions. Focus on those which are large and irreversible. Delegate the rest.</li><li>Make fewer decisions (see previous point).</li><li>Focus on the process and feedback mechanisms, not a particular outcome.</li></ul><p>You can listen to <a href="https://fs.blog/2018/05/patrick-collison/">The Knowledge Project episode with Patrick here</a>, and <a href="https://tim.blog/2018/12/20/patrick-collison/">The Tim Ferriss Show episode here</a>.</p><p>You can find out more about Patrick <a href="https://patrickcollison.com/">on his website</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Find out which personality tests you should use to figure out your strengths and weaknesses, essential knowledge for success both personally and professionally.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Know Thyself</h2><p><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Know_thyself">“Know thyself”</a> is a commonly-accepted piece of wisdom.</p><p>It has been for thousands of years - it was supposedly one of the Delphic maxims, attributed to Apollo via the Oracle at Delphi.</p><p>Carl Jung said it a little differently: “The world will ask you who you are, and if you don’t know, the world will tell you.”</p><p>Accurate self-assessment is essential to succeeding in life. Knowing your strengths and weaknesses gives you vast leverage compared to those who are ignorant. The philosopher Zeno put it this way: “nothing is more hostile to a firm grasp on knowledge than self-deception.”</p><p>As author and investor <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tim_Ferriss">Tim Ferriss</a> remarked in <a href="https://aax-us-east.amazon-adsystem.com/x/c/QjXc_rzL6hsTTVeaqf4frxsAAAFoSNoE1gEAAAFKAbQxH1w/https://assoc-redirect.amazon.com/g/r/http://amzn.to/2jyOMSY?linkCode=w61&amp;imprToken=HMTU3QO5n307HwqcW.UZjQ&amp;slotNum=30"><em>Tools of Titans</em></a>, “The superheroes you have in your mind (idols, icons, titans, billionaires, etc.) are nearly all walking flaws who’ve maximized 1 or 2 strengths.”</p><p>Billionaire hedge fund manager <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ray_Dalio">Ray Dalio</a> said it this way in his book <a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio"><em>Principles</em></a>: </p><p>“We all have things that we value that we want and we all have strengths and weaknesses that affect our paths for getting them. <strong>The most important quality that differentiates successful people from unsuccessful people is our capacity to learn and adapt to these things</strong>.”</p><p>But how does one go about figuring out their strengths? </p><p>What about the opposite approach: minimizing weaknesses?</p><p>This article describes my exploration of personality testing to help answer those questions.</p><h2>My First Personality Test</h2><p>The first “personality test” I took was an aptitude test in middle school designed to tell me which careers I fit best. </p><p>Unsurprisingly, it was pretty much useless. It told me to pursue careers in the sciences (which were my favourite subjects), and then told me average pay for those careers (a poor metric to show middle-school kids).</p><p>More recently, however, during my application to <a href="https://fi.co/montreal">Founder Institute Montreal</a>, I had to complete what Founder Institute calls their <a href="https://fi.co/DNA">DNA Test</a>. They use it to predict the probability that someone will be successful as an entrepreneur. </p><p>You can <a href="https://fi.co/DNA">read more about it here</a>, but the characteristics the test evaluates are Fluid Intelligence, Openness, Conscientiousness and Agreeableness. Supposedly, the ideal entrepreneur has high fluid intelligence, high openness and moderate agreeableness.</p><p>It gave me a little bit of feedback, but I wanted more.</p><h2>Personality Tests Revisited</h2><p>Tim Ferriss’s book <a href="/book-notes/tribe-of-mentors-tim-ferriss"><em>Tribe of Mentors</em></a>is a large, detailed survey of successful individuals from a wide variety of fields, in which he asks the <a href="https://tim.blog/2017/10/03/tribe-of-mentors/">same 11 questions</a>. </p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/drewhouston?lang=en">Drew Houston</a>, the founder of DropBox, is one of the people who participated. The headline quote for his section is “Over the last few years, I’ve found myself looking at all my important relationships through the Enneagram lens. . . . I wish I had discovered it much earlier.”</p><p>He goes on to say this about the Enneagram (a personality test we’ll explore later):</p><p>“I’ve found the Enneagram to be incredibly helpful. At first glance it’s a personality typing tool like Myers-Briggs. There are nine Enneagram “types” and every person has one dominant type. But I’ve found it to be much more useful and predictive of how people actually behave. At first I was skeptical, but after reading the description for my type I found it spookily accurate in pinpointing what makes me tick: what motivates me, what my natural strengths are, what my blind spots tend to be, and so on. It’s helped me tailor my role and leadership style to my strengths.”</p><p>I was intrigued. Being objective about my own abilities has always been important to me, and accurate perception of those abilities is necessary to improve them.</p><p>Later in <em>Tribe of Mentors</em>, Kristen Ulmer, one of the best extreme skiers in the world, also mentioned <a href="https://amzn.to/2RQD4pM"><em>The Wisdom of the Enneagram</em></a> by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson as one of her two favourite books.</p><p>She says:</p><p>“I love this book so much, in fact, that I wouldn’t date or certainly hire anyone unless I knew what their Enneagram type was. It’s like being armed with their operating manual, which prevents any confusion or potential conflict down the road.”</p><p>At this point, I knew I had to investigate the Enneagram, and personality testing in general, in more detail.</p><h2>The Personality Tests</h2><p>The following describes some of the major personality tests in use today, though it is not comprehensive. </p><p>You should be acquainted with two definitions we’ll discuss in evaluating these tests:</p><ul><li>Reliability: how <em>consistently</em> a test measures what it attempts to measure. In other words, are the results repeatable?</li><li>Validity: the degree to which an instrument measures what it claims to measure. For example, an intelligence test should measure intelligence, not memory.</li></ul><p>We will discuss these measures as we go through each of the following personality tests.</p><h3>Myers-Briggs</h3><p>The Myers-Briggs personality test, more formally known as the <a href="https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/home.htm?bhcp=1">Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI)</a> is perhaps the most well-known personality test.</p><p>It is based on the theory of psychological types describe by Carl Jung, and the MBTI itself was developed by Isabell Briggs Myers in the 1940s.</p><p>The test will classify you into one of 16 personality types based on 4 “preferences”. These preferences are <a href="https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/home.htm?bhcp=1">as follows</a>:</p><ul><li><strong>Favorite world</strong>: Do you prefer to focus on the outer world or on your own inner world? This is called Extraversion (E) or Introversion (I).</li><li><strong>Information</strong>: Do you prefer to focus on the basic information you take in or do you prefer to interpret and add meaning? This is called Sensing (S) or Intuition (N).</li><li><strong>Decisions</strong>: When making decisions, do you prefer to first look at logic and consistency or first look at the people and special circumstances? This is called Thinking (T) or Feeling (F).</li><li><strong>Structure:</strong> In dealing with the outside world, do you prefer to get things decided or do you prefer to stay open to new information and options? This is called Judging (J) or Perceiving (P).</li></ul><p>You’ll end up with a 4-letter code that is one of the 16 personality types.</p><p>The original Myers-Briggs has been subject to much criticism. There are a variety of reasons why. Many early studies of validity were funded by groups with conflicts of interest. Validity has been shown to be poor on the S-N (Sensing-Intuition) and T-F (Thinking-Feeling) scales. It’s also been shown to have poor predictive validity of employees’ job performance ratings. </p><p>Reliability: The test-retest reliability of the MBTI is also low - as many as 50% of people test into a different type when tested 5 weeks later. That said, usually the movement isn’t too large - many move to adjacent types.</p><p>The other main issue is the bi-modal nature of the test - you are one type or another - which leaves little room for nuance. This partially explains some of the reliability issues as well.</p><p>The types all tend to be positive and relatively vague, which means that people could fit into a number of them. </p><p>This is known as the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barnum_effect">Forer or Barnum effect</a>: individuals give high accuracy ratings to descriptions that are supposedly tailored to them, but intentionally vague. It contributes to the widespread acceptance of things like astrology/horoscopes.</p><p>In general, the original test is no longer used by the psychology community. There are some variants that have been mixed or adapted with other models which may be more insightful.</p><h3>The Big Five Personality Traits (aka The Five-Factor Model or FFM)</h3><p>In brief, the Big Five model is based on five broad dimensions commonly used to describe human personalities. These have been determined by a statistical analysis of personality survey data (called <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Factor_analysis">factor analysis</a>).</p><p>This model of personality variation is one of the most widely-studied - typically using the <a href="https://www.ocf.berkeley.edu/~johnlab/bfi.htm">44-item Big Five Inventory</a> - and generally accepted as the best model available right now.</p><p>The <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits">five factors examined in this test</a> are:</p><ul><li><strong>Openness to experience</strong> (inventive/curious vs. consistent/cautious). Describes a person’s preference for novelty and variety.</li><li><strong>Conscientiousness</strong> (efficient/organized vs. easy-going/careless). Tendency for organization, self-discipline and preference for planned vs. spontaneous behavior.</li><li><strong>Extraversion</strong> (outgoing/energetic vs. solitary/reserved). Tendency to seek the company of others, talkativeness, etc.</li><li><strong>Agreeableness</strong> (friendly/compassionate vs. challenging/detached). Tendency to be compassionate and cooperative, and a measure of how trusting and well-tempered someone is.</li><li><strong>Neuroticism</strong> (sensitive/nervous vs. secure/confident). Tendency for psychological stress, or how easily someone experiences unpleasant emotions. Sometimes referred to as “emotional stability”.</li></ul><p>This personality test has more evidence supporting it, particularly some specific findings:</p><ul><li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits#cite_note-neuro1-52">Numerous studies</a> have linked high scores of neuroticism with increased risk of developing a common mental disorder (depressive disorders, anxiety disorders, PTSD, panic, phobias).</li><li><a href="https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/psychological-medicine/article/negative-and-positive-life-events-are-associated-with-small-but-lasting-change-in-neuroticism/6EE04E81DDC17208F91BFDCBE9A7028D">Neuroticism can change</a> in response to positive and negative life experiences.</li><li>High conscientiousness may <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1745-6916.2007.00047.x?journalCode=ppsa">add as much as five years</a> to one’s life, and is associated with <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3717171/">lower obesity risk</a>.</li><li>Conscientiousness and agreeableness <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886911002194?via%3Dihub">have a positive relationship</a> with all types of learning styles, while neuroticism has an inverse relationship.</li><li>In work research, results have been mixed, but in general, high neuroticism is a bad thing.</li><li>For <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0265407508096697">romantic relationships</a>, again, generally high neuroticism is bad.</li></ul><p>In Michael Pollan’s book <em><a href="/book-notes/how-to-change-your-mind-michael-pollan">How to Change Your Mind</a>,</em> he cites recent research on psychedelics at Johns Hopkins (psilocybin in this case), which showed those who had a “complete mystical experience” showed long-term increases in the openness to experience category.</p><p>Criticisms of the model include:</p><ul><li>The model is not theory-driven, merely a statistically-driven model of certain descriptors.</li><li>A variety of flaws in the basis of the model (<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lexical_hypothesis">lexical hypothesis</a>).</li><li>Limited scope (ie. doesn’t explain all of human personality).</li></ul><p>That said, in the context of aiming to find out more about ourselves, the test has shown some scientific validity, and can provide some guidance on where we may want to improve. </p><h3>Sixteen Personality Factor Questionnaire (16PF)</h3><p>The 16PF test was developed over several decades of empirical research by several researchers, and provides a measure of normal personality. </p><p>It was developed through the statistical factor analysis technique, similar to the development of the Big Five. </p><p>At the primary level, the 16PF measures 16 primary traits, and a version of the Big Five secondary traits at the second level. </p><p>One of the main differences of the test is that rather than rating oneself on a scale, it tends to ask about daily situations, with a yes/no answer.</p><p>The <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/16PF_Questionnaire#16PF_global_and_primary_factors">16 factors measured are</a>:</p><ul><li><strong>Warmth:</strong> outgoing, attentive to others, kindly, easygoing, participating, likes people.</li><li><strong>Reasoning:</strong> abstract-thinking, more intelligent, bright, higher general mental capacity, fast learner.</li><li><strong>Emotional Stability</strong>: adaptive, mature, faces reality calmly.</li><li><strong>Dominance</strong>: forceful, assertive, aggressive, competitive, stubborn, bossy.</li><li><strong>Liveliness</strong>: animated, spontaneous, enthusiastic, happy go lucky, cheerful, expressive, impulsive.</li><li><strong>Rule-Consciousness</strong>: dutiful, conscientious, conforming, moralistic, staid, rule bound.</li><li><strong>Social Boldness</strong>: venturesome, thick skinned, uninhibited.</li><li><strong>Sensitivity:</strong> aesthetic, sentimental, tender minded, intuitive, refined.</li><li><strong>Vigilance</strong>: suspicious, skeptical, distrustful, oppositional.</li><li><strong>Abstractedness</strong>: imaginative, absent minded, impractical, absorbed in ideas.</li><li><strong>Privateness</strong>: discreet, non-disclosing, shrewd, polished, worldly, astute, diplomatic.</li><li><strong>Apprehension</strong>: self doubting, worried, guilt prone, insecure, worrying, self blaming.</li><li><strong>Openness to Change</strong>: experimental, liberal, analytical, critical, free thinking, flexibility.</li><li><strong>Self-Reliance</strong>: solitary, resourceful, individualistic, self-sufficient.</li><li><strong>Perfectionism</strong>: organized, compulsive, self-disciplined, socially precise, exacting will power, control, self-sentimental.</li><li><strong>Tension</strong>: high energy, impatient, driven, frustrated, over wrought, time driven.</li></ul><p>Reliability &amp; Validity: Generally, the 16PF is accepted as having good reliability and validity in application to areas like counseling, career development and personality assessment. It can be considered on a similar level as FFM, though more comprehensive in evaluating traits.</p><h3>The Enneagram (or Enneagram of Personality)</h3><p>The Enneagram is a model of the human psyche consisting of nine interconnected personality types. The origins and history are disputed, but the basis is not a scientifically-derived theory (then again, neither is the Big Five).</p><p>There are <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions/">nine main personality types</a> in the Enneagram, and they connect to others around the Enneagram figure: </p><p>In theory, they link via “stress/disintegration” and “growth/integration” - ie. what happens when you’re stressed vs. when you grow. </p><p>For example, if you’re a type 3, you would move towards 9 under stress, and 6 when you experience personal growth or feel secure.</p><p>You may also have a “wing”, which is a tendency to share some of the characteristics of the types adjacent to your primary type on the Enneagram. If you’re a 3, you may have a two-wing or a four-wing.</p><p>The <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions/">nine main types</a> are described as follows:</p><ol><li><strong>The Reformer</strong> - rational, idealistic type: principled, purposeful, self-controlled, perfectionistic.</li><li><strong>The Helper</strong> - caring, interpersonal type: demonstrative, generous, people-pleasing, possessive.</li><li><strong>The Achiever</strong> - success-oriented, pragmatic type: adaptive, excelling, driven, image-conscious.</li><li><strong>The Individualist</strong> - sensitive, withdrawn type: expressive, dramatic, self-absorbed, temperamental.</li><li><strong>The Investigator</strong> - intense, cerebral type: perceptive, innovative, secretive, isolated.</li><li><strong>The Loyalist</strong> - committed, security-oriented: engaging, responsible, anxious, suspicious.</li><li><strong>The Enthusiast</strong> - busy, fun-loving type: spontaneous, versatile, distractible, scattered.</li><li><strong>The Challenger </strong>- powerful, dominating type: self-confident, decisive, willful, confrontational.</li><li><strong>The Peacemaker</strong> - easygoing, self-effacing type: receptive, reassuring, agreeable, complacent.</li></ol><p>The Enneagram has not enjoyed the popularity of other tests like the Big Five, perhaps because of the emphasis on personal development and spirituality, and the lack of scientific basis for the theory.</p><p>Reliability &amp; Validity: The most widely-used version in testing is the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator (RHETI).</p><p><a href="https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Rebecca_Newgent/publication/35984162_An_investigation_of_the_reliability_and_validity_of_the_Riso-Hudson_enneagram_type_indicator/links/56e318c808ae98445c1b2a95/An-investigation-of-the-reliability-and-validity-of-the-Riso-Hudson-enneagram-type-indicator.pdf">Early comparisons of the RHETI against the NEO PI-R</a> (a version of the Big Five test) showed the test to be sufficiently scientifically valid and reliable for experimental use, and that results were correlated between the RHETI and the NEO PI-R.</p><h2>My Own Experience with Personality Tests</h2><p>With the above factors in mind, here are the tests I took.</p><h3>Myers-Briggs Tests</h3><p>I chose to take <a href="https://www.truity.com/test/type-finder-personality-test-new">this test by Truity</a>. I’ve verified it with a few other free tests as well. </p><p>As we mentioned above, Myers-Briggs isn’t really accepted on it’s own as scientifically valid (or at least the leading test).</p><p>That said, I haven’t experienced the reliability issues mentioned; I consistently test at the same or similar profiles.</p><p>The biggest issue I have with Myers-Briggs is the lack of actionable information typically provided with results. I wouldn’t bother testing.</p><h3>The Big Five Tests</h3><p>As the most-studied and currently accepted model, there are lots of options here, all slightly different, but based on the same model attributed to Goldberg, Costa &amp; McRae.</p><p>I’ve taken <a href="https://www.outofservice.com/bigfive/">this free test</a>, <a href="https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/IPIP-BFFM/">this free test</a>, and paid for the upgraded report of <a href="http://psychologytoday.tests.psychtests.com/bin/transfer?req=MTF8Mzg5MXwyMzQ5OTk2OXwxfDE=&amp;refempt=">this (also free) test</a>. </p><p>Of the three, perhaps unsurprisingly, the paid report from the final test yielded the most actionable results, and more detail about each section of my personality.</p><p>The best test from the Big Five model is <a href="https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test">the one offered by 16 Personalities</a>. </p><p>Their model isn’t actually clearly defined, but <a href="https://www.16personalities.com/articles/our-theory">based on their description</a> is a combination both Myers-Briggs and the Big Five. </p><p>They’ve adopted the naming convention of Myers-Briggs, and indeed I test as the same ENTJ profile, though they add a fifth personality trait to make me an ENTJ-A.</p><p>The test offers the most accurate and comprehensive free results of any of the Myers-Briggs or Big Five tests I’ve tried, and certainly the most comprehensive results of any test I’ve taken at all when you pay $29 for the full ~250-page report.</p><p>The free results still give you insights into things like strengths and weaknesses, how to succeed in relationships and at work, with friends, and parenting advice.</p><p>I found it to be accurate in describing what I know (or believe) about my own personality, and while you must always be cognizant of the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barnum_effect">Barnum effect</a>, I believe this to be a valuable resource.</p><p>Ultimately, I think <a href="https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test">this is one of the best tests available</a>, and recommend it.</p><h3>16PF Tests</h3><p>There are limited resources for the 16PF test, though you can <a href="https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/16PF.php">take a free test here</a>.</p><p>This test seemed relatively accurate in assessing my current traits; the downside is it offers little in telling me how to apply those effectively, or what my strengths and weaknesses may be. </p><h3>Enneagram Tests</h3><p>I would recommend <a href="https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test">this Enneagram test as a free option</a>, and would do the test including the instinctual variant (although of course you can do both). It agreed with the more detailed paid test I did.</p><p>You can use the information <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions/">on the Enneagram Institute’s website</a> to interpret your results. Information ranges from details about your personality to how you interact with other types, and information on how to grow personally.</p><p>This combination (free test + Enneagram Institute website info) provides some of the best actionable information I’ve found. </p><p>I recognize that the Enneagram has not been rigorously studied scientifically, but I found the descriptions to be accurate.</p><p>The most valuable aspect of the Enneagram is the actionable information for someone to progress/regress through different behaviors.</p><p>I would also recommend taking <a href="https://tests.enneagraminstitute.com/">the paid test offered by the Enneagram Institute</a>. It’s $12, and you’ll get a more detailed report tailored to you.</p><p>This also serves to confirm the findings of the free test, if you’ve taken that as well.</p><h2>Calibrating Your Own Perception</h2><p>Personality testing gives you a chance to improve your understanding of yourself, and identify your strengths and weaknesses.</p><p>It also gives you a chance to improve your perception of reality. Here’s how:</p><p>Once you’ve completed the tests above, particularly the Enneagram tests, send the description of your type to close friends and family you can trust to be honest.</p><p>Ask them:</p><ul><li>What characteristics of this profile seem most accurate for me?</li><li>What characteristics of this profile seem least accurate for me?</li><li>Which level of development would you say best describes me?</li></ul><p>Ask yourself these questions too, and write down your answers before you get any responses.</p><p>When they give you their answers, check them against your own. How close were you? Are there things that surprised you? What blind spots or inaccuracies in your own perception can you infer from their responses?</p><p>Taking their input will help you calibrate your own perception of yourself, and identify areas where your perception is inaccurate.</p><h2>A Word of Warning</h2><p>The world of personality tests will no doubt continue to evolve. It’s difficult to evaluate personality tests; making predictions is hard when there are still so many unknown factors affecting behavior.</p><p>Reliability and validity of most tests continues to be questioned, and needs more study.</p><p>With this in mind, you should make sure to remember:</p><ul><li>These test results don’t define you, or your relationships, or anything else.</li><li>You can change outcomes, and you can change your own attributes if you like.</li><li>There will always be exceptions.</li></ul><h2>Getting Value from Personality Testing</h2><p>That said, I still believe there is value in completing tests, and I believe the following are the most valuable:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test">The Big Five/Myers-Briggs test from 16 Personalities</a></li><li>The <a href="https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test">free</a> or <a href="https://tests.enneagraminstitute.com/">paid version</a> of the Enneagram/RHETI; interpret with <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-descriptions/">info from the Enneagram Institute</a>.</li></ul><p>Try and pay attention to the following:</p><ul><li>What are my strengths and weaknesses?</li><li>Which of these really resonate with who I believe I am?</li><li>Which are surprising?</li><li>What actionable items can I work on to improve myself?</li><li>Which of my strengths can I maximize to my benefit? </li></ul><p>Remember Tim Ferriss’s quote: </p><p>“The superheroes you have in your mind (idols, icons, titans, billionaires, etc.) are nearly all walking flaws who’ve maximized 1 or 2 strengths.”</p><p>I would recommend you have your current (or prospective) spouse or significant other also fill them out. </p><p>Once you have these results, you can use the <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/the-enneagram-type-combinations/">information on the Enneagram Institute’s website</a> to better understand their profile, and how you relate.</p><p>I view it like this: you shouldn’t believe everything these tests tell you, especially if you strongly disagree with them. But you should use all the information and insights you can to better understand yourself, your partners, your colleagues, and your close relationships. </p><p>There is little downside.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[The alternate format to Demo Day continued this week, and in preparation for Investor Preview in Week 9, we were preparing to record investor pitches. I was reminded how difficult and time-consuming it is to prepare a great company pitch, and how difficult it is to pitch in front of a camera.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>How to Create an Investor Pitch</h2><p>The alternate format to Demo Day continued this week, and in preparation for Investor Preview in Week 9, we were preparing to record investor pitches. I was reminded how difficult and time-consuming it is to prepare a great company pitch, and how difficult it is to pitch in front of a camera.</p><p>The feedback on the exercise was quite opinionated, and after going through the process many wished we had used a teleprompter or similar, with the logic being that it would have saved a significant amount of practice time, and likely produced results that were better.</p><p>I personally no longer find presenting or memorization of presentations that difficult, and have been meaning to write a post about how I do things, which is a process I’ve learned over many years. I still attribute my presentation abilities to my years of doing Science Fair, which dates to Grade 7.</p><h2>Pitch Outline</h2><p>The first part of the developing the investor pitch is the outline. A generalized form is often:</p><ul><li>Company Purpose</li><li>Problem</li><li>Solution</li><li>Why Now</li><li>Market Size</li><li>Product</li><li>Team</li><li>Business Model</li><li>Competition</li><li>Financials</li></ul><p>In this context, we weren’t doing a formal investor presentation, so we dropped things like detailed financials, and spent more time on other important things, like a product demo.</p><p>The general feeling here is that especially if you’re early stage, but you have a product (or even if you don’t), you should be spending a disproportionate amount of time on an awesome product demo. I’ll admit right now we didn’t do this, but we’re working on it – you’d be surprised what you can mock up with Keynote/Powerpoint and a little time. <a href="https://alexiskold.net/2017/03/24/why-product-demo-is-a-secret-weapon-of-every-single-startup/">More on this topic from Alex Iskold</a>.</p><p>In general, just like elevator pitches, you should adjust this formula according to the context in which you’re presenting.</p><p>The other reason you should adjust this format or re-organize things, is you should try and have a compelling narrative for your whole presentation. How you craft that is up to you, but you should try and incorporate all the elements from this list that are relevant, and try to make the presentation and narrative flow as naturally as possible.</p><h2>Steal Like an Entrepreneur</h2><p>Generally, I’ll start with these elements, look at some example presentations to find some I like and remind myself of what a <a href="http://bestpitchdecks.com/">good presentation looks like</a>, and then I’ll write out a rough outline specific to my company.</p><p>I use <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vNlbn--uFiP9i5PLxKmi9bEMXovPvOIIHvgLYFxdP8A/edit?usp=sharing">a Google Sheet</a> for this which will later automatically calculate how long it takes me to present, and I write one sentence per line. This becomes important later.</p><p>Once I have that outline, I’ll run through a few times and try to tweak the script until I’m satisfied. This is the stage you should be getting feedback from as many people as possible.</p><p>Then I’ll go back and start filling in the slides. </p><p>The first pass is content-only.</p><p>The second pass I’ll try and make everything look nice, which, ideally you should use a designer for, at least to decide on a theme or color palette. Use a template if you’re not sure.</p><p>The third pass is reading the script with the slides as if I’m presenting. This will quickly make obvious errors clear, and you should revise as you go. </p><h2>GET FEEDBACK</h2><p>At this step, you should go back and present to everyone who gave you feedback on the script, and try and get some new people to give you feedback. This is really the last stage where you’re going to be making major tweaks, so you should have a clear narrative and the presentation should flow well.</p><p>This whole process usually takes at minimum two full days, and here at Techstars we were doing this ongoing for a whole week.</p><p>Three days out from the presentation (ideally), you should have your script, slide content/plan and demo nailed. A good demo itself can take a long time (as we realized, too late), so you should budget time specifically for this project. Don’t forget you can use this on your website, in sales materials, etc. if it’s done well.</p><p>Two days out from the presentation you should have a designer go through your deck and finalize things. If you’ve done things right, one day should be enough (though I’m sure they will thank you for earlier notice).</p><p>So, at this point, you should be one day out from the presentation, with a finalized deck and script.</p><h2>Practice Time</h2><p>Now, here’s where my practice process comes in. You should now have your script ready in a spreadsheet, with one sentence per line, and an estimate of how long the presentation will take you. You should calibrate the spreadsheet by timing your reading of the script as if you’re presenting, and adjusting the WPM count. This only really matters if you’re doing a timed presentation. If not you can ignore the WPM.</p><p>The steps go something like this:</p><ol><li>Initial memorization: go through the script, semi-reading as you click through the slides. Make tweaks to the wording of the script if there are words and phrases you just can’t seem to nail, or can’t pronounce correctly.</li><li>Once you’re comfortable with semi-reading the script, start doing the presentation without looking at the script at all. Whenever you struggle, or forget the next line, write it down on a sheet of paper.</li><li>After making it through the presentation, go back to all the points you stumbled, and practice that part 5 times.</li><li>Repeat steps 2-3 until you’re comfortable going through the whole presentation.</li></ol><p>Now things get a bit strange, but I’m convinced they make a big difference.</p><ol><li>At this point, I’ll put myself in a room, and start blasting some lyric-heavy music to the point where I’m having difficulty hearing myself. The point of this is to distract me.</li><li>Repeat the presentation from start to finish multiple times. I usually take a break (or a nap), and then do it again, at least 5 times start to finish both before and after my break.</li><li>The final step is if you’re planning to do the presentation in front of a camera, you need to practice. Get a webcam, or better yet, have a friend film you with a camera while they’re standing there. The closer you can get to mimicking the final recording, the better.</li><li>Once you’ve gotten to this stage, you should be good to go! Depending on how long the presentation is, I can now get ready and confident to nail anything up to a 10-minute presentation in a day, easily, and a few hours if it’s only a few minutes.</li></ol><p>Hope that helps!</p><p>Read <a href="/blog/week-7-techstars-nyc">about Week 7 here</a>, or go on to the next post (Week 9).</p><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2020 01:14:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Telling yourself the truth may seem trivial in situations like casual golf games. But it may be more important than you think. Learning to see the truth is a fundamental life skill. This post explains why.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went golfing last weekend. I played twice, once with some friends, and once with my dad. </p><p>The score came up during both rounds. That’s not unusual - most people keep score when they play golf (although I’m an advocate for not doing so - a story for another post).</p><p>It’s common in casual golf to take a ‘mulligan’, or to count a lost ball as a hazard ball. Or to kick it a few feet when you have an unplayable lie.</p><p>In both rounds, there were opportunities for me to take a lower score.</p><p>“Just take a mulligan, no worries.” “Ah, we didn’t look for long, just assume you’d have found it.”</p><p>I’ve always played this way, not thinking much about it. </p><p>But it can cause problems.</p><h2>Cognitive Dissonance</h2><p><a href="/book-notes/mistakes-were-made-but-not-by-me-carol-tavris-elliot-aronson">Cognitive dissonance is defined as</a> “a state of tension that occurs whenever a person holds two cognitions (ideas, attitudes, beliefs, opinions) that are psychologically inconsistent.”</p><p>Like the belief that ‘I’m a good golfer’ and the reality that I just shot a 95.</p><p>Taking a mulligan, taking just a stroke for a lost ball, or bumping a ball out when it’s unplayable are all ways to ease cognitive dissonance for golfers.</p><p>When you come out with a score of 85 instead of 95, you can maintain the narrative that you’re a decent golfer.</p><p>The problem is that it doesn’t reflect reality. And while it doesn’t have large consequences when playing casual golf, it’s a habit that can cause problems elsewhere in life.</p><h2>Truth = Improvement</h2><p><em>Seeing things as they are</em> is a fundamental concept among top performers, learners, strategists, and philosophers.</p><p>To improve in an area, you must be able to see reality. You must be able to see the truth. </p><p>To operate a business efficiently, you must be able to identify strengths and weaknesses.</p><p>To maintain strong relationships, you must realize personal faults and mistakes, and empathize with others.</p><p>Ray Dalio, manager of one of the largest hedge funds in the world, has gone so far as to name truth as his most important principle (in <a href="/book-notes/principles-ray-dalio">his book called <em>Principles</em></a>): “My most fundamental principle: Truth —more precisely, an accurate understanding of reality— is the essential foundation for producing good outcomes.”</p><p>Seeking truth is a requirement for successfully understanding and operating in the world.</p><p>Taken to an extreme, those who cannot see truth, and seek to reduce cognitive dissonance, are those who struggle most - repeat offenders, those who struggle to maintain relationships, those who do not complete anything. </p><p>They tell themselves stories that do not reflect reality and suffer as a result.</p><p>What does golf have to do with anything?</p><p>Chess master and meta-learner <a href="https://www.joshwaitzkin.com/">Josh Waitzkin</a> is partial to saying “the way you do one thing is the way you do everything.” </p><p>In short, the habits you form in one part of your life are not compartmentalized - they spread across other areas of life.</p><p>Casual golf is low stakes, but if you fool yourself here, it makes it easier elsewhere in life.</p><p>Instead, next time you’re on the golf course, or participating in any casual sport, seek to find the truth. What is my true score? What is my true skill level right now?</p><p>Often, you’ll gain insights you wouldn’t have otherwise. </p><p>I thought I’d played terrible on the back nine last weekend, but when I looked at the scores, the difference was simple - I’d lost 3 balls. My game hadn’t actually changed much, I’d just rolled a few drives into the woods instead of the rough.</p><p>Had I taken a mulligan, or just dropped one and not taken the extra strokes, I would have focused on other areas of my game that were less impactful. The same principle applies throughout life.</p><p>Physicist Richard Feynman perhaps said it best: “The first principle is that you must not fool yourself—and you are the easiest person to fool.”</p><p>The good news is that good habits work the same as bad habits - once they’re formed, you’ll find they translate to other areas of life.</p><p>Aim for the truth in golf, and you may just find it elsewhere.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Antifragile by Nassim Nicholas Taleb: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[An excellent book that has influenced my thinking more than almost any other, and continues to be a reference I go back to. This book builds on The Black Swan. Taleb puts forward evidence and definitions for fragility, robustness and antifragility, and explains where they apply in life, and why you want to strive for antifragility.  Great for improving contrarian thinking.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Prologue</strong></h5><ul><li>Anything that has more upside than downside from random events (or certain shocks) is antifragile; the reverse is fragile. </li><li>The largest source of fragility: absence of skin in the game. </li><li><em>Soviet-Harvard delusion</em>: the (unscientific) overestimation of the reach of scientific knowledge. </li><li><em>Less is more and usually more effective</em>. </li><li>Being accommodating towards anyone committing a nefarious action condones it. </li></ul><h5><strong>Book I - The Antifragile: An Introduction</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 1: Between Damocles and Hydra</strong></h5><ul><li>Mithridatization: the result of an exposure to a small dose of a substance that, over time, makes one immune to additional, larger quantities of it. </li><li>Note quite antifragility, but close. In other words, you need some stressors. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2: Overcompensation and Overreaction Everywhere</strong></h5><ul><li>If you need something done, give it to the busiest person. </li><li><em>Lucretius problem</em>: we consider the biggest object of any kind that we have seen in our lives or hear about as the largest item that can possibly exist. </li><li>Information is antifragile: it benefits more from attempts to harm it than efforts to promote it. </li><li>Heuristic: to estimate quality of research, take the caliber of the highest detractor, or the caliber of the lowest detractor whom the author answers in print - whichever is lower. </li><li>Some jobs and professions are fragile - a mid-level bank employee with a mortgage, for example - while others are antifragile, like writers or artists. </li><li>Heuristic: those who dress outrageously are robust or antifragile, those who dress in suit and tie are fragile to information about them. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: The Cat and the Washing Machine</strong></h5><ul><li>Everything that has life in it is to some extent antifragile. </li><li>Distinction between complex and non-complex systems: complex systems have many interdependencies. </li><li><em>causal opacity:</em> it is hard to see the arrow from cause to consequence, making much of conventional methods of analysis, in addition to standard logic, inapplicable. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4: What Kills Me Makes Others Stronger</strong></h5><ul><li>The fragility of every startup is necessary for the economy to be antifragile, and that’s what makes, among other things, entrepreneurship work: the fragility of individual entrepreneurs and their necessarily high failure rate. </li><li>Random stressors (within reason, ie. no extinction) help species evolve quickly and improve. </li><li>Errors are valuable as long as they are made in isolation, and learned from. They help the overall system improve (example: airlines; counter: economy - highly inter-dependent). </li><li>He who has never sinned is less reliable than he who has only sinned once. And someone who has made plenty of errors—though never the same error more than once—is more reliable than someone who has never made any. </li><li>Nature and naturalize systems want local overconfidence - failure of individual economic agents is necessary for the whole to improve. </li><li>Government bailouts disrupt this natural system, and <em>transfer fragility from the collective to the unfit.</em></li><li>My dream—the solution—is that we would have a National Entrepreneur Day, with the following message: </li><li>Most of you will fail, disrespected, impoverished, but we are grateful for the risks you are taking and the sacrifices you are making for the sake of the economic growth of the planet and pulling others out of poverty. <em>You are at the source of our antifragility</em>. Our nation thanks you. </li></ul><h5><strong>Book II: Modernity and the Denial of Antifragility</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 5: The Souk and the Office Building</strong></h5><ul><li>The more variability you observe in a system, the less Black Swan–prone it is. Risks are visible here, while elsewhere, they are invisible. </li><li>Switzerland does not have a large central government, but rather a collection of municipal entities called ‘cantons’, which govern themselves. </li><li>Eye contact with one’s peers changes one’s behaviour. </li><li>Lobbyists cannot exist in a municipality or small region. </li><li>Switzerland also has much more apprenticeship than education; more <em>techne</em> (crafts and know how) than <em>episteme</em> (book knowledge, know what). </li></ul><p>The Great Turkey Problem </p><ul><li>We can also see from the turkey story the mother of all harmful mistakes: <strong>mistaking absence of evidence (of harm) for evidence of absence</strong>, a mistake that we will see tends to prevail in intellectual circles and one that is grounded in the social sciences. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6: Tell Them I Love (Some) Randomness</strong></h5><ul><li>The longer one goes without a market trauma, the worse the damage when commotion occurs. </li><li>A donkey equally famished and thirsty caught at an equal distance between food and water would unavoidably die of hunger or thirst. But he can be saved thanks to a random nudge one way or the other. This metaphor is named Buridan’s Donkey, after the medieval philosopher Jean de Buridan. </li></ul><p>What to Tell the Foreign Policy Makers </p><ul><li>To summarize, the problem with artificially suppressed volatility is not just that the system tends to become extremely fragile; it is that, at the same time, it exhibits no <em>visible risks</em>. </li><li>Seeking stability by achieving stability (and forgetting the second step) has been a great sucker game for economic and foreign policies. </li><li>One of life’s packages: no stability without volatility. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7: Naive Intervention</strong></h5><ul><li><em>Iatrogenics:</em> net loss, damage from treatment in excess of the benefits (usually hidden or delayed). </li><li>Compounded by the “agency problem”: when one party has personal interests that are divorced from those of the one using his services (the principal). </li><li>Anything in which there is naive intervention - or even intervention - will have iatrogenics. </li><li>Theories are superfragile, while phenomenologies stay (and are robust). </li><li>We tend to over-intervene in areas with minimal benefits (and large risks), and under-intervene in areas where it’s necessary, like emergencies. </li><li><em>What should we control?</em> As a rule, intervening to limit size (of companies, airports, or sources of pollution), concentration, and speed are beneficial in reducing Black Swan risks. </li><li>To conclude, the best way to mitigate interventionism is to ration the supply of information, as naturalistically as possible. This is hard to accept in the age of the Internet. It has been very hard for me to explain that the more data you get, the less you know what’s going on, and the more iatrogenics you will cause. People are still under the illusion that “science&quot; means more data. </li></ul><p>Catalyst-as-Cause Confusion </p><ul><li>Obama’s mistake illustrates the illusion of local causal chains—that is, confusing catalysts for causes and assuming that one can know which catalyst will produce which effect. The final episode of the upheaval in Egypt was unpredictable for all observers, especially those involved. </li><li>Political and economic &quot;tail events&quot; are unpredictable, and their probabilities are not scientifically measurable. No matter how many dollars are spent on research, predicting revolutions is not the same as counting cards; humans will never be able to turn politics and economics into the tractable randomness of blackjack. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8: Prediction as a Child of Modernity</strong></h5><ul><li>There are ample empirical findings to the effect that providing someone with a random numerical forecast increases his risk taking, even if the person <em>knows</em> the projections are random. </li><li>To see how redundancy is a nonpredictive, or rather a less predictive, mode of action, let us use the argument of Chapter 2: if you have extra cash in the bank (in addition to stockpiles of tradable goods such as cans of Spam and hummus and gold bars in the basement), you don’t need to know with precision which event will cause potential difficulties. </li></ul><h5><strong>Book III: A Nonpredictive View of the World</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 9: Fat Tony and the Fragilistas</strong></h5><ul><li>There is another dimension to the need to focus on actions and avoid words: the health-eroding dependence on external recognition. People are cruel and unfair in the way they confer recognition, so it is best to stay out of that game. Stay robust to how others treat you. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10: Seneca’s Upside and Downside</strong></h5><ul><li>Stoicism makes you desire the challenge of a calamity. And Stoics look down on luxury: about a fellow who led a lavish life, Seneca wrote: &quot;He is in debt, whether he borrowed from another person or from fortune.&quot; </li><li>Stoicism, seen this way, becomes pure robustness—for the attainment of a state of immunity from one’s external circumstances, good or bad, and an absence of fragility to decisions made by fate, is robustness. Random events won’t affect us either way (we are too strong to lose, and not greedy to enjoy the upside), so we stay in the middle column of the Triad. </li><li>Success brings an asymmetry: you now have a lot more to lose than to gain. </li><li>My idea of the modern Stoic sage is <em>someone who transforms fear into prudence, pain into information, mistakes into initiation, and desire into undertaking.</em></li><li>Simple test: if I have &quot;nothing to lose&quot; then it is all gain and I am antifragile. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 11: Never Marry the Rock Star</strong></h5><ul><li>The barbell (or bimodal) strategy is a way to achieve antifragility and move to the right side of the Triad. </li><li>The first step toward antifragility consists in first decreasing downside, rather than increasing upside; that is, by lowering exposure to negative Black Swans and letting natural antifragility work by itself. </li></ul><p>Seneca’s Barbell </p><ul><li>The barbell (a bar with weights on both ends that weight lifters use) is meant to illustrate the idea of a combination of extremes kept separate, with avoidance of the middle. In our context it is not necessarily symmetric: it is just composed of two extremes, with nothing in the center. One can also call it, more technically, a bimodal strategy, as it has two distinct modes rather than a single, central one. </li><li>For antifragility is the combination <em>aggressiveness plus paranoia</em>—clip your downside, protect yourself from extreme harm, and let the upside, the positive Black Swans, take care of itself. </li><li>Where can this apply? Work, investing, social policy, exercise. </li></ul><h5><strong>Book IV: Optionality, Technology, and the Intelligence of Antifragility</strong></h5><ul><li><em>teleological fallacy</em>: the illusion that you know exactly where you are going, and that you knew exactly where you were going in the past, and that others have succeeded in the past by knowing where they were going. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 12: Thales’ Sweet Grapes</strong></h5><ul><li>This kind of sum I’ve called in my vernacular f*** you money—a sum large enough to get most, if not all, of the advantages of wealth (the most important one being independence and the ability to only occupy your mind with matters that interest you) but not its side effects, such as having to attend a black-tie charity event and being forced to listen to a polite exposition of the details of a marble-rich house renovation. </li><li>The worst side effect of wealth is the social associations it forces on its victims, as people with big houses tend to end up socializing with other people with big houses. </li></ul><p>Option and Symmetry </p><ul><li>The formula in Chapter 10 was: <em>antifragility</em> equals <em>more to gain than to lose</em> equals <em>more upside than downside</em> equals <em>asymmetry (unfavorable)</em> equals <em>likes volatility</em>. And if you make more when you are right than you are hurt when you are wrong, then you will benefit, in the long run, from volatility (and the reverse). You are only harmed if you repeatedly pay too much for the option. </li></ul><p>Things That Like Dispersion </p><ul><li>One property of the option: it does not care about the average outcome, only the favorable ones (since the downside doesn’t count beyond a certain point). Authors, artists, and even philosophers are much better off having a very small number of fanatics behind them than a large number of people who appreciate their work. </li><li>Beyond books, consider this simple heuristic: your work and ideas, whether in politics, the arts, or other domains, are antifragile if, instead of having one hundred percent of the people finding your mission acceptable or mildly commendable, you are better off having a high percentage of people disliking you and your message (even intensely), combined with a low percentage of extremely loyal and enthusiastic supporters. Options like dispersion of outcomes and don’t care about the average too much. </li><li>No one at present dares to state the obvious: growth in society may not come from raising the average the Asian way, but from increasing the number of people in the “tails,&quot; that small, very small number of risk takers crazy enough to have ideas of their own, those endowed with that very rare ability called imagination, that rarer quality called courage, and who make things happen. </li></ul><p>How to Be Stupid </p><ul><li>If you &quot;have optionality,&quot; you don’t have much need for what is commonly called intelligence, knowledge, insight, skills, and these complicated things that take place in our brain cells. For you don’t have to be right that often. All you need is the wisdom to <em>not do</em> unintelligent things to hurt yourself (some acts of omission) and recognize favorable outcomes when they occur. </li></ul><p>Nature and Options </p><ul><li>Let us call trial and error <em>tinkering</em> when it presents small errors and large gains. </li></ul><p>The Rationality </p><ul><li>To crystallize, take this description of an option: </li><li><em>Option = asymmetry + rationality</em></li><li>The rationality part lies in keeping what is good and ditching the bad, knowing to take the profits. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 13: Lecturing Birds on How to Fly</strong></h5><ul><li>The error of naive rationalism leads to overestimating the role and necessity of the second type, academic knowledge, in human affairs—and degrading the uncodifiable, more complex, intuitive, or experience-based type. </li><li>This is called the Baconian linear model, after the philosopher of science Francis Bacon; I am adapting its representation by the scientist Terence Kealey (who, crucially, as a biochemist, is a practicing scientist, not a historian of science) as follows: </li><li><em>Academia → Applied Science and Technology → Practice</em></li><li>While this model may be valid in some very narrow (but highly advertised instances), such as building the atomic bomb, the exact reverse seems to be true in most of the domains I’ve examined. Or, at least, this model is not guaranteed to be true and, what is shocking, we have no rigorous evidence that it is true. </li><li>So we are blind to the possibility of the alternative process, or the role of such a process, a loop: </li><li><em>Random Tinkering (antifragile) → Heuristics (technology) → Practice and Apprenticeship → Random Tinkering (antifragile) → Heuristics (technology) → Practice and Apprenticeship</em></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 14: When Two Things Are Not the &quot;Same Thing”</strong></h5><ul><li>Now let’s look at evidence of the direction of the causal arrow, that is, whether it is true that lecture-driven knowledge leads to prosperity. Serious empirical investigation (largely thanks to one Lant Pritchet, then a World Bank economist) shows no evidence that raising the general level of education raises income at the level of a country. But we know the opposite is true, that wealth leads to the rise of education—not an optical illusion. </li><li>Further, let me remind the reader that scholarship and organized education are not the same. </li><li>Also, note that I am not saying that universities do not generate knowledge at all and do not help growth (outside, of course, of most standard economics and other superstitions that set us back); all I am saying is that their role is overly hyped-up and that their members seem to exploit some of our gullibility in establishing wrong causal links, mostly on superficial impressions. </li></ul><p>Polished Dinner Partners </p><ul><li>Entrepreneurs are selected to be just doers, not thinkers, and doers do, they don’t talk, and it would be unfair, wrong, and downright insulting to measure them in the talk department. </li></ul><p>Prometheus and Epimetheus </p><ul><li>All this does not mean that tinkering and trial and error are devoid of narrative: they are just not overly dependent on the narrative being true—the narrative is not epistemological but instrumental. For instance, religious stories might have no value as narratives, but they may get you to do something convex and antifragile you otherwise would not do, like mitigate risks. </li><li>Expert problems (in which the expert knows a lot but less than he thinks he does) often bring fragilities, and acceptance of ignorance the reverse. Expert problems put you on the wrong side of asymmetry. </li><li>When you are fragile you need to know a lot more than when you are antifragile. Conversely, when you think you know more than you do, you are fragile (to error). </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 15: History Written by the Losers</strong></h5><p>Governments Should Spend on Nonteleological Tinkering, Not Research </p><ul><li>There is no evidence that strategic plans work. </li><li>Instead, money should go to tinkerers who you can trust to milk the option. </li><li>When engaging in tinkering, you incur a lot of small losses, then once in a while you find something rather significant. Such methodology will show nasty attributes when seen from the outside—it hides its qualities, not its defects. </li><li><em>In the antifragile case (of positive asymmetries, positive Black Swan businesses), such as trial and error, the sample track record will tend to underestimate the long-term average; it will hide the qualities, not the defects.</em></li></ul><p>To Fail Seven Times, Plus or Minus Two </p><ul><li>Let me stop to issue rules based on the chapter so far. (i) Look for optionality; in fact, rank things according to optionality, (ii) preferably with open-ended, not closed-ended, payoffs; (iii) Do not invest in business plans but in people, so look for someone capable of changing six or seven times over his career, or more (an idea that is part of the modus operandi of the venture capitalist Marc Andreessen); one gets immunity from the backfit narratives of the business plan by investing in people. It is simply more robust to do so; (iv) Make sure you are barbelled, whatever that means in your business. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 16: A Lesson in Disorder</strong></h5><ul><li>The largest hindrance to the development of children: the soccer mom. </li><li>Explanation: they try to eliminate trial and error, the anti fragility, from children’s lives. </li><li>Provided we have the right type of rigor, we need randomness, mess, adventures, uncertainty, self-discovery, near-traumatic episodes, all these things that make life worth living, compared to the structured, fake, and ineffective life of an empty-suit CEO with a preset schedule and an alarm clock. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 17: Fat Tony Debates Socrates</strong></h5><ul><li>Textbook “knowledge&quot; misses a dimension, the hidden asymmetry of benefits—just like the notion of average<em>. The payoff, what happens to you (the benefits or harm from it), is always the most important thing, not the event itself.</em></li></ul><h5><strong>BOOK V: The Nonlinear and the Nonlinear</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 18: On the Difference Between a Large Stone and a Thousand Pebbles</strong></h5><p>A Simple Rule to Detect the Fragile </p><ul><li><em>For the fragile, shocks bring higher harm as their intensity increases (up to a certain level).</em></li><li>Your car is fragile. If you drive it into the wall at 50 miles per hour, it would cause more damage than if you drove it into the same wall ten times at 5 mph. </li><li>Let me reexpress my previous rule: </li><li><em>For the fragile, the cumulative effect of small shocks is smaller than the single effect of an equivalent single large shock.</em></li><li>Now let us flip the argument and consider the antifragile. Antifragility, too, is grounded in nonlinearties, nonlinear responses. </li><li><em>For the antifragile, shocks bring more benefits (equivalently, less harm) as their intensity increases (up to a point).</em></li><li>A simple case—known heuristically by weight lifters. Lifting one hundred pounds once brings more benefits than lifting fifty pounds twice, and certainly a lot more than lifting one pound a hundred times. </li><li>In project management, Bent Flyvbjerg has shown firm evidence that an increase in the size of projects maps to poor outcomes and higher and higher costs of delays as a proportion of the total budget. But there is a nuance: it is the size per segment of the project that matters, not the entire project. </li></ul><p>Why Planes Don’t Arrive Early </p><ul><li>Because travel time cannot be really negative, uncertainty tends to cause delays, making arrival time increase, almost never decrease. Or it makes arrival time decrease by just minutes, but increase by hours, an obvious asymmetry. Anything unexpected, any shock, any volatility, is much more likely to extend the total flying time. </li><li>Indeed, governments do not need wars at all to get us in trouble with deficits: the underestimation of the costs of their projects is chronic for the very same reason 98 percent of contemporary projects have overruns. They just end up spending more than they tell us. This has led me to install a <strong>governmental golden rule: no borrowing allowed, forced fiscal balance.</strong></li><li>To conclude this chapter, fragility in any domain, from a porcelain cup to an organism, to a political system, to the size of a firm, or to delays in airports, resides in the nonlinear. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 19: The Philosopher’s Stone and Its Inverse</strong></h5><ul><li><em>fragility (and antifragility) detection heuristic</em>: Let’s say you want to check whether a town is overoptimized. Say you measure that when traffic increases by ten thousand cars, travel time grows by ten minutes. But if traffic increases by ten thousand more cars, travel time now extends by an extra thirty minutes. Such acceleration of traffic time shows that traffic is fragile and you have too many cars and need to reduce traffic until the acceleration becomes mild (acceleration, I repeat, is acute concavity, or negative convexity effect). </li></ul><p>The Idea of Positive and Negative Model Error </p><ul><li>So—and this is the key to the Triad—we can classify things by three simple distinctions: things that, in the long run, like disturbances (or errors), things that are neutral to them, and those that dislike them. By now we have seen that evolution likes disturbances. We saw that discovery likes disturbances. Some forecasts are hurt by uncertainty—and, like travel time, one needs a buffer. Airlines figured out how to do it, but not governments, when they estimate deficits. </li><li>Finally, this method can show us where the math in economic models is bogus—which models are fragile and which ones are not. Simply do a small change in the assumptions, and look at how large the effect, and if there is acceleration of such effect. Acceleration implies—as with Fannie Mae—that someone relying on the model blows up from Black Swan effects. </li></ul><p>How to Lose a Grandmother </p><ul><li>The variability often turns out to be much more important than the average. The notion of average is of no significance when one is fragile to variations—the dispersion in possible thermal outcomes here matters much more. </li><li>Let us call that second piece of information the <em>second-order effect</em>, or, more precisely, the <em>convexity effect.</em></li><li><em>“</em>Never cross a river that is, on average, four feet deep.&quot; </li></ul><p>Now the Philosopher’s Stone </p><ul><li>The following note would allow us to understand: </li><li>(a) The severity of the problem of conflation (mistaking the price of oil for geopolitics, or mistaking a profitable bet for good forecasting—not convexity of payoff and optionality). </li><li>(b) Why anything with optionality has a long-term advantage—and how to measure it. </li><li>(c) An additional subtle property called Jensen’s inequality. </li><li>Recall from our traffic example in Chapter 18 that 90,000 cars for an hour, then 110,000 cars for the next one, for an average of 100,000, and traffic will be horrendous. On the other hand, assume we have 100,000 cars for two hours, and traffic will be smooth and time in traffic short. </li><li>The number of cars is the <em>something</em>, a variable; traffic time is the <em>function of something</em>. The behavior of the function is such that it is, as we said, &quot;not the same thing.&quot; We can see here that the <em>function of something</em> becomes different from the <em>something</em> under nonlinearities. </li><li>(a) The more nonlinear, the more the <em>function of something</em> divorces itself from the <em>something.</em></li><li>(b) The more volatile the <em>something</em>—the more uncertainty—the more the <em>function</em> divorces itself from the <em>something</em>. Let us consider the average number of cars again. The function (travel time) depends more on the volatility around the average. Things degrade if there is unevenness of distribution. </li><li>(c) If the function is convex (antifragile), then the average of the function <em>of something</em> is going to be higher than the function of the average of <em>something</em>. And the reverse when the function is concave (fragile). </li><li>As an example for (c), which is a more complicated version of the bias, assume that the function under question is the squaring function (multiply a number by itself). This is a convex function. Take a conventional die (six sides) and consider a payoff equal to the number it lands on, that is, you get paid a number equivalent to what the die shows—1 if it lands on 1, 2 if it lands on 2, up to 6 if it lands on 6. The square of the expected (average) payoff is then (1+2+3+4+5+6 divided by 6)^2, equals 3.52, here 12.25. So the <em>function of the average</em> equals 12.25. </li><li>But the average of the function is as follows. Take the square of every payoff, 12+22+32+42+52+62 divided by 6, that is, the average square payoff, and you can see that the average of the function equals 15.17. </li><li>So, since squaring is a convex function, the average of the square payoff is higher than the square of the average payoff. The difference here between 15.17 and 12.25 is what I call the hidden benefit of antifragility—here, a 24 percent “edge.&quot; </li><li>There are two biases: one elementary convexity effect, leading to mistaking the properties of the average of something (here 3.5) and those of a (convex) function of something (here 15.17), and the second, more involved, in mistaking an average of a function for a function of an average, here 15.17 for 12.25. The latter represents optionality. </li><li>Someone with a linear payoff needs to be right more than 50 percent of the time. Someone with a convex payoff, much less. </li><li>The hidden benefit of antifragility is that you can guess worse than random and still end up outperforming. Here lies the power of optionality—your <em>function of something</em> is very convex, so you can be wrong and still do fine—the more uncertainty, the better. </li><li>This explains my statement that you can be dumb and antifragile and still do very well. </li><li>This hidden &quot;convexity bias&quot; comes from a mathematical property called Jensen’s inequality. This is what the common discourse on innovation is missing. If you ignore the convexity bias, you are missing a chunk of what makes the nonlinear world go round. And it is a fact that such an idea is missing from the discourse. </li></ul><p>How to Transform Gold into Mud: The Inverse Philosopher’s Stone </p><ul><li>Let me summarize the argument: if you have favorable asymmetries, or positive convexity, options being a special case, then in the long run you will do reasonably well, outperforming the average in the presence of uncertainty. The more uncertainty, the more role for optionality to kick in, and the more you will outperform. </li></ul><h5><strong>Book VI: Via Negativa</strong></h5><ul><li>But if we cannot express what something is exactly, we can say something about what it is not - the indirect rather than the direct expression. </li></ul><p>Where is the Charlatan? </p><ul><li>I have used all my life a wonderfully simple heuristic: charlatans are recognizable in that they will give you positive advice, and only positive advice. </li><li>Yet in practice it is the negative that’s used by the pros, those selected by evolution: chess grandmasters usually win by not losing; people become rich by not going bust (particularly when others do); religions are mostly about interdicts; the learning of life is about what to avoid. You reduce most of your personal risks of accident thanks to a small number of measures. </li></ul><p>Subtractive Knowledge </p><ul><li>Now when it comes to knowledge, the same applies. The greatest-and most robust - contribution to knowledge consists in removing what we think is wrong - subtractive epistemology. </li><li>In life, antifragility is reached by <em>not</em> being a sucker. </li><li>So the central tenet of the epistemology I advocate is as follows: we know a lot more what is wrong than what is right, or, phrased according to the fragile/robust classification, negative knowledge (what is wrong, what does not work) is more robust to error than positive knowledge (what is right, what works). So knowledge grows by subtraction much more than by addition—given that what we know today might turn out to be wrong but what we know to be wrong cannot turn out to be right, at least not easily. </li><li>I discovered that I had been intuitively using the less-is-more idea as an aid in decision making (contrary to the method of putting a series of pros and cons side by side on a computer screen). For instance, if you have more than one reason to do something (choose a doctor or veterinarian, hire a gardener or an employee, marry a person, go on a trip), just don’t do it. It does not mean that one reason is better than two, just that by invoking more than one reason you are trying to convince yourself to do something. Obvious decisions (robust to error) require no more than a single reason. </li><li>I have often followed what I call Bergson’s razor: “A philosopher should be known for one single idea, not more” (I can’t source it to Bergson, but the rule is good enough). </li><li>So, a heuristic: if someone has a long bio, I skip him. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 20: Time and Fragility</strong></h5><ul><li>Technology is at its best when it is invisible. I am convinced that technology is of greatest benefit when it displaces the deleterious, unnatural, alienating, and, most of all, inherently fragile preceding technology. </li></ul><p>To Age in Reverse: The Lindy Effect </p><ul><li>The nonperishable is anything that does not have an organic unavoidable expiration date. The perishable is typically an object, the nonperishable has an informational nature to it. A single car is perishable, but the automobile as a technology has survived about a century (and we will speculate should survive another one). Humans die, but their genes—a code—do not necessarily. </li><li><em>For the perishable, every additional day in its life translates into a shorter additional life expectancy. For the nonperishable, every additional day may imply alongerlife expectancy.</em></li><li>So the longer a technology lives, the longer it can be expected to live. </li><li>If a book has been in print for forty years, I can expect it to be in print for another forty years. </li></ul><p>Neomania and Treadmill Effects </p><ul><li>These impulses to buy new things that will eventually lose their novelty, particularly when compared to newer things, are called <em>treadmill effects.</em></li><li>So, we can apply criteria of fragility and robustness to the handling of information—the fragile in that context is, like technology, what does not stand the test of time. The best filtering heuristic, therefore, consists in taking into account the age of books and scientific papers. </li><li>One of my students (who was majoring in, of all subjects, economics) asked me for a rule on what to read. &quot;As little as feasible from the last twenty years, except history books that are not about the last fifty years,&quot; I blurted out. </li></ul><p>What Does Not Make Sense </p><ul><li>Let’s take this idea of Empedocles’ dog a bit further: If something that makes no sense to you (say, religion—if you are an atheist—or some age-old habit or practice called irrational); if that something has been around for a very, very long time, then, irrational or not, you can expect it to stick around much longer, and outlive those who call for its demise. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 21: Medicine, Convexity, and Opacity</strong></h5><ul><li>Simple, quite simple decision rules and heuristics emerge from this chapter. <em>Via negativa</em>, of course (by removal of the unnatural): only resort to medical techniques when the health payoff is very large (say, saving a life) and visibly exceeds its potential harm, such as incontrovertibly needed surgery or lifesaving medicine (penicillin). </li></ul><p>First Principle of Iatrogenics </p><ul><li>Now we can see the pattern: iatrogenics, being a cost-benefit situation, usually results from the treacherous condition in which the benefits are small, and visible—and the costs very large, delayed, and hidden. And of course, the potential costs are much worse than the cumulative gains. </li></ul><p>Second Principle of Iatrogenics </p><ul><li>Second principle of iatrogenics: it is not linear. We should not take risks with near-healthy people; but we should take a lot, a lot more risks with those deemed in danger. </li></ul><p>How to Medicate Half the Population </p><ul><li>Medicine has a hard time grasping normal variability in samples - it is hard sometimes to translate the difference between &quot;statistically significant&quot; and “significant&quot; in effect. A certain disease might marginally lower your life expectancy, but it can be deemed to do so with &quot;high statistical significance,&quot; prompting panics when in fact all these studies might be saying is they established <em>with a significant statistical margin</em> that in some cases, say, 1 percent of the cases, patients are likely to be harmed by it. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 22: To Live Long, but Not Too Long</strong></h5><ul><li>So there are many hidden jewels in <em>via negativa</em> applied to medicine. For instance, telling people <em>not</em> to smoke seems to be the greatest medical contribution of the last sixty years. </li><li>If true wealth consists in worriless sleeping, clear conscience, reciprocal gratitude, absence of envy, good appetite, muscle strength, physical energy, frequent laughs, no meals alone, no gym class, some physical labor (or hobby), good bowel movements, no meeting rooms, and periodic surprises, then it is largely subtractive (elimination of iatrogenics). </li><li>I am convinced (an inevitable result of nonlinearity) that we are antifragile to randomness in food delivery and composition—at least over a certain range, or number of days. </li><li>And there is this antifragility to the stressor of the fast, as it makes the wanted food taste better and can produce euphoria in one’s system. Breaking a fast feels like the exact opposite of a hangover. </li><li>Walking effortlessly, at a pace below the stress level, can have some benefits—or, as I speculate, is necessary for humans, perhaps as necessary as sleep. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 23: Skin in the Game: Antifragility and Optionality at the Expense of Others</strong></h5><ul><li>Heroism is the exact inverse of the agency problem: someone elects to bear the disadvantage (risks his own life, or harm to himself, or, in milder forms, accepts to deprive himself of some benefits) for the sake of others. </li><li>A half-man (or, rather, half-person) is not someone who does not have an opinion, just someone who does not take risks for it. </li></ul><p>Hammurabi </p><ul><li>To me, every opinion maker needs to have &quot;skin in the game&quot; in the event of harm caused by reliance on his information or opinion. </li><li>Further, anyone producing a forecast or making an economic analysis needs to have something to lose from it, given that others rely on those forecasts. </li><li>The second heuristic is that we need to build redundancy, a margin of safety, avoiding optimization, mitigating (even removing) asymmetries in our sensitivity to risk. </li><li>No opinion without risk; and, of course, no risk without hope for return. </li><li>There is another central element of ancient Mediterranean ethics: <em>Factum tacendo, crimen facias acrius</em>: For Publilius Syrus, he who does not stop a crime is an accomplice. (I’ve stated my own version of this in the prologue, which needs to be reiterated: if you see fraud and don’t say fraud, you are a fraud.) </li></ul><p>The Stiglitz Syndrome </p><ul><li><em>Stiglitz Syndrome = fragilista (with good intentions) + ex post cherry-picking</em></li><li>Finally, the cure to many ethical problems maps to the exact cure for the Stiglitz effect, which I state now. </li><li><em>Never ask anyone for their opinion, forecast, or recommendation. Just ask them what they have—or don’t have—in their portfolio.</em></li><li>The psychologist Gerd Gigerenzer has a simple heuristic. Never ask the doctor what <em>you</em> should do. Ask him what <em>he</em> would do if he were in your place. You would be surprised at the difference. </li></ul><p>The Problem of Frequency, or How to Lose Arguments </p><ul><li>To put in Fat Tony terms: suckers try to be right, nonsuckers try to make the buck, or: </li><li><em>Suckers try to win arguments, nonsuckers try to win.</em></li></ul><p>The Antifragility and Ethics of (Large) Corporations </p><ul><li>A rule then hit me: with the exception of, say, drug dealers, small companies and artisans tend to sell us healthy products, ones that seem naturally and spontaneously needed; larger ones—including pharmaceutical giants—are likely to be in the business of producing wholesale iatrogenics, taking our money, and then, to add insult to injury, hijacking the state thanks to their army of lobbyists. </li></ul><p>Artisans, Marketing, and the Cheapest to Deliver </p><ul><li>Another attribute of the artisanal. There is no product that I particularly like that I have discovered through advertising and marketing: cheeses, wine, meats, eggs, tomatoes, basil leaves, apples, restaurants, barbers, art, books, hotels, shoes, shirts, eyeglasses, pants, olives, olive oil, etc. The same applies to cities, museums, art, novels, music, painting, sculpture. These may have been “marketed&quot; in some sense, by making people aware of their existence, but this isn’t how I came to use them—word of mouth is a potent naturalistic filter. Actually, the only filter. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 24: Fitting Ethics to a Profession</strong></h5><p>Wealth Without Independence </p><ul><li>There is a phenomenon called the <em>treadmill effect</em>, similar to what we saw with neomania: you need to make more and more to stay in the same place. Greed is antifragile—though not its victims. </li><li>The point isn’t that making a living in a profession is inherently bad; rather, it’s that such a person becomes automatically suspect when dealing with public affairs, matters that involve others. The definition of the <em>free man</em>, according to Aristotle, is one who is free with his opinions—as a side effect of being free with his time. </li><li>In other words, for Fat Tony, it was a very, very specific definition of a free person: someone who cannot be squeezed into doing something he would otherwise never do. </li><li>In a municipality (rather than a nation-state), shame is the penalty for violation of ethics, making things more symmetric. </li><li>A simple solution, but quite drastic: anyone who goes into public service should not be allowed to <em>subsequently</em> earn more from any commercial activity than the income of the highest paid civil servant. </li><li>If someone has an opinion, like, say, the banking system is fragile and should collapse, I want him invested in it so he is harmed if the audience for his opinion are harmed. </li><li>But when general statements about the collective welfare are made, instead, <em>absence</em> of investment is what is required. <em>Via negativa.</em></li><li>Increasingly, data can only truly deliver <em>via negativa</em>–style knowledge—it can be effectively used to debunk, not confirm. </li></ul><h5><strong>Conclusion</strong></h5><ul><li>As usual at the end of the journey, while I was looking at the entire manuscript on a restaurant table, someone from a Semitic culture asked me to explain my book standing on one leg. </li><li>Shaiy’s extraction was: <em>Everything gains or loses from volatility. Fragility is what loses from volatility and uncertainty.</em></li><li>The best way to verify that you are alive is by checking if you like variations. Remember that food would not have a taste if it weren’t for hunger; results are meaningless without effort, joy without sadness, convictions without uncertainty, and an ethical life isn’t so when stripped of personal risks. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A book about Michael Pollan’s desire to build a small writing hut of his own, the book goes through the process from start to finish, from design to completion. As someone who’s dreamed about building a cabin for myself, I thoroughly enjoyed the book.  Pollan’s writing is beautiful, witty, and easy to read.  Recommended reading for anyone interested in building a space or house of their own.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>Preface </h4><ul><li>To see photographs of the finished building go to michaelpollan.com, and click on the image of the building on the home page. </li></ul><h4>Chapter 1 - A Room of One’s Own </h4><ul><li>Nor did what I do (writing) seem to add much, if anything, to the stock of reality, and though this might be a dated or romantic notion in an age of information, it seemed to me this was something real work should do. </li><li>Daydreaming does not enjoy tremendous prestige in our culture, which tends to regard it as unproductive thought. <strong>Writers perhaps appreciate its importance better than most, since a fair amount of what they call work consists of little more than daydreaming edited.</strong></li><li>Yet anyone who reads for pleasure should prize it too, for what is reading a good book but a daydream at second hand? </li><li>The book was called Tiny Houses, and had been written, or drawn (since it contains very few words), by an architect by the name of Lester Walker. </li></ul><h4>Chapter 2 - The Site</h4><ul><li>Vitruvius spelled out principles of orientation that have not been improved on (which is not to say they have always been heeded): <strong>Buildings should be laid out on an east-west axis, with their principle exposure to the south.</strong></li><li>This means that in the Northern Hemisphere the low angle of the sun in winter will keep the building warm, while during the summer, when the sun passes overhead, direct sunlight will enter only in the morning and evening, when it will be welcome.</li><li>For the same reason, <strong>he recommended an eastern exposure for bedrooms, western for dining rooms.</strong></li><li>In the landscape paintings the Romantics revered, nature tends to be well-composed (divided into foreground, middle ground, and background) and pleasingly varied (particularly in terms of light and dark). It also offers the spectator’s eye an inviting path to follow from one element to another, but especially from the foreground to the distant horizon.</li><li>But I’d also begun to doubt the wisdom of building right on the main axis of the house and garden, and in this I found strong support among the picturesque designers I consulted. They detested straight lines on aesthetic as well as political grounds—axes being closely associated with the formal mockery of princely gardens on the continent—and made sure their paths always curved. A path that eventually.</li><li>I called Charlie to see if he had any advice. He did, though at the time it seemed too glib to be of much use. Think about it this way, he suggested. You’ve been hiking all day, it’s getting late, and you’re looking for a good campsite—just a comfortable, safe-feeling place to spend the night. That’s your site.</li><li>Like picturesque garden theory, it tells you how to improve a landscape, but to spiritual rather than aesthetic ends.</li><li>Stripped of animal metaphors, the practical import of this principle is that people should build among hills, on ground neither too high nor too low, on a site that is open to the south and has higher ground to its north—advice, by the way, that Vitruvius would enthusiastically endorse. A more general rule of fêng shui holds that the topography of a site should strike a balance between yang land forms (the male ones, which tend to be upright) and flatter yin, or female, ones, such as plains or bodies of water.</li><li>As far as I could tell, chi has a lot in common with water.</li><li>As soon as I’d begun to think of chi as flowing water, I could visualize its movement over my land, as it searched out grooves in the earth and openings in the forest on its course down the hillside. To map a landscape’s dragon lines, a fêng shui doctor will sometimes travel to the top of a ridge and then run down it several times as heedlessly as possible, noting the various paths he naturally inclines toward, the points at which they intersect, and the places where his momentum is checked by hollows or inclines.</li><li>Ideally, chi should meander through a site; torrents were no good. I felt proficient enough at visualizing the flow of chi to see that it was moving at a very rapid clip through the property, and probably whizzing right by my site in a feckless blur.</li><li>Once I began to think of fêng shui as a set of time-tested metaphors to describe a landscape, rather than as spiritual dogma, it became a lot less strange, and potentially even useful.</li><li>In his collection of lectures The Symbolism of Habitat, Appleton demonstrates the importance of symbols of prospect and refuge in the history of landscape painting and architecture.</li><li>A pleasing landscape painting or garden, he maintains, will be one that offers both kinds of symbols, along with some visual means of traveling from one to the other. Among the symbols of refuge he mentions are trees, copses, caves, and buildings; horizons, hills, and towers function as symbols of prospect, and paths or roads serve to link the two kinds of imagery, facilitating the viewer’s exploration of the scene. The picturesque painters and landscape designers were masters of the symbolism of habitat, Appleton contends, and this is why their ideas and creations have endured.</li></ul><h4>Chapter 3 - On Paper</h4><h5>1. Words</h5><ul><li>Information overload is something we hear a lot about these days, and there does seem to be a growing sense that technology, the media, and the sheer quantity of information in circulation have somehow gotten between us and reality—what used to be called, without a lot of quotation marks or qualifiers, nature. This may not be a new phenomenon—it was more than a century ago, after all, that Thoreau went to Walden to recover the hard bottom…we can call reality from the mud and slush of opinion that obscured it—but the situation does seem to have gotten worse. Not only is the mud and slush of opinion a lot thicker now that it’s being piled on by so many different media, but our most famous philosophers (think of Jacques Derrida or Richard Rorty) are telling us that, underneath it all, there may not be any reality to recover—that it’s mud and slush all the way down.</li><li>And then, a few years ago, the tiny voice whispering that I might be missing something spending so much of my time in the tub was amplified by a sentence I read (on the subway, as it happened) in a book by Hannah Arendt, a sentence that kept coming back to me as a kind of rebuke. Nothing perhaps is more surprising in this world of ours, the philosopher wrote, than the almost infinite diversity of its appearances, the sheer entertainment value of its views, sounds, and smells, something that is hardly ever mentioned by the thinkers and philosophers. At first, this sentence struck me as being poignant, even profound. But then, with this piercing sense of deflation, I realized that anybody who regarded this observation as anything but obvious—as anything but pathetically obvious—had a serious problem </li></ul><h5>2. Drawing</h5><ul><li>Alexander calls these forms patterns, and his best-known book, A Pattern Language*, published in 1977</li><li>Even to contemporary designers not at all given to mysticism or numerology, the Golden Section seems to retain some value as a pattern, or type—something to fall back on when faced with a decision about proportions, providing a bit of shelter, perhaps, from what Kevin Lynch, the writer and city planner, once called the anxieties of the open search.</li></ul><h5>3. The Design</h5><h4>Chapter 4 - Footings</h4><ul><li>Once we had planted the four corner stakes, making sure they formed a rectangle of the dimensions specified on Charlie’s footing plan (14’2&quot; by 8’9&quot;), we checked to make sure it was square by measuring the diagonals; <strong>if the lengths of the two diagonals were equal, that meant the rectangle was square.</strong></li></ul><h4>Chapter 5 - Framing</h4><ul><li>If the idea of a hut dictated the big, treelike timbers, the timbers in turn dictated the building’s system of construction. It would be a variation on the traditional post-and-beam, in which the frame of a building is comprised of large and generously spaced vertical posts joined to horizontal beams. Traditionally, these joints were of the type known as mortise and tenon: The end of each beam is chiseled to form a protruding shape called a tenon (from tongue) that is inserted into a matching notch, or mortise, carved into the post, and then held in place with wooden pegs driven through the two members.</li><li>Charlie had proposed a suitably idiot-proof alternative to a traditional joint: his construction drawings called for a steel joist hanger at the point where the corner posts joined the four-by-eight beams that would support the floor.</li></ul><h4>Chapter 6 - The Roof</h4><ul><li>The Vanna Venturi house.</li><li>The architect Louis Kahn used to talk about interrogating his materials in order to learn what they wanted to be—that is, what the distinctive nature of a material suggested should be done with it:</li><li>You say to brick, &quot;What do you want, brick?&quot; Brick says to you, &quot;I like an arch.&quot; If you say to brick, &quot;Arches are expensive, and I can use a concrete lintel over an opening. What do you think of that, brick?&quot; Brick says, &quot;I like an arch.&quot; </li><li><strong>The easiest way for an architect to avoid problems with his roof is to pay more attention to vernacular practice</strong>. Vernacular roofs—most of which happen to be pitched, the precise pitch varying with the latitude and local snowfall—reflect the experience of thousands of builders over hundreds of years; they represent a successful adaptation to a given environment, a good fit between the human desire to keep dry and the predictable behavior of water and wood under specific circumstances.</li><li>Owing to its scale, Grand Central is a particularly dramatic example of such an imitation, but the sequence of constriction and release we feel stepping out of a forest into a clearing is probably one of the most common spatial gestures, or tropes, in all architecture; even my little building contains it. It seems to me that spatial tropes of this kind—prospect and refuge is another—speak to us more deeply, more physically, than mere signs do, since our sense of their meaning depends on nothing more than the fact of our bodies and those forms of landscape with which everyone has had firsthand experience.</li></ul><h4>Chapter 7 - Windows</h4><ul><li>My parents’ view also acquainted me with the peculiar distancing effect of plate glass. Ours was double-glazed, and unless the big slider had been left ajar, the seal of the wall was complete. You saw the waves break white out beyond the dunes, but heard nothing; watched the sea grass bend and flash under the breeze, but felt nothing. There was a deadness to it, a quality of having already happened. The view seemed far away, static, and inaccessible, except of course to the eye.</li><li>Our picture window’s horizontal format probably contributed to this impression. As painters understand, the horizontal dimension is the eye’s natural field of play, the axis along which it ordinarily takes in the world. Compared to a vertical format, which is more likely to engage the whole body, inviting the viewer into the picture as if through a door, the horizontal somehow seems cooler, disembodied, more cerebral.</li><li>By building this house off in the woods, and by making it with my own hands, I’d hoped to break out of a few of the frames that stood between me and experience, especially the panes of words that boxed in so much of my time and attention and seemed to distance me from the world of things and the senses. Though I suppose I had accomplished this, it seemed clear now that what I’d really done was trade some old frames for a few new ones. Which might be the best we can hope for, transparency being as elusive as truth.</li><li>Not that the trying wasn’t worth the effort; it was. Just look at what I had to show for it: this building and these new windows, for one thing, which have given me so much more than a view. And then there were the new and sometimes warring perspectives I’d acquired along the way—that of carpenter and architect, I mean, not to mention apprentice; there were all those new windows too.</li><li>Maybe it wasn’t as important to see things as they really are as it was to see them freshly, scrupulously, and from more than one point of view.</li><li>Yet there is still and always the frame, even if one has perfect vision and sleeps out under the stars. Transparency’s for the birds, for them and all the rest of nature. As for us, well, we do windows.</li></ul><h4>Chapter 8 - Finish Work: A Punch List</h4><h5>Time and Place </h5><ul><li>In The Timeless Way of Building, Alexander writes that those of us who are concerned with buildings tend to forget too easily that all the life and soul of a place…depend not simply on the physical environment, but on the pattern of events which we experience there—everything from the transit of sunlight through a room to the kinds of things we habitually do in it. </li><li>J. B. Jackson makes a similar point in his essay A Sense of Place, a Sense of Time, where he argues that we pay way too much attention to the design of places, when it is what we routinely do in them that gives them their character. </li></ul><h5>The Writing Desk</h5><ul><li>it is an axiom of woodworking that one always cuts from the back side of a finished wood surface in order to prevent the teeth of the saw from marring it. </li></ul><h5>The Metaphysics of Trim </h5><ul><li>My grasp of wood behavior was daily growing surer, and I’d internalized all of Joe’s sawing saws, which now played in my head like a cautionary mantra: Measure twice cut once, consider all the consequences, remember to count the kerf (the extra eighth of an inch removed by the saw blade itself). </li><li>On the subject of error he liked to quote Ruskin, who had defended the craftsman against the inhumanity of the machine by declaring that No good work whatever can be perfect, and the demand for perfection is always a sign of a misunderstanding of the ends of art. </li></ul><h5>Wood, Finished </h5><ul><li>This last labor consumed me for a great many of those Joeless days, as I sanded and oiled all the interior surfaces of my building, a task so vast it made me feel like a mouse trying single-handedly to refinish an armoire. The sanding alone took me over every inch of the interior four separate times: first with the belt sander, to remove the saw marks and lumberyard inks, and thrice more with the palm sander, each time applying a finer and finer grit, until the grain rose up brightly from the muffled surface of blemishes, sanding marks, and pith. Each coat of tung oil required another circumnavigation of the interior, and there were two coats everywhere but on the desk, which received a third and a fourth. Lastly there were the once-overs with steel wool, to remove the tack between coats of oil. </li></ul><h5>Habitable Furniture </h5><ul><li>First we shape our buildings, Winston Churchill famously remarked, and thereafter our buildings shape us. </li></ul><h5>Light </h5><ul><li>I don’t think there is a lighted house in the woods anywhere in this world that doesn’t hint at a person inside and a story unfolding, and so, it seemed, did mine. </li></ul><h4>Sources </h4><ul><li>Thoreau, Henry David. Walden. </li><li>Walker, Lester. Tiny Houses. </li><li>Wright, Frank Lloyd. The Natural House. </li><li>Alexander, Christopher, et al. A Pattern Language. </li><li>——. The Timeless Way of Building. </li><li>By far the most provocative article I’ve read on windows is Neil Levine’s Questioning the View: Seaside’s Critique of the Gaze of Modern Architecture in Seaside: Making a Town in America, edited by David Mohney and Keller Easterling (Princeton: Princeton Architectural Press, 1991). </li><li>Colin Rowe’s seminal essay (with Robert Slutzky) Transparency: Literal and Phenomenal in The Mathematics of the Ideal Villa and Other Essays (Cambridge: MIT Press, 1976). </li><li>Brand, Stewart. How Buildings Learn (New York: Viking, 1994). </li><li>Montaigne’s description of his study appears in On Three Kinds of Social Intercourse in Book III of Michel de Montaigne: The Complete Essays, translated by M. A. Screech (New York: Penguin, 1987). </li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Demian by Hermann Hesse: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[A classic tale of a boy growing to adulthood, struggling with good and evil, and with superficial ideals. I hadn’t enjoyed a novel this much in a long time. I found it particularly compelling given that I related so well, yet it was published in a much different time period (1919). It also contains what is probably the best description of a hangover I will ever read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><ul><li>The adult who has learned to translate a part of his feelings into thoughts notices the absence of these thoughts in a child, and therefore comes to believe that the child lacks these experiences, too. </li><li>I realize today that nothing in the world is more distasteful to a man than to take the path that leads to himself. </li><li>It was my own affair to come to terms with myself and to find my own way, and like most well-brought-up children, I managed it badly. </li><li>You see, we don’t have free will even though the pastor makes believe we do. A person can neither think what he wants to nor can I make him think what I want to. However, one can study someone very closely and then one can often know almost exactly what he thinks or feels and then one can also anticipate what he will do the next moment. It’s simple enough, only people don’t know it. Of course you need practice. </li><li>Examine a person closely enough and you know more about him than he does himself. </li><li>We have a wider scope, greater variety of choice, and wider interests than an animal. But we, too, are confined to a relatively narrow compass which we cannot break out of. </li><li>If you want something from someone and you look him firmly in both eyes and he doesn’t become ill at ease, give up. You don’t have a chance, ever! But that is very rare. </li><li>Only the ideas that we actually live are of any value. </li><li>What is forbidden, in other words, is not something eternal; it can change…That is why each of us has to find out for himself what is permitted and what is forbidden - forbidden for him. It’s possible to never transgress a single law and still be a bastard. And vice versa. </li><li>Those who are too lazy and comfortable to think for themselves and be their own judges obey the laws. Others sense their own laws within them; things are forbidden to them that every honourable man will do any day in the year and other things are allowed to them that are generally despised. Each person must stand on his own feet. </li><li>The sober reality to which I awoke after a brief deathlike sleep coincided with a painful and senseless depression. I sat up in bed, still wearing my shirt. The rest of my clothes, strewn about on the floor, reeked of tobacco and vomit. Between fits of headache, nausea, and a raging thirst an image came to mind which I had not viewed for a long time: I visualized my parents’ house, my home, my father and mother, my sisters, the garden. I could see the familiar bedroom, the school, the market place, could see Demian and the confirmation classes - everything was wonderful, godly pure, and everything, all of this—as I realized now—had still been mine yesterday, a few hours ago, had waited for me; yet now, at this very hour, everything looked ravaged and damned, was mine no longer, rejected me, regarded me with disgust. Everything dear and intimate, everything my parents had given me as far back as the distant gardens of my childhood, every kiss from my mother, every Christmas, each devout, light-filled Sunday morning at home, each and every flower in the garden—everything had been laid waste, everything had been trampled on <em>by me</em>!If the arm of the law had reached out for me now, had bound and gagged me and led me to the gallows as the scum of the earth and a desecrator of the temple, I would not have objected, would have gladly gone, would have considered it just and fair. </li><li><em>I</em> did not know myself, for I was too deeply involved. </li><li>Love had ceased to be the deep animalistic drive I had experienced at first with fright, nor was it any longer the devout transfiguration I had offered to Beatrice. It was both, and yet much more. </li><li>There was only one thing I could not do: wrest the dark secret goal from myself and keep it before me as others did who knew exactly what they wanted to be - professors, lawyers, doctors, artists, however long this would take them and whatever difficulties and advantages this decision would bear in its wake. This I could not do. Perhaps I would become something similar, but how was I to know? Perhaps I would have to continue my search for years on end and would not become anything, and would not reach a goal. Perhaps I would reach this goal but it would turn out to be an evil, dangerous, horrible one? </li><li>I wanted only to try and live in accord with the promptings which came from my true self. Why was that so very difficult? </li><li>If you need something desperately and find it, this is not an accident; your own craving and compulsion leads you to it. </li><li>The surrender to Nature’s irrational, strangely confused formations produces in us a feeling of inner harmony with the force responsible for these phenomena. We soon fall prey to the temptation of thinking of them as our own odds, our own creations, and see the boundaries separating us from Nature begin to quiver and dissolve. We become acquainted with that state of mind in which we are unable to decide whether the images on our retina are the result of impressions coming from without or from within. </li><li>There’s an immense different between simply carrying the world within us and being aware of it. A madman can spout ideas that remind you of Plato, and a pious little seminary student rethinks deep mythological correspondences found among the Gnostics or in Zoroaster. But he isn’t aware of them. He is a tree or stone, at best an animal, as long as he is not conscious. But as soon as the first spark of recognition dawns within him he is a human being. </li><li>I would not be able to tell them, for example, that Christ is not a person for me but a hero, a myth, an extraordinary shadow image in which humanity has painted itself on the wall of eternity. And the others, that come to church to hear a few clever phrases, to fulfill an obligation, not to miss anything, and so forth, what should I have said to them? Convert them? Is that what you mean? But I have no desire to. A priest does not want to covert, he merely wants to live among believers, among his own kind. He wants to be the instrument and expression for the feeling from which we create our gods. </li><li>If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn’t a part of ourselves doesn’t disturb us. </li><li>“The things we see,” Pistorius said softly, “are the same things that are within us. There is no reality except the one contained within us. That is why so many people live an unreal life. They take the images outside them for reality and never allow the world within to assert itself. You can be happy that way. But once you know the other interpretation you no longer have the choice of following the crowd. Sinclair, the majority’s path is an easy one, ours is difficult.&quot; </li><li>&quot;...I live in my dreams - that’s what you sense. Other people live in dreams, but not in their own. That’s the difference.&quot; </li><li>Sooner or later each of us must take the step that separates him from his father, from his mentors; each of us must have some cruelly lonely experience — even if most people cannot take much of this and soon crawl back. </li><li>An enlightened man had but one duty — to seek the way to himself, to reach inner certainty, to grope his way forward, no matter where it led. </li><li>The real spirit will come from the knowledge that separate individuals have of one another and for a time it will transform the world. The community spirit at present is only a manifestation of the herd instinct. Men fly into each other’s arms because they are afraid of each other — the owners are for themselves, the workers for themselves, the scholars for themselves! And why are they afraid? You are only afraid if you are not in harmony with yourself. People are afraid because they have never owned up to themselves. A whole society composed of men afraid of the unknown within them! They all sense that the rules they live by are no longer valid, that they live according to archaic laws — neither their religion nor their mortality is in any way suited to the needs of the present. For a hundred years or more Europe has done nothing but study and build factories! They know exactly how many ounces of powder it takes to kill a man but they don’t know how to pray to God, they don’t even know how to be happy for a single contented hour. Just take a look at a student dive! Or a resort where the rich congregate. It’s hopeless. Dear Sinclair, nothing good can come of all of this. These people who huddle together in fear are filled with dread and malice, no one trusts the other. They hanker after ideals that are ideals no longer but they will hound the man to death who sets up a new one. I can feel the approaching conflict. It’s coming, believe me, and soon. Of course it will not ‘improve’ the world. Whether the workers kill the manufacturers or whether Germany makes war on Russia will merely mean a change of ownership. But it won’t have been entirely in vain. It will reveal the bankruptcy of present-day ideals, there will be a sweeping away of Stone Age gods. The world, as it is now, wants to die, wants to perish — and it will.&quot; </li><li>We who wore the sign might justly be considered “odd” by the world; yes, even crazy, and dangerous. We were <em>aware</em> or in the process of becoming aware and our striving was directed toward achieving a more and more complete state of awareness while the striving of the others was a quest aimed at binding their opinions, ideals, duties, their lives and fortunes more and more closely to those of the herd. There, too, was striving, there, too, were power and greatness. But whereas we, who were marked, believed that we represented the will of Nature to something new, to the individualism of the future, the others sought to perpetuate the status quo. Humanity — which they loved as we did— was for them something complete that must be maintained and protected. For us, humanity was a distant goal toward which all men were moving, whose image no one knew, whose laws were nowhere written down. </li><li>All men who have had an effect on the course of human history, all of them without exception, were capable and effective only because they were willing to accept the inevitable. </li><li>“Love must not entreat,” she added, “or demand. Love must have the strength to become certain within itself. Then it ceases merely to be attracted and begins to attract.&quot; </li><li>Sometimes I felt certain that it was not she as a person whom I was attracted to and yearned for with all my being, but that she existed only as a metaphor of my inner self, a metaphor whose sole purpose was to lead me more deeply into myself. Things she said often sounded like replies to my subconscious to questions that tormented me. </li><li>At one time I had given much thought to why men were so very rarely capable of living for an ideal. Now I saw that many, no, all men were capable of dying for one. Yet it could not be a personal, a freely chosen ideal; it had to be one mutually accepted. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Discipline Equals Freedom: Field Manual by Jocko Willink: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This book is divided into two sections, 'Thoughts' and ‘Actions’, which are essentially as they sound.  ‘Thoughts’ covers Jocko’s mindset and thinking on topics ranging from stress to procrastination to eating.  ‘Actions’ covers more concrete thoughts and instructions on things like sleep, diet, working out, martial arts training, and more.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Like Jocko? Read my article about the <a href="/blog/jocko-willink-workout-advice">Jocko Willink Workout Advice That Change My Habits here</a>.</strong></p><h3>High Level Thoughts</h3><p>There’s no doubt Jocko is a hugely accomplished, terrifying-in-a-good way guy. He’s clearly got his life very organized, and has a system for being successful in his life that works.</p><p>The good news about this book is he shares a lot of the methods and thinking behind his system, and that’s very useful. Things like his workouts (see Appendix), his diet, and his fasting are concrete takeaways that you can implement right away.</p><p>His general principles for living life are also relatively simple. Where the book lacks a little detail is how to get to those systems - often Jocko says things like “I do it anyway” or “I get it done”, which is a little thing on the details. That said, his no-nonsense method of communicating these principles serves as a great motivator, and if you listen to him reading passages from the book (which I would recommend), it’s even better.</p><p>Overally, I’d recommend listening to Jocko read the book, and writing down your favourite quotes to serve as motivation for you.</p><h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><p>Here are some of my favourite quotes from the book, which I’ve been thinking about and using for motivation since reading:</p><p>&quot;When do you start? You start right NOW. You initiate action. You GO.”</p><p>&quot;Stop researching every aspect of it and reading all about it and debating the pros and cons of it … Start doing it.”</p><p>&quot;It takes both emotion and logic to reach your maximum potential, to really give everything you have, to go beyond your limits. Because emotion and logic will both reach their limitations. And when one fails, you need to rely on the other.”</p><p>&quot;YOU DON’T NEED TO EAT.”</p><p>&quot;How do I handle those days when I’m just not “feeling it”? What do I do on those days? I GO ANYWAY. I GET IT DONE.&quot;</p><p>&quot;Don’t count on motivation. Count on Discipline.”</p><p>&quot;Power naps. They are real. If you are feeling tired they can be a lifesaver.”</p><p>And my favourite, which is the conclusion to the book:</p><p>“Don’t just read this book.</p><p>Don’t just listen to the podcast.</p><p>Don’t just watch videos online.</p><p>Don’t just take notes.</p><p>Don’t just study them.</p><p>Don’t just share them with your friends.</p><p>Don’t just plan.</p><p>Don’t just mark your calendar.</p><p>Don’t just “get motivated.”</p><p>Don’t just talk.</p><p>Don’t just think.</p><p>Don’t just dream.</p><p>No. None of that matters.</p><p>The only thing that matters is that you actually do.</p><p>SO: DO&quot;</p><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><h4>Part 1: Thoughts</h4><h5>OVERCOMING PROCRASTINATION: WHEN AND WHERE TO START</h5><p>People want to know how to stop laziness. They want to know how to stop procrastination.</p><p>“When is the best time to start?” And I have a simple answer: HERE and NOW.</p><p>When do you start? You start right NOW. You initiate action. You GO.</p><p>YOU HAVE TO DO IT.</p><p>And you have to do it now. So stop thinking about it. Stop dreaming about it. Stop researching every aspect of it and reading all about it and debating the pros and cons of it … Start doing it. Take that first step and Make It Happen. GET AFTER IT. HERE and NOW.</p><h5>THE PERSON YOU CAN CONTROL</h5><p>The only person you can control is you. So focus on making yourself who you want you to be: Faster. Stronger. Smarter. More humble. Less ego. Discipline your body. Free your mind. Get up early, and go. Get after it and you will become the person you want to be. And you become that person through: One. Small. Decision. At. A. Time.</p><h5>MIND CONTROL</h5><p>You have control over your mind. You just have to assert it.</p><p>You have to decide that you are going to be in control, that you are going to do what YOU want to do. Weakness doesn’t get a vote. Laziness doesn’t get a vote. Sadness doesn’t get a vote.</p><p>So next time you are feeling weak or lazy or soft or emotional, tell those feelings they don’t get a vote. You are declaring martial law on your mind: MIND CONTROL. </p><p>Impose what you want on your brain: DISCIPLINE. POWER. POSITIVITY. WILL. </p><p>And use that Mind Control to move your life where you want it to be: stronger, faster, smarter, quicker, friendlier, more helpful, more driven. Don’t let your mind control you. Control your mind. And then you can: SET IT FREE.</p><h5>WEAKNESS</h5><p>I’m always fighting. I’m struggling and I’m scraping and kicking and clawing at those weaknesses — to change them. To stop them. Some days I win. But some days I don’t. But each and every day: I get back up and I move forward. With my fists clenched. Toward the battle. Toward the struggle. And I fight with everything I’ve got: To overcome those weaknesses and those shortfalls and those flaws as I strive to be just a little bit better today than I was yesterday …</p><h5>STRESS</h5><p>Humans can withstand almost inconceivable stress — and you can too. So that is your first step: Gain perspective. And to do that you must do something critical in many situations: Detach. </p><p>Whatever problems or stress you are experiencing, detach from them. Stress is generally caused by what you can’t control.</p><p>If the stress is something that you can control and you are not, that is a lack of discipline and a lack of ownership. Get control of it. Impose your will to make it happen. Solve the problem. Relieve the stress. If the stress is something you can’t control: Embrace it.</p><p>You can’t control it, but —</p><p>How can you look at it from a different angle? How can you use it to your advantage?</p><p>So. Don’t fight stress. Embrace it. Turn it on itself. Use it to make yourself sharper and more alert. Use it to make you think and learn and get better and smarter and more effective.</p><h5>DESTROYER MODE</h5><p>Where does the switch come from? The overdrive. The berserker mode. The full - on destroyer that will not stop? I think this is something that is learned. And it is a hard lesson and not everyone gets it. And it is an important lesson. A critical one. It is the thing that allows you to go the extra distance.</p><p>And it actually takes two opposing forces to bring it to life. It takes both emotion and logic to reach your maximum potential, to really give everything you have, to go beyond your limits. Because emotion and logic will both reach their limitations. And when one fails, you need to rely on the other.</p><p>When it just doesn’t make any logical sense to go on, that’s when you use your emotion, your anger, your frustration, your fear, to push further, to push you to say one thing: I don’t stop. When your feelings are screaming that you have had enough, when you think you are going to break emotionally, override that emotion with concrete logic and willpower that says one thing: I don’t stop. Fight weak emotions with the power of logic; fight the weakness of logic with the power of emotion.</p><p>And in the balance of those two, you will find the strength and the tenacity and the guts to say to yourself: I. DON’T. STOP.</p><h5>UNTIL THE END</h5><p>It is never finished. You always have more to do. Another mission. Another task. Another goal. And the enemy is always watching. Waiting. Looking for that moment of weakness. Looking for you to exhale, set your weapon down, and close your eyes, even just for a moment. And that’s when they attack. So don’t be finished.</p><p>Be starting. Be alert. Be ready. Be attacking. BE RELENTLESS.</p><h5>APPLICATION OF DISCIPLINE</h5><p>Discipline starts with waking up early. It really does. But that is just the beginning; you absolutely have to apply it to things beyond waking up early. It is working out, every day, making yourself stronger and faster and more flexible and healthier. It is eating the right foods, to fuel your system correctly. It is disciplining your emotions, so you can make good decisions. It is about having the discipline to control your ego, so it doesn’t get out of hand and control you. It is about treating people the way you would want to be treated. It is about doing the tasks you don’t want to do, but you know will help you. Discipline is about facing your fears so you can conquer them. Discipline means taking the hard road — the uphill road.</p><p>To do what is right. For you and for others. So often, the easy path calls us: To be weak for that moment. To break down another time. To give in to desire and short - term gratification.</p><p>Discipline will not allow that. Discipline calls for strength and fortitude and WILL. It won’t accept weakness. It won’t tolerate a breakdown in will. Discipline can seem like your worst enemy. But in reality it is your best friend. It will take care of you like nothing else can.</p><h5>QUESTIONS</h5><p>Which questions should you ask? Simple: Question everything. Don’t accept anything as truth. QUESTION IT ALL.</p><p>Question yourself every day. Ask yourself: Who am I? What have I learned? What have I created? What forward progress have I made? Who have I helped? What am I doing to improve myself — today? To get better, faster, stronger, healthier, smarter?</p><p>Is this what I want to be? This? Is this all I’ve got — is this everything I can give? Is this going to be my life? Do I accept that?</p><h5>FIGHT</h5><p>Go down swinging. And I’ll tell you: If you fight with all you have, more often than not, you won’t go down at all. You will win. But you have to make that attitude a part of your everyday life. Do the extra repetition. Run the extra mile. Go the extra round. Make the right choices. Give the full measure.</p><h5>COMPROMISE</h5><p>When working with other people and dynamic situations and relationships and deals, a person, especially a leader, must compromise.</p><p>And in many cases, a failure to compromise is a failure to succeed. But those are external compromises, with other people, other humans that have their own personalities and ethos and issues. And compromise is needed to unify. So to work with them, compromise is a must.</p><p>But internally — it’s different. With myself, I have to hold the line. There are areas within myself where I CANNOT compromise. I am going to work hard. I am going to train hard. I am going to improve myself. I am not going to rest on my laurels. I am going to own my mistakes and confront them. I am going to face my demons. I’m not going to give up, or give out, or give in. I’m going to stand. I am going to maintain my self - discipline.</p><p>And on those points there will be No Compromise.</p><h5>DEFAULT AGGRESSIVE</h5><p>I view aggression as an internal character trait. A fire in your mind that says: I am going to win.</p><h5>NATURE VS. NURTURE</h5><p>What is more important: Nature or nurture? In my opinion: Neither.</p><p>The people who are successful decide they are going to be successful. They make that choice.</p><p>And they make other choices. They decide to study hard. They decide to work hard. They decide to be the first person to get to work and the last to go home. They decide they are going to take on the hard jobs. Take on the challenges. They decide they are going to lead when no one else will.</p><p>And I will tell you something else: It is never too late to make that choice.</p><p>So. Think not about what you’ve been through and where you were. Think about where you are going, and choose.</p><h5>FEAR OF FAILURE</h5><p>But: I don’t want you to overcome fear of failure. I want you to be afraid of failure.</p><p>But more important — I want you to be horrified — terrified — of sitting on the sidelines and doing nothing.</p><h5>SUGARCOATED LIES</h5><p>Unless you have gone an extended period of time without food, you don’t need to eat. And you definitely don’t need to eat that poison. YOU DON’T NEED TO EAT.</p><p>So. When those foods are tempting you, calling your name, and enticing you with their SUGARCOATED LIES — get angry. Get aggressive. Stand your ground in the battle and fight by saying NO.</p><h5>BAD INSTINCTS</h5><p>This is the instinct that says: YOU’VE HAD ENOUGH.</p><p>Destroy that instinct. Replace it with the instinct that says: GET UP. GO. FIGHT ON.</p><h5>NOT FEELING IT</h5><p>How do I handle those days when I’m just not “feeling it”?</p><p>What do I do on those days? I GO ANYWAY. I GET IT DONE.</p><p>Even if I am just going through the motions — I GO THROUGH THE MOTIONS.</p><p>Now — these could be signals that you need some time off — and those signals might be right. BUT — don’t take today off. Wait until tomorrow. Don’t give in to the immediate gratification that is whispering in your ear.</p><h5>REGRET</h5><p>And the most important thing to understand about regret is that in and of itself, regret is worthless. It does nothing for you. In fact: The only thing valuable in regret is the lesson you learned. The knowledge you gained.</p><h5>FOCUS</h5><p>I want that long-term goal to be so embedded in my mind, that I never lose sight of it. EVER.</p><p>Don’t do that. Embed that long - term goal in your mind. Burn it into your soul. Think about it, write about it, talk about it. Hang it up on your wall. But most important: Do something about it. Every day. Every day: Do something that moves you toward that goal — that keeps that goal alive and in sight and in focus.</p><h5>HESITATION</h5><p>HESITATION IS THE ENEMY.</p><p>To win, all you have to do is overcome that moment: The Waiting. The Hesitation. And to do that, all you have to do is: Go. Move. Take the action. Get out of bed. Get your feet on the ground. Step forward. Do not hesitate. Do not wait. Go forward: And win.</p><h5>DRAW FIRE</h5><p>But that’s what I say: Draw fire. Bring that pain to me — I can handle it when others cannot. When bad things are happening — I will be the one good thing — standing tall — that can be relied upon.</p><h5>GOOD</h5><p>How do I deal with setbacks, failures, delays, defeats, or other disasters? I actually have a fairly simple way of dealing with these situations, summed up in one word: “ Good. ”</p><p>Take that issue, take that setback, take that problem, and turn it into something good. Go forward. And, if you are part of a team, that attitude will spread throughout.</p><h5>DEATH</h5><p>Instead: Let us laugh and love and let us embrace and venerate everything that life is and every opportunity it gives us. Let us LIVE — for those WHO live no more. Let us live to honor them.</p><h5>EVERY DAY</h5><p>Today: I’m taking scalps. I’m putting the pressure on. I’m the aggressor. I’m on the attack.</p><p>But I will not Stop.</p><h5>NO MORE</h5><p>No more excuses. No more: “I’ll start tomorrow.” No more: “Just this once.” No more accepting the shortfalls of my own will. No more taking the easy road. No more bowing down to whatever unhealthy or unproductive thoughts float through my mind.</p><h5>STAYING MOTIVATED</h5><p>Motivation is fickle. It comes and goes. It is unreliable and when you are counting on motivation to get your goals accomplished — you will likely fall short.</p><p>Don’t count on motivation. Count on Discipline.</p><h5>ME VERSUS ME</h5><p>But my glory, it doesn’t happen in front of a crowd.</p><p>It happens in the darkness of the early morning. In solitude.</p><p>Where I try. And I try. And I try again. With everything I have, to be the best that I can possibly be.</p><p>Faster and stronger and smarter. And claim one victory that no one can ever take away from me. Ever. A victory that is earned every single day. A victory of determination and will and discipline. A victory achieved because: I will not stop.</p><h5>REMAIN VIGILANT</h5><p>Most of us aren’t defeated in one decisive battle.</p><p>We are defeated one tiny, seemingly insignificant surrender at a time that chips away at who we should really be.</p><p>No. It is a slow incremental process. It chips away at our will — it chips away at our discipline. We sleep in a little later. We miss a workout, then another.</p><p>You have to BE VIGILANT. You have to be ON GUARD. You have to HOLD THE LINE on the seemingly insignificant little things — things that shouldn’t matter — but that do.</p><h5>FEAR</h5><p>Don’t wait anymore. Don’t think anymore.</p><p>Don’t plan anymore. Don’t contemplate anymore. Don’t make any more excuses or justifications. Don’t rationalize anything else.</p><p>Instead: Be aggressive. Take action. Now. And the first action you need to take? The first step you need to take? The first step you need to take is just that: Step. Step. Go. Now.</p><h5>THE DARKNESS</h5><p>As long as you keep fighting — you win. Only surrender is defeat. Only quitting is the end.</p><h5>OVERWHELMED</h5><p>Yes. Life can be overwhelming.</p><p>Line up those problems and confront them — face them — fight them.</p><p>Instead, let these challenges raise you up — let them elevate you.</p><p>So in the future, you look back at these struggles and you say to them: Thank you — you made me better.</p><h5>NEGATIVE TALK FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE</h5><p>What do you do about the negative person talking behind your back and trying to bring you down?</p><p>Ignore and outperform.</p><h5>HOLD THE LINE</h5><p>Live in defiance of the weakness and in rebellion against the decay.</p><p>Do not surrender any ground. EVER.</p><p>BEGIN</p><p>When the alarm sounds. IT IS TIME. Rise. Despite fatigue and soreness. Curse the warmth of the bed. Curse the comfort of the pillow. Fight the temptation of weakness. Get up and go.</p><p>Do it quickly, without thought. Do not reason with weakness. You cannot. You must only take action. Get up and GO.</p><h5>ENGAGE</h5><p>I fight against fatigue and soreness and the weakness that says: Give in. I will not give in. I will fight.</p><h5>LAUGHTER WINS</h5><p>To spite the suffering. To spite the hardships. To spite the challenges. Laugh at them all.</p><h4>PART 2: ACTIONS PHYSICAL TRAINING: GETTING AFTER IT</h4><h5>STRESS: GOOD AND BAD</h5><p>So you have to be careful not to stress the body and mind too much. But again: YOU MUST STRESS THE BODY AND MIND SOME IN ORDER TO IMPROVE.</p><h5>WHEN? </h5><p>The biggest excuse not to work out is lack of time. Something always comes up. But there is one time of day that no can take away from you: predawn.</p><p>GET UP EARLY! This will be hard at first, but it will become normal. And once you are accustomed to it, early rising is guaranteed to make your day better. So GET AFTER IT.</p><h5>PSYCHOLOGICAL EDGE</h5><p>There are a slew of psychological advantages that come from early morning physical training. First, there is a psychological win over the enemy. Knowing that you are working harder than your adversaries gives you an advantage. It gives you confidence that you can overcome them in battle. Another advantage to waking up early and working out hard is that it demands discipline to do both.</p><p>Before you go to bed, plan what workout you are going to do in the morning. Stage your workout clothes so you don’t even have to think when you get up. Write down a list of things you need to accomplish the next day. Set your alarm clock for 4: 30 a.m. and go to sleep.</p><p>When the alarm clock goes off — get up. Put on your pre - staged clothes. Brush your teeth and go get your workout on. Hard. Get done, shower, get dressed, and begin to crush your list of tasks for the day.</p><p>When it is time for breakfast, see what happens. You won’t want to eat junk.</p><p>When you are on the path you want to stay on the path.</p><p>Discipline begets discipline. Will propagates MORE WILL.</p><h5>SLEEP</h5><p>Sleep is a necessity. Humans need sleep. Failure to get enough sleep has serious side effects. But how much sleep is enough? Different people need different amounts of sleep.</p><p>For me, the condition I’m in and the cleaner I eat, the more quickly I will fall asleep, and the less sleep I need.</p><p>And finally, I choose not to sleep in. I don’t give in to the temptation of the warm blankets and soft pillow. I mobilize the will to get me out of bed and into the game. Obviously, I am an advocate of waking up early. But, since sleep must be a priority to maintain health, how can we get enough sleep and still wake up early? The answer is simple: Go to bed earlier. Going to bed at 10 p.m. and waking up at 5 a.m. gets you a solid seven hours.</p><p>So, go to bed early, and wake up early. People constantly ask me for the secret of getting up early. I tell them it is simple: SET YOUR ALARM CLOCK AND GET OUT OF BED WHEN IT GOES OFF.</p><p>Get up and get going. And one thing that will help you do that is going to bed earlier, which can be at least as hard, if not harder, than waking up.</p><h5>FALLING ASLEEP</h5><p>Yes. It can be just as hard for some people to go to sleep early as it is to wake up—if not harder. So here are some steps to help that: 1. GET TIRED. 2. Turn off the computer. Turn off the smartphone. Stop checking social media and stop watching one more YouTube video. 3. Read. 4. Most important: The key to getting to sleep early is GETTING UP EARLY. No, it might not help you tonight but tomorrow night it will. 5. Do it every day. People ask me if I still get up early on the weekends. YES. For a bunch of reasons. Obviously, the weekend is only two days so I want to get up and take advantage of it. The other reason I wake up early on weekends is to keep my sleep pattern consistent. So: Don’t break the cycle. Get up early every day. If you need extra sleep, take a power nap.</p><h5>POWER NAPS</h5><p>Power naps. They are real. If you are feeling tired they can be a lifesaver. And if you are feeling tired due to lack of sleep, they can be very powerful. I have a technique for power naps that is a combination of two things I learned.</p><p>During those breaks, if I got the chance, I would lie down on the floor, put my feet up on my bed, set my alarm for six to eight minutes, and sleep. Of course, I was tired, so I would fall asleep very quickly, and when the alarm would go off, I would wake up and feel completely refreshed.</p><p>Warning: Be careful about letting your six- to eight-minute nap turn into a two-hour slumber. If you do this, you will have trouble falling asleep at night, which leads to trouble waking up in the morning.</p><h5>THE WORKOUTS</h5><p>And first of all—let me say this: The most important thing to do is SOMETHING. ANYTHING.</p><p>Once you begin doing something, it is a good idea to track it. Recording weights, repetitions, and times is useful. The records allow you to track progress. They can serve as goals. They also let you know when you are overtraining. But, it is important to pay attention to your state at the end of a workout. The more experienced you become at working out, the easier this is. You will know when to push. You will know that there are days to hold back. My workouts are divided into some broad types of movements: Pull, Push, Lift, Squat. In addition to those, the workouts focus working the “Gut” and metabolic conditioning (MetCon). For the purposes of this field manual, I have established three basic levels of exercises: Beginner, Intermediate, Advanced.</p><p>To see the actual workouts, go to Appendix: The Workouts</p><p>Again, use the workouts as a guide. Learn about your own body. Push yourself. Most important: Be consistent. And consistency starts with GETTING IN THE GYM. If you are tired or sore or burned out, don’t just give up completely. Go to the gym and stretch. Move. Do some light exercises. But keep the routine in place. Too often, people take the day off. And that turns into two. And two into three. And then they have gone a week without getting in a good workout. SO. Maintain the routine. Maintain the discipline.</p><h5>BUILDING THE HOME GYM</h5><p>Once you have carved out some space, it is time to start getting equipment in place. Start with a pull-up bar.</p><p>Another useful and relatively cheap piece of equipment is gymnastic rings.</p><p>Next up is a squat rack, which should include a pull-up bar and some kind of dip bar attachment. With the squat rack, a barbell and weights are needed. Rubber bumper plates allow for dynamic lifts like the clean and jerk and the snatch. That’s it. That’s all you need. That basic setup should go a long way in achieving exceptional fitness.</p><p>That basic setup should go a long way in achieving exceptional fitness. Beyond that there are countless implements to include in your arsenal when time and budget allow. Kettlebells are probably the next addition, then a rowing machine and/or an air bike. A Glute-Ham Developer (GHD) is another piece of equipment that is definitely nice to have at home. Medicine balls, plyometric boxes, bands, chains, club bells, sledgehammers are also fun to use. But, while all those pieces of equipment are nice to have and can add some variety to training, none of them are really necessary, and although I have all those in my gym, I still most consistently use the basic equipment: pull-up bar, dip bars, rings, squat rack, and barbell with bumper plates.</p><h5>MARTIAL ARTS</h5><p>Everyone should train in martial arts, just as everyone should eat.</p><p>There are three broad forms of martial arts: grappling, striking, and weapons. Grappling uses leverage and holds to control or submit your opponent. Striking uses punches, kicks, knees, elbows, headbutts, and any other body parts to hit the opponent. Martial arts with weapons obviously utilize a variety of weapons, including sticks, knives, and, in the modern world, firearms. Perhaps the most critical form of self-defense is the mind. By being smart and aware, you can avoid situations that are likely to expose you to danger.</p><p>Of course, mishandled firearms are extremely dangerous and can cause serious injury and death to the owner or other innocent people if they are not handled with the four principles of firearm safety constantly in mind: 1. Treat every gun as if it is loaded. 2. Never point your gun at something you are not willing to destroy. 3. Keep your finger off the trigger until your sights are on target. 4. Always be sure of your target and what is behind it. Additionally, firearms should always be stored in a safe place where they cannot fall into the wrong hands. Most important, without proper training, possessing a firearm is useless, or even more dangerous to its owner than not having one. Learning how to shoot quickly and accurately while under stress is absolutely mandatory if one is going to own a firearm.</p><p>So, here are my recommendations on which martial arts to learn and how to proceed down the path of learning martial arts. Start with Brazilian jiu-jitsu. Our first form of self-defense is to get away—yes, run. If you are confronted by another person or a group of people, the best thing you can do is run away: avoid the conflict.</p><p>Another reason I recommend starting martial arts by learning Brazilian jiu-jitsu is because it is the most complex of the martial arts. Due to this unending depth in jiu-jitsu, it is also the most cerebral of the martial arts. It provides incredible mental stimulus and a never-ending challenge to learn, develop, and improve.</p><p>The next martial art I recommend learning is boxing. Boxing is an incredibly effective striking art despite its relative simplicity: There are only two weapons in boxing—the left hand and the right hand. But with those two weapons, an incredible advantage can be gained if you know how to throw them in effective combinations. Other critical elements learned in boxing are angles, movement (both of which are based heavily on footwork), and speed, which are utilized in both the offense and defense of boxing.</p><p>The next two martial arts to invest time into are Muay Thai and wrestling. They both add a plethora of options and skills to any fighter. Muay Thai adds a massive arsenal of striking options to a fighter. Where boxing utilizes only the fists, Muay Thai utilizes the fists, the elbows, the knees, and the shins in very aggressive combinations that are absolutely devastating in a fight. Muay Thai is also about pain and the ability to withstand pain.</p><p>Wrestling is a grappling art, perhaps the most widely known and practiced. It is an amazing sport for conditioning of both the mind and the body. The physical grind of wrestling hardens the body and mind without mercy. On top of the conditioning and mental toughness derived from wrestling, it is also king of position in martial arts—meaning a good wrestler can decide what position they will be in during a confrontation. No other martial art provides the practitioner a better ability to dictate the position of a fight with one simple idea: The main focus of wrestling is to get an opponent to the ground and keep them there.</p><p>In areas where there might not be any Brazilian jiu-jitsu schools, judo is the next best replacement.</p><p>There are other martial arts that can be good to look into such as Krav Maga and Systema, both of which focus on self-defense as its primary mission. Martial arts like Escrima and Kali from the Philippines, also known as Arnis, which focus on fighting with sticks and knives. Also, the Dog Brothers have pushed the limit in full-contact weapons sparring—and in that effort have garnered real-world knowledge beyond what was previously available. The list could go on and on. There is no reason to ever stop training and learning martial arts. Of course, it is good to be prepared to handle a self-defense situation, but the benefits of martial arts training go far beyond self-defense.</p><p>So train. Don’t think about it. Don’t take time to “get in shape” before you start. Just go start. The rest will come …</p><h5>WHERE TO TRAIN</h5><p>When picking a good jiu-jitsu academy, first things first: Find some schools that are in your immediate area. Proximity is important. The more convenient it is to get to training, the more often you will be able train.</p><p>Once you have identified some academies close by, go and pay a visit. The atmospheres in gyms can vary greatly. Some are very traditional, demand matching uniforms, bowing to instructors and to the mat, and are run in a very rigid manner. Other schools do not operate with that tradition. There is no bowing. A wide variety of uniforms can be seen on the mat.</p><p>Also, don’t just show up and watch. Bring your gear and participate. Evaluate the class. How was it taught? What was the attitude of the instructor and the other students? Talk to the students. What are their goals? Are their goals similar to yours? Was there much ego on the mat? Did anyone try to rip your head off? What about the instructor? Depending on where you live the instructor may or may not be a black belt. While a black belt instructor is optimal, some areas of the world just don’t have any. That’s okay. A brown belt or a purple belt can give great instruction as well. There can be some concern about the legitimacy of the lineage of the instructor as well. Luckily, the internet has solved most of that.</p><p>Also, with regard to the instructor, remember jiu-jitsu is not a religion and a jiu-jitsu instructor is not a god. So, while they deserve respect, just as any other person does, they should give respect as well—even to brand-new white belt students. Jiu-jitsu should not feel like a cult—at all. Bottom line, jiu-jitsu should be fun, friendly, and engaging. You should look forward to going to jiu-jitsu because you know you will get pushed mentally and physically. While jiu-jitsu will absolutely be humbling, tiring, and frustrating, if you don’t enjoy it, you are either letting your ego get in the way, or you are in the wrong school.</p><h5>IMMEDIATE ACTION DRILLS: FACING A THREAT</h5><p>Obviously, training is the best way to prepare to face threats. But there is a difference between a training scenario at the gym or at the range and a real confrontation on the street. How can you be ready for that? And how should you react? The first thing to do is train. Train hard. Train for worst-case scenarios. Train for things to go wrong by putting yourself in horrible training situations and finding your way out of them. The next most important concept is avoidance. Yes. Avoid the danger. Stay away from high-threat areas.</p><p>So it is important to maintain situational awareness at all times. Pay attention to your surroundings. Look at suspicious people. Look at unsuspicious people. What are they doing? Where are they going? What are they looking at? Assess. While you assess, think of contingencies. Where is your closest escape route? Where is the closest cover and concealment—“cover” being a place to shield you from bullets and “concealment” being a place to hide. </p><p>If you are maintaining situational awareness, you should be very hard to surprise. If you sense something is going wrong or you sense a threat, proactively move away from it. Walk to the other side of the street. Accelerate your car. Walk out the door. Don’t wait for things to get worse. </p><p>If you do get surprised and you are caught in a bad situation: ACT. </p><p>If you can run away from an assailant, do it. If you can’t run because they have a hold on you, attack them. Put all your training to use as quickly and as violently as possible. As soon as you can break free, do it and run. </p><p>If shooting starts, get down. Call the police at the first opportunity. If the shooting is single shots being fired at a slower pace, run immediately and keep running. If the shooting is rapid-fire, find some solid cover to get behind. Wait for a lull. When the lull comes, run—that may be your only chance. </p><p>If you are trapped in a room with an active shooter outside, barricade yourself. If there is an ideal hiding place, hide. If not, prepare to attack them as soon as they enter the room. Get anyone in the room with you on board and ready to swarm the attacker.</p><h5>BALANCE</h5><p>Homeostasis is the tendency to move toward a state of balance.</p><p>So, the solution seems obvious: Stop eating carbohydrates - or at least minimize carbohydrate intake.</p><h5>ADDICTED TO SUGAR</h5><p>Sugar truly is addictive.</p><p>Stay strong. Get off the sugar train. Get off the addiction. Stop eating sugar.</p><h5>FUEL</h5><p>When we eat grains, they are turned to sugar in our stomachs. So, it is better to eat what we have evolved to eat - that is the diet of the Paleolithic man or caveman. Here is what that diet consists of:</p><p>Eat these:</p><ul><li>Beef (preferably grass-fed)</li><li>Poultry (preferably free-range)</li><li>Fish</li><li>Eggs</li><li>Nuts</li><li>Vegetables</li><li>Fungi</li><li>Roots</li><li>Some dairy (full-fat butter, cream, yogurt, cheese)</li><li>Limited fruit</li></ul><p>Do not eat these:</p><ul><li>Grains</li><li>Potatoes</li><li>Refined salt</li><li>Refined sugar</li><li>Processed oils (margarine)</li><li>Legumes</li></ul><p>Don’t follow the 80/20 rule. Going cold turkey and HOLDING THE LINE is the best way to stay on track.</p><p>Once you have spent enough time staying 100% clean and you are adapted to that method of eating both mentally and physically, you can make some excursions to the dark side. I have an occasional mint chocolate chip milkshake or some other delicious but not nutritious treat. And I make sure I earn it beforehand with some serious, extreme physical activity.</p><p>I have some treats that make it easier to stay clean. I eat a couple squares of 80%+ dark chocolate dipped in coconut oil. I have a small glass of full cream with a little MCT oil and a dash of chocolate milk powder. Sometimes I’ll have whipped cream with nuts on it. If you are on a strict diet, each one of those treats will taste like the richest most satisfying dessert you have ever had.</p><p>Now, there are times during travel and work and life when the right foods simply are not available. In an airport or an office party or a restaurant where you are having a business meeting. My solution to that is very simple: Don’t eat. It’s called a fast, and it is actually very good for you.</p><h5>FASTING</h5><p>Often, not eating—fasting—is beneficial for you. Here are some of the physiological benefits that fasting appears to bring:</p><p>• Improves function of cells, genes, and hormones</p><p>• Induces loss of body fat</p><p>• Reduces risk of insulin resistance and type 2 diabetes</p><p>• Reduces oxidative stress and inflammation</p><p>• Induces cell repair processes</p><p>• Increases brain-derived neurotrophic factors</p><p>• Increases levels of endorphins</p><p>• Induces detoxification process</p><p>There are also some psychological benefits that I find very real. First of all, fasting demands that you exercise your will.</p><p>I fast twenty-four hours fairly regularly.</p><p>I do seventy-two-hour fasts approximately every three months.</p><p>I drink water, some tea, maybe eat some sunflower seeds in the shell just to have something to chew on.</p><h5>REPAIR AND MAINTENANCE: INJURY PREVENTION AND RECOVERY</h5><h5>STRETCHING</h5><p>Stretching is an important part of being physically fit. It improves range of motion, helps in recovery, and also prevents injuries. There are a multitude of stretching routines out there from ancient forms of yoga to present-day innovations from people like Pavel Tsatsouline and programs like Kelly Starrett’s MobilityWOD. Explore those and find the stretches that work best for you. </p><p>Some basic stretches that I find most useful are: kneeling hip flexor stretch, swimmer stretch, Cossack stretch, hip external rotation stretch, reverse sleeper stretch, couch stretch, downward dog, and the cow face pose.</p><p>You can also stretch during your warm-ups and your workouts by ensuring that you use a full range of motion during the exercises, especially during warm-up sets when doing slow repetitions. For instance, when doing a slow squat during warm-up, make sure it is not only slow but also makes it through the entire range of motion of the squat, perhaps even a little further than you might go when performing the exercise with weight.</p><p>Like anything else in health and fitness, stretching requires consistency, so figure out what movements are most beneficial for you. Don’t pick too many—stretching can be done in as little as ten to fifteen minutes. But it needs to be done, so make it part of your routine.</p><p>Then: Stick to your routine.</p><h5>DEALING WITH INJURIES AND ILLNESS</h5><p>My theory for overcoming injuries and illnesses is simple:</p><p>DO WHAT YOU CAN.”</p><p>Hurt your knee? Work your upper body. Work the good leg. Hurt your shoulder? Time to work on one-armed pull-ups and push-ups. Focus on your core and legs until your shoulder heals up.</p><p>Take advantage of physical injuries and sickness by doing something you don’t normally have time for. In other words: GET AFTER IT.</p><p>DO</p><p>Don’t just read this book.</p><p>Don’t just listen to the podcast.</p><p>Don’t just watch videos online.</p><p>Don’t just take notes.</p><p>Don’t just study them.</p><p>Don’t just share them with your friends.</p><p>Don’t just plan.</p><p>Don’t just mark your calendar.</p><p>Don’t just “get motivated.”</p><p>Don’t just talk.</p><p>Don’t just think.</p><p>Don’t just dream.</p><p>No. None of that matters.</p><p>The only thing that matters is that you actually do.</p><p>SO: DO</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[This book is an introduction to self-justification and cognitive dissonance, and by extension, cognitive biases.  It’s a great overview of everyday situations and historical examples where these play a role in everything from learning to our relationships.The takeaway: we must learn to spot our own self-justification, and stop it when required, to prevent further action based upon false self-justification.Overall a great book that has led me to examining in more detail the cognitive biases we all are subject to, and even further to mental models which help thinking.  Would definitely recommend reading.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Chapter Summaries</h3><ul><li>We all self-justify as a way to protect against cognitive dissonance, whether positively or negatively.</li><li>The pyramid of choice is what we move along when making decisions to self-justify or not - it is critical to be aware of self-justification to make good decisions early. A series of bad decisions will have us in a bad place, and happen gradually.</li><li>Naive realism: the believe that everyone else sees the world as we do</li><li>Our own preference for our culture, nation, religion, etc. has benefits, but we must be careful they are not prejudice, which is impervious to reason, experience and counterexample, as opposed to a stereotype.</li><li>Prejudices diminish under less economic competition, when truces are signed, when professions are integrated; basically when we are in a position to realize they aren’t that different from us.</li><li>Memories are easily modified, changed, or rearranged to fit a narrative to reduce cognitive dissonance; they serve to justify and explain our own lives.</li><li>We must be careful to not allow memory distortion to let us off the hook for being responsible for the things we’ve done or made decisions about in life.</li><li>For any theory to be scientific, it must be stated in such a way that it can be proven false.</li><li>Clinicians, particularly in psychology, should be concerned about confirmation bias, both in their self-confidence in their expert assessments, and also in their evaluations and interviewing of children on subjects like abuse.</li><li>Confessions can be elicited from defendants legally by using deceit, trickery, etc., and suspects will often confess to reduce their own cognitive dissonance between what a detective is telling them (evidence), and what they believe.</li><li>Interrogators must also be cognizant of their own bias in believing this particular subject to be guilty and evaluating evidence that may suggest otherwise.</li><li>Working in couples is all about arguing, and self-justification.</li><li>Successful couples will give the benefit of the doubt to their partners, just as they would to themselves: they did something bad because of the situation, etc., but if they do something good, it’s because of who they are.</li><li>Unsuccessful couples do the opposite.</li><li>Successful couples have five times as many positive interactions to negative ones.</li><li>To resolve a conflict, both sides must drop their self-justifications: the perpetrator must honestly apologize and try to atone, the victim must let go and forgive.</li><li>Together, they must agree on steps they can take to move forward.</li><li>We must strive to take self-justification into account in our lives and relationships to prevent sliding down the pyramid and continuously justifying our actions, and then taking further action on those justifications.</li><li>Our mistake-phobic culture, or equating stupidity with mistakes, causes people not to learn from their mistakes.</li><li>To help others do this, we must encourage mistakes, confusion, and hard work as part of the learning process, and reward those who push through learning challenges, particularly in children.</li></ul><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>It goes further than that: Most people, when directly confronted by evidence that they are wrong, do not change their point of view or course of action but justify it even more tenaciously.</li><li>That is why self-justification is more powerful and more dangerous than the explicit lie. It allows people to convince themselves that what they did was the best thing they could have done. In fact, come to think of it, it was the right thing.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 1</strong></h5><p>Cognitive Dissonance: The Engine of Self-justification</p><ul><li>Cognitive dissonance is a state of tension that occurs whenever a person holds two cognitions (ideas, attitudes, beliefs, opinions) that are psychologically inconsistent, such as Smoking is a dumb thing to do because it could kill me and I smoke two packs a day.</li><li>Dissonance produces mental discomfort, ranging from minor pangs to deep anguish; people don&#x27;t rest easy until they find a way to reduce it.</li><li>What they do show is that if a person voluntarily goes through a difficult or a painful experience in order to attain some goal or object, that goal or object becomes more attractive</li></ul><p>Believing is Seeing:</p><ul><li>On the contrary: If the new information is consonant with our beliefs, we think it is well founded and useful: Just what I always said! But if the new information is dissonant, then we consider it biased or foolish: What a dumb argument! So powerful is the need for consonance that when people are forced to look at disconfirming evidence, they will find a way to criticize, distort, or dismiss it so that they can maintain or even strengthen their existing belief. This mental contortion is called the confirmation bias.</li><li>Ingrid’s Choice, Nick’s Mercedes, and Elliot’s Canoe</li><li>People become more certain they are right about something they just did if they can&#x27;t undo it.</li><li>You can see one immediate benefit of understanding how dissonance works: Don&#x27;t listen to Nick. The more costly a decision, in terms of time, money, effort, or inconvenience, and the more irrevocable its consequences, the greater the dissonance and the greater the need to reduce it by overemphasizing the good things about the choice made. Therefore, when you are about to make a big purchase or an important decision—which car or computer to buy, whether to undergo plastic surgery, or whether to sign up for a costly self-help program—don&#x27;t ask someone who has just done it</li><li>If you want advice on what product to buy, ask someone who is still gathering information and is still open-minded. And if you want to know whether a program will help you, don&#x27;t rely on testimonials: Get the data from controlled experiments</li><li>No one is immune to the need to reduce dissonance, even those who know the theory inside out</li></ul><p>Spirals of Violence—and Virtue</p><ul><li>Actually, decades of experimental research have found exactly the opposite: that when people vent their feelings aggressively they often feel worse, pump up their blood pressure, and make themselves even angrier</li><li>Venting is especially likely to backfire if a person commits an aggressive act against another person directly, which is exactly what cognitive dissonance theory would predict. When you do anything that harms someone else—get them in trouble, verbally abuse them, or punch them out—a powerful new factor comes into play: the need to justify what you did</li><li>Fortunately, dissonance theory also shows us how a person&#x27;s generous actions can create a spiral of benevolence and compassion, a virtuous circle. When people do a good deed, particularly when they do it on a whim or by chance, they will come to see the beneficiary of their generosity in a warmer light</li><li>Because most people have a reasonably positive self-concept, believing themselves to be competent, moral, and smart, their efforts at reducing dissonance will be designed to preserve their positive self-images</li><li>Dissonance reduction operates like a thermostat, keeping our self-esteem bubbling along on high. That is why we are usually oblivious to the self-justifications, the little lies to ourselves that prevent us from even acknowledging that we made mistakes or foolish decisions</li><li>But dissonance theory applies to people with low self-esteem, too, to people who consider themselves to be schnooks, crooks, or incompetents. They are not surprised when their behavior confirms their negative self-image</li><li>Self-justification, therefore, is not only about protecting high self-esteem; it&#x27;s also about protecting low self-esteem if that is how a person sees himself.</li></ul><p>The Pyramid of Choice</p><ul><li>It&#x27;s the people who almost decide to live in glass houses who throw the first stones.</li><li>The metaphor of the pyramid applies to most important decisions involving moral choices or life options</li><li>But by the time the person is at the bottom of the pyramid, ambivalence will have morphed into certainty, and he or she will be miles away from anyone who took a different route</li><li>A richer understanding of how and why our minds work as they do is the first step toward breaking the self-justification habit. And that, in turn, requires us to be more mindful of our behavior and the reasons for our choices. It takes time, self-reflection, and willingness</li></ul><p>Chapter Summary:</p><ul><li>We all self-justify as a way to protect against cognitive dissonance, whether positively or negatively.</li><li>The pyramid of choice is what we move along when making decisions to self-justify or not - it is critical to be aware of self-justification to make good decisions early. A series of bad decisions will have us in a bad place, and happen gradually.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2</strong></h5><p>Pride and Prejudice ... and Other Blind Spots</p><ul><li>Along with the confirmation bias, the brain comes packaged with other self-serving habits that allow us to justify our own perceptions and beliefs as being accurate, realistic, and unbiased. Social psychologist Lee Ross calls this phenomenon naïve realism, the inescapable conviction that we perceive objects and events clearly, as they really are. We assume that other reasonable people see things the same way we do. If they disagree with us, they obviously aren&#x27;t seeing clearly.</li><li>We cannot avoid our psychological blind spots, but if we are unaware of them we may become unwittingly reckless, crossing ethical lines and making foolish decisions.</li></ul><p>The Gift That Keeps on Giving</p><ul><li>The reason Big Pharma spends so much on small gifts is well known to marketers, lobbyists, and social psychologists: Being given a gift evokes an implicit desire to reciprocate</li></ul><p>A Slip of the Brain</p><ul><li>Obviously, certain categories of us are more crucial to our identities than the kind of car we drive or the number of dots we can guess on a slide—gender, sexuality, religion, politics, ethnicity, and nationality, for starters. Without feeling attached to groups that give our lives meaning, identity, and purpose, we would suffer the intolerable sensation that we were loose marbles floating in a random universe.</li><li>Therefore, we will do what it takes to preserve these attachments. Evolutionary psychologists argue that ethnocentrism—the belief that our own culture, nation, or religion is superior to all others—aids survival by strengthening our bonds to our primary social groups and thus increasing our willingness to work, fight, and occasionally die for them.</li><li>When things are going well, people feel pretty tolerant of other cultures and religions—they even feel pretty tolerant of the other sex!—but when they are angry, anxious, or threatened, the default position is to activate their blind spots. We have the human qualities of intelligence and deep emotions, but theyare dumb, they are crybabies, they don&#x27;t know the meaning of love, shame, grief, or remorse</li><li>A stereotype might bend or even shatter under the weight of disconfirming information, but the hallmark of prejudice is that it is impervious to reason, experience, and counterexample</li><li>Social psychologists Chris Crandall and Amy Eshelman, reviewing the huge research literature on prejudice, found that whenever people are emotionally depleted—when they are sleepy, frustrated, angry, anxious, drunk, or stressed—they become more willing to express their real prejudices toward another group</li><li>Nice try, but the evidence shows clearly that while inebriation makes it easier for people to reveal their prejudices, it doesn&#x27;t put those attitudes in their minds in the first place</li><li>But most people are unhappy about believing it, and that creates dissonance: I dislike those people collides with an equally strong conviction that it is morally or socially wrong to say so</li><li>By understanding prejudice as our self-justifying servant, we can better see why some prejudices are so hard to eradicate: They allow people to justify and defend their most important social identities—their race, their religion, their sexuality—while reducing the dissonance between I am a good person and I really don&#x27;t like those people. Fortunately, we can also better understand the conditions under which prejudices diminish: when the economic competition subsides, when the truce is signed, when the profession is integrated, when they become more familiar and comfortable, when we are in a position to realize that they aren&#x27;t so different from us</li></ul><p>Chapter Summary:</p><ul><li>Naive realism: the believe that everyone else sees the world as we do</li><li>Our own preference for our culture, nation, religion, etc. has benefits, but we must be careful they are not prejudice, which is impervious to reason, experience and counterexample, as opposed to a stereotype.</li><li>Prejudices diminish under less economic competition, when truces are signed, when professions are integrated; basically when we are in a position to realize they aren’t that different from us.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3</strong></h5><p>Memory, the Self-justifying Historian</p><ul><li>At the simplest level, memory smoothes out the wrinkles of dissonance by enabling the confirmation bias to hum along, selectively causing us to forget discrepant, disconfirming information about beliefs we hold dear.</li><li>For example, if we were perfectly rational beings, we would try to remember smart, sensible ideas and not bother taxing our minds by remembering foolish ones. But dissonance theory predicts that we will conveniently forget good arguments made by an opponent just as we forget foolish arguments made by our own side.</li><li>That is why memory researchers love to quote Nietzsche: &#x27;I have done that,&#x27; says my memory. &#x27;I cannot have done that,&#x27; says my pride, and remains inexorable. Eventually—memory yields.</li></ul><p>The Biases of Memory</p><ul><li>Because memory is reconstructive, it is subject to confabulation—confusing an event that happened to someone else with one that happened to you, or coming to believe that you remember something that never happened at all.</li><li>Every parent has been an unwilling player in the you-can&#x27;t-win game. Require your daughter to take piano lessons, and later she will complain that you wrecked her love of the piano.</li><li>Parent blaming is a popular and convenient form of self-justification because it allows people to live less uncomfortably with their regrets and imperfections. Mistakes were made, by them. Never mind that I raised hell about those lessons or stubbornly refused to take advantage of them.</li><li>By far, the most important distortions and confabulations of memory are those that serve to justify and explain our own lives.</li><li>Memories create our stories, but our stories also create our memories. Once we have a narrative, we shape our memories to fit into it.</li><li>Memories are distorted in a self-enhancing direction in all sorts of ways. Men and women alike remember having had fewer sexual partners than they really did, they remember having far more sex with those partners than they actually had, and they remember using condoms more often than they actually did.</li><li>Conway and Ross called this self-serving memory distortion getting what you want by revising what you had. On the larger stage of the life cycle, many of us do just that: We misremember our history as being worse than it was, thus distorting our perception of how much we have improved, to feel better about ourselves now.</li><li>Of course, all of us do grow and mature, but generally not as much as we think we have. This bias in memory explains why each of us feels that we have changed profoundly, but our friends, enemies, and loved ones are the same old friends, enemies, and loved ones they ever were.</li></ul><p>True Stories of False Memories</p><ul><li>False memories allow us to forgive ourselves and justify our mistakes, but sometimes at a high price: an inability to take responsibility for our lives.</li><li>If we are to be careful about what we wish for because it might come true, we must also be careful which memories we select to justify our lives, because then we will have to live by them.</li><li>Certainly one of the most powerful stories that many people wish to live by is the victim narrative</li></ul><p>Chapter Summary</p><ul><li>Memories are easily modified, changed, or rearranged to fit a narrative to reduce cognitive dissonance; they serve to justify and explain our own lives.</li><li>We must be careful to not allow memory distortion to let us off the hook for being responsible for the things we’ve done or made decisions about in life.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4</strong></h5><p>Good Intentions, Bad Science: The Closed Loop of Clinical Judgment</p><ul><li>The scientific method consists of the use of procedures designed to show not that our predictions and hypotheses are right, but that they might be wrong. Scientific reasoning is useful to anyone in any job because it makes us face the possibility, even the dire reality, that we were mistaken. It forces us to confront our self-justifications and put them on public display for others to puncture. At its core, therefore, science is a form of arrogance control.</li></ul><p>The Problem of the Benevolent Dolphin</p><ul><li>For any theory to be scientific, it must be stated in such a way that it can be shown to be false as well as true.</li><li>Observation and intuition, without independent verification, are unreliable guides</li><li>Truly traumatic events—terrifying, life-threatening experiences—are never forgotten, let alone if they are repeated, says McNally. The basic principle is: if the abuse was traumatic at the time it occurred, it is unlikely to be forgotten. If it was forgotten, then it was unlikely to have been traumatic. And even if it was forgotten, there is no evidence that it was blocked, repressed, sealed behind a mental barrier, inaccessible.</li><li>This is obviously disconfirming information for clinicians committed to the belief that people who have been brutalized for years will repress the memory.</li><li>Other studies of the unreliability of clinical predictions, and there are hundreds of them, are dissonance-creating news to the mental-health professionals whose self-confidence rests on the belief that their expert assessments are extremely accurate. When we said that science is a form of arrogance control, that&#x27;s what we mean</li><li>Research like this has enabled psychologists to improve their methods of interviewing children, so that they can help children who have been abused disclose what happened to them, but without increasing the suggestibility of children who have not been abused. The scientists have shown that very young children, under age five, often cannot tell the difference between something they were told and something that actually happened to them.</li><li>Today, informed by years of experimental research with children, the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development and some individual states, notably Michigan, have drafted new model protocols for social workers, police investigators, and others who conduct child interviews. These protocols emphasize the hazards of the confirmation bias, instructing interviewers to test the hypothesis of possible abuse, and not assume they know what happened. The guidelines recognize that most children will readily disclose actual abuse, and some need prodding; the guidelines also caution against the use of techniques known to produce false reports.</li></ul><p>Chapter Summary</p><ul><li>For any theory to be scientific, it must be stated in such a way that it can be proven false.</li><li>Clinicians, particularly in psychology, should be concerned about confirmation bias, both in their self-confidence in their expert assessments, and also in their evaluations and interviewing of children on subjects like abuse.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5</strong></h5><p>Law and Disorder</p><p>The Investigators</p><ul><li>Once a detective decides that he or she has found the killer, the confirmation bias sees to it that the prime suspect becomes the only suspect. And once that happens, an innocent defendant is on the ropes.</li><li>The most common justification for lying and planting evidence is that the end justifies the means.</li></ul><p>The Interrogators</p><ul><li>The most powerful piece of evidence a detective can produce in an investigation is a confession, because it is the one thing most likely to convince a prosecutor, jury, and judge of a person&#x27;s guilt. Accordingly, police interrogators are trained to get it, even if that means lying to the suspect and using, as one detective proudly admitted to a reporter, trickery and deceit. Most people are surprised to learn that this is entirely legal. Detectives are proud of their ability to trick a suspect into confessing; it&#x27;s a mark of how well they have learned their trade. The greater their confidence, the greater the dissonance they will feel if confronted with evidence that they were wrong, and the greater the need to reject that evidence.</li><li>The bible of interrogation methods is Criminal Interrogation and Confessions, written by Fred E. Inbau, John E. Reid, Joseph P. Buckley, and Brian C. Jayne. John E. Reid and Associates offers training programs, seminars, and videotapes on the 9-Step Reid Technique, and on their Web site they claim that they have trained more than 300,000 law-enforcement workers in the most effective ways of eliciting confessions.</li></ul><p>Jumping to Convictions</p><ul><li>Yet training that promotes the certainties of pseudoscience, rather than a humbling appreciation of our cognitive biases and blind spots, increases the chances of wrongful convictions in two ways. First, it encourages law-enforcement officials to jump to conclusions too quickly. A police officer decides that a suspect is the guilty party, and then closes the door to other possibilities. A district attorney decides impulsively to prosecute a case, especially a sensational one, without having all the evidence; she announces her decision to the media; and then finds it difficult to back down when subsequent evidence proves shaky. Second, once a case is prosecuted and a conviction won, officials will be motivated to reject any subsequent evidence of the defendant&#x27;s innocence.</li><li>The antidote to these all-too-human mistakes is to ensure that in police academies and law schools, students learn about their own vulnerability to self-justification.</li></ul><p>Chapter Summary</p><ul><li>Confessions can be elicited from defendants legally by using deceit, trickery, etc., and suspects will often confess to reduce their own cognitive dissonance between what a detective is telling them (evidence), and what they believe.</li><li>Interrogators must also be cognizant of their own bias in believing this particular subject to be guilty and evaluating evidence that may suggest otherwise.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6</strong></h5><p>Love&#x27;s Assassin: Self-justification in Marriage</p><ul><li>Benjamin Franklin, who advised, Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, and half shut afterward, understood the power of dissonance in relationships.</li><li>Of course, some couples separate because of a cataclysmic revelation, an act of betrayal, or violence that one partner can no longer tolerate or ignore. But the vast majority of couples who drift apart do so slowly, over time, in a snowballing pattern of blame and self-justification. Each partner focuses on what the other one is doing wrong, while justifying his or her own preferences, attitudes, and ways of doing things.</li><li>Each side&#x27;s intransigence, in turn, makes the other side even more determined not to budge. Before the couple realizes it, they have taken up polarized positions, each feeling right and righteous. Self-justification will then cause their hearts to harden against the entreaties of empathy.</li><li>The kind that can erode a marriage, however, reflects a more serious effort to protect not what we did but who we are, and it comes in two versions: I&#x27;m right and you&#x27;re wrong and Even if I&#x27;m wrong, too bad; that&#x27;s the way I am. Frank and Debra are in trouble because they have begun to justify their fundamental self-concepts, the qualities about themselves that they value and do not wish to alter or that they believe are inherent in their nature.</li><li>Every marriage is a story, and like all stories, it is subject to its participants&#x27; distorted perceptions and memories that preserve the narrative as each side sees it. Frank and Debra are at a crucial decision point on the pyramid of their marriage, and the steps they take to resolve the dissonance between I love this person and This person is doing some things that are driving me crazy will enhance their love story or destroy it. They are going to have to decide how to answer some key questions about those crazy things their partner does: Are they due to an unchangeable personality flaw? Can I live with them? Are they grounds for divorce? Can we find a compromise? Could I—horror of horrors—learn something from my partner, maybe improve my own way of doing things? And they are going to have to decide how to think about their own way of doing things. Seeing as how they have lived with themselves their whole lives, their own way feels natural, inevitable. Self-justification is blocking each partner from asking: Could I be wrong? Could I be making a mistake? Could I change?</li><li>Our implicit theories of why we and other people behave as we do come in one of two versions. We can say it&#x27;s because of something in the situation or environment: The bank teller snapped at me because she is overworked today; there aren&#x27;t enough tellers to handle these lines. Or we can say it&#x27;s because something is wrong with the person: That teller snapped at me because she is plain rude. When we explain our own behavior, self-justification allows us to flatter ourselves: We give ourselves credit for our good actions but let the situation excuse the bad ones. When we do something that hurts another, for example, we rarely say, I behaved this way because I am a cruel and heartless human being. We say, I was provoked; anyone would do what I did; or I had no choice; or Yes, I said some awful things, but that wasn&#x27;t me—it&#x27;s because I was drunk. Yet when we do something generous, helpful, or brave, we don&#x27;t say we did it because we were provoked or drunk or had no choice, or because the guy on the phone guilt-induced us into donating to charity. We did[…]</li><li>Successful partners extend to each other the same self-forgiving ways of thinking we extend to ourselves: They forgive each other&#x27;s missteps as being due to the situation, but give each other credit for the thoughtful and loving things they do</li><li>While happy partners are giving each other the benefit of the doubt, unhappy partners are doing just the opposite.</li><li>If the partner does something nice, it&#x27;s because of a temporary fluke or situational demands: Yeah, he brought me flowers, but only because all the other guys in his office were buying flowers for their wives. If the partner does something thoughtless or annoying, though, it&#x27;s because of the partner&#x27;s personality flaws: She snapped at me because she&#x27;s a bitch.</li><li>Implicit theories have powerful consequences because they affect, among other things, how couples argue, and even the very purpose of an argument. If a couple is arguing from the premise that each is a good person who did something wrong but fixable, or who did something blunderheaded because of momentary situational pressures, there is hope of correction and compromise. But, once again, unhappy couples invert this premise.</li><li>By the time a couple&#x27;s style of argument has escalated into shaming and blaming each other, the very purpose of their quarrels has shifted. It is no longer an effort to solve a problem or even to get the other person to modify his or her behavior; it&#x27;s just to wound, to insult, to score. That is why shaming leads to fierce, renewed efforts at self-justification, a refusal to compromise, and the most destructive emotion a relationship can evoke: contempt. In his groundbreaking study of more than 700 couples, whom he followed over a period of years, psychologist John Gottman found that contempt—criticism laced with sarcasm, name calling, and mockery—is one of the strongest signs that a relationship is in free fall.</li><li>But because most new partners do not start out in a mood of complaining and blaming, psychologists have been able to follow couples over time to see what sets some of them, but not others, on a downward spiral. They have learned that negative ways of thinking and blaming usually come first and are unrelated to the couple&#x27;s frequency of anger, either party&#x27;s feelings of depression, or other negative emotional states. Happy and unhappy partners simply think differently about each other&#x27;s behavior, even when they are responding to identical situations and actions.</li><li>That is why we think that self-justification is the prime suspect in the murder of a marriage. Each partner resolves the dissonance caused by conflicts and irritations by explaining the spouse&#x27;s behavior in a particular way. That explanation, in turn, sets them on a path down the pyramid.</li><li>Those who travel the route of shame and blame will eventually begin rewriting the story of their marriage. As they do, they seek further evidence to justify their growing pessimistic or contemptuous views of each other. They shift from minimizing negative aspects of the marriage to overemphasizing them, seeking every bit of supporting evidence to fit their new story. As the new story takes shape, with husband and wife rehearsing it privately or with sympathetic friends, the partners become blind to each other&#x27;s good qualities, the very ones that initially caused them to fall in love.</li><li>The tipping point at which a couple starts rewriting their love story, Gottman finds, is when the magic ratio dips below five-to-one: Successful couples have a ratio of five times as many positive interactions (such as expressions of love, affection, and humor) to negative ones (such as expressions of annoyance and complaints).</li><li>In contrast, the couples who grow together over the years have figured out a way to live with a minimum of self-justification, which is another way of saying that they are able to put empathy for the partner ahead of defending their own territory. Successful, stable couples are able to listen to the partner&#x27;s criticisms, concerns, and suggestions undefensively.</li></ul><p>Chapter Summary</p><ul><li>Working in couples is all about arguing, and self-justification.</li><li>Successful couples will give the benefit of the doubt to their partners, just as they would to themselves: they did something bad because of the situation, etc., but if they do something good, it’s because of who they are.</li><li>Unsuccessful couples do the opposite.</li><li>Successful couples have five times as many positive interactions to negative ones.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7</strong></h5><p>Wounds, Rifts, and Wars</p><ul><li>We want to start, though, with a more common problem: the many situations in which it isn&#x27;t clear who is to blame, who started this, or even when this started.</li><li>In their narratives, perpetrators drew on different ways to reduce the dissonance caused by realizing they did something wrong. The first, naturally, was to say they did nothing wrong at all: I lied to him, but it was only to protect his feelings.</li><li>The second strategy was to admit wrongdoing but excuse or minimize it. I know I shouldn&#x27;t have had that one-night stand, but in the great cosmos of things, what harm did it do?</li><li>The third strategy, when the perpetrators&#x27; backs were to the wall and they could not deny or minimize responsibility, was to admit they had done something wrong and hurtful, and then try to get rid of the episode as fast as possible. Whether they accepted the blame or not, most perpetrators, eager to exorcise their dissonant feelings of guilt, bracketed the event off in time. They were far more likely than victims to describe the episode as an isolated incident that was now over and done with, that was not typical of them, that had no lasting negative consequences, and that certainly had no implications for the present. Many even told stories with happy endings that provided a reassuring sense of closure, along the lines of everything is fine now, there was no damage to the relationship;</li><li>For their part, the victims had a rather different take on the perpetrators&#x27; justifications, which might be summarized as Oh, yeah? No damage? Good friends? Tell it to the marines. Perpetrators may be motivated to get over the episode quickly and give it closure, but victims have long memories; an event that is trivial and forgettable to the former may be a source of lifelong rage to the latter.</li><li>Moreover, whereas the perpetrators thought their behavior made sense at the time, many victims said they were unable to make sense of the perpetrators&#x27; intentions, even long after the event.</li><li>One reason he doesn&#x27;t understand and she can&#x27;t admit it is that perpetrators are preoccupied with justifying what they did, but another reason is that they really do not know how the victim feels. Many victims initially stifle their anger, nursing their wounds and brooding about what to do. They ruminate about their pain or grievances for months, sometimes for years, and sometimes for decades.</li><li>Some victims justify their continued feelings of anger and their unwillingness to let it go because rage itself is retribution, a way to punish the offender, even when the offender wants to make peace, is long gone from the scene, or has died.</li></ul><p>Perpetrators of Evil</p><ul><li>An experiment by David Glass confirmed this prediction: The higher the perpetrators&#x27; self-esteem, the greater their denigration of their victims.</li><li>The implications of these studies are ominous: Combine perpetrators who have high self-esteem and victims who are helpless, and you have a recipe for the escalation of brutality.</li><li>Few deny that the ticking-time-bomb justification for torture would be reasonable under those circumstances. The trouble is that those circumstances are very rare, so the saving lives excuse starts being used even when there is no ticking and there is no bomb.</li><li>If the good-of-the-country justification isn&#x27;t enough, there is always that eternally popular dissonance reducer: They started it.</li><li>Once people commit themselves to an opinion about Who started this?, whatever the this may be—a family quarrel or an international conflict—they become less able to accept information that is dissonant with their position.</li><li>Once they have decided who the perpetrator is and who the victim is, their ability to empathize with the other side is weakened, even destroyed.</li><li>We can all understand why victims would want to retaliate. But retaliation often makes the original perpetrator minimize the severity and harm of its side&#x27;s actions and also claim the mantle of victim, thereby setting in motion a cycle of oppression and revenge.</li></ul><p>Truth and Reconciliation</p><ul><li>Mediators and negotiators therefore have two challenging tasks: to require perpetrators to acknowledge and atone for the harm they caused; and to require victims to relinquish the impulse for revenge while helping them feel validated in the harm they have suffered.</li><li>For example, in their work with married couples in which one partner had deeply hurt or betrayed the other, clinical psychologists Andrew Christensen and Neil Jacobson described three possible ways out of the emotional impasse. In the first, the perpetrator unilaterally puts aside his or her own feelings and, realizing that the victim&#x27;s anger masks enormous suffering, responds to that suffering with genuine remorse and apology.</li><li>In the second, the victim unilaterally lets go of his or her repeated, angry accusations—after all, the point has been made—and expresses pain rather than anger, a response that may make the perpetrator more empathic and caring rather than defensive. Either one of these actions, if taken unilaterally, is difficult and for many people impossible, Christensen and Jacobson say. The third way, they suggest, is the hardest but most hopeful for a long-term resolution of the conflict: Both sides drop their self-justifications and agree on steps they can take together to move forward. If it is only the perpetrator who apologizes and tries to atone, it may not be done honestly or in a way that assuages and gives closure to the victim&#x27;s suffering. But if it is only the victim who lets go and forgives, the perpetrator may have no incentive to change, and therefore may continue behaving unfairly or callously.</li><li>Christensen and Jacobson were speaking of two individuals in conflict. But their analysis, in our view, applies to group conflicts as well, where the third way is not merely the best way; it is the only way.</li><li>Virtually the first act of the new democracy was the establishment of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, chaired by Archbishop Desmond Tutu. (Three other commissions, on human rights violations, amnesty, and reparation and rehabilitation, were also created.) The goal of the TRC was to give victims of brutality a forum where their accounts would be heard and vindicated, where their dignity and sense of justice would be restored, and where they could express their grievances in front of the perpetrators themselves. In exchange for amnesty, the perpetrators had to drop their denials, evasions, and self-justifications and admit the harm they had done, including torture and murder. The commission emphasized the need for understanding but not for vengeance, a need for reparation but not for retaliation, a need for ubuntu [humanity toward others] but not for victimization.</li><li>The goals of the TRC were inspiring, if not entirely honored in practice. The commission produced grumbling, mockery, protests, and anger.</li><li>Understanding without vengeance, reparation without retaliation, are possible only if we are willing to stop justifying our own position.</li></ul><p>Chapter Summary</p><ul><li>To resolve a conflict, both sides must drop their self-justifications: the perpetrator must honestly apologize and try to atone, the victim must let go and forgive.</li><li>Together, they must agree on steps they can take to move forward.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8</strong></h5><p>Letting Go and Owning Up</p><ul><li>If letting go of self-justification and admitting mistakes is so beneficial to the mind and relationships, why aren&#x27;t more of us doing it? If we are so grateful to others when they do it, why don&#x27;t we do it more often? First, we don&#x27;t do it because, as we have seen, most of the time we aren&#x27;t even aware that we need to. Self-justification purrs along automatically, just beneath consciousness, protecting us from the dissonant realization that we did anything wrong.</li><li>Second, America is a mistake-phobic culture, one that links mistakes with incompetence and stupidity. So even when people are aware of having made a mistake, they are often reluctant to admit it, even to themselves, because they take it as evidence that they are a blithering idiot. If we really want more people to take responsibility for their mistakes and then strive to correct them, we need to overcome these two impediments.</li><li>As we have tracked the trail of self-justification through the territories of family, memory, therapy, law, prejudice, conflict, and war, two lessons from dissonance theory emerge: First, the ability to reduce dissonance helps us in countless ways, preserving our beliefs, confidence, decisions, self-esteem, and well-being. Second, this ability can get us into big trouble. People will pursue self-destructive courses of action to protect the wisdom of their initial decisions. They will treat people they have hurt even more harshly, because they convince themselves that their victims deserve it. They will cling to outdated and sometimes harmful procedures in their work.</li></ul><p>Living with Dissonance</p><ul><li>Perhaps the greatest lesson of dissonance theory is that we can&#x27;t wait around for people to have moral conversions, personality transplants, sudden changes of heart, or new insights that will cause them to sit up straight, admit error, and do the right thing</li><li>The ultimate correction for the tunnel vision that afflicts all of us mortals is more light. Because most of us are not self-correcting and because our blind spots keep us from knowing that we need to be, external procedures must be in place to correct the errors that human beings will inevitably make and to reduce the chances of future ones.</li><li>Few organizations, however, welcome outside supervision and correction. If those in power prefer to maintain their blind spots at all costs, then impartial review boards must improve their vision, against their will, if it comes to that.</li><li>But what are we supposed to do in our everyday lives?</li><li>In our private relationships, we are on our own, and that calls for some self-awareness. Once we understand how and when we need to reduce dissonance, we can become more vigilant about the process and often nip it in the bud; like Oprah, we can catch ourselves before we slide too far down the pyramid. By looking at our actions critically and dispassionately, as if we were observing someone else, we stand a chance of breaking out of the cycle of action followed by self-justification, followed by more committed action.</li><li>We can learn to put a little space between what we feel and how we respond, insert a moment of reflection, and think about whether we really want to buy that canoe in January, really want to send good money after bad, really want to hold on to a belief that is unfettered by facts. We might even change our minds before our brains freeze our thoughts into consistent patterns.</li><li>Becoming aware that we are in a state of dissonance can help us make sharper, smarter, conscious choices instead of letting automatic, self-protective mechanisms resolve our discomfort in our favor.</li><li>The goal is to become aware of the two dissonant cognitions that are causing distress and find a way to resolve them constructively, or, when we can&#x27;t, learn to live with them.</li><li>Confidence is a fine and useful quality; none of us would want a physician who was forever wallowing in uncertainty and couldn&#x27;t decide how to treat our illness, but we do want one who is open-minded and willing to learn. Nor would most of us wish to live without passions or convictions, which give our lives meaning and color, energy and hope. But the unbending need to be right inevitably produces self-righteousness. When confidence and convictions are unleavened by humility, by an acceptance of fallibility, people can easily cross the line from healthy self-assurance to arrogance.</li><li>All of us have hard decisions to make at times in our lives; not all of them will be right, and not all of them will be wise. Some are complicated, with consequences we could never have foreseen. If we can resist the temptation to justify our actions in a rigid, overconfident way, we can leave the door open to empathy and an appreciation of life&#x27;s complexity, including the possibility that what was right for us might not have been right for others.</li></ul><p>Mistakes Were Made—by Me</p><ul><li>Most Americans know they are supposed to say we learn from our mistakes, but deep down, they don&#x27;t believe it for a minute. They think that mistakes mean you are stupid</li><li>One lamentable consequence of the belief that mistakes equal stupidity is that when people do make a mistake, they don&#x27;t learn from it.</li><li>Therefore, says Pratkanis, before a victim of a scam will inch back from the precipice, he or she needs to feel respected and supported. Helpful relatives can encourage the person to talk about his or her values and how those values influenced what happened, while they listen uncritically.</li><li>Instead of irritably asking &quot;How could you possibly have believed that creep?&quot; you say Tell me what appealed to you about the guy that made you believe him. Con artists take advantage of people&#x27;s best qualities—their kindness, politeness, and their desire to honor their commitments, reciprocate a gift, or help a friend. Praising the victim for having these worthy values, says Pratkanis, even if they got the person into hot water in this particular situation, will offset feelings of insecurity and incompetence. It&#x27;s another form of Peres&#x27;s third way: Articulate the cognitions and keep them separate. When I, a decent, smart person, make a mistake, I remain a decent, smart person and the mistake remains a mistake. Now, how do I remedy what I did?</li><li>Our culture exacts a great cost psychologically for making a mistake, Stigler recalled, whereas in Japan, it doesn&#x27;t seem to be that way. In Japan, mistakes, error, confusion [are] all just a natural part of the learning process.</li><li>The researchers also found that American parents, teachers, and children were far more likely than their Japanese and Chinese counterparts to believe that mathematical ability is innate; if you have it, you don&#x27;t have to work hard, and if you don&#x27;t have it, there&#x27;s no point in trying. In contrast, most Asians regard math success, like achievement in any other domain, as a matter of persistence and plain hard work. Of course you will make mistakes as you go along; that&#x27;s how you learn and improve. It doesn&#x27;t mean you are stupid.</li><li>The focus on constant testing, which grew out of the reasonable desire to measure and standardize children&#x27;s accomplishments, has intensified their fear of failure. It is certainly important for children to learn to succeed; but it is just as important for them to learn not to fear failure. When children or adults fear failure, they fear risk. They can&#x27;t afford to be wrong.</li><li>There is another powerful reason that American children fear being wrong: They worry that making mistakes reflects on their inherent abilities.</li><li>Children who, like their Asian counterparts, are praised for their efforts, even when they don&#x27;t get it at first, eventually perform better and like what they are learning more than children praised for their natural abilities. They are also more likely to regard mistakes and criticism as useful information that will help them improve. In contrast, children praised for their natural ability learn to care more about how competent they look to others than about what they are actually learning. They become defensive about not doing well or about making mistakes, and this sets them up for a self-defeating cycle: If they don&#x27;t do well, then to resolve the ensuing dissonance (I&#x27;m smart and yet I screwed up), they simply lose interest in what they are learning or studying (I could do it if I wanted to, but I don&#x27;t want to). When these kids grow up, they will be the kind of adults who are afraid of making mistakes or taking responsibility for them, because that would be evidence that they are not naturally smart after all.</li></ul><p>Chapter Summary</p><ul><li>We must strive to take self-justification into account in our lives and relationships to prevent sliding down the pyramid and continuously justifying our actions, and then taking further action on those justifications.</li><li>Our mistake-phobic culture, or equating stupidity with mistakes, causes people not to learn from their mistakes.</li><li>To help others do this, we must encourage mistakes, confusion, and hard work as part of the learning process, and reward those who push through learning challenges, particularly in children.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I’m a big fan of Ryan Holiday in general, and this book is another good one.Generally an instruction manual for exactly what the title says: “Making and Marketing Work that Lasts”.  It’s one of his most actionable books, going into detail about the pre-, during and post-process of creating great work.  Some of the most interesting parts of the book for me:The creative process is one that meanders, develops and evolves over time. There’s no “lightning strike”, but rather “to make genius - you just have to have small moments of brilliance and edit out the boring stuff.”The best way he suggests resonating with your audience is identifying a “proxy” from the outset, someone who represents your ideal audience, and then think about them throughout the creative process.Suggested price to create a perennial seller? “As cheap as possible without damaging the perception of your product.”“Create word of mouth.”Definitely worth reading for any entrepreneurs, creators or artists alike.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favorite Quotes</h3><ul><li>The difference between a great work and an idea for a great work is all the sweat, time, effort, and agony that go into engaging that idea and turning it into something real.</li><li>“Lots of people,” as the poet and artist Austin Kleon puts it, “want to be the noun without doing the verb.”</li><li>Art is the kind of marathon where you cross the finish line and instead of getting a medal placed around your neck, the volunteers roughly grab you by the shoulders and walk you over to the starting line of another marathon.</li><li>A book should be an article before it’s a book, and a dinner conversation before it’s an article.</li><li>“Either you’re controversial,” as the perpetually controversial writer Elizabeth Wurtzel advises creatives, “or nothing at all is happening.”</li><li>Nothing has sunk more creators and caused more unhappiness than this: our inherently human tendency to pursue a strategy aimed at accomplishing one goal while simultaneously expecting to achieve other goals entirely unrelated.</li><li>The most newsworthy thing to do is usually the one you’re most afraid of.</li></ul><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><h5>INTRODUCTION</h5><ul><li>In other words, classics stay classic and become more so over time. Think of it as compound interest for creative work.</li><li>What if we start by just trying to make something that lasts longer than average?</li></ul><p>This book examines every part of the process from the creative act to creating a legacy. It will teach you:</p><ul><li>How to make something that can stand the test of time</li><li>How to perfect, position, and package that idea into a compelling offering that stands the test of time</li><li>How to develop marketing channels that stand the test of time</li><li>How to capture an audience and build a platform that stands the test of time</li></ul><h5>Part I: THE CREATIVE PROCESS: From the Mindset to the Making to the Magic</h5><ul><li>To be great, one must make great work, and making great work is incredibly hard. It must be our primary focus. We must set out, from the beginning, with complete and total commitment to the idea that our best chance of success starts during the creative process.</li><li>It’s why all the pre-work matters so much. The conceptualization. The motivations. The product’s fit with the market. The execution. These intangible factors matter a great deal. They cannot be skipped.</li><li>Above all, they have to want to produce meaningful work—which, I can say from experience, is often not the goal of the people in the creative space.</li><li>The difference between a great work and an idea for a great work is all the sweat, time, effort, and agony that go into engaging that idea and turning it into something real.</li><li>“Lots of people,” as the poet and artist Austin Kleon puts it, “want to be the noun without doing the verb.”</li><li>Why Create?</li><li>You must have a reason— a purpose— for why you want the outcome and why you’re willing to do the work to get it.</li><li>That purpose can be almost anything, but it has to be there.</li></ul><p>Here are some good ones:</p><ul><li>Because there is a truth that has gone unsaid for too long.</li><li>Because you’ve burned the bridges behind you.</li><li>Because your family depends on it.</li><li>Because the world will be better for it.</li><li>Because the old way is broken.</li><li>Because it’s a once-in-a-lifetime moment.</li><li>Because it will help a lot of people.</li><li>Because you want to capture something meaningful.</li><li>Because the excitement you feel cannot be contained.</li><li>These are the states of being that create great works of art— not passing or partial interest— and these are the states you should be seeking out.</li></ul><p>In the course of creating your work, you are going to be forced to ask yourself: What am I willing to sacrifice in order to do it? Will I give up X, Y, Z? A willingness to trade off something— time, comfort, easy money, recognition— lies at the heart of every great work.</p><ul><li>Sometimes more, sometimes less, but always a significant sacrifice that needs to happen. If it didn’t, everyone would do it.</li><li>Art is the kind of marathon where you cross the finish line and instead of getting a medal placed around your neck, the volunteers roughly grab you by the shoulders and walk you over to the starting line of another marathon.</li><li>Art can’t be hurried. It must be allowed to take its course.</li><li>A truly successful band, or filmmaker, or entrepreneur— one whose career lasts decades— must think bigger and more long term than that.</li><li>Indeed, many studies have confirmed that creativity isn’t like a lightning strike. A creative work usually starts with an idea that seems to have potential and then evolves with work and interaction into something more.</li><li>Creative people naturally produce false positives.</li><li>The key is to catch them early. And the only way to do that is by doing the work at least partly in front of an audience.</li><li>A book should be an article before it’s a book, and a dinner conversation before it’s an article.</li><li>You don’t have to be a genius to make genius— you just have to have small moments of brilliance and edit out the boring stuff.</li><li>How we put this into practice is simple:</li></ul><p>Ask questions.</p><ul><li>How can I give people a sample of what I’m thinking?</li><li>How does the idea resonate in conversation?</li><li>What does an online audience think of it?</li><li>What does a poll of your friends reveal?</li></ul><p>These might seem like small questions in the face of a big task like creating a classic work that lasts— but classics are built by thousands of small acts.</p><ul><li>Focusing on smaller, progressive parts of the work also eliminates the tendency to sit on your ass and dream indefinitely.</li><li>An audience isn’t a target that you happen to bump into; instead, it must be explicitly scoped and sighted in. It must be chosen.</li><li>Successfully finding and “scratching” a niche requires asking and answering a question that very few creators seem to do: Who is this thing for?</li><li>For any project, you must know what you are doing— and what you are not doing. You must also know who you are doing it for— and who you are not doing it for— to be able to say: THIS and for THESE PEOPLE.</li><li>Let’s be clear: You can’t afford to wait until after it’s finished to figure out who what you’re making is for. Why? Because too often the answer turns out to be: no one.</li><li>The best way I’ve found to avoid missing your target— any target— entirely is to identify a proxy from the outset, someone who represents your ideal audience, who you then think about constantly throughout the creative process.</li><li>Just as we should ask “Who is this for?” we must also ask “What does this do?” A critical test of any product: Does it have a purpose? Does it add value to the world? How will it improve the lives of the people who buy it?</li><li>the key to success in nonfiction was that the work should be either “very entertaining” or “extremely practical.”</li><li>You want what you’re making to do something for people, to help them do something— and have that be why they will talk about it and tell other people about it.</li><li>The bigger and more painful the problem you solve, the better its cultural hook, and the more important and more lucrative your attempt to address it can be.</li></ul><p>So the creator of any project should try to answer some variant of these questions:</p><ul><li>What does this teach?</li><li>What does this solve?</li><li>How am I entertaining?</li><li>What am I giving?</li><li>What are we offering?</li><li>What are we sharing?</li><li>Srinivas Rao, “Only is better than best.” (Try to be the only one who is doing what you’re doing)</li><li>The higher and more exciting standard for every project should force you to ask questions like this:</li></ul><p>What sacred cows am I slaying?</p><ul><li>What dominant institution am I displacing?</li><li>What groups am I disrupting?</li><li>What people am I pissing off?</li><li>“Either you’re controversial,” as the perpetually controversial writer Elizabeth Wurtzel advises creatives, “or nothing at all is happening.”</li><li>The point is that you cannot violate every single convention simultaneously, nor should you do it simply for its own sake.</li><li>So we ask ourselves: Why are things the way they are? What practices should be questioned and which should remain sound?</li><li>I’ve come to realize that these are the tracking signs of a work that lasts. You want to provoke a reaction— it’s a sign you’re forging ahead.</li><li>Our goal here is to make something that people rave about, that becomes part of their lives. The buried insights found in those other great works were not put there on the first pass. Work is unlikely to be layered if it is written in a single stream of consciousness. No. Deep, complex work is built through a relentless, repetitive process of revisitation.</li><li>A master is painstakingly obsessed with the details.</li><li>The more nervous and scared you are— the more you feel compelled to go back and improve and tweak because you’re just not ready— the better it bodes for the project.</li></ul><h5>Part II: POSITIONING: From Polishing to Perfecting to Packaging</h5><ul><li>Audiences can’t magically know what is inside something they haven’t seen. They have no clue that it will change their lives.</li><li>Once you understand that this project’s chances of success or failure rest entirely on you, you must undertake a paradoxical and difficult task: finding and submitting your work to the feedback of a trusted outside voice (or, in some cases, voices).</li><li>Nobody creates flawless first drafts. And nobody creates better second drafts without the intervention of someone else. Nobody.</li><li>Put the website or the beta version of your app or your manuscript aside and grab a piece of paper or open a blank Word document. Then, with fresh eyes, attempt to write out exactly what your project is supposed to be and to do in . . .</li><li>One sentence.</li><li>One paragraph.</li><li>One page.</li><li>This is a ______ that does ______. This helps people ______.</li><li>Fill in this template at the three varying lengths.</li><li>“Everything that has a clear path to commercial success is in a genre.” - Seth Godin</li><li>This is why creators must know which variable( s) the project will hinge on. They must know which conventions of the genre they are observing and which ones they are taking a risk on by tweaking or subverting.</li><li>The most important part of the process is comparing the results of the exercise against the product we’ve made.</li><li>Too rarely, creators forget to consciously stop and compare their first attempt against their goal.</li><li>You must be able to explicitly say who you are building your thing for. You must know what you are aiming for— you’ll miss otherwise. You need to know this so you can make the decisions that go into properly positioning the project for them.</li><li>You need to know this so you can edit and refine the work until it’s so utterly awesome that your target group cannot resist buying it.</li><li>Marketing then becomes a matter of finding where those people are and figuring out the best way to reach them.</li><li>Regardless, you must start somewhere— ideally somewhere quantifiable. By which I mean: Who is buying the first one thousand copies of this thing? Who is coming in on the first day? Who is going to claim our first block of available dates? Who is buying our first production run?</li><li>Today, in order to even have a chance at people’s attention, your project has to seem as good as or better than all the others. Three critical variables determine whether that will happen: the Positioning, the Packaging and the Pitch.</li><li>Positioning is what your project is and who it is for.</li><li>Packaging is what it looks like and what it’s called.</li><li>The Pitch is the sell— how the project is described and what it offers to the audience.</li><li>At some point in every project I work on, I find myself recommending that the creator take the time to consult the book The 22 Immutable Laws of Marketing.</li><li>At some point in the near future (the third section of this book), you’re going to have to describe to other human beings what this project is in an exciting and compelling way. You’re going to need to explain to reporters, prospective buyers or investors, publishers, and your own fans: Who this is for Who this is not for Why it is special What it will do for them Why anyone should care</li><li>What is it that you want? What is truly motivating you? What are you trying to accomplish with this project? The answer should be clear by now: I am making a ______ that does ______ for ______ because ______.</li><li>There are many different missions. Whatever yours is, it must be defined and articulated. Once that has occurred, there is one last thing you must do. You must deliberately forsake all other missions.</li><li>Nothing has sunk more creators and caused more unhappiness than this: our inherently human tendency to pursue a strategy aimed at accomplishing one goal while simultaneously expecting to achieve other goals entirely unrelated.</li><li>With a perennial seller as your goal, the track is clear: lasting impact and relevance.</li><li>“Selling out” is the label that so many creatives are afraid of being branded with. That’s absurd— as though there were some single standard of what artistic credibility and audience should be.</li><li>Perhaps to you success is a RAV4, whereas to someone else it’s a Bentley. I bought my wife a RAV4 with the income from my books. I like to drive it sometimes. It’s actually pretty nice. You know what that says about my work? Absolutely nothing. It’s a car.</li><li>You cannot expect to sell unless you’ve put the work in and made the sacrifices and decisions that allow success to happen. You have to be ready for what comes next: the real marathon that is marketing.</li></ul><h5>Part III: MARKETING: From Courting to Coverage, Pushing to Promotion</h5><ul><li>Marketing is anything that gets or keeps customers.</li><li>To have work that lasts, you can’t have a mediocre product or be a moron. You have to be brilliant at all of it.</li><li>“[Each project] needs somebody who says, ‘I am going to make this succeed,’ and then goes to work on it.” - Peter Drucker</li><li>That must be you. Marketing is your job. It can’t be passed on to someone else.</li><li>While marketing is a job and it’s your job, it’s also a fun and worthwhile job. You’re selling something you believe in, that you’re invested in, and that you know people will like.</li><li>Accepting your own insignificance might not seem like an inspiring mantra to kick off a marketing campaign, but it makes a big difference.</li><li>I remind myself: People are busy. They have no idea why they should care about this thing.</li><li>The only way the job will get done— to make people care— is if we do it ourselves.</li><li>Guess what? A sense of entitlement is not how you’re going to reach them. Hunger and humility make the difference.</li><li>We discover things by word of mouth.</li><li>These are all organic, natural recommendations of products or ideas— and they are, without question, the single most powerful force in the life of a product.</li><li>No one has the steam or the resources to actively market something for more than a short period of time, so if a product is going to sell forever, it must have strong word of mouth. It must drive its own adoption. Over the long haul, this is the only thing that lasts.</li><li>A product that doesn’t have word of mouth will eventually cease to exist as far as the general public is concerned. Anything that requires advertising to survive will— on a long enough timeline— cease to be economically feasible.</li><li>Our marketing efforts, then, should be catalysts for word of mouth. We are trying to create the spark that leads to a fire.</li><li>From a marketing perspective, a proper launch is essential— much more than simply picking a random day to go live.</li><li>Yes, “launch windows” are artificial. But just because something is constructed, as I once heard a wise person say, that doesn’t mean it isn’t important.</li><li>The component parts of a launch— media, relationships, influencers, advertising, creating content— all take time and effort.</li></ul><p>What Do We Have to Work With?</p><p>Other than the “when,” the most important part of a launch is the “what”— as in: What are we working with here?</p><p>Stuff like:</p><ul><li>Relationships (personal, professional, familial, or otherwise)</li><li>Media contacts</li><li>Research or information from past launches of similar products (what worked, what didn’t, what to do, what not to do)</li><li>Favors they’re owed</li><li>Potential advertising budget</li><li>Resources or allies (“ This blogger is really passionate about [insert some theme or connection related to what you’re launching].”)</li><li>It is essential to take the time to sit down and make a list of everything you have and are willing to bring to bear on the marketing of a project.</li><li>Regardless of the tools used, though, what you’re saying is the same:</li><li>Hey, as many of you know, I have been working on ______ for a long time. It’s a ______ that does ______ for ______. I could really use your help. If you’re in the media or have an audience or you have any ideas or connections or assets that might be valuable when I launch this thing, I would be eternally grateful. Just tell me who you are, what you’re willing to offer, what it might be good for, and how to be in touch.</li><li>For books, the free strategy is possible in a variety of iterations. Authors can give away whole chapters, excerpts as articles, or a free preview— or they can give the whole thing away for free to a select audience, or have events or sponsors buy copies that are in turn given away for free.</li><li>Today, smart creators realize that the bigger the audience they can reach with their music, the better.</li><li>We have to get them hooked somehow, and free is often the best way to do it.</li><li>humor writer George Ouzounian, also known as Maddox from <a href="http://thebestpageintheuniverse.com/">TheBestPageintheUniverse.com</a>, has given away almost 100 percent of his writing for free— without ads—</li><li>It’s quite rare where “free” is a strategy that works indefinitely. This is business, after all.</li><li>The question, then, is: What is the right price to create a perennial seller? This is going to be controversial, but my answer is: as cheap as possible without damaging the perception of your product.</li><li>The reason for this is that a classic of any kind has two characteristics: 1) It’s good, and 2) it has been consumed by a lot of people (relatively, at least). One of the best ways to build a readership, viewership, listenership, user base, or customer base early on is by making it cheap.</li><li>As a general rule, however, the more accessible you can make your product, the easier it will be to market.</li><li>You can always raise the price later, after you’ve built an audience.</li><li>When a real person, a real human being whom others trust, says “This is good,” it has an effect that no brand, no ad, no faceless institution can match.</li><li>Most endorsements are organic, accidental even. The question is: How do we draw influencers to our work and increase our chances of it happening to us? How do we increase the odds for these accidents?</li><li>The first step is the hardest: making something really awesome that exceeds the expectations even of busy, important people with exacting taste.</li><li>There is no fiercer battle for attention than here, with influencers (and no one with higher standards).</li><li>Creators often forget that— that influencers are typically hyperfans (Carson was a comedian; he loved comedy), and their continued success depends on being seen as tastemakers and leaders.</li><li>What’s the best way to ask someone to endorse or share your work? Trick question. The best way is not to ask.</li><li>One of the best ways I found to connect with people was very simple: I’d notice who was already wearing our clothes or wearing similar products. I’d email them to say hello and invite them to the factory and give them personal tours (something other companies couldn’t do). I’d send them nice emails and free products.</li><li>Think relationship first, transaction second.</li><li>I’ve always found that a critical part of attracting influencers is to look for the people who aren’t besieged by requests.</li><li>In my experience, the most effective use of influencer attention is not simply in driving people to check you out, but instead as a display of social proof.</li><li>Social proof sells. The perennial seller acquires it by being legit, and then comes up with interesting ways to use it to their advantage.</li><li>In my experience, almost everyone— from brands to artists— overestimates the value of traditional PR.</li><li>The question is whether press is usually an effect of a really good and popular thing or the cause of its goodness or popularity.</li><li>While the media might not necessarily convince customers, it definitely helps with recruiting investors and employees and impressing other important gatekeepers.</li><li>Still, this signaling is worth only so much— and it’s rarely worth more than other, more effective marketing techniques like discounting or personalized outreach.</li></ul><p>OK, I Still Want to Get Press</p><ul><li>If you are going to pursue a press-centric strategy, please listen to my advice on this: Start small.</li><li>Instead, you will have more success with PR if you treat it the same way you treated your product design: Identify your core audience and start there.</li><li>In this way, the modern media is really a seller’s market. Reporters want stuff.</li><li>At the most basic level, my only strategy for finding and getting media is straightforward. I google reporters’ names to find their email addresses and phone numbers (yes, they’re publicly available). Then I reach out and explain what I’m doing or what I’ve done. I let the work and the fact that it matches what they cover— that it’s interesting and compelling, and likely to do well for them— do most of the talking for me. (I don’t assume it should be interesting to them because it’s interesting to me. I make it interesting, period.) There’s no real trick to it other than that. Nor does there need to be. If there is a secret to media, it is in the work you’ve made— in the risks you take and the things you do.</li><li>The most newsworthy thing to do is usually the one you’re most afraid of.</li><li>There is another way to attract earned media: a technique called “newsjacking,” popularized by the marketing thinker David Meerman Scott. He defines the concept as “the process by which you inject your ideas or angles into breaking news, in real time, in order to generate media coverage for yourself or your business.”</li><li>I’ve bought quite a lot of it over the years (at least $20 million worth on behalf of clients), but as an effective tool for the launch of a product, advertising almost never works. It’s far more effective when there is already a considerable audience or sales track record.</li><li>A rational, efficient advertising campaign involves two key things: knowing how much a customer is worth to you (or a customer’s LTV— lifetime value) and knowing how much it will cost to acquire that customer via the advertising you intend to use (or CPA— cost per acquisition).</li><li>The other reason that advertising isn’t an option for a lot of projects is that the real data required to answer the above questions is rarely available when launching something new.</li><li>When you do something unexpected or surprising, it almost always does better than going dollar for dollar against advertisers, who spend millions of dollars a year like it’s nothing</li><li>Creative advertising is probably the least competitive sector of advertising, because most brands either aren’t creative or are afraid to be.</li><li>The fact is, humor and levity will probably do more for your brand over the long term than trying to beat people over the head with brilliantly effective advertising copy. So if you are going to advertise— if you have determined that it is wiser to spend a dollar there than on anything else you might do— then at least make sure you have a good time and that your audience has one too.</li><li>It is true for marketing, just as it is for life. Principles are better than instructions and “hacks.”</li><li>When it comes to creating a perennial seller, the principle to never lose sight of is simple: Create word of mouth.</li><li>The best strategy is to try everything and see what works for your project— because it’s going to be different for every single project. When you find something, stick with it.</li><li>Marketing is the art of allocating resources— sending more power to the wheels that are getting traction, sending it away from the ones that are spinning. And investing in each strategy until the results stop working. Then find the next one!</li></ul><h5>Part IV: PLATFORM: From Fans to Friends and a Full-Fledged Career</h5><ul><li>In my definition, a platform is the combination of the tools, relationships, access, and audience that you have to bring to bear on spreading your creative work— not just once, but over the course of a career.</li><li>The ability to access and draw on our assets— whether they are social media or an email list or a phone call to a loyal ally or simply a popular body of work— is what makes an artist successful over the long term.</li><li>list, and it shouldn’t take the threat of being frozen out to get one started. Ideally, an email list is something you build up over the years, comprised of real, hard-core fans who know the real story about you and are never going to abandon you as long as what you make continues to be good. Right now, as of this writing, it’s the single most important and effective way to communicate with your potential audience and customers.</li></ul><p>The best way to create a list is to provide incredible amounts of value. Here are some strategies to help you do that:</p><ul><li>Give something away for free as an incentive. (Maybe it’s a guide, an article, an excerpt from your book, a coupon for a discount, etc.)</li><li>Create a gate. (There used to be a Facebook tool that allowed musicians to give away a free song in exchange for a Facebook like or share— that’s a gate. BitTorrent does the same thing with its Bundles— some of the content is free, and if you want the rest of it, you’ve got to fork over an email address.)</li><li>Use pop-ups. (You’re browsing a site and liking what you see and BOOM a little window pops up and asks if you want to subscribe. I put such pop-ups at the back of all my books.)</li><li>Do things by hand. (I once saw an author pass around a clipboard and a sign-up sheet at the end of a talk. It was old-school, but it worked. Also, at the back of my books I tell people to email me if they want to sign up, and then I sign them up by hand.)</li><li>Run sweepstakes or contests. (Why do you think the lunch place by your office has a fishbowl for business cards? Those cards have phone numbers and email addresses. They give away a sandwich once a week and get hundreds of subscribers in return.)</li><li>Do a swap. (One person with a list recommends that their readers sign up for yours; you email your fans for theirs.)</li><li>Promise a service. (The last one is the simplest and most important. What does your list do for people? Promise something worth subscribing to and you’ll have great success.)</li></ul><p>There is a second kind of “list” that matters just as much as the list I’ve been describing: your list of contacts, relationships, and influencers. Build success by building your network:</p><p>Some of Tim’s strategies:</p><ul><li>Never dismiss anyone— You never know who might help you one day with your work. His rule was to treat everyone like they could put you on the front page of the New York Times . . . because someday you might meet that person.</li><li>Play the long game— It’s not about finding someone who can help you right this second. It’s about establishing a relationship that can one day benefit both of you.</li><li>Focus on “pre-VIPs”— The people who aren’t well known but should be and will be.</li><li>Networking is not going to networking events and handing out business cards— that’s flyering. It is instead about forming, developing, and maintaining real relationships. It’s about being valuable and being available so that one day the favor might be returned.</li><li>Relationships Are a Platform Too</li><li>Developing the right relationships with the right people is the long game. This is how legacies are made and preserved.</li><li>If you see your career and your relationships as investments— if you give and help and build long before you ever need anything, if you continue doing great work over the long term— you’ll find that sometimes you won’t even need to ask for support.</li><li>The Most Important Relationship</li><li>While relationships with the “in crowd” matter and they help create an enduring career, nothing you build will last very long without the most important relationship of all: the one you have with your fans.</li></ul><p>Build a Body of Work:</p><ul><li>More great work is the best way to market yourself.</li><li>In fact, creating more work is one of the most effective marketing techniques of all.</li><li>The best way to become an author is to write more books, just as a true entrepreneur starts more than one business.</li><li>Very few of us can afford to abandon our gift after our first attempt, convinced that our legacy is secured.* Nor should we. We should prove to the world and to ourselves that we can do it again . . . and again.</li></ul><p>Reach Out to New Fans</p><ul><li>One of the things all creatives must do during their downtime is explore new ways of reaching new fans.</li><li>Choose never to become so settled into a rut or routine or type that you are constrained by it.</li><li>Everyone should know who their detractors are and rile them up every once in a while just for fun.</li></ul><p>Build an Empire:</p><p>Some questions to ask yourself:</p><ul><li>What are new areas that my expertise or audience would be valuable in?</li><li>(Think of celebrities investing in companies or starting their own.)</li><li>Is it possible to cut out the middleman like a label or a VC and invest in myself?</li><li>(Like when musicians buy back their masters or authors get their rights reverted.)</li><li>Can I help other artists or creatives achieve what I have achieved?</li><li>(Be a consultant, coach, or publisher/label head/producer.)</li><li>What are other people in my field afraid to do? What do they look down on?</li><li>(You never know what can happen.)</li><li>What can I do to make sure that I am not dependent on a single income stream?</li><li>(You never know what can happen.)</li><li>If I took a break from creating, what would I do instead?</li><li>(Maybe there is some long-lost passion to rekindle.)</li><li>What are the parts of the experience or community surrounding my work that I can improve or grow?</li><li>(Live events, conferences, memberships, personalized products, etc.)</li><li>Most important, the great fear that this will somehow be a distraction or will take away from his production has not come to pass. Nor is it the case for the most successful multidisciplinary creators.</li></ul><p>One Last Thing</p><ul><li>To do our work without a platform is to be at the mercy of other people’s permission. Someone else must fund us, someone else must give us the green light, someone else must choose to let us make our work. To a creative person, that is death.</li><li>So don’t wait. Build your platform now. Build it before your first great perennial seller comes out, so that you have a better chance of actually turning it into one.</li></ul><h5>CONCLUSION: What’s Luck Got to Do with It?</h5><ul><li>In the first half, we focused on the standards for our products and projects. Making sure that we made something that put us within striking distance of the top— something close to the best in class for our field. We checked and rechecked and prepared ourselves.</li><li>The second half was about actually attempting that trip to the summit. It was about making our best effort on the ascent, knowing that there are no guarantees. Knowing that we’ll need the right weather conditions and timely breaks to make it. How long it takes, how far we might get remains to be seen. But we’re going to try— because that’s who we are. This is what we do.</li><li>“It feels nice for a moment, then surreal, then back to work.” - Craig Newmark (on knowing that he created something to be used by millions of people, that was going strong after twenty years)</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The book details the journey of self-discovery of a man named Siddhartha during the time of the Buddha. Siddhartha seeks different experiences in life, and learns more about himself and the world as he does so. I read Siddhartha in high school, and it’s one of my favourite books. The universal theme is relevant for all, and I discover something new each time I read it. It is short, and there’s always more to learn about the underlying themes, which are built upon teachings of both Hindu and Buddhist texts.  I re-read it at least once a year.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><ul><li>Govinda said: “We have learned much, Siddhartha. There still remains much to learn. We are not going in circles, we are going upwards. The path is a spiral; we have already climbed many steps.&quot; </li><li>He did not seek reality; his goal was no on any other side. The world was beautiful when looked at in this way - without any seeking, so simple, so childlike. </li><li>“I possess nothing,” said Siddhartha, “if that is what you mean. I am certainly without possessions, but of my own free will, so I am not in need.&quot; </li><li>“I can think, I can wait, I can fast.” “Is that all?” “I think that is all.” “And of what use are they? For example, fasting, what good is that?” “It is of great value, sir. If a man has nothing to eat, fasting is the most intelligent thing he can do. If, for instance, Siddhartha had not learned to fast, he would have had to seek some kind of work today, either with you, or elsewhere, for hunger would have driven him. But as it is, Siddhartha can wait calmly. He is not impatient, he is not in need, he can ward off hunger for a long time and laugh at it. Therefore, fasting is useful, sir.&quot; </li><li>“Writing is good, thinking is better. Cleverness is good, patience is better.&quot; </li><li>&quot;He always seems to be playing at business, it never makes much impression on him, it never masters him, he never fears failure, he is never worried about a loss.&quot; </li><li>He visited the beautiful Kamala regularly, learned the art of love in which, more than anything else, giving and taking become one. </li><li>The world had caught him; pleasure, covetousness, idleness, and finally also that vice that he had always despised and scorned as the most foolish - acquisitiveness. Property, possessions and riches had also finally trapped him. They were no longer a game and a toy; they had become a chain and a burden. </li><li>Siddhartha said: “It is the same with me as it is with you, my friend. I am not going anywhere. I am only on the way.&quot; </li><li>Too much knowledge had hindered him…too much doing and striving. He had been full of arrogance; he had always been the cleverest, the most eager - always a step ahed of the others, always the learned and intellectual one, always the priest or the sage. His Self had crawled into this priesthood, into this arrogance, into this intellectuality. </li><li>It was one of the ferryman’s greatest virtues that, like few people, he knew how to listen. He did not away anything with impatience and gave neither praise nor blame - he only listened. </li><li>Above all, he learned from it how to listen, to listen with a still heart, with a waiting, open soul, without passion, without desire, without judgement, without opinions. </li><li>I came to distrust doctrines and teachers and to turn my back on them. I am still of the same turn of mind, although I have, since that time, had many teachers. </li><li>&quot;Wisdom is not communicable. The wisdom which a wise man tries to communicate always sounds foolish.&quot; </li><li>“Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, be fortified by it, do wonders through it, but one cannot communicate and teach it.&quot; </li><li>…in every truth the opposite is equally true. Everything that is though and expressed in words is one-sided, only half the truth; it all lacks totally, completeness, unity. But the world itself, being in and around us, is never one-sided. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[SNAP Selling by Jill Konrath: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/snap-selling-jill-konrath</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A great read for anyone involved in sales, though particularly for those in a B2B (business-to-business) environment.  Konrath’s description of the new “frazzled” customer is very accurate, and her strategies for dealing with them are specific and actionable.   Essentially a step-by-step guide for those involved in sales that will be helpful for those just starting out and those with lots of sales experience alike.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Part 1 - SNAP Decisions</strong></h5><h6><strong>Introduction</strong></h6><ul><li>In the new world, it’s no longer a numbers game. You need to focus on fewer, high-quality interactions. </li><li>You must personally bring value to every interaction you have. </li></ul><p><strong>Decision-Making</strong></p><ul><li>Prospects make 3 decisions: </li><li>To meet with you. </li><li>If making a change will be worth the disruption. </li><li>Selecting the best option for their company. </li></ul><p><strong>SNAP Factors:</strong></p><ul><li>Simple: make the process easy. </li><li>iNvaluable: bring value personally. </li><li>Aligned: stay relevant to your client at all times. </li><li>Priority: client must want your services urgently. </li></ul><p>What Sales Really Is: <em>Sales is an outcome, not a goal.</em></p><h6><strong>2 - How Frazzled Customers Think</strong></h6><ul><li>What causes customers to keep you at a distance/brush you off/stick with status quo? </li><li>Complexity grinds them to a screeching halt. </li><li>“If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it&quot; </li><li>Making risky decisions is career-inhibiting. </li><li>Most options seem like near-clones. </li><li>They suffer no fools. </li></ul><h6><strong>3 - Inside the SNAP Factors</strong></h6><ul><li>With all this swirling in their minds, here’s what they’re asking themselves about you or what you have to offer them: </li><li>How simple is it? Will it take lots of time and effort? </li><li>Does this person/company provide value? </li><li>Is this aligned with what we’re trying to accomplish? </li><li>How big a priority is it? What’s the urgency? </li></ul><h6><strong>4 - SNAP Rules: Simple + iNvaluable + Aligned + Priority</strong></h6><ul><li>When you do figure out how to deal with frazzled customers, everything changes. They want to work with you. Sales cycles speed up. You have less competition. You’ll be enjoying rich and rewarding collegial relationships, earning a good living, and making a difference — all at the same time. How do you turn this into a reality? Just follow the SNAP Rules. </li></ul><p><strong>Rule 1: Keep It Simple</strong></p><ul><li>Your goal is to ensure maximum simplicity in everything you do. </li><li>You’ll want to ask yourself and your colleagues: </li><li>How can we simplify our messaging? Presentations? Proposals? Conversations? </li><li>How can we make it easier for customers to understand the value they get from us? </li><li>How can we help customers navigate through the decision - making process, avoiding the bumps along the way? </li><li>When you keep it simple, you make it easier for customers to buy from you. </li></ul><p><strong>Rule 2: Be iNvaluable</strong></p><ul><li>Today’s crazy - busy customers want to work with sellers who “know their stuff” and bring them fresh ideas on a regular basis. </li><li>Think about how you can become more knowledgeable about: </li><li>What’s important to the decision makers you interact with on a regular basis ; </li><li>Business processes surrounding your offering ; </li><li>What other companies are doing to solve similar problems or achieve similar goals ; and </li><li>Your industry — market trends, upcoming challenges, what’s working and what’s not. </li><li>When you become invaluable, customers choose you over competitors, are less price conscious, and remain loyal. </li></ul><p><strong>Rule 3: Always Align</strong></p><ul><li>To ensure alignment, you need to be able to answer these questions: </li><li>How does my offering impact my customers ’ primary issues and objectives? </li><li>What criteria are important to them as they make their decision? </li><li>What do they value in their working relationships? </li><li>When you’re aligned with critical business objectives, customers want to work with you. </li></ul><p><strong>Rule 4: Raise Priorities</strong></p><ul><li>Questions you can ask to stay out of the dreaded D - Zone include: </li><li>What are your customer’s current priority projects? </li><li>How can you blend your offering’s value into their priorities? </li><li>What can you do to maintain momentum and increase the priority status? When you raise priorities, your sales process goes much faster and you get the business with less competition. </li></ul><h6><strong>5 - What’s Going On Inside Your Customer’s Head</strong></h6><p><strong>Playing Brain Games</strong></p><ul><li>Nothing, I repeat, nothing is more important than your customer knowledge. </li><li>Here are the steps you need to take to become effective at getting into your customers’ heads: </li><li><strong>STEP 1: Identify the Key Decision Makers.</strong></li><li><strong>STEP 2: Complete a Buyer’s Matrix.</strong></li><li><strong>STEP 3: Create Customer Personas.</strong></li><li><strong>STEP 4: Use a Mind Meld.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>The Buyer’s Matrix</strong></p><ul><li><strong><em>Roles/Responsibilities</em></strong></li><li><strong><em>Business Objectives and Metrics</em></strong></li><li><strong><em>External Challenges</em></strong></li><li><strong><em>Strategies and Initiatives</em></strong></li><li><strong><em>Internal Issues</em></strong></li><li><strong><em>Primary Interfaces</em></strong></li><li><strong><em>Status Quo</em></strong></li><li><strong><em>Change Drivers</em></strong></li><li><strong><em>Change Inhibitors</em></strong></li></ul><h6><strong>6 - Your Customer’s Decision-Making Process</strong></h6><p><strong>The Three Decisions:</strong></p><ol><li>Allow access: move them from oblivious to curious. </li><li>Initiate change: move them from complacent to committed to a change. </li><li>Move them from being open to a wide variety of options to certain that you’re the right resource. </li></ol><h5><strong>Part 2 - The First Decision</strong></h5><h6><strong>7 - First Decision Overview</strong></h6><ul><li>Your primary competitor is any other use of your customers’ valuable time. </li><li>Frazzled customers don’t want to hear about your products or services. They will grant you access only if you pique their curiosity or provoke their thinking with relevant information such as: </li><li>How other companies address the same issues; </li><li>Business outcomes they’d like to achieve; </li><li>Information on industry and competitive trends; </li><li>Intelligence about their customers’ wants, needs, trends; </li><li>Updates on topics they’re interested in knowing more about; or </li><li>Insights into a vexing problem or new priority. </li><li>You’ll know a prospect has decided in your favor on the first decision when they say, “Sounds interesting. Let’s set up a time to talk/get together.” </li></ul><h6><strong>8 - Getting in the Game</strong></h6><ul><li>Get rid of overused buzzwords and clichés in your messaging. </li></ul><h6><strong>9 - Aligned: Craft Winning Value Propositions</strong></h6><ul><li>To gain access, you need to create a gap between your prospects’ status quo and what could be. </li></ul><p><strong>Value Proposition Generator</strong></p><ul><li>Value Proposition = Business Driver + Movement + Metrics </li></ul><h6><strong>10 - Priorities: Capitalize on Trigger Events</strong></h6><ul><li>While value propositions are the foundation of your sales initiatives, “trigger events” are the grand catalysts. </li><li>A trigger event is an occurrence that shifts an organization’s priorities. It could be internal or external to the organization. </li></ul><p><strong>Types of Trigger Events</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Internal Trigger Events: </strong>These types of trigger events happen within an organization. Many you can read about in the business press or on your prospect’s Web site. </li><li><strong>External Trigger Events:</strong> Here are some examples of trigger events that occur outside an organization but still have an immediate impact on the organization’s priorities: </li><li>Legislative changes: new laws, regulations </li><li>Changes in the competitive landscape </li><li>Changes with key customers </li><li>Use automated systems to get alerts of trigger events. </li></ul><h6><strong>12 - Simple: Messages That Matter</strong></h6><ul><li>To craft a message that can’t be ignored: </li><li>Establish credibility </li><li>Pique curiosity </li><li>Close fo next step </li></ul><h6><strong>13 - Passing the “Tell Me More” Test</strong></h6><p><strong>What Customers Are Really Asking</strong></p><ul><li>What are you supposed to say when prospects want more information about your company, product, or service? </li><li>When you’re in the early stages of working with prospective customers, the answer to “Tell me more” is not a company overview. </li><li>They want to know how you achieved those business outcomes, and not in excruciating detail. </li><li>To pass the “Tell Me More” test, follow these guidelines: </li><li><strong>Expand on the issue.</strong></li><li><strong>Share a success story.</strong></li><li><strong>Engage your prospect.</strong></li></ul><h6><strong>14 - iNvaluable: Become Irresistible Right Away</strong></h6><p><strong>Be the Resource Center</strong></p><ul><li>When you initially go after an account, plan on approximately ten touches (via phone, e-mail, and direct mail) spread out over four to six weeks. </li><li>Every single communication needs to provide value. </li><li>Think about articles, white papers, e-books, case studies, tips booklets, videos, seminars, podcasts, or Webinars with titles such as: </li><li>How to Increase... </li><li>5 Strategies to... </li><li>New Trends Impacting... </li><li>How a Similar Firm Achieved... </li><li>7 Key Considerations in Selecting... </li><li>What the New Legislation Means for... </li><li>How to Overcome... </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 3 - The Second Decision</strong></h5><h6><strong>15 - Second Decision Overview</strong></h6><p><strong>Competition </strong></p><ul><li>These are your two primary competitors: </li><li><strong>Status quo.</strong></li><li><strong>Mindshare</strong>. Your customer will constantly be pulled in other directions by everything else they’re expected to do. </li></ul><p><strong>Seller’s Role</strong></p><ul><li>In order to keep them engaged and move them to a point where it’s imperative to move away from the status quo, it’s important to: </li><li>Go for conceptual buy - in as the critical first step. </li><li>Ensure rock-solid alignment with their business goals and objectives. </li><li>Provide leadership and guidance to help their decision making. </li><li>Provoke their thinking and open them up to new possibilities. </li><li>Scope out the potential value of making a change. </li><li>Engage multiple people in the decision-making process early. </li><li>Uncover any or all obstacles to their making a change. </li><li>Continue offering valuable ideas, insights, and information. </li><li>Make it easy for your prospects to do business with you. </li></ul><p><strong>Final Caveat</strong></p><ul><li>Working with a prospect at this stage of their decision-making process is <em>all about change.</em> Your product or service is virtually irrelevant. The only thing that matters is whether your offering will help them achieve their objectives. </li></ul><h6><strong>17 - Mind Over Chatter</strong></h6><ul><li>Your initial meeting is the most important one you’ll ever have with your prospect. </li><li>You must prepare for these initial meetings. </li><li>Today you need to go beyond consultative selling. </li><li>You need to make assumptions based on your research and demonstrate your expertise. </li></ul><h6><strong>18 - Meetings That SNAP, Crackle, and Pop</strong></h6><ul><li>Your initial objective is to get them to understand what’s possible if they work with you and your company. </li><li>The principles at the core of enrollment may seem like sales heresy to traditionalists, but they’re really the foundation of all good selling. </li><li><strong>Let go of the outcome.</strong> If you want something badly ( such as a next meeting ), people can smell it. </li><li><strong>Focus on the possibilities.</strong></li><li><strong>It’s not about your product or service</strong>. It’s all about the difference it can make for them. Tie your idea into what’s happening in their company. Make sure they know this is all about them achieving their results — not you getting a sale. </li><li><strong>Extend the invitation</strong>. Invite them to figure out how you can work together, what you need to explore next, and who else needs to get involved. </li><li>You must prepare for meetings, and you should send an agenda ahead of time. </li></ul><h6><strong>19 - Aligned: Assessing Business Value</strong></h6><ul><li>The easiest way to win more sales is to have a strong business case. </li><li>Your ability to ask good questions cannot be left to chance. It’s imperative to determine what you’ll ask prior to meeting with prospective customers. </li></ul><h6><strong>20 - iNvaluable: Become the Expert They Can’t Live Without</strong></h6><ul><li>Yet both had one thing in common: Even though they felt their offering was significantly different from that of their competitors, their prospects didn’t. </li><li>Remember, your prospects can get your products, software, or services anywhere, and probably for much cheaper. But they can’t buy your brain, your knowledge, or your expertise anyplace else. </li></ul><h6><strong>21 - iNvaluable: Using Your Smarts to Create Change</strong></h6><p><strong>Creating that $500 Customer Experience</strong></p><ul><li>First, kiss your PowerPoints goodbye. </li><li>But when you do these presentations, you’re boring. Incredibly and undeniably boring. </li><li>Instead, you need to replace your unprepared chatter and PowerPoint presentations with compelling conversations, designed by you. </li></ul><h6><strong>22 - iNvaluable: Be an Everyday Value Creator</strong></h6><ul><li>Remember that these frazzled people are looking for a smart, savvy business partner whose expertise they can trust. </li><li>“Wrap” questions with information that shows your knowledge or provides context to show your expertise. </li><li>Provocation is particularly important to use when your prospects currently don’t have money in their budget for your product or service. Whether you offer a contrarian perspective, fresh insights, new visions of the future, or missing information, it helps crazy-busy buyers see beyond the status quo to what is possible. </li><li>These strategies work best when you focus on targeted businesses who have similar objectives and/or challenges as your best customers. </li></ul><h6><strong>23 - Simple: Cut the Complexity</strong></h6><ul><li>The stronger your business case is, the more likely your prospects will move forward with a decision to change. The more you’ve allowed them to see “what’s possible,” the harder it is to turn back. </li><li>At this point, you must become a leader, guiding them through the complex decision-making process. </li><li>Slow things down, share your process and walk them through it, and detail the client’s responsibilities. </li><li>Address tough issues up front - funding, engagement and who won’t be happy with this initiative. Make sure to detach yourself from the desire to sell at this point. </li></ul><p><strong>Make Everything Easier</strong></p><ul><li>Some strategies to make things easier for frazzled customers: </li><li>Augment, Don’t Replace: it’s easier to add-on than replace something. </li><li>Think and Act Small: focus on how to get started and show quick results, and then build. </li><li>Root Out All Complexity </li></ul><h6><strong>24 - Priorities: Maintain the Momentum</strong></h6><ul><li>Provide solid educational content to address the issues they’re hung up on, but don’t overwhelm. </li><li>Parcel these communications one at a time. </li><li>So at some point — after eight to ten contacts — you may decide to let them off the hook. Send your prospects an e-mail stating that you thought they were interested, but perhaps you misjudged the situation, since you haven’t heard back from them in the last six weeks. Believe it or not, this strategy often gets a response and an explanation from a prospect who is feeling guilty about not reconnecting. </li><li>If that doesn’t work, reduce your contact frequency. Perhaps you can contact them on a quarterly basis. </li></ul><h6><strong>25 - Success with the Second Decision</strong></h6><ul><li>When you start hearing the word “we”, you’re in a good position. </li><li>At this point, stop selling. Shift to operating as if you’ve already started the project. </li><li>At the same time, be aware the decision could still be delayed. You still haven’t signed the contract. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 4 - The Third Decision</strong></h5><h6><strong>26 - Third Decision Overview</strong></h6><p><strong>Customer’s Perspective</strong></p><ul><li>By now your prospects have committed to making a change. The status quo is no longer acceptable. </li><li>Here’s what these frazzled customers are thinking: </li><li>I’m not sure how to choose; there are so many options. </li><li>I need to be able to justify my choice to the powers that be. </li><li>I’m sticking my neck out; there’s a lot of risk in moving forward. I need to minimize it as best I can. </li><li>We’ll be living with the results of this decision for a long time, so it better be a good one. </li></ul><p><strong>Big Challenge</strong></p><ul><li>Stand out from all your competitors (both internal and external) as offering the best possible option for their business issue or opportunity. </li><li>In a world of look-alike products and services, crazy-busy buyers would prefer to lump you all together in one category and use price to make their decision, rather than assessing which firm offers the best value. </li></ul><p><strong>Final Caveat</strong></p><ul><li>Working with prospects at this stage of their decision making is all about choices and certainty. To win their business, they must determine that: </li><li>Your product, service, or solution is the best option for their business needs. </li><li>Money spent on your product, service, or solution is the best use of corporate funds. </li><li>Your company has the depth of expertise necessary to help them achieve their objectives without any glitches. </li><li>Working with your company is the least risky decision of all their options. </li><li>What they’re paying for your offering can easily be justified, and even if it costs more, it’s worth it. </li></ul><h6><strong>27 - Selling to Hot Prospects</strong></h6><p><strong>The Biggest Goof That Sellers Make</strong></p><ul><li>You need to slow things down, ask tough questions, uncovered the decision criteria, and found out about the competitors. Over and over again, sellers expound on their capabilities and benefits and provide detailed information, and do tons of extra work – anything the prospects want. While that puts you into the “nice” seller category, it doesn’t help your prospects make the best decision for their organization. </li><li>To be successful at this stage, you should go through these exercises with your typical customer’s decision-making process: </li><li><strong>Create a Decision Map</strong>: Walk through the decision from their perspective, detailing every likely step in their journey to closure. Add in time frames. Identify the angst they feel. </li><li><strong>Landscape the Competition:</strong> Identify primary competitors and do your research. Then start comparing yourself and how you’ll win. </li></ul><h6><strong>28 - Simple: Make the Decision as Easy as Possible</strong></h6><ul><li>Become your prospects’ guide. </li><li>This mostly involves asking lots of questions related to the decision-making process, understanding why they want to change, and areas they’re unsure about and could use guidance. </li><li>Make sure to address risks and concerns too, no matter how uncomfortable the discussion. </li><li>Understand how your prospects will be assessing competitors and to what extent they know how to make these kinds of decisions. </li><li>To help simplify decisions for prospects: </li><li>Make a Road Map: a logical and sequential approach to achieving the desired outcome. </li><li>Stress What Stays the Same </li></ul><h6><strong>29 - Aligned: Balancing the Value-Risk Equation</strong></h6><ul><li>It’s not just about ROI or payback. </li><li>You need to tell compelling stories that pull people into what’s possible. </li></ul><p><strong>Clarify the Business Value</strong></p><ul><li>Ask questions of your prospect to find out how they perceive value. </li><li>Ask them about the cost of status quo, and make them verbalize it. </li></ul><p><strong>Minimize the Risk</strong></p><ul><li>To reduce the perceived risk of doing business with you: </li><li>Leverage qualitative data - case studies, assessments, analyst reports, articles, etc. </li><li>Ensure transparency. </li><li>Manage expectations. </li><li>Engage multiple stakeholders. </li><li>Offer references. </li></ul><h6><strong>30 - iNvaluable: Be the One They Want to Work With</strong></h6><ul><li>Drop the “sales” mentality, and work with prospects as if they’ve already hired you. </li><li>Focus on the prospect and their needs. </li><li>Make differentiation easier - help them make decisions. </li><li>Be truthful but give context - you want them to succeed, that’s why you’re talking. </li></ul><h6><strong>31 - Priority: Getting the Business</strong></h6><ul><li>If you haven’t done this already, this is a good time to for you to: </li><li>Arrange conversations with existing customers. </li><li>Showcase video testimonials of satisfied, similar customers. </li><li>Highlight complimentary analyst’s reports or articles. </li><li>Set up site visits to other users ’ facilities or your own corporate offices. </li><li>For presentations and proposals, make sure to apply the SNAP rules. Avoid the long, boring PowerPoint presentation where you read bullet points. </li></ul><h6><strong>32 - Success with the Third Decision</strong></h6><ul><li>Unfortunately, not everyone can be a winner. Should you lose, be gracious. Thank your prospects for the opportunity and wish them all the best. </li><li>If you win, your first official job is to tell them that you appreciate their business. </li></ul><p><strong>Making it Happen</strong></p><ul><li>Pay attention to detail, constantly monitor progress, and check on satisfaction levels. Make sure your project comes in on time and within budget. Should any changes arise that could alter expectations, deal with them openly and honestly. Your customers don’t want any surprises. </li></ul><p><strong>Celebrate Your Customers’ Success</strong></p><ul><li>Make sure to identify metrics to track your customers’ success with the project, and share this monitoring with them. </li><li>Your first win in a company is, without a doubt, the hardest. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 5 – Wrapping it Up</strong></h5><p><strong>33 Snap to It!</strong></p><ul><li>At the foundation of your sales efforts is a solid understanding of your prospects’ business, objectives, strategies, initiatives, and challenges. </li></ul><p><strong>Success is a Decision</strong></p><ul><li>Success was achieved one decision at a time. When you make that commitment, though, you’re setting yourself up for challenging times. You’ll make dozens of mistakes. You’ll sound like a babbling fool. Sometimes you’ll embarrass yourself beyond belief. And you’ll doubt that success is even possible. </li></ul><h3>‍</h3>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Steal Like an Artist by Austin Kleon: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A wonderful, motivating short read along the lines of Anything You Want.I love short books like this. This one is also put together beautifully, with illustrations and fonts that make it fun to read.Highly recommend for anyone who pursues any type of creative endeavour, or who creates things.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>1: Steal Like an Artist.</strong></h5><ul><li>&quot;What is originality? Undetected plagiarism.&quot; —William Ralph Inge</li><li>Instead, chew on one thinker—writer, artist, activist, role model—you really love. Study everything there is to know about that thinker. Then find three people that thinker loved, and find out everything about them. Repeat this as many times as you can. Climb up the tree as far as you can go. Once you build your tree, it’s time to start your own branch.</li><li>Go deeper than anybody else—that’s how you’ll get ahead.</li><li>Carry a notebook and a pen with you wherever you go. Get used to pulling it out and jotting down your thoughts and observations.</li></ul><h5><strong>2: Don’t Wait Until You Know Who You Are to Get Started</strong></h5><ul><li>Fake it ’til you make it.</li><li>Salvador Dalí said, &quot;Those who do not want to imitate anything, produce nothing.&quot;</li><li>First, you have to figure out who to copy. Second, you have to figure out what to copy.</li><li>Who to copy is easy. You copy your heroes—the people you love, the people you’re inspired by, the people you want to be.</li><li>The songwriter Nick Lowe says, &quot;You start out by rewriting your hero’s catalog.&quot;</li><li>So: Copy your heroes. Examine where you fall short. What’s in there that makes you different? That’s what you should amplify and transform into your own work.</li></ul><h5><strong>3: Write the Book You Want to Read</strong></h5><ul><li>The best advice is not to write what you know, it’s to write what you like. Write the kind of story you like best—write the story you want to read.</li><li>The same principle applies to your life and your career: Whenever you’re at a loss for what move to make next, just ask yourself, &#x27;What would make a better story?&#x27;</li><li>The manifesto is this: Draw the art you want to see, start the business you want to run, play the music you want to hear, write the books you want to read, build the products you want to use—do the work you want to see done.</li></ul><h5><strong>4: Use Your Hands</strong></h5><h5><strong>5: Side Projects and Hobbies Are Important</strong></h5><ul><li>If you’re out of ideas, wash the dishes. Take a really long walk. Stare at a spot on the wall for as long as you can. As the artist Maira Kalman says, &quot;Avoiding work is the way to focus my mind.&quot;</li><li>Take time to mess around. Get lost. Wander. You never know where it’s going to lead you.</li><li>If you have two or three real passions, don’t feel like you have to pick and choose between them. Don’t discard. Keep all your passions in your life.</li><li>Don’t worry about unity—what unifies your work is the fact that you made it.</li></ul><h5><strong>6: The Secret: Do Good Work and Share It With People.</strong></h5><ul><li>There’s no pressure when you’re unknown. You can do what you want. Experiment.</li><li>If there was a secret formula for becoming known, I would give it to you. But there’s only one not-so-secret formula that I know: Do good work and share it with people.</li><li>Step 1: Wonder at something.</li><li>Step 2: Invite others to wonder with you. You should wonder at the things nobody else is wondering about.</li></ul><h5><strong>7: Geography is No Longer Our Master</strong></h5><ul><li>At some point, when you can do it, you have to leave home. You can always come back, but you have to leave at least once.</li><li>Your brain gets too comfortable in your everyday surroundings.</li></ul><h5><strong>8: Be Nice. (The World is a Small Town)</strong></h5><ul><li>&quot;There’s only one rule I know of: You’ve got to be kind.&quot; —Kurt Vonnegut</li><li>You’re only going to be as good as the people you surround yourself with</li><li>If you ever find that you’re the most talented person in the room, you need to find another room</li><li>So, I recommend public fan letters. The Internet is really good for this. Write a blog post about someone’s work that you admire and link to their site. Make something and dedicate it to your hero. Answer a question they’ve asked, solve a problem for them, or improve on their work and share it online</li><li>&quot;Modern art = I could do that + Yeah, but you didn’t.” —Craig Damrauer</li><li>Try it: Instead of keeping a rejection file, keep a praise file. Use it sparingly—don’t get lost in past glory—but keep it around for when you need the lift.</li></ul><h5><strong>9: Be Boring. (It’s the Only Way to Get Work Done)</strong></h5><ul><li>As photographer Bill Cunningham says, &quot;If you don’t take money, they can’t tell you what to do.&quot;</li><li>A day job puts you in the path of other human beings. Learn from them, steal from them. I’ve tried to take jobs where I can learn things that I can use in my work later—my library job taught me how to do research, my Web design job taught me how to build websites, and my copywriting job taught me how to sell things with words.</li><li>The worst thing a day job does is take time away from you, but it makes up for that by giving you a daily routine in which you can schedule a regular time for your creative pursuits. Establishing and keeping a routine can be even more important than having a lot of time. Inertia is the death of creativity. You have to stay in the groove. When you get out of the groove, you start to dread the work, because you know it’s going to suck for a while—it’s going to suck until you get back into the flow.</li><li>The solution is really simple: Figure out what time you can carve out, what time you can steal, and stick to your routine. Do the work every day, no matter what.</li><li>Get a calendar. Fill the boxes. Don’t break the chain.</li><li>Just as you need a chart of future events, you also need a chart of past events. A logbook isn’t necessarily a diary or a journal, it’s just a little book in which you list the things you do every day. What project you worked on, where you went to lunch, what movie you saw.</li><li>Who you marry is the most important decision you’ll ever make. And &quot;marry well&quot; doesn’t just mean your life partner—it also means who you do business with, who you befriend, who you choose to be around.</li></ul><h5><strong>10: Creativity is Subtraction</strong></h5><ul><li>In this age of information abundance and overload, those who get ahead will be the folks who figure out what to leave out, so they can concentrate on what’s really important to them</li><li>The way to get over creative block is to simply place some constraints on yourself. It seems contradictory, but when it comes to creative work, limitations mean freedom. Write a song on your lunch break. Paint a painting with only one color. Start a business without any start-up capital. Shoot a movie with your iPhone and a few of your friends. Build a machine out of spare parts. Don’t make excuses for not working—make things with the time, space, and materials you have, right now.</li><li>In the end, creativity isn’t just the things we choose to put in, it’s the things we choose to leave out</li></ul><h5><strong>What Now?</strong></h5><ul><li>Talk a walk</li><li>Start your swipe file</li><li>Go to the library</li><li>Buy a notebook and use it</li><li>Get yourself a calendar</li><li>Start your logbook</li><li>Give a copy of this book away</li><li>Start a blog</li><li>Take a nap</li></ul><h5><strong>Recommended Reading</strong></h5><ul><li>Linda Barry, <em>What It Is</em></li><li>Hugh MacLeod, <em>Ignore Everybody</em></li><li>Jason Fried + David Heinemeier Hansson, <em>Rework</em></li><li>Lewis Hyde, <em>The Gift</em></li><li>Jonathan Lethem, <em>The Ecstasy of Influence</em></li><li>David Shields, <em>Reality Hunger</em></li><li>Scott McCloud, <em>Understanding Comics</em></li><li>Anne Lamott, <em>Bird by Bird</em></li><li>Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, <em>Flow</em></li><li>Ed Emberley, <em>Make a World</em></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The 22 Immutable Laws of Marketing by Al Ries & Jack Trout: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/the-22-immutable-laws-of-marketing-al-ries-jack-trout</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I should have read this sooner - the principles are timeless, and it’s a quick, easy book to finish. The rules are concise, and anytime you undertake any marketing or sales activities, this book provides the set of rules by which you should evaluate those activities.Definitely recommended reading for any CEO/salesperson/marketer.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><p>&quot;2 The Law of the Category: If you can’t be first in a category, set up a new category you can be first in.&quot;</p><p>&quot;Everyone is interested in what’s new. Few people are interested in what’s better.&quot;</p><p>&quot;The single most wasteful thing you can do in marketing is try to change a mind.”</p><p>&quot;In the long run and in the presence of serious competition, line extensions almost never work.”</p><p>&quot;Less is more. If you want to be successful today, you have to narrow the focus in order to build a position in the prospect’s mind.”</p><p>&quot;15 The Law of Candor: When you admit a negative, the prospect will give you the positive.&quot;</p><p>&quot;History teaches that the only thing that works in marketing is the single, bold stroke. Furthermore, in any given situation there is only one move that will produce substantial results.”</p><p>&quot;20 The Law of Hype: The situation is often the opposite of the way it appears in the press.&quot;</p><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><p><strong>1 The Law of Leadership: It’s better to be first than it is to be better.</strong></p><ul><li>The basic issue in marketing is creating a category you can be first in. It’s the law of leadership: It’s better to be first than it is to be better. It’s much easier to get into the mind first than to try to convince someone you have a better product than the one that did get there first.</li><li>Not every first is going to become successful, however. Timing is an issue — your first could be too late.</li><li>Some firsts are just bad ideas that will never go anywhere.</li><li>The law of leadership applies to any product, any brand, any category.</li><li>If you’re introducing the first brand in a new category, you should always try to select a name that can work generically.</li><li>Unfortunately, benchmarking doesn’t work. Regardless of reality, people perceive the first product into the mind as superior. Marketing is a battle of perceptions, not products.</li></ul><p><strong>2 The Law of the Category: If you can’t be first in a category, set up a new category you can be first in.</strong></p><ul><li>When you launch a new product, the first question to ask yourself is not “How is this new product better than the competition? “but “First what? “In other words, what category is this new product first in?</li><li>This is counter to classic marketing thinking, which is brand oriented: How do I get people to prefer my brand? Forget the brand. Think categories. Prospects are on the defensive when it comes to brands. Everyone talks about why their brand is better. But prospects have an open mind when it comes to categories. Everyone is interested in what’s new. Few people are interested in what’s better.</li></ul><p><strong>3 The Law of the Mind: It’s better to be first in the mind than it is to be first in the marketplace.</strong></p><ul><li>The law of the mind follows from the law of perception. If marketing is a battle of perception, not product, then the mind takes precedence over the marketplace.</li><li>Once a mind is made up, it rarely, if ever, changes. The single most wasteful thing you can do in marketing is try to change a mind.</li><li>The reason you blast instead of worm is that people don’t like to change their minds. Once they perceive you one way, that’s it.</li></ul><p><strong>4 The Law of Perception Marketing: Marketing is not a battle of products, it’s a battle of perception.</strong></p><ul><li>It’s an illusion. There is no objective reality. There are no facts. There are no best products. All that exists in the world of marketing are perceptions in the minds of the customer or prospect. The perception is the reality. Everything else is an illusion.</li><li>What some marketing people see as the natural laws of marketing are based on a flawed premise that the product is the hero of the marketing program and that you’ll win or lose based on the merits of the product. Which is why the natural, logical way to market a product is invariably wrong.</li><li>Only by studying how perceptions are formed in the mind and focusing your marketing programs on those perceptions can you overcome your basically incorrect marketing instincts.</li><li>Truth is nothing more or less than one expert’s perception. And who is the expert? It’s someone who is perceived to be an expert in the mind of somebody else.</li><li>Changing a prospect’s mind is another matter. Minds of customers or prospects are very difficult to change. With a modicum of experience in a product category, a consumer assumes that he or she is right.</li><li>Marketing is a battle of perceptions, not products. Marketing is the process of dealing with those perceptions.</li><li>What makes the battle even more difficult is that customers frequently make buying decisions based on second-hand perceptions. Instead of using their own perceptions, they base their buying decisions on someone else’s perception of reality. This is the “everybody knows“ principle.</li><li>Marketing is not a battle of products. It’s a battle of perceptions.</li></ul><p><strong>5 The Law of Focus: The most powerful concept in marketing is owning a word in the prospect’s mind.</strong></p><ul><li>A company can become incredibly successful if it can find a way to own a word in the mind of the prospect. Not a complicated word. Not an invented one. The simple words are best, words taken right out of the dictionary.</li><li>This is the law of focus. You “burn&quot; your way into the mind by narrowing the focus to a single word or concept. It’s the ultimate marketing sacrifice.</li><li>In a way, the law of leadership — it’s better to be first than to be better — enables the first brand or company to own a word in the mind of the prospect. But the word the leader owns is so simple that it’s invisible.</li><li>The leader owns the word that stands for the category.</li><li>An astute leader will go one step further to solidify its position.</li><li>If you’re not a leader, then your word has to have a narrow focus. Even more important, however, your word has to be “available “in your category. No one else can have a lock on it.</li><li>The most effective words are simple and benefit oriented. No matter how complicated the product, no matter how complicated the needs of the market, it’s always better to focus on one word or benefit rather than two or three or four.</li><li>Also, there’s the halo effect. If you strongly establish one benefit, the prospect is likely to give you a lot of other benefits, too. A “thicker“ spaghetti sauce implies quality, nourishing ingredients, value, and so on. A “safer“ car implies better design and engineering.</li><li>Words come in different varieties. They can be benefit related (cavity prevention), service related (home delivery), audience related (younger people), or sales related (preferred brand).</li><li>Although we’ve been touting that words stick in the mind, nothing lasts forever. There comes a time when a company must change words. It’s not an easy task.</li><li>What won’t work in marketing is leaving your own word in search of a word owned by others.</li><li>The essence of marketing is narrowing the focus. You become stronger when you reduce the scope of your operations. You can’t stand for something if you chase after everything.</li><li>You can’t narrow the focus with quality or any other idea that doesn’t have proponents for the opposite point of view.</li><li>When you develop your word to focus on, be prepared to fend off the lawyers. They want to trademark everything you publish. The trick is to get others to use your word. (To be a leader you have to have followers.)</li><li>Once you have your word, you have to go out of your way to protect it in the marketplace.</li></ul><p><strong>6 The Law of Exclusivity: Two companies cannot own the same word in the prospect’s mind.</strong></p><ul><li>When a competitor owns a word or position in the prospect’s mind, it is futile to attempt to own the same word.</li><li>Despite the disaster stories, many companies continue to violate the law of exclusivity. You can’t change people’s minds once they are made up. In fact, what you often do is reinforce your competitor’s position by making its concept more important.</li><li>What often leads marketers down this booby-trapped lane is that wonderful stuff called research.</li></ul><p><strong>7 The Law of the Ladder: The strategy to use depends on which rung you occupy on the ladder.</strong></p><ul><li>While being first into the prospect’s mind ought to be your primary marketing objective, the battle isn’t lost if you fail in this endeavor. There are strategies to use for No. 2 and No. 3 brands.</li><li>All products are not created equal. There’s a hierarchy in the mind that prospects use in making decisions. For each category, there is a product ladder in the mind. On each rung is a brand name.</li><li>Your marketing strategy should depend on how soon you got into the mind and consequently which rung of the ladder you occupy. The higher the better, of course.</li><li>What about your product’s ladder in the prospect’s mind? How many rungs are there on your ladder? It depends on whether your product is a high-interest or a low-interest product.</li><li>Products you use every day (cigarettes, cola, beer, toothpaste, cereal) tend to be high-interest products with many rungs on their ladders.</li><li>Products that are purchased infrequently (furniture, lawn mowers, luggage) usually have few rungs on their ladders.</li><li>Products that involve a great deal of personal pride (automobiles, watches, cameras) are also high-interest products with many rungs on their ladders even though they are purchased infrequently.</li><li>There’s a relationship between market share and your position on the ladder in the prospect’s mind. You tend to have twice the market share of the brand below you and half the market share of the brand above you.</li><li>What’s the maximum number of rungs on a ladder? There seems to be a rule of seven in the prospect’s mind. Ask someone to name all the brands he or she remembers in a given category. Rarely will anyone name more than seven. And that’s for a high-interest category.</li><li>The ladder is a simple, but powerful, analogy that can help you deal with the critical issues in marketing. Before starting any marketing program, ask yourself the following questions: Where are we on the ladder in the prospect’s mind? On the top rung? On the second rung? Or maybe we’re not on the ladder at all.</li><li>Then make sure your program deals realistically with your position on the ladder. More on how to do this later.</li></ul><p><strong>8 The Law of Duality: In the long run, every market becomes a two-horse race.</strong></p><ul><li>Early on, a new category is a ladder of many rungs. Gradually, the ladder becomes a two-rung affair.</li><li>When you take the long view of marketing, you find the battle usually winds up as a titanic struggle between two major players — usually the old reliable brand and the upstart.</li><li>We repeat: The customer believes that marketing is a battle of products. It’s this kind of thinking that keeps the two brands on top: “They must be the best, they’re the leaders. “</li></ul><p><strong>9 The Law of the Opposite: If you’re shooting for second place, your strategy is determined by the leader.</strong></p><ul><li>If you want to establish a firm foothold on the second rung of the ladder, study the firm above you. Where is it strong? And how do you turn that strength into a weakness? You must discover the essence of the leader and then present the prospect with the opposite. (In other words, don’t try to be better, try to be different.) It’s often the upstart versus old reliable.</li><li>In other words, by positioning yourself against the leader, you take business away from all the other alternatives to No. 1.</li><li>Yet, too many potential No. 2 brands try to emulate the leader. This usually is an error. You must present yourself as the alternative.</li><li>But don’t simply knock the competition. The law of the opposite is a two-edge sword. It requires honing in on a weakness that your prospect will quickly acknowledge.</li><li>Then quickly twist the sword.</li><li>There has to be a ring of truth about the negative if it is to be effective.</li><li>Marketing is often a battle for legitimacy. The first brand that captures the concept is often able to portray its competitors as illegitimate pretenders.</li></ul><p><strong>10 The Law of Division: Over time, a category will divide and become two or more categories.</strong></p><ul><li>A category starts off as a single entity. Computers, for example. But over time, the category breaks up into other segments. Mainframes, minicomputers, workstations, personal computers, laptops, notebooks, pen computers.</li><li>Categories are dividing, not combining.</li><li>Companies make a mistake when they try to take a well-known brand name in one category and use the same brand name in another category.</li><li>What keeps leaders from launching a different brand to cover a new category is the fear of what will happen to their existing brands.</li><li>Timing is also important. You can be too early to exploit a new category.</li><li>It’s better to be early than late. You can’t get into the prospect’s mind first unless you’re prepared to spend some time waiting for things to develop.</li></ul><p><strong>11 The Law of Perspective: Marketing effects take place over an extended period of time.</strong></p><ul><li>Many marketing moves exhibit the same phenomenon. The long-term effects are often the exact opposite of the short-term effects.</li><li>Does a sale increase a company’s business or decrease it? Obviously, in the short term, a sale increases business. But there’s more and more evidence to show that sales decrease business in the long term by educating customers not to buy at “regular “prices.</li><li>There is no evidence that couponing increases sales in the long run. Many companies find they need a quarterly dose of couponing to keep sales on an even keel. Once they stop couponing, sales drop off.</li><li>Unless you know what to look for, it’s hard to see the effects of line extension, especially for managers focused on their next quarterly report.</li></ul><p><strong>12 The Law of Line Extension: There’s an irresistible pressure to extend the equity of a brand.</strong></p><ul><li>What’s even more diabolical is that line extension is a process that takes place continuously, with almost no conscious effort on the part of the corporation.</li><li>One day a company is tightly focused on a single product that is highly profitable. The next day the same company is spread thin over many products and is losing money.</li><li>In a narrow sense, line extension involves taking the brand name of a successful product (e.g., A-1 steak sauce) and putting it on a new product you plan to introduce (e.g., A-1 poultry sauce).</li><li>But marketing is a battle of perception, not product. In the mind, A-1 is not the brand name, but the steak sauce itself.</li><li>In the long run and in the presence of serious competition, line extensions almost never work.</li><li>Invariably, the leader in any category is the brand that is not line extended.</li><li>Why does top management believe that line extension works, in spite of the overwhelming evidence to the contrary? One reason is that while line extension is a loser in the long term, it can be a winner in the short term ( chapter 11: The Law of Perspective ). Management is also blinded by an intense loyalty to the company or brand.</li><li>More is less. The more products, the more markets, the more alliances a company makes, the less money it makes.</li><li>Less is more. If you want to be successful today, you have to narrow the focus in order to build a position in the prospect’s mind.</li><li>For many companies, line extension is the easy way out. Launching a new brand requires not only money, but also an idea or concept. For a new brand to succeed, it ought to be first in a new category (chapter 1: The Law of Leadership). Or the new brand ought to be positioned as an alternative to the leader (chapter 9: The Law of the Opposite). Companies that wait until a new market has developed often find these two leadership positions already preempted. So they fall back on the old reliable line extension approach. The antidote for line extension is corporate courage, a commodity in short supply.</li></ul><p><strong>13 The Law of Sacrifice: You have to give up something in order to get something.</strong></p><ul><li>The law of sacrifice is the opposite of the law of line extension. If you want to be successful today, you should give something up. There are three things to sacrifice: product line, target market, and constant change.</li><li>First, the product line. Where is it written that the more you have to sell, the more you sell?</li><li>The full line is a luxury for a loser. If you want to be successful, you have to reduce your product line, not expand it.</li><li>The world of business is populated by big, highly diversified generalists and small, narrowly focused specialists. If line extension and diversification were effective marketing strategies, you’d expect to see the generalists riding high. But they’re not. Most of them are in trouble.</li><li>The generalist is weak.</li><li>Let’s discuss the second sacrifice, target market. Where is it written that you have to appeal to everybody?</li><li>The target is not the market. That is, the apparent target of your marketing is not the same as the people who will actually buy your product.</li><li>Finally, the third sacrifice: constant change. Where is it written that you have to change your strategy every year at budget review time?</li><li>If you try to follow the twists and turns of the market, you are bound to wind up off the road. The best way to maintain a consistent position is not to change it in the first place.</li></ul><p><strong>14 The Law of Attributes: For every attribute, there is an opposite, effective attribute.</strong></p><ul><li>In chapter 6 (The Law of Exclusivity) we made the point that you can’t own the same word or position that your competitor owns. You must find your own word to own. You must seek out another attribute.</li><li>It’s much better to search for an opposite attribute that will allow you to play off against the leader. The key word here is opposite—similar won’t do.</li><li>Marketing is a battle of ideas. So if you are to succeed, you must have an idea or attribute of your own to focus your efforts around. Without one, you had better have a low price. A very low price.</li><li>Some say all attributes are not created equal. Some attributes are more important to customers than others. You must try and own the most important attribute.</li><li>But the law of exclusivity points to the simple truth that once an attribute is successfully taken by your competition, it’s gone. You must move on to a lesser attribute and live with a smaller share of the category. Your job is to seize a different attribute, dramatize the value of your attribute, and thus increase your share.</li></ul><p><strong>15 The Law of Candor: When you admit a negative, the prospect will give you the positive.</strong></p><ul><li>It goes against corporate and human nature to admit a problem.</li><li>So it may come as a surprise to you that one of the most effective ways to get into a prospect’s mind is to first admit a negative and then twist it into a positive.</li><li>What’s going on here? Why does a dose of honesty work so well in the marketing process?</li><li>First and foremost, candor is very disarming. Every negative statement you make about yourself is instantly accepted as truth. Positive statements, on the other hand, are looked at as dubious at best. Especially in an advertisement.</li><li>You have to prove a positive statement to the prospect’s satisfaction. No proof is needed for a negative statement.</li><li>If your name is bad, you have two choices: change the name or make fun of it. The one thing you can’t do is to ignore a bad name.</li><li>So why go with the obvious? Marketing is often a search for the obvious. Since you can’t change a mind once it’s made up, your marketing efforts have to be devoted to using ideas and concepts already installed in the brain.</li><li>When a company starts a message by admitting a problem, people tend to, almost instinctively, open their minds.</li><li>One final note: The law of candor must be used carefully and with great skill. First, your “negative “must be widely perceived as a negative. It has to trigger an instant agreement with your prospect’s mind. If the negative doesn’t register quickly, your prospect will be confused and will wonder, “What’s this all about?&quot;</li><li>Next, you have to shift quickly to the positive. The purpose of candor isn’t to apologize. The purpose of candor is to set up a benefit that will convince your prospect.</li><li>This law only proves the old maxim: Honesty is the best policy.</li></ul><p><strong>16 The Law of Singularity: In each situation, only one move will produce substantial results.</strong></p><ul><li>Many marketing people see success as the sum total of a lot of small efforts beautifully executed.</li><li>History teaches that the only thing that works in marketing is the single, bold stroke. Furthermore, in any given situation there is only one move that will produce substantial results.</li><li>So it is in marketing. Most often there is only one place where a competitor is vulnerable. And that place should be the focus of the entire invading force.</li><li>To find that singular idea or concept, marketing managers have to know what’s happening in the marketplace. They have to be down at the front in the mud of the battle. They have to know what’s working and what isn’t. They have to be involved.</li><li>It’s hard to find that single move if you’re hanging around headquarters and not involved in the process.</li></ul><p><strong>17 The Law of Unpredictability: Unless you write your competitors ’ plans, you can’t predict the future.</strong></p><ul><li>Implicit in most marketing plans is an assumption about the future. Yet marketing plans based on what will happen in the future are usually wrong.</li><li>Failure to forecast competitive reaction is a major reason for marketing failures.</li><li>Most companies live from quarterly report to quarterly report. That’s a recipe for problems. Companies that live by the numbers, die by the numbers.</li><li>Good short-term planning is coming up with that angle or word that differentiates your product or company. Then you set up a coherent long-term marketing direction that builds a program to maximize that idea or angle. It’s not a long-term plan, it’s a long-term direction.</li><li>So what can you do? How can you best cope with unpredictability? While you can’t predict the future, you can get a handle on trends, which is a way to take advantage of change.</li><li>The danger in working with trends is extrapolation. Many companies jump to conclusions about how far a trend will go.</li><li>Equally as bad as extrapolating a trend is the common practice of assuming the future will be a replay of the present. When you assume that nothing will change, you are predicting the future just as surely as when you assume that something will change. Remember Peter’s Law: The unexpected always happens.</li><li>While tracking trends can be a useful tool in dealing with the unpredictable future, market research can be more of a problem than a help. Research does best at measuring the past. New ideas and concepts are almost impossible to measure. No one has a frame of reference.</li><li>One way to cope with an unpredictable world is to build an enormous amount of flexibility into your organization. As change comes sweeping through your category, you have to be willing to change and change quickly if you are to survive in the long term.</li><li>One final note that’s worth mentioning: There’s a difference between “predicting “the future and “taking a chance “on the future.</li><li>No one can predict the future with any degree of certainty. Nor should marketing plans try to.</li></ul><p><strong>18 The Law of Success: Success often leads to arrogance, and arrogance to failure.</strong></p><ul><li>Ego is the enemy of successful marketing.</li><li>Objectivity is what’s needed.</li><li>When people become successful, they tend to become less objective. They often substitute their own judgment for what the market wants.</li><li>Actually it’s the opposite. The name didn’t make the brand famous ( although a bad name might keep the brand from becoming famous ). The brand got famous because you made the right marketing moves. In other words, the steps you took were in tune with the fundamental laws of marketing. You got into the mind first. You narrowed the focus. You preempted a powerful attribute.</li><li>Actually, ego is helpful. It can be an effective driving force in building a business. What hurts is injecting your ego in the marketing process. Brilliant marketers have the ability to think like a prospect thinks. They put themselves in the shoes of their customers. They don’t impose their own view of the world on the situation.</li><li>The bigger the company, the more likely it is that the chief executive has lost touch with the front lines. This might be the single most important factor limiting the growth of a corporation.</li><li>If you’re a busy CEO, how do you gather objective information on what is really happening? How do you get around the propensity of middle management to tell you what they think you want to hear?</li><li>How do you get the bad news as well as the good?</li><li>One possibility is to go “in disguise “or unannounced. This is especially useful at the distributor or retailer level. In many ways this is analogous to the king who dresses up as a commoner and mingles with his subjects. Reason: to get honest opinions of what’s happening.</li><li>Marketing is too important to be turned over to an underling. If you delegate anything, you should delegate the chairmanship of the next fund-raising drive.</li><li>The next thing to cut back on are the meetings.</li><li>Small companies are mentally closer to the front than big companies. That might be one reason they grew more rapidly in the last decade. They haven’t been tainted by the law of success.</li></ul><p><strong>19 The Law of Failure: Failure is to be expected and accepted.</strong></p><ul><li>Too many companies try to fix things rather than drop things. “Let’s reorganize to save the situation “is their way of life.</li><li>Admitting a mistake and not doing anything about it is bad for your career. A better strategy is to recognize failure early and cut your losses.</li><li>One way to defuse the personal agenda factor is to bring it out in the open.</li><li>While the 3M system works, in theory the ideal environment would allow managers to judge a concept on its merits, not on whom the concept would benefit.</li><li>If a company is going to operate in an ideal way, it will take teamwork, esprit de corps, and a self-sacrificing leader.</li></ul><p><strong>20 The Law of Hype: The situation is often the opposite of the way it appears in the press.</strong></p><ul><li>When things are going well, a company doesn’t need the hype. When you need the hype, it usually means you’re in trouble.</li><li>The only revolutions you can predict are the ones that have already started.</li><li>Forget the front page. If you’re looking for clues to the future, look in the back of the paper for those innocuous little stories.</li><li>But, for the most part, hype is hype. Real revolutions don’t arrive at high noon with marching bands and coverage on the 6:00 P.M. news. Real revolutions arrive unannounced in the middle of the night and kind of sneak up on you.</li></ul><p><strong>21 The Law of Acceleration: Successful programs are not built on fads, they’re built on trends.</strong></p><ul><li>A fad is a wave in the ocean, and a trend is the tide. A fad gets a lot of hype, and a trend gets very little.</li><li>Like a wave, a fad is very visible, but it goes up and down in a big hurry. Like the tide, a trend is almost invisible, but it’s very powerful over the long term.</li><li>A fad is a short-term phenomenon that might be profitable, but a fad doesn’t last long enough to do a company much good.</li><li>When the fad disappears, a company often goes into a deep financial shock.</li><li>Here’s the paradox. If you were faced with a rapidly rising business, with all the characteristics of a fad, the best thing you could do would be to dampen the fad. By dampening the fad, you stretch the fad out and it becomes more like a trend.</li><li>Forget fads. And when they appear, try to dampen them. One way to maintain a long-term demand for your product is to never totally satisfy the demand.</li><li>But the best, most profitable thing to ride in marketing is a long-term trend.</li></ul><p><strong>22 The Law of Resources: Without adequate funding an idea won’t get off the ground.</strong></p><ul><li>If you have a good idea and you’ve picked up this book with the thought in mind that all you need is a little marketing help, this chapter will throw cold water on that thought.</li><li>Even the best idea in the world won’t go very far without the money to get it off the ground. Inventors, entrepreneurs, and assorted idea generators seem to think that all their good ideas need is professional marketing help.</li><li>Nothing could be further from the truth. Marketing is a game fought in the mind of the prospect. You need money to get into a mind. And you need money to stay in the mind once you get there.</li><li>You’ll get further with a mediocre idea and a million dollars than with a great idea alone.</li><li>Ideas without money are worthless. Well … not quite. But you have to use your idea to find the money, not the marketing help. The marketing can come later.</li><li>Remember: An idea without money is worthless. Be prepared to give away a lot for the funding.</li><li>In marketing, the rich often get richer because they have the resources to drive their ideas into the mind. Their problem is separating the good ideas from the bad ones, and avoiding spending money on too many products and too many programs (chapter 5: The Law of Focus).</li><li>Unlike a consumer product, a technical or business product has to raise less marketing money because the prospect list is shorter and media is less expensive. But there is still a need for adequate funding for a technical product to pay for brochures, sales presentations, and trade shows as well as advertising.</li><li>Here is the bottom line. First get the idea, then go get the money to exploit it.</li><li>So far we’ve been talking about smaller companies and their fund-raising strategies. What about a rich company? How should it approach the law of resources? The answer is simple: Spend enough.</li><li>The more successful marketers front load their investment. In other words, they take no profit for two or three years as they plow all earnings back into marketing.</li><li>Money makes the marketing world go round. If you want to be successful today, you’ll have to find the money you need to spin those marketing wheels.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[Written in Robert Greene’s typical style of demonstrating universal principles via historical examples, this book is both entertaining and informative. Not only a book about sexual seduction, but rather a universal guide on seduction in the most general terms - whether it be politically, socially, or otherwise - it’s a book that should be read by all.  You will better understand both yourself and your relationships, and applying the principles will help you across your personal and professional lives.  Highly recommend.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4><strong>Preface</strong></h4><ul><li>Seduction is a <strong>game of psychology, not beauty</strong>, and it is within the grasp of any person to become a master at the game. </li><li>A seducer does not turn the power off and on—<strong>every social and personal interaction is seen as a potential seduction. There is never a moment to waste.</strong></li><li>Seducers are never self-absorbed. Their gaze is directed outward, not inward. </li><li>Pleasure is a feeling of being <strong>taken past our limits, of being overwhelmed—by another person, by an experience.</strong></li><li>Finally, seducers are completely amoral in their approach to life. </li><li>Every seduction has <strong>two elements that you must analyze and understand: first, yourself and what is seductive about you; and second, your target and the actions that will penetrate their defenses and create surrender.</strong></li><li>&quot;Most virtue is a demand for greater seduction.&quot; —Natalie Barney </li></ul><h4><strong>Part One - the Seductive Character</strong></h4><ul><li>Successful seductions begin with your character, your ability to radiate some quality that attracts people and stirs their emotions in a way that is beyond their control. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Siren</strong></h5><ul><li>A man grows bored with a woman, no matter how beautiful; he yearns for different pleasures, and for adventure. </li><li>All a woman needs to turn this around is to create the illusion that she offers such variety and adventure. </li><li>Create the physical presence of a Siren (heightened sexual allure mixed with a regal and theatrical manner) and he is trapped. </li><li>Her time never seems to be taken up by work or chores; she gives the impression that she lives for pleasure and is always available. </li><li>While one part of you seems to scream sex, the other part is coy and naive, as if you were incapable of understanding the effect you are having. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to the Character:</strong></p><ul><li>She represents a powerful male fantasy of a highly sexual, supremely confident, alluring female offering endless pleasure and a bit of danger. </li><li>Once the Siren has made herself stand out from others, she must have two other critical qualities: the ability to get the male to pursue her so feverishly that he loses control; and a touch of the dangerous. </li><li>Sirens are often fantastically irrational, which is immensely attractive to men who are oppressed by their own reasonableness. </li></ul><p><strong>Physical Qualities</strong></p><ul><li>Physical qualities—a scent, a heightened femininity evoked through makeup or through elaborate or seductive clothing. </li><li>The voice. Clearly a critical quality, as the legend indicates, the Siren’s voice has an immediate animal presence with incredible suggestive power. </li><li>The Siren must have an insinuating voice that hints at the erotic, more often subliminally than overtly. </li><li>Her voice is calm and unhurried, as if she had never quite woken up—or left her bed. </li><li>Body and adornment. If the voice must lull, the body and its adornment must dazzle. </li><li>The key: everything must dazzle, but must also be harmonious, so that no single ornament draws attention. Your presence must be charged, larger than life, a fantasy come true. Ornament is used to cast a spell and distract. </li><li>Movement and demeanor: The Siren moves gracefully and unhurriedly. </li></ul><p><strong>Dangers</strong></p><ul><li>No matter how enlightened the age, no woman can maintain the image of being devoted to pleasure completely comfortably. And no matter how hard she tries to distance herself from it, the taint of being easy always follows the Siren. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Rake</strong></h5><ul><li>The Rake is a great female fantasy figure—when he desires a woman, brief though that moment may be, he will go to the ends of the earth for her. </li><li>The Ardent Rake teaches us a simple lesson: <strong>intense desire has a distracting power on a woman</strong>, just as the Siren’s physical presence does on a man. </li><li><strong>The key is to show no hesitation, to abandon all restraint, to let yourself go, to show that you cannot control yourself and are fundamentally weak.</strong></li><li>Do not worry about inspiring mistrust; as long as you are the slave to her charms, she will not think of the aftermath. </li><li>The male is traditionally vulnerable to the visual. </li><li><strong>For women the weakness is language and words.</strong></li><li>He chooses words for their ability to suggest, insinuate, hypnotize, elevate, infect. </li><li><strong>Remember: it is the form that matters, not the content. The less your targets focus on what you say, and the more on how it makes them feel, the more seductive your effect. Give your words a lofty, spiritual, literary flavor the better to insinuate desire in your unwitting victims</strong></li><li><strong>Keys to the Character: Do not imagine that women are the tender creatures that some people would like them to be. Like men, they are deeply attracted to the forbidden, the dangerous, even the slightly evil.</strong></li><li>Always remember: if you are to play the Rake, you must convey a sense of risk and darkness, suggesting to your victim that she is participating in something rare and thrilling. </li><li>To play the Rake, the most obvious requirement is the ability to let yourself go, to draw a woman into the kind of purely sensual moment in which past and future lose meaning. </li><li>Finally, a Rake’s greatest asset is his reputation. Never downplay your bad name, or seem to apologize for it. Instead, embrace it, enhance it. It is what draws women to you. </li><li>There are several things you must be known for: your irresistible attractiveness to women; your uncontrollable devotion to pleasure (this will make you seem weak, but also exciting to be around); your disdain for convention; a rebellious streak that makes you seem dangerous. </li><li>This last element can be slightly hidden; on the surface, be polite and civil, while letting it be known that behind the scenes you are incorrigible. </li></ul><p><strong>Dangers</strong></p><ul><li>Like the Siren, the Rake faces the most danger from members of his own sex. </li><li>Today, only stars and the very wealthy can play the Rake with impunity; the rest of us need to be careful. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Ideal Lover</strong></h5><ul><li>You long for romance? Adventure? Lofty spiritual communion? The Ideal Lover reflects your fantasy. He or she is an artist in creating the illusion you require, idealizing your portrait. </li><li>Indeed, one’s attachment to a man depends largely on the elegance of his leave-taking. </li><li><strong>Casanova was perhaps the most successful seducer in history; few women could resist him. His method was simple: on meeting a woman, he would study her, go along with her moods, find out what was missing in her life, and provide it.</strong> He made himself the Ideal Lover. </li><li>The Ideal Lover is rare in the modern world, for the role takes effort. You will have to focus intensely on the other person, fathom what she is missing, what he is disappointed by. People will often reveal this in subtle ways: through gesture, tone of voice, a look in the eye. </li><li>Let that be a source of infinite opportunity. Be an oasis in the desert of the self-absorbed; few can resist the temptation of following a person who seems so attuned to their desires, to bringing to life their fantasies. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to the Character</strong></p><ul><li>Each of us carries inside us an ideal, either of what we would like to become, or of what we want another person to be for us. </li><li>Our ideal is something we feel is missing inside us. Our ideal may be buried in disappointment, but it lurks underneath, waiting to be sparked. If another person seems to have that ideal quality, or to have the ability to bring it out in us, we fall in love. </li><li>The key to following the path of the Ideal Lover is the ability to observe. Ignore your targets’ words and conscious behavior; focus on the tone of their voice, a blush here, a look there—those signs that betray what their words won’t say. Often the ideal is expressed in contradiction. </li></ul><p><strong>Dangers </strong></p><ul><li>The main dangers in the role of the Ideal Lover are the consequences that arise if you let reality creep in. When reality intrudes, distance is often a solution. Still, it is always wise to be prudent, and to keep people from glimpsing the less-than-ideal side of your character. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Dandy</strong></h5><ul><li>Most of us feel trapped within the limited roles that the world expects us to play. We are instantly attracted to those who are more fluid, more ambiguous, than we are—those who create their own persona. <strong>Dandies excite us because they cannot be categorized, and hint at a freedom we want for ourselves.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Keys to the Character</strong></p><ul><li>The Dandy displays a true and radical difference from other people, a difference of appearance and manner. </li><li>Dandies seduce socially as well as sexually; groups form around them, their style is wildly imitated, an entire court or crowd will fall in love with them. </li><li>Be different in ways that are both striking and aesthetic, never vulgar; poke fun at current trends and styles, go in a novel direction, and be supremely uninterested in what anyone else is doing. </li><li>The nonconformity of Dandies, however, goes far beyond appearances. It is an attitude toward life that sets them apart; adopt that attitude and a circle of followers will form around you. </li><li>Dandies are supremely impudent. They don’t give a damn about other people, and never try to please. </li><li>Dandies are masters of the art of living. They live for pleasure, not for work; they surround themselves with beautiful objects and eat and drink with the same relish they show for their clothes. </li></ul><p><strong>Dangers</strong></p><ul><li>The Dandy’s strength, but also the Dandy’s problem, is that he or she often works through transgressive feelings relating to sex roles. Although this activity is highly charged and seductive, it is also dangerous, since it touches on a source of great anxiety and insecurity. </li><li>Even a Dandy, then, must measure out his impudence. A true Dandy knows the difference between a theatrically staged teasing of the powerful and a remark that will truly hurt, offend, or insult. </li><li>It is particularly important to avoid insulting those in a position to injure you. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Natural</strong></h5><p>The Natural embodies the longed- for qualities of childhood—spontaneity, sincerity, unpretentiousness. </p><p>Naturals also make a virtue out of weakness, eliciting our sympathy for their trials, making us want to protect them and help them. </p><p><strong>Remember who you were before you became so polite and self-effacing.</strong></p><p>The following are the main types of the adult Natural. Keep in mind that the greatest natural seducers are often a blend of more than one of these qualities </p><p><strong>The innocent:</strong> The primary qualities of innocence are weakness and misunderstanding of the world </p><ul><li>They act like they still see the world through innocent eyes, which in an adult proves doubly humorous. </li></ul><p><strong>The imp</strong>: Impish children have a fearlessness that we adults have lost. That is because they do not see the possible consequences of their actions—how some people might be offended, how they might physically hurt themselves in the process. </p><ul><li>Just don’t apologize or look contrite, for that would break the spell. </li></ul><p><strong>The wonder</strong>: A wonder child has a special, inexplicable talent: a gift for music, for mathematics, for chess, for sport. </p><ul><li>At work in the field in which they have such prodigal skill, these children seem possessed, and their actions effortless. </li><li>If it is a physical talent that they have, they are blessed with unusual energy, dexterity, and spontaneity. </li><li>Adult wonders are often former wonder children who have managed, remarkably, to retain their youthful impulsiveness and improvisational skills. </li><li>To play the wonder you need some skill that seems easy and natural, along with the ability to improvise. </li><li>If in fact your skill takes practice, you must hide this and learn to make your work appear effortless. </li></ul><p><strong>The undefensive lover</strong>: As people get older, they protect themselves against painful experiences by closing themselves off. The price for this is that they grow rigid, physically and mentally. But children are by nature unprotected and open to experience, and this receptiveness is extremely attractive. </p><ul><li>They often manifest this spirit physically: they are graceful, and seem to age less rapidly than other people. </li><li>People are drawn to those who expect a lot out of life, whereas they tend to disrespect those who are fearful and undemanding. </li><li><strong>Wild independence has a provocative effect on us:</strong> it appeals to us, while also presenting us with a challenge—we want to be the one to tame it, to make the spirited person dependent on us. Half of seduction is stirring such competitive desires. </li><li><strong>The more absorbed you seem in your own joy-filled world, the more seductive you become.</strong> Do not go halfway: make the fantasy you inhabit as radical and exotic as possible, and you will attract attention like a magnet. </li><li>Human beings are immensely suggestible; their moods will easily spread to the people around them. In fact seduction depends on mimesis, on the conscious creation of a mood or feeling that is then reproduced by the other person. But <strong>hesitation and awkwardness are also contagious, and are deadly to seduction.</strong></li><li>If in a key moment you seem indecisive or self-conscious, the other person will sense that you are thinking of yourself, instead of being overwhelmed by his or her charms. </li><li>As an undefensive lover, though, you produce the opposite effect: your victim might be hesitant or worried, but confronted with someone so sure and natural, he or she will be caught up in the mood. Like dancing with someone you lead effortlessly across the dance floor, it is a skill you can learn. </li><li>It is a matter of rooting out the fear and awkwardness that have built up in you over the years, of becoming more graceful with your approach, less defensive when others seem to resist. </li></ul><p><strong>Dangers</strong></p><ul><li>A childish quality can be charming but it can also be irritating; the innocent have no experience of the world, and their sweetness can prove cloying. </li><li>Because total childishness can quickly grate, the most seductive Naturals are those who, like Josephine Baker, combine adult experience and wisdom with a childlike manner. </li><li>In any case it is usually only artists, or people with abundant leisure time, who can afford to go all the way. </li><li>Similarly, the seductive traits of the Natural work best in one who is still young enough for them to seem natural. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Coquette</strong></h5><ul><li>The ability to delay satisfaction is the ultimate art of seduction—while waiting, the victim is held in thrall. Coquettes are the grand masters of this game, orchestrating a back-and-forth movement between hope and frustration. </li><li>They bait with the promise of reward—the hope of physical pleasure, happiness, fame by association, power—all of which, however, proves elusive; yet this only makes their targets pursue them the more. </li><li>Coquettes seem totally self-sufficient: they do not need you, they seem to say, and their narcissism proves devilishly attractive. You want to conquer them but they hold the cards. <strong>The strategy of the Coquette is never to offer total satisfaction.Imitate the alternating heat and coolness of the Coquette and you will keep the seduced at your heels.</strong></li><li><strong>People are inherently perverse. An easy conquest has a lower value than a difficult one; we are only really excited by what is denied us, by what we cannot possess in full.</strong></li><li>Your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away, to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction. </li><li>The world is full of people who try, people who impose themselves aggressively. They may gain temporary victories, but the longer they are around, the more people want to confound them. They leave no space around themselves, and without space there can be no seduction. </li><li>Cold Coquettes create space by remaining elusive and making others pursue them. Their coolness suggests a comfortable confidence that is exciting to be around, even though it may not actually exist; their silence makes you want to talk. Their self-containment, their appearance of having no need for other people, only makes us want to do things for them, hungry for the slightest sign of recognition and favor. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to the Character</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Remember: the essence of the Coquette lies not in the tease and temptation but in the subsequent step back.</strong></li><li>The Coquette must first and foremost be able to excite the target of his or her attention. The attraction can be sexual, the lure of celebrity, whatever it takes. At the same time, the Coquette sends contrary signals that stimulate contrary responses, plunging the victim into confusion. </li><li><strong>Remember: obvious flirting will reveal your intentions too clearly. Better to be ambiguous and even contradictory, frustrating at the same time that you stimulate.</strong></li><li>Coquetry depends on developing a pattern to keep the other person off balance. </li></ul><p><strong>Dangers</strong></p><ul><li>Coquettes face an obvious danger: they play with volatile emotions. Every time the pendulum swings, love shifts to hate. So they must orchestrate everything carefully. Their absences cannot be too long, their bouts of anger must be quickly followed by smiles. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Charmer</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Charm is seduction without sex.</strong> Charmers are consummate manipulators, masking their cleverness by creating a mood of pleasure and comfort. Their method is simple: they deflect attention from themselves and focus it on their target. They understand your spirit, feel your pain, adapt to your moods. In the presence of a Charmer you feel better about yourself. Charmers do not argue or fight, complain, or pester—what could be more seductive? </li></ul><p><strong>The Laws of Charm</strong>: </p><p><strong>Make your target the center of attention.</strong></p><ul><li>Charmers fade into the background; their targets become the subject of their interest. </li><li>Make them the star of the show and they will become addicted to you and grow dependent on you. On a mass level, make gestures of self-sacrifice (no matter how fake) to show the public that you share their pain and are working in their interest. </li></ul><p><strong>Be a source of pleasure.</strong></p><ul><li><strong>No one wants to hear about your problems and troubles.</strong> Listen to your targets’ complaints, but more important, distract them from their problems by giving them pleasure. </li><li><strong>Being lighthearted and fun is always more charming than being serious and critical.</strong></li><li><strong>An energetic presence is likewise more charming than lethargy</strong>, which hints at boredom, an enormous social taboo; and <strong>elegance and style will usually win out over vulgarity</strong>, since most people like to associate themselves with whatever they think elevated and cultured. </li><li>Bring antagonism into harmony. </li><li>The Charmer knows how to smooth out conflict. Never stir up antagonisms that will prove immune to your charm; in the face of those who are aggressive, retreat, let them have their little victories. </li><li>Lull your victims into ease and comfort. </li><li><strong>The key to making your victims feel comfortable is to mirror them, adapt to their moods. People are narcissists—they are drawn to those most similar to themselves.</strong></li><li>Show calm and self-possession in the face of adversity. </li><li>Adversity and setbacks actually provide the perfect setting for charm. Showing a calm, unruffled exterior in the face of unpleasantness puts people at ease. </li></ul><p><strong>Never whine, never complain, never try to justify yourself.</strong></p><p><strong>Make yourself useful.If done subtly, your ability to enhance the lives of others will be devilishly seductive.</strong></p><p><strong>Follow-through is key: so many people will charm by promising a person great things—a better job, a new contact, a big favor—but if they do not follow through they make enemies instead of friends.</strong></p><p><strong>The Art of Charm</strong></p><ul><li>A gruff exterior may hide a person dying for warmth; a repressed, sober-looking type may actually be struggling to conceal uncontrollable emotions. <strong>That is the key to charm—feeding what has been repressed or denied.</strong></li><li><strong>First</strong>, they don’t talk much about themselves, which heightens their mystery and disguises their limitations. </li><li><strong>Second</strong>, they seem to be interested in us, and their interest is so delightfully focused that we relax and open up to them. </li><li><strong>Finally</strong> Charmers are pleasant to be around. They have none of most people’s ugly qualities—nagging, complaining, self-assertion. </li><li><strong>Time is the greatest weapon you have.</strong> Patiently keep in mind a long-term goal and neither person nor army can resist you. And charm is the best way of playing for time, of widening your options in any situation. </li></ul><p><strong>Dangers</strong></p><ul><li>There are those who are immune to a Charmer; particularly cynics, and confident types who do not need validation. These people tend to view Charmers as slippery and deceitful, and they can make problems for you. The solution is to do what most Charmers do by nature: befriend and charm as many people as possible. Secure your power through numbers and you will not have to worry about the few you cannot seduce. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Charismatic</strong></h5><ul><li>Charisma is a presence that excites us. It comes from an inner quality—self-confidence, sexual energy, sense of purpose, contentment—that most people lack and want. This quality radiates outward, permeating the gestures of Charismatics, making them seem extraordinary and superior, and making us imagine there is more to them than meets the eye: they are gods, saints, stars. Charismatics can learn to heighten their charisma with a piercing gaze, fiery oratory, an air of mystery. They can seduce on a grand scale. </li><li>Learn to create the charismatic illusion by radiating intensity while remaining detached. </li><li>Charisma is seduction on a mass level. Charismatics make crowds of people fall in love with them, then lead them along. </li><li>They do not explain where their confidence or contentment comes from, but it can be felt by everyone; it radiates outward, without the appearance of conscious effort. The face of the Charismatic is usually animated, full of energy, desire, alertness-the look of a lover, one that is instantly appealing, even vaguely sexual. </li></ul><p><strong>The following are basic qualities that will help create the illusion of charisma:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Purpose.</strong> If people believe you have a plan, that you know where you are going, they will follow you instinctively. The direction does not matter: pick a cause, an ideal, a vision and show that you will not sway from your goal. </li><li><strong>Mystery.</strong> Mystery lies at charisma’s heart, but it is a particular kind of mystery—a mystery expressed by contradiction. Since most people are predictable, the effect of these contradictions is devastatingly charismatic. </li><li><strong>Saintliness.</strong> Most of us must compromise constantly to survive; saints do not. They must live out their ideals without caring about the consequences. </li><li><strong>Eloquence.</strong> A Charismatic relies on the power of words. The reason is simple: words are the quickest way to create emotional disturbance. </li><li>To bring off this kind of eloquence, it helps if the speaker is as emotional, as caught up in words, as the audience is. </li><li>Yet eloquence can be learned: the devices La Pasionaria used— catchwords, slogans, rhythmic repetitions, phrases for the audience to repeat—can easily be acquired. </li><li><strong>Theatricality.</strong> A Charismatic is larger than life, has extra presence. Actors have studied this kind of presence for centuries; they know how to stand on a crowded stage and command attention. </li><li><strong>Uninhibitedness</strong>. Most people are repressed, and have little access to their unconscious. </li><li>You will first have to show that you are less inhibited than your audience—that you radiate a dangerous sexuality, have no fear of death, are delightfully spontaneous. </li><li><strong>Fervency.</strong> You need to believe in something, and to believe in it strongly enough for it to animate all your gestures and make your eyes light up. </li><li>A prerequisite for fiery belief is some great cause to rally around—<strong>a crusade.</strong></li><li><strong>Vulnerability</strong>. Charismatics display a need for love and affection. </li><li><strong>Adventurousness.</strong> Charismatics are unconventional. They have an air of adventure and risk that attracts the bored. Be brazen and courageous in your actions—be seen taking risks for the good of others. </li><li><strong>Magnetism.</strong> If any physical attribute is crucial in seduction, it is the eyes. They reveal excitement, tension, detachment, without a word being spoken. The demeanor of Charismatics may be poised and calm, but their eyes are magnetic; they have a piercing gaze that disturbs their targets’ emotions, exerting force without words or action. </li></ul><p><strong>All of these skills are acquirable.</strong></p><ul><li>Practice the effect you desire. </li><li>Do not apologize or go halfway. The more unbridled you seem, the more magnetic the effect. </li><li>Believe it or not, a plain-looking man or woman with a clear vision, a quality of single-mindedness, and practical skills can be devastatingly charismatic, provided it is matched with some success. <strong>Never underestimate the power of success in enhancing one’s aura.</strong></li><li><strong>That is the appearance you want: you do not need anything or anyone, you are fulfilled.</strong></li><li>The less obvious you are, the better: let people conclude that you are happy, rather than hearing it from you. Let them see it in your unhurried manner, your gentle smile, your ease and comfort. </li><li><strong>Remember: being aloof and distant only stimulates the effect. People will fight for the slightest sign of your interest.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Dangers</strong></p><ul><li>Psychologists talk of “erotic fatigue”—the moments after love in which you feel tired of it, resentful. Reality creeps in, love turns to hate. Erotic fatigue is a threat to all Charismatics. </li><li>The only defense is to master your charisma. </li><li>The better kind of charisma is created consciously and is kept under control. </li><li>Remember: charisma depends on success, and the best way to maintain success, after the initial charismatic rush, is to be practical and even cautious. </li><li>Finally, there is nothing more dangerous than succeeding a Charismatic. </li><li>They miss their inspirer and blame the successor. Avoid this situation at all costs. If it is unavoidable, do not try to continue what the Charismatic started; go in a new direction. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Star</strong></h5><ul><li>Daily life is harsh, and most of us constantly seek escape from it in fantasies and dreams. Stars feed on this weakness; standing out from others through a distinctive and appealing style, they make us want to watch them. </li><li>At the same time, they are vague and ethereal, keeping their distance, and letting us imagine more than is there. </li><li>Its principal requirement is self-distance. If you see yourself as an object, then others will too. An ethereal, dreamlike air will heighten the effect. </li><li>You are a blank screen. Float through life noncommittally and people will want to seize you and consume you. </li><li>And keep your distance—let people identify with you without being able to touch you. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to the Character</strong></p><ul><li><strong>First,</strong> you must have such a large presence that you can fill your target’s mind the way a close-up fills the screen. You must have a style or presence that makes you stand out from everyone else. </li><li><strong>Second</strong>, cultivate a blank, mysterious face, the center that radiates Starness. This allows people to read into you whatever they want to, imagining they can see your character, even your soul. </li><li>Stars make us want to know more about them. You must learn to stir people’s curiosity by letting them glimpse something in your private life, something that seems to reveal an element of your personality. </li><li>Let them fantasize and imagine. A trait that often triggers this reaction is a hint of spirituality, which can be devilishly seductive, like James Dean’s interest in Eastern philosophy and the occult. </li><li>Hints of goodness and big-heartedness can have a similar effect. </li><li>The things you love—people, hobbies, animals—reveal the kind of moral beauty that people like to see in a Star. Exploit this desire by showing people peeks of your private life, the causes you fight for, the person you are in love with (for the moment). </li><li>Remember: <strong>everyone is a public performer.</strong> People never know exactly what you think or feel; they judge you on your appearance. </li></ul><p><strong>Dangers</strong></p><ul><li>Stars create illusions that are pleasurable to see. The danger is that people tire of them—the illusion no longer fascinates—and turn to another Star. </li><li>You must keep all eyes on you at any cost. </li><li>Do not worry about notoriety, or about slurs on your image; we are remarkably forgiving of our Stars. </li></ul><h5><strong>The Anti-Seducer</strong></h5><ul><li>Seducers draw you in by the focused, individualized attention they pay to you. <strong>Anti-Seducers are the opposite: insecure, self-absorbed, and unable to grasp the psychology of another person</strong>, they literally repel. <strong>Anti-Seducers have no self-awareness, and never realize when they are pestering, imposing, talking too much</strong>. They lack the subtlety to create the promise of pleasure that seduction requires. Root out anti-seductive qualities in yourself, and recognize them in others—there is no pleasure or profit in dealing with the Anti-Seducer. </li><li>Anti-Seducers come in many shapes and kinds, but <strong>almost all of them share a single attribute, the source of their repellence: insecurity.</strong></li><li><strong>Stamp ungenerosity out. It is an impediment to power and a gross sin in seduction.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Types of Anti-Seducer</strong></p><p><strong>The Brute. </strong></p><ul><li>If seduction is a kind of ceremony or ritual, part of the pleasure is its duration—the time it takes, the waiting that increases anticipation. Brutes have no patience for such things; they are concerned only with their own pleasure, never with yours. </li></ul><p><strong>The Suffocator. </strong></p><ul><li>Suffocators fall in love with you before you are even half-aware of their existence. </li><li>A subvariant of the Suffocator is the Doormat, a person who slavishly imitates you. </li></ul><p><strong>The Moralizer. </strong></p><ul><li>Seduction is a game, and should be undertaken with a light heart. All is fair in love and seduction; morality never enters the picture. The character of the Moralizer, however, is rigid. These are people who follow fixed ideas and try to make you bend to their standards. </li></ul><p><strong>The Tightwad. </strong></p><ul><li>Cheapness signals more than a problem with money. It is a sign of something constricted in a person’s character—something that keeps them from letting go or taking a risk. It is the most anti-seductive trait of all, and you cannot allow yourself to give in to it. </li></ul><p><strong>The Bumbler. </strong></p><ul><li>Bumblers are self-conscious, and their self-consciousness heightens your own. </li><li>In seduction, the key weapon is boldness, refusing the target the time to stop and think. Bumblers have no sense of timing. </li></ul><p><strong>The Windbag. </strong></p><ul><li>The most effective seductions are driven by looks, indirect actions, physical lures. Words have a place, but too much talk will generally break the spell, heightening surface differences and weighing things down. </li></ul><p><strong>The Reactor. </strong></p><ul><li>Reactors are far too sensitive, not to you but to their own egos. They comb your every word and action for signs of a slight to their vanity. </li></ul><p><strong>The Vulgarian. </strong></p><ul><li>Vulgarians are inattentive to the details that are so important in seduction. You can see this in their personal appearance—their clothes are tasteless by any standard—and in their actions: they do not know that it is sometimes better to control oneself and refuse to give in to one’s impulses. </li><li>There is nothing more anti-seductive than feeling that someone has assumed that you are theirs, that you cannot possibly resist them. The slightest appearance of this kind of conceit is deadly to seduction; you must prove yourself, take your time, win your target’s heart. </li><li>Excessive pride, without anything to justify it, is highly anti-seductive. </li><li><strong>The person who is obviously angling for money or other material reward can only repel.</strong> If that is your intention, if you are looking for something other than pleasure—for money, for power—never show it. </li><li>The best way to avoid entanglements with Anti-Seducers is to recognize them right away and give them a wide berth, but they often deceive us. </li><li>Do not get angry—that may only encourage them or exacerbate their anti-seductive tendencies. Instead, act distant and indifferent, pay no attention to them, make them feel how little they matter to you. The best antidote to an Anti-Seducer is often to be anti-seductive yourself </li><li>Remember: <strong>seduction is a game of attention, of slowly filling the other person’s mind with your presence</strong>. Distance and inattention will create the opposite effect, and can be used as a tactic when the need arises. </li></ul><h4><strong>The Seducer’s Victims - the Eighteen Types</strong></h4><ul><li><strong>Victims are categorized by that they feel they are missing in life</strong>—adventure, attention, romance, a, naughty experience, mental or physical stimulation, etc.. Once you identify their type, you have the necessary ingredients for a seduction: you will be the one to give them what they lack and cannot get on their own. </li><li><strong>In studying potential victims, learn to see the reality behind the appearance</strong>. A timid person may yearn to play the star; a prude may long for a transgressive thrill. </li><li><strong>Never try to seduce your own type.</strong></li></ul><p>Victim Theory </p><ul><li>Nobody in this world feels whole and complete. We all sense some gap in our character something we need or want but cannot get on our own. When we fall in love, it is often with someone who seems to fill that gap. </li><li>Look at the people around you. Forget their social, exterior, their obvious character traits: look behind all of that, focusing on the gaps, the missing pieces in their psyche. That is the raw material of any seduction. Pay close attention to their clothes; their gestures, their offhand comments, the things in their house certain looks in their eyes get them to talk about their past, particularly past romances. And slowly the outline of those missing pieces will come into view. </li><li><strong>Understand: people are constantly giving out signals as to what they lack.</strong> They long for completeness, whether the illusion of it or the reality, and if it has to come from another person, that person has tremendous power over them. </li><li>Both deliberately and unconsciously, we often develop, a social exterior designed specifically to disguise our weaknesses and lacks. </li><li>Most importantly, <strong>expunge the nasty habit of thinking that other people have the same lacks you do.</strong></li><li><strong>Never try to seduce someone who is of your own type</strong>. You will be like two puzzles missing the same parts. </li></ul><p><strong>The Types</strong></p><p><strong>The Reformed Rake or Siren. </strong></p><ul><li>People of this type were once happy-go-lucky seducers who had their way with the opposite sex. But the day came when they were forced to give this up. </li><li>These types are ripe for the picking: all that is required is that you cross their path and offer them the opportunity to resume their rakish or siren ways. Their blood will stir and the call of their youth will overwhelm them. </li><li>It is critical, though, to give these types the illusion that they are the ones doing the seducing. </li><li>Do not be put off if they are in a relationship; a preexisting commitment is often the perfect foil. </li></ul><p><strong>The Disappointed Dreamer. </strong></p><ul><li>As children, these types probably spent a lot of time alone. To entertain themselves they developed a powerful fantasy life, fed by books and films and other kinds of popular culture. </li><li>You can recognize this type by the books they read and films they go to, the way their ears prick up when told of the real-life adventures some people manage to live out. </li><li>These types make for excellent and satisfying victims. First they usually have a great deal of pent-up passion and energy, which, you can release and focus on yourself. They also have great imaginations and will, respond to anything vaguely mysterious or romantic that you offer them. </li><li>If you give them a part of what they want they will imagine the rest. At All cost, do not let reality break the illusion you are creating. </li></ul><p><strong>The Pampered Royal. </strong></p><ul><li>These people were the classic spoiled children. </li><li>But their ceaseless search for variety is tiring for them and comes with a price: work problems, string of unsatisfying romances, friends scattered across the globe. </li><li>What the Pampered Prince or Princess is really looking for is one person, that parental figure, who will give them the spoiling they crave. </li><li>To seduce this type be ready to provide a lot of distraction—new places to visit, novel experiences, color, spectacle. </li><li>Recognize these types by the turmoil in their past—job changes, travel, short-term relationships—and by the air of aristocracy no matter their social class. </li></ul><p><strong>The New Prude </strong></p><ul><li>Sexual prudery still exists but it is less common than it was Prudery, however is never just about sex; a prude someone who is excessively concerned with appearances, with what society considers appropriate and acceptable behavior. </li><li>The New Prude excessively concerned with standards of goodness, fairness, political sensitivity, tastefulness, etc. What marks the New Prude, though, as well as the old one, is that deep down they are actually excited and intrigued by guilty, transgressive pleasures. </li><li>They tend to wear drab colors; they certainly never take fashion risks. They can be very judgmental and critical of people who do take risks and are less correct. They are also addicted to routine, which gives them a way to tamp down their inner turmoil. </li><li>The New Prude will often be most tempted by someone with dangerous or naughty side. </li><li>You can often draw a New Prude into a seduction, in fact by giving them the chance to criticize you on even try to reform you. </li></ul><p><strong>The Crushed Star</strong></p><ul><li>The problem with Crushed Stars is that at one point in their lives they did find themselves the center of attention—perhaps they were beautiful, charming and effervescent, perhaps they were athletes, or had some other talent—but those days are gone. </li><li>You can recognize. Crushed Stars by certain unguarded moments: they suddenly receive some attention in a social setting, and it makes them glow; they mention their glory days, and there is a little glint in the eye; a little wine in the system and they become effervesce. </li><li>Seducing this type is simple: just make them the center of attention. </li><li>When you are with them act as if they were stars and you were basking in their glow. </li><li>Get them to talk; particularly about themselves. </li></ul><p><strong>The Novice. </strong></p><ul><li>What separates Novices from ordinary innocent young people is that they are fatally curious. </li><li>Seducing a Novice is easy. To do it well, however, requires bit of art. Novices are interested in people with experience, particularly people with a touch of corruption and evil. Make that touch too strong, though, and it will intimidate and frighten them. What works best with at Novice is a mix of qualities. You are somewhat childlike yourself, with playful spirit. At the same time, it is clear that you have hidden depths, even sinister ones. </li><li>Everything must be romantic, even including the evil and dark side of life. </li><li><strong>Seductive language works wonders on Novice as does attention to detail.</strong> Spectacles and colorful, events appeal to their sensitive senses </li></ul><p><strong>The Conqueror. </strong></p><ul><li>These types have an unusual amount of energy, which they find difficult to control. They are always on the prowl for people to conquer, obstacles to surmount. </li><li>You will not always recognize. Conquerors by their exterior—they can seem a little shy in social situation and can have a degree of reserve. Look not at their words or appearance but at their actions, in work and in relationships. </li><li>You want to give them a good chase. Being a little difficult or moody, using coquetry, will often do the trick. </li><li>To break them in, keep them charging back and forth like a bull. </li><li>The Conqueror is generally male but there are plenty of female Conquerors out there. </li></ul><p><strong>The Exotic Fetishist. </strong></p><ul><li>Most of us are excited and intrigued by the exotic. What separates Exotic Fetishists from the rest of us is the degree of this interest, which seems to govern all their choices in life. </li><li>These types are easy to recognize. They like to travel; their houses are filled with objects from faraway places, they fetishize the music or art of this or that foreign culture. They often have a strong rebellious streak. </li><li>Clearly the way to seduce them is to position yourself as exotic—if you do not at least appear to come from a different background or race, or to have some alien aura, you should not even bother. </li><li>One variation on this type is the man or woman who is trapped in a stultifying relationship, a banal occupation, a dead-end town. </li><li>These Exotic Fetishists are better victims than the self-loathing kind, because you can offer them a temporary escape from whatever oppresses them. </li></ul><p><strong>The Drama Queen. </strong></p><ul><li>There are people who cannot do without some constant drama in their lives—it is their way of deflecting boredom. </li><li>With this type you have to be willing and able to give them the mental rough treatment they desire. </li><li>You will recognize Drama Queens by the number of people who have hurt them, the tragedies and traumas that have befallen them. </li></ul><p><strong>The Professor. </strong></p><ul><li>These types cannot get out of the trap of analyzing and criticizing everything that crosses their path. Their mind are overdeveloped and overstimulated. Even when they talk about love or sex, it is with great thought and analysis. </li><li>They would like to escape their mental prisons, they would like pure physicality, without any analysis, but they cannot get there on their own. </li><li>Deep down they long to be overwhelmed by someone with physical presence—a Rake or a Siren, for instance. </li><li>Let your Professors keep their sense of mental superiority; let them judge you. </li><li>You are giving them what no one else can give them—physical stimulation. </li></ul><p><strong>The Beauty. </strong></p><ul><li>From early on in life, the Beauty is gazed at by others. Their desire to look at her is the source of her power, but also the source of much unhappiness: she constantly worries that her powers are waning that she is no longer attracting attention. </li><li>Most important in this seduction is to validate those parts of the Beauty that no one else appreciates—her intelligence (generally higher than people imagine), her skills, her character. </li><li>Intellectual stimulation will work well on the Beauty, distracting her from her doubts and insecurities, and making it seem that you value that side of her personality. </li><li>The Beauty would love to be more active and to actually do some chasing of her own. A little coquettishness can work well here: at some point in all your worshipping, you might go a little cold, inviting her to come after you. </li></ul><p><strong>The Aging Baby. </strong></p><ul><li>Some people refuse to grow up. </li><li>In their twenties they can be charming, in their thirties interesting, but by the time they reach their forties they are beginning to wear thin. </li><li>The Aging Baby does not want competition, but an adult figure. If you desire to seduce this type, you must be prepared to be responsible, staid one. </li><li>Act the loving adult to the hilt, never judging on criticizing their behavior, and a strong attachment will form. </li></ul><p><strong>The Rescuer</strong></p><ul><li>You will recognize these types by their empathy—they listen well and try to get you to open up an talk. You will also notice they have histories of relationships with dependent and troubled people. </li><li>Rescuers can make excellent victims, particularly if you enjoy chivalrous or maternal attention. </li><li>If you are a man, play the boy who cannot deal with this harsh world; a female Rescuer will envelop you in maternal attention, gaining for herself the added satisfaction of feeling more powerful and in control than a man. </li><li><strong>Exaggerate your weaknesses, but not through overt words or gestures</strong>—let them sense that you have had too little love, that you have had a string of bad relationships, that you have gotten a raw deal in life. </li><li>You can also invite moral rescue: you are bad. You have done bad things. You need a stern yet loving hand. </li></ul><p><strong>The Roué. </strong></p><ul><li>These types have lived the good life and experienced many pleasures. They probably have, or once had, a good deal of money to finance their hedonistic lives. </li><li>Roués are consummate seducers, but there is one type that can easily seduce them—the young and the innocent. </li><li>If you should want to seduce them, you will probably have to be somewhat young and to have retained at least the appearance of innocence. </li><li>It is also good to seem to resist their advances: Roués will think it lively and exciting to chase you. You can even seem to dislike or distrust them—that will really spur them on. By being the one who resists, you control the dynamic. </li></ul><p><strong>The Idol Worshiper. </strong></p><ul><li>Everyone feels an inner lack but Idol Worshipers have a bigger emptiness than most people. They cannot be satisfied with themselves, so they search the world for something to worship, something to fill their inner void. </li><li>Idol Worshipers are easy to spot—they are the ones pouring their energies into some cause or religion. </li><li>The way to seduce these types is to simply become their object of worship, to take the place of the cause or religion to which they are so dedicated. At first you may have to seem to share their spiritual interests, joining them in their worship, or perhaps exposing them to a new cause; eventually you will displace. </li></ul><p>Keep two things in mind when seducing this type. </p><ul><li><strong>First,</strong> they tend to have overactive minds, which can make them quite suspicious. Because they often lack physical stimulation, and because physical stimulation will distract them, give them some: a mountain trek, a boat trip or sex will do the trick. </li><li><strong>Second,</strong> they often suffer from low self-esteem. Do not try to raise it; they will see through you, and your efforts at praising them will clash with their own self-image. They are to worship you; you are not to worship them. </li></ul><p><strong>The Sensualist. </strong></p><ul><li>What marks these types is not their love of pleasure but their overactive senses. Sometimes they show this quality in their appearance—their interest in fashion, color, style. But sometimes it is more subtle: because they are so sensitive, they are often quite shy, and they will shrink from standing out or being flamboyant. </li><li>You will recognize them by how responsive they are to their environment, how they cannot stand a room without sunlight, are depressed by certain colors, or excited by certain smells. </li><li>The key to seducing them is to aim for their senses, to take them to beautiful places, pay attention to detail, envelop them in spectacle, and of course use plenty of physical lures. </li><li>Sensualists, like animals, can be baited with colors and smells. Appeal to as many senses as possible, keeping your targets distracted and weak. </li></ul><p><strong>The Lonely Leader. </strong></p><ul><li>Powerful people are not necessarily different from everyone else, but they are treated differently, and this has a big effect on their personalities. </li><li>Lonely Leaders long to be seduced, to have someone break through their isolation and overwhelm them. </li><li>To seduce such types, it is better to act like their equal or even their superior—the kind of treatment they never get. If you are blunt with them you will seem genuine, and they will be touched. </li><li>Lonely Leaders can be made emotional by inflicting some pain, followed by tenderness. </li><li><strong>This is one of the hardest types to seduce</strong>, not only because they are suspicious but <strong>because their minds are burdened with cares and responsibilities</strong>. They have less mental space for a seduction. <strong>You will have to be patient and clever, slowly filling their minds with thoughts of you.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>The Floating Gender</strong></p><ul><li>People of the Floating Gender type feel that the separation of the sexes into such distinct genders is a burden. </li><li>What Floating Gender types are really looking for is another person of uncertain gender, their counterpart from the opposite sex. Show them that in your presence and they can relax, express the repressed side of their character. </li><li>If you are not of the Floating Gender, leave this type alone. You will only inhibit them and create more discomfort. </li></ul><h4><strong>Part Two - the Seductive Process</strong></h4><ul><li>You will not seduce anyone by simply depending on your engaging personality, or by occasionally doing something noble or alluring. </li><li><strong>Seduction is a process that occurs over time—the longer you take and the slower you go, the deeper you will penetrate into the mind of your victim.</strong></li><li>It is an art that requires patience, focus, and strategic thinking. </li><li>You need to always be one step ahead of your victim, throwing dust in their eyes, casting a spell, keeping them off balance. </li><li>To help you move the seduction along, the chapters are arranged in four phases, each phase with a particular goal to aim for: </li><li><strong>getting the victim to think of you;</strong></li><li><strong>gaining access to their emotions by creating moments of pleasure and confusion;</strong></li><li><strong>going deeper by working on their unconscious, stirring up repressed desires;</strong></li><li><strong>and finally, inducing physical surrender</strong></li><li><strong>At all cost, resist the temptation to hurry to the climax of your seduction, or to improvise.</strong> You are not being seductive but selfish. Everything in daily life is hurried and improvised, and you need to offer something different </li></ul><h4><strong>Phase One: Separation - Stirring Interest and Desire</strong></h4><ul><li>Once you have decided whom to seduce (1: Choose the right victim), your first task is to get your victims’ attention, to stir interest in you. </li><li>For those who might be more resistant or difficult, you should try a slower and more insidious approach, first winning their friendship (2: Create a false sense of security—approach indirectly); for those who are bored and less difficult to reach, a more dramatic approach will work, either fascinating them with a mysterious presence (3: Send mixed signals) or seeming to be someone who is coveted and fought over by others (4: Appear to be an object of desire). </li><li>Once the victim is properly intrigued, you need to transform their interest into something stronger—desire. </li><li>Desire is generally preceded by feelings of emptiness, of something missing inside that needs fulfillment. </li><li>You must deliberately instill such feelings, make your victims aware of the adventure and romance that are lacking in their lives (5: Create a need—stir anxiety and discontent). If they see you as the one to fill their emptiness, interest will blossom into desire. </li><li>The desire should be stoked by subtly planting ideas in their minds, hints of the seductive pleasures that await them (6: Master the art of insinuation). </li><li>Mirroring your victim’s values, indulging them in their wants and moods will charm and delight them (7: Enter their spirit). </li><li>Without realizing how it has happened, more and more of their thoughts now revolve around you. </li><li>The time has come for something stronger. Lure them with an irresistible pleasure or adventure (8: Create temptation) and they will follow your lead. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 1 - Choose the Right Victim</strong></h5><ul><li>Everything depends on the target of your seduction. Study your prey thoroughly, and choose only those who will prove susceptible to your charms. </li><li>The right victims are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic. </li><li>They are often isolated or at least somewhat unhappy (perhaps because of recent adverse circumstances), or can easily be made so—for the completely contented person is almost impossible to seduce. </li><li>The perfect victim has some natural quality that attracts you. The strong emotions this quality inspires will help make your seductive maneuvers seem more natural and dynamic. The perfect victim allows for the perfect chase. </li><li>The perfect victim is the person who stirs you in a way that cannot be explained in words, whose effect on you has nothing to do with superficialities. He or she often has a quality that you yourself lack, and may even secretly envy. </li><li><strong>There should be a little bit of tension—the victim may fear you a little, even slightly dislike you.</strong></li><li>Be more creative in choosing your prey and you will be rewarded with a more exciting seduction. </li><li>Of course, it means nothing if the potential victim is not open to your influence. Test the person first. Once you feel that he or she is also vulnerable to you then the hunting can begin. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>How do you recognize your victims? By the way they respond to you. You should not pay so much attention to their conscious responses. </li><li>Instead, pay greater attention to those responses outside conscious control—a blush, an involuntary mirroring of some gesture of yours, an unusual shyness, even perhaps a flash of anger or resentment. </li><li>Like Valmont, you can also recognize the right targets by the effect they are having on you. Perhaps they make you uneasy. </li><li>When a person has such a deep effect on you, it transforms all of your subsequent maneuvers. Your face and gestures become more animated. You have more energy; when victims resist you (as a good victim should) you in turn will be more creative, more motivated to overcome their resistance. </li><li>Look at the types you have not considered before—that is where you will find challenge and adventure. </li><li>On the other hand, <strong>you should generally avoid people who are preoccupied with business or work—seduction demands attention, and busy people have too little space in their minds for you to occupy.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2 - Create a False Sense of Security - Approach Indirectly</strong></h5><ul><li>If you are too direct early on, you risk stirring up a resistance that will never be lowered. </li><li>Approach through a third party, or seem to cultivate a relatively neutral relationship, moving gradually from friend to lover. </li><li>Arrange an occasional “chance” encounter, as if you and your target were destined to become acquainted—nothing is more seductive than a sense of destiny. Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike. </li><li><strong>First</strong>, your friendly conversations with your targets will bring you valuable information about their characters, their tastes, their weaknesses, the childhood yearnings that govern their adult behavior. </li><li><strong>Second</strong>, by spending time with your targets you can make them comfortable with you. Believing you are interested only in their thoughts, in their company, they will lower their resistance, dissipating the usual tension between the sexes. </li><li>At this point any offhand comment, any slight physical contact, will spark a different thought, which will catch them off-guard: perhaps there could be something else between you. </li><li>Once that feeling has stirred, they will wonder why you haven’t made a move, and will take the initiative themselves, enjoying the illusion that they are in control. <strong>There is nothing more effective in seduction than making the seduced think that they are the ones doing the seducing.</strong></li><li>The first move to master is simple: once you have chosen the right person, you must make the target come to you. If, in the opening stages, you can make your targets think that they are the ones making the first approach, you have won the game. </li><li>You can also play cat and mouse with them, first seeming interested, then stepping back—actively luring them to follow you into your web. </li><li>Banal conversation can be a brilliant tactic; it hypnotizes the target. The dullness of your front gives the subtlest suggestive word, the slightest look, an amplified power. </li><li>Never mention love and you make its absence speak volumes—your victims will wonder why you never discuss your emotions. </li><li>Learn to disguise your feelings and let people figure out what is happening for themselves. </li><li>In all arenas of life, you should never give the impression that you are angling for something—that will raise a resistance that you will never lower. Learn to approach people from the side. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>The indirect, carefully constructed seduction may reduce the number of your conquests, but more than compensate by their quality. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3 - Send Mixed Signals</strong></h5><ul><li>Once people are aware of your presence, and perhaps vaguely intrigued, you need to stir their interest before it settles on someone else. </li><li>What is obvious and striking may attract their attention at first, but that attention is often short-lived; in the long run, ambiguity is much more potent. </li><li>Most of us are much too obvious —instead, be hard to figure out. Send mixed signals: both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthy, both innocent and cunning. A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates even as it confuses. </li><li>An elusive, enigmatic aura will make people want to know more, drawing them into your circle. Create such a power by hinting at something contradictory within you. </li><li>To deepen their interest, <strong>you must hint at a complexity that cannot be grasped in a week or two.</strong> You are an elusive mystery, an irresistible lure, promising great pleasure if only it can be possessed. </li><li>The key to both attracting and holding attention is to radiate mystery. And no one is naturally mysterious, at least not for long; mystery is something you have to work at, a ploy on your part, and something that must be used early on in the seduction. </li><li>Let one part of your character show, so everyone notices it. </li><li>But also send out a mixed signal—some sign that you are not what you seem, a paradox. Do not worry if this underquality is a negative one, like danger, cruelty, or amorality; people will be drawn to the enigma anyway, and pure goodness is rarely seductive. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>It is actually quite easy to create that first stir—an alluring style of dress, a suggestive glance, something extreme about you. But what happens next? </li><li>Your attractiveness will pass unless you spark the more enduring kind of spell that makes people think of you in your absence. That means engaging their imaginations, making them think there is more to you than what they see. Once they start embellishing your image with their fantasies, they are hooked. </li><li>This must, however, be done early on, before your targets know too much and their impressions of you are set. It should occur the moment they lay eyes on you. By sending mixed signals in that first encounter, you create a little surprise, a little tension: you seem to be one thing (innocent, brash, intellectual, witty), but you also throw them a glimpse of something else (devilish, shy, spontaneous, sad). Keep things subtle: if the second quality is too strong, you will seem schizophrenic. </li><li>To capture and hold attention, you need to show attributes that go against your physical appearance, creating depth and mystery. If you have a sweet face and an innocent air, let out hints of something dark, even vaguely cruel in your character. It. </li><li><strong>A potent variation on this theme is the blending of physical heat and emotional coldness.</strong></li><li>Remember: that first impression, that entrance, is critical. To show too much desire for attention is to signal insecurity, and will often drive people away; play it too cold and disinterested, on the other hand, and no one will bother coming near. The trick is to combine the two attitudes at the same moment. It is the essence of coquetry. </li><li>These principles have applications far beyond sexual seduction. To hold the attention of a broad public, to seduce them into thinking about you, you need to mix your signals. Display too much of one quality—even if it is a noble one, like knowledge or efficiency—and people will feel that you lack humanity. We are all complex and ambiguous, full of contradictory impulses; if you show only one side, even if it is your good side, you will wear on people’s nerves. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>The complexity you signal to other people will only affect them properly if they have the capacity to enjoy a mystery. Some people like things simple, and lack the patience to pursue a person who confuses them. They prefer to be dazzled and overwhelmed. </li><li>Everything depends on your target: do not bother creating depth for people who are insensitive to it, or who may even be put off or disturbed by it. You can recognize such types by their preference for the simpler pleasures in life, their lack of patience for a more nuanced story. With them, keep it simple. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4 - Appear to Be an Object of Desire - Create Triangles</strong></h5><ul><li>We want what other people want. To draw your victims closer and make them hungry to possess you, you must create an aura of desirability—of being wanted and courted by many. It will become a point of vanity for them to be the preferred object of your attention, to win you away from a crowd of admirers. </li><li><strong>Manufacture the illusion of popularity by surrounding yourself with members of the opposite sex—friends, former lovers, present suitors. Create triangles that stimulate rivalry and raise your value. Build a reputation that precedes you: if many have succumbed to your charms, there must be a reason.</strong></li><li>Our desire for another person almost always involves social considerations: we are attracted to those who are attractive to other people. </li><li>And the most effective way to create that illusion is to create a triangle: impose another person between you and your victim, and subtly make your victim aware of how much this other person wants you. </li><li><strong>The third point on the triangle does not have to be just one person: surround yourself with admirers, reveal your past conquests—in other words, envelop yourself in an aura of desirability.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>Desirability is a social illusion. </li><li>Make people compete for your attention, make them see you as sought after by everyone else. The aura of desirability will envelop you. </li><li>Your reputation—your illustrious past as a seducer—is an effective way of creating an aura of desirability. </li><li><strong>Men who believe that a rakish reputation will make women fear or distrust them, and should be played down, are quite wrong. On the contrary, it makes them more attractive.</strong></li><li>Your own reputation may not be so alluring, but you must find a way to suggest to your victim that others, many others, have found you desirable. There is nothing like a restaurant full of empty tables to persuade you not to go in. </li><li>A variation on the triangle strategy is the use of contrasts: careful exploitation of people who are dull or unattractive may enhance your desirability by comparison. At a social affair, for instance, make sure that your target has to chat with the most boring person available. </li><li>The use of contrasts has vast political ramifications, for a political figure must also seduce and seem desirable. Learn to play up the qualities that your rivals lack. </li><li>Finally, appearing to be desired by others will raise your value, but often how you carry yourself can influence this as well. <strong>Do not let your targets see you so often; keep your distance, seem unattainable, out of their reach. An object that is rare and hard to obtain is generally more prized.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5 - Create a Need-Stir Anxiety and Discontent</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>A perfectly satisfied person cannot be seduced.</strong> Tension and disharmony must be instilled in your targets’ minds. Stir within them feelings of discontent, an unhappiness with their circumstances and with themselves: their life lacks adventure, they have strayed from the ideals of their youth, they have become boring. </li><li>The feelings of inadequacy that you create will give you space to insinuate yourself, to make them see you as the answer to their problems. Pain and anxiety are the proper precursors to pleasure. Learn to manufacture the need that you can fill. </li><li>Although Lawrence had great success with his frontal approach, <strong>it is often better to stir thoughts of inadequacy and uncertainty indirectly, by hinting at comparisons to yourself or to others, and by insinuating somehow that your victims’ lives are less grand than they had imagined.</strong> You want them to feel at war with themselves, torn in two directions, and anxious about it. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>As a seducer, you must never mistake a person’s appearance for the reality. People are always susceptible to being seduced, because in fact everyone lacks a sense of completeness, feels something missing deep inside. </li><li>Remember: most of us are lazy. To relieve our feelings of boredom or inadequacy on our own takes too much effort; letting someone else do the job is both easier and more exciting. </li><li>If they are stuck in a rut, make them feel it more deeply, “innocently” bringing it up and talking about it. What you want is a wound, an insecurity you can expand a little, an anxiety that can best be relieved by involvement with another person, namely you. They must feel the wound before they fall in love. </li><li>Lawrence made his targets feel personally inadequate; if you find it hard to be so brutal, concentrate on their friends, their circumstances, the externals of their lives. </li><li>Corporations and politicians know that they cannot seduce their public into buying what they want them to buy, or doing what they want them to do, unless they first awaken a sense of need and discontent. Make the masses uncertain about their identity and you can help define it for them. </li><li>It is as true of groups or nations as it is of individuals: they cannot be seduced without being made to feel some lack. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Charm is often a subtler and more effective route to seduction. </li><li>This is a kind of diffused seduction, lacking in tension and in the deep emotions that the sexual variety stirs. </li><li>But if you are subtle and clever, it can be a way of lowering their defenses, creating an unthreatening friendship. </li><li>Once they are under your spell in this way, you can then open the wound. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6 - Master the Art of Insinuation</strong></h5><ul><li>Making your targets feel dissatisfied and in need of your attention is essential, but if you are too obvious, they will see through you and grow defensive. There is no known defense, however, against insinuation—the art of planting ideas in people’s minds by dropping elusive hints that take root days later, even appearing to them as their own idea. </li><li><strong>Insinuation is the supreme means of influencing people.</strong> Create a sublanguage—bold statements followed by retraction and apology, ambiguous comments, banal talk combined with alluring glances—that enters the target’s unconscious to convey your real meaning. Make everything suggestive. </li><li><strong>Slight physical contact insinuates desire</strong>, as does a fleeting but memorable look, or an unusually warm tone of voice, both for the briefest of moments. A passing comment suggests that something about the victim interests you; but keep it subtle, your words revealing a possibility, creating a doubt. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>Remember: to sow a seductive idea you must engage people’s imaginations, their fantasies, their deepest yearnings. What sets the wheels spinning is suggesting things that people already want to hear—the possibility of pleasure, wealth, health, adventure. In the end, these good things turn out to be precisely what you seem to offer them. </li><li><strong>Slips of the tongue, apparently inadvertent “sleep on it” comments, alluring references, statements for which you quickly apologize—all of these have immense insinuating power.</strong></li><li>The key to succeeding with your insinuations is to make them when your targets are at their most relaxed or distracted, so that they are not aware of what is happening. </li><li>Polite banter is often the perfect front for this; people are thinking about what they will say next, or are absorbed in their own thoughts. </li><li><strong>Hints, suggestions, and insinuations create a seductive atmosphere, signaling that their victim is no longer involved in the routines of daily life but has entered another realm.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>The danger in insinuation is that when you leave things ambiguous your target may misread them. </li><li>There are moments, particularly later on in a seduction, when it is best to communicate your idea directly, particularly once you know the target will welcome it. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7 - Enter Their Spirit</strong></h5><ul><li>Most people are locked in their own worlds, making them stubborn and hard to persuade. <strong>The way to lure them out of their shell and set up your seduction is to enter their spirit. Play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt yourself to their moods. In doing so you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses. Hypnotized by the mirror image you present, they will open up, becoming vulnerable to your subtle influence.</strong></li><li>Soon you can shift the dynamic: once you have entered their spirit you can make them enter yours, at a point when it is too late to turn back. Indulge your targets’ every mood and whim, giving them nothing to react against or resist. </li><li><strong>Of all the seductive tactics, entering someone’s spirit is perhaps the most devilish of all. It gives your victims the feeling that they are seducing you.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>One of the great sources of frustration in our lives is other people’s stubbornness. How hard it is to reach them, to make them see things our way. </li><li>Paradoxically, the way to entice people out of this shell is to become more like them, in fact a kind of mirror image of them. </li><li>When you are mirroring someone, do not stop at the person they have become; enter the spirit of that ideal person they wanted to be. </li></ul><p>Reversal </p><ul><li>Never take mirroring too far, then. It is only useful in the first phase of a seduction; at some point the dynamic must be reversed. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8 - Create Temptation</strong></h5><ul><li>Lure the target deep into your seduction by creating the proper temptation: a glimpse of the pleasures to come. </li><li><strong>Find that weakness of theirs, that fantasy that has yet to be realized, and hint that you can lead them toward it. It could be wealth, it could be adventure, it could be forbidden and guilty pleasures; the key is to keep it vague.</strong></li><li>Stimulate a curiosity stronger than the doubts and anxieties that go with it, and they will follow you. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li><strong>What people want is not temptation; temptation happens every day. What people want is to give into temptation, to yield.</strong></li><li>Your task, then, is to create a temptation that is stronger than the daily variety. It has to be focused on them, aimed at them as individuals—at their weakness. </li><li>Understand: everyone has a principal weakness, from which others stem. Find that childhood insecurity, that lack in their life, and you hold the key to tempting them. </li><li>Their weakness may be greed, vanity, boredom, some deeply repressed desire, a hunger for forbidden fruit. </li><li>Their past, and particularly their past romances, will be littered with clues. </li><li>Many such social barriers are gone today, so they have to be manufactured—it is the only way to put spice into seduction. </li><li>Taboos of any kind are a source of tension, and they are psychological now, not religious. </li><li>Search in their past; whatever they seem to fear or flee from might hold the key. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The reverse of temptation is security or satisfaction, and both are fatal to seduction. If you cannot tempt someone out of their habitual comfort, you cannot seduce them.</strong></li><li>If you satisfy the desire you have awakened, the seduction is over. There is no reversal to temptation. </li></ul><h4><strong>Phase Two - Lead Astray-Creating Pleasure &amp; Confusion</strong></h4><ul><li>Your victims are sufficiently intrigued and their desire for you is growing, but their attachment is weak and at any moment they could decide to turn back. </li><li>The goal in this phase is to lead your victims so far astray—keeping them emotional and confused, giving them pleasure but making them want more—that retreat is no longer possible. </li><li><strong>Springing on them a pleasant surprise will make them see you as delightfully unpredictable, but will also keep them off balance</strong> (9: Keep them in suspense—what comes next?). </li><li><strong>The artful use of soft and pleasant words will intoxicate them and stimulate fantasies</strong> (10: Use the demonic power of words to sow confusion). </li><li>Aesthetic touches and pleasant little rituals will titillate their senses, distract their minds (11: Pay attention to detail). </li><li><strong>Your greatest danger in this phase is the mere hint of routine or familiarity.</strong> You need to maintain some mystery, to keep a little distance so that in your absence your victims become obsessed with you (12: Poeticize your presence). </li><li><strong>They may realize they are falling for you, but they must never suspect how much of this has come from your manipulations. A well-timed display of your weakness, of how emotional you have become under their influence will help cover your tracks</strong> (13: Disarm through strategic weakness and vulnerability). </li><li>To excite your victims and make them highly emotional, you must give them the feeling that they are actually living some of the fantasies you have stirred in their imagination (14: Confuse desire and reality). </li><li>By giving them only a part of the fantasy, you will keep them coming back for more. Focusing your attention on them so that the rest of the world fades away, even taking them on a trip, will lead them far astray (15: Isolate your victim). There is no turning back. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9 - Keep Them in Suspense - What Comes Next?</strong></h5><ul><li>The moment people feel they know what to expect from you, your spell on them is broken. More: you have ceded them power. The only way to lead the seduced along and keep the upper hand is to create suspense, a calculated surprise. </li><li><strong>Give the victim a thrill with a sudden change of direction.</strong></li><li>In seduction, you need to create constant tension and suspense, a feeling that with you nothing is predictable. You are creating drama in real life, so pour your creative energies into it, have some fun. </li><li><strong>But best of all are surprises that reveal something new about your character. This needs to be set up.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>Any sudden event has a similar effect, striking directly at our emotions before we get defensive. </li><li>Appear somewhere unexpectedly, say or do something sudden, and people will not have time to figure out that your move was calculated. </li><li>Finally, you might think it wiser to present yourself as someone reliable, not given to caprice. If so, you are in fact merely timid. </li><li>If, on the other hand, you prefer to improvise, imagining that any kind of planning or calculation is antithetical to the spirit of surprise, you are making a grave mistake. </li><li>Constant improvisation simply means you are lazy, and thinking only about yourself. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Surprise can be unsurprising if you keep doing the same thing again and again. </li><li>You need to vary the method of your surprises. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10 - Use the Demonic Power of Words to Sow Confusion</strong></h5><ul><li>It is hard to make people listen; they are consumed with their own thoughts and desires, and have little time for yours. The trick to making them listen is to say what they want to hear, to fill their ears with whatever is pleasant to them. This is the essence of seductive language. </li><li>Inflame people’s emotions with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their insecurities, envelop them in fantasies, sweet words, and promises, and not only will they listen to you, they will lose their Will to resist you. </li><li>Keep your language vague, letting them read into it what they want. Use writing to stir up fantasies and to create an idealized portrait of yourself. </li><li><strong>Whether you are talking to a single individual or to a crowd, try a little experiment: rein in your desire to speak your mind. Before you open your mouth, ask yourself a question: what can I say that will have the most pleasant effect on my listeners? Often this entails flattering their egos, assuaging their insecurities, giving them vague hopes for the future, sympathizing with their travails (“I have understood you”).</strong></li><li>Remember: the tone of your letters is what will get under their skin. If your language is elevated, poetic, creative in its praise, it will infect them despite themselves. Never argue, never defend yourself, never accuse them of being heartless. That would ruin the spell. </li><li><strong>Do not waste time on real information; focus on feelings and sensations, using expressions that are ripe with connotation.</strong> Plant ideas by dropping hints, writing suggestively without explaining yourself. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>The key to seductive language is not the words you utter, or your seductive tone of voice; it is a radical shift in perspective and habit. </li><li>The difference between normal language and seductive language is like the difference between noise and music. </li><li>Learn to sniff out the parts of a person’s ego that need validation. Make it a surprise, something no one else has thought to flatter before—something you can describe as a talent or positive quality that others have not noticed. Speak with a little tremor, as if your target’s charms had overwhelmed you and made you emotional. </li><li>The emotions you are trying to arouse should be strong ones. Do not speak of friendship and disagreement; speak of love and hate. And it is crucial to try to feel something of the emotions you are trying to elicit. </li><li>Seductive language should have a kind of boldness, which will cover up a multitude of sins. </li><li>Never say “I don’t think the other side made a wise decision”; say “We deserve better,” or “They have made a mess of things.” Affirmative language is active language, full of verbs, imperatives, and short sentences. Cut out “I believe,” “Perhaps,” “In my opinion.” Head straight for the heart. </li><li>Your words do not stand for anything real; their sound, and the feelings they evoke, are more important than what they are supposed to stand for. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Do not confuse flowery language with seduction: in using flowery language you run the risk of wearing on people’s nerves, of seeming pretentious. </li><li>Curb your tongue—use silence to cultivate an enigmatic presence. </li><li>Finally, seduction has a pace and rhythm. In phase one, you are cautious and indirect. It is often best to disguise your intentions, to put your target at ease with deliberately neutral words. Your conversation should be harmless, even a bit bland. </li><li>In this second phase, you turn more to the attack; this is the time for seductive language. Now when you envelop them in your seductive words and letters, it comes as a pleasant surprise. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 11 - Pay Attention to Detail</strong></h5><ul><li>Lofty words and grand gestures can be suspicious: why are you trying so hard to please? The details of a seduction—the subtle gestures, the offhand things you do— are often more charming and revealing. </li><li><strong>You must learn to distract your victims with a myriad of pleasant little rituals—thoughtful gifts tailored just for them, clothes and adornments designed to please them, gestures that show the time and attention you are paying them.</strong> All of their senses are engaged in the details you orchestrate. </li><li>Create spectacles to dazzle their eyes; mesmerized by what they see, they will not notice what you are really up to. Learn to suggest the proper feelings and moods through details. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Remember: the more you get people to focus on the little things, the less they will notice your larger direction.</strong> The seduction will assume the slow, hypnotic pace of a ritual, in which the details have a heightened importance and the moments are full of ceremony. </li><li>But what is most seductive in the long run is what you do not say, what you communicate indirectly. </li><li>The gesture, the thoughtful gift, the little details seem much more real and substantial. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 12 - Poeticize Your Presence</strong></h5><ul><li>Important things happen when your targets are alone: the slightest feeling of relief that you are not there, and it is all over. Familiarity and overexposure will cause this reaction. </li><li><strong>Remain elusive, then, so that when you are away, they will yearn to see you again, and will associate you only with pleasant thoughts.</strong></li><li>Occupy their minds by alternating an exciting presence with a cool distance, exuberant moments followed by calculated absences. Associate yourself with poetic images and objects, so that when they think of you, they begin to see you through an idealized halo. </li><li>At all costs, you must embody something, even if it is roguery and evil. Anything to avoid the taint of familiarity and commonness. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction </strong></p><ul><li>This makes the seducer’s task easy: people are dying to be given the chance to fantasize about you </li><li>Soon after we fall under a person’s spell, we form an image in our minds of who they are and what pleasures they might offer. </li><li>The first happens when we first meet the person. The second and more important one happens later, when a bit of doubt creeps in—you desire the other person, but they elude you, you are not sure they are yours </li><li><strong>Remember: if you are easily had, you cannot be worth that much.</strong> It is hard to wax poetic about a person who comes so cheaply. <strong>If, after the initial interest, you make it clear that you cannot be taken for granted, if you stir a bit of doubt, the target will imagine there is something special, lofty, and unattainable about you. Your image will crystallize in the other person’s mind</strong></li><li>Although it is said that absence makes the heart grow fonder, an absence too early will prove deadly to the crystallization process </li><li><strong>Do everything you can to keep the target thinking about you. Letters, mementos, gifts, unexpected meetings—all these give you an omnipresence. Everything must remind them of you</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>The only thing that cannot be idealized is mediocrity, but there is nothing seductive about mediocrity </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 13 - Disarm Through Strategic Weakness &amp; Vulnerability</strong></h5><ul><li>Too much maneuvering on your part may raise suspicion. The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger. </li><li>If you seem to be weak, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and unable to control yourself, you will make your actions look more natural, less calculated. </li><li>To further win trust, exchange honesty for virtue: establish your “sincerity” by confessing some sin on your part—it doesn’t have to be real. Sincerity is more important than goodness. Play the victim, then transform your target’s sympathy into love. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>Remember: what is natural to your character is inherently seductive. A person’s vulnerability, what they seem to be unable to control, is often what is most seductive about them. <strong>People who display no weaknesses, on the other hand, often elicit envy, fear, and anger</strong>—we want to sabotage them just to bring them down. </li><li>Do not struggle against your vulnerabilities, or try to repress them, but put them into play. Learn to transform them into power. The game is subtle: if you wallow in your weakness, overplay your hand, you will be seen as angling for sympathy, or, worse, as pathetic. </li><li>No, <strong>what works best is to allow people an occasional glimpse into the soft, frail side of your character, and usually only after they have known you for a while. That glimpse will humanize you, lowering their suspicions, and preparing the ground for a deeper attachment. Normally strong and in control, at moments you let go, give in to your weakness, let them see it.</strong></li><li>Male seducers long ago learned to become more feminine—to show their emotions, and to seem interested in their targets’ lives. </li><li>The key is to indulge your softer side while still remaining as masculine as possible. </li><li><strong>Remember, though, to keep everything in moderation. A glimpse of shyness is sufficient; too much of it and the target will despair,</strong> afraid that she will end up having to do all the work. </li><li>In social and political situations, seeming too ambitious, or too controlled, will make people fear you; it is crucial to show your soft side. The display of a single weakness will hide a multitude of manipulations. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Timing is everything in seduction; you should always look for signs that the target is falling under your spell. A person falling in love tends to ignore the other person’s weaknesses, or to see them as endearing. </li><li><strong>The only weaknesses worth playing up are the ones that will make you seem lovable. All others should be repressed and eradicated at all costs.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 14 - Confuse Desire and Reality - The Perfect Illusion</strong></h5><ul><li>To compensate for the difficulties in their lives, people spend a lot of their time daydreaming, imagining a future full of adventure, success, and romance. If you can create the illusion that through you they can live out their dreams, you will have them at your mercy. </li><li>It is important to start slowly, gaining their trust, and gradually constructing the fantasy that matches their desires. Aim at secret wishes that have been thwarted or repressed, stirring up uncontrollable emotions, clouding their powers of reason. The perfect illusion is one that does not depart too much from reality, but has a touch of the unreal to it, like a waking dream. Lead the seduced to a point of confusion in which they can no longer tell the difference between illusion and reality. </li><li>Remember: people want to believe in the extraordinary; with a little groundwork, a little mental foreplay, they will fall for your illusion. If anything, err on the side of reality: use real props (like the child Pei Pu showed Bouriscout) and add the fantastical touches in your words, or an occasional gesture that gives you a slight unreality. </li><li>When our emotions are engaged, we often have trouble seeing things as they are. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>The real world can be unforgiving: events occur over which we have little control, other people ignore our feelings in their quests to get what they need, time runs out before we accomplish what we had wanted. </li><li>Your task as a seducer is to bring some flesh and blood into someone’s fantasy life by embodying a fantasy figure, or creating a scenario resembling that person’s dreams. </li><li>You must first choose targets who have some repression or dream unrealized—always the most likely victims of a seduction. </li><li>Instead create the appearance of normality. Once your targets feel secure—nothing is out of the ordinary—you have room to deceive them. </li><li>In animating a fantasy, the great mistake is imagining it must be larger than life. </li><li>Indulge your targets in this wish by first making it clear that you are playing a role, then inviting them to join you in a shared fantasy. </li><li>The idea that we can get something back, that a mistake can be righted, is immensely seductive. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>There is no reversal to this chapter. No seduction can proceed without creating illusion, the sense of a world that is real but separate from reality. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 15 - Isolate the Victim</strong></h5><ul><li>An isolated person is weak. By slowly isolating your victims, you make them more vulnerable to your influence. </li><li>Their isolation may be psychological: by filling their field of vision through the pleasurable attention you pay them, you crowd out everything else in their mind. They see and think only of you. </li><li>The isolation may also be physical: you take them away from their normal milieu, friends, family, home. </li><li><strong>Lure the seduced into your lair, where nothing is familiar.</strong></li><li>Do not give your targets the time or space to worry about, suspect, or resist you. Flood them with the kind of attention that crowds out all other thoughts, concerns, and problems. Remember—people secretly yearn to be led astray by someone who knows where they are going. It can be a pleasure to let go, and even to feel isolated and weak, if the seduction is done slowly and gracefully. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>A target who is strong and settled is hard to seduce. But even the strongest people can be made vulnerable if you can isolate them from their nests and safety nets. Block out their friends and family with your constant presence, alienate them from the world they are used to, and take them to places they do not know. </li><li>Get them to spend time in your environment. Deliberately disturb their habits, get them to do things they have never done. They will grow emotional, making it easier to lead them astray. Disguise all this in the form of a pleasurable experience, and your targets will wake up one day distanced from everything that normally comforts them. Then they will turn to you for help, like a child crying out for its mother when the lights are turned out. </li><li>Your worst enemies in a seduction are often your targets’ family and friends. They are outside your circle and immune to your charms; they may provide a voice of reason to the seduced. You must work silently and subtly to alienate the target from them. Insinuate that they are jealous of your target’s good fortune in finding you, or that they are parental figures who have lost a taste for adventure. The latter argument is extremely effective with young people, whose identities are in flux and who are more than ready to rebel against any authority figure, particularly their parents. You represent excitement and life; the friends and parents represent habit and boredom. </li><li>The principle of isolation can be taken literally by whisking the target off to an exotic locale. </li><li>Finally, at some point in the seduction there must be a hint of danger in the mix. Your targets should feel that they are gaining a great adventure in following you, but are also losing something—a part of their past, their cherished comfort. </li><li>Actively encourage these ambivalent feelings. An element of fear is the proper spice; although too much fear is debilitating, in small doses it makes us feel alive. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>The risks of this strategy are simple: isolate someone too quickly and you will induce a sense of panic that may end up in the target’s taking flight. </li></ul><h4><strong>Phase 3 - The Precipice - Deepening the Effect Through Extreme Measures</strong></h4><ul><li>The goal in this phase is to make everything deeper—the effect you have on their mind, feelings of love and attachment, tension within your victims. With your hooks deep into them, you can then push them back and forth, between hope and despair, until they weaken and snap. </li><li>Showing how far you are willing to go for your victims, doing some noble or chivalrous deed (16: Prove yourself) will create a powerful jolt, spark an intensely positive reaction. </li><li>Everyone has scars, repressed desires, and unfinished business from childhood. Bring these desires and wounds to the surface, make your victims feel they are getting what they never got as a child and you will penetrate deep into their psyche, stir uncontrollable emotions (17: Effect a regression). </li><li>Now you can take your victims past their limits, getting them to act out their dark sides, adding a sense of danger to your seduction (18: Stir up the transgressive and taboo). </li><li>You need to deepen the spell, and nothing will more confuse and enchant your victims than giving your seduction a spiritual veneer. </li><li>It is not lust that motivates you, but destiny, divine thoughts and everything elevated (19: Use spiritual lures). </li><li>The erotic lurks beneath the spiritual. Now your victims have been properly set up. By deliberately hurting them, instilling fears and anxieties, you will lead them to the edge of the precipice from which it will be easy to push and make them fall (20: Mix pleasure with pain). They feel great tension and are yearning for relief. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 16 - Prove Yourself</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Most people want to be seduced. If they resist your efforts, it is probably because you have not gone far enough to allay their doubts—about your motives, the depth of your feelings, and so on</strong>. One well-timed action that shows how far you are willing to go to win them over will dispel their doubts. </li><li><strong>Do not worry about looking foolish or making a mistake—any kind of deed that is self-sacrificing and for your targets’ sake will so overwhelm their emotions, they won’t notice anything else.</strong> Never appear discouraged by people’s resistance, or complain. Instead, meet the challenge by doing something extreme or chivalrous. </li><li>Conversely, spur others to prove themselves by making yourself hard to reach, unattainable, worth fighting over. </li><li><strong>More often than not, you give up too easily.</strong></li><li><strong>First, understand a primary law of seduction: resistance is a sign that the other person’s emotions are engaged in the process.</strong> The only person you cannot seduce is somebody distant and cold. </li></ul><p>There are two ways to prove yourself. </p><ul><li><strong>First, the spontaneous action:</strong> a situation arises in which the target needs help, a problem needs solving, or, simply, he or she needs a favor. You cannot foresee these situations, but you must be ready for them, for they can spring up at any time. <strong>Impress the target by going further than really necessary—sacrificing more money, more time, more effort than they had expected.</strong></li><li><strong>The second way to prove yourself is the brave deed that you plan and execute in advance, on your own and at the right moment</strong>—preferably some way into the seduction, when any doubts the victim still has about you are more dangerous than earlier on. </li><li><strong>Choose a dramatic, difficult action that reveals the painful time and effort involved.</strong> Danger can be extremely seductive. Cleverly lead your victim into a crisis, a moment of danger, or indirectly put them in an uncomfortable position, and you can play the rescuer, the gallant knight. The powerful feelings and emotions this elicits can easily be redirected into love. </li><li><strong>When dealing with difficult or resistant targets, it is usually best to improvise.</strong></li><li>If your action seems sudden and a surprise, it will make them more emotional, loosen them up. A little roundabout accumulation of information—a little spying—is always a good idea. </li><li>Most important is the spirit in which you enact your proof. If you are lighthearted and playful, if you make the target laugh, proving yourself and amusing them at the same time, it won’t matter if you mess up, or if they see you have employed a little trickery. </li><li><strong>Making your deed as dashing and chivalrous as possible will elevate the seduction to a new level, stir up deep emotions, and conceal any ulterior motives you may have.</strong> The sacrifices you are making must be visible; talking about them, or explaining what they have cost you, will seem like bragging. </li><li><strong>Lose sleep, fall ill, lose valuable time, put your career on the line, spend more money than you can afford. You can exaggerate all this for effect, but don’t get caught boasting about it or feeling sorry for yourself: cause yourself pain and let them see it.</strong> Since almost everyone else in the world seems to have an angle, your noble and selfless deed will be irresistible. </li><li>The appeal of seduction is that of being separated from our normal routines, experiencing the thrill of the unknown. </li><li><strong>Show that you have a reckless streak and a daring nature, that you lack the usual fear of death, and you are instantly fascinating to the bulk of humanity.</strong></li><li>Remember: not only what you do matters, but how you do it. If you are naturally self-absorbed, learn to disguise it. React as spontaneously as possible, exaggerating the effect by seeming flustered, overexcited, even foolish—love has driven you to that point. </li><li><strong>Make people compete for your attention, make them prove themselves in some way, and you will find them rising to the challenge. The heat of seduction is raised by such challenges—show me that you really love me.</strong></li><li>When one person (of either sex) rises to the occasion, often the other person is now expected to do the same, and the seduction heightens. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>When trying to prove that you are worthy of your target, remember that every target sees things differently; A show of physical prowess will not impress someone who does not value physical prowess; it will just show that you are after attention, flaunting yourself. </li><li>Seducers must adapt their way of proving themselves to the doubts and weaknesses of the seduced. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 17 - Effect a Regression</strong></h5><ul><li>People who have experienced a certain kind of pleasure in the past will try to repeat or relive it. </li><li>The deepest-rooted and most pleasurable memories are usually those from earliest childhood, and are often unconsciously associated with a parental figure. </li><li>Bring your targets back to that point by placing yourself in the oedipal triangle and positioning them as the needy child. Unaware of the cause of their emotional response, they will fall in love with you. </li><li>Alternatively, you too can regress, letting them play the role of the protecting, nursing parent. </li><li>In either case you are offering the ultimate fantasy: the chance to have an intimate relationship with mommy or daddy, son or daughter. </li><li><strong>To practice it in real life, you need to play the therapist, encouraging people to talk about their childhood.</strong> Most of us are only too happy to oblige; and our memories are so vivid and emotional that a part of us regresses just in talking about our early years. </li><li><strong>But pay attention to their tone of voice, to any nervous tics as they talk, and particularly to anything they do not want to talk about, anything they deny or that makes them emotional</strong></li><li><strong>Many statements actually mean their opposite: should they say they hated their father, for instance, you can be sure that they are hiding a lot of disappointment—that they actually loved their father only too much, and perhaps never quite got what they wanted from him.</strong></li><li><strong>Listen closely for recurring themes and stories.</strong> Most important, learn to analyze emotional responses and see what lies behind them. </li><li><strong>While they talk, maintain the therapist’s pose—attentive but quiet, making occasional, nonjudgmental comments. Be caring yet distant—somewhat blank, in fact—and they will begin to transfer emotions and project fantasies onto you.</strong></li></ul><p>The key is not just to talk about memories—that is weak. What you want is to get people to act out in their present old issues from their past, without their being aware of what is happening. <strong>The regressions you can effect fall into four main types</strong></p><p><strong>The Infantile Regression</strong>. The first bond—the bond between a mother and her infant—is the most powerful one. </p><ul><li>Never judge your targets—let them do whatever they want, including behaving badly; at the same time surround them with loving attention, smother them with comfort. </li><li>Meanwhile, create atmospheres that reinforce the feeling you are generating—warm environments, playful activities, bright, happy colors. </li></ul><p><strong>The Oedipal Regression</strong>. After the bond between mother and child comes the oedipal triangle of mother, father, and child. </p><ul><li>Play a parental role, be loving, but also sometimes scold and instill some discipline. Children actually love a little discipline—it makes them feel that the adult cares about them. </li><li>Do not go ahead with the regression until you have learned everything you can about their childhood—what they had too much of, what they lacked, and so on. </li></ul><p><strong>The Ego Ideal Regression</strong>. As children, we often form an ideal figure out of our dreams and ambitions. First, that ideal figure is the person we want to be. We imagine ourselves as brave adventurers, romantic figures. Then, in our adolescence, we turn our attention to others, often projecting our ideals onto them. </p><ul><li>To create this effect, strive to reproduce the intense, innocent mood of a youthful infatuation. </li></ul><p><strong>The Reverse Parental Regression</strong>. Here you are the one to regress: you deliberately play the role of the cute, adorable, yet also sexually charged child. Older people always find younger people incredibly seductive. </p><ul><li>Keep in mind that certain types are more vulnerable to an oedipal regression. Look for those who, like Professor Mut, seem outwardly the most adult—straitlaced, serious, a little full of themselves. </li><li>It is nearly impossible to embody someone’s ideal completely. But if you come close enough, if you evoke some of that ideal spirit, you can lead that person into a deep seduction. </li><li>To effect this regression you must play the role of the therapist. Get your targets to open up about their past, particularly their former loves and most particularly their first love. Pay attention to any expressions of disappointment, how this or that person did not give them what they wanted. Take them to places that evoke their youth. In this regression you are creating not so much a relationship of dependency and immaturity but rather the adolescent spirit of a first love. </li><li>Remember: most of us remember our early years fondly, but often, paradoxically, the people with the strongest attachment to those times are the ones who had the most difficult childhoods. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>To reverse the strategies of regression, the parties to a seduction would have to remain adults during the process. This is not only rare, it is not very pleasurable. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 18 - Stir Up the Transgressive &amp; Taboo</strong></h5><ul><li>There are always social limits on what one can do. Some of these, the most elemental taboos, go back centuries; others are more superficial, simply defining polite and acceptable behavior. </li><li>Making your targets feel that you are leading them past either kind of limit is immensely seductive. </li><li>People yearn to explore their dark side. </li><li>Not everything in romantic love is supposed to be tender and soft; hint that you have a cruel, even sadistic streak. You do not respect age differences, marriage vows, family ties. </li><li>Once the desire to transgress draws your targets to you, it will be hard for them to stop. </li><li><strong>Take them further than they imagined—the shared feeling of guilt and complicity will create a powerful bond.</strong></li><li>Unleash the lost self within them; the more they act it out, the deeper your hold over them. Going halfway will break the spell and create self-consciousness. Take it as far as you can. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li><strong>The moment people feel that something is prohibited, a part of them will want it.</strong> That is what makes a married man or woman such a delicious target—the more someone is prohibited, the greater the desire. </li><li><strong>Since what is forbidden is desired, somehow you must make yourself seem forbidden. The most blatant way to do this is to engage in behavior that gives you a dark and forbidden aura.</strong> Theoretically you are someone to avoid; in fact you are too seductive to resist. </li><li><strong>Play up your dark side and you will have a similar effect.</strong> For your targets to be involved with you means going beyond their limits, doing something naughty and unacceptable—to society, to their peers. For many that is reason to bite the bait. </li><li>A mix of the masculine and the feminine, the violent and the tender, will always seem transgressive and appealing. </li><li>Do what you can to reintroduce a feeling of transgression and crime, even if it is only psychological or illusory. There must be obstacles to overcome, social norms to flout, laws to break, before the seduction can be consummated. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>The reversal of stirring up taboos would be to stay within the limits of acceptable behavior. That would make for a very tepid seduction. Which is not to say that only evil or wild behavior is seductive; goodness, kindness, and an aura of spirituality can be tremendously attractive, since they are rare qualities. </li><li>In seduction, there is absolutely no power in respecting boundaries and limits. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 19 - Use Spiritual Lures</strong></h5><ul><li>Everyone has doubts and insecurities —about their body, their self-worth, their sexuality. If your seduction appeals exclusively to the physical, you will stir up these doubts and make your targets self-conscious. </li><li><strong>Instead, lure them out of their insecurities by making them focus on something sublime and spiritual: a religious experience, a lofty work of art, the occult.</strong></li><li><strong>Play up your divine qualities; affect an air of discontent with worldly things; speak of the stars, destiny, the hidden threads that unite you and the object of the seduction.</strong> Lost in a spiritual mist, the target will feel light and uninhibited. Deepen the effect of your seduction by making its sexual culmination seem like the spiritual union of two souls. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>Pleasure is the bait that you use to lure a person into your web. </li><li>You may think your target is unrepressed and hungry for pleasure, but almost all of us are plagued by an underlying unease with our animal nature. Unless you deal with this unease, your seduction, even when successful in the short term, will be superficial and temporary. </li><li>Instead, like Natalie Barney, try to capture your target’s soul, to build the foundation of a deep and lasting seduction. </li><li>It is not money or sex or success that moves you; your drives are never so base. No, something much deeper motivates you. Whatever this is, keep it vague, letting the target imagine your hidden depths. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Letting your targets feel that your affection is neither temporary nor superficial will often make them fall deeper under your spell. In some, though, it can arouse an anxiety: the fear of commitment, of a claustrophobic relationship with no exits. </li><li>What you want is to make them lose themselves in the moment, experiencing the timeless depth of your feelings in the present tense. Religious ecstasy is about intensity, not temporal extensity. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 20 - Mix Pleasure with Pain</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>The greatest mistake in seduction is being too nice. At first, perhaps, your kindness is charming, but it soon grows monotonous; you are trying too hard to please, and seem insecure.</strong></li><li>Instead of overwhelming your targets with niceness, try inflicting some pain. <strong>Lure them in with focused attention, then change direction, appearing suddenly uninterested.Make them feel guilty and insecure.</strong> Even instigate a breakup, subjecting them to an emptiness and pain that will give you room to maneuver—now a rapprochement, an apology, a return to your earlier kindness, will turn them weak at the knees. </li><li><strong>The lower the lows you create, the greater the highs. To heighten the erotic charge, create the excitement of fear.</strong></li><li>Your seduction should never follow a simple course upward toward pleasure and harmony. </li><li>Your task is to create moments of sadness, despair, and anguish, to create the tension that allows for a great release. </li><li>Nor should you be afraid that if you make yourself difficult people will flee—we only abandon those who bore us. </li><li><strong>Your kindness and harshness should be subtle; indirect digs and compliments are best.</strong> Play the psychoanalyst: make cutting comments concerning their unconscious motives (you are only being truthful), then sit back and listen. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>Niceness in seduction, however, though it may at first draw someone to you (it is soothing and comforting), soon loses all effect. Being too nice can literally push the target away from you. <strong>Erotic feeling depends on the creation of tension.</strong></li><li>You are most often nice not out of your own inner goodness but out of fear of displeasing, out of insecurity. Go beyond that fear and you suddenly have options—the freedom to create pain, then magically dissolve it. Your seductive powers will increase tenfold. </li><li>People will be less upset by your hurtful actions than you might imagine. </li><li>Stir up their jealousy, make them feel insecure, and the validation you later give their ego by preferring them over their rivals is doubly delightful. </li><li><strong>Remember: you have more to fear by boring your targets than by shaking them up.</strong></li><li><strong>If you need inspiration, find the part of the target that most irritates you and use it as a springboard for some therapeutic conflict. The more real your cruelty, the more effective it is.</strong></li><li><strong>Apply this wisdom in reverse: never let your targets get too comfortable with you. They need to feel fear and anxiety. Show them some coldness, a flash of anger they did not expect. Be irrational if necessary.</strong></li><li>There is always the trump card: a breakup. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>People who have recently experienced a lot of pain or a loss will flee if you try to inflict more on them. </li><li>Also, remember to not use the pleasure-through-pain tactic too early on. </li><li>In the beginning, then, wear the mask of a lamb, making pleasure and attentiveness your bait. First get under their skin, then lead them on a wild ride. </li></ul><h4><strong>Phase Four - Moving in for the Kill</strong></h4><ul><li>First you worked on their mind—the mental seduction. Then you confused and stirred them up—the emotional seduction. Now the time has come for hand-to-hand combat—the physical seduction. </li><li>At this point, your victims are weak and ripe with desire: by showing a little coldness or uninterest, you will spark panic—they will come after you with impatience and erotic energy (21: Give them space to fall—the pursuer is pursued). </li><li>To bring them to a boil, you need to put their minds to sleep and heat up their senses. It is best to lure them into lust by sending certain loaded signals that will get under their skin and spread sexual desire like a poison (22: Use physical lures). </li><li>The moment to strike and move in for the kill is when your victim is brimming with desire, but not consciously expecting the climax to come (23: Master the art of the bold move). </li><li>Once the seduction is over, there is the danger that disenchantment will set in and ruin all your hard work (24: Beware the aftereffects). </li><li>If you are after a relationship, then you must constantly re-seduce the victim, creating tension and releasing it. if your victim is to be sacrificed, then it must be done swiftly and cleanly, leaving you free (physically and psychologically) to move on to the next victim. Then the game begins all over. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 21 - Give Them Space to Fall-Pursuer is Pursued</strong></h5><ul><li>If your targets become too used to you as the aggressor, they will give less of their own energy, and the tension will slacken. You need to wake them up, turn the tables. </li><li>Once they are under your spell, take a step back and they will start to come after you. Begin with a touch of aloofness, an unexpected nonappearance, a hint that you are growing bored. </li><li>Stir the pot by seeming interested in someone else. </li><li>Make none of this explicit; let them only sense it and their imagination will do the rest, creating the doubt you desire. Soon they will want to possess you physically, and restraint will go out the window. </li><li>The goal is to have them fall into your arms of their own will. Create the illusion that the seducer is being seduced. </li><li>First, it is always best to keep at some distance from your targets. You do not have to go as far as remaining anonymous, but you do not want to be seen too often, or to be seen as intrusive. </li><li>If you are always in their face, always the aggressor, they will become used to being passive, and the tension in your seduction will flag. </li><li>Then, at the point when they are ripe with desire and interest, when perhaps they are expecting you to make a move—as Madame Sabatier expected that day in her apartment—take a step back. You are unexpectedly distant, friendly but no more than that—certainly not sexual. Let this sink in for a day or two. Your withdrawal will trigger anxiety; the only way to relieve this anxiety is to pursue and possess you. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>No one likes things to be complicated and difficult, and <strong>your target will expect the conclusion to come quickly. That is the point, however, where you must train yourself to hold back.</strong></li><li>You want them to pursue you, hopelessly ensnaring themselves in your web in the process. </li><li>The only way to accomplish this is to take a step back and make them anxious. </li><li><strong>Understand: a person’s willpower is directly linked to their libido, their erotic desire.</strong></li><li>When you withdraw, make it subtle; you are instilling unease. Your coldness or distance should dawn on your targets when they are alone, in the form of a poisonous doubt creeping into their mind. </li><li>When you seem interested in someone but do not respond sexually, it is disturbing, and presents a challenge: they will find a way to seduce you. To produce this effect, first reveal an interest in your targets, through letters or subtle insinuation. But when you are in their presence, assume a kind of sexless neutrality. Be friendly, even warm, but no more. </li><li>In the latter stages of the seduction, let your targets feel that you are becoming interested in another person—this is another form of taking a step back. </li><li>First, shower your targets with affection. They will not be sure where this is coming from, but it is a delightful feeling, and they will never want to lose it. When it does go away, in your strategic step back, they will have moments of anxiety and anger. </li><li>The only way to win you back, to have you for sure, will be to reverse the pattern, to imitate you, to be the affectionate, giving one. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>There are moments when creating space and absence will blow up in your face. An absence at a critical moment in the seduction can make the target lose interest in you. </li><li>Use absence only when you are sure of the target’s affection, and never let it go on too long. It is most effective later in the seduction. </li><li>Also, never create too much space—don’t write too rarely, don’t act too cold, don’t show too much interest in someone else. </li><li>Some people, too, are inveterately passive: they are waiting for you to make the bold move, and if you don’t, they will think you are weak. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 22 - Use Physical Lures</strong></h5><ul><li>Targets with active minds are dangerous: if they see through your manipulations, they may suddenly develop doubts. </li><li>Put their minds gently to rest, and waken their dormant senses, by combining a nondefensive attitude with a charged sexual presence. </li><li>While your cool, nonchalant air is calming their minds and lowering their inhibitions, your glances, voice, and bearing—oozing sex and desire—are getting under their skin, agitating their senses and raising their temperature. </li><li>Never force the physical; instead infect your targets with heat, lure them into lust. Lead them into the moment—an intensified present in which morality, judgment, and concern for the future all melt away and the body succumbs to pleasure. </li><li>The key to luring the target into the final act of your seduction is not to make it obvious, not to announce that you are ready (to pounce or be pounced upon). </li><li>You must make your body glow with desire—for the target. Your desire should be read in your eyes, in a trembling in your voice, in your reaction when your bodies draw near. </li><li>You cannot train your body to act this way, but by choosing a victim (see chapter 1) who has this effect on you, it will all flow naturally. </li><li>Understand: it all starts from you. When the time comes to make the seduction physical, train yourself to let go of your own inhibitions, your doubts, your lingering feelings of guilt and anxiety. Your confidence and ease will have more power to intoxicate the victim than all the alcohol you could apply. </li><li>Exhibit a lightness of spirit—nothing bothers you, nothing daunts you, you take nothing personally. You are inviting your targets to shed the burdens of civilization, to follow your lead and drift. </li><li>Do not talk of work, duty, marriage, the past or future. Plenty of other people will do that. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>Now more than ever, our minds are in a state of constant distraction, barraged with endless information, pulled in every direction. </li><li>Understand: the only way to relax a distracted mind is to make it focus on one thing. </li><li>Throughout the seductive process you have been filling the target’s mind. Letters, mementos, shared experiences keep you constantly present, even when you are not there. </li><li>Now, as you shift to the physical part of the seduction, you must see your targets more often. Your attention must become more intense. </li><li>Remember: it all starts with you. Be undistracted, present in the moment, and the target will follow suit. </li><li>Once the target’s overactive mind starts to slow down, their senses will come to life, and your physical lures will have double their power. </li><li>Physical appearances are critical, but you are after a general agitation of the senses. </li><li>Subtly modulate the voice, make it slower and deeper. Living senses will crowd out rational thought. </li><li>The seducer leads the victim to a point where he or she reveals involuntary signs of physical excitation that can be read in various symptoms. Once those signs are detected, the seducer must work quickly, applying pressure on the target to get lost in the moment—the past, the future, all moral scruples vanishing in air. </li><li>In leading your victims into the moment, remember a few things. </li><li>First, a disordered look (Madame de Lursay’s tousled hair, her ruffled dress) has more effect on the senses than a neat appearance. </li><li>Second, be alert to the signs of physical excitation. Blushing, trembling of the voice, tears, unusually forceful laughter, relaxing movements of the body (any kind of involuntary mirroring, their gestures imitating yours), a revealing slip of the tongue—these are signs that the victim is slipping into the moment and pressure is to be applied. </li><li>Seduction, like warfare, is often a game of distance and closeness. At first you track your enemy from a distance. </li><li>Your main weapons are your eyes, and a mysterious manner. </li><li><strong>The key is to make the look short and to the point, then look away, like a rapier glancing the flesh. Make your eyes reveal desire, and keep the rest of the face still.</strong> (A smile will spoil the effect). </li><li>Once the victim is heated up, you quickly bridge the distance, turning to hand-to-hand combat in which you give the enemy no room to withdraw, no time to think or to consider the position in which you have placed him or her. To take the element of fear out of this, use flattery, make the target feel more masculine or feminine, praise their charms. It is their fault that you have become so physical and aggressive. </li><li><strong>Shared physical activity is always an excellent lure.</strong></li><li>For Flynn it was swimming or sailing. In such physical activity, the mind turns off and the body operates according to its own laws. </li><li>In the moment, all moral considerations fade away, and the body returns to a state of innocence. You can partly create that feeling through a devil-may-care attitude. You do not worry about the world, or what people think of you; you do not judge your target in any way. </li><li>So empty yourself of your tendency to moralize and judge. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>Some people panic when they sense they are falling into the moment. Often, using spiritual lures will help disguise the increasingly physical nature of the seduction. </li><li>Instead, make it seem a spiritual, mystical union, and they will take less notice of your physical manipulations. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 23 - Master the Art of the Bold Move</strong></h5><ul><li>A moment has arrived: your victim clearly desires you, but is not ready to admit it openly, let alone act on it. </li><li>This is the time to throw aside chivalry, kindness, and coquetry and to overwhelm with a bold move. </li><li>Don’t give the victim time to consider the consequences; create conflict, stir up tension, so that the bold move comes as a great release. </li><li>Showing hesitation or awkwardness means you are thinking of yourself, as opposed to being overwhelmed by the victim’s charms. </li><li><strong>Never hold back or meet the target halfway, under the belief that you are being correct and considerate; you must be seductive now, not political. One person must go on the offensive, and it is you.</strong></li><li>Never underestimate the role of vanity in love and seduction. If you seem impatient, champing at the bit for sex, you signal that it is all about libido, and that it has little to do with the target’s own charms. That is why you must defer the climax. </li><li>Once you read in your targets’ gestures that they are ready and open—a look in the eye, mirroring behavior, a strange nervousness in your presence—you must go on the offensive, make them feel that their charms have unhinged you and pushed you into the bold move. </li></ul><p><strong>Keys to Seduction</strong></p><ul><li>Think of seduction as a world you enter, a world that is separate and distinct from the real world. The rules are different here; <strong>what works in daily life can have the opposite effect in seduction.</strong></li><li>The problem is that after years of living in the real world, we lose the ability to be ourselves. We become timid, humble, overpolite. Your task is to regain some of your childhood qualities, to root out all this false humility. And the most important quality to recapture is boldness. </li><li>The bold move should come as a pleasant surprise, but not too much of a surprise. </li><li>Learn to read the signs that the target is falling for you. His or her manner toward you will have changed—it will be more pliant, with more words and gestures mirroring yours—yet there will still be a touch of nervousness and uncertainty Inwardly they have given in to you, but they do not expect a bold move. This is the time to strike. </li><li>You want a degree of tension and ambivalence, so that the move represents a great release. </li><li>Don’t plan your bold move in advance; it cannot seem calculated. Wait for the opportune moment. Be attentive to favorable circumstances. This will give you room to improvise and go with the moment, which will heighten the impression you want to create of being suddenly over-whelmed by desire. If you ever sense that the victim is expecting the bold move, take a step back, lull them into a false sense of security, then strike. </li><li>Follow the widow’s example: your bold move should have a theatrical quality to it. That will make it memorable, and make your aggressiveness seem pleasant, part of the drama. </li><li>The theatricality can come from the setting—an exotic or sensual location. It can also come from your actions. </li><li>An element of fear—someone might find you, say—will heighten the tension. Remember: you are creating a moment that must stand out from the sameness of daily life. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>If two people come together by mutual consent, that is not a seduction. There is no reversal. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 24 - Beware the Aftereffects</strong></h5><ul><li>Danger follows in the aftermath of a successful seduction. After emotions have reached a pitch, they often swing in the opposite direction—toward lassitude, distrust, disappointment. </li><li>Beware of the long, drawn-out goodbye; insecure, the victim will cling and claw, and both sides will suffer. If you are to part, make the sacrifice swift and sudden. If necessary, deliberately break the spell you have created. </li><li>If you are to stay in a relationship, beware a flagging of energy, a creeping familiarity that will spoil the fantasy. <strong>If the game is to go on, a second seduction is required. Never let the other person take you for granted—use absence, create pain and conflict, to keep the seduced on tenterhooks.</strong></li><li>Fight against inertia. The sense that you are trying less hard is often enough to disenchant your victims. </li><li><strong>After the first seduction is over, then, show that it isn’t really over—that you want to keep proving yourself, focusing your attention on them, luring them. That is often enough to keep them enchanted.</strong></li><li>Never rely on your physical charms; even beauty loses its appeal with repeated exposure. Only strategy and effort will fight off inertia. </li><li><strong>Maintain mystery. Familiarity is the death of seduction.</strong></li><li>Remember: reality is not seductive. Keep some dark corners in your character, flout expectations, use absences to fragment the clinging, possessive pull that allows familiarity to creep in. Maintain some mystery or be taken for granted. </li><li><strong>Maintain lightness. Seduction is a game, not a matter of life and death. There will be a tendency in the “post” phase to take things more seriously and personally, and to whine about behavior that does not please you. Fight this as much as possible, for it will create exactly the effect you do not want.</strong></li><li><strong>Your playfulness, the little ruses you employ to please and delight them, your indulgence of their faults, will make your victims compliant and easy to handle.</strong></li><li>Avoid the slow burnout. Often, one person becomes disenchanted but lacks the courage to make the break. </li><li>Once you feel disenchanted and know it is over, end it quickly, without apology. </li><li>If a break with the victim is too messy or difficult (or you lack the nerve), then do the next best thing: deliberately break the spell that ties him or her to you. </li><li><strong>It is almost impossible to resist a person who provides pleasure with no strings attached. When they are with you, keep the spirit light and playful. Play up the parts of your character they find delightful, but never let them feel they know you too well.</strong></li><li>The lesson is simple: keep the moments after the seduction and the separation in the same key as before, heightened, aesthetic, and pleasant. If you do not act guilty for your feckless behavior, it is hard for the other person to feel angry or resentful. </li><li>Seduction is a lighthearted game, in which you invest all of your energy in the moment. The separation should be lighthearted and stylish as well: it is work, travel, some dreaded responsibility that calls you away. </li><li>Create a memorable experience and then move on, and your victim will most likely remember the delightful seduction, not the separation. </li><li><strong>If it is integration you are after, seduction must never stop. Otherwise boredom will creep in. And the best way to keep the process going is often to inject intermittent drama.</strong> This can be painful—opening old wounds, stirring up jealousy, withdrawing a little. (Do not confuse this behavior with nagging or carping criticism—this pain is strategic, designed to break up rigid patterns). </li><li><strong>On the other hand it can also be pleasant: think about proving yourself all over again, paying attention to nice little details, creating new temptations.</strong> In fact you should mix the two aspects, for too much pain or pleasure will not prove seductive. </li><li>Remember: <strong>comfort and security are the death of seduction</strong>. A shared journey with a little bit of hardship will do more to create a deep bond than will expensive gifts and luxuries. </li><li>The young are right to not care about comfort in matters of love, and when you return to that sentiment, a youthful spark will reignite. </li><li>Not only does the long, lingering death of a relationship cause your partner needless pain, it will have long-term consequences for you as well, making you more skittish in the future, and weighing you down with guilt. </li><li>If you make a clean quick break, in the long run they will appreciate it. The more you apologize, the more you insult their pride, stirring up negative feelings that will reverberate for years. </li><li>The victim should be sacrificed, not tortured. </li><li>Once you have seduced a person (or a nation) there is almost always a lull, a slight letdown, which sometimes leads to a separation; it is surprisingly easy, though, to re-seduce the same target. The old feelings never go away, they lie dormant, and in a flash you can take your target by surprise. </li></ul><p><strong>Reversal</strong></p><ul><li>To keep a person enchanted, you will have to re-seduce them constantly. But you can allow a little familiarity to creep in. The target wants to feel that he or she is getting to know you. Too much mystery will create doubt. It will also be tiring for you, who will have to sustain it. </li><li>The point is not to remain completely unfamiliar but rather, on occasion, to jolt victims out of their complacency, surprising them as you surprised them in the past. Do this right and they will have the delightful feeling that they are constantly getting to know more about you—but never too much. </li></ul><h4><strong>Appendix A: Seductive Environment/Seductive Time</strong></h4><ul><li>In seduction, your victims must slowly come to feel an inner change. Under your influence, they lower their defenses, feeling free to act differently, to be a different person. </li><li>Certain places, environments, and experiences will greatly aid you in your quest to change and transform the seduced. Spaces with a theatrical, heightened quality—opulence, glittering surfaces, a playful spirit—create a buoyant, childlike feeling that make it hard for the victim to think straight. </li><li>The creation of an altered sense of time has a similar effect—memorable, dizzying moments that stand out, a mood of festival and play. You must make your victims feel that being with you gives them a different experience from being in the real world. </li><li>The time you spend with them is devoted to them and nothing else. Instead of the usual rotation of work and rest, you are giving them grand, dramatic moments that stand out. You bring them to places unlike the places they see in daily life—heightened, theatrical places. </li></ul><p>The following are key components to reproducing festival time and place: </p><p><strong>Create theatrical effects</strong>. Theater creates a sense of a separate, magical world. </p><ul><li>To produce this effect in real life, you must fashion your clothes, makeup, and attitude to have a playful, artificial, edge—a feeling that you have dressed for the pleasure of your audience. </li><li>Your encounters with your targets should also have a sense of drama, achieved through the settings you choose and through your actions. The target should not know what will happen next. Create suspense through twists and turns that lead to the happy ending; you are performing. </li></ul><p><strong>Use the visual language of pleasure</strong></p><ul><li>You want to avoid images that have depth, which might provoke thought, or guilt; instead, you should work in environments that are all surface, full of glittering objects, mirrors, pools of water, a constant play of light. </li><li>The sensory overload of these spaces creates an intoxicating, buoyant feeling. The more artificial, the better. Show your targets a playful world, full of the sights and sounds that excite the baby or child within them. Luxury—the sense that money has been spent or even wasted—adds to the feeling that the real world of duty and morality has been banished. Call it the brothel effect. </li></ul><p><strong>Keep it crowded or close.</strong></p><ul><li>People crowding together raise the psychological temperature to hothouse levels. Festivals and carnivals depend on the contagious feeling a crowd creates. Bring your target to such environments sometimes, to lower their normal defensiveness. </li><li>Similarly, any kind of situation that brings people together in a small space for a long period of time is extremely conducive to seduction. </li><li>Either lead the seduced into a crowded, festival-like environment or go trolling for targets in a closed world. </li></ul><p><strong>Manufacture mystical effects</strong>.</p><ul><li>Spiritual or mystical effects distract people’s minds from reality, making them feel elevated and euphoric. From here it is but a small step to physical pleasure </li><li>Anything vaguely mystical helps block out the real world, and it is easy to move from the spiritual to the sexual. </li></ul><p><strong>Distort their sense of time—speed and youth</strong>. </p><ul><li>Festival time has a kind of speed and frenzy that make people feel more alive. </li><li>Take them to places of constant activity and movement. Embark with them on some kind of journey together, distracting their minds with new sights. </li><li>And youth is mostly energy. The pace of the seduction must pick up at a certain moment, creating a whirling effect in the mind. </li></ul><p><strong>Create moments.</strong></p><ul><li>Everyday life is a drudgery in which the same actions endlessly repeat. The festival, on the other hand, we remember as a moment when everything was transformed—when a little bit of eternity and myth entered our lives. </li><li>Your seduction must have such peaks, moments when something dramatic happens and time is experienced differently. </li><li>You must give your targets such moments, whether by staging the seduction in a place—a carnival, a theater—where they naturally occur or by creating them yourself, with dramatic actions that stir up strong emotions. </li></ul><p><strong>Keep everything light and playful, full of distractions, noise, color, and a bit of chaos</strong>. </p><ul><li>No weight, responsibilities, or judgments. A place to lose yourself in. </li><li>While in your presence your targets must sense a change. Time has a different rhythm—they barely notice its passing. They have the feeling that everything is stopping for them, just as all normal activity comes to a halt at a festival. The idle pleasures you provide them are contagious—one leads to another and to another, until it is too late to turn back. </li></ul><h4><strong>Appendix B: Soft Seduction: How to Sell Anything to the Masses</strong></h4><p>The less you seem to be selling something—including yourself—the better; By being too obvious in your pitch, you will raise suspicion; you will also bore your audience, an unforgivable sin. </p><p>Instead, make your approach soft, seductive, and insidious. </p><ul><li><strong>Soft: be indirect</strong>. Create news and events for the media to pick up, spreading your name in a way that seems spontaneous, not hard or calculated. </li><li><strong>Seductive:</strong> keep it entertaining. Your name and image are bathed in positive associations; you are selling pleasure and promise. </li><li><strong>Insidious:</strong> aim at the unconscious, using images that linger in the mind, placing your message in the visuals. Frame what you are selling as part of a new trend, and it will become one. It is almost impossible to resist the soft seduction. </li></ul><p><strong>The Soft Sell</strong></p><ul><li>A crowd, an electorate, a nation can be brought under your sway simply by applying on a mass level the tactics that work so well on an individual. </li><li>The only difference is the goal—not sex but influence, a vote, people’s attention—and the degree of tension. </li><li>Seduction on the mass level is more diffuse and soft. Creating a constant titillation, you fascinate the masses with what you are offering. They pay attention to you because it is pleasant to do so. </li><li>First bring pleasure by creating a positive atmosphere around your name or message. Induce a warm, relaxed feeling. </li><li>Never seem to be selling something—that will look manipulative and suspicious. </li><li>Instead, let entertainment value and good feelings take center stage, sneaking the sale through the side door. And in that sale, you do not seem to be selling yourself or a particular idea or candidate; you are selling a life-style, a good mood, a sense of adventure, a feeling of hipness, or a neatly packaged rebellion. </li><li>Here are some of the key components of the soft sell: </li></ul><p><strong>Appear as news, never as publicity.</strong></p><ul><li>First impressions are critical. </li><li>Everyone knows that advertisements are artful manipulations, a kind of deception. So, for your first appearance in the public eye, manufacture an event, some kind of attention-getting situation that the media will “inadvertently” pick up as if it were news. </li><li>You suddenly stand out from everything else, if only for a moment—but that moment has more credibility than hours of advertising time. The key is to orchestrate the details thoroughly, creating a story with dramatic impact and movement, tension and resolution. The media will cover it for days. Conceal your real purpose—to sell yourself—at any cost. </li></ul><p><strong>Stir basic emotions.</strong></p><ul><li>Never promote your message through a rational, direct argument. </li><li>Design your words and images to stir basic emotions—lust, patriotism, family values. It is easier to gain and hold people’s attention once you have made them think of their family, their children, their future. </li><li>Similarly, find ways to surround yourself with emotional magnets—war heroes, children, saints, small animals, whatever it takes. Make your appearance bring these emotionally positive associations to mind, giving you extra presence. Never let these associations be defined or created for you, and never leave them to chance. </li></ul><p><strong>Make the medium the message.</strong></p><ul><li>Pay more attention to the form of your message than to the content. Images are more seductive than words, and visuals—soothing colors, appropriate backdrop, the suggestion of speed or movement—should actually be your real message. </li><li>Your visuals should have a hypnotic effect. They should make people feel happy or sad depending on what you want to accomplish. </li></ul><p><strong>Speak the target’s language—be chummy.</strong></p><ul><li>At all costs, avoid appearing superior to your audience. Any hint of smugness, the use of complicated words or ideas, quoting too many statistics—all that is fatal. Instead, make yourself seem equal to your targets and on intimate terms with them. </li><li>Show that you share your audience’s skepticism by revealing the tricks of the trade. Make your publicity as down-home and minimal as possible, so that your competitors look sophisticated and snobby in comparison. </li><li>Your selective honesty and strategic weakness will get people to trust you. </li></ul><p><strong>Start a chain reaction—everyone is doing it.</strong></p><ul><li>People who seem to be desired by others are immediately more seductive to their targets. </li><li>You need to act as if you have already excited crowds of people; your behavior will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Seem to be in the vanguard of a trend or life-style and the public will lap you up for fear of being left behind. </li><li>Spread your image, with a logo, slogans, posters, so that it appears everywhere. Announce your message as a trend and it will become one. The goal is to create a kind of viral effect in which more and more people become infected with the desire to have whatever you are offering. This is the easiest and most seductive way to sell. </li></ul><p><strong>Tell people who they are.</strong></p><ul><li>It is always unwise to engage an individual or the public in any kind of argument. </li><li>Tell them who they are, create an image, an identity that they will want to assume. Make them dissatisfied with their current status. Making them unhappy with themselves gives you room to suggest a new life-style, a new identity. </li><li>Myths create identification. Build a myth about yourself and the common people will identify with your character, your plight, your aspirations, just as you identify with theirs. This image should include your flaws, highlight the fact that you are not the best orator, the most educated man, the smoothest politician. Seeming human and down to earth disguises the manufactured quality of your image. To sell this image you need to have the proper vagueness. </li><li>You must not only be inspiring but also entertaining—that is a popular, friendly touch. </li><li>The moment the targets know you are after something—a vote, a sale—they become resistant. But disguise your sales pitch as a news event and not only will you bypass their resistance, you can also create a social trend that does the selling for you. </li><li>Associations that are patriotic, say, or subtly sexual, or spiritual—anything pleasant and seductive—take on a life of their own. </li><li>Free yourself from the need to communicate in the normal direct manner and you will present yourself with greater opportunities for the soft sell. Make the words you say unobtrusive, vague, alluring. And pay much greater attention to your style, the visuals, the story they tell. Convey a sense of movement and progress by showing yourself in motion. </li><li>Express confidence not through facts and figures but through colors and positive imagery. </li><li>Let the media cover you unguided and you are at their mercy. So turn the dynamic around—the press needs drama and visuals? Provide them. </li><li>Remember: images linger in the mind long after words are forgotten. Do not preach to the public—that never works. Learn to express your message through visuals that insinuate positive emotions and happy feelings. </li><li>The media is desperate for events with entertainment value, inherent drama. Feed that need. The public has a weakness for what seems both realistic and slightly fantastical—for real events with a cinematic edge. </li><li>Make your events and publicity stunts plausible and somewhat realistic, but make their colors a little brighter than usual, the characters larger than life, the drama higher. Provide an edge of sex and danger. You are creating a confluence of real life and fiction—the essence of any seduction. </li><li>It is not enough, however, to win people’s attention: you need to hold it long enough to hook them. This can always be done by sparking controversy. </li><li>While the media argues about the effect you are having on people’s values, it is broadcasting your name everywhere and inadvertently bestowing upon you the edge that will make you so attractive to the public. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[The best introduction to Stoic philosophy and how to apply it to modern life.One of Holiday’s best books, this introduces concepts of Stoicism and how to apply them to real life. The principles can be applied to any and all obstacles we face in life, which is what makes Stoicism so powerful.I don’t have much patience for philosophy, but some of the final lines sum up why I like this book so much: "The essence of philosophy is action—in making good on the ability to turn the obstacle upside down with our minds...Now you are a philosopher and a person of action. And that is not a contradiction.”]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Preface</strong></h5><ul><li>What he [Marcus Aurelius] wrote is undoubtedly one of history’s most effective formulas for overcoming every negative situation we may encounter in life.</li><li>“Our actions may be impeded . . . but there can be no impeding our intentions or dispositions. Because we can accommodate and adapt. The mind adapts and converts to its own purposes the obstacle to our acting.&quot;</li><li>And then he concluded with powerful words destined for maxim.</li><li>&quot;The impediment to action advances action.</li><li>What stands in the way becomes the way.”</li><li>Whatever we face, we have a choice: Will we be blocked by obstacles, or will we advance through and over them?</li></ul><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>All great victories, be they in politics, business, art, or seduction, involved resolving vexing problems with a potent cocktail of creativity, focus, and daring. When you have a goal, obstacles are actually teaching you how to get where you want to go.</li><li>Today, most of our obstacles are internal, not external.</li><li>Many of our problems come from having too much: rapid technological disruption, junk food, traditions that tell us the way we’re supposed to live our lives. We’re soft, entitled, and scared of conflict. [[Subtraction]]</li><li>Overcoming obstacles is a discipline of three critical steps.</li><li>It begins with how we look at our specific problems, our attitude or approach; then the energy and creativity with which we actively break them down and turn them into opportunities; finally, the cultivation and maintenance of an inner will that allows us to handle defeat and difficulty.</li><li>It’s three interdependent, interconnected, and fluidly contingent disciplines: <em>Perception, Action</em>, and the <em>Will.</em></li></ul><h4><strong>Part I: Perception</strong></h4><h5><strong>What is Perception?</strong></h5><ul><li>It’s how we see and understand what occurs around us—and what we decide those events will mean. Our perceptions can be a source of strength or of great weakness. If we are emotional, subjective and shortsighted, we only add to our troubles.</li></ul><h5><strong>The Discipline of Perception</strong></h5><ul><li>Desperation, despair, fear, powerlessness—these reactions are functions of our perceptions. You must realize: Nothing <em>makes</em> us feel this way; we <em>choose</em> to give in to such feelings. Or, like Rockefeller, choose <em>not</em> to.</li><li>Humans are still primed to detect threats and dangers that no longer exist—think of the cold sweat when you’re stressed about money, or the fight-or-flight response that kicks in when your boss yells at you.</li><li>We have a choice about how we respond to this situation (or any situation, for that matter). We can be blindly led by these primal feelings or we can understand them and learn to filter them.</li></ul><p>There are a few things to keep in mind when faced with a seemingly insurmountable obstacle. We must try:</p><ul><li>To be objective</li><li>To control emotions and keep an even keel</li><li>To choose to see the good in a situation</li><li>To steady our nerves</li><li>To ignore what disturbs or limits others</li><li>To place things in perspective</li><li>To revert to the present moment</li><li>To focus on what can be controlled</li><li>This is how you see the opportunity within the obstacle. It does not happen on its own. It is a process—one that results from self-discipline and logic.</li></ul><h5><strong>Recognize Your Power</strong></h5><ul><li>Situations, by themselves, cannot be good or bad. This is something—a judgment—that we, as human beings, bring to them with our perceptions.</li><li>&quot;Nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so,&quot; as Shakespeare put it.</li><li>In other words, through our perception of events, we are complicit in the creation—as well as the destruction—of every one of our obstacles.</li><li>There is no good or bad without us, there is only perception. There is the event itself and the story we tell ourselves about what it means.</li></ul><h5><strong>Steady Your Nerves</strong></h5><ul><li>When we aim high, pressure and stress obligingly come along for the ride. Stuff is going to happen that catches us off guard, threatens or scares us. Surprises (unpleasant ones, mostly) are almost guaranteed. The risk of being overwhelmed is always there.</li><li>In these situations, talent is not the most sought-after characteristic. Grace and poise are, because these two attributes precede the opportunity to deploy any other skill. We must possess, as Voltaire once explained about the secret to the great military success of the first Duke of Marlborough, that &quot;tranquil courage in the midst of tumult and serenity of soul in danger, which the English call a cool head.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>Control Your Emotions</strong></h5><ul><li>Uncertainty and fear are relieved by authority. Training is authority. It’s a release valve. With enough exposure, you can adapt out those perfectly ordinary, even innate, fears that are bred mostly from unfamiliarity. Fortunately, unfamiliarity is simple to fix (again, not easy), which makes it possible to increase our tolerance for stress and uncertainty.</li><li>If an emotion can’t change the condition or the situation you’re dealing with, it is likely an unhelpful emotion. Or, quite possibly, a destructive one.</li></ul><h5><strong>Practice Objectivity</strong></h5><ul><li>The phrase &quot;This happened and it is bad&quot; is actually two impressions. The first—&quot;This happened&quot;—is objective. The second—&quot;it is bad&quot;—is subjective.</li><li>Take your situation and pretend it is not happening to you. Pretend it is not important, that it doesn’t matter. How much easier would it be for you to know what to do? How much more quickly and dispassionately could you size up the scenario and its options? You could write it off, greet it calmly.</li></ul><h5><strong>Alter Your Perspective</strong></h5><ul><li>Remember: We choose how we’ll look at things. We retain the ability to inject perspective into a situation. We can’t change the obstacles themselves—that part of the equation is set—but the power of perspective can change how the obstacles appear. How we approach, view, and contextualize an obstacle, and what we tell ourselves it means, determines how daunting and trying it will be to overcome.</li><li>Small tweaks can change what once felt like impossible tasks. Suddenly, where we felt weak, we realize we are strong. With perspective, we discover leverage we didn’t know we had.</li><li>How we interpret the events in our lives, our perspective, is the framework for our forthcoming response—whether there will even be one or whether we’ll just lie there and take it.</li><li>Where the head goes, the body follows. Perception precedes action. Right action follows the right perspective.</li></ul><h5><strong>Is It Up to You?</strong></h5><ul><li>When it comes to perception, this is the crucial distinction to make: the difference between the things that are in our power and the things that aren’t. That’s the difference between the people who can accomplish great things, and the people who find it impossible to stay sober—to avoid not just drugs or alcohol but <em>all</em> addictions.</li><li>In its own way, the most harmful dragon we chase is the one that makes us think we can change things that are simply not ours to change.</li></ul><h5><strong>Live in the Present Moment</strong></h5><ul><li>The point is that <em>most people</em> start from disadvantage (often with no idea they are doing so) and do just fine. It’s not unfair, it’s universal. Those who survive it, survive because they took things day by day—that’s the real secret.</li><li>You’ll find the method that works best for you, but there are many things that can pull you into the present moment: Strenuous exercise. Unplugging. A walk in the park. Meditation. Getting a dog—they’re a constant reminder of how pleasant the present is.</li><li>One thing is certain. It’s not simply a matter of saying: <em>Oh, I’ll live in the present</em>. You have to work at it. Catch your mind when it wanders—don’t let it get away from you.</li><li>Remember that this moment is not your life, it’s just a moment <em>in</em> your life. Focus on what is in front of you, right now. Ignore what it “represents&quot; or it “means&quot; or &quot;why it happened to you.&quot;</li><li>There is plenty else going on right here to care about any of that.</li></ul><h5><strong>Think Differently</strong></h5><ul><li>&quot;Genius is the ability to put into effect what is in your mind. There’s no other definition of it.&quot; —F. Scott Fitzgerald</li><li>Our perceptions determine, to an incredibly large degree, what we are and are not capable of. In many ways, they determine reality itself.</li><li>This is radically different from how we’ve been taught to act. <em>Be realistic</em>, we’re told. <em>Listen to feedback</em>. <em>Play well with others. Compromise</em>. Well, what if the “other&quot; party is wrong? What if conventional wisdom is too conservative? It’s this all-too-common impulse to <em>complain, defer, and then give up</em> that holds us back.</li><li>An entrepreneur is someone with faith in their ability to make something where there was nothing before. When given an unfair task, some rightly see it as a chance to test what they’re made of—to give it all they’ve got, knowing full well how difficult it will be to win. They see it as an opportunity because it is often in that desperate nothing-to-lose state that we are our most creative.</li></ul><h5><strong>Finding the Opportunity</strong></h5><ul><li>&quot;That which doesn’t kill me makes me stronger&quot; is not a cliché but fact.</li></ul><p>When people are:</p><p>rude or disrespectful: </p><ul><li>They underestimate us. A huge advantage.</li></ul><p>conniving: </p><ul><li>We won’t have to apologize when we make an example out of them.</li></ul><p>critical or question our abilities: </p><ul><li>Lower expectations are easier to exceed.</li></ul><p>lazy: </p><ul><li>Makes whatever we accomplish seem all the more admirable.</li></ul><h5><strong>Prepare to Act</strong></h5><ul><li>Problems are rarely as bad as we think—or rather, they are <em>precisely</em> as bad as we <em>think.</em></li><li>It’s a huge step forward to realize that the worst thing to happen is never the event, but the event <em>and</em> losing your head.</li><li>The demand on you is this: Once you see the world as it is, for what it is, you must act. The proper perception—objective, rational, ambitious, clean—isolates the obstacle and exposes it for what it is.</li><li>A clearer head makes for steadier hands.</li><li>And then those hands must be put to work. <em>Good</em> use.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part II: Action</strong></h4><h5><strong>What is Action?</strong></h5><ul><li>Action is commonplace, right action is not. As a discipline, it’s not any kind of action that will do, but <em>directed</em> action. Everything must be done in the service of the whole. Step by step, action by action, we’ll dismantle the obstacles in front of us.</li><li>Action requires courage, not brashness—creative application and not brute force. Our movements and decisions define us: We must be sure to act with deliberation, boldness, and persistence. Those are the attributes of right and effective action. Nothing else—not thinking or evasion or aid from others. Action is the solution and the cure to our predicaments.</li></ul><h5><strong>The Discipline of Action</strong></h5><ul><li>We’ve all done it. Said: &quot;I am so [overwhelmed, tired, stressed, busy, blocked, outmatched].&quot;</li><li>And then what do we do about it? Go out and party. Or treat ourselves. Or sleep in. Or wait.</li><li>It feels better to ignore or pretend. But you know deep down that that isn’t going to truly make it any better. You’ve got to act. And you’ve got to start now.</li></ul><p>Therefore, we can always (and only) greet our obstacles</p><ul><li>with energy</li><li>with persistence</li><li>with a coherent and deliberate process</li><li>with iteration and resilience</li><li>with pragmatism</li><li>with strategic vision</li><li>with craftiness and savvy</li><li>and an eye for opportunity and pivotal moments</li></ul><h5><strong>Get Moving</strong></h5><ul><li>That’s how people who become great at things—whether it’s flying or blowing through gender stereotypes—do. They start. Anywhere. Anyhow. They don’t care if the conditions are perfect or if they’re being slighted. Because they know that once they get started, if they can just get some momentum, they can make it work.</li><li>Tell yourself: The time for that has passed. The wind is rising. The bell’s been rung. Get started, get moving.</li><li>That’s the next step: ramming your feet into the stirrups and really <em>going</em> for it.</li><li>While you’re sleeping, traveling, attending meetings, or messing around online, the same thing is happening to you. You’re going soft. You’re not aggressive enough. You’re not pressing ahead.</li><li>For some reason, these days we tend to downplay the importance of aggression, of taking risks, of barreling forward. It’s probably because it’s been negatively associated with certain notions of violence or masculinity.</li><li>And that’s the final part: Stay moving, <em>always.</em></li><li>So when you’re frustrated in pursuit of your own goals, don’t sit there and complain that you don’t have what you want or that this obstacle won’t budge. If you haven’t even tried yet, then of course you will still be in the exact same place. You haven’t actually pursued anything.</li><li>Just because the conditions aren’t exactly to your liking, or you don’t feel ready yet, doesn’t mean you get a pass. If you want momentum, you’ll have to create it yourself, right now, by getting up and getting started.</li></ul><h5><strong>Practice Persistence</strong></h5><ul><li>Genius often really is just persistence in disguise.</li><li>Remember and remind yourself of a phrase favored by Epictetus: &quot;persist and resist.&quot; Persist in your efforts. Resist giving in to distraction, discouragement, or disorder.</li><li>It’s okay to be discouraged. It’s not okay to quit.</li><li>In other words: It’s <em>supposed</em> to be hard. Your first attempts <em>aren’t going to work</em>. It’s goings to take a lot out of you—but energy is an asset we can always find more of.</li><li>When people ask where we are, what we’re doing, how that “situation&quot; is coming along, the answer should be clear: We’re working on it. We’re getting closer. When setbacks come, we respond by working twice as hard.</li></ul><h5><strong>Iterate</strong></h5><ul><li>&quot;What is defeat? Nothing but education; nothing but the first steps to something better.&quot; —Wendell Phillips</li><li>When failure does come, ask: <em>What went wrong here?What can be improved? What am I missing?</em></li></ul><p>Great entrepreneurs are:</p><ul><li>never wedded to a position</li><li>never afraid to lose a little of their investment</li><li>never bitter or embarrassed</li><li>never out of the game for long</li><li>They slip many times, but they don’t fall.</li><li>The one way to guarantee we don’t benefit from failure—to ensure it is a bad thing—is to not learn from it. </li><li>It’s time you understand that the world is telling you something with each and every failure and action. It’s feedback—giving you precise instructions on how to improve, it’s trying to wake you up from your cluelessness. It’s trying to teach you something. <em>Listen.</em></li><li>Lessons come hard only if you’re deaf to them. Don’t be.</li></ul><h5><strong>Follow the Process</strong></h5><ul><li>How often do we compromise or settle because we feel that the real solution is too ambitious or outside our grasp? How often do we assume that change is impossible because it’s too big? Involves too many different groups? Or worse, how many people are paralyzed by all their ideas and inspirations? They chase them all and go nowhere, distracting themselves and never making headway.</li><li>All these issues are solvable. Each would collapse beneath the process. We’ve just wrongly assumed that it has to happen all at once, and we give up at the thought of it.</li><li>Subordinate strength to the process. Replace fear with the process.</li><li>Deal with the ones right in front of you first. Come back to the others later. You’ll get there.</li></ul><h5><strong>Do Your Job, Do It Right</strong></h5><ul><li>Sometimes, on the road to where we are going or where we want to be, we have to do things that we’d rather not do.</li><li>But you, you’re so busy thinking about the future, you don’t take any pride in the tasks you’re given right now.</li><li>Everything we do matters...even after you already achieved the success you sought. Everything is a chance to do and be your best. Only self-absorbed assholes think they are too good for whatever their current station requires.</li></ul><p>To whatever we face, our job is to respond with:</p><ul><li>hard work</li><li>honesty</li><li>helping others as best we can</li><li>You should never have to ask yourself, <em>But what am I supposed to do now?</em> Because you know the answer: your job.</li><li>Whether anyone notices, whether we’re paid for it, whether the project turns out successfully—it doesn’t matter. We can and always should act with those three traits—no matter the obstacle.</li></ul><h5><strong>What’s Right is What Works</strong></h5><ul><li>Pragmatism is not so much realism as flexibility. But so many of us spend so much time looking for the perfect solution that we pass up what’s right in front of us.</li><li>Start thinking like a radical pragmatist: still ambitious, aggressive, and rooted in ideals, but also imminently practical and guided by the possible.</li><li>Think progress, not perfection.</li></ul><h5><strong>In Praise of the Flank Attack</strong></h5><ul><li>In a study of some 30 conflicts comprising more than 280 campaigns from ancient to modern history, the brilliant strategist and historian B. H. Liddell Hart came to a stunning conclusion: In only 6 of the 280 campaigns was the decisive victory a result of a direct attack on the enemy’s main army.</li><li>When you’re at your wit’s end, straining and straining with all your might, when people tell you you look like you might pop a vein...</li><li>Take a step back, then go around the problem. Find some leverage. Approach from what is called the &quot;line of least expectation.&quot;</li><li>You don’t convince people by challenging their longest and most firmly held opinions. You find common ground and work from there.</li></ul><h5><strong>Use Obstacles Against Themselves</strong></h5><ul><li>Opposites work. Nonaction can be action. It uses the power of others and allows us to absorb their power as our own. Letting them—or the obstacle—do the work for us.</li><li>Sometimes in your life you need to have patience—wait for temporary obstacles to fizzle out.</li></ul><h5><strong>Channel Your Energy</strong></h5><ul><li>To be physically and mentally loose takes no talent. That’s just recklessness. (We want right action, not action <em>period</em>.) To be physically and mentally tight? That’s called anxiety. It doesn’t work, either. Eventually we snap. But physical looseness combined with mental restraint? That is powerful.</li></ul><h5><strong>Seize the Offensive</strong></h5><ul><li>If you think it’s simply enough to take advantage of the opportunities that arise in your life, you will fall short of greatness. Anyone sentient can do that. What you must do is learn how to press forward precisely when everyone around you sees disaster.</li><li>You always planned to do something. Write a screenplay. Travel. Start a business. Approach a possible mentor. Launch a movement.</li><li>Well, now something has happened—some disruptive event like a failure or an accident or a tragedy. <em>Use it.</em></li><li>Ordinary people shy away from negative situations, just as they do with failure. They do their best to avoid trouble. What great people do is the opposite. They are their best in these situations. They turn personal tragedy or misfortune—really anything, everything—to their advantage.</li></ul><h5><strong>Prepare for None of It to Work</strong></h5><ul><li>Run it through your head like this: Nothing can ever prevent us from trying. Ever.</li><li>All creativity and dedication aside, after we’ve tried, some obstacles may turn out to be impossible to overcome.</li><li>We must be willing to roll the dice and lose. Prepare, at the end of the day, for none of it to work.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part III: Will</strong></h4><h5><strong>What is Will?</strong></h5><ul><li>Will is our internal power, which can never be affected by the outside world. It is our final trump card.</li><li>Placed in some situation that seems unchangeable and undeniably negative, we can turn it into a learning experience, a humbling experience, a chance to provide comfort to others. That’s will <em>power</em>. But that needs to be cultivated. We must prepare for adversity and turmoil, we must learn the art of acquiescence and practice cheerfulness even in dark times. Too often people think that will is how bad we want something. In actuality, the will has a lot more to do with surrender than with strength.</li><li>True will is quiet humility, resilience, and flexibility; the other kind of will is weakness disguised by bluster and ambition. See which lasts longer under the hardest of obstacles.</li></ul><h5><strong>The Discipline of the Will</strong></h5><p>This is the avenue for the final discipline: the Will. If Perception and Action were the disciplines of the mind and the body, then Will is the discipline of the heart and the soul. The will is the one thing we control completely, always. Whereas I can try to mitigate harmful perceptions and give 100 percent of my energy to actions, those attempts can be thwarted or inhibited. My will is different, because it is within me.</p><p>The will is the critical third discipline. We can think, act, and finally <em>adjust</em> to a world that is inherently unpredictable. The will is what prepares us for this, protects us against it, and allows us to thrive and be happy in spite of it. It is also the most difficult of all the disciplines.</p><p>These lessons come harder but are, in the end, the most critical to wresting advantage from adversity. In every situation, we can</p><ul><li>Always prepare ourselves for more difficult times.</li><li>Always accept what we’re unable to change.</li><li>Always manage our expectations.</li><li>Always persevere.</li><li>Always learn to love our fate and what happens to us.</li><li>Always protect our inner self, retreat into ourselves.</li><li>Always submit to a greater, larger cause.</li><li>Always remind ourselves of our own mortality.</li><li>And, of course, prepare to start the cycle once more.</li></ul><h5><strong>Build Your Inner Citadel</strong></h5><ul><li>To be great at something takes practice. Obstacles and adversity are no different.</li><li>Are you okay being alone? Are you strong enough to go a few more rounds if it comes to that? Are you comfortable with challenges? Does uncertainty bother you? How does pressure feel?</li><li>Because these things <em>will</em> happen to you. No one knows when or how, but their appearance is certain. And life will demand an answer. You chose this for yourself, a life of doing things. Now you better be prepared for what it entails.</li></ul><h5><strong>Anticipation (Thinking Negatively)</strong></h5><ul><li>A <em>pre</em>mortem is different. In it, we look to envision what could go wrong, what will go wrong, in advance, before we start. Far too many ambitious undertakings fail for preventable reasons. Far too many people don’t have a backup plan because they refuse to consider that something might not go exactly as they wish.</li><li>With anticipation, we have time to raise defenses, or even avoid them entirely. We’re ready to be driven off course because we’ve plotted a way back. We can resist going to pieces if things didn’t go as planned. With anticipation, we can endure.</li></ul><h5><strong>The Art of Acquiescence </strong></h5><ul><li>After you’ve distinguished between the things that are up to you and the things that aren’t (<em>ta eph’hemin, ta ouk eph’hemin</em>), and the break comes down to something you don’t control . . . you’ve got only one option: <em>acceptance.</em></li><li>You don’t have to like something to master it—or to use it to some advantage.</li></ul><p>And things can <em>always</em> be worse. Not to be glib, but the next time you:</p><ul><li><em>Lose money?</em></li><li>Remember, you could have lost a friend.</li><li><em>Lost that job?</em></li><li>What if you’d lost a limb?</li><li><em>Lost your house?</em></li><li>You could have lost everything.</li></ul><h5><strong>Love Everything That Happens: Amor Fati</strong></h5><ul><li>&quot;My formula for greatness in a human being is amor fati: that one wants nothing to be different, not forward, not backward, not in all eternity. Not merely bear what is necessary, still less conceal it . . . but love it.&quot; —Nietzsche</li><li>To do great things, we need to be able to endure tragedy and setbacks. We’ve got to love what we do and all that it entails, good and bad. We have to learn to find joy in every single thing that happens.</li><li>It is the act of turning what we <em>must</em> do into what we <em>get</em> to do.</li></ul><p>The goal is:</p><ul><li>Not: <em>I’m okay with this.</em></li><li>Not: <em>I think I feel good about this.</em></li><li>But: <em>I feel great about it.</em></li><li><em>Because if it happened, then it was meant to happen, and I am glad that it did when it did. I am meant to make the best of it.</em></li><li>And proceed to do exactly that.</li></ul><h5><strong>Perseverance</strong></h5><ul><li>If persistence is attempting to solve some difficult problem with dogged determination and hammering until the break occurs, then plenty of people can be said to be persistent. But perseverance is something larger. It’s the long game. It’s about what happens not just in round one but in round two and every round after—and then the fight after that and the fight after that, until the end.</li><li>Life is not about one obstacle, but <em>many</em>. What’s required of us is not some shortsighted focus on a single facet of a problem, but simply a determination that we <em>will</em> get to where we need to go, somehow, someway, and nothing will stop us.</li><li>Persistence is an action. Perseverance is a matter of will. One is energy. The other, <em>endurance.</em></li><li>We’d be so much better following the lead of Emerson’s counterexample. Someone who is willing to try not one thing, but &quot;tries all the professions, who teams it, farms it, peddles, keeps a school, preaches, edits a newspaper, goes to Congress, buys a township, and so forth, in successive years, and always, like a cat, falls on his feet.&quot;</li><li>This is perseverance. And with it, Emerson said, &quot;with the exercise of self-trust, new powers shall appear.&quot; The good thing about true perseverance is that it can’t be stopped by anything besides death.</li></ul><h5><strong>Something Bigger Than Yourself</strong></h5><ul><li>Whatever you’re going through, whatever is holding you down or standing in your way, can be turned into a source of strength—by thinking of people other than yourself.</li><li>Pride can be broken. Toughness has its limits. But a desire to help? No harshness, no deprivation, no toil should interfere with our empathy toward others. Compassion is always an option. Camaraderie as well. That’s a power of the will that can never be taken away, only relinquished.</li><li>Help your fellow humans thrive and survive, contribute your little bit to the universe before it swallows you up, and be happy with that. Lend a hand to others. Be strong for them, and it will make you stronger.</li></ul><h5><strong>Meditate on Your Mortality</strong></h5><ul><li>Every culture has its own way of teaching the same lesson: <em>Memento mori</em>, the Romans would remind themselves. Remember you are mortal.</li><li>Reminding ourselves each day that we will die helps us treat our time as a gift.</li></ul><h5><strong>Prepare to Start Again</strong></h5><ul><li>As the Haitian proverb puts it: Behind mountains are more mountains.</li><li>Elysium is a myth. One does not overcome an obstacle to enter the land of no obstacles.</li><li>On the contrary, the more you accomplish, the more things will stand in your way. There are always more obstacles, bigger challenges. You’re always fighting uphill. Get used to it and train accordingly.</li><li>Knowing that life is a marathon and not a sprint is important. Conserve your energy. Understand that each battle is only one of many and that you can use it to make the next one easier. More important, you must keep them all in <em>real</em> perspective.</li><li>Never rattled. Never frantic. Always hustling and acting with creativity. Never anything but deliberate. Never attempting to do the impossible—but everything up to that line.</li><li>Simply flipping the obstacles that life throws at you by improving in spite of them, <em>because</em> of them.</li><li>And therefore no longer afraid. But excited, cheerful, and eagerly anticipating the next round.</li></ul><h5><strong>Final Thoughts</strong></h5><ul><li>What stood in the way became the way. What impeded action in some way advanced it.</li></ul><p>With this triad, they:</p><ul><li>First, see clearly.</li><li>Next, act correctly.</li><li>Finally, endure and accept the world as it is.</li><li>The philosopher and writer Nassim Nicholas Taleb defined a Stoic as someone who &quot;transforms fear into prudence, pain into transformation, mistakes into initiation and desire into undertaking.&quot; It’s a loop that becomes easier over time.</li><li>Of course, it is not enough to simply read this or say it. We must practice these maxims, rolling them over and over in our minds and acting on them until they become muscle memory.</li><li>You’re prepared for this now, this life of obstacles and adversity. You know how to handle them, how to brush aside obstacles and even benefit from them. You understand the process.</li><li>You are schooled in the art of managing your perceptions and impressions. Like Rockefeller, you’re cool under pressure, immune to insults and abuse. You see opportunity in the darkest of places.</li><li>You are able to direct your actions with energy and persistence. Like Demosthenes, you assume responsibility for yourself—teaching yourself, compensating for disadvantages, and pursuing your rightful calling and place in the world.</li><li>You are iron-spined and possess a great and powerful will. Like Lincoln, you realize that life is a trial. It will not be easy, but you are prepared to give it everything you have regardless, ready to endure, persevere, and inspire others.</li></ul><p>What they did was simple (simple, not easy). But let’s say it once again just to remind ourselves:</p><ul><li>See things for what they are.</li><li>Do what we can.</li><li>Endure and bear what we must.</li><li>What blocked the path now is a path.</li><li>What once impeded action advances action.</li><li>The Obstacle is the Way.</li></ul><h5><strong>Postscript</strong></h5><ul><li>You’re Now a Philosopher. Congratulations.</li><li>&quot;To be a philosopher is not merely to have subtle thoughts, nor even to found a school . . . it is to solve some of the problems of life, not only theoretically, but practically.” —Henry David Thoreau</li><li>The essence of philosophy is action—in making good on the ability to turn the obstacle upside down with our minds. Understanding our problems for what’s within them and their greater context. To see things <em>philosophically</em> and <em>act</em> accordingly.</li><li>Now you are a philosopher and a person of action. And that is not a contradiction.</li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[This book is derived from many episodes and interviews of The Tim Ferriss Show, and includes information on a huge variety of topics, including productivity, athletic training, psychedelics, life extension, and more. The amount of information is staggering.  One of the common criticisms is that it isn’t organized thematically, but I think the intended use of the book is for someone to pick and choose their favourite parts, and refer back when needed.  For this purpose, I think it’s fantastic. Highly recommend for (literally) everyone.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><p><strong>Graham</strong>: As a result of the sheer amount of content in this book, I’ve highlighted some of my favourite quotes below, but avoided much of the specific, actionable content that I found useful - I recommend reading the full text to find out what is most applicable to you. </p><h5><strong>How to Use This Book</strong></h5><ul><li>“What might you do to accomplish your 10-year goals in the next 6 months, if you had a gun against your head?” </li><li>Here are a few patterns, some odder than others: </li><li>More than 80% of the interviewees have some form of daily mindfulness or meditation practice. </li><li>A surprising number of males (not females) over 45 never eat breakfast, or eat only the scantiest of fare (e.g., Laird Hamilton, page 92; Malcolm Gladwell, page 572; General Stanley McChrystal, page 435) </li><li>Many use the ChiliPad device for cooling at bedtime. </li><li>Rave reviews of the books Sapiens, Poor Charlie’s Almanack, Influence, and Man’s Search for Meaning, among others. </li><li>The habit of listening to single songs on repeat for focus (page 507). </li><li>Nearly everyone has done some form of “spec” work (completing projects on their own time and dime, then submitting them to prospective buyers). </li><li>The belief that “failure is not durable” (see Robert Rodriguez, page 628) or variants thereof. </li><li>Almost every guest has been able to take obvious “weaknesses” and turn them into huge competitive advantages (see Arnold Schwarzenegger, page 176). </li><li>Success, however you define it, is achievable if you collect the right field-tested beliefs and habits. </li><li>The superheroes you have in your mind (idols, icons, titans, billionaires, etc.) are nearly all walking flaws who’ve maximized 1 or 2 strengths. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chris Sommer</strong></h5><ul><li>“You’re not responsible for the hand of cards you were dealt. You’re responsible for maxing out what you were given.” </li></ul><h5><strong>Laird Hamilton, Gabby Reece &amp; Brian MacKenzie</strong></h5><ul><li>“If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you’re the asshole.” </li></ul><h5><strong>Kelly Starrett</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>“If you can’t squat all the way down to the ground with your feet and knees together, then you are missing full hip and ankle range of motion.</strong> This is the mechanism causing your hip impingement, plantar fasciitis, torn Achilles, pulled calf, etc. That is the fucking problem, and you should be obsessing about [fixing] this.” </li></ul><h5><strong>Paul Levesque (Triple H)</strong></h5><ul><li>“Kids don’t do what you say. They do what they see. How you live your life is their example.” </li></ul><h5><strong>Coach Sommer - The Single Decision</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Patience. Achieving the extraordinary is not a linear process. The secret is to show up, do the work, and go home. A blue collar work ethic married to indomitable will. It is literally that simple. Nothing interferes. Nothing can sway you from your purpose. Once the decision is made, simply refuse to budge. Refuse to compromise. And accept that quality long-term results require quality long-term focus. No emotion. No drama. No beating yourself up over small bumps in the road. Learn to enjoy and appreciate the process.</strong></li><li><strong>More importantly, learn from defeats when they happen. In fact, if you are not encountering defeat on a fairly regular basis, you are not trying hard enough. And absolutely refuse to accept less than your best.</strong></li><li>Throw out a timeline. It will take what it takes. </li></ul><h5><strong>Marc Andreessen</strong></h5><ul><li>“I’m old-fashioned. Where I come from, people like to succeed. . . . When I was a founder, when I first started out, we didn’t have the word ‘pivot.’ We didn’t have a fancy word for it. We just called it a fuck-up.&quot; </li><li>“He says the key to success is, ‘Be so good they can’t ignore you.’” </li><li>TF: Marc has another guiding tenet: “Smart people should make things.” He says: “If you just have those two principles—that’s a pretty good way to orient.” </li><li>“Life can be much broader, once you discover one simple fact, and that is that everything around you that you call ‘life’ was made up by people that were no smarter than you. And you can change it, you can influence it, you can build your own things that other people can use. Once you learn that, you’ll never be the same again.” </li><li>“My goal is not to fail fast. My goal is to succeed over the long run. They are not the same thing.” </li><li>“To do original work: It’s not necessary to know something nobody else knows. It is necessary to believe something few other people believe.” </li><li>“Andy Grove had the answer: For every metric, there should be another ‘paired’ metric that addresses adverse consequences of the first metric.” </li></ul><h5><strong>Derek Sivers</strong></h5><ul><li>“If [more] information was the answer, then we’d all be billionaires with perfect abs.” </li><li>TF: <strong>It’s not what you know, it’s what you do consistently.</strong></li><li>“How to thrive in an unknowable future? Choose the plan with the most options. The best plan is the one that lets you change your plans.” </li><li>“Be expensive” </li><li>“Expect disaster” </li><li>“Own as little as possible” </li><li><strong>For people starting out - say “yes”.</strong></li><li>Don’t Be a Donkey </li><li>“Well, I meet a lot of 30-year-olds who are trying to pursue many different directions at once, but not making progress in any, right? They get frustrated that the world wants them to pick one thing, because they want to do them all: ‘Why do I have to choose? I don’t know what to choose!’ But the problem is, if you’re thinking short-term, then [you act as though] if you don’t do them all this week, they won’t happen. The solution is to think long-term. To realize that you can do one of these things for a few years, and then do another one for a few years, and then another. You’ve probably heard the fable, I think it’s ‘Buridan’s ass,’ about a donkey who is standing halfway between a pile of hay and a bucket of water. He just keeps looking left to the hay, and right to the water, trying to decide. Hay or water, hay or water? He’s unable to decide, so he eventually falls over and dies of both hunger and thirst. A donkey can’t think of the future. If he did, he’d realize he could clearly go first to drink the water, then go eat the hay. “So, my advice to my 30-year-old self is, don’t be a donkey. You can do everything you want to do. You just need foresight and patience.” </li><li><strong>Once You Have Some Success—If It’s Not a “Hell, Yes!” It’s a “No”</strong></li><li>“Busy” = Out of Control </li><li><strong>Lack of time is lack of priorities.</strong></li><li>I believe you shouldn’t start a business unless people are asking you to. </li></ul><h5><strong>Tony Robbins</strong></h5><ul><li>“‘Stressed’ is the achiever word for ‘fear.’” </li><li><strong>“Mastery doesn’t come from an infographic. What you know doesn’t mean shit. What do you do consistently?”</strong></li><li><strong>Sometimes, you think you have to figure out your life’s purpose, but you really just need some macadamia nuts and a cold fucking shower.</strong></li><li>Think about your state when trying to solve problems or do anything else difficult. </li><li>“You realize that you will never be the best-looking person in the room. You’ll never be the smartest person in the room. You’ll never be the most educated, the most well-versed. You can never compete on those levels. <strong>But what you can always compete on, the true egalitarian aspect to success, is hard work. You can always work harder than the next guy.”</strong></li><li>What is the ultimate quantification of success? For me, it’s not how much time you spend doing what you love. It’s how little time you spend doing what you hate. </li></ul><h5><strong>Seth Godin</strong></h5><ul><li>If You Generate Enough Bad Ideas, a Few Good Ones Tend to Show Up </li><li>So the goal isn’t to get good ideas; the goal is to get bad ideas. Because once you get enough bad ideas, then some good ones have to show up. </li><li>Can You Push Something Downhill? </li><li>“If you think about how hard it is to push a business uphill, particularly when you’re just getting started, one answer is to say: ‘Why don’t you just start a different business, a business you can push downhill?’ </li><li>“I think we need to teach kids two things: </li><li>1) how to lead, and </li><li>2) how to solve interesting problems. </li></ul><h5><strong>James Altucher</strong></h5><ul><li>“What if [you] just can’t come up with 10 ideas? Here’s the magic trick: If you can’t come up with 10 ideas, come up with 20 ideas. . . . You are putting too much pressure on yourself. Perfectionism is the ENEMY of the idea muscle. </li><li>Haven’t Found Your Overarching, Single Purpose? Maybe You Don’t Have To. </li><li><strong>“Forget purpose. It’s okay to be happy without one. The quest for a single purpose has ruined many lives.”</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Scott Adams</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Capitalism rewards things that are both rare and valuable. You make yourself rare by combining two or more “pretty goods” until no one else has your mix. . . . At least one of the skills in your mixture should involve communication, either written or verbal.</strong></li></ul><p><strong>Chase Jarvis:</strong></p><ul><li>Specialization is for insects. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chris Young</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Hold the standard. Ask for help. Fix it. Do whatever’s necessary. But don’t cheat.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Daymond John</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>“If you go out there and start making noise and making sales, people will find you. Sales cure all. You can talk about how great your business plan is and how well you are going to do. You can make up your own opinions, but you cannot make up your own facts. Sales cure all.”</strong></li><li>“Money is a great servant but a horrible master.” </li></ul><h5><strong>The Canvas Strategy</strong></h5><ul><li>When you are just starting out, we can be sure of a few fundamental realities: </li><li>1) You’re not nearly as good or as important as you think you are; </li><li>2) you have an attitude that needs to be readjusted; </li><li>3) most of what you think you know or most of what you learned in books or in school is out of date or wrong. </li><li>There’s one fabulous way to work all of that out of your system: Attach yourself to people and organizations who are already successful, subsume your identity into theirs, and move both forward simultaneously. It’s certainly more glamorous to pursue your own glory—though hardly as effective. Obeisance is the way forward. </li></ul><h5><strong>Neil Strauss</strong></h5><ul><li>The biggest mistake you can make is to accept the norms of your time. </li><li>One of the best pieces of advice I’ve received for writing was a mantra: <strong>“Two crappy pages per day.”</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Justin Boreta</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming ‘Wow! What a Ride!’”—Hunter S. Thompson</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Peter Diamandis</strong></h5><ul><li>How to Find Your Driving Purpose or Mission: </li><li>Peter poses the following three questions: </li><li><strong>“What did you want to do when you were a child, before anybody told you what you were supposed to do? What was it you wanted to become? What did you want to do more than anything else?</strong></li><li>“If Peter Diamandis or Tim Ferriss gave you $1 billion, how would you spend it besides the parties and the Ferraris and so forth? If I asked you to spend $1 billion improving the world, solving a problem, what would you pursue? </li><li>“Where can you put yourself into an environment that gives maximum exposure to new ideas, problems, and people? Exposure to things that capture your ‘shower time’ [those things you can’t stop thinking about in the shower]?” </li></ul><h5><strong>Sophia Amoruso</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>“I just really want people to remember that they’re capable of doing everything that the people they admire are doing. Maybe not everything, but—don’t be so impressed.&quot;</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>B.J. Novak</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>“Any time I’m telling myself, ‘But I’m making so much money,’ that’s a warning sign that I’m doing the wrong thing.”</strong></li><li><strong>Money can always be regenerated. Time and reputation cannot.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Maria Popova</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>&quot;If you’re looking for a formula for greatness, the closest we’ll ever get, I think, is this: Consistency driven by a deep love of the work.&quot;</strong></li><li><strong>‘Those who work much, do not work hard.’</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Jocko Willink</strong></h5><ul><li>“Two Is One and One Is None.” </li><li>What Makes a Good Commander? </li><li>“The immediate answer that comes to mind is ‘humility.’ Because you’ve got to be humble, and you’ve got to be coachable.&quot; </li></ul><h5><strong>Sebastien Junger</strong></h5><ul><li>&quot;The hardest thing you’re ever going to do in your life is fail at something, and if you don’t start failing at things, you will not live a full life. You’ll be living a cautious life on a path that you know is pretty much guaranteed to more or less work. That’s not getting the most out of this amazing world we live in. You have to do the hardest thing that you have not been prepared for in this school or any school: You have to be prepared to fail. That’s how you’re going to expand yourself and grow. As you work through that process of failure and learning, you will really deepen into the human being you’re capable of being.” </li><li>“Who would you die for? What ideas would you die for? The answer to those questions, for most of human history, would have come very readily to any person’s mouth.&quot; </li></ul><h5><strong>General Stanley McChrystal &amp; Chris Fussell</strong></h5><ul><li>You should have a running list of three people that you’re always watching: </li><li>someone senior to you that you want to emulate, </li><li>a peer who you think is better at the job than you are and who you respect, and </li><li>someone subordinate who’s doing the job you did—one, two, or three years ago—better than you did it. </li><li>three individuals that you’re constantly measuring yourself off of, and you’re constantly learning from them, you’re going to be exponentially better than you are.” </li><li>“You can tell the true character of a man by how his dog and his kids react to him.” </li></ul><h5><strong>Shay Carl</strong></h5><ul><li>“The secrets to life are hidden behind the word ‘cliché.’” </li></ul><h5><strong>Kevin Kelly</strong></h5><ul><li>One massively successful private equity investor I know uses an Excel spreadsheet to display his own death countdown clock. Memento mori—remember that you’re going to die. It’s a great way to remember to live. </li><li>One manual project that every human should experience? </li><li>“You need to build your own house, your own shelter. It’s not that hard to do, believe me. I built my own house.” </li><li><strong>The Worst Case: A Sleeping Bag and Oatmeal</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Is This What I So Feared?</strong></h5><ul><li>The teachings of great men, I shall give you also a lesson: Set aside a certain number of days, during which you shall be content with the scantiest and cheapest fare, with coarse and rough dress, saying to yourself the while: “Is this the condition that I feared?” </li><li>How might you put this into practice? Here are a few things I’ve done repeatedly for 3 to 14 days at a time to simulate losing all my money: </li><li>Sleeping in a sleeping bag, whether on my living room floor or outside. </li><li>Wearing cheap white shirts and a single pair of jeans for the entire 3 to 14 days. </li><li>Using <a href="http://couchsurfing.com/">CouchSurfing.com</a> or a similar service to live in hosts’ homes for free, even if in your own city. </li><li>Eating only A) instant oatmeal and/or B) rice and beans. </li><li>Drinking only water and cheap instant coffee or tea. </li><li>Cooking everything using a Kelly Kettle. This is a camping device that can generate heat from nearly anything found in your backyard or on a roadside (e.g., twigs, leaves, paper). </li><li>Fasting, consuming nothing but water and perhaps coconut oil or powdered MCT oil (see page 24 for more on fasting). </li><li>Accessing the Internet only at libraries. </li></ul><h5><strong>Whitney Cummings</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Perfectionism leads to procrastination, which leads to paralysis.</strong></li><li><strong>Happiness is wanting what you have.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Lazy: A Manifesto (Tim Kreider)</strong></h5><ul><li>Book is <em>We Learn Nothing</em></li><li>I did make a conscious decision, a long time ago, to <strong>choose time over money, since you can always make more money.</strong> And I’ve always understood that the best investment of my limited time on earth is to spend it with people I love. I suppose it’s possible I’ll lie on my deathbed regretting that I didn’t work harder, write more, and say everything I had to say, but I think what I’ll really wish is that I could have one more round of Delanceys with Nick, another long late-night talk with Lauren, one last good hard laugh with Harold. Life is too short to be busy. </li></ul><h5><strong>Naval Ravikant</strong></h5><ul><li>Successful and Happy—Different Cohorts? </li><li>“If you want to be successful, surround yourself with people who are more successful than you are, but if you want to be happy, surround yourself with people who are less successful than you are.” </li><li>The Three Options You Always Have in Life </li><li>“In any situation in life, you only have three options. <strong>You always have three options.</strong></li><li><strong>You can change it, you can accept it, or you can leave it.</strong></li><li>What is not a good option is to sit around wishing you would change it but not changing it, wishing you would leave it but not leaving it, and not accepting it. </li><li><strong>“My one repeated learning in life: ‘There are no adults.’ Everyone’s making it up as they go along. Figure it out yourself, and do it.”</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Josh Waitzkin</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>“Interval training [often at midday or lunch break] and meditation together are beautiful habits to develop to cultivate the art of turning it on and turning it off.”</strong></li><li>This may sound clichéd, but how you do anything is how you do everything. </li><li>Lateral thinking or thematic thinking, the ability to take a lesson from one thing and transfer it to another, is one of the most important disciplines that any of us can cultivate. </li></ul><h5><strong>Brené Brown</strong></h5><ul><li>“A person’s success in life can usually be measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations he or she is willing to have.” </li><li>To Be Trusted, Be Vulnerable </li><li>People always [think] you gain trust first and then you’re vulnerable with people. </li><li>But the truth is, you can’t really earn trust over time with people without being somewhat vulnerable [first]. </li><li>Everything came when I completely dove in fearlessly and made the content that I needed to make as a kind of artist . . . I got out of my own way. I stopped doubting myself, and the universe winked at me when I did that, so to speak. </li></ul><h5><strong>Bryan Johnson</strong></h5><ul><li>Is It an Itch or a Burn? </li><li>“I have a lot of conversations with people who want to start their own thing, and one of my favorite questions to ask is, ‘Is this an itch, or is it burning?’ If it is just an itch, it is not sufficient.&quot; </li></ul><h5><strong>Robert Rodriguez</strong></h5><ul><li>For a lot of people, that’s the part that keeps them back the most. They think, ‘Well, I don’t have an idea, so I can’t start.’ I know you’ll only get the idea once you start. It’s this totally reverse thing. You have to act first before inspiration will hit. You don’t wait for inspiration and then act, or you’re never going to act, because you’re never going to have the inspiration, not consistently.” </li></ul><h5><strong>Conclusion:</strong></h5><ul><li>“Enjoy it.” —the best answer I’ve heard to what I always ask close friends: “What should I do with my life?” </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[The most comprehensive and compelling book on sleep I have ever read.I am becoming convinced (aided by this book) that being able to sleep well is a huge advantage in life. This book is likely to convince you of the same.It is a summary of scientific research on sleep to date, providing insight on how sleep affects cognitive and physical performance in both the short and long term, and what you can do improve your own sleep (which often involves avoiding things causing bad sleep).Recommended for everyone, as sleep affects us all.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4><strong>Part 1 - This Thing Called Sleep</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 1 - To Sleep . . .</strong></h5><ul><li>The shorter your sleep, the shorter your life span.</li><li>Sleep is the most effective thing we can do to reset our brain and body health each day.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2 - Caffeine, Jet Lag, and Melatonin</strong></h5><ul><li>Your circadian rhythm is one of two factors determining wake and sleep. Melatonin helps regulate the timing of when sleep occurs by signalling darkness throughout the organism, but has little influence on the generation of sleep itself.</li><li>Sleep pressure, caused by a buildup of the chemical adenosine in your brain, is the second factor affecting sleepiness.</li><li>Caffeine works by blocking the receptors that adenosine affects (after about 30 minutes).</li><li>Some people process caffeine faster than others, and we get less efficient as we age.</li><li>To identify sleep deficiency:</li><li>If you didn’t set an alarm clock, would you wake up on time?</li><li>Do you find yourself re-reading things?</li><li>Can you function optimally before noon without caffeine?</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3 - Defining and Generating Sleep</strong></h5><ul><li>When it comes to information processing, think of the wake state principally as reception (experiencing and constantly learning the world around you), NREM sleep as reflection (storing and strengthening those raw ingredients of new facts and skills), and REM sleep as integration (interconnecting these raw ingredients with each other, with all past experiences, and, in doing so, building an ever more accurate model of how the world works, including innovative insights and problem-solving abilities).</li><li>Why did evolution decide to outlaw muscle activity during REM sleep? Because by eliminating muscle activity you are prevented from acting out your dream experience.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4 - Ape Beds, Dinosaurs, and Napping with Half a Brain</strong></h5><ul><li>That humans (and all other species) can never sleep back that which we have previously lost is one of the most important take-homes of this book, the saddening consequences of which I will describe in chapters 7 and 8.</li></ul><p>How Should We Sleep?</p><ul><li>Throughout developed nations, most adults currently sleep in a monophasic pattern—that is, we try to take a long, single bout of slumber at night, the average duration of which is now less than seven hours.</li><li>Visit cultures that are untouched by electricity and you often see something rather different. Hunter-gatherer tribes, such as the Gabra in northern Kenya or the San people in the Kalahari Desert, whose way of life has changed little over the past thousands of years, sleep in a biphasic pattern. Both these groups take a similarly longer sleep period at night (seven to eight hours of time in bed, achieving about seven hours of sleep), followed by a thirty- to sixty-minute nap in the afternoon.</li><li>Apparent from this remarkable study is this fact: when we are cleaved from the innate practice of biphasic sleep, our lives are shortened. It is perhaps unsurprising that in the small enclaves of Greece where siestas still remain intact, such as the island of Ikaria, men are nearly four times as likely to reach the age of ninety as American males.</li></ul><p>REM Sleep</p><ul><li>REM sleep exquisitely recalibrates and fine-tunes the emotional circuits of the human brain (discussed in detail in part 3 of the book).</li><li>Second, and more critical, if you multiply these individual benefits within and across groups and tribes, all of which are experiencing an ever-increasing intensity and richness of REM sleep over millennia, we can start to see how this nightly REM-sleep recalibration of our emotional brains could have scaled rapidly and exponentially.</li><li>REM sleep fuels creativity.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5 - Changes in Sleep Across the Life Span</strong></h5><ul><li>Alcohol is one of the most powerful suppressors of REM sleep that we know of.</li></ul><p>Childhood Sleep</p><ul><li>The changes in deep NREM sleep always precede the cognitive and developmental milestones within the brain by several weeks or months, implying a direction of influence: deep sleep may be a driving force of brain maturation, not the other way around.</li><li>We are still learning more about the role of sleep in development. However, a strong case can already be made for defending sleep time in our adolescent youth, rather than denigrating sleep as a sign of laziness.</li></ul><p>Sleep in Midlife and Old Age</p><ul><li>That older adults simply need less sleep is a myth. Older adults appear to need just as much sleep as they do in midlife, but are simply less able to generate that (still necessary) sleep.</li><li>As you enter your fourth decade of life, there is a palpable reduction in the electrical quantity and quality of that deep NREM sleep.</li><li>The second hallmark of altered sleep as we age, and one that older adults are more conscious of, is fragmentation. The older we get, the more frequently we wake up throughout the night.</li><li>Due to sleep fragmentation, older individuals will suffer a reduction in sleep efficiency, defined as the percent of time you were asleep while in bed.</li><li>As healthy teenagers, we enjoyed a sleep efficiency of about 95 percent. As a reference anchor, most sleep doctors consider good-quality sleep to involve a sleep efficiency of 90 percent or above.</li><li>Any individual, no matter what age, will exhibit physical ailments, mental health instability, reduced alertness, and impaired memory if their sleep is chronically disrupted.</li><li>The third sleep change with advanced age is that of circadian timing. In sharp contrast to adolescents, seniors commonly experience a regression in sleep timing, leading to earlier and earlier bedtimes.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part 2 - Why Should You Sleep?</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 6 - Your Mother and Shakespeare Knew</strong></h5><p>The Benefits of Sleep for the Brain</p><ul><li>Of the many advantages conferred by sleep on the brain, that of memory is especially impressive, and particularly well understood. Sleep has proven itself time and again as a memory aid: both before learning, to prepare your brain for initially making new memories, and after learning, to cement those memories and prevent forgetting.</li></ul><p>Sleep for Other Types of Memory</p><ul><li>My final discovery, in what spanned almost a decade of research, identified the type of sleep responsible for the overnight motor-skill enhancement, carrying with it societal and medical lessons. The increases in speed and accuracy, underpinned by efficient automaticity, were directly related to the amount of stage 2 NREM, especially in the last two hours of an eight-hour night of sleep (e.g., from five to seven a.m., should you have fallen asleep at eleven p.m.).</li><li>Obtain anything less than eight hours of sleep a night, and especially less than six hours a night, and the following happens: time to physical exhaustion drops by 10 to 30 percent, and aerobic output is significantly reduced. Similar impairments are observed in limb extension force and vertical jump height, together with decreases in peak and sustained muscle strength. Add to this marked impairments in cardiovascular, metabolic, and respiratory capabilities that hamper an underslept body, including faster rates of lactic acid buildup, reductions in blood oxygen saturation, and converse increases in blood carbon dioxide, due in part to a reduction in the amount of air that the lungs can expire. Even the ability of the body to cool itself during physical exertion through sweating - a critical part of peak performance - is impaired by sleep loss.</li><li>Even teams that are aware of sleep’s importance before a game are surprised by my declaration of the equally, if not more, essential need for sleep in the days after a game. Post-performance sleep accelerates physical recovery from common inflammation, stimulates muscle repair, and helps restock cellular energy in the form of glucose and glycogen.</li></ul><p>Sleep for Creativity</p><ul><li>A final benefit of sleep for memory is arguably the most remarkable of all: creativity.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7 - Too Extreme for the Guinness Book of World Records</strong></h5><ul><li>In the following two chapters, we will learn precisely why and how sleep loss inflicts such devastating effects on the brain, linking it to numerous neurological and psychiatric conditions (e.g., Alzheimer’s disease, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, suicide, stroke, and chronic pain), and on every physiological system of the body, further contributing to countless disorders and disease (e.g., cancer, diabetes, heart attacks, infertility, weight gain, obesity, and immune deficiency). No facet of the human body is spared the crippling, noxious harm of sleep loss.</li></ul><p>Pay Attention</p><ul><li>One brain function that buckles under even the smallest dose of sleep deprivation is concentration. The deadly societal consequences of these concentration failures play out most obviously and fatally in the form of drowsy driving. Every hour, someone dies in a traffic accident in the US due to a fatigue-related error.</li><li>Not only this, but participants who are sleep deprived consistently underestimate the degree to which their performance is reduced.</li><li>Humans need more than seven hours of sleep each night to maintain cognitive performance. After ten days of just seven hours of sleep, the brain is as dysfunctional as it would be after going without sleep for twenty-four hours.</li><li>Three full nights of recovery sleep (i.e., more nights than a weekend) are insufficient to restore performance back to normal levels after a week of short sleeping. Finally, the human mind cannot accurately sense how sleep-deprived it is when sleep-deprived.</li><li>There are many things that I hope readers take away from this book. This is one of the most important: if you are drowsy while driving, please, please stop. It is lethal.</li></ul><p>Can Naps Help?</p><ul><li>No matter what you may have heard or read in the popular media, there is no scientific evidence we have suggesting that a drug, a device, or any amount of psychological willpower can replace sleep. Power naps may momentarily increase basic concentration under conditions of sleep deprivation, as can caffeine up to a certain dose. Neither naps nor caffeine can salvage more complex functions of the brain, including learning, memory, emotional stability, complex reasoning, or decision-making.</li><li>We have, however, discovered a very rare collection of individuals who appear to be able to survive on six hours of sleep, and show minimal impairment—a sleepless elite, as it were. Give them hours and hours of sleep opportunity in the laboratory, with no alarms or wake-up calls, and still they naturally sleep this short amount and no more. Part of the explanation appears to lie in their genetics, specifically a sub-variant of a gene called BHLHE41.</li></ul><p>Emotional Irrationality</p><ul><li>Many emotional and psychiatric problems can occur under sleep deprivation. Conversely, treating some of these issues with sleep has shown success.</li></ul><p>Tired and Forgetful?</p><ul><li>In other words, if you don’t sleep the very first night after learning, you lose the chance to consolidate those memories, even if you get lots of catch-up sleep thereafter.</li></ul><p>Sleep and Alzheimer’s Disease</p><ul><li>A lack of sleep is fast becoming recognized as a key lifestyle factor determining whether or not you will develop Alzheimer’s disease.</li><li>Sleep represents a new candidate for hope on all three of these fronts: diagnosis, prevention, and therapeutics.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8 - Cancer, Heart Attacks, and a Shorter Life</strong></h5><p>Sleep Deprivation and the Body</p><ul><li>Widening the lens of focus, there are more than twenty large-scale epidemiological studies that have tracked millions of people over many decades, all of which report the same clear relationship: the shorter your sleep, the shorter your life. The leading causes of disease and death in developed nations—diseases that are crippling health-care systems, such as heart disease, obesity, dementia, diabetes, and cancer—all have recognized causal links to a lack of sleep.</li></ul><p>Sleep Loss and the Cardiovascular System</p><ul><li>In the Northern Hemisphere, the switch to daylight savings time in March results in most people losing an hour of sleep opportunity. Should you tabulate millions of daily hospital records, as researchers have done, you discover that this seemingly trivial sleep reduction comes with a frightening spike in heart attacks the following day. Impressively, it works both ways. In the autumn within the Northern Hemisphere, when the clocks move forward and we gain an hour of sleep opportunity time, rates of heart attacks plummet the day after. A similar rise-and-fall relationship can be seen with the number of traffic accidents, proving that the brain, by way of attention lapses and microsleeps, is just as sensitive as the heart to very small perturbations of sleep.</li></ul><p>Weight Gain and Obesity</p><ul><li>The upshot of all this work can be summarized as follows: short sleep (of the type that many adults in first-world countries commonly and routinely report) will increase hunger and appetite, compromise impulse control within the brain, increase food consumption (especially of high-calorie foods), decrease feelings of food satisfaction after eating, and prevent effective weight loss when dieting.</li></ul><p>Sleep Loss and the Reproductive System</p><ul><li>Take a group of lean, healthy young males in their mid-twenties and limit them to five hours of sleep for one week, as a research group did at the University of Chicago. Sample the hormone levels circulating in the blood of these tired participants and you will find a marked drop in testosterone relative to their own baseline levels of testosterone when fully rested. The size of the hormonal blunting effect is so large that it effectively ages a man by ten to fifteen years in terms of testosterone virility.</li></ul><p>Sleep Loss and the Immune System</p><ul><li>Sleep deprivation vastly increases your likelihood of infection, and reduces your response to flu vaccine.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part 3 - How and Why We Dream</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 9 - Routinely Psychotic</strong></h5><ul><li>Emotional concerns are what have been found to correlate most with our dreams.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10 - Dreaming as Overnight Therapy</strong></h5><p>Dreaming - The Soothing Balm</p><ul><li>In fact, REM sleep is the only time during the twenty-four-hour period when your brain is completely devoid of this anxiety-triggering molecule. Noradrenaline, also known as norepinephrine, is the brain equivalent to a body chemical you already know and have felt the effects of: adrenaline (epinephrine).</li></ul><p>Dreaming to Decode Waking Experiences</p><ul><li>There are regions of your brain whose job it is to read and decode the value and meaning of emotional signals, especially faces. And it is that very same essential set of brain regions, or network, that REM sleep recalibrates at night.</li><li>The outside world had become a more threatening and aversive place when the brain lacked REM sleep—untruthfully so.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 11 - Dream Creativity and Dream Control</strong></h5><p>Dreaming: The Creative Incubator</p><ul><li>Deep NREM sleep strengthens individual memories, as we now know. But it is REM sleep that offers the masterful and complementary benefit of fusing and blending those elemental ingredients together, in abstract and highly novel ways.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part 4 - From Sleeping Pills to Society Transformed</strong></h4><h5><strong>Chapter 12 - Things That Go Bump in the Night</strong></h5><p>Sleep Disorders and Death Caused by No Sleep</p><ul><li>Without belaboring the point, insomnia is one of the most pressing and prevalent medical issues facing modern society, yet few speak of it this way, recognize the burden, or feel there is a need to act.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 13 - iPads, Factory Whistles, and Nightcaps</strong></h5><p>What’s Stopping You from Sleeping?</p><ul><li>Beyond longer commute times and sleep procrastination caused by late-evening television and digital entertainment—both of which are not unimportant in their top-and-tail snipping of our sleep time and that of our children—five key factors have powerfully changed how much and how well we sleep: (1) constant electric light as well as LED light, (2) regularized temperature, (3) caffeine (discussed in chapter 2), (4) alcohol, and (5) a legacy of punching time cards.</li><li>Compared to reading a printed book, reading on an iPad suppressed melatonin release by over 50 percent at night. Indeed, iPad reading delayed the rise of melatonin by up to three hours, relative to the natural rise in these same individuals when reading a printed book.</li><li>Due to its omnipresence, solutions for limiting exposure to artificial evening light are challenging. A good start is to create lowered, dim light in the rooms where you spend your evening hours. Avoid powerful overhead lights. Mood lighting is the order of the night. Some committed individuals will even wear yellow-tinted glasses indoors in the afternoon and evening to help filter out the most harmful blue light that suppresses melatonin.</li><li>Maintaining complete darkness throughout the night is equally critical, the easiest fix for which comes from blackout curtains. Finally, you can install software on your computers, phones, and tablet devices that gradually de-saturate the harmful blue LED light as evening progresses.</li></ul><p>Turning Down the Nightcap - Alcohol</p><ul><li>Yet this is not the worst of it when considering the effects of the evening nightcap on your slumber. More than its artificial sedating influence, alcohol dismantles an individual’s sleep in an additional two ways.</li><li>First, alcohol fragments sleep, littering the night with brief awakenings. Alcohol-infused sleep is therefore not continuous and, as a result, not restorative. Unfortunately, most of these nighttime awakenings go unnoticed by the sleeper since they don’t remember them</li><li>Second, alcohol is one of the most powerful suppressors of REM sleep that we know of.</li><li>Glib advice aside, what is the recommendation when it comes to sleep and alcohol? It is hard not to sound puritanical, but the evidence is so strong regarding alcohol’s harmful effects on sleep that to do otherwise would be doing you, and the science, a disservice. Many people enjoy a glass of wine with dinner, even an aperitif thereafter. But it takes your liver and kidneys many hours to degrade and excrete that alcohol, even if you are an individual with fast-acting enzymes for ethanol decomposition. Nightly alcohol will disrupt your sleep, and the annoying advice of abstinence is the best, and most honest, I can offer.</li></ul><p>Get the Nighttime Chills</p><ul><li>Thermal environment, specifically the proximal temperature around your body and brain, is perhaps the most underappreciated factor determining the ease with which you will fall asleep tonight, and the quality of sleep you will obtain. Ambient room temperature, bedding, and nightclothes dictate the thermal envelope that wraps around your body at night.</li><li>A bedroom temperature of around 65 degrees Fahrenheit (18.3°C) is ideal for the sleep of most people, assuming standard bedding and clothing.</li><li>Knowingly or not, you have probably used this proven temperature manipulation to help your own sleep. A luxury for many is to draw a hot bath in the evening and soak the body before bedtime. We feel it helps us fall asleep more quickly, which it can, but for the opposite reason most people imagine. You do not fall asleep faster because you are toasty and warm to the core. Instead, the hot bath invites blood to the surface of your skin, giving you that flushed appearance. When you get out of the bath, those dilated blood vessels on the surface quickly help radiate out inner heat, and your core body temperature plummets. Consequently, you fall asleep more quickly because your core is colder. Hot baths prior to bed can also induce 10 to 15 percent more deep NREM sleep in healthy adults.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 14 - Hurting and Helping Your Sleep</strong></h5><p>Pills vs. Therapy</p><p>Should You Take Two of These Before Bed?</p><ul><li>No past or current sleeping medications on the legal (or illegal) market induce natural sleep. Don’t get me wrong—no one would claim that you are awake after taking prescription sleeping pills. But to suggest that you are experiencing natural sleep would be an equally false assertion.</li><li>Those taking sleeping pills were 4.6 times more likely to die over this short two-and-a-half-year period than those who were not using sleeping pills. Kripke further discovered that the risk of death scaled with the frequency of use. Those individuals classified as heavy users, defined as taking more than 132 pills per year, were 5.3 times more likely to die over the study period than matched control participants who were not using sleeping pills.</li><li>More alarming was the mortality risk for people who only dabbled in sleeping pill use. Even very occasional users—those defined as taking just eighteen pills per year—were still 3.6 times more likely to die at some point across the assessment window than non-users.</li></ul><p>Don’t Take Two of These, Instead Try These</p><ul><li>Currently, the most effective of these is called cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia, or CBT-I, and it is rapidly being embraced by the medical community as the first-line treatment.</li><li>Working with a therapist for several weeks, patients are provided with a bespoke set of techniques intended to break bad sleep habits and address anxieties that have been inhibiting sleep. CBT-I builds on basic sleep hygiene principles that I describe in the appendix, supplemented with methods individualized for the patient, their problems, and their lifestyle. Some are obvious, others not so obvious, and still others are counterintuitive.</li><li>The obvious methods involve reducing caffeine and alcohol intake, removing screen technology from the bedroom, and having a cool bedroom. In addition, patients must (1) establish a regular bedtime and wake-up time, even on weekends, (2) go to bed only when sleepy and avoid sleeping on the couch early/mid-evenings, (3) never lie awake in bed for a significant time period; rather, get out of bed and do something quiet and relaxing until the urge to sleep returns, (4) avoid daytime napping if you are having difficulty sleeping at night, (5) reduce anxiety-provoking thoughts and worries by learning to mentally decelerate before bed, and (6) remove visible clockfaces from view in the bedroom, preventing clock-watching anxiety at night.</li></ul><p>General Good Sleep Practices</p><ul><li>For those of us who are not suffering from insomnia or another sleep disorder, there is much we can do to secure a far better night of sleep using what we call good sleep hygiene practices, for which a list of twelve key tips can be found at the National Institutes of Health website; also offered in the appendix of this book.</li><li>All twelve suggestions are superb advice, but if you can only adhere to one of these each and every day, make it: going to bed and waking up at the same time of day no matter what. It is perhaps the single most effective way of helping improve your sleep, even though it involves the use of an alarm clock.</li><li>It is still a clear bidirectional relationship, however, with a significant trend toward increasingly better sleep with increasing levels of physical activity, and a strong influence of sleep on daytime physical activity. Participants also feel more alert and energetic as a result of the sleep improvement, and signs of depression proportionally decrease.</li><li>One brief note of caution regarding physical activity: try not to exercise right before bed. Body temperature can remain high for an hour or two after physical exertion. Should this occur too close to bedtime, it can be difficult to drop your core temperature sufficiently to initiate sleep due to the exercise-driven increase in metabolic rate. Best to get your workout in at least two to three hours before turning the bedside light out (none LED-powered, I trust).</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 15 - Sleep and Society: What Medicine and Education Are Doing Wrong; What Google and NASA Are Doing Right</strong></h5><ul><li>REM sleep is what stands between rationality and insanity.</li><li>Studies on changing school start times to an hour later have shown higher GPAs following the change, increased life expectancy due to lower traffic accidents, increased attendance, and more.</li></ul><p>Sleep and Health Care</p><ul><li>The residency system was developed by a doctor who later turned out to be a cocaine addict, Dr. William Halsted.</li><li>The number of errors vastly increase when residents and doctors are deprived of sleep. They themselves are much more likely to die in a traffic accident after a long shift.</li><li>You should ask your doctor how much sleep they have had before undergoing any serious surgery.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 16 - A New Vision for Sleep in the Twenty-First Century</strong></h5><ul><li>For me, addressing this issue involves two steps of logic. First, we must understand why the problem of deficient sleep seems to be so resistant to change, and thus persists and grows worse. Second, we must develop a structured model for effecting change at every possible leverage point we can identify.</li></ul><h5><strong>Appendix</strong></h5><p>Twelve Tips for Healthy Sleep</p><ol><li>Stick to a sleep schedule</li><li>Exercise is great, but not too late in the day. Try to exercise at least thirty minutes on most days but not later than two to three hours before your bedtime.</li><li>Avoid caffeine and nicotine.</li><li>Avoid alcoholic drinks before bed.</li><li>Avoid large meals and beverages late at night.</li><li>If possible, avoid medicines that delay or disrupt your sleep.</li><li>Don’t take naps after 3 p.m.</li><li>Relax before bed. Don’t overschedule your day so that no time is left for unwinding. A relaxing activity, such as reading or listening to music, should be part of your bedtime ritual.</li><li>Take a hot bath before bed.</li><li>Dark bedroom, cool bedroom, gadget-free bedroom.</li><li>Have the right sunlight exposure. Daylight is key to regulating daily sleep patterns. Try to get outside in natural sunlight for at least thirty minutes each day. If possible, wake up with the sun or use very bright lights in the morning.</li><li>Don’t lie in bed awake.</li></ol><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[I really struggled to come up with a rating for this book.  Ultimately, the rating I gave it (6/10), is a reflection of the poor organization and flow of this book.  There is good information here, but I found the book unnecessarily bloated and cluttered.The main problem I have with it is the poor flow.  This seems to be a result of a few things:The book feels disjointed - there should be more than 12 rules, and more sections, and the book would be much clearer.At the same time, many sections feel meandering, and the connections that Peterson tries to make often don’t make sense to me, to the point that I have to re-read repeatedly, and ultimately just make me frustrated.Despite the complicated sections that could be broken up, some rules could have been summarized in a much shorter form, and indeed, Peterson originally came up with the list in a much shorter form for Quora - at times it feels like this.Overall, there are great sections, and a large amount of information in the book.  In my opinion, the organization just makes it far too difficult to actually absorb it.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favorite Quotes</h3><ul><li>&quot;Virtue signalling is, quite possible, our commonest vice.&quot;</li><li>&quot;It is far better to render Beings in your care competent than to protect them.&quot;</li><li>&quot;What saves is the willingness to learn from what you don’t know.&quot;</li><li>&quot;There is little, in a marriage, that is so little that it is not worth fighting about.&quot;</li><li>&quot;What shall I do when my enemy succeeds? Aim a little higher and be grateful for the lesson.&quot;</li></ul><h3>Notes</h3><h5>OVERTURE</h5><ul><li>Shared beliefs simplify the world, as well, because people who know what to expect from one another can act together to tame the world.</li><li>It isn’t precisely that people will fight for what they believe. They will fight, instead, to maintain the match between what they believe, what they expect, and what they desire.</li><li>There’s more to it, too. A shared cultural system stabilizes human interaction, but is also a system of value—a hierarchy of value, where some things are given priority and importance and others are not. In the absence of such a system of value, people simply cannot act. In fact, they can’t even perceive, because both action and perception require a goal, and a valid goal is, by necessity, something valued.</li><li>We experience much of our positive emotion in relation to goals. We are not happy, technically speaking, unless we see ourselves progressing—and the very idea of progression implies value.</li></ul><h5>RULE 1: STAND UP STRAIGHT WITH YOUR SHOULDERS BACK</h5><ul><li>Emotion is partly bodily expression, and can be amplified (or dampened) by that expression.</li><li>To stand up straight with your shoulders back is to accept the terrible responsibility of life, with eyes wide open. It means deciding to voluntarily transform the chaos of potential into the realities of habitable order.</li><li>So, attend carefully to your posture. Quit drooping and hunching around. Speak your mind. Put your desires forward, as if you had a right to them—at least the same right as others. Walk tall and gaze forthrightly ahead. Dare to be dangerous.</li><li>People, including yourself, will start to assume that you are competent and able (or at least they will not immediately conclude the reverse). Emboldened by the positive responses you are now receiving, you will begin to be less anxious.</li></ul><h5>RULE 2: TREAT YOURSELF LIKE SOMEONE YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR HELPING</h5><ul><li>Chaos is where we are when we don’t know where we are, and what we are doing when we don’t know what we are doing. It is, in short, all those things and situations we neither know nor understand.</li><li>Order, by contrast, is explored territory.</li><li>Order, when pushed too far, when imbalanced, can also manifest itself destructively and terribly. It does so as the forced migration, the concentration camp, and the soul-devouring uniformity of the goose-step.</li><li>Order is not enough. You can’t just be stable, and secure, and unchanging, because there are still vital and important new things to be learned. Nonetheless, chaos can be too much. You can’t long tolerate being swamped and overwhelmed beyond your capacity to cope while you are learning what you still need to know. Thus, you need to place one foot in what you have mastered and understood and the other in what you are currently exploring and mastering.</li><li>We deserve some respect. You deserve some respect. You are important to other people, as much as to yourself. You have some vital role to play in the unfolding destiny of the world. You are, therefore, morally obliged to take care of yourself. You should take care of, help and be good to yourself the same way you would take care of, help and be good to someone you loved and valued.</li><li>To treat yourself as if you were someone you are responsible for helping is, instead, to consider what would be truly good for you. This is not &quot;what you want.&quot; It is also not &quot;what would make you happy.&quot;</li><li>You must determine where you are going, so that you can bargain for yourself, so that you don’t end up resentful, vengeful and cruel.</li><li>You must discipline yourself carefully. You must keep the promises you make to yourself, and reward yourself, so that you can trust and motivate yourself. You need to determine how to act toward yourself so that you are most likely to become and to stay a good person.</li></ul><h5>RULE 3: MAKE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WHO WANT THE BEST FOR YOU</h5><ul><li>In a fit of inspiration, the well-meaning manager moves that problematic person into the midst of his stellar team, hoping to improve him by example. What happens?—and the psychological literature is clear on this point. Does the errant interloper immediately straighten up and fly right? No. Instead, the entire team degenerates.</li><li>Here’s something to consider: If you have a friend whose friendship you wouldn’t recommend to your sister, or your father, or your son, why would you have such a friend for yourself? You might say: out of loyalty. Well, loyalty is not identical to stupidity. Loyalty must be negotiated, fairly and honestly. Friendship is a reciprocal arrangement. You are not morally obliged to support someone who is making the world a worse place. Quite the opposite. You should choose people who want things to be better, not worse.</li><li>Don’t think that it is easier to surround yourself with good healthy people than with bad unhealthy people. It’s not. A good, healthy person is an ideal. It requires strength and daring to stand up near such a person. Have some humility. Have some courage. Use your judgment, and protect yourself from too-uncritical compassion and pity.</li></ul><h5>RULE 4: COMPARE YOURSELF TO WHO YOU WERE YESTERDAY, NOT TO WHO SOMEONE ELSE IS TODAY</h5><ul><li>It was easier for people to be good at something when more of us lived in small, rural communities.</li><li>No matter how good you are at something, or how you rank your accomplishments, there is someone out there who makes you look incompetent.</li><li>Failure is the price we pay for standards and, because mediocrity has consequences both real and harsh, standards are necessary.</li><li>We are not equal in ability or outcome, and never will be. A very small number of people produce very much of everything. The winners don’t take all, but they take most, and the bottom is not a good place to be.</li><li>We might start by considering the all-too-black-and-white words themselves: “success&quot; or “failure.&quot; You are either a success, a comprehensive, singular, over-all good thing, or its opposite, a failure, a comprehensive, singular, irredeemably bad thing. The words imply no alternative and no middle ground. However, in a world as complex as ours, such generalizations (really, such failure to differentiate) are a sign of naive, unsophisticated or even malevolent analysis.</li><li>To begin with, there is not just one game at which to succeed or fail. There are many games and, more specifically, many good games—games that match your talents, involve you productively with other people, and sustain and even improve themselves across time. Lawyer is a good game. So is plumber, physician, carpenter, or schoolteacher. The world allows for many ways of Being. If you don’t succeed at one, you can try another.</li><li>Furthermore, if changing games does not work, you can invent a new one.</li><li>It’s also unlikely that you’re playing only one game. You have a career and friends and family members and personal projects and artistic endeavors and athletic pursuits.</li><li>You might think you should be winning at everything (all these pursuits)! But winning at everything might only mean that you’re not doing anything new or difficult. You might be winning but you’re not growing, and growing might be the most important form of winning.</li><li>Finally, you might come to realize that the specifics of the many games you are playing are so unique to you, so individual, that comparison to others is simply inappropriate. Perhaps you are overvaluing what you don’t have and undervaluing what you do.</li><li>You are interested in some things and not in others. You can shape that interest, but there are limits. Some activities will always engage you, and others simply will not.</li><li>Five hundred small decisions, five hundred tiny actions, compose your day, today, and every day. Could you aim one or two of these at a better result? Better, in your own private opinion, by your own individual standards?</li><li>Aim small. You don’t want to shoulder too much to begin with, given your limited talents, tendency to deceive, burden of resentment, and ability to shirk responsibility. Thus, you set the following goal: by the end of the day, I want things in my life to be a tiny bit better than they were this morning.</li></ul><h5>RULE 5: DO NOT LET YOUR CHILDREN DO ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU DISLIKE THEM</h5><ul><li>Children need to be shaped and informed.</li><li>Children can be damaged by lack of attention as much as by abuse, mental or physical.</li><li>Children who do not learn social behaviour will be ignored by their peers because they are not fun to play with.</li><li>Every parent therefore needs to learn to tolerate the momentary anger or even hatred directed towards them by their children, after necessary corrective action has been taken, as the capacity of children to perceive or care about long-term consequences is very limited.</li><li>It is an act of responsibility to discipline a child. It is not anger at misbehavior. It is not revenge for a misdeed. It is instead a careful combination of mercy and long-term judgment.</li><li>Infants are like blind people, searching for a wall. They have to push forward, and test, to see where the actual boundaries lie (and those are too-seldom where they are said to be).</li><li>Consistent correction of such action indicates the limits of acceptable aggression to the child. Its absence merely heightens curiosity—so the child will hit and bite and kick, if he is aggressive and dominant, until something indicates a limit.</li><li>Kids do this frequently. Scared parents think that a crying child is always sad or hurt. This is simply not true. Anger is one of the most common reasons for crying.</li><li>Anger-crying is often an act of dominance, and should be dealt with as such.</li><li>Skinner observed the animals he was training to perform such acts with exceptional care. Any actions that approximated what he was aiming at were immediately followed by a reward of just the right size: not small enough to be inconsequential, and not so large that it devalued future rewards. Such an approach can be used with children, and works very well.</li><li>Emotions, positive and negative, come in two usefully differentiated variants. Satisfaction (technically, satiation) tells us that what we did was good, while hope (technically, incentive reward) indicates that something pleasurable is on the way. Pain hurts us, so we won’t repeat actions that produced personal damage or social isolation (as loneliness is also, technically, a form of pain).</li><li>We therefore do our children a disservice by failing to use whatever is available to help them learn, including negative emotions, even though such use should occur in the most merciful possible manner.</li><li>Children need to be well socialized by age four (at this age, peers become primary source of socialization).</li><li>So now we have two general principles of discipline. The first: limit the rules. The second: Use the least force necessary to enforce those rules.</li><li>About the first principle, you might ask, &quot;Limit the rules to what, exactly?&quot; Here are some suggestions. Do not bite, kick or hit, except in self-defence. Do not torture and bully other children, so you don’t end up in jail. Eat in a civilized and thankful manner, so that people are happy to have you at their house, and pleased to feed you. Learn to share, so other kids will play with you. Pay attention when spoken to by adults, so they don’t hate you and might therefore deign to teach you something. Go to sleep properly, and peaceably, so that your parents can have a private life and not resent your existence. Take care of your belongings, because you need to learn how and because you’re lucky to have them. Be good company when something fun is happening, so that you’re invited for the fun. Act so that other people are happy you’re around, so that people will want you around. A child who knows these rules will be welcome everywhere.</li><li>About the second, equally important principle, your question might be: What is minimum necessary force? This must be established experimentally, starting with the smallest possible intervention Some children will be turned to stone by a glare. A verbal command will stop another. A thumb-cocked flick of the index finger on a small hand might be necessary for some. Such a strategy is particularly useful in public places such as restaurants. It can be administered suddenly, quietly and effectively, without risking escalation.</li><li>People will really like your kids if you give them the chance.</li><li>So here are a few practical hints: time out can be an extremely effective form of punishment, particularly if the misbehaving child is welcome as soon as he controls his temper. An angry child should sit by himself until he calms down. Then he should be allowed to return to normal life. That means the child wins—instead of his anger. The rule is &quot;Come be with us as soon as you can behave properly.&quot; This is a very good deal for child, parent and society. You’ll be able to tell if your child has really regained control. You’ll like him again, despite his earlier misbehaviour.</li><li>Disciplinary principle 1: limit the rules. Principle 2: use minimum necessary force. Here’s a third: parents should come in pairs.</li><li>Here’s a fourth principle, one that is more particularly psychological: parents should understand their own capacity to be harsh, vengeful, arrogant, resentful, angry and deceitful.</li><li>Here’s a fifth and final and most general principle. Parents have a duty to act as proxies for the real world—merciful proxies, caring proxies—but proxies, nonetheless. This obligation supersedes any responsibility to ensure happiness, foster creativity, or boost self-esteem. It is the primary duty of parents to make their children socially desirable.</li></ul><h5>RULE 6: SET YOUR HOUSE IN PERFECT ORDER BEFORE YOU CRITICIZE THE WORLD</h5><ul><li>Many, perhaps even most, of the adults who abuse children were abused themselves as children. However, the majority of people who were abused as children do not abuse their own children.</li><li>Consider your circumstances. Start small. Have you taken full advantage of the opportunities offered to you? Are you working hard on your career, or even your job, or are you letting bitterness and resentment hold you back and drag you down? Have you made peace with your brother? Are you treating your spouse and your children with dignity and respect? Do you have habits that are destroying your health and well-being? Are you truly shouldering your responsibilities? Have you said what you need to say to your friends and family members? Are there things that you could do, that you know you could do, that would make things around you better?</li><li>Have you cleaned up your life?</li><li>If the answer is no, here’s something to try: Start to stop doing what you know to be wrong. Start stopping today. Don’t waste time questioning how you know that what you’re doing is wrong, if you are certain that it is. Inopportune questioning can confuse, without enlightening, as well as deflecting you from action.</li><li>You can know that something is wrong or right without knowing why.</li></ul><h5>RULE 7: PURSUE WHAT IS MEANINGFUL (NOT WHAT IS EXPEDIENT)</h5><ul><li>There is little difference between sacrifice and work. They are also both uniquely human.</li><li>Both have to do with the ultimate extension of the logic of work—which is sacrifice now, to gain later.</li><li>It is better to have something than nothing. It’s better yet to share generously the something you have. It’s even better than that, however, to become widely known for generous sharing. That’s something that lasts.</li><li>The society produced by Christianity was far less barbaric than the pagan—even the Roman—ones it replaced.</li><li>If the worst sin is the torment of others, merely for the sake of the suffering produced—then the good is whatever is diametrically opposed to that. The good is whatever stops such things from happening.</li><li>It was from this that I drew my fundamental moral conclusions. Aim up. Pay attention. Fix what you can fix. Don’t be arrogant in your knowledge. Strive for humility, because totalitarian pride manifests itself in intolerance, oppression, torture and death. Become aware of your own insufficiency—your cowardice, malevolence, resentment and hatred.</li><li>Consider then that the alleviation of unnecessary pain and suffering is a good. Make that an axiom: to the best of my ability I will act in a manner that leads to the alleviation of unnecessary pain and suffering.</li></ul><h5>RULE 8: TELL THE TRUTH—OR, AT LEAST, DON’T LIE</h5><ul><li>Someone living a life-lie is attempting to manipulate reality with perception, thought and action, so that only some narrowly desired and pre-defined outcome is allowed to exist. A life lived in this manner is based, consciously or unconsciously, on two premises. The first is that current knowledge is sufficient to define what is good, unquestioningly, far into the future. The second is that reality would be unbearable if left to its own devices. The first presumption is philosophically unjustifiable. What you are currently aiming at might not be worth attaining, just as what you are currently doing might be an error. The second is even worse. It is valid only if reality is intrinsically intolerable and, simultaneously, something that can be successfully manipulated and distorted.</li><li>This kind of oversimplification and falsification is particularly typical of ideologues. They adopt a single axiom: government is bad, immigration is bad, capitalism is bad, patriarchy is bad. Then they filter and screen their experiences and insist ever more narrowly that everything can be explained by that axiom. They believe, narcissistically, underneath all that bad theory, that the world could be put right, if only they held the controls.</li><li>If you say no to your boss, or your spouse, or your mother, when it needs to be said, then you transform yourself into someone who can say no when it needs to be said. If you say yes when no needs to be said, however, you transform yourself into someone who can only say yes, even when it is very clearly time to say no.</li><li>What saves is the willingness to learn from what you don’t know.</li><li>Some reliance on tradition can help us establish our aims. It is reasonable to do what other people have always done, unless we have a very good reason not to. It is reasonable to become educated and work and find love and have a family. That is how culture maintains itself. But it is necessary to aim at your target, however traditional, with your eyes wide open. You have a direction, but it might be wrong. You have a plan, but it might be ill-formed.</li><li>Set your ambitions, even if you are uncertain about what they should be.</li><li>Watch and observe while you move forward.</li><li>Perhaps it is better to conceptualize it this way: Everyone needs a concrete, specific goal—an ambition, and a purpose—to limit chaos and make intelligible sense of his or her life. But all such concrete goals can and should be subordinated to what might be considered a meta-goal, which is a way of approaching and formulating goals themselves. The meta-goal could be &quot;live in truth.”</li><li>If your life is not what it could be, try telling the truth. If you cling desperately to an ideology, or wallow in nihilism, try telling the truth. If you feel weak and rejected, and desperate, and confused, try telling the truth.</li></ul><h5>RULE 9: ASSUME THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE LISTENING TO MIGHT KNOW SOMETHING YOU DON’T</h5><ul><li>Genuine conversation is exploration, articulation and strategizing. When you’re involved in a genuine conversation, you’re listening, and talking—but mostly listening. Listening is paying attention.</li><li>Memory is not a description of the objective past. Memory is a tool. Memory is the past’s guide to the future. If you remember that something bad happened, and you can figure out why, then you can try to avoid that bad thing happening again. That’s the purpose of memory.</li><li>People think they think, but it’s not true. It’s mostly self-criticism that passes for thinking. True thinking is rare—just like true listening. Thinking is listening to yourself. It’s difficult. To think, you have to be at least two people at the same time. Then you have to let those people disagree. Thinking is an internal dialogue between two or more different views of the world.</li><li>Now the crowd is by no means always right, but it’s commonly right. It’s typically right. If you say something that takes everyone aback, therefore, you should reconsider what you said.</li><li>You need good, even great, reasons to ignore or defy general, public opinion.</li><li>He suggested that his readers conduct a short experiment when they next found themselves in a dispute: &quot;Stop the discussion for a moment, and institute this rule: ‘Each person can speak up for himself only after he has first restated the ideas and feelings of the previous speaker accurately, and to that speaker’s satisfaction.’&quot;</li><li>The third advantage to employing the Rogerian method is the difficulty it poses to the careless construction of straw-man arguments. When someone opposes you, it is very tempting to oversimplify, parody, or distort his or her position. This is a counterproductive game, designed both to harm the dissenter and to unjustly raise your personal status.</li><li>If you listen, instead, without premature judgment, people will generally tell you everything they are thinking—and with very little deceit. People will tell you the most amazing, absurd, interesting things. Very few of your conversations will be boring.</li><li>A well-practised and competent public speaker addresses a single, identifiable person, watches that individual nod, shake his head, frown, or look confused, and responds appropriately and directly to those gestures and expressions. Then, after a few phrases, rounding out some idea, he switches to another audience member, and does the same thing. In this manner, he infers and reacts to the attitude of the entire group (insofar as such a thing exists).</li></ul><h5>RULE 10: BE PRECISE IN YOUR SPEECH</h5><ul><li>There is little, in a marriage, that is so little that it is not worth fighting about.</li><li>Say what you mean, so that you can find out what you mean. Act out what you say, so you can find out what happens. Then pay attention. Note your errors. Articulate them. Strive to correct them. That is how you discover the meaning of your life. That will protect you from the tragedy of your life.</li></ul><h5>RULE 11: DO NOT BOTHER CHILDREN WHEN THEY ARE SKATEBOARDING</h5><ul><li>People, including children (who are people too, after all) don’t seek to minimize risk. They seek to optimize it.</li><li>When untrammeled—and encouraged—we prefer to live on the edge. There, we can still be both confident in our experience and confronting the chaos that helps us develop.</li><li>Boys are suffering, in the modern world. They are more disobedient—negatively—or more independent—positively—than girls, and they suffer for this, throughout their pre-university educational career. They are less agreeable (agreeableness being a personality trait associated with compassion, empathy and avoidance of conflict) and less susceptible to anxiety and depression, at least after both sexes hit puberty. Boys’ interests tilt towards things; girls’ interests tilt towards people. Strikingly, these differences, strongly influenced by biological factors, are most pronounced in the Scandinavian societies where gender-equality has been pushed hardest: this is the opposite of what would be expected by those who insist, ever more loudly, that gender is a social construct. It isn’t. This isn’t a debate. The data are in.</li><li>Girls can win by winning in their own hierarchy—by being good at what girls value, as girls. They can add to this victory by winning in the boys’ hierarchy. Boys, however, can only win by winning in the male hierarchy. They will lose status, among girls and boys, by being good at what girls value. It costs them in reputation among the boys, and in attractiveness among the girls. Girls aren’t attracted to boys who are their friends, even though they might like them, whatever that means.</li><li>The situation in the universities (and in educational institutions in general) is far more problematic than the basic statistics indicate. If you eliminate the so-called STEM (science, technology, engineering and mathematics) programs (excluding psychology), the female/male ratio is even more skewed. Almost 80 percent of students majoring in the fields of healthcare, public administration, psychology and education, which comprise one-quarter of all degrees, are female. The disparity is still rapidly increasing. At this rate, there will be very few men in most university disciplines in fifteen years. This is not good news for men. It might even be catastrophic news for men. But it’s also not good news for women.</li><li>Children in father-absent homes are four times as likely to be poor. That means their mothers are poor too. Fatherless children are at much greater risk for drug and alcohol abuse. Children living with married biological parents are less anxious, depressed and delinquent than children living with one or more non-biological parent. Children in single-parent families are also twice as likely to commit suicide.</li><li>In societies that are well-functioning—not in comparison to a hypothetical utopia, but contrasted with other existing or historical cultures—competence, not power, is a prime determiner of status. Competence. Ability. Skill. Not power. This is obvious both anecdotally and factually.</li><li>Furthermore, the most valid personality trait predictors of long-term success in Western countries are intelligence (as measured with cognitive ability or IQ tests) and conscientiousness (a trait characterized by industriousness and orderliness). There are exceptions. Entrepreneurs and artists are higher in openness to experience, another cardinal personality trait, than in conscientiousness. But openness is associated with verbal intelligence and creativity, so that exception is appropriate and understandable. The predictive power of these traits, mathematically and economically speaking, is exceptionally high—among the highest, in terms of power, of anything ever actually measured at the harder ends of the social sciences.</li><li>A good battery of personality/cognitive tests can increase the probability of employing someone more competent than average from 50:50 to 85:15.</li><li>The spirit that interferes when boys are trying to become men is, therefore, no more friend to woman than it is to man. It will object, just as vociferously and self-righteously (&quot;you can’t do it, it’s too dangerous&quot;) when little girls try to stand on their own two feet. It negates consciousness. It’s antihuman, desirous of failure, jealous, resentful and destructive. No one truly on the side of humanity would ally him or herself with such a thing. No one aiming at moving up would allow him or herself to become possessed by such a thing. And if you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.</li></ul><h5>RULE 12: PET A CAT WHEN YOU ENCOUNTER ONE ON THE STREET (DOGS ARE OK TOO)</h5><ul><li>Something supersedes thinking, despite its truly awesome power. When existence reveals itself as existentially intolerable, thinking collapses in on itself. In such situations—in the depths—it’s noticing, not thinking, that does the trick. Perhaps you might start by noticing this: when you love someone, it’s not despite their limitations. It’s because of their limitations.</li><li>And maybe when you are going for a walk and your head is spinning a cat will show up and if you pay attention to it then you will get a reminder for just fifteen seconds that the wonder of Being might make up for the ineradicable suffering that accompanies it.</li></ul><h5>CODA</h5><ul><li>To stand behind my daughter? That’s to encourage her, in everything she wants courageously to do, but to include in that genuine appreciation for the fact of her femininity: to recognize the importance of having a family and children and to forego the temptation to denigrate or devalue that in comparison to accomplishment of personal ambition or career. It’s not for nothing that the Holy Mother and Infant is a divine image—as we just discussed.</li><li>To act to justify the suffering of your parents is to remember all the sacrifices that all the others who lived before you (not least your parents) have made for you in all the course of the terrible past, to be grateful for all the progress that has been thereby made, and then to act in accordance with that remembrance and gratitude.</li><li>To encourage my son to be a true Son of God? That is to want him above all to do what is right, and to strive to have his back while he is doing so.</li><li>What shall I do when my enemy succeeds? Aim a little higher and be grateful for the lesson.</li><li>What shall I do in the next dire moment? Focus my attention on the next right move.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/digital-minimalism-cal-newport</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Newport makes an argument for how and why we should be reducing our use of social media, and technology in general, or at least being more specific and careful about our use. While it supported the growing concern of technology and social media use, I just didn’t find the information dense or compelling enough to warrant a full book. Worth noting that I’m already fairly cognizant of the issues surrounding technology use, so if you’re unfamiliar you may find more value.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>We are highly susceptible to positive reinforcement and drive for social approval, which tech companies exploit when designing their products. </li><li><strong>Digital Minimalism:</strong> A philosophy of technology use in which you focus your online time on a small number of carefully selected and optimized activities that strongly support things you value, and then happily miss out on everything else. </li><li>Essentially, digital minimalists think carefully about when and how to use technology, and use it <strong>only</strong> when it is the best tool to support a given outcome. </li><li>Suggestion: <strong>The Digital Declutter Process</strong></li><li>Put aside a thirty-day period during which you will take a break from optional technologies in your life. </li><li>During this thirty-day break, explore and rediscover activities and behaviors that you find satisfying and meaningful. </li><li>At the end of the break, reintroduce optional technologies into your life, starting from a blank slate. For each technology you reintroduce, determine what value it serves in your life and how specifically you will use it so as to maximize this value. </li><li>General heuristic: consider a given technology optional unless its removal would harm or significantly disrupt your daily personal or professional life. </li><li>When reintroducing technology, it should: </li><li>Serve something you deeply value (offering <em>some</em> benefit is not enough). </li><li>Be the <em>best</em> way to use technology to serve this value (if it’s not, replace it with something better). </li><li>Have a role in your life that is constrained with a standard operating procedure that specifies <em>when</em> and <em>how</em> you use it. </li><li>Regular doses of solitude - defined as time your mind is free from input from other minds - is required for humans to flourish. </li><li>When you avoid solitude, you miss out on the positive things it brings you: the ability to clarify hard problems, to regulate your emotions, to build moral courage, and to strengthen relationships. </li><li>The studies of social media that found positive results focused on <em>specific behaviors</em> of social media users, while the studies that found negative results focused on <em>overall use</em> of these services. </li><li>The key issue is that using social media tends to take people away from the real-world socializing that’s massively more valuable. </li><li>In other words, there is a zero-sum relationship between online and offline socializing. </li><li>Don’t click “Like.&quot; Ever. And while you’re at it, stop leaving comments on social media posts as well. Remain silent. </li><li>The reason behind this is that they teach your mind that connection is a reasonable alternative to conversation, when in reality, you should be using connection merely to <em>support</em> conversation. </li><li>Suggestion: set “office hours” for when you’re available via phone or in person. </li><li>The Bennett Principle: expending more energy in your leisure, can end up energizing you more. </li></ul><p><strong>Leisure Principles:</strong></p><ul><li>Prioritize demanding activity over passive consumption. </li><li>Use skills to produce valuable things in the physical world. </li><li>Seek activities that require real-world, structured social interactions. </li><li>Practices to help build these habits: </li><li>Fix or build something every week. </li><li>Schedule your low-quality leisure. </li><li>Join something. </li><li>Follow leisure plans - create these seasonally and weekly, with objectives and habits. </li><li>Practices to reduce media consumption: </li><li>Delete social media apps from your phone. </li><li>Turn your devices into “single-purpose computers”; have things blocked by default. </li><li>Embrace “slow media” - focus on high-quality sources, arguments for both sides, and consume at set times during the week. </li></ul><p><strong>Conclusion: </strong></p><ul><li>Adopting digital minimalism is not a onetime process that completes the day after your digital declutter; it instead requires ongoing adjustments. </li><li>In my experience, the key to sustained success with this philosophy is accepting that it’s not really about technology, but is instead more about the quality of your life. </li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Everything is F*cked by Mark Manson: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/everything-is-fucked-mark-manson</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I like Mark Manson. I enjoyed The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and I enjoy his blog. I couldn’t, however, finish this book. I think it’s the style of writing. It’s colloquial to the point of being annoying, and overstuffed with his trademark "f*ck"s. The notes below are those I added while skimming through the book.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>Being heroic is the ability to conjure hope where this is none. </li><li>&quot;I have tried to live my life such that in the hour of my death I would feel joy rather than fear.” - Wiltold Pilecki </li><li>The opposite of happiness is not anger or sadness but hopelessness, an endless gray horizon of resignation and indifference. It’s the belief that everything is fucked, so why do anything at all? </li><li>To build and maintain hope, we need three things: a sense of control, a belief in the value of something, and a community. </li><li>“Control&quot; means we feel as though we’re in control of our own life, that we can affect our fate. </li><li>“Values&quot; means we find something important enough to work toward, something better, that’s worth striving for. </li><li>And “community&quot; means we are part of a group that values the same things we do and is working toward achieving those things. </li><li>Amor fati, for Nietzsche, meant the unconditional acceptance of all life and experience: the highs and the lows, the meaning and the meaninglessness. It meant loving one’s pain, embracing one’s suffering. It meant closing the separation between one’s desires and reality not by striving for more desires, but by simply desiring reality. </li><li>It basically meant: hope for nothing. Hope for what already is—because hope is ultimately empty. </li><li>This is our challenge, our calling: To act without hope. To not hope for better. To be better. In this moment and the next. And the next. And the next. </li><li>When we pursue pain, we are able to choose what pain we bring into our lives. And this choice makes the pain meaningful—and therefore, it is what makes life feel meaningful. </li><li>Pain is the source of all value. To numb ourselves to our pain is to numb ourselves to anything that matters in the world. Pain opens up the moral gaps that eventually become our most deeply held values and beliefs. </li><li>When we deny ourselves the ability to feel pain for a purpose, we deny ourselves the ability to feel any purpose in our life at all. </li><li>The only true form of freedom, the only ethical form of freedom, is through self-limitation. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Dichotomy of Leadership by Jocko Willink & Leif Babin: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/dichotomy-of-leadership-jocko-willink-leif-babin</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This serves as a good companion to Extreme Ownership - you might as well read this one if you’re reading the other.  It’s meant to provide further guidance on how to apply the principles introduced in Extreme Ownership.That said, for the most part, it’s just common sense.  As long as you don’t take the rules to extremes and recognize how they should be applied, you’ll be fine.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>Introduction: Finding the Balance </h4><ul><li>The best leaders and teams acknowledge mistakes, take ownership, and make corrections to improve. Over time this adds up. </li><li>Cover and Move: Teamwork is critical among departments and groups. </li><li>Simple: Complexity breeds chaos and disaster - keep things simple and communicate overall intent. </li><li>Prioritize &amp; Execute: accomplish highest priorities in series. </li><li>Decentralized Command: empower team leaders by clearly communicating what to do and why. </li></ul><h4>Part I: Balancing People </h4><h5>Chapter 1 - The Ultimate Dichotomy </h5><ul><li>You should get close to your employees, your team, but never forget there is a job to be done, and that the good of the company/mission needs to come first. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 2 - Own It All, but Empower Others</h5><ul><li>You must avoid both micromanagement and being too hands-off.</li><li>Give clear guidance on the mission, the goal, and the end state, as well as the boundaries in place.</li><li>Make sure to communicate what other teams are doing.</li><li>Continue to monitor progress, but try and refrain from giving specific guidance on execution unless necessary.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 3 - Resolute, but Not Overbearing</h5><ul><li>Leaders must set high standards and drive the team to achieve those standards, but they cannot be domineering or inflexible on matters of little strategic importance. </li><li>The most important explanation a leader can give to the team is “why?&quot; </li><li>This is particularly important when holding the line and enforcing standards.</li><li>Keep in mind every leader has a limited amount of “leadership capital”, which must be expended carefully, only on important things. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 4 - When to Mentor, When to Fire</h5><ul><li>Most underperformers don’t need to be fired, they need to be led. But once every effort has been made to help an underperformer improve and all efforts have failed, a leader has to make the tough call to let that person go.</li><li>Leaders are responsible for getting their individual team members to perform through coaching, mentoring and counselling. </li><li>However, once every avenue is pursued without improvement to a sufficient level, leaders must put the team first and remove the individual.</li></ul><h4>Part II: Balancing the Mission</h4><h5>Chapter 5 - Train Hard, but Train Smart</h5><ul><li>Training must be hard. Training must simulate realistic challenges and apply pressure to decision-makers. <em>There is no growth in the comfort zone</em>. </li><li>Training must focus on the fundamentals.</li><li>Training must be repetitive.</li><li>The best training programs are not orchestrated from the top down, but driven from the bottom. </li><li>“We don’t have the budget” and “we don’t have time” are not valid excuses. Role-playing is free and training is important - make time. </li></ul><p>Chapter 6 - Aggressive, Not Reckless</p><ul><li>Problems aren’t going to solve themselves—a leader must get aggressive and take action to solve them and implement a solution.</li><li>An aggressive mind-set should be the default setting of any leader. Default: Aggressive. This means that the best leaders, the best teams, don’t wait to act.</li><li>“Aggressive&quot; means proactive. It doesn’t mean that leaders can get angry, lose their temper, or be aggressive toward their people.</li><li>The aggression that wins on the battlefield, in business, or in life is directed not toward people but toward solving problems, achieving goals, and accomplishing the mission.</li><li>It is also critical to balance aggression with careful thought and analysis to make sure that risks have been assessed and mitigated. The dichotomy with the Default: Aggressive mind-set is that sometimes hesitation allows a leader to further understand a situation so that he or she can react properly to it.</li><li>To be overly aggressive without critical thinking is to be reckless.</li><li>Be particularly cautious when you’ve had a few successes; the “disease of victory” can cause overconfidence and underestimation of risks. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 7 - Disciplined, Not Rigid</h5><ul><li>Disciplined standard operating procedures, repeatable processes, and consistent methodologies are helpful in any organization.</li><li>Disciplined procedures must be balanced with the ability to apply common sense and deviate from SOPs when necessary.</li><li>Freedom to think about alternative solutions and make adjustments must also be encouraged.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 8 - Hold People Accountable, but Don’t Hold Their Hands </h5><ul><li>Use accountability as a tool when needed, but don’t rely on it as the sole means of enforcement, lest it consume all a leader’s time. </li><li>Balance accountability with educating the team on <em>why</em> and empowering members to maintain standards even without direct oversight from the top. </li></ul><h4>Part III: Balancing Yourself</h4><h5>Chapter 9 - A Leader and a Follower</h5><ul><li>Leaders must be willing and able to lead. </li><li>However, they must be willing to lean on expertise and ideas of others more experienced, even if more junior.</li><li>They must also follow their own leaders: you must execute senior ideas as if they are your own once they are decided upon.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 10 - Plan, but Don’t Overplan </h5><ul><li>Careful planning, preparing for likely contingencies and never taking anything for granted is essential to succeeding. </li><li>However, you must focus on the most likely scenarios - perhaps 3-4 likely ones, plus the worst-case.</li><li>Too much planning and the process becomes unfocused and overwhelming. Too little, and you will fail. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 11 - Humble, Not Passive</h5><ul><li>Humility is the most important quality in a leader. </li><li>However, you must not be so humble as to be passive - when necessary, push back, voice concerns, stand up and provide feedback. </li></ul><h5>Chapter 12 - Focused, but Detached</h5><ul><li>Leaders must be attentive to details and in touch with the front lines, but must also keep the bigger picture in mind. </li></ul><h4>Afterword</h4><ul><li>Take Extreme Ownership of everything in your world, but strive to be extremely balanced in everything you do. </li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Drive by Daniel Pink: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/drive-daniel-pink</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Pink uses a variety of psychological research and case studies to show that pure monetary incentives are no longer the best way to motivate people. Instead, particularly for jobs which require problem solving (without a clear path to solution), we should aim to increase intrinsic motivation. To accomplish this, we should focus on providing opportunities for autonomy, mastery and purpose. A fascinating book that has many implications for today’s knowledge economy. One of the most useful parts of the book is the models and summaries provided at the end. Skip to those to get the main points.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li>Monetary rewards an deliver short-term boosts in productivity when tasks are clear, but decrease long-term motivation. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part One - A New Operating System</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 2 - Seven Reasons Carrots and Sticks (Often) Don’t Work…</strong></h5><ul><li>Rewards narrow our focus, which is good for tasks that have a clear path to completion (algorithmic tasks), but bad for tasks that require problem solving and creativity. </li></ul><p>Carrots and Sticks: The Seven Deadly Flaws </p><ol><li>They can extinguish intrinsic motivation. </li><li>They can diminish performance. </li><li>They can crush creativity. </li><li>They can crowd out good behavior. </li><li>They can encourage cheating, shortcuts, and unethical behavior. </li><li>They can become addictive. </li><li>They can foster short-term thinking. </li></ol><h5><strong>Chapter 2A - . . . and the Special Circumstances When They Do</strong></h5><ul><li>Ensure that baseline compensation is adequate and fair. </li><li>For routine tasks, rewards can provide a small motivational booster shot. </li><li>Abide rewards practices by: </li><li>Offer a rationale for why the task is necessary. </li><li>Acknowledge that the task is boring. </li><li>Allow people to complete the task their own way. </li><li>And the essential requirement: <em>any extrinsic reward should be unexpected and offered only after the task is complete.</em></li><li>Keep in mind that if this becomes predictable, it will become expected. </li><li>Consider non tangible rewards: praise and feedback. </li><li>Provide useful information: focus on specifics when giving feedback. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3 - Type I and Type X</strong></h5><ul><li>Type X behaviour is fueled more by extrinsic desires than intrinsic ones. </li><li>Type I behaviour is field more by intrinsic desires than extrinsic ones. It’s more concerned with the inherent satisfaction of the activity itself. </li><li>A few more distinctions to keep in mind before we go further: </li><li><strong>Type I behavior is made, not born</strong>. </li><li><strong>Type I’s almost always outperform Type X’s in the long run.</strong></li><li><strong>Type I behavior does not disdain money or recognition</strong>. </li><li><strong>Type I behavior is a renewable resource.</strong></li><li><strong>Type I behavior promotes greater physical and mental well-being</strong>. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part Two - The Three Elements</strong></h5><h5><strong>Chapter 4 - Autonomy</strong></h5><ul><li>Type I behavior emerges when people have autonomy over the four T’s: their <em>task</em>, their <em>time</em>, their <em>technique</em>, and their <em>team</em>. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5 - Mastery</strong></h5><ul><li>Engagement in the task one is pursuing is key to mastery. </li><li>To be engaged, ideally you are in <em>flow</em>, where goals are clear and feedback is immediate. </li><li>For flow, the challenge of a task must be just slightly above your level of competence. </li><li>You should also try and set “learning goals” instead of “performance goals” (learning French vs. getting an A in French class). </li><li>The best predictor of success in achieving mastery is “grit”. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6 - Purpose</strong></h5><ul><li>Autonomous people working toward mastery perform at very high levels. But those who do so in the service of some greater objective can achieve even more. </li><li>&quot;One cannot lead a life that is truly excellent without feeling that one belongs to something greater and more permanent than oneself.” - Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi </li></ul><h5><strong>Part Three - The Type I Toolkit</strong></h5><h5><strong>Type I for Individuals</strong></h5><ul><li>As you contemplate your purpose, begin with the big question: <em>What’s your sentence?</em> (The sentence people would use to describe you in hindsight). </li><li>Ex: Abraham Lincoln: “He preserved the union and freed the slaves.&quot; </li><li>Here’s something you can do to keep yourself motivated. At the end of each day, ask yourself whether you were better today than you were yesterday. Did you do more? Did you do it well? Or to get specific, did you learn your ten vocabulary words, make your eight sales calls, eat your five servings of fruits and vegetables, write your four pages? </li><li>In seeking mastery, make sure to accumulate <em>deliberate practice:</em> practice with the goal of improving performance. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[A fantastic book. Essentialism is the way of living that I'd been converging towards in many areas of my life, without knowing it.How do we combat the busyness of current life? The overwhelm of options and information? The lack of clarity that we all seem to have? Essentialism gives you a framework to develop your own purpose and stay focused on your goals. Applicable to both work and personal life. This book will be one I re-read frequently, and gift to many.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Chapter 1: The Essentialist</strong></h5><ul><li>&quot;The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of non-essentials.&quot;—Lin Yutang</li><li>When a request comes in, ask yourself: &quot;Is this the very <em>most</em> important thing I should be doing with my time and resources right now?&quot;</li><li>The basic value proposition of Essentialism: only once you give yourself permission to stop trying to do it all, to stop saying yes to everyone, can you make your highest contribution towards the things that really matter.</li></ul><p>The Way of the Essentialist </p><ul><li>The way of the Essentialist is the relentless pursuit of less but better.</li><li>There are far more activities and opportunities in the world than we have time and resources to invest in. And although many of them may be good, or even very good, the fact is that most are trivial and few are vital.</li><li>The way of the Essentialist means living by design, not by default.</li></ul><p>The Way of the Nonessentialist</p><ul><li>If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will.</li><li>In our society we are punished for good behavior (saying no) and rewarded for bad behavior (saying yes).</li><li>Curiously, and overstating the point in order to make it, <em>the pursuit of success can be a catalyst for failure</em>. Put another way, success can distract us from focusing on the essential things that produce success in the first place. </li></ul><p>Why Nonessentialism Is Everywhere</p><ul><li>Once an Australian nurse named Bronnie Ware, who cared for people in the last twelve weeks of their lives, recorded their most often discussed regrets. At the top of the list: &quot;I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.&quot;</li><li>This requires, not just haphazardly saying no, but purposefully, deliberately, and strategically eliminating the nonessentials, and not just getting rid of the obvious time wasters, but cutting out some really good opportunities as well.</li></ul><p>Our lives get cluttered just as closets do. Here’s how an Essentialist would approach that closet. </p><ul><li><strong>1. Explore and Evaluate</strong></li><li><strong>2. Eliminate</strong></li><li><strong>3. Execute</strong></li></ul><p>Essentialism is about creating a system for handling the closet of our lives. This is not a process you undertake once a year, once a month, or even once a week, like organizing your closet. It is a <em>discipline</em> you apply each and every time you are faced with a decision about whether to say yes or whether to politely decline.</p><p>Essence: What Is the Core Mindset of an Essentialist? </p><p><strong>Step 1. Explore: Discerning the Trivial Many From the Vital Few</strong></p><ul><li>If we search for &quot;a good opportunity,&quot; then we will find scores of pages for us to think about and work through. Instead, we can conduct an advanced search and ask three questions: &quot;What do I feel deeply inspired by?&quot; and &quot;What am I particularly talented at?&quot; and &quot;What meets a significant need in the world?&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Step 2. Eliminate: Cutting Out the Trivial Many</strong></p><p><strong>Step 3. Execute: Removing Obstacles and Making Execution Effortless</strong></p><p><strong>Essence: What Is the Core Logic of an Essentialist?</strong></p><ul><li>To embrace the essence of Essentialism requires we replace these false assumptions with three core truths: &quot;I choose to,&quot; &quot;Only a few things really matter,&quot; and &quot;I can do anything but not everything.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2: Choose: The Invincible Power of Choice</strong></h5><ul><li>We often think of choice as a thing. But a choice is not a thing. Our options may be things, but a choice—a choice is an action. It is not just something we have but something we do. </li></ul><p>The Invincible Power of Choosing to Choose</p><ul><li>For too long, we have overemphasized the external aspect of choices (our options) and underemphasized our internal ability to choose (our actions).</li></ul><p>How Do We Forget Our Ability to Choose? </p><ul><li>To become an Essentialist requires a heightened awareness of our ability to choose.</li><li>When we forget our ability to choose, we learn to be helpless. Drip by drip we allow our power to be taken away until we end up becoming a function of other people’s choices—or even a function of our own past choices.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: Discern: The Unimportance of Practically Everything</strong></h5><ul><li>In 1951, in his <em>Quality-Control Handbook</em>, Joseph Moses Juran, one of the fathers of the quality movement, expanded on this idea and called it the &quot;Law of the Vital Few.&quot; His observation was that you could massively improve the quality of a product by resolving a tiny fraction of the problems.</li><li>Many capable people are kept from getting to the next level of contribution because they can’t let go of the belief that everything is important.</li><li>To practice this Essentialist skill we can start at a simple level, and once it becomes second nature for everyday decisions we can begin to apply it to bigger and broader areas of our personal and professional lives.</li></ul><h5>Chapter 4: Trade-off: Which Problem Do I Want?</h5><ul><li>A Nonessentialist approaches every trade-off by asking, &quot;How can I do both?&quot; Essentialists ask the tougher but ultimately more liberating question, &quot;Which problem do I want?&quot; An Essentialist makes trade-offs deliberately.</li><li><strong>Instead of asking, &quot;What do I have to give up?&quot; they ask, &quot;What do I want to go big on?&quot; The cumulative impact of this small change in thinking can be profound.</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5: Escape: The Perks of Being Unavailable</strong></h5><ul><li>“Without great solitude no serious work is possible.&quot;—Pablo Picasso</li></ul><p>Space to Concentrate</p><ul><li>No matter how busy you think you are, you can carve time and space to think out of your workday.</li></ul><p>Space to Read </p><ul><li>One practice I’ve found useful is simply to read something from classic literature (not a blog, or the newspaper, or the latest beach novel) for the first twenty minutes of the day.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6: Look: See What Really Matters</strong></h5><p>Filter for the Fascinating</p><ul><li>We know instinctively that we cannot explore every single piece of information we encounter in our lives. Discerning what is essential to explore requires us to be disciplined in how we scan and filter all the competing and conflicting facts, options, and opinions constantly vying for our attention.</li></ul><p>Keep a Journal</p><ul><li>For the last ten years now I have kept a journal, using a counterintuitive yet effective method. It is simply this: I write less than I feel like writing.</li><li>Restrain yourself from writing more until daily journaling has become a habit. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7: Play: Embrace the Wisdom of Your Inner Child</strong></h5><ul><li>Play, which I would define as anything we do simply for the joy of doing rather than as a means to an end—whether it’s flying a kite or listening to music or throwing around a baseball—might seem like a nonessential activity. Often it is treated that way. But in fact play is essential in many ways.</li></ul><p>A Mind Invited to Play</p><ul><li>Play is fundamental to living the way of the Essentialist because it fuels exploration in at least three specific ways. </li><li><strong>First</strong>, play broadens the range of options available to us.</li><li><strong>Second</strong>, play is an antidote to stress.</li><li><strong>Third</strong>, play has a positive effect on the executive function of the brain.</li></ul><p>Of Work and Play </p><ul><li>Play doesn’t just help us to explore what is essential. It is essential in and of itself.</li><li>So how can we all introduce more play into our workplaces and our lives? In his book, Brown includes a primer to help readers reconnect with play. He suggests that readers mine their past for play memories. What did you do as a child that excited you? How can you re-create that today? </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8: Sleep: Protect the Asset</strong></h5><p>Protecting the Asset</p><ul><li>The best asset we have for making a contribution to the world is <em>ourselves</em>. If we underinvest in ourselves, and by that I mean our minds, our bodies, and our spirits, we damage the very tool we need to make our highest contribution. One of the most common ways people—especially ambitious, successful people—damage this asset is through a lack of sleep.</li><li>The real challenge for the person who thrives on challenges is <em>not</em> to work hard.</li><li>Essentialists instead see sleep as necessary for operating at high levels of contribution more of the time. </li></ul><p>Shattering the Sleep Stigma</p><ul><li>Sleep will enhance your ability to explore, make connections, and do less but better throughout your waking hours.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9: Select: The Power of Extreme Criteria</strong></h5><p>The 90 Percent Rule</p><ul><li>You can think of this as the 90 Percent Rule, and it’s one you can apply to just about every decision or dilemma. As you evaluate an option, think about the single most important criterion for that decision, and then simply give the option a score between 0 and 100. If you rate it any lower than 90 percent, then automatically change the rating to 0 and simply reject it.</li><li>Mastering this Essentialist skill, perhaps more than any other in this section, requires us to be vigilant about acknowledging the reality of trade-offs. By definition, applying highly selective criteria is a trade-off; sometimes you will have to turn down a seemingly very good option and have faith that the perfect option will soon come along. Sometimes it will, and sometimes it won’t, but the point is that the very act of applying selective criteria forces <em>you</em> to choose which perfect option to wait for, rather than letting other people, or the universe, choose for you.</li><li>The benefits of this ultra-selective approach to decision making in all areas of our lives should be clear: when our selection criteria are too broad, we will find ourselves committing to too many options. </li></ul><p>Opportunity Knocks</p><ul><li>Here’s a simple, systematic process you can use to apply selective criteria to opportunities that come your way. First, write down the opportunity. Second, write down a list of three &quot;minimum criteria&quot; the options would need to “pass&quot; in order to be considered. Third, write down a list of three ideal or &quot;extreme criteria&quot; the options would need to “pass&quot; in order to be considered. By definition, if the opportunity doesn’t pass the first set of criteria, the answer is obviously no. But if it also doesn’t pass <em>two of your three</em> extreme criteria, the answer is still no.</li></ul><p><strong>Eliminate: How Can We Cut Out the Trivial Many?</strong></p><ul><li>Of course, finding the discipline to say no to opportunities—often very good opportunities—that come your way in work and life is infinitely harder than throwing out old clothes in your closet.</li><li>So once you have sufficiently explored your options, the question you should be asking yourself is not: &quot;What, of my list of competing priorities, should I say yes to?&quot; Instead, ask the essential question: &quot;What will I say no to?&quot; This is the question that will uncover your true priorities.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 10: Clarify: One Decision That Makes a Thousand</strong></h5><p>From &quot;Pretty Clear&quot; to &quot;Really Clear&quot; </p><ul><li>In my work, I have noticed two common patterns that typically emerge when teams lack clarity of purpose. </li></ul><p><strong>Pattern 1: Playing Politics</strong></p><ul><li>In the first pattern, the team becomes overly focused on winning the attention of the manager.</li><li>We do a similar thing in our personal lives as well. When we are unclear about our real purpose in life—in other words, when we don’t have a clear sense of our goals, our aspirations, and our values—we make up our own social games. We waste time and energies on trying to look good in comparison to other people.</li></ul><p><strong>Pattern 2: It’s All Good (Which is Bad)</strong></p><ul><li>In the second pattern, teams without purpose become leaderless. With no clear direction, people pursue the things that advance their own short-term interests, with little awareness of how their activities contribute to (or in some cases, derail) the long-term mission of the team as a whole.</li><li>In the same way, when individuals are involved in too many disparate activities—even good activities—they can fail to achieve their essential mission.</li><li>One reason for this is that the activities don’t work in concert, so they don’t add up into a meaningful whole. For example, pursuing five different majors, each of them perfectly good, does not equal a degree. Likewise, five different jobs in five different industries do not add up to a forward-moving career.</li><li>So how do we achieve clarity of purpose in our teams and even our personal endeavors? One way is to decide on an essential intent.</li></ul><p>Essential Intent</p><ul><li>An essential intent is both inspirational and concrete, both meaningful and measurable.</li><li>Essential Intent is making one decision that will eliminate 1000 later decisions.</li></ul><p>Stop Wordsmithing and Start Deciding</p><ul><li>An essential intent doesn’t have to be elegantly crafted; it’s the substance, not the style that counts. Instead, ask the more essential question that will inform every future decision you will ever make: &quot;If we could be truly excellent at only one thing, what would it be?&quot;</li></ul><p>Ask, &quot;How Will We Know When We’re Done? </p><ul><li>A powerful essential intent inspires people partially because it is concrete enough to answer the question, &quot;How will we know when we have succeeded?&quot;</li></ul><p>Living with Intent</p><ul><li>Essential intent applies to so much more than your job description or your company’s mission statement; a true essential intent is one that guides your greater sense of purpose, and helps you chart your life’s path.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 11: Dare: The Power of a Graceful &quot;No&quot;</strong></h5><ul><li>Without courage, the disciplined pursuit of less is just lip service.</li></ul><p>Essentially Awkward</p><ul><li>Since becoming an Essentialist I have found it almost universally true that people respect and admire those with the courage of conviction to say no.</li><li>So how do we learn to say no gracefully? Below are general guidelines followed by a number of specific scripts for delivering the graceful “no.&quot; </li><li><strong>Separate the decision from the relationship</strong></li><li><strong>Saying “no&quot; gracefully doesn’t have to mean using the word <em>no</em></strong></li><li><strong>Focus on the trade-off</strong></li><li><strong>Remind yourself that everyone is selling something</strong></li><li><strong>Make your peace with the fact that saying “no” often requires trading popularity for respect</strong></li><li><strong>Remember that a clear “no” can be more graceful than a vague or noncommittal “yes&quot;</strong></li></ul><p>The “No&quot; Repertoire</p><p>To consistently say no with grace, then, it helps to have a variety of responses to call upon. Below are eight responses you can put in your “no&quot; repertoire. </p><ul><li><strong>The awkward pause</strong>.</li><li><strong>The soft “no&quot; (or the &quot;no but&quot;)</strong>.</li><li><strong>&quot;Let me check my calendar and get back to you.&quot;</strong></li><li><strong>Use e-mail bouncebacks</strong>.</li><li><strong>Say, &quot;Yes. What should I deprioritize?&quot;</strong></li><li><strong>Say it with humor.</strong></li><li><strong>Use the words &quot;You are welcome to X. I am willing to Y.&quot;</strong></li><li><strong>&quot;I can’t do it, but X might be interested.&quot;</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 12: Uncommit: Win Big by Cutting Your Losses</strong></h5><ul><li><strong><em>Sunk-cost bias</em></strong> is the tendency to continue to invest time, money, or energy into something we know is a losing proposition simply because we have already incurred, or sunk, a cost that cannot be recouped. But of course this can easily become a vicious cycle: the more we invest, the more determined we become to see it through and see our investment pay off. The more we invest in something, the harder it is to let go.</li><li>It explains why we’ll continue to sit through a terrible movie because we’ve already paid the price of a ticket. It explains why we continue to pour money into a home renovation that never seems to near completion. It explains why we’ll continue to wait for a bus or a subway train that never comes instead of hailing a cab, and it explains why we invest in toxic relationships even when our efforts only make things worse.</li></ul><p>Avoiding Commitment Traps</p><p><strong>Beware of the Endowment Effect</strong></p><ul><li>&quot;the endowment effect&quot;: our tendency to undervalue things that aren’t ours and to overvalue things because we already own them.</li></ul><p><strong>Pretend You Don’t Own it Yet</strong></p><ul><li>Tom Stafford describes a simple antidote to the endowment effect. Instead of asking, &quot;How much do I value this item?&quot; we should ask, &quot;If I did not own this item, how much would I pay to obtain it?&quot; We can do the same for opportunities and commitment.</li><li>Don’t ask, &quot;How will I feel if I miss out on this opportunity?&quot; but rather, &quot;If I did not have this opportunity, how much would I be willing to sacrifice in order to obtain it?&quot; Similarly, we can ask, &quot;If I wasn’t already involved in this project, how hard would I work to get on it?&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Get Over the Fear of Waste</strong></p><p><strong>Instead, Admit Failure to Begin Success</strong></p><ul><li>Only when we admit we have made a mistake in committing to something can we make a mistake a part of our past.</li></ul><p><strong>Stop Trying to Force a Fit</strong></p><p><strong>Get a Neutral Second Opinion</strong></p><p><strong>Be Aware of the Status Quo Bias</strong></p><ul><li>The tendency to continue doing something simply because we have always done it is sometimes called the &quot;status quo bias.&quot;</li><li>One cure for the status quo bias is borrowed from the world of accounting:</li></ul><p><strong>Apply Zero-Based Budgeting</strong></p><ul><li>Typically, when accountants allocate a budget they use last year’s budget as the baseline for the next year’s projection. But with zero-based budgeting, they use zero as the baseline. In other words, every item in the proposed budget must be justified from scratch.</li><li>You can apply zero-based budgeting to your own endeavors. Instead of trying to budget your time on the basis of existing commitments, assume that all bets are off. All previous commitments are gone. Then begin from scratch, asking which you would add today. You can do this with everything from the financial obligations you have to projects you are committed to, even relationships you are in. Every use of time, energy, or resources has to justify itself anew. If it no longer fits, eliminate it altogether.</li></ul><p><strong>Stop Making Casual Commitments</strong></p><p><strong>From Now On, Pause Before You Speak</strong></p><ul><li>It might sound obvious, but pausing for just five seconds before offering your services can greatly reduce the possibility of making a commitment you’ll regret.</li></ul><p><strong>Get Over the Fear of Missing Out</strong></p><p><strong>To Fight This Fear, Run a Reverse Pilot</strong></p><ul><li>In a reverse pilot you test whether <em>removing</em> an initiative or activity will have any negative consequences. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 13: Edit: The Invisible Art</strong></h5><ul><li>In life, disciplined editing can help add to your level of contribution. It increases your ability to focus on and give energy to the things that really matter. It lends the most meaningful relationships and activities more space to blossom.</li></ul><p>Editing Life</p><p><strong>Cut Out Options</strong></p><p><strong>Condense</strong></p><ul><li>As Alan D. Williams observed in the essay &quot;What Is an Editor?&quot; there are two basic questions the editor should be addressing to the author: &quot;Are you saying what you want to say?&quot; and, &quot;Are you saying it as clearly and concisely as possible?&quot;</li><li>Likewise, in life, condensing allows us to do more with less.</li></ul><p><strong>Correct</strong></p><ul><li>Similarly, in our own professional or private lives we can make course corrections by coming back to our core purpose.</li></ul><p><strong>Edit Less</strong></p><h5><strong>Chapter 14: Limit: The Freedom of Setting Boundaries</strong></h5><ul><li>Nonessentialists tend to think of boundaries as constraints or limits, things that get in the way of their hyperproductive life.</li><li>Essentialists, on the other hand, see boundaries as empowering. They recognize that boundaries protect their time from being hijacked and often free them from the burden of having to say no to things that further others’ objectives instead of their own.</li></ul><p><strong>Execute: How to Make Execution Effortless</strong></p><ul><li>While Nonessentialists tend to force execution, Essentialists invest the time they have saved by eliminating the nonessentials into designing a system to make execution almost effortless.</li><li>In other words, once you’ve figured out which activities and efforts to keep in your life, you have to have a system for executing them.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 15: Buffer: The Unfair Advantage</strong></h5><ul><li>The only thing we can expect (with any great certainty) is the unexpected. Therefore, we can either wait for the moment and react to it or we can prepare. We can create a buffer.</li><li>The Nonessentialist tends to always assume a best-case scenario. We all know those people (and many of us, myself included, have been that person) who chronically underestimate how long something will really take.</li><li>The way of the Essentialist is different. The Essentialist looks ahead. She plans. She prepares for different contingencies. She expects the unexpected. She creates a buffer to prepare for the unforeseen, thus giving herself some wiggle room when things come up, as they inevitably do.</li></ul><p>Here are a few tips for keeping your work—and sanity—from swerving off the road by creating a buffer. </p><p><strong>Use Extreme Preparation</strong></p><p><strong>Add 50 Percent to Your Time Estimate</strong></p><ul><li>&quot;planning fallacy&quot;: This term, coined by Daniel Kahneman in 1979, refers to people’s tendency to underestimate how long a task will take, <em>even when they have actually done the task before.</em></li></ul><p><strong>Conduct Scenario Planning</strong></p><ul><li>We can apply these five questions to our own attempts at building buffers. Think of the most important project you are trying to get done at work or at home. Then ask the following five questions: </li><li>(1) What risks do you face on this project?</li><li>(2) What is the worst-case scenario?</li><li>(3) What would the social effects of this be?</li><li>(4) What would the financial impact of this be? and</li><li>(5) How can you invest to reduce risks or strengthen financial or social resilience?</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 16: Subtract: Bring Forth More by Removing Obstacles</strong></h5><ul><li>“To attain knowledge add things every day. To attain wisdom subtract things every day.&quot;—Lao-tzu</li><li>Constraints are the obstacles holding the whole system back.</li><li>The question is this: What is the &quot;slowest hiker&quot; in your job or your life? What is the obstacle that is keeping you back from achieving what really matters to you? By systematically identifying and removing this “constraint&quot; you’ll be able to significantly reduce the friction keeping you from executing what is essential.</li><li>They ask, &quot;What is getting in the way of achieving what is essential?&quot;</li></ul><p>Produce More by Removing More</p><ul><li><strong>An Essentialist produces more—brings forth more—by removing more instead of doing more.</strong></li></ul><p>Instead of focusing on the efforts and resources we need to add, the Essentialist focuses on the constraints or obstacles we need to remove. But how? </p><p><strong>1. Be Clear About the Essential Intent</strong></p><ul><li>&quot;How will we know when we are done?&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>2. Identify the &quot;Slowest Hiker&quot;</strong></p><ul><li>Ask yourself, &quot;What are all the obstacles standing between me and getting this done?&quot; and &quot;What is keeping me from completing this?&quot; Make a list of these obstacles. Prioritize the list using the question, &quot;What is the obstacle that, if removed, would make the majority of other obstacles disappear?&quot;</li><li>When identifying your &quot;slowest hiker,&quot; one important thing to keep in mind is that even activities that are &quot;productive&quot;—like doing research, or e-mailing people for information, or rewriting the report in order to get it perfect the first time around—can be obstacles. Remember, the desired goal is to get a draft of the report finished. Anything slowing down the execution of that goal should be questioned.</li><li>There are often multiple obstacles to achieving any essential intent. However, at any one time there is only ever one priority; removing arbitrary obstacles can have no effect whatsoever if the primary one still doesn’t budge.</li></ul><p><strong>3. Remove the Obstacle</strong></p><ul><li>Give yourself permission to not have it polished in the first draft.</li><li>The &quot;slowest hiker&quot; could even be another person. To reduce the friction with another person, apply the &quot;catch more flies with honey&quot; approach. Ask him, &quot;What obstacles or bottlenecks are holding you back from achieving X, and how can I help remove these?&quot; Instead of pestering him, offer sincerely to support him.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 17: Progress: The Power of Small Wins</strong></h5><ul><li>The way of the Nonessentialist is to go big on everything: to try to do it all, have it all, fit it all in. The Nonessentialist operates under the false logic that the more he strives, the more he will achieve, but the reality is, the more we reach for the stars, the harder it is to get ourselves off the ground.</li><li>The way of the Essentialist is different. Instead of trying to accomplish it all—and all at once—and flaring out, the Essentialist starts small and celebrates progress. Instead of going for the big, flashy wins that don’t really matter, the Essentialist pursues small and simple wins in areas that are essential.</li><li>Research has shown that of all forms of human motivation the most effective one is progress. Why? Because a small, concrete win creates momentum and affirms our faith in our further success.</li><li>Amabile and Kramer concluded that &quot;everyday progress—even a small win&quot; can make all the difference in how people feel and perform.&quot; Of all the things that can boost emotions, motivation, and perceptions during a workday, the single most important is making progress in meaningful work,&quot; they said.</li><li>To really get essential things done we need to start small and build momentum.</li><li>Then we can use that momentum to work toward the next win, and the next one and so on until we have a significant breakthrough. </li></ul><p><strong>Focus on Minimum Viable Progress</strong></p><ul><li>Similarly, we can adopt a method of &quot;minimal viable progress.&quot; We can ask ourselves, &quot;What is the smallest amount of progress that will be useful and valuable to the essential task we are trying to get done?&quot;</li></ul><p><strong>Do the Minimum Viable Preparation</strong></p><ul><li>Take a goal or deadline you have coming up and ask yourself, &quot;What is the minimal amount I could do <em>right now</em> to prepare?&quot;</li><li>A colleague in New York uses a simple hack: whenever she schedules a meeting or phone call, she takes exactly fifteen seconds to type up the main objectives for that meeting, so on the morning of the meeting when she sits down to prepare talking points she can refer to them.</li><li><strong>Visually Reward Progress</strong></li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 18: Flow: The Genius of Routine</strong></h5><ul><li>“Routine, in an intelligent man, is a sign of ambition.&quot;—W. H. Auden</li><li>The Essentialist designs a routine that makes achieving what you have identified as essential the default position.</li><li>Yes, in some instances an Essentialist still has to work hard, but with the right routine in place each effort yields exponentially greater results. </li></ul><p>Making It Look Easy</p><ul><li>Routine is one of the most powerful tools for removing obstacles. Without routine, the pull of nonessential distractions will overpower us. But if we create a routine that enshrines the essentials, we will begin to execute them on autopilot </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 19: Focus: What’s Important Now?</strong></h5><p>Multitasking Versus Multifocusing</p><ul><li>But in fact we can easily do two things at the same time: wash the dishes and listen to the radio, eat and talk, clear the clutter on our desk while thinking about where to go for lunch, text message while watching television, and so on.</li><li>What we can’t do is <em>concentrate</em> on two things at the same time. Multitasking itself is not the enemy of Essentialism; pretending we can &quot;multi<em>focus</em>&quot; is.</li></ul><p>The Pause That Refreshes</p><ul><li>Pay attention through the day for your own kairos moments. Write them down in your journal.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 20: Be: The Essentialist Life</strong></h5><ul><li>“Beware the barrenness of a busy life.”—Socrates</li></ul><p>Living Essentially</p><ul><li>There are two ways of thinking about Essentialism. The first is to think of it as something you do occasionally. The second is to think of it as something you <em>are.</em></li><li>In the former, Essentialism is one more thing to add to your already overstuffed life. In the latter, it is a different way—a simpler way—of doing everything. It becomes a lifestyle. It becomes an all-encompassing approach to living and leading. It becomes the essence of who we are.</li></ul><p>Majoring in Minor Activities </p><ul><li>Once you become an Essentialist, you will find that you aren’t like everybody else. When other people are saying yes, you will find yourself saying no. When other people are doing, you will find yourself thinking. When other people are speaking, you will find yourself listening. When other people are in the spotlight, vying for attention, you will find yourself waiting on the sidelines until it is time to shine. While other people are padding their résumés and building out their LinkedIn profiles, you will be building a career of meaning. While other people are complaining (read: bragging) about how busy they are, you will just be smiling sympathetically, unable to relate. While other people are living a life of stress and chaos, you will be living a life of impact and fulfillment. In many ways, to live as an Essentialist in our too-many-things-all-the-time society is an act of quiet revolution.</li></ul><p>Here are some of the ways the disciplined pursuit of less can change your life for the better. </p><p><strong>More Clarity</strong></p><p><strong>More Control</strong></p><ul><li>You will gain confidence in your ability to pause, push back, or not rush in. You will feel less and less a function of other people’s to-do lists and agendas.</li></ul><p><strong>More Joy in the Journey</strong></p><ul><li>With the focus on what is truly important <em>right now</em> comes the ability to live life more fully, in the moment.</li></ul><p>The Essential Life: Living a Life That <em>Really</em> Matters</p><ul><li>The life of an Essentialist is a life of meaning. It is a life that really matters.</li><li>This story captures the two most personal learnings that have come to me on the long journey of writing this book. The first is the exquisitely important role of my family in my life. At the very, very end, everything else will fade into insignificance by comparison.</li><li>The second is the pathetically tiny amount of time we have left of our lives. For me this is not a depressing thought but a thrilling one. It removes fear of choosing the wrong thing. It infuses courage into my bones. It challenges me to be even more unreasonably selective about how to use this precious—and <em>precious</em> is perhaps too insipid of a word—time.</li><li>The life of an Essentialist is a life lived without regret. If you have correctly identified what really matters, if you invest your time and energy in it, then it is difficult to regret the choices you make. You become proud of the life you have chosen to live.</li><li>Will you choose to live a life of purpose and meaning, or will you look back on your one single life with twinges of regret?</li><li>If you take one thing away from this book, I hope you will remember this: whatever decision or challenge or crossroads you face in your life, simply ask yourself, &quot;What is essential?&quot; Eliminate everything else.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Win Friends & Influence People in the Digital Age by Dale Carnegie & Associates: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[This book is a revamped version of the original principles from How to Win Friends & Influence People, reinvigorated with examples from the modern world, and readers that are applying the principles in modern times.I was originally skeptical of the principles in the original book, calling them “common sense”. Having a deeper understanding of some of the subtleties of negotiation and working in a team environment at work have given me a new appreciation for them.They are simple, but powerful, and we should all try and remind ourselves of them regularly.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Detailed Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction: Why Carnegie’s Advice Still Matters</strong></h5><ul><li>There is no such thing as a neutral exchange. You leave someone either a little better or a little worse.</li></ul><p>More Than Clever Communication</p><ul><li>The two highest levels of influence are achieved when (1) people follow you because of what you’ve done for them and (2) people follow you because of who you are.</li></ul><p>Starting Soft</p><ul><li>Soft skills link hard skills to operational productivity, organizational synergy, and commercial relevance because all require sound human commitment.</li><li>Meaning rules the effectiveness of every medium. Once you have something meaningful to offer, you can then choose the most proficient media for your endeavour.</li></ul><p>Straightforward Advice for Succeeding with People Today</p><ul><li>It is in the common, everyday moments where altruistic actions most clearly stand out.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part 1 - Essentials of Engagement</strong></h4><h5><strong>1: Bury Your Boomerangs</strong></h5><ul><li>Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain.</li><li>The moment you use a medium to criticize, the subject of your criticism is compelled to defend. And when another is defensive, there is little you can say to break through the barriers he has raised. </li><li>In this way critical comments act like invisible boomerangs. They return on the thrower’s head.</li><li>The simplest way is to focus on improving yourself instead of others.</li><li>Shift your use of media from a spirit of exposé and objection to a spirit of encouragement and exhortation.</li><li>Resist badmouthing as a differentiation strategy. Its long-term effect is far more harmful than helpful.</li><li>Make your messages meaningful by removing your agenda. Above all, the recipients of every bit of your communication want value.</li><li>Calm yourself before communicating to another. </li></ul><h5><strong>2: Affirm What’s Good</strong></h5><ul><li>Consider sending that same message to those you’d like to influence. Have you let them know just how valuable you think they are? There is great power in this simple principle, embodied regularly.</li><li>We all have an innate, unquenchable desire to know we are valued, to know we matter.</li><li>Emerson wrote, “Every man is entitled to be valued for his best moments.&quot;</li><li>Which relationship is most strained in your life right now? What would it look like if you began focusing on that person’s best moments and sought to affirm them?</li><li>Ultimately, gaining influence is about setting yourself apart, stepping to a higher plane in the mind and heart of another.</li><li>We are all united by one single desire: to be valued by another.</li></ul><h5><strong>3: Connect with Core Desires</strong></h5><ul><li>Influencing others is not a matter of outsmarting them. It is a matter of discerning what they truly want and offering it to them in a mutually beneficial package.</li><li>So much of our digital communication is one-way that we come to believe we have limited opportunity to uncover another’s perspective.</li><li>We are far more inclined to focus on how we can best broadcast our points from our own perspective, quickly, broadly, or both.</li><li>It is easy to get so caught up in the fray that we forget what we are aiming for: connection, influence, agreement, collaboration.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part 2 - Six Ways to Make a Lasting Impression</strong></h4><h5><strong>1: Take Interest in Others’ Interests</strong></h5><ul><li>Dogs know by some divine instinct that you can make more friends in minutes by becoming genuinely interested in other people than you can in months of trying to get other people interested in you.</li><li>We gravitate to what feels real and lasting. We embrace those whose messaging offers mutual benefit.</li><li>When you incorporate others’ interests into your own–not merely for the sake of clarifying your market or ascertaining your audience–you find that your interests are met in the process of helping others.</li><li>Thoreau wrote, &quot;Goodness is the only investment that never fails.&quot;</li><li>The bottom line is that you must become genuinely interested in others before you can ever expect anyone to be interested in you.</li></ul><h5><strong>2: Smile</strong></h5><ul><li>There is a simple reason for this phenomenon: when we smile, we are letting people know we are happy to be with them, happy to meet them, happy to be interacting with them. They in turn feel happier to be dealing with us.</li><li>Outside of emoticons and emojis, there is only one medium in which you can convey a digital smile–your voice, whether it is written or spoken. How you write an email, the tone you use, and the words you choose are critical tools of friendliness and subsequent influence.</li><li>Always begin and end the message on a positive note rather than on a pessimistic or detached one.</li><li>Numerous studies have shown that the physical act of smiling, even while on a phone call, actually improves the tone in which your words are conveyed.</li></ul><h5><strong>3: Reign with Names</strong></h5><ul><li>Instead of defaulting to hollow, truncated greetings such as “Hey” or “Hi,” default to a greeting that uses the person’s name.</li></ul><h5><strong>4: Listen Longer</strong></h5><ul><li>Listening’s power, like that of smiling, is strong. When you listen well you not only make an instant impression, you also build a solid bridge for lasting connection. Who can resist being around a person who suspends his thoughts in order to value yours?</li></ul><h5><strong>5: Discuss What Matters to Them</strong></h5><ul><li>When it comes to mattering to others, you must discuss what matters to them.</li><li>You are ultimately building a community when you initiate interactions with what matters to others.</li><li>Businesses call it a customer retention strategy, but it is best thought of as a lively, meaningful dialogue among a community of friends.</li></ul><h5><strong>6: Leave Others a Little Better</strong></h5><ul><li>Small-picture thinking: the foundation of leaving others a little better.</li><li>If our minds are focused only on big payoffs, we will overlook the small opportunities that make the biggest difference.</li><li>Many people make the mistake of equating inspiration with implementation.</li><li>The real key to winning friends and influencing people today, says Robbins, is “moving relationships from manipulative to meaningful. The only way you do that is by constantly adding meaning and value.&quot;</li><li>Every single interaction with his spouse sent her one of two messages–that she was the most important person in the world to him or that she wasn’t. He’d sent the latter message far too often.</li><li>Many ancient teachings converge to one thing: Don’t do to others what you wouldn’t want them to do to you.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part 3 - How to Merit and Maintain Others’ Trust</strong></h4><h5><strong>1: Avoid Arguments</strong></h5><ul><li>Arguing with the other person will rarely get you anywhere; they usually end with each person more firmly convinced of his rightness. You may be right, dead right, but arguing is just as futile as if you were dead wrong.</li><li>In the end you must value interdependence higher than independence and understand that deferential negotiation is more effective in the long run than a noncompliant crusade.</li></ul><h5><strong>2: Never Say, “You’re Wrong”</strong></h5><ul><li>“Negotiations become more productive,” concludes [Deepak] Malhotra, “when each party acknowledges that the other may have legitimate concerns.&quot;</li><li>“Friendship that insists upon agreement on all matters is not worth the name,” exhorted Mahatma Gandhi. “Friendship to be real must ever sustain the weight of honest differences, however sharp they be.&quot;</li><li>“We talk because we know something,” explained corporate behavioural specialist Esther Jeles in a recent interview. “Or we think we know something. Or, in the workplace, because there is an expectation that we ’should’ know something.&quot;</li><li>Yet by approaching a conversation with a blank slate, we take a humbler and more honest approach. We acknowledge the possibility that we may not know all the facts and that we may not in fact be the only one who is right. Better yet, we create the possibility for meaningful collaboration–the melting of thoughts, ideas, and experiences into something greater than the sum of two parties.</li><li>Telling people they are wrong will only earn you enemies. Few people respond logically when they are told they are wrong; most respond emotionally and defensively because you are questioning their judgment. You shouldn’t just avoid the words “You’re wrong.” You can tell people they are wrong by a look or an intonation or a gesture, so you must guard against showing judgment in all of the ways that you communicate.</li><li>Always default to diplomacy. Admit that you may be wrong. Concede that the other person may be right. Be agreeable. Ask questions. And above all, consider the situation from the other’s perspective and show that person respect.</li></ul><h5><strong>3: Admit Faults Quickly and Emphatically</strong></h5><ul><li>If you’ve made a mistake, it is far better that you control the news being spread. Come clean quickly and convincingly.</li><li>If we admit our faults immediately and emphatically, it is like shooting a full-page press release across the wires that confirms we genuinely care about the people we hurt, that we are humbled, and that we want to make things right. People rarely hold on to anger and disappointment when they can see that we view ourselves and the situation properly. We are much more forgiving of those who are willing to come clean right away.</li><li>While we’d all like our pre-mistake lives back after a mistake has been made, we have to remember that no one changed the circumstances but us. It is not others’ duty to give us back the life we took from ourselves. Only we can get our life back. That always begins with admitting our faults quickly and emphatically.</li></ul><h5><strong>4: Begin in a Friendly Way</strong></h5><ul><li>We are more inclined to agree with another person or see things from his perceptive when we have friendly feelings toward him.</li><li>Where the initiation of interactions is concerned, no approach sets the tone more effectively than gentleness and affability, even if the other person is a source of pain, frustration, or anger.</li><li>“I do not like that man,” Abraham Lincoln once said. “I must get to know him better.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>5: Access Affinity</strong></h5><ul><li>Chris Brogan talking of the blizzard of business rather than communication snowfall:</li><li>“Conversations and relationships are based on several touches. In the traditional marketing and communication world, people would use each touch to ask for something, to issue a call to action. This isn’t how social networks work…They are there to give you permission to reach someone who has opted into a relationship with you…It’s a snowfall. Every individual flake doesn’t mean a lot, but the body of work can change everything.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>6: Surrender the Credit</strong></h5><ul><li>While it’s easy to see why we want credit for successes for which we laboured, claiming the credit will never win you friends. It will also diminish your influence quicker than just about any other action.</li><li><strong>Either you can seek friendships with those who are already successful, or you can seek success for those who are already friends.</strong></li><li>In the long run, no one but the originator remembers things such as whose idea it was, who spoke first, or who took the first risk. What people remember is magnanimity.</li></ul><h5><strong>7: Engage with Empathy</strong></h5><ul><li>“Cooperativeness in conversation,” wrote Gerald S. Nirenberg, “is achieved when you show that you consider the other person’s ideas and feelings as important as your own.&quot;</li></ul><h5><strong>8: Appeal to Noble Motives</strong></h5><ul><li>While relational improvement and business productivity are centrepieces of our lives, their importance exists because we long to be people who make a difference. Tapping this noble motive in those you’d like to influence can therefore reap great rewards.</li><li>To truly connect with people you must celebrate their inherent dignity. Appeal to noble motives and you can move the masses, and yourself along with them.</li></ul><h5><strong>9: Share Your Journey</strong></h5><ul><li>More and more common–and commonly effective at building influential relationships–is the authentic intersection of personal and professional life. While this intersection will always have certain judicious boundaries, many of the historically businesslike boundaries have been lowered or removed altogether today because most people have come to remember that the short- and long-term success of all interactions–transactional or otherwise–rides on the depth of the relationship. The more a colleague, friend, or customer shares of your journey, the more you can accomplish together.</li></ul><h5><strong>10: Throw Down a Challenge</strong></h5><ul><li>The only way to get the best out of yourself and others is to challenge and collide. While a life of permanent interpersonal pleasantries appears more comfortable and sounds more peaceful, a relationally complacent life is a fruitless life.</li><li>It is also true, however, that the challenge itself is just as important as the response to it. Challenges that inspire and compel are very different from challenges that discourage and depress.</li></ul><h4><strong>Part 4 - How to Lead Change Without Resistance or Resentment</strong></h4><h5><strong>1: Begin on a Positive Note</strong></h5><ul><li>While a current relationship, whether between a company and its customers or between two individuals, might be strained or even in serious trouble, it does little good to start off a conversation on a negative note.</li><li>Instead, begin a conversation with honest and genuine appreciation; the receiver will be more amenable to your ideas and less defensive or resistant.</li></ul><h5><strong>2: Acknowledge Your Baggage</strong></h5><ul><li>It isn’t nearly so difficult to be open to a conversation that may include a discussion of your faults if the other person begins by humbly admitting that she too is far from impeccable.</li><li>What is lovely about this principle is that we all make mistakes and so have an ample supply of stories to use when trying to put someone at ease.</li></ul><h5><strong>3: Call Out Mistakes Quietly</strong></h5><ul><li>Leaders of all kinds have a fantastic tool available to them for sending a subtle message about the behavior they are trying to encourage. <strong>They simply have to model that behavior themselves. </strong></li><li>In life, sometimes mistakes are the by-product of extenuating circumstances. We don’t always fail at work because of incompetence. We can fail because our hearts and minds are not engaged due to problems at home or elsewhere. The leader understands that mistakes and failures surface from all corners of life and, therefore, should be treated as isolated and redeemable instances rather than fatal flaws.</li><li>It is to your advantage to pull people out of their dejected state as quickly as possibly. Do so by calling out their mistakes quietly and returning them to a place of confidence and strength.</li></ul><h5><strong>4: Ask Questions Instead of Giving Direct Orders</strong></h5><ul><li>Asking questions not only makes an order more palatable and reduces resentment, it often stimulates creativity and innovation in solving the problem at hand. People are more likely to follow a new path if they feel that they have been involved in shaping it.</li><li>Most employees have a keen understanding of their own strengths and weaknesses. While some may be obtuse, most, if you ask, will tell you exactly what you are thinking. Many organizational psychologists recommend instituting a self-appraisal stage in the review process.</li><li>Questions allow you to create a conversation–in any medium–that can lead to a better place for all involved.</li><li>Wouldn’t you rather be asked a question than be given an order?</li></ul><h5><strong>5: Mitigate Fault</strong></h5><ul><li>A technique Sutton calls “forgive and remember,” a critical path for learning from mistakes and changing behavior. The technique was first described by Charles L. Bosk in his book <em>Forgive and Remember: Managing Medical Failure</em>.</li><li>The goal is to help individuals achieve accountability while managing the existential problem of failure, a demoralizing inner battle for anyone.</li><li>Making it safe for them [employees] to fail is a sure way to ensure that they will more readily admit their mistakes, more quickly recover from them, more fully learn from them.</li><li>Five actions that leaders can take to instills organizational resilience within their teams:</li><li><strong>Acknowledge that failure happens</strong>. Leaders can acknowledge failures quickly when they happen, but they can also discuss with their teams the likelihood of failures occurring.</li><li><strong>Encourage dialogue to foster trust</strong>. Honestly discussing problems is the best way to learn from them and to trim the seedlings before they become fully grown catastrophes.</li><li><strong>Separate the person from the failure</strong>. Rather than saying “you failed,” say “the project failed.” In most cases, that is the truth.</li><li><strong>Learn from your mistakes</strong>. Otherwise, they are lost opportunities for learning and for coaching.</li><li><strong>Create a risk-taking and failure system</strong>. Being methodical about how we approach risk and failure can help mitigate some of the emotional responses to it.</li><li>Alberto Alessi, the great Italian designer, described his company’s approach to design as an effort to find the borderline between what is possible and what is not possible and design along it. The best designs are those that fall right on the edge of the borderline, just this side of possible. That is the space of innovation, the space where we test our talents and grow as individuals. Of course, hugging the line means that you will often flop over it–you will fall into the realm of the impossible and fail.</li></ul><h5><strong>6: Magnify Improvement</strong></h5><ul><li>Praise and encouragement: the two essential elements of motivating any person to fulfill their potential, to improve, or to tackle change.</li><li>The Center for Management and Organization Effectiveness offers the following advice for praising those around you:</li><li>“<strong>Deliver praise from your heart.</strong>” Be genuine and sincere.</li><li>“<strong>Deliver praise as soon as possible.</strong>” Don’t wait for the next meeting, performance review, or family meeting. By then, the person’s own job at the success has dissipated, and you’ve lost an opportunity to amplify that joy.</li><li>“<strong>Make praise specific.</strong>” A simple thank-you note is not praise; it is politeness. To feel that their efforts are heading them down the path you want them to go, people need to know exactly what you valued in their effort.</li><li>“<strong>Praise people publicly</strong>.” Publicly praising people gets easier every day, so there is no real excuse not to do it.</li><li>Praise, while powerful and necessary, also implies evaluation against some standard. What great leaders and those with influence recognize is that the rest of the time, we must use encouragement.</li><li>That is the essence of encouragement–showing your belief in the talents, skills, and inherent abilities of another person because she exists, regardless of how things are going right now.</li><li>Being encouraging requires a special attitude. When you look at another person, rather than seeing her faults, you need to be able to see her strengths and possibilities, what she is capable of.</li><li>Tell someone that you have total faith in his ability to accomplish a goal and encourage him by highlighting all of the skills he possesses that will help him along the way, and he will practice until the dawn comes in the window in order to excel.</li><li>Magnify improvement and you maximize others’ talents.</li></ul><h5><strong>7: Give Others a Fine Reputation to Live Up To</strong></h5><ul><li>Coaches, mentors, leaders, and parents often find that people live up to our expectations of them, no matter how diminished those expectations are. If a man feels unimportant or disrespected, he will have little motivation for improving himself.</li><li>To change somebody’s behavior, change the level of respect she receives by giving her a fine reputation to live up to. Act as though the trait you are trying to influence is already one of the person’s outstanding characteristics.</li></ul><h5><strong>8: Stay Connected on Common Ground</strong></h5><ul><li>Why is common ground so important? For a leader to effectively influence another’s attitude or behavior, he needs to overcome any potential resistance by making the person feel glad to do what is being asked.</li><li>Why shouldn’t we know what our colleagues, coworkers, friends, and family members dream?</li><li>It is a simple process to link your desired outcomes with their goals:</li><li><strong>Be sincere.</strong> Do not promise anything you cannot deliver.</li><li><strong>Be empathetic</strong>. Ask yourself what it is the other person really wants.</li><li><strong>Consider the benefits</strong> the person will receive from doing what you suggest.</li><li><strong>Match those benefits</strong> to the other person’s wants.</li><li>When you make your request, put it in a form that will <strong>convey to the other person the idea that he will personally benefit.</strong></li><li>In digital time and space, with open access and frequent communication, the perfunctory principles of corporate activity have largely broken down and been replaced by the basic principles of human relations.</li><li>Your first task remains the business of humanity.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Poor Charlie's Almanack by Charlie Munger: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A book that has had a large impact on how I think and approach problems.  Formatted after Ben Franklin’s yearly publication of advice, Munger lays out all sorts of things, from clear investing principles, to an introduction to mental models and how more people should be thinking with interdisciplinary tools. Particularly relevant for those interested in business and finance, but as he makes clear in many of his speeches (transcripts included in the book), it should be relevant for all, from lawyers to economists.  Highly recommend.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>General Notes</strong></h5><ul><li>Focs on what to avoid - that is, what NOT to do - before considering affirmative steps to take. </li><li>Avoid “physics envy” - the tendency to want to reduce enormously complex systems into one-size-fits-all Newtonian formulas. </li><li>“A scientific theory should be as simple as possible, but no simpler.” - Albert Einstein </li><li><strong>Quickly eliminate the big universe of what not to do, follow up with a fluent, multidisciplinary attack on what remains, then act decisively when, and only when, the right circumstances appear.</strong></li><li>There should be a huge area between everything you should do and everything you can do without getting into legal trouble. </li><li>There are two kinds of businesses: the first earns 12%, and you can take the profits out at the end of the year. The second earns 12%, but all the excess cash must be reinvested - there’s never any cash. We hate that kind of business. </li><li>You should pay attention to mistakes of omission. </li><li>The keys t becoming an investor are discipline, hard work, and practice. It’s like playing golf - you have to work on it. </li><li>Pay attention to the micro to get the macro. </li><li>Mutual fund and money management in general is disgusting; the incentives are perverse and no one notices because they’re still making money. An index fund would be better. </li><li>EBITDA = “bullshit earnings&quot; </li><li>The theory that stock options have no cost is stupid. A stock option is both an expense and dilution. </li><li>Derivatives are dumb, and the accounting for them is worse. </li><li>“I’d remove 3/4 of the faculty - everything but the hard sciences.&quot; </li><li>Departments need more interconnectedness and understanding of other departments. </li><li>A lot of success in life and business comes from knowing what you want to avoid: early death, a bad marriage, etc. </li><li>Beware of envy - if someone else is getting richer faster than you, who cares?? </li><li>&quot;Spend each day trying to be a little wiser than you were when you woke up. Discharge your duties faithfully and well. Step by step you get ahead, but not necessarily in fast spurts. But you build discipline by preparing for fast spurts…Slug it out one inch at a time, day by day. At the end of the day - if you live long enough - most people get what they deserve.&quot; </li><li>“In my whole life, I have known no wise people (over a broad subject matter area) who didn’t read all the time - none, zero.&quot; </li><li>Once you get into debt, it’s hell to get out. </li><li>Carson: Avoid ingesting chemicals in an effort to alter mood or perception, avoid envy, and avoid resentment. </li><li>Munger: avoid being unreliable, learn as much as you can from the good and bad experience of others &amp; become as educated as you possibly can, get up from your first, second, or third severe reverse in the battle of life, invert, always invert (or in other words, be objective, and avoid the negative). </li><li>Where can you find the money in the business? Where is the free cash being generated? </li><li>What can you “surf”? </li><li>The way to win is to work, work, work, work, and hope to have a few insights. </li><li>Beware gaming of systems and stop any abuse early. </li><li>Ex: worker’s compensation systems. </li><li>On Berkshire investing in USAir - it was a preferred stock with a mandatory redemption - ie. basically a loan, with a good fixed dividend and mandatory redemption. The only guess was that they would be able to pay it back. </li><li>“I’m all for fixing social problems. I’m all for being generous to the less fortunate. And I’m all for doing things where, based on a slight preponderance of the evidence, you guess that it’s likely to do more good than harm. What I’m against is being very confident and feeling that you know, for sure, that your particular intervention will do more good than harm, given that you’re dealing with highly complex systems wherein everything is interacting with everything else.&quot; </li><li>On education in elite soft science: </li><li>Many more courses should be mandatory (including psychology and accounting for legal) </li><li>Much more problem-solving practice that crosses several disciplines, including practice that mimics the aircraft simulator to prevent loss of skills through disuse. </li><li>Increase use of the best business periodicals (Wall Street Journal, Forbes, Fortune, etc.) </li><li>Professors of super-strong ideology (either right or left) should usually be avoided. Also for students. </li><li>Should more intensely imitate the fundamental organizing ethos of hard science (math/physics/chemistry/engineering). </li><li>Rational organization of multi-disciplinary knowledge is forced by making mandatory 1) full attribution for cross-disciplinary takings and 2) mandatory preference for the most fundamental explanation. </li><li>An old two part rule works wonders in business, science and elsewhere: 1) take a simple, basic idea and 2) take it very seriously. </li><li>Extreme success is likely causes by some combination of the following factors: </li><li>Extreme maximization or minimization of one or two variables. Ex: Costco or our furniture store. </li><li>Adding success factors so that a bigger combination drives success, often in non-linear fashion, as one is reminded by the concept of breakpoint and the concept of critical mass in physics. The “lollapalooza” result. </li><li>An extreme of good performance over many factors. Ex: Toyota or Les Schwab. </li><li>Catching and riding some sort of big wave. Ex: Oracle. </li><li>One must consider second-order and higher-order effects. </li><li>Inspired by Keynes: Better roughly right than precisely wrong. </li><li>“You want to deliver to the world what you would buy if you were on the other end.&quot; </li><li>The acquisition of knowledge is a moral duty. You must be a lifelong learner. </li><li>Once you have the ideas, you must continuously practice their use. </li><li>Beware, as you can cause enormous offence by being right in a way that causes somebody else to lose face in his own discipline or hierarchy. </li><li>Generally speaking, envy, resentment, revenge and self-pity are disastrous modes of thought. </li><li>Embrace non-egality - done the right way, and it will allow you to reach the highest levels of achievement. (ie. provide lots of playing time for your best players). </li></ul><h5><strong>What to Look for in a Partner (Warren Buffett):</strong></h5><ul><li>Someone smarter and wiser than you. </li><li>Someone who will never second-guess you nor sulk when you make expensive mistakes. </li><li>A generous soul who will put up his own money and work for peanuts. </li><li>Someone who will constantly add to the run as you travel a long road together. </li></ul><h5><strong>Praising Old Age (inspired by Cicero’s Discourse of Old Age):</strong></h5><ul><li>Performing well for a long time gives you great comfort in old age as you can look back at a job well done. </li><li>Self-improvement should continue as long as you are alive. </li><li>The study of philosophy is an ideal activity for old age. </li><li>The only life worth living is dedicated in substantial part to good outcomes one cannot possibly survive to see. </li><li>Early retirement is virtually unthinkable. </li><li>Do not complain about personal misfortune or the physical decline with aging. </li><li>Good wine in moderation and stays at a country retreat can improve life. </li><li>“The best Armour of Old Age is a well spent life preceding it;” - Cicero, de Senectute (?) </li></ul><h5><strong>From his children:</strong></h5><ol><li>Do the job right the first time. </li><li>Be responsible. </li><li>Admit your mistakes. </li><li>Endless practice and determination will allow you to succeed. </li><li>Going along with normal social customs allows harmonization. </li><li>Durability is a first-rate virtue. </li></ol><h5><strong>Charlie’s Checklists:</strong></h5><p>The Two-Track Analysis (Pages 63, 64): </p><ul><li>What are the factors that really govern the interests involved, rationally considered? (For example, macro and micro-level economic factors). </li><li>What are the subconscious influences, where the brain at a subconscious level is automatically forming conclusions? (Influences from instincts, emotions, cravings, and so on). </li></ul><h5><strong>Investing and Decision Making Checklist (Pages 73-76):</strong></h5><p>An Investing Principles Checklist: </p><p>Risk - All investment evaluations should begin by measuring risk, especially reputational </p><p>Incorporate an appropriate margin of safety </p><ul><li>Avoid dealing with people of questionable character </li><li>Insist upon proper compensation for risk assumed </li><li>Always beware of inflation and interest rate exposures </li><li>Avoid big mistakes; shun permanent capital loss </li></ul><p>Independence - “Only in fairy tales are emperors told they are naked&quot; </p><p>Objectivity and rationality require independence of thought </p><ul><li>Remember that just because other people agree or disagree with you doesn’t make you right or wrong - the only thing that matters is the correctness of your analysis and judgment </li><li>Mimicking the herd invites regression to the mean (merely average performance) </li></ul><p>Preparation - “The only way to win is to work, work, work, work, and hope to have a few insights&quot; </p><p>Develop into a lifelong self-learner through voracious reading; cultivate curiosity and strive to become a little wiser every day </p><ul><li>More important than the will to win is the will to prepare </li><li>Develop fluency in mental models from the major academic disciplines </li><li>If you want to get smart, the question you have to keep asking is “why, why, why?&quot; </li></ul><p>Intellectual humility - Acknowledging what you don’t know is the dawning of wisdom </p><p>Stay within a well-defined circle of competence </p><ul><li>Identify and reconcile disconfirming evidence </li><li>Resist the craving for false precision, false certainties, etc. </li><li>Above all, never fool yourself, and remember that you are the easiest person to fool </li></ul><p>Analytic rigor - Use of the scientific method and effective checklists minimizes errors and omissions </p><p>Determine value apart from price; progress apart from activity; wealth apart from size </p><ul><li>It is better to remember the obvious than to grasp the esoteric </li><li>Be a business analyst, not a market, macroeconomic, or security analyst </li><li>Consider totality of risk and effect; look always at potential second order and higher level impacts </li><li>Think forwards and backwards - Invert, always invert </li></ul><p>Allocation - Proper allocation of capital is an investor’s number one job </p><p>Remember that highest and best use is always measured by the next best use (opportunity cost) </p><ul><li>Good ideas are rare - when the odds are greatly in your favour, bet (allocate) heavily </li><li>Don’t “fall in love” with an investment - be situation-dependent and opportunity-driven </li></ul><p>Patience - Resist the natural human bias to act </p><p>“Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world” (Einstein); never interrupt it unnecessarily </p><ul><li>Avoid unnecessary transactional taxes and frictional costs; never take action for its own sake </li><li>Be alert for the arrival of luck </li><li>Enjoy the process along with the proceeds, because the process is where you live </li></ul><p>Decisiveness - When proper circumstances present themselves, act with decisiveness and conviction </p><p>Be fearful when others are greedy, and greedy when others are fearful </p><ul><li>Opportunity doesn’t come often, so seize it when it does </li><li>Opportunity meeting the prepared mind: that’s the game </li></ul><p>Change - Live with change and accept unremovable complexity </p><p>Recognize and adapt to the true nature of the world around you; don’t expect it to adapt to you </p><ul><li>Continually challenge and willingly amend your “best-loved ideas&quot; </li><li>Recognize reality even when you don’t like it - especially when you don’t like it </li></ul><p>Focus - Keep things simple and remember what you set out to do </p><p>Remember that reputation and integrity are your most valuable assets - and can be lost in a heartbeat </p><ul><li>Guard against the effects of hubris and boredom </li><li>Don’t overlook the obvious by drowning in the minutiae </li><li>Be careful to exclude unneeded information or slop: “A small leak can sink a great ship&quot; </li><li>Face your big troubles; don’t sweep them under the rug </li></ul><h5><strong>Other investing notes:</strong></h5><ul><li>Trade infrequently - if you could only make 20 trades in your lifetime, how would that change what you do? </li><li>Find your ‘fat pitch’ and swing hard - look for opportunities where you have a big advantage, and swing hard at these ones. Most investors swing too often. </li><li>To do this, you must be prepared and have capital available. </li><li>We have three investment buckets: yes, no and too hard to understand. </li></ul><p>First cut: </p><ul><li>difficult to understand: Pharma, tech, etc. </li><li>Heavily promoted: IPOs, “deals”, etc. </li></ul><p>Second cut: </p><ul><li>Financial reports and accounting examined with skepticism </li><li>Additional factors examined is extensive, includes: current and prospective regulatory climate, state of labor, supplier and customer relations, potential impact of changes in technology, competitive strengths and vulnerabilities, pricing power, scalability, environmental issues, presence of hidden exposures; </li><li>Recast financial statement figures to fit own view of reality, including actual free or “owners” cash being produced, inventory and other working capital assets, fixed assets, and intangible assets (usually overstated, like goodwill) </li><li>Assessment of true impact, current and future, of cost of stock options, pension plans, and retiree medical benefits. </li><li>Assesses a company’s management well beyond conventional number crunching, including the degree to which they are “able, trustworthy, and owner-oriented”. Ex: do they deploy cash? Do they allocate it intelligently on behalf of the owners, or do they overcompensate themselves? Or pursue ego-oriented growth for growth’s sake? </li><li>Above all: understand competitive advantage in every respect - products, markets, trademarks, employees, distribution channels, societal trends, and so on - and the durability of that advantage. </li><li>What competitive destruction forces may deteriorate this? </li><li>Then: calculate the intrinsic value of the whole business and, with allowance for potential dilution, etc., to determine an approximate value per share to compare to market prices. </li><li>“A great business at a fair price is superior to a fair business at a great price.&quot; </li><li>Ex: Washington Post, GEICO, Coca-Cola, Gillette, etc. </li></ul><p>Finally: “prior to pulling the trigger” checklist </p><ul><li>Includes what are the current price, volume and trading considerations? What disclosure timing or other sensitivities exist? Are better uses of capital currently or potentially available? Is sufficient liquid capital currently on hand or must it be borrowed? What is the opportunity cost of that capital? </li><li>Then: make a large and decisive bet. No initial positions or small speculative investments. </li><li>Ben Graham: if you could calculate the value of a whole enterprise (what it would sell for if available), and then take the stock price and multiply it by the number of shares, and get something that was one-third or less of sellout value, then you’ve got a lot of edge going for you (big margin of safety) - but this was in a different time, it doesn’t exist like this anymore. </li><li>Often maximization or minimization of a single factor (notable specialization) can make that single factor disproportionately important. </li><li>What “moat” does the business have? Can we widen this every year? </li><li>Overall: far more time is committed to learning and thinking than doing. </li><li>Score yourself on how you played the hand, not whether you won it. </li><li>For the smaller investor, find smaller companies. </li><li>Anytime someone offers you a tax shelter in life, don’t buy it. </li><li>Anytime someone offers you anything with a big commission and a 200-page prospectus, don’t buy it. </li><li>&quot;On a net basis, the whole investment management business together gives no value added to all buyers combined.&quot; </li><li>Answer to reaching financial security: </li><li>“Spend less than you make; always be saving something. Put it into a tax-deferred account. Over time, it will begin to amount to something. THIS IS SUCH A NO-BRAINER.&quot; </li><li>What should a young person look for in a career? </li></ul><p>“I have three basic rules. Meeting all three is nearly impossible, but you should try anyway: </p><ul><li>Don’t sell anything you wouldn’t buy yourself. </li><li>Don’t work for anyone you don’t respect and admire. </li><li>Work only with people you enjoy.&quot; </li></ul><p>On life advice: </p><ul><li>“Have low expectations. </li><li>Have a sense of humour. </li><li>Surround yourself with the love of friends and family. </li><li>Above all, live with change and adapt to it.&quot; </li></ul><h5><strong>Ultra-Simple, General Problem-Solving Notions (Pages 279-281):</strong></h5><ul><li>Decide the big “no-brainer” questions first. </li><li>Apply numerical fluency. </li><li>Invert (think the problem through in reverse). </li><li>Apply elementary multidisciplinary wisdom, never relying entirely upon others. </li><li>Watch for combinations of factors - the Lollapalooza effect. </li></ul><h5><strong>25 Psychology-Based Tendencies (Pages 440-498):</strong></h5><p>Reward and Punishment Superresponse Tendency </p><ul><li>Incentives have huge power </li><li>“If you would persuade, appeal to interest and not to reason.” - Benjamin Franklin </li><li>Especially fear professional advice when it is especially good for the advisor; </li><li>Learn and use the basic elements of your advisor’s trade as you deal with your advisor; </li><li>Double check, disbelieve, or replace much of what you’re told, to the degree that seems appropriate after objective thought. </li><li>The power of incentives can cause poor behaviour if checks are not in place. </li><li>Man tends to “game” all human systems; anti-gaming features are a huge and necessary part of system design. </li><li>“Granny’s Rule”: you must first do the unpleasant thing (eat your carrots) before getting your reward (dessert). </li></ul><p>Liking/Loving Tendency </p><ul><li>Man likes being liked and loved. </li><li>Man will ignore faults of, and comply with witness of, the object of his affection </li><li>He will favour people, products, and actions merely associated with the object of his affection </li><li>He will distort other facts to facilitate love </li><li>This also works in reverse; admiration also causes or intensifies liking or love </li><li>A man who loves admirable persons and ideas has a huge advantage in life </li><li>There are social policy implications; ex: it’s obviously desirable to attract a lot of lovable, admirable people into teaching </li></ul><p>Disliking/Hating Tendency </p><ul><li>The opposite of liking/loving: </li><li>Disliker/hater will ignore virtues in the object of dislike </li><li>Dislike people, products and actions merely associated with the object of his dislike </li><li>Distort other facts to facilitate hatred </li></ul><p>Doubt-Avoidance Tendency </p><ul><li>Man is programmed to quickly remove doubt by reaching some decision </li><li>What usually triggers doubt-avoidance tendency is some combo of: </li><li>puzzlement </li><li>stress </li><li>(Both of these factors naturally occur facing religious issues); thus, the natural state of most men is in some form of religion. </li></ul><p>Inconsistency-Avoidance Tendency </p><ul><li>The brain of man is reluctant to change </li><li>Ex: few people can list bad habits they have eliminated, but instead give excuses or state it is “fate&quot; </li><li>The rare life wisely lived has in it many good habits maintained, and many bad habits avoided or cured </li><li>We will tend to ignore or discount evidence to maintain our previously-held beliefs, rather than change those beliefs (confirmation bias) </li><li>Charles Darwin provides a counter-example: he trained himself to intensively consider any counter-evidence he encountered </li><li>Can be manipulated by getting someone to do you a favour; this works in reverse (manipulate someone to hurt someone and they will dislike/hate them) </li><li>Also, to achieve something, or a particular state - pretend to have done it already, or to be it already (smiling makes you happier just as being happier makes you smile) </li><li>Benefit in education when a pupil has to teach a topic; have to beware this doesn’t turn students into zealots </li></ul><p>Curiosity Tendency </p><ul><li>There is an innate curiosity in humans </li><li>This often helps temper some other psychological habits </li></ul><p>Kantian Fairness Tendency </p><ul><li>Humans often follow behaviour patterns that, if followed by all others, make the human system better for everyone </li><li>Ex: lining up at coffee shops, being courteous on the road, etc. </li></ul><p>Envy/Jealousy Tendency </p><ul><li>We have a strong tendency to compare ourselves to others </li><li>“It is not greed that drives the world, but envy.” - Warren Buffett </li></ul><p>Reciprocation Tendency </p><ul><li>Humans tend to reciprocate favours and disfavours </li></ul><p>Antidote: train yourself to delay reaction </p><ul><li>This drives trade, marriage, and joins inconsistency-avoidance tendency to help make humans fulfill promises, behave ethically, etc. </li><li>Can be used in sales when someone does you a favour; to counter, don’t let buyers accept any favours </li><li>Can also be used when making a big ask, you do a favour by asking something smaller - the other person is likely to acquiesce </li></ul><p>Influence-from-Mere-Association Tendency </p><ul><li>A thing will be associated with the rewards previously bestowed </li><li>Ex: advertisements of products with pretty girls (Graham: believe this is more like/love tendency) </li><li>Ex: a man gambles in a casino once and wins, and then continues to gamble to his detriment </li></ul><p>Antidotes: </p><ul><li>Carefully examine past success, looking for accidental, non-causative factors associated that will tend to mislead </li><li>Look for dangerous aspects of a new venture that were not present when past success occurred </li><li>Hating and disliking also cause miscalculations triggered by mere association </li><li>Ex: we dislike those who bring us bad news </li><li>Antidote: develop a habit of welcoming bad news </li><li>Another bad result here is the common use of classification stereotypes </li><li>The average dimension in some group will not reliably guide you to the dimension of a specific item. </li></ul><p>Simple, Pain-Avoiding Psychological Denial </p><ul><li>The reality is too painful to bear, so facts will be distorted to become bearable. </li><li>Ex: a tragic death; drug addiction </li></ul><p>Excessive Self-Regard Tendency </p><ul><li>We tend to regard ourselves more highly than others would; the same applies to our spouses, children, etc. </li><li>We tend to prefer those who are like ourselves; select those like ourselves; etc. </li><li>We tend to overestimate our talents in comparison to others </li><li>We tend to overweight the interview portion of a hiring process because we tend to overweight our own intuitions </li></ul><p>Antidote: </p><ul><li>Man should face two facts: </li><li>Fixable but unfixed bad performance is bad character that tends to create more of itself, causing more damage to the excuse giver with each tolerated instance </li><li>In institutions, fair, meritocratic, demanding culture plus personnel handling methods that build up morale and removal of the worst offenders </li></ul><p>Antidote 2: </p><ul><li>Force yourself to be more objective when you are thinking about yourself, your family and friends, your property, and the value of your past and future activity. </li><li>Excess of self-regard can sometimes cause success from overconfidence. </li><li>“Pride” - in a job well done, a life well lived, etc. - is a good force; perhaps the best is a pride in being trustworthy </li></ul><p>Overoptimism Tendency </p><ul><li>Even people doing well will display an excess of optimism </li><li>Antidote: trained, habitual use of the simple probability math of Fermat and Pascal </li></ul><p>Deprival-Superreaction Tendency </p><ul><li>Loss-avoidance: we tend to overvalue losses compared to gains </li><li>We tend to frame problems incorrectly when dealing with loss </li><li>This plus inconsistency-avoidance tendency causes us to hate/dislike non-believers of our own causes </li><li>Causes many people to continue when they should cut their losses </li></ul><p>Social-Proof Tendency </p><ul><li>Man automatically thinks and does what he observes to be thought and done around him (or not done) </li><li>Triggering most often occurs in the presence of puzzlement or stress, particularly when both exist </li></ul><p>Antidote (societal): </p><ul><li>Stop bad behaviour before it spreads </li><li>Foster and display all good behaviour </li></ul><p>Antidote: learn how to ignore the examples from others when they are wrong. </p><p>Contrast-Misreaction Tendency </p><ul><li>Also known as anchoring, we tend to judge things in relation to things immediately available </li><li>Ex: buying an over-priced option on a car because we evaluate the price compared to the overall car cost </li><li>Also leads to drift, when a small step in the wrong direction is unrecognizable because it is so small in contrast to the overall picture; however, a large number of these small steps can lead to ruin </li></ul><p>Stress-Influence Tendency </p><ul><li>Small amounts of stress can increase performance </li><li>Heavy stress can destructively change behaviour and lead to depression </li><li>Some late research by Pavlov suggested that reversing a breakdown only happened when stress was re-imposed </li></ul><p>Availability-Misweighing Tendency </p><ul><li>The mind overweighs the factors easily available to it </li></ul><p>Antidote: use checklists </p><ul><li>Behave like Darwin - emphasize factors that don’t produce reams of easily available numbers </li><li>Hire skeptical, articulate people to act as advocates for notions opposite to the incumbent </li><li>Consequence: extra-vivid evidence should be under-weighed, while less vivid evidence should be over-weighed. </li><li>Can constructively use this: in persuading someone else to reach a correct conclusion; as a device for improving ones own memory by attaching vivid images </li><li>“An idea or a fact is not worth more merely because it is easily available to you.&quot; </li></ul><p>Use-It-or-Lose-It Tendency </p><ul><li>All skills attenuate with disuse. </li><li>Antidote: make use of the functional equivalent of the aircraft simulator used by pilots. </li><li>Engage in practice of all useful, rarely used skills, many outside his discipline, as a sort of duty to his better self. </li><li>Assemble skills into a checklist that is routinely used. </li><li>Skills of a very high order can only be maintained with daily practice. </li><li>The tendency is less present when skills are slowly raised to fluency rather than crammed. </li></ul><p>Drug-Misinfluence Tendency </p><ul><li>Don’t use drugs, kids. </li></ul><p>Senescence-Misinfluence Tendency </p><ul><li>Continuous thinking and learning, done with joy, can help delay the inevitable cognitive decline. </li></ul><p>Authority-Misinfluence Tendency </p><ul><li>We tend to over-weight the instructions or example set by people of authority. </li></ul><p>Twaddle Tendency </p><ul><li>Man tends to fill time with “busy work” or communication that is not useful. </li><li>Beware distraction from serious work. </li></ul><p>Reason-Respecting Tendency </p><ul><li>Man possesses a natural love of accurate cognition and joy in its exercise. </li><li>It makes man especially prone to learn well when he has a good reason for it. </li><li>To use: communicate the reason behind learning or doing something when you desire someone to do it. </li><li>Tell Who What do to, When, Where and Why. </li><li>Used backwards: people will be more likely to respond even when the reasons given are dubious. </li></ul><p>Lollapalooza Tendency - The Tendency to Get Extreme Consequences from Confluences of Psychological Tendencies Acting in Favour of a Particular Outcome </p><ul><li>Self-explanatory: when combining several of these tendencies, one is likely to get an extreme outcome (or, worded differently, to get an extreme outcome, combine many of these tendencies). </li></ul><h5><strong>Other Mental Models:</strong></h5><ul><li>~100 in number </li><li>“To the man with a hammer, the world looks like a nail.&quot; </li><li>Redundancy/backup system model (engineering) </li><li>Compound interest (math) </li><li>Breakpoint/tipping-point/autocatalysis (physics/chemistry) </li><li>Darwinian synthesis (biology) </li><li>Cognitive misjudgments (psychology) </li><li>Permutations and combinations (math); Fermat/Pascal system </li><li>Decision-tree theory </li><li>Accounting (double-entry bookkeeping) </li><li>Breakpoints (engineering) </li><li>Advantages of scale (microeconomics) </li><li>Specialization (biology/microeconomics) </li><li>Surfing (finding a wave and staying there for a long time) </li><li>Tragedy of the commons (economics) </li><li>Invisible hand (economics) </li><li>Invisible foot (biology/economics) </li><li>Comparative advantage in trade (economics) </li><li>Pin factory (economics) </li></ul><h5><strong>People:</strong></h5><ul><li>Jack Welch </li><li>Jared Diamond </li><li>Samual Johnson </li><li>Richard Dawkins </li><li>Steven Pinker </li><li>Benjamin Franklin </li><li>Demosthenes </li><li>Cicero </li><li>Nietzsche </li><li>Galileo </li><li>Bernie Cornfeld (negative example) </li><li>Adam Smith </li><li>Thomas Carlyle </li><li>Henry E. Singleton </li><li>Johnny Carson </li><li>John Milton </li><li>Benjamin Disraeli </li><li>Sir Isaac Newton </li><li>Epictetus </li><li>Elihu Root </li><li>Rudyard Kipling </li><li>W. Edwards Deming </li><li>Frank Wells </li><li>Max Planck </li><li>James Clerk Maxwell </li><li>Michael Faraday </li><li>Richard Thaler </li><li>Carl Jacobi </li><li>Pierre-Simon Laplace </li><li>Roger Fisher </li><li>Richard Feynman </li><li>Robert Woodruff </li><li>John Kenneth Galbraith </li><li>N. Gregory Mankiw </li><li>Garrett Hardin </li><li>John Maynard Keynes </li><li>Paul Krugman </li><li>David Ricardo </li><li>Ronald Coase </li><li>Victor Niederhoffer </li><li>Confucius </li><li>Voltaire </li></ul><h5><strong>Recommended Books:</strong></h5><ul><li>A Matter of Degrees: What Temperature Reveals About the Past and Future of Our Species, Planet, and Universe - Gino Segre </li><li>Andrew Carnegie - Joseph Frazier Wall </li><li>Deep Simplicity: Bringing Order to Chaos and Complexity - John Gribbin </li><li>F.I.A.S.C.O.: The Inside Story of a Wall Street Trader - Frank Partnoy </li><li>Genome: The Autobiography of a Species in 23 Chapters - Matt Ridley </li><li>Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In - Roger Fisher, William Try, and Bruce Patton </li><li>Guns, Germs and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies - Jared Diamond </li><li>How the Scots Invented the Modern World: The True Story of How Western Europe’s Poorest Nation Created Our World &amp; Everything in It - Arthur Herman </li><li>Ice Age - John &amp; Mary Gribbin </li><li>Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion - Robert Cialidini </li><li>Living Within Limits: Ecology, Economics, and Population Taboos </li><li>Models of My Life - Herbert Simon </li><li>Only the Paranoid Survive - Andy Grove </li><li>The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin - Benjamin Franklin </li><li>The Third Chimpanzee: The Evolution and Future of the Human Animal - Jared Diamond </li><li>The Selfish Gene - Richard Dawkins </li><li>The Warren Buffett Portfolio: Mastering the Power of the Focus Investment Strategy - Robert Hagstrom </li><li>The Wealth and Poverty of Nations: Why Some Are So Rich and Some So Poor - David S. Landes </li><li>Three Scientists and Their Gods: Looking for Meaning in an Age of Information - Robert Wright </li><li>Titan: The Life of John D. Rockefeller, Sr. - Ron Chernow </li></ul><h5><strong>From the Editor:</strong></h5><ul><li>Les Schwab: Pride in Performance - Les Schwab </li><li>Men and Rubber: The Story of Business - Harvey Firestone </li><li>Men to Match My Mountains: The Opening of the Far West, 1840 - 1900 - Irving Stone </li></ul><h5><strong>Other Books Mentioned:</strong></h5><ul><li>B.F. Skinner: A Life - Daniel W. Bjork </li><li>Be Quick - But Don’t Hurry! - Andrew Hill with John Wooden </li><li>Cicero, On a Life Well Spent </li><li>Collapse - Jared Diamond </li><li>Common Stocks and Uncommon Profits - Philip Fisher </li><li>Darwin’s Blind Spot </li><li>Godel, Escher, Bach - Douglas Hofstadter </li><li>Objective Accounting - Carl F. Braun </li><li>Principles of Microeconomics - N. Gregory Mankiw </li><li>Process and Reality - Alfred North Whitehead </li><li>Shaping the Managerial Mind - Peter Drucker </li><li>Shoot the Piano Player - David Goodis </li><li>Surely You’re Joking, Mr Feynman - Richard Feynman </li><li>The Affluent Society - John Kenneth Galbraith </li><li>The Moral Consequences of Economic Growth - Benjamin M. Friedman </li><li>The Wealth of Nations - Adam Smith </li><li>The Language Instinct - Steven Pinker </li><li>Winning - Jack Welch </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Team of Teams: New Rules of Engagement for a Complex World by General Stanley McChrystal: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A look at the changes required for modern organizations to succeed in terms of how they are structured and managed. The story is told through the lens of McChrystal's command of JSOC (Joint Special Operations Command) in the early/mid 2000s, and many of the lessons are drawn from that experience.I found the principles useful, but the stories a bit scattered and the principles not as clearly laid out as they could have been. Worthwhile principles to absorb, but not the easiest read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Key Takeaways</h3><ul><li>Two keys for success in building teams in a modern world: </li><li>Extremely transparent information sharing (&quot;shared consciousness&quot;)</li><li>Decentralized decision-making authority (&quot;empowered execution&quot;)</li><li>Management (and by extension, structure) has become a limfac (limiting factor) in the success of modern organizations.</li><li>The world has become less predictable, despite us having much more data.</li></ul><p>This is the result of two factors: </p><ul><li>High interconnectedness</li><li>Instantaneous communication</li></ul><p>As a result, the world has become much more complex (in many different areas), and impossible to predict. </p><ul><li>&quot;The average forecasting error in the U.S. analyst community between 2001 and 2006 was 47 percent over twelve months and 93 percent over twenty-four months.&quot;</li></ul><p>Yeah We can quantify our predictions and whether things are complex by attaching a time frame. </p><ul><li>Example: we can know the weather for the next 2 hours with reliability, but cannot accurately predict 7 days away.</li><li>We have moved from data-poor but fairly predictable to data-rich but uncertain.</li><li>To build resilience (or antifragility), we must build organizations that can reconfigure or adapt in response to change or damage (like a coral reef instead of a pyramid).</li><li>To build a team driven by purpose, put them through an unpleasant experience together–only the most committed with persevere.</li><li>Trust and purpose are inefficient: getting to know your colleagues intimately and acquiring a whole-system overview are big time sinks. But these are precisely what make teams adaptable and effective.</li><li>In big groups, where knowing everyone isn&#x27;t possible, instead, the relationships between the constituent teams need to resemble those between individuals on a given team. </li><li>In other words, every team member does not need to know everyone else; instead, every team needs to know one person on every other team. Then they envision a friendly face.</li><li>They key to increasing &quot;idea flow&quot; is building engagement within teams, and frequent contact with other teams.</li></ul><p>This can be improved by doing two things: </p><ul><li>Building workspaces and forums that are open to all</li><li>Embedding of team members within other teams, or cross-team squads</li></ul><p>Leadership is most powerful by example: </p><ul><li>Leaders must realize every action is interpreted.</li><li>Must be consistent example and message.</li><li>Show themselves &quot;in the trenches&quot;.</li><li>Solve problems that hinder goals or communication (ex: ensuring video conferencing bandwidth for smooth conversations).</li><li>Small gestures (like greeting by first name) can have a big impact.</li><li>In public forums, be kind and complimentary; correct actions or provide feedback later.</li><li>&quot;Think out loud&quot; by summarizing, describing how you process the information, and outline first thoughts on what we should consider doing. Allows everyone to follow your logic.</li><li>Don&#x27;t forget that your actions always have consequences, even if unintended (&quot;dinosaur&#x27;s tail&quot; knocking things over as you turn).</li><li>Empowerment requires context and shared consciousness; an understanding of &quot;the right thing&quot;.</li><li>Mental models are valuable, but break down when they no longer represent reality. </li></ul><h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Part I - The Proteus Problem</strong></h5><h6><strong>Chapter 1: Sons of Proteus</strong></h6><ul><li>We restructured our force from the ground up on principles of extremely transparent information sharing (what we call &quot;shared consciousness&quot;) and decentralized decision-making authority (&quot;empowered execution&quot;).</li><li>We became what we called a &quot;team of teams&quot;: a large command that captured at scale the traits of agility normally limited to small teams.</li></ul><p>Actor and Environment </p><ul><li>Interconnectedness and the ability to transmit information instantly can endow small groups with unprecedented influence: the garage band, the dorm-room start-up, the viral blogger, and the terrorist cell.</li></ul><p>Limfac</p><ul><li>A limfac (limiting factor): the one element in a situation that holds you back.</li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 2: Clockwork</strong></h6><ul><li>One of the most compelling of these [principles] states that commanders should mass the effects of overwhelming combat power at the decisive place and time.</li><li>Just as the road to mastering calculus begins with learning basic addition, the mechanized fastidiousness that ensures that all chute straps are in the right place starts with obsessive attention to small things like the knots that secure entrenching tools. </li><li>Small habits make big habits.</li><li>Historians attribute to Taylorism the advent of modern time consciousness, the transformation of leisure from unstructured free time to organized recreation, and the approach to managing the federal bureaucracy championed by the Reagan administration.</li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 3: From Complicated to Complex</strong></h6><ul><li>Though we know far more about everything in it, the world has in many respects become less predictable.</li><li>Such unpredictability has happened not in spite of technological progress, but because of it.</li><li>Things that are complex—living organisms, ecosystems, national economies—have a diverse array of connected elements that interact frequently.</li><li>Because of this density of linkages, complex systems fluctuate extremely and exhibit unpredictability. In the case of weather, a small disturbance in one place could trigger a series of responses that build into unexpected and severe outcomes in another place, because of the billions of tiny interactions that link the origin and the outcome.</li><li>Being complex is different from being complicated. Things that are complicated may have many parts, but those parts are joined, one to the next, in relatively simple ways: one cog turns, causing the next one to turn as well, and so on.</li><li>Complexity, on the other hand, occurs when the number of interactions between components increases dramatically—the interdependencies that allow viruses and bank runs to spread; this is where things quickly become unpredictable.</li><li>Because of these dense interactions, complex systems exhibit nonlinear change.</li><li>Recently minted military acronym: VUCA (volatility, uncertainty, complexity, and ambiguity).</li></ul><p>Square Peg, Round Hole </p><ul><li>In other words, the real world is full of the knotted interdependencies of complexity, and science was not equipped to deal with this—indeed, science actively avoided these unpleasant truths, preferring to simplify things to fit the clockwork universe. Such efforts, Weaver maintained, are futile. You cannot force a square peg in a round hole, and you cannot force the complex to conform to rules meant for the merely complicated.</li><li>Complex systems are fickle and volatile, presenting a broad range of possible outcomes; the type and sheer number of interactions prevent us from making accurate predictions.</li><li>As a result, treating an ecosystem as though it were a machine with predictable trajectories from input to output is a dangerous folly.</li><li>The average forecasting error in the U.S. analyst community between 2001 and 2006 was 47 percent over twelve months and 93 percent over twenty-four months. As writer and investor James Montier puts it, &quot;The evidence on the folly of forecasting is overwhelming...frankly the three blind mice have more credibility than any macro-forecaster at seeing what is coming.&quot;</li><li>It is helpful to frame things in terms of timescale: for our purposes, we can think of a phenomenon as exhibiting complexity over a given time frame if there are so many interactions that one cannot reasonably forecast the outputs based on the inputs.</li><li>Data-rich records can be wonderful for explaining how complex phenomena happened and how they might happen, but they can’t tell us when and where they will happen.</li><li>We have moved from data-poor but fairly predictable settings to data-rich, uncertain ones. </li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 4: Doing the Right Thing</strong></h6><ul><li>Scientist Brian Walker and writer David Salt, in their book on the subject, describe resilience as &quot;the capacity of a system to absorb disturbance and still retain its basic function and structure.&quot; In a complex world, disturbances are inevitable, making such a capacity to absorb shocks increasingly important.</li><li>Investor and writer Nassim Taleb captures a similar concept with the term &quot;antifragile systems.&quot; Fragile systems, he argues, are those that are damaged by shocks; robust systems weather shocks; and antifragile systems, like immune systems, can benefit from shocks.</li><li>Robustness is achieved by strengthening parts of the system (the pyramid); resilience is the result of linking elements that allow them to reconfigure or adapt in response to change or damage (the coral reef).</li></ul><h5><strong>Part II - From Many, One</strong></h5><h6><strong>Chapter 5: From Command to Team</strong></h6><p>&quot;Get a Swim Buddy&quot; </p><ul><li>The purpose of BUD/S is not to produce supersoldiers. It is to build superteams. The first step of this is constructing a strong lattice of trusting relationships. </li></ul><p>&quot;The Believer Will Put His Life on the Line&quot;</p><ul><li>While building trust gives teams the ability to reconfigure and &quot;do the right thing,&quot; it is also necessary to make sure that team members know what the right thing is. Team members must all work toward the same goal, and in volatile, complex environments that goal is changeable.</li><li>Testing for a sense of purpose at its broadest and most visceral is simple: make the experience unpleasant enough and only the truly committed will persevere. The physical hardship of BUD/S is a test, not of strength, but of commitment.</li></ul><p>Emergent Intelligence</p><ul><li>The field of “emergence&quot; examines how complex patterns and forms can arise from a multiplicity of simple, low-level interactions.</li><li>Adam Smith’s &quot;invisible hand&quot; of the market—the notion that order best arises not from centralized design but through the decentralized interactivity of buyers and sellers—is an example of “emergence&quot; <em>avant la lettre.</em></li><li>Parallel computing, joint cognition, and the oneness of a team all work toward the same goal: building a network that allows you to solve larger, more complex problems.</li><li>Champions of the iconic Mission Control room where hundreds of experts crowded into one space to facilitate real-time communication and adaptation (which we will investigate further in later chapters), they concluded that building trust and communication between crew members was more important than further honing specific technical skills.</li><li>The connectivity of trust and purpose imbues teams with an ability to solve problems that could never be foreseen by a single manager—their solutions often emerge as the bottom-up result of interactions, rather than from top-down orders.</li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 6: Team of Teams</strong></h6><ul><li>Trust and purpose are inefficient: getting to know your colleagues intimately and acquiring a whole-system overview are big time sinks; the sharing of responsibilities generates redundancy. But this overlap and redundancy—these inefficiencies—are precisely what imbues teams with high-level adaptability and efficacy. </li></ul><p>&quot;The Point at Which Everyone Else Sucks&quot; </p><ul><li>How many “cooks&quot; is too many? It depends. In a small kitchen or office, four might be the ideal number. For a company with operations the size of Walmart, the break point is much higher.</li><li>For teams, this range is considerably narrower. Athletic teams, for instance, usually consist of fifteen to thirty people. Army Ranger platoons are composed of forty-two soldiers. SEAL squads contain between sixteen and twenty people. Beyond such numbers, teams begin to lose the “oneness&quot; that makes them adaptable.</li><li>&quot;Brook’s Law&quot;: the adage that adding staff to speed up a behind-schedule project &quot;has no better chance of working...than would a scheme to produce a baby quickly by assigning nine women to be pregnant for one month each...adding manpower to a late software project makes it later.&quot; </li></ul><p>Team of Teams</p><ul><li>On a single team, every individual needs to know every other individual in order to build trust, and they need to maintain comprehensive awareness at all times in order to maintain common purpose—easy with a group of twenty-five, doable with a group of fifty, tricky above one hundred, and definitely impossible across a task force of seven thousand. But on a team of teams, every individual does not have to have a relationship with every other individual; instead, the relationships between the constituent teams need to resemble those between individuals on a given team.</li><li>We didn’t need every member of the Task Force to know everyone else; we just needed everyone to know someone on every team, so that when they thought about, or had to work with, the unit that bunked next door or their intelligence counterparts in D.C., they envisioned a friendly face rather than a competitive rival.</li><li>We didn’t need everybody to follow every single operation in real time (something just as impossible as building lifelong friendships with seven thousand people). We needed to enable a team operating in an interdependent environment to understand the butterfly-effect ramifications of their work and make them aware of the other teams with whom they would have to cooperate in order to achieve strategic—not just tactical—success.</li></ul><h5><strong>Part III - Sharing</strong></h5><h6><strong>Chapter 7: Seeing the System</strong></h6><ul><li>What Mueller instituted was known as “systems engineering” or “systems management,” an approach built on the foundation of “systems thinking.” This approach, contrary to reductionism, believes that one cannot understand a part of a system without having at least a rudimentary understanding of the whole.</li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 8: Brains Out of the Footlocker</strong></h6><ul><li>Bloomberg says, &quot;I’ve always believed that management’s ability to influence work habits through edict is limited. Ordering something gets it done, perhaps. When you turn your back, though, employees tend to regress to the same old ways. Physical plant, however, has a much more lasting impact...I issue proclamations telling everyone to work together, but it’s the lack of walls that really makes them do it.&quot; </li></ul><p>The O&amp;I </p><ul><li>As the scope of the Task Force’s global activities increased and we integrated more players into our network, the O&amp;I became a bona fide institution. The meeting ran six days a week and was never canceled. We conducted it by video teleconference at 9:00 a.m. Eastern Standard Time.</li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 9: Beating the Prisoner&#x27;s Dilemma</strong></h6><ul><li>Incentivizing collaboration, however, is easier said than done. For starters, both prisoners must be shown the entire decision-making system, not just their own choices.</li></ul><p> Decentralized Operations with Coordinated Control </p><ul><li>Mulally eschewed internal competitiveness, and demanded honesty and transparency. He saw that there were too many small meetings that fractured the organization. He replaced them with a single weekly corporate-level meeting—the &quot;business plan review&quot; (BPR). He allowed no side discussions, secrets, BlackBerry use, or even jokes at others’ expense.</li><li>“Idea flow” is the ease with which new thoughts can permeate a group.</li><li>The key to increasing the “contagion” is trust and connectivity between otherwise separate elements of an establishment. The two major determinants of idea flow, Pentland has found, are “engagement” within a small group like a team, a department, or a neighborhood, and “exploration”—frequent contact with other units. In other words: a team of teams.</li><li>Engagement was the central predictor of productivity, exceeding individual intelligence, personality, and skill.</li><li>In the more than two dozen organizations he has studied, Pentland found that interaction patterns typically account for almost half of all the performance variation between high- and low-performing groups.</li><li>But fostering such engagement is more easily said than done. Almost every company has posters and slogans urging employees to &quot;work together,&quot; but simply telling people to “communicate&quot; is the equivalent of Taylor’s telling his workers to &quot;do things faster,&quot; and stopping there.</li><li>It is necessary, we found, to forcibly dismantle the old system and replace it with an entirely new managerial architecture.</li><li>Our new architecture was shared consciousness, and it consisted of two elements. </li><li>The first was extreme, participatory transparency—the &quot;systems management&quot; of NASA that we mimicked with our O&amp;I forums and our open physical space. This allowed all participants to have a holistic awareness equivalent to the contextual awareness of purpose we already knew at a team level.</li><li>The second was the creation of strong internal connectivity across teams—something we achieved with our embedding and liaison programs. This mirrored the trust that enabled our small teams to function.</li></ul><h5>Part IV - Letting Go</h5><h6><strong>Chapter 10: Hands Off</strong></h6><ul><li>In short, when they can see what’s going on, leaders understandably want to control what’s going on. Empowerment tends to be a tool of last resort. We can call this tethering of visibility to control the &quot;Perry Principle.&quot;</li></ul><p>&quot;Use Good Judgment In All Situations&quot;</p><ul><li>Eventually a rule of thumb emerged: &quot;If something supports our effort, as long as it is not immoral or illegal,&quot; you could do it. Soon, I found that the question I most often asked my force was &quot;What do you need?&quot;</li></ul><h6><strong>Chapter 11: Leading Like a Gardener</strong></h6><ul><li>It was impossible to separate my words and my actions, because the force naturally listened to what I said, but measured the importance of my message by observing what I actually did. If the two were incongruent, my words would be seen as meaningless pontifications.</li><li>As a leader, however, my most powerful instrument of communication was my own behavior.</li><li>Instead, I sought to maintain a consistent example and message. Our daily Operations and Intelligence (O&amp;I) video teleconference became key to my overall communications effort.</li><li>Early in the fight I recognized that although I could theoretically command from any location, remaining deployed and appearing at the O&amp;I while wearing my combat uniform against an austere plywood backdrop communicated my focus and commitment.</li><li>I also demonstrated this new paradigm of leadership by demanding free-flowing conversation across the force during the O&amp;I. The technical hurdles of creating a video teleconference for more than seventy locations, many of them isolated, bandwidth-starved bases, were huge, but the meetings had to be seamless. In the early days I saw that interruptions in connection or other glitches undercut the perceived importance of the forum, and I could not allow that.</li><li>For the same reasons, the O&amp;I was never canceled and attendance was mandatory. I felt that if the O&amp;I was seen as an occasional event not always attended by key leaders, it would unravel.</li><li>Although the O&amp;I had to be a briefing to the entire force, my role as commander remained central. Our system worked such that the person giving the brief was shown on the screen from wherever he or she was located, but the default returned to me when the brief finished. As a result, I was on live TV in front of my entire force and countless interagency partners every day for an hour and a half. If I looked bored or was seen sending e-mails or talking, I signaled lack of interest. If I appeared irritated or angry, notes such as &quot;What’s bothering the boss?&quot; would flash across the chat rooms that functioned in parallel to the video teleconference. Critical words were magnified in impact and could be crushing to a young member of the force. I learned that simply removing my reading glasses and rubbing my temple was an action that was interpreted on several continents.</li><li>When their turns came and their faces suddenly filled the screen I made it a point to greet them by their first name, which often caused them to smile in evident surprise. They were eight levels down the chain of command and many miles away—how did the commanding general know their name? Simple: I had my team prepare a &quot;cheat sheet&quot; of the day’s planned briefers so I could make one small gesture to put them at ease.</li><li>For a young member of the command, even if the brief had been terrible, I would compliment the report. Others would later offer them advice on how to improve—but it didn’t need to come from me in front of thousands of people.</li><li>&quot;Thank you&quot; became my most important phrase, interest and enthusiasm my most powerful behaviors.</li><li>More than anything else, the O&amp;I demanded self-discipline, and I found it exhausting. But it was an extraordinary opportunity to lead by example.</li><li>I adopted a practice I called &quot;thinking out loud,&quot; in which I would summarize what I’d heard, describe how I processed the information, and outline my first thoughts on what we should consider doing about it. It allowed the entire command to follow (and correct where appropriate) my logic trail, and to understand how I was thinking. After I did that, in a pointed effort to reinforce empowered execution, I would often ask the subordinate to consider what action might be appropriate and tell me what he or she planned to do.</li><li>Thinking out loud can be a frightening prospect for a senior leader. Ignorance on a subject is quickly obvious, and efforts to fake expertise are embarrassingly ineffective. I found, however, that asking seemingly stupid questions or admitting openly &quot;I don’t know&quot; was accepted, even appreciated. Asking for opinions and advice showed respect. The overall message reinforced by the O&amp;I was that we have a problem that only we can understand and solve.</li><li>I later used a specific question when talking to junior officers and sergeants in small bases in Afghanistan: &quot;If I told you that you weren’t going home until we win—what would you do differently?&quot;</li><li>I would tell my staff about the &quot;dinosaur’s tail&quot;: As a leader grows more senior, his bulk and tail become huge, but like the brontosaurus, his brain remains modestly small. When plans are changed and the huge beast turns, its tail often thoughtlessly knocks over people and things. That the destruction was unintentional doesn’t make it any better.</li></ul><h5>Part V - Looking Ahead </h5><h6><strong>Chapter 12: Symmetries</strong></h6><ul><li>Tocqueville recognized that empowerment without context will lead to havoc. This is the risk run if traditional, hierarchical organizations just push authority down, ceteris paribus (think of the 2008 financial crisis, largely sparked by young, uninformed finance professionals being given far too much leeway and far too little guidance). An organization should empower its people, but only after it has done the heavy lifting of creating shared consciousness.</li><li>Shared consciousness is a carefully maintained set of centralized forums for bringing people together. </li></ul><p>A World Without Stop Signs</p><ul><li>Mental models can be very helpful—they can provide shortcuts and keep us from reinventing the wheel.</li><li>Problems arise when these models no longer reflect reality and when they inhibit creative thinking. We have to recognize that a mental model is not reality, it is just a representation of reality, and there are a near-infinite number of equally valid representations, almost all of which also leave something out in the interests of simplification.</li><li>When we urge people to think &quot;outside of the box,&quot; we are generally asking them to discard mental models.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[Until reading James Clear’s Atomic Habits, this was the best book on habit formation (and breaking) I had read.Duhigg clearly describes the research behind habit formation, as well as breaking down habits into clear parts. He then uses this to teach how we can successfully form new habits by substituting components.No doubt some of these ideas informed James’s book as well.I would read Atomic Habits first, but if you want another perspective, you’ll gain valuable insight from this book as well.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Chapter 2: The Craving Brain: How to Create New Habits</strong></h5><ul><li>First, find a simple and obvious cue.</li><li>Second, clearly define the rewards.</li><li>Once our brains learn about a reward, we begin to anticipate it. Only when your brain starts expecting the reward will we begin to have a habit that lasts.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: The Golden Rule of Habit Change: Why Transformation Occurs</strong></h5><ul><li>That’s the rule: If you use the same cue, and provide the same reward, you can shift the routine and change the habit. Almost any behaviour can be transformed if the cue and reward stay the same.</li><li>Say you want to stop snacking at work. Is the reward you’re seeking to satisfy your hunger? Or is it to interrupt boredom? If you snack for a brief release, you can easily find another routine - such as taking a quick walk, or giving yourself three minutes on the internet - that provides the same interruption without adding to your waistline.</li><li>We know that a habit cannot be eradicated - it must, instead, be replaced.</li><li>And we know that habits are most malleable when the Golden Rule of habit change is applied: if we keep the same cue and the same reward, a new routine can be inserted.</li><li>But that’s not enough. For a habit to stay changed, people must believe change is possible. And most often, that belief only emerges with the help of a group.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4: Keystone Habits, or the Ballad of Paul O’Neill: Which Habits Matter Most</strong></h5><ul><li>Small wins fuel transformative changes.</li><li>The second way that keystone habits encourage change: by creating structures that help other habits to flourish.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 5: Starbucks and the Habit of Success: When Willpower Becomes Automatic</strong></h5><ul><li>Dozens of studies show that willpower is the single most important keystone habit for individual success.</li><li>Willpower is like a muscle that can be built, and just like a muscle, can be depleted.</li><li>To make willpower a habit, choose a certain behaviour ahead of time, and then follow that routine when an inflection point arrives.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 7: How Target Knows what you want before you do: When Companies Predict (and Manipulate) Habits</strong></h5><ul><li>Whether selling a new song, a new food, or a new crib, the lesson is the same: If you dress a new something in old habits, it’s easier for the public to accept it.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8: Saddleback Church and the Montgomery Bus Boycott: How Movements Happen</strong></h5><ul><li>When sociologists have examined how opinions move through communities, how gossip spreads or political movements start, they’ve discovered a common pattern: Our weak-tie acquaintances are often as influential - if not more - than our close-tie friends.</li><li>For an idea to grow beyond a community, it must become self-propelling. And the surest way to achieve that is to give people new habits that help them figure out where to go on their own.</li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 9: The Neurology of Free Will: Are We Responsible for Our Habits?</strong></h5><ul><li>As I’ve tried to demonstrate throughout this book, habits - even once they are rooted in our minds - aren’t destiny. We can choose our habits, once we know how.</li><li>However, to modify a habit, you must decide to change it. You must consciously accept the hard work of identifying the cues and rewards that drive the habits’ routines, and find alternatives. You must know you have control and be self-conscious enough to use it - and every chapter in this book is devoted to illustrating a different aspect of why that control is real.</li></ul><h5><strong>Appendix: A Reader’s Guide to Using These Ideas</strong></h5><p><strong>The Framework:</strong></p><ul><li>Identify the routine</li><li>Experiment with rewards</li><li>Isolate the cue</li><li>Have a plan</li></ul><p>The point is to test different hypotheses to determine which craving is driving your routine.</p><ul><li>As you test four or five different rewards, you can use an old trick to look for patterns: After each activity, jot down on a piece of paper the first three things that come to mind when you get back to your desk. They can be emotions, random thoughts, reflections on how you’re feeling, or just the first three words that pop into your head.</li><li>What’s more, studies show that writing down a few words helps in later recalling what you were thinking at that moment.</li><li>Our lives are the same way. The reason why it is so hard to identify the cues that trigger our habits is because there is too much information bombarding us as our behaviours unfold.</li></ul><p>To identify a cue amid the noise, we can use the same system as the psychologist: Identify categories of behaviours ahead of time to scrutinize in order to see patterns. Luckily, science offers some help in this regard. Experiments have shown that almost all habitual cues fit into one of five categories:</p><ul><li>Location</li><li>Time</li><li>Emotional state</li><li>Other people</li><li>Immediately preceding action</li></ul><p>So if you’re trying to figure out the cue for the “going to the cafeteria and buying a chocolate chip cookie” habit, you write down five things the moment the urge hits (these are actual notes from when I was trying to diagnose my habit):</p><ul><li>Where are you? (Sitting at my desk)</li><li>What time is it? (3:36pm)</li><li>What’s your emotional state? (Bored)</li><li>Who else is around? (No one)</li><li>What action preceded the urge? (Answered an email)</li></ul><p>Put another way, a habit is a formula our brain automatically follows: when I see CUE, I will do ROUTINE in order to get a REWARD.</p><p>To re-engineer that formula, we need to begin making choices again. And the easiest way to do this, according to study after study, is to have a plan. Within psychology, these plans are known as “implementation intentions”.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[This book doesn’t reveal anything mind-blowing, but what Mark is good at is stating obvious things, reframing, and generally shaking people up with some language.This is typically a book I recommend to people when they’re stuck in a rut, just had a breakup, etc.  I’d suggest you pick it up if you’re in a similar situation.  If you want to go a bit deeper, you can read some older philosophy, but this is a much easier read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favorite Quotes</h3><ul><li>&quot;Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience.”</li><li>&quot;True happiness occurs only when you find the problems you enjoy having and enjoy solving.&quot;</li></ul><h3>Notes</h3><h5>The Feedback Loop from Hell</h5><ul><li>The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one’s negative experience is itself a positive experience.</li><li>Being open with your insecurities paradoxically makes you more confident and charismatic around others. The pain of honest confrontation is what generates the greatest trust and respect in your relationships. Suffering through your fears and anxieties is what allows you to build courage and perseverance.</li><li>Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience.</li></ul><h5>The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck</h5><ul><li>Subtlety #1: Not giving a fuck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different.</li><li>Subtlety #2: To not give a fuck about adversity, you must first give a fuck about something more important than adversity.</li><li>Subtlety #3: Whether you realize it or not, you are always choosing what to give a fuck about.</li></ul><h5>Happiness Comes from Solving Problems</h5><ul><li>Happiness is a constant work-in-progress, because solving problems is a constant work-in-progress—</li><li>True happiness occurs only when you find the problems you enjoy having and enjoy solving.</li></ul><h5>Emotions Are Overrated</h5><ul><li>Emotions are simply biological signals designed to nudge you in the direction of beneficial change.</li></ul><h5>Choose Your Struggle</h5><ul><li>A more interesting question, a question that most people never consider, is, “What pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for?” Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.</li><li>Who you are is defined by what you’re willing to struggle for. People who enjoy the struggles of a gym are the ones who run triathlons and have chiseled abs and can bench-press a small house. People who enjoy long workweeks and the politics of the corporate ladder are the ones who fly to the top of it. People who enjoy the stresses and uncertainties of the starving artist lifestyle are ultimately the ones who live it and make it.</li></ul><h5>Rock Star Problems</h5><ul><li>If you want to change how you see your problems, you have to change what you value and/ or how you measure failure/ success.</li></ul><h5>Shitty Values</h5><ul><li>If you want to change how you see your problems, you have to change what value and/or how you measure success/failure.</li><li>As Freud once said, “One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.”</li></ul><h5>Defining Good and Bad Values</h5><p>Good values are</p><ul><li>1) reality-based,</li><li>2) socially constructive, and</li><li>3) immediate and controllable.</li></ul><p>Bad values are</p><ul><li>1) superstitious,</li><li>2) socially destructive, and</li><li>3) not immediate or controllable.</li></ul><p>Some examples of good, healthy values:</p><ul><li>honesty,</li><li>innovation,</li><li>vulnerability,</li><li>standing up for oneself,</li><li>standing up for others,</li><li>self-respect,</li><li>curiosity,</li><li>charity,</li><li>humility,</li><li>creativity.</li></ul><p>You’ll notice that good, healthy values are achieved internally.</p><h5>You’re Wrong About Everything (But So Am I)</h5><ul><li>Growth is an endlessly iterative process.</li></ul><h5>Manson’s Law of Avoidance</h5><ul><li>The more something threatens your identity, the more you will avoid it.</li></ul><h5>The Importance of Saying No</h5><ul><li>Freedom grants the opportunity for greater meaning, but by itself there is nothing necessarily meaningful about it. Ultimately, the only way to achieve meaning and a sense of importance in one’s life is through a rejection of alternatives, a narrowing of freedom, a choice of commitment to one place, one belief, or (gulp) one person.</li></ul><h5>Freedom Through Commitment</h5><ul><li>But depth is where the gold is buried. And you have to stay committed to something and go deep to dig it up. That’s true in relationships, in a career, in building a great lifestyle— in everything.</li></ul><h5>Something Beyond Our Selves</h5><ul><li>all the meaning in our life is shaped by this innate desire to never truly die.</li></ul><h5>The Sunny Side of Death</h5><ul><li>Confronting the reality of our own mortality is important because it obliterates all the crappy, fragile, superficial values in life. While most people whittle their ways chasing another buck or a little bit more fame and attention, or a little bit more assurance that they’re right or loved, death confronts all of us with a far more painful and important question: What is your legacy?</li><li>How will the world be different and better when you’re gone? What mark will you have made? What influence will you have caused?</li><li>And the primary lesson was this: there is nothing to be afraid of. Ever. And reminding myself of my own death repeatedly over the years— whether it be through meditation, through reading philosophy, or through doing crazy shit like standing on a cliff in South Africa— is the only thing that has helped me hold this realization front and center in my mind. This acceptance of my death, this understanding of my own fragility, has made everything easier— untangling my addictions, identifying and confronting my own entitlement, accepting responsibility for my own problems— suffering through my fears and uncertainties, accepting my failures and embracing rejections— it has all been made lighter by the thought of my own death. The more I peer into the darkness, the brighter life gets, the quieter the world becomes, and the less unconscious resistance I feel to, well, anything.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Truth by Neil Strauss: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[You may know Neil Strauss from The Game, a book about his journey into the world of pickup artists.  This book is about Neil’s journey away from that world, exploring various alternative relationship options, from polyamory to being treated for sex addiction, ultimately in search of love and the perfect relationship. Neil is a great writer and the book is highly entertaining.  Recommend for those both looking for an entertaining read or interested in alternative relationship styles.  If you’re interested in books like Mating in Captivity, or Neil’s previous books, you’ll enjoy this one too.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>Stage 1: Wounded Child </h4><ul><li>When I’m single, I want to be in a relationship. When I’m in a relationship, I miss being single. And worst of all, when the relationship ends and my captor-lover finally moves on, I regret everything and don’t know what I want anymore. </li><li>In a recent Pew Research survey, four out of ten people believed that marriage was an obsolete institution. </li><li>Several years ago, I wrote a book called <em>The Game</em> which was about my search for the answer to the question: Why don’t women I like ever like me back? </li><li>In the pages that follow, I attempt to solve a much tougher life dilemma: What should I do <em>after</em> she likes me back? </li><li>If you’re interested in getting more out of this odyssey for yourself, notice the words and concepts that most excite or repel you. Each gut reaction tells a story. It is a story about who you are and what you believe. Because, all too often, the things that we’re the most resistant to are precisely what we need. And the things we’re most scared to let go of are exactly the ones we most need to relinquish. </li><li>Perhaps marriage is like buying a house: You plan to spend the rest of your life there, but sometimes you want to move—or at least spend a night in a hotel. </li><li>Since adolescence, we’ve been trained as men—by our friends, by our culture, by our biology—to desire women. It seems unreasonable to expect us to just shut it off forever once we get married. Legs are long, breasts are soft, and forever is a long time. </li><li>On the wall is a large chart titled &quot;The Addiction Cycle,&quot; with four terms—<em>preoccupation, ritualization, acting out,</em> and <em>shame &amp; despair</em>—arranged in a circle. Arrows point from one word to the next in an endless loop. </li></ul><h4>Stage II: Functional Adult </h4><ul><li>&quot;If you think of intimacy as <em>into me I see and I share that with you</em>—that’s intimacy,&quot; Lorraine begins. </li><li>&quot;Intimacy problems come from a lack of self-love,&quot; she continues. &quot;Someone who fears intimacy thinks, unconsciously, If you knew who I actually was, you’d leave me.&quot; </li><li>It’s a good question: I’ve always seen myself as more ambivalent in my relationships than avoidant, but perhaps doubt is just a form of avoidance because it prevents me from ever fully committing to anyone. </li><li>&quot;A healthy relationship is when two individuated adults decide to have a relationship and that becomes a third entity. They nurture the relationship and the relationship nurtures them. But they’re not overly dependent or independent: They are interdependent, which means that they take care of the majority of their needs and wants on their own, but when they can’t, they’re not afraid to ask their partner for help.&quot; </li></ul><h4>Exclusivity </h4><h4>Stage I: </h4><ul><li>Love Avoidant: enters or returns to relationship out of obligation, connecting behind a wall of seduction. </li><li>Love Addict: enters or returns to relationship to end pain of abandonment, connecting in a fog of fantasy. </li></ul><h4>Stage II: </h4><ul><li>Love Avoidant: feels oppressed by partner’s neediness and moves from wall of seduction to wall of resentment. </li><li>Love Addict: ignores partner’s walls and partner’s need to have a life beyond the relationship. </li><li>Pets are the gateway drug to children. As a general rule, when a woman over twenty-five gets a dog, it means she’s ready to start a family. </li></ul><h4>Stage III: </h4><ul><li>Love Avoidant: further engulfment by partner leads to withdrawal from relationship and intensity seeking. </li><li>Love Addict: experiences an unthinkable incident or awareness that ends the fantasy. </li><li>So I ask Fisher how to best overcome our evolutionary past and have a successful, lasting relationship today. She responds by explaining that we’ve developed three different primary brain systems for mating: one for sex, another for romantic love, and a third for deep attachment. And after the initial intensity of a new relationship, our romance and sex drives often swing toward other people, while our attachment drive remains connected to our primary partner. </li><li>However, before I can draw any conclusions, Fisher says that this natural ebbing of romance and sexuality can be prevented. The solution, she elaborates, is for couples to do novel and exciting things together (to release dopamine and get the romance rush), make love regularly (to release oxytocin and sexually bond), cut themselves off from cheating opportunities, and, in general, make sure their partners are &quot;continually thrilling&quot; enough to keep all three drives humming. </li><li>&quot;If it were all genetic, if humans just by nature mated for life and there were a very tight pair-bond,&quot; Professor Peter J. Richerson explains, &quot;then we wouldn’t need all these marriage customs.&quot; </li><li>As for marriage itself, historian Stephanie Coontz, the author of Marriage, a History, tells me that the tradition was never even supposed to be about intimacy. For the majority of its history, marriage was an economic and political institution, mostly about merging resources, forming alliances, or creating a bloodline for inheritance, she explains. Not until the late eighteenth century did people marry for love. And it took until the late twentieth century for marriage to start becoming an intimate partnership rather than a patriarchal institution. </li></ul><h4>Stage IV: </h4><ul><li>Love Avoidant: leaves relationship and repeats cycle with new partner. </li><li>Love Addict: returns to fantasy about partner or repeats cycle with new partner. </li></ul><h4>Alternatives </h4><h4>Stage I: Polyamory </h4><ul><li>Men have a conflicted relationship with female sexuality: When a man is single, he wants women to be as easy and undiscerning as porn stars. But at the same time he’s terrified by this behavior, because he thinks if a woman sleeps with <em>him</em> so easily, then clearly she’ll sleep with <em>anybody</em> and thus won’t be faithful in a relationship. We have so many contradictory, repressive, self-limiting beliefs about sexuality—and almost every one of them stems from a pathological need to dictate to someone else what they are and aren’t allowed to do with their body and heart. </li><li>Loneliness is holding in a joke because you have no one to share it with. </li><li>For most men, what’s tougher than breaking up is the moment when their ex finally falls out of love with them and lets go, perhaps because it triggers a childhood fear—a psychological terror—of losing the first woman whose love they needed: their mother. And so, as Sheila would recommend, I let myself feel the pain, the loneliness, and the fear, using all my strength as the days pass to keep from giving in and reaching out to Ingrid. </li></ul><h4>Stage II: Swapping </h4><ul><li>Many women think that if they put out too quickly, their partner won’t respect them. This is not the case. It’s not about waiting for a certain quantity of time before having sex, it’s about waiting for a certain quality of connection. </li><li>I watch her work, but I’m so confused and let down that it’s hard to stay in the moment. I remember watching the documentary <em>Anatomy of Sex</em>. It explains that when the penis is limp, that’s when it’s actually tense. The muscles are constricted. When it gets aroused, the penis relaxes. And this allows blood to enter, which expands the spongy tissue and creates the erection. So you need to be relaxed to get hard. You can’t get hard when you’re tense. And I’m tense, because I finally found someone open-minded who I can see myself dating—and she’s taken. </li><li>Ultimately men are more attracted to sexual availability than they are to beauty. </li></ul><h4>Stage III: Harem Life </h4><ul><li>I used to think that a good relationship meant always getting along. But the secret, I realize, is that when one person shuts down or throws a fit, the other needs to stay in the adult ego state. If both people descend to the wounded child or adapted adolescent, that’s when all the forces of relationship drama and destruction are unleashed. </li><li>A piece of relationship advice Lorraine taught in rehab rings ominously in my head: &quot;Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments.&quot; </li><li>Life is a learned skill, but instead of teaching it, our culture force-fills developing minds with long division and capital cities—until, at the end of the mandatory period of bondage that’s hyperbolically called school, we’re sent into the world knowing little about it. </li><li>Fear of loss: It has motivated many weak people to make commitments they shouldn’t have. </li></ul><h4>Stage IV: What is My Species? </h4><h4>Stage V: Adventure </h4><h4>Stage VI: Open </h4><ul><li>They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder, but according to science, even more powerful than the large space between you and the one you love is the small space between that person and someone else. In studies on sperm competition, males ejaculated more and harder after their partner had been with a rival. In her book <em>Mating in Captivity</em>, psychologist Esther Perel advises that the way to keep romance and sex hot in a relationship is through separation, unpredictability, and fear of loss. </li><li>Relationships are like divining rods for locating one’s faults and weaknesses. </li><li><em>Try</em> is the critical word here, because managing feelings is like taming lions. No matter how successful you think you are, they’re still ultimately in control. </li><li>Researchers at Princeton University did a study on the correlation between money and happiness. As people’s incomes rose up to $75,000 annually, their happiness increased. But at incomes beyond that, people on average did not become happier. </li><li>Perhaps the same is true of sexual partners. </li><li>&quot;There is nothing frenzied about debauchery, contrary to what is thought,&quot; Albert Camus once wrote. &quot;It is but a long sleep.&quot; </li><li>&quot;The obvious clinical facts demonstrate that men—and women—who devote their lives to unrestricted sexual satisfaction do not attain happiness, and very often suffer from severe neurotic conflicts or symptoms. The complete satisfaction of all instinctual needs is not only not a basis for happiness, it does not even guarantee sanity.&quot; —Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving </li><li>It may not be a fairy-tale happy ending, but it’s a real-life happy ending. Life is a test and you pass if you can be true to yourself. To get the first question correct, all you have to know is who you are. A life is just one letter away from a lie. </li><li>Sex is easy to find—whether through game, money, chance, social proof, or charm. So are affairs, orgies, adventures, and three-month relationships—if you know where to look and are willing to go there. But love is rare. </li><li>I was so blind. I really thought that when I broke up with Ingrid, it was about wanting freedom. I didn’t see at all, despite everything I’d learned, that it was about not wanting to be loved so much. I did exactly what Lorraine warned me not to: I let the grounded adolescent run my life. </li><li>Except if married men have mid-life crises, men who haven’t ever truly been able to commit have no-life crises. And if they’re able to see clearly for even just a moment, they start to realize that they’re losing more than they’re gaining each day they remain stalled on the scenic road of growing up. </li></ul><h4>Anhedonia</h4><h4>Stage I: Emptying Out </h4><ul><li>“Anhedonia.&quot; </li><li>I repeat the word clumsily. I’ve read many big books with big words, but I’ve never come across anhedonia before. Whatever it is, I don’t like the sound of it. </li><li>&quot;It’s the dark place of not feeling,&quot; she elaborates. &quot;People feel dead in the place of anhedonia. They can’t experience joy.&quot; </li><li>I think back to Henry’s ninth emotion. That’s what it’s called—not the death emotion, but anhedonia. &quot;Why would I want to experience that?&quot; </li><li>&quot;Because in order to return to homeostasis and have any clarity on who you are and what you need, you have to detox from the intensity of these one-up, one-down relationships. You’ve been through a constant cycle of intensity, from your relationship with your mother all the way up to your relationship with Sage.&quot; She pauses to order a glass of wine, and for some reason I’m surprised, as if drinking is taboo for addiction therapists. &quot;You’ll find that being committed to your authentic life supersedes the intensity.&quot; </li><li>In the weeks that follow, as I wind down my life and wait to get help from Lorraine, masturbation saves me. </li><li>You want to ask out someone you recently met? Masturbate first, then see if you still want to spend six hours wining, dining, and entertaining her, desperate for an outcome that’s not only going to disappoint you if it doesn’t occur, but may even disappoint you if it does. </li><li>You want to call an escort? Masturbate first, then see if you really want some junkie who looks nothing like her decade-old Photoshopped images to give you a lazy hand job. </li><li>You want to call a former fuck buddy? Masturbate first, then see if you still want to invite her over, have sex that isn’t as good as you remembered, then spend the rest of the night figuring out how to politely get rid of her without hurting her feelings. </li><li>Masturbate when you want to break the rules of your relationship or your celibacy agreement—and you’ll soon discover that once your desires are fulfilled in your imagination, the need to live them out in real life suddenly doesn’t seem so urgent. Once the brain’s reward center has gotten its hit of dopamine, it doesn’t need another one - at least not for a little while. </li><li>The answer: I was never actually pursuing sexual freedom. I was pursuing control, power, and self-worth. I was either acting like my mom or making someone into my mom. But rarely was I actually myself. Because, as I witnessed on ecstasy, the feeling that I’m not acceptable as I am is so fucking overwhelming that I’m terrified to let go and just be myself with anyone. </li></ul><h4>Stage II: Filling Up </h4><ul><li>Each day, I try to take care of the six core needs Lorraine told me about: <em>physical,</em> by surfing and eating healthily; <em>emotional</em>, by allowing myself to experience and express feelings without being either hypercontrolling or out of control with them; <em>social,</em> by spending time with Adam, Calvin, Rick, and other growth-minded friends; <em>intellectual,</em> by reading literature, listening to lectures, starting a film discussion group, and, most importantly, simply listening more; and, most alien of all for me, <em>spiritual,</em> through transcendental meditation, which a friend of Rick’s teaches me. </li><li>But the biggest challenge is the sixth core need: <em>sexual,</em> especially since I’m chaste and porn-free right now. So while continuing with the rest of my self-care regimen, I decide to skip this one. </li><li>Suddenly I realize that the dichotomy between the false self and the authentic self that all these recovery people talk about is meaningless. It’s a value judgment that’s impossible to determine. A better way to think about it is the destructive self and the creative self: the you that damages your life and the lives of others, and the you that brings forth the best in yourself, is connected to others, and is in harmony with the world around you. </li><li>&quot;How you do anything is how you do everything,&quot; Rick responds, with a calmness that for once I mirror. &quot;Do you see now that the way you choose to live your life affects everything about it? A cheat here and there is not just a cheat here and there. It’s a break in the continuum of who you are and the person you are in the world.&quot; </li><li>I pull out my phone and show him a memo I wrote one night in bed during anhedonia: </li><li>Why I Cheated: </li><li>I didn’t communicate or keep boundaries with Ingrid, so I acted out due to fear of engulfment. </li><li>I didn’t share my sexual preferences with Ingrid or give her space to share hers, so I acted out due to unfulfilled sexual desires. </li><li>I blamed her for “not allowing me” to fuck other people, so I acted out due to a denial of personal responsibility for my behavior. </li><li>I had feelings of worthlessness and low self-esteem deep down, so I acted out for acceptance and validation. </li><li>I had no spirituality and a faulty intellectual paradigm, so I acted out because I believed we’re no different from any other animal and that’s what animals do, and the consequences don’t really matter to the universe. </li><li>For once, Rick is speechless. A smile slowly spreads across his face. And after what feels like eternity, he tells me, &quot;I think you’re going to understand what I mean now when I tell you the secret to being faithful.&quot; </li><li>&quot;What’s that?&quot; </li><li>&quot;Don’t trade long-term happiness for short-term pleasure.&quot; </li><li>I add that phrase to my notes. It’s a good mantra to remember. </li><li>&quot;Think of intimacy as a fire,&quot; he continues. &quot;The more logs you add to it, the bigger it gets. And the bigger it gets, the less you want to throw water on it.&quot; </li><li>Rick studies my face. Words are easy to say, but am I capable yet of living by them? Another test percolates in his mind. He is a producer not just of music, but of lives. &quot;If things don’t work out with Ingrid, in order to give your next relationship a chance, I would recommend building intimacy and making a deep emotional commitment <em>before</em> beginning a sexual relationship. I think that should be your new challenge: to wait three months before having sex with your next girlfriend.&quot; </li><li>Some schools of attachment theory assess the way people behave in relationships on a continuum, rather than by clear-cut categories like in rehab. They place people on a graph divided into four quadrants, running from low anxiety to high anxiety on the x-axis and high avoidance to low avoidance on the y-axis. Each quadrant determines a different attachment style: High avoidance and high anxiety would be <em>fearful-avoidant attachment,</em> similar to love avoidance; high anxiety and low avoidance would be <em>preoccupied attachment</em>, similar to love addiction; high avoidance and low anxiety would be <em>dismissing attachment</em>, a more extreme form of love avoidance in which relationships are rejected almost altogether because no partner is perceived as worthy. So for fun, I take a test to determine which style I have, answering each question as honestly as I can. And I’m relieved when I fall into the fourth category: low avoidance and low anxiety. </li></ul><h4>Excerpts from An Incomplete Guide to Love for the Incomplete Man </h4><ol><li>No matter what the situation may be, the right course of action is always compassion and love. </li><li>As long as at least one partner is in the adult functional at any given time, most—if not all—arguments can be avoided. </li><li>Recognize when you are backsliding into a childish or adolescent behavior. Then pinpoint what old story is being triggered and tell yourself the truth of the situation. Let go of the lie. </li><li>Accept what is. </li><li><em>What if</em> . . . Today I will expunge those two words from my vocabulary and replace them with <em>I will accept it if.</em></li><li>Instead of saying &quot;I’m never going to cheat again,&quot; say, &quot;Today, I’m not going to do that thing that makes me feel weak and shameful about myself again.&quot; </li><li>Perhaps the corollary to Rick’s secret is that the fantasy of other people is almost always better than the reality. </li><li>You can’t have a relationship with someone hoping they’ll change. You have to be willing to commit to them as they are, with no expectations. And if they happen to choose to change at some point along the way, then that’s just a bonus. </li><li>Communicate and maintain healthy boundaries. This means finding the proper balance of filtering and protecting your self, thoughts, feelings, time, and behaviors without either closing off behind walls, or becoming overwhelmed or overwhelming. </li><li>Ask yourself throughout the day, &quot;What do I need to do in this moment to take care of myself?&quot; If you can be aware of what legitimate needs and wants you’re not attending to, and then take actions to meet them on your own—or ask your partner for help if you can’t—that is the road to happiness. </li><li>No one can make you feel anything and you don’t make anyone feel a certain way. So don’t take on responsibility for your partner’s feelings and don’t blame your partner for yours. The most caring thing to do when they’re upset is simply to ask if they want you to listen, to give advice, to give them space, or to give them loving touch. </li><li>Love, honor, and affirm yourself. Whatever your decisions, actions, feelings, and thoughts throughout the day may be and whatever outcome they may lead to, if you are healthy, then they are ultimately healthy. </li><li>And, above all, always remember to breathe and be in the moment. </li></ol><ul><li>I think about how I snuck out on Ingrid so long ago, telling her I was going to Marilyn Manson’s house the night before our trip to Chicago, the night before her birthday. And I feel disgust with myself for ever having done that. I used to think I was a good person, but how could a good person do something so reprehensible? </li><li>The answer: compartmentalization. The act of putting shameful activities in a small sealed box in our brain, where they remain safely hidden, even from our own intelligence and conscience. </li></ul><h4>Freedom </h4><ul><li>Shame is about being bad for someone; reassurance is about being good to yourself. </li><li>I tell her about the harem house, and learning that love is not a terrifying monster making unreasonable demands on my life, but a beautiful friend making occasional requests that I have the option to accept or deny. And I tell her about the open relationship, and learning not just to let go of jealousy and control, but to explore my painful emotions rather than avoiding them like an addict. </li><li>It turns out that relationships don’t require sacrifices. They just require growing up—and the ability to stop clinging to immature needs that are so tenacious, they keep the mature needs from getting met. </li><li>I’ve come to realize that there’s no so-called <em>natural</em> way to be in a relationship. The whole idea that we can study the past or other cultures to determine what’s right for us today is ridiculous. Because nearly every society of simians tells a different story of mating and sexuality—and every point of view can be supported with evidence from some other tribe or species. There isn’t just one true and proper way to love, to relate, to bond, to touch. Any style of relationship is the right one, as long as it’s a decision made by the whole person and not the hole in the person. </li><li>The path of ambivalence leads nowhere. </li></ul><h4>Gratitude </h4><ul><li>And for those who want to use this experience as a starting point for your own explorations, here are a few first steps you can take as you find your unique path </li><li>I also recommend taking Patrick Carnes’s Post-Traumatic Stress Index test online to understand the ways your past haunts your behavior today. (Use the original PTSI test, not the revised PTSI-R.) </li><li>I’m currently keeping an open and expanding list of recommended websites, workshops, and practitioners at www.neilstrauss.com/thetruth </li><li>I put together an appendix of all the different relationship styles I could find, and you can grab that at www.neilstrauss.com/goodtimes </li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Anything You Want by Derek Sivers: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/anything-you-want-derek-sivers</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Derek’s lessons from building CD Baby, a company which he eventually sold for over $20M, and had 80+ employees at the time. A good read for those who want an alternative perspective on entrepreneurship, with some thinking along the lines of Seth Godin and David Heinemeier Hansson.   I thoroughly enjoyed it just as a reminder of all the options you have as an entrepreneur, and a reminder that you don’t have to fit any particular mold (especially not the VC-led one).  An easy, quick read - the only reason I rated it 6 is it wasn’t really life-changing…more of a reminder read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>What’s your compass?</strong></h5><ul><li>In the following stories, you’ll notice some common themes. These are my philosophies from the ten years I spent starting and growing a small business. </li><li>Business is not about money. It’s about making dreams come true for others and for yourself. </li><li>Making a company is a great way to improve the world while improving yourself. </li><li>When you make a company, you make a utopia. It’s where you design your perfect world. </li><li>Never do anything just for the money. </li><li>Don’t pursue business just for your own gain. Only answer the calls for help. </li><li>Success comes from persistently improving and inventing, not from persistently promoting what’s not working. </li><li>Your business plan is moot. You don’t know what people really want until you start doing it. </li><li>Starting with no money is an advantage. You don’t need money to start helping people. </li><li>You can’t please everyone, so proudly exclude people. </li><li>Make yourself unnecessary to the running of your business. </li><li>The real point of doing anything is to be happy, so do only what makes you happy </li></ul><h5><strong>A business model with only two numbers</strong></h5><ul><li>A business plan should never take more than a few hours of work—hopefully no more than a few minutes. The best plans start simple </li></ul><h5><strong>If it’s not a hit, switch</strong></h5><ul><li>So what’s the lesson learned here? </li><li>We’ve all heard about the importance of persistence. But I had misunderstood. Success comes from persistently improving and inventing, not from persistently doing what’s not working </li><li>We all have lots of ideas, creations, and projects. When you present one to the world and it’s not a hit, don’t keep pushing it as is. Instead, get back to improving and inventing </li></ul><h5><strong>No “yes.&quot; Either &quot;Hell yeah!&quot; or “no.&quot;</strong></h5><ul><li>You can use this same rule on yourself if you’re often overcommitted or too scattered. If you’re not saying, Hell yeah! about something, say no. When deciding whether to do something, if you feel anything less than Wow! That would be amazing! Absolutely! Hell yeah! then say no </li></ul><h5><strong>The advantage of no funding</strong></h5><ul><li>By not having any money to waste, you never waste money </li><li>Never forget that absolutely everything you do is for your customers </li><li>Make every decision—even decisions about whether to expand the business, raise money, or promote someone—according to what’s best for your customers </li><li>It’s counterintuitive, but the way to grow your business is to focus entirely on your existing customers. Just thrill them, and they’ll tell everyone </li></ul><h5><strong>Start now. No funding needed.</strong></h5><ul><li>Watch out when anyone (including you) says he wants to do something big, but can’t until he raises money. It usually means the person is more in love with the idea of being big-big-big than with actually doing something useful </li><li>Want to start a new airline? Next time you’re at the airport when a flight is canceled, tell everyone at the gate that you’ll lease a small plane to fly to their destination if they will split the costs. (This is how Richard Branson started Virgin Atlantic Airways.) </li><li>Starting small puts 100 percent of your energy into actually solving real problems for real people. It gives you a stronger foundation to grow from </li></ul><h5><strong>Ideas are just a multiplier of execution</strong></h5><ul><li>To me, ideas are worth nothing unless they are executed. They are just a multiplier. Execution is worth millions. </li></ul><h5><strong>The strength of many little customers</strong></h5><ul><li>Instead, imagine that you have designed your business to have no big clients, just lots of little clients. </li><li>You don’t need to change what you do to please one client; you need to please only the majority (or yourself). </li><li>If one client needs to leave, it’s OK; you can sincerely wish her well. </li><li>Because no one client can demand that you do what he says, you are your own boss (as long as you keep your clients happy in general). </li><li>You hear hundreds of people’s opinions and stay in touch with what the majority of your clients want </li></ul><h5><strong>Proudly exclude people</strong></h5><ul><li>You need to confidently exclude people, and proudly say what you’re not. By doing so, you will win the hearts of the people you want </li></ul><h5><strong>Why no advertising?</strong></h5><ul><li>When you’ve asked your customers what would improve your service, has anyone said, &quot;Please fill your website with more advertising&quot;? </li><li>Nope. So don’t do it. </li></ul><h5><strong>You don’t need a plan or a vision</strong></h5><ul><li>So please don’t think you need a huge vision. Just stay focused on helping people today. </li></ul><h5><strong>“I miss the mob.&quot;</strong></h5><ul><li>Never forget why you’re really doing what you’re doing. Are you helping people? Are they happy? Are you happy? Are you profitable? Isn’t that enough? </li></ul><h5><strong>Act like you don’t need the money</strong></h5><ul><li>It’s another Tao of business: Set up your business like you don’t need the money, and it’ll likely come your way. </li></ul><h5><strong>The most successful email I ever wrote</strong></h5><ul><li>But please know that it’s often the tiny details that really thrill people enough to make them tell all their friends about you. </li></ul><h5><strong>Little things make all the difference</strong></h5><ul><li>Over ten years, it seemed like every time someone raved about how much he loved CD Baby, it was because of one of these little fun human touches. </li></ul><h5><strong>It’s about being, not having</strong></h5><ul><li>Being, not having: </li><li>When you want to learn how to do something yourself, most people won’t understand </li><li>But that’s forgetting about the joy of learning and doing. Yes, it may take longer. Yes, it may be inefficient. Yes, it may even cost you millions of dollars in lost opportunities because your business is growing slower because you’re insisting on doing something yourself. But the whole point of doing anything is because it makes you happy! That’s it! </li><li>In the end, it’s about what you want to be, not what you want to have. To have something (a finished recording, a business, or millions of dollars) is the means, not the end. To be something (a good singer, a skilled entrepreneur, or just plain happy) is the real point. </li></ul><h5><strong>Trust, but verify</strong></h5><ul><li>I learned a hard lesson in hindsight: Trust, but verify. </li><li>Remember it when delegating. You have to do both. </li></ul><h5><strong>Delegate, but don’t abdicate</strong></h5><ul><li>Lesson learned too late: Delegate, but don’t abdicate. </li></ul><h5><strong>You make your perfect world</strong></h5><ul><li>Just pay close attention to what excites you and what drains you. Pay close attention to when you’re being the real you and when you’re trying to impress an invisible jury. </li><li>Whatever you make, it’s your creation, so make it your personal dream come true. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/cant-hurt-me-david-goggins</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[I consider this more of a biography than a tactical non-fiction book, though there are challenges to complete at the end of each chapter.  Would recommend reading more for entertainment and motivation than tactics.  Read Atomic Habits for more practical advice on forming habits that last.Goggins’ story is crazy - his physical achievements, especially in light of his childhood and starting point (very overweight) - are incredible.  It’s an interesting book, and shows what is possible for human achievement if you’re driven enough.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>Challenge #1 </h4><ul><li>Break out your journal and write down all of the following: </li><li>The current factors limiting your growth </li><li>The long odds you’re up against </li><li>The things you’ve been hurt by </li><li>The things that have caused you pain </li><li>You will use this list to fuel your ultimate success. </li><li>Once you have the list, share it with whoever you want, or acknowledge and accept it privately. </li><li>This should be difficult, but ultimately it will empower you to overcome. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #2 </h4><ul><li>Write all your insecurities, dreams and goals on Post-Its and tag up your mirror with them. </li><li>Be brutally honest - if you need more education, remind yourself you need to start working your ass off because you aren’t smart enough! </li><li>Whether it’s a career goal, a lifestyle goal, or an athletic one, you need to be truthful with yourself about where you are and the necessary steps it will take to achieve those goals, day by day. </li><li>Each step should be written as its own note. That means you have to do some research and break it all down. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #3 </h4><ul><li>Dig out your journal, write down all the things that you don’t like to do or that make you uncomfortable. Especially those things that you know are good for you. </li><li>Now go do one of them, and do it again. </li><li>Doing things - even small things - that make you uncomfortable will help make you strong. The more often you get uncomfortable the stronger you’ll become. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #4 </h4><ul><li>Choose any competitive situation that you’re in right now. Who is your opponent? Is it your teacher or coach, your boss, an unruly client? </li><li>No matter how they’re treating you there is one way to not only earn their respect, but turn the tables: Excellence. </li><li>Whatever it is, I want you to work harder on that than you ever have before. Do everything exactly as they ask, and whatever standard they set as an ideal outcome, you should be aiming to surpass that. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #5 </h4><ul><li>Time to visualize! Rather than focusing on bullshit you cannot change, imagine visualizing the things you can. </li><li>Choose any obstacle in your way, or set a new goal, and visualize overcoming or achieving it. </li><li>Make sure to visualize the challenges that are likely to arise and determine how you will attack those problems when they do. </li><li>This also means being prepared to answer the simple questions. Why are you doing this? What is driving you towards this achievement? Where does the darkness you’re using for fuel come from? What has calloused your mind? </li><li>Don’t forget that visualization is just the first step. You must put in work and accomplish these things. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #6 </h4><ul><li>Take inventory of your Cookie Jar. </li><li>Crack open your journal and write out all your achievements, including life obstacles you’ve overcome like quitting smoking or overcoming depression or a stutter. </li><li>Add in those minor tasks you failed earlier in life, but tried again a second or third time, and ultimately succeeded at. </li><li>Feel what it was like to overcome those struggles, those opponents, and win. Then get to work. </li><li>Set ambitious goals before each workout and let those victories carry you to new personal bests. </li><li>When the pain hits and tries to stop you short of your goal, dunk your fist in, pull out a cookie, and let it fuel you! </li></ul><h4>Chapter 7 - The Most Powerful Weapon</h4><ul><li>Sadly, most of us give up when we’ve only given around 40 percent of our maximum effort. Even when we feel like we’ve reached our absolute limit, we still have 60 percent more to give! That’s the governor in action.</li><li>The 40% Rule can be applied to everything we do.</li><li>But nobody taps their reserve 60 percent right away or all at once. The first step is to remember that your initial blast of pain and fatigue is your governor talking.</li><li>That’s why the line “fatigue makes cowards of us all” is true as shit.</li><li>That’s one reason I invented the Cookie Jar. We must create a system that constantly reminds us who the fuck we are when we are at our best, because life is not going to pick us up when we fall.</li><li>We know life can be hard, and yet we feel sorry for ourselves when it isn’t fair. From this point forward, accept the following as Goggins’ laws of nature: </li><li>You will be made fun of. </li><li>You will feel insecure. </li><li>You may not be the best all the time. </li><li>You may be the only black, white, Asian, Latino, female, male, gay, lesbian or [fill in your identity here] in a given situation. </li><li>There will be times when you feel alone. </li><li>Get over it! </li><li>Our minds are fucking strong, they are our most powerful weapon, but we have stopped using them. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #7 </h4><ul><li>The main objective here is to slowly start to remove the governor from your brain. </li><li>Whether you are running on a treadmill or doing a set of pushups, get to the point where you are so tired and in pain that your mind is begging you to stop. Then push just 5 to 10 percent further. </li><li>This gradual ramp-up will help prevent injury and allow your body and mind to slowly adapt to your new workload. </li><li>It also resets your baseline, which is important because you’re going to increase your workload another 5 to 10 percent the following week, and the week after that. </li><li>The newfound mental strength and confidence you gain by continuing to push yourself physically will carry over to other aspects in your life. </li><li>The bottom line is that life is one big mind game. The only person you are playing against is yourself. </li></ul><h4>Chapter 8 </h4><ul><li>Our culture has become hooked on the quick-fix, the life hack, efficiency. Everyone is on the hunt for that simple action algorithm that nets maximum profit with the least amount of effort. There’s no denying this attitude may get you some of the trappings of success, if you’re lucky, but it will not lead to a calloused mind or self-mastery. </li><li>If you want to master the mind and remove your governor, you’ll have to become addicted to hard work. Because passion and obsession, even talent, are only useful tools if you have the work ethic to back them up.</li><li>My work ethic is the single most important factor in all of my accomplishments. Everything else is secondary, and when it comes to hard work, whether in the gym or on the job, The 40% Rule applies. To me, a forty-hour work week is a 40 percent effort.</li><li>There are 168 hours in a week! That means you have the hours to put in that extra time at work without skimping on your exercise. It means streamlining your nutrition, spending quality time with your wife and kids. It means scheduling your life like you’re on a twenty-four-hour mission every single day. </li><li>Perhaps you aren’t looking to get fit, but have been dreaming of starting a business of your own, or have always wanted to learn a language or an instrument you’re obsessed with. Fine, the same rule applies. Analyze your schedule, kill your empty habits, burn out the bullshit, and see what’s left. Is it one hour per day? Three? Now maximize that shit. That means listing your prioritized tasks every hour of the day. You can even narrow it down to fifteen-minute windows, and don’t forget to include backstops in your day-to-day schedule. </li><li>If you audit your life, skip the bullshit, and use backstops, you’ll find time to do everything you need and want to do. But remember that you also need rest, so schedule that in. Listen to your body, sneak in those ten- to twenty-minute power naps when necessary, and take one full rest day per week. If it’s a rest day, truly allow your mind and body to relax. Turn your phone off. Keep the computer shut down. A rest day means you should be relaxed, hanging with friends or family, and eating and drinking well, so you can recharge and get back at it. It’s not a day to lose yourself in technology or stay hunched at your desk in the form of a damn question mark. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #8 </h4><ul><li>Schedule it in! </li><li>This is a three-week challenge. </li><li>In week one, go about your normal schedule, but take notes. When do you work? Are you working nonstop or checking your phone (use Moment app)? How long are your meal breaks? When do you exercise, watch TV, or chat to friends? How long is your commute? Are you driving? Get super detailed and document it all with timestamps. This will be your baseline. </li><li>Most people waste four to five hours in a given day, and if you can learn to identify and utilize it, you’ll be on your way toward increased productivity. </li><li>In week two, build an optimal schedule. Lock everything into place in 15- to 30-minute blocks. Some tasks will take multiple blocks or entire days. Fine. When you work, only work on one thing at a time, think about the task in front of your and pursue it relentlessly. When it comes time for the next task on your schedule, place that first one aside, and apply the same focus. </li><li>Make sure your meal breaks are adequate but not open-ended, and schedule in exercise and rest too. But when it’s time to rest, actually rest. No checking email or bullshitting on social media. </li><li>Make notes with timestamps in week two. You may still find some residual dead space. By week three, you should have a working schedule that maximizes your effort without sacrificing sleep. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #9 </h4><ul><li>If you truly want to become uncommon amongst the uncommon, it will require sustaining greatness for a long period of time. </li><li>It requires staying in constant pursuit and putting out unending effort. This may sound appealing but will require everything you have to give and then some. Believe me, this is not for everyone because it will demand singular focus and may upset the balance in your life. </li><li>That’s what it takes to become a true overachiever, and if you are already surrounded by people who are at the top of their game, what are you going to do differently to stand out? </li><li>Torch the complacency you feel gathering around you, your coworkers, and teammates in that rare air. Continue to put obstacles in front of yourself, because that’s where you’ll find the friction that will help you grow even stronger. Before you know it, you will stand alone. </li></ul><h4>Challenge #10 </h4><ul><li>Think about your most recent and your most heart-wrenching failures. Break out the journal. You’re going to write your own belated After-Action Report (AAR). </li><li>First off, write out all the good things, everything that went well, from your failures. Be detailed and generous with yourself. A lot of good things will have happened. It’s rarely all bad. </li><li>Then note how you handled your failure. Did it affect your life and relationships? How so? </li><li>How did you think throughout the preparation for and during the execution stage of your failure? You have to know how you were thinking at each step because it’s all about mindset, and that’s where most people fall short. </li><li>Now go back through and make a list of things you can fix. This isn’t time to be soft or generous. Be brutally honest, write them all out. Study them. </li><li>Then look at your calendar and schedule another attempt as soon as possible. If failure happened in childhood, and you can’t create the Little League all-star game you choked in, I still want you to write that report because you’ll likely be able to use that information to achieve any goal going forward. </li><li>As you prepare, keep that AAR handy, consult your Accountability Mirror, and make all necessary adjustments. When it comes time to execute, keep everything we’ve learned about the power of a calloused mind, the Cookie Jar, and The 40% Rule in the forefront of your mind. Control your mindset. Dominate your thought process. This life is all a fucking mind game. Realize that. Own it! </li><li>And if you fail again, so the fuck be it. Take the pain. Repeat these steps and keep fighting. That’s what it’s all about. </li></ul><h4>Chapter 11 </h4><ul><li>Whatever failures and accomplishments pile up in the years to come, and there will be plenty of both I’m sure, I know I’ll continue to give it my all and set goals that seem impossible to most. And when those motherfuckers say so, I’ll look them dead in the eye and respond with one simple question: </li><li><em>What if?</em></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan: Summary & Notes]]></title>
            <link>https://grahammann.net/book-notes/how-to-change-your-mind-michael-pollan</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A fascinating overview of the use and study of psychedelics.  Pollan covers everything from the LSD boom and research in the 50s and 60s, to anecdotal accounts of his own trials of psychedelics, to the neuroscience and current studies surrounding the drugs. Great writing as usual from Pollan, and certainly an interesting subject.  It’s no secret that use of psychedelics has become more prominent in areas like tech circles and personal performance with the rise of things like micro-dosing.  This is the most comprehensive overview on the subject I’ve read.  For more information, check out some of the Tim Ferriss Podcast episodes with people like Peter Attia, Stan Grof, Paul Stamets and Hamilton Morris.  You can also check out the TV show Hamilton’s Pharmacopeia.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4>Chapter One - A Renaissance</h4><ul><li>Grof began teaching instead something called holotropic breathwork, a technique for inducing a psychedelic state of consciousness without drugs, by means of deep, rapid, and rhythmic breathing, usually accompanied by loud drumming. </li><li>Descriptions of such experiences always sound a little thin, at least when compared with the emotional impact people are trying to convey; for a life-transforming event, the words can seem paltry. When I mentioned this to Richards, he smiled. You have to imagine a caveman transported into the middle of Manhattan. He sees buses, cell phones, skyscrapers, airplanes. Then zap him back to his cave. What does he say about the experience? ‘It was big, it was impressive, it was loud.’ He doesn’t have the vocabulary for ‘skyscraper,’ ‘elevator,’ ‘cell phone.’ Maybe he has an intuitive sense there was some sort of significance or order to the scene. But there are words we need that don’t yet exist. We’ve got five crayons when we need fifty thousand different shades. </li><li><strong>Rather than attempt to define something as difficult to grab hold of as a mystical experience, James offers four marks by which we may recognize one.</strong> The first and, to his mind, handiest is <strong>ineffability</strong> (inability for current vocabulary to properly describe the experience)<strong>.</strong></li><li>The <strong>noetic quality</strong> is James’s second mark: &quot;Mystical states seem to those who experience them to be also states of knowledge . . . They are illuminations, revelations full of significance and importance . . . and as a rule they carry with them a curious sense of authority.&quot; </li><li>For every volunteer I’ve interviewed, the experience yielded many more answers than questions, and—curiously for what is after all a drug experience—these answers had about them a remarkable sturdiness and durability. </li><li>What was the philosophy professor’s compelling insight? </li><li>&quot;Love conquers all.&quot; </li><li>The mystical journey seems to offer a graduate education in the obvious. Yet people come out of the experience understanding these platitudes in a new way; what was merely known is now felt, takes on the authority of a deeply rooted conviction. And, more often than not, that conviction concerns the supreme importance of love. </li><li>This last point James alludes to in his discussion of the third mark of mystical consciousness, which is <strong>transiency</strong>. For although the mystical state cannot be sustained for long, its traces persist and recur, and from one recurrence to another it is susceptible of continuous development in what is felt as inner richness and importance. </li><li>The fourth and last mark in James’s typology is the <strong>essential passivity</strong> of the mystical experience. The mystic feels as if his own will were in abeyance, and indeed sometimes as if he were grasped and held by a superior power. This sense of having temporarily surrendered to a superior force often leaves the person feeling as if he or she has been permanently transformed. </li><li>For most of the Hopkins volunteers I interviewed, their psilocybin journeys had taken place ten or fifteen years earlier, and yet their effects were still keenly felt, in some cases on a daily basis </li></ul><h4>Chapter Two - Natural History </h4><h5>Bemushroomed </h5><ul><li>Paul Stamets, a mycologist from Washington State who literally wrote the book on the genus Psilocybe,* in the form of the authoritative 1996 field guide <em>Psilocybin Mushrooms of the World.</em></li></ul><h4>Chapter 3 - History </h4><h5>The First Wave </h5><ul><li>So, for example, if you have ever read Aldous Huxley’s <em>Doors of Perception</em>, which was published in 1954, your own psychedelic experience has probably been influenced by the author’s mysticism and, specifically, the mysticism of the East to which Huxley was inclined. </li></ul><h5>Part I: The Promise </h5><h5>Part II: The Crack-Up </h5><ul><li>It’s often said that <strong>a political scandal is what happens when someone in power inadvertently speaks the truth.</strong></li></ul><h4>Chapter Four - Travelogue </h4><h5>Journeying Underground </h5><h5>Trip One: LSD </h5><ul><li>For some people, the privilege of having had a mystical experience tends to massively inflate the ego, convincing them they’ve been granted sole possession of a key to the universe. This is an excellent recipe for creating a guru. The certitude and condescension for mere mortals that usually come with that key can render these people insufferable. </li><li>I asked him how he could be sure of the purity and quality of the medicines he uses, since they come from chemists working illicitly. Whenever he receives a new shipment, he explained, I first test it for purity, and then I take a heroic dose to see how it feels before I give it to anyone. </li><li>Is a platitude so deeply felt still just a platitude? No, I decided. A platitude is precisely what is left of a truth after it has been drained of all emotion. To resaturate that dried husk with feeling is to see it again for what it is: the loveliest and most deeply rooted of truths, hidden in plain sight. </li></ul><h5>Trip Two: Psilocybin </h5><ul><li>Loaded on my laptop was a brief video of a rotating face mask, used in a psychological test called the binocular depth inversion illusion. As the mask rotates in space, its convex side turning to reveal its concave back, something remarkable happens: the hollow mask appears to pop out to become convex again. This is a trick performed by the mind, which assumes all faces to be convex, and so automatically corrects for the seeming error—unless, as a neuroscientist had told me, one was under the influence of a psychedelic.</li><li>These so-called Bayesian inferences (named for Thomas Bayes, the eighteenth-century English philosopher who developed the mathematics of probability, on which these mental predictions are based) serve us well most of the time, speeding perception while saving effort and energy, but they can also trap us in literally preconceived images of reality that are simply false, as in the case of the rotating mask.</li><li>Yet it turns out that Bayesian inference breaks down in some people: schizophrenics and, according to some neuroscientists, people on high doses of psychedelics drugs, neither of whom “see” in this predictive or conventionalized manner. (Nor do young children, who have yet to build the sort of database necessary for confident predictions.) This raises an interesting question: Is it possible that the perceptions of schizophrenics, people tripping on psychedelics, and young children are, at least in certain instances, more accurate—less influenced by expectation and therefore more faithful to reality—than those of sane and sober adults? </li><li><strong>The sovereign ego, with all its armaments and fears, its backward-looking resentments and forward-looking worries, was simply no more, and there was no one left to mourn its passing.</strong> Yet something had succeeded it: this bare disembodied awareness, which gazed upon the scene of the self’s dissolution with benign indifference. I was present to reality but as something other than my self. And although there was no self left to feel, exactly, there was a feeling tone, which was calm, unburdened, content. There was life after the death of the ego. This was big news.</li><li>When I think back on this part of the experience, I’ve occasionally wondered if this enduring awareness might have been the “Mind at Large” that Aldous Huxley described during his mescaline trip in 1953. </li><li>Nothing in my experience led me to believe this novel form of consciousness originated outside me; it seems just as plausible, and surely more parsimonious, to assume it was a product of my brain, just like the ego it supplanted. <strong>Yet this by itself strikes me as a remarkable gift: that we can let go of so much—the desires, fears, and defenses of a lifetime!—without suffering complete annihilation</strong>. This might not come as a surprise to Buddhists, transcendentalists, or experienced meditators, but it was sure news to me, who has never felt anything but identical to my ego. Could it be there is another ground on which to plant our feet? For the first time since embarking on this project, I began to understand what the volunteers in the cancer-anxiety trials had been trying to tell me: how it was that a psychedelic journey had granted them a perspective from which the very worst life can throw at us, up to and including death, could be regarded objectively and accepted with equanimity. </li><li>I’ve left out one important part of my journey to the underworld: the soundtrack. Before going back under for this last passage, I had asked Mary to please stop playing spa music and put on something classical. We settled on the second of Bach’s unaccompanied cello suites, performed by Yo-Yo Ma. The suite in D minor is a spare and mournful piece that I’d heard many times before, often at funerals, but until this moment I had never truly listened to it.</li><li>Though “listen” doesn’t begin to describe what transpired between me and the vibrations of air set in motion by the four strings of that cello. Never before has a piece of music pierced me as deeply as this one did now. Though even to call it “music” is to diminish what now began to flow, which was nothing less than the stream of human consciousness, something in which one might glean the very meaning of life and, if you could bear it, read life’s last chapter. </li><li>Four hours and four grams of magic mushroom into the journey, this is where I lost whatever ability I still had to distinguish subject from object, tell apart what remained of me and what was Bach’s music. Instead of Emerson’s transparent eyeball, egoless and one with all it beheld, I became a transparent ear, indistinguishable from the stream of sound that flooded my consciousness until there was nothing else in it, not even a dry tiny corner in which to plant an I and observe. Opened to the music, I became first the strings, could feel on my skin the exquisite friction of the horsehair rubbing over me, and then the breeze of sound flowing past as it crossed the lips of the instrument and went out to meet the world, beginning its lonely transit of the universe. Then I passed down into the resonant black well of space inside the cello, the vibrating envelope of air formed by the curves of its spruce roof and maple walls. The instrument’s wooden interior formed a mouth capable of unparalleled eloquence—indeed, of articulating everything a human could conceive. But the cello’s interior also formed a room to write in and a skull in which to think and I was now it, with no remainder.</li><li>It is, I think, precisely this perspective that had allowed so many of the volunteers I interviewed to overcome their fears and anxieties, and in the case of the smokers, their addictions. <strong>Temporarily freed from the tyranny of the ego, with its maddeningly reflexive reactions and its pinched conception of one’s self-interest, we get to experience an extreme version of Keats’s “negative capability”—the ability to exist amid doubts and mysteries without reflexively reaching for certainty.</strong> To cultivate this mode of consciousness, with its exceptional degree of selflessness (literally!), requires us to transcend our subjectivity or—it comes to the same thing—widen its circle so far that it takes in, besides ourselves, other people and, beyond that, all of nature. Now I understood how a psychedelic could help us to make precisely that move, from the first-person singular to the plural and beyond. Under its influence, a sense of our interconnectedness—that platitude—is felt, becomes flesh. Though this perspective is not something a chemical can sustain for more than a few hours, those hours can give us an opportunity to see how it might go. And perhaps to practice being there.</li></ul><h5>Trip Three: 5-MeO-DMT (or, The Toad) </h5><ul><li><strong>When Huxley speaks of the mind’s reducing valve—the faculty that eliminates as much of the world from our conscious awareness as it lets in—he is talking about the ego</strong>. That stingy, vigilant security guard admits only the narrowest bandwidth of reality, a measly trickle of the kind of consciousness which will help us to stay alive. It’s really good at performing all those activities that natural selection values: getting ahead, getting liked and loved, getting fed, getting laid. Keeping us on task, it is a ferocious editor of anything that might distract us from the work at hand, whether that means regulating our access to memories and strong emotions from within or news of the world without. </li><li>What of the world it does admit it tends to objectify, for the ego wants to reserve the gifts of subjectivity to itself. </li></ul><p><strong>Graham: key concept: the ego.</strong></p><ul><li>Full of “backward-looking resentments” and “forward-looking fears”. </li><li>“Maddeningly reflexible reactions” and “pinched conception of one’s self-interest”. </li><li>The ego puts the self first, thinking less of our interconnectedness, others, and nature. </li><li>It also forms the mental framework that creates our expectations for ourselves, for others, for our relationships; for how we experience the world. </li><li>Freeing ourselves from our egos allows us to observe things much more clearly, or at least in a different light, with a different perspective. </li></ul><h4>Chapter Five - The Neuroscience </h4><h5>Your Brain on Psychedelics </h5><ul><li>The achievement of an individual self, a being with a unique past and a trajectory into the future, is one of the glories of human evolution, but it is not without its drawbacks and potential disorders. The price of the sense of an individual identity is a sense of separation from others and nature. Self-reflection can lead to great intellectual and artistic achievement but also to destructive forms of self-regard and many types of unhappiness. (In an often-cited paper titled A Wandering Mind Is an Unhappy Mind, psychologists identified a strong correlation between unhappiness and time spent in mind wandering, a principal activity of the default mode network.) </li><li>The more precipitous the drop-off in blood flow and oxygen consumption in the default network, the more likely a volunteer was to report the loss of a sense of self.* </li><li><strong>The mystical experience may just be what it feels like when you deactivate the brain’s default mode network. This can be achieved any number of ways: through psychedelics and meditation, as Robin Carhart-Harris and Judson Brewer have demonstrated, but perhaps also by means of certain breathing exercises (like holotropic breathwork), sensory deprivation, fasting, prayer, overwhelming experiences of awe, extreme sports, near-death experiences, and so on.</strong></li><li>Indeed, that feeling of transparency we associate with ordinary consciousness may owe more to familiarity and habit than it does to verisimilitude. As a psychonaut acquaintance put it to me, <strong>If it were possible to temporarily experience another person’s mental state, my guess is that it would feel more like a psychedelic state than a ‘normal’ state, because of its massive disparity with whatever mental state is habitual with you.</strong></li><li>His team at Imperial College has tested volunteers on a standard psychological scale that measures nature relatedness (respondents rate their agreement with statements like I am not separate from nature, but a part of nature). A psychedelic experience elevated people’s scores. </li><li>Synesthesia: when sense information gets cross-wired so that colors become sounds or sounds become tactile. </li><li>In teaching computers how to learn and solve problems, AI designers speak in terms of high temperature and low temperature searches for the answers to questions. A low-temperature search (so-called because it requires less energy) involves reaching for the most probable or nearest-to-hand answer, like the one that worked for a similar problem in the past. Low-temperature searches succeed more often than not. <strong>A high-temperature search requires more energy because it involves reaching for less likely but possibly more ingenious and creative answers</strong>—those found outside the box of preconception. Drawing on its wealth of experience, the adult mind performs low-temperature searches most of the time. </li><li><strong>Gopnik believes that both the young child (five and under) and the adult on a psychedelic have a stronger predilection for the high-temperature search</strong>; in their quest to make sense of things, their minds explore not just the nearby and most likely but the entire space of possibilities. These high-temperature searches might be inefficient, incurring a higher rate of error and requiring more time and mental energy to perform. High-temperature searches can yield answers that are more magical than realistic. Yet there are times when hot searches are the only way to solve a problem, and occasionally they return answers of surpassing beauty and originality. E=mc2 was the product of a high-temperature search. </li><li>Their thinking is less constrained by experience, so they will try even the most unlikely possibilities; that is, they’ll conduct lots of high-temperature searches, testing the most far-out hypotheses. Children are better learners than adults in many cases when the solutions are nonobvious or, as she puts it, further out in the space of possibilities, a realm where they are more at home than we are. Far out, indeed. </li><li>For the well, psychedelics, by introducing more noise or entropy into the brain, might shake people out of their usual patterns of thought—lubricate cognition, in Carhart-Harris’s words—in ways that might enhance well-being, make us more open and boost creativity. </li><li>In Gopnik’s terms, <strong>the drugs could help adults achieve the kind of fluid thinking that is second nature to kids, expanding the space of creative possibility</strong>. If, as Gopnik hypothesizes, childhood is a way of injecting noise—and novelty—into the system of cultural evolution, psychedelics might do the same thing for the system of the adult mind. </li><li>As for the unwell, the patients who stand to gain the most are probably those suffering from the kinds of mental disorders characterized by mental rigidity: addiction, depression, obsession. </li><li>The experience could work as a kind of reset—as when you introduce a burst of noise into a system that has gotten locked into a rigid pattern. </li><li>Quieting the default mode network and loosening the grip of the ego—which she suggests may be illusory anyway—might also be helpful to such people. </li></ul><h4>Chapter Six - The Trip Treatment </h4><h5>Psychedelics in Psychotherapy </h5><h5>One: Dying </h5><ul><li>In preparation, the two shared with Patrick the set of &quot;flight instructions&quot; written by the Hopkins researcher Bill Richards. </li><li>Bossis suggested that Patrick use the phrase &quot;Trust and let go&quot; as a kind of mantra for his journey. Go wherever it takes you, he advised: &quot;Climb staircases, open doors, explore paths, fly over landscapes.&quot; But the most important advice for the journey he offered is always to move toward, rather than try to flee, anything truly threatening or monstrous you encounter—look it straight in the eyes. &quot;Dig in your heels and ask, ‘What are you doing in my mind?’ Or, ‘What can I learn from you?’&quot; </li><li>In fact, the evidence for the existence of consciousness is much like the evidence for the reality of the mystical experience: we believe it exists not because science can independently verify it but because a great many people have been convinced of its reality; here, too, all we have to go on is the phenomenology. </li><li><strong>In both the NYU and the Hopkins trials, some 80 percent of cancer patients showed clinically significant reductions in standard measures of anxiety and depression, an effect that endured for at least six months after their psilocybin session</strong>. In both trials, the intensity of the mystical experience volunteers reported closely correlated with the degree to which their symptoms subsided. <strong>Few if any psychiatric interventions of any kind have demonstrated such dramatic and sustained results.</strong></li><li>By temporarily disabling the ego, psilocybin seems to open a new field of psychological possibility, symbolized by the death and rebirth reported by many of the patients I interviewed. At first, the falling away of the self feels threatening, but if one can let go and surrender, powerful and usually positive emotions flow in—along with formerly inaccessible memories and sense impressions and meanings. No longer defended by the ego, the gate between self and other—Huxley’s reducing valve—is thrown wide open. And what comes through that opening for many people, in a great flood, is love. Love for specific individuals, yes, but also, as Patrick Mettes came to feel (to know!), love for everyone and everything—love as the meaning and purpose of life, the key to the universe, and the ultimate truth. </li><li>Bertrand Russell wrote that the best way to overcome one’s fear of death &quot;is to make your interests gradually wider and more impersonal, until bit by bit the walls of the ego recede, and your life becomes increasingly merged in the universal life.&quot; He goes on: </li><li>An individual human existence should be like a river: small at first, narrowly contained within its banks, and rushing passionately past rocks and over waterfalls. Gradually, the river grows wider, the banks recede, the waters flow more quietly, and in the end, without any visible break, they become merged in the sea, and painlessly lose their individual being. </li></ul><h5>Two: Addiction </h5><ul><li>The study was tiny and not randomized, but the results were nevertheless striking, especially when you consider that smoking is one of the most difficult addictions to break—harder, some say, than heroin. <strong>Six months after their psychedelic sessions, 80 percent of the volunteers were confirmed as abstinent; at the one-year mark, that figure had fallen to 67 percent, which is still a better rate of success than the best treatment now available.</strong> (A much larger randomized study, comparing the effectiveness of psilocybin therapy with the nicotine patch, is currently under way.) As in the cancer-anxiety studies, the volunteers who had the most complete mystical experiences had the best outcomes; they were, like Charles Bessant, able to quit smoking. </li><li>The key, in his view, is their power to occasion a sufficiently dramatic experience to &quot;dope-slap people out of their story. It’s literally a reboot of the system—a biological control-alt-delete. <strong>Psychedelics open a window of mental flexibility in which people can let go of the mental models we use to organize reality.&quot;</strong></li><li>In his view, the most important such model is the self, or ego, which a high-dose psychedelic experience temporarily dissolves. He speaks of &quot;our addiction to a pattern of thinking with the self at the center of it.&quot; </li><li><strong>&quot;So much of human suffering stems from having this self that needs to be psychologically defended at all costs. We’re trapped in a story that sees ourselves as independent, isolated agents acting in the world. But that self is an illusion. It can be a useful illusion, when you’re swinging through the trees or escaping from a cheetah or trying to do your taxes. But at the systems level, there is no truth to it.</strong> You can take any number of more accurate perspectives: that we’re a swarm of genes, vehicles for passing on DNA; that we’re social creatures through and through, unable to survive alone; that we’re organisms in an ecosystem, linked together on this planet floating in the middle of nowhere. Wherever you look, you see that the level of interconnectedness is truly amazing, and yet we insist on thinking of ourselves as individual agents.&quot; Albert Einstein called the modern human’s sense of separateness &quot;a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness.”* </li><li>Dying, depression, obsession, eating disorders—all are exacerbated by the tyranny of an ego and the fixed narratives it constructs about our relationship to the world. </li><li>Now comes a class of chemicals that may have the power to change how we experience our personal history and environment, no matter how impoverished or painful they may be. &quot;Do you see the world as a prison or a playground?&quot; is the key question Matt Johnson takes away from the rat park experiment. </li><li>If addiction represents a radical narrowing of one’s perspective and behavior and emotional repertoire, the psychedelic journey has the potential to reverse that constriction, open people up to the possibility of change by disrupting and enriching their interior environment. </li><li>An experience of awe appears to be an excellent antidote for egotism. </li><li>As Keltner has written, the overwhelming force and the mystery of awe are such that the experience can’t readily be interpreted according to our accustomed frames of thought. By rocking those conceptual frameworks, awe has the power to change our minds. </li></ul><h5>Three: Depression </h5><ul><li>Watts’s interviews uncovered two “master&quot; themes. </li><li>The first was that the volunteers depicted their depression foremost as a state of “disconnection,&quot; whether from other people, their earlier selves, their senses and feelings, their core beliefs and spiritual values, or nature. Several referred to living in &quot;a mental prison,&quot; others to being stuck in endless circles of rumination they likened to mental “gridlock.&quot; I was reminded of Carhart-Harris’s hypothesis that depression might be the result of an overactive default mode network—the site in the brain where rumination appears to take place. </li><li>The Imperial depressives also felt disconnected from their senses. I would look at orchids, one told Watts, and intellectually understand that there was beauty, but not experience it. </li><li>The second master theme was a new access to difficult emotions, emotions that depression often blunts or closes down completely. Watts hypothesizes that the depressed patient’s incessant rumination constricts his or her emotional repertoire. In other cases, the depressive keeps emotions at bay because it is too painful to experience them. </li><li>Robin Carhart-Harris’s theory of the entropic brain represents a promising elaboration on this general idea, and a first stab at a unified theory of mental illness that helps explain all three of the disorders we’ve examined in these pages. </li><li><strong>A happy brain is a supple and flexible brain, he believes</strong>; depression, anxiety, obsession, and the cravings of addiction are how it feels to have a brain that has become excessively rigid or fixed in its pathways and linkages—a brain with more order than is good for it. </li><li><strong>The therapeutic value of psychedelics, in Carhart-Harris’s view, lies in their ability to temporarily elevate entropy in the inflexible brain, jolting the system out of its default patterns.</strong></li><li>The default mode network appears to be the seat not only of the ego, or self, but of the mental faculty of time travel as well. The two are of course closely related: without the ability to remember our past and imagine a future, the notion of a coherent self could hardly be said to exist; we define ourselves with reference to our personal history and future objectives. </li><li>The usual antonym for the word spiritual is material. That at least is what I believed when I began this inquiry—that the whole issue with spirituality turned on a question of metaphysics. Now I’m inclined to think a much better and certainly more useful antonym for spiritual might be egotistical. </li><li>When the ego dissolves, so does a bounded conception not only of our self but of our self-interest. What emerges in its place is invariably a broader, more openhearted and altruistic—that is, more spiritual—idea of what matters in life. One in which a new sense of connection, or love, however defined, seems to figure prominently. </li><li>Buddhists believe that attachment is at the root of all forms of mental suffering; if the neuroscience is right, a lot of these attachments have their mooring in the PCC, where they are nurtured and sustained. </li><li>Brewer thinks that by diminishing its activity, whether by means of meditation or psychedelics, we can learn to be with our thoughts and cravings without getting caught up in them. Achieving such a detachment from our thoughts, feelings, and desires is what Buddhism (along with several other wisdom traditions) teaches is the surest path out of human suffering. </li></ul><h4>Epilogue: In Praise of Neural Diversity </h4><ul><li>For me, the psychedelic experience opened a door to a specific mode of consciousness that I can now occasionally recapture in meditation. I’m speaking of a certain cognitive space that opens up late in a trip or in the midst of a mild one, a space where you can entertain all sorts of thoughts and scenarios without reaching for any kind of resolution. </li><li>Just because the psychedelic journey takes place entirely in one’s mind doesn’t mean it isn’t real. It is an experience and, for some of us, one of the most profound a person can have. As such, it takes its place as a feature in the landscape of a life. It can serve as a reference point, a guidepost, a wellspring, and, for some, a kind of spiritual sign or shrine. </li></ul><h4>Glossary </h4><ul><li><strong>Noetic quality:</strong> A term introduced by William James, an American psychologist, to denote the fact that <strong>the mystical state registers not only as a feeling but as a state of knowledge.</strong></li><li>People emerge with the enduring conviction that important truths have been revealed to them. </li><li>The noetic quality was, for James, one of the four marks of the mystical experience, along with ineffability, transiency, and passivity. </li><li>For crucial research assistance along the way, as well as their indispensable online library, I’m deeply grateful to Earth and Fire, the proprietors of Erowid, which is the single most important resource on psychedelics there is. Check it out. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Indistractable by Nir Eyal: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2020 03:44:15 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A book about how to reduce the impact of distractions throughout your life, with tactical advice on reducing the impact of your phone, how to better focus at work, how to raise ‘indistractable’ children, and more. The book has a wide scope, covering a combination of habit advice and reducing the impact of devices in our lives.  Unfortunately, I think this is to the detriment of depth and clarity on each subject, and I didn’t find much new content. Similar to Digital Minimalism, I’m not sure this warranted a full book. Skim this and Digital Minimalism for the tactical advice. Read Atomic Habits for building lasting habits.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Introduction</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Chapter 1</strong>: Living the life you want requires not only doing the right things but also avoiding doing the wrong things. </li><li>The problem is deeper than tech, and the solution isn’t about being a Luddite. </li><li><strong>Chapter 2</strong>: Traction moves you toward what you really want while distraction moves you further away. Being indistractable means striving to do what you say you will do. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 1: Master Internal Trigger</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Chapter 3</strong>: Motivation is a desire to escape discomfort. Find the root causes of distraction rather than proximate ones. Distractions are a result of us seeking to relieve discomfort. </li><li><strong>Chapter 4</strong>: Learn to deal with discomfort rather than attempting to escape it with distraction. </li><li>Satisfaction is temporary due to 4 things: boredom, negativity bias, rumination (tendency to keep thinking about bad experiences), and hedonic adaptation (tendency to return to baseline level of satisfaction, no matter what happens to us in life. </li><li><strong>Chapter 5</strong>: Stop trying to actively suppress urges—this only makes them stronger. Instead, observe and allow them to dissolve. </li><li><strong>Chapter 6</strong>: Reimagine the internal trigger. Look for the negative emotion preceding the distraction, write it down, and pay attention to the negative sensation with curiosity rather than contempt. </li><li>Beware liminal moments: transitions from one thing to another throughout our days. </li><li>Use the “ten-minute rule”. If you want to check your phone, tell yourself it’s fine to give in, but note right now–in ten minutes. </li><li><strong>Chapter 7</strong>: Reimagine the task. Turn it into play by paying “foolish, even absurd” attention to it. Deliberately look for novelty. </li><li><strong>Chapter 8</strong>: Reimagine your temperament. Self-talk matters. Your willpower runs out only if you believe it does. Avoid labeling yourself as “easily distracted” or having an “addictive personality.” </li><li>Willpower ebbs and flows in response to what’s happening to us and how we feel, like emotions. </li><li>Talk to yourself like you would talk to a friend. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 2: Make Time for Traction</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Chapter 9</strong>: Turn your values into time. Timebox your day by creating a schedule template. </li><li>Book time in your calendar each week to reflect and refine your calendar to reduce distraction. </li><li><strong>Chapter 10</strong>: Schedule time for yourself. Plan the inputs and the outcome will follow. </li><li><strong>Chapter 11</strong>: Schedule time for important relationships. Include household responsibilities as well as time for people you love. Put regular time on your schedule for friends. </li><li><strong>Chapter 12</strong>: Sync your schedule with stakeholders. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 3: Hack Back External Triggers</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Chapter 13</strong>: Of each external trigger, ask: “Is this trigger serving me, or am I serving it?” Does it lead to traction or distraction? </li><li><strong>Chapter 14</strong>: Defend your focus. Signal when you do not want to be interrupted. </li><li><strong>Chapter 15</strong>: To get fewer emails, send fewer emails. When you check email, tag each message with when it needs a reply and respond at a scheduled time. </li><li><strong>Chapter 16</strong>: When it comes to group chat, get in and out at scheduled times. Only involve who in necessary and don’t use it to think out loud. </li><li><strong>Chapter 17</strong>: Make it harder to call meetings. No agenda, no meeting. Meetings are for consensus building rather than problem solving. Leave devices outside the conference room except for one laptop. </li><li><strong>Chapter 18</strong>: Use distracting apps on your desktop rather than your phone. Organize apps and manage notifications. Turn on “Do Not Disturb.” </li><li><strong>Chapter 19</strong>: Turn off desktop notifications. Remove potential distractions from your workspace. </li><li><strong>Chapter 20</strong>: Save online articles in Pocket to read or listen to at a scheduled time. Use “multichannel multitasking.” </li><li><strong>Chapter 21</strong>: Use browser extensions that give you the benefits of social media without all the distractions. Links to other tools are at: <a href="http://nirandfar.com/Indistractable">NirAndFar.com/Indistractable</a>. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 4: Prevent Distraction With Pacts</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Chapter 22:</strong> The antidote to impulsiveness is forethought. Plan ahead for when you’re likely to get distracted. </li><li><strong>Chapter 23:</strong> Use effort pacts to make unwanted behaviors more difficult. </li><li><strong>Chapter 24:</strong> Use a price pact to make getting distracted expensive. </li><li><strong>Chapter 25</strong>: Use identity pacts as a precommitment to a self-image. Call yourself “indistractable.” </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 5: How to Make Your Workplace Indistractable</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Chapter 26</strong>: An “always on” culture drives people crazy. </li><li><strong>Chapter 27:</strong> Tech overuse at work is a symptom of dysfunctional company culture. The root cause is a culture lacking “psychological safety.” </li><li><strong>Chapter 28:</strong> To create a culture that values doing focused work, start small and find ways to facilitate an open dialogue among colleagues about the problem. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 6: How to Raise Indistractable Children (And Why We All Need Psychological Nutrients)</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Chapter 29:</strong> Find the root causes of why children get distracted. Teach them the four-part indistractable model. </li><li>Tech panics are nothing new, and tech isn’t evil. </li><li><strong>Chapter 30:</strong> Make sure children’s psychological needs are met. All people need to feel a sense of autonomy, competence, and relatedness. If kids don’t get their needs met in the real world, they look to fulfill them online. </li><li><strong>Chapter 31</strong>: Teach children to timebox their schedule. Let them make time for activities they enjoy, including time online. </li><li><strong>Chapter 32</strong>: Work with your children to remove unhelpful external triggers. Make sure they know how to turn off distracting triggers, and don’t become a distracting external trigger yourself. </li><li><strong>Chapter 33</strong>: Help your kids make pacts and make sure they know managing distraction is their responsibility. Teach them that distraction is a solvable problem and that becoming indistractable is a lifelong skill. </li></ul><h5><strong>Part 7: How to Have Indistractable Relationships</strong></h5><ul><li><strong>Chapter 34</strong>: When someone uses a device in a social setting, ask, “I see you’re on your phone. Is everything OK?” </li><li><strong>Chapter 35</strong>: Remove devices from your bedroom and have the internet automatically turn off at a specific time. </li></ul><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[Great book about how to negotiate, an oft-overlooked skill that can be applied everywhere in your life.I identified negotiation skills as a personal weakness, and I was able to immediately improve by applying strategies and tactics from this book. Recommended for anyone who wants to be able to communicate more effectively, let alone negotiate better.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4><strong>Chapter 1 - The New Rules</strong></h4><ul><li>Use an apology and a first name to seed warmth in interactions (ex: “I’m sorry, Robert, how do I even know he’s alive?&quot; </li><li>People want to be understood and accepted. Listening is the cheapest, and most effective way to get there. </li></ul><h4><strong>Chapter 2 - Be a Mirror</strong></h4><ul><li>You should engage in negotiation with a mindset of discovery - with hypotheses you’re looking to disprove. The goal is to extract as much information as possible. (Beginner’s mind) </li><li>Slow things down as much as possible. </li><li>Use the <em>Late-Night, FM DJ Voice</em>: deep, soft, slow, and reassuring, and the positive/playful voice–the voice of an easygoing, good-natured person. </li><li>Our body language affects how we are perceived and how our conversations will go. Exude enthusiasm, comfort, warmth and acceptance. Put a smile on your face. </li><li>Inflecting upward = inviting a response/unsure. </li><li>Inflecting downward = self-assured, confident. </li></ul><p>Mirroring </p><ul><li>To mirror, just repeat the last three words (or the most important 1-3 words) of what someone has just said. </li></ul><p>How to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable </p><p>It’s just four simple steps: </p><ul><li>Use the late-night FM DJ voice. </li><li>Start with I’m sorry . . . </li><li>Mirror. </li><li>Silence. At least four seconds, to let the mirror work its magic on your counterpart. </li><li>Repeat. </li></ul><p>The intention behind mirroring should be “Please, help me understand.&quot; </p><p>Oprah is one of the great practitioners of these skills. </p><h4><strong>Chapter 3 - Don’t Feel Their Pain, Label It</strong></h4><ul><li>Good negotiators identify and influence emotions. They can precisely label those of others, and their own. </li><li>Empathy is paying attention to another human being, asking what they are feeling, and making a commitment to understanding their world. </li><li>Tactical empathy is understanding the feelings and mindset of another in the moment and also hearing what is behind those feelings so you increase your influence in all the moments that follow. It’s bringing our attention to both the emotional obstacles and the potential pathways to getting an agreement done. </li></ul><p>Labeling </p><p>Labeling is a way of validating someone’s emotion by acknowledging it. Give someone’s emotion a name and you show you identify with how that person feels. </p><p>Once you’ve spotted an emotion you want to highlight, the next step is to label it aloud. Labels can be phrased as statements or questions. The only difference is whether you end the sentence with a downward or upward inflection. But no matter how they end, labels almost always begin with roughly the same words: </p><ul><li><em>It seems like . . .</em></li><li><em>It sounds like . . .</em></li><li><em>It looks like . . .</em></li></ul><p>Notice we said &quot;It sounds like . . .&quot; and not &quot;I’m hearing that . . .&quot; That’s because the word “I&quot; gets people’s guard up. </p><p>The last rule of labeling is silence. Once you’ve thrown out a label, be quiet and listen. </p><p>Neutralize the Negative, Reinforce the Positive </p><ul><li>Labeling is a tactic, not a strategy. <em>How</em> you use labeling will go a long way in determining your success. </li><li>That’s not to say that negative feelings should be ignored. That can be just as damaging. Instead, they should be teased out. Labeling is a helpful tactic in de-escalating angry confrontations, because it makes the person acknowledge their feelings rather than continuing to act out. </li><li>Try this the next time you have to apologize for a bone-headed mistake. Go right at it. The fastest and most efficient means of establishing a quick working relationship is to acknowledge the negative and diffuse it. </li><li>I’ve found the phrase &quot;Look, I’m an asshole&quot; to be an amazingly effective way to make problems go away. </li></ul><p>Do An Accusation Audit </p><ul><li>In court, defense lawyers do this properly by mentioning everything their client is accused of, and all the weaknesses of their case, in the opening statement. They call this technique &quot;taking the sting out.&quot; </li><li>The first step of doing so is listing every terrible thing your counterpart <em>could</em> say about you, in what I call an accusation audit. </li><li>Performing an accusation audit in advance prepares you to head off negative dynamics before they take root. And because these accusations often sound exaggerated when said aloud, speaking them will encourage the other person to claim that quite the opposite is true. </li></ul><h4><strong>Chapter 4 - Beware “Yes”–Master “No”</strong></h4><ul><li>We have it backward. For good negotiators, “No&quot; is pure gold. That negative provides a great opportunity for you and the other party to clarify what you really want by eliminating what you don’t want. “No&quot; is a safe choice that maintains the status quo; it provides a temporary oasis of control. </li></ul><p>“No&quot; Starts the Negotiation </p><p>“No&quot; is the <em>start</em> of the negotiation, not the <em>end</em> of it. We’ve been conditioned to fear the word “No.&quot; But it is a statement of perception far more often than of fact. It seldom means, &quot;I have considered all the facts and made a rational choice.&quot; Instead, “No&quot; is often a decision, frequently temporary, to maintain the status quo. Change is scary, and “No&quot; provides a little protection from that scariness. </p><p>This means you have to train yourself to hear “No&quot; as something other than rejection, and respond accordingly. When someone tells you “No,&quot; you need to rethink the word in one of its alternative—and much more real—meanings: </p><ul><li>I am not yet ready to agree; </li><li>You are making me feel uncomfortable; </li><li>I do not understand; </li><li>I don’t think I can afford it; </li><li>I want something else; </li><li>I need more information; or </li><li>I want to talk it over with someone else. </li><li>Then, after pausing, ask solution-based questions or simply label their effect: </li><li>&quot;What about this doesn’t work for you?&quot; </li><li>&quot;What would you need to make it work?&quot; </li><li>&quot;It seems like there’s something here that bothers you.&quot; </li></ul><p>People have a need to say, “No.&quot; So don’t just hope to hear it at some point; get them to say it early. </p><p>Key Lessons </p><ul><li>As you try to put the chapter’s methods to use, I encourage you to think of them as the anti–“niceness ruse.&quot; Not in the sense that they are unkind, but in the sense that they are authentic. Triggering “No&quot; peels away the plastic falsehood of “Yes&quot; and gets you to what’s really at stake. Along the way, keep in mind these powerful lessons: </li><li>Break the habit of attempting to get people to say “yes.&quot; Being pushed for “yes&quot; makes people defensive. </li><li>“No&quot; is not a failure. We have learned that “No&quot; is the anti-“Yes&quot; and therefore a word to be avoided at all costs. But it really often just means “Wait&quot; or &quot;I’m not comfortable with that.&quot; Learn how to hear it calmly. It is not the end of the negotiation, but the beginning. </li><li>“Yes&quot; is the final goal of a negotiation, but don’t aim for it at the start. Asking someone for “Yes&quot; too quickly in a conversation—&quot;Do you like to drink water, Mr. Smith?&quot;—gets his guard up and paints you as an untrustworthy salesman. </li><li>Saying “No&quot; makes the speaker feel safe, secure, and in control, so trigger it. By saying what they don’t want, your counterpart defines their space and gains the confidence and comfort to listen to you. That’s why &quot;Is now a bad time to talk?&quot; is always better than &quot;Do you have a few minutes to talk?&quot; </li><li>Sometimes the only way to get your counterpart to listen and engage with you is by forcing them into a “No.” That means intentionally mislabeling one of their emotions or desires or asking a ridiculous question–like, “It seems like you want this project to fail”–that can only be answered negatively. </li><li>Negotiate in their world. Persuasion is not about how bright or smooth or forceful you are. It’s about the other party convincing themselves that the solution you want is their own idea. So don’t beat them with logic or brute force. Ask them questions that open paths to your goals. <em>It’s not about you.</em></li><li>If a potential business partner is ignoring you, contact them with a clear and concise “No”-oriented question that suggests that you are ready to walk away. “Have you given up on this project?” works wonders. </li></ul><h4><strong>Chapter 5 - Trigger the Two Words That Immediately Transform Any Negotiation</strong></h4><ul><li>The sweetest two words in any negotiation are “that’s right.&quot; </li></ul><p>Key Lessons </p><ul><li>The moment you’ve convinced someone that you truly understand her dreams and feelings (the whole world that she inhabits), mental and behavioral change becomes possible, and the foundation for a breakthrough has been laid. </li><li>Use these lessons to lay that foundation: </li><li>Creating unconditional positive regard opens the door to changing thoughts and behaviors. Humans have an innate urge toward socially constructive behavior. The more a person feels understood, and positively affirmed in that understanding, the more likely that urge for constructive behavior will take hold. </li><li>&quot;That’s right&quot; is better than “yes.&quot; Strive for it. Reaching &quot;that’s right&quot; in a negotiation creates breakthroughs. </li><li>Use a summary to trigger a that’s right. The building blocks of a good summary are a label combined with paraphrasing. Identify, rearticulate, and emotionally affirm &quot;the world according to . . .&quot; </li></ul><h4><strong>Chapter 6 - Bend Their Reality</strong></h4><p>Don’t Compromise </p><ul><li>Do not compromise. We compromise not because it’s right, but because it’s easy and saves face. </li><li>Most people in a negotiation are driven by fear or by the desire to avoid pain. Too few are driven by their actual goals. </li></ul><p>Deadlines: Make Time Your Ally </p><ul><li>Whether your deadline is real and absolute or merely a line in the sand, it can trick you into believing that doing a deal now is more important than getting a good deal. </li><li>What good negotiators do is force themselves to resist this urge and take advantage of it in others. It’s not so easy. Ask yourself: What is it about a deadline that causes pressure and anxiety? The answer is consequences; the perception of the loss we’ll incur in the future—&quot;The deal is off!&quot; our mind screams at us in some imaginary future scenario—should no resolution be achieved by a certain point in time. </li><li>“No deal is better than a bad deal.&quot; </li><li>Increasing specificity on threats in any type of negotiations indicates getting closer to real consequences at a real specified time. </li></ul><p>The F-Word: Why It’s So Powerful, When to Use It, and How </p><ul><li>The most powerful word in negotiations is “Fair.&quot; As human beings, we’re mightily swayed by how much we feel we have been respected. People comply with agreements if they feel they’ve been treated fairly and lash out if they don’t. </li><li>In the Ultimatum Game, years of experience has shown me that most accepters will invariably reject any offer that is less than half of the proposer’s money. Once you get to a quarter of the proposer’s money you can forget it and the accepters are insulted. </li><li>In fact, of the three ways that people drop this F-bomb, only one is positive. </li><li>The most common use is a judo-like defensive move that destabilizes the other side. This manipulation usually takes the form of something like, &quot;We just want what’s fair.&quot; </li><li>Think back to the last time someone made this implicit accusation of unfairness to you, and I bet you’ll have to admit that it immediately triggered feelings of defensiveness and discomfort. These feelings are often subconscious and often lead to an irrational concession. </li><li>If you’re on the business end of this accusation, you need to realize that the other side might not be trying to pick your pocket; like my friend, they might just be overwhelmed by circumstance. </li><li>The best response either way is to take a deep breath and restrain your desire to concede. Then say, &quot;Okay, I apologize. Let’s stop everything and go back to where I started treating you unfairly and we’ll fix it.&quot; </li><li>The second use of the F-bomb is more nefarious. In this one, your counterpart will basically accuse you of being dense or dishonest by saying, &quot;We’ve given you a fair offer.&quot; It’s a terrible little jab meant to distract your attention and manipulate you into giving in. </li><li>If you find yourself in this situation, the best reaction is to simply mirror the “F&quot; that has just been lobbed at you. “Fair?&quot; you’d respond, pausing to let the word’s power do to them as it was intended to do to you. Follow that with a label: &quot;It seems like you’re ready to provide the evidence that supports that,&quot; which alludes to opening their books or otherwise handing over information that will either contradict their claim to fairness or give you more data to work with than you had previously. Right away, you declaw the attack. </li><li>The last use of the F-word is my favorite because it’s positive and constructive. It sets the stage for honest and empathetic negotiation. </li><li>Here’s how I use it: Early on in a negotiation, I say, &quot;I want you to feel like you are being treated fairly at all times. So please stop me at any time if you feel I’m being unfair, and we’ll address it.&quot; </li><li>It’s simple and clear and sets me up as an honest dealer. </li></ul><p>Bend Their Reality </p><ul><li>By far the best theory for describing the principles of our irrational decisions is something called <em>Prospect Theory.</em></li><li>The theory argues that people are drawn to sure things over probabilities, even when the probability is a better choice. </li><li>That’s called the <em>Certainty Effect</em>. And people will take greater risks to avoid losses than to achieve gains. That’s called <em>Loss Aversion.</em></li><li>The chance for loss incites more risk than the possibility of an equal gain. </li><li>But first let me leave you with a crucial lesson about loss aversion: In a tough negotiation, it’s not enough to show the other party that you can deliver the thing they want. </li><li>To get real leverage, you have to persuade them that they have something concrete to lose if the deal falls through. </li></ul><p><strong>1. Anchor Their Emotions</strong></p><ul><li>To bend your counterpart’s reality, you have to start with the basics of empathy. So start out with an accusation audit acknowledging all of their fears. By anchoring their emotions in preparation for a loss, you inflame the other side’s loss aversion so that they’ll jump at the chance to avoid it. </li></ul><p><strong>2. Let the Other Guy Go First…Most of the Time</strong></p><ul><li>Now, it’s clear that the benefits of anchoring emotions are great when it comes to bending your counterpart’s reality. But going first is not necessarily the best thing when it comes to negotiating price. </li><li>That’s why I suggest you let the other side anchor monetary negotiations. </li><li>The real issue is that neither side has perfect information going to the table. This often means you don’t know enough to open with confidence. That’s especially true anytime you don’t know the market value of what you are buying or selling, like with Jerry or Chandler. </li><li>By letting them anchor you also might get lucky: I’ve experienced many negotiations when the other party’s first offer was higher than the <em>closing</em> figure I had in mind. </li><li>That said, you’ve got to be careful when you let the other guy anchor. You have to prepare yourself psychically to withstand the first offer. If the other guy’s a pro, a shark, he’s going to go for an extreme anchor in order to bend your reality. </li><li>That’s not to say, &quot;Never open.&quot; Rules like that are easy to remember, but, like most simplistic approaches, they are not always good advice. If you’re dealing with a rookie counterpart, you might be tempted to be the shark and throw out an extreme anchor. Or if you really know the market and you’re dealing with an equally informed pro, you might offer a number just to make the negotiation go faster. </li><li>Here’s my personal advice on whether or not you want to be the shark that eats a rookie counterpart. Just remember, your reputation precedes you. I’ve run into CEOs whose reputation was to always badly beat their counterpart and pretty soon no one would deal with them. </li></ul><p><strong>3. Establish a Range</strong></p><ul><li>While going first rarely helps, there is one way to <em>seem</em> to make an offer and bend their reality in the process. That is, by alluding to a range. </li><li>Understand, if you offer a range (and it’s a good idea to do so) expect them to come in at the low end. </li></ul><p><strong>4. Pivot to Nonmonetary Terms</strong></p><ul><li>One of the easiest ways to bend your counterpart’s reality to your point of view is by pivoting to nonmonetary terms. After you’ve anchored them high, you can make your offer seem reasonable by offering things that aren’t important to you but could be important to them. Or if their offer is low you could ask for things that matter more to you than them. Since this is sometimes difficult, what we often do is throw out examples to start the brainstorming process. </li></ul><p><strong>5. When You Do Talk Numbers, Use Odd Ones</strong></p><ul><li>The biggest thing to remember is that numbers that end in 0 inevitably feel like temporary placeholders, guesstimates that you can easily be negotiated off of. But anything you throw out that sounds less rounded—say, $37,263—feels like a figure that you came to as a result of thoughtful calculation. Such numbers feel serious and permanent to your counterpart, so use them to fortify your offers. </li></ul><p><strong>6. Surprise With a Gift</strong></p><ul><li>You can get your counterpart into a mood of generosity by staking an extreme anchor and then, after their inevitable first rejection, offering them a wholly unrelated surprise gift. </li><li>Unexpected conciliatory gestures like this are hugely effective because they introduce a dynamic called reciprocity; the other party feels the need to answer your generosity in kind. They will suddenly come up on their offer, or they’ll look to repay your kindness in the future. People feel obliged to repay debts of kindness. </li></ul><p>How to Negotiate a Better Salary </p><ul><li>I break down the process into three parts that blend this chapter’s dynamics in a way that not only brings you better money, but convinces your boss to fight to get it for you. </li></ul><p><strong>Be Pleasantly Persistent on Nonsalary Terms</strong></p><ul><li>Pleasant persistence is a kind of emotional anchoring that creates empathy with the boss and builds the right psychological environment for constructive discussion. </li></ul><p><strong>Salary Terms Without Success Terms is Russian Roulette</strong></p><ul><li>Once you’ve negotiated a salary, make sure to define success for your position—as well as metrics for your next raise. That’s meaningful for you and free for your boss, much like giving me a magazine cover story was for the bar association. It gets you a planned raise and, by defining your success in relation to your boss’s supervision, it leads into the next step... </li></ul><p><strong>Spark Their Interest in Your Success and Gain an Unofficial Mentor</strong></p><ul><li>Remember the idea of figuring what the other side is <em>really</em> buying? Well, when you are selling yourself to a manager, sell yourself as more than a body for a job; sell yourself, and your success, as a way they can validate their own intelligence and broadcast it to the rest of the company. Make sure they know you’ll act as a flesh-and-blood argument for their importance. Once you’ve bent their reality to include you as their ambassador, they’ll have a stake in your success. </li><li>Ask: &quot;What does it take to be successful here?&quot; </li></ul><h4><strong>Chapter 7 - Create the Illusion of Control</strong></h4><ul><li>Successful negotiation involved getting your counterpart to do the work for you and suggest your solution himself. </li><li>To do this, we use calibrated, open-ended questions. </li><li>Giving your counterpart the illusion of control by asking calibrated questions—by asking for help—is one of the most powerful tools for suspending unbelief. </li></ul><p>Calibrate Your Questions </p><ul><li>Like the softening words and phrases “perhaps,&quot; “maybe,&quot; &quot;I think,&quot; and &quot;it seems,&quot; the calibrated open-ended question takes the aggression out of a confrontational statement or close-ended request that might otherwise anger your counterpart. </li><li>What makes them work is that they are subject to interpretation by your counterpart instead of being rigidly defined. They allow you to introduce ideas and requests without sounding overbearing or pushy. </li><li>First off, calibrated questions avoid verbs or words like “can,&quot; “is,&quot; “are,&quot; “do,&quot; or “does.&quot; These are closed-ended questions that can be answered with a simple “yes&quot; or a “no.&quot; Instead, they start with a list of words people know as reporter’s questions: “who,&quot; “what,&quot; “when,&quot; “where,&quot; “why,&quot; and “how.&quot; Those words inspire your counterpart to think and then speak expansively. </li><li>But let me cut the list even further: it’s best to start with “what,&quot; “how,&quot; and sometimes “why.&quot; Nothing else. </li><li>The only time you can use “why&quot; successfully is when the defensiveness that is created supports the change you are trying to get them to see. </li><li>You should use calibrated questions early and often, and there are a few that you will find that you will use in the beginning of nearly every negotiation. &quot;What is the biggest challenge you face?&quot; is one of those questions. It just gets the other side to teach you something about themselves, which is critical to any negotiation because all negotiation is an information-gathering process. </li></ul><p>Here are some other great standbys that I use in almost every negotiation, depending on the situation: </p><ul><li>What about this is important to you? </li><li>How can I help to make this better for us? </li><li>How would you like me to proceed? </li><li>What is it that brought us into this situation? </li><li>How can we solve this problem? </li><li>What’s the objective? / What are we trying to accomplish here? </li><li>How am I supposed to do that? </li></ul><p>Avoid becoming emotional: Bite your tongue. When you’re attacked in a negotiation, pause and avoid angry emotional reactions. Instead, ask your counterpart a calibrated question. </p><h4><strong>Chapter 8 - Guarantee Execution</strong></h4><ul><li>The point here is that your job as a negotiator isn’t just to get to an agreement. It’s getting to one that can be implemented and making sure that happens </li><li>“Yes&quot; is nothing without “How.&quot; While an agreement is nice, a contract is better, and a signed check is best. </li></ul><p>“Yes” is Nothing Without “How&quot; </p><ul><li>Calibrated “How&quot; questions are a surefire way to keep negotiations going. They put the pressure on your counterpart to come up with answers, and to contemplate your problems when making their demands. </li><li>The trick to “How&quot; questions is that, correctly used, they are gentle and graceful ways to say “No&quot; and guide your counterpart to develop a better solution—<em>your</em> solution. </li><li>There are two key questions you can ask to push your counterparts to think they are defining success their way: &quot;How will we know we’re on track?&quot; and &quot;How will we address things if we find we’re off track?&quot;When they answer, you summarize their answers until you get a &quot;That’s right.&quot; Then you’ll know they’ve bought in. </li><li>On the flip side, be wary of two telling signs that your counterpart <em>doesn’t</em> believe the idea is theirs. As I’ve noted, when they say, &quot;<em>You’re right</em>,&quot; it’s often a good indicator they are not vested in what is being discussed. And when you push for implementation and they say, &quot;I’ll try,&quot; you should get a sinking feeling in your stomach. Because this really means, &quot;I plan to fail.&quot; </li><li>When you hear either of these, dive back in with calibrated “How&quot; questions until they define the terms of successful implementation in their own voice. Follow up by summarizing what they have said to get a &quot;That’s right.&quot; </li></ul><p>The 7-38-55 Percent Rule </p><ul><li>When someone’s tone of voice or body language does not align with the meaning of the words they say, use labels to discover the source of the incongruence. </li></ul><p>Here’s an example: </p><ul><li>You: &quot;So we’re agreed?&quot; </li><li>Them: &quot;Yes . . .&quot; </li><li>You: &quot;I heard you say, ‘Yes,’ but it seemed like there was hesitation in your voice.&quot; </li><li>Them: &quot;Oh, it’s nothing really.&quot; </li><li>You: &quot;No, this is important, let’s make sure we get this right.&quot; </li><li>Them: &quot;Thanks, I appreciate it.&quot; </li></ul><p>The Rule of Three </p><ul><li>The Rule of Three is simply getting the other guy to agree to the same thing three times in the same conversation. </li><li>The first time they agree to something or give you a commitment, that’s No. 1. For No. 2 you might label or summarize what they said so they answer, &quot;That’s right.&quot; And No. 3 could be a calibrated “How&quot; or “What&quot; question about implementation that asks them to explain what will constitute success, something like &quot;What do we do if we get off track?&quot; </li></ul><p>The Pinocchio Effect </p><ul><li>In a study of the components of lying, Harvard Business School professor Deepak Malhotra and his coauthors found that, on average, liars use more words than truth tellers and use far more third-person pronouns. They start talking about <em>him, her, it, one, they</em>, and <em>their</em> rather than <em>I</em>, in order to put some distance between themselves and the lie. </li><li>And they discovered that liars tend to speak in more complex sentences in an attempt to win over their suspicious counterparts. </li></ul><p>Pay Attention to Their Usage of Pronouns </p><ul><li>The use of pronouns by a counterpart can also help give you a feel for their actual importance in the decision and implementation chains on the other side of the table. The more in love they are with “I,&quot; “me,&quot; and “my&quot; the less important they are. </li><li>Conversely, the harder it is to get a first person pronoun out of a negotiator’s mouth, the more important they are. </li></ul><p>How to Get Your Counterparts to Bid Against Themselves </p><ul><li>We’ve found that you can usually express “No&quot; four times before actually saying the word. </li></ul><p>The first step in the “No&quot; series is the old standby: </p><ul><li>&quot;How am I supposed to do that?&quot; </li></ul><p>After that, some version of &quot;Your offer is very generous, I’m sorry, that just doesn’t work for me&quot; is an elegant second way to say “No.&quot; </p><p>Then you can use something like &quot;I’m sorry but I’m afraid I just can’t do that.&quot; It’s a little more direct, and the &quot;can’t do that&quot; does great double duty. By expressing an inability to perform, it can trigger the other side’s empathy toward you. </p><p>&quot;I’m sorry, no&quot; is a slightly more succinct version for the fourth “No.&quot; If delivered gently, it barely sounds negative at all. </p><p>If you have to go further, of course, “No&quot; is the last and most direct way. Verbally, it should be delivered with a downward inflection and a tone of regard; it’s not meant to be &quot;NO!&quot; </p><p>There’s a critical lesson there: The art of closing a deal is staying focused to the very end. There are crucial points at the finale when you must draw on your mental discipline. Don’t think about what time the last flight leaves, or what it would be like to get home early and play golf. Do not let your mind wander. Remain focused. </p><h4><strong>Chapter 9 - Bargain Hard</strong></h4><ul><li>When push comes to shove—and it will—you’re going to find yourself sitting across the table from a bare-knuckle negotiator. After you’ve finished all the psychologically nuanced stuff—the labeling and mirroring and calibrating—you are going to have to hash out the brass tacks. </li><li>For most of us, that ain’t fun. </li><li>Top negotiators know, however, that conflict is often the path to great deals. And the best find ways to actually have fun engaging in it. Conflict brings out truth, creativity, and resolution. So the next time you find yourself face-to-face with a bare-knuckle bargainer, remember the lessons in this chapter. </li><li>Identify your counterpart’s negotiating style. Once you know whether they are Accommodator, Assertive, or Analyst, you’ll know the correct way to approach them. </li><li>Prepare, prepare, prepare. When the pressure is on, you don’t rise to the occasion; you fall to your highest level of preparation. So design an ambitious but legitimate goal and then game out the labels, calibrated questions, and responses you’ll use to get there. That way, once you’re at the bargaining table, you won’t have to wing it. </li><li>Get ready to take a punch. Kick-ass negotiators usually lead with an extreme anchor to knock you off your game. If you’re not ready, you’ll flee to your maximum without a fight. So prepare your dodging tactics to avoid getting sucked into the compromise trap. </li><li>Set boundaries, and learn to take a punch or punch back, without anger. The guy across the table is not the problem; the situation is. </li><li>Prepare an Ackerman plan. Before you head into the weeds of bargaining, you’ll need a plan of extreme anchor, calibrated questions, and well-defined offers. Remember: 65, 85, 95, 100 percent. Decreasing raises and ending on nonround numbers will get your counterpart to believe that he’s squeezing you for all you’re worth when you’re really getting to the number you want. </li></ul><h4><strong>Chapter 10 - Find the Black Swan</strong></h4><ul><li>What we don’t know can kill us or our deals. But uncovering it can totally change the course of a negotiation and bring us unexpected success. </li><li>Finding the Black Swans—those powerful unknown unknowns—is intrinsically difficult, however, for the simple reason that we don’t know the questions to ask. Because we don’t know what the treasure is, we don’t know where to dig. </li><li>Here are some of the best techniques for flushing out the Black Swans—and exploiting them. Remember, your counterpart might not even know how important the information is, or even that they shouldn’t reveal it. So keep pushing, probing, and gathering information. </li><li>Let what you know—your <em>known knowns</em>—guide you but not blind you. Every case is new, so remain flexible and adaptable. Remember the Griffin bank crisis: no hostage-taker had killed a hostage on deadline, until he did. </li><li>Black Swans are leverage multipliers. Remember the three types of leverage: positive (the ability to give someone what they want); negative (the ability to hurt someone); and normative (using your counterpart’s norms to bring them around). </li><li>Work to understand the other side’s “religion.&quot; Digging into worldviews inherently implies moving beyond the negotiating table and into the life, emotional and otherwise, of your counterpart. That’s where Black Swans live. </li><li>Review everything you hear from your counterpart. You will not hear everything the first time, so double-check. Compare notes with team members. Use backup listeners whose job is to listen between the lines. They will hear things you miss. </li><li>Exploit the similarity principle. People are more apt to concede to someone they share a cultural similarity with, so dig for what makes them tick and show that you share common ground. </li><li>When someone seems irrational or crazy, they most likely aren’t. Faced with this situation, search for constraints, hidden desires, and bad information. </li><li>Get face time with your counterpart. Ten minutes of face time often reveals more than days of research. Pay special attention to your counterpart’s verbal and nonverbal communication at unguarded moments—at the beginning and the end of the session or when someone says something out of line. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[Gladwell posits that much of the success we see in the world is a result of our opportunities and history. He links together a wide variety of topics, from why southerners get angry faster than northerners (in the US), to why Korean pilots suffered more crashes in the 1990s, and why Asians are better at math. The key points can be summarized quickly, but it’s an entertaining and easy read.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li><strong>Cumulative advantages are present all over the place, from sports to math.</strong></li><li>Athletes born in January have an advantage over those born late in the year for sports. </li><li>Math students in Asia have much longer school years than Americans. </li><li>Kids from wealthy families learn much more over the summer than children from poorer families. </li><li>Skewed age distributions exist whenever three things happen: selection, streaming &amp; differentiated experience. </li><li>You make a decision about who is good and who isn’t at an early age. </li><li>You separate “talented” from “untalented” at an early age. </li><li>You give “talented” a superior experience. </li><li><strong>Talent is overrated, effort is underrated</strong>: </li><li>Once you have a minimum amount of talent required to master a skill (like music), your success depends on effort. </li><li>In other words, there are no naturals. </li><li>The magic number for true expertise appears to be 10,000 hours. </li><li>Success does not correlate with IQ. </li><li>“Practical intelligence” is very important as well. </li><li>This can be developed through parenting, team sports, etc. </li><li>This is the reason we see wealthier kids developing these skills more. </li><li>This is often what we refer to when we talk about “class advantage”. </li><li>Work must have three qualities to be satisfying: autonomy, complexity, and a connection between effort and reward. </li><li>Proficiency at math can be measured simply by looking at which cultures place the highest emphasis on effort and hard work. </li><li>Like many skills, mastering math is simply a matter of being willing to try hard enough for long enough. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Skin in the Game by Nassim Nicholas Taleb: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[Skin in the Game is Nassim Nicholas Taleb’s (NNT) fifth book in what he calls the Incerto, and it’s the most digestible I’ve read thus far (having read all but Fooled by Randomness).  This one focuses more on asymmetry (and symmetry) in everyday life, particularly on the matters of career, ethics, and life in general.What does that mean?  Basically, rules for how to detect if something is pseudo-science (scientism), rules for how you should endeavour to conduct yourself in your career in business, and mental models for thinking about risk in these categories and in life in general.Having now read most of his books, part of the reason this was digestible was that I’m familiar with his general premises; I would recommend reading his other books first, but this one will tie them together.  Highly recommend.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><ul><li>“…studying courage in textbooks doesn’t make you any more courageous than eating cow meat makes you bovine.”</li><li>&quot;What matters isn’t what a person has or doesn’t have; it is what he or she is afraid of losing.”</li><li>“…action without talk supersedes talk without action.”</li><li>&quot;Alfonso X of Spain, nicknamed El Sabio, &quot;the wise&quot;, had as a maxim: Burn old logs. Drink old wine. Read old books. Keep old friends.”</li><li>&quot;Never pay for complexity of presentation when all you need is results.”</li><li>“If wealth is giving you fewer options instead of more (and more varied) options, you’re doing it wrong.”</li><li>&quot;Finally, when young people who want to help mankind come to me asking, &quot;What should I do? I want to reduce poverty, save the world&quot;, and similar noble aspirations at the macro-level, my suggestion is:</li><li>1) Never engage in virtue signaling;</li><li>2) Never engage in rent-seeking;</li><li>3) You must start a business. Put yourself on the line, start a business</li><li>Yes, take risk, and if you get rich (which is optional), spend your money generously on others. We need people to take (bounded) risks”</li><li>&quot;Reading a history book, without putting its events in perspective, offers a similar bias to reading an account of life in New York seen from an emergency room at Bellevue Hospital.”</li><li>&quot;Love without sacrifice is theft (Procrustes)”</li><li>&quot;Courage is when you sacrifice your own well-being for the sake of the survival of a layer higher than yours.&quot;</li></ul><h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>Don’t tell me what you think, just tell me what’s in your portfolio; ie. actions over words</li><li>Skin in the game is not just an incentive problem; it’s about upside and downside risk, and having symmetry in both.</li><li>Decentralization lets small failures happen, and avoids macrobull***t (which is easier than microbull***t)</li><li>Government/bureaucracy tends to remove skin in the game.</li><li>Systems learn by removing parts, via negativa (ex: bad drivers die).</li><li>The Silver Rule: Do not treat others the way you would not like them to treat you. This works on all scales: humans, societies, groups of societies, countries, etc.</li><li>You do not want to win an argument; you want to win.</li><li>Corollary: the doer wins by doing, not convincing.</li><li>Scientism: using complicated mathematics when it’s not needed.</li><li>Anything you do to optimize your work, cut some corners, or squeeze more efficiency out of it will eventually make you dislike it.</li><li>Over time, the legal should converge to the ethical, not the other way around.</li><li>What matters isn’t what a person has or doesn’t have; it is what he or she is afraid of losing.</li><li>People whose survival depends on qualitative job assessments by someone of higher rank in an organization cannot be trusted for critical decisions.</li><li>Inequality is okay as long as there is churn in who is unequal; ie. there must be a chance for people to move between classes, and not just one way.</li><li>Phrased another way, no downside for some equals no upside for the rest.</li><li>Those who start in public office should never be allowed to earn more than a set amount in the private sector afterwards.</li><li>The reason for this is that there is an implicit bribe for those officials who play nice or complicate things while in office, and then help corporations navigate for a high salary afterwards.</li><li>The Lindy rule: That which is Lindy is what ages in reverse, i.e., its life expectancy lengthens with time, conditional on survival.</li><li>Ex: a book that has survived for 40 years can be expected to last many more, and this increases as the life of the book increases.</li><li>You can define a free person precisely as someone whose fate is not centrally or directly dependent on peer assessment.</li><li>In any activity, hidden details are only revealed via Lindy.</li><li>In other words, judge success of a person or activity only by their survival.</li><li>Society doesn’t advance with organized education, rather the level of formal education is a result of wealth.</li><li>Take pictures of people to deter them from doing bad things.</li><li>Do not criticize what people said, criticize what they meant.</li><li>It is immoral to generalize unless your private actions reflect those generalizations.</li><li>In other words, do as you say to do, or don’t say.</li><li>You must survive above all else.</li><li>You must survive to do science, but you do not need science to survive.</li><li>Or: better to be safe than sorry.</li><li>What is rational is that which allows for survival. That is it.</li><li>Or: rationality is risk management.</li><li>The probability of success from a collection of people do not apply to a single person if there is a chance of ruin.</li><li>Ex: Your chance of winning at Russian roulette is 5/6 if using a standard cost-benefit analysis; but if you keep playing Russian roulette, you will end up dead. Your expected return can’t be computed.</li><li>Repetition of exposure is critical in life: one cigarette has a positive cost-benefit analysis, but you still shouldn’t smoke; the risks are cumulative.</li><li>It may seem like a one-off risk is reasonable, but the fallacy is that another one is reasonable; however, the probability of ruin approaches 1 as the number of exposures increases.</li><li>Every single risk you take adds up to reduce your life expectancy.</li><li>All risks are not equal; Ebola causes fewer deaths than drowning in the bathtub, but there is a non-zero risk of ruin from Ebola, while the risks of the number of people drowning in bathtubs going up significantly is near zero.</li><li>Extremistan (Mandelbrotian) vs. Mediocristan (Gaussian); do not confuse the two.</li><li>In a strategy that entails ruin, benefits never offset risks of ruin.</li><li>Rationality is avoidance of systemic ruin.</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <description><![CDATA[A classic in the world of copywriting, this is a short, easy read full of both advertising and life wisdom. It’s written as a series of letters from successful copywriter Gary Halbert to his son (Halbert is in prison at the time), and is itself an example of great writing. A book you re-read over and over.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><ul><li>First thing to do in the morning? Get outside and get walking. </li><li>Fast one day per week. </li><li>To figure out what people want to buy? Just look at what they do buy. </li><li>Segment your marketing - be specific in who you are targeting, and custom tailor your ads to them. </li><li>Work on subjects you love - the enthusiasm will make it easy. </li><li>Keep two lists - one of tough tasks and another of tasks you can do regardless of mood. That way you can be productive regardless of your state. </li><li>Work in the library, or somewhere else people are working - as social animals, it’s hard for us not to work in places like this. </li></ul><p>You should write copy according to a formula, a proven sequential outline like AIDA. What does AIDA stand for? It stands for: </p><ul><li>ATTENTION, INTEREST, DESIRE, ACTION. </li></ul><p>So, to make it clearer your letter should: </p><ul><li>1. First, get his attention </li><li>2. Second, get him interested </li><li>3. Third, make him desire what you are selling </li><li>4. Compel him to take whatever action is needed to get whatever it is you are selling. </li><li>Describe benefits the prospect gets if he buys our product or service, and remember, you must do even the obvious. </li><li>When you write bullets … the basic pattern should be specific/blind fact, benefit. </li><li>Re-write (by hand) famous ad and marketing copy to get a feel for it. </li></ul><p>To write well: </p><ul><li>Use simple, common, everyday words. </li><li>Write short sentences and short paragraphs. </li><li>Use transition words and phrases to make your writing flow smoothly. </li><li>Ask questions once in a while, and then answer them yourself. </li></ul><p>What is a good writer? One who makes things perfectly clear. </p><ul><li><em>Breakfast of Champions</em> by Kurt Vonnegut is a great example of clear writing. </li><li>The best writing goes unnoticed. </li><li>Your ads should have a crisp, clean appearance. </li><li>Go the extra mile in whatever you’re doing to increase professionalism and perception. </li><li>Never make a decision when you are HALT: hungry, angry, lonely or tired. </li><li>If you offer a promotion, offer a reason to go with it. </li><li>&quot;I am offering you this special deal because you (by virtue of some unique circumstance) are so special.&quot; </li><li>Read your writing out loud to improve it. </li><li>Sweat the details. And use exact details in your promotions. </li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Checklist Manifesto by Atul Gawande: Summary & Notes]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[A fun read.  This book is fascinating for all - not just those in medicine.  Gawande illustrates the power of checklists in fields including medicine, construction, investing and aviation. The downside to this book is that it could probably be a long article. That said, the supporting examples are interesting, and the book is an easy read overall.  The main takeaway: make checklists for any complex decisions or processes.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h5><strong>Chapter 1: The Problem of Extreme Complexity</strong></h5><ul><li>We live in the era of the superspecialist—of clinicians who have taken the time to practice, practice, practice at one narrow thing until they can do it better than anyone else. </li><li>They have two advantages over ordinary specialists: greater knowledge of the details that matter and a learned ability to handle the complexities of the particular job. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 2: The Checklist</strong></h5><ul><li>In a complex environment, experts are up against two main difficulties. The first is the fallibility of human memory and attention, especially when it comes to mundane, routine matters that are easily overlooked under the strain of more pressing events. </li><li>A further difficulty, just as insidious, is that people can lull themselves into skipping steps even when they remember them. In complex processes, after all, certain steps don’t <em>always</em> matter. </li><li>Checklists seem to provide protection against such failures. They remind us of the minimum necessary steps and make them explicit. They not only offer the possibility of verification but also instill a kind of discipline of higher performance. </li><li>In December 2006, the Keystone Initiative published its findings in a landmark article in the <em>New England Journal of Medicine.</em></li><li>Within the first three months of the project, the central line infection rate in Michigan’s ICUs decreased by 66 percent. </li><li>In the Keystone Initiative’s first eighteen months, the hospitals saved an estimated $175 million in costs and more than fifteen hundred lives. The successes have been sustained for several years now—all because of a stupid little checklist. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 3: The End of the Master Builder</strong></h5><ul><li>Complex problems can sometimes be broken down into a series of simple recipes, but there is no straightforward recipe. Their outcomes remain highly uncertain. </li><li>In these situations, you need both <em>task</em> and <em>communication</em> checklists. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 4: The Idea</strong></h5><ul><li>Under conditions of true complexity - where the knowledge required exceeds that of any individual and unpredictability reigns - efforts to dictate every step from centre will fail. People need room to act and adapt. </li><li>Checklists supply a set of checks to ensure the stupid but critical stuff is not overlooked, and they supply another set of checks to ensure people talk and coordinate and accept responsibility while nonetheless being left the power to manage the nuances and unpredictabilities the best they know how. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 6: The Checklist Factory</strong></h5><ul><li>Bad checklists are vague and imprecise. They are too long; they are hard to use; they are impractical. They are made by desk jockeys with no awareness of the situations in which they are to be deployed. They treat the people using the tools as dumb and try to spell out every single step. They turn people’s brains off rather than turn them on. </li><li>Good checklists, on the other hand, are precise. They are efficient, to the point, and easy to use even in the most difficult situations. They do not try to spell out everything—a checklist cannot fly a plane. Instead, they provide reminders of only the most critical and important steps—the ones that even the highly skilled professionals using them could miss. Good checklists are, above all, practical. </li><li>When you’re making a checklist, you have a number of key decisions. </li><li>You must define a clear pause point at which the checklist is supposed to be used (unless the moment is obvious, like when a warning light goes on or an engine fails). </li><li>You must decide whether you want a DO-CONFIRM checklist or a READ-DO checklist. With a DO-CONFIRM checklist, team members perform their jobs from memory and experience, often separately. But then they stop. They pause to run the checklist and confirm that everything that was supposed to be done was done. </li><li>With a READ-DO checklist, on the other hand, people carry out the tasks as they check them off—it’s more like a recipe. </li><li>So for any new checklist created from scratch, you have to pick the type that makes the most sense for the situation. </li><li>The checklist cannot be lengthy. A rule of thumb some use is to keep it to between five and nine items, which is the limit of working memory. </li><li>After about sixty to ninety seconds at a given pause point, the checklist often becomes a distraction from other things. People start &quot;shortcutting.&quot; Steps get missed. So you want to keep the list short by focusing on &quot;the killer items&quot;—the steps that are most dangerous to skip and sometimes overlooked nonetheless. </li><li>The wording should be simple and exact, and use the familiar language of the profession. </li><li>Even the look of the checklist matters. Ideally, it should fit on one page. It should be free of clutter and unnecessary colors. It should use both uppercase and lowercase text for ease of reading. </li><li>One further point: no matter how careful we might be, no matter how much thought we might put in, a checklist has to be tested in the real world, which is inevitably more complicated than expected. First drafts always fall apart, and one needs to study how, make changes, and keep testing until the checklist works consistently. </li><li>It is common to misconceive how checklists function in complex lines of work. They are not comprehensive how-to guides, whether for building a skyscraper or getting a plane out of trouble. They are quick and simple tools aimed to buttress the skills of expert professionals. </li></ul><h5><strong>Chapter 8: The Hero in the Age of Checklists</strong></h5><ul><li>Smart identified several different types of VC investors: </li><li>He called one type of investor the &quot;Art Critics.&quot; They assessed entrepreneurs almost at a glance, the way an art critic can assess the quality of a painting—intuitively and based on long experience. “Sponges&quot; took more time gathering information about their targets, soaking up whatever they could from interviews, on-site visits, references, and the like. </li><li>The &quot;Prosecutors&quot; interrogated entrepreneurs aggressively, testing them with challenging questions about their knowledge and how they would handle random hypothetical situations. </li><li>“Suitors&quot; focused more on wooing people than on evaluating them. </li><li>“Terminators&quot; saw the whole effort as doomed to failure and skipped the evaluation part. They simply bought what they thought were the best ideas, fired entrepreneurs they found to be incompetent, and hired replacements. </li><li>Then there were the investors Smart called the &quot;Airline Captains.&quot; They took a methodical, checklist-driven approach to their task. Studying past mistakes and lessons from others in the field, they built formal checks into their process. They forced themselves to be disciplined and not to skip steps, even when they found someone they “knew” intuitively was a real prospect. </li><li>Smart next tracked the venture capitalists’ success over time. There was no question which style was most effective. It was the Airline Captain, hands down. Those taking the checklist-driven approach had a 10 percent likelihood of later having to fire senior management for incompetence or concluding that their original evaluation was inaccurate. The others had at least a 50 percent likelihood. </li><li>The results showed up in their bottom lines, too. The Airline Captains had a median 80 percent return on the investments studied, the others 35 percent or less. Those with other styles were not failures by any stretch—experience does count for something. But those who added checklists to their experience proved substantially more successful. </li><li>The most interesting discovery was that, despite the disadvantages, most investors were either Art Critics or Sponges—intuitive decision makers instead of systematic analysts. Only one in eight took the Airline Captain approach. </li><li>We don’t like checklists. They can be painstaking. They’re not much fun. But I don’t think the issue here is mere laziness. There’s something deeper, more visceral going on when people walk away not only from saving lives but from making money. It somehow feels beneath us to use a checklist, an embarrassment. It runs counter to deeply held beliefs about how the truly great among us—those we aspire to be—handle situations of high stakes and complexity. The truly great are daring. They improvise. They do not have protocols and checklists. </li><li>We’re obsessed in medicine with having great components—the best drugs, the best devices, the best specialists—but pay little attention to how to make them fit together well. </li><li>Berwick notes how wrongheaded this approach is. &quot;Anyone who understands systems will know immediately that optimizing parts is not a good route to system excellence,&quot; he says. He gives the example of a famous thought experiment of trying to build the world’s greatest car by assembling the world’s greatest car parts. We connect the engine of a Ferrari, the brakes of a Porsche, the suspension of a BMW, the body of a Volvo. &quot;What we get, of course, is nothing close to a great car; we get a pile of very expensive junk.&quot; </li></ul><h5><strong>A Checklist for Checklists</strong></h5><p>‍</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Greene's Laws of Human Nature: Read People Like a Psychologist]]></title>
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            <description><![CDATA[This book is just as full of life knowledge as his others, and even easier to apply to real life. I didn’t like this book on initial read as much as Greene’s other books (and he’s one of my favourite authors). It is dense and will be long to get through initially, but it will be worth it.Full of lessons on psychology and strategy that will help you in work, relationships and life.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Notes</h3><h4><strong>Introduction</strong></h4><ul><li>The Laws will make you more calm, and more strategic. </li><li>They will help you interpret the clues people constantly emit. </li><li>They will allow you to outthink the toxic people you encounter. </li><li>They will teach you how to motivate and influence people. </li><li>They will give you the power to alter your own negative patterns. </li><li>They will make you more empathetic. </li><li>They will help you see your own potential. </li></ul><h4><strong>1: Master Your Emotional Self - The Law of Irrationality</strong></h4><ul><li>You are largely unaware of how deeply your emotions dominate you. </li><li>Rationality is the ability to counteract these emotional effects, to think instead of react, to open your mind to what is really happening, as opposed to what you are feeling. It does not come naturally; it is a power we must cultivate. </li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature </p><ul><li>We can see the difference in the decisions and actions that people take and the results that ensue. Rational people demonstrate over time that they are able to finish a project, to realize their goals, to work effectively with a team, and to create something that lasts. Irrational people reveal in their lives negative patterns—mistakes that keep repeating, unnecessary conflicts that follow them wherever they go, dreams and projects that are never realized, anger and desires for change that are never translated into concrete action. </li><li>There are three steps to begin on the path towards rationality. </li></ul><p><strong>Step One: Recognize the Biases</strong></p><ul><li>There are several you should be particularly aware of: confirmation bias, conviction bias, appearance bias, group bias, blame bias, superiority bias. </li></ul><p><strong>Step Two: Beware the Inflaming Factors</strong></p><ul><li>Trigger points from childhood: look for childish intensity and out of character actions. </li><li>Sudden gains or losses: counter these with pessimism or optimism; we underestimate the role of luck. </li><li>Rising pressure: people act differently under pressure. </li><li>Inflaming individuals: distance yourself from people who arouse extreme emotions in you. </li><li>Group effect: beware large groups, and keep close your ability to think for yourself. </li></ul><p><strong>Step Three: Strategies Toward Bringing Out the Rational Self</strong></p><ul><li>Know yourself thoroughly </li><li>Examine your emotions to their roots: dig below trigger points to see where they started. </li><li>Increase your reaction time: train yourself to step back. </li><li>Accept people as facts: see other people as phenomena, and avoid the emotional toll. </li><li>Find the optimal balance of thinking and emotion: maintain a balance between skepticism and curiosity. </li><li>Love the rational: taming the emotional self will lead to calmness and clarity. </li></ul><h4><strong>2: Transform Self-Love Into Empathy - The Law of Narcissism</strong></h4><ul><li>We all naturally possess the most remarkable tool for connecting to people and attaining social power—empathy. </li><li>This instrument, however, is blunted by our habitual self-absorption. We are all narcissists, some deeper on the spectrum than others. </li><li>Our mission in life is to come to terms with this self-love and learn how to turn our sensitivity outward, toward others, instead of inward. </li></ul><p>The Narcissistic Spectrum </p><ul><li>We must be honest about our own nature and not deny it. We are all narcissists. </li><li>We need to develop our own empathy; to do this we need to develop 4 skills: </li><li><strong>The empathetic attitude:</strong> you must begin with the assumption you are ignorant. Learn to be curious about other people’s point of view. </li><li><strong>Visceral empathy</strong>: pay attention to moods, as indicated by body language and tone of voice. Mirroring people will also help draw out an empathetic response. </li><li><strong>Analytic empathy</strong>: gather as much information about the early years of the people you are studying and their relationship to their parents and siblings. </li><li><strong>The empathetic skill</strong>: to work on this skill, keep several things in mind: The more people you interact with in the flesh, the better you will get at this. And the greater the variety of people you meet, the more versatile your skill will become. </li></ul><h4><strong>3: See Through People’s Masks - The Law of Role-Playing</strong></h4><ul><li>People tend to wear the mask that shows them off in the best possible light—humble, confident, diligent. They say the right things, smile, and seem interested in our ideas. They learn to conceal their insecurities and envy. </li><li>If we take this appearance for reality, we never really know their true feelings, and on occasion we are blindsided by their sudden resistance, hostility, and manipulative actions. </li><li>People continually leak out their true feelings and unconscious desires in the nonverbal cues they cannot completely control—facial expressions, vocal inflections, tension in the body, and nervous gestures. </li><li>You must master this language by transforming yourself into a superior reader of men and women. </li><li>On the other hand, since appearances are what people judge you by, you must learn how to present the best front and play your role to maximum effect. </li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature </p><ul><li>Your task as a student of human nature is twofold: First, you must understand and accept the theatrical quality of life. You do not moralize and rail against the role-playing and the wearing of masks so essential to smooth social functioning. </li><li>Second, you must not be naive and mistake people’s appearances for reality. You are not blinded by people’s acting skills. You transform yourself into a master decoder of their true feelings, working on your observation skills and practicing them as much as you can in daily life. </li></ul><p>Observational Skills </p><ul><li>Try and rediscover skills you had in your earlier years. </li><li>Start by trying to observe facial expressions that contradict what a person is saying. </li><li>Move on to voice afterwards, and then body language. </li><li>You can practice this on people you know, and also in public places. </li><li>Observe yourself too. </li><li>Everything people do is a gesture of some sort or another. </li></ul><p>Decoding Keys </p><ul><li>Your task is to look past the distractions and become aware of those signs that leak out automatically, revealing something of the true emotion beneath the mask. The three categories of the most important cues to observe and identify are <em>dislike/like, dominance/submission,</em> and <em>deception.</em></li></ul><p>Dislike/Like Cues: </p><ul><li>We often feel something isn’t right; we must learn to trust such intuitive responses and look for signs. </li><li>People give out clear indications in their body language of active dislike or hostility. These include the sudden squinting of the eyes at something you have said, the glare, the pursing of the lips until they nearly disappear, the stiff neck, the torso or feet that turn away from you while you are still engaged in a conversation, the folding of the arms as you try to make a point, and an overall tenseness in the body. </li><li>A good way to gauge subtler body language is how someone behaves towards you versus others. </li><li>When people start to feel comfortable in your presence, they will stand closer to you or lean in, their arms not folded or revealing any tension. If you are giving a talk or telling a story, frequent head nods, attentive gazes, and genuine smiles will indicate that people agree with what you are saying and are losing their resistance. They exchange more looks. Perhaps the best and most exciting sign of all is synchrony, the other person unconsciously mirroring you. </li><li>You can also train yourself to not only monitor these changes that show your influence but induce them as well by displaying positive cues yourself. You begin to slowly stand or lean closer, revealing subtle signs of openness. You nod and smile as others talk. You mirror their behavior and their breathing patterns. </li></ul><p><strong>Dominance/Submission Cues:</strong></p><ul><li>Confidence usually comes with a greater feeling of relaxation that is clearly reflected in the face, and with a greater freedom of movement. Those who are powerful will feel allowed to look around more at others, choosing to make eye contact with whomever they please. </li><li>Their eyelids are more closed, a sign of seriousness and competence. If they feel bored or annoyed, they show it more freely and openly. They often smile less, frequent smiling being a sign of overall insecurity. </li><li>They feel more entitled to touch people, such as with friendly pats on the back or on the arm. </li><li>They stand taller, and their gestures are relaxed and comfortable. Most important, others feel compelled to imitate their style and mannerisms. </li><li>For deception, the best we can do is to learn to recognize certain telltale signs of an attempt at deception and maintain our skepticism as we examine the evidence further. </li><li>The most clear and common sign comes when people assume an extra-animated front. </li><li>Similarly, if people are trying to cover something up, they tend to become extra vehement, righteous, and chatty. They are playing on the conviction bias. </li><li>In both cases—the cover-up and the soft sell—the deceiver is striving to distract you from the truth. </li><li>With such deceivers you will often notice that one part of the face or the body is more expressive to attract your attention. This will often be the area around the mouth, with large smiles and changing expressions. This is the easiest area of the body for people to manipulate and create an animated effect. But it could also be exaggerated gestures with the hands and arms. </li><li>The key is that you will detect tension and anxiety in other parts of the body, because it is impossible for them to control all of the muscles. </li></ul><p>The Art of Impression Management </p><ul><li>Master the nonverbal cues: radiate confidence, flash genuine smiles, mirror the people you deal with. </li><li>Be a method actor: learn how to consciously put yourself in the right emotional mood. </li><li>Adapt to your audience: shape your nonverbal cues to audience style and taste. </li><li>Create the proper first impression: give extra attention to your first appearance before and individual or group. </li><li>Use dramatic effects: make your appearances and behavior less predictable. </li><li>Project saintly qualities: show yourself as progressive, supremely tolerant and open-minded. </li></ul><h4><strong>4: Determine the Strength of People’s Character - The Law of Compulsive Behavior</strong></h4><ul><li>When choosing people to work and associate with, do not be mesmerized by their reputation or taken in by the surface image they try to project. Instead, train yourself to look deep within them and see their character.</li><li>Gauge the relative strength of their character by how well they handle adversity, their ability to adapt and work with other people, their patience and ability to learn.</li><li>A person of strong character is like gold—rare but invaluable. They can adapt, learn, and improve themselves.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>Character, then, is something that is so deeply ingrained or stamped within us that it compels us to act in certain ways, beyond our awareness and control. We can conceive of this character as having three essential components, each layered on top of the other, giving this character depth.</li><li>The first comes from genetics. The second, our early years and the attachments we formed. The third is from our habits and experiences as we get older. </li><li>First, we must understand our own character, and find the negative patterns that you can see recurring in your life.</li><li>Second, we must develop our skill in reading the character of people we deal with. </li></ul><p>Character Signs</p><ul><li>The most significant indicator of people’s character comes through their actions over time. </li><li>At times of stress or crisis is when flaws become apparent, and similarly, how people handle power and responsibility. </li><li>Note that extroverts and introverts will have different characteristics, and you must recognize those to categorize them and judge their character correctly. </li><li>It is critical that you measure the relative strength of someone’s character as well. </li><li>The strength emanates from a feeling of personal security and self-worth. This allows such people to take criticism and learn from their experiences. This means they do not give up so easily, since they want to learn how to get better. They are rigorously persistent. People of strong character are open to new ideas and ways of doing things without compromising the basic principles they adhere to. In adversity they can retain their presence of mind. They can handle chaos and the unpredictable without succumbing to anxiety. They keep their word. They have patience, can organize a lot of material, and complete what they start. Not continually insecure about their status, they can also subsume their personal interests to the good of the group, knowing that what works best for the team will in the end make their life easier and better.</li></ul><p>Toxic Types</p><p>In general, you must learn to identify toxic character, and to not get involved or disengage as quickly as possible. </p><ul><li><strong>The Hyperperfectionist</strong>: patterns of initial success followed by burnout and spectacular failures. </li><li><strong>The Relentless Rebel</strong>: initially seem exciting, but are locked in adolescence. </li><li><strong>The Personalizer</strong>: seem sensitive and thoughtful, but take everything personally. </li><li><strong>The Drama Magnet</strong>: they are exciting to be around, but will eventually cause ugly drama. </li><li><strong>The Big Talker</strong>: they have big ideas, and are looking for help and backers, but can be afraid of actually implementing them. </li><li><strong>The Sexualizer</strong>: they seem charged with sexual energy, but will blend the boundaries of when this is appropriate. </li><li><strong>The Pampered Prince/Princess</strong>: they seem calm and confident and with a regal air, but will cause others to feel guilty for not attending to them. </li><li><strong>The Savior</strong>: they will save you from your difficulties and troubles; it is better to become self-reliant. </li><li><strong>The Easy Moralizer</strong>: they communicate a sense of injustice at this or that, but have a secret side with flaws. </li></ul><p>The Superior Character </p><ul><li>You can go in one of two directions: ignorance and denial, or examining yourself as thoroughly as possible. </li><li>The result of denial is simple: the compulsive behavior and the patterns become even more set into place. </li><li>The other direction is harder to take, but it is the only path that leads to true power and the formation of a superior character. It works in the following manner: You examine yourself as thoroughly as possible. You look at the deepest layers of your character, determining whether you are an introvert or extrovert, whether you tend to be governed by high levels of anxiety and sensitivity, or hostility and anger, or a profound need to engage with people. You look at your primal inclinations—those subjects and activities you are naturally drawn to. You examine the quality of attachments you formed with your parents, looking at your current relationships as the best sign of this. You look with rigorous honesty at your own mistakes and the patterns that continually hold you back. You know your limitations—those situations in which you do not do your best. You also become aware of the natural strengths in your character that have survived past adolescence. </li><li>Now, with this awareness, you are no longer the captive of your character, compelled to endlessly repeat the same strategies and mistakes. As you see yourself falling into one of your usual patterns, you can catch yourself in time and step back. You may not be able to completely eliminate such patterns, but with practice you can mitigate their effects. Knowing your limitations, you will not try your hand at things for which you have no capacity or inclination. </li><li>Finally, you need to also refine or cultivate those traits that go into a strong character—resilience under pressure, attention to detail, the ability to complete things, to work with a team, to be tolerant of people’s differences. The only way to do so is to work on your habits, which go into the slow formation of your character. For instance, you train yourself to not react in the moment by repeatedly placing yourself in stressful or adverse situations in order to get used to them. </li></ul><h4><strong>5: Become an Elusive Object of Desire - The Law of Covetousness</strong></h4><ul><li>Absence and presence have very primal effects upon us. Too much presence suffocates; a degree of absence spurs our interest. </li><li>We are marked by the continual desire to possess what we do not have—the object projected by our fantasies. </li><li>Learn to create some mystery around you, to use strategic absence to make people desire your return, to want to possess you. Dangle in front of others what they are missing most in life, what they are forbidden to have, and they will go crazy with desire. </li><li>The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Overcome this weakness in yourself by embracing your circumstances, your fate. </li></ul><p>The Object of Desire </p><ul><li>Instead of focusing on what you want and covet in the world, you must train yourself to focus on others, on their repressed desires and unmet fantasies. </li><li>People do not want truth and honesty, no matter how much we hear such nonsense endlessly repeated. They want their imaginations to be stimulated and to be taken beyond their banal circumstances. They want fantasy and objects of desire to covet and grope after. Create an air of mystery around you and your work. Associate it with something new, unfamiliar, exotic, progressive, and taboo. </li><li>Do not define your message but leave it vague. Create an illusion of ubiquity—your object is seen everywhere and desired by others. </li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature </p><ul><li>By nature, we humans are not easily contented with our circumstances. By some perverse force within us, the moment we possess something or get what we want, our minds begin to drift toward something new and different, to imagine we can have better. </li><li>More and more people have come to believe that others should simply desire them for who they are. This means revealing as much as they can about themselves, exposing all of their likes and dislikes, and making themselves as familiar as possible. They leave no room for imagination or fantasy. </li><li><strong>Understand</strong>: People may point to all of this as evidence that we humans are becoming more honest and truthful, but human nature does not change within a few generations. People have become more obvious and forthright not out of some deep moral calling but out of increasing self-absorption and overall laziness. It requires no effort to simply be oneself or to blast one’s message. </li><li>Do not swallow the easy moralism of the day, which urges honesty at the expense of desirability. Go in the opposite direction. With so few people out there who understand the art of desirability, it affords you endless opportunities to shine and exploit people’s repressed fantasies. </li></ul><p>Strategies for Stimulating Desire </p><p><strong>Know how and when to withdraw</strong>. </p><ul><li>Your presence should have a bit of coldness to it, as if you could do without others. </li><li>Add to this a bit of blankness and amiguity as to who you are. Your opinions, values, and tastes are never too obvious to people. </li><li>With the work you produce you can create similar covetous effects. Always leave the presentation and the message relatively open-ended. </li></ul><p><strong>Create rivalries of desire</strong>. </p><ul><li>If you can somehow create the impression that others desire you or your work, you will pull people into your current without having to say a word or impose yourself. </li></ul><p><strong>Use induction</strong>. </p><ul><li>Associate your object with something ever so slightly illicit, unconventional, or politically advanced. </li><li>Incorporate desire by giving the impression you are revealing secrets that should really not be shared. </li><li>It is not possession but desire that secretly impels people. </li></ul><p>The Supreme Desire </p><ul><li>In general, do not constantly wait and hope for something better, but rather make the most of what you have. </li><li>In the end what you really must covet is a deeper relationship to reality, which will bring you calmness, focus, and practical powers to alter what it is possible to alter. </li></ul><h4><strong>6: Elevate Your Perspective - The Law of Shortsightedness</strong></h4><ul><li>It is in the animal part of your nature to be most impressed by what you can see and hear in the present—the latest news reports and trends, the opinions and actions of the people around you, whatever seems the most dramatic.</li><li>Learn to measure people by the narrowness or breadth of their vision; avoid entangling yourself with those who cannot see the consequences of their actions, who are in a continual reactive mode. They will infect you with this energy. Your eyes must be on the larger trends that govern events, on that which is not immediately visible. Never lose sight of your long-term goals. With an elevated perspective, you will have the patience and clarity to reach almost any objective.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>First, facing a problem, conflict, or some exciting opportunity, we train ourselves to detach from the heat of the moment.</li><li>Next, we start to deepen and widen our perspective. In considering the nature of the problem we are confronting, we don’t just grab for an immediate explanation, but instead we dig deeper and consider other possibilities, other possible motivations for the people involved. We force ourselves to look at the overall context of the event, not just what immediately grabs our attention. We imagine as best we can the negative consequences of the various strategies we are contemplating.</li></ul><p>Four Signs of Shortsightedness and Strategies to Overcome Them</p><p><strong>1. Unintended consequences.</strong></p><ul><li>In any group or team, put at least one person in charge of gaming out all of the possible consequences of a strategy or line of action, preferably someone with a skeptical and prudent frame of mind.</li></ul><p><strong>2. Tactical hell.</strong></p><ul><li>You find yourself embroiled in several struggles or battles. You have actually lost sight of your long-term goals, what you’re really fighting for. Instead it has become a question of asserting your ego and proving you are right.</li><li>The only solution is to back out temporarily or permanently from these battles, particularly if they are occurring on several fronts. You need some detachment and perspective.</li><li>Win through your actions, not your words.</li><li>Start to think again about your long-term goals. Create a ladder of values and priorities in your life, reminding yourself of what really matters to you.</li><li>In life as in warfare, strategists will always prevail over tacticians.</li></ul><p><strong>3. Ticker tape fever</strong>.</p><ul><li>When we face any kind of problem or obstacle, we must make an effort to slow things down and step back, wait a day or two before taking action.</li><li>Second, when faced with issues that are important, we must have a clear sense of our long-term goals and how to attain them.</li></ul><p><strong>4. Lost in trivia</strong>.</p><ul><li>You feel overwhelmed by the complexity of your work. You feel the need to be on top of all the details and global trends so you can control things better, but you are drowning in information.</li><li>What you need is a mental filtering system based on a scale of priorities and your long-term goals. Knowing what you want to accomplish in the end will help you weed out the essential from the nonessential.</li></ul><p>The Farsighted Human</p><ul><li>Your task as a student of human nature, and someone aspiring to reach the greater potential of the human animal, is to widen your relationship to time as much as possible, and slow it down. This means you do not see the passage of time as an enemy but rather as a great ally.</li><li>In relation to the future, you think deeply about your long-term goals. They are not vague dreams but concrete objectives, and you have mapped out a path to reach them.</li><li>You know what you like and dislike, you know who you are. This will help you maintain your self-love, which is so critical in resisting the descent into deep narcissism and in helping you to develop empathy.</li><li>&quot;The years teach much which the days never know.&quot; —Ralph Waldo Emerson</li></ul><h4><strong>7: Soften People’s Resistance by Confirming Their Self-Opinion - The Law of Defensiveness</strong></h4><ul><li>Life is harsh and people competitive. We naturally must look after our own interests. We also want to feel that we are independent, doing our own bidding. That is why when others try to persuade or change us, we become defensive and resistant. </li><li>That is why to get people to move from their defensive positions you must always make it seem like what they are doing is of their own free will.</li><li>Creating a feeling of mutual warmth helps soften people’s resistance and makes them want to help. Never attack people for their beliefs or make them feel insecure about their intelligence or goodness—that will only strengthen their defensiveness and make your task impossible.</li><li>Make them feel that by doing what you want they are being noble and altruistic - the ultimate lure. Learn to tame your own stubborn nature and free your mind from its defensive and closed positions, unleashing your creative powers.</li></ul><p>The Influence Game</p><ul><li>Understand: Influence over people and the power that it brings are gained in the opposite way from what you might imagine. Normally we try to charm people with our own ideas, showing ourselves off in the best light.</li><li>The road to influence and power is to go in the opposite direction: Put the focus on others. Let them do the talking. Let them be the stars of the show. Their opinions and values are worth emulating.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>The key to influencing people is that they feel inwardly secure–not judged but accepted by friends, the group, or the loved one.</li><li>Understand: creating this feeling of validation is the golden key that will unlock people’s defences.</li><li>People have a perception about themselves that we shall call their self-opinion. This self-opinion can be accurate or not—it doesn’t matter. What matters is how people perceive their own character and worthiness. And there are three qualities to people’s self-opinion that are nearly universal: “I am autonomous, acting of my own free will”; “I am intelligent in my own way”; and “I am basically good and decent.”</li><li>To convince people of something, actively confirm their self-opinion. In this case you are fulfilling one of people’s greatest emotional needs. We can imagine that we are independent, intelligent, decent, and self-reliant, but only other people can truly confirm this for us.</li><li>Your task is simple: instill in people a feeling of inner security. Mirror their values; show that you like and respect them. Make them feel you appreciate their wisdom and experience. Generate an atmosphere of mutual warmth. Get them to laugh along with you, instilling a feeling of rapport. All of this works best if the feelings are not completely faked.</li></ul><p>Five Strategies for Becoming a Master Persuader</p><p><strong>1. Transform yourself into a deep listener.</strong></p><ul><li>Imagine every person you encounter as someone who is full of undiscovered surprises. Seek to discover them.</li></ul><p><strong>2. Infect people with the proper mood.</strong></p><ul><li>If you are relaxed, happy, and anticipating a pleasurable experience, others will sense and mirror this.</li></ul><p><strong>3. Confirm their self-opinion</strong>.</p><ul><li>Allow people to convince you of their point, and ask them for advice. They will be more open to future changes.</li><li>Inspire them with a greater cause.</li><li>Remind them of the good things they have done in the past. They will want to confirm those actions (“I am generous”).</li></ul><p><strong>4. Allay their insecurities</strong>.</p><ul><li>Praise and flatter the qualities people are most insecure about. Praise for effort instead of talent.</li></ul><p><strong>5. Use people’s resistance and stubbornness.</strong></p><ul><li>For those who are difficult to influence, channel their strong emotions in a productive direction, use their language, and agree with their hard positions–they may seek to rebel.</li></ul><p>The Flexible Mind–Self-Strategies</p><ul><li>When it comes to the ideas and opinions you hold, see them as toys or building blocks that you are playing with. Some you will keep, others you will knock down, but your spirit remains flexible and playful.</li><li>When it comes to your own self-opinion, try to have some ironic distance from it. Make yourself aware of its existence and how it operates within you. Come to terms with the fact that you are not as free and autonomous as you like to believe.</li></ul><h4><strong>8: Change Your Circumstances by Changing Your Attitude - The Law of Self-Sabotage</strong></h4><ul><li>Each of us has a particular way of looking at the world, of interpreting events and the actions of people around us. This is our attitude, and it determines much of what happens to us in life.</li><li>If our attitude is essentially fearful, we see the negative in every circumstance. We stop ourselves from taking chances. We blame others for mistakes and fail to learn from them.</li><li>If we feel hostile or suspicious, we make others feel such emotions in our presence. We sabotage our career and relationships by unconsciously creating the circumstances we fear the most.</li><li>The human attitude, however, is malleable. By making our attitude more positive, open, and tolerant of other people, we can spark a different dynamic—we can learn from adversity, create opportunities out of nothing, and draw people to us.</li></ul><p>The Ultimate Freedom</p><ul><li>Understand: We all have moments of great doubt about ourselves.</li><li>By accepting people, by understanding and if possible even loving them for their human nature, we can liberate our minds from obsessive and petty emotions.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>What we must understand about the attitude is not only how it colors our perceptions but also how it actively determines what happens to us in life—our health, our relations with people, and our success. Our attitude has a self-fulfilling dynamic.</li><li>Your task as a student of human nature is twofold: First, you must become aware of your own attitude and how it slants your perceptions.</li><li>Second, you must not only be aware of the role of your attitude but also believe in its supreme power to alter your circumstances.</li><li>View your health as largely dependent on your attitude. Feeling excited and open to adventure, you can tap into energy reserves you did not know that you had.</li><li>View problems and failures as means to learn and toughen yourself up. You can get through anything with persistence.</li><li>Do not be afraid to exaggerate the role of willpower. It is an exaggeration with a purpose. It leads to a positive self-fulfilling dynamic, and that is all you care about.</li></ul><p>The Constricted (Negative) Attitude</p><p><strong>The Hostile Attitude</strong>.</p><ul><li>Their hostility permeates everything they do—the way they argue and provoke (they are always right); the nasty undertone of their jokes; the greediness with which they demand attention; the pleasure they get out of criticizing others and seeing them fail.</li></ul><p><strong>The Anxious Attitude</strong>.</p><ul><li>If you notice such tendencies in yourself, the best antidote is to pour your energies into work. Focusing your attention outward into a project of some sort will have a calming effect.</li></ul><p><strong>The Avoidant Attitude</strong>.</p><ul><li>People with this attitude see the world through the lens of their insecurities, generally related to doubts about their competence and intelligence.</li><li>These types find it hard to commit to anything, for a good reason.</li></ul><p><strong>The Depressive Attitude</strong>.</p><ul><li>These types often have a secret need to wound others, encouraging behavior such as betrayal or criticism that will feed their depression.</li></ul><p><strong>The Resentful Attitude</strong>.</p><ul><li>Because they have a continual feeling of being wronged, they tend to project this on to the world, seeing oppressors everywhere.</li><li>In general, they carry themselves with an air of arrogance; they are above others even if no one recognizes this.</li></ul><p>The Expansive (Positive) Attitude</p><ul><li>Without wasting another day under such conditions, your goal is to break out, to expand what you see and what you experience.</li></ul><p><strong>How to view the world:</strong></p><ul><li>See yourself as an explorer.</li><li>You are in continual search of new ideas and new ways of thinking.</li></ul><p><strong>How to view adversity</strong>: </p><ul><li>Your goal is to move in the opposite direction, to embrace all obstacles as learning experiences, as means to getting stronger.</li></ul><p><strong>How to view yourself</strong>: </p><ul><li>Whatever you are doing now, you are in fact capable of much more, and by thinking that, you will create a very different dynamic.</li><li>These moments can come from exerting yourself past what you thought were your limits; they can come from overcoming great obstacles, climbing a mountain, taking a trip to a very different culture, or the deep bonding that comes from any form of love. You want to deliberately go in search of such moments, stimulate them if you can.</li></ul><p><strong>How to view your energy and health</strong>:</p><ul><li>In general, you can safely push yourself beyond what you think are your physical limits by feeling excited and challenged by a project or endeavor.</li><li>People get old and prematurely age by accepting physical limits to what they can do, making it a self-fulfilling cycle.</li></ul><p><strong>How to view other people:</strong></p><ul><li>You must try to get rid of the natural tendency to take what people do and say as something personally directed at you, particularly if what they say or do is unpleasant.</li></ul><h4><strong>9: Confront Your Dark Side - The Law of Repression</strong></h4><ul><li>People are rarely who they seem to be. Lurking beneath their polite, affable exterior is inevitably a dark, shadow side consisting of the insecurities and the aggressive, selfish impulses they repress and carefully conceal from public view. This dark side leaks out in behavior that will baffle and harm you.</li><li>Learn to recognize the signs of the Shadow before they become toxic. See people’s overt traits—toughness, saintliness, et cetera—as covering up the opposite quality. You must become aware of your own dark side. In being conscious of it you can control and channel the creative energies that lurk in your unconscious. By integrating the dark side into your personality, you will be a more complete human and will radiate an authenticity that will draw people to you.</li></ul><p>The Dark Side</p><ul><li>Your task as a student of human nature is to recognize and examine the dark side of your character. Once subjected to conscious scrutiny, it loses its destructive power.</li><li>It might seem that only those who project continual strength and saintliness can become successful, but that is not at all the case. By playing a role to such an extent, by straining to live up to ideals that are not real, you will emit a phoniness that others pick up.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>Most of us succeed in becoming a positive social animal, but at a price. We end up missing the intensity that we experienced in childhood, the full gamut of emotions, and even the creativity that came with this wilder energy.</li><li>The Shadow wants to release some of the inner tension and come back to life.</li></ul><p>The following are some of the most notable signs of such release.</p><ul><li><strong>Contradictory behavior.</strong></li><li><strong>Emotional outbursts.</strong></li><li><strong>Vehement denial.</strong></li><li><strong>“Accidental” behavior.</strong></li><li><strong>Overidealization.</strong></li><li><strong>Projection:</strong> This is by far the most common way of dealing with our Shadow, because it offers almost daily release. We cannot admit to ourselves certain desires—for sex, for money, for power, for superiority in some area—and so instead we project those desires onto others.</li></ul><p>Deciphering the Shadow: Contradictory Behavior</p><ul><li>As a student of human nature, you must understand the reality: the emphatic trait generally rests on top of the opposite trait, distracting and concealing it from public view.</li></ul><p>The following are seven of the most emphatic traits that you must learn to recognize and manage appropriately:</p><p><strong>The Tough Guy</strong>: He projects a rough masculinity that is intended to intimidate.</p><p><strong>The Saint</strong>: These people are paragons of goodness and purity. They support the best and most progressive causes.</p><ul><li>To distinguish between the real and the fake, ignore their words and the aura they project, focusing on their deeds and the details of their life.</li></ul><p><strong>The Passive-Aggressive Charmer:</strong> These types are amazingly nice and accommodating when you first meet them, so much so that you tend to let them into your life rather quickly.</p><ul><li>Then something ugly occurs–a blowup, some act of sabotage or betrayal–so unlike that nice, charming person you first befriended.</li></ul><p><strong>The Fanatic:</strong> You are impressed by their fervour, in support of whatever cause.</p><ul><li>But at the key moment when they could possibly deliver what they have promised, they unexpectedly slip up.</li></ul><p><strong>The Rigid Rationalist</strong>: All of us have irrational tendencies.</p><ul><li>True rationality should be sober and skeptical about its own power and not publicize itself.</li></ul><p><strong>The Snob</strong>: These types have a tremendous need to be different from others, to assert some form of superiority over the mass of mankind.</p><ul><li>Those who are truly original and different do not need to make a great show of it. In fact, they are often embarrassed by being so different and learn to appear more humble.</li></ul><p><strong>The Extreme Entrepreneur</strong>: At first glance these types seem to possess very positive qualities, especially for work. They maintain very high standards and pay exceptional attention to detail. They are willing to do much of the work themselves. If mixed with talent, this often leads to success early on in life.</p><ul><li>But underneath the façade the seeds of failure are taking root. This first appears in their inability to listen to others. They cannot take advice. They need no one.</li><li>Often their outward show of self-reliance disguises a hidden desire to have others take care of them, to regress to the dependency of childhood.</li></ul><p>The Integrated Human</p><ul><li>Conscious of our Shadow, we can control, channel, and integrate it.</li></ul><p>The following are four clear and practical steps for achieving this.</p><p><strong>See the Shadow.</strong></p><ul><li>This is the most difficult step in the process. The Shadow is something we deny and repress.</li><li>The best way to begin is to look for indirect signs, as indicated in the sections above.</li><li>Look at your own emotional outbursts and moments of extreme touchiness.</li></ul><p><strong>Embrace the Shadow</strong>.</p><ul><li>Your goal here must be not only complete acceptance of the Shadow but the desire to integrate it into your present personality.</li></ul><p><strong>Explore the Shadow.</strong></p><ul><li>Consider the Shadow as having depths that contain great creative energy. You want to explore these depths, which include more primitive forms of thinking and the darkest impulses that come out of our animal nature.</li><li>We all have dreams, intuitions, and free associations of ideas, but we often refuse to pay attention to them or take them seriously. Instead you want to develop the habit of using this form of thought more often by having unstructured time in which you can play with ideas, widen the options you consider, and pay serious attention to what comes to you in less conscious states of mind.</li></ul><p><strong>Show the Shadow.</strong></p><ul><li>It would be wise to look at those who are successful in their field. Inevitably we will see that most of them are much less bound by these codes. They are generally more assertive and overtly ambitious. They care much less what others think of them. They flout the conventions openly and proudly. And they are not punished but greatly rewarded.</li><li>Get in the habit in your daily life of asserting yourself more and compromising less. Do this under control and at opportune moments.</li><li>Start caring less what people think of you. You will feel a tremendous sense of liberation.</li><li>Realize that at times you must offend and even hurt people who block your path, who have ugly values, who unjustly criticize you. Use such moments of clear injustice to bring out your Shadow and show it proudly.</li><li>Flout the very conventions that others follow so scrupulously. For centuries, and still to this day, gender roles represent the most powerful convention of all.</li></ul><h4><strong>10: Beware the Fragile Ego - The Law of Envy</strong></h4><ul><li>We humans are naturally compelled to compare ourselves with one another. We are continually measuring people’s status, the levels of respect and attention they receive, and noticing any differences between what we have and what they have.</li><li>For some of us, this need to compare serves as a spur to excel through our work. For others, it can turn into deep envy—feelings of inferiority and frustration that lead to covert attacks and sabotage.</li><li>Nobody admits to acting out of envy. You must recognize the early warning signs—praise and bids for friendship that seem effusive and out of proportion; subtle digs at you under the guise of good-natured humor; apparent uneasiness with your success. It is most likely to crop up among friends or your peers in the same profession.</li><li>Learn to deflect envy by drawing attention away from yourself. Develop your sense of self-worth from internal standards and not incessant comparisons.</li></ul><p>Fatal Friends</p><ul><li>Understand: Envy occurs most commonly and painfully among friends.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>Your task as a student of human nature is to transform yourself into a master decoder of envy.</li></ul><p>Signs of Envy</p><p>You want to look for combinations or repetitions of the following signs, a pattern, before moving to alert mode.</p><p><strong>Microexpressions.</strong></p><ul><li>Tell suspected enviers some good news about yourself—a promotion, a new and exciting love interest, a book contract. You will notice a very quick expression of disappointment.</li><li>Equally, tell them some misfortune of yours and notice the uncontrollable microexpression of joy in your pain, what is commonly known as <em>schadenfreude.</em></li></ul><p><strong>Poisonous praise.</strong></p><p><strong>Backbiting.</strong></p><ul><li>Gossip is a frequent cover for envy, a convenient way to vent it by sharing malicious rumours and stories.</li></ul><p><strong>The push and pull.</strong></p><ul><li>Criticism of you that seems sincere but not directly related to anything you have actually done is usually a strong sign of envy.</li></ul><p>Envier Types</p><p>The following are five common varieties of enviers, how they tend to disguise themselves, and their particular forms of attack.</p><p><strong>The Leveler.</strong></p><ul><li>When you first meet them, levelers can seem rather entertaining and interesting. They tend to have a wicked sense of humor. They are good at putting down those who are powerful and deflating the pretentious.</li><li>But where they differ from people with genuine empathy for underdogs is that levelers cannot recognize or appreciate excellence in almost anyone, except those who are dead. They have fragile egos.</li></ul><p><strong>The Self-Entitled Slacker.</strong></p><ul><li>In the world today many people rightfully feel entitled to have success and the good things in life, but they usually understand that this will require sacrifice and hard work. Some people, however, feel they deserve attention and many rewards in life as if these are naturally due to them.</li><li>Be extra careful in the work environment with those who like to maintain their position through charm and being political, rather than by getting things done.</li></ul><p><strong>The Status Fiend</strong>.</p><ul><li>As social animals we humans are very sensitive to our rank and position within any group.</li><li>You will notice such fiends by the questions they ask about how much money you make, whether you own your home, what kind of neighborhood it’s in, whether you occasionally fly business class, and all of the other petty things that they can use as points of comparison.</li></ul><p><strong>The Attacher.</strong></p><ul><li>In any court-like environment of power, you will inevitably find people who are drawn to those who are successful or powerful, not out of admiration but out of secret envy. They find a way to attach themselves as friends or assistants.</li><li>These types have a trait that is quite common to all enviers: they lack a clear sense of purpose in their life.</li></ul><p><strong>The Insecure Master.</strong></p><ul><li>For some people, reaching a high position validates their self-opinion and boosts their self-esteem. But there are some who are more anxious.</li><li>Holding a high position tends to increase their insecurities, which they are careful to conceal.</li><li>Pay attention to those above you for signs of insecurity and envy. They will inevitably have a track record of firing people for strange reasons.</li></ul><p>Envy Triggers</p><ul><li>The most common trigger is a sudden change in your status, which alters your relationship to friends and peers.</li><li>The best you can do in such situations is to have some self-deprecating humour and to not rub people’s faces in your success, which, after all, might contain some elements of luck.</li></ul><p>Beyond Envy</p><ul><li>What we must aspire to is to slowly transform our comparing inclination into something positive, productive, and prosocial. The following are five simple exercises to help you in achieving this.</li></ul><p>The following are five simple exercises to help you in achieving this.</p><p><strong>Move closer to what you envy.</strong></p><p><strong>Engage in downward comparisons.</strong></p><ul><li>You normally focus on those who seem to have more than you, but it would be wiser to look at those who have less.</li><li>This should stimulate not only empathy for the many who have less but also greater gratitude for what you actually possess. Such gratitude is the best antidote to envy.</li></ul><p><strong>Practice<em>Mitfreude</em>.</strong></p><ul><li>Instead of merely congratulating people on their good fortune, something easy to do and easily forgotten, you must instead actively try to feel their joy, as a form of empathy.</li></ul><p><strong>Transmute envy into emulation</strong>.</p><ul><li>Instead of wanting to hurt or steal from the person who has achieved more, we should desire to raise ourselves up to his or her level.</li><li>Having a sense of purpose, a feel for your calling in life, is a great way to immunize yourself against envy. You are focused on your own life and plans, which are clear and invigorating.</li></ul><p><strong>Admire human greatness.</strong></p><ul><li>It is worth cultivating moments in life in which we feel immense satisfaction and happiness divorced from our own success or achievements. This happens commonly when we find ourselves in a beautiful landscape—the mountains, the sea, a forest.</li><li>We do not feel the prying, comparing eyes of others, the need to have more attention or to assert ourselves. We are simply in awe of what we see, and it is intensely therapeutic.</li></ul><h4><strong>11: Know Your Limits - The Law of Grandiosity</strong></h4><ul><li>We humans have a deep need to think highly of ourselves. If that opinion of our goodness, greatness, and brilliance diverges enough from reality, we become grandiose. We imagine our superiority.</li><li>Often a small measure of success will elevate our natural grandiosity to even more dangerous levels. Our high self-opinion has now been confirmed by events. We forget the role that luck may have played in the success, or the contributions of others.</li><li>Losing contact with reality, we make irrational decisions. That is why our success often does not last. Look for the signs of elevated grandiosity in yourself and in others—overbearing certainty in the positive outcome of your plans; excessive touchiness if criticized; a disdain for any form of authority.</li><li>Counteract the pull of grandiosity by maintaining a realistic assessment of yourself and your limits. Tie any feelings of greatness to your work, your achievements, and your contributions to society.</li></ul><p>The Success Delusion</p><ul><li>Understand: Any success that we have in life inevitably depends on some good luck, timing, the contributions of others, the teachers who helped us along the way, the whims of the public in need of something new. Our tendency is to forget all of this and imagine that any success stems from our superior self.</li><li>Your task is the following: After any kind of success, analyze the components. See the element of luck that is inevitably there, as well as the role that other people, including mentors, played in your good fortune. This will neutralize the tendency to inflate your powers. Remind yourself that with success comes complacency, as attention becomes more important than the work and old strategies are repeated.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>You must see the signs of the disease in yourself and learn not only how to control your grandiose tendencies but also how to channel this energy into something productive.</li><li>We find increasing numbers of people who have little or no respect for authority or experts of any kind, no matter the experts’ level of training and experience, which they themselves lack.</li><li>Technology gives us the impression that everything in life can be as fast and simple as the information we can glean online.</li><li>You can measure the levels of grandiosity in people in several simple ways. For instance, notice how people respond to criticism of them or their work.</li><li>If people are successful, notice how they act in more private moments. Are they able to relax and laugh at themselves, letting go of their public mask, or have they so overidentified with their powerful public image that it carries over into their private life?</li><li>Grandiose people are generally big talkers.</li><li>Higher grandiose types generally display low levels of empathy. They are not good listeners.</li></ul><p>The Grandiose Leader</p><p>The following are six common illusions they like to create.</p><p><strong>I am destined.</strong></p><ul><li>Grandiose leaders often try to give the impression that they were somehow destined for greatness.</li></ul><p><strong>I’m the common man/woman.</strong></p><ul><li>In some cases grandiose leaders may have risen from the lower classes, but in general they either come from relatively privileged backgrounds or because of their success have lived removed from the cares of everyday people for quite some time.</li><li>The trick grandiose leaders play is to place the emphasis on their cultural tastes, not on the actual class they come from.</li></ul><p><strong>I rewrite the rules.</strong></p><ul><li>Grandiose leaders will often rely on their intuitions, disregarding the need for focus groups or any form of scientific feedback.</li></ul><p><strong>I have the golden touch.</strong></p><ul><li>Will try to create the legend that they have never really failed. If there were failures or setbacks in their career, it was always the fault of others who betrayed them.</li><li>Related to this is the belief that they can easily transfer their skills—a movie executive can become a theme park designer, a businessman can become the leader of a nation.</li></ul><p><strong>I’m invulnerable</strong>.</p><p>Practical Grandiosity</p><p>The problem is not with the energy itself, which can be used to fuel our ambitions, but with the direction it takes.</p><p>Although the precise way to channel the energy will depend on your field and skill level, the following are five basic principles that are essential for attaining the high level of fulfillment that can come from this reality-based form of grandiosity.</p><p><strong>Come to terms with your grandiose needs.</strong></p><ul><li>You must admit to yourself that you do want to feel important and be the center of attention.</li></ul><p><strong>Concentrate the energy.</strong></p><ul><li>You want to get into the habit of focusing deeply and completely on a single project or problem.</li><li>You will want to break this down into mini steps and goals along the way.</li><li>You want the goal to be relatively simple to reach, and within a time frame of months and not years.</li><li>Your objective here is to enter a state of flow.</li></ul><p><strong>Maintain a dialogue with reality.</strong></p><ul><li>Now you must actively search for feedback and criticism from people you respect or from your natural audience.</li></ul><p><strong>Seek out calibrated challenges.</strong></p><ul><li>Your goal with practical grandiosity is to continually look for challenges just above your skill level.</li></ul><p><strong>Let loose your grandiose energy.</strong></p><ul><li>Once you have tamed this energy, made it serve your ambitions and goals, you should feel safe to let it loose upon occasion.</li><li>What this means is that you occasionally allow yourself to entertain ideas or projects that represent greater challenges than you have considered in the past.</li></ul><h4><strong>12: Reconnect to the Masculine or Feminine Within You - The Law of Gender Rigidity</strong></h4><ul><li>All of us have masculine and feminine qualities—some of this is genetic, and some of it comes from the profound influence of the parent of the opposite sex. But in the need to present a consistent identity in society, we tend to repress these qualities, overidentifying with the masculine or feminine role expected of us. And we pay a price for this. We lose valuable dimensions to our character.</li><li>You must become aware of these lost masculine or feminine traits and slowly reconnect to them, unleashing creative powers in the process. You will become more fluid in your thinking.</li></ul><p>The Authentic Gender</p><ul><li>Understand: Your task is to let go of the rigidity that takes hold of you as you overidentify with the expected gender role. Power lies in exploring that middle range between the masculine and the feminine, in playing against people’s expectations.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>Your third task is to look inward, to see those feminine or masculine qualities that are repressed and undeveloped within you. You will catch glimpses of your anima or animus in your relationships with the opposite sex. That assertiveness you desire to see in a man, or empathy in a woman, is something you need to develop within yourself, bringing out that feminine or masculine undertone.</li></ul><p>Gender Projection–Types</p><p>Below you will find six of the more common types of gender projections. You must use this knowledge in three ways: First, you must recognize in yourself any tendency toward one of these forms of projection. This will help you understand something profound about your earliest years and make it much easier for you to withdraw your projections on other people.</p><p>Second, you must use this as an invaluable tool for gaining access to the unconscious of other people, to seeing their anima and animus in action.</p><p>And finally, you must be attentive to how others will project onto you their needs and fantasies.</p><p><strong>The Devilish Romantic:</strong> For the woman in this scenario, the man who fascinates her—often older and successful—might seem like a rake, the type who cannot help but chase after young women. But he is also romantic.</p><ul><li>But somehow he is not as strong, masculine, or romantic as she had imagined. He is a bit self-absorbed.</li></ul><p><strong>The Elusive Woman of Perfection</strong>: He thinks he has found the ideal woman. She will give him what he’s been missing in his prior relationships, whether that’s some wildness, some comfort and compassion, or a creative spark.</p><ul><li>Although he has had few actual encounters with the woman in question, he can imagine all kinds of positive experiences with her.</li><li>What they really need is to find and interact with a real woman, accept her inevitable flaws, and give more of themselves.</li></ul><p><strong>The Lovable Rebel</strong>: For the woman who is drawn to this type, the man who intrigues her has a noticeable disdain for authority. He is a nonconformist.</p><ul><li>Unlike the Devilish Romantic, this man will often be young and not so successful.</li><li>If a relationship does ensue, however, she will see a totally different side to him. He can’t hold down a good job, not because he’s a rebel but because he’s lazy and ineffectual.</li></ul><p><strong>The Fallen Woman</strong>: To the man in question, the woman who fascinates him seems so different from those he has known. Perhaps she comes from a different culture or social class.</p><ul><li>Men of this type often had strong mother figures in their childhood. They became good, obedient boys, excellent students at school. Consciously they are attracted to well-educated women, to those who seem good and perfect. But unconsciously they are drawn to women who are imperfect, bad, of dubious character.</li><li>They project onto such women weakness and vulnerability.</li><li>Men who engage in this kind of projection need to develop the less conventional sides of their character. They need to move outside their comfort zone and try new experiences on their own. They require more challenges, and even a bit of danger that will help loosen them up. Perhaps they need to take more risks at work. They also need to develop the more physical and sensual side of their character.</li></ul><p><strong>The Superior Man:</strong> He seems brilliant, skilled, strong, and stable. He radiates confidence and power. He could be a high-powered businessman, a professor, an artist, a guru.</p><p><strong>The Woman to Worship Him</strong>: He’s driven and ambitious, but his life is hard. It’s a harsh, unforgiving world out there, and it’s not easy to find any comfort. He feels something missing in his life. Then along comes a woman who is attentive to him, warm, and engaging. She seems to admire him. He feels overwhelmingly drawn to her and her energy.</p><ul><li>He tends to drive himself too hard. He must learn to comfort and soothe himself, to withdraw from time to time and be satisfied with his accomplishments. He needs to be able to care for himself. This will drastically improve his relationships. He will give more, instead of waiting to be adored and taken care of.</li></ul><p>The Original Man/Woman</p><ul><li>Understand: The return to your original nature contains elemental power. By relating more to the natural feminine or masculine parts within you, you will unleash energy that has been repressed; your mind will recover its natural fluidity; you will understand and relate better to those of the opposite sex; and by ridding yourself of the defensiveness you have in relation to your gender role, you will feel secure in who you are.</li><li>But what is truly needed in the modern world is to see the masculine and the feminine as completely equal in potential reasoning power and strength of action, but in different ways.</li></ul><p><strong>Masculine and feminine styles of thinking:</strong></p><ul><li>Masculine thinking tends toward focusing on what separates phenomena from one another and categorizing them. It looks for contrasts between things to better label them. It wants to take things apart, like a machine, and analyze the separate parts that go into the whole. Its thought process is linear, figuring out the sequence of steps that goes into an event.</li><li>The masculine way of thinking tends to prefer specialization, to dig deep into something specific.</li><li>Feminine thinking orients itself differently. It likes to focus on the whole, how the parts connect to one another, the overall gestalt. In looking at a group of people, it wants to see how they relate to one another.</li><li>As opposed to specialization, it is more interested in how different fields or forms of knowledge can connect to one another.</li><li>Almost all people will lean more toward one style of thinking. What you want for yourself is to create balance by leaning more in the other direction.</li></ul><p><strong>Masculine and feminine styles of action:</strong></p><ul><li>When it comes to taking action, the masculine tendency is to move forward, explore the situation, attack, and vanquish.</li><li>When confronted with a problem or the need to take action, the feminine style often prefers to first withdraw from the immediate situation and contemplate more deeply the options.</li><li>For those with the aggressive, masculine inclination, balance would come from training yourself to step back before taking any action.</li><li>For those with the feminine style, it is best to accustom yourself to various degrees of conflict and confrontation, so that any avoidance of it is strategic and not out of fear.</li></ul><p><strong>Masculine and feminine styles of self-assessment and learning:</strong></p><ul><li>In general, men will overestimate their abilities and display confidence in their skills that are often not warranted by circumstances.</li><li>For women, it is the opposite: When there is failure, they tend to blame themselves and look inward. If there is success, they are more prone to look at the role of others in helping them.</li><li>For those with the masculine style, when it comes to learning and improving yourself, it is best to reverse the order—to look inward when you make mistakes and to look outward when you have success.</li><li>Weakness comes from the inability to ask questions and to learn. Lower your self-opinion. You are not as great or skilled as you imagine. This will spur you to <em>actually</em> improve yourself.</li></ul><p><strong>Masculine and feminine styles of relating to people and leadership:</strong></p><ul><li>The masculine style is to require a leader, and to either aspire to that role or gain power by being the most loyal follower.</li><li>The feminine style is more about maintaining the group spirit and keeping the relationships smoothed out, with fewer differences among individuals.</li><li>For those with the masculine style, it is important to enlarge your concept of leadership.</li><li>Some of the greatest male leaders in history, however, managed to retain and develop their empathy.</li></ul><h4><strong>13: Advance with a Sense of Purpose - The Law of Aimlessness</strong></h4><ul><li>Unlike animals, with their instincts to guide them past dangers, we humans have to rely upon our conscious decisions. We do the best we can when it comes to our career path and handling the inevitable setbacks in life. But in the back of our minds we can sense an overall lack of direction, as we are pulled this way and that way by our moods and by the opinions of others. How did we end up in this job, in this place? Such drifting can lead to dead ends.</li><li>The way to avoid such a fate is to develop a sense of purpose, discovering our calling in life and using such knowledge to guide us in our decisions. We come to know ourselves more deeply—our tastes and inclinations. We trust ourselves, knowing which battles and detours to avoid. Even our moments of doubt, even our failures have a purpose—to toughen us up. With such energy and direction, our actions have unstoppable force.</li></ul><p>The Voice</p><ul><li>The moments in which we feel clarity and purpose are fleeting. To soothe the pain from our aimlessness, we might enmesh ourselves in various addictions, pursue new forms of pleasure, or give ourselves over to some cause that interests us for a few months or weeks.</li><li>The only solution to the dilemma is King’s solution—to find a higher sense of purpose, a mission that will provide us our own direction, not that of our parents, friends, or peers. This mission is intimately connected to our individuality, to what makes us unique.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>Both paths, however, tend to lead to some problems further down the road. In the first case, trying so many things out, we never really develop solid skills in one particular area.</li><li>In the second case, the career we committed to in our twenties might begin to feel a bit lifeless in our thirties. We chose it for practical purposes, and it has little connection to what actually interests us in life.</li><li><strong>Understand:</strong> This feeling of being lost and confused is not anyone’s fault. It is a natural reaction to having been born into times of great change and chaos.</li><li>Each human individual is radically unique. This uniqueness is inscribed in us in three ways—the one-of-a-kind configuration of our DNA, the particular way our brains are wired, and our experiences as we go through life, experiences that are unlike any other’s.</li><li>To tap into the guidance system, we must make the connection to our uniqueness as strong as possible, and learn to trust that voice.</li><li>We can say something similar about your life: operating with a high sense of purpose is a force multiplier. All of your decisions and actions have greater power behind them because they are guided by a central idea and purpose.</li><li>Your task as a student of human nature is twofold: First, you must become aware of the primary role that a sense of purpose plays in human life.</li><li>Your second task is to find <em>your</em> sense of purpose and elevate it by making the connection to it as deep as possible.</li></ul><p>Strategies for Developing a High Sense of Purpose</p><p><strong>Discover your calling in life.</strong></p><ul><li>You begin this strategy by looking for signs of primal inclinations in your earliest years, when they were often the clearest.</li><li>What you are looking for is moments in which you were unusually fascinated by a particular subject, or certain objects, or specific activities and forms of play.</li></ul><p><strong>Use resistance and negative spurs.</strong></p><ul><li>The key to success in any field is first developing skills in various areas, which you can later combine in unique and creative ways.</li></ul><p><strong>Absorb purposeful energy.</strong></p><ul><li>Try to find and associate with those who have a high sense of purpose.</li><li>Do not settle for virtual associations or mentors. They will not have the same effect.</li></ul><p><strong>Create a ladder of descending goals.</strong></p><ul><li>Operating with long-term goals will bring you tremendous clarity and resolve.</li><li>To manage such anxiety, you must create a ladder of smaller goals along the way, reaching down to the present.</li></ul><p><strong>Lose yourself in the work.</strong></p><ul><li>To offset this tedium, you need to have moments of flow in which your mind becomes so deeply immersed in the work that you are transported beyond your ego.</li><li>You must plan on giving yourself uninterrupted time with the work—as many hours in the day as possible, and as many days in the week.</li><li>The emphasis must be on the work, never on yourself or the desire for recognition.</li></ul><p>The Lure of False Purposes</p><p>Here are five of the most common forms of false purposes that have appealed to humans since the beginning of civilization.</p><p><strong>The pursuit of pleasure.</strong></p><p><strong>Causes and cults.</strong></p><p><strong>Money and success.</strong></p><ul><li>In the long run this philosophy often yields the most impractical of results.</li><li>Concentrate on maintaining a high sense of purpose, and the success will flow to you naturally.</li></ul><p><strong>Attention.</strong></p><ul><li>As with money and success, we have a much greater chance of attracting attention by developing a high sense of purpose and creating work that will naturally draw people to it.</li></ul><p><strong>Cynicism.</strong></p><h4><strong>14: Resist the Downward Pull of the Group - The Law of Conformity</strong></h4><ul><li>We have a side to our character that we are generally unaware of—our social personality, the different person we become when we operate in groups of people. In the group setting, we unconsciously imitate what others are saying and doing. We think differently, more concerned with fitting in and believing what others believe. We feel different emotions, infected by the group mood. We are more prone to taking risks, to acting irrationally, because everyone else is. This social personality can come to dominate who we are. Listening so much to others and conforming our behavior to them, we slowly lose a sense of our uniqueness and the ability to think for ourselves. The only solution is to develop self-awareness and a superior understanding of the changes that occur in us in groups. With such intelligence, we can become superior social actors, able to outwardly fit in and cooperate with others on a high level, while retaining our independence and rationality.</li></ul><p>An Experiment in Human Nature</p><ul><li>We inevitably feel the need for status and recognition, so let’s not deny it. Instead, let’s cultivate such status and recognition through our excellent work. We must accept our need to belong to the group and prove our loyalty, but let’s do it in more positive ways—by questioning group decisions that will harm it in the long run, by supplying divergent opinions, by steering the group in a more rational direction, gently and strategically. Let’s use the viral nature of emotions in the group but play on a different set of emotions: by staying calm and patient, by focusing on results and cooperating with others to get practical things done, we can begin to spread this spirit throughout the group.</li></ul><p>The Individual Effect</p><p><strong>The desire to fit in.</strong></p><ul><li>In the long run, it is much better to confront your conformity to the group ethos, so that you can become aware of it as it happens and control the process to some degree.</li></ul><p><strong>The need to perform.</strong></p><ul><li>In the group setting, we are always performing.</li></ul><p><strong>Emotional contagion</strong>.</p><ul><li>Certain emotions are more contagious than others, anxiety and fear being the strongest of all.</li></ul><p><strong>Hypercertainty</strong>.</p><ul><li>Whenever you feel unusually certain and excited about a plan or idea, you must step back and gauge whether it is a viral group effect operating on you.</li></ul><p>Group Dynamics</p><p><strong>Group culture.</strong></p><ul><li>Better to be aware and realize that the larger the group and the more established the culture over time, the more likely it will control you than the other way around.</li></ul><p><strong>Group rules and codes.</strong></p><ul><li>When you are new to a group, you must pay extra attention to these tacit codes.</li></ul><p><strong>The group court.</strong></p><ul><li>Learn to downplay your successes, to listen (or seem to listen) deeply to the ideas of others, strategically giving them credit and praise in meetings, paying attention to <em>their</em> insecurities.</li></ul><p><strong>Group factions.</strong></p><p>Understand</p><ul><li>First, you must become a consummate observer of yourself as you interact with groups of any size.</li><li>Your goal must be to lower your permeability by raising your self-esteem. If you feel strong and confident about what makes you unique—your tastes, your values, your own experience—you can more easily resist the group effect.</li><li>Become a consummate consumer of the groups you belong to or interact with.</li></ul><p>The Court and Its Courtiers</p><p>The following are sever of the more common types you will find.</p><p><strong>The Intriguer</strong>: These individuals can be particularly difficult to recognize. They seem intensely loyal to the boss and to the group. No one works harder or is more ruthlessly efficient.</p><ul><li>Behind the scenes they are continually intriguing to amass more power.</li></ul><p><strong>The Stirrer</strong>: This type is generally riddled with insecurities but adept at disguising them from those in the court.</p><ul><li>If a rebellion of some sort suddenly erupts within the court, you can be sure they had a finger in it.</li></ul><p><strong>The Gatekeeper</strong>: The goal of the game for these types is gaining exclusive access to leaders, monopolizing the flow of information to them.</p><ul><li>Recognize them early on by their shameless sycophancy toward the boss.</li></ul><p><strong>The Shadow Enabler:</strong> These people enable others (usually leaders) to act on their Shadow impulses. They often serve as the fall guy if what they advocated, or acted on, becomes public. Maintain a polite distance.</p><p><strong>The Court Jester</strong>:</p><ul><li>These types fall into such roles because secretly they have a fear of responsibility and a dread of failing.</li><li>Never take their existence as a sign that you can freely imitate their behavior.</li></ul><p><strong>The Mirrorer</strong>: These types are often among the most successful courtiers of all, because they are capable of playing the double game to the hilt—they are adept at charming leaders and fellow courtiers, maintaining a broad base of support.</p><ul><li>This is a role you might want to consider playing in the court because of the power it brings, but to pull it off you will have to be a great reader of people, sensitive to their nonverbal cues.</li></ul><p><strong>The Favorite and the Punching Bag</strong>: These two types occupy the highest and lowest rungs of the court.</p><ul><li>Try to avoid being lured into taking this position. Make your power dependent on your accomplishments and your usefulness, not on the friendly feelings people have for you.</li><li>Within the ruthless environment of the court, try to befriend the Punching Bag, showing a different way of behaving and taking the fun out of this cruel game.</li></ul><p>The Reality Group</p><ul><li>What creates a functional, healthy dynamic is the ability of the group to maintain a tight relationship to reality.</li><li>The healthy group puts primary emphasis on the work itself, on getting the most out of its resources and adapting to all of the inevitable changes. Not wasting time on endless political games, such a group can accomplish ten times more than the dysfunctional variety.</li></ul><p>The following are five key strategies for achieving this, all of which should be put into practice.</p><p><strong>Instill a collective sense of purpose.</strong></p><ul><li>This purpose is not vague or implied but clearly stated and publicized.</li></ul><p><strong>Assemble the right team of lieutenants.</strong></p><ul><li>You do not base your selection on people’s charm, and never hire friends.</li><li>You select for this team people who have skills that you lack, each individual with their particular strengths.</li><li>You also want this team of lieutenants to be diverse in temperament, background, and ideas.</li></ul><p><strong>Let information and ideas flow freely.</strong></p><ul><li>To achieve this, you want to encourage frank discussion up and down the line, with members trusting that they can do so. You listen to your foot soldiers.</li><li>Extend this open communication to the ability for the group to criticize itself and its performance, particularly after any mistakes or failures.</li></ul><p><strong>Infect the group with productive emotions.</strong></p><ul><li>As part of this strategy, always keep the group focused on completing concrete tasks, which will naturally ground and calm them.</li><li>Infect the group with a sense of resolution that emanates from you. You are not upset by setbacks; you keep advancing and working on problems. You are persistent.</li><li>Periodically change up routines, surprise the group with something new or challenging.</li><li>Most important, showing a lack of fear and an overall openness to new ideas will have the most therapeutic effect of all.</li></ul><p><strong>Forge a battle-tested group.</strong></p><ul><li>Give various members some relatively challenging tasks or shorter deadlines than usual, and see how they respond.</li><li>In the end, you want a group that has been through a few wars, dealt with them reasonably well, and now is battle-tested. They do not wilt at the sign of new obstacles and in fact welcome them.</li></ul><h4><strong>15: Make Them Want to Follow You - The Law of Fickleness</strong></h4><ul><li>Although styles of leadership change with the times, one constant remains: people are always ambivalent about those in power. They want to be led but also to feel free; they want to be protected and enjoy prosperity without making sacrifices. </li><li>When you are the leader of a group, people are continually prepared to turn on you the moment you seem weak or experience a setback. Do not succumb to the prejudices of the times, imagining that what you need to do to gain their loyalty is to seem to be their equal or their friend; people will doubt your strength, become suspicious of your motives, and respond with hidden contempt.</li><li>Authority is the delicate art of creating the appearance of power, legitimacy, and fairness while getting people to identify with you as a leader who is in their service. If you want to lead, you must master this art from early on in your life. Once you have gained people’s trust, they will stand by you as their leader, no matter the bad circumstances.</li></ul><p>The Entitlement Curse</p><ul><li>Understand: Whatever the cause, it infects all of us, and we must see this sense of entitlement as a curse. It makes us ignore the reality—people have no inherent reason to trust or respect us just because of who we are.</li><li>It makes us lazy and contented with the slightest idea or the first draft of our work.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>First and foremost, we must understand the fundamental task of any leader—to provide a far-reaching vision, to see the global picture, to work for the greater good of the group and maintain its unity. </li><li>We have to avoid ever seeming petty, self-serving, or indecisive.</li><li>Based on this vision, we must set practical goals and guide the group toward them.</li><li>At the same time, however, we must see leadership as a dynamic relationship we have with those being led. We have to understand that our slightest gesture has an unconscious effect on individuals.</li><li>And so we must pay great attention to our attitude, to the tone that we set. We need to attune ourselves to the shifting moods of the members of the group.</li><li>This empathy, however, must never mean becoming needlessly soft and pliant to the group’s will.</li><li>First, you must make yourself a consummate observer of the phenomenon of authority, using as a measuring device the degree of influence people wield without the use of force or motivational speeches.</li><li>You want to determine the source of their authority or lack of it. You want to discern moments when their authority waxes or wanes, and figure out why.</li><li>You want to develop some of the habits and strategies (see the next section) that will serve you well in projecting authority.</li><li>You must not fall for the counterproductive prejudices of the times we live in, in which the very concept of authority is often misunderstood and despised.</li><li>This disdain for authority and leadership has filtered its way throughout our culture. We no longer recognize authority in the arts. Everyone is a legitimate critic, and standards should be personal—nobody’s taste or judgment should be seen as superior.</li><li>All of these ideas and values have unintended consequences. Without authority in the arts, there is nothing to rebel against, no prior movement to overturn, no deep thinking to assimilate and later even reject. There is only an amorphous world of trends that flicker away with increasing speed.</li><li>Without parents as authority figures, we cannot go through the critical stage of rebellion in adolescence, in which we reject their ideas and discover our own identity. We grow up lost, constantly searching outside ourselves for that identity. </li><li>Without teachers and masters whom we acknowledge as superior and worthy of respect, we cannot learn from their experience and wisdom, perhaps even seeking later on to surpass them with new and better ideas.</li></ul><p>Strategies for Establishing Authority</p><ul><li>The authority you establish must emerge naturally from your character, from the particular strengths you possess.</li></ul><p><strong>Find your authority style: Authenticity.</strong></p><ul><li>Another archetype would be the <em>Founder.</em> These are the ones who establish a new order in politics or business. They generally have a keen sense of trends and a great aversion to the status quo. They are unconventional and independent minded. Their greatest joy is to tinker and invent something new.</li></ul><p><strong>Focus outwardly: the Attitude.</strong></p><ul><li>First, you hone your listening skills, absorbing yourself in the words and nonverbal cues of others.</li><li>Second, you dedicate yourself to earning people’s respect.</li><li>You earn their respect by respecting their individual needs and by proving that you are working for the greater good.</li><li>Third, you consider being a leader a tremendous responsibility, the welfare of the group hanging on your every decision. What drives you is not getting attention but bringing about the best results possible for the most people.</li></ul><p><strong>Cultivate the third eye: the Vision.</strong></p><ul><li>As early in life as possible, you train yourself to disconnect from the emotions roiling the group. You force yourself to raise your vision, to imagine the larger picture.</li><li>Once you have your vision, you then slowly work backward to the present, creating a reasonable and flexible way to reach your goal.</li><li>As the leader, you must be seen working as hard as or even harder than everyone else. You set the highest standards for yourself. You are consistent and accountable. If there are sacrifices that need to be made, you are the first to make them for the good of the group.</li></ul><p><strong>Lead from the front: the Tone.</strong></p><ul><li>Begin this early on in your career by developing the highest possible standards for your own work.</li></ul><p><strong>Stir conflicting emotions: the Aura.</strong></p><ul><li>Learn to balance presence and absence. If you are too present and familiar, always available and visible, you seem too banal.</li><li>Keep in mind that talking too much is a type of overpresence that grates and reveals weakness. Silence is a form of absence and withdrawal that draws attention; it spells self-control and power; when you do talk, it has a greater effect.</li></ul><p><strong>Never appear to take, always to give: the Taboo.</strong></p><ul><li>You must avoid overpromising to people.</li></ul><p><strong>Rejuvenate your authority: Adaptability.</strong></p><p>The Inner Authority</p><ul><li>You have a responsibility to contribute to the culture and times you live in.</li><li>To serve this higher purpose, you must cultivate what is unique about you.</li><li>Work every day on improving those skills that mesh with your unique spirit and purpose.</li><li>In a world full of endless distractions, you must focus and prioritize.</li><li>You must adhere to the highest standards in your work.</li><li>To maintain such standards, you must develop self-discipline and the proper work habits. You must pay great attention to the details in your work and place a premium value on effort.</li><li>Keep in mind that your life is short, that it could end any day. You must have a sense of urgency to make the most of this limited time.</li><li>When it comes to operating with this inner authority, we can consider Leonardo da Vinci our model. His motto in life was <em>ostinato rigore</em>, “relentless rigor.”</li></ul><h4><strong>16: See the Hostility Behind the Friendly Façade - The Law of Aggression</strong></h4><ul><li>On the surface, the people around you appear so polite and civilized. But beneath the mask, they are inevitably dealing with frustrations.</li><li>You must transform yourself into a superior observer of people’s unsatisfied aggressive desires, paying extra attention to the chronic aggressors and passive aggressors in our midst. You must recognize the signs—the past patterns of behavior, the obsessive need to control everything in their environment—that indicate the dangerous types. They depend on making you emotional—afraid, angry—and unable to think straight. Do not give them this power.</li><li>When it comes to your own aggressive energy, learn to tame and channel it for productive purposes—standing up for yourself, attacking problems with relentless energy, realizing great ambitions.</li></ul><p>The Sophisticated Aggressor</p><ul><li>When it comes to taking action against aggressors, you must be as sophisticated and crafty as they are. Do not try to fight with them directly. They are too relentless, and they usually have enough power to overwhelm you in direct confrontation. You must outwit them, finding unexpected angles of attack.</li><li>Threaten to expose the hypocrisy in their narrative or the past dirty deeds they have tried to keep hidden from the public. Make it seem that a battle with you will be costlier than they had imagined, that you are also willing to play a little dirty, but only in defense.</li></ul><p>The Source of Human Aggression</p><ul><li>You need to analyze how you handle your assertive energy. A way to judge yourself is to see how you handle moments of frustration and uncertainty, situations in which you have less control.</li><li>Your goal is not to repress this assertive energy but to become aware of it as it drives you forward and to channel it productively.</li><li>Your second task is to make yourself a master observer of aggression in the people around you.</li><li>Look for some telltale signs. First, if they have an unusually high number of enemies whom they have accumulated over the years, there must be a good reason, and not the one they tell you.</li><li>Pay close attention to how they justify their actions in the world. Aggressors will tend to present themselves as crusaders, as some form of genius who cannot help the way they behave.</li><li>The other myth, more prevalent today, is that we may have been violent and aggressive in the past, but that we are currently evolving beyond this, becoming more tolerant, enlightened, and guided by our better angels. But the signs of human aggression are just as prevalent in our era as in the past.</li></ul><p>Passive Aggression–Its Strategies and How to Counter Them</p><ul><li>The key to defending ourselves against passive aggressors is to recognize what they are up to as early as possible.</li></ul><p>The following are the most common strategies employed by such aggressors, and ways to counter them.</p><p><strong>The Subtle-Superiority Strategy:</strong></p><ul><li>If this is chronic behavior, you must not get angry or display overt irritation—passive aggressors thrive on getting a rise out of you. Instead, stay calm and subtly mirror their behavior, calling attention to what they are doing, and inducing some shame if possible.</li></ul><p><strong>The Sympathy Strategy:</strong></p><ul><li>To deal with the manipulation involved here you need some distance, and this is not easy.</li></ul><p><strong>The Dependency Strategy:</strong></p><ul><li>In general, be wary about people’s promises and never completely rely on them. With those who fail to deliver, it is more likely a pattern, and it is best to have nothing more to do with them.</li></ul><p><strong>The Insinuating-Doubt Strategy:</strong></p><ul><li>The best counter is to show that their insinuations have no effect on you. You remain calm. You “agree” with their faint praise, and perhaps you return it in kind.</li></ul><p><strong>The Blame-Shifter Strategy:</strong></p><ul><li>Be calm and even fair, accepting some of the blame for the problem, if that seems right. Realize that it is very difficult to get such types to reflect on their behavior and change it; they are too hypersensitive for this.</li></ul><p><strong>The Passive-Tyrant Strategy:</strong></p><ul><li>The only real counter is to quit and recuperate.</li></ul><p>Controlled Aggression</p><ul><li>We are born with a powerful energy that is distinctly human. We can call it willpower, assertiveness, or even aggression, but it is mixed with our intelligence and cleverness.</li></ul><p>The following are four potentially positive elements of this energy that we can discipline and use, improving what evolution has bestowed on us.</p><p><strong>Ambition:</strong></p><ul><li>Tamping down your youthful ambitions is a sign that you don’t like or respect yourself; you no longer believe you deserve to have the power and recognition you once dreamed about. </li><li>What you must do is embrace that childish part of you, revisit your earliest ambitions, adapt them to your current reality, and make them as specific as possible.</li><li>The more clearly you see what you want, the likelier you are to realize it.</li></ul><p><strong>Persistence:</strong></p><ul><li>What you must understand is the following: almost nothing in the world can resist persistent human energy.</li><li>The trick is to want something badly enough that nothing will stop you or dull your energy.</li></ul><p><strong>Fearlessness:</strong></p><ul><li>Timidity is a quality we generally acquire. It is a function of our mounting fears as we get older and a loss of confidence in our powers to get what we want.</li><li>The key is to first convince yourself that you deserve good and better things in life.</li></ul><p><strong>Anger:</strong></p><ul><li>What makes anger toxic is the degree to which it is disconnected from reality.</li><li>You must do the opposite. Your anger is directed at very specific individuals and forces. You analyze the emotion—are you certain that your frustration does not stem from your own inadequacies? Do you really understand the cause of the anger and what it should be directed at?</li></ul><h4><strong>17: Seize the Historical Moment - The Law of Generational Myopia</strong></h4><ul><li>You are born into a generation that defines who you are more than you can imagine. Your generation wants to separate itself from the previous one and set a new tone for the world.</li><li>Your task is to understand as deeply as possible this powerful influence on who you are and how you see the world. Knowing in depth the spirit of your generation and the times you live in, you will be better able to exploit the zeitgeist. You will be the one to anticipate and set the trends that your generation hungers for.</li></ul><p>The Rising Tide</p><ul><li>This power is a function of vision, of looking at events from a different angle, through a fresh framework. You ignore the clichéd interpretations that others will inevitably spout when facing changes. You drop the mental habits and past ways of looking at things that can cloud your vision. You stop the tendency to moralize, to judge what is happening. You simply want to see things as they are.</li><li>First and foremost, you must be able to <em>feel</em> the change in the collective mood, to <em>sense</em> how people are diverging from the past.</li><li>Once you feel the spirit, you can begin to analyze what is behind it.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>We shall call this knowledge <em>generational awareness.</em> To attain it, first we must understand the actual profound effect that our generation has on how we view the world, and second we must understand the larger generational patterns that shape history and recognize where our time period fits into the overall scheme.</li></ul><p>Generational Patterns</p><ul><li>The first generation is that of the revolutionaries who make a radical break with the past, establishing new values but also creating some chaos in the struggle to do so.</li><li>Then along comes a second generation that craves some order.</li><li>Those of the third generation—having little direct connection to the founders of the revolution—feel less passionate about it. They are pragmatists. They want to solve problems and make life as comfortable as possible.</li><li>Along comes the fourth generation, which feels that society has lost its vitality, but they are not sure what should replace it. They begin to question the values they have inherited, some becoming quite cynical.</li><li>We notice that generations seem capable only of reacting and moving in an opposing direction to the previous generation.</li><li>Your second task is to create a kind of personality profile of your generation, so that you can understand its spirit in the present and exploit it. Keep in mind that there are always nuances and exceptions. What you are looking for is common traits that signal an overall spirit.</li><li>You can begin this by looking at the decisive events that occurred in the years before you entered the work world and that played a large role in shaping this personality.</li><li>Try to map out the ramifications of these decisive events. Pay particular attention to the effect they may have had on the pattern of socialization that will characterize your generation.</li><li>If the event was a major crisis of some sort, that will tend to make those of your generation band together for comfort and security, valuing the team and feelings of love, and allergic to confrontation.</li><li>A period of stability and nonevents will make you gravitate toward others for adventure, for group experimentation, sometimes bordering on the reckless.</li><li>In general, you will tend to notice a socializing style of your peers, most evident in your twenties.</li><li>Pay close attention to the heroes and icons of a generation, those who act out the qualities that others secretly wish they had as well. They are often the types who gain celebrity in youth culture—the rebels, the successful entrepreneurs, the gurus, the activists. These indicate emerging new values. Similarly, look at the trends and fads that suddenly sweep through your generation, for instance the sudden popularity of digital currencies.</li><li>Like an individual, any generation will tend to have an unconscious, shadow side to its personality.</li><li>A good sign of this can be found in the particular style of humor that each generation tends to forge. In humor people release their frustrations and express their inhibitions.</li><li>Your third task, then, is to expand this knowledge to something broader, first trying to piece together what could be considered the zeitgeist.</li></ul><p>Strategies for Exploiting the Spirit of the Times</p><p><strong>Push against the past.</strong></p><ul><li>Use the past and its values or ideas as something to push against with great force, using any anger you might feel to help in this. Make your break with the past as sharp and clear as possible.</li></ul><p><strong>Adapt the past to the present spirit.</strong></p><ul><li>Once you identify the essence of the zeitgeist, it is often a wise strategy to find some analogous moment or period in history.</li></ul><p><strong>Resurrect the spirit of childhood.</strong></p><ul><li>You must use this strategy only if you feel a particularly powerful connection to your childhood.</li></ul><p><strong>Create the new social configuration.</strong></p><ul><li>You will always gain great power by forging some new way of interacting that appeals to your generation.</li></ul><p><strong>Subvert the spirit.</strong></p><ul><li>If the spirit of the times is like a tide or a stream, better to find a way to gently redirect it, instead of fighting its direction.</li></ul><p><strong>Keep adapting.</strong></p><ul><li>What you want is to modernize your spirit, to possibly adopt some of the values and ideas of the younger generation that appeal to you, gaining a new and wider audience by blending your experience and perspective with the changes going on, making yourself into an unusual and appealing hybrid.</li></ul><p>The Human Beyond Time and Death</p><ul><li>Here’s how we could apply this active approach to four elemental aspects of time.</li></ul><p><strong>The phases of life:</strong></p><ul><li>Aging has a psychological component and can be a self-fulfilling prophecy—we tell ourselves we are slowing down and cannot do or attempt as much as we did in past, and as we act on these thoughts, we intensify the aging process, which makes us depressed and prone to slow down even more.</li></ul><p><strong>Present generations:</strong></p><ul><li>Your goal here is to be <em>less</em> a product of the times and to gain the ability to transform your relationship to your generation. A key way of doing this is through active associations with people of different generations.</li></ul><p><strong>Past generations:</strong></p><ul><li>You must radically alter your own relationship to history, bringing it back to life within you.</li><li>Make use of the excellent books written in the last hundred years to help you gain a feel for daily life in particular periods (for example, <em>Everyday Life in Ancient Rome</em> by Lionel Casson or <em>The Waning of the Middle Ages</em> by Johan Huizinga).</li><li>The novels of F. Scott Fitzgerald will give you a much livelier connection to the Jazz Age than any scholarly book on the subject. Drop any tendencies to judge or moralize.</li></ul><p><strong>The future:</strong></p><ul><li>We can understand our effect on the future most clearly in our relationship to our children, or to those young people we influence in some way as teachers or mentors. This influence will last years after we are gone. But our work, what we create and contribute to society, can exert even greater power and can become part of a conscious strategy to communicate with those of the future and influence them.</li></ul><h4><strong>18: Meditate on Our Common Mortality - The Law of Death Denial</strong></h4><ul><li>Most of us spend our lives avoiding the thought of death. Instead, the inevitability of death should be continually on our minds.</li><li>Understanding the shortness of life fills us with a sense of purpose and urgency to realize our goals. Training ourselves to confront and accept this reality makes it easier to manage the inevitable setbacks, separations, and crises in life. It gives us a sense of proportion, of what really matters in this brief existence of ours.</li><li>Most people continually look for ways to separate themselves from others and feel superior. Instead, we must see the mortality in everyone, how it equalizes and connects us all. By becoming deeply aware of our mortality, we intensify our experience of every aspect of life.</li></ul><p>The Bullet in the Side</p><ul><li>We must focus hard on the uncertainty that death represents—it could come tomorrow, as could other adversity or separation. We must stop postponing our awareness.</li><li>In doing so, we set a much different course for our lives. Making death a familiar presence, we understand how short life is and what really should matter to us.</li></ul><p>Keys to Human Nature</p><ul><li>The <em>paradoxical death effect</em>—these moments and encounters have the paradoxical result of making us feel more awake and alive. </li></ul><p>A Philosophy of Life Through Death</p><p>The following are five key strategies, with appropriate exercises, to help us achieve this.</p><p><strong>Make the awareness visceral.</strong></p><ul><li>We must begin by meditating on our death and seeking to convert it into something more real and physical.</li><li>We can use our imagination in this as well, by envisioning the day our death arrives, where we might be, how it might come. We must make this as vivid as possible.</li><li>We can also try to look at the world as if we were seeing things for the last time—the people around us, the everyday sights and sounds, the hum of the traffic, the sound of the birds, the view outside our window.</li></ul><p><strong>Awaken to the shortness of life.</strong></p><ul><li>Then, if a deadline is forced upon us on a particular project, that dreamlike relationship to time is shattered and for some mysterious reason we find the focus to get done in days what would have taken weeks or months. </li><li>Let the awareness of the shortness of life clarify our daily actions. We have goals to reach, projects to get done, relationships to improve.</li></ul><p><strong>See the mortality in everyone.</strong></p><ul><li>Let us look at the pedestrians in any busy city and realize that in ninety years it is likely that none of them will be alive, including us.</li></ul><p><strong>Embrace all pain and adversity.</strong></p><ul><li>The other choice available to us is to commit ourselves to what Friedrich Nietzsche called <em>amor fati</em> (“love of fate”): “My formula for greatness in a human being is <em>amor fati</em>: that one wants nothing to be other than it is, not in the future, not in the past, not in all eternity. Not merely to endure that which happens of necessity . . . but to <em>love</em> it.”</li><li>Our task is to accept these moments, and even embrace them, not for the pain but for the opportunities to learn and strengthen ourselves. In doing so, we affirm life itself, accepting all of its possibilities. And at the core of this is our complete acceptance of death.</li><li>Why complain over this or that, when in fact we see such events as occurring for a reason and ultimately enlightening us?</li><li>Why feel envy for what others have, when we possess something far greater—the ultimate approach to the harsh realities of life?</li></ul><p><strong>Open the mind to the Sublime.</strong></p><ul><li>The Sublime is anything that exceeds our capacity for words or concepts by being too large, too vast, too dark and mysterious. Feeling the Sublime is the perfect antidote to our complacency and to the petty concerns of daily life that can consume us and leave us feeling rather empty.</li><li>When we look up at the night sky, we can let our minds try to fathom the infinity of space and the overwhelming smallness of our planet, lost in all the darkness.</li><li>&quot;Let us rid death of its strangeness, come to know it, get used to it. Let us have nothing on our minds as often as death...He who has learned how to die has unlearned how to be a slave. Knowing how to die frees us from all subjection and constraint.&quot; —Michel de Montaigne</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Summary/High Level Thoughts</h3><p>The format of this book is similar to Tools of Titans, but with even less detailed sections, for the most part. This is no doubt partially due to the fact that Tim asked each person the same 11 questions, rather than having longer, in-depth conversations.</p><p>The 11 questions asked were: </p><ol><li>What is the book (or books) you’ve given most as a gift, and why? Or what are one to three books that have greatly influenced your life?</li><li>What purchase of $ 100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months (or in recent memory)? My readers love specifics like brand and model, where you found it, etc.</li><li>How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a”favorite failure”of yours?</li><li>If you could have a gigantic billboard anywhere with anything on it — metaphorically speaking, getting a message out to millions or billions — what would it say and why? It could be a few words or a paragraph. (If helpful, it can be someone else’s quote: Are there any quotes you think of often or live your life by?)</li><li>What is one of the best or most worthwhile investments you’ve ever made? (Could be an investment of money, time, energy, etc.)</li><li>What is an unusual habit or an absurd thing that you love?</li><li>In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life?</li><li>What advice would you give to a smart, driven college student about to enter the ”real world”? What advice should they ignore?</li><li>What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?</li><li>In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to (distractions, invitations, etc.)? What new realizations and/or approaches helped? Any other tips?</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, or have lost your focus temporarily, what do you do? (If helpful: What questions do you ask yourself?)</li></ol><p>I liked this book, though I didn’t find it as useful as Tools of Titans, and it’s not really comparable to the 4H series of books.</p><p>That said, it’s a good book to pick up and read a few interviews when you’re looking for some motivation or having trouble with a big question, and there are some trends that can be extracted. </p><p>The largest takeaways I noticed were, in no particular order:</p><ul><li>Sugar and carbs in general from grains, etc. are bad - cut out sugar, eat more raw, basic foods.</li><li>Prioritize sleep and fitness (naps are a great idea).</li><li>Be persistent.</li><li>Following your passion is fine, just make sure you are learning, growing, and learning how to learn, and you’ll be okay.</li><li>Focus on the micro and the macro will take care of itself - in other words, make the next five minutes great, then the day great, and eventually you’ll have a great life.</li><li>To change your mind, change your body: get outside, take a walk, get in the water, do some exercise, find some heat or cold.</li><li>Know yourself, and build your strengths - the Enneagram test is a good tool for identifying your personality traits.</li><li>Make tough decisions by putting yourself in the shoes of your older self, and going through the exercise of looking back on your decision.</li><li>Read and write every day.</li><li>Eliminate distractions as much as possible - this particularly includes social media and your phone, though in general you should aim to say no to opportunities that don’t align with your goals. A good test for this is “if this were taking place on a Tuesday, would I want to go?” and reducing the commitments you have to things far in the future, as you won’t be able to predict whether you will want to go until closer.</li></ul><p>Tim’s conclusion was also one of my favourite parts of the book:</p><ul><li>&quot;Based on everything I’ve seen, a simple recipe can work: focus on what’s in front of you, design great days to create a great life, and try not to make the same mistake twice. That’s it. Stop hitting net balls and try something else, perhaps even the opposite. If you really want extra credit, try not to be a dick, and you’ll be a Voltron - level superstar.</li><li>The secret to winning any game lies in not trying too hard.</li><li>Feeling as though you are trying too hard indicates that your priorities, technique, focus, or mindfulness is off. Take it as a cue to reset, not to double down. And take comfort in the fact that, whenever in doubt, the answer is probably hidden in plain sight.</li><li>What would this look like if it were easy?</li><li>In a world where nobody really knows anything, you have the incredible freedom to continually reinvent yourself and forge new paths, no matter how strange. Embrace your weird self.</li><li>There is no one right answer... only better questions. &quot;</li></ul><h3>Favourite Quotes</h3><ul><li>&quot;My obsession with sleep has improved my life immeasurably.&quot; - Samin Nosrat</li><li>&quot;The genuine love for reading itself, when cultivated, is a superpower.” - Naval Ravikant</li><li>&quot;In the vast majority of the professions and vocations, the people who succeed are not any cleverer than you.” - Matt Ridley</li><li>&quot;There’s no conundrum that a 20-minute nap can’t help me unpack.” - Bozoma Saint John</li><li>&quot;Ego is about who’s right. Truth is about what’s right.” - Mike Maples Jr.</li><li>“Make sure you have something every day you’re looking forward to.” - Soman Chainani</li><li>&quot;“The difference between winning and losing is most often not quitting.” This famous line from Walt Disney on willpower cannot be more true when it comes to entrepreneurship.” - Max Levchin</li><li>&quot;Ignore anyone who tells you to go for security over experience.” - Patton Oswalt</li><li>&quot;The best skill is to be able to communicate efficiently both in writing and speaking.” - Lewis Cantley</li><li>“Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life.” - Jerzy Gregorek</li><li>&quot;If you are struggling to figure out where you are headed in life or what you are passionate about, pay attention to activities, ideas, and areas where you love the process, not just the results or the outcome.” - Amelia Boone</li><li>&quot;Persistence matters more than talent.” - Andrew Ross Sorkin</li><li>&quot;Above all, it’s the quality of your relationships that will determine the quality of your life.” - Esther Perel</li><li>&quot;Macro patience, micro speed.” - Gary Vaynerchuk</li><li>&quot;The secret to building a better future is to use technology to do things that were previously impossible.” - Tim O’Reilly</li><li>&quot;In short, the best student wins, whether at age 21 or 51 or 101.” - Tom Peters</li><li>“…tenacity matters more than talent, and in life, that is certainly true.” - Bear Grylls</li><li>&quot;Diet, exercise, and work ethic don’t hold a candle to how sleep can revolutionize the way you live, love, parent, and lead.” - Brené Brown</li><li>&quot;Be polite, on time, and work really fucking hard until you are talented enough to be blunt, a little late, and take vacations and even then... be polite.” - Ashton Kutcher</li><li>&quot;The more you divide your focus, the more each endeavor can suffer from your lack of attention.” - Eric Ripert</li><li>&quot;Most of the game is about persistence. It is the most important trait.” - Darren Aronofsky</li><li>“Avoid sugar. Especially soda and juice. All other diet advice is noise.” - Bram Cohen</li><li>&quot;I nap a lot. I try not to eat carbohydrates. I try to take three to four hours to myself every day. It’s not always possible. I try to work offline. I meditate sometimes.” - Ben Silbermann</li><li>&quot;Work harder than everyone else.” - Jocko Willink</li><li>“The secret to winning any game lies in not trying too hard.” - Tim Ferriss</li><li>“What would this look like if it were easy?” - Tim Ferriss</li></ul><h3>Detailed Notes</h3><h5>Introduction</h5><ul><li>What would this look like if it were easy? is such a lovely and deceptively leveraged question. It’s easy to convince yourself that things need to be hard, that if you’re not redlining, you’re not trying hard enough. This leads us to look for paths of most resistance, often creating unnecessary hardship in the process.</li><li>Life punishes the vague wish and rewards the specific ask.</li><li>First, let us take a quick pass of the 11 questions. Some of them might seem trite or useless at first glance.... But lo ! Things are not always what they appear.</li></ul><ol><li>What is the book (or books) you’ve given most as a gift, and why? Or what are one to three books that have greatly influenced your life?</li><li>What purchase of $100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months (or in recent memory)? My readers love specifics like brand and model, where you found it, etc.</li><li>How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a”favorite failure”of yours?</li><li>If you could have a gigantic billboard anywhere with anything on it — metaphorically speaking, getting a message out to millions or billions — what would it say and why? It could be a few words or a paragraph. (If helpful, it can be someone else’s quote: Are there any quotes you think of often or live your life by?)</li><li>What is one of the best or most worthwhile investments you’ve ever made? (Could be an investment of money, time, energy, etc.)</li><li>What is an unusual habit or an absurd thing that you love?</li><li>In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life?</li><li>What advice would you give to a smart, driven college student about to enter the ”real world”? What advice should they ignore?</li><li>What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?</li><li>In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to (distractions, invitations, etc.)? What new realizations and/or approaches helped? Any other tips?</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, or have lost your focus temporarily, what do you do? (If helpful: What questions do you ask yourself?)</li></ol><ul><li>To me, proper sequencing is the secret sauce</li><li>It’s a short reminder that success can usually be measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations we are willing to have, and by the number of uncomfortable actions we are willing to take.</li></ul><h5>Quotes I’m Pondering</h5><ul><li>“Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.”– Oscar Wilde</li><li>“Grudges are for those who insist that they are owed something; forgiveness, however, is for those who are substantial enough to move on.”– Criss Jami</li><li>“The first rule of any technology used in a business is that automation applied to an efficient operation will magnify the efficiency. The second is that automation applied to an inefficient operation will magnify the inefficiency.”– Bill Gates</li><li>“Perfection is not when there is no more to add, but no more to take away.”– Antoine de Saint - Exupéry</li><li>“The things you own end up owning you.”– Chuck Palahniuk</li><li>“If you set your goals ridiculously high and it’s a failure, you will fail above everyone else’s success.” – James Cameron</li><li>“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”– Anaïs Nin</li><li>“Anger is often what pain looks like when it shows itself in public.”– Krista Tippett</li><li>“It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.”– Leonardo da Vinci</li><li>“All happiness depends on a leisurely breakfast.”– John Gunther</li><li>“To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.”– Eleanor Roosevelt</li></ul><h5>Interviews</h5><p><strong>Samin Nosrat</strong></p><ul><li>I’ve learned to envision the ideal end to any project before I begin it now —</li><li>My obsession with sleep has improved my life immeasurably.</li><li>But the thing that will always get me unstuck is jumping into the ocean.</li><li>Nothing else resets me like the ocean.</li></ul><p><strong>Steven Pressfield</strong></p><ul><li>Who are you really? What do you really want? Get out there and fail and find out.</li><li>Real work and real satisfaction come from the opposite of what the web provides. They come from going deep into something — the book you’re writing, the album, the movie — and staying there for a long, long time.</li></ul><p><strong>Susan Cain</strong></p><ul><li>You should set up your life so that it is as comfortable and happy as possible — and so that it accommodates your creative work.</li></ul><p><strong>Kyle Maynard</strong></p><ul><li>The quote I’d put on that billboard belongs to my friend and former Navy SEAL, Richard Machowicz:”Not Dead, Can’t Quit.”</li><li>It’s my mantra during the toughest moments.</li><li>Thinking of what makes me happy doesn’t give me the same clarity as thinking about what gives me bliss.</li><li>For me, it’s the freedom I feel on top of a mountain or the breeze I feel laying on a catamaran net halfway around the world. Bliss is the highest peak of what brings you joy. If happiness is just above the status quo, bliss is what makes you feel most alive.</li></ul><p><strong>Terry Crews</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The Master Key System by Charles F. Haanel.</li></ul><p><strong>Debbie Millman</strong></p><ul><li>If we use busy as an excuse for not doing something what we are really, really saying is that it’s not a priority. Simply put: You don’t find the time to do something; you make the time to do things.</li></ul><p><strong>Naval Ravikant</strong></p><ul><li>The genuine love for reading itself, when cultivated, is a superpower.</li><li>The means of learning are abundant — it’s the desire to learn that’s scarce.</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do? Memento mori —”remember that you have to die.”</li></ul><p><strong>Matt Ridley</strong></p><ul><li>In the vast majority of the professions and vocations, the people who succeed are not any cleverer than you.</li><li>And specialize — the great human achievement is to specialize as a producer of goods or services so that you can diversify as a consumer.</li></ul><p><strong>Bozoma Saint John</strong></p><ul><li>There’s no conundrum that a 20-minute nap can’t help me unpack.</li></ul><p><strong>Tim Urban</strong></p><ul><li>When it comes to my work ”yes” list, I think about what I might call the Epitaph Test.</li><li>When I find myself with an opportunity, I ask myself whether I’d be happy if my epitaph had something to do with this project.</li><li>For my social life ”yes” list, a similar test could be called the Deathbed Test. We all hear about these studies where people on their deathbed reflect on what they regret most, and the cliché is that nobody ever says they regret spending more time in the office.</li><li>The Deathbed Test pushes me to do two things:</li><li>Make sure I’m dedicating my time to the right people with the question,”Is this someone I might be thinking about when I’m on my deathbed?”</li><li>Make sure I’m spending enough high - quality time with the people I care about most with the question,”If I were on my deathbed today, would I be happy with the amount of time I spent with this person?”</li></ul><p><strong>Graham Duncan</strong></p><ul><li>Product: SubPac M2 Wearable Physical Sound System</li><li>Book: Sam Barondes ’ book Making Sense of People</li><li>The model is called the”Big Five”or OCEAN: open - minded, conscientious, extroverted, agreeable, neurotic.</li><li>The killer combination is high open - minded, high conscientious, low neurotic.</li><li>Book: Robert Kegan’s book In Over Our Heads.</li><li>Book: Jennifer Garvey Berger’s book Changing on the Job.</li><li>The third mental model I find myself recommending lately is found not in a book, but on a slightly obscure website: <a href="http://workwithsource.com">workwithsource.com</a>.</li><li>Product: FINIS swim paddles</li><li>Product: Cressi fins</li></ul><p><strong>Mike Maples Jr.</strong></p><ul><li>In general, whenever I feel things are moving too quickly, I find the right instinct is almost always to slow down and get my thoughts back in order.</li><li>Ego is about who’s right. Truth is about what’s right.</li></ul><p><strong>Soman Chainani</strong></p><ul><li>Advice I’d give: Make sure you have something every day you’re looking forward to.</li><li>Advice to ignore: A little part of me dies every time someone tells me they’ve taken a job as a ”steppingstone” to something else, when they clearly aren’t invested in it.</li></ul><p><strong>Jesse Williams</strong></p><ul><li>Transcendental Meditation: The David Lynch Foundation has made it so digestible</li><li>I tend to lose focus for one of two reasons: exhaustion or distraction.</li><li>The shower doesn’t have to be cold; the ceremony itself is kind of a reset button.</li></ul><p><strong>Dustin Moskovitz</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The Back Buddy by the Body Back Company</li></ul><p><strong>Max Levchin</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The Master and Margarita, by Mikhail Bulgakov</li><li>“The difference between winning and losing is most often not quitting.” This famous line from Walt Disney on willpower cannot be more true when it comes to entrepreneurship.</li><li>[My advice is to] take risks, now. The advantages that college students and new grads have are their youth, drive, lack of significant responsibilities, and, importantly, lack of the creature comforts one acquires with time. Nothing to lose, everything to gain.</li><li>I started numerous companies in my early 20s only to see them all fail, but I never thought twice about starting the next one.</li><li>The advice to ignore (in certain situations) is to strive to become ”well-rounded”— to move from company to company, looking to pick up different types of experience every year or two, when starting out. That’s useful in the abstract, but if you find that strength of yours (as an individual contributor or a team leader) at a company whose mission you are truly passionate about, take a risk — commit and double down, and rise through the ranks.</li></ul><p><strong>Neil Strauss</strong></p><ul><li>In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life?</li><li>Without a doubt, finding a healthy community here in Malibu to work out with. Before, I’d go to the gym to achieve a certain weight or muscle goal, and I never stuck with it. Now I show up to see my friends, and we always exercise outdoors: at the beach, in a pool, on a lawn. We almost always end with a sauna/ice session. It’s the highlight of the day.</li><li>It helped me realize that the secret to change and growth is not willpower, but positive community.</li><li>Product: So what’s helped me say no to distractions is the app Freedom (product) on my computer, which I’ve set to block the Internet 22 hours a day, and a Kitchen Safe [now called kSafe] (product), which is a timed safe I can drop my cell phone into.</li></ul><p><strong>Veronica Belmont</strong></p><ul><li>If you could have a gigantic billboard anywhere with anything on it, what would it say and why? I’ve only ever had one house motto: ”Fuck you, pay me.” After having been a freelancer for almost a decade, I’d seen every trick in the book when it came to people trying to get my work for free. Things like”exposure,”or”reaching new audiences,”or having a”great experience”are all well and good, but they don’t pay the rent or put food on the table. Know your worth.</li></ul><p><strong>Patton Oswalt</strong></p><ul><li>Embrace the suck for a while. Chances are your first job is going to stink and your living conditions won’t be much better.</li><li>Ignore anyone who tells you to go for security over experience.</li></ul><p><strong>Lewis Cantley</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Neal Stephenson is an incredible writer</li><li>Book: I have read everything Philip Kerr has written about the fictional Berlin policeman Bernie Gunther,</li><li>The best skill is to be able to communicate efficiently both in writing and speaking.</li><li>The two college courses that were probably most important for my career were a course in literature and composition and a course in logic (an advanced math course).</li><li>My message would be: ”Sugar is toxic.” Sugar and other natural or artificial sweeteners are among the most addictive agents in our environment.</li><li>“If you must play, decide on three things at the start: the rules of the game, the stakes, and the quitting time.”– Chinese proverb</li></ul><p><strong>Jerzy Gregorek</strong></p><ul><li>“Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life.”</li><li>Nothing truly meaningful or lasting has ever been created in a short period of time.</li><li>”You have to do endurance cardio.”</li><li>Here are my 11 favorite poems to read when I am feeling depressed (11 is the master power number):</li><li>&quot;The Fish” by Elizabeth Bishop</li><li>&quot;Leaving One” by Ralph Angel”</li><li>&quot;A Cat in an Empty Apartment” by Wisława Szymborska</li><li>“Apples” by Deborah Digges</li><li>&quot;Michiko Nogami (1946 – 1982)” by Jack Gilbert</li><li>&quot;Eating Alone” by Li - Young Lee</li><li>&quot;The Potter” by Peter Levitt</li><li>&quot;Black Dog, Red Dog” by Stephen Dobyns</li><li>&quot;The Word” by Mark Cox”Death”by Maurycy Szymel</li><li>“This” by Czeslaw Milosz</li></ul><p><strong>Amelia Boone</strong></p><ul><li>Growth and gains come from periods of rest, yet “rest” has become a four - letter word for high performers, and that needs to change.</li><li>If you are struggling to figure out where you are headed in life or what you are passionate about, pay attention to activities, ideas, and areas where you love the process, not just the results or the outcome.</li><li>Look for something where you love the process, and the results will follow.</li><li>I’m risk - averse by nature, and in the last five years, I’ve learned how to run toward fear, instead of running away from it. My nature has always been to take the straight and narrow path, to take the path with fewer unknowns. But by forcing myself to face the unknown (e.g., Joe De Sena’s infamous”Death Race”) and embrace the uncomfortable, I’ve found that I actually thrive in it. So I now take fear and discomfort as a sign that I should be doing something. That’s where the magic happens.</li></ul><p><strong>Joel McHale</strong></p><ul><li>My advice for a college student who is about to enter the real world is not revelatory. You probably hear this all the time but I’m going to tell you anyway — again. Here it is: Pursue that dream or dreams that are planted in you already.</li><li>Don’t just do the thing that people expect you to do or go for the money.</li><li>On top of that — and just as important — help people who are less fortunate than you and help the planet.</li><li>Oh — and be a good wife / husband / mom / dad / friend.</li></ul><p><strong>Ben Stiller</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The Jaws Log is a book written by Carl Gottlieb, the screenwriter of the movie Jaws. It is a day - by - day account of the making of the movie. It is filled with the details of making a movie on location.</li><li>As I get older, I am trying to live fully in moments with the people I love and care about. I have spent a lot of years focusing on the next thing, and, in so doing, stressed about things that ultimately don’t matter or bring happiness. I keep trying to sort of”relax”into where I am now, whether it is where I want to be or not.</li><li>“A man is rich in proportion to the number of things he can afford to let alone.”– Henry David Thoreau</li></ul><p><strong>Anna Holmes</strong></p><ul><li>They should ignore any advice from anyone who purports to tell them what the future will look like. No one knows.</li></ul><p><strong>Andrew Ross Sorkin</strong></p><ul><li>“Things are never as good or as bad as they seem.”</li><li>Product: Earplugs for sleeping. I’ve tried them all. Hearos Xtreme Protection NRR33 work best and are the most comfortable.</li><li>Persistence matters more than talent.</li><li>I always think, &quot;Would it help?” That is the pivotal question that I ask myself every day. If you put everything through that prism, it is a remarkably effective way to cut through the clutter.</li></ul><p><strong>Vitalik Buterin</strong></p><ul><li>A common rookie error that inexperienced leaders make is always agreeing with the last person they talked to;</li><li>A good general strategy is reasoning counterfactually: if someone tells you that X is true, ask yourself —</li><li>(i) what would they say if X really is true, and</li><li>(ii) what would they say if X is false?</li><li>If the answer to (i) and (ii) is &quot;they will say roughly what they just said now”</li><li>“Many a false step was made by standing still.”– Fortune cookie</li></ul><p><strong>Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks</strong></p><ul><li>It would say three words: &quot;Live. Give. Forgive.” They are by far the most important things in life.</li><li>What is my ultimate destination? You have to look at that every time you feel overwhelmed. Remembering that destination will help you make the single most important distinction in life, which is to distinguish between an opportunity to be seized and a temptation to be resisted.</li></ul><p><strong>Julia Galef</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The books Superforecasting (by Philip E. Tetlock and Dan Gardner) and How to Measure Anything (by Douglas W. Hubbard) have some good advice on how to improve your ability to make accurate predictions. And Decisive (by Chip Heath and Dan Heath) explains four of the biggest judgment errors (like framing your decision too narrowly, or letting temporary emotions cloud your judgment) and gives tips for combating them.</li><li>Fortunately, at some point in this process, I remember this principle: Uncertainty over expected value (EV) just gets folded into EV. So, if I know that one of option A or B is going to be great, and the other’s going to be a disaster, but I’m totally unsure which is which, then they have the same expected value.</li></ul><p><strong>Turia Pitt</strong></p><ul><li>Product: <a href="http://Brain.fm">Brain.fm</a> app</li><li>First, I listen to my gratitude playlist on Spotify, any song on the list.</li><li>Then, I think of three things that I’m genuinely grateful for. I’ve found the more specific the better.</li></ul><p><strong>Annie Duke</strong></p><ul><li>First, seek out dissenting opinions. Always try to find people who disagree with you, who can honestly and productively play devil’s advocate. Challenge yourself to truly listen to people who have differing ideas and opinions than you do. Stay out of political bubbles and echo chambers as much as possible.</li><li>The fact is that when two extreme opinions meet, the truth lies generally somewhere in the middle.</li><li>Poker has taught me to disconnect failure from outcomes. Just because I lose doesn’t mean I failed, and just because I won doesn’t mean I succeeded —not when you define success and failure around making good decisions that will win in the long run.</li></ul><p><strong>Esther Perel</strong></p><ul><li>Above all, it’s the quality of your relationships that will determine the quality of your life.</li><li>Always take the time to acknowledge people — and not just when you know you have something to gain. If you show interest in them, they will be interested in you. People react to kindness with kindness, to respect with respect.</li><li>The advice to ignore is &quot;What is your five - year plan?”</li><li>In moments when you don’t believe in yourself, you need other people who believe in you.</li></ul><p><strong>Adam Robinson</strong></p><ul><li>I was still 95/5 on the introvert / extrovert scale. I very much enjoyed the company of other people, but only for brief periods, beyond which I’d reach overload and need to seclude myself to recharge.</li><li>Whereas in the past when I went outside and encountered others, I would invariably be lost in thought — now I am solely focused not inwardly, on my ideas, but outwardly, on connecting with others.</li><li>Book: was inspired shortly thereafter to write a book, An Invitation to the Great Game: A Parable of Love, Magic, and Everyday Miracles,</li><li>First, whenever possible, connect with others.</li><li>Second, with enthusiasm, strive always to create fun and delight for others.</li><li>And third, lean into each moment and encounter expecting magic — or miracles.</li><li>Product: HeartMath Inner Balance biofeedback monitor. It detects your heart’s minutest rhythms and sends a graph to your smartphone, facilitating HRV training.</li><li>Beyond a certain minimum amount, additional information only feeds — leaving aside the considerable cost of and delay occasioned in acquiring it — what psychologists call &quot;confirmation bias.”</li><li>So, to return to investing, the second problem with trying to understand the world is that it is simply far too complex to grasp, and the more dogged our attempts to understand the world, the more we earnestly want to”explain”events and trends in it, the more we become attached to our resulting beliefs — which are always more or less mistaken — blinding us to the financial trends that are actually unfolding. Worse, we think we understand the world, giving investors a false sense of confidence, when in fact we always more or less misunderstand it.</li><li>I get endless delight covertly “ambushing” unsuspecting strangers with random acts of kindness.</li></ul><p><strong>Josh Waitzkin</strong></p><ul><li>Book: On the Road by Jack Kerouac: Opened up the ecstatic beauty of life’s little moments to me as a teenager.</li><li>Book: Tao Te Ching, Gia - Fu Feng and Jane English translation: Inspired my study of softness and receptivity as a counterpoint to my mad passions.</li><li>Book: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert Pirsig: Inspired my cultivation of dynamic quality as a way of life.</li><li>Book: Ernest Hemingway on Writing: The most potent little book of wisdom on the creative process that I have run into.</li><li>Do what you love, do it in a way that you love, and pour your heart and soul into every moment of it. Do not be subject to inertia. Challenge your assumptions and the assumptions of those around you as a way of life.</li><li>Advice they should ignore: Follow the beaten path. Avoid risk. Play it safe. Wear a suit.</li><li>A core operating principle is that there is no better investment than in my own learning process, and so I only engage in partnerships that will challenge and improve me. I am exponentially better when I am all in than when I am 99 percent in, so I only engage with what inspires me to be all in. And I only team with people I have love for, or who I believe I could have love for.</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do? I change my physiology. If I am near waves, I go surf them. If not, a short, intense kettlebell workout, a bike ride, a swim, a cold shower or ice plunge, Wim Hof or heart rate variability breathing</li><li>It’s remarkable how the mind follows the body. Honestly, I think a lack of understanding or desire to understand that simple evolutionary reality is what inhibits so many people from rapidly improving their lives.</li></ul><p><strong>Ann Miura - Ko</strong></p><ul><li>First, if you love something enough, it is far easier to really commit to something. Through true commitment and hard work, you can out - prepare the competition.</li><li>Second, I learned that I alone know my personal capabilities better than anyone else. It is so difficult for people to measure grit, determination, hard work, and human potential. When given the chance, we can potentially see them more clearly than anyone else. We just need to make sure we listen and hear that inner voice.</li><li>Today my obsession for the very best pens (Muji 0.38mm gel pens and Pilot Juice Up 0.4 mm gel pens) and notebooks (Leuchtturm1917 Medium Hardcover)</li><li>I first tell students I encounter to spend the remainder of their time in college filling their minds with the best of the humanities their school has to offer.</li><li>Second, in the first month of starting to work in New York City, my manager at work dispensed free advice that he told me was deeply personal but profoundly important: Develop a philosophy of giving as soon as you enter the working world. He said that I should develop this philosophy when I had few obligations outside of the student debt I had taken on. He suggested that I commit to a percentage of my income and that I consistently donate that amount to charities of my choosing every year.</li></ul><p><strong>Jason Fried</strong></p><ul><li>Quotes:</li><li>“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.”— Theodore Roosevelt</li><li>“In all affairs, it’s a healthy thing now and then to hang a question mark on the things you have long taken for granted.”— Bertrand Russell</li><li>“There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all.”— Peter Drucker</li><li>“Don’t worry about people stealing an idea. If it’s original, you will have to ram it down their throats.”— Howard H. Aiken</li><li>“A cynic is a man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.”— Oscar Wilde</li><li>“Whenever there is a hard job to be done, I assign it to a lazy man; he is sure to find an easy way of doing it.”— Walter Chrysler</li><li>“Lose an hour in the morning, chase it all day.”— a Yiddish saying, author unknown</li><li>What is one of the best or most worthwhile investments you’ve ever made?</li><li>Every time I’ve given without any expectation of return. Money, time, energy, whatever.</li><li>Working out more frequently can cover up bad habits, but when you work out less frequently, everything else matters more.</li><li>Focus on your writing skills. It’s the one thing I’ve found that really helps people stand out. More and more communication is written today. Get great at presenting yourself with words, and words alone, and you’ll be far ahead of most.</li><li>Time and attention are very different things. They’re your most precious resources moving forward.</li><li>While people often say there’s not enough time, remember that you’ll always have less attention than time.</li><li>What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?</li><li>There are so many. &quot;Scale.” No, don’t scale. Start small, stay as small as possible for as long as possible. Grow in control, not out of control.</li><li>“Raise capital to launch a software/services business.” No, bootstrap. As in life, we form business habits early on. If you raise money, you’ll get good at spending money. If you bootstrap, you’ll be forced to get good at making money.</li><li>“Fail early, and fail often.” No. What’s with the failure fetish in our industry? I don’t get it.</li><li>If the ask is more than a week away, I almost always say no, regardless of what is it. Exceptions include family things I need to attend, and a conference or two I really want to speak at, but other than that, if the”yes”would tie me to something further than a week or so out, it’s almost always a no.</li><li>I keep it simple and direct. Unless there are special circumstances, I always explain why and say something like, &quot;Thanks for the invitation, but I just can’t commit to anything more than a day or so in advance. I need to keep my schedule open for me and the people I work with on a regular basis. Best bet is to hit me up a day or two before you wanted to get together. If I’m available we can set up a time.”</li><li>I’ve simply realized that the further out the yes, the more I regret the moment when it comes due.</li><li>I go for a walk. Preferably on a route I’ve never taken before. If it’s a routine route, I tend to ignore the surroundings and slip back into thinking about the stuff I’m unfocused on.</li></ul><p><strong>Arianna Huffington</strong></p><ul><li>Product: The $100 product that has most positively impacted my life in the last six months is the Thrive Global phone bed.</li><li>Nothing impairs the quality of your decisions faster than running on empty.</li></ul><p><strong>Gary Vaynerchuk</strong></p><ul><li>Macro patience, micro speed.</li><li>Everybody’s impatient at a macro, and just so patient at a micro, wasting your days worrying about years. I’m not worried about my years, because I’m squeezing the fuck out of my seconds, let alone my days. It’s going to work out.</li><li>In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life?</li><li>My health regimen. Three years ago, I got much more serious about my health regimen. However, this is a great place to state the following: I have picked up zero energy from it. Zero. It’s just that it’s the right thing to do.</li><li>I do believe that most people reading this either go too far into one or the other extreme. They become super disciplined and say no to everything, and they think that’s the right use of time, or they’re just saying yes to everything and giving it no thought, no strategy.</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do? I pretend that my family has died in a horrific accident. Honestly, that’s what I do. It’s probably weirder than a lot of people’s answers in this book, but it’s absolutely what drives me. I go to a very dark place, really feel it, feel that pain in my heart, and then realize no matter what I’m dealing with right now, that it’s not even in the same universe of something like that. Then I become grateful for losing that client, missing that opportunity, getting made fun of, etc.</li></ul><p><strong>Tim O’Reilly</strong></p><ul><li>In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life?</li><li>When I roll out of bed, I do the plank for two minutes right off, followed by downward dog for the same, then a series of stretches. It gets my metabolism going, and makes me much more likely to start with a more vigorous bout of exercise.</li><li>In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to?</li><li>I have profited greatly from Esther Dyson’s advice about accepting speaking engagements: &quot;Would I say yes if it were on Tuesday?” Because the day will come when it is on Tuesday, and you’ll be saying,”Damn, why did I say yes to that?”</li><li>But more important, the idea that we should focus on disruption rather than the new value that we can create is at the heart of the current economic malaise, income inequality, and political upheaval. The secret to building a better future is to use technology to do things that were previously impossible.</li><li>We equate being smart and being driven as the ways to get ahead. But sometimes, an attitude of alert watchfulness is far wiser and more effective. Learning to follow your nose, pulling on threads of curiosity or interest, may take you places that being driven will never lead you to.</li><li>It is this ability to wait quietly for the right moment, rather than rushing about aimlessly, that can lead even an ambitious success - hunter to capture the biggest game.</li></ul><p><strong>Tom Peters</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Susan Cain’s book Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking,</li><li>Book: Frank Partnoy’s Wait: The Art and Science of Delay,</li><li>Book: Linda Kaplan-Thaler’s The Power of Nice: How to Conquer the Business World with Kindness and The Power of Small: Why Little Things Make All the Difference, and Cathy O’Neil’s Weapons of Math Destruction: How Big Data Increases Inequality and Threatens Democracy.</li><li>What do you consider the number-one failing of CEOs? He said: &quot;They don’t read enough.”</li><li>All sorts of people will give you this or that approach to your job. My advice is of a different sort: Good manners pay off big time.</li><li>Oh, and two other things:</li><li>First, become a superstar, all - pro listener. How? Work on it. It does not come naturally. Read up on it. Practice it. Have a mentor grade you on it.</li><li>Second: Read. Read. Read. Read.</li><li>In short, the best student wins, whether at age 21 or 51 or 101.</li><li>Think small. Do something super cool by the end of the day! I write about &quot;excellence.” Most see excellence as some grand aspiration. Wrong. Dead wrong. My two cents: Excellence is the next five minutes or nothing at all. It’s the quality of your next five - minute conversation. It’s the quality of, yes, your next email. Forget the long term. Make the next five minutes rock!</li></ul><p><strong>Bear Grylls</strong></p><ul><li>It tells me that tenacity matters more than talent, and in life, that is certainly true.</li><li>Failure means struggle, and it is struggle that has always developed my strength.</li></ul><p><strong>Brené Brown</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner (so helpful for couples in that”I’m screaming and he’s / she’s shutting down” cycle) and her new book, Why Won’t You Apologize? (Turns out that most of us are pretty terrible apologizers — this really changed me.)</li><li>It feels uncomfortable to spend time and resources trying to figure out exactly what the problem is — we want to jump to fixing way too fast.</li><li>Sleep. Diet, exercise, and work ethic don’t hold a candle to how sleep can revolutionize the way you live, love, parent, and lead.</li><li>Always these questions: Sleep? Exercise? Healthy food? Am I resentful because I’m not setting or holding a boundary?</li><li>Key learning: Magical thinking is incredibly dangerous and will cost you more time, money, and energy than digging in ever will.</li></ul><p><strong>Mike D</strong></p><ul><li>Surfing: I am a lucky duck. I live in Malibu, California, with waves within walking distance. I spend a good amount of my time surfing with my kids all around the world, and it is worth every damn minute.</li><li>One thing I am so grateful to be able to model: I was always included in my parents ’ and their adult friends ’ conversations, and I try to practice the same with my kids, valuing their ideas and thoughts.</li></ul><p><strong>Esther Dyson</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Scarcity: Why Having Too Little Means So Much by Sendhil Mullainathan and Eldar Shafir. An explanation of scarcity for rich intellectuals, showing how poor people do stupid things for lack of money, while rich people do stupid things for lack of time.</li><li>Book: From Bacteria to Bach and Back: The Evolution of Minds by Daniel C. Dennett. How consciousness arises, and how much it depends on a sense of past, present, and future (plus a lot of other interesting insights).</li><li>Always take jobs for which you are not qualified; that way you will inevitably learn something.</li><li>My tip: Ask yourself, ”Would you say yes if this were next Tuesday?” It’s so easy to commit to things that are weeks or months out, when your schedule still looks uncluttered.</li></ul><p><strong>Kevin Kelly</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The Ultimate Resource by Julian Simon: Another book whose influence took time to establish itself in my view. Simon’s clarifying insight — that mind and intelligence can overcome any physical limitations, and are therefore the only scarce resource — has become a big idea that colors much of what I look at today.</li><li>Whenever I am trying to decide whether to accept an invitation, I just pretend it is going to happen tomorrow morning. It is easy to say yes to something happening six months from now, but it has to be super fantastic to get me to go tomorrow morning.</li><li>Don’t try to find your passion. Instead master some skill, interest, or knowledge that others find valuable. It almost doesn’t matter what it is at the start. You don’t have to love it, you just have to be the best at it. Once you master it, you’ll be rewarded with new opportunities that will allow you to move away from tasks you dislike and toward those that you enjoy. If you continue to optimize your mastery, you’ll eventually arrive at your passion.</li></ul><p><strong>Ashton Kutcher</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Sapiens by Yuval Noah Harari.</li><li>Be polite, on time, and work really fucking hard until you are talented enough to be blunt, a little late, and take vacations and even then... be polite.</li></ul><p><strong>Jérôme Jarre</strong></p><ul><li>Understanding Media by Marshall McLuhan.</li><li>“Make yourself proud.”</li></ul><p><strong>Fedor Holz</strong></p><ul><li>Product: Deuserband Original</li><li>Especially recently, I strongly realized the value of asking the right questions.</li><li>Specifically in conversations, really asking someone how they feel and why they think they behaved in a certain way gives you (and them) a very different perspective.</li></ul><p><strong>Eric Ripert</strong></p><ul><li>The more you divide your focus, the more each endeavor can suffer from your lack of attention.</li></ul><p><strong>Franklin Leonard</strong></p><ul><li>In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life?</li><li>There are probably two: The absolute necessity of travel.</li><li>Over the last three years, I’ve tried to say yes to every travel opportunity presented to me for work and commit to spending at least a month outside of the U.S. during the year.</li><li>Trusting that I can weather most failures that might befall me. I lived the first 33 years of my life actively trying to avoid failure.</li><li>More recently, I’ve worried less about failing and more about not risking failure enough, because I’m reasonably sure that there’s not a failure I can’t survive.</li><li>Try everything you think you might want to do professionally before accepting whatever backup plan you have in the back of your head but are very much hoping to avoid.</li></ul><p><strong>Peter Guber</strong></p><ul><li>“Don’t let the weight of fear weigh down the joy of curiosity.” Fear is really false evidence appearing real.</li><li>“Attitude puts aptitude on steroids.” Attitude is the soft stuff, but when the chips are down, as they so often are, it’s the soft stuff that often counts.</li><li>The seminal change in the business from then to now is that a young person should view the career pyramid differently rather than traditionally. Put the point at the bottom where you are now (at the start of your career) and conceive your future as an expanding opportunity horizon where you can move laterally across the spectrum in search of an ever - widening set of career opportunities. Reinvent yourself regularly. See your world as an ever - increasing set of realities and seize the day.</li></ul><p><strong>Steve Jurvetson</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Out of Control by Kevin Kelly. Introduction to the power of evolutionary algorithms and information networks inspired by biology.</li><li>Book: Age of Spiritual Machines by Ray Kurzweil.</li><li>Every industry on our planet is going to become an information business. Consider agriculture. If you ask a farmer in 20 years ’ time about how they compete, it will depend on how they use information, from satellite imagery driving robotic field optimization to the code in their seeds. It will have nothing to do with workmanship or labor. That will eventually percolate through every industry as IT innervates the economy.</li><li>In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life? The Whole30 diet. After the 30 - day cleanse, I have removed bread and [non – naturally occurring] sugar from my diet and have more energy than ever before, I sleep through the night, and I dropped back to my high school weight.</li><li>And now, having tasted synthetic meat, I believe it will accelerate the development of human morality,</li><li>But we can affect this progression. Professor Michael Merzenich at UCSF has found that neural plasticity does not disappear in adults. It just requires mental exercise. Use it or lose it. Bottom line: Embrace lifelong learning. Do something new. Physical exercise is repetitive; mental exercise is eclectic.</li></ul><p><strong>Tony Hawk</strong></p><ul><li>My advice is to remain steadfast in your values and product direction, especially when working with other companies.</li><li>And if things blow up faster than you expected, keep control of your brand (or idea) no matter what.</li></ul><p><strong>Liv Boeree</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The Passion Trap: How to Right an Unbalanced Relationship by relationship therapist and psychologist Dean C. Delis.</li><li>Book: Map and Territory and How to Actually Change Your Mind by Eliezer Yudkowsky. These two books are hands - down the best insight into modern - day rational thinking I’ve ever read, written by (in my opinion) one of the greatest minds of our time.</li><li>Book/reading: Yudkowsky’s blog posts from the site <a href="http://LessWrong.com">LessWrong.com</a></li><li>Product: Blinkist — an app that condenses nonfiction books into 15 - minute reads.</li><li>What is one of the best or most worthwhile investments you’ve ever made?</li><li>Learning about modern - day rationality — I’ve found it’s added value in all domains of my life.</li><li>A consequentialist believes that the moral value of an action purely depends on its outcome — the act itself doesn’t carry moral weight, all that matters is whether its consequences are good or bad overall.</li><li>However, in this age of readily available scientific data, we are now able to evaluate consequences of actions more accurately than ever before, and therefore should be more open to re - evaluating many of the ideological rules of thumb we still live by.</li><li>What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?</li><li>In poker, the most common error people make is overestimating their ability to read people —</li><li>Physical tells are far less consistent and reliable than we’re taught to believe, and to truly excel at the game it’s far more important to have a solid understanding of the mathematical theory behind the game.</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do? What questions do you ask yourself?</li><li>It’s essential to identify the root cause of that lost focus — am I just having a bad day, or is the task itself something I simply hate doing?</li><li>If it’s the latter, it’s probably relevant to investigate why I’m feeling so unmotivated. Given that I know the upsides of getting it done, feeling so icky about it might mean there’s more going on than I’d fully considered. It then helps to list those reasons to see if I can find a new way of getting the task done, avoiding the crappy parts entirely.</li><li>If that’s not possible, I can now at least do a more effective cost - benefit analysis and decide whether to continue at all. If I decide the payoff is still worth it, then the motivation will be more likely to come back by itself.</li></ul><p><strong>Anníe Mist þórisdóttir</strong></p><ul><li>Product: The Five - Minute Journal gives focus to each day.</li></ul><p><strong>Mark Bell</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Crush It! by Gary Vaynerchuk:</li><li>Book: 5/3/1 by Jim Wendler: Getting stronger can be as simple or as complex as you want to make it.</li><li>“Either you’re in, or you’re in the way.”</li></ul><p><strong>Ed Coan</strong></p><ul><li>Make it so that you know 100 percent everything is doable. When you start that routine, imagine how positive your mental outlook is. It’s huge.</li><li>For instance, it’s usually my procrastination and fear that has stopped me from doing things. I tend to think of [things] as a big whole and get overwhelmed. If I break it down, put it down on paper, then look at it a half hour later, all of those smaller things don’t seem like a big deal.</li><li>I’ve also taken a nap every day since I was a kid. I still try not to miss it. Usually it’s 45 minutes to an hour and ideally around 3:30 or 4 p.m.</li></ul><p><strong>Ray Dalio</strong></p><ul><li>A pocket notepad to jot down good ideas when they come to me.</li><li>What advice would you give to a smart, driven college student about to enter the &quot;real world”?</li><li>Love looking at what you don’t know, your mistakes, and your weaknesses, because understanding them is essential for making the most of your life.</li></ul><p><strong>Jacqueline Novogratz</strong></p><ul><li>“Live the Questions,” which is a simple reminder to have the moral courage to live in the gray, sit with uncertainty but not in a passive way. Live the questions so that, one day, you will live yourself into the answers..</li></ul><p><strong>Brian Koppelman</strong></p><ul><li>Book: What I Talk About When I Talk About Running by Haruki Murakami</li><li>Book: The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron</li><li>The Artist’s Way contains the single best tool for becoming unblocked that I have ever come across [ which is morning pages ]. If you have the sense, deep inside you, that you are running away from your true purpose, this book will help you break through.</li></ul><p><strong>Sarah Elizabeth Lewis</strong></p><ul><li>The most impactful kind of failures are &quot;near wins” because of the propulsion we get from coming just shy of reaching a goal.</li></ul><p><strong>Steve Case</strong></p><ul><li>There are three things that have become conventional wisdom, especially in places like Silicon Valley, that worry me. First, the idea that naiveté is a competitive advantage.</li><li>This notion that ignorance is a strength is likely to lead to stumbles in a new era of innovation and disruption of major industries.</li><li>The second concern is the idea that it is better to do everything yourself — what some call a &quot;full - stack” solution. There will be examples of this working, but going it alone will not work as well when it’s not just about the app. Partners will likely be needed and, indeed, could be pivotal.</li><li>And the third piece of bad advice is that it’s best to ignore regulations and just plow ahead.</li></ul><p><strong>Tommy Vietor</strong></p><ul><li>The smartest investment I’ve ever made was forgoing jobs that paid well for positions that gave me invaluable experiences.</li><li>My broke ass slept on an air mattress for two years. It came with me to three different states (North Carolina, Illinois, Iowa), and every morning it would end up half - deflated and my butt would be touching the ground. I overdrew my bank account countless times (thanks for all those overdraft fees, Bank of America !), but the experience was worth more than any paycheck then or since.</li></ul><p><strong>Muna Abu Sulayman</strong></p><ul><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do?</li><li>I have learned that when I overcommit, I lose focus and desire to do the work at hand. So this is why learning to say no is very important to me. Sometimes, however, loss of focus is a symptom of something else, that you really don’t care for your work. This needs a lot of reflection and discussions with mentors to figure out whether you need a break, a vacation, or a change of career.</li></ul><p><strong>Sam Harris</strong></p><ul><li>Having a podcast has allowed me to connect with a wide range of fascinating people whom I wouldn’t otherwise meet — and our conversations reach a much larger audience than my books ever will.</li><li>Don’t worry about what you’re going to do with the rest of your life. Just find a profitable and interesting use for the next three to five years.</li></ul><p><strong>Maurice Ashley</strong></p><ul><li>Greatness is not a final destination, but a series of small acts done daily in order to constantly rejuvenate and refresh our skills in a daily effort to become a better version of ourselves.</li></ul><p><strong>John Arnold</strong></p><ul><li>Ignore advice, especially early in one’s career. There is no universal path to success.</li><li>But for those whose time is a scarce resource, learning to say no to meetings is a necessary skill. Sitting through an unproductive meeting has huge opportunity costs. It seems obvious, but people struggle with equilibrating time and money.</li><li>There are many organizations that fret over small, direct expenses, yet have no misgivings about keeping superfluous staff tied up in a conference room for hours.</li><li>“A schedule defends from chaos and whim. It is a net for catching days.” – Annie Dillard</li></ul><p><strong>Mr. Money Mustache</strong></p><ul><li>The most important one by far is realizing that the real measure of a good life is ”How happy and satisfied am I with my life right now?”</li><li>We all have our ups and downs, so your goal is simply to maximize your ”up” time and minimize those downs to as close to zero as possible. If you ask yourself this question at the end of a thoroughly great day, the answer is very often positive. After a horrible day (or a string of them), you’re more likely to say that life sucks. I came to realize that the key to a great life is simply having a bunch of great days. So you can think about it one day at a time.</li><li>And it turns out there are some pretty simple buttons you can press to give yourself a great day.</li><li>Start by waking up from a good sleep, eating good food, leaving your phone / newspaper / computer behind, and simply writing down your plan for what will make the day great.</li><li>Several hours of physical activity, some hard work, a chance to laugh with and help out other people — and you’re pretty much there.</li><li>Instead, rewind that story and think of it in terms of freedom: You are free for life once you have 25 to 30 times your annual spending locked up and working for you in low - fee index funds or other relatively boring investments.</li><li>If you save the standard 15 percent of your income, this freedom arrives roughly at age 65. If you can crank that up to 65 percent, you’re free just after your 30th birthday, and you often end up a lot happier in the process.</li><li>So the one - liner is: A high savings rate (or ”profit margin on life”) is by far the best strategy for a great and creative life, because it’s your ticket to freedom. Freedom is the fuel for creativity.</li></ul><p><strong>Nick Szabo</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Richard Dawkins, The Selfish Gene, explains more about life (including human behavior and myself) than anything else I’ve read.</li><li>Everybody is striving after social proof — from a close friend’s adulation to online likes and upvotes. The less you need positive feedback on your ideas, the more original design regions you can explore, and the more creative and, in the long term, useful to society you will be. But it could be a very long time before people will love you (or even pay you) for it.</li></ul><p><strong>Jon Call</strong></p><ul><li>You’ll get much better results performing a stretch for one minute with three minutes of rest, repeated three times, rather than doing the same stretch for three minutes all at once.</li></ul><p><strong>Darren Aronofsky</strong></p><ul><li>What advice would you give to a smart, driven college student about to enter the”real world”? Most of the game is about persistence. It is the most important trait. Sure, when you get an opportunity, you have to perform and you have to exceed beyond all expectations, but getting that chance is the hardest part. So keep the vision clear in your head and every day refuse all obstacles to get to the goal.</li><li>If you put ten people in a room and they have to choose an ice cream flavor, they’re gonna arrive at vanilla.</li><li>So resist temptations and advice to play to the middle. The best work always comes from pushing the edge.</li></ul><p><strong>Evan Williams</strong></p><ul><li>Be in a hurry to learn, not in a hurry to get validation. In a team environment, you will make a much better impression if it seems like you’re not at all worried about yourself. It’s okay to actually be worried about yourself — everyone is — just don’t seem like it. If you resist asking for too much, you will often get more.</li></ul><p><strong>Bram Cohen</strong></p><ul><li>“Avoid sugar. Especially soda and juice. All other diet advice is noise.”</li><li>One life lesson I’ve grudgingly come to accept is that it’s important not to work with crazy people.</li><li>If someone believes that all taxation is theft, or that a strictly vegan diet is healthier, they’re demonstrating such a serious lack of judgment that you should be very leery of trusting them to make major decisions.</li><li>In an interview situation, the thing you can look out for is flagrant narcissism. If a candidate tells you that you don’t need the position they’re interviewing for but a higher one, and you should hire them for that, or says that if you don’t hire them then you’re screwed, or harangues you about the business as if they’re an investor doing due diligence, then they’re playing obnoxious political games before they’ve even set foot in the door, and you should give them an immediate no.</li><li>Pick your early jobs based on what gets you the most valuable experience. If you want to be an entrepreneur, don’t dive directly into doing your venture but go get work at an early - stage startup to learn the ropes and get paid to make your early mistakes.</li><li>Only after getting the necessary experience and knowledge should you strike out on your own. This is what I did, and although the startups I worked at were mostly failures, I don’t think I could have succeeded at my own thing without that experience.</li></ul><p><strong>Chris Anderson</strong></p><ul><li>Many of us have bought into the cliché &quot;pursue your passion.” For many, that is terrible advice. In your 20s, you may not really know what your best skills and opportunities are. It’s much better to pursue learning, personal discipline, growth. And to seek out connections with people across the planet. For a while, it’s just fine to follow and support someone else’s dream. In so doing, you will be building valuable relationships, valuable knowledge. And at some point your passion will come and whisper in your ear, ”I’m ready.”</li></ul><p><strong>Neil Gaiman</strong></p><ul><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do? What questions do you ask yourself?</li><li>Have I had enough sleep? Have I eaten? Would it be a good idea to go for a short walk?</li><li>And once those have been answered, or fixed, if there’s an actual situation that’s overwhelming:</li><li>Is there anything I can do to fix this? Is there anyone who actually has information or advice about this I can call and talk to?</li><li>If it’s not actually a situation, just me being sad and moody and unfocused: How long has it been since I actually wrote something? Stop doing whatever else I am doing because it isn’t actually work, and go and write something.</li><li>Book: the Paco books, from France [by Magali Le Huche]: Paco and the Orchestra, Paco and Jazz, Paco and Rock, Paco and Vivaldi, Paco and Mozart.... When you press down on an indicated spot in the books, a sound effect or music plays.</li></ul><p><strong>Michael Gervais</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Mind Gym by Gary Mack is a book that strips down the esoteric nature of applied sport psychology.</li></ul><p><strong>Kelly Slater</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The Tao of Health, Sex, and Longevity by Daniel Reid.</li></ul><p><strong>Katrín Tanja Davíðsdóttir</strong></p><ul><li>What is a favorite exercise (or a valuable one) that most CrossFitters or athletes neglect?</li><li>If you are asking about an exercise, I would say it is basic ”fitness.”It is hanging out around your lactic threshold for an extended period of time — it’s hard. But that’s where the magic happens. It’s not going guns blazing through a workout and it’s not ”talking pace.” It’s hanging out right where you might start dropping off soon but you can hold on.</li></ul><p><strong>Mathew Fraser</strong></p><ul><li>If you want to get better in the sport, you need to work on your specific weaknesses, not those of someone who is successful.</li></ul><p><strong>Adam Fisher</strong></p><ul><li>Be humble and self - aware. Ignore the concept of ”being yourself.” Of course this is literally true by definition, but it is a way to avoid self - improvement. Pursuing your passion is fine.</li><li>I strongly believe world - class performers need coaching. I suppose mentors function in this role for many, but coaches, in my opinion, are different. [Coaches] focus on you first. Mentors rightly focus on themselves first and you second. Lastly, a good coach builds regimens designed to make you better, [versus simply] providing advice, as a mentor would.</li><li>For me, it has been calendar architecture. I am a lion about it and expect everyone around me to respect it and help me with it. &quot;Calendar architecture” is designing and implementing a repeatable schedule every day. As an introvert, this requires a lot of alone time, and everyone around me protects this in my day. It is also designed to keep my day from being filled up with”gristle.”</li></ul><p><strong>Aisha Tyler</strong></p><ul><li>I love that Jack Canfield quote, ”Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” If something terrifies me, I typically sprint flat - out toward it, and that has served me well, both professionally and personally.</li><li>My rowing workout varies. I was a competitive runner for many years, so my workout plans mirror a typical running weekly schedule: mid - distance 5K rows punctuated by short - distance 2K HIIT sprints, with a 10K long - distance row once or twice a week.</li><li>Nothing I like better than a perfectly organized space. It gives me an illogical amount of joy,</li><li>So I apply the Marie Kondo method: ”Discard [say no to] everything that does not spark joy.” This includes personal obligations. I’m working on it.</li></ul><p><strong>Laura R. Walker</strong></p><ul><li>Book: For New York City geeks — and I know a lot of them — I gave Nonstop Metropolis by Rebecca Solnit.</li><li>Book: For a great novel that I have read three times, Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy.</li><li>I often use the pen with a &quot;smart” notebook (like the Rocketbook Everlast smart notebook) that can be reused.</li></ul><p><strong>Terry Laughlin</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Mastery by George Leonard.</li><li>A brief summary: Life is not designed to hand us success or satisfaction, but rather to present us with challenges that make us grow. Mastery is the mysterious process by which those challenges become progressively easier and more satisfying through practice. The key to that satisfaction is to reach the nirvana in which love of practice for its own sake (intrinsic) replaces the original goal (extrinsic) as our grail. The antithesis of mastery is the pursuit of quick fixes.</li><li>My five steps to mastery:</li><li>Choose a worthy and meaningful challenge.</li><li>Seek a sensei or master teacher (like George Leonard) to help you establish the right path and priorities.</li><li>Practice diligently, always striving to hone key skills and to progress incrementally toward new levels of competence.</li><li>Love the plateau. All worthwhile progress occurs through brief, thrilling leaps forward followed by long stretches during which you feel you’re going nowhere. Though it seems as if we’re making no progress, we are turning new behaviors into habits. Learning continues at the cellular level... if you follow good practice principles.</li><li>Mastery is a journey, not a destination. True masters never believe they have attained mastery. There is always more to be learned and greater skill to be developed.</li><li>I read an op - ed in The New York Times that described a study of 10,000 West Point cadets who were followed for up to 14 years. They were asked as first - year cadets to describe their career goals. Those who cited goals intrinsic to being an outstanding officer — developing excellence as a leader and communicator, earning the respect of the troops under their command — went on at much higher rates to earn commissions as officers, extend their service beyond the five - year minimum, gain early promotion to higher ranks, and report a high degree of satisfaction with their Army service.</li><li>The same will apply in any field of endeavor. If your highest goal is incremental, patient, continual learning and development in critical skills and core competencies — and you allow recognition, promotions, and financial rewards to be a natural result of the excellence you attain at core competencies — you will be far more likely to experience success and satisfaction, and perhaps even attain eminence, in your field.</li></ul><p><strong>Marc Benioff</strong></p><ul><li>Book: One of the most powerful books in business I ever read was Managing, by the former head of ITT, Harold Geneen.</li></ul><p><strong>Marie Forleo</strong></p><ul><li>Learning and using a relationship communication tool called the Imago Dialogue, created by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt. It’s a structured way to talk with your spouse or significant other, especially when you’re fighting.</li><li>[My advice:] Pursue every project, idea, or industry that genuinely lights you up, regardless of how unrelated each idea is, or how unrealistic a long - term career in that field might now seem. You’ll connect the dots later. Work your fucking ass off and develop a reputation for going above and beyond in all situations. Do whatever it takes to earn enough money, so that you can go all in on experiences or learning opportunities that put you in close proximity to people you admire, because proximity is power. Show up in every moment like you’re meant to be there, because your energy precedes anything you could possibly say.</li><li>Ignore the advice to specialize in one thing, unless you’re certain that’s how you want to roll. Ignore giving a shit about what other people think about your career choices or what you do for a living — especially if what you do for a living funds your career choices. Ignore the impulse to dial down your enthusiasm for fear it’ll be perceived as unprofessional. And especially for women, ignore societal and familial pressures to get married and have kids.</li><li>When it comes to building an online audience, a big mistake people make is trying to be everywhere at once.</li><li>Trying to crush it on every platform, especially if you’re a one - person show, is not a wise or sustainable use of your time, talent, or energy. Even if you have a team, I still recommend choosing one platform to focus on at first. Before committing to another content channel or social platform, ask yourself, why exactly do you want to be on this platform?</li></ul><p><strong>Drew Houston</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Poor Charlie’s Almanack is a good start. It describes how to make good decisions in any situation with a relatively limited mental toolkit: the big, enduring ideas of the fundamental academic disciplines. Virtually everyone is exposed to these concepts by high school, but few people truly master them or apply them in everyday life. In my experience, it’s this kind of essential, first - principles thinking that enables the unusual level of insight and conviction that sets the great founders apart from the merely good ones.</li><li>I’ve found the Enneagram to be incredibly helpful. At first glance it’s a personality typing tool like Myers - Briggs. There are nine Enneagram ”types” and every person has one dominant type. But I’ve found it to be much more useful and predictive of how people actually behave. At first I was skeptical, but after reading the description for my type I found it spookily accurate in pinpointing what makes me tick: what motivates me, what my natural strengths are, what my blind spots tend to be, and so on. It’s helped me tailor my role and leadership style to my strengths.</li><li>The most successful people I know are all obsessed with solving a problem that really matters to them.</li><li>The circle refers to the idea that you’re the average of your five closest friends. Make sure to put yourself in an environment that pulls the best out of you.</li><li>When I was 24, I came across a website that says most people live for about 30,000 days — and I was shocked to find that I was already 8,000 days down. So you have to make every day count.</li><li>A couple more tips: Schedule specific blocks of time in advance for your rocks so you don’t have to think about them. Don’t rely on wishful thinking (e.g.,”I’ll get that workout in when I have some downtime”); if you can’t see your rocks on your calendar, they might as well not exist. This is doubly important for things like sleep and exercise. If you don’t put those in first, no one will.</li><li>As far as actually saying no, I’ve learned you don’t owe anyone lengthy explanations, and you don’t have to respond to every email (particularly anything unsolicited). Brief, one - line responses like &quot;I can’t make it but thank you for the invitation” or &quot;Thanks for thinking of me — unfortunately my hands are full with [my company] so I can’t meet right now” are more than adequate.</li></ul><p><strong>Scott Belsky</strong></p><ul><li>More often than not, great opportunities look unattractive on the surface. What makes an opportunity great is upside.</li><li>I am always surprised by how lazy people are when making serious decisions about their careers.</li><li>Join a team not for what it is, but for what you think you can help it become. Be a “founder” in the sense that you’re willing to make something rather than just join something.</li><li>The only way to cultivate your own luck is to be more flexible (you’ll need to give up something for the right opportunity), humble (timing is out of your control), and gracious (when you see it, seize it !). Life’s greatest opportunities run on their own schedule, not yours.</li><li>My playlist reserved for writing / deep work periods includes:</li><li>&quot;Everyday” by Carly Comando</li><li>&quot;The Aviators” by Helen Jane Long</li><li>&quot;Divenire” by Ludovico Einaudi</li><li>&quot;Mad World” by Michael Andrews and Gary Jules</li><li>&quot;Festival” by Sigur Rós</li><li>Number one: Every step in your early career must get you incrementally closer to whatever genuinely interests you. The most promising path to success is pursuing genuine interests and setting yourself up for the circumstantial relationships, collaborations, and experiences that will make all the difference in your life. A labor of love always pays off, just not how and when you expect. Set yourself up to succeed by taking new jobs and roles that get you closer to your interests.</li><li>Number two: The greatest lessons you learn in the beginning of a career are about people — how to work with people, be managed by people, manage expectations with people, and lead other people. As such, the team you choose to join, and your boss, are huge factors in the value of a professional experience early in your career. Choose opportunities based on the quality of people you will get to work with.</li><li>The boldest transformations, are led by outsiders.</li><li>Perhaps the playbook to change an industry is to be naive enough at the start to question basic assumptions and then stay alive long enough to employ skills that are unique and advantageous in the space you seek to change. Perhaps naive excitement and pragmatic expertise are equally important traits at different times.</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do?</li><li>I whisper to myself, ”Scott, do your fucking job.” With all the drama around us and inside of us, it is too easy to get distracted or overthink a situation. It is too easy to rationalize why you’re too busy, or why you should wait to do something that just needs to get done. I opt for the no - bullshit approach. When I need to do something mundane, or when I need to do something especially difficult like deliver bad news or fire an employee, I just tell myself to stop screwing around and”do your fucking job.”I find that self - directive hard to argue with.</li></ul><p><strong>Tim McGraw</strong></p><ul><li>One of the questions I’m asked a lot is”What’s the single thing that most prevents success?” And to me, the answer is always focus [ or lack of focus ]. I believe focus is the key to everything.</li><li>First, I would do something called the ”bar complex.” It’s 12 barbell exercises done in a sequence. I do five rounds of the 12 exercises, starting with just the bar (45 pounds) and ten reps of each exercise. Each time I finish the circuit, I add five pounds to the bar and do two reps fewer than the round before it, so it looks like this:</li><li>10 reps x barbell (for each of the 12 exercises; same for the below)</li><li>8 reps x barbell + 5 lbs</li><li>6 reps x barbell + 10 lbs</li><li>4 reps x barbell + 15 lbs and (at heaviest)</li><li>2 reps x barbell + 20 lbs</li><li>Then I reverse the whole process and come back down over five rounds, removing five pounds and adding two reps each round, finishing where I started: barbell x ten reps for each of the 12 exercises.</li><li>The second workout I would do is a pool workout that my trainer, Roger, taught me, which is a series of different, repetitive martial arts – based movements done in the water.</li></ul><p><strong>Muneeb Ali</strong></p><ul><li>In the last five years, what new belief, behavior, or habit has most improved your life?</li><li>Asking myself the question, ”When I’m old, how much would I be willing to pay to travel back in time and relive the moment that I’m experiencing right now?” If that moment is something like rocking my six - month - old daughter to sleep while she hugs me, then the answer is anything: I’d literally pay all the money I’d have in the bank at, say, age 70 to get a chance to relive that moment. This simple question just puts things in perspective and makes you grateful for the experience you’re having right now versus being lost in thoughts about the past or the future.</li><li>For me, the realization was that I can add more value by going deep on a few things rather than engaging with a broad set of activities. I’m a startup founder, and there is always something or other to do. Here are some approaches that have helped:</li><li>I started saying no to all external meeting requests as a rule of thumb. External meetings should be initiated by me (doesn’t happen that often) and not initiated by others.</li><li>Saying no to all involvements outside of my startup, such as being an advisor to some other startup or project, investing in or trading some cryptocurrency where I have domain expertise, etc. There is only one job / role that I can think about. No exceptions. L</li><li>etting other people on my team deal with external invitations, calls, meetings, events, etc. Build strong connections with your team and stay updated on things through them. In other words, the team members are a filter for all the invitations and distractions. Important stuff has a way of bubbling up and you won’t miss out.</li></ul><p><strong>Steven Pinker</strong></p><ul><li>Find a new topic or area or concern that has a small number of people you respect behind it, but which has not become a culture - wide fad or conventional wisdom. If it’s already common knowledge, it’s probably too late to make a major contribution.</li><li>If you’re the only one excited, you may be deluding yourself.</li><li>Ignore advice to simply follow your intuition or gut without thinking through whether the course of action is likely to be fruitful and rewarding.</li><li>Focus on effectiveness — what your actions will actually accomplish — and not self - actualization or other ways of trying to feel good about yourself.</li><li>Don’t think that the arts and verbal professions are the only respectable occupations (a common mindset of grandchildren of workers). The elites sneer at commerce as tawdry, but it’s what gives people what they want and need, and pays for everything else, including the luxury of art.</li><li>Think about what you will add to the world. Some lucrative professions (e.g., ultra - high - tech finance) are dubious applications of human brainpower.</li><li>Book: 36 Arguments for the Existence of God: A Work of Fiction by Rebecca Newberger Goldstein</li></ul><p><strong>Whitney Cummings</strong></p><ul><li>[One model that Whitney likes is the large weighted blanket from Weighted Blankets Plus LLC.]</li><li>Most likely, the problem won’t be around in a year, but my reputation of how I dealt with it will. As long as I can handle a situation with grace, I usually come out having won and don’t waste valuable time and energy feeling guilty or replaying it in my head.</li><li>It’s built up the muscle that focuses on what’s going well and how fortunate I am, which helps me be more productive, creative, and focused.</li><li>My advice would be to figure out some kind of charitable element to whatever endeavor you undertake, whether it’s a benevolent motive or a literal profit donation à la Blake Mycoskie.</li><li>Instead of striving to be a CEO or an entrepreneur, strive to be a hero. We need more of those.</li><li>What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?</li><li>”Network.” In creative fields, I think networking actually hurts you in most cases. Don’t waste your time socializing with people who you think can help you. Just get better, and opportunities will naturally present themselves once you deserve them. Only focus on things within your control. And if you don’t know what those things are, find someone who can tell you. Don’t network, just work.</li><li>Product: I use the Freedom app to cut down on social media time.</li></ul><p><strong>Rick Rubin</strong></p><ul><li>Book: The book I’ve gifted most is Stephen Mitchell’s translation of the Tao Te Ching: ancient Taoist wisdom applicable to anything.</li><li>Book: Another one is Jon Kabat - Zinn’s Wherever You Go, There You Are. It’s a wonderful book from 1994.</li><li>Product: Another item, probably a little more than $100, is the HumanCharger. The HumanCharger shoots light in your ears to help alleviate jet lag (other devices shine bright lights into your eyes, which can be uncomfortable and damaging to the eyes).</li><li>What advice would you give to a smart, driven college student about to enter the ”real world”? What advice should they ignore?</li><li>I would ignore most anything you learn in school and ignore all accepted standards. Free yourself to try anything. The best ideas are revolutionary.</li><li>If you’re searching for wisdom, try to find it from people who’ve done it more than from people who teach it. Ask a lot of questions.</li><li>In addition, focus on something you love, because you have a far greater chance of succeeding by doing something you love, and regardless of whether you succeed or not, your life will be better. So you can’t really lose by dedicating yourself to what you love.</li><li>Also, work tirelessly. I feel very lucky and blessed in my life, and I know this is because I totally submerged myself in what I was doing. I spent my every waking hour, every day, enjoying it when I was doing it and truly living it. In a sense, it wasn’t a job because it was my whole life. In retrospect, I probably missed a lot of life because of it, but that’s the give and take. As I think about it, that might be what it takes to start something, but not necessarily to sustain it. So when you start something new, it’s okay to do it in an unsustainable way. Once you achieve it, then you can devote your time to figuring out how to sustain it. They’re two different playbooks.</li></ul><p><strong>Ryan Shea</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Sapiens by Yuval Noah Harari</li><li>Book: The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson</li><li>Book: The Sovereign Individual by James Dale Davidson and Lord William Rees - Mogg</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do? I lift hard, go for a run, get a massage, read a book, or watch a movie. My workouts typically have three phases:</li><li>First, I will do three or four sets of either bench press, squats, or deadlifts. For each set, I aim for six to ten reps ranging from 70 to 85 percent of my one - rep max.</li><li>Then, I’ll do three or four supersets of either</li><li>(a) 15 to 20 reps of pull - ups and dips,</li><li>(b) ten reps of bicep curls and tricep extensions, or</li><li>(c) ten reps of shoulder presses, lateral raises, and front raises.</li><li>Last, I’ll do my core workout, which includes either</li><li>(a) four sets of one - minute planks alternated with four sets of sit - ups, leg raises, suitcases, and bicycles or</li><li>(b) one set each of sit - ups, planks, side planks, and ball knee tucks followed by three sets of side bends.</li><li>What is one of the best or most worthwhile investments you’ve ever made? In 2016, I started doing New Month Resolutions [as opposed to New Year Resolutions]. Here’s some of what I did:</li><li>July: Daily reading</li><li>August: No TV or movies</li><li>September: No dairy</li><li>October: No gluten</li><li>November: Daily meditation</li><li>December: No news or social media feeds</li><li>As you can see, a few of the months were elimination months and a few were daily behavior months.</li><li>So far, my favorite experiments have been no news or social media feeds, workouts every day, no TV or movies, reading every day, and waking up at 7:30 every morning.</li></ul><p><strong>Ben Silbermann</strong></p><ul><li>That’s been a good grounding force when doing projects, because a lot of things go wrong here and there, but if you just assume that anything worthwhile is going to take five to ten years, they don’t feel as severe.</li><li>Product: But I do want to get that culty Japanese journal that all the designers use, a Hobonichi Techo.</li><li>Absurdism provides a clear philosophy of failure: either the intention was absurd, the strategy was not reasonable, or it was reasonable but was not executed correctly.</li><li>It’s often hard to tell whether I’m trying to do the impossible, or whether there are reasonable behaviors that I haven’t yet thought of trying, or if I’m trying the right behavior but without enough skill.</li><li>If I become confident that my intention is absurd, then I give up. Deliberately, if I have to. If I think it’s not absurd, I’ll continue trying strategies I think might be reasonable, and I will practice the strategies I highly suspect are reasonable, if I really care about bearing out my intention.</li><li>Absurdism is not just a tool for helping people be reasonable. It is also a critique of rationalism. It says that there are contexts where having intentions is absurd. That sometimes rationality is absurd, and should therefore be abandoned. In these contexts, it doesn’t make sense to decide what to do or how to spend your time, if by that you mean &quot;pick a goal that you want to achieve.&quot;</li><li>I nap a lot. I try not to eat carbohydrates. I try to take three to four hours to myself every day. It’s not always possible. I try to work offline. I meditate sometimes.</li></ul><p><strong>Peter Attia</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me) by Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson</li><li>Book: Surely You’re Joking, Mr. Feynman ! by Richard P. Feynman</li><li>What advice would you give to a smart, driven college student about to enter the ”real world”? What advice should they ignore?</li><li>My advice: Be as genuine as you can. Don’t fake it. In my view, better to be a cold stiff than fake that you care. If you are genuinely interested in a subset of other people, even if that number is small, you will foster relationships that really matter. As we age, I believe, frivolous relationships in business and our personal life become less and less bearable, so only put energy into completely genuine interactions with other people.</li><li>A second piece of advice would be to seek out mentors constantly and without shame (and mentor others). This requires adhering to the above point, of course, but it highlights a vulnerability and asymmetry.</li><li>Always be a student and always be a teacher.</li><li>As for advice to ignore: Too often, I hear people effectively given advice that is consistent with sunk cost fallacies. I certainly heard it a lot. ”You’ve spent X years learning Y, you can’t just up and leave and now do Z,” they say. I think this is flawed advice because it weighs too heavily the time behind you, which can’t be changed, and largely discounts the time in front of you, which is completely malleable.</li></ul><p><strong>Steve Aoki</strong></p><ul><li>Product: The iMask Sleep Eye Mask</li><li>Book: The Singularity Is Near by Ray Kurzweil.</li></ul><p><strong>Jim Loehr</strong></p><ul><li>Ralph Waldo Emerson: ”To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children... to leave the world a bit better... to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived; this is to have succeeded.”</li><li>The practice of daily journaling has been a remarkable tool in helping me navigate the storms of life and be my best self through it all. The daily ritual of self - reflected writing has produced priceless personal insights in my life. For me, daily writing heightens my personal awareness in a nearly magical way.</li><li>An important insight gained over several years was that anything that was quantified and tracked on a regular basis would invariably show improvement (sleep times, liquid intake, stretching frequency, nutritional habits, etc.).</li><li>Protection from stress serves only to erode my capacity [to handle it]. Stress exposure is the stimulus for all growth</li></ul><p><strong>Jocko Willink</strong></p><ul><li>As a leader, there is no one else to blame. Don’t make excuses. If I don’t take ownership of problems, I can’t solve them. That’s what a leader has to do: take ownership of the problems, the mistakes, and the shortfalls, and take ownership of creating and implementing solutions to get those problems solved.</li><li>Work harder than everyone else.</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do? Prioritize and execute.</li><li>When things are going wrong, when multiple problems are occurring all at once, when things get overwhelming, you have to prioritize and execute.</li><li>Take a step back. Detach from the mayhem. Look at the situation and assess the multitude of problems, tasks, or issues. Choose the one that is going to have the biggest impact and execute on that.</li></ul><p><strong>Kristen Ulmer</strong></p><ul><li>What I should have done instead was realize that fear is not a sign of personal weakness, but rather a natural state of discomfort that occurs whenever you’re out of your comfort zone. It’s there not to sabotage you, but to help you come alive, be more focused, and put you into the present moment and a heightened state of excitement and awareness. If you push the fear away, the only version of fear available to you will be its crazy, irrational, or contorted version. If you’re willing to feel it, and merge with it, its energy and wisdom will appear.</li><li>Which is why you shouldn’t wait for crisis to happen before you take steps to go beyond what you’re capable of seeing on your own. Go to marriage counseling when your marriage is going great. What then becomes possible? Hire a fitness coach when you’re already in the best shape of your life. Bring in a marketing expert when your marketing department is already kicking ass. And watch next - level magic happen.</li><li>Book: My two favorite books are: The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson.</li><li>Friendships are supposed to support your growth, not hold you back. End the ones that hold you back, and be curious about what kind of people you’re drawn to next. I find whomever you’re attracted to today possesses whatever qualities in yourself you’re ready to nurture.</li><li>[Note from Tim: I asked Kristen how she broke up with her friends, exactly, and she sent a detailed four - page blueprint. Find it for free at tim.blog/kristen]</li><li>When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do?</li><li>I honor those states by walking away from work and instead doing what seems like &quot;nothing,” which is of course something (take a walk, stretch my body, watch a movie). I do these things for as long as it takes, whether a few hours or even a few days, until my motivation comes back.</li><li>Honor your moods not by forcing a different reality, but by just letting them be.</li><li>Because my belief is that your relationship with fear is the most important relationship in your life, I now spend at least two minutes a day engaged in what I call a fear practice.</li><li>Especially first thing in the morning before I get out of bed, I do a body scan to assess my mood. I’m particularly interested in how much I feel fear (it’s always there, whether we’re willing to admit it or not), and where in my body it’s located.</li><li>Fear is a sense of discomfort in our bodies. It may show up in obvious ways as fear, stress, or anxiety (which are all pretty much the same thing), or maybe it will feel more like anger or sadness (which can be tied to fear, if fear is in the basement). If it seems like it’s in our minds, that’s because we’re not dealing with it emotionally but rather intellectually, which is never a good idea. I locate the feeling in my body — sometimes it’s in my jaw or shoulders, sometimes my forehead. Then I have a one - to two - minute, three - step process:</li></ul><ol><li>I spend about 15 to 30 seconds affirming that it’s natural to feel this discomfort. I may have a big talk coming up or a deadline. You are supposed to be scared when you’re doing big things — okay? Acknowledging this can be life - changing.</li><li>I spend the next 15 to 30 seconds being curious about what my current relationship is with that discomfort. If the anxiety seems out of proportion to the situation, or if it seems irrational in any way, that means I’ve been ignoring fear and thus it’s starting to speak louder or act out. If this is the case, I give it my full attention then, and ask what it’s been trying to say to me that I haven’t acknowledged (e.g., ”Write a new speech; the one you have sucks.” Or, ”You forgot to call your mother”). Being such a great advisor, I use this time with fear to juice its knowledge like you would juice an orange.</li><li>Then, I spend as long as it takes to feel it. Now, this is important: I don’t try to get rid of it. That is not what this is about, because that would be disrespectful to fear. The key is to feel the feeling by spending some time with it, like you would with your dog, friend, or lover. I usually do this for about 30 to 60 seconds. After which, fear, feeling acknowledged and heard, often dissipates.</li></ol><p><strong>Yuval Noah Harari</strong></p><ul><li>Book: Aldous Huxley’s Brave New World.</li><li>So what should you focus on? My best advice is to focus on personal resilience and emotional intelligence.</li><li>Traditionally, life has been divided into two main parts: a period of learning followed by a period of working.</li><li>In the first part of life you built a stable identity and acquired personal and professional skills; in the second part of life you relied on your identity and skills to navigate the world, earn a living, and contribute to society.</li><li>By 2040, this traditional model will become obsolete, and the only way for humans to stay in the game will be to keep learning throughout their lives and to reinvent themselves again and again.</li><li>So you have no choice but to really get to know yourself better. Know who you are and what you really want from life. This is, of course, the oldest advice in the book: know thyself. But this advice has never been more urgent than in the 21st century.</li></ul><h5><strong>Some Closing Thoughts</strong></h5><ul><li>“Don’t aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued.... Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long - run — in the long - run, I say ! — success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it.”— Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning</li><li>Book: I read a book called Mental Toughness Training for Sports by Dr. Jim Loehr.</li></ul><p><strong>THE DANGER OF BIG QUESTIONS </strong></p><ul><li>Most of the time, ”What should I do with my life?” is a terrible question. ”What should I do with this tennis serve?” “What should I do with this line at Starbucks?” “What should I do with this traffic jam?” “How should I respond to the anger I feel welling up in my chest?” These are better questions.</li><li>Excellence is the next five minutes, improvement is the next five minutes, happiness is the next five minutes.</li><li>This doesn’t mean you ignore planning. I encourage you to make huge, ambitious plans. Just remember that the big - beyond - belief things are accomplished when you deconstruct them into the smallest possible pieces and focus on each ”moment of impact,” one step at a time.</li><li>I’ve had a life full of doubts... mostly for no good reason.</li><li>Broadly speaking, as good as it feels to have a plan, it’s even more freeing to realize that nearly no misstep can destroy you.</li></ul><p><strong>THE POWER BROKER</strong></p><ul><li>To paraphrase Jim: The power broker in your life is the voice that no one ever hears. How well you revisit the tone and content of your private voice is what determines the quality of your life. It is the master storyteller, and the stories we tell ourselves are our reality.</li><li>“LOVE THE PAIN” isn’t about self - flagellation. It’s a simple reminder that nearly all growth requires discomfort. Sometimes the discomfort is mild, like an uphill bike ride or swallowing your ego to listen more attentively. Other times, it’s far more painful, like lactic - threshold training or the emotional equivalent of having a bone reset. None of these stressors are lethal, and it’s the rare person who pursues them. The benefits or lack thereof depend on how you talk to yourself. Hence, &quot;LOVE THE PAIN.”</li><li>Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. Say you’re running and you think, &quot;Man, this hurts, I can’t take it anymore.” The &quot;hurt” part is an unavoidable reality, but whether or not you can stand anymore is up to the runner himself.</li><li>If you want to have more, do more, and be more, it all begins with the voice that no one else hears.</li></ul><p><strong>FORKING PATHS UPON FORKING PATHS</strong></p><ul><li>Based on everything I’ve seen, a simple recipe can work: focus on what’s in front of you, design great days to create a great life, and try not to make the same mistake twice. That’s it. Stop hitting net balls and try something else, perhaps even the opposite. If you really want extra credit, try not to be a dick, and you’ll be a Voltron - level superstar.</li><li>The secret to winning any game lies in not trying too hard.</li><li>Feeling as though you are trying too hard indicates that your priorities, technique, focus, or mindfulness is off. Take it as a cue to reset, not to double down. And take comfort in the fact that, whenever in doubt, the answer is probably hidden in plain sight.</li><li>What would this look like if it were easy?</li><li>In a world where nobody really knows anything, you have the incredible freedom to continually reinvent yourself and forge new paths, no matter how strange. Embrace your weird self.</li><li>There is no one right answer... only better questions.</li><li>Take it easy, ya azizi,</li><li>Tim</li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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